1 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:07,000 [music] 2 00:00:11,000 --> 00:00:12,182 SINGER: ♪ Can't nobody 3 00:00:12,222 --> 00:00:12,980 hold me down ♪ 4 00:00:13,020 --> 00:00:14,205 ♪ I'm steady walking 5 00:00:14,245 --> 00:00:14,980 like I got ♪ 6 00:00:15,020 --> 00:00:15,826 ♪ Three commas 7 00:00:15,866 --> 00:00:16,980 in my bank account ♪ 8 00:00:17,020 --> 00:00:18,102 ♪ Living loud, 9 00:00:18,142 --> 00:00:19,980 So get your cameras out ♪ 10 00:00:20,020 --> 00:00:21,984 ♪ I probably do the same thing 11 00:00:22,024 --> 00:00:22,980 if I was you ♪ 12 00:00:23,020 --> 00:00:26,980 ♪ Looking at me now, now ♪ 13 00:00:27,020 --> 00:00:29,980 ♪ Hmm, put up your lights ♪ 14 00:00:30,020 --> 00:00:33,980 ♪ And keep them flashin' ♪ 15 00:00:34,020 --> 00:00:35,593 ♪ Don't ever put them 16 00:00:35,633 --> 00:00:37,000 down, down, down ♪ 17 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:38,980 ♪ Look at me now ♪ 18 00:00:39,020 --> 00:00:41,980 [music] 19 00:00:42,020 --> 00:00:43,501 SINGER: ♪ I'm just focused 20 00:00:43,541 --> 00:00:43,980 on me ♪ 21 00:00:44,020 --> 00:00:45,980 ♪ I'm just focused on me ♪ 22 00:00:46,020 --> 00:00:48,980 ♪ I got it, I got it ♪ 23 00:00:49,020 --> 00:00:50,297 JUDY HO: It's crazy. 24 00:00:50,337 --> 00:00:50,980 I feel like 25 00:00:51,020 --> 00:00:51,883 I'm in my own 26 00:00:51,923 --> 00:00:52,980 romantic comedy. 27 00:00:53,020 --> 00:00:53,498 LESLEY HO: Are you 28 00:00:53,538 --> 00:00:54,558 in love with him? 29 00:00:55,000 --> 00:00:55,740 - Yeah. We're in love. 30 00:00:55,780 --> 00:00:56,280 - Okay. 31 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:57,667 We're in that 32 00:00:57,707 --> 00:00:58,980 honeymoon phase right now 33 00:00:59,020 --> 00:00:59,959 where it's super fun, 34 00:00:59,999 --> 00:01:00,980 and everything he says 35 00:01:01,020 --> 00:01:02,224 is like the greatest thing 36 00:01:02,264 --> 00:01:02,980 I've ever heard. 37 00:01:03,020 --> 00:01:03,345 And you laugh 38 00:01:03,385 --> 00:01:03,980 at every little thing-- 39 00:01:04,020 --> 00:01:04,422 - Yeah. 40 00:01:04,462 --> 00:01:05,980 - --even his nerdy jokes? 41 00:01:06,020 --> 00:01:07,036 It's just like a total change 42 00:01:07,076 --> 00:01:07,980 from like what it was like 43 00:01:08,020 --> 00:01:09,187 being married. Because when 44 00:01:09,227 --> 00:01:09,980 you're in marriage 45 00:01:10,020 --> 00:01:11,120 and you're unhappy and you're 46 00:01:11,160 --> 00:01:11,980 like, "What the fuck." 47 00:01:12,020 --> 00:01:12,432 "Is this gonna be 48 00:01:12,472 --> 00:01:12,980 the rest of my life?" 49 00:01:13,020 --> 00:01:14,517 Uh-hmm. When Judy told us 50 00:01:14,557 --> 00:01:15,980 she was getting divorced 51 00:01:16,020 --> 00:01:17,980 I was completely dumbfounded 52 00:01:18,020 --> 00:01:19,157 because as women 53 00:01:19,197 --> 00:01:20,980 in the Vietnamese culture 54 00:01:21,020 --> 00:01:21,988 we're supposed to be the person 55 00:01:22,028 --> 00:01:22,980 that keeps the family together. 56 00:01:23,020 --> 00:01:24,902 And I feel like we both 57 00:01:24,942 --> 00:01:26,980 got out of that headspace 58 00:01:27,020 --> 00:01:27,771 and now we're like, 59 00:01:27,811 --> 00:01:28,980 we still have that giddiness, 60 00:01:29,020 --> 00:01:29,963 you know, that you have 61 00:01:30,003 --> 00:01:30,980 when in your first love. 62 00:01:31,020 --> 00:01:31,617 - First day? 63 00:01:31,657 --> 00:01:31,980 - Yeah. 64 00:01:32,020 --> 00:01:33,711 LESLEY: But I've never seen 65 00:01:33,751 --> 00:01:34,980 Judy glow like this. 66 00:01:35,020 --> 00:01:36,135 She's like a little 67 00:01:36,175 --> 00:01:37,015 teenaged girl. 68 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:39,214 And she's put herself 69 00:01:39,254 --> 00:01:39,980 as a priority 70 00:01:40,020 --> 00:01:41,319 where she hasn't done so 71 00:01:41,359 --> 00:01:41,980 in the past. 72 00:01:42,020 --> 00:01:43,085 - We're totally compatible. 73 00:01:43,125 --> 00:01:43,980 - I just never see you 74 00:01:44,020 --> 00:01:45,852 - with an, a nerdy guy. 75 00:01:45,892 --> 00:01:46,980 - Why is that? 76 00:01:47,020 --> 00:01:48,639 I feel like you always date 77 00:01:48,679 --> 00:01:49,980 like the kind of cool, 78 00:01:50,020 --> 00:01:51,342 - Fonzie type guys. 79 00:01:51,382 --> 00:01:51,980 - Fonzie? 80 00:01:52,020 --> 00:01:52,287 - Yeah. 81 00:01:52,327 --> 00:01:52,980 - What's Fonzie? 82 00:01:53,020 --> 00:01:54,185 Like where they walk 83 00:01:54,225 --> 00:01:55,980 in their own they're like hey. 84 00:01:56,020 --> 00:01:56,502 I don't even know 85 00:01:56,542 --> 00:01:56,980 what that means. 86 00:01:57,020 --> 00:01:57,814 - You've never watched-- 87 00:01:57,854 --> 00:01:57,980 - No. 88 00:01:58,020 --> 00:01:59,430 - Happy Days? 89 00:01:59,470 --> 00:01:59,980 - No. 90 00:02:00,020 --> 00:02:00,424 - You're deprived. 91 00:02:00,464 --> 00:02:00,980 - He kind of reminds me 92 00:02:01,020 --> 00:02:02,561 of Ross from Friends, 93 00:02:02,601 --> 00:02:03,980 your favorite show. 94 00:02:04,020 --> 00:02:05,424 - Oh, I love Ross. 95 00:02:05,464 --> 00:02:05,980 - Okay. 96 00:02:06,020 --> 00:02:07,054 - He reminds me of that. 97 00:02:07,094 --> 00:02:07,980 - Have you told Wash? 98 00:02:08,020 --> 00:02:08,221 - No. 99 00:02:08,261 --> 00:02:08,980 - He's gonna die 100 00:02:09,020 --> 00:02:09,986 - when he finds out. 101 00:02:10,026 --> 00:02:10,980 - Oh, he'll be fine. 102 00:02:11,020 --> 00:02:12,863 Washington is so nosy, 103 00:02:12,903 --> 00:02:14,980 he's always been involved 104 00:02:15,020 --> 00:02:15,841 in my dating life. 105 00:02:15,881 --> 00:02:16,980 He thinks everyone needs 106 00:02:17,020 --> 00:02:17,980 either his permission 107 00:02:18,020 --> 00:02:19,804 or it should be someone 108 00:02:19,844 --> 00:02:20,980 he approves of, 109 00:02:21,020 --> 00:02:21,513 - like he's the gatekeeper. 110 00:02:21,553 --> 00:02:21,980 - All right. So tell me, 111 00:02:22,020 --> 00:02:22,867 what's the next 112 00:02:22,907 --> 00:02:23,980 serious step, then? 113 00:02:24,020 --> 00:02:24,959 The next serious step 114 00:02:24,999 --> 00:02:25,980 will be talking about, 115 00:02:26,020 --> 00:02:27,046 like, if we were able to, 116 00:02:27,086 --> 00:02:27,980 like, move in together 117 00:02:28,020 --> 00:02:29,550 or even get married, like, 118 00:02:29,590 --> 00:02:30,980 we've talked about that. 119 00:02:31,020 --> 00:02:32,109 - Really? 120 00:02:32,149 --> 00:02:32,980 - Yeah. 121 00:02:33,020 --> 00:02:33,736 - I didn't know that. 122 00:02:33,776 --> 00:02:33,980 - Yeah. 123 00:02:34,020 --> 00:02:35,092 Like, I feel like 124 00:02:35,132 --> 00:02:36,980 it's a second chance at love. 125 00:02:37,020 --> 00:02:37,566 - Yeah. 126 00:02:37,606 --> 00:02:39,980 - And a second chance at life 127 00:02:40,020 --> 00:02:41,980 where anything is possible. 128 00:02:42,020 --> 00:02:42,980 I love that. 129 00:02:43,020 --> 00:02:44,184 - Sounds good, right? 130 00:02:44,224 --> 00:02:44,980 - Sounds good. 131 00:02:45,020 --> 00:02:46,259 You want some? 132 00:02:46,299 --> 00:02:47,000 [laughs] 133 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,000 [music] 134 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:00,858 Do we have one 135 00:03:00,898 --> 00:03:01,980 like that already? 136 00:03:02,020 --> 00:03:03,314 - Yeah. Mango. 137 00:03:03,354 --> 00:03:05,980 - We can do mango margarita. 138 00:03:06,020 --> 00:03:07,980 That's a Vietnamese. 139 00:03:08,020 --> 00:03:09,980 TINA: It's good, too. 140 00:03:10,020 --> 00:03:11,910 I love go to Asian's Market 141 00:03:11,950 --> 00:03:13,980 because it has all the candy, 142 00:03:14,020 --> 00:03:14,980 food, flower, 143 00:03:15,020 --> 00:03:16,571 the old traditional 144 00:03:16,611 --> 00:03:17,980 Vietnamese style. 145 00:03:18,020 --> 00:03:19,518 They make me feel like 146 00:03:19,558 --> 00:03:20,980 I'm in Vietnam again. 147 00:03:21,020 --> 00:03:22,005 You should pick good one. 148 00:03:22,045 --> 00:03:22,980 That means you're lucky. 149 00:03:23,020 --> 00:03:23,980 Oh, really? 150 00:03:24,020 --> 00:03:24,980 I'm lucky. 151 00:03:25,020 --> 00:03:25,980 I have both worlds. 152 00:03:26,020 --> 00:03:28,952 When I arrived to United States, 153 00:03:28,992 --> 00:03:30,980 my name is Thienhuong. 154 00:03:31,020 --> 00:03:32,760 What are we here for, anyway? 155 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:34,980 - I have to buy some catfish. 156 00:03:35,020 --> 00:03:36,027 With my friend at school 157 00:03:36,067 --> 00:03:36,980 they cannot pronounce, 158 00:03:37,020 --> 00:03:38,224 they said Thien... 159 00:03:38,264 --> 00:03:38,980 Thienhuong? 160 00:03:39,020 --> 00:03:40,980 Thien, ah, Thien what? 161 00:03:41,020 --> 00:03:41,527 We're gonna get something 162 00:03:41,567 --> 00:03:41,980 to drink, too, right? 163 00:03:42,020 --> 00:03:43,980 Some alcohol, tequila. 164 00:03:44,020 --> 00:03:45,605 So I said, "Fuck it. 165 00:03:45,645 --> 00:03:46,980 My name is Tina." 166 00:03:47,020 --> 00:03:48,122 So, what kind of fish 167 00:03:48,162 --> 00:03:48,980 we're gonna get? 168 00:03:49,020 --> 00:03:49,594 - Catfish? Ew. 169 00:03:49,634 --> 00:03:49,980 - Uh-huh. 170 00:03:50,020 --> 00:03:51,980 - The live one or the dead one? 171 00:03:52,020 --> 00:03:52,985 - Get the live one. 172 00:03:53,025 --> 00:03:53,980 There's a live one. 173 00:03:54,020 --> 00:03:55,160 - Look at that one. 174 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:57,117 - TINA: Whew. Thanks. 175 00:03:57,157 --> 00:03:57,980 - HUE: That one. 176 00:03:58,020 --> 00:03:58,484 TINA: Let's go 177 00:03:58,524 --> 00:03:58,980 get some crab. 178 00:03:59,020 --> 00:04:00,261 They have live crab, 179 00:04:00,301 --> 00:04:01,980 live fish. Everything live. 180 00:04:02,020 --> 00:04:03,980 Even the escargot. 