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[upbeat joyful music playing]

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Give me a kiss.

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Love you.

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[indistinct chatter]

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-Oh! It's--
-[laughter]

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-Can I talk to you real quick, man?
-Yeah. Y'all good though, right?

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We're good, dude. We're really good.
Having little arguments here and there…

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-For real?
-Yeah.

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It's not always happiness.
It's not always rainbows and whatnot, so…

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But I feel like that's what it's about.

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[Jarrette] Iyanna and I have not had one.
From Mexico to now, there's been nothing.

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-Been on the same page this entire time.
-That's good, man.

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One good thing that my dad told me
is no matter what issues you have,

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what disagreements you have,
never go to sleep angry.

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-See, though, I have.
-Never go to sleep angry.

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I have gone to sleep angry, though, dude.

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-When we hung out at that bar…
-[both laughing]

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And honestly, man, Mallory talked to me
about the comment that was made

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about her ring, and…
I don't know, bro, it was just like…

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[sighs]

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I know she didn't appreciate that comment
about the ring not being gold.

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[tense music playing]

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I said it jokingly, because I know
that she wanted a gold ring,

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but I wasn't trying to throw shade.
You know how I am.

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You know I joke all the fucking time.

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It was nothing where I was like,

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"I would've got you this, or did that."
That was never a thing.

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We had our thing in the pods.
She made her decision.

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I am perfectly fine with her decision.

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I tell her all the time,

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"Sal is a great dude.
You'll be lucky to end up with Sal."

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Anybody would've been lucky
to end up with you.

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And if you're happy, she's happy,
I'm happy for you.

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Happy for both of y'all.

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I just wanted to clear the air.
It was just a misunderstanding, then.

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I found my person,
and I'm happy with my person, so,

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everything else is out the window.

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I have no feelings for anyone else here,
outside of Iyanna.

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If things are going good, we'll be married
in about two weeks. Wow. [chuckles]

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Everything seems good.

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-A little too good. [laughs]
-That's how it should be.

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-Cheers.
-Cheers, bro.

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♪ 'Cause I ♪

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♪ Feel the heat
'Cause I'm falling in love, love, love ♪

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I'm actually warm, so take my coat.

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[Danielle] Oh, another coat.
Oh, you're so sweet.

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Did you have fun tonight? Yeah.

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-And did you?
-It was okay.

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-What?
-What about you?

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Nothing, you keep looking at me
kinda funny,

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like you've got something to say.

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[grunts]

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-You uncomfortable right now?
-Yeah. Horribly.

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[sighs]

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-Well, what did she say?
-Shaina?

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She said-- She basically called us,
our relationship a fraud.

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And just called out saying,
you guys are not compatible.

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-All that kind of stuff. Yeah.
-Wait. What?

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Yeah. She was just calling you out
the whole time.

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-Really?
-Yeah.

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-No way anyone thinks that.
-I don't know.

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Actually, I don't know
if there's something else

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that I'm missing here or what?

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-I don't know.
-Am I missing something?

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I'm asking you that question,
because I wanna know.

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I'm not calling you out.
I wonder why she'd say that.

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-I don't know.
-I mean, it's--

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I've never talked to her about us.
But only that, we're really good.

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So, that'd be crazy.

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-What would be crazy?
-If we were a fraud couple.

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-Do you think we're a fraud couple?
-No. Do you?

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No. They can call me whatever they want,
but I don't believe it.

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Well, I love you.

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Candidly, I don't think
Shaina has something strong with Kyle.

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So, I think it's hard for her to think
Shayne and I could have something strong.

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You know, in the pods,
it was just Shayne and I.

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We didn't have to worry about other people
impacting our relationship.

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Like, you know… other guys or girls

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like, DMing us or, like,
you know, um, trying to hit on us.

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I'm not nervous
that my wedding's in two weeks.

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I know that I'll absolutely marry him.
I love who he is.

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And I know I wanna be
with who he is for the rest of my life.

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Should we just make sweet, sweet love
on the beach right now?

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Should we make babies right now?

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Yeah.

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♪ Love you no matter what ♪

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♪ No matter what ♪

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♪ We've been through it all ♪

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♪ Still standing strong
Not giving up ♪

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♪ I love you no matter what ♪

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♪ Come on, let's talk tonight ♪

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♪ Got you here right by my side ♪

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[Nick] Am I keeping you dry?

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[Danielle sighs] Barely.

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[Nick] It's a small umbrella.
I didn't expect it to rain like this.

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Today, Danielle comes
to see my condo for the first time,

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and we are looking
at how are we going to make

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a home out of a place that's been my home
for a couple of years.

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-[Danielle] Where's the little cutie?
-See, he's in here.

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[Danielle] Oh yes!

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I'm nervous that she's going to feel
like it's not hers.

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The wedding's a few weeks away.

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So, it's the most important thing to me

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that she feels like this is our home
and something she's comfortable living in.

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-[chuckles] Wait, your place is so nice.
-Yeah, this is my spot.

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-This is the master.
-[Danielle] Which one? This is your room.

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I'm so happy that I get to live with him
for the rest of my life. You are so cute.

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[laughing] I can't…

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Let's see the closet space. I need
to figure out how to fit all my shit.

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I'm feeling like I'm just gonna move
into the guest closet. [chuckles]

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I think the guest room
is going to be my closet.

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[both laughing]

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[Danielle] Oh, wow. Dawson's Creek?

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[Nick] Shut up.

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[both laughing]

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-I'm judging you right now.
-Yeah.

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The rest of the DVD collection.
By the way, these are all alphabetized.

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-Oh my gosh.
-Yeah.

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[whispering] I don't like that at all.

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It worries me a little bit,
because he is very neat.

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When they get unalphabetized, it becomes--

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-So, now I know how to piss you off.
-Yeah.

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[Danielle] And I'm kind of a messy person,

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and I'm scared that it could be an issue.

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[Nick] Could you see yourself living here?

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If we figure out a way
to fit my clothes. You'll find out.

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You're worried about the clothes.
Is that the only thing?

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[Danielle] I have a lot of stuff. I have
my video games that I'd have to bring.

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What are we gonna do with those?

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That's where I'm like, no…

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"Rock Band stuff's gotta have
someplace to go."

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It's 100% coming here with me.

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-But where do we store it? A closet?
-I kinda like mine just out.

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-For easy access.
-No, you don't.

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[splutters] Wait till you get
to my apartment. It's all out.

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-Really?
-I play it all the time.

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-You would just have it out?
-I do have it out.

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But like… can we, like,
put it in that bin?

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A drum set?

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We can't just have it out. We're not 15.

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[tense music builds]

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♪ Let's dance ♪

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[dance music plays]

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[Jarrette] They'll love you.

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[Iyanna] They don't know nothing,
so you don't know that.

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We're about to go meet Jarrette's parents.

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Jarrette didn't tell them anything
about this experiment.

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I feel like that's something
you should warn them about at least.

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Because his dad is traditional.

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[Jarrette groans]

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[Iyanna] Sometimes I still feel
like his second choice.

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I'm gonna do some deep breaths.

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So, I'd like to meet Jarrette's family
as his fiancée,

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for me, it actually means a lot.

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-You ready, child?
-You're so cute.

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I love Jarrette, so I hope they love me,
and I hope this goes smoothly.

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-Wow.
-Hey, now.

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Well, hello, Jarrette and company.

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-Hi.
-Hello.

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-Hi. Aren't you the cute one.
-[Jarrette] This is Iyanna.

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-Iyanna, hi.
-Iyanna, hello.

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-This is my dad, Tim.
-Nice to meet you.

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-This is my mom, Felicia.
-What's going on? Talk to us.

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[chuckles nervously]

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-[Tim] What?!
-What?! What?!

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-[Jarrette laughing]
-[laughing] Are you kidding me?

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What?!

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-Yeah.
-Don't you make me cry.

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-Take a moment.
-[Tim] Wait a minute.

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What?! Wait a minute!
Where the tissue at, people?

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What?!

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[Iyanna laughs]

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-He picked a cutie.
-Thank you. Thank you.

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Wow, welcome to the family.

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-Thank you.
-Wow!

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Oh! [laughs]

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[Jarrette] Dad?
You didn't expect this, huh?

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Not at all. You-- [laughs]

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-Stop. Hey.
-[laughter]

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Boy…

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-[laughing]
-[Iyanna] It's a lot.

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Well, this is good.
We got a date already too?

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June 7th.

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Of what year?

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In two weeks.

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[Jarrette and Iyanna laughing]

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-[Jarrette] Yeah.
-Wow.

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Nice. Okay, should we sit down?

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-Come on.
-[Jarrette and Iyanna] Yeah.

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But you all didn't see each other at all.

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-[Iyanna] Mm-mmm.
-You just communicated via…

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-A wall.
-Speaker in a wall.

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So, did you ask her questions

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to kind of figure out how she look?

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-No.
-He didn't wanna know anything.

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I didn't wanna know anything.

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-Really? Really, Jarrette?
-He didn't wanna know anything.

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I didn't, because I wanted to be invested
in this process and this experiment,

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and just literally
get to know her as a person

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and not having that outside noise
of what she looks like

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and truly get to know her.

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I took that and ran with it.

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What touched your heart?

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Her resiliency
and how strong she is as a person.

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-Wow.
-And that's what kind of drew me into her.

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I didn't have anything
to go off of but her word.

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So, the person that
she said she was in the pods

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and the entire time we were dating,
she's been the same throughout.

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-That's the difference.
-[Jarrette] Yeah.

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You have to know the inside
before you accept the outside.

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My birthday was our first date.

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-Aww.
-[Felicia] Yeah.

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[Tim] Just like you two,

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the conversation was like nothing
I'd ever had before with a woman.

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I'm sitting there like…

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[Jarrette and Iyanna laugh]

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[Tim] Every word she was saying, I'm like…

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[all laughing]

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And we sat there
until the restaurant closed.

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-[Felicia] Just talking.
-Just talking.

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Twenty-five years later,
we still together.

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-Still together.
-Still together.

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[Felicia] All of this to say,
keep talking.

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Communicate.

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Keep communicating
and create your stories.

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This is a story.

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-This is a story.
-Yeah.

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-He explained to you that I am a minister?
-He told me. Yes.

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So, I just…

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It would mean the world to me

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to be able to perform you guys' ceremony.

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I mean, that right there, to…

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[soft music plays]

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-It means a whole lot.
-[Felicia] Aww.

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Sorry.

236
00:10:54,195 --> 00:10:55,571
You're my firstborn.

237
00:10:56,364 --> 00:10:59,367
I've had people ask me
to do their weddings,

238
00:11:00,451 --> 00:11:04,455
and God wouldn't allow me to,
because I believe the first one

239
00:11:04,538 --> 00:11:06,332
has to be for you.

240
00:11:08,125 --> 00:11:11,337
-[Tim sighs] Man.
-Okay, baby. Okay.

241
00:11:11,837 --> 00:11:14,090
-I think you're a blessing.
-Thank you.

242
00:11:14,173 --> 00:11:17,343
[Iyanna] To just be
so welcomed, that felt great.

243
00:11:17,426 --> 00:11:21,263
Jarrette was proud
that I am his future wife.

244
00:11:21,347 --> 00:11:23,557
I feel closer to him afterward now.

245
00:11:24,058 --> 00:11:26,977
I can absolutely see myself
a part of this family,

246
00:11:27,061 --> 00:11:29,730
and I wish Jarrette could get
that same experience,

247
00:11:29,814 --> 00:11:32,566
but I know it won't be like that
with my parents.

248
00:11:32,650 --> 00:11:34,110
The vibes will be different.

249
00:11:34,193 --> 00:11:36,821
It'll be a lot more serious,
maybe some tension.

250
00:11:37,947 --> 00:11:40,032
[softly] Oh, God,
he has to meet my parents.

251
00:11:40,533 --> 00:11:41,992
[uplifting music plays]

252
00:11:47,707 --> 00:11:49,667
[Salvador] All right,
just a couple of things.

253
00:11:49,750 --> 00:11:51,585
-Good.
-Shouldn't take too long.

254
00:11:52,086 --> 00:11:53,879
Just a couple of socks.

255
00:11:54,380 --> 00:11:59,677
I'm happy to see Sal's place
and to meet his roommate, Caesar.

256
00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:01,679
You nervous
about me looking at your stuff?

257
00:12:01,762 --> 00:12:03,848
-No, go ahead.
-Oh, okay.

