1 00:00:07,125 --> 00:00:08,208 - ♪ Wait 2 00:00:08,333 --> 00:00:11,458 ♪ We will never fade away 3 00:00:11,542 --> 00:00:14,083 - Ten daring individuals were matched 4 00:00:14,167 --> 00:00:16,042 to be married at first sight. 5 00:00:16,167 --> 00:00:18,083 - Marrying a stranger is one of the most brave things 6 00:00:18,167 --> 00:00:19,833 that you could do. 7 00:00:19,917 --> 00:00:21,292 - Last week... 8 00:00:21,375 --> 00:00:24,000 - The hardest part for me is if I get matched 9 00:00:24,042 --> 00:00:26,375 with somebody that doesn't love to dance. 10 00:00:26,458 --> 00:00:27,500 It's such a big part of my life. 11 00:00:27,542 --> 00:00:29,833 - Oh, yeah. 12 00:00:29,917 --> 00:00:32,208 - I'm ready to dance with my husband. 13 00:00:32,292 --> 00:00:33,833 Teach me something. 14 00:00:33,917 --> 00:00:35,792 Like, what don't I know in the universe 15 00:00:35,875 --> 00:00:37,667 that you can, like, bring to me? 16 00:00:37,750 --> 00:00:39,000 - I think my-- 17 00:00:39,167 --> 00:00:43,208 my favorite position is me on top, 18 00:00:43,292 --> 00:00:45,167 - Let me please you. Let me do what I'm doing. 19 00:00:45,208 --> 00:00:47,167 Hey, that turns me on. 20 00:00:47,250 --> 00:00:49,500 - Sexually, it's a buffet, man. 21 00:00:49,542 --> 00:00:52,583 It's like a little bit of this, a little bit of that. 22 00:00:52,667 --> 00:00:54,208 - Tell me what you need. Tell me what you need. 23 00:00:54,292 --> 00:00:55,708 - Okay. - And I mean it. 24 00:00:55,833 --> 00:00:56,875 - You have such sensual energy. 25 00:00:56,958 --> 00:00:58,083 - Yeah. 26 00:00:58,208 --> 00:00:59,542 - Tell me what you need. - Yeah. 27 00:00:59,625 --> 00:01:00,750 [laughter] 28 00:01:00,833 --> 00:01:03,625 - ♪ Looking for love 29 00:01:03,708 --> 00:01:06,167 - I promise to make you feel wanted and appreciated. 30 00:01:06,208 --> 00:01:08,500 And I promise to take no more than three bites of food 31 00:01:08,542 --> 00:01:10,917 off of your plate every time we go to dinner at a restaurant. 32 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:12,333 - [laughs] 33 00:01:12,417 --> 00:01:13,667 - Thomas, you may kiss your bride. 34 00:01:13,708 --> 00:01:16,000 - ♪ Looking for love 35 00:01:16,083 --> 00:01:17,667 - I hope you find this appealing. 36 00:01:17,750 --> 00:01:19,333 [laughs] 37 00:01:19,375 --> 00:01:21,625 - The whole goal of this is really never 38 00:01:21,708 --> 00:01:23,500 to go to bed alone again. 39 00:01:23,542 --> 00:01:25,333 - Oh, my gosh. 40 00:01:25,417 --> 00:01:26,667 Ah! 41 00:01:26,708 --> 00:01:30,000 - ♪ I've been waiting my whole life ♪ 42 00:01:30,125 --> 00:01:32,125 - And tonight, the wedding day continues, 43 00:01:32,208 --> 00:01:34,292 with more of our singles about to meet each other 44 00:01:34,375 --> 00:01:36,333 for the very first time. 45 00:01:36,417 --> 00:01:39,500 - I think this is bat [bleep] crazy, for the record. 46 00:01:39,667 --> 00:01:42,500 - Brace yourself. - I'm ready. [laughs] 47 00:01:42,583 --> 00:01:46,167 I'm trying to be calm about this, but I'm sweating. 48 00:01:46,208 --> 00:01:48,500 - Please stand. 49 00:01:48,583 --> 00:01:50,583 - The unknown about the unknown scares me. 50 00:01:50,708 --> 00:01:52,667 I mean, everything is unknown with this situation. 51 00:01:52,750 --> 00:01:54,333 - Man. 52 00:01:54,417 --> 00:01:56,333 - ♪ Take me higher, take me higher ♪ 53 00:01:56,375 --> 00:01:58,208 - Oof. 54 00:01:58,292 --> 00:02:01,542 - ♪ I'm ready, I'm ready 55 00:02:01,667 --> 00:02:04,750 - Are you in love? 56 00:02:04,833 --> 00:02:06,417 - ♪ It's all or nothing 57 00:02:06,500 --> 00:02:08,917 - This is "Married at First Sight." 58 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:11,083 - ♪ There's no other way 59 00:02:11,208 --> 00:02:12,625 ♪ 60 00:02:12,708 --> 00:02:14,792 ♪ It's all or nothing 61 00:02:14,875 --> 00:02:17,875 ♪ 62 00:02:17,958 --> 00:02:19,042 - Let's go do it. 63 00:02:19,125 --> 00:02:20,000 - Are you ready for this? 64 00:02:20,042 --> 00:02:22,083 - I'm panicking. 65 00:02:22,167 --> 00:02:23,833 - Don't be. 66 00:02:23,917 --> 00:02:25,292 - I don't even know if this feels real, to be honest. 67 00:02:25,375 --> 00:02:27,250 Like, it's crazy that this is happening right now 68 00:02:27,375 --> 00:02:29,667 and that I'm about to walk down the aisle and meet my husband. 69 00:02:29,750 --> 00:02:31,333 - Oh. 70 00:02:31,875 --> 00:02:33,375 - I think the biggest risk is just the unknown 71 00:02:33,458 --> 00:02:35,167 of if we're gonna be compatible. 72 00:02:35,208 --> 00:02:36,583 You know, I don't know if I'll find him attractive 73 00:02:36,708 --> 00:02:38,333 right off the bat, but I love fiercely, 74 00:02:38,417 --> 00:02:40,167 and I love really hard, 75 00:02:40,250 --> 00:02:41,542 and the people in my life mean everything to me. 76 00:02:41,625 --> 00:02:43,583 And so I'm really excited to meet him, 77 00:02:43,583 --> 00:02:46,250 but there's always that fear of it not being 78 00:02:46,333 --> 00:02:49,625 as magical as I'm hoping for. 79 00:02:49,708 --> 00:02:51,000 - Oof. 80 00:02:51,083 --> 00:02:53,583 ♪ 81 00:02:53,708 --> 00:02:54,958 - Please stand. 82 00:02:55,042 --> 00:03:01,917 ♪ 83 00:03:02,000 --> 00:03:04,042 - [bleep] damn. 84 00:03:04,125 --> 00:03:05,333 [laughs] 85 00:03:05,417 --> 00:03:08,042 ♪ 86 00:03:08,042 --> 00:03:10,583 - ♪ This is our moment 87 00:03:10,708 --> 00:03:13,167 ♪ 88 00:03:13,250 --> 00:03:14,667 ♪ Oh, oh, 89 00:03:14,750 --> 00:03:16,833 ♪ Oh, oh, 90 00:03:16,875 --> 00:03:18,375 ♪ We made it this far 91 00:03:18,458 --> 00:03:21,250 ♪ No backing out 92 00:03:21,333 --> 00:03:22,708 ♪ This is our moment 93 00:03:22,792 --> 00:03:25,375 ♪ Now or never 94 00:03:25,458 --> 00:03:26,833 - I did wanna give you a hug. 95 00:03:26,917 --> 00:03:29,167 - Absolutely, absolutely. 96 00:03:29,208 --> 00:03:31,292 You're freaking beautiful. 97 00:03:31,375 --> 00:03:33,167 You are. Damn. 98 00:03:33,208 --> 00:03:35,083 I [bleep] won the lottery. 99 00:03:35,167 --> 00:03:36,583 - I did also bring a little friend that you-- 100 00:03:36,708 --> 00:03:38,125 - Oh, yeah! 101 00:03:38,208 --> 00:03:39,583 I didn't even see it. 102 00:03:39,708 --> 00:03:43,042 Well, if anybody needs some potassium. 103 00:03:43,042 --> 00:03:46,250 [laughter] 104 00:03:46,333 --> 00:03:49,917 Well, we'll save the banana for later. 105 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,792 - You may be seated. 106 00:03:52,875 --> 00:03:54,833 - No? Okay. - I can't do it in this dress. 107 00:03:54,833 --> 00:03:57,250 - I wouldn't either. 108 00:03:57,375 --> 00:04:00,208 - I guess we'll get a little closer. 109 00:04:00,375 --> 00:04:04,042 - Madison, meet for the very first time Allen, 110 00:04:04,208 --> 00:04:05,333 your husband-to-be. 111 00:04:05,375 --> 00:04:07,667 - And now we're...Madallen? No? 112 00:04:07,750 --> 00:04:09,208 Allen? Allen? 113 00:04:09,292 --> 00:04:11,375 - Adison? - I don't like any of those. 114 00:04:11,375 --> 00:04:12,833 Yeah, we'll figure that out. - We'll figure it out. 115 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,000 - To be determined. 116 00:04:15,083 --> 00:04:17,000 - Allen. 117 00:04:17,042 --> 00:04:19,500 Madison's family and friends want you to know that Madison 118 00:04:19,583 --> 00:04:21,833 is cheerful, social, and always the light 119 00:04:21,875 --> 00:04:23,792 in any room she enters. 120 00:04:23,875 --> 00:04:26,792 Madison is an extraordinary individual who embodies 121 00:04:26,875 --> 00:04:28,625 courage and hard work. 122 00:04:28,708 --> 00:04:31,125 Madison graduated summa cum laude 123 00:04:31,208 --> 00:04:34,375 with her lowest grade ever being an A minus. 124 00:04:34,500 --> 00:04:36,292 In addition to her intelligence, 125 00:04:36,375 --> 00:04:39,792 Madison has a thirst for adventure and spontaneity. 126 00:04:39,875 --> 00:04:43,333 Madison is a true globetrotter who loves to travel. 127 00:04:43,458 --> 00:04:46,333 Last year, Madison was traveling in Germany, 128 00:04:46,458 --> 00:04:48,708 where she earned herself a memorable expulsion 129 00:04:48,833 --> 00:04:50,000 from Oktoberfest-- 130 00:04:50,083 --> 00:04:52,167 - Oh! [bleep] 131 00:04:52,292 --> 00:04:55,125 - For standing on a table and chugging a beer. 132 00:04:55,208 --> 00:04:56,583 - I mean, who hasn't? 133 00:04:56,667 --> 00:04:58,708 - But don't let her wild side fool you, 134 00:04:58,833 --> 00:05:01,667 as Madison is also one of the most loving, caring people 135 00:05:01,833 --> 00:05:03,667 you'll ever meet. 136 00:05:03,792 --> 00:05:06,917 Madison will always have your back and go to great lengths 137 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,750 to support you. 138 00:05:09,875 --> 00:05:11,833 Madison, Allen's family and friends 139 00:05:11,875 --> 00:05:15,167 want you to know Allen is a man of many dimensions 140 00:05:15,208 --> 00:05:18,500 whose vibrant personality, infectious energy, and charm 141 00:05:18,583 --> 00:05:20,833 captivates everyone he meets. 142 00:05:20,917 --> 00:05:25,000 Allen's eclectic passions range from tennis, anime, 143 00:05:25,083 --> 00:05:27,458 baking bread, and adventures across the world 144 00:05:27,542 --> 00:05:30,792 with his favorite place to travel being Germany. 145 00:05:30,875 --> 00:05:34,042 - I was just there a few months ago. 146 00:05:34,125 --> 00:05:36,417 [laughter] 147 00:05:36,500 --> 00:05:38,792 - As Allen prepares to embark on the greatest adventure 148 00:05:38,875 --> 00:05:41,917 of all, marriage, he's eagerly awaiting the chance 149 00:05:42,042 --> 00:05:44,458 to share his world with a partner who appreciates 150 00:05:44,542 --> 00:05:47,042 his unique blend of quirkiness, passion, 151 00:05:47,167 --> 00:05:50,583 and unwavering devotion. 152 00:05:50,708 --> 00:05:53,250 Madison and Allen, you've written your own vows. 153 00:05:53,333 --> 00:05:55,708 - [clears throat] 154 00:05:59,333 --> 00:06:01,500 "To my future husband-- 155 00:06:01,542 --> 00:06:04,625 "as your wife, I promise to be your confidant and support, 156 00:06:04,708 --> 00:06:07,417 "your number one cheerleader, and your most honest critic. 157 00:06:07,542 --> 00:06:09,292 "I promise to build a partnership with you 158 00:06:09,375 --> 00:06:11,500 "based on trust and understanding. 159 00:06:11,542 --> 00:06:14,375 "I promise to listen to your hopes and your dreams 160 00:06:14,458 --> 00:06:16,417 "and encourage you to explore your passions, 161 00:06:16,417 --> 00:06:19,083 "as I hope you do the same in return for me. 162 00:06:19,167 --> 00:06:22,292 "I promise to be vulnerable with you and not shut you out, 163 00:06:22,375 --> 00:06:24,833 "even when it might seem like the easy thing to do. 164 00:06:24,917 --> 00:06:28,167 "And I promise to always make you feel seen and heard. 165 00:06:28,250 --> 00:06:29,625 "What I can't promise you, though, 166 00:06:29,708 --> 00:06:31,833 "is that I will always fold the laundry right away 167 00:06:31,875 --> 00:06:33,875 or that you won't pick up a towel or two after me." 168 00:06:33,958 --> 00:06:35,667 - [laughs] 169 00:06:35,750 --> 00:06:37,250 - "I can't promise that I won't sleep with my mouth wide open 170 00:06:37,333 --> 00:06:39,333 "and wake up with the craziest bedhead 171 00:06:39,417 --> 00:06:41,792 "I promise you've ever seen. 172 00:06:41,875 --> 00:06:44,292 "But I can promise you a life full of laughter 173 00:06:44,375 --> 00:06:46,167 "and some pretty bad dad jokes and maybe 174 00:06:46,208 --> 00:06:49,417 "a few arguments about why you left the toilet seat up. 175 00:06:49,500 --> 00:06:52,000 "Here's to us, the dynamic duo that no one expected 176 00:06:52,083 --> 00:06:54,833 "or saw coming, the couple that's challenging tradition 177 00:06:54,958 --> 00:06:56,833 "and embracing the unknown together. 178 00:06:56,958 --> 00:06:59,333 Let's make this journey one for the books." 179 00:06:59,333 --> 00:07:02,083 - Absolutely. Thank you. 180 00:07:02,208 --> 00:07:04,667 A little emotional. 181 00:07:04,708 --> 00:07:06,917 I guess it's my turn. - [laughs] 182 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:09,208 - All right. 183 00:07:09,292 --> 00:07:12,667 "My dearest wifey, Madison, to you, 184 00:07:12,708 --> 00:07:15,083 "I pledge to embrace the unknown 185 00:07:15,167 --> 00:07:16,833 "with open arms and open heart. 186 00:07:16,917 --> 00:07:20,333 "I vow to learn and understand the depths of who you are, 187 00:07:20,500 --> 00:07:23,250 "as well as to remain your steadfast companion, 188 00:07:23,375 --> 00:07:27,167 "your confidant, and your rock 189 00:07:27,292 --> 00:07:28,958 "in times of joy and sorrow. 190 00:07:29,042 --> 00:07:31,667 "I pledge to communicate openly, honestly, 191 00:07:31,750 --> 00:07:35,000 "and to work tirelessly to build a foundation from which, 192 00:07:35,125 --> 00:07:36,667 "hopefully, love can grow. 193 00:07:36,708 --> 00:07:39,208 ♪ 194 00:07:39,292 --> 00:07:41,667 "I look forward to creating our own unique tale to tell 195 00:07:41,750 --> 00:07:43,750 "filled with joy, love, laughter, probably 196 00:07:43,875 --> 00:07:46,833 "some bickering, a healthy dose of ridiculousness, 197 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:48,667 "and spontaneity. 198 00:07:48,833 --> 00:07:51,042 "When I say I do, I'm saying I'm here until the end 199 00:07:51,125 --> 00:07:54,667 and ready for whatever comes our way." 200 00:07:54,750 --> 00:07:57,167 - Madison, will you take Allen to be 201 00:07:57,208 --> 00:07:59,875 your lawful wedded husband in sickness and in health, 202 00:07:59,958 --> 00:08:03,042 forsaking all others so long as you both shall live? 203 00:08:03,125 --> 00:08:05,000 - I do. 204 00:08:05,083 --> 00:08:08,458 - Allen, will you take Madison to be your lawful wedded wife 205 00:08:08,542 --> 00:08:11,417 in sickness and in health, forsaking all others 206 00:08:11,542 --> 00:08:13,000 as long as you both shall live? 207 00:08:13,083 --> 00:08:14,417 - Absolutely do. 208 00:08:14,417 --> 00:08:16,292 ♪ 209 00:08:16,375 --> 00:08:18,458 - May I have the rings, please? 210 00:08:21,375 --> 00:08:23,208 - Oh, boy. - [laughs] 211 00:08:23,292 --> 00:08:25,625 - Okay. 212 00:08:25,708 --> 00:08:30,667 - Madison, please take Allen's hand and repeat after me. 213 00:08:30,792 --> 00:08:33,917 With this ring, I wed you, Allen. 214 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:36,458 - With this ring, I wed you, Allen. 215 00:08:36,542 --> 00:08:38,833 For today, for tomorrow and all the years to come. 216 00:08:38,917 --> 00:08:41,000 - Please wear it as a sign of my commitment 217 00:08:41,042 --> 00:08:44,792 and notice to the entire world that I am your husband. 218 00:08:44,875 --> 00:08:46,167 - I am yours. You are mine. 219 00:08:46,333 --> 00:08:49,000 - Damn straight. 220 00:08:49,083 --> 00:08:51,583 - And now, by the authority vested in me, 221 00:08:51,708 --> 00:08:53,708 I pronounce you a married couple. 222 00:08:53,708 --> 00:08:56,708 Allen, you may now kiss your bride, Madison. 223 00:08:56,792 --> 00:08:58,417 - May I? - Absolutely. 224 00:08:58,500 --> 00:09:00,417 [laughs] 225 00:09:00,542 --> 00:09:04,750 [cheering] 226 00:09:04,833 --> 00:09:07,000 [laughs] 227 00:09:07,083 --> 00:09:09,833 - Ladies and gentlemen, it is my pleasure 228 00:09:09,875 --> 00:09:11,708 to introduce to you for the first time, 229 00:09:11,792 --> 00:09:15,333 as husband and wife, Madison and Allen. 230 00:09:15,417 --> 00:09:18,000 [cheering] 231 00:09:18,042 --> 00:09:21,917 - ♪ Now they're walking off like in the movies ♪ 232 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:25,000 ♪ Everyone wants to be you 233 00:09:25,083 --> 00:09:28,750 ♪ 234 00:09:28,750 --> 00:09:30,750 ♪ I am safe, I am me 235 00:09:30,833 --> 00:09:32,708 ♪ I am who I wanna be 236 00:09:32,833 --> 00:09:35,167 ♪ Moving closer to the edge of the beat ♪ 237 00:09:35,208 --> 00:09:37,792 ♪ Closer, closer, closer 238 00:09:37,875 --> 00:09:41,792 ♪ 239 00:09:41,875 --> 00:09:42,833 - [bleep] damn. - What a day. 240 00:09:42,958 --> 00:09:43,958 - Yeah. 241 00:09:44,042 --> 00:09:44,875 Holy [bleep]. 242 00:09:44,958 --> 00:09:47,083 ♪ 243 00:09:47,167 --> 00:09:48,583 Dear God. 244 00:09:48,667 --> 00:09:53,125 What deity in this world blessed me with such a fate? 245 00:09:53,208 --> 00:09:54,875 - Good first impression? 246 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:56,958 - Oh, come on. 247 00:09:57,042 --> 00:09:58,167 Really? 248 00:09:58,250 --> 00:10:00,250 I almost--jaw almost dropped. 249 00:10:00,333 --> 00:10:02,000 Like, that's a hell of a day. 250 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:04,542 - I cannot believe I am officially a married woman. 251 00:10:04,667 --> 00:10:05,958 I am a wifey. 252 00:10:06,042 --> 00:10:07,417 - Yeah, if I'm ever too, like, touchy-- 253 00:10:07,500 --> 00:10:09,917 - No, no, you were perfect. 254 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:11,750 I'm so excited. I'm so happy. 255 00:10:11,833 --> 00:10:13,583 Like, honestly, walking down the aisle 256 00:10:13,667 --> 00:10:15,458 and seeing Allen for the first time, 257 00:10:15,542 --> 00:10:17,458 like, he had the biggest smile on his face like I had hoped. 258 00:10:17,542 --> 00:10:19,667 - Wow. - Wow. 259 00:10:19,750 --> 00:10:22,708 I think he looks so good in a suit. 260 00:10:22,792 --> 00:10:24,792 His eyes are beautiful, honestly. 261 00:10:24,875 --> 00:10:27,417 And the comedic relief that he gave 262 00:10:27,542 --> 00:10:28,917 while we were together just-- 263 00:10:29,042 --> 00:10:30,875 it made any nerves I had go away. 264 00:10:30,958 --> 00:10:32,833 Like, it was so fun. It was so lighthearted. 265 00:10:32,917 --> 00:10:34,375 [cork pops] Oh! 266 00:10:34,458 --> 00:10:35,708 - There you go. - I'm really happy. 267 00:10:35,833 --> 00:10:37,833 I'm really happy. 268 00:10:37,917 --> 00:10:41,125 - Shall we admire not only each other but also the view? 269 00:10:41,208 --> 00:10:42,917 - Absolutely. 270 00:10:43,042 --> 00:10:44,417 - Oh. 271 00:10:44,542 --> 00:10:46,167 I'm absolutely speechless. 272 00:10:46,250 --> 00:10:50,667 I don't know if I could have dreamed up a better situation. 273 00:10:50,750 --> 00:10:53,167 There's a good vibe. There's a good chemistry. 274 00:10:53,250 --> 00:10:56,958 I mean, she's a great-looking woman. 275 00:10:57,042 --> 00:11:00,542 I mean, yeah, I'm absolutely speechless. 276 00:11:00,625 --> 00:11:02,708 I haven't worn a tux in, I think, 277 00:11:02,792 --> 00:11:04,500 since my friend's wedding. 278 00:11:04,542 --> 00:11:07,250 And I've always been, you know-- 279 00:11:07,333 --> 00:11:11,625 you know, I'd like to go to one of those, like, silent auctions 280 00:11:11,708 --> 00:11:13,292 and, you know, roll up in the car and-- 281 00:11:13,375 --> 00:11:14,833 - Yeah. 282 00:11:14,958 --> 00:11:17,042 - You know, just be like, madame, shall we? 283 00:11:17,125 --> 00:11:19,750 - [laughs] I would love that. 284 00:11:19,833 --> 00:11:21,375 - But you don't wanna do those things, 285 00:11:21,500 --> 00:11:22,958 like, alone, right? - Right. 286 00:11:22,958 --> 00:11:24,333 - You know, you like-- 287 00:11:24,417 --> 00:11:25,875 you gotta have that companionship 288 00:11:25,875 --> 00:11:28,333 to make the night something that 289 00:11:28,417 --> 00:11:29,917 puts the vibe together, right? 290 00:11:29,917 --> 00:11:31,708 - Yeah. 291 00:11:31,792 --> 00:11:34,000 - And you know, now we can start having those nights. 292 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:35,833 - I know. 293 00:11:35,875 --> 00:11:39,000 So, like what--like, what made you initially want to try this? 294 00:11:39,083 --> 00:11:40,667 It's definitely not conventional. 295 00:11:40,750 --> 00:11:43,500 - I've actively been trying to find my person, 296 00:11:43,583 --> 00:11:46,333 you know, for God knows how long. 297 00:11:46,375 --> 00:11:48,208 - Yeah. 298 00:11:48,292 --> 00:11:53,792 - And dating is, especially now, with the swiping [bleep], 299 00:11:53,875 --> 00:11:55,917 it's so superficial. - Yeah. 300 00:11:56,042 --> 00:11:59,167 - You know, it's this mentality of even if it's a decent date, 301 00:11:59,208 --> 00:12:00,250 it's like, oh, maybe-- 302 00:12:00,333 --> 00:12:01,542 - There's something better. 303 00:12:01,708 --> 00:12:03,167 - Yeah, there's always that, you know, 304 00:12:03,208 --> 00:12:05,292 grass is greener on the other side mentality. 305 00:12:05,375 --> 00:12:07,000 - For sure. 306 00:12:07,042 --> 00:12:08,167 The grass is green where you water it, though. 307 00:12:08,250 --> 00:12:09,208 - Yeah. 308 00:12:09,292 --> 00:12:10,417 Yeah. - See? 309 00:12:10,542 --> 00:12:11,833 - Yeah. 310 00:12:11,875 --> 00:12:13,458 That's a perfect expression. - See? 311 00:12:13,542 --> 00:12:14,958 Oh, I love it. 312 00:12:15,042 --> 00:12:16,000 - Whoo. 313 00:12:16,083 --> 00:12:18,333 - I know. 314 00:12:18,458 --> 00:12:21,250 - I think because I'm so white, they just purposely 315 00:12:21,375 --> 00:12:23,042 put us out right here. 316 00:12:23,167 --> 00:12:24,750 So what work? 317 00:12:24,833 --> 00:12:25,833 You work? 318 00:12:25,875 --> 00:12:27,125 - Yes, I do work. 319 00:12:27,208 --> 00:12:28,667 - Oh, okay. 320 00:12:28,750 --> 00:12:30,917 - So I do technology consulting, 321 00:12:31,042 --> 00:12:32,917 which sounds like a fancy word. 322 00:12:33,042 --> 00:12:34,375 - I know exactly what you're talking about. 323 00:12:34,458 --> 00:12:36,125 - Perfect. 324 00:12:36,208 --> 00:12:40,000 So I help implement HR softwares for big companies. 325 00:12:40,125 --> 00:12:42,042 [laughs] 326 00:12:42,042 --> 00:12:43,458 - This girl. This girl right here. 327 00:12:43,542 --> 00:12:45,083 What? 328 00:12:45,167 --> 00:12:46,042 I swear to God, I don't know how the hell 329 00:12:46,042 --> 00:12:48,042 we didn't meet before. 330 00:12:48,042 --> 00:12:49,333 Like-- 331 00:12:49,375 --> 00:12:51,000 - What do you do? 332 00:12:51,083 --> 00:12:54,625 - So I'm implementing software for the new company 333 00:12:54,708 --> 00:12:58,667 that I was brought on to, but I'm more on the finance side. 334 00:12:58,708 --> 00:13:00,292 - Okay. 335 00:13:00,375 --> 00:13:04,625 - [sighs] I had a--if I had a checklist right here. 336 00:13:04,625 --> 00:13:08,625 I mean, I would have to add bullets to start checking off. 337 00:13:08,708 --> 00:13:10,458 You make things very comfortable. 338 00:13:10,542 --> 00:13:12,167 - Good. 339 00:13:12,250 --> 00:13:13,583 - Like, you know, it could be one way or the other-- 340 00:13:13,667 --> 00:13:14,708 - It could be one straight to the other. 341 00:13:14,875 --> 00:13:16,208 Yeah, for sure. 342 00:13:16,208 --> 00:13:17,500 - You know, and, you know-- - Yeah. 343 00:13:17,542 --> 00:13:18,667 - Hit the nail on the head. 344 00:13:18,750 --> 00:13:20,083 - No, we're in this together. 345 00:13:20,167 --> 00:13:21,000 I'm excited. 