1 00:00:03,045 --> 00:00:04,963 This is a story about control 2 00:00:06,089 --> 00:00:07,799 'Cause it's all about control 3 00:00:09,009 --> 00:00:10,761 And I've got lots of it 4 00:00:18,227 --> 00:00:21,605 {\an8}When people try to tell me this is just about bikini bodies, 5 00:00:21,605 --> 00:00:24,399 I tell them what I hear from you, 6 00:00:24,399 --> 00:00:28,028 women franchise owners from all over the country. 7 00:00:28,028 --> 00:00:29,363 Congratulations, Tuscaloosa! 8 00:00:29,363 --> 00:00:33,742 About how you're not afraid to walk to your car at night anymore. 9 00:00:33,742 --> 00:00:36,870 - You don't need Mace... - About how you don't need to carry Mace 10 00:00:36,870 --> 00:00:39,289 because you carry yourself with confidence. 11 00:00:39,289 --> 00:00:41,625 Nobody is gonna mess with you. Am I right? 12 00:00:41,625 --> 00:00:43,502 Strength in Numbers. 13 00:00:43,502 --> 00:00:46,255 About how you stopped abusing your bodies 14 00:00:46,255 --> 00:00:49,633 - with pills and restrictive dieting... - Let's do this thing! 15 00:00:50,217 --> 00:00:53,637 ...and started caring for them with movement and intuitive eating. 16 00:00:53,637 --> 00:00:56,098 Congratulations, Tampa! 17 00:00:56,098 --> 00:00:59,726 - About how owning your own business... - Trenton! 18 00:00:59,726 --> 00:01:02,312 ...gave you the economic freedom to leave an abusive relationship. 19 00:01:04,147 --> 00:01:05,147 Tulsa! 20 00:01:05,147 --> 00:01:11,154 The principle behind every Strength in Numbers franchise is female ownership. 21 00:01:12,614 --> 00:01:14,616 Financial independence. 22 00:01:15,784 --> 00:01:16,910 Strength. 23 00:01:16,910 --> 00:01:19,162 Yeah! Strength in Numbers! 24 00:01:21,248 --> 00:01:23,709 It's not just about building muscles. 25 00:01:23,709 --> 00:01:29,298 It's about building community, going from following along to leading the charge, 26 00:01:30,048 --> 00:01:35,179 teaching, sharing, growing, confidence, 27 00:01:35,762 --> 00:01:38,098 courage, commitment, 28 00:01:38,849 --> 00:01:43,645 becoming your own boss, taking charge of your own destiny. 29 00:01:44,563 --> 00:01:45,564 Control. 30 00:01:47,065 --> 00:01:48,066 Ma'am. 31 00:01:49,776 --> 00:01:51,486 - Thank you. - You're welcome. 32 00:01:57,659 --> 00:01:59,286 Would you mind turning that down, please? 33 00:01:59,870 --> 00:02:00,871 Of course. 34 00:02:14,843 --> 00:02:15,761 Nothing. 35 00:02:16,386 --> 00:02:20,307 It doesn't have to be big. Just one thing. Anything. As long as it's new. 36 00:02:21,475 --> 00:02:22,476 Nope. 37 00:02:23,852 --> 00:02:25,562 Okay. I'll go first then. 38 00:02:26,605 --> 00:02:30,692 Today I learned that you can heal a cut with breast milk. 39 00:02:31,276 --> 00:02:32,402 I know, it's weird, right? 40 00:02:32,402 --> 00:02:36,865 But think about it, that your body can make something that's medicine and food. 41 00:02:39,201 --> 00:02:41,787 No? Okay, sweetie. Good night. 42 00:02:41,787 --> 00:02:43,330 - Good night. - Love you. 43 00:02:43,330 --> 00:02:45,457 - Love you. Good night. - Have a good sleep. 44 00:02:55,050 --> 00:02:56,468 That smells great. 45 00:02:57,511 --> 00:03:00,055 I'm a little rusty on the grill these days. 46 00:03:00,931 --> 00:03:03,058 But let's see what we have here. 47 00:03:06,436 --> 00:03:11,108 Not to toot my own horn, but that is perfectly cooked. 48 00:03:11,608 --> 00:03:13,485 Delicious. Thank you. 49 00:03:20,242 --> 00:03:21,285 Welcome home. 50 00:03:22,452 --> 00:03:23,954 It's nice to be here with you. 51 00:03:28,417 --> 00:03:31,253 That is good. I like that. 52 00:03:32,045 --> 00:03:35,716 It was a gift from someone. Business acquaintance. 53 00:03:36,341 --> 00:03:38,218 It's good to see you enjoying it. 54 00:03:38,802 --> 00:03:40,971 One of the many pleasures you have brought into my life. 55 00:03:45,434 --> 00:03:47,603 I'm sure Maya is happy to have you back. 56 00:03:47,603 --> 00:03:49,229 Never quite as much as I imagine 57 00:03:49,229 --> 00:03:51,648 when I'm sitting there at the Cincinnati Airport. 58 00:03:52,149 --> 00:03:53,859 But I can't complain. 59 00:03:53,859 --> 00:03:57,946 You know, she's gotten so close to Monica. Which is a good thing. 60 00:03:57,946 --> 00:04:00,407 You were missed. Believe me. 61 00:04:03,994 --> 00:04:07,122 So, you were in Cincinnati this time? 62 00:04:07,623 --> 00:04:08,790 Maybe Tulsa? 63 00:04:09,499 --> 00:04:11,418 They all start to blend together. 