258
00:12:03,931 --> 00:12:05,558
I have nothing to hide.

259
00:12:05,641 --> 00:12:09,061
I like that you keep the--
The toilet seat's down. I see you.

260
00:12:09,145 --> 00:12:10,271
[Salvador laughs]

261
00:12:10,354 --> 00:12:13,524
-I know it's important. Yes.
-I see your little wipes. Okay.

262
00:12:13,607 --> 00:12:16,277
-Calling me out.
-[both laughing]

263
00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:21,407
Not surprised. I pictured
his place being very clean and organized.

264
00:12:21,490 --> 00:12:23,367
-Think I hear-- My dude!
-Yo.

265
00:12:23,451 --> 00:12:24,910
-Hey!
-What's up? Caesar.

266
00:12:24,994 --> 00:12:27,830
-Mallory. Nice to meet you.
-This is my fiancée, Mallory.

267
00:12:27,913 --> 00:12:29,623
Come here. Oh man.

268
00:12:29,707 --> 00:12:30,875
[Caesar] How's it goin'?

269
00:12:30,958 --> 00:12:34,295
It's going really good.
Bud, you want a cocktail?

270
00:12:34,378 --> 00:12:35,838
-Yeah.
-I'll make you something.

271
00:12:35,921 --> 00:12:39,133
I was saying, I love your place.
It's so beautiful. Love all the light.

272
00:12:39,216 --> 00:12:42,303
We've been here for a year.
We met through college.

273
00:12:42,386 --> 00:12:44,388
Both of us studied music,

274
00:12:44,472 --> 00:12:46,599
and I've been teaching for a while.

275
00:12:46,682 --> 00:12:48,559
-So, you're a music teacher. Okay.
-Yeah.

276
00:12:48,642 --> 00:12:50,853
-Do you sing together a lot?
-Yeah, we sing a lot.

277
00:12:50,936 --> 00:12:51,771
[Mallory] Oh…

278
00:12:51,854 --> 00:12:54,231
Sharing my world
with Mallory was really easy

279
00:12:54,315 --> 00:12:55,900
and I feel like she just fits in.

280
00:12:56,525 --> 00:13:00,196
If Mallory and I started a family,
I would sing to my kids all the time,

281
00:13:00,279 --> 00:13:02,615
and I think Mallory would really like it.

282
00:13:03,324 --> 00:13:07,369
It'd be like, I don't know,
a little group of mariachis or something.

283
00:13:07,870 --> 00:13:08,746
[chuckles]

284
00:13:08,829 --> 00:13:11,248
-[acoustic guitar tune playing]
-[Salvador] Ay.

285
00:13:13,459 --> 00:13:16,462
[in Spanish] ♪ From the Sierra Morena ♪

286
00:13:16,545 --> 00:13:21,634
♪ Pretty darling, they do come down ♪

287
00:13:23,719 --> 00:13:26,639
♪ The pair of little black eyes ♪

288
00:13:26,722 --> 00:13:32,228
♪ Pretty darling, do sneak on by ♪

289
00:13:33,604 --> 00:13:36,482
♪ That beauty mark that you have ♪

290
00:13:36,565 --> 00:13:41,612
♪ Pretty darling, by your mouth ♪

291
00:13:41,695 --> 00:13:44,198
♪ Don't give it to anyone else ♪

292
00:13:44,281 --> 00:13:48,494
♪ Pretty darling
For it only belongs to me ♪

293
00:13:50,830 --> 00:13:54,792
-[both] ♪ Ay, ay, ay, ay ♪
-That is so good.

294
00:13:54,875 --> 00:13:58,379
♪ Do sing and don't cry ♪

295
00:13:58,462 --> 00:14:01,799
♪ Because singing gladdens ♪

296
00:14:01,882 --> 00:14:07,972
♪ Pretty darling, the heart ♪

297
00:14:08,055 --> 00:14:10,099
Oh! Should I…? [chuckles]

298
00:14:10,182 --> 00:14:12,977
My God, you guys are so…
Seriously, made me cry.

299
00:14:13,060 --> 00:14:15,437
You're so good. [laughing]

300
00:14:17,106 --> 00:14:19,942
You know, the moment I realized
I was falling in love with Sal

301
00:14:20,025 --> 00:14:22,278
was definitely when he sang to me
in the pods.

302
00:14:22,361 --> 00:14:24,238
I've never had anyone do that for me,

303
00:14:24,321 --> 00:14:27,950
and Sal's very different
than men that I usually talk to.

304
00:14:28,033 --> 00:14:29,618
He's very much more…

305
00:14:30,119 --> 00:14:32,162
He's so in touch with his emotions

306
00:14:32,246 --> 00:14:34,582
and his feelings
and communicating those feelings,

307
00:14:34,665 --> 00:14:37,751
and just watching him sing,
and when he looked at me,

308
00:14:37,835 --> 00:14:39,378
it just felt so good,

309
00:14:39,461 --> 00:14:44,425
and I fell in love with him
a lot more today in that moment.

310
00:14:44,508 --> 00:14:47,803
I just got so emotional.
You guys are so good.

311
00:14:48,512 --> 00:14:50,931
-[upbeat music playing]
-[man vocalizing]

312
00:14:56,896 --> 00:14:59,857
I'm excited to see your place.
See where Shakey Shake lives.

313
00:14:59,940 --> 00:15:01,066
[Shake] Navigate home.

314
00:15:02,568 --> 00:15:04,862
You would recline back.

315
00:15:04,945 --> 00:15:05,946
[sighs]

316
00:15:06,030 --> 00:15:08,866
What's the point of having a Tesla
if you can't put it on autopilot?

317
00:15:08,949 --> 00:15:09,950
You're too much.

318
00:15:10,534 --> 00:15:14,246
Okay, you know what?
We have to push it to its very limit.

319
00:15:14,330 --> 00:15:15,789
[chuckling softly] Babe.

320
00:15:17,333 --> 00:15:19,460
Oh… my God.

321
00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:22,296
I didn't realize I was goin' 90. Oops.

322
00:15:23,297 --> 00:15:25,257
-Didn't feel like it, right?
-Not really.

323
00:15:25,341 --> 00:15:28,010
You're trying to make this drive
a five-minute drive, huh?

324
00:15:28,093 --> 00:15:30,763
That was pretty sexy though.
I like fast cars.

325
00:15:30,846 --> 00:15:34,558
Showing Deeps my place definitely
makes things a little bit more real.

326
00:15:34,642 --> 00:15:39,563
This is where we'll be living together
as husband and wife.

327
00:15:41,065 --> 00:15:42,650
-Close your eyes.
-[Deepti] Okay.

328
00:15:42,733 --> 00:15:43,692
Wait! Open!

329
00:15:44,193 --> 00:15:45,319
[shouts]

330
00:15:45,402 --> 00:15:48,280
Holy shit! It's amazing.

331
00:15:48,364 --> 00:15:51,617
-[Shake] This is the spot.
-What?! Definitely got a bachelor vibe.

332
00:15:51,700 --> 00:15:53,327
-[Shake] Bachelor vibe.
-Everything black.

333
00:15:53,410 --> 00:15:55,496
[Shake] It's easier that way.
Feel free to spruce.

334
00:15:55,579 --> 00:15:58,582
Gotta add a little girl magic in here.
What is this?

335
00:15:59,708 --> 00:16:00,584
Candle.

336
00:16:00,668 --> 00:16:01,669
All black candle?

337
00:16:01,752 --> 00:16:04,129
-All black everything. Just way easier.
-Oh boy.

338
00:16:04,213 --> 00:16:06,423
-Black, very easy.
-[Deepti] You need accents of color.

339
00:16:06,507 --> 00:16:08,842
-[Shake] You think so? Okay.
-Just a little. A little pink.

340
00:16:08,926 --> 00:16:11,136
It could use a feminine touch.
I agree with that.

341
00:16:11,220 --> 00:16:14,431
[Deepti] Holy shit.
Wait, this is really nice.

342
00:16:14,515 --> 00:16:17,142
-Yeah? Glad you like it.
-It's really nice.

343
00:16:17,226 --> 00:16:21,146
It's been great to live at home, but I'm
so ready to get out of my parents' place,

344
00:16:21,230 --> 00:16:23,399
and I love his apartment.

345
00:16:23,482 --> 00:16:25,818
There are definitely things
I would change about it.

346
00:16:25,901 --> 00:16:28,696
There's actually room for two
to sit out here and eat a meal.

347
00:16:28,779 --> 00:16:30,197
[Deepti] I'm a big fan of this.

348
00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:32,574
But it's really cute and cozy.

349
00:16:32,658 --> 00:16:36,578
I can envision
a cute little life there for us.

350
00:16:36,662 --> 00:16:39,415
Where do you see yourself living
in five years? Still in the city?

351
00:16:39,498 --> 00:16:41,875
I think I'll still be
in the city in five years.

352
00:16:41,959 --> 00:16:46,463
I would like to be,
because I'm opening an office here and--

353
00:16:46,547 --> 00:16:48,507
You good with raising kids in the city?

354
00:16:49,049 --> 00:16:51,385
We have to have enough money
to send 'em to good schools.

355
00:16:51,468 --> 00:16:54,680
-Gotta hustle.
-Hustle, focus a little bit more.

356
00:16:54,763 --> 00:16:57,808
-We can only have one or two kids.
-That's what it takes. Yeah. That's good.

357
00:16:57,891 --> 00:17:00,060
-Wanna see my room?
-[Deepti] Yes. Let's go.

358
00:17:00,144 --> 00:17:02,855
-[Shake] Okay.
-The moment I've been waiting for.

359
00:17:02,938 --> 00:17:04,189
[Shake] Here we are.

360
00:17:04,273 --> 00:17:05,941
[Deepti squeals softly]

361
00:17:06,025 --> 00:17:09,778
-Okay! You have a giant bed.
-[Shake] It's a little messy.

362
00:17:09,862 --> 00:17:11,739
[Deepti] I cannot believe it's happening.

363
00:17:11,822 --> 00:17:14,450
Like, I'm in the apartment

364
00:17:14,533 --> 00:17:17,661
that I'm gonna be living
with my future husband in. Like…

365
00:17:18,370 --> 00:17:23,667
How does it not set you
in that, like, flirty, fun mood?

366
00:17:23,751 --> 00:17:26,795
And we're gonna do it.

367
00:17:27,421 --> 00:17:29,590
"It" being marriage. [chuckles]

368
00:17:30,090 --> 00:17:32,634
[Shake] Here, watch this. Open curtains.

369
00:17:32,718 --> 00:17:35,345
-So…
-[Deepti] Whoa! It's nice.

370
00:17:35,429 --> 00:17:36,346
[Shake] Yeah.

371
00:17:36,847 --> 00:17:38,265
[Deepti] Where's your comforter?

372
00:17:38,348 --> 00:17:40,726
-Isn't this a comforter? What is this?
-Okay.

373
00:17:40,809 --> 00:17:44,813
It's very soft. Don't be deceived
by the grayness. It's very comfortable.

374
00:17:44,897 --> 00:17:48,275
We're gonna have to add some color
in here. Color it up.

375
00:17:48,358 --> 00:17:51,487
Color it up.
I turn my heated mattress pad on…

376
00:17:51,570 --> 00:17:54,198
-Okay.
-And I preheat it before I get in bed.

377
00:17:54,281 --> 00:17:56,784
-You like it hot in bed?
-Like getting into a hot tub.

378
00:17:56,867 --> 00:17:58,368
Oh my God.

379
00:17:58,952 --> 00:18:01,288
-It's a hot tub bed.
-[Deepti] Whoo. Very nice.

380
00:18:01,371 --> 00:18:02,623
I like it. I like it.

381
00:18:02,706 --> 00:18:06,752
♪ Are we dreaming? ♪

382
00:18:07,795 --> 00:18:09,713
♪ Are we dreaming, dreaming? ♪

383
00:18:09,797 --> 00:18:11,340
-[nervous laugh]
-Are you scared?

384
00:18:11,423 --> 00:18:12,424
I'm terrified.

385
00:18:12,508 --> 00:18:14,468
-Why are you terrified?
-I'm so nervous.

386
00:18:14,551 --> 00:18:17,638
What do you mean,
"Why am I terrified?" This is a big deal.

387
00:18:17,721 --> 00:18:18,764
We're almost there.

388
00:18:18,847 --> 00:18:21,016
-I'm gonna throw up and pee my pants.
-Really?

