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This is a story about control
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'Cause it's all about control
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And I've got lots of it
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{\an8}When people try to tell me
this is just about bikini bodies,
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I tell them what I hear from you,
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women franchise owners
from all over the country.
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Congratulations, Tuscaloosa!
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About how you're not afraid
to walk to your car at night anymore.
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- You don't need Mace...
- About how you don't need to carry Mace
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because you carry yourself
with confidence.
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Nobody is gonna mess with you. Am I right?
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Strength in Numbers.
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About how you stopped abusing your bodies
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- with pills and restrictive dieting...
- Let's do this thing!
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...and started caring for them
with movement and intuitive eating.
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Congratulations, Tampa!
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- About how owning your own business...
- Trenton!
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...gave you the economic freedom
to leave an abusive relationship.
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Tulsa!
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The principle behind every Strength
in Numbers franchise is female ownership.
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Financial independence.
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Strength.
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Yeah! Strength in Numbers!
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It's not just about building muscles.
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It's about building community, going from
following along to leading the charge,
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teaching, sharing, growing, confidence,
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courage, commitment,
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becoming your own boss,
taking charge of your own destiny.
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Control.
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Ma'am.
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- Thank you.
- You're welcome.
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Would you mind turning that down, please?
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Of course.
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Nothing.
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It doesn't have to be big. Just one thing.
Anything. As long as it's new.
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Nope.
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Okay. I'll go first then.
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Today I learned
that you can heal a cut with breast milk.
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I know, it's weird, right?
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But think about it, that your body can
make something that's medicine and food.
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No? Okay, sweetie. Good night.
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- Good night.
- Love you.
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- Love you. Good night.
- Have a good sleep.
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That smells great.
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I'm a little rusty
on the grill these days.
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But let's see what we have here.
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Not to toot my own horn,
but that is perfectly cooked.
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Delicious. Thank you.
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Welcome home.
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It's nice to be here with you.
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That is good. I like that.
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It was a gift from someone.
Business acquaintance.
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It's good to see you enjoying it.
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One of the many pleasures
you have brought into my life.
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I'm sure Maya is happy to have you back.
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Never quite as much as I imagine
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when I'm sitting there
at the Cincinnati Airport.
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But I can't complain.
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You know, she's gotten so close to Monica.
Which is a good thing.
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You were missed. Believe me.
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So, you were in Cincinnati this time?
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Maybe Tulsa?
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They all start to blend together.
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It's a satisfying grind, but...
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It is a grind.
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I wanna talk to the team about
changing things up,
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starting to delegate some of the travel.
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You don't wanna slow down now, do you?
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When you're so close
to the top of the mountain?
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Maybe I have other mountains, you know?
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Other priorities. Maya.
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My work with the foundation.
That's just getting started.
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This is your peak earning time.
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Just imagine all the good you can do later
if you add to the coffers now.
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I have to think of my health,
my own ongoing recovery.
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Mentally. Physically.
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Of course.
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You have to take care of yourself.
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But...
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don't you use the foundation in part
to help support your ex-husband?
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Yes. Danny received one of our grants
for his environmental work.
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Which is part of our mission.
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Of course, it's not the only thing we do.
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I'm sorry.
The whole premise of ecology is flawed.
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Stop man from destroying nature
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- when nature itself...
- But--
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...is violent and destructive.
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What was that?
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To think that some human
can put a stop to that, is just--
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You didn't hear that?
It sounds like somebody's out there.
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It's probably just the ocean breeze.
I could have a look.
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No, it's okay. I'm perfectly capable
of taking a look myself.
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Thank you. You sit. Enjoy.
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You were right. There was nobody there.
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Good morning, friends,
enemies and everyone in between.
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If you are up and alive
and listening to the sound of my voice,
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I bid you welcome.
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We are FreeWaves,
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San Diego's last bastion of radical
progressive talk radio here at KSAY,
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K-S-A-Y. I am Danny Rubin, your host.