64 00:04:12,252 --> 00:04:14,004 It's a satisfying grind, but... 65 00:04:15,130 --> 00:04:16,464 It is a grind. 66 00:04:19,843 --> 00:04:23,639 I wanna talk to the team about changing things up, 67 00:04:24,473 --> 00:04:26,266 starting to delegate some of the travel. 68 00:04:27,559 --> 00:04:29,394 You don't wanna slow down now, do you? 69 00:04:30,103 --> 00:04:32,523 When you're so close to the top of the mountain? 70 00:04:34,024 --> 00:04:35,859 Maybe I have other mountains, you know? 71 00:04:35,859 --> 00:04:37,569 Other priorities. Maya. 72 00:04:38,195 --> 00:04:40,697 My work with the foundation. That's just getting started. 73 00:04:40,697 --> 00:04:42,658 This is your peak earning time. 74 00:04:43,367 --> 00:04:48,288 Just imagine all the good you can do later if you add to the coffers now. 75 00:04:49,706 --> 00:04:53,877 I have to think of my health, my own ongoing recovery. 76 00:04:53,877 --> 00:04:56,046 Mentally. Physically. 77 00:04:56,630 --> 00:04:57,631 Of course. 78 00:04:58,215 --> 00:05:00,551 You have to take care of yourself. 79 00:05:05,681 --> 00:05:06,682 But... 80 00:05:08,016 --> 00:05:13,105 don't you use the foundation in part to help support your ex-husband? 81 00:05:14,940 --> 00:05:19,570 Yes. Danny received one of our grants for his environmental work. 82 00:05:19,570 --> 00:05:21,738 Which is part of our mission. 83 00:05:22,322 --> 00:05:24,992 Of course, it's not the only thing we do. 84 00:05:24,992 --> 00:05:29,955 I'm sorry. The whole premise of ecology is flawed. 85 00:05:31,748 --> 00:05:34,418 Stop man from destroying nature 86 00:05:34,418 --> 00:05:36,128 - when nature itself... - But-- 87 00:05:36,128 --> 00:05:38,213 ...is violent and destructive. 88 00:05:38,213 --> 00:05:39,298 What was that? 89 00:05:39,298 --> 00:05:42,467 To think that some human can put a stop to that, is just-- 90 00:05:42,467 --> 00:05:45,345 You didn't hear that? It sounds like somebody's out there. 91 00:05:47,931 --> 00:05:49,933 It's probably just the ocean breeze. I could have a look. 92 00:05:49,933 --> 00:05:53,896 No, it's okay. I'm perfectly capable of taking a look myself. 93 00:05:53,896 --> 00:05:55,772 Thank you. You sit. Enjoy. 94 00:06:28,013 --> 00:06:30,807 You were right. There was nobody there. 95 00:06:52,204 --> 00:06:55,165 Good morning, friends, enemies and everyone in between. 96 00:06:55,165 --> 00:06:58,919 If you are up and alive and listening to the sound of my voice, 97 00:06:58,919 --> 00:07:00,712 I bid you welcome. 98 00:07:00,712 --> 00:07:01,713 We are FreeWaves, 99 00:07:01,713 --> 00:07:06,677 San Diego's last bastion of radical progressive talk radio here at KSAY, 100 00:07:06,677 --> 00:07:10,180 K-S-A-Y. I am Danny Rubin, your host. 101 00:07:10,180 --> 00:07:15,519 And with me, as always, in our veritable Versailles of a studio, 102 00:07:15,519 --> 00:07:19,106 my one and only, my friend, my comrade-in-arms, 103 00:07:19,648 --> 00:07:21,483 in many ways, the love of my life-- 104 00:07:21,483 --> 00:07:23,527 Jesus Christ, this gets longer every week. 105 00:07:23,527 --> 00:07:25,320 Well, you get longer every week and-- 106 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,407 Impossible. I've been 6'4'' since the fifth grade. 107 00:07:28,407 --> 00:07:30,951 - That cannot be the truth. - No. I couldn't fit on the school bus. 108 00:07:30,951 --> 00:07:33,412 They had to saw off the whole front row for me. Yeah. 109 00:07:33,412 --> 00:07:35,998 I bet they did. Everybody, that is Jerry Goldman. 110 00:07:35,998 --> 00:07:38,792 Jerry, should we go ahead and give folks the-- 111 00:07:38,792 --> 00:07:40,878 the dish on what we have for them in this week's show? 112 00:07:40,878 --> 00:07:43,046 Per usual, I have no idea what we're doing. 113 00:07:43,046 --> 00:07:44,673 Perfect. Even better. 114 00:07:44,673 --> 00:07:46,133 So, away we go. 115 00:07:46,133 --> 00:07:48,427 Today, we're gonna be getting into the sick, 116 00:07:48,427 --> 00:07:50,554 - twisted origins of America's love affair... - Yeah. 117 00:07:50,554 --> 00:07:53,056 {\an8}...with fossil fuels and how it is poisoning our planet. 118 00:07:53,056 --> 00:07:55,809 {\an8}And we're also gonna be discussing some radical, 119 00:07:55,809 --> 00:07:58,729 {\an8}new ideas for renewable alternative fuels. 120 00:07:58,729 --> 00:08:00,230 Cooking oil! 121 00:08:00,230 --> 00:08:03,567 I mean, who would have thought cooking oil would save our asses. 