389
00:18:21,100 --> 00:18:23,018
Yeah. Are you nervous?

390
00:18:23,102 --> 00:18:25,395
I know they'll love you.
So, it's not anything like that.

391
00:18:25,479 --> 00:18:29,191
I'm just nervous that sometimes
I get a little anxious around them

392
00:18:29,274 --> 00:18:30,901
'cause it all wears off on me.

393
00:18:30,984 --> 00:18:32,861
Oh no! We're all gonna be
a ball of anxiety!

394
00:18:32,945 --> 00:18:36,740
And I'm like, "Keep calm,
be cool, be strong for you."

395
00:18:36,824 --> 00:18:38,700
-A bunch of stressed-out people.
-I know.

396
00:18:38,784 --> 00:18:40,536
[Nick, sing-song] Here we go.

397
00:18:40,619 --> 00:18:41,745
[Danielle] Oh my gosh.

398
00:18:41,829 --> 00:18:45,624
So, today, I'm introducing Danielle
to my mom and my sisters

399
00:18:45,707 --> 00:18:46,875
for the very first time.

400
00:18:46,959 --> 00:18:49,628
It's a very unique situation,

401
00:18:49,711 --> 00:18:54,341
and I think any time I've brought
anyone home before to meet my mom,

402
00:18:54,842 --> 00:18:56,718
it takes her a minute to warm up.

403
00:18:56,802 --> 00:18:59,471
And so I think, you know,
coming here today, that's gonna be…

404
00:18:59,555 --> 00:19:01,140
um, pretty evident.

405
00:19:02,391 --> 00:19:03,559
Hi.

406
00:19:03,642 --> 00:19:04,560
[all] Hello!

407
00:19:04,643 --> 00:19:08,313
-Hi. It's so nice to meet you guys.
-Hi. I'm Jenn. Nice to meet you.

408
00:19:08,397 --> 00:19:09,815
Danielle. Nice to meet you.

409
00:19:09,898 --> 00:19:11,817
-Hi. Nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you.

410
00:19:11,900 --> 00:19:13,110
[Nick] This is for you.

411
00:19:13,193 --> 00:19:15,821
Yeah. I'm so nervous. [laughing]

412
00:19:15,904 --> 00:19:18,448
-So are we. I was like--
-Oh my gosh!

413
00:19:18,532 --> 00:19:20,450
-[Jenn] Would you like some wine?
-I'd love some.

414
00:19:20,534 --> 00:19:23,745
We're pretty easy people. I don't think
you need to get nervous about meeting us.

415
00:19:26,165 --> 00:19:27,082
[sighs]

416
00:19:27,749 --> 00:19:30,043
Okay, now that everybody knows
everybody's nervous…

417
00:19:30,127 --> 00:19:31,003
-Yeah.
-Yeah.

418
00:19:31,086 --> 00:19:34,214
-She gets pretty nervous about everything.
-Yeah. Yeah.

419
00:19:34,298 --> 00:19:38,218
[laughs] About literally everything, yeah.
I'm like a ball of anxiety.

420
00:19:39,636 --> 00:19:43,223
What made you wanna do
something like this to find love?

421
00:19:43,724 --> 00:19:47,060
There was a couple different reasons.
I'm really insecure.

422
00:19:47,144 --> 00:19:49,354
I, like, lost 70 pounds, and so like,

423
00:19:49,438 --> 00:19:52,107
because of that,
sometimes it's hard for me to…

424
00:19:52,191 --> 00:19:54,818
like, act myself right away
when I first meet people.

425
00:19:54,902 --> 00:19:57,779
For some reason, I just felt
so confident about, like,

426
00:19:57,863 --> 00:19:59,573
our relationship from day one.

427
00:19:59,656 --> 00:20:02,784
He calms me. It's also
the conversations that we were having.

428
00:20:02,868 --> 00:20:05,579
Usually you wait four months
to have those kind of conversations,

429
00:20:05,662 --> 00:20:07,539
but knowing that
the person you're talking to

430
00:20:07,623 --> 00:20:09,917
has the same intention
of wanting to get married, and…

431
00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,920
So you don't have the anxieties
of bringing up certain things. Like…

432
00:20:13,003 --> 00:20:15,964
If I were to bring up kids
with a guy on a third date,

433
00:20:16,048 --> 00:20:19,218
he'd be like, "Whoa," but, like, you know,
we're both wanting that.

434
00:20:23,138 --> 00:20:24,848
[pensive music playing]

435
00:20:25,432 --> 00:20:29,269
It's entirely different.
I've never been with someone

436
00:20:29,353 --> 00:20:32,439
who's made me feel this way
about not only him but myself.

437
00:20:32,522 --> 00:20:35,859
Every day that we have
a different situation we run into,

438
00:20:35,943 --> 00:20:39,029
I can't stop thinking
about how much worse off I'd be

439
00:20:39,112 --> 00:20:41,448
if he wasn't there
with me going through it.

440
00:20:41,531 --> 00:20:44,243
We're different, but we're similar
in the way we think about things.

441
00:20:46,620 --> 00:20:48,872
I want to prove to Nick's mom,
"I love your son

442
00:20:48,956 --> 00:20:51,708
despite all the craziness
of our love story."

443
00:20:51,792 --> 00:20:54,628
If my fiancé's family doesn't like me,

444
00:20:54,711 --> 00:20:57,547
that could make Nick
potentially say no at the altar,

445
00:20:57,631 --> 00:20:59,633
and that breaks my heart
to even think about.

446
00:20:59,716 --> 00:21:02,803
We have so much fun together
and we like doing the same things,

447
00:21:02,886 --> 00:21:05,847
but it really is those terrible times
that we've had to go through

448
00:21:05,931 --> 00:21:08,934
where I'm like, "Holy shit,
if I was going through this with anyone--"

449
00:21:09,017 --> 00:21:12,521
And what kind of terrible times?
You've only been together for how long?

450
00:21:14,856 --> 00:21:17,276
[Nick] So everything is like,
hyper sensitive.

451
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:21,154
Sometimes the littlest things just, like,
blow up and escalate into big things.

452
00:21:21,238 --> 00:21:23,156
And then you start talking
about other things.

453
00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:26,743
[Jenn] Are you gonna be able to handle
his obsession with twice-a-day showers?

454
00:21:28,287 --> 00:21:30,998
-What? I don't do that anymore.
-[Jenn] You don't?

455
00:21:32,666 --> 00:21:35,627
-He was anal-retentive about the shower.
-Can we, like, use…

456
00:21:35,711 --> 00:21:38,046
not "anal-retentive"?

457
00:21:38,130 --> 00:21:39,881
[all laughing]

458
00:21:39,965 --> 00:21:42,718
Obsess-- A little OCD
about that and hand washing.

459
00:21:42,801 --> 00:21:46,888
-He's very particular of hygiene.
-He is OCD about hand washing and hygiene.

460
00:21:48,140 --> 00:21:51,268
I feel like he's very picky what he eats.
What bread he'll eat--

461
00:21:51,351 --> 00:21:53,895
-I'll learn. Yeah.
-[Nick] She helps me loosen up a little.

462
00:21:53,979 --> 00:21:55,230
-Yeah.
-That's good.

463
00:21:58,567 --> 00:22:01,820
Well, how did you know? I mean,
I feel like in all the years that--

464
00:22:01,903 --> 00:22:04,156
Like, we barely ever even
got to know your girlfriends,

465
00:22:04,239 --> 00:22:06,158
let alone now you're like,
"Oh, I'm engaged,

466
00:22:06,241 --> 00:22:08,910
-and we're gonna come meet you."
-[Nick] We want the same things.

467
00:22:08,994 --> 00:22:10,704
Like, we wanna have a family.

468
00:22:10,787 --> 00:22:13,165
We wanna make sure that,
like, we're doing--

469
00:22:13,248 --> 00:22:14,666
Getting married for the right reasons.

470
00:22:14,750 --> 00:22:18,712
We wanna make sure that, like…
we're not ignoring roadblocks

471
00:22:18,795 --> 00:22:21,256
that are there now
or going to be there in the future.

472
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:24,593
I guess it's just weird to me.
Like, he's been in relationships

473
00:22:24,676 --> 00:22:26,553
that have lasted for years and years,

474
00:22:26,636 --> 00:22:30,015
and he's never been able to, like,
make that commitment to marriage.

475
00:22:30,891 --> 00:22:33,727
You know, it's-- it's a very, very
important decision to make,

476
00:22:33,810 --> 00:22:35,562
and-- and you're so…

477
00:22:35,645 --> 00:22:37,606
I don't wanna say obsessed
about the divorce.

478
00:22:37,689 --> 00:22:40,942
-I know you've never been happy about it.
-[Nick] No, no, no.

479
00:22:41,026 --> 00:22:44,321
I am happy about it,
because you and Dad hated each other.

480
00:22:44,404 --> 00:22:47,699
And if you stayed together, I think
we all would've been really fucked up.

481
00:22:47,783 --> 00:22:50,452
We don't wanna get married
for the wrong reasons.

482
00:22:50,535 --> 00:22:52,829
Don't ever want to get divorced.
Don't ever wanna--

483
00:22:52,913 --> 00:22:56,875
I don't think anybody ever wants
to get divorced when they get married.

484
00:22:56,958 --> 00:22:58,293
Things just happen.

485
00:22:58,377 --> 00:23:01,296
People grow apart,
they grow different directions.

486
00:23:01,380 --> 00:23:03,840
It's not like anybody sets out to do that.

487
00:23:03,924 --> 00:23:05,884
[Jenn] And it's such a quick process.

488
00:23:05,967 --> 00:23:08,303
How do you know there won't be
little things in the way,

489
00:23:08,387 --> 00:23:09,304
or the bigger things?

490
00:23:09,388 --> 00:23:11,890
I know you'd talked
about kids and talked about that.

491
00:23:11,973 --> 00:23:14,518
But like, when the honeymoon
phase is over, do you guys have

492
00:23:14,601 --> 00:23:18,021
a big enough foundation, that it…
Of, like, trust or whatever in each other

493
00:23:18,105 --> 00:23:19,898
that it's gonna even last past that?

494
00:23:19,981 --> 00:23:21,400
We have a lot of similarities,

495
00:23:21,483 --> 00:23:24,319
but where we are opposite,
it almost complements each other.

496
00:23:24,403 --> 00:23:27,114
He saw me have a really, really
bad panic attack in Mexico.

497
00:23:27,239 --> 00:23:29,533
And so, I was like, "Oh my gosh,
"Is he gonna change his mind?"

498
00:23:29,616 --> 00:23:31,410
But the-- the way that he was there for me

499
00:23:31,493 --> 00:23:34,329
like, went above and beyond, like,
anything that I could've wanted,

500
00:23:34,413 --> 00:23:38,375
and made me feel ten times better than,
like, I ever have in a situation like that.

501
00:23:38,458 --> 00:23:41,294
He, like, loved me for the flaws
I was trying to, like, you know,

502
00:23:41,378 --> 00:23:43,880
scare him away with,
and that's when I was like, you know,

503
00:23:43,964 --> 00:23:46,216
"There's absolutely no…" I'm gonna cry.

504
00:23:46,299 --> 00:23:47,551
-[chuckles]
-[Jenn] Aww.

505
00:23:49,553 --> 00:23:53,348
I'm okay with you being engaged if
this is what you think is right for you.

506
00:23:54,558 --> 00:23:57,227
How, like, confident we are,
like, it's just nuts.

507
00:23:57,310 --> 00:23:59,396
I wish that I could articulate it.

508
00:23:59,479 --> 00:24:01,898
I can't stop thinking
about how grateful I am.

509
00:24:04,734 --> 00:24:06,486
[Nick] All right. We've gotta get going.

510
00:24:06,570 --> 00:24:08,280
-Yeah.
-It was very nice meeting you.

511
00:24:08,363 --> 00:24:11,199
-Nice to meet you.
-Let me give you a hug. Sorry. [chuckles]

512
00:24:11,283 --> 00:24:13,827
[Kimberly] I wasn't sure
if my son was ever gonna get married.

513
00:24:13,910 --> 00:24:16,913
Just because none of the relationships
ever worked, and, uh…

514
00:24:17,831 --> 00:24:18,999
so I thought, "Okay…

515
00:24:19,875 --> 00:24:22,544
Maybe he's not cut out
to be married." I don't know.

