1 00:00:07,173 --> 00:00:11,928 Tiffany, will you have this man from this day forward… 2 00:00:12,595 --> 00:00:15,223 Brett, I absolutely will. 3 00:00:15,306 --> 00:00:18,727 [all cheering] 4 00:00:18,810 --> 00:00:20,729 -I do. -[laughs] 5 00:00:20,812 --> 00:00:22,522 [all cheering] 6 00:00:22,605 --> 00:00:26,401 It is with great pleasure that I now pronounce you husband and wife. 7 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:30,113 [all cheering] 8 00:00:30,196 --> 00:00:32,407 I think that we're not there. 9 00:00:34,034 --> 00:00:35,076 [sobs] 10 00:00:35,160 --> 00:00:38,496 Marshall, I can't love you. 11 00:00:38,580 --> 00:00:40,081 -How are you? -How you doing? 12 00:00:41,124 --> 00:00:43,251 I'll see you around. Maybe, maybe not. 13 00:00:43,334 --> 00:00:45,045 -Nah, you won't. -Okay. 14 00:00:45,128 --> 00:00:47,672 ♪ We open our eyes… ♪ 15 00:00:47,756 --> 00:00:50,300 We've gotten married. Been like a crazy whirlwind. 16 00:00:50,383 --> 00:00:52,010 -But it's still fun? -So fun. 17 00:00:52,093 --> 00:00:54,095 [all cheering] 18 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,141 It feels like the longest yet shortest year ever. 19 00:00:58,224 --> 00:01:00,310 -Ah! -Hey! Hey! Hey! 20 00:01:00,393 --> 00:01:03,646 And also the friendships that come out of this, it's just so good. 21 00:01:03,730 --> 00:01:05,732 -Hi! -Hi! 22 00:01:05,815 --> 00:01:08,318 I don't think everybody has moved on. 23 00:01:08,401 --> 00:01:11,488 -How are things with Paul? -We get good closure, we move on 24 00:01:11,571 --> 00:01:14,365 and then it's like, "Why are you still talking to me?" 25 00:01:15,283 --> 00:01:17,243 Of course I have feelings for you. 26 00:01:17,327 --> 00:01:20,163 Yeah. I think there's still a lot of tension. 27 00:01:21,581 --> 00:01:26,169 I don't know how you deal with this man every single day. He's a six-year-old. 28 00:01:26,252 --> 00:01:28,463 -Have you seen Marshall? -He's been blocked. 29 00:01:28,546 --> 00:01:31,341 I had no idea that you guys were being that catty. 30 00:01:34,135 --> 00:01:35,428 This shit just sucks. 31 00:01:35,512 --> 00:01:38,139 I don't think, when we got together, that I really realized 32 00:01:38,223 --> 00:01:40,892 the sacrifice you were making for me and for us. 33 00:01:41,768 --> 00:01:45,772 Complex stuff, this marriage. But it's simple, right? 34 00:01:45,855 --> 00:01:46,773 That is true. 35 00:01:46,856 --> 00:01:49,734 [Brett] Y'all are putting Black love on a pedestal. 36 00:01:49,818 --> 00:01:51,986 -That's who I wanna spend my life with. -Strong words. 37 00:01:52,070 --> 00:01:53,154 I feel it. 38 00:01:53,238 --> 00:01:55,281 When he's happy, there's more singing. 39 00:01:55,365 --> 00:01:58,493 They were a couple, like, one to two-hour serenade sessions. 40 00:01:58,576 --> 00:02:00,245 -One to two hours? -Yeah. 41 00:02:00,328 --> 00:02:02,580 Love isn't fun if it's not a little weird. 42 00:02:02,664 --> 00:02:04,165 [all laughing] 43 00:02:08,211 --> 00:02:09,045 ♪ Ooh ♪ 44 00:02:09,879 --> 00:02:10,880 ♪ Ooh ♪ 45 00:02:11,631 --> 00:02:13,049 ♪ Oh, baby ♪ 46 00:02:15,969 --> 00:02:17,846 ♪ What you drinkin'? What you want? ♪ 47 00:02:17,929 --> 00:02:19,681 ♪ We spend it all We empty vaults ♪ 48 00:02:19,764 --> 00:02:21,266 ♪ Check yourself out in the mirror ♪ 49 00:02:21,349 --> 00:02:23,726 ♪ Never wait in line When you're looking tight ♪ 50 00:02:23,810 --> 00:02:26,938 ♪ From your head to your toe Superstar, this is your show ♪ 51 00:02:27,021 --> 00:02:28,940 -[elevator dings] -♪ Yeah, yeah, I like it ♪ 52 00:02:29,023 --> 00:02:31,234 ♪ Go on and show off every time ♪ 53 00:02:31,317 --> 00:02:32,652 This is so cool. 54 00:02:33,862 --> 00:02:34,696 Oh. 55 00:02:34,779 --> 00:02:36,698 ♪ Got a whole lot of wow Got a whole of style ♪ 56 00:02:36,781 --> 00:02:38,741 ♪ Got a whole lot of ugh, ugh ♪ 57 00:02:39,450 --> 00:02:40,702 -Thank you. -All right. 58 00:02:43,329 --> 00:02:44,247 Enjoy, you two. 59 00:02:44,330 --> 00:02:45,790 -Thanks. -Thank you. 60 00:02:46,374 --> 00:02:48,793 Do you want me to do the introduction now? 61 00:02:50,420 --> 00:02:51,546 You want me to do it? 62 00:02:51,629 --> 00:02:53,631 You always have this, "We da Browns." 63 00:02:53,715 --> 00:02:56,092 Yeah. [laughs] 64 00:02:56,175 --> 00:02:58,887 -You always do that thing. -It rolls off your tongue. 65 00:02:59,637 --> 00:03:00,471 Hey, y'all. 66 00:03:01,097 --> 00:03:02,891 We da Browns. 67 00:03:02,974 --> 00:03:04,684 [laughs] 68 00:03:04,767 --> 00:03:08,021 -What she says. -We still kicking it. [laughs] 69 00:03:08,104 --> 00:03:09,147 This is beautiful. 70 00:03:09,230 --> 00:03:10,398 This is beautiful. 71 00:03:10,481 --> 00:03:13,693 I used to walk this waterfront all the time in the morning. 72 00:03:13,776 --> 00:03:14,861 Mmm-hm. 73 00:03:14,944 --> 00:03:17,071 How much would you say you miss Seattle? 74 00:03:17,155 --> 00:03:18,907 -Portland's nice. -Mmm-hm. 75 00:03:18,990 --> 00:03:21,284 It's… it's just slower paced. 76 00:03:21,367 --> 00:03:23,244 So, having to get used to that. 77 00:03:23,328 --> 00:03:27,415 -Mmm-hm. -But we're there, you're there, so… 78 00:03:28,207 --> 00:03:30,126 Well, it was a big adjustment for you. 79 00:03:30,209 --> 00:03:31,586 -Yeah. -And… 80 00:03:33,087 --> 00:03:35,715 If I haven't said it before, I'm pretty sure I have, 81 00:03:35,798 --> 00:03:38,551 but I just want to reiterate just how thankful I am 82 00:03:38,635 --> 00:03:40,720 for you making that move for us. 83 00:03:40,803 --> 00:03:42,347 Absolutely. 84 00:03:42,430 --> 00:03:44,724 [Tiffany] So we've been married for a year now. 85 00:03:44,807 --> 00:03:46,601 Still happily married. 86 00:03:46,684 --> 00:03:49,854 And after our wedding, um, 87 00:03:49,938 --> 00:03:53,858 we moved right down to Portland for Brett's work. 88 00:03:53,942 --> 00:03:56,069 Love this guy with all of my heart. 89 00:03:56,152 --> 00:03:57,237 Love you too, babe. 90 00:03:59,239 --> 00:04:00,156 Thank you. 91 00:04:03,117 --> 00:04:05,203 -Oh, no. You good. [laughs] -Okay, okay. 92 00:04:05,286 --> 00:04:07,497 This is my soft girl era. 93 00:04:07,580 --> 00:04:09,499 Nothing's gonna stress us out. 94 00:04:09,582 --> 00:04:13,753 Like, I'm really trying to do things that involve, like, self-care and wellness. 95 00:04:13,836 --> 00:04:15,964 -"Soft girl era." I dig it. -Yeah. 96 00:04:16,047 --> 00:04:16,923 [chuckles] 97 00:04:19,050 --> 00:04:24,013 I think that's what drew me to you was… I was so just, like, focused 98 00:04:24,097 --> 00:04:28,017 and I wouldn't say serious, but you had a whole lot more, 99 00:04:28,101 --> 00:04:30,270 like, free spirit, playfulness. 100 00:04:30,353 --> 00:04:31,229 Yeah. 101 00:04:31,312 --> 00:04:34,524 It was like, maybe she's just the balance that I need to bring out 102 00:04:34,607 --> 00:04:36,442 some of those traits, you know, outwardly. 103 00:04:36,526 --> 00:04:40,780 That part of my personality doesn't naturally come out, but I'm hilarious. 104 00:04:40,863 --> 00:04:42,865 -You are freaking funny. -I know. 105 00:04:42,949 --> 00:04:44,951 Who's the best impersonation you can do? 106 00:04:45,034 --> 00:04:46,786 -I think Zack. -[gasps] 107 00:04:46,869 --> 00:04:51,374 [imitates Zack] What you need to realize, Tiffany, is that I'm in love with you. 108 00:04:52,667 --> 00:04:55,086 Full-heartedly. I'm in love with you. 109 00:04:55,545 --> 00:04:57,505 ♪ Set it on fire ♪ 110 00:04:57,588 --> 00:04:59,382 ♪ Half this desire ♪ 111 00:04:59,465 --> 00:05:03,761 ♪ Feeling that fire, feeling that fire Feeling that fire burn ♪ 112 00:05:04,304 --> 00:05:08,224 ♪ Losing my mind with you all night ♪ 113 00:05:08,725 --> 00:05:11,894 ♪ Feeling that fire, feeling that fire Feeling that fire burn ♪ 114 00:05:11,978 --> 00:05:13,980 [Bliss] Really, it's a pretty day, huh? 115 00:05:14,063 --> 00:05:15,565 [Zack] Yeah, it's gorgeous. 