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[pop music playing]
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Welcome to Love Is Blind!
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[cheering]
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[Nick] You all will have
the opportunity to fall in love
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based solely on who you are on the inside.
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The thing I yearn for is for someone
to truly love me for the person that I am.
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Yeah.
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I didn't think I would fall in love
this way, and it's like, I did.
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[chuckles]
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[Vanessa] And if you fall in love,
you'll get engaged.
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Will you please make me
the happiest man alive and marry me?
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Yes! [laughing]
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[Johnny laughs] Oh, my God.
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Will you marry me?
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I will 1,000% marry you.
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Let's go!
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[Vanessa] Then you'll finally see
your fiancée for the very first time.
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[chuckles]
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Hi!
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-Hey, baby! [laughing]
-How are you, my love?
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-[pop music playing]
-♪ Call it love... ♪
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[Nick] Up until now,
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your attraction has been based entirely
in an emotional connection.
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[Vanessa] Hopefully, you turn that
emotional connection into a physical one.
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[Johnny] When people said,
"She takes your breath away,"
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I thought it was for a second or two,
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not for, like, ten to 15 minutes.
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Like, I found her. Like, that's it.
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-[pop music playing]
-♪ Show me the future... ♪
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He makes me feel really heard
and really seen.
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[laughing]
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[Clay] I got so much stronger with you.
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I'm gonna be a great father. I can't wait.
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-Rock with me, I'mma take you to the moon.
-Yeah? Yeah?
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-[laughs]
-I promise you.
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May I marry your daughter?
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Yes.
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♪ Be the one that makes me see... ♪
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[Amy] We're right where we're meant to be.
I'm excited to marry Johnny.
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[pop music playing]
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♪ Fight for love... ♪
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[Nick] Will looks, race, lifestyle
or insecurities tear them apart?
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I know you fucked her!
And you told me that!
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[Brittany] I want so badly
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to be able to experience that crave
that I had with you in the pods.
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Not enough for us to get married.
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♪ Don't give up... ♪
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I made the wrong decision in the pods.
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I want us to be together.
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You are not a man.
You're not man enough for me.
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-You never fucking have been, okay?
-[snorts]
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Your engagement just ended.
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Sometimes I feel like you will choose,
like, convenience and comfort
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over coming back to the apartment.
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♪ Fight for love... ♪
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Are we gonna get married?
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Where are you at
with being able to give an answer?
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[Chelsea] Um...
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♪ Fight for love ♪
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-[pop music playing]
♪ We're getting closer, baby ♪
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[vocalizing]
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{\an8}I love you so much,
and I have no doubt in my mind that
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{\an8}you're my person.
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♪ Think of me, think of me, baby ♪
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But are we gonna get married?
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Because I haven't even
got a grasp of where you're at.
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[exhales]
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Where are you at with
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being able to give an answer?
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Um, it's been intense for me.
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It's literally been
a roller coaster of emotions
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and going with the process
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and really, really truly...
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seeing if I can see this
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moving forward in a marriage.
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[Jimmy] Mm-hmm.
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Right now, I can.
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[chuckles]
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We can have fun together. We know that,
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but we also have dealt with some crap,
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and we've gotten through it.
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Yeah.
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So we know we can handle conflict,
and we know we can handle the hard times,
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but, like, I do see a life with you.
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I see you being an amazing husband.
I see you being an amazing dad.
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Yesterday, I was a little...
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I think I was just having an off day,
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and I think, like,
both of us were just working a ton.
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-And so were you.
-Yeah.
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Um, but...
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today, I feel more secure
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and confident in moving forward with you.
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And I feel really, really good.
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Every day, you've done
exactly what I would want in a wife.
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I love you to death,
and I want a relationship with you.
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-And I want us to work so bad.
-Mm-hmm.
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But I don't wanna go to the altar.
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I can't. [exhales]
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Okay.
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Um...
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The other day, with the rest of the guys
and the rest of the couples,
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you've said it, like,
literally three times since then
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about Amy and Johnny
being the strongest couple...
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I said it because we were working through
some things, and I thought that we have,
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and for you to just sit here
and tell me that you're not gonna...
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Like, you're set on not going, right?
Am I getting that?
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You're set on not going?
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I'm set on not going.
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Why did you propose to me?
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I feel you weren't
even trying to get married.
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You don't think I was trying
to get married?
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I did not expect this right now.
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We were just picking our songs
for walking into the fucking reception.
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Are you kidding me?
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Why did you treat me like you did today?
We had the best day today.
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Why didn't you tell me then?
Why did you waste my time here?
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'Cause you just wanted to do this?
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The only opportunity
is to tell you when I feel it.
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I feel like you've known
you were gonna say no this entire time,
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and you just wasted my time.
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You told me two weeks ago
that you thought that I didn't love you.
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I took a step back and said "I'm willing
to try" because I love you that much.
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-Like, I love you.
-I love you too.
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-When you know, you know.
-I do love you.
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[gasps] But you're saying,
like, "I love you, but not enough."
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-I'm not saying I don't... that it's...
-That's what it sounds like.
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I love you. I think the world of you.
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I was so optimistic
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when I started this process
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that if I put myself out there,
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I would find my person.
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That led me to you.
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That's the greatest thing
I've ever done single-handedly.
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It was hard, but it was
the greatest thing I've ever done.
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And before that damn argument,
I was so set!
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Before you lied to me,
before you called me "clingy,"
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before you did everything to me that
I've gone through the wringer for for you.
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I'm, like, walking on eggshells with you.
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I can't tell you things that hurt
my feelings because you get so upset.
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Like what?
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Like, you're so set on not going
because of our one argument.
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I'm just, like... That is blowing my mind.
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It's not...
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Okay, well, you're condensing it down
to one argument,
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but it's, like,
five or six really big issues
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that, like, really hit home
and hurt my feelings.
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I told you out of confidence
about one of my friends
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that I had a prior relationship with.
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You threw that in my fucking face.
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You disrespected her. You disrespected me.
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-So just because I...
-Let me... I'm still talking.
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No, I need to interfere with that.
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It made me uncomfortable because
you guys text and you call all day.
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So someone you slept with,
that made me uncomfortable.
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I get that you told me in confidence
to protect your reputation,
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but it made me feel a certain type of way,
so that's unfair.
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It's unfair.
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-[Jimmy] Okay.
-So that was...
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That was less recent than your
ex-boyfriend that you still hang out with.
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I don't call him, and I don't
hang out with him! No, I do not.
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The first night we got engaged, and we
got our phones back, you FaceTimed him!
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I said we have a mutual friendship.
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And I don't see him. I don't text him.
I don't call him every day.
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-That is different.
-Okay.
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You just, like... [scoffs]
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continue to spur things out
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that, like, I'm embarrassed of, and...
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Yes, I did bring it up.
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Did I apologize for bringing it up
in the way I did? Yes, I did.
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I'm really sorry I brought it up on camera
when you asked me not to,
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to protect your reputation,
but it was my feelings.
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I needed to bring it up.
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It isn't my reputation. I don't care
about it. It's hers that I care about.
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That's messed up for any future guy
that she has anything with...
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I'm sorry you guys
had a little secret little love triangle!
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Exactly. That makes me reluctant
to tell you things, and that's a problem.
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That's what you keep bringing up,
so keep going. Keep going.
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What else do I do that you can't
see yourself marrying me for, 'cause...
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All I'm saying is
is that night was such a big step back
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that I cannot fathom
marrying you after that.
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My... I tried!
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You know what I think it is?
I think it's an excuse.
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It's not an excuse.
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So you calling me clingy,
you saying that I...
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-You were being clingy.
-We're getting married!
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Should I have broken up
with you the day you called me clingy?
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Yes!
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Or to say you didn't want to have sex,
and I was pushing it on you?
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[Jimmy] When did I say that?
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Really? That you wanted to pull back
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'cause I was the one who wanted
to have sex with you and you didn't?
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-Disrespect.
-When did I say that?
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The night you called me clingy!
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You got drunk
and said that "I do not want to be here!"
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You throw in the towel with one issue?
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-That was not one issue.
-That's marriage! That's marriage.
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Marriage is not easy!
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-You broke my trust to the deepest degree.
-You broke my trust!
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I didn't tell the world
your darkest secrets.
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Your deepest darkest secrets
is fucking your friend?
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Okay, continue to throw it in my face.
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Continue reminding me
why I'm making the right decision.
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[Chelsea] Listen.
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I was so hopeful for us.
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[sniffles]
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[gasps]
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-["Strange Days" by the Born Love playing]
-♪ I don't know where I stand... ♪
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[sniffles]
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♪ Always spinning around ♪
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♪ Will I ever land... ♪
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[sobbing]
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♪ If black is white and up is down... ♪
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[sobbing]
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♪ Will I find the ground? ♪
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[singer vocalizing]
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[sniffles]
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[gasps]
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[sobbing]
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[sobbing]
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♪ Hold on, my friend, hold on ♪
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{\an8}-[pop music playing]
-♪ Everybody wants you now ♪
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♪ Na-na, na-na ♪
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♪ I guess they just can't help it
Too bad you look so good ♪
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♪ Everybody wants you... ♪
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[cheering]
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-[chattering]
-[laughing]
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[Amy] Tonight is my bachelorette party.
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{\an8}I'm excited to live it up
as my last night as a single woman.
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{\an8}-[shouting]
-[woman] Yes!
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Wait, put Clay's face up!
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-[laughing]
-[woman] There it is!
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[AD] You're so silly!
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-I can't.
-[laughing]
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I miss him! [laughing]
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Okay, well, wait, I gotta see it!
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Oh, girl! Girl!
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It's beautiful!
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{\an8}-Your hand sittin' heavy?
-Right!
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Help me!
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{\an8}We're gonna schedule
an appointment to the chiropractor.
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{\an8}-'Cause you gonna be walking like this.
-[laughing]
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That's me. I'm like,
"I just can't put it in my pocket, honey!"
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[laughing]
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♪ Throw me into
The thunder and lightning ♪
245
00:12:05,433 --> 00:12:08,018
♪ I don't care, I don't care ♪
246
00:12:08,102 --> 00:12:10,271
-[Nate] This is y'all's party time!
-[Clay] Yo!
247
00:12:10,354 --> 00:12:11,897
-[laughing]
-Damn!
248
00:12:11,981 --> 00:12:13,566
-The bachelor party!
-[Clay humming]
249
00:12:13,649 --> 00:12:16,068
[laughing]
250
00:12:16,152 --> 00:12:18,362
-[man] This is actually the last ride?
-[Clay] Yeah.
251
00:12:18,446 --> 00:12:21,323
-[Johnny] Hey, there!
-What's going on? You know why we're here.
252
00:12:21,407 --> 00:12:22,742
[laughing]
253
00:12:22,825 --> 00:12:24,368
-That's funny.
-Thank you very much.
254
00:12:24,452 --> 00:12:26,078
All right, bring it in, fellas.
255
00:12:26,162 --> 00:12:27,329
-Hey!
-[Nate] Yes, sir!
256
00:12:27,413 --> 00:12:29,707
-Cheers it up. Let's have a night.
-This is y'all's night.
257
00:12:29,790 --> 00:12:30,791
[Josh J.] Repeat after me.
258
00:12:30,875 --> 00:12:32,626
-I ain't above you.
-[all] I ain't above you.
259
00:12:32,710 --> 00:12:34,545
-[Josh J.] Ain't below you.
-[all] Ain't below.
260
00:12:34,628 --> 00:12:36,714
-But I'm here with you.
-[all] I'm right here with you.
261
00:12:36,797 --> 00:12:37,798
-Yeah!
-Cheers!
262
00:12:40,259 --> 00:12:42,511
-[Johnny] What is this guy?
-I think they got something!
263
00:12:42,595 --> 00:12:44,221
[Clay] "The groom to be"?
264
00:12:44,305 --> 00:12:45,890
-[Josh J.] Oh, man!
-[Johnny] Dang!
265
00:12:45,973 --> 00:12:49,935
[Johnny] Groom to be. Be! Be!
266
00:12:50,686 --> 00:12:52,021
-Oh!
-Let's go, baby.
267
00:12:52,104 --> 00:12:54,023
-[Johnny laughs]
-Grooms to be.
268
00:12:54,106 --> 00:12:56,650
I'm really happy
that it's me and you though, man.
269
00:12:56,734 --> 00:12:58,152
[Josh J.] What are the girls doing?
270
00:12:58,235 --> 00:13:01,447
I saw AD. She had some shaking-ass pants.
271
00:13:01,530 --> 00:13:04,784
-So I feel like they got, like...
-Dude, so does Amy. So does Amy.
272
00:13:04,867 --> 00:13:07,620
-Who knows where they at.
-Like, "I don't know if I wanna leave."
273
00:13:07,703 --> 00:13:09,163
I know. I wanna see you put that on!
274
00:13:09,246 --> 00:13:10,915
[laughing]
275
00:13:10,998 --> 00:13:13,125
-[dance music playing]
-♪ He's perfect, I'm flawless ♪
276
00:13:13,209 --> 00:13:15,336
♪ I'm fire, the hottest... ♪
277
00:13:15,419 --> 00:13:17,463
-Hey!
-[cheering]
278
00:13:17,546 --> 00:13:19,256
♪You want it, I've got it ♪
279
00:13:19,340 --> 00:13:22,009
[cheering]
280
00:13:22,092 --> 00:13:23,219
♪ Ah! Ah! Ah... ♪
281
00:13:23,302 --> 00:13:26,764
[AD] Getting a chance to dance
and let my hair down!
282
00:13:26,847 --> 00:13:29,266
I've been waiting for this moment
for so long! [laughing]
283
00:13:29,350 --> 00:13:31,685
That is my Scorpio queen!
284
00:13:31,769 --> 00:13:34,730
♪ Ah! Ah! Ah! Ah! Ha-ha! ♪
285
00:13:34,814 --> 00:13:38,150
I'm ready to be Mrs. Gravesande.
286
00:13:38,234 --> 00:13:39,777
[laughs]
287
00:13:39,860 --> 00:13:41,237
Okay!
288
00:13:42,112 --> 00:13:46,325
This is my last night as a single woman.
I'm having the best time, listen!
289
00:13:46,408 --> 00:13:48,202
Yes, yes, yes!
290
00:13:48,285 --> 00:13:50,579
I'm about to embark on a huge milestone,
291
00:13:50,663 --> 00:13:54,792
and the fact that I'm gonna get married
to Johnny is absolutely insane to me,
292
00:13:54,875 --> 00:13:56,627
but I just feel so good.
293
00:13:56,710 --> 00:13:59,797
I'm so ready
to be a future Mrs. Cortes-McIntyre!
294
00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:02,383
[cheering]
295
00:14:04,218 --> 00:14:05,594
[AD] Oh, Mama!
296
00:14:05,678 --> 00:14:07,137
Come on, bride!
297
00:14:07,221 --> 00:14:08,389
I know, right?
298
00:14:08,472 --> 00:14:11,225
-Come on, bride!
-We need to... [laughs]
299
00:14:11,308 --> 00:14:13,811
-Not us getting married.
-Who would've thought?
300
00:14:13,894 --> 00:14:15,312
Let me tell you. Let me tell you.
301
00:14:15,396 --> 00:14:20,192
I just didn't think Johnny would be...
He's very terrified of having kids.
302
00:14:20,276 --> 00:14:22,361
-Okay.
-Like, hard no.
303
00:14:22,444 --> 00:14:24,613
That's fine
because I don't want kids until...
304
00:14:24,697 --> 00:14:27,366
-So you're not on birth control?
-No, I'm not on birth control.
305
00:14:27,449 --> 00:14:28,617
Are y'all having sex?
306
00:14:28,701 --> 00:14:30,578
We're waiting it out a little bit.
307
00:14:30,661 --> 00:14:33,622
So you haven't had sex?
You haven't had sex yet?
308
00:14:33,706 --> 00:14:35,875
-[laughing]
-You haven't had sex?
309
00:14:35,958 --> 00:14:38,002
-We're having a great time.
-You haven't had sex?
310
00:14:38,085 --> 00:14:41,755
[laughs] We're having fun,
but we're being careful.
311
00:14:41,839 --> 00:14:45,968
So you're gonna buy the car
without the test drive?
312
00:14:46,051 --> 00:14:47,511
[laughs]
313
00:14:47,595 --> 00:14:51,473
-That's love. That's love.
-Listen, it's deeper than love.
314
00:14:52,308 --> 00:14:55,185
-I love that man, and he loves me.
-As you should.
315
00:14:55,269 --> 00:14:58,564
[laughs] You don't gotta pretend with me.
316
00:14:59,148 --> 00:15:00,691
Ain't no way!
317
00:15:00,774 --> 00:15:03,527
That girl is too spicy.
She's fucking that man! But...
318
00:15:03,611 --> 00:15:05,613
[laughing]
319
00:15:06,697 --> 00:15:10,910
Listen, I'm not... I'm not buying a car
320
00:15:10,993 --> 00:15:12,995
if I don't get a test drive, so...
321
00:15:13,078 --> 00:15:15,789
Good for her! But she's fucking that man.
322
00:15:15,873 --> 00:15:17,875
[laughing]
323
00:15:18,542 --> 00:15:19,543
I'm just...
324
00:15:19,627 --> 00:15:20,878
Love you, Amy.
325
00:15:20,961 --> 00:15:22,046
Girl, he gonna eat it up.
326
00:15:22,129 --> 00:15:24,131
One thing about Johnny,
he's gonna eat you up.
327
00:15:24,214 --> 00:15:27,343
-I'm sure. [laughs]
-He loves you. He loves you.
328
00:15:27,426 --> 00:15:29,136
'Cause the thing is,
if they were to say no...
329
00:15:30,179 --> 00:15:34,016
-"What are you doing?"
-The way that I would cut Johnny...
330
00:15:34,099 --> 00:15:36,060
-My trust issues...
-What do you think?
331
00:15:36,143 --> 00:15:39,313
Johnny, I don't think...
100%, like, he's gonna say yes.
332
00:15:39,396 --> 00:15:40,814
100% yes!
333
00:15:40,898 --> 00:15:43,359
I told him, "You better tell me,"
but I'm scared.
334
00:15:43,442 --> 00:15:45,527
I'm, like, 2% scared. Like, barely.
335
00:15:45,611 --> 00:15:48,781
But I'm scared that, like, once
you're actually present in the moment...
336
00:15:49,949 --> 00:15:53,452
You feel 98% yes.
337
00:15:53,535 --> 00:15:54,703
I'm ready for this.
338
00:15:56,789 --> 00:15:59,208
{\an8}Johnny, throw this next one
like Amy's watching.
339
00:15:59,291 --> 00:16:02,127
Oh!
340
00:16:02,211 --> 00:16:04,088
[Josh J.] Come on! Come on.
341
00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:08,550
{\an8}It's truly magical that,
like, we're closing a chapter of one book,
342
00:16:09,134 --> 00:16:10,928
and we're starting
the next chapter together.
343
00:16:11,804 --> 00:16:13,764
I can't wait. I really can't wait.
344
00:16:15,015 --> 00:16:17,101
[Clay] We're in a very good space.
