1 00:00:07,178 --> 00:00:11,933 {\an8}Tiffany, will you have this man from this day forward... 2 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:15,228 Brett, I absolutely will. 3 00:00:15,311 --> 00:00:18,732 [all cheering] 4 00:00:18,815 --> 00:00:20,734 -I do. -[laughs] 5 00:00:20,817 --> 00:00:22,527 [all cheering] 6 00:00:22,610 --> 00:00:26,406 It is with great pleasure that I now pronounce you husband and wife. 7 00:00:27,365 --> 00:00:30,118 [all cheering] 8 00:00:30,201 --> 00:00:32,412 I think that we're not there. 9 00:00:34,039 --> 00:00:35,081 [sobs] 10 00:00:35,165 --> 00:00:38,501 Marshall, I can't love you. 11 00:00:38,585 --> 00:00:40,086 -How are you? -How you doing? 12 00:00:41,129 --> 00:00:43,256 I'll see you around. Maybe, maybe not. 13 00:00:43,339 --> 00:00:45,050 -Nah, you won't. -Okay. 14 00:00:45,133 --> 00:00:47,677 ♪ We open our eyes... ♪ 15 00:00:47,761 --> 00:00:50,305 We've gotten married. Been like a crazy whirlwind. 16 00:00:50,388 --> 00:00:52,015 -But it's still fun? -So fun. 17 00:00:52,098 --> 00:00:54,100 [all cheering] 18 00:00:55,685 --> 00:00:58,146 It feels like the longest yet shortest year ever. 19 00:00:58,229 --> 00:01:00,315 -Ah! -Hey! Hey! Hey! 20 00:01:00,398 --> 00:01:03,651 And also the friendships that come out of this, it's just so good. 21 00:01:03,735 --> 00:01:05,737 -Hi! -Hi! 22 00:01:05,820 --> 00:01:08,323 I don't think everybody has moved on. 23 00:01:08,406 --> 00:01:11,493 -How are things with Paul? -We get good closure, we move on 24 00:01:11,576 --> 00:01:14,370 and then it's like, "Why are you still talking to me?" 25 00:01:15,288 --> 00:01:17,248 Of course I have feelings for you. 26 00:01:17,332 --> 00:01:20,168 Yeah. I think there's still a lot of tension. 27 00:01:21,586 --> 00:01:26,174 I don't know how you deal with this man every single day. He's a six-year-old. 28 00:01:26,257 --> 00:01:28,468 -Have you seen Marshall? -He's been blocked. 29 00:01:28,551 --> 00:01:31,346 I had no idea that you guys were being that catty. 30 00:01:34,140 --> 00:01:35,433 This shit just sucks. 31 00:01:35,517 --> 00:01:38,144 I don't think, when we got together, that I really realized 32 00:01:38,228 --> 00:01:40,897 the sacrifice you were making for me and for us. 33 00:01:41,773 --> 00:01:45,777 Complex stuff, this marriage. But it's simple, right? 34 00:01:45,860 --> 00:01:46,778 That is true. 35 00:01:46,861 --> 00:01:49,739 [Brett] Y'all are putting Black love on a pedestal. 36 00:01:49,823 --> 00:01:51,991 -That's who I wanna spend my life with. -Strong words. 37 00:01:52,075 --> 00:01:53,159 I feel it. 38 00:01:53,243 --> 00:01:55,286 When he's happy, there's more singing. 39 00:01:55,370 --> 00:01:58,498 They were a couple, like, one to two-hour serenade sessions. 40 00:01:58,581 --> 00:02:00,250 -One to two hours? -Yeah. 41 00:02:00,333 --> 00:02:02,585 Love isn't fun if it's not a little weird. 42 00:02:02,669 --> 00:02:04,170 [all laughing] 43 00:02:08,216 --> 00:02:09,050 ♪ Ooh ♪ 44 00:02:09,884 --> 00:02:10,885 ♪ Ooh ♪ 45 00:02:11,636 --> 00:02:13,054 {\an8}♪ Oh, baby ♪ 46 00:02:15,974 --> 00:02:17,851 {\an8}♪ What you drinkin'? What you want? ♪ 47 00:02:17,934 --> 00:02:19,686 {\an8}♪ We spend it all We empty vaults ♪ 48 00:02:19,769 --> 00:02:21,271 ♪ Check yourself out in the mirror ♪ 49 00:02:21,354 --> 00:02:23,731 ♪ Never wait in line When you're looking tight ♪ 50 00:02:23,815 --> 00:02:26,943 ♪ From your head to your toe Superstar, this is your show ♪ 51 00:02:27,026 --> 00:02:28,945 -[elevator dings] -♪ Yeah, yeah, I like it ♪ 52 00:02:29,028 --> 00:02:31,239 ♪ Go on and show off every time ♪ 53 00:02:31,322 --> 00:02:32,657 This is so cool. 54 00:02:33,867 --> 00:02:34,701 Oh. 55 00:02:34,784 --> 00:02:36,703 ♪ Got a whole lot of wow Got a whole of style ♪ 56 00:02:36,786 --> 00:02:38,746 ♪ Got a whole lot of ugh, ugh ♪ 57 00:02:39,455 --> 00:02:40,707 -Thank you. -All right. 