116 00:05:15,648 --> 00:05:18,818 Finally, the sun's coming out just a little bit. It's so cold. 117 00:05:23,197 --> 00:05:24,073 All right. 118 00:05:30,079 --> 00:05:31,622 -Hey there. -[Bliss] Hi. 119 00:05:31,706 --> 00:05:33,124 Here for an appointment? 120 00:05:33,207 --> 00:05:34,542 -[Bliss] Yes. -All right. 121 00:05:34,625 --> 00:05:37,170 It's the Goytowskis. You didn't say that part with me. 122 00:05:37,253 --> 00:05:39,255 I think it's better if you say that part. 123 00:05:39,339 --> 00:05:41,007 Like, 'cause I… If we're, like… 124 00:05:41,090 --> 00:05:43,634 If we're, like, cultish, like, "It's the G… 125 00:05:43,718 --> 00:05:46,220 Let's do it. Ready? One, two, three. 126 00:05:46,304 --> 00:05:48,056 [together] It's the Goytowskis. 127 00:05:48,139 --> 00:05:50,349 -I mean, you're doing it deadpan. -[laughs] 128 00:05:50,433 --> 00:05:51,934 You're doing it deadpan, babe. 129 00:05:52,018 --> 00:05:54,270 It'll come off weird if you do it deadpan. 130 00:05:54,353 --> 00:05:56,147 We're the Goytowskis. 131 00:05:56,230 --> 00:05:59,233 You guys better not use that. You guys better not use that. 132 00:05:59,317 --> 00:06:00,318 You know they will. 133 00:06:00,401 --> 00:06:01,235 [both laugh] 134 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:06,324 -[Bliss] How are you feeling, babe? -Good. Yeah. I'm ready. 135 00:06:06,407 --> 00:06:08,451 Yeah? Not nervous? 136 00:06:08,534 --> 00:06:09,744 How are you feeling? 137 00:06:09,827 --> 00:06:10,995 Fine, I guess. 138 00:06:11,079 --> 00:06:13,664 [both chuckle] 139 00:06:14,415 --> 00:06:17,126 I feel good. I feel fine. [chuckles] 140 00:06:19,462 --> 00:06:21,214 -I love you. -I love you too. 141 00:06:22,548 --> 00:06:25,301 We are ready for you. You can follow me on back. 142 00:06:26,219 --> 00:06:30,890 [Zack] I think the best part of marriage is having someone 143 00:06:30,973 --> 00:06:34,477 who is gonna to be with you for the rest of your life, 144 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:38,940 that is there to… to write the story with you. 145 00:06:39,774 --> 00:06:42,401 It's gonna be right in here, and you can have a seat. 146 00:06:42,485 --> 00:06:43,361 [Bliss] Thank you. 147 00:06:43,945 --> 00:06:46,280 Turtle room. I actually really like turtles. 148 00:06:46,364 --> 00:06:48,658 Yeah, they're such cool, cool animals. 149 00:06:49,283 --> 00:06:53,871 For me, like, I never necessarily was like, "I need a partner in my life." 150 00:06:53,955 --> 00:06:55,581 I was like, "It'll be nice." 151 00:06:55,665 --> 00:06:59,168 But having… having him in my life, it's just truly shifted me. 152 00:06:59,252 --> 00:07:01,295 It's made me a better person, and honestly, 153 00:07:01,379 --> 00:07:04,507 like, that's one of the best things about marriage. It's good. 154 00:07:05,508 --> 00:07:07,301 Yeah. We've grown a lot. 155 00:07:07,385 --> 00:07:09,512 Bliss doesn't like when I put my hand here. 156 00:07:09,595 --> 00:07:11,013 [laughs] This doesn't look good. 157 00:07:11,097 --> 00:07:13,683 Looks too buddy-buddy. I gotta keep my hand low. 158 00:07:14,308 --> 00:07:16,018 -Hello. -Hi. 159 00:07:16,102 --> 00:07:19,230 -How is everyone? Dr. Davé here as always. -Hi. 160 00:07:19,313 --> 00:07:20,898 -Nice to meet you. -Hi. 161 00:07:20,982 --> 00:07:26,320 A pleasure. So tell me, how have your shots been going? 162 00:07:26,404 --> 00:07:28,906 -I think we're at eight months now, right? -Yeah. 163 00:07:28,990 --> 00:07:30,074 Yeah, that's awesome. 164 00:07:30,158 --> 00:07:33,494 So, we usually start to see benefit at around six-month periods. 165 00:07:33,578 --> 00:07:37,498 You're kind of hitting the two months of really seeing major differences. 166 00:07:37,582 --> 00:07:39,542 [Zack] One of the things that surprised me 167 00:07:39,625 --> 00:07:41,711 is I was so in love with Bliss when we got married. 168 00:07:41,794 --> 00:07:45,006 But, uh, the year… Since the year that has passed, 169 00:07:45,089 --> 00:07:47,341 I love her so much more now. 170 00:07:47,425 --> 00:07:49,218 I appreciate her so much more now. 171 00:07:49,302 --> 00:07:52,221 She is so nurturing and loving and, uh, 172 00:07:52,305 --> 00:07:54,891 that's why I definitely want to build a family. 173 00:07:54,974 --> 00:07:56,976 So we're at the doctor's office 174 00:07:57,059 --> 00:08:00,980 because we got to figure out some things about our babies. 175 00:08:01,063 --> 00:08:03,524 For our fur babies, Zack, our fur babies. 176 00:08:04,275 --> 00:08:06,652 Zack has to get allergy shots for his allergies. 177 00:08:06,736 --> 00:08:10,865 We have plenty of time to think about human babies, and we are in no rush. 178 00:08:13,951 --> 00:08:16,704 What were your symptoms before starting shots? 179 00:08:16,787 --> 00:08:23,044 Um, if I would spend enough time with, uh, cats or dogs indoors, 180 00:08:23,127 --> 00:08:28,382 um, my ability to breathe would become significantly restricted. 181 00:08:28,466 --> 00:08:31,260 My animals had to go live with my family 182 00:08:31,344 --> 00:08:34,555 while we started to get the allergy stuff figured out. 183 00:08:34,639 --> 00:08:37,850 So it's had… it's had a pretty big impact on our life, I'd say. 184 00:08:37,934 --> 00:08:42,230 And we brought, um, Asher, our dog, back a couple months ago and it's… 185 00:08:42,313 --> 00:08:44,357 He sleeps in our bed sometimes. 186 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:46,943 -So it's been going pretty well. -[Dr. Davé] Great. 187 00:08:47,026 --> 00:08:50,988 [Bliss] It was… it was really hard to send my little fur babies away. 188 00:08:51,072 --> 00:08:52,949 I mean, they're my life, you know. 189 00:08:53,032 --> 00:08:57,161 Like, I love them truly like human children. 190 00:08:57,245 --> 00:09:00,164 And Zack was like, "I have this little surprise for you. 191 00:09:00,248 --> 00:09:01,999 I want to read you a short story." 192 00:09:02,083 --> 00:09:05,545 He created a short story about Asher and Blythe, how they're telepathic, 193 00:09:05,628 --> 00:09:09,090 and they were talking to each other, and kind of seeing the future. 194 00:09:09,173 --> 00:09:12,093 And, um, basically, through the story, he shares with me 195 00:09:12,176 --> 00:09:15,596 that we're bringing Asher home. And it was just the sweetest thing. 196 00:09:15,680 --> 00:09:18,432 I was, like, sobbing, and we took him home that day. 197 00:09:18,516 --> 00:09:20,476 You always tell me how you love me, 198 00:09:20,560 --> 00:09:24,689 but you also show it with your actions, and I just adore you. 199 00:09:25,022 --> 00:09:27,358 ♪ I feel my heartbeat, my heartbeat ♪ 200 00:09:27,441 --> 00:09:29,902 ♪ Pounding like a drum in my soul ♪ 201 00:09:30,820 --> 00:09:32,738 ♪ So here I go, here I go ♪ 202 00:09:32,822 --> 00:09:37,827 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 203 00:09:37,910 --> 00:09:39,829 ♪ So here I go, here I go ♪ 204 00:09:39,912 --> 00:09:44,584 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 205 00:09:48,671 --> 00:09:52,008 -Hey, hey, hey! It's the Appiahs! Aah! -[laughs] 206 00:09:52,091 --> 00:09:53,968 We have been married for one year. 207 00:09:54,051 --> 00:09:56,512 Yeah. Living our best lives. We're thriving. 208 00:09:56,596 --> 00:09:59,890 Here with my best friend and my wife, Chelsea. 209 00:10:08,232 --> 00:10:09,233 You all warmed up? 210 00:10:09,317 --> 00:10:11,652 I'm so nervous, but excited! 