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Drew? You okay?
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Talk to Gideon.
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Oh, thank God.
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What happened?
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You fainted. You scared
the hell out of these guys.
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Oh, like you weren't scared?
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I was only scared that I haven't
been nice enough to Gina
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to get her kidney in case
this one doesn't make it.
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I'm here for you, too.
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It's just that Gideon
just hasn't unhooked me yet.
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Because Gideon's busy.
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Just sit still
for a few minutes.
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Your blood pressure's
pretty low.
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This happened to me
yesterday, too.
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Oh, then you need to get
to your doctor immediately.
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Oh, no, I can't.
I got a lot of clients.
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No.
You need to get your skinny,
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low-blood-pressure-having ass
there now.
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Come here.What are you doing?
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You can't drive.
I'll take you.
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Whoa...
Hey, excuse me. Hey...
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Put me down.
I'm not a child.
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You're lighter than one.Well, I skipped breakfast.
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Aw, don't worry, I got you.
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Hey, Drew. Look up.
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The Internet wants to see
the fear in your eyes.
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Ladies and gentlemen,
for the first time,
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Mr. and Mrs. Eli Russell.
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And I'm all achy.
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And I get
these cramps sometimes.
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You've been in
dialysis how long now?
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Uh, couple months.
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C-Could you not
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suck in air like that?
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It's making me very anxious.
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So you're also
suffering from anxiety.
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Only from this.
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I-I just want to know
why I passed out.
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Other than low blood pressure,
there are lots of factors.
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What's your diet like?
Are you getting any exercise?
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I bought an exercise bike.
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Okay, and, uh, how
often do you use it?
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Oh, it's still in the box,
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but it was quite the workout
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dragging it into the garage.
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Uh-huh. And, uh, have you
made any changes to your diet?
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Drew, you are in renal failure.
You have to take that seriously.
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I am.
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It's all I think about.
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You got to look
at yourself
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like an athlete
who's in training
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for his transplant.
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You got to eat
the right foods,
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you got to exercise,
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avoid stress.
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My kidneys are failing.
I'm going through a divorce,
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I have a daughter
who I'm not even sure likes me
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and a donor who might not
show up to the surgery.
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Show me the door that doesn't
have stress behind it.
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I know it's not easy.
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But I'm not being harsh
when I say
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if you don't make some
major lifestyle changes,
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you might not
make it to the transplant.
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That's the not-harsh version?
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♪ The more you give ♪ The more you give♪
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♪ The more you live ♪ The more you live♪
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♪ Your happiness is relative ♪ Happiness♪
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♪ But if you're feeling
like crap ♪
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♪ It's time to face the fact
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♪ It's your prerogative
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♪ Your prerogative♪
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♪ To be positive.
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Hey.Hey.
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Hmm. Chickpea pasta?
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That's not...
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I've never even...
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Why?
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Well, I just saw my doctor,
and he thought...
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Oh, which one? The air sucker
or the guy that goes, "Oh, boy"?
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Air sucker.
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Yeah, he thought
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I should be on a
healthy kidney diet.
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What does that mean?
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Well, no dairy, no red meat,
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no salt, no potatoes, no sugar.
I call it
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the "stay away from everything
that tastes good diet."
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Well, at least we can still
eat my favorite vegetable,
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caramel corn.
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No, actually,
that's the junk food pile.
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I'm throwing all that away.
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Oh. Okay, cool.
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Well, I'll just
keep this and this
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and this and all of this.
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Yeah, you know what?
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Just because I'm doing this
doesn't mean you have to.
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Have at it.
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Hey, we're in this together.
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You eat healthy, I eat healthy.
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Thank you.
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Right after this.
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So, how serious is this?
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Well, the doctor says I might
not even make it to the surgery
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if I don't start eating better
and exercising.
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You mean, like,
make it make it?
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Oh, okay,
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we are not gonna
talk about that.
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I did not give up ecstasy
to watch you die.
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Much appreciated.
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Oh, and I can be
your personal trainer.
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Are you a personal trainer?
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Uh, how hard can it be?
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Yeah!
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That's all you got?!
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Come on, give me more!
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Just do it!
Boom!
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That'll be a hundred bucks.
