1 00:00:06,006 --> 00:00:07,590 Welcome to Love Is Blind. 2 00:00:07,674 --> 00:00:09,175 [all cheering] 3 00:00:09,259 --> 00:00:12,345 [Nick] Here you will choose someone to marry without ever seeing them. 4 00:00:12,429 --> 00:00:16,683 It is baffling to have the feelings I have for you 5 00:00:16,766 --> 00:00:18,518 and genuinely care about you. 6 00:00:18,601 --> 00:00:19,811 [laughs] I'm so excited. 7 00:00:19,894 --> 00:00:22,814 [Nick] If you fall in love with someone and wanna spend your life with them, 8 00:00:22,897 --> 00:00:23,732 you'll get engaged. 9 00:00:23,815 --> 00:00:27,235 -You gonna be my Puerto Rican wife? -Yes, I will be your Puerto Rican wife! 10 00:00:27,318 --> 00:00:29,446 -[both laughing] -[upbeat music playing] 11 00:00:29,529 --> 00:00:33,116 [Vanessa] And if they accept, you'll finally see your fiancée 12 00:00:33,199 --> 00:00:34,993 for the very first time. 13 00:00:35,076 --> 00:00:36,828 -[Stacy] Hi! -[Izzy exclaims] 14 00:00:37,996 --> 00:00:40,373 -[Milton] Hey. -[Lydia] Oh, my God! 15 00:00:40,457 --> 00:00:41,791 You're really pretty. 16 00:00:41,875 --> 00:00:43,793 ♪ Everything is all right… ♪ 17 00:00:43,877 --> 00:00:44,794 [Nick] Up until now, 18 00:00:44,878 --> 00:00:48,131 your attraction's been based entirely in an emotional connection. 19 00:00:48,214 --> 00:00:49,883 I love you. 20 00:00:49,966 --> 00:00:53,261 [Vanessa] Hopefully, you turn that emotional connection into a physical one. 21 00:00:53,344 --> 00:00:55,889 [Milton] There was a little bit of sexual tension in the pods, 22 00:00:55,972 --> 00:00:58,933 but then when you can actually see them and look at one another, and like, 23 00:00:59,017 --> 00:01:01,978 "Okay, we're gonna go there." 24 00:01:02,062 --> 00:01:05,065 [Vanessa] Will they let the pressures of the physical world get in the way? 25 00:01:05,148 --> 00:01:07,567 [Taylor] You're not the person I fell in love with. 26 00:01:07,650 --> 00:01:08,777 I'm done. 27 00:01:08,860 --> 00:01:11,279 ["Make This End" by Henry O'Marks & David Connolly playing] 28 00:01:13,615 --> 00:01:15,325 So, you have no dishes? 29 00:01:15,408 --> 00:01:16,242 [Izzy] No. 30 00:01:16,826 --> 00:01:19,704 You make me feel like I'm not enough for you. 31 00:01:21,623 --> 00:01:24,000 [Rita] Yeah, I was just curious what someone 30 32 00:01:24,084 --> 00:01:26,795 would be interested in a 24-year-old. 33 00:01:26,878 --> 00:01:28,171 It's phony. 34 00:01:28,963 --> 00:01:30,048 This is such a major step, 35 00:01:30,131 --> 00:01:32,801 you figure you wanna make sure this is the one. 36 00:01:33,968 --> 00:01:36,763 You took a picture of my house and you sent it to me! 37 00:01:36,846 --> 00:01:39,390 -You said, "I see you." -I ain't gonna deal with this shit. 38 00:01:39,474 --> 00:01:42,894 This is the last time you will see my fucking face! 39 00:01:42,977 --> 00:01:46,856 [Nick] Will you say "I do" to the person you fall in love with sight unseen? 40 00:01:46,940 --> 00:01:47,982 I'm madly in love with you. 41 00:01:48,066 --> 00:01:50,110 Look at my little hand. You wanna hold it? 42 00:01:50,944 --> 00:01:53,863 I know that you love me, and I love you. 43 00:01:53,947 --> 00:01:54,781 100%. 44 00:01:56,032 --> 00:01:58,701 [Nick] Or will you walk away from them forever? 45 00:01:58,785 --> 00:02:01,287 In the pods, talking about finances, "Anything I need to know?" 46 00:02:01,371 --> 00:02:02,539 You're like, "Absolutely not." 47 00:02:02,622 --> 00:02:04,707 That wasn't totally truthful. 48 00:02:04,791 --> 00:02:06,668 It's not something I was trying to lie about. 49 00:02:06,751 --> 00:02:09,546 You know me better than anyone. 50 00:02:09,629 --> 00:02:11,464 I don't wanna lose you or us. 51 00:02:11,548 --> 00:02:13,967 ["I Am the Truth" by Shillingford and Evans playing] 52 00:02:14,050 --> 00:02:15,760 I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings. 53 00:02:15,844 --> 00:02:18,471 I'm sorry I've done things that you don't like. 54 00:02:18,555 --> 00:02:23,017 ♪ I am the truth ♪ 55 00:02:23,101 --> 00:02:24,519 ♪ Never tell a lie… ♪ 56 00:02:24,602 --> 00:02:25,812 We got this, right? 57 00:02:25,895 --> 00:02:29,983 ♪ Bless my heart and hope to die ♪ 58 00:02:31,151 --> 00:02:33,820 ["The Rest of My Life" by Positive Spin Songs playing] 59 00:02:33,903 --> 00:02:35,947 ♪ Let me just start with that ♪ 60 00:02:36,030 --> 00:02:38,992 ♪ You better get used to it ♪ 61 00:02:39,075 --> 00:02:42,162 ♪ 'Cause it's how I feel about you ♪ 62 00:02:42,245 --> 00:02:44,080 ♪ You're my best friend ♪ 63 00:02:44,164 --> 00:02:46,040 ♪ There through thick and thin… ♪ 64 00:02:47,333 --> 00:02:48,501 ♪ Yeah, it's a big cliché… ♪ 65 00:02:48,585 --> 00:02:52,881 -[Stacy] Thank you so much. -♪ It's just the way I feel about you ♪ 66 00:02:53,464 --> 00:02:58,595 ♪ I will love you ♪ 67 00:02:58,678 --> 00:03:01,222 ♪ For the rest of my life ♪ 68 00:03:01,306 --> 00:03:03,099 ♪ The rest of my life ♪ 69 00:03:03,683 --> 00:03:06,936 [Stacy] I never thought I'd fall in love with someone that fast. 70 00:03:07,020 --> 00:03:09,272 It wasn't necessarily about never seeing them. 71 00:03:09,355 --> 00:03:11,691 I'm like, looks don't really matter to me, but… 72 00:03:12,817 --> 00:03:15,778 [exhales]… I guess how fast I fell in love with him 73 00:03:15,862 --> 00:03:17,447 was the most shocking part. 74 00:03:18,323 --> 00:03:20,325 In a week. Maybe less. 75 00:03:20,992 --> 00:03:23,661 ♪ Even if I have to shout I love you… ♪ 76 00:03:23,745 --> 00:03:24,954 Oh… 77 00:03:25,830 --> 00:03:27,123 That is shocking. 78 00:03:30,084 --> 00:03:30,960 But I did. 79 00:03:32,128 --> 00:03:34,631 [Stacy] You make me feel like my lungs and my heart 80 00:03:34,714 --> 00:03:36,466 are fighting against each other. 81 00:03:36,549 --> 00:03:40,136 Like my breath can't keep up with my heart rate anytime I'm around you 82 00:03:40,220 --> 00:03:41,596 or just thinking about you. 83 00:03:42,305 --> 00:03:43,723 That's how I feel right now. 84 00:03:43,806 --> 00:03:49,145 I feel like this is home, and I feel like this is where I belong. 85 00:03:50,647 --> 00:03:52,106 Will you marry me? 86 00:03:52,190 --> 00:03:55,568 -Yes! -Fuck yeah, baby! [laughs] 87 00:03:55,652 --> 00:03:57,737 -You have really pretty lips. -[laughing] 88 00:03:57,820 --> 00:03:59,656 [Izzy] This is what I've been waiting for. 89 00:03:59,739 --> 00:04:02,575 [both laughing] 90 00:04:02,659 --> 00:04:05,954 The most romantic thing anyone's ever gotten me! 91 00:04:06,037 --> 00:04:07,163 [Izzy] I love you. 92 00:04:07,789 --> 00:04:08,998 I know he's the one, 93 00:04:09,082 --> 00:04:12,585 because, for me, I'm like, if that person comes along that changes my life, 94 00:04:12,669 --> 00:04:15,004 and I can't live, breathe, eat, sleep without them, 95 00:04:15,088 --> 00:04:17,006 I will do anything for them. 96 00:04:17,090 --> 00:04:19,425 [voice breaks] And I see that with him every day. 97 00:04:19,926 --> 00:04:22,345 I love Izzy. He's amazing. 98 00:04:22,428 --> 00:04:27,684 He's kind, and thoughtful, and giving, and strong. 99 00:04:27,767 --> 00:04:28,768 He's vulnerable. 100 00:04:28,851 --> 00:04:31,229 He is… His name's Izzy. Ismael. 101 00:04:31,312 --> 00:04:33,982 -He's so exotic. He's so hot. -[man] Yes? 102 00:04:34,065 --> 00:04:35,900 He's a big old chunk of meat. 103 00:04:35,984 --> 00:04:37,485 And how did you-- 104 00:04:37,986 --> 00:04:40,905 [laughing] Don't ask me how I met him. Don't you dare ask me how I met him! 105 00:04:40,989 --> 00:04:43,408 [Chelsea] Little Stacy Loo! 106 00:04:43,491 --> 00:04:44,534 I hear Chelsea! 107 00:04:44,617 --> 00:04:46,786 -[Chelsea] Hello, Sister Soo! -[Stacy] Hi! 108 00:04:46,869 --> 00:04:48,329 [Chelsea] Where's your other sisters? 109 00:04:48,997 --> 00:04:52,166 -[Stacy] Part one of wedding day! -[all cheering] 110 00:04:52,250 --> 00:04:53,793 [Sloan] It's your wedding day! 111 00:04:53,876 --> 00:04:56,421 Pop the champagne, she's changing her last name. 112 00:04:56,504 --> 00:04:57,547 -Boom, boom. -[man laughing] 113 00:04:57,630 --> 00:04:59,799 [Sloan] Got your robe ready whenever you're ready. 114 00:04:59,882 --> 00:05:02,093 -[Stacy] Okay, can I throw that on? -[man] Yes, of course. 115 00:05:02,176 --> 00:05:03,011 [Stacy] Okay. 116 00:05:03,636 --> 00:05:06,431 I just don't wanna sit in all black. I feel like it's bad luck. 117 00:05:06,514 --> 00:05:08,099 I didn't realize I was wearing all black. 118 00:05:08,766 --> 00:05:10,476 [Sloan] Mom's dress is black too. 119 00:05:11,269 --> 00:05:13,479 -She's not the one getting married. -[Sloan] That's true. 120 00:05:13,563 --> 00:05:15,273 [both laughing] 121 00:05:16,024 --> 00:05:18,443 [Stacy] She wore it at your wedding, look what happened! 122 00:05:18,526 --> 00:05:20,528 -[Sloan] True, all success. -[Stacy] She's good luck. 123 00:05:20,611 --> 00:05:23,156 Success stories with that dress. We're just gonna keep it going. 124 00:05:23,239 --> 00:05:24,407 Boop-boop. 125 00:05:24,490 --> 00:05:26,868 -["Lifting Me Up" playing] -♪ Lifting me up ♪ 126 00:05:30,288 --> 00:05:32,290 ♪ Lifting me up ♪ 127 00:05:36,419 --> 00:05:38,421 ♪ Lifting me up ♪ 128 00:05:38,504 --> 00:05:39,380 Thank you. 129 00:05:40,048 --> 00:05:42,050 [Izzy] They say when you fall in love, 130 00:05:42,133 --> 00:05:44,344 it'll happen, like, when you least expect it. 131 00:05:45,636 --> 00:05:47,263 Through the other side of the wall, 132 00:05:47,347 --> 00:05:49,682 and boom, just hit like a train. 133 00:05:50,224 --> 00:05:52,143 She knew everything about me. 134 00:05:52,226 --> 00:05:54,395 She challenges me to be better. 135 00:05:54,979 --> 00:05:56,939 I mean, she's fun. She's loud. 136 00:05:57,023 --> 00:05:58,441 What's up? What's up? [laughing] 137 00:05:58,524 --> 00:06:00,943 -[man] Oh! -God, it's so good to see you. 138 00:06:01,027 --> 00:06:05,281 She's tough to crack, but when you break those walls down, 139 00:06:05,365 --> 00:06:09,452 she's very tender, and sweet, and kind. 140 00:06:10,161 --> 00:06:12,455 Being in love with Stacy has been a ride. 141 00:06:12,955 --> 00:06:17,001 A crazy ride, um, but there's no one else that I would wanna do it with. 142 00:06:17,085 --> 00:06:19,462 Y'all want drinks? Here's y'all's tuxes. 143 00:06:19,545 --> 00:06:23,091 Dude, I'm cracking up at the size difference of you and mine. 144 00:06:23,174 --> 00:06:26,260 -[man 1] That's you. That's me. -[man 2] Nick, yeah. Zach. 145 00:06:26,344 --> 00:06:28,554 [Izzy sighs] Oh, dude. 146 00:06:28,638 --> 00:06:30,515 I got so much to fill y'all in on. 147 00:06:30,598 --> 00:06:31,891 -Oh, yeah? -Oh, yeah. 148 00:06:31,974 --> 00:06:32,892 [friends laughing] 149 00:06:32,975 --> 00:06:34,894 From just the last 48 hours or what? 150 00:06:34,977 --> 00:06:36,479 Yeah, I was a wreck last night. 151 00:06:36,562 --> 00:06:40,400 [Izzy] I didn't think that my credit score was gonna be that big of a deal, 152 00:06:40,483 --> 00:06:42,193 so I wasn't, like, afraid to tell her. 153 00:06:42,276 --> 00:06:46,823 I'm a man of integrity. The strong rock. The cool, calm guy. 154 00:06:47,740 --> 00:06:52,036 And she finally saw me just kind of lose it, you know. 155 00:06:53,037 --> 00:06:55,832 When you love someone and that emotional connection is there, 156 00:06:55,915 --> 00:06:57,667 like, love has no credit score. 157 00:06:57,750 --> 00:06:59,794 Love has no price tag. 158 00:06:59,877 --> 00:07:01,379 Love has no timeline. 159 00:07:01,462 --> 00:07:03,631 Honestly, like, we have really good communication. 160 00:07:03,714 --> 00:07:06,384 Um, anytime problems would come up, yeah, I would get frustrated. 161 00:07:06,467 --> 00:07:07,718 We would have arguments. 162 00:07:07,802 --> 00:07:10,138 It was never, like, anything toxic or crazy, 163 00:07:10,221 --> 00:07:12,974 and we'd always, like, fix it and move on. [exhales] 164 00:07:13,057 --> 00:07:16,310 Everything was good, but it's just, like, in the last two or three days, 165 00:07:16,394 --> 00:07:17,520 I felt her stress. 166 00:07:19,814 --> 00:07:22,483 -[Nick] Dude, I felt your stress. -[Zach] You're stressed, dude! 167 00:07:22,567 --> 00:07:24,152 Homestretch, 48 hours. Yeah. 168 00:07:24,235 --> 00:07:28,114 [Izzy] That's how I know I love her. Like, I was lost, like, going through it. 169 00:07:28,197 --> 00:07:30,324 Um, and she was too. 170 00:07:30,408 --> 00:07:32,535 We told each other, like, we need space. 