1 00:00:06,049 --> 00:00:07,425 I'm Vanessa Lachey. 2 00:00:07,508 --> 00:00:09,677 I'm obviously Nick Lachey, her husband. 3 00:00:09,761 --> 00:00:11,679 Welcome to the blind love experiment. 4 00:00:12,096 --> 00:00:13,639 -[man] Hello, hello. -[woman] Hello. 5 00:00:13,723 --> 00:00:15,683 [Nick] Here, you will choose someone to marry 6 00:00:15,767 --> 00:00:17,101 without ever seeing them. 7 00:00:17,477 --> 00:00:19,145 [Barnett] Amber, will you marry me? 8 00:00:19,562 --> 00:00:21,064 -Yes. -[Mark] Whoo! 9 00:00:21,147 --> 00:00:22,315 [laughs] 10 00:00:23,066 --> 00:00:24,400 [Vanessa] Once you're engaged, 11 00:00:24,525 --> 00:00:28,988 you'll finally get to see your fiancé for the very first time. 12 00:00:31,449 --> 00:00:32,492 Oh, my God. 13 00:00:33,993 --> 00:00:36,621 [Vanessa] And you're going to attempt to grow your emotional connection 14 00:00:36,996 --> 00:00:38,498 into a physical one. 15 00:00:38,664 --> 00:00:39,999 Motherfucker. 16 00:00:40,583 --> 00:00:42,835 Listen for two seconds. 17 00:00:42,919 --> 00:00:44,045 I have been listening. 18 00:00:44,128 --> 00:00:46,172 Dude, if I'm 24, I don't want to be having kids. 19 00:00:46,589 --> 00:00:48,216 Again, I'm not your average 24-year-old. 20 00:00:48,841 --> 00:00:51,302 You're like the first white guy I've dated. 21 00:00:51,886 --> 00:00:54,388 [Nick] And in just four weeks, you'll be at your wedding. 22 00:00:55,098 --> 00:00:57,975 Will you say "I do" to the person you chose, sight unseen? 23 00:00:58,059 --> 00:00:59,185 Of course I do. 24 00:00:59,685 --> 00:01:03,523 [Vanessa] Or are you going to walk away from them forever? 25 00:01:06,109 --> 00:01:08,111 [dramatic piano music playing] 26 00:01:12,990 --> 00:01:14,367 [minister] Damian Powers, 27 00:01:14,992 --> 00:01:15,910 do you take 28 00:01:16,661 --> 00:01:19,914 Giannina Milady Gibelli 29 00:01:20,498 --> 00:01:22,542 to be your lawful wedded wife, 30 00:01:22,875 --> 00:01:26,671 to live together in the holy estate of matrimony? 31 00:01:27,171 --> 00:01:28,131 Will you love her, 32 00:01:28,965 --> 00:01:29,799 comfort her, 33 00:01:30,216 --> 00:01:34,804 honor and keep her, so long as you both shall live? 34 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:45,481 I do not. 35 00:01:48,234 --> 00:01:49,735 [gasps] 36 00:01:50,153 --> 00:01:50,987 [sobs] 37 00:01:51,821 --> 00:01:53,406 [shudders, sighs] 38 00:01:54,490 --> 00:01:55,366 [sobs] 39 00:02:08,713 --> 00:02:09,672 [cries] 40 00:02:12,216 --> 00:02:13,092 [sobbing] Okay. 41 00:02:14,385 --> 00:02:15,636 -Giannina... -Okay. 42 00:02:16,846 --> 00:02:18,264 [sniffles] 43 00:02:18,764 --> 00:02:20,349 -Okay. -I do love you. 44 00:02:20,433 --> 00:02:21,267 Okay. 45 00:02:21,851 --> 00:02:23,519 -Since day one, I... -[Giannina] Mm-hmm. 46 00:02:24,478 --> 00:02:26,480 [Damian] I've wanted this. I've wanted to marry you. 47 00:02:26,564 --> 00:02:28,232 I have... I've stayed consistent 48 00:02:28,316 --> 00:02:30,109 -all the way through this. -Okay. 49 00:02:32,028 --> 00:02:32,862 And... 50 00:02:35,281 --> 00:02:36,908 -[Giannina] Okay. -You have not. 51 00:02:37,283 --> 00:02:39,285 [sobbing] 52 00:02:39,702 --> 00:02:41,913 -I can't handle the ups and downs... -I understand. 53 00:02:42,038 --> 00:02:43,873 of you loving me one day, 54 00:02:44,248 --> 00:02:46,834 and saying you want to be friends the next. 55 00:02:47,335 --> 00:02:48,169 I did not. 56 00:02:48,878 --> 00:02:51,214 [Damian] It would be selfish of me to marry you today, 57 00:02:51,714 --> 00:02:53,174 knowing as much 58 00:02:53,674 --> 00:02:54,759 as you tell me you're ready, 59 00:02:55,343 --> 00:02:56,344 I see that you're not. 60 00:02:56,677 --> 00:02:58,471 [dramatic percussion booms] 61 00:02:59,305 --> 00:03:00,723 [Giannina crying] 62 00:03:01,224 --> 00:03:02,683 Just get me out of here. 63 00:03:12,860 --> 00:03:13,694 Giannina... 64 00:03:15,029 --> 00:03:16,322 [Giannina] How dare you? 65 00:03:17,490 --> 00:03:18,950 Get out of my face. 66 00:03:23,204 --> 00:03:24,121 [Damian] G... 67 00:03:24,705 --> 00:03:25,539 Giannina. 68 00:03:25,873 --> 00:03:27,667 [indistinct chatter] 69 00:03:29,502 --> 00:03:31,128 [Giannina] Please, please, leave me alone. 70 00:03:31,212 --> 00:03:32,505 Leave me the fuck alone. 71 00:03:32,630 --> 00:03:34,090 [sobbing] 72 00:03:41,514 --> 00:03:43,307 [dramatic music plays] 73 00:03:46,060 --> 00:03:47,687 [panting, sobbing] 74 00:03:48,145 --> 00:03:49,981 [dramatic music intensifies] 75 00:03:55,278 --> 00:03:56,904 [dramatic music crescendos] 76 00:04:00,074 --> 00:04:01,075 [Giannina grunts] 77 00:04:01,492 --> 00:04:02,451 I'm out of here. 78 00:04:02,910 --> 00:04:04,328 Get me out of here. 79 00:04:04,578 --> 00:04:05,454 I'm done. 80 00:04:09,208 --> 00:04:10,084 Giannina! 81 00:04:11,836 --> 00:04:13,296 [Giannina crying] 82 00:04:16,966 --> 00:04:18,968 [sobbing] 83 00:04:21,220 --> 00:04:23,514 [muted chatter] 84 00:04:26,058 --> 00:04:27,643 [cries heavily] 85 00:04:43,701 --> 00:04:45,828 -[in Spanish] Everything is shit. -Uh-huh. 86 00:04:46,662 --> 00:04:48,414 [in Spanish] Ideally, you would have said no 87 00:04:48,497 --> 00:04:49,623 and he would have said yes. 88 00:04:49,707 --> 00:04:52,960 Not the reverse, because this way it hurts more. [sobs] 89 00:04:53,878 --> 00:04:55,963 [Milady crying] 90 00:04:56,047 --> 00:04:57,048 [in Spanish] I know. 91 00:04:57,965 --> 00:05:00,593 [Milady in Spanish] This shouldn't happen. Who does that? 92 00:05:00,676 --> 00:05:02,720 You should have said no, no? 93 00:05:02,803 --> 00:05:04,972 You should have said no, too. 94 00:05:05,890 --> 00:05:08,184 -[cries] -[G in Spanish] Don't cry. I'm okay. 95 00:05:08,392 --> 00:05:09,268 I'm okay. 96 00:05:10,102 --> 00:05:12,104 [both crying] 97 00:05:12,605 --> 00:05:14,440 [Milady in Spanish] You almost fainted there. 98 00:05:14,940 --> 00:05:16,275 I almost died. 99 00:05:18,194 --> 00:05:19,028 Buddy. 100 00:05:20,363 --> 00:05:21,197 Stand up. 101 00:05:22,740 --> 00:05:24,450 -[Damian sighs] -You all right, man? 102 00:05:24,533 --> 00:05:25,618 What happened, buddy? 103 00:05:26,660 --> 00:05:28,204 -[Damian] She ran. -[Aaron] She ran? 104 00:05:30,956 --> 00:05:31,957 [Damian sighs] 105 00:05:34,210 --> 00:05:37,797 -That is the hardest thing I've ever done. -[Josh] I know. I could tell. 106 00:05:38,130 --> 00:05:38,964 [sighs] 107 00:05:39,799 --> 00:05:42,259 I wanted to say yes. I wanted to. 108 00:05:42,551 --> 00:05:44,595 Even though she was all-in today, it was... 109 00:05:44,678 --> 00:05:45,513 It was one... 110 00:05:47,473 --> 00:05:50,518 It's one day she's been all-in, through everything we've been through. 111 00:05:51,060 --> 00:05:52,686 And I respect it, I love that. 112 00:05:52,770 --> 00:05:54,146 Like, it made me-- 113 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,816 I wasn't sure if she was going to say yes. 114 00:05:57,775 --> 00:05:58,651 And when she did, 115 00:05:58,984 --> 00:06:01,612 it melted my heart and broke it at the same time because... 116 00:06:01,695 --> 00:06:03,823 in that moment, I was like, "This isn't right," 117 00:06:03,906 --> 00:06:05,199 because she's saying yes, 118 00:06:05,282 --> 00:06:07,326 but everything she showed me, her actions, her words, 119 00:06:07,410 --> 00:06:10,454 everything otherwise said that she is not ready for marriage 120 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:12,623 I feel like I just broke her heart. 121 00:06:18,546 --> 00:06:19,547 It sucks. 122 00:06:25,052 --> 00:06:27,179 But I need somebody that's all-in... 123 00:06:28,305 --> 00:06:29,390 every day. 124 00:06:29,473 --> 00:06:30,474 Not just some. 125 00:06:32,059 --> 00:06:34,687 -[Giannina] I need to talk to him. -[Milady speaking Spanish] Ay, Giannina. 126 00:06:35,271 --> 00:06:36,230 [in Spanish] Yes. 127 00:06:36,355 --> 00:06:37,356 My heart... 128 00:06:38,941 --> 00:06:40,776 is literally in a million pieces. 129 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:42,278 I was hurt. 130 00:06:43,571 --> 00:06:44,405 Hurt. 131 00:06:47,741 --> 00:06:49,368 I want to punch him in the face. 132 00:06:50,244 --> 00:06:52,163 But right now, I'm going to figure out 133 00:06:52,872 --> 00:06:54,457 why this happened to me. 134 00:07:04,717 --> 00:07:06,010 [trembling breaths] 135 00:07:10,723 --> 00:07:11,807 I'm so sorry. 136 00:07:13,350 --> 00:07:14,435 You couldn't have told me? 137 00:07:15,227 --> 00:07:16,145 Like, for real? 138 00:07:16,854 --> 00:07:17,730 I didn't know. 139 00:07:17,980 --> 00:07:19,064 You didn't know? 140 00:07:19,565 --> 00:07:21,609 -You didn't know? -I almost said "I do." 141 00:07:21,734 --> 00:07:22,568 [Giannina] Okay. 142 00:07:26,864 --> 00:07:28,574 What the fuck happened? 143 00:07:29,575 --> 00:07:30,576 What happened? 144 00:07:30,910 --> 00:07:32,036 Please, sit down. 145 00:07:33,454 --> 00:07:34,538 Let's talk. 146 00:07:38,751 --> 00:07:39,627 Apparently, 147 00:07:40,085 --> 00:07:42,004 that's the one thing that we can't do. 148 00:07:42,087 --> 00:07:44,131 So right now, we are going to talk. 149 00:07:44,215 --> 00:07:45,090 Please sit. 150 00:07:53,015 --> 00:07:53,891 [Damian sighs] 151 00:07:56,393 --> 00:07:58,437 In that moment, it was... beautiful. 152 00:07:58,521 --> 00:07:59,980 Everything you said was perfect. 153 00:08:00,064 --> 00:08:01,982 Everything felt so right. 154 00:08:03,776 --> 00:08:05,945 But that's one moment for the rest of my life. 155 00:08:06,028 --> 00:08:07,071 For the rest of our lives. 156 00:08:07,154 --> 00:08:10,407 That's such a beautiful excuse, darling. 157 00:08:11,116 --> 00:08:12,993 Because what you said up there was bullshit. 158 00:08:14,578 --> 00:08:17,122 -How dare you? -I'm sorry you took it like that. 159 00:08:17,206 --> 00:08:19,500 I-- Um, you're sorry I took it like that. 160 00:08:19,959 --> 00:08:20,793 Listen, 161 00:08:21,502 --> 00:08:22,336 Damian, 162 00:08:22,419 --> 00:08:23,254 seriously. 163 00:08:24,338 --> 00:08:26,215 I didn't want to get my heart broken, 164 00:08:26,799 --> 00:08:27,800 so I pushed you away. 165 00:08:27,883 --> 00:08:29,760 Great. You kept coming back to me. 166 00:08:29,843 --> 00:08:31,095 Why did you keep coming back 167 00:08:31,178 --> 00:08:33,722 even though I was putting you down What's wrong with you? 168 00:08:33,847 --> 00:08:36,392 So why is it that all of this is blamed on me? 169 00:08:36,475 --> 00:08:38,352 [Damian] This is the problem. You're making it about you. 170 00:08:38,435 --> 00:08:40,354 It's both of us that went through this. 171 00:08:40,437 --> 00:08:42,731 You literally blamed it all on me. 172 00:08:43,357 --> 00:08:46,402 I always treated you with kindness, 173 00:08:46,485 --> 00:08:49,321 even when I was in adversity, even when I was uncertain 174 00:08:49,446 --> 00:08:50,948 and I didn't know what I wanted. 175 00:08:51,073 --> 00:08:52,074 This is what you do. 176 00:08:52,408 --> 00:08:54,076 -What? -This is what you do. 177 00:08:54,451 --> 00:08:56,161 -What? -You don't realize 178 00:08:57,371 --> 00:08:59,039 what you say and how you say it. 179 00:08:59,623 --> 00:09:01,667 -And you know what? -Get out of my face, please. 180 00:09:01,750 --> 00:09:02,751 I'm not in your face, G. 181 00:09:02,835 --> 00:09:03,961 But what I'm telling you is 182 00:09:04,211 --> 00:09:07,256 -you did that to me and you said yes. -You blamed everything on me, 183 00:09:07,339 --> 00:09:08,924 and all I did was tell you how I felt, 184 00:09:09,008 --> 00:09:10,759 and I wanted to work everything out with you. 185 00:09:10,843 --> 00:09:13,220 -G... -I wanted to work it out so bad. 186 00:09:13,304 --> 00:09:14,847 -This is you running... -So bad! 187 00:09:14,930 --> 00:09:17,391 ...and I'm trying to talk to you right now. 188 00:09:17,474 --> 00:09:19,560 What I am asking you is not to run. 189 00:09:21,186 --> 00:09:22,021 I love you. 190 00:09:22,479 --> 00:09:24,648 I'm in love with you, and I always will be. 191 00:09:25,899 --> 00:09:27,693 And I know what happened today was embarrassing 192 00:09:27,776 --> 00:09:29,236 and you'll never forgive me for it. 193 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:30,237 And I'm sorry. 194 00:09:32,990 --> 00:09:33,991 You messed up. 195 00:09:35,075 --> 00:09:35,909 Honestly... 196 00:09:40,623 --> 00:09:41,832 that was such bullshit. 197 00:09:45,878 --> 00:09:47,254 You can take your bow back. 198 00:10:00,017 --> 00:10:03,103 [Damian] I told the woman I loved "I do not" at the altar. 199 00:10:03,687 --> 00:10:06,023 And I broke both of our hearts in that moment. 200 00:10:06,523 --> 00:10:09,860 But if you ask me, "Is love blind," the answer is simple. 201 00:10:10,152 --> 00:10:11,153 Love is blind. 202 00:10:12,196 --> 00:10:14,448 No matter where we end up or where we go, 203 00:10:14,531 --> 00:10:16,533 this was mine and Giannina's love story. 204 00:10:17,701 --> 00:10:18,702 This is how it goes. 205 00:10:19,286 --> 00:10:20,537 I can't say it's over. 206 00:10:21,622 --> 00:10:22,915 We may need time apart. 207 00:10:23,916 --> 00:10:26,418 But it doesn't mean we won't be part of each other's lives again. 208 00:10:26,835 --> 00:10:28,545 I would like to think so, anyways. 209 00:10:45,187 --> 00:10:47,189 [thunder booming] 210 00:10:51,860 --> 00:10:54,947 [Amber] The morning of my wedding is a disaster. 211 00:10:55,239 --> 00:10:58,075 My fiancé is having cold feet. 212 00:10:58,492 --> 00:11:00,285 I got a text from Barnett. 213 00:11:00,369 --> 00:11:02,579 He's... He's freaking out. 214 00:11:03,664 --> 00:11:06,125 Which obviously doesn't put me at ease. 215 00:11:06,875 --> 00:11:09,336 [sighs deeply] 216 00:11:11,004 --> 00:11:12,715 And I asked, "What's on your mind? 217 00:11:12,798 --> 00:11:14,800 What's wrong? Are you getting cold feet?" 218 00:11:14,883 --> 00:11:16,135 And he said, "Yeah." 219 00:11:17,970 --> 00:11:19,138 So I tried to call him. 220 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:22,599 And he didn't answer. 221 00:11:23,016 --> 00:11:25,352 So I tried to call him again, he didn't answer. 222 00:11:30,274 --> 00:11:31,817 It's not exactly, uh... 223 00:11:33,485 --> 00:11:34,361 reassuring. 