181 00:04:04,020 --> 00:04:04,620 Come on, baby, let's go, 182 00:04:04,660 --> 00:04:04,980 you got to go. 183 00:04:05,020 --> 00:04:06,980 I pick all the big ones... 184 00:04:07,020 --> 00:04:10,000 ...and it's all boy, no girl. 185 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:12,049 - Ow, woo. 186 00:04:12,089 --> 00:04:13,980 - HUE: Here, here. 187 00:04:14,020 --> 00:04:15,980 TINA: Ow, ow. 188 00:04:16,020 --> 00:04:16,980 That's why you don't get a girl! 189 00:04:17,020 --> 00:04:18,000 Girls are mean! 190 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:20,091 - Are you okay? 191 00:04:20,131 --> 00:04:20,980 - It's okay. 192 00:04:21,020 --> 00:04:22,980 - I think about Vietnam a lot. 193 00:04:23,020 --> 00:04:23,980 Very beautiful. 194 00:04:24,020 --> 00:04:24,428 - Yes. 195 00:04:24,468 --> 00:04:25,980 - You got a Band-Aid? 196 00:04:26,020 --> 00:04:26,980 - I have a bandage. 197 00:04:27,020 --> 00:04:28,135 - Come on, let's go 198 00:04:28,175 --> 00:04:28,980 get some wine. 199 00:04:29,020 --> 00:04:29,980 Forget about fish. 200 00:04:30,020 --> 00:04:31,018 - I would like to 201 00:04:31,058 --> 00:04:31,980 move to Vietnam. 202 00:04:32,020 --> 00:04:33,771 to stay like, 3 or 4 months, 203 00:04:33,811 --> 00:04:34,980 then come back here 204 00:04:35,020 --> 00:04:35,980 and come back there, like that. 205 00:04:36,020 --> 00:04:37,513 Woo, finally, 206 00:04:37,553 --> 00:04:39,980 oh my God. Thank God. 207 00:04:40,020 --> 00:04:41,604 - HUE: It make you happy, huh? 208 00:04:41,644 --> 00:04:41,980 - Yeah. 209 00:04:42,020 --> 00:04:43,700 - But I worry about my kids. 210 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:44,540 I'm gonna get drunk 211 00:04:44,580 --> 00:04:44,980 after all this. 212 00:04:45,020 --> 00:04:47,135 - If they still need a lot of 213 00:04:47,175 --> 00:04:48,980 help I have to stay here. 214 00:04:49,020 --> 00:04:50,980 Perfect. Let's go. 215 00:04:51,020 --> 00:04:52,160 You're out of here. 216 00:04:51,020 --> 00:04:57,980 - Fish. 217 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:57,680 LESLEY: Nika, what is that? 218 00:04:58,000 --> 00:04:58,020 - Fish? 219 00:04:58,020 --> 00:04:59,184 TINA: Hold on, 220 00:04:59,224 --> 00:05:00,980 this way. You see it? 221 00:05:01,020 --> 00:05:02,295 - One, two, and three that's it. 222 00:05:02,335 --> 00:05:02,980 - JUDY: I got it. 223 00:05:03,020 --> 00:05:04,000 TINA: - of it. 224 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:05,877 - JUDY: I got it. 225 00:05:05,917 --> 00:05:06,980 - LESLEY: You got it? 226 00:05:07,020 --> 00:05:07,485 JUDY: When it comes 227 00:05:07,525 --> 00:05:07,980 to east meets west, 228 00:05:08,020 --> 00:05:09,516 I feel like I definitely 229 00:05:09,556 --> 00:05:10,980 lean more towards west. 230 00:05:11,020 --> 00:05:13,474 I think that's a huge reason 231 00:05:13,514 --> 00:05:14,980 why me and my mom 232 00:05:15,020 --> 00:05:15,980 can't confide in each other. 233 00:05:16,020 --> 00:05:17,604 - Is that enough or more, Mom? 234 00:05:17,644 --> 00:05:17,980 - More. 235 00:05:18,020 --> 00:05:18,327 More? 236 00:05:18,367 --> 00:05:19,980 She feels eastern values 237 00:05:20,020 --> 00:05:21,814 where the women defer 238 00:05:21,854 --> 00:05:24,000 to the men in the family. 239 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:24,020 Time to put it in the oven. 240 00:05:24,020 --> 00:05:26,980 And I, on the other hand, 241 00:05:27,020 --> 00:05:28,671 just don't agree with everything 242 00:05:28,711 --> 00:05:30,211 she's trying to teach me. 243 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,076 WASHINGTON HO: This is the best 244 00:05:33,116 --> 00:05:34,980 way to start Sunday fun day. 245 00:05:35,020 --> 00:05:35,617 Dad, you want 246 00:05:35,657 --> 00:05:36,980 the first piece of the fish? 247 00:05:37,020 --> 00:05:37,294 - Yes, please. 248 00:05:37,334 --> 00:05:37,980 - JUDY: Would you like to taste 249 00:05:38,020 --> 00:05:39,292 - my masterpiece? 250 00:05:39,332 --> 00:05:40,980 - Am I gonna get sick? 251 00:05:41,020 --> 00:05:42,400 JUDY: No, you will not. 252 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:45,307 - TINA: My God. 253 00:05:45,347 --> 00:05:45,980 - WASHINGTON: Because it's her, 254 00:05:46,020 --> 00:05:48,172 I don't wanna walk back here, 255 00:05:48,212 --> 00:05:50,000 like, every two seconds. 256 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:51,142 SAMMY: 257 00:05:51,182 --> 00:05:51,980 Tina's my mom's younger sister. 258 00:05:52,020 --> 00:05:52,920 I'm gonna make 259 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:53,980 a toast for you. 260 00:05:54,020 --> 00:05:54,765 I feel like of all 261 00:05:54,805 --> 00:05:55,980 of the brothers and sisters, 262 00:05:56,020 --> 00:05:56,980 she's more Americanized. 263 00:05:57,020 --> 00:06:00,034 You're married, staying married, 264 00:06:00,074 --> 00:06:00,980 have kids, 265 00:06:01,020 --> 00:06:01,417 I never think 266 00:06:01,457 --> 00:06:01,980 you get this far. 267 00:06:02,020 --> 00:06:04,000 Cheers. 268 00:06:02,020 --> 00:06:04,980 I feel the cousins feel 269 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:05,020 SAMMY: Because of that 270 00:06:05,020 --> 00:06:07,000 more comfortable around her. 271 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:08,960 She doesn't judge you. 272 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:09,947 All right, guys. 273 00:06:09,987 --> 00:06:11,007 I got a few gifts 274 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:13,889 for some of y'all and this is 275 00:06:13,929 --> 00:06:15,980 just a token of my appreciation. 276 00:06:16,020 --> 00:06:18,198 - Judy, I'll go with you first. 277 00:06:18,238 --> 00:06:18,980 - JUDY: Oh. 278 00:06:19,020 --> 00:06:20,570 WASHINGTON: The way I express 279 00:06:20,610 --> 00:06:21,980 my love is just by sharing 280 00:06:22,020 --> 00:06:24,980 the things that I can afford 281 00:06:25,020 --> 00:06:27,010 with my friends or my wife, 282 00:06:27,050 --> 00:06:27,980 or my family. 283 00:06:28,020 --> 00:06:28,384 TINA: 284 00:06:28,424 --> 00:06:29,980 I wonder what it is. 285 00:06:30,020 --> 00:06:30,980 Oh, thank you. 286 00:06:31,020 --> 00:06:32,937 Growing up, it's just 287 00:06:32,977 --> 00:06:35,000 what my dad taught me. 288 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:37,073 - JUDY: It's a bracelet. 289 00:06:37,113 --> 00:06:37,980 - TINA: Oh, awesome. 290 00:06:38,020 --> 00:06:38,785 - So pretty. 291 00:06:38,825 --> 00:06:39,980 - WASHINGTON: Dad. 292 00:06:40,020 --> 00:06:42,000 I wanna make you the man. 293 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:44,020 LESLEY: Oh, my gosh. 294 00:06:44,020 --> 00:06:47,000 Just put them on, Dad. 295 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:48,457 - Y'all look cool. 296 00:06:48,497 --> 00:06:48,980 - JUDY: Oh, my gosh. 297 00:06:49,020 --> 00:06:49,273 - Yeah. 298 00:06:49,313 --> 00:06:49,980 - No, let me take 299 00:06:50,020 --> 00:06:51,100 a picture of this. 300 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:55,230 - BINH: Look like Blader, huh? 301 00:06:55,270 --> 00:06:55,980 - [laughs] 302 00:06:56,020 --> 00:06:56,227 You know 303 00:06:56,267 --> 00:06:56,980 all the females are like. 304 00:06:57,020 --> 00:06:57,986 You know what they're 305 00:06:58,026 --> 00:06:58,980 thinking, right, Dad? 306 00:06:59,020 --> 00:07:00,280 - JUDY: What are they thinking? 307 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:00,980 - LESLEY: Tell me 308 00:07:01,020 --> 00:07:01,459 - what I'm thinking. 309 00:07:01,499 --> 00:07:01,980 - Where did that money 310 00:07:02,020 --> 00:07:04,000 come from? 311 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:09,033 This is for the lady 312 00:07:09,073 --> 00:07:09,980 that stands by me. 313 00:07:10,020 --> 00:07:11,426 - TINA: Believe in you. 314 00:07:11,466 --> 00:07:12,980 - Just something for you. 315 00:07:13,020 --> 00:07:14,860 - LESLEY: Thank you. 316 00:07:14,900 --> 00:07:15,980 - TINA: Yay. 317 00:07:16,020 --> 00:07:17,049 You really didn't 318 00:07:17,089 --> 00:07:17,980 have to, honey. 319 00:07:18,020 --> 00:07:19,188 I know I didn't have to, 320 00:07:19,228 --> 00:07:20,188 but I wanted to. 321 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:22,105 LESLEY: It's the last thing 322 00:07:22,145 --> 00:07:22,980 that Washington needs 323 00:07:23,020 --> 00:07:23,980 to be doing right now. 324 00:07:24,020 --> 00:07:24,980 Buying expensive gifts 325 00:07:25,020 --> 00:07:26,039 for everyone to for 326 00:07:26,079 --> 00:07:26,980 no reason at all. 327 00:07:27,020 --> 00:07:28,248 - TINA: Another diamond. 328 00:07:28,288 --> 00:07:28,980 - You like it? 329 00:07:29,020 --> 00:07:30,500 TINA: You wanna put it on 330 00:07:30,540 --> 00:07:30,980 for her? 331 00:07:31,020 --> 00:07:31,849 LESLEY: The pressure 332 00:07:31,889 --> 00:07:32,980 that his father put on me, 333 00:07:33,020 --> 00:07:34,316 of whipping Washington 334 00:07:34,356 --> 00:07:34,980 into shape, 335 00:07:35,020 --> 00:07:36,612 I feel like I fail because 336 00:07:36,652 --> 00:07:38,000 if he was accountable, 337 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:39,980 my father-in-law could retire. 338 00:07:40,020 --> 00:07:40,626 I already have a necklace 339 00:07:40,666 --> 00:07:40,980 though, honey. 340 00:07:41,020 --> 00:07:41,980 I love this necklace. 341 00:07:42,020 --> 00:07:43,344 - WASHINGTON: What? 342 00:07:43,384 --> 00:07:44,980 - I love this necklace. 343 00:07:45,020 --> 00:07:46,188 This is what you gave me 344 00:07:46,228 --> 00:07:46,980 for our wedding. 345 00:07:47,020 --> 00:07:47,980 So you don't want this? 346 00:07:48,020 --> 00:07:49,141 LESLEY: I think 347 00:07:49,181 --> 00:07:50,980 it's nice but, you know, 348 00:07:51,020 --> 00:07:52,514 I think we could have spent 349 00:07:52,554 --> 00:07:53,980 that money somewhere else. 350 00:07:54,020 --> 00:07:56,980 Really? So I can return this? 351 00:07:57,020 --> 00:07:57,275 JUDY: Oh, 352 00:07:57,315 --> 00:07:57,980 I'm gonna keep eating. 