1 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:09,000 [music] 2 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:11,328 SINGER: 3 00:00:11,368 --> 00:00:12,980 ♪ Can't nobody hold me down ♪ 4 00:00:13,020 --> 00:00:14,334 ♪ I'm steady walking 5 00:00:14,374 --> 00:00:15,980 like I got three commas ♪ 6 00:00:16,020 --> 00:00:16,980 ♪ In my bank account ♪ 7 00:00:17,020 --> 00:00:18,102 ♪ Living loud, 8 00:00:18,142 --> 00:00:19,980 so get your cameras out ♪ 9 00:00:20,020 --> 00:00:21,666 ♪ I'd probably do the same 10 00:00:21,706 --> 00:00:22,980 thing if I was you ♪ 11 00:00:23,020 --> 00:00:24,980 ♪ Looking at me now, now ♪ 12 00:00:25,020 --> 00:00:26,980 ♪ Oh, oh ♪ 13 00:00:27,020 --> 00:00:29,980 ♪ Hmm, put up your lights ♪ 14 00:00:30,020 --> 00:00:33,000 ♪ And keep 'em flashin' ♪ 15 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:35,980 ♪ Don't ever put 'em down, 16 00:00:36,020 --> 00:00:36,980 down, down ♪ 17 00:00:37,020 --> 00:00:38,980 ♪ Look at me now ♪ 18 00:00:39,020 --> 00:00:40,112 SINGER: 19 00:00:40,152 --> 00:00:43,980 ♪ Oh hey, hey, hey ♪ 20 00:00:44,020 --> 00:00:45,980 ♪ Ready, set, let's go ♪ 21 00:00:46,020 --> 00:00:48,980 ♪ It's gonna be a show ♪ 22 00:00:49,020 --> 00:00:49,985 ♪ Don't act like 23 00:00:50,025 --> 00:00:50,980 you don't know ♪ 24 00:00:51,020 --> 00:00:52,223 WASHINGTON HO: Look at this one. 25 00:00:52,263 --> 00:00:52,980 Looks like me, like, 26 00:00:53,020 --> 00:00:54,980 "Honey, catch me, please." 27 00:00:55,020 --> 00:00:55,383 JUDY HO: Washington, 28 00:00:55,423 --> 00:00:55,980 what do you think of this one? 29 00:00:56,020 --> 00:00:56,596 WASHINGTON: 30 00:00:56,636 --> 00:00:58,136 Do I like that guy? Look. 31 00:00:59,000 --> 00:00:59,980 JUDY: We need a wind machine. 32 00:01:00,020 --> 00:01:00,980 Holding back my shirt, yeah. 33 00:01:01,020 --> 00:01:02,137 Let me do the woman version 34 00:01:02,177 --> 00:01:02,980 for you, Washington. 35 00:01:03,020 --> 00:01:03,980 How about that? 36 00:01:04,020 --> 00:01:04,652 I'll take a picture? 37 00:01:04,692 --> 00:01:04,980 Okay, now. 38 00:01:05,020 --> 00:01:06,062 JUDY: This is what brothers 39 00:01:06,102 --> 00:01:06,980 and sisters do, Lesley. 40 00:01:07,020 --> 00:01:07,732 I didn't do this 41 00:01:07,772 --> 00:01:08,980 with my brother and sister. 42 00:01:09,020 --> 00:01:09,765 - JUDY: Oh really? 43 00:01:09,805 --> 00:01:10,980 - The left leg has to go up. 44 00:01:11,020 --> 00:01:12,341 - Stop touching my leg. 45 00:01:12,381 --> 00:01:13,980 - Here, put the left leg up. 46 00:01:14,020 --> 00:01:15,980 One, two. 47 00:01:16,020 --> 00:01:16,980 [camera clicks] 48 00:01:17,020 --> 00:01:17,305 I decided 49 00:01:17,345 --> 00:01:17,980 to be sober forever 50 00:01:18,020 --> 00:01:19,072 because I'm feeling 51 00:01:19,112 --> 00:01:19,980 great right now. 52 00:01:20,020 --> 00:01:20,894 And I try to do 53 00:01:20,934 --> 00:01:21,980 better day by day. 54 00:01:22,020 --> 00:01:23,980 But is this sustainable? 55 00:01:24,020 --> 00:01:24,980 That's my concern. 56 00:01:25,020 --> 00:01:25,647 Most people 57 00:01:25,687 --> 00:01:26,980 can't recover from it. 58 00:01:27,020 --> 00:01:28,324 I feel like we're 59 00:01:28,364 --> 00:01:29,980 in high school again. 60 00:01:30,020 --> 00:01:30,256 - Wow. 61 00:01:30,296 --> 00:01:30,980 - Double dating? 62 00:01:31,020 --> 00:01:32,097 I never went on a double date 63 00:01:32,137 --> 00:01:32,980 with you after college. 64 00:01:33,020 --> 00:01:34,157 You were too scared to bring 65 00:01:34,197 --> 00:01:34,980 your boyfriend then. 66 00:01:35,020 --> 00:01:35,600 I was afraid 67 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:36,980 that you'd rub off on them. 68 00:01:37,020 --> 00:01:37,769 Do you remember 69 00:01:37,809 --> 00:01:38,980 what happened with Con? 70 00:01:39,020 --> 00:01:39,902 That was the guy 71 00:01:39,942 --> 00:01:40,980 I dated in college. 72 00:01:41,020 --> 00:01:41,936 He was totally normal 73 00:01:41,976 --> 00:01:42,980 when he met Washington. 74 00:01:43,020 --> 00:01:44,240 - And then he changed? 75 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:44,980 - That night, 76 00:01:45,020 --> 00:01:45,470 we went to the club. 77 00:01:45,510 --> 00:01:45,980 He took off his shirt 78 00:01:46,020 --> 00:01:46,520 and I was like, 79 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:46,980 "Oh, my God." 80 00:01:47,020 --> 00:01:48,336 - NATE: Who, Wash or Con? 81 00:01:48,376 --> 00:01:48,980 - JUDY: Con. 82 00:01:49,020 --> 00:01:50,980 If you do that? That's good. 83 00:01:51,020 --> 00:01:51,910 His V-neck's already 84 00:01:51,950 --> 00:01:52,980 starting to get deeper. 85 00:01:53,020 --> 00:01:54,980 [laughing] 86 00:01:55,020 --> 00:01:55,980 Woo. 87 00:01:56,020 --> 00:01:57,980 Hey, there's nothing wrong-- 88 00:01:58,020 --> 00:01:58,360 I think Washington 89 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:58,980 has those leather pants, yeah. 90 00:01:59,020 --> 00:01:59,541 - Does he? 91 00:01:59,581 --> 00:01:59,980 - I did. 92 00:02:00,020 --> 00:02:01,899 - Ooh, it's starting. 93 00:02:01,939 --> 00:02:02,980 - Oh, right. 94 00:02:03,020 --> 00:02:04,942 So Judy, do you ever wear 95 00:02:04,982 --> 00:02:06,980 your cocktail dress twice? 96 00:02:07,020 --> 00:02:08,739 You know, you went to one party 97 00:02:08,779 --> 00:02:09,980 and then you went to-- 98 00:02:10,020 --> 00:02:10,559 - Sometimes. 99 00:02:10,599 --> 00:02:10,980 - You do? 100 00:02:11,020 --> 00:02:11,338 - Yeah, why? 101 00:02:11,378 --> 00:02:11,980 - See, honey? Told you 102 00:02:12,020 --> 00:02:13,018 it's fine to wear 103 00:02:13,058 --> 00:02:13,980 the dress twice. 104 00:02:14,020 --> 00:02:15,133 Me and Lesley are still 105 00:02:15,173 --> 00:02:15,980 gonna go shopping 106 00:02:16,020 --> 00:02:16,980 for my 40th birthday party. 107 00:02:17,020 --> 00:02:18,042 I think it calls for a new 108 00:02:18,082 --> 00:02:18,980 dress, don't you think? 109 00:02:19,020 --> 00:02:19,980 LESLEY: Yeah. 110 00:02:20,020 --> 00:02:21,788 My birthday party is days away 111 00:02:21,828 --> 00:02:22,980 and in a lot of ways 112 00:02:23,020 --> 00:02:24,224 this is a coming out party 113 00:02:24,264 --> 00:02:24,980 for me and Nate. 114 00:02:25,020 --> 00:02:26,210 Just a small party, 115 00:02:26,250 --> 00:02:26,980 right, Wash? 116 00:02:27,020 --> 00:02:27,980 Just a handful of us. 117 00:02:28,020 --> 00:02:28,716 You're gonna have to--yeah, 118 00:02:28,756 --> 00:02:28,980 limit him. 119 00:02:29,020 --> 00:02:30,008 - You-you could invite 120 00:02:30,048 --> 00:02:30,980 five of your friends. 121 00:02:31,020 --> 00:02:32,085 - Just let me know how many 122 00:02:32,125 --> 00:02:32,980 people you're inviting 123 00:02:33,020 --> 00:02:33,486 - and we'll set it up. 124 00:02:33,526 --> 00:02:33,980 - We--think about this 125 00:02:34,020 --> 00:02:34,980 for a second, right? 126 00:02:35,020 --> 00:02:36,119 She's turning 40. 127 00:02:36,159 --> 00:02:37,980 She needs to celebrate love. 128 00:02:38,020 --> 00:02:38,980 It's not a wedding. 129 00:02:39,020 --> 00:02:40,183 That's a different 130 00:02:40,223 --> 00:02:40,980 celebration, 131 00:02:41,020 --> 00:02:41,943 like, I'm making you my, 132 00:02:41,983 --> 00:02:42,980 you know, best man, maybe. 133 00:02:43,020 --> 00:02:44,446 - Nate, guess what? 134 00:02:44,486 --> 00:02:44,980 - What? 135 00:02:45,020 --> 00:02:47,000 Tiffany's is right there. 136 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:48,980 [laughing] 137 00:02:49,020 --> 00:02:52,000 [music] 138 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:56,206 - Cutting them off. 139 00:02:56,246 --> 00:02:56,980 - All right. 140 00:02:57,020 --> 00:02:57,933 All right. Remember. 141 00:02:57,973 --> 00:02:58,980 You gotta look around, 142 00:02:59,020 --> 00:02:59,980 like, who's looking at me? 143 00:03:00,020 --> 00:03:00,641 Because people in Houston 144 00:03:00,681 --> 00:03:00,980 they're gonna 145 00:03:01,020 --> 00:03:02,431 start noticing you. Because 146 00:03:02,471 --> 00:03:03,980 you're part of the Ho family. 147 00:03:04,020 --> 00:03:04,412 - Oh. 148 00:03:04,452 --> 00:03:06,980 - Dr. Nate, lovely guy. But... 149 00:03:07,020 --> 00:03:08,980 he's been a Nguyen for too long 150 00:03:09,020 --> 00:03:10,716 I kind of like ramp 151 00:03:10,756 --> 00:03:11,980 him up quickly 152 00:03:12,020 --> 00:03:13,980 and get him on the Ho level. 153 00:03:14,020 --> 00:03:14,980 If you're a baller, 154 00:03:15,020 --> 00:03:15,511 there's no such thing 155 00:03:15,551 --> 00:03:16,691 as window shopping. 156 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:17,888 Don't touch anything 157 00:03:17,928 --> 00:03:18,980 unless you're gonna buy. 158 00:03:19,020 --> 00:03:20,542 - Just eyeball it and just-- 159 00:03:20,582 --> 00:03:21,980 - Yeah. Just buy whatever. 160 00:03:22,020 --> 00:03:23,399 And then go home. 161 00:03:23,439 --> 00:03:24,980 And then try it on. 162 00:03:25,020 --> 00:03:25,678 But then you'll be coming 163 00:03:25,718 --> 00:03:25,980 here twice. 