1 00:00:09,927 --> 00:00:11,929 [dramatic music plays] 2 00:00:21,439 --> 00:00:23,399 You're not going to ask me for my blessing to this? 3 00:00:27,779 --> 00:00:29,906 [Cameron] Of course, you know, in an ideal world, 4 00:00:29,989 --> 00:00:32,241 I would've wanted to have asked for your blessing 5 00:00:32,325 --> 00:00:33,785 before I proposed to her. 6 00:00:34,452 --> 00:00:37,205 Um, the circumstances didn't really allow me to do that. 7 00:00:37,288 --> 00:00:40,583 Well, I'll let you guys talk on your own, maybe. 8 00:00:41,626 --> 00:00:42,460 Uh, okay. 9 00:00:44,253 --> 00:00:45,546 Be nice, Daddy. 10 00:00:45,671 --> 00:00:48,841 So I've never introduced my dad to any of my boyfriends, 11 00:00:49,342 --> 00:00:51,469 let alone my fiancé, 12 00:00:51,552 --> 00:00:53,554 who is also white. 13 00:00:54,013 --> 00:00:56,808 My dad is also very vocal 14 00:00:56,891 --> 00:00:58,351 about the black community 15 00:00:58,434 --> 00:01:01,312 and keeping the black family structure strong, 16 00:01:01,896 --> 00:01:04,357 so I'm a little nervous. 17 00:01:04,690 --> 00:01:07,110 I mean, my dad's not racist or anything, 18 00:01:07,193 --> 00:01:09,195 but I'm nervous as to how he'll react. 19 00:01:09,278 --> 00:01:11,364 He doesn't take a lot of shit. [chuckles] 20 00:01:11,447 --> 00:01:14,367 He's used to being the boss, he's used to calling the shots, 21 00:01:14,450 --> 00:01:16,160 he's very protective over me. 22 00:01:16,619 --> 00:01:18,079 Um, but he's a great man. 23 00:01:18,663 --> 00:01:22,708 With Lauren, I know that she has never lived with a man before. 24 00:01:22,792 --> 00:01:23,626 [Bill] Never. 25 00:01:23,709 --> 00:01:26,129 And never introduced a man to her parents, 26 00:01:26,212 --> 00:01:29,048 and I feel honored that I'm that guy. 27 00:01:29,132 --> 00:01:30,550 This is big stuff here, man. 28 00:01:30,633 --> 00:01:33,636 This ain't no, uh, you know, easy thing here. 29 00:01:33,719 --> 00:01:34,679 This is big stuff. 30 00:01:37,056 --> 00:01:38,516 I don't want to be a bad guy. 31 00:01:38,599 --> 00:01:41,185 I don't want to scare you, nothing like that. It's not my intent. 32 00:01:41,269 --> 00:01:43,020 -I want to know you. -Yeah. 33 00:01:43,479 --> 00:01:44,438 Absolutely. 34 00:01:44,730 --> 00:01:46,107 [Bill] But I'm brutally honest. 35 00:01:46,190 --> 00:01:48,192 Anybody who knows me will tell you. 36 00:01:48,276 --> 00:01:51,070 I have no problem speaking my mind. I got through life like that. 37 00:01:54,198 --> 00:01:55,992 I guess it's simple and a short-cut 38 00:01:56,075 --> 00:01:58,244 to say you're a white guy, she's a black woman. 39 00:01:58,536 --> 00:01:59,787 Let's talk about that. 40 00:02:02,790 --> 00:02:05,293 How do you feel about being in a room full of black people? 41 00:02:05,459 --> 00:02:07,503 Have you ever been in a room full of black people? 42 00:02:07,587 --> 00:02:08,421 [Cameron] Of course. 43 00:02:08,838 --> 00:02:10,381 [Bill] Just you, young white guy there? 44 00:02:10,464 --> 00:02:11,382 [Cameron] Of course. 45 00:02:11,465 --> 00:02:13,259 That's a hell of a question, but it's real. 46 00:02:13,342 --> 00:02:14,719 [Cameron] Yeah, absolutely. 47 00:02:16,846 --> 00:02:17,722 Um... 48 00:02:18,181 --> 00:02:22,560 No, I, I had a serious relationship prior to meeting Lauren. 49 00:02:23,144 --> 00:02:25,146 -We dated for five years. -Okay. 50 00:02:25,938 --> 00:02:27,190 She was a black woman. 51 00:02:27,773 --> 00:02:30,985 Um, so I found myself in that type of situation all the time. 52 00:02:31,068 --> 00:02:32,111 [Bill] Mm-hmm. 53 00:02:32,236 --> 00:02:35,990 You know, I have experienced being in a interracial relationship 54 00:02:36,073 --> 00:02:37,575 where people have issues-- 55 00:02:37,658 --> 00:02:38,784 That's not everything, 56 00:02:38,868 --> 00:02:41,120 -but it's certainly gonna play a factor... -[Cameron] Sure. 57 00:02:41,204 --> 00:02:42,747 -of how you live in the world. -Yeah. 58 00:02:42,830 --> 00:02:43,956 You know? 59 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,210 Your daughter is the most amazing woman I've ever met. 60 00:02:47,585 --> 00:02:50,213 I fell in love with her without ever having seen her. 61 00:02:50,421 --> 00:02:52,506 I love her for who she is, 62 00:02:53,174 --> 00:02:55,426 and I'm grateful every day to... 63 00:02:56,093 --> 00:02:56,928 be with her. 64 00:02:59,513 --> 00:03:02,516 I don't judge you by anything other than how you treat her. 65 00:03:03,059 --> 00:03:04,685 -I appreciate that. -[Bill] Okay? 66 00:03:05,978 --> 00:03:09,857 You know, this is so overwhelming to me. It's a surprise. 67 00:03:09,941 --> 00:03:11,692 All of it, it's a surprise. 68 00:03:11,859 --> 00:03:12,818 Um... 69 00:03:19,075 --> 00:03:20,952 Okay, let's see how this goes. 70 00:03:21,035 --> 00:03:22,495 It's ultimately her decision. 71 00:03:23,454 --> 00:03:26,832 I've always taught her to live her life the way she sees it. 72 00:03:28,709 --> 00:03:31,504 When I talked to Cameron, he's a little too mellow for me, 73 00:03:31,587 --> 00:03:33,881 but I like him that she likes him. 74 00:03:33,965 --> 00:03:35,967 That's as good as the approval's gonna get right now. 75 00:03:36,384 --> 00:03:38,052 I'm not 100% with this. 76 00:03:38,803 --> 00:03:40,554 I'm from a whole other generation. 77 00:03:40,638 --> 00:03:41,973 We didn't pick a wife like this. 78 00:03:42,056 --> 00:03:43,599 -Yeah. -[Bill chuckles] 79 00:03:44,183 --> 00:03:45,685 But she loves you, so I like you. 80 00:03:47,270 --> 00:03:48,437 That's a start. 81 00:03:48,521 --> 00:03:51,816 Yeah. Well, I wanna work so that you do love me, eventually. 82 00:03:52,191 --> 00:03:53,317 ["Give A Little Bit" playing] 83 00:03:53,401 --> 00:03:56,237 ♪ Give a little bit of love Give a little bit of love ♪ 84 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:58,406 ♪ And you'll come around ♪ 85 00:03:59,323 --> 00:04:00,825 ♪ Take a little bit of love ♪ 86 00:04:01,409 --> 00:04:05,830 ♪ Take a little bit of love And you're gonna feel ♪ 87 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:07,665 ♪ Give a little bit of love ♪ 88 00:04:11,168 --> 00:04:13,170 [indistinct chatter] 89 00:04:14,171 --> 00:04:16,590 -[Nick] Fellas, fellas, fellas, fellas. -[Kenny laughing] 90 00:04:16,674 --> 00:04:18,509 -How are we? -[Damien] What's up, buddy? 91 00:04:18,592 --> 00:04:20,970 -[Nick] You guys doing all right? -[Kenny] Doing great, man. 92 00:04:24,390 --> 00:04:25,266 Hi! 93 00:04:25,349 --> 00:04:26,851 [women] Hi! 94 00:04:26,934 --> 00:04:28,352 [Vanessa] Wow, you guys look glowing. 95 00:04:28,436 --> 00:04:30,521 Fellas, in this blind love experiment, 96 00:04:30,604 --> 00:04:33,316 you chose to get engaged and spend the rest of your life 97 00:04:33,399 --> 00:04:36,319 with a woman you had not seen, 98 00:04:36,861 --> 00:04:39,363 based solely on an emotional connection. 99 00:04:39,447 --> 00:04:40,698 You've shared a romantic getaway, 100 00:04:40,781 --> 00:04:42,325 you moved in with one another... 101 00:04:42,408 --> 00:04:44,493 And now, your weddings 102 00:04:44,577 --> 00:04:48,039 are just two weeks away. 103 00:04:48,664 --> 00:04:50,291 -[chuckles nervously] -[shudders] Ooh. 104 00:04:50,458 --> 00:04:51,292 [Amber] Yes. [laughs] 105 00:04:51,375 --> 00:04:53,753 Today, you guys are gonna choose a suit 106 00:04:54,378 --> 00:04:56,839 to wear at your wedding on your wedding day. 107 00:04:56,922 --> 00:04:59,216 Awesome to see you guys brought family and friends with you. 108 00:04:59,300 --> 00:05:01,844 A little moral support today. That's good, it's important. 109 00:05:01,927 --> 00:05:04,305 -Damian, who do you got with you? -This is my buddy Aaron. 110 00:05:04,388 --> 00:05:06,515 -What do you think of all this? -Kinda crazy. 111 00:05:06,599 --> 00:05:09,977 But if I knew anybody would kinda do this, it would be Damian. 112 00:05:10,061 --> 00:05:11,270 -[Nick] Is that right? -[Aaron] Yeah. 113 00:05:11,354 --> 00:05:12,813 -He's the risk taker? -[Aaron] Yeah. 114 00:05:12,897 --> 00:05:15,274 You can't calm him down. He's always on to the next thing, 115 00:05:15,358 --> 00:05:17,568 -on to the next thing, so... -Not this time. 116 00:05:17,651 --> 00:05:18,569 [all laughing] 117 00:05:18,652 --> 00:05:20,029 [Damian] Not yet. 118 00:05:20,112 --> 00:05:21,447 Lauren, is this your mom? 119 00:05:21,530 --> 00:05:22,740 This is my mom. 120 00:05:22,823 --> 00:05:24,825 So, what are you thinking right now, Mom? 121 00:05:24,909 --> 00:05:28,954 I never dreamed of her getting married through an experiment. 122 00:05:29,038 --> 00:05:31,040 [all laughing] 123 00:05:31,957 --> 00:05:33,417 [Pamela laughing loudly] 124 00:05:33,542 --> 00:05:34,877 Just drink your champagne, Mom. 125 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:36,629 [all laughing] 126 00:05:37,588 --> 00:05:38,672 Mark, who you got with you? 127 00:05:38,756 --> 00:05:40,883 -Uh, my best friend, Bardia. -Brad. 128 00:05:40,966 --> 00:05:43,219 Hey, man. What did you think when Mark told you this was going on? 129 00:05:43,302 --> 00:05:44,428 What was going through your mind? 130 00:05:44,512 --> 00:05:47,556 I thought it was crazy. I'm older than Mark, and I think, 131 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:50,559 you know, 24, 25 is a little too young to get married. 132 00:05:50,643 --> 00:05:52,353 -[Nick] You think he's too young? -I do. 133 00:05:52,436 --> 00:05:55,815 I think, 24, 25, you're really just starting to find yourself. 134 00:05:55,898 --> 00:05:59,026 And so I'm a little concerned that she's a little older than him. 135 00:05:59,110 --> 00:06:00,694 Yeah, well, you're a good buddy. 136 00:06:00,778 --> 00:06:02,988 You're here today, you know, regardless of how you feel. 137 00:06:03,072 --> 00:06:04,323 And you're obviously-- 138 00:06:04,407 --> 00:06:05,699 He knows he's always got us. 139 00:06:05,783 --> 00:06:08,369 Yeah, you always need people in your life that'll give it to you straight. 140 00:06:08,452 --> 00:06:09,703 Of course. I mean, I've always-- 141 00:06:09,787 --> 00:06:11,705 I mean, we've been best friends for a long time, 142 00:06:11,789 --> 00:06:13,707 but he's always respected me in the sense 143 00:06:13,791 --> 00:06:16,127 that I will always make my decision for me. 144 00:06:16,752 --> 00:06:18,879 And, yeah, the age is gonna have its challenges. 145 00:06:18,963 --> 00:06:22,550 And we're gonna, you know, day by day. That's been our motto since the start. 146 00:06:22,633 --> 00:06:23,843 We've taken it day by day, 147 00:06:23,926 --> 00:06:26,220 -and I'm excited for those challenges. -Mm-hmm. 148 00:06:26,303 --> 00:06:27,555 [Mark] So, we'll see what happens. 149 00:06:28,389 --> 00:06:30,474 And I'm just excited that he's been my support system. 