1 00:00:05,964 --> 00:00:07,424 [pop music playing] 2 00:00:07,507 --> 00:00:10,301 ♪ There's a world of life ♪ 3 00:00:11,511 --> 00:00:13,471 ♪ All your love ♪ 4 00:00:13,555 --> 00:00:16,266 ♪ A twisted story I ♪ 5 00:00:17,934 --> 00:00:19,853 ♪ Heard before ♪ 6 00:00:28,111 --> 00:00:30,071 [Hannah] What conversation did you have with Katie? 7 00:00:30,155 --> 00:00:31,406 [Nick D] Um… 8 00:00:32,699 --> 00:00:34,743 -Just-- -You just don't know? 9 00:00:35,785 --> 00:00:40,081 I… it was just talking about shit that happened. 10 00:00:40,165 --> 00:00:43,460 [Hannah] Like what? Can you explain? 11 00:00:45,879 --> 00:00:47,505 [Nick D] You feel some way about it? 12 00:00:47,589 --> 00:00:50,216 Well, yeah, 'cause my best friend in the whole wide world 13 00:00:50,300 --> 00:00:51,384 and my fiancé are talking. 14 00:00:51,468 --> 00:00:53,762 You guys were giggling, having the best time of your life. 15 00:00:53,845 --> 00:00:55,055 It's annoying. 16 00:00:56,723 --> 00:00:57,807 It meant nothing to me. 17 00:00:57,891 --> 00:00:59,893 You said the person you need closure with is Katie. 18 00:00:59,976 --> 00:01:01,728 -I didn't need closure. -That's what you said. 19 00:01:01,811 --> 00:01:03,688 -I didn't say that. -[Hannah] What did you say? 20 00:01:03,772 --> 00:01:07,233 I said, "If there was someone I wanted to talk to, it would be Katie." 21 00:01:07,317 --> 00:01:09,819 -So you got what you wanted. -Right. I'm a man. 22 00:01:12,947 --> 00:01:14,741 So this is where I'm frustrated. 23 00:01:14,824 --> 00:01:15,825 I'll explain it. 24 00:01:15,909 --> 00:01:18,036 -Katie, best fucking friend in the world. -[sighs] 25 00:01:18,119 --> 00:01:23,124 Today, when you tell me that Katie is someone that you're intrigued to see… 26 00:01:23,208 --> 00:01:24,375 I wasn't intrigued to see her. 27 00:01:24,459 --> 00:01:26,336 I wanted to have a conversation to ask, 28 00:01:26,419 --> 00:01:29,631 "Hey, the first three days, we ranked each other one." 29 00:01:29,714 --> 00:01:31,091 "Why didn't I see you the fourth?" 30 00:01:31,174 --> 00:01:34,260 She said, "You were some of the guys I dated in the past." 31 00:01:34,344 --> 00:01:38,264 Okay, I totally get it. I know you didn't wanna see me. 32 00:01:38,765 --> 00:01:40,558 That's totally fine. I'm happy with Hannah. 33 00:01:40,642 --> 00:01:41,976 And that's that. 34 00:01:42,060 --> 00:01:46,022 That was just three seconds you explained. Why did you have a 40-minute conversation? 35 00:01:46,106 --> 00:01:48,441 -She's a cool girl. -She's my best friend. 36 00:01:48,525 --> 00:01:51,194 If that's your friend, why don't you go and ask her what happened? 37 00:01:51,277 --> 00:01:53,613 -Why are you asking me? -You're my fiancé. It's annoying. 38 00:01:53,696 --> 00:01:55,573 Were you guys talking about how fabulous I am, 39 00:01:55,657 --> 00:01:57,659 or were you talking about your past relationships? 40 00:01:57,742 --> 00:02:00,286 -Are we mature enough at this age-- -Are you mature enough, Nick? 41 00:02:00,370 --> 00:02:01,996 I've taught you everything you know. 42 00:02:02,080 --> 00:02:03,832 I turned you into a boy into a fucking man. 43 00:02:03,915 --> 00:02:07,669 -I have done everything for you. -You turned me into a boy to a man? 44 00:02:07,752 --> 00:02:09,754 I think you're literally the most fabulous person. 45 00:02:09,838 --> 00:02:13,883 Tonight, I was literally talking to Ashley about how, like, me in the pods… 46 00:02:13,967 --> 00:02:15,969 -Let me explain before you interrupt me. -[laughing] 47 00:02:16,052 --> 00:02:17,595 Me and Ashley had a conversation. 48 00:02:17,679 --> 00:02:21,141 I was talking to Ashley about how I don't show you enough of my fun side. 49 00:02:21,224 --> 00:02:24,269 Like, in the pods, I was the fun girl. I was so fun. 50 00:02:24,352 --> 00:02:26,271 -Right. -With you, there's no more fun. 51 00:02:26,354 --> 00:02:28,481 Like, I'm a fucking fun-ass person. 52 00:02:28,565 --> 00:02:31,442 I haven't got to show you that 'cause I've been taking this so seriously. 53 00:02:31,526 --> 00:02:34,070 And I've been so stressed out. Even my parents said that, right? 54 00:02:34,154 --> 00:02:36,030 So tonight, me and Ashley had a conversation. 55 00:02:36,114 --> 00:02:39,576 I was like, "Right. I need to show Nick my fun side. I love Nick." 56 00:02:39,659 --> 00:02:41,995 "Tonight is the night where I show him how fun I can be." 57 00:02:42,078 --> 00:02:44,497 -Yeah. -"We can have fun together," right? 58 00:02:44,581 --> 00:02:46,124 But then, at the same point, 59 00:02:46,207 --> 00:02:48,960 Katie had came up to me three different times tonight. 60 00:02:49,043 --> 00:02:52,046 My best friend told me how attractive you were. 61 00:02:52,130 --> 00:02:54,883 -What does that have to do with me? -Just let me explain! 62 00:02:54,966 --> 00:02:57,844 "He's hot, Hannah. I'm into him." She said it three different times. 63 00:02:57,927 --> 00:03:00,805 And then in the same day, you said you really wanted to talk to Katie. 64 00:03:00,889 --> 00:03:04,058 -What does that have to do with me? -And then you two get together. 65 00:03:04,142 --> 00:03:07,645 I have no clue what the fuck the conversation is, right? 66 00:03:07,729 --> 00:03:10,815 To me, it hurts, because it's like, that's my fiancé and my best friend. 67 00:03:10,899 --> 00:03:12,775 Like, that… it hurts me. 68 00:03:13,818 --> 00:03:15,320 At the end of the day, it's like, 69 00:03:15,403 --> 00:03:19,324 "Is that a best friend who disrespects me like that?" 70 00:03:19,407 --> 00:03:21,409 "Is that a fiancé that disrespects me like that?" 71 00:03:21,492 --> 00:03:24,412 So my question for you is, you're not secure in this. You don't trust me. 72 00:03:24,495 --> 00:03:26,873 -That's what it really comes down to. -It's not that I don't. 73 00:03:26,956 --> 00:03:29,000 -It's about respect. -Do you trust me? 74 00:03:29,083 --> 00:03:32,629 Hmm. I don't know if I don't trust you, but I don't know if I trust Katie. 75 00:03:32,712 --> 00:03:35,256 I don't even know why we're having this conversation, right? 76 00:03:35,340 --> 00:03:37,967 Like, I'm here with you. I'm gonna get married to you. 77 00:03:38,051 --> 00:03:39,469 -No, I know. -If you don't trust me-- 78 00:03:39,552 --> 00:03:42,472 -Do you understand my frustration though? -I really don't. 79 00:03:42,555 --> 00:03:45,767 Do you remember when we got in a fight? I said, "It's about respect"? 80 00:03:45,850 --> 00:03:47,769 -Respect, Nick. -[laughing] 81 00:03:50,438 --> 00:03:52,065 I don't know. I'm going to bed. 82 00:03:53,691 --> 00:03:55,318 [Nick D] I respected you. 83 00:03:55,818 --> 00:03:58,196 I said, "Hey, Hannah and I are in a fantastic place." 84 00:03:58,279 --> 00:04:00,490 -"I can't wait to get married." -[Hannah] Are we? 85 00:04:02,742 --> 00:04:05,411 If I can't have a conversation 86 00:04:05,495 --> 00:04:08,414 with one of your best friends, 87 00:04:08,498 --> 00:04:10,500 I guess you just don't trust us then. 88 00:04:10,583 --> 00:04:13,211 No, I just want you to understand when I'm upset. 89 00:04:14,087 --> 00:04:16,172 I have no clue what you talked about, Nick. 90 00:04:16,256 --> 00:04:19,842 That's not my fault that she came to you five different times and said I was hot. 91 00:04:21,052 --> 00:04:23,805 I love you, and I'm giving my world to you. 92 00:04:23,888 --> 00:04:26,849 "You talked to Katie for 40 minutes." Who gives a fuck? 93 00:04:26,933 --> 00:04:28,851 -I do. -I don't give a fuck. 94 00:04:28,935 --> 00:04:30,436 -But that's-- -You should listen to me. 95 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:33,106 I'm into you. And I'm into this, right? 96 00:04:33,189 --> 00:04:34,983 So who gives a fuck what Katie thinks? 97 00:04:38,278 --> 00:04:41,197 I was so excited to show you, like, my fun side 98 00:04:41,281 --> 00:04:42,282 and have a fun night. 99 00:04:42,365 --> 00:04:45,535 -And of course this shit has to happen. -Yeah, but who ruined that? 100 00:04:46,035 --> 00:04:47,036 It wasn't me. 101 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,205 Look at my feet right now. They look psychotic. 102 00:04:49,289 --> 00:04:52,542 -This is disgusting. -I… I don't get it. 103 00:04:52,625 --> 00:04:55,044 Like, it's exactly how it was in the pods. 104 00:04:55,128 --> 00:04:58,256 "Oh, Nick's flirting with a bunch of women. Oh, he's Rico Suave." 105 00:04:58,339 --> 00:05:00,216 That's how the fuck I am. 106 00:05:00,300 --> 00:05:04,262 -Right. If I tell you I love you-- -I don't think that's who you are. 107 00:05:04,345 --> 00:05:06,681 Bet. Okay, roll with it. 108 00:05:08,349 --> 00:05:09,934 Well, you look really hot right now. 109 00:05:11,853 --> 00:05:13,604 I think I'm just ready for bed. 110 00:05:13,688 --> 00:05:15,231 Bet. Me too. 111 00:05:15,982 --> 00:05:19,944 I'm just pissed that some meaningless conversation that I had 112 00:05:20,028 --> 00:05:22,363 about one of your best friends. 113 00:05:22,447 --> 00:05:26,909 Right? If that's one of your best friends, then why are you grilling me about it? 114 00:05:27,869 --> 00:05:28,953 [Hannah] Okay. 115 00:05:29,037 --> 00:05:31,372 [Nick D] Bet. That's exactly what I thought. 116 00:05:31,456 --> 00:05:32,582 Didn't do shit. 117 00:05:33,082 --> 00:05:36,377 I can't be myself, I guess. And I can't dress up, I guess. 118 00:05:36,461 --> 00:05:38,004 I guess I gotta look dumb. 119 00:05:44,427 --> 00:05:47,638 I realize the person I love. I'm a mature man. 120 00:05:48,389 --> 00:05:50,391 I don't know what I did wrong, so… 121 00:05:52,477 --> 00:05:53,853 Do you hear me, Hannah? 122 00:05:58,483 --> 00:06:00,026 Hannah, can you hear me? 123 00:06:00,109 --> 00:06:01,611 [grunts, clicks tongue] 124 00:06:04,113 --> 00:06:05,990 [Hannah] I think it's always good to communicate. 125 00:06:06,074 --> 00:06:09,118 Just right now, it's 1:30 in the morning. 126 00:06:09,702 --> 00:06:13,206 I just wanna get some sleep. Then we talk about it tomorrow. 127 00:06:13,289 --> 00:06:19,087 Before we go to sleep, is there something that you are mad at me for? 128 00:06:19,170 --> 00:06:21,214 That I could have done better? 129 00:06:21,297 --> 00:06:22,340 No. 130 00:06:23,424 --> 00:06:26,886 Okay, that's all I needed to know. Because I felt like I did nothing wrong. 131 00:06:26,969 --> 00:06:29,972 I felt like I had a mature conversation with someone. 132 00:06:30,056 --> 00:06:32,975 -I told them exactly how I felt about you. -Hey. 133 00:06:33,059 --> 00:06:33,893 Hey. 134 00:06:33,976 --> 00:06:36,312 -So-- -Hey, hey, let's just go to sleep. 135 00:06:36,396 --> 00:06:38,481 -Come here. Come on. Come on. -Okay. 136 00:06:40,608 --> 00:06:41,484 -Okay. -Okay? 137 00:06:41,567 --> 00:06:43,694 -That's-- all right, like… -Okay. 138 00:06:46,406 --> 00:06:48,908 All right. Well, that's that. 139 00:06:48,991 --> 00:06:53,913 -[pop music playing] -♪ Oh, my head is a place full of war ♪ 140 00:06:53,996 --> 00:06:59,585 ♪ I can't escape from myself anymore ♪ 141 00:07:00,336 --> 00:07:05,800 ♪ Oh, my head is a place full of war ♪ 142 00:07:07,552 --> 00:07:09,554 [pop music playing] 143 00:07:11,472 --> 00:07:13,224 ♪ And I'll be the one ♪ 144 00:07:16,060 --> 00:07:19,981 ♪ Side by side, we're standing strong ♪ 145 00:07:20,064 --> 00:07:22,275 Welcome to San Diego. 146 00:07:22,358 --> 00:07:24,485 Finally getting shown around the hometown. 147 00:07:25,528 --> 00:07:28,448 I'm expecting her to be pointing stuff out right now, but she's not. 148 00:07:28,531 --> 00:07:30,825 So far, the tour's been a little… 149 00:07:32,785 --> 00:07:34,245 -Mid? -A little iffy. 150 00:07:35,746 --> 00:07:37,748 It's like what Taylor thought when she first saw me. 151 00:07:37,832 --> 00:07:39,333 [laughs] 152 00:07:39,417 --> 00:07:42,628 Maybe a little more caffeine and some sleep, we'll get a better tour. 153 00:07:42,712 --> 00:07:45,715 [laughs] It's like we had a really easy night or something. 154 00:07:45,798 --> 00:07:47,550 I'm not even sure I remember what happened. 155 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:51,012 -Okay. -[laughs] 156 00:07:51,095 --> 00:07:53,055 We didn't sleep all night. 157 00:07:53,139 --> 00:07:54,265 I was crying a lot. 158 00:07:54,348 --> 00:07:57,435 We've talked at length, and he feels terrible. 159 00:07:57,518 --> 00:08:00,480 But, you know, his reaction to his ex 160 00:08:01,147 --> 00:08:05,193 really was a lot more friendly than, like, I thought it would be. 161 00:08:05,276 --> 00:08:07,487 It actually made me feel like shit. 162 00:08:07,570 --> 00:08:13,117 And I hate that this is a week out from our wedding. 163 00:08:13,201 --> 00:08:15,161 I know that Garrett and I really love each other 164 00:08:15,244 --> 00:08:19,332 and that we plan to go meet my parents and my family today. 165 00:08:19,415 --> 00:08:22,585 And that's something that's been so incredibly important for me. 166 00:08:23,252 --> 00:08:28,299 I'm trying my best to, like, make sure that we table that and enjoy today, 167 00:08:28,382 --> 00:08:32,053 and they get to meet Garrett, and it's not marred by this thing 168 00:08:32,136 --> 00:08:34,680 that I don't think he did intentionally or maliciously. 169 00:08:34,764 --> 00:08:37,475 -Really excited to go meet my parents. -Yes. 170 00:08:37,558 --> 00:08:40,144 And, um, they're gonna love Garrett. 171 00:08:40,228 --> 00:08:43,022 -But what do we think of the neighborhood? -Love it. Love it. 172 00:08:43,814 --> 00:08:44,941 I could totally live here. 173 00:08:45,024 --> 00:08:51,364 I'd like today to be… a happy day and something that is about celebrating us 174 00:08:51,447 --> 00:08:55,326 and, like, what was 12, 24 hours ago 175 00:08:55,409 --> 00:08:57,328 a happy and anticipated wedding. 176 00:08:57,411 --> 00:09:00,498 And, you know, now I'm not 100%. 177 00:09:00,581 --> 00:09:03,709 And I think that, um, Garrett understands. 178 00:09:03,793 --> 00:09:05,586 I think he's being very patient. 179 00:09:06,087 --> 00:09:07,838 And, um… 180 00:09:09,298 --> 00:09:11,050 I'm just kind of… 181 00:09:14,428 --> 00:09:15,471 just really hurt. 182 00:09:15,555 --> 00:09:19,684 So Garrett was finally able to come meet my family and friends. 183 00:09:19,767 --> 00:09:22,270 They're all very wonderful. Everyone is a special character. 184 00:09:22,353 --> 00:09:24,272 And it's been a pleasure to meet all of you guys. 185 00:09:24,355 --> 00:09:29,819 And, so, uh, just wanna show all the support and love that we got. 186 00:09:29,902 --> 00:09:32,613 -[cheering] -[Garrett] They're real people. 