345
00:16:17,184 --> 00:16:20,771
Like, the sex has been good,
like, the chemistry has been good, like...
346
00:16:20,854 --> 00:16:23,774
You know, in terms of her
just coming into my space
347
00:16:23,857 --> 00:16:25,192
and, like, just being comfortable,
348
00:16:25,275 --> 00:16:26,694
that's been perfect.
349
00:16:26,777 --> 00:16:28,445
It's just like best-friend vibes.
350
00:16:28,529 --> 00:16:29,863
Like, we just love each other.
351
00:16:29,947 --> 00:16:32,282
She really sees me
for, like, who I am as a person
352
00:16:32,366 --> 00:16:33,659
and, like, validates that.
353
00:16:33,742 --> 00:16:36,203
And, like, she's willing
to, like, go to bat for that.
354
00:16:36,286 --> 00:16:39,999
She's willing to, like, fight for me
and, like, keep this relationship going.
355
00:16:40,082 --> 00:16:41,875
'Cause I'm a lot. I'm a lot to deal with.
356
00:16:41,959 --> 00:16:44,086
Even y'all being my friends,
I'm a lot to handle
357
00:16:44,169 --> 00:16:46,588
and be around with on a daily basis.
358
00:16:46,672 --> 00:16:49,800
Anybody that's willing to fight for me,
I'm gonna fight for them as well,
359
00:16:49,883 --> 00:16:53,637
so to me,
it's like, I'll go to war with AD.
360
00:16:53,721 --> 00:16:55,180
She's willing to go to war with me.
361
00:16:55,848 --> 00:16:59,476
{\an8}I do love AD, and to me,
to love someone is a big deal.
362
00:16:59,560 --> 00:17:02,771
Even though I have a lot of my flaws,
I never had a woman
363
00:17:02,855 --> 00:17:06,692
be comfortable with my flaws,
and I cherish that fully.
364
00:17:06,775 --> 00:17:09,403
-I can tell she really loves me.
-[Nate] Okay.
365
00:17:09,987 --> 00:17:13,115
[Clay] Everybody's got their own ideas
of what they want with marriage.
366
00:17:13,198 --> 00:17:15,784
I wanna be the best father.
I wanna be the best husband.
367
00:17:15,868 --> 00:17:17,745
I feel like she deserves the best.
368
00:17:17,828 --> 00:17:20,372
You know, going through this with you,
just been seeing growth.
369
00:17:20,456 --> 00:17:21,457
You know what I'm saying?
370
00:17:21,540 --> 00:17:25,878
Um, I mean, the process is actually
working out the way it's supposed to.
371
00:17:25,961 --> 00:17:28,005
With me and AD working out,
372
00:17:28,088 --> 00:17:32,009
like, when the wedding day comes,
we could do that for a long haul.
373
00:17:32,092 --> 00:17:34,178
I'm grateful that I was able
374
00:17:34,261 --> 00:17:37,222
to look at myself and challenge myself
375
00:17:37,306 --> 00:17:39,725
and be better every single day,
376
00:17:39,808 --> 00:17:42,436
where I'm able to see myself as,
"Wow, I can get married."
377
00:17:43,020 --> 00:17:44,938
-It's fucking wild.
-It's really wild, man.
378
00:17:45,022 --> 00:17:46,523
Just me and you, like...
379
00:17:47,024 --> 00:17:48,609
[laughing] It's crazy.
380
00:17:48,692 --> 00:17:51,779
Like, I, like, I don't
even have words to say, like,
381
00:17:51,862 --> 00:17:55,365
my emotions and, like,
how I feel towards this moment.
382
00:17:55,949 --> 00:17:58,494
Cheers to us being the last two
though, honestly, Johnny.
383
00:17:58,577 --> 00:18:01,789
-I wouldn't have it any other way. Cheers.
-I wouldn't have it any other way either.
384
00:18:01,872 --> 00:18:03,332
[chuckles]
385
00:18:03,415 --> 00:18:05,876
And it's probably
what's meant to be, you know?
386
00:18:05,959 --> 00:18:10,130
Like, you know, I think that we've
both changed so much through this process,
387
00:18:10,214 --> 00:18:13,509
and we really dove in the experiment
and, like, gave it our all.
388
00:18:13,592 --> 00:18:14,927
We wore our heart on our sleeve.
389
00:18:15,886 --> 00:18:18,097
-I dove 100% into it. That's it.
-Mm-hmm.
390
00:18:18,180 --> 00:18:21,350
I was never, like,
iffy or "oh, whatever," like...
391
00:18:23,185 --> 00:18:24,978
Give 100%, and I like that.
392
00:18:25,062 --> 00:18:26,772
I mean, I do wanna fight for AD.
393
00:18:26,855 --> 00:18:30,234
Like, I can see myself married
to AD, you know?
394
00:18:32,402 --> 00:18:34,863
-Cheers to AD and Amy.
-AD and Amy.
395
00:18:40,410 --> 00:18:42,412
-["Better Together" playing]
-[vocalizing]
396
00:18:44,039 --> 00:18:46,625
{\an8}♪ I thought I needed you ♪
397
00:18:49,294 --> 00:18:52,047
{\an8}♪ Now I know I do ♪
398
00:18:52,548 --> 00:18:54,883
♪ We're better together ♪
399
00:18:57,136 --> 00:19:00,180
♪ We're so much better together... ♪
400
00:19:03,851 --> 00:19:05,144
Thank you.
401
00:19:07,521 --> 00:19:09,857
[gasps] This is so cute!
402
00:19:11,650 --> 00:19:14,444
{\an8}I'm feeling amazing. It's my wedding day!
403
00:19:14,528 --> 00:19:16,405
{\an8}[shouts, laughs]
404
00:19:16,947 --> 00:19:19,366
Oh, my gosh! [laughing]
405
00:19:20,868 --> 00:19:23,453
Oh, my gosh...
406
00:19:24,413 --> 00:19:29,835
♪ You and I, all day and night, yeah! ♪
407
00:19:29,918 --> 00:19:32,004
Shut up!
408
00:19:33,005 --> 00:19:34,298
I just never
409
00:19:34,381 --> 00:19:38,260
in a billion, gazillion, katrillion years
would have thought that I would be here.
410
00:19:38,343 --> 00:19:39,845
[gasps]
411
00:19:39,928 --> 00:19:41,513
[mutters]
412
00:19:41,597 --> 00:19:46,977
The first of seven siblings
to be getting married.
413
00:19:47,060 --> 00:19:49,062
And it's happening for me today.
414
00:19:49,146 --> 00:19:50,647
Oh, my gosh.
415
00:19:52,274 --> 00:19:55,527
I see a beautiful life,
a beautiful future with Clay.
416
00:19:55,611 --> 00:19:58,280
I think I showed him
over this course of time
417
00:19:58,363 --> 00:20:01,450
the kind of wife that I wanna be,
the kind of woman I wanna be in his life.
418
00:20:01,533 --> 00:20:04,703
And I think that's what got us this far,
to be completely honest,
419
00:20:04,786 --> 00:20:06,622
because without my confidence...
420
00:20:06,705 --> 00:20:09,958
[laughing] ...we would probably
be stuck in the pods somewhere.
421
00:20:10,751 --> 00:20:15,130
I want you to understand that, like,
if we do take this journey together,
422
00:20:15,214 --> 00:20:19,009
it is going to be a journey
of, like, roller coaster up and down,
423
00:20:19,092 --> 00:20:21,345
but it will never deter my love.
424
00:20:21,428 --> 00:20:23,764
-[Clay] Yeah.
-Like, I will never stop loving you.
425
00:20:25,140 --> 00:20:27,392
[Clay] I just wanna read this verse
if I could, okay?
426
00:20:27,476 --> 00:20:28,727
[AD] Mm-hmm.
427
00:20:28,810 --> 00:20:31,521
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart
428
00:20:31,605 --> 00:20:34,358
and lean not on your own understanding."
429
00:20:34,441 --> 00:20:36,443
"In all your ways, submit to Him."
430
00:20:36,526 --> 00:20:38,946
"And He will always
make your path straight."
431
00:20:39,029 --> 00:20:41,657
-Yeah.
-I didn't think I would fall in love.
432
00:20:41,740 --> 00:20:43,450
And, it's like, I did.
433
00:20:44,326 --> 00:20:45,244
[chuckles]
434
00:20:45,327 --> 00:20:47,246
[Clay] I'm ready
to take this next step with you.
435
00:20:47,329 --> 00:20:49,331
So, I need to know!
436
00:20:49,414 --> 00:20:53,377
Will you take my lovely hand in marriage
and walk this life with me?
437
00:20:53,460 --> 00:20:55,420
-And rock out with your boy, Clay?
-[shouts]
438
00:20:55,963 --> 00:20:56,880
[chuckles]
439
00:20:57,756 --> 00:20:59,925
[gasps] Oh, my gosh!
440
00:21:00,008 --> 00:21:02,844
-Yes, absolutely, 100%!
-[both laughing]
441
00:21:03,887 --> 00:21:05,055
Let's go!
442
00:21:05,138 --> 00:21:06,807
[shouting]
443
00:21:06,890 --> 00:21:08,558
[Clay] You definitely deserve love.
444
00:21:08,642 --> 00:21:12,020
I chose you, and that's why I'm here,
you know, for you to show me the way
445
00:21:12,104 --> 00:21:15,524
and just, like,
always love me for who I actually am.
446
00:21:15,607 --> 00:21:18,735
Like, to me, that was the most
validating thing I think I could have.
447
00:21:18,819 --> 00:21:21,363
I said it once.
I'll say it again. I got you.
448
00:21:21,446 --> 00:21:24,199
My dad cheated
year seven into the marriage.
449
00:21:24,908 --> 00:21:28,036
I just feel like it affected my mom.
450
00:21:28,120 --> 00:21:29,955
So it's like I'm very fearful.
451
00:21:30,038 --> 00:21:32,541
I don't wanna be in a situation
where I'm ever gonna cheat.
452
00:21:32,624 --> 00:21:34,167
-I'm not afraid.
-Mm-hmm.
453
00:21:34,251 --> 00:21:37,796
And I think there will be times
where I am, and I'll need you.
454
00:21:37,879 --> 00:21:39,756
And I think right now is a time
where you are,
455
00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:41,049
and you need me a bit more.
456
00:21:41,133 --> 00:21:42,926
-Yeah. Yeah.
-And I'm okay with that.
457
00:21:43,927 --> 00:21:46,054
-100%. I love hearing that.
-I'm okay with that.
458
00:21:46,138 --> 00:21:48,432
[Clay] You're my person
that I could come to for comfort.
459
00:21:48,515 --> 00:21:51,351
You've been awesome to me,
and me being with you,
460
00:21:51,435 --> 00:21:54,604
and, like, the person I've become,
it's, like, incredible.
461
00:21:54,688 --> 00:21:56,064
-Ooh, your whole body!
-[laughing]
462
00:21:56,148 --> 00:21:58,191
-I'm gonna pick this up.
-Aww!
463
00:21:59,276 --> 00:22:00,277
[Clay grunts]
464
00:22:03,989 --> 00:22:06,033
[shouting]
465
00:22:07,784 --> 00:22:09,619
[shouts] Hi!
466
00:22:11,413 --> 00:22:14,666
-Hi!
-[AD laughing] Oh, my God!
467
00:22:15,292 --> 00:22:16,710
Hi!
468
00:22:16,793 --> 00:22:18,420
{\an8}How are you feeling?
469
00:22:19,171 --> 00:22:22,090
-[humming]
-Wedding day!
470
00:22:22,758 --> 00:22:23,967
[all] ♪ It's wedding day! ♪
471
00:22:24,051 --> 00:22:25,135
[laughing]
472
00:22:25,927 --> 00:22:27,679
-[AD] So happy y'all are here.
-What is this?
473
00:22:27,763 --> 00:22:29,848
-[AD] This is Clay's ring.
-[Tesh] Wow!
474
00:22:29,931 --> 00:22:31,266
Is that "the ring"?
475
00:22:31,350 --> 00:22:32,225
The ring.
476
00:22:32,309 --> 00:22:34,603
You're gonna slide it on his finger,
then he's your husband.
477
00:22:34,686 --> 00:22:36,480
Then he's my husband.
478
00:22:36,563 --> 00:22:38,982
I fell in love with Clay because
479
00:22:39,775 --> 00:22:44,071
he is just so real
and so raw and authentic.
480
00:22:44,154 --> 00:22:47,282
And we just mesh together so well.
481
00:22:47,366 --> 00:22:51,370
Like, almost, like, perfectly,
I would say. It just fits.
482
00:22:51,453 --> 00:22:54,414
He makes me feel
like I can just be myself.
483
00:22:54,498 --> 00:22:57,751
I don't have to be
all giddy and bubbly all the time.
484
00:22:57,834 --> 00:23:00,712
Or however I'm feeling
in that moment, I can just be.
485
00:23:00,796 --> 00:23:04,174
I mean, you add that on top of the fact
that he's so fine
486
00:23:05,050 --> 00:23:06,343
and chocolate.
487
00:23:07,969 --> 00:23:10,722
It's really a recipe for greatness.
488
00:23:11,306 --> 00:23:12,933
-That's the ring.
-Just like that.
489
00:23:13,016 --> 00:23:14,476
It's happening.
490
00:23:14,559 --> 00:23:17,479
-Will you be my husband?
-[laughs]
491
00:23:17,562 --> 00:23:20,190
-["Love Somebody Again" playing]
-♪ I swore that I was done ♪
492
00:23:20,273 --> 00:23:22,192
♪ 'Cause nothing seems to last ♪
493
00:23:22,275 --> 00:23:26,488
♪ I had a broken heart
It couldn't fill those cracks ♪
494
00:23:26,571 --> 00:23:28,532
♪ I threw it all away ♪
495
00:23:28,615 --> 00:23:31,868
♪ I never thought
That I could love somebody ♪
496
00:23:31,952 --> 00:23:34,204
♪ Love somebody... ♪
497
00:23:34,287 --> 00:23:36,206
[Clay] Today is my wedding day.
498
00:23:36,289 --> 00:23:39,459
{\an8}I'm happy that I'm here,
and AD's rockin' with me, and I love her.
499
00:23:39,543 --> 00:23:41,128
♪ ...walking in ♪
500
00:23:41,211 --> 00:23:44,089
♪ I never thought
That I could love somebody... ♪
501
00:23:44,172 --> 00:23:47,592
This is the biggest decision
I'm gonna have to make, but I'm ready.
502
00:23:47,676 --> 00:23:49,136
Little celebration.
503
00:23:49,219 --> 00:23:52,180
One of the reasons why I fell in love
with her is that she believed in me.
504
00:23:52,264 --> 00:23:55,100
She's my best friend. I could ride
with her till the wheels fall off.
505
00:23:55,183 --> 00:23:57,269
Beauty does wear out as you get older,
506
00:23:57,352 --> 00:23:59,938
but who is that person that
you're connected with forever, you know?
507
00:24:00,021 --> 00:24:01,106
♪ You came walking in ♪
508
00:24:01,189 --> 00:24:04,901
♪ And now I know
That I can love somebody ♪
509
00:24:04,985 --> 00:24:08,029
♪ Love somebody again ♪
510
00:24:08,113 --> 00:24:09,322
-Nate!
-[Nate] What's up?
511
00:24:09,406 --> 00:24:10,907
{\an8}-What up? What up?
-How you doing, bro?
512
00:24:10,991 --> 00:24:13,201
{\an8}-[man 2] Hey.
-It's real good seeing you!
513
00:24:13,285 --> 00:24:14,786
{\an8}-[Clay] Langst!
-[Langston] What up?
514
00:24:14,870 --> 00:24:16,788
{\an8}-[Nate] Langst came with us!
-[laughing]
515
00:24:16,872 --> 00:24:18,832
-What's up, man? What up?
-That boy!
516
00:24:18,915 --> 00:24:21,460
{\an8}-What's good with you? How you feeling?
-Can't complain, man!
517
00:24:21,543 --> 00:24:23,086
{\an8}Feeling all right. Feeling all right.
518
00:24:23,170 --> 00:24:24,754
{\an8}-You look good!
-Oh, I appreciate it.
519
00:24:24,838 --> 00:24:26,590
It's dope. It's dope as hell, man.
520
00:24:26,673 --> 00:24:28,091
I'm not a perfect guy,
521
00:24:28,175 --> 00:24:31,303
and, um, everything about
our relationship hasn't been perfect.
522
00:24:31,386 --> 00:24:34,473
But it's been right for us. It's been
very on-brand, and that's what I love.
523
00:24:34,556 --> 00:24:36,099
-It's a big day, right?
-[Clay] Big day.
524
00:24:36,183 --> 00:24:38,685
Probably the biggest day
of your life at this point.
525
00:24:38,768 --> 00:24:43,565
So, uh, cheers to you, your growth,
taking that next step as a man.
526
00:24:43,648 --> 00:24:45,400
-Cheers to that.
-[Nate] It's serious, man.
527
00:24:45,484 --> 00:24:47,110
-[Josh J.] Hell yeah.
-Cheers to that.
528
00:24:47,194 --> 00:24:49,112
-[pop music playing]
-♪ ...your story ♪
529
00:24:49,196 --> 00:24:52,240
♪ Things in your passages here ♪
530
00:24:54,034 --> 00:24:55,327
{\an8}Hey, Ma!
531
00:24:55,410 --> 00:24:58,121
[laughing]
532
00:24:58,205 --> 00:25:00,624
Don't start. Don't start.
533
00:25:03,335 --> 00:25:05,921
-[Jacqueline] I'll keep it together.
-Keep it together.
534
00:25:06,671 --> 00:25:09,216
-Love you so much.
-There's time for crying. I love you too.
535
00:25:09,299 --> 00:25:10,342
You look good!
536
00:25:10,926 --> 00:25:12,427
You look so gorgeous.
537
00:25:12,928 --> 00:25:15,013
It's happening.
538
00:25:15,096 --> 00:25:16,097
-What?
-Mm!
539
00:25:16,181 --> 00:25:19,142
[AD] You wanna scream.
She wanna scream so bad!
540
00:25:19,226 --> 00:25:21,895
-[Jacqueline] I got some stuff.
-Yeah, come have a seat.
541
00:25:21,978 --> 00:25:23,355
I met someone.
542
00:25:23,438 --> 00:25:25,607
-You met someone?
-[Jacqueline] Yes.
543
00:25:26,233 --> 00:25:27,359
Clay's mom!
544
00:25:27,442 --> 00:25:30,153
[Tesh] Wow!
545
00:25:30,237 --> 00:25:32,697
-Did we not have a good time?
-I bet y'all did.
546
00:25:32,781 --> 00:25:34,741
-Yes, we did.
-Y'all are two peas in a damn pod!
547
00:25:34,824 --> 00:25:37,160
-[laughing]
-I know you did!
548
00:25:38,078 --> 00:25:40,038
-Yes.
-I know you did!
549
00:25:40,121 --> 00:25:41,790
Is she not solid?
550
00:25:41,873 --> 00:25:43,875
I told you!
551
00:25:43,959 --> 00:25:47,754
That's a good woman. That's who I would
have picked to be your mother-in-law.
