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[sigh]

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[Jan] Is that still us?

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[Steve] No, you know why?

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Surprise me.

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Because my wife is even
more beautiful than she

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was the day I met her.

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And you are still crazy.

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[laughs] Maybe, but that
doesn't mean I'm not right.

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You ready to see the world?

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I thought I was looking at it.

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Sure you want to do this?

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Plenty of other ways to
spend our retirement.

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No, of course I'm sure.

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I mean, it's not practical.
We have no plan.

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I don't even know
where I'm going.

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That's not us.

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Well, we can just have fun.

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Remember fun?

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I might.

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What do you want to do?

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I don't know.

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I guess we could
do whatever we want.

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[screeching tires, crash]

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[mournful music]

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[upbeat music]

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[Steve] Hi.

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You're new here?

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I'm new here too.

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[Jan] Do you want potatoes?

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Yes yes.
I definitely want potatoes.

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You should keep moving.

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[Robbie] Hey, move it along.

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[Airman] You wanna hear
the story or what, Steve?

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I'll- I'll see you tomorrow.

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[Julie] Why were
you so mean to him?

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♪

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[Terri] I'm in
the reception room.

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Jan Hurst.

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Okay. I found her.

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I'll call you back.

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Mom.

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Oohh!

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Are you alright?

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I'm fine.

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What's going on with dad?

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It's not good.

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Is he alive?

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Yeah.

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But he's in really bad shape.

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They're gonna tell me more
after he gets out of surgery.

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Okay.

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[Michele] Hey mom.

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Hey I-
I talked to the EMTs.

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You were extremely lucky.

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You know that.
It could've been much worse.

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That's not luck, sweetheart.

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Okay.

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Did they happen to give you
the name of dad's surgeon.

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Oh you know I- with everything,
and it happened so fast,

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I don't think I got that.

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You know, they just
rushed him into surgery.

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It's fine, It's fine.
I can find out.

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Did they give you any
like, discharge papers.

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Or did they give
you any paperwork?

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-Mh-mm.
-Okay.

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Yep.

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Good.
That's what I need.

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Okay. I'm gonna go make
sure they take care of dad.

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Hang on.

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Sweetie.
This isn't your hospital.

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I'm sure the doctors
know what they're doing.

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Mom, the problem is that
because I work in a hospital,

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unfortunately I know that some
doctors don't know what they're

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doing, so I'm just
gonna go talk to them.

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That's all, just get
some information.

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I will be nice and I
will be right back.

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It's okay.

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She's probably gonna push the
surgeon out and do it herself.

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She would.
She would do that.

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Yes she would.

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She'd do it well.

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I just want to see dad.

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Me too, sweetheart.

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♪

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[Steve] Hi.

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Corn?

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I like your hair.

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Very funny.

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I can just tell
you have nice hair.

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[Steve chuckles]

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[Robbie] Move on up, man.

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She's not buying it.

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I don't date GIs.

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Yet.

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Ever.

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Until.

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It's not gonna happen.

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You say that now.

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Do you want the corn or not.

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Yes.

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Yes I do.

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[giggles] What?

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Oh, he wants a hair net.

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[Julie]
We're breaking for lunch.

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So I'm going out with
that guy Robbie on Friday.

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The tall one?
The air man?

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Yes.

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Speaking of airmen.

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Don't start with that.

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He's so cute,
and Robbie knows him.

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He says he's a good guy.

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Seriously, what's your problem.

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My father won't approve.

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I'm not asking
you to marry him.

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Do you think he's cute.

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I think he's trouble.

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Yes or no.

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Some people might say he's
handsome in the right light

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when he's in uniform.

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So you do
think he's cute.

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Okay, fine yes, I think
he's somewhat cute, Okay?

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So then your father
doesn't have to know.

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You don't get it.

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He said if he
catches me dating a GI,

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he'll send me to live
with my grandma in Nebraska.

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Well, do you want
to go to Nebraska?

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No.

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Then I guess we'll
have to keep it a secret.

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I guess I can
always meet another boy.

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[Jim] Hey.

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Hi.

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How was your shift today?

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It was fine.

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Fine.

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[chuckles] Is that
the age we're at now?

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I ask you how your day is
and all I get back is 'fine'.

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The other dads tell me about it,
I was hoping my girl

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might treat me
a little differently.

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It's just a regular day.

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Hungry people.

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Food.

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Just a job.

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Well, if you're doing it,
I want to hear about it.

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I serve potatoes.

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Hours of potatoes.

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It's crushingly boring.

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Still happy you asked?

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Absolutely.

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How they treating
you over there?

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Fine.

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Just been a couple months.

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Any of the GIs getting
too friendly with you?

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Nothing I can't handle.

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Oh, so they are?

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You know how I feel
about you dating.

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Who said I'm dating anyone?

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Really?

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Really.

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Or are you just too shy
to tell me about it?

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Really.

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Look.

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You're beautiful, and I
know that you're gonna date.

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I'm totally,
totally fine with it.

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All I'm asking is that
you don't date GIs.

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That's all.

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Who said I am?

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Are you?

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No.

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Great.

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Mom dated you didn't she?

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Look, sweetie, I'm only saying
this because I care about you.

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All those GIs I trained at
Lachland, spending so much

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time with other young men
or getting yelled at by me,

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months without even seeing a
woman, it's gotta change him.

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They forget about their
mothers and their sisters.

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They forget how
to treat a woman.

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They're never gonna commit.

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They don't know how to handle
a relationship, and I know

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that sounds harsh,
but this is exactly why I

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have to tell you.

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I don't want anyone
hurting my little girl.

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You understand?

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Okay.

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You promise?

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Promise.

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Promise me what.

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Promise I won't date
anyone in the military.

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Thank you.

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Go on.

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♪

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I heard you wanted
to go out with me.

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Oh look at that.

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We need more baked beans.

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I really
like your hair.

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Will you go out with me?

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Squash?

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Sure.

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Apple sauce?

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Can I serve you some food?

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No.

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Okay then,
I'll see you Monday.

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You can see him now.

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He's still sedated from surgery.

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Just ...

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Just what?

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Just be prepared.

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[machines beeping]

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[sobbing]

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You know, it's very likely
that he can hear you.

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Is he okay?
What's gonna happen?

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[Doctor] I'll give
you a few more moments,

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then we should
just let him rest.

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[sobbing]

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You're gonna be okay.

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[upbeat music]

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Can I take
you to the movies?

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No.

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What are you doing Monday?

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Washing my hair.

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Go for a walk?

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No.

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Your eyes are beautiful.

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Not a chance.

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Thursday?

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Washing my hair again.

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Friday?

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Doing laundry.

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Do you like me?

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Nope.

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Sunday.

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Maybe.

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Maybe is better than a no.

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So where are
we at post-surgery?

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Well, the medication is
keeping his heart going.

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Breathing on a respirator.

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I mean, his mind is still there.

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He's conscious.

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But he's paralyzed, and his
body's failing him everywhere.

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So, what happens next?

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We have some
tough decisions to make

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and he's only getting worse.

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Could you just give
us a few minutes to talk

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about it privately?

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Of course, of course.

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So he's gonna be
in a wheelchair, right?

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Mom.

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[Jan] I'll learn to
take care of him.

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We have a one-story house.

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There are no stairs, we have a
walk-in shower already, we can

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make the whole place wheelchair
accessible, we can put a ramp.

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Thought I'd just-

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Mom.
Mom.

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What?

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I don't think you're
understanding.

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What am I not
understanding?

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You're scaring her.

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Okay, I just don't
think that you're hearing

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maybe what's actually happening.

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Dad isn't breathing on his own.

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His heart isn't
beating on its own, Okay?

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And so this is not just take
him home and buy a wheelchair.

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This is much more
serious than that.

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I heard what the doctor
said, I was listening.

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But he could improve.

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It's just not likely.

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Miracles can happen.
I should be in a hospital

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bed myself right now,
I should be, and I'm not.

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I'm sorry, but a miracle
is not going to happen.

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Okay?

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He's just, he's not
going to get better.

274
00:18:13,217 --> 00:18:14,593
What happened to you?

275
00:18:14,593 --> 00:18:19,681
I'm just- I'm just trying to
be the grown-up at the table.

276
00:18:19,681 --> 00:18:21,099
Okay?

277
00:18:21,099 --> 00:18:25,395
Look, you can have hope, and you
should, but all I want you to

278
00:18:25,395 --> 00:18:28,106
know is that having hope
is not going to change a

279
00:18:28,106 --> 00:18:30,609
medical diagnosis, Okay?

280
00:18:30,609 --> 00:18:32,736
And I'd think a lawyer
should understand that!

281
00:18:32,736 --> 00:18:35,989
And I would expect you to
remember where we came from.

282
00:18:36,782 --> 00:18:38,867
[Jan] Okay, girls.

283
00:18:43,664 --> 00:18:44,915
Sweetie.

284
00:18:44,915 --> 00:18:46,708
I know you're scared.

285
00:18:46,708 --> 00:18:48,001
It's okay.

286
00:18:49,461 --> 00:18:53,382
We have to place our faith in
love to watch over your father.

287
00:18:56,134 --> 00:18:57,678
You know that.

288
00:19:13,443 --> 00:19:15,320
Where are you going, young lady?

289
00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:17,322
I'm going to the
movies with Julie.

290
00:19:17,322 --> 00:19:18,323
I told mom.

291
00:19:18,323 --> 00:19:19,408
Mm-hmm.

292
00:19:20,117 --> 00:19:22,369
Alright, back before 10:00.

293
00:19:23,245 --> 00:19:24,246
I will.

294
00:19:24,246 --> 00:19:25,831
Just you and Julie, hm?

295
00:19:25,831 --> 00:19:26,623
[Jan] Yes.

296
00:19:26,957 --> 00:19:28,876
You don't have to
interrogate her, honey.

297
00:19:29,251 --> 00:19:30,502
You sure?

298
00:19:30,502 --> 00:19:32,963
[Marion] She wouldn't lie to us.

299
00:19:34,214 --> 00:19:36,091
I'll be back before 10:00.

300
00:19:37,259 --> 00:19:38,677
Alright.

301
00:19:40,345 --> 00:19:41,847
[door closes]

302
00:19:41,847 --> 00:19:43,140
Relax.

303
00:19:46,602 --> 00:19:48,353
What if he
tries to kiss you?

304
00:19:48,353 --> 00:19:49,730
I'm not gonna let him.

305
00:19:49,730 --> 00:19:52,232
Robbie kissed me
on our first date.

306
00:19:52,232 --> 00:19:53,859
That's because you're easy.

307
00:19:55,527 --> 00:19:58,238
I'm only doing this because
you pushed me into it.

308
00:19:58,238 --> 00:20:00,699
That's what you
need to tell yourself.

309
00:20:00,699 --> 00:20:03,535
By the end of the night I'm
gonna have to pull you off him.

310
00:20:03,535 --> 00:20:05,537
Not a chance.
-[chuckling]

311
00:20:08,165 --> 00:20:09,875
♪

312
00:20:10,375 --> 00:20:11,627
Hi boys.

313
00:20:11,877 --> 00:20:13,128
Hey, girls.

314
00:20:27,893 --> 00:20:29,102
Should we go?

315
00:20:30,562 --> 00:20:33,482
I actually don't really
wanna see a movie.

316
00:20:33,482 --> 00:20:35,484
I'd rather just hang and talk.

317
00:20:36,985 --> 00:20:38,320
If that's okay.

318
00:20:38,779 --> 00:20:41,907
I'd love to
just sit and talk.

319
00:20:42,824 --> 00:20:44,242
Okay then.

320
00:20:44,242 --> 00:20:45,661
You two coming?

321
00:20:47,412 --> 00:20:48,622
You go ahead.

322
00:20:48,622 --> 00:20:50,874
Alright, you two have fun.

323
00:20:50,874 --> 00:20:52,084
[laughs]

324
00:20:56,004 --> 00:20:58,173
There's a little
park down this way.

325
00:21:07,557 --> 00:21:09,226
So.
You--

326
00:21:09,226 --> 00:21:10,852
I'm not making out with you.

327
00:21:12,270 --> 00:21:14,022
Who said you were?