211 00:10:11,736 --> 00:10:14,447 -It's gonna be great. -We're good. I'm nervous for her. 212 00:10:14,530 --> 00:10:15,406 [all laugh] 213 00:10:15,489 --> 00:10:17,658 [Kwame] My favorite thing about married life so far 214 00:10:17,742 --> 00:10:20,369 is definitely spending our nights together. 215 00:10:20,453 --> 00:10:25,750 We get to eat together, and after that, we occasionally play a game, where we… 216 00:10:25,833 --> 00:10:28,544 When it comes to board games, we're pretty competitive. 217 00:10:28,628 --> 00:10:30,463 Where Kwame beats me every time. 218 00:10:30,546 --> 00:10:32,548 -My wife is about to freak out. -Yeah. 219 00:10:32,632 --> 00:10:35,176 -Great. Oh, there they go. -You can get it. 220 00:10:35,259 --> 00:10:36,260 Let me get it. 221 00:10:36,344 --> 00:10:40,348 I went on this experiment to find the love of my life, to get married, 222 00:10:40,431 --> 00:10:42,391 and I found my person. 223 00:10:42,475 --> 00:10:46,687 But, like, I truly never thought about, like, these bonuses. 224 00:10:46,771 --> 00:10:49,982 -Oh, my gosh. Thank you. -Hey! Good to meet you, bro. For sure. 225 00:10:50,066 --> 00:10:52,443 Like throwing the first pitch of the Mariners game. 226 00:10:52,526 --> 00:10:54,362 [gasps, screams] 227 00:10:54,445 --> 00:10:56,739 -[Bliss] How cute. -Oh, my God! 228 00:10:56,822 --> 00:10:57,948 [Bliss] Our jerseys. 229 00:10:58,032 --> 00:11:00,368 [Kwame] Oh, yeah, those are fire. 230 00:11:00,451 --> 00:11:02,953 [Bliss] They have our last names on them, you guys. 231 00:11:03,037 --> 00:11:07,291 Look at that pinkness they have going on right there, Chelsea. 232 00:11:07,375 --> 00:11:09,585 Ah, it's so perfect. 233 00:11:09,669 --> 00:11:13,839 I'm a big sports fan. Like, I'm a girly girl, but I'm a sports girl. 234 00:11:13,923 --> 00:11:15,800 Like, I know the rules of sports. 235 00:11:15,883 --> 00:11:19,512 Don't sit there and be like, "Ha, ha. She likes pink but she doesn't know 236 00:11:19,595 --> 00:11:21,806 the rules of football or baseball or soccer." 237 00:11:21,889 --> 00:11:23,891 Like, no, that's incorrect. 238 00:11:23,974 --> 00:11:25,810 Like, I know the rules. 239 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:30,439 -[laughs] Excuse me? -You know the rules? 240 00:11:30,523 --> 00:11:32,483 -I know the rules. -She knows the rules. 241 00:11:32,566 --> 00:11:34,735 Let's play ball! 242 00:11:34,819 --> 00:11:36,070 [Bliss] Let's play ball. 243 00:11:36,153 --> 00:11:38,531 I'm so happy that you get to do this, Chels. 244 00:11:38,614 --> 00:11:41,117 [Bliss] We're really super close with the other couples. 245 00:11:41,200 --> 00:11:43,911 Chelsea and Kwame live only seven minutes away from us. 246 00:11:43,994 --> 00:11:45,663 We see them at least once a week. 247 00:11:45,746 --> 00:11:48,541 Chelsea and I talk on the phone every single day. 248 00:11:48,624 --> 00:11:51,502 We're so close to the point where when we travel together, 249 00:11:51,585 --> 00:11:56,382 we will share a room and have two queen beds in one hotel room. 250 00:11:56,465 --> 00:11:59,593 And there's actually a really cute picture of Zack and Kwame 251 00:11:59,677 --> 00:12:03,013 sleeping on the opposite beds, and their arms are both hanging out, 252 00:12:03,097 --> 00:12:06,308 like, in between the middle like this far apart. 253 00:12:06,392 --> 00:12:08,769 It's pretty funny. So, we're so happy 254 00:12:08,853 --> 00:12:11,230 to be here with Chelsea and Kwame together, 255 00:12:11,313 --> 00:12:13,691 and to see Chelsea throw her pitch. 256 00:12:14,442 --> 00:12:15,860 It's a big moment. 257 00:12:15,943 --> 00:12:18,863 I know you've been thinking about it, getting ready for it. 258 00:12:18,946 --> 00:12:21,115 I'm excited for you. I'm excited for us. 259 00:12:21,198 --> 00:12:23,367 -Don't make me cry. -You're about to go out there. 260 00:12:23,451 --> 00:12:25,244 You're about to crush it. 261 00:12:25,327 --> 00:12:29,415 You're gonna throw the best first pitch this stadium has ever seen. All right? 262 00:12:30,875 --> 00:12:31,792 I love you. 263 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:33,919 I love you too. 264 00:12:34,503 --> 00:12:35,838 -I'm excited. -Let's do it. 265 00:12:35,921 --> 00:12:37,882 -You got this. Let's do it. -I'm crying. 266 00:12:37,965 --> 00:12:39,717 -[mimics music] -Got this. 267 00:12:39,884 --> 00:12:42,887 ["Perks" playing] 268 00:12:49,143 --> 00:12:52,438 Welcome to Mariners baseball at T-Mobile Park. 269 00:12:52,521 --> 00:12:56,567 [Chelsea] Oh, my God, I'm so nervous. This is crazy! 270 00:12:56,650 --> 00:12:58,110 ♪ I want the perks ♪ 271 00:12:58,194 --> 00:13:00,779 ♪ You gotta, gotta, gotta make it work ♪ 272 00:13:00,863 --> 00:13:02,948 ♪ That's right I know You know I know my worth ♪ 273 00:13:03,032 --> 00:13:04,950 [Tom] Ladies and gentlemen, let's hear it 274 00:13:05,034 --> 00:13:08,454 for the Seattle-based cast of Love is Blind Season 4. 275 00:13:08,537 --> 00:13:11,040 -Oh, snap! -Oh, look! 276 00:13:11,123 --> 00:13:13,209 -[screams] -Is that y'all? 277 00:13:13,292 --> 00:13:15,753 [Tom] Now to throw that pitch for us this afternoon, 278 00:13:15,836 --> 00:13:20,466 please welcome Chelsea Appiah, with the pitch caught by Jarred Kelenic. 279 00:13:21,509 --> 00:13:23,427 [horn blows] 280 00:13:23,511 --> 00:13:25,513 [pre-game music playing] 281 00:13:27,264 --> 00:13:28,265 All right, Chelsea. 282 00:13:31,852 --> 00:13:33,145 You wanna come center? 283 00:13:33,229 --> 00:13:34,355 You got this, girl. 284 00:13:38,234 --> 00:13:39,527 [horn blows] 285 00:13:44,323 --> 00:13:45,533 [crowd cheering] 286 00:13:45,616 --> 00:13:47,117 Nice pitch. 287 00:13:49,620 --> 00:13:51,664 -[Bliss] You did it! -Was it good? 288 00:13:51,747 --> 00:13:52,998 -Love you! -You did it! 289 00:13:54,250 --> 00:13:55,084 Great job. 290 00:13:55,167 --> 00:13:57,545 -I tried. I did my best. -Nice to meet you. I'm Jarred. 291 00:13:57,628 --> 00:13:58,712 Hi. Nice to meet you. 292 00:13:58,796 --> 00:14:00,172 -Jarred. -I'm Zack. 293 00:14:00,256 --> 00:14:02,925 You're supposed to ask for an autograph or something. 294 00:14:03,008 --> 00:14:04,009 What's going on? 295 00:14:04,093 --> 00:14:05,886 -How was it, guys? -It was perfect. 296 00:14:05,970 --> 00:14:07,805 It was great. It didn't get past me. 297 00:14:07,888 --> 00:14:09,807 [all laugh] 298 00:14:09,890 --> 00:14:13,936 Thank you to Chelsea, Kwame, Zack and Bliss for being here this afternoon. 299 00:14:14,019 --> 00:14:15,187 Congratulations! 300 00:14:15,271 --> 00:14:16,522 It went straight. 301 00:14:16,605 --> 00:14:17,565 Good job. 302 00:14:17,648 --> 00:14:20,901 He caught it with the mitt, didn't have to chase. It went perfect. 303 00:14:20,985 --> 00:14:21,986 My little All-Star. 304 00:14:22,069 --> 00:14:23,320 Your little All-Star! 305 00:14:23,404 --> 00:14:25,322 She is our little star. 306 00:14:27,408 --> 00:14:29,410 ♪ Are you ready for a good time? ♪ 307 00:14:29,493 --> 00:14:32,621 ♪ 'Cause we're gonna have a good time Aah ♪ 308 00:14:32,705 --> 00:14:34,123 ♪ We're living it up ♪ 309 00:14:35,416 --> 00:14:36,917 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ 310 00:14:37,001 --> 00:14:38,961 ♪ We're living it up, living it up ♪ 311 00:14:39,712 --> 00:14:41,130 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ 312 00:14:41,213 --> 00:14:45,426 ♪ We're feeling the high There's no bringing this down ♪ 313 00:14:45,509 --> 00:14:47,428 ♪ We're living it up, living it up ♪ 314 00:14:48,220 --> 00:14:50,556 -♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ -♪ We're living it up ♪ 315 00:14:52,433 --> 00:14:54,602 -♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ -♪ We're living it up ♪ 316 00:14:56,562 --> 00:14:57,646 [Micah] Oh, my God! 317 00:14:57,730 --> 00:15:01,901 Hello! Hello! Look at you! 318 00:15:02,568 --> 00:15:04,570 Oh, my God! Micah! 