552
00:25:47,837 --> 00:25:49,422
I would have picked her.
553
00:25:49,506 --> 00:25:52,300
Nothing less than...
I would have picked her.
554
00:25:52,884 --> 00:25:55,136
'Cause she was real.
555
00:25:56,805 --> 00:25:58,682
[voice breaking]
The way she talked about you.
556
00:26:00,016 --> 00:26:03,603
Clearly, I already knew that,
but the way that she talked about you.
557
00:26:03,687 --> 00:26:04,521
Yeah.
558
00:26:05,522 --> 00:26:08,024
That's, like, big, you know? So...
559
00:26:09,401 --> 00:26:12,487
[Tesh] Do you think Clay will be
a good husband or a good future father?
560
00:26:12,571 --> 00:26:14,906
I think Clay's gonna be a great daddy.
561
00:26:16,533 --> 00:26:17,367
Which kind?
562
00:26:17,450 --> 00:26:20,829
He's already just, like, such a protector,
such a provider already.
563
00:26:20,912 --> 00:26:24,249
Those are the two top qualities
that I'm looking for in a husband.
564
00:26:24,332 --> 00:26:25,834
-You gotta protect and provide.
-Right.
565
00:26:25,917 --> 00:26:29,296
And Clay's protecting and providing.
566
00:26:29,379 --> 00:26:32,382
-["Humans in Love" playing]
-♪ Why don't we touch? ♪
567
00:26:32,465 --> 00:26:35,051
♪ Like humans in love ♪
568
00:26:35,635 --> 00:26:36,970
[Nate] How are you mentally?
569
00:26:37,053 --> 00:26:39,681
{\an8}Do you feel like
you're ready for this right now?
570
00:26:39,764 --> 00:26:41,182
I am at peace with...
571
00:26:41,266 --> 00:26:45,103
{\an8}I'm happy of the man that I became,
like, through this process.
572
00:26:45,186 --> 00:26:48,607
{\an8}Like, I came
from one place of just being like,
573
00:26:48,690 --> 00:26:51,526
"There's no way
that I can even fall in love."
574
00:26:51,610 --> 00:26:54,070
Like, I felt like love
was just so distant from me,
575
00:26:54,154 --> 00:26:55,989
and, like, I found love in the pods.
576
00:26:56,573 --> 00:26:59,534
Like, to me, that's a big deal,
Nate, 'cause you know me.
577
00:26:59,618 --> 00:27:00,493
-I'm a...
-I know you.
578
00:27:00,577 --> 00:27:02,621
Like, I'm not that type of guy.
Know what I mean?
579
00:27:02,704 --> 00:27:04,122
I'm just not that type of guy.
580
00:27:04,205 --> 00:27:06,541
-You're not that guy!
-I'm not that guy! I'm not that guy!
581
00:27:06,625 --> 00:27:09,836
-Not that guy.
-Yeah, uh, but I became that guy.
582
00:27:09,919 --> 00:27:10,920
You know, I became him.
583
00:27:11,504 --> 00:27:13,381
-[Nate] Became him.
-[laughing] What's up, bro?
584
00:27:13,465 --> 00:27:16,926
No, I'm happy to hear that.
Just because, like... I don't know.
585
00:27:17,010 --> 00:27:20,388
Me and Langston, we know you.
Josh knows you. Josh knows you.
586
00:27:20,472 --> 00:27:21,389
-Yeah.
-Feel me?
587
00:27:21,473 --> 00:27:25,393
So I can tell you decided to open up more
and be more transparent.
588
00:27:25,477 --> 00:27:27,604
-Yeah. Yeah, that's a big deal.
-[Langston] I feel it.
589
00:27:27,687 --> 00:27:29,314
I wasn't as transparent.
590
00:27:29,397 --> 00:27:32,108
And I'm more emotionally vulnerable
and empathetic.
591
00:27:32,192 --> 00:27:35,320
AD has been really, you know, patient
with me with this whole experiment.
592
00:27:35,403 --> 00:27:36,237
That's good, bro.
593
00:27:36,321 --> 00:27:39,824
And I've never been in a position
where I chose somebody every day,
594
00:27:39,908 --> 00:27:42,452
chose somebody besides myself
every single day.
595
00:27:42,535 --> 00:27:44,913
Marriage, it's a two-man relay.
596
00:27:44,996 --> 00:27:46,581
{\an8}-Y'all have strengths.
-[Clay] Yeah.
597
00:27:46,665 --> 00:27:51,127
She may be best to pop it off,
and you may be a better closer, finisher.
598
00:27:51,211 --> 00:27:55,006
I think that's really
how you gotta think about marriage
599
00:27:55,090 --> 00:27:56,424
and being a team,
600
00:27:56,508 --> 00:27:59,010
despite you being an "I" person.
601
00:27:59,094 --> 00:28:01,513
Like, you still gotta pull your part,
602
00:28:01,596 --> 00:28:06,351
but you also have to find ways
to depend on your partner
603
00:28:06,434 --> 00:28:09,354
to boost you, enhance you, like...
604
00:28:09,437 --> 00:28:11,773
{\an8}-Motivate.
-[Josh U.] Motivate, yeah, all of that.
605
00:28:11,856 --> 00:28:14,150
No, definitely. It's a teamwork.
606
00:28:14,234 --> 00:28:15,110
Yeah, I need that.
607
00:28:15,193 --> 00:28:17,404
-'Cause I can't do that myself.
-Yeah!
608
00:28:17,487 --> 00:28:18,822
AD makes me feel like a man's man,
609
00:28:18,905 --> 00:28:22,158
and I can lead her in battle
of this game called life.
610
00:28:22,242 --> 00:28:23,993
So you know, she validates me,
611
00:28:24,077 --> 00:28:26,121
and she makes me
feel like a better version of myself.
612
00:28:26,204 --> 00:28:27,956
And I think that that's important
in marriage.
613
00:28:28,039 --> 00:28:30,959
I feel like this is like the finals
of a graded test paper,
614
00:28:31,042 --> 00:28:34,212
but, you know, we're here today,
and I'm here to ace it, so let's go.
615
00:28:34,295 --> 00:28:35,588
[pop music playing]
616
00:28:35,672 --> 00:28:38,717
♪ Tell me that you feel this way ♪
617
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:42,095
♪ I want you to feel the same... ♪
618
00:28:42,178 --> 00:28:44,305
-I wanna give you something.
-Okay.
619
00:28:44,389 --> 00:28:47,726
This was my grandmother's,
620
00:28:47,809 --> 00:28:50,061
and she gave it to my mother.
621
00:28:50,145 --> 00:28:52,689
-My mother gave it to me.
-[AD] Whoo!
622
00:28:52,772 --> 00:28:54,983
Oh, my gosh.
623
00:28:55,066 --> 00:28:58,445
What a delicate little thing. [laughing]
624
00:28:58,528 --> 00:28:59,446
It's...
625
00:28:59,529 --> 00:29:03,950
-It is her jade necklace that she had.
-[AD] Whoa!
626
00:29:04,033 --> 00:29:05,952
-Wow.
-[Jacqueline] And...
627
00:29:06,619 --> 00:29:08,872
Yeah. Yep, yep, beautiful.
628
00:29:08,955 --> 00:29:10,790
-[Tesh] So cute.
-[Tamicka] That's really nice.
629
00:29:10,874 --> 00:29:12,167
Thank you.
630
00:29:13,334 --> 00:29:15,128
-Thank you, Mother.
-Spread your wings though.
631
00:29:15,670 --> 00:29:18,089
♪ Tell me that you feel this way ♪
632
00:29:18,757 --> 00:29:21,384
{\an8}♪ I want you to feel the same... ♪
633
00:29:27,348 --> 00:29:28,224
Dad! [chuckles]
634
00:29:28,767 --> 00:29:30,810
-Clay, what's good? What's good?
-What's up?
635
00:29:30,894 --> 00:29:33,855
-I didn't think I was gonna even see you.
-[laughs] What's up, baby?
636
00:29:33,938 --> 00:29:36,399
-Hey, what's up, man?
-Good seeing you. Yeah.
637
00:29:36,483 --> 00:29:38,234
-You're looking good, man.
-I appreciate it.
638
00:29:38,318 --> 00:29:40,904
-[laughing]
-Whoo! God damn, Dad!
639
00:29:40,987 --> 00:29:43,239
God damn, you gotta outshine me?
640
00:29:43,323 --> 00:29:46,159
-So help me with my tux.
-Yeah, no problem.
641
00:29:46,242 --> 00:29:49,662
-You told me green. You know.
-Yeah, I like that! Dang!
642
00:29:51,706 --> 00:29:54,626
-Drop your hands before you pull that up.
-Okay.
643
00:29:54,709 --> 00:29:56,795
Go ahead, put your hands in. Good.
644
00:29:56,878 --> 00:29:58,588
This way it comes up evenly.
645
00:29:58,671 --> 00:30:00,048
-Nice.
-Yes, sir.
646
00:30:00,131 --> 00:30:01,674
-How you feeling?
-Feeling good, man.
647
00:30:01,758 --> 00:30:02,592
Good.
648
00:30:02,675 --> 00:30:04,177
Dad, you know, I got your watch.
649
00:30:04,260 --> 00:30:06,596
-[laughing]
-I'mma put that on right in the moment.
650
00:30:06,679 --> 00:30:09,849
-That's what's up. That's what's up.
-I can't believe. This suit is too clean.
651
00:30:09,933 --> 00:30:12,352
-[laughing] Stop.
-Ain't that like...
652
00:30:12,435 --> 00:30:14,437
You looking sharp, man.
653
00:30:14,521 --> 00:30:16,231
-Well, I appreciate it, man.
-Yeah, yeah.
654
00:30:16,314 --> 00:30:18,983
-Clay, you know what I was laughing at?
-What?
655
00:30:19,067 --> 00:30:21,820
-Before you got into track and field...
-Yeah.
656
00:30:21,903 --> 00:30:24,447
...when I took you out running,
the first time, I beat you.
657
00:30:24,531 --> 00:30:26,616
-[Clay] Yeah, yeah.
-I'm talking all this stuff.
658
00:30:26,699 --> 00:30:29,035
"You gotta do this.
You gotta do that," right?
659
00:30:29,118 --> 00:30:32,497
-And then one day you beat me so bad.
-Yeah.
660
00:30:32,580 --> 00:30:34,123
[laughing]
661
00:30:34,207 --> 00:30:37,877
You were way before me!
I couldn't believe it!
662
00:30:37,961 --> 00:30:40,713
I felt good. Like, "Okay,
yeah, damn, I must be getting better
663
00:30:40,797 --> 00:30:41,923
or Dad's out of shape."
664
00:30:42,006 --> 00:30:43,967
-[laughing]
-I wasn't out of shape.
665
00:30:44,467 --> 00:30:45,343
-You were just...
-Yeah.
666
00:30:45,426 --> 00:30:48,012
-On another level.
-You took your thing to another level.
667
00:30:48,096 --> 00:30:50,098
-Because track was always my thing.
-Yeah. Yeah.
668
00:30:50,181 --> 00:30:53,643
You know, high school, All-American.
College, All-American.
669
00:30:53,726 --> 00:30:56,521
United States, um, Olympic teams.
670
00:30:56,604 --> 00:30:59,858
I came as close as the Millrose Games,
and I pulled that hamstring.
671
00:30:59,941 --> 00:31:03,236
-[Clay] I remember. You told me.
-But outside of that, I was just...
672
00:31:03,319 --> 00:31:06,364
-I was living vicariously through you.
-Yeah, yeah.
673
00:31:06,447 --> 00:31:09,826
-I just wanted you to get where...
-The highest I could get to.
674
00:31:09,909 --> 00:31:11,953
-Let me tell you. We got there, man.
-We got there.
675
00:31:12,036 --> 00:31:13,413
I couldn't be more proud.
676
00:31:14,330 --> 00:31:16,249
It's every father's dream,
677
00:31:16,332 --> 00:31:20,503
you know,
to have kids that are successful, and...
678
00:31:20,587 --> 00:31:21,963
[scoffs]
679
00:31:22,046 --> 00:31:25,049
I don't even have to tell you
anything about you, you know?
680
00:31:25,133 --> 00:31:27,218
-But, um, but you know...
-Yeah.
681
00:31:27,302 --> 00:31:29,470
I gotta tell you this, okay?
682
00:31:29,554 --> 00:31:32,599
A lot of what I was sharing with you guys
683
00:31:32,682 --> 00:31:36,019
and with sincerity,
um, I didn't get from my father.
684
00:31:36,102 --> 00:31:38,479
-'Cause my father wasn't...
-He wasn't present.
685
00:31:38,563 --> 00:31:41,858
He wasn't present.
You know, he was doing his own thing.
686
00:31:41,941 --> 00:31:43,276
Your grandmother was present.
687
00:31:43,359 --> 00:31:44,360
-Yeah.
-She was there.
688
00:31:44,444 --> 00:31:47,739
Even though I've never seen
any other man but my father, right,
689
00:31:47,822 --> 00:31:51,326
he came into the house, he was just like,
you know, he was in his own world.
690
00:31:51,409 --> 00:31:52,744
Yeah, didn't wanna be bothered.
691
00:31:52,827 --> 00:31:56,164
But for me, here's what
your grandmother always said to me.
692
00:31:58,082 --> 00:31:59,667
"Treat your wife well."
693
00:31:59,751 --> 00:32:01,419
-"Be good to your kids."
-[Clay] Yeah.
694
00:32:01,502 --> 00:32:03,588
She didn't have to tell me
to be good to my kids.
695
00:32:03,671 --> 00:32:05,089
-That came natural.
-[Clay] Yeah.
696
00:32:07,675 --> 00:32:10,845
You know, when it comes
to right and wrong, it doesn't matter.
697
00:32:10,929 --> 00:32:13,306
It doesn't matter if everybody else
698
00:32:13,389 --> 00:32:16,976
is, like, in your ear telling you,
"Do this, do that."
699
00:32:17,060 --> 00:32:18,603
-You gotta trust yourself.
-Yeah.
700
00:32:18,686 --> 00:32:21,147
Me and my dad haven't really had
too much deep conversations.
701
00:32:21,230 --> 00:32:25,026
Like, in terms of words, that was
the most he poured in me my whole life.
702
00:32:25,610 --> 00:32:28,613
You know, my dad
was married to my mom for 25 years.
703
00:32:28,696 --> 00:32:31,407
My dad used to take me with him
when he used to cheat on my mom.
704
00:32:31,491 --> 00:32:32,659
My mom never knew that.
705
00:32:32,742 --> 00:32:34,619
I wanna know,
"Were you in love the whole time?"
706
00:32:34,702 --> 00:32:36,454
I've seen him
from a different perspective,
707
00:32:36,537 --> 00:32:40,208
and there's a gray area
when it comes to marriage,
708
00:32:40,291 --> 00:32:42,085
and I'm just so big on that gray area,
709
00:32:42,168 --> 00:32:44,545
and I just don't hear too many men
articulate that gray area.
710
00:32:44,629 --> 00:32:47,215
Couple hours, man,
it's gonna be the big stage, you know.
711
00:32:47,298 --> 00:32:50,134
But, you know, one thing about me, Dad,
I'm used to big stages.
712
00:32:50,218 --> 00:32:52,804
-I'm used to the pressure.
-Yeah, no doubt.
713
00:32:52,887 --> 00:32:55,556
It's nothing that I ain't used to,
you know. It's a Gravesande thing.
714
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,266
I feel good. I feel at peace.
715
00:32:57,350 --> 00:32:59,185
I've grown so much through this process,
716
00:32:59,268 --> 00:33:00,687
and I'm so happy with that.
717
00:33:00,770 --> 00:33:01,854
And, you know, AD,
718
00:33:01,938 --> 00:33:03,690
you know, she was an amazing person
719
00:33:03,773 --> 00:33:05,984
that I connected with
through this process.
720
00:33:06,067 --> 00:33:09,237
But, uh, in this moment,
it's just, like, so surreal.
721
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:11,739
Like, so much things
are going through my head.
722
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,909
Uh, so I'm kind of, like, overwhelmed.
I'm not gonna lie.
723
00:33:14,993 --> 00:33:17,620
You think you're beaten, you are.
You think you dare not, you don't.
724
00:33:17,704 --> 00:33:21,416
If you'd like to win, but think you can't,
it's almost a cinch you won't, right?
725
00:33:21,499 --> 00:33:23,501
If you think you'll lose, you've lost.
726
00:33:23,584 --> 00:33:26,045
Out in the world, you find
success begins with a fearless will.
727
00:33:26,129 --> 00:33:27,588
So all in the state of mind.
728
00:33:27,672 --> 00:33:29,924
If you think you're outclassed, you are.
Gotta think high.
729
00:33:30,008 --> 00:33:31,509
You gotta be sure of yourself.
730
00:33:31,592 --> 00:33:33,177
-You, okay?
-[Clay] Mm-hmm.
731
00:33:33,261 --> 00:33:35,054
You know, if you wanna win that prize,
732
00:33:35,138 --> 00:33:39,058
it comes down to life doesn't always go
to the faster or stronger man,
733
00:33:39,142 --> 00:33:42,186
but the one who wins
is the one who thinks he can.
734
00:33:42,270 --> 00:33:44,522
-It's just believing in who you are.
-Yeah, yeah.
735
00:33:44,605 --> 00:33:46,941
My dad always was a suave guy.
I looked up to my dad.
736
00:33:47,025 --> 00:33:48,651
I loved how smooth he was.
737
00:33:48,735 --> 00:33:52,071
So the pros of my dad,
I identified and wanted to be like my dad.
738
00:33:52,155 --> 00:33:55,241
But I didn't know
that I took some of his cons as well.
739
00:33:55,324 --> 00:33:58,703
And this process is bringing
a lot of truth to me.
740
00:33:58,786 --> 00:34:01,789
And, uh, it's just tough
741
00:34:01,873 --> 00:34:04,292
to look yourself
in the mirror and be like...
742
00:34:06,294 --> 00:34:08,713
"I'm causing a lot of issues in my life."
743
00:34:08,796 --> 00:34:11,257
"I'm causing a lot of stress in my life."
744
00:34:13,676 --> 00:34:16,804
I believe that me being married
will be great for me.
745
00:34:16,888 --> 00:34:21,184
And although people will say,
"Don't let your past dictate your future,"
746
00:34:21,267 --> 00:34:23,478
the man he is, I'm a lot like my dad.
747
00:34:24,854 --> 00:34:26,647
You know, this thing called life, man.
748
00:34:26,731 --> 00:34:28,983
-Yeah.
-Just stay true to yourself. Love you.
749
00:34:29,067 --> 00:34:31,402
-[grunts] Oh, man, appreciate you coming.
-Appreciate you.
750
00:34:31,486 --> 00:34:32,737
-Thanks, man. Yeah.
-All right.
751
00:34:32,820 --> 00:34:34,405
-Enjoy yourself, man.
-Oh, yeah, no doubt.
752
00:34:34,489 --> 00:34:36,365
Yeah. We have some drinks too.
753
00:34:36,449 --> 00:34:37,658
-[Trevor] No, I'm good.
-Yeah.