328
00:21:14,022 --> 00:21:16,900
I know what "just sit
and talk," means to boys.

329
00:21:16,900 --> 00:21:18,610
No, not me.

330
00:21:18,610 --> 00:21:21,363
I just wanna get to know you.

331
00:21:23,991 --> 00:21:26,118
I hope you don't get into
trouble for sneaking

332
00:21:26,118 --> 00:21:27,911
out to see me like this.

333
00:21:28,286 --> 00:21:29,705
Robbie told me.

334
00:21:29,705 --> 00:21:31,248
It'll be fine.

335
00:21:33,542 --> 00:21:34,626
Look.

336
00:21:34,626 --> 00:21:37,337
I just think you're
beautiful, and cute.

337
00:21:37,337 --> 00:21:39,798
And I just wanna
spend time with you.

338
00:21:39,798 --> 00:21:41,216
Is that so awful?

339
00:21:42,300 --> 00:21:43,844
No, it's not.

340
00:21:44,678 --> 00:21:46,054
Good.

341
00:21:47,848 --> 00:21:52,227
It's just that my dad
used to train recruits.

342
00:21:53,270 --> 00:21:56,314
He told me what GIs were like.

343
00:21:56,815 --> 00:21:57,983
He's not wrong.

344
00:21:58,233 --> 00:22:01,445
There are a lot of guys who
don't know how to treat a lady.

345
00:22:02,696 --> 00:22:05,907
But I'm not one of those guys.

346
00:22:15,042 --> 00:22:16,752
So, Jan.

347
00:22:16,752 --> 00:22:18,336
What's your story?

348
00:22:18,754 --> 00:22:21,173
Unless you plan on being
a career lunch lady.

349
00:22:21,173 --> 00:22:22,632
No.

350
00:22:22,632 --> 00:22:24,843
I wanna go to college.

351
00:22:24,843 --> 00:22:26,678
I want a real career.

352
00:22:27,220 --> 00:22:30,057
But my parents always
say I'm just a girl.

353
00:22:30,682 --> 00:22:32,726
They actually say that?

354
00:22:33,435 --> 00:22:34,519
Yeah.

355
00:22:34,519 --> 00:22:36,104
My mom says it a lot.

356
00:22:36,938 --> 00:22:40,609
Well, you're
not just a girl to me.

357
00:22:44,696 --> 00:22:48,617
My mom, we have some
things we disagree on, too.

358
00:22:49,242 --> 00:22:51,828
That's sort of why I
joined the Air Force.

359
00:22:51,828 --> 00:22:53,371
To get away?

360
00:22:54,247 --> 00:22:55,832
Maybe.

361
00:22:56,750 --> 00:22:58,376
Do you like it?

362
00:22:58,376 --> 00:23:00,212
I do.

363
00:23:00,212 --> 00:23:01,880
It's not like back home.

364
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,508
If you say you're gonna
do something, you do it.

365
00:23:04,508 --> 00:23:08,261
People are responsible for
their actions, no accountable.

366
00:23:08,261 --> 00:23:10,430
That's why I like it.

367
00:23:11,389 --> 00:23:13,058
You sound like my dad.

368
00:23:14,434 --> 00:23:15,560
Sorry?

369
00:23:15,560 --> 00:23:17,479
That's not always a bad thing.

370
00:23:19,606 --> 00:23:21,233
Oh, shoot, what time is it?

371
00:23:21,233 --> 00:23:22,526
Why?

372
00:23:22,526 --> 00:23:26,154
I promised my
dad I'd be home early.

373
00:23:28,406 --> 00:23:30,075
I have a question.

374
00:23:30,951 --> 00:23:32,953
Please don't lie to me.

375
00:23:33,578 --> 00:23:34,996
Okay.

376
00:23:36,748 --> 00:23:38,500
Do you have a girlfriend?

377
00:23:38,500 --> 00:23:39,835
What?

378
00:23:39,835 --> 00:23:42,045
Where did that come from?

379
00:23:42,045 --> 00:23:44,881
Some guys think it's okay
to talk to more than one girl

380
00:23:44,881 --> 00:23:46,341
at a time.

381
00:23:47,425 --> 00:23:49,386
I'm not one of those guys.

382
00:23:50,762 --> 00:23:54,015
You are the only girl
I wanna be talking to.

383
00:23:58,937 --> 00:24:00,730
[Robbie] Last call, Romeo.

384
00:24:00,730 --> 00:24:02,232
Robbie!

385
00:24:02,232 --> 00:24:03,525
[Robbie laughs]

386
00:24:04,442 --> 00:24:05,610
[Julie] Sorry.

387
00:24:05,610 --> 00:24:07,737
We really do have
to go though, Jan.

388
00:24:07,737 --> 00:24:09,865
We're already late, my mom
will be waiting up for me.

389
00:24:09,865 --> 00:24:11,908
[Jan] Why didn't you
come get me sooner?

390
00:24:11,908 --> 00:24:15,036
Robbie and I- talked- a
little in the theatre after

391
00:24:15,036 --> 00:24:16,580
the movie finished.

392
00:24:18,290 --> 00:24:20,917
Yeah, we had a really
nice- talk in there.

393
00:24:21,835 --> 00:24:25,005
Seems like you two were
about to talk, too.

394
00:24:25,630 --> 00:24:26,882
Bye.

395
00:24:27,465 --> 00:24:29,050
Can I call you sometime?

396
00:24:30,218 --> 00:24:31,303
Okay.

397
00:24:31,803 --> 00:24:33,263
[Robbie] Later, babe.

398
00:24:38,268 --> 00:24:39,561
[Julie] Come on.

399
00:24:40,770 --> 00:24:43,273
Sorry man, I tried
to stall her for you.

400
00:24:44,274 --> 00:24:46,568
Jan, wait a second.
Wait a second.

401
00:24:51,865 --> 00:24:53,283
[kiss]

402
00:24:55,660 --> 00:24:57,245
Bye.

403
00:24:57,245 --> 00:24:58,288
Bye.

404
00:24:59,873 --> 00:25:01,833
[giggling]

405
00:25:01,833 --> 00:25:02,959
Yeah!

406
00:25:07,464 --> 00:25:09,424
Good one.

407
00:25:09,424 --> 00:25:10,258
Yeah.

408
00:25:10,258 --> 00:25:11,718
Come on.

409
00:25:12,969 --> 00:25:15,305
Nice one, dude! You did it!

410
00:25:15,847 --> 00:25:17,432
[Steve] Get out of here.

411
00:25:25,106 --> 00:25:27,859
[Doctor] He's awake,
and responsive.

412
00:25:27,859 --> 00:25:29,611
That's great!

413
00:25:31,821 --> 00:25:34,199
Whoa, whoa, whoa, hey,
what are you doing? No, no, no.

414
00:25:34,199 --> 00:25:36,701
You have a strained shoulder,
you have to put that back on.

415
00:25:36,701 --> 00:25:39,037
I don't want your
father worrying about me.

416
00:25:39,037 --> 00:25:41,289
There's a reason they told you
to wear it in the first place,

417
00:25:41,289 --> 00:25:43,333
I mean he's not ...
Okay.

418
00:25:44,084 --> 00:25:46,127
Come on, let's go see
him. Here, I got this.

419
00:25:56,012 --> 00:25:57,472
Hey there.

420
00:26:01,977 --> 00:26:03,144
[Terri] Dad.

421
00:26:06,898 --> 00:26:08,316
Daddy.

422
00:26:11,695 --> 00:26:14,155
[Michele]
Mom, he can't feel his arms.

423
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:18,952
But if you wanted
to touch him on his face,

424
00:26:20,036 --> 00:26:22,539
above his chin,
he can feel there.

425
00:26:29,337 --> 00:26:30,505
I'm here.

426
00:26:34,426 --> 00:26:35,677
[Terri] You look good.

427
00:26:36,928 --> 00:26:39,180
Sweetheart, I love you.

428
00:26:46,146 --> 00:26:48,523
Sweetheart, I love you.

429
00:26:55,947 --> 00:26:57,490
Now who's easy?

430
00:26:57,490 --> 00:26:58,950
Stop it.

431
00:26:58,950 --> 00:27:00,618
I thought you
weren't gonna kiss him.

432
00:27:00,618 --> 00:27:02,787
He's not like the others.

433
00:27:02,787 --> 00:27:04,789
Why, because
he told you so?

434
00:27:04,789 --> 00:27:06,958
It's not that he told me,

435
00:27:06,958 --> 00:27:09,544
it's how he looked
at me when he said it.

436
00:27:10,837 --> 00:27:13,006
I don't know, I
can't explain it.

437
00:27:13,757 --> 00:27:18,720
Something about the way he
looks at me, I understand him.

438
00:27:21,056 --> 00:27:23,391
I think you're
gonna see him again.

439
00:27:23,975 --> 00:27:25,643
I might.

440
00:27:36,488 --> 00:27:39,032
We had a really good
time at the movies.

441
00:27:39,032 --> 00:27:40,992
We got ice cream after.

442
00:27:40,992 --> 00:27:42,702
Well it's almost 11:00.

443
00:27:42,702 --> 00:27:44,662
It was really
good ice cream.

444
00:27:44,662 --> 00:27:46,081
Really good.

445
00:27:46,414 --> 00:27:47,499
Okay.

446
00:27:47,499 --> 00:27:49,042
Good night.

447
00:27:52,670 --> 00:27:55,423
I looked like that
after our first date.

448
00:27:55,423 --> 00:27:56,508
Yeah.

449
00:27:56,841 --> 00:27:58,885
That's what worries me.

450
00:27:59,260 --> 00:28:00,845
[laughs]

451
00:28:01,930 --> 00:28:03,640
Relax.

452
00:28:11,314 --> 00:28:12,816
Delicious.

453
00:28:13,149 --> 00:28:14,359
Thank you, darling.

454
00:28:16,027 --> 00:28:19,406
I wanna have a friend
come eat with us sometime.

455
00:28:20,156 --> 00:28:21,199
Of course.

456
00:28:21,199 --> 00:28:22,409
Which friend?

457
00:28:23,368 --> 00:28:25,286
He's a college student.

458
00:28:26,913 --> 00:28:29,457
A college student you're dating?

459
00:28:29,457 --> 00:28:30,417
No.

460
00:28:30,417 --> 00:28:32,710
No, he's just a good friend.

461
00:28:34,546 --> 00:28:35,588
Right.

462
00:28:35,839 --> 00:28:38,466
We think it's great you want
your friends to come meet us

463
00:28:38,466 --> 00:28:41,094
honey, he's welcome anytime.

464
00:28:43,555 --> 00:28:44,848
Great.

465
00:28:47,142 --> 00:28:48,184
Great.

466
00:28:51,896 --> 00:28:55,275
Thank you Lord for these
gifts we are about to receive

467
00:28:55,275 --> 00:28:56,443
from your bounty.

468
00:28:56,443 --> 00:28:58,987
In Jesus' name, amen.

469
00:28:58,987 --> 00:29:00,363
[Marion] Amen.
[Jim] Amen.

470
00:29:00,363 --> 00:29:01,448
Amen.

471
00:29:02,574 --> 00:29:04,909
[Jim] Alright, Steve.

472
00:29:05,743 --> 00:29:08,455
Couldn't help but
notice your haircut.

473
00:29:09,247 --> 00:29:10,540
High and tight.

474
00:29:10,874 --> 00:29:12,333
I like keeping it short.

475
00:29:13,585 --> 00:29:14,836
Right.

476
00:29:17,589 --> 00:29:20,091
So, Steve,
where are you from?

477
00:29:20,383 --> 00:29:21,468
Los Angeles.

478
00:29:21,468 --> 00:29:23,386
Oh, we know lots
of people there.

479
00:29:23,386 --> 00:29:24,804
Where did you live?

480
00:29:25,346 --> 00:29:26,389
Brentwood.

481
00:29:26,764 --> 00:29:28,641
Mm-hmm. You a rich kid?

482
00:29:28,641 --> 00:29:30,518
[Steve] No, uhm,

483
00:29:30,935 --> 00:29:33,104
everything there
was my dad's, not mine.

484
00:29:33,938 --> 00:29:35,982
It's all gone now anyway.

