1 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:07,000 [music] 2 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:10,328 SINGER: 3 00:00:10,368 --> 00:00:11,980 ♪ Can't nobody hold me down ♪ 4 00:00:12,020 --> 00:00:13,334 ♪ I'm steady walking 5 00:00:13,374 --> 00:00:14,980 like I got three commas ♪ 6 00:00:15,020 --> 00:00:16,195 ♪ In my bank account, 7 00:00:16,235 --> 00:00:16,980 living loud ♪ 8 00:00:17,020 --> 00:00:18,980 ♪ So get your cameras out ♪ 9 00:00:19,020 --> 00:00:20,984 ♪ I probably do the same thing 10 00:00:21,024 --> 00:00:21,980 if I was you ♪ 11 00:00:22,020 --> 00:00:24,000 ♪ Looking at me now, now ♪ 12 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,980 ♪ Hmm, put up your lights ♪ 13 00:00:29,020 --> 00:00:32,980 ♪ And keep them flashin' ♪ 14 00:00:33,020 --> 00:00:35,682 ♪ Don't ever put them down, 15 00:00:35,722 --> 00:00:36,980 down, down ♪ 16 00:00:37,020 --> 00:00:38,340 ♪ Look at me now ♪ 17 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:39,601 ANNOUNCER: 18 00:00:39,641 --> 00:00:41,000 T-Ban now closing on - 19 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:48,980 SINGER: ♪ Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 20 00:00:49,020 --> 00:00:51,000 ♪ Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 21 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:52,281 ANNOUNCER: 22 00:00:52,321 --> 00:00:52,980 And look at Glory Bound 23 00:00:53,020 --> 00:00:54,980 against - it's a quick... 24 00:00:55,020 --> 00:00:56,980 SINGER: ♪ Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 25 00:00:57,020 --> 00:00:57,980 ♪ Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 26 00:00:58,020 --> 00:00:58,980 LESLEY HO: This is nice. 27 00:00:59,020 --> 00:00:59,317 Yeah. 28 00:00:59,357 --> 00:01:00,980 Honey, what do you think? 29 00:01:01,020 --> 00:01:02,046 - LESLEY: It's beautiful. 30 00:01:02,086 --> 00:01:02,980 - WASHINGTON HO: Yeah. 31 00:01:03,020 --> 00:01:03,523 - LESLEY: It's good. 32 00:01:03,563 --> 00:01:03,980 - WASHINGTON: Oh. 33 00:01:04,020 --> 00:01:04,422 LESLEY: 34 00:01:04,462 --> 00:01:05,980 I could tell Dad ordered. 35 00:01:06,020 --> 00:01:07,980 I ordered, but it was his Amex. 36 00:01:08,020 --> 00:01:08,686 - [laughter] 37 00:01:08,726 --> 00:01:10,046 - BINH HO: Lady first. 38 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:11,666 LESLEY: Just little piece. 39 00:01:11,706 --> 00:01:11,980 A small one. 40 00:01:12,020 --> 00:01:13,277 I'm not gonna give you 41 00:01:13,317 --> 00:01:13,980 a big piece, 42 00:01:14,020 --> 00:01:15,980 you think I want a fat wife? 43 00:01:16,020 --> 00:01:16,980 Shut up. 44 00:01:17,020 --> 00:01:18,097 TINA: Wash, you know, which-- 45 00:01:18,137 --> 00:01:18,980 what are you gonna bet? 46 00:01:19,020 --> 00:01:20,011 I always gonna bet 47 00:01:20,051 --> 00:01:20,980 on the long shot. 48 00:01:21,020 --> 00:01:21,910 I'm gonna show Sammy 49 00:01:21,950 --> 00:01:22,980 how to make some money, 50 00:01:23,020 --> 00:01:24,980 we're gonna down to the paddock. 51 00:01:25,020 --> 00:01:25,980 What's a paddock? 52 00:01:26,020 --> 00:01:27,248 You could see the horses 53 00:01:27,288 --> 00:01:27,980 in the stables 54 00:01:28,020 --> 00:01:29,639 and kind of get a good feel 55 00:01:29,679 --> 00:01:30,980 for the way they look, 56 00:01:31,020 --> 00:01:31,980 the way they act. 57 00:01:32,020 --> 00:01:32,958 It's the same way 58 00:01:32,998 --> 00:01:34,078 I found you, babe. 59 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:37,000 I didn't come from a paddock. 60 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:39,059 Sometimes Washington 61 00:01:39,099 --> 00:01:40,119 is just too much. 62 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:42,910 Give me--give me your hat, 63 00:01:42,950 --> 00:01:43,980 I think your hat is good luck. 64 00:01:44,020 --> 00:01:44,980 Maybe I'd bring some luck. 65 00:01:45,020 --> 00:01:45,441 WASHINGTON: Man, 66 00:01:45,481 --> 00:01:45,980 this has good luck. 67 00:01:46,020 --> 00:01:47,980 Whoo, whoo. 68 00:01:48,020 --> 00:01:49,370 Whoo, now you look Kentucky 69 00:01:49,410 --> 00:01:49,980 right there. 70 00:01:50,020 --> 00:01:50,671 Here we go. 71 00:01:50,711 --> 00:01:51,980 Let me take a selfie. 72 00:01:52,020 --> 00:01:52,968 I don't see a polka dot, 73 00:01:53,008 --> 00:01:53,980 put a polka dot in there, 74 00:01:54,020 --> 00:01:54,520 on top of that. 75 00:01:54,560 --> 00:01:55,340 There you go. 76 00:01:57,000 --> 00:01:58,058 There you go, you look good, 77 00:01:58,098 --> 00:01:59,538 good look, there you go. 78 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:00,644 - Man. 79 00:02:00,684 --> 00:02:03,000 - We make some money. 80 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:04,913 - Here's Don Perigon. 81 00:02:04,953 --> 00:02:05,980 - Hey, cheers everybody! 82 00:02:06,020 --> 00:02:07,386 - WASHINGTON: Cheers. 83 00:02:07,426 --> 00:02:07,980 - Cheers. 84 00:02:08,020 --> 00:02:08,757 The Ho are gonna be 85 00:02:08,797 --> 00:02:09,980 in the paddock for 10 minutes. 86 00:02:10,020 --> 00:02:11,487 We're gonna bet some money, 87 00:02:11,527 --> 00:02:12,980 and then win big win today. 88 00:02:13,020 --> 00:02:13,980 Can I bring my glass? 89 00:02:14,020 --> 00:02:14,634 WASHINGTON: Of course, 90 00:02:14,674 --> 00:02:14,980 you're a Ho. 91 00:02:15,020 --> 00:02:16,980 Do whatever you wanna do. 92 00:02:17,020 --> 00:02:20,980 [music] 93 00:02:21,020 --> 00:02:21,796 We got a bunch of, uh, 94 00:02:21,836 --> 00:02:23,756 three-old fillies in this today. 95 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:24,980 Which one will win today? 96 00:02:25,020 --> 00:02:25,980 I wanna make some money. 97 00:02:26,020 --> 00:02:27,980 I like the--I like the 10 horse, 98 00:02:28,020 --> 00:02:28,775 not the favorite that 99 00:02:28,815 --> 00:02:29,980 we're talking about with before, 100 00:02:30,020 --> 00:02:31,235 if you ask me, 75 you're not-- 101 00:02:31,275 --> 00:02:31,980 it's not big odds, 102 00:02:32,020 --> 00:02:32,442 you know, 103 00:02:32,482 --> 00:02:33,980 a little more than one to one. 104 00:02:34,020 --> 00:02:34,980 That's where my money is going. 105 00:02:35,020 --> 00:02:35,276 - All right. 106 00:02:35,316 --> 00:02:35,980 - MAN: Good luck today, guys. 107 00:02:36,020 --> 00:02:36,693 I'll make money, 108 00:02:36,733 --> 00:02:37,980 I'll remember you. All right? 109 00:02:38,020 --> 00:02:39,184 Number 10, all right, 110 00:02:39,224 --> 00:02:39,980 let's take it. 111 00:02:40,020 --> 00:02:41,064 I like it everywhere 112 00:02:41,104 --> 00:02:41,980 there's gambling. 113 00:02:42,020 --> 00:02:42,980 It must be Ho thing. 114 00:02:43,020 --> 00:02:43,980 It's in your blood. 115 00:02:44,020 --> 00:02:44,318 - I know. 116 00:02:44,358 --> 00:02:44,980 - It's a Ho blood. 117 00:02:45,020 --> 00:02:46,456 But mine is not as strong 118 00:02:46,496 --> 00:02:46,980 as yours. 119 00:02:47,020 --> 00:02:48,378 I know--yeah, you're not like, 120 00:02:48,418 --> 00:02:48,980 wanna show it 121 00:02:49,020 --> 00:02:50,195 but deep down inside 122 00:02:50,235 --> 00:02:50,980 you wanna be. 123 00:02:51,020 --> 00:02:51,797 JUDY HO: Reminds me of someone 124 00:02:51,837 --> 00:02:51,980 I know. 125 00:02:52,020 --> 00:02:53,980 Yeah. Washington. 126 00:02:54,020 --> 00:02:55,280 How are you and Wash? 127 00:02:58,000 --> 00:02:59,769 We kind of gotten 128 00:02:59,809 --> 00:03:02,000 to a little argument. 129 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:05,980 I think you guys know like 130 00:03:06,020 --> 00:03:09,176 that Wash has tried on and off 131 00:03:09,216 --> 00:03:11,000 to stop drinking. 132 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:12,896 When he drinks alcohol 133 00:03:12,936 --> 00:03:13,980 it turns him into somebody 134 00:03:14,020 --> 00:03:15,980 that I don't recognize, 135 00:03:16,020 --> 00:03:16,670 and sometimes 136 00:03:16,710 --> 00:03:17,980 it just gets out of hand. 137 00:03:18,020 --> 00:03:19,669 Admitting that you have 138 00:03:19,709 --> 00:03:20,980 an alcohol problem 139 00:03:21,020 --> 00:03:22,980 in our Asian culture is a taboo, 140 00:03:23,020 --> 00:03:24,121 but I'm afraid 141 00:03:24,161 --> 00:03:25,980 if I don't ask for help 142 00:03:26,020 --> 00:03:27,195 it's just gonna ruin 143 00:03:27,235 --> 00:03:27,980 our marriage. 144 00:03:28,020 --> 00:03:28,843 It's gonna ruin 145 00:03:28,883 --> 00:03:29,980 the family business. 146 00:03:30,020 --> 00:03:32,980 I think it could just break him. 147 00:03:33,020 --> 00:03:33,989 Washington and I 148 00:03:34,029 --> 00:03:34,980 haven't really-- 149 00:03:35,020 --> 00:03:36,522 we didn't really tell anybody, 150 00:03:36,562 --> 00:03:36,980 you know, 151 00:03:37,020 --> 00:03:37,515 because we thought 152 00:03:37,555 --> 00:03:37,980 we could keep it 153 00:03:38,020 --> 00:03:38,980 between the two of us, you know, 154 00:03:39,020 --> 00:03:41,653 but it's very clear that we need 155 00:03:41,693 --> 00:03:43,980 the family to get behind him 156 00:03:44,020 --> 00:03:44,687 also and know 157 00:03:44,727 --> 00:03:45,980 what's kind of going on. 158 00:03:46,020 --> 00:03:46,843 - Right. 