754
00:34:37,742 --> 00:34:40,953
-So I can leave out this way?
-Yep. I'll see you, Dad. I love you, man.
755
00:34:41,037 --> 00:34:42,330
-[Trevor] Mm-hmm.
-Yep.
756
00:34:43,122 --> 00:34:44,290
[Trevor exhales] Love you.
757
00:34:44,373 --> 00:34:47,710
[pop music playing]
758
00:34:47,794 --> 00:34:53,549
♪ All this love ♪
759
00:34:53,633 --> 00:34:58,596
♪ All this love ♪
760
00:34:58,679 --> 00:35:03,434
♪ Is waiting here for you, you... ♪
761
00:35:03,518 --> 00:35:05,603
-[sighs]
-[Tesh] Wow. You look so good.
762
00:35:05,686 --> 00:35:07,021
-Yeah?
-[Tesh] Yeah.
763
00:35:07,105 --> 00:35:09,357
♪ All this love... ♪
764
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:12,568
-My goodness.
-[Tesh] Oh, my God!
765
00:35:12,652 --> 00:35:14,862
-[chuckles]
-[Tesh] Oh, my God!
766
00:35:14,946 --> 00:35:16,447
Yes!
767
00:35:16,531 --> 00:35:18,533
-Wow! Wow!
-Oh, my God!
768
00:35:18,616 --> 00:35:20,243
-Wow. Wow!
-[AD laughs]
769
00:35:20,326 --> 00:35:22,203
[Tamicka] Gorgeous. Beautiful.
770
00:35:22,286 --> 00:35:25,706
[Tesh] Look at that shape.
That's a perfect fit.
771
00:35:25,790 --> 00:35:27,708
-[Jacqueline] Mm-hmm.
-[Tamicka] Oh, yes.
772
00:35:27,792 --> 00:35:30,670
-[Tesh] You look good!
-[Tamicka] Oh, my gosh, Amber!
773
00:35:30,753 --> 00:35:32,421
-Look at you.
-[Tamicka] Oh, my God.
774
00:35:32,505 --> 00:35:34,006
[AD] That leg, yeah.
775
00:35:34,090 --> 00:35:36,092
-[humming]
-[laughing]
776
00:35:36,175 --> 00:35:38,511
Wait. Get it! Get it!
Get it! Get it! Get it! Get it!
777
00:35:38,594 --> 00:35:40,429
-The heels with that.
-Look at you!
778
00:35:41,472 --> 00:35:43,474
This is the necklace Clay gave me.
779
00:35:43,558 --> 00:35:45,560
-[all] Aww!
-[laughing]
780
00:35:46,310 --> 00:35:47,895
Figure I'd throw it on.
781
00:35:47,979 --> 00:35:50,022
Aw, he's not gonna be able to talk.
782
00:35:50,106 --> 00:35:51,107
[laughing]
783
00:35:51,190 --> 00:35:53,484
But he will get out an "I do."
784
00:35:53,568 --> 00:35:55,444
But he's gonna absolutely say,
785
00:35:55,528 --> 00:35:59,031
"I knew that voice
on the other side of that was for me."
786
00:35:59,115 --> 00:36:00,074
Yeah.
787
00:36:00,158 --> 00:36:01,909
-[Jacqueline] You got this.
-[AD] Yeah.
788
00:36:02,535 --> 00:36:03,744
You're gorgeous.
789
00:36:03,828 --> 00:36:04,662
Thank you.
790
00:36:05,246 --> 00:36:07,373
You see all these women
and young people behind you?
791
00:36:09,834 --> 00:36:11,878
We are family. We're here.
792
00:36:12,879 --> 00:36:14,922
So gorgeous.
793
00:36:16,841 --> 00:36:17,717
Thank you.
794
00:36:18,467 --> 00:36:19,468
[Jacqueline] Go out there
795
00:36:19,552 --> 00:36:22,722
and enjoy your day, your moment
796
00:36:22,805 --> 00:36:25,057
and, um, fly.
797
00:36:25,141 --> 00:36:26,809
-Just...
-Thank you.
798
00:36:27,977 --> 00:36:30,646
-[sniffles] Love you, Jack.
-Love you more, AD.
799
00:36:30,730 --> 00:36:32,773
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
800
00:36:33,816 --> 00:36:36,652
{\an8}Standing here in this beautiful gown
801
00:36:36,736 --> 00:36:40,948
{\an8}seconds away from
walking down the aisle to my fiancé,
802
00:36:41,032 --> 00:36:42,074
I have butterflies.
803
00:36:42,158 --> 00:36:44,619
[laughs] I am a little shaky.
804
00:36:44,702 --> 00:36:47,288
-I got you.
-I know.
805
00:36:48,706 --> 00:36:51,959
Clay and I,
we both come from divorced parents.
806
00:36:52,043 --> 00:36:56,714
It's very rare that you see, like,
people fighting for each other.
807
00:36:57,465 --> 00:36:59,842
But it's like when you find someone
that will fight with you
808
00:36:59,926 --> 00:37:01,302
and fight for you...
809
00:37:04,388 --> 00:37:06,057
it's worth it, for sure.
810
00:37:07,808 --> 00:37:10,436
I just never envisioned this for me,
811
00:37:10,519 --> 00:37:12,480
and the fact that it's happening...
812
00:37:14,398 --> 00:37:16,317
is... [laughs]
813
00:37:17,235 --> 00:37:18,402
is crazy.
814
00:37:18,903 --> 00:37:20,905
-["With Me" playing]
-♪ Are you with me? ♪
815
00:37:22,114 --> 00:37:25,076
♪ These old words are never told ♪
816
00:37:25,159 --> 00:37:29,413
♪ But lately I've been feeling ♪
817
00:37:29,497 --> 00:37:32,041
♪ So much bolder than before... ♪
818
00:37:32,124 --> 00:37:33,793
[chattering]
819
00:37:33,876 --> 00:37:36,045
♪ So here it goes ♪
820
00:37:40,925 --> 00:37:42,843
♪ I love you ♪
821
00:37:42,927 --> 00:37:45,012
♪ Do you hear me? ♪
822
00:37:45,096 --> 00:37:47,181
♪ Can you feel me? ♪
823
00:37:47,265 --> 00:37:49,850
♪ Are you with me? ♪
824
00:37:57,775 --> 00:37:58,776
Whoa, Mom.
825
00:37:58,859 --> 00:38:01,237
How do you feel seeing
my name up here? [laughing]
826
00:38:01,320 --> 00:38:03,531
It is... weird.
827
00:38:03,614 --> 00:38:05,700
-[laughing]
-Uh, but...
828
00:38:06,450 --> 00:38:07,910
[Clay] I appreciate you being here.
829
00:38:07,994 --> 00:38:10,162
At the end of the day,
that's the most important thing.
830
00:38:10,246 --> 00:38:12,915
-Mm. I love you, Mom.
-I love you too.
831
00:38:12,999 --> 00:38:15,418
I love you. I always was a mama's boy.
832
00:38:15,501 --> 00:38:17,920
-You always will be, you know?
-[laughing]
833
00:38:18,004 --> 00:38:20,798
-Yeah.
-But you look good, and I'm proud of you.
834
00:38:20,881 --> 00:38:24,385
And, you know, whatever the decision is,
I support you completely.
835
00:38:24,468 --> 00:38:25,303
[Clay] Mm-hmm.
836
00:38:25,386 --> 00:38:27,221
-This is Grandma's ring.
-I know.
837
00:38:27,305 --> 00:38:29,015
-I wanted to make sure she was here.
-Mm-hmm.
838
00:38:29,098 --> 00:38:30,349
She's a silent partner.
839
00:38:30,433 --> 00:38:32,727
-She's a silent partner.
-[laughing]
840
00:38:32,810 --> 00:38:34,562
This is, uh, surreal.
841
00:38:35,104 --> 00:38:35,938
Are you good?
842
00:38:36,022 --> 00:38:38,357
I'm good. I'm positive. I feel good.
843
00:38:38,441 --> 00:38:41,444
[Margarita] Just yield into your feelings.
844
00:38:41,527 --> 00:38:43,279
-You know? Um...
-Yep.
845
00:38:44,322 --> 00:38:46,449
You are amazing. You guys look good.
846
00:38:46,532 --> 00:38:48,326
-I can't wait to see her.
-Mm-hmm. Me too.
847
00:38:48,409 --> 00:38:51,996
And when you see her, you're going to
get emotional. I'm telling you.
848
00:38:52,079 --> 00:38:55,583
Because there's something about
seeing her walk down the aisle.
849
00:38:55,666 --> 00:38:58,961
I don't know really what it is,
but it is something powerful.
850
00:38:59,045 --> 00:39:01,047
-[Clay] Mm-hmm.
-Um...
851
00:39:02,923 --> 00:39:05,384
-So just yield into it.
-Yeah, yes.
852
00:39:05,468 --> 00:39:07,261
-Embrace it, you know?
-Yes.
853
00:39:07,345 --> 00:39:09,972
-I think we're about to go, Ma.
-[Margarita] You good?
854
00:39:10,056 --> 00:39:12,224
[Clay] I'm good.
I'm at peace, peace, peace.
855
00:39:12,308 --> 00:39:13,809
-Divine order.
-Thank you, Jesus.
856
00:39:13,893 --> 00:39:16,562
-Thank you, Father, for your blessing.
-[Clay] Thank you.
857
00:39:18,314 --> 00:39:21,567
[dramatic music playing]
858
00:39:28,657 --> 00:39:29,992
It's the real moment. [chuckles]
859
00:39:30,076 --> 00:39:32,411
[Margarita] As it should be,
but you deserve it.
860
00:39:32,495 --> 00:39:34,872
[Clay] Yep, yep, yep, yep. Hello.
861
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:39,460
Taylor.
862
00:39:41,212 --> 00:39:42,713
How you doing? You doing all right?
863
00:39:44,048 --> 00:39:46,258
-How I'm looking? I'm looking good?
-You look amazing.
864
00:39:46,342 --> 00:39:48,177
Like a husband? [laughs]
865
00:39:48,260 --> 00:39:49,762
-Let's go.
-[Margarita] He's nervous.
866
00:39:49,845 --> 00:39:50,846
[Taylor] I know he is.
867
00:39:50,930 --> 00:39:52,348
{\an8}That's okay.
868
00:39:52,431 --> 00:39:55,267
[pop music playing]
869
00:39:55,351 --> 00:40:00,481
♪ Oh, I know, know, know
Where I wanna be ♪
870
00:40:02,441 --> 00:40:07,613
{\an8}♪ Maybe one day we'll have a family ♪
871
00:40:10,282 --> 00:40:14,161
♪ Marry me ♪
872
00:40:14,245 --> 00:40:17,206
♪ Whoa-oh ♪
873
00:40:17,289 --> 00:40:22,002
♪ Marry me ♪
874
00:40:22,086 --> 00:40:24,505
♪ Whoa-oh ♪
875
00:40:24,588 --> 00:40:25,756
[gasps]
876
00:40:27,299 --> 00:40:29,677
[wedding march playing]
877
00:40:32,555 --> 00:40:33,389
[gasps]
878
00:40:38,269 --> 00:40:41,272
[gasping]
879
00:40:49,488 --> 00:40:50,656
Oh, my...
880
00:40:52,741 --> 00:40:53,826
[laughs]
881
00:40:57,538 --> 00:41:01,959
It's okay. It's okay.
It's okay. You worked for this.
882
00:41:02,042 --> 00:41:03,461
It's fine, okay?
883
00:41:06,088 --> 00:41:07,882
-[attendees chattering]
-[AD laughs]
884
00:41:11,469 --> 00:41:12,470
[woman 3] Let's go, girl.
885
00:41:12,553 --> 00:41:14,096
[laughing] Okay.
886
00:41:17,808 --> 00:41:20,728
[laughing]
887
00:41:21,770 --> 00:41:22,646
[gasps]
888
00:41:22,730 --> 00:41:23,898
Okay! Body.
889
00:41:23,981 --> 00:41:25,649
Do you see the material?
890
00:41:27,151 --> 00:41:28,068
[gasps]
891
00:41:28,152 --> 00:41:30,613
Oh, my God. [laughing]
892
00:41:30,696 --> 00:41:31,947
-[chuckles] You okay?
-[AD] No.
893
00:41:33,365 --> 00:41:34,742
Oh, my God.
894
00:41:35,242 --> 00:41:37,077
-Oh, you look good.
-Thank you.
895
00:41:37,161 --> 00:41:39,413
-Look at you. Got that shit on.
-Period.
896
00:41:39,497 --> 00:41:40,664
[Clay chuckles]
897
00:41:41,415 --> 00:41:42,416
Hi!
898
00:41:43,709 --> 00:41:45,669
-You look good.
-Look at you. Dang!
899
00:41:45,753 --> 00:41:47,671
-[laughing]
-[minister] You all may be seated.
900
00:41:48,589 --> 00:41:49,507
[AD] Oh, my God.
901
00:41:49,590 --> 00:41:51,884
You okay? You look beautiful.
902
00:41:51,967 --> 00:41:54,220
-Thank you. Like it?
-Look good in the chain, beautiful.
903
00:41:54,803 --> 00:41:55,930
Thank you, baby.
904
00:41:56,013 --> 00:41:58,974
[minister] I would like
to welcome you all to a grand union.
905
00:41:59,934 --> 00:42:01,268
A union of two.
906
00:42:02,686 --> 00:42:03,896
A dedication.
907
00:42:04,897 --> 00:42:07,608
Many have chosen lifelong partnerships,
908
00:42:07,691 --> 00:42:10,611
but today, we celebrate yours.
909
00:42:10,694 --> 00:42:11,946
Your love,
910
00:42:12,488 --> 00:42:15,199
your time, your declaration.
911
00:42:16,909 --> 00:42:20,496
Today, we celebrate
the union of Clay and Amber.
912
00:42:21,830 --> 00:42:25,668
You chose to get engaged
and spend the rest of your lives together
913
00:42:25,751 --> 00:42:28,837
based on a deep emotional connection.
914
00:42:29,922 --> 00:42:33,759
You fell in love with each other
based on who you are in the inside
915
00:42:34,385 --> 00:42:37,429
and decided to get married sight unseen.
916
00:42:38,889 --> 00:42:41,642
AD, the whole sight unseen,
you already know I was resistant to that.
917
00:42:41,725 --> 00:42:42,560
Very much.
918
00:42:42,643 --> 00:42:44,853
"I need to know what you look like
before I propose."
919
00:42:45,604 --> 00:42:46,939
You came through. You popped out.
920
00:42:47,022 --> 00:42:49,858
I saw you,
and I was like, "I can work with that."
921
00:42:49,942 --> 00:42:52,361
-[laughing] I gave you something.
-You know?
922
00:42:52,444 --> 00:42:53,320
[AD] Something.
923
00:42:54,280 --> 00:42:56,699
But, honestly, AD, I feel as though, like,
924
00:42:56,782 --> 00:42:58,951
I became such a better man
dealing with you
925
00:42:59,034 --> 00:43:02,079
through this whole process,
and I wanna thank you for your patience,
926
00:43:02,162 --> 00:43:05,165
'cause Lord knows, I'm a lot to handle,
927
00:43:05,249 --> 00:43:07,418
a lot to deal with,
and just your patience,
928
00:43:07,501 --> 00:43:10,462
and you know, you just being able
to be adaptable with me,
929
00:43:10,546 --> 00:43:11,964
navigate through the turbulence.
930
00:43:12,047 --> 00:43:16,176
I always said the reason I love you is
the fact that whenever we have an issue,
931
00:43:16,260 --> 00:43:18,470
we are able to come back the next day,
and talk about it
932
00:43:18,554 --> 00:43:19,638
and get to another point.
933
00:43:20,389 --> 00:43:22,266
I love that fact.
It's a real relationship.
934
00:43:22,349 --> 00:43:25,269
And although this has been
an expedited process,
935
00:43:25,352 --> 00:43:27,354
I think me and you have been so authentic.
936
00:43:27,438 --> 00:43:29,940
We've had those real
uncomfortable conversations
937
00:43:30,024 --> 00:43:31,525
and got to the point we're at now.
938
00:43:31,609 --> 00:43:32,443
Yeah.
939
00:43:33,527 --> 00:43:35,446
It's like I'm so happy that we're here.
940
00:43:36,196 --> 00:43:39,116
-The mental fortitude to go through...
-[exhales] Talk about it.
941
00:43:39,199 --> 00:43:42,202
...together, and it just shows
that we are a fantastic team.
942
00:43:42,286 --> 00:43:43,203
Yeah.
943
00:43:44,788 --> 00:43:47,625
I gotta give a shout-out to you
for just looking out for me.
944
00:43:47,708 --> 00:43:49,710
-For real.
-[laughing] I got you. I got you.
945
00:43:49,793 --> 00:43:50,878
[Clay] Thank you, girl.
946
00:43:52,421 --> 00:43:53,631
-This is crazy.
-[laughing]
947
00:43:55,674 --> 00:43:57,259
Clay, honestly, from the moment
948
00:43:57,343 --> 00:44:00,095
that we actually really started connecting
in the pods,
949
00:44:00,679 --> 00:44:02,181
my life has never been the same.
950
00:44:03,891 --> 00:44:05,768
You are a safe space for me.
951
00:44:06,518 --> 00:44:09,563
You are a home for me.
We speak the same language.
952
00:44:09,647 --> 00:44:11,690
-We love the same things.
-Mm-hmm.
953
00:44:12,650 --> 00:44:14,985
You are beautiful. You are intelligent.
954
00:44:15,694 --> 00:44:18,113
I love how raw you are, authentic.
955
00:44:19,114 --> 00:44:22,743
How personable and fun you are.
Like, I love that we can just...
956
00:44:22,826 --> 00:44:24,203
-[shouts, screams]
-Yeah, yep, yep.
957
00:44:24,286 --> 00:44:26,038
-[AD] Any minute of the day!
-[Clay laughs]
958
00:44:26,121 --> 00:44:28,123
-[AD] Like, it doesn't even matter.
-[Clay] Yeah.
959
00:44:29,208 --> 00:44:32,127
I think you are
a very powerful, powerful man.
960
00:44:32,878 --> 00:44:35,047
I see things in you
that maybe you don't see.
961
00:44:35,130 --> 00:44:35,964
[Clay] Mm-hmm.
962
00:44:36,048 --> 00:44:39,218
And those are things
that I wanna continue to nourish for you,
963
00:44:39,301 --> 00:44:40,552
because I trust you.
964
00:44:40,636 --> 00:44:43,597
-Yeah.
-I just appreciate the man that you are.
965
00:44:44,723 --> 00:44:47,851
And I appreciate the fact
that we've even got this far.
966
00:44:47,935 --> 00:44:50,145
-[laughing] 'Cause...
-I know.
967
00:44:51,522 --> 00:44:54,525
-The work had to be put in.
-Okay. And you put in the work.
968
00:44:54,608 --> 00:44:56,110
-You put in the work.
-[Clay] Mm-hmm.
969
00:44:56,193 --> 00:44:58,654
That's why we're here,
and I'm so proud of you,
970
00:44:58,737 --> 00:45:00,155
and I will always be proud of you.