164 00:03:26,020 --> 00:03:27,201 When you return it, 165 00:03:27,241 --> 00:03:28,980 send your freaking executive 166 00:03:29,020 --> 00:03:30,251 assistant to do it. 167 00:03:30,291 --> 00:03:30,980 You got me? 168 00:03:31,020 --> 00:03:32,011 And let me explain 169 00:03:32,051 --> 00:03:32,980 something to you. 170 00:03:33,020 --> 00:03:33,980 This is the no-fly zone. 171 00:03:34,020 --> 00:03:35,195 That area is for people 172 00:03:35,235 --> 00:03:35,980 that are, like, 173 00:03:36,020 --> 00:03:36,906 new rich, 174 00:03:36,946 --> 00:03:39,980 you're only gonna go this way. 175 00:03:40,020 --> 00:03:40,535 - Old rich? 176 00:03:40,575 --> 00:03:40,980 - Brioni. 177 00:03:41,020 --> 00:03:42,230 - Have you heard of that brand? 178 00:03:42,270 --> 00:03:42,980 - That's expensive. 179 00:03:43,020 --> 00:03:43,818 Let me tell you 180 00:03:43,858 --> 00:03:44,980 something, my boxers, 181 00:03:45,020 --> 00:03:46,980 they're like 20 years old. 182 00:03:47,020 --> 00:03:47,980 I still wear Superman underwear. 183 00:03:48,020 --> 00:03:49,193 - I don't think you should 184 00:03:49,233 --> 00:03:49,980 tell people that. 185 00:03:50,020 --> 00:03:50,812 You know why? Dude, 186 00:03:50,852 --> 00:03:51,980 so I can wear Brioni, dude. 187 00:03:52,020 --> 00:03:52,980 Nobody knows. 188 00:03:53,020 --> 00:03:53,485 - You know what? 189 00:03:53,525 --> 00:03:53,980 You buy me this. 190 00:03:54,020 --> 00:03:55,205 I'll buy you new socks 191 00:03:55,245 --> 00:03:55,980 and underwear. 192 00:03:56,020 --> 00:03:57,987 - Yeah, right? 193 00:03:58,027 --> 00:03:58,980 - Deal. 194 00:03:59,020 --> 00:03:59,818 These boots? 195 00:03:59,858 --> 00:04:01,980 Those are badass. Brioni boots. 196 00:04:02,020 --> 00:04:03,771 - I can visualize the boots. 197 00:04:03,811 --> 00:04:04,980 Oh, man. All right. 198 00:04:05,020 --> 00:04:05,528 I've done 199 00:04:05,568 --> 00:04:06,980 this a few times, buddy. 200 00:04:07,020 --> 00:04:08,446 - Thanks buddy. Looks good? 201 00:04:08,486 --> 00:04:08,980 - Oh yeah. 202 00:04:09,020 --> 00:04:10,729 Now walk like you have a billion 203 00:04:10,769 --> 00:04:11,980 dollars in your pocket. 204 00:04:12,020 --> 00:04:13,513 You got to walk like you own it. 205 00:04:13,553 --> 00:04:13,980 Just like. 206 00:04:14,020 --> 00:04:14,348 - Heavy? 207 00:04:14,388 --> 00:04:14,980 - We got this. 208 00:04:15,020 --> 00:04:15,983 - Feels good. 209 00:04:16,023 --> 00:04:17,980 - Don't look at the price. 210 00:04:18,020 --> 00:04:18,572 - I don't? 211 00:04:18,612 --> 00:04:18,980 - Okay. 212 00:04:19,020 --> 00:04:19,652 - It's the wrong place 213 00:04:19,692 --> 00:04:19,980 to do that. 214 00:04:20,020 --> 00:04:21,980 - Exactly. 215 00:04:22,020 --> 00:04:22,933 - You just looked. 216 00:04:22,973 --> 00:04:23,980 - You can afford it. 217 00:04:24,020 --> 00:04:24,980 [laughs] 218 00:04:25,020 --> 00:04:29,000 [music] 219 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:37,980 WASHINGTON: Thank you. 220 00:04:38,020 --> 00:04:39,980 That one is mine. 221 00:04:40,020 --> 00:04:40,980 Why? 222 00:04:41,020 --> 00:04:41,464 Because 223 00:04:41,504 --> 00:04:42,980 you're drinking water. 224 00:04:43,020 --> 00:04:46,980 Another day of sobriety. 225 00:04:47,020 --> 00:04:48,582 - The reason I wanted us 226 00:04:48,622 --> 00:04:49,980 to get together today 227 00:04:50,020 --> 00:04:51,072 is that I feel like 228 00:04:51,112 --> 00:04:52,072 dad's not really 229 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:53,543 talking about his retirement 230 00:04:53,583 --> 00:04:53,980 as much as he used to. 231 00:04:54,020 --> 00:04:55,235 I feel like he's dragging 232 00:04:55,275 --> 00:04:56,175 his feet on it. 233 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:57,291 For years, 234 00:04:57,331 --> 00:04:57,980 my dad has been saying 235 00:04:58,020 --> 00:04:58,933 that he would retire 236 00:04:58,973 --> 00:05:00,293 in the summer of 2020. 237 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:01,895 He would finally hand 238 00:05:01,935 --> 00:05:02,980 over the family business. 239 00:05:03,020 --> 00:05:04,379 And at that point, we would 240 00:05:04,419 --> 00:05:05,980 have control over our finances. 241 00:05:06,020 --> 00:05:06,738 Unfortunately, 242 00:05:06,778 --> 00:05:07,980 my dad has already said 243 00:05:08,020 --> 00:05:08,980 it's not going to happen, 244 00:05:09,020 --> 00:05:10,980 but to Lesley of all people. 245 00:05:11,020 --> 00:05:11,695 That's what 246 00:05:11,735 --> 00:05:12,980 he flat out told me. 247 00:05:13,020 --> 00:05:13,980 That he's not ready to retire. 248 00:05:14,020 --> 00:05:14,791 He told you but 249 00:05:14,831 --> 00:05:15,980 not me and Washington? 250 00:05:16,020 --> 00:05:17,980 So I need my brother to wake up. 251 00:05:18,020 --> 00:05:18,671 But it's on 252 00:05:18,711 --> 00:05:19,980 his wife to tell him. 253 00:05:20,020 --> 00:05:20,960 But he needs to 254 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:22,980 learn how to let go. I'm ready. 255 00:05:23,020 --> 00:05:24,253 Do you think you've proven 256 00:05:24,293 --> 00:05:24,980 yourself enough 257 00:05:25,020 --> 00:05:25,980 that he'll let go? 258 00:05:26,020 --> 00:05:27,097 I worked at the bank 259 00:05:27,137 --> 00:05:27,980 for eight years, 260 00:05:28,020 --> 00:05:29,980 I worked at the hotel for five. 261 00:05:30,020 --> 00:05:31,404 Have you talked to dad 262 00:05:31,444 --> 00:05:31,980 about it? 263 00:05:32,020 --> 00:05:32,486 - No. 264 00:05:32,526 --> 00:05:32,980 - Oh. 265 00:05:33,020 --> 00:05:33,818 I have the goal 266 00:05:33,858 --> 00:05:34,980 of being independent. 267 00:05:35,020 --> 00:05:36,349 I don't know if that 268 00:05:36,389 --> 00:05:37,980 still runs true for you. 269 00:05:38,020 --> 00:05:38,841 - What do you mean by 270 00:05:38,881 --> 00:05:39,980 independent? I don't get it. 271 00:05:40,020 --> 00:05:40,907 - Like, be able to 272 00:05:40,947 --> 00:05:41,980 do things on your own 273 00:05:42,020 --> 00:05:42,852 without approval 274 00:05:42,892 --> 00:05:43,980 or blessing from dad. 275 00:05:44,020 --> 00:05:44,734 - I mean, 276 00:05:44,774 --> 00:05:46,980 it's nice having insurance. 277 00:05:47,020 --> 00:05:47,405 I mean, 278 00:05:47,445 --> 00:05:48,980 dad's there to support me. 279 00:05:49,020 --> 00:05:50,410 And I'm not sure if 280 00:05:50,450 --> 00:05:52,000 I wanna give that up. 281 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:53,980 Why are you rolling your eyes? 282 00:05:54,020 --> 00:05:54,529 - It's not a matter 283 00:05:54,569 --> 00:05:54,980 of giving it up. 284 00:05:55,020 --> 00:05:55,875 - Should I like break 285 00:05:55,915 --> 00:05:56,980 off from mom and dad or... 286 00:05:57,020 --> 00:05:57,651 - Not break off. 287 00:05:57,691 --> 00:05:59,611 You're always gonna be a family. 288 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:00,446 You know what I mean? 289 00:06:00,486 --> 00:06:00,980 Just being able to stand 290 00:06:01,020 --> 00:06:03,000 on your own two feet. 291 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:04,856 Do you like where you 292 00:06:04,896 --> 00:06:05,980 are in your life right now? 293 00:06:06,020 --> 00:06:07,980 - I'll never--no. 294 00:06:08,020 --> 00:06:08,406 - I'm not content. 295 00:06:08,446 --> 00:06:09,946 - Oh, you're not content? 296 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:12,017 - No. No. I feel like 297 00:06:12,057 --> 00:06:12,980 he kind of 298 00:06:13,020 --> 00:06:13,980 uses, you know, 299 00:06:14,020 --> 00:06:16,146 the company as a way 300 00:06:16,186 --> 00:06:17,980 to keep us close, 301 00:06:18,020 --> 00:06:20,980 you know what I mean? 302 00:06:21,020 --> 00:06:21,980 - Leverage. 303 00:06:22,020 --> 00:06:23,260 WASHINGTON: If you have 304 00:06:23,300 --> 00:06:24,980 a father who's very successful, 305 00:06:25,020 --> 00:06:26,517 it's up to the oldest son 306 00:06:26,557 --> 00:06:27,980 to carry on that legacy. 307 00:06:28,020 --> 00:06:30,158 But I wish I just had a regular 308 00:06:30,198 --> 00:06:31,980 Vietnamese name sometimes. 309 00:06:32,020 --> 00:06:33,230 Like John Nguyen, 310 00:06:33,270 --> 00:06:34,980 or Timmy Tran, you know? 311 00:06:35,020 --> 00:06:37,000 Make my own way. My own path. 312 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:38,980 So where do we go from here? 313 00:06:39,020 --> 00:06:39,735 - I think if we 314 00:06:39,775 --> 00:06:40,980 just show him that, like, 315 00:06:41,020 --> 00:06:41,469 "Hey, we're our 316 00:06:41,509 --> 00:06:41,980 own people now." 317 00:06:42,020 --> 00:06:42,883 He would have 318 00:06:42,923 --> 00:06:43,980 to listen to us. 319 00:06:44,020 --> 00:06:44,448 - Do you think he 320 00:06:44,488 --> 00:06:45,688 will have to listen? 321 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:46,980 Let's just be a family. 322 00:06:47,020 --> 00:06:47,910 Not necessarily have 323 00:06:47,950 --> 00:06:48,980 everything be business, 324 00:06:49,020 --> 00:06:51,980 you know what I mean? 325 00:06:52,020 --> 00:06:53,980 - Right. 