159 00:03:46,883 --> 00:03:48,980 - Because, you know, 160 00:03:49,020 --> 00:03:50,605 Judy's lived with us 161 00:03:50,645 --> 00:03:52,000 and she's seen... 162 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:55,000 the way he was. 163 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:57,860 And he's been dealing with this 164 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:58,597 - for at least 20 years. 165 00:03:58,637 --> 00:03:59,537 - LESLEY: Yeah. 166 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:01,980 At least 20 years he's drinking. 167 00:04:02,020 --> 00:04:03,980 Yeah. 168 00:04:04,020 --> 00:04:04,494 There's a fine line between 169 00:04:04,534 --> 00:04:05,960 drinking to enjoy yourself 170 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:06,980 and taking it too far. 171 00:04:07,020 --> 00:04:07,927 And sometimes those lines 172 00:04:07,967 --> 00:04:09,647 were blurred for Washington, 173 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:10,900 a lot of times. 174 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:12,740 But my parents overlooked it. 175 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:13,980 I'm proud of Lesley. 176 00:04:14,020 --> 00:04:14,661 It's not easy bringing up 177 00:04:14,701 --> 00:04:15,421 these issues 178 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:16,980 in front of our family. 179 00:04:17,020 --> 00:04:18,744 It took me a long time 180 00:04:18,784 --> 00:04:20,980 to just accept it, you know, 181 00:04:21,020 --> 00:04:22,980 alcohol is a weakness for him. 182 00:04:23,020 --> 00:04:24,980 You know, it's okay. 183 00:04:25,020 --> 00:04:26,939 You know, you don't see 184 00:04:26,979 --> 00:04:28,980 Washington 10 years ago, 185 00:04:29,020 --> 00:04:31,094 this is a lot, lot change, 186 00:04:31,134 --> 00:04:31,980 big change. 187 00:04:32,020 --> 00:04:32,980 He's good. 188 00:04:33,020 --> 00:04:34,340 You're not in my shoes 189 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:35,630 and you haven't seen him 190 00:04:35,670 --> 00:04:36,450 at his worst. 191 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:37,946 Well, he's a little young, 192 00:04:37,986 --> 00:04:38,980 he's still a little playful. 193 00:04:39,020 --> 00:04:39,980 He's still playful. 194 00:04:40,020 --> 00:04:41,919 Lesley, we got to be 195 00:04:41,959 --> 00:04:42,980 a little Ho 196 00:04:43,020 --> 00:04:44,980 to deal with that Ho 197 00:04:45,020 --> 00:04:46,963 because you have the biggest Ho 198 00:04:47,003 --> 00:04:47,980 of my Ho family, 199 00:04:48,020 --> 00:04:49,219 you got to be like us 200 00:04:49,259 --> 00:04:49,980 a little bit, 201 00:04:50,020 --> 00:04:51,486 a little bit attitude, 202 00:04:51,526 --> 00:04:52,980 a little bit bullshit, 203 00:04:53,020 --> 00:04:54,328 so you can hang on to him, 204 00:04:54,368 --> 00:04:56,288 otherwise you're gonna lose him. 205 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:58,866 It took me a long time 206 00:04:58,906 --> 00:04:59,980 to accept it. 207 00:05:00,020 --> 00:05:02,000 You know, he's an alcoholic. 208 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:03,782 It's something 209 00:05:03,822 --> 00:05:05,082 that I can't control. 210 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,468 Do it--I know you're working, 211 00:05:11,508 --> 00:05:11,980 right? 212 00:05:12,020 --> 00:05:14,377 And you have the nanny 213 00:05:14,417 --> 00:05:16,980 to cook in the afternoon 214 00:05:17,020 --> 00:05:19,980 but to me Washington 215 00:05:20,020 --> 00:05:22,305 doesn't want to eat her food. 216 00:05:22,345 --> 00:05:23,980 You know that, right? 217 00:05:24,020 --> 00:05:26,135 When she cooks you should try 218 00:05:26,175 --> 00:05:27,980 to help her a little bit. 219 00:05:28,020 --> 00:05:29,445 make him happy, 220 00:05:29,485 --> 00:05:31,980 he'll come home, you know? 221 00:05:32,020 --> 00:05:36,000 [indistinct chatter] 222 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:38,259 JUDY: My mom's always believed 223 00:05:38,299 --> 00:05:38,980 that if the woman 224 00:05:39,020 --> 00:05:40,334 takes good enough care 225 00:05:40,374 --> 00:05:41,980 of her home and her husband 226 00:05:42,020 --> 00:05:43,716 then he has no need 227 00:05:43,756 --> 00:05:44,980 to have vices. 228 00:05:45,020 --> 00:05:46,090 So Lesley is to blame 229 00:05:46,130 --> 00:05:46,980 in my mom's eyes. 230 00:05:47,020 --> 00:05:47,738 She won't hold 231 00:05:47,778 --> 00:05:48,980 Washington accountable, 232 00:05:49,020 --> 00:05:50,980 it's always been that way. 233 00:05:51,020 --> 00:05:52,414 I need you guys 234 00:05:52,454 --> 00:05:54,980 to not make excuses for him 235 00:05:55,020 --> 00:05:56,760 and not say, "Oh, it's okay." 236 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:00,980 You know, so as a family 237 00:06:01,020 --> 00:06:03,143 I just think it's important 238 00:06:03,183 --> 00:06:04,980 that we all support him 239 00:06:05,020 --> 00:06:07,000 and keep him accountable, 240 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:08,844 and that's something 241 00:06:08,884 --> 00:06:09,980 that I can't do by myself. 242 00:06:10,020 --> 00:06:15,000 [music] 243 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:19,980 Come on, baby. 244 00:06:20,020 --> 00:06:22,000 Come on, baby, that's it. 245 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:24,980 Come on, baby, that's it. 246 00:06:25,020 --> 00:06:27,980 Oh, my God, go, go. 247 00:06:28,020 --> 00:06:29,980 [music] 248 00:06:30,020 --> 00:06:31,980 Oh, my God. 249 00:06:32,020 --> 00:06:34,041 Oh. The horse said, 250 00:06:34,081 --> 00:06:35,980 "Nope, not today." 251 00:06:36,020 --> 00:06:37,980 BINH: At least he got second. 252 00:06:38,020 --> 00:06:38,650 I don't like 253 00:06:38,690 --> 00:06:39,980 to be second place, Dad. 254 00:06:40,020 --> 00:06:41,000 [Binh laughs] 255 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:48,000 [music] 256 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:00,994 JUDY: Thanks for helping me 257 00:07:01,034 --> 00:07:01,980 put the girls' clothes up. 258 00:07:02,020 --> 00:07:02,634 - Of course. 259 00:07:02,674 --> 00:07:03,980 - We have so much clothes 260 00:07:04,020 --> 00:07:04,963 it's gonna take forever 261 00:07:05,003 --> 00:07:05,980 to get the closet ready. 262 00:07:06,020 --> 00:07:06,980 I know. 263 00:07:07,020 --> 00:07:07,468 And look, 264 00:07:07,508 --> 00:07:08,980 maybe we can pass it on to-- 265 00:07:09,020 --> 00:07:09,439 - Lincoln. 266 00:07:09,479 --> 00:07:09,980 - --Lincoln. 267 00:07:10,020 --> 00:07:10,980 Yup. 268 00:07:11,020 --> 00:07:11,849 This has a stain on it, 269 00:07:11,889 --> 00:07:12,980 you still wanna keep it or no? 270 00:07:13,020 --> 00:07:14,100 No. Throw it away. 271 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:15,980 We should do a girls' night, 272 00:07:16,020 --> 00:07:16,449 - me and you. 273 00:07:16,489 --> 00:07:16,980 - I don't know. 274 00:07:17,020 --> 00:07:17,980 What do you mean you don't know? 275 00:07:18,020 --> 00:07:19,980 I'm so tired, Judy. 276 00:07:20,020 --> 00:07:20,449 I know you're tired 277 00:07:20,489 --> 00:07:20,980 but you need to, like, 278 00:07:21,020 --> 00:07:21,880 let off some steam 279 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:22,980 and, like, live it up. 280 00:07:23,020 --> 00:07:25,216 You're always like stressed out, 281 00:07:25,256 --> 00:07:25,980 so anxious, 282 00:07:26,020 --> 00:07:26,735 I could feel it 283 00:07:26,775 --> 00:07:27,980 coming out of your pores. 284 00:07:28,020 --> 00:07:28,777 - Is it contagious? 285 00:07:28,817 --> 00:07:29,317 - No. 286 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:30,721 I have enough 287 00:07:30,761 --> 00:07:31,980 to guard against that. 288 00:07:32,020 --> 00:07:32,980 You don't wanna do girls' night? 289 00:07:33,020 --> 00:07:34,517 - The boys are hunting. 290 00:07:34,557 --> 00:07:35,000 - Yeah. 291 00:07:34,557 --> 00:07:35,980 for us to go. 292 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:36,020 So that's the perfect time 293 00:07:36,020 --> 00:07:37,723 - And I'm not working. 294 00:07:37,763 --> 00:07:39,000 - We can go out. 295 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:39,000 I don't know. 296 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:39,020 I have to-- 297 00:07:39,020 --> 00:07:40,980 Fun Lesley would come back out. 298 00:07:41,020 --> 00:07:41,980 Fun Lesley, Mrs. Fun Judy. 299 00:07:42,020 --> 00:07:43,980 Oh, Fun Judy is always here. 300 00:07:44,020 --> 00:07:44,908 We can go somewhere 301 00:07:44,948 --> 00:07:45,980 at River Oaks District 302 00:07:46,020 --> 00:07:46,989 and Le Colonial, 303 00:07:47,029 --> 00:07:48,000 our usual spots. 304 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:49,341 - I know but-- 305 00:07:49,381 --> 00:07:49,980 - What else would you do? 306 00:07:50,020 --> 00:07:51,008 - Embrace some duties? 307 00:07:51,048 --> 00:07:51,980 - That does sound fun 308 00:07:52,020 --> 00:07:52,625 but I have to call Wash though 309 00:07:52,665 --> 00:07:53,685 and let him know. 310 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:54,836 How about we not talk 311 00:07:54,876 --> 00:07:55,980 about Washington that night? 312 00:07:56,020 --> 00:07:56,431 What do you look 313 00:07:56,471 --> 00:07:56,980 so nervous about it? 314 00:07:57,020 --> 00:07:57,980 I'm nervous going out with you. 315 00:07:58,020 --> 00:07:59,452 Why? You're gonna have 316 00:07:59,492 --> 00:08:00,980 a good time, I promise. 