171 00:07:32,618 --> 00:07:34,579 Like, you need to process this shit for yourself. 172 00:07:34,662 --> 00:07:38,332 I need to process it. But that's my girl. I love her. 173 00:07:38,416 --> 00:07:41,586 -I'mma hold you to that too. -[laughs] You'll be next to me up there. 174 00:07:41,669 --> 00:07:44,380 I've known you your whole life, and you've been through some stuff, so… 175 00:07:44,464 --> 00:07:45,715 -It's just another… -[Izzy] Yeah. 176 00:07:45,798 --> 00:07:47,425 You're one of the strongest people I know. 177 00:07:47,508 --> 00:07:48,593 [Izzy sighs heavily] 178 00:07:48,676 --> 00:07:51,095 And I don't care about whatever drama goes on outside. 179 00:07:51,179 --> 00:07:52,221 I don't care about money. 180 00:07:52,305 --> 00:07:55,725 I don't care about… anything. 181 00:07:56,392 --> 00:07:59,729 She always said that she needs someone that can stick around 182 00:07:59,812 --> 00:08:01,439 when shit's hitting the fan. 183 00:08:02,273 --> 00:08:03,649 Um, that doesn't run away. 184 00:08:04,692 --> 00:08:06,694 So, I'm gonna keep fighting. 185 00:08:07,778 --> 00:08:08,779 It's… 186 00:08:09,363 --> 00:08:10,948 It's what you do when you love someone. 187 00:08:11,032 --> 00:08:13,409 -[all laughing] -Honestly, I'm so glad you guys are here. 188 00:08:13,493 --> 00:08:14,660 I'm going up, I'm saying yes. 189 00:08:14,744 --> 00:08:16,746 [uplifting music playing] 190 00:08:19,957 --> 00:08:22,084 [Sloan] What is your hair vibe? What are you going for? 191 00:08:22,168 --> 00:08:23,419 Just down, simple. 192 00:08:23,503 --> 00:08:25,796 All of it's very simple, 'cause my dress is not. 193 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:26,797 You look stunning. 194 00:08:26,881 --> 00:08:30,092 This has been the most emotionally and mentally 195 00:08:30,801 --> 00:08:33,804 challenging thing I've ever been through. 196 00:08:33,888 --> 00:08:38,142 And then you also have the best things in your life happening at the same time. 197 00:08:38,226 --> 00:08:40,937 So it's just like a… [breathing raggedly] 198 00:08:41,020 --> 00:08:42,730 It's like emotional hiccups. 199 00:08:42,813 --> 00:08:44,982 We've been through so much, 200 00:08:45,066 --> 00:08:48,027 and there's the things that we figure out that are so amazing, 201 00:08:48,110 --> 00:08:51,489 and then things that are not so amazing, and both are surprises. 202 00:08:51,572 --> 00:08:53,616 I've seen myself marrying him, 203 00:08:53,699 --> 00:08:55,368 but on my wedding day, 204 00:08:55,451 --> 00:08:58,746 I wanna be laser-focused, 100%, 205 00:08:58,829 --> 00:09:00,081 like I was in the pods. 206 00:09:00,164 --> 00:09:03,626 I've definitely never seen you ask the hard questions this fast. 207 00:09:03,709 --> 00:09:06,170 -[Chelsea] Right. -I love asking Izzy the hard questions. 208 00:09:06,254 --> 00:09:07,672 Sometimes, he has a surprised face, 209 00:09:07,755 --> 00:09:09,549 and other times, he's very excited to answer, 210 00:09:09,632 --> 00:09:12,468 but I just love catching him off guard, where he's like… 211 00:09:12,552 --> 00:09:14,303 Izzy and I are so different. 212 00:09:14,387 --> 00:09:17,640 We have very different experiences in life, 213 00:09:17,723 --> 00:09:21,936 and he has a lot of things that he hasn't done that maybe I have. 214 00:09:22,019 --> 00:09:24,313 I mean, he just got his passport. 215 00:09:24,397 --> 00:09:26,482 His favorite restaurant I think is Chipotle. I'm like… 216 00:09:26,566 --> 00:09:28,150 I feel like that's a guy thing. 217 00:09:28,234 --> 00:09:30,194 -[Stacy] It definitely is! -Maybe not these guys. 218 00:09:30,278 --> 00:09:32,154 -Ray is a habit eater. -[Stacy] I love Chipotle. 219 00:09:32,238 --> 00:09:34,323 [Sloan] He's also, like, he works out a lot. 220 00:09:34,407 --> 00:09:36,784 I feel like guys like Chipotle 'cause it's the rice. 221 00:09:36,867 --> 00:09:39,912 -The protein, the veggies. -[Stacy] I know. Sloan, I'm well aware. 222 00:09:39,996 --> 00:09:41,664 [Sloan] They don't have to do it themselves. 223 00:09:41,747 --> 00:09:45,209 "What about Peruvian food? Have you ever gone to a Mediterranean restaurant?" 224 00:09:45,293 --> 00:09:47,211 Like, he doesn't know what to order. 225 00:09:47,295 --> 00:09:49,130 Well, you're like the girl with the hip spots. 226 00:09:49,213 --> 00:09:50,464 It's just funny. 227 00:09:50,548 --> 00:09:52,967 I love Izzy. I think that he's a sweet guy. 228 00:09:53,634 --> 00:09:57,888 I could see him easily fitting in with this family. 229 00:09:58,681 --> 00:10:00,474 Seeing you guys together, 230 00:10:00,558 --> 00:10:04,770 you do have a very fun, funny relationship. 231 00:10:04,854 --> 00:10:08,566 Like, you make each other laugh, and I think he would work really well 232 00:10:08,649 --> 00:10:09,734 in our family. 233 00:10:09,817 --> 00:10:12,069 I just transitioned 234 00:10:12,153 --> 00:10:17,658 from going with my head and logic to going with my heart. 235 00:10:17,742 --> 00:10:20,161 -And today you have to go with your gut. -[Stacy] Mmm-hmm. 236 00:10:20,995 --> 00:10:23,372 [Chelsea] But I like that you've gotten out of your head. 237 00:10:23,456 --> 00:10:24,665 Yeah, I do too. 238 00:10:24,749 --> 00:10:28,169 I was just always afraid of getting hurt or being so wrong about someone 239 00:10:28,252 --> 00:10:30,588 and letting that wall down to just get hurt again. So it's… 240 00:10:30,671 --> 00:10:32,965 -It's kind of liberating. -[Sloan] We've talked about that. 241 00:10:33,049 --> 00:10:36,010 I feel like you didn't wanna be scared anymore to trust somebody. 242 00:10:36,093 --> 00:10:38,220 Yeah, but I just couldn't get there. [chuckles] 243 00:10:38,304 --> 00:10:42,391 It's like, I knew the issue, but I'm like, "I think that's just a part of me now." 244 00:10:42,475 --> 00:10:44,685 But now it's like, "Okay, maybe that wasn't a part of me." 245 00:10:44,769 --> 00:10:47,772 -"Maybe I just needed to through--" -[Sloan] That's what I wanted for you. 246 00:10:47,855 --> 00:10:50,983 I don't want you to think that that's a part of who you are. I think you… 247 00:10:51,067 --> 00:10:55,655 I think you meet people that make you change what you thought was who you were. 248 00:10:55,738 --> 00:10:59,325 Yeah. I didn't think that was possible. I didn't think that was a thing. 249 00:10:59,408 --> 00:11:02,328 -'Cause I know everything. [laughing] -[Sloan] Right? Yeah! 250 00:11:02,411 --> 00:11:05,247 I mean, who's gonna teach me anything when I know it all? Guys! 251 00:11:05,331 --> 00:11:07,291 [laughing] 252 00:11:09,585 --> 00:11:12,672 I'm glad y'all are here, 'cause when I'm by myself, I fucking… 253 00:11:12,755 --> 00:11:14,465 -[Zach] Get in your head? -I get in my head. 254 00:11:14,548 --> 00:11:18,511 And I start, like, just thinking the worst versus being more optimistic 255 00:11:18,594 --> 00:11:20,179 and looking at the brighter side. 256 00:11:20,262 --> 00:11:23,724 You gotta think about, like, nerves, when somebody's nervous about something, 257 00:11:23,808 --> 00:11:25,559 that usually means, like, they care. 258 00:11:25,643 --> 00:11:27,770 Know what I mean? Like when we played baseball. 259 00:11:27,853 --> 00:11:30,398 You were nervous before a game, it's 'cause you cared about it. 260 00:11:30,481 --> 00:11:33,234 Yeah. Something that she had told me in the pods was like, 261 00:11:33,317 --> 00:11:37,154 "I need a man who's gonna stick through shit when shit's hitting the fan, 262 00:11:37,238 --> 00:11:39,407 not run away." Um… 263 00:11:41,075 --> 00:11:42,743 -Yeah. -So, you're saying she wants a man? 264 00:11:42,827 --> 00:11:45,705 -Exactly. And I'm that fucking man. -[Nick] Yeah. 265 00:11:46,539 --> 00:11:48,708 -There you go. -[Zach laughs] Attaboy! Attaboy! Yeah! 266 00:11:50,126 --> 00:11:52,920 So, how are you feeling this morning? 267 00:11:53,963 --> 00:11:57,007 I don't know. It's weird. I woke up feeling very calm. 268 00:11:57,508 --> 00:12:00,469 -Mmm-hmm. That's good. -Which is not how I felt yesterday. 269 00:12:00,553 --> 00:12:03,597 I felt very anxious yesterday and stressed out. 270 00:12:04,181 --> 00:12:06,851 You got a lot going on. [exhales] 271 00:12:06,934 --> 00:12:13,065 The most anxiety-driving part is, like, feeling like I didn't 272 00:12:14,358 --> 00:12:17,903 get all of the information that I should have gotten 273 00:12:17,987 --> 00:12:20,781 when it was already brought up several times. 274 00:12:20,865 --> 00:12:22,366 -It made me doubt him. -Mmm-hmm. 275 00:12:22,450 --> 00:12:24,785 -It's not about the credit card. -[Tracy] Second guessing. 276 00:12:24,869 --> 00:12:26,954 It's about being totally transparent 277 00:12:27,037 --> 00:12:30,249 in a time where transparency is absolutely needed. 278 00:12:31,167 --> 00:12:34,712 I mean, it's that half glass empty versus half glass full, where he's like, 279 00:12:34,795 --> 00:12:36,714 "If I wanted to lie, I never would've told you." 280 00:12:36,797 --> 00:12:39,967 I'm like, "If you wanted to be honest with me, you would've told me sooner." 281 00:12:40,050 --> 00:12:42,136 And when I try to explain that to him, 282 00:12:43,721 --> 00:12:45,556 he's like, "You're all about money." 283 00:12:45,639 --> 00:12:47,808 And I'm like, "I'm not talking about money." 284 00:12:47,892 --> 00:12:51,187 "I'm talking about honesty, trust." 285 00:12:51,270 --> 00:12:55,858 I had red flags, and I ignored them because I thought I was so in love. 286 00:12:55,941 --> 00:12:57,067 [Stacy] Mmm-hmm. 287 00:12:57,151 --> 00:12:59,111 I would never ignore red flags, 288 00:12:59,779 --> 00:13:03,574 and I don't want you to maybe blow something out of proportion 289 00:13:03,657 --> 00:13:07,203 that maybe isn't as big a thing. 290 00:13:09,622 --> 00:13:11,957 Do you feel like he's told you everything? 291 00:13:12,041 --> 00:13:15,169 I feel like there's all these different voices in my head of, like, 292 00:13:15,252 --> 00:13:19,381 "But he has" and "I have," like, "I'm showing you," and it's like… 293 00:13:19,965 --> 00:13:22,968 "And I'm fighting for you and…" Yeah, you are, but… 294 00:13:25,429 --> 00:13:27,848 -I do care about him. -Oh, I know you do. 295 00:13:29,058 --> 00:13:30,976 And I know he cares about you, 296 00:13:31,060 --> 00:13:33,312 and you're very good together. 297 00:13:34,271 --> 00:13:39,693 I know this is so difficult, but he wants it really bad. 298 00:13:39,777 --> 00:13:41,111 And I think you want it. 299 00:13:42,238 --> 00:13:43,072 Yeah. 300 00:13:44,073 --> 00:13:45,491 I'm sure when you get up there, 301 00:13:45,574 --> 00:13:48,744 you'll either feel like, "I'm gonna take this leap of faith," 302 00:13:48,828 --> 00:13:51,038 or "I can't do it." 303 00:13:51,539 --> 00:13:53,958 You know, you'll know talking to him. 304 00:13:54,458 --> 00:13:56,085 So, if you say no today, 305 00:13:57,169 --> 00:14:01,757 are you willing to lose Izzy forever? 306 00:14:01,841 --> 00:14:03,801 ["One Last Breath" by Martin Buster playing] 307 00:14:03,884 --> 00:14:06,136 ♪ Love throws you a bone ♪ 308 00:14:06,220 --> 00:14:10,975 ♪ To make you doubt what's up and down ♪ 309 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:15,938 ♪ A mirror with no frame Lets me see my dreams… ♪ 310 00:14:16,021 --> 00:14:18,107 -[Izzy] I'm trying to think of my speech. -Yep. 311 00:14:18,190 --> 00:14:19,775 Stacy likes little gestures, 312 00:14:19,859 --> 00:14:21,819 if you write her random notes and leave 'em around. 313 00:14:22,486 --> 00:14:24,363 So when I'm sitting there writing these cards, 314 00:14:24,446 --> 00:14:26,365 I don't know what the fuck to say. [laughing] 315 00:14:26,448 --> 00:14:29,618 I can't… I'm not crafty, so that's why I go better off the dome. 316 00:14:29,702 --> 00:14:31,745 -So, I got an idea for you. -[Izzy] What's that? 317 00:14:31,829 --> 00:14:33,789 -How about we write her a letter? -Yeah? 318 00:14:33,873 --> 00:14:35,916 [Justin] Yeah. We could help you out if you need help. 319 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:36,876 All right. 320 00:14:36,959 --> 00:14:39,128 -[Nick] We're going from the heart? -From the heart. 