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I remember now why I never
had a personal trainer.
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Hey, uh, maybe you can help me
unpack the exercise bike.
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No problem. But you still
owe me a hundred bucks.
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[door closes]Dad!
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In the kitchen.
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So, how'd it go? You win?
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Kicked their butts.
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Yes.
That's my girl.
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Way to go, Mads.
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You step on some feet
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when the ref wasn't looking?
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Yeah, thanks for the tip.
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Sorry I keep missing
these games, kiddo.
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That's okay.
I understand.
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But you know what I won't miss?
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What?
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You going to nationals.
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You can come?
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But it's in Ohio.
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Well, I'll just find
a dialysis place in Columbus.
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That's great.
Thank you.
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Yeah.
Hey, look-- Proud Girl Dad.
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Hashtag.
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Oh, my God.
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I'll talk to him.
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Thank you.
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"Hashtag" goes on the end,
right?
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Is that true-- you can
go to any city and get dialysis?
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I have no idea.
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I was just lying to my daughter
to make her feel better.
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You are such a good dad.
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Oh, God.
How long's it been?
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Three minutes.
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What?
Okay, what's my target time?
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30 minutes.
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No, no, that can't be right.
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You're weak, Dunbar!
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Suck it up, buttercup!
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That's my personal
training voice.
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Oh, can you check that for me?Yeah.
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Uh, it says "Columbus
dialysis center."
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Ooh, I've been waiting
for them. Hang on.
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Wh... Oh.
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My left foot's stu...
stuck in the back.
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Okay, I'll get it.
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No, do not... Uh, yes.
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Drew Dunbar speaking.
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Hey, just put it on speaker.
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That's literally
why they invented speaker.
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Yes, I need to be in Columbus
on Tuesday,
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so you need to find me time
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for a dialysis treatment,
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and I am not a morning person.
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Gina, give me the...I don't care.
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Bounce one of your old,
weak patients
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who aren't gonna make it anyway.
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Oh, please, you know which ones
are gonna kick the bucket.
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Hey. Hey, hey, hey.
Give me the phone.
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That's right.
Drew Dunbar.
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Make it happen.
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Okay? Great.
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You've got my digits.
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You got me in?
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No, not even close.
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I got it.
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Hey.Oh. I thought
you were the UPS guy.
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You sound disappointed.
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No, just, my wine-of-the-month
club's out for delivery.
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Not that I tracked it.
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Or ran to the door.
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Okay, well, they don't leave it
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if you don't sign for it, so...
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Come in.
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Oh, um,
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by the way,
I didn't tell her anything.
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Thank you.Mm-hmm.
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Hey, you.
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Hey.
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What are you doing here?
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Well, I got you a
little something.
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An iPad? What for?
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To congratulate you.
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Why? My-my grades suck.
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Yes, they do.
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But this is because you
made it to Nationals.
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Awesome! Thank you.
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My first endorsement.
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Yes.
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Uh... also, I-I can't
make it to the game.
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Really?
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Yeah. I called
every dialysis place
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within three hours of Columbus.
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Oh.
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I'm sorry, Maddie.
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That sucks, but I get it.
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Hey, look, maybe, uh, maybe
your mom can record the game
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and I can watch it afterwards.
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Yeah. Absolutely, sweetie.
I'd be happy to do that.
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Also, I only tracked it
because it's rosé month.
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Can I get a hug?
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You're not gonna cry, are you?
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Oh, come on.
Me?
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Oh, boy.
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Keep it together, Dunbar.
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Yes!
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Well, Mama needs
her happy juice.
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Hey, you're up late.
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Oh, and don't worry if my breath
smells like whiskey.
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I wasn't drinking,
I took an UberPool home
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and made out with a drunk guy.
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Cool story.
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Hey, Cannoli.
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We're wearing matching coats.
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Okay, I need my spot.
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Um, what are you doing?
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Didn't the doctor say
that stuff would kill you?
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Hasn't yet.
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What is the matter with you?
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I know you're upset
about Maddie's game,
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but you got to
take this seriously.
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Stick to the plan.
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Mm. Right now, the plan
is to finish this bag
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of caramel corn
and then blow up Grubhub.