224 00:11:40,826 --> 00:11:42,161 I don't know what else I can do. 225 00:11:44,580 --> 00:11:45,914 ["Into the Light" playing] 226 00:11:46,039 --> 00:11:48,041 ♪ Strings all choked with rust ♪ 227 00:11:49,001 --> 00:11:51,628 ♪ Can't play that sweet song anymore ♪ 228 00:11:52,713 --> 00:11:55,257 ♪ Haunted by a memory ♪ 229 00:12:00,262 --> 00:12:02,222 [Barnett] Today is my wedding day, and I'm... 230 00:12:03,766 --> 00:12:06,894 I'm kind of having a little bit of a... a freak-out. 231 00:12:08,353 --> 00:12:09,396 I woke up this morning 232 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:12,691 with this giant pit in my stomach, basically, and it was like... 233 00:12:14,485 --> 00:12:17,237 my whole life before this point flashed before my eyes. 234 00:12:17,821 --> 00:12:21,158 I took a shower and I started tearing up in the shower just because it was so much. 235 00:12:21,325 --> 00:12:23,660 But I built that emotional connection with Amber. 236 00:12:23,744 --> 00:12:25,662 I did fall in love with her in the pods, 237 00:12:25,746 --> 00:12:27,956 but if I'm going to spend the rest of my life 238 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:29,541 with this person, I want to make sure 239 00:12:29,833 --> 00:12:31,543 that it's going to be someone 240 00:12:31,627 --> 00:12:34,004 that I am going to be happy with forever. 241 00:12:34,755 --> 00:12:37,466 - You have makeup credit card debt? -I do. 242 00:12:37,549 --> 00:12:39,968 Oh, and there's my student debt 243 00:12:40,511 --> 00:12:42,888 from where I never graduated college. 244 00:12:43,889 --> 00:12:45,682 I don't want you to be 245 00:12:46,391 --> 00:12:48,519 jumping into something because of... 246 00:12:48,894 --> 00:12:50,270 how you guys met. 247 00:12:50,354 --> 00:12:53,065 Are you willing to give up everything for this person? 248 00:12:54,107 --> 00:12:55,192 Everything? 249 00:12:56,276 --> 00:12:58,612 [Amber] So, what if there is an issue 250 00:12:58,737 --> 00:13:01,281 between me and somebody in your family? 251 00:13:01,657 --> 00:13:02,825 Can you manage that? 252 00:13:02,908 --> 00:13:04,451 Can you stand up to them? 253 00:13:04,785 --> 00:13:06,578 Whose side are you going to be on? 254 00:13:06,829 --> 00:13:07,746 I don't know. 255 00:13:10,666 --> 00:13:12,835 It's the biggest decision of my life. 256 00:13:13,293 --> 00:13:15,420 I'm not sure what I'm going to do yet. 257 00:13:16,171 --> 00:13:18,048 But it's so freaking difficult. 258 00:13:18,632 --> 00:13:19,925 Oh God-dang it. 259 00:13:20,425 --> 00:13:21,260 Aww. 260 00:13:21,385 --> 00:13:22,553 ["Missing Piece" playing] 261 00:13:22,636 --> 00:13:26,056 ♪ Try to get back on my feet But every single time I do ♪ 262 00:13:26,515 --> 00:13:28,517 ♪ I can't get my heart to be straight ♪ 263 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:30,811 ♪ 'Cause my heart has been removed ♪ 264 00:13:30,936 --> 00:13:33,480 ♪ How can I put me back together ♪ 265 00:13:33,647 --> 00:13:35,983 ♪ How can I fix this open wound ♪ 266 00:13:37,526 --> 00:13:38,527 Oh, my gosh. 267 00:13:39,778 --> 00:13:40,612 Wow. 268 00:13:41,113 --> 00:13:42,865 Are you excited, you nervous? What? 269 00:13:43,282 --> 00:13:44,116 [sighs] 270 00:13:44,241 --> 00:13:46,034 [clears throat] All of the above. 271 00:13:46,910 --> 00:13:48,537 Barnett's freaking out about the wedding, 272 00:13:48,620 --> 00:13:51,540 and instead of talking to me he clams up, and that's hard. 273 00:13:51,707 --> 00:13:53,333 And normally it's something that I can-- 274 00:13:53,417 --> 00:13:55,085 I know that I have to deal with, 275 00:13:55,586 --> 00:13:56,837 because that's who he is. 276 00:13:56,920 --> 00:13:57,754 He's not-- 277 00:13:58,463 --> 00:14:00,757 -An open person. -He's not a huge talker about it. 278 00:14:00,841 --> 00:14:02,426 He doesn't talk about his feelings a lot. 279 00:14:02,509 --> 00:14:03,719 And that's something that, 280 00:14:03,802 --> 00:14:05,512 even when we started dating in the pods, 281 00:14:05,596 --> 00:14:08,015 that was something I was, working on really hard. 282 00:14:08,098 --> 00:14:10,434 [Ashly] So what made him be the one, Amber? 283 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:14,021 I felt like the very first time we ever talked, 284 00:14:15,731 --> 00:14:17,774 I felt like he could be my best friend. 285 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:22,654 [woman] Magical things happen on wedding days, you know. 286 00:14:23,030 --> 00:14:24,865 [Amber] I need all the magic today. 287 00:14:28,660 --> 00:14:30,662 -I love you. -I know. [chuckles] 288 00:14:31,914 --> 00:14:35,208 I love Barnett an indescribable amount, 289 00:14:35,751 --> 00:14:37,461 and I'm just ready. 290 00:14:37,878 --> 00:14:42,716 I just want to be living day-to-day life. 291 00:14:43,467 --> 00:14:45,761 Like, I'm ready to have my best friend 292 00:14:45,844 --> 00:14:47,930 that I can share my life with. 293 00:14:48,931 --> 00:14:51,725 I knew from the get-go, 294 00:14:52,059 --> 00:14:53,685 from our very first meeting. 295 00:14:54,519 --> 00:14:55,979 Do you want kids, Barnett? 296 00:14:56,313 --> 00:14:58,106 -Do I have kids? -Wait, do you have kids? 297 00:14:58,190 --> 00:15:00,025 -That's a question, too. -Not that I know of. 298 00:15:00,233 --> 00:15:01,485 -No, I'm kidding. -[laughs] 299 00:15:01,902 --> 00:15:03,362 My favorite was Barnett. 300 00:15:03,445 --> 00:15:05,864 He made me laugh so much. 301 00:15:06,490 --> 00:15:07,532 [laughs] 302 00:15:07,824 --> 00:15:09,409 -Hi. -Hello. 303 00:15:09,493 --> 00:15:10,702 -Hi. -Hi. Oh, God. 304 00:15:10,786 --> 00:15:12,871 [Amber laughing] Oh, my God. 305 00:15:15,082 --> 00:15:16,041 -Wow. -Hi. 306 00:15:16,124 --> 00:15:18,585 -Holy shit. Hello. -Hi. [laughs] 307 00:15:18,752 --> 00:15:19,586 Hi. 308 00:15:20,545 --> 00:15:21,588 [Barnett moans] 309 00:15:22,047 --> 00:15:23,048 [chuckles] 310 00:15:24,508 --> 00:15:26,009 We're just a little bit different. 311 00:15:26,093 --> 00:15:27,511 Different enough that it works. 312 00:15:28,470 --> 00:15:31,515 You complete me. [laughs] 313 00:15:34,184 --> 00:15:36,228 With everything that we have... 314 00:15:36,895 --> 00:15:38,647 been through already, 315 00:15:39,606 --> 00:15:42,025 I guess I'd say my 316 00:15:42,859 --> 00:15:44,611 biggest fear about this is 317 00:15:45,195 --> 00:15:47,823 that I get down the aisle and... 318 00:15:48,281 --> 00:15:51,326 Matt still isn't sure. 319 00:15:54,287 --> 00:15:55,288 All right. 320 00:15:56,206 --> 00:15:57,791 Oh, my gosh. [laughs] 321 00:15:58,125 --> 00:16:00,127 -Ready? -Uh, no. 322 00:16:00,419 --> 00:16:02,170 Getting there? Yeah, me neither. 323 00:16:03,922 --> 00:16:04,923 [sighs] 324 00:16:05,298 --> 00:16:06,258 I love you. 325 00:16:07,926 --> 00:16:10,345 -Stop crying. -You're my baby, Amber. 326 00:16:10,429 --> 00:16:11,388 Mom. 327 00:16:14,016 --> 00:16:17,686 [sobs] I'm sorry. I love you so much. 328 00:16:17,978 --> 00:16:19,187 Don't cry. 329 00:16:20,230 --> 00:16:21,148 Mm. 330 00:16:23,066 --> 00:16:25,110 Well, let's get you married, my girl. 331 00:16:25,902 --> 00:16:26,778 Oof. 332 00:16:27,904 --> 00:16:28,947 [Barnett sighs] 333 00:16:29,698 --> 00:16:31,700 [mellow piano music playing] 334 00:16:39,666 --> 00:16:40,584 [sighs] 335 00:16:48,175 --> 00:16:49,801 [sighs] 336 00:16:52,220 --> 00:16:53,305 [dramatic instrumentals] 337 00:16:57,726 --> 00:16:58,977 [indistinct chatter] 338 00:17:05,067 --> 00:17:06,193 [man] They should be here. 339 00:17:06,735 --> 00:17:08,737 We've been sitting here for an hour and a half. 340 00:17:10,322 --> 00:17:11,364 [softly] Oh, Lord. 341 00:17:13,283 --> 00:17:14,493 -Ready? -Yes. 342 00:17:16,369 --> 00:17:17,370 [softly] Oh, gosh. 343 00:17:17,871 --> 00:17:19,081 [Deborah] This is a commitment. 344 00:17:19,664 --> 00:17:21,750 -This is the big moment of your life. -[sighs nervously] 345 00:17:22,334 --> 00:17:23,752 -I love you. -Love you, Mom. 346 00:17:28,006 --> 00:17:30,258 Ladies and gentlemen, the groom 347 00:17:31,051 --> 00:17:32,302 and his beautiful mother. 348 00:17:32,636 --> 00:17:34,346 -[whispers] Slow down. -[whispers] Slow down. 349 00:17:39,976 --> 00:17:41,770 [Barnett sighs] Geez. 350 00:17:42,104 --> 00:17:43,814 [dramatic instrumentals continue] 351 00:17:52,489 --> 00:17:53,532 I'm not crying. 352 00:17:59,329 --> 00:18:00,163 [music stops] 353 00:18:01,998 --> 00:18:03,208 [exhales deeply] 354 00:18:05,752 --> 00:18:06,628 It's hot in here. 355 00:18:10,966 --> 00:18:12,342 [Amber] Oh, gosh. 356 00:18:15,053 --> 00:18:15,929 [exhales deeply] 357 00:18:26,189 --> 00:18:27,149 [sighs] 358 00:18:28,150 --> 00:18:30,152 My little girl, all grown up. 359 00:18:30,735 --> 00:18:32,237 Now remember, no matter what, 360 00:18:34,030 --> 00:18:36,533 something worth having is something worth fighting for. 361 00:18:36,616 --> 00:18:38,034 -I know. -And you never give up. 362 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:40,328 I've been fighting for this since day one. 363 00:18:44,833 --> 00:18:46,168 [minister] The moment has arrived. 364 00:18:46,251 --> 00:18:49,546 Would you please stand in honor of the bride? 365 00:18:51,882 --> 00:18:52,924 [chuckles nervously] 366 00:18:54,843 --> 00:18:55,760 Okay? 367 00:18:56,303 --> 00:18:57,179 I guess. 368 00:18:59,347 --> 00:19:01,433 [Vickie] You're not supposed to have to fight for it all the time. 369 00:19:01,516 --> 00:19:02,559 I told you that, too. 370 00:19:02,642 --> 00:19:03,852 Make up your mind, woman. 371 00:19:03,935 --> 00:19:05,729 It is supposed to be there naturally, Amber Lynn. 372 00:19:05,812 --> 00:19:07,022 - It was there naturally. -Okay. 373 00:19:07,105 --> 00:19:09,107 Would you make up your mind what you want me to do? 374 00:19:09,191 --> 00:19:10,901 You said if it's worth having, fight for it. 375 00:19:10,984 --> 00:19:13,361 You said you shouldn't have to fight for it. I did both. 376 00:19:14,196 --> 00:19:15,322 I found both. 377 00:19:15,405 --> 00:19:17,782 It was there naturally, and I did have to fight for it. 378 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:21,411 Well, I wish you luck. 379 00:19:25,707 --> 00:19:26,750 [exhales] 380 00:19:29,586 --> 00:19:30,503 [exhales] 381 00:19:37,802 --> 00:19:39,804 [dramatic music playing] 382 00:20:00,909 --> 00:20:01,993 Thank you. 383 00:20:04,871 --> 00:20:06,289 [exhales deeply] 384 00:20:15,924 --> 00:20:17,175 [minister] Please be seated. 385 00:20:18,593 --> 00:20:20,971 Who presents this bride to be wed? 386 00:20:21,054 --> 00:20:22,472 -I do. -[minister] Thank you. 387 00:20:23,056 --> 00:20:27,394 [minister] Amber and Matthew, you chose to get engaged 388 00:20:27,894 --> 00:20:30,397 and spend the rest of your life together 389 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:35,110 based on an incredible emotional connection. 390 00:20:36,569 --> 00:20:40,991 You fell in love with who each of you are on the inside, 391 00:20:41,783 --> 00:20:43,785 and you decided to get married 392 00:20:44,494 --> 00:20:46,121 before ever seeing one another. 393 00:20:48,206 --> 00:20:51,126 Amber, if you will please share your thoughts. 394 00:20:52,836 --> 00:20:53,670 [Amber exhales] 395 00:20:55,213 --> 00:20:56,214 Never... 396 00:20:56,965 --> 00:20:59,801 have I ever in my life 397 00:21:00,260 --> 00:21:01,386 met a man 398 00:21:02,178 --> 00:21:04,806 that irks my nerves like you do. [laughs] 399 00:21:07,434 --> 00:21:08,268 [sighs] 400 00:21:09,477 --> 00:21:12,439 I found my love of a lifetime. 401 00:21:12,647 --> 00:21:14,691 [laughs, sobs] That's all I got. 402 00:21:14,774 --> 00:21:16,151 You're going to mess up my makeup. 403 00:21:19,779 --> 00:21:22,407 I never thought that this would ever happen. 404 00:21:22,490 --> 00:21:25,201 I never came into this thinking that I would find anyone like you. 405 00:21:25,285 --> 00:21:27,620 You are amazing, 406 00:21:27,746 --> 00:21:29,622 you're beautiful, inside and out. 407 00:21:30,540 --> 00:21:31,374 So... 408 00:21:34,627 --> 00:21:36,087 Amber and Matthew, 409 00:21:36,379 --> 00:21:38,673 you stand together in the presence of God 410 00:21:38,757 --> 00:21:41,926 to decide whether or not to face life together 411 00:21:42,385 --> 00:21:43,678 as husband and wife, 412 00:21:44,679 --> 00:21:46,723 or walk away from each other 413 00:21:48,016 --> 00:21:48,850 forever. 414 00:21:50,727 --> 00:21:54,522 Now is the time to decide if love is blind. 415 00:21:57,192 --> 00:22:00,278 Amber, do you take Matthew to be your lawfully wedded husband, 416 00:22:00,362 --> 00:22:03,698 to live together in the holy estate of matrimony? 417 00:22:03,782 --> 00:22:07,827 Will you love him, comfort him, honor and keep him, 418 00:22:08,495 --> 00:22:10,330 as long as you both shall live? 419 00:22:14,209 --> 00:22:15,043 [sighs] 420 00:22:18,296 --> 00:22:21,299 The fact that, even when you're making me crazy, 421 00:22:21,383 --> 00:22:24,469 I still am so in love with you 422 00:22:24,552 --> 00:22:26,930 I can't help myself. 423 00:22:31,851 --> 00:22:33,520 I do. I will. 424 00:22:33,895 --> 00:22:35,563 Absolutely. [laughs] 425 00:22:39,567 --> 00:22:41,486 -All right. -[laughs] 426 00:22:41,611 --> 00:22:42,529 Yes. 427 00:22:44,072 --> 00:22:47,283 You have become so much more than I expected. 428 00:22:49,369 --> 00:22:50,537 And I'm excited 429 00:22:51,663 --> 00:22:53,998 that you get to keep becoming more with me. 430 00:22:55,542 --> 00:22:56,543 [laughs] 431 00:22:59,921 --> 00:23:00,922 [minister] Matthew, 432 00:23:02,715 --> 00:23:04,759 do you take Amber to be your lawfully wedded wife, 433 00:23:05,135 --> 00:23:07,429 to live together in the holy estate of matrimony? 434 00:23:08,972 --> 00:23:10,098 Will you love her, 435 00:23:10,265 --> 00:23:12,308 comfort her, honor and keep her, 436 00:23:13,268 --> 00:23:15,019 as long as you both shall live? 437 00:23:20,692 --> 00:23:22,235 [dramatic music intensifies] 438 00:23:25,613 --> 00:23:27,157 [dramatic music crescendos] 439 00:23:29,242 --> 00:23:30,201 ["Into the Night" playing] 440 00:23:30,285 --> 00:23:31,619 ♪ Hold me now ♪ 441 00:23:32,412 --> 00:23:37,625 ♪ I'm slipping on candlelight ♪ 442 00:23:38,209 --> 00:23:39,919 ♪ Hold me now ♪ 443 00:23:40,378 --> 00:23:44,716 ♪ As we walk into the night ♪ 444 00:23:46,926 --> 00:23:48,178 [laughs] 445 00:23:49,053 --> 00:23:51,264 Oh, I do. A hundred percent. 