122 00:08:03,567 --> 00:08:06,528 We are gonna get there. We're gonna get there, Jer. Just gimme a second. 123 00:08:06,528 --> 00:08:08,405 We're gonna play 124 00:08:08,405 --> 00:08:10,824 an interview that we did with a-- 125 00:08:10,824 --> 00:08:13,744 a young woman who I've gotten to know very well 126 00:08:13,744 --> 00:08:15,913 - over the past couple of years. - Yeah. 127 00:08:15,913 --> 00:08:18,498 And she's got me hooked on a-- 128 00:08:18,498 --> 00:08:23,754 a new and forward-thinking way of how to power our cars and our lives. 129 00:08:23,754 --> 00:08:26,173 We make fried chicken with it. 130 00:08:26,173 --> 00:08:28,050 {\an8}I mean-- Tater Tots, french fries-- 131 00:08:28,050 --> 00:08:29,760 {\an8}- I mean, how wild is that? - Jerry! 132 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:34,181 {\an8}It's just, I'm excited to be here, man. To do this with you. 133 00:08:34,181 --> 00:08:36,433 Yeah. And we're gonna get into all that and more 134 00:08:36,433 --> 00:08:41,563 after we take a minute to acknowledge our supporters. 135 00:08:41,563 --> 00:08:44,107 - No. - The work that we do here at FreeWaves 136 00:08:44,107 --> 00:08:50,864 {\an8}is made possible by the generous support of The Strength-- 137 00:08:50,864 --> 00:08:56,828 The Strength in Numbers Foundation. 138 00:08:57,412 --> 00:09:02,459 It is a non-profit group dedicated to supporting eff-- 139 00:09:02,459 --> 00:09:05,254 supporting efforts to make the world healthier, 140 00:09:05,254 --> 00:09:07,047 kinder and more just. 141 00:09:07,047 --> 00:09:11,009 The whole team here at FreeWaves is grateful for their visionary support. 142 00:09:11,593 --> 00:09:13,470 - What the fuck, man? - What the fuck with you? 143 00:09:13,470 --> 00:09:15,639 - What is wrong with you? - We do it every week. 144 00:09:15,639 --> 00:09:17,808 - We've got your ex-wife... - I'm introducing the show. 145 00:09:17,808 --> 00:09:20,519 - ...like a fucking devil over our heads. - I'm introducing the show. 146 00:09:20,519 --> 00:09:22,563 - Do you have any idea-- - Five, six, seven, eight! 147 00:09:28,110 --> 00:09:29,528 All right, get ready to roll it out. 148 00:09:29,528 --> 00:09:31,989 And one. All the way. 149 00:09:31,989 --> 00:09:38,495 Hit the walls. Yeah! Six, seven, and-- To your left. 150 00:09:39,663 --> 00:09:40,831 Sorry! 151 00:09:40,831 --> 00:09:42,791 You having a little trouble back there? 152 00:09:44,001 --> 00:09:45,002 I'll get it. 153 00:09:45,627 --> 00:09:48,172 Well, it helps if you show up to class on time. 154 00:09:48,172 --> 00:09:49,423 Yes. 155 00:09:49,423 --> 00:09:52,509 Seven, eight. And one, two. 156 00:09:54,261 --> 00:09:55,345 Give me a shimmy. 157 00:09:55,345 --> 00:09:57,723 And shimmy. Here we go. 158 00:09:58,390 --> 00:10:00,809 Let's take it from the top. One. 159 00:10:01,393 --> 00:10:04,813 Do better. Push yourself harder. Yeah! 160 00:10:07,191 --> 00:10:10,277 Look at you, showing up to my class without even a heads-up. 161 00:10:10,277 --> 00:10:11,862 I had a light morning. 162 00:10:11,862 --> 00:10:15,908 Hey, you don't wanna go grab a coffee before we get the day going, do you? 163 00:10:15,908 --> 00:10:19,828 Oh, my God. I wish. But I have-- What do I have? 164 00:10:19,828 --> 00:10:22,331 I have the lawyers at 10:00. The tax people at 11:00. 165 00:10:22,831 --> 00:10:25,459 I was hoping we could find some-- It doesn't matter. 166 00:10:25,459 --> 00:10:28,128 It was silly. Just some time to talk without the whole team. 167 00:10:29,004 --> 00:10:31,798 I would love nothing more. Let's schedule a meal. 168 00:10:31,798 --> 00:10:33,675 We have a big milestone moment to celebrate. 169 00:10:33,675 --> 00:10:35,177 As of this week, 170 00:10:35,177 --> 00:10:38,931 Strength in Numbers officially has penetration in all 50 states. 171 00:10:39,890 --> 00:10:42,392 And I just said penetration without cracking a smile. 172 00:10:42,392 --> 00:10:44,061 So, look, we're all growing. 173 00:10:44,061 --> 00:10:46,813 We thought we were earlier, but there were some copycat franchises 174 00:10:46,813 --> 00:10:49,441 and trademark violators, but we handled those. 175 00:10:49,441 --> 00:10:53,028 - So, okay, let's see. Dinner this week-- - How did we handle them? 176 00:10:53,028 --> 00:10:55,239 - What? - The copycat franchises? 177 00:10:56,657 --> 00:10:57,741 The lawyers do it. 178 00:10:57,741 --> 00:10:59,201 It's best not to get into the details. 