317 00:08:01,020 --> 00:08:01,980 It's like to babysit another Ho. 318 00:08:02,020 --> 00:08:03,980 Oh, did you babysit me? 319 00:08:04,020 --> 00:08:04,893 Because you threw up 320 00:08:04,933 --> 00:08:05,980 in the side of my house. 321 00:08:06,020 --> 00:08:06,980 Oh, I threw up, 322 00:08:07,020 --> 00:08:08,373 - that's right, I forgot. 323 00:08:08,413 --> 00:08:08,980 - Yes. Yes. 324 00:08:09,020 --> 00:08:10,691 I don't remember much 325 00:08:10,731 --> 00:08:11,980 from that night. 326 00:08:12,020 --> 00:08:15,000 [music] 327 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:24,230 WASHINGTON: You came 328 00:08:24,270 --> 00:08:25,980 from Vietnam, you, your mom. 329 00:08:26,020 --> 00:08:26,699 - BINH: Uh-hmm. 330 00:08:26,739 --> 00:08:27,980 - You lived in one bedroom? 331 00:08:28,020 --> 00:08:30,125 I don't know how y'all did that 332 00:08:30,165 --> 00:08:31,980 without killing each other. 333 00:08:32,020 --> 00:08:33,735 I don't wanna think it back, 334 00:08:33,775 --> 00:08:33,980 man. 335 00:08:34,020 --> 00:08:35,980 Too many struggles. 336 00:08:36,020 --> 00:08:37,604 Did Mom believe you would be 337 00:08:37,644 --> 00:08:38,980 rich one day in America? 338 00:08:39,020 --> 00:08:40,980 No. 339 00:08:41,020 --> 00:08:42,616 Sometimes your wife 340 00:08:42,656 --> 00:08:43,980 don't trust you, 341 00:08:44,020 --> 00:08:44,980 don't believe in you, 342 00:08:45,020 --> 00:08:46,899 but that doesn't mean 343 00:08:46,939 --> 00:08:47,980 you give up. 344 00:08:48,020 --> 00:08:48,980 Uh-hmm. 345 00:08:49,020 --> 00:08:50,446 You think that's right what 346 00:08:50,486 --> 00:08:50,980 you're do, 347 00:08:51,020 --> 00:08:51,980 do it. 348 00:08:52,020 --> 00:08:53,379 When I was growing up I saw 349 00:08:53,419 --> 00:08:54,980 how supportive Mom was for you. 350 00:08:55,020 --> 00:08:56,801 Like I saw how she handled 351 00:08:56,841 --> 00:08:57,980 the little things 352 00:08:58,020 --> 00:08:59,820 so you could do the big stuff. 353 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:01,085 And I'm trying to make 354 00:09:01,125 --> 00:09:01,980 my wife like that. 355 00:09:02,020 --> 00:09:02,980 OK. 356 00:09:03,020 --> 00:09:03,666 - You finished? 357 00:09:03,706 --> 00:09:03,980 - Yeah. 358 00:09:04,020 --> 00:09:04,980 Let me talk. 359 00:09:05,020 --> 00:09:06,283 You born and raised in the 360 00:09:06,323 --> 00:09:06,980 United Stated. 361 00:09:07,020 --> 00:09:07,484 - Okay. 362 00:09:07,524 --> 00:09:08,980 - But in your mind... 363 00:09:09,020 --> 00:09:12,000 you're still a Vietnamese boy. 364 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,856 In 1975 my wife left Vietnam 365 00:09:15,896 --> 00:09:17,000 in the boat 366 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:21,363 and your wife's born and raised 367 00:09:21,403 --> 00:09:22,980 in the United States. 368 00:09:23,020 --> 00:09:24,956 She got a high degree 369 00:09:24,996 --> 00:09:25,980 in college. 370 00:09:26,020 --> 00:09:26,980 Her knowledge is different. 371 00:09:27,020 --> 00:09:28,980 My wife, she had no choice. 372 00:09:29,020 --> 00:09:29,980 But your wife had a choice. 373 00:09:30,020 --> 00:09:31,980 So you cannot compare. 374 00:09:32,020 --> 00:09:33,011 She's working now, 375 00:09:33,051 --> 00:09:33,980 she's doing good. 376 00:09:34,020 --> 00:09:35,880 You need to go different 377 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:36,980 kind of level. 378 00:09:37,020 --> 00:09:37,980 Build a trust in your wife. 379 00:09:38,020 --> 00:09:39,485 Equal eye with you 380 00:09:39,525 --> 00:09:40,980 like your partner, 381 00:09:41,020 --> 00:09:42,986 I guarantee you she will 382 00:09:43,026 --> 00:09:44,000 respect you. 383 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:47,067 Yeah. I wish Reagan 384 00:09:47,107 --> 00:09:48,067 was here on time 385 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:49,567 so he could hear all 386 00:09:49,607 --> 00:09:49,980 these lessons. 387 00:09:50,020 --> 00:09:52,980 Reagan's my younger brother, 388 00:09:53,020 --> 00:09:55,000 he's totally different from me. 389 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:58,980 Reagan is a straight shooter. 390 00:09:59,020 --> 00:09:59,922 He doesn't really care 391 00:09:59,962 --> 00:10:01,462 what anybody else thinks, 392 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:03,980 especially our parents. 393 00:10:04,020 --> 00:10:05,980 When Reagan rolls in 394 00:10:06,020 --> 00:10:08,980 there's going to be an argument. 395 00:10:09,020 --> 00:10:10,980 There's going to be a debate. 396 00:10:11,020 --> 00:10:13,000 It just brings... 397 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:15,470 a different kind of energy 398 00:10:15,510 --> 00:10:16,050 in a way. 399 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:17,980 Did he text you? 400 00:10:18,020 --> 00:10:19,980 He said he'll pick us up. 401 00:10:20,020 --> 00:10:21,980 All right. That's fine. 402 00:10:22,020 --> 00:10:23,298 Tomorrow in the morning 403 00:10:23,338 --> 00:10:23,980 for hunting. 404 00:10:24,020 --> 00:10:24,907 - Huh? 405 00:10:24,947 --> 00:10:25,980 - Yeah. 406 00:10:26,020 --> 00:10:29,000 Oh, that Reagan is Reagan. 407 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:30,980 Yeah. 408 00:10:31,020 --> 00:10:34,000 [music] 409 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:41,160 SINGER: ♪ Hey, ho, ready to go ♪ 410 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:43,980 ♪ In my white tuxedo ♪ 411 00:10:44,020 --> 00:10:44,980 So what do you think the dress? 412 00:10:45,020 --> 00:10:46,267 - Oh, I like it. 413 00:10:46,307 --> 00:10:46,980 - You do? 414 00:10:47,020 --> 00:10:47,790 - You know why I like it? 415 00:10:47,830 --> 00:10:47,980 - Why? 416 00:10:48,020 --> 00:10:49,980 Because it's so not your usual. 417 00:10:50,020 --> 00:10:50,980 I know. 418 00:10:51,020 --> 00:10:52,549 - I took what you said to heart. 419 00:10:52,589 --> 00:10:52,980 - Uh-hmm. 420 00:10:53,020 --> 00:10:55,000 And look how fabulous you look. 421 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:56,980 Oh, my gosh, I'm so excited. 422 00:10:57,020 --> 00:10:57,495 SINGER: 423 00:10:57,535 --> 00:10:59,980 ♪ Gonna take you out tonight ♪ 424 00:11:00,020 --> 00:11:01,514 ♪ Let me show you naughty 425 00:11:01,554 --> 00:11:02,980 is nice with a hey, ho ♪ 426 00:11:03,020 --> 00:11:04,604 ♪ Ready to go 427 00:11:04,644 --> 00:11:06,980 in my white tuxedo ♪ 428 00:11:07,020 --> 00:11:08,153 ♪ Gonna walk 429 00:11:08,193 --> 00:11:09,980 like stars tonight ♪ 430 00:11:10,020 --> 00:11:10,377 ♪ Stepping out 431 00:11:10,417 --> 00:11:10,980 on Hollywood and vine ♪ 432 00:11:11,020 --> 00:11:12,443 ♪ With a hey, ho 433 00:11:12,483 --> 00:11:13,980 I'm ready to go ♪ 434 00:11:14,020 --> 00:11:14,980 ♪ In my white tuxedo ♪ 435 00:11:15,020 --> 00:11:16,980 Hey, ladies. 436 00:11:17,020 --> 00:11:17,910 - Oh, hey, hey guys. 437 00:11:17,950 --> 00:11:19,330 - Good to see you guys. 438 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:20,980 Oh, how are you? 439 00:11:21,020 --> 00:11:22,280 Hi, long time no see. 440 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:23,428 - Oh, you look great. 441 00:11:23,468 --> 00:11:23,980 - They started without us. 442 00:11:24,020 --> 00:11:24,980 CHRISTINE: Yeah. My bad. 443 00:11:25,020 --> 00:11:26,980 Let's go get a drink. Okay. 444 00:11:27,020 --> 00:11:28,980 Catch up. What do you guys want? 445 00:11:29,020 --> 00:11:29,672 - I'm doing vodka tonight. 446 00:11:29,712 --> 00:11:29,980 - Champagne. 447 00:11:30,020 --> 00:11:32,000 Something like girly and flirty. 448 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:33,187 ANGELA: 449 00:11:33,227 --> 00:11:33,980 Any cocktails to start off? 450 00:11:34,020 --> 00:11:35,266 Can I get something that 451 00:11:35,306 --> 00:11:36,980 has tequila in it in but fruity? 452 00:11:37,020 --> 00:11:37,305 - Got it. 453 00:11:37,345 --> 00:11:37,980 - I'll have a glass 454 00:11:38,020 --> 00:11:39,980 of champagne. 455 00:11:40,020 --> 00:11:40,371 - Thank you. 456 00:11:40,411 --> 00:11:40,980 - Can you also send 457 00:11:41,020 --> 00:11:41,957 four tequila shots 458 00:11:41,997 --> 00:11:42,980 with orange slices? 459 00:11:43,020 --> 00:11:44,980 Oh, wow. 460 00:11:45,020 --> 00:11:45,980 CHRISTINE: Everybody looks nice. 461 00:11:46,020 --> 00:11:46,774 - Party's getting started. 462 00:11:46,814 --> 00:11:46,980 - Yeah. 463 00:11:47,020 --> 00:11:49,980 No husbands, no kids. 464 00:11:50,020 --> 00:11:50,797 LESLEY: You know, 465 00:11:50,837 --> 00:11:51,980 I don't go out that much, 466 00:11:52,020 --> 00:11:53,233 so I'm so ready 467 00:11:53,273 --> 00:11:54,980 for girls' night out, 468 00:11:55,020 --> 00:11:56,980 I definitely deserve this. 469 00:11:57,020 --> 00:11:57,611 - Okay. Cheers. 470 00:11:57,651 --> 00:11:57,980 - Cheers. 471 00:11:58,020 --> 00:11:59,110 - Cheers. 472 00:11:59,150 --> 00:12:01,000 - Cheers, guys. 473 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:02,604 - Oh. 474 00:12:02,644 --> 00:12:03,980 - Okay. No. 475 00:12:04,020 --> 00:12:04,980 Okay. 476 00:12:05,020 --> 00:12:06,049 You need to drink 477 00:12:06,089 --> 00:12:06,980 more than that. 478 00:12:07,020 --> 00:12:07,887 I'm not like my brother, 479 00:12:07,927 --> 00:12:08,980 I ain't giving it in paper... 