346 00:13:21,083 --> 00:13:22,542 - Ooh, yeah. [bleep] 347 00:13:22,667 --> 00:13:23,500 - Look, you can't do that. - I know. 348 00:13:23,542 --> 00:13:25,083 I just know that. 349 00:13:25,083 --> 00:13:27,542 A little more fluid for the old-- 350 00:13:27,708 --> 00:13:29,167 - Do we have a fan or something? 351 00:13:29,250 --> 00:13:30,958 Because it is [bleep] hot out here. 352 00:13:30,958 --> 00:13:32,875 - Yeah, I don't know. 353 00:13:32,958 --> 00:13:34,167 - I don't know how you're wearing long sleeves right now. 354 00:13:34,208 --> 00:13:36,625 - No, usually I have somebody that comes 355 00:13:36,708 --> 00:13:38,000 around with a banana leaf. 356 00:13:38,083 --> 00:13:40,125 - Oh. - So as I'm sitting out-- 357 00:13:40,208 --> 00:13:43,083 - I'm so sad that I didn't prepare that. 358 00:13:43,167 --> 00:13:44,542 - No, no. 359 00:13:44,625 --> 00:13:46,500 No, I mean, I'd give him the day off. 360 00:13:46,583 --> 00:13:47,625 So I figured-- 361 00:13:47,708 --> 00:13:49,333 - You figured, you know? 362 00:13:49,375 --> 00:13:51,625 - You know, we all need a break sometimes. 363 00:13:51,708 --> 00:13:52,667 - For sure. 364 00:13:52,750 --> 00:13:54,125 Well, cheers. 365 00:13:54,208 --> 00:13:56,542 - To my beautiful wife, Madison. 366 00:13:56,625 --> 00:13:58,000 Pleasure to meet you. 367 00:13:58,125 --> 00:13:59,667 And a pleasure to go on this journey with you. 368 00:13:59,792 --> 00:14:00,875 - Cheers to that. 369 00:14:00,958 --> 00:14:01,958 - See what the hell life holds. 370 00:14:02,042 --> 00:14:05,167 - Cheers to that, hubby. 371 00:14:05,208 --> 00:14:06,500 - Oh. 372 00:14:06,583 --> 00:14:09,167 - Awesome. 373 00:14:09,208 --> 00:14:10,333 It's delicious. 374 00:14:14,000 --> 00:14:15,708 - ♪ I'm gonna be somebody 375 00:14:15,708 --> 00:14:17,167 ♪ I'm gonna go somewhere 376 00:14:17,208 --> 00:14:18,917 ♪ I'm gonna catch that rainbow ♪ 377 00:14:19,667 --> 00:14:21,958 ♪ I don't even care 378 00:14:22,042 --> 00:14:23,958 - Good morning. - Good morning, sister. 379 00:14:24,042 --> 00:14:25,417 - Good morning, sunshine. 380 00:14:25,542 --> 00:14:26,917 - It's your wedding day. 381 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:28,917 - You're glowing. 382 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:30,917 - Who's ready to party? 383 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,833 Getting married at first sight is exactly who I am. 384 00:14:33,917 --> 00:14:35,667 I'm ready to party. 385 00:14:35,708 --> 00:14:37,417 Let's pop the champagne. 386 00:14:37,417 --> 00:14:38,833 - Okay. 387 00:14:38,917 --> 00:14:40,667 - I love to think outside of the box. 388 00:14:40,750 --> 00:14:45,167 And I love to just go with the flow and just truly surrender 389 00:14:45,250 --> 00:14:46,667 to the universe. 390 00:14:46,750 --> 00:14:49,417 - Okay, I'm, like, rambling here. 391 00:14:49,500 --> 00:14:52,125 - Do not point it at me. 392 00:14:52,125 --> 00:14:54,708 - Don't point it at us. 393 00:14:54,792 --> 00:14:56,292 - Okay. 394 00:14:56,375 --> 00:14:57,583 Yay. 395 00:14:57,708 --> 00:14:59,208 Seriously, I feel so relaxed. 396 00:14:59,292 --> 00:15:02,000 I don't feel nervous at all. 397 00:15:02,042 --> 00:15:03,958 I just feels like it's all meant to be. 398 00:15:03,958 --> 00:15:05,792 Like, it feels so natural, and everything 399 00:15:05,792 --> 00:15:07,542 has flowed so nicely. 400 00:15:07,625 --> 00:15:09,000 Like, there's no hiccups. 401 00:15:09,083 --> 00:15:10,833 Everything's just kind of flowing. 402 00:15:10,917 --> 00:15:14,000 - Karla's gonna skip to him at the altar. 403 00:15:14,125 --> 00:15:16,875 - That would be so me to skip down the aisle. 404 00:15:16,958 --> 00:15:20,375 I just wanna be, like, an ethereal goddess, 405 00:15:20,458 --> 00:15:23,500 like, walking down the aisle to meet my husband. 406 00:15:23,542 --> 00:15:26,708 The fact that someone is on the other side, my husband 407 00:15:26,833 --> 00:15:28,708 is on the other side of the altar, 408 00:15:28,833 --> 00:15:31,500 like I feel like he's mentally prepared. 409 00:15:31,625 --> 00:15:32,917 I've mentally prepared. 410 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:34,625 Like, we're both feeling this way. 411 00:15:34,750 --> 00:15:36,083 - You're in sync. 412 00:15:36,167 --> 00:15:37,750 - She's like, we're already connected. 413 00:15:37,833 --> 00:15:39,292 - I was like-- yeah, I'm like, how are we 414 00:15:39,375 --> 00:15:40,833 gonna telepathically, like, speak to each other? 415 00:15:40,917 --> 00:15:43,583 I just feel that connection already. 416 00:15:43,667 --> 00:15:45,375 And it's soothing. 417 00:15:45,500 --> 00:15:48,833 It's soothing to know that someone is on the other side, 418 00:15:48,875 --> 00:15:52,292 ready to say I do, ready to be my husband 419 00:15:52,375 --> 00:15:55,250 and for us to start the rest of our lives together. 420 00:15:55,333 --> 00:15:57,208 - ♪ Listen to your heart 421 00:15:57,292 --> 00:15:59,458 ♪ Tell me who you wanna be 422 00:15:59,542 --> 00:16:01,333 ♪ We can always start 423 00:16:01,458 --> 00:16:03,000 ♪ Start to be 424 00:16:03,083 --> 00:16:04,292 - Man of the hour. 425 00:16:04,375 --> 00:16:06,250 [laughter] 426 00:16:06,250 --> 00:16:09,792 [both speaking Spanish] 427 00:16:09,875 --> 00:16:12,167 - Feeling very, very anxious. 428 00:16:12,250 --> 00:16:14,083 The nerves are really starting to kick in. 429 00:16:17,917 --> 00:16:21,083 [laughter] 430 00:16:22,958 --> 00:16:24,958 - Juan won't get in trouble. 431 00:16:46,333 --> 00:16:49,167 - I'm excited. I'm very, very happy. 432 00:16:49,208 --> 00:16:52,208 But there's so much-- there's so much unknown. 433 00:16:52,292 --> 00:16:54,208 You know, at the same time, I think my life 434 00:16:54,292 --> 00:16:56,417 has been a series of unknowns. 435 00:16:56,500 --> 00:17:00,417 Just--oh, sorry. 436 00:17:00,542 --> 00:17:02,500 Just getting emotional. 437 00:17:06,083 --> 00:17:08,542 [voice breaking] Just being an immigrant, 438 00:17:08,625 --> 00:17:10,917 coming to this country, 439 00:17:11,042 --> 00:17:13,875 everything is an unknown. 440 00:17:13,958 --> 00:17:19,250 So it almost doesn't feel weird to do this, 441 00:17:19,333 --> 00:17:22,333 because my whole life, I've been-- 442 00:17:22,458 --> 00:17:27,000 I've been--it's been the normal for me. 443 00:17:27,042 --> 00:17:30,208 So honestly, I'm sending-- 444 00:17:30,333 --> 00:17:34,500 you know, doing this this way, it almost feels natural. 445 00:17:34,583 --> 00:17:36,167 Because I do embrace the unknown. 446 00:17:36,250 --> 00:17:40,042 And the unknown has worked for me, you know? 447 00:17:40,042 --> 00:17:43,333 So I think I cherish the unknown. 448 00:17:43,500 --> 00:17:47,208 The unknown has been-- has been a gift to me. 449 00:17:47,292 --> 00:17:49,750 You know, it's really-- it's been amazing to me. 450 00:17:49,833 --> 00:17:56,708 And it's--I'm very blessed to have the unknown. 451 00:17:56,708 --> 00:17:59,875 - If they really got what you--your vibes, she has to be 452 00:17:59,958 --> 00:18:01,500 somebody very special, man. 453 00:18:01,500 --> 00:18:03,792 - Yeah. - And she has to love to dance. 454 00:18:03,875 --> 00:18:07,292 - Someone that is, like ready to be like, very spontaneous. 455 00:18:07,375 --> 00:18:10,333 Because you're like, oh, hey, check this out. 456 00:18:10,417 --> 00:18:12,083 - Yeah, let's do this. I'm over here doing this today. 457 00:18:12,208 --> 00:18:13,833 - Get to work. - Yeah. 458 00:18:13,875 --> 00:18:16,417 - So, you know, if you get like, someone that is like-- 459 00:18:16,500 --> 00:18:19,292 it's cool that you have someone that maybe squares you 460 00:18:19,375 --> 00:18:21,000 in a little bit somewhere. 461 00:18:21,083 --> 00:18:22,042 - Puts me in check a little bit. 462 00:18:22,042 --> 00:18:23,042 Yeah, yeah. 463 00:18:23,042 --> 00:18:24,583 - But not that cages you. 464 00:18:24,667 --> 00:18:25,958 See what I'm saying? - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 465 00:18:25,958 --> 00:18:27,292 You know, I don't hold back. 466 00:18:27,375 --> 00:18:29,708 And that's pretty much how I do everything in life. 467 00:18:29,792 --> 00:18:31,208 I hope that she's someone that's ready to, like, 468 00:18:31,292 --> 00:18:33,667 brace herself, because it's gonna get crazy. 469 00:18:33,792 --> 00:18:36,333 - All that I have manifested in life, you know, 470 00:18:36,417 --> 00:18:37,958 I kind of speak to the universe. 471 00:18:38,042 --> 00:18:39,750 And I'm like, I'm ready for this. 472 00:18:39,833 --> 00:18:40,958 I'm open. 473 00:18:41,042 --> 00:18:42,667 Since Thanksgiving, I'm like-- 474 00:18:42,708 --> 00:18:45,250 I told the family, I'm like, hey, guys, 475 00:18:45,333 --> 00:18:46,875 the next time you see me, you're going 476 00:18:46,958 --> 00:18:48,250 to see me with a husband. 477 00:18:48,333 --> 00:18:51,250 I don't know where he is or who he is, 478 00:18:51,333 --> 00:18:52,833 but it's gonna be boom, boom, boom. 479 00:18:52,958 --> 00:18:54,083 Like, it's just gonna happen. 480 00:18:54,167 --> 00:18:55,625 - That's true. 481 00:18:55,708 --> 00:18:57,083 - And literally, that is exactly what happened. 482 00:18:57,167 --> 00:18:58,833 - When she said it, Daddy was like-- 483 00:18:58,958 --> 00:19:02,000 she was cutting Daddy's hair, and he was like, oh, like, 484 00:19:02,083 --> 00:19:04,292 mija, so like, you're dating? 485 00:19:04,375 --> 00:19:06,375 You found someone? And she was so confused. 486 00:19:06,458 --> 00:19:08,208 She was like, what? What are you talking about? 487 00:19:08,292 --> 00:19:09,833 - And he was like, yeah, you said 488 00:19:09,917 --> 00:19:11,042 you're gonna be hosting Christmas 489 00:19:11,042 --> 00:19:12,125 next year with your husband. 490 00:19:12,208 --> 00:19:13,667 And she's like, no, Dad. 491 00:19:13,708 --> 00:19:15,833 Like, these boys I'm going on dates with 492 00:19:15,833 --> 00:19:18,000 are, like, didn't stick around. - Not even worth it. 493 00:19:18,083 --> 00:19:20,000 I said, I'm manifesting my husband. 494 00:19:20,042 --> 00:19:21,375 He's like, oh, my God, mija. 495 00:19:21,458 --> 00:19:23,833 - Everything you say comes into existence. 496 00:19:23,875 --> 00:19:25,833 - It's like magic. 497 00:19:25,875 --> 00:19:27,667 It's like speaking spells. 498 00:19:27,750 --> 00:19:30,500 I love it. 499 00:19:30,542 --> 00:19:36,333 ♪ 500 00:19:36,375 --> 00:19:39,333 Coming from such a close family where there 501 00:19:39,458 --> 00:19:43,000 was so much unconditional love, you guys 502 00:19:43,125 --> 00:19:45,458 ultimately set that bar. 503 00:19:45,542 --> 00:19:48,583 I never wanted to settle in relationships because I wanted 504 00:19:48,667 --> 00:19:51,792 the love in my relationship to feel the same love 505 00:19:51,875 --> 00:19:54,000 that I have with my family. 506 00:19:54,083 --> 00:19:56,500 - We know life is not perfect, though, and nobody's perfect. 507 00:19:56,583 --> 00:19:59,042 Is there anything that you're, like, worried or scared about? 508 00:19:59,125 --> 00:20:01,792 - I just hope he's, like, open and-- 509 00:20:01,875 --> 00:20:04,333 because, obviously, like, everything's not going 510 00:20:04,375 --> 00:20:06,042 to be perfect all the time. 511 00:20:06,167 --> 00:20:07,542 You never know what he's going--like, 512 00:20:07,625 --> 00:20:09,333 what's going through his mind. 513 00:20:09,417 --> 00:20:11,875 It's kind of scary to put yourself out there. 514 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:14,625 I love that he went through this entire process. 515 00:20:14,708 --> 00:20:17,167 I love that he put himself out there, 516 00:20:17,208 --> 00:20:19,000 and he's being vulnerable. 517 00:20:19,083 --> 00:20:19,875 I feel like I love him already. 518 00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:20,583 I feel like I love him already. 519 00:20:20,708 --> 00:20:22,542 all: Aww. 520 00:20:22,625 --> 00:20:23,583 - I do. 521 00:20:23,667 --> 00:20:24,750 I love him. 522 00:20:24,875 --> 00:20:26,042 - ♪ Love me now 523 00:20:26,042 --> 00:20:27,750 ♪ Whoa, oh 524 00:20:27,875 --> 00:20:28,458 ♪ Do you love me, love me? 525 00:20:32,625 --> 00:20:34,667 [upbeat music] 526 00:20:34,750 --> 00:20:35,875 - ♪ So close 527 00:20:35,875 --> 00:20:36,750 - ♪ So close 528 00:20:36,833 --> 00:20:39,542 ♪ I can taste it 529 00:20:39,625 --> 00:20:40,833 - Hey, can you help me with this, bro? 530 00:20:40,875 --> 00:20:42,542 - Yeah, sure. 531 00:20:42,625 --> 00:20:45,667 ♪ 532 00:20:45,750 --> 00:20:47,667 - We're gonna put volume, though. 533 00:20:47,750 --> 00:20:49,375 Lots of volume. 534 00:20:49,458 --> 00:20:52,000 I like to look like a '60s pinup baby doll. 535 00:20:52,125 --> 00:20:53,375 - ♪ Can you believe that's just ♪ 536 00:20:53,458 --> 00:20:55,000 ♪ The way things have to be? 537 00:20:55,042 --> 00:20:56,375 ♪ Oh, yeah 538 00:20:56,375 --> 00:20:57,458 ♪ Reach out and take it 539 00:20:57,542 --> 00:20:59,667 ♪ We can make a life for two 540 00:20:59,708 --> 00:21:01,292 ♪ I'll be here 541 00:21:01,375 --> 00:21:04,125 ♪ I will wait for you 542 00:21:04,208 --> 00:21:07,625 all: Oh, my God! 543 00:21:07,708 --> 00:21:13,167 ♪ 544 00:21:13,250 --> 00:21:15,375 - Absolutely stunning, Kar. 545 00:21:15,458 --> 00:21:17,208 - Oh, my God. - You look beautiful. 546 00:21:17,292 --> 00:21:18,833 Oh, my God. I can't even talk. 547 00:21:18,958 --> 00:21:20,042 - Stunning, I'm like, our makeup is done. 548 00:21:20,125 --> 00:21:21,375 Don't make us cry. - I know. 549 00:21:21,458 --> 00:21:23,542 - Oh, my God. You look so amazing. 550 00:21:23,542 --> 00:21:25,375 - I'm ready to get married. 551 00:21:25,458 --> 00:21:27,167 I feel like a princess. I feel like a bride. 552 00:21:27,250 --> 00:21:28,292 I feel great. 553 00:21:28,375 --> 00:21:29,958 I'm about to be a wife. 554 00:21:30,042 --> 00:21:33,500 I'm about to get prepared for having my own family 555 00:21:33,542 --> 00:21:35,250 and all that entails. 556 00:21:35,333 --> 00:21:39,250 - Okay, so one last thing we wanted to give you 557 00:21:39,333 --> 00:21:43,375 is that Mommy did write you a letter 558 00:21:43,458 --> 00:21:46,250 that she wanted you to read. 559 00:21:48,875 --> 00:21:51,583 It's okay. 560 00:21:51,708 --> 00:21:54,625 - "A letter from your mother on your wedding day. 561 00:21:54,708 --> 00:21:57,958 "This might not be the way I envisioned you getting married, 562 00:21:58,042 --> 00:22:00,500 "but you are doing it your way. 563 00:22:00,625 --> 00:22:04,042 "You have always beaten to the rhythm of your own drum. 564 00:22:04,125 --> 00:22:08,667 ♪ 565 00:22:08,750 --> 00:22:12,458 "I just hope that this new beginning has a forever ending. 566 00:22:12,542 --> 00:22:15,500 Love you to the moon and back, Norma, your mother." 567 00:22:15,542 --> 00:22:19,333 Oh, this is full. 568 00:22:19,417 --> 00:22:22,167 Coming from such a big family, there's so much love, 569 00:22:22,208 --> 00:22:24,333 and it's so unconditional. 570 00:22:24,333 --> 00:22:27,292 But it is very unlike my father at all 571 00:22:27,375 --> 00:22:29,292 to be in front of a camera. 572 00:22:29,375 --> 00:22:32,458 I know my mother supports my father in his, 573 00:22:32,542 --> 00:22:36,583 you know, ways, and they're just a team. 574 00:22:36,708 --> 00:22:39,625 And I, of course, would want my parents to both be here, 575 00:22:39,708 --> 00:22:41,917 but they love me, and they're supportive of me. 576 00:22:42,042 --> 00:22:44,792 And I love them so much. 577 00:22:44,875 --> 00:22:47,417 You guys just go through this wild adventure 578 00:22:47,542 --> 00:22:48,958 called life with me. 579 00:22:49,042 --> 00:22:52,375 And like, regardless of the roller coaster rides 580 00:22:52,500 --> 00:22:54,625 I take you on, I feel like you guys just 581 00:22:54,625 --> 00:22:57,625 strap yourselves in, and you're like, Karla, take me with you. 582 00:22:57,708 --> 00:23:02,792 You all are a piece of me, so I wouldn't be myself without you. 583 00:23:02,917 --> 00:23:05,417 - Mm-hmm. We love you, Kar. - I'm getting so-- 584 00:23:05,542 --> 00:23:07,708 - We feel the same. 585 00:23:07,792 --> 00:23:10,458 - Do you think Mama will grow to like this girl? 586 00:23:10,542 --> 00:23:12,167 - I think it's gonna be a good match. 587 00:23:12,167 --> 00:23:14,458 I think she's gonna like her, period. 588 00:23:14,542 --> 00:23:16,208 I don't think we're gonna have to like-- 589 00:23:16,292 --> 00:23:17,792 I don't think she's gonna have to-- 590 00:23:17,875 --> 00:23:19,167 I don't think there's gonna be a struggle. 591 00:23:19,250 --> 00:23:20,167 But it's not--my mom's not easy. 592 00:23:20,250 --> 00:23:21,542 You know this. 593 00:23:21,625 --> 00:23:23,500 - Talking about easy, you're not easy. 594 00:23:23,542 --> 00:23:26,042 - I'm not easy either. - So. 595 00:23:26,125 --> 00:23:27,833 - Yeah, I know that I have to give a little bit. 596 00:23:27,917 --> 00:23:29,833 So I know that. 597 00:23:29,875 --> 00:23:31,583 - Gotta compromise. - I gotta compromise. 598 00:23:31,667 --> 00:23:32,833 I gotta meet her in the middle. 599 00:23:32,917 --> 00:23:34,375 - Yeah. 600 00:23:34,500 --> 00:23:35,625 So, I mean, don't stop being yourself. 601 00:23:35,708 --> 00:23:37,667 But understand that-- 602 00:23:37,750 --> 00:23:40,375 - Yeah, there's another person in the dynamic. 603 00:23:40,375 --> 00:23:41,917 Absolutely. 604 00:23:42,042 --> 00:23:43,917 Getting--getting real. 605 00:23:44,042 --> 00:23:46,500 - Okay, it's time. 606 00:23:46,583 --> 00:23:48,625 - All right, guys, let's do it. 607 00:23:48,708 --> 00:23:52,000 ♪ 608 00:23:52,125 --> 00:23:55,000 - I truly feel aligned to this experience. 609 00:23:55,083 --> 00:23:57,083 I know it's meant to happen. 610 00:23:57,208 --> 00:24:02,417 It is happening, but also, with that being said, 611 00:24:02,500 --> 00:24:04,667 it's like the most scariest thing 612 00:24:04,792 --> 00:24:07,375 to, like, open yourself up and put 613 00:24:07,458 --> 00:24:09,708 everything out on the table. 614 00:24:09,708 --> 00:24:10,833 You always have in the back of my head, like, 615 00:24:10,958 --> 00:24:12,708 are they gonna think I'm stupid? 616 00:24:12,792 --> 00:24:14,792 Like, are they gonna, like, criticize me? 617 00:24:14,875 --> 00:24:18,250 I want this to last a lifetime, and I really hope that he 618 00:24:18,333 --> 00:24:20,167 has the same mentality. 619 00:24:20,250 --> 00:24:22,292 - I'm excited. - I'm, like, impatient. 620 00:24:22,375 --> 00:24:23,667 - I feel like I have butterflies. 621 00:24:23,708 --> 00:24:25,375 - I don't. - I have butterflies still. 622 00:24:25,375 --> 00:24:26,500 - Maybe you guys have the butterflies for me. 623 00:24:26,625 --> 00:24:28,167 I don't know, I just wanna rub myself on you 624 00:24:28,250 --> 00:24:29,333 because you look really good. 625 00:24:29,417 --> 00:24:30,583 [laughter] 626 00:24:30,708 --> 00:24:32,667 - Like, I need some shimmer. 627 00:24:32,708 --> 00:24:34,125 Yeah. 628 00:24:34,125 --> 00:24:35,417 [laughter] 629 00:24:35,500 --> 00:24:37,083 Like, I need shimmer. 630 00:24:37,167 --> 00:24:38,208 Do I look luminous? 631 00:24:38,292 --> 00:24:39,708 all: Yes. 632 00:24:39,833 --> 00:24:41,125 - You look like a golden goddess now. 633 00:24:41,208 --> 00:24:42,667 - Perfect. 634 00:24:44,083 --> 00:24:46,292 - Bueno. 635 00:24:46,375 --> 00:24:49,000 [both speaking Spanish] 636 00:25:07,250 --> 00:25:12,583 ♪ 637 00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:19,000 [laughter] 638 00:25:22,708 --> 00:25:25,167 Be happy. - Be happy. 639 00:25:25,208 --> 00:25:26,417 Don't worry, be happy. 640 00:25:26,542 --> 00:25:28,167 [laughter] 641 00:25:28,208 --> 00:25:31,167 - ♪ Boy, yeah 642 00:25:31,208 --> 00:25:33,667 ♪ All we got is all we need 643 00:25:33,750 --> 00:25:36,917 - You look amazing. - You look amazing. 644 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:41,167 - Alex, I love it. 645 00:25:41,250 --> 00:25:42,625 - No, you look beautiful. 646 00:25:42,708 --> 00:25:45,042 I am honored to walk you down the aisle. 647 00:25:45,167 --> 00:25:46,375 - Thank you. 648 00:25:46,458 --> 00:25:48,250 - But are you sure you wanna do this? 649 00:25:48,333 --> 00:25:51,292 I mean, you can still hold my hand and run away. 650 00:25:51,375 --> 00:25:52,292 We can run away if you want. 651 00:25:52,375 --> 00:25:54,083 - I am so ready, Alex. 652 00:25:54,167 --> 00:25:57,208 I feel all the beautiful synchronicities in the world. 653 00:25:57,208 --> 00:25:58,500 It just feels right. 654 00:25:58,583 --> 00:25:59,792 Life has just been flowing. 655 00:25:59,875 --> 00:26:00,875 - That's what I was gonna say. 656 00:26:00,958 --> 00:26:01,917 It feels right. - Mm-hmm. 657 00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,000 - It feels right. 658 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:09,167 ♪ 659 00:26:09,208 --> 00:26:11,333 - Gracias, Mama. 660 00:26:11,500 --> 00:26:15,125 - ♪ This is the time of our lives ♪ 661 00:26:15,208 --> 00:26:16,583 - Hi. 662 00:26:16,667 --> 00:26:19,250 - [laughs] It's a pleasure to meet you all. 663 00:26:19,375 --> 00:26:20,542 My name is Juan Franco. 664 00:26:20,542 --> 00:26:22,667 Thank you for doing this. 665 00:26:22,708 --> 00:26:25,667 It takes a lot of courage, and I 666 00:26:25,708 --> 00:26:28,250 appreciate you guys opening your hearts 667 00:26:28,333 --> 00:26:31,000 to a complete stranger. 668 00:26:31,083 --> 00:26:32,250 Sorry. 669 00:26:32,333 --> 00:26:34,958 I'm--I'm, like, a sensitive guy. 670 00:26:35,042 --> 00:26:36,208 all: Aww! 671 00:26:36,208 --> 00:26:37,458 - She's a lucky girl. 672 00:26:37,542 --> 00:26:38,917 - Okay. 673 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,208 - Brace yourself. - I'm ready. 674 00:26:41,292 --> 00:26:43,000 [laughs] 675 00:26:43,042 --> 00:26:45,000 - Are you nervous? - Oh, yeah. 676 00:26:45,083 --> 00:26:46,833 I'm beyond nervous. 677 00:26:46,875 --> 00:26:50,000 ♪ 678 00:26:50,042 --> 00:26:51,458 - Are you ready? - Are you ready? 679 00:26:51,458 --> 00:26:52,125 - Are you ready? - Are you ready? 680 00:26:52,208 --> 00:26:54,167 - [laughs] 681 00:26:54,250 --> 00:26:55,958 - Oh, my God. 682 00:26:56,083 --> 00:26:56,958 ♪ 683 00:27:00,667 --> 00:27:02,375 [tense music] 684 00:27:02,375 --> 00:27:03,500 ♪ 685 00:27:03,583 --> 00:27:04,542 - Are you nervous? - Oh, yeah. 686 00:27:04,542 --> 00:27:05,500 - Are you nervous? - Oh, yeah. 687 00:27:05,583 --> 00:27:08,333 I'm beyond nervous. 688 00:27:08,417 --> 00:27:09,417 - Please stand. 689 00:27:09,542 --> 00:27:15,208 ♪ 690 00:27:15,333 --> 00:27:18,500 - Oh, my God. 691 00:27:18,542 --> 00:27:20,292 This is nuts. 692 00:27:20,375 --> 00:27:26,833 ♪ 693 00:27:26,875 --> 00:27:28,958 - Ah. 694 00:27:29,042 --> 00:27:33,000 - ♪ I think I'm falling for you now, baby ♪ 695 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:34,667 ♪ Yeah 696 00:27:34,750 --> 00:27:37,875 ♪ And all that you do has got me dreaming ♪ 697 00:27:37,875 --> 00:27:41,125 ♪ Yeah, I think I'm falling 698 00:27:41,208 --> 00:27:44,542 ♪ Falling for you 699 00:27:44,625 --> 00:27:46,125 - Hello. 700 00:27:46,250 --> 00:27:49,833 Oh, baby. - Pleasure. 