516
00:24:23,879 --> 00:24:25,881
-[Nick] See? It wasn't so bad. Right?
-No.

517
00:24:26,381 --> 00:24:29,217
But if marrying Danielle
feels right to him,

518
00:24:29,301 --> 00:24:32,262
then it's his decision, not mine.

519
00:24:32,345 --> 00:24:35,891
And so, I guess
I have to trust him and his instinct

520
00:24:36,475 --> 00:24:39,311
that if he feels
this is the way he wants to go,

521
00:24:39,394 --> 00:24:41,563
then more power to him.

522
00:24:42,063 --> 00:24:45,692
I thought she was really nice.
I dunno. I'll believe it when I see it.

523
00:24:47,486 --> 00:24:49,321
[upbeat music plays]

524
00:24:53,283 --> 00:24:54,659
-Cheers.
-Cheers.

525
00:24:55,202 --> 00:24:57,120
We gonna have champagne
in our wedding too?

526
00:24:57,204 --> 00:24:58,371
-Yeah.
-Dom?

527
00:24:58,914 --> 00:24:59,748
Oh.

528
00:25:00,248 --> 00:25:01,791
-Dom Perignon?
-[chuckles]

529
00:25:01,875 --> 00:25:04,377
[Natalie] I didn't think
that I could ever be this happy.

530
00:25:04,461 --> 00:25:07,547
I thought I knew
what love felt like before.

531
00:25:07,631 --> 00:25:10,717
And after meeting Shayne
and falling in love with him,

532
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,136
I realized I've never known
what love feels like.

533
00:25:13,220 --> 00:25:16,056
It's crazy,
I feel like my life is complete now.

534
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:18,808
Oh my God. Ew! Why am I so gross?

535
00:25:18,892 --> 00:25:22,062
If the old me watched me now,

536
00:25:22,145 --> 00:25:25,649
I think that she would throw up
at all the things I'm saying.

537
00:25:26,525 --> 00:25:27,359
[chuckles]

538
00:25:27,442 --> 00:25:28,527
-Cheers.
-Cheers!

539
00:25:29,110 --> 00:25:30,362
[Shayne chuckles]

540
00:25:32,030 --> 00:25:35,367
Wow, is wedding planning
stressing you out or something?

541
00:25:35,450 --> 00:25:37,285
Can't even get a cup for yourself?

542
00:25:37,369 --> 00:25:40,247
It is stressful. Guest list is
what's stressing me out the most.

543
00:25:40,330 --> 00:25:43,208
-Okay. So, I think we have the theme down.
-Theme's down good.

544
00:25:43,291 --> 00:25:46,461
I think food-wise,
we'll just go with the typical…

545
00:25:46,545 --> 00:25:48,171
Okay, but I get my two things.

546
00:25:48,255 --> 00:25:50,465
-I'll take care of that stuff.
-Okay.

547
00:25:52,133 --> 00:25:53,677
What's your two things?

548
00:25:53,760 --> 00:25:56,930
Could we get an old fashioned fountain?
Old fashioned.

549
00:25:57,013 --> 00:26:00,350
-Just keeps pouring out old fashioned mix?
-What?

550
00:26:00,433 --> 00:26:01,977
It's like a water fountain, right?

551
00:26:02,060 --> 00:26:04,688
And just flows out,
numerous tubes and whatnot,

552
00:26:04,771 --> 00:26:06,273
and it's just old fashioneds.

553
00:26:06,356 --> 00:26:08,817
Boom, done. Boom, old fashioned. Boom.

554
00:26:08,900 --> 00:26:10,443
It's unlimited, it's like--

555
00:26:10,527 --> 00:26:12,862
-I've never seen that.
-And we have cheese curds.

556
00:26:12,946 --> 00:26:14,489
-Okay.
-For food? Is that okay?

557
00:26:14,573 --> 00:26:16,491
Are we just gonna serve them cheese curds?

558
00:26:16,575 --> 00:26:19,869
No, I think we should have
a kid's buffet kind of thing.

559
00:26:19,953 --> 00:26:22,914
We have hot dogs, pizza, mac and cheese.

560
00:26:22,998 --> 00:26:26,293
Cheese curds. I think that would be…
That's a fit for everyone.

561
00:26:26,376 --> 00:26:28,753
You can't go wrong.
Tenderloin's a risky option.

562
00:26:28,837 --> 00:26:31,548
Shayne, my entire family's
lactose intolerant.

563
00:26:32,382 --> 00:26:33,883
-Really?
-Yeah.

564
00:26:33,967 --> 00:26:36,720
My family grew up
on milk and cheese. [chuckles]

565
00:26:36,803 --> 00:26:39,264
Also, my family doesn't really drink, so…

566
00:26:39,347 --> 00:26:40,807
-[chuckles]
-Oh boy.

567
00:26:40,890 --> 00:26:43,602
Wisconsin, all they do is drink. [laughs]

568
00:26:43,685 --> 00:26:45,353
-I know.
-This is gonna be such a--

569
00:26:45,437 --> 00:26:46,938
-Yeah.
-This'll be a wild wedding.

570
00:26:47,022 --> 00:26:49,274
I can't remember
the last time my parents have drank,

571
00:26:49,357 --> 00:26:51,318
or my entire family. At holidays.

572
00:26:51,401 --> 00:26:55,363
I can't remember the last time my parents
did not drink, or my family did not drink.

573
00:26:55,447 --> 00:26:56,448
Yeah.

574
00:26:56,531 --> 00:27:00,827
Honestly, to go back
to the whole old fashioned fountain thing…

575
00:27:00,910 --> 00:27:03,997
All joking aside, it'd be nice
because my dad loved old fashioneds,

576
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:07,167
and it'd be nice to have
something of him at that wedding.

577
00:27:07,250 --> 00:27:11,671
Just something that it shows that
he's… I don't know, he's gonna be there,

578
00:27:11,755 --> 00:27:14,090
and I'm thinking about him
and all that kinda stuff.

579
00:27:15,008 --> 00:27:17,469
I think that's one thing
that'd be cool to have there

580
00:27:17,552 --> 00:27:20,930
'cause I know he'd like to have a drink
with us and all that kinda stuff.

581
00:27:21,014 --> 00:27:23,558
-So, that'd be fun.
-[Natalie] That'll be really fun.

582
00:27:23,642 --> 00:27:25,393
[Shayne] Family is very important.

583
00:27:25,477 --> 00:27:27,854
Especially because I lost my father
a few months ago,

584
00:27:27,937 --> 00:27:32,567
being able to have another father is…
Honestly, it's the most exciting thing.

585
00:27:32,651 --> 00:27:34,653
What do you wanna incorporate
with your culture?

586
00:27:34,736 --> 00:27:37,947
It's a little bit complicated,
'cause Korean dishes aren't just dishes.

587
00:27:38,031 --> 00:27:41,201
-There's things called banchan everywhere.
-What's it called?

588
00:27:41,701 --> 00:27:44,537
-Banchan. It's like small little dishes.
-Punch on? Panchon?

589
00:27:45,538 --> 00:27:48,375
Is it called panchon?
I'm asking the question. I don't know.

590
00:27:48,458 --> 00:27:52,253
See, help me do this. I don't wanna sound
like an idiot in front of your family.

591
00:27:52,337 --> 00:27:53,838
Why do you have to repeat it so much?

592
00:27:53,922 --> 00:27:57,133
-What? Panchon.
-Don't… Stop saying it.

593
00:27:57,217 --> 00:28:00,178
Puchon. I'm gonna screw up so bad.

594
00:28:00,762 --> 00:28:03,973
I'm gonna go up to your grandma
and grandparents and be like…

595
00:28:04,057 --> 00:28:05,225
What's a-- Na?

596
00:28:05,308 --> 00:28:07,268
-[laughing] No.
-It's high, right?

597
00:28:08,728 --> 00:28:10,855
-Oh boy.
-It's ne. It means "yes."

598
00:28:10,939 --> 00:28:12,649
-[laughing]
-[Natalie] Oh my gosh.

599
00:28:12,732 --> 00:28:14,776
[Shayne] Ne. Ne.

600
00:28:14,859 --> 00:28:17,070
-That's good, right?
-Stop.

601
00:28:17,153 --> 00:28:19,280
[chuckles, inhales sharply]

602
00:28:19,364 --> 00:28:21,825
-I'mma drink to that one.
-[Natalie chuckling] Oh my…

603
00:28:21,908 --> 00:28:23,910
[dance song playing]

604
00:28:27,956 --> 00:28:30,542
[Mallory] Oh my God! I'm so excited!
You're gonna meet my sister.

605
00:28:30,625 --> 00:28:32,752
-I'm so excited to meet her.
-Yay!

606
00:28:32,836 --> 00:28:34,254
I am a little nervous.

607
00:28:34,337 --> 00:28:37,257
Don't be nervous.
She's, um… No, she's awesome.

608
00:28:37,340 --> 00:28:38,842
You know, to me, love is…

609
00:28:38,925 --> 00:28:42,929
It's not the cliché rom-com fairy tale.

610
00:28:43,012 --> 00:28:44,472
To me, love is

611
00:28:44,556 --> 00:28:47,892
the foundation that Sal and I have,
you know, started to build

612
00:28:47,976 --> 00:28:51,020
from the very beginning
of those conversations in the pods

613
00:28:51,104 --> 00:28:53,481
and the hard conversations
that we've-- we've…

614
00:28:53,565 --> 00:28:55,817
we've had, um, and worked through.

615
00:28:55,900 --> 00:28:59,529
It's meeting each other's families.
Love is all of those things.

616
00:28:59,612 --> 00:29:01,281
-[Salvador] Let's do this.
-Okay.

617
00:29:01,364 --> 00:29:05,118
Today, I'm going to introduce Sal
to my sister, Tiffany.

618
00:29:05,201 --> 00:29:10,707
Meeting Sal, and us together,
is going to be very real for her.

619
00:29:10,790 --> 00:29:12,542
Aw, yay!

620
00:29:12,625 --> 00:29:14,961
Tiff! [laughing]

621
00:29:15,628 --> 00:29:16,963
But I'm excited.

622
00:29:17,046 --> 00:29:20,550
I know you like the red wine,
so I brought you some red wine.

623
00:29:20,633 --> 00:29:22,594
I do. Thank you so much.

624
00:29:22,677 --> 00:29:24,137
-Very nice.
-Yeah!

625
00:29:24,220 --> 00:29:28,141
-Well, this is great. This is interesting.
-I know.

626
00:29:28,224 --> 00:29:29,100
It is, right?

627
00:29:29,184 --> 00:29:32,687
I feel like the hardest thing that's been
is just trying to understand

628
00:29:32,771 --> 00:29:34,439
what we've been through together.

629
00:29:34,522 --> 00:29:35,398
Mm-hmm.

630
00:29:36,107 --> 00:29:38,610
But I'm here to, like, to answer anything.

631
00:29:38,693 --> 00:29:41,154
You know, knowing Mallory
and knowing, like, her--

632
00:29:41,237 --> 00:29:42,697
her relationship history,

633
00:29:42,781 --> 00:29:47,327
being in a long-term relationship
and not getting married,

634
00:29:47,410 --> 00:29:49,120
I guess my question to you, Sal,

635
00:29:49,204 --> 00:29:51,831
was like, what does
your relationship history look like?

636
00:29:51,915 --> 00:29:56,252
Have you been in anything very serious?
Have you ever proposed to anyone before?

637
00:29:56,336 --> 00:29:58,755
-Three times. No, I'm just kidding.
-[laughing]

638
00:29:58,838 --> 00:30:01,382
Actually, I was waiting for him to say,
"Well…"

639
00:30:01,466 --> 00:30:02,675
[Mallory laughing]

640
00:30:02,759 --> 00:30:05,929
My relationship history
is a little bit different than Mallory's.

641
00:30:06,012 --> 00:30:08,598
Like, I know that she was
in a six-year relationship.

642
00:30:08,681 --> 00:30:09,766
But me, like…

643
00:30:10,391 --> 00:30:12,852
My longest relationship was
about two and a half years.

644
00:30:12,936 --> 00:30:15,063
Mm-hmm. Not super long.

645
00:30:15,563 --> 00:30:17,065
[Salvador] Yeah. No, it's not.

646
00:30:17,148 --> 00:30:18,733
But, you know, like…

647
00:30:18,817 --> 00:30:20,151
coming from a very…

648
00:30:21,236 --> 00:30:23,112
like, Catholic family,

649
00:30:23,196 --> 00:30:28,076
I don't think I really seriously
started dating till I was, like, 21.