179 00:10:59,201 --> 00:11:01,453 Those guys can be effective. 180 00:11:01,453 --> 00:11:05,332 Okay, so this dinner, is this just us or, 181 00:11:05,332 --> 00:11:07,084 like, a couples thing, or-- 182 00:11:08,085 --> 00:11:10,003 Are you gonna tell me who you've been seeing? 183 00:11:10,003 --> 00:11:12,714 You've been very elusive. Which you have every right to be. 184 00:11:12,714 --> 00:11:14,341 It's nothing serious. 185 00:11:14,842 --> 00:11:17,594 A little no-strings fun. Don't say with Danny. 186 00:11:17,594 --> 00:11:19,304 - Don't say with Danny. - It's not with Danny. 187 00:11:19,304 --> 00:11:21,265 Then I'm very happy for you. 188 00:11:21,265 --> 00:11:22,349 Greta? 189 00:11:25,727 --> 00:11:29,106 I don't like the idea of lawyers handling things. 190 00:11:29,106 --> 00:11:30,983 I don't like how it feels. 191 00:11:30,983 --> 00:11:32,109 What's the alternative? 192 00:11:33,402 --> 00:11:35,779 I don't know. Letting them be. 193 00:11:37,281 --> 00:11:38,574 They're stealing from you. 194 00:11:39,950 --> 00:11:42,661 I stole too, early on. 195 00:11:42,661 --> 00:11:45,372 I talk about discovering aerobics, 196 00:11:45,914 --> 00:11:48,333 like Columbus "discovered" America. 197 00:11:48,333 --> 00:11:50,377 Now Columbus didn't discover America? 198 00:11:50,377 --> 00:11:52,004 It was already there. 199 00:11:52,796 --> 00:11:54,590 He just claimed it, exploited it. 200 00:11:56,967 --> 00:11:57,968 He conquered it. 201 00:12:02,764 --> 00:12:07,019 We don't apologize for our success. We celebrate it. 202 00:12:07,603 --> 00:12:09,813 But at what cost to others? 203 00:12:10,314 --> 00:12:13,358 The success of this enterprise, that's you. 204 00:12:13,358 --> 00:12:15,903 The idea to make it national: you. 205 00:12:16,445 --> 00:12:19,489 The story of transformation: yours. 206 00:12:20,032 --> 00:12:21,200 I did make it mine. 207 00:12:21,867 --> 00:12:22,868 But-- 208 00:12:23,452 --> 00:12:28,457 But I don't wanna see anyone get conquered, vanquished. 209 00:12:28,457 --> 00:12:29,541 Look at me. 210 00:12:30,667 --> 00:12:33,462 You don't owe anyone anything. 211 00:12:36,548 --> 00:12:37,549 You're right. 212 00:12:39,134 --> 00:12:41,345 - I built this. - You built this. 213 00:12:41,345 --> 00:12:42,721 You built all of this. 214 00:12:42,721 --> 00:12:46,183 This beautiful home. It's all because of you. 215 00:12:48,393 --> 00:12:49,728 But does that mean... 216 00:12:51,605 --> 00:12:52,689 that I have to be alone? 217 00:12:55,609 --> 00:12:56,693 You're not alone. 218 00:12:57,528 --> 00:12:58,779 But I'm talking to no one. 219 00:12:58,779 --> 00:13:02,407 I'm filling my home with the ghost of a failed relationship. 220 00:13:02,407 --> 00:13:04,993 No, somebody is out there. 221 00:13:06,328 --> 00:13:07,162 Hello! 222 00:13:13,168 --> 00:13:14,169 Hello! 223 00:13:28,642 --> 00:13:30,102 Is anybody out here? 224 00:13:32,104 --> 00:13:33,647 Is someone here? 225 00:13:40,821 --> 00:13:41,738 I don't like it. 226 00:13:42,948 --> 00:13:44,575 No, I don't like this one fucking bit. 227 00:13:44,575 --> 00:13:46,660 How about if I come over with my Louisville Slugger? 228 00:13:46,660 --> 00:13:48,161 It creates a perimeter. Like... 229 00:13:49,288 --> 00:13:50,581 I have an alarm system. 230 00:13:50,581 --> 00:13:52,749 I'm not afraid. I'm more curious. 231 00:13:52,749 --> 00:13:55,961 I mean, who breaks something and then comes back to replace it? 232 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:01,049 A lot of loonies out there, now that you're rich and famous. 233 00:14:01,049 --> 00:14:02,885 Look, I can be there right after my shift. 234 00:14:02,885 --> 00:14:05,345 Thank you. I can take care of myself. Really. 235 00:14:05,846 --> 00:14:08,932 I just-- I mean, I moved down to the beach for privacy, you know? 236 00:14:08,932 --> 00:14:12,477 So that I could look at the ocean and know that nobody was looking back at me. 237 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:15,647 But it hasn't really worked out like that. 238 00:14:16,607 --> 00:14:18,275 Even when I am alone, I-- 239 00:14:19,318 --> 00:14:20,360 You're still there. 240 00:14:21,528 --> 00:14:24,406 And the ocean, it's like the world's biggest mirror. 241 00:14:25,657 --> 00:14:26,742 So, who's sharing today? 