353 00:07:58,020 --> 00:07:58,546 - HUE: There's a lot of food. 354 00:07:58,586 --> 00:07:58,980 - LESLEY: If you--well, 355 00:07:59,020 --> 00:08:00,748 I'm just saying you could have 356 00:08:00,788 --> 00:08:01,980 just spent that money 357 00:08:02,020 --> 00:08:02,832 - somewhere else. 358 00:08:02,872 --> 00:08:03,980 - It makes me feel bad. 359 00:08:04,020 --> 00:08:04,669 And that's why 360 00:08:04,709 --> 00:08:05,980 I don't ever buy her gifts. 361 00:08:06,020 --> 00:08:06,372 You know what? 362 00:08:06,412 --> 00:08:06,980 I put it in my pocket, 363 00:08:07,020 --> 00:08:08,439 go to the store, 364 00:08:08,479 --> 00:08:09,980 get my cash back, 365 00:08:10,020 --> 00:08:11,400 I'mma go party with it. 366 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:13,980 [music] 367 00:08:14,020 --> 00:08:17,000 [crickets chirping] 368 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:18,980 MCKINLEY HO: Ma, I got it. 369 00:08:19,020 --> 00:08:20,005 JUDY: Okay. That's dirty, 370 00:08:20,045 --> 00:08:20,980 then don't eat that one. 371 00:08:21,020 --> 00:08:22,165 MCKINLEY: No. I got it, 372 00:08:22,205 --> 00:08:22,980 not another one. 373 00:08:23,020 --> 00:08:25,247 JUDY: Thank you for asking 374 00:08:25,287 --> 00:08:26,980 so nicely, McKinley. 375 00:08:27,020 --> 00:08:27,980 - I'm not nicely. 376 00:08:28,020 --> 00:08:28,783 JUDY: You're not being nice, 377 00:08:28,823 --> 00:08:29,323 I know. 378 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:30,684 I'm so happy 379 00:08:30,724 --> 00:08:31,980 to be in my new house, 380 00:08:32,020 --> 00:08:32,603 and out of Washington 381 00:08:32,643 --> 00:08:33,423 and Lesley's. 382 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:34,888 You got to save some 383 00:08:34,928 --> 00:08:35,980 for Grandpa and Grandma. 384 00:08:36,020 --> 00:08:36,980 I made this for them. 385 00:08:37,020 --> 00:08:38,980 I feel like this is a new Judy, 386 00:08:39,020 --> 00:08:39,980 like I'm ready to move on. 387 00:08:40,020 --> 00:08:41,980 The house is so beautiful, 388 00:08:42,020 --> 00:08:43,141 and it symbolizes the next 389 00:08:43,181 --> 00:08:43,980 chapter of my life. 390 00:08:44,020 --> 00:08:45,980 HUE: Hello, Judy. 391 00:08:46,020 --> 00:08:46,460 - Hi. 392 00:08:46,500 --> 00:08:48,000 - JUDY: Hi, Mom. 393 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:50,980 - You got a new house. 394 00:08:51,020 --> 00:08:51,980 - No house is complete 395 00:08:52,020 --> 00:08:53,168 without this. 396 00:08:53,208 --> 00:08:54,980 Oh, look who's here. 397 00:08:55,020 --> 00:08:55,880 - Congratulations. 398 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:56,980 - JUDY: Oh, thank you. 399 00:08:57,020 --> 00:08:58,617 Such a classy gift 400 00:08:58,657 --> 00:09:00,980 from Washington as always. 401 00:09:01,020 --> 00:09:01,420 - SAMMY: Hey, Judy. 402 00:09:01,460 --> 00:09:01,980 - JUDY: Welcome, welcome, 403 00:09:02,020 --> 00:09:02,951 oh, thank you. 404 00:09:02,991 --> 00:09:03,980 I love orchids. 405 00:09:04,020 --> 00:09:05,320 - Oh, I like it. 406 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:06,980 - TINA: Let's party. 407 00:09:07,020 --> 00:09:08,412 - WASHINGTON: All right. Judy. 408 00:09:08,452 --> 00:09:08,980 - JUDY: Yay. 409 00:09:09,020 --> 00:09:10,860 - WASHINGTON: Congratulations. 410 00:09:10,900 --> 00:09:11,980 - JUDY: Thank you. 411 00:09:12,020 --> 00:09:12,407 WASHINGTON: Welcome 412 00:09:12,447 --> 00:09:12,980 to the neighborhood, Judy. 413 00:09:13,020 --> 00:09:13,858 JUDY: Better life. 414 00:09:13,898 --> 00:09:14,980 A toast to Mom and Dad, 415 00:09:15,020 --> 00:09:16,930 I wouldn't be here today 416 00:09:16,970 --> 00:09:17,980 without them. 417 00:09:18,020 --> 00:09:19,043 Well, we wish you 418 00:09:19,083 --> 00:09:20,980 good luck in your new ventures. 419 00:09:21,020 --> 00:09:21,485 - JUDY: Thank you. 420 00:09:21,525 --> 00:09:22,605 - To see you happy 421 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:23,387 for the house 422 00:09:23,427 --> 00:09:23,980 and with your kids. 423 00:09:24,020 --> 00:09:24,730 - JUDY: Thank you. 424 00:09:24,770 --> 00:09:25,980 - For the new chapter in life. 425 00:09:26,020 --> 00:09:27,145 - Cheers to that. 426 00:09:27,185 --> 00:09:28,980 - And I want you to move on 427 00:09:29,020 --> 00:09:29,985 and have most happy 428 00:09:30,025 --> 00:09:30,980 and no matter what. 429 00:09:31,020 --> 00:09:31,980 You're the best. 430 00:09:32,020 --> 00:09:32,467 - I love you. 431 00:09:32,507 --> 00:09:32,980 - Let's party. 432 00:09:33,020 --> 00:09:33,986 I can't wait for you 433 00:09:34,026 --> 00:09:34,980 to host Thanksgiving 434 00:09:35,020 --> 00:09:35,480 - and Christmas this year. 435 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:35,980 - You guys are welcome here 436 00:09:36,020 --> 00:09:39,000 24/7, come anytime. 437 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,000 [music] 438 00:09:46,000 --> 00:09:46,314 WASHINGTON: 439 00:09:46,354 --> 00:09:46,980 The soup is good, Mom. 440 00:09:47,020 --> 00:09:47,390 - HUE: Yeah? 441 00:09:47,430 --> 00:09:47,980 - WASHINGTON: Yeah. 442 00:09:48,020 --> 00:09:50,277 Mom, what do you think about, 443 00:09:50,317 --> 00:09:50,980 you know, 444 00:09:51,020 --> 00:09:53,980 when Dad used to buy you gifts? 445 00:09:54,020 --> 00:09:56,980 I feel he love me, 446 00:09:57,020 --> 00:09:58,980 he think about me. 447 00:09:59,020 --> 00:09:59,927 - Right. 448 00:09:59,967 --> 00:10:01,000 - Uh-huh. 449 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:04,450 Did you care, you know, 450 00:10:04,490 --> 00:10:04,980 what kind of gift that was 451 00:10:05,020 --> 00:10:08,257 - or how much it cost or... 452 00:10:08,297 --> 00:10:08,980 - Why? 453 00:10:09,020 --> 00:10:09,802 - Lesley got all mad at me. 454 00:10:09,842 --> 00:10:09,980 - Yes. 455 00:10:10,020 --> 00:10:10,902 And I don't know 456 00:10:10,942 --> 00:10:11,980 how to talk to her. 457 00:10:12,020 --> 00:10:13,985 - You spend a lot. 458 00:10:14,025 --> 00:10:15,980 - But I don't just 459 00:10:16,020 --> 00:10:18,980 buy to buy it, you know. 460 00:10:19,020 --> 00:10:20,404 Sometimes I feel like, 461 00:10:20,444 --> 00:10:20,980 you know, 462 00:10:21,020 --> 00:10:22,188 I need to remind my wife 463 00:10:22,228 --> 00:10:22,980 that I love her. 464 00:10:23,020 --> 00:10:23,843 - Right. 465 00:10:23,883 --> 00:10:26,000 - In a romantic way. 466 00:10:28,000 --> 00:10:28,980 Oh, she a good wife. 467 00:10:29,020 --> 00:10:29,980 Right. 468 00:10:30,020 --> 00:10:32,848 She worries about the 469 00:10:32,888 --> 00:10:35,980 budget, and the family. 470 00:10:36,020 --> 00:10:37,011 She always worries 471 00:10:37,051 --> 00:10:37,980 about the budget. 472 00:10:38,020 --> 00:10:38,980 Yes. 473 00:10:39,020 --> 00:10:40,206 And that's why, you know, 474 00:10:40,246 --> 00:10:41,206 when you told me 475 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:44,980 to marry Lesley 476 00:10:45,020 --> 00:10:46,980 I know I can be successful 477 00:10:47,020 --> 00:10:49,000 but it's not always easy. 478 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:50,200 You want me to help? 479 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:52,712 - I'll talk to her. 480 00:10:52,752 --> 00:10:52,980 - Yeah. 481 00:10:53,020 --> 00:10:54,285 - I will try. 482 00:10:54,325 --> 00:10:54,980 - Yeah. 483 00:10:55,020 --> 00:10:55,857 This fruit is good, Mom, 484 00:10:55,897 --> 00:10:57,757 but do you have that Vietnamese 485 00:10:58,000 --> 00:10:58,980 cookie that I really love? 486 00:10:59,020 --> 00:10:59,653 - Oh, yes. Uh-huh. 487 00:10:59,693 --> 00:10:59,980 - You do? 488 00:11:00,020 --> 00:11:02,953 My mother giving me 489 00:11:02,993 --> 00:11:04,980 the ultimatum 490 00:11:05,020 --> 00:11:06,980 or the thought that 491 00:11:07,020 --> 00:11:08,315 if I married Lesley 492 00:11:08,355 --> 00:11:09,980 I wouldn't have to worry 493 00:11:10,020 --> 00:11:10,350 about anything 494 00:11:10,390 --> 00:11:10,980 for the rest of my life, 495 00:11:11,020 --> 00:11:12,299 it's gonna take some time 496 00:11:12,339 --> 00:11:12,980 until we know 497 00:11:13,020 --> 00:11:15,980 that decision's correct 498 00:11:16,020 --> 00:11:18,287 because who knows 499 00:11:18,327 --> 00:11:20,980 what Lesley's up to? 500 00:11:21,020 --> 00:11:23,449 We've seen what happened 501 00:11:23,489 --> 00:11:24,980 to Judy, right? 502 00:11:25,020 --> 00:11:26,284 So, you know, 503 00:11:26,324 --> 00:11:28,000 we're in America, 504 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:30,099 American wives are different 505 00:11:30,139 --> 00:11:31,459 from the old-fashioned 506 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:32,980 Asian wives, 507 00:11:33,020 --> 00:11:37,980 they don't put up with shit. 508 00:11:38,020 --> 00:11:40,980 Got a beautiful wife, 509 00:11:41,020 --> 00:11:43,115 - you know, she works. 510 00:11:43,155 --> 00:11:43,980 - Uh-huh. 511 00:11:44,020 --> 00:11:45,980 A little mean, but it's okay. 512 00:11:46,020 --> 00:11:47,980 I very love you. 513 00:11:48,020 --> 00:11:48,907 - I love you, too. 514 00:11:48,947 --> 00:11:49,980 - Listen to me, okay? 515 00:11:50,020 --> 00:11:51,820 I'll help to keep your 516 00:11:51,860 --> 00:11:52,980 marriage good. 517 00:11:53,020 --> 00:11:54,561 I don't want to see, 518 00:11:54,601 --> 00:11:55,980 like, your sister. 519 00:11:56,020 --> 00:11:56,722 - Okay? 520 00:11:56,762 --> 00:11:58,000 - All right. 521 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:00,148 Uh-hmm. 522 00:12:00,188 --> 00:12:00,980 Okay. 523 00:12:01,020 --> 00:12:03,000 [music] 524 00:12:04,000 --> 00:12:05,056 JUDY: It's Washington's 525 00:12:05,096 --> 00:12:05,980 favorite restaurant. 526 00:12:06,020 --> 00:12:07,044 Me too. We've been 527 00:12:07,084 --> 00:12:07,980 here many times. 