150 00:06:30,558 --> 00:06:32,601 Hey, these are your boys. You wanna look out for them. 151 00:06:32,685 --> 00:06:34,019 And this is a big, big day. 152 00:06:35,271 --> 00:06:37,857 So, Damian, Barnett, 153 00:06:38,232 --> 00:06:40,651 Cam, Mark, Kenny, 154 00:06:40,734 --> 00:06:42,403 when you choose your suit today, 155 00:06:42,486 --> 00:06:44,738 I want you to think about what it symbolizes. 156 00:06:45,739 --> 00:06:48,242 [Vanessa] This will be the gown that you will wear 157 00:06:48,325 --> 00:06:50,703 when you stand in front of your family and friends 158 00:06:51,370 --> 00:06:53,664 and the man that you've chosen. 159 00:06:53,747 --> 00:06:56,250 In that dress, you will ultimately decide... 160 00:06:57,084 --> 00:07:01,547 Will you say "I do" to the man that you got engaged to, sight unseen? 161 00:07:01,630 --> 00:07:04,967 Or will you choose to walk away from her... 162 00:07:05,509 --> 00:07:06,343 forever? 163 00:07:08,971 --> 00:07:11,557 I hope you will all celebrate a beautiful wedding, 164 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:15,227 and experience a marriage that lasts the test of time. 165 00:07:16,145 --> 00:07:17,480 But this is an experiment. 166 00:07:17,938 --> 00:07:20,316 Is love blind? 167 00:07:20,399 --> 00:07:21,942 I hope you guys prove that it is. 168 00:07:22,026 --> 00:07:23,360 Guys, enjoy the day. 169 00:07:23,444 --> 00:07:26,030 Enjoy this process, seriously. Can't wait to see you in your suits. 170 00:07:26,947 --> 00:07:28,240 -Thanks, Nick. -[Nick] Have fun, guys. 171 00:07:28,324 --> 00:07:31,160 Okay, we got nos, we got yeses. 172 00:07:31,243 --> 00:07:32,077 Yes. 173 00:07:32,786 --> 00:07:33,621 No. 174 00:07:33,704 --> 00:07:36,040 [soul music playing] 175 00:07:36,123 --> 00:07:39,210 Every little girl always has this fantasy 176 00:07:39,293 --> 00:07:42,755 about the day that she goes to pick her wedding dress. 177 00:07:42,838 --> 00:07:43,756 Okay. 178 00:07:45,674 --> 00:07:46,592 [woman 1 gasps] 179 00:07:46,675 --> 00:07:47,968 [woman 2] Oh, look at you! 180 00:07:48,052 --> 00:07:51,680 Oh, wow, Lauren. With the train and everything. 181 00:07:51,764 --> 00:07:52,973 [woman 3] Oh, Lauren! 182 00:07:53,057 --> 00:07:54,099 Where's the yes? 183 00:07:54,183 --> 00:07:55,267 It's really nice. 184 00:07:55,351 --> 00:07:58,395 [Amber] Oh, my god! Lauren. 185 00:07:58,479 --> 00:08:00,981 -Oh, my god. That's beautiful. -That is gorgeous. 186 00:08:01,065 --> 00:08:03,275 [Lauren] This is all real. This is all happening. 187 00:08:03,359 --> 00:08:06,570 We're planning a wedding. I'm here, trying on wedding dresses. 188 00:08:06,654 --> 00:08:08,697 It doesn't get more real than this. 189 00:08:10,032 --> 00:08:11,075 [all gasping] 190 00:08:11,158 --> 00:08:12,910 -[Jessica] Stop it! -[Pat] Oh, my God! 191 00:08:12,993 --> 00:08:14,286 [all cheering] 192 00:08:14,370 --> 00:08:15,287 I love this. 193 00:08:15,371 --> 00:08:16,872 Baby, you look like a goddess. 194 00:08:16,956 --> 00:08:19,250 [Giannina] I love shopping, 195 00:08:19,333 --> 00:08:22,169 but this is the biggest moment ever. 196 00:08:23,671 --> 00:08:25,172 [Lauren] Oh, I like the back. 197 00:08:25,256 --> 00:08:26,632 [Jessica] Oh, yes, honey. 198 00:08:30,052 --> 00:08:31,178 [woman 1 gasps] 199 00:08:31,262 --> 00:08:32,638 So, there is a lot. 200 00:08:32,721 --> 00:08:35,307 -Amber, that's gorgeous. -[woman 2] That's beautiful. 201 00:08:35,391 --> 00:08:36,517 Twirl. 202 00:08:37,351 --> 00:08:39,728 -[Amber] That dress is gorgeous. -I mean, this is so pretty. 203 00:08:39,812 --> 00:08:41,981 You couldn't see, but I totally kicked my leg out right there. 204 00:08:42,064 --> 00:08:43,607 -It's a leg kick. -[Lauren] So gorgeous. 205 00:08:45,693 --> 00:08:47,194 [women] Oh! 206 00:08:47,653 --> 00:08:49,071 [women gasping] 207 00:08:49,154 --> 00:08:51,448 [laughing] I'm like, no. 208 00:08:51,532 --> 00:08:52,491 No? [laughs] 209 00:08:52,575 --> 00:08:55,744 I've never gotten so serious about someone that I would go to a wedding dress shop 210 00:08:55,828 --> 00:08:58,789 to try on a dress, so it's uncharted territory for me. 211 00:08:58,872 --> 00:09:00,916 -I want to dip my toe in the water. -[laughs] 212 00:09:01,000 --> 00:09:03,627 Really, just... I wasn't ready to jump, 213 00:09:03,711 --> 00:09:06,422 so I'm like, next we'll do something really bridal-y. 214 00:09:07,381 --> 00:09:09,133 [woman 3 gasps] Ooh! 215 00:09:09,216 --> 00:09:10,217 [women gasping, exclaiming] 216 00:09:10,301 --> 00:09:11,594 That's pretty. 217 00:09:12,219 --> 00:09:14,179 -[Lauren] That is pretty. -Oh, I like that. 218 00:09:14,263 --> 00:09:15,222 [Giannina] You look gorgeous. 219 00:09:15,306 --> 00:09:16,890 -Do you love it? -[Kelly] No. 220 00:09:16,974 --> 00:09:19,476 Like dating, I'm so picky. [laughs] 221 00:09:19,560 --> 00:09:21,478 Maybe this is a true reflection of that. 222 00:09:21,562 --> 00:09:24,231 I've never like planned this day. 223 00:09:24,315 --> 00:09:27,901 So I feel like it's harder for me to figure out exactly what I like. 224 00:09:27,985 --> 00:09:28,902 It's okay. 225 00:09:28,986 --> 00:09:30,237 'Cause I don't know. 226 00:09:31,196 --> 00:09:32,448 -So... -Next dress! 227 00:09:33,449 --> 00:09:36,702 [upbeat rock music playing] 228 00:09:36,785 --> 00:09:38,621 Are you thinking more suit or tux? 229 00:09:38,704 --> 00:09:39,622 I'm thinking suit. 230 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:41,540 You are barrel-chested. 231 00:09:42,291 --> 00:09:43,417 Is that a good thing? 232 00:09:43,500 --> 00:09:46,712 Well, it is when you're looking for women, but not when you're fitting clothes. 233 00:09:46,795 --> 00:09:48,964 -[Cameron laughs] -[Barnett] What's this for? 234 00:09:49,048 --> 00:09:51,383 [tailor] That goes in the back of the shoe to let your heel slide in. 235 00:09:51,467 --> 00:09:54,553 -[Barnett] I'm not fancy. -You guys don't dress up a lot, do you? 236 00:09:54,637 --> 00:09:56,138 -[Barnett laughs] -How does it feel? 237 00:09:56,221 --> 00:09:57,348 A little tight. 238 00:09:57,931 --> 00:10:00,768 [Brett] So, Barnett, I do have some concerns. 239 00:10:00,851 --> 00:10:03,228 Yeah, no, seriously. Like, um, yeah. 240 00:10:03,896 --> 00:10:06,231 I don't expect you to understand either way. 241 00:10:06,315 --> 00:10:08,108 I mean, I really can't understand. 242 00:10:08,192 --> 00:10:09,401 It has only been two weeks. 243 00:10:10,194 --> 00:10:11,695 [Barnett] Honestly... [sighs] 244 00:10:12,613 --> 00:10:15,366 I've been happy before, but this is-- This is a different happiness, 245 00:10:15,449 --> 00:10:18,744 and I don't know really how to explain it all the time. 246 00:10:18,827 --> 00:10:20,245 -But it's just like... -[Brett] Yeah. 247 00:10:20,579 --> 00:10:25,167 I've never been with anybody that's so easy to be with, you know. 248 00:10:25,834 --> 00:10:27,378 -Yeah. -There's always complications, 249 00:10:27,461 --> 00:10:29,922 like, even, like, the little shit 250 00:10:30,589 --> 00:10:33,217 that comes out, it just doesn't really matter, you know? 251 00:10:33,300 --> 00:10:36,011 -You're saying is, when you know... -We get past the little stuff quick. 252 00:10:36,095 --> 00:10:37,596 Amber is the whole package. 253 00:10:37,680 --> 00:10:39,807 Like, I've never been with someone so confident, 254 00:10:39,890 --> 00:10:41,684 and I've never been so confident about someone. 255 00:10:41,767 --> 00:10:43,227 So, it's crazy. 256 00:10:44,103 --> 00:10:47,064 And you know more about her and she probably knows more about you. 257 00:10:47,147 --> 00:10:49,316 Honestly, she probably knows more about me than you do. 258 00:10:49,608 --> 00:10:51,902 That's how crazy that whole experience was. 259 00:10:51,985 --> 00:10:55,906 I know. I know we've had like years and years of, you know, 260 00:10:56,824 --> 00:10:58,826 breakups together and stuff like that. 261 00:10:58,909 --> 00:11:01,078 You know, it's just... [sighs] 262 00:11:01,328 --> 00:11:02,663 I'm excited for the wedding day. 263 00:11:02,746 --> 00:11:05,040 Like, it's my day, but it's really her day. 264 00:11:05,833 --> 00:11:08,794 Just 'cause it's something she's probably dreamed about her whole life. 265 00:11:08,877 --> 00:11:10,546 I haven't dreamed about it my whole life. 266 00:11:10,629 --> 00:11:12,172 I just started thinking about it two weeks ago. 267 00:11:12,256 --> 00:11:13,590 It's, it's, it's real, 268 00:11:13,674 --> 00:11:16,593 but I'm trying not to make it, like, 269 00:11:16,677 --> 00:11:17,594 crazy stressful. 270 00:11:17,678 --> 00:11:19,555 As long as you're happy, I'm good. 271 00:11:19,763 --> 00:11:21,557 I'm happy. I'm happy. 272 00:11:23,851 --> 00:11:25,102 [Giannina] Oh, wow. 273 00:11:26,770 --> 00:11:29,064 I was trying to put the pieces together 274 00:11:29,148 --> 00:11:31,358 because I couldn't visualize things anymore. 275 00:11:31,442 --> 00:11:33,235 I just can't stop staring at it. 276 00:11:33,318 --> 00:11:36,905 Then when I put on the dress, I was like, "Wow... 277 00:11:37,406 --> 00:11:38,282 I can see it." 278 00:11:38,866 --> 00:11:40,159 So I took it as a sign. 279 00:11:40,242 --> 00:11:42,161 I'm a really big believer in signs. 280 00:11:43,412 --> 00:11:45,080 -[gasps] -[Kelly] Stop it. 281 00:11:45,164 --> 00:11:45,998 [all] Oh! 282 00:11:46,081 --> 00:11:48,125 Oh, my gosh! 283 00:11:48,208 --> 00:11:49,626 [Lauren] Gigi! 284 00:11:49,710 --> 00:11:51,420 Giannina, oh, my God. 285 00:11:51,503 --> 00:11:54,423 I mean, like you see it in movies and everything, 286 00:11:54,506 --> 00:11:57,176 and, like, you always picture it, you walking down the aisle. 287 00:11:57,259 --> 00:11:59,470 -[Lauren] Aww. -And then I put on this dress... 288 00:11:59,553 --> 00:12:01,138 -[Lauren] Yay! -[Jessica] Oh, boo-boo. 289 00:12:02,389 --> 00:12:04,057 I think he'll think I'm pretty. [laughs] 290 00:12:04,141 --> 00:12:05,642 [Lauren] Absolutely. 291 00:12:05,726 --> 00:12:07,770 Yeah, I think he'll like it. [laughs] 292 00:12:08,353 --> 00:12:09,772 What is this? 293 00:12:10,606 --> 00:12:12,983 -[sobbing, laughs] -[Gigi's friend] You look so beautiful. 294 00:12:13,066 --> 00:12:14,234 [woman] Oh, wow. 295 00:12:14,359 --> 00:12:17,029 Oh, my God. When I saw her, I just melted. 296 00:12:17,112 --> 00:12:22,367 I mean, I had to get up and hug her, 'cause seeing her there with that dress, 297 00:12:22,451 --> 00:12:24,745 it was like seeing a princess, like a fairy tale. 298 00:12:24,828 --> 00:12:26,330 -Like, it became a reality. -Yes. 299 00:12:27,498 --> 00:12:28,582 [Pamela gasps] 300 00:12:29,666 --> 00:12:32,044 Oh, wow. It's beautiful. 301 00:12:32,127 --> 00:12:33,128 Oh! 302 00:12:33,462 --> 00:12:35,255 I love that on you. 303 00:12:35,339 --> 00:12:36,548 You like the train? 304 00:12:37,049 --> 00:12:38,550 Trying on wedding dresses is something 305 00:12:38,634 --> 00:12:42,805 that my mom and I have always talked about. 