187 00:09:33,406 --> 00:09:35,241 -Taylor has a real family. -[man] They're real. 188 00:09:35,324 --> 00:09:37,410 Okay, I do indeed actually have a real family. 189 00:09:37,493 --> 00:09:40,913 -I'm officially a Padres fan, so… -Officially a Padres fan. 190 00:09:40,997 --> 00:09:42,915 [woman] Yay, Garrett! 191 00:09:42,999 --> 00:09:45,585 -[laughing] -[cheering] 192 00:09:45,668 --> 00:09:48,462 Garrett got to meet potentially the… 193 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:52,341 who would be the grandparents to his kids one day. 194 00:09:53,092 --> 00:09:55,094 -[chuckles] -It was perfect. 195 00:09:55,177 --> 00:09:58,431 I think they can see just, like, how happy I am 196 00:09:58,514 --> 00:10:00,224 and how deeply we've thought about it. 197 00:10:00,308 --> 00:10:03,477 And to be able to describe the experiment 198 00:10:03,561 --> 00:10:07,189 and all the value it's provided 199 00:10:07,273 --> 00:10:09,191 for two very logical people 200 00:10:09,275 --> 00:10:12,320 to, like, align their lives to be life partners 201 00:10:12,403 --> 00:10:17,366 was something that they were just as shocked as, like, we were. 202 00:10:17,450 --> 00:10:18,492 Yeah. 203 00:10:18,576 --> 00:10:22,246 Um, but I think trust me to make the best decision for myself. 204 00:10:22,330 --> 00:10:25,875 And I think Garrett's the best decision for myself. 205 00:10:26,792 --> 00:10:27,710 [chuckles] 206 00:10:28,753 --> 00:10:30,755 And I'm glad you got to meet everyone today. 207 00:10:30,838 --> 00:10:33,174 Yeah. Looking forward to the wedding. 208 00:10:33,257 --> 00:10:36,844 -["Our Love Song" playing] -♪ This love will never fade out ♪ 209 00:10:38,262 --> 00:10:40,973 ♪ It's you and me from now on ♪ 210 00:10:41,057 --> 00:10:43,934 ♪ We're writing our love song ♪ 211 00:10:44,018 --> 00:10:46,020 -["We Play to Win" playing] -♪ One, two, three, go ♪ 212 00:10:47,647 --> 00:10:48,814 [Tyler laughs] 213 00:10:48,898 --> 00:10:50,650 [Ashley A] I can't let Tyler get up on me. 214 00:10:52,109 --> 00:10:54,945 Never gonna let me hear the end of it. [shouts] 215 00:10:55,029 --> 00:10:56,656 [Tyler] Don't run from me. Whoo! 216 00:10:56,739 --> 00:10:57,740 [Ashley A] Get off! 217 00:10:57,823 --> 00:10:59,450 [both laughing] 218 00:11:00,117 --> 00:11:02,036 [Tyler] That a girl! Drive that thing! 219 00:11:02,119 --> 00:11:04,038 [laughs] 220 00:11:04,121 --> 00:11:06,749 ♪ Play, play, play to win… ♪ 221 00:11:06,832 --> 00:11:08,250 [tires squeal] 222 00:11:09,335 --> 00:11:11,003 [Ashley A shouts, laughs] 223 00:11:11,087 --> 00:11:12,880 ♪ Play, play, play to win… ♪ 224 00:11:14,173 --> 00:11:15,049 [Ashley A sighs] 225 00:11:15,132 --> 00:11:17,927 My hands and my arms. I feel like it was a workout. 226 00:11:18,010 --> 00:11:19,720 Yeah, but you're strong. 227 00:11:21,472 --> 00:11:22,848 Let me see something. 228 00:11:24,058 --> 00:11:24,934 See? 229 00:11:25,518 --> 00:11:27,103 -Feel that? -You're like a little kid. 230 00:11:27,186 --> 00:11:28,771 [both laughing] 231 00:11:28,854 --> 00:11:30,690 -You know I said sorry. -[Ashley A] Yeah. 232 00:11:30,773 --> 00:11:31,774 Sorry again. 233 00:11:31,857 --> 00:11:34,068 The shock has worn off. 234 00:11:34,151 --> 00:11:36,862 So then now I'm able to rationalize certain things 235 00:11:36,946 --> 00:11:39,740 and paint a picture for myself of what it would look like 236 00:11:39,824 --> 00:11:43,244 if, like, the kids came in our lives in five years. 237 00:11:43,327 --> 00:11:45,705 Like, how would I-- Would I be okay with it? 238 00:11:47,540 --> 00:11:51,752 I feel like I want you in my life, no matter what. 239 00:11:55,464 --> 00:11:58,259 It's not what I intended for myself, 240 00:11:58,342 --> 00:12:02,012 but I feel like it's worth the reward, 241 00:12:02,096 --> 00:12:03,848 which is you, so… 242 00:12:05,850 --> 00:12:07,059 You're gonna get me. 243 00:12:08,060 --> 00:12:09,603 -That's the thing. -Really? 244 00:12:14,525 --> 00:12:16,152 That's what I've concluded. 245 00:12:16,986 --> 00:12:18,028 I like that conclusion. 246 00:12:20,656 --> 00:12:21,699 We're getting married. 247 00:12:21,782 --> 00:12:24,994 -["It's in My Heart" playing] -♪ So I'll reach a little further ♪ 248 00:12:25,619 --> 00:12:27,371 ♪ Climb a little higher… ♪ 249 00:12:28,289 --> 00:12:31,542 -Now any more cats crawl out them bags… -[laughing] 250 00:12:31,625 --> 00:12:33,377 I can't make no promises. 251 00:12:33,878 --> 00:12:35,629 All right? [laughs] 252 00:12:35,713 --> 00:12:38,966 All right, this is your one little card. All right, take it. 253 00:12:39,049 --> 00:12:42,052 -Ain't no cats crawling out no bags. -Okay, good. 254 00:12:42,136 --> 00:12:45,014 ♪ So I'll reach a little further ♪ 255 00:12:45,097 --> 00:12:47,475 ♪ Climb a little higher ♪ 256 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:51,312 ♪ And it's all because of you ♪ 257 00:12:53,606 --> 00:12:55,191 You wanna try the batter? 258 00:12:55,274 --> 00:12:57,401 [Ramses] It has raw egg in it, doesn't it? 259 00:12:57,485 --> 00:13:00,154 Babe, that whole raw egg thing is fine. 260 00:13:00,237 --> 00:13:02,323 They used to eat, back in the day-- 261 00:13:02,406 --> 00:13:05,075 Babe, back in the day, people died from a paper cut. 262 00:13:05,159 --> 00:13:07,119 But you could swallow a raw egg. 263 00:13:07,203 --> 00:13:09,497 -People died from a paper cut? -Back in the day! 264 00:13:09,580 --> 00:13:12,666 -They didn't have paper to die from. -All right. 265 00:13:12,750 --> 00:13:15,002 [Marissa] All right, first batch going in. 266 00:13:15,628 --> 00:13:19,548 We need to fill out our marriage license certificate. 267 00:13:20,049 --> 00:13:21,926 -So… -Go ahead, babe. 268 00:13:23,469 --> 00:13:24,386 Crazy! 269 00:13:24,470 --> 00:13:26,514 I need to pour up a beer for this here. 270 00:13:26,597 --> 00:13:29,683 -Why do you need to pour a beer? -It's just a moment. 271 00:13:29,767 --> 00:13:33,145 Should I fill out your stuff first? Let's fill out your stuff first. So… 272 00:13:33,229 --> 00:13:34,814 Date of birth. 273 00:13:35,940 --> 00:13:37,817 [laughing] April… Hold on. 274 00:13:41,779 --> 00:13:43,781 -April what? -[Ramses] Babe, hold on. It was-- 275 00:13:43,864 --> 00:13:46,492 -No! -No, it's April… No, no, hold on. 276 00:13:46,575 --> 00:13:50,120 -April 3, 1992. -[Marissa] Okay. 277 00:13:50,204 --> 00:13:51,997 I can't believe I have to tell you this. 278 00:13:52,081 --> 00:13:54,208 -Just confirm. -Yes. 279 00:13:54,291 --> 00:13:58,295 Why are you making me feel like an asshole? What is your phone number? 280 00:13:58,379 --> 00:14:00,422 [laughing] 281 00:14:00,923 --> 00:14:03,467 Do you even know what my name is? [laughs] 282 00:14:03,551 --> 00:14:05,344 Darling, let's focus. 283 00:14:05,427 --> 00:14:06,679 Okay, sorry. 284 00:14:06,762 --> 00:14:08,347 Married previously? Yes. 285 00:14:09,515 --> 00:14:10,933 Babe, here's the moment of truth. 286 00:14:11,016 --> 00:14:12,059 [gasps] 287 00:14:12,142 --> 00:14:15,312 -The moment of truth? Wait! -Moment of truth. [grunts] 288 00:14:15,396 --> 00:14:17,314 -I'm scared. -Do you have any… 289 00:14:17,898 --> 00:14:20,317 No, I'm not. No reservations. 290 00:14:20,401 --> 00:14:22,278 [Ramses] You wanna hit the next button together? 291 00:14:22,361 --> 00:14:24,196 [laughing] 292 00:14:24,280 --> 00:14:26,073 -Where do I click? -No, right here. 293 00:14:26,156 --> 00:14:28,784 -[Marissa] One, two, three. -Ready? One, two, three. 294 00:14:28,868 --> 00:14:31,036 -[squeals] There you go. -There it is. 295 00:14:32,580 --> 00:14:34,707 -We're getting married, baby. -We're getting married. 296 00:14:34,790 --> 00:14:37,501 -[pop music playing] -♪ Your heart beats so ♪ 297 00:14:37,585 --> 00:14:39,378 ♪ Small thing ♪ 298 00:14:39,461 --> 00:14:40,963 ♪ In the moment ♪ 299 00:14:41,046 --> 00:14:42,548 ♪ The way I feel, yeah ♪ 300 00:14:42,631 --> 00:14:44,925 ♪ The beat's so strong ♪ 301 00:14:45,009 --> 00:14:47,928 ♪ I'm floating ♪ 302 00:14:48,721 --> 00:14:51,765 Most men don't deserve to meet my friends. You're lucky, Nick. 303 00:14:51,849 --> 00:14:56,770 I worked hard. You turned me from a boy to a man. [chuckles] 304 00:14:56,854 --> 00:14:59,398 Do you think we resolved the issue? 305 00:14:59,481 --> 00:15:00,983 [Nick D] I think we resolved the issue. 306 00:15:01,066 --> 00:15:04,570 Sometimes I come across flirty, but it comes across the wrong way. 307 00:15:04,653 --> 00:15:10,200 So it's been an adjustment trying to, you know, change for you. 308 00:15:10,284 --> 00:15:12,536 So you're trying to change your flirtation for me? 309 00:15:12,620 --> 00:15:14,955 I'm trying to change my personality for you, yeah. 310 00:15:15,039 --> 00:15:18,083 Me asking you not to flirt with women, I'm changing your personality? 311 00:15:18,167 --> 00:15:20,085 -[Nick D] I wasn't flirting with… -Okay. 312 00:15:20,169 --> 00:15:22,087 But that's what it came across to you. 313 00:15:22,171 --> 00:15:24,506 Mm-hmm. In this experiment, sometimes you have tests, 314 00:15:24,590 --> 00:15:27,343 and it was a test that I think that you failed, but-- 315 00:15:27,426 --> 00:15:29,845 [laughs] I didn't even get a D? I failed? 316 00:15:29,929 --> 00:15:31,889 -As long as you don't fail again. -[laughs] 317 00:15:31,972 --> 00:15:34,475 Well, that's what I'm-- you know, I don't want to fail you. 318 00:15:34,558 --> 00:15:36,185 Hopefully, I don't fail this. 319 00:15:36,268 --> 00:15:39,813 -We'll see, Nick. -You're supposed to have confidence in me. 320 00:15:40,606 --> 00:15:43,025 -I have confidence in you, Nick. -That's all I needed. 321 00:15:43,108 --> 00:15:44,818 -[woman] Hello! -[Nick D] What's up, guys? 322 00:15:44,902 --> 00:15:46,904 -Oh! -[woman] Hi! 323 00:15:47,446 --> 00:15:50,032 -How are you? I'm Hannah. -What's up? Nice to meet you. 324 00:15:50,115 --> 00:15:51,158 Nice to meet you. 325 00:15:51,659 --> 00:15:53,202 -[Hannah] You smell nice. -So do you. 326 00:15:53,702 --> 00:15:54,828 I got the hot seat here. 327 00:15:54,912 --> 00:15:57,748 -[woman] I haven't seen you in forever. -We haven't. It's been so long. 328 00:15:57,831 --> 00:15:59,875 Did you imagine me getting married? [chuckles] 329 00:15:59,959 --> 00:16:02,920 I mean, I can imagine you getting married, but not… 330 00:16:03,003 --> 00:16:05,047 This is, like, just very different. 331 00:16:05,130 --> 00:16:07,424 Tell us about you. What do you like to do? 332 00:16:07,508 --> 00:16:11,512 So I grew up playing a bunch of sports. My whole family loves sports. 333 00:16:11,595 --> 00:16:14,306 I played college football, um, a little bit pro. 334 00:16:14,390 --> 00:16:15,432 Now I'm in real estate. 335 00:16:15,516 --> 00:16:18,102 Women were never a priority to me. 336 00:16:18,185 --> 00:16:20,562 I was always doing work or football. 337 00:16:20,646 --> 00:16:23,941 Since it's never been a priority, what makes you wanna go through with this now? 338 00:16:24,733 --> 00:16:26,068 It's the right time in my life. 339 00:16:26,151 --> 00:16:29,113 I was really invested in football. I gave everything to that. 340 00:16:29,196 --> 00:16:33,742 After that, you know, I had realized exactly what I wanna do with my life, 341 00:16:33,826 --> 00:16:35,452 and that I wanna start a family. 342 00:16:35,536 --> 00:16:36,662 I wanna get married. 343 00:16:36,745 --> 00:16:38,914 Before Hannah, I never loved anyone before. 344 00:16:39,415 --> 00:16:41,291 When you meet the right person, you kind of know. 345 00:16:41,375 --> 00:16:43,460 You think you're ready to marry me? 346 00:16:43,544 --> 00:16:45,212 -I think so. [laughs] -[Hannah] Yeah? 347 00:16:45,295 --> 00:16:47,506 -Yeah! Do you think you're ready? -[Audriana] "Think so"? 348 00:16:47,589 --> 00:16:49,383 Hold on a second. You "think"? 349 00:16:49,466 --> 00:16:51,176 Do you think you're ready to marry me? 350 00:16:51,260 --> 00:16:52,845 -I do wanna marry you. -Yeah. 351 00:16:52,928 --> 00:16:55,723 I would love to marry you. Sometimes I just, like, question things. 352 00:16:55,806 --> 00:16:57,891 It makes me think if we should get married. 353 00:16:57,975 --> 00:17:00,769 -Do you know what I mean? -Yeah, I have some flaws to work on. 354 00:17:00,853 --> 00:17:04,273 Doesn't mean I'm not ready for marriage. Doesn't mean I don't love you. 355 00:17:04,356 --> 00:17:06,900 But we've had a couple of situations 356 00:17:06,984 --> 00:17:09,778 where I felt, like, the conversation was harmless, 357 00:17:09,862 --> 00:17:14,199 and from your perspective, it was a little more than that. 358 00:17:14,283 --> 00:17:17,745 I know that a fault sometimes is that I am a little bit too direct, 359 00:17:17,828 --> 00:17:20,289 and sometimes it can come off as malicious or rude. 360 00:17:20,372 --> 00:17:22,791 But when you know me, you know that's actually coming 361 00:17:22,875 --> 00:17:24,543 actually from the most kind place of heart. 362 00:17:24,626 --> 00:17:27,212 -And the truth hurts. Let's be real. -The truth does hurt. 363 00:17:27,296 --> 00:17:30,299 [Hannah 2] Everyone wants honesty until they have it. 364 00:17:30,382 --> 00:17:31,467 Thank you. 365 00:17:31,550 --> 00:17:33,886 So, basically, Nick went to go ride this duck. 366 00:17:33,969 --> 00:17:35,763 I was like, "That's gonna give me the ick." 367 00:17:35,846 --> 00:17:37,973 "I'm gonna start calling you frickin' Icky-Nicky." 368 00:17:38,057 --> 00:17:41,351 "But go ride the frickin' duck." And he went over to ride-- 369 00:17:41,435 --> 00:17:42,436 It looked cool. 370 00:17:42,519 --> 00:17:46,190 Then some woman gets on there with him. Then the woman, like, looks at me. 371 00:17:46,273 --> 00:17:50,110 And she's like, "Oh, look at your girl. She's so jealous." 372 00:17:50,194 --> 00:17:51,445 And I was like… 373 00:17:51,528 --> 00:17:54,239 And then Nick was like, "Oh, that's so funny." 374 00:17:54,323 --> 00:17:55,324 I was like, "Uh…" 375 00:17:55,407 --> 00:17:57,493 [Audriana] I wouldn't have thought that was funny. 376 00:17:57,576 --> 00:17:59,912 -It wasn't funny. -I wouldn't have thought it was funny. 377 00:17:59,995 --> 00:18:01,872 It's tough for me because I feel like 378 00:18:02,456 --> 00:18:05,626 I'm having to change a lot about the type of man I am. 379 00:18:05,709 --> 00:18:08,295 And now it's like, "Well, damn." 380 00:18:08,378 --> 00:18:10,672 Maybe, you know, I'm not mature enough, right? 