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And with me, as always,
in our veritable Versailles of a studio,
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my one and only, my friend,
my comrade-in-arms,
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in many ways, the love of my life--
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Jesus Christ, this gets longer every week.
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Well, you get longer every week and--
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Impossible.
I've been 6'4'' since the fifth grade.
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- That cannot be the truth.
- No. I couldn't fit on the school bus.
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They had to saw off the whole front row
for me. Yeah.
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I bet they did.
Everybody, that is Jerry Goldman.
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Jerry, should we go ahead
and give folks the--
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the dish on what we have for them
in this week's show?
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Per usual,
I have no idea what we're doing.
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Perfect. Even better.
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So, away we go.
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Today,
we're gonna be getting into the sick,
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- twisted origins of America's love affair...
- Yeah.
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{\an8}...with fossil fuels
and how it is poisoning our planet.
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{\an8}And we're also gonna be discussing
some radical,
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{\an8}new ideas for renewable alternative fuels.
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Cooking oil!
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I mean, who would have thought
cooking oil would save our asses.
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We are gonna get there. We're gonna get
there, Jer. Just gimme a second.
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We're gonna play
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an interview that we did with a--
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a young woman
who I've gotten to know very well
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- over the past couple of years.
- Yeah.
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And she's got me hooked on a--
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a new and forward-thinking way
of how to power our cars and our lives.
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We make fried chicken with it.
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{\an8}I mean-- Tater Tots, french fries--
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{\an8}- I mean, how wild is that?
- Jerry!
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{\an8}It's just, I'm excited to be here, man.
To do this with you.
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Yeah. And we're gonna get into all that
and more
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after we take a minute
to acknowledge our supporters.
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- No.
- The work that we do here at FreeWaves
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{\an8}is made possible by the generous support
of The Strength--
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The Strength in Numbers Foundation.
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It is a non-profit group
dedicated to supporting eff--
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supporting efforts
to make the world healthier,
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kinder and more just.
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The whole team here at FreeWaves
is grateful for their visionary support.
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- What the fuck, man?
- What the fuck with you?
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- What is wrong with you?
- We do it every week.
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- We've got your ex-wife...
- I'm introducing the show.
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- ...like a fucking devil over our heads.
- I'm introducing the show.
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- Do you have any idea--
- Five, six, seven, eight!
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All right, get ready to roll it out.
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And one. All the way.
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Hit the walls. Yeah!
Six, seven, and-- To your left.
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Sorry!
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You having a little trouble back there?
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I'll get it.
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Well, it helps
if you show up to class on time.
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Yes.
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Seven, eight. And one, two.
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Give me a shimmy.
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And shimmy. Here we go.
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Let's take it from the top. One.
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Do better. Push yourself harder. Yeah!
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Look at you, showing up to my class
without even a heads-up.
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I had a light morning.
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Hey, you don't wanna go grab a coffee
before we get the day going, do you?
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Oh, my God. I wish. But I have--
What do I have?
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I have the lawyers at 10:00.
The tax people at 11:00.
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I was hoping we could find some--
It doesn't matter.
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It was silly. Just some time to talk
without the whole team.
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I would love nothing more.
Let's schedule a meal.
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We have a big milestone moment
to celebrate.
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As of this week,
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Strength in Numbers officially
has penetration in all 50 states.
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And I just said penetration
without cracking a smile.
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So, look, we're all growing.
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We thought we were earlier,
but there were some copycat franchises
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and trademark violators,
but we handled those.
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- So, okay, let's see. Dinner this week--
- How did we handle them?
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- What?
- The copycat franchises?
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The lawyers do it.
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It's best not to get into the details.
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Those guys can be effective.
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Okay, so this dinner, is this just us or,
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like, a couples thing, or--
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Are you gonna tell me
who you've been seeing?
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You've been very elusive.
Which you have every right to be.
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It's nothing serious.
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A little no-strings fun.