319 00:15:04,653 --> 00:15:07,948 Oh my God. I'm so happy to see you. You look so beautiful! 320 00:15:08,032 --> 00:15:10,743 -We still have the same hair! -[laughs] 321 00:15:10,826 --> 00:15:15,706 Oh, my God. Oh, it feels so good. 322 00:15:15,789 --> 00:15:17,917 [Micah] Me and Liz literally talk like every day. 323 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:19,251 She's heavy-handed on the text. 324 00:15:19,335 --> 00:15:22,129 I hear from her often, and honestly, it's welcome. 325 00:15:22,212 --> 00:15:24,798 The last thing I want is for Paul to feel uncomfortable, 326 00:15:24,882 --> 00:15:26,508 but having a friendship with Liz 327 00:15:26,592 --> 00:15:29,428 makes me feel validated in the love that Paul and I had. 328 00:15:29,511 --> 00:15:32,890 So being able to keep that friendship has meant a lot. 329 00:15:32,973 --> 00:15:36,685 It is so nice to be here. I want to move here. I want to live here. 330 00:15:36,769 --> 00:15:39,104 I would love you to be here. I officially moved back too. 331 00:15:39,188 --> 00:15:40,314 How are you liking it? 332 00:15:40,397 --> 00:15:43,192 It's good. I miss being in Seattle, being by my family and friends. 333 00:15:43,275 --> 00:15:46,195 -So it's good. -I can't help myself. 334 00:15:46,278 --> 00:15:50,866 -You are so beautiful. Oh, my God. -That's because I'm your twin. 335 00:15:50,950 --> 00:15:54,036 -You're so beautiful. -I wish. I wish. I wish. 336 00:15:54,119 --> 00:15:58,457 Micah, I turned 60 years old, and I'm like, "No." 337 00:15:58,540 --> 00:16:01,335 -You do not look 60 years old. -'Cause I'm still 29. 338 00:16:01,418 --> 00:16:03,712 No. Don't tell anyone. No one will ever know. 339 00:16:03,796 --> 00:16:05,714 Right. We'll keep that on the DL. 340 00:16:05,798 --> 00:16:07,299 You know I love seeing you. 341 00:16:07,383 --> 00:16:09,802 I feel I was kind of worried about how our relationship 342 00:16:09,885 --> 00:16:11,220 would be after everything. 343 00:16:11,303 --> 00:16:14,473 I don't want to overstep or make Paul uncomfortable. 344 00:16:14,556 --> 00:16:17,476 -No. -It's something I'm kind of nervous about. 345 00:16:17,559 --> 00:16:23,273 Well, you know, I've said forever and a day, boys are stupid. 346 00:16:23,357 --> 00:16:28,070 So whatever he thinks, you're my friend and I love you 347 00:16:28,153 --> 00:16:30,030 and we're always gonna have that. 348 00:16:30,114 --> 00:16:31,490 Aw. That's so sweet. 349 00:16:31,573 --> 00:16:35,536 You know, whatever issue Paul may or may not have, that's on him. 350 00:16:35,619 --> 00:16:38,080 -[laughs] -I mean, don't you agree? Do you agree? 351 00:16:38,163 --> 00:16:39,248 Yeah, for sure. 352 00:16:39,331 --> 00:16:43,419 I… I'm so happy to have you. I feel like meeting you was such a blessing. 353 00:16:43,502 --> 00:16:46,046 I don't want to cause any issues between you two. 354 00:16:46,130 --> 00:16:48,257 -It won't. -And that was my only concern. 355 00:16:48,340 --> 00:16:49,967 -I love seeing you… -I know. 356 00:16:50,050 --> 00:16:52,469 …and spending time with you. It's always so fun. 357 00:16:52,553 --> 00:16:55,431 I cannot help myself. I'm just so excited to see you. 358 00:16:55,514 --> 00:16:57,474 I am too. I've missed you so much. 359 00:16:57,558 --> 00:17:00,019 So, how are you and Paul? Like, seriously? 360 00:17:00,102 --> 00:17:03,105 I can't ask him like I can ask you 'cause we're girls, right? 361 00:17:03,188 --> 00:17:04,148 I know. 362 00:17:04,231 --> 00:17:06,650 -Um… -But, seriously, there's been some time. 363 00:17:06,734 --> 00:17:08,152 -Thank you. -You're welcome. 364 00:17:08,235 --> 00:17:11,280 It's hard. I think we were in a place before that's like, 365 00:17:11,363 --> 00:17:13,949 you know, if you don't see me, like, being a mother, 366 00:17:14,033 --> 00:17:16,243 or don't see us getting married in ten years, 367 00:17:16,326 --> 00:17:18,078 what's the point of trying? 368 00:17:18,162 --> 00:17:22,750 At least in terms of envisioning Micah as like, you know, a mother, 369 00:17:22,833 --> 00:17:26,712 I think for me it was, like, difficult for me to do. 370 00:17:26,795 --> 00:17:31,175 Just, like, a nurturing aspect, I think, that some people have. 371 00:17:31,258 --> 00:17:33,302 I don't know. But whenever I tried, 372 00:17:33,385 --> 00:17:38,098 I just know that I wasn't able to see it very clearly. 373 00:17:38,182 --> 00:17:42,061 I'm not angry that he felt that way. It's… You know, I… 374 00:17:42,144 --> 00:17:44,021 Do I think he's right? No. 375 00:17:44,104 --> 00:17:46,607 I'm not angry that he felt like that or that he said that, 376 00:17:46,690 --> 00:17:48,901 I was just upset that he never said it to me. 377 00:17:48,984 --> 00:17:51,445 So right now I think we're both kind of healing… 378 00:17:51,528 --> 00:17:52,946 -And processing. -Mmm-hm. 379 00:17:53,030 --> 00:17:54,948 It's hard when you're angry with someone, 380 00:17:55,032 --> 00:17:57,451 but they're also the only person you want to talk to. 381 00:17:57,534 --> 00:18:00,746 -Gosh. Like in a trick bag. -That's kind of where we're both at. 382 00:18:00,829 --> 00:18:04,124 Also, the relationship we had was really great and really real, 383 00:18:04,208 --> 00:18:06,460 and with that comes a lot of pain, of course. 384 00:18:06,543 --> 00:18:09,421 Now I think it's being there for each other the best we can. 385 00:18:09,505 --> 00:18:10,380 Yeah. 386 00:18:10,464 --> 00:18:13,842 And I tell you this with such an open heart. 387 00:18:13,926 --> 00:18:17,554 From what I understand, Paul is talking to someone. 388 00:18:19,473 --> 00:18:22,142 Kind of tugs at my heart really hard. 389 00:18:23,393 --> 00:18:24,978 -It's hard to hear. -Yeah. 390 00:18:25,062 --> 00:18:27,106 Especially when I haven't moved on yet. 391 00:18:27,189 --> 00:18:29,983 I kind of feel that in my divorce from Paul's dad. 392 00:18:30,067 --> 00:18:34,029 -It's… it's hard, but, um, um… -Yeah. 393 00:18:34,571 --> 00:18:36,198 I don't know her name. 394 00:18:36,281 --> 00:18:40,619 I don't really understand the lingo of, like, "We're talking." 395 00:18:40,702 --> 00:18:44,123 But the smile that I saw through Paul 396 00:18:44,206 --> 00:18:49,753 when he was with you, that's just been unmatched. 397 00:18:50,379 --> 00:18:51,672 I'll break her kneecaps. 398 00:18:52,548 --> 00:18:54,007 -[laughs] -Just so you know. 399 00:18:54,091 --> 00:18:56,426 [both snicker] 400 00:18:56,510 --> 00:18:59,471 You know, Micah, last night he and I were talking, 401 00:18:59,555 --> 00:19:03,559 and he was, I don't know, almost defiant. 402 00:19:03,642 --> 00:19:10,232 He was like, "I love Micah. I loved her, I still love her." 403 00:19:10,315 --> 00:19:14,987 The timing. The two of you needed more before he could say, "I do." 404 00:19:15,070 --> 00:19:17,948 I think there's still, like, lingering feelings both ways. 405 00:19:18,031 --> 00:19:20,576 There's no telling what the future looks like. 406 00:19:20,659 --> 00:19:22,703 -Right, right. -But… 407 00:19:22,786 --> 00:19:24,913 -We've been chatting a little bit. -Good. 408 00:19:24,997 --> 00:19:28,584 Yeah. I think it's been a bit hard to be open about where we're at. 409 00:19:28,667 --> 00:19:32,212 I think we both have a hard shell, we don't wanna be the one to say… 410 00:19:32,296 --> 00:19:36,383 -"Hey…" -"Hey, there's something still here." 411 00:19:36,466 --> 00:19:38,927 I think we both are a little bit reserved on that. 412 00:19:39,011 --> 00:19:43,724 He definitely takes after his dad in the communication level, so… 413 00:19:43,807 --> 00:19:45,976 That was something we definitely struggled with. 414 00:19:46,059 --> 00:19:48,937 You know, you might have to pull it out of him. 415 00:19:49,021 --> 00:19:51,231 ♪ Like a vinyl record babe ♪ 416 00:19:51,940 --> 00:19:53,650 ♪ Got me spinning every day ♪ 417 00:19:53,734 --> 00:19:55,819 ♪ Never known rhythm like this ♪ 418 00:19:55,903 --> 00:19:58,572 ♪ You're the square root of 3,000 ♪ 419 00:19:58,655 --> 00:20:01,533 ♪ Girl, I know you got my heart flying ♪ 420 00:20:01,617 --> 00:20:05,120 ♪ Spinning like One and two and three… ♪ 421 00:20:06,955 --> 00:20:08,498 ♪ Mmm ♪ 422 00:20:08,582 --> 00:20:11,793 Oh, this is so romantic! I love this. I love you. 423 00:20:11,877 --> 00:20:13,420 This is what I do. 424 00:20:13,503 --> 00:20:17,883 I love the cheeses. A little champagne. Can you open the champagne? 