971
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:03,575
I'll always be your biggest fan,
your biggest cheerleader. Always.
972
00:45:04,326 --> 00:45:05,160
Wow.
973
00:45:06,870 --> 00:45:09,707
[minister] Clay and Amber,
you chose each other
974
00:45:10,374 --> 00:45:13,001
based on an intense emotional connection.
975
00:45:13,085 --> 00:45:13,919
[exhales]
976
00:45:14,002 --> 00:45:17,256
[minister] Looks, age, finances,
977
00:45:17,339 --> 00:45:21,051
all the superficial things of the world
were not a factor for you two.
978
00:45:21,135 --> 00:45:23,637
-I didn't say all that.
-[laughing]
979
00:45:23,721 --> 00:45:25,472
[laughing]
980
00:45:25,556 --> 00:45:27,683
Clay, Amber,
981
00:45:27,766 --> 00:45:30,310
as you stand here today
before one another,
982
00:45:30,394 --> 00:45:32,354
take note that after you speak your vows,
983
00:45:33,063 --> 00:45:34,690
your lives will never be the same.
984
00:45:37,776 --> 00:45:41,280
As in Proverbs 3:5,
985
00:45:41,822 --> 00:45:44,700
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart
986
00:45:44,783 --> 00:45:47,035
and lean not on your own understanding."
987
00:45:48,620 --> 00:45:52,416
"In all your ways, submit to Him,
and He will make your path straight."
988
00:45:54,877 --> 00:45:56,754
Now it's time to decide
989
00:45:58,005 --> 00:45:59,506
if love is blind.
990
00:46:04,762 --> 00:46:08,140
Will you get married
and commit to face your life together
991
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:10,100
as husband and wife
992
00:46:10,601 --> 00:46:12,978
or will you walk away forever?
993
00:46:13,061 --> 00:46:14,563
My heart is racing.
994
00:46:16,899 --> 00:46:19,526
-My heart is, like, beating.
-I know. Me too. Me too.
995
00:46:24,114 --> 00:46:26,200
-Amber.
-Whoa. [exhales, chuckles]
996
00:46:28,786 --> 00:46:32,831
Do you take Clay
to live together in the union of marriage,
997
00:46:33,749 --> 00:46:36,752
to take him as your best friend
and partner in life,
998
00:46:37,252 --> 00:46:40,255
to honor, cherish and love him
999
00:46:40,923 --> 00:46:42,090
from this day forward,
1000
00:46:42,591 --> 00:46:44,510
for better, for worse,
1001
00:46:44,593 --> 00:46:45,969
for richer, for poorer,
1002
00:46:46,053 --> 00:46:48,013
in sickness and in health
1003
00:46:48,096 --> 00:46:49,723
for all of your days?
1004
00:46:54,978 --> 00:46:55,979
I do.
1005
00:46:57,231 --> 00:46:58,524
[laughs]
1006
00:47:05,447 --> 00:47:06,406
[laughs]
1007
00:47:06,490 --> 00:47:07,825
[Clay exhales]
1008
00:47:13,205 --> 00:47:14,122
Clay...
1009
00:47:16,708 --> 00:47:21,213
do you take Amber
to live together in a union of marriage?
1010
00:47:24,216 --> 00:47:27,427
To take her as your best friend
and partner in life,
1011
00:47:29,012 --> 00:47:31,807
to honor, cherish and love her
1012
00:47:33,183 --> 00:47:36,728
from this day forward,
for better, for worse?
1013
00:47:37,980 --> 00:47:39,731
-For richer, for poorer?
-[exhales]
1014
00:47:40,941 --> 00:47:43,485
[minister] In sickness and in health
1015
00:47:44,903 --> 00:47:46,154
for all of your days?
1016
00:47:46,238 --> 00:47:48,866
[dramatic music playing]
1017
00:47:59,626 --> 00:48:00,711
[exhales]
1018
00:48:03,130 --> 00:48:05,173
This has been the best process.
1019
00:48:06,550 --> 00:48:07,634
AD, I love you.
1020
00:48:09,303 --> 00:48:11,513
I don't think
it's responsible for me to say I do.
1021
00:48:19,104 --> 00:48:22,524
But I want you to know
that I'm rockin' with you,
1022
00:48:22,608 --> 00:48:26,236
and I just don't think it's responsible
for me to say I do at this point
1023
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:27,696
when I still need work.
1024
00:48:27,779 --> 00:48:31,325
I still need to get to the point
where I'm 100% in,
1025
00:48:31,408 --> 00:48:34,745
and I'm not gonna have you over here
thinking that this is not gonna work.
1026
00:48:34,828 --> 00:48:37,372
-I'mma put the work in for you.
-Wow.
1027
00:48:37,456 --> 00:48:38,874
And we'll go through this together.
1028
00:48:38,957 --> 00:48:42,628
I don't care what nobody says.
I know fully I'm not ready for marriage.
1029
00:48:42,711 --> 00:48:43,837
And you deserve the best.
1030
00:48:43,921 --> 00:48:45,839
And if I'm not ready to give that 100%,
1031
00:48:45,923 --> 00:48:48,300
I won't go there with you
when I'm not ready.
1032
00:48:52,304 --> 00:48:55,223
And I appreciate you,
and I know that you will fight for me.
1033
00:48:55,307 --> 00:48:56,934
-We'll let it work.
-What the fuck?
1034
00:48:57,017 --> 00:49:00,103
I know, but I can't say...
I can't say yes right now.
1035
00:49:06,652 --> 00:49:07,819
I'm sorry, AD.
1036
00:49:09,696 --> 00:49:10,530
Clay...
1037
00:49:10,614 --> 00:49:11,698
I'm sorry.
1038
00:49:15,494 --> 00:49:16,620
What the fuck?
1039
00:49:17,955 --> 00:49:21,833
But why does it matter, like,
with the timeline? Why does that matter?
1040
00:49:21,917 --> 00:49:24,294
Clay, don't do this.
1041
00:49:24,378 --> 00:49:25,420
[Clay] Mm.
1042
00:49:26,421 --> 00:49:27,589
Okay.
1043
00:49:30,926 --> 00:49:31,969
We good.
1044
00:49:35,305 --> 00:49:36,223
Come on, baby.
1045
00:49:36,306 --> 00:49:38,433
-Thank you.
-You're so very welcome.
1046
00:49:38,517 --> 00:49:39,434
I'm sorry.
1047
00:49:39,518 --> 00:49:40,519
Thank you.
1048
00:49:42,813 --> 00:49:44,106
[Margarita] You're beautiful.
1049
00:49:44,189 --> 00:49:45,023
I'm sorry.
1050
00:49:45,107 --> 00:49:46,608
Thank you. Thank you.
1051
00:49:47,192 --> 00:49:52,322
-[pop music playing]
-♪ If there's somebody for everybody ♪
1052
00:49:52,406 --> 00:49:54,408
♪ Everybody ♪
1053
00:49:54,491 --> 00:49:58,662
♪ Tell me why ♪
1054
00:49:58,745 --> 00:49:59,621
♪ Not for me... ♪
1055
00:49:59,705 --> 00:50:00,831
[sighs]
1056
00:50:00,914 --> 00:50:04,584
♪ No, not the life my mama said ♪
1057
00:50:04,668 --> 00:50:06,545
♪ That it would be ♪
1058
00:50:06,628 --> 00:50:10,507
♪ Stories I have read make it look easy ♪
1059
00:50:10,590 --> 00:50:13,093
♪ My Mr. Right was always wrong ♪
1060
00:50:13,176 --> 00:50:15,887
♪ He's good until he's gone ♪
1061
00:50:15,971 --> 00:50:18,724
♪ Why can't it be? ♪
1062
00:50:18,807 --> 00:50:21,435
-[Josh U.] You all right?
-Yeah, I'm good. I'm good.
1063
00:50:23,687 --> 00:50:25,564
Waste of my fucking time.
1064
00:50:26,356 --> 00:50:29,026
I'm so confused!
1065
00:50:31,236 --> 00:50:32,237
[Clay grunts]
1066
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:33,321
[Margarita] I love you.
1067
00:50:33,405 --> 00:50:34,406
I love you too.
1068
00:50:36,491 --> 00:50:37,951
-[Margarita] Okay?
-Yes, Mom.
1069
00:50:38,994 --> 00:50:41,455
[AD sobbing] I'm just so upset.
1070
00:50:44,875 --> 00:50:47,419
[Tesh] That doesn't make you
any less of a person.
1071
00:50:47,502 --> 00:50:49,796
[AD] I just need a moment, please.
1072
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:51,673
-[Jacqueline] Okay.
-[AD] I just need a second.
1073
00:50:51,757 --> 00:50:54,384
[sobbing]
1074
00:50:56,178 --> 00:50:58,055
I'm just so confused.
1075
00:51:00,974 --> 00:51:03,060
Fucking idiot.
1076
00:51:05,145 --> 00:51:08,190
[sobbing]
1077
00:51:08,273 --> 00:51:10,400
I wanna make sure we're clear,
1078
00:51:10,484 --> 00:51:12,778
we're crystal clear
with what I'm about to say.
1079
00:51:12,861 --> 00:51:15,739
Your dad and I
were married for almost 24 years.
1080
00:51:15,822 --> 00:51:19,534
You do not get to this point
1081
00:51:19,618 --> 00:51:23,121
and think that you need to be forced
with the "I do."
1082
00:51:23,205 --> 00:51:24,039
Yeah.
1083
00:51:24,122 --> 00:51:27,084
Because at the end of the day,
it's what's in here.
1084
00:51:27,167 --> 00:51:31,129
And if you're not 100% sure here,
1085
00:51:31,213 --> 00:51:32,881
don't ever cross that line.
1086
00:51:32,964 --> 00:51:35,425
I don't want to, like, bash him, y'all,
1087
00:51:35,509 --> 00:51:39,137
'cause I love this man,
but I just don't understand.
1088
00:51:39,221 --> 00:51:41,473
I'm just never enough.
1089
00:51:41,556 --> 00:51:43,642
-Like, never.
-[Tesh] You're always enough.
1090
00:51:43,725 --> 00:51:47,521
The other person is never enough.
The other person is not enough.
1091
00:51:47,604 --> 00:51:49,606
Amber, you just haven't met
your person yet.
1092
00:51:49,689 --> 00:51:52,109
And unfortunately,
we thought it was gonna be Clay,
1093
00:51:52,192 --> 00:51:53,568
and he fucked everyone over.
1094
00:51:53,652 --> 00:51:55,570
[sobbing]
1095
00:51:59,866 --> 00:52:01,451
-So you good?
-I'm good. I'm good.
1096
00:52:01,535 --> 00:52:04,412
I think, uh,
it's a lot of emotions going on.
1097
00:52:04,496 --> 00:52:06,623
-Yeah, just breathe, you know?
-Yeah.
1098
00:52:06,706 --> 00:52:09,251
-It's just like, uh...
-Yeah, but you know what though?
1099
00:52:09,334 --> 00:52:10,836
-Let all that stuff go.
-Yeah, yeah.
1100
00:52:10,919 --> 00:52:12,879
'Cause I feel good about my decision.
1101
00:52:12,963 --> 00:52:16,716
Like, I feel like I chose...
I'm not ready to be married.
1102
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:19,719
[Trevor] We're good with whatever decision
you decide to make.
1103
00:52:19,803 --> 00:52:21,805
Yeah. And don't second-guess yourself.
1104
00:52:21,888 --> 00:52:25,142
At the end of the day,
you gotta do what makes Clay comfortable.
1105
00:52:25,225 --> 00:52:28,520
Because if you do it for any other reason,
you're not gonna be happy.
1106
00:52:28,603 --> 00:52:31,648
If you thought long and hard about this,
guess what.
1107
00:52:31,731 --> 00:52:33,567
-That's the decision you live with.
-[Clay] Yep.
1108
00:52:33,650 --> 00:52:35,902
-[Trevor] And I'm proud of you, okay?
-Yeah.
1109
00:52:35,986 --> 00:52:37,195
That's maturity, man.
1110
00:52:37,279 --> 00:52:38,780
-You're showing maturity.
-Yep.
1111
00:52:38,864 --> 00:52:41,533
Come on, baby.
You know what I'm saying, right?
1112
00:52:41,616 --> 00:52:43,493
-I know what you're saying.
-Okay, good, good.
1113
00:52:45,453 --> 00:52:49,040
I got you, all right?
Listen, man. Listen. Guess what.
1114
00:52:49,624 --> 00:52:52,544
I loved you when you were born.
I love you today.
1115
00:52:52,627 --> 00:52:54,462
-Yeah. Yeah.
-Nothing has changed, okay?
1116
00:52:54,546 --> 00:52:56,089
-I'm proud of you, okay?
-[Clay] Yeah.
1117
00:52:56,173 --> 00:52:58,842
-Yeah. Yeah.
-That's gonna stay that way. All right.
1118
00:52:59,509 --> 00:53:01,261
[Clay] Me and AD
have a great relationship,
1119
00:53:01,344 --> 00:53:03,597
{\an8}but it wasn't enough
where I felt as though that,
1120
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:05,682
{\an8}"This is the person I'm about to marry."
1121
00:53:05,765 --> 00:53:06,933
Should I go talk to her?
1122
00:53:07,017 --> 00:53:09,603
Uh, yeah, you can. You know what I mean?
1123
00:53:09,686 --> 00:53:13,481
You definitely don't want
to appear to be indifferent.
1124
00:53:13,565 --> 00:53:16,276
[Clay] Marriage is a unity of self.
It's a unity of finances.
1125
00:53:16,359 --> 00:53:17,736
It's a business decision.
1126
00:53:17,819 --> 00:53:19,946
You know, I think there's stuff
we should have built on.
1127
00:53:20,030 --> 00:53:22,949
A lot of the work that needed to be done
was my emotional empathy side.
1128
00:53:23,033 --> 00:53:25,535
I think the finances,
I looked at it, brushed it off,
1129
00:53:25,619 --> 00:53:28,705
but finance is huge to me, and I
don't understand her finances like that.
1130
00:53:28,788 --> 00:53:30,498
At the end of the day,
eternity is forever.
1131
00:53:30,582 --> 00:53:34,002
And if I'mma be something forever,
I wanna be locked in 100%.
1132
00:53:34,085 --> 00:53:36,421
I looked at myself in the mirror
and said, "Am I a husband?"
1133
00:53:36,504 --> 00:53:37,756
And the answer was no.
1134
00:53:37,839 --> 00:53:40,467
"Am I in deeply in love?"
The answer was no.
1135
00:53:40,967 --> 00:53:41,843
Those are two things,
1136
00:53:41,927 --> 00:53:45,055
if you can't say yes to those answers,
why are you getting married?
1137
00:53:53,438 --> 00:53:54,397
Hey, AD.
1138
00:53:59,778 --> 00:54:00,820
You okay?
1139
00:54:02,364 --> 00:54:06,201
It's a bizarre question
to ask someone. [sniffles]
1140
00:54:06,284 --> 00:54:07,118
Yeah.
1141
00:54:08,245 --> 00:54:09,246
I'm sorry.
1142
00:54:10,538 --> 00:54:11,373
I'm sorry, AD.
1143
00:54:12,082 --> 00:54:14,584
It was a game-time decision.
Like, I thought about everything, AD.
1144
00:54:14,668 --> 00:54:18,880
Like, I really was fucking struggling
with everything this whole time.
1145
00:54:18,964 --> 00:54:21,675
There's no world that exists
where I don't understand that, Clay.
1146
00:54:21,758 --> 00:54:25,762
But I'm saying, like, it's irresponsible
of me to say yes in this time
1147
00:54:25,845 --> 00:54:28,473
when I'm not ready to give you 100%,
and you wouldn't want that.
1148
00:54:28,556 --> 00:54:31,434
You wouldn't want me saying yes
and being half-assed with marriage.
1149
00:54:31,518 --> 00:54:34,437
You wouldn't want that.
And I've said I'm not ready for that.
1150
00:54:34,521 --> 00:54:37,941
Like, I'm feeling bad,
because I see you crying, it's hurting me.
1151
00:54:38,024 --> 00:54:41,444
It was a game-time decision for me.
I wanted to reconsider everything.
1152
00:54:41,528 --> 00:54:43,905
And it's just for me
to say off a great two weeks,
1153
00:54:43,989 --> 00:54:45,824
"This is gonna be my wife forever,"
1154
00:54:45,907 --> 00:54:47,826
I could not make that decision
to you today.
1155
00:54:50,203 --> 00:54:53,748
And it just breaks my heart seeing you
like this because I love you. I really do.
1156
00:54:53,832 --> 00:54:56,835
It's like, me saying no
was not to you, AD.
1157
00:54:56,918 --> 00:54:57,919
I'm not ready,
1158
00:54:58,003 --> 00:55:00,714
and that's hard for me to look at myself
in the mirror and say that.
1159
00:55:00,797 --> 00:55:02,299
You are perfect, girl.
1160
00:55:02,382 --> 00:55:03,717
I've grown with you.
1161
00:55:03,800 --> 00:55:06,553
It's hard for me to look at myself
in the mirror, like, I can't be,
1162
00:55:06,636 --> 00:55:07,721
"I'm not a husband now."
1163
00:55:09,764 --> 00:55:11,641
I'm not... I'm not rejecting you.
1164
00:55:13,810 --> 00:55:17,022
And it almost feels like
that I am, you know?
1165
00:55:17,522 --> 00:55:19,691
Yeah, it does.
1166
00:55:22,193 --> 00:55:24,946
I'm so sorry.
I'm so sorry. Can I get a hug?
1167
00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:27,574
-Sure.
-[Clay exhales]
1168
00:55:29,743 --> 00:55:31,661
-[exhales]
-I'm sorry, AD.
1169
00:55:39,836 --> 00:55:40,837
[AD] I love you.
1170
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:42,172
[Clay] I love you too.
1171
00:55:45,592 --> 00:55:46,551
[exhales]
1172
00:55:48,053 --> 00:55:49,846
[AD] What am I supposed to do now?
1173
00:55:49,929 --> 00:55:52,098
-[Clay] What do you mean?
-What am I supposed to do?
1174
00:55:52,182 --> 00:55:53,600
You think I'm leaving?
1175
00:55:54,642 --> 00:55:55,477
[chuckles]
1176
00:55:56,644 --> 00:55:59,522
What are you supposed to do?
I guess you gotta run away from me.
1177
00:56:01,733 --> 00:56:05,779
Stop. Oh, my God, seeing you so sad
is breaking my heart.
1178
00:56:06,363 --> 00:56:08,031
[AD] That was just a fucking lot.
1179
00:56:08,114 --> 00:56:09,157
[Clay] It was a lot.
1180
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:12,660
But, AD, I'm telling you.
Like, I'm gonna put the work in.
1181
00:56:12,744 --> 00:56:15,914
I'm gonna go to therapy,
all that stuff I said, you know?
1182
00:56:19,125 --> 00:56:21,211
Part of what he is struggling with,
1183
00:56:21,294 --> 00:56:23,755
{\an8}he struggles with a marriage.
1184
00:56:23,838 --> 00:56:25,256
{\an8}With commitment? Okay.