381 00:18:10,756 --> 00:18:12,800 Which I think I am for a marriage. 382 00:18:12,883 --> 00:18:14,551 I'm questioning myself now. 383 00:18:14,635 --> 00:18:17,262 You think I'm trying to change you, and I don't wanna change you. 384 00:18:17,346 --> 00:18:18,514 When you're marrying someone, 385 00:18:18,597 --> 00:18:21,183 there are changes you make because it's a different dynamic in life. 386 00:18:21,266 --> 00:18:23,060 Being flirtatious and things is how you are, 387 00:18:23,143 --> 00:18:24,978 but when you have someone else in your life, 388 00:18:25,062 --> 00:18:27,106 you have someone else to consider constantly. 389 00:18:27,189 --> 00:18:30,859 If you can't do that, don't make me feel like you can and then you don't. 390 00:18:30,943 --> 00:18:34,029 -That's not what you were saying. -[Hannah] What did I say? 391 00:18:34,113 --> 00:18:36,907 I'd never wanna share anything you don't feel comfortable sharing, 392 00:18:36,990 --> 00:18:38,951 but you can share how you felt if you'd like. 393 00:18:39,034 --> 00:18:40,828 Go ahead. You got the floor. 394 00:18:44,498 --> 00:18:47,584 I think sometimes he's not honest and upfront with me, 395 00:18:47,668 --> 00:18:51,130 because I think that he thinks that if he is honest and upfront with me 396 00:18:51,213 --> 00:18:54,341 and that he's not ready for this, then I won't be in his life anymore. 397 00:18:54,424 --> 00:18:55,801 Because we do love each other. 398 00:18:56,510 --> 00:18:59,847 But if he chooses not to say yes to me, 399 00:18:59,930 --> 00:19:01,890 then we will not be together anymore. 400 00:19:03,142 --> 00:19:05,144 How do you feel about that statement? 401 00:19:05,227 --> 00:19:09,606 What I told you last night, like, you have questions about my maturity, 402 00:19:09,690 --> 00:19:11,567 social awareness, if I can take care of you, 403 00:19:11,650 --> 00:19:15,279 if I can take care of Luna, if I can live in your space with you, 404 00:19:15,362 --> 00:19:17,072 how are our routines gonna mesh, 405 00:19:17,156 --> 00:19:20,993 am I able to change my past ways for this relationship? 406 00:19:21,076 --> 00:19:25,664 Like, those are just six right off the bat that are huge reservations, right? 407 00:19:25,747 --> 00:19:28,709 But those are easy fixes. 408 00:19:28,792 --> 00:19:30,794 -Yeah. -Walking the dog, that's pretty easy. 409 00:19:30,878 --> 00:19:32,713 -For sure. -Then do it. 410 00:19:32,796 --> 00:19:35,924 The things that she's saying are just actions. 411 00:19:36,008 --> 00:19:37,926 They're not who you are. 412 00:19:38,010 --> 00:19:42,097 They're just changing your routine and what you're used to doing 413 00:19:42,181 --> 00:19:44,933 to be in a relationship instead of being single. 414 00:19:45,017 --> 00:19:48,812 Mm-hmm. And I'm willing to take on all of those risks and challenges. 415 00:19:48,896 --> 00:19:50,856 -That's a risk and challenge? -What? 416 00:19:50,939 --> 00:19:53,066 To have characteristics to be in a relationship? 417 00:19:53,150 --> 00:19:56,361 -No, I'm willing to do this. No doubt. -[Hannah] Yeah. 418 00:19:56,445 --> 00:19:59,239 I'm not asking you to change who you are, to be a different person. 419 00:19:59,323 --> 00:20:02,492 I'm asking you to respect me. I'm asking you to be not flirtatious. 420 00:20:02,576 --> 00:20:04,870 -I'm asking you-- -I feel like I do respect you. 421 00:20:04,953 --> 00:20:07,331 -…to do the things I do as well. -[Nick D] Yeah. 422 00:20:07,414 --> 00:20:09,583 I'm not asking you to change your personality, 423 00:20:09,666 --> 00:20:11,835 to change what you like to do, your hobbies. 424 00:20:11,919 --> 00:20:12,961 That's not what I'm asking. 425 00:20:13,045 --> 00:20:17,424 I'm asking for very small things that, to you, are huge. You know what I mean? 426 00:20:17,507 --> 00:20:22,846 You're saying these challenges, whatever, it sounds to you like it's a lot. 427 00:20:22,930 --> 00:20:25,891 And it's a lot of work, and all this stuff, when it's really not. 428 00:20:25,974 --> 00:20:28,268 It's really simple, easy things. 429 00:20:28,352 --> 00:20:32,481 "Respect me. Walk the dog. Pick up around the house." 430 00:20:32,564 --> 00:20:35,859 You're acting like this is a huge thing you have to change and do. 431 00:20:35,943 --> 00:20:36,860 And it's not. 432 00:20:41,031 --> 00:20:43,992 I don't think it's a huge thing I need to change, and I'm willing to do that. 433 00:20:44,076 --> 00:20:46,662 Then why is it so hard for you to get there, then? 434 00:20:47,496 --> 00:20:50,916 Yeah, so that's what I was gonna say. You say that it's not a huge thing. 435 00:20:50,999 --> 00:20:53,794 But then you're like, "I have doubts about getting married," 436 00:20:53,877 --> 00:20:57,714 because of the six things that you, like, named off, right? 437 00:20:57,798 --> 00:20:59,925 She doesn't want you to change who you are. 438 00:21:02,552 --> 00:21:06,223 Like, I love you so much, and I never question, like, your love for me ever. 439 00:21:06,306 --> 00:21:10,310 The only thing I question is if you're ready to be able to fully commit to me, 440 00:21:10,394 --> 00:21:13,397 to marry me, and be the husband that I deserve. You know what I mean? 441 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:18,193 -["Cold Hands" playing] -♪ Some waters run so deep ♪ 442 00:21:18,277 --> 00:21:20,279 ♪ I'm scared ♪ 443 00:21:20,362 --> 00:21:21,697 [vocalizing] 444 00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:30,080 ♪ Time to heat up those cold hands ♪ 445 00:21:31,915 --> 00:21:33,375 [Taylor] I hear my mother! 446 00:21:33,458 --> 00:21:35,627 -[laughs] Hi, Mom! -Hi! 447 00:21:36,295 --> 00:21:38,297 -[Garrett] Hi. Good to see you. -[mother] You too. 448 00:21:40,132 --> 00:21:41,133 [Garrett] Have a seat. 449 00:21:41,216 --> 00:21:42,592 Join us. 450 00:21:42,676 --> 00:21:43,510 [mother grunts] 451 00:21:44,386 --> 00:21:47,973 So is traffic usually this crappy on a Saturday? 452 00:21:48,515 --> 00:21:50,976 -It's DC. It's always bad. -My God. It never shuts down. 453 00:21:51,059 --> 00:21:52,060 [Taylor] It's always bad. 454 00:21:52,144 --> 00:21:54,813 -Are we gonna try on dresses tomorrow? -Oh my gosh. 455 00:21:54,896 --> 00:21:56,898 [laughs] Are you ready to see me in a wedding dress? 456 00:21:56,982 --> 00:21:58,150 No, let's just… 457 00:21:58,233 --> 00:22:00,569 [laughs] 458 00:22:02,279 --> 00:22:05,407 I was like, "I think my parents are gonna support me." 459 00:22:05,490 --> 00:22:09,244 "But, like, if they don't, like, I don't know if I'm gonna do this." 460 00:22:09,328 --> 00:22:12,372 Like, it wouldn't be my wedding without you guys there. 461 00:22:12,456 --> 00:22:16,752 You know, everybody jumps to the worst-case scenario. 462 00:22:16,835 --> 00:22:20,589 And I had to pull your dad back from the ledge and say, you know, 463 00:22:20,672 --> 00:22:24,009 "They're not our children anymore. They're adults." And… 464 00:22:27,304 --> 00:22:30,974 "They're inviting us into this craziness 465 00:22:31,058 --> 00:22:32,851 and wanting us to be a part of it." 466 00:22:33,894 --> 00:22:36,355 [tearfully] "So, you know, chill out." 467 00:22:38,607 --> 00:22:40,317 -Mom! -[Garrett] Mm. 468 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:42,986 -Aww, Mom. Mom. -[clears throat] 469 00:22:45,614 --> 00:22:47,866 You can think about it intellectually 470 00:22:47,949 --> 00:22:49,534 that you're compatible, 471 00:22:49,618 --> 00:22:52,996 but, you know, sometimes you have to just feel it. 472 00:22:54,873 --> 00:22:56,666 I know. And, Mom, I feel it. 473 00:22:56,750 --> 00:22:58,251 -Okay. -[Taylor] I really do. 474 00:23:00,087 --> 00:23:01,380 I know I've met my person. 475 00:23:01,463 --> 00:23:03,340 -Welcome to the family. -Thank you. 476 00:23:03,423 --> 00:23:05,050 -Cheers? -Cheers. 477 00:23:05,133 --> 00:23:07,928 You sure you don't wanna run? Run very fast? 478 00:23:08,637 --> 00:23:10,138 [Taylor] Even Dad told him to run. God. 479 00:23:10,222 --> 00:23:12,057 [Garrett] Excited to be a part of the family. 480 00:23:12,641 --> 00:23:13,809 -Love you. -I love you too. 481 00:23:13,892 --> 00:23:15,894 -[pop music playing] -♪ We'll see this through ♪ 482 00:23:15,977 --> 00:23:22,776 ♪ We'll see this through ♪ 483 00:23:28,490 --> 00:23:30,742 Today's the day we get to try on wedding dresses. 484 00:23:30,826 --> 00:23:33,537 You… What did you write? You wrote a speech? 485 00:23:34,121 --> 00:23:35,789 Well, I wanted to know what I was gonna say 486 00:23:35,872 --> 00:23:39,167 to you when you found the dress of your dreams. 487 00:23:39,793 --> 00:23:42,129 You know, and this is a big day between a mom and daughter. 488 00:23:42,212 --> 00:23:44,256 And I wanted it to be special. 489 00:23:44,339 --> 00:23:46,174 [Hannah] It is supposed to be a special day. 490 00:23:46,842 --> 00:23:48,718 [laughing] 491 00:23:48,802 --> 00:23:51,847 But it's like Nick doesn't match me intellectually. 492 00:23:51,930 --> 00:23:53,598 Nick doesn't match my humor. 493 00:23:54,266 --> 00:23:57,018 He doesn't match me creatively. He doesn't match me financially. 494 00:23:57,102 --> 00:23:58,645 He doesn't match me anywhere. 495 00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:04,985 And him meeting my friends yesterday, they did not like him. 496 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:10,365 None of that matters if you love each other. 497 00:24:11,032 --> 00:24:12,409 None of that matters. 498 00:24:14,870 --> 00:24:16,329 I do love him. That's why I'm here. 499 00:24:17,414 --> 00:24:19,499 I guess it's just you think, like, 500 00:24:20,125 --> 00:24:23,420 you can see what it could be, and you want it to work so freakin' bad. 501 00:24:24,004 --> 00:24:24,838 I know. 502 00:24:24,921 --> 00:24:28,425 I feel like I'm teaching him how to love, teaching him how to be in a relationship. 503 00:24:28,508 --> 00:24:30,302 And that's not very fair to me. 504 00:24:30,385 --> 00:24:32,804 If you want to marry someone, you know you want to marry them. 505 00:24:32,888 --> 00:24:34,014 There's not a question. 506 00:24:35,056 --> 00:24:35,891 Yeah. 507 00:24:35,974 --> 00:24:38,143 It was nice seeing you have someone and be happy. 508 00:24:38,226 --> 00:24:40,353 Like, we want what makes you happy. 509 00:24:40,437 --> 00:24:42,063 We want you to be happy 510 00:24:42,147 --> 00:24:44,357 and not sway your decision by what we think at all. 511 00:24:44,441 --> 00:24:47,486 -It's totally your decision. -[exhales] Yeah. 512 00:24:50,906 --> 00:24:52,866 I think Nick's about to be here. 513 00:24:53,867 --> 00:24:55,076 I love you. 514 00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:55,994 Yeah. 515 00:24:56,077 --> 00:24:58,830 -["I Wear the Crown" playing] -♪ This is my kingdom, this is my cage ♪ 516 00:24:58,914 --> 00:25:02,083 ♪ I'll break the system, never afraid ♪ 517 00:25:02,167 --> 00:25:05,962 ♪ Won't back down ♪ 518 00:25:06,046 --> 00:25:08,173 ♪ 'Cause I wear the crown ♪ 519 00:25:09,257 --> 00:25:12,010 Oh my God! Look at the dresses! 520 00:25:12,093 --> 00:25:14,596 [gasps] This is crazy. 521 00:25:14,679 --> 00:25:16,264 I'm obsessed. 522 00:25:16,348 --> 00:25:18,225 ♪ Yeah, we do it like whoo-hoo… ♪ 523 00:25:18,308 --> 00:25:20,560 Yeah. We're about to get fitted. 524 00:25:20,644 --> 00:25:22,062 Suited and booted. 525 00:25:22,145 --> 00:25:24,189 -Gentlemen. This guy. -[chattering] 526 00:25:25,899 --> 00:25:27,484 Hey! What's up, man? 527 00:25:27,567 --> 00:25:28,860 [laughing] 528 00:25:28,944 --> 00:25:30,320 Yes, sir! 529 00:25:30,403 --> 00:25:31,363 Oh! 530 00:25:31,446 --> 00:25:34,282 -Who's ready to try on some suits? -Me. [laughing] 531 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,704 -Hannah's not here? -On purpose? 532 00:25:40,205 --> 00:25:41,790 I think on purpose. 533 00:25:41,873 --> 00:25:46,002 Yeah. Yeah, I talked to her yesterday about, like, the friend meeting. 534 00:25:46,086 --> 00:25:48,213 I don't think it went that well. 535 00:25:48,296 --> 00:25:50,423 Her friends. I don't know if she's… 536 00:25:50,507 --> 00:25:53,426 I asked her if she called off the wedding. She hasn't said so… 537 00:25:53,927 --> 00:25:55,387 Hi. 538 00:25:55,470 --> 00:25:56,555 [woman] Hi! 539 00:25:57,180 --> 00:25:59,266 -Am I interrupting? -[Ashley A] No, welcome. 540 00:25:59,349 --> 00:26:00,725 -No, never. -Never. 541 00:26:00,809 --> 00:26:03,687 [Marissa] We were just talking about one of the girls, Hannah, 542 00:26:03,770 --> 00:26:05,188 who's not here today. 543 00:26:05,272 --> 00:26:06,773 -[Vanessa] Hannah and Nick. -Yes. 544 00:26:06,856 --> 00:26:09,317 Hannah's friends might've helped her come to a conclusion 545 00:26:09,401 --> 00:26:13,363 about what she wants to do, but she hasn't confirmed that yet. 546 00:26:13,446 --> 00:26:16,908 Well, I'm sorry I came in on that note, but I am gonna say, 547 00:26:16,992 --> 00:26:19,160 let's flip it around 548 00:26:19,244 --> 00:26:22,205 because we are here for your dress shopping. 549 00:26:22,289 --> 00:26:26,668 You guys have one week until your wedding days. 550 00:26:26,751 --> 00:26:28,420 -Thank you. -[laughing] 551 00:26:28,503 --> 00:26:31,464 Let me start with you, Taylor. Who did you bring with you today? 552 00:26:31,548 --> 00:26:33,550 -So I brought my mom. -[Vanessa] Hi, Mom. 553 00:26:33,633 --> 00:26:35,885 [laughs] And then I brought my cousin Cheryl. 554 00:26:35,969 --> 00:26:39,931 Hey, Cheryl. Nice to meet you both. What was your first impression of Garrett? 555 00:26:40,015 --> 00:26:41,725 That's not her type. 556 00:26:41,808 --> 00:26:43,685 -Like, how he looks? -[Fong] Correct. 557 00:26:43,768 --> 00:26:47,314 But when he would talk and look at her and say things, 558 00:26:47,397 --> 00:26:49,316 it was like, "Aww, he really loves her." 559 00:26:49,899 --> 00:26:52,402 Would you agree that he's not the type you normally go for? 560 00:26:52,485 --> 00:26:53,778 Yes. [laughs] 561 00:26:53,862 --> 00:26:55,905 Isn't that fascinating? 562 00:26:55,989 --> 00:26:59,075 It is. But that's the whole point of this experiment. 563 00:26:59,159 --> 00:27:01,536 I think he's the hottest guy in the world. 564 00:27:01,620 --> 00:27:04,247 -So you definitely think love is blind? -It is. 565 00:27:04,331 --> 00:27:05,915 [laughing] 566 00:27:05,999 --> 00:27:07,667 Marissa, who did you bring with you today? 