306 00:12:42,888 --> 00:12:46,725 She's always wanted to help me pick my dress for that big day. 307 00:12:46,809 --> 00:12:48,977 So, we're finally at that time, 308 00:12:49,061 --> 00:12:53,398 and I definitely feel scared overall 309 00:12:53,482 --> 00:12:56,735 of the whole commitment of marriage and the fact that I'm gonna be married. 310 00:12:57,194 --> 00:13:00,155 But right now, in this second, in this moment, 311 00:13:00,239 --> 00:13:01,406 I'm feeling good right now. 312 00:13:01,824 --> 00:13:04,785 This is a moment I've been waiting for, Lauren. 313 00:13:04,868 --> 00:13:05,911 I've been waiting for this. 314 00:13:05,994 --> 00:13:08,539 Lauren looked gorgeous. 315 00:13:08,622 --> 00:13:10,999 It got to me, so, um... 316 00:13:11,124 --> 00:13:13,126 You know, I've always waited for this day 317 00:13:13,210 --> 00:13:14,586 to see her in a wedding dress. 318 00:13:14,670 --> 00:13:15,963 I'm really happy for her, 319 00:13:16,046 --> 00:13:19,091 that she found someone to-- To make her happy. 320 00:13:20,926 --> 00:13:22,177 -[Lauren] Yeah. -[woman 1] Yeah. 321 00:13:22,719 --> 00:13:24,763 [woman 2] Ooh! 322 00:13:24,888 --> 00:13:27,140 [all exclaiming] 323 00:13:27,683 --> 00:13:28,976 [Pam] Oh, I love that. 324 00:13:29,059 --> 00:13:31,019 -[Lauren] That's pretty. -[woman 3] That looks good. 325 00:13:31,854 --> 00:13:33,647 Give us a spin, give us a spin. 326 00:13:34,773 --> 00:13:37,317 [Giannina] Kelly, this is really pretty on you, girl. 327 00:13:37,401 --> 00:13:38,694 Yeah. That's beautiful. 328 00:13:40,070 --> 00:13:42,990 Watching my sister walk out in that wedding dress today 329 00:13:43,073 --> 00:13:46,201 was just the most beautiful feeling 330 00:13:46,827 --> 00:13:48,871 'Cause it's my-- It's my little sister. 331 00:13:50,455 --> 00:13:51,498 She's my heart. 332 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:52,875 So... 333 00:13:53,584 --> 00:13:56,670 I'm very excited to see the next stage in this-- 334 00:13:56,753 --> 00:13:59,631 [sniffles] in her life, coming to fruition for her. 335 00:14:00,257 --> 00:14:01,633 In the most beautiful way. 336 00:14:01,884 --> 00:14:03,468 I feel like I... 337 00:14:03,552 --> 00:14:05,929 Not that I'm losing my sister, but it's like... 338 00:14:06,388 --> 00:14:08,473 -[Kelly] Well, yeah. -She's not single anymore. 339 00:14:08,557 --> 00:14:10,183 -Does that make sense? -[all agreeing] 340 00:14:10,267 --> 00:14:13,020 [Kelly] Believe me, I know. [laughs] 341 00:14:13,103 --> 00:14:15,188 Single a little too long, guys. 342 00:14:15,272 --> 00:14:17,024 [Giannina] I mean, you're literally getting married off. 343 00:14:17,691 --> 00:14:21,111 So it's like a loss, but you're gaining so much more... 344 00:14:21,194 --> 00:14:23,363 And you're gaining, yeah. It's just change. 345 00:14:23,447 --> 00:14:25,282 It's still happy, and it's beautiful. 346 00:14:25,365 --> 00:14:26,491 [Ashley] It is beautiful. 347 00:14:27,409 --> 00:14:29,995 So, it's different. [sobs] 348 00:14:30,203 --> 00:14:32,039 -It is different. -Yeah. 349 00:14:32,122 --> 00:14:34,041 I love you. Mm. 350 00:14:39,296 --> 00:14:40,255 [Amber] Round two. 351 00:14:40,339 --> 00:14:41,465 [all exclaiming] 352 00:14:41,632 --> 00:14:42,674 Round two. 353 00:14:43,216 --> 00:14:44,259 [woman] Oh, my God. 354 00:14:44,343 --> 00:14:45,928 Gosh, Amber! 355 00:14:47,387 --> 00:14:49,389 [Lauren] That's beautiful. 356 00:14:50,098 --> 00:14:54,645 I've been thinking about my wedding since the first time I saw Cinderella. 357 00:14:54,770 --> 00:14:56,229 You look like a swan. 358 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:58,857 [Amber] You know, you want the prince and the princess. 359 00:14:58,941 --> 00:15:01,234 And the older I got, 360 00:15:01,318 --> 00:15:03,987 I realized I didn't want somebody to save me. 361 00:15:04,071 --> 00:15:06,239 I wanted somebody that, you know, 362 00:15:06,323 --> 00:15:08,742 sometimes would need me to save them. 363 00:15:09,242 --> 00:15:12,496 And that is what I think I've found now. 364 00:15:13,246 --> 00:15:14,331 This is surreal. 365 00:15:15,374 --> 00:15:16,291 Um... 366 00:15:17,918 --> 00:15:20,796 I don't know, I guess, like, the idea of... 367 00:15:21,630 --> 00:15:24,633 getting down the aisle and making it this far with Barnett, and then... 368 00:15:29,054 --> 00:15:30,764 the possibility that he... 369 00:15:31,848 --> 00:15:33,058 he might say no, 370 00:15:33,141 --> 00:15:34,977 I don't think I could survive it. 371 00:15:37,270 --> 00:15:39,439 The more excited I find I'm getting about these things, 372 00:15:39,523 --> 00:15:40,357 I'm more scared. 373 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:41,566 I'm starting to get-- 374 00:15:41,650 --> 00:15:46,780 In the back of my head, there is this very legitimate fear... 375 00:15:48,532 --> 00:15:52,953 that Barnett isn't going to be able to go through with this wedding. 376 00:15:55,622 --> 00:15:57,624 Things you don't really think about, like Nick said... 377 00:15:57,708 --> 00:16:01,169 You don't really think about picking out your, your suit for the day. 378 00:16:01,253 --> 00:16:03,630 You know, and that's why I seem kinda scrambled, 379 00:16:03,714 --> 00:16:05,716 'cause I've never really put much thought into that. 380 00:16:05,799 --> 00:16:07,759 I don't think you've put much thought into any of it. 381 00:16:07,843 --> 00:16:08,677 Yeah, I have. 382 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:10,887 Is there such thing as tailor confidentiality? 383 00:16:10,971 --> 00:16:11,972 [tailor] There is, of course. 384 00:16:12,055 --> 00:16:13,432 All right. I like it. 385 00:16:13,515 --> 00:16:15,142 I'm a little skeptical. 386 00:16:15,225 --> 00:16:17,894 He thinks he knows what he wants. 387 00:16:17,978 --> 00:16:19,396 -What's up, man? -What's up? 388 00:16:19,813 --> 00:16:21,064 Dude, can you believe it? [laughs] 389 00:16:21,148 --> 00:16:25,402 [Bardia] But he doesn't necessarily understand the gravity of the situation. 390 00:16:25,485 --> 00:16:28,196 I think he's not looking before he jumps off the skyscraper. 391 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:29,740 When I was your age, right, 392 00:16:30,615 --> 00:16:33,744 I wasn't looking to make emotional connections with people. 393 00:16:33,827 --> 00:16:36,872 It was more... I was in school, I was working, 394 00:16:36,955 --> 00:16:40,250 I was looking for a fun time, a good time, you know? 395 00:16:40,333 --> 00:16:41,418 It's so big, man. 396 00:16:41,501 --> 00:16:43,587 I knew coming in to this 397 00:16:43,670 --> 00:16:45,922 what the responsibility is of a married man, 398 00:16:46,006 --> 00:16:48,216 of the possibility that I could find someone, 399 00:16:48,383 --> 00:16:50,343 and marry and spend the rest of my life with them. 400 00:16:50,427 --> 00:16:52,596 I knew that, taking the leap of faith coming in here. 401 00:16:52,679 --> 00:16:54,222 And I didn't back down from it. 402 00:16:54,306 --> 00:16:57,184 And I found someone that I made an emotional connection 403 00:16:57,267 --> 00:17:00,812 that I've never made with any of my exes or girls that I've dated in the past, 404 00:17:00,896 --> 00:17:02,397 and now, again, 405 00:17:02,481 --> 00:17:04,608 I'm here in this process right now with Jessica, 406 00:17:04,691 --> 00:17:06,610 and I am still steadfast in what I believe in. 407 00:17:06,693 --> 00:17:09,571 So what Bardia sees is the age gap. 408 00:17:09,654 --> 00:17:12,699 A 34-year-old woman, successful where she's at in life, 409 00:17:12,783 --> 00:17:16,411 and a 24-year-old guy that's still figuring it out. 410 00:17:16,495 --> 00:17:18,163 What he's looking at is a societal thing 411 00:17:18,246 --> 00:17:20,332 as opposed to what I actually experienced. 412 00:17:20,415 --> 00:17:24,252 That emotional connection that I had with Jess was so real, 413 00:17:24,336 --> 00:17:26,254 I think that's really hard to grasp for some people, 414 00:17:26,338 --> 00:17:27,714 is how could this be true? 415 00:17:27,798 --> 00:17:30,842 In ten days, you just propose to somebody when you didn't even see them. 416 00:17:30,926 --> 00:17:32,260 Well, on the contrary, 417 00:17:32,344 --> 00:17:33,970 I think that I got to know them better 418 00:17:34,054 --> 00:17:35,097 than if I saw them first. 419 00:17:35,180 --> 00:17:37,557 I know you said you've never had 420 00:17:37,641 --> 00:17:39,267 an emotional connection like that with somebody. 421 00:17:39,351 --> 00:17:40,977 How does that affect your physical connection? 422 00:17:41,061 --> 00:17:43,021 I made that emotional connection with someone, 423 00:17:43,105 --> 00:17:44,648 and finally, you know, 424 00:17:44,731 --> 00:17:46,525 we pushed it and pushed it for so long 425 00:17:46,608 --> 00:17:48,110 till it happened, 426 00:17:48,193 --> 00:17:49,611 and that physical connection, 427 00:17:49,694 --> 00:17:50,695 I can honestly say, 428 00:17:51,238 --> 00:17:55,033 it was one of the most amazing experiences of my entire life. 429 00:17:55,992 --> 00:17:59,371 One night, I think our emotional connection took over 430 00:17:59,454 --> 00:18:01,581 and we made it into a physical connection. 431 00:18:01,665 --> 00:18:03,750 It was beautiful to see how both, 432 00:18:04,334 --> 00:18:06,044 just amazing... 433 00:18:06,128 --> 00:18:09,798 And that's why whatever Bardia's concerns are with me 434 00:18:09,881 --> 00:18:11,466 and what anyone's concerns are with me 435 00:18:11,550 --> 00:18:13,927 is that now that we have both tied in together, 436 00:18:14,010 --> 00:18:16,805 it's as if there's nothing that can stop us. 437 00:18:19,975 --> 00:18:21,852 Whoa. [laughs] 438 00:18:21,935 --> 00:18:23,770 [sighs deeply] 439 00:18:24,146 --> 00:18:26,690 -[dresser] What do you think? -[Jessica] This doesn't feel right. 440 00:18:27,732 --> 00:18:28,817 I don't know. 441 00:18:29,568 --> 00:18:32,404 This one doesn't feel right. It feels really pretty. [sniffles] 442 00:18:32,988 --> 00:18:34,322 It feels really pretty? 443 00:18:35,031 --> 00:18:37,242 I just don't know if I like it. I don't know if it feels right. 444 00:18:37,325 --> 00:18:38,827 I just feel like... [sighs] 445 00:18:40,203 --> 00:18:41,079 [sighs] 446 00:18:43,331 --> 00:18:44,624 [trembling sigh] 447 00:18:51,798 --> 00:18:53,008 [sighs deeply] 448 00:19:03,435 --> 00:19:06,855 -Okay. Second time. -[Lauren] I like that. 449 00:19:07,022 --> 00:19:08,023 [woman] Ooh! 450 00:19:08,106 --> 00:19:10,400 That's way better. 451 00:19:11,401 --> 00:19:12,903 -You don't like it? -Um... 452 00:19:14,571 --> 00:19:15,614 Uh... 453 00:19:16,781 --> 00:19:19,826 Yeah, so, like, this dress is doing things to me. 454 00:19:19,910 --> 00:19:20,785 Um... 455 00:19:22,078 --> 00:19:22,954 Yeah. 456 00:19:23,038 --> 00:19:25,165 It's gorgeous. Like, it's a forever dress. 