1185
00:56:25,340 --> 00:56:27,050
{\an8}-With a marriage.
-Okay.
1186
00:56:27,133 --> 00:56:28,968
{\an8}-"Is this sacred?"
-Mm-hmm.
1187
00:56:29,052 --> 00:56:31,554
"Do you honor?" He struggles with that.
1188
00:56:31,638 --> 00:56:36,851
And all of those emotions and twisted...
1189
00:56:36,935 --> 00:56:39,521
and feelings, he took that to the altar.
1190
00:56:40,230 --> 00:56:45,235
And a lot of that stems
from things that you have to explain
1191
00:56:45,777 --> 00:56:47,070
and then apologize.
1192
00:56:47,153 --> 00:56:48,488
[Trevor] Mm-hmm.
1193
00:56:48,571 --> 00:56:51,157
Don't make excuses, just apologize.
1194
00:56:51,241 --> 00:56:53,868
So that closure can be had.
1195
00:56:54,369 --> 00:56:58,665
But the marriage thing,
the commitment, he struggles with that.
1196
00:56:58,748 --> 00:57:01,876
He's like, "I know you stayed, Mom,
1197
00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:04,796
but there's things
that I saw that I should not have I saw,
1198
00:57:04,879 --> 00:57:06,673
or been in a position..."
1199
00:57:06,756 --> 00:57:10,385
You know, and kids, when they grow up,
and they see things...
1200
00:57:10,885 --> 00:57:13,096
It's like, you know,
"Is marriage for real?"
1201
00:57:13,179 --> 00:57:15,432
"Or is marriage something
that you get into,
1202
00:57:15,515 --> 00:57:17,892
and you lie, and you deceive?"
1203
00:57:18,476 --> 00:57:22,272
And he took a lot of that
to the altar with his decision.
1204
00:57:22,981 --> 00:57:24,774
Here's the thing too, Rita.
1205
00:57:26,776 --> 00:57:29,988
[sighing]
1206
00:57:35,577 --> 00:57:38,079
Um, I, um,
1207
00:57:38,788 --> 00:57:42,375
I didn't necessarily have
the best role models in my life.
1208
00:57:42,459 --> 00:57:43,626
-I know. I know.
-You know?
1209
00:57:43,710 --> 00:57:46,921
I can't ever remember my father ever being
1210
00:57:47,422 --> 00:57:49,132
a part of my life.
1211
00:57:49,841 --> 00:57:50,758
And...
1212
00:57:53,261 --> 00:57:54,095
Listen.
1213
00:57:56,222 --> 00:57:58,099
I've always told you I forgave you,
1214
00:57:58,183 --> 00:58:00,768
but there are things
that had came out in the end
1215
00:58:00,852 --> 00:58:03,188
that I did not know about
until this experience.
1216
00:58:03,271 --> 00:58:04,147
I was hurt.
1217
00:58:05,398 --> 00:58:06,816
Again, I'm divorced from you,
1218
00:58:06,900 --> 00:58:10,361
but things that he shared with me
that I did not know.
1219
00:58:10,445 --> 00:58:14,282
So that's why I'm saying
he took a lot on his back.
1220
00:58:14,365 --> 00:58:17,577
And although we came from broken families,
1221
00:58:17,660 --> 00:58:22,457
that doesn't mean that we have to pass on
that brokenness to our kids.
1222
00:58:22,540 --> 00:58:23,374
Absolutely.
1223
00:58:23,458 --> 00:58:25,919
-Yeah, stop the bleeding, stop the cycle.
-Right.
1224
00:58:26,002 --> 00:58:28,463
Your past and things that you witness,
1225
00:58:29,214 --> 00:58:31,549
it's part of your DNA.
It's part of your inside.
1226
00:58:31,633 --> 00:58:33,927
And if you don't get freakin' help,
1227
00:58:34,010 --> 00:58:36,429
you bring that shit into the next thing.
1228
00:58:36,513 --> 00:58:39,724
So the fact that he... he did this process,
1229
00:58:39,807 --> 00:58:44,270
he wants to be
in a long-term relationship.
1230
00:58:44,354 --> 00:58:45,188
He wants that.
1231
00:58:45,271 --> 00:58:47,273
-Tell him to meet somebody like you.
-Huh?
1232
00:58:47,357 --> 00:58:49,901
I met you. You know,
tell him to meet somebody like his mom.
1233
00:58:49,984 --> 00:58:53,655
Yeah, but you met me,
but you wasn't good to me.
1234
00:58:55,865 --> 00:58:56,699
Yeah.
1235
00:58:56,783 --> 00:58:58,535
-Okay? So...
-[exhales]
1236
00:59:00,745 --> 00:59:02,705
-We won't talk about that anymore.
-Okay.
1237
00:59:14,384 --> 00:59:17,345
I'm so sorry, AD.
I feel like a piece of shit.
1238
00:59:17,971 --> 00:59:18,972
I really do.
1239
00:59:22,684 --> 00:59:24,519
[AD laughs] I did my best.
1240
00:59:24,602 --> 00:59:25,436
You did.
1241
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:27,730
-I did my fucking best. [exhales]
-[Clay] You did.
1242
00:59:28,356 --> 00:59:29,899
Do you think it wasn't good enough?
1243
00:59:30,483 --> 00:59:31,442
No.
1244
00:59:31,526 --> 00:59:33,778
So everything I'm saying,
it's not resonating to you, huh?
1245
00:59:33,861 --> 00:59:35,697
It's hard. It's hard to make,
1246
00:59:36,197 --> 00:59:38,700
you know, like,
what you say and what I feel...
1247
00:59:38,783 --> 00:59:40,577
-Come together.
-Yeah.
1248
00:59:42,787 --> 00:59:45,164
I just feel like I learned
so much about myself, AD,
1249
00:59:45,248 --> 00:59:46,416
and it kinda got scary.
1250
00:59:46,499 --> 00:59:47,500
You know?
1251
00:59:48,001 --> 00:59:49,961
I just think my thing is, like...
1252
00:59:50,670 --> 00:59:54,173
It sucks that, like,
I feel kinda like a sacrifice, like...
1253
00:59:54,257 --> 00:59:57,051
-You learned so much about yourself.
-[Clay] Yeah, yeah, I get that.
1254
00:59:57,135 --> 00:59:58,928
-And used me to, like, do it.
-[Clay] Mm-hmm.
1255
01:00:03,141 --> 01:00:06,102
I'm sorry. Do I have to leave you?
1256
01:00:06,185 --> 01:00:07,854
["In the Inbetween" playing]
1257
01:00:07,937 --> 01:00:10,064
♪ As you sought courage ♪
1258
01:00:10,148 --> 01:00:14,819
♪ In the thought of letting go... ♪
1259
01:00:15,820 --> 01:00:16,696
[AD sniffles]
1260
01:00:16,779 --> 01:00:18,531
♪ Shrugged off the feelings ♪
1261
01:00:18,615 --> 01:00:22,952
♪ But the memory remains... ♪
1262
01:00:23,036 --> 01:00:24,162
I don't wanna go.
1263
01:00:26,706 --> 01:00:27,540
[sniffles]
1264
01:00:31,502 --> 01:00:34,964
I just keep feeling like
I keep getting so fucking close.
1265
01:00:35,048 --> 01:00:39,427
And I keep, like,
doing so much for these men
1266
01:00:40,178 --> 01:00:43,222
and carrying these fucking relationships,
1267
01:00:43,306 --> 01:00:46,059
and, like, it's just not fucking enough.
1268
01:00:46,142 --> 01:00:47,060
[shuddering]
1269
01:00:47,143 --> 01:00:50,396
And I don't, like...
I don't know what else to do, really.
1270
01:00:51,356 --> 01:00:54,400
Like, it's just not enough. [sniffles]
1271
01:00:57,111 --> 01:00:59,572
I'm sorry. I really am.
1272
01:01:00,156 --> 01:01:00,990
Yeah.
1273
01:01:07,288 --> 01:01:09,290
[shuddering]
1274
01:01:09,374 --> 01:01:10,458
[gasps]
1275
01:01:12,001 --> 01:01:13,044
[gasps]
1276
01:01:14,128 --> 01:01:16,923
I love him. I love him. I really do.
1277
01:01:18,341 --> 01:01:20,176
I'm really sad that...
1278
01:01:20,927 --> 01:01:24,055
I wasn't enough for him
to, like, get right.
1279
01:01:25,223 --> 01:01:28,184
I can't drag him. I can't force him,
1280
01:01:28,267 --> 01:01:31,521
and I'm not gonna fucking beg him
to fucking pick me.
1281
01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:33,690
I'm done.
1282
01:01:34,440 --> 01:01:39,112
♪ And in this sadness, I will stay ♪
1283
01:01:39,195 --> 01:01:41,447
♪ And I will wait ♪
1284
01:01:41,989 --> 01:01:45,201
♪ And hope that you stop leaning ♪
1285
01:01:45,284 --> 01:01:50,039
♪ On the sword of your mistakes ♪
1286
01:01:50,123 --> 01:01:55,837
♪ Oh, it's a long way back from here... ♪
1287
01:01:59,048 --> 01:02:00,299
[sobbing]
1288
01:02:02,260 --> 01:02:04,220
[sobbing]
1289
01:02:14,772 --> 01:02:16,774
-[pop music playing]
-[vocalizing]
1290
01:02:25,742 --> 01:02:27,744
♪ One step, then another ♪
1291
01:02:27,827 --> 01:02:29,996
♪ Then one step more ♪
1292
01:02:31,372 --> 01:02:33,040
[Amy] Today is the big day.
1293
01:02:34,292 --> 01:02:38,212
{\an8}I found my best friend that I get
to spend the rest of my life with,
1294
01:02:38,296 --> 01:02:41,466
{\an8}and I'm feeling all the emotions.
1295
01:02:42,216 --> 01:02:43,176
[gasps]
1296
01:02:44,886 --> 01:02:46,512
I'm gonna cry. [laughs]
1297
01:02:47,346 --> 01:02:48,598
This is so beautiful!
1298
01:02:48,681 --> 01:02:50,892
Like, I've always dreamed
of having a fairy-tale wedding,
1299
01:02:50,975 --> 01:02:54,103
and it's beyond, like, what I dreamed of.
1300
01:02:54,187 --> 01:02:55,146
Oh, my God.
1301
01:02:55,229 --> 01:02:57,190
All the feelings. This is so perfect.
1302
01:02:57,273 --> 01:03:00,067
I just can't help
but to think of, like, how this all began.
1303
01:03:00,151 --> 01:03:01,944
Our story has been so beautiful.
1304
01:03:02,028 --> 01:03:04,530
My mom's family is from Barcelona.
1305
01:03:04,614 --> 01:03:06,115
She's basically catalana.
1306
01:03:06,199 --> 01:03:08,326
-Amy, I love your accent.
-Aw, thank you.
1307
01:03:08,409 --> 01:03:10,870
-[Johnny laughs] It made my heart melt.
-Stop!
1308
01:03:10,953 --> 01:03:11,996
[imitates blues chord]
1309
01:03:12,079 --> 01:03:15,333
♪ Her name is Amy, and she's really cool ♪
[imitates blues chord]
1310
01:03:15,416 --> 01:03:16,292
[laughs]
1311
01:03:16,375 --> 01:03:19,170
The one thing I wanna do
is I don't wanna change you at all.
1312
01:03:19,253 --> 01:03:20,630
I like you... like, I love you.
1313
01:03:21,547 --> 01:03:22,965
-[Amy] Oh, my God!
-Came out.
1314
01:03:23,049 --> 01:03:24,342
I do love you too.
1315
01:03:24,425 --> 01:03:25,676
[chuckles]
1316
01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:28,304
Amy Tiffany Olenska...
1317
01:03:28,387 --> 01:03:29,597
[laughs]
1318
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:32,642
...will you please make me
the happiest man alive and marry me?
1319
01:03:32,725 --> 01:03:33,559
Yes! [laughs]
1320
01:03:34,268 --> 01:03:36,813
-[exhales]
-Oh, my goodness! [laughing]
1321
01:03:36,896 --> 01:03:38,523
[Johnny] Oh, my God!
1322
01:03:38,606 --> 01:03:40,691
[laughing]
1323
01:03:41,275 --> 01:03:43,945
-[Amy] My love grows every day.
-[Johnny] I'm much happier with her.
1324
01:03:44,028 --> 01:03:45,822
[Amy] This is the moment
I've been waiting,
1325
01:03:45,905 --> 01:03:49,784
and I think it was meant
to find you. [laughs]
1326
01:03:50,576 --> 01:03:51,869
-[woman 4 gasps]
-[laughing]
1327
01:03:52,495 --> 01:03:53,955
-Hi!
-Oh, no, I'm gonna cry!
1328
01:03:54,038 --> 01:03:55,289
Stop!
1329
01:03:55,373 --> 01:03:57,542
-Oh, my God!
-This is so cute.
1330
01:03:58,584 --> 01:03:59,794
{\an8}-Hi!
-[Amy] Hello!
1331
01:03:59,877 --> 01:04:01,963
{\an8}-[laughing]
-Oh, my God.
1332
01:04:02,046 --> 01:04:06,467
{\an8}Having my family and friends witnessing
such a huge milestone in my life,
1333
01:04:06,551 --> 01:04:07,593
it's important to me.
1334
01:04:07,677 --> 01:04:09,929
Family is everything.
I thought it'd be a beautiful touch
1335
01:04:10,012 --> 01:04:14,851
to have my future sister-in-law
be on my side of things.
1336
01:04:14,934 --> 01:04:17,103
-[Maria] Oh, my God, and the dress!
-[Amy] Right?
1337
01:04:17,186 --> 01:04:18,104
It's perfect.
1338
01:04:18,187 --> 01:04:19,272
So beautiful.
1339
01:04:19,355 --> 01:04:21,190
[laughing]
1340
01:04:21,274 --> 01:04:23,401
I'm so sure that Johnny
is the one that I'm gonna marry.
1341
01:04:23,484 --> 01:04:26,195
I'm ready to...
get me to the altar. I'm ready! [laughs]
1342
01:04:26,779 --> 01:04:29,574
-I love y'all so much!
-We love you too, girl.
1343
01:04:29,657 --> 01:04:30,658
[Amy] So ready.
1344
01:04:30,741 --> 01:04:34,161
-[pop music playing]
-♪ I just wanna feel it all ♪
1345
01:04:34,245 --> 01:04:37,081
♪ It all, it all, it all ♪
1346
01:04:37,748 --> 01:04:39,834
♪ I wanna feel it all ♪
1347
01:04:39,917 --> 01:04:42,378
Today is gonna be
one of the days I look back on.
1348
01:04:43,129 --> 01:04:45,631
Oh, this is nice!
1349
01:04:45,715 --> 01:04:48,634
I don't know if it's one specific thing
that made me fall in love with Amy.
1350
01:04:48,718 --> 01:04:50,636
She was fun-loving. She matched my energy.
1351
01:04:51,220 --> 01:04:53,055
She's someone that we could
just joke around,
1352
01:04:53,139 --> 01:04:55,349
have an amazing time together
just as people.
1353
01:04:55,433 --> 01:04:58,102
She's very dedicated
towards, like, her career, her family.
1354
01:04:58,185 --> 01:05:01,063
-[man 3] Johnny!
-Oh, my God! [laughing]
1355
01:05:01,147 --> 01:05:02,231
Bro!
1356
01:05:02,315 --> 01:05:04,150
-Long time no see!
-[man 3] Long time!
1357
01:05:04,233 --> 01:05:05,276
Glad you could make it.
1358
01:05:05,359 --> 01:05:07,612
Not a day goes by where we don't kiss,
1359
01:05:07,695 --> 01:05:10,156
or we don't, like, give each other,
like, a huge hug or cuddle.
1360
01:05:10,239 --> 01:05:13,868
It's a nice feeling of just
that intimacy factor of, like, "Hey."
1361
01:05:13,951 --> 01:05:15,244
"You're my person."
1362
01:05:15,745 --> 01:05:19,206
I'm not gonna lie. I was a little like,
"John, what the hell are you doing?"
1363
01:05:19,290 --> 01:05:21,792
{\an8}-Yeah, no, I know, trust me. [laughs]
-[mutters]
1364
01:05:22,668 --> 01:05:25,338
{\an8}But once you meet you guys
and see you together, it makes sense.
1365
01:05:25,421 --> 01:05:27,590
-Like, it makes so much more sense.
-Yeah.
1366
01:05:27,673 --> 01:05:30,009
{\an8}Within 30 seconds of meeting her,
I was like, "She's perfect.
1367
01:05:30,092 --> 01:05:31,761
{\an8}Like, she's so perfect."
1368
01:05:31,844 --> 01:05:33,721
{\an8}Did that change from the pods?
1369
01:05:33,804 --> 01:05:35,306
{\an8}-We got very deep.
-[Jack] Good.
1370
01:05:35,389 --> 01:05:38,476
We talked about everything.
Day seven, I slipped on an "I love you."
1371
01:05:38,559 --> 01:05:41,520
She said "I love you" back.
I didn't even mean for it to come out.
1372
01:05:41,604 --> 01:05:44,690
-You slipped on!
-I was like, "Honestly, I love you."
1373
01:05:44,774 --> 01:05:46,442
-And that was literally...
-Seven days in.
1374
01:05:46,525 --> 01:05:50,029
Yeah. It was deep conversations
about, like,
1375
01:05:50,112 --> 01:05:53,032
kids, about, like, religion,
about, like, um...
1376
01:05:53,115 --> 01:05:55,409
What happens if, like,
we have, like, a miscarriage?
1377
01:05:55,493 --> 01:05:58,454
What happens if, like, someone
loses their job and goes bankrupt?
1378
01:05:58,579 --> 01:06:00,623
-Holy shit!
-Just very deep conversations.
1379
01:06:00,706 --> 01:06:03,209
I've never had
those goddamn conversations.
1380
01:06:03,292 --> 01:06:06,087
No, but, like, those are things
to, like, really, like, think about too.
1381
01:06:06,170 --> 01:06:09,006
Like, those really deep conversations.
Like, "What if this happens?"
1382
01:06:09,090 --> 01:06:13,010
"How are we gonna attack this?"
She's open-minded and really cares.
1383
01:06:13,094 --> 01:06:15,096
Wants to know, like,
what I'm really thinking about.
1384
01:06:15,721 --> 01:06:17,765
The other thing was
she's passionate about her family.
1385
01:06:17,848 --> 01:06:20,267
She loves them deeply.
Like, it's a huge part of her life.
1386
01:06:20,351 --> 01:06:22,561
Obviously, huge part of my life too.
1387
01:06:22,645 --> 01:06:24,939
Like, she's a grinder.
Like, she works hard.
1388
01:06:25,022 --> 01:06:26,065
When she walks into a room,
1389
01:06:26,148 --> 01:06:28,693
she kind of commands it,
and it's really nice.
1390
01:06:28,776 --> 01:06:31,195
-We flow together, like, amazingly.
-She's the girl.
1391
01:06:31,278 --> 01:06:33,364
She's the girl. It's perfect.
1392
01:06:33,447 --> 01:06:36,701
-Dude, you love this girl.