650
00:30:28,159 --> 00:30:31,663
I was very calm.
I was kind of, like, just very to myself.

651
00:30:31,746 --> 00:30:36,835
You're ready for all of this madness
together to be able to do this?

652
00:30:36,918 --> 00:30:39,420
-We learn.
-And you-- You love her, Sal?

653
00:30:39,504 --> 00:30:41,548
Like, you can say, like…

654
00:30:41,631 --> 00:30:44,425
Like, "This is the person I love"?

655
00:30:44,509 --> 00:30:45,802
-Yeah.
-Okay.

656
00:30:45,885 --> 00:30:48,137
-[Mallory] Yeah.
-Because this is really serious.

657
00:30:48,221 --> 00:30:50,932
-I know.
-Like, this is like, you proposed.

658
00:30:51,015 --> 00:30:53,476
-Yeah.
-So, your intention is to get married.

659
00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:55,895
-So, you're planning a wedding.
-Yes.

660
00:30:55,979 --> 00:30:57,313
When is it?

661
00:30:57,397 --> 00:31:00,066
-Like, in two weeks. [laughs]
-Okay. You know what?

662
00:31:00,650 --> 00:31:01,526
[Salvador chuckles]

663
00:31:01,609 --> 00:31:03,570
What does that even mean?

664
00:31:05,029 --> 00:31:07,657
-What is Sal's last name? Sal what?
-[Mallory] Perez.

665
00:31:07,740 --> 00:31:09,784
Perez. She doesn't have to take it.

666
00:31:09,868 --> 00:31:12,328
My point is, I don't-- We don't
even know your last name.

667
00:31:12,412 --> 00:31:15,123
-We don't know anything about… Nothing.
-[Mallory] Yeah.

668
00:31:15,206 --> 00:31:17,667
What is your career?
What do you do? Like, what is…

669
00:31:17,750 --> 00:31:19,335
-the livelihood?
-[Mallory] Mm-hmm.

670
00:31:19,419 --> 00:31:22,881
You know, she does have her education.
She does have her career.

671
00:31:22,964 --> 00:31:25,425
She does have her house.
What are you bringing?

672
00:31:25,508 --> 00:31:27,385
-I work in tourism, by the way.
-Okay.

673
00:31:27,468 --> 00:31:30,722
Um, but we've talked about finances.

674
00:31:30,805 --> 00:31:34,893
We have the same plan as far as,
like, we want to have our own assets.

675
00:31:34,976 --> 00:31:38,730
We wanna have, like, our own, uh,
streams of income that come in.

676
00:31:38,813 --> 00:31:43,192
I don't wanna take ownership
over anything that Mallory owns. I don't.

677
00:31:43,276 --> 00:31:46,946
That's just her hard-earned everything.
You know what I mean?

678
00:31:47,030 --> 00:31:50,199
But in a partnership,
what's hers is yours and vice versa.

679
00:31:50,283 --> 00:31:52,869
And I know this is, like,
very hard to understand,

680
00:31:52,952 --> 00:31:54,996
but he proposed before he even saw me.

681
00:31:55,496 --> 00:31:58,291
Like, I also said yes before I saw him.

682
00:31:58,374 --> 00:31:59,334
Like…

683
00:31:59,417 --> 00:32:01,920
You said yes to a proposal
before you even saw Sal's face?

684
00:32:02,003 --> 00:32:03,212
Yes. Yeah.

685
00:32:03,296 --> 00:32:07,133
Before you saw how tall he was,
before you saw his hair, before you saw--

686
00:32:07,216 --> 00:32:08,885
And you were genuine in that?

687
00:32:08,968 --> 00:32:09,844
Yeah.

688
00:32:09,928 --> 00:32:11,930
♪ Got carried out to sea ♪

689
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:15,308
♪ On a wave of hope ♪

690
00:32:16,851 --> 00:32:19,354
-We just want you to be happy.
-[Mallory] No, I know.

691
00:32:19,437 --> 00:32:23,358
And happy and healthy and safe.
Like, that's all we want. [sniffles]

692
00:32:23,441 --> 00:32:25,109
[melancholic music playing]

693
00:32:25,193 --> 00:32:28,696
Like, you're my best friend.
You are, like… my second mom.

694
00:32:28,780 --> 00:32:30,531
[sniffles] Like…

695
00:32:31,950 --> 00:32:34,786
You are, like, the best thing
that ever happened to me.

696
00:32:34,869 --> 00:32:35,828
[Tiffany] I know.

697
00:32:41,376 --> 00:32:45,546
It's hard to, you know,
think about sharing, like, someone

698
00:32:45,630 --> 00:32:48,091
-that you love so much…
-[Mallory] Uh-huh.

699
00:32:48,174 --> 00:32:49,258
…with other people.

700
00:32:49,342 --> 00:32:50,343
I know.

701
00:32:50,927 --> 00:32:55,181
She fucking loves me, and I got…

702
00:32:55,264 --> 00:33:00,353
Man, I love her and… Ugh. I'm not…
I don't know why I was surprised.

703
00:33:00,436 --> 00:33:06,985
But I appreciate it because
no one has challenged Sal and I

704
00:33:08,069 --> 00:33:10,071
the way she has.

705
00:33:10,154 --> 00:33:13,074
Look, this process is fucking weird,

706
00:33:13,157 --> 00:33:15,743
but I also understand that, like,

707
00:33:15,827 --> 00:33:17,996
nobody understands this experiment

708
00:33:18,079 --> 00:33:21,249
the way that I do
and the way that Sal does,

709
00:33:21,332 --> 00:33:25,670
and if at the end of the day
I feel like this is what's right for me

710
00:33:25,753 --> 00:33:28,297
or this is what I wanna do,
I'm gonna do it.

711
00:33:28,923 --> 00:33:31,843
At the end of the day, like, we are--

712
00:33:31,926 --> 00:33:34,762
You're getting married,
at the end of the day, in two weeks.

713
00:33:34,846 --> 00:33:37,181
There's a lot of things
that I haven't done,

714
00:33:38,599 --> 00:33:41,894
because sometimes
I'm afraid to take the risk.

715
00:33:41,978 --> 00:33:46,941
There's a lot of things I regret.
I've been 100% in this process.

716
00:33:47,025 --> 00:33:53,448
I-- I've been… nothing but, like…
my genuine, authentic self,

717
00:33:53,531 --> 00:33:56,492
and I'm not pressured in any decisions,

718
00:33:56,576 --> 00:33:59,996
and I will never be pressured
into anything that I don't want to do.

719
00:34:00,079 --> 00:34:04,167
And I do think I'm a very good judge
of character and I do make good decisions.

720
00:34:04,250 --> 00:34:05,084
You know?

721
00:34:05,752 --> 00:34:08,713
And that's partially
why I connected so much with Sal.

722
00:34:08,796 --> 00:34:11,841
Because he is the same person.

723
00:34:11,924 --> 00:34:13,801
I can't ask you to trust me.

724
00:34:13,885 --> 00:34:17,472
I… I can only ask you
to like, trust Mallory's judgment.

725
00:34:17,555 --> 00:34:19,974
I just want you to know
that I'm being very sincere

726
00:34:20,058 --> 00:34:22,101
with how I'm feeling
and how I'm feeling with Mallory.

727
00:34:22,185 --> 00:34:23,728
and I just want you to know that.

728
00:34:23,811 --> 00:34:26,272
With that in mind, Tiffany, like, I…

729
00:34:26,355 --> 00:34:29,692
I would hope that we would have
your blessing to move forward.

730
00:34:29,776 --> 00:34:31,277
Like, blessing marriage?

731
00:34:31,778 --> 00:34:34,072
Well, yes, that we have your blessing.

732
00:34:34,155 --> 00:34:35,281
You know,

733
00:34:36,491 --> 00:34:38,618
I think it's not fair to judge

734
00:34:38,701 --> 00:34:42,205
on such a brief, uh, conversation.

735
00:34:42,288 --> 00:34:43,372
It's a big deal.

736
00:34:44,082 --> 00:34:47,668
You know, if it's wedding day
and Tiffany decides not to be there, like…

737
00:34:50,630 --> 00:34:52,924
That's okay. That's her choice.

738
00:34:53,466 --> 00:34:57,428
My parents didn't have
their parents' support, and…

739
00:34:58,179 --> 00:34:59,847
But they chose each other.

740
00:35:00,473 --> 00:35:03,768
I would love her to be there,
but this is a decision

741
00:35:03,851 --> 00:35:05,561
that Mallory and I make together.

742
00:35:05,645 --> 00:35:07,522
Mallory and I will choose each other.

743
00:35:16,114 --> 00:35:18,658
♪ You and I got that something ♪

744
00:35:19,158 --> 00:35:21,786
♪ Attitude, all or nothing ♪

745
00:35:23,538 --> 00:35:24,872
[Deepti] Here we go.

746
00:35:24,956 --> 00:35:28,167
-Here we go. Can I carry something?
-Yeah. Take that.

747
00:35:28,251 --> 00:35:30,336
[Shake] It's two weeks from my wedding,

748
00:35:30,419 --> 00:35:34,173
and I am excited to take Deeps
to visit my family.

749
00:35:34,257 --> 00:35:36,175
-All right. You ready?
-Ready.

750
00:35:36,259 --> 00:35:39,637
We've seen her family,
and it-- it went so well.

751
00:35:39,720 --> 00:35:41,139
It's our turn,

752
00:35:41,222 --> 00:35:43,808
and I'm not worried
about Deeps meeting them

753
00:35:43,891 --> 00:35:46,936
'cause Deeps is incredible,
and I know that they'll love her.

754
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:49,981
-[Shake] Hello.
-[Shake's parents exclaiming]

755
00:35:50,565 --> 00:35:51,566
[Deepti] Hi!

756
00:35:51,649 --> 00:35:53,234
Dear, hi.

757
00:35:53,317 --> 00:35:56,487
So, walking into the house I grew up in,

758
00:35:56,571 --> 00:35:58,489
except this time I have a fiancée.

759
00:35:58,573 --> 00:36:01,367
I'm not feeling any kind of jitters.

760
00:36:01,450 --> 00:36:04,078
It's just natural and normal.

761
00:36:04,162 --> 00:36:07,248
And I feel like I'm exactly
where I'm supposed to be.

762
00:36:07,331 --> 00:36:10,376
I was going to ask you,
how was the whole experience

763
00:36:10,459 --> 00:36:12,545
not getting to meet and then…

764
00:36:12,628 --> 00:36:16,757
It was a lot,
but it was pretty powerful, I would say.

765
00:36:16,841 --> 00:36:17,675
It's a whole different experience.

766
00:36:17,758 --> 00:36:20,178
You're going into it
with the mindset of, "Okay, I'm…"

767
00:36:20,887 --> 00:36:23,806
You know, you wanna build,
like, a… emotional,

768
00:36:23,890 --> 00:36:25,308
and a good foundation, right,

769
00:36:25,391 --> 00:36:27,435
without seeing that person,
because that involves so much,

770
00:36:27,518 --> 00:36:28,352
[Sita] Right, right.

771
00:36:28,436 --> 00:36:30,646
…and so we kind of
both fought it a lot. [chuckles]

772
00:36:30,730 --> 00:36:33,149
[Sita] So, who zeroed in on who first?

773
00:36:33,232 --> 00:36:34,317
I think he did. [laughing]

774
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:37,737
[Sita] Such confidence,
or should I say overconfidence. [laughs]

775
00:36:37,820 --> 00:36:39,864
-[Shake] Oh.
-Your mom's calling you out.

776
00:36:39,947 --> 00:36:42,283
Confident people get what they want
a lot of the time.

777
00:36:42,366 --> 00:36:43,242
[Sita] That's true.

778
00:36:43,326 --> 00:36:46,454
We didn't waste time
with a lot of the meaningless stuff.

779
00:36:46,537 --> 00:36:49,123
Just from not being able to see somebody,

780
00:36:49,207 --> 00:36:52,543
you open up a lot
of different conversation topics.

781
00:36:52,627 --> 00:36:56,172
She was born in India.
I was born in India.

782
00:36:56,255 --> 00:36:57,423
You were also born in India.

783
00:36:57,506 --> 00:37:00,593
We had the same story.
She's only dated white guys.