58 00:02:43,334 --> 00:02:44,252 Enjoy, you two. 59 00:02:44,335 --> 00:02:45,795 -Thanks. -Thank you. 60 00:02:46,379 --> 00:02:48,798 Do you want me to do the introduction now? 61 00:02:50,425 --> 00:02:51,551 You want me to do it? 62 00:02:51,634 --> 00:02:53,636 You always have this, "We da Browns." 63 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,097 Yeah. [laughs] 64 00:02:56,181 --> 00:02:58,892 -You always do that thing. -It rolls off your tongue. 65 00:02:59,642 --> 00:03:00,476 Hey, y'all. 66 00:03:01,102 --> 00:03:02,896 We da Browns. 67 00:03:02,979 --> 00:03:04,689 [laughs] 68 00:03:04,772 --> 00:03:08,026 -What she says. -We still kicking it. [laughs] 69 00:03:08,109 --> 00:03:09,152 This is beautiful. 70 00:03:09,235 --> 00:03:10,403 This is beautiful. 71 00:03:10,486 --> 00:03:13,698 I used to walk this waterfront all the time in the morning. 72 00:03:13,781 --> 00:03:14,866 Mmm-hm. 73 00:03:14,949 --> 00:03:17,076 How much would you say you miss Seattle? 74 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:18,912 -Portland's nice. -Mmm-hm. 75 00:03:18,995 --> 00:03:21,289 It's... it's just slower paced. 76 00:03:21,372 --> 00:03:23,249 So, having to get used to that. 77 00:03:23,333 --> 00:03:27,420 -Mmm-hm. -But we're there, you're there, so... 78 00:03:28,213 --> 00:03:30,131 Well, it was a big adjustment for you. 79 00:03:30,215 --> 00:03:31,591 -Yeah. -And... 80 00:03:33,092 --> 00:03:35,720 If I haven't said it before, I'm pretty sure I have, 81 00:03:35,803 --> 00:03:38,556 but I just want to reiterate just how thankful I am 82 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:40,725 for you making that move for us. 83 00:03:40,808 --> 00:03:42,352 Absolutely. 84 00:03:42,435 --> 00:03:44,729 [Tiffany] So we've been married for a year now. 85 00:03:44,812 --> 00:03:46,606 Still happily married. 86 00:03:46,689 --> 00:03:49,859 And after our wedding, um, 87 00:03:49,943 --> 00:03:53,863 we moved right down to Portland for Brett's work. 88 00:03:53,947 --> 00:03:56,074 Love this guy with all of my heart. 89 00:03:56,157 --> 00:03:57,242 Love you too, babe. 90 00:03:59,244 --> 00:04:00,161 Thank you. 91 00:04:03,122 --> 00:04:05,208 -Oh, no. You good. [laughs] -Okay, okay. 92 00:04:05,291 --> 00:04:07,502 This is my soft girl era. 93 00:04:07,585 --> 00:04:09,504 Nothing's gonna stress us out. 94 00:04:09,587 --> 00:04:13,758 Like, I'm really trying to do things that involve, like, self-care and wellness. 95 00:04:13,841 --> 00:04:15,969 -"Soft girl era." I dig it. -Yeah. 96 00:04:16,052 --> 00:04:16,928 [chuckles] 97 00:04:19,055 --> 00:04:24,018 I think that's what drew me to you was... I was so just, like, focused 98 00:04:24,102 --> 00:04:28,022 and I wouldn't say serious, but you had a whole lot more, 99 00:04:28,106 --> 00:04:30,275 like, free spirit, playfulness. 100 00:04:30,358 --> 00:04:31,234 Yeah. 101 00:04:31,317 --> 00:04:34,529 It was like, maybe she's just the balance that I need to bring out 102 00:04:34,612 --> 00:04:36,447 some of those traits, you know, outwardly. 103 00:04:36,531 --> 00:04:40,785 That part of my personality doesn't naturally come out, but I'm hilarious. 