480 00:12:09,020 --> 00:12:10,573 You're so like your brother. 481 00:12:10,613 --> 00:12:11,980 I've seen the Ho in Judy. 482 00:12:12,020 --> 00:12:13,107 ANGELA: You are nothing 483 00:12:13,147 --> 00:12:13,980 like your brother. 484 00:12:14,020 --> 00:12:14,987 Thank you. That is the best 485 00:12:15,027 --> 00:12:15,980 compliment I've ever heard. 486 00:12:16,020 --> 00:12:16,987 You haven't seen her out, 487 00:12:17,027 --> 00:12:17,980 you haven't seen her out. 488 00:12:18,020 --> 00:12:18,722 I've known him 489 00:12:18,762 --> 00:12:19,980 since elementary school. 490 00:12:20,020 --> 00:12:20,900 When people say like, 491 00:12:20,940 --> 00:12:21,980 "I didn't know Washington 492 00:12:22,020 --> 00:12:22,344 "had a sister, 493 00:12:22,384 --> 00:12:22,980 you're nothing like him," 494 00:12:23,020 --> 00:12:24,340 I'm like, "Thank you." 495 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:26,098 I remember his first car 496 00:12:26,138 --> 00:12:26,980 was like a Porsche. 497 00:12:27,020 --> 00:12:27,422 I guess 498 00:12:27,462 --> 00:12:28,980 he got really drunk and-- 499 00:12:29,020 --> 00:12:30,352 - JUDY: Got the car wreck? 500 00:12:30,392 --> 00:12:30,980 - And--yeah. 501 00:12:31,020 --> 00:12:31,987 And it's car wreck but like 502 00:12:32,027 --> 00:12:32,980 in his boxers or something. 503 00:12:33,020 --> 00:12:34,149 Let's get you out of jail 504 00:12:34,189 --> 00:12:34,980 dressed like that. 505 00:12:35,020 --> 00:12:35,204 - Yes. 506 00:12:35,244 --> 00:12:36,504 - Well, that's enough 507 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:37,980 husband talks, 508 00:12:38,020 --> 00:12:38,980 Nate doesn't count. 509 00:12:39,020 --> 00:12:39,377 - CHRISTINE: Oh. 510 00:12:39,417 --> 00:12:40,917 - He's not a husband yet. 511 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:41,980 We're gonna bring him around. 512 00:12:42,020 --> 00:12:42,968 - I haven't decided yet. 513 00:12:43,008 --> 00:12:43,980 - ANGELA: Take your time. 514 00:12:44,020 --> 00:12:45,243 - Do your parents know him? 515 00:12:45,283 --> 00:12:45,980 - No--they know, 516 00:12:46,020 --> 00:12:47,880 I mean I brought it up to them, 517 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:48,854 but they're not even like 518 00:12:48,894 --> 00:12:49,980 over the fact that I'm divorced. 519 00:12:50,020 --> 00:12:50,301 - Okay. 520 00:12:50,341 --> 00:12:50,980 - Yeah. I know. 521 00:12:51,020 --> 00:12:51,285 JUDY: 522 00:12:51,325 --> 00:12:52,980 They're old-school catholic. 523 00:12:53,020 --> 00:12:54,542 - This is like frowned upon. 524 00:12:54,582 --> 00:12:55,980 - It's that cultural shift 525 00:12:56,020 --> 00:12:57,543 from our parents' generation 526 00:12:57,583 --> 00:12:57,980 to ours. 527 00:12:58,020 --> 00:12:59,001 I feel like we kind of have 528 00:12:59,041 --> 00:12:59,980 to push in that direction, 529 00:13:00,020 --> 00:13:00,486 - you know what I mean? 530 00:13:00,526 --> 00:13:01,906 - ANGELA: A little bit. 531 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:02,118 Yeah. 532 00:13:02,158 --> 00:13:02,980 Or just sleep in separate rooms 533 00:13:03,020 --> 00:13:04,174 for the rest of your life 534 00:13:04,214 --> 00:13:04,980 and stay married. 535 00:13:05,020 --> 00:13:05,693 - That's insane. 536 00:13:05,733 --> 00:13:06,980 - ANGELA: They're generation, 537 00:13:07,020 --> 00:13:07,860 - there wasn't a divorce. 538 00:13:07,900 --> 00:13:08,980 - CHRISTINE: Do it for the kids. 539 00:13:09,020 --> 00:13:09,980 - For the kids. 540 00:13:10,020 --> 00:13:11,980 The Judy at 22 would have never 541 00:13:12,020 --> 00:13:13,410 envisioned my life would be here 542 00:13:13,450 --> 00:13:13,980 but now at 39 543 00:13:14,020 --> 00:13:15,980 I'm not afraid of it anymore. 544 00:13:16,020 --> 00:13:17,462 I have a lot more confidence 545 00:13:17,502 --> 00:13:17,980 in myself. 546 00:13:18,020 --> 00:13:19,291 I have a lot more faith 547 00:13:19,331 --> 00:13:20,980 that things are gonna work out 548 00:13:21,020 --> 00:13:22,122 the way that I envisioned 549 00:13:22,162 --> 00:13:22,980 and not necessarily 550 00:13:23,020 --> 00:13:24,980 having everyone around me 551 00:13:25,020 --> 00:13:25,586 pushing me 552 00:13:25,626 --> 00:13:26,980 in a certain direction. 553 00:13:27,020 --> 00:13:27,706 I told my parents 554 00:13:27,746 --> 00:13:28,980 I would hate for them to think 555 00:13:29,020 --> 00:13:30,980 this is how a marriage operates 556 00:13:31,020 --> 00:13:32,980 and when I grow up, you know, 557 00:13:33,020 --> 00:13:33,985 this is what I have 558 00:13:34,025 --> 00:13:34,980 to look forward to, 559 00:13:35,020 --> 00:13:35,706 - you know what I mean? 560 00:13:35,746 --> 00:13:35,980 - Exactly 561 00:13:36,020 --> 00:13:36,986 because you also set 562 00:13:37,026 --> 00:13:37,980 the example for what 563 00:13:38,020 --> 00:13:39,980 they are willing to take-- 564 00:13:40,020 --> 00:13:40,611 - JUDY: Yes. 565 00:13:40,651 --> 00:13:41,980 - --in their relationships 566 00:13:42,020 --> 00:13:42,967 - as they get older, right? 567 00:13:43,007 --> 00:13:43,980 - It sets their expectations 568 00:13:44,020 --> 00:13:44,362 for marriage 569 00:13:44,402 --> 00:13:44,980 for them growing up. 570 00:13:45,020 --> 00:13:45,470 - Right. 571 00:13:45,510 --> 00:13:46,980 - Do what makes you happy 572 00:13:47,020 --> 00:13:48,820 and what would--but what would 573 00:13:48,860 --> 00:13:49,980 flex for your kids. 574 00:13:50,020 --> 00:13:51,980 I 100% agree with that. 575 00:13:52,020 --> 00:13:53,852 She said there was love 576 00:13:53,892 --> 00:13:54,980 the other day. 577 00:13:55,020 --> 00:13:56,319 Like love, you know, 578 00:13:56,359 --> 00:13:57,980 right, that's a big word. 579 00:13:58,020 --> 00:13:59,364 - That's a big word. 580 00:13:59,404 --> 00:13:59,980 - I know. 581 00:14:00,020 --> 00:14:01,980 I feel like I'm in junior high. 582 00:14:02,020 --> 00:14:04,980 What is this? What is this? 583 00:14:05,020 --> 00:14:05,980 I've already named him. 584 00:14:06,020 --> 00:14:06,705 - CHRISTINE: What? 585 00:14:06,745 --> 00:14:06,980 - Nudy. 586 00:14:07,020 --> 00:14:08,980 [laughter] 587 00:14:09,020 --> 00:14:09,722 - What? 588 00:14:09,762 --> 00:14:10,980 - Team Nudy. 589 00:14:11,020 --> 00:14:11,461 Like Jennifer, you know, 590 00:14:11,501 --> 00:14:12,960 how they combine the names, 591 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:14,099 - Nudy, I'm like oh my gosh. 592 00:14:14,139 --> 00:14:14,980 - I've seen Nudy, too, 593 00:14:15,020 --> 00:14:16,246 - cheers to that. 594 00:14:16,286 --> 00:14:16,980 - To Nudy. 595 00:14:17,020 --> 00:14:19,000 CHRISTINE: To Nudy. 596 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:26,000 [music] 597 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:28,834 REAGAN HO: Wash, when's 598 00:14:28,874 --> 00:14:29,980 the last time you duck hunting? 599 00:14:30,020 --> 00:14:30,619 - I can't remember. 600 00:14:30,659 --> 00:14:30,980 - With you, 601 00:14:31,020 --> 00:14:32,013 like ten years ago, 602 00:14:32,053 --> 00:14:32,980 or five years ago. 603 00:14:33,020 --> 00:14:33,980 Has it been that long for you? 604 00:14:34,020 --> 00:14:36,319 I never go with anybody else 605 00:14:36,359 --> 00:14:36,980 but you. 606 00:14:37,020 --> 00:14:38,891 Yeah, last time we hunt in 607 00:14:38,931 --> 00:14:39,980 Corpus Christi. 608 00:14:40,020 --> 00:14:40,662 - Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah. 609 00:14:40,702 --> 00:14:40,980 - Remember? 610 00:14:41,020 --> 00:14:43,445 - That was like three years ago. 611 00:14:43,485 --> 00:14:43,980 - Yeah. 612 00:14:44,020 --> 00:14:45,373 The reason I'm doing this 613 00:14:45,413 --> 00:14:45,980 because Mom 614 00:14:46,020 --> 00:14:47,980 gave me the supermom guilt trip. 615 00:14:48,020 --> 00:14:49,013 - WASHINGTON: What? 616 00:14:49,053 --> 00:14:49,980 - For days on end. 617 00:14:50,020 --> 00:14:50,470 She said 618 00:14:50,510 --> 00:14:51,980 you're doing this for me. 619 00:14:52,020 --> 00:14:53,000 My God, no. 620 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:54,980 Don't fuck with me, Reagan. 621 00:14:55,020 --> 00:14:56,980 [Reagan laughs] 622 00:14:57,020 --> 00:14:58,820 I'm your fuckin older brother. 623 00:14:59,000 --> 00:14:59,435 Do you remember 624 00:14:59,475 --> 00:14:59,980 the Asian culture? 625 00:15:00,020 --> 00:15:01,980 This ain't Asia. [laughs] 626 00:15:02,020 --> 00:15:03,185 Reagan doesn't like to show up 627 00:15:03,225 --> 00:15:03,980 to family gatherings 628 00:15:04,020 --> 00:15:05,748 and we--there's nothing 629 00:15:05,788 --> 00:15:07,980 we can do about it, you know, 630 00:15:08,020 --> 00:15:09,980 it's become to a point where 631 00:15:10,020 --> 00:15:11,516 we feel like we pressure 632 00:15:11,556 --> 00:15:12,980 him too much, too much, 633 00:15:13,020 --> 00:15:13,980 just keep going further away. 634 00:15:14,020 --> 00:15:15,980 Hello? What the fuck 635 00:15:16,020 --> 00:15:16,415 are you wearing 636 00:15:16,455 --> 00:15:16,980 the alligator boots? 637 00:15:17,020 --> 00:15:18,980 Look at these gators, all right? 