446 00:23:51,347 --> 00:23:53,016 [excited chatter] 447 00:23:53,558 --> 00:23:55,852 I can't-- I can't imagine a life without you. 448 00:23:55,935 --> 00:23:57,353 Good, because you are stuck. 449 00:23:58,396 --> 00:24:01,232 [minister] I now pronounce you married! 450 00:24:01,316 --> 00:24:02,400 [laughs] 451 00:24:02,484 --> 00:24:04,486 [attendees cheering] 452 00:24:05,069 --> 00:24:06,070 -Mm. -Mm. 453 00:24:06,154 --> 00:24:07,197 [Amber chuckles] 454 00:24:08,281 --> 00:24:09,324 Uh-uh. 455 00:24:13,244 --> 00:24:14,204 [man] Whoo! 456 00:24:15,622 --> 00:24:17,040 -I love you. -I love you. 457 00:24:17,165 --> 00:24:18,166 [Amber laughs] 458 00:24:21,169 --> 00:24:22,295 [man] Whoo! 459 00:24:23,046 --> 00:24:25,006 Ladies and gentlemen, the bride and groom! 460 00:24:25,089 --> 00:24:27,133 [all cheering] 461 00:24:33,223 --> 00:24:34,224 [Amber laughs] 462 00:24:37,310 --> 00:24:38,561 -Love you. -Love you. 463 00:24:43,399 --> 00:24:44,567 -Oh, yeah. -Hey, guess what. 464 00:24:44,692 --> 00:24:46,152 -What? -You're my husband. 465 00:24:47,445 --> 00:24:50,740 -I think you have my last name now, so... -I, um-- We're going to make that happen. 466 00:24:51,199 --> 00:24:53,117 -Amber Barnett. -[sighs] 467 00:24:53,576 --> 00:24:54,619 -Doesn't sound as good now. 468 00:24:54,702 --> 00:24:55,745 -You know-- -I'm kidding! 469 00:24:55,828 --> 00:24:56,829 Get out of here. 470 00:24:57,205 --> 00:24:58,331 Get out of here. 471 00:24:58,498 --> 00:24:59,457 Get out of here. 472 00:24:59,541 --> 00:25:00,583 [chuckles] 473 00:25:00,667 --> 00:25:02,669 [upbeat music playing] 474 00:25:14,097 --> 00:25:15,431 [Kenny] I could never have imagined 475 00:25:15,515 --> 00:25:17,475 that this experiment was gonna end this way for me. 476 00:25:18,518 --> 00:25:20,895 It's unreal that Kelly is going to be my wife. 477 00:25:20,979 --> 00:25:23,898 Honestly, I had given up hope and given up thinking about, like, 478 00:25:24,065 --> 00:25:25,858 the idea of even being married, 479 00:25:25,942 --> 00:25:27,777 just because I couldn't find that right person. 480 00:25:27,986 --> 00:25:29,320 I know that I need to be with you, 481 00:25:29,404 --> 00:25:31,906 and you're exactly the person that I've been looking for. 482 00:25:32,865 --> 00:25:34,659 And I want to ask you, Kelly Marie... 483 00:25:35,660 --> 00:25:36,786 will you marry me? 484 00:25:37,328 --> 00:25:39,581 I will. Yes. [laughs] 485 00:25:39,706 --> 00:25:42,458 I love you today, and that love will remain, 486 00:25:43,293 --> 00:25:45,795 but I can't wait to learn to love you even more. 487 00:25:45,878 --> 00:25:46,963 I love you too. 488 00:25:47,463 --> 00:25:48,381 [Kelly laughs] 489 00:25:49,882 --> 00:25:50,717 -How you doing? -Hi. 490 00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:51,968 Oh, my God! 491 00:25:53,595 --> 00:25:56,431 I'm a big, big believer in serendipity, 492 00:25:56,514 --> 00:25:58,474 and this is one of those serendipitous moments, 493 00:25:58,558 --> 00:26:00,268 and everything is just so clear. 494 00:26:00,351 --> 00:26:01,978 That's where I feel right now. 495 00:26:02,061 --> 00:26:03,313 Just happiness. 496 00:26:03,396 --> 00:26:05,064 -Heyo. -Yo. 497 00:26:05,148 --> 00:26:06,816 -What's up, man? -[Kenny] What's going on? 498 00:26:06,899 --> 00:26:08,276 -Bossman. -Good to see you. 499 00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:09,235 I love the 'stache. 500 00:26:09,319 --> 00:26:10,612 Thank you, thank you. 501 00:26:10,695 --> 00:26:11,529 -What's up? -Good. 502 00:26:11,613 --> 00:26:13,865 I fell in love with Kelly, sight unseen 503 00:26:13,948 --> 00:26:15,908 because we were both honest with each other. 504 00:26:15,992 --> 00:26:17,952 I learned who she is, truly. 505 00:26:18,036 --> 00:26:19,871 This is a big moment, wedding day. 506 00:26:20,163 --> 00:26:21,247 A little-- A little surreal. 507 00:26:22,206 --> 00:26:24,042 That's an understatement of a lifetime. 508 00:26:24,125 --> 00:26:25,251 -Yeah. -[laughs] 509 00:26:25,335 --> 00:26:27,879 She's genuine, she's ambitious, she's passionate, 510 00:26:28,046 --> 00:26:31,007 and she's the woman that I want to spend the rest of my life with. 511 00:26:32,342 --> 00:26:35,011 Fellas, you guys want to check out the suits you'll be wearing? 512 00:26:35,094 --> 00:26:37,055 -Let's do it. -That I picked out for you guys? 513 00:26:43,561 --> 00:26:45,271 Oh, this is so pretty. 514 00:26:46,981 --> 00:26:50,193 We tend to fantasize our fairy-tale weddings 515 00:26:50,276 --> 00:26:52,278 and our fairy-tale Prince Charming, you know. 516 00:26:52,362 --> 00:26:53,863 -Hi. -Hi. 517 00:26:53,946 --> 00:26:56,199 -Yay! -Yay! 518 00:26:57,241 --> 00:26:59,077 -Oh, hi, honey. -Oh, hi. 519 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:00,495 -You know... -I love you. 520 00:27:00,953 --> 00:27:03,081 I love Kenny. He's absolutely perfect. 521 00:27:03,623 --> 00:27:04,582 -Hi, honey. -Hi. 522 00:27:05,667 --> 00:27:10,004 But I am nervous because I don't know if I am, like, 100% in love with him. 523 00:27:11,047 --> 00:27:12,757 [makeup artist] Did you learn a lot about yourself? 524 00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:14,092 I did, yeah. 525 00:27:14,217 --> 00:27:15,635 [makeup artist] What did you learn? 526 00:27:15,802 --> 00:27:17,762 I mean, I knew that I... 527 00:27:18,388 --> 00:27:21,432 was capable of loving someone for their personality, of course. 528 00:27:21,516 --> 00:27:22,350 Um... 529 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,186 [makeup artist] Would you have talked to him if you saw him before? 530 00:27:26,521 --> 00:27:27,980 No, I probably wouldn't have. 531 00:27:28,481 --> 00:27:30,650 The love that I had for my ex-boyfriend-- 532 00:27:30,733 --> 00:27:32,985 I mean, my mom has said this for years. 533 00:27:33,069 --> 00:27:35,530 She was like, "You were infatuated with him." 534 00:27:35,613 --> 00:27:39,659 I don't have that same crazy infatuation 535 00:27:40,451 --> 00:27:42,370 for Kenny, as I did with this man. 536 00:27:42,495 --> 00:27:44,622 [Kenny] We were able to make this commitment to each other, 537 00:27:45,039 --> 00:27:47,875 and then we haven't, you know, had sex yet. 538 00:27:49,419 --> 00:27:51,129 I know how I feel about it. 539 00:27:51,212 --> 00:27:52,797 Like, how do you feel about it? 540 00:27:53,381 --> 00:27:57,051 We are just so perfect on every level. 541 00:27:57,135 --> 00:27:58,344 -Right. -And I just, like, 542 00:27:58,428 --> 00:28:00,555 don't want to throw that in the mix just yet. 543 00:28:01,013 --> 00:28:01,973 That's why I keep saying 544 00:28:02,056 --> 00:28:04,308 I'm not in love with him, because if I was in love, 545 00:28:04,392 --> 00:28:05,977 I would have that infatuation, like... 546 00:28:06,686 --> 00:28:08,062 nothing else matters. 547 00:28:08,146 --> 00:28:09,647 But obviously I'm conflicted. 548 00:28:09,772 --> 00:28:13,234 Maybe what my whole definition of what "in love" is supposed to feel like 549 00:28:13,317 --> 00:28:14,736 is not right. 550 00:28:14,861 --> 00:28:16,320 -You look beautiful. -Thank you. 551 00:28:16,404 --> 00:28:17,321 You're welcome. 552 00:28:17,447 --> 00:28:18,698 -[laughs] -I know there's, like, 553 00:28:18,781 --> 00:28:20,199 so much makeup on my face, but... 554 00:28:20,283 --> 00:28:21,743 -You won't be able to tell. -Yeah. 555 00:28:22,201 --> 00:28:23,828 So, how are you feeling about the wedding? 556 00:28:24,537 --> 00:28:25,371 I mean, I'm... 557 00:28:27,498 --> 00:28:31,502 you know, having the decision of, if I say "I do," and if I don't. 558 00:28:31,586 --> 00:28:32,420 Um... 559 00:28:32,754 --> 00:28:35,631 and, like, what life would look like in both of those extremes. 560 00:28:35,715 --> 00:28:38,384 Um, so, me saying "I do," 561 00:28:39,051 --> 00:28:40,595 I know that everything would be great, 562 00:28:42,054 --> 00:28:44,932 because our, our relationship is so solid. 563 00:28:45,141 --> 00:28:48,770 If I say "I don't," it's simply because we're not-- 564 00:28:48,853 --> 00:28:49,896 It's not the right time. 565 00:28:50,688 --> 00:28:53,357 So I've, like, weighed both scenarios out. 566 00:28:53,983 --> 00:28:55,610 What are some of your cons? 567 00:28:56,152 --> 00:28:58,446 If I were to say "I do," and something were to happen, 568 00:28:58,529 --> 00:29:01,073 like, that's what the only, like, fear that I have is that... 569 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:02,200 it doesn't work out. 570 00:29:04,285 --> 00:29:06,412 So you still have a little hesitancy going into it? 571 00:29:06,496 --> 00:29:08,748 Yeah, and it's like another thing I think of is 572 00:29:08,831 --> 00:29:11,292 this engagement has been so short-lived, it's like-- 573 00:29:11,501 --> 00:29:14,337 But are we still in the, like-- Are we just in a honeymoon phase? 574 00:29:15,379 --> 00:29:17,006 I do believe that we are both 575 00:29:17,089 --> 00:29:19,675 completely true to ourselves, and we're being very real. 576 00:29:20,718 --> 00:29:24,597 But even when you're real, you have a honeymoon phase. 577 00:29:24,722 --> 00:29:27,934 -Right. -And is it just happy 578 00:29:28,184 --> 00:29:29,727 and rainbows and butterflies right now 579 00:29:29,811 --> 00:29:31,687 because we haven't known each other that long, 580 00:29:31,771 --> 00:29:33,940 and we haven't had a relationship in a long time. 581 00:29:34,023 --> 00:29:36,275 -Right. -And it's just a beautiful thing 582 00:29:36,359 --> 00:29:38,820 that we've connected with someone, but in four months from now, 583 00:29:39,695 --> 00:29:41,155 are we still gonna be in that same-- 584 00:29:41,239 --> 00:29:43,199 So it's the fear of the possibilities 585 00:29:43,282 --> 00:29:44,659 -of it changing. -Yeah. 586 00:29:45,243 --> 00:29:47,954 I just have to believe myself and listen to my heart. 587 00:29:48,287 --> 00:29:50,790 I feel excited for her and Kenny and everything going on, 588 00:29:51,207 --> 00:29:52,250 and I feel nervous 589 00:29:52,583 --> 00:29:55,419 for just how she feels. 590 00:29:55,837 --> 00:29:57,171 I do think she wants Kenny, 591 00:29:57,255 --> 00:30:00,299 but sometimes in life you get an opportunity 592 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:02,927 and if you don't jump on it, 593 00:30:03,636 --> 00:30:05,096 sometimes you miss the boat. 594 00:30:05,763 --> 00:30:07,515 You know, I met Kenny briefly. 595 00:30:07,598 --> 00:30:10,476 He was, like, very intelligent. Confident, too. 596 00:30:10,601 --> 00:30:11,811 -Funny... -Mm-hmm. 597 00:30:11,894 --> 00:30:14,856 and well-spoken, and he seems very trustworthy. 598 00:30:15,606 --> 00:30:18,693 He's been one of the better, if not the best, so far, 599 00:30:18,776 --> 00:30:20,778 of the men that you've brought in. 600 00:30:21,863 --> 00:30:22,697 So, 601 00:30:23,114 --> 00:30:26,367 you know, just maybe when you're walking down the aisle, 602 00:30:26,742 --> 00:30:29,328 when you're looking at him, I'm sure, eye to eye... 603 00:30:29,412 --> 00:30:31,914 -Yeah. -...that you recognize 604 00:30:31,998 --> 00:30:34,876 what the beauty of the relationship is with him 605 00:30:35,001 --> 00:30:37,253 and then kind of go through all of that, even in your mind 606 00:30:37,336 --> 00:30:39,171 because I know you don't know, 607 00:30:39,255 --> 00:30:41,591 and I don't know exactly what your decision is gonna be 608 00:30:41,674 --> 00:30:42,925 -on the altar. -Right. 609 00:30:43,009 --> 00:30:44,719 Because things can change from now to then. 610 00:30:45,678 --> 00:30:48,139 I want to see her smiling and happy every day, 611 00:30:48,639 --> 00:30:50,433 and this man, Kenny, 612 00:30:51,183 --> 00:30:54,520 becoming her husband, her spouse, and the man that she loves. 613 00:30:54,937 --> 00:30:56,439 I just hope that when she gets to alter 614 00:30:56,522 --> 00:30:59,817 she makes the decision that's right for her heart in this moment 615 00:30:59,901 --> 00:31:03,070 and knows that she is walking into a very good relationship. 616 00:31:03,195 --> 00:31:06,532 The risks, the great risks in life, you got to take that jump. 617 00:31:06,908 --> 00:31:08,117 -Thank you. -You're welcome. 618 00:31:08,910 --> 00:31:09,744 Give me a hug. 619 00:31:10,369 --> 00:31:11,913 [kisses] I love you. 620 00:31:14,081 --> 00:31:15,082 Y'all been drinking? 621 00:31:15,166 --> 00:31:16,709 Yeah, we've been drinking a little bit. 622 00:31:16,876 --> 00:31:18,544 -Come here, baby. -I'm being responsible. 623 00:31:19,462 --> 00:31:20,379 Oh... 624 00:31:20,922 --> 00:31:21,964 How are you doing? 625 00:31:23,090 --> 00:31:23,925 A little anxious. 626 00:31:24,008 --> 00:31:25,092 -You anxious? -A little bit. 627 00:31:26,302 --> 00:31:28,471 [Marcia] So, how you doing? Is this your little journal? 628 00:31:28,554 --> 00:31:31,265 This is my journal, yeah. Just writing some notes, thoughts. 629 00:31:31,349 --> 00:31:33,142 -So what are you thinking? -In the past-- 630 00:31:33,225 --> 00:31:34,060 Uh... 631 00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:35,686 I'm just excited. 632 00:31:35,770 --> 00:31:36,979 It's all positive things 633 00:31:37,063 --> 00:31:39,523 because it's just that next step for me and her to take 634 00:31:39,607 --> 00:31:40,942 and continue our journey together. 635 00:31:41,025 --> 00:31:44,236 The greatest advice I can give you 636 00:31:45,154 --> 00:31:47,823 is to ask God to let you see your spouse 637 00:31:48,199 --> 00:31:49,492 -through His eyes. -Yeah. 638 00:31:49,742 --> 00:31:53,079 It feels surreal to be the mother of a groom 639 00:31:53,537 --> 00:31:55,039 in a situation like this. 640 00:31:55,373 --> 00:31:59,210 I love that Kenny is getting married, 641 00:31:59,418 --> 00:32:01,921 and I'm excited 642 00:32:02,004 --> 00:32:04,465 because family is the most important thing to me, 643 00:32:04,548 --> 00:32:07,551 and I can see Kelly fitting into our family. 644 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,303 So that makes me very happy. 