104 00:04:40,868 --> 00:04:42,870 -You are freaking funny. -I know. 105 00:04:42,954 --> 00:04:44,956 Who's the best impersonation you can do? 106 00:04:45,039 --> 00:04:46,791 -I think Zack. -[gasps] 107 00:04:46,874 --> 00:04:51,379 [imitates Zack] What you need to realize, Tiffany, is that I'm in love with you. 108 00:04:52,672 --> 00:04:55,091 Full-heartedly. I'm in love with you. 109 00:04:55,550 --> 00:04:57,510 ♪ Set it on fire ♪ 110 00:04:57,593 --> 00:04:59,387 ♪ Half this desire ♪ 111 00:04:59,470 --> 00:05:03,766 ♪ Feeling that fire, feeling that fire Feeling that fire burn ♪ 112 00:05:04,309 --> 00:05:08,229 ♪ Losing my mind with you all night ♪ 113 00:05:08,730 --> 00:05:11,899 ♪ Feeling that fire, feeling that fire Feeling that fire burn ♪ 114 00:05:11,983 --> 00:05:13,985 {\an8}[Bliss] Really, it's a pretty day, huh? 115 00:05:14,068 --> 00:05:15,570 {\an8}[Zack] Yeah, it's gorgeous. 116 00:05:15,653 --> 00:05:18,823 Finally, the sun's coming out just a little bit. It's so cold. 117 00:05:23,202 --> 00:05:24,078 All right. 118 00:05:30,084 --> 00:05:31,627 -Hey there. -[Bliss] Hi. 119 00:05:31,711 --> 00:05:33,129 Here for an appointment? 120 00:05:33,212 --> 00:05:34,547 -[Bliss] Yes. -All right. 121 00:05:34,630 --> 00:05:37,175 It's the Goytowskis. You didn't say that part with me. 122 00:05:37,258 --> 00:05:39,260 I think it's better if you say that part. 123 00:05:39,344 --> 00:05:41,012 Like, 'cause I... If we're, like... 124 00:05:41,095 --> 00:05:43,639 If we're, like, cultish, like, "It's the G... 125 00:05:43,723 --> 00:05:46,225 Let's do it. Ready? One, two, three. 126 00:05:46,309 --> 00:05:48,061 [together] It's the Goytowskis. 127 00:05:48,144 --> 00:05:50,355 -I mean, you're doing it deadpan. -[laughs] 128 00:05:50,438 --> 00:05:51,939 You're doing it deadpan, babe. 129 00:05:52,023 --> 00:05:54,275 It'll come off weird if you do it deadpan. 130 00:05:54,359 --> 00:05:56,152 We're the Goytowskis. 131 00:05:56,235 --> 00:05:59,238 You guys better not use that. You guys better not use that. 132 00:05:59,322 --> 00:06:00,323 You know they will. 133 00:06:00,406 --> 00:06:01,240 [both laugh] 134 00:06:03,284 --> 00:06:06,329 -[Bliss] How are you feeling, babe? -Good. Yeah. I'm ready. 135 00:06:06,412 --> 00:06:08,456 Yeah? Not nervous? 136 00:06:08,539 --> 00:06:09,749 How are you feeling? 137 00:06:09,832 --> 00:06:11,000 Fine, I guess. 138 00:06:11,084 --> 00:06:13,669 [both chuckle] 139 00:06:14,420 --> 00:06:17,131 I feel good. I feel fine. [chuckles] 140 00:06:19,467 --> 00:06:21,219 -I love you. -I love you too. 141 00:06:22,553 --> 00:06:25,306 We are ready for you. You can follow me on back. 142 00:06:26,224 --> 00:06:30,895 [Zack] I think the best part of marriage is having someone 143 00:06:30,978 --> 00:06:34,482 who is gonna to be with you for the rest of your life, 144 00:06:34,565 --> 00:06:38,945 that is there to... to write the story with you. 145 00:06:39,779 --> 00:06:42,407 It's gonna be right in here, and you can have a seat. 146 00:06:42,490 --> 00:06:43,366 [Bliss] Thank you. 147 00:06:43,950 --> 00:06:46,285 {\an8}Turtle room. I actually really like turtles. 148 00:06:46,369 --> 00:06:48,663 Yeah, they're such cool, cool animals. 149 00:06:49,288 --> 00:06:53,876 For me, like, I never necessarily was like, "I need a partner in my life." 150 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:55,586 I was like, "It'll be nice." 151 00:06:55,670 --> 00:06:59,173 But having... having him in my life, it's just truly shifted me. 152 00:06:59,257 --> 00:07:01,300 It's made me a better person, and honestly, 153 00:07:01,384 --> 00:07:04,512 like, that's one of the best things about marriage. It's good. 154 00:07:05,513 --> 00:07:07,306 Yeah. We've grown a lot. 155 00:07:07,390 --> 00:07:09,517 Bliss doesn't like when I put my hand here. 156 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:11,018 [laughs] This doesn't look good. 157 00:07:11,102 --> 00:07:13,688 Looks too buddy-buddy. I gotta keep my hand low. 158 00:07:14,313 --> 00:07:16,023 -Hello. -Hi. 159 00:07:16,107 --> 00:07:19,235 {\an8}-How is everyone? Dr. Davé here as always. -Hi. 160 00:07:19,318 --> 00:07:20,903 {\an8}-Nice to meet you. -Hi. 161 00:07:20,987 --> 00:07:26,325 A pleasure. So tell me, how have your shots been going? 