425 00:20:17,966 --> 00:20:20,260 I'm a little lactose intolerant, but… 426 00:20:20,886 --> 00:20:21,720 I know. 427 00:20:21,803 --> 00:20:23,722 [Jackie] It's been a hard year. Y'all know 428 00:20:23,805 --> 00:20:25,682 I was getting reamed on the Internet. 429 00:20:25,766 --> 00:20:29,061 Look, I know… I know I'm not, you know, the perfect person, 430 00:20:29,144 --> 00:20:31,396 but I didn't expect to come in here 431 00:20:31,480 --> 00:20:34,691 and fall in love with somebody completely different than who I chose. 432 00:20:34,775 --> 00:20:35,776 Calm down. 433 00:20:35,859 --> 00:20:39,446 My man is fine. I don't care what y'all say about his cauliflower-broccoli ears. 434 00:20:39,529 --> 00:20:41,657 That's fine. I be licking them every night. 435 00:20:41,740 --> 00:20:45,953 -I'm gonna try not to hit you in the face. -Don't hit me. Walk out all busted up. 436 00:20:46,036 --> 00:20:47,996 Do you know how to pop these bottles? 437 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,707 -I'm gonna just… Oh, my God, look at this. -Hey. 438 00:20:51,708 --> 00:20:54,002 -What, baby? -This could all be yours one day. 439 00:20:54,086 --> 00:20:56,713 [Josh] You keep acting right, this could be yours. 440 00:20:56,797 --> 00:20:59,007 -Are you gonna get it all for me? -[laughs] 441 00:21:01,551 --> 00:21:03,011 -[bottle pops] -There you go. 442 00:21:03,637 --> 00:21:05,514 First for you. Just kidding. 443 00:21:05,597 --> 00:21:07,891 [both laugh] 444 00:21:07,975 --> 00:21:09,643 You didn't know I was a romantic brother. 445 00:21:09,726 --> 00:21:11,853 -You're so romantic. -You didn't even know. 446 00:21:11,937 --> 00:21:15,023 -I think about you first and me last. -Yeah, you do. 447 00:21:18,819 --> 00:21:20,362 How come you got more than me? 448 00:21:21,071 --> 00:21:23,282 -'Cause I'm big daddy. -[laughs] 449 00:21:23,365 --> 00:21:26,410 -Cheers to us. I love you. Thank you. -To us. I love you too. 450 00:21:26,493 --> 00:21:29,454 Thank you. I can't believe it's been a year. It's been a long year. 451 00:21:29,538 --> 00:21:30,497 Yeah! 452 00:21:30,580 --> 00:21:32,708 Feel like I've been together with you for 50 years. 453 00:21:32,791 --> 00:21:34,793 Oh, my gosh. [laughs] 454 00:21:36,128 --> 00:21:38,714 You excited to get our keys on Saturday for our new place? 455 00:21:38,797 --> 00:21:42,634 Yeah, I'm excited for us to, like, move into, like, our first apartment. 456 00:21:42,718 --> 00:21:45,262 Because a lot of people said, "They're not gonna work out." 457 00:21:45,345 --> 00:21:46,722 They were praying on our downfall. 458 00:21:46,805 --> 00:21:50,851 -Yeah. They said, "They'll never do it." -Yeah. 459 00:21:50,934 --> 00:21:53,478 "They'll never make it." "They'll never boss up." 460 00:21:53,562 --> 00:21:56,982 Can you feed me some food? Let's be super romantic and feed… 461 00:21:57,065 --> 00:21:58,525 -Ah. -Oh. 462 00:22:00,277 --> 00:22:02,154 -Hard. -[laughs] 463 00:22:02,237 --> 00:22:05,157 I thought you were gonna catch it. You know how romantic I can be. 464 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,242 You threw it at me. 465 00:22:07,326 --> 00:22:10,579 Sometimes life is gonna throw things at you and you're not going to expect it, 466 00:22:10,662 --> 00:22:12,372 and that's why I did that to you. 467 00:22:13,498 --> 00:22:15,000 [laughs] I'm just kidding. 468 00:22:15,083 --> 00:22:17,085 ["Bring Your Friends" playing] 469 00:22:17,753 --> 00:22:18,754 Wow. 470 00:22:20,130 --> 00:22:21,298 ♪ Turn the bass up ♪ 471 00:22:22,090 --> 00:22:23,592 ♪ Girl, pick your face up ♪ 472 00:22:24,384 --> 00:22:27,512 ♪ I wanna see you move ♪ 473 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:36,104 This is the knife you were telling me about, huh? 474 00:22:36,188 --> 00:22:38,607 -[Paul] Yeah, it's so sharp, huh? -Yeah. 475 00:22:38,690 --> 00:22:43,403 Now you wanna brown it on both sides, and then remove it to a plate and hide it 476 00:22:43,487 --> 00:22:45,947 in the microwave to keep everybody from eating it. 477 00:22:46,031 --> 00:22:47,324 [chuckles] Nice. 478 00:22:47,407 --> 00:22:51,661 And did you know when you stir your gumbo, you always stir counterclockwise, 479 00:22:51,745 --> 00:22:57,000 and the reason is it sends prayers to prevent an active hurricane season. 480 00:22:57,084 --> 00:23:00,545 -I've never heard that. That's funny. -That's what your big daddy used to say. 481 00:23:00,629 --> 00:23:02,547 [Paul] Cool. So, yeah, um… 482 00:23:02,631 --> 00:23:05,467 Is it weird if I talk about the new girl that I'm dating? 483 00:23:05,550 --> 00:23:07,427 Feel like you have a lot in common with her? 484 00:23:07,511 --> 00:23:09,471 Big on traveling, loves food. 485 00:23:09,554 --> 00:23:12,974 She's super supportive of, like, all of my hobbies which, I don't know, 486 00:23:13,058 --> 00:23:15,227 -I feel like opposed to Micah, you know? -Really? 487 00:23:15,310 --> 00:23:18,897 Like, I don't know. I feel like she… 488 00:23:18,980 --> 00:23:20,941 I feel like Micah tolerated my cooking. 489 00:23:21,024 --> 00:23:23,193 -[Elizabeth] Yeah. -This girl just loves it. 490 00:23:23,276 --> 00:23:26,071 -[Elizabeth] She pretty? -Yeah, very pretty. 491 00:23:26,154 --> 00:23:29,282 Yeah. Just, like, you and Micah was such a cute couple. 492 00:23:29,366 --> 00:23:30,325 [Paul] Yeah. 493 00:23:30,408 --> 00:23:33,578 That is tough, knowing that you still have love for somebody 494 00:23:33,662 --> 00:23:38,166 and still wanting to move forward with your life in a… 495 00:23:38,250 --> 00:23:40,627 In a direction, I guess, that's different. 496 00:23:40,710 --> 00:23:42,879 You both are friends and have been talking? 497 00:23:42,963 --> 00:23:45,257 Yeah, absolutely. I was talking to her today. 498 00:23:45,340 --> 00:23:47,134 Actually, that smells really good. 499 00:23:47,217 --> 00:23:48,802 -Does it? -Do you smell that? 500 00:23:50,470 --> 00:23:54,891 Mmm. Leave it on low. You know, so the onions and everything gets tender. 501 00:23:54,975 --> 00:23:58,436 -Wanna take a seat while this simmers? -Yeah, let's go sit down. 502 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,565 It sounds generic, but I feel like the biggest change I've seen in myself 503 00:24:01,648 --> 00:24:04,359 might just be an emotional awareness. 504 00:24:04,442 --> 00:24:07,904 The experiment made me reflect on myself, you know, 505 00:24:07,988 --> 00:24:10,323 and before, it was never a priority. 506 00:24:10,407 --> 00:24:13,201 I think it's healthier to listen to how you're feeling. 507 00:24:13,285 --> 00:24:16,830 Yeah, so it… it was tough, though, like, dating Micah. 508 00:24:16,913 --> 00:24:20,167 Like, after the wedding, she had to go back to Arizona, 509 00:24:20,250 --> 00:24:23,628 and that was the first time that we had been apart since the pods. 510 00:24:23,712 --> 00:24:25,380 -Gosh. -And, uh… 511 00:24:25,463 --> 00:24:29,009 It was a weird shock. We were like, "Oh, this is gonna be hard." 512 00:24:29,092 --> 00:24:31,511 You felt like a married couple, I would guess. 