1 00:00:06,006 --> 00:00:09,384 [pop music playing] 2 00:00:09,467 --> 00:00:11,261 Welcome to Love Is Blind. 3 00:00:11,344 --> 00:00:13,304 [cheering] 4 00:00:14,139 --> 00:00:16,182 [Nick] You'll have the chance to fall in love 5 00:00:16,266 --> 00:00:19,019 based solely on who you are on the inside. 6 00:00:19,102 --> 00:00:21,730 I want someone who sees me for who I truly am 7 00:00:21,813 --> 00:00:23,314 and loves me truly. 8 00:00:23,398 --> 00:00:26,609 And I feel like with you, I can, like, fully be me. 9 00:00:26,693 --> 00:00:27,527 [chuckles] 10 00:00:27,610 --> 00:00:30,155 [Vanessa] If you fall in love, you'll get engaged. 11 00:00:30,238 --> 00:00:32,032 -Will you marry me? -Absolutely. 12 00:00:32,115 --> 00:00:33,616 [laughing] 13 00:00:33,700 --> 00:00:34,784 Will you marry me? 14 00:00:34,868 --> 00:00:37,537 -I would be honored to marry you, Tyler. -[laughs] 15 00:00:37,620 --> 00:00:39,581 I want to know if you will marry me. 16 00:00:41,291 --> 00:00:43,209 -Yes. -[laughs] Yes. 17 00:00:43,293 --> 00:00:45,378 [laughing] 18 00:00:46,171 --> 00:00:50,008 [Vanessa] Then you'll finally see your fiancé for the very first time. 19 00:00:50,508 --> 00:00:51,509 Rams? 20 00:00:51,593 --> 00:00:52,719 Oh, my God. 21 00:00:52,802 --> 00:00:54,137 -[laughing] Oh, my God. -Hi. 22 00:00:54,220 --> 00:00:56,306 You're so cute! 23 00:00:57,057 --> 00:00:58,892 How does it feel to be engaged? 24 00:00:59,559 --> 00:01:00,602 Weird. [laughs] 25 00:01:00,685 --> 00:01:02,437 What have I done? [laughs] 26 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:04,522 -[pop music playing] -♪ I can never get enough… ♪ 27 00:01:04,606 --> 00:01:05,440 [Nick] Up until now, 28 00:01:05,523 --> 00:01:08,818 your attraction's been based entirely in an emotional connection. 29 00:01:08,902 --> 00:01:10,070 [laughs] 30 00:01:10,904 --> 00:01:14,741 [Vanessa] Hopefully, you turn that emotional connection into a physical one. 31 00:01:14,824 --> 00:01:17,577 [Taylor] I didn't think I'd find someone even close to you. 32 00:01:18,244 --> 00:01:21,122 ♪ I can see through you I can see through… ♪ 33 00:01:21,206 --> 00:01:22,999 [laughing] 34 00:01:23,083 --> 00:01:25,001 [Nick] Will looks, race, age, family 35 00:01:25,085 --> 00:01:27,337 or financial considerations come into play? 36 00:01:27,420 --> 00:01:29,214 You were texting a girl 37 00:01:29,297 --> 00:01:33,259 that you want to do dirty kinks while you are engaged. 38 00:01:33,343 --> 00:01:34,260 Yes. 39 00:01:34,344 --> 00:01:36,262 What a selfish piece of shit. 40 00:01:36,346 --> 00:01:38,014 You put a ring on my finger. 41 00:01:38,098 --> 00:01:41,226 [voice breaks] And now it's just, like, taking that away from me. 42 00:01:41,810 --> 00:01:44,270 There's nothing more I want in this world than to get there. 43 00:01:44,354 --> 00:01:46,856 -I think I'm just done trying. -Well-- [sighs] 44 00:01:46,940 --> 00:01:48,942 When do I take off the rose-colored glasses 45 00:01:49,025 --> 00:01:51,069 and just, like, see this for what it is? 46 00:01:52,237 --> 00:01:55,698 There is no scenario that I see myself standing there 47 00:01:55,782 --> 00:01:58,284 and saying yes to making you my wife forever. 48 00:01:59,452 --> 00:02:00,286 [laughs] 49 00:02:00,370 --> 00:02:04,207 What I have with Taylor, that is, like, the holy grail of life. 50 00:02:04,791 --> 00:02:06,417 -I love you. -Love you too. 51 00:02:06,918 --> 00:02:11,297 If I could have you by my side, I feel like we could literally do anything. 52 00:02:11,381 --> 00:02:14,509 -["Our Love Song" playing] -♪ Love will never fade out… ♪ 53 00:02:14,592 --> 00:02:16,719 [shouts] 54 00:02:16,803 --> 00:02:20,974 Do you have any doubts right now about, like, us making it to the end? 55 00:02:21,057 --> 00:02:22,016 No. 56 00:02:23,059 --> 00:02:24,894 -I love you. -I love you too. 57 00:02:26,604 --> 00:02:30,275 [Taylor] If both of our families are not cool with the timeline, 58 00:02:30,358 --> 00:02:32,569 does having a wedding make sense? 59 00:02:33,736 --> 00:02:38,074 I'm not upset by you trying to help a couple have kids, 60 00:02:38,158 --> 00:02:39,909 but they are your kids. 61 00:02:39,993 --> 00:02:41,536 I didn't see this coming at all. 62 00:02:42,537 --> 00:02:44,747 I don't question, like, whether I love you enough. 63 00:02:44,831 --> 00:02:45,707 Don't wanna lose you. 64 00:02:45,790 --> 00:02:47,792 It scares me because I don't wanna get to a place 65 00:02:47,876 --> 00:02:49,794 where down the road we're getting divorced. 66 00:02:49,878 --> 00:02:53,089 But that's literally the risk of falling in love, Ramses. 67 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:07,645 We have a great future ahead of us. 68 00:03:09,230 --> 00:03:11,065 I wanna marry you. 69 00:03:13,359 --> 00:03:16,321 That's literally the risk of falling in love, Ramses. 70 00:03:28,374 --> 00:03:31,711 I understand, like, falling in love is a risk. You're risking heartbreak. 71 00:03:31,794 --> 00:03:33,087 I understand that. 72 00:03:33,922 --> 00:03:37,467 But last night, I spoke with my niece's mother, LaDallas, 73 00:03:37,550 --> 00:03:39,093 and then my brother. 74 00:03:39,177 --> 00:03:41,179 We had a conversation about my previous marriage, 75 00:03:41,262 --> 00:03:43,223 just talking about this decision. 76 00:03:43,806 --> 00:03:48,186 I learned about things, and fuck, like, I just learned that my ex 77 00:03:48,269 --> 00:03:51,397 was, like, hurting much more than I realized after that divorce. 78 00:03:51,481 --> 00:03:53,775 And, like, I'm just scared that… 79 00:03:54,817 --> 00:03:56,694 that something may happen, like, 80 00:03:56,778 --> 00:03:58,404 where, like, I end up hurting you. 81 00:03:58,488 --> 00:03:59,447 Like, I don't-- 82 00:03:59,530 --> 00:04:03,785 -I don't-- I know that's a risk, but-- -Oh, my God! Like, you cannot-- 83 00:04:03,868 --> 00:04:05,078 It's killing me. 84 00:04:05,161 --> 00:04:06,788 We just had a conversation in the jacuzzi 85 00:04:06,871 --> 00:04:08,748 about how we have this beautiful thing coming up, 86 00:04:08,831 --> 00:04:10,833 and it's very nerve-racking, and it's scary, 87 00:04:10,917 --> 00:04:13,753 and there's a lot of people involved and a lot of feelings involved. 88 00:04:13,836 --> 00:04:15,880 But ultimately, it's just about you and I. 89 00:04:15,964 --> 00:04:19,050 I don't know, after being married and just, like, seeing other marriages 90 00:04:19,133 --> 00:04:21,469 and hearing from other married people, like… [sniffles] 91 00:04:21,552 --> 00:04:24,347 …I just don't think, like, love alone is enough. 92 00:04:24,430 --> 00:04:27,475 Like, I think there needs to be other things that are also working. 93 00:04:27,558 --> 00:04:28,810 I think you're right. 94 00:04:28,893 --> 00:04:32,605 -Love is super important, but it's-- -So we only have love between us? 95 00:04:32,689 --> 00:04:34,774 It's not that we only have love between us. 96 00:04:34,857 --> 00:04:37,944 We've built an incredible bond, and we have, like… 97 00:04:38,027 --> 00:04:39,946 You know, like, this connection is amazing, 98 00:04:40,029 --> 00:04:42,282 but it's just, like, there is certain things 99 00:04:42,365 --> 00:04:44,993 that, like, you can't get around. 100 00:04:45,076 --> 00:04:47,829 Like, the things that you-- 101 00:04:47,912 --> 00:04:50,456 especially when it comes to, like, living together, 102 00:04:50,540 --> 00:04:53,543 and when it comes to just spending our day-to-day together, like, 103 00:04:53,626 --> 00:04:55,628 that's, like, crazy important. 104 00:04:55,712 --> 00:04:59,048 That's a thing that could, like, potentially, if it's not working well, 105 00:04:59,132 --> 00:05:01,384 it can, like, potentially grind us down over time. 106 00:05:01,467 --> 00:05:04,053 There is more than love here. 107 00:05:05,096 --> 00:05:07,598 I haven't loved the person that I've been seeing, 108 00:05:07,682 --> 00:05:10,852 like, especially yesterday, but we talked about that. 109 00:05:10,935 --> 00:05:13,021 We talked about you needing your space. 110 00:05:14,314 --> 00:05:18,401 And I love you enough to, like, understand what you need 111 00:05:18,484 --> 00:05:20,028 and, like, try to meet you. 112 00:05:20,111 --> 00:05:22,864 This marriage is a promise and a commitment. 113 00:05:22,947 --> 00:05:26,743 And with commitment comes a responsibility of, like, 114 00:05:26,826 --> 00:05:29,704 getting through whatever we gotta get through. 115 00:05:29,787 --> 00:05:34,042 I'm promising to go through life with you forever. 116 00:05:34,125 --> 00:05:35,126 [Ramses sniffles] Mm-hmm. 117 00:05:35,752 --> 00:05:38,796 Because I think we'll be great together. I do think we are great together. 118 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:42,300 I think you bring out really good characteristics 119 00:05:42,383 --> 00:05:43,384 that I don't usually show. 120 00:05:43,468 --> 00:05:46,346 And I think that I bring out good characteristics 121 00:05:46,429 --> 00:05:47,805 that you don't always show. 122 00:05:53,019 --> 00:05:56,230 [Ramses] I've always followed my emotions. I've always followed my feelings. 123 00:05:56,314 --> 00:05:59,025 And, like, I do think love is important. 124 00:06:04,739 --> 00:06:07,533 My feelings are telling me to move forward, but, like, 125 00:06:08,076 --> 00:06:12,413 that's caused me to make some, like, wrong decisions in the past. 126 00:06:15,124 --> 00:06:18,586 I don't wanna come back to this moment, "Why was I led by my feelings?" 127 00:06:18,669 --> 00:06:20,171 I've told myself time and again, like, 128 00:06:20,254 --> 00:06:22,673 "Don't allow yourself to be led completely by your feelings." 129 00:06:22,757 --> 00:06:26,260 Like, I need to be more logical about my reasoning, and so, like, 130 00:06:26,344 --> 00:06:28,888 I don't wanna get to that point where I'm like, 131 00:06:29,639 --> 00:06:31,224 I look back, and I'm just like, 132 00:06:31,307 --> 00:06:32,975 "Fuck, I did it again. Like, I fucked up." 133 00:06:33,059 --> 00:06:35,186 "I made that same fucking mistake I always do." 134 00:06:35,269 --> 00:06:38,648 -But you don't feel that way right now. -What do you mean? 135 00:06:38,731 --> 00:06:41,234 Like, you don't feel like you're making a mistake. 136 00:06:42,026 --> 00:06:45,279 Up to this point, no, I haven't felt like I've been making a mistake. 137 00:06:45,363 --> 00:06:48,408 But now, like, after, again, having these conversations, 138 00:06:48,491 --> 00:06:50,910 I feel like there might have been moments 139 00:06:50,993 --> 00:06:52,537 or things that I was brushing aside, 140 00:06:52,620 --> 00:06:56,290 wasn't giving the priority to that I should have, 141 00:06:56,374 --> 00:06:58,167 because they are important. 142 00:06:58,251 --> 00:06:59,502 I hear everything you're saying, 143 00:06:59,585 --> 00:07:01,838 but, like, I have nothing tangible to work with. 144 00:07:03,089 --> 00:07:05,591 There are things you brushed under the rug 145 00:07:05,675 --> 00:07:08,219 or thought weren't a big deal, but now are a big deal. 146 00:07:08,302 --> 00:07:10,054 -What? Like what? -Just us-- 147 00:07:10,138 --> 00:07:11,639 Can I know about them? 148 00:07:11,722 --> 00:07:13,850 It's about your energy and my energy 149 00:07:13,933 --> 00:07:17,687 living and coexisting in the same space is what it is. 150 00:07:22,900 --> 00:07:26,904 Is your energy gonna be too much for me or is it gonna, like, make me feel, 151 00:07:26,988 --> 00:07:28,781 you know, like, overwhelmed? 152 00:07:28,865 --> 00:07:31,075 Is it gonna be, like, too much for me? 153 00:07:31,159 --> 00:07:34,787 And it was great. It was fine in Cabo and everything else. 154 00:07:34,871 --> 00:07:38,416 But, like, here and every day with when you bring in work, 155 00:07:38,499 --> 00:07:41,502 and you bring in just, like, day-to-day stresses or whatever. 156 00:07:41,586 --> 00:07:42,795 There's so much going on, 157 00:07:42,879 --> 00:07:46,424 and I feel like I didn't have a moment to really, like, just for myself. 158 00:07:46,507 --> 00:07:50,928 -End of the day, it's not you. It's me. -But you are literally saying that. 159 00:07:51,012 --> 00:07:52,263 I don't want you to think, 160 00:07:52,346 --> 00:07:55,600 like, there's something wrong with you or a fault in you. 161 00:07:55,683 --> 00:07:57,435 I know there's nothing wrong with me, 162 00:07:57,518 --> 00:08:01,397 but, like, you told me you fell in love with me 'cause of who I am. 163 00:08:01,481 --> 00:08:02,815 -Yes. -And like… [sniffles] 164 00:08:03,649 --> 00:08:05,193 We get to this experience. You're like, 165 00:08:05,276 --> 00:08:08,196 "Well, maybe the energy is too much for you." 166 00:08:08,279 --> 00:08:11,032 -Like, do you know how that sounds? -I know how that sounds. 167 00:08:11,115 --> 00:08:13,075 But in the pods, like, it felt amazing. 168 00:08:13,159 --> 00:08:16,787 -I loved feeling your energy. -That's what every guy feels. 169 00:08:16,871 --> 00:08:19,207 They love the first months of dating me, 'cause it's great. 170 00:08:19,290 --> 00:08:21,125 The energy is just so fucking great. 171 00:08:22,543 --> 00:08:24,545 Like, I get it. I've heard that before. 172 00:08:30,343 --> 00:08:31,511 [sniffles] 173 00:08:33,596 --> 00:08:37,808 Your energy is different from mine, but I haven't seen it as a negative. 174 00:08:37,892 --> 00:08:39,602 I've seen it as… [sniffles] 175 00:08:39,685 --> 00:08:41,896 There are times where I do need to relax and calm down 176 00:08:41,979 --> 00:08:43,981 and just, like, chill on the couch and watch TV. 177 00:08:44,065 --> 00:08:46,651 But it's, like, I can envision it. 178 00:08:46,734 --> 00:08:48,152 I can literally see it. 179 00:08:49,529 --> 00:08:51,072 Why can't you see it? 180 00:08:57,161 --> 00:09:00,373 It's like you already know. You've already made up your mind. 181 00:09:00,456 --> 00:09:05,169 Like, you already know that, like, I'm too much to live with. 182 00:09:05,253 --> 00:09:08,339 -These three weeks is all I have-- -You can't see beyond that. 183 00:09:08,422 --> 00:09:10,216 You can't see a change beyond that. 184 00:09:10,299 --> 00:09:13,469 -I don't wanna make assumptions. -But we're in control of our future. 