567 00:27:07,751 --> 00:27:11,421 I brought my mom and my best friend from high school, Brenda. 568 00:27:11,504 --> 00:27:13,048 Nice to meet you. 569 00:27:13,131 --> 00:27:17,052 She's always, you know, wanted to find love, true love. 570 00:27:17,135 --> 00:27:17,969 [Marissa] Mm-hmm. 571 00:27:18,053 --> 00:27:20,221 [Brenda] Someone with a big heart, as big as hers, 572 00:27:20,305 --> 00:27:24,142 and I feel like, meeting Ramses, he has the biggest heart. 573 00:27:25,477 --> 00:27:28,104 And I am so glad that she found someone completely different. 574 00:27:28,188 --> 00:27:29,648 I feel like that's what she needed. 575 00:27:29,731 --> 00:27:35,362 And I feel like both of them together, um, they will be one and done. 576 00:27:35,445 --> 00:27:37,906 This is the first and only wedding for her. 577 00:27:37,989 --> 00:27:39,741 [laughing] Yes. She makes me cry. 578 00:27:39,824 --> 00:27:41,785 Aww, sweet girl. 579 00:27:41,868 --> 00:27:44,162 And she just deserves this so much. 580 00:27:45,372 --> 00:27:47,749 Hi, Mom. How are you feeling? [laughs] 581 00:27:47,832 --> 00:27:49,292 Yeah, good, I guess. 582 00:27:49,376 --> 00:27:50,794 He's just more 583 00:27:51,836 --> 00:27:52,962 hippie, like… 584 00:27:53,046 --> 00:27:55,632 -[Marissa] More creative. -Yeah, I don't know. 585 00:27:55,715 --> 00:27:58,885 -Not hypermasculine. He's perfect. -No, not at all. 586 00:27:59,469 --> 00:28:01,554 I mean, Marissa's gonna do what she wants to do, so… 587 00:28:01,638 --> 00:28:04,307 I've already made my threats to him, so he's aware. 588 00:28:04,391 --> 00:28:06,559 -She has. -I told him I'd cut his balls off. 589 00:28:06,643 --> 00:28:10,355 [laughing] 590 00:28:11,815 --> 00:28:13,066 If he did what? 591 00:28:13,566 --> 00:28:15,026 If he hurt her. 592 00:28:15,110 --> 00:28:18,321 'Cause she's such a good soul. She's a good person. 593 00:28:18,405 --> 00:28:22,575 But I'm confident that she's made the right decision. 594 00:28:22,659 --> 00:28:25,662 I mean, he seems okay. I don't know. I'm getting hot. 595 00:28:25,745 --> 00:28:27,288 [laughing] 596 00:28:28,289 --> 00:28:30,959 All right, Ashley. Who'd you bring today? 597 00:28:31,042 --> 00:28:34,170 -My mom and my godsister Brittany. -[Vanessa] Nice to meet you. 598 00:28:34,254 --> 00:28:37,632 I actually feel like I've known Tyler for a very long time. 599 00:28:39,426 --> 00:28:40,468 What a great guy. 600 00:28:40,552 --> 00:28:42,345 -I love that. -[Carla] I'm so happy. 601 00:28:42,429 --> 00:28:44,139 I'm very happy for her. 602 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,894 I'm excited for you. And to have your moms here with you is so special. 603 00:28:55,859 --> 00:28:59,112 Here we are at your tux fitting, your suit fitting. 604 00:28:59,195 --> 00:29:02,699 I mean, it's a suit, right? But it's more than just a suit. 605 00:29:02,782 --> 00:29:07,412 It's also a reflection of who you are, your personality, your style. 606 00:29:07,495 --> 00:29:11,499 It's a reflection of the love and commitment you have for your fiancée. 607 00:29:11,583 --> 00:29:14,002 So this is a big, big day, fellas. 608 00:29:14,085 --> 00:29:16,379 I want you to appreciate that, but have fun with it. 609 00:29:16,463 --> 00:29:20,216 I wanna take a minute just to kind of get to know who you guys have with you. 610 00:29:20,300 --> 00:29:21,843 Tyler, let's start with you. 611 00:29:21,926 --> 00:29:23,928 -I got my buddy Jake right here. -[laughing] 612 00:29:24,012 --> 00:29:26,681 [Tyler] That's my friend Tevon. He's been in my life since 17. 613 00:29:26,765 --> 00:29:27,599 [Tevon] High school. 614 00:29:27,682 --> 00:29:30,643 So I had my doubts. I know Tyler pretty well, 615 00:29:30,727 --> 00:29:34,773 but whatever went into those pods clearly worked. 616 00:29:34,856 --> 00:29:36,399 He was talking about Ashley. 617 00:29:36,483 --> 00:29:38,610 He goes, "She's the greatest girl in the whole world." 618 00:29:38,693 --> 00:29:42,530 I said, "What? What did you just say?" He goes, "Oh! I don't know." 619 00:29:42,614 --> 00:29:44,574 "They must be putting something in my food." 620 00:29:44,657 --> 00:29:45,784 [laughing] 621 00:29:45,867 --> 00:29:48,745 [Jake] "I don't know what's going on, man, but I'm in love." 622 00:29:48,828 --> 00:29:51,372 Once he said that, I was like, "Oh, wow. This is for real." 623 00:29:51,456 --> 00:29:53,374 -[Nick] Yeah. -You know, I'm excited for you. 624 00:29:53,458 --> 00:29:54,375 I'm excited for you. 625 00:29:55,001 --> 00:29:57,420 -Garrett, how you feeling, bud? -I'm good, man. 626 00:29:57,504 --> 00:29:59,547 -Who you got with you? -Got Trevor and Brandon. 627 00:29:59,631 --> 00:30:01,591 Two of my best friends from high school. 628 00:30:01,674 --> 00:30:04,427 Any thoughts? Have you had a chance to meet Taylor? 629 00:30:04,511 --> 00:30:05,845 -Yeah, I did. She's great. -Yeah. 630 00:30:06,471 --> 00:30:10,350 She seems like somebody that's gonna be able to keep up with this maniac. 631 00:30:10,934 --> 00:30:14,938 Garrett's a very efficient and targeted and focused person. 632 00:30:15,021 --> 00:30:18,858 If he's willing to, you know, open up his life to someone else, 633 00:30:18,942 --> 00:30:20,485 then that's it. That's the decision. 634 00:30:20,568 --> 00:30:23,488 -It sounds like you trust his instincts. -Yeah, 100%. 635 00:30:23,571 --> 00:30:26,157 -Ramses, who you got with you? -Got my friend David. 636 00:30:26,241 --> 00:30:29,452 He's like a brother to me. Known him for over ten years. 637 00:30:29,536 --> 00:30:31,621 -Okay. -[Ramses] We've been through a lot. 638 00:30:31,704 --> 00:30:33,498 Really similar journeys. 639 00:30:33,581 --> 00:30:36,584 He's someone who I feel just really understands me. 640 00:30:36,668 --> 00:30:39,379 One of the things that stuck with me about our initial meeting, 641 00:30:39,462 --> 00:30:42,298 was you saying you were perceived a certain way in the dating world. 642 00:30:42,382 --> 00:30:45,969 Do you feel like because of the uniqueness of this experience 643 00:30:46,052 --> 00:30:48,805 that you were finally able to be seen for who you truly are? 644 00:30:48,888 --> 00:30:51,516 Yeah, with Marissa, every time I see her, like, 645 00:30:51,599 --> 00:30:55,436 any doubts or any concerns I may have, everything just melts away. 646 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,815 And every day, I'm learning and growing with her. 647 00:30:58,898 --> 00:31:00,358 Literally this morning, I told her, 648 00:31:00,441 --> 00:31:02,694 "I feel like every day I'm falling more in love with you 649 00:31:02,777 --> 00:31:05,864 because I'm discovering just little details here and there." 650 00:31:05,947 --> 00:31:10,118 I'm just excited to be on the altar and see her walking down the aisle. 651 00:31:10,201 --> 00:31:14,539 [Nick] To look into the three of your eyes today and see the joy, the passion, 652 00:31:14,622 --> 00:31:18,334 the love that, you know, you clearly all feel, um, it's very cool for me. 653 00:31:19,168 --> 00:31:21,129 -I wanna say congrats to you… -[Ramses] Thank you. 654 00:31:21,212 --> 00:31:23,131 …on being here, and, uh… 655 00:31:23,214 --> 00:31:25,216 [gasps] …like I said earlier, 656 00:31:25,300 --> 00:31:28,428 pretty soon you're gonna be standing there at that altar, 657 00:31:28,511 --> 00:31:31,014 looking into the eyes of your beautiful bride. 658 00:31:31,514 --> 00:31:34,767 And in that moment, you'll have to make the most important decision of your life. 659 00:31:36,019 --> 00:31:40,189 Do you say "I do" to the person you fell in love with sight unseen, 660 00:31:40,273 --> 00:31:42,108 or will you walk away from him forever? 661 00:31:44,611 --> 00:31:47,196 Is love truly blind? 662 00:31:48,364 --> 00:31:49,616 We hope it is. 663 00:31:50,742 --> 00:31:54,120 Cheers to you all finding the dress that you will get married in 664 00:31:54,203 --> 00:31:57,165 and start the journey for the rest of your life. 665 00:31:57,248 --> 00:31:59,709 I'm so happy for you. Yay! 666 00:31:59,792 --> 00:32:01,336 ♪ It's here, it's here… ♪ 667 00:32:01,419 --> 00:32:02,337 Thank you. 668 00:32:02,420 --> 00:32:03,296 ♪ It's now… ♪ 669 00:32:03,379 --> 00:32:06,215 [Tyler] Hell yeah, boys. Appreciate y'all boys coming. 670 00:32:06,299 --> 00:32:08,259 ♪ Right here, right now ♪ 671 00:32:09,177 --> 00:32:13,264 I feel like I can say anything to Ashley. She knows insecurities, vulnerabilities. 672 00:32:13,348 --> 00:32:15,892 I've cried. She's taken me, like, as I am. 673 00:32:15,975 --> 00:32:18,394 I don't have to put on this tough face all the time. 674 00:32:18,478 --> 00:32:21,147 -I can show emotions. -I'm excited for you. 675 00:32:21,230 --> 00:32:22,941 [mutters] 676 00:32:23,024 --> 00:32:26,402 [laughing] Look. He's getting emotional. Look. 677 00:32:26,486 --> 00:32:27,612 You better not. 678 00:32:27,695 --> 00:32:29,155 He had to take a walk. 679 00:32:29,238 --> 00:32:32,325 -[Tevon] It's been a long time coming. -[Jake] Come on, man. You're good. 680 00:32:32,408 --> 00:32:34,202 [Tevon] It's been a long time coming. Come on. 681 00:32:34,285 --> 00:32:35,286 [Jake] Relax. 682 00:32:35,370 --> 00:32:38,498 -You grew up in a different scene. -This is crazy. 683 00:32:38,998 --> 00:32:42,335 We never get to see Tyler like this. [laughs] 684 00:32:43,044 --> 00:32:46,756 You'll be all right, man. If she got you like this, then oh my God. 685 00:32:47,590 --> 00:32:48,967 -[Jake] You good, bro? -I'm good. 686 00:32:49,050 --> 00:32:52,011 This is like… It's not a sad cry. It's a happy cry. 687 00:32:52,095 --> 00:32:54,472 -["Twist of Fate" playing] -♪ I'll be yours ♪ 688 00:32:56,766 --> 00:33:00,103 ♪ Till the end of time ♪ 689 00:33:02,105 --> 00:33:03,773 [woman] Aww. 690 00:33:04,357 --> 00:33:06,484 Oh, Ashley! 691 00:33:06,567 --> 00:33:08,778 ♪ I'll be yours ♪ 692 00:33:08,861 --> 00:33:11,280 ♪ I'll be yours ♪ 693 00:33:12,156 --> 00:33:14,242 Princess Ashley! 694 00:33:14,325 --> 00:33:16,661 -[Marissa] How do you feel in it? -[Ashley A] I like it. 695 00:33:16,744 --> 00:33:19,455 I'm just wondering if it's, like, too much. 696 00:33:19,539 --> 00:33:21,332 You can never do too much on your wedding day. 697 00:33:21,416 --> 00:33:22,834 [Ashley A] That's a fact. 698 00:33:23,876 --> 00:33:24,794 That's good. 699 00:33:24,877 --> 00:33:27,797 I love how the veil really adds. 700 00:33:29,007 --> 00:33:30,216 -[woman 2] Aww. -[woman 3] Yeah. 701 00:33:30,299 --> 00:33:32,010 -[woman 4] Oh, shit! -[laughing] 702 00:33:32,093 --> 00:33:33,219 Ah, the veil! 703 00:33:38,266 --> 00:33:41,019 [sighing] I just feel like, I knew you'd get here, girl. 704 00:33:41,102 --> 00:33:44,939 -[laughing] -At some point! At some point. [laughing] 705 00:33:46,399 --> 00:33:48,568 There was a time where I didn't feel that way. 706 00:33:48,651 --> 00:33:49,485 [Carla] Yeah. 707 00:33:49,569 --> 00:33:51,237 I knew you would get there. 708 00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:54,198 I wanna try on the other one to see if I'm sold on this dress. 709 00:33:54,282 --> 00:33:55,950 I have a good feeling about this one. 710 00:33:56,034 --> 00:33:58,119 -Uh-oh! -[laughing] 711 00:33:58,202 --> 00:34:00,246 [gasps] 712 00:34:02,623 --> 00:34:04,083 [Carla] You good going up? 713 00:34:05,460 --> 00:34:06,627 [Ashley A] Oh. 714 00:34:06,711 --> 00:34:08,004 [Marissa] I like the way it fits. 715 00:34:09,005 --> 00:34:11,883 -Oh! -[laughing] 716 00:34:11,966 --> 00:34:14,010 I feel like this is how it's supposed to feel. 717 00:34:14,093 --> 00:34:16,554 I really like the other one, but, like… 718 00:34:16,637 --> 00:34:18,681 -Trust your gut. -This is like… yeah. 719 00:34:21,017 --> 00:34:22,935 -Oh, yeah. -[woman 5 laughs] It is beautiful. 720 00:34:23,519 --> 00:34:26,689 -[Brenda] It is. -[Vanessa 2] She's such a beautiful girl. 721 00:34:26,773 --> 00:34:28,357 [Marissa] She's Barbie! 722 00:34:28,441 --> 00:34:31,694 -You think that? -Holy shit, yeah. [laughs] 723 00:34:32,403 --> 00:34:35,239 -Aww, you look beautiful, princess. -[Ashley A] Thank you. 724 00:34:35,740 --> 00:34:39,118 Just like you always imagined. You look amazing. 725 00:34:39,202 --> 00:34:40,369 Tyler's so lucky. 726 00:34:40,453 --> 00:34:42,580 [laughing] 727 00:34:42,663 --> 00:34:45,333 You look like a bride. He certainly is lucky. 728 00:34:45,416 --> 00:34:47,919 Can you imagine Tyler standing beside you now? 729 00:34:48,419 --> 00:34:49,253 Yeah. 730 00:34:51,047 --> 00:34:51,881 I can. 731 00:34:57,553 --> 00:34:58,679 [Taylor] You're glowing. 732 00:34:58,763 --> 00:35:00,973 You look like you're about to go down the aisle right now. 733 00:35:01,057 --> 00:35:02,725 -[laughing] -[Marissa] You look perfect. 734 00:35:02,809 --> 00:35:03,643 [Ashley A] Thank you. 735 00:35:03,726 --> 00:35:07,355 -You're supposed to not be crying. -I'm starting to be more emotional. 736 00:35:07,438 --> 00:35:08,648 [laughing] 737 00:35:09,565 --> 00:35:10,983 [Ashley A] It was really dark days, 738 00:35:11,067 --> 00:35:17,323 um, in past situations where you start to feel undeserving. 739 00:35:18,074 --> 00:35:21,577 So to be here now and to know that someone chose me without 740 00:35:22,787 --> 00:35:25,623 anything else is just a very overwhelming feeling. 741 00:35:25,706 --> 00:35:27,416 Um… [sniffles] 742 00:35:27,959 --> 00:35:31,045 But I'm, like, really, really happy, so I love that for me. 743 00:35:31,129 --> 00:35:32,547 [laughing] 744 00:35:33,339 --> 00:35:34,799 -[sniffles] -[sighs] 745 00:35:34,882 --> 00:35:36,384 -Let me get my hug. -Yeah. 746 00:35:36,467 --> 00:35:38,302 -I love you so much. -I love you too. 747 00:35:39,804 --> 00:35:42,223 You're gonna be a beautiful bride and a beautiful wife. 748 00:35:43,850 --> 00:35:46,060 [laughing] 749 00:35:47,103 --> 00:35:49,647 -You ready to get fitted for a tuxedo? -Yes, sir. 750 00:35:49,730 --> 00:35:53,109 -When's the last time you wore a tuxedo? -I was actually married once before. 751 00:35:53,192 --> 00:35:57,155 But I feel like maybe I filled in a little bit, a tiny bit, since then. 752 00:35:57,238 --> 00:36:00,032 -Let me take a couple measurements. -Go for it. 753 00:36:00,616 --> 00:36:01,617 [tailor] All righty. 754 00:36:02,118 --> 00:36:03,828 [Ramses laughs] Got some long arms too. 755 00:36:03,911 --> 00:36:05,997 [tailor] Where do you wear your pants? Right here? 756 00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:07,623 -[Ramses] Perfect. -[tailor] Listen. 