321 00:14:39,211 --> 00:14:41,213 -[Izzy] All right. -[Justin] From the heart. 322 00:14:41,297 --> 00:14:43,299 ["Age of Connection" by 5 Alarm playing] 323 00:14:43,382 --> 00:14:45,718 ♪ I can't feel the ground… ♪ 324 00:14:45,801 --> 00:14:47,469 [Izzy] Oh, God, all right. 325 00:14:48,888 --> 00:14:50,973 -[Izzy] Uh… -Let it flow. Let it flow. 326 00:14:51,056 --> 00:14:53,058 ♪ Keep me from falling down ♪ 327 00:14:57,563 --> 00:15:01,191 ♪ Doesn't get any better than now ♪ 328 00:15:01,275 --> 00:15:02,776 [Tracy] It's gorgeous. 329 00:15:02,860 --> 00:15:04,945 -[Stacy laughs] -I mean, it's absolutely gorgeous. 330 00:15:05,029 --> 00:15:06,030 And it's so you. 331 00:15:06,530 --> 00:15:07,740 I love you. 332 00:15:07,823 --> 00:15:09,575 -[Stacy] I love you too. -[exclaims] 333 00:15:10,159 --> 00:15:11,744 [sighs] I just care about Izzy. 334 00:15:12,328 --> 00:15:13,954 Just wanna talk to him. 335 00:15:14,496 --> 00:15:16,415 [Tracy] If that'll make you more comfortable. 336 00:15:17,041 --> 00:15:19,919 I hope so, but if he loses it, I'm not-- 337 00:15:20,002 --> 00:15:22,588 I need him to be kind of calm. 338 00:15:22,671 --> 00:15:23,714 [Tracy] Mmm-hmm. 339 00:15:23,797 --> 00:15:25,841 -[breathes deeply] -[knock on door] 340 00:15:25,925 --> 00:15:27,468 -Hello. Hi, I'm Justin. -[Stacy] Hi. 341 00:15:27,551 --> 00:15:29,386 -I'm Izzy's best man. -[Stacy] Oh! 342 00:15:29,470 --> 00:15:31,847 -[Justin] I wanted to introduce myself. -Oh, my God! Hi. 343 00:15:31,931 --> 00:15:34,975 Stacy. I'm like, "Who is this man? You're in the wrong place." 344 00:15:35,059 --> 00:15:36,393 -I have something for you. -[gasps] 345 00:15:36,477 --> 00:15:38,604 -It's a really important letter. -[Stacy] Oh, God. 346 00:15:38,687 --> 00:15:40,481 -I would like to give it to you. -Oh, my God. 347 00:15:40,564 --> 00:15:42,691 [Justin] He wrote this from his heart, so… 348 00:15:42,775 --> 00:15:45,444 -[both] Thank you. -[Justin] Ah, no problem. 349 00:15:45,527 --> 00:15:47,404 -Thank you. -[Tracy] Appreciate it. 350 00:15:47,488 --> 00:15:50,866 ["Coming Home to You" by Kye Sones & Adam Mark Burridge playing] 351 00:15:53,035 --> 00:15:56,455 ♪ Till I have you to hold… ♪ 352 00:15:56,538 --> 00:15:58,499 [Stacy] "Why I love you." 353 00:15:58,582 --> 00:16:00,626 "You never get complacey." 354 00:16:00,709 --> 00:16:02,628 "You're so hot, turn on the AC." 355 00:16:03,629 --> 00:16:06,131 "Wanna glue my hands on your boobs like a pasty." 356 00:16:06,215 --> 00:16:07,383 [laughs] 357 00:16:07,466 --> 00:16:11,220 "With you, I love the chasey. Why am I wanting to marry you?" 358 00:16:11,303 --> 00:16:13,430 "Because I'm madly in love with you, Stacy." 359 00:16:13,514 --> 00:16:16,934 "I know you're nervous, scared, worried, but just know I'm here." 360 00:16:17,017 --> 00:16:19,436 "Always will be that loving, calming, reassuring man 361 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:21,313 who will fight every day for you." 362 00:16:21,397 --> 00:16:24,149 "I love you." And it's from Izzy. Oh, Izzy. 363 00:16:24,233 --> 00:16:26,026 How does that make you feel? 364 00:16:26,110 --> 00:16:30,197 It's so funny 'cause I literally just told you… I need him to be calm. 365 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:31,824 [Tracy] Yeah. That's calm. 366 00:16:31,907 --> 00:16:34,868 Well, he wrote that, like, "Always be that calming, reassuring man." 367 00:16:34,952 --> 00:16:35,828 Yeah. 368 00:16:37,287 --> 00:16:39,331 [Stacy] You know, I've always told Izzy I want notes. 369 00:16:39,415 --> 00:16:40,916 I got mad at him, and he wrote a note, 370 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:43,377 and this is the only one that he has sent me unsolicited, 371 00:16:43,460 --> 00:16:46,255 and it was so sweet and meaningful. 372 00:16:46,338 --> 00:16:47,965 Like, I need that. 373 00:16:48,048 --> 00:16:50,801 I never criticize him to break him down. 374 00:16:50,884 --> 00:16:53,470 I'm trying to break down the codes of what love is to me, 375 00:16:53,554 --> 00:16:56,557 'cause I want him to love me, and I wanna feel loved. 376 00:16:56,640 --> 00:16:59,351 And he listens, and I love that. 377 00:16:59,435 --> 00:17:01,103 I'm a hopeless romantic. 378 00:17:03,397 --> 00:17:05,983 ♪ So I'm coming home to something ♪ 379 00:17:06,066 --> 00:17:10,237 ♪ I have not forgot or left behind ♪ 380 00:17:10,320 --> 00:17:13,115 ♪ It's you ♪ 381 00:17:13,198 --> 00:17:16,035 ♪ It's you ♪ 382 00:17:16,535 --> 00:17:20,205 ♪ I'm coming home to you ♪ 383 00:17:20,289 --> 00:17:23,292 -[Izzy exhales] -[Reyna] Well, well. Look at you, Papi! 384 00:17:23,375 --> 00:17:24,960 Look at you! 385 00:17:25,044 --> 00:17:26,754 [in Spanish] You are so handsome, my son. 386 00:17:26,837 --> 00:17:31,008 [in English] I love you. I love you. I love you. [laughs] 387 00:17:31,091 --> 00:17:32,760 -I love you. -How are you feeling? 388 00:17:32,843 --> 00:17:34,511 -How are you feeling? -I'm good. 389 00:17:34,595 --> 00:17:36,638 -I know! You look good. -Yeah. I'm good. Yeah. 390 00:17:36,722 --> 00:17:40,142 I just want you to know that, you know, Mom is here. 391 00:17:40,225 --> 00:17:42,644 -[Izzy] I know. -And it's-- I'm proud of you. 392 00:17:42,728 --> 00:17:43,645 -You know? -Thanks. 393 00:17:43,729 --> 00:17:48,275 I'm just amazed of all of this, you know? It's just a different you. 394 00:17:48,358 --> 00:17:50,110 It's a grown man of you, 395 00:17:50,194 --> 00:17:52,821 and, uh, whatever happens, 396 00:17:52,905 --> 00:17:54,323 we're all in this together. 397 00:17:54,406 --> 00:17:55,282 [Izzy] Yeah. 398 00:17:55,365 --> 00:17:58,827 ["Keep Me Whole" by Buck Snow, Taylor, A. Murray & Mia Williams-Watson playing] 399 00:17:58,911 --> 00:17:59,995 ♪ Hear your voice… ♪ 400 00:18:00,079 --> 00:18:02,247 -I love you. You look great. -I love you more! 401 00:18:02,331 --> 00:18:03,916 -[Izzy] Thanks for being here. -No. Baby… 402 00:18:03,999 --> 00:18:06,502 You're my baby. I'll be here no matter what. 403 00:18:06,585 --> 00:18:07,461 -[Izzy] Yeah. -So… 404 00:18:07,544 --> 00:18:09,505 ♪ It's all part of memories… ♪ 405 00:18:09,588 --> 00:18:11,423 -I'm proud of you. -Thanks. 406 00:18:11,507 --> 00:18:14,468 -[Reyna] Okay? I want you to know that. -All right. Yeah, I know. 407 00:18:14,551 --> 00:18:17,054 -All right. -I wanna kiss your forehead. 408 00:18:17,137 --> 00:18:18,722 But I don't wanna leave you my makeup. 409 00:18:18,806 --> 00:18:21,850 -It's okay. [laughing] -I love you. My baby, I love you. 410 00:18:21,934 --> 00:18:24,895 -I love you. All right. [chuckles] -All right. Okay. 411 00:18:24,978 --> 00:18:30,526 ♪ 'Cause you keep me whole ♪ 412 00:18:32,820 --> 00:18:35,489 ♪ You keep me whole ♪ 413 00:18:35,572 --> 00:18:37,199 -Wow, look at you! -[Stacy laughing] 414 00:18:37,282 --> 00:18:40,494 -Hi, Dad! I'm in a big white dress. -You look gorgeous! 415 00:18:40,577 --> 00:18:41,954 Oh, that's beautiful. 416 00:18:42,037 --> 00:18:43,330 Yeah, hold that. 417 00:18:43,413 --> 00:18:45,374 -I know you would wanna see the shoes. -You ready? 418 00:18:45,457 --> 00:18:47,626 Did you ever think you'd see me in a big white dress? 419 00:18:47,709 --> 00:18:48,710 [Dale] Ooh! 420 00:18:48,794 --> 00:18:51,588 [Stacy] It's like my personality is all in one dress. Oh, my God. 421 00:18:51,672 --> 00:18:52,756 -[Dale] Big day. -I know. 422 00:18:53,507 --> 00:18:54,675 [Dale] Are you ready? 423 00:18:55,342 --> 00:18:57,970 I feel one way one second and a different way the next. 424 00:18:58,053 --> 00:18:59,429 And is it something 425 00:18:59,513 --> 00:19:02,641 that you're supposed to be sure of everything on your wedding day? 426 00:19:02,724 --> 00:19:05,644 Or you're not sure of everything on your wedding day? 427 00:19:06,145 --> 00:19:08,355 Just gonna have to pull the trigger one way or the other. 428 00:19:08,939 --> 00:19:10,941 -I know, Dad. -Here, you want that? 429 00:19:11,024 --> 00:19:13,152 -Thank you. -Shall we? 430 00:19:17,239 --> 00:19:18,615 I cannot cry. 431 00:19:19,158 --> 00:19:21,160 [emotional music playing] 432 00:19:21,243 --> 00:19:23,078 You'll be fine. Gimme a kiss. 433 00:19:24,705 --> 00:19:27,416 -It means a lot that you're here for me. -Always. 434 00:19:28,167 --> 00:19:29,710 You know that. Always. 435 00:19:33,046 --> 00:19:34,673 You just do what you feel is right. 436 00:19:34,756 --> 00:19:36,300 -[voice breaks] Yeah. -He's a great guy. 437 00:19:39,845 --> 00:19:40,804 [Zach] You ready? 438 00:19:40,888 --> 00:19:42,055 -[Izzy] Yeah. -[Zach] Ready? 439 00:19:42,139 --> 00:19:45,017 -Ain't nothing else to be scared of, bro. -[Izzy] I'm not scared. 440 00:19:45,100 --> 00:19:46,977 I'm nervous, but more excited than anything. 441 00:19:47,060 --> 00:19:50,189 I'm gonna go up there and just be the man 442 00:19:50,272 --> 00:19:51,773 that I've been all along, 443 00:19:51,857 --> 00:19:54,026 look her dead in her eye and be like, 444 00:19:54,109 --> 00:19:56,486 "This is why I love you, and this is why, like, 445 00:19:56,570 --> 00:19:59,823 you're gonna fucking marry me." [laughs] 446 00:19:59,907 --> 00:20:02,242 You'll know what to say. You always do. 447 00:20:02,326 --> 00:20:05,662 ["Come Back to You" by R. Lewis, B. Snow, Taylor, B. Parsons & A. Murray playing] 448 00:20:07,122 --> 00:20:09,958 ♪ I'll be there like you would be ♪ 449 00:20:10,042 --> 00:20:15,130 ♪ Because what you've given, it matters ♪ 450 00:20:16,548 --> 00:20:20,135 ♪ And it's come back to you ♪ 451 00:20:20,219 --> 00:20:24,264 ♪ You ♪ 452 00:20:24,348 --> 00:20:27,768 ♪ Let it come back to you ♪ 453 00:20:28,268 --> 00:20:31,313 ♪ You ♪ 454 00:20:31,939 --> 00:20:36,068 -♪ Let it come back to you ♪ -[song fades] 455 00:20:37,319 --> 00:20:39,613 [exhales] Oh, my God. 456 00:20:41,031 --> 00:20:44,034 Does anybody have any vodka or tequila in their pocket? [chuckles] 457 00:20:44,117 --> 00:20:46,495 [playing gentle bridal melody] 458 00:20:52,084 --> 00:20:53,126 [Izzy exclaims] 459 00:20:53,210 --> 00:20:56,880 -What's up? Hello-hello-hello-hello! -[guests cheering] 460 00:20:56,964 --> 00:21:01,009 -Hello-hello-hello-hello-hello-hello! -[cheering continues] 461 00:21:01,093 --> 00:21:01,969 [guest exclaims] 462 00:21:02,469 --> 00:21:04,554 -[Izzy laughs nervously] How are you? -Good. Yourself? 463 00:21:04,638 --> 00:21:06,974 I'm good, man. [loudly] Welcome, everybody. 464 00:21:07,057 --> 00:21:08,308 Thank y'all for coming. 465 00:21:08,392 --> 00:21:11,561 -It's good to see y'all. -[all cheering] 466 00:21:12,145 --> 00:21:13,647 Oh, fuck. 467 00:21:13,730 --> 00:21:16,233 -["Save Me" playing] -♪ Darling ♪ 468 00:21:16,316 --> 00:21:18,819 ♪ Save me ♪ 469 00:21:18,902 --> 00:21:24,658 ♪ I need someone too ♪ 470 00:21:25,784 --> 00:21:29,579 ♪ Someone like you… ♪ 471 00:21:33,417 --> 00:21:35,460 ♪ Darling ♪ 472 00:21:35,544 --> 00:21:37,963 ♪ Take me ♪ 473 00:21:38,046 --> 00:21:41,883 ♪ Somewhere that's new ♪ 474 00:21:45,053 --> 00:21:46,263 [Stacy exhales] Oh, God. 475 00:21:47,180 --> 00:21:48,598 You'll make the right decision. 476 00:21:48,682 --> 00:21:50,767 -Thank you, Dad. Thank you. -I'm happy for you. 477 00:21:50,851 --> 00:21:52,436 -And I'm proud of you. -Thank you. 478 00:21:52,519 --> 00:21:54,104 -Big time. -Thank you. [chuckles] 479 00:21:56,523 --> 00:21:57,649 All rise. 480 00:21:57,733 --> 00:22:00,277 [playing gentle bridal melody] 481 00:22:03,113 --> 00:22:04,031 [guest gasps] 482 00:22:19,087 --> 00:22:23,091 Who presents this woman to be married to this man? 483 00:22:23,175 --> 00:22:24,885 Her mother and my-- me. 484 00:22:24,968 --> 00:22:26,261 [all laughing] 485 00:22:26,345 --> 00:22:28,388 [Stacy] That guy back there! 486 00:22:28,472 --> 00:22:30,432 -You good? You look beautiful! -[Stacy] Yeah. 487 00:22:30,515 --> 00:22:34,353 [officiant] Izzy, please take the woman who stands before you to stand beside you. 488 00:22:34,853 --> 00:22:37,939 -It's a whole lot of dress, y'all! -[Izzy] I know! 489 00:22:38,023 --> 00:22:40,484 You look great! Oh, man, it's so good to see you. 490 00:22:40,567 --> 00:22:42,736 [officiant] Ladies and gentlemen, please be seated. 491 00:22:44,279 --> 00:22:46,448 -[Stacy] You okay? -You look beautiful. I'm great. 