701 00:27:49,917 --> 00:27:52,208 - Hello, mister. - Hey, how are you? 702 00:27:52,292 --> 00:27:54,833 - Wonderful. 703 00:27:54,917 --> 00:27:57,667 - My name is Juan. - I'm Karla. 704 00:27:57,708 --> 00:28:00,417 - Good to meet you, Karla. - Nice to meet you too. 705 00:28:00,500 --> 00:28:02,000 - Thanks for being here. - Are you ready? 706 00:28:02,083 --> 00:28:03,500 - I am. I'm ready. Are you ready? 707 00:28:03,542 --> 00:28:04,792 - Are you in love? 708 00:28:04,917 --> 00:28:06,583 ♪ 709 00:28:06,708 --> 00:28:08,542 - I hope that we can fall in love. 710 00:28:08,625 --> 00:28:10,708 [laughs] 711 00:28:10,792 --> 00:28:13,458 - Perfect. - Good deal. 712 00:28:13,583 --> 00:28:15,750 - Juan, Karla's family and friends 713 00:28:15,833 --> 00:28:20,167 want you to know that Karla is adventurous, spunky, 714 00:28:20,250 --> 00:28:24,292 as you can see, and one of a kind. 715 00:28:24,375 --> 00:28:26,750 She is an old soul that connects with people 716 00:28:26,833 --> 00:28:29,292 on a deeper spiritual level. 717 00:28:29,375 --> 00:28:31,458 She is a listener. 718 00:28:31,458 --> 00:28:35,708 She sees the best in everyone and truly believes everything 719 00:28:35,792 --> 00:28:37,667 happens for a reason. 720 00:28:37,750 --> 00:28:40,667 Every heartbreak and roadblock has 721 00:28:40,708 --> 00:28:43,208 led her to this very moment. 722 00:28:43,292 --> 00:28:47,667 On her life's journey, she is caring and madly 723 00:28:47,708 --> 00:28:49,500 in love with her husband. 724 00:28:49,625 --> 00:28:52,083 - Oh. 725 00:28:52,167 --> 00:28:55,917 - She's a foodie who loves learning about other cultures, 726 00:28:56,000 --> 00:29:00,667 but make sure you tell her the reservations are 30 minutes 727 00:29:00,708 --> 00:29:03,833 before the actual time. 728 00:29:03,875 --> 00:29:06,917 She tries to be punctual, 729 00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:09,292 but let's say she's still working on it. 730 00:29:09,375 --> 00:29:11,167 - Yes. Amen. 731 00:29:11,208 --> 00:29:14,250 - Karla beats to the rhythm of her own drum 732 00:29:14,333 --> 00:29:17,542 and lives every day as if it's her last. 733 00:29:17,542 --> 00:29:22,583 Karla doesn't like being told no. 734 00:29:22,667 --> 00:29:26,917 She will find a way to get it done 735 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:30,750 or find a way to convince you to change your mind. 736 00:29:30,833 --> 00:29:32,917 - [laughs] 737 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:37,042 - Karla, Juan's family and friends want you to know, 738 00:29:37,125 --> 00:29:41,792 Juan is a loyal son, brother, uncle, 739 00:29:41,875 --> 00:29:44,833 and friend who's been waiting for the day 740 00:29:44,833 --> 00:29:47,042 he can be a loyal husband. 741 00:29:47,125 --> 00:29:51,125 He's fun-loving, outgoing, and an ambitious man 742 00:29:51,250 --> 00:29:54,208 who believes in multiple streams of income-- 743 00:29:54,292 --> 00:29:55,708 - Ooh, okay! 744 00:29:55,792 --> 00:29:59,792 - And multiple streams of joy. 745 00:29:59,875 --> 00:30:02,500 So hopefully, he'll keep you smiling. 746 00:30:02,583 --> 00:30:07,833 He works hard, plays hard, and appreciates someone 747 00:30:07,917 --> 00:30:10,667 who can support his wildest dreams. 748 00:30:10,708 --> 00:30:12,208 - They're crazy. 749 00:30:12,292 --> 00:30:14,500 - Don't worry, he'll be your biggest cheerleader 750 00:30:14,625 --> 00:30:19,000 as well, front and center. 751 00:30:19,042 --> 00:30:23,667 Karla and Juan, you have written your own vows. 752 00:30:23,750 --> 00:30:26,042 - "To my husband-- 753 00:30:26,167 --> 00:30:30,083 "I believe everything happens for a reason, every thought, 754 00:30:30,208 --> 00:30:33,750 "thinking, when will I meet you, how will you be, 755 00:30:33,750 --> 00:30:36,500 "what makes you happy, how can I be the best 756 00:30:36,583 --> 00:30:38,833 "wife and mother to our family? 757 00:30:38,875 --> 00:30:41,458 "Every emotion, the times I felt defeated 758 00:30:41,542 --> 00:30:44,167 "but knew there was a greater love out there for me. 759 00:30:44,250 --> 00:30:47,875 "I'm so happy I was patient and never settled. 760 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,292 "I have so much love to share with you. 761 00:30:50,292 --> 00:30:54,167 "I promise to be your biggest fan, your partner in crime, 762 00:30:54,292 --> 00:30:56,875 "and your fellow adventurer in this crazy, wild journey 763 00:30:56,958 --> 00:30:58,250 "called marriage. 764 00:30:58,333 --> 00:30:59,958 "I choose you. 765 00:31:00,042 --> 00:31:03,042 "I promise to love, respect, and nourish you. 766 00:31:03,042 --> 00:31:06,583 "I offer to you all that I am, all of my flaws, 767 00:31:06,708 --> 00:31:08,167 and all of my strengths." 768 00:31:08,250 --> 00:31:13,125 ♪ 769 00:31:13,208 --> 00:31:15,333 - "From the moment our eyes met today, 770 00:31:15,417 --> 00:31:17,333 "I'm choosing to embrace the unknown 771 00:31:17,375 --> 00:31:20,833 "and embark on a journey of love, trust, and companionship. 772 00:31:20,917 --> 00:31:23,708 "As we begin this adventure, I vow 773 00:31:23,833 --> 00:31:26,583 "to always strive to understand you, listen to your thoughts 774 00:31:26,708 --> 00:31:28,708 "and dreams, and to be the foundation 775 00:31:28,833 --> 00:31:30,375 "in times of joy and challenge. 776 00:31:30,458 --> 00:31:32,833 "With an open heart and a hopeful spirit, 777 00:31:32,875 --> 00:31:35,875 "I eagerly say I do to the journey of discovering 778 00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,042 "life's wonders together as partners, 779 00:31:38,042 --> 00:31:40,125 friends, and soulmates." 780 00:31:40,208 --> 00:31:42,125 - Aw. 781 00:31:42,208 --> 00:31:44,667 ♪ 782 00:31:44,708 --> 00:31:50,000 - Karla, will you take Juan to be your lawful wedded husband, 783 00:31:50,125 --> 00:31:52,042 to live together in matrimony? 784 00:31:52,125 --> 00:31:57,708 Will you love him, comfort him, honor him, and keep him 785 00:31:57,708 --> 00:31:59,833 so as long as you both shall live? 786 00:31:59,875 --> 00:32:02,625 - I do. - I do. 787 00:32:02,708 --> 00:32:05,542 [cheering] 788 00:32:05,542 --> 00:32:09,333 - May I have the rings, please? 789 00:32:09,375 --> 00:32:11,583 - Gracias, Ma. 790 00:32:11,708 --> 00:32:17,458 - Karla, will you please place this ring and repeat after me? 791 00:32:17,542 --> 00:32:20,000 With this ring, I wed you. 792 00:32:20,083 --> 00:32:22,000 - With this ring, I wed you. 793 00:32:22,042 --> 00:32:24,000 - For today, tomorrow. 794 00:32:24,042 --> 00:32:26,042 - And for all the years to come. 795 00:32:26,042 --> 00:32:27,875 - Please wear it as a sign of my commitment. 796 00:32:27,958 --> 00:32:29,708 - And notice to the entire world. 797 00:32:29,792 --> 00:32:30,917 - That I am your husband. 798 00:32:31,042 --> 00:32:32,500 - That I am your wife. 799 00:32:32,542 --> 00:32:36,500 - And now, Juan and Karla, you may now kiss. 800 00:32:36,625 --> 00:32:38,500 - Would you be okay with that? - Of course. 801 00:32:38,583 --> 00:32:39,667 - Okay. - Come here. 802 00:32:39,667 --> 00:32:42,667 [applause] 803 00:32:42,750 --> 00:32:46,333 ♪ 804 00:32:46,417 --> 00:32:49,250 - Ladies and gentlemen, it is my honor 805 00:32:49,375 --> 00:32:51,458 and pleasure to pronounce 806 00:32:51,542 --> 00:32:54,833 as husband and wife Karla and Juan. 807 00:32:54,958 --> 00:32:58,917 [cheering] 808 00:32:59,042 --> 00:33:03,000 ♪ 809 00:33:03,083 --> 00:33:06,667 - ♪ Oh, yeah 810 00:33:06,708 --> 00:33:10,042 ♪ Oh, oh, yeah 811 00:33:10,125 --> 00:33:12,333 ♪ I want you to feel welcome 812 00:33:12,500 --> 00:33:15,458 ♪ Oh, oh, yeah 813 00:33:15,542 --> 00:33:19,000 ♪ I know I wanna do this for life ♪ 814 00:33:19,167 --> 00:33:23,958 ♪ We can fly tonight, tonight ♪ 815 00:33:24,042 --> 00:33:26,042 - God, I've been so looking forward to meeting you. 816 00:33:26,125 --> 00:33:28,417 Jesus. - Me too. 817 00:33:28,542 --> 00:33:29,917 - All right, I'm just gonna drop this. 818 00:33:30,042 --> 00:33:31,292 - Yeah. - All right, cool. 819 00:33:31,375 --> 00:33:32,833 - I'm so happy. - Yeah, I'm happy as well. 820 00:33:32,917 --> 00:33:34,417 This is awesome. 821 00:33:34,542 --> 00:33:36,208 When I told my friends this is what I was doing, 822 00:33:36,333 --> 00:33:37,333 they were like, you know, we're not really surprised. 823 00:33:37,375 --> 00:33:40,000 - Right. No one was surprised. 824 00:33:40,042 --> 00:33:41,167 I think I was most nervous to tell my dad. 825 00:33:41,167 --> 00:33:42,750 He's not here today. - Okay. 826 00:33:42,875 --> 00:33:44,000 - But he's so supportive. 827 00:33:44,083 --> 00:33:45,375 And he's just like oh, my God, Karla. 828 00:33:45,542 --> 00:33:47,292 Like, I wouldn't expect anything different from you. 829 00:33:47,417 --> 00:33:48,667 - We're gonna have a lot of fun. 830 00:33:48,750 --> 00:33:49,833 I can tell. - We are. 831 00:33:49,875 --> 00:33:50,875 I really feel it. - Yeah. 832 00:33:50,958 --> 00:33:52,833 Hello. 833 00:33:52,833 --> 00:33:54,875 I am a married man. 834 00:33:54,875 --> 00:33:56,125 She looks beautiful. 835 00:33:56,208 --> 00:33:58,250 Her hair is pretty. 836 00:33:58,333 --> 00:34:00,708 Her gown is just incredible. 837 00:34:00,792 --> 00:34:02,500 She's very talkative, and she's got a lot of energy. 838 00:34:02,542 --> 00:34:04,000 She's spunky. 839 00:34:04,125 --> 00:34:05,708 I can tell that she's gonna be fun. 840 00:34:05,792 --> 00:34:07,667 - I'm so open to everything that I 841 00:34:07,750 --> 00:34:08,875 couldn't even picture you. 842 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:10,333 - Yeah, really? 843 00:34:10,375 --> 00:34:11,542 - And it was a beautiful surprise. 844 00:34:11,542 --> 00:34:12,958 - Aww, you're so sweet. 845 00:34:13,083 --> 00:34:15,250 It was a very beautiful surprise for me too. 846 00:34:15,333 --> 00:34:17,750 So I'm pretty excited about learning about you, 847 00:34:17,833 --> 00:34:19,958 you know, just hanging out with you, really, you know? 848 00:34:20,042 --> 00:34:22,292 Because at the end of the day, that's the most important part. 849 00:34:22,375 --> 00:34:24,000 - Yeah, I'm a very deep person. 850 00:34:24,083 --> 00:34:26,000 I don't really like, like, surface stuff. 851 00:34:26,083 --> 00:34:27,583 I don't really have time for small talk, like. 852 00:34:27,667 --> 00:34:29,667 - Good deal. - I like working on myself. 853 00:34:29,708 --> 00:34:31,875 I have my businesses. 854 00:34:31,875 --> 00:34:35,792 I'm a hairstylist, Pilates instructor, and sound healer. 855 00:34:35,875 --> 00:34:37,417 - Sound healer? 856 00:34:37,542 --> 00:34:39,333 - Yeah, so I'm very much into energy and-- 857 00:34:39,417 --> 00:34:41,042 - You're gonna love talking to my brother Juan Pablo. 858 00:34:41,208 --> 00:34:42,833 He's a tarot card reader. 859 00:34:42,917 --> 00:34:45,167 - Ooh, I love. 860 00:34:45,250 --> 00:34:47,333 Yeah, people are so disconnected from themselves. 861 00:34:47,417 --> 00:34:51,083 So I feel it's, like, my soul's purpose to help people. 862 00:34:51,167 --> 00:34:52,167 - Maybe you can help me with that, 863 00:34:52,208 --> 00:34:53,667 you know, because you're-- 864 00:34:53,833 --> 00:34:55,583 maybe you're more in tune with yourself than I am, but-- 865 00:34:55,667 --> 00:34:57,083 - I'm an alien from another galaxy. 866 00:34:57,167 --> 00:34:58,500 - [laughs] I like that. 867 00:34:58,542 --> 00:35:00,458 I'm out there too. 868 00:35:00,542 --> 00:35:03,375 But I feel like, from listening to you talk, you know, those 869 00:35:03,458 --> 00:35:05,292 are the things, like, we all know, we get caught up 870 00:35:05,375 --> 00:35:07,500 in like social media, especially 871 00:35:07,583 --> 00:35:09,500 when you have a business, you're always, like, 872 00:35:09,625 --> 00:35:10,750 pushing your stuff. 873 00:35:10,875 --> 00:35:12,208 And then you get just--you know, 874 00:35:12,292 --> 00:35:13,792 so I think like what you're talking about, 875 00:35:13,875 --> 00:35:16,750 like, being able to disconnect, would be cool. 876 00:35:16,875 --> 00:35:18,000 - Do you like to cuddle? - I do. 877 00:35:18,042 --> 00:35:19,333 - Okay. 878 00:35:19,417 --> 00:35:21,667 - I do love to cuddle. Of course. 879 00:35:21,708 --> 00:35:24,250 I like cooking. I like--I like cleaning. 880 00:35:24,333 --> 00:35:25,583 - Yeah, I'm very clean. 881 00:35:25,583 --> 00:35:27,042 - I like doing household stuff, you know? 882 00:35:27,208 --> 00:35:28,500 Like I'm very-- - Are you a homebody? 883 00:35:28,583 --> 00:35:29,375 - Not really, no. 884 00:35:29,375 --> 00:35:30,708 - So you like to go out? 885 00:35:30,833 --> 00:35:31,917 And how often do you go out? 886 00:35:32,042 --> 00:35:33,375 - I go out-- usually during the-- 887 00:35:33,458 --> 00:35:34,958 during the week, I'm business, you know, 888 00:35:35,042 --> 00:35:36,333 because I do a lot of stuff. 889 00:35:36,375 --> 00:35:39,167 I have--I have two startups. 890 00:35:39,250 --> 00:35:40,417 One of them's, like, a tech company. 891 00:35:40,417 --> 00:35:42,000 - Mm-hmm. 892 00:35:42,042 --> 00:35:43,542 - And then I have a construction company. 893 00:35:43,667 --> 00:35:44,958 And then I have a full-time, like, sales job. 894 00:35:45,042 --> 00:35:46,125 - Oh, my dad's in construction. - Yeah? 895 00:35:46,208 --> 00:35:47,792 - He owns his construction. - Oh, nice. 896 00:35:47,875 --> 00:35:50,333 Yeah, so I have a small, like, you know, subcontract. 897 00:35:50,417 --> 00:35:51,667 Like we do--we're a subcontractor. 898 00:35:51,708 --> 00:35:53,167 - Right. 899 00:35:53,250 --> 00:35:54,250 - So during the week, I try not to do too much. 900 00:35:54,333 --> 00:35:55,375 But on the weekends, I love going out. 901 00:35:55,542 --> 00:35:56,542 - Yeah. 902 00:35:56,625 --> 00:35:57,667 - My mom's always like, you always 903 00:35:57,708 --> 00:35:58,750 gotta make time for fun. - For sure. 904 00:35:58,833 --> 00:36:00,667 - So I like going out. 905 00:36:00,750 --> 00:36:02,417 Like, I like going dancing. - I love it. I can't wait. 906 00:36:02,500 --> 00:36:03,500 - I do a little bit of everything. 907 00:36:03,583 --> 00:36:05,167 My favorite, obviously, is salsa. 908 00:36:05,208 --> 00:36:06,667 Like Colombia. 909 00:36:06,750 --> 00:36:07,833 - You have to teach me how to dance salsa. 910 00:36:07,958 --> 00:36:09,458 I'm just pretend. 911 00:36:09,542 --> 00:36:11,542 I just, like, do a little bit of that. 912 00:36:11,542 --> 00:36:13,333 - The biggest thing about salsa is soul, you know? 913 00:36:13,417 --> 00:36:15,083 You gotta put it-- it's all about-- 914 00:36:15,208 --> 00:36:16,167 it's all in your soul, you know? 915 00:36:16,292 --> 00:36:17,667 - Beautiful. I can't wait to see. 916 00:36:17,708 --> 00:36:20,042 - I will try to, like, show you, you know, what I got. 917 00:36:20,125 --> 00:36:21,875 [laughs] - Wonderful. 918 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:23,042 I can't wait. 919 00:36:23,125 --> 00:36:24,417 Do you like to travel? 920 00:36:24,500 --> 00:36:26,208 - I do like to travel. - Okay. Nice. 921 00:36:26,292 --> 00:36:27,500 What's your favorite place you've been? 922 00:36:27,583 --> 00:36:30,417 - Gosh, I'm biased for Colombia. 923 00:36:30,542 --> 00:36:33,333 I was born in Colombia, and I moved here when I was seven. 924 00:36:33,375 --> 00:36:35,750 So I'm very in tune with my American side too. 925 00:36:35,875 --> 00:36:37,250 But I also am very Colombian. 926 00:36:37,333 --> 00:36:39,000 - Very cool. I love that. 927 00:36:39,125 --> 00:36:40,250 So you're, like well-rounded. 928 00:36:40,333 --> 00:36:41,667 My family is very-- 929 00:36:41,667 --> 00:36:43,792 like, we're a big Latino family. 930 00:36:43,875 --> 00:36:45,917 - That's awesome. 931 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:48,000 - Both of my parents were born in Mexico, so they came here, 932 00:36:48,083 --> 00:36:50,708 and they met in high school. 933 00:36:50,833 --> 00:36:53,250 So yeah, I feel like when it comes to, like, the traditions 934 00:36:53,333 --> 00:36:55,625 and, like, the food, the background, the dancing, 935 00:36:55,708 --> 00:37:00,042 we're all still very, like, cultured in that sense. 936 00:37:00,125 --> 00:37:02,333 - I haven't had the opportunity to date a lot of Latinas 937 00:37:02,417 --> 00:37:04,042 just because I grew up in North Carolina. 938 00:37:04,125 --> 00:37:05,375 I mean, there wasn't a lot to pick from as far 939 00:37:05,458 --> 00:37:07,083 as Latinas are concerned. 940 00:37:07,208 --> 00:37:08,375 - I haven't dated many Latinos either. 941 00:37:08,500 --> 00:37:10,000 - Oh, yeah? So this is new for me. 942 00:37:10,042 --> 00:37:11,583 - This is cool. Yeah. 943 00:37:11,667 --> 00:37:13,083 - Yeah, I'm excited. - This is fun. 944 00:37:13,083 --> 00:37:14,083 - It just feels right. 945 00:37:14,083 --> 00:37:14,500 - It just feels right. 946 00:37:15,375 --> 00:37:15,667 - I'm really pumped up about this, to be honest. 947 00:37:15,833 --> 00:37:17,250 - Me too. 948 00:37:17,333 --> 00:37:18,708 - I think we're gonna have a lot of fun. 949 00:37:18,792 --> 00:37:19,875 [laughs] 950 00:37:19,875 --> 00:37:21,750 - ♪ Someone like you 951 00:37:25,417 --> 00:37:26,625 - ♪ What if there was nothing but forever ♪ 952 00:37:26,625 --> 00:37:29,000 ♪ The way that you pull me close ♪ 953 00:37:29,375 --> 00:37:31,000 ♪ The way that you kiss me 954 00:37:31,292 --> 00:37:32,167 ♪ When I'm dancing on the ceiling ♪ 955 00:37:32,375 --> 00:37:34,625 ♪ The way that you try my heart ♪ 956 00:37:34,625 --> 00:37:36,083 ♪ The way that you make me cry so often ♪ 957 00:37:36,208 --> 00:37:37,458 ♪ Oh, the feeling 958 00:37:37,542 --> 00:37:39,083 - Y'all, I'm getting married. 959 00:37:39,167 --> 00:37:40,458 Yay. 960 00:37:40,542 --> 00:37:42,292 ♪ I am going to see 961 00:37:42,375 --> 00:37:44,167 - Oh, here we go. - ♪ My husband 962 00:37:44,250 --> 00:37:45,292 - Here we go. - ♪ I'm happy 963 00:37:45,375 --> 00:37:48,083 ♪ I'm happy to see my husband 964 00:37:48,167 --> 00:37:49,458 ♪ I'm happy 965 00:37:49,542 --> 00:37:51,208 Look, I'm gonna be doing that all day. 966 00:37:51,208 --> 00:37:53,792 I hope y'all ready. 967 00:37:53,875 --> 00:37:56,167 It feels great knowing that I'm marrying a stranger today. 968 00:37:56,208 --> 00:37:58,417 Physically, my stomach feels like 969 00:37:58,542 --> 00:38:00,500 somebody karate chopped it. 970 00:38:00,542 --> 00:38:02,833 But I've been living my life this whole time, 971 00:38:02,917 --> 00:38:06,500 focusing on myself, focusing on my career. 972 00:38:06,583 --> 00:38:11,833 And I'm ready to experience life with someone else. 973 00:38:11,958 --> 00:38:13,958 So I'm just--I'm nervous. 974 00:38:14,042 --> 00:38:15,750 I'm anxious, all the emotions. 975 00:38:15,833 --> 00:38:17,292 But I'm ready. 976 00:38:17,375 --> 00:38:18,667 I didn't think it was gonna happen. 977 00:38:18,750 --> 00:38:20,167 I'm not gonna lie. 978 00:38:20,250 --> 00:38:21,500 I didn't think it was gonna happen. 979 00:38:21,583 --> 00:38:23,292 - We had a couple-- - Like, ever? 980 00:38:23,375 --> 00:38:25,708 - I mean, let me not say ever, because look at me. 981 00:38:25,833 --> 00:38:29,500 But--[laughs] 982 00:38:29,583 --> 00:38:32,208 But I didn't think it was gonna happen this way. 983 00:38:32,208 --> 00:38:33,208 I didn't think it was gonna happen this way. 984 00:38:33,208 --> 00:38:34,458 - Definitely not this way. 985 00:38:34,583 --> 00:38:35,708 - I don't think any of us thought it 986 00:38:35,792 --> 00:38:37,500 was gonna happen this way. - But-- 987 00:38:37,625 --> 00:38:39,250 - But since it didn't happen organically, just in life-- 988 00:38:39,375 --> 00:38:40,667 - Yeah. 989 00:38:40,750 --> 00:38:42,125 - I'm not-- this isn't a shock 990 00:38:42,208 --> 00:38:45,292 to me to see you find an alternative way 991 00:38:45,375 --> 00:38:47,750 of finding your husband. 992 00:38:47,750 --> 00:38:49,375 - Y'all know--y'all know I'm really strategic, 993 00:38:49,500 --> 00:38:51,000 and I'm a planner. 994 00:38:51,042 --> 00:38:53,542 So technically, this is-- this is pretty on-brand. 995 00:38:53,625 --> 00:38:57,042 They planned and found someone who meets, you know, the things 996 00:38:57,167 --> 00:39:00,917 that I say that I want, right? - Right. 997 00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:02,500 - ♪ One, two, three 998 00:39:02,625 --> 00:39:04,875 ♪ Everybody better watch out for me ♪ 999 00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:06,083 ♪ Three, four, five 1000 00:39:06,208 --> 00:39:07,292 ♪ It's a takeoff gift 1001 00:39:07,292 --> 00:39:09,083 ♪ For the run of your life 1002 00:39:09,167 --> 00:39:10,917 - I can't believe that I'm about to walk down the aisle. 1003 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,792 I think it's--it's kind of crazy, actually. 1004 00:39:13,875 --> 00:39:15,375 What's up, my boy? - Look at this guy. 1005 00:39:15,542 --> 00:39:18,000 Look at him. - Hey. 1006 00:39:18,083 --> 00:39:21,417 Best-case scenario, this is my [bleep] baddie. 1007 00:39:21,500 --> 00:39:23,167 Like, she's amazing. 1008 00:39:23,208 --> 00:39:24,875 She's radiant. 1009 00:39:24,958 --> 00:39:26,917 She has great energy, great personality, 1010 00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:28,542 ambitious, goal-driven. 1011 00:39:28,625 --> 00:39:31,583 Someone who--who I aspire to-- 1012 00:39:31,667 --> 00:39:35,583 to be like and is inspiring to me. 1013 00:39:35,667 --> 00:39:37,333 - How are you feeling, bro? 1014 00:39:37,458 --> 00:39:39,500 - I mean, I'm excited. 1015 00:39:39,583 --> 00:39:41,833 But there are still questions. 1016 00:39:41,875 --> 00:39:45,125 You know, there's still, like, an underlying "I don't know 1017 00:39:45,208 --> 00:39:47,000 what this is about yet." 1018 00:39:47,083 --> 00:39:48,375 - So, look, let me ask you this. 1019 00:39:48,458 --> 00:39:52,917 What is marriage to you? 1020 00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:56,500 - From my understanding, marriage is compromise. 1021 00:39:56,542 --> 00:39:59,583 Marriage is creating a friendship, 1022 00:39:59,667 --> 00:40:02,167 a bond unlike any other. 1023 00:40:02,292 --> 00:40:04,708 And this is just the-- the understanding 1024 00:40:04,833 --> 00:40:06,583 that I have from seeing you and your wife, 1025 00:40:06,708 --> 00:40:09,833 seeing you and your wife, and seeing you and your wife. 1026 00:40:09,875 --> 00:40:13,542 I--I'm hoping to have some inkling of the things 1027 00:40:13,625 --> 00:40:15,500 that you guys have. 1028 00:40:15,542 --> 00:40:17,708 I think that-- 1029 00:40:17,708 --> 00:40:22,000 I think it'll be dope because I've had great representation. 