485
00:29:36,274 --> 00:29:38,776
What, he blow it all?

486
00:29:39,611 --> 00:29:41,154
It's a long story.

487
00:29:42,864 --> 00:29:44,532
What about you?

488
00:29:44,532 --> 00:29:46,034
You have a job?

489
00:29:46,034 --> 00:29:47,285
Uhh--

490
00:29:47,285 --> 00:29:48,661
He's a college student.

491
00:29:48,661 --> 00:29:50,246
I told you that.

492
00:29:50,246 --> 00:29:51,456
Yes you did.

493
00:29:52,499 --> 00:29:54,626
And how did you two meet?

494
00:29:54,626 --> 00:29:55,668
[Steve] Well, we--

495
00:29:55,668 --> 00:29:57,629
He hangs out at
the ice cream parlour.

496
00:29:58,296 --> 00:30:00,173
[Jim] Well, Steve,
I guess you can go home.

497
00:30:00,173 --> 00:30:02,800
Seems like Jan has all
the answers for you.

498
00:30:03,968 --> 00:30:05,470
She's a good listener.

499
00:30:09,641 --> 00:30:11,768
Steve might
tutor me in math.

500
00:30:12,769 --> 00:30:14,479
Why would he do that?

501
00:30:14,479 --> 00:30:16,564
So I can be
ready for college math.

502
00:30:16,564 --> 00:30:17,982
Oh, honey.

503
00:30:17,982 --> 00:30:20,151
Secretaries don't need math.

504
00:30:20,944 --> 00:30:24,489
Well maybe I don't
wanna be just a secretary.

505
00:30:25,323 --> 00:30:26,449
I see.

506
00:30:27,283 --> 00:30:29,994
So your mommy's job isn't
good enough for you,

507
00:30:29,994 --> 00:30:31,579
is that what you're saying?

508
00:30:31,955 --> 00:30:32,997
Never mind.

509
00:30:32,997 --> 00:30:35,291
This pot roast is
excellent, Mrs. Nichols.

510
00:30:37,669 --> 00:30:39,337
Thank you Steve.

511
00:30:39,337 --> 00:30:40,505
You're welcome.

512
00:30:50,557 --> 00:30:52,016
[Steve] Thank you so much.

513
00:30:52,016 --> 00:30:53,434
I'd be happy to clean up.

514
00:30:53,434 --> 00:30:54,644
Oh, don't be silly.

515
00:30:54,644 --> 00:30:56,563
No, that's
very kind of him.

516
00:30:56,563 --> 00:30:57,438
Go on, then.

517
00:30:57,438 --> 00:30:58,481
Jim!

518
00:30:58,481 --> 00:30:59,524
The boy just got
a free meal

519
00:30:59,524 --> 00:31:01,150
the least he could
do is the dishes.

520
00:31:02,443 --> 00:31:03,820
[Steve] I'd be happy to.

521
00:31:04,153 --> 00:31:06,030
[Jim] Hop on it son.
Here you go.

522
00:31:08,408 --> 00:31:11,995
Hey, while you're at it, you
wanna give her a fill up there?

523
00:31:12,537 --> 00:31:13,371
Dad.

524
00:31:14,539 --> 00:31:15,456
Sure.

525
00:31:15,456 --> 00:31:16,541
Thank you.

526
00:31:20,878 --> 00:31:22,213
Too much.

527
00:31:27,552 --> 00:31:29,637
He seemed in
good spirits today.

528
00:31:29,637 --> 00:31:33,933
That's great, but unfortunately
medically, he's not improving.

529
00:31:35,727 --> 00:31:37,895
Does Steve have a living will?

530
00:31:40,398 --> 00:31:43,234
Why do they call it living
when it's only about dying?

531
00:31:43,234 --> 00:31:44,569
[Doctor] But does he have one?

532
00:31:44,569 --> 00:31:45,570
[Jan] Yeah.

533
00:31:45,570 --> 00:31:47,280
Who has power of attorney?

534
00:31:47,905 --> 00:31:49,365
[Jan] I do.

535
00:31:49,741 --> 00:31:51,909
What would he want you to do?

536
00:31:52,702 --> 00:31:56,914
He'd wanna be given
every chance to live.

537
00:31:58,625 --> 00:32:00,835
To be here for his girls.

538
00:32:00,835 --> 00:32:04,380
He can react to us, I mean
that has to mean something,

539
00:32:04,380 --> 00:32:05,590
surely, doesn't it?

540
00:32:05,590 --> 00:32:07,342
Unfortunately it doesn't.

541
00:32:07,717 --> 00:32:10,720
But what if
there is any chance?

542
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:12,221
And if there's not?

543
00:32:14,766 --> 00:32:18,519
The hospital would recommend
moving him to hospice.

544
00:32:18,811 --> 00:32:20,063
Why do we have to move him?

545
00:32:20,063 --> 00:32:21,981
He's been through enough
already, hasn't he?

546
00:32:22,565 --> 00:32:24,692
Ma'am, hospice is for--

547
00:32:24,692 --> 00:32:25,818
I know.
I know.

548
00:32:25,818 --> 00:32:27,195
I know what hospice is.

549
00:32:27,195 --> 00:32:29,364
My husband is not a
piece of furniture.

550
00:32:29,364 --> 00:32:30,281
Of course not.

551
00:32:30,615 --> 00:32:32,659
[Jan] I feel like you
just want me to kill him--

552
00:32:32,659 --> 00:32:33,868
No, mom, no.

553
00:32:33,868 --> 00:32:35,495
[Jan] Like you want me to
shut off the machines

554
00:32:35,495 --> 00:32:36,162
and the medicine.

555
00:32:36,162 --> 00:32:36,537
Mom.

556
00:32:37,372 --> 00:32:38,498
We don't want you to
do anything you don't want to.

557
00:32:38,998 --> 00:32:41,459
But the fact of the matter is no
matter how well we take care of

558
00:32:41,459 --> 00:32:45,254
him, he'll never be able
to function on his own.

559
00:32:46,047 --> 00:32:48,132
He hates hospitals.

560
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:50,468
He always has.

561
00:32:52,136 --> 00:32:54,972
We don't have to
discuss this now,

562
00:32:54,972 --> 00:32:57,266
but we do have to
make a decision.

563
00:32:57,266 --> 00:32:58,685
[Jan] You can
talk to me doctor.

564
00:32:58,685 --> 00:33:01,688
As I said, I have power of
attorney, and I will decide

565
00:33:01,688 --> 00:33:03,439
what happens to my husband.

566
00:33:03,439 --> 00:33:04,482
Of course.

567
00:33:05,525 --> 00:33:07,318
I think we
need to be alone.

568
00:33:07,777 --> 00:33:10,655
You know about a year
ago, I lost my wife.

569
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:16,452
And I didn't listen when the
hospital recommended hospice.

570
00:33:17,495 --> 00:33:22,834
But if I could do it all over
again, I know what I would do.

571
00:33:29,006 --> 00:33:32,051
Look, we can explore a lot
of different options on

572
00:33:32,051 --> 00:33:34,095
how to do this transition.

573
00:33:34,095 --> 00:33:37,140
I think maybe you
were right, sweetheart.

574
00:33:39,016 --> 00:33:41,102
I've been fooling myself.

575
00:33:41,102 --> 00:33:43,438
No one is helping
us on this one.

576
00:33:44,814 --> 00:33:47,024
Good job, Michele.

577
00:33:48,359 --> 00:33:50,319
Well- I- Mom.

578
00:33:50,945 --> 00:33:53,698
Hey, I didn't mean to-

579
00:33:54,741 --> 00:33:56,159
I'm sorry.

580
00:34:01,164 --> 00:34:02,749
[Jan] So if you get
stationed somewhere,

581
00:34:02,749 --> 00:34:03,958
where do you want to go?

582
00:34:03,958 --> 00:34:06,002
I haven't really given
it that much thought.

583
00:34:06,002 --> 00:34:08,504
I don't get much
say in it as well.

584
00:34:09,255 --> 00:34:11,549
But if you could decide,
where would you want to go?

585
00:34:13,050 --> 00:34:16,471
Somewhere really cold.

586
00:34:16,929 --> 00:34:18,723
What? Why?

587
00:34:19,182 --> 00:34:21,809
I don't know. You know,
everyone wants to go to Hawaii

588
00:34:21,809 --> 00:34:25,062
or the Caribbean or somewhere
like that.

589
00:34:25,396 --> 00:34:27,523
You know, too many
people want to go there.

590
00:34:28,065 --> 00:34:30,193
It's not special anymore.

591
00:34:30,193 --> 00:34:31,944
So where do you want to go then?

592
00:34:31,944 --> 00:34:33,738
Like, Alaska?

593
00:34:36,491 --> 00:34:38,576
Do I have to go alone?

594
00:34:38,576 --> 00:34:39,660
Maybe.

595
00:34:40,536 --> 00:34:45,041
Oh if I have to go alone,
that's another story.

596
00:34:45,041 --> 00:34:46,918
If I get to take
someone with me,

597
00:34:46,918 --> 00:34:49,629
I'm sticking with Alaska.

598
00:34:50,171 --> 00:34:54,258
You know we can stay in,
get a big fireplace,

599
00:34:55,092 --> 00:34:56,761
be cozy together.

600
00:34:56,761 --> 00:34:59,263
Go look out the window at night,

601
00:34:59,263 --> 00:35:01,766
stare at the frozen ice.

602
00:35:02,558 --> 00:35:05,144
And just be warm in
that little house.

603
00:35:06,103 --> 00:35:07,730
And no one to bother us.

604
00:35:09,607 --> 00:35:10,441
Why?

605
00:35:10,983 --> 00:35:12,527
Do you want to go to Hawaii?

606
00:35:12,527 --> 00:35:15,613
I'd look cuter in a
bathing suit than a parka.

607
00:35:17,156 --> 00:35:19,367
You'd look cute in anything.

608
00:35:25,123 --> 00:35:26,541
I have to go.

609
00:35:26,541 --> 00:35:27,625
Okay.

610
00:35:30,753 --> 00:35:32,255
Close your eyes.

611
00:35:32,630 --> 00:35:33,631
Why?

612
00:35:33,965 --> 00:35:36,092
So I could break the spell.

613
00:35:45,476 --> 00:35:48,104
You're just gonna run off
without saying goodbye?

614
00:35:50,731 --> 00:35:52,441
-Bye.
-Bye.

615
00:35:57,822 --> 00:36:00,741
[Jan] He's taking
one night class,

616
00:36:00,741 --> 00:36:02,577
so technically I'm not lying.

617
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:06,998
You don't see the way
that he looks at him.

618
00:36:06,998 --> 00:36:08,791
It's like he hates him.

619
00:36:08,791 --> 00:36:09,917
[Pastor Robert]
But you love him.

620
00:36:10,501 --> 00:36:13,838
I ... Well, we've only
been dating for six months.

621
00:36:13,838 --> 00:36:16,340
Why, did I say that I love him?

622
00:36:16,757 --> 00:36:18,175
You didn't have to.

623
00:36:20,469 --> 00:36:21,888
I just-

624
00:36:22,847 --> 00:36:24,891
I just want my
father to see him.

625
00:36:24,891 --> 00:36:30,021
Not the way that he thinks he
is, but the way that I see him.

626
00:36:32,398 --> 00:36:35,234
How long are you willing
to wait for that to happen?

627
00:36:35,943 --> 00:36:37,862
For as long as it takes.

628
00:36:40,656 --> 00:36:41,699
Then it will.

629
00:36:42,366 --> 00:36:45,703
But you'll struggle,
and you'll doubt it.

630
00:36:46,704 --> 00:36:50,166
Stay patient and eventually
you'll get there.

631
00:36:51,042 --> 00:36:52,543
How do you know that?

632
00:36:54,045 --> 00:36:55,338
I don't.

633
00:36:55,338 --> 00:36:57,590
I just have faith that it will.

634
00:37:09,810 --> 00:37:11,103
Ehm- Mom?

635
00:37:11,103 --> 00:37:12,772
Someone's here to see you.

636
00:37:20,738 --> 00:37:23,866
[Pastor Robert]Well I guess I'll
just go back to California then.

637
00:37:25,117 --> 00:37:26,410
Who told you?