638 00:15:19,020 --> 00:15:19,612 These boots 639 00:15:19,652 --> 00:15:20,980 are only ten grand, man. 640 00:15:21,020 --> 00:15:21,936 This fucker's wearing 641 00:15:21,976 --> 00:15:22,980 gator boots in the mud. 642 00:15:23,020 --> 00:15:25,000 All right. Here we go. 643 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,000 [music] 644 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:44,980 WASHINGTON: Coming in 6:00. 645 00:15:45,020 --> 00:15:46,980 [gunshots] 646 00:15:47,020 --> 00:15:48,122 - REAGAN: Did you get it? 647 00:15:48,162 --> 00:15:48,980 - I don't think so. 648 00:15:49,020 --> 00:15:50,276 WASHINGTON: I don't think so, 649 00:15:50,316 --> 00:15:51,276 either. [laughs] 650 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:58,349 - There's some ducks that way. 651 00:15:58,389 --> 00:15:58,980 - Where? 652 00:15:59,020 --> 00:15:59,980 - Over here. 653 00:16:00,020 --> 00:16:01,980 So the other day, Reagan, 654 00:16:02,020 --> 00:16:03,687 I found out the other guy 655 00:16:03,727 --> 00:16:04,980 that Judy's dating, 656 00:16:05,020 --> 00:16:06,617 somebody that, uh, 657 00:16:06,657 --> 00:16:08,980 you might remember, Mason. 658 00:16:09,020 --> 00:16:09,204 - Uh-huh. 659 00:16:09,244 --> 00:16:09,980 - And you know, I wanted to give 660 00:16:10,020 --> 00:16:12,980 Judy permission to date him. 661 00:16:13,020 --> 00:16:13,896 Nobody needs your damn 662 00:16:13,936 --> 00:16:14,980 permission to do anything. 663 00:16:15,020 --> 00:16:16,277 What if she was dating 664 00:16:16,317 --> 00:16:16,980 a shitty guy 665 00:16:17,020 --> 00:16:18,740 that you didn't like, 666 00:16:18,780 --> 00:16:19,980 you don't care? 667 00:16:20,020 --> 00:16:21,127 Caring is one thing, 668 00:16:21,167 --> 00:16:21,980 it doesn't mean 669 00:16:22,020 --> 00:16:22,980 they need your permission. 670 00:16:23,020 --> 00:16:24,980 What do you think, Dad? 671 00:16:25,020 --> 00:16:26,602 Just one request, and I think 672 00:16:26,642 --> 00:16:27,980 it's fair and reasonable. 673 00:16:28,020 --> 00:16:29,980 What request? 674 00:16:30,020 --> 00:16:30,774 Um, I request 675 00:16:30,814 --> 00:16:31,980 I wanna meet the guy 676 00:16:32,020 --> 00:16:34,980 and see, uh, how he is. 677 00:16:35,020 --> 00:16:36,980 Is she gonna set that up? 678 00:16:37,020 --> 00:16:37,980 What's the rush? 679 00:16:38,020 --> 00:16:39,646 Dad doesn't have time 680 00:16:39,686 --> 00:16:40,980 to waste anymore, 681 00:16:41,020 --> 00:16:42,980 and neither does Judy. 682 00:16:43,020 --> 00:16:44,334 Whenever they're ready 683 00:16:44,374 --> 00:16:45,980 to meet with Dad, they can. 684 00:16:46,020 --> 00:16:47,691 If they're not ready, 685 00:16:47,731 --> 00:16:48,980 then they won't. 686 00:16:49,020 --> 00:16:50,109 - Reagan? 687 00:16:50,149 --> 00:16:50,980 - What? 688 00:16:51,020 --> 00:16:53,000 Why are you such an asshole? 689 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:55,980 I hope someday I would take, uh, 690 00:16:56,020 --> 00:16:59,184 - my grandkid go to hunting. 691 00:16:59,224 --> 00:16:59,980 - Yeah. 692 00:17:00,020 --> 00:17:01,980 I want the baby go with me, too. 693 00:17:02,020 --> 00:17:03,228 So I pray something 694 00:17:03,268 --> 00:17:04,980 happens soon so I can get-- 695 00:17:05,020 --> 00:17:06,980 I can live long enough 696 00:17:07,020 --> 00:17:08,012 for your son 697 00:17:08,052 --> 00:17:09,980 maybe go with me, okay? 698 00:17:10,020 --> 00:17:10,350 I have nothing 699 00:17:10,390 --> 00:17:10,980 against marriage at all, 700 00:17:11,020 --> 00:17:12,770 I'm just--just gotta find 701 00:17:12,810 --> 00:17:13,980 the right person. 702 00:17:14,020 --> 00:17:14,760 And I hope you 703 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:15,980 get lucky pretty soon. 704 00:17:16,020 --> 00:17:17,941 You know why you haven't met 705 00:17:17,981 --> 00:17:18,980 the right girl? 706 00:17:19,020 --> 00:17:20,980 Tell me. 707 00:17:21,020 --> 00:17:22,360 No, I just want to see 708 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:22,980 what you-- 709 00:17:23,020 --> 00:17:24,400 I want you to tell me-- 710 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:26,379 I know you're gonna say 711 00:17:26,419 --> 00:17:26,980 something. 712 00:17:27,020 --> 00:17:27,980 [chuckles] What do you mean? 713 00:17:28,020 --> 00:17:28,798 I don't know. 714 00:17:28,838 --> 00:17:29,980 Sounds like just... 715 00:17:30,020 --> 00:17:31,334 Maybe I think, though, 716 00:17:31,374 --> 00:17:32,980 you got different standard. 717 00:17:33,020 --> 00:17:34,980 WASHINGTON: Reagan's very-- 718 00:17:35,020 --> 00:17:35,644 I think Reagan's too picky, 719 00:17:35,684 --> 00:17:35,980 is what it is. 720 00:17:36,020 --> 00:17:36,931 - Understandable. 721 00:17:36,971 --> 00:17:37,980 - The fuck is this? 722 00:17:38,020 --> 00:17:38,980 I thought we're duck hunting. 723 00:17:39,020 --> 00:17:40,930 It's like a intervention 724 00:17:40,970 --> 00:17:41,980 or some shit? 725 00:17:42,020 --> 00:17:43,085 It's all a fuckin plan 726 00:17:43,125 --> 00:17:43,980 to get me out here 727 00:17:44,020 --> 00:17:45,980 and tell me to get married? 728 00:17:46,020 --> 00:17:46,875 You have some brides, 729 00:17:46,915 --> 00:17:47,980 like, hidden behind there? 730 00:17:48,020 --> 00:17:48,861 - [Washington laughs] 731 00:17:48,901 --> 00:17:49,980 - Behind bush number three, 732 00:17:50,020 --> 00:17:51,000 please come out. 733 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:53,738 Today, we have a good time, 734 00:17:53,778 --> 00:17:54,980 we talk about that. 735 00:17:55,020 --> 00:17:55,738 REAGAN: There's three of them. 736 00:17:55,778 --> 00:17:55,980 Get ready. 737 00:17:56,020 --> 00:17:56,425 Get them, guys. 738 00:17:56,465 --> 00:17:56,980 Get them, get them. 739 00:17:57,020 --> 00:18:00,000 [gunshots] 740 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:01,561 - WASHINGTON: Did you hit it? 741 00:18:01,601 --> 00:18:02,861 - REAGAN: I think so. 742 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:03,980 Just because we like doing it, 743 00:18:04,020 --> 00:18:04,980 doesn't mean we're good at it. 744 00:18:05,020 --> 00:18:05,951 - We all suck. 745 00:18:05,991 --> 00:18:06,980 - [Binh laughs] 746 00:18:07,020 --> 00:18:10,000 [music] 747 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:16,311 - Hey. 748 00:18:16,351 --> 00:18:17,980 - [Sue Ho speaking Vietnamese] 749 00:18:18,020 --> 00:18:19,980 LESLEY: Uh-huh. Bring this to - 750 00:18:20,020 --> 00:18:21,980 Oh. 751 00:18:22,020 --> 00:18:23,336 - So you're dating, Judy? 752 00:18:23,376 --> 00:18:23,980 - JUDY: Yes. 753 00:18:24,020 --> 00:18:25,003 TINA: I will try to ask 754 00:18:25,043 --> 00:18:25,980 Lesley the other time, 755 00:18:26,020 --> 00:18:27,795 do I get anything out of her? 756 00:18:27,835 --> 00:18:27,980 No. 757 00:18:28,020 --> 00:18:28,980 You didn't ask me. 758 00:18:29,020 --> 00:18:29,825 - I tried to. 759 00:18:29,865 --> 00:18:30,980 - No, you did not. 760 00:18:31,020 --> 00:18:32,980 You barged into my house 761 00:18:33,020 --> 00:18:34,820 and you put my head in a sink. 762 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:35,716 - And you tortured me. 763 00:18:35,756 --> 00:18:35,980 - Right. 764 00:18:36,020 --> 00:18:36,241 [screams] 765 00:18:36,281 --> 00:18:36,980 Hey, you got to be gentle. 766 00:18:37,020 --> 00:18:37,784 - Come on. 767 00:18:37,824 --> 00:18:38,980 - I don't know, 768 00:18:39,020 --> 00:18:39,710 I'm telling you the truth. 769 00:18:39,750 --> 00:18:39,980 I'm just-- 770 00:18:40,020 --> 00:18:41,263 - You are her sister-in-law. 771 00:18:41,303 --> 00:18:41,980 - Don't burn me. 772 00:18:42,020 --> 00:18:42,280 - Oh, geez. 773 00:18:42,320 --> 00:18:42,980 - I keep telling you that. 774 00:18:43,020 --> 00:18:43,980 You don't know shit. 775 00:18:44,020 --> 00:18:45,980 Of course--I told you that. 776 00:18:46,020 --> 00:18:47,980 Why does everybody care so much? 777 00:18:48,020 --> 00:18:48,900 Don't they have their 778 00:18:48,940 --> 00:18:49,980 own lives to worry about? 779 00:18:50,020 --> 00:18:50,295 Your thing 780 00:18:50,335 --> 00:18:50,980 is the only one that's 781 00:18:51,020 --> 00:18:51,980 exciting our day, you know. 782 00:18:52,020 --> 00:18:53,980 You guys really are bored. 783 00:18:54,020 --> 00:18:55,441 Well, do you know 784 00:18:55,481 --> 00:18:56,980 anything about it? 785 00:18:57,020 --> 00:18:57,484 - I have. 786 00:18:57,524 --> 00:18:59,144 - How do you feel about it? 787 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:01,647 Uh, too early to suggest, 788 00:19:01,687 --> 00:19:02,980 so no, I don't know. 789 00:19:03,020 --> 00:19:04,514 Oh, I didn't realize I need 790 00:19:04,554 --> 00:19:06,114 to do yes or no, but okay. 791 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:08,512 Well, you can tell us now. 792 00:19:08,552 --> 00:19:09,980 What's up? How's the guy? 793 00:19:10,020 --> 00:19:11,804 - He from Houston, too? 794 00:19:11,844 --> 00:19:12,980 - From Houston. 795 00:19:13,020 --> 00:19:13,850 - Is he cute? 796 00:19:13,890 --> 00:19:15,000 - [Judy chuckles] 797 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:16,937 - Uh, yeah. 798 00:19:16,977 --> 00:19:17,980 - Okay. One. 799 00:19:18,020 --> 00:19:18,883 - Number two? 800 00:19:18,923 --> 00:19:19,980 - He's a doctor. 