326 00:06:54,020 --> 00:06:54,980 [sighs] 327 00:06:55,020 --> 00:06:58,000 [music] 328 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:07,000 [music] 329 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:10,379 SINGER: 330 00:07:10,419 --> 00:07:11,980 ♪ This feels like home ♪ 331 00:07:12,020 --> 00:07:12,325 LESLEY: Terrence 332 00:07:12,365 --> 00:07:13,960 will come over in a little bit. 333 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:15,212 What do you got cooking? 334 00:07:15,252 --> 00:07:15,980 Some egg rolls? 335 00:07:16,020 --> 00:07:17,793 Yeah. I know these spring rolls, 336 00:07:17,833 --> 00:07:18,980 your mom is gonna say 337 00:07:19,020 --> 00:07:20,404 - that it needs more-- 338 00:07:20,444 --> 00:07:20,980 - Banana! 339 00:07:21,020 --> 00:07:22,119 - She's gonna say 340 00:07:22,159 --> 00:07:23,980 there's too much vermicelli. 341 00:07:24,020 --> 00:07:24,660 - Yeah, I know. 342 00:07:24,700 --> 00:07:25,980 - We're gonna have to hear it 343 00:07:26,020 --> 00:07:26,564 from my mom. 344 00:07:26,604 --> 00:07:27,980 Why don't you teach your wife 345 00:07:28,020 --> 00:07:28,810 how to cook? 346 00:07:28,850 --> 00:07:29,980 Blah, blah, blah. 347 00:07:30,020 --> 00:07:30,988 - Oh, you don't have to hear it 348 00:07:31,028 --> 00:07:31,980 from her. She tells me already. 349 00:07:32,020 --> 00:07:33,980 - Oh, don't worry, honey. 350 00:07:34,020 --> 00:07:35,980 I'm gonna make a stand for us. 351 00:07:36,020 --> 00:07:36,980 - What do you mean? 352 00:07:37,020 --> 00:07:39,980 - I'm tired of getting the eye. 353 00:07:40,020 --> 00:07:42,018 I'm tired of them just walking 354 00:07:42,058 --> 00:07:43,980 into our lives and, you know? 355 00:07:44,020 --> 00:07:45,135 - I've been holding this secret 356 00:07:45,175 --> 00:07:45,980 that my father-in-law's 357 00:07:46,020 --> 00:07:47,135 not ready to retire 358 00:07:47,175 --> 00:07:47,980 for weeks now. 359 00:07:48,020 --> 00:07:48,528 I'll wait 360 00:07:48,568 --> 00:07:49,980 for some day that my son 361 00:07:50,020 --> 00:07:51,980 and my daughter ready. 362 00:07:52,020 --> 00:07:53,980 And I turn it over. 363 00:07:54,020 --> 00:07:55,980 But my kids are not ready. 364 00:07:56,020 --> 00:07:56,881 I wanna tell him. 365 00:07:56,921 --> 00:07:58,181 I wanna show him that 366 00:07:59,000 --> 00:07:59,890 I'm on his side 367 00:07:59,930 --> 00:08:01,010 and I support him. 368 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:02,431 I mean, I don't know 369 00:08:02,471 --> 00:08:02,980 if your dad's gonna talk 370 00:08:03,020 --> 00:08:04,510 about it or not. 371 00:08:04,550 --> 00:08:04,980 But-- 372 00:08:05,020 --> 00:08:05,517 it--I mean, 373 00:08:05,557 --> 00:08:06,980 I had a conversation with him. 374 00:08:07,020 --> 00:08:07,484 - Right. 375 00:08:07,524 --> 00:08:08,980 - I took him to a venue. 376 00:08:09,020 --> 00:08:09,713 - Uh-huh. 377 00:08:09,753 --> 00:08:12,000 - He said he's not retiring. 378 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:14,105 - Really? 379 00:08:14,145 --> 00:08:14,980 - Yeah. 380 00:08:15,020 --> 00:08:15,984 - He's changed 381 00:08:16,024 --> 00:08:17,000 his mind, huh? 382 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:21,980 Like, what did he say? 383 00:08:22,020 --> 00:08:22,535 - He said, 384 00:08:22,575 --> 00:08:23,980 "I'm not ready to retire." 385 00:08:24,020 --> 00:08:25,112 He said, "This looks beautiful 386 00:08:25,152 --> 00:08:25,980 and it's great and all. 387 00:08:26,020 --> 00:08:28,000 But I'm not ready." 388 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:30,064 - He told you 389 00:08:30,104 --> 00:08:31,980 that before telling me? 390 00:08:32,020 --> 00:08:32,980 Yeah. 391 00:08:33,020 --> 00:08:34,980 He said that 392 00:08:35,020 --> 00:08:36,640 you were basically immature 393 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:38,277 and couldn't take over 394 00:08:38,317 --> 00:08:39,037 the company. 395 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:42,105 - It just feels 396 00:08:42,145 --> 00:08:43,980 like insulting, you know? 397 00:08:44,020 --> 00:08:45,980 - I know. 398 00:08:46,020 --> 00:08:47,011 I have to have a talk 399 00:08:47,051 --> 00:08:47,980 with him about this, 400 00:08:48,020 --> 00:08:49,057 if it's okay with you, 401 00:08:49,097 --> 00:08:50,237 when he comes over. 402 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:51,946 - Well, of course. I would 403 00:08:51,986 --> 00:08:53,666 support whatever you think-- 404 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:55,035 - Okay. I love you. 405 00:08:55,075 --> 00:08:55,980 - I love you too. 406 00:08:56,020 --> 00:08:57,980 - I'm on a swing. 407 00:08:58,020 --> 00:09:01,000 [music] 408 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:08,226 - WASHINGTON: Hey, mom. 409 00:09:08,266 --> 00:09:08,980 - HUE HO: Huh? 410 00:09:09,020 --> 00:09:09,377 WASHINGTON: Look 411 00:09:09,417 --> 00:09:09,980 what Lesley made for you. 412 00:09:10,020 --> 00:09:10,980 HUE: Yeah. 413 00:09:11,020 --> 00:09:11,612 WASHINGTON: 414 00:09:11,652 --> 00:09:12,980 She made it all herself. 415 00:09:13,020 --> 00:09:13,753 - Buffet style? 416 00:09:13,793 --> 00:09:14,980 - Nobody spill anything. 417 00:09:15,020 --> 00:09:15,980 - Serving yourselves here. 418 00:09:16,020 --> 00:09:16,877 - Just remember, 419 00:09:16,917 --> 00:09:18,117 please, don't spill, 420 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:19,828 or else I'll have 421 00:09:19,868 --> 00:09:21,248 to sleep alone tonight. 422 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:23,611 No, we're gonna eat 423 00:09:23,651 --> 00:09:25,000 over there, mom. 424 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:26,421 HUE: Roosevelt, 425 00:09:26,461 --> 00:09:26,980 you want some food? 426 00:09:27,020 --> 00:09:27,894 JUDY: This one? 427 00:09:27,934 --> 00:09:28,980 You're not eating? 428 00:09:29,020 --> 00:09:29,592 LESLEY: You know I can't eat 429 00:09:29,632 --> 00:09:30,712 when I cook stuff. 430 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:31,980 It ruins my appetite. 431 00:09:32,020 --> 00:09:32,980 WASHINGTON: Roosevelt, 432 00:09:33,020 --> 00:09:33,980 you want chicken wing? 433 00:09:34,020 --> 00:09:35,000 No. 434 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:37,123 WASHINGTON: Dad, 435 00:09:37,163 --> 00:09:38,980 why are you so quiet, Dad? 436 00:09:39,020 --> 00:09:40,980 - I'm hungry. I need to eat. 437 00:09:41,020 --> 00:09:42,016 Smell good 438 00:09:42,056 --> 00:09:44,000 and make me hungry. 439 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:47,980 - Dad... 440 00:09:48,020 --> 00:09:48,916 you know, 441 00:09:48,956 --> 00:09:50,980 Lesley told me today 442 00:09:51,020 --> 00:09:52,201 that you told her 443 00:09:52,241 --> 00:09:54,000 you weren't gonna retire. 444 00:09:58,000 --> 00:09:58,980 - Not yet. 445 00:09:59,020 --> 00:09:59,816 - Not yet? 446 00:09:59,856 --> 00:10:01,980 You don't get any younger. 447 00:10:02,020 --> 00:10:03,000 Hello? 448 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:06,134 - But I thought 449 00:10:06,174 --> 00:10:07,980 you would tell me first, 450 00:10:08,020 --> 00:10:08,980 not my wife. 451 00:10:09,020 --> 00:10:10,519 She's the first one I told 452 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:11,980 because I approve of her, 453 00:10:12,020 --> 00:10:15,000 I love her like my daughter. 454 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:17,080 - I feel insulted. 455 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:19,980 I'm Binh Ho Jr. 456 00:10:20,020 --> 00:10:21,980 I want you to retire. 457 00:10:22,020 --> 00:10:24,000 - You're not ready. 458 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:29,980 Washinton, he's a good salesman 459 00:10:30,020 --> 00:10:31,441 but I don't think 460 00:10:31,481 --> 00:10:32,980 he's mature enough 461 00:10:33,020 --> 00:10:33,987 and he's really emotion guy 462 00:10:34,027 --> 00:10:34,980 and those things... I don't 463 00:10:35,020 --> 00:10:36,980 I don't like it. 464 00:10:37,020 --> 00:10:38,478 - All my life, Dad, 465 00:10:38,518 --> 00:10:40,980 I've been living in your shadow. 466 00:10:41,020 --> 00:10:42,100 I'll never be you. 467 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:46,980 I just wanna know that 468 00:10:47,020 --> 00:10:48,261 I'm finally good enough 469 00:10:48,301 --> 00:10:48,980 in your eyes. 470 00:10:49,020 --> 00:10:49,987 - You're seeking approval 471 00:10:50,027 --> 00:10:50,980 and you make him unhappy. 472 00:10:51,020 --> 00:10:52,083 - No, it's not. 473 00:10:52,123 --> 00:10:53,980 - Yeah, it is, Washington. 474 00:10:54,020 --> 00:10:55,187 Your whole life--your whole 475 00:10:55,227 --> 00:10:55,980 life, you're like, 476 00:10:56,020 --> 00:10:57,320 "Daddy, daddy, daddy. Be 477 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:58,980 proud of me. Be happy for me." 478 00:10:59,020 --> 00:10:59,843 But then, like, 479 00:10:59,883 --> 00:11:00,980 something like that. 480 00:11:01,020 --> 00:11:02,460 - Well, yeah, of course. 481 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:03,503 - And then he's unhappy 482 00:11:03,543 --> 00:11:03,980 and then you're like, 483 00:11:04,020 --> 00:11:04,836 "Okay, now I'm gonna 484 00:11:04,876 --> 00:11:05,980 keep doing what he's saying 485 00:11:06,020 --> 00:11:06,854 because then he's 486 00:11:06,894 --> 00:11:07,980 gonna be upset again." 