-Yeah, I do. I truly do.
1393
01:06:36,784 --> 01:06:38,995
-[Patrick] You're getting married, man.
-[Jack] Yeah.
1394
01:06:39,078 --> 01:06:41,122
-[Patrick] Like, this is a big deal.
-[laughing]
1395
01:06:41,205 --> 01:06:42,289
Let's go, baby!
1396
01:06:42,373 --> 01:06:43,207
Yeah.
1397
01:06:43,290 --> 01:06:45,876
-[pop music playing]
-[vocalizing]
1398
01:06:49,547 --> 01:06:52,383
♪ Always bring the best vibe
It's a good life ♪
1399
01:06:52,466 --> 01:06:55,344
-So happy for you!
-[laughing]
1400
01:06:55,428 --> 01:06:57,054
It does seem like he's, uh,
1401
01:06:57,138 --> 01:07:00,808
I think the most sensitive and, like,
emotionally mature guy you've been with.
1402
01:07:00,891 --> 01:07:03,310
Yeah, and that I'll ever be with.
1403
01:07:03,394 --> 01:07:07,064
-I love when a man feels. [laughs]
-Mm-hmm. Yeah. Me too.
1404
01:07:07,148 --> 01:07:08,649
I'm so nervous for you!
1405
01:07:08,733 --> 01:07:09,567
No!
1406
01:07:09,650 --> 01:07:12,737
Not, like, for you.
Like, I know it's gonna be great.
1407
01:07:12,820 --> 01:07:15,531
But I'm just, like... It's a wedding.
Who isn't nervous on a wedding?
1408
01:07:15,614 --> 01:07:16,449
I know!
1409
01:07:16,532 --> 01:07:20,911
We both have a huge decision to make
that is for a lifetime,
1410
01:07:20,995 --> 01:07:24,081
and I'm very certain on what I wanna do.
1411
01:07:24,165 --> 01:07:25,833
I'm very excited.
1412
01:07:25,916 --> 01:07:28,919
I'd like to think
that Johnny is on the same page as me,
1413
01:07:29,003 --> 01:07:33,299
but my biggest fear is that,
like, for some reason,
1414
01:07:33,382 --> 01:07:36,510
him walking down the aisle,
he's like, "Oh, shit, this is real,"
1415
01:07:36,594 --> 01:07:38,929
and he just wants to back away,
1416
01:07:39,013 --> 01:07:41,807
um, and gets cold feet
and just doesn't wanna go through with it,
1417
01:07:41,891 --> 01:07:45,978
and says, "I do not," but I'm really
hoping that's not the case. [laughs]
1418
01:07:46,062 --> 01:07:50,608
I literally had a dream that Amy called me
right after she got engaged,
1419
01:07:50,691 --> 01:07:54,862
and I saw a man in the FaceTime,
and it was a white, blond man.
1420
01:07:55,613 --> 01:07:56,447
Oh, my God!
1421
01:07:56,530 --> 01:07:59,283
I was like, "Amy, I had a dream,
and you're with a white, blond man."
1422
01:07:59,366 --> 01:08:02,912
He's like, "Actually, it's strawberry
blond." I'm like, "It's white, blond."
1423
01:08:02,995 --> 01:08:05,247
-Oh, my God.
-[woman 4] It just felt very real.
1424
01:08:05,331 --> 01:08:09,919
And my dad had a dream two years ago
that he saw, like, my future kids,
1425
01:08:10,002 --> 01:08:13,547
and that they have, like, light-brown,
blondish hair, and I'm like...
1426
01:08:14,048 --> 01:08:16,300
[woman 4] The moment I saw a blond man
enter my dreams,
1427
01:08:16,383 --> 01:08:18,427
I was like, "This is it.
This is her husband."
1428
01:08:18,511 --> 01:08:22,640
[laughs] I literally had no,
like, mental picture of him.
1429
01:08:22,723 --> 01:08:25,684
I mean, we both didn't really
give descriptions of one another.
1430
01:08:25,768 --> 01:08:28,854
So great. I'm happy you guys
didn't talk about that before you...
1431
01:08:28,938 --> 01:08:30,773
-[Amy] Yeah.
-It would have ruined it.
1432
01:08:30,856 --> 01:08:33,150
'Cause, like,
superficially, like, he isn't your type.
1433
01:08:33,234 --> 01:08:37,113
So I think it's sweet that you were able
to find your type in their soul.
1434
01:08:37,196 --> 01:08:39,240
-And not how they look.
-[Amy] Yeah. Exactly.
1435
01:08:39,323 --> 01:08:40,282
Thank you.
1436
01:08:40,366 --> 01:08:42,660
-[pop music playing]
-♪ My heart's beating fast ♪
1437
01:08:42,743 --> 01:08:44,703
♪ But time's moving slow... ♪
1438
01:08:46,247 --> 01:08:47,748
[chattering]
1439
01:08:50,668 --> 01:08:53,254
-All right, fellas. Oh!
-[all cheering]
1440
01:08:53,838 --> 01:08:56,257
-Oh! Johnny!
-[Johnny] Y'all looking good!
1441
01:08:56,340 --> 01:08:58,843
-You look so good!
-Dude, you're looking better, man.
1442
01:08:58,926 --> 01:09:00,886
Look at you guys!
1443
01:09:00,970 --> 01:09:03,180
Got some stunners! Stunners.
1444
01:09:06,892 --> 01:09:09,895
{\an8}[music continues]
1445
01:09:13,732 --> 01:09:16,318
[chuckles]
1446
01:09:16,402 --> 01:09:17,820
Okay, look up. There we go.
1447
01:09:17,903 --> 01:09:19,905
I wanted to make sure
that was, like, really tight.
1448
01:09:19,989 --> 01:09:21,031
[gasping]
1449
01:09:21,115 --> 01:09:24,493
-[woman 4] Oh, my God.
-[laughing]
1450
01:09:24,577 --> 01:09:25,703
[sighs]
1451
01:09:26,620 --> 01:09:27,621
[woman 5] Amy...
1452
01:09:28,664 --> 01:09:29,498
[David] Mm.
1453
01:09:32,668 --> 01:09:35,754
-Aww, you guys look amazing.
-[Mercedes laughing]
1454
01:09:36,255 --> 01:09:38,632
-How do you feel?
-Good. I feel at peace.
1455
01:09:39,633 --> 01:09:41,510
-You ready?
-I'm ready. Are you guys ready?
1456
01:09:41,594 --> 01:09:43,929
Are you still right
for the decision you're making?
1457
01:09:44,013 --> 01:09:46,140
-[Amy] Yeah. I feel confident.
-[David] Okay.
1458
01:09:46,223 --> 01:09:48,726
Okay. So we are right behind you.
1459
01:09:49,226 --> 01:09:50,686
-We are here for you.
-Always.
1460
01:09:52,646 --> 01:09:53,606
[laughing]
1461
01:09:55,316 --> 01:09:57,026
I'm gonna get emotional. [laughs]
1462
01:09:57,693 --> 01:10:00,946
Um, having my family and my friends
means so much
1463
01:10:01,030 --> 01:10:05,117
because this is
a huge, you know, milestone,
1464
01:10:05,201 --> 01:10:08,454
and... and they don't have to be supportive.
1465
01:10:08,537 --> 01:10:10,497
It's a choice that they make
to be supportive,
1466
01:10:10,581 --> 01:10:13,292
and their love means so much to me,
1467
01:10:13,375 --> 01:10:16,587
and I'm so, so excited
to share this beautiful day with them,
1468
01:10:16,670 --> 01:10:20,716
and with Johnny's family,
that has also become like my family.
1469
01:10:20,799 --> 01:10:24,261
Um, so I'm very, very blessed and happy.
1470
01:10:25,012 --> 01:10:28,140
I feel like you guys
just fit into our family so well.
1471
01:10:28,224 --> 01:10:30,100
-[David laughing] Yeah.
-It was so nice.
1472
01:10:30,184 --> 01:10:33,646
The whole experiment,
it was something that had my reserve,
1473
01:10:33,729 --> 01:10:36,273
but I have to say
that I had to change my mind.
1474
01:10:36,357 --> 01:10:39,860
-I'm very grateful.
-I was nervous with John going in too.
1475
01:10:39,944 --> 01:10:40,778
[David] Oh, yeah.
1476
01:10:40,861 --> 01:10:43,656
And then the moment we met Amy,
I was like, "Oh, this is my new sister."
1477
01:10:43,739 --> 01:10:45,991
-[laughing]
-It's like, "I'm so excited."
1478
01:10:46,075 --> 01:10:48,494
-You can feel it between them, you know?
-[David] Mm-hmm.
1479
01:10:48,577 --> 01:10:52,039
I feel like I have multiple daughters.
So I'm just happy.
1480
01:10:52,665 --> 01:10:54,416
-[Amy] My new sister!
-I know!
1481
01:10:54,500 --> 01:10:55,459
[laughing]
1482
01:10:55,542 --> 01:10:59,463
I saw you guys get emotional. I was like,
"I don't wanna cry before I even leave!"
1483
01:11:01,590 --> 01:11:03,259
-I'm sorry.
-No, it's okay.
1484
01:11:03,968 --> 01:11:06,053
I'm so excited to be your family. [laughs]
1485
01:11:06,136 --> 01:11:08,013
I said, "We are family now!"
1486
01:11:08,097 --> 01:11:09,890
I love you guys so much.
1487
01:11:09,974 --> 01:11:13,102
It's a word that we say, but, you know,
really from the bottom of my heart,
1488
01:11:13,185 --> 01:11:14,478
we love you so much.
1489
01:11:21,151 --> 01:11:24,363
Oh, wow! You guys look amazing!
1490
01:11:25,739 --> 01:11:26,865
[woman 6] Oh!
1491
01:11:26,949 --> 01:11:28,450
Oh, it's a big day!
1492
01:11:28,534 --> 01:11:32,371
-All right, buddy. Oh!
-[Johnny] Oh!
1493
01:11:33,372 --> 01:11:35,958
-[man 4] Wonderful.
-I'm happy you guys came. Let's sit down.
1494
01:11:36,041 --> 01:11:37,668
-Wow. This is beautiful!
-I know.
1495
01:11:37,751 --> 01:11:39,795
Love to have a little man cave like this.
1496
01:11:39,878 --> 01:11:41,714
-Well, you ready?
-[Johnny sighs]
1497
01:11:42,298 --> 01:11:43,173
I am.
1498
01:11:43,257 --> 01:11:44,174
-Are you?
-Yeah.
1499
01:11:45,342 --> 01:11:47,928
{\an8}It's been a lot,
but it's been really nice.
1500
01:11:48,012 --> 01:11:50,681
{\an8}You learned about her from the inside out.
1501
01:11:50,764 --> 01:11:52,891
{\an8}[Johnny] Yeah, opposed
to just physical traits too.
1502
01:11:52,975 --> 01:11:54,727
-[Jim] Uh-huh.
-Yeah, so that's wonderful.
1503
01:11:54,810 --> 01:11:57,730
And a weird way to do it,
but what a cool way to do it, you know.
1504
01:11:57,813 --> 01:12:01,775
I think you're making the right decision.
How long does it take to fall in love?
1505
01:12:01,859 --> 01:12:05,446
Exactly six months,
three days and two hours?
1506
01:12:05,529 --> 01:12:08,782
Or exactly, you know,
one hour and 20 minutes?
1507
01:12:09,658 --> 01:12:13,329
-Got your whole futures ahead of you.
-I'm really excited. I'm really excited.
1508
01:12:13,412 --> 01:12:15,164
We did it. You can do it.
1509
01:12:15,247 --> 01:12:18,542
You guys had a great marriage.
I wanna make sure I have the same thing.
1510
01:12:18,625 --> 01:12:19,918
God willing, you will.
1511
01:12:20,002 --> 01:12:22,629
Marriage is the hardest job
you're gonna have.
1512
01:12:22,713 --> 01:12:24,798
It's the most fun job you're gonna have.
1513
01:12:26,383 --> 01:12:29,845
-Today is a wedding day. That's a big day.
-It's a beautiful day.
1514
01:12:33,932 --> 01:12:34,892
Come here, guys.
1515
01:12:34,975 --> 01:12:36,310
-[Jim] Oh!
-Oh!
1516
01:12:36,393 --> 01:12:39,605
-Group hug. [laughing]
-[Johnny] Yeah. All right.
1517
01:12:39,688 --> 01:12:42,107
-[Joy] I love you.
-[Johnny] Love you so much. Thank you.
1518
01:12:42,191 --> 01:12:44,485
-Thank you so much for everything.
-You got it.
1519
01:12:45,402 --> 01:12:46,737
-[Joy] I'm proud of you.
-[Jim] Oh!
1520
01:12:46,820 --> 01:12:50,783
♪ A thousand times
You made me get back up ♪
1521
01:12:54,536 --> 01:12:58,791
♪ Because of you, I learned to fly ♪
1522
01:12:58,874 --> 01:13:01,668
♪ But I will never fly away... ♪
1523
01:13:01,752 --> 01:13:02,586
[Maria] Yeah.
1524
01:13:03,253 --> 01:13:05,297
Yeah. [gasps]
1525
01:13:05,381 --> 01:13:08,300
♪ I'll carry all your weight... ♪
1526
01:13:10,135 --> 01:13:12,179
[Amy laughing] I can't look at you.
1527
01:13:17,059 --> 01:13:19,436
-You look so amazing.
-[laughing]
1528
01:13:19,520 --> 01:13:21,522
♪ I can't stop now ♪
1529
01:13:23,232 --> 01:13:27,152
♪ I'm up so high I can't come down ♪
1530
01:13:27,236 --> 01:13:29,655
I never thought
I would be seeing you like this.
1531
01:13:31,657 --> 01:13:34,118
-You look so amazing. Cinderella.
-[Amy] Thank you.
1532
01:13:34,201 --> 01:13:35,702
[laughing]
1533
01:13:38,997 --> 01:13:41,834
You are getting married now.
1534
01:13:42,668 --> 01:13:44,128
So you
1535
01:13:45,129 --> 01:13:47,548
will be our daughter, but you need to know
1536
01:13:47,631 --> 01:13:50,426
that you are gonna have a husband
1537
01:13:50,509 --> 01:13:52,219
that you have to take care of
1538
01:13:52,302 --> 01:13:55,055
in the good times and the bad times.
1539
01:13:55,139 --> 01:13:56,640
We are here for you.
1540
01:13:56,723 --> 01:14:00,227
-But not only for you, but for Johnny too.
-[Mercedes] For him too.
1541
01:14:00,811 --> 01:14:05,232
And we want to, all of us together,
we're all gonna make you be successful.
1542
01:14:05,315 --> 01:14:06,650
I love you.
1543
01:14:06,733 --> 01:14:07,734
I love you too.
1544
01:14:07,818 --> 01:14:11,071
The same way that I want him to love you.
1545
01:14:11,822 --> 01:14:15,784
[exhales, laughs]
Thank you. I love y'all too.
1546
01:14:15,868 --> 01:14:19,705
I got my reserve of the experiment.
1547
01:14:20,998 --> 01:14:23,459
But I changed my mind
1548
01:14:24,168 --> 01:14:26,086
after I see you happy.
1549
01:14:27,129 --> 01:14:30,674
And I see Johnny happy.
I saw his eyes looking at you.
1550
01:14:32,593 --> 01:14:35,637
And that's the expectancy
that I want a man to look at you,
1551
01:14:35,721 --> 01:14:37,556
fall in love with you.
1552
01:14:37,639 --> 01:14:38,599
[sniffles]
1553
01:14:40,434 --> 01:14:41,935
[David] Last night, I couldn't sleep.
1554
01:14:43,187 --> 01:14:45,856
I don't know if you sleep,
but I didn't sleep.
1555
01:14:45,939 --> 01:14:48,358
-Because I was thinking.
-[laughing]
1556
01:14:57,034 --> 01:14:58,785
Recollections and memories.
1557
01:15:00,412 --> 01:15:03,207
And the people that are not here,
they are here.
1558
01:15:03,290 --> 01:15:06,793
Your grandparents are here.
They will be walking with you as well.
1559
01:15:06,877 --> 01:15:08,629
And they're proud of you.
1560
01:15:16,887 --> 01:15:17,888
[sniffles]
1561
01:15:20,974 --> 01:15:24,269
-So are you ready to rumble?
-[all laughing]
1562
01:15:25,270 --> 01:15:26,855
-[woman 7] Yes.
-I'm ready to rumble.
1563
01:15:26,939 --> 01:15:28,232
[laughing]
1564
01:15:28,315 --> 01:15:31,026
[pop music playing]
1565
01:15:33,278 --> 01:15:34,947
♪ There's no pretend ♪
1566
01:15:35,030 --> 01:15:37,115
♪ I might be dreaming ♪
1567
01:15:37,199 --> 01:15:38,992
♪ There is no other ♪
1568
01:15:39,076 --> 01:15:43,121
{\an8}♪ Oh, baby, all we ever want
Is right here and now ♪
1569
01:15:43,205 --> 01:15:47,668
{\an8}♪ I bottle every heartbeat, every sound ♪
1570
01:15:50,796 --> 01:15:52,881
This is beautiful! I'm like a...
1571
01:15:53,382 --> 01:15:54,716
"Amy and Johnny."
1572
01:15:55,384 --> 01:15:56,468
[Joy] And now it's gorgeous.
1573
01:16:00,222 --> 01:16:01,932
I'm very happy for you, Johnny.
1574
01:16:02,015 --> 01:16:03,475
You are lucky.
1575
01:16:04,059 --> 01:16:06,103
{\an8}And she's very lucky. You both are.
1576
01:16:06,186 --> 01:16:07,479
When you find true love,
1577
01:16:07,563 --> 01:16:11,149
you have to work for it,
but it's definitely worth it.
1578
01:16:11,233 --> 01:16:13,443
-It's a gift. Definitely a gift.
-Absolutely.
1579
01:16:15,153 --> 01:16:15,988
[both sighs]
1580
01:16:16,071 --> 01:16:18,615
When you see her walk down the aisle,
your heart is gonna stop.
1581
01:16:18,699 --> 01:16:19,741
I know it will.
1582
01:16:19,825 --> 01:16:22,703
'Cause I know Daddy said that
when I walked down with Papa Joe.
1583
01:16:23,870 --> 01:16:25,414
I'm glad it restarted. [laughs]
1584
01:16:26,456 --> 01:16:28,834
When you get up there,
talk from your heart.
1585
01:16:31,503 --> 01:16:34,172
God willing,
I'll have a daughter-in-law very soon.
1586
01:16:36,633 --> 01:16:38,010
It's crazy.
1587
01:16:39,094 --> 01:16:40,053
[sighs]
1588
01:16:40,137 --> 01:16:41,513
[laughing]
1589
01:16:54,818 --> 01:16:56,612
-[Johnny] Mm. Thank you.
-Mm.
1590
01:16:58,989 --> 01:17:00,574
[sighs] Whoa, man.
1591
01:17:00,657 --> 01:17:01,950
[Johnny] Come here.
1592
01:17:02,034 --> 01:17:04,328
[Cameron groans]
You're getting married, man.