457 00:19:26,249 --> 00:19:27,459 -Right? -[Giannina] Yeah. 458 00:19:30,712 --> 00:19:31,713 Yeah. 459 00:19:32,756 --> 00:19:34,466 Do you want to be in that dress? 460 00:19:35,508 --> 00:19:37,219 [trembling breaths] I don't know. 461 00:19:41,181 --> 00:19:43,058 Am I being true in this? 462 00:19:43,141 --> 00:19:46,519 Or am I being wishful thinking, or... 463 00:19:47,312 --> 00:19:48,396 Where am I at? 464 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:51,191 -[gasps] Still need time. I'm suffocating. -[Giannina] It's okay. 465 00:19:52,984 --> 00:19:54,486 [Jessica] Marriage, to me, is forever. 466 00:19:54,569 --> 00:19:59,741 There are just so many details for me for me that need to be ironed out 467 00:19:59,824 --> 00:20:03,119 before I can commit to being with someone 468 00:20:03,203 --> 00:20:04,788 for the rest of my life. 469 00:20:08,208 --> 00:20:09,334 [sighs] 470 00:20:11,419 --> 00:20:13,421 [upbeat pop music playing] 471 00:20:25,058 --> 00:20:26,184 [Barnett] What's up? 472 00:20:26,268 --> 00:20:28,353 [Jessica] Hi! How are you, birthday boy? 473 00:20:28,436 --> 00:20:29,479 [Barnett] Birthday boy? 474 00:20:29,562 --> 00:20:32,482 The last time I saw you, y'all made me drink whiskey. 475 00:20:32,565 --> 00:20:33,525 It wasn't my fault. Hey. 476 00:20:33,608 --> 00:20:35,694 -Oh, my gosh. How are you? -I'm good. 477 00:20:35,777 --> 00:20:38,655 I've decided I do want to talk to Barnett today. 478 00:20:38,738 --> 00:20:42,158 I cannot walk out of here after this entire experience 479 00:20:42,242 --> 00:20:45,495 with any regrets, with anything left unsaid. 480 00:20:45,578 --> 00:20:47,455 I cannot leave anything on the table. 481 00:20:47,539 --> 00:20:50,000 -How are things? -Good. Really good. 482 00:20:50,583 --> 00:20:51,459 Stressing out. 483 00:20:51,543 --> 00:20:54,838 Dude, if you would've asked me three weeks ago, I would've never guessed. 484 00:20:54,921 --> 00:20:56,131 -Really? -No offense. 485 00:20:56,506 --> 00:20:57,882 -Really? -Yeah. 486 00:20:57,966 --> 00:20:59,592 -When? Like, in... -Never. 487 00:21:00,135 --> 00:21:03,138 If I would've ever thought, like, you and Amber will be getting married, 488 00:21:03,221 --> 00:21:04,556 I would probably have never... 489 00:21:05,098 --> 00:21:05,974 Why? 490 00:21:06,057 --> 00:21:06,975 I don't know. 491 00:21:07,058 --> 00:21:10,020 I... Well, I pictured you so differently than reality. 492 00:21:11,688 --> 00:21:13,690 -Not in a bad way at all. -No, no, I got you. No. 493 00:21:13,773 --> 00:21:15,233 I think it's amazing. 494 00:21:15,317 --> 00:21:18,069 You guys are actually such a good match, and I realized that in Mexico. 495 00:21:18,153 --> 00:21:20,947 -I was actually saying that yesterday. -No. 496 00:21:21,031 --> 00:21:21,906 Um... 497 00:21:22,198 --> 00:21:24,242 -Oh, shit. That's amazing. -Yeah. 498 00:21:24,492 --> 00:21:25,577 [chuckles] 499 00:21:25,910 --> 00:21:27,120 -Good. -Yeah, so... 500 00:21:27,203 --> 00:21:29,831 It sounds like it's a good-- That's a good situation. 501 00:21:30,498 --> 00:21:32,584 -Anyway... -You're a good-- You're a good faker. 502 00:21:33,251 --> 00:21:34,377 -Just kidding. -All right, stop. 503 00:21:34,461 --> 00:21:36,880 -That's not a good thing to say. -No, don't say that. Okay. 504 00:21:36,963 --> 00:21:38,256 [both laughing] 505 00:21:39,299 --> 00:21:41,009 I know I was 100% about you at one point. 506 00:21:41,092 --> 00:21:42,802 But, like, I'm with Amber. 507 00:21:43,511 --> 00:21:45,096 And then the other day... 508 00:21:45,180 --> 00:21:47,432 I guess, whenever, my birthday, like, 509 00:21:47,849 --> 00:21:48,850 when we were talking, 510 00:21:48,933 --> 00:21:51,770 I guess it felt like, you know, 511 00:21:51,853 --> 00:21:55,357 you had regrets about us, maybe. 512 00:21:56,024 --> 00:21:57,192 When we were talking. 513 00:21:57,275 --> 00:21:58,485 -Really? -Yeah. 514 00:21:58,568 --> 00:22:00,945 That's how I-- That's what it felt like. 515 00:22:04,407 --> 00:22:05,367 Not to you. 516 00:22:05,450 --> 00:22:06,534 -Huh? -Not to you. 517 00:22:06,618 --> 00:22:07,660 I wasn't sure. 518 00:22:07,744 --> 00:22:09,079 -Really? -I wasn't sure. 519 00:22:09,162 --> 00:22:10,663 -Regrets about you? -Maybe. 520 00:22:10,747 --> 00:22:12,624 And I think that pissed Amber off a little, too. 521 00:22:13,416 --> 00:22:14,292 -Really? -Yeah. 522 00:22:14,376 --> 00:22:15,210 [exclaims] 523 00:22:16,169 --> 00:22:17,087 What? 524 00:22:17,170 --> 00:22:18,546 I'm mortified. 525 00:22:18,630 --> 00:22:21,674 How could he think I like him? Now she thinks I like him. 526 00:22:21,758 --> 00:22:22,675 This is very awkward. 527 00:22:22,759 --> 00:22:24,511 Oh, for sure. 528 00:22:24,886 --> 00:22:26,846 From her perspective, that's what she saw. 529 00:22:26,930 --> 00:22:30,058 So, I mean, I didn't know how to take it. 530 00:22:30,141 --> 00:22:31,643 -No. -It's okay, it's okay. 531 00:22:31,726 --> 00:22:32,936 -It was a weird night. -I'm so sorry it was... 532 00:22:33,019 --> 00:22:35,105 -Okay, okay, okay. -Sorry if I came across weird. 533 00:22:36,773 --> 00:22:38,650 I'm a loving, very overly loving person 534 00:22:38,733 --> 00:22:41,778 when I've had a little bit too much to drink, 535 00:22:41,861 --> 00:22:44,906 and I think that night, specifically, I gave him the wrong impression. 536 00:22:45,990 --> 00:22:48,034 And especially, like, seeing you with Amber, like... 537 00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:50,912 A thousand percent, like... 538 00:22:50,995 --> 00:22:54,791 She and I couldn't be any opposite type of people. 539 00:22:54,874 --> 00:22:56,292 -So, like... -I know. 540 00:22:56,668 --> 00:22:57,502 It's... 541 00:22:57,585 --> 00:23:00,338 -There's no way I could see it, like... -Okay. 542 00:23:00,422 --> 00:23:02,006 -So, I'm sorry. Okay. -No, you're-- 543 00:23:02,090 --> 00:23:04,717 -I should definitely chat with her. -It's my fault because... 544 00:23:04,801 --> 00:23:05,760 [Jessica] I should talk to her. 545 00:23:05,844 --> 00:23:08,138 That's kinda why I was like, "Could you see us together?" 546 00:23:08,221 --> 00:23:11,474 'Cause, like, it felt like you were regretting it. 547 00:23:11,558 --> 00:23:12,725 [chuckles] Uh... 548 00:23:12,809 --> 00:23:14,561 Not sure where to go with that, but... 549 00:23:15,937 --> 00:23:17,689 I'm so thrilled for you guys. 550 00:23:18,648 --> 00:23:21,192 I would not ever, ever... 551 00:23:22,026 --> 00:23:23,486 You're engaged! 552 00:23:24,070 --> 00:23:24,988 And I really don't-- 553 00:23:25,071 --> 00:23:27,323 I, I, really have never thought that one time. 554 00:23:27,949 --> 00:23:29,784 Like, the only thing I've ever thought was, 555 00:23:30,618 --> 00:23:32,203 "They're so great together. 556 00:23:32,287 --> 00:23:34,289 They seem like they're having a great time." 557 00:23:35,081 --> 00:23:37,167 You know, "I'm happy for him." That's it. 558 00:23:37,542 --> 00:23:38,418 Truly. 559 00:23:40,962 --> 00:23:43,256 Good. I mean, I'm sorry I assumed. 560 00:23:45,258 --> 00:23:48,511 [Jessica] Are you just, like, 1,000%, just like, "I'm doing this." 561 00:23:48,595 --> 00:23:50,555 Yeah. I'm pretty much 100%. 562 00:23:50,638 --> 00:23:53,224 So, I'm glad. I'm, I'm in a good place. 563 00:23:53,308 --> 00:23:54,642 -I like where I'm at, so... -Good. 564 00:23:55,143 --> 00:23:56,102 Cool. 565 00:23:57,228 --> 00:23:58,062 [sighs] 566 00:23:58,730 --> 00:24:00,607 At this point, I'm done with Barnett. 567 00:24:00,690 --> 00:24:03,151 I don't want to continue the interactions with him. 568 00:24:03,234 --> 00:24:04,694 Mark has been my rock, 569 00:24:04,777 --> 00:24:07,113 and I know that's the right relationship for me. 570 00:24:07,197 --> 00:24:09,407 It's just been hard for me to accept that. 571 00:24:09,491 --> 00:24:13,495 I have never been able to commit to taking a relationship forward, 572 00:24:13,870 --> 00:24:16,456 so I'm scared, to be completely honest. 573 00:24:26,382 --> 00:24:27,926 ["1, 2, 3 Turnaround" playing] 574 00:24:28,009 --> 00:24:31,554 ♪ Doo, doo, doo-doo doo-doo Doo, doo, doo-doo doo-doo ♪ 575 00:24:31,888 --> 00:24:33,431 ♪ Doo, doo, doo-doo doo-doo ♪ 576 00:24:33,556 --> 00:24:35,725 ♪ 1, 2, 3, turnaround ♪ 577 00:24:35,850 --> 00:24:38,061 ♪ Don't you watch me now Just turnaround ♪ 578 00:24:38,478 --> 00:24:40,855 ♪ Touch your knees, don't look Just turnaround ♪ 579 00:24:41,314 --> 00:24:43,900 ♪ Do it now Don't make me count to four ♪ 580 00:24:43,983 --> 00:24:45,693 ♪ 1, 2, 3, turnaround ♪ 581 00:24:45,818 --> 00:24:48,780 ♪ Watch yourself Why don't you turnaround ♪ 582 00:24:50,448 --> 00:24:52,742 ♪ Walk right through that door ♪ 583 00:24:52,825 --> 00:24:56,120 ♪ Doo, doo, doo-doo doo-doo Doo, doo, doo-doo doo-doo ♪ 584 00:24:56,246 --> 00:24:58,831 ♪ Who could it Please, don't look at me ♪ 585 00:24:58,998 --> 00:25:01,584 ♪ So obviously It makes me sweat ♪ 586 00:25:01,668 --> 00:25:04,254 ♪ Straight to my head I'm turning red ♪ 587 00:25:04,337 --> 00:25:07,048 ♪ 'Cause someone said So I'm upset ♪ 588 00:25:13,721 --> 00:25:15,723 [Giannina] Planning a wedding, yeah, it's stressful. 589 00:25:15,807 --> 00:25:16,849 We're super busy. 590 00:25:16,933 --> 00:25:19,394 So, I've been wanting to sit in a room together 591 00:25:19,477 --> 00:25:20,937 and talk things out together, 592 00:25:21,688 --> 00:25:23,231 Okay, so... 593 00:25:24,607 --> 00:25:25,900 You know how like we... 594 00:25:27,151 --> 00:25:28,069 Are you on your phone? 595 00:25:32,198 --> 00:25:33,366 See, I don't do that. 596 00:25:33,449 --> 00:25:34,284 We're in the gym, 597 00:25:34,367 --> 00:25:36,411 I was pausing my music 'cause it was still playing. 598 00:25:36,494 --> 00:25:39,664 G sees me on my phone for three seconds. She's like, "Please put your phone down. 599 00:25:39,747 --> 00:25:41,124 I'm trying to talk to you." 600 00:25:41,207 --> 00:25:43,459 But she's constantly on her phone, and I don't say anything. 601 00:25:43,543 --> 00:25:45,128 You're making a big deal, jumping to conclusions. 602 00:25:45,211 --> 00:25:46,045 You do it all the time. 603 00:25:46,129 --> 00:25:48,590 The problem is you're so consistent with it, you don't realize it. 604 00:25:48,673 --> 00:25:51,175 Yeah, I probably do it 'cause I literally work through my phone. 605 00:25:51,259 --> 00:25:52,176 You're on Instagram. 606 00:25:52,260 --> 00:25:55,138 You're on social media, and you're like this talking to me. 607 00:25:55,221 --> 00:25:56,806 I get alerts. People tell me, "Hey..." 608 00:25:56,889 --> 00:25:58,850 Know how many times I've posted since I've been back? 609 00:25:58,933 --> 00:26:00,643 -Not once. -I don't care. 610 00:26:00,727 --> 00:26:02,061 That's your life. 611 00:26:02,145 --> 00:26:03,730 -So, the thing is-- -[Giannina] That's your social media life. 612 00:26:03,813 --> 00:26:05,273 But you're making like I'm on my phone a lot. 613 00:26:05,356 --> 00:26:07,609 I'm on my phone this high of a percentage compared to you. 614 00:26:07,692 --> 00:26:10,903 So don't make it about social media when I go to check my phone to pause it. 615 00:26:10,987 --> 00:26:13,406 Being on my phone and being on social media 616 00:26:13,489 --> 00:26:14,949 are two completely different things. 