242 00:14:28,702 --> 00:14:32,623 My least favorite person in the group. Me. 243 00:14:34,499 --> 00:14:35,501 I just made a year. 244 00:14:37,044 --> 00:14:39,171 Harriet, that is wonderful news. 245 00:14:40,339 --> 00:14:41,423 Big deal. 246 00:14:42,174 --> 00:14:44,343 I wasted about 30 years of my life bingeing. 247 00:14:44,343 --> 00:14:46,136 I'm supposed to celebrate one year without it? 248 00:14:46,136 --> 00:14:49,056 Yes! And we're all gonna celebrate right there with you. 249 00:14:49,056 --> 00:14:50,557 I'm really proud of you. 250 00:14:50,557 --> 00:14:51,642 Proud of you too. 251 00:14:52,226 --> 00:14:55,896 For giving us a space to meet out in the real world. 252 00:14:55,896 --> 00:14:59,566 - And decent fucking chairs for once! - Oh, please. This is nothing. 253 00:14:59,566 --> 00:15:00,943 These were a tax write-off. 254 00:15:00,943 --> 00:15:04,571 Oh, come on. If I have to deal with getting celebrated, so do you. 255 00:15:04,571 --> 00:15:06,990 - Create a perimeter. Yeah. - I could probably break-- 256 00:15:06,990 --> 00:15:08,867 - breach that perimeter, if I had to. - Yeah, I know. 257 00:15:19,461 --> 00:15:20,504 Hello? 258 00:15:21,922 --> 00:15:25,092 Hey, I know somebody is here. 259 00:15:25,092 --> 00:15:26,844 So, just-- You may as well come out, 260 00:15:26,844 --> 00:15:29,471 because I'm gonna stay out here until you do. 261 00:15:38,730 --> 00:15:39,731 Tyler? 262 00:15:40,691 --> 00:15:41,692 Sup, Sheila? 263 00:15:45,487 --> 00:15:47,281 I'm bad at stalking. 264 00:15:47,281 --> 00:15:49,324 Well, you scared me at first. 265 00:15:49,992 --> 00:15:51,368 - Seriously? - Yeah. 266 00:15:53,996 --> 00:15:55,122 I'm sorry. 267 00:15:55,706 --> 00:15:57,499 Do you wanna tell me what you're doing here? 268 00:15:58,250 --> 00:15:59,251 I do. 269 00:16:00,210 --> 00:16:01,920 But the thing is, I'm not super sure. 270 00:16:02,796 --> 00:16:06,425 I know I'm very angry at you, which I'm also not very good at, 271 00:16:06,925 --> 00:16:12,389 because what happened with me and Bun was largely, if not fully, your fault. 272 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:15,559 You're gonna have to explain that to me. 273 00:16:15,559 --> 00:16:17,311 Well, we were doing good. 274 00:16:17,311 --> 00:16:19,646 We came back to the States. 275 00:16:19,646 --> 00:16:20,898 She was teaching again. 276 00:16:20,898 --> 00:16:23,358 She loves teaching. She comes to life up there. 277 00:16:25,068 --> 00:16:27,112 And then you sicced your lawyers on us. 278 00:16:28,197 --> 00:16:29,823 I know nothing about that. 279 00:16:29,823 --> 00:16:33,869 That's funny, 'cause they said it came directly from Sheila D. Rubin Enterprises. 280 00:16:34,661 --> 00:16:36,288 Cease and desist. 281 00:16:36,288 --> 00:16:38,749 Bunny wanted to fight it, but I was like, "What's the point?" 282 00:16:38,749 --> 00:16:40,584 And that's when she really went off. 283 00:16:40,584 --> 00:16:43,253 She hurt my fucking feelings, like, so bad. 284 00:16:44,254 --> 00:16:47,257 And then she went to Mexico. I think it was to get you back. 285 00:16:48,967 --> 00:16:53,013 Not "get you back," but, like, get you back. 286 00:16:53,013 --> 00:16:54,348 Like, revenge. 287 00:16:55,098 --> 00:16:57,893 How does going to Mexico get me back? 288 00:16:59,061 --> 00:17:03,065 I don't know. Guess you're gonna have to ask the mall man. 289 00:17:05,567 --> 00:17:07,653 I mean, it's one thing to leave me, but... 290 00:17:08,945 --> 00:17:10,906 it's just not fair to Gidget. 291 00:17:11,490 --> 00:17:12,741 We were like a little family. 292 00:17:13,325 --> 00:17:15,077 You don't have any baby carrots, do you? 293 00:17:16,537 --> 00:17:17,913 She loves those things. 294 00:17:27,506 --> 00:17:29,925 {\an8}- You okay to get your bag? - Got it. 295 00:17:36,932 --> 00:17:38,350 Hey, sweetie. 296 00:17:42,229 --> 00:17:43,772 Interesting meeting spot. 297 00:17:43,772 --> 00:17:47,317 Yeah. Well, you know, this is where we get our recycled fuel oil 298 00:17:47,317 --> 00:17:50,779 so we can make the big trip to pick up a certain special girl. 299 00:17:50,779 --> 00:17:53,365 Did you grow in the past two weeks? 300 00:17:53,365 --> 00:17:55,576 No. Mom got me new high-tops with wedges in 'em. 301 00:17:55,576 --> 00:17:57,411 They give me, like, two inches. 302 00:17:58,287 --> 00:18:00,414 They have ankle support. 