487 00:11:08,020 --> 00:11:10,000 So it's like this endless cycle. 488 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:12,876 Because that's how 489 00:11:12,916 --> 00:11:13,980 he exerts his control, 490 00:11:14,020 --> 00:11:15,980 by being happy or being unhappy, 491 00:11:16,020 --> 00:11:17,441 by giving you the silent 492 00:11:17,481 --> 00:11:17,980 treatment 493 00:11:18,020 --> 00:11:18,920 for a few days, 494 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:19,980 having that face, 495 00:11:20,020 --> 00:11:20,936 giving you that look, 496 00:11:20,976 --> 00:11:21,980 and then you know what? 497 00:11:22,020 --> 00:11:24,980 "I told you so." 498 00:11:25,020 --> 00:11:25,980 - No. 499 00:11:26,020 --> 00:11:26,987 - I just want Washington 500 00:11:27,027 --> 00:11:27,980 to stand up for himself. 501 00:11:28,020 --> 00:11:29,315 And he won't do it. 502 00:11:29,355 --> 00:11:31,000 Or maybe he can't do it. 503 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:32,980 I don't know what it is. 504 00:11:33,020 --> 00:11:34,759 - Do you remember how many 505 00:11:34,799 --> 00:11:35,980 millions you lost? 506 00:11:36,020 --> 00:11:37,488 Since you didn't listen to me 507 00:11:37,528 --> 00:11:38,980 when you signed the contract. 508 00:11:39,020 --> 00:11:40,336 - I did fall on my ass, 509 00:11:40,376 --> 00:11:41,036 many times. 510 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:42,960 But I'm still here. 511 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:44,980 - How can I turn over to you 512 00:11:45,020 --> 00:11:45,980 the big things 513 00:11:46,020 --> 00:11:47,980 and you don't listen to me? 514 00:11:48,020 --> 00:11:49,040 That's the truth. 515 00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:51,980 That's reality. 516 00:11:52,020 --> 00:11:53,980 - Knowing that has made me feel 517 00:11:54,020 --> 00:11:55,184 like a failure 518 00:11:55,224 --> 00:11:56,980 every day of my life. 519 00:11:57,020 --> 00:11:59,000 Now I have to... 520 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:03,000 draw a line in the sand. 521 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:08,000 I have to be a man. 522 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:16,432 SINGER: 523 00:12:16,472 --> 00:12:17,980 ♪ Whoa, oh, oh, oh ♪ 524 00:12:18,020 --> 00:12:20,980 ♪ Whoa, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 525 00:12:21,020 --> 00:12:22,980 ♪ Whoa, oh, oh, oh ♪ 526 00:12:23,020 --> 00:12:23,736 WAITER: Welcome back, 527 00:12:23,776 --> 00:12:23,980 Mr. Ho. 528 00:12:24,020 --> 00:12:25,940 How are we doing this afternoon? 529 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:26,356 - Very good. 530 00:12:26,396 --> 00:12:26,980 - WAITER: We do have 531 00:12:27,020 --> 00:12:27,625 an appetizer coming out 532 00:12:27,665 --> 00:12:27,980 on the house. 533 00:12:28,020 --> 00:12:28,327 - Ooh, nice. 534 00:12:28,367 --> 00:12:28,980 - It's a little truffle 535 00:12:29,020 --> 00:12:30,666 sausage with a truffle soil, 536 00:12:30,706 --> 00:12:31,980 and a little terraria. 537 00:12:32,020 --> 00:12:32,397 - Okay. 538 00:12:32,437 --> 00:12:32,980 - Awesome. 539 00:12:33,020 --> 00:12:34,980 I'll take some shots, later. 540 00:12:35,020 --> 00:12:35,785 If you want. 541 00:12:35,825 --> 00:12:36,980 Why you drink tea? 542 00:12:37,020 --> 00:12:38,600 - You want some shot? 543 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:38,980 - No. 544 00:12:39,020 --> 00:12:40,206 - You like cognac, right? 545 00:12:40,246 --> 00:12:40,980 - Not for lunch. 546 00:12:41,020 --> 00:12:41,705 - Boring. 547 00:12:41,745 --> 00:12:42,980 A little boring. 548 00:12:43,020 --> 00:12:44,980 At dinner but not at lunch. 549 00:12:45,020 --> 00:12:46,237 I like to drink alcohol 550 00:12:46,277 --> 00:12:47,980 when I have a good conversation, 551 00:12:48,020 --> 00:12:48,946 good company, 552 00:12:48,986 --> 00:12:49,980 and good food. 553 00:12:50,020 --> 00:12:50,980 Doesn't matter what time. 554 00:12:51,020 --> 00:12:51,980 I love tea. 555 00:12:52,020 --> 00:12:53,561 Long ice tea is good. 556 00:12:53,601 --> 00:12:54,980 Trust me. Tea, too. 557 00:12:55,020 --> 00:12:56,298 You can enjoy yourself. 558 00:12:56,338 --> 00:12:56,980 Don't worry. 559 00:12:57,020 --> 00:12:57,980 - Cheer. 560 00:12:58,020 --> 00:12:58,465 - Oh. Sorry. 561 00:12:58,505 --> 00:12:58,980 - Here we go. 562 00:12:59,020 --> 00:13:01,746 - So you're not retiring yet? 563 00:13:01,786 --> 00:13:02,980 - No I'm not. 564 00:13:03,020 --> 00:13:03,980 I'm not ready. Okay? 565 00:13:04,020 --> 00:13:06,111 No, no you be honest with me. 566 00:13:06,151 --> 00:13:06,980 This is you? 567 00:13:07,020 --> 00:13:07,980 Yes. 568 00:13:08,020 --> 00:13:08,980 I know, I know who you are. 569 00:13:09,020 --> 00:13:10,726 You want.. you're so arrogant 570 00:13:10,766 --> 00:13:11,980 you have to be on top 571 00:13:12,020 --> 00:13:12,485 - No, one second 572 00:13:12,525 --> 00:13:12,980 - of everything. 573 00:13:13,020 --> 00:13:14,980 You always want to control them. 574 00:13:15,020 --> 00:13:16,044 You always want to 575 00:13:16,084 --> 00:13:16,980 hang on to them. 576 00:13:17,020 --> 00:13:17,980 You don't want to let go. 577 00:13:18,020 --> 00:13:18,980 But don't you think the kids 578 00:13:19,020 --> 00:13:21,025 want to feel like they are 579 00:13:21,065 --> 00:13:22,980 adults? They're grown up. 580 00:13:23,020 --> 00:13:24,439 - I know myself. 581 00:13:24,479 --> 00:13:25,980 I believe myself. 582 00:13:26,020 --> 00:13:27,980 I have an open mind. 583 00:13:28,020 --> 00:13:29,980 If they're right, I accept that. 584 00:13:30,020 --> 00:13:32,143 - But if they're not right, 585 00:13:32,183 --> 00:13:33,980 they'e still your kids! 586 00:13:34,020 --> 00:13:35,039 But I cannot accept 587 00:13:35,079 --> 00:13:35,980 what's not right. 588 00:13:36,020 --> 00:13:37,000 Okay. Okay. 589 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:37,020 So what about Judy? 590 00:13:37,020 --> 00:13:39,000 You do everything for her. 591 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:41,537 You tell her to go to school, 592 00:13:41,577 --> 00:13:42,980 be a lawyer, blah blah blah 593 00:13:43,020 --> 00:13:44,980 and marry... blah blah blah 594 00:13:45,020 --> 00:13:45,724 have kids and 595 00:13:45,764 --> 00:13:46,980 get that... blah blah. 596 00:13:47,020 --> 00:13:47,980 And now she's divorced 597 00:13:48,020 --> 00:13:49,240 - But she did what she 598 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:50,000 wanted do to. 599 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:50,960 I cannot stop her. 600 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:52,040 - Will you support 601 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:52,980 her all the way? 602 00:13:53,020 --> 00:13:53,980 So if two months from now 603 00:13:54,020 --> 00:13:54,958 she says, "Dad, I 604 00:13:54,998 --> 00:13:55,980 wanna get married, 605 00:13:56,020 --> 00:13:56,861 because I love 606 00:13:56,901 --> 00:13:57,980 this guy so much." 607 00:13:58,020 --> 00:14:00,980 - If she wants support from me 608 00:14:01,020 --> 00:14:02,072 she needs to let me 609 00:14:02,112 --> 00:14:02,980 talk to the guy. 610 00:14:03,020 --> 00:14:03,980 - Oh, my God. 611 00:14:04,020 --> 00:14:05,763 I'm pretty sure Judy 612 00:14:05,803 --> 00:14:07,980 has always been favorite. 613 00:14:08,020 --> 00:14:10,020 Judy is smart, very considering, 614 00:14:10,060 --> 00:14:12,000 totally opposite of Washington. 615 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:13,980 That's his jewel. 616 00:14:14,020 --> 00:14:15,980 He always over-protects Judy. 617 00:14:16,020 --> 00:14:18,087 I'm still responsible for my 618 00:14:18,127 --> 00:14:18,980 grandbabies. 619 00:14:19,020 --> 00:14:20,623 Don't you trust that she 620 00:14:20,663 --> 00:14:21,980 care about her kids? 621 00:14:22,020 --> 00:14:23,122 She will be sure that 622 00:14:23,162 --> 00:14:23,980 whoever she does 623 00:14:24,020 --> 00:14:24,929 is gonna be good 624 00:14:24,969 --> 00:14:25,980 for the kids, too. 625 00:14:26,020 --> 00:14:27,336 Well, I love her but more 626 00:14:27,376 --> 00:14:27,980 importantly, 627 00:14:28,020 --> 00:14:29,980 I love my grandbabies. 628 00:14:30,020 --> 00:14:31,161 - [groans] 629 00:14:31,201 --> 00:14:31,980 - Okay? 630 00:14:32,020 --> 00:14:33,079 Do you think you use the 631 00:14:33,119 --> 00:14:33,980 baby as an excuse to 632 00:14:34,020 --> 00:14:35,316 interfere in her life? 633 00:14:35,356 --> 00:14:35,980 To control? 634 00:14:36,020 --> 00:14:36,980 - No. 635 00:14:37,020 --> 00:14:39,980 I trust my daughter 636 00:14:40,020 --> 00:14:40,980 but I don't think 637 00:14:41,020 --> 00:14:42,980 I trust her 100%. 638 00:14:43,020 --> 00:14:44,980 Because when she's in love 639 00:14:45,020 --> 00:14:46,662 it might be her judgment is not 640 00:14:46,702 --> 00:14:46,980 right. 641 00:14:47,020 --> 00:14:48,980 like a half-drunk 642 00:14:49,020 --> 00:14:50,224 she don't know what she is 643 00:14:50,264 --> 00:14:51,224 really thinking. 