617 00:26:15,033 --> 00:26:17,785 I'm on my phone a lot because I have to work through my phone. 618 00:26:17,869 --> 00:26:20,163 We're having a conversation and I had to repeat the same thing four times. 619 00:26:20,246 --> 00:26:24,459 You're like, "Sorry. Huh? Huh? I'm really sorry I was sidetracked." 620 00:26:24,542 --> 00:26:25,418 And you remember that. 621 00:26:25,501 --> 00:26:27,170 You did it three, four times in one conversation. 622 00:26:27,253 --> 00:26:29,672 -So... -This is such fucking bullshit. 623 00:26:31,132 --> 00:26:32,550 You think I want to argue with you? 624 00:26:32,634 --> 00:26:34,636 You bring them up, and then contradict it 'cause you do it. 625 00:26:34,719 --> 00:26:36,095 And if you want to bring up the... 626 00:26:36,179 --> 00:26:39,140 Do you have a problem with me posting on Instagram? 627 00:26:39,223 --> 00:26:40,767 Is there something you want to get out? 628 00:26:40,850 --> 00:26:43,311 -No, it's just-- -'Cause I told you I do shit on Instagram. 629 00:26:43,394 --> 00:26:45,688 That's my social, like, blogging platform. 630 00:26:45,772 --> 00:26:47,315 I know it's your blogging platform, 631 00:26:47,398 --> 00:26:50,151 but I'll message you, and you don't reply back for eight hours. 632 00:26:50,234 --> 00:26:52,487 You're like, "Sorry, my phone was turned off. I was busy." 633 00:26:52,570 --> 00:26:55,114 -And then-- -I called you in between your texts. 634 00:26:55,198 --> 00:26:56,491 I rather call than text. 635 00:26:56,574 --> 00:26:58,493 Yeah, and it was nine hours later, 636 00:26:58,785 --> 00:27:00,411 and you had posted on Instagram. 637 00:27:00,953 --> 00:27:02,330 Are you serious right now? 638 00:27:02,413 --> 00:27:03,831 This is literally wasting time. 639 00:27:03,915 --> 00:27:06,209 You make me an option, not a priority. 640 00:27:06,751 --> 00:27:08,086 And that's what it comes off as. 641 00:27:08,169 --> 00:27:09,629 I want you to live your best life, 642 00:27:09,712 --> 00:27:12,131 but you gotta have some respect for the other individual too. 643 00:27:12,215 --> 00:27:15,134 I don't want social media to be put before me in any case. 644 00:27:15,218 --> 00:27:16,969 Because I haven't done that to her. 645 00:27:17,887 --> 00:27:19,555 -[Giannina] Jesus! -Communication. 646 00:27:19,722 --> 00:27:20,932 [Giannina] Don't talk to me. 647 00:27:21,015 --> 00:27:23,101 -Don't talk to me. -[Damian] The door is locked down there. 648 00:27:23,184 --> 00:27:24,018 [Giannina] I don't care. 649 00:27:27,855 --> 00:27:28,898 [groans] 650 00:27:39,367 --> 00:27:41,160 -Oh, God! -[chuckles] 651 00:27:42,745 --> 00:27:44,163 -[Barnett] Hi. -[Amber] Hi. 652 00:27:44,664 --> 00:27:46,082 [Barnett] How the fuck was your day? 653 00:27:46,749 --> 00:27:47,750 I don't know. 654 00:27:48,501 --> 00:27:51,462 I have not been at work 655 00:27:51,546 --> 00:27:53,089 since this experiment ended. 656 00:27:53,423 --> 00:27:57,677 My days are pretty much centered around 657 00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:59,512 getting ready for the wedding. 658 00:28:00,263 --> 00:28:03,349 Barnett is working nonstop every day. 659 00:28:04,016 --> 00:28:06,144 You look like your day was wonderful. 660 00:28:06,769 --> 00:28:08,521 I don't know what she does all day. 661 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:10,565 I honestly don't know. 662 00:28:10,648 --> 00:28:12,400 Since she's not really working, 663 00:28:12,483 --> 00:28:13,943 she burned through a few-- 664 00:28:14,026 --> 00:28:16,612 A few shows on Netflix already, so... [chuckles] 665 00:28:16,821 --> 00:28:20,450 I may or may not have gone home and started working on my wedding list 666 00:28:20,533 --> 00:28:23,286 and called more people while I drank an entire bottle of red wine. 667 00:28:25,079 --> 00:28:26,330 Normal stuff to do. 668 00:28:26,414 --> 00:28:29,083 Everybody is like, "Oh, God. Does he know what he's in for?" 669 00:28:29,167 --> 00:28:30,460 -And I'm, like-- -I think I do. 670 00:28:30,543 --> 00:28:32,044 -I don't know. -I'm nervous. 671 00:28:32,128 --> 00:28:33,504 We're gonna find out. 672 00:28:33,796 --> 00:28:35,590 -I'm nervous. -[laughs] 673 00:28:36,340 --> 00:28:38,426 -[laughs] -Oh, God. 674 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:40,094 It sounds like you had a good day. 675 00:28:40,178 --> 00:28:42,138 I went to go get my dress fitted. 676 00:28:42,930 --> 00:28:44,891 Oh, it's gonna look so good, 677 00:28:44,974 --> 00:28:46,642 and then they gave me the prices. 678 00:28:51,314 --> 00:28:53,483 -That doesn't look good. -It's not good. 679 00:28:54,066 --> 00:28:55,067 It's not great. 680 00:28:55,777 --> 00:28:56,694 So... 681 00:28:57,737 --> 00:29:00,323 the alterations themselves are $850, 682 00:29:00,406 --> 00:29:04,076 which puts me at least, like, $400 over budget. 683 00:29:06,454 --> 00:29:09,665 I've always pictured my marriage in the future 684 00:29:10,166 --> 00:29:11,834 to be really secure. 685 00:29:12,877 --> 00:29:14,754 I would love to be a stay-at-home mom. 686 00:29:14,837 --> 00:29:17,173 I hope Barnett can take care of me. 687 00:29:17,715 --> 00:29:20,134 Honestly, I have so much to do. I have to pick out a cake, still. 688 00:29:21,010 --> 00:29:23,346 I have to order my bridesmaids dresses. 689 00:29:23,429 --> 00:29:24,639 I have them picked out. 690 00:29:24,722 --> 00:29:27,141 I do want real flowers. They don't have to be expensive. 691 00:29:27,225 --> 00:29:28,601 I want my bouquet to be nice, 692 00:29:28,684 --> 00:29:31,020 because obviously I'm going to be the center of attention 693 00:29:31,103 --> 00:29:32,772 on our wedding day, duh. 694 00:29:32,855 --> 00:29:34,482 I want everything to look really good. 695 00:29:35,191 --> 00:29:36,818 My mom has already done so much for me, 696 00:29:36,901 --> 00:29:41,239 I feel like it would be unfair to ask her to pay for my wedding. 697 00:29:41,697 --> 00:29:44,408 Like, I want to make sure we can manage this ourselves. 698 00:29:45,159 --> 00:29:46,619 [Barnett] Let's see how this ends up. 699 00:29:47,245 --> 00:29:49,789 I don't want to ever have financial issues. 700 00:29:50,206 --> 00:29:54,836 Amber's at a place right now where she's struggling financially. 701 00:29:54,919 --> 00:29:56,128 I mean, I'm worried about it. 702 00:29:56,212 --> 00:29:58,589 I have to support a wedding, a family. 703 00:29:58,673 --> 00:30:00,716 I have to support the house, I have to do all this. 704 00:30:01,884 --> 00:30:03,135 It's a lot of pressure. 705 00:30:09,892 --> 00:30:11,894 [upbeat pop music playing] 706 00:30:20,403 --> 00:30:22,363 [Cameron] You want to help me with this guest list? 707 00:30:22,780 --> 00:30:24,657 [Lauren] Ooh! Wedding stuff. 708 00:30:24,740 --> 00:30:26,242 -[Cameron laughs] -[Lauren] Sure. 709 00:30:26,325 --> 00:30:27,577 -Let's do it. -Yeah? 710 00:30:27,660 --> 00:30:31,455 I've got really most of my guests already filled out. 711 00:30:31,539 --> 00:30:32,707 -Do you? -Yeah. 712 00:30:32,790 --> 00:30:35,293 All right. As for my guests... 713 00:30:37,712 --> 00:30:39,714 Mm... Okay. 714 00:30:39,797 --> 00:30:43,301 I still have a lot of family and friends to tell. 715 00:30:43,384 --> 00:30:44,260 -Yeah? -Like... 716 00:30:44,343 --> 00:30:48,014 You know, I haven't told everyone to be honest. 717 00:30:48,097 --> 00:30:50,099 -Why do you think... -I haven't? 718 00:30:50,182 --> 00:30:51,559 Yeah. Why do you think you haven't? 719 00:30:51,642 --> 00:30:54,562 I just don't like explaining myself to people, 720 00:30:54,645 --> 00:30:56,314 and then them judging, and being, like, 721 00:30:56,397 --> 00:30:57,732 "Oh! Well, why?" 722 00:30:57,815 --> 00:31:00,276 -I don't feel like going through that. -Yeah. 723 00:31:01,193 --> 00:31:02,028 Yeah. 724 00:31:02,111 --> 00:31:06,198 Not that I don't want to tell people about your wonderful self 725 00:31:06,282 --> 00:31:08,326 and how awesome you are, but I just... 726 00:31:08,409 --> 00:31:12,121 Like, you know, "Yeah, this is supposed to be fun and exciting," 727 00:31:12,204 --> 00:31:13,789 and, you know, it is. 728 00:31:14,332 --> 00:31:16,918 -You know, to a degree, but I just feel-- -[laughs] 729 00:31:17,001 --> 00:31:18,336 I just feel stressed. 730 00:31:18,419 --> 00:31:20,588 -Like, you know? So... -Yeah. 731 00:31:20,671 --> 00:31:24,216 Yeah. I mean, I don't think for any wedding 732 00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:27,261 it's all fun and laughter. 733 00:31:27,345 --> 00:31:28,846 Yeah, exactly. 734 00:31:28,930 --> 00:31:31,766 I feel a huge sense of relief 735 00:31:31,849 --> 00:31:33,768 now that Cameron has met my dad. 736 00:31:33,851 --> 00:31:36,812 But now that I have the opportunity 737 00:31:36,896 --> 00:31:38,689 to marry this wonderful man 738 00:31:38,773 --> 00:31:40,858 and have a partnership, a partner in life 739 00:31:40,942 --> 00:31:42,777 that wants it to be "us" and "we," 740 00:31:42,860 --> 00:31:44,987 and "I'm here to help you and support you," it's like, 741 00:31:45,071 --> 00:31:48,032 "Why are you scared, Lauren? What are you fighting?" 742 00:31:48,115 --> 00:31:49,742 I don't know. I... 743 00:31:51,953 --> 00:31:57,041 Maybe I'm, like, afraid of some type of disappointment, like, in the past, 744 00:31:57,124 --> 00:32:00,169 I know, but I can't project that onto Cameron. 745 00:32:00,252 --> 00:32:01,337 That's not fair. 746 00:32:02,380 --> 00:32:06,258 The invitations just make everything like, 747 00:32:06,342 --> 00:32:08,928 you know, it's no turning back now. [laughs] 748 00:32:09,553 --> 00:32:12,056 -Yeah. -Not that I, you know... 749 00:32:12,473 --> 00:32:13,808 But it's just like... 750 00:32:15,351 --> 00:32:19,021 Now people are going to be here in the seats, 751 00:32:19,522 --> 00:32:21,565 and, you know, what are you going to do? 752 00:32:22,525 --> 00:32:23,442 So is it-- 753 00:32:23,526 --> 00:32:28,030 Is it a fear of it's going to be an unsuccessful marriage, I guess? 754 00:32:28,114 --> 00:32:28,990 No. 755 00:32:30,116 --> 00:32:33,953 Not really, just because nobody goes into a marriage 756 00:32:34,036 --> 00:32:35,371 planning on getting divorced. 757 00:32:35,454 --> 00:32:36,288 [Cameron] Sure. 758 00:32:36,372 --> 00:32:39,291 I mean, my parents are divorced, your parents are still married. 759 00:32:39,375 --> 00:32:42,962 But my parents were married for 17 years before they got divorced. 760 00:32:43,045 --> 00:32:45,798 -[Cameron] Right. -So you've seen the happy ending. 