638
00:37:26,410 --> 00:37:27,578
Your daughter.

639
00:37:27,578 --> 00:37:28,829
[Jan] Terri?

640
00:37:28,829 --> 00:37:29,830
No.

641
00:37:30,748 --> 00:37:32,667
[Michele] Don't give
me too much credit,

642
00:37:32,667 --> 00:37:34,627
it was Terri's idea.

643
00:37:35,461 --> 00:37:38,255
I am sorry you travelled
so far to be with us.

644
00:37:54,271 --> 00:37:56,148
Sorry I wasted your time.

645
00:37:56,565 --> 00:37:59,110
It's not a waste
for me to be here.

646
00:38:00,903 --> 00:38:03,864
Is there any reason you
chose to come in here?

647
00:38:07,785 --> 00:38:10,454
Just wanted to be
alone, I guess.

648
00:38:10,454 --> 00:38:12,957
Oh, well, I'll leave
you to it then.

649
00:38:12,957 --> 00:38:13,916
[sighs]

650
00:38:13,916 --> 00:38:16,085
No, sorry.

651
00:38:18,087 --> 00:38:19,297
Please stay.

652
00:38:19,714 --> 00:38:22,299
I got the feeling you're
not spending much time in

653
00:38:22,299 --> 00:38:23,759
chapels these days.

654
00:38:24,802 --> 00:38:26,762
[Michele] No, I guess not.

655
00:38:27,096 --> 00:38:31,767
I'm not preaching to you,
it's just an observation.

656
00:38:32,810 --> 00:38:35,396
But it is a bit funny
though, you called me

657
00:38:35,396 --> 00:38:37,064
and you coming here.

658
00:38:37,648 --> 00:38:40,151
There are other places
you could go to be alone.

659
00:38:41,318 --> 00:38:43,612
It's just a
coincidence I suppose.

660
00:38:45,072 --> 00:38:46,991
Yeah, it is.

661
00:38:47,408 --> 00:38:50,161
You know, your mom's
been talking with me

662
00:38:50,161 --> 00:38:51,579
since she was young.

663
00:38:51,579 --> 00:38:54,123
I saw you when you were
just a little girl.

664
00:38:54,623 --> 00:38:56,792
I know you were
raised in church.

665
00:38:57,043 --> 00:39:01,213
And I also know you seem
to have a mind of your own,

666
00:39:01,213 --> 00:39:02,673
and that's a good thing.

667
00:39:04,508 --> 00:39:05,509
Yeah?

668
00:39:05,509 --> 00:39:06,719
Definitely.

669
00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,346
She does, too.

670
00:39:08,346 --> 00:39:10,222
Always did.

671
00:39:10,222 --> 00:39:12,266
You got that from her.

672
00:39:14,602 --> 00:39:17,938
But sometimes you get
preached something so much

673
00:39:17,938 --> 00:39:22,193
it feels good to make your
own decisions, and you should.

674
00:39:25,029 --> 00:39:26,572
I have.

675
00:39:26,572 --> 00:39:30,701
And it just feels safer to shut
out what you can't control.

676
00:39:31,202 --> 00:39:33,662
But that makes for a cold world.

677
00:39:34,497 --> 00:39:37,833
And I think the world is
warm, and full of love.

678
00:39:38,584 --> 00:39:41,712
If we just open
ourselves up to it.

679
00:39:45,966 --> 00:39:47,301
Thanks.

680
00:39:50,262 --> 00:39:53,224
[Steve] Okay, well, thank
you for another great meal,

681
00:39:53,224 --> 00:39:54,183
Mrs. Nichols.

682
00:39:54,183 --> 00:39:55,059
You're welcome.

683
00:39:55,643 --> 00:39:58,229
And I'll see you for a
tutoring session at the

684
00:39:58,229 --> 00:39:59,313
library on Thursday.

685
00:40:00,022 --> 00:40:00,898
Sir?

686
00:40:01,232 --> 00:40:04,068
Yeah, eh, thanks for
doing the dishes again Steve.

687
00:40:04,068 --> 00:40:05,152
I appreciate it.

688
00:40:05,152 --> 00:40:05,820
Pleasure.

689
00:40:06,070 --> 00:40:06,779
You know while you're
still here

690
00:40:07,196 --> 00:40:09,073
I could use some
help out in the garage.

691
00:40:09,073 --> 00:40:10,491
No, he can't.

692
00:40:10,491 --> 00:40:12,076
[Jim] I could use a pair
of second, strong hands.

693
00:40:12,076 --> 00:40:14,787
Being in the military like I am,
we tend to move around a lot,

694
00:40:14,787 --> 00:40:16,705
and basically I just throw
everything in my truck and dump

695
00:40:16,705 --> 00:40:17,832
it in the garage.

696
00:40:17,832 --> 00:40:19,583
I could use some
help sorting it out.

697
00:40:19,583 --> 00:40:21,710
[Marion] Jim.
He's not your employee.

698
00:40:21,710 --> 00:40:24,922
I'm sure Steve has his
own life to get back to.

699
00:40:24,922 --> 00:40:28,092
I'm sure he does, but two
of us working together,

700
00:40:28,092 --> 00:40:30,219
get it done in
less than an hour.

701
00:40:30,219 --> 00:40:32,847
Besides, I don't think
Steve minds, do you Steve?

702
00:40:33,681 --> 00:40:36,725
Okay. Sure.
Yeah, of course, no problem.

703
00:40:37,351 --> 00:40:37,810
Yeah.

704
00:40:38,060 --> 00:40:39,061
I'll meet you out there.

705
00:40:39,687 --> 00:40:40,813
Sure.

706
00:40:45,067 --> 00:40:47,236
Don't you have
some homework to do?

707
00:41:03,043 --> 00:41:05,296
[Jim] My wife's
the sentimental type.

708
00:41:05,296 --> 00:41:06,797
She likes to keep things.

709
00:41:06,797 --> 00:41:09,008
This is all the stuff she's
kept over all our moves.

710
00:41:09,008 --> 00:41:11,385
Looks like we've been
here for 30 years.

711
00:41:11,385 --> 00:41:12,803
Fact is, it's only
been a couple.

712
00:41:12,803 --> 00:41:15,598
Yeah, I'd like to see
the garage floor again.

713
00:41:15,598 --> 00:41:18,475
Far as I'm concerned,
you can junk all of this.

714
00:41:18,475 --> 00:41:21,937
I'll get you some trash bags,
you can put it all together,

715
00:41:21,937 --> 00:41:24,899
take it out front, and I'll haul
it off to the dump in my truck.

716
00:41:24,899 --> 00:41:27,401
This is a lot of stuff.

717
00:41:27,401 --> 00:41:29,153
Well you're a strong boy.

718
00:41:29,653 --> 00:41:31,489
You got someplace
you need to be?

719
00:41:32,781 --> 00:41:36,785
Uhm- I have an
early morning class.

720
00:41:37,328 --> 00:41:38,954
Oh.

721
00:41:38,954 --> 00:41:41,040
Well, then you better get to it.

722
00:41:41,498 --> 00:41:43,167
Mr. Smartypants.

723
00:42:08,442 --> 00:42:10,819
You have
roll call at 06:00.

724
00:42:12,279 --> 00:42:13,364
I know that.

725
00:42:13,364 --> 00:42:15,908
Just leave.
You don't owe him anything.

726
00:42:15,908 --> 00:42:17,201
He's testing me.

727
00:42:17,201 --> 00:42:20,120
He's crazy, you don't
have to put up with this.

728
00:42:20,579 --> 00:42:22,289
You're worth it.

729
00:42:22,289 --> 00:42:24,500
Please, go home.

730
00:42:25,292 --> 00:42:26,835
I'm not done yet.

731
00:42:27,169 --> 00:42:27,920
[Jim] Hey!

732
00:42:28,212 --> 00:42:29,838
You're not properly
dressed young lady.

733
00:42:29,838 --> 00:42:32,925
And you, you better
pick up the pace.

734
00:42:32,925 --> 00:42:35,010
Sun's gonna be up soon!

735
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:43,060
You wanna help him?

736
00:42:43,060 --> 00:42:45,312
You put on some proper clothes.

737
00:42:45,312 --> 00:42:49,275
♪

738
00:42:57,533 --> 00:42:59,827
I know he's just
trying to break me.

739
00:43:01,036 --> 00:43:02,913
So what, I
should just take it?

740
00:43:02,913 --> 00:43:04,248
Whatever he throws at me?

741
00:43:04,248 --> 00:43:05,332
Yes.

742
00:43:05,332 --> 00:43:09,128
It'll be painful, you'll
wanna scream at him.

743
00:43:09,128 --> 00:43:11,046
To stand up for yourself.

744
00:43:11,463 --> 00:43:14,091
But if you take it,
eventually you will overcome.

745
00:43:14,091 --> 00:43:16,010
He's just trying to
test you to make sure your

746
00:43:16,010 --> 00:43:17,553
intentions are pure.

747
00:43:18,804 --> 00:43:21,223
What do you think would happen
if you lashed out at him?

748
00:43:23,976 --> 00:43:26,186
I'd be proving him right?

749
00:43:26,770 --> 00:43:28,397
Exactly.

750
00:43:31,734 --> 00:43:34,236
This might be the end for us.

751
00:43:34,611 --> 00:43:35,571
Today?

752
00:43:36,363 --> 00:43:37,656
Okay.

753
00:43:37,656 --> 00:43:38,949
Well we had a good run.

754
00:43:38,949 --> 00:43:40,242
I mean it.

755
00:43:40,242 --> 00:43:42,870
And why is this the end for us?

756
00:43:43,245 --> 00:43:45,914
I wanted to bring you here
and get you a milkshake.

757
00:43:47,666 --> 00:43:48,792
Right.

758
00:43:48,792 --> 00:43:51,587
But it might come
as a shock to you

759
00:43:51,587 --> 00:43:54,173
that I don't earn much money.

760
00:43:54,423 --> 00:43:55,424
No!

761
00:43:55,674 --> 00:43:57,092
It's true.

762
00:43:57,092 --> 00:43:59,261
You're probably expecting me to
have you driven you around in

763
00:43:59,261 --> 00:44:01,555
limousines and draped in gold--

764
00:44:01,555 --> 00:44:02,639
Draped in gold?

765
00:44:02,639 --> 00:44:05,434
Yeah. But reality is-

766
00:44:06,310 --> 00:44:07,644
I'm kind of poor.

767
00:44:08,604 --> 00:44:10,481
And that's why this
is the end of us?

768
00:44:10,773 --> 00:44:11,940
No.

769
00:44:12,691 --> 00:44:14,360
Here, uhm-

770
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:15,611
hold that thought.

771
00:44:28,457 --> 00:44:29,541
This is why.

772
00:44:31,001 --> 00:44:31,919
Oh.

773
00:44:32,544 --> 00:44:34,672
I wouldn't blame you
if you just walked.

774
00:44:34,672 --> 00:44:35,672
Right now.

775
00:44:36,131 --> 00:44:38,675
Well, you've given
me a tempting out.

776
00:44:38,675 --> 00:44:40,219
I promise I won't judge you.

777
00:44:40,219 --> 00:44:42,888
So is this how it's
always gonna be?

778
00:44:42,888 --> 00:44:44,139
Probably.

779
00:44:46,350 --> 00:44:47,309
Okay.

780
00:44:48,352 --> 00:44:49,353
I'm out.

781
00:44:51,438 --> 00:44:52,481
Okay.

782
00:44:53,524 --> 00:44:54,983
Are you sad?

783
00:44:55,609 --> 00:44:56,985
Devastated.

784
00:44:57,820 --> 00:45:00,239
How long will it take
you to find another girl?

785
00:45:01,365 --> 00:45:02,449
Forever.

786
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:06,370
Oh it won't take you that
long to find another girl.

787
00:45:06,370 --> 00:45:08,122
There is no other girl.

788
00:45:10,791 --> 00:45:12,209
Well,

789
00:45:12,209 --> 00:45:15,838
maybe next time
I can buy a milkshake

790
00:45:15,838 --> 00:45:19,341
and maybe someday
I can buy us a lot more.