801 00:19:20,020 --> 00:19:20,644 Ooh, wow, that was the man. 802 00:19:20,684 --> 00:19:20,980 What do he do? 803 00:19:21,020 --> 00:19:22,573 - LESLEY: That's your cute? 804 00:19:22,613 --> 00:19:22,980 - Yeah. 805 00:19:23,020 --> 00:19:23,448 - [Lesley laughs] 806 00:19:23,488 --> 00:19:23,980 - No. What do he do? 807 00:19:24,020 --> 00:19:25,005 I just want to make sure, 808 00:19:25,045 --> 00:19:25,980 when I--it is one thing, 809 00:19:26,020 --> 00:19:26,510 but he have good career, 810 00:19:26,550 --> 00:19:26,980 that's another thing-- 811 00:19:27,020 --> 00:19:27,651 - I know. 812 00:19:27,691 --> 00:19:28,980 - --that's a plus. 813 00:19:29,020 --> 00:19:30,185 - That makes him cuter, right? 814 00:19:30,225 --> 00:19:30,980 - Yeah, that's plus. 815 00:19:31,020 --> 00:19:32,256 - When do we gonna get to meet? 816 00:19:32,296 --> 00:19:32,980 - We're not ready. 817 00:19:33,020 --> 00:19:33,760 You are ready, 818 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:34,980 she will not be ready. 819 00:19:35,020 --> 00:19:35,303 JUDY: You know, 820 00:19:35,343 --> 00:19:35,980 when a relationship is the best? 821 00:19:36,020 --> 00:19:36,407 When it's just 822 00:19:36,447 --> 00:19:36,980 between two people. 823 00:19:37,020 --> 00:19:38,271 - Uh-hmm. 824 00:19:38,311 --> 00:19:38,980 - Oh. 825 00:19:39,020 --> 00:19:39,927 Because once other people 826 00:19:39,967 --> 00:19:40,980 start trying to get into it, 827 00:19:41,020 --> 00:19:42,980 it gets real annoying. 828 00:19:43,020 --> 00:19:43,849 So I'm gonna keep it 829 00:19:43,889 --> 00:19:44,980 that way as long as I can. 830 00:19:45,020 --> 00:19:45,980 Uh-hmm. 831 00:19:46,020 --> 00:19:48,000 When is that? Next week? 832 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:50,576 Girl, I told you, 833 00:19:50,616 --> 00:19:52,000 when I'm ready. 834 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:55,805 SINGER: ♪ When the night's 835 00:19:55,845 --> 00:19:56,980 getting lonely ♪ 836 00:19:57,020 --> 00:19:58,980 ♪ Put your hand up and call me ♪ 837 00:19:59,020 --> 00:20:00,868 ♪ Because you know that 838 00:20:00,908 --> 00:20:02,980 you're fire, you're fire ♪ 839 00:20:03,020 --> 00:20:03,980 JUDY: Can you smell that, babe? 840 00:20:04,020 --> 00:20:04,417 - [laughs] 841 00:20:04,457 --> 00:20:04,980 - NATE: What? 842 00:20:05,020 --> 00:20:05,984 - The shoes? 843 00:20:06,024 --> 00:20:06,980 - The shoes. 844 00:20:07,020 --> 00:20:08,832 - I can smell the shoes. 845 00:20:08,872 --> 00:20:09,980 - I like these. 846 00:20:10,020 --> 00:20:10,810 - That's cute. 847 00:20:10,850 --> 00:20:11,980 - It matches my bag. 848 00:20:12,020 --> 00:20:12,795 - What do you think? 849 00:20:12,835 --> 00:20:13,980 - I know. I think it's great. 850 00:20:14,020 --> 00:20:15,402 That's your cute, 851 00:20:15,442 --> 00:20:17,980 to ask a salesperson what size. 852 00:20:18,020 --> 00:20:19,980 Yeah? It sounds expensive. 853 00:20:20,020 --> 00:20:20,651 - Oh, oh. 854 00:20:20,691 --> 00:20:22,000 - It is expensive. 855 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:23,828 I don't buy shoes 856 00:20:23,868 --> 00:20:25,248 that have commas, babe. 857 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:28,014 Never get a laugh 858 00:20:28,054 --> 00:20:28,980 in this family-- 859 00:20:29,020 --> 00:20:29,400 - Really? Okay. 860 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:29,980 - --without attitude. 861 00:20:30,020 --> 00:20:31,980 I just pretend they have commas. 862 00:20:32,020 --> 00:20:33,025 Yeah. You probably want me 863 00:20:33,065 --> 00:20:33,980 those gold boots, I bet. 864 00:20:34,020 --> 00:20:36,980 And just that? Yeah. That's it. 865 00:20:37,020 --> 00:20:37,795 - Damn it. 866 00:20:37,835 --> 00:20:39,980 - So are you sure you can't 867 00:20:40,020 --> 00:20:40,316 have dinner 868 00:20:40,356 --> 00:20:40,980 with me tonight, babe? 869 00:20:41,020 --> 00:20:42,000 I can't. 870 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:43,401 When my brothers 871 00:20:43,441 --> 00:20:44,761 and my dad go hunting, 872 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:45,980 it's like a command performance. 873 00:20:46,020 --> 00:20:48,239 We have to get my mom afterward 874 00:20:48,279 --> 00:20:49,980 to see what they caught. 875 00:20:50,020 --> 00:20:50,291 Oh, really? 876 00:20:50,331 --> 00:20:50,980 It is a whole production. 877 00:20:51,020 --> 00:20:52,980 Yeah. It is a whole production. 878 00:20:53,020 --> 00:20:53,613 Especially because Reagan's 879 00:20:53,653 --> 00:20:53,980 with them today. 880 00:20:54,020 --> 00:20:55,604 - Oh, Reagan's gonna be there? 881 00:20:55,644 --> 00:20:55,980 - Yeah. 882 00:20:56,020 --> 00:20:56,689 - Like, it's pretty rare-- 883 00:20:56,729 --> 00:20:56,980 - Oh, okay. 884 00:20:57,020 --> 00:20:57,559 --for him to come around 885 00:20:57,599 --> 00:20:58,679 for family dinner. 886 00:20:59,000 --> 00:21:00,500 Does he make it more fun? 887 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:01,396 - When he's around? 888 00:21:01,436 --> 00:21:02,960 - When Reagan's here? Yeah. 889 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:03,638 He's not afraid to speak up 890 00:21:03,678 --> 00:21:03,980 to my parents. 891 00:21:04,020 --> 00:21:04,621 - Yeah? 892 00:21:04,661 --> 00:21:05,980 - Yeah. I mean, 893 00:21:06,020 --> 00:21:06,316 I feel like 894 00:21:06,356 --> 00:21:06,980 I'm just getting there 895 00:21:07,020 --> 00:21:07,757 - at my age, but Reagan's-- 896 00:21:07,797 --> 00:21:08,297 - Right. 897 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:09,980 --been that way since day one. 898 00:21:10,020 --> 00:21:11,370 He doesn't seek any type 899 00:21:11,410 --> 00:21:12,980 of approval from my parents, 900 00:21:13,020 --> 00:21:13,326 and I think 901 00:21:13,366 --> 00:21:13,980 that's why my parents 902 00:21:14,020 --> 00:21:14,711 - are annoyed by him. 903 00:21:14,751 --> 00:21:15,251 - Right. 904 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:16,546 Because he's the only one 905 00:21:16,586 --> 00:21:16,980 that doesn't go out 906 00:21:17,020 --> 00:21:17,980 of his way to do that. 907 00:21:18,020 --> 00:21:19,820 I just need to be a little bit 908 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,980 more like Reagan sometimes. 909 00:21:22,020 --> 00:21:24,000 [music] 910 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:27,980 LESLEY: It looks good. 911 00:21:28,020 --> 00:21:28,985 SUE: Go, sit here. 912 00:21:29,025 --> 00:21:29,980 Come on, let's go. 913 00:21:30,020 --> 00:21:30,980 LESLEY: Oh, it smells so good. 914 00:21:31,020 --> 00:21:32,352 - WASHINGTON: Is the food ready? 915 00:21:32,392 --> 00:21:32,980 - LESLEY: Yeah. 916 00:21:33,020 --> 00:21:33,980 Let's eat. 917 00:21:34,020 --> 00:21:36,000 I'm hungry. 918 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:39,980 LESLEY: So how's hunting, honey? 919 00:21:40,020 --> 00:21:41,188 - REAGAN: Thank you, Ma. 920 00:21:41,228 --> 00:21:41,980 - Thank you, Ma. 921 00:21:42,020 --> 00:21:42,338 - Thank you. 922 00:21:42,378 --> 00:21:42,980 - Thank you very much. 923 00:21:43,020 --> 00:21:43,980 Have a seat. 924 00:21:44,020 --> 00:21:45,559 - Yeah, honey. It was fun. 925 00:21:45,599 --> 00:21:45,980 - Okay. 926 00:21:46,020 --> 00:21:46,303 - LESLEY: Yeah? 927 00:21:46,343 --> 00:21:46,980 - You know, we got to spend time 928 00:21:47,020 --> 00:21:47,980 with Dad and Reagan, 929 00:21:48,020 --> 00:21:49,940 we haven't done that in a while. 930 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:50,526 We saw a few ducks 931 00:21:50,566 --> 00:21:50,980 here and there. 932 00:21:51,020 --> 00:21:51,812 You saw or you shot 933 00:21:51,852 --> 00:21:53,472 a few ducks here and there? 934 00:21:55,000 --> 00:21:56,980 [Washington laughs] Um, 935 00:21:57,020 --> 00:21:57,579 - it's really good. 936 00:21:57,619 --> 00:21:58,399 - BINH: Yeah. 937 00:21:59,000 --> 00:21:59,530 We're gonna bring home 938 00:21:59,570 --> 00:21:59,980 a raw duck, right? 939 00:22:00,020 --> 00:22:00,980 Okay. 940 00:22:01,020 --> 00:22:03,000 [speaking Vietnamese] 941 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:05,980 What if Mom asks us, 942 00:22:06,020 --> 00:22:07,980 "How many ducks did you shoot?" 943 00:22:08,020 --> 00:22:08,716 - Just keep mouth-- 944 00:22:08,756 --> 00:22:08,980 - Yeah. 945 00:22:09,020 --> 00:22:10,399 --hey, we got some duck, 946 00:22:10,439 --> 00:22:10,980 that's it. 947 00:22:11,020 --> 00:22:12,980 We're coming home with duck, 948 00:22:13,020 --> 00:22:14,486 whether it's game duck 949 00:22:14,526 --> 00:22:15,980 or a farm-raised duck. 950 00:22:16,020 --> 00:22:17,409 It's the Ho truth, 951 00:22:17,449 --> 00:22:18,980 not the whole truth. 952 00:22:19,020 --> 00:22:19,594 TINA: How do you hunt it? 953 00:22:19,634 --> 00:22:19,980 There's no hole, 954 00:22:20,020 --> 00:22:20,980 no bullet, or anything? 955 00:22:21,020 --> 00:22:22,980 Hey, we live with it, y'all. 956 00:22:23,020 --> 00:22:25,015 Okay. We'll talk later, 957 00:22:25,055 --> 00:22:25,980 I'm hungry. 958 00:22:26,020 --> 00:22:26,435 - Cheers. 959 00:22:26,475 --> 00:22:27,000 - Thank you 960 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:27,020 for being here with us. 961 00:22:27,020 --> 00:22:28,980 No problem. 