645 00:32:09,887 --> 00:32:11,472 I'm so glad you're our son. 646 00:32:13,307 --> 00:32:14,183 You're good, Mom. 647 00:32:15,351 --> 00:32:16,477 My only son. 648 00:32:17,436 --> 00:32:18,437 [sniffles] 649 00:32:21,190 --> 00:32:23,859 I just want you to find somebody who loves you as much as I do. 650 00:32:23,943 --> 00:32:26,112 She does and I'm so thankful for it. 651 00:32:26,487 --> 00:32:27,822 That's what this has showed me. 652 00:32:28,531 --> 00:32:31,033 -Well, you know it. Love you. -I'm down here crying in basements. 653 00:32:31,117 --> 00:32:31,993 -I know. -Yeah. 654 00:32:32,076 --> 00:32:33,452 I need some wine. 655 00:32:33,786 --> 00:32:35,705 -[Liz] Hi, honey. -Hi, I can take your bag. 656 00:32:35,871 --> 00:32:37,039 Thank you. 657 00:32:37,206 --> 00:32:38,457 -Aww. -You look pretty. 658 00:32:38,541 --> 00:32:41,377 [kisses] So do you. You look beautiful. 659 00:32:41,460 --> 00:32:42,586 Thank you. 660 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,089 [Liz] Today, I am the mother of the bride. 661 00:32:45,172 --> 00:32:46,132 It's exciting. 662 00:32:46,382 --> 00:32:47,341 It's very exciting. 663 00:32:47,425 --> 00:32:49,552 -It looks real pretty. -Thank you. 664 00:32:50,511 --> 00:32:52,430 -Thank you. -[Rebecca and Kelly laughing] 665 00:32:52,513 --> 00:32:53,889 Don't mess up your makeup. 666 00:32:54,181 --> 00:32:56,726 -It looks gorgeous. -[Liz] You do. I don't want to cry. 667 00:32:57,476 --> 00:33:00,229 -It's okay, you can cry. -No, because you look too pretty. 668 00:33:01,188 --> 00:33:03,441 [Ashley] Don't cry. You're going to make me cry. 669 00:33:03,566 --> 00:33:04,859 [laughs] 670 00:33:06,485 --> 00:33:09,321 -But you're happy? And excited? -Yeah. 671 00:33:09,989 --> 00:33:11,032 -Okay. -I'm okay. 672 00:33:12,658 --> 00:33:15,578 After I put my dress on and everything, it feels surreal. 673 00:33:15,661 --> 00:33:17,830 It does feel like that fairy tale that every little girl... 674 00:33:18,122 --> 00:33:18,998 imagined. 675 00:33:19,081 --> 00:33:21,250 Aww. These are so pretty. 676 00:33:22,001 --> 00:33:23,044 I love Kenny, 677 00:33:23,127 --> 00:33:26,297 and getting married to someone is a freaking big deal, 678 00:33:26,380 --> 00:33:28,632 and it is going to be emotional. 679 00:33:29,133 --> 00:33:31,969 I'm already preparing myself for that. [laughs] 680 00:33:33,554 --> 00:33:35,389 [Liz] All right. Here we go. 681 00:33:36,390 --> 00:33:37,349 Here we go. 682 00:33:44,398 --> 00:33:45,941 ["This Time" playing] 683 00:33:48,027 --> 00:33:51,989 ♪ This time, this time ♪ 684 00:33:52,281 --> 00:33:55,993 ♪ There's no turning back ♪ 685 00:33:57,703 --> 00:34:00,498 ♪ Rise and fall ♪ 686 00:34:00,581 --> 00:34:05,127 ♪ And shine or faint to black ♪ 687 00:34:06,253 --> 00:34:10,174 ♪ We'll never give up We'll never give in ♪ 688 00:34:10,549 --> 00:34:12,009 ♪ It's now or never ♪ 689 00:34:12,426 --> 00:34:15,554 ♪ Are you in ♪ 690 00:34:16,055 --> 00:34:17,389 ♪ This time ♪ 691 00:34:17,515 --> 00:34:19,683 The last time I did this was 32 years ago. 692 00:34:19,809 --> 00:34:21,685 -Walking down the aisle? -With my dad. 693 00:34:22,269 --> 00:34:23,938 It's uh... It is nerve-wracking. 694 00:34:24,146 --> 00:34:26,690 His arm was vibrating the entire time. 695 00:34:27,316 --> 00:34:28,776 -Am I vibrating? -No, you're good. 696 00:34:28,859 --> 00:34:29,860 -Yeah. -You're good. 697 00:34:30,069 --> 00:34:34,198 [Kenny] I still feel this same love that I've had for Kelly this entire time. 698 00:34:34,490 --> 00:34:36,534 She is exactly the woman that I've been looking for. 699 00:34:36,617 --> 00:34:39,620 I mean, I feel certain about what I'm about to, you know, do. 700 00:34:39,703 --> 00:34:42,540 So above anything else, I'm just excited. 701 00:34:42,998 --> 00:34:44,333 -Love you. -I love you. 702 00:34:48,671 --> 00:34:49,713 Ready to walk? 703 00:34:49,797 --> 00:34:50,756 [Marcia] Yes, I'm ready. 704 00:34:50,923 --> 00:34:56,220 ♪ This time, this time There's no turning back ♪ 705 00:34:57,096 --> 00:34:58,681 ♪ It's now or never ♪ 706 00:34:58,848 --> 00:35:01,267 ♪ Are you in ♪ 707 00:35:02,476 --> 00:35:03,811 ♪ This time ♪ 708 00:35:04,103 --> 00:35:05,396 -[Kenny] How's it going? -Good. 709 00:35:06,147 --> 00:35:07,648 Hey. How y'all doing? 710 00:35:08,107 --> 00:35:10,484 I don't know if it's appropriate, but I'm gonna talk to you all either way. 711 00:35:10,651 --> 00:35:12,027 [guests laughing] 712 00:35:12,194 --> 00:35:13,154 Nice to see you. 713 00:35:13,237 --> 00:35:15,072 Yeah, nice to finally-- Nice to see you again. 714 00:35:15,156 --> 00:35:16,365 -Nice to see you. -[Kenny] Yeah. 715 00:35:21,370 --> 00:35:23,205 -[whispers] Are you okay? -[whispers] Yeah. 716 00:35:24,456 --> 00:35:26,667 Four glasses of champagne, I'm good. 717 00:35:27,209 --> 00:35:28,919 [Kelly whispers] Oh, dear. [trembling exhale] 718 00:35:29,670 --> 00:35:30,671 [Jeff] Here it is... 719 00:35:31,630 --> 00:35:33,048 the land of no return. 720 00:35:34,049 --> 00:35:35,551 [Kelly] Kenny is extremely supportive, 721 00:35:35,634 --> 00:35:39,138 and he's my best friend, my confidant, my person. 722 00:35:39,346 --> 00:35:42,308 Having a partner to love for the rest of my life means... 723 00:35:42,391 --> 00:35:43,684 everything, 724 00:35:43,767 --> 00:35:45,102 and it's a very big commitment. 725 00:35:45,186 --> 00:35:47,438 And I am definitely not taking it lightly. 726 00:35:47,521 --> 00:35:49,523 So I'm just very anxious. 727 00:35:49,982 --> 00:35:51,066 [exhales] 728 00:35:52,026 --> 00:35:54,653 Um, just want to let you know how proud I am of you. 729 00:35:55,362 --> 00:35:56,697 -Thank you. -I really am. 730 00:35:56,780 --> 00:35:57,865 I know, I know. 731 00:35:58,949 --> 00:36:00,701 -I love you. -I love you. 732 00:36:02,578 --> 00:36:05,122 Ladies and gentlemen, will you please rise for the bride? 733 00:36:11,462 --> 00:36:13,464 ["Dancing in the Dark" playing] 734 00:36:17,593 --> 00:36:21,055 ♪ One night Changed my life forever ♪ 735 00:36:21,138 --> 00:36:22,556 [Kenny voice-over] Kelly's absolutely gorgeous. 736 00:36:23,641 --> 00:36:26,185 She's even more beautiful than I could have ever imagined 737 00:36:26,268 --> 00:36:28,270 and I am immensely happy. 738 00:36:28,687 --> 00:36:31,190 It was like, holy smokes, like, this is me and her. 739 00:36:31,899 --> 00:36:35,778 ♪ Moonlight, surrounded by the city ♪ 740 00:36:35,861 --> 00:36:36,987 Thank you, man. 741 00:36:37,071 --> 00:36:39,031 ♪ We fell in love, right there ♪ 742 00:36:39,114 --> 00:36:39,949 [kisses] 743 00:36:40,032 --> 00:36:42,034 ♪ Do you remember? ♪ 744 00:36:42,743 --> 00:36:43,994 ♪ 'Cause I remember ♪ 745 00:36:44,078 --> 00:36:45,037 [chuckles] 746 00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,122 ♪ You still take my breath away ♪ 747 00:36:49,375 --> 00:36:50,417 You may be seated. 748 00:36:56,590 --> 00:36:58,968 [minister] Family and friends, we are gathered here today 749 00:36:59,051 --> 00:37:00,177 for something amazing: 750 00:37:00,886 --> 00:37:01,971 holy matrimony. 751 00:37:02,554 --> 00:37:03,514 Marriage. 752 00:37:04,473 --> 00:37:06,016 Love is unpredictable, 753 00:37:06,308 --> 00:37:08,602 especially in these circumstances. 754 00:37:09,311 --> 00:37:12,940 The both of you fell in love and got engaged sight still unseen. 755 00:37:13,482 --> 00:37:14,316 [chuckles] 756 00:37:14,775 --> 00:37:17,111 [minister] It was all based on just your deep connection, 757 00:37:17,736 --> 00:37:19,655 your emotional connection that you guys made. 758 00:37:20,281 --> 00:37:22,366 It became clear in a short amount of time 759 00:37:22,866 --> 00:37:25,369 that Kenneth and Kelly found exactly what they were looking for. 760 00:37:25,452 --> 00:37:29,290 ♪ We fell in love, right there ♪ 761 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:31,125 ♪ Do you remember? ♪ 762 00:37:32,584 --> 00:37:34,211 You know, not only did we meet 763 00:37:34,795 --> 00:37:37,256 um, by complete happenstance 764 00:37:37,339 --> 00:37:39,758 and to have thought that going into this experiment 765 00:37:39,842 --> 00:37:42,761 that we would be here right now is unbelievable 766 00:37:42,845 --> 00:37:46,265 and I know that everyone that is here, uh, 767 00:37:47,182 --> 00:37:50,436 for the most part, are blind supporters of you, 768 00:37:51,103 --> 00:37:52,813 and I want you to understand that. 769 00:37:52,896 --> 00:37:54,982 You know, we haven't had an opportunity 770 00:37:55,065 --> 00:37:56,900 to talk to the majority of people in this room, 771 00:37:56,984 --> 00:37:58,777 or for them to meet you, 772 00:37:58,861 --> 00:38:01,822 and for them to meet me, and it doesn't matter, right? 773 00:38:01,905 --> 00:38:03,907 Because we know what we've experienced. 774 00:38:04,283 --> 00:38:07,077 I have nothing but love for your family, that we have their support, 775 00:38:07,411 --> 00:38:09,913 and they're here for us, thick and thin, 776 00:38:10,164 --> 00:38:12,166 and the only thing that also matters 777 00:38:12,249 --> 00:38:13,917 is that I will always be here for you. 778 00:38:16,086 --> 00:38:17,046 No matter what. 779 00:38:17,713 --> 00:38:20,215 And I can't wait to be a continued part of your life. 780 00:38:21,133 --> 00:38:22,843 I'm going to cry. [laughs] 781 00:38:24,762 --> 00:38:26,096 This experiment, 782 00:38:27,056 --> 00:38:27,890 um... 783 00:38:29,141 --> 00:38:31,226 [sniffles] I mean, it brought me to you, 784 00:38:31,810 --> 00:38:33,145 someone who is 785 00:38:33,979 --> 00:38:37,566 so fabulous in every single aspect. 786 00:38:38,650 --> 00:38:39,485 You know, and, 787 00:38:40,402 --> 00:38:41,987 and this has been a wild ride, 788 00:38:42,071 --> 00:38:44,698 and I am grateful that it has... 789 00:38:45,574 --> 00:38:48,494 been with you because you've been nothing but supportive, 790 00:38:49,161 --> 00:38:52,456 and I appreciate every single moment that I shared with you. 791 00:38:53,207 --> 00:38:54,249 And I love you. 792 00:38:54,958 --> 00:38:55,793 I know. 793 00:38:57,461 --> 00:39:00,422 [minister] Now is the time to decide if love is blind. 794 00:39:00,964 --> 00:39:03,258 Together in the presence of friends and family, 795 00:39:03,342 --> 00:39:05,803 we will discover if you will walk together in life 796 00:39:06,387 --> 00:39:07,679 as husband and wife, 797 00:39:08,514 --> 00:39:10,140 or walk away from each other forever. 798 00:39:10,224 --> 00:39:11,892 [dramatic music plays] 799 00:39:11,975 --> 00:39:13,435 Kelly, do you take Kenneth 800 00:39:14,061 --> 00:39:16,313 to be your lawful wedded husband, 801 00:39:17,398 --> 00:39:19,566 to live together in the holy estate of matrimony? 802 00:39:20,150 --> 00:39:22,111 Will you love him, comfort him, 803 00:39:22,653 --> 00:39:24,196 honor and keep him, 804 00:39:24,822 --> 00:39:26,281 in sickness and in health, 805 00:39:26,615 --> 00:39:29,326 forsaking all others, committed only to him, 806 00:39:29,410 --> 00:39:30,702 so long as you both shall live? 807 00:39:30,786 --> 00:39:32,162 [suspenseful instrumentals] 808 00:39:35,082 --> 00:39:37,584 I absolutely adore you 809 00:39:38,585 --> 00:39:39,545 and love you. 810 00:39:42,256 --> 00:39:43,257 I love you. 811 00:39:50,639 --> 00:39:52,433 But I don't. 812 00:39:59,106 --> 00:40:00,399 I can't marry you. 813 00:40:01,275 --> 00:40:02,109 Um... 814 00:40:02,693 --> 00:40:05,070 and I hope that you can appreciate that 815 00:40:05,154 --> 00:40:07,197 and respect that decision of mine. 816 00:40:11,910 --> 00:40:12,744 Thank you. 817 00:40:17,875 --> 00:40:18,917 [Kelly exhales sharply] 818 00:40:19,751 --> 00:40:21,837 [dramatic music plays] 819 00:40:30,345 --> 00:40:33,348 Obviously, this is just a whirlwind for everyone, 820 00:40:33,432 --> 00:40:37,811 and again, don't want to dive too deep into it, and delve... 821 00:40:37,936 --> 00:40:40,355 Because you take something that is so complex, 822 00:40:40,564 --> 00:40:43,108 and it is authentic, and it is real, 823 00:40:43,484 --> 00:40:45,068 but today is not our day. 824 00:40:45,402 --> 00:40:48,071 Um, but I love each and every one of y'all, 825 00:40:48,322 --> 00:40:51,533 and it's something that I'll cherish and be grateful for forever. 826 00:40:51,617 --> 00:40:52,910 [whispers] God, I love this guy. 827 00:40:52,993 --> 00:40:54,661 [applause] 828 00:40:54,745 --> 00:40:55,829 [clears throat] 829 00:40:56,371 --> 00:40:57,206 Yeah. 830 00:40:58,499 --> 00:41:02,586 [Kelly crying] I know that wasn't easy for you,vand mom and dad especially. 831 00:41:03,045 --> 00:41:03,962 [Ashley] It's okay. 832 00:41:04,046 --> 00:41:06,131 [Kelly] I had to be the one to say "I don't." 833 00:41:06,215 --> 00:41:07,424 That's not easy. I'm 33. 834 00:41:07,508 --> 00:41:09,468 I should know what the fuck I want right now. 835 00:41:09,551 --> 00:41:11,512 Excuse my language, but I should know what I want. 836 00:41:11,970 --> 00:41:14,223 And I... And he's checking off every box, 837 00:41:14,306 --> 00:41:16,934 but my love... My, my feelings for him 838 00:41:17,518 --> 00:41:20,187 were not as intense 839 00:41:20,270 --> 00:41:22,689 as his apparently are for me. 840 00:41:23,357 --> 00:41:25,192 So, I really do love you. 841 00:41:25,275 --> 00:41:27,361 -And I appreciate you being here. -I love you, too. 842 00:41:27,444 --> 00:41:28,403 Yeah, me too. 843 00:41:31,281 --> 00:41:32,866 [indistinct chatter] 844 00:41:35,369 --> 00:41:36,495 ["Dynasty" playing] 845 00:41:36,662 --> 00:41:39,581 ♪ Some days it's hard ♪ 846 00:41:40,415 --> 00:41:41,625 ♪ To see ♪ 847 00:41:43,835 --> 00:41:45,212 ♪ If I was a fool ♪ 848 00:41:45,295 --> 00:41:47,047 [man] You still wanna marry her in the future? 849 00:41:47,130 --> 00:41:48,674 I really can't answer that question now. 850 00:41:48,757 --> 00:41:49,716 And it's completely-- 851 00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:52,678 You have to respect the fact that I'm telling you this. 852 00:41:52,803 --> 00:41:55,305 I don't know, and please stop recording this, 853 00:41:55,389 --> 00:41:56,306 because it's not-- 854 00:41:56,932 --> 00:41:58,016 It's... That's wrong. 855 00:41:58,433 --> 00:42:00,060 -[man] What? -What you're asking me. 856 00:42:00,936 --> 00:42:02,229 [man] How you feel about Kelly? 857 00:42:02,479 --> 00:42:04,106 This is not about how I feel about Kelly. 858 00:42:04,189 --> 00:42:05,649 I'm not going to have things filmed. 859 00:42:05,732 --> 00:42:07,025 Please stop recording, Jimmy. 