761 00:32:45,881 --> 00:32:47,258 I really haven't. 762 00:32:47,925 --> 00:32:48,759 It's like... 763 00:32:49,176 --> 00:32:50,136 It's pressure. 764 00:32:50,678 --> 00:32:51,637 I know. 765 00:32:55,016 --> 00:32:58,060 I'm just trying to get to the root 766 00:32:58,144 --> 00:32:59,979 of your fears about all this. 767 00:33:00,062 --> 00:33:03,190 Every fear and phobia and thought 768 00:33:03,858 --> 00:33:07,737 to try to sabotage whatever this is 769 00:33:07,820 --> 00:33:09,363 is, is flooding in my head. 770 00:33:10,114 --> 00:33:12,408 So I've been fighting that this whole process. 771 00:33:14,201 --> 00:33:15,703 You know, I'm just... 772 00:33:16,328 --> 00:33:17,955 trying to follow my heart. 773 00:33:19,999 --> 00:33:21,751 -So, how are you feeling? -Yeah. 774 00:33:21,834 --> 00:33:23,878 Still no doubts? Ready to do this? 775 00:33:23,961 --> 00:33:25,629 Get married? Walk down the aisle? 776 00:33:25,713 --> 00:33:27,048 You're not scared or anything? 777 00:33:27,798 --> 00:33:29,175 No, I'm good. 778 00:33:29,258 --> 00:33:31,510 You know, it makes me a bit nervous 779 00:33:31,594 --> 00:33:33,721 to see Lauren's reservations 780 00:33:33,804 --> 00:33:35,890 about our wedding. 781 00:33:35,973 --> 00:33:37,850 It gets me thinking maybe... 782 00:33:39,310 --> 00:33:42,146 she's less set on it than I am. 783 00:33:43,147 --> 00:33:44,190 [sighs] 784 00:33:45,066 --> 00:33:47,651 I just want us to be on the same page about this wedding. 785 00:33:48,486 --> 00:33:51,363 I mean, honestly, I'm excited for you to be my wife. 786 00:33:51,447 --> 00:33:52,656 I don't really want to wait. 787 00:33:54,241 --> 00:33:56,077 Are we really about to do this? 788 00:33:56,535 --> 00:33:57,912 Yeah, we're about to do it. 789 00:33:58,370 --> 00:34:00,039 Oh, my God. We're crazy. 790 00:34:00,623 --> 00:34:01,791 Not that crazy. 791 00:34:03,125 --> 00:34:05,002 But you only live once, right? 792 00:34:18,015 --> 00:34:19,517 ["Make Tonight" playing] 793 00:34:19,850 --> 00:34:21,852 ♪ Make tonight ♪ 794 00:34:22,353 --> 00:34:23,896 ♪ Make tonight ♪ 795 00:34:24,563 --> 00:34:26,023 ♪ Something beautiful ♪ 796 00:34:26,107 --> 00:34:28,109 ♪ We both know it's all right ♪ 797 00:34:28,818 --> 00:34:31,779 [Mark] Tonight, I have something special set up for Jessica. 798 00:34:31,862 --> 00:34:34,156 We're starting to feel the reality of everything, 799 00:34:34,240 --> 00:34:35,658 and everything coming on top of us, 800 00:34:35,741 --> 00:34:38,577 and all these different, you know, voices in our heads, 801 00:34:38,661 --> 00:34:40,788 and I think we need to go back to where we started 802 00:34:40,871 --> 00:34:43,582 and see why we connected in the first place. 803 00:34:43,666 --> 00:34:46,627 [Jessica] Oh, cute. It's a little picnic. 804 00:34:46,710 --> 00:34:48,712 And my favorite wine. 805 00:34:48,796 --> 00:34:49,839 Why are there--? 806 00:34:49,922 --> 00:34:52,508 Wait, why is there one meal in here and one in there? 807 00:34:52,591 --> 00:34:53,801 I just feel, I don't know, 808 00:34:53,884 --> 00:34:55,928 just where we're at, kinda going back to the pod 809 00:34:56,011 --> 00:34:57,388 -where it kinda started. -Yeah. 810 00:34:57,471 --> 00:34:59,515 This is amazing! 811 00:34:59,598 --> 00:35:01,142 This is so cool. 812 00:35:01,225 --> 00:35:02,351 Thank you. 813 00:35:04,478 --> 00:35:07,857 I have been struggling internally about my relationship with Mark. 814 00:35:07,940 --> 00:35:10,818 He knew that I had taken steps back since the pod, 815 00:35:10,901 --> 00:35:13,154 and, you know, for him to be accepting of that 816 00:35:13,237 --> 00:35:17,616 and also be so thoughtful to put this date together is everything. 817 00:35:17,700 --> 00:35:19,410 -Cheers. -Cheers. 818 00:35:21,662 --> 00:35:24,248 To a very cute and thoughtful date. 819 00:35:24,331 --> 00:35:27,793 Red wine, perfectly-cooked amazing steak, 820 00:35:28,210 --> 00:35:30,129 and the pod, which is like my comfort. 821 00:35:31,130 --> 00:35:33,883 Going through, day to day, you tend to just keep it even keel. 822 00:35:33,966 --> 00:35:38,220 Something about being in this pod-like scenario 823 00:35:38,304 --> 00:35:39,805 brings down the walls, 824 00:35:40,723 --> 00:35:43,434 and you just open up. 825 00:35:43,851 --> 00:35:46,103 When I was born, 826 00:35:46,187 --> 00:35:47,229 my mom was-- 827 00:35:47,313 --> 00:35:48,981 She just turned 20, actually, 828 00:35:49,064 --> 00:35:51,233 and she was a virgin until she was married. 829 00:35:51,650 --> 00:35:54,612 She met this guy. He was, like, 23. 830 00:35:55,946 --> 00:35:57,615 And they decided to get married. 831 00:35:58,199 --> 00:35:59,700 So then she got pregnant, 832 00:36:01,076 --> 00:36:02,161 and... 833 00:36:03,537 --> 00:36:05,915 their marriage obviously was not good. 834 00:36:05,998 --> 00:36:08,334 You would think that a couple that was married 835 00:36:09,043 --> 00:36:12,296 would be excited about having a baby, 836 00:36:12,379 --> 00:36:13,839 but apparently he was not. 837 00:36:13,923 --> 00:36:15,883 So he wanted her to have an abortion 838 00:36:16,258 --> 00:36:17,885 and she refused to do that. 839 00:36:17,968 --> 00:36:21,931 So, he said he didn't really want to hang around for it. 840 00:36:22,348 --> 00:36:23,182 Damn. 841 00:36:23,974 --> 00:36:25,059 [sighs deeply] 842 00:36:25,142 --> 00:36:26,435 ["We Could Cry" playing] 843 00:36:26,518 --> 00:36:27,645 [sobs] 844 00:36:27,728 --> 00:36:30,731 ♪ Tears roll Come wash it away ♪ 845 00:36:31,315 --> 00:36:32,441 I'm here, babe. 846 00:36:33,234 --> 00:36:34,109 [sniffles] 847 00:36:34,193 --> 00:36:38,405 ♪ Come wash it away So I can let it go ♪ 848 00:36:38,489 --> 00:36:40,991 [Jessica] I definitely have abandonment and detachment issues. 849 00:36:41,450 --> 00:36:43,285 Just always knowing that... 850 00:36:44,495 --> 00:36:46,455 there was someone from the beginning 851 00:36:46,538 --> 00:36:49,166 that didn't take an interest in my life, 852 00:36:49,250 --> 00:36:50,668 I think that stayed with me. 853 00:36:51,335 --> 00:36:54,880 ♪ We could cry We could cry for our yesterday ♪ 854 00:36:54,964 --> 00:36:57,341 ♪ We won’t give up We won’t give up ♪ 855 00:36:58,550 --> 00:37:00,552 [breathes deeply] 856 00:37:02,429 --> 00:37:05,808 [crying] But the happy ending is my mom met my dad. 857 00:37:05,891 --> 00:37:08,519 I don't call him, like, a stepdad or anything like that 858 00:37:08,602 --> 00:37:09,979 because we're that close. 859 00:37:10,062 --> 00:37:11,313 [sniffling] 860 00:37:11,397 --> 00:37:14,650 He adopted me when I was four. [sniffles] 861 00:37:16,026 --> 00:37:19,321 And, like, he stayed my whole life. 862 00:37:20,823 --> 00:37:22,825 [Mark] Wow. What you've told me tonight, 863 00:37:22,908 --> 00:37:26,203 I'm, I'm thankful and I'm blessed to have the opportunity 864 00:37:26,287 --> 00:37:27,871 to be able to sit here 865 00:37:27,955 --> 00:37:29,665 and even talk to you remotely 866 00:37:29,748 --> 00:37:31,583 about your story and where you come from. 867 00:37:31,667 --> 00:37:33,961 You have no idea the amount of respect I have for you, 868 00:37:34,044 --> 00:37:36,422 on top of the amount of love I have for you, 869 00:37:36,505 --> 00:37:39,758 and tonight kind of, I don't know, just reiterates, like, 870 00:37:39,842 --> 00:37:42,845 why I fell for you in the first place. 871 00:37:42,928 --> 00:37:44,555 I'm definitely on the same page. 872 00:37:44,638 --> 00:37:47,891 You know, I feel much more closer to you right now then I have. 873 00:37:48,809 --> 00:37:52,021 You embody everything that I've ever wanted, 874 00:37:52,104 --> 00:37:53,772 and I realized that tonight. 875 00:37:54,148 --> 00:37:55,107 I love you, babe. 876 00:37:55,774 --> 00:37:56,775 Loves ya. 877 00:37:57,693 --> 00:38:00,696 Realizing the impact of this date, 878 00:38:01,697 --> 00:38:06,827 I believe that if we hold on to this core value and this core foundation, 879 00:38:06,910 --> 00:38:08,912 we can last a lifetime. 880 00:38:18,213 --> 00:38:20,674 [indistinct chattering] 881 00:38:23,510 --> 00:38:24,970 Do you want anything to drink? 882 00:38:25,054 --> 00:38:26,597 -Yeah, I'll take something to... -Yeah? 883 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:27,514 [chuckles] 884 00:38:27,598 --> 00:38:29,767 [Giannina] So, the Georgia peach martini. Thank you. 885 00:38:29,850 --> 00:38:32,895 Giannina, like, she has been testing me. 886 00:38:32,978 --> 00:38:34,396 Can you handle all these sides of me? 887 00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:36,357 Emotionally, she's not the same girl 888 00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:38,901 she was when I was dating her in the pods. 889 00:38:38,984 --> 00:38:41,862 I wasn't worried about arguments or coming here and fighting, 890 00:38:41,945 --> 00:38:43,197 and when we stepped out of there, 891 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:45,240 it's like I saw somebody completely different. 892 00:38:45,324 --> 00:38:47,868 You keep getting upset over every little thing I do, 893 00:38:48,243 --> 00:38:50,329 whether it's good or bad, right? 894 00:38:50,412 --> 00:38:53,540 And blowups and arguments, you just get up and jet. 895 00:38:53,624 --> 00:38:55,918 And I understand that's you saying, 896 00:38:56,377 --> 00:38:57,961 "That's me, that's what I do." 897 00:38:58,170 --> 00:39:01,715 But some days, I feel like I'm dragged along. 898 00:39:01,799 --> 00:39:05,094 Like I am a toy, a game, a pawn 899 00:39:05,177 --> 00:39:07,471 in something that I don't understand. 900 00:39:08,305 --> 00:39:10,349 I feel like something's missing now. 901 00:39:12,768 --> 00:39:15,896 This wasn't the girl I saw in the pods, the girl I fell in love with in the pods. 902 00:39:15,979 --> 00:39:17,481 I mean, we developed something there, 903 00:39:17,564 --> 00:39:19,566 and since we've gotten back... 904 00:39:19,942 --> 00:39:22,820 [dramatic music crescendos] 905 00:39:22,903 --> 00:39:24,988 -[Damian] Like, seriously? -[Giannina] Oh. 906 00:39:27,032 --> 00:39:30,327 The social media, the texting and stuff like that, 907 00:39:30,411 --> 00:39:31,495 it can become overwhelming. 908 00:39:33,580 --> 00:39:36,250 I don't think I've posted one thing on Snapchat since I've been back. 909 00:39:36,333 --> 00:39:38,961 I haven't posted anything on Instagram. I haven't been on Facebook. 910 00:39:39,044 --> 00:39:41,588 It was because it was things you and I talked about in the pods. 911 00:39:41,672 --> 00:39:44,341 You're like, "It's so refreshing just to be away from all of it." 912 00:39:44,425 --> 00:39:47,177 But it seems like you get so wrapped up in it sometimes, 913 00:39:47,261 --> 00:39:49,513 you forget everything we went through. 