784
00:37:00,676 --> 00:37:02,345
-Okay?
-Really?

785
00:37:02,428 --> 00:37:04,513
-He is the first Indian guy
I've ever dated--

786
00:37:04,597 --> 00:37:06,474
I was her first brown kiss.

787
00:37:06,557 --> 00:37:07,934
[Sita laughs]

788
00:37:08,392 --> 00:37:10,394
One thing that we talked about in the pods

789
00:37:10,478 --> 00:37:14,190
that I don't know that
I'd really fully fleshed out before

790
00:37:14,273 --> 00:37:17,944
is that maybe, to some degree,
we were both trying to fit in.

791
00:37:18,027 --> 00:37:21,447
You know, you think you're just going in here
to focus on finding…

792
00:37:22,406 --> 00:37:24,075
a person, finding someone else,

793
00:37:24,158 --> 00:37:26,202
but you really end up finding yourself.

794
00:37:26,285 --> 00:37:29,455
-[Sita] That's what a mom likes to hear.
-[Debasish] And dad.

795
00:37:29,538 --> 00:37:31,290
-[Sita] And dad.
-[Shake] Yeah.

796
00:37:31,374 --> 00:37:35,628
You know, Deeps has seen me,
I would say maybe even at my worst,

797
00:37:35,711 --> 00:37:40,132
and, um, I-- I can really say that
there's nobody else I'd rather…

798
00:37:41,008 --> 00:37:43,010
have by my side for that, so…

799
00:37:43,094 --> 00:37:45,263
-[Deepti] Aww.
-She's been very understanding.

800
00:37:45,346 --> 00:37:47,807
[Sita] So, everything is never perfect
even for us now.

801
00:37:47,890 --> 00:37:50,059
We are 34 years married. [chuckles]

802
00:37:50,142 --> 00:37:54,897
So, you're never going to be able
to put each other through all the tests

803
00:37:55,398 --> 00:37:56,774
that you will be facing.

804
00:37:57,275 --> 00:38:02,029
The question is whether the other person
is going to be there for you

805
00:38:02,113 --> 00:38:06,242
to, maybe not relieve,
but alleviate some of the stresses

806
00:38:06,325 --> 00:38:08,703
or make your life
a little easy through that.

807
00:38:08,786 --> 00:38:11,747
If she's capable of…
He or she is capable of that.

808
00:38:11,831 --> 00:38:14,667
-That's great advice.
-[Sita] I am very excited.

809
00:38:14,750 --> 00:38:18,796
At the same time, very nervous.
Marriage is not easy.

810
00:38:18,879 --> 00:38:21,590
You have to work at it,
but she complements him,

811
00:38:22,216 --> 00:38:26,220
and she accepts his weaknesses,
and she's a strength for him,

812
00:38:26,304 --> 00:38:27,513
and vice versa.

813
00:38:27,596 --> 00:38:32,601
But this is not a very normal way
of marrying, and that makes me nervous.

814
00:38:33,394 --> 00:38:36,022
Dad and I both like her very much.

815
00:38:36,647 --> 00:38:39,358
She's just, in many ways, perfect.

816
00:38:39,442 --> 00:38:40,901
Deeps, she's incredible.

817
00:38:40,985 --> 00:38:44,655
She's so sweet and… selfless,

818
00:38:44,739 --> 00:38:48,492
easy to be around,
very easy to talk to, very perceptive.

819
00:38:49,452 --> 00:38:52,913
She's bubbly and talkative,
which I really like.

820
00:38:52,997 --> 00:38:55,416
She's a-- like, a beautiful girl and…

821
00:38:56,292 --> 00:38:59,420
inside and outside in every way.

822
00:39:00,546 --> 00:39:05,801
I'm just not feeling necessarily
the kind of, like… like, overwhelming,

823
00:39:05,885 --> 00:39:08,679
instinctual attraction
or animalistic attraction

824
00:39:08,763 --> 00:39:10,056
that I would want to feel,

825
00:39:10,139 --> 00:39:12,683
and that I've felt before
in other relationships.

826
00:39:12,767 --> 00:39:15,436
And the interesting thing is,
in those relationships--

827
00:39:15,936 --> 00:39:18,022
You didn't like other parts of the person.

828
00:39:18,105 --> 00:39:21,192
Right. And that's what makes this
a very, very tough thing,

829
00:39:21,275 --> 00:39:22,943
and I recognize that it's tough.

830
00:39:23,027 --> 00:39:26,572
How is this the most perfect,
amazing person I've ever met,

831
00:39:27,073 --> 00:39:31,077
and it's not really… not really there?

832
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:33,245
It's a tough thing to talk about.

833
00:39:33,329 --> 00:39:35,581
-With your mom, especially.
-[chuckles]

834
00:39:35,664 --> 00:39:37,416
Normally, it's TMI.

835
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:41,295
I mean, my thing that I have to
really, like, try and figure out is,

836
00:39:41,379 --> 00:39:43,798
is this thing something I can get over?

837
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,718
-This is very hard.
-It's very hard.

838
00:39:47,802 --> 00:39:50,429
Being very frank,
I'm very much identifying

839
00:39:50,513 --> 00:39:53,140
with her right now more than you.

840
00:39:53,224 --> 00:39:57,144
She could find someone
who absolutely loves her the way she is.

841
00:39:57,228 --> 00:39:59,522
-She's a wonderful person.
-[Shake] And I do--

842
00:39:59,605 --> 00:40:02,858
She doesn't deserve someone
who gives her even half a percent less.

843
00:40:02,942 --> 00:40:04,652
[dramatic music builds]

844
00:40:07,196 --> 00:40:09,240
[upbeat music playing]

845
00:40:10,950 --> 00:40:11,951
♪ Whoo! ♪

846
00:40:12,993 --> 00:40:14,078
♪ You ready? ♪

847
00:40:14,161 --> 00:40:16,247
-♪ I'm ready ♪
-♪ Let's go! ♪

848
00:40:17,206 --> 00:40:20,376
♪ Been waiting for this moment
Let's go! ♪

849
00:40:20,459 --> 00:40:21,836
[Jarrette] Good morning.

850
00:40:22,711 --> 00:40:24,630
-Good morning.
-[Jarrette] Morning, Mama.

851
00:40:25,131 --> 00:40:28,509
-I'm becoming a cat lover.
-[Iyanna chuckles]

852
00:40:28,592 --> 00:40:29,969
[Iyanna] She loves you.

853
00:40:30,052 --> 00:40:32,721
-Mama.
-[Jarrette] Aren't you so beautiful?

854
00:40:33,556 --> 00:40:36,517
Baby, stop. I just woke up.

855
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:39,061
-[Jarrette] That's fine.
-Stop it.

856
00:40:39,145 --> 00:40:40,104
[both chuckle]

857
00:40:40,187 --> 00:40:41,480
♪ Let's go! ♪

858
00:40:42,314 --> 00:40:44,483
♪ Let's go ♪

859
00:40:45,317 --> 00:40:47,611
Are we actually wearing Jordans
at the wedding?

860
00:40:48,612 --> 00:40:50,364
I'm definitely wearing mine.

861
00:40:50,448 --> 00:40:52,825
-Can you buy me a matching pair?
-Of course.

862
00:40:52,908 --> 00:40:54,785
You wanna wear them underneath your dress?

863
00:40:54,869 --> 00:40:56,454
-At the reception.
-At the reception?

864
00:40:56,537 --> 00:40:58,330
Do you have a preference
for the wedding dress?

865
00:40:58,414 --> 00:41:00,875
-You do whatever you want. I'll…
-Okay, good.

866
00:41:00,958 --> 00:41:04,003
As long as you walk down the aisle,
it's all that matters.

867
00:41:04,086 --> 00:41:05,171
Correct answer.

868
00:41:05,254 --> 00:41:07,965
Wait. Long as you walk
down the aisle and say, "I do."

869
00:41:08,048 --> 00:41:11,594
-I have to do both?
-Yes. Can't just walk down the aisle.

870
00:41:11,677 --> 00:41:13,095
Okay. [chuckles]

871
00:41:13,679 --> 00:41:17,183
Is there something that I shouldn't do?
Like have my back out?

872
00:41:19,393 --> 00:41:22,188
-All right, hold on. Here I come.
-What you doing tonight?

873
00:41:22,271 --> 00:41:25,608
I'm going to this spot called Persona.

874
00:41:25,691 --> 00:41:27,109
Oh, you just sitting there?

875
00:41:27,193 --> 00:41:28,235
It's a Tuesday.

876
00:41:30,237 --> 00:41:32,615
-It's Taco Tuesday.
-It's Tuesday, though.

877
00:41:32,698 --> 00:41:34,033
It's five o'clock somewhere.

878
00:41:34,533 --> 00:41:36,785
What you doing tonight,
since you don't wanna go with me?

879
00:41:36,869 --> 00:41:39,538
I'm gonna binge a couple shows,
and read my book.

880
00:41:39,622 --> 00:41:40,456
[Jarrette] Oh!

881
00:41:40,539 --> 00:41:43,542
Bro. How many times
do I gotta shoot him, bro?

882
00:41:43,626 --> 00:41:45,961
I've always wanted a small,
intimate wedding.

883
00:41:46,921 --> 00:41:51,300
-You're the one who wants a big wedding.
-Now you have my full undivided attention.

884
00:41:51,383 --> 00:41:53,427
"Un" meaning "not,'"
"divided" meaning "separated."

885
00:41:53,511 --> 00:41:55,888
I'm surprised them headphones fit
on your big-ass head.

886
00:41:55,971 --> 00:41:58,599
Really? [laughs]
You wanna fight now or later.

887
00:41:58,682 --> 00:42:00,267
Yeah, that's later.

888
00:42:00,351 --> 00:42:04,021
And my game froze. I'm sick of this.
I'm about to get ready for the night.

889
00:42:04,104 --> 00:42:05,314
[Iyanna, sing-song] You suck.

890
00:42:06,232 --> 00:42:07,233
Okay.

891
00:42:07,316 --> 00:42:09,860
I love Jarrette. I love him so much.

892
00:42:09,944 --> 00:42:11,320
I accept him for who he is,

893
00:42:11,403 --> 00:42:14,990
but we've had to navigate
the whole… him adjusting

894
00:42:15,074 --> 00:42:19,203
to possibly being married
and adjusting his lifestyle.

895
00:42:19,286 --> 00:42:22,873
He says he's gonna make adjustments,
but I haven't seen those adjustments yet.

896
00:42:23,457 --> 00:42:24,792
So, it's like, okay.

897
00:42:24,875 --> 00:42:28,045
Am I okay with living a life
with someone who goes out all the time?

898
00:42:29,255 --> 00:42:32,258
I don't know. It's a worry, for sure.

899
00:42:32,341 --> 00:42:35,719
♪ Forget about all the things
That you told me ♪

900
00:42:35,803 --> 00:42:38,097
♪ The way you made me feel ♪

901
00:42:38,180 --> 00:42:39,932
♪ The way you made me cry ♪

902
00:42:40,015 --> 00:42:41,225
Yay!

903
00:42:41,308 --> 00:42:42,601
Jarrette!

904
00:42:43,561 --> 00:42:45,938
[overlapping chatter]

905
00:42:46,021 --> 00:42:48,148
To Jarrette being back at home, man!

906
00:42:48,232 --> 00:42:50,401
-[chattering]
-[man] Yes, yes!

907
00:42:50,484 --> 00:42:54,113
-[Jene] What's up, Iyanna?
-Nothing. Jarrette went out.

908
00:42:54,196 --> 00:42:55,239
Do you like that?

909
00:42:55,322 --> 00:42:56,865
I mean, it's fine.

910
00:42:56,949 --> 00:42:59,868
You're about to be a whole wife.
Like, what the hell?

911
00:42:59,952 --> 00:43:00,911
A whole wife.

912
00:43:00,995 --> 00:43:02,413
[music continues]

913
00:43:02,496 --> 00:43:04,999
[overlapping laughter and chatter]

914
00:43:05,082 --> 00:43:09,420
♪ Took me where I never knew
You saved me ♪

915
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:14,383
♪ Saved me and I never thought
You'd break me ♪

916
00:43:14,466 --> 00:43:18,846
♪ But you turned all of your promises
To lies ♪

917
00:43:19,471 --> 00:43:21,390
♪ To lies ♪

918
00:43:25,686 --> 00:43:29,773
♪ So now, come on ♪

919
00:43:29,857 --> 00:43:32,860
♪ You know all things are good for you ♪

920
00:43:32,943 --> 00:43:34,069
[Danielle] Here it is.