644 00:14:52,000 --> 00:14:52,980 She's almost 40. 645 00:14:53,020 --> 00:14:53,349 You still worry 646 00:14:53,389 --> 00:14:53,980 about who she gonna marry, 647 00:14:54,020 --> 00:14:55,980 who she gonna have sex with. 648 00:14:56,020 --> 00:14:57,980 Come on. Let go. 649 00:14:58,020 --> 00:14:58,980 It's 2000. 650 00:14:59,020 --> 00:15:00,000 It's America 651 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:09,000 [music] 652 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:11,404 SINGER: ♪ Get your kicks on 653 00:15:11,444 --> 00:15:12,980 Better get your feet running ♪ 654 00:15:13,020 --> 00:15:13,328 JUDY: Tonight 655 00:15:13,368 --> 00:15:14,868 is my 40th birthday party 656 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:15,595 and it's everything 657 00:15:15,635 --> 00:15:15,980 I asked for. 658 00:15:16,020 --> 00:15:17,853 SINGER: ♪ I gotta tell you 659 00:15:17,893 --> 00:15:19,980 all of the things I've heard ♪ 660 00:15:20,020 --> 00:15:20,854 JUDY: A room full 661 00:15:20,894 --> 00:15:21,980 of people that I love. 662 00:15:22,020 --> 00:15:22,980 SINGER: ♪ I gotta let you know ♪ 663 00:15:23,020 --> 00:15:24,869 JUDY: And most importantly, 664 00:15:24,909 --> 00:15:25,980 Nate by my side. 665 00:15:26,020 --> 00:15:27,017 - SINGER: ♪ All about it ♪ 666 00:15:27,057 --> 00:15:27,980 - JUDY: My parents have said 667 00:15:28,020 --> 00:15:28,980 they're not gonna show up 668 00:15:29,020 --> 00:15:30,423 and maybe for the first time 669 00:15:30,463 --> 00:15:31,123 in my life, 670 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:32,980 I'm okay with that. 671 00:15:33,020 --> 00:15:34,261 SINGER: ♪ So what, 672 00:15:34,301 --> 00:15:35,980 what you heard about it ♪ 673 00:15:36,020 --> 00:15:37,980 ♪ Have you heard ♪ 674 00:15:38,020 --> 00:15:40,000 ♪ The good, good news ♪ 675 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:43,759 WASHINGTON: [bleep] You know, 676 00:15:43,799 --> 00:15:44,980 I think we can start 677 00:15:45,020 --> 00:15:47,000 working on our dreams. 678 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:49,122 We bought this house 679 00:15:49,162 --> 00:15:49,980 five years ago. 680 00:15:50,020 --> 00:15:51,631 - LESLEY: Uh-hmm. 681 00:15:51,671 --> 00:15:52,980 - And I think, 682 00:15:53,020 --> 00:15:54,368 we should start looking 683 00:15:54,408 --> 00:15:55,980 for other places, you know, 684 00:15:56,020 --> 00:15:57,709 something a little bit 685 00:15:57,749 --> 00:15:59,980 more suited to our lifestyle. 686 00:16:00,020 --> 00:16:01,342 Are you not happy living 687 00:16:01,382 --> 00:16:02,980 two doors down from your dad? 688 00:16:03,020 --> 00:16:03,625 - I thought this one you had-- 689 00:16:03,665 --> 00:16:03,980 - No, it's great. 690 00:16:04,020 --> 00:16:04,596 But I think 691 00:16:04,636 --> 00:16:05,980 we can get something more 692 00:16:06,020 --> 00:16:07,160 like that you want. 693 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:08,980 Judy has let go 694 00:16:09,020 --> 00:16:10,284 of my parents 695 00:16:10,324 --> 00:16:12,000 having to approve 696 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:13,980 the way she wants to live. 697 00:16:14,020 --> 00:16:16,634 And that has really made me 698 00:16:16,674 --> 00:16:18,980 think about my own life. 699 00:16:19,020 --> 00:16:20,079 - Sometimes it affects-- 700 00:16:20,119 --> 00:16:20,980 - LESLEY: I'm sorry. 701 00:16:21,020 --> 00:16:23,514 That hairstyle is just-- 702 00:16:23,554 --> 00:16:24,980 it's too much. 703 00:16:25,020 --> 00:16:25,535 - Is that purple? 704 00:16:25,575 --> 00:16:25,980 - MAN: Uh-hmm. 705 00:16:26,020 --> 00:16:26,295 Yeah. 706 00:16:26,335 --> 00:16:27,980 You don't like purple hair? 707 00:16:28,020 --> 00:16:28,958 LESLEY: What look 708 00:16:28,998 --> 00:16:29,980 are you going for? 709 00:16:30,020 --> 00:16:31,224 - MAN: It's divine purple. 710 00:16:31,264 --> 00:16:31,980 - Divine purple? 711 00:16:32,020 --> 00:16:33,020 WASHINGTON: Here this is kind of 712 00:16:33,060 --> 00:16:33,980 a--this is what my wife wants. 713 00:16:34,020 --> 00:16:34,834 Sorry. Yeah, I could do 714 00:16:34,874 --> 00:16:35,980 everything she wants, you know. 715 00:16:36,020 --> 00:16:37,118 - MAN: It's fine. 716 00:16:37,158 --> 00:16:37,980 - LESLEY: No. 717 00:16:38,020 --> 00:16:38,232 - so here. 718 00:16:38,272 --> 00:16:38,980 - LESLEY: You don't have to do 719 00:16:39,020 --> 00:16:39,797 everything I want 720 00:16:39,837 --> 00:16:40,980 and, uh, anything I want. 721 00:16:41,020 --> 00:16:42,003 I just won't be sitting 722 00:16:42,043 --> 00:16:42,980 next to you all night. 723 00:16:43,020 --> 00:16:44,079 WASHINGTON: Don't worry. 724 00:16:44,119 --> 00:16:44,980 The hair can change, 725 00:16:45,020 --> 00:16:46,336 just listen to me here. 726 00:16:46,376 --> 00:16:46,980 Look at me. 727 00:16:47,020 --> 00:16:48,283 - LESLEY: I'm listening. 728 00:16:48,323 --> 00:16:48,980 - Look at me. 729 00:16:49,020 --> 00:16:49,251 LESLEY: 730 00:16:49,291 --> 00:16:49,980 I'm looking at you. 731 00:16:50,020 --> 00:16:51,740 We can't move on, uh, 732 00:16:51,780 --> 00:16:52,980 unless we let-- 733 00:16:53,020 --> 00:16:54,460 I cannot take you seriously 734 00:16:54,500 --> 00:16:55,980 with that hairstyle. Uh-huh. 735 00:16:56,020 --> 00:16:56,221 What? 736 00:16:56,261 --> 00:16:56,980 We can't move on 737 00:16:57,020 --> 00:16:58,354 unless we let go 738 00:16:58,394 --> 00:16:59,980 of the past, right? 739 00:17:00,020 --> 00:17:00,273 - Yeah. 740 00:17:00,313 --> 00:17:00,980 - I don't believe 741 00:17:01,020 --> 00:17:02,390 staying close to them 742 00:17:02,430 --> 00:17:03,980 helps us grow, you know, 743 00:17:04,020 --> 00:17:04,980 we become too dependent. 744 00:17:05,020 --> 00:17:06,153 It's just time 745 00:17:06,193 --> 00:17:08,000 for us to live for us. 746 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:09,953 This is huge for Wash 747 00:17:09,993 --> 00:17:10,980 to even be considering 748 00:17:11,020 --> 00:17:11,742 a change like this, 749 00:17:11,782 --> 00:17:12,980 to step out of his dad's shadow 750 00:17:13,020 --> 00:17:14,527 and move to Dallas. 751 00:17:14,567 --> 00:17:15,980 I'm all about that 752 00:17:16,020 --> 00:17:17,226 and it's two hours away 753 00:17:17,266 --> 00:17:17,980 from Oklahoma. 754 00:17:18,020 --> 00:17:19,297 Things are definitely 755 00:17:19,337 --> 00:17:19,980 looking up. 756 00:17:20,020 --> 00:17:20,574 WASHINGTON: 757 00:17:20,614 --> 00:17:21,980 Is my hair a good boy now? 758 00:17:22,020 --> 00:17:22,409 - Yes. 759 00:17:22,449 --> 00:17:23,980 - WASHINGTON: For you? 760 00:17:24,020 --> 00:17:24,696 MAN: Okay. Finishing touches. 761 00:17:24,736 --> 00:17:25,456 That's good. 762 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:26,655 - It's not purple, right? 763 00:17:26,695 --> 00:17:26,980 - No purple. 764 00:17:27,020 --> 00:17:28,000 Okay. 765 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:33,980 SINGER: ♪ Oh, whoa ♪ 766 00:17:34,020 --> 00:17:37,980 ♪ Woo. Oh, whoa ♪ 767 00:17:38,020 --> 00:17:38,980 ♪ Let's go ♪ 768 00:17:39,020 --> 00:17:41,980 ♪ Tonight's the night ♪ 769 00:17:42,020 --> 00:17:43,980 ♪ Woo ♪ 770 00:17:44,020 --> 00:17:45,980 ♪ Tonight's the night ♪ 771 00:17:46,020 --> 00:17:46,980 ♪ Oh, whoa ♪ 772 00:17:47,020 --> 00:17:48,980 ♪ I can feel it coming ♪ 773 00:17:49,020 --> 00:17:50,980 ♪ Gonna turn it on ♪ 774 00:17:51,020 --> 00:17:52,980 ♪ Take it up a level ♪ 775 00:17:53,020 --> 00:17:54,980 ♪ High up in the sun ♪ 776 00:17:55,020 --> 00:17:56,980 ♪ Gonna shine like crystal ♪ 777 00:17:57,020 --> 00:17:58,980 ♪ Gonna shine like gold ♪ 778 00:17:59,020 --> 00:17:59,471 ♪ Going to bring 779 00:17:59,511 --> 00:17:59,980 this house down ♪ 780 00:18:00,020 --> 00:18:00,887 - Cheers baby. 781 00:18:00,927 --> 00:18:01,980 - What's up, man? 782 00:18:02,020 --> 00:18:03,817 SINGER: ♪ Bring it to the floor 783 00:18:03,857 --> 00:18:04,980 It's gonna be big ♪ 784 00:18:05,020 --> 00:18:06,980 ♪ It's gonna be good ♪ 785 00:18:07,020 --> 00:18:08,603 ♪ Come on and let's 786 00:18:08,643 --> 00:18:09,980 get it started ♪ 787 00:18:10,020 --> 00:18:11,451 ♪ I want you to know 788 00:18:11,491 --> 00:18:11,980 Yeah ♪ 789 00:18:12,020 --> 00:18:13,980 ♪ This is the time ♪ 790 00:18:14,020 --> 00:18:15,980 ♪ This is the night ♪ 791 00:18:16,020 --> 00:18:16,432 WOMAN: All right. 792 00:18:16,472 --> 00:18:16,980 She's coming through. 793 00:18:17,020 --> 00:18:18,008 I think she'll be here 794 00:18:18,048 --> 00:18:18,980 any time soon though. 795 00:18:19,020 --> 00:18:19,908 - WOMAN: Thank you. 796 00:18:19,948 --> 00:18:20,980 - WOMAN: There she is. 797 00:18:21,020 --> 00:18:22,000 Woo. 798 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:24,581 - Hey, babe. 799 00:18:24,621 --> 00:18:24,980 - Hello. 800 00:18:25,020 --> 00:18:25,703 - Happy 40th. 801 00:18:25,743 --> 00:18:26,980 - This is not 30 people 802 00:18:27,020 --> 00:18:27,592 - like we talked about. 803 00:18:27,632 --> 00:18:27,980 - NATE: I think 804 00:18:28,020 --> 00:18:29,276 because we got Wash involved, 805 00:18:29,316 --> 00:18:29,980 is what I think. 