962 00:22:29,020 --> 00:22:29,980 Reagan give me that look, 963 00:22:30,020 --> 00:22:30,980 "Okay, just shut up." 964 00:22:31,020 --> 00:22:32,301 And I say, "Oh, yeah, okay. 965 00:22:32,341 --> 00:22:33,181 I'll shut up." 966 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:35,511 But you know what I mean, 967 00:22:35,551 --> 00:22:36,980 I'm not your mom, hello. 968 00:22:37,020 --> 00:22:37,980 Y'all can fool her, not me. 969 00:22:38,020 --> 00:22:39,980 Cheers-- 970 00:22:40,020 --> 00:22:40,841 - Cheers. 971 00:22:40,881 --> 00:22:41,980 - --to duck. 972 00:22:42,020 --> 00:22:42,980 LESLEY: I guess the talk 973 00:22:43,020 --> 00:22:43,980 that I had with my mother-in-law 974 00:22:44,020 --> 00:22:45,980 and Tina was pointless. 975 00:22:46,020 --> 00:22:47,004 I know I may be counting 976 00:22:47,044 --> 00:22:47,980 the drinks that he has, 977 00:22:48,020 --> 00:22:49,218 and I just don't want it 978 00:22:49,258 --> 00:22:49,980 to be that way. 979 00:22:50,020 --> 00:22:50,435 It's so hard to be 980 00:22:50,475 --> 00:22:50,980 at all these big meals 981 00:22:51,020 --> 00:22:52,980 with Washington. 982 00:22:53,020 --> 00:22:53,592 Drinking is a huge part 983 00:22:53,632 --> 00:22:53,980 of our culture, 984 00:22:54,020 --> 00:22:55,579 and to see him have a beer 985 00:22:55,619 --> 00:22:56,980 in his hand and knowing 986 00:22:57,020 --> 00:22:59,980 that it could possibly escalate, 987 00:23:00,020 --> 00:23:00,471 it's just starting 988 00:23:00,511 --> 00:23:01,651 to give me anxiety. 989 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:03,260 Does that bother you, 990 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:04,389 like, Mom and Dad 991 00:23:04,429 --> 00:23:04,980 still leave that picture? 992 00:23:05,020 --> 00:23:06,441 - [Reagan laughs] 993 00:23:06,481 --> 00:23:07,980 - SUE: Oh, my God. 994 00:23:08,020 --> 00:23:08,980 JUDY: Will you take it down? 995 00:23:09,020 --> 00:23:09,980 I'm not ready yet. 996 00:23:10,020 --> 00:23:11,604 - Oh. Well, Dad's not ready. 997 00:23:11,644 --> 00:23:12,980 - WASHINGTON: His house. 998 00:23:13,020 --> 00:23:15,000 Come on. 999 00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,344 What will it take for you 1000 00:23:17,384 --> 00:23:18,980 to be ready to take that down? 1001 00:23:19,020 --> 00:23:22,000 More time? 1002 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:25,020 Too early for me. 1003 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:28,661 LESLEY: Look, if he's not ready, 1004 00:23:28,701 --> 00:23:28,980 he's not ready. 1005 00:23:29,020 --> 00:23:30,038 - Yeah. He's going-- 1006 00:23:30,078 --> 00:23:31,000 - Everyone's ready 1007 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:31,000 - in their own time. 1008 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:31,960 - --through, you know... 1009 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:34,980 TINA: Mom, are you ready? 1010 00:23:35,020 --> 00:23:38,980 Uh, not yet. 1011 00:23:39,020 --> 00:23:39,350 - REAGAN: Why? 1012 00:23:39,390 --> 00:23:39,980 - Because they're hoping 1013 00:23:40,020 --> 00:23:41,980 that I'll go back to that? 1014 00:23:42,020 --> 00:23:43,980 He's more worried 1015 00:23:44,020 --> 00:23:45,165 about having a daughter 1016 00:23:45,205 --> 00:23:45,980 that's divorced, 1017 00:23:46,020 --> 00:23:47,100 that's what it is. 1018 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:52,080 I, uh, worry about 1019 00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:53,980 my grandchildrens. 1020 00:23:54,020 --> 00:23:54,441 You should worry 1021 00:23:54,481 --> 00:23:54,980 about your daughter 1022 00:23:55,020 --> 00:23:55,980 being happy, though. 1023 00:23:56,020 --> 00:23:58,980 I'm not, uh, worry about... 1024 00:23:59,020 --> 00:23:59,170 - Her? 1025 00:23:59,210 --> 00:23:59,980 - But if I'm happy, I take 1026 00:24:00,020 --> 00:24:00,523 better care of them, 1027 00:24:00,563 --> 00:24:01,583 don't you think-- 1028 00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,000 I hope. 1029 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:05,174 REAGAN: 1030 00:24:05,214 --> 00:24:05,980 If you're an unhappy mother-- 1031 00:24:06,020 --> 00:24:06,803 - Uh-hmm. 1032 00:24:06,843 --> 00:24:08,980 - --how would that work? 1033 00:24:09,020 --> 00:24:09,980 You big enough, 1034 00:24:10,020 --> 00:24:11,103 - you get a choice. 1035 00:24:11,143 --> 00:24:11,980 - JUDY: Uh-hmm. 1036 00:24:12,020 --> 00:24:12,735 My grandbaby 1037 00:24:12,775 --> 00:24:13,980 don't have a choice. 1038 00:24:14,020 --> 00:24:15,036 REAGAN: Well, I think 1039 00:24:15,076 --> 00:24:15,980 if you ask the kids 1040 00:24:16,020 --> 00:24:16,703 their choice, 1041 00:24:16,743 --> 00:24:17,980 I think they would want 1042 00:24:18,020 --> 00:24:19,143 their mom to be happy, 1043 00:24:19,183 --> 00:24:19,980 don't you think? 1044 00:24:20,020 --> 00:24:21,186 But my grandbaby 1045 00:24:21,226 --> 00:24:22,980 didn't tell me that way. 1046 00:24:23,020 --> 00:24:23,895 But you didn't see the way 1047 00:24:23,935 --> 00:24:24,980 they were when we were married. 1048 00:24:25,020 --> 00:24:26,283 Yeah. You never saw them 1049 00:24:26,323 --> 00:24:26,980 at her house. 1050 00:24:27,020 --> 00:24:28,671 BINH: My family is the most 1051 00:24:28,711 --> 00:24:29,980 important in my life. 1052 00:24:30,020 --> 00:24:31,410 But I feel like I'm 1053 00:24:31,450 --> 00:24:32,980 responsible for them. 1054 00:24:33,020 --> 00:24:35,271 I'm still disappointed about the 1055 00:24:35,311 --> 00:24:35,980 divorce... 1056 00:24:36,020 --> 00:24:36,980 ...not her. 1057 00:24:37,020 --> 00:24:37,785 You only saw them, 1058 00:24:37,825 --> 00:24:38,980 like, when they were happy, 1059 00:24:39,020 --> 00:24:39,957 like, once a week, 1060 00:24:39,997 --> 00:24:40,980 when they were out. 1061 00:24:41,020 --> 00:24:42,157 LESLEY: It's just hard for them 1062 00:24:42,197 --> 00:24:42,980 to see their grandkids 1063 00:24:43,020 --> 00:24:44,207 - crying sometimes, that's all. 1064 00:24:44,247 --> 00:24:44,980 - I understand that. 1065 00:24:45,020 --> 00:24:45,529 - I understand that, but-- 1066 00:24:45,569 --> 00:24:45,980 - But they were crying 1067 00:24:46,020 --> 00:24:47,380 a lot more when we were together 1068 00:24:47,420 --> 00:24:47,980 in that house. 1069 00:24:48,020 --> 00:24:49,299 But when they're with me, 1070 00:24:49,339 --> 00:24:49,980 they're fine. 1071 00:24:50,020 --> 00:24:50,494 - Well... 1072 00:24:50,534 --> 00:24:51,980 - She have the boyfriend-- 1073 00:24:52,020 --> 00:24:53,183 - BINH: My family wasn't ready. 1074 00:24:53,223 --> 00:24:53,980 - --fairly too early. 1075 00:24:54,020 --> 00:24:55,980 Who cares? 1076 00:24:56,020 --> 00:24:56,433 - TINA: With you, right? 1077 00:24:56,473 --> 00:24:58,273 - Who cares? It's a boyfriend. 1078 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:01,980 You know what? Reagan is right. 1079 00:25:02,020 --> 00:25:03,360 I'm way too old to get 1080 00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:04,980 permission from my parents 1081 00:25:05,020 --> 00:25:05,518 - to move on with my life. 1082 00:25:05,558 --> 00:25:05,980 - Don't worry about it. 1083 00:25:06,020 --> 00:25:06,940 - Let's just sit down. 1084 00:25:06,980 --> 00:25:07,980 - WASHINGTON: It's done, 1085 00:25:08,020 --> 00:25:08,542 - all right. One more to go... 1086 00:25:08,582 --> 00:25:08,980 - I give you permission. 1087 00:25:09,020 --> 00:25:10,666 Hey, don't give him 1088 00:25:10,706 --> 00:25:11,980 a heart attack. 1089 00:25:12,020 --> 00:25:12,980 Are we done? 1090 00:25:13,020 --> 00:25:15,000 [music] 1091 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:21,980 I'm really happy for Judy. 1092 00:25:22,020 --> 00:25:22,885 It seems like she chose 1093 00:25:22,925 --> 00:25:23,980 a good guy, so I don't think 1094 00:25:24,020 --> 00:25:25,122 that you and Dad have 1095 00:25:25,162 --> 00:25:25,980 to worry so much 1096 00:25:26,020 --> 00:25:26,666 - about her. 1097 00:25:26,706 --> 00:25:27,980 - I don't mean to apply 1098 00:25:28,020 --> 00:25:29,980 pressure to her, but, you know, 1099 00:25:30,020 --> 00:25:31,980 everything's moving really fast 1100 00:25:32,020 --> 00:25:32,980 and I just don't want her 1101 00:25:33,020 --> 00:25:34,487 - to rush into anything. 1102 00:25:34,527 --> 00:25:34,980 - Right. 1103 00:25:35,020 --> 00:25:36,980 She's gonna change a little bit, 1104 00:25:37,020 --> 00:25:38,333 but I think it's gonna change 1105 00:25:38,373 --> 00:25:38,980 for the better 1106 00:25:39,020 --> 00:25:39,933 because it helps her 1107 00:25:39,973 --> 00:25:40,980 move on with her life. 1108 00:25:41,020 --> 00:25:42,980 It's been really tough on, 1109 00:25:43,020 --> 00:25:45,980 you know, for me personally, 1110 00:25:46,020 --> 00:25:46,960 it's been tough 1111 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:48,980 on my relationship with Lesley. 1112 00:25:49,020 --> 00:25:50,040 We've been, uh... 1113 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:51,980 Yeah, you better fix that shit 1114 00:25:52,020 --> 00:25:53,980 before it gets out of hand. 1115 00:25:54,020 --> 00:25:54,826 - Right. 1116 00:25:54,866 --> 00:25:56,000 - For sure. 1117 00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:57,371 - Cheers. 1118 00:25:57,411 --> 00:25:58,251 - Cheers, bro. 1119 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:04,000 [music] 1120 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:13,363 - Hey, honey. 