Don't say with Danny.
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- Don't say with Danny.
- It's not with Danny.
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Then I'm very happy for you.
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Greta?
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I don't like the idea
of lawyers handling things.
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I don't like how it feels.
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What's the alternative?
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I don't know. Letting them be.
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They're stealing from you.
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I stole too, early on.
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I talk about discovering aerobics,
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like Columbus "discovered" America.
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Now Columbus didn't discover America?
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It was already there.
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He just claimed it, exploited it.
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He conquered it.
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We don't apologize for our success.
We celebrate it.
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But at what cost to others?
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The success of this enterprise,
that's you.
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The idea to make it national: you.
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The story of transformation: yours.
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I did make it mine.
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But--
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But I don't wanna see anyone
get conquered, vanquished.
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Look at me.
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You don't owe anyone anything.
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You're right.
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- I built this.
- You built this.
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You built all of this.
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This beautiful home.
It's all because of you.
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But does that mean...
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that I have to be alone?
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You're not alone.
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But I'm talking to no one.
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I'm filling my home
with the ghost of a failed relationship.
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No, somebody is out there.
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Hello!
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Hello!
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Is anybody out here?
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Is someone here?
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I don't like it.
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No, I don't like this one fucking bit.
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How about if I come over
with my Louisville Slugger?
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It creates a perimeter. Like...
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I have an alarm system.
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I'm not afraid. I'm more curious.
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I mean, who breaks something
and then comes back to replace it?
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A lot of loonies out there,
now that you're rich and famous.
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Look, I can be there right after my shift.
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Thank you.
I can take care of myself. Really.
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I just-- I mean, I moved down to the beach
for privacy, you know?
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So that I could look at the ocean and know
that nobody was looking back at me.
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But it hasn't really worked out like that.
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Even when I am alone, I--
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You're still there.
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And the ocean,
it's like the world's biggest mirror.
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So, who's sharing today?
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My least favorite person in the group. Me.
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I just made a year.
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Harriet, that is wonderful news.
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Big deal.
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I wasted about 30 years
of my life bingeing.
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I'm supposed to celebrate
one year without it?
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Yes! And we're all gonna celebrate
right there with you.
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00:14:49,056 --> 00:14:50,557
I'm really proud of you.
250
00:14:50,557 --> 00:14:51,642
Proud of you too.
251
00:14:52,226 --> 00:14:55,896
For giving us a space
to meet out in the real world.
252
00:14:55,896 --> 00:14:59,566
- And decent fucking chairs for once!
- Oh, please. This is nothing.
253
00:14:59,566 --> 00:15:00,943
These were a tax write-off.
254
00:15:00,943 --> 00:15:04,571
Oh, come on. If I have to deal
with getting celebrated, so do you.
255
00:15:04,571 --> 00:15:06,990
- Create a perimeter. Yeah.
- I could probably break--
256
00:15:06,990 --> 00:15:08,867
- breach that perimeter, if I had to.
- Yeah, I know.
257
00:15:19,461 --> 00:15:20,504
Hello?
258
00:15:21,922 --> 00:15:25,092
Hey, I know somebody is here.
259
00:15:25,092 --> 00:15:26,844
So, just-- You may as well come out,
260
00:15:26,844 --> 00:15:29,471
because I'm gonna stay out here
until you do.
261
00:15:38,730 --> 00:15:39,731
Tyler?
262
00:15:40,691 --> 00:15:41,692
Sup, Sheila?
263
00:15:45,487 --> 00:15:47,281
I'm bad at stalking.
264
00:15:47,281 --> 00:15:49,324
Well, you scared me at first.
265
00:15:49,992 --> 00:15:51,368
- Seriously?
- Yeah.
266
00:15:53,996 --> 00:15:55,122
I'm sorry.
267
00:15:55,706 --> 00:15:57,499
Do you wanna tell me
what you're doing here?
268
00:15:58,250 --> 00:15:59,251
I do.