914 00:39:50,973 --> 00:39:53,475 I want the pieces of us that were in the pods to come back out. 915 00:39:53,559 --> 00:39:55,978 It's the piece of you that I fell in love with in the pods. 916 00:39:56,061 --> 00:39:58,689 You were emotional, you let me in, I let you in. 917 00:39:59,189 --> 00:40:00,899 But since we've gotten back, 918 00:40:00,983 --> 00:40:03,235 and the day we get our phones back, you're like, boom. 919 00:40:03,318 --> 00:40:04,445 You lose sight of that. 920 00:40:04,528 --> 00:40:05,988 I want it with G so bad, 921 00:40:06,071 --> 00:40:08,323 but it's got to reciprocate on both ends, 922 00:40:08,407 --> 00:40:10,117 and I can't have a successful marriage 923 00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:11,618 if my partner's not all-in. 924 00:40:12,870 --> 00:40:16,081 We keep things the way they've been going, and you will lose me. 925 00:40:19,918 --> 00:40:21,044 You will lose me. 926 00:40:22,379 --> 00:40:23,589 I don't want that. 927 00:40:24,214 --> 00:40:25,591 Love's not supposed to be easy, 928 00:40:25,674 --> 00:40:27,092 but you're not making this easy. 929 00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:32,347 And if you care about me in the littlest bit, you will try. 930 00:40:32,431 --> 00:40:34,391 'Cause I'm trying, G. 931 00:40:35,100 --> 00:40:36,185 I am trying. 932 00:40:36,852 --> 00:40:38,228 And I'm so sorry. 933 00:40:39,605 --> 00:40:41,273 As much as you're sorry, 934 00:40:41,356 --> 00:40:42,608 I'm sorry too. 935 00:40:43,567 --> 00:40:45,194 'Cause I haven't been true to myself. 936 00:40:45,277 --> 00:40:47,821 I've become submissive because I'm scared I'm gonna upset you 937 00:40:47,905 --> 00:40:49,156 until where I'm gonna lose you. 938 00:40:49,531 --> 00:40:50,949 And I'm gonna change that. 939 00:40:51,783 --> 00:40:54,703 I don't want you to be afraid to tell me, 940 00:40:55,204 --> 00:40:57,789 like, "I don't agree with this." 941 00:40:57,873 --> 00:41:00,375 Okay, well, another pet peeve of mine, real quick, 942 00:41:00,459 --> 00:41:02,002 is you saying G.D. all the time. 943 00:41:02,586 --> 00:41:03,795 I hate that. 944 00:41:03,879 --> 00:41:06,256 I haven't stood up to it because I was trying to let you be you. 945 00:41:06,340 --> 00:41:07,549 Oh, my God-- 946 00:41:07,633 --> 00:41:09,593 Even if I say "Oh, my God," is that still a thing? 947 00:41:09,676 --> 00:41:11,887 -No, that doesn't bother me. -Really? 948 00:41:11,970 --> 00:41:14,681 And I don't say it to you because I'm just trying to, like, 949 00:41:14,765 --> 00:41:16,433 not add another thing to our problems. 950 00:41:16,517 --> 00:41:18,685 -While we're getting everything out... -Yeah, tell me everything. 951 00:41:19,061 --> 00:41:21,188 Politics can be an issue in family, friends. 952 00:41:21,271 --> 00:41:23,065 You think politics will be an issue? 953 00:41:23,148 --> 00:41:23,982 You... 954 00:41:24,858 --> 00:41:26,485 are very opinionated. 955 00:41:26,568 --> 00:41:29,112 -If I'm asked questions about it. -Yeah, I understand. Yeah. 956 00:41:29,363 --> 00:41:31,657 And I do have my own political opinions. 957 00:41:31,740 --> 00:41:34,034 But I'm not going to be like, "That's wrong." 958 00:41:34,117 --> 00:41:38,288 As long as I'm not being imposed on, like, about political beliefs... 959 00:41:38,372 --> 00:41:39,748 Because those will not change. 960 00:41:39,831 --> 00:41:42,292 You don't think they'll ever change, in any aspect at all? 961 00:41:42,668 --> 00:41:44,253 No, those will never change. 962 00:41:45,671 --> 00:41:47,172 I'm from Venezuela. 963 00:41:47,631 --> 00:41:49,591 My country is in shambles. 964 00:41:49,675 --> 00:41:51,426 Literally. My family cannot eat. 965 00:41:51,510 --> 00:41:54,972 I have to send them supplies every single month 966 00:41:55,055 --> 00:41:58,433 just so that they can wash their hands, 967 00:41:59,101 --> 00:42:02,020 or make breakfast, or feed the dog. 968 00:42:02,604 --> 00:42:03,647 They don't have anything. 969 00:42:03,730 --> 00:42:05,816 That's something you haven't expressed to me before. 970 00:42:05,899 --> 00:42:07,109 That's another thing I just learned. 971 00:42:07,192 --> 00:42:09,570 I didn't know you sent care packages to your family monthly. 972 00:42:09,653 --> 00:42:12,781 That's something that I think is very sweet and very sincere. 973 00:42:12,948 --> 00:42:14,157 I would help you with that. 974 00:42:14,241 --> 00:42:18,203 If it's important to you, like, I make it important and a priority to me. 975 00:42:18,787 --> 00:42:19,871 -Right. -Right? 976 00:42:19,955 --> 00:42:23,000 That's something you're passionate about, then I'll help you with it. 977 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:26,003 [sighs] 978 00:42:28,338 --> 00:42:30,299 This is why I fell in love with you. 979 00:42:35,679 --> 00:42:39,099 I would like to make my fiancé feel loved by... 980 00:42:40,267 --> 00:42:41,310 [sighs, chuckles] 981 00:42:41,476 --> 00:42:44,187 ...not putting him through my roller coaster of emotions. 982 00:42:45,063 --> 00:42:47,983 I don't feel like I deserve him, but I'm gonna earn him... 983 00:42:48,442 --> 00:42:49,484 again. 984 00:42:51,820 --> 00:42:52,863 I did it once. 985 00:42:55,324 --> 00:42:56,491 Wow. 986 00:43:05,208 --> 00:43:06,501 [upbeat pop music playing] 987 00:43:06,585 --> 00:43:08,920 ♪ Can you feel the love love love ♪ 988 00:43:09,755 --> 00:43:13,342 ♪ Can you feel the heat heat heat ♪ 989 00:43:16,637 --> 00:43:17,638 [Kelly] Mm. 990 00:43:19,890 --> 00:43:21,475 -[Kenny] How you doing? -[Kelly] I'm good. 991 00:43:21,558 --> 00:43:23,018 -[Kenny] Yeah? -[Kelly] Yeah. 992 00:43:23,852 --> 00:43:25,771 -[laughs] -That feels good. 993 00:43:27,356 --> 00:43:29,066 -[Kelly] Yeah? -[Kenny] You want to play footsies? 994 00:43:29,149 --> 00:43:30,192 [Kelly] Yeah. 995 00:43:30,609 --> 00:43:34,112 I think it's nice that we're just getting to know each other, you know. 996 00:43:34,279 --> 00:43:36,573 -Well... -[Kelly] I like hanging out. 997 00:43:36,990 --> 00:43:39,368 [Kenny] We were able to make this commitment to each other, 998 00:43:39,451 --> 00:43:42,204 and then we haven't, you know, had sex yet. 999 00:43:43,747 --> 00:43:44,581 So... 1000 00:43:45,248 --> 00:43:46,750 I know how I feel about it. 1001 00:43:46,833 --> 00:43:48,502 Like, how do you feel about it? 1002 00:43:49,127 --> 00:43:53,382 -We are just so perfect on every level. -Right. 1003 00:43:53,465 --> 00:43:55,676 And I just don't want to throw that in the mix just yet. 1004 00:43:55,759 --> 00:43:56,593 Yeah. 1005 00:43:56,677 --> 00:43:59,221 Just jumping in and having sex too early 1006 00:43:59,596 --> 00:44:01,056 in a former relationship, 1007 00:44:01,139 --> 00:44:02,474 from a sexual standpoint, 1008 00:44:02,557 --> 00:44:04,142 I wasn't able to open up. 1009 00:44:04,226 --> 00:44:08,021 And that negatively affected things because... 1010 00:44:09,523 --> 00:44:11,024 he wasn't able to... 1011 00:44:12,359 --> 00:44:15,112 pleasure me the way that I wanted to be, 1012 00:44:15,195 --> 00:44:17,447 because I wasn't emotionally connected to him. 1013 00:44:17,531 --> 00:44:18,365 [Kenny] Yeah. 1014 00:44:20,242 --> 00:44:22,244 I mean, to be totally transparent, 1015 00:44:22,327 --> 00:44:25,664 I just have had issues in the past with... 1016 00:44:26,456 --> 00:44:27,374 having an orgasm, 1017 00:44:27,457 --> 00:44:32,212 so I would fear that that would not happen, 1018 00:44:32,838 --> 00:44:35,340 and it would be... could be frustrating for both of us. 1019 00:44:35,424 --> 00:44:37,718 I'm attracted to Kenny physically. 1020 00:44:37,801 --> 00:44:40,595 I'm attracted to him mentally, emotionally, like... 1021 00:44:41,555 --> 00:44:43,724 But I don't know what that disconnect is. 1022 00:44:44,307 --> 00:44:46,435 It's like the bonds are so strong, 1023 00:44:47,060 --> 00:44:49,980 and why I can't feel that infatuation with him. 1024 00:44:50,397 --> 00:44:54,401 In past relationships, I think that that was a lot of the missing factor 1025 00:44:54,943 --> 00:44:58,530 with why I can't necessarily reach climax. 1026 00:44:58,613 --> 00:45:01,116 -If we were to start having sex, like-- -Right now? 1027 00:45:01,199 --> 00:45:02,784 Yeah, right now. 1028 00:45:04,119 --> 00:45:05,412 -Don't get any ideas. -Okay. 1029 00:45:05,787 --> 00:45:08,665 No, I mean, I want to experience 1030 00:45:09,541 --> 00:45:13,253 a very powerful, energetic intimate moment with you. 1031 00:45:13,795 --> 00:45:16,339 'Cause we already have such a powerful, energetic relationship. 1032 00:45:17,841 --> 00:45:18,925 [Kenny] It is uncomfortable 1033 00:45:19,009 --> 00:45:22,345 'cause I've never really actually talked to a woman 1034 00:45:22,429 --> 00:45:24,139 about those level of details. 1035 00:45:24,222 --> 00:45:26,808 And that's not to say that something's wrong with her. 1036 00:45:26,892 --> 00:45:31,146 It's just maybe she hasn't connected emotionally at all in past relationships. 1037 00:45:31,229 --> 00:45:33,190 I'm very confident. I guess some people would say, 1038 00:45:33,273 --> 00:45:34,775 "Here's a challenge," right? 1039 00:45:34,858 --> 00:45:36,818 Here's something that I can do that no one else has done. 1040 00:45:37,527 --> 00:45:39,446 So, hopefully, we can get to that point. 1041 00:45:39,529 --> 00:45:41,156 I know that she loves me, 1042 00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:43,283 and she knows that I love and care about her. 1043 00:45:43,366 --> 00:45:47,078 It's important, as a couple, to talk about those things. 1044 00:45:47,162 --> 00:45:49,831 Correct. Again, it's not like a forever thing. 1045 00:45:49,915 --> 00:45:52,375 -It's just a momentary thing, right? -Yeah. 1046 00:45:53,210 --> 00:45:54,211 -I get it. -Yeah. 1047 00:45:54,419 --> 00:45:55,337 -I get it. -Yeah. 1048 00:45:55,796 --> 00:45:57,631 I'm not gonna pressure you into anything. 1049 00:45:57,714 --> 00:45:58,632 Mm-hmm. 1050 00:45:58,757 --> 00:46:02,177 But, you know, when our time's right, our time's right. 1051 00:46:03,136 --> 00:46:05,180 -[laughs] -Let's have fun. 1052 00:46:06,181 --> 00:46:07,349 Let's keep having fun. 1053 00:46:16,316 --> 00:46:19,069 -Tiffany! -[Tiffany] Hey, girl! 1054 00:46:19,402 --> 00:46:21,780 -I miss you! -I missed you. 1055 00:46:21,863 --> 00:46:24,199 -[Tiffany] I haven't seen you since... -[Lauren] I know. 1056 00:46:24,282 --> 00:46:25,784 How's everything been? 1057 00:46:25,867 --> 00:46:28,328 -[Tiffany] We have so much to catch up on. -[Lauren] I know. 1058 00:46:28,411 --> 00:46:31,248 I know I look crazy, girl. I just left the dentist 1059 00:46:31,331 --> 00:46:33,416 I just had, like, a root canal, 1060 00:46:33,792 --> 00:46:36,294 so my mouth is kinda swole. 1061 00:46:36,378 --> 00:46:38,004 So that's why I look kinda bummy. 1062 00:46:38,088 --> 00:46:40,090 Well, hopefully, your mouth gets better. 