513 00:24:31,595 --> 00:24:32,971 Yeah, in a sense. 514 00:24:33,054 --> 00:24:36,099 But I went and visited her, I think, like, a long weekend. 515 00:24:36,183 --> 00:24:38,476 Went out and hung out. We had a great time. 516 00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:42,856 But pretty soon after that, Micah was just like, "I want to stop dating." 517 00:24:43,648 --> 00:24:46,610 And I think, for me, it… I wasn't quite ready 518 00:24:46,693 --> 00:24:48,904 at that point to give up on the relationship. 519 00:24:48,987 --> 00:24:51,740 Because I do believe that if you're in love with someone 520 00:24:51,823 --> 00:24:55,869 and it's like, that's your person, you should prioritize that above anything. 521 00:24:55,952 --> 00:24:59,331 Anyway, she wanted to call it quits and she was like, 522 00:24:59,414 --> 00:25:02,250 "Maybe we can date if we're in the same place again at some point." 523 00:25:02,334 --> 00:25:06,129 I'm just, like, thinking, "No, that's not how dating works." You know? 524 00:25:06,213 --> 00:25:08,381 You don't date only when it's convenient. 525 00:25:08,465 --> 00:25:10,926 Right. And then she moves back to Seattle. 526 00:25:11,009 --> 00:25:14,804 -Yeah, of course. Now she wants to date. -Timing is everything. Everything. 527 00:25:14,888 --> 00:25:17,224 -Oh, timing is everything. -Yeah. 528 00:25:17,307 --> 00:25:18,725 Micah's a beautiful girl. 529 00:25:18,808 --> 00:25:23,063 I'm sure she has her crème de la crème selection of men to date. 530 00:25:23,146 --> 00:25:25,565 -Mmm. -She couldn't be any more lovely. 531 00:25:26,233 --> 00:25:29,444 It was funny. That moment that you told me on the wedding day. 532 00:25:29,527 --> 00:25:32,489 You were just like, "Anything other than a 'yes' is a 'no.'" 533 00:25:32,572 --> 00:25:36,826 Um, and I think that maybe I had taken that, uh, 534 00:25:36,910 --> 00:25:38,912 Micah's "You first," as not a "yes." 535 00:25:38,995 --> 00:25:40,455 Yeah! 536 00:25:40,538 --> 00:25:43,458 -So if Micah had said yes first… -Thinking to yourself-- 537 00:25:43,541 --> 00:25:45,502 …you don't think it would have changed your mind? 538 00:25:45,585 --> 00:25:49,506 Because going down the aisle, you were like shaking and trembling to your core, 539 00:25:49,589 --> 00:25:52,050 and you said, "Mom, I don't know what I'm saying." 540 00:25:52,133 --> 00:25:54,886 And moments before you were on the altar with her, 541 00:25:54,970 --> 00:25:56,471 -you were unsure. -Mmm-hm. 542 00:25:56,554 --> 00:25:59,015 Yeah. Like, looking back though, 543 00:25:59,099 --> 00:26:02,269 I don't know what that feels like to have somebody choosing you, 544 00:26:02,352 --> 00:26:05,397 affirming you, and saying yes, like, on the altar. 545 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:10,026 So, I can't really speak to how I would have reacted if that had happened. 546 00:26:10,110 --> 00:26:11,611 Who knows? 547 00:26:11,695 --> 00:26:14,781 Just that "What if?", you know, kind of comes to mind. 548 00:26:14,864 --> 00:26:16,866 What if? You might have said yes. 549 00:26:18,368 --> 00:26:19,661 Yeah. 550 00:26:19,744 --> 00:26:23,206 I think, probably, if you showed up at her door, on bended knee, 551 00:26:23,290 --> 00:26:26,751 with flowers and chocolates, and begged and just said, 552 00:26:26,835 --> 00:26:29,254 "I'll spend the rest of my life trying to get back with you." 553 00:26:29,337 --> 00:26:31,298 "Would you?" She probably would. 554 00:26:31,381 --> 00:26:33,383 This is my opinion. She didn't tell me that. 555 00:26:33,466 --> 00:26:37,220 I think that she would want to date me if I agreed to that. 556 00:26:38,179 --> 00:26:39,014 Yeah. 557 00:26:39,097 --> 00:26:41,349 If you did decide to, since she broke up with you, 558 00:26:41,433 --> 00:26:45,729 I will tell you this as some advice. Begging goes a long way. 559 00:26:50,900 --> 00:26:54,195 ♪ You make my heart go Boom, boom, boom ♪ 560 00:26:54,279 --> 00:26:57,907 ♪ I'm getting tunnel vision You're making me move ♪ 561 00:26:57,991 --> 00:27:03,204 Oh, my God. This is giving! It is insane. 562 00:27:04,372 --> 00:27:08,084 And in every different lighting it's a… Now I don't see the purple anymore. 563 00:27:08,168 --> 00:27:11,671 I still see the purple over here. I see purple and green on this side-- 564 00:27:11,755 --> 00:27:13,715 You know what? It's a magic dress. 565 00:27:13,798 --> 00:27:16,801 Yeah, it really is. It's a… it's a really dope-ass dress. 566 00:27:16,885 --> 00:27:21,306 It's a magic dress. Okay, I'm excited for you to get in yours. 567 00:27:22,098 --> 00:27:24,934 [in sing-song voice] Let's go, let's go, let's go, let's go. 568 00:27:25,018 --> 00:27:27,645 One-year anniversary. 569 00:27:29,022 --> 00:27:32,859 ♪ Let me throw the suit pants on Yeah, yeah ♪ 570 00:27:33,693 --> 00:27:36,696 [Kwame] We're looking forward to celebrating with the other couples. 571 00:27:36,780 --> 00:27:40,909 I guess we haven't really got to celebrate an occasion with all three couples. 572 00:27:40,992 --> 00:27:42,994 We might never have been able to do that. 573 00:27:43,078 --> 00:27:44,204 No, we never have. 574 00:27:44,287 --> 00:27:45,914 -This is gonna be the first time. -Yeah. 575 00:27:45,997 --> 00:27:47,832 We were at each other's weddings. 576 00:27:47,916 --> 00:27:51,795 Zack and Bliss and Kwame and I celebrated our six-month anniversaries. 577 00:27:51,878 --> 00:27:54,464 We got cakes and everything. It was so adorable. 578 00:27:54,547 --> 00:27:55,465 Yeah. 579 00:27:55,548 --> 00:27:58,968 Tiff and Brett being in Portland, they weren't able to make it there. 580 00:27:59,052 --> 00:28:01,388 [Kwame] What do you think? This is how my pants look. 581 00:28:01,471 --> 00:28:02,680 Please take those socks off. 582 00:28:03,473 --> 00:28:06,810 I'll take the socks off. I… I… They will come off, okay? 583 00:28:06,893 --> 00:28:08,853 -Please. -The socks are not going with my outfit. 584 00:28:08,937 --> 00:28:12,315 -Please take them off. [laughs] -I will take them off, okay? 585 00:28:13,191 --> 00:28:15,568 No, that's kind of weird. Take off your shirt. 586 00:28:15,652 --> 00:28:19,864 Yeah. Like, I mean, I can take off my own shirt. I've been doing it for 33 years. 587 00:28:19,948 --> 00:28:23,326 I don't need to take your shirt off. I'd like you to take your shirt off. 588 00:28:23,410 --> 00:28:27,330 And I like to take it off you sometimes. Most times. Every day. 589 00:28:28,289 --> 00:28:31,209 Kwame's sway, Kwame's suave. 590 00:28:31,292 --> 00:28:34,212 [laughing] 591 00:28:34,295 --> 00:28:35,630 What? 592 00:28:35,713 --> 00:28:37,340 It's true. It's actually true. 593 00:28:37,424 --> 00:28:38,883 I do got swag though. I do. 594 00:28:38,967 --> 00:28:43,263 Oh, my God, Kwame Appiah for fucking president right now. 595 00:28:43,346 --> 00:28:45,682 -[chuckles] -Wow. 596 00:28:45,765 --> 00:28:47,350 I'm here to address the people. 597 00:28:47,434 --> 00:28:50,395 -[Chelsea] Address me, babe. Oh, my God. -[Kwame] Yeah? 598 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:54,357 -I can address you? -You look so good. 599 00:28:57,986 --> 00:29:02,532 -♪ I know you've been waiting ♪ -♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 600 00:29:02,615 --> 00:29:07,370 -♪ On the edge of your seat ♪ -♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 601 00:29:07,454 --> 00:29:11,916 -♪ Yeah, this is where I'll break it ♪ -♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 602 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,919 -♪ Starting one, two, three ♪ -♪ One, two, three ♪ 603 00:29:15,003 --> 00:29:19,632 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ ♪ Get ready, get ready ♪ 604 00:29:19,716 --> 00:29:23,970 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ ♪ Get ready, get ready ♪ 605 00:29:24,053 --> 00:29:26,848 Hi! Isn't this gorgeous? 