806 00:18:30,020 --> 00:18:31,410 - You look gorgeous, by the way. 807 00:18:31,450 --> 00:18:31,980 - I'm so glad 808 00:18:32,020 --> 00:18:32,688 you did this with me. 809 00:18:32,728 --> 00:18:32,980 Hi, guys. 810 00:18:33,020 --> 00:18:34,158 - Happy birthday. 811 00:18:34,198 --> 00:18:34,980 - Thank you. 812 00:18:35,020 --> 00:18:36,319 - Beautiful party, Judy. 813 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:36,980 - Thank you. 814 00:18:37,020 --> 00:18:37,980 WASHINGTON: Pretty good crowd. 815 00:18:38,020 --> 00:18:38,939 Can you imagine 816 00:18:38,979 --> 00:18:40,980 if I didn't pull out my Rolodex? 817 00:18:41,020 --> 00:18:41,980 It would be, like, quiet. 818 00:18:42,020 --> 00:18:43,263 It would've been a sit-down, 819 00:18:43,303 --> 00:18:43,980 intimate dinner, 820 00:18:44,020 --> 00:18:44,861 which would've 821 00:18:44,901 --> 00:18:45,980 been fine with me. 822 00:18:46,020 --> 00:18:46,480 - We're not gonna have-- 823 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:46,980 - So you ended up telling 824 00:18:47,020 --> 00:18:47,600 your parents 825 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:48,980 that Nate is gonna be here? 826 00:18:49,020 --> 00:18:49,910 - Did you tell them? 827 00:18:49,950 --> 00:18:50,980 - Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. 828 00:18:51,020 --> 00:18:51,273 - Good. 829 00:18:51,313 --> 00:18:51,980 - And I told them 830 00:18:52,020 --> 00:18:53,230 that I wanted them to be there. 831 00:18:53,270 --> 00:18:53,980 But my dad said no. 832 00:18:54,020 --> 00:18:54,599 Yeah, I guess 833 00:18:54,639 --> 00:18:55,980 I shouldn't be too surprised. 834 00:18:56,020 --> 00:18:56,986 That's fucking wrong. 835 00:18:57,026 --> 00:18:57,980 I would never do that 836 00:18:58,020 --> 00:18:58,520 to my daughter. 837 00:18:58,560 --> 00:18:58,980 If I was dad, 838 00:18:59,020 --> 00:19:00,005 I might've just come here 839 00:19:00,045 --> 00:19:00,980 and make it easy on you, 840 00:19:01,020 --> 00:19:02,046 - say hi, bye, and then-- 841 00:19:02,086 --> 00:19:02,980 - You know how Dad is, 842 00:19:03,020 --> 00:19:03,722 it's not about 843 00:19:03,762 --> 00:19:04,980 making it easier for us. 844 00:19:05,020 --> 00:19:05,605 - I know. 845 00:19:05,645 --> 00:19:06,980 - It doesn't matter. 846 00:19:07,020 --> 00:19:07,893 I'm still gonna have 847 00:19:07,933 --> 00:19:08,980 a good time for my 40th. 848 00:19:09,020 --> 00:19:09,525 NATE: You should have 849 00:19:09,565 --> 00:19:09,980 a good time, babe. 850 00:19:10,020 --> 00:19:10,695 WASHINGTON: 851 00:19:10,735 --> 00:19:11,980 Let's just have fun. 852 00:19:12,020 --> 00:19:12,716 - LESLEY: For your 40th. 853 00:19:12,756 --> 00:19:12,980 - Cheers. 854 00:19:13,020 --> 00:19:14,210 - AUNT TINA: Hello. 855 00:19:14,250 --> 00:19:14,980 - Hey. Tina. 856 00:19:15,020 --> 00:19:15,523 - Tina. 857 00:19:15,563 --> 00:19:16,980 - Tina has arrived. 858 00:19:17,020 --> 00:19:17,366 Look at--look 859 00:19:17,406 --> 00:19:17,980 at those Zumba moves. 860 00:19:18,020 --> 00:19:19,549 - How are you? So? 861 00:19:19,589 --> 00:19:19,980 - So? 862 00:19:20,020 --> 00:19:20,694 AUNT TINA: 863 00:19:20,734 --> 00:19:22,980 So you're all officially dating? 864 00:19:23,020 --> 00:19:23,506 - Are we out? 865 00:19:23,546 --> 00:19:24,266 - JUDY: Yes. 866 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:25,633 AUNT TINA: Are you coming out? 867 00:19:25,673 --> 00:19:25,980 Everybody knows? 868 00:19:26,020 --> 00:19:26,181 - Yes. 869 00:19:26,221 --> 00:19:27,661 - All your friends know? 870 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:28,709 - I'm so glad you're coming out. 871 00:19:28,749 --> 00:19:28,980 - Thank you. 872 00:19:29,020 --> 00:19:29,768 - I'm glad both of you are here. 873 00:19:29,808 --> 00:19:30,348 - We are. 874 00:19:31,000 --> 00:19:31,532 - You can call me Aunt Tina. 875 00:19:31,572 --> 00:19:31,980 - Aunt Tina, all right. 876 00:19:32,020 --> 00:19:33,980 Yeah. Go, go, go. Let's go. 877 00:19:34,020 --> 00:19:35,245 Have fun. Have fun. Let's go. 878 00:19:35,285 --> 00:19:35,980 Let's... [laughs] 879 00:19:36,020 --> 00:19:37,052 Well I see Judy, 880 00:19:37,092 --> 00:19:37,980 she got smile, 881 00:19:38,020 --> 00:19:39,485 and she look happy. 882 00:19:39,525 --> 00:19:41,000 But honestly, nope. 883 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:42,980 Nate is not my taste. 884 00:19:43,020 --> 00:19:44,980 I like men who's hot and sexy, 885 00:19:45,020 --> 00:19:46,485 like, Brad Pitt, 886 00:19:46,525 --> 00:19:47,980 Chris Hemsworth, 887 00:19:48,020 --> 00:19:48,983 Chris Pine. 888 00:19:49,023 --> 00:19:49,980 Oh, my God. 889 00:19:50,020 --> 00:19:50,980 That's my kind of type. 890 00:19:51,020 --> 00:19:52,980 Is he coming? 891 00:19:53,020 --> 00:19:54,317 Did you invite him, right? 892 00:19:54,357 --> 00:19:54,980 He's coming-- 893 00:19:55,020 --> 00:19:55,980 JUDY: I invited him. 894 00:19:56,020 --> 00:19:57,352 SINGER: ♪ Money, money, money, 895 00:19:57,392 --> 00:19:57,980 money maker ♪ 896 00:19:58,020 --> 00:19:58,525 ♪ Imma shake, shake 897 00:19:58,565 --> 00:19:59,645 shake and move ♪ 898 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:00,614 - Photo bomb. 899 00:20:00,654 --> 00:20:01,980 - WOMAN: Now, that's better. 900 00:20:02,020 --> 00:20:03,174 AUNT TINA: My baby. 901 00:20:03,214 --> 00:20:04,980 Show your leg, show your leg. 902 00:20:05,020 --> 00:20:05,438 SAMMY: [laughs] No, 903 00:20:05,478 --> 00:20:05,980 I don't want your butt. 904 00:20:06,020 --> 00:20:07,980 You totally focused on my leg. 905 00:20:08,020 --> 00:20:08,612 WASHINGTON: 906 00:20:08,652 --> 00:20:09,980 I can't take it no more. 907 00:20:10,020 --> 00:20:10,980 AUNT TINA: Party! 908 00:20:11,020 --> 00:20:13,980 I'm dirtiest, sexiest, shit. 909 00:20:14,020 --> 00:20:15,980 Show your ass. 910 00:20:16,020 --> 00:20:17,980 Woo. 911 00:20:18,020 --> 00:20:19,011 - [crowd cheering] 912 00:20:19,051 --> 00:20:20,071 - AUNT TINA: Woo. 913 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:21,980 Party! 914 00:20:22,020 --> 00:20:23,233 - Cheers all of you. 915 00:20:23,273 --> 00:20:23,980 - Thank you. 916 00:20:24,020 --> 00:20:24,390 It's gonna be 917 00:20:24,430 --> 00:20:24,980 a good year, right? 918 00:20:25,020 --> 00:20:25,427 So babe, 919 00:20:25,467 --> 00:20:26,980 what are you drinking, babe? 920 00:20:27,020 --> 00:20:28,980 Uh, San Pellegrino and lime. 921 00:20:29,020 --> 00:20:29,711 - H2 Ho. 922 00:20:29,751 --> 00:20:31,000 - H2 Ho, baby. 923 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:32,408 [laughs] 924 00:20:32,448 --> 00:20:33,980 Watching Washington be sober, 925 00:20:34,020 --> 00:20:35,980 I see how hard it is for him, 926 00:20:36,020 --> 00:20:37,261 especially with his dad 927 00:20:37,301 --> 00:20:37,980 not retiring. 928 00:20:38,020 --> 00:20:39,980 It's a lot to navigate. 929 00:20:40,020 --> 00:20:40,647 I just hope 930 00:20:40,687 --> 00:20:41,980 that he can handle it. 931 00:20:42,020 --> 00:20:42,980 Doesn't it feel better, though, 932 00:20:43,020 --> 00:20:44,814 you understand everything 933 00:20:44,854 --> 00:20:45,980 that people say? 934 00:20:46,020 --> 00:20:46,980 It's like, dang, 935 00:20:47,020 --> 00:20:48,868 driving is so much easier 936 00:20:48,908 --> 00:20:50,980 when you're sober, you know. 937 00:20:51,020 --> 00:20:51,538 - Stay healthy, Wash. 938 00:20:51,578 --> 00:20:51,980 - JUDY: Hi, guys. 939 00:20:52,020 --> 00:20:53,603 - Hi, happy birthday. 940 00:20:53,643 --> 00:20:54,980 - Good to see you. 941 00:20:55,020 --> 00:20:55,401 - You look so good. 942 00:20:55,441 --> 00:20:55,980 - You know this guy, right? 943 00:20:56,020 --> 00:20:57,609 I don't know. 944 00:20:57,649 --> 00:20:57,980 Hi. 945 00:20:58,020 --> 00:20:59,317 This is Maria and Anthony. 946 00:20:59,357 --> 00:20:59,980 This is Nate. 947 00:21:00,020 --> 00:21:00,157 - Hey. 948 00:21:00,197 --> 00:21:00,980 - JUDY: Sporty and fabulous. 949 00:21:01,020 --> 00:21:01,600 - Thank you. 950 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:02,980 - I have to have a nickname 951 00:21:03,020 --> 00:21:03,666 - for you guys. 952 00:21:03,706 --> 00:21:03,980 - Yeah? 953 00:21:04,020 --> 00:21:05,103 Oh, we already have one. 954 00:21:05,143 --> 00:21:05,980 Lesley made one up. 955 00:21:06,020 --> 00:21:06,980 - Nudy. 956 00:21:07,020 --> 00:21:07,669 - WOMAN: Nudy? 957 00:21:07,709 --> 00:21:08,980 - Team Nudy, Judy and Nate. 958 00:21:09,020 --> 00:21:09,512 - NATE: Nate and Judy. 959 00:21:09,552 --> 00:21:09,980 - It kind of does go 960 00:21:10,020 --> 00:21:12,980 with the Tommy Hil party, right? 961 00:21:13,020 --> 00:21:16,000 [music] 962 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:20,173 HUE: My husband speaks 963 00:21:20,213 --> 00:21:20,980 for the family. 964 00:21:21,020 --> 00:21:21,563 I help him. 965 00:21:21,603 --> 00:21:22,980 When he do something wrong, 966 00:21:23,020 --> 00:21:24,561 I try to straight him 967 00:21:24,601 --> 00:21:25,980 and try to tell him 968 00:21:26,020 --> 00:21:27,980 what to do 969 00:21:28,020 --> 00:21:30,988 to keep his family very happy. 970 00:21:31,028 --> 00:21:31,980 He listen. 