757 00:36:07,707 --> 00:36:10,543 -You like your sock to show? -A little bit, yeah. 758 00:36:10,626 --> 00:36:13,588 You know, there's a term for that. It's called "ankle cleavage." 759 00:36:13,671 --> 00:36:15,131 -Ankle cleavage. -Ankle cleavage. 760 00:36:15,214 --> 00:36:18,301 -We wanna show a little ankle cleavage. -[tailor] Okay, so I'm gonna-- 761 00:36:18,384 --> 00:36:20,970 -I support ankle cleavage. -I support some ankle cleavage. [laughs] 762 00:36:21,053 --> 00:36:22,805 -Okay. -Second time around. 763 00:36:22,889 --> 00:36:24,182 Second time around, yeah. 764 00:36:24,265 --> 00:36:26,267 I've learned from all the ways 765 00:36:26,350 --> 00:36:28,769 maybe I wasn't the best husband in my first marriage. 766 00:36:28,853 --> 00:36:30,771 -Right. -I just feel so confident in Marissa. 767 00:36:30,855 --> 00:36:33,649 It's just like, "We got this." 768 00:36:33,733 --> 00:36:35,109 Yeah, you do. 769 00:36:35,193 --> 00:36:40,072 We really do have such a great connection and such a great just bond. 770 00:36:40,156 --> 00:36:43,451 Um, I really do feel like we can overcome anything, so… 771 00:36:43,534 --> 00:36:46,495 -Okay, you doing it! I'm very excited. -[laughing] 772 00:36:46,579 --> 00:36:48,873 -Yeah, yeah. -This is beautiful. This is beautiful. 773 00:36:48,956 --> 00:36:50,333 It's amazing. 774 00:36:55,213 --> 00:36:58,341 -[woman] Oh! -[Brenda] Oh, my God, a little princess. 775 00:36:59,050 --> 00:37:02,345 It is very princess-y. I don't even know how to feel about it. 776 00:37:03,012 --> 00:37:05,181 It's definitely very beautiful. 777 00:37:05,264 --> 00:37:10,895 I feel like it looks too girly, 778 00:37:11,646 --> 00:37:12,480 if that makes sense. 779 00:37:12,563 --> 00:37:13,564 -Yeah, it does. -Yeah. 780 00:37:13,648 --> 00:37:15,024 [Marissa] Like, too little girl-y. 781 00:37:15,107 --> 00:37:17,318 -[Ashley A] Yeah. -[Brenda] It's not sophisticated. 782 00:37:17,401 --> 00:37:18,611 [Marissa] Yeah. 783 00:37:19,111 --> 00:37:21,697 So I actually think it's so pretty. 784 00:37:22,615 --> 00:37:27,119 This is Marissa as a little girl with her tutus and her little clog shoes 785 00:37:27,703 --> 00:37:30,081 parading around with her little clickety-clackety 786 00:37:30,164 --> 00:37:32,583 because she wanted to be the princess. 787 00:37:32,667 --> 00:37:36,504 I know y'all see her one way, but this is the Marissa I see 788 00:37:36,587 --> 00:37:38,172 in her fairy-tale dress, 789 00:37:38,256 --> 00:37:42,551 and her little girly girl wearing that little tutu dress, it is. 790 00:37:42,635 --> 00:37:46,472 That's probably why it's not the dress, 'cause she's not the little girl anymore. 791 00:37:46,555 --> 00:37:48,933 -She's a woman. -[Vanessa 2] I see why she picked it. 792 00:37:49,016 --> 00:37:51,644 -[Ashley A] Yeah. -It's obvious that you don't love it. 793 00:37:51,727 --> 00:37:52,979 I don't. 794 00:37:53,062 --> 00:37:53,980 Next. 795 00:37:54,063 --> 00:37:55,064 [softly] All right. 796 00:37:56,232 --> 00:37:57,400 [Brenda] How are you feeling? 797 00:37:57,483 --> 00:38:01,153 How are you feeling that your high school friend is getting married? 798 00:38:01,237 --> 00:38:02,571 [Brenda] I'm excited for her. 799 00:38:02,655 --> 00:38:05,408 You know, all the guys that she's ever dated are… [blows raspberry] 800 00:38:05,491 --> 00:38:07,702 So it's nice that she's finally… 801 00:38:07,785 --> 00:38:10,288 He does. She called him today for something, 802 00:38:10,371 --> 00:38:13,040 and he, like, got it to tailor really quick. 803 00:38:13,124 --> 00:38:16,877 He hurried up, went and did it. She says, "If you can't, you can't." 804 00:38:16,961 --> 00:38:19,297 And he just dropped everything and did it for her. 805 00:38:19,380 --> 00:38:22,508 And you know, it was just-- He seems really genuine. 806 00:38:22,591 --> 00:38:25,386 -[Marissa] All right, I'm coming out. -Okay. 807 00:38:28,139 --> 00:38:29,807 -[gasps] -[Ashley A] Oh, wow. 808 00:38:29,890 --> 00:38:31,017 -[Brenda] Yes. -Wow. 809 00:38:31,892 --> 00:38:33,477 I'm already crying. [gasps] 810 00:38:34,270 --> 00:38:36,439 -I love it, Mama! -[Ashley A] Oh, wow! 811 00:38:38,316 --> 00:38:39,859 Your booty looks poppin'! 812 00:38:40,651 --> 00:38:42,945 -It fits so good. -[Ashley A] It does. 813 00:38:43,029 --> 00:38:46,032 [Vanessa 2] I love it. It does fit beautifully, Mama. 814 00:38:47,033 --> 00:38:49,577 -You actually like it? -I love it. 815 00:38:53,539 --> 00:38:54,582 [sighs] 816 00:38:55,333 --> 00:38:56,625 [sniffles, sobs] 817 00:38:56,709 --> 00:39:00,087 -I'm such a crybaby. [laughs] -[women laughing] 818 00:39:02,256 --> 00:39:03,257 [Marissa sniffles] 819 00:39:05,301 --> 00:39:06,427 [Brenda] Aww. 820 00:39:06,510 --> 00:39:07,887 It's okay, Mama. 821 00:39:11,599 --> 00:39:14,143 I think I would like some up-do fashion. 822 00:39:14,226 --> 00:39:16,729 It looks beautiful up, and it shows your face. 823 00:39:16,812 --> 00:39:17,772 Yeah. 824 00:39:17,855 --> 00:39:18,856 Yeah. 825 00:39:19,690 --> 00:39:21,609 -Yeah. -[Ashley A] Oh, wow, Marissa. 826 00:39:21,692 --> 00:39:22,818 [Vanessa 2] There you go. 827 00:39:23,736 --> 00:39:24,862 Beautiful. 828 00:39:25,946 --> 00:39:27,740 [Ashley A] You look absolutely stunning. 829 00:39:27,823 --> 00:39:29,075 Okay, no, this is… 830 00:39:29,158 --> 00:39:31,118 -This is perfect. -[Ashley A] Wow. 831 00:39:34,246 --> 00:39:37,291 -It's the one. Yeah, I… -[Ashley A] Yeah, it's the one. 832 00:39:37,375 --> 00:39:39,377 -Look at her. -You're glowing. 833 00:39:39,460 --> 00:39:41,629 -Yeah? -[Taylor] More than normal. 834 00:39:41,712 --> 00:39:43,297 [laughing] 835 00:39:43,381 --> 00:39:45,883 -I'm bright as hell right now. -[laughing] 836 00:39:48,219 --> 00:39:51,680 -It sounds weird. I feel like an adult. -Yeah. 837 00:39:51,764 --> 00:39:53,099 I think I'm so playful 838 00:39:53,182 --> 00:39:57,144 and so young at heart at times that I forget that I'm 31. 839 00:39:57,228 --> 00:40:00,648 And looking at this, I'm like, "I look like a grown woman…" 840 00:40:00,731 --> 00:40:02,942 -[Ashley A] Yeah. -"…who's about to get married." 841 00:40:04,693 --> 00:40:06,862 Well, you could always cry on Mommy's shoulder. 842 00:40:07,530 --> 00:40:10,282 Yes, Mom. Remember when I was a little kid, you said, 843 00:40:10,366 --> 00:40:12,660 "What do you wanna be when you grow up?" I said, "A wife"? 844 00:40:12,743 --> 00:40:14,745 -And she actually said, "No." -[laughing] 845 00:40:14,829 --> 00:40:18,124 "You will be a lawyer. You'll be a doctor. You will not be a wife!" 846 00:40:18,207 --> 00:40:20,000 So that's what I grew up with. 847 00:40:20,084 --> 00:40:23,462 Not that I was against it. I just wanted her to also have her own. 848 00:40:23,546 --> 00:40:25,965 Yeah, I did. I'm a lawyer. 849 00:40:26,048 --> 00:40:27,216 -Yeah. -[laughing] 850 00:40:27,299 --> 00:40:31,053 I knew I wanted to get married 'cause I'm a big romantic, as you guys know. 851 00:40:31,137 --> 00:40:32,054 Yeah. 852 00:40:32,138 --> 00:40:34,765 I love love. And Ramses loves love, 853 00:40:34,849 --> 00:40:36,434 so I found my perfect match. 854 00:40:36,517 --> 00:40:40,312 She did. She's beautiful, and I'm happy that she's happy. 855 00:40:40,396 --> 00:40:41,313 [Marissa] Yes. 856 00:40:41,897 --> 00:40:43,691 -I'm excited to get married. -Yeah. 857 00:40:43,774 --> 00:40:45,317 -She is excited. -[Marissa laughs] Yeah. 858 00:40:45,401 --> 00:40:48,320 I'm gonna wear this all night. I'm not changing into anything else. 859 00:40:48,404 --> 00:40:50,906 [cheering] 860 00:40:58,080 --> 00:41:01,375 Is there any trepidation of, like, you just met this person, like, 861 00:41:01,917 --> 00:41:03,127 what, a month ago? 862 00:41:03,210 --> 00:41:05,963 -Yeah. You have no idea. -[Trevor] You're working through a lot. 863 00:41:06,046 --> 00:41:09,383 I'm sure you're having deep conversations about, like, how to handle your finances 864 00:41:09,467 --> 00:41:11,385 and other, like, real-life things, 865 00:41:11,469 --> 00:41:16,140 but, like, is there still, like, you know, a lot of unknown… 866 00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:19,602 Yeah, we're having conversations every day. 867 00:41:20,519 --> 00:41:23,606 This has been a month. So you're just going off a feeling. 868 00:41:23,689 --> 00:41:27,401 How do I feel when I get up there? How do I feel today? 869 00:41:27,485 --> 00:41:30,404 Everything about me says, like, I'd be a total idiot to say no. 870 00:41:30,488 --> 00:41:32,156 This is the right person for me. 871 00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:34,408 Like, as long as you're feeling that way every day… 872 00:41:34,492 --> 00:41:37,578 Yeah, you can realize that this is early. Maybe it's premature. 873 00:41:37,661 --> 00:41:39,413 -But I don't wanna lose her. -[both] Yeah. 874 00:41:40,247 --> 00:41:42,583 Is there anything on her end that she would say no to? 875 00:41:43,626 --> 00:41:46,670 [exhales] You never know. Something could happen. I could do something stupid. 876 00:41:46,754 --> 00:41:48,464 Something else could pop in her head. 877 00:41:48,547 --> 00:41:51,175 Her mom could say something that makes her second guess it, you know. 878 00:41:51,258 --> 00:41:52,885 [Trevor] Has that been a big influence? 879 00:41:52,968 --> 00:41:56,305 -[Garrett] Parents are a big influence. -I would imagine both of you guys, yeah. 880 00:41:56,388 --> 00:41:59,016 My parents are upset, but they're still supportive. 881 00:41:59,099 --> 00:42:02,603 They're just upset about the idea of me moving to San Diego and stuff. 882 00:42:02,686 --> 00:42:05,231 I've never been in a situation where I've not had all the power 883 00:42:05,314 --> 00:42:07,274 in a relationship, so it's weird, you know. 884 00:42:08,442 --> 00:42:09,818 I wanna be with this girl. 885 00:42:09,902 --> 00:42:11,779 ♪ So tell me, babe ♪ 886 00:42:12,780 --> 00:42:16,450 ♪ When can we dive in… ♪ 887 00:42:23,791 --> 00:42:26,669 -[Ashley A] Oh, wow! -[Marissa gasps] 888 00:42:26,752 --> 00:42:27,753 [Ashley A] So pretty. 889 00:42:27,836 --> 00:42:29,380 [Marissa] Wow. 890 00:42:31,715 --> 00:42:34,176 ♪ When can we dive… ♪ 891 00:42:34,260 --> 00:42:36,720 [Taylor] I love it. I think it's very flattering. 892 00:42:36,804 --> 00:42:39,056 I like that it's simple, but it has more detail. 893 00:42:39,139 --> 00:42:40,808 -[Ashley A] So pretty. -Yeah. 894 00:42:40,891 --> 00:42:42,142 [Taylor] It also has pockets. 895 00:42:42,643 --> 00:42:44,728 [laughing] 896 00:42:44,812 --> 00:42:46,689 I know you guys were really worried. 897 00:42:46,772 --> 00:42:49,942 [laughing] 898 00:42:50,859 --> 00:42:51,735 [woman] Oh! 899 00:42:51,819 --> 00:42:56,865 ♪ And I feel like I've known you Forever and ever ♪ 900 00:42:56,949 --> 00:43:00,494 ♪ As long as the sea held the tide ♪ 901 00:43:02,788 --> 00:43:03,872 It's gorgeous. 902 00:43:03,956 --> 00:43:04,957 It's gorgeous. 903 00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:09,378 I'm excited to just, like, think about how Garrett's gonna see me in this. 904 00:43:09,461 --> 00:43:10,546 -Yes. -Yeah. 905 00:43:10,629 --> 00:43:14,133 Envisioning him, like, at the end and, like, what his reaction's gonna be. 906 00:43:14,717 --> 00:43:15,718 Mom, what do you think? 907 00:43:18,012 --> 00:43:18,887 It's pretty. 908 00:43:19,388 --> 00:43:21,640 Okay, well… [laughs] 909 00:43:21,724 --> 00:43:23,225 It's pretty. I didn't finish. 910 00:43:23,309 --> 00:43:24,268 Um… 911 00:43:25,811 --> 00:43:27,479 It's a beautiful dress. 912 00:43:28,188 --> 00:43:29,857 I love the color. 913 00:43:29,940 --> 00:43:32,818 But I'm not 100% sold on it. 914 00:43:34,403 --> 00:43:36,322 -Honest feedback. We love it. -[Vanessa 2] Yeah. 915 00:43:36,405 --> 00:43:38,532 -You know when you know. -[Taylor] It's true. 916 00:43:38,616 --> 00:43:42,036 When you know, you know. I don't know about this dress. 917 00:43:42,995 --> 00:43:45,122 So, next one? 918 00:43:47,416 --> 00:43:50,919 Today's a really big day for my mom, because she's also been 919 00:43:51,003 --> 00:43:53,297 the mom that's made every Halloween costume for me, 920 00:43:53,380 --> 00:43:55,633 the mom who helped tailor outfits. 921 00:43:55,716 --> 00:43:59,803 And so to see me in my wedding dress is just a really special moment. 922 00:43:59,887 --> 00:44:02,556 -Okey dokey, ladies. -All right! 923 00:44:03,599 --> 00:44:07,519 -Oh, yes! -[Ashley A] Love that. 924 00:44:07,603 --> 00:44:09,730 Taylor, I love that on you. 925 00:44:09,813 --> 00:44:12,399 [Taylor] Is this the one, ladies? I haven't even seen it. 926 00:44:12,483 --> 00:44:14,860 [Marissa] Look at yourself! Look at yourself. 927 00:44:15,444 --> 00:44:16,862 Oh, wow. 928 00:44:16,945 --> 00:44:20,074 -["One Kiss" playing] -♪ I'm not ever gonna let you go… ♪ 929 00:44:20,157 --> 00:44:21,200 It's beautiful. 930 00:44:21,950 --> 00:44:24,662 -The color, the style… -[Fong] The color's beautiful. 931 00:44:25,162 --> 00:44:27,206 ♪ And it started with the one kiss… ♪ 932 00:44:27,289 --> 00:44:30,834 ♪ These two hands are made For holding you… ♪ 933 00:44:30,918 --> 00:44:33,379 [Marissa] I love that one. I wanna wear it now. 934 00:44:35,464 --> 00:44:38,050 -This is 100%. This is the one. -[Taylor] I agree. 935 00:44:38,884 --> 00:44:40,135 [Ashley A] Stunning, Taylor. 936 00:44:41,220 --> 00:44:42,388 [Taylor] Oh, my God. 937 00:44:42,471 --> 00:44:44,765 [Ashley A] I love everything about this dress. 938 00:44:44,848 --> 00:44:46,141 You look gorgeous, Taylor. 939 00:44:46,225 --> 00:44:47,893 -[Ashley A] Taylor. -[woman] Yeah. 940 00:44:47,976 --> 00:44:49,687 [Marissa laughs] You look like a bride. 941 00:44:49,770 --> 00:44:51,605 Taylor, you're getting married. 942 00:44:53,816 --> 00:44:57,903 It's so her, as far as, um, "understated." 943 00:44:57,986 --> 00:45:00,531 And it has pops of uniqueness to it. 944 00:45:00,614 --> 00:45:02,866 It's beautiful. And the buttons and all in the back. 945 00:45:03,450 --> 00:45:06,245 -It's all in the details. [clicks tongue] -Very pretty. 946 00:45:06,328 --> 00:45:07,663 Thank you, Mama. 947 00:45:08,706 --> 00:45:09,873 [sighs] 948 00:45:15,003 --> 00:45:17,798 You always think about, "Oh, my little girl, she's gonna get married." 949 00:45:17,881 --> 00:45:19,758 And here we are. 950 00:45:21,301 --> 00:45:22,636 It's really happening. 