606 00:29:26,931 --> 00:29:29,976 -You look like a Barbie. -This is so gorgeous. I love you. 607 00:29:30,059 --> 00:29:31,603 -I love you too. -How are you? 608 00:29:31,686 --> 00:29:34,898 -Oh, look at them. Look at them. -[Bliss] Hi! The Browns. 609 00:29:34,981 --> 00:29:36,941 -What it do? -What's up, y'all? 610 00:29:37,025 --> 00:29:39,152 -Isn't this beautiful? -Gorgeous. 611 00:29:39,235 --> 00:29:40,987 -What up, man? -Zack. 612 00:29:41,070 --> 00:29:43,364 -Good to see you. -All this, with the full… 613 00:29:43,448 --> 00:29:46,868 I'm so excited to celebrate our one-year anniversary 614 00:29:46,951 --> 00:29:48,161 with the other couples. 615 00:29:48,244 --> 00:29:53,166 Like, those are our friends and, like, we lean on each other for support. 616 00:29:53,249 --> 00:29:56,419 I think, amongst the girls, we still, like, check ourselves. 617 00:29:56,503 --> 00:30:00,757 We're like, "Wait, did… did this really happen?" 618 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:05,386 Like, we've truly just found our person. I found my person. I found my baby. 619 00:30:05,470 --> 00:30:07,639 -So did I. [chuckles] -Yeah. 620 00:30:07,722 --> 00:30:09,933 Who's gonna dig into the bread first? 621 00:30:10,016 --> 00:30:13,561 I ain't gonna wait 'cause I haven't eaten since, like, noon. 622 00:30:13,645 --> 00:30:14,729 [laughs] 623 00:30:14,813 --> 00:30:16,564 -[Kwame] The butter is good. -Yeah. 624 00:30:16,648 --> 00:30:18,149 -I love butter. -It's amazing. 625 00:30:18,233 --> 00:30:20,985 They gonna have to give me a to-go plate of this butter. 626 00:30:21,069 --> 00:30:23,738 Seriously. By the the fork… Spoonful. 627 00:30:23,822 --> 00:30:28,201 So, how does it feel to officially be married for one year? 628 00:30:28,284 --> 00:30:30,787 Do you feel like it's kind of gone pretty fast? 629 00:30:30,870 --> 00:30:33,456 I feel like it's been the longest shortest year ever 630 00:30:33,540 --> 00:30:36,501 because there's so much that has happened, we've done so much. 631 00:30:36,584 --> 00:30:39,587 -Mmm-hm. -[Bliss] But it also feels like yesterday. 632 00:30:39,671 --> 00:30:41,464 I feel like I've known him my whole life. 633 00:30:41,548 --> 00:30:44,342 I was thinking, when I was walking into our building the other day, 634 00:30:44,425 --> 00:30:45,969 that he's my best friend. 635 00:30:46,052 --> 00:30:50,098 And I am not so cheesy ever in my life until I've been with him. 636 00:30:50,181 --> 00:30:52,058 I love that for you. 637 00:30:52,141 --> 00:30:54,978 -I feel like it's gone by pretty fast too. -Yeah. 638 00:30:55,061 --> 00:30:59,941 Like, it feels… it feels good now. I think it's just the adjustment period. 639 00:31:00,024 --> 00:31:02,151 Just trying to get used to Portland. 640 00:31:02,235 --> 00:31:03,987 I loved taking my walks in the morning. 641 00:31:04,070 --> 00:31:06,906 I used to go like right by Olympic Sculpture Park. 642 00:31:06,990 --> 00:31:08,491 -So beautiful. -[Tiffany] Yeah. 643 00:31:08,575 --> 00:31:09,409 [Bliss] Yeah. 644 00:31:09,492 --> 00:31:13,037 I miss those morning walks, but I found my new path. 645 00:31:13,121 --> 00:31:15,456 I don't think it's as beautiful as the water. 646 00:31:15,540 --> 00:31:19,210 -[Bliss] It's hard to beat the Sculp. -Yeah, it really is. But… 647 00:31:19,294 --> 00:31:22,297 Yeah, I think I've been settling into my routine, 648 00:31:22,380 --> 00:31:25,258 and I think he's been making it, like, pretty easy for me. 649 00:31:25,341 --> 00:31:27,677 -So it's going good. -I try. 650 00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,721 [Tiffany] Yeah. It's going good. 651 00:31:29,804 --> 00:31:30,930 [Kwame] Yeah. 652 00:31:31,014 --> 00:31:33,433 I think the… the person for you 653 00:31:33,516 --> 00:31:36,811 is the person that you can be your authentic self. 654 00:31:36,895 --> 00:31:40,857 And I'll literally break it down to like, you can be as weird as you want to be. 655 00:31:40,940 --> 00:31:42,692 -Yes. -And they love that about you. 656 00:31:42,775 --> 00:31:44,235 -[Bliss] Yes. -[laughs] 657 00:31:44,319 --> 00:31:46,988 Love isn't fun if it's not a little weird, you know? 658 00:31:47,071 --> 00:31:48,156 [Bliss] Exactly. 659 00:31:48,239 --> 00:31:52,368 It's cool to just be, like, yourself authentically and truly with your partner. 660 00:31:52,452 --> 00:31:54,495 -It's really awesome. -[Tiffany] Yeah. 661 00:31:54,579 --> 00:31:56,831 -How much does he sing at home? -I love you. 662 00:31:56,915 --> 00:31:58,291 Pretty often. Yeah. 663 00:31:58,374 --> 00:32:01,169 Or sing in general or to you? How much does Zack bust out a tune? 664 00:32:01,252 --> 00:32:04,255 I would say like every day there's some sort of singing. 665 00:32:04,339 --> 00:32:07,258 When he's happy or in a good mood, there's more singing. 666 00:32:07,342 --> 00:32:08,635 -Yeah. -[laughs] 667 00:32:08,718 --> 00:32:11,930 There were a couple one to two-hour serenade sessions. Yeah. 668 00:32:12,013 --> 00:32:13,514 One to two hours? 669 00:32:13,598 --> 00:32:14,474 [Zack] Yeah. 670 00:32:14,557 --> 00:32:17,560 [Bliss] I was so sleep-deprived, I was awake but not awake. 671 00:32:17,644 --> 00:32:20,563 He sings to the animals. It's very cute. They love it. 672 00:32:20,647 --> 00:32:23,316 -Blythe loves my singing. Yeah. -Yeah? 673 00:32:23,399 --> 00:32:24,525 Maybe more than I do. 674 00:32:24,609 --> 00:32:26,361 I thought you didn't have Blythe right now. 675 00:32:26,444 --> 00:32:28,196 No. When we go to visit her, he sings. 676 00:32:28,279 --> 00:32:30,698 She runs away from me 'cause she's mad that I left her. 677 00:32:30,782 --> 00:32:31,824 -Mmm. -[Bliss] Yeah. 678 00:32:31,908 --> 00:32:33,952 We're hoping to bring her back pretty soon. 679 00:32:34,035 --> 00:32:35,703 Next month after our honeymoon. 680 00:32:35,787 --> 00:32:37,121 [Zack] Tiff? 681 00:32:38,122 --> 00:32:40,291 -Got you. No. In, on the tooth. -You got a little… 682 00:32:40,375 --> 00:32:41,292 Mmm. Uh… 683 00:32:41,376 --> 00:32:43,044 -I got you. -Nope. 684 00:32:43,127 --> 00:32:44,963 [laughter] 685 00:32:45,046 --> 00:32:47,173 -I got you. -Thank you. 686 00:32:47,256 --> 00:32:49,384 If I would've left it there the whole talk… 687 00:32:49,467 --> 00:32:51,177 That's what friendship looks like. 688 00:32:51,260 --> 00:32:54,514 You looked out for her, and then hubby stepped in to get it. 689 00:32:54,597 --> 00:32:58,518 I think, for me, the best part about married life 690 00:32:58,601 --> 00:33:01,938 is just having somebody that understands me. 691 00:33:02,021 --> 00:33:04,065 I know that he's not going to judge me, 692 00:33:04,148 --> 00:33:07,485 even when I'm like questioning or doubting myself he's like that… 693 00:33:08,277 --> 00:33:12,615 he's that reassurance for me, and I think that is beautiful. 694 00:33:12,699 --> 00:33:16,661 I've always just wanted, like, that personal time with Brett. 695 00:33:16,744 --> 00:33:21,541 Like, taking our actual first honeymoon and, like, completely disconnecting. 696 00:33:21,624 --> 00:33:26,295 He surprised me with a dinner on the beach and, like, I'm just like, 697 00:33:26,379 --> 00:33:30,299 "Oh, baby, look at the stars. Like, let's stay out here the entire night." 698 00:33:30,383 --> 00:33:33,511 And hearing the waves crash, like, it was a magical moment. 699 00:33:33,594 --> 00:33:37,432 That was the first one that we did that was just us. 700 00:33:37,515 --> 00:33:39,767 I say next to that, turns out she had booked 701 00:33:39,851 --> 00:33:42,395 the trip to Cartagena, Colombia, which was great. 