921
00:43:35,112 --> 00:43:40,326
-You'll notice how much furniture I have.
-Oh my God. Look at this mess.

922
00:43:40,409 --> 00:43:43,203
-Shut up. Okay, say hi to Wizzy.
-How do you live like this?

923
00:43:43,287 --> 00:43:45,205
-Hi, Wizzy.
-Wizzy. Are you gonna be nice?

924
00:43:45,289 --> 00:43:47,833
-Hello. I'm a little scared.
-Pet him. Come on.

925
00:43:47,916 --> 00:43:50,753
-Come here. Is he gonna claw me?
-[meowing]

926
00:43:50,836 --> 00:43:52,963
-[Danielle] No, she's saying hi.
-Hi, you.

927
00:43:53,047 --> 00:43:56,842
Nick and I have different living styles.
He's pretty immaculate.

928
00:43:56,925 --> 00:44:00,387
I consider myself a clean person,
but I'd never consider myself immaculate.

929
00:44:00,471 --> 00:44:03,349
I'm kinda scared for him
to see my apartment for the first time.

930
00:44:03,432 --> 00:44:05,643
I know 28 isn't young,
but I am younger than him.

931
00:44:05,726 --> 00:44:09,438
And so I think he might see some
of the weird, quirky stuff in my apartment

932
00:44:09,521 --> 00:44:13,859
and think, "Is she more immature
than she let off in the pods?"

933
00:44:13,942 --> 00:44:15,069
What's that?

934
00:44:15,152 --> 00:44:18,530
So, when I have people over,
I like to play the air guitar.

935
00:44:18,614 --> 00:44:19,657
[both chuckle]

936
00:44:19,740 --> 00:44:22,076
So, I have a whole set
of blow up instruments.

937
00:44:22,159 --> 00:44:23,535
Here's the drums.

938
00:44:24,036 --> 00:44:26,413
This is where the table broke
a little bit down here.

939
00:44:26,914 --> 00:44:28,832
If you have power tools, I need help.

940
00:44:28,916 --> 00:44:31,418
I made a sign that says,
"No dancing on tables,"

941
00:44:31,502 --> 00:44:33,128
but it didn't work.

942
00:44:33,712 --> 00:44:36,548
-Here's the jacket closet.
-Mm-hmm.

943
00:44:37,716 --> 00:44:40,177
-And then this is another closet.
-[Nick] Wow.

944
00:44:41,845 --> 00:44:43,931
-You have a lot of clothes.
-[Danielle] I know.

945
00:44:44,515 --> 00:44:46,016
[Nick] Can you please put this on?

946
00:44:46,100 --> 00:44:48,060
I dunno what I was expecting,
but it wasn't this.

947
00:44:48,143 --> 00:44:49,311
There's a lot of closets.

948
00:44:49,395 --> 00:44:51,397
[Danielle laughing]
Only if you put this on.

949
00:44:52,272 --> 00:44:55,776
She's filled them all up
with winter clothes, spring clothes,

950
00:44:55,859 --> 00:44:57,528
and costumes.

951
00:44:57,611 --> 00:44:59,029
How do you like it?

952
00:45:03,450 --> 00:45:04,868
-Um…
-[Danielle chuckles]

953
00:45:04,952 --> 00:45:06,829
What…? How did that happen?

954
00:45:06,912 --> 00:45:10,749
I get ads for things, and I'm, like,
very-- I'm very easily persuaded.

955
00:45:10,833 --> 00:45:13,377
-That's scary.
-All right. Go put it on.

956
00:45:16,004 --> 00:45:18,465
Uh, okay, I'm a good sport, I guess.

957
00:45:19,007 --> 00:45:22,469
-I'm a good sport.
-You're a great sport. That's wild.

958
00:45:22,553 --> 00:45:23,971
[Danielle chuckles]

959
00:45:24,054 --> 00:45:26,598
Definitely wouldn't have
fit two months ago.

960
00:45:27,182 --> 00:45:31,437
I've never, ever looked
this unattractive in my entire life.

961
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:34,648
[Danielle laughing] You look so good.

962
00:45:34,732 --> 00:45:38,569
Thank God I didn't take my pants off,
or that would've been the big reveal.

963
00:45:38,652 --> 00:45:42,281
You look so good.
[chuckles] You look great.

964
00:45:42,364 --> 00:45:43,282
Come here.

965
00:45:46,201 --> 00:45:48,454
I can't believe I'm doing this right now.

966
00:45:48,537 --> 00:45:51,665
So, what's your use case for these, again?
You just buy them for fun?

967
00:45:51,749 --> 00:45:53,917
You wear 'em around the house by yourself?

968
00:45:54,001 --> 00:45:56,670
I don't wear them by myself. I host a lot.

969
00:45:56,754 --> 00:45:58,338
Yeah, but do you, like…

970
00:45:59,214 --> 00:46:02,760
Just like, "Hi. Thanks for coming,"
and you're in a hot dog or corn costume?

971
00:46:02,843 --> 00:46:03,677
Yeah.

972
00:46:03,761 --> 00:46:04,720
Oh.

973
00:46:04,803 --> 00:46:08,348
That's what I'm saying. There's a lot
of me that you haven't experienced yet,

974
00:46:08,432 --> 00:46:10,309
'cause you haven't been
around me and my friends.

975
00:46:10,809 --> 00:46:12,811
I'm trying to imagine the use case.

976
00:46:13,562 --> 00:46:14,938
-Fun.
-Fun.

977
00:46:15,022 --> 00:46:16,940
For the same reason I have games.

978
00:46:17,441 --> 00:46:20,235
-I have the Nerf gun, light lasers.
-Where are the Nerf guns?

979
00:46:20,319 --> 00:46:23,363
One of the things that I like
about Danielle is that she's goofy.

980
00:46:24,323 --> 00:46:25,491
-Ow.
-[Danielle laughs]

981
00:46:25,574 --> 00:46:27,242
[Nick] But at the same time,

982
00:46:27,326 --> 00:46:30,120
there's an age difference that is… is…

983
00:46:30,204 --> 00:46:33,081
I think, important to think about.

984
00:46:33,665 --> 00:46:36,251
We are in a little bit
different places with our careers.

985
00:46:36,335 --> 00:46:39,588
We're in different places,
like I own a place, she rents a place.

986
00:46:39,671 --> 00:46:42,549
For us to get married
and have a successful marriage,

987
00:46:42,633 --> 00:46:44,760
she's going to have to get to the point

988
00:46:44,843 --> 00:46:49,723
where we actually, like,
integrate our lives together.

989
00:46:49,807 --> 00:46:52,017
[Danielle] My friends
have broken my tables.

990
00:46:52,100 --> 00:46:55,062
Like, are you scared
that's gonna happen at your place?

991
00:46:55,145 --> 00:46:59,733
I mean, it's just, like, no one would
climb on my kitchen table and break it.

992
00:47:00,234 --> 00:47:01,151
Yeah.

993
00:47:03,237 --> 00:47:04,988
Well, me and my friends do.

994
00:47:05,072 --> 00:47:06,031
Mm-hmm.

995
00:47:07,074 --> 00:47:11,036
So, is that the life you think you'll have
for you and your friends?

996
00:47:11,119 --> 00:47:13,247
Not necessarily. I get… We just…

997
00:47:13,330 --> 00:47:16,667
It's not like we're insane
and going crazy. But we like to have fun.

998
00:47:16,750 --> 00:47:18,919
That's why I have air guitars.

999
00:47:19,002 --> 00:47:21,964
We have dance parties,
and we get up on the table and…

1000
00:47:22,464 --> 00:47:23,757
[exhales deeply]

1001
00:47:24,675 --> 00:47:28,095
Not that I'm envisioning myself
just tearing the place down,

1002
00:47:29,054 --> 00:47:32,057
but we have to think about this stuff,
'cause I feel like we talk

1003
00:47:32,140 --> 00:47:34,601
and we were like,
"Yeah, this is fine," and then just--

1004
00:47:34,685 --> 00:47:37,771
If you have people over at our place

1005
00:47:37,855 --> 00:47:40,357
and shit gets broke, that's kind of…

1006
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:41,525
Yeah.

1007
00:47:41,608 --> 00:47:45,487
To me, that's not even like…
I mean, it is an immaturity thing,

1008
00:47:45,571 --> 00:47:48,615
but I feel like I'd just be like,
"We're not gonna--"

1009
00:47:48,699 --> 00:47:51,702
"We're gonna have fun.
We're just not gonna break anything."

1010
00:47:51,785 --> 00:47:54,246
You don't… No one plans to break things.

1011
00:47:54,329 --> 00:47:57,666
Yeah, I don't know. I'm hot. I'm sweaty.

1012
00:47:57,749 --> 00:47:59,209
-It's hot in here.
-I'm tired.

1013
00:47:59,793 --> 00:48:03,046
I don't want to keep talking about it,
to be honest.

1014
00:48:03,130 --> 00:48:05,591
I need a minute to get this off

1015
00:48:05,674 --> 00:48:08,594
and just cool down for a second.

1016
00:48:08,677 --> 00:48:10,679
[tense music builds]

1017
00:48:15,809 --> 00:48:16,768
[funky music plays]

1018
00:48:16,852 --> 00:48:18,520
♪ Eyes like fire ♪

1019
00:48:19,146 --> 00:48:21,148
♪ Got me shaking ♪

1020
00:48:21,231 --> 00:48:24,651
♪ I think I just realized
I won't ever be the same ♪

1021
00:48:24,735 --> 00:48:26,653
[Shayne] I can't wait
for this day to be over.

1022
00:48:26,737 --> 00:48:27,988
-[Natalie] Really?
-Yes.

1023
00:48:28,614 --> 00:48:32,284
[Shayne] I'm fucking… nervous.

1024
00:48:33,577 --> 00:48:34,786
So, it's Don…

1025
00:48:35,287 --> 00:48:36,622
-And Nan.
-And Nan.

1026
00:48:36,705 --> 00:48:37,581
Yeah.

1027
00:48:37,664 --> 00:48:38,790
Don and Nan.

1028
00:48:39,291 --> 00:48:40,584
-Yeah.
-Okay.

1029
00:48:42,044 --> 00:48:43,670
I'm nervous to meet Natalie's parents.

1030
00:48:43,754 --> 00:48:46,715
She hasn't told her parents yet
about the engagement.

1031
00:48:46,798 --> 00:48:49,843
That's gonna be my father-in-law,
that's gonna be my mother-in-law.

1032
00:48:49,927 --> 00:48:51,803
That's a serious situation.

1033
00:48:51,887 --> 00:48:55,307
I don't think Natalie is afraid of any
of the opinions of her family at all.

1034
00:48:55,390 --> 00:48:58,393
It's the fact that Natalie
was raised very traditional,

1035
00:48:58,936 --> 00:49:01,939
and it's a daughter,
so I feel like they worry a little more

1036
00:49:02,022 --> 00:49:05,275
about some random stranger coming
into their daughter's life. I get that.

1037
00:49:05,776 --> 00:49:08,737
But my job is to take care of her
and make her feel safe.

1038
00:49:08,820 --> 00:49:10,405
I want her parents to see that too.

1039
00:49:10,489 --> 00:49:12,115
How are you gonna introduce us?

1040
00:49:12,199 --> 00:49:16,328
I'm gonna be like,
"Hi. This is my fiancé."

1041
00:49:16,828 --> 00:49:19,289
You'll say it while you're laughing
like that in front of them?

1042
00:49:19,373 --> 00:49:22,376
[Natalie] I laugh when
I'm super nervous. And so…

1043
00:49:22,459 --> 00:49:23,752
[exhales deeply]

1044
00:49:23,835 --> 00:49:26,213
All right, well,
what if they don't approve of me?

1045
00:49:26,296 --> 00:49:27,631
What's the game plan?

1046
00:49:27,714 --> 00:49:30,842
I think you should go
pick up the flowers and dinner,

1047
00:49:30,926 --> 00:49:34,721
and while you're gone,
I'm gonna explain the experiment to them,

1048
00:49:34,805 --> 00:49:37,599
and kind of what has happened
since I've last seen them.

1049
00:49:37,683 --> 00:49:39,101
And then I'll introduce you.

1050
00:49:40,018 --> 00:49:43,021
I think as long as you're yourself,
it'll be fine.