185 00:09:13,553 --> 00:09:17,515 We can't say what that's gonna look like because, it's like, we haven't lived it. 186 00:09:31,112 --> 00:09:33,239 I think you should not have come to this experience, 187 00:09:33,948 --> 00:09:37,743 because, Ramses, it's very clear that you need to, like, live with someone 188 00:09:37,827 --> 00:09:39,495 for a long time before you even marry them. 189 00:09:39,579 --> 00:09:41,372 This three weeks would have been enough time. 190 00:09:41,455 --> 00:09:43,583 I couldn't anticipate I was gonna arrive at this point, 191 00:09:43,666 --> 00:09:46,335 and I wasn't gonna feel like, you know, 192 00:09:46,419 --> 00:09:48,671 feel the way that I feel, or… 193 00:09:48,754 --> 00:09:52,341 I anticipated it the moment you had the conversations with other people. 194 00:09:53,968 --> 00:09:54,844 So… 195 00:10:02,018 --> 00:10:04,812 For the first time, I was, like, 100% myself. 196 00:10:06,063 --> 00:10:08,482 I feel like I've been the most understanding person. 197 00:10:10,151 --> 00:10:14,488 How could I feel so sure and you not, you know? 198 00:10:15,364 --> 00:10:18,117 I just, like, want someone to be sure about me. 199 00:10:19,035 --> 00:10:19,869 You know? 200 00:10:20,536 --> 00:10:21,621 [Ramses] I know. 201 00:10:21,704 --> 00:10:23,664 [sobbing] I just want someone to choose me, right? 202 00:10:23,748 --> 00:10:26,042 [sniffles] 203 00:10:28,377 --> 00:10:31,505 I did fall in love with you for who you are. I did love your energy. 204 00:10:31,589 --> 00:10:36,594 Like, all of that was part of the reason why, like, we bonded. 205 00:10:36,677 --> 00:10:38,137 At the end of the day, like, 206 00:10:38,220 --> 00:10:41,891 we couldn't tell, like, what exactly that would look like in person. 207 00:10:43,893 --> 00:10:46,562 [Marissa] I just don't know how you go from how we were 208 00:10:47,647 --> 00:10:49,398 two days ago to this. 209 00:10:55,613 --> 00:10:56,947 Literally insane. 210 00:10:58,115 --> 00:11:00,660 There's nothing, like, left to be said then. 211 00:11:03,371 --> 00:11:04,497 [sniffles] 212 00:11:06,457 --> 00:11:07,708 It's the worst day of my life. 213 00:11:14,882 --> 00:11:16,884 [exhaling] 214 00:11:20,513 --> 00:11:22,682 [Ramses sobbing] 215 00:11:22,765 --> 00:11:24,225 -I'm sorry. -[sobbing] 216 00:11:25,351 --> 00:11:26,936 -[Ramses] I'm so sorry. -[sobbing] 217 00:11:30,272 --> 00:11:31,649 [gasps] Are you sure? 218 00:11:31,732 --> 00:11:33,109 [sobbing] 219 00:11:33,192 --> 00:11:34,360 Are you sure? 220 00:11:34,443 --> 00:11:35,861 [Ramses] I'm so sorry. 221 00:11:35,945 --> 00:11:38,072 [both sobbing] 222 00:11:38,864 --> 00:11:42,118 [Marissa blubbering] 223 00:11:42,201 --> 00:11:44,203 [pop music playing] 224 00:11:50,626 --> 00:11:55,589 ♪ Please don't walk away now ♪ 225 00:11:55,673 --> 00:12:00,136 ♪ It would rip my heart out ♪ 226 00:12:00,219 --> 00:12:03,973 ♪ But I know you gotta go… ♪ 227 00:12:04,056 --> 00:12:05,933 No! 228 00:12:07,351 --> 00:12:10,187 ♪ Hold on… ♪ 229 00:12:10,271 --> 00:12:11,272 [sobbing] 230 00:12:11,355 --> 00:12:14,400 ♪ Give me some more time… ♪ 231 00:12:14,483 --> 00:12:16,819 [sniffles] Are you sure? 232 00:12:16,902 --> 00:12:17,778 [gasps] 233 00:12:24,577 --> 00:12:27,079 [voice breaks] This already fucking hurts me so much. 234 00:12:27,163 --> 00:12:30,040 You came unsure so fast. 235 00:12:30,124 --> 00:12:31,792 [sobbing] It doesn't feel real. 236 00:12:32,585 --> 00:12:35,421 It feels like it just came out of nowhere. 237 00:12:35,504 --> 00:12:37,590 You know? It's like… it's-- 238 00:12:37,673 --> 00:12:40,259 How do you become so unsure so fast? 239 00:12:40,843 --> 00:12:43,846 It's not that I'm unsure about my love for you. 240 00:12:43,929 --> 00:12:46,891 -It's just I'm unsure about us. -About marrying me! 241 00:12:46,974 --> 00:12:50,895 We're supposed to both go into this, like, fully sure of this decision. 242 00:12:54,231 --> 00:12:56,233 [Marissa sobbing] 243 00:12:59,236 --> 00:13:00,404 [sniffles] 244 00:13:00,988 --> 00:13:04,450 I think you're making a mistake. I think this is a big mistake. 245 00:13:05,367 --> 00:13:06,911 I believe that wholeheartedly. 246 00:13:06,994 --> 00:13:09,538 And I-- I just can't convince you otherwise. 247 00:13:09,622 --> 00:13:12,541 Like, I don't know, but I just know this is not right. 248 00:13:12,625 --> 00:13:15,044 Like, this is not right. 249 00:13:16,504 --> 00:13:19,548 [sniffles] This is like the worst heartbreak I've ever experienced. 250 00:13:20,382 --> 00:13:22,718 It hurts so bad. [sniffles] 251 00:13:23,385 --> 00:13:25,387 [pop music playing] 252 00:13:27,723 --> 00:13:28,974 [Ramses exhales] 253 00:13:31,393 --> 00:13:35,397 ♪ No one but you can ♪ 254 00:13:35,481 --> 00:13:37,817 ♪ Make it better ♪ 255 00:13:37,900 --> 00:13:42,571 ♪ No one, no one but you can… ♪ 256 00:13:42,655 --> 00:13:44,657 [Marissa sobbing] 257 00:13:46,909 --> 00:13:48,369 [sobbing] 258 00:13:50,913 --> 00:13:52,957 I just feel like… 259 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:54,625 I feel like I'm dying inside. 260 00:13:54,708 --> 00:13:57,586 Like, I'm just… I don't know. 261 00:13:57,670 --> 00:14:00,422 I just… I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. 262 00:14:00,506 --> 00:14:02,299 Um… [sniffles] 263 00:14:02,383 --> 00:14:04,260 [exhales] 264 00:14:07,096 --> 00:14:10,975 Two days ago, he told me that he's so excited to get married, 265 00:14:11,058 --> 00:14:13,727 and we picked out our first dance song. 266 00:14:13,811 --> 00:14:15,771 He got emotional because he was, just, 267 00:14:15,855 --> 00:14:17,773 like, envisioning us getting married. 268 00:14:17,857 --> 00:14:21,861 And, like, we both got emotional 'cause we were like, "It's actually happening." 269 00:14:21,944 --> 00:14:24,113 And so it's just really hard for me 270 00:14:24,196 --> 00:14:28,242 to come to the conclusion that we're done. 271 00:14:29,243 --> 00:14:30,786 I feel insane. 272 00:14:30,870 --> 00:14:34,415 I feel crazy because I feel like, 273 00:14:34,498 --> 00:14:36,375 "Did I make it all up in my head?" 274 00:14:37,293 --> 00:14:38,961 -[mother] Hello. -[Marissa exhales] 275 00:14:39,962 --> 00:14:40,963 Are you okay? 276 00:14:41,505 --> 00:14:43,632 [Marissa] No, we called off the wedding. 277 00:14:43,716 --> 00:14:44,592 [sniffles] 278 00:14:44,675 --> 00:14:45,676 What? 279 00:14:46,260 --> 00:14:47,803 [Marissa] And I didn't see it coming. 280 00:14:47,887 --> 00:14:50,723 How am I supposed to not have him around 281 00:14:50,806 --> 00:14:53,309 and not be with him when I love him so much? 282 00:14:53,392 --> 00:14:55,644 [sobbing] 283 00:14:55,728 --> 00:14:57,563 Oh, my God. 284 00:14:58,647 --> 00:15:02,526 Mom, it hurts so bad. 285 00:15:03,402 --> 00:15:05,195 [gasps] Like… 286 00:15:05,696 --> 00:15:08,115 [sobbing] 287 00:15:08,198 --> 00:15:13,078 ♪ Can make it better, no one… ♪ 288 00:15:14,705 --> 00:15:16,749 Oh, my God. [sobbing] 289 00:15:18,042 --> 00:15:22,546 ♪ But you make it better… ♪ 290 00:15:22,630 --> 00:15:26,467 It just hurts. [sobbing] 291 00:15:28,052 --> 00:15:29,011 [sniffles] 292 00:15:30,679 --> 00:15:33,766 ♪ No one but you ♪ 293 00:15:34,808 --> 00:15:37,353 ♪ Can make it better ♪ 294 00:15:42,066 --> 00:15:45,194 [announcer] Make some noise for your Washington Wizards. 295 00:15:45,277 --> 00:15:47,196 -[pop music playing] -[crowd cheering] 296 00:15:47,279 --> 00:15:49,073 -[chattering] -[laughing] 297 00:15:49,907 --> 00:15:51,241 Oh, my God. 298 00:15:52,326 --> 00:15:54,161 -[Tyler] That's dope. -[man] Crazy. 299 00:15:54,870 --> 00:15:58,082 [Garrett] Going to my bachelor party, I'm ready to celebrate with my boys. 300 00:15:58,165 --> 00:16:00,417 I haven't been to a Wizards game since I was a little kid. 301 00:16:00,501 --> 00:16:03,671 I sat way up in the upper seats, and now we get this suite. 302 00:16:03,754 --> 00:16:07,049 We're here with all our closest friends. It's a cool-ass bachelor party. 303 00:16:07,132 --> 00:16:08,217 [crowd cheering] 304 00:16:08,300 --> 00:16:10,177 [Garrett] There's one. Hell yeah. 305 00:16:10,260 --> 00:16:12,763 That looked like me! [exclaims] 306 00:16:12,846 --> 00:16:14,890 We're days away from our wedding. 307 00:16:14,974 --> 00:16:18,018 This is my last pretty much single time partying. 308 00:16:18,102 --> 00:16:21,522 I love basketball, and we're about to have a good time. 309 00:16:21,605 --> 00:16:23,399 -Cheers to getting married, dawg! -[laughing] 310 00:16:25,109 --> 00:16:26,485 -Cheers, boys. -Cheers. 311 00:16:26,568 --> 00:16:27,653 [man 2] Congratulations! 312 00:16:30,698 --> 00:16:33,492 -[pop music playing] -♪ Spotlight shine bright all on me ♪ 313 00:16:33,575 --> 00:16:35,327 ♪ Yes, all on me ♪ 314 00:16:35,411 --> 00:16:37,705 ♪ Peace, love, good vibes around me ♪ 315 00:16:37,788 --> 00:16:40,249 ♪ You're my best life, people I got all I need ♪ 316 00:16:40,332 --> 00:16:42,668 ♪ Spotlight shine bright all on me… ♪ 317 00:16:43,544 --> 00:16:45,921 Oh, I knew it was a pajama party! 318 00:16:46,005 --> 00:16:46,839 [cheering] 319 00:16:47,756 --> 00:16:49,842 -[woman] That is so… -[woman 2] It's so pretty! 320 00:16:49,925 --> 00:16:50,884 Aww! 321 00:16:50,968 --> 00:16:54,763 ♪ Sugar, sugar too sweet Caught you looking at me ♪ 322 00:16:56,056 --> 00:16:57,641 ♪ You wanna lick my ice cream? ♪ 323 00:16:58,892 --> 00:17:01,103 ♪ My sugar, sugar too sweet, too sweet ♪ 324 00:17:01,186 --> 00:17:02,438 [cheering] 325 00:17:02,521 --> 00:17:05,566 Hi! 326 00:17:06,066 --> 00:17:08,318 -You look so cute! -You too! 327 00:17:08,402 --> 00:17:10,237 [Ashley A] Oh, my God, this is adorable. 328 00:17:10,904 --> 00:17:11,864 [laughing] 329 00:17:11,947 --> 00:17:14,867 You all mean so much to us. That's why you're here. 330 00:17:14,950 --> 00:17:16,326 -The most. -The mostest. 331 00:17:16,410 --> 00:17:20,039 Thank you for celebrating with us. We are engaged AF. 332 00:17:20,122 --> 00:17:21,206 -[cheering] -[laughing] 333 00:17:21,290 --> 00:17:23,709 -Love to see it. -Love that for us. 334 00:17:23,792 --> 00:17:26,587 -We were besties in the pods, besties now. -Yes. 335 00:17:27,171 --> 00:17:29,798 -So to be the last two standing is crazy. -I love you. 336 00:17:29,882 --> 00:17:32,509 It's really crazy. I'm very happy to have you here. 337 00:17:32,593 --> 00:17:34,720 -Same. I love you. -I love you too. 338 00:17:34,803 --> 00:17:36,472 -[all] Cheers! -Here's to y'all! 339 00:17:36,555 --> 00:17:39,183 -[cheering] -Happy bachelorette, baby! 340 00:17:41,602 --> 00:17:44,772 [announcer] At this time, will Garrett Josemans and Tyler Francis 341 00:17:44,855 --> 00:17:47,649 please make their way to the courtside entrance? 342 00:17:47,733 --> 00:17:50,444 Oh, shit, on the floor? Are we in trouble? 343 00:17:50,527 --> 00:17:52,404 [crowd cheering] 344 00:17:52,488 --> 00:17:54,948 -Can you explain the game to them? -[woman] Yeah, of course. 345 00:17:55,032 --> 00:17:58,077 We're just gonna be playing musical chairs in the center of the court. 346 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:00,329 -But with basketball. -In the center of the court. 347 00:18:00,412 --> 00:18:03,332 When the music stops, you're gonna dribble down the court, 348 00:18:03,415 --> 00:18:04,416 try and make a layup, 349 00:18:04,500 --> 00:18:08,837 and first one back to the chair after you make the layup gets the chair. 350 00:18:09,338 --> 00:18:12,591 -Keep going until there's no more chairs. -Dribble, layup, chair. All right. 351 00:18:12,674 --> 00:18:14,384 -He's cute, isn't he? -[woman] Uh-huh. 352 00:18:14,468 --> 00:18:16,428 -I get it all the time. -[woman laughs] 353 00:18:16,512 --> 00:18:19,098 -[Tyler] Oh! -[Garrett] Sorry. Is it halftime already? 354 00:18:19,181 --> 00:18:21,975 -[Tyler] Check me out, G-baby. -Gonna stretch before I pull something. 355 00:18:22,059 --> 00:18:23,268 [announcer] Please welcome, 356 00:18:23,352 --> 00:18:27,106 from Netflix's Love Is Blind, Garrett and Tyler. 357 00:18:27,189 --> 00:18:28,190 [man] Let's go! 358 00:18:28,273 --> 00:18:31,235 I don't like to lose, and I won't lose in basketball, for sure. 359 00:18:31,318 --> 00:18:32,986 Definitely not to Garrett. [laughs] 360 00:18:34,738 --> 00:18:35,697 He's a cheater, man! 361 00:18:37,866 --> 00:18:40,452 [announcer 2] Who's gonna get a chair? G, don't cheat. 362 00:18:41,370 --> 00:18:43,622 They're going for the same basket over here! 363 00:18:43,705 --> 00:18:46,041 Tyler makes the play. Garrett's gotta make it. 364 00:18:46,125 --> 00:18:47,126 Get the chair! 365 00:18:48,335 --> 00:18:49,503 [crowd groans] 366 00:18:49,586 --> 00:18:50,712 [man 2] Big science guy. 367 00:18:50,796 --> 00:18:51,713 [laughs] 368 00:18:52,464 --> 00:18:53,340 [man 3] Garrett's out. 369 00:18:53,423 --> 00:18:54,967 [man 4] You let us down. 370 00:18:55,050 --> 00:18:56,343 [laughing] 371 00:18:56,426 --> 00:18:59,429 [announcer 2] G-Wiz or Tyler? Make a layup! 372 00:18:59,513 --> 00:19:00,931 Gotta make a layup. 373 00:19:01,014 --> 00:19:03,225 Cheer him on, DC family! 374 00:19:03,308 --> 00:19:04,351 [men cheering] 375 00:19:05,352 --> 00:19:06,645 [man 5] Let's go! 376 00:19:06,728 --> 00:19:09,439 [laughing] 377 00:19:10,899 --> 00:19:12,693 Tyler, congratulations. 378 00:19:12,776 --> 00:19:15,070 You're winning this autographed basketball. 379 00:19:16,530 --> 00:19:20,200 [Garrett] That was fun. I came in behind you, I was like, "No! I can't make it!" 380 00:19:20,284 --> 00:19:22,786 You went to the same court. I was like, "What are you doing?" 381 00:19:22,870 --> 00:19:25,372 This has by far exceeded expectations. 382 00:19:25,455 --> 00:19:28,917 The bachelor party in my head was go out, a few drinks, 383 00:19:29,001 --> 00:19:32,880 not getting to go in front of thousands of people and do layups. 384 00:19:32,963 --> 00:19:34,590 It's so dope. 385 00:19:35,174 --> 00:19:36,884 Yo! [laughing] 386 00:19:36,967 --> 00:19:40,345 [Brandon] Yo, are y'all even friends after that anymore? God damn! 387 00:19:40,846 --> 00:19:42,389 [Tyler] I whooped his ass. 388 00:19:42,472 --> 00:19:45,017 -[man] Unfortunately, I got that on video. -He's my new friend. 389 00:19:45,100 --> 00:19:47,561 [laughing] 390 00:19:50,230 --> 00:19:51,773 [woman] Wait, it didn't go yet. 391 00:19:53,233 --> 00:19:55,360 [Taylor laughing] 392 00:19:55,444 --> 00:19:56,486 Nice. 393 00:19:56,987 --> 00:19:58,488 Very nice. 394 00:19:58,572 --> 00:20:01,742 -[pop music playing] -♪ Oh-oh-oh-oh! I came here for the win ♪ 395 00:20:02,409 --> 00:20:05,204 ♪ Oh-oh-oh-oh! I came here for the win ♪ 396 00:20:06,163 --> 00:20:08,415 Ashley and I are very strong women. 397 00:20:08,498 --> 00:20:12,586 That if something comes up that would've been a nonnegotiable thing before, 398 00:20:12,669 --> 00:20:13,921 we would have just, like… 399 00:20:14,004 --> 00:20:16,340 -Immediately. -[Taylor] Walked away. Immediately done. 400 00:20:17,132 --> 00:20:20,302 Like, my go-to thing is I delete all of our text messages. 