1030 00:40:22,083 --> 00:40:24,167 And I'm just trying to-- honestly, I'm just trying to be 1031 00:40:24,250 --> 00:40:25,833 like y'all when I grow up. 1032 00:40:25,958 --> 00:40:26,917 - Wow. 1033 00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:28,500 There it is. 1034 00:40:28,500 --> 00:40:30,333 - Seriously, I just wanna be like y'all. 1035 00:40:30,333 --> 00:40:32,417 I see y'all move, and I'm like, okay, 1036 00:40:32,542 --> 00:40:33,958 take note, you know. - Yeah. 1037 00:40:34,042 --> 00:40:35,417 - Do this, do that. 1038 00:40:35,542 --> 00:40:37,375 And I mean, at the same time, there's 1039 00:40:37,458 --> 00:40:39,708 a variable that I have no-- 1040 00:40:39,792 --> 00:40:42,667 you know, I don't know what that X is over here. 1041 00:40:42,750 --> 00:40:44,000 So I'm trying to figure out. 1042 00:40:44,125 --> 00:40:45,875 I'm the Y, she's the X. 1043 00:40:45,875 --> 00:40:48,833 And I'm just trying to like, all right, what-- 1044 00:40:48,958 --> 00:40:51,250 what can we equal, you know? - Yeah. 1045 00:40:51,375 --> 00:40:52,750 - It's gonna take some work, man. 1046 00:40:52,875 --> 00:40:54,167 Definitely gonna take some work. 1047 00:40:54,292 --> 00:40:55,750 It's gonna take some sacrifice. 1048 00:40:55,750 --> 00:40:57,708 It's definitely gonna take some time in, bro. 1049 00:40:57,708 --> 00:40:59,667 But I mean, what you put in is what you get out of it. 1050 00:40:59,708 --> 00:41:02,458 ♪ 1051 00:41:02,542 --> 00:41:05,000 - The unknown is definitely nerve racking, 1052 00:41:05,083 --> 00:41:07,458 especially because, like I said, I'm a planner. 1053 00:41:07,542 --> 00:41:09,000 I'm a preparer. 1054 00:41:09,042 --> 00:41:11,167 And I like to know what I'm getting into so 1055 00:41:11,250 --> 00:41:12,500 that I can behave accordingly. 1056 00:41:12,542 --> 00:41:14,167 But because I don't know this man, 1057 00:41:14,208 --> 00:41:16,000 I don't know what to prepare for. 1058 00:41:16,042 --> 00:41:20,833 So I'm kind of just coming as I am and hoping how I am is 1059 00:41:20,917 --> 00:41:21,833 what he wants. 1060 00:41:21,958 --> 00:41:23,500 - Right. 1061 00:41:23,542 --> 00:41:25,667 - I think that I am very crazy for doing this. 1062 00:41:25,708 --> 00:41:27,292 But you know what? 1063 00:41:27,375 --> 00:41:29,375 Now I'm 35 years old. 1064 00:41:29,458 --> 00:41:32,500 You know, I've achieved my career goals. 1065 00:41:32,542 --> 00:41:34,542 I've done everything I was supposed to do, 1066 00:41:34,625 --> 00:41:35,958 all the things within my control. 1067 00:41:36,042 --> 00:41:38,750 So I'm ready for a full-time husband. 1068 00:41:38,833 --> 00:41:41,250 I'm ready for a full-time life with my husband. 1069 00:41:41,333 --> 00:41:44,167 And I know for a fact that the person that I'm marrying 1070 00:41:44,292 --> 00:41:46,167 wants to be married. 1071 00:41:46,208 --> 00:41:49,458 - So it would be remiss if, like, I didn't just 1072 00:41:49,542 --> 00:41:52,042 acknowledge, like, obviously this is a special day 1073 00:41:52,125 --> 00:41:54,125 and, like, someone's not gonna be here 1074 00:41:54,208 --> 00:41:55,708 to experience it with you. 1075 00:41:55,833 --> 00:42:01,167 So just wanted to give you this 1076 00:42:01,250 --> 00:42:04,625 as a little bit of just a gift, 1077 00:42:04,708 --> 00:42:07,625 because I know that throughout all of this, like, though we're 1078 00:42:07,708 --> 00:42:10,167 your cheerleaders, like, I know for a fact, 1079 00:42:10,250 --> 00:42:12,875 like, your daddy would have been 1080 00:42:12,875 --> 00:42:16,750 your cheerleader, hyping you up this whole time. 1081 00:42:16,750 --> 00:42:18,792 And I know he would have been supporting you. 1082 00:42:18,875 --> 00:42:20,792 He would have had your back. 1083 00:42:20,792 --> 00:42:24,833 So I feel like that's the other reason why, for us, it's like-- 1084 00:42:24,875 --> 00:42:26,167 - We gotta come strong for you. 1085 00:42:26,250 --> 00:42:27,708 - We had to come strong for you. 1086 00:42:27,833 --> 00:42:30,833 So just I'll let you just open it up and just-- 1087 00:42:30,917 --> 00:42:34,042 ♪ 1088 00:42:34,125 --> 00:42:35,042 So you can like-- 1089 00:42:35,167 --> 00:42:37,833 yeah, no. 1090 00:42:37,958 --> 00:42:41,000 But since he can't be here to walk you down the aisle, 1091 00:42:41,083 --> 00:42:43,292 we just wanted him to be able to be here 1092 00:42:43,375 --> 00:42:45,500 with you when you walk down. 1093 00:42:45,625 --> 00:42:48,000 - [crying] 1094 00:42:48,083 --> 00:42:51,375 - Love you, boo. 1095 00:42:51,500 --> 00:42:52,667 I know it's tough. 1096 00:42:52,708 --> 00:42:55,083 - Thank y'all so much. 1097 00:42:55,167 --> 00:42:56,958 Because y'all know he would have been here. 1098 00:42:57,042 --> 00:42:59,833 He'd--he'd--he would have rocked with me. 1099 00:42:59,917 --> 00:43:01,625 - Bright-eyed, bushy-tailed. 1100 00:43:01,708 --> 00:43:03,417 - And we got you a little something blue on there too. 1101 00:43:03,500 --> 00:43:04,708 Come on. - Something blue! 1102 00:43:04,708 --> 00:43:07,750 - Come on. You know, showed up. 1103 00:43:07,833 --> 00:43:09,875 - Ooh, Jesus, I'm sweating now. 1104 00:43:09,958 --> 00:43:11,000 - Yeah. 1105 00:43:11,083 --> 00:43:13,042 - Well, don't stop. 1106 00:43:13,125 --> 00:43:15,167 - No. 1107 00:43:15,250 --> 00:43:16,625 There's more? 1108 00:43:16,708 --> 00:43:19,000 - Let me clear your look. Clear your hand there. 1109 00:43:19,083 --> 00:43:22,542 - So none of you know I made a trip to Mommy's house 1110 00:43:22,625 --> 00:43:27,500 last night, and we had a little chat. 1111 00:43:27,625 --> 00:43:30,083 She just wants you to find peace. 1112 00:43:30,167 --> 00:43:35,250 Her prayers for you are all positive. 1113 00:43:35,333 --> 00:43:41,250 She wants for this marriage to be the marriage that you-- 1114 00:43:41,333 --> 00:43:43,500 - Desire. 1115 00:43:43,542 --> 00:43:45,667 ♪ 1116 00:43:45,667 --> 00:43:49,583 - And although she's not here, she is-- 1117 00:43:49,667 --> 00:43:51,583 her spirit is with you. 1118 00:43:51,583 --> 00:43:54,708 Those are her exact words. 1119 00:43:54,792 --> 00:43:57,292 - My mom, being the traditional 1120 00:43:57,375 --> 00:43:59,333 Nigerian woman she is, 1121 00:43:59,417 --> 00:44:01,417 encourages arranged marriages. 1122 00:44:01,500 --> 00:44:03,667 It happens all the time in our culture. 1123 00:44:03,833 --> 00:44:07,167 But publicizing me meeting my husband 1124 00:44:07,208 --> 00:44:08,917 and everyone seeing it, 1125 00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:11,042 so that's the part that really got her. 1126 00:44:11,125 --> 00:44:14,667 I know this is out of her element. 1127 00:44:14,708 --> 00:44:17,917 And I know she wants what's best for me, so yeah. 1128 00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:19,542 It hurts that she's not here. 1129 00:44:19,625 --> 00:44:21,750 But I want to be married. 1130 00:44:21,750 --> 00:44:23,833 I want to start my life. 1131 00:44:23,917 --> 00:44:27,667 Following my heart is the most important thing for me to do. 1132 00:44:27,750 --> 00:44:31,125 And I can't imagine any other way to do this. 1133 00:44:34,333 --> 00:44:35,458 [laughter] 1134 00:44:35,458 --> 00:44:36,542 - Yes, please. 1135 00:44:36,542 --> 00:44:37,292 - Yes, please. 1136 00:44:38,042 --> 00:44:40,500 Yes, please, y'all, please, please, please, please. 1137 00:44:40,583 --> 00:44:43,042 - ♪ In my dreams 1138 00:44:43,125 --> 00:44:44,333 ♪ In my dreams 1139 00:44:44,458 --> 00:44:46,833 ♪ In my dreams 1140 00:44:46,917 --> 00:44:47,792 ♪ In my dreams 1141 00:44:51,375 --> 00:44:52,250 [upbeat music] 1142 00:44:52,583 --> 00:44:53,750 - All right, y'all, we gotta get ready. 1143 00:44:53,833 --> 00:44:55,417 I can't take this. - Oh, right. 1144 00:44:55,542 --> 00:44:57,042 Because there's a wedding today. 1145 00:44:57,042 --> 00:44:57,833 - There's a wedding today. - There's a wedding today. 1146 00:44:58,083 --> 00:44:59,542 Because there's a wedding today. 1147 00:44:59,625 --> 00:45:00,917 - ♪ Be who you are 1148 00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,625 ♪ Feeling good inside 1149 00:45:03,708 --> 00:45:05,583 ♪ All right, all right 1150 00:45:05,667 --> 00:45:06,917 ♪ Getting loose 1151 00:45:07,042 --> 00:45:09,625 ♪ And I'm loving the vibe 1152 00:45:09,708 --> 00:45:13,375 ♪ Do you need someone on your side? ♪ 1153 00:45:13,458 --> 00:45:14,667 ♪ Someone on your side? 1154 00:45:14,792 --> 00:45:16,625 ♪ To find the truth inside 1155 00:45:16,708 --> 00:45:19,167 ♪ And let it shine bright 1156 00:45:19,208 --> 00:45:21,500 ♪ Whoa, oh 1157 00:45:21,500 --> 00:45:23,333 ♪ Feeling good inside 1158 00:45:23,417 --> 00:45:25,667 - So I think I wanna write a poem to my wife 1159 00:45:25,750 --> 00:45:28,042 to let her know who I am and give 1160 00:45:28,125 --> 00:45:31,000 her an idea of how I think. 1161 00:45:31,083 --> 00:45:32,500 - What's the most important thing you would 1162 00:45:32,583 --> 00:45:33,958 want her to get from that? 1163 00:45:34,042 --> 00:45:35,875 What's--what's the line that's gonna just 1164 00:45:35,958 --> 00:45:39,250 knock her off her feet? 1165 00:45:39,375 --> 00:45:45,167 - Honestly, I think it's more about just 1166 00:45:45,292 --> 00:45:47,542 letting her know that this isn't something 1167 00:45:47,625 --> 00:45:49,583 that was so haphazard. 1168 00:45:49,708 --> 00:45:52,667 You know, it wasn't just an accident. 1169 00:45:52,750 --> 00:45:54,750 It was, like, manifested. 1170 00:45:54,833 --> 00:45:56,833 - Yeah, yeah. 1171 00:45:56,875 --> 00:45:58,833 So tell her about how--how that dream came to be, man. 1172 00:45:58,917 --> 00:46:01,458 Because, I mean, this was, like, dreams. 1173 00:46:01,458 --> 00:46:03,167 This was visions. These were-- 1174 00:46:03,208 --> 00:46:04,333 - I mean, just really talk about how much 1175 00:46:04,375 --> 00:46:05,500 you longed for this moment. 1176 00:46:05,542 --> 00:46:07,292 - Yeah. 1177 00:46:07,375 --> 00:46:10,167 - I'm usually hesitant about sharing my creative side, 1178 00:46:10,250 --> 00:46:12,000 because I just think that a lot of people 1179 00:46:12,083 --> 00:46:13,667 fall in love with that piece 1180 00:46:13,792 --> 00:46:15,417 and don't fall in love with me. 1181 00:46:15,542 --> 00:46:20,667 But now, I have a moment to share my vulnerability, 1182 00:46:20,750 --> 00:46:23,750 my heart, my-- my world with my wife. 1183 00:46:23,833 --> 00:46:25,667 So I'm doing this to be the--the most 1184 00:46:25,750 --> 00:46:27,333 vulnerable I've ever been. 1185 00:46:27,375 --> 00:46:29,583 And in turn, like, I'm hoping that she 1186 00:46:29,667 --> 00:46:31,750 could be vulnerable with me. 1187 00:46:31,875 --> 00:46:33,500 - This is gonna be beautiful. 1188 00:46:33,583 --> 00:46:37,000 ♪ 1189 00:46:37,083 --> 00:46:40,500 - So I'm getting married this time. 1190 00:46:40,625 --> 00:46:44,125 I say "this time" because, remember, I was engaged before. 1191 00:46:44,208 --> 00:46:45,625 - I mean, you didn't make it down the aisle 1192 00:46:45,708 --> 00:46:47,292 for good reasons, though. 1193 00:46:47,375 --> 00:46:48,500 - Yeah. 1194 00:46:48,625 --> 00:46:50,208 - You had valid concerns. 1195 00:46:50,292 --> 00:46:51,500 - We're happy you didn't make it down that time. 1196 00:46:51,583 --> 00:46:53,083 - Right. 1197 00:46:53,083 --> 00:46:55,833 You had valid concerns about how your marriage 1198 00:46:55,917 --> 00:46:57,500 would be with that person. 1199 00:46:57,583 --> 00:46:59,208 - Yeah. 1200 00:46:59,292 --> 00:47:00,708 - I mean, you guys have seen the different kind 1201 00:47:00,792 --> 00:47:02,167 of men I've tried to date. 1202 00:47:02,208 --> 00:47:04,250 You've seen me-- you've seen me. 1203 00:47:04,375 --> 00:47:06,792 You guys have seen me. 1204 00:47:06,875 --> 00:47:08,667 And honestly, when you're always 1205 00:47:08,750 --> 00:47:10,667 taking care of other people, I want somebody 1206 00:47:10,708 --> 00:47:13,000 who can take care of me. 1207 00:47:13,125 --> 00:47:14,708 - You're ready to have a leader to follow. 1208 00:47:14,708 --> 00:47:15,917 - I want a leader. 1209 00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:17,833 I want a leader. 1210 00:47:17,875 --> 00:47:19,583 - You wanna be able to follow him. 1211 00:47:19,708 --> 00:47:21,458 - You've tried out for this before. 1212 00:47:21,458 --> 00:47:25,542 Like the last show, you weren't picked or whatever, but I mean, 1213 00:47:25,542 --> 00:47:26,958 how has your perspective changed 1214 00:47:27,042 --> 00:47:28,667 now that you are picked? 1215 00:47:28,750 --> 00:47:31,083 - I think that timing is everything. 1216 00:47:31,167 --> 00:47:33,000 - Mm-hmm. 1217 00:47:33,042 --> 00:47:34,708 - I don't think I missed out on anything. 1218 00:47:34,833 --> 00:47:36,333 - Mm-hmm. 1219 00:47:36,417 --> 00:47:38,375 - This isn't something that started, you know, 1220 00:47:38,458 --> 00:47:39,958 four or five months ago. 1221 00:47:40,042 --> 00:47:42,000 It's been something I've been wanting for years. 1222 00:47:42,083 --> 00:47:44,667 - How ready do you feel like you 1223 00:47:44,708 --> 00:47:47,000 are right now for this step? 1224 00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:50,125 Because, I mean, as the lead of your relationship, 1225 00:47:50,208 --> 00:47:54,750 when you guys first meet, you're the leader. 1226 00:47:54,833 --> 00:47:56,583 - I don't wanna play with my heart. 1227 00:47:56,583 --> 00:47:58,667 I definitely don't wanna play with nobody else's heart. 1228 00:47:58,667 --> 00:48:00,000 Because-- - Yeah. 1229 00:48:00,042 --> 00:48:02,917 - I'm wanting it to be, i'm giving more than 1230 00:48:03,042 --> 00:48:06,042 what I got and hoping that somebody 1231 00:48:06,125 --> 00:48:07,958 reciprocates that as well. 1232 00:48:08,042 --> 00:48:09,833 - One thing I can say about you that I truly admire 1233 00:48:09,917 --> 00:48:12,375 is you find the best in anything. 1234 00:48:12,500 --> 00:48:15,333 You believe in people more than people believe in them. 1235 00:48:15,375 --> 00:48:17,833 There was a moment where I didn't believe in me 1236 00:48:17,875 --> 00:48:19,167 or I can do anything. 1237 00:48:19,250 --> 00:48:21,083 And you were like, bro, you got this. 1238 00:48:21,208 --> 00:48:25,875 And I definitely pray that your wife does the same thing 1239 00:48:25,958 --> 00:48:27,625 for you just as much as you've been 1240 00:48:27,708 --> 00:48:29,208 there for everybody else, man. 1241 00:48:29,292 --> 00:48:30,250 Yeah? 1242 00:48:30,375 --> 00:48:34,708 ♪ 1243 00:48:34,708 --> 00:48:36,000 - I'm ready. 1244 00:48:36,167 --> 00:48:37,375 - You ready. - That's it. 1245 00:48:37,458 --> 00:48:38,792 That's a big step. 1246 00:48:38,875 --> 00:48:40,875 ♪ 1247 00:48:40,958 --> 00:48:42,750 - This gonna be the dress that my husband 1248 00:48:42,833 --> 00:48:44,667 sees me in for the first time. 1249 00:48:44,667 --> 00:48:46,542 - Literally for the first time. 1250 00:48:46,542 --> 00:48:47,708 - Hmm. 1251 00:48:47,792 --> 00:48:50,708 - ♪ Turn the lights on me 1252 00:48:50,875 --> 00:48:52,458 ♪ Can't you see I'm tireless 1253 00:48:52,542 --> 00:48:54,708 ♪ And want to see? 1254 00:48:54,833 --> 00:48:56,625 ♪ Baby, look in the mirror 1255 00:48:56,750 --> 00:48:58,500 ♪ What do I see? 1256 00:48:58,583 --> 00:48:59,750 ♪ Happy being me 1257 00:48:59,875 --> 00:49:01,167 ♪ I am fine doing me 1258 00:49:01,208 --> 00:49:03,208 ♪ I feel good, I am free 1259 00:49:03,292 --> 00:49:05,083 - ♪ Do it on her own, no handouts ♪ 1260 00:49:05,208 --> 00:49:07,042 ♪ So independent, she stand out ♪ 1261 00:49:07,042 --> 00:49:08,333 ♪ Got her own bag, let her hair down ♪ 1262 00:49:08,500 --> 00:49:10,958 ♪ That fine, so hard to compare now ♪ 1263 00:49:11,042 --> 00:49:12,458 ♪ Other girls sick how she rock ♪ 1264 00:49:12,542 --> 00:49:14,000 ♪ She floss and sparkle a lot ♪ 1265 00:49:14,042 --> 00:49:15,833 ♪ Down peace on the way to the top ♪ 1266 00:49:15,958 --> 00:49:17,333 ♪ On her way she gonna turn up a lot ♪ 1267 00:49:17,417 --> 00:49:18,667 ♪ Yeah 1268 00:49:18,750 --> 00:49:20,417 ♪ 1269 00:49:20,500 --> 00:49:22,083 - You look pretty. 1270 00:49:22,208 --> 00:49:24,833 - You guys look gorgeous, by the way. 1271 00:49:24,958 --> 00:49:27,625 - You look gorgeous. - Come on, give me some. 1272 00:49:27,708 --> 00:49:29,208 Come on, bridesmaids. 1273 00:49:29,333 --> 00:49:32,667 - Emem, we have a gift just for you! 1274 00:49:32,750 --> 00:49:35,500 - Okay, okay, okay. 1275 00:49:35,583 --> 00:49:36,500 - You gotta read it. 1276 00:49:36,583 --> 00:49:39,208 - Okay. 1277 00:49:39,208 --> 00:49:40,500 It's a gift from my husband. 1278 00:49:40,625 --> 00:49:41,792 - Ooh. 1279 00:49:41,875 --> 00:49:43,500 - Hey, husband. 1280 00:49:43,542 --> 00:49:45,500 - "To my future-- 1281 00:49:45,583 --> 00:49:48,125 "how do you receive love? 1282 00:49:48,208 --> 00:49:50,667 "What words do you need to hear? 1283 00:49:50,792 --> 00:49:53,000 "How do you perceive love? 1284 00:49:53,083 --> 00:49:56,000 "How do I show you what would it take for our hearts 1285 00:49:56,083 --> 00:49:57,958 to simultaneously pulsate?" 1286 00:49:58,042 --> 00:49:59,667 Ooh! Ooh. 1287 00:49:59,750 --> 00:50:00,833 - Okay. - He got the bars. 1288 00:50:00,958 --> 00:50:03,542 - You said bars. - Bars. 1289 00:50:03,542 --> 00:50:06,125 - "Like a student attentively awaiting his lesson, 1290 00:50:06,208 --> 00:50:07,500 "I patiently anticipate. 1291 00:50:07,542 --> 00:50:09,833 Bell rings, class is in session." 1292 00:50:09,917 --> 00:50:11,750 Come on, bars. 1293 00:50:11,875 --> 00:50:13,417 - Okay. - Come on, bars. 1294 00:50:13,500 --> 00:50:15,500 - Bars, bars, bars. - Okay. 1295 00:50:15,625 --> 00:50:17,208 [imitates air horn] 1296 00:50:17,292 --> 00:50:20,833 - Class is in session. 1297 00:50:20,958 --> 00:50:22,958 - He poetic with it. Okay. 1298 00:50:23,042 --> 00:50:25,375 - "I can't wait to meet you, and sent you 1299 00:50:25,458 --> 00:50:27,125 "a little gift I'd like you to keep 1300 00:50:27,208 --> 00:50:28,958 for our one-year anniversary." 1301 00:50:29,042 --> 00:50:30,417 - Hmm. 1302 00:50:30,542 --> 00:50:32,417 - "Let's go get 'em." 1303 00:50:32,500 --> 00:50:34,250 - I like that. - Let's go get 'em. 1304 00:50:34,375 --> 00:50:35,625 - Let's go get 'em. - Yeah. 1305 00:50:35,708 --> 00:50:37,708 - Okay. Okay. 1306 00:50:37,792 --> 00:50:38,542 - She said one-year anniversary. 1307 00:50:38,667 --> 00:50:40,083 She is-- 1308 00:50:40,208 --> 00:50:41,167 - Yeah, she's speaking it into existence. 1309 00:50:41,292 --> 00:50:42,458 - She's speaking to it, bro. 1310 00:50:42,542 --> 00:50:43,542 - Nice. 1311 00:50:43,625 --> 00:50:45,167 - That was something. - Okay. Okay. 1312 00:50:45,250 --> 00:50:46,625 I see where we going. - I see where we going. 1313 00:50:46,625 --> 00:50:48,458 Yeah, yeah. 1314 00:50:48,542 --> 00:50:50,125 - Yours, mine, out? 1315 00:50:50,208 --> 00:50:51,208 - That's gonna be dope, though. 1316 00:50:51,292 --> 00:50:54,167 - Yeah. - Facts. 1317 00:50:54,292 --> 00:50:57,458 - ♪ I am going to see my husband ♪ 1318 00:50:57,542 --> 00:50:58,625 ♪ I'm happy 1319 00:50:58,708 --> 00:51:01,375 ♪ I'm happy to see my husband 1320 00:51:01,458 --> 00:51:07,292 ♪ 1321 00:51:07,375 --> 00:51:08,708 - Ike. - Go time, baby. 1322 00:51:08,792 --> 00:51:10,042 - Ike. - Go time. 1323 00:51:10,042 --> 00:51:12,000 - Let's get it. 1324 00:51:12,125 --> 00:51:13,917 - I'm about to meet my wife for the first time. 1325 00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:15,500 That's scary. 1326 00:51:15,542 --> 00:51:17,958 - See you on the other side. - All right, bro. 1327 00:51:18,042 --> 00:51:19,958 You got this, bro. - Thank you, honey. 1328 00:51:19,958 --> 00:51:21,042 - We'll see you at the end of the aisle. 1329 00:51:21,125 --> 00:51:22,625 - I'll see you at the aisle. - I love you. 1330 00:51:22,708 --> 00:51:24,083 Proud of you. 1331 00:51:24,208 --> 00:51:26,333 - I've never felt like this before. 1332 00:51:26,417 --> 00:51:28,625 I don't know what to do. There's no quench. 1333 00:51:28,708 --> 00:51:31,958 No--it's no, no fix for it, no medicine that I could take. 1334 00:51:32,042 --> 00:51:34,333 The unknown about the unknown scares me. 1335 00:51:34,417 --> 00:51:36,667 I mean, everything is unknown with this situation. 1336 00:51:36,750 --> 00:51:39,292 ♪ 1337 00:51:39,375 --> 00:51:41,833 [sighs] Hello, Mommy. 1338 00:51:41,917 --> 00:51:44,125 - How you doing? - I'm good. 1339 00:51:44,208 --> 00:51:45,500 You nervous? - I am. 1340 00:51:45,542 --> 00:51:47,167 - Yeah, me too. 1341 00:51:47,208 --> 00:51:53,667 - But, I mean, you know, I think you're more than ready. 1342 00:51:53,792 --> 00:51:57,000 And, you know, I'm here to give you all the love 1343 00:51:57,083 --> 00:52:00,500 and support that I possibly can. 1344 00:52:00,583 --> 00:52:04,667 I love you, and I've prayed for you. 1345 00:52:04,667 --> 00:52:11,333 And I pray that your wife-to-be can see all the joy 1346 00:52:11,375 --> 00:52:17,583 and brilliance that you are bringing to her life. 1347 00:52:17,667 --> 00:52:19,500 - I was raised only-- 1348 00:52:19,625 --> 00:52:22,000 an only child in a single-family home 1349 00:52:22,083 --> 00:52:24,625 by my mother and only my mother. 1350 00:52:24,708 --> 00:52:28,042 And to have her and have her blessing and-- 1351 00:52:28,125 --> 00:52:30,500 and her prayers and her-- 1352 00:52:30,625 --> 00:52:34,000 her strength at this moment in time is--is beautiful. 1353 00:52:34,083 --> 00:52:37,792 ♪ 1354 00:52:40,292 --> 00:52:43,708 [uplifting music] 1355 00:52:43,708 --> 00:52:50,667 ♪ 1356 00:52:50,750 --> 00:52:53,625 [laughter] 1357 00:52:53,708 --> 00:52:56,500 ♪ 1358 00:52:56,542 --> 00:52:59,792 This look like a good family over here, Ma. 1359 00:52:59,875 --> 00:53:05,708 ♪ 1360 00:53:05,833 --> 00:53:08,000 I love you. - Love you too. 1361 00:53:08,083 --> 00:53:10,833 ♪ 1362 00:53:10,875 --> 00:53:11,833 Hey, y'all. 1363 00:53:11,917 --> 00:53:13,542 [laughter] 1364 00:53:13,708 --> 00:53:16,917 I'm Ikechi. 1365 00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:18,083 They look good. 1366 00:53:18,167 --> 00:53:19,792 [laughter] 1367 00:53:19,875 --> 00:53:20,917 - Yeah. 1368 00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:22,000 - Hold on. 1369 00:53:22,042 --> 00:53:23,000 Y'all look good. 1370 00:53:23,083 --> 00:53:25,875 [laughter] 1371 00:53:25,875 --> 00:53:27,833 Yeah. Hell, yeah. Let's do this. 1372 00:53:27,917 --> 00:53:30,417 [laughter] 1373 00:53:34,875 --> 00:53:36,167 - Hoo, ooh. 1374 00:53:36,208 --> 00:53:37,542 - Oh, oh, oh! Look at you. 1375 00:53:37,625 --> 00:53:39,458 Look at you. Look at you. 1376 00:53:39,542 --> 00:53:40,792 - You see me? - Oh, you taller than me. 1377 00:53:40,875 --> 00:53:41,833 I can't do this. 1378 00:53:41,958 --> 00:53:43,333 - [laughs] - Uh-uh. 1379 00:53:43,333 --> 00:53:44,542 You ready for it? - I'm ready. 1380 00:53:44,625 --> 00:53:46,167 I'm getting married. - You sure? 1381 00:53:46,250 --> 00:53:47,042 - I'm getting married. - You sure? 1382 00:53:47,167 --> 00:53:48,042 - It's time. - It's time? 1383 00:53:48,125 --> 00:53:49,208 - It's time. 1384 00:53:49,333 --> 00:53:50,625 - Yeah, we all excited for you, though. 1385 00:53:50,708 --> 00:53:51,625 Man, you're looking beautiful, though. 