492 00:22:46,531 --> 00:22:47,657 -[Izzy] Are you good? -Yeah. 493 00:22:47,741 --> 00:22:50,577 Yeah. I'm right here. You're good. 494 00:22:51,411 --> 00:22:54,706 Let us all join in our love and support of Stacy and Izzy, 495 00:22:54,790 --> 00:22:58,043 with our best wishes for their everlasting happiness. 496 00:22:58,543 --> 00:23:02,255 Let's start this loving gathering by celebrating the love that you share. 497 00:23:04,383 --> 00:23:07,344 Stacy and Izzy, you're both standing across from your biggest fan. 498 00:23:07,427 --> 00:23:09,971 The compatibility that you share is obvious. 499 00:23:10,055 --> 00:23:14,017 There are many people who know you, but few people who understand you. 500 00:23:14,101 --> 00:23:17,187 Your love and understanding is key to navigating the uncertainties 501 00:23:17,270 --> 00:23:18,855 that your future will bring. 502 00:23:18,939 --> 00:23:20,607 Emotions and feelings change, 503 00:23:20,690 --> 00:23:24,861 but this love that the two of you share is everlasting. 504 00:23:24,945 --> 00:23:28,740 And what a beautiful feeling it is to have found that someone. 505 00:23:28,824 --> 00:23:31,827 Fortunately, you're both clearly in very good hands. 506 00:23:34,371 --> 00:23:35,205 You are 507 00:23:36,915 --> 00:23:37,833 tough to crack. 508 00:23:37,916 --> 00:23:39,000 [chuckles] 509 00:23:39,084 --> 00:23:42,003 But when those walls are broken, 510 00:23:42,587 --> 00:23:47,217 you are the most tender and sweet girl that I've ever met. 511 00:23:48,218 --> 00:23:51,263 That's why I'm in love with you, because that's the girl that I see in you. 512 00:23:52,055 --> 00:23:54,224 You know when I'm down. You know when I'm up. 513 00:23:54,307 --> 00:23:55,725 When I'm in my head. 514 00:23:56,643 --> 00:23:58,019 I fell in love with you. 515 00:23:59,312 --> 00:24:01,440 It hit me like a train out of left field. 516 00:24:02,023 --> 00:24:03,859 I appreciate you. I adore you. 517 00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:07,154 You've made me a better man 518 00:24:07,237 --> 00:24:10,157 and I will always be here to reassure you. 519 00:24:10,866 --> 00:24:14,536 Be that calm, cooling man that you need. 520 00:24:15,662 --> 00:24:19,833 Marriage is not easy. Relationships are not easy. 521 00:24:20,333 --> 00:24:21,376 And… 522 00:24:22,294 --> 00:24:25,547 when you face adversity, it's so easy to run 523 00:24:26,214 --> 00:24:27,048 and give up. 524 00:24:28,133 --> 00:24:29,926 I will never give up on you, 525 00:24:30,010 --> 00:24:31,595 and I will always fight. 526 00:24:32,304 --> 00:24:34,347 I will always fight for you. 527 00:24:35,390 --> 00:24:39,227 I love you with all my heart. I will always be here and just… 528 00:24:39,811 --> 00:24:41,980 She looks amazing in this dress, right? 529 00:24:42,063 --> 00:24:43,857 -Can we… -[crowd cheering] 530 00:24:43,940 --> 00:24:45,317 [laughing] 531 00:24:48,612 --> 00:24:49,988 [sighs] 532 00:24:53,950 --> 00:24:57,662 Going into all of this, you hit me like a train out of left field. 533 00:24:58,747 --> 00:25:02,751 And you did it in ways that made me feel safe. 534 00:25:03,418 --> 00:25:09,216 I'm very practical and realistic, and you made me think with my heart. 535 00:25:10,217 --> 00:25:12,052 You made me feel again. 536 00:25:12,636 --> 00:25:16,681 You make me wanna be a better person and do things that I'm not necessarily 537 00:25:16,765 --> 00:25:20,727 comfortable doing, but I wanna do it for you. 538 00:25:21,978 --> 00:25:24,314 [voice breaks] You are my rock. 539 00:25:26,316 --> 00:25:28,443 [sniffles] 540 00:25:28,527 --> 00:25:32,197 [crying] This whole thing has been like a freakin' hurricane. 541 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,741 [sniffles] And you're the calm in the storm. 542 00:25:36,535 --> 00:25:38,995 [sniffles] The last few days have been a lot, 543 00:25:41,748 --> 00:25:43,792 but I still love you through it. 544 00:25:44,709 --> 00:25:47,379 -I love you. -And I've never not loved you. 545 00:25:48,964 --> 00:25:53,176 There's no one else in this world that I would do it with other than you. 546 00:26:00,016 --> 00:26:02,394 [officiant] Izzy and Stacy, you chose each other 547 00:26:02,477 --> 00:26:05,146 based on an intense emotional connection. 548 00:26:05,230 --> 00:26:07,857 Looks, age, finances, 549 00:26:07,941 --> 00:26:10,318 and all the superficial things of the world 550 00:26:10,402 --> 00:26:12,612 were not a factor for the two of you. 551 00:26:14,614 --> 00:26:17,826 Now is the time to decide if love is blind. 552 00:26:17,909 --> 00:26:20,120 [suspenseful music playing] 553 00:26:22,414 --> 00:26:25,250 Izzy, do you take Stacy as your wife? 554 00:26:25,834 --> 00:26:30,213 Do you promise to love her, comfort her, honor, and keep her, 555 00:26:31,089 --> 00:26:34,092 forsaking all others as long as you both will live? 556 00:26:36,011 --> 00:26:38,388 If so, please say, "I do." 557 00:26:38,888 --> 00:26:42,058 [suspenseful music continues] 558 00:26:44,853 --> 00:26:45,687 I do. 559 00:26:46,187 --> 00:26:47,939 [uplifting music playing] 560 00:26:59,117 --> 00:27:00,035 And, Stacy, 561 00:27:01,745 --> 00:27:04,039 do you take Izzy to be your husband? 562 00:27:04,122 --> 00:27:05,999 [tense music playing] 563 00:27:06,082 --> 00:27:10,587 Do you promise to love him, comfort him, honor, and keep him 564 00:27:10,670 --> 00:27:12,380 in sickness and in health, 565 00:27:13,923 --> 00:27:18,595 and forsaking all others as long as you both will live? 566 00:27:19,220 --> 00:27:23,016 And if so, please say, "I do." 567 00:27:23,099 --> 00:27:25,101 [tense music continues] 568 00:27:35,654 --> 00:27:37,238 [whispers] Oh, my gosh. 569 00:27:48,249 --> 00:27:51,378 I love you more than I can even explain. 570 00:27:52,671 --> 00:27:54,881 [gentle music playing] 571 00:27:54,964 --> 00:27:59,094 I wanna make you happy. I wanna give you that reassurance. 572 00:28:00,553 --> 00:28:03,598 And I do want you, and I wanna say yes. 573 00:28:08,395 --> 00:28:11,314 But I would be doing you and I a disservice right now 574 00:28:11,398 --> 00:28:15,443 to say that "I do" when I feel like there's a lot of things that we need. 575 00:28:16,569 --> 00:28:18,530 And more than anything, we need time. 576 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:21,449 We haven't had time. 577 00:28:23,034 --> 00:28:24,411 That's something that I need. 578 00:28:29,708 --> 00:28:31,710 So, for me today, I can't. 579 00:28:34,421 --> 00:28:36,256 [softly] I hope you understand that. 580 00:28:36,798 --> 00:28:39,300 [sweet music playing] 581 00:28:42,137 --> 00:28:43,263 I understand. 582 00:28:44,639 --> 00:28:46,099 -And I love you. -[laughs] 583 00:28:46,182 --> 00:28:48,727 -[sweet music continues] -[guests clapping] 584 00:28:55,942 --> 00:28:58,611 I don't think we're doing this in the right order, but that's okay. 585 00:28:58,695 --> 00:29:00,739 [guests laughing] 586 00:29:04,159 --> 00:29:06,161 [sighs] I really feel better. 587 00:29:06,244 --> 00:29:07,829 [Izzy] Good. As you should. 588 00:29:07,912 --> 00:29:10,874 -[inhales and whispers] Are you okay? -Yeah. 589 00:29:18,381 --> 00:29:21,551 I've always been your biggest fan, your biggest supporter. 590 00:29:22,427 --> 00:29:23,511 And you know that. 591 00:29:24,012 --> 00:29:25,096 And… 592 00:29:27,223 --> 00:29:30,310 it's fair to the both of us to be in that right spot. 593 00:29:31,895 --> 00:29:32,979 [Stacy] Okay. 594 00:29:33,062 --> 00:29:35,899 ["Fall Again" by James Mason Fox playing] 595 00:29:46,159 --> 00:29:48,036 [indistinct chatter] 596 00:29:48,119 --> 00:29:50,121 ["Fall Again" continues playing] 597 00:29:59,714 --> 00:30:04,135 Again, thank you all for y'all's support. Um… 598 00:30:04,803 --> 00:30:07,597 Y'all came a long way out of y'all's way for us, 599 00:30:08,097 --> 00:30:10,058 so appreciate y'all. 600 00:30:11,267 --> 00:30:14,729 ♪ I know deep down You never meant to do me wrong… ♪ 601 00:30:14,813 --> 00:30:16,105 [Izzy sighs] 602 00:30:17,941 --> 00:30:20,443 -[Izzy] Thank you, guys. -[woman] We love you, Izzy! 603 00:30:20,527 --> 00:30:21,945 -I love y'all. -[crowd applauds] 604 00:30:22,028 --> 00:30:25,698 ♪ It's louder when you're next to me ♪ 605 00:30:27,575 --> 00:30:31,412 ♪ I know that you know ♪ 606 00:30:31,496 --> 00:30:35,667 ♪ That I am not the one for you ♪ 607 00:30:35,750 --> 00:30:39,212 ♪ So don't let me fall again… ♪ 608 00:30:39,295 --> 00:30:41,840 I'm hurt and sad more than anything. 609 00:30:43,508 --> 00:30:46,094 I really don't know. I mean, I gave it all I had to give. 610 00:30:46,678 --> 00:30:49,681 ♪ The first time I thought you were with me ♪ 611 00:30:49,764 --> 00:30:53,893 ♪ But you, you packed your bags And moved to the city ♪ 612 00:30:53,977 --> 00:30:56,604 ♪ You're the melody ♪ 613 00:30:57,814 --> 00:31:01,317 ♪ I still hear it on repeat ♪ 614 00:31:02,277 --> 00:31:03,152 [sniffles] 615 00:31:03,236 --> 00:31:06,072 I fought through everything, and I just feel so numb. 616 00:31:06,155 --> 00:31:07,615 I don't know what to feel. 617 00:31:12,871 --> 00:31:14,122 I don't even know. 618 00:31:14,205 --> 00:31:17,333 I'm just tired of feeling this way, honestly. 619 00:31:17,876 --> 00:31:18,877 [sniffles] 620 00:31:20,003 --> 00:31:21,004 Hey, Papi. 621 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:24,799 -Can I sit next to you? -Yeah. Sit here. 622 00:31:26,175 --> 00:31:27,635 [clears throat] 623 00:31:28,636 --> 00:31:29,888 [sighs] 624 00:31:31,514 --> 00:31:34,100 [exhales] How are you feeling? 625 00:31:34,183 --> 00:31:35,018 Well… [exhales] 626 00:31:35,101 --> 00:31:36,895 I'm very surprised. 627 00:31:38,605 --> 00:31:39,689 But right now, 628 00:31:40,398 --> 00:31:41,691 my concern is you. 629 00:31:42,483 --> 00:31:44,527 I don't wanna be negative. 630 00:31:44,611 --> 00:31:48,323 I don't wanna be telling you all this kind of stuff. 631 00:31:48,406 --> 00:31:49,240 That's not me. 632 00:31:49,324 --> 00:31:53,578 -I know you've given all your heart. -Yeah. 633 00:31:53,661 --> 00:31:57,665 You've given everything that you have on this relationship. 634 00:31:57,749 --> 00:32:01,794 To see this moment as a mom, it hurts. 635 00:32:02,754 --> 00:32:05,173 We have gone through so much 636 00:32:05,256 --> 00:32:06,591 since you were… 637 00:32:07,634 --> 00:32:11,512 Since you were in my tummy, and, um… 638 00:32:13,222 --> 00:32:15,558 I know this is hurting you right now. 639 00:32:15,642 --> 00:32:19,145 It just makes me remember the times when… 640 00:32:20,939 --> 00:32:23,149 I used to take you to go get your immunizations. 641 00:32:23,232 --> 00:32:24,442 -[both laugh] -[Izzy] Mmm-hmm. 642 00:32:24,525 --> 00:32:27,070 And they would poke you. You'd cry and cry. 643 00:32:27,153 --> 00:32:30,865 And that would hurt me so much, and I would cry too. 644 00:32:30,949 --> 00:32:34,827 But I knew that that pain that you had in that moment, 645 00:32:34,911 --> 00:32:37,205 it was better for you to hurt right then. 646 00:32:37,914 --> 00:32:40,625 I'd rather you hurt right now 647 00:32:41,876 --> 00:32:43,378 than later in the future. 648 00:32:44,420 --> 00:32:47,882 But it touched me so much to hear everything that you said. 649 00:32:47,966 --> 00:32:49,842 You have no idea. 650 00:32:50,593 --> 00:32:52,762 To see you pouring your heart there 651 00:32:53,930 --> 00:32:55,890 made me realize even more 652 00:32:57,558 --> 00:32:59,811 how proud I am of you. 653 00:33:02,063 --> 00:33:04,774 I'm the man I am because of you. So… 654 00:33:04,857 --> 00:33:06,859 -Papi! -You need to know that. 655 00:33:06,943 --> 00:33:08,945 So thank you for that. [chuckles] 656 00:33:09,028 --> 00:33:10,780 You are gonna be okay. 657 00:33:11,948 --> 00:33:13,449 I love you. [kisses] 658 00:33:13,533 --> 00:33:15,910 I love you, Papi, so much. 659 00:33:16,911 --> 00:33:18,955 -Don't give up, okay? -No. 660 00:33:19,998 --> 00:33:22,709 You're someone that has so much to offer. 661 00:33:22,792 --> 00:33:23,876 So much. 662 00:33:24,627 --> 00:33:26,546 [gentle music playing] 663 00:33:26,629 --> 00:33:27,714 And I love you. 664 00:33:29,257 --> 00:33:31,509 -Thank you. -I love you, baby. 665 00:33:31,592 --> 00:33:34,345 -I love you. Thanks for being here for me. -Very much. 666 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,473 [kisses] 667 00:33:41,477 --> 00:33:43,896 I mean, I feel fine. 668 00:33:43,980 --> 00:33:46,065 -I think he's very sincere. -Mmm-hmm. 669 00:33:46,149 --> 00:33:49,736 I think everything he said is sweet. 