951 00:45:26,598 --> 00:45:28,058 You look beautiful. 952 00:45:28,142 --> 00:45:31,729 Thank you, Mom. I know it's not the way that we thought, but… 953 00:45:34,231 --> 00:45:36,650 that's kind of me. [laughing] 954 00:45:37,234 --> 00:45:39,528 It's never the way we thought. 955 00:45:42,114 --> 00:45:43,991 Like, the dress is beautiful, 956 00:45:44,074 --> 00:45:49,288 but having you here and doing this is all that I care about. 957 00:45:55,252 --> 00:45:57,296 -This is it. -[Taylor] Yep. 958 00:45:58,213 --> 00:46:00,799 [Fong] I just feel very special that I'm able to 959 00:46:01,550 --> 00:46:07,097 actually be able to participate in these little moments of your life 960 00:46:07,181 --> 00:46:09,183 that you get to treasure forever. 961 00:46:10,267 --> 00:46:12,227 I wouldn't want it any other way. 962 00:46:16,774 --> 00:46:17,691 Love you. 963 00:46:19,026 --> 00:46:21,236 -Think Garrett's gonna be blown away. -[Marissa] Yeah! 964 00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:23,655 ["Until You" by Leucadia playing] 965 00:46:24,698 --> 00:46:27,201 -[laughing] -[Ashley A] You look amazing. 966 00:46:30,078 --> 00:46:33,957 ♪ With you ♪ 967 00:46:34,041 --> 00:46:37,252 ♪ I know I am home ♪ 968 00:46:37,878 --> 00:46:39,630 [vocalizing] 969 00:46:40,255 --> 00:46:41,131 [door opens] 970 00:46:41,215 --> 00:46:42,549 -[Nick D] Hey. -Hey. 971 00:46:43,675 --> 00:46:46,303 -Let me put this down real quick. -[sighs] Okay. 972 00:46:52,976 --> 00:46:54,061 [grunts] 973 00:46:59,858 --> 00:47:03,278 In the pods, you said you wanted someone that could push you. 974 00:47:03,362 --> 00:47:04,863 -Yeah. -[Hannah] And help you grow. 975 00:47:04,947 --> 00:47:05,864 Yeah. 976 00:47:05,948 --> 00:47:08,575 -Do you think I've done that at all? -Yeah. 977 00:47:08,659 --> 00:47:10,160 Is it too much though? 978 00:47:10,661 --> 00:47:12,204 [Nick D] At times, maybe. 979 00:47:17,835 --> 00:47:21,088 When I think back of, like, the very first, like, little incident we had 980 00:47:21,171 --> 00:47:23,841 with that woman and thing, and like, I wrote notes. 981 00:47:23,924 --> 00:47:25,717 This was my list. It was, 982 00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:31,139 "Respect, delusional, social awareness…" 983 00:47:31,223 --> 00:47:33,517 "Maturity, confidence versus something." 984 00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:35,936 "Maturity and confidence versus ego." 985 00:47:36,019 --> 00:47:39,398 Those five concerns that I have are still there. They never went away. 986 00:47:39,481 --> 00:47:42,943 -Yeah. -You kept repeating the same actions. 987 00:47:43,026 --> 00:47:46,738 Social awareness, I do not see. Respect, you have none. 988 00:47:46,822 --> 00:47:47,948 Ego versus confidence. 989 00:47:48,031 --> 00:47:50,617 I feel like I need to stroke your ego for you to be happy. 990 00:47:50,701 --> 00:47:52,828 I feel like you extremely say you're a confident person, 991 00:47:52,911 --> 00:47:55,330 and I make you unconfident when I think it's just ego. 992 00:47:55,414 --> 00:47:59,710 And it's delusion. It's like you just can't see how I feel. 993 00:48:02,421 --> 00:48:04,089 I'm sorry you feel that way. 994 00:48:08,093 --> 00:48:09,177 [inhales] 995 00:48:09,261 --> 00:48:10,846 I don't understand you. 996 00:48:10,929 --> 00:48:12,890 I don't, like… I don't get it. 997 00:48:12,973 --> 00:48:15,017 For instance, like, the Katie situation, for example. 998 00:48:15,100 --> 00:48:17,436 I use specific examples. I don't know if you can, but I can. 999 00:48:18,103 --> 00:48:20,272 'Cause I remember things. I know you don't-- 1000 00:48:20,355 --> 00:48:23,108 You're just throwing shade for no reason. 1001 00:48:23,191 --> 00:48:25,110 -It's just the truth. -It's not the truth. 1002 00:48:25,193 --> 00:48:26,570 It's my truth. 1003 00:48:26,653 --> 00:48:29,781 You see how you're always demeaning? You're always talking down on me. 1004 00:48:29,865 --> 00:48:30,866 We're not equals here. 1005 00:48:30,949 --> 00:48:32,451 -It doesn't feel that way at all. -Yeah. 1006 00:48:32,534 --> 00:48:35,662 You think I can't take care of myself for some reason. 1007 00:48:35,746 --> 00:48:39,499 You think I can't take care of you. I can't take care of anything. 1008 00:48:39,583 --> 00:48:41,835 What are your responsibilities in life? 1009 00:48:42,419 --> 00:48:44,755 -Payments, myself-- -[Hannah] What are your payments? 1010 00:48:45,255 --> 00:48:47,799 -We talked about it. -[Hannah] What are they? 1011 00:48:47,883 --> 00:48:50,761 My car, my gas, my insurance. 1012 00:48:50,844 --> 00:48:53,597 -That's pretty much it right now. -Okay. 1013 00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,308 So I live at home, all right? So I don't have to pay rent. 1014 00:48:56,391 --> 00:48:59,686 My responsibilities are, you know, taking care of myself. 1015 00:48:59,770 --> 00:49:01,271 -Taking care of work, -Mm-hmm. 1016 00:49:01,355 --> 00:49:04,691 You know, making sure that the people around me are secure. 1017 00:49:04,775 --> 00:49:05,901 You know, I have a cat. 1018 00:49:05,984 --> 00:49:08,487 -It's nothing like taking care of a dog-- -Who feeds it? 1019 00:49:08,570 --> 00:49:11,865 My dad gets up at 6:30 a.m. and feeds the cat. 1020 00:49:11,949 --> 00:49:13,825 -[Hannah] Is that cat your responsibility? -Yeah. 1021 00:49:13,909 --> 00:49:16,745 It's my responsibility to clean out the litter. 1022 00:49:16,828 --> 00:49:21,208 You know, fill up her water and her food. Cats are pretty easy, right? 1023 00:49:21,291 --> 00:49:23,669 You've gotta put out food throughout the day periodically. 1024 00:49:23,752 --> 00:49:26,964 You've gotta fill up their water bowl. And that's pretty much it, right? 1025 00:49:27,047 --> 00:49:28,840 It's pretty easy. Make her feel loved. 1026 00:49:31,176 --> 00:49:34,554 I'm a pretty simple man, right? So what are my responsibilities? 1027 00:49:34,638 --> 00:49:36,765 Simple men don't need a lot of responsibilities, right? 1028 00:49:36,848 --> 00:49:40,519 My responsibilities are being the best son and friend I can be. 1029 00:49:40,602 --> 00:49:44,022 Doing everything I can to be successful in real estate. 1030 00:49:44,106 --> 00:49:46,775 I'm trying to take the initiative, and-- 1031 00:49:46,858 --> 00:49:48,527 When do you make the initiative? 1032 00:49:51,613 --> 00:49:53,281 I've never seen this side of you. 1033 00:49:53,365 --> 00:49:56,910 When you constantly bash me and say, "I'm turning you from a boy to a man." 1034 00:49:56,994 --> 00:49:58,370 [Hannah] Mm-hmm. 1035 00:49:58,453 --> 00:50:01,665 This is just you being kind of, like, hard on me. 1036 00:50:01,748 --> 00:50:03,875 I'm not the type of man to sit here 1037 00:50:03,959 --> 00:50:07,170 and come up with a notebook full of notes and bash you. 1038 00:50:07,254 --> 00:50:09,006 -It didn't work-- -You think I'm bashing you? 1039 00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,884 It's a little too much, to be honest with you. 1040 00:50:12,968 --> 00:50:14,011 Do you know why I do this? 1041 00:50:14,094 --> 00:50:16,805 So you can get your thoughts on paper and you don't forget 'em? 1042 00:50:16,888 --> 00:50:20,142 Yeah, I just wanna make sure if this is the last conversation we ever have, 1043 00:50:20,225 --> 00:50:22,811 I would like to be able to get all my feelings out. 1044 00:50:23,937 --> 00:50:25,814 I have been trying, and I have been trying, 1045 00:50:25,897 --> 00:50:27,941 and I have been trying, and I have been trying, 1046 00:50:28,025 --> 00:50:31,445 because, like, I love you, and I want this so freaking bad. 1047 00:50:31,528 --> 00:50:32,696 It's just like… 1048 00:50:33,780 --> 00:50:35,741 When do I take off the rose-colored glasses 1049 00:50:35,824 --> 00:50:37,868 and just, like, see this for what it is? 1050 00:50:43,081 --> 00:50:46,793 Today is the day where you try on your tux and I try on my wedding dresses. 1051 00:50:47,294 --> 00:50:50,005 I realized I can't do this. This is not fair to me. 1052 00:50:50,088 --> 00:50:52,632 This is not fair to you for us to put on your tux 1053 00:50:52,716 --> 00:50:55,218 and for me to put on a wedding dress and come here. 1054 00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:56,762 So what did I do? 1055 00:50:56,845 --> 00:51:00,474 I call you, and I say, "Nick, I don't wanna blindside you." 1056 00:51:00,557 --> 00:51:03,435 I love you. I would not do that to you. 1057 00:51:03,518 --> 00:51:05,937 Then you try to make a game plan of how we're gonna do this 1058 00:51:06,021 --> 00:51:07,564 'cause you don't wanna look bad. 1059 00:51:07,647 --> 00:51:10,817 "I don't want you to make me look bad." That's exactly what you said, Nick. 1060 00:51:10,901 --> 00:51:13,403 'Cause I knew this was gonna be a grill sesh, right? 1061 00:51:13,487 --> 00:51:16,948 -I'm like, "Damn--" -Why do you think you're gonna look bad? 1062 00:51:17,032 --> 00:51:19,159 Because you're saying you didn't know me at all. 1063 00:51:19,242 --> 00:51:22,871 I don't know who the fuck you are. I can't read your mind. You're not being… 1064 00:51:23,872 --> 00:51:25,165 I don't understand you. 1065 00:51:25,248 --> 00:51:28,085 Well, this is-- like, this is me right now. 1066 00:51:28,627 --> 00:51:29,961 This-- this is me. 1067 00:51:30,670 --> 00:51:33,548 [Hannah] Nick's very good at telling people what they wanna hear. 1068 00:51:33,632 --> 00:51:38,011 And I feel very manipulated. And I feel very, uh, weak. 1069 00:51:38,095 --> 00:51:40,430 I feel like he was so worried about, like, how his friends, 1070 00:51:40,514 --> 00:51:42,265 his family and everybody views him, 1071 00:51:42,349 --> 00:51:45,102 and, like, how bad he was gonna look 1072 00:51:45,185 --> 00:51:47,896 instead of actually trying to, like, focus on just being here with me 1073 00:51:47,979 --> 00:51:49,022 and being open and honest. 1074 00:51:50,065 --> 00:51:51,691 I just don't know if he's even real. 1075 00:51:51,775 --> 00:51:53,944 I think sometimes you have to be real, 1076 00:51:54,027 --> 00:51:56,071 and have to be honest, and I'm so real and honest. 1077 00:51:58,824 --> 00:52:01,701 Right now, you know that this is not gonna work. 1078 00:52:05,413 --> 00:52:06,998 We are not gonna get married. 1079 00:52:15,048 --> 00:52:16,174 How do you feel? 1080 00:52:18,009 --> 00:52:22,806 Feels like probably, um, one of the worst feelings of my life. 1081 00:52:25,767 --> 00:52:26,768 Um… 1082 00:52:28,770 --> 00:52:31,481 I don't know. Maybe I could've done a better job of it. 1083 00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:33,275 Yeah. 1084 00:52:33,817 --> 00:52:36,444 Did you love me? I don't know. Do you care about me? I don't know. 1085 00:52:40,740 --> 00:52:44,911 I thought I was good enough for you, and I was wrong the whole time. 1086 00:52:44,995 --> 00:52:47,789 I thought you understood me. I was wrong the whole time. 1087 00:52:47,873 --> 00:52:50,709 You know, I thought you were ready to get married, and-- 1088 00:52:50,792 --> 00:52:53,795 -You think I'm not ready to get married? -To me. 1089 00:52:57,382 --> 00:52:58,925 I love you, you know? 1090 00:52:59,009 --> 00:53:01,052 So it's gonna suck. 1091 00:53:01,553 --> 00:53:03,597 It's gonna be one of the hardest times of my life. 1092 00:53:04,973 --> 00:53:07,601 -You know? That we couldn't get there. -Yeah. 1093 00:53:07,684 --> 00:53:10,770 [snaps fingers] And just for that to be gone like that, it's… 1094 00:53:12,939 --> 00:53:15,817 I'll never not think about you. You'll always be in my heart. 1095 00:53:17,402 --> 00:53:20,238 I didn't have any ulterior motives coming into this 1096 00:53:20,322 --> 00:53:22,616 other than getting married and finding love. 1097 00:53:22,699 --> 00:53:25,952 I wish we could have experienced these next couple days. 1098 00:53:26,536 --> 00:53:28,121 One week together. 1099 00:53:28,205 --> 00:53:32,292 I was willing to give it my all to the last possible second 1100 00:53:32,375 --> 00:53:33,877 and then make that decision. 1101 00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:37,964 But she felt that if she kept going, I would say no at the altar. 1102 00:53:38,048 --> 00:53:39,758 I would never have done that. 1103 00:53:40,675 --> 00:53:42,802 I didn't come this far just to come this far. 1104 00:53:42,886 --> 00:53:46,723 You know, Kim K. Kim K is in that Drake song. 1105 00:53:46,806 --> 00:53:48,600 "I didn't come this far just to come this far." 1106 00:53:48,683 --> 00:53:50,977 So, uh, me either, man. 1107 00:53:51,061 --> 00:53:53,271 Like, I came this far to get married. 1108 00:53:53,355 --> 00:53:56,149 And it makes me feel, you know, shitty that I lost a person, 1109 00:53:56,233 --> 00:54:00,070 you know, that I could potentially have loved for the rest of my life. 1110 00:54:02,155 --> 00:54:03,823 I think I'm just done trying. 1111 00:54:08,787 --> 00:54:10,288 I do love you. 1112 00:54:10,372 --> 00:54:12,791 -I love you too. -Okay, you wanna give me a hug? 1113 00:54:12,874 --> 00:54:16,169 -["Upside of Down" by Svrcina playing] -♪ There's a bright side in this storm ♪ 1114 00:54:16,670 --> 00:54:19,339 ♪ But my head's in the clouds ♪ 1115 00:54:20,006 --> 00:54:22,884 ♪ Trying to find what I'm looking for ♪ 1116 00:54:23,468 --> 00:54:25,679 ♪ Where's the upside of down? ♪ 1117 00:54:26,513 --> 00:54:28,056 ♪ Down, down ♪ 1118 00:54:29,307 --> 00:54:30,976 ♪ Down, down, down ♪ 1119 00:54:33,061 --> 00:54:34,729 ♪ Down, down, down ♪ 1120 00:54:34,813 --> 00:54:37,274 -Gorgeous out here. -Yeah. 1121 00:54:37,357 --> 00:54:40,318 Today is sort of our last big day that we have together 1122 00:54:40,402 --> 00:54:42,195 before the big day, the wedding. 1123 00:54:42,946 --> 00:54:45,198 Oh, it feels amazing! 1124 00:54:46,199 --> 00:54:49,077 -Oh, my God! This is glorious. -Whoo! 1125 00:54:49,160 --> 00:54:51,162 [sighs] I'm never gonna leave. 1126 00:54:51,246 --> 00:54:52,372 [Ramses sighs] 1127 00:54:52,455 --> 00:54:53,456 I'm a romantic. 1128 00:54:53,540 --> 00:54:55,875 I'm really looking forward to that day 1129 00:54:55,959 --> 00:54:58,670 and seeing Marissa in her dress walking down the aisle. 1130 00:55:00,088 --> 00:55:01,589 -Cheers. -[Marissa] Okay. 1131 00:55:01,673 --> 00:55:04,175 Are any of your Guyanese family gonna be at the wedding? 