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What about diet,
exercise and living right?
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I'm really not in the mood
for a lecture.
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Really?
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'Cause all you do is lecture me
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about taking care
of your precious kidney.
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Gina, you gave up partying.
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I can't pee,
I can't sleep,
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I spend 15 hours
a week in dialysis.
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And now a bag of caramel corn
is gonna kill me.
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Well, tonight,
let's risk it, huh?
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Would you stop it?
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You really think
all I gave up was partying?
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Oh, sorry.
Also vaping.
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Oh, you are such
a selfish jerk.
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How am I being selfish?
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I am giving up precious moments
with my family
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that I will never get back.
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Join the club!
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My sister doesn't even
talk to me anymore
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because of you.What?
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She's been ghosting me
ever since I told her
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that I'm giving you my kidney.
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Okay?
But you don't know that,
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because it's always
the Drew Show around here.
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00:10:07,694 --> 00:10:10,566
Well, maybe that's because
Drew is the one that's dying.
265
00:10:10,610 --> 00:10:13,047
You need to stop using death
to win an argument.
266
00:10:17,094 --> 00:10:19,619
And I quit as your fake trainer.
267
00:10:25,450 --> 00:10:27,452
All done. Take a look.Mm. Oh, well,
268
00:10:27,496 --> 00:10:29,629
hello, 70.
269
00:10:29,672 --> 00:10:31,543
What's the occasion, anyway?
270
00:10:31,587 --> 00:10:33,371
I'm FaceTiming
with an old friend.
271
00:10:33,415 --> 00:10:36,287
I'm his rebound
every time he outlives a wife.
272
00:10:38,115 --> 00:10:39,769
Honey, give me my purse,
I want to tip you,
273
00:10:39,813 --> 00:10:41,075
and don't say no.
274
00:10:41,118 --> 00:10:43,991
I haven't said no
since I was 17.
275
00:10:45,732 --> 00:10:46,776
Hello.
276
00:10:46,820 --> 00:10:48,909
How did you get past the desk?
277
00:10:48,952 --> 00:10:50,606
There's no one at the desk.
278
00:10:51,651 --> 00:10:53,609
Oh, shoot.
That's me.
279
00:10:56,090 --> 00:10:57,918
You got a lot of guts
showing your face here.
280
00:10:57,961 --> 00:10:59,876
Hello to you, too.
281
00:10:59,920 --> 00:11:01,269
Don't ask, she's not here.
282
00:11:01,312 --> 00:11:03,053
Okay.
283
00:11:03,097 --> 00:11:06,013
What the hell
did you say to her?
284
00:11:06,056 --> 00:11:07,536
We had a little disagreement
285
00:11:07,579 --> 00:11:10,408
as to who's sacrificing more.She is.
286
00:11:10,452 --> 00:11:12,584
No, I mean, when it comes
to the kidneyShe is.
287
00:11:12,628 --> 00:11:14,761
What... No, my daughter
has a soccer game...
288
00:11:14,804 --> 00:11:17,111
Yeah, she is.
We can do this all day.
289
00:11:17,154 --> 00:11:18,982
Listen,
290
00:11:19,026 --> 00:11:20,941
I know your kidney's
crapping out on you,
291
00:11:20,984 --> 00:11:22,986
but you don't have
a choice.
292
00:11:23,030 --> 00:11:25,249
Gina signed up for this out
of the goodness of her heart.
293
00:11:25,293 --> 00:11:27,034
This girl is special.
294
00:11:27,077 --> 00:11:29,079
I know.
295
00:11:29,123 --> 00:11:31,995
Well, do you know
where she's at?
296
00:11:32,039 --> 00:11:34,606
She's at her friend Paul's.
297
00:11:34,650 --> 00:11:36,260
Oh, that skeezy guy?
298
00:11:36,304 --> 00:11:39,046
If by "skeezy,"
you mean "super hot," yes.
299
00:11:39,089 --> 00:11:40,917
No, I mean "skeezy."
300
00:11:40,961 --> 00:11:42,919
Look, do you-do you happen
to have the address?
301
00:11:46,575 --> 00:11:49,534
You know what Gina would like
even better than an apology?