670 00:33:49,819 --> 00:33:51,571 I talked to his friends. 671 00:33:51,654 --> 00:33:54,449 -They all talk highly of him. -Mmm-hmm. 672 00:33:54,532 --> 00:33:58,995 And have known him since he's a little kid, you know. 673 00:33:59,078 --> 00:34:03,624 -[Stacy] Mmm-hmm. -So, I mean, he's genuine. 674 00:34:03,708 --> 00:34:06,169 I do love him. He's amazing. 675 00:34:06,252 --> 00:34:08,046 He's taught me so much. 676 00:34:08,546 --> 00:34:12,467 I mean, everybody I talked to were like, "They're such a great couple." 677 00:34:13,342 --> 00:34:14,343 We are! 678 00:34:14,927 --> 00:34:16,429 Do you have any regrets? 679 00:34:17,180 --> 00:34:18,181 No. 680 00:34:20,266 --> 00:34:22,226 Like, standing there talking to him, 681 00:34:22,310 --> 00:34:24,312 I meant everything that I said. 682 00:34:25,188 --> 00:34:27,857 Today, I wasn't for certain on it being right. 683 00:34:27,940 --> 00:34:31,069 -[gentle music continues] -♪ Come on, let it out ♪ 684 00:34:31,152 --> 00:34:33,571 ♪ Come on, let it out ♪ 685 00:34:33,654 --> 00:34:37,825 ♪ When it's harder to breathe Let me know ♪ 686 00:34:37,909 --> 00:34:40,369 ♪ Gotta tell me now ♪ 687 00:34:40,453 --> 00:34:42,705 ♪ Gotta tell me now ♪ 688 00:34:42,789 --> 00:34:45,541 ♪ I need your honesty ♪ 689 00:34:48,169 --> 00:34:49,670 -[Izzy] Hey. -Hi. 690 00:34:49,754 --> 00:34:51,839 -[Izzy] How are you? -I'm okay. 691 00:34:53,424 --> 00:34:57,095 I didn't think that I'd feel how I felt standing there today, 692 00:34:57,178 --> 00:34:59,972 and it wasn't a bad feeling, like, I know I love you. 693 00:35:00,056 --> 00:35:02,183 Standing up there, it's like, "I know I love him." 694 00:35:03,518 --> 00:35:05,186 I thought I'd be a nervous wreck. 695 00:35:06,104 --> 00:35:08,231 I just feel relieved, like… 696 00:35:09,816 --> 00:35:11,150 the pressure's gone. 697 00:35:13,111 --> 00:35:15,446 I feel like getting through that 698 00:35:16,989 --> 00:35:19,534 is probably the hardest thing. 699 00:35:21,494 --> 00:35:22,328 Why? 700 00:35:23,496 --> 00:35:25,957 [tranquil music playing] 701 00:35:30,461 --> 00:35:31,963 'Cause I wanna make you happy. 702 00:35:35,925 --> 00:35:38,386 [voice breaking] I'm just very confused right now. 703 00:35:38,469 --> 00:35:39,470 [Stacy whispers] Oh… 704 00:35:42,098 --> 00:35:44,350 Don't be confused about how I feel. 705 00:35:45,768 --> 00:35:49,397 Whatever we wanna do with what we have now moving forward, it's up to us. 706 00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:51,482 And I know it's not gonna be easy. 707 00:35:52,692 --> 00:35:55,111 I'd like to feel like it's us again. 708 00:35:57,989 --> 00:36:02,660 And I'm willing to put whatever into it to get there. 709 00:36:04,537 --> 00:36:06,080 Do you mean that? 710 00:36:06,164 --> 00:36:07,248 I do mean that. 711 00:36:07,957 --> 00:36:09,917 I need time to know that I can trust you 712 00:36:10,001 --> 00:36:12,336 and all the things that you've told me too. 713 00:36:15,214 --> 00:36:17,091 I don't know. It's just-- It's tough. 714 00:36:17,967 --> 00:36:19,969 We're going steps backwards now. 715 00:36:20,720 --> 00:36:22,555 [Stacy] I don't see it that way. 716 00:36:23,139 --> 00:36:25,933 I'm not expecting you to jump for joy anytime soon 717 00:36:26,017 --> 00:36:28,769 or feel okay or feel sure. 718 00:36:28,853 --> 00:36:31,522 But, like, I'm still standing here with you. 719 00:36:31,606 --> 00:36:35,276 Yeah, well, I mean, we're, like, at different spots. 720 00:36:37,528 --> 00:36:39,238 Like, it really breaks my heart. 721 00:36:43,075 --> 00:36:44,744 Like, I love you. 722 00:36:45,828 --> 00:36:47,538 Did wanna marry you, like… 723 00:36:48,122 --> 00:36:49,248 [Stacy] Mmm-hmm. 724 00:36:50,208 --> 00:36:52,126 A timeline didn't matter for me. 725 00:36:53,461 --> 00:36:55,922 -But that's just me. -Mmm-hmm. 726 00:36:56,547 --> 00:36:58,925 When is ever gonna be the right time, you know? 727 00:36:59,008 --> 00:37:00,593 That's what I'm gonna wonder with you. 728 00:37:00,676 --> 00:37:02,845 Like, when is ever gonna be the right time? 729 00:37:03,554 --> 00:37:05,348 [bittersweet music playing] 730 00:37:05,431 --> 00:37:07,683 Is it ever gonna feel like it's the right time? [chuckles] 731 00:37:11,812 --> 00:37:14,357 She told me it's just too fast of timing. 732 00:37:15,524 --> 00:37:19,195 If I'm the one, what difference does it make on the timeline? 733 00:37:19,278 --> 00:37:20,780 We could die tomorrow. 734 00:37:21,656 --> 00:37:27,078 It's like she's always trying to find something wrong. 735 00:37:29,038 --> 00:37:31,457 I just wanna be loved the way that I love. [sighs] 736 00:37:34,001 --> 00:37:36,712 Bottom line, I deserve that. 737 00:37:38,631 --> 00:37:39,590 [sighs] 738 00:37:40,716 --> 00:37:41,634 [softly] Okay. 739 00:37:41,717 --> 00:37:43,636 ["Without a Trace" by Tyler Shamy playing] 740 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:47,556 ♪ Forget that I was ever born Forget about me ♪ 741 00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:51,143 ♪ Like a page that's ripped and torn Through life without me ♪ 742 00:37:51,727 --> 00:37:56,357 ♪ Like I don't exist, forget every kiss… ♪ 743 00:37:58,734 --> 00:38:01,195 I think she's probably more relieved 744 00:38:02,780 --> 00:38:05,783 for this to be done, and for her to have told me no, 745 00:38:05,866 --> 00:38:08,953 and everything to be done, and I feel like that's what she… 746 00:38:09,036 --> 00:38:11,580 that's what she… where she's at. 747 00:38:12,957 --> 00:38:15,584 Less pressure, less this, less that. 748 00:38:16,168 --> 00:38:19,088 It's like all the outside shit was just getting to her. 749 00:38:20,256 --> 00:38:22,758 And I blocked out everything. 750 00:38:22,842 --> 00:38:25,928 Looks, money, drama. 751 00:38:27,138 --> 00:38:29,348 I just focused on her. 752 00:38:30,474 --> 00:38:31,559 I was at the gym, 753 00:38:32,685 --> 00:38:35,313 and I saw Titanic pop up on the TV, 754 00:38:35,813 --> 00:38:38,149 and that's what I picture love being. 755 00:38:39,775 --> 00:38:43,404 It's just, like, unconditional, doesn't matter. 756 00:38:43,487 --> 00:38:47,199 And that's the whole point of this, is "Does it matter?" 757 00:38:47,283 --> 00:38:50,328 Does a credit score matter? Does the car I drive matter? 758 00:38:50,411 --> 00:38:52,663 Does where I go to fucking dinner matter? 759 00:38:53,331 --> 00:38:54,707 None of that matters to me. 760 00:38:55,207 --> 00:38:58,502 It makes me wonder, "Why are you 33 and single and not married?" 761 00:38:58,586 --> 00:39:02,631 I'm 29 years old, and I can give you everything that a fucking rich, 762 00:39:02,715 --> 00:39:05,634 45-year-old man that you always go for 763 00:39:05,718 --> 00:39:07,553 and always fail with can't give you. 764 00:39:09,555 --> 00:39:10,556 Um… 765 00:39:12,725 --> 00:39:13,768 I'm sad. 766 00:39:15,227 --> 00:39:18,647 -["Without A Trace" continues] -♪ I'll put our memories on paper planes ♪ 767 00:39:18,731 --> 00:39:21,692 ♪ And watch 'em fly away ♪ 768 00:39:21,776 --> 00:39:24,862 ♪ Without a trace ♪ 769 00:39:24,945 --> 00:39:29,784 ♪ Trace ♪ 770 00:39:34,914 --> 00:39:37,625 -["Run with the River" playing] -♪ Run with the river ♪ 771 00:39:37,708 --> 00:39:40,211 ♪ Run with the river, oh ♪ 772 00:39:42,671 --> 00:39:46,509 ♪ Run with the river, run with the river ♪ 773 00:39:46,592 --> 00:39:49,095 Today is my wedding day! 774 00:39:49,804 --> 00:39:52,932 My outfit is really subtle. You cannot tell that I'm the bride. 775 00:39:53,015 --> 00:39:55,935 Can you tell I'm the bride? Can you tell? Can you tell? 776 00:39:58,771 --> 00:40:00,022 Oh, my God! 777 00:40:00,106 --> 00:40:03,859 Even though on our final date, Milton was like, 778 00:40:04,568 --> 00:40:07,863 "Oh, you're too emotional. I didn't like the way that you handled that situation," 779 00:40:07,947 --> 00:40:10,491 I will never stop being who I am. 780 00:40:10,574 --> 00:40:12,743 And I'm hoping that today, 781 00:40:12,827 --> 00:40:16,330 he realizes that I'm exactly what he needs. 782 00:40:16,414 --> 00:40:18,040 [chuckles] It's gorgeous. 783 00:40:18,124 --> 00:40:23,379 ♪ Life, higher than you'll ever be… ♪ 784 00:40:23,462 --> 00:40:27,800 [Lydia] All the bullshit, all the tears, it's all worth it, 785 00:40:28,300 --> 00:40:31,679 because I am 100% certain 786 00:40:32,179 --> 00:40:34,432 that I found someone who is 787 00:40:35,474 --> 00:40:36,517 so amazing. 788 00:40:37,226 --> 00:40:40,646 -Hola! -[all screaming] 789 00:40:40,729 --> 00:40:43,649 [all chanting] 790 00:40:43,732 --> 00:40:45,526 [Lydia Sr. laughing] 791 00:40:45,609 --> 00:40:47,403 [Lydia] Let's get this party started! 792 00:40:47,486 --> 00:40:49,947 [all chanting] 793 00:40:50,030 --> 00:40:53,492 -[woman] Where's the bride? -[all screaming] 794 00:40:56,704 --> 00:40:58,289 -Are you nervous? -[Lydia] Not at all. 795 00:40:58,372 --> 00:41:01,125 Mmm-mmm. I'm just excited. I'm really excited. 796 00:41:01,709 --> 00:41:03,919 -Are you still sure? -I'm still sure. 797 00:41:04,003 --> 00:41:05,754 [laughs] Is he the one? 798 00:41:05,838 --> 00:41:08,883 -He's the one! -[all screaming] 799 00:41:10,718 --> 00:41:13,596 -[Lydia] Now, I'm gonna get emotional. -[friends exclaiming] 800 00:41:13,679 --> 00:41:15,764 [Claudia cheers and exclaims in Spanish] 801 00:41:15,848 --> 00:41:16,682 [exhales] 802 00:41:16,765 --> 00:41:19,727 I have no doubts that he's the one. I have no doubts. 803 00:41:20,936 --> 00:41:23,814 In the pods, he shows me. 804 00:41:24,315 --> 00:41:25,983 [Milton] If you're into rocks and minerals, 805 00:41:26,066 --> 00:41:28,652 then we can observe things under my polarizing microscope. 806 00:41:28,736 --> 00:41:31,197 Oh, my God, you're such a nerd. I love it. 807 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,199 We have the same passion, the same background. 808 00:41:33,282 --> 00:41:34,533 That's pretty dope. 809 00:41:34,617 --> 00:41:38,579 [voice breaks] I crave so hard to be loved for who I am. 810 00:41:38,662 --> 00:41:40,414 -Mmm-hmm. -[Lydia] And I'm so passionate. 811 00:41:40,498 --> 00:41:42,875 And I'm so genuine, and I'm so loving. 812 00:41:42,958 --> 00:41:45,085 [Milton] I mean, I think you're an amazing person. 813 00:41:45,169 --> 00:41:46,795 I feel like you would be a great mother. 814 00:41:46,879 --> 00:41:48,130 [Lydia] I love you. 815 00:41:48,797 --> 00:41:51,342 [Milton] I've definitely fallen in love with you. 816 00:41:51,425 --> 00:41:54,887 -You gonna be my Puerto Rican wife? -Yes. [laughing] 817 00:41:54,970 --> 00:41:56,889 Yes, I will be your Puerto Rican wife. 818 00:41:58,057 --> 00:41:59,183 [both laugh] 819 00:42:01,477 --> 00:42:02,603 [Lydia] Oh, my God! 820 00:42:02,686 --> 00:42:07,066 I came to this experience because I wanted to find love. 821 00:42:07,149 --> 00:42:09,735 Because I wanted to find my husband. 822 00:42:09,818 --> 00:42:12,363 And you know what? I did! 823 00:42:12,446 --> 00:42:15,157 -100%. -[uplifting music playing] 824 00:42:18,827 --> 00:42:21,705 -No concerns about age? -I would be concerned. 825 00:42:21,789 --> 00:42:25,960 -I just think of how I was when I was 24. -[woman laughs] 826 00:42:26,043 --> 00:42:28,504 -[Lydia] Yeah, 'cause as we all-- -Party, party, party. 827 00:42:28,587 --> 00:42:30,881 That's what we all tend to do, but he has-- 828 00:42:30,965 --> 00:42:33,467 -[woman] He has proved you wrong? -Yeah, he has proved me wrong. 829 00:42:33,551 --> 00:42:36,428 And he's definitely more advanced where I was at 24. 830 00:42:36,512 --> 00:42:40,641 He has his master's degree and, like, engineer, and… 831 00:42:40,724 --> 00:42:45,354 He's the first one to, like, talk to me and make sure that I'm not upset, 832 00:42:45,437 --> 00:42:48,232 that I'm happy, that… We talk about everything. 833 00:42:48,315 --> 00:42:50,693 And that is exactly what I wanted. 834 00:42:50,776 --> 00:42:52,236 Someone who is gonna be able 835 00:42:52,319 --> 00:42:55,489 to communicate with me properly in all the ways. 836 00:42:55,573 --> 00:42:57,658 Have you had, like, a true fight? 