702 00:33:42,478 --> 00:33:44,439 -[Bliss] He didn't know? -[Brett] Yeah. 703 00:33:44,522 --> 00:33:46,733 -[Tiffany] It was a surprise. -[Bliss] Tiff! 704 00:33:46,816 --> 00:33:48,776 I wanted to see how spontaneous he could be. 705 00:33:48,860 --> 00:33:51,112 -That is cool. -The great thing about it is, 706 00:33:51,195 --> 00:33:54,407 I've never had somebody take me on a trip, you know, so… 707 00:33:55,033 --> 00:33:57,243 -That was great. Thank you. -Got you, babe. 708 00:33:57,326 --> 00:33:59,620 [laughing] 709 00:33:59,704 --> 00:34:03,708 I will say, Kwame and I have not done an extensive amount of traveling yet. 710 00:34:03,791 --> 00:34:06,002 Uh, we haven't been granted the opportunity 711 00:34:06,085 --> 00:34:09,047 with my schedule and work, um, and our life. 712 00:34:09,130 --> 00:34:11,758 And I just want to kind of acknowledge the sacrifice 713 00:34:11,841 --> 00:34:16,345 that my husband has made for that, because that was a big part of your life. 714 00:34:17,305 --> 00:34:19,640 And I don't think, when we got together, 715 00:34:19,724 --> 00:34:23,352 that I really realized the sacrifice you were making for me, and for us. 716 00:34:24,312 --> 00:34:26,481 I sit here and I listen to all the stories, 717 00:34:26,564 --> 00:34:29,692 like, it makes me sad that we haven't gotten to do that yet. 718 00:34:30,234 --> 00:34:31,069 Yeah. 719 00:34:31,152 --> 00:34:33,529 But I know our time is coming to do that stuff, 720 00:34:33,613 --> 00:34:36,115 and I want to see the world with you, 721 00:34:36,199 --> 00:34:38,993 and I'm so proud of, like, how far we've come this year. 722 00:34:39,077 --> 00:34:40,787 [exhales] God. 723 00:34:41,788 --> 00:34:43,164 -We're proud of you. -Yeah. 724 00:34:43,247 --> 00:34:44,123 Love you. 725 00:34:45,374 --> 00:34:49,837 I think initially in our marriage, Kwame tried to explain to me about 726 00:34:49,921 --> 00:34:51,547 his travels and his lifestyle. 727 00:34:51,631 --> 00:34:57,220 I don't think I was fully able to, like, immerse myself in the sacrifice. 728 00:34:58,137 --> 00:35:00,181 I always, like, envisioned this… 729 00:35:00,848 --> 00:35:04,185 this lifestyle of just like being with my partner 730 00:35:04,268 --> 00:35:06,020 and, like, traveling the world and… 731 00:35:06,104 --> 00:35:10,358 There is a question that does come up because right now we have Rocky, right? 732 00:35:10,441 --> 00:35:12,860 That doesn't make things easy to get up and go. 733 00:35:12,944 --> 00:35:17,281 You also have your job which, you… you know, you have in Seattle. 734 00:35:17,365 --> 00:35:21,577 And… and don't have the same flexibility that I have. 735 00:35:21,661 --> 00:35:26,040 It seems to be like you're leaving a part of yourself behind 736 00:35:26,124 --> 00:35:30,503 or you're sad to, like, see that lifestyle go. 737 00:35:30,586 --> 00:35:31,796 But I am compromising. 738 00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:37,718 And so, to a degree, I feel almost, like, a little bit guilty 739 00:35:37,802 --> 00:35:40,763 that I'm not able to, like, provide that for him. 740 00:35:40,847 --> 00:35:44,600 I don't think I'm missing out on anything. There's no timeline on it. 741 00:35:45,101 --> 00:35:48,771 But I do think that I'm excited and ready 742 00:35:48,855 --> 00:35:53,734 to start experiencing more, um, with… with Chelsea. 743 00:35:53,818 --> 00:35:57,738 I think I got into marriage, um, 744 00:35:57,822 --> 00:36:01,576 I don't know, I mean, possibly slightly naïvely. 745 00:36:01,659 --> 00:36:02,535 Yeah. 746 00:36:02,618 --> 00:36:05,413 And not in a bad way, but I was like so optimistic. 747 00:36:05,496 --> 00:36:06,706 [Bliss] Mmm-hm. 748 00:36:06,789 --> 00:36:10,960 And I think… And I don't say it's necessarily harder, 749 00:36:11,043 --> 00:36:14,422 but it's like deeper and it's more moving to me, 750 00:36:14,505 --> 00:36:16,507 and it's challenging, it challenges me. 751 00:36:16,591 --> 00:36:19,844 But Kwame challenges me, and it is amazing and it makes me better. 752 00:36:19,927 --> 00:36:25,558 But marriage is more, like, real and, like, true and there's just more… 753 00:36:25,641 --> 00:36:28,561 It's more exquisite, it's more detailed than I thought. 754 00:36:28,644 --> 00:36:31,606 -Yeah. -You guys have plans for next weekend? 755 00:36:31,689 --> 00:36:34,192 -What are we doing next weekend? -My birthday weekend. 756 00:36:34,275 --> 00:36:36,194 -It's her birthday weekend. -Birthday weekend. 757 00:36:36,277 --> 00:36:38,070 Should we have another wine party? 758 00:36:38,154 --> 00:36:40,781 [Zack] We definitely should go celebrate Chelsea. 759 00:36:40,865 --> 00:36:42,950 And Bliss and I have been talking. 760 00:36:43,034 --> 00:36:46,537 We talked about our fantasy football league that we were all in. 761 00:36:46,621 --> 00:36:49,165 And, uh, we kind of thought that maybe we could 762 00:36:49,248 --> 00:36:51,167 put together a fantasy football game, 763 00:36:51,250 --> 00:36:53,252 like with actual players. 764 00:36:53,336 --> 00:36:54,170 [chuckles] 765 00:36:54,253 --> 00:36:56,422 We want to bring in everybody. 766 00:36:56,505 --> 00:36:59,383 So we would put together two teams, 767 00:36:59,467 --> 00:37:02,553 but I think there's still a lot of tension between people. 768 00:37:02,637 --> 00:37:06,474 So what, Marshall is QB and Jackie's the wide receiver? 769 00:37:06,557 --> 00:37:09,435 -Well, so… -[laughter] 770 00:37:09,518 --> 00:37:12,688 I see this scenario. Jackie's a defender, Marshall's a receiver. 771 00:37:12,772 --> 00:37:16,651 They're gonna be at the line. She's gonna be like, "Boss up, boss up, Marshall!" 772 00:37:16,734 --> 00:37:18,986 -[Brett] "Boss up!" -[laughter] 773 00:37:19,070 --> 00:37:21,447 -Probably. -[Kwame] Oh, man. 774 00:37:21,530 --> 00:37:24,533 I tell you one thing else, this man is gonna be shirtless. 775 00:37:24,617 --> 00:37:26,244 [laughter] 776 00:37:26,327 --> 00:37:29,664 -[Bliss] Give the people what they want. -[laughter] 777 00:37:29,747 --> 00:37:32,500 -All right, joke's over. I'm done. -[Bliss] Oh, my God. 778 00:37:32,583 --> 00:37:36,003 We want to… All jokes aside… And it's supposed to be fun, right? 779 00:37:36,087 --> 00:37:37,922 -It's supposed to be bonding. -Yeah. 780 00:37:38,005 --> 00:37:42,301 We can all just move on and agree to let the past be in the past. 781 00:37:42,385 --> 00:37:43,219 Yeah. 782 00:37:43,302 --> 00:37:45,805 I'm so hopeful about that. I really am. 783 00:37:45,888 --> 00:37:46,806 My sweet thing. 784 00:37:46,889 --> 00:37:49,308 It can create an environment where you're like, 785 00:37:49,392 --> 00:37:53,396 "For real, let's talk about the game. Good pass, good play." It opens it up. 786 00:37:53,479 --> 00:37:55,690 -Yeah. -It forces you to support each other. 787 00:37:56,274 --> 00:37:58,317 But we also have to remember, like, 788 00:37:58,401 --> 00:38:01,779 we can't force anyone to take a higher path, 789 00:38:01,862 --> 00:38:05,616 and I think we all have to know and feel okay 790 00:38:05,700 --> 00:38:08,160 -if that doesn't happen for some people. -Exactly. 791 00:38:08,244 --> 00:38:09,412 [Bliss] We just don't know. 792 00:38:09,912 --> 00:38:13,708 ♪ There are monsters ♪ 793 00:38:15,042 --> 00:38:18,796 ♪ There are monsters ♪ 794 00:38:20,172 --> 00:38:23,843 ♪ There are monsters ♪ 795 00:38:25,511 --> 00:38:29,473 ♪ In the shadows ♪ 796 00:38:34,603 --> 00:38:38,899 ♪ There are monsters ♪ 797 00:38:39,567 --> 00:38:43,279 ♪ There are monsters ♪ 798 00:38:45,031 --> 00:38:49,118 ♪ In the shadows ♪ 799 00:38:49,201 --> 00:38:51,287 ♪ In the shadows ♪