401 00:20:20,385 --> 00:20:21,678 -I delete your number. -[laughing] 402 00:20:21,762 --> 00:20:24,014 -I pretend like they died. -[Taylor] Yeah. 403 00:20:24,097 --> 00:20:26,934 -That's the best way. -[Taylor] They are no longer with us. 404 00:20:27,017 --> 00:20:30,479 And so I think for this, it's very fast moving. 405 00:20:30,562 --> 00:20:33,315 -Yeah. -So we have to give a lot more grace. 406 00:20:33,398 --> 00:20:35,400 [Ashley A] A lot more grace to ourselves. 407 00:20:35,484 --> 00:20:38,403 To ourselves, and, like, when our men mess up. 408 00:20:38,487 --> 00:20:40,572 They're still men. They're gonna mess up. 409 00:20:40,656 --> 00:20:43,659 -[man] Hey, hey, hey! -[laughing] 410 00:20:43,742 --> 00:20:46,370 -[woman] The I Do Crew. -[woman 2] The I Do Crew! 411 00:20:46,453 --> 00:20:48,330 [cheering] 412 00:20:49,539 --> 00:20:51,667 -[woman 3] Love you, girls. -[woman 4] Love you, guys. 413 00:20:58,006 --> 00:21:01,301 [pop music playing] 414 00:21:03,178 --> 00:21:04,346 ♪ Hearts ♪ 415 00:21:04,888 --> 00:21:06,306 ♪ Don't ♪ 416 00:21:07,099 --> 00:21:08,100 ♪ Lie ♪ 417 00:21:11,645 --> 00:21:12,521 ♪ You… ♪ 418 00:21:14,314 --> 00:21:15,399 Thank you so much. 419 00:21:18,819 --> 00:21:19,778 Stunning. 420 00:21:19,861 --> 00:21:24,074 [music continues] 421 00:21:28,036 --> 00:21:29,621 I am getting married. 422 00:21:30,205 --> 00:21:32,040 So cute! 423 00:21:32,749 --> 00:21:36,753 Just knowing that this is the day I've waited for, you know, 424 00:21:36,837 --> 00:21:40,090 since I was a kid, it's just so crazy to me. 425 00:21:40,173 --> 00:21:43,051 [sighs] I'm a bride. 426 00:21:43,135 --> 00:21:45,846 I always dreamt about my wedding. 427 00:21:45,929 --> 00:21:48,682 I obviously didn't dream about it in this scenario, 428 00:21:48,765 --> 00:21:50,934 but I'm actually living my own fairy tale. 429 00:21:51,018 --> 00:21:53,937 I've got my peonies, my hydrangeas. 430 00:21:55,147 --> 00:21:56,023 [sniffles] 431 00:21:59,818 --> 00:22:01,778 "To Ashley from Tyler." 432 00:22:02,738 --> 00:22:04,281 Oh, my goodness. 433 00:22:04,865 --> 00:22:06,366 So sweet. 434 00:22:06,908 --> 00:22:08,243 So special. Just like… 435 00:22:08,327 --> 00:22:10,412 Oh! Tyler's ring! 436 00:22:11,830 --> 00:22:13,665 I'm literally getting married. 437 00:22:14,207 --> 00:22:17,753 -[pop music playing] -♪ I don't know much ♪ 438 00:22:17,836 --> 00:22:21,089 ♪ But I know why, I know why ♪ 439 00:22:21,173 --> 00:22:24,009 ♪ I feel so happy ♪ 440 00:22:24,092 --> 00:22:25,093 All right. 441 00:22:27,804 --> 00:22:28,764 [grunts] 442 00:22:32,267 --> 00:22:36,188 Today is my wedding day, and I'm feeling all types of nerves. 443 00:22:36,271 --> 00:22:38,565 I didn't sleep at all last night, actually. 444 00:22:43,612 --> 00:22:46,198 This is probably going to be the biggest day of my life. 445 00:22:56,792 --> 00:23:00,921 In the corner reading a book? This is the biggest day of your life. 446 00:23:01,004 --> 00:23:02,714 I've overcome so much throughout my life, 447 00:23:02,798 --> 00:23:05,675 mentally, physically and with Ashley, 448 00:23:05,759 --> 00:23:08,512 just felt like love coming through a wall. 449 00:23:08,595 --> 00:23:09,596 [Ashley A] "Tyler…" 450 00:23:11,556 --> 00:23:14,142 "You deserve love more than anyone I've ever met." 451 00:23:15,102 --> 00:23:17,437 "I don't wanna question it for another second." 452 00:23:17,521 --> 00:23:21,441 Ashley, I love you so much. 453 00:23:22,901 --> 00:23:23,985 Will you marry me? 454 00:23:24,569 --> 00:23:26,822 I would be honored to marry you, Tyler. 455 00:23:26,905 --> 00:23:29,574 [pop music playing] 456 00:23:29,658 --> 00:23:30,867 [gasps] 457 00:23:31,660 --> 00:23:32,494 Mm. 458 00:23:33,036 --> 00:23:35,205 Whoo! Get off! [laughing] 459 00:23:37,499 --> 00:23:41,211 Ashley, Ashley, Ashley, you're my best friend. You're, like, my soulmate. 460 00:23:41,294 --> 00:23:43,130 Just a great person in general. 461 00:23:43,213 --> 00:23:44,965 She's the most beautiful person in the world. 462 00:23:45,048 --> 00:23:48,969 Can't wait to spend the rest of my life with her. Ashley is everything. 463 00:23:49,511 --> 00:23:51,763 ♪ When the world is broken ♪ 464 00:23:52,347 --> 00:23:54,307 ♪ When you don't feel safe ♪ 465 00:23:55,142 --> 00:23:59,062 ♪ I'll never leave your side ♪ 466 00:24:00,272 --> 00:24:04,401 I'm trippin', dawg. You're really about to get married, bro. This shit is crazy! 467 00:24:04,484 --> 00:24:07,237 -[Jake] That's hitting you now? -We're used to Gangster Ty. 468 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:09,197 [Bryan] Gangster Ty? "Fuck love!" 469 00:24:09,281 --> 00:24:12,909 -[laughing] -[Bryan] "I ain't getting no married!" 470 00:24:12,993 --> 00:24:16,204 [Ki'Andre] Hey, I don't know what kind of kiss she done gave you, hugs. 471 00:24:16,288 --> 00:24:18,331 It had to be something, dawg. 472 00:24:18,415 --> 00:24:19,958 Let me be happy, dawg. 473 00:24:20,041 --> 00:24:22,043 [Ki'Andre] Ty been wanting love his whole life. 474 00:24:22,627 --> 00:24:25,297 So when y'all get out of here, what y'all got planned? 475 00:24:25,380 --> 00:24:27,299 [Taylor] The wedding, then there's a reception. 476 00:24:27,382 --> 00:24:31,428 But after all of us, all of us leave, where y'all going? 477 00:24:31,511 --> 00:24:34,514 -To the baby-making station. -Down to pound town. 478 00:24:34,598 --> 00:24:38,268 -[Jake] You trying to have a baby? -[Ki'Andre] See how he started smiling? 479 00:24:38,351 --> 00:24:40,437 [Jake] You trying to have a baby soon? 480 00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:42,522 She does. In, like, a year. 481 00:24:42,606 --> 00:24:43,857 [Ki'Andre] My boy in love, dawg. 482 00:24:43,940 --> 00:24:45,734 [laughing] 483 00:24:45,817 --> 00:24:48,570 -[pop music playing] -[vocalizing] 484 00:24:50,864 --> 00:24:52,657 -Hi. -[cheering] 485 00:24:53,408 --> 00:24:54,534 [man] Oh, my gosh. 486 00:24:55,952 --> 00:24:57,871 -[Telli] Oh, my God! -[Ashley A] You look so cute! 487 00:24:57,954 --> 00:24:59,498 -Hi. -Oh, my God, you guys! 488 00:24:59,581 --> 00:25:01,833 -Princess! -Oh, my gosh! 489 00:25:01,917 --> 00:25:04,294 You guys just made it feel so much more real. 490 00:25:04,377 --> 00:25:05,504 Oh, my God! 491 00:25:05,587 --> 00:25:09,216 -Look at you getting ready. -I know! Hi, hi, hi! 492 00:25:09,299 --> 00:25:11,927 [Telli] I brought you a gift. I can't wait for you to see it. 493 00:25:12,010 --> 00:25:12,844 Oh, my gosh. 494 00:25:12,928 --> 00:25:14,721 -You should open it now. -[Ashley A] Okay. 495 00:25:16,348 --> 00:25:17,390 [gasps] 496 00:25:17,474 --> 00:25:20,393 What the-- wait, this is stunning. 497 00:25:20,477 --> 00:25:21,561 [Telli] It's a robe. 498 00:25:21,645 --> 00:25:23,939 -[Ashley A] Wait, what? -Yes. 499 00:25:24,523 --> 00:25:26,441 -Sexy time. [laughing] -[woman] Yeah! 500 00:25:26,525 --> 00:25:27,651 [Telli] That's the tea. 501 00:25:27,734 --> 00:25:30,362 -I wanted to know, like, did you try? -[Ashley A] Yeah. 502 00:25:30,445 --> 00:25:32,656 -Oh, yeah, girl, we tried. -You got to. 503 00:25:32,739 --> 00:25:36,159 I love this. I'm obsessed. Thank you so much. I need to hang it. 504 00:25:36,243 --> 00:25:39,496 If anybody deserves it, girl, you deserve it. 505 00:25:39,579 --> 00:25:41,456 -[Ashley A] Absolutely. -[Telli] Absolutely. 506 00:25:41,540 --> 00:25:43,375 -[Ashley A] Thank you. -Abso-fucking-lutely. 507 00:25:43,458 --> 00:25:44,834 [Telli] Are you ready? 508 00:25:44,918 --> 00:25:47,796 Um, you know… You know me. I'm a relationship girl. 509 00:25:47,879 --> 00:25:51,341 I just thought I would reach this point a while ago. 510 00:25:51,424 --> 00:25:54,928 Then it looked like I wouldn't reach this point for a while. [chuckles] 511 00:25:55,011 --> 00:25:57,681 You know, because the quality of men ain't… 512 00:25:57,764 --> 00:25:59,391 -Slim pickings. -[Ashley A] Okay? 513 00:25:59,474 --> 00:26:02,811 -We're on the clearance rack. Listen. -[woman] Clearance rack. 514 00:26:02,894 --> 00:26:05,313 -We plucking. Literally. -[Ashley A] Literally. 515 00:26:05,397 --> 00:26:06,815 So now I'm just like, 516 00:26:06,898 --> 00:26:10,777 I like that I found someone that loves as hard as I do. 517 00:26:11,528 --> 00:26:13,530 I feel safe. 518 00:26:13,613 --> 00:26:16,783 -[Brian] Yeah. -The protecting physically is, like, cool. 519 00:26:16,866 --> 00:26:20,078 But, like, I feel protected emotionally, 520 00:26:20,161 --> 00:26:22,664 which is the most vulnerable part of myself 521 00:26:22,747 --> 00:26:24,791 that I don't share with everyone, so… 522 00:26:24,874 --> 00:26:26,042 I love that. 523 00:26:26,126 --> 00:26:29,337 So, wait, are you the big spoon, and he's the little spoon? 524 00:26:29,421 --> 00:26:30,422 Like, how is that? 525 00:26:30,505 --> 00:26:32,465 He's big in areas, and I'm big in areas. 526 00:26:32,549 --> 00:26:35,760 And the one thing I always tell people I love about him is that 527 00:26:35,844 --> 00:26:37,429 he allows me to be powerful. 528 00:26:38,013 --> 00:26:41,016 I don't wanna be put in this little box. I don't wanna be put in the kitchen. 529 00:26:41,099 --> 00:26:43,226 I have a career. I'm successful. 530 00:26:43,310 --> 00:26:45,186 -Who cooks? You or him? -Both. 531 00:26:45,270 --> 00:26:47,606 -I love that. -My ex couldn't boil an egg. 532 00:26:47,731 --> 00:26:50,317 -[laughing] -[Ashley A] Literally. He does a lot. 533 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:53,486 Every day he wakes up and gets me coffee, every single day. 534 00:26:53,570 --> 00:26:57,657 Let me tell you that the beginning stages, all of that is… [scoffs] 535 00:26:57,741 --> 00:26:59,367 -Look, she knows. -[Ashley A] Mm-hmm. 536 00:26:59,451 --> 00:27:04,039 -It's not they don't love you, you know. -No, yeah. But he likes to be that way. 537 00:27:04,122 --> 00:27:05,248 He likes to do for me. 538 00:27:05,332 --> 00:27:07,751 I don't ask him to get me coffee. He just started doing it. 539 00:27:08,418 --> 00:27:11,129 He won't continue all habits, especially once we have kids, 540 00:27:11,212 --> 00:27:14,215 but I genuinely feel like he is just a lover. 541 00:27:14,299 --> 00:27:17,218 This man is willing to leap out of planes for you, girl. 542 00:27:17,302 --> 00:27:18,261 [Telli] Yeah, literally. 543 00:27:18,345 --> 00:27:21,765 [laughing] You can't even make a man go to 7-Eleven for you, get you a soda. 544 00:27:21,848 --> 00:27:24,142 -I can't wait to meet him. -[Ashley A] Yeah. 545 00:27:25,185 --> 00:27:28,438 I can't wait to, like, see when he sees you come down the aisle. 546 00:27:28,521 --> 00:27:29,981 [Brittany] I know, right? 547 00:27:30,065 --> 00:27:32,400 You deserve it, like, so much. 548 00:27:36,112 --> 00:27:38,490 I know Ashley. If she's gonna say yes, she's sure. 549 00:27:39,574 --> 00:27:41,868 The only thing that could make me not say yes 550 00:27:41,951 --> 00:27:45,205 is for something catastrophic to happen within the next few hours. 551 00:27:47,832 --> 00:27:49,876 It would have to be as me walking down the aisle, 552 00:27:49,959 --> 00:27:53,421 something on his face, something that I'm like… 553 00:27:53,505 --> 00:27:55,298 -[Telli] Like you feel it. Yeah. -I feel. 554 00:27:55,382 --> 00:27:57,467 -My intuition is insane. -Right. 555 00:27:57,550 --> 00:28:00,804 [Brian] That boy's gonna be bawling while you're walking down the aisle. 556 00:28:00,887 --> 00:28:02,013 He's gonna be crying. 557 00:28:02,097 --> 00:28:05,433 From what she's telling me, he's been waiting for this moment. 558 00:28:05,517 --> 00:28:06,518 [Brian] Yeah, for sure. 559 00:28:06,601 --> 00:28:09,270 Here's the thing. It's an actual leap of faith. 560 00:28:09,354 --> 00:28:11,648 -No, 110%. -[Ashley A] I am diving in. 561 00:28:11,731 --> 00:28:15,610 I'm trusting this person 180% to protect me, to care for me, 562 00:28:15,694 --> 00:28:18,738 for me to do the same. And it's a leap of faith. 563 00:28:18,822 --> 00:28:22,117 But leaps of faith don't always mean that you know the outcome. 564 00:28:27,580 --> 00:28:28,707 Today's the day. 565 00:28:28,790 --> 00:28:31,126 -Yeah, nervous as shit. -I can tell. 566 00:28:31,209 --> 00:28:33,628 -My hands are cold as shit. Yeah. -Are they? 567 00:28:33,712 --> 00:28:35,296 -[laughs] God damn, bro. -Yeah. 568 00:28:35,380 --> 00:28:36,339 What the hell? 569 00:28:36,423 --> 00:28:39,467 This happened so fast. You know what I mean ? Like, two months ago. 570 00:28:39,551 --> 00:28:41,177 Two years in our minds. 571 00:28:41,261 --> 00:28:43,221 -That's what it feels like? -Yeah. 572 00:28:43,304 --> 00:28:46,182 -How do you guys feel about it though? -I think we're good. 573 00:28:46,266 --> 00:28:48,935 You "think"? That's a key word there. 574 00:28:49,018 --> 00:28:52,647 I mean, you always… I'm not 100% until she says yes. 575 00:28:52,731 --> 00:28:55,525 -I don't know. I'm 100%. Yeah. -You're 100%. 576 00:28:55,608 --> 00:28:57,444 You don't know if she's 100%? 577 00:28:57,527 --> 00:29:00,071 No, I would definitely think that she's 100%. 578 00:29:00,155 --> 00:29:02,949 It's just you can never be certain about things. 579 00:29:04,617 --> 00:29:05,952 Not until they happen. 580 00:29:06,035 --> 00:29:07,579 You know, we've talked about it. 581 00:29:07,662 --> 00:29:12,709 This whole concept from the get-go was kind of wild to me. 582 00:29:12,792 --> 00:29:14,335 Right? Personally. 583 00:29:16,838 --> 00:29:20,091 [sighs] I gotta be honest. I'm excited for you. 584 00:29:20,675 --> 00:29:21,968 I hope this shit works out. 585 00:29:22,051 --> 00:29:24,220 I really do because I see it. 586 00:29:24,304 --> 00:29:27,432 I see in your mannerisms, in the way you talk, 587 00:29:27,515 --> 00:29:30,226 in the way that you've been, you know, acting, in general. 588 00:29:30,310 --> 00:29:32,228 Like, you're all in. 589 00:29:32,854 --> 00:29:34,939 -Right? -Not a doubt in my mind. 590 00:29:37,442 --> 00:29:41,112 I want her to hear what I gotta say. I'm just ready to see her. 591 00:29:47,243 --> 00:29:48,787 [Telli] Is your dad coming, Ash? 592 00:29:48,870 --> 00:29:52,290 Yeah, he's gonna walk me down the aisle. At the end, he'll hand me to my mom. 593 00:29:52,373 --> 00:29:55,001 -My mom will hand me to Tyler. -How you think he's gonna feel? 594 00:29:55,084 --> 00:29:56,586 Hey, you lucky you're here, brother. 595 00:29:56,669 --> 00:29:59,756 We have a great relationship now, but my mom did the heavy lifting. 596 00:29:59,839 --> 00:30:02,342 -No, I was surprised you even said that. -[Ashley A] Yeah. 597 00:30:02,425 --> 00:30:03,802 Yeah, he met Tyler. He cried. 