1386 00:53:51,750 --> 00:53:53,125 - Thank you, man. 1387 00:53:53,125 --> 00:53:54,375 Seriously, thank you, thank you, thank you. 1388 00:53:54,500 --> 00:53:55,958 I'm just so happy you came, man. 1389 00:53:56,042 --> 00:53:57,417 - Most def. most def. 1390 00:53:57,542 --> 00:53:58,667 - Because you know my daddy would appreciate 1391 00:53:58,792 --> 00:53:59,958 you doing this in his-- 1392 00:54:00,042 --> 00:54:01,208 in his stead. 1393 00:54:01,333 --> 00:54:02,708 - Yeah, okay. 1394 00:54:02,792 --> 00:54:04,083 - I think he would have appreciated it. 1395 00:54:04,167 --> 00:54:05,500 So thank you. - No problem. 1396 00:54:05,583 --> 00:54:06,500 - Thank you, Rafiu. - No problem. 1397 00:54:06,542 --> 00:54:08,583 You ready? - Yeah, let's do it. 1398 00:54:08,667 --> 00:54:10,125 Let's do it. 1399 00:54:10,208 --> 00:54:12,583 ♪ 1400 00:54:12,583 --> 00:54:14,375 Whoo. 1401 00:54:14,458 --> 00:54:17,958 I have put my career before my heart for so long. 1402 00:54:18,083 --> 00:54:21,083 Now it's my time to feel loved. 1403 00:54:21,167 --> 00:54:23,500 So I'm hoping that this-- 1404 00:54:23,542 --> 00:54:24,833 this is gonna be a forever thing. 1405 00:54:24,917 --> 00:54:28,292 And I hope that my husband feels the same way. 1406 00:54:28,292 --> 00:54:29,625 - Please stand. 1407 00:54:29,708 --> 00:54:32,042 ♪ 1408 00:54:32,042 --> 00:54:36,500 ♪ 1409 00:54:41,750 --> 00:54:44,958 - ♪ 'Cause we bring the light ♪ 1410 00:54:45,042 --> 00:54:48,500 ♪ We bring the light 1411 00:54:48,625 --> 00:54:50,375 ♪ You can see it in her eyes 1412 00:54:50,458 --> 00:54:51,542 ♪ When we're walking by 1413 00:54:51,542 --> 00:54:52,208 ♪ When we're walking by 1414 00:54:52,417 --> 00:54:54,875 ♪ And no matter if we die 1415 00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:57,292 ♪ 'Cause we bring the light 1416 00:54:57,375 --> 00:55:01,250 ♪ We bring the light 1417 00:55:01,375 --> 00:55:03,250 ♪ You can see it in her eyes 1418 00:55:03,333 --> 00:55:05,292 ♪ When we're walking by 1419 00:55:05,375 --> 00:55:07,417 ♪ It don't matter if we die 1420 00:55:07,542 --> 00:55:09,208 - Hey. - How you doing? 1421 00:55:09,292 --> 00:55:10,708 - I'm good. - I'm Ikechi. 1422 00:55:10,875 --> 00:55:11,792 - Emem. 1423 00:55:11,875 --> 00:55:15,042 Nice to meet you, Ikechi. 1424 00:55:15,125 --> 00:55:19,125 Hmm! [laughs] 1425 00:55:19,125 --> 00:55:20,917 [laughter] 1426 00:55:24,667 --> 00:55:26,500 [laughter] 1427 00:55:29,417 --> 00:55:31,833 - Ikechi, Emem's family and friends 1428 00:55:31,875 --> 00:55:36,792 want you to know Emem embodies humility in its purest form. 1429 00:55:36,875 --> 00:55:39,667 She craves and merits the nurturing, 1430 00:55:39,708 --> 00:55:44,083 guidance, protection, and love only a husband can provide. 1431 00:55:44,208 --> 00:55:47,167 As Emem steps into this new life chapter 1432 00:55:47,250 --> 00:55:50,833 with an open heart, her ambitions and drive 1433 00:55:50,875 --> 00:55:53,917 shape her as a force to be reckoned with, 1434 00:55:54,042 --> 00:55:56,500 an unafraid boss chick, 1435 00:55:56,667 --> 00:55:59,625 unafraid of venturing into the unknown. 1436 00:55:59,708 --> 00:56:03,000 She is truly a precious rarity, deserving 1437 00:56:03,083 --> 00:56:07,667 of all-encompassing love, nurturing, and protection. 1438 00:56:07,792 --> 00:56:13,292 So buckle up for the exhilarating journey ahead. 1439 00:56:13,375 --> 00:56:17,083 Emem, Ikechi's family and friends 1440 00:56:17,167 --> 00:56:19,708 want you to know Ikechi's ambition 1441 00:56:19,792 --> 00:56:21,667 is something truly remarkable. 1442 00:56:21,708 --> 00:56:24,333 Once he sets his sights on a goal, 1443 00:56:24,417 --> 00:56:27,292 you can bet he'll see it through to the end 1444 00:56:27,375 --> 00:56:29,375 with unwavering determination. 1445 00:56:29,458 --> 00:56:33,000 His creativity knows no bounds, and he 1446 00:56:33,042 --> 00:56:35,792 wears his heart on his sleeves as a true believer 1447 00:56:35,875 --> 00:56:37,833 in love's magic. 1448 00:56:37,917 --> 00:56:40,833 The treasure trove of stories he carries 1449 00:56:40,917 --> 00:56:43,917 will leave you in fits of laughter. 1450 00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:48,000 What you're receiving is a partner who's long been 1451 00:56:48,083 --> 00:56:50,417 anticipating your presence. 1452 00:56:50,500 --> 00:56:53,708 Ikechi has been writing to you across the years, 1453 00:56:53,708 --> 00:56:56,417 upholding faith in your existence, 1454 00:56:56,500 --> 00:57:00,083 and diligently molding himself in the finest version 1455 00:57:00,208 --> 00:57:01,833 possible, ready for you. 1456 00:57:01,917 --> 00:57:03,750 ♪ 1457 00:57:03,833 --> 00:57:07,208 Emem and Ikechi, you've written vows. 1458 00:57:07,292 --> 00:57:10,167 You may share them at this time. 1459 00:57:10,250 --> 00:57:12,292 - "Where you been?" 1460 00:57:12,375 --> 00:57:16,000 [laughter] 1461 00:57:16,042 --> 00:57:18,208 "They say that love is patient, love is kind. 1462 00:57:18,292 --> 00:57:22,000 "But where have you been? 1463 00:57:22,042 --> 00:57:25,000 "Years of prayers turned into years of doubt. 1464 00:57:25,083 --> 00:57:28,833 "What I took from it was that love takes time. 1465 00:57:28,917 --> 00:57:33,000 "We pray for you 'cause we the praying kind. 1466 00:57:33,083 --> 00:57:34,667 "Give her peace. 1467 00:57:34,750 --> 00:57:38,000 "Give her space to create and the ability to relate. 1468 00:57:38,042 --> 00:57:41,583 "And O Lord, please don't forget her faith. 1469 00:57:41,583 --> 00:57:43,625 "Fill her life with purpose, 1470 00:57:43,708 --> 00:57:46,458 "physically place prolific passions. 1471 00:57:46,542 --> 00:57:48,333 "Pluck her from the top of the tree where the fruit 1472 00:57:48,375 --> 00:57:49,750 "is nothing but sweet. 1473 00:57:49,875 --> 00:57:52,833 "Wash away impurity and any self-doubt. 1474 00:57:52,958 --> 00:57:55,417 "Help her understand what a true queen's life is all about. 1475 00:57:55,500 --> 00:57:57,208 "Make her courageous. 1476 00:57:57,333 --> 00:58:00,000 "Make it so that we can show the world 1477 00:58:00,042 --> 00:58:02,417 "that love is contagious. 1478 00:58:02,500 --> 00:58:03,833 Ashe and amen." 1479 00:58:03,958 --> 00:58:07,083 - Amen. 1480 00:58:07,167 --> 00:58:10,292 It's my turn? 1481 00:58:10,375 --> 00:58:12,333 [clears throat] 1482 00:58:12,458 --> 00:58:15,375 "To my now-forever husband-- 1483 00:58:15,458 --> 00:58:17,542 "I promise to take care of your heart, 1484 00:58:17,625 --> 00:58:19,542 "so much so that you desire to take great care 1485 00:58:19,625 --> 00:58:21,792 "of mine as well. 1486 00:58:21,875 --> 00:58:24,458 "I promise to be open and honest, so open that you will 1487 00:58:24,542 --> 00:58:26,458 "always know I'm approaching from a place of love 1488 00:58:26,542 --> 00:58:28,667 "and not hurt. 1489 00:58:28,750 --> 00:58:31,542 "I promise to provide you a space of safety, so safe 1490 00:58:31,542 --> 00:58:33,958 "that we will be ready to protect our union 1491 00:58:34,042 --> 00:58:36,375 "from anything trying to threaten our sanctuary. 1492 00:58:36,375 --> 00:58:39,417 "I promise to give you my loyalty, 1493 00:58:39,417 --> 00:58:41,167 "so loyal that you will never have 1494 00:58:41,250 --> 00:58:44,750 "to know where I stand because I'm already right beside you. 1495 00:58:44,833 --> 00:58:46,333 "I promise to be the best life partner 1496 00:58:46,458 --> 00:58:48,708 "you could have ever imagined, 1497 00:58:48,792 --> 00:58:51,000 "not even in your wildest dreams. 1498 00:58:51,083 --> 00:58:52,708 "And I promise to be your best friend 1499 00:58:52,792 --> 00:58:55,042 "and that I will forever choose us. 1500 00:58:55,125 --> 00:58:56,792 "I can't wait for our lives to merge into one 1501 00:58:56,875 --> 00:59:01,167 beautiful future together." 1502 00:59:01,292 --> 00:59:04,792 - Emem, will you take Ikechi to be your lawful wedded husband, 1503 00:59:04,875 --> 00:59:07,167 to live together in matrimony? 1504 00:59:07,250 --> 00:59:09,875 Will you love him, comfort him, 1505 00:59:10,042 --> 00:59:13,500 honor and keep him, keeping only unto him 1506 00:59:13,625 --> 00:59:15,333 as long as you both shall live? 1507 00:59:15,417 --> 00:59:16,833 - I do. 1508 00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:18,333 [laughter] 1509 00:59:18,417 --> 00:59:21,000 - If you do, please answer I do. 1510 00:59:21,083 --> 00:59:23,000 - I do. - Hmm. 1511 00:59:23,042 --> 00:59:25,417 - May I have the rings? 1512 00:59:25,500 --> 00:59:27,208 - Oh, yes. 1513 00:59:27,292 --> 00:59:28,833 - Thank you, ma'am. 1514 00:59:28,875 --> 00:59:31,000 - Emem, please take Ikechi's hand. 1515 00:59:31,083 --> 00:59:32,417 With this ring. 1516 00:59:32,500 --> 00:59:35,417 - With this ring, I wed you, Ikechi. 1517 00:59:35,542 --> 00:59:37,000 - I wed you, Emem. - For today. 1518 00:59:37,083 --> 00:59:38,292 - For tomorrow. 1519 00:59:38,417 --> 00:59:39,708 - For all the years to come. 1520 00:59:39,792 --> 00:59:41,667 - Please wear it as a sign of my commitment. 1521 00:59:41,750 --> 00:59:43,917 - And a notice to the entire world-- 1522 00:59:44,042 --> 00:59:45,583 [laughter] 1523 00:59:45,667 --> 00:59:47,375 That I am your wife. 1524 00:59:47,458 --> 00:59:48,833 - That I am your husband. - Okay. 1525 00:59:48,917 --> 00:59:51,542 [laughter] 1526 00:59:51,667 --> 00:59:54,833 - And now, by the power of your shared commitment, 1527 00:59:54,958 --> 00:59:59,750 I now pronounce you a married couple. 1528 00:59:59,875 --> 01:00:04,458 Ikechi, you may now kiss your bride, Emem. 1529 01:00:04,542 --> 01:00:06,333 ♪ 1530 01:00:06,417 --> 01:00:09,000 - ♪ We're gonna give it up now ♪ 1531 01:00:09,083 --> 01:00:12,250 ♪ We're gonna take it up to the sky ♪ 1532 01:00:12,333 --> 01:00:13,958 - I'm married, y'all. 1533 01:00:14,042 --> 01:00:16,625 [cheering] 1534 01:00:16,708 --> 01:00:18,042 - Wait a minute. Wait a minute. 1535 01:00:18,125 --> 01:00:19,458 Wait, wait. 1536 01:00:19,542 --> 01:00:23,000 Ladies and gentlemen, it is my pleasure 1537 01:00:23,042 --> 01:00:25,875 to introduce, for the first time 1538 01:00:25,958 --> 01:00:30,375 as husband and wife, Emem and Ikechi. 1539 01:00:30,458 --> 01:00:32,833 [cheering] 1540 01:00:32,917 --> 01:00:35,792 - ♪ Nobody's gonna take a back seat ♪ 1541 01:00:35,875 --> 01:00:40,917 ♪ Everybody's gonna get up and fly ♪ 1542 01:00:41,042 --> 01:00:43,875 ♪ Gonna turn it around 1543 01:00:43,958 --> 01:00:46,083 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, ooh 1544 01:00:46,167 --> 01:00:46,292 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, ooh 1545 01:00:46,792 --> 01:00:49,917 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, ooh 1546 01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:52,875 ♪ We've got the love, we've got the love ♪ 1547 01:00:52,958 --> 01:00:55,000 ♪ You can't hold us down 1548 01:00:55,042 --> 01:00:57,125 ♪ 1549 01:01:01,292 --> 01:01:03,917 - ♪ Making new beginnings 1550 01:01:04,500 --> 01:01:06,500 ♪ Let your heart start winning ♪ 1551 01:01:06,625 --> 01:01:08,750 ♪ We don't need nobody else 1552 01:01:14,708 --> 01:01:17,208 - I joined the gang of married men. 1553 01:01:17,292 --> 01:01:20,542 And it feels dope to say that I have a wife. 1554 01:01:20,667 --> 01:01:21,625 - Where you from? - Houston. 1555 01:01:21,708 --> 01:01:23,333 - Really? - Yeah. 1556 01:01:23,417 --> 01:01:24,958 Moved here for work. Got married. 1557 01:01:25,042 --> 01:01:26,708 - Hmm. - You were there. 1558 01:01:26,792 --> 01:01:28,667 - Loved that. Heard the bride was stunning. 1559 01:01:28,792 --> 01:01:30,500 - I heard the same thing. 1560 01:01:30,625 --> 01:01:32,833 So far, her energy feels great. 1561 01:01:32,917 --> 01:01:34,708 And I'm just wanting to know what it's like 1562 01:01:34,792 --> 01:01:36,333 when we're by ourselves. 1563 01:01:36,458 --> 01:01:39,042 Not just on a physical but like an intimate, 1564 01:01:39,125 --> 01:01:41,542 spiritual, mental connection. 1565 01:01:41,625 --> 01:01:43,792 Those things are the unseen that everybody 1566 01:01:43,792 --> 01:01:45,583 else doesn't see. 1567 01:01:45,667 --> 01:01:46,625 - This is amazing. 1568 01:01:46,708 --> 01:01:48,333 Well, now, we're married. 1569 01:01:48,417 --> 01:01:49,917 - Yeah. - I love this. 1570 01:01:50,000 --> 01:01:52,333 - Now we get to know each other. 1571 01:01:52,417 --> 01:01:53,708 - Yeah, that's it. 1572 01:01:53,708 --> 01:01:55,625 Let's know each other. I'm excited. 1573 01:01:55,708 --> 01:01:57,208 Yeah. - So what does "Emem" mean? 1574 01:01:57,292 --> 01:01:58,542 - Peace. 1575 01:01:58,542 --> 01:01:59,917 - In what? 1576 01:02:00,042 --> 01:02:02,542 - So my dad was Igbo. - Okay. 1577 01:02:02,625 --> 01:02:05,167 - So I say was because he passed, like, three years ago. 1578 01:02:05,250 --> 01:02:06,375 - I'm sorry. - Yeah. 1579 01:02:06,375 --> 01:02:08,042 But he was Igbo. 1580 01:02:08,125 --> 01:02:10,625 And the tribe that lived in the area that he was from, 1581 01:02:10,708 --> 01:02:13,083 they used-- it's called Akwa Ibom. 1582 01:02:13,083 --> 01:02:15,500 - Mm-hmm. - And it means peace. 1583 01:02:15,583 --> 01:02:17,417 My last name is like "of God." 1584 01:02:17,500 --> 01:02:19,000 So it's peace of God. 1585 01:02:19,042 --> 01:02:20,292 - What was your last-- what is your last name? 1586 01:02:20,375 --> 01:02:21,417 - Obot. - Okay. 1587 01:02:21,542 --> 01:02:22,625 - It was Obot. 1588 01:02:22,708 --> 01:02:24,042 - So you still got an O. You good. 1589 01:02:24,042 --> 01:02:25,000 - Okay. 1590 01:02:25,083 --> 01:02:26,042 - So my name is Igbo as well. 1591 01:02:26,125 --> 01:02:27,042 - Okay. 1592 01:02:27,125 --> 01:02:28,500 - Nobody in my family is Igbo. 1593 01:02:28,542 --> 01:02:29,792 - Ah. 1594 01:02:29,875 --> 01:02:30,667 - But they love the meaning of the name. 1595 01:02:30,750 --> 01:02:32,250 - Mm-hmm. 1596 01:02:32,333 --> 01:02:34,250 - My name means God's power. - Oh. Give me some. 1597 01:02:34,333 --> 01:02:36,667 - So. And my last name means warrior. 1598 01:02:36,750 --> 01:02:38,167 - Hmm. 1599 01:02:38,208 --> 01:02:39,375 - So if you're a peaceful warrior. 1600 01:02:39,458 --> 01:02:40,583 - Okay. - Yeah. 1601 01:02:40,583 --> 01:02:42,000 - Yes, that's it. Mmm. 1602 01:02:42,042 --> 01:02:43,542 Okay. They did their research. 1603 01:02:43,542 --> 01:02:45,542 - Yeah. - They did their research. 1604 01:02:45,625 --> 01:02:47,000 - So yeah. 1605 01:02:47,083 --> 01:02:48,708 - So tell me, what do you do for a living? 1606 01:02:48,792 --> 01:02:51,000 What about kids? What about plans? 1607 01:02:51,125 --> 01:02:53,000 Are you staying in Chicago? 1608 01:02:53,042 --> 01:02:55,167 Are you gonna have to swoop me up and take me out to Houston? 1609 01:02:55,167 --> 01:02:57,250 If that's what I have to do, let me pack my bag. 1610 01:02:57,250 --> 01:03:00,000 Oh, sorry. Go ahead. 1611 01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:02,167 - What? Everything. Just give it to me. 1612 01:03:02,250 --> 01:03:03,833 - You just give it to me straight. 1613 01:03:03,917 --> 01:03:05,875 - What else you got? - Give it to me straight. 1614 01:03:05,875 --> 01:03:08,000 - So I work in education. 1615 01:03:08,125 --> 01:03:09,000 - Okay. 1616 01:03:09,042 --> 01:03:11,667 I am a college counselor. 1617 01:03:11,708 --> 01:03:14,667 So I make sure that every one of my students 1618 01:03:14,750 --> 01:03:15,917 gets into college and makes sure 1619 01:03:16,042 --> 01:03:17,125 that they don't have to pay for it. 1620 01:03:17,208 --> 01:03:18,500 - Oh, nice. 1621 01:03:18,583 --> 01:03:20,042 - So yeah. 1622 01:03:20,125 --> 01:03:21,250 - So Chicago definitely has a need for that. 1623 01:03:21,333 --> 01:03:22,542 - Right, right. 1624 01:03:22,625 --> 01:03:23,750 - Definitely has a need for that. 1625 01:03:23,833 --> 01:03:25,458 [cork pops] It keeps you-- 1626 01:03:25,458 --> 01:03:26,708 - That happened. 1627 01:03:26,875 --> 01:03:29,667 - [laughs] Let's get it. 1628 01:03:29,708 --> 01:03:30,958 - So, yeah, what do you do? 1629 01:03:31,042 --> 01:03:32,375 - I'm a nurse practitioner. 1630 01:03:32,458 --> 01:03:34,292 - Come on. Save lives. 1631 01:03:34,292 --> 01:03:35,208 - Yes, yes. 1632 01:03:35,333 --> 01:03:36,417 - They were listening. 1633 01:03:36,500 --> 01:03:38,083 They were listening. 1634 01:03:38,083 --> 01:03:39,333 I was really like, look, you know, 1635 01:03:39,417 --> 01:03:41,167 people who serve are, like, the people. 1636 01:03:41,292 --> 01:03:42,833 - Yeah. 1637 01:03:42,875 --> 01:03:44,792 - They were listening. - They heard us, huh? 1638 01:03:44,875 --> 01:03:46,542 - Really paying attention. - I appreciate that. 1639 01:03:46,667 --> 01:03:47,583 - I mean, because I said it. 1640 01:03:47,667 --> 01:03:49,042 - [laughs] 1641 01:03:49,125 --> 01:03:50,625 - I said, she better be Black. 1642 01:03:50,708 --> 01:03:51,833 - I said, I want a leader. 1643 01:03:51,833 --> 01:03:53,250 And I said, I want-- 1644 01:03:53,375 --> 01:03:55,667 I want a man who dates Black women. 1645 01:03:55,750 --> 01:03:57,792 - I mean, here I am. 1646 01:03:57,875 --> 01:03:59,417 - Here you are. Okay. 1647 01:04:02,042 --> 01:04:03,625 - I'm like, damn. 1648 01:04:03,708 --> 01:04:05,042 - No, this is wonderful. 1649 01:04:05,125 --> 01:04:06,708 So you said you're from Houston? 1650 01:04:06,792 --> 01:04:07,625 - Grew up between Houston and Atlanta. 1651 01:04:07,708 --> 01:04:09,000 - Okay. 1652 01:04:09,083 --> 01:04:11,000 And then you moved here in January. 1653 01:04:11,083 --> 01:04:12,583 - After being in Houston for, like, eight years-- 1654 01:04:12,667 --> 01:04:14,083 - Okay. - Moved here for work. 1655 01:04:14,167 --> 01:04:15,958 My boss, she's the reason I'm on the show. 1656 01:04:16,042 --> 01:04:17,333 - She told you to do it? 1657 01:04:17,417 --> 01:04:19,125 - Yeah, she--she was like, you should do it. 1658 01:04:19,125 --> 01:04:21,167 I actually have done it before. - Hmm. 1659 01:04:21,250 --> 01:04:23,500 - The Houston season, but didn't--didn't work out. 1660 01:04:23,583 --> 01:04:24,875 - Didn't work out? 1661 01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:26,333 - Yeah, They couldn't find me a match. 1662 01:04:26,458 --> 01:04:28,208 - Well, that's because she was in Chicago. 1663 01:04:28,333 --> 01:04:29,625 - Apparently. So I had to-- 1664 01:04:29,708 --> 01:04:30,833 had to move. 1665 01:04:30,917 --> 01:04:32,708 - You had to move to find your wife. 1666 01:04:32,792 --> 01:04:33,667 - Get up here and get up here. 1667 01:04:33,750 --> 01:04:35,125 - [laughs] 1668 01:04:35,208 --> 01:04:37,542 - See good things. - Yes. 1669 01:04:37,625 --> 01:04:40,250 - ♪ Got to love this feeling 1670 01:04:40,375 --> 01:04:43,250 ♪ I'm loving it 1671 01:04:45,333 --> 01:04:48,333 [upbeat music] 1672 01:04:48,417 --> 01:04:51,708 ♪ 1673 01:04:51,875 --> 01:04:55,292 [cheering] 1674 01:04:55,375 --> 01:04:56,708 - Hey, hey. 1675 01:04:56,792 --> 01:04:59,083 ♪ 1676 01:04:59,208 --> 01:05:01,833 - I'm a married man. I feel--I feel good. 1677 01:05:01,917 --> 01:05:04,458 Like, I feel happy. 1678 01:05:04,542 --> 01:05:06,042 My wife is beautiful. 1679 01:05:06,167 --> 01:05:08,875 I was so excited seeing her walk down the aisle. 1680 01:05:08,875 --> 01:05:11,042 I had a smile on my face. 1681 01:05:11,042 --> 01:05:13,917 - ♪ When life takes you to the edge ♪ 1682 01:05:13,917 --> 01:05:17,000 - You know, I'm 42 years old. 1683 01:05:17,083 --> 01:05:20,250 I've watched the parade passing me by for years, 1684 01:05:20,375 --> 01:05:23,500 and I'm ready to start that adventure 1685 01:05:23,583 --> 01:05:24,833 together and start our story. 1686 01:05:24,917 --> 01:05:26,500 - I'll let you do the honors. 1687 01:05:26,500 --> 01:05:27,708 - Yes, and I'm probably gonna do it very poorly. 1688 01:05:27,833 --> 01:05:28,667 - Oh, no. - FYI. 1689 01:05:28,792 --> 01:05:30,792 - [laughs] 1690 01:05:30,875 --> 01:05:32,667 - And then watch me spill it on your dress. 1691 01:05:32,750 --> 01:05:34,625 Sorry. - That's okay. 1692 01:05:34,708 --> 01:05:36,917 - ♪ Taking over me 1693 01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:38,167 - Well, first, cheers. 1694 01:05:38,250 --> 01:05:39,583 - Yes, cheers. Oh, my gosh. 1695 01:05:39,667 --> 01:05:41,125 To being married. - Oh, yeah. 1696 01:05:41,208 --> 01:05:42,500 To being married. - It sounds great. 1697 01:05:42,625 --> 01:05:44,167 - It is. I don't even-- 1698 01:05:46,958 --> 01:05:50,792 So you're originally from Chicago, or? 1699 01:05:50,875 --> 01:05:53,167 - Well, I was born up in Evanston 1700 01:05:53,208 --> 01:05:55,750 but then moved down to Champaign when I was three. 1701 01:05:55,875 --> 01:05:57,667 What? 1702 01:05:57,708 --> 01:05:59,000 Don't tell me you went to U of I. 1703 01:05:59,125 --> 01:06:00,208 - I didn't go to U of I. I went to Parkland. 1704 01:06:00,375 --> 01:06:01,625 - Oh, my gosh. 1705 01:06:01,625 --> 01:06:02,833 - And I lived in Champaign for, like, five years. 1706 01:06:02,917 --> 01:06:04,375 - Are you serious? 1707 01:06:04,500 --> 01:06:05,833 - That's how I met one of my groomsmen. 1708 01:06:05,875 --> 01:06:07,000 [laughs] Or two of my groomsmen. 1709 01:06:07,083 --> 01:06:07,917 - Something ain't right here. 1710 01:06:08,042 --> 01:06:09,833 - Yeah, I know. 1711 01:06:09,917 --> 01:06:10,833 So you notice, I have a twin brother. 1712 01:06:10,917 --> 01:06:11,750 - Yeah. That's crazy. 1713 01:06:11,833 --> 01:06:13,417 - But both-- 1714 01:06:13,417 --> 01:06:14,792 - And my siblings are twins. - That's crazy. 1715 01:06:14,875 --> 01:06:15,667 - That's another-- - See, that-- 1716 01:06:15,792 --> 01:06:17,125 - I know. [laughs] 1717 01:06:17,208 --> 01:06:20,125 - I have a bit of a unique family structure. 1718 01:06:20,208 --> 01:06:24,167 So there's two moms up there because I was adopted. 1719 01:06:24,250 --> 01:06:26,000 So-- - Oh, really cool. 1720 01:06:26,042 --> 01:06:27,792 - Yeah, me and my brother were adopted as babies. 1721 01:06:27,875 --> 01:06:29,500 - Okay. 1722 01:06:29,583 --> 01:06:30,917 - And so we were raised in a household. 1723 01:06:31,042 --> 01:06:32,708 And then I have my bio mom there too, so. 1724 01:06:32,792 --> 01:06:34,208 - Okay. 1725 01:06:34,292 --> 01:06:36,042 - I grew up with my mother that raised me. 1726 01:06:36,125 --> 01:06:37,667 So we're really close, but I started a relationship 1727 01:06:37,708 --> 01:06:39,833 with my biological mom about seven years ago, 1728 01:06:39,917 --> 01:06:41,833 so we have a really good friendship. 1729 01:06:41,833 --> 01:06:43,417 But yeah, and then twins. 1730 01:06:43,500 --> 01:06:45,333 My brother is married to a twin as well, so. 1731 01:06:45,375 --> 01:06:47,000 - Oh, my gosh. 1732 01:06:47,167 --> 01:06:48,833 - So get ready to have your mind blown soon. 1733 01:06:48,875 --> 01:06:50,833 - Twins all over. 1734 01:06:50,917 --> 01:06:52,000 - Yes, there's something in the water. 1735 01:06:52,083 --> 01:06:53,042 - Dang. - Yeah. 1736 01:06:53,125 --> 01:06:54,708 - That's awesome, though. 