303 00:18:01,248 --> 00:18:04,251 - Good. - Okay, sweetie. I love you. 304 00:18:04,251 --> 00:18:05,752 - Love you, Mom. - I'll miss you. 305 00:18:05,752 --> 00:18:07,045 And have fun at Dad's. 306 00:18:07,045 --> 00:18:08,130 - Okay, bye. - Okay. 307 00:18:10,883 --> 00:18:14,011 I need to tell you I'm making a trip out of the country. 308 00:18:14,011 --> 00:18:16,346 So, I need to ask you, actually. 309 00:18:16,930 --> 00:18:18,599 Do you have to tell me where you're going? 310 00:18:18,599 --> 00:18:21,059 Not necessarily but Mexico. 311 00:18:21,977 --> 00:18:23,645 Okay. You're coming back though, right? 312 00:18:23,645 --> 00:18:25,272 - Yeah, of course. - Great. Right. 313 00:18:25,272 --> 00:18:27,566 It's a girls' trip. I'm going to a resort. I'm just-- 314 00:18:27,566 --> 00:18:30,444 I'm just exhausted from the traveling. 315 00:18:30,444 --> 00:18:32,946 Well, yeah, I mean, approved. 316 00:18:34,198 --> 00:18:35,199 How's she feeling? 317 00:18:35,991 --> 00:18:36,992 Hey. 318 00:18:39,703 --> 00:18:41,496 Yeah, she's feeling good. 319 00:18:41,496 --> 00:18:45,709 Kind of going through a thing now with smells and textures. 320 00:18:45,709 --> 00:18:48,462 Terry cloth somehow makes her pretty angry. 321 00:18:48,462 --> 00:18:51,673 Did you do anything like that? You remember anything like that? 322 00:18:52,299 --> 00:18:56,345 I mean, honestly, it just all feels like so long ago. 323 00:18:56,345 --> 00:18:57,763 Yeah, I know. 324 00:18:57,763 --> 00:18:59,431 - I'm sure it'll pass. - I hope. 325 00:18:59,431 --> 00:19:02,643 Please tell her that though, 'cause she thinks it is forever. 326 00:19:03,435 --> 00:19:05,521 But she's young. Younger, you know? 327 00:19:05,521 --> 00:19:07,814 She doesn't have the perspective like... 328 00:19:08,690 --> 00:19:12,236 you and I-- we have. Did you remember to bring-- 329 00:19:12,236 --> 00:19:14,571 - Oh, yes. Yeah, of course. - Yes. Okay, yeah. Great. 330 00:19:14,571 --> 00:19:16,990 - Yeah. - Oh, gosh. Yeah. 331 00:19:16,990 --> 00:19:20,244 And she's been lying about flossing. 332 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:23,330 So, I don't want to shame her about it, but you know, 333 00:19:23,330 --> 00:19:24,915 just don't take her word for it. 334 00:19:24,915 --> 00:19:26,875 Right. Well, flossing is important. 335 00:19:26,875 --> 00:19:28,710 - She's got those big-girl teeth now, so-- - Yeah. 336 00:19:30,128 --> 00:19:32,297 - Well, great. - Okay. 337 00:19:32,881 --> 00:19:34,967 Well, enjoy Mexico. 338 00:19:35,843 --> 00:19:37,427 - And try to relax. - Yeah. 339 00:19:37,427 --> 00:19:38,929 You know, you deserve it. 340 00:20:19,136 --> 00:20:20,137 This. 341 00:20:20,137 --> 00:20:22,973 This is what I needed. 342 00:20:26,185 --> 00:20:27,186 Are you happy? 343 00:20:27,895 --> 00:20:29,730 I'm a fresh drink away from ecstatic. 344 00:20:32,399 --> 00:20:34,026 In your life, I mean. 345 00:20:34,735 --> 00:20:36,320 Would you say that you're happy? 346 00:20:38,530 --> 00:20:40,532 I mean, not every second of every day. 347 00:20:41,450 --> 00:20:44,620 But I have something better now. 348 00:20:45,871 --> 00:20:46,914 Satisfaction. 349 00:20:47,998 --> 00:20:51,293 Yeah, like, deep satisfaction with my life. 350 00:20:52,544 --> 00:20:54,671 Accomplishments I can really be proud of. 351 00:20:55,172 --> 00:20:59,092 A husband who I can honestly say is finally coming around t-- Oh, no! 352 00:20:59,635 --> 00:21:01,428 - Am I upsetting you? - No. 353 00:21:01,428 --> 00:21:05,224 I didn't mean to brag. You just asked, and I wanted to be honest. 354 00:21:05,224 --> 00:21:06,433 - Please don't cry. - No. 355 00:21:06,433 --> 00:21:10,103 I am so happy for you. I really am, truly. 356 00:21:10,103 --> 00:21:12,898 I just... I-- It-- This is fun. 357 00:21:12,898 --> 00:21:14,358 Maybe I should just take a little walk. 358 00:21:14,358 --> 00:21:16,985 Sheila! No, absolutely not. You're not walking away. 359 00:21:16,985 --> 00:21:19,696 You're gonna stay here and tell me what's going on. 360 00:21:19,696 --> 00:21:22,241 I can't. You'll think less of me. I-- 361 00:21:22,241 --> 00:21:24,326 It is impossible for me to think less of you. 362 00:21:24,326 --> 00:21:26,370 That's not what I meant. 363 00:21:27,829 --> 00:21:32,751 Nothing you could say would ever change the way I feel about you. Ever. 364 00:21:33,877 --> 00:21:34,878 I... 365 00:21:43,637 --> 00:21:46,765 I may have brought you here under false pretenses. 366 00:21:47,349 --> 00:21:50,477 Okay. How false? 