837 00:42:57,741 --> 00:43:00,578 -Like, does he know-- -We have had our challenges. 838 00:43:00,661 --> 00:43:04,248 Actually, it was our last date out. I had to walk out of the room 839 00:43:04,331 --> 00:43:08,961 because he did bring up the situation with my past. 840 00:43:09,044 --> 00:43:10,879 -Let's call him… -[Claudia] Unnameable! 841 00:43:10,963 --> 00:43:13,799 -Yeah, unnameable. Voldemort. -[Lilibette laughing] Voldemort! 842 00:43:13,882 --> 00:43:17,595 And he was like, "Oh, I just didn't like how you handled that situation." 843 00:43:17,678 --> 00:43:19,805 Like, "You were too emotional" or something. 844 00:43:20,389 --> 00:43:23,726 I just think he judged me a little bit for my reaction. 845 00:43:23,809 --> 00:43:25,936 And that was, like, hurting me. 846 00:43:26,770 --> 00:43:29,231 He was like, "Oh, I don't like how you're reacting." 847 00:43:29,315 --> 00:43:31,775 And I let him know. We talked about it, 848 00:43:31,859 --> 00:43:34,987 and he understood where I was coming from, 849 00:43:35,070 --> 00:43:38,866 and he's like, "No, I didn't try to judge you by anything." 850 00:43:38,949 --> 00:43:41,744 He believes that I had to learn a little bit from his side, 851 00:43:41,827 --> 00:43:44,455 and I was like, "You need to learn about being emotional, 852 00:43:44,538 --> 00:43:48,334 being able to be at peace with your own emotions." 853 00:43:48,417 --> 00:43:50,127 But besides that, 854 00:43:50,210 --> 00:43:51,587 we get along great. 855 00:43:51,670 --> 00:43:56,508 I mean, I know that he understands me, and I understand where he's coming from. 856 00:43:57,551 --> 00:43:59,345 We have never disrespected each other. 857 00:43:59,428 --> 00:44:03,098 We talk every night before going to bed, 858 00:44:03,182 --> 00:44:05,142 and he's sweet and loving and caring, you know. 859 00:44:05,225 --> 00:44:07,686 Every night, like, he hugs me, 860 00:44:07,770 --> 00:44:10,481 and he just wants to cuddle and hold me. 861 00:44:10,564 --> 00:44:15,527 And he always said to me, "I-- I never wanna let go." 862 00:44:16,153 --> 00:44:20,074 -And I've never had that before. Ooh! -[friends laugh] 863 00:44:21,659 --> 00:44:22,660 I'm so happy. 864 00:44:22,743 --> 00:44:23,869 -[Lydia] Yeah. -[all laughing] 865 00:44:23,952 --> 00:44:26,789 ["Tracers in the Night" by Skye Emanuel, LA VADER & Linasko Licks playing] 866 00:44:26,872 --> 00:44:30,834 ♪ From looking in your eyes ♪ 867 00:44:34,129 --> 00:44:37,007 [Milton] It's hard to describe how I feel about Lydia. It's like… 868 00:44:38,258 --> 00:44:41,804 I love how compassionate Lydia is. I love how much empathy she has. 869 00:44:42,513 --> 00:44:45,849 I feel like that's something, like… I've always wanted. 870 00:44:46,975 --> 00:44:49,812 I think Lydia is kind of the exact woman I need. 871 00:44:52,481 --> 00:44:56,944 I've been up since 2:00 p.m. yesterday. I had to work overnight. 872 00:44:57,027 --> 00:44:59,905 I got off at, like, 7:00 a.m. today. 873 00:44:59,988 --> 00:45:01,657 I've been up ever since. 874 00:45:01,740 --> 00:45:03,742 But today's my wedding day. 875 00:45:03,826 --> 00:45:06,995 Just because I worked all night and got no sleep isn't gonna stop me 876 00:45:07,079 --> 00:45:08,205 from having a great day. 877 00:45:08,914 --> 00:45:09,998 [man] Yo! 878 00:45:10,499 --> 00:45:13,377 -[Sebastian laughing] How's it going? -[Milton] Hey, what's up? 879 00:45:13,460 --> 00:45:14,545 [Josh] Okay. 880 00:45:14,628 --> 00:45:18,298 -Nice. I see they got you a real barber. -[all laughing] 881 00:45:18,382 --> 00:45:20,551 -[Milton] Dude, we've been-- -[Josh laughs] 882 00:45:20,634 --> 00:45:23,429 [Josh] This might be the first time he ever looks good for something. 883 00:45:23,512 --> 00:45:26,140 -It's not every day I get a haircut. -So, how you feeling, man? 884 00:45:28,308 --> 00:45:31,228 -[Milton mocking] So how are you feeling? -[Josh] Don't try to deflect. 885 00:45:32,271 --> 00:45:33,355 Feeling pretty… 886 00:45:34,356 --> 00:45:36,442 -Pretty Gucc. -[Josh] Why'd you hesitate? 887 00:45:36,525 --> 00:45:38,068 [friends laughing] 888 00:45:38,152 --> 00:45:41,071 -[Josh] You're sounding nervous. Uh-oh. -[friends laughing] 889 00:45:41,155 --> 00:45:46,034 Lydia's greatest strength is at times one of her, like, weaknesses. 890 00:45:46,118 --> 00:45:47,703 Like, since she is so openly emotional, 891 00:45:47,786 --> 00:45:50,038 like, sometimes it's hard for her to be reserved 892 00:45:50,122 --> 00:45:55,002 and make, like, really calculated decisions in, like, a challenging time. 893 00:45:55,085 --> 00:45:57,713 -[whirring] -[Milton] Honestly, I am getting nervous. 894 00:45:57,796 --> 00:45:59,423 Getting the jitters, which is strange. 895 00:45:59,506 --> 00:46:01,258 That doesn't typically happen to me. 896 00:46:01,341 --> 00:46:04,219 The sensation in my stomach is, I don't know, 897 00:46:04,303 --> 00:46:08,015 just like an uneasy feeling, like, kind of like you're on a roller coaster. 898 00:46:08,098 --> 00:46:10,058 Truthfully speaking, is anybody 100%? 899 00:46:10,142 --> 00:46:13,812 Like, I mean, I don't think 100% exists in anything in the world. 900 00:46:13,896 --> 00:46:16,064 You can probably be 99.9%, 901 00:46:16,815 --> 00:46:20,778 but 100% is a number that I don't see too often. 902 00:46:20,861 --> 00:46:22,738 There's something I'm supposed to do. 903 00:46:22,821 --> 00:46:24,990 -Oh, I still need to, like, write. -[indistinct chatter] 904 00:46:25,073 --> 00:46:26,408 I need to write, like, a-- 905 00:46:26,492 --> 00:46:28,494 -[Zachary] Vows? -[all laughing] 906 00:46:28,577 --> 00:46:30,412 -Oh! -[Zachary] Milton! 907 00:46:30,496 --> 00:46:32,915 -[Josh] Milton! -[Milton] Does anybody have a pencil, bro? 908 00:46:32,998 --> 00:46:34,374 Okay, I might have one. 909 00:46:34,458 --> 00:46:36,710 I don't like how all of us have the same backpack. 910 00:46:36,794 --> 00:46:39,171 -Is there no pencils, bro? -No, I got no pencils. 911 00:46:39,254 --> 00:46:40,380 Like, there's nothing. 912 00:46:40,464 --> 00:46:42,633 -[Milton] There's gotta be a pencil. -There's no pencil. 913 00:46:42,716 --> 00:46:44,676 Okay. I might have one, bro. 914 00:46:45,844 --> 00:46:47,346 [Sebastian] You're just gonna… 915 00:46:48,096 --> 00:46:49,890 -[Josh groans] -[Zachary] You're kidding me. 916 00:46:49,973 --> 00:46:52,267 -[all laughing] -[Josh] What is this? 917 00:46:52,351 --> 00:46:55,896 -Oh, my God. Whose man is this? [laughs] -[laughing] 918 00:46:55,979 --> 00:46:58,649 -[Josh] Lydia is so lucky. -[friends laughing] 919 00:46:58,732 --> 00:46:59,983 [Alex] Oh, God. 920 00:47:00,651 --> 00:47:02,027 Are you ready to see him? 921 00:47:02,528 --> 00:47:04,196 [Lydia] Yes. I'm so ready to see him. 922 00:47:04,822 --> 00:47:06,782 You know I always say, "Oh, I have a bad feeling"? 923 00:47:06,865 --> 00:47:07,908 [Claudia] Mmm-hmm. 924 00:47:08,575 --> 00:47:09,660 I don't have that. 925 00:47:11,036 --> 00:47:14,373 We have overcome the hardest days. 926 00:47:15,374 --> 00:47:20,170 What you can endure in two years of marriage, you endured it in two days. 927 00:47:20,254 --> 00:47:22,172 -[chuckles] -Oh, my God. [chuckles] 928 00:47:22,256 --> 00:47:23,799 And we overcome that. 929 00:47:25,300 --> 00:47:27,010 This feels so right. 930 00:47:27,094 --> 00:47:30,597 It feels right. It feels like I'm marrying the love of my life. 931 00:47:31,098 --> 00:47:34,476 He's peace. He is protection. 932 00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,520 He's everything I ever wanted and more. 933 00:47:37,187 --> 00:47:38,522 I found Milton. 934 00:47:39,356 --> 00:47:40,983 [in Spanish] Oh, my God! 935 00:47:41,066 --> 00:47:42,818 [laughing] 936 00:47:42,901 --> 00:47:44,069 [exclaims] 937 00:47:44,820 --> 00:47:48,323 -Ooh! -["Together We Will Run" by Somer playing] 938 00:47:48,407 --> 00:47:51,785 [in English] All right, girls, I'm gonna go get my wedding dress on! 939 00:47:51,869 --> 00:47:53,370 We can't wait to see you. 940 00:47:53,453 --> 00:47:54,746 Yes! [chuckles] 941 00:47:54,830 --> 00:47:59,459 ♪ Certain as the stars Are shining down on all our dreams ♪ 942 00:47:59,543 --> 00:48:03,714 ♪ Certain as the sun Always brings its light up ♪ 943 00:48:03,797 --> 00:48:08,343 ♪ I know there's a place We were both meant to be ♪ 944 00:48:08,427 --> 00:48:11,471 -Hey, Bas, help me! Bro! -[Sebastian] Ah! You got a chicken wing. 945 00:48:11,555 --> 00:48:12,806 -Dude! -Stop. 946 00:48:12,890 --> 00:48:14,141 -[laughing] -[Milton] It hurts. 947 00:48:14,224 --> 00:48:15,976 [Zachary] Can't take him anywhere. 948 00:48:16,768 --> 00:48:20,689 -Stop, stop, stop. Take it off. -[laughing] Oh, my God. 949 00:48:21,523 --> 00:48:24,651 -Oh, here. No, like this. Like this. -[Sebastian] Yes, there you go. 950 00:48:24,735 --> 00:48:26,153 -[Milton] Holy shit. -Come on. 951 00:48:26,236 --> 00:48:29,281 No, like, have you thought this through though? Like, be honest. 952 00:48:29,364 --> 00:48:30,824 -I think I have. -[Zachary] Okay. 953 00:48:31,658 --> 00:48:33,744 [Milton] I don't know. I wouldn't just blindly jump 954 00:48:33,827 --> 00:48:36,121 into a decision unless I fully thought it through. 955 00:48:36,663 --> 00:48:40,042 I mean, I genuinely feel like she makes me a better person. 956 00:48:40,542 --> 00:48:43,670 You know, you're saying she was very emotional and you're… 957 00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:46,965 -Sometime, you're not-- -[Josh laughs] You're not. 958 00:48:47,049 --> 00:48:48,926 [chuckles] Yeah, you're not as emotional as her. 959 00:48:49,009 --> 00:48:50,385 Yeah, I mean… 960 00:48:51,094 --> 00:48:53,764 We're a pretty good, like, balance. I'm not perfect. 961 00:48:53,847 --> 00:48:56,475 -I know you guys may think I am, but-- -[Alex] What? 962 00:48:56,558 --> 00:48:59,186 -[Josh] Your spine isn't even perfect. -Fuck you! 963 00:48:59,686 --> 00:49:02,648 Lydia won't be the same person you marry now as she will be in, like, 964 00:49:02,731 --> 00:49:05,359 ten, 15 years. This is… 965 00:49:05,442 --> 00:49:09,112 It's a lifelong journey, you know? 966 00:49:10,656 --> 00:49:12,908 All right, I think it started to kind of hit me just now. 967 00:49:12,991 --> 00:49:14,743 -[Zachary] Just now? -Yo, just now? 968 00:49:15,786 --> 00:49:16,954 [exhales] 969 00:49:17,037 --> 00:49:19,581 -["I Can Wait" by Øthers playing] -♪ It's never too long to wait… ♪ 970 00:49:19,665 --> 00:49:20,666 -[Lydia Sr.] Okay. -Yeah. 971 00:49:20,749 --> 00:49:22,918 ♪ I know what you're going through ♪ 972 00:49:23,001 --> 00:49:25,671 ♪ And all of your mistakes ♪ 973 00:49:25,754 --> 00:49:28,966 ♪ When you wanna run away ♪ 974 00:49:29,049 --> 00:49:31,051 ♪ And you're aching for a change ♪ 975 00:49:33,220 --> 00:49:34,429 [Lydia Sr.] Look at you! 976 00:49:35,180 --> 00:49:36,932 -[Lydia] I'm a bride! -[Lydia Sr. sniffles] 977 00:49:39,434 --> 00:49:43,146 [in Spanish] You are a bride, the most beautiful of them all. 978 00:49:44,231 --> 00:49:45,941 You will always be here. 979 00:49:46,817 --> 00:49:49,695 [inhales] You know that I'll always be here. 980 00:49:50,320 --> 00:49:52,948 Always. Always. 981 00:49:53,490 --> 00:49:54,992 -I know. -[sniffles] 982 00:49:55,617 --> 00:49:57,202 And I know that you will be happy. 983 00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:01,665 You complement each other, balance each other. 984 00:50:03,208 --> 00:50:05,252 And I know you'll be very happy. 985 00:50:06,044 --> 00:50:08,588 I love you. I'm very proud of you. 986 00:50:09,297 --> 00:50:10,424 Be happy. 987 00:50:11,049 --> 00:50:13,552 Enjoy each moment of your life. 988 00:50:13,635 --> 00:50:15,220 -[in English] I will. -[laughs] 989 00:50:15,303 --> 00:50:16,972 -[in Spanish] I love you. -I love you. 990 00:50:18,306 --> 00:50:20,475 [Lydia in English] All those heartbreaks. 991 00:50:20,559 --> 00:50:22,519 [voice breaks] All those lonely nights. 992 00:50:23,645 --> 00:50:25,230 All of those prayers. 993 00:50:26,231 --> 00:50:28,984 All of those doubts, "Oh, my God, am I enough?" 994 00:50:29,568 --> 00:50:31,278 "What am I doing wrong?" 