162 00:07:26,409 --> 00:07:28,911 -I think we're at eight months now, right? -Yeah. 163 00:07:28,995 --> 00:07:30,079 Yeah, that's awesome. 164 00:07:30,163 --> 00:07:33,499 So, we usually start to see benefit at around six-month periods. 165 00:07:33,583 --> 00:07:37,503 You're kind of hitting the two months of really seeing major differences. 166 00:07:37,587 --> 00:07:39,547 [Zack] One of the things that surprised me 167 00:07:39,630 --> 00:07:41,716 is I was so in love with Bliss when we got married. 168 00:07:41,799 --> 00:07:45,011 But, uh, the year... Since the year that has passed, 169 00:07:45,094 --> 00:07:47,346 I love her so much more now. 170 00:07:47,430 --> 00:07:49,223 I appreciate her so much more now. 171 00:07:49,307 --> 00:07:52,226 She is so nurturing and loving and, uh, 172 00:07:52,310 --> 00:07:54,896 that's why I definitely want to build a family. 173 00:07:54,979 --> 00:07:56,981 So we're at the doctor's office 174 00:07:57,064 --> 00:08:00,985 because we got to figure out some things about our babies. 175 00:08:01,068 --> 00:08:03,529 For our fur babies, Zack, our fur babies. 176 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,657 Zack has to get allergy shots for his allergies. 177 00:08:06,741 --> 00:08:10,870 We have plenty of time to think about human babies, and we are in no rush. 178 00:08:13,956 --> 00:08:16,709 What were your symptoms before starting shots? 179 00:08:16,792 --> 00:08:23,049 Um, if I would spend enough time with, uh, cats or dogs indoors, 180 00:08:23,132 --> 00:08:28,387 um, my ability to breathe would become significantly restricted. 181 00:08:28,471 --> 00:08:31,265 My animals had to go live with my family 182 00:08:31,349 --> 00:08:34,560 while we started to get the allergy stuff figured out. 183 00:08:34,644 --> 00:08:37,855 So it's had... it's had a pretty big impact on our life, I'd say. 184 00:08:37,939 --> 00:08:42,235 And we brought, um, Asher, our dog, back a couple months ago and it's... 185 00:08:42,318 --> 00:08:44,362 He sleeps in our bed sometimes. 186 00:08:44,445 --> 00:08:46,948 -So it's been going pretty well. -[Dr. Davé] Great. 187 00:08:47,031 --> 00:08:50,993 {\an8}[Bliss] It was... it was really hard to send my little fur babies away. 188 00:08:51,077 --> 00:08:52,954 {\an8}I mean, they're my life, you know. 189 00:08:53,037 --> 00:08:57,166 {\an8}Like, I love them truly like human children. 190 00:08:57,250 --> 00:09:00,169 And Zack was like, "I have this little surprise for you. 191 00:09:00,253 --> 00:09:02,004 I want to read you a short story." 192 00:09:02,088 --> 00:09:05,550 He created a short story about Asher and Blythe, how they're telepathic, 193 00:09:05,633 --> 00:09:09,095 and they were talking to each other, and kind of seeing the future. 194 00:09:09,178 --> 00:09:12,098 And, um, basically, through the story, he shares with me 195 00:09:12,181 --> 00:09:15,601 that we're bringing Asher home. And it was just the sweetest thing. 