598 00:30:03,885 --> 00:30:05,178 Aww. 599 00:30:05,261 --> 00:30:07,055 -So he likes him for you? -Yeah. 600 00:30:08,431 --> 00:30:09,808 [Ki'Andre] This is not a drill. 601 00:30:09,891 --> 00:30:12,143 James Bond is walking down the aisle. 602 00:30:12,227 --> 00:30:13,853 [Bryan] Butterflies is kicking in. 603 00:30:13,937 --> 00:30:16,147 [Tyler] I was nervous, but now it feels like, "God damn." 604 00:30:16,231 --> 00:30:17,524 -"We're here." What's up? -Yeah. 605 00:30:18,107 --> 00:30:20,443 My stomach hurts now. I feel like I'm on a roller coaster. 606 00:30:20,527 --> 00:30:22,779 [Bryan] You're good. Take these shots real quick. 607 00:30:22,862 --> 00:30:24,405 Free throws, you better end this game. 608 00:30:24,489 --> 00:30:27,534 Appreciate y'all boys coming here today to celebrate this with me. 609 00:30:27,617 --> 00:30:30,286 -Love y'all boys. Appreciate y'all. -Love you, brother. 610 00:30:30,370 --> 00:30:32,622 -Love you, man. I'm excited. -Let's go. 611 00:30:32,705 --> 00:30:33,706 Let's go. 612 00:30:36,334 --> 00:30:39,504 Oh, can we go glasses? I don't wanna cry in front of everybody. 613 00:30:39,587 --> 00:30:41,130 I'm taking my glasses just in case. 614 00:30:41,214 --> 00:30:42,257 [laughing] 615 00:30:42,340 --> 00:30:45,635 -["Better Together" playing] -♪ We're better together ♪ 616 00:30:45,718 --> 00:30:48,429 ♪ We're so much better together ♪ 617 00:30:49,430 --> 00:30:52,225 -[gasping] -Oh, my gosh. She looks so good. 618 00:30:52,308 --> 00:30:54,853 -[Brittany] You look so beautiful. -[Telli] It fits you so good. 619 00:30:54,936 --> 00:30:55,979 So beautiful. 620 00:30:56,771 --> 00:30:58,690 [Carla] I remember when you were a little baby. 621 00:30:58,773 --> 00:31:01,985 You had a little pink dress, did your hair with a little pink bow, 622 00:31:02,068 --> 00:31:03,570 and I put toenail polish on you. 623 00:31:03,653 --> 00:31:05,572 Our perfect princess. 624 00:31:05,655 --> 00:31:06,865 [laughing] 625 00:31:06,948 --> 00:31:08,116 [Ashley A] Can you believe it? 626 00:31:08,199 --> 00:31:11,536 [woman] The key to the whole thing is following your heart. 627 00:31:11,619 --> 00:31:14,080 And it will bring you to your true destination. 628 00:31:14,163 --> 00:31:15,206 -And it has. -Yep. 629 00:31:15,290 --> 00:31:18,084 -Yes, it has. -I'm nervous. Don't ask me something else. 630 00:31:18,167 --> 00:31:19,794 [laughing] 631 00:31:19,878 --> 00:31:23,423 -[laughing] -You each mean a lot to me. 632 00:31:23,506 --> 00:31:27,135 And obviously, my mom and my grandma, and the leading ladies in my life. 633 00:31:27,218 --> 00:31:29,929 It's a blessing to be able to have this moment and to share this moment 634 00:31:30,013 --> 00:31:34,058 that some people don't get to, you know, share with their loved ones, so… 635 00:31:34,142 --> 00:31:38,396 Um… yeah, I'm just really happy. 636 00:31:39,397 --> 00:31:42,442 And we're happy to be here for your happiness. 637 00:31:42,525 --> 00:31:44,360 We all knew that this day was gonna come. 638 00:31:44,444 --> 00:31:45,862 -[Telli] Yeah. -[Brian] For sure. 639 00:31:45,945 --> 00:31:47,864 -Never had any doubt. -[Telli] Yeah. 640 00:31:48,448 --> 00:31:52,160 Sometimes we hit bumps in the road, but once we get there, 641 00:31:52,243 --> 00:31:53,369 this is the result. 642 00:31:55,121 --> 00:31:58,041 Tyler is gonna shed tears when he sees you. 643 00:31:58,124 --> 00:31:59,918 -He has to. -[Betty] Beautiful young lady. 644 00:32:01,502 --> 00:32:03,254 You look absolutely… 645 00:32:03,338 --> 00:32:04,756 Stunning. Yes. 646 00:32:04,839 --> 00:32:06,841 [Carla] I don't think there's words for how you look. 647 00:32:06,925 --> 00:32:09,385 -You look so beautiful. -[Ashley A] Thank you. Thank you. 648 00:32:09,469 --> 00:32:11,846 I've always said I wanna get married and stay married. 649 00:32:11,930 --> 00:32:14,265 -Right. -And I want a happy marriage. 650 00:32:14,349 --> 00:32:16,517 Someone that was gonna be my friend, my partner, 651 00:32:16,601 --> 00:32:19,771 that I was sure of, and that I could trust. 652 00:32:19,854 --> 00:32:22,273 As much as I love Pop, you know, 653 00:32:22,357 --> 00:32:24,525 I learned, just from watching, 654 00:32:24,609 --> 00:32:26,611 the things I want and the things I didn't want. 655 00:32:26,694 --> 00:32:29,030 There were great things, like the longevity you guys had 656 00:32:29,113 --> 00:32:30,823 that no one could take from you, that I want. 657 00:32:30,907 --> 00:32:31,741 [Betty] Mm-hmm. 658 00:32:31,824 --> 00:32:35,954 But I want someone that I can enjoy, and that's my friend 659 00:32:36,037 --> 00:32:38,414 and my partner and that doesn't leave me doing things alone. 660 00:32:38,498 --> 00:32:39,624 Exactly. 661 00:32:39,707 --> 00:32:43,336 It was Pop's death that led me to building my relationship with my father. 662 00:32:44,045 --> 00:32:48,049 I was like, "I don't want to leave any stones unturned in that scenario either." 663 00:32:48,132 --> 00:32:50,718 And that's when I began to appreciate my father 664 00:32:50,802 --> 00:32:53,471 "for who he is," versus what I wanted him to be. 665 00:32:54,472 --> 00:32:58,476 With that, um, I'm able to still find the good in him. 666 00:32:58,559 --> 00:32:59,936 "What do I look up to him for?" 667 00:33:00,019 --> 00:33:02,105 But he has other things I can look up to him for. 668 00:33:02,188 --> 00:33:03,815 -[Carla] He's done very well. -Very well. 669 00:33:03,898 --> 00:33:05,692 I admire him for that aspect. 670 00:33:05,775 --> 00:33:09,278 But I knew one thing for sure is I didn't want any man 671 00:33:09,779 --> 00:33:11,698 that was going to 672 00:33:11,781 --> 00:33:14,993 treat me like he's treated women and my mom. 673 00:33:16,786 --> 00:33:19,038 You always craved that friendship. 674 00:33:19,122 --> 00:33:20,707 -You know what I mean? -[Carla] Mm-hmm. 675 00:33:20,790 --> 00:33:22,834 We're human. We all make mistakes. 676 00:33:23,501 --> 00:33:27,463 Instead of being angry and holding on to past feelings, 677 00:33:27,547 --> 00:33:29,424 you chose to heal. 678 00:33:29,507 --> 00:33:31,175 -[Betty] Mm-hmm. -And you chose to forgive. 679 00:33:31,259 --> 00:33:32,802 Look how healed you are. 680 00:33:32,885 --> 00:33:35,304 Look where your journey has taken you. 681 00:33:36,222 --> 00:33:38,057 -You're about to be married. -[Ashley A] Yeah. 682 00:33:38,141 --> 00:33:41,060 I'm very, very, very proud of you, Ashley. 683 00:33:41,144 --> 00:33:43,813 -I love you, guys. -I'm so super happy. 684 00:33:49,277 --> 00:33:50,278 Hey. 685 00:33:55,241 --> 00:33:56,534 Don't be stressed. 686 00:33:59,454 --> 00:34:00,455 What's wrong? 687 00:34:02,457 --> 00:34:03,458 Hmm? 688 00:34:03,541 --> 00:34:05,585 -Just nervous? -Yep. 689 00:34:10,631 --> 00:34:11,758 [Dawn] You're good. 690 00:34:12,341 --> 00:34:13,342 [Tyler] Just… 691 00:34:13,426 --> 00:34:15,553 You're not feeling that 'cause you're second-guessing? 692 00:34:15,636 --> 00:34:18,222 No, I'm not second-guessing. Yeah, I just… 693 00:34:18,306 --> 00:34:20,850 -My emotions are all over the place. -Yeah. 694 00:34:21,350 --> 00:34:23,144 -It's a big step, Tyler. -Yeah. 695 00:34:24,687 --> 00:34:26,856 What's going on? Just your nerves? 696 00:34:26,939 --> 00:34:27,815 Yeah. 697 00:34:28,816 --> 00:34:31,360 You're fine, honey. You're fine. 698 00:34:31,444 --> 00:34:33,571 -No, it's just a lot. -I know. 699 00:34:33,654 --> 00:34:34,655 I know. 700 00:34:35,490 --> 00:34:38,576 But I've only heard you say, like, amazing stuff about her. 701 00:34:40,119 --> 00:34:43,790 You know? I don't think it's… I think it's normal. 702 00:34:43,873 --> 00:34:46,918 -It's just normal jitters, and… -Yeah. 703 00:34:47,418 --> 00:34:49,879 I've asked you how many times already. 704 00:34:49,962 --> 00:34:51,756 -"Are you sure? Are you sure?" -Yeah. 705 00:34:51,839 --> 00:34:54,675 You're definitely sure, right? 706 00:34:56,928 --> 00:34:58,221 [exhales] 707 00:34:58,971 --> 00:35:02,100 -[exhales] -I'mma be in shambles when she comes out. 708 00:35:02,183 --> 00:35:03,810 You better get it together. [laughing] 709 00:35:03,893 --> 00:35:05,561 I can't. I've been trying. 710 00:35:06,729 --> 00:35:08,439 My palms are sweating. 711 00:35:08,523 --> 00:35:10,149 You're gonna be fine. 712 00:35:11,025 --> 00:35:13,111 You're gonna be fine. You love her. 713 00:35:13,194 --> 00:35:14,112 You know what I mean? 714 00:35:14,195 --> 00:35:18,116 You've never said once you weren't sure. 715 00:35:20,910 --> 00:35:22,036 Yeah, but… 716 00:35:22,537 --> 00:35:24,664 -But what? -Through a wall, you know? 717 00:35:25,164 --> 00:35:27,875 -I know that's just crazy to me. -Yeah. 718 00:35:28,626 --> 00:35:32,130 You've always done the outside part. 719 00:35:32,213 --> 00:35:35,424 I know. That's what I'm saying. Yeah, I think we'll be good. 720 00:35:35,508 --> 00:35:36,884 [Dawn] Big step, Tyler. 721 00:35:37,677 --> 00:35:40,638 You still okay with, like, not inviting your dad? 722 00:35:40,721 --> 00:35:44,100 Yeah, I thought about that this morning, like, him not being here. 723 00:35:44,934 --> 00:35:46,352 Again, only because I was like, 724 00:35:46,435 --> 00:35:51,107 "He's probably sitting at home, like, 'Damn, I'm dying, and I don't get to go.'" 725 00:35:51,190 --> 00:35:52,024 But… 726 00:35:53,526 --> 00:35:56,529 He put that on himself though. Like, I couldn't… 727 00:35:57,530 --> 00:35:59,615 There's no way I can be emotional, I guess, around him. 728 00:35:59,699 --> 00:36:02,451 -Yeah, it's like a stranger. -That's a random, grown man. 729 00:36:02,535 --> 00:36:04,912 -This is your day. I think it's fine. -Yeah. 730 00:36:04,996 --> 00:36:08,082 But even Grandma said it, like, "I'm glad he didn't." You know? 731 00:36:08,583 --> 00:36:09,917 -Come? -Yeah. 732 00:36:11,460 --> 00:36:13,296 -We talked about it on the way up. -She knows. 733 00:36:13,379 --> 00:36:15,423 She does. He has to blame himself for that. 734 00:36:17,717 --> 00:36:18,885 I'm ready though. 735 00:36:19,385 --> 00:36:21,387 I know you are. I know you are. 736 00:36:21,470 --> 00:36:25,308 You deserve to be happy. You've always gave, gave, gave so much. 737 00:36:25,391 --> 00:36:28,811 You know what I mean? It's your turn. You definitely deserve this. 738 00:36:29,478 --> 00:36:32,565 [dramatic music playing] 739 00:36:50,958 --> 00:36:52,668 This is actually really nice. 740 00:36:52,752 --> 00:36:54,420 [Dawn] Everybody's looking at us. 741 00:36:54,503 --> 00:36:55,421 [Tyler] Hell yeah. 742 00:37:06,349 --> 00:37:07,433 This is you, Mama. 743 00:37:08,434 --> 00:37:09,268 Thanks. 744 00:37:11,437 --> 00:37:13,522 Go ahead, handsome. 745 00:37:13,606 --> 00:37:14,607 Thank you. 746 00:37:15,399 --> 00:37:16,692 He's so nervous. 747 00:37:23,324 --> 00:37:25,993 -["Spellbound Symphony" playing] -[vocalizing] 748 00:37:26,077 --> 00:37:30,539 ♪ I'm in a spellbound symphony ♪ 749 00:37:30,623 --> 00:37:33,167 ♪ This is a miracle… ♪ 750 00:37:34,919 --> 00:37:36,587 Aww. 751 00:37:37,713 --> 00:37:38,756 [exhales] 752 00:37:38,839 --> 00:37:40,841 ♪ In a miracle ♪ 753 00:37:42,343 --> 00:37:43,302 [gasps] 754 00:37:43,386 --> 00:37:44,512 Oh, wow. 755 00:37:46,472 --> 00:37:47,848 [exhales] 756 00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:50,768 I love you so much. 757 00:37:50,851 --> 00:37:51,852 Love you too. 758 00:37:51,936 --> 00:37:54,146 -You look so beautiful. -Thank you. 759 00:37:54,230 --> 00:37:56,274 -Jeez. -Aww. 760 00:37:56,357 --> 00:37:58,609 [chuckles] It's happening. 761 00:37:58,693 --> 00:38:01,362 You imagine these days, but to see it. 762 00:38:01,445 --> 00:38:04,031 -Yeah. -She's my only daughter. 763 00:38:04,115 --> 00:38:05,741 -You made me so proud. -Thank you. 764 00:38:05,825 --> 00:38:07,368 So proud of you. 765 00:38:07,451 --> 00:38:09,245 Your life's about to change. 766 00:38:11,539 --> 00:38:13,916 -Yeah. -You know? A lot of ways. 767 00:38:15,418 --> 00:38:18,254 -I believe that. Yeah, yeah. -It's gonna be fun. 768 00:38:18,337 --> 00:38:19,213 Life is fun. 769 00:38:19,297 --> 00:38:21,465 -Yeah. -Always look at the positive side. 770 00:38:22,091 --> 00:38:25,845 There's always negative, but don't dwell on the negative. 771 00:38:25,928 --> 00:38:28,806 -Thrive and enjoy the positive side. -Mm-hmm. 772 00:38:28,889 --> 00:38:31,058 -That's what got me through life. -[Ashley A] Yeah. 773 00:38:31,142 --> 00:38:35,271 Because, um, you know, 774 00:38:35,354 --> 00:38:38,232 it's the bad weather that makes you appreciate the good weather. 775 00:38:38,316 --> 00:38:39,859 That's so true. That's good. 776 00:38:39,942 --> 00:38:43,154 -And a lot of us run when it gets bad. -Hmm. 777 00:38:43,237 --> 00:38:44,238 Yeah. 778 00:38:44,905 --> 00:38:49,076 And then later on, we look down and be like, "Ooh, I should have stayed." 779 00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:50,119 [Ashley A] Mm-hmm. 780 00:38:50,202 --> 00:38:51,829 So when it gets bad, 781 00:38:52,663 --> 00:38:56,959 just know there's always bright skies after the rain. 782 00:38:57,043 --> 00:38:58,294 -Yeah, sure. -It's a journey. 783 00:38:58,377 --> 00:39:00,212 -Yeah. -It's a journey. 784 00:39:00,296 --> 00:39:02,590 -You have to stick in it. -I will. 785 00:39:02,673 --> 00:39:04,925 -Good or bad, you have to stick in it. -Yeah. Yeah. 786 00:39:05,009 --> 00:39:07,970 I love you, and I'm... [sobs] 787 00:39:08,054 --> 00:39:10,056 [chuckling] 788 00:39:14,935 --> 00:39:16,687 -[exhales] -[both clear throat] 789 00:39:18,814 --> 00:39:22,026 -[clears throat] I love you. -I love you too. Thank you. 790 00:39:22,109 --> 00:39:23,194 [Dickson clears throat] 791 00:39:24,320 --> 00:39:25,154 [exhales] 792 00:39:28,699 --> 00:39:30,868 Okay, let's do this. 793 00:39:30,951 --> 00:39:31,952 Let's do it. 794 00:39:32,036 --> 00:39:34,121 [playing medium-tempo tune] 795 00:39:36,916 --> 00:39:39,293 Will everyone who is able please rise for the bride? 796 00:39:49,387 --> 00:39:50,554 Oh, my God. 797 00:39:55,393 --> 00:39:58,312 -Can't be turning back now. -I know. [laughing] 798 00:40:09,240 --> 00:40:11,242 [crowd laughing] 799 00:40:16,288 --> 00:40:17,706 -I love you. -I love you. 800 00:40:17,790 --> 00:40:19,041 Thank you. 801 00:40:19,125 --> 00:40:21,544 Thank you so much, Mom! 802 00:40:22,420 --> 00:40:23,379 [Ashley A exhales] 803 00:40:27,842 --> 00:40:30,761 I ask today who presents this bride to be married? 804 00:40:31,554 --> 00:40:33,139 -Her mother. -[officiant] Thank you. 805 00:40:34,890 --> 00:40:36,392 Everyone may be seated. 