1737 01:06:54,792 --> 01:06:55,708 What's your last name? 1738 01:06:55,833 --> 01:06:57,000 What's our last name? 1739 01:06:57,083 --> 01:06:59,292 - Oh, yeah, good question. - Yeah. 1740 01:06:59,375 --> 01:07:00,417 - I was gonna think of something funny to say, 1741 01:07:00,542 --> 01:07:01,500 but I'm just gonna be-- 1742 01:07:01,583 --> 01:07:02,958 I'm just gonna be honest with you. 1743 01:07:03,042 --> 01:07:04,542 It's McDonald. - McDonald, okay. 1744 01:07:04,667 --> 01:07:05,958 - And no, I'm not the heir to the McDonald's franchise. 1745 01:07:06,042 --> 01:07:07,375 - Yeah, I know. - So don't get excited. 1746 01:07:07,458 --> 01:07:09,042 [laughs] 1747 01:07:09,042 --> 01:07:10,333 - Camille McDonald. - Yeah. 1748 01:07:10,458 --> 01:07:12,708 - Wow. McDonald. I gotta get used to that. 1749 01:07:12,792 --> 01:07:14,542 - Yeah. 1750 01:07:14,625 --> 01:07:15,875 - I've always, always wanted to be a wife. 1751 01:07:15,875 --> 01:07:17,708 I've always wanted to be married. 1752 01:07:17,792 --> 01:07:19,833 I've wanted that kind of fairy-tale ending, 1753 01:07:19,917 --> 01:07:21,750 if you will, and today, I got that. 1754 01:07:21,833 --> 01:07:24,000 I'm a wife. It happened. 1755 01:07:24,083 --> 01:07:25,792 You see the--you see the ring on the finger. 1756 01:07:25,875 --> 01:07:27,667 So it's go time now. 1757 01:07:27,750 --> 01:07:30,417 And I'm looking forward to really seeing what this journey 1758 01:07:30,500 --> 01:07:31,583 is gonna be like. 1759 01:07:31,583 --> 01:07:32,750 - First off, cheers again. 1760 01:07:32,875 --> 01:07:34,167 - Yeah, cheers again. 1761 01:07:34,250 --> 01:07:35,417 - So, so nice to finally meet you. 1762 01:07:35,500 --> 01:07:37,083 - I know. 1763 01:07:37,167 --> 01:07:39,000 It's--this is the start of a beautiful journey to come. 1764 01:07:39,083 --> 01:07:40,042 - Absolutely. 1765 01:07:40,042 --> 01:07:41,208 - Absolutely. 1766 01:07:41,208 --> 01:07:43,250 - ♪ I think it's working 1767 01:07:43,333 --> 01:07:44,875 ♪ No one's perfect 1768 01:07:44,958 --> 01:07:46,292 ♪ No more making me wait 1769 01:07:46,375 --> 01:07:47,833 ♪ I'm tired of you pretending ♪ 1770 01:07:47,917 --> 01:07:49,167 ♪ Like you made a mistake 1771 01:07:49,250 --> 01:07:49,792 ♪ I'm hoping you'll agree 1772 01:07:53,792 --> 01:07:55,208 - ♪ Ooh, ooh 1773 01:07:55,208 --> 01:07:56,458 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh 1774 01:07:56,458 --> 01:07:57,833 ♪ Ooh 1775 01:07:57,875 --> 01:07:59,000 ♪ 1776 01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:00,167 ♪ 1777 01:08:00,333 --> 01:08:03,542 ♪ And I think can feel it 1778 01:08:03,625 --> 01:08:05,458 - Hello. We're here. 1779 01:08:05,542 --> 01:08:07,750 - Yay. - Hi. 1780 01:08:07,958 --> 01:08:09,917 - Hi. 1781 01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:13,167 - Happy wedding day. - It is. 1782 01:08:13,208 --> 01:08:15,750 - Getting married. 1783 01:08:15,833 --> 01:08:16,750 Who would have thought? 1784 01:08:16,833 --> 01:08:18,250 - Not strange at all. 1785 01:08:18,333 --> 01:08:20,375 - Hi. Are you already crying? 1786 01:08:20,375 --> 01:08:23,083 - No. - I'm like, get it out! 1787 01:08:23,167 --> 01:08:26,042 - I was like, now she will if you say that. 1788 01:08:26,167 --> 01:08:28,042 - I think this is bat [bleep] crazy, for the record. 1789 01:08:28,167 --> 01:08:30,333 I think I am bat [bleep] crazy for doing this. 1790 01:08:30,375 --> 01:08:32,667 - I mean, are there nerves or are you doing okay? 1791 01:08:32,750 --> 01:08:35,000 - I did cry leaving the apartment last night. 1792 01:08:35,125 --> 01:08:36,250 - Oh. 1793 01:08:36,333 --> 01:08:37,958 - But still gonna do it. - Good. 1794 01:08:38,042 --> 01:08:39,000 - So that's good. 1795 01:08:39,042 --> 01:08:40,000 Not backing out. 1796 01:08:40,042 --> 01:08:41,625 Yeah. [laughs] 1797 01:08:41,708 --> 01:08:43,542 I mean, it's hard to say what I'm feeling 1798 01:08:43,625 --> 01:08:45,750 in my heart right now because the nerves in my stomach 1799 01:08:45,833 --> 01:08:47,792 are overpowering me. 1800 01:08:47,875 --> 01:08:50,875 [cork pops] all: Whoo! 1801 01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:53,542 - I've been single for six years. 1802 01:08:53,542 --> 01:08:56,750 I'm sick of, like, the fifth wheeling, the third wheeling, 1803 01:08:56,875 --> 01:09:00,042 and I'm ready to get married and start 1804 01:09:00,125 --> 01:09:01,417 the rest of my life with someone. 1805 01:09:01,500 --> 01:09:03,500 So I'm excited to meet my husband. 1806 01:09:03,583 --> 01:09:06,208 He also must be bat [bleep] crazy for doing this. 1807 01:09:06,292 --> 01:09:08,292 - ♪ Whoo 1808 01:09:08,375 --> 01:09:09,708 ♪ Future is so bright 1809 01:09:09,833 --> 01:09:12,625 ♪ Future is all mine 1810 01:09:12,708 --> 01:09:16,167 - Today is my official wedding day. 1811 01:09:16,292 --> 01:09:19,875 In addition to that, it is my birthday. 1812 01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:21,333 - Happy birthday! - What's up, babies? 1813 01:09:21,375 --> 01:09:22,833 - Happy birthday. 1814 01:09:22,875 --> 01:09:25,083 - Oh, get your ass up here, kid. 1815 01:09:25,167 --> 01:09:27,333 - What's up, baby? - Mm. 1816 01:09:27,375 --> 01:09:29,958 - How are you? - Oh. 1817 01:09:30,042 --> 01:09:31,667 - Love you. 1818 01:09:31,750 --> 01:09:33,917 - Been wanting to do that for a long time, baby. 1819 01:09:34,000 --> 01:09:35,500 Mm. 1820 01:09:35,583 --> 01:09:37,292 My father got married on his birthday, 1821 01:09:37,375 --> 01:09:38,833 and they've been married for 36 years. 1822 01:09:38,958 --> 01:09:41,000 And my little brother got married on his birthday, 1823 01:09:41,083 --> 01:09:43,292 and they're going on six years strong. 1824 01:09:43,375 --> 01:09:45,417 So me getting married on my birthday, 1825 01:09:45,417 --> 01:09:47,375 there's definitely some pressure to be successful. 1826 01:09:47,375 --> 01:09:49,417 But honestly, I truly feel that everything 1827 01:09:49,500 --> 01:09:51,042 happens for a reason. 1828 01:09:51,167 --> 01:09:53,208 And the fact that it is my birthday, 1829 01:09:53,292 --> 01:09:55,667 I definitely do believe this is meant to be. 1830 01:09:55,708 --> 01:09:57,208 Love you guys. 1831 01:09:57,292 --> 01:09:58,250 Thank you guys for being here and supporting me 1832 01:09:58,333 --> 01:10:00,292 through this whole process. 1833 01:10:00,375 --> 01:10:02,292 It's gonna be a great day. - It is. 1834 01:10:02,375 --> 01:10:03,833 - I'm gonna have to keep the tears behind a little bit. 1835 01:10:03,917 --> 01:10:05,500 It's still early. 1836 01:10:05,542 --> 01:10:07,750 - ♪ Looking good when you look my way ♪ 1837 01:10:07,750 --> 01:10:09,833 ♪ Looking good every single day ♪ 1838 01:10:09,917 --> 01:10:12,583 - So when you walk down the aisle and you see 1839 01:10:12,708 --> 01:10:16,917 Mr. Happily-Ever-After you've never met, what do you expect? 1840 01:10:17,042 --> 01:10:20,500 - I feel like I have little to zero expectations, 1841 01:10:20,625 --> 01:10:22,208 and I'm trying to keep it that way 1842 01:10:22,292 --> 01:10:23,750 because I'm like, if I think like, I'm like, 1843 01:10:23,833 --> 01:10:25,375 where are we gonna live? Is he gonna like the cat? 1844 01:10:25,500 --> 01:10:26,500 - Exactly. - What does he do for work? 1845 01:10:26,583 --> 01:10:28,250 Is he not a 9:00 to 5:00? 1846 01:10:28,333 --> 01:10:30,500 Like, then I start to, like, spiral a little bit. 1847 01:10:30,542 --> 01:10:33,167 And so I'm trying to go in very open-minded, 1848 01:10:33,250 --> 01:10:35,208 because if I start to, like, think like, 1849 01:10:35,208 --> 01:10:36,625 oh, he's gonna look like this 1850 01:10:36,708 --> 01:10:38,333 or he's gonna do this, that if it doesn't happen, 1851 01:10:38,458 --> 01:10:40,375 I will fixate on that. 1852 01:10:40,500 --> 01:10:41,750 Oh. 1853 01:10:41,833 --> 01:10:44,083 But I have no idea what's gonna happen. 1854 01:10:44,083 --> 01:10:45,125 Like, that's the crazy thing. Like-- 1855 01:10:45,208 --> 01:10:47,417 - I have a thousand questions for him, 1856 01:10:47,542 --> 01:10:49,792 and I'm just sitting here like, where do I even start? 1857 01:10:49,875 --> 01:10:51,583 I wanna know your name. 1858 01:10:51,667 --> 01:10:53,250 I wanna know, where do you come from, how did you grow up? 1859 01:10:53,333 --> 01:10:54,708 Did you do any sports? 1860 01:10:54,833 --> 01:10:56,167 Have you ever been around this many women? 1861 01:10:56,250 --> 01:10:57,125 Because we're a lot. 1862 01:10:57,208 --> 01:10:58,542 Yeah. 1863 01:10:58,667 --> 01:11:02,208 And we're judgy, and we're opinionated. 1864 01:11:02,292 --> 01:11:04,667 - Okay, you'll get five questions with him. 1865 01:11:04,708 --> 01:11:06,667 - I mean, it's like, welcome to the crazy. 1866 01:11:06,750 --> 01:11:08,333 [laughs] 1867 01:11:08,417 --> 01:11:10,500 - Y'all wanna do a morning shot? 1868 01:11:10,583 --> 01:11:12,042 - Whatever you want. It's your day. 1869 01:11:12,125 --> 01:11:13,375 It's your day, baby. 1870 01:11:13,458 --> 01:11:15,458 That's the best part. - Trimbles on three. 1871 01:11:15,542 --> 01:11:17,333 - Yeah, Trimbles on three. 1872 01:11:17,417 --> 01:11:20,125 - How's Mom doing, and Dad? 1873 01:11:20,208 --> 01:11:21,625 - They were good. 1874 01:11:21,708 --> 01:11:23,000 I called Granny this morning to make sure 1875 01:11:23,083 --> 01:11:24,792 that she was ready to go. She was. 1876 01:11:24,875 --> 01:11:26,708 She was up, dressed. She's like, I'm ready, honey. 1877 01:11:26,792 --> 01:11:28,833 I'm not bringing my whipping stick, but I do got a cane. 1878 01:11:28,917 --> 01:11:30,000 - Okay. 1879 01:11:30,042 --> 01:11:31,708 - I was like, okay, Granny. 1880 01:11:31,792 --> 01:11:33,583 Coming from a woman-dominant family, 1881 01:11:33,667 --> 01:11:36,708 from my mom, my granny, my great-grandmother, 1882 01:11:36,792 --> 01:11:38,667 my favorite cousin, Denise, all the women 1883 01:11:38,708 --> 01:11:42,375 that I've been around, they're some bad bitches, I'll say. 1884 01:11:42,458 --> 01:11:44,125 Again, I love you guys. 1885 01:11:44,208 --> 01:11:45,583 Hey, 36. - Crazy, 36. 1886 01:11:45,708 --> 01:11:46,833 - Hey. 1887 01:11:46,917 --> 01:11:48,750 They're all very strong and independent. 1888 01:11:48,833 --> 01:11:50,708 And those are traits that I'm looking for in my wife. 1889 01:11:50,792 --> 01:11:52,292 Ooh, baby. 1890 01:11:52,375 --> 01:11:53,542 - I don't know why you like that. 1891 01:11:53,625 --> 01:11:54,667 - Definitely a morning shot. - Tux time, baby. 1892 01:11:54,833 --> 01:11:56,167 - Tux time. 1893 01:11:56,208 --> 01:11:59,042 ♪ 1894 01:11:59,125 --> 01:12:01,667 - ♪ It's gonna go on 1895 01:12:01,792 --> 01:12:03,292 ♪ Yeah 1896 01:12:03,375 --> 01:12:06,250 ♪ It's gonna go on 1897 01:12:06,333 --> 01:12:08,500 ♪ You ready for a good time? 1898 01:12:08,542 --> 01:12:10,792 ♪ It's gonna go on 1899 01:12:10,875 --> 01:12:11,958 ♪ Yeah 1900 01:12:12,042 --> 01:12:13,750 ♪ You ready for a good time? 1901 01:12:13,875 --> 01:12:14,875 ♪ It's gonna go on 1902 01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:17,708 - I'm excited to have her come into this family. 1903 01:12:17,792 --> 01:12:19,458 - Me too. It's someone new. 1904 01:12:19,542 --> 01:12:21,708 - Yeah, someone new. We got a clean slate. 1905 01:12:21,792 --> 01:12:23,000 Yeah, we might have to break her in a little bit 1906 01:12:23,083 --> 01:12:25,333 on how we talk and our antics. 1907 01:12:25,375 --> 01:12:27,167 But it's love. 1908 01:12:27,208 --> 01:12:28,917 - If you just be yourself, it'll be fine. 1909 01:12:29,042 --> 01:12:30,875 - Yeah, you got this far. 1910 01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:31,958 - Yeah, I got here. 1911 01:12:32,083 --> 01:12:33,083 - And it wasn't your looks. 1912 01:12:33,208 --> 01:12:35,542 [laughter] 1913 01:12:37,250 --> 01:12:38,958 - You're always full of surprises. 1914 01:12:39,042 --> 01:12:40,417 - Yeah. 1915 01:12:40,500 --> 01:12:43,667 - And you've come a long way. 1916 01:12:43,750 --> 01:12:45,667 - I remember you'd cry to get on the school bus. 1917 01:12:45,750 --> 01:12:47,917 Like, you were so scared of everything. 1918 01:12:47,917 --> 01:12:50,167 Like, I would have to come get you during recess 1919 01:12:50,208 --> 01:12:52,250 because you had no friends. 1920 01:12:52,333 --> 01:12:54,833 - You always seemed more of the shy one. 1921 01:12:54,875 --> 01:12:58,083 You didn't want the attention. You didn't wanna stand out. 1922 01:12:58,167 --> 01:13:01,458 - Now you're so brave and fun, and you're just, 1923 01:13:01,542 --> 01:13:02,833 like, marrying a stranger. 1924 01:13:02,917 --> 01:13:04,333 I mean-- 1925 01:13:04,375 --> 01:13:07,667 - You became a strong, independent woman. 1926 01:13:07,750 --> 01:13:10,375 You weren't afraid to go out and try new things, 1927 01:13:10,375 --> 01:13:12,292 meet new people. - Right. 1928 01:13:12,375 --> 01:13:13,292 - And I'm so proud of you for that. 1929 01:13:13,375 --> 01:13:14,958 - Thank you. 1930 01:13:15,042 --> 01:13:16,792 But now I'm so used to doing everything. 1931 01:13:16,875 --> 01:13:18,292 I don't think about anyone else but myself. 1932 01:13:18,292 --> 01:13:19,333 You know what I mean? 1933 01:13:19,417 --> 01:13:20,750 Like, that will be so hard. 1934 01:13:20,833 --> 01:13:22,500 Like, if I, like, stay late at work, 1935 01:13:22,583 --> 01:13:24,417 like I have to give someone a head's up about that? 1936 01:13:24,542 --> 01:13:26,083 You know what I mean? 1937 01:13:26,167 --> 01:13:27,667 Like, that'll be, like, such an adjustment for me. 1938 01:13:27,750 --> 01:13:29,125 - You have to start thinking about someone else too. 1939 01:13:29,208 --> 01:13:30,458 - Right, yeah. 1940 01:13:30,542 --> 01:13:32,625 - For sure. 1941 01:13:32,708 --> 01:13:34,958 - Know that you always got a partner now. 1942 01:13:34,958 --> 01:13:35,917 Nothing's-- 1943 01:13:36,000 --> 01:13:37,500 - Just me, me, me. 1944 01:13:37,583 --> 01:13:39,292 - Yeah, everything you gotta do is-- 1945 01:13:39,375 --> 01:13:40,333 - A we. 1946 01:13:40,417 --> 01:13:41,542 - Is a we. 1947 01:13:41,667 --> 01:13:42,833 - What's that little book you got? 1948 01:13:42,917 --> 01:13:44,833 Oh, that's where your speech is at? 1949 01:13:44,917 --> 01:13:47,542 - No, this, actually, Paige gave to me on my wedding-- 1950 01:13:47,667 --> 01:13:50,542 "Stuff Every Husband Should Know." 1951 01:13:50,625 --> 01:13:51,625 - That's a big-ass book. 1952 01:13:51,708 --> 01:13:54,292 - Nah, for you, probably. 1953 01:13:54,292 --> 01:13:58,625 It tells you how to make the bed, how to make decisions. 1954 01:13:58,708 --> 01:14:03,417 But I think for you, don't react quickly. 1955 01:14:03,500 --> 01:14:04,500 - Listen. 1956 01:14:04,667 --> 01:14:06,792 - Listen, take it in. 1957 01:14:06,875 --> 01:14:09,042 You have to understand what she's saying, not just listen. 1958 01:14:09,167 --> 01:14:12,292 But you gotta comprehend it and see from her side. 1959 01:14:12,375 --> 01:14:13,708 It's gonna be hard, trust me. 1960 01:14:13,792 --> 01:14:15,333 And it's not always gonna happen. 1961 01:14:15,458 --> 01:14:17,167 But maybe you communicate that you don't 1962 01:14:17,292 --> 01:14:18,875 know how to react to this. 1963 01:14:18,958 --> 01:14:21,125 That's better than just shutting down 1964 01:14:21,208 --> 01:14:24,000 like you do sometimes, so. 1965 01:14:24,042 --> 01:14:25,625 - And I've admitted that during this process. 1966 01:14:25,625 --> 01:14:29,000 And they've asked me what my-- my faults are. 1967 01:14:29,083 --> 01:14:30,542 But I wanna thank you for this, because I know this 1968 01:14:30,625 --> 01:14:32,167 is gonna go a long way. 1969 01:14:32,208 --> 01:14:33,792 - I love you, baby. - Thank you. 1970 01:14:33,917 --> 01:14:35,000 Because I see you doing good, and you 1971 01:14:35,042 --> 01:14:36,208 have a good success rate, so this book 1972 01:14:36,292 --> 01:14:38,042 must be doing some good. 1973 01:14:38,125 --> 01:14:40,292 But yeah, I'm gonna fight to--to the death of me. 1974 01:14:40,375 --> 01:14:42,083 Like, I want to. 1975 01:14:42,083 --> 01:14:45,833 You know, I've seen Dad, Grandma and Grandpa's marriage. 1976 01:14:45,958 --> 01:14:49,875 Jerry, your marriage, yours and Paige's marriage, Mom and Dad. 1977 01:14:49,958 --> 01:14:53,875 You know, they're all successful and amazing. 1978 01:14:53,958 --> 01:14:57,000 So, yeah, failure is not an option for me. 1979 01:14:57,125 --> 01:15:01,750 ♪ 1980 01:15:01,750 --> 01:15:06,417 - ♪ I don't want today just to be another day ♪ 1981 01:15:06,500 --> 01:15:08,500 ♪ I feel it rising 1982 01:15:08,583 --> 01:15:09,917 ♪ Yeah 1983 01:15:10,042 --> 01:15:12,375 ♪ It's coming on now 1984 01:15:12,458 --> 01:15:14,167 ♪ Feel it rising 1985 01:15:14,292 --> 01:15:17,125 - Okay. Ooh! 1986 01:15:17,208 --> 01:15:18,667 - Oh, my God. 1987 01:15:18,750 --> 01:15:20,667 So pretty. - I love it. 1988 01:15:20,750 --> 01:15:21,625 - Wow. 1989 01:15:21,708 --> 01:15:23,583 - ♪ And I believe it 1990 01:15:23,667 --> 01:15:26,875 ♪ Believe it, today is my day ♪ 1991 01:15:26,958 --> 01:15:27,917 - Stunning. 1992 01:15:28,000 --> 01:15:29,125 - Yeah, gorgeous. 1993 01:15:29,208 --> 01:15:30,333 - [laughs] 1994 01:15:30,375 --> 01:15:32,458 - It's so pretty. - You like? 1995 01:15:32,542 --> 01:15:33,833 - Yeah. - That's really pretty. 1996 01:15:33,917 --> 01:15:34,875 - Cute? - Wow. 1997 01:15:34,958 --> 01:15:36,000 - I love it. 1998 01:15:36,083 --> 01:15:37,292 - It looks beautiful. - So pretty. 1999 01:15:37,375 --> 01:15:39,125 - Yay. - Gorgeous. 2000 01:15:39,208 --> 01:15:40,375 Your husband's gonna be like-- 2001 01:15:40,458 --> 01:15:42,042 - Whoo. 2002 01:15:42,125 --> 01:15:44,125 - He's gonna be like, I'm marrying up, for sure. 2003 01:15:44,208 --> 01:15:46,667 - [laughs] Do you feel ready? 2004 01:15:46,708 --> 01:15:49,667 - Yeah, but this is still scary situation. 2005 01:15:49,792 --> 01:15:52,667 Hopefully no tears, but yeah. - Yeah. 2006 01:15:52,708 --> 01:15:55,083 - I think internally I am just like-- 2007 01:15:55,208 --> 01:15:57,750 I'm even like nervous to walk down and like, see my friends. 2008 01:15:57,833 --> 01:15:59,417 Like, you know what I mean? 2009 01:15:59,500 --> 01:16:01,292 I'm very nervous to see his friends and family. 2010 01:16:01,292 --> 01:16:04,417 But yeah, I think there's just a whole bunch of 2011 01:16:04,417 --> 01:16:06,875 "this is happening" going through my mind. 2012 01:16:06,958 --> 01:16:09,417 I'm sweating profusely as well, so hopefully, this dress 2013 01:16:09,500 --> 01:16:11,667 doesn't look like it. [laughs] 2014 01:16:11,750 --> 01:16:13,167 Are you guys getting nervous? 2015 01:16:13,250 --> 01:16:14,917 - Surprisingly, no. 2016 01:16:14,917 --> 01:16:16,167 I thought I would be very nervous at this point, 2017 01:16:16,250 --> 01:16:17,333 but I'm actually feeling good. 2018 01:16:17,417 --> 01:16:19,042 - I just can't wait to see who it is. 2019 01:16:19,125 --> 01:16:20,167 - Me too. 2020 01:16:20,208 --> 01:16:22,208 - Well, hello, hello. 2021 01:16:22,375 --> 01:16:24,208 - Hey. 2022 01:16:24,333 --> 01:16:27,417 - Look at you guys. 2023 01:16:27,500 --> 01:16:29,833 - Aw. Y'all want me to start crying? 2024 01:16:29,917 --> 01:16:31,875 - Come on. 2025 01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:33,333 Come on, man. 2026 01:16:33,417 --> 01:16:35,417 [laughs] 2027 01:16:35,500 --> 01:16:36,625 - You look beautiful, by the way. 2028 01:16:36,708 --> 01:16:37,667 - Thank you. 2029 01:16:37,792 --> 01:16:40,125 So how do you feel right now? 2030 01:16:40,208 --> 01:16:43,333 - I feel real confident. 2031 01:16:43,333 --> 01:16:46,958 Nervous still, but-- 2032 01:16:47,042 --> 01:16:47,958 [sighs] 2033 01:16:48,042 --> 01:16:49,333 - Aw. 2034 01:16:49,375 --> 01:16:51,917 ♪ 2035 01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:54,500 - I want you to know that I love you guys dearly. 2036 01:16:54,542 --> 01:16:56,833 And thank you for all the support. 2037 01:16:56,875 --> 01:16:58,625 I wanna be another proud Trimble 2038 01:16:58,708 --> 01:17:01,042 and another success story. 2039 01:17:01,125 --> 01:17:04,167 You guys have given me everything that I need to-- 2040 01:17:04,208 --> 01:17:05,958 for success. 2041 01:17:06,042 --> 01:17:08,958 Everything that you guys have provided for me, from school 2042 01:17:09,042 --> 01:17:13,292 to life and everything I know as a man comes 2043 01:17:13,375 --> 01:17:16,208 from you two, you three and-- 2044 01:17:16,292 --> 01:17:18,625 ♪ 2045 01:17:18,708 --> 01:17:21,625 - Oh, you know this is rough for me, son. 2046 01:17:21,708 --> 01:17:25,792 - Giving his baby away, giving his firstborn away. 2047 01:17:25,875 --> 01:17:27,500 ♪ 2048 01:17:27,542 --> 01:17:29,125 - It is scary leaving the nest. 2049 01:17:29,208 --> 01:17:33,000 But I love my family dearly, and the nest that I'm leaving 2050 01:17:33,042 --> 01:17:37,333 is a nest that they created with respect, loyalty, honesty, 2051 01:17:37,375 --> 01:17:38,875 and comfort and support. 2052 01:17:38,875 --> 01:17:42,750 So I'm planning to take all those traits 2053 01:17:42,875 --> 01:17:46,375 and present those to my wife. 2054 01:17:46,458 --> 01:17:49,333 One thing that I'm really kind of nervous about 2055 01:17:49,417 --> 01:17:52,333 is, like, the whole you live in your parents' basement. 2056 01:17:52,417 --> 01:17:53,792 Like, I'm that guy in the basement. 2057 01:17:53,875 --> 01:17:56,708 That's kind of like a judgment thing to me. 2058 01:17:56,792 --> 01:17:58,167 I'm like, I can move out. 2059 01:17:58,250 --> 01:17:59,958 I got two jobs. I have two careers. 2060 01:18:00,042 --> 01:18:03,208 Like, I choose to stay at home because I'd 2061 01:18:03,292 --> 01:18:04,708 rather not pay rent. 2062 01:18:04,833 --> 01:18:06,583 I'd rather buy or own something. 2063 01:18:06,667 --> 01:18:08,667 Sometimes, people leave the house because they don't want 2064 01:18:08,792 --> 01:18:09,583 to be next to their parents. 2065 01:18:09,667 --> 01:18:11,083 I love you dearly. 2066 01:18:11,167 --> 01:18:11,958 - [laughs] 2067 01:18:12,042 --> 01:18:13,292 - I don't want you to go. 2068 01:18:13,375 --> 01:18:14,500 [laughter] 2069 01:18:14,583 --> 01:18:16,167 - And that's one of a kind. 2070 01:18:16,167 --> 01:18:17,875 There's not a lot of people that have that relationship 2071 01:18:17,958 --> 01:18:20,333 with their parents, and I'm so grateful for it. 2072 01:18:20,375 --> 01:18:23,292 And I will hold that tight to me for until I'm six feet deep. 2073 01:18:23,292 --> 01:18:23,833 And I will hold that tight to me for until I'm six feet deep. 2074 01:18:24,042 --> 01:18:25,458 Like, that ain't going nowhere. 2075 01:18:25,583 --> 01:18:27,458 Like, so I just hope she understands. 2076 01:18:27,542 --> 01:18:30,750 ♪ 2077 01:18:34,500 --> 01:18:35,292 [upbeat music] 2078 01:18:35,458 --> 01:18:37,458 - ♪ All along had it in me 2079 01:18:37,542 --> 01:18:39,500 - Are we ready to meet this new bride? 