302
00:11:50,579 --> 00:11:53,930
Sending her and her bestie
on a trip to Turks and Caicos.
303
00:11:53,974 --> 00:11:56,019
Oh, Gina and I would love that.
304
00:11:56,063 --> 00:11:57,107
I meant Gina and me.
305
00:11:57,151 --> 00:11:59,109
Oh, well,
we'll see who she takes.
306
00:12:00,458 --> 00:12:01,721
I'd drop it if I were you.
307
00:12:01,764 --> 00:12:02,722
She can do this all day.
308
00:12:07,814 --> 00:12:09,206
Paulie, you down there?
309
00:12:09,250 --> 00:12:10,599
Go away, Ma!
310
00:12:10,642 --> 00:12:11,818
I got company.
311
00:12:11,861 --> 00:12:14,037
There's a guy wants to see you.
312
00:12:14,081 --> 00:12:15,822
Hey, I'm looking for Gina.
313
00:12:15,865 --> 00:12:16,910
Tell him I'm not here.
314
00:12:16,953 --> 00:12:18,215
Gina says she's not here.
315
00:12:18,259 --> 00:12:21,131
I-I'm-I'm just looking to talk.
316
00:12:21,175 --> 00:12:25,048
And, uh, your mom wanted you
to put a load of colors in.
317
00:12:25,092 --> 00:12:27,094
It never ends.
318
00:12:32,273 --> 00:12:34,144
Gina?
319
00:12:34,188 --> 00:12:35,755
Are you high?
320
00:12:37,017 --> 00:12:39,236
I'm high and drunk.
321
00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:41,630
Come on, are you kidding me?
322
00:12:41,673 --> 00:12:43,284
Yeah, well, I'm doing great.
323
00:12:43,327 --> 00:12:45,808
I'm smoking pot and drinking
with a 35-year-old
324
00:12:45,852 --> 00:12:48,028
who lives in his mom's basement.
325
00:12:48,071 --> 00:12:49,203
Hey, I'm 33.
326
00:12:50,465 --> 00:12:53,250
Uh... look,
it doesn't matter, I...
327
00:12:53,294 --> 00:12:56,253
I came over here to say that
328
00:12:56,297 --> 00:12:58,081
I know
329
00:12:58,125 --> 00:12:59,953
you're going through
a lot for me.
330
00:12:59,996 --> 00:13:03,130
And I was a real jerk
not to acknowledge it.
331
00:13:03,173 --> 00:13:05,262
You were.
332
00:13:05,306 --> 00:13:08,091
But this isn't about you.
333
00:13:08,135 --> 00:13:11,094
All right. What's going on?
334
00:13:12,139 --> 00:13:14,315
I called my sister today.
335
00:13:14,358 --> 00:13:16,796
Guessing it didn't go well?
336
00:13:16,839 --> 00:13:19,494
She's a malevolent shrew.
337
00:13:19,537 --> 00:13:21,061
Thanks, sweetie.
338
00:13:21,104 --> 00:13:23,672
Instead of talking it out,
she went through her usual list
339
00:13:23,715 --> 00:13:26,066
of everything that's wrong
with me-- I'm self-destructive,
340
00:13:26,109 --> 00:13:27,719
I make rash decisions,
341
00:13:27,763 --> 00:13:30,157
I never take responsibility
for anything.
342
00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:33,160
Well, that's not
entirely untrue.
343
00:13:33,203 --> 00:13:34,465
Yeah, I know!
344
00:13:34,509 --> 00:13:36,076
You and I get in an argument--
what do I do?
345
00:13:36,119 --> 00:13:37,817
I come here.
That was rash.
346
00:13:37,860 --> 00:13:39,601
Then what do I do?
I party.
347
00:13:39,644 --> 00:13:41,211
That was
self-destructive.
348
00:13:41,255 --> 00:13:43,300
Then I sleep with Paul.
349
00:13:43,344 --> 00:13:44,954
Well, that was amazing.
350
00:13:44,998 --> 00:13:47,565
Thanks, babe.No, thank you.
351
00:13:47,609 --> 00:13:50,394
But... then she said...