528 00:12:08,020 --> 00:12:08,471 Even though I left 529 00:12:08,511 --> 00:12:08,980 Washington's house, 530 00:12:09,020 --> 00:12:10,771 he still comes by every day, 531 00:12:10,811 --> 00:12:11,980 he just walks over. 532 00:12:12,020 --> 00:12:13,081 That's Washington 533 00:12:13,121 --> 00:12:13,980 is Washington. 534 00:12:14,020 --> 00:12:14,484 - I know. 535 00:12:14,524 --> 00:12:15,980 - He act like he don't care 536 00:12:16,020 --> 00:12:17,980 but he really a family man, 537 00:12:18,020 --> 00:12:19,157 love, wife, kid, 538 00:12:19,197 --> 00:12:20,980 brother, sister, parents. 539 00:12:21,020 --> 00:12:22,980 Do you feel like, um, 540 00:12:23,020 --> 00:12:25,980 maybe he is the way he is 541 00:12:26,020 --> 00:12:26,986 because you raised me 542 00:12:27,026 --> 00:12:28,286 differently from him. 543 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:30,980 No, I'm not. 544 00:12:31,020 --> 00:12:32,097 I'm not really aware 545 00:12:32,137 --> 00:12:32,980 with everything, 546 00:12:33,020 --> 00:12:34,202 the same thing, 547 00:12:34,242 --> 00:12:35,980 same style, same love. 548 00:12:36,020 --> 00:12:37,084 Uh, I'm not saying 549 00:12:37,124 --> 00:12:38,980 that you love him more than me, 550 00:12:39,020 --> 00:12:39,753 I'm just saying 551 00:12:39,793 --> 00:12:40,980 that when we're younger, 552 00:12:41,020 --> 00:12:42,519 I feel like you treated me 553 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:43,980 like there's a hard line, 554 00:12:44,020 --> 00:12:45,957 like I had to follow the rules, 555 00:12:45,997 --> 00:12:47,980 you were a lot more strict on me 556 00:12:48,020 --> 00:12:48,880 than you were with 557 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:49,980 Washington and Reagan. 558 00:12:50,020 --> 00:12:50,665 Me and Wash have 559 00:12:50,705 --> 00:12:51,980 a younger brother named Reagan. 560 00:12:52,020 --> 00:12:53,064 Reagan doesn't drink 561 00:12:53,104 --> 00:12:53,980 the same Kool-Aid 562 00:12:54,020 --> 00:12:54,980 that that the rest of us drink. 563 00:12:55,020 --> 00:12:56,127 Because of that, 564 00:12:56,167 --> 00:12:57,980 we don't see him as often. 565 00:12:58,020 --> 00:12:58,805 He has an opinion and 566 00:12:58,845 --> 00:12:59,980 he's not afraid to express it. 567 00:13:00,020 --> 00:13:00,955 I felt like 568 00:13:00,995 --> 00:13:02,980 if they made a mistake, 569 00:13:03,020 --> 00:13:04,640 you would try to help them, 570 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:06,129 but at the same time 571 00:13:06,169 --> 00:13:07,980 if I'd made a mistake, you know, 572 00:13:08,020 --> 00:13:09,099 there was a lot more punishment 573 00:13:09,139 --> 00:13:09,980 and there was a lot more, 574 00:13:10,020 --> 00:13:11,700 like, disappointment 575 00:13:11,740 --> 00:13:12,980 that you showed 576 00:13:13,020 --> 00:13:14,360 than when the boys did 577 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:14,980 something. 578 00:13:15,020 --> 00:13:16,170 Let me tell you 579 00:13:16,210 --> 00:13:17,980 that our Asian culture. 580 00:13:18,020 --> 00:13:18,980 Uh-hmm. 581 00:13:19,020 --> 00:13:20,650 In our Asian culture 582 00:13:20,690 --> 00:13:21,980 the older sister 583 00:13:22,020 --> 00:13:22,980 Yes. [speaks Vietnamese] 584 00:13:23,020 --> 00:13:24,980 - is like a second mother. 585 00:13:25,020 --> 00:13:26,038 - That's how I feel. 586 00:13:26,078 --> 00:13:26,980 - Yes, that it is. 587 00:13:27,020 --> 00:13:27,397 - That's how I feel. 588 00:13:27,437 --> 00:13:27,980 - You are the second mother. 589 00:13:28,020 --> 00:13:30,890 - That's why the older sister 590 00:13:30,930 --> 00:13:32,980 always try to protect 591 00:13:33,020 --> 00:13:33,980 the young brother. 592 00:13:34,020 --> 00:13:34,980 Yes. 593 00:13:35,020 --> 00:13:36,379 - And the young brother fee 594 00:13:36,419 --> 00:13:37,980 like, "Oh, new I want, like, my 595 00:13:38,020 --> 00:13:38,980 second mother 596 00:13:39,020 --> 00:13:39,980 - Uh-hmm. 597 00:13:40,020 --> 00:13:41,146 - so anything I need she will 598 00:13:41,186 --> 00:13:41,980 take care of for me." 599 00:13:42,020 --> 00:13:42,398 I'm the first person, 600 00:13:42,438 --> 00:13:42,980 if they don't know what to do. 601 00:13:43,020 --> 00:13:43,779 - I know. 602 00:13:43,819 --> 00:13:45,980 - If they get in trouble, 603 00:13:46,020 --> 00:13:47,141 - they call me. 604 00:13:47,181 --> 00:13:48,980 - I thank you very much, 605 00:13:49,020 --> 00:13:50,891 I appreciate you very much 606 00:13:50,931 --> 00:13:51,980 but that it is. 607 00:13:52,020 --> 00:13:56,000 [music] 608 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:59,305 SINGER: ♪ We don't need 609 00:13:59,345 --> 00:14:00,980 a lot of money ♪ 610 00:14:01,020 --> 00:14:02,980 ♪ I am richer with you ♪ 611 00:14:03,020 --> 00:14:03,699 - Hey, Ma. 612 00:14:03,739 --> 00:14:04,980 - My girl. Uh-huh. 613 00:14:05,020 --> 00:14:05,980 What are you doing? 614 00:14:06,020 --> 00:14:07,986 Oh, I bring the Mary 615 00:14:08,026 --> 00:14:09,980 to bless your house. 616 00:14:10,020 --> 00:14:10,631 - My house? 617 00:14:10,671 --> 00:14:10,980 - Yes. 618 00:14:11,020 --> 00:14:12,036 - Why, what did I do? 619 00:14:12,076 --> 00:14:12,980 - Because of--here, 620 00:14:13,020 --> 00:14:15,000 right here, okay? 621 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:16,980 Beautiful. 622 00:14:17,020 --> 00:14:18,666 I'm used to my mother-in-law 623 00:14:18,706 --> 00:14:19,980 showing up at my house 624 00:14:20,020 --> 00:14:20,980 with Virgin Marys. 625 00:14:21,020 --> 00:14:22,980 It's just what she does. 626 00:14:23,020 --> 00:14:23,980 One more to put in here. 627 00:14:24,020 --> 00:14:24,980 You have another one? 628 00:14:25,020 --> 00:14:26,980 Yeah. Small one. 629 00:14:27,020 --> 00:14:28,010 LESLEY HO: The point 630 00:14:28,050 --> 00:14:28,980 of the Virgin Marys 631 00:14:29,020 --> 00:14:31,980 is to remind me and Washington 632 00:14:32,020 --> 00:14:32,980 to pray. 633 00:14:33,020 --> 00:14:34,409 There must be like a Costco 634 00:14:34,449 --> 00:14:35,980 for Virgin Marys or something, 635 00:14:36,020 --> 00:14:36,933 she buys it in bulk. 636 00:14:36,973 --> 00:14:38,000 So you bring me Maries 637 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:38,960 and you want to talk to me? 638 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:39,858 - Yes. Uh-huh. 639 00:14:39,898 --> 00:14:40,980 - Am I in trouble? 640 00:14:41,020 --> 00:14:43,980 No, Washington, uh, 641 00:14:44,020 --> 00:14:46,064 ask me come to talk to you, 642 00:14:46,104 --> 00:14:46,980 to help you. 643 00:14:47,020 --> 00:14:48,168 - To help me? 644 00:14:48,208 --> 00:14:48,980 - Uh-huh. 645 00:14:49,020 --> 00:14:49,985 - Lesley. 646 00:14:50,025 --> 00:14:50,980 - Uh-huh. 647 00:14:51,020 --> 00:14:51,861 I'm appreciate 648 00:14:51,901 --> 00:14:52,980 and I do love you. 649 00:14:53,020 --> 00:14:54,044 - I love you, too. 650 00:14:54,084 --> 00:14:54,980 - You know that. 651 00:14:55,020 --> 00:14:56,050 - I know you do. 652 00:14:56,090 --> 00:14:57,980 - Yeah. Yeah. That's why I... 653 00:14:58,020 --> 00:14:59,580 I worry about you 654 00:14:59,620 --> 00:15:00,980 and Washington. 655 00:15:01,020 --> 00:15:02,552 I want Vergin Mary help 656 00:15:02,592 --> 00:15:03,980 Washington and Lesley 657 00:15:04,020 --> 00:15:05,980 anytime they fight. 658 00:15:06,020 --> 00:15:07,691 Tell her what's wrong 659 00:15:07,731 --> 00:15:08,980 and what's right 660 00:15:09,020 --> 00:15:10,424 and you believe, she can 661 00:15:10,464 --> 00:15:12,024 help you help your family. 662 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:14,980 I want to take you 663 00:15:15,020 --> 00:15:16,980 to the herb place. 664 00:15:17,020 --> 00:15:17,694 - The herb place? 665 00:15:17,734 --> 00:15:17,980 - Yeah. 666 00:15:18,020 --> 00:15:19,550 - To find... 667 00:15:19,590 --> 00:15:21,000 - Like tea. 668 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:21,000 - To make me relax? 669 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:21,020 - Yes. 670 00:15:21,020 --> 00:15:23,980 You need to relax 671 00:15:24,020 --> 00:15:24,523 and you need to have 672 00:15:24,563 --> 00:15:25,583 a friend to talk. 673 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:26,278 - Uh-huh. 674 00:15:26,318 --> 00:15:26,980 - You want me to talk 675 00:15:27,020 --> 00:15:28,170 - to the Marys? 676 00:15:28,210 --> 00:15:29,980 - Mom come to help her. 677 00:15:30,020 --> 00:15:30,483 - Oh, okay. 678 00:15:30,523 --> 00:15:30,980 - You know. 679 00:15:31,020 --> 00:15:31,605 - Uh-huh. 680 00:15:31,645 --> 00:15:32,980 - That's why I come. 681 00:15:33,020 --> 00:15:33,980 All right. 682 00:15:34,020 --> 00:15:37,000 [music] 683 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:39,922 JUDY: I wanted to host 684 00:15:39,962 --> 00:15:40,980 like a housewarming party 685 00:15:41,020 --> 00:15:42,315 but then combine it 686 00:15:42,355 --> 00:15:43,980 with the Lunar New Year. 687 00:15:44,020 --> 00:15:44,420 - Uh-hmm. 688 00:15:44,460 --> 00:15:45,980 - So have a Lunar New Year party 689 00:15:46,020 --> 00:15:46,452 with my friends 690 00:15:46,492 --> 00:15:46,980 and, like, family 691 00:15:47,020 --> 00:15:48,171 so everyone can see the house 692 00:15:48,211 --> 00:15:48,980 and we can celebrate 693 00:15:49,020 --> 00:15:51,179 - the new together. 694 00:15:51,219 --> 00:15:51,980 - Okay. 695 00:15:52,020 --> 00:15:52,572 - What do you think? 