1132 00:55:04,259 --> 00:55:05,385 You didn't invite them? 1133 00:55:05,468 --> 00:55:09,431 -Um, yeah, no, I didn't… -I can't get out. 1134 00:55:09,514 --> 00:55:12,726 I haven't really kept up with them as much as I would like to. 1135 00:55:13,810 --> 00:55:18,064 I don't know that very many of them-- well, they probably know, but… 1136 00:55:18,148 --> 00:55:21,901 -How would they know? -They follow my ex-wife on Facebook. 1137 00:55:21,985 --> 00:55:23,028 Oh, okay. 1138 00:55:23,111 --> 00:55:24,863 They were there for, like, my first wedding. 1139 00:55:28,533 --> 00:55:29,909 Starting-- starting fresh. 1140 00:55:29,993 --> 00:55:31,202 [laughing] 1141 00:55:33,038 --> 00:55:34,914 -Hopefully your friggin' last, dude. -[kisses] 1142 00:55:34,998 --> 00:55:36,791 No, it's definitely my last. 1143 00:55:36,875 --> 00:55:39,419 -Well, this is my first and only. -Yeah? 1144 00:55:39,502 --> 00:55:42,547 I don't wanna follow the footsteps of everyone in my family and get a divorce. 1145 00:55:42,630 --> 00:55:45,425 Is that something, like, you're scared about? 1146 00:55:45,508 --> 00:55:48,928 I definitely think about it because it's such an option in my family. 1147 00:55:50,513 --> 00:55:53,433 -Yeah. -I know it's an option for us too. 1148 00:55:53,516 --> 00:55:55,643 -I don't really want it to be. -Yeah. 1149 00:55:55,727 --> 00:55:57,687 I would be willing to be unhappy 1150 00:55:57,771 --> 00:56:00,774 for probably five to seven years before I go for a divorce. 1151 00:56:00,857 --> 00:56:04,694 -Five to seven years? Babe! [laughs] -I know that's a long time, but, like… 1152 00:56:05,445 --> 00:56:08,865 There's gonna be periods of your life where you're unhappy. 1153 00:56:08,948 --> 00:56:12,619 Babe, five to seven years of being unhappy? That's a long time. 1154 00:56:12,702 --> 00:56:14,621 Obviously, I've been divorced once, so… 1155 00:56:14,704 --> 00:56:17,624 [Marissa] Yeah, so it's scary, because you could easily do it again. 1156 00:56:17,707 --> 00:56:20,293 But now it's gonna be completely different. 1157 00:56:20,377 --> 00:56:23,838 I understand where your heart is. You want to work through whatever. 1158 00:56:23,922 --> 00:56:25,840 But not, like, straight to divorce. 1159 00:56:25,924 --> 00:56:29,469 Like, in my family, none of the dads really stuck around. 1160 00:56:29,552 --> 00:56:30,387 [Ramses] Yeah. 1161 00:56:32,097 --> 00:56:34,307 [Marissa] How you feeling every time you talk to my mom? 1162 00:56:34,391 --> 00:56:37,685 Do you feel like she's warming up to you yet? 1163 00:56:38,561 --> 00:56:40,939 Um, she does have, like, a good heart. 1164 00:56:41,022 --> 00:56:42,732 I think she's just, you know. 1165 00:56:42,816 --> 00:56:45,151 It's just so quick, and it's just out of nowhere, 1166 00:56:45,235 --> 00:56:50,156 so she's gonna have her, um, like, 1167 00:56:50,240 --> 00:56:51,408 hesitations and all that. 1168 00:56:51,491 --> 00:56:54,828 But once we get married, I think she'll warm up. 1169 00:56:54,911 --> 00:56:57,622 [Marissa] I'm already thinking, "I've gotta get flowers for your mom." 1170 00:56:57,705 --> 00:57:00,417 I wanna present her with the present that we got her in Mexico. 1171 00:57:00,500 --> 00:57:04,838 Are you thinking about those things with my mom, or do I have to remind you? 1172 00:57:04,921 --> 00:57:07,465 You know? I don't wanna have to remind you. 1173 00:57:07,549 --> 00:57:09,467 Yeah. That's fair, yeah. 1174 00:57:09,551 --> 00:57:12,303 -You don't have to get a gift for my mom. -So that's not the thing. 1175 00:57:12,387 --> 00:57:15,348 I wanna get a gift for your mom, but my thing is, like, 1176 00:57:15,432 --> 00:57:18,143 since you're thinking a thousand miles an hour. 1177 00:57:18,226 --> 00:57:21,104 Like, you're shifting from, "We're gonna do something at the wedding." 1178 00:57:21,187 --> 00:57:24,149 "Now, we're not. We're gonna do something when we meet each other." 1179 00:57:24,232 --> 00:57:25,233 You're jumping from like-- 1180 00:57:25,316 --> 00:57:27,360 Well, we are still gonna do something at the wedding. 1181 00:57:27,444 --> 00:57:28,319 So now we're-- 1182 00:57:28,403 --> 00:57:31,156 So a gift for your mom at the dinner is what you wanna do? 1183 00:57:31,239 --> 00:57:34,742 You should probably bring her flowers because we didn't the first time. 1184 00:57:37,412 --> 00:57:38,413 Okay, yeah. 1185 00:57:39,789 --> 00:57:43,543 I'm just-- I need clarity on just, like, where your head is at though. 1186 00:57:43,626 --> 00:57:45,545 I don't know. You do what you wanna do. 1187 00:57:45,628 --> 00:57:47,755 I'm not gonna tell you to bring something for my mom. 1188 00:57:47,839 --> 00:57:52,093 I think you should do what you think you should do in this situation. 1189 00:57:52,719 --> 00:57:53,720 Yeah. 1190 00:57:53,803 --> 00:57:56,306 You're not telling me to get a gift for your mom. 1191 00:57:56,389 --> 00:57:59,642 I'm doing it because I think that's the right thing to do, and I want to. 1192 00:57:59,726 --> 00:58:01,853 I get what you're saying in terms of 1193 00:58:02,437 --> 00:58:04,647 you shouldn't have to be telling me what to do. 1194 00:58:04,731 --> 00:58:08,401 Yeah, and I don't wanna overwhelm you because I know you're feeling overwhelmed. 1195 00:58:08,485 --> 00:58:11,988 But at the same time, I'm also having to think about these things too. 1196 00:58:14,157 --> 00:58:17,827 And you saw me in that week where I was, like, having a really rough week, 1197 00:58:17,911 --> 00:58:19,162 my PMS week and stuff, 1198 00:58:19,245 --> 00:58:22,665 but it's just like… even though I'm really stressed, 1199 00:58:22,749 --> 00:58:25,460 like, I'm trying to pass law school, 1200 00:58:25,543 --> 00:58:26,461 and I'm commuting, 1201 00:58:26,544 --> 00:58:30,757 and I'm doing homework and papers and mock trials, 1202 00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:33,801 and I'm also doing everything else you're doing, plus the wedding stuff. 1203 00:58:33,885 --> 00:58:36,513 It's like… I just think… 1204 00:58:38,765 --> 00:58:41,351 It's just, like… [laughs] 1205 00:58:41,434 --> 00:58:43,770 -You can say it. I could do more. -Okay. 1206 00:58:45,063 --> 00:58:49,567 Or even, like, the registry, or, like, the email about the song 1207 00:58:49,651 --> 00:58:50,860 and the lineup. 1208 00:58:51,402 --> 00:58:53,947 If I didn't bring it up, would you have thought about it? 1209 00:58:54,030 --> 00:58:56,824 Those things are important, but, like… [exhales] 1210 00:58:57,492 --> 00:58:59,077 I don't wanna sound like I don't care, 1211 00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:01,871 but I feel like I'm just so focused on it right now, 1212 00:59:01,955 --> 00:59:05,792 just making sure, like… us, we're good, 1213 00:59:05,875 --> 00:59:09,045 And we're, like, everything is working between us. 1214 00:59:09,629 --> 00:59:11,965 I guess in my head, I'm prioritizing what's really important. 1215 00:59:12,048 --> 00:59:14,884 Like, where does my energies need to go, and it is important, 1216 00:59:14,968 --> 00:59:17,679 but it's hard to, like, find the energy 1217 00:59:17,762 --> 00:59:19,806 to focus on, like, stuff that 1218 00:59:20,306 --> 00:59:22,809 maybe in the moment right now isn't as important. 1219 00:59:22,892 --> 00:59:25,186 [Marissa] Yeah, I hate when you say it's not important. 1220 00:59:25,270 --> 00:59:27,313 I don't wanna feel like I'm doing it by myself. 1221 00:59:27,397 --> 00:59:28,398 No, I get that. Yeah. 1222 00:59:28,481 --> 00:59:30,942 Maybe it is me falling into that, like-- 1223 00:59:31,025 --> 00:59:34,237 No, it is. It's totally you falling into the men thing of, like… 1224 00:59:35,905 --> 00:59:39,033 And that's my biggest fear, in just life, not just the wedding stuff, 1225 00:59:39,117 --> 00:59:42,745 but, like, having children with a man who I have to carry the mental load. 1226 00:59:42,829 --> 00:59:45,415 Like, I don't want-- we talked about that in the pods. 1227 00:59:45,498 --> 00:59:48,042 I just don't-- I'm not looking for that in a relationship. 1228 00:59:48,126 --> 00:59:52,380 Like, I do apologize if you feel like you've been having to take everything, 1229 00:59:52,463 --> 00:59:55,049 like, you know, and handle everything. 1230 00:59:55,133 --> 00:59:58,011 -But I hear you though. I hear you. -Okay. 1231 00:59:59,053 --> 01:00:01,639 -As long as you hear me. -No, I hear you. 1232 01:00:01,723 --> 01:00:03,641 I understand where you're coming from. 1233 01:00:04,183 --> 01:00:06,561 I will keep that in mind, baby. 1234 01:00:06,644 --> 01:00:08,438 -Yeah, okay. -I will do better. 1235 01:00:09,314 --> 01:00:10,315 Tracking. 1236 01:00:10,815 --> 01:00:13,484 -["This is Once in a Lifetime" playing] -♪ Once in a lifetime… ♪ 1237 01:00:13,568 --> 01:00:15,778 -I know, like, you… -I do worry. 1238 01:00:15,862 --> 01:00:17,739 -…have your concerns. -Yeah. 1239 01:00:18,865 --> 01:00:21,868 -I do think we're good for each other. -I do too. 1240 01:00:23,077 --> 01:00:25,288 -How are you feeling? -I'm feeling pretty good. 1241 01:00:25,371 --> 01:00:26,664 -[Ramses] Yeah? -Yeah. 1242 01:00:33,546 --> 01:00:34,839 -I love you. -Love you too. 1243 01:00:34,922 --> 01:00:40,136 ♪ Once in a lifetime This is once in a lifetime ♪ 1244 01:00:40,219 --> 01:00:42,930 ♪ Once in a lifetime ♪ 1245 01:00:43,014 --> 01:00:48,686 ♪ Once in a lifetime ♪ 1246 01:00:49,771 --> 01:00:52,482 ♪ Once in a lifetime ♪ 1247 01:00:52,565 --> 01:00:55,026 ♪ Once in a lifetime ♪ 1248 01:00:55,109 --> 01:00:59,572 ♪ Once in a lifetime ♪ 1249 01:01:01,282 --> 01:01:02,617 [Tyler] What am I doing? 1250 01:01:02,700 --> 01:01:06,704 You agreed to this. Just remember that. On your way down, say, "I agreed to this." 1251 01:01:06,788 --> 01:01:08,581 [Tyler] We don't go super high, do we? 1252 01:01:08,665 --> 01:01:09,707 [woman] About two miles. 1253 01:01:09,791 --> 01:01:12,460 I don't even know what that means in airplane language. 1254 01:01:12,543 --> 01:01:15,213 -[woman laughs] -So how long do you free fall? 1255 01:01:15,713 --> 01:01:17,382 [man] About 40 seconds. 1256 01:01:17,465 --> 01:01:19,050 -Okay. -[man 2] Or the rest of your life. 1257 01:01:19,133 --> 01:01:20,718 [Ashley A] I'm terrified, honestly. 1258 01:01:20,802 --> 01:01:24,180 Skydiving, it's always something I wanted to do prior to getting married. 1259 01:01:24,263 --> 01:01:28,017 I just like the idea of taking an actual leap of faith, 1260 01:01:28,101 --> 01:01:30,395 metaphorically and actually. 1261 01:01:30,478 --> 01:01:34,941 And I think that if me and my significant other can do that together, 1262 01:01:35,024 --> 01:01:36,859 then we can tackle anything. 1263 01:01:36,943 --> 01:01:40,738 -I'm nervous too. Don't think… -You seem cool, calm, collected. 1264 01:01:40,822 --> 01:01:44,450 That's only because I'm not on the plane and getting ready to actually leap out. 1265 01:01:44,534 --> 01:01:46,202 When I do, he's gonna have to take me. 1266 01:01:46,285 --> 01:01:48,913 -[laughing] -I'm not gonna be able to do it myself. 1267 01:01:52,750 --> 01:01:54,377 -Ready? -Ready! 1268 01:01:54,460 --> 01:01:57,213 -This is it. We're about to take off. -[man] Let's go. 1269 01:01:57,296 --> 01:01:58,673 [all cheering] 1270 01:01:58,756 --> 01:02:01,718 -[man 2] You wanna get out? -Oh, this is what love gets you. 1271 01:02:01,801 --> 01:02:04,345 ["Jumpin' In" by the Larceny playing] 1272 01:02:07,432 --> 01:02:08,516 [man 2] We're airborne! 1273 01:02:08,599 --> 01:02:10,435 [shouting] 1274 01:02:10,518 --> 01:02:15,022 ♪ Yeah, and now I'm running free, running free ♪ 1275 01:02:15,106 --> 01:02:17,275 ♪ Won't hear me making no apologies… ♪ 1276 01:02:17,358 --> 01:02:19,736 -I'm gonna open the door. You ready? -No. 1277 01:02:19,819 --> 01:02:23,448 ♪ Now I'm running free Nothing's stopping me… ♪ 1278 01:02:23,531 --> 01:02:24,365 I'm scared. 1279 01:02:24,449 --> 01:02:25,575 ♪ Yeah! ♪ 1280 01:02:26,743 --> 01:02:30,830 ♪ Let's go, whoa-oh-oh-oh! Whoa-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh! 1281 01:02:30,913 --> 01:02:32,790 ♪ I'm jumpin' in ♪ 1282 01:02:33,916 --> 01:02:38,588 ♪ Let's go, whoa-oh-oh-oh! Whoa-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh! ♪ 1283 01:02:38,671 --> 01:02:42,091 ♪ Ready or not I'm coming, ready or not… ♪ 1284 01:02:42,175 --> 01:02:43,176 [Ashley A] Oh my God. 1285 01:02:43,801 --> 01:02:44,802 What a view. 1286 01:02:44,886 --> 01:02:48,765 ♪ Whoa-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh! I'm jumpin' in ♪ 1287 01:02:48,848 --> 01:02:51,100 -Thank you, Jesus. You're the dopest. -Good job, bro. 1288 01:02:51,184 --> 01:02:52,435 [man] Up, up, up, up, up. 1289 01:02:53,352 --> 01:02:55,563 -[Ashley A] Whoo! -[Tyler] Yeah, girl! 1290 01:02:55,646 --> 01:02:57,356 -Yes! -[Ashley A laughs] 1291 01:02:57,440 --> 01:02:58,858 -[man 2] Check on her. -[Tyler] Yep. 1292 01:02:58,941 --> 01:03:01,611 That was… [laughing] 1293 01:03:01,694 --> 01:03:04,322 Oh, my God! How do you feel? 1294 01:03:05,239 --> 01:03:08,367 How do you feel? [sniffles, gasps] 1295 01:03:08,451 --> 01:03:11,996 -I would do it again. -Yeah, I told you. Oh, my God! 1296 01:03:12,079 --> 01:03:15,041 That was, like, probably the most thrilling thing I've ever done. 1297 01:03:15,124 --> 01:03:17,126 Probably the best thing I've ever experienced. 1298 01:03:17,210 --> 01:03:19,378 -[man 2] Would you go again now? -I would go back up. 1299 01:03:19,462 --> 01:03:20,963 -I would go. I would go. -[Tyler] Yeah. 1300 01:03:21,047 --> 01:03:25,051 I 100% would go back up. That float was the best float ever. 1301 01:03:25,134 --> 01:03:28,095 -Thanks for making me do that. Love you. -I love you. 1302 01:03:34,435 --> 01:03:35,853 [Tyler] Damn, that was fun. 1303 01:03:36,354 --> 01:03:38,606 Ooh! Chocolate-covered strawberries. 1304 01:03:38,689 --> 01:03:40,399 So cute! 1305 01:03:40,483 --> 01:03:43,152 I'm so proud of you. I'm so proud. You don't even know. 1306 01:03:43,236 --> 01:03:45,571 No other person can get me to come out of a plane. 1307 01:03:45,655 --> 01:03:46,781 Not my mama. 1308 01:03:47,281 --> 01:03:50,618 I'm telling you, none of my friends, no family could've gotten me to do this. 1309 01:03:50,701 --> 01:03:53,955 [laughs] Unless Jesus was like, "I'm gonna take you." That's the only way. 1310 01:03:54,997 --> 01:03:58,876 Now you see where I, literally, not my whole life, but probably since… 1311 01:03:58,960 --> 01:04:01,212 -You want one of these? -Middle school. Yeah. 1312 01:04:01,295 --> 01:04:04,048 I always said, "I'm gonna jump out of a plane with my husband 1313 01:04:04,131 --> 01:04:05,424 the day before my wedding." 