791
00:45:20,384 --> 00:45:23,178
What if I want
to buy the milkshake?

792
00:45:24,304 --> 00:45:26,890
Are you afraid of
me buying a milkshake?

793
00:45:27,307 --> 00:45:28,976
I want to take care of you.

794
00:45:28,976 --> 00:45:31,520
-I don't always need
to be taken care of.

795
00:45:32,896 --> 00:45:33,856
How about-

796
00:45:35,482 --> 00:45:37,192
how about we take
care of each other?

797
00:45:39,445 --> 00:45:40,737
Deal.

798
00:45:41,113 --> 00:45:43,574
[Steve] Okay, it's a six.
But this is a Y, it's an N,

799
00:45:43,574 --> 00:45:48,245
close bracket, plus open bracket
Y, plus three, equals what?

800
00:45:48,620 --> 00:45:49,580
Four.

801
00:45:49,580 --> 00:45:51,623
No, you actually wrote three.

802
00:45:51,623 --> 00:45:52,708
Negative four.

803
00:45:53,250 --> 00:45:56,336
It's a great try,
but it's wrong.

804
00:45:57,254 --> 00:45:58,297
I don't think it's wrong.

805
00:45:58,297 --> 00:46:00,340
-It's wrong.
-I don't think so.

806
00:46:01,592 --> 00:46:04,052
So here,
ten questions right.

807
00:46:04,678 --> 00:46:05,679
[laughs]

808
00:46:05,679 --> 00:46:06,722
You got them.

809
00:46:07,347 --> 00:46:08,432
Steve.

810
00:46:08,765 --> 00:46:09,933
Great, you're here.

811
00:46:09,933 --> 00:46:11,727
Nice to see you, sir.

812
00:46:12,019 --> 00:46:14,104
I got a serious weed
problem out in the garden,

813
00:46:14,104 --> 00:46:15,481
wanna give me a hand?

814
00:46:15,981 --> 00:46:17,441
[Steve] Weeds?

815
00:46:17,441 --> 00:46:20,110
[Jim] Out of control,
like they do.

816
00:46:23,363 --> 00:46:24,448
Sure.

817
00:46:50,974 --> 00:46:52,142
Can I get some water?

818
00:46:52,142 --> 00:46:54,436
You're almost done,
just push on through.

819
00:46:59,817 --> 00:47:00,651
Argh!

820
00:47:01,401 --> 00:47:03,695
I think these gloves
have holes in them.

821
00:47:03,695 --> 00:47:05,322
It's the only ones we have.

822
00:47:05,322 --> 00:47:08,575
I- I- actually,
there are some in the garage.

823
00:47:08,575 --> 00:47:10,244
No, I got rid of those.

824
00:47:17,417 --> 00:47:18,460
Aargh!!

825
00:47:18,835 --> 00:47:19,670
All right.

826
00:47:21,338 --> 00:47:24,424
That's gonna hurt a whole
lot worse without them.

827
00:47:25,008 --> 00:47:26,843
What do I have to do?

828
00:47:26,843 --> 00:47:28,262
I don't know, what can you do?

829
00:47:28,262 --> 00:47:29,846
What is your
problem with me?

830
00:47:30,389 --> 00:47:32,808
I don't know, I just
don't trust you.

831
00:47:34,393 --> 00:47:36,061
Something not right about you.

832
00:47:36,061 --> 00:47:37,521
I don't even
know what I've done.

833
00:47:37,521 --> 00:47:39,815
You don't think I see the way
you two look at each other?

834
00:47:39,815 --> 00:47:41,149
And would
that be so bad?

835
00:47:41,149 --> 00:47:43,026
Must be, or you two
wouldn't keep telling me

836
00:47:43,026 --> 00:47:45,153
that you're just friends.

837
00:47:47,114 --> 00:47:48,699
I'm not one
of your recruits.

838
00:47:50,117 --> 00:47:52,703
I knew what you were
the moment I saw you.

839
00:47:52,703 --> 00:47:53,704
And what's that?

840
00:47:53,704 --> 00:47:54,705
Soft.

841
00:47:55,664 --> 00:47:56,832
[Marion] What's going on?

842
00:47:58,625 --> 00:48:00,043
Oh, nothing.

843
00:48:00,419 --> 00:48:02,796
Me and Steve were just
joking around, huh?

844
00:48:09,136 --> 00:48:10,554
You okay?

845
00:48:30,198 --> 00:48:31,950
I can't believe him.

846
00:48:31,950 --> 00:48:34,202
I shouldn't of lost
it at him like that.

847
00:48:34,202 --> 00:48:37,372
Pastor Roberts was right, I
gave him exactly what he wanted.

848
00:48:37,372 --> 00:48:38,874
This isn't your fault.

849
00:48:39,916 --> 00:48:41,335
He knows something's up.

850
00:48:41,710 --> 00:48:45,297
We'll tell him eventually,
when he comes around to it.

851
00:48:45,297 --> 00:48:48,925
I'm in the Air Police,
he's a Chief Master Sargeant.

852
00:48:48,925 --> 00:48:50,344
We work on the same base,

853
00:48:50,344 --> 00:48:52,095
we're just lucky
he hasn't seen me yet.

854
00:48:52,095 --> 00:48:54,097
But he's never here,
he's always off on temp duty

855
00:48:54,097 --> 00:48:56,933
at some other base.
He's got another trip coming up.

856
00:48:56,933 --> 00:48:58,644
We're fine.

857
00:49:02,981 --> 00:49:04,524
I don't know.

858
00:49:10,530 --> 00:49:12,658
Just cover for me on guard duty.

859
00:49:12,658 --> 00:49:14,242
[Robbie]
I covered for you last time,

860
00:49:14,242 --> 00:49:15,619
the watch commander caught me.

861
00:49:15,619 --> 00:49:18,747
I spent hours,
hours cleaning toilets.

862
00:49:19,414 --> 00:49:21,583
You know I can't pee in a
public bathroom anymore?

863
00:49:22,042 --> 00:49:24,961
You know how long it
takes to scrub a toilet

864
00:49:24,961 --> 00:49:26,004
with a toothbrush?

865
00:49:26,755 --> 00:49:28,715
You know how long it
takes to scrub fifteen?

866
00:49:28,715 --> 00:49:29,383
Fifteen of them.

867
00:49:29,383 --> 00:49:30,300
Yeah.

868
00:49:30,634 --> 00:49:32,761
Because I did it when I
covered for you with Julie.

869
00:49:33,136 --> 00:49:34,805
You mean my wife?

870
00:49:34,805 --> 00:49:36,556
You haven't proposed yet.

871
00:49:36,973 --> 00:49:39,893
Not yet, but I might do, maybe.

872
00:49:40,727 --> 00:49:41,812
Maybe not.

873
00:49:41,812 --> 00:49:43,480
She keeps me on my toes.

874
00:49:43,980 --> 00:49:45,148
And she's cute.

875
00:49:45,148 --> 00:49:46,400
Are you done yet?

876
00:49:46,983 --> 00:49:48,276
Maybe.

877
00:49:49,111 --> 00:49:50,737
Maybe not.

878
00:49:52,114 --> 00:49:53,657
You owe me.

879
00:49:53,657 --> 00:49:54,574
I don't owe you.

880
00:49:54,574 --> 00:49:56,618
I paid you back, we're square.

881
00:49:57,703 --> 00:49:59,871
Look, they haven't
seen this guy in weeks.

882
00:50:00,122 --> 00:50:01,790
Or the-

883
00:50:06,461 --> 00:50:07,504
[Jim] At ease.

884
00:50:10,173 --> 00:50:11,550
Whoops.

885
00:50:15,095 --> 00:50:16,638
Your friend here-

886
00:50:17,848 --> 00:50:18,974
liar.

887
00:50:29,192 --> 00:50:30,569
Are you okay?

888
00:50:32,738 --> 00:50:34,698
I won't be soon.

889
00:50:40,829 --> 00:50:42,497
[Jim] Marion?

890
00:50:42,789 --> 00:50:44,458
Jan?
Jan?

891
00:50:45,709 --> 00:50:48,128
You know that young man
who comes into our house,

892
00:50:48,128 --> 00:50:49,921
eats our food, your friend.

893
00:50:49,921 --> 00:50:51,465
The one you insulted?

894
00:50:51,465 --> 00:50:53,592
Didn't think I knew
about that, did you?

895
00:50:53,592 --> 00:50:56,720
I should've done worse
considering the- student

896
00:50:56,720 --> 00:50:59,681
just waved me through
the gate on base.

897
00:51:00,807 --> 00:51:01,808
Well?

898
00:51:01,808 --> 00:51:03,351
I wasn't lying.

899
00:51:03,351 --> 00:51:06,855
He is a student, he's just
also in the Air Force.

900
00:51:06,855 --> 00:51:09,316
You don't think that was
important for me to know?

901
00:51:09,316 --> 00:51:11,401
I knew that you wouldn't
like it, and I like him,

902
00:51:11,401 --> 00:51:12,903
so I didn't tell you.

903
00:51:12,903 --> 00:51:14,654
You're dating a GI?

904
00:51:15,363 --> 00:51:16,865
I guess I am.

905
00:51:19,284 --> 00:51:20,494
Not anymore you're not.

906
00:51:20,494 --> 00:51:22,579
You can't stop me
from seeing him.

907
00:51:22,579 --> 00:51:24,414
What? You don't
think I can find a way to get

908
00:51:24,414 --> 00:51:25,665
him dishonourably discharged?

909
00:51:25,916 --> 00:51:28,251
I got a half a dozen officers
on that base who would find a

910
00:51:28,251 --> 00:51:29,795
reason for me in a heartbeat.

911
00:51:29,795 --> 00:51:30,921
You wouldn't do that.

912
00:51:30,921 --> 00:51:31,588
Of course I would.

913
00:51:31,588 --> 00:51:32,923
No, he's a good man.

914
00:51:32,923 --> 00:51:34,132
He's a liar.

915
00:51:34,382 --> 00:51:40,138
He came in to my house and lied
to my face night after night.

916
00:51:40,138 --> 00:51:41,723
I asked him to.

917
00:51:42,432 --> 00:51:45,352
Sweetheart, he's not
good enough for you.

918
00:51:45,352 --> 00:51:47,646
Well shouldn't I
get to decide that?

919
00:51:48,438 --> 00:51:50,732
This is for the best.

920
00:51:51,399 --> 00:51:52,317
No.

921
00:51:52,317 --> 00:51:53,693
No!

922
00:51:54,694 --> 00:51:55,946
That's it.

923
00:51:55,946 --> 00:51:57,656
It's done.

924
00:51:57,656 --> 00:52:00,492
♪

925
00:52:05,038 --> 00:52:06,873
I'll talk to him.

926
00:52:16,299 --> 00:52:17,926
Sweetheart.

927
00:52:19,052 --> 00:52:21,680
Steve, blink if you can hear me.

928
00:52:26,476 --> 00:52:28,770
Give us a little blink, dad.

929
00:52:29,062 --> 00:52:30,605
Please.

930
00:52:35,944 --> 00:52:41,491
♪

931
00:52:54,170 --> 00:52:55,714
Hey mom,

932
00:52:57,340 --> 00:52:59,467
I know you
don't wanna move dad.

933
00:53:00,343 --> 00:53:01,595
Okay?

934
00:53:02,679 --> 00:53:08,393
But I do think we probably have
some decisions to make though.

935
00:53:08,393 --> 00:53:10,228
What should we do?

936
00:53:10,228 --> 00:53:15,483
I talked to the staff here
and they have an end-of-life

937
00:53:15,483 --> 00:53:22,782
physician, and maybe just
tomorrow we go talk to him,

938
00:53:23,325 --> 00:53:25,744
figure out what our options are.

939
00:53:26,745 --> 00:53:29,956
[Terri] Can we just
hold on a little longer?

940
00:53:30,373 --> 00:53:32,375
It's just to get information.

941
00:53:32,751 --> 00:53:35,170
Okay?
That's all it is.

942
00:53:35,921 --> 00:53:37,631
I understand.

943
00:53:40,759 --> 00:53:43,345
[Dr. Russo] Your daughter
has brought me up to speed

944
00:53:43,345 --> 00:53:44,763
on your situation,

945
00:53:44,763 --> 00:53:48,475
and obviously there's no problem
leaving Steve right where he is.