860 00:42:07,901 --> 00:42:08,986 We're not getting married. 861 00:42:09,069 --> 00:42:11,196 I don't know if we're going to maintain a relationship, 862 00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:13,532 and, quite honestly, it doesn't matter either way. 863 00:42:14,658 --> 00:42:16,076 But I'm not going to speak to that. 864 00:42:17,536 --> 00:42:19,913 [Jimmy] So you don't know if you're going to stay with her? 865 00:42:20,664 --> 00:42:21,623 It doesn't matter. 866 00:42:21,748 --> 00:42:22,916 I'm not answering that. 867 00:42:24,793 --> 00:42:26,545 Just... it's very upsetting. 868 00:42:27,379 --> 00:42:31,842 ♪ It all fell down It all fell down ♪ 869 00:42:33,051 --> 00:42:36,972 ♪ It all fell It all fell down ♪ 870 00:42:37,097 --> 00:42:39,600 ♪ It all fell down ♪ 871 00:43:08,295 --> 00:43:11,256 It's my wedding day and I couldn't be happier. 872 00:43:11,548 --> 00:43:14,176 Six weeks ago, I was looking for 873 00:43:14,259 --> 00:43:16,762 the can't-eat, can't-sleep, over-the-fence, 874 00:43:16,845 --> 00:43:18,764 World Series-type of love, 875 00:43:19,056 --> 00:43:20,349 and I have it. 876 00:43:20,974 --> 00:43:23,352 I found full-blown love 877 00:43:23,435 --> 00:43:25,395 like I've never experienced before. 878 00:43:25,479 --> 00:43:27,272 You know, having Mark by my side, 879 00:43:27,356 --> 00:43:29,733 who is such an amazing incredible person... 880 00:43:29,941 --> 00:43:31,485 He's changed me for the better 881 00:43:32,069 --> 00:43:33,820 and that is why you marry someone. 882 00:43:33,904 --> 00:43:35,906 ["I Believe" plays] ♪ My eyes open wide ♪ 883 00:43:38,116 --> 00:43:41,244 ♪ My heart beats like a radio ♪ 884 00:43:42,454 --> 00:43:44,456 ♪ Gonna tear down the wall ♪ 885 00:43:45,290 --> 00:43:46,416 [Mark] It's my wedding day. 886 00:43:46,500 --> 00:43:47,876 Wow. [laughs] 887 00:43:47,959 --> 00:43:49,169 It's kind of... to say that. 888 00:43:49,628 --> 00:43:52,297 I was so sure from the first time I heard Jess' voice, 889 00:43:52,381 --> 00:43:53,715 I knew that she was the one. 890 00:43:53,799 --> 00:43:56,843 And, honestly, to have that kind of emotional connection with someone 891 00:43:56,968 --> 00:43:58,303 without ever even seeing them 892 00:43:58,845 --> 00:44:02,683 is the most amazing thing that's ever happened to me. 893 00:44:02,891 --> 00:44:04,643 I feel like I made the right decision. 894 00:44:05,185 --> 00:44:07,646 I couldn't imagine going through this with anybody else. 895 00:44:14,861 --> 00:44:16,238 How's the bump? 896 00:44:16,363 --> 00:44:17,989 So good. I like it. 897 00:44:18,115 --> 00:44:19,324 I like it a lot. It's perfect. 898 00:44:19,408 --> 00:44:21,660 It's not too much, but it's just enough. Yeah. 899 00:44:21,743 --> 00:44:23,328 -You like it? -Yeah, I like that. 900 00:44:23,495 --> 00:44:25,414 In just a few hours from now, 901 00:44:25,497 --> 00:44:28,333 we'll be walking down the aisle, exchanging vows, 902 00:44:28,750 --> 00:44:30,627 and I'm just ready. 903 00:44:30,919 --> 00:44:32,129 I'm more ready than ever. 904 00:44:32,212 --> 00:44:36,133 I couldn't have asked to be in this with anyone else. 905 00:44:36,341 --> 00:44:38,969 [Mark] Jessica, you have my heart and there's nobody in this world 906 00:44:39,052 --> 00:44:41,012 that I would rather spend the rest of my life with. 907 00:44:41,346 --> 00:44:42,389 Will you marry me? 908 00:44:43,265 --> 00:44:44,182 [gasps] 909 00:44:45,559 --> 00:44:46,393 Yes. 910 00:44:48,770 --> 00:44:52,315 -Of course I will. -I want to kiss you. I want to hug you. 911 00:44:52,566 --> 00:44:54,192 -[Jessica] I love you. -Oh, God. 912 00:45:03,034 --> 00:45:06,580 Today, has been, like, the most important day, I think, 913 00:45:07,330 --> 00:45:10,625 throughout this entire thing because I just feel you. 914 00:45:10,917 --> 00:45:12,836 -We're finally being ourselves. -Yeah. 915 00:45:16,757 --> 00:45:18,175 I'm definitely on the same page. 916 00:45:18,258 --> 00:45:21,595 You know, I felt much more closer to you right now than I have. 917 00:45:22,596 --> 00:45:25,724 You embody everything that I've ever wanted, 918 00:45:26,057 --> 00:45:27,476 and I realized that tonight. 919 00:45:27,893 --> 00:45:28,894 I love you, babe. 920 00:45:29,561 --> 00:45:30,479 Loves ya. 921 00:45:38,904 --> 00:45:40,947 -Whoa! -What up? [laughs] 922 00:45:41,198 --> 00:45:42,783 -What's up? -What up? 923 00:45:43,492 --> 00:45:44,618 What's up, dude? 924 00:45:44,910 --> 00:45:49,122 My guys being here in support of my relationship with Jess... 925 00:45:49,206 --> 00:45:50,707 -[Mark] What's up, dude? -What's up, bro? 926 00:45:50,791 --> 00:45:51,875 [Mark] That to me means the world 927 00:45:51,958 --> 00:45:53,168 because I think, at first, 928 00:45:53,251 --> 00:45:54,961 we're worried about what they're gonna say, 929 00:45:55,045 --> 00:45:57,631 but when they support you, it's just-- I couldn't be happier. 930 00:45:58,048 --> 00:45:58,882 [man] Salud. 931 00:45:58,965 --> 00:46:00,675 Cheers! I'm glad you guys are here. 932 00:46:00,759 --> 00:46:01,760 Seriously. 933 00:46:03,053 --> 00:46:04,679 -[Jessica] Hello. -[woman] Hey. 934 00:46:04,763 --> 00:46:06,515 -[woman] Look at you, pretty girl. -Hi, beautiful. 935 00:46:06,598 --> 00:46:08,225 -You look so good! -[Jessica] And gorge. 936 00:46:08,683 --> 00:46:09,851 You guys look so pretty. 937 00:46:10,185 --> 00:46:13,021 You look beautiful. You look perfect. 938 00:46:13,104 --> 00:46:14,940 [Jessica] I feel like a bride today. 939 00:46:15,023 --> 00:46:19,736 Obviously, I've got the dress, and I feel all those little butterflies. 940 00:46:19,820 --> 00:46:21,238 -[champagne bottle pops] -Oh! 941 00:46:21,321 --> 00:46:22,280 All right. 942 00:46:22,614 --> 00:46:24,783 I think I've got a really good support system 943 00:46:24,866 --> 00:46:26,159 and I'm feeling great. 944 00:46:26,493 --> 00:46:29,579 I know that you've been hopeful that this is all going to work out 945 00:46:29,663 --> 00:46:31,706 and I actually admire that about you 946 00:46:31,790 --> 00:46:33,917 because I'm the type of person that's, like, 947 00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:36,086 if I don't know for sure something's going to happen, 948 00:46:36,169 --> 00:46:38,380 I shut it down and I keep myself out of it 949 00:46:38,463 --> 00:46:39,506 so I don't get hurt. 950 00:46:39,589 --> 00:46:41,925 So what are you hoping is going to happen today? 951 00:46:42,008 --> 00:46:43,927 You know, for me, what I hope... 952 00:46:44,135 --> 00:46:46,471 I'll start off with that. What I hope happens today is 953 00:46:46,596 --> 00:46:47,597 we say "I do." 954 00:46:47,973 --> 00:46:51,893 If she says "yes," I know I can be the man I need to be. 955 00:46:52,227 --> 00:46:53,353 She says "no," 956 00:46:53,687 --> 00:46:54,563 it's going to hurt. 957 00:46:54,646 --> 00:46:56,481 It's going to be... it's going to be painful, 958 00:46:56,565 --> 00:46:57,858 but I know where I stand, 959 00:46:58,108 --> 00:47:01,987 and no matter what has had happened, the ups, the downs, the hot, the cold, 960 00:47:02,070 --> 00:47:03,864 when I see her, it's still the same. 961 00:47:03,947 --> 00:47:04,781 She's my person. 962 00:47:04,865 --> 00:47:06,157 How are you? 963 00:47:06,241 --> 00:47:07,534 -Um... -[woman] Are you excited? 964 00:47:08,577 --> 00:47:09,411 I'm excited. 965 00:47:09,995 --> 00:47:10,829 Mm-hmm. 966 00:47:11,663 --> 00:47:13,415 I'm nervous too, but I'm excited. 967 00:47:13,498 --> 00:47:14,332 Mm-hmm. 968 00:47:16,501 --> 00:47:18,420 [Jessica] Mark is everything I've ever wanted. 969 00:47:18,503 --> 00:47:20,505 I definitely, wholeheartedly, 970 00:47:20,964 --> 00:47:22,799 fell in love more so than I've ever been, 971 00:47:22,883 --> 00:47:25,635 but the person I fell in love with in the pod, 972 00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:26,970 where it was so insulated 973 00:47:27,053 --> 00:47:29,222 and you were just having an emotional conversation 974 00:47:29,306 --> 00:47:30,515 and an emotional connection, 975 00:47:30,599 --> 00:47:33,810 was a totally different experience in the real world. 976 00:47:33,935 --> 00:47:35,312 I'm someone who wants kids. 977 00:47:35,395 --> 00:47:38,356 Dude, if I'm 24, I don't want to be having kids in, like, a year. 978 00:47:39,608 --> 00:47:40,442 You know? 979 00:47:40,525 --> 00:47:42,277 -Like, that's, like... -Look. 980 00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:43,320 ...very young. 981 00:47:43,403 --> 00:47:44,279 Just... 982 00:47:44,696 --> 00:47:45,697 It doesn't bother me. 983 00:47:45,780 --> 00:47:46,823 It doesn't scare me. 984 00:47:47,574 --> 00:47:49,576 I don't think the age matters. 985 00:47:49,659 --> 00:47:53,872 I think the thing for me is, like, my 20's were so amazing. 986 00:47:54,331 --> 00:47:55,457 With him, I'm, like, 987 00:47:55,790 --> 00:47:59,044 are you sure that you would want to give that up? 988 00:47:59,127 --> 00:48:03,298 I mean, that's a really prime time of your life. 989 00:48:04,382 --> 00:48:05,842 In the outside world, 990 00:48:05,926 --> 00:48:07,928 I would have never looked twice at Mark. 991 00:48:08,011 --> 00:48:10,597 I would have, you know, figured out his age 992 00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,474 or maybe that he was a fitness instructor, 993 00:48:12,557 --> 00:48:13,642 and that would be something 994 00:48:13,725 --> 00:48:15,393 maybe I wouldn't have been into. 995 00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:17,103 Usually, I am someone who runs 996 00:48:17,395 --> 00:48:18,313 before a commitment, 997 00:48:18,396 --> 00:48:21,107 but Mark has exceeded every expectation. 998 00:48:22,067 --> 00:48:23,485 Taking those vows, 999 00:48:23,568 --> 00:48:25,195 it's a huge commitment, 1000 00:48:25,612 --> 00:48:27,656 and it's something I take very seriously. 1001 00:48:27,739 --> 00:48:30,492 [cello playing "Cantata 147" by J. S. Bach] 1002 00:48:49,636 --> 00:48:50,679 Hello. 1003 00:48:50,762 --> 00:48:54,015 -What's up? -What's up, my baby? 1004 00:48:54,307 --> 00:48:56,643 -Hi. -[Rosa] How are you, my love? 1005 00:48:56,893 --> 00:48:57,727 [Mark] I'm good. 1006 00:48:57,811 --> 00:48:59,145 [Rosa] Yeah? You're ready? 1007 00:48:59,521 --> 00:49:00,522 Yeah. 1008 00:49:04,609 --> 00:49:05,443 [Rosa] Wow. 1009 00:49:06,611 --> 00:49:08,154 [Mark exhales deeply] Wow. 1010 00:49:09,489 --> 00:49:10,448 Oh, God. 1011 00:49:11,199 --> 00:49:13,076 -[Rosa] Are you going to pass out? -No, I'm not. 1012 00:49:13,159 --> 00:49:15,495 [Rosa] If you are going to pass out, you have to let me know. 1013 00:49:15,578 --> 00:49:18,039 [Mark] It's crazy. I'm about to walk down the aisle. 1014 00:49:18,123 --> 00:49:19,749 If Jess says... If Jess says "I do," 1015 00:49:19,833 --> 00:49:21,960 I mean, that "yes" would mean the world. 1016 00:49:22,752 --> 00:49:23,586 That's my woman. 1017 00:49:23,670 --> 00:49:26,214 That's my little person who I fought for the entire time. 1018 00:49:26,464 --> 00:49:27,424 But who knows? 1019 00:49:27,507 --> 00:49:30,176 Maybe she still battling reality to the experience. 1020 00:49:30,260 --> 00:49:32,762 And if she says no, it's going to hurt. 1021 00:49:33,471 --> 00:49:35,056 It's going to be physically painful. 1022 00:49:35,140 --> 00:49:36,141 Game time. 1023 00:49:37,308 --> 00:49:38,309 No turning back now. 1024 00:49:39,811 --> 00:49:42,856 [Rosa] Baby, I love you with all my heart. [kisses] 1025 00:49:43,189 --> 00:49:44,315 God bless you. 1026 00:49:44,524 --> 00:49:46,317 I think he cares a lot for her, 1027 00:49:46,609 --> 00:49:48,528 so I'm hoping that she feels the same. 1028 00:49:48,737 --> 00:49:50,488 That's my best hope. 1029 00:49:50,947 --> 00:49:52,657 [whispering prayer] 1030 00:49:52,949 --> 00:49:55,076 I always put everything in God's hands. 1031 00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:57,162 Everything happens for a reason. 1032 00:49:57,245 --> 00:49:58,913 -Let's run away. -No, probably not. 1033 00:49:58,997 --> 00:50:00,874 -[Rosa] You and I. Come on. -Ah, we're here now. 1034 00:50:00,957 --> 00:50:02,333 -Nope, we're good. -[Rosa chuckles] 1035 00:50:02,417 --> 00:50:04,461 You guys, please welcome your groom. 1036 00:50:05,253 --> 00:50:07,255 [suspenseful instrumentals] 1037 00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:19,601 -[kiss] -[Rosa] Good luck. 1038 00:50:21,811 --> 00:50:23,188 [Jessica breathing heavily] 1039 00:50:38,411 --> 00:50:42,123 ["Holding Your Flame" playing] ♪ In the stillness of the night ♪ 1040 00:50:43,416 --> 00:50:45,919 ♪ I see your face ♪ 1041 00:50:46,044 --> 00:50:47,754 ♪ Connected by the stars ♪ 1042 00:50:48,254 --> 00:50:49,339 [whispering] Come on. 1043 00:50:50,006 --> 00:50:52,675 ♪ I can still trace ♪ 1044 00:50:53,176 --> 00:50:55,970 ♪ The spark I locked away ♪ 1045 00:50:56,596 --> 00:50:59,099 ♪ Deep in the dark ♪ 1046 00:50:59,224 --> 00:51:02,310 ♪ Hidden in the depths of my heart ♪ 1047 00:51:03,019 --> 00:51:05,021 ♪ So that ♪ 1048 00:51:05,146 --> 00:51:08,983 ♪ No one can ever put out ♪ 1049 00:51:09,109 --> 00:51:12,278 ♪ The fire you bring ♪ 1050 00:51:12,487 --> 00:51:15,698 ♪ The heavens still sing ♪ 1051 00:51:16,449 --> 00:51:19,327 ♪ To hold you again ♪ 1052 00:51:19,786 --> 00:51:21,913 Today, we celebrate love. 1053 00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:23,706 You guys, please rise for the bride. 1054 00:51:24,707 --> 00:51:26,709 ♪ Body and soul ♪ 1055 00:51:26,835 --> 00:51:30,171 ♪ I'll never put out ♪ 1056 00:51:30,255 --> 00:51:33,258 ♪ The fire you bring ♪ 1057 00:51:33,883 --> 00:51:36,678 ♪ The heavens still sing ♪ 1058 00:51:37,804 --> 00:51:39,973 ♪ Holding your flame ♪ 1059 00:51:43,852 --> 00:51:44,686 [whispers] Fuck. 1060 00:51:46,229 --> 00:51:48,648 ♪ Painting my skies ♪ 1061 00:51:49,399 --> 00:51:52,277 ♪ It's orbiting my mind ♪ 1062 00:51:52,986 --> 00:51:55,238 ♪ And my desires ♪ 1063 00:51:56,406 --> 00:51:58,867 ♪ In your black hole eyes ♪ 1064 00:51:59,617 --> 00:52:01,953 ♪ I'm losing control ♪ 1065 00:52:02,996 --> 00:52:05,540 ♪ You're pulling me in ♪ 1066 00:52:09,085 --> 00:52:11,171 [Mark voice-over] She's perfect. She's beautiful. 