2080 01:18:39,750 --> 01:18:41,833 - Are you guys ready? Because I know I am. 2081 01:18:41,917 --> 01:18:43,792 - I'm not gonna say I'm not gonna cry when 2082 01:18:43,875 --> 01:18:45,250 I walk you down that aisle. - I already put tissue. 2083 01:18:45,333 --> 01:18:46,500 - I know you're gonna cry. - I already put tissue. 2084 01:18:46,583 --> 01:18:47,792 - I'm just not gonna look at you. 2085 01:18:47,917 --> 01:18:49,125 - I got tissue in each pocket. - I am ready. 2086 01:18:49,208 --> 01:18:51,167 - I know your mother. - [laughs] Let's go. 2087 01:18:51,250 --> 01:18:52,583 - Mwah. 2088 01:18:52,667 --> 01:18:54,292 I love you, son. - Love you, Papa. 2089 01:18:54,292 --> 01:18:55,833 Let's do this. 2090 01:18:55,875 --> 01:18:57,500 Nervous? [bleep] yeah. 2091 01:18:57,583 --> 01:18:58,917 Suit has gotten a little tighter. 2092 01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:00,625 Neck's gotten a little tighter. 2093 01:19:00,750 --> 01:19:03,500 I'm shaking. I do have the goosebumps. 2094 01:19:03,583 --> 01:19:05,125 Oh, man. 2095 01:19:05,208 --> 01:19:06,500 - Yeah? - Yeah. 2096 01:19:06,625 --> 01:19:08,167 - Yeah? 2097 01:19:08,208 --> 01:19:10,250 Getting in--getting-- getting the feels, huh? 2098 01:19:10,333 --> 01:19:12,625 - Uh-huh. - [laughs] 2099 01:19:12,708 --> 01:19:14,542 - You're gonna have a [bleep] wife, dude. 2100 01:19:14,667 --> 01:19:15,542 Like, that's cool. 2101 01:19:15,667 --> 01:19:16,667 - All right, relax. 2102 01:19:16,667 --> 01:19:18,208 Don't--don't scare him. 2103 01:19:18,333 --> 01:19:21,417 - I'm sorry, Mama, but time has come to leave the nest. 2104 01:19:21,500 --> 01:19:22,667 It's a little scary. 2105 01:19:22,750 --> 01:19:23,833 She don't know nothing about me. 2106 01:19:23,958 --> 01:19:25,417 I don't know nothing about her. 2107 01:19:25,500 --> 01:19:27,167 Everybody's got a past. She's got luggage. 2108 01:19:27,250 --> 01:19:28,500 I got luggage. 2109 01:19:28,583 --> 01:19:30,000 But the luggage I've left at the door 2110 01:19:30,083 --> 01:19:32,000 now that I'm walking through this threshold. 2111 01:19:32,042 --> 01:19:34,958 And I hope she's ready to do the same. 2112 01:19:35,042 --> 01:19:37,375 ♪ 2113 01:19:37,458 --> 01:19:38,667 - You know how I feel. 2114 01:19:38,750 --> 01:19:39,833 - I know. 2115 01:19:39,917 --> 01:19:41,333 - It's gonna be a big empty nest, 2116 01:19:41,458 --> 01:19:43,000 but I'm gaining a daughter. 2117 01:19:43,083 --> 01:19:45,042 - You're gaining a daughter. 2118 01:19:45,125 --> 01:19:47,833 But at the empty nest is a great empty nest. 2119 01:19:47,875 --> 01:19:50,000 Because it's not like we ran away from you. 2120 01:19:50,125 --> 01:19:51,000 I stayed-- 2121 01:19:51,125 --> 01:19:52,333 - Our doors are always open. 2122 01:19:52,458 --> 01:19:53,250 - I stayed as long as I could. 2123 01:19:53,333 --> 01:19:54,583 [laughs] 2124 01:19:54,667 --> 01:19:55,792 - And the doors are always open. 2125 01:19:55,875 --> 01:19:57,583 You know that. You know that. 2126 01:19:57,708 --> 01:19:59,958 ♪ 2127 01:20:00,042 --> 01:20:02,500 I'm full of joy, but it's happy tears. 2128 01:20:02,583 --> 01:20:04,000 - I know. 2129 01:20:04,125 --> 01:20:06,083 All right, let go of my hand. 2130 01:20:06,167 --> 01:20:07,833 - I don't want to. - You're not gonna let go? 2131 01:20:07,958 --> 01:20:10,417 - I don't want to. - I know. [laughs] 2132 01:20:10,500 --> 01:20:12,500 ♪ I know 2133 01:20:12,583 --> 01:20:14,208 ♪ 2134 01:20:14,292 --> 01:20:15,167 ♪ I know 2135 01:20:15,250 --> 01:20:18,875 - Hello, everybody. [laughs] 2136 01:20:18,958 --> 01:20:21,167 Thank you guys for waiting and being so patient. 2137 01:20:21,250 --> 01:20:22,417 [laughs] 2138 01:20:22,542 --> 01:20:25,083 -♪ You're all I need 2139 01:20:25,167 --> 01:20:27,000 - Oh, hey! 2140 01:20:27,042 --> 01:20:28,333 Hi. 2141 01:20:28,500 --> 01:20:30,208 - Love you, sweetheart. 2142 01:20:30,292 --> 01:20:33,208 - Love you too. We're not crying today. 2143 01:20:33,375 --> 01:20:34,667 - She said for us to get it together. 2144 01:20:34,750 --> 01:20:36,000 - Yeah. 2145 01:20:36,083 --> 01:20:37,583 - I'm excited for you. - Me too. 2146 01:20:37,667 --> 01:20:38,750 - Okay. Good luck. 2147 01:20:38,875 --> 01:20:39,958 Love you. - Love you, sweetheart. 2148 01:20:40,042 --> 01:20:41,667 - You gotta stay. - I gotta stay. 2149 01:20:41,708 --> 01:20:43,083 - Yeah, you're with me. - Cool. 2150 01:20:43,208 --> 01:20:45,542 - Love you. - Hi, honey bunch. 2151 01:20:45,625 --> 01:20:47,292 Man, that's a purdy dress. - Yeah. 2152 01:20:47,375 --> 01:20:49,083 - Holy mackerel. 2153 01:20:49,167 --> 01:20:51,667 Boy don't know what he's getting. [laughs] 2154 01:20:51,750 --> 01:20:54,042 I mean, you're a special woman. - Thank you. 2155 01:20:54,125 --> 01:20:55,625 - And you always have been. 2156 01:20:55,708 --> 01:20:56,917 You know, you've-- everything you've done 2157 01:20:57,000 --> 01:20:58,250 you've been good at. 2158 01:20:58,375 --> 01:21:00,042 - Tried to. 2159 01:21:00,125 --> 01:21:03,000 - Every decision you've made, it was 99% right decisions. 2160 01:21:03,083 --> 01:21:04,417 - Yeah, couple mistakes here and there, but-- 2161 01:21:04,542 --> 01:21:06,083 - Yeah. 2162 01:21:06,167 --> 01:21:07,833 And I think anyone would have some concerns 2163 01:21:07,917 --> 01:21:09,333 about how this is-- 2164 01:21:09,375 --> 01:21:10,333 - Yeah, yeah. 2165 01:21:10,417 --> 01:21:12,167 - Become here it is. 2166 01:21:12,250 --> 01:21:14,958 But the fact of the matter is, I know how smart you are. 2167 01:21:15,042 --> 01:21:16,542 I know how strong you are. 2168 01:21:16,625 --> 01:21:19,417 I know the smartest young woman I've ever been around. 2169 01:21:19,542 --> 01:21:20,750 - Yeah. 2170 01:21:20,750 --> 01:21:21,667 - It's okay. 2171 01:21:21,708 --> 01:21:23,375 Well, you guys! 2172 01:21:23,458 --> 01:21:24,792 - I did it upstairs. 2173 01:21:24,875 --> 01:21:26,917 So give us our moment. 2174 01:21:27,042 --> 01:21:29,667 - I've been blessed by all your mother 2175 01:21:29,750 --> 01:21:34,583 and your sisters and such good, beautiful people you all are. 2176 01:21:34,667 --> 01:21:35,958 And, God, I love you. 2177 01:21:36,042 --> 01:21:37,458 - Oh, I love you too, Dad. 2178 01:21:37,458 --> 01:21:38,708 Thank you for coming. 2179 01:21:38,792 --> 01:21:40,958 ♪ 2180 01:21:41,042 --> 01:21:42,458 - He's getting a beautiful girl. 2181 01:21:42,542 --> 01:21:44,667 He's getting a good lady. 2182 01:21:44,792 --> 01:21:46,000 He's getting a good family-- 2183 01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:48,542 - Yes. - With it. 2184 01:21:48,625 --> 01:21:50,500 And he'll be getting more of me if he ever messes with you. 2185 01:21:50,625 --> 01:21:52,167 [laughter] 2186 01:21:52,250 --> 01:21:53,875 - Noted. 2187 01:21:53,958 --> 01:21:56,042 I still feel really good about my decision 2188 01:21:56,125 --> 01:21:57,542 to marry a stranger. 2189 01:21:57,667 --> 01:21:59,042 I know it's crazy. 2190 01:21:59,125 --> 01:22:00,750 I feel a little bit crazy for doing it, 2191 01:22:00,833 --> 01:22:02,583 but deep down it feels-- feels right. 2192 01:22:02,708 --> 01:22:09,250 ♪ 2193 01:22:09,333 --> 01:22:10,833 - Please stand. 2194 01:22:10,958 --> 01:22:13,250 ♪ 2195 01:22:13,375 --> 01:22:15,375 - Oh, man. 2196 01:22:15,458 --> 01:22:22,250 ♪ 2197 01:22:28,167 --> 01:22:31,167 - Holy [bleep]. I'm getting nervous now. 2198 01:22:31,208 --> 01:22:33,917 ♪ 2199 01:22:34,000 --> 01:22:36,083 - ♪ Keep on moving, moving 2200 01:22:36,167 --> 01:22:38,833 - Next time on "Married at First Sight," 2201 01:22:38,875 --> 01:22:40,875 our remaining couple meets for the very 2202 01:22:40,958 --> 01:22:42,458 first time at the altar. 2203 01:22:42,542 --> 01:22:44,333 - Oh, man. 2204 01:22:44,375 --> 01:22:47,792 - And our newlyweds begin their married lives together. 2205 01:22:47,875 --> 01:22:49,375 - Nuzzle your nose on my temple. 2206 01:22:49,458 --> 01:22:51,167 - Maybe. - [laughs] 2207 01:22:51,208 --> 01:22:52,625 - You have to kiss me. 2208 01:22:52,708 --> 01:22:54,083 - Oh, yeah? 2209 01:22:54,167 --> 01:22:56,667 - I can see this being my forever person. 2210 01:22:56,792 --> 01:22:59,500 I feel like a giddy little girl. 2211 01:22:59,583 --> 01:23:01,750 Like, he's making me blush. 2212 01:23:01,875 --> 01:23:03,000 - I was never married, but I was in, like, 2213 01:23:03,083 --> 01:23:05,500 a nine-year relationship. - Were you? Okay. 2214 01:23:05,625 --> 01:23:07,375 He was with someone for nine years. 2215 01:23:07,500 --> 01:23:09,917 How is he gonna be able to know that 2216 01:23:10,042 --> 01:23:11,667 he's ready to be married now? 2217 01:23:11,708 --> 01:23:13,792 - He cheated. 2218 01:23:13,875 --> 01:23:15,708 - He flows with a plan. 2219 01:23:15,792 --> 01:23:19,083 - I flow with no plan. 2220 01:23:19,167 --> 01:23:21,000 - You have a way with words. 2221 01:23:21,083 --> 01:23:23,042 But I mean, at the end of day, like, I don't know you. 2222 01:23:23,125 --> 01:23:25,833 You might say one thing, and your actions show another. 2223 01:23:25,917 --> 01:23:29,625 ♪ 2224 01:23:32,875 --> 01:23:34,583 - ♪ Get up, get up, get up, get up ♪ 2225 01:23:34,667 --> 01:23:37,958 ♪ We about to get it started 2226 01:23:38,042 --> 01:23:39,833 [cheers and applause] 2227 01:23:39,917 --> 01:23:41,792 ♪ Let's go 2228 01:23:41,875 --> 01:23:43,333 - Hello, MAFS family, 2229 01:23:43,417 --> 01:23:45,167 and welcome to a brand-new episode 2230 01:23:45,292 --> 01:23:47,292 of the "Married at First Sight Afterparty." 2231 01:23:47,375 --> 01:23:49,083 I'm your host, Keshia Knight Pulliam, 2232 01:23:49,167 --> 01:23:50,917 and I can't wait to get 2233 01:23:51,000 --> 01:23:53,208 the inside scoop about tonight's weddings 2234 01:23:53,292 --> 01:23:55,500 from Karla, Madison, and Ikechi. 2235 01:23:55,583 --> 01:23:58,000 Welcome to the "Afterparty," everyone. 2236 01:23:58,083 --> 01:23:59,208 I got it right, right? - You did get it right. 2237 01:23:59,333 --> 01:24:01,042 - OK, Ikechi, I got you. 2238 01:24:01,125 --> 01:24:03,792 So, Ikechi, listen, it is so great to meet you. 2239 01:24:03,875 --> 01:24:05,042 - It's good to meet you as well. 2240 01:24:05,125 --> 01:24:06,167 - Are you excited to be here tonight? 2241 01:24:06,250 --> 01:24:07,208 - I'm excited. - You are? 2242 01:24:07,292 --> 01:24:08,708 You sure? - Yeah. 2243 01:24:08,792 --> 01:24:10,000 [laughter] 2244 01:24:10,083 --> 01:24:11,500 - Because I know you're cool, man. 2245 01:24:11,542 --> 01:24:14,500 I know you got the poems and the words and the songs. 2246 01:24:14,542 --> 01:24:16,208 But don't be too cool for school today, OK? 2247 01:24:16,292 --> 01:24:17,583 - I'll try. I'll try. 2248 01:24:17,708 --> 01:24:19,250 - OK. Karla and Madison, 2249 01:24:19,333 --> 01:24:21,167 welcome back, ladies. - Thank you. 2250 01:24:21,208 --> 01:24:22,792 - It's so wonderful to have you. 2251 01:24:22,917 --> 01:24:24,208 - So good to see you again. - You excited? 2252 01:24:24,208 --> 01:24:25,125 - Yes. - Let's do it. 2253 01:24:25,208 --> 01:24:26,083 - You's married now. 2254 01:24:26,167 --> 01:24:27,083 - Mm-hmm. 2255 01:24:27,167 --> 01:24:28,667 - I'm excited now. 2256 01:24:28,750 --> 01:24:30,875 So in honor of your marriages, 2257 01:24:31,000 --> 01:24:34,708 we are calling tonight's signature cocktail 2258 01:24:34,792 --> 01:24:36,958 the Matrimony Mai Tai. 2259 01:24:37,042 --> 01:24:38,167 - Ooh. 2260 01:24:38,208 --> 01:24:39,833 - This drink contains white rum, 2261 01:24:39,958 --> 01:24:43,000 coconut rum, pineapple juice, orange juice, and grenadine. 2262 01:24:43,000 --> 01:24:44,167 Cheers. 2263 01:24:46,458 --> 01:24:48,000 Mmm. OK. 2264 01:24:48,083 --> 01:24:50,333 Let's get this afterparty started, why don't we? 2265 01:24:50,458 --> 01:24:52,917 OK, Madison, on tonight's episode, 2266 01:24:53,000 --> 01:24:55,292 you went from miss to missus. 2267 01:24:55,375 --> 01:24:58,958 Let's take a look at the first time you met your husband. 2268 01:24:59,042 --> 01:25:00,583 Play the clip. 2269 01:25:02,542 --> 01:25:05,542 - Madison's family and friends want you to know that Madison 2270 01:25:05,667 --> 01:25:07,708 is cheerful, social, and always the light 2271 01:25:07,833 --> 01:25:09,167 in any room she enters. 2272 01:25:09,208 --> 01:25:11,333 In addition to her intelligence, 2273 01:25:11,417 --> 01:25:15,250 Madison has a thirst for adventure and spontaneity. 2274 01:25:15,333 --> 01:25:18,333 Madison is a true globetrotter who loves to travel. 2275 01:25:18,417 --> 01:25:21,333 Last year, Madison was traveling in Germany, 2276 01:25:21,458 --> 01:25:23,792 where she earned herself a memorable expulsion 2277 01:25:23,792 --> 01:25:25,125 from Oktoberfest-- 2278 01:25:25,208 --> 01:25:27,167 - Oh! [laughter] 2279 01:25:27,250 --> 01:25:29,750 - For standing on a table and chugging a beer. 2280 01:25:31,375 --> 01:25:32,667 - Aw! 2281 01:25:32,792 --> 01:25:35,333 So, OK, what is it like watching this back? 2282 01:25:35,417 --> 01:25:37,167 - I am so excited, honestly. 2283 01:25:37,208 --> 01:25:40,125 Like, I feel like I'm refilled with so many emotions 2284 01:25:40,250 --> 01:25:41,750 that I was feeling that day. 2285 01:25:41,875 --> 01:25:44,000 Seeing the person who I've been thinking about 2286 01:25:44,125 --> 01:25:46,042 for the last few weeks, it's all real, 2287 01:25:46,208 --> 01:25:48,167 and it's coming into full, you know, fruition. 2288 01:25:48,250 --> 01:25:50,833 And the fact that we had similar stories between friends 2289 01:25:50,875 --> 01:25:52,500 with the Germany-- 2290 01:25:52,583 --> 01:25:53,833 - Listen, we going to get back to the Oktoberfest. 2291 01:25:53,917 --> 01:25:56,000 - Don't worry. We will. We will. 2292 01:25:56,083 --> 01:25:58,000 - So I didn't think it was possible to get 2293 01:25:58,042 --> 01:25:59,542 thrown out of Oktoberfest. - Right. 2294 01:25:59,625 --> 01:26:01,583 - It was like a temporary expulsion, 2295 01:26:01,708 --> 01:26:03,000 I would say like a suspension, not expulsion. 2296 01:26:03,083 --> 01:26:05,167 I like, needed a 45-minute timeout. 2297 01:26:05,208 --> 01:26:07,042 - Oh, OK. So it was more like a timeout. 2298 01:26:07,167 --> 01:26:08,542 - Yeah, I was able to get back in. 2299 01:26:08,625 --> 01:26:10,667 It's apparently frowned upon to like, 2300 01:26:10,750 --> 01:26:12,875 kneel on the top of the tables and chug your beer, 2301 01:26:12,958 --> 01:26:15,333 which I'm like, what else are you supposed to do there? 2302 01:26:15,458 --> 01:26:18,500 And it was probably the most epic experience of my life. 2303 01:26:18,583 --> 01:26:19,792 I can't wait to show my kids someday. 2304 01:26:19,875 --> 01:26:21,417 - Oh, I love it. 2305 01:26:21,500 --> 01:26:23,542 So I want to bring you guys into the conversation. 2306 01:26:23,625 --> 01:26:26,250 Tell me, what are your thoughts watching that? 2307 01:26:26,333 --> 01:26:30,625 - I love that they shared a little moment and a giggle. 2308 01:26:30,750 --> 01:26:33,500 So I think it's, like, a nice way to, like, 2309 01:26:33,625 --> 01:26:36,208 ease the tension, the nerves. 2310 01:26:36,208 --> 01:26:37,500 So I like how playful they were. 2311 01:26:37,667 --> 01:26:39,167 - Ikechi. 2312 01:26:39,250 --> 01:26:41,958 - I definitely saw the jovialness, the jokes, 2313 01:26:41,958 --> 01:26:43,333 and into the ceremony. 2314 01:26:43,375 --> 01:26:45,833 It was--it was very, very playful. 2315 01:26:45,917 --> 01:26:47,667 - Mm-hmm. - It felt good. 2316 01:26:47,792 --> 01:26:50,333 - Yeah, I'm going to tell you, you guys had some chemistry. 2317 01:26:50,375 --> 01:26:52,833 I don't know what's going to happen, but I saw it. 2318 01:26:52,917 --> 01:26:55,667 I was like, this right here, I'm rooting for this. 2319 01:26:55,708 --> 01:27:00,000 While Madison took the plunge into matrimonial bliss, 2320 01:27:00,083 --> 01:27:04,750 Karla, you were gearing up for your own very big day. 2321 01:27:04,875 --> 01:27:06,458 Let's watch that back. 2322 01:27:08,625 --> 01:27:14,292 - Mommy did write you a letter that she wanted you to read. 2323 01:27:17,042 --> 01:27:20,000 - It's OK. 2324 01:27:20,042 --> 01:27:22,542 - "This might not be the way I envisioned you getting married, 2325 01:27:22,625 --> 01:27:25,000 but you are doing it your way. 2326 01:27:25,083 --> 01:27:28,125 You have always beaten to the rhythm of your own drum." 2327 01:27:28,208 --> 01:27:29,958 - Aw. 2328 01:27:30,042 --> 01:27:32,792 - "I just hope that this new beginning has a forever ending. 2329 01:27:32,875 --> 01:27:36,208 Love you to the moon and back, Norma, your mother." 2330 01:27:36,292 --> 01:27:39,333 Oh, this was beautiful. 2331 01:27:39,375 --> 01:27:41,125 - How does that feel? 2332 01:27:41,208 --> 01:27:43,375 - Oh, it feels so beautiful. 2333 01:27:43,500 --> 01:27:45,917 I love my family so, so, so much. 2334 01:27:46,000 --> 01:27:48,542 And my mom is--honestly, I could cry right now. 2335 01:27:48,667 --> 01:27:50,417 Anytime I think of, like, my family, 2336 01:27:50,417 --> 01:27:53,333 I just get filled with so much emotional--emotion 2337 01:27:53,375 --> 01:27:56,083 because my parents are my best friends, 2338 01:27:56,167 --> 01:27:58,125 my siblings are my best friends, 2339 01:27:58,208 --> 01:28:02,542 and the support and love that I feel is just out of this world. 2340 01:28:02,708 --> 01:28:04,000 - I love that. 2341 01:28:04,125 --> 01:28:05,958 And you held it together really well. 2342 01:28:05,958 --> 01:28:09,708 And I know that you understood why your family wasn't there, 2343 01:28:09,833 --> 01:28:11,542 but was it still hard? 2344 01:28:11,667 --> 01:28:16,125 - Um, of course, I would love, like, my parents to be there. 2345 01:28:16,208 --> 01:28:19,625 But you know, if everything goes well, 2346 01:28:19,708 --> 01:28:23,583 I'm hoping one day he can go and ask for my hand in marriage 2347 01:28:23,667 --> 01:28:26,250 properly, like my parents have envisioned, 2348 01:28:26,375 --> 01:28:28,167 and we celebrate again. 2349 01:28:28,208 --> 01:28:29,583 - Oh, you said we're having another wedding. 2350 01:28:29,583 --> 01:28:30,833 This is just-- - That's another party. 2351 01:28:31,000 --> 01:28:32,167 - This is just the practice. 2352 01:28:32,250 --> 01:28:34,458 We'll have a whole nother one. OK. 2353 01:28:34,542 --> 01:28:38,417 Ikechi, was there anyone that you wished 2354 01:28:38,500 --> 01:28:40,333 could have been there that wasn't there? 2355 01:28:40,458 --> 01:28:42,375 - My dad couldn't have been there. 2356 01:28:42,458 --> 01:28:44,000 His wife was in the hospital. 2357 01:28:44,083 --> 01:28:45,417 - Oh, I'm sorry. 2358 01:28:45,500 --> 01:28:47,667 - She had surgery, so he had to be with her. 2359 01:28:47,708 --> 01:28:49,000 So I understood that situation. 2360 01:28:49,042 --> 01:28:50,000 But my brother's wife-- 2361 01:28:50,125 --> 01:28:51,625 - Your brother's wife. 2362 01:28:51,708 --> 01:28:53,792 - Is pregnant and due in a day or two. 2363 01:28:53,875 --> 01:28:54,708 - Oh, so he can't come either. - So he came. 2364 01:28:54,792 --> 01:28:56,417 He came. - But she had to stay. 2365 01:28:56,542 --> 01:28:58,708 - Yeah, she had to stay. - Oh, he loves you. 2366 01:28:58,708 --> 01:29:00,750 These babies, they come on their own time table, 2367 01:29:00,833 --> 01:29:02,833 so you really never know what's going to happen. 2368 01:29:06,792 --> 01:29:08,167 Romantic words can work wonders. 2369 01:29:08,208 --> 01:29:10,500 And, Ikechi-- hmm, hmm, hmm-- 2370 01:29:10,583 --> 01:29:14,583 you nailed it with the poem for your soon-to-be wife. 2371 01:29:14,667 --> 01:29:16,542 Let's watch that back. 2372 01:29:18,583 --> 01:29:21,708 - "To my future, how do I show you 2373 01:29:21,792 --> 01:29:23,875 "what would it take for our hearts 2374 01:29:24,000 --> 01:29:26,000 to simultaneously pulsate?" 2375 01:29:26,083 --> 01:29:27,375 Ooh, ooh! 2376 01:29:27,500 --> 01:29:28,458 - OK. - He got the bars. 2377 01:29:28,542 --> 01:29:31,000 He's got bars, bars. 2378 01:29:31,083 --> 01:29:33,458 - "Like a student attentively awaiting his lesson, 2379 01:29:33,542 --> 01:29:35,333 "I patiently anticipate. 2380 01:29:35,417 --> 01:29:37,667 Bell rings. Class is in session." 2381 01:29:37,750 --> 01:29:39,333 Come on, bars! 2382 01:29:39,458 --> 01:29:42,042 - OK, bars, bars, bars. 2383 01:29:42,125 --> 01:29:45,000 [imitating air horn] 2384 01:29:45,042 --> 01:29:48,500 - "Class is in session." - Ooh. 2385 01:29:48,500 --> 01:29:50,458 - He's poetic with it. OK. 2386 01:29:50,542 --> 01:29:52,333 - Can I tell you that was dope? 2387 01:29:52,417 --> 01:29:55,250 So what do you think of your wife's reaction? 2388 01:29:55,333 --> 01:29:56,583 - She felt it. They were feeling it. 2389 01:29:56,583 --> 01:29:57,958 - OK. 2390 01:29:58,042 --> 01:30:01,333 - I think I meant it in more of a romantic like-- 2391 01:30:01,417 --> 01:30:03,208 but--[laughs] 2392 01:30:03,333 --> 01:30:04,667 - I mean, you kind of have bars, though. 2393 01:30:04,750 --> 01:30:05,750 She was right. - You-- 2394 01:30:05,875 --> 01:30:07,250 - You do. 2395 01:30:07,375 --> 01:30:09,208 OK, but it was more of "this moment." 2396 01:30:09,208 --> 01:30:10,958 - Well, it was more of a heartfelt-- 2397 01:30:11,042 --> 01:30:12,542 - It was that cadence. 2398 01:30:12,667 --> 01:30:13,792 - Yeah, not Larenz Tate. 2399 01:30:13,875 --> 01:30:15,750 - OK. It wasn't "Love Jones"? 2400 01:30:15,833 --> 01:30:17,667 - It wasn't "Love Jones." - That is sexy, though. 2401 01:30:17,792 --> 01:30:20,667 - No, it was really about like, let's connect 2402 01:30:20,750 --> 01:30:23,833 on some higher things rather than just like, 2403 01:30:23,875 --> 01:30:25,417 oh, I have words. 2404 01:30:25,542 --> 01:30:27,292 I'm much more shy than that, than the-- 2405 01:30:27,375 --> 01:30:29,458 - Are you just an artist and sensitive about your [bleep]? 2406 01:30:29,542 --> 01:30:31,083 - Hell, yeah. I am. 2407 01:30:31,167 --> 01:30:33,375 I am. - OK, I understand. 2408 01:30:33,458 --> 01:30:35,750 And what I want you to see here is 2409 01:30:35,833 --> 01:30:38,500 that your desire was to connect to her heart, correct? 2410 01:30:38,500 --> 01:30:40,250 - True. - You did that. 2411 01:30:40,333 --> 01:30:41,458 So mission accomplished. 2412 01:30:41,542 --> 01:30:42,458 - Well, I did it. - You did it. 2413 01:30:42,542 --> 01:30:43,792 - I'm done. 2414 01:30:43,875 --> 01:30:45,000 - Stop being so hard on yourself. 2415 01:30:45,083 --> 01:30:46,167 - Yes, ma'am. 2416 01:30:46,250 --> 01:30:47,292 - OK, thank you very much. 2417 01:30:47,375 --> 01:30:48,750 - I think it's a beautiful thing 2418 01:30:48,833 --> 01:30:52,542 to be able to write your feelings down 2419 01:30:52,625 --> 01:30:56,583 with vulnerability and this rawness. 