696 00:15:52,612 --> 00:15:52,980 - That's good. 697 00:15:53,020 --> 00:15:55,385 - That's New Year lucky day. 698 00:15:55,425 --> 00:15:55,980 - Yeah. 699 00:15:56,020 --> 00:15:56,717 I feel like 700 00:15:56,757 --> 00:15:57,980 with this new year, 701 00:15:58,020 --> 00:16:01,980 I just wanna start, like, fresh 702 00:16:02,020 --> 00:16:04,598 and start like being more open 703 00:16:04,638 --> 00:16:05,980 with our family, 704 00:16:06,020 --> 00:16:06,843 but I feel like 705 00:16:06,883 --> 00:16:07,980 our family right now 706 00:16:08,020 --> 00:16:09,298 is like a lot of things 707 00:16:09,338 --> 00:16:09,980 are going on 708 00:16:10,020 --> 00:16:12,000 so it's hard to talk. 709 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:14,980 Well, you can talk to me, 710 00:16:15,020 --> 00:16:16,153 I can help you 711 00:16:16,193 --> 00:16:17,980 but you never tell me. 712 00:16:18,020 --> 00:16:18,929 Now it's just me 713 00:16:18,969 --> 00:16:19,980 and the three kids 714 00:16:20,020 --> 00:16:21,639 but also I've been spending 715 00:16:21,679 --> 00:16:22,980 more time with someone 716 00:16:23,020 --> 00:16:25,000 and I have a boyfriend 717 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:28,808 and I know that it's hard 718 00:16:28,848 --> 00:16:29,980 for you to hear, 719 00:16:30,020 --> 00:16:31,394 but it's just something 720 00:16:31,434 --> 00:16:33,000 that I wanna let you know. 721 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:37,129 To me, I need somebody 722 00:16:37,169 --> 00:16:38,980 and I want somebody 723 00:16:39,020 --> 00:16:40,100 love my grandbaby, 724 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:41,722 - that important. 725 00:16:41,762 --> 00:16:41,980 - Yes. 726 00:16:42,020 --> 00:16:43,980 So I need to talk to them, 727 00:16:44,020 --> 00:16:45,559 you need to meet with them 728 00:16:45,599 --> 00:16:45,980 and say 729 00:16:46,020 --> 00:16:47,980 do you love my grandbaby? 730 00:16:48,020 --> 00:16:50,980 Can you care for my grandbaby? 731 00:16:51,020 --> 00:16:52,768 That more important 732 00:16:52,808 --> 00:16:53,980 than for you. 733 00:16:54,020 --> 00:16:56,049 But even if you either 734 00:16:56,089 --> 00:16:56,980 yes or no, 735 00:16:57,020 --> 00:16:58,328 you have to know that 736 00:16:58,368 --> 00:16:59,980 now that I'm 39 years old, 737 00:17:00,020 --> 00:17:01,149 my life is gonna continue 738 00:17:01,189 --> 00:17:02,269 on no matter what. 739 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:05,493 Do you think I'm reasonable 740 00:17:05,533 --> 00:17:07,000 when I ask that? 741 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:08,718 - Yeah, that's very reasonable. 742 00:17:08,758 --> 00:17:08,980 - Oh, cool. 743 00:17:09,020 --> 00:17:10,196 So if I'm reasonable, 744 00:17:10,236 --> 00:17:11,980 you should be go along with me. 745 00:17:12,020 --> 00:17:13,980 I do go along with you, Dad. 746 00:17:14,020 --> 00:17:14,761 - I'm just saying that-- 747 00:17:14,801 --> 00:17:14,980 - Okay. 748 00:17:15,020 --> 00:17:17,000 --I'm a big girl now. 749 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:18,356 I wanna meet 750 00:17:18,396 --> 00:17:18,980 and talk to the guy, 751 00:17:19,020 --> 00:17:20,562 make sure he love 752 00:17:20,602 --> 00:17:22,980 and care for my grandbaby, 753 00:17:23,020 --> 00:17:25,980 that my number one objection, 754 00:17:26,020 --> 00:17:27,980 right there. 755 00:17:28,020 --> 00:17:29,209 But if he don't wanna meet me, 756 00:17:29,249 --> 00:17:29,980 he don't wanna do-- 757 00:17:30,020 --> 00:17:33,980 and you decide you marry him, 758 00:17:34,020 --> 00:17:36,172 everything you wanna do, 759 00:17:36,212 --> 00:17:37,980 you can do your own, 760 00:17:38,020 --> 00:17:39,980 I cannot stop you. 761 00:17:40,020 --> 00:17:40,980 Uh, yeah. 762 00:17:41,020 --> 00:17:42,773 But at that time, 763 00:17:42,813 --> 00:17:44,980 I tell you one thing, 764 00:17:45,020 --> 00:17:46,980 you broken my heart 765 00:17:47,020 --> 00:17:49,174 and broken relationship 766 00:17:49,214 --> 00:17:50,980 between me and you. 767 00:17:51,020 --> 00:17:53,000 Uh-hmm. I understand that. 768 00:17:59,000 --> 00:17:59,020 [music] 769 00:17:59,020 --> 00:18:03,000 SINGER ♪ I am alive ♪ 770 00:18:07,000 --> 00:18:07,274 - Hi. 771 00:18:07,314 --> 00:18:07,980 - WOMAN: Hi. 772 00:18:08,020 --> 00:18:08,721 - How are you? 773 00:18:08,761 --> 00:18:08,980 - Hi. 774 00:18:09,020 --> 00:18:12,980 I need a medicine to help her. 775 00:18:13,020 --> 00:18:14,291 WOMAN: Yeah. So Dr. Grayson, 776 00:18:14,331 --> 00:18:15,231 she'll diagnose 777 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:16,625 - and ask you, like, questions. 778 00:18:16,665 --> 00:18:16,980 - LESLEY: Uh-hmm. 779 00:18:17,020 --> 00:18:17,980 Um, you guys can come with me. 780 00:18:18,020 --> 00:18:18,980 - Okay. 781 00:18:19,020 --> 00:18:21,309 LESLEY: I went through 10 years 782 00:18:21,349 --> 00:18:21,980 of school 783 00:18:22,020 --> 00:18:23,640 learning about medications. 784 00:18:24,000 --> 00:18:24,883 Somehow, I don't think 785 00:18:24,923 --> 00:18:25,980 Virgin Marys and herbalists 786 00:18:26,020 --> 00:18:27,980 are the answers to my problems. 787 00:18:28,020 --> 00:18:28,980 I'm Lesley, nice to meet you. 788 00:18:29,020 --> 00:18:30,980 But what choice do I have? 789 00:18:31,020 --> 00:18:32,980 I have to be respectful. 790 00:18:33,020 --> 00:18:33,347 - Yes. 791 00:18:33,387 --> 00:18:34,980 - How can I help you today? 792 00:18:35,020 --> 00:18:35,771 HUE HO: I bring her 793 00:18:35,811 --> 00:18:37,551 here help--to help her relax. 794 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:39,073 - Slow now and she, uh-- 795 00:18:39,113 --> 00:18:39,980 - DR. GRAYSON: Okay. 796 00:18:40,020 --> 00:18:41,980 --she talk a lot, too. 797 00:18:42,020 --> 00:18:44,980 Her husband is same thing, 798 00:18:45,020 --> 00:18:46,985 that's why they fight, 799 00:18:47,025 --> 00:18:47,980 they crazy. 800 00:18:48,020 --> 00:18:49,000 I'm not crazy. 801 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:53,257 I'm a mother, and I'm a wife, 802 00:18:53,297 --> 00:18:54,980 and a daughter-in-law, 803 00:18:55,020 --> 00:18:55,980 I'm working a lot, too, 804 00:18:56,020 --> 00:18:56,980 and I have a fulltime job, 805 00:18:57,020 --> 00:18:57,980 it's a lot, you know. 806 00:18:58,020 --> 00:19:01,000 - Talk a lot--real crazy! 807 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:03,122 That why I bring her 808 00:19:03,162 --> 00:19:03,980 come over here. 809 00:19:04,020 --> 00:19:04,464 Uh-huh. 810 00:19:04,504 --> 00:19:05,980 How's your period now? 811 00:19:06,020 --> 00:19:07,128 - My period? 812 00:19:07,168 --> 00:19:08,000 - Uh-huh. 813 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:08,020 Normal, I guess. 814 00:19:08,020 --> 00:19:08,980 - Let me see your tongue. 815 00:19:09,020 --> 00:19:09,816 - My what? 816 00:19:09,856 --> 00:19:10,980 - Your tongue. 817 00:19:11,020 --> 00:19:11,448 - My tongue? 818 00:19:11,488 --> 00:19:11,980 - Yes. Uh-huh. 819 00:19:12,020 --> 00:19:13,000 Stick out. 820 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:15,787 - Lesley, she's the 821 00:19:15,827 --> 00:19:17,980 good wife, good mother, 822 00:19:18,020 --> 00:19:20,538 everything is good but one 823 00:19:20,578 --> 00:19:22,980 thing, she's hard-headed. 824 00:19:23,020 --> 00:19:23,553 Okay. 825 00:19:23,593 --> 00:19:26,980 I think it's like a imbalance. 826 00:19:27,020 --> 00:19:27,980 Your liver qi is too much. 827 00:19:28,020 --> 00:19:29,534 - Oh, my qi is too much? 828 00:19:29,574 --> 00:19:29,980 - Yeah, 829 00:19:30,020 --> 00:19:30,980 and you need reduce some. 830 00:19:31,020 --> 00:19:31,301 - Okay. 831 00:19:31,341 --> 00:19:31,980 - DOCTOR: Yeah. 832 00:19:32,020 --> 00:19:32,650 And you also 833 00:19:32,690 --> 00:19:33,980 maybe you work too much. 834 00:19:34,020 --> 00:19:34,574 - HUE: Yes. 835 00:19:34,614 --> 00:19:35,980 - DOCTOR: Too much stress. 836 00:19:36,020 --> 00:19:36,429 - Imbalance. 837 00:19:36,469 --> 00:19:36,980 - You're right. 838 00:19:37,020 --> 00:19:37,469 - DOCTOR: Yeah. 839 00:19:37,509 --> 00:19:37,980 - LESLEY: Right. 840 00:19:38,020 --> 00:19:38,980 Try to use some herb. 841 00:19:39,020 --> 00:19:40,052 - To help my qi? 842 00:19:40,092 --> 00:19:40,980 - DOCTOR: Yes. 843 00:19:41,020 --> 00:19:41,273 - Okay. 844 00:19:41,313 --> 00:19:41,980 - DOCTOR: Uh-hmm. 845 00:19:42,020 --> 00:19:43,045 So I can write prescription 846 00:19:43,085 --> 00:19:43,980 for you, get some herbs. 847 00:19:44,020 --> 00:19:46,000 I hope it works. 848 00:19:48,000 --> 00:19:49,980 [music] 849 00:19:50,020 --> 00:19:51,546 LESLEY: So your mom took me 850 00:19:51,586 --> 00:19:52,980 to an herbal place today. 851 00:19:53,020 --> 00:19:55,000 She thinks my qi is off. 852 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:57,261 - Who thinks like that? 853 00:19:57,301 --> 00:19:57,980 - My parents. 854 00:19:58,020 --> 00:19:59,395 Why do you think 855 00:19:59,435 --> 00:20:00,980 I am the way I am? 856 00:20:01,020 --> 00:20:01,716 - Do you want a DP? 857 00:20:01,756 --> 00:20:01,980 - Yeah. 858 00:20:02,020 --> 00:20:02,815 It's gonna be one 859 00:20:02,855 --> 00:20:03,980 of those nights, Lesley? 860 00:20:04,020 --> 00:20:04,980 Yes. 861 00:20:05,020 --> 00:20:05,980 What you've been up to? 862 00:20:06,020 --> 00:20:07,516 I just did a few things, 863 00:20:07,556 --> 00:20:08,980 you know, like I was... 864 00:20:09,020 --> 00:20:10,729 double-checking with the florist 865 00:20:10,769 --> 00:20:11,980 that you had talked to, 866 00:20:12,020 --> 00:20:12,802 about your dad's retirement 867 00:20:12,842 --> 00:20:13,342 party. 868 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:14,503 - Oh, okay. 869 00:20:14,543 --> 00:20:15,980 - Anyways, do you have a straw? 870 00:20:16,020 --> 00:20:16,487 - Yes, I do. 871 00:20:16,527 --> 00:20:16,980 - Thank you. 872 00:20:17,020 --> 00:20:17,943 JUDY: So what's going on 873 00:20:17,983 --> 00:20:19,543 with the retirement party? 874 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,095 So I took him 875 00:20:22,135 --> 00:20:23,980 to go look at a venue. 876 00:20:24,020 --> 00:20:24,785 - All right. 877 00:20:24,825 --> 00:20:25,980 - We show up there 878 00:20:26,020 --> 00:20:27,980 and he basically... 