269
00:16:00,210 --> 00:16:01,920
But the thing is, I'm not super sure.
270
00:16:02,796 --> 00:16:06,425
I know I'm very angry at you,
which I'm also not very good at,
271
00:16:06,925 --> 00:16:12,389
because what happened with me and Bun
was largely, if not fully, your fault.
272
00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:15,559
You're gonna have to explain that to me.
273
00:16:15,559 --> 00:16:17,311
Well, we were doing good.
274
00:16:17,311 --> 00:16:19,646
We came back to the States.
275
00:16:19,646 --> 00:16:20,898
She was teaching again.
276
00:16:20,898 --> 00:16:23,358
She loves teaching.
She comes to life up there.
277
00:16:25,068 --> 00:16:27,112
And then you sicced your lawyers on us.
278
00:16:28,197 --> 00:16:29,823
I know nothing about that.
279
00:16:29,823 --> 00:16:33,869
That's funny, 'cause they said it came
directly from Sheila D. Rubin Enterprises.
280
00:16:34,661 --> 00:16:36,288
Cease and desist.
281
00:16:36,288 --> 00:16:38,749
Bunny wanted to fight it, but I was like,
"What's the point?"
282
00:16:38,749 --> 00:16:40,584
And that's when she really went off.
283
00:16:40,584 --> 00:16:43,253
She hurt my fucking feelings,
like, so bad.
284
00:16:44,254 --> 00:16:47,257
And then she went to Mexico.
I think it was to get you back.
285
00:16:48,967 --> 00:16:53,013
Not "get you back,"
but, like, get you back.
286
00:16:53,013 --> 00:16:54,348
Like, revenge.
287
00:16:55,098 --> 00:16:57,893
How does going to Mexico get me back?
288
00:16:59,061 --> 00:17:03,065
I don't know. Guess you're gonna
have to ask the mall man.
289
00:17:05,567 --> 00:17:07,653
I mean, it's one thing to leave me, but...
290
00:17:08,945 --> 00:17:10,906
it's just not fair to Gidget.
291
00:17:11,490 --> 00:17:12,741
We were like a little family.
292
00:17:13,325 --> 00:17:15,077
You don't have any baby carrots, do you?
293
00:17:16,537 --> 00:17:17,913
She loves those things.
294
00:17:27,506 --> 00:17:29,925
{\an8}- You okay to get your bag?
- Got it.
295
00:17:36,932 --> 00:17:38,350
Hey, sweetie.
296
00:17:42,229 --> 00:17:43,772
Interesting meeting spot.
297
00:17:43,772 --> 00:17:47,317
Yeah. Well, you know,
this is where we get our recycled fuel oil
298
00:17:47,317 --> 00:17:50,779
so we can make the big trip
to pick up a certain special girl.
299
00:17:50,779 --> 00:17:53,365
Did you grow in the past two weeks?
300
00:17:53,365 --> 00:17:55,576
No. Mom got me new high-tops
with wedges in 'em.
301
00:17:55,576 --> 00:17:57,411
They give me, like, two inches.
302
00:17:58,287 --> 00:18:00,414
They have ankle support.
303
00:18:01,248 --> 00:18:04,251
- Good.
- Okay, sweetie. I love you.
304
00:18:04,251 --> 00:18:05,752
- Love you, Mom.
- I'll miss you.
305
00:18:05,752 --> 00:18:07,045
And have fun at Dad's.
306
00:18:07,045 --> 00:18:08,130
- Okay, bye.
- Okay.
307
00:18:10,883 --> 00:18:14,011
I need to tell you
I'm making a trip out of the country.
308
00:18:14,011 --> 00:18:16,346
So, I need to ask you, actually.
309
00:18:16,930 --> 00:18:18,599
Do you have to tell me where you're going?
310
00:18:18,599 --> 00:18:21,059
Not necessarily but Mexico.
311
00:18:21,977 --> 00:18:23,645
Okay. You're coming back though, right?