806 00:40:38,561 --> 00:40:39,812 -All right. -You look great. 807 00:40:39,895 --> 00:40:41,522 -You look amazing. -Thank you. 808 00:40:41,605 --> 00:40:43,983 [officiant] Could everyone please bow your heads for a prayer? 809 00:40:45,609 --> 00:40:48,362 "Heavenly Father, we come before you today 810 00:40:48,446 --> 00:40:52,575 to celebrate and witness the union of Ashley and Tyler in holy matrimony." 811 00:40:54,285 --> 00:40:57,288 "We thank you for bringing Ashley and Tyler together." 812 00:40:57,371 --> 00:40:59,623 "Today, as they stand before you and their loved ones, 813 00:40:59,707 --> 00:41:01,667 we ask your blessings upon them." 814 00:41:01,750 --> 00:41:03,961 "We pray this in Jesus' name. Amen." 815 00:41:04,044 --> 00:41:05,296 -Amen. -[crowd] Amen. 816 00:41:07,923 --> 00:41:11,594 "There are no perfect marriages because there are no perfect people." 817 00:41:12,219 --> 00:41:13,804 "There will be obstacles." 818 00:41:14,513 --> 00:41:17,433 "There will be loss, and there will be hardships." 819 00:41:17,516 --> 00:41:19,018 "There will be joy." 820 00:41:19,602 --> 00:41:21,103 "There will be much laughter." 821 00:41:21,187 --> 00:41:24,023 "There will be somebody to hold your hand and lift you up." 822 00:41:24,773 --> 00:41:26,901 "Remember that love isn't something you feel." 823 00:41:26,984 --> 00:41:28,611 "Love is something that you do." 824 00:41:29,195 --> 00:41:30,905 "But if you work at it every day, 825 00:41:30,988 --> 00:41:33,616 you will have your shot at a happily ever after." 826 00:41:33,699 --> 00:41:36,327 "And I believe that Tyler and Ashley will have just that." 827 00:41:36,410 --> 00:41:38,204 -Ooh! -Mm! 828 00:41:41,790 --> 00:41:42,875 [sighs] 829 00:41:43,584 --> 00:41:45,920 "Ashley, from the moment I heard your voice, 830 00:41:46,003 --> 00:41:48,172 I knew there was something special about you." 831 00:41:51,884 --> 00:41:55,513 "You've become my confidant, my joy and my greatest adventure." 832 00:41:56,805 --> 00:41:57,681 [exhales] 833 00:42:07,149 --> 00:42:08,400 Whew. 834 00:42:10,819 --> 00:42:12,404 "You've shown me what love truly is." 835 00:42:14,907 --> 00:42:17,785 ""I promise to cherish every moment, support your dreams 836 00:42:17,868 --> 00:42:20,120 and embrace the beautiful unknown that lies ahead." 837 00:42:20,204 --> 00:42:22,206 "With you, every day is a new chapter, 838 00:42:22,289 --> 00:42:25,292 and I can't wait to fill the pages of our love story together." 839 00:42:27,461 --> 00:42:28,504 [exhales] 840 00:42:28,587 --> 00:42:32,466 "I commit to building a future filled with laughter, understanding and joy." 841 00:42:33,175 --> 00:42:36,512 "As we embark on this journey together, I pledge my heart, 842 00:42:36,595 --> 00:42:39,181 my loyalty and my deepest love to you." 843 00:42:39,265 --> 00:42:42,685 "I promise to love you, keep God at the center of our lives 844 00:42:42,768 --> 00:42:45,104 and continue to keep taking these leaps of faith with you." 845 00:42:45,980 --> 00:42:46,855 I love you. 846 00:42:55,322 --> 00:42:56,407 [exhales] 847 00:42:56,865 --> 00:42:58,617 [inhales] Oh, Lord. 848 00:43:02,496 --> 00:43:03,622 "Tyler." 849 00:43:03,706 --> 00:43:04,790 "My Tyler." 850 00:43:07,376 --> 00:43:08,377 [sniffles] 851 00:43:10,588 --> 00:43:14,008 "The man who makes me feel soft, adored 852 00:43:14,091 --> 00:43:16,802 and protected, heart and body." 853 00:43:17,511 --> 00:43:21,056 "I've never felt a love this pure, yet fierce." 854 00:43:23,392 --> 00:43:24,560 [sniffles] 855 00:43:24,643 --> 00:43:28,022 "I feel like we can do anything in life as long as we have each other." 856 00:43:29,982 --> 00:43:33,569 [sniffles] "I feel like I'm living in my own fairy tale." 857 00:43:34,069 --> 00:43:35,529 "You're my soulmate." 858 00:43:36,238 --> 00:43:38,699 "I think the Lord created you just for me." 859 00:43:40,159 --> 00:43:42,494 "From symbolic leaps to emotional leaps, 860 00:43:42,578 --> 00:43:45,372 you've showed me every time that you're there for me." 861 00:43:48,208 --> 00:43:49,668 [sniffles] 862 00:43:49,752 --> 00:43:51,795 "You literally jumped out of a plane for me, 863 00:43:52,755 --> 00:43:54,923 and you're afraid of heights, which is nuts." 864 00:43:55,007 --> 00:43:56,675 -[crowd laughing] -"But you didn't fold." 865 00:43:57,426 --> 00:44:01,138 "And I love you for that, for always making sure I know you have my back." 866 00:44:02,222 --> 00:44:06,018 "With that, I promise to love and respect you as my best friend…" [sniffles] 867 00:44:06,101 --> 00:44:07,770 "…my future, and my partner in life." 868 00:44:07,853 --> 00:44:08,896 "It's you and I." 869 00:44:15,235 --> 00:44:16,820 Ashley, Ashley, Ashley. 870 00:44:18,947 --> 00:44:20,324 -[Ashley A sniffles] -[exhales] 871 00:44:20,407 --> 00:44:23,661 [officiant] "So, Ashley and Tyler, you chose to get engaged 872 00:44:23,744 --> 00:44:27,498 and spend your lives together based on a deep emotional connection." 873 00:44:28,082 --> 00:44:29,667 "Looks, age, 874 00:44:29,750 --> 00:44:32,753 finances and all the superficial things of the world 875 00:44:32,836 --> 00:44:34,213 were not a factor for you two." 876 00:44:36,006 --> 00:44:39,134 "Now is the time to decide if love is blind." 877 00:44:43,764 --> 00:44:46,558 "Will you get married and commit to face life together 878 00:44:46,642 --> 00:44:50,813 as husband and wife, or will you walk away forever?" 879 00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:53,816 [heart beating] 880 00:44:56,694 --> 00:45:00,155 "Tyler, do you take Ashley to be your wife, 881 00:45:02,199 --> 00:45:04,743 to have and to hold from this day forward?" 882 00:45:04,827 --> 00:45:08,956 "For better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, 883 00:45:09,039 --> 00:45:10,958 in sickness and in health, 884 00:45:11,041 --> 00:45:14,962 do you promise to love and cherish her till death do you part?" 885 00:45:15,045 --> 00:45:17,214 [dramatic music playing] 886 00:45:25,723 --> 00:45:26,724 I do. 887 00:45:30,227 --> 00:45:34,231 "Ashley, do you take Tyler to be your husband, 888 00:45:35,691 --> 00:45:37,818 to have and to hold from this day forward?" 889 00:45:37,901 --> 00:45:41,864 "For better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, 890 00:45:41,947 --> 00:45:43,866 in sickness and in health, 891 00:45:43,949 --> 00:45:47,870 do you promise to love and cherish him until death do you part?" 892 00:45:55,586 --> 00:45:56,587 I do. 893 00:45:57,588 --> 00:45:59,381 -[laughing] -[cheering] 894 00:45:59,465 --> 00:46:00,549 [whistles] 895 00:46:02,301 --> 00:46:04,970 -With this ring, I marry you. -[chuckles] I marry you. 896 00:46:05,053 --> 00:46:07,890 [crowd cheering] 897 00:46:07,973 --> 00:46:11,518 -[pop music playing] -♪ Hey! Hey, hey, hey… ♪ 898 00:46:11,602 --> 00:46:14,605 "I now pronounce you officially married. You are now husband and wife." 899 00:46:14,688 --> 00:46:16,648 -You may kiss your bride! -[crowd cheering] 900 00:46:18,025 --> 00:46:19,401 [laughing] 901 00:46:20,277 --> 00:46:23,405 Oh, my God! We're married! 902 00:46:25,073 --> 00:46:26,366 Can you believe this? 903 00:46:26,450 --> 00:46:27,701 Oh, yeah. 904 00:46:28,494 --> 00:46:30,412 [Brittany] You a married woman! 905 00:46:30,913 --> 00:46:33,290 -I'm married now. -[shouting] 906 00:46:35,334 --> 00:46:37,169 [woman laughs] I's married now! 907 00:46:37,753 --> 00:46:40,422 "So we're gonna end this ceremony with the African tradition 908 00:46:40,506 --> 00:46:41,590 of jumping the broom." 909 00:46:41,673 --> 00:46:44,176 "During the days of slavery in this country, 910 00:46:44,259 --> 00:46:46,762 Tyler and Ashley would have not been permitted to marry." 911 00:46:46,845 --> 00:46:49,640 "Jumping a broom was a formal and public declaration 912 00:46:49,723 --> 00:46:51,642 of the couple's commitment to one another, 913 00:46:51,725 --> 00:46:54,269 sweeping away all the negative energy 914 00:46:54,353 --> 00:46:58,106 and making for all things that are good to come into your lives." 915 00:46:58,190 --> 00:47:01,735 "So Tyler and Ashley will now begin their life with a clean sweep." 916 00:47:01,819 --> 00:47:03,570 -One, two… -Okay. 917 00:47:03,654 --> 00:47:04,655 [Brittany] Three. 918 00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:07,074 [cheering] 919 00:47:07,950 --> 00:47:09,701 ♪ I hope my heart… ♪ 920 00:47:09,785 --> 00:47:11,787 All right, it is now my privilege to introduce to you 921 00:47:11,870 --> 00:47:13,497 for the very first time 922 00:47:13,580 --> 00:47:16,542 Mr. and Mrs. Tyler and Ashley Francis! 923 00:47:16,625 --> 00:47:18,293 Let's go! 924 00:47:18,377 --> 00:47:21,171 [cheering] 925 00:47:22,339 --> 00:47:24,883 [Ashley A] Oh, my God, you guys! 926 00:47:24,967 --> 00:47:27,719 -Whew! -Oh, my God. 927 00:47:27,803 --> 00:47:29,179 I'm so happy for you. 928 00:47:29,263 --> 00:47:30,681 [man] Ah! 929 00:47:36,019 --> 00:47:37,646 -[chuckles] Whoo-hoo! -Whoo! 930 00:47:37,729 --> 00:47:42,442 Hello, my name is Ashley Adionser-Francis. 931 00:47:42,526 --> 00:47:44,695 Say it again. [laughs] 932 00:47:45,279 --> 00:47:47,573 -She got a husband. [laughs] -I have a husband. 933 00:47:47,656 --> 00:47:49,491 -You have a wife. -I do. 934 00:47:49,575 --> 00:47:51,076 [Ashley A] Can you believe this? 935 00:47:51,159 --> 00:47:52,578 We are married! 936 00:47:52,661 --> 00:47:54,204 -We made it. -We made it. 937 00:47:54,705 --> 00:47:58,542 I'm so excited. I feel like all the nerves that I felt now are just gone. 938 00:47:58,625 --> 00:47:59,877 Yeah. I'm floating. 939 00:47:59,960 --> 00:48:00,836 I'm really-- 940 00:48:00,919 --> 00:48:04,131 -I can't stop smiling. My cheeks hurt. -Best feeling in the world. 941 00:48:04,214 --> 00:48:06,550 -Mm-mm-mm! -[laughing] 942 00:48:09,177 --> 00:48:10,804 -I love you. -I love you. 943 00:48:10,888 --> 00:48:12,055 -[pops] -Whoo! 944 00:48:13,223 --> 00:48:14,683 Cheers to us. 945 00:48:16,351 --> 00:48:20,397 To a fun future of love and happiness. 946 00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:22,399 -[Ashley A] Yeah. We're married. -We're married. 947 00:48:23,942 --> 00:48:26,194 Babe, look at my shoes. You don't even realize. 948 00:48:26,278 --> 00:48:30,490 You can't see, but it says, "I do." 949 00:48:30,574 --> 00:48:33,201 -On the bottom? Oh! -How crazy, right? 950 00:48:33,285 --> 00:48:35,787 [laughing] I wish you would've shown me that this morning. 951 00:48:35,871 --> 00:48:36,872 [laughing] 952 00:48:36,955 --> 00:48:40,709 We started this journey two months ago, and it's changed our entire lives. 953 00:48:40,792 --> 00:48:41,627 Yeah. 954 00:48:41,710 --> 00:48:43,712 Now we get to spend the rest of our lives together. 955 00:48:43,795 --> 00:48:45,631 Two people on the other side of a wall. 956 00:48:45,714 --> 00:48:46,715 You look cute. 957 00:48:46,798 --> 00:48:49,301 [Tyler] Well, you look great. You married. 958 00:48:49,384 --> 00:48:50,636 [Ashley A] Mm-hmm. 959 00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:54,139 I'm looking forward to daily simple things with you. 960 00:48:54,222 --> 00:48:57,517 [Tyler] Just little things that makes her happy, weekly, monthly. 961 00:48:57,601 --> 00:48:59,728 Then that builds up. And then before we know it… 962 00:49:00,437 --> 00:49:01,855 -Kids? -Yeah. [laughs] 963 00:49:01,939 --> 00:49:03,482 -Yeah, I'm fine with that. -Babies. 964 00:49:03,565 --> 00:49:05,442 [laughing] 965 00:49:07,361 --> 00:49:09,571 -I love you. -I love you more. 966 00:49:10,906 --> 00:49:12,658 You a married man. 967 00:49:12,741 --> 00:49:14,660 -You a married woman. -I sure am. 968 00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,829 I sure am. I love it. 969 00:49:23,877 --> 00:49:26,922 ["Something New" by Jennifer June and James George playing] 970 00:49:37,766 --> 00:49:42,729 ♪ I feel something inside is changing ♪ 971 00:49:44,982 --> 00:49:47,901 ♪ I feel sun on my back ♪ 972 00:49:47,985 --> 00:49:49,653 ♪ And embrace it ♪ 973 00:49:51,989 --> 00:49:55,033 ♪ It's like seeing yourself ♪ 974 00:49:55,117 --> 00:49:57,119 ♪ For the first time ♪ 975 00:49:58,996 --> 00:50:04,209 ♪ It's so peaceful inside of my mind ♪ 976 00:50:05,752 --> 00:50:10,507 ♪ So let's start something new ♪ 977 00:50:10,590 --> 00:50:14,302 ♪ I'm in the mood for something new… ♪ 978 00:50:17,097 --> 00:50:20,225 Oh, my God! [laughing] 979 00:50:20,308 --> 00:50:21,476 So cute. 980 00:50:21,977 --> 00:50:22,978 Today's the day. 981 00:50:23,061 --> 00:50:26,440 Aah! [laughs] 982 00:50:26,523 --> 00:50:31,528 ♪ I feel something Deep down has happened ♪ 983 00:50:31,611 --> 00:50:34,489 I'm so happy. Um, yeah. 984 00:50:34,573 --> 00:50:38,076 [laughing] I'm gonna cry a lot today. I can tell. Like, happy tears. 985 00:50:39,703 --> 00:50:42,748 It has been a wild ride. 986 00:50:44,249 --> 00:50:47,627 I actually specialize in something called clean hydrogen energy. 987 00:50:47,711 --> 00:50:50,255 I have a little hydrogen tattoo on my wrist. 988 00:50:50,338 --> 00:50:52,090 -Yes! That's cool. -[Taylor laughs] 989 00:50:52,174 --> 00:50:54,760 I've got a quantum equation on the back of my right arm. 990 00:50:54,843 --> 00:50:57,554 -No way. What is it? -Yeah. Uncertainty principle. 991 00:50:57,637 --> 00:50:59,848 -Oh! Heisenberg. -[Garrett] Mm-hmm. 992 00:50:59,931 --> 00:51:02,476 Okay, you're never gonna know where I am then. 993 00:51:02,559 --> 00:51:04,478 [laughing] Yeah, exactly. 994 00:51:04,561 --> 00:51:07,314 I have no idea what you look like. I have no idea. 995 00:51:07,397 --> 00:51:11,568 But I feel a very strong, like, intimate connection with you already. 996 00:51:12,069 --> 00:51:13,904 I feel it too. It's, like, magnetic. 997 00:51:13,987 --> 00:51:14,988 It's crazy. [chuckles] 998 00:51:16,031 --> 00:51:19,284 [voice breaks] When it comes to you, Garrett, I think we could have it all. 999 00:51:20,410 --> 00:51:22,746 I didn't think that was possible before coming in here. 1000 00:51:23,330 --> 00:51:25,832 [Garrett] Taylor Morgan Krause, will you marry me? 1001 00:51:27,709 --> 00:51:28,627 Absolutely. 1002 00:51:28,710 --> 00:51:30,420 [both laughing] 1003 00:51:30,504 --> 00:51:32,672 [pop music playing] 1004 00:51:32,756 --> 00:51:35,258 -I gotta see the tattoo. -Let me see yours. 