196 00:09:15,685 --> 00:09:18,437 I was, like, sobbing, and we took him home that day. 197 00:09:18,521 --> 00:09:20,481 You always tell me how you love me, 198 00:09:20,565 --> 00:09:24,694 but you also show it with your actions, and I just adore you. 199 00:09:25,027 --> 00:09:27,363 ♪ I feel my heartbeat, my heartbeat ♪ 200 00:09:27,446 --> 00:09:29,907 ♪ Pounding like a drum in my soul ♪ 201 00:09:30,825 --> 00:09:32,743 ♪ So here I go, here I go ♪ 202 00:09:32,827 --> 00:09:37,832 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 203 00:09:37,915 --> 00:09:39,834 ♪ So here I go, here I go ♪ 204 00:09:39,917 --> 00:09:44,589 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 205 00:09:48,676 --> 00:09:52,013 -Hey, hey, hey! It's the Appiahs! Aah! -[laughs] 206 00:09:52,096 --> 00:09:53,973 We have been married for one year. 207 00:09:54,056 --> 00:09:56,517 Yeah. Living our best lives. We're thriving. 208 00:09:56,601 --> 00:09:59,895 Here with my best friend and my wife, Chelsea. 209 00:10:08,237 --> 00:10:09,238 You all warmed up? 210 00:10:09,322 --> 00:10:11,657 I'm so nervous, but excited! 211 00:10:11,741 --> 00:10:14,452 -It's gonna be great. -We're good. I'm nervous for her. 212 00:10:14,535 --> 00:10:15,411 [all laugh] 213 00:10:15,494 --> 00:10:17,663 [Kwame] My favorite thing about married life so far 214 00:10:17,747 --> 00:10:20,374 is definitely spending our nights together. 215 00:10:20,458 --> 00:10:25,755 We get to eat together, and after that, we occasionally play a game, where we... 216 00:10:25,838 --> 00:10:28,549 When it comes to board games, we're pretty competitive. 217 00:10:28,633 --> 00:10:30,468 Where Kwame beats me every time. 218 00:10:30,551 --> 00:10:32,553 -My wife is about to freak out. -Yeah. 219 00:10:32,637 --> 00:10:35,181 {\an8}-Great. Oh, there they go. -You can get it. 220 00:10:35,264 --> 00:10:36,265 {\an8}Let me get it. 221 00:10:36,349 --> 00:10:40,353 {\an8}I went on this experiment to find the love of my life, to get married, 222 00:10:40,436 --> 00:10:42,396 and I found my person. 223 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:46,692 But, like, I truly never thought about, like, these bonuses. 224 00:10:46,776 --> 00:10:49,987 -Oh, my gosh. Thank you. -Hey! Good to meet you, bro. For sure. 225 00:10:50,071 --> 00:10:52,448 Like throwing the first pitch of the Mariners game. 226 00:10:52,531 --> 00:10:54,367 [gasps, screams] 227 00:10:54,450 --> 00:10:56,744 -[Bliss] How cute. -Oh, my God! 228 00:10:56,827 --> 00:10:57,953 [Bliss] Our jerseys. 229 00:10:58,037 --> 00:11:00,373 [Kwame] Oh, yeah, those are fire. 230 00:11:00,456 --> 00:11:02,958 [Bliss] They have our last names on them, you guys. 231 00:11:03,042 --> 00:11:07,296 Look at that pinkness they have going on right there, Chelsea. 232 00:11:07,380 --> 00:11:09,590 Ah, it's so perfect. 233 00:11:09,674 --> 00:11:13,844 I'm a big sports fan. Like, I'm a girly girl, but I'm a sports girl. 234 00:11:13,928 --> 00:11:15,805 Like, I know the rules of sports. 235 00:11:15,888 --> 00:11:19,517 Don't sit there and be like, "Ha, ha. She likes pink but she doesn't know 236 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:21,811 the rules of football or baseball or soccer." 237 00:11:21,894 --> 00:11:23,896 Like, no, that's incorrect. 238 00:11:23,979 --> 00:11:25,815 Like, I know the rules. 239 00:11:27,525 --> 00:11:30,444 -[laughs] Excuse me? -You know the rules? 240 00:11:30,528 --> 00:11:32,488 -I know the rules. -She knows the rules. 241 00:11:32,571 --> 00:11:34,740 Let's play ball! 242 00:11:34,824 --> 00:11:36,075 [Bliss] Let's play ball. 243 00:11:36,158 --> 00:11:38,536 I'm so happy that you get to do this, Chels. 244 00:11:38,619 --> 00:11:41,122 [Bliss] We're really super close with the other couples. 