312
00:18:23,645 --> 00:18:25,272
- Yeah, of course.
- Great. Right.
313
00:18:25,272 --> 00:18:27,566
It's a girls' trip. I'm going to a resort.
I'm just--
314
00:18:27,566 --> 00:18:30,444
I'm just exhausted from the traveling.
315
00:18:30,444 --> 00:18:32,946
Well, yeah, I mean, approved.
316
00:18:34,198 --> 00:18:35,199
How's she feeling?
317
00:18:35,991 --> 00:18:36,992
Hey.
318
00:18:39,703 --> 00:18:41,496
Yeah, she's feeling good.
319
00:18:41,496 --> 00:18:45,709
Kind of going through a thing now
with smells and textures.
320
00:18:45,709 --> 00:18:48,462
Terry cloth somehow
makes her pretty angry.
321
00:18:48,462 --> 00:18:51,673
Did you do anything like that?
You remember anything like that?
322
00:18:52,299 --> 00:18:56,345
I mean, honestly,
it just all feels like so long ago.
323
00:18:56,345 --> 00:18:57,763
Yeah, I know.
324
00:18:57,763 --> 00:18:59,431
- I'm sure it'll pass.
- I hope.
325
00:18:59,431 --> 00:19:02,643
Please tell her that though,
'cause she thinks it is forever.
326
00:19:03,435 --> 00:19:05,521
But she's young. Younger, you know?
327
00:19:05,521 --> 00:19:07,814
She doesn't have the perspective like...
328
00:19:08,690 --> 00:19:12,236
you and I-- we have.
Did you remember to bring--
329
00:19:12,236 --> 00:19:14,571
- Oh, yes. Yeah, of course.
- Yes. Okay, yeah. Great.
330
00:19:14,571 --> 00:19:16,990
- Yeah.
- Oh, gosh. Yeah.
331
00:19:16,990 --> 00:19:20,244
And she's been lying about flossing.
332
00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:23,330
So, I don't want to shame her about it,
but you know,
333
00:19:23,330 --> 00:19:24,915
just don't take her word for it.
334
00:19:24,915 --> 00:19:26,875
Right. Well, flossing is important.
335
00:19:26,875 --> 00:19:28,710
- She's got those big-girl teeth now, so--
- Yeah.
336
00:19:30,128 --> 00:19:32,297
- Well, great.
- Okay.
337
00:19:32,881 --> 00:19:34,967
Well, enjoy Mexico.
338
00:19:35,843 --> 00:19:37,427
- And try to relax.
- Yeah.
339
00:19:37,427 --> 00:19:38,929
You know, you deserve it.
340
00:20:19,136 --> 00:20:20,137
This.
341
00:20:20,137 --> 00:20:22,973
This is what I needed.
342
00:20:26,185 --> 00:20:27,186
Are you happy?
343
00:20:27,895 --> 00:20:29,730
I'm a fresh drink away from ecstatic.
344
00:20:32,399 --> 00:20:34,026
In your life, I mean.
345
00:20:34,735 --> 00:20:36,320
Would you say that you're happy?
346
00:20:38,530 --> 00:20:40,532
I mean, not every second of every day.
347
00:20:41,450 --> 00:20:44,620
But I have something better now.
348
00:20:45,871 --> 00:20:46,914
Satisfaction.
349
00:20:47,998 --> 00:20:51,293
Yeah, like,
deep satisfaction with my life.
350
00:20:52,544 --> 00:20:54,671
Accomplishments I can really be proud of.
351
00:20:55,172 --> 00:20:59,092
A husband who I can honestly say
is finally coming around t-- Oh, no!
352
00:20:59,635 --> 00:21:01,428
- Am I upsetting you?
- No.
353
00:21:01,428 --> 00:21:05,224
I didn't mean to brag. You just asked,
and I wanted to be honest.
354
00:21:05,224 --> 00:21:06,433
- Please don't cry.