2420 01:30:56,708 --> 01:30:58,833 I would have been thrilled to have read something like that. 2421 01:30:58,958 --> 01:31:00,583 I think it's beautiful. - Thank you. 2422 01:31:00,667 --> 01:31:01,958 - How do you feel? 2423 01:31:02,042 --> 01:31:04,292 - Yeah, I'm on the same-- I'm in the same boat. 2424 01:31:04,375 --> 01:31:07,417 I think a lot of women would love for men 2425 01:31:07,500 --> 01:31:09,375 to express their feelings to them. 2426 01:31:09,542 --> 01:31:11,708 And I think that shows a lot about who you are 2427 01:31:11,792 --> 01:31:14,625 and was a good tidbit for her to see, OK, 2428 01:31:14,625 --> 01:31:16,583 this is at least a little bit of what 2429 01:31:16,583 --> 01:31:18,708 I get to look forward to. - Yeah. 2430 01:31:18,708 --> 01:31:20,708 You know, what I really loved about watching that is like, 2431 01:31:20,833 --> 01:31:22,708 she doesn't know who you are from a can of paint, 2432 01:31:22,792 --> 01:31:25,792 but you can tell she is excited to meet you. 2433 01:31:25,875 --> 01:31:29,375 While Emem was gearing up to meet the mystery man 2434 01:31:29,375 --> 01:31:32,417 behind the poem, Madison dove into 2435 01:31:32,500 --> 01:31:34,667 her first conversation with her husband. 2436 01:31:34,750 --> 01:31:36,083 Let's take a look at that. 2437 01:31:37,667 --> 01:31:39,792 - You make things very comfortable. 2438 01:31:39,792 --> 01:31:41,792 - Good. - Like it could be-- 2439 01:31:41,875 --> 01:31:43,417 - It could be one extreme to the other. 2440 01:31:43,500 --> 01:31:44,917 - One way or the other. - Yeah, for sure. 2441 01:31:44,917 --> 01:31:46,333 - You know--and you know-- - Yeah. 2442 01:31:46,375 --> 01:31:47,583 - Hit the nail on the head. 2443 01:31:47,667 --> 01:31:48,875 - No, we're in this together. 2444 01:31:48,958 --> 01:31:50,292 I'm excited. 2445 01:31:50,375 --> 01:31:51,708 - To my beautiful wife, Madison. 2446 01:31:51,792 --> 01:31:53,500 Pleasure to meet you. 2447 01:31:53,583 --> 01:31:55,583 And pleasure to go on this journey with you. 2448 01:31:55,667 --> 01:31:57,167 - Cheers to that. - See what the hell life holds. 2449 01:31:57,333 --> 01:31:58,458 - Cheers to my hubby. 2450 01:32:00,375 --> 01:32:01,833 - Ah. 2451 01:32:01,958 --> 01:32:03,000 - Awesome. 2452 01:32:04,542 --> 01:32:05,833 It's delicious. 2453 01:32:05,958 --> 01:32:07,292 - Let me tell you, I don't know about you, 2454 01:32:07,375 --> 01:32:08,917 but I'm feeling the chemistry jumping off the screen. 2455 01:32:09,000 --> 01:32:10,000 - Come on, screen. 2456 01:32:10,042 --> 01:32:11,208 - I am. 2457 01:32:11,292 --> 01:32:12,875 What is it like watching that? 2458 01:32:12,958 --> 01:32:15,083 - It's kind of crazy rewatching it because I think 2459 01:32:15,167 --> 01:32:17,042 Allen and I are both going into this super open minded. 2460 01:32:17,125 --> 01:32:19,083 And so that made--that makes the conversation 2461 01:32:19,208 --> 01:32:20,833 so much easier. 2462 01:32:20,875 --> 01:32:23,125 It's like we're laughing, and it's playful, you know? 2463 01:32:23,250 --> 01:32:25,708 I'm not really nervous anymore at this point. 2464 01:32:25,792 --> 01:32:27,667 I'm just kind of enjoying and fully embracing 2465 01:32:27,750 --> 01:32:29,750 being in the moment with Allen 2466 01:32:29,833 --> 01:32:31,833 and learning all about him. 2467 01:32:31,875 --> 01:32:33,625 We weirdly have, like, the same job, so-- 2468 01:32:33,708 --> 01:32:35,125 - You guys are so cute. 2469 01:32:35,208 --> 01:32:37,083 - [laughs] - It feels kind of perfect. 2470 01:32:37,167 --> 01:32:39,500 I mean, it feels like just looking at it, it's like, 2471 01:32:39,542 --> 01:32:41,167 wow, OK, this is a good-- 2472 01:32:41,208 --> 01:32:44,292 I mean, even the lighting was just like, spot on. 2473 01:32:44,292 --> 01:32:46,500 I mean, y'all look very comfortable around each other. 2474 01:32:46,625 --> 01:32:48,458 And yeah, that was dope. 2475 01:32:48,458 --> 01:32:50,125 - So while y'all were on the balcony 2476 01:32:50,208 --> 01:32:52,667 having this conversation, was there anything we didn't see? 2477 01:32:52,750 --> 01:32:54,500 - I am not afraid of heights, 2478 01:32:54,583 --> 01:32:56,417 but I don't particularly love them. 2479 01:32:56,500 --> 01:32:58,667 So I have jumped out of a perfectly good airplane once. 2480 01:32:58,750 --> 01:32:59,875 I probably won't ever do it again. 2481 01:32:59,958 --> 01:33:01,417 - Oh, OK. 2482 01:33:01,500 --> 01:33:03,000 I just like to try things once, you know, marry a stranger 2483 01:33:03,042 --> 01:33:04,250 or jump out of an airplane. - Yeah. 2484 01:33:04,375 --> 01:33:05,458 - Take risks. - Those things. 2485 01:33:05,542 --> 01:33:07,125 - All the same. 2486 01:33:07,208 --> 01:33:08,667 - So I definitely was a little bit nervous being up there. 2487 01:33:08,708 --> 01:33:09,833 And I'm sure there was a lot more bleeps 2488 01:33:09,875 --> 01:33:11,625 that they had to block out. 2489 01:33:11,625 --> 01:33:13,000 - Let me find out you have a potty mouth now. 2490 01:33:13,125 --> 01:33:14,542 - A little bit. I'm a little bit of a sailor. 2491 01:33:14,625 --> 01:33:15,958 I'm trying to work on it. - OK. 2492 01:33:16,042 --> 01:33:17,708 - I fixed it in my corporate mindset. 2493 01:33:17,792 --> 01:33:19,250 So I think when I get into my comfort zone-- 2494 01:33:19,333 --> 01:33:21,500 - You better make sure your Zoom mute is on. 2495 01:33:21,542 --> 01:33:23,500 - Girl, that mute button is my best friend. 2496 01:33:23,583 --> 01:33:24,833 [laughter] 2497 01:33:28,708 --> 01:33:30,583 All right, Karla, are you ready to take 2498 01:33:30,667 --> 01:33:34,167 a look at the first time you met your husband? 2499 01:33:34,292 --> 01:33:35,375 - Yes. - All right. 2500 01:33:35,500 --> 01:33:36,958 Let's play the clip. 2501 01:33:39,875 --> 01:33:41,333 - Hello. 2502 01:33:41,375 --> 01:33:42,833 - Pleasure. - [giggles] 2503 01:33:45,042 --> 01:33:46,500 Hello, mister. 2504 01:33:46,625 --> 01:33:48,208 - Hey, how are you? - Wonderful. 2505 01:33:48,333 --> 01:33:51,000 - [laughs] My name is Juan. 2506 01:33:51,042 --> 01:33:52,167 - I'm Karla. 2507 01:33:52,292 --> 01:33:53,292 - Good to meet you, Karla. 2508 01:33:53,375 --> 01:33:55,667 - Nice to meet you too. 2509 01:33:55,667 --> 01:33:56,875 - Thanks for being here. - Are you ready? 2510 01:33:56,958 --> 01:33:58,375 - I am. I'm ready. 2511 01:33:58,542 --> 01:33:59,833 Are you ready? - Are you in love? 2512 01:33:59,958 --> 01:34:01,750 - [laughs] 2513 01:34:01,833 --> 01:34:04,500 - I hope that we can fall in love. 2514 01:34:04,583 --> 01:34:05,958 [laughs] 2515 01:34:06,042 --> 01:34:07,167 - Perfect. 2516 01:34:07,208 --> 01:34:08,458 - Good deal. 2517 01:34:08,542 --> 01:34:10,208 - I'm like, OK, Karla! 2518 01:34:10,333 --> 01:34:12,208 - I didn't even know that could come out of me. 2519 01:34:12,292 --> 01:34:15,542 - You dipped the shoulder and tilted the head, Karla. 2520 01:34:15,667 --> 01:34:17,875 You clearly look smitten. Am I wrong? 2521 01:34:17,958 --> 01:34:19,875 - Yes. No, he's very handsome. 2522 01:34:19,958 --> 01:34:21,167 - Where is he from, Colombia, right? 2523 01:34:21,208 --> 01:34:22,542 - He's from Colombia. 2524 01:34:22,625 --> 01:34:23,458 - Looking like Colombian Ken over there. 2525 01:34:23,542 --> 01:34:25,083 - Mm-hmm. 2526 01:34:25,208 --> 01:34:28,167 - OK, so your first question to him was, are you in love? 2527 01:34:28,208 --> 01:34:29,667 Were you in love? 2528 01:34:29,708 --> 01:34:31,333 - I'm in love with everyone. 2529 01:34:31,375 --> 01:34:33,708 Yes. [laughter] 2530 01:34:33,708 --> 01:34:35,125 It's kind of like a little inside joke 2531 01:34:35,208 --> 01:34:36,875 in between, like, my family and I. 2532 01:34:36,958 --> 01:34:39,000 Like my cousins, I have so many cousins. 2533 01:34:39,083 --> 01:34:41,333 So we look at each other and we're like, are you in love? 2534 01:34:41,375 --> 01:34:45,417 So it's kind of just, like, letting him inside of my world. 2535 01:34:45,500 --> 01:34:48,542 And I was hoping he didn't take me so seriously. 2536 01:34:48,625 --> 01:34:52,000 But by the looks of it, he's like, uh. 2537 01:34:52,083 --> 01:34:54,792 So I'm like, OK, let's move on. 2538 01:34:54,875 --> 01:34:56,292 - Just joking. Just kidding. 2539 01:34:56,375 --> 01:34:57,667 - Yeah. 2540 01:34:57,750 --> 01:34:59,083 - So did anything happen that we didn't see? 2541 01:34:59,208 --> 01:35:01,292 - When our guests were sitting outside, 2542 01:35:01,375 --> 01:35:02,958 waiting for our arrival, 2543 01:35:03,042 --> 01:35:04,708 my sisters were like, give us a clue. 2544 01:35:04,792 --> 01:35:06,167 Like, what is he like? 2545 01:35:06,208 --> 01:35:07,875 Like, who is he? 2546 01:35:07,875 --> 01:35:09,500 And someone from his family was like, well, 2547 01:35:09,583 --> 01:35:10,833 what do you think his name is? 2548 01:35:10,875 --> 01:35:12,167 And my sister blurted out-- 2549 01:35:12,250 --> 01:35:13,667 - Juan. - Juan. 2550 01:35:13,750 --> 01:35:15,333 And they're like-- - Wow. 2551 01:35:15,417 --> 01:35:16,875 - Crazy. - What? Like, how? 2552 01:35:16,958 --> 01:35:18,042 What? 2553 01:35:18,125 --> 01:35:19,583 And it was like, oh, that's a sign. 2554 01:35:19,667 --> 01:35:20,542 I was like, OK. - Absolutely. 2555 01:35:20,542 --> 01:35:21,833 - Things flowed. 2556 01:35:21,917 --> 01:35:23,542 Things are--things are going well. 2557 01:35:23,542 --> 01:35:25,500 - OK, I like that. OK. 2558 01:35:25,583 --> 01:35:27,500 Well, let's move over to you, Ikechi. 2559 01:35:27,542 --> 01:35:29,875 You met your wife on tonight's episode. 2560 01:35:30,000 --> 01:35:32,833 And I think it's safe to say, she was excited 2561 01:35:32,875 --> 01:35:34,542 to see you standing at the altar. 2562 01:35:34,542 --> 01:35:36,375 Take a look at this clip. 2563 01:35:39,083 --> 01:35:40,458 - Hi. - How are you doing? 2564 01:35:40,542 --> 01:35:42,000 - I'm good. - I'm Ikechi. 2565 01:35:42,083 --> 01:35:43,000 - Emem. 2566 01:35:43,083 --> 01:35:44,958 Nice to meet you, Ikechi. 2567 01:35:46,333 --> 01:35:48,625 Hmm. [laughs] 2568 01:35:48,708 --> 01:35:50,208 - [mouths words] 2569 01:35:50,292 --> 01:35:52,375 [laughter] 2570 01:35:55,250 --> 01:35:58,375 [laughter] 2571 01:35:59,917 --> 01:36:02,625 - Ikechi, what are you thinking in this moment? 2572 01:36:02,625 --> 01:36:04,208 - She has this excitement about her. 2573 01:36:04,292 --> 01:36:05,667 - OK. 2574 01:36:05,708 --> 01:36:07,417 - And she skips down the aisle, you know? 2575 01:36:07,500 --> 01:36:09,708 And it was like she kind of left the person she was with. 2576 01:36:09,792 --> 01:36:11,167 She was just trying to get there. 2577 01:36:11,250 --> 01:36:13,167 And I was just like, OK, this is what we doing. 2578 01:36:13,208 --> 01:36:14,875 You know, here we are. - Yeah. 2579 01:36:14,958 --> 01:36:17,000 - I'm also, like, signaling my friends 2580 01:36:17,083 --> 01:36:19,750 to sit down so that they didn't have to come 2581 01:36:19,833 --> 01:36:21,083 yank me up out of there. 2582 01:36:21,167 --> 01:36:23,000 I let them know. - OK, wait. 2583 01:36:23,042 --> 01:36:25,042 So had you given them like, if this goes left-- 2584 01:36:25,042 --> 01:36:26,500 - Yes, if this goes left. - OK. 2585 01:36:26,542 --> 01:36:27,833 What was that? - We had a signal. 2586 01:36:27,917 --> 01:36:30,000 - What was the signal? - The signal was-- 2587 01:36:30,083 --> 01:36:33,083 I don't-- it was--"oh, my God." 2588 01:36:33,208 --> 01:36:34,417 "Oh, my God!" 2589 01:36:34,500 --> 01:36:35,583 You know? 2590 01:36:35,708 --> 01:36:37,333 - So if you say "oh, my God." 2591 01:36:37,500 --> 01:36:39,750 - There was four people who would come in and get me. 2592 01:36:39,833 --> 01:36:41,333 Yeah, it was-- it was like, all right, 2593 01:36:41,375 --> 01:36:42,708 let's get up out of here. 2594 01:36:42,708 --> 01:36:44,667 But I didn't have to do that, so-- 2595 01:36:44,708 --> 01:36:45,792 [laughs] 2596 01:36:45,875 --> 01:36:47,833 - OK, OK, OK. 2597 01:36:47,917 --> 01:36:49,625 I will leave that where it is. 2598 01:36:49,708 --> 01:36:51,500 I'm glad that nobody had to come 2599 01:36:51,583 --> 01:36:53,375 extract you from the wedding. 2600 01:36:53,458 --> 01:36:56,333 Now that we have seen all of your wedding ceremonies, 2601 01:36:56,417 --> 01:36:59,083 that brings us tonight's do-over segment. 2602 01:36:59,208 --> 01:37:01,792 What would you do differently if you could 2603 01:37:01,875 --> 01:37:04,167 go back to your wedding ceremony? 2604 01:37:04,250 --> 01:37:05,333 Anything? 2605 01:37:05,417 --> 01:37:06,708 - I mean, a garter. We didn't do the garter. 2606 01:37:06,792 --> 01:37:07,750 - You didn't do the garter? 2607 01:37:07,875 --> 01:37:09,208 Why didn't you do the garter? 2608 01:37:09,333 --> 01:37:13,167 - Well, apparently, Emem thought that I might be ugly. 2609 01:37:13,292 --> 01:37:14,833 - [laughs] 2610 01:37:14,875 --> 01:37:16,167 - Are you serious? Did she say this? 2611 01:37:16,292 --> 01:37:17,667 - Dead serious. - She told you this? 2612 01:37:17,750 --> 01:37:18,958 - She said it. - OK, tell this story. Come on. 2613 01:37:19,042 --> 01:37:20,667 - She was like, well, I didn't know 2614 01:37:20,750 --> 01:37:22,500 if you were going to be ugly. 2615 01:37:22,542 --> 01:37:24,208 - [laughs] [bleep], Emem. 2616 01:37:24,333 --> 01:37:27,667 - So I didn't want some--some ragamuffin going down my dress. 2617 01:37:27,708 --> 01:37:28,917 And I was just like-- 2618 01:37:29,042 --> 01:37:29,917 - She said she didn't want a ragamuffin 2619 01:37:30,000 --> 01:37:30,958 going down her dress? 2620 01:37:31,042 --> 01:37:32,208 - She said-- - OK. 2621 01:37:32,292 --> 01:37:33,500 - She used more expletives, but-- 2622 01:37:33,625 --> 01:37:34,667 - Yeah. Wait, no. 2623 01:37:34,792 --> 01:37:35,583 Go on. What did she say? 2624 01:37:35,667 --> 01:37:37,125 We're here now. 2625 01:37:37,208 --> 01:37:39,375 - She said, I didn't want an ugly [bleep]. 2626 01:37:39,458 --> 01:37:41,208 So I was like, OK, well. 2627 01:37:41,208 --> 01:37:43,458 And we just kind of laughed at it, in the moment. 2628 01:37:43,542 --> 01:37:45,167 But yeah. 2629 01:37:45,208 --> 01:37:47,583 - Well, on your second wedding, you guys can do that. 2630 01:37:47,708 --> 01:37:49,208 [laughter] 2631 01:37:53,000 --> 01:37:54,875 All right, Ikechi, despite only knowing your wife 2632 01:37:54,958 --> 01:37:57,167 for a couple of minutes, your wedding looks like 2633 01:37:57,250 --> 01:38:00,000 two people who have been together for quite some time. 2634 01:38:00,083 --> 01:38:01,833 Take a look at this clip. 2635 01:38:03,875 --> 01:38:04,917 - So what do you do? 2636 01:38:05,000 --> 01:38:06,167 - I'm a nurse practitioner. 2637 01:38:06,250 --> 01:38:07,500 - Come on. Save lives. 2638 01:38:07,583 --> 01:38:09,250 - Yes, yes. So, actually-- 2639 01:38:09,375 --> 01:38:10,625 - They were listening. 2640 01:38:10,708 --> 01:38:11,833 They were listening. - [laughs] 2641 01:38:12,000 --> 01:38:13,292 - I was really like, look, you know, 2642 01:38:13,375 --> 01:38:15,375 people who serve are, like, the people. 2643 01:38:15,458 --> 01:38:16,458 That's-- - Yeah. 2644 01:38:16,542 --> 01:38:17,625 - They were listening. 2645 01:38:17,708 --> 01:38:18,958 I said, she better be Black. 2646 01:38:19,042 --> 01:38:20,417 - I said, I want a leader. 2647 01:38:20,542 --> 01:38:22,000 And I said, I want-- 2648 01:38:22,042 --> 01:38:24,500 I want a man who dates Black women. 2649 01:38:24,500 --> 01:38:25,917 - I mean, here I am. 2650 01:38:26,000 --> 01:38:27,667 - Here you are. 2651 01:38:27,792 --> 01:38:29,250 - Aww. 2652 01:38:29,375 --> 01:38:30,667 I'm sorry. 2653 01:38:30,750 --> 01:38:32,250 I thought it was so sweet. 2654 01:38:32,333 --> 01:38:35,208 You got you a RBG for your wife. 2655 01:38:35,333 --> 01:38:36,667 Do you know what that stands for? 2656 01:38:36,750 --> 01:38:37,958 - I don't. - You don't? 2657 01:38:38,042 --> 01:38:39,292 - What is RBG? 2658 01:38:39,417 --> 01:38:40,375 - A real Black girl. 2659 01:38:40,458 --> 01:38:42,125 - Ooh. - Yes. 2660 01:38:42,208 --> 01:38:43,417 - Yeah. 2661 01:38:43,500 --> 01:38:46,167 I say that because it's refreshing that, 2662 01:38:46,250 --> 01:38:48,500 you know, in this moment, it feels like 2663 01:38:48,583 --> 01:38:51,542 you all both wanted each other. 2664 01:38:51,542 --> 01:38:52,917 - Right. - I'm curious. 2665 01:38:53,042 --> 01:38:56,792 How important was the cultural backgrounds 2666 01:38:56,875 --> 01:39:00,250 having understanding and similarity for you? 2667 01:39:00,250 --> 01:39:02,417 - I think it was--it was big. - OK. 2668 01:39:02,500 --> 01:39:05,000 - Just growing up in the communities 2669 01:39:05,083 --> 01:39:07,042 that I've grown up in and lived in, 2670 01:39:07,167 --> 01:39:10,542 I wanted my wife to understand where I come from. 2671 01:39:10,625 --> 01:39:14,000 And in this situation, they definitely matched me 2672 01:39:14,083 --> 01:39:16,667 with someone who understood. 2673 01:39:16,792 --> 01:39:17,875 - They understood the assignment. 2674 01:39:17,958 --> 01:39:18,958 - They understood the assignment. 2675 01:39:19,042 --> 01:39:20,375 - Understood the assignment. 2676 01:39:20,458 --> 01:39:23,708 The vibes, the energy, it seems so completely 2677 01:39:23,792 --> 01:39:26,667 organic with you and Emem. 2678 01:39:26,750 --> 01:39:28,375 Like, do you feel the same way? 2679 01:39:28,458 --> 01:39:29,500 - The vibe is there. 2680 01:39:29,625 --> 01:39:30,667 The vibe is there. 2681 01:39:30,708 --> 01:39:32,500 It's definitely like on 10. 2682 01:39:32,583 --> 01:39:34,167 I mean, yeah, there was no question. 2683 01:39:34,208 --> 01:39:35,583 - OK. 2684 01:39:35,667 --> 01:39:39,000 So Karla, what's your first impression of Juan? 2685 01:39:39,083 --> 01:39:41,208 - I could tell right away he's very, 2686 01:39:41,292 --> 01:39:43,250 like, business-oriented. - OK. 2687 01:39:43,333 --> 01:39:47,583 - And then also his gift, he gifted me a swim cap. 2688 01:39:47,708 --> 01:39:49,042 And-- - A swim cap? 2689 01:39:49,042 --> 01:39:50,333 - Yes. - OK. 2690 01:39:50,417 --> 01:39:52,000 - So at first I was like, oh, maybe 2691 01:39:52,083 --> 01:39:53,500 he knows I have good hair. 2692 01:39:53,583 --> 01:39:55,333 He wants me to protect it. 2693 01:39:55,417 --> 01:39:59,125 Like, no, it turns out, like, he loves to swim. 2694 01:39:59,208 --> 01:40:00,583 This is not something that-- 2695 01:40:00,708 --> 01:40:01,708 I mean, I'm not a swimmer. 2696 01:40:01,708 --> 01:40:03,958 I float. So-- 2697 01:40:04,042 --> 01:40:05,625 - Of course, you float. I love it. 2698 01:40:05,708 --> 01:40:06,750 - I float. 2699 01:40:06,833 --> 01:40:08,542 So yeah. 2700 01:40:08,625 --> 01:40:10,542 So he has a lot of passion. 2701 01:40:10,542 --> 01:40:14,167 So I feel like I'm getting to know a lot about Juan. 2702 01:40:14,250 --> 01:40:16,542 - I'm excited to see where this goes. 2703 01:40:16,625 --> 01:40:19,208 Well, so what are you 2704 01:40:19,292 --> 01:40:22,167 most excited for in the coming weeks? 2705 01:40:22,208 --> 01:40:23,542 - I think I'm excited just to see 2706 01:40:23,625 --> 01:40:25,333 how our lives mesh together. 2707 01:40:25,417 --> 01:40:26,667 You know, do you fit with my friends? 2708 01:40:26,750 --> 01:40:28,208 Do I fit with yours? 2709 01:40:28,333 --> 01:40:32,125 Do we have similar just lifestyle habits? 2710 01:40:32,125 --> 01:40:34,000 Because I do think that that's important 2711 01:40:34,042 --> 01:40:36,500 outside of just an initial connection too. 2712 01:40:36,583 --> 01:40:38,875 - What are you most excited about? 2713 01:40:38,875 --> 01:40:40,125 - Future. 2714 01:40:40,208 --> 01:40:42,417 I'm excited to see where this goes. 2715 01:40:42,500 --> 01:40:46,458 I'm excited to be integrated into someone else's life 2716 01:40:46,542 --> 01:40:49,083 and them integrated into mine. - OK. 2717 01:40:49,208 --> 01:40:51,917 What are you most excited about? 2718 01:40:52,000 --> 01:40:54,833 - As a single woman, 2719 01:40:54,875 --> 01:40:56,625 just kind of working on myself, 2720 01:40:56,708 --> 01:41:01,667 kind of applying all that I've learned and grown to be 2721 01:41:01,750 --> 01:41:04,500 and being the best version of myself for my husband. 2722 01:41:04,625 --> 01:41:08,417 - After watching your weddings, I'm so excited. 2723 01:41:08,500 --> 01:41:12,292 The experts have just done such a great job in matching people. 2724 01:41:12,375 --> 01:41:14,500 And of course, it's up to you guys to do the work, 2725 01:41:14,583 --> 01:41:16,875 but I must say, you guys are starting 2726 01:41:16,958 --> 01:41:19,292 from a really, really good position. 2727 01:41:19,375 --> 01:41:22,083 Well, guys, that is all that we have time for tonight. 2728 01:41:22,167 --> 01:41:24,250 But the weddings aren't over yet. 2729 01:41:24,375 --> 01:41:27,000 There's still one more ceremony to get to, 2730 01:41:27,042 --> 01:41:30,667 and we'll be seeing that one on next week's brand-new episode 2731 01:41:30,708 --> 01:41:32,500 of "Married at First Sight." 2732 01:41:32,583 --> 01:41:33,708 Here's a sneak peek. 2733 01:41:35,917 --> 01:41:38,208 - ♪ Keep on moving, moving 2734 01:41:38,292 --> 01:41:40,667 - Next time on "Married at First Sight," 2735 01:41:40,708 --> 01:41:42,875 our remaining couple meets 2736 01:41:43,000 --> 01:41:44,500 for the very first time at the altar. 2737 01:41:44,583 --> 01:41:46,333 - Aw, man. 2738 01:41:46,458 --> 01:41:49,333 - And our newlyweds begin their married lives together. 2739 01:41:49,417 --> 01:41:50,875 - I was never married, but I was, like, 2740 01:41:50,958 --> 01:41:52,125 a nine-year relationship. 2741 01:41:52,208 --> 01:41:53,625 - Were you? OK. 2742 01:41:53,708 --> 01:41:55,500 He was with someone for nine years. 2743 01:41:55,583 --> 01:41:58,042 How is he going to be able to know that 2744 01:41:58,125 --> 01:41:59,667 he's ready to be married now? 2745 01:41:59,750 --> 01:42:01,833 - He cheated. 2746 01:42:01,875 --> 01:42:03,667 - You have a way with words. 2747 01:42:03,750 --> 01:42:05,417 But I mean, at the end of day, like, I don't know you. 2748 01:42:05,500 --> 01:42:08,500 You might say one thing and your actions show another. 2749 01:42:08,625 --> 01:42:10,125 - Whoa. 2750 01:42:10,208 --> 01:42:11,833 Well, it wouldn't be a "Married at First Sight" 2751 01:42:11,917 --> 01:42:13,958 without a little bitty, bitty drama. 2752 01:42:14,042 --> 01:42:15,542 [laughter] - Oh. 2753 01:42:15,625 --> 01:42:18,375 - Karla, Madison, Ikechi, thank you so much 2754 01:42:18,458 --> 01:42:20,042 for your insight on tonight's episode. 2755 01:42:20,125 --> 01:42:22,042 It was great having you here, 2756 01:42:22,167 --> 01:42:25,583 and I hope to see you all again very soon, OK? 2757 01:42:25,583 --> 01:42:27,625 To everyone at home, tune in next week 2758 01:42:27,708 --> 01:42:30,083 for a brand new episode of "Married at First Sight." 2759 01:42:30,167 --> 01:42:32,500 And join us at the "Afterparty" 2760 01:42:32,500 --> 01:42:36,042 when I'll be sitting down with David, Camille, and Ikechi. 2761 01:42:36,125 --> 01:42:38,375 I'm Keshia Knight Pulliam. Good night. 2762 01:42:38,375 --> 01:42:40,292 - ♪ Pull up, pull up, pull up, pull up ♪ 2763 01:42:40,375 --> 01:42:42,333 ♪ 'Cause life should be a party ♪