946
00:53:48,475 --> 00:53:51,561
Our trauma centre staff can
handle everything you need.

947
00:53:51,561 --> 00:53:52,812
Thank you.

948
00:53:54,272 --> 00:53:55,815
I have a question.

949
00:53:55,815 --> 00:53:57,901
Absolutely, that's
what I'm here for.

950
00:53:57,901 --> 00:54:02,864
Everyone keeps telling
me that there's no hope.

951
00:54:03,406 --> 00:54:04,407
Why?

952
00:54:05,075 --> 00:54:08,662
I am useless to you if I
don't tell you the truth.

953
00:54:09,204 --> 00:54:13,083
The reason that everyone is
telling you there's no hope

954
00:54:13,083 --> 00:54:15,418
is because there is none.

955
00:54:15,669 --> 00:54:18,922
Steve's lungs started to
collapse before he arrived at

956
00:54:18,922 --> 00:54:20,131
the hospital.

957
00:54:20,715 --> 00:54:24,386
Along with that and the
paralysis as one thing,

958
00:54:25,011 --> 00:54:27,681
there's just too many
things to deal with.

959
00:54:27,681 --> 00:54:31,434
But people just don't die
because they're paralysed.

960
00:54:31,434 --> 00:54:33,269
It's more than that.

961
00:54:33,269 --> 00:54:34,354
[Dr. Russo] You're right.

962
00:54:34,354 --> 00:54:35,438
In Steve's case,

963
00:54:35,438 --> 00:54:38,274
if he recoverd the
ability to breath, on his

964
00:54:38,274 --> 00:54:42,529
own, or if his heart could beat
without the extreme medical

965
00:54:42,529 --> 00:54:47,617
interventions he's currently on,
then yes he would have some sort

966
00:54:47,617 --> 00:54:52,163
of opportunity for a functional
life outside of the hospital

967
00:54:52,163 --> 00:54:53,999
as a quadriplegic.

968
00:54:53,999 --> 00:54:55,125
Okay.

969
00:54:55,125 --> 00:54:57,961
Some people in these
situations have recovered.

970
00:54:57,961 --> 00:54:59,921
We researched it.

971
00:54:59,921 --> 00:55:01,006
I understand.
But,

972
00:55:01,756 --> 00:55:03,216
if that were
going to happen

973
00:55:03,550 --> 00:55:06,928
we would have seen some
sign of it by now.

974
00:55:07,971 --> 00:55:10,140
Your accident was
Friday morning?

975
00:55:10,140 --> 00:55:11,391
Mm-hmm.

976
00:55:11,391 --> 00:55:14,310
By Sunday evening
Steve's heart still showed

977
00:55:14,310 --> 00:55:17,147
no ability to
tolerate reduced drugs.

978
00:55:17,814 --> 00:55:23,111
His lungs clearly still showed
no ability to work on their own.

979
00:55:24,070 --> 00:55:29,534
And since then, every test
consistently shows that he's not

980
00:55:29,534 --> 00:55:32,996
only not improving,
he's getting worse.

981
00:55:34,622 --> 00:55:39,294
Today is Tuesday, soon he won't
be responsive in any way.

982
00:55:41,463 --> 00:55:45,633
I'm sure we can prolong
his life artificially but

983
00:55:45,633 --> 00:55:47,802
would he want that?

984
00:55:49,137 --> 00:55:51,389
I can't answer that for you.

985
00:55:52,098 --> 00:55:55,977
You have to decide that
together as a family.

986
00:55:58,521 --> 00:56:00,815
Do you think he knows?

987
00:56:02,275 --> 00:56:03,526
What?

988
00:56:03,818 --> 00:56:05,528
That's he's dying?

989
00:56:08,073 --> 00:56:11,868
[Jan] He was always the careful
one, he was always careful.

990
00:56:11,868 --> 00:56:14,245
I am the one who
should not be here.

991
00:56:14,245 --> 00:56:15,121
[Michele] Hey.

992
00:56:15,121 --> 00:56:16,122
Mom, hey,

993
00:56:16,122 --> 00:56:17,999
you cannot feel guilty
for surviving.

994
00:56:18,833 --> 00:56:22,003
If I could trade places
with him I would.

995
00:56:25,006 --> 00:56:29,969
♪

996
00:56:36,392 --> 00:56:39,729
[upbeat music]

997
00:57:11,970 --> 00:57:14,305
[Steve] Your dad's
gonna go nuclear.

998
00:57:14,597 --> 00:57:17,600
That won't change
if we go back now.

999
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:19,310
Something's happened.

1000
00:57:19,310 --> 00:57:20,645
What?

1001
00:57:20,979 --> 00:57:22,647
They're transferring me.

1002
00:57:23,815 --> 00:57:25,024
To where?

1003
00:57:25,775 --> 00:57:27,735
Omaha, Nebraska.

1004
00:57:27,735 --> 00:57:29,112
Nebraska?

1005
00:57:29,112 --> 00:57:30,405
Why?

1006
00:57:30,405 --> 00:57:34,492
I'll be part of the Elite
Guard at Strategic Air Command.

1007
00:57:35,994 --> 00:57:37,662
I'll be guarding generals.

1008
00:57:39,956 --> 00:57:41,374
I'm proud of you.

1009
00:57:41,374 --> 00:57:42,834
Thanks.

1010
00:57:48,214 --> 00:57:50,967
But what does it mean for us?

1011
00:57:51,467 --> 00:57:53,928
I might be gone
for a long time.

1012
00:57:54,304 --> 00:57:55,930
That's why I wanted
to talk to you.

1013
00:57:55,930 --> 00:57:58,141
Are you really gonna
do this right now?

1014
00:57:59,309 --> 00:58:00,643
How did you know?

1015
00:58:00,643 --> 00:58:02,562
I'm not stupid, Steve.

1016
00:58:02,562 --> 00:58:04,480
Well then, do you want to?

1017
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:05,523
No.

1018
00:58:05,523 --> 00:58:07,901
But I'll be gone,
don't you think we should?

1019
00:58:07,901 --> 00:58:09,652
Why, I love you.

1020
00:58:09,652 --> 00:58:11,446
Yes that's exactly why.

1021
00:58:11,446 --> 00:58:13,406
You want to break up
with me because I love you?

1022
00:58:13,406 --> 00:58:14,782
Break up?

1023
00:58:14,782 --> 00:58:16,284
[laughs]

1024
00:58:16,284 --> 00:58:18,828
No, no, hey-

1025
00:58:21,539 --> 00:58:23,499
I want to marry you.

1026
00:58:25,168 --> 00:58:26,252
What?

1027
00:58:26,252 --> 00:58:28,171
Before I get transferred.

1028
00:58:32,217 --> 00:58:37,722
Don't people usually get a ring
in these kind of situation?

1029
00:58:39,974 --> 00:58:41,851
You know- I-

1030
00:58:41,851 --> 00:58:50,068
I make like $250 a month, I
can't afford what you deserve.

1031
00:58:50,068 --> 00:58:54,530
That's okay, you'd probably
pick the wrong one anyway,

1032
00:58:54,822 --> 00:58:56,741
I can pick my own.

1033
00:58:57,033 --> 00:58:58,785
I've been saving up from work.

1034
00:59:01,913 --> 00:59:05,500
That's why I want
to marry you, you know.

1035
00:59:08,044 --> 00:59:10,004
Don't get used to it.

1036
00:59:11,214 --> 00:59:12,757
What?

1037
00:59:13,549 --> 00:59:14,759
What?

1038
00:59:14,759 --> 00:59:17,679
My dad always said that
if he caught me dating a GI

1039
00:59:17,679 --> 00:59:20,056
he'd ship me off to Nebraska.

1040
00:59:20,056 --> 00:59:21,724
[laughter]

1041
00:59:22,558 --> 00:59:25,270
I want you to get my
father's blessing.

1042
00:59:25,728 --> 00:59:28,815
I know what he's been like,
but he's still my dad.

1043
00:59:31,901 --> 00:59:34,821
What if he
doesn't give it to me?

1044
00:59:35,905 --> 00:59:38,574
I don't see how we can
be married if he doesn't.

1045
00:59:38,574 --> 00:59:40,243
He'll always be my father.

1046
00:59:40,743 --> 00:59:42,578
I don't want us to
spend the rest of our

1047
00:59:42,578 --> 00:59:43,830
lives sneaking around.

1048
00:59:43,830 --> 00:59:46,874
So you won't
marry me if he doesn't?

1049
00:59:48,584 --> 00:59:50,503
It's important to me.

1050
00:59:50,503 --> 00:59:52,130
Okay.

1051
00:59:53,423 --> 00:59:56,217
I'll do whatever I
have to do to get it.

1052
00:59:59,220 --> 01:00:00,555
I love you.

1053
01:00:01,180 --> 01:00:03,057
I love you too.

1054
01:00:11,441 --> 01:00:13,359
[car honks horn]

1055
01:00:13,359 --> 01:00:14,277
You think that's ...

1056
01:00:14,277 --> 01:00:16,696
That's definitely him.

1057
01:00:17,780 --> 01:00:19,282
Get over here, young lady.

1058
01:00:19,282 --> 01:00:22,869
I'll deal with him, but you
have to talk to him some time.

1059
01:00:24,704 --> 01:00:27,332
You'd tell me if
he murdered one of your

1060
01:00:27,332 --> 01:00:29,125
ex-boyfriends, right?

1061
01:00:30,293 --> 01:00:31,794
Right?

1062
01:00:34,464 --> 01:00:35,757
Right?

1063
01:00:36,174 --> 01:00:37,717
[Jim] Let's go.

1064
01:00:39,510 --> 01:00:41,679
I will not forget this.

1065
01:00:47,310 --> 01:00:49,645
[Jeep drives off]

1066
01:00:53,983 --> 01:00:55,068
Chief?

1067
01:01:04,494 --> 01:01:07,205
Liar who takes my
daughter to make out in

1068
01:01:07,205 --> 01:01:08,664
the middle of the night.

1069
01:01:09,248 --> 01:01:09,999
[clears throat]

1070
01:01:10,291 --> 01:01:13,002
There is something
I want to ask you.

1071
01:01:13,628 --> 01:01:18,424
Well I'm going to do a
little target practice later on,

1072
01:01:19,050 --> 01:01:21,135
we can talk then.

1073
01:01:21,511 --> 01:01:22,929
Okay.

1074
01:01:39,153 --> 01:01:41,531
[Jim] So tell me something
Steve, you a shooter?

1075
01:01:41,531 --> 01:01:42,532
[Steve] Yes sir.

1076
01:01:42,532 --> 01:01:43,574
You any good?

1077
01:01:43,574 --> 01:01:44,700
I'm okay.

1078
01:01:44,700 --> 01:01:47,412
Have some pride son,
come on let's go.

1079
01:01:47,412 --> 01:01:48,371
This way.

1080
01:01:55,586 --> 01:01:57,255
Shouldn't
you lead the way?

1081
01:01:57,797 --> 01:02:01,217
You're doing just fine,
it's about 100 yards up here.

1082
01:02:01,217 --> 01:02:02,385
We'll be good.

1083
01:02:12,478 --> 01:02:13,729
Keep going?

1084
01:02:14,397 --> 01:02:16,232
50 yards.

1085
01:02:17,358 --> 01:02:18,734
[gun shot]

1086
01:02:19,235 --> 01:02:20,236
Good shot, chief.

1087
01:02:20,236 --> 01:02:22,697
Nobody likes a
suck-up Steve, your turn.

1088
01:02:29,203 --> 01:02:30,163
[gun shot]

1089
01:02:30,997 --> 01:02:33,082
You sure you qualified
on the range?

1090
01:02:33,082 --> 01:02:34,459
I did.

1091
01:02:34,459 --> 01:02:35,960
You say so.

1092
01:02:37,253 --> 01:02:41,466
Set me up a bottle, I'm going to
move back here about 30 feet,

1093
01:02:41,466 --> 01:02:43,259
challenge myself.

1094
01:02:52,393 --> 01:02:53,769
[gun shot]

1095
01:02:55,521 --> 01:02:56,814
Are you insane?