1121 00:26:13,403 --> 00:26:13,980 - What are you doing? 1122 00:26:14,020 --> 00:26:15,392 Just, you know, 1123 00:26:15,432 --> 00:26:17,000 reading the news. 1124 00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:18,980 How are you? 1125 00:26:19,020 --> 00:26:20,100 Drinking that tea. 1126 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:21,980 [sighs] 1127 00:26:22,020 --> 00:26:23,226 She's having - your mom 1128 00:26:23,266 --> 00:26:24,106 gets involved. 1129 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:25,980 I never see her drinking tea 1130 00:26:26,020 --> 00:26:27,980 to solve her problem. 1131 00:26:28,020 --> 00:26:28,854 You know, it goes 1132 00:26:28,894 --> 00:26:29,980 beyond the tea, right? 1133 00:26:30,020 --> 00:26:31,886 You know it's beyond 1134 00:26:31,926 --> 00:26:33,980 what she really knows. 1135 00:26:34,020 --> 00:26:35,980 She's my mom. 1136 00:26:36,020 --> 00:26:39,980 If she really knew our problem, 1137 00:26:40,020 --> 00:26:40,987 she would know that there's 1138 00:26:41,027 --> 00:26:42,647 no tea that could solve it. 1139 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:46,000 You know, our biggest issue 1140 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:47,980 in our marriage is-- 1141 00:26:48,020 --> 00:26:49,980 [sighs] 1142 00:26:50,020 --> 00:26:50,818 --your behavior 1143 00:26:50,858 --> 00:26:52,118 is erratic sometimes, 1144 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:55,980 you just spend 1145 00:26:56,020 --> 00:26:57,980 crazy amounts of money, 1146 00:26:58,020 --> 00:27:00,980 and I can only pinpoint 1147 00:27:01,020 --> 00:27:03,000 one thing. 1148 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,980 And it's the alcohol. 1149 00:27:06,020 --> 00:27:07,980 And it took me a long time 1150 00:27:08,020 --> 00:27:10,980 to even admit to myself-- 1151 00:27:11,020 --> 00:27:12,980 Uh-hmm. 1152 00:27:13,020 --> 00:27:15,000 --that you're an alcoholic. 1153 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:22,980 Look, I'm gonna freaking, like, 1154 00:27:23,020 --> 00:27:24,980 fight as hard as I can. 1155 00:27:25,020 --> 00:27:25,980 You know when you met me, 1156 00:27:26,020 --> 00:27:28,980 I say I love Robert Downey, Jr. 1157 00:27:29,020 --> 00:27:29,980 He's Iron Man. 1158 00:27:30,020 --> 00:27:32,980 He gave up all that shit. 1159 00:27:33,020 --> 00:27:34,160 He does karate now, 1160 00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:35,980 he has a new hobby. 1161 00:27:36,020 --> 00:27:37,113 Bradley Cooper, 1162 00:27:37,153 --> 00:27:38,980 he gave up drinking at 28 1163 00:27:39,020 --> 00:27:40,168 and he helped 1164 00:27:40,208 --> 00:27:41,980 Brad Pitt get sober. 1165 00:27:42,020 --> 00:27:42,980 All that men become successful, 1166 00:27:43,020 --> 00:27:43,980 that I look up to. 1167 00:27:44,020 --> 00:27:45,980 They can do it, 1168 00:27:46,020 --> 00:27:46,798 and you know what? 1169 00:27:46,838 --> 00:27:48,398 Why can't it happen to me? 1170 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:50,556 You ain't Lady Gaga, 1171 00:27:50,596 --> 00:27:51,980 but you know what? 1172 00:27:52,020 --> 00:27:53,980 I'm Bradley Cooper in Asia. 1173 00:27:54,020 --> 00:27:56,000 I can give it up. 1174 00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:00,915 I'm just trying to figure out 1175 00:28:00,955 --> 00:28:01,980 how I can do it. 1176 00:28:02,020 --> 00:28:04,980 I don't know if I can't live 1177 00:28:05,020 --> 00:28:06,040 with the fear 1178 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:07,980 of every time you drink, 1179 00:28:08,020 --> 00:28:08,885 I don't know the person 1180 00:28:08,925 --> 00:28:10,605 that you're gonna turn into. 1181 00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:13,980 So it's over if I sip a beer? 1182 00:28:14,020 --> 00:28:18,000 Okay, our life is-is--it's over? 1183 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:20,887 Yes or no. Is it over 1184 00:28:20,927 --> 00:28:22,980 if I sip another drink? 1185 00:28:23,020 --> 00:28:24,980 I told you over and over again, 1186 00:28:25,020 --> 00:28:28,000 and I'm just--I'm done with it. 1187 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:31,177 This ultimatum 1188 00:28:31,217 --> 00:28:32,980 that you're giving me 1189 00:28:33,020 --> 00:28:33,980 is ridiculous, 1190 00:28:34,020 --> 00:28:35,220 you understand that? 1191 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:36,980 What kind of wife is that? 1192 00:28:37,020 --> 00:28:37,980 Like, I gotta live 1193 00:28:38,020 --> 00:28:39,980 with an ultimatum, 1194 00:28:40,020 --> 00:28:42,980 like, really? 1195 00:28:43,020 --> 00:28:44,000 Like me? 1196 00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,294 I don't need an ultimatum 1197 00:28:46,334 --> 00:28:47,114 to be better. 1198 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:48,980 I can't do it anymore, 1199 00:28:49,020 --> 00:28:51,980 I can't have the same fight 1200 00:28:52,020 --> 00:28:53,760 with you over and over again. 1201 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:54,690 If it's good between us, 1202 00:28:54,730 --> 00:28:54,980 it's good. 1203 00:28:55,020 --> 00:28:56,980 But when it's bad, 1204 00:28:57,020 --> 00:28:57,327 and you know 1205 00:28:57,367 --> 00:28:58,747 what I'm talking about. 1206 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:01,315 - It gets bad. 1207 00:29:01,355 --> 00:29:02,000 - Yeah. 1208 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:04,048 And it's just--it's hard 1209 00:29:04,088 --> 00:29:04,980 for me to talk about. 1210 00:29:05,020 --> 00:29:06,959 I feel like you kind of 1211 00:29:06,999 --> 00:29:07,980 chipped away 1212 00:29:08,020 --> 00:29:10,000 a part of me when you did that. 1213 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:12,956 And I couldn't talk 1214 00:29:12,996 --> 00:29:14,196 to anybody about it. 1215 00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:17,980 You know, I don't tell 1216 00:29:18,020 --> 00:29:20,000 my mom and my sister about it. 1217 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:21,600 Tell them. 1218 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,000 Tell them. Tell them. Tell them. 1219 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:28,395 Before filming we 1220 00:29:28,435 --> 00:29:30,000 had a scary moment. 1221 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,980 It was something that I kept 1222 00:29:34,020 --> 00:29:37,000 from production because I felt 1223 00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:39,500 really shameful about it. 1224 00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:44,105 Washington had, 1225 00:29:44,145 --> 00:29:45,980 uh, a few too many drinks 1226 00:29:46,020 --> 00:29:49,000 and then it kind of escalated. 1227 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:52,956 I didn't even recognize him 1228 00:29:52,996 --> 00:29:53,980 at that point. 1229 00:29:54,020 --> 00:29:56,000 And I felt really scared. 1230 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,000 So I did what I had to. 1231 00:30:03,000 --> 00:30:05,000 I called the cops. 1232 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:08,980 The police came 1233 00:30:09,020 --> 00:30:12,000 and they handcuffed him, 1234 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,000 and they took him to jail. 1235 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,980 That night was... 1236 00:30:19,020 --> 00:30:20,336 one of the worst nights 1237 00:30:20,376 --> 00:30:20,980 of my life. 1238 00:30:21,020 --> 00:30:22,518 You know, it's forever 1239 00:30:22,558 --> 00:30:24,000 changed our marriage. 1240 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:26,466 I don't know how to help you 1241 00:30:26,506 --> 00:30:27,960 when it's a part of your life, 1242 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:28,620 I don't know how to help you 1243 00:30:28,660 --> 00:30:28,980 when it's a part 1244 00:30:29,020 --> 00:30:31,000 of your culture, I don't know-- 1245 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:34,180 I just--I know I can't live 1246 00:30:34,220 --> 00:30:35,300 like this, is all. 1247 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:39,480 And I don't know 1248 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:40,980 how to help you. 1249 00:30:41,020 --> 00:30:41,980 I love you, 1250 00:30:42,020 --> 00:30:44,000 you're my first wife. 1251 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,000 I hope you're my only wife. 1252 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,808 SINGER: ♪ Make it rain, 1253 00:31:07,848 --> 00:31:08,980 make it rain ♪ 1254 00:31:09,020 --> 00:31:10,761 ♪ I don't care 1255 00:31:10,801 --> 00:31:13,980 because it's all the same ♪ 1256 00:31:14,020 --> 00:31:14,598 SINGER: ♪ I'mma make the best 1257 00:31:14,638 --> 00:31:15,838 of any situation ♪ 1258 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:16,319 SINGER: 1259 00:31:16,359 --> 00:31:17,980 ♪ Make it rain, make it rain ♪ 1260 00:31:18,020 --> 00:31:22,980 ♪ I don't care, I'mma be happy ♪ 1261 00:31:23,020 --> 00:31:26,000 ♪ No, you can never rain on me ♪ 1262 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:31,000 [music]