- No.
355
00:21:06,433 --> 00:21:10,103
I am so happy for you. I really am, truly.
356
00:21:10,103 --> 00:21:12,898
I just... I-- It-- This is fun.
357
00:21:12,898 --> 00:21:14,358
Maybe I should just take a little walk.
358
00:21:14,358 --> 00:21:16,985
Sheila! No, absolutely not.
You're not walking away.
359
00:21:16,985 --> 00:21:19,696
You're gonna stay here
and tell me what's going on.
360
00:21:19,696 --> 00:21:22,241
I can't. You'll think less of me. I--
361
00:21:22,241 --> 00:21:24,326
It is impossible for me
to think less of you.
362
00:21:24,326 --> 00:21:26,370
That's not what I meant.
363
00:21:27,829 --> 00:21:32,751
Nothing you could say would ever change
the way I feel about you. Ever.
364
00:21:33,877 --> 00:21:34,878
I...
365
00:21:43,637 --> 00:21:46,765
I may have brought you here
under false pretenses.
366
00:21:47,349 --> 00:21:50,477
Okay. How false?
367
00:21:51,228 --> 00:21:57,067
I do wanna celebrate our milestone
and spend time with you.
368
00:21:57,067 --> 00:22:00,821
But I also came here to see him.
369
00:22:02,322 --> 00:22:03,156
John.
370
00:22:08,328 --> 00:22:09,371
Does he know this?
371
00:22:09,371 --> 00:22:13,417
No, and I know it sounds crazy,
but it's even crazier than it sounds.
372
00:22:15,210 --> 00:22:16,211
Tyler came to see me.
373
00:22:16,211 --> 00:22:18,255
Tyler is involved in this?
374
00:22:18,255 --> 00:22:21,967
All right. Okay. I think we--
Maybe we both need to take a walk.
375
00:22:21,967 --> 00:22:23,051
Let's take a walk.
376
00:22:25,345 --> 00:22:31,977
So, Bunny came down here
to seduce him to get back at you?
377
00:22:32,686 --> 00:22:35,772
That's what Tyler said.
And I have no reason to doubt it.
378
00:22:37,107 --> 00:22:39,359
Yeah.
But would John actually fall for that?
379
00:22:40,194 --> 00:22:42,821
Well, he fell for me, didn't he?
I mean, I know it's out-there,
380
00:22:42,821 --> 00:22:46,783
but I just at least have to see
for myself, you know. To know for sure.
381
00:22:48,327 --> 00:22:50,704
And how far down the road are we
on this mission?
382
00:22:51,747 --> 00:22:53,790
Well, we have an address,
383
00:22:53,790 --> 00:22:57,961
- not far from here, of his church.
- His church?
384
00:22:57,961 --> 00:23:01,006
Well, I can't very well
march into his house, can I?
385
00:23:01,715 --> 00:23:04,635
No, you can't. But God's house?
386
00:23:05,344 --> 00:23:09,014
All right. Sheila, I love you.
I support you.
387
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:14,102
But... this is really starting to scare me.
388
00:23:14,686 --> 00:23:17,189
You've moved beyond John. You've evolved.
389
00:23:17,189 --> 00:23:19,900
Heck, you've helped me evolve
and thousands of other women too.
390
00:23:19,900 --> 00:23:24,947
I know. But there's
what I say and then how I feel.
391
00:23:25,739 --> 00:23:30,536
And the truth is,
I think about him so much.
392
00:23:31,286 --> 00:23:32,412
He's in my head.
393
00:23:32,913 --> 00:23:35,832
Like, I'm not even seeing anyone, Greta.
394
00:23:36,667 --> 00:23:40,587
I'm just talking to him alone in my house.
395
00:23:41,088 --> 00:23:44,842
Like I used to with myself, with Kelly.
396
00:23:46,593 --> 00:23:50,681
I just-- I need to see what is happening
with my own eyes, so I know.