367 00:21:51,228 --> 00:21:57,067 I do wanna celebrate our milestone and spend time with you. 368 00:21:57,067 --> 00:22:00,821 But I also came here to see him. 369 00:22:02,322 --> 00:22:03,156 John. 370 00:22:08,328 --> 00:22:09,371 Does he know this? 371 00:22:09,371 --> 00:22:13,417 No, and I know it sounds crazy, but it's even crazier than it sounds. 372 00:22:15,210 --> 00:22:16,211 Tyler came to see me. 373 00:22:16,211 --> 00:22:18,255 Tyler is involved in this? 374 00:22:18,255 --> 00:22:21,967 All right. Okay. I think we-- Maybe we both need to take a walk. 375 00:22:21,967 --> 00:22:23,051 Let's take a walk. 376 00:22:25,345 --> 00:22:31,977 So, Bunny came down here to seduce him to get back at you? 377 00:22:32,686 --> 00:22:35,772 That's what Tyler said. And I have no reason to doubt it. 378 00:22:37,107 --> 00:22:39,359 Yeah. But would John actually fall for that? 379 00:22:40,194 --> 00:22:42,821 Well, he fell for me, didn't he? I mean, I know it's out-there, 380 00:22:42,821 --> 00:22:46,783 but I just at least have to see for myself, you know. To know for sure. 381 00:22:48,327 --> 00:22:50,704 And how far down the road are we on this mission? 382 00:22:51,747 --> 00:22:53,790 Well, we have an address, 383 00:22:53,790 --> 00:22:57,961 - not far from here, of his church. - His church? 384 00:22:57,961 --> 00:23:01,006 Well, I can't very well march into his house, can I? 385 00:23:01,715 --> 00:23:04,635 No, you can't. But God's house? 386 00:23:05,344 --> 00:23:09,014 All right. Sheila, I love you. I support you. 387 00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:14,102 But... this is really starting to scare me. 388 00:23:14,686 --> 00:23:17,189 You've moved beyond John. You've evolved. 389 00:23:17,189 --> 00:23:19,900 Heck, you've helped me evolve and thousands of other women too. 390 00:23:19,900 --> 00:23:24,947 I know. But there's what I say and then how I feel. 391 00:23:25,739 --> 00:23:30,536 And the truth is, I think about him so much. 392 00:23:31,286 --> 00:23:32,412 He's in my head. 393 00:23:32,913 --> 00:23:35,832 Like, I'm not even seeing anyone, Greta. 394 00:23:36,667 --> 00:23:40,587 I'm just talking to him alone in my house. 395 00:23:41,088 --> 00:23:44,842 Like I used to with myself, with Kelly. 396 00:23:46,593 --> 00:23:50,681 I just-- I need to see what is happening with my own eyes, so I know. 397 00:23:50,681 --> 00:23:53,642 And then I can move on. Or maybe... 398 00:23:58,021 --> 00:24:00,107 Okay, well, if you're doing this, I'm coming with you. 399 00:24:03,235 --> 00:24:04,236 Clearly. 400 00:24:38,437 --> 00:24:39,438 Hello, Sheila. 401 00:24:40,564 --> 00:24:43,609 You weren't-- Were you expecting me? 402 00:24:43,609 --> 00:24:49,656 Not quite so soon, but yes. 403 00:24:52,868 --> 00:24:53,869 Why? 404 00:24:56,496 --> 00:24:59,374 On Wednesdays and Saturdays, it's my job to look after the children. 405 00:25:03,337 --> 00:25:08,926 I know it must seem surprising to you to see me like this. 406 00:25:09,551 --> 00:25:12,679 No, it's perfectly-- 407 00:25:13,472 --> 00:25:16,266 I mean, it's lovely to see you like this. 408 00:25:16,266 --> 00:25:18,185 It's surprising to me too. 409 00:25:18,185 --> 00:25:19,353 Believe me. 410 00:25:19,353 --> 00:25:23,065 I don't think I knew how much pressure I felt 411 00:25:23,774 --> 00:25:28,278 until I wasn't feeling it anymore after we left. 412 00:25:28,278 --> 00:25:31,907 Not immediately, of course, but with time. 413 00:25:32,783 --> 00:25:34,660 I make it sound like... 414 00:25:34,660 --> 00:25:36,787 I just do this a couple of hours a week 415 00:25:37,287 --> 00:25:38,705 while the ladies have their class. 416 00:25:39,873 --> 00:25:43,961 I'd be happy to show you around afterward. 417 00:25:44,545 --> 00:25:45,546 What we've built... 418 00:25:47,548 --> 00:25:52,678 it's humble, but it's special. 419 00:25:55,722 --> 00:25:58,100 I'm sorry, what class? 420 00:26:03,647 --> 00:26:09,194 And five, six, seven, eight! And one, two, three. 421 00:26:09,194 --> 00:26:11,113 One, two, three. 422 00:26:11,613 --> 00:26:14,366 One, two, three. You gotta move it if you wanna groove it! 423 00:26:15,075 --> 00:26:19,079 And pull it in, and in, and in, and in. 424 00:26:19,663 --> 00:26:23,792 Five, six, seven, eight, and twist. 425 00:26:25,002 --> 00:26:26,170 And twi-- 426 00:26:28,714 --> 00:26:30,716 And into the cooldown. 427 00:26:36,388 --> 00:26:39,099 If you came to shut me down again, you can fucking forget it. 428 00:26:39,099 --> 00:26:42,436 It's a community class. We're not even charging any money, honey. 