971 00:21:32,020 --> 00:21:34,980 [crowd chatter] 972 00:21:35,020 --> 00:21:35,906 JUDY: Oh, my God. 973 00:21:35,946 --> 00:21:36,980 My parents are here? 974 00:21:37,020 --> 00:21:37,881 Oh, yeah. 975 00:21:37,921 --> 00:21:39,980 Mom and Dad are here. 976 00:21:40,020 --> 00:21:41,073 Hi, Mom. Hi. 977 00:21:41,113 --> 00:21:42,980 Thank you for coming. 978 00:21:43,020 --> 00:21:44,123 I'm shocked 979 00:21:44,163 --> 00:21:45,980 to see my parents. 980 00:21:46,020 --> 00:21:47,986 - You look beautiful, Mom. 981 00:21:48,026 --> 00:21:48,980 - Hi, Mr. Ho. 982 00:21:49,020 --> 00:21:49,451 - Hello. 983 00:21:49,491 --> 00:21:50,980 - How are you doing today? 984 00:21:51,020 --> 00:21:51,265 - Hi. Hi. 985 00:21:51,305 --> 00:21:51,980 - Thank you for coming. 986 00:21:52,020 --> 00:21:53,158 - You look great. 987 00:21:53,198 --> 00:21:53,980 - Thank you. 988 00:21:54,020 --> 00:21:55,980 I love your tie. 989 00:21:56,020 --> 00:21:57,226 - Thank you. 990 00:21:57,266 --> 00:21:58,980 - JUDY: Yes. Yes. 991 00:21:59,020 --> 00:21:59,586 - HUE: Hi. 992 00:21:59,626 --> 00:22:00,980 - You look great today. 993 00:22:01,020 --> 00:22:01,693 - Oh, thank you. 994 00:22:01,733 --> 00:22:02,980 - JUDY: Can we get a picture? 995 00:22:03,020 --> 00:22:03,980 WOMAN: Yeah, let me get a photo. 996 00:22:04,020 --> 00:22:05,980 BINH: Yeah, do that. 997 00:22:06,020 --> 00:22:08,067 - NATE: They did show up. 998 00:22:08,107 --> 00:22:08,980 - They did. 999 00:22:09,020 --> 00:22:09,288 Woo. 1000 00:22:09,328 --> 00:22:11,000 At the end of the day, 1001 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:13,282 if I'm happy, I hope 1002 00:22:13,322 --> 00:22:15,000 that they're happy for me. 1003 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:16,332 - Very nice. 1004 00:22:16,372 --> 00:22:16,980 - You did surprise me. 1005 00:22:17,020 --> 00:22:18,534 - Do you like the party? 1006 00:22:18,574 --> 00:22:18,980 - Yeah. 1007 00:22:19,020 --> 00:22:20,986 - Nate planned everything. 1008 00:22:21,026 --> 00:22:21,980 - Impressive. 1009 00:22:22,020 --> 00:22:23,000 Thank you. 1010 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:26,595 - Do you want some champagne? 1011 00:22:26,635 --> 00:22:26,980 - Yeah. 1012 00:22:27,020 --> 00:22:27,545 - Okay. 1013 00:22:27,585 --> 00:22:28,980 - LESLEY: Hi, Dad. 1014 00:22:29,020 --> 00:22:29,818 AUNT TINA: Hey, 1015 00:22:29,858 --> 00:22:30,980 how are you, brother? 1016 00:22:31,020 --> 00:22:31,980 Did you see her boyfriend yet? 1017 00:22:32,020 --> 00:22:32,784 JUDY: Yes, 1018 00:22:32,824 --> 00:22:33,980 he already did. 1019 00:22:34,020 --> 00:22:35,486 He went to go get champagne 1020 00:22:35,526 --> 00:22:35,980 for them. 1021 00:22:36,020 --> 00:22:36,411 AUNT TINA: Oh, okay. 1022 00:22:36,451 --> 00:22:36,980 I talked to him, he's good. 1023 00:22:37,020 --> 00:22:38,298 He just wanna make sure 1024 00:22:38,338 --> 00:22:38,980 she's happy. 1025 00:22:39,020 --> 00:22:40,980 Did you shake his hand? 1026 00:22:41,020 --> 00:22:41,810 - Yeah, I did. 1027 00:22:41,850 --> 00:22:42,980 - JUDY: There he is. 1028 00:22:43,020 --> 00:22:44,054 - There you go. 1029 00:22:44,094 --> 00:22:44,980 - I told you. 1030 00:22:45,020 --> 00:22:45,578 - AUNT TINA: I know. I know. 1031 00:22:45,618 --> 00:22:46,758 - And look at that. 1032 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:47,565 - ALL: Cheers. 1033 00:22:47,605 --> 00:22:47,980 - To Judy. 1034 00:22:48,020 --> 00:22:49,099 - LESLEY: Happy birthday, Judy. 1035 00:22:49,139 --> 00:22:49,980 - WASHINGTON: To the Hos. 1036 00:22:50,020 --> 00:22:50,518 - And Nate. Woo. 1037 00:22:50,558 --> 00:22:50,980 - Mostly Judy. 1038 00:22:51,020 --> 00:22:52,426 - Come on. Mostly Judy. 1039 00:22:52,466 --> 00:22:53,980 - AUNT TINA: Rev up Nate. 1040 00:22:54,020 --> 00:22:55,801 - Ooh-hoo. I see the kiss. 1041 00:22:55,841 --> 00:22:56,980 - NATE: Love you. 1042 00:22:57,020 --> 00:22:57,800 - Love you. 1043 00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:58,980 - Love you, too. 1044 00:22:59,020 --> 00:23:02,000 [music] 1045 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,000 [speaking Vietnamese] 1046 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:11,980 Hey, everybody. 1047 00:23:12,020 --> 00:23:12,577 - Hello. 1048 00:23:12,617 --> 00:23:13,980 - What is going on? 1049 00:23:14,020 --> 00:23:14,347 Hello? 1050 00:23:14,387 --> 00:23:15,980 Can you guys hear anything? 1051 00:23:16,020 --> 00:23:17,056 - [microphone feedback] 1052 00:23:17,096 --> 00:23:17,980 - WOMAN: Right here. 1053 00:23:18,020 --> 00:23:18,742 - It's not working. 1054 00:23:18,782 --> 00:23:19,980 - Wait. Nate is doing a speech? 1055 00:23:20,020 --> 00:23:21,231 - [laughs] 1056 00:23:21,271 --> 00:23:23,980 - So thanks everybody. 1057 00:23:24,020 --> 00:23:25,980 [crowd cheering] 1058 00:23:26,020 --> 00:23:27,980 NATE: For coming down tonight 1059 00:23:28,020 --> 00:23:28,908 to celebrate 1060 00:23:28,948 --> 00:23:30,980 Judy's 40th birthday party. 1061 00:23:31,020 --> 00:23:33,980 [crowd cheering] 1062 00:23:34,020 --> 00:23:34,980 We tried to keep it small, 1063 00:23:35,020 --> 00:23:35,955 but I asked Wash 1064 00:23:35,995 --> 00:23:36,980 to help out so... 1065 00:23:37,020 --> 00:23:37,799 - [laughter] 1066 00:23:37,839 --> 00:23:39,980 - I know how there's 200 people. 1067 00:23:40,020 --> 00:23:41,030 - The more the merrier. 1068 00:23:41,070 --> 00:23:41,980 - NATE: Thanks, Wash. 1069 00:23:42,020 --> 00:23:43,464 - WASHINGTON: Hell, yeah, baby. 1070 00:23:43,504 --> 00:23:43,980 - Good job. 1071 00:23:44,020 --> 00:23:44,960 Actually, Wash, 1072 00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:46,980 is the person who introduced me 1073 00:23:47,020 --> 00:23:48,980 to Judy about 20 years ago. 1074 00:23:49,020 --> 00:23:50,194 He said, "Hey, you should try 1075 00:23:50,234 --> 00:23:50,980 to date my sister." 1076 00:23:51,020 --> 00:23:51,650 - Try. 1077 00:23:51,690 --> 00:23:52,980 - NATE: Try. 1078 00:23:53,020 --> 00:23:53,371 - Try. 1079 00:23:53,411 --> 00:23:54,980 - NATE: And then he said, 1080 00:23:55,020 --> 00:23:55,461 "Hey, here's Nate, 1081 00:23:55,501 --> 00:23:55,980 he's in med school." 1082 00:23:56,020 --> 00:23:57,604 And Judy said, 1083 00:23:57,644 --> 00:23:58,980 "Med school? 1084 00:23:59,020 --> 00:24:00,980 "That is not impressive. 1085 00:24:01,020 --> 00:24:01,560 "You should come back-- 1086 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:01,980 come back later." 1087 00:24:02,020 --> 00:24:02,980 [laughter] 1088 00:24:03,020 --> 00:24:03,825 So, you know, 1089 00:24:03,865 --> 00:24:04,980 a lot has happened 1090 00:24:05,020 --> 00:24:06,980 in the last 20 years. 1091 00:24:07,020 --> 00:24:07,700 We went on our first date 1092 00:24:07,740 --> 00:24:07,980 last year, 1093 00:24:08,020 --> 00:24:09,980 we talked for three hours, 1094 00:24:10,020 --> 00:24:11,561 and I didn't realize 1095 00:24:11,601 --> 00:24:12,980 that I was missing 1096 00:24:13,020 --> 00:24:13,980 anything in my life 1097 00:24:14,020 --> 00:24:16,236 until I had the three hours 1098 00:24:16,276 --> 00:24:16,980 with you. 1099 00:24:17,020 --> 00:24:18,881 And I think it took me 40 years 1100 00:24:18,921 --> 00:24:19,980 to get to know you 1101 00:24:20,020 --> 00:24:21,980 and have that first date. 1102 00:24:22,020 --> 00:24:23,538 I like to have another 40 years 1103 00:24:23,578 --> 00:24:23,980 with you. 1104 00:24:24,020 --> 00:24:28,000 [crowd cheering] 1105 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:34,000 NATE: So Judy... 1106 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,980 would you--would you marry me? 1107 00:24:39,020 --> 00:24:40,092 - Babe. 1108 00:24:40,132 --> 00:24:41,980 - Would you? 1109 00:24:42,020 --> 00:24:42,484 - Yes. 1110 00:24:42,524 --> 00:24:43,980 - NATE: Yes. Okay. 1111 00:24:44,020 --> 00:24:46,980 [crowd cheering] 1112 00:24:47,020 --> 00:24:47,980 Oh, my God. 1113 00:24:48,020 --> 00:24:48,777 I know. Your parents are gonna 1114 00:24:48,817 --> 00:24:49,317 kill me. 1115 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,708 I see their faces. I see their 1116 00:24:52,748 --> 00:24:53,980 faces already. 1117 00:24:54,020 --> 00:24:55,137 Oh my God. 1118 00:24:55,177 --> 00:24:56,980 Are you serious? 1119 00:24:57,020 --> 00:24:57,980 Fuck yeah. 1120 00:24:58,020 --> 00:24:59,980 I'm proud of you. 1121 00:25:00,020 --> 00:25:00,980 Oh. 1122 00:25:01,020 --> 00:25:03,000 Oh. 1123 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,000 LESLEY: I'm so happy for you. 1124 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:08,980 JUDY: It took a lot of courage 1125 00:25:09,020 --> 00:25:09,886 for Nate to do that 1126 00:25:09,926 --> 00:25:10,980 in front of my parents. 1127 00:25:11,020 --> 00:25:11,369 - Baby. 1128 00:25:11,409 --> 00:25:12,980 - JUDY: I think Nate doing it 1129 00:25:13,020 --> 00:25:14,980 in a very untraditional way 1130 00:25:15,020 --> 00:25:15,886 really proved to me 1131 00:25:15,926 --> 00:25:16,980 how much he supports me 1132 00:25:17,020 --> 00:25:17,692 in trying to gain 1133 00:25:17,732 --> 00:25:18,980 my independence from my family. 