397
00:23:50,681 --> 00:23:53,642
And then I can move on. Or maybe...
398
00:23:58,021 --> 00:24:00,107
Okay, well, if you're doing this,
I'm coming with you.
399
00:24:03,235 --> 00:24:04,236
Clearly.
400
00:24:38,437 --> 00:24:39,438
Hello, Sheila.
401
00:24:40,564 --> 00:24:43,609
You weren't-- Were you expecting me?
402
00:24:43,609 --> 00:24:49,656
Not quite so soon, but yes.
403
00:24:52,868 --> 00:24:53,869
Why?
404
00:24:56,496 --> 00:24:59,374
On Wednesdays and Saturdays,
it's my job to look after the children.
405
00:25:03,337 --> 00:25:08,926
I know it must seem surprising to you
to see me like this.
406
00:25:09,551 --> 00:25:12,679
No, it's perfectly--
407
00:25:13,472 --> 00:25:16,266
I mean, it's lovely to see you like this.
408
00:25:16,266 --> 00:25:18,185
It's surprising to me too.
409
00:25:18,185 --> 00:25:19,353
Believe me.
410
00:25:19,353 --> 00:25:23,065
I don't think I knew
how much pressure I felt
411
00:25:23,774 --> 00:25:28,278
until I wasn't feeling it anymore
after we left.
412
00:25:28,278 --> 00:25:31,907
Not immediately, of course, but with time.
413
00:25:32,783 --> 00:25:34,660
I make it sound like...
414
00:25:34,660 --> 00:25:36,787
I just do this a couple of hours a week
415
00:25:37,287 --> 00:25:38,705
while the ladies have their class.
416
00:25:39,873 --> 00:25:43,961
I'd be happy to show you around afterward.
417
00:25:44,545 --> 00:25:45,546
What we've built...
418
00:25:47,548 --> 00:25:52,678
it's humble, but it's special.
419
00:25:55,722 --> 00:25:58,100
I'm sorry, what class?
420
00:26:03,647 --> 00:26:09,194
And five, six, seven, eight!
And one, two, three.
421
00:26:09,194 --> 00:26:11,113
One, two, three.
422
00:26:11,613 --> 00:26:14,366
One, two, three.
You gotta move it if you wanna groove it!
423
00:26:15,075 --> 00:26:19,079
And pull it in, and in, and in, and in.
424
00:26:19,663 --> 00:26:23,792
Five, six, seven, eight, and twist.
425
00:26:25,002 --> 00:26:26,170
And twi--
426
00:26:28,714 --> 00:26:30,716
And into the cooldown.
427
00:26:36,388 --> 00:26:39,099
If you came to shut me down again,
you can fucking forget it.
428
00:26:39,099 --> 00:26:42,436
It's a community class. We're not even
charging any money, honey.
429
00:26:43,478 --> 00:26:45,230
I mean, I get paid by her.
430
00:26:46,398 --> 00:26:47,691
Don't look so surprised.
431
00:26:47,691 --> 00:26:50,611
You're the one who preached
the gospel of exercise to me,
432
00:26:50,611 --> 00:26:52,696
its empowering benefits.
433
00:26:53,197 --> 00:26:55,115
We needed a teacher,
and Bunny was available.
434
00:26:57,910 --> 00:27:00,287
So what do you want now? Blood?
435
00:27:01,163 --> 00:27:04,875
Me and Tyler got Hep B
from those stupid engagement piercings,
436
00:27:04,875 --> 00:27:06,376
so mine's no good anyway.
437
00:27:06,376 --> 00:27:09,379
I'm not here to shut you down.
438
00:27:09,963 --> 00:27:11,006
Then why the hell are you here?
439
00:27:16,345 --> 00:27:17,679
Tyler came to see me.
440
00:27:19,598 --> 00:27:21,350
And what'd he have to say for himself?
441
00:27:21,350 --> 00:27:25,479
Mostly that he misses you and that
he was angry with me. For good reason.