995 00:50:33,238 --> 00:50:35,782 And I had the answer right in front of me. 996 00:50:36,908 --> 00:50:41,955 I was selecting people that didn't have room for me. 997 00:50:42,039 --> 00:50:44,082 And I have found love! [chuckles] 998 00:50:44,166 --> 00:50:46,334 -[all exclaiming] -[Claudia] Wow! 999 00:50:46,418 --> 00:50:49,212 [Janice] Oh, my God! 1000 00:50:49,796 --> 00:50:50,630 [Claudia gasps] 1001 00:50:50,714 --> 00:50:51,798 [in Spanish] So pretty! 1002 00:50:51,882 --> 00:50:55,135 -[Lilibette] You look beautiful. -[Janice] Gorgeous. 1003 00:50:55,218 --> 00:50:56,428 [in English] Standing in… 1004 00:50:58,138 --> 00:51:01,141 Having this to be the best day yet. 1005 00:51:02,726 --> 00:51:05,062 -[women gasping] -[Lydia] William! 1006 00:51:05,145 --> 00:51:05,979 [laughing] 1007 00:51:06,063 --> 00:51:07,856 -Oh, my God! -[William in Spanish] Don't cry. 1008 00:51:09,816 --> 00:51:14,279 [Lydia] So handsome! Come here. [laughing] 1009 00:51:14,821 --> 00:51:16,823 [Lydia in English] If it wasn't for this experience… 1010 00:51:16,907 --> 00:51:18,408 I love you guys! 1011 00:51:18,909 --> 00:51:22,871 …I would not be standing here about to get married. 1012 00:51:22,954 --> 00:51:25,082 -Now I'm ready! -[all laughing] 1013 00:51:25,165 --> 00:51:27,918 I have the man of my dreams. 1014 00:51:28,001 --> 00:51:29,503 He's everything I wanted. 1015 00:51:30,295 --> 00:51:31,296 And more. 1016 00:51:31,797 --> 00:51:35,926 -Let's get this party started! -[all exclaiming] 1017 00:51:36,009 --> 00:51:37,302 [Milton] What's up, Dad? 1018 00:51:39,096 --> 00:51:42,099 -You bring cuff links? -Yeah, I got the cuff links in there. 1019 00:51:42,182 --> 00:51:44,684 I have this. And there's these. 1020 00:51:49,981 --> 00:51:51,525 I kind of like those. 1021 00:51:51,608 --> 00:51:53,026 [James] I do like these. 1022 00:51:53,110 --> 00:51:55,529 If your mom don't mind, then you keep 'em, 1023 00:51:55,612 --> 00:51:57,239 'cause she's the one got 'em for me. 1024 00:51:59,074 --> 00:52:02,077 Any questions before you step into the rest of your life? 1025 00:52:02,828 --> 00:52:04,371 -[Milton] Do I have any questions? -Yeah. 1026 00:52:04,454 --> 00:52:06,289 -About what? -For anything. 1027 00:52:07,415 --> 00:52:09,543 You ready to step into that role as 1028 00:52:11,128 --> 00:52:13,088 being the head priest of your house? 1029 00:52:13,713 --> 00:52:14,548 Yeah. 1030 00:52:14,631 --> 00:52:18,260 The time frame is what people gonna keep questioning you on. 1031 00:52:18,343 --> 00:52:20,720 -Yeah, but-- -[James] But it doesn't matter. 1032 00:52:20,804 --> 00:52:23,390 -Yeah-- -You know what you want. You go after it. 1033 00:52:23,473 --> 00:52:24,307 Yep. 1034 00:52:24,850 --> 00:52:28,270 Just remember that everything is good during the honeymoon phase, 1035 00:52:28,353 --> 00:52:29,521 the first two years. 1036 00:52:30,147 --> 00:52:31,940 That's why they call it the honeymoon phase. 1037 00:52:32,023 --> 00:52:33,692 -Two years? -[James] Yeah. 1038 00:52:33,775 --> 00:52:34,776 [Milton] Mmm. 1039 00:52:34,860 --> 00:52:36,611 We have pretty good communication. 1040 00:52:37,112 --> 00:52:38,738 [James] Make sure you're communicating, 1041 00:52:38,822 --> 00:52:40,532 and you're not taking each other for granted. 1042 00:52:40,615 --> 00:52:43,743 That's what I'm saying. You gotta learn how to fight fair. 1043 00:52:44,911 --> 00:52:47,664 And that's the biggest thing I could tell you. 1044 00:52:48,582 --> 00:52:49,833 Learn to fight fair. 1045 00:52:50,458 --> 00:52:51,585 Yeah. 1046 00:52:51,668 --> 00:52:53,837 [James] I know you've seen more than enough fights 1047 00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:55,297 from me and your mom. 1048 00:52:57,048 --> 00:52:59,467 Yep. Yeah, but that's y'all's relationship. 1049 00:52:59,551 --> 00:53:01,386 That's independent of mine. 1050 00:53:01,469 --> 00:53:04,639 But anything will work as long as you're willing to put the work in it. 1051 00:53:04,723 --> 00:53:06,892 And that's all I was trying to say. 1052 00:53:07,475 --> 00:53:09,561 We raised you to the best of our ability. 1053 00:53:10,061 --> 00:53:12,731 We're confident in your choices that you make. 1054 00:53:12,814 --> 00:53:15,150 We'll see where it goes from here. 1055 00:53:16,902 --> 00:53:19,279 I wouldn't go into something unless I-- 1056 00:53:19,362 --> 00:53:20,739 [James] I figured. 1057 00:53:21,823 --> 00:53:24,117 I guess you-- you got it figured out. 1058 00:53:27,245 --> 00:53:30,248 [Milton] I feel like everyone has reservations. 1059 00:53:30,332 --> 00:53:34,127 Everyone has certain obstacles that they think I'm gonna face, 1060 00:53:34,211 --> 00:53:35,587 and I feel like everyone else 1061 00:53:35,670 --> 00:53:38,632 besides Lydia and I are a lot more nervous than we are. 1062 00:53:39,591 --> 00:53:41,343 And, honestly, that's the scariest part. 1063 00:53:41,426 --> 00:53:44,387 I'm like, "Holy shit, like, am I going into this super naïve?" 1064 00:53:44,471 --> 00:53:46,473 "Like, why do they think this way?" 1065 00:53:47,057 --> 00:53:50,518 "Should I be more worried? Am I not thinking this out clearly?" 1066 00:53:51,019 --> 00:53:52,854 [dramatic music playing] 1067 00:53:52,938 --> 00:53:54,439 [indistinct chatter] 1068 00:53:58,443 --> 00:54:00,904 [Milton] I'm normally, like, a really laid-back guy. 1069 00:54:00,987 --> 00:54:07,077 I will admit, though, I do feel my heart beating two beats a minute faster, 1070 00:54:07,953 --> 00:54:10,580 so maybe the nerves are slightly creeping up. 1071 00:54:11,539 --> 00:54:13,333 I'm gonna get to that "oh, shit" moment. 1072 00:54:13,416 --> 00:54:16,211 [dramatic music continues] 1073 00:54:26,972 --> 00:54:29,140 Just stand here, straight ahead. Wait for your bride. 1074 00:54:29,224 --> 00:54:32,727 He does look handsome! Oh! 1075 00:54:35,522 --> 00:54:38,566 [upbeat music playing] 1076 00:54:41,444 --> 00:54:43,780 -Should I have this buttoned up? -Hmm? 1077 00:54:43,863 --> 00:54:45,282 Should I have this buttoned? 1078 00:54:45,991 --> 00:54:47,033 The top one. 1079 00:54:56,835 --> 00:54:58,336 [in Spanish] He's gorgeous. 1080 00:54:59,629 --> 00:55:01,548 [upbeat music continues] 1081 00:55:15,270 --> 00:55:18,148 [Lydia in English] Yeah. "Welcome to the wedding of Lydia and Milton." 1082 00:55:19,482 --> 00:55:20,358 Ready? 1083 00:55:21,276 --> 00:55:22,444 [Lydia Sr.] Love you so much. 1084 00:55:22,527 --> 00:55:23,445 I love you too. 1085 00:55:24,446 --> 00:55:26,197 [in Spanish] By your side, always. 1086 00:55:28,908 --> 00:55:31,369 [in English] Please rise for the bride. 1087 00:55:33,663 --> 00:55:35,665 [playing gentle bridal melody] 1088 00:55:47,469 --> 00:55:48,470 [Jessica] Okay. 1089 00:55:49,804 --> 00:55:50,847 It's beautiful. 1090 00:55:51,973 --> 00:55:52,974 [gasps] 1091 00:55:58,438 --> 00:55:59,481 [Lydia Sr. whispers] Okay. 1092 00:56:02,359 --> 00:56:04,361 [mother and daughter speak indistinctly] 1093 00:56:10,909 --> 00:56:12,285 [officiant] Please be seated. 1094 00:56:19,793 --> 00:56:24,339 We are gathered here today to celebrate one of life's greatest moments, 1095 00:56:25,006 --> 00:56:28,968 to give recognition to the worth and beauty of love 1096 00:56:29,052 --> 00:56:32,305 and to add our best wishes to the words that shall unite 1097 00:56:32,389 --> 00:56:36,142 Lydia and Milton in marriage. 1098 00:56:37,060 --> 00:56:40,647 I would ask that you both remind yourself often 1099 00:56:40,730 --> 00:56:42,816 of what brought you together today. 1100 00:56:44,150 --> 00:56:50,073 Give the highest priority to tenderness, gentleness, and kindness 1101 00:56:50,949 --> 00:56:52,617 that your marriage deserves. 1102 00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:57,455 When clouds of trouble hide the sun in your lives, 1103 00:56:57,539 --> 00:57:00,208 remember that the sun is still there. 1104 00:57:01,334 --> 00:57:03,628 And if each of you will take responsibility 1105 00:57:03,711 --> 00:57:06,047 for the quality of your life together, 1106 00:57:06,589 --> 00:57:10,427 it will be marked with abundance and delight. 1107 00:57:11,261 --> 00:57:13,346 Lydia and Milton, 1108 00:57:14,347 --> 00:57:17,642 today we celebrate the power of your love 1109 00:57:17,725 --> 00:57:20,437 and the strength of your bond. 1110 00:57:23,189 --> 00:57:25,191 I fell in love with you 1111 00:57:25,275 --> 00:57:27,026 'cause you chose me. 1112 00:57:28,445 --> 00:57:30,029 Countless laughs, 1113 00:57:30,822 --> 00:57:32,907 hour-long conversations, 1114 00:57:32,991 --> 00:57:35,910 and you made sure that I knew I was your first. 1115 00:57:37,287 --> 00:57:40,206 I've fallen in love with you 'cause you listened. 1116 00:57:40,290 --> 00:57:44,586 You comprehend. You understanded who I was. 1117 00:57:46,838 --> 00:57:48,673 Genuinely me. 1118 00:57:57,307 --> 00:57:59,976 I fell in love with you in the pods because 1119 00:58:01,728 --> 00:58:02,770 you interested me. 1120 00:58:02,854 --> 00:58:05,315 You challenged me and my thinking. 1121 00:58:06,107 --> 00:58:08,610 You always inspired me to be more. 1122 00:58:09,777 --> 00:58:12,113 We had our ups, we had our downs, 1123 00:58:12,989 --> 00:58:16,034 and the communication maturity that you showed, 1124 00:58:16,701 --> 00:58:18,745 I knew you were the one. 1125 00:58:20,747 --> 00:58:22,790 I never had a doubt about you 1126 00:58:23,374 --> 00:58:26,669 and I hope it continues to be like that forever. 1127 00:58:31,007 --> 00:58:35,637 [officiant] You fell in love with each other based on who you are on the inside 1128 00:58:35,720 --> 00:58:39,140 and decided to get married, sight unseen. 1129 00:58:40,642 --> 00:58:45,605 Now is the time to decide if love is blind. 1130 00:58:46,689 --> 00:58:50,485 Lydia, do you take Milton to be your husband? 1131 00:58:50,568 --> 00:58:55,698 Do you promise to love, honor, cherish, and protect him, 1132 00:58:56,533 --> 00:59:00,870 forsaking all others and holding only onto him? 1133 00:59:01,371 --> 00:59:03,373 [suspenseful music playing] 1134 00:59:10,338 --> 00:59:11,339 Yes, I do. 1135 00:59:14,217 --> 00:59:15,552 [laughs nervously] 1136 00:59:16,135 --> 00:59:17,178 [mouths] I love you. 1137 00:59:18,846 --> 00:59:20,348 Aww. 1138 00:59:21,307 --> 00:59:25,770 [officiant] And, Milton, do you take Lydia to be your wife? 1139 00:59:26,813 --> 00:59:31,651 Do you promise to love, honor, cherish and protect her, 1140 00:59:32,151 --> 00:59:36,698 forsaking all others and holding only onto her? 1141 00:59:37,282 --> 00:59:39,284 [suspenseful music playing] 1142 00:59:44,914 --> 00:59:46,541 -I do. -[all laughing] 1143 00:59:46,624 --> 00:59:48,251 I thought you were gonna say more words. 1144 00:59:48,334 --> 00:59:50,211 [all cheering] 1145 00:59:50,295 --> 00:59:52,338 [uplifting music playing] 1146 01:00:01,014 --> 01:00:02,515 He didn't tell him to! 1147 01:00:06,019 --> 01:00:07,729 You're not supposed to kiss the bride yet! 1148 01:00:07,812 --> 01:00:10,523 -Oh, I'm not? -[officiant laughing] 1149 01:00:10,607 --> 01:00:12,525 [Milton] I thought I was supposed to! 1150 01:00:12,609 --> 01:00:14,819 -It's okay, man. It's okay. -[laughing] 1151 01:00:15,612 --> 01:00:16,446 Continue. 1152 01:00:17,155 --> 01:00:18,531 [officiant] A wedding ring… 1153 01:00:19,073 --> 01:00:21,659 -Oh. -Oh! We don't even have that yet. 1154 01:00:21,743 --> 01:00:23,953 [all laughing] 1155 01:00:25,955 --> 01:00:29,375 A wedding ring is a symbol of love 1156 01:00:30,293 --> 01:00:31,502 that never ends. 1157 01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:35,173 As you wear them throughout time, 1158 01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:39,844 they will reflect not only who you are as individuals, 1159 01:00:39,927 --> 01:00:42,138 but also who you are as a couple. 1160 01:00:42,639 --> 01:00:45,933 Milton, Lydia, repeat after me. 1161 01:00:46,434 --> 01:00:47,435 I, Milton. 1162 01:00:48,811 --> 01:00:49,646 I, Milton. 1163 01:00:50,146 --> 01:00:50,980 I, Lydia. 1164 01:00:51,064 --> 01:00:52,065 Take you, Lydia. 1165 01:00:52,148 --> 01:00:53,149 Take you, Milton. 1166 01:00:53,232 --> 01:00:54,150 As my wife. 1167 01:00:54,233 --> 01:00:55,401 As my husband. 1168 01:00:55,485 --> 01:00:56,903 [Milton] To have and to hold. 1169 01:00:56,986 --> 01:00:58,404 [Lydia] In sickness and in health. 