1067 00:52:11,796 --> 00:52:14,841 But when I look at Jess, I don't see the external. 1068 00:52:14,924 --> 00:52:17,802 I see her heart, I see her soul, I see everything. 1069 00:52:18,386 --> 00:52:19,804 That's going to be my wife. 1070 00:52:20,138 --> 00:52:23,266 ♪ I'll never let go ♪ 1071 00:52:24,184 --> 00:52:26,352 ♪ I'll never be the same ♪ 1072 00:52:26,644 --> 00:52:29,022 ♪ And I'll fly from heaven and hell ♪ 1073 00:52:29,147 --> 00:52:31,357 -We're not supposed to do that yet. -Oh, sorry. 1074 00:52:35,612 --> 00:52:36,738 [sighs] 1075 00:52:37,488 --> 00:52:40,408 [minister] We are gathered here to celebrate something very special, 1076 00:52:40,491 --> 00:52:43,620 the joining together of two lives into holy matrimony, 1077 00:52:44,495 --> 00:52:45,747 better known as marriage. 1078 00:52:45,955 --> 00:52:47,081 Jessica and Mark, 1079 00:52:47,415 --> 00:52:50,460 in this blind love experiment, you chose to get engaged 1080 00:52:51,211 --> 00:52:53,463 and spend the rest of your lives together 1081 00:52:53,796 --> 00:52:55,173 with someone you had not seen. 1082 00:52:56,591 --> 00:52:57,425 True love grew, 1083 00:52:58,092 --> 00:53:00,261 not from what you look like on the outside, 1084 00:53:00,345 --> 00:53:02,639 but what you saw on the inside of each other. 1085 00:53:04,599 --> 00:53:05,642 -It's okay. -Jessica, 1086 00:53:06,059 --> 00:53:07,894 I want you to know 1087 00:53:07,977 --> 00:53:10,730 that no matter what the ups, the downs, 1088 00:53:10,813 --> 00:53:12,523 the highs, the lows, 1089 00:53:13,650 --> 00:53:16,110 is that I've loved you from the first time that you said, "Hey," 1090 00:53:16,194 --> 00:53:17,987 which is crazy to even say. 1091 00:53:18,112 --> 00:53:20,865 I walked in that room and I knew that you were different from the rest. 1092 00:53:20,990 --> 00:53:22,200 It's been, you know, a lot. 1093 00:53:23,117 --> 00:53:24,118 I love that. 1094 00:53:27,830 --> 00:53:29,874 -Mark. Marky Mark. -[laughs] 1095 00:53:31,125 --> 00:53:32,252 Thank you 1096 00:53:32,794 --> 00:53:33,920 for putting me here. 1097 00:53:34,587 --> 00:53:36,297 You've been my rock since day one, 1098 00:53:36,798 --> 00:53:38,675 not just because you felt like home, 1099 00:53:38,758 --> 00:53:42,095 but because you opened me up to new experiences, 1100 00:53:42,178 --> 00:53:44,347 talking about things that I had never 1101 00:53:44,847 --> 00:53:45,807 opened up about. 1102 00:53:46,266 --> 00:53:47,767 And you really pushed me. 1103 00:53:47,934 --> 00:53:49,269 You changed me for the better. 1104 00:53:50,061 --> 00:53:51,562 Thank you for being so open, 1105 00:53:51,688 --> 00:53:52,855 so consistent with me, 1106 00:53:53,690 --> 00:53:55,733 and always being my biggest cheerleader. 1107 00:53:59,070 --> 00:54:00,238 [whispers] I love you. 1108 00:54:01,489 --> 00:54:02,615 [whispers] I love you. 1109 00:54:03,074 --> 00:54:03,950 [minister] Jessica, 1110 00:54:04,534 --> 00:54:05,410 Mark, 1111 00:54:06,869 --> 00:54:09,956 this is the time to make a commitment to be husband and wife, 1112 00:54:10,581 --> 00:54:12,250 or walk away from each other forever. 1113 00:54:12,417 --> 00:54:14,419 [suspenseful instrumentals] 1114 00:54:16,629 --> 00:54:19,465 [minister] Now's the time to decide if love is blind. 1115 00:54:21,259 --> 00:54:25,388 Mark Anthony Cuevas, do you take Jessica Nicole Batten 1116 00:54:25,471 --> 00:54:27,473 to be your lawful wedded wife, 1117 00:54:27,598 --> 00:54:30,184 to live together in the holy estate of matrimony? 1118 00:54:30,685 --> 00:54:31,769 Will you love her, 1119 00:54:32,603 --> 00:54:33,438 comfort her, 1120 00:54:33,980 --> 00:54:36,441 honor and keep her, in sickness and in health, 1121 00:54:37,233 --> 00:54:39,193 so long as you both shall live? 1122 00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:42,530 [suspenseful instrumentals escalate] 1123 00:54:49,954 --> 00:54:50,788 I do. 1124 00:54:51,039 --> 00:54:55,793 ["Yours to Love" playing] ♪ This is your heart to break ♪ 1125 00:54:56,586 --> 00:54:59,255 ♪ Yours to love ♪ 1126 00:54:59,672 --> 00:55:01,883 ♪ Yours to love ♪ 1127 00:55:03,801 --> 00:55:07,513 [minister] Jessica Nicole Batten, do you take Mark Anthony Cuevas 1128 00:55:07,638 --> 00:55:09,640 to be your lawful wedded husband, 1129 00:55:10,141 --> 00:55:12,643 to live together in the holy estate of matrimony? 1130 00:55:13,353 --> 00:55:14,354 Will you love him, 1131 00:55:14,812 --> 00:55:18,608 comfort him, and keep him, in sickness and in health, 1132 00:55:18,900 --> 00:55:20,902 so long as you both shall live? 1133 00:55:20,985 --> 00:55:22,987 [suspenseful music plays] 1134 00:55:35,375 --> 00:55:36,501 [whispers] I love you. 1135 00:55:59,399 --> 00:56:00,358 I cannot. 1136 00:56:03,820 --> 00:56:04,862 [Jessica sighs] 1137 00:56:07,615 --> 00:56:08,449 [sniffles] 1138 00:56:09,617 --> 00:56:11,869 I'm so proud of us for... 1139 00:56:12,787 --> 00:56:14,288 getting through the ups and downs, 1140 00:56:14,622 --> 00:56:17,083 but I don't think either one of us 1141 00:56:17,166 --> 00:56:19,043 is ready to take this on, 1142 00:56:19,877 --> 00:56:22,380 but I do want you to know that I do love you 1143 00:56:23,172 --> 00:56:24,382 so very much, 1144 00:56:24,465 --> 00:56:27,802 and I've always been truthful with you 1145 00:56:27,885 --> 00:56:30,888 because I respect you so much as a man. 1146 00:56:32,432 --> 00:56:35,810 And you always have a very special place in my heart. 1147 00:56:38,604 --> 00:56:39,814 [sighs deeply] 1148 00:56:41,941 --> 00:56:44,193 -[whispers] So embarrassing for her. -[whispers] I know, right? 1149 00:56:44,277 --> 00:56:45,111 [total silence] 1150 00:56:59,250 --> 00:57:00,084 [sniffles] 1151 00:57:07,592 --> 00:57:09,594 [soft, sad piano music plays] 1152 00:57:15,975 --> 00:57:17,977 [Mark sighs deeply] Oh, fuck. 1153 00:57:19,562 --> 00:57:21,814 [sobbing] 1154 00:57:31,574 --> 00:57:33,493 All I want you to be is okay. 1155 00:57:33,576 --> 00:57:34,535 Listen, listen. 1156 00:57:35,411 --> 00:57:37,163 I don't... Like, I am going to be okay. 1157 00:57:37,997 --> 00:57:40,625 -That's all I need, baby. -[Mark] And I don't-- I'm gonna be okay. 1158 00:57:40,791 --> 00:57:41,626 I'm not... 1159 00:57:42,668 --> 00:57:45,755 Whatever happens, like... Again, I'm going to be okay. 1160 00:57:47,006 --> 00:57:49,592 Because that's all I have shown is strength throughout all of this, 1161 00:57:49,675 --> 00:57:51,260 I am going to continue to be that. 1162 00:57:51,385 --> 00:57:53,596 -[Rosa] That's all I want. -[Mark] And I'm going to be okay. 1163 00:57:53,679 --> 00:57:55,890 [Rosa] That's all I need to know. That you are going to be okay. 1164 00:57:55,973 --> 00:57:57,141 I'm going to be fine, Mom. 1165 00:57:57,642 --> 00:57:59,143 Because, you know... 1166 00:58:01,229 --> 00:58:02,730 Me, I'm there for you. 1167 00:58:02,813 --> 00:58:04,190 -[Mark] I know. -Day and night. 1168 00:58:04,357 --> 00:58:06,984 And we can talk and we can cry together 1169 00:58:07,485 --> 00:58:09,320 because, as your mom, 1170 00:58:11,072 --> 00:58:11,906 I feel... 1171 00:58:13,407 --> 00:58:14,325 my heart, 1172 00:58:15,243 --> 00:58:16,077 you know... 1173 00:58:18,621 --> 00:58:20,623 [sobs] My baby. 1174 00:58:20,706 --> 00:58:21,707 ["Crash Into You" playing] 1175 00:58:21,791 --> 00:58:25,336 ♪ I know I can make you Forget everything ♪ 1176 00:58:27,088 --> 00:58:31,592 ♪ I know i can help you follow dreams ♪ 1177 00:58:34,053 --> 00:58:37,390 ♪ So lost ♪ 1178 00:58:41,686 --> 00:58:44,855 ♪ Crash into me ♪ 1179 00:58:47,233 --> 00:58:50,278 ♪ So lost ♪ 1180 00:58:52,780 --> 00:58:55,157 [Jessica] Having to say no to someone at the altar 1181 00:58:56,325 --> 00:58:58,911 is not anything anyone ever wants to do, 1182 00:58:59,495 --> 00:59:02,415 but I'm not walking out of here with reservations, 1183 00:59:02,665 --> 00:59:04,166 with a wedding band on my finger. 1184 00:59:04,709 --> 00:59:06,043 There's no way in hell. 1185 00:59:06,127 --> 00:59:08,004 Like, I've been around the block, 1186 00:59:08,170 --> 00:59:09,505 my parents are divorced, 1187 00:59:09,964 --> 00:59:12,383 and I'm too much of a realist 1188 00:59:12,466 --> 00:59:14,218 to take this big of a chance. 1189 00:59:14,427 --> 00:59:15,595 I'm not going to do it. 1190 00:59:16,178 --> 00:59:20,266 And I guess I'll apologize to whoever I need to apologize to, 1191 00:59:20,433 --> 00:59:22,268 but I'm not going to apologize to myself 1192 00:59:22,351 --> 00:59:24,312 because I'm not actually sorry. 1193 00:59:27,064 --> 00:59:29,025 -[sobbing] -[Mark] I'm going to be okay. 1194 00:59:37,325 --> 00:59:39,285 ["Write a New Story" playing] 1195 00:59:41,537 --> 00:59:43,998 ♪ Come on let's write a new story ♪ 1196 00:59:45,541 --> 00:59:48,794 ♪ Time is our friend And life is our glory ♪ 1197 00:59:51,380 --> 00:59:53,799 ♪ Come on let's write a new story ♪ 1198 00:59:56,260 --> 00:59:58,888 ♪ Time is our friend And life is our glory ♪ 1199 01:00:05,227 --> 01:00:07,897 Oh, my God. This is so pretty. 1200 01:00:07,980 --> 01:00:11,400 -Hi, I'm Lauren. -Hi, Lauren. I'm Nat. 1201 01:00:11,484 --> 01:00:14,028 -So you guys are my glam team? -Yes! 1202 01:00:14,153 --> 01:00:17,907 Okay, get me together. Get me together, okay? 1203 01:00:18,491 --> 01:00:21,327 I can't believe that I'm actually 1204 01:00:22,203 --> 01:00:25,456 here, like, on this day, my wedding day. 1205 01:00:25,539 --> 01:00:26,749 Oh, the dress. 1206 01:00:30,920 --> 01:00:32,755 [sighs] This is unreal. 1207 01:00:33,047 --> 01:00:35,216 It is just crazy to think that, you know, 1208 01:00:35,383 --> 01:00:38,844 a couple months ago, I was single. I was living the life. 1209 01:00:39,178 --> 01:00:41,097 And the journey has just brought me here. 1210 01:00:42,848 --> 01:00:44,225 Oh, my gosh. 1211 01:00:44,433 --> 01:00:45,434 [laughs] 1212 01:00:46,519 --> 01:00:47,603 Cameron. 1213 01:00:47,687 --> 01:00:48,729 [both laughing] 1214 01:00:48,854 --> 01:00:50,773 [romantic song playing] ♪ Taking over every part ♪ 1215 01:00:50,856 --> 01:00:52,858 ♪ In every inch of me ♪ 1216 01:00:53,901 --> 01:00:57,697 ♪ All the world can see I let it show ♪ 1217 01:00:57,780 --> 01:01:01,158 [Cameron] Before, I wasn't really that happy, to be honest. 1218 01:01:01,492 --> 01:01:04,412 I think it was because I felt that I was missing you. 1219 01:01:05,079 --> 01:01:05,913 Aww. 1220 01:01:06,789 --> 01:01:10,000 [Lauren] This just feels like nothing that I've ever experienced 1221 01:01:10,292 --> 01:01:12,586 because I've never had a man 1222 01:01:14,296 --> 01:01:16,674 so, just, willing to... 1223 01:01:18,467 --> 01:01:20,094 show me how much he loves me. 1224 01:01:20,553 --> 01:01:23,055 ♪ I've finally found where I belong ♪ 1225 01:01:23,472 --> 01:01:24,473 Mm. 1226 01:01:25,599 --> 01:01:26,976 [kisses] 1227 01:01:27,059 --> 01:01:30,187 ♪ I'm holding on and I'm not letting go ♪ 1228 01:01:36,402 --> 01:01:38,237 [Cameron] I never thought this day would come. 1229 01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:39,488 I never thought, 1230 01:01:39,822 --> 01:01:41,532 going into this experiment, 1231 01:01:41,615 --> 01:01:43,951 that I would ever meet someone, 1232 01:01:44,034 --> 01:01:46,662 let alone be standing here, 1233 01:01:46,746 --> 01:01:47,747 ready to get married. 1234 01:01:47,830 --> 01:01:49,749 -How's it going? -Good, buddy. 1235 01:01:49,915 --> 01:01:52,001 -Nice to see you. -Thanks for coming down. 1236 01:01:52,084 --> 01:01:55,171 Today is obviously one of the biggest days of my life, 1237 01:01:55,588 --> 01:01:59,216 and the decision of whether or not to get married... 1238 01:01:59,967 --> 01:02:02,011 I mean, it's going to change the whole trajectory 1239 01:02:02,094 --> 01:02:04,096 of not just my life, but Lauren's life. 1240 01:02:04,263 --> 01:02:06,891 Mother! 1241 01:02:07,516 --> 01:02:09,310 -[Pamela] Hey, sweetie! -[laughs] Hey, Mom! 1242 01:02:09,393 --> 01:02:11,353 -[Pamela] How are you? -Good. 1243 01:02:11,437 --> 01:02:12,772 Isn't this just wonderful? 1244 01:02:13,022 --> 01:02:13,856 It is. 1245 01:02:13,939 --> 01:02:15,149 [Pamela] Knowing Lauren, 1246 01:02:15,232 --> 01:02:18,027 she'll try certain things 1247 01:02:18,444 --> 01:02:21,363 just to see how it goes, 1248 01:02:22,114 --> 01:02:25,701 but I can't say I'm totally confident 1249 01:02:26,410 --> 01:02:30,372 because I've only seen them together for a couple hours, 1250 01:02:30,456 --> 01:02:33,209 and this is an experiment, so... 1251 01:02:33,292 --> 01:02:35,127 we'll see how it turns out. 1252 01:02:36,337 --> 01:02:37,797 So, how do you feel? 1253 01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:40,049 Nervous. I don't know. 1254 01:02:40,132 --> 01:02:43,219 I never thought that I would see this day so soon. 1255 01:02:43,302 --> 01:02:46,180 I feel a lot of different emotions right now. 1256 01:02:46,263 --> 01:02:49,141 I mean, I'm happy, I'm excited. 1257 01:02:49,850 --> 01:02:53,145 But, I mean, there's still a part of me that's very terrified. 1258 01:02:53,729 --> 01:02:56,565 Even a little part of me that may feel a little unsure. 1259 01:02:57,399 --> 01:02:58,442 Oh, really? 1260 01:02:59,819 --> 01:03:01,111 Oh, Lauren. 1261 01:03:01,570 --> 01:03:02,571 Don't cry. 1262 01:03:02,655 --> 01:03:06,575 [Lauren] Cameron has made me feel unlike any man that I've ever known. 1263 01:03:06,659 --> 01:03:09,787 We truly and honestly connected on levels so deep, 1264 01:03:09,870 --> 01:03:13,082 but right now I'm still undecided. 1265 01:03:13,165 --> 01:03:15,084 I think I won't really decide 1266 01:03:15,167 --> 01:03:17,837 until the words actually come out of my mouth, 1267 01:03:18,045 --> 01:03:20,756 and, regardless of what that decision is, 1268 01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:23,384 I just hope that it's the best choice for me 1269 01:03:24,134 --> 01:03:25,135 and Cameron. 1270 01:03:27,346 --> 01:03:30,933 I felt so calm up until today, 1271 01:03:31,225 --> 01:03:33,435 and now I'm starting to feel a little nervous. 1272 01:03:34,019 --> 01:03:36,021 So what are you nervous about? 1273 01:03:37,898 --> 01:03:39,984 I guess I'm just nervous about whether... 1274 01:03:40,401 --> 01:03:42,236 she still wants to get married. 