352
00:13:52,353 --> 00:13:55,008
...the only reason that I'm
giving my kidney to a stranger
353
00:13:55,051 --> 00:13:58,838
is to give my empty life
some meaning.
354
00:13:58,881 --> 00:13:59,882
Whoa, she said that?
355
00:13:59,926 --> 00:14:01,362
Gina,
356
00:14:01,405 --> 00:14:03,625
I'm sorry.
Look, that is not true.
357
00:14:03,668 --> 00:14:06,019
And you should know that...Wait.
358
00:14:06,062 --> 00:14:08,282
I can see your lips moving,
359
00:14:08,325 --> 00:14:11,372
but I cannot hear you talking.
360
00:14:11,415 --> 00:14:13,113
Uh...
361
00:14:13,156 --> 00:14:15,332
Why don't we table this
for later?
362
00:14:15,376 --> 00:14:16,725
Stop.
363
00:14:16,768 --> 00:14:19,510
I am too high
to ride my motorcycle.
364
00:14:19,554 --> 00:14:21,861
I need you to take me home.
365
00:14:21,904 --> 00:14:23,993
Unless we are already home.
366
00:14:24,037 --> 00:14:25,255
In which case,
367
00:14:25,299 --> 00:14:28,084
thanks.
368
00:14:28,128 --> 00:14:29,216
Sure, uh, come on.
369
00:14:30,608 --> 00:14:33,002
Paul, I'm gonna go.Cool.
370
00:14:33,046 --> 00:14:34,917
Bye, Paul.Bye, Paul.
371
00:14:34,961 --> 00:14:36,440
Bye, Gina.
372
00:14:36,484 --> 00:14:37,659
Bye, Gina's Dad.
373
00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:47,843
You awake?
374
00:15:17,829 --> 00:15:20,658
Hey, it's Carla,
leave a message.
375
00:15:22,269 --> 00:15:23,574
Carla.
376
00:15:23,618 --> 00:15:25,925
Hello.
377
00:15:25,968 --> 00:15:28,405
My name is Drew Dunbar.
I'm the guy that
378
00:15:28,449 --> 00:15:31,800
your sister is giving
her kidney to.
379
00:15:31,843 --> 00:15:35,282
I hear that you're
not too happy about that.
380
00:15:35,325 --> 00:15:38,372
And I just want to say that
381
00:15:38,415 --> 00:15:41,201
it is totally normal
to be suspicious
382
00:15:41,244 --> 00:15:44,291
of this little arrangement.
383
00:15:44,334 --> 00:15:47,033
Um, but you should know
384
00:15:47,076 --> 00:15:49,513
that Gina's actions
are a lot more thought out
385
00:15:49,557 --> 00:15:50,688
than you think.
386
00:15:50,732 --> 00:15:51,994
In fact...
387
00:15:53,387 --> 00:15:55,867
...you should be proud of her.
388
00:15:55,911 --> 00:15:58,740
She's saving my life.
389
00:15:58,783 --> 00:16:01,003
Because of her I'm gonna be
able to watch my daughter...
390
00:16:08,750 --> 00:16:11,318
Hey, it's Carla,
leave a message.
391
00:16:11,361 --> 00:16:13,798
[beeps]Walk down the aisle.
392
00:16:13,842 --> 00:16:15,626
And, yes,
393
00:16:15,670 --> 00:16:18,890
Gina can be impulsive, but
394
00:16:18,934 --> 00:16:21,371
that's because
she leads with her heart.
395
00:16:21,415 --> 00:16:24,940
And maybe if you started
accepting her
396
00:16:24,984 --> 00:16:27,638
instead of judging her
and shaming her,
397
00:16:27,682 --> 00:16:29,901
you would realize
that she's a frigging angel.
398
00:16:29,945 --> 00:16:32,426
In fact,
399
00:16:32,469 --> 00:16:35,733
you should be thanking God every
day for having her in your life,
400
00:16:35,777 --> 00:16:38,562
because this stupid little world
401
00:16:38,606 --> 00:16:40,216
would be a whole lot better
402
00:16:40,260 --> 00:16:42,262
if there were a lot more people
like her and a lot less...
403
00:16:48,877 --> 00:16:51,662
Hey, it's Carla,
leave a message.