1063 00:46:40,173 --> 00:46:41,925 I know. [laughs] 1064 00:46:42,008 --> 00:46:45,512 I'm excited to talk to a real friend just about everything, 1065 00:46:45,595 --> 00:46:47,264 and kind of dump on her for a little while 1066 00:46:47,347 --> 00:46:50,976 about everything that's been going on in my engagement. 1067 00:46:51,393 --> 00:46:56,356 I am nervous to how she's going to react 'cause I know Tiffany does not hold back. 1068 00:46:56,439 --> 00:46:57,607 She will tell me all the truth 1069 00:46:57,691 --> 00:46:59,276 and be very honest with me. 1070 00:46:59,359 --> 00:47:01,111 That's why she's one of my best friends. 1071 00:47:01,611 --> 00:47:03,154 So, what's been up? 1072 00:47:03,238 --> 00:47:04,865 So, I know that I told you 1073 00:47:04,948 --> 00:47:07,492 I was doing this, uh, dating experiment. 1074 00:47:07,576 --> 00:47:09,286 Okay. Like... 1075 00:47:09,911 --> 00:47:11,246 are you engaged? 1076 00:47:11,329 --> 00:47:12,956 Oh, this right here? 1077 00:47:14,165 --> 00:47:16,585 Yes. Actually, I was getting to that part. 1078 00:47:16,668 --> 00:47:19,004 This is real life. Stop playing. 1079 00:47:19,087 --> 00:47:20,255 Yes. 1080 00:47:20,338 --> 00:47:23,091 So I connected with this guy named Cameron. 1081 00:47:23,508 --> 00:47:24,885 -[chuckles] -[laughs] 1082 00:47:24,968 --> 00:47:27,721 I know it's crazy. I know it's crazy. 1083 00:47:27,804 --> 00:47:29,097 -Are you serious? -Yes. 1084 00:47:29,180 --> 00:47:31,725 -Are you, like, punking me? -I'm telling you the truth. 1085 00:47:31,808 --> 00:47:32,976 He's very handsome. 1086 00:47:33,435 --> 00:47:34,477 He's very smart. 1087 00:47:35,395 --> 00:47:36,688 He is Caucasian. 1088 00:47:37,272 --> 00:47:38,189 Mm. 1089 00:47:38,315 --> 00:47:39,316 -Okay. -So... 1090 00:47:39,399 --> 00:47:40,609 The swerve. 1091 00:47:40,692 --> 00:47:42,193 Yes, you know, a little swirl. 1092 00:47:42,694 --> 00:47:43,904 Swirly swirl. 1093 00:47:43,987 --> 00:47:45,614 -Wait. -[Lauren laughs] 1094 00:47:45,697 --> 00:47:47,490 Here, let me take one, too, girl. 1095 00:47:48,408 --> 00:47:49,576 [Tiffany] This is a lot. 1096 00:47:49,659 --> 00:47:50,493 Oh, my God. 1097 00:47:50,577 --> 00:47:53,330 I still feel like I'm about to be punked or something. 1098 00:47:53,872 --> 00:47:55,206 Give me your hand, bitch. 1099 00:47:55,290 --> 00:47:57,042 Don't tell me nothing else. 1100 00:47:57,125 --> 00:47:59,294 Will you be in my bridal party? 1101 00:48:00,337 --> 00:48:01,838 Sure. -Yay! 1102 00:48:01,922 --> 00:48:03,465 [both laughing] 1103 00:48:03,965 --> 00:48:06,134 [sighs] Well, this is a lot. 1104 00:48:06,217 --> 00:48:07,218 Yeah. 1105 00:48:07,844 --> 00:48:10,013 [Tiffany] I don't know what to feel right now, like... 1106 00:48:10,430 --> 00:48:12,349 Is this a great fit? 1107 00:48:12,432 --> 00:48:14,726 Is this something that's like lust and not love? 1108 00:48:14,809 --> 00:48:18,605 My biggest worry is that it's not true love. 1109 00:48:19,064 --> 00:48:23,276 So what would you say, like, the biggest difference with dating... 1110 00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:27,739 Since he, you know, is Caucasian, and you've dated mostly black guys? 1111 00:48:27,822 --> 00:48:31,660 So what would you say is the biggest difference with dating between the two? 1112 00:48:32,285 --> 00:48:33,453 Um... 1113 00:48:35,622 --> 00:48:36,456 Ah! 1114 00:48:36,539 --> 00:48:38,416 [both laughing] 1115 00:48:40,043 --> 00:48:41,461 Besides that. 1116 00:48:41,544 --> 00:48:43,546 Well, I wasn't even talking about that 1117 00:48:43,630 --> 00:48:45,882 'cause actually, he's very... Mm. 1118 00:48:45,966 --> 00:48:48,218 Okay. No questions about that, honey. 1119 00:48:48,301 --> 00:48:49,135 [laughs] 1120 00:48:49,219 --> 00:48:51,388 I was pleasantly surprised. 1121 00:48:51,471 --> 00:48:52,722 -Okay. -Um... 1122 00:48:52,806 --> 00:48:54,391 [both laughing] 1123 00:48:56,267 --> 00:48:57,686 So, outside of that? 1124 00:48:57,769 --> 00:48:59,646 Outside of that, I would just say 1125 00:48:59,729 --> 00:49:01,898 the fact that he's Caucasian... 1126 00:49:01,982 --> 00:49:03,858 It's not really a big deal to me, 1127 00:49:03,942 --> 00:49:07,028 -but I'm super black girl magic. -Yeah, and with the times now. 1128 00:49:07,112 --> 00:49:09,823 -It's kinda crazy. -And I'm very like, "The black struggle." 1129 00:49:09,906 --> 00:49:11,700 Like, what are we gonna do? Black families. 1130 00:49:11,783 --> 00:49:14,536 And I feel like, in my mind, I thought if I dated a white guy, 1131 00:49:14,619 --> 00:49:16,204 I would have to tone down my blackness 1132 00:49:16,287 --> 00:49:17,539 to be comfortable. 1133 00:49:17,622 --> 00:49:19,874 -Yeah, exactly. -Right. With him, I don't have to do that. 1134 00:49:19,958 --> 00:49:21,459 Like, I'm just straight me. 1135 00:49:21,543 --> 00:49:23,586 But the whole thing that scares me 1136 00:49:23,670 --> 00:49:27,132 is just the commitment of marriage is huge. 1137 00:49:27,549 --> 00:49:29,509 So I guess that's where I'm torn in between. 1138 00:49:29,592 --> 00:49:32,345 It's like the feeling of being happy 1139 00:49:32,429 --> 00:49:35,765 and the side that's like, 1140 00:49:35,849 --> 00:49:37,100 "What the fuck are you doing? 1141 00:49:37,183 --> 00:49:39,561 You're crazy. What are people going to think?" 1142 00:49:39,644 --> 00:49:43,523 I know I asked for this, but now that it's here, I'm scared. 1143 00:49:45,692 --> 00:49:47,569 That's where I'm at. Stressed the fuck out. 1144 00:49:47,694 --> 00:49:49,904 -[laughs] Lauren, Lauren, Lauren. -I know. 1145 00:49:49,988 --> 00:49:51,865 That's the same thing my mom said. 1146 00:49:51,948 --> 00:49:55,201 ["So Bad" playing] ♪ I've waited all my life for this ♪ 1147 00:49:55,285 --> 00:49:58,163 ♪ So bad, so bad ♪ 1148 00:49:58,246 --> 00:50:00,999 ♪ So die if I don't get it ♪ 1149 00:50:01,082 --> 00:50:03,293 ♪ Bad ♪ 1150 00:50:10,341 --> 00:50:12,969 [Amber] While we're cooking, I'm gonna have some guacamole and salsa. 1151 00:50:13,053 --> 00:50:15,430 [Barnett] I feel like we're learning how to cook right now. 1152 00:50:15,513 --> 00:50:17,599 I kind of am. I know how to cook certain things, 1153 00:50:17,682 --> 00:50:20,560 but I mean I've never cooked steak on my own before, so... 1154 00:50:20,852 --> 00:50:22,854 [Barnett] You nervous about anything right now? 1155 00:50:22,937 --> 00:50:25,899 [Amber] You think I scared your family as much as you thought I was going to? 1156 00:50:26,858 --> 00:50:29,235 [Barnett] I don't think you scared my family at all, honestly. 1157 00:50:29,861 --> 00:50:32,322 I think I was just being worried 1158 00:50:32,405 --> 00:50:34,157 about things just 'cause I was worried. 1159 00:50:34,616 --> 00:50:37,619 It's easier to worry about stuff when you don't know what's gonna happen. 1160 00:50:37,744 --> 00:50:40,246 I mean, we had no idea how our families were going to react 1161 00:50:40,330 --> 00:50:42,165 'cause our families have never had to deal with this before, 1162 00:50:42,248 --> 00:50:44,250 so we have no clue what to expect. 1163 00:50:45,043 --> 00:50:47,504 And I think I was expecting the worst because... 1164 00:50:48,505 --> 00:50:50,090 I assume the worst. 1165 00:50:50,882 --> 00:50:52,467 [sizzling] 1166 00:50:53,384 --> 00:50:55,428 [Barnett] I'm always scared to disappoint my family. 1167 00:50:55,804 --> 00:50:59,140 I always feel like they aren't sure of me. 1168 00:50:59,766 --> 00:51:00,642 I don't know why. 1169 00:51:03,311 --> 00:51:04,270 [sighs] 1170 00:51:07,107 --> 00:51:09,943 What would have happened if they didn't like me, 1171 00:51:10,026 --> 00:51:12,445 they told you they thought this was a terrible idea, 1172 00:51:12,529 --> 00:51:14,197 and they're never going to agree with it. 1173 00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:15,281 What would you have done? 1174 00:51:20,745 --> 00:51:21,871 I don't know. 1175 00:51:23,623 --> 00:51:24,874 Honestly, I don't know. 1176 00:51:26,334 --> 00:51:30,255 I try not to worry too much about his family not liking me, 1177 00:51:30,338 --> 00:51:33,007 but in the back of my mind, that is something that... 1178 00:51:34,425 --> 00:51:37,137 could potentially be an issue for us. 1179 00:51:38,429 --> 00:51:41,349 If the next time you see them without me and they say, "You know what? 1180 00:51:41,432 --> 00:51:44,018 This is crazy. We don't think you guys belong together. 1181 00:51:44,102 --> 00:51:45,228 We can never support this." 1182 00:51:45,311 --> 00:51:47,188 What if they didn't want to come to the wedding? 1183 00:51:49,357 --> 00:51:50,984 What if they didn't want to be there? 1184 00:51:51,359 --> 00:51:53,236 How would you feel about that? What would you do? 1185 00:51:53,319 --> 00:51:54,529 I wouldn't feel good about it. 1186 00:51:54,612 --> 00:51:57,157 -I wouldn't know what to do about it. -Would you still marry me? 1187 00:52:05,707 --> 00:52:06,833 [softly] I don't know. 1188 00:52:10,295 --> 00:52:11,880 I'm always so worried about what they think 1189 00:52:12,297 --> 00:52:14,257 because I've seen them not like people. 1190 00:52:14,924 --> 00:52:16,551 And I'm afraid of that. 1191 00:52:17,135 --> 00:52:22,056 And it's not an easy situation when you bring someone home 1192 00:52:22,140 --> 00:52:23,641 that they don't approve or don't like. 1193 00:52:23,725 --> 00:52:24,684 Okay. 1194 00:52:26,978 --> 00:52:27,979 So here's the deal. 1195 00:52:28,688 --> 00:52:31,900 I am the kind of person that I want you to back me up in front of your family, 1196 00:52:31,983 --> 00:52:33,568 and if we get home, and you think I'm wrong, 1197 00:52:33,651 --> 00:52:35,111 tell me I'm wrong in private. 1198 00:52:38,406 --> 00:52:40,617 I think if there's ever an issue between us, 1199 00:52:40,700 --> 00:52:42,493 I don't ever want other people 1200 00:52:42,577 --> 00:52:45,163 to think that there are cracks in us. 1201 00:52:45,246 --> 00:52:47,665 Whether there are or there aren't, it's none of their business. 1202 00:52:48,583 --> 00:52:51,127 So what if there is an issue 1203 00:52:51,502 --> 00:52:53,755 between me and somebody in your family? 1204 00:52:53,838 --> 00:52:55,340 Can you manage that? 1205 00:52:55,423 --> 00:52:58,509 Can you stand up to them to back me? 1206 00:53:00,970 --> 00:53:04,140 She always says that blood's not always thicker than water. 1207 00:53:04,224 --> 00:53:06,226 I have to be on her side, no matter what. 1208 00:53:06,809 --> 00:53:09,729 But my family has always been there for me, 1209 00:53:10,188 --> 00:53:13,358 and I do believe that it's important 1210 00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:16,945 to have a wife that supports my relationship with my family. 1211 00:53:17,028 --> 00:53:18,738 Whose side are you gonna be on? 1212 00:53:23,993 --> 00:53:25,078 I don't know. 1213 00:53:25,578 --> 00:53:27,705 [suspenseful music plays, intensifies] 1214 00:53:28,498 --> 00:53:29,999 [suspenseful music crescendos] 1215 00:53:30,750 --> 00:53:31,626 [music stops]