1051
00:49:44,106 --> 00:49:45,273
-[Shayne] Okay.
-Yeah.

1052
00:49:46,316 --> 00:49:47,150
Um…

1053
00:49:49,820 --> 00:49:51,905
-So we're good?
-Yeah, we're good.

1054
00:49:51,989 --> 00:49:55,117
Fine. Don't put too much
pressure on it, though.

1055
00:49:56,618 --> 00:49:58,996
-All right, I'm gonna go pick up dinner.
-Okay.

1056
00:49:59,079 --> 00:50:02,624
I'll get your mom's flowers, and you have
to make sure everything's taken care of.

1057
00:50:02,708 --> 00:50:04,292
Yeah. See you back?

1058
00:50:04,376 --> 00:50:05,210
-Yes.
-Okay.

1059
00:50:05,293 --> 00:50:06,503
Bye. All right.

1060
00:50:06,586 --> 00:50:07,462
[Natalie] Bye.

1061
00:50:07,546 --> 00:50:12,300
♪ Sometimes feelings haunt my mind ♪

1062
00:50:12,384 --> 00:50:17,222
♪ Silence is so hard to find ♪

1063
00:50:19,349 --> 00:50:22,019
[Natalie] I'm nervous as shit
for my parents to meet Shayne.

1064
00:50:22,102 --> 00:50:25,230
I'm very close with my parents.
I tell them everything.

1065
00:50:25,313 --> 00:50:29,026
So I feel bad that I didn't tell them
right off the bat that I was engaged.

1066
00:50:29,860 --> 00:50:31,903
I hope that they will love him,

1067
00:50:31,987 --> 00:50:36,408
but I just know they'll have concerns
about how quickly things are moving.

1068
00:50:36,491 --> 00:50:39,661
And I never would want
to upset them, but right now

1069
00:50:39,745 --> 00:50:43,915
Shayne's the most important person to me,
and I'm willing to take the risk

1070
00:50:43,999 --> 00:50:46,293
of upsetting them for Shayne.

1071
00:50:46,960 --> 00:50:48,754
-[knocking at door]
-[dog barking]

1072
00:50:48,837 --> 00:50:50,172
Oh my God.

1073
00:50:50,756 --> 00:50:51,923
I can't even deal.

1074
00:50:52,716 --> 00:50:53,842
[dog barking]

1075
00:50:53,967 --> 00:50:55,969
-[man] Hi, babe. Hello, Natalie.
-[woman] Oh my God.

1076
00:50:56,053 --> 00:50:57,804
-What?
-What are you doing here?

1077
00:50:57,888 --> 00:50:59,806
What do you mean what am I doing here?

1078
00:50:59,890 --> 00:51:01,058
You're looking good.

1079
00:51:01,141 --> 00:51:02,517
-Thanks.
-Yeah.

1080
00:51:02,601 --> 00:51:04,311
-Hi, baby.
-I'm so glad to see you.

1081
00:51:04,394 --> 00:51:05,979
[Don] Wow, what is this place?

1082
00:51:06,063 --> 00:51:09,024
[Natalie] Um, my new apartment.
Wanna see the views?

1083
00:51:09,107 --> 00:51:10,567
It's actually really awesome.

1084
00:51:10,650 --> 00:51:13,361
-[Nan] You moved? Very nice.
-[Don] Wow. This is nice.

1085
00:51:13,445 --> 00:51:14,780
[Nan] Wow, it's beautiful.

1086
00:51:14,863 --> 00:51:16,740
[Natalie] I know. Isn't it amazing?

1087
00:51:17,324 --> 00:51:20,577
Uh, do you wanna…
Do you wanna sit in these chairs?

1088
00:51:20,660 --> 00:51:21,661
Okay. How come…

1089
00:51:22,829 --> 00:51:24,164
-No, really.
-[Natalie] What?

1090
00:51:24,247 --> 00:51:26,583
-Whose place is this?
-[Natalie] It's mine. I swear.

1091
00:51:26,666 --> 00:51:27,501
No.

1092
00:51:28,085 --> 00:51:30,796
I'll explain everything,
but do you just want to sit down?

1093
00:51:30,879 --> 00:51:31,922
[Don] Okay.

1094
00:51:32,005 --> 00:51:35,467
Okay. Why?
Are you afraid that I might faint?

1095
00:51:35,550 --> 00:51:39,304
I'm gonna stay far,
so I can make a run for it.

1096
00:51:41,306 --> 00:51:42,182
Just kidding.

1097
00:51:42,766 --> 00:51:43,975
[Don] Well, we missed you.

1098
00:51:44,059 --> 00:51:45,727
-I know, it's been so long.
-Yeah.

1099
00:51:45,811 --> 00:51:47,979
[Natalie] I know, it's been,
what, three or four weeks?

1100
00:51:48,063 --> 00:51:48,897
Yeah.

1101
00:51:48,980 --> 00:51:50,398
[Natalie] Um, okay.

1102
00:51:50,982 --> 00:51:53,735
So, you know how, obviously, I was single.

1103
00:51:53,819 --> 00:51:57,697
-[both] Yeah.
-And I really wanted to find someone.

1104
00:51:58,281 --> 00:52:01,076
So, I signed up for this experiment

1105
00:52:01,159 --> 00:52:03,954
where there's 15 guys and 15 girls,

1106
00:52:04,037 --> 00:52:06,331
and they date sight unseen.

1107
00:52:06,414 --> 00:52:08,375
[tense music playing]

1108
00:52:08,458 --> 00:52:09,417
[Natalie] Um…

1109
00:52:10,669 --> 00:52:13,463
And I fell in love with someone.

1110
00:52:16,007 --> 00:52:17,509
And he proposed to me,

1111
00:52:18,009 --> 00:52:20,428
and I said yes, so I'm engaged.

1112
00:52:20,512 --> 00:52:22,055
Oh my gosh!

1113
00:52:22,139 --> 00:52:23,557
His name's Shayne.

1114
00:52:24,474 --> 00:52:27,060
-This is Shayne and my apartment.
-What?!

1115
00:52:28,061 --> 00:52:29,020
Wow.

1116
00:52:29,104 --> 00:52:31,731
-[Nan] Oh my gosh. It's too much.
-Um…

1117
00:52:31,815 --> 00:52:34,651
So, we're getting married in two weeks.

1118
00:52:35,235 --> 00:52:36,153
[Nan] What?

1119
00:52:37,028 --> 00:52:39,531
-I'm concerned, as a mom.
-[Don] Well, so am I.

1120
00:52:39,614 --> 00:52:42,325
-[Natalie] Want to see the ring?
-[Nan] No, I don't wanna see it.

1121
00:52:42,409 --> 00:52:43,243
[smacks]

1122
00:52:45,996 --> 00:52:49,541
Call me old-fashioned or whatever.
I mean, ten days?

1123
00:52:49,624 --> 00:52:51,626
Haraboji and Halmeoni
got married after three days.

1124
00:52:51,710 --> 00:52:56,256
-They were married, what, 60, 70 years?
-I know. So, do you live in the 1960s?

1125
00:52:56,339 --> 00:52:57,799
I would have not said yes

1126
00:52:57,883 --> 00:53:00,468
if I, like, truly did not think
it was a good decision.

1127
00:53:00,552 --> 00:53:02,554
-[Nan] I don't know…
-You know I wouldn't have.

1128
00:53:05,140 --> 00:53:07,475
Truly, I wanted to tell you guys,

1129
00:53:07,559 --> 00:53:10,270
but, like, I just wanted you
to, like, meet him in person

1130
00:53:10,353 --> 00:53:12,772
before you make any judgment,
but, like, Mom,

1131
00:53:12,856 --> 00:53:14,482
he's exactly like you. Like…

1132
00:53:15,358 --> 00:53:16,484
-What?
-High energy.

1133
00:53:16,568 --> 00:53:18,820
Like, very--
Sometimes a little bit emotional.

1134
00:53:18,904 --> 00:53:19,946
-My God.
-You know what?

1135
00:53:20,030 --> 00:53:23,408
I will give you the heads-up.
Personality-wise, he's different from me.

1136
00:53:23,992 --> 00:53:26,953
I don't know a better word,
but he's more spontaneous, I think.

1137
00:53:27,037 --> 00:53:30,373
-[Don] Which is good.
-Yeah, which is good. Which is like you.

1138
00:53:31,249 --> 00:53:33,251
But, like, I-- It's, like, it works.

1139
00:53:33,335 --> 00:53:36,004
What made you think that he was the one?

1140
00:53:36,838 --> 00:53:40,217
Based on our conversations in the pods.
We just talked.

1141
00:53:40,300 --> 00:53:42,302
Just deep, like, who you are,

1142
00:53:42,385 --> 00:53:44,554
like, we just talk about everything,

1143
00:53:44,638 --> 00:53:46,640
and he's, like, very, very kind.

1144
00:53:46,723 --> 00:53:48,308
That's good. That's good.

1145
00:53:48,391 --> 00:53:49,935
-He's great.
-[Don] Okay.

1146
00:53:50,018 --> 00:53:52,312
-I believe you. I wanna meet him.
-I'm sure he's--

1147
00:53:52,395 --> 00:53:56,816
-Really looking forward to meeting him.
-Why don't you just meet him first?

1148
00:53:56,900 --> 00:53:59,611
Also, did I tell you
my wedding's in two weeks?

1149
00:54:00,278 --> 00:54:03,281
Now, you know what? I need a stretcher.

1150
00:54:03,365 --> 00:54:05,450
Oh my God. Why are you laughing?

1151
00:54:05,533 --> 00:54:06,743
-Mom.
-Nan.

1152
00:54:06,826 --> 00:54:09,788
Can you at least
just reserve your judgment?

1153
00:54:09,871 --> 00:54:11,581
-I'm hiding behind Dad.
-Yeah.

1154
00:54:12,540 --> 00:54:16,336
As I was breaking the news
to them just of being engaged,

1155
00:54:16,419 --> 00:54:18,964
I just saw the heartbreak in my mom's eyes

1156
00:54:19,714 --> 00:54:21,800
and how upset she was.

1157
00:54:21,883 --> 00:54:23,635
I mean, it breaks my heart.

1158
00:54:23,718 --> 00:54:26,054
But… at the same time,

1159
00:54:26,137 --> 00:54:29,432
I was so happy
that my dad was understanding

1160
00:54:29,516 --> 00:54:31,726
and… and keeping an open mind.

1161
00:54:31,810 --> 00:54:35,313
-Just, Mom, chill when you meet him.
-And if I don't?

1162
00:54:35,814 --> 00:54:37,899
But isn't this
what you always wanted for me?

1163
00:54:37,983 --> 00:54:40,735
That's true. Somebody who cares for you,
someone you love.

1164
00:54:40,819 --> 00:54:41,736
-Yeah.
-Of course.

1165
00:54:41,820 --> 00:54:44,531
[Natalie] My parents and I
are very, very close.

1166
00:54:44,614 --> 00:54:47,450
Will I have to pick sides?
My parents or Shayne?

1167
00:54:47,534 --> 00:54:50,537
I don't know.
I haven't thought that far. [scoffs]

1168
00:54:51,538 --> 00:54:55,709
Okay. Well, I'm gonna put on lipstick.

1169
00:54:57,794 --> 00:55:01,131
She does a lot of a crazy things,
but this is too much for me.

1170
00:55:01,214 --> 00:55:03,842
-Let's give her benefit of the doubt.
-It's too much.

1171
00:55:06,636 --> 00:55:07,887
-Hi.
-Hi!

1172
00:55:07,971 --> 00:55:09,806
["Who Calls It Love" plays]

1173
00:55:09,889 --> 00:55:12,142
♪ Who calls it love? ♪

1174
00:55:12,225 --> 00:55:16,563
♪ Who calls it love?
That leaves us all in pain ♪

1175
00:55:17,897 --> 00:55:20,275
♪ Who calls it love? ♪

1176
00:55:20,358 --> 00:55:24,821
♪ Who calls it love?
Just to make me stay ♪

1177
00:55:25,905 --> 00:55:28,408
♪ Who calls it love? ♪

1178
00:55:28,491 --> 00:55:32,829
♪ Who calls it love?
That leaves us all in pain ♪

1179
00:55:33,913 --> 00:55:36,291
♪ Who calls it love? ♪

1180
00:55:36,374 --> 00:55:40,837
♪ Who calls it love?
Just to make me stay ♪