1005 00:51:35,342 --> 00:51:37,969 -It's a little hydrogen molecule. -Oh, my God! [laughing] 1006 00:51:38,053 --> 00:51:41,723 I'm willing and ready to, like, change my life for you. 1007 00:51:41,807 --> 00:51:44,851 -[Taylor] We're really lucky, aren't we? -You're the best catch of them all. 1008 00:51:44,935 --> 00:51:47,646 [laughing] 1009 00:51:48,438 --> 00:51:50,440 ♪ Once in a lifetime, this love ♪ 1010 00:51:51,149 --> 00:51:56,279 ♪ We got is once in a lifetime ♪ 1011 00:51:56,738 --> 00:51:59,157 [Taylor] I love everything about Garrett. 1012 00:51:59,241 --> 00:52:01,743 He's thoughtful and generous and kind. 1013 00:52:01,827 --> 00:52:04,329 I dream of him playing with our kids. 1014 00:52:04,412 --> 00:52:07,249 He's coaching a little league team, and I'm bringing all the snacks. 1015 00:52:07,833 --> 00:52:08,917 Oh, my goodness. 1016 00:52:10,043 --> 00:52:11,044 It's happening. 1017 00:52:11,628 --> 00:52:13,922 I see us, like, being grandparents together, 1018 00:52:14,005 --> 00:52:16,925 and I see a forever future. 1019 00:52:17,717 --> 00:52:20,137 I'm just so excited, and I'm so happy. 1020 00:52:20,220 --> 00:52:22,222 [laughs] 1021 00:52:24,641 --> 00:52:25,725 Mom! 1022 00:52:25,809 --> 00:52:26,685 Hi! 1023 00:52:26,768 --> 00:52:29,354 -Hello! -[Taylor] Serena! Darpan! 1024 00:52:29,437 --> 00:52:30,397 [Darpan] Hey! 1025 00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:31,898 Oh, my God! 1026 00:52:31,982 --> 00:52:35,318 I've never gotten my hair and makeup, like, done-done before. 1027 00:52:35,402 --> 00:52:36,403 -Really? -No! 1028 00:52:36,486 --> 00:52:37,988 -What is in that cup? -[Taylor] Mom! 1029 00:52:39,489 --> 00:52:42,993 -I am ready to party! -[laughing] 1030 00:52:43,076 --> 00:52:44,452 [Serena] Where's that champagne? 1031 00:52:44,536 --> 00:52:45,453 [laughing] 1032 00:52:45,537 --> 00:52:47,789 -[cork pops] -[Taylor] Yeah, baby. 1033 00:52:47,873 --> 00:52:49,291 -[Serena] Opa! -Already? 1034 00:52:49,791 --> 00:52:50,792 [Serena] It's wedding day. 1035 00:52:50,876 --> 00:52:53,003 [laughing] 1036 00:52:53,086 --> 00:52:55,338 [pop music playing] 1037 00:52:58,300 --> 00:53:00,010 ♪ Oh, darlin' ♪ 1038 00:53:00,594 --> 00:53:04,806 ♪ I've told you once before, I need it ♪ 1039 00:53:05,557 --> 00:53:07,517 ♪ I've never been so sure ♪ 1040 00:53:07,601 --> 00:53:09,686 ♪ Please help me ♪ 1041 00:53:10,270 --> 00:53:14,065 ♪ It'll be okay, stay steady ♪ 1042 00:53:14,816 --> 00:53:18,236 ♪ And try, but I hope you love me too ♪ 1043 00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:21,406 ♪ I never wanna be far away from you… ♪ 1044 00:53:21,489 --> 00:53:24,618 [chuckles] It's my wedding day. My wedding day. It's kind of a surprise. 1045 00:53:24,701 --> 00:53:25,952 How did I get here? 1046 00:53:26,036 --> 00:53:30,582 ♪ Sometimes we can fall apart ♪ 1047 00:53:30,665 --> 00:53:32,834 ♪ It's fine ♪ 1048 00:53:33,335 --> 00:53:35,337 ♪ Just listen to your heart ♪ 1049 00:53:36,254 --> 00:53:38,924 ♪ I hope you love me too ♪ 1050 00:53:39,007 --> 00:53:42,510 ♪ I never wanna be far away from you ♪ 1051 00:53:43,386 --> 00:53:45,597 -[laughs] Oh, jeez. -Look who it is. 1052 00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:47,557 -What do we have? -[Garrett] What are you doing? 1053 00:53:47,641 --> 00:53:49,142 -[laughing] -What's up, bud? 1054 00:53:49,226 --> 00:53:52,145 -What's up, man? Good to see you, man. -Y'all with the green. 1055 00:53:52,229 --> 00:53:54,940 -Did y'all match? Did y'all do that again? -[Trevor] Planned. 1056 00:53:55,023 --> 00:53:56,399 Yeah, that's the vibe, dude. 1057 00:53:56,483 --> 00:53:58,401 -Big day. -Is it? 1058 00:53:58,485 --> 00:54:00,612 -Apparently. For somebody. -[laughing] 1059 00:54:00,695 --> 00:54:02,489 Yeah, yeah, yeah. It feels pretty crazy. 1060 00:54:02,572 --> 00:54:04,616 I was super tired last night 1061 00:54:04,699 --> 00:54:06,701 and just sat there thinking and talking to family. 1062 00:54:06,785 --> 00:54:09,287 I talked to my parents forever last night. 1063 00:54:09,371 --> 00:54:11,665 How's the climate with the parents? 1064 00:54:12,749 --> 00:54:14,584 It's good. I think it's good. [laughs] 1065 00:54:14,668 --> 00:54:17,087 -[laughing] -All right, yeah. 1066 00:54:17,170 --> 00:54:19,297 -This is really heavy. -So, room for improvement? 1067 00:54:19,381 --> 00:54:21,174 -It's just really heavy. -[Brandon] Yeah. 1068 00:54:21,800 --> 00:54:25,011 It's just a lot. It's just so much, you know? It's just a heavy-ass decision. 1069 00:54:25,095 --> 00:54:26,554 My wedding day was like… 1070 00:54:27,180 --> 00:54:31,768 And I had known Shelby for, like, quite a bit longer than you've known Taylor. 1071 00:54:31,851 --> 00:54:34,271 -Yeah. -But, dude, nerves all day. 1072 00:54:34,354 --> 00:54:37,774 -All day. Just a lot of feelings, man. -Yeah. 1073 00:54:37,857 --> 00:54:38,900 -So… -Yeah. 1074 00:54:39,943 --> 00:54:42,153 And I feel it. I just feel it. I'm still checking myself 1075 00:54:42,237 --> 00:54:46,324 and like, "Are you sure?" I'm really, like, inspecting my feelings. 1076 00:54:46,408 --> 00:54:48,285 -[Trevor] Yeah. -I've been doing this all along. 1077 00:54:48,368 --> 00:54:51,955 Inspecting my feelings every day. We owe that to one another. 1078 00:54:52,038 --> 00:54:54,791 We promised each other we would, and we wouldn't get up here and say yes 1079 00:54:54,874 --> 00:54:56,459 unless we truly, truly meant it. 1080 00:54:57,043 --> 00:55:01,006 And so that's what I'm making sure, that I do right by her. 1081 00:55:01,089 --> 00:55:02,882 -[Brandon] Yeah. -By making sure. 1082 00:55:09,639 --> 00:55:11,975 Compliments of Mercy Hospital Medical Center. 1083 00:55:12,058 --> 00:55:15,312 The hospital I was born in. "The magic hanky." 1084 00:55:15,395 --> 00:55:17,772 "I'm just a little hanky, as square as square can be." 1085 00:55:18,356 --> 00:55:20,650 "But with a stitch or two, they made a bonnet out of me." 1086 00:55:21,693 --> 00:55:23,069 Mom. [laughs] 1087 00:55:23,153 --> 00:55:25,947 "For her special wedding day, so we've all been told, 1088 00:55:26,531 --> 00:55:29,034 every well-dressed bride must carry something old." 1089 00:55:29,617 --> 00:55:32,912 "So what could be more fitting than to bring out little me, 1090 00:55:32,996 --> 00:55:37,167 with stitches snipped and ribbons pulled, a wedding hanky I will be." 1091 00:55:37,917 --> 00:55:38,918 Aww, Mom. 1092 00:55:39,002 --> 00:55:41,838 -You've kept this for how long? -How old are you? 1093 00:55:41,921 --> 00:55:44,132 [Darpan] Since the day you were born, Taylor. 1094 00:55:45,091 --> 00:55:47,761 Aww, Mom, thank you. I love you. 1095 00:55:47,844 --> 00:55:48,845 [Fong] I love you too. 1096 00:55:51,598 --> 00:55:53,933 It's been hiding in the back of my closet, waiting. 1097 00:55:54,017 --> 00:55:55,393 [Serena] Waiting for this day. 1098 00:55:57,437 --> 00:56:00,148 -Isn't that cute? -[laughing] 1099 00:56:00,231 --> 00:56:01,566 [Serena] Put it on! 1100 00:56:01,649 --> 00:56:03,318 [laughing] 1101 00:56:05,362 --> 00:56:06,279 Aww. 1102 00:56:06,363 --> 00:56:08,490 Thank you. I love you so much. 1103 00:56:09,282 --> 00:56:11,534 There he is. Oh, man, look at you. 1104 00:56:11,618 --> 00:56:13,703 -Mr. Krause. -You cleaned up pretty nicely. 1105 00:56:14,287 --> 00:56:15,205 Likewise. 1106 00:56:15,288 --> 00:56:16,498 -How you doing? -Excellent. 1107 00:56:16,581 --> 00:56:18,500 Will you give me a hand with something, actually? 1108 00:56:18,583 --> 00:56:21,544 Do you know how to tie a pocket square? Or help me out with this bow tie? 1109 00:56:21,628 --> 00:56:22,879 I can help with the bow tie. 1110 00:56:22,962 --> 00:56:26,841 -Pocket square, I have no skill set of. -[laughs] Then let's try the bow tie. 1111 00:56:26,925 --> 00:56:29,636 -You wanna give it a shot? [laughs] -Yeah, I can do it. 1112 00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:32,097 I think I've even already screwed it up. No, it's good. Cool. 1113 00:56:32,180 --> 00:56:35,225 -Where's Fong when we need her? -[laughs] Seriously. 1114 00:56:37,185 --> 00:56:38,895 How does that feel? I can go tighter. 1115 00:56:38,978 --> 00:56:42,107 No, let's take a look at the mirror real quick. I think It feels good though. 1116 00:56:43,650 --> 00:56:46,486 Can you drop these down? How does the neck look? 1117 00:56:46,569 --> 00:56:49,531 Just tuck it down a little bit, and I think we're in good shape. 1118 00:56:50,240 --> 00:56:54,202 I wish I could say I remember my day 35 years ago, but I was pretty hammered. 1119 00:56:54,285 --> 00:56:55,370 [laughing] 1120 00:56:56,413 --> 00:56:59,207 Yeah, this is-- this is wild. 1121 00:56:59,290 --> 00:57:00,917 I, like, um… 1122 00:57:01,000 --> 00:57:03,628 I feel how big this decision is today. 1123 00:57:03,711 --> 00:57:05,547 It feels so, so, so heavy. 1124 00:57:05,630 --> 00:57:09,008 There's no way in the world that I could go through with this 1125 00:57:09,092 --> 00:57:13,096 and get up there, and say yes to Taylor if I wasn't so sure 1126 00:57:13,179 --> 00:57:15,014 about her and how great she is. 1127 00:57:15,098 --> 00:57:18,351 I mean, she's an amazing person. I don't have to convince you, obviously. 1128 00:57:18,435 --> 00:57:21,938 And it feels so right. And it feels so good. 1129 00:57:22,021 --> 00:57:24,399 And I couldn't go through with this with anyone else. 1130 00:57:24,482 --> 00:57:25,650 I love your daughter. 1131 00:57:25,733 --> 00:57:28,611 I'll tell you what. Fong is very intuitive. 1132 00:57:29,279 --> 00:57:33,700 Fong's kinda quiet, but she reads people spot on, 1133 00:57:33,783 --> 00:57:37,328 and if there was something weird or strange about any of this, 1134 00:57:37,412 --> 00:57:38,621 she would have said something. 1135 00:57:38,705 --> 00:57:40,498 -Yeah, good. [laughs] -It's not. 1136 00:57:40,582 --> 00:57:43,877 I knew my daughter was gonna get married someday to a great guy like you. 1137 00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:45,628 I had no doubt about it. 1138 00:57:45,712 --> 00:57:49,507 I just didn't think it was gonna happen in a matter of weeks. [laughs] 1139 00:57:49,591 --> 00:57:52,385 Normally, it's, like, a couple years maybe, you know? 1140 00:57:52,469 --> 00:57:54,971 But if you're in love, you're in love. 1141 00:57:55,054 --> 00:57:56,973 I mean, you can't make that up. 1142 00:57:57,891 --> 00:58:00,310 [Garrett] It was a huge thing for us to see you guys, 1143 00:58:00,894 --> 00:58:02,937 be able to talk to you and shake your hand and ask you 1144 00:58:03,021 --> 00:58:06,024 for your permission. It was big for us. 1145 00:58:06,107 --> 00:58:10,320 One thing that really hit me is you said Taylor's like your gift to the world. 1146 00:58:10,403 --> 00:58:13,907 My job isn't to receive that gift, but to accentuate it 1147 00:58:13,990 --> 00:58:16,367 and to help her be the best person she can be, 1148 00:58:16,451 --> 00:58:18,828 because she's already great. She's always gonna be great. 1149 00:58:18,912 --> 00:58:20,997 My job is just to just be there for her and support her 1150 00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:24,584 and make sure she fulfills, like, who she should be and who she wants to be. 1151 00:58:24,667 --> 00:58:26,503 I promise to take great care of her. 1152 00:58:26,586 --> 00:58:30,381 I promise to be there for her and always respect her and put her feelings first. 1153 00:58:31,090 --> 00:58:32,800 That's what I plan to do, so… 1154 00:58:33,384 --> 00:58:35,053 I don't doubt it. I don't doubt it. 1155 00:58:35,136 --> 00:58:36,846 You have more than my blessing. 1156 00:58:36,930 --> 00:58:39,766 You have my undivided attention 1157 00:58:39,849 --> 00:58:42,602 anytime, anywhere on this planet. 1158 00:58:42,685 --> 00:58:46,356 If you ever need anything, Fong and I are there for you and Taylor. 1159 00:58:46,439 --> 00:58:49,234 It doesn't matter where you made that connection. 1160 00:58:49,317 --> 00:58:52,195 You and Taylor have kind of gone through 1161 00:58:52,278 --> 00:58:55,365 those tough conversations. 1162 00:58:55,448 --> 00:58:59,994 Um, because, you know, marriage, there's a tough day coming, you know? 1163 00:59:00,620 --> 00:59:01,829 This is my brother's tie. 1164 00:59:02,622 --> 00:59:06,084 [voice breaks] And Taylor was with me when my brother died. 1165 00:59:06,167 --> 00:59:09,629 And, you know, for two weeks, 1166 00:59:10,713 --> 00:59:12,924 she was there with me. [sniffles] 1167 00:59:13,007 --> 00:59:15,260 And she'll do the same for you. [sobs] 1168 00:59:16,844 --> 00:59:20,723 And, you know, life will have its challenges. 1169 00:59:22,141 --> 00:59:24,894 And so having the right partner… 1170 00:59:26,062 --> 00:59:29,774 You know, and Fong kept the family together. 1171 00:59:30,316 --> 00:59:34,279 And, you know, it will happen. 1172 00:59:34,362 --> 00:59:36,197 There's no doubt about it. 1173 00:59:36,281 --> 00:59:40,368 I had eight groomsmen, and I have four left. 1174 00:59:40,451 --> 00:59:42,620 One of my good buddies passed away last month. 1175 00:59:43,204 --> 00:59:45,873 So we have to be there for our friends 1176 00:59:45,957 --> 00:59:47,709 and our family when they need us. 1177 00:59:48,918 --> 00:59:52,839 Um, so it's not, you know, it's not always gonna be fun and games. 1178 00:59:52,922 --> 00:59:54,507 There will be tough times. 1179 00:59:54,591 --> 00:59:56,718 -Yeah. -But you'll get through it. 1180 00:59:57,635 --> 00:59:59,637 I appreciate it. I appreciate you being here. 1181 00:59:59,721 --> 01:00:02,974 I know she appreciates you being here. You being here means so much to Taylor. 1182 01:00:03,057 --> 01:00:06,102 It means so much to Taylor that you're here and gonna walk her down the aisle. 1183 01:00:06,811 --> 01:00:08,438 I got a happy wife. I got a happy daughter. 1184 01:00:08,521 --> 01:00:11,316 -[laughing] -Got a killer son-in-law coming in. 1185 01:00:11,399 --> 01:00:12,900 Yeah. It's all good. [laughing] 1186 01:00:12,984 --> 01:00:14,819 -I appreciate it. -It doesn't get any better. 1187 01:00:14,902 --> 01:00:15,945 [both] Thank you. 1188 01:00:16,029 --> 01:00:18,740 I love you, man. Sorry I couldn't help with the pocket square. 1189 01:00:18,823 --> 01:00:19,741 No, it's good. 1190 01:00:19,824 --> 01:00:23,119 [pop music playing] 1191 01:00:23,202 --> 01:00:26,289 ♪ No one but ours I swear ♪ 1192 01:00:26,873 --> 01:00:31,210 ♪ Let's get lost in this love In the way that we're feeling ♪ 1193 01:00:31,294 --> 01:00:33,129 Looks just beautiful. 1194 01:00:35,882 --> 01:00:37,133 [Taylor laughs] Hi! 1195 01:00:37,216 --> 01:00:40,553 [Darpan] It's beautiful! 1196 01:00:40,637 --> 01:00:43,556 Oh, my God, the veil goes perfect. 1197 01:00:44,182 --> 01:00:45,558 [Taylor] Thanks, guys. 1198 01:00:45,642 --> 01:00:46,684 Aww. 1199 01:00:47,143 --> 01:00:50,271 You guys look beautiful too. Oh, my goodness. 