404
00:16:51,706 --> 00:16:55,405
Malevolent shrews like you!
405
00:17:12,118 --> 00:17:13,249
Good morning.
406
00:17:13,293 --> 00:17:14,772
Hey.
407
00:17:14,816 --> 00:17:17,079
Do you want a kale
and broccoli smoothie?
408
00:17:17,123 --> 00:17:20,082
It's got yeast probiotic.
409
00:17:20,126 --> 00:17:22,084
That's not...
410
00:17:22,128 --> 00:17:24,043
I've never even...
411
00:17:24,086 --> 00:17:26,132
Why?
412
00:17:26,175 --> 00:17:27,742
Trying to be healthy.
Give me a break.
413
00:17:27,785 --> 00:17:30,658
So, uh...
414
00:17:30,701 --> 00:17:32,138
guess who called me.
415
00:17:32,181 --> 00:17:34,140
My sister.
416
00:17:34,183 --> 00:17:36,446
Oh, that's interesting.
417
00:17:36,490 --> 00:17:38,796
You two patch things up?
418
00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:41,538
Oh, no.
419
00:17:41,582 --> 00:17:43,497
She said my crazy kidney guy
left her
420
00:17:43,540 --> 00:17:45,803
a snarky-ass message
about how great I am
421
00:17:45,847 --> 00:17:47,675
that really got
under her skin.
422
00:17:47,718 --> 00:17:49,981
I've never heard her
so pissed off.
423
00:17:50,025 --> 00:17:53,420
I was trying to bring you
closer together,
424
00:17:53,463 --> 00:17:55,465
but I think
I got a little carried away.
425
00:17:55,509 --> 00:17:58,033
Are you kidding?
It was awesome.
426
00:17:58,077 --> 00:17:59,817
Drew Dunbar, you are my hero.
427
00:18:00,992 --> 00:18:03,560
Well... well,
I don't know about hero.
428
00:18:03,604 --> 00:18:05,997
Maybe "knight in shining armor."
429
00:18:06,041 --> 00:18:09,088
I wouldn't say no to "messiah."
430
00:18:09,131 --> 00:18:11,090
I'm just really grateful.
431
00:18:11,133 --> 00:18:13,483
I've never had someone
fight for me.
432
00:18:13,527 --> 00:18:16,007
Hey, I'm glad.
433
00:18:16,051 --> 00:18:19,272
And sorry, again,
about the other night.
434
00:18:19,315 --> 00:18:21,274
I was in a dark place
and I took it out on you.
435
00:18:21,317 --> 00:18:23,232
I'm sorry, too.
I should have talked to you
436
00:18:23,276 --> 00:18:25,626
instead of going out
and partying with Paul.
437
00:18:25,669 --> 00:18:27,193
Let's just say
we both had a cheat day.
438
00:18:32,763 --> 00:18:34,200
Ooh, hey,
439
00:18:34,243 --> 00:18:36,637
I got you a
hangover cure.
440
00:18:39,205 --> 00:18:40,206
Bacon, egg and cheese?
441
00:18:40,249 --> 00:18:42,773
Oh, my God, thank you.
442
00:18:42,817 --> 00:18:45,124
Mmm.
443
00:18:45,167 --> 00:18:47,169
Hey, um, if you do feel
444
00:18:47,213 --> 00:18:48,910
like your decision
to give me your kidney
445
00:18:48,953 --> 00:18:50,433
is coming from an
unhealthy place,
446
00:18:50,477 --> 00:18:53,306
I want you to know
you don't have to do it.
447
00:18:53,349 --> 00:18:55,177
Are you kidding?
My sister is wrong.
448
00:18:55,221 --> 00:18:56,265
About what?
449
00:18:56,309 --> 00:18:58,702
I'm not making
a reckless decision.
450
00:18:58,746 --> 00:19:01,488
I am giving my kidney to exactly
451
00:19:01,531 --> 00:19:03,272
who it's supposed to go to.
452
00:19:03,316 --> 00:19:05,231
Thank you.
453
00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:09,191
Oh, boy.
454
00:19:09,235 --> 00:19:11,062
Keep it together, Dunbar.
455
00:19:17,852 --> 00:19:20,811
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