429 00:26:43,478 --> 00:26:45,230 I mean, I get paid by her. 430 00:26:46,398 --> 00:26:47,691 Don't look so surprised. 431 00:26:47,691 --> 00:26:50,611 You're the one who preached the gospel of exercise to me, 432 00:26:50,611 --> 00:26:52,696 its empowering benefits. 433 00:26:53,197 --> 00:26:55,115 We needed a teacher, and Bunny was available. 434 00:26:57,910 --> 00:27:00,287 So what do you want now? Blood? 435 00:27:01,163 --> 00:27:04,875 Me and Tyler got Hep B from those stupid engagement piercings, 436 00:27:04,875 --> 00:27:06,376 so mine's no good anyway. 437 00:27:06,376 --> 00:27:09,379 I'm not here to shut you down. 438 00:27:09,963 --> 00:27:11,006 Then why the hell are you here? 439 00:27:16,345 --> 00:27:17,679 Tyler came to see me. 440 00:27:19,598 --> 00:27:21,350 And what'd he have to say for himself? 441 00:27:21,350 --> 00:27:25,479 Mostly that he misses you and that he was angry with me. For good reason. 442 00:27:26,605 --> 00:27:27,689 How'd he look? 443 00:27:28,607 --> 00:27:29,525 Miserable. 444 00:27:30,943 --> 00:27:32,319 Good. 445 00:27:32,319 --> 00:27:36,907 So, you came all the way to Mexico to tell me how Tyler feels? 446 00:27:38,408 --> 00:27:41,954 We came to offer you a grant from the Strength in Numbers Foundation 447 00:27:41,954 --> 00:27:44,414 for the work you've been doing in the community. 448 00:27:44,414 --> 00:27:47,251 You mean a tax write-off to advertise your brand? 449 00:27:47,251 --> 00:27:51,129 - Fuck you very much, but no. - No. Greta's just-- 450 00:27:51,129 --> 00:27:54,591 I know you're trying to help. But that's not why we came here. 451 00:27:54,591 --> 00:27:57,010 We came here-- I came here because... 452 00:28:00,556 --> 00:28:03,392 I suspected that you were trying to punish me 453 00:28:03,392 --> 00:28:06,353 by taking something away from me that-- 454 00:28:07,396 --> 00:28:09,189 that was never really mine in the first place. 455 00:28:09,189 --> 00:28:11,567 Which I deserve, by the way, 456 00:28:12,192 --> 00:28:13,610 because I-- 457 00:28:15,112 --> 00:28:17,614 I took credit for what you taught me. 458 00:28:18,740 --> 00:28:22,327 You introduced me to aerobics when I was at my lowest, 459 00:28:22,870 --> 00:28:25,080 and it saved me. 460 00:28:26,123 --> 00:28:28,125 You saved me, and then I turned around and-- 461 00:28:28,125 --> 00:28:29,793 Made a fucking fortune off it. 462 00:28:30,377 --> 00:28:34,590 - Yes. And that was wrong of me. - I don't want to forgive you. 463 00:28:34,590 --> 00:28:35,757 And I'm not asking you to. 464 00:28:35,757 --> 00:28:39,970 I just want to give you credit for being the first and for teaching me. 465 00:28:40,971 --> 00:28:42,681 I wasn't the first. 466 00:28:43,849 --> 00:28:45,225 Somebody taught it to me. 467 00:28:47,561 --> 00:28:49,897 So, maybe it belongs to all of us. 468 00:28:57,779 --> 00:29:00,324 Would it be okay if I joined your class? 469 00:29:01,241 --> 00:29:02,868 I really need to clear my head. 470 00:29:07,206 --> 00:29:09,208 Make some room in the back, ladies. 471 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:48,205 I am not making this up. This is a fact proven by scientists. 472 00:29:48,205 --> 00:29:52,376 When human beings engage in synchronous physical activity, 473 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,712 when we move together, especially to music, 474 00:29:56,213 --> 00:29:59,591 our brains release a chemical-- stay with me-- 475 00:30:00,259 --> 00:30:04,638 that makes us feel connected to the strangers around us. 476 00:30:04,638 --> 00:30:06,932 And we've all felt this intuitively, 477 00:30:06,932 --> 00:30:10,185 whether singing in a choir or cheering at a football game 478 00:30:10,185 --> 00:30:12,771 or taking an aerobics class. 479 00:30:15,566 --> 00:30:16,942 But here's the coolest part. 480 00:30:18,777 --> 00:30:21,488 That same chemical, it also makes us feel connected 481 00:30:21,488 --> 00:30:23,282 to something bigger than ourselves. 482 00:30:25,909 --> 00:30:31,081 You could call it a higher power or God or just the infinite. 483 00:30:33,500 --> 00:30:36,795 But I think that's kind of miraculous, don't you? 484 00:30:40,257 --> 00:30:43,552 To think I started this whole thing looking for control 485 00:30:44,219 --> 00:30:48,932 when all I had to do to touch the infinite was let go of it.