1275 01:03:43,362 --> 01:03:47,908 Um, well, you already know that you're, like, the first white guy I've dated. 1276 01:03:47,992 --> 01:03:48,826 Uh-huh. 1277 01:03:50,995 --> 01:03:52,329 I want it to be your home. 1278 01:03:53,122 --> 01:03:55,165 Yeah, you want me to live here with you? 1279 01:03:56,166 --> 01:03:57,001 I do. 1280 01:03:57,084 --> 01:03:59,837 I would love to. I do love my place. 1281 01:04:00,045 --> 01:04:01,672 How would you feel if I kept it? 1282 01:04:02,339 --> 01:04:03,257 Um, well... 1283 01:04:05,342 --> 01:04:06,302 I don't know. 1284 01:04:07,219 --> 01:04:08,053 Damn. 1285 01:04:08,262 --> 01:04:09,847 The invitations just... 1286 01:04:11,056 --> 01:04:13,851 make everything, like, you know... It's no turning back now. 1287 01:04:14,268 --> 01:04:16,186 It's like, just pressure. 1288 01:04:16,937 --> 01:04:19,189 We're getting married in not that much time. 1289 01:04:19,857 --> 01:04:22,776 And, I mean, I still don't know 1290 01:04:24,111 --> 01:04:26,238 completely what you're going to say. 1291 01:04:26,655 --> 01:04:30,117 And I don't want to say a definite answer. 1292 01:04:32,745 --> 01:04:34,747 I think that she's ready now, 1293 01:04:35,956 --> 01:04:36,957 but... 1294 01:04:37,207 --> 01:04:39,209 I don't know. I don't know for sure. 1295 01:04:42,087 --> 01:04:43,714 -[Nat] Hi. -Hi. 1296 01:04:43,797 --> 01:04:46,675 -Tiffany and Rachel! -Hi. 1297 01:04:46,759 --> 01:04:50,137 [Lauren] My bridesmaids are here. My good friend Tiffany,... 1298 01:04:50,262 --> 01:04:51,221 Look at this coat. 1299 01:04:51,305 --> 01:04:52,973 ...and my first cousin Rachel. 1300 01:04:53,057 --> 01:04:55,893 I love the fact that they're here to support me and my decision, 1301 01:04:56,018 --> 01:04:58,020 no matter what it is, so that means a lot to me. 1302 01:04:58,103 --> 01:05:00,189 [overlapping chatter and laughing] 1303 01:05:00,272 --> 01:05:03,025 ["La La Love" playing] ♪ La la la la love ♪ 1304 01:05:03,108 --> 01:05:04,568 ♪ Don't need anything, but ♪ 1305 01:05:04,652 --> 01:05:07,821 ♪ La la la la love Don't want anything, but ♪ 1306 01:05:07,905 --> 01:05:10,282 -All right, mom, you're good. -[Pamela] Oh, all right. 1307 01:05:11,867 --> 01:05:12,952 [Alaina] He looks like James Bond. 1308 01:05:13,410 --> 01:05:15,996 Cameron Bond, right there. [laughs] 1309 01:05:17,665 --> 01:05:18,958 This is my way of... 1310 01:05:19,500 --> 01:05:20,626 -I guess... -What? 1311 01:05:21,377 --> 01:05:23,045 Yeah, I'm ready for a beer. 1312 01:05:23,837 --> 01:05:24,713 [Tiffany sighs] 1313 01:05:24,922 --> 01:05:26,715 This is crazy. 1314 01:05:26,799 --> 01:05:27,883 [Lauren] I know. 1315 01:05:27,967 --> 01:05:30,219 [Tiffany] We were in Paris, living our best life. 1316 01:05:30,302 --> 01:05:31,428 [man laughing] 1317 01:05:31,553 --> 01:05:32,471 [Lauren] I know. 1318 01:05:33,055 --> 01:05:34,723 Then I came home and got married. 1319 01:05:34,807 --> 01:05:36,016 [laughing] 1320 01:05:36,850 --> 01:05:39,603 [Tiffany] You just pop up like, "Hey, girl. Let's get something to eat." 1321 01:05:39,687 --> 01:05:41,021 And she's like, 1322 01:05:41,105 --> 01:05:44,274 "I'm engaged and I want you to be a bridesmaid." 1323 01:05:44,858 --> 01:05:46,402 All within, eating the same... 1324 01:05:46,485 --> 01:05:48,112 -What was it? Salad? -In the same bread. 1325 01:05:48,237 --> 01:05:50,864 -Yeah, like what the heck? -In the same salad. 1326 01:05:50,948 --> 01:05:51,991 This is crazy. 1327 01:05:52,074 --> 01:05:54,785 [Lauren] Okay, Momma. Look at you! 1328 01:05:54,868 --> 01:05:56,203 All right! 1329 01:05:56,704 --> 01:05:58,622 Whose wedding is it, mine or yours? 1330 01:05:58,706 --> 01:06:00,958 [Tiffany] And she's coming in shrugging her shoulders. 1331 01:06:01,041 --> 01:06:02,501 Yeah. [laughs] 1332 01:06:02,751 --> 01:06:04,712 -[all laughing] -[Pamela] Hi, everyone. 1333 01:06:04,878 --> 01:06:06,255 -Hey, Mom. -Hi. 1334 01:06:06,338 --> 01:06:08,173 Wow, they've got you in the wine cellar? 1335 01:06:08,298 --> 01:06:09,508 -How nice. How nice. -Yeah. 1336 01:06:09,591 --> 01:06:11,677 -Oh, baby, how are you doing? -Good, how are you, Mom? 1337 01:06:11,760 --> 01:06:13,095 Mm, I don't even know. 1338 01:06:13,220 --> 01:06:14,680 [both laughing] 1339 01:06:14,805 --> 01:06:17,016 -Can I say that? -Yeah, you can say anything. 1340 01:06:17,099 --> 01:06:20,519 I'm really happy that I'm getting some time with my mom. 1341 01:06:20,602 --> 01:06:22,855 This is the hardest for her, 1342 01:06:22,980 --> 01:06:25,816 and she feels like she's losing her baby boy. 1343 01:06:26,650 --> 01:06:28,610 How are you feeling? Are you feeling okay about it? 1344 01:06:29,403 --> 01:06:30,863 Not worried about anything? 1345 01:06:31,030 --> 01:06:32,489 Let's just hope that she is still... 1346 01:06:33,073 --> 01:06:34,074 still on board. 1347 01:06:34,158 --> 01:06:35,659 You think she might not be? 1348 01:06:36,368 --> 01:06:37,411 [Cameron] Uh... 1349 01:06:38,078 --> 01:06:40,414 [Pamela] I mean, this is a crazy situation in many respects, 1350 01:06:40,497 --> 01:06:42,041 so I don't think there'd be any shame 1351 01:06:42,124 --> 01:06:44,835 if she said no or didn't, you know, whatever. 1352 01:06:44,918 --> 01:06:45,919 Yeah. 1353 01:06:46,086 --> 01:06:48,422 -I wouldn't blame her. -But you would be devastated. 1354 01:06:48,505 --> 01:06:50,382 -Of course I'd be devastated, yeah. -Yeah. 1355 01:06:50,466 --> 01:06:51,717 [Cameron] With Lauren, 1356 01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:55,345 in no time at all, I knew I wanted to marry her, 1357 01:06:55,429 --> 01:06:57,347 so if she were to say no, 1358 01:06:58,682 --> 01:07:01,894 I don't know how long it would be until I would be all right again. 1359 01:07:03,353 --> 01:07:05,355 Or if I would ever be all right again. 1360 01:07:06,523 --> 01:07:08,817 I am taking a leap of faith. 1361 01:07:09,318 --> 01:07:11,111 Even in the... 1362 01:07:11,737 --> 01:07:14,948 you know, most sure situations, it is still a leap of faith. 1363 01:07:15,032 --> 01:07:16,200 Yeah. 1364 01:07:16,700 --> 01:07:17,785 [Pamela] Oh, boy. 1365 01:07:18,035 --> 01:07:18,869 It's a big step. 1366 01:07:18,952 --> 01:07:20,704 Did you ever think about me getting married? 1367 01:07:21,371 --> 01:07:22,372 Um... 1368 01:07:23,332 --> 01:07:24,166 No. 1369 01:07:24,291 --> 01:07:26,126 [all laughing] 1370 01:07:26,251 --> 01:07:28,712 You know, because you're still 12 in my mind. 1371 01:07:28,796 --> 01:07:29,797 -[Cameron] Yeah. -You know. 1372 01:07:29,922 --> 01:07:32,883 So, um, I'd like you to be 12 again. 1373 01:07:33,217 --> 01:07:34,176 [sobs lightly] 1374 01:07:35,469 --> 01:07:37,930 You know, I will always be your son. 1375 01:07:38,597 --> 01:07:40,307 -We love you. -I love you too. 1376 01:07:41,558 --> 01:07:42,851 We want the best for you, 1377 01:07:43,602 --> 01:07:45,687 and I don't want your heart to be broken. 1378 01:07:45,771 --> 01:07:46,605 I know. 1379 01:07:49,650 --> 01:07:52,236 Okay, how does that feel? Oh, my God. 1380 01:07:52,319 --> 01:07:53,737 -Feels tight. -[both chuckle] 1381 01:07:53,821 --> 01:07:56,240 -Tight? -I mean, but that's good I guess. 1382 01:07:56,365 --> 01:07:58,909 [Rachel] Oh, my God. You look so pretty. 1383 01:07:58,992 --> 01:08:00,994 Thank you. Okay, Mom. 1384 01:08:01,620 --> 01:08:02,663 [Tiffany and Rachel laugh] 1385 01:08:03,122 --> 01:08:05,207 -[Tiffany] That fits like a glove. -[Rachel] It does. 1386 01:08:05,707 --> 01:08:06,917 [Lauren] This is it. 1387 01:08:07,126 --> 01:08:09,211 -[Rachel] Okay. -I'm in the dress now. 1388 01:08:09,294 --> 01:08:12,172 -No turning back. -Are your knees, like, knocking? 1389 01:08:12,256 --> 01:08:14,258 My heart is like beating real hard. 1390 01:08:14,800 --> 01:08:16,260 The thought of... 1391 01:08:16,927 --> 01:08:20,097 me being a married woman, like, within the next hour 1392 01:08:20,597 --> 01:08:22,099 gives me crazy anxiety. 1393 01:08:22,182 --> 01:08:23,976 This is a wonderful, beautiful day, 1394 01:08:24,393 --> 01:08:27,062 and we are so truly blessed, 1395 01:08:27,437 --> 01:08:28,480 and we pray 1396 01:08:29,064 --> 01:08:32,526 that our life, Lauren's life, and Cameron's life 1397 01:08:33,235 --> 01:08:34,820 will come together as one. 1398 01:08:34,903 --> 01:08:36,405 ["Choose to Love" playing] 1399 01:08:36,530 --> 01:08:39,616 ♪ I'm trying so hard to figure it out ♪ 1400 01:08:39,825 --> 01:08:43,370 ♪ Everything just seems so heavy now ♪ 1401 01:08:43,537 --> 01:08:45,205 [Lauren] You know, it's a lifelong commitment, 1402 01:08:45,289 --> 01:08:48,041 and I don't think that it's anything to play with, 1403 01:08:48,125 --> 01:08:50,127 and I take it very seriously. 1404 01:08:54,089 --> 01:08:56,133 -Daddy! -Hi, baby. 1405 01:08:57,509 --> 01:08:58,427 Hi, Daddy. 1406 01:08:59,720 --> 01:09:01,388 -Don't cry. -[Bill sobs lightly] 1407 01:09:03,098 --> 01:09:04,474 You look beautiful. 1408 01:09:04,892 --> 01:09:06,727 You look beautiful. Look at you. 1409 01:09:06,852 --> 01:09:07,728 Look at my baby. 1410 01:09:07,853 --> 01:09:10,355 I'm so thankful I can stand here and see you like this. 1411 01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:13,525 -You look absolutely beautiful. -Thank you, Daddy. 1412 01:09:13,650 --> 01:09:15,235 [Bill] She's my princess still, 1413 01:09:15,402 --> 01:09:17,696 and I guess when you have those moments, 1414 01:09:17,779 --> 01:09:20,407 when you think about one day, she's going to grow up, 1415 01:09:20,490 --> 01:09:22,242 and get married, and have a husband, 1416 01:09:22,326 --> 01:09:24,786 and that day comes when you have to walk down the aisle, 1417 01:09:25,120 --> 01:09:27,164 and let her go, let her go into the world. 1418 01:09:27,247 --> 01:09:28,081 So, you know, 1419 01:09:28,165 --> 01:09:30,626 a little nervous, a little excited, 1420 01:09:31,335 --> 01:09:32,336 and a little 1421 01:09:33,086 --> 01:09:34,463 just plain scared. 1422 01:09:34,546 --> 01:09:37,382 Needless to say, I've loved you since you've been in this world. 1423 01:09:37,591 --> 01:09:40,177 From the moment I looked at you when you were born. 1424 01:09:40,552 --> 01:09:43,222 Since you've been in this world, you know, we've been like this. 1425 01:09:43,430 --> 01:09:46,266 [Lauren] My dad is a huge focal point in my life. 1426 01:09:46,350 --> 01:09:47,434 He's so loving, 1427 01:09:47,517 --> 01:09:50,562 so it's definitely a sigh of relief 1428 01:09:50,771 --> 01:09:53,023 to have my dad here to support me. 1429 01:09:53,398 --> 01:09:55,108 -I'm sorry. -It's okay, Daddy. 1430 01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:57,361 -I'm trying. I'm really trying. -I know. 1431 01:09:58,278 --> 01:09:59,529 [both chuckling, sobbing] 1432 01:09:59,655 --> 01:10:01,114 You're not losing me. 1433 01:10:01,448 --> 01:10:03,700 Well, you're still my daughter. 1434 01:10:03,992 --> 01:10:05,410 But you're gonna be this man's wife. 1435 01:10:05,494 --> 01:10:07,287 Just let me in every time I knock, that's all. 1436 01:10:07,371 --> 01:10:08,622 [both laughing] 1437 01:10:10,582 --> 01:10:11,541 I love you so much. 1438 01:10:11,625 --> 01:10:13,335 -I love you too, Daddy. -I love you so much. 1439 01:10:17,422 --> 01:10:18,924 [sighs deeply] 1440 01:10:24,471 --> 01:10:26,473 -I love you, honey. -I love you, Mom. 1441 01:10:28,225 --> 01:10:29,893 In just moments now, 1442 01:10:29,977 --> 01:10:32,813 I'm going to go to the altar, Lauren's going to walk down that aisle, 1443 01:10:32,896 --> 01:10:34,439 and she's either going to say yes 1444 01:10:34,523 --> 01:10:37,150 and we're going to spend the rest of our lives together 1445 01:10:37,276 --> 01:10:38,819 as husband and wife, or... 1446 01:10:39,152 --> 01:10:42,406 maybe she'll say no, and that might be the end. 1447 01:10:46,493 --> 01:10:48,704 [Lauren voice-over] My anxiety is just through the roof. 1448 01:10:49,121 --> 01:10:52,833 I am about to make the biggest decision of my life. 1449 01:10:52,958 --> 01:10:55,502 I mean, am I going to marry this man 1450 01:10:55,585 --> 01:10:59,339 who I have fallen in love with only six weeks ago, 1451 01:10:59,589 --> 01:11:03,385 or am I going to walk away to follow my own comfort 1452 01:11:03,468 --> 01:11:05,178 and things that I know? 1453 01:11:05,887 --> 01:11:09,141 This is the moment that every little girl dreams of. 1454 01:11:09,224 --> 01:11:11,226 Like, I'm here in this dress 1455 01:11:11,393 --> 01:11:12,936 preparing to walk down the aisle. 1456 01:11:13,020 --> 01:11:14,438 This is all very real. 1457 01:11:14,646 --> 01:11:16,523 -I love you, sweetheart. -I love you too, Daddy. 1458 01:11:18,984 --> 01:11:20,027 He's a lucky man. 1459 01:11:20,944 --> 01:11:22,946 [violin music playing] 1460 01:11:25,115 --> 01:11:26,158 Please stand 1461 01:11:26,241 --> 01:11:27,743 as we bring in our beautiful bride. 1462 01:11:28,285 --> 01:11:30,620 [harp playing "Cannon in D" by Pachelbel] 1463 01:11:54,436 --> 01:11:56,021 -Love you, sweetheart. -Love you, too. 1464 01:11:56,104 --> 01:11:58,565 Who gives this woman to be married to this man? 1465 01:11:59,024 --> 01:11:59,858 I do. 1466 01:12:02,361 --> 01:12:04,738 -[whispering] You look amazing. -[whispering] Thank you. 1467 01:12:05,739 --> 01:12:07,991 Every day that we've spent together 1468 01:12:08,408 --> 01:12:09,993 has been a blessing to me. 1469 01:12:11,161 --> 01:12:11,995 [sniffles] 1470 01:12:14,081 --> 01:12:15,749 There's so much I love about you. 1471 01:12:17,125 --> 01:12:18,043 [sobs] 1472 01:12:18,585 --> 01:12:20,295 [both chuckling] 1473 01:12:23,298 --> 01:12:24,800 I'm sorry I'm crying, but... 1474 01:12:24,883 --> 01:12:27,636 It's okay. I have been crying all day. 1475 01:12:28,303 --> 01:12:29,221 [Cameron laughs] 1476 01:12:31,681 --> 01:12:33,058 [Cameron sniffles] 1477 01:12:33,266 --> 01:12:35,102 You made me want to be a better man, 1478 01:12:37,104 --> 01:12:39,564 and you have everything that I need in a partner. 1479 01:12:41,566 --> 01:12:42,859 I feel very blessed 1480 01:12:43,360 --> 01:12:44,569 to have you in my life. 1481 01:12:47,197 --> 01:12:48,323 That's beautiful. 1482 01:12:51,576 --> 01:12:52,953 Cameron, I love that you... 1483 01:12:53,370 --> 01:12:56,498 make me feel comfortable being fully myself. 