1200 01:00:50,355 --> 01:00:53,232 -It actually, like, goes so nicely. -So well. 1201 01:00:53,316 --> 01:00:54,567 Oh, my gosh. 1202 01:00:54,651 --> 01:00:56,402 -[Darpan] This dress is beautiful. -Wow. 1203 01:00:56,486 --> 01:00:57,737 Wow. [sighs] 1204 01:00:57,820 --> 01:01:00,365 -[Darpan] Aww. -[Serena] You look stunning, Taylor. 1205 01:01:01,866 --> 01:01:03,284 [Taylor sighs] 1206 01:01:03,368 --> 01:01:04,744 It's happening. 1207 01:01:06,788 --> 01:01:09,415 -Hi, Dad. -[Tom] Hey, honey. Look at you. 1208 01:01:10,249 --> 01:01:11,125 -Mm! -[chuckles] 1209 01:01:11,209 --> 01:01:12,669 My beautiful daughter. 1210 01:01:12,752 --> 01:01:15,588 -Thank you. You guys are matching! -Yeah, kind of, huh? 1211 01:01:15,672 --> 01:01:18,800 -How was seeing Garrett? -Awesome. I helped him with his bow tie. 1212 01:01:18,883 --> 01:01:20,093 -[Taylor] You did? -Yeah, yeah. 1213 01:01:20,176 --> 01:01:22,428 Good. How are you feeling? 1214 01:01:22,512 --> 01:01:24,305 I'm so excited for you guys. 1215 01:01:25,139 --> 01:01:27,934 -You know what today is, right? -Today is the 13th. 1216 01:01:28,017 --> 01:01:29,644 How about that? What a coincidence. 1217 01:01:29,727 --> 01:01:32,897 What a coincidence that you guys also got married on the 13th. 1218 01:01:32,980 --> 01:01:35,191 -That's right. -All good signs. 1219 01:01:35,274 --> 01:01:39,237 This is definitely not the way I thought it was gonna go, 1220 01:01:39,320 --> 01:01:41,197 but I'm so happy. 1221 01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:43,825 And when something just, like, presents itself like this, 1222 01:01:43,908 --> 01:01:46,536 like, sometimes you just have to jump. 1223 01:01:47,412 --> 01:01:52,041 I'm jumping, and I'm trusting that Garrett's going to catch me. 1224 01:01:52,583 --> 01:01:54,001 And even if not, 1225 01:01:54,085 --> 01:01:56,921 I know that I have an incredible… 1226 01:01:57,004 --> 01:01:59,257 [chuckles] …safety net that will. 1227 01:02:00,049 --> 01:02:01,509 So I'm really happy, 1228 01:02:01,592 --> 01:02:04,387 and I just, like, love that you guys are so supportive 1229 01:02:04,470 --> 01:02:05,805 and can be here with me today. 1230 01:02:05,888 --> 01:02:08,349 I haven't seen your mom this happy in a long time. 1231 01:02:09,183 --> 01:02:10,727 I'm glad you're so happy, Mom. 1232 01:02:10,810 --> 01:02:13,730 My little girl's getting married to a great guy. 1233 01:02:14,939 --> 01:02:16,691 To a really great guy. 1234 01:02:16,774 --> 01:02:18,693 -It's pretty frickin' awesome. -It is. 1235 01:02:18,776 --> 01:02:21,362 -Pretty frickin' awesome is right. -[Taylor] It's pretty awesome. 1236 01:02:21,446 --> 01:02:22,572 I'm so lucky. 1237 01:02:23,114 --> 01:02:24,824 -Oh, I love you guys. -[Fong] Love you too. 1238 01:02:25,658 --> 01:02:26,784 [sighs] 1239 01:02:27,368 --> 01:02:29,871 -Oh, group hug. -[Taylor] Oh, Mom. 1240 01:02:29,954 --> 01:02:30,830 [chuckles] 1241 01:02:30,913 --> 01:02:33,666 -[Fong] That's you too, Tom. Group hug. -[Tom laughing] Oh, sorry. 1242 01:02:33,750 --> 01:02:35,752 [laughing] 1243 01:02:35,835 --> 01:02:39,172 -[pop music playing] -♪ We're gonna be all right ♪ 1244 01:02:39,255 --> 01:02:42,216 -[Trevor] Good, man. How are you? -I need a pocket square. Help me out. 1245 01:02:42,300 --> 01:02:44,135 -Fold it up. -But make it look good. 1246 01:02:44,218 --> 01:02:47,472 -How was the chat with Mr. Krause? -[Garrett] It was good. 1247 01:02:47,555 --> 01:02:50,099 I can't believe how, like, supportive. 1248 01:02:50,808 --> 01:02:52,602 [Trevor] Oh, that's awesome. That's great. 1249 01:02:53,519 --> 01:02:54,771 It means a lot. [sighs] 1250 01:02:54,854 --> 01:02:56,272 -[Trevor] That's good. -It's huge. 1251 01:02:56,355 --> 01:02:58,357 Is this the Joseman wedding party? 1252 01:02:58,441 --> 01:03:00,902 [Trevor] I believe so. Now that you two have arrived it is. 1253 01:03:00,985 --> 01:03:02,236 -Aww. -You look good. 1254 01:03:02,320 --> 01:03:05,239 -You feel good. I like that. -Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1255 01:03:05,323 --> 01:03:06,824 -Yes! I like that. -[laughing] 1256 01:03:06,908 --> 01:03:11,913 -Now, look at you! This old thing? -Yeah! See? I clean up all right. 1257 01:03:11,996 --> 01:03:13,581 [Garrett] You want water or a beer? 1258 01:03:13,664 --> 01:03:15,666 -Nothing stronger, huh? -[Dawn] No whiskey. 1259 01:03:15,750 --> 01:03:17,585 -I don't think so. -[Randy] So how you doing? 1260 01:03:17,668 --> 01:03:20,797 I'm feeling lighter now, but this morning it was very heavy. 1261 01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:24,217 -What do you mean? -Um, the whole-- it's a big day. [laughs] 1262 01:03:24,300 --> 01:03:26,427 [Dawn] It is a big day. It is a very big day. 1263 01:03:26,511 --> 01:03:29,472 It's an important decision. One of the biggest ones you'll ever make. 1264 01:03:29,555 --> 01:03:31,557 -The weight of it was-- -You're overwhelmed. 1265 01:03:31,641 --> 01:03:33,059 It's a shock for everybody. 1266 01:03:33,142 --> 01:03:37,688 To all of the people closest to you, it is kind of hard to imagine 1267 01:03:37,772 --> 01:03:42,693 that you would make such a decision, a weighted decision so fast. 1268 01:03:42,777 --> 01:03:44,403 -Quickly, yeah. -Yeah. 1269 01:03:44,487 --> 01:03:47,323 [Garrett] I know you guys haven't spent much time with her, but you will. 1270 01:03:47,406 --> 01:03:50,618 She's brilliant, and she's very logical and considerate. 1271 01:03:50,701 --> 01:03:53,329 -What the hell is she doing with you then? -[laughs] Yeah. 1272 01:03:53,412 --> 01:03:56,374 -So you're writing the… -Yeah, the vows. 1273 01:03:56,457 --> 01:04:01,087 You aren't typically very spontaneous when it comes to serious things. 1274 01:04:01,170 --> 01:04:04,924 -Yeah. -And this seems spontaneous. [laughs] 1275 01:04:05,007 --> 01:04:07,260 -How'd you sleep last night? -Really well. 1276 01:04:07,343 --> 01:04:08,803 And I thought that was a great sign. 1277 01:04:08,886 --> 01:04:10,972 I didn't sleep well. Is that not a good sign then? 1278 01:04:11,055 --> 01:04:14,058 -[laughing] -You don't have to make a decision here. 1279 01:04:14,141 --> 01:04:15,101 -That's right. -Yeah. 1280 01:04:15,184 --> 01:04:17,478 Even though Taylor and I are sure about each other, 1281 01:04:17,562 --> 01:04:19,230 you're still making a decision. 1282 01:04:19,313 --> 01:04:21,274 And we promised each other 1283 01:04:21,357 --> 01:04:24,068 this whole time that we would very much take it seriously, 1284 01:04:24,151 --> 01:04:25,736 and that I wouldn't get up there 1285 01:04:25,820 --> 01:04:29,240 and say yes unless I was absolutely sure. 1286 01:04:29,323 --> 01:04:31,617 As sure as I can be in this moment and her as well. 1287 01:04:31,701 --> 01:04:35,246 So I've been doing my best to really honor that, and if I say yes, 1288 01:04:35,329 --> 01:04:36,998 it's, like, a very honest answer. 1289 01:04:37,081 --> 01:04:38,749 [Dawn] It's a heavy decision. 1290 01:04:38,833 --> 01:04:39,792 It's a lofty decision. 1291 01:04:39,876 --> 01:04:42,670 It's one of the biggest things that you'll ever decide. 1292 01:04:42,753 --> 01:04:46,591 Or else you'll be regretting it like your mother's done for the last 35 years now. 1293 01:04:46,674 --> 01:04:49,343 I know one thing you've been worried about is going to San Diego 1294 01:04:49,427 --> 01:04:51,762 and traveling around, not being around. 1295 01:04:51,846 --> 01:04:56,350 But having a wife and having a family, having somebody like Taylor, 1296 01:04:56,434 --> 01:04:58,936 these are all things I wasn't sure were in the cards for me. 1297 01:04:59,020 --> 01:05:03,107 I didn't think anyone was out there for me that I would totally feel compatible with 1298 01:05:03,190 --> 01:05:06,402 and comfortable with and who would challenge me in the right ways, 1299 01:05:06,485 --> 01:05:09,780 but also, like, was caring and humble and respectful. 1300 01:05:09,864 --> 01:05:11,240 I'm so grateful. 1301 01:05:11,324 --> 01:05:15,202 I'm so grateful to have found Taylor and to feel the way that I feel. 1302 01:05:15,703 --> 01:05:19,665 Um, I think I'd be a fool not to act on it. 1303 01:05:19,749 --> 01:05:22,668 -I know that feeling. -[laughing] 1304 01:05:22,752 --> 01:05:24,170 Yeah. 1305 01:05:25,755 --> 01:05:29,425 Your mind's made up. I don't have any intention of trying to talk you out of it. 1306 01:05:29,508 --> 01:05:32,261 You're a very smart, intelligent man. 1307 01:05:32,345 --> 01:05:33,930 Being married and having a family 1308 01:05:34,013 --> 01:05:38,392 is no doubt one of the happiest things that can happen to you in your life, 1309 01:05:38,476 --> 01:05:41,687 and I'm glad that you get the opportunity to experience that. 1310 01:05:41,771 --> 01:05:44,023 [Randy] You got somebody to share your successes with. 1311 01:05:45,024 --> 01:05:47,360 You have so much to share anyway. 1312 01:05:47,443 --> 01:05:51,072 You're a wonderful human being. A wonderful human being. 1313 01:05:51,155 --> 01:05:54,116 And I know that she's a great human being too. 1314 01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:56,994 She has to be for you to have fallen for her so hard. 1315 01:05:58,287 --> 01:05:59,705 [Garrett] She is. She's incredible. 1316 01:05:59,789 --> 01:06:03,960 I'm still just in shock that, like, Taylor was there, and it worked out. 1317 01:06:04,043 --> 01:06:06,045 -Sometimes it's meant to be. -Yeah. 1318 01:06:06,128 --> 01:06:08,547 Do you realize you're getting married on the 13th? 1319 01:06:08,631 --> 01:06:11,592 -We got married on the 13th. Yeah. -No, I didn't know that. 1320 01:06:11,676 --> 01:06:13,928 -Now I'll be able to remember. -It's a good lucky number. 1321 01:06:14,011 --> 01:06:18,015 Yeah, it is. I know. Mom didn't think that was a good thing to get married. 1322 01:06:18,099 --> 01:06:19,225 -[Garrett] On the 13th? -Yeah. 1323 01:06:19,308 --> 01:06:21,143 -Yeah. -13th's a good number. 1324 01:06:21,227 --> 01:06:23,062 -[Garrett] Nah, it's good. -It's a good sign. 1325 01:06:23,145 --> 01:06:25,147 We're excited for you, baby. 1326 01:06:25,231 --> 01:06:27,608 Thank you. Thanks for being here, for your support and all. 1327 01:06:27,692 --> 01:06:29,902 [Randy] She's a lucky lady, and you're a lucky man. 1328 01:06:29,986 --> 01:06:30,861 [laughs] 1329 01:06:30,945 --> 01:06:32,571 [voice breaks] It's cool to watch you… 1330 01:06:32,655 --> 01:06:33,906 [chuckles] 1331 01:06:34,490 --> 01:06:37,368 …have grown from such a little curious… 1332 01:06:38,327 --> 01:06:42,707 -[Randy laughing] Curious George to… -Yeah. Super curious. He's still curious. 1333 01:06:42,790 --> 01:06:44,625 [laughing] 1334 01:06:46,919 --> 01:06:49,130 Oh, I can't get up. [laughs] 1335 01:06:49,714 --> 01:06:52,383 We just love you so much. [sniffles] 1336 01:06:54,885 --> 01:06:58,848 [laughing] It's definitely not like watching you play soccer, you know? 1337 01:06:58,931 --> 01:07:02,184 It's a lot more weighty than that, but we're excited. 1338 01:07:02,268 --> 01:07:04,228 We're excited. We're happy. We love you. 1339 01:07:04,311 --> 01:07:08,149 We wanna be here to support you 1,000%. Always. 1340 01:07:08,983 --> 01:07:11,485 -Yeah, we're not questioning it at all. -Yeah. 1341 01:07:11,569 --> 01:07:13,904 I know you've given it a great deal of thought. 1342 01:07:14,697 --> 01:07:16,449 More thought than we gave when we got married. 1343 01:07:16,532 --> 01:07:20,327 -[laughing] -For sure. For sure. That's a definite. 1344 01:07:20,953 --> 01:07:23,539 -Yeah, that's a definite. -[Randy] Your mother's more spontaneous. 1345 01:07:23,622 --> 01:07:24,790 -Yeah. -[Randy] You know? 1346 01:07:24,874 --> 01:07:26,751 -I'm a lot. -[Randy] Yeah, a lot more, yeah, so… 1347 01:07:26,834 --> 01:07:28,627 [laughing] 1348 01:07:28,711 --> 01:07:29,545 Oh, my goodness. 1349 01:07:29,628 --> 01:07:33,049 -[Randy] So we're comfortable with it all. -Yeah. 1350 01:07:33,132 --> 01:07:37,053 And yeah, I'm looking forward to experiencing you as a married man. 1351 01:07:37,136 --> 01:07:39,221 -Yeah. -[Randy] Now it's Garrett plus one. 1352 01:07:40,014 --> 01:07:41,015 [Dawn] I love you so much. 1353 01:07:42,516 --> 01:07:43,601 Yes. 1354 01:07:43,684 --> 01:07:45,561 [laughing] 1355 01:07:45,644 --> 01:07:47,897 [Dawn] You've grown up to be such a wonderful man. 1356 01:07:47,980 --> 01:07:49,065 You really have. 1357 01:07:51,192 --> 01:07:52,860 And it's been a joy. 1358 01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:56,363 -[pop music playing] -♪ That you show me ♪ 1359 01:07:56,447 --> 01:07:59,366 ♪ What it means to be loved ♪ 1360 01:08:03,704 --> 01:08:05,706 [dramatic music playing] 1361 01:08:25,184 --> 01:08:26,310 [Garrett] Oh, my God. 1362 01:08:34,860 --> 01:08:36,070 -Okay, baby. -Drop you off here? 1363 01:08:36,153 --> 01:08:38,239 -Thank you. I love you. -Love you too. 1364 01:08:44,787 --> 01:08:45,871 You ready? 1365 01:08:45,955 --> 01:08:47,164 Yeah, I think so. 1366 01:08:55,131 --> 01:08:56,257 She's adorable. 1367 01:08:56,924 --> 01:08:57,883 [man laughs] 1368 01:08:59,635 --> 01:09:00,553 [Taylor laughs] 1369 01:09:01,428 --> 01:09:03,889 This is every father's dream. 1370 01:09:03,973 --> 01:09:05,891 I don't think I could do this day without you. 1371 01:09:06,517 --> 01:09:09,937 I love you so much. Thank you so much for being here today. 1372 01:09:10,020 --> 01:09:11,480 I love you too. 1373 01:09:12,064 --> 01:09:14,233 -You got this, girl. -[laughing] 1374 01:09:14,316 --> 01:09:17,486 -The biggest game of your life. -Fourth quarter, let's go. 1375 01:09:17,570 --> 01:09:19,071 Let's go. Let's go, baby. 1376 01:09:19,155 --> 01:09:21,073 [medium-tempo music playing] 1377 01:09:23,576 --> 01:09:24,493 Please rise. 1378 01:09:30,666 --> 01:09:31,876 Ah, man. 1379 01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:48,434 [exhales] 1380 01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:09,413 [officiant] Who presents this woman to be married to this man? 1381 01:10:09,914 --> 01:10:11,081 Her father does. 1382 01:10:20,049 --> 01:10:21,383 [Fong] Thanks. 1383 01:10:21,467 --> 01:10:22,760 -Thanks. -Awesome. 1384 01:10:25,095 --> 01:10:26,388 [officiant] Please be seated. 1385 01:10:28,974 --> 01:10:31,310 "Family and friends, thank you all for coming today 1386 01:10:31,393 --> 01:10:33,103 to share in this wonderful occasion." 1387 01:10:33,187 --> 01:10:36,565 "Today, we're here together to unite Taylor and Garrett in marriage." 