1134 00:25:19,020 --> 00:25:20,212 You really wanna be with me 1135 00:25:20,252 --> 00:25:20,980 another 40 years? 1136 00:25:21,020 --> 00:25:22,085 - I do. Oh, 1137 00:25:22,125 --> 00:25:22,980 - my God. 1138 00:25:23,020 --> 00:25:24,283 - AUNT TINA: Oh, my God. 1139 00:25:24,323 --> 00:25:24,980 - Oh, my God. 1140 00:25:25,020 --> 00:25:25,980 I love you. 1141 00:25:26,020 --> 00:25:26,980 Be careful what you wish for 1142 00:25:27,020 --> 00:25:28,980 because now I'm engaged 1143 00:25:29,020 --> 00:25:30,235 and this may have changed 1144 00:25:30,275 --> 00:25:30,980 my relationship 1145 00:25:31,020 --> 00:25:32,980 with my parents forever. 1146 00:25:33,020 --> 00:25:34,001 I'm still in shock. I can't 1147 00:25:34,041 --> 00:25:34,980 believe this is happening. 1148 00:25:35,020 --> 00:25:35,850 - NATE: Yeah. 1149 00:25:35,890 --> 00:25:36,980 - I can't believe 1150 00:25:37,020 --> 00:25:37,530 - this is my life. 1151 00:25:37,570 --> 00:25:38,470 - NATE: I know. 1152 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:39,638 AUNT TINA: I was surprised, 1153 00:25:39,678 --> 00:25:39,980 I was shocked, 1154 00:25:40,020 --> 00:25:41,402 but I am so happy 1155 00:25:41,442 --> 00:25:43,980 because she find her happiness. 1156 00:25:44,020 --> 00:25:45,980 Uh, yeah, I'm surprised. 1157 00:25:46,020 --> 00:25:46,724 - Are you surprised? 1158 00:25:46,764 --> 00:25:47,264 - Yeah. 1159 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:48,600 Too early. 1160 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:49,589 - She look happy. 1161 00:25:49,629 --> 00:25:50,289 - Oh, girl. 1162 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:51,256 - [laughs] 1163 00:25:51,296 --> 00:25:51,980 - AUNT TINA: Are you happy 1164 00:25:52,020 --> 00:25:52,674 - for her? 1165 00:25:52,714 --> 00:25:53,980 - I don't know yet. 1166 00:25:54,020 --> 00:25:55,980 I need to think about it. 1167 00:25:56,020 --> 00:25:56,224 LESLEY: 1168 00:25:56,264 --> 00:25:57,584 Welcome to the family. 1169 00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:58,544 Lesley and I--hey, 1170 00:25:58,584 --> 00:25:58,980 Lesley and I-- 1171 00:25:59,020 --> 00:26:00,320 I love having another doctor 1172 00:26:00,360 --> 00:26:00,980 in the family. 1173 00:26:01,020 --> 00:26:01,393 - --are so happy. 1174 00:26:01,433 --> 00:26:01,980 - AUNT TINA: Look at her. 1175 00:26:02,020 --> 00:26:02,951 She's smiling, 1176 00:26:02,991 --> 00:26:03,980 she's laughing. 1177 00:26:04,020 --> 00:26:04,763 - Yeah. 1178 00:26:04,803 --> 00:26:07,000 - AUNT TINA: Cheers. 1179 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,000 Happy Judy! 1180 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:13,402 Takes great courage to talk 1181 00:26:13,442 --> 00:26:14,980 in front of Binh Ho like that. 1182 00:26:15,020 --> 00:26:16,399 - I tried not to look at him. 1183 00:26:16,439 --> 00:26:16,980 - [laughter] 1184 00:26:17,020 --> 00:26:17,574 WASHINGTON: 1185 00:26:17,614 --> 00:26:18,980 I'm really happy for Judy, 1186 00:26:19,020 --> 00:26:20,612 but I'm not sure my family 1187 00:26:20,652 --> 00:26:22,000 is gonna survive this. 1188 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:22,960 Forty year birthday. 1189 00:26:23,000 --> 00:26:23,549 - Thank you. 1190 00:26:23,589 --> 00:26:24,980 - Thank you. I'm proud of you. 1191 00:26:25,020 --> 00:26:27,980 [laughs] Thank you very much. 1192 00:26:28,020 --> 00:26:29,001 BINH: Thank you. Thank you. 1193 00:26:29,041 --> 00:26:29,980 Okay. We'll see you later. 1194 00:26:30,020 --> 00:26:30,533 - JUDY: Bye. 1195 00:26:30,573 --> 00:26:30,980 - Bye-bye. 1196 00:26:31,020 --> 00:26:31,920 - LESLEY: Bye. 1197 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:32,980 - Give me a hug. 1198 00:26:33,020 --> 00:26:33,980 Hey, man. 1199 00:26:34,020 --> 00:26:34,980 I'm so concerned 1200 00:26:35,020 --> 00:26:38,598 about how this will affect 1201 00:26:38,638 --> 00:26:39,980 my father, 1202 00:26:40,020 --> 00:26:42,197 which will ultimately affect 1203 00:26:42,237 --> 00:26:42,980 my future. 1204 00:26:43,020 --> 00:26:43,940 Nate seized the moment 1205 00:26:43,980 --> 00:26:44,980 and that was the right-- 1206 00:26:45,020 --> 00:26:46,272 I think you should've asked 1207 00:26:46,312 --> 00:26:46,980 your dad first. 1208 00:26:47,020 --> 00:26:47,920 - I know but-- 1209 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:48,980 - That's not how 1210 00:26:49,020 --> 00:26:50,549 - us Asians do it. 1211 00:26:50,589 --> 00:26:51,000 - No. 1212 00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:53,033 But I still appreciate 1213 00:26:53,073 --> 00:26:53,980 that you always care 1214 00:26:54,020 --> 00:26:56,417 - about our parent's feelings. 1215 00:26:56,457 --> 00:26:56,980 - Yeah. 1216 00:26:57,020 --> 00:26:57,798 I think it's great 1217 00:26:57,838 --> 00:26:59,398 that Judy is on a journey. 1218 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:00,465 However, 1219 00:27:00,505 --> 00:27:01,980 I just think forcing Nate 1220 00:27:02,020 --> 00:27:04,403 onto the family so quickly 1221 00:27:04,443 --> 00:27:05,980 is disrespectful. 1222 00:27:06,020 --> 00:27:07,079 I'm getting all the love 1223 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:07,980 from you that I need 1224 00:27:08,020 --> 00:27:09,980 and Tina's in my face. 1225 00:27:10,020 --> 00:27:10,470 [laughs] 1226 00:27:10,510 --> 00:27:11,980 The last couple of months 1227 00:27:12,020 --> 00:27:12,736 have been a whirlwind 1228 00:27:12,776 --> 00:27:12,980 for us. 1229 00:27:13,020 --> 00:27:14,980 AUNT TINA: You're - 1230 00:27:15,020 --> 00:27:15,484 - I know I do. 1231 00:27:15,524 --> 00:27:15,980 - I'm focused. 1232 00:27:16,020 --> 00:27:17,079 - That's family for you. 1233 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:17,980 - Look, I'm focused. 1234 00:27:18,020 --> 00:27:18,919 - I don't even see her. 1235 00:27:18,959 --> 00:27:19,980 - LESLEY: Washington and I 1236 00:27:20,020 --> 00:27:21,586 - have gone through so much. 1237 00:27:21,626 --> 00:27:21,980 - Kiss. 1238 00:27:22,020 --> 00:27:23,980 But I was raised to understand 1239 00:27:24,020 --> 00:27:25,274 that a marriage 1240 00:27:25,314 --> 00:27:26,980 takes a lot of work. 1241 00:27:27,020 --> 00:27:28,633 I don't know what the future 1242 00:27:28,673 --> 00:27:29,980 holds, but I'm hopeful. 1243 00:27:30,020 --> 00:27:30,469 - I agree. 1244 00:27:30,509 --> 00:27:31,980 - I love you. Let's go have fun 1245 00:27:32,020 --> 00:27:33,183 - and party. 1246 00:27:33,223 --> 00:27:35,000 - Sounds exciting. 1247 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:36,980 It's like a dream. 1248 00:27:37,020 --> 00:27:37,910 I just never thought 1249 00:27:37,950 --> 00:27:38,980 it would really happen. 1250 00:27:39,020 --> 00:27:39,448 Are you happy now 1251 00:27:39,488 --> 00:27:39,980 that it's happening? 1252 00:27:40,020 --> 00:27:41,357 Like, is this everything 1253 00:27:41,397 --> 00:27:41,980 you wanted? 1254 00:27:42,020 --> 00:27:43,018 I mean, what more 1255 00:27:43,058 --> 00:27:43,980 could I ask for? 1256 00:27:44,020 --> 00:27:45,980 - I love you. 1257 00:27:46,020 --> 00:27:47,760 I'm glad you're happy though. 1258 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:48,600 I'm happy. 1259 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:50,980 Thank you... 1260 00:27:51,020 --> 00:27:53,980 ...for everything. 1261 00:27:54,020 --> 00:27:55,980 - I love you. 1262 00:27:56,020 --> 00:27:58,148 SINGER: ♪ I'll hold your 1263 00:27:58,188 --> 00:27:59,980 candle in the rain ♪ 1264 00:28:00,020 --> 00:28:01,980 ♪ The rain ♪ 1265 00:28:02,020 --> 00:28:03,980 ♪ Yeah ♪ 1266 00:28:04,020 --> 00:28:05,980 ♪ In the rain ♪ 1267 00:28:06,020 --> 00:28:07,980 ♪ The rain ♪ 1268 00:28:08,020 --> 00:28:09,980 ♪ The rain ♪ 1269 00:28:10,020 --> 00:28:13,736 ♪ I'll hold your candle 1270 00:28:13,776 --> 00:28:15,980 in the rain ♪ 1271 00:28:16,020 --> 00:28:17,254 ♪ Close your eyes 1272 00:28:17,294 --> 00:28:19,000 remember what you know ♪ 1273 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:22,980 ♪ Don't ever forget your glow ♪ 1274 00:28:23,020 --> 00:28:25,110 ♪ You can take my hand, 1275 00:28:25,150 --> 00:28:27,000 I'll lead you home ♪ 1276 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,980 ♪ And I'll never let you go ♪ 1277 00:28:31,020 --> 00:28:34,000 ♪ If lightning ever strikes ♪ 1278 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,980 ♪ If tears put out your flame ♪ 1279 00:28:38,020 --> 00:28:41,980 ♪ I'll be your burning light ♪ 1280 00:28:42,020 --> 00:28:43,609 ♪ I'll hold 1281 00:28:43,649 --> 00:28:46,980 your candle in the rain ♪ 1282 00:28:47,020 --> 00:28:49,980 ♪ The rain, yeah ♪ 1283 00:28:50,020 --> 00:28:52,980 ♪ In the rain ♪ 1284 00:28:53,020 --> 00:28:53,730 - ♪ The rain ♪ 1285 00:28:53,770 --> 00:28:54,980 - SINGER: ♪ Those nights ♪ 1286 00:28:55,020 --> 00:28:57,980 ♪ When shadows start to fall ♪ 1287 00:28:58,020 --> 00:28:59,617 ♪ And the angels 1288 00:28:59,657 --> 00:29:01,980 don't answer your call ♪ 1289 00:29:02,020 --> 00:29:05,319 ♪ I'll help you change 1290 00:29:05,359 --> 00:29:06,980 the dark ♪ 1291 00:29:07,020 --> 00:29:09,000 ♪ I'll... ♪