879 00:20:28,020 --> 00:20:29,980 was telling me how... 880 00:20:30,020 --> 00:20:31,573 - he's not ready to retire. 881 00:20:31,613 --> 00:20:31,980 - What? 882 00:20:32,020 --> 00:20:33,940 That's what he flat out told me, 883 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:34,980 that he's not ready to retire. 884 00:20:35,020 --> 00:20:35,615 - Why? 885 00:20:35,655 --> 00:20:38,980 - Because his kids aren't ready. 886 00:20:39,020 --> 00:20:39,980 How so? 887 00:20:40,020 --> 00:20:41,980 You're divorced with three kids, 888 00:20:42,020 --> 00:20:42,774 and your life 889 00:20:42,814 --> 00:20:43,980 is kind of unstable. 890 00:20:44,020 --> 00:20:45,280 Reagan's not married. 891 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:46,020 Okay. As if getting married 892 00:20:46,020 --> 00:20:46,823 is all of a sudden 893 00:20:46,863 --> 00:20:48,363 gonna make any different. 894 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:49,260 - Next? 895 00:20:49,300 --> 00:20:49,980 - With Washington, 896 00:20:50,020 --> 00:20:51,728 he says he has to grow up 897 00:20:51,768 --> 00:20:52,980 a little bit more. 898 00:20:53,020 --> 00:20:53,980 [scoffs] 899 00:20:54,020 --> 00:20:55,455 First of all, he told you 900 00:20:55,495 --> 00:20:56,980 but not me and Washington? 901 00:20:57,020 --> 00:20:57,850 Washington's family 902 00:20:57,890 --> 00:20:58,980 is really wearing me out. 903 00:20:59,020 --> 00:21:00,980 My mother-in-law thinks 904 00:21:01,020 --> 00:21:01,270 that herbs 905 00:21:01,310 --> 00:21:01,980 are gonna fix everything, 906 00:21:02,020 --> 00:21:03,279 my father-in-law 907 00:21:03,319 --> 00:21:04,980 can't trust his kids, 908 00:21:05,020 --> 00:21:05,980 and I'm stuck in the middle. 909 00:21:06,020 --> 00:21:07,201 When he looks 910 00:21:07,241 --> 00:21:08,980 at the three of us, 911 00:21:09,020 --> 00:21:10,027 it's just disappointment 912 00:21:10,067 --> 00:21:10,980 in his eyes, you know. 913 00:21:11,020 --> 00:21:12,980 That's how we grew up, Lesley. 914 00:21:13,020 --> 00:21:14,152 And when Washington 915 00:21:14,192 --> 00:21:16,000 finds out what his dad said... 916 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:18,980 it's just gonna crush him. 917 00:21:19,020 --> 00:21:20,160 We're never enough, 918 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,098 and to grow up that way, 919 00:21:23,138 --> 00:21:24,000 it's hard. 920 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:26,000 [sighs] 921 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:27,980 [music] 922 00:21:28,020 --> 00:21:29,220 SINGER: ♪ Jump ♪ 923 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:31,078 ♪ Jump, jump like a lion, 924 00:21:31,118 --> 00:21:31,980 tangles in my hair ♪ 925 00:21:32,020 --> 00:21:33,161 ♪ Do what I want 926 00:21:33,201 --> 00:21:34,980 like a millionaire, jump ♪ 927 00:21:35,020 --> 00:21:36,260 JUDY: When I spend time 928 00:21:36,300 --> 00:21:37,980 with my family, I feel worried, 929 00:21:38,020 --> 00:21:39,552 I feel like I should be 930 00:21:39,592 --> 00:21:40,980 doing something more. 931 00:21:41,020 --> 00:21:42,143 SINGER: ♪ I'm living 932 00:21:42,183 --> 00:21:42,980 my best life ♪ 933 00:21:43,020 --> 00:21:43,415 - Cheers, babe. 934 00:21:43,455 --> 00:21:43,980 - JUDY: Cheers baby. 935 00:21:44,020 --> 00:21:45,370 And that really makes me 936 00:21:45,410 --> 00:21:46,980 appreciate my time with Nate 937 00:21:47,020 --> 00:21:48,980 because that's when I feel free. 938 00:21:49,020 --> 00:21:49,980 You look amazingly babe. 939 00:21:50,020 --> 00:21:51,980 NATE: You look fantastic. 940 00:21:52,020 --> 00:21:52,555 JUDY: You really made 941 00:21:52,595 --> 00:21:52,980 an effort today. 942 00:21:53,020 --> 00:21:53,732 Really? 943 00:21:53,772 --> 00:21:55,980 Unlike the other day? 944 00:21:56,020 --> 00:21:56,286 Well, I mean, 945 00:21:56,326 --> 00:21:56,980 not like when I first met you, 946 00:21:57,020 --> 00:21:58,373 you look like college kid 947 00:21:58,413 --> 00:21:58,980 and like... 948 00:21:59,020 --> 00:21:59,980 I did look bad 949 00:22:00,020 --> 00:22:01,486 - when I first met you. 950 00:22:01,526 --> 00:22:02,980 - I wasn't as impressed 951 00:22:03,020 --> 00:22:04,980 then as I am now. 952 00:22:05,020 --> 00:22:05,528 But yeah, back then, I didn't 953 00:22:05,568 --> 00:22:05,980 think we would ever date. 954 00:22:06,020 --> 00:22:06,422 - Yeah? 955 00:22:06,462 --> 00:22:07,980 - You were so dismissive. 956 00:22:08,020 --> 00:22:09,154 What happened? 957 00:22:09,194 --> 00:22:09,980 Remind me. 958 00:22:10,020 --> 00:22:11,697 - Uh, we came back from golf-- 959 00:22:11,737 --> 00:22:11,980 - Oh. 960 00:22:12,020 --> 00:22:12,722 - --and--yeah. 961 00:22:12,762 --> 00:22:13,980 - I remember this story. 962 00:22:14,020 --> 00:22:14,761 - Yeah, I see Franklin-- 963 00:22:14,801 --> 00:22:14,980 - Okay. 964 00:22:15,020 --> 00:22:17,025 --your cousin, I was like, 965 00:22:17,065 --> 00:22:18,980 "Hey, Judy, this is Nate. 966 00:22:19,020 --> 00:22:19,399 "He's in pre-med, 967 00:22:19,439 --> 00:22:19,980 he's gonna be a doctor." 968 00:22:20,020 --> 00:22:21,980 And you looked at me, 969 00:22:22,020 --> 00:22:23,677 you rolled your eyes, and said, 970 00:22:23,717 --> 00:22:25,157 "So what? I'm a lawyer." 971 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:26,980 I'm so embarrassed. 972 00:22:27,020 --> 00:22:28,072 And then I didn't see you 973 00:22:28,112 --> 00:22:28,980 again for five years. 974 00:22:29,020 --> 00:22:29,807 - Yeah? 975 00:22:29,847 --> 00:22:32,980 - So good first impression. 976 00:22:33,020 --> 00:22:33,437 But I'm so embarrassed 977 00:22:33,477 --> 00:22:33,980 that I was acting that way, 978 00:22:34,020 --> 00:22:37,000 that's so snooty of me. 979 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:37,000 I don't think you're acting, 980 00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:37,960 I think that was you. 981 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:38,812 - [laughs] 982 00:22:38,852 --> 00:22:40,980 - Like, that was just you. 983 00:22:41,020 --> 00:22:42,020 - Oh, I'm sorry. 984 00:22:42,060 --> 00:22:43,000 - Just kidding. 985 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:43,000 - You weren't like that-- 986 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:43,780 - I feel bad. 987 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:44,560 --the last five years, 988 00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:44,980 you were better. 989 00:22:45,020 --> 00:22:46,000 Thank you. 990 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:47,980 I feel like back then, 991 00:22:48,020 --> 00:22:48,980 I was attracted to... 992 00:22:49,020 --> 00:22:51,472 - the bad boy type, you know. 993 00:22:51,512 --> 00:22:51,980 - Hmm. 994 00:22:52,020 --> 00:22:52,980 There's something about them. 995 00:22:53,020 --> 00:22:54,397 I felt like I could change them 996 00:22:54,437 --> 00:22:54,980 or something, 997 00:22:55,020 --> 00:22:55,980 you know what I mean? 998 00:22:56,020 --> 00:22:56,362 Is that what 999 00:22:56,402 --> 00:22:56,980 you're thinking now? 1000 00:22:57,020 --> 00:22:57,839 - What would change about me? 1001 00:22:57,879 --> 00:22:57,980 - No. 1002 00:22:58,020 --> 00:22:58,675 I would change nothing 1003 00:22:58,715 --> 00:22:58,980 about you. 1004 00:22:59,020 --> 00:22:59,741 - You're like the opposite-- 1005 00:22:59,781 --> 00:22:59,980 - Uh-hmm. 1006 00:23:00,020 --> 00:23:01,240 --of what I used to be 1007 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:01,980 attracted to. 1008 00:23:02,020 --> 00:23:03,980 You're stable, very thoughtful 1009 00:23:04,020 --> 00:23:04,980 and very considerate, 1010 00:23:05,020 --> 00:23:07,328 and you just make my life 1011 00:23:07,368 --> 00:23:07,980 easier. 1012 00:23:08,020 --> 00:23:08,422 - Okay. 1013 00:23:08,462 --> 00:23:09,980 - As complicated as it is 1014 00:23:10,020 --> 00:23:11,789 and dealing with kids 1015 00:23:11,829 --> 00:23:12,980 and my family, 1016 00:23:13,020 --> 00:23:14,397 and trying to get back on track 1017 00:23:14,437 --> 00:23:14,980 with my life, 1018 00:23:15,020 --> 00:23:16,880 I feel like you're there 1019 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:17,980 to support me. 1020 00:23:18,020 --> 00:23:19,484 And you're like the one person 1021 00:23:19,524 --> 00:23:19,980 in my life 1022 00:23:20,020 --> 00:23:21,188 who doesn't ask anything 1023 00:23:21,228 --> 00:23:21,980 of me, you know. 1024 00:23:22,020 --> 00:23:22,213 - Right. 1025 00:23:22,253 --> 00:23:22,980 - I feel like everyone else 1026 00:23:23,020 --> 00:23:23,980 needs something from me 1027 00:23:24,020 --> 00:23:26,236 or I have to, like, live up 1028 00:23:26,276 --> 00:23:27,980 to their expectations 1029 00:23:28,020 --> 00:23:29,218 and make sure 1030 00:23:29,258 --> 00:23:31,980 that they're happy, you know? 1031 00:23:32,020 --> 00:23:33,605 It's hard being that 1032 00:23:33,645 --> 00:23:34,980 to everyone else. 1033 00:23:35,020 --> 00:23:35,906 But with you, I feel like 1034 00:23:35,946 --> 00:23:36,980 you don't require that of me. 1035 00:23:37,020 --> 00:23:38,152 You just made my life 1036 00:23:38,192 --> 00:23:38,980 so much better, 1037 00:23:39,020 --> 00:23:41,915 and I, I don't even know 1038 00:23:41,955 --> 00:23:43,980 how I'd be living 1039 00:23:44,020 --> 00:23:45,387 through everything right now 1040 00:23:45,427 --> 00:23:46,147 without you. 1041 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:49,916 I feel like I'm 1042 00:23:49,956 --> 00:23:50,980 proposing to you. 1043 00:23:51,020 --> 00:23:51,480 I know. I was like, "Why aren't 1044 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:51,980 you going to your knee?" Like... 1045 00:23:52,020 --> 00:23:53,895 I feel--I feel like I should 1046 00:23:53,935 --> 00:23:54,980 hand you a rose. 1047 00:23:55,020 --> 00:23:55,980 A rose? 1048 00:23:56,020 --> 00:23:58,206 - Like The Bachelor? 