1314 01:04:05,508 --> 01:04:09,679 My mom used to be like, "In case y'all don't make it!" "We're gonna make it." 1315 01:04:10,346 --> 01:04:13,891 Yeah, to be that high up and float down and just look at everything, I was like, 1316 01:04:13,975 --> 01:04:18,145 "This is the best experience of my life." Seriously. 1317 01:04:18,229 --> 01:04:19,397 Until next week. 1318 01:04:23,276 --> 01:04:25,361 -Mm-hmm. -See? I wasn't lying in the pods. 1319 01:04:25,444 --> 01:04:26,737 -Yeah. -Told you I'd do it. 1320 01:04:26,821 --> 01:04:29,532 That was, like, the biggest fear ever. 1321 01:04:29,615 --> 01:04:32,451 So for me, jumping out, it was like letting go of a lot of things. 1322 01:04:32,535 --> 01:04:34,745 I'm jumping into this life with Ashley. 1323 01:04:39,208 --> 01:04:43,462 I just feel like, anything now, we could tackle, like giving birth. 1324 01:04:43,546 --> 01:04:45,548 I don't think, like, it's a fear of mine. 1325 01:04:45,631 --> 01:04:49,302 It's not for you, but I have to give birth and push a baby out of my vagina. 1326 01:04:49,385 --> 01:04:51,470 So that is very nerve-racking for me. 1327 01:04:51,554 --> 01:04:55,141 -The scariest thing I'll ever do. -I'll hold your hand like you held mine. 1328 01:04:55,224 --> 01:04:56,642 It's less risk for you. 1329 01:04:56,726 --> 01:04:58,728 All you gotta do is shoot the club up. 1330 01:04:58,811 --> 01:05:00,396 -Whoa! -Literally. 1331 01:05:00,479 --> 01:05:02,607 -That's the fun part. -Donate your stuff and then… 1332 01:05:03,482 --> 01:05:04,734 Help me through the process. 1333 01:05:04,817 --> 01:05:07,028 -I'm not donating. We're married. -Well, not "donate." 1334 01:05:07,111 --> 01:05:08,863 -[groans, laughs] Let's not use those… -Yeah. 1335 01:05:08,946 --> 01:05:11,365 [laughing] 1336 01:05:11,449 --> 01:05:13,242 -All right, now. -Babe! 1337 01:05:13,326 --> 01:05:15,453 -Wrong choice of words! -You ain't ruin a good space. 1338 01:05:15,536 --> 01:05:18,331 [laughing] Wrong choice of words. Wrong choice of words. 1339 01:05:18,414 --> 01:05:23,294 All right, all you have to do is, like, you know, give your stuff. 1340 01:05:23,377 --> 01:05:26,088 -To your wife! -I'm not giving. We're sharing. 1341 01:05:26,172 --> 01:05:28,424 -We are, but I'm saying-- -"Give your stuff." 1342 01:05:28,507 --> 01:05:31,427 You don't have to bear the child. That's a big deal. 1343 01:05:31,510 --> 01:05:34,680 So for me, I feel like that would be the scariest thing I ever do. 1344 01:05:34,764 --> 01:05:38,184 -If you're there, we could do it. -I'll be there. 1345 01:05:38,267 --> 01:05:40,853 If I could have you by my side and know you're gonna support me 1346 01:05:40,937 --> 01:05:42,772 and know you're gonna take risks with me, 1347 01:05:42,855 --> 01:05:45,858 like, I literally feel like we could do anything. 1348 01:05:45,942 --> 01:05:47,568 -Love you. -I love you. 1349 01:05:47,652 --> 01:05:50,071 -["Let's Fall Together" playing] -♪ Let's fall together ♪ 1350 01:05:50,154 --> 01:05:51,656 [vocalizing] 1351 01:05:54,909 --> 01:05:56,911 ♪ Let's fall together ♪ 1352 01:05:59,246 --> 01:06:00,581 -Thank you. -Welcome. 1353 01:06:00,665 --> 01:06:02,458 -Oh, my God. -Oh, wow. 1354 01:06:02,541 --> 01:06:06,587 -[laughing] Okay. This is so trippy. -This is really cool. 1355 01:06:06,671 --> 01:06:10,883 -["All So Colorful" by Noontides playing] -♪ I'm seeing everything in new light… ♪ 1356 01:06:10,967 --> 01:06:12,176 This is so trippy. 1357 01:06:12,259 --> 01:06:13,970 I feel like I'm in a movie. Whoa! 1358 01:06:14,053 --> 01:06:16,013 -Yeah, this is pretty crazy. -[laughing] 1359 01:06:16,097 --> 01:06:18,557 ♪ Look around and then you'll see it too ♪ 1360 01:06:18,641 --> 01:06:21,268 [Garrett] Walking in here, it's just like this mental explosion. 1361 01:06:21,352 --> 01:06:24,480 Colors and lights and science and art combined. 1362 01:06:25,147 --> 01:06:28,484 It's perfect because Taylor and I both have science backgrounds. 1363 01:06:28,567 --> 01:06:32,530 And as scientists, and also this art side of us, 1364 01:06:32,613 --> 01:06:35,616 we both really appreciate this entire gallery. It's very cool. 1365 01:06:35,700 --> 01:06:37,702 -Oh, my-- look. -Light of your life? 1366 01:06:37,785 --> 01:06:40,121 -Yeah. It's a sign. -[Taylor] Middle of your universe? 1367 01:06:40,204 --> 01:06:41,247 [laughing] 1368 01:06:41,330 --> 01:06:43,332 [Garrett] The wedding only being a couple days away, 1369 01:06:43,416 --> 01:06:46,377 it really brings the weight of the decision into perspective. 1370 01:06:46,460 --> 01:06:50,673 It feels very real, very heavy-hitting, but it's this beautiful thing. 1371 01:06:50,756 --> 01:06:52,758 It's not this scary thing anymore. It's beautiful. 1372 01:06:52,842 --> 01:06:55,845 -There's Fredericksburg. -[laughing] 1373 01:06:55,928 --> 01:06:57,680 ♪ …color from black and white… ♪ 1374 01:06:58,597 --> 01:07:02,059 It's just beautiful. I'm so excited, so happy. 1375 01:07:02,601 --> 01:07:03,936 It's so great. 1376 01:07:06,772 --> 01:07:10,317 What? Why are you laughing at me? 1377 01:07:10,818 --> 01:07:12,737 You make me happy. I don't know what to tell you. 1378 01:07:15,823 --> 01:07:17,283 Oh, nice. Thank you. 1379 01:07:19,076 --> 01:07:21,454 Now we're not gonna see each other for a couple days. 1380 01:07:22,538 --> 01:07:24,206 Who's gonna tape your mouth shut at night? 1381 01:07:25,458 --> 01:07:29,170 -I'll hire somebody, really. -[laughs] 1382 01:07:29,253 --> 01:07:31,422 I guess it's all part of the wedding experience. 1383 01:07:31,505 --> 01:07:33,799 Do you think you're gonna cry when you see me? 1384 01:07:33,883 --> 01:07:34,884 Not a chance. 1385 01:07:34,967 --> 01:07:36,761 -Not a chance? -Not a chance. 1386 01:07:36,844 --> 01:07:38,929 No, I'm trying to convince myself. 1387 01:07:41,098 --> 01:07:43,559 -There's definitely a chance. -What's the p-value? 1388 01:07:43,642 --> 01:07:45,102 P win feels pretty high. 1389 01:07:45,603 --> 01:07:49,231 -The P cry feels pretty low, but not zero. -[laughing] 1390 01:07:49,899 --> 01:07:54,653 It'll be a very beautiful end to, like, a wonderfully chaotic and amazing, 1391 01:07:54,737 --> 01:07:58,991 unique, at times, stressful experience. 1392 01:08:00,201 --> 01:08:04,246 Do you feel you've been more stressed than, like, happy in this experience? 1393 01:08:04,330 --> 01:08:06,999 It's been stressful. but more stressful than happy? Impossible. 1394 01:08:07,083 --> 01:08:09,585 Some of the happiest days of my life just, like, 1395 01:08:10,086 --> 01:08:12,963 knowing I found, like, the person I wanna spend my life with 1396 01:08:13,047 --> 01:08:14,256 is, like, a beautiful feeling. 1397 01:08:14,340 --> 01:08:16,133 -[chuckles] -And you? 1398 01:08:16,217 --> 01:08:18,803 Definitely not super stressful 1399 01:08:18,886 --> 01:08:23,766 having someone like you be my best friend during this whole thing. 1400 01:08:23,849 --> 01:08:24,892 [Garrett] It's been cool. 1401 01:08:28,729 --> 01:08:30,397 Or you love me or something? 1402 01:08:30,481 --> 01:08:33,776 You know that I-- yes, I love you. I'm crazy about you. 1403 01:08:35,986 --> 01:08:38,447 Any last minute things to confront me about, Garrett? 1404 01:08:38,531 --> 01:08:41,867 [laughs] Yeah. I've been waiting for this moment, in fact. 1405 01:08:42,493 --> 01:08:43,953 The mustard stays in the pantry. 1406 01:08:44,036 --> 01:08:45,538 -Not go in the fridge. -It's so weird. 1407 01:08:45,621 --> 01:08:46,956 It's not. 1408 01:08:47,957 --> 01:08:50,501 Brown mustard, yes, there's sugar and stuff in it. 1409 01:08:50,584 --> 01:08:52,920 Standard yellow mustard is just ground mustard seed. 1410 01:08:53,003 --> 01:08:58,050 [laughing] Does anyone possibly keep their open mustard-- 1411 01:08:58,134 --> 01:08:59,844 Yellow mustard is just ground mustard seed. 1412 01:08:59,927 --> 01:09:02,888 -Not in the fridge? -It's ground mustard seed and vinegar. 1413 01:09:03,764 --> 01:09:06,100 We're gonna have separate bathrooms and separate mustards. 1414 01:09:06,183 --> 01:09:09,145 [laughing] 1415 01:09:09,228 --> 01:09:11,814 -Do you want some more of this? -No, I'm good. 1416 01:09:11,897 --> 01:09:14,775 Isn't that funny? You're done taking girls out on dates. 1417 01:09:14,859 --> 01:09:17,153 -Just have a wife to take out on dates. -Thank God. 1418 01:09:17,236 --> 01:09:18,487 [chuckles] "Thank God"? 1419 01:09:18,571 --> 01:09:21,198 I'm so happy to leave all that bullshit behind. 1420 01:09:21,282 --> 01:09:23,951 I mean, the goal was to find you, right? 1421 01:09:24,618 --> 01:09:26,453 So now I'm here. It feels… 1422 01:09:27,204 --> 01:09:28,581 I feel very relaxed. 1423 01:09:30,875 --> 01:09:32,209 Don't get too comfortable. 1424 01:09:32,293 --> 01:09:35,629 "Don't get too comfortable." That was the advice your dad told me. 1425 01:09:35,713 --> 01:09:38,424 [laughs] 1426 01:09:39,216 --> 01:09:40,259 Smart man. 1427 01:09:40,342 --> 01:09:42,469 It's like he knows me super well or something. 1428 01:09:42,553 --> 01:09:45,973 ♪ I remember praying for days like this… ♪ 1429 01:09:46,056 --> 01:09:49,894 I think we actually are following our guts for, like, the first time 1430 01:09:49,977 --> 01:09:51,770 on a really big decision. 1431 01:09:52,438 --> 01:09:57,610 And so I'm really sure and certain and incredibly happy 1432 01:09:57,693 --> 01:10:02,990 and excited for everything that's gonna come when it's just us. 1433 01:10:03,574 --> 01:10:05,701 Me too. Me too. 1434 01:10:06,285 --> 01:10:07,745 You're trying to make me cry now. 1435 01:10:08,329 --> 01:10:10,706 -I love you. -Love you too. To life. 1436 01:10:10,789 --> 01:10:14,043 ♪ We built a life worth living for, oh! ♪ 1437 01:10:14,627 --> 01:10:18,672 ♪ It's heaven, baby, yeah ♪ 1438 01:10:20,174 --> 01:10:22,801 -["Cheeto Dust" playing] -♪ Sleep feeling like dying lately ♪ 1439 01:10:22,885 --> 01:10:25,596 ♪ I don't really know If I'm gonna make it ♪ 1440 01:10:25,679 --> 01:10:28,307 ♪ If the good Lord decide to take me ♪ 1441 01:10:28,390 --> 01:10:30,976 ♪ Don't wake me, don't wake me ♪ 1442 01:10:32,478 --> 01:10:34,480 [toilet flushes] 1443 01:10:43,113 --> 01:10:44,448 What are you thinking? 1444 01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:49,286 [Ramses sighs] 1445 01:10:49,995 --> 01:10:52,248 I don't know. It's just a lot. 1446 01:10:54,166 --> 01:10:55,376 [inhales] 1447 01:10:55,459 --> 01:11:00,339 I honestly don't wanna jump to any, like, rash decisions. 1448 01:11:00,422 --> 01:11:02,716 I feel we've been able to, like, figure out our issues. 1449 01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:05,052 We've been able to talk through a lot of things. 1450 01:11:05,636 --> 01:11:07,888 But this one of those things that, like… 1451 01:11:10,099 --> 01:11:12,476 in terms of, like, experiencing, 1452 01:11:13,602 --> 01:11:18,983 you know, what it's like to exist together and to live together and all of that. 1453 01:11:19,066 --> 01:11:20,192 It's just like, 1454 01:11:20,276 --> 01:11:22,069 it'd be different if maybe this was an issue 1455 01:11:22,152 --> 01:11:24,071 we were having the whole time, but… 1456 01:11:25,781 --> 01:11:26,782 Like… 1457 01:11:30,869 --> 01:11:34,081 I told you. Like, I don't question whether I love you or not. 1458 01:11:34,164 --> 01:11:38,627 I don't wanna lose you, but it's not just, like, marriage. 1459 01:11:38,711 --> 01:11:41,630 It's not just, like, about love. Love is important. 1460 01:11:41,714 --> 01:11:43,090 Like, it's hugely important. 1461 01:11:43,173 --> 01:11:47,386 But, like, it's not just that. There's other things that have to work. 1462 01:11:49,430 --> 01:11:50,681 I don't know. 1463 01:11:51,807 --> 01:11:54,184 Like, I don't know what direction to go in. 1464 01:11:55,561 --> 01:11:58,731 [Marissa] Don't you see that, like, you talked to some people 1465 01:11:58,814 --> 01:12:01,900 and then your mind starts to wonder? 1466 01:12:03,777 --> 01:12:06,322 I know it's normal to feel nerves, 1467 01:12:06,822 --> 01:12:11,076 but sometimes outside influence is not, like, helpful. 1468 01:12:12,661 --> 01:12:16,373 Maybe letting those people get to you, like, they're not here with us. 1469 01:12:16,457 --> 01:12:18,834 Like, they did not experience what we experienced together. 1470 01:12:18,917 --> 01:12:21,462 Falling in love is a risk. If we get married, like, this is it. 1471 01:12:21,545 --> 01:12:25,549 Like, I don't want to do this again. I'm not gonna do this again. 1472 01:12:26,050 --> 01:12:29,178 This is it. If it's not this, it's like, there's nothing. 1473 01:12:30,220 --> 01:12:33,474 It scares me because divorce isn't something that you wanna do. I don't-- 1474 01:12:33,557 --> 01:12:36,268 I don't wanna get to a place, down the road, we're getting a divorce. 1475 01:12:39,521 --> 01:12:41,565 We have a great future ahead of us. 1476 01:12:44,902 --> 01:12:46,445 I wanna marry you. 1477 01:12:51,033 --> 01:12:55,537 The risk is that we give our all, and we are super vulnerable. 1478 01:12:55,621 --> 01:12:57,998 And I bare my soul to you. You bare your soul to me. 1479 01:12:58,082 --> 01:13:00,084 And it doesn't work out. 1480 01:13:01,168 --> 01:13:05,381 That is the risk of falling in love. Like, we're all terrified of that. 1481 01:13:06,173 --> 01:13:09,593 But that's literally the risk of falling in love, Ramses. 1482 01:13:09,676 --> 01:13:13,639 -[pop music playing] -♪ When the world gets too loud ♪ 1483 01:13:13,722 --> 01:13:17,643 ♪ And the pressure seems It could break us in two ♪ 1484 01:13:17,726 --> 01:13:21,063 ♪ If you ever have a doubt ♪ 1485 01:13:21,146 --> 01:13:25,984 ♪ I give everything to never lose you ♪ 1486 01:13:32,533 --> 01:13:33,409 [church bells ringing] 1487 01:13:33,492 --> 01:13:36,370 -["Shadows" by Tides playing] -♪ I'm never running, I'm never hiding… ♪ 1488 01:13:36,453 --> 01:13:37,413 [officiant] Please rise. 1489 01:13:38,580 --> 01:13:42,209 Now is the time to decide if love is blind. 1490 01:13:42,292 --> 01:13:45,504 -[heart beating] -[woman exhales] 1491 01:13:46,922 --> 01:13:48,924 -["Never Apart" playing] -♪ Never apart ♪ 1492 01:13:55,055 --> 01:13:57,891 ♪ Never apart ♪ 1493 01:14:03,147 --> 01:14:05,149 ♪ Never apart ♪ 1494 01:14:10,988 --> 01:14:14,908 ♪ Never apart ♪