245 00:11:41,205 --> 00:11:43,916 Chelsea and Kwame live only seven minutes away from us. 246 00:11:43,999 --> 00:11:45,668 We see them at least once a week. 247 00:11:45,751 --> 00:11:48,546 Chelsea and I talk on the phone every single day. 248 00:11:48,629 --> 00:11:51,507 We're so close to the point where when we travel together, 249 00:11:51,590 --> 00:11:56,387 we will share a room and have two queen beds in one hotel room. 250 00:11:56,470 --> 00:11:59,598 And there's actually a really cute picture of Zack and Kwame 251 00:11:59,682 --> 00:12:03,018 sleeping on the opposite beds, and their arms are both hanging out, 252 00:12:03,102 --> 00:12:06,313 like, in between the middle like this far apart. 253 00:12:06,397 --> 00:12:08,774 It's pretty funny. So, we're so happy 254 00:12:08,858 --> 00:12:11,235 to be here with Chelsea and Kwame together, 255 00:12:11,318 --> 00:12:13,696 and to see Chelsea throw her pitch. 256 00:12:14,447 --> 00:12:15,865 It's a big moment. 257 00:12:15,948 --> 00:12:18,868 I know you've been thinking about it, getting ready for it. 258 00:12:18,951 --> 00:12:21,120 I'm excited for you. I'm excited for us. 259 00:12:21,203 --> 00:12:23,372 -Don't make me cry. -You're about to go out there. 260 00:12:23,456 --> 00:12:25,249 You're about to crush it. 261 00:12:25,332 --> 00:12:29,420 You're gonna throw the best first pitch this stadium has ever seen. All right? 262 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:31,797 I love you. 263 00:12:32,965 --> 00:12:33,924 I love you too. 264 00:12:34,508 --> 00:12:35,843 -I'm excited. -Let's do it. 265 00:12:35,926 --> 00:12:37,887 -You got this. Let's do it. -I'm crying. 266 00:12:37,970 --> 00:12:39,722 -[mimics music] -Got this. 267 00:12:39,889 --> 00:12:42,892 ["Perks" playing] 268 00:12:49,148 --> 00:12:52,443 {\an8}Welcome to Mariners baseball at T-Mobile Park. 269 00:12:52,526 --> 00:12:56,572 [Chelsea] Oh, my God, I'm so nervous. This is crazy! 270 00:12:56,655 --> 00:12:58,115 ♪ I want the perks ♪ 271 00:12:58,199 --> 00:13:00,785 ♪ You gotta, gotta, gotta make it work ♪ 272 00:13:00,868 --> 00:13:02,953 ♪ That's right I know You know I know my worth ♪ 273 00:13:03,037 --> 00:13:04,955 {\an8}[Tom] Ladies and gentlemen, let's hear it 274 00:13:05,039 --> 00:13:08,459 {\an8}for the Seattle-based cast of Love is Blind Season 4. 275 00:13:08,542 --> 00:13:11,045 -Oh, snap! -Oh, look! 276 00:13:11,128 --> 00:13:13,214 -[screams] -Is that y'all? 277 00:13:13,297 --> 00:13:15,758 [Tom] Now to throw that pitch for us this afternoon, 278 00:13:15,841 --> 00:13:20,471 please welcome Chelsea Appiah, with the pitch caught by Jarred Kelenic. 279 00:13:21,514 --> 00:13:23,432 [horn blows] 280 00:13:23,516 --> 00:13:25,518 [pre-game music playing] 281 00:13:27,269 --> 00:13:28,270 All right, Chelsea. 282 00:13:31,857 --> 00:13:33,150 You wanna come center? 283 00:13:33,234 --> 00:13:34,360 You got this, girl. 284 00:13:38,239 --> 00:13:39,532 [horn blows] 285 00:13:44,328 --> 00:13:45,538 [crowd cheering] 286 00:13:45,621 --> 00:13:47,122 Nice pitch. 287 00:13:49,625 --> 00:13:51,669 {\an8}-[Bliss] You did it! -Was it good? 288 00:13:51,752 --> 00:13:53,003 {\an8}-Love you! -You did it! 289 00:13:54,255 --> 00:13:55,089 Great job. 290 00:13:55,172 --> 00:13:57,550 -I tried. I did my best. -Nice to meet you. I'm Jarred. 291 00:13:57,633 --> 00:13:58,717 Hi. Nice to meet you. 292 00:13:58,801 --> 00:14:00,177 -Jarred. -I'm Zack. 293 00:14:00,261 --> 00:14:02,930 You're supposed to ask for an autograph or something. 294 00:14:03,013 --> 00:14:04,014 What's going on? 295 00:14:04,098 --> 00:14:05,891 -How was it, guys? -It was perfect. 296 00:14:05,975 --> 00:14:07,810 It was great. It didn't get past me. 297 00:14:07,893 --> 00:14:09,812 [all laugh] 298 00:14:09,895 --> 00:14:13,941 Thank you to Chelsea, Kwame, Zack and Bliss for being here this afternoon. 