1593
01:17:07,664 --> 01:17:08,540
[exhales]
1594
01:17:12,586 --> 01:17:15,255
{\an8}[laughing]
1595
01:17:17,007 --> 01:17:19,676
-[puffs]
-Got a sweat rag if you want one.
1596
01:17:19,760 --> 01:17:22,346
[laughing]
1597
01:17:22,429 --> 01:17:24,181
Appreciate you, man. Thank you. Thank you.
1598
01:17:24,264 --> 01:17:25,390
[laughing]
1599
01:17:26,475 --> 01:17:28,685
-[pop music playing]
-[vocalizing]
1600
01:17:39,154 --> 01:17:41,281
{\an8}♪ The sun rises... ♪
1601
01:17:41,907 --> 01:17:42,949
[chuckles]
1602
01:17:43,992 --> 01:17:46,411
-[laughing]
-[chattering]
1603
01:17:51,625 --> 01:17:53,627
[vocalizing]
1604
01:18:04,012 --> 01:18:05,639
♪ Breathe it in... ♪
1605
01:18:05,722 --> 01:18:07,432
Sorry. [sniffles]
1606
01:18:07,516 --> 01:18:08,850
[David] No need to be sorry.
1607
01:18:11,478 --> 01:18:12,354
[sighs]
1608
01:18:18,276 --> 01:18:20,779
{\an8}-So beautiful.
-Thank you both for being a part of this.
1609
01:18:20,862 --> 01:18:21,905
It means a lot.
1610
01:18:23,281 --> 01:18:24,282
I love you.
1611
01:18:25,117 --> 01:18:27,452
-I love you too.
-I love you so much.
1612
01:18:27,536 --> 01:18:29,663
[sighing]
1613
01:18:29,746 --> 01:18:32,874
-I got you always. I always got your back.
-[laughing]
1614
01:18:36,128 --> 01:18:37,462
This is all beautiful.
1615
01:18:38,338 --> 01:18:42,175
This is the time that you was
waiting for a long time, with Johnny.
1616
01:18:42,259 --> 01:18:44,219
Johnny. Johnny's my person.
1617
01:18:46,096 --> 01:18:48,432
♪ In the midst of a rushing stream... ♪
1618
01:18:50,726 --> 01:18:51,977
[Cameron] All rise, please.
1619
01:18:52,769 --> 01:18:54,479
♪ Breathe it in ♪
1620
01:19:01,903 --> 01:19:04,489
♪ Breathe it in ♪
1621
01:19:05,157 --> 01:19:06,032
[Amy sobs]
1622
01:19:22,007 --> 01:19:24,092
I'm giving my treasure to you.
1623
01:19:25,886 --> 01:19:27,345
[Cameron] You may take your seats.
1624
01:19:31,558 --> 01:19:32,434
[Amy sniffles]
1625
01:19:35,854 --> 01:19:37,773
Of course you look gorgeous.
1626
01:19:38,482 --> 01:19:39,316
Thank you.
1627
01:19:41,860 --> 01:19:44,029
[Cameron] Thank you, everyone,
for being here today.
1628
01:19:44,112 --> 01:19:46,948
At this moment, both Amy and Johnny
want us to take a moment
1629
01:19:47,032 --> 01:19:49,826
and honor those of us
who couldn't be here today.
1630
01:19:50,327 --> 01:19:52,537
They would like
to honor Amy's grandparents
1631
01:19:53,288 --> 01:19:54,873
as well as Johnny's grandparents.
1632
01:19:58,543 --> 01:20:02,005
We're here to celebrate Amy and Johnny.
1633
01:20:02,088 --> 01:20:06,218
These two people have completely
shown themselves to one another.
1634
01:20:06,301 --> 01:20:08,720
We all have walls. We all have masks.
1635
01:20:09,471 --> 01:20:12,682
Rarely does the outside world
get to see who we are on the inside.
1636
01:20:14,768 --> 01:20:17,729
When you love someone,
you can be your true self
1637
01:20:17,813 --> 01:20:21,942
and be met with love
and compassion, commitment.
1638
01:20:22,025 --> 01:20:24,027
As a result of this experiment,
1639
01:20:24,945 --> 01:20:27,489
both of you fell in love sight unseen.
1640
01:20:28,198 --> 01:20:30,033
That in and of itself is a miracle.
1641
01:20:32,118 --> 01:20:35,080
Never in a million years,
in my 27 years of life,
1642
01:20:35,163 --> 01:20:37,707
did I ever imagine that I would
1643
01:20:37,791 --> 01:20:39,960
fall in love with somebody
over a wall... [laughs]
1644
01:20:40,043 --> 01:20:41,586
...without ever seeing them.
1645
01:20:43,088 --> 01:20:48,510
But feeling your character
and learning to know and love your soul...
1646
01:20:51,221 --> 01:20:52,639
[voice breaks] I love your soul.
1647
01:20:56,434 --> 01:20:57,310
And...
1648
01:20:57,394 --> 01:20:58,520
I love you too, baby.
1649
01:20:58,603 --> 01:21:01,523
[laughing] ...I'm excited for what's next.
1650
01:21:07,612 --> 01:21:08,488
I can't wait.
1651
01:21:19,040 --> 01:21:20,041
I love you.
1652
01:21:20,876 --> 01:21:24,713
Amy and Johnny, now is the time
to decide if love is blind.
1653
01:21:27,090 --> 01:21:28,133
Will you get married
1654
01:21:29,509 --> 01:21:31,845
and commit to face life together,
1655
01:21:32,762 --> 01:21:34,556
or will you walk away forever?
1656
01:21:43,148 --> 01:21:44,149
Amy,
1657
01:21:45,358 --> 01:21:48,570
do you promise
to do your very best each day
1658
01:21:48,653 --> 01:21:52,157
to create a loving,
healthy and happy marriage?
1659
01:22:02,751 --> 01:22:03,752
I do.
1660
01:22:15,138 --> 01:22:16,139
[Cameron] Johnny,
1661
01:22:17,265 --> 01:22:21,186
do you promise
to do your very best every day
1662
01:22:21,770 --> 01:22:25,023
to create a loving,
healthy and happy marriage?
1663
01:22:33,823 --> 01:22:34,658
I do.
1664
01:22:34,741 --> 01:22:36,993
[cheering]
1665
01:22:40,622 --> 01:22:43,375
[Cameron] With the power vested in me,
it is my honor
1666
01:22:43,458 --> 01:22:46,753
to now pronounce you man and wife.
1667
01:22:46,836 --> 01:22:49,130
-You may seal your vows with a kiss.
-Baby!
1668
01:22:49,214 --> 01:22:51,424
[attendees cheering]
1669
01:22:51,508 --> 01:22:53,051
[pop music playing]
1670
01:22:53,134 --> 01:22:54,052
[Johnny] Whoa!
1671
01:22:54,803 --> 01:22:58,723
[Cameron] Ladies and gentlemen,
Mrs. Amy and John McIntyre!
1672
01:22:58,807 --> 01:23:00,934
[cheering]
1673
01:23:01,017 --> 01:23:03,019
[Amy laughs]
1674
01:23:04,562 --> 01:23:06,398
[cheering continues]
1675
01:23:06,481 --> 01:23:09,859
♪ 'Cause we're meant to be together ♪
1676
01:23:09,943 --> 01:23:11,778
♪ Together, together ♪
1677
01:23:12,445 --> 01:23:14,614
♪ Meant to be together ♪
1678
01:23:14,698 --> 01:23:18,326
♪ Together, oh-oh! ♪
1679
01:23:18,410 --> 01:23:20,036
-[Amy laughs]
-[Johnny] Love that so much.
1680
01:23:20,120 --> 01:23:23,039
-Oh, my God.
-[Amy] Oh, my God. I'm gonna cry.
1681
01:23:23,123 --> 01:23:23,957
[laughs]
1682
01:23:25,375 --> 01:23:27,836
-You looked amazing.
-You look amazing.
1683
01:23:29,504 --> 01:23:31,506
Mm. I love you.
1684
01:23:32,340 --> 01:23:33,800
-My husband. [laughs]
-I love you.
1685
01:23:33,883 --> 01:23:34,884
My wife.
1686
01:23:34,968 --> 01:23:36,177
I found my partner.
1687
01:23:36,261 --> 01:23:39,347
I found her. I didn't think
I was gonna ever find her at all.
1688
01:23:39,431 --> 01:23:41,516
And now we're married! [chuckles]
1689
01:23:41,599 --> 01:23:45,103
Mrs. McIntyre. Mrs. Cortes-McIntyre.
1690
01:23:45,186 --> 01:23:47,188
-Mm! Has a nice ring to it. [laughs]
-It does.
1691
01:23:47,856 --> 01:23:49,065
Damn, you look good!
1692
01:23:49,149 --> 01:23:50,442
-[Amy laughs]
-Ow!
1693
01:23:50,525 --> 01:23:51,943
I'm so grateful
1694
01:23:52,736 --> 01:23:54,404
to have found my person.
1695
01:23:54,487 --> 01:23:57,115
My husband! [laughs]
1696
01:23:57,198 --> 01:23:59,576
♪ Because we're meant to be ♪
1697
01:23:59,659 --> 01:24:02,078
♪ Yeah, it feels so right ♪
1698
01:24:02,162 --> 01:24:03,079
I love you.
1699
01:24:03,621 --> 01:24:04,539
I love you.
1700
01:24:04,622 --> 01:24:06,708
When we first came down to it,
1701
01:24:06,791 --> 01:24:09,794
I was like, "Hey, uh,
you're out of my league."
1702
01:24:09,878 --> 01:24:13,423
I wouldn't have come up to you at a bar.
I would've been so just like... [gasps]
1703
01:24:13,506 --> 01:24:17,052
And the fact that she liked me for me
and the looks didn't matter, it was just...
1704
01:24:17,135 --> 01:24:18,678
Wow, it worked out perfectly.
1705
01:24:18,762 --> 01:24:20,055
-[cork pops]
-[Amy laughs]
1706
01:24:20,138 --> 01:24:21,765
[both shout]
1707
01:24:21,848 --> 01:24:24,601
-Love is blind. [laughs]
-Love is blind.
1708
01:24:24,684 --> 01:24:26,352
-Cheers to our love.
-Cheers.
1709
01:24:26,895 --> 01:24:28,813
I love you. [laughs]
1710
01:24:28,897 --> 01:24:32,901
-[pop music playing]
-♪ I love you, I love you, I love you ♪
1711
01:24:32,984 --> 01:24:35,987
♪ Oh, yes, I do love you... ♪
1712
01:24:36,071 --> 01:24:38,364
My husband! Mm! Mm! Mm!
1713
01:24:38,448 --> 01:24:39,449
[both] My husband!
1714
01:24:39,532 --> 01:24:41,534
♪ I love you... ♪
1715
01:24:41,618 --> 01:24:42,827
[laughs]
1716
01:24:42,911 --> 01:24:44,162
I just wanna...
1717
01:24:44,245 --> 01:24:46,122
It was perfect. Mm!
1718
01:24:47,540 --> 01:24:48,666
I love you so much.
1719
01:24:49,209 --> 01:24:52,754
{\an8}-I love you too, baby. You look fantastic.
-Thank you.
1720
01:24:52,837 --> 01:24:53,838
[laughs]
1721
01:24:53,922 --> 01:24:58,176
♪ I love you ♪
1722
01:25:02,680 --> 01:25:04,557
[pop music playing]
1723
01:25:04,641 --> 01:25:06,351
♪ Red lights flash in the dark ♪
1724
01:25:06,434 --> 01:25:08,311
♪ 3:00 a.m. staying up ♪
1725
01:25:08,394 --> 01:25:11,314
♪ This isn't what I imagined ♪
1726
01:25:12,190 --> 01:25:15,652
♪ Flowers on the bedside
Questions in my headlight ♪
1727
01:25:15,735 --> 01:25:18,947
♪ Tell me how this could have happened... ♪
1728
01:25:19,030 --> 01:25:22,367
I want love. I wanna be married,
and I'm just, like... I don't know, man.
1729
01:25:22,450 --> 01:25:25,954
♪ Long nights like I've never known
Cold bed in an empty home. ♪
1730
01:25:26,037 --> 01:25:28,998
♪ Tell me how to do this without you ♪
1731
01:25:29,082 --> 01:25:32,168
Emotions are all over the place,
especially seeing...
1732
01:25:32,252 --> 01:25:35,713
I guess, for me, I didn't understand
the magnitude of the decision.
1733
01:25:36,673 --> 01:25:39,676
Um, you know, I'm definitely... I just
feel stupid. You know what I'm saying?
1734
01:25:39,759 --> 01:25:41,136
I just feel stupid, so...
1735
01:25:41,219 --> 01:25:45,181
♪ I guess I always thought
That we had time to get older... ♪
1736
01:25:45,265 --> 01:25:48,268
I don't know. I just kind of
wanna get out of here, honestly.
1737
01:25:48,351 --> 01:25:51,771
♪ 'Cause I know that you're hurting
It's gonna be okay ♪
1738
01:25:51,855 --> 01:25:55,650
♪ All that I can promise you
Is time will numb the pain ♪
1739
01:25:55,733 --> 01:25:59,737
♪ And, darling, don't you worry
Believe me, you'll be fine... ♪
1740
01:25:59,821 --> 01:26:00,655
[sniffles]
1741
01:26:03,158 --> 01:26:05,535
[AD] I don't regret saying yes to him.
1742
01:26:06,119 --> 01:26:08,454
I mean, my love was blind.
1743
01:26:10,790 --> 01:26:14,085
There's nothing that
he could have shown me, told me...
1744
01:26:15,920 --> 01:26:18,715
[shudders] ...that would have
changed my answer.
1745
01:26:18,798 --> 01:26:22,218
♪ I know that you're hurting
It's gonna be okay ♪
1746
01:26:22,302 --> 01:26:25,805
♪ All that I can promise you
Is time will numb the pain... ♪
1747
01:26:25,889 --> 01:26:28,183
I don't see myself continuing to date him.
1748
01:26:29,392 --> 01:26:32,645
You don't wanna pick me.
Somebody else will. I'm done.
1749
01:26:33,521 --> 01:26:36,149
My heart is, like, broken. [sniffles]
1750
01:26:37,317 --> 01:26:39,944
I stood ten toes the whole time.
1751
01:26:40,028 --> 01:26:43,072
I've been strong and powerful, and...
1752
01:26:43,990 --> 01:26:45,825
That's just who I will remain.
1753
01:26:46,326 --> 01:26:50,163
♪ And all I know is, all I know is ♪
1754
01:26:50,246 --> 01:26:53,666
♪ All I know is
I was lucky you were mine... ♪
1755
01:26:53,750 --> 01:26:57,086
I'm just... I don't know.
I just am waiting for it to be my turn.
1756
01:26:57,837 --> 01:27:01,633
♪ All I know is
I was lucky you were mine ♪
1757
01:27:01,716 --> 01:27:05,511
♪ All I know is, all I know is ♪
1758
01:27:05,595 --> 01:27:09,807
♪ All I know is
I was lucky you were mine ♪
1759
01:27:09,891 --> 01:27:12,810
-[cheering]
-[DJ] Make some noise for the McIntyres!
1760
01:27:12,894 --> 01:27:15,313
-["Live Loud" by Animal Island playing]
-[cheering]
1761
01:27:16,606 --> 01:27:19,734
[DJ] Come on, come on,
it's their wedding day today!
1762
01:27:19,817 --> 01:27:22,070
[cheering]
1763
01:27:22,153 --> 01:27:25,031
-[vocalizing]
-♪ I wanna live loud ♪
1764
01:27:25,114 --> 01:27:28,243
Have you met my wife Amy?
She's kind of cool.
1765
01:27:28,326 --> 01:27:30,870
And have you met my husband? He's cooler.
1766
01:27:30,954 --> 01:27:32,497
-[laughing]
-I'm cooler? Oh, shit.
1767
01:27:32,580 --> 01:27:34,916
-I take it back. I'm just kidding.
-I was gonna say.
1768
01:27:35,416 --> 01:27:36,584
-Only kidding.
-[shouts]
1769
01:27:36,668 --> 01:27:37,877
[laughing]
1770
01:27:37,961 --> 01:27:39,087
So, today,
1771
01:27:39,879 --> 01:27:42,423
my daughter is not only my daughter,
1772
01:27:42,507 --> 01:27:44,759
because, today, I have a son.
1773
01:27:44,842 --> 01:27:47,762
[attendees cheering]
1774
01:27:47,845 --> 01:27:49,931
-That's my new dad!
-[laughs]
1775
01:27:50,014 --> 01:27:53,434
[David] Raise your glass,
celebrate the new family,
1776
01:27:53,518 --> 01:27:55,561
McIntyre-Cortes family!
1777
01:27:55,645 --> 01:27:58,398
[cheering]
1778
01:28:01,234 --> 01:28:03,486
[woman 8] Welcome to the family!
1779
01:28:03,569 --> 01:28:07,282
[Amy] It's truly a magical thing to see
both of our families unite into one,
1780
01:28:07,365 --> 01:28:10,243
because it truly just adds that,
1781
01:28:10,326 --> 01:28:12,245
you know, emphasis
that it was meant to be.
1782
01:28:12,328 --> 01:28:14,497
Like, this just
confirms that even more, yeah.
1783
01:28:14,580 --> 01:28:17,834
[cheering]
1784
01:28:20,253 --> 01:28:22,588
I feel like if you do it the right way,
1785
01:28:22,672 --> 01:28:26,426
and you really, really commit to it,
love is blind.
1786
01:28:26,509 --> 01:28:30,596
If you really dive into the waters,
like, it's gonna be a little cold.
1787
01:28:30,680 --> 01:28:33,558
It's gonna be a little uncomfortable,
but once you get used to it...
1788
01:28:33,641 --> 01:28:35,476
-Love is blind.
-Yeah.
1789
01:28:35,560 --> 01:28:37,103
Could not have said it better, honestly.
1790
01:28:37,186 --> 01:28:38,521
[pop music playing]
1791
01:28:38,604 --> 01:28:39,856
Mmm!
1792
01:28:40,565 --> 01:28:42,984
♪ 'Cause you saved, yeah, you saved me ♪
1793
01:28:43,067 --> 01:28:44,944
[music continues]
1794
01:28:49,240 --> 01:28:52,243
-[Amy chuckles]
-[cheering]
1795
01:28:53,161 --> 01:28:56,247
♪ All these dreams
We have with you in sight
1796
01:28:57,206 --> 01:29:00,251
♪ Becoming real so we can touch the sky ♪
1797
01:29:01,002 --> 01:29:02,670
♪ It feels so right ♪
1798
01:29:02,754 --> 01:29:06,257
♪ Your love is like heaven ♪
1799
01:29:08,843 --> 01:29:12,263
♪ And on my heart, I'll never turn away ♪
1800
01:29:13,306 --> 01:29:16,225
♪ Before they're through
Till we can stop to say ♪
1801
01:29:17,310 --> 01:29:18,728
♪ It feels so right ♪
1802
01:29:18,811 --> 01:29:23,232
♪ Your love is like heaven ♪
1803
01:29:23,316 --> 01:29:25,234
♪ Feels like heaven ♪