1388 01:10:37,149 --> 01:10:39,360 "Taylor and Garrett, as scientists, 1389 01:10:39,443 --> 01:10:42,780 you have just conducted the most important experiment of your lives." 1390 01:10:42,863 --> 01:10:43,906 [both laughing] 1391 01:10:43,989 --> 01:10:45,866 [officiant] "In a lab of double-blind pods, 1392 01:10:45,950 --> 01:10:48,244 you compressed years of dating experience 1393 01:10:48,827 --> 01:10:51,413 into an accelerated search for your perfect mate." 1394 01:10:51,997 --> 01:10:54,250 "The results of those efforts brought you to each other 1395 01:10:54,333 --> 01:10:56,210 and today, bring you here to be married." 1396 01:10:56,293 --> 01:10:59,338 -Oh, my God, I'm so glad you do too. -[laughing] 1397 01:11:02,299 --> 01:11:04,677 You're doing great. The notes help, huh? 1398 01:11:04,760 --> 01:11:07,471 -[laughs] -Yeah. [chuckles] 1399 01:11:07,554 --> 01:11:10,391 Taylor, you've said it many times, 1400 01:11:10,474 --> 01:11:12,142 the beautiful thing about us 1401 01:11:12,226 --> 01:11:15,354 is that we didn't come into this expecting to find our person. 1402 01:11:15,437 --> 01:11:18,816 It was just coming in here and learning more about ourselves 1403 01:11:18,899 --> 01:11:21,986 and just with a very small glimmer of hope that we might find 1404 01:11:22,069 --> 01:11:24,822 someone that we wanted to spend the rest of our lives with. 1405 01:11:24,905 --> 01:11:26,907 To find the connection that we had in the pods 1406 01:11:26,991 --> 01:11:29,910 and to find that feeling that I hadn't felt before 1407 01:11:29,994 --> 01:11:31,662 and that I never thought I would ever find 1408 01:11:31,745 --> 01:11:33,747 that magnetic connection that we talked about, 1409 01:11:33,831 --> 01:11:38,419 and then to have that just buoyed by seeing you. 1410 01:11:38,502 --> 01:11:41,088 And I did not think it was possible to feel this way, 1411 01:11:41,171 --> 01:11:46,385 finding a partner that I just think is so perfectly matched for me, 1412 01:11:46,468 --> 01:11:48,512 and I feel just perfectly matched for you. 1413 01:11:48,595 --> 01:11:51,932 That's exactly what I feel like this is. This is a partnership. 1414 01:11:52,558 --> 01:11:54,226 "I promise to keep singing and dancing." 1415 01:11:54,310 --> 01:11:57,563 [chuckles] "To never give up, to always be at your side 1416 01:11:57,646 --> 01:11:59,982 and support you through everything that life throws at us, 1417 01:12:00,065 --> 01:12:01,900 to be patient and understanding." 1418 01:12:01,984 --> 01:12:03,861 "I promise to always put your feelings first." 1419 01:12:04,445 --> 01:12:05,487 Thank you. 1420 01:12:05,571 --> 01:12:08,115 "I promise to make every day as hot as the ones we had in Cabo." 1421 01:12:08,198 --> 01:12:10,284 [laughing] 1422 01:12:11,577 --> 01:12:14,121 "I told you every day since the pods that I love you, 1423 01:12:14,204 --> 01:12:16,123 and I'll continue to tell you that every day." 1424 01:12:16,206 --> 01:12:18,709 "More importantly, continue to show you that every day." 1425 01:12:18,792 --> 01:12:21,045 "Show you how special you really are. I love you, Taylor." 1426 01:12:21,128 --> 01:12:23,630 "You mean the world to me. I promise to always be there for you." 1427 01:12:24,548 --> 01:12:26,175 -[mouths] I love you. -I love you too. 1428 01:12:28,886 --> 01:12:30,679 -I also have some notes. -Yeah. 1429 01:12:30,763 --> 01:12:32,473 [laughing] 1430 01:12:34,183 --> 01:12:36,393 -In very Taylor fashion. -Yeah, it even says "notes." 1431 01:12:36,477 --> 01:12:38,771 Yeah, that's prettier than what I had written down. 1432 01:12:40,105 --> 01:12:41,482 "Well, G, 1433 01:12:42,107 --> 01:12:44,777 it's rare to see someone with a soul like yours. It really is." 1434 01:12:44,860 --> 01:12:47,279 "You truly are a person who sees people, 1435 01:12:47,363 --> 01:12:49,490 and I know that you truly see me." 1436 01:12:50,115 --> 01:12:52,826 "I also love your sense of humor and wit." [chuckles] 1437 01:12:52,910 --> 01:12:55,746 "You truly are an incredible glassblower." 1438 01:12:55,829 --> 01:12:57,748 [laughing] 1439 01:12:57,831 --> 01:12:59,708 "More importantly, you're going to be the person 1440 01:12:59,792 --> 01:13:03,545 that helps make the really heavy things in life thrown our way feel lighter." 1441 01:13:04,421 --> 01:13:06,715 "You lovingly challenge me." [laughs] 1442 01:13:07,466 --> 01:13:09,510 "And make me wanna be better every day." 1443 01:13:09,593 --> 01:13:13,097 "And I feel that with you as my partner, there truly isn't anything we can't do." 1444 01:13:13,180 --> 01:13:14,390 And I really mean that. 1445 01:13:15,391 --> 01:13:18,268 "There's a term for the feeling of warmth on your skin in the sun 1446 01:13:18,352 --> 01:13:20,896 during the wintertime which is called 'apricity.'" 1447 01:13:20,979 --> 01:13:23,941 "It's just a term that really resonated with me throughout this process." 1448 01:13:24,024 --> 01:13:26,944 "And when I reflect on when this opportunity came up in my life, 1449 01:13:27,027 --> 01:13:29,279 I was purposely giving dating the cold shoulder." 1450 01:13:29,780 --> 01:13:31,865 "I would think, 'I still have so much to do.'" 1451 01:13:31,949 --> 01:13:33,158 [laughs] 1452 01:13:33,242 --> 01:13:34,618 "But you've really made me realize 1453 01:13:34,701 --> 01:13:37,329 that I just hadn't opened up to finding the right person." 1454 01:13:38,288 --> 01:13:41,250 "And now I see an incredibly bright future together." 1455 01:13:41,333 --> 01:13:43,877 "We are the kind of people that we're going to do the things 1456 01:13:43,961 --> 01:13:46,422 that we wanted to do individually." 1457 01:13:46,964 --> 01:13:49,174 "But everything I do with you is more meaningful." 1458 01:13:49,675 --> 01:13:52,594 "And I promise to always love, respect and appreciate you." 1459 01:13:53,554 --> 01:13:56,974 "I'm sure our future family is going to be one that we've always dreamed of." 1460 01:14:00,269 --> 01:14:03,689 "When I look at you, I feel like I've known you for years, not weeks." 1461 01:14:03,772 --> 01:14:04,773 [both chuckle] 1462 01:14:04,857 --> 01:14:07,651 -Wild, right? -Forty-two days. 1463 01:14:07,734 --> 01:14:09,820 -[Taylor] Forty-two days. -[laughing] 1464 01:14:10,737 --> 01:14:11,947 You're the numbers guy. Yeah. 1465 01:14:13,490 --> 01:14:15,909 "Garrett, you truly are one of a kind." 1466 01:14:16,493 --> 01:14:17,453 "I'm so lucky 1467 01:14:17,536 --> 01:14:21,248 and so thrilled to have you as my partner for the rest of our days." 1468 01:14:22,624 --> 01:14:23,792 "I really caught a big fish." 1469 01:14:23,876 --> 01:14:26,962 [laughing] 1470 01:14:32,176 --> 01:14:34,386 [officiant] "Taylor and Garrett, you chose to get engaged 1471 01:14:34,470 --> 01:14:38,223 and spend the rest of your lives together based on a deep emotional connection." 1472 01:14:38,307 --> 01:14:40,559 "Looks, age, finances 1473 01:14:40,642 --> 01:14:42,478 and all the superficial things of the world 1474 01:14:42,561 --> 01:14:44,605 were not a factor for you two." 1475 01:14:44,688 --> 01:14:48,400 "Now is the time to decide if love is blind." 1476 01:14:50,068 --> 01:14:51,445 "Will you get married 1477 01:14:51,528 --> 01:14:54,615 and commit to face life together as husband and wife?" 1478 01:14:55,449 --> 01:14:57,576 "Or will you walk away forever?" 1479 01:14:58,660 --> 01:15:03,040 "Garrett, do you take Taylor to be your wife from this day forward, 1480 01:15:03,665 --> 01:15:07,419 for better or worse, for richer or poorer, 1481 01:15:07,503 --> 01:15:09,588 in sickness and in health, 1482 01:15:09,671 --> 01:15:12,132 to love and to cherish always?" 1483 01:15:20,599 --> 01:15:21,642 [laughs] 1484 01:15:22,893 --> 01:15:23,894 I absolutely do. 1485 01:15:29,316 --> 01:15:33,695 [officiant] "Taylor, do you take Garrett to be your husband from this day forward, 1486 01:15:34,196 --> 01:15:36,698 for better or worse, for richer or poorer, 1487 01:15:36,782 --> 01:15:40,869 in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish always?" 1488 01:15:43,997 --> 01:15:44,915 I do. 1489 01:15:44,998 --> 01:15:48,168 [cheering] 1490 01:15:50,629 --> 01:15:53,674 Taylor, I give you this ring as a symbol of my love. 1491 01:15:53,757 --> 01:15:57,094 With the pledge to love you today, tomorrow and forever. 1492 01:15:57,177 --> 01:15:59,763 "I now pronounce you husband and wife." 1493 01:15:59,846 --> 01:16:01,974 "You may kiss each other and seal your vows." 1494 01:16:02,057 --> 01:16:05,769 [cheering] 1495 01:16:06,603 --> 01:16:07,521 [Garrett chuckles] 1496 01:16:07,604 --> 01:16:10,482 -["Somebody to You" playing] -♪ I wanna be somebody to you… ♪ 1497 01:16:11,650 --> 01:16:13,819 [vocalizing] 1498 01:16:13,902 --> 01:16:16,154 [crowd cheering] 1499 01:16:16,613 --> 01:16:17,489 [Tom] Yeah! 1500 01:16:17,573 --> 01:16:19,866 [shouting] 1501 01:16:22,703 --> 01:16:27,124 ♪ Somebody to you, somebody to you… ♪ 1502 01:16:27,207 --> 01:16:29,376 [Garrett laughs] 1503 01:16:32,796 --> 01:16:35,674 So is this, like, a thing, always pour your wife's glass first? 1504 01:16:35,757 --> 01:16:37,426 You're catching on. [laughs] 1505 01:16:37,509 --> 01:16:39,845 -I told you. I'm a quick learner. -I feel like I'm dreaming. 1506 01:16:39,928 --> 01:16:43,307 -I know. I know. -I feel like we're in another simulation. 1507 01:16:43,390 --> 01:16:46,768 Yes, yes. A very out-of-body experience. But it feels so right. 1508 01:16:46,852 --> 01:16:50,731 That's what is guiding me through all of this, is just how I feel about you. 1509 01:16:50,814 --> 01:16:51,773 Me too. 1510 01:16:52,774 --> 01:16:54,192 When you know, you know. 1511 01:16:59,364 --> 01:17:00,699 I had so much fun today! 1512 01:17:00,782 --> 01:17:01,783 -Did you? -Yeah. 1513 01:17:01,867 --> 01:17:04,953 It's such a wonderful day. That's how your wedding should be. 1514 01:17:05,037 --> 01:17:10,125 [laughing] I always thought I'd be, like, panicking somewhere. 1515 01:17:10,208 --> 01:17:11,585 -Yeah. -And like… 1516 01:17:12,377 --> 01:17:17,174 Today was, like, the wedding that I didn't even dream of, 1517 01:17:17,257 --> 01:17:20,344 but I'm so glad it turned out the way that it did. 1518 01:17:20,427 --> 01:17:22,387 I'm so happy. So happy. 1519 01:17:22,471 --> 01:17:23,472 Me too. 1520 01:17:24,181 --> 01:17:25,974 -I love you. -I love you too. 1521 01:17:40,989 --> 01:17:42,532 -Okay, okay, okay. -All right. 1522 01:17:42,616 --> 01:17:44,951 -You have the rest of your life to… -[laughing] 1523 01:17:45,035 --> 01:17:47,788 -["Need You to Love Me" playing] -♪ You love me… ♪ 1524 01:17:47,871 --> 01:17:49,831 -[Garrett] Oh, wow. Wow. -[Taylor] Look at this! 1525 01:17:49,915 --> 01:17:52,501 -Are we the luckiest people in the world? -[Garrett] Yes. 1526 01:17:53,627 --> 01:17:56,630 [Taylor] This is how you naturally transport people in Fredericksburg, right? 1527 01:17:56,713 --> 01:17:57,756 [laughing] 1528 01:17:58,882 --> 01:18:01,593 Love is absolutely blind. 1529 01:18:02,094 --> 01:18:03,512 Love is totally blind. 1530 01:18:03,595 --> 01:18:05,597 [laughing] 1531 01:18:06,807 --> 01:18:08,558 -Love you. -Love you too. 1532 01:18:08,642 --> 01:18:11,269 -[Taylor] This is very us. All of it. -[Garrett] Yeah. 1533 01:18:11,853 --> 01:18:17,234 Garrett is the kind of man that only comes along once in a lifetime. 1534 01:18:17,317 --> 01:18:19,778 I'm so excited! [laughs] 1535 01:18:19,861 --> 01:18:24,408 -[man] Mr. and Mrs. Josemans-Krause! -[cheering] 1536 01:18:26,118 --> 01:18:28,620 ♪ I just need you to love me ♪ 1537 01:18:28,704 --> 01:18:31,707 ♪ Need you to love me I just need you to love me… ♪ 1538 01:18:31,790 --> 01:18:34,459 I wouldn't wanna jump in the deep end with anyone else. 1539 01:18:34,543 --> 01:18:35,752 I love you so much. 1540 01:18:35,836 --> 01:18:37,838 ♪ Need you to love me… ♪ 1541 01:18:37,921 --> 01:18:41,091 I'm so excited for what's to come. 1542 01:18:41,675 --> 01:18:42,551 Me too. 1543 01:18:42,634 --> 01:18:45,137 ♪ I gave you all of me… ♪ 1544 01:18:45,220 --> 01:18:47,139 It's just the start of the rest of our lives. 1545 01:18:47,222 --> 01:18:50,225 That's the beautiful thing about it. We're just getting started. I can't wait. 1546 01:18:50,308 --> 01:18:51,226 I can't wait. 1547 01:18:51,309 --> 01:18:52,352 [Taylor] I'm so excited. 1548 01:18:52,853 --> 01:18:54,146 [laughs] 1549 01:18:54,229 --> 01:18:56,398 -I love you. -Love you too. 1550 01:18:56,481 --> 01:19:00,152 [crowd cheering] 1551 01:19:01,027 --> 01:19:02,863 ♪ I just need you to love me… ♪ 1552 01:19:02,946 --> 01:19:07,325 [man] Mr. and Mrs. Tyler and Ashley Bradson! 1553 01:19:07,409 --> 01:19:10,120 Love is blind. Love is blind for me. I'll say it again. 1554 01:19:10,203 --> 01:19:12,622 I have my person and my best friend. 1555 01:19:12,706 --> 01:19:16,168 I wouldn't have found a love like this if I didn't do this experiment 1556 01:19:16,251 --> 01:19:18,253 and look at someone for who they are on the inside. 1557 01:19:18,336 --> 01:19:20,839 [shouting] 1558 01:19:20,922 --> 01:19:23,300 You don't always get married to your soulmate. 1559 01:19:25,343 --> 01:19:27,721 -Stop! You're making it obvious! -Oh, I'm sorry. 1560 01:19:28,221 --> 01:19:32,184 I'm looking forward to tomorrow waking up and being a married woman. 1561 01:19:32,267 --> 01:19:34,394 -[Tyler] Yeah. -And now you got a ring on your hand. 1562 01:19:34,478 --> 01:19:37,647 Now it's solidified. I got a second ring. 1563 01:19:38,148 --> 01:19:40,609 You know, now I'm no longer engaged. I'm married. 1564 01:19:40,692 --> 01:19:41,651 -So happy. -Yes. 1565 01:19:42,402 --> 01:19:44,279 I'm happy. [chuckles] 1566 01:19:44,362 --> 01:19:45,197 I'm happy. 1567 01:19:45,280 --> 01:19:47,449 -[music continues] -[cheering] 1568 01:19:47,532 --> 01:19:49,743 ♪ I would have nothing Till you hold my hand ♪ 1569 01:19:49,826 --> 01:19:53,622 ♪ I've been pushed to the limits With the things you've said ♪ 1570 01:19:53,705 --> 01:19:55,415 ♪ And if I had the chance ♪ 1571 01:19:55,499 --> 01:20:02,005 ♪ I would meet you again and again ♪ 1572 01:20:02,088 --> 01:20:06,009 ♪ I would have nothing Till you hold my hand ♪ 1573 01:20:06,092 --> 01:20:10,013 ♪ I've been pushed to the limits With the things you've said ♪ 1574 01:20:10,096 --> 01:20:12,015 ♪ And if I had the chance ♪ 1575 01:20:12,098 --> 01:20:17,270 ♪ I would meet you again and again ♪ 1576 01:20:17,354 --> 01:20:23,026 ♪ I gave you all ♪ 1577 01:20:25,111 --> 01:20:32,035 ♪ I gave you all of me ♪ 1578 01:20:32,118 --> 01:20:33,453 ♪ I just need you to love me ♪ 1579 01:20:33,537 --> 01:20:37,040 ♪ I just need you to love me I just need you to love me ♪