299 00:14:14,024 --> 00:14:15,192 Congratulations! 300 00:14:15,276 --> 00:14:16,527 It went straight. 301 00:14:16,610 --> 00:14:17,570 Good job. 302 00:14:17,653 --> 00:14:20,906 He caught it with the mitt, didn't have to chase. It went perfect. 303 00:14:20,990 --> 00:14:21,991 My little All-Star. 304 00:14:22,074 --> 00:14:23,325 Your little All-Star! 305 00:14:23,409 --> 00:14:25,327 She is our little star. 306 00:14:27,413 --> 00:14:29,415 ♪ Are you ready for a good time? ♪ 307 00:14:29,498 --> 00:14:32,626 ♪ 'Cause we're gonna have a good time Aah ♪ 308 00:14:32,710 --> 00:14:34,128 ♪ We're living it up ♪ 309 00:14:35,421 --> 00:14:36,922 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ 310 00:14:37,006 --> 00:14:38,966 {\an8}♪ We're living it up, living it up ♪ 311 00:14:39,717 --> 00:14:41,135 {\an8}♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ 312 00:14:41,218 --> 00:14:45,431 ♪ We're feeling the high There's no bringing this down ♪ 313 00:14:45,514 --> 00:14:47,433 ♪ We're living it up, living it up ♪ 314 00:14:48,225 --> 00:14:50,561 -♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ -♪ We're living it up ♪ 315 00:14:52,438 --> 00:14:54,607 -♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ -♪ We're living it up ♪ 316 00:14:56,567 --> 00:14:57,651 [Micah] Oh, my God! 317 00:14:57,735 --> 00:15:01,906 {\an8}Hello! Hello! Look at you! 318 00:15:02,573 --> 00:15:04,575 Oh, my God! Micah! 319 00:15:04,658 --> 00:15:07,953 Oh my God. I'm so happy to see you. You look so beautiful! 320 00:15:08,037 --> 00:15:10,748 -We still have the same hair! -[laughs] 321 00:15:10,831 --> 00:15:15,711 Oh, my God. Oh, it feels so good. 322 00:15:15,794 --> 00:15:17,922 [Micah] Me and Liz literally talk like every day. 323 00:15:18,005 --> 00:15:19,256 She's heavy-handed on the text. 324 00:15:19,340 --> 00:15:22,134 I hear from her often, and honestly, it's welcome. 325 00:15:22,217 --> 00:15:24,803 The last thing I want is for Paul to feel uncomfortable, 326 00:15:24,887 --> 00:15:26,513 but having a friendship with Liz 327 00:15:26,597 --> 00:15:29,433 makes me feel validated in the love that Paul and I had. 328 00:15:29,516 --> 00:15:32,895 So being able to keep that friendship has meant a lot. 329 00:15:32,978 --> 00:15:36,690 It is so nice to be here. I want to move here. I want to live here. 330 00:15:36,774 --> 00:15:39,109 I would love you to be here. I officially moved back too. 331 00:15:39,193 --> 00:15:40,319 How are you liking it? 332 00:15:40,402 --> 00:15:43,197 It's good. I miss being in Seattle, being by my family and friends. 333 00:15:43,280 --> 00:15:46,200 -So it's good. -I can't help myself. 334 00:15:46,283 --> 00:15:50,871 -You are so beautiful. Oh, my God. -That's because I'm your twin. 335 00:15:50,955 --> 00:15:54,041 -You're so beautiful. -I wish. I wish. I wish. 336 00:15:54,124 --> 00:15:58,462 Micah, I turned 60 years old, and I'm like, "No." 337 00:15:58,545 --> 00:16:01,340 -You do not look 60 years old. -'Cause I'm still 29. 338 00:16:01,423 --> 00:16:03,717 No. Don't tell anyone. No one will ever know. 339 00:16:03,801 --> 00:16:05,719 Right. We'll keep that on the DL. 340 00:16:05,803 --> 00:16:07,304 You know I love seeing you. 341 00:16:07,388 --> 00:16:09,807 I feel I was kind of worried about how our relationship 342 00:16:09,890 --> 00:16:11,225 would be after everything. 343 00:16:11,308 --> 00:16:14,478 I don't want to overstep or make Paul uncomfortable. 344 00:16:14,561 --> 00:16:17,481 -No. -It's something I'm kind of nervous about. 345 00:16:17,564 --> 00:16:23,278 Well, you know, I've said forever and a day, boys are stupid. 