1049 00:23:58,246 --> 00:23:58,980 - Yeah. 1050 00:23:59,020 --> 00:23:59,980 You're turning 40. 1051 00:24:00,020 --> 00:24:00,446 What are you gonna 1052 00:24:00,486 --> 00:24:00,980 do for your birthday? 1053 00:24:01,020 --> 00:24:02,980 [sighs] 1054 00:24:03,020 --> 00:24:03,980 - What I want for my birthday? 1055 00:24:04,020 --> 00:24:04,980 - That, plus what do you do... 1056 00:24:05,020 --> 00:24:06,749 I would love to walk 1057 00:24:06,789 --> 00:24:07,980 into a room... 1058 00:24:08,020 --> 00:24:08,980 with you... 1059 00:24:09,020 --> 00:24:11,980 And to see all my family 1060 00:24:12,020 --> 00:24:12,902 and, like, 10 of 1061 00:24:12,942 --> 00:24:13,980 my closest friends, 1062 00:24:14,020 --> 00:24:16,980 and for everyone to be... 1063 00:24:17,020 --> 00:24:18,486 loving and accepting 1064 00:24:18,526 --> 00:24:19,980 of our relationship. 1065 00:24:20,020 --> 00:24:21,285 All of them? All 10 1066 00:24:21,325 --> 00:24:22,980 friends and your parents? 1067 00:24:23,020 --> 00:24:23,484 - Yeah. 1068 00:24:23,524 --> 00:24:24,000 - Okay. 1069 00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:25,443 - Because I feel like-- 1070 00:24:25,483 --> 00:24:25,980 - Wow. That's a tall order. 1071 00:24:26,020 --> 00:24:26,980 --I would love to start 1072 00:24:27,020 --> 00:24:27,980 my 40th year, you know, 1073 00:24:28,020 --> 00:24:29,046 like, with all their love 1074 00:24:29,086 --> 00:24:29,980 and support behind us. 1075 00:24:30,020 --> 00:24:30,536 - Right. 1076 00:24:30,576 --> 00:24:31,980 - Because I feel like 1077 00:24:32,020 --> 00:24:33,980 I'm gonna be with you 1078 00:24:34,020 --> 00:24:35,285 and I want everyone 1079 00:24:35,325 --> 00:24:37,000 to be on board with that. 1080 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:39,569 I wish I could clone myself 1081 00:24:39,609 --> 00:24:41,049 so that I could be like, 1082 00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:42,510 the perfect mother 1083 00:24:42,550 --> 00:24:42,980 for my children, 1084 00:24:43,020 --> 00:24:44,980 the perfect girlfriend for you, 1085 00:24:45,020 --> 00:24:46,218 and the perfect daughter 1086 00:24:46,258 --> 00:24:46,980 for my parents. 1087 00:24:47,020 --> 00:24:48,111 You need all three of those 1088 00:24:48,151 --> 00:24:49,000 to be the one person? 1089 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:49,020 Do you know how hard that is? 1090 00:24:49,020 --> 00:24:51,980 Like, it's draining. 1091 00:24:52,020 --> 00:24:53,320 Like, at the end of the day, 1092 00:24:53,360 --> 00:24:53,980 I'm just like, 1093 00:24:54,020 --> 00:24:56,246 once I give everything 1094 00:24:56,286 --> 00:24:57,980 I can to my kids, 1095 00:24:58,020 --> 00:24:58,757 - there's nothing left for me. 1096 00:24:58,797 --> 00:24:58,980 - Uh-hmm. 1097 00:24:59,020 --> 00:24:59,958 And I'm just literally 1098 00:24:59,998 --> 00:25:00,980 just trying to survive, 1099 00:25:01,020 --> 00:25:03,520 and that's just not enough 1100 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:04,980 for me anymore. 1101 00:25:05,020 --> 00:25:05,232 I remember 1102 00:25:05,272 --> 00:25:05,980 when we first started talking. 1103 00:25:06,020 --> 00:25:06,435 - Yeah. 1104 00:25:06,475 --> 00:25:07,980 - You were so different. 1105 00:25:08,020 --> 00:25:09,246 - You know, like, we were just-- 1106 00:25:09,286 --> 00:25:09,980 - What do you mean? 1107 00:25:10,020 --> 00:25:11,064 We were just friends 1108 00:25:11,104 --> 00:25:11,980 in public, right? 1109 00:25:12,020 --> 00:25:12,980 You put up this front. 1110 00:25:13,020 --> 00:25:13,704 Because I feel 1111 00:25:13,744 --> 00:25:15,000 like this--my whole life, 1112 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:15,000 like, I just have to put up 1113 00:25:15,000 --> 00:25:15,020 a front 1114 00:25:15,020 --> 00:25:17,023 and make sure that, 1115 00:25:17,063 --> 00:25:17,980 you know, 1116 00:25:18,020 --> 00:25:18,450 that my family 1117 00:25:18,490 --> 00:25:18,980 is taken care of 1118 00:25:19,020 --> 00:25:20,297 and that we look good 1119 00:25:20,337 --> 00:25:21,000 and that... 1120 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:24,253 that everything looks good 1121 00:25:24,293 --> 00:25:24,980 for me outside. 1122 00:25:25,020 --> 00:25:25,980 But the inside is just so hard 1123 00:25:26,020 --> 00:25:27,422 - to keep up with that. 1124 00:25:27,462 --> 00:25:28,000 - I know. 1125 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:28,000 Babe, I know 1126 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:28,020 it's been hard for you though. 1127 00:25:28,020 --> 00:25:28,345 - I know. 1128 00:25:28,385 --> 00:25:28,980 - You know that? 1129 00:25:29,020 --> 00:25:30,292 At the same time, 1130 00:25:30,332 --> 00:25:31,980 I feel like, you know, 1131 00:25:32,020 --> 00:25:34,980 my life has been so good 1132 00:25:35,020 --> 00:25:36,257 that I shouldn't feel 1133 00:25:36,297 --> 00:25:36,980 what I feel. 1134 00:25:37,020 --> 00:25:37,438 - That's bull shit. 1135 00:25:37,478 --> 00:25:38,858 - I feel--I feel guilty 1136 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:39,725 - for feeling what I feel. 1137 00:25:39,765 --> 00:25:39,980 - [sighs] 1138 00:25:40,020 --> 00:25:40,980 Everybody in their own 1139 00:25:41,020 --> 00:25:41,803 social situation 1140 00:25:41,843 --> 00:25:43,223 has their own problems. 1141 00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:45,980 I know. But I have it so good. 1142 00:25:46,020 --> 00:25:47,980 I see so many people struggling 1143 00:25:48,020 --> 00:25:48,769 and I feel like 1144 00:25:48,809 --> 00:25:49,980 if they had what I had, 1145 00:25:50,020 --> 00:25:51,443 that I feel like I 1146 00:25:51,483 --> 00:25:52,980 shouldn't complain. 1147 00:25:53,020 --> 00:25:54,195 I don't think that's 1148 00:25:54,235 --> 00:25:54,980 true, though. 1149 00:25:55,020 --> 00:25:55,548 - Really? 1150 00:25:55,588 --> 00:25:55,980 - Yeah. 1151 00:25:56,020 --> 00:25:56,980 Because I really feel like 1152 00:25:57,020 --> 00:25:57,985 you're gonna have 1153 00:25:58,025 --> 00:25:58,980 your own problems 1154 00:25:59,020 --> 00:26:00,185 no matter what level 1155 00:26:00,225 --> 00:26:01,980 of financial status you're at. 1156 00:26:02,020 --> 00:26:02,980 I've seen people 1157 00:26:03,020 --> 00:26:04,980 who make a tenth of what we make 1158 00:26:05,020 --> 00:26:06,013 be happy with their 1159 00:26:06,053 --> 00:26:06,980 husbands and wives 1160 00:26:07,020 --> 00:26:08,980 and families, and whatever not. 1161 00:26:09,020 --> 00:26:10,320 Even without all that stuff, 1162 00:26:10,360 --> 00:26:10,980 we'd be happy. 1163 00:26:11,020 --> 00:26:11,609 - We would be happy. 1164 00:26:11,649 --> 00:26:11,980 - [chuckles] 1165 00:26:12,020 --> 00:26:13,650 Like you always say, 1166 00:26:13,690 --> 00:26:15,000 it's just money. 1167 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:15,500 [laughs] 1168 00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:17,205 That's why I love you, 1169 00:26:17,245 --> 00:26:17,980 you know that? 1170 00:26:18,020 --> 00:26:18,980 I really feel that, you know. 1171 00:26:19,020 --> 00:26:22,000 Yeah. I feel that way, too. 1172 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:29,000 [music] 1173 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:36,980 Babe. 1174 00:26:37,020 --> 00:26:37,980 WASHINGTON: Huh? 1175 00:26:38,020 --> 00:26:39,640 LESLEY: What are you doing? 1176 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,000 Getting sexy. 1177 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:48,980 What are you wearing? 1178 00:26:49,020 --> 00:26:52,000 You look like you're... 1179 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:54,114 like, strip tease 1180 00:26:54,154 --> 00:26:54,980 or something. 1181 00:26:55,020 --> 00:26:56,980 - I'm getting ready for tonight. 1182 00:26:57,020 --> 00:26:57,980 What is tonight? 1183 00:26:58,020 --> 00:26:58,980 What do you mean, babe? 1184 00:26:59,020 --> 00:27:00,580 It's your favorite outfit. 1185 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:03,980 What? 1186 00:27:04,020 --> 00:27:06,065 I'm getting laid tonight, 1187 00:27:06,105 --> 00:27:08,000 I don't know about you. 1188 00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:09,960 Well, uh, if you're getting 1189 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:10,980 laid, I hope that I'm there. 1190 00:27:11,020 --> 00:27:14,000 We're gonna make love, right? 1191 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:15,480 - Okay. 1192 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:15,980 - Yeah. 1193 00:27:16,020 --> 00:27:17,299 Why are you wearing shoes 1194 00:27:17,339 --> 00:27:17,980 in the house? 1195 00:27:18,020 --> 00:27:18,455 To make you feel 1196 00:27:18,495 --> 00:27:18,980 like 15 years ago. 1197 00:27:19,020 --> 00:27:21,980 What's 15 years ago? 1198 00:27:22,020 --> 00:27:23,980 I used to wear these... 1199 00:27:24,020 --> 00:27:24,291 - so that-- 1200 00:27:24,331 --> 00:27:24,980 - To give you confidence? 1201 00:27:25,020 --> 00:27:26,404 --when I dated white girls 1202 00:27:26,444 --> 00:27:27,980 and they'd be think I'm tall. 1203 00:27:28,020 --> 00:27:29,173 And then after I leave 1204 00:27:29,213 --> 00:27:29,980 in the morning, 1205 00:27:30,020 --> 00:27:30,433 they're like, 1206 00:27:30,473 --> 00:27:30,980 "What the fuck?" 1207 00:27:31,020 --> 00:27:32,980 Yeah. 1208 00:27:33,020 --> 00:27:33,815 It just opened up 1209 00:27:33,855 --> 00:27:35,295 the whole market for me. 1210 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:36,980 Now, what are you drinking? 1211 00:27:37,020 --> 00:27:38,980 Chinese herbs? 1212 00:27:39,020 --> 00:27:40,895 We went, uh, herbal shopping 1213 00:27:40,935 --> 00:27:41,980 to see a doctor, 1214 00:27:42,020 --> 00:27:43,980 and she prescribed some herbs 1215 00:27:44,020 --> 00:27:44,894 that's supposed 1216 00:27:44,934 --> 00:27:45,980 to increase my qi. 1217 00:27:46,020 --> 00:27:46,980 Your qi? 1218 00:27:47,020 --> 00:27:47,891 - Because of the stress-- 1219 00:27:47,931 --> 00:27:48,980 - Yeah, yours is off, I agree. 