1096
01:02:56,814 --> 01:03:00,234
Oh man calm down I could
shoot a pimple off your face.

1097
01:03:00,234 --> 01:03:00,943
[Steve] You're crazy.

1098
01:03:01,277 --> 01:03:03,654
Don't be so touchy Steve,
you're fine.

1099
01:03:03,654 --> 01:03:04,614
Chief Nichols.

1100
01:03:04,614 --> 01:03:05,114
What?

1101
01:03:05,907 --> 01:03:08,034
I am here to ask for your
blessing to marry your daughter.

1102
01:03:10,244 --> 01:03:11,787
Oh.
Is that right?

1103
01:03:11,787 --> 01:03:12,705
Yes sir.

1104
01:03:13,372 --> 01:03:16,167
Well I'll tell you what.
You see that brown bottle

1105
01:03:16,167 --> 01:03:18,377
back there,
that's about 15 metres away.

1106
01:03:18,377 --> 01:03:21,047
That's far less than you
need to qualify on the range.

1107
01:03:21,047 --> 01:03:24,300
I'm going to give you two shots.
You hit one of them,

1108
01:03:24,300 --> 01:03:27,803
you'll have my blessing
to marry my daughter.

1109
01:03:29,263 --> 01:03:30,348
You're on.

1110
01:03:30,973 --> 01:03:32,808
Why do you want
to marry her now anyway?

1111
01:03:32,808 --> 01:03:33,809
What's the hurry?

1112
01:03:33,809 --> 01:03:35,686
I'm being transferred.

1113
01:03:35,686 --> 01:03:36,812
Is that right?

1114
01:03:36,812 --> 01:03:37,688
Out of state?

1115
01:03:37,688 --> 01:03:39,565
Yes, can
you stop talking.

1116
01:03:39,565 --> 01:03:40,441
Where to?

1117
01:03:40,858 --> 01:03:43,486
Omaha.
Can I shoot now?

1118
01:03:43,486 --> 01:03:45,321
Yeah, sure.
Go ahead.

1119
01:03:47,448 --> 01:03:48,616
[gun shot]

1120
01:03:49,534 --> 01:03:51,869
Steve, it's a lot easier to fall
in love with a girl that you can

1121
01:03:51,869 --> 01:03:55,957
see, but you're going to be on
a new base and your air force

1122
01:03:55,957 --> 01:03:58,501
buddies, they're going to be
telling you that she's already

1123
01:03:58,501 --> 01:04:00,711
forgotten about you and you're
going to be sitting there

1124
01:04:00,711 --> 01:04:02,505
waiting for your
Dear John letter.

1125
01:04:02,505 --> 01:04:04,048
It won't be
like that for us.

1126
01:04:04,048 --> 01:04:07,093
You're going to be out on leave,
out in the world socializing.

1127
01:04:07,093 --> 01:04:08,344
There's going to be all
sorts of other women.

1128
01:04:08,678 --> 01:04:11,138
Women that you can see and you
can smell that are a lot more

1129
01:04:11,138 --> 01:04:13,516
real than anything you can write
down on a piece of paper or

1130
01:04:13,516 --> 01:04:15,268
what's in a photograph.

1131
01:04:15,268 --> 01:04:16,227
That's not true.

1132
01:04:16,686 --> 01:04:18,604
You're still human, Steve.

1133
01:04:19,355 --> 01:04:23,317
Everything you're about to do
is to push you away from her.

1134
01:04:24,026 --> 01:04:26,612
The only thing pushing
me away from your daughter

1135
01:04:26,612 --> 01:04:28,906
is you, Mr. Nichols.

1136
01:04:29,448 --> 01:04:33,286
But guess what, I qualified
as an expert marksman too.

1137
01:04:34,453 --> 01:04:35,496
Go on.

1138
01:04:35,496 --> 01:04:37,373
[exhales]

1139
01:04:50,886 --> 01:04:52,430
[gun shot]

1140
01:04:55,433 --> 01:04:57,351
Yeah well that was close.

1141
01:04:57,893 --> 01:05:00,896
Go ahead and do me a favour
son, let her down easy.

1142
01:05:03,274 --> 01:05:08,988
♪

1143
01:05:16,537 --> 01:05:18,497
If you're ready to leave-

1144
01:05:20,458 --> 01:05:22,918
I need you to say goodbye.

1145
01:05:25,046 --> 01:05:28,716
They think I
should let you go,

1146
01:05:30,134 --> 01:05:32,345
but it still feels wrong.

1147
01:05:34,013 --> 01:05:37,016
I need you to tell
me what to do.

1148
01:05:40,853 --> 01:05:45,066
Please, please
tell me what to do.

1149
01:05:45,900 --> 01:05:47,443
Please.

1150
01:06:04,168 --> 01:06:05,211
Okay.

1151
01:06:09,173 --> 01:06:10,257
Okay.

1152
01:06:12,968 --> 01:06:14,303
I love you.

1153
01:06:24,814 --> 01:06:26,941
Your dad told me what he wants.

1154
01:06:32,697 --> 01:06:34,156
How?

1155
01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:38,577
We've been together 46 years.

1156
01:06:42,665 --> 01:06:44,709
What did he say?

1157
01:06:45,418 --> 01:06:46,919
He's ready to go.

1158
01:06:59,306 --> 01:07:02,059
You think Pastor Roberts
is still in town?

1159
01:07:04,395 --> 01:07:06,981
Another half hour and
I'd have been on my flight.

1160
01:07:08,899 --> 01:07:10,735
I didn't think I
would see you again.

1161
01:07:11,360 --> 01:07:13,738
You're no more
surprised than me.

1162
01:07:21,537 --> 01:07:23,164
[sniffles]

1163
01:07:23,497 --> 01:07:25,082
How does it happen?

1164
01:07:26,333 --> 01:07:29,295
Without medication his heart
rate will drop to critical

1165
01:07:29,295 --> 01:07:32,798
levels, and he won't
be able to breathe.

1166
01:07:32,798 --> 01:07:34,216
Will he be in pain?

1167
01:07:34,216 --> 01:07:36,552
No, he'll be sedated.

1168
01:07:36,552 --> 01:07:38,179
He'll be comfortable.

1169
01:07:38,179 --> 01:07:43,058
And then he'll pass peacefully
when we turn off support.

1170
01:07:44,602 --> 01:07:47,521
Is there a time you prefer?

1171
01:07:51,233 --> 01:07:55,070
You- you want me to choose
what time my husband dies?

1172
01:07:57,281 --> 01:07:58,407
Yes.

1173
01:07:59,784 --> 01:08:02,077
I'd suggest 11 a.m.

1174
01:08:02,077 --> 01:08:06,290
It's between visiting
hours and it'll be quiet.

1175
01:08:06,290 --> 01:08:07,958
Can they stay with him?

1176
01:08:07,958 --> 01:08:09,960
Absolutely.

1177
01:08:09,960 --> 01:08:12,296
You can stay as
long as you need.

1178
01:08:14,715 --> 01:08:17,426
Heavenly Father,
we come to you at a time

1179
01:08:17,426 --> 01:08:20,763
of sadness,
asking you for peace.

1180
01:08:21,806 --> 01:08:27,645
Almighty God, we are here today
because Steve is ready to depart

1181
01:08:27,645 --> 01:08:32,608
this world and we ask you, oh
Lord that you allow him to pass

1182
01:08:32,608 --> 01:08:35,027
as he desired to live.

1183
01:08:36,570 --> 01:08:37,988
Can I say something?

1184
01:08:40,115 --> 01:08:41,659
Of course.

1185
01:08:46,831 --> 01:08:49,959
Will you please tell him
that he will always be-

1186
01:08:50,876 --> 01:08:52,795
so loved-

1187
01:08:55,297 --> 01:08:57,174
and remembered.

1188
01:08:57,800 --> 01:08:59,093
[sobbing]

1189
01:08:59,093 --> 01:08:59,969
Amen.

1190
01:09:00,511 --> 01:09:02,304
[Pastor Roberts] And amen.

1191
01:09:02,304 --> 01:09:05,182
♪

1192
01:09:05,182 --> 01:09:07,268
[Steve] No that's it then.

1193
01:09:07,268 --> 01:09:09,019
We're never getting married.

1194
01:09:09,019 --> 01:09:12,231
You can try again, he'll
warm up to you eventually.

1195
01:09:12,231 --> 01:09:14,525
No he won't,
okay you weren't there.

1196
01:09:14,525 --> 01:09:16,235
You didn't see his face.

1197
01:09:16,235 --> 01:09:18,696
And we don't have
time for eventually.

1198
01:09:19,488 --> 01:09:21,991
We- we just,
we can't give up.

1199
01:09:21,991 --> 01:09:25,619
He'll never accept
me, okay you're right.

1200
01:09:26,120 --> 01:09:28,289
It's not going to be any kind
of life if we're sneaking

1201
01:09:28,289 --> 01:09:31,625
around forever, Okay?
That's your family.

1202
01:09:31,625 --> 01:09:33,544
I'm not going to come
between him and you.

1203
01:09:33,544 --> 01:09:34,753
Well you shouldn't have to.

1204
01:09:34,753 --> 01:09:36,547
You're not listening to me.

1205
01:09:37,006 --> 01:09:38,215
Hey!

1206
01:09:39,174 --> 01:09:40,968
I'm saying I won't.

1207
01:09:43,095 --> 01:09:44,930
You're saying that this is over?

1208
01:09:45,681 --> 01:09:46,932
It has to be.

1209
01:09:55,441 --> 01:09:57,026
[knocking continues]

1210
01:10:01,363 --> 01:10:03,991
Now we couldn't have discussed
this in the morning?

1211
01:10:04,700 --> 01:10:06,702
I'm sorry, I just
didn't know where to go,

1212
01:10:06,702 --> 01:10:08,996
and Steve's going to
get transferred soon.

1213
01:10:09,580 --> 01:10:10,915
It's alright.

1214
01:10:13,709 --> 01:10:18,255
Love is patient and kind,
it does not envy or boast.

1215
01:10:19,840 --> 01:10:22,801
It is not arrogant or rude.

1216
01:10:23,510 --> 01:10:26,138
It does not insist
on its own way.

1217
01:10:27,306 --> 01:10:30,935
It is not irritable

1218
01:10:33,312 --> 01:10:36,273
and it never
rejoices at wrongdoing.

1219
01:10:36,273 --> 01:10:39,068
It rejoices with truth.

1220
01:10:40,194 --> 01:10:42,237
With truth.

1221
01:10:42,237 --> 01:10:43,572
[sniffles]

1222
01:10:44,490 --> 01:10:48,035
That's Steve, he's taken
everything my dad's thrown at

1223
01:10:48,035 --> 01:10:50,955
him and he's done it with
patience and kindness.

1224
01:10:53,207 --> 01:10:58,587
Imagine that Steve did leave
and never returned and you never

1225
01:10:58,587 --> 01:11:03,259
got back together, imagine
yourself two years from now.

1226
01:11:03,259 --> 01:11:04,343
What do you see?

1227
01:11:05,511 --> 01:11:07,054
Nothing.

1228
01:11:08,055 --> 01:11:10,933
How does that make you
feel to think about it?

1229
01:11:12,935 --> 01:11:16,271
Like trying to imagine
walking on the moon.

1230
01:11:20,192 --> 01:11:21,318
Alright.

1231
01:11:22,111 --> 01:11:23,654
Well?

1232
01:11:24,947 --> 01:11:26,865
You know what you have to do.

1233
01:11:26,865 --> 01:11:29,576
Now let me get some sleep,
I still have to conduct

1234
01:11:29,576 --> 01:11:30,828
morning services.

1235
01:11:30,828 --> 01:11:33,122
But I don't know what to
do, that's why I came here.

1236
01:11:33,122 --> 01:11:35,624
I ... tell me what to do?

1237
01:11:35,624 --> 01:11:37,334
You need to me say it for you?

1238
01:11:38,127 --> 01:11:42,214
You obviously love him,
if you want him,

1239
01:11:43,257 --> 01:11:44,842
then go fight for him.

1240
01:12:04,945 --> 01:12:05,988
[exhales]

1241
01:12:08,574 --> 01:12:09,908
I love him.