1484 01:12:57,582 --> 01:13:00,127 No matter how flawed, goofy, 1485 01:13:00,210 --> 01:13:01,711 or broken I may have been. 1486 01:13:03,964 --> 01:13:05,757 I'm thankful for our time together 1487 01:13:06,341 --> 01:13:08,009 and how happy our moments are. 1488 01:13:10,887 --> 01:13:13,223 I've never had a man love me as purely 1489 01:13:13,723 --> 01:13:15,642 and selflessly as you have. 1490 01:13:15,725 --> 01:13:16,601 [sobs lightly] 1491 01:13:17,477 --> 01:13:18,854 I'm grateful for the things 1492 01:13:19,396 --> 01:13:22,232 that have made me uncomfortable and forced me to grow. 1493 01:13:22,941 --> 01:13:23,775 Nice. 1494 01:13:23,859 --> 01:13:25,026 I'm grateful for you. 1495 01:13:26,570 --> 01:13:27,696 Mine’s more short, 1496 01:13:28,947 --> 01:13:31,074 but I meant it, damn it, I meant-- I'm sorry. 1497 01:13:31,158 --> 01:13:32,701 -Pastor, I didn't mean to curse. -[everyone laughs] 1498 01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:35,829 I didn't mean to curse, Lord, Jesus. 1499 01:13:36,955 --> 01:13:38,290 -Okay. -[Cameron laughs] 1500 01:13:38,373 --> 01:13:39,875 [pastor] Lauren and Cameron... 1501 01:13:40,000 --> 01:13:41,460 [bride, groom and the pastor chuckle] 1502 01:13:41,585 --> 01:13:45,422 ...now is the time to decide if love is truly blind. 1503 01:13:45,547 --> 01:13:48,300 Your love developed in an untraditional way, 1504 01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:51,887 based on an intense emotional connection. 1505 01:13:52,596 --> 01:13:55,348 Looks, money, age, and race 1506 01:13:55,432 --> 01:13:56,975 that might be important to some people 1507 01:13:57,350 --> 01:13:58,852 was not a factor for you two. 1508 01:14:00,061 --> 01:14:01,104 And now today, 1509 01:14:01,521 --> 01:14:02,606 you stand together 1510 01:14:02,898 --> 01:14:05,358 in the presence of your family, your friends, 1511 01:14:05,442 --> 01:14:06,526 and almighty God 1512 01:14:07,235 --> 01:14:10,155 to decide if love is blind, 1513 01:14:10,614 --> 01:14:12,866 and whether or not to face life together 1514 01:14:13,158 --> 01:14:14,993 as husband and wife, 1515 01:14:15,452 --> 01:14:17,871 or walk away from each other forever. 1516 01:14:19,581 --> 01:14:21,166 Cameron Reid Hamilton, 1517 01:14:22,584 --> 01:14:25,420 do you take Lauren Michelle Speed 1518 01:14:26,171 --> 01:14:27,714 to be your lawful wedded wife, 1519 01:14:28,757 --> 01:14:31,426 to live together in the holy estate of matrimony? 1520 01:14:32,177 --> 01:14:33,345 Will you love her, 1521 01:14:34,095 --> 01:14:34,930 comfort her, 1522 01:14:35,430 --> 01:14:36,681 honor and keep her, 1523 01:14:37,098 --> 01:14:38,725 so long as you both shall live? 1524 01:14:41,603 --> 01:14:42,437 I do. 1525 01:14:52,489 --> 01:14:54,616 The love that I have for you is so strong 1526 01:14:55,283 --> 01:14:57,035 that it's overwhelming sometimes. 1527 01:14:58,286 --> 01:15:00,622 Being with you makes me feel thankful. 1528 01:15:01,039 --> 01:15:01,915 Oh. 1529 01:15:02,874 --> 01:15:03,875 [sighs] 1530 01:15:09,506 --> 01:15:14,302 [pastor] Lauren Michelle Speed, do you take Cameron Reid Hamilton 1531 01:15:14,886 --> 01:15:16,972 to be your lawful wedded husband, 1532 01:15:17,138 --> 01:15:20,392 to live together in the holy estate of matrimony? 1533 01:15:20,976 --> 01:15:22,143 Will you love him, 1534 01:15:22,644 --> 01:15:23,520 comfort him, 1535 01:15:24,104 --> 01:15:25,313 honor and keep him, 1536 01:15:25,647 --> 01:15:28,775 so long as you both shall live? 1537 01:15:30,902 --> 01:15:32,904 [suspenseful music playing] 1538 01:15:53,133 --> 01:15:55,468 [suspenseful music crescendos] 1539 01:15:56,219 --> 01:15:57,053 I do. 1540 01:15:58,096 --> 01:15:59,723 [joyful music playing] 1541 01:16:01,433 --> 01:16:05,687 Lauren and Cameron, today, you guys have definitely proved 1542 01:16:05,770 --> 01:16:07,981 that love is blind. 1543 01:16:08,398 --> 01:16:09,232 Amen. 1544 01:16:09,524 --> 01:16:14,946 You may now call yourself those cherished names of husband and wife. 1545 01:16:15,697 --> 01:16:18,533 You may now kiss your bride. 1546 01:16:19,284 --> 01:16:20,327 [Lauren laughs] 1547 01:16:21,453 --> 01:16:22,412 [guests applauding] 1548 01:16:29,419 --> 01:16:30,920 We're married. Yay! 1549 01:16:32,964 --> 01:16:34,257 -We made it. -We made it. 1550 01:16:34,341 --> 01:16:36,551 Ladies and gentlemen, it is my pleasure to introduce you 1551 01:16:36,635 --> 01:16:38,637 for the first time as husband and wife, 1552 01:16:38,970 --> 01:16:43,475 Mr. and Mrs. Cameron and Lauren Hamilton. 1553 01:16:53,151 --> 01:16:54,569 Thank you, Mommy. 1554 01:16:56,071 --> 01:16:56,946 Love you. 1555 01:16:57,489 --> 01:16:59,199 Thank you. Oh. 1556 01:17:03,244 --> 01:17:04,371 [Lauren laughs] 1557 01:17:06,414 --> 01:17:07,332 Oh, my God. 1558 01:17:07,457 --> 01:17:09,000 [Cameron] We did it, babe. 1559 01:17:09,209 --> 01:17:11,127 [Lauren] We did it. We're married. 1560 01:17:11,294 --> 01:17:12,420 We're married. 1561 01:17:12,837 --> 01:17:14,464 -Unreal. -It is. 1562 01:17:15,382 --> 01:17:17,384 -But it's definitely real. -It's very real. 1563 01:17:17,467 --> 01:17:18,343 Super real. 1564 01:17:18,927 --> 01:17:19,803 [kisses] 1565 01:17:20,387 --> 01:17:21,429 I love you. 1566 01:17:21,680 --> 01:17:23,473 [whispering] I love you so much, baby. 1567 01:17:23,556 --> 01:17:25,892 I promise I'm going to take care of you, baby. 1568 01:17:26,142 --> 01:17:27,602 I know you will, baby. 1569 01:17:27,686 --> 01:17:28,520 You know what? 1570 01:17:28,603 --> 01:17:33,066 I don't think that I ever could have met someone like Cameron any other way. 1571 01:17:33,191 --> 01:17:35,944 I've been looking for Cameron for 30 years! 1572 01:17:36,236 --> 01:17:39,406 Apparently, he was looking for me, too. I'm glad we finally found each other. 1573 01:17:41,950 --> 01:17:43,910 -Oh, hey! -[Lauren laughs] 1574 01:17:46,079 --> 01:17:47,205 Hey, everybody! 1575 01:17:47,372 --> 01:17:49,541 [Bill] Oh, beautiful. You're beautiful. 1576 01:17:49,624 --> 01:17:51,710 This is my husband, Cameron. 1577 01:17:51,876 --> 01:17:53,712 It's my gorgeous wife, Lauren. 1578 01:17:53,837 --> 01:17:55,380 -Oh! -Amazing woman. 1579 01:17:55,463 --> 01:17:56,464 ["Finally Mine" playing] 1580 01:17:56,548 --> 01:17:58,550 ♪ I've been searching ♪ 1581 01:17:58,883 --> 01:18:00,802 ♪ And looking ♪ 1582 01:18:00,885 --> 01:18:02,887 ♪ And wishing ♪ 1583 01:18:02,971 --> 01:18:04,973 ♪ And dreaming ♪ 1584 01:18:05,515 --> 01:18:09,728 She has everything that I've always dreamed about in a partner. 1585 01:18:09,811 --> 01:18:13,064 She's charismatic, but she's down-to-earth. 1586 01:18:13,148 --> 01:18:15,442 She's confident, but she's also humble. 1587 01:18:15,859 --> 01:18:16,818 She's intelligent. 1588 01:18:16,901 --> 01:18:17,944 She's kind. 1589 01:18:18,111 --> 01:18:21,531 I'm just so thankful that we got to meet each other 1590 01:18:21,990 --> 01:18:25,910 through this albeit unorthodox method. 1591 01:18:26,453 --> 01:18:28,663 ♪ Finally mine ♪ 1592 01:18:28,747 --> 01:18:32,584 [Cameron] I fell in love with Lauren without ever having seen her. 1593 01:18:32,959 --> 01:18:36,087 ♪ Finally mine ♪ 1594 01:18:36,171 --> 01:18:38,465 It's amazing to say Lauren is my wife. 1595 01:18:38,923 --> 01:18:41,426 I'm happy I locked it down. [laughs] 1596 01:18:47,140 --> 01:18:49,559 I absolutely believe that love is blind. 1597 01:18:50,185 --> 01:18:52,854 Six weeks ago, I was extremely hopeful. 1598 01:18:52,979 --> 01:18:54,314 I had an open mind, 1599 01:18:54,397 --> 01:18:57,692 but I can say honestly I did not expect 1600 01:18:57,776 --> 01:18:59,277 for things to go this far. 1601 01:18:59,360 --> 01:19:01,154 I mean, that was my hope and dream, 1602 01:19:01,237 --> 01:19:04,032 but this is bigger than anything I could have ever imagined. 1603 01:19:04,657 --> 01:19:06,493 You know, I'm just grateful for everything. 1604 01:19:06,618 --> 01:19:11,289 This experience and experiment truly changed my life. 1605 01:19:11,790 --> 01:19:16,669 ♪ Finally... ♪ 1606 01:19:18,254 --> 01:19:22,258 ♪ Mine ♪ 1607 01:19:23,510 --> 01:19:26,429 ["We Could Cry" playing] ♪ Remember when we used to dream ♪ 1608 01:19:26,513 --> 01:19:30,099 [Mark] I came into this hoping to find someone that loves me 1609 01:19:30,183 --> 01:19:31,559 for what's on the inside. 1610 01:19:31,851 --> 01:19:33,686 Even though Jessica and I did not get married, 1611 01:19:33,812 --> 01:19:36,898 I strongly believe that love is blind because I made that commitment 1612 01:19:36,981 --> 01:19:39,150 to propose through just an emotional connection. 1613 01:19:40,068 --> 01:19:43,404 I think if she had remembered that, I think we would have been all right. 1614 01:19:43,488 --> 01:19:46,074 ♪ But they'd never shoot across the sky For your and I ♪ 1615 01:19:46,658 --> 01:19:50,370 ♪ So we kept our wish inside ♪ 1616 01:19:50,995 --> 01:19:52,664 [Jessica] When I was in the pods, 1617 01:19:52,789 --> 01:19:57,043 I was in my feelings so much that the outside world didn't exist to me. 1618 01:19:57,210 --> 01:19:59,212 I grew so much. I challenged myself. 1619 01:19:59,295 --> 01:20:01,381 I got so far out of my comfort zone. 1620 01:20:01,548 --> 01:20:04,926 And I connected with someone so deep, I could have never imagined. 1621 01:20:05,552 --> 01:20:09,639 But I couldn't translate that from pod to real life. 1622 01:20:09,889 --> 01:20:11,349 For some people, love might be blind. 1623 01:20:11,432 --> 01:20:14,561 But for me, it's definitely not. It's a mixture of... 1624 01:20:14,894 --> 01:20:16,396 mind, body, and soul, 1625 01:20:16,729 --> 01:20:19,524 and I never got there. 1626 01:20:19,607 --> 01:20:20,942 So that's really hard. 1627 01:20:21,609 --> 01:20:24,320 ♪ Baby we can’t change the past ♪ 1628 01:20:25,488 --> 01:20:28,825 ♪ Erase the scars That hold together a broken heart ♪ 1629 01:20:28,908 --> 01:20:31,411 [Kelly] I believe that soulmates can come and go into your life, 1630 01:20:31,494 --> 01:20:33,496 that they're not always there forever. 1631 01:20:33,788 --> 01:20:36,124 Um, you learn lessons from people 1632 01:20:36,207 --> 01:20:38,293 that touch your soul in so many different ways, 1633 01:20:38,376 --> 01:20:41,546 but in the end, making the right decision for you 1634 01:20:41,629 --> 01:20:43,381 is the right decision for everybody. 1635 01:20:43,464 --> 01:20:46,092 ♪ Or we could try We could try for a better way ♪ 1636 01:20:46,175 --> 01:20:49,220 ♪ So we won’t cry We won’t cry for our yesterdays ♪ 1637 01:20:49,304 --> 01:20:50,930 [Kenny] You sit and you want to have a pity party. 1638 01:20:51,014 --> 01:20:53,766 There's no pity party because I have ultimate control. 1639 01:20:53,850 --> 01:20:55,727 There's more nice people than there are bad. 1640 01:20:56,144 --> 01:20:58,730 So yeah, like, I will have my day, 1641 01:20:58,813 --> 01:21:01,357 and I'll be with that person I need to be with, 1642 01:21:01,441 --> 01:21:03,401 but today is not that day. 1643 01:21:03,860 --> 01:21:06,821 ♪ We could cry We could cry for our yesterday ♪ 1644 01:21:07,322 --> 01:21:09,908 ♪ Or we could try We could try for a better way ♪ 1645 01:21:09,991 --> 01:21:13,953 [Giannina] I never thought that I would find my soulmate in a dark room. 1646 01:21:14,787 --> 01:21:16,164 I don't regret anything. 1647 01:21:16,915 --> 01:21:17,999 I'm mourning, 1648 01:21:18,791 --> 01:21:20,418 but from the ashes comes... 1649 01:21:20,960 --> 01:21:22,253 the phoenix. 1650 01:21:22,712 --> 01:21:25,465 ♪ Or we could try We could try for a better way ♪ 1651 01:21:26,174 --> 01:21:28,635 [Damian voice-over] Today, I couldn't give that one moment of greatness 1652 01:21:28,760 --> 01:21:30,762 for a lifetime of uncertainty. 1653 01:21:31,763 --> 01:21:33,723 I was hoping to find that with G. 1654 01:21:33,973 --> 01:21:36,142 It hurts, walking away from this, 1655 01:21:37,435 --> 01:21:38,937 but I will always love you, G. 1656 01:21:39,479 --> 01:21:40,563 I'll always love you. 1657 01:21:43,733 --> 01:21:46,611 [announcer over mic] Mr. and Mrs. Barnett! 1658 01:21:46,736 --> 01:21:48,863 [everyone applauding, cheering] 1659 01:21:49,906 --> 01:21:50,823 [Amber] It was a relief 1660 01:21:50,907 --> 01:21:53,785 to see that he was actually at the end of the aisle waiting for me. 1661 01:21:53,868 --> 01:21:56,704 I was really happy I wasn't going to spend the rest of my life in jail. 1662 01:21:56,829 --> 01:21:57,830 [laughs] 1663 01:22:00,792 --> 01:22:04,003 Considering, where I was in life 1664 01:22:04,087 --> 01:22:07,507 right before I came into this experience, 1665 01:22:07,590 --> 01:22:10,885 I would never in a million years have guessed 1666 01:22:10,969 --> 01:22:14,722 that I would be in a wedding gown right now 1667 01:22:15,098 --> 01:22:18,142 with a ring on my finger and a whole new last name. 1668 01:22:18,643 --> 01:22:19,852 I wouldn't have believed it. 1669 01:22:19,936 --> 01:22:21,521 Uh... [laughs] 1670 01:22:22,397 --> 01:22:24,107 -Was that right? -Here you go. 1671 01:22:24,524 --> 01:22:25,692 [laughs] 1672 01:22:26,317 --> 01:22:27,986 [Barnett] No regrets. Not today. 1673 01:22:28,695 --> 01:22:30,488 Maybe... we'll see. We'll see down the road. 1674 01:22:30,571 --> 01:22:31,447 I'm just kidding. 1675 01:22:31,531 --> 01:22:35,576 ["Fine" playing] ♪ You and I, we'll be fine ♪ 1676 01:22:35,952 --> 01:22:38,788 ♪ We belong together ♪ 1677 01:22:38,871 --> 01:22:42,542 [Cameron] Six weeks ago, I was hopeful, but skeptical of this experiment, 1678 01:22:42,625 --> 01:22:44,877 and now I'm a full-on believer. 1679 01:22:45,044 --> 01:22:46,129 I'm beyond elated. 1680 01:22:46,504 --> 01:22:47,380 And that's it. 1681 01:22:47,463 --> 01:22:48,715 I'm off the market, baby. 1682 01:22:49,382 --> 01:22:50,216 [laughs] 1683 01:22:50,299 --> 01:22:53,136 [Lauren] The fact that Cameron and I found each other 1684 01:22:53,219 --> 01:22:55,263 without ever even seeing each other, 1685 01:22:55,346 --> 01:22:57,682 it's like what we saw was each other's soul, 1686 01:22:57,765 --> 01:23:01,477 and that's the most beautiful thing that I've ever experienced in my life. 1687 01:23:02,270 --> 01:23:06,024 ♪ You and I, we'll be fine ♪ 1688 01:23:06,107 --> 01:23:09,193 ♪ We belong together ♪