1220 00:27:49,020 --> 00:27:50,080 I don't think your qi's 1221 00:27:50,120 --> 00:27:50,980 on balance, either. 1222 00:27:51,020 --> 00:27:51,980 Dude. 1223 00:27:52,020 --> 00:27:52,585 I definitely think you need 1224 00:27:52,625 --> 00:27:52,980 a big pot of this. 1225 00:27:53,020 --> 00:27:55,980 It's never on balance, it's me. 1226 00:27:56,020 --> 00:27:56,980 I know. 1227 00:27:57,020 --> 00:27:58,980 So you want me to be balanced. 1228 00:27:59,020 --> 00:28:00,760 I want you to drink some tea. 1229 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:01,020 Yeah. Bring it to me. 1230 00:28:01,020 --> 00:28:02,395 I'll do anything 1231 00:28:02,435 --> 00:28:04,000 to make you happy. 1232 00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:05,980 You gonna sit right here. 1233 00:28:06,020 --> 00:28:07,000 I'm good. 1234 00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:07,960 Why can't you sit next to me? 1235 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:08,912 I'm okay, 1236 00:28:08,952 --> 00:28:10,980 I wanna talk to you. 1237 00:28:11,020 --> 00:28:12,980 You spend a lot of money 1238 00:28:13,020 --> 00:28:15,293 buying like, such lavish gifts 1239 00:28:15,333 --> 00:28:16,000 that I... 1240 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:16,960 don't necessarily need. 1241 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,244 Sometimes I feel 1242 00:28:18,284 --> 00:28:19,980 like a little insecure 1243 00:28:20,020 --> 00:28:21,980 about our relationship, 1244 00:28:22,020 --> 00:28:23,756 so sometimes, you know, 1245 00:28:23,796 --> 00:28:25,000 I'm at the store 1246 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:26,462 or just think about how 1247 00:28:26,502 --> 00:28:26,980 I can make my wife happy. 1248 00:28:27,020 --> 00:28:28,749 But as, uh, a mother 1249 00:28:28,789 --> 00:28:29,980 and as a wife, 1250 00:28:30,020 --> 00:28:30,834 it's not wrong 1251 00:28:30,874 --> 00:28:31,980 to have extra money 1252 00:28:32,020 --> 00:28:32,980 for security purposes, right, 1253 00:28:33,020 --> 00:28:33,801 - in case something goes wrong. 1254 00:28:33,841 --> 00:28:33,980 - Okay. 1255 00:28:34,020 --> 00:28:35,580 Well, I won't buy 1256 00:28:35,620 --> 00:28:36,980 any more gifts. 1257 00:28:37,020 --> 00:28:37,896 Washington has no idea 1258 00:28:37,936 --> 00:28:38,980 that his father came to me 1259 00:28:39,020 --> 00:28:40,274 and basically said 1260 00:28:40,314 --> 00:28:41,980 that he's irresponsible. 1261 00:28:42,020 --> 00:28:43,627 - And with my son looks 1262 00:28:43,667 --> 00:28:44,980 like he's immature. 1263 00:28:45,020 --> 00:28:46,623 I gave him the chance to 1264 00:28:46,663 --> 00:28:47,980 handle some business 1265 00:28:48,020 --> 00:28:50,980 but i don't see any good yet. 1266 00:28:51,020 --> 00:28:52,049 So, I don't think 1267 00:28:52,089 --> 00:28:53,000 he's ready yet. 1268 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:55,980 And at moments like these... 1269 00:28:56,020 --> 00:28:57,980 I can't argue with him. 1270 00:28:58,020 --> 00:28:58,980 Materialistic things 1271 00:28:59,020 --> 00:28:59,549 - don't make me happy. 1272 00:28:59,589 --> 00:29:00,609 - I know. I know. 1273 00:29:01,000 --> 00:29:01,459 You know, it's like, it's-- 1274 00:29:01,499 --> 00:29:01,980 you're taking accountability, 1275 00:29:02,020 --> 00:29:03,580 you communicating with me, 1276 00:29:02,020 --> 00:29:03,980 from your mom. 1277 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:04,020 and I don't have to hear things 1278 00:29:04,020 --> 00:29:04,980 Okay. 1279 00:29:05,020 --> 00:29:07,980 Um, I just think that, 1280 00:29:08,020 --> 00:29:08,588 you know, the issues 1281 00:29:08,628 --> 00:29:08,980 that we have, 1282 00:29:09,020 --> 00:29:09,841 you don't have to call 1283 00:29:09,881 --> 00:29:11,621 and talk to her all the time. 1284 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,000 Okay. 1285 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:13,000 Every time I have an issue 1286 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:13,540 with you, 1287 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:15,980 I talk to you about it. 1288 00:29:16,020 --> 00:29:17,137 You don't--you don't always 1289 00:29:17,177 --> 00:29:17,980 talk to me about it. 1290 00:29:18,020 --> 00:29:18,417 If you would talk to me, 1291 00:29:18,457 --> 00:29:18,980 I wouldn't have to go to my mom. 1292 00:29:19,020 --> 00:29:21,980 I have to talk to somebody. 1293 00:29:22,020 --> 00:29:23,279 I'm just saying, like, 1294 00:29:23,319 --> 00:29:24,980 your mother is trying to help 1295 00:29:25,020 --> 00:29:25,980 our marriage again. 1296 00:29:26,020 --> 00:29:28,396 I'm just asking you to talk 1297 00:29:28,436 --> 00:29:30,980 to me first if we have issues 1298 00:29:31,020 --> 00:29:32,075 and not go running 1299 00:29:32,115 --> 00:29:32,980 to your mother. 1300 00:29:33,020 --> 00:29:34,624 Look, I'm her son, 1301 00:29:34,664 --> 00:29:35,980 you have a son. 1302 00:29:36,020 --> 00:29:37,785 One day when they're older, 1303 00:29:37,825 --> 00:29:39,000 then you can talk. 1304 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:40,787 Yeah, I've made some mistakes 1305 00:29:40,827 --> 00:29:41,327 with us 1306 00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:43,597 or with my mom 1307 00:29:43,637 --> 00:29:44,980 or whatever, 1308 00:29:45,020 --> 00:29:46,297 but you still have to 1309 00:29:46,337 --> 00:29:47,000 forgive me. 1310 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:51,125 Lesley, what does Washington 1311 00:29:51,165 --> 00:29:52,425 need forgiveness for? 1312 00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:54,980 [sighs] 1313 00:29:55,020 --> 00:29:57,980 When we started this project, 1314 00:29:58,020 --> 00:29:58,953 we had a secret 1315 00:29:58,993 --> 00:29:59,980 in our marriage. 1316 00:30:00,020 --> 00:30:03,980 I was scared of it coming out 1317 00:30:04,020 --> 00:30:04,642 because it was so raw 1318 00:30:04,682 --> 00:30:04,980 and so new, 1319 00:30:05,020 --> 00:30:07,650 and it's, um, something that 1320 00:30:07,690 --> 00:30:08,980 we're still... 1321 00:30:09,020 --> 00:30:09,980 dealing with. 1322 00:30:10,020 --> 00:30:13,109 I haven't even quite told 1323 00:30:13,149 --> 00:30:13,980 my mom, 1324 00:30:14,020 --> 00:30:15,441 because I don't want her 1325 00:30:15,481 --> 00:30:15,980 to worry. 1326 00:30:16,020 --> 00:30:16,832 You know, I think 1327 00:30:16,872 --> 00:30:17,980 another issue is, like, 1328 00:30:18,020 --> 00:30:18,984 all I have here 1329 00:30:19,024 --> 00:30:20,000 is your family. 1330 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:22,352 - I don't have friends-- 1331 00:30:22,392 --> 00:30:22,980 - Lesley... 1332 00:30:23,020 --> 00:30:25,000 - I need to have people 1333 00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:28,591 that are not just your friends 1334 00:30:28,631 --> 00:30:29,980 and your family, 1335 00:30:30,020 --> 00:30:31,204 - that's mine. 1336 00:30:31,244 --> 00:30:31,980 - Lesley. 1337 00:30:32,020 --> 00:30:33,980 You could do whatever you want, 1338 00:30:34,020 --> 00:30:35,811 you can have as many friends 1339 00:30:35,851 --> 00:30:36,980 as you want, okay? 1340 00:30:37,020 --> 00:30:39,000 I'm not from here. 1341 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:43,480 I don't have anybody, 1342 00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:45,000 I moved here for you. 1343 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:46,710 You know, so it gets lonely 1344 00:30:46,750 --> 00:30:46,980 sometimes, 1345 00:30:47,020 --> 00:30:48,980 and you don't get that. 1346 00:30:49,020 --> 00:30:51,980 Why do you always feel lonely 1347 00:30:52,020 --> 00:30:54,980 when my family is here? 1348 00:30:55,020 --> 00:30:55,933 They're your family, 1349 00:30:55,973 --> 00:30:57,293 they're not my family, 1350 00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,000 and it's different. 1351 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:06,053 You know, we're going through 1352 00:31:06,093 --> 00:31:06,980 a tough time. 1353 00:31:07,020 --> 00:31:08,423 I think I'm more aware of it 1354 00:31:08,463 --> 00:31:08,980 than he is. 1355 00:31:09,020 --> 00:31:10,700 I mean, is this my role now? 1356 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:12,980 Am I supposed to, as a wife, 1357 00:31:13,020 --> 00:31:14,818 just be quiet and deal 1358 00:31:14,858 --> 00:31:16,980 with all of this silently? 1359 00:31:17,020 --> 00:31:18,160 It's just too much. 1360 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,980 My greatest fear is that 1361 00:31:22,020 --> 00:31:22,894 it's gonna tear 1362 00:31:22,934 --> 00:31:24,014 my marriage apart. 1363 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:30,980 [sighs] 1364 00:31:31,020 --> 00:31:32,980 But I love you and our kids. 1365 00:31:33,020 --> 00:31:33,980 I know. 1366 00:31:34,020 --> 00:31:36,980 I hope it's not too late 1367 00:31:37,020 --> 00:31:40,000 to make amends with you. 1368 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,980 SINGER: ♪ Oh ♪ 1369 00:31:52,020 --> 00:31:53,980 ♪ Make it rain, make it rain ♪ 1370 00:31:54,020 --> 00:31:55,801 ♪ I don't care 1371 00:31:55,841 --> 00:31:58,980 'cause it's all the same ♪ 1372 00:31:59,020 --> 00:32:00,056 ♪ I'mma make the best 1373 00:32:00,096 --> 00:32:00,980 of any situation ♪ 1374 00:32:01,020 --> 00:32:02,980 ♪ Make it rain, make it rain ♪ 1375 00:32:03,020 --> 00:32:07,980 ♪ I don't care, I'mma be happy ♪ 1376 00:32:08,020 --> 00:32:12,000 ♪ No, you can never rain on me ♪ 1377 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:19,000 [music]