442
00:27:26,605 --> 00:27:27,689
How'd he look?
443
00:27:28,607 --> 00:27:29,525
Miserable.
444
00:27:30,943 --> 00:27:32,319
Good.
445
00:27:32,319 --> 00:27:36,907
So, you came all the way to Mexico
to tell me how Tyler feels?
446
00:27:38,408 --> 00:27:41,954
We came to offer you a grant from
the Strength in Numbers Foundation
447
00:27:41,954 --> 00:27:44,414
for the work you've been doing
in the community.
448
00:27:44,414 --> 00:27:47,251
You mean a tax write-off
to advertise your brand?
449
00:27:47,251 --> 00:27:51,129
- Fuck you very much, but no.
- No. Greta's just--
450
00:27:51,129 --> 00:27:54,591
I know you're trying to help.
But that's not why we came here.
451
00:27:54,591 --> 00:27:57,010
We came here-- I came here because...
452
00:28:00,556 --> 00:28:03,392
I suspected that you
were trying to punish me
453
00:28:03,392 --> 00:28:06,353
by taking something away from me that--
454
00:28:07,396 --> 00:28:09,189
that was never really mine
in the first place.
455
00:28:09,189 --> 00:28:11,567
Which I deserve, by the way,
456
00:28:12,192 --> 00:28:13,610
because I--
457
00:28:15,112 --> 00:28:17,614
I took credit for what you taught me.
458
00:28:18,740 --> 00:28:22,327
You introduced me to aerobics
when I was at my lowest,
459
00:28:22,870 --> 00:28:25,080
and it saved me.
460
00:28:26,123 --> 00:28:28,125
You saved me,
and then I turned around and--
461
00:28:28,125 --> 00:28:29,793
Made a fucking fortune off it.
462
00:28:30,377 --> 00:28:34,590
- Yes. And that was wrong of me.
- I don't want to forgive you.
463
00:28:34,590 --> 00:28:35,757
And I'm not asking you to.
464
00:28:35,757 --> 00:28:39,970
I just want to give you credit
for being the first and for teaching me.
465
00:28:40,971 --> 00:28:42,681
I wasn't the first.
466
00:28:43,849 --> 00:28:45,225
Somebody taught it to me.
467
00:28:47,561 --> 00:28:49,897
So, maybe it belongs to all of us.
468
00:28:57,779 --> 00:29:00,324
Would it be okay if I joined your class?
469
00:29:01,241 --> 00:29:02,868
I really need to clear my head.
470
00:29:07,206 --> 00:29:09,208
Make some room in the back, ladies.
471
00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:48,205
I am not making this up.
This is a fact proven by scientists.
472
00:29:48,205 --> 00:29:52,376
When human beings engage
in synchronous physical activity,
473
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,712
when we move together,
especially to music,
474
00:29:56,213 --> 00:29:59,591
our brains release a chemical--
stay with me--
475
00:30:00,259 --> 00:30:04,638
that makes us feel
connected to the strangers around us.
476
00:30:04,638 --> 00:30:06,932
And we've all felt this intuitively,
477
00:30:06,932 --> 00:30:10,185
whether singing in a choir
or cheering at a football game
478
00:30:10,185 --> 00:30:12,771
or taking an aerobics class.
479
00:30:15,566 --> 00:30:16,942
But here's the coolest part.
480
00:30:18,777 --> 00:30:21,488
That same chemical,
it also makes us feel connected
481
00:30:21,488 --> 00:30:23,282
to something bigger than ourselves.
482
00:30:25,909 --> 00:30:31,081
You could call it a higher power
or God or just the infinite.
483
00:30:33,500 --> 00:30:36,795
But I think that's kind of miraculous,
don't you?
484
00:30:40,257 --> 00:30:43,552
To think I started this whole thing
looking for control
485
00:30:44,219 --> 00:30:48,932
when all I had to do to touch the infinite
was let go of it.