1170 01:00:58,488 --> 01:00:59,947 For richer and for poorer. 1171 01:01:00,031 --> 01:01:01,741 In joy and in sorrow. 1172 01:01:01,824 --> 01:01:03,368 I promise my love to you. 1173 01:01:03,451 --> 01:01:05,161 I promise my love to you. 1174 01:01:05,244 --> 01:01:09,832 It is my great pleasure to pronounce that you are now husband and wife. 1175 01:01:09,916 --> 01:01:12,126 -You may kiss your bride. -[Milton] Oh, now. 1176 01:01:12,210 --> 01:01:13,544 [crowd cheering] 1177 01:01:13,628 --> 01:01:15,338 [''Chasing Stars'' by Animal Island playing] 1178 01:01:15,421 --> 01:01:16,881 [all cheering] 1179 01:01:23,471 --> 01:01:24,972 Whoo-hoo! 1180 01:01:27,141 --> 01:01:30,436 ♪ Hearts racing, come alive… ♪ 1181 01:01:31,020 --> 01:01:33,356 [officiant] Ladies and gentlemen, 1182 01:01:33,439 --> 01:01:38,194 Mr. and Mrs. Lydia and James Milton Johnson. 1183 01:01:38,277 --> 01:01:40,071 [all cheering] 1184 01:01:42,865 --> 01:01:46,119 ♪ It's our time, we can go so far ♪ 1185 01:01:46,202 --> 01:01:48,996 ♪ Let's run into the night… ♪ 1186 01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:50,581 Whoo-hoo! 1187 01:01:50,665 --> 01:01:52,917 You're supposed to be happy. 1188 01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:55,378 -I am happy! -[laughing] 1189 01:01:57,213 --> 01:01:59,549 -Do you know how to pop a bottle? -Of course I do! 1190 01:01:59,632 --> 01:02:00,717 [Lydia] Mmm? 1191 01:02:01,384 --> 01:02:03,094 -No! -I know how to do it. 1192 01:02:03,177 --> 01:02:06,097 -Yeah, right. -I was-- I'm twisting! I'm doing it! 1193 01:02:06,180 --> 01:02:07,640 Watch and learn, mister. 1194 01:02:07,724 --> 01:02:08,725 [cork pops] 1195 01:02:09,475 --> 01:02:11,477 -[Milton] I wasn't scared. -Yeah, right. 1196 01:02:11,978 --> 01:02:15,106 [Lydia] Getting married, it is a dream come true. 1197 01:02:15,189 --> 01:02:18,192 I feel so, so, so happy. 1198 01:02:18,901 --> 01:02:21,320 I got everything I need right here. 1199 01:02:22,029 --> 01:02:23,990 -You finished it? -I thought we were supposed to. 1200 01:02:24,073 --> 01:02:26,451 [laughing] That's not a fucking shot. 1201 01:02:26,534 --> 01:02:28,077 It's not a shot! 1202 01:02:28,578 --> 01:02:31,372 It feels like home. It feels safe. 1203 01:02:33,458 --> 01:02:38,463 ♪ Oh, we can go anywhere, anywhere ♪ 1204 01:02:40,047 --> 01:02:40,882 [Lydia] What? 1205 01:02:41,466 --> 01:02:42,508 You look pretty. 1206 01:02:43,009 --> 01:02:44,719 -I love you. -I love you too. 1207 01:02:46,053 --> 01:02:48,806 [mutters] Oop! My veil is down. 1208 01:02:49,891 --> 01:02:52,268 I'm scared if you put it on, 'cause… 1209 01:02:53,227 --> 01:02:54,562 Oh, my-- [laughing] 1210 01:02:55,897 --> 01:02:56,898 How do I look? 1211 01:02:56,981 --> 01:03:00,651 Oh, my God. You look so sexy. My bride! 1212 01:03:01,986 --> 01:03:04,113 Gimme a walk. Come, gimme a walk from there. 1213 01:03:04,197 --> 01:03:05,114 I wanna see you. 1214 01:03:05,198 --> 01:03:06,073 Give it to me. 1215 01:03:07,074 --> 01:03:10,912 Mmm! I dig that! Oh! Oh! Where are-- 1216 01:03:10,995 --> 01:03:11,871 Oh! Oh… 1217 01:03:13,039 --> 01:03:16,334 ♪ Let’s run into the night ♪ 1218 01:03:16,417 --> 01:03:19,003 ♪ These days we burn so bright ♪ 1219 01:03:21,756 --> 01:03:25,426 ♪ All my life I've been chasing stars ♪ 1220 01:03:26,052 --> 01:03:28,054 ["Let Me Go" by Marina Bennett playing] 1221 01:03:31,557 --> 01:03:36,270 ♪ So long since I have seen myself… ♪ 1222 01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:39,649 [Izzy] I definitely feel love is blind, 1223 01:03:39,732 --> 01:03:41,609 because what I've experienced… [sighs] 1224 01:03:41,692 --> 01:03:44,362 …is I don't care how you look, 1225 01:03:44,946 --> 01:03:46,405 how much money you make. 1226 01:03:46,906 --> 01:03:50,743 You put everything aside that people face in the real world 1227 01:03:50,827 --> 01:03:53,412 when you find that connection with someone. 1228 01:03:54,747 --> 01:03:58,835 I'm just really sad 'cause I gave everything I had to give to someone. 1229 01:03:59,502 --> 01:04:04,006 [sniffles] But I deserve someone to love me the same way that I love. 1230 01:04:04,590 --> 01:04:06,717 I deserve the effort that I put in… 1231 01:04:06,801 --> 01:04:09,887 [crying] …to be reciprocated. 1232 01:04:11,264 --> 01:04:12,265 That's what I deserve. 1233 01:04:12,348 --> 01:04:14,767 ♪ You have to let me go… ♪ 1234 01:04:14,851 --> 01:04:17,311 -[exhales] -♪ You'll be all right ♪ 1235 01:04:17,395 --> 01:04:18,479 [sniffles] 1236 01:04:18,563 --> 01:04:20,940 ♪ The sun will rise… ♪ 1237 01:04:21,023 --> 01:04:23,192 [Stacy] Love is absolutely blind. 1238 01:04:23,276 --> 01:04:28,030 Izzy opened me up emotionally in a way that I never thought was possible, 1239 01:04:28,656 --> 01:04:31,993 but I don't have 100% certainty. 1240 01:04:32,493 --> 01:04:36,789 Fairly certain isn't good enough for me to say yes to the rest of my life. 1241 01:04:37,957 --> 01:04:41,711 ♪ Tried to say goodbye And never find the words ♪ 1242 01:04:41,794 --> 01:04:46,966 ♪ Holding on too tight I know what I deserve ♪ 1243 01:04:47,049 --> 01:04:49,302 ♪ You have to let me go ♪ 1244 01:04:49,385 --> 01:04:52,722 ♪ You'll be all right ♪ 1245 01:04:53,306 --> 01:04:55,850 [Taylor] Part of me regrets not going through with it. 1246 01:04:55,933 --> 01:04:59,061 -[JP crying] Will you marry me? -I will! [laughs] 1247 01:04:59,145 --> 01:05:02,523 Trying to live with JP, meeting each other's families and stuff… 1248 01:05:02,607 --> 01:05:04,066 I love you so much! 1249 01:05:04,150 --> 01:05:05,067 I love you too. 1250 01:05:05,151 --> 01:05:06,944 [Taylor] Because my feelings were real for him. 1251 01:05:07,528 --> 01:05:09,405 But a lot of my heart says I did the right thing. 1252 01:05:10,781 --> 01:05:14,201 I think my inability to open up has definitely pushed women away. 1253 01:05:14,285 --> 01:05:17,121 Uh, it's definitely something that I know I need to work on. 1254 01:05:17,204 --> 01:05:20,833 I still wanna keep trying, 'cause there's someone out there for everyone. 1255 01:05:21,709 --> 01:05:27,632 I do regret not creating that environment where Aaliyah felt vulnerable, 1256 01:05:27,715 --> 01:05:29,342 and where she felt safe. 1257 01:05:29,425 --> 01:05:32,136 Oh, boy, you're a recent cheater. 1258 01:05:32,219 --> 01:05:35,014 And that is something that I'm going to work on, 1259 01:05:35,097 --> 01:05:38,351 so I can grow, and I can be a better communicator, 1260 01:05:38,434 --> 01:05:41,979 and I can be better in a relationship in the future. 1261 01:05:42,063 --> 01:05:43,481 ♪ I wanted you to know… ♪ 1262 01:05:43,564 --> 01:05:45,441 [Aaliyah] Love is a mindset. 1263 01:05:45,524 --> 01:05:48,569 It's a lifestyle, and it's a daily choice. 1264 01:05:48,653 --> 01:05:52,239 This experiment has challenged me in a really weird way 1265 01:05:52,323 --> 01:05:55,159 that I've never experienced in my life before. 1266 01:05:55,242 --> 01:05:57,328 [Uche] I can't believe some girl said something to you, 1267 01:05:57,411 --> 01:05:59,246 and you let that come in between us. 1268 01:05:59,330 --> 01:06:01,999 [Aaliyah crying on phone] Uche, I'm sorry! 1269 01:06:02,083 --> 01:06:03,376 I regret leaving you like that. 1270 01:06:04,543 --> 01:06:05,628 I do love you. 1271 01:06:05,711 --> 01:06:08,631 I've learned not to be afraid to really open yourself up 1272 01:06:08,714 --> 01:06:11,342 to the possibility of something that scares you. 1273 01:06:11,425 --> 01:06:13,427 ["Let Me Go" continues playing] 1274 01:06:14,053 --> 01:06:17,056 [Johnie] I've learned that I'm definitely not a perfect person. 1275 01:06:17,139 --> 01:06:20,601 Like, I haven't always made the best decisions. 1276 01:06:20,685 --> 01:06:22,019 I do want you. 1277 01:06:22,103 --> 01:06:26,273 -Yeah. -I messed up, and I'm… I'm sorry, but… 1278 01:06:26,357 --> 01:06:29,443 [Johnie crying] I am capable of having a healthy relationship. 1279 01:06:29,527 --> 01:06:31,696 No, that's Chris. You know we're official? 1280 01:06:32,363 --> 01:06:35,157 [chuckles] Love and commitment is still gonna be a lot of work, 1281 01:06:35,241 --> 01:06:36,909 but I'm not gonna give up. 1282 01:06:36,993 --> 01:06:39,120 ♪ I know what I deserve… ♪ 1283 01:06:39,203 --> 01:06:40,037 You okay? 1284 01:06:41,038 --> 01:06:44,125 I believe love is blind, because in my life, 1285 01:06:44,208 --> 01:06:47,420 the emotional connection brings out the physical connection. 1286 01:06:48,129 --> 01:06:52,591 And I've grown and learned that sometimes love is very unexpected. 1287 01:06:53,092 --> 01:06:54,802 You just kind of have to follow your heart, 1288 01:06:54,885 --> 01:06:58,055 and I'm just really optimistic 1289 01:06:58,139 --> 01:07:00,307 and very excited for the future. 1290 01:07:00,975 --> 01:07:02,018 We will see. 1291 01:07:03,519 --> 01:07:05,563 [man] Come on! Let's hear it for the bride and groom! 1292 01:07:05,646 --> 01:07:08,357 [crowd cheering] 1293 01:07:08,441 --> 01:07:11,152 ["Big Big Love" by Belinda Carlisle playing] 1294 01:07:12,278 --> 01:07:13,946 [both] We are married! 1295 01:07:14,030 --> 01:07:16,741 I feel amazing! 1296 01:07:16,824 --> 01:07:17,700 [man] Yeah, buddy! 1297 01:07:17,783 --> 01:07:21,287 [Milton] All the data points led me to… "This is the right decision." 1298 01:07:21,370 --> 01:07:23,539 All is said and done, the only thing that matters is 1299 01:07:24,290 --> 01:07:25,833 we're both happy with one another. 1300 01:07:25,916 --> 01:07:28,377 We both challenge each other to do better. 1301 01:07:28,461 --> 01:07:29,670 And we love each other. 1302 01:07:29,754 --> 01:07:31,255 -Yeah, I guess that too. -[chuckles] 1303 01:07:31,338 --> 01:07:35,176 ♪ I want a love that keeps me up nights Gives me butterflies… ♪ 1304 01:07:35,259 --> 01:07:36,594 [all cheering] 1305 01:07:36,677 --> 01:07:41,223 If I could describe my relationship in one sentence, it would be, 1306 01:07:41,307 --> 01:07:44,143 "The imperfect perfectly relationship for me." 1307 01:07:45,394 --> 01:07:48,230 What does that even mean? Your English is so bad. 1308 01:07:48,314 --> 01:07:50,232 [chuckles] I'll explain it to you later. 1309 01:07:50,316 --> 01:07:52,860 ♪ I'm looking for a big, big love… ♪ 1310 01:07:52,943 --> 01:07:53,986 [Lydia] Do it together. 1311 01:07:54,653 --> 01:07:57,990 -You're not supposed to do it like that! -You're supposed to do it from the top. 1312 01:07:58,074 --> 01:08:00,993 -Supposed to do it through the bottom. -No, you do it from the top. 1313 01:08:01,077 --> 01:08:03,496 -This is just the beginning. -I do believe love is blind. 1314 01:08:03,579 --> 01:08:06,499 I married the man of my dreams and a little bit more. 1315 01:08:07,374 --> 01:08:08,584 [crowd cheering] 1316 01:08:09,335 --> 01:08:12,588 [Lydia] I am ready to start my life with my husband. 1317 01:08:12,671 --> 01:08:13,506 New chapter. 1318 01:08:13,589 --> 01:08:16,300 -The beginning of our forever. -Mmm-hmm. 1319 01:08:16,383 --> 01:08:20,304 ♪ Come and knock me off my feet… ♪ 1320 01:08:21,388 --> 01:08:23,057 -I love you. -I love you too. 1321 01:08:23,140 --> 01:08:25,434 ♪ Big, big love ♪ 1322 01:08:25,518 --> 01:08:27,353 ♪ That takes up All the space in my heart… ♪ 1323 01:08:27,436 --> 01:08:30,773 Oh, my God! You're gonna make me fall. What are you doing? 1324 01:08:30,856 --> 01:08:32,942 -Trying to organize myself. -Okay, like that. 1325 01:08:33,025 --> 01:08:36,028 -["Big Big Love" continues playing] -[crowd cheering] 1326 01:08:36,112 --> 01:08:37,863 ♪ I'm gonna find it ♪ 1327 01:08:37,947 --> 01:08:41,033 ♪ That big, big love ♪ 1328 01:08:41,117 --> 01:08:43,744 ♪ Big, big love ♪ 1329 01:08:43,828 --> 01:08:46,372 ♪ Big, big love ♪ 1330 01:08:46,455 --> 01:08:48,874 ♪ Big, big love ♪ 1331 01:08:48,958 --> 01:08:54,880 ♪ Big, big love ♪ 1332 01:08:54,964 --> 01:08:57,049 ♪ I'm gonna find it ♪ 1333 01:08:57,133 --> 01:08:59,885 ♪ I'm gonna find it ♪ 1334 01:08:59,969 --> 01:09:02,888 ♪ That big, big love ♪ 1335 01:09:02,972 --> 01:09:05,891 ♪ Big, big love ♪ 1336 01:09:05,975 --> 01:09:08,477 ♪ Big, big love ♪ 1337 01:09:08,561 --> 01:09:10,896 ♪ Big, big love ♪ 1338 01:09:10,980 --> 01:09:16,902 ♪ Big, big love ♪ 1339 01:09:16,986 --> 01:09:18,904 ♪ Big, big love ♪