1242
01:12:10,617 --> 01:12:12,995
You're still a teenager,
you think you love him.

1243
01:12:12,995 --> 01:12:15,164
Once he's gone,
you'll forget about him.

1244
01:12:15,497 --> 01:12:17,750
I will never forget him.

1245
01:12:20,419 --> 01:12:22,296
Jan, I've said my piece.

1246
01:12:23,630 --> 01:12:25,090
You can't do this.

1247
01:12:25,090 --> 01:12:26,300
Oh yeah? Try me!

1248
01:12:26,800 --> 01:12:28,427
You can't do this.

1249
01:12:28,427 --> 01:12:30,679
Dad, you can't--

1250
01:12:30,679 --> 01:12:33,348
This conversation
is over, young lady.

1251
01:12:33,348 --> 01:12:34,892
It will never be over.

1252
01:12:34,892 --> 01:12:37,770
He left me, he's gone.

1253
01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:40,606
Because of you, you won.

1254
01:12:40,606 --> 01:12:42,316
Does that make you happy?

1255
01:12:42,316 --> 01:12:43,484
Does that bring you joy?

1256
01:12:43,484 --> 01:12:47,029
I hope so, I hope so.

1257
01:12:47,529 --> 01:12:51,533
I hope so because you
did lose one thing.

1258
01:12:51,533 --> 01:12:53,702
Do you know what that is?

1259
01:12:54,787 --> 01:12:55,913
You lost me.

1260
01:12:57,164 --> 01:13:01,877
I will never forgive you,
I'm never going to forget this,

1261
01:13:02,628 --> 01:13:04,004
ever.

1262
01:13:04,713 --> 01:13:07,174
Well then there's no point in
talking about this anymore,

1263
01:13:07,174 --> 01:13:08,258
is there?

1264
01:13:09,051 --> 01:13:10,177
We're done.

1265
01:13:37,830 --> 01:13:40,124
You're just like him, you know.

1266
01:13:41,416 --> 01:13:43,418
That why you're so scared?

1267
01:13:45,796 --> 01:13:49,091
We were younger than they
are when we got married.

1268
01:13:50,008 --> 01:13:53,804
You think my friends didn't
try to warn me about you?

1269
01:13:54,096 --> 01:13:56,682
You think they didn't
say exactly what you're

1270
01:13:56,682 --> 01:13:58,308
saying about Steve?

1271
01:14:00,227 --> 01:14:03,981
But I didn't judge
you on what other people

1272
01:14:03,981 --> 01:14:05,983
thought you might be.

1273
01:14:07,025 --> 01:14:09,278
I judged you on your actions.

1274
01:14:10,404 --> 01:14:11,780
He lied to us.

1275
01:14:12,698 --> 01:14:14,825
Because he was afraid.

1276
01:14:15,409 --> 01:14:17,494
You do know that they've
been seeing each other

1277
01:14:17,494 --> 01:14:17,995
behind our backs?

1278
01:14:17,995 --> 01:14:18,954
You hear her.

1279
01:14:18,954 --> 01:14:20,664
Creeping out, late at night.

1280
01:14:20,956 --> 01:14:23,917
Is that how you want our
future son-in-law to behave?

1281
01:14:23,917 --> 01:14:26,170
What other choice
did you give them?

1282
01:14:26,545 --> 01:14:29,298
Well he's transferring.

1283
01:14:30,132 --> 01:14:33,802
And if he wasn't serious about
our daughter it would be a

1284
01:14:33,802 --> 01:14:37,139
perfect opportunity
for him to end it.

1285
01:14:37,139 --> 01:14:38,348
It is.

1286
01:14:46,190 --> 01:14:49,651
You remember when I was nine
months pregnant with Jan

1287
01:14:50,319 --> 01:14:54,072
and we thought I would go
in to labour at any moment?

1288
01:14:58,076 --> 01:15:00,454
You would do this all night.

1289
01:15:01,330 --> 01:15:04,041
I have a meeting with
General Robinson tomorrow.

1290
01:15:10,214 --> 01:15:12,883
Your shoes are clean, honey,

1291
01:15:12,883 --> 01:15:15,219
it's your conscience
that isn't.

1292
01:15:25,354 --> 01:15:26,480
You're right.

1293
01:15:26,480 --> 01:15:27,648
I am.

1294
01:15:27,648 --> 01:15:29,191
Yes you are.

1295
01:15:30,108 --> 01:15:33,570
I need to make the
choice for them.

1296
01:15:36,198 --> 01:15:37,199
[sigh]

1297
01:15:42,829 --> 01:15:44,456
What are you going to do?

1298
01:15:44,831 --> 01:15:45,916
[Steve] What can I do?

1299
01:15:45,916 --> 01:15:47,960
I don't have a choice.

1300
01:15:49,711 --> 01:15:51,046
It's over.

1301
01:15:52,965 --> 01:15:54,258
Might want to take a walk.

1302
01:16:02,099 --> 01:16:03,350
What do you want?

1303
01:16:03,976 --> 01:16:06,270
You'll address me as Chief, son.

1304
01:16:06,853 --> 01:16:08,981
Okay, what do
you want- Chief?

1305
01:16:08,981 --> 01:16:11,191
I can have you written
up for insubordination.

1306
01:16:11,191 --> 01:16:12,526
Yes sir,
if that's all sir.

1307
01:16:12,526 --> 01:16:13,944
I have nothing to say to you.

1308
01:16:15,237 --> 01:16:17,698
I just have one
question for you.

1309
01:16:17,698 --> 01:16:19,116
What's that?

1310
01:16:19,116 --> 01:16:20,367
Why are you in the service?

1311
01:16:20,367 --> 01:16:22,452
I am here to
serve my country, sir.

1312
01:16:22,911 --> 01:16:24,329
No, no.

1313
01:16:25,289 --> 01:16:27,833
I want to know what
it means to you.

1314
01:16:27,833 --> 01:16:31,295
What does it mean to you
to be in the military?

1315
01:16:31,837 --> 01:16:33,213
[breaking voice]
Everything.

1316
01:16:35,048 --> 01:16:37,342
It hasn't just
given my life purpose-

1317
01:16:39,553 --> 01:16:41,430
it's given me a family.

1318
01:16:53,775 --> 01:16:56,737
I've never seen
anything like this happen,

1319
01:16:56,737 --> 01:16:58,947
this bottle should
have broke but it didn't.

1320
01:16:59,531 --> 01:17:05,078
It got me thinking, maybe
God is leaving this to me.

1321
01:17:05,078 --> 01:17:08,040
Now, I didn't have
to tell you about that,

1322
01:17:08,040 --> 01:17:10,125
but I would have always known.

1323
01:17:10,125 --> 01:17:11,626
And I'm a man of my word.

1324
01:17:13,879 --> 01:17:16,256
So I think you're going
to marry my daughter,

1325
01:17:16,256 --> 01:17:19,426
unless you've changed
your mind of course.

1326
01:17:21,928 --> 01:17:23,388
Are you serious?

1327
01:17:23,388 --> 01:17:24,639
Yes sir.

1328
01:17:24,639 --> 01:17:25,724
Thank you.

1329
01:17:25,724 --> 01:17:27,851
Hey, hey, hey show some dignity.

1330
01:17:27,851 --> 01:17:29,895
You're still on duty.

1331
01:17:29,895 --> 01:17:31,021
Sorry sir.

1332
01:17:31,021 --> 01:17:32,606
As you were.

1333
01:17:33,273 --> 01:17:37,110
Now it's my understanding that
you don't have a lot of time to

1334
01:17:37,110 --> 01:17:39,696
marry her before you
transfer, is that right?

1335
01:17:39,696 --> 01:17:41,281
Mm-hmm.

1336
01:17:41,281 --> 01:17:45,202
Well then, we better get to it.

1337
01:17:49,623 --> 01:17:51,333
God bless you, son.

1338
01:17:51,333 --> 01:17:54,419
♪

1339
01:18:11,770 --> 01:18:13,313
[door opens]

1340
01:18:20,404 --> 01:18:23,740
You, somebody
could have told me.

1341
01:18:23,740 --> 01:18:27,244
♪

1342
01:18:34,418 --> 01:18:37,754
[Pastor Roberts]
Repeat after me, I Steve Hearst.

1343
01:18:37,754 --> 01:18:39,548
I Steve Hearst.

1344
01:18:39,548 --> 01:18:40,882
Take you Jan Nichols.

1345
01:18:40,882 --> 01:18:42,717
[Steve]
Take you Jan Nichols.

1346
01:18:42,717 --> 01:18:43,677
[Pastor Roberts] To be my wife.

1347
01:18:43,677 --> 01:18:45,262
[Steve] To be my wife.

1348
01:18:49,099 --> 01:18:51,017
To have and to hold
from this day forward.

1349
01:18:51,017 --> 01:18:53,228
To have and to
hold from this day forward.

1350
01:18:53,228 --> 01:18:55,981
[Pastor Roberts] For better, for
worse, for richer, for poorer.

1351
01:18:55,981 --> 01:18:57,983
In sickness and in health.

1352
01:18:57,983 --> 01:19:00,902
For better or worse,
for richer or poorer,

1353
01:19:00,902 --> 01:19:02,988
in sickness and health.

1354
01:19:03,238 --> 01:19:04,698
[Pastor Roberts]
To love and to cherish.

1355
01:19:05,031 --> 01:19:06,575
[Steve] To love and to cherish.

1356
01:19:06,575 --> 01:19:08,493
[Pastor Roberts]
Until we are parted by death.

1357
01:19:08,493 --> 01:19:10,579
[Steve] Until we
are parted by death.

1358
01:19:10,912 --> 01:19:12,497
[Pastor Roberts]
Repeat after me, Jan.

1359
01:19:12,497 --> 01:19:13,999
I Jan Nichols.

1360
01:19:13,999 --> 01:19:15,917
I, Jan Nichols.

1361
01:19:15,917 --> 01:19:17,252
Take you Steve Hearst.

1362
01:19:17,252 --> 01:19:19,129
Take you, Steve Hearst.

1363
01:19:19,129 --> 01:19:20,255
[Pastor Roberts]
To be my husband.

1364
01:19:20,255 --> 01:19:21,756
[Jan]
To be my husband.

1365
01:19:21,756 --> 01:19:24,176
[Pastor Roberts] To have and
to hold from this day forward.

1366
01:19:24,176 --> 01:19:27,137
To have and to hold
from this day forward.

1367
01:19:27,137 --> 01:19:30,140
[Pastor Roberts] For better, for
worse, for richer, for poorer.

1368
01:19:30,140 --> 01:19:32,100
In sickness and in health.

1369
01:19:32,100 --> 01:19:35,770
[Jan] For better, for worse,
for richer, for poorer.

1370
01:19:35,770 --> 01:19:37,981
In sickness and in health.

1371
01:19:37,981 --> 01:19:39,274
[Pastor Roberts]
To love and to cherish.

1372
01:19:39,274 --> 01:19:41,276
[Jan] To love and to cherish.

1373
01:19:41,276 --> 01:19:43,028
[Pastor Roberts]
Until we are parted by death.

1374
01:19:43,028 --> 01:19:44,779
[Jan] Until we are
parted by death.

1375
01:19:44,779 --> 01:19:47,324
[flatline beep]

1376
01:19:49,743 --> 01:19:52,329
I love you.
[sobbing]

1377
01:19:52,329 --> 01:19:54,331
He's with God now.

1378
01:19:56,666 --> 01:19:57,834
Okay.

1379
01:19:59,836 --> 01:20:01,796
You may kiss the bride.

1380
01:20:11,056 --> 01:20:13,308
[applause] Woo!

1381
01:20:33,662 --> 01:20:37,499
It is my honour to introduce
Jan and Steven Hearst.

1382
01:20:37,499 --> 01:20:40,669
[applause]

1383
01:20:40,669 --> 01:20:43,838
♪

1384
01:21:26,256 --> 01:21:28,425
Are you okay, mom?

1385
01:21:30,176 --> 01:21:32,262
I think I will be.

1386
01:21:34,514 --> 01:21:49,404
♪

1387
01:21:49,404 --> 01:21:50,405
♪