346 00:16:23,362 --> 00:16:28,075 So whatever he thinks, you're my friend and I love you 347 00:16:28,158 --> 00:16:30,035 and we're always gonna have that. 348 00:16:30,119 --> 00:16:31,495 Aw. That's so sweet. 349 00:16:31,578 --> 00:16:35,541 You know, whatever issue Paul may or may not have, that's on him. 350 00:16:35,624 --> 00:16:38,085 -[laughs] -I mean, don't you agree? Do you agree? 351 00:16:38,168 --> 00:16:39,253 Yeah, for sure. 352 00:16:39,336 --> 00:16:43,424 I... I'm so happy to have you. I feel like meeting you was such a blessing. 353 00:16:43,507 --> 00:16:46,051 I don't want to cause any issues between you two. 354 00:16:46,135 --> 00:16:48,262 -It won't. -And that was my only concern. 355 00:16:48,345 --> 00:16:49,972 -I love seeing you... -I know. 356 00:16:50,055 --> 00:16:52,474 ...and spending time with you. It's always so fun. 357 00:16:52,558 --> 00:16:55,436 I cannot help myself. I'm just so excited to see you. 358 00:16:55,519 --> 00:16:57,479 I am too. I've missed you so much. 359 00:16:57,563 --> 00:17:00,024 So, how are you and Paul? Like, seriously? 360 00:17:00,107 --> 00:17:03,110 I can't ask him like I can ask you 'cause we're girls, right? 361 00:17:03,193 --> 00:17:04,153 I know. 362 00:17:04,236 --> 00:17:06,655 -Um... -But, seriously, there's been some time. 363 00:17:06,739 --> 00:17:08,157 -Thank you. -You're welcome. 364 00:17:08,240 --> 00:17:11,285 It's hard. I think we were in a place before that's like, 365 00:17:11,368 --> 00:17:13,954 you know, if you don't see me, like, being a mother, 366 00:17:14,038 --> 00:17:16,248 or don't see us getting married in ten years, 367 00:17:16,331 --> 00:17:18,083 what's the point of trying? 368 00:17:18,167 --> 00:17:22,755 At least in terms of envisioning Micah as like, you know, a mother, 369 00:17:22,838 --> 00:17:26,717 I think for me it was, like, difficult for me to do. 370 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:31,180 Just, like, a nurturing aspect, I think, that some people have. 371 00:17:31,263 --> 00:17:33,307 I don't know. But whenever I tried, 372 00:17:33,390 --> 00:17:38,103 I just know that I wasn't able to see it very clearly. 373 00:17:38,187 --> 00:17:42,066 I'm not angry that he felt that way. It's... You know, I... 374 00:17:42,149 --> 00:17:44,026 Do I think he's right? No. 375 00:17:44,109 --> 00:17:46,612 I'm not angry that he felt like that or that he said that, 376 00:17:46,695 --> 00:17:48,906 I was just upset that he never said it to me. 377 00:17:48,989 --> 00:17:51,450 So right now I think we're both kind of healing... 378 00:17:51,533 --> 00:17:52,951 -And processing. -Mmm-hm. 379 00:17:53,035 --> 00:17:54,953 It's hard when you're angry with someone, 380 00:17:55,037 --> 00:17:57,456 but they're also the only person you want to talk to. 381 00:17:57,539 --> 00:18:00,751 -Gosh. Like in a trick bag. -That's kind of where we're both at. 382 00:18:00,834 --> 00:18:04,129 Also, the relationship we had was really great and really real, 383 00:18:04,213 --> 00:18:06,465 and with that comes a lot of pain, of course. 384 00:18:06,548 --> 00:18:09,426 Now I think it's being there for each other the best we can. 385 00:18:09,510 --> 00:18:10,385 Yeah. 386 00:18:10,469 --> 00:18:13,847 And I tell you this with such an open heart. 387 00:18:13,931 --> 00:18:17,559 From what I understand, Paul is talking to someone. 388 00:18:19,478 --> 00:18:22,147 Kind of tugs at my heart really hard. 389 00:18:23,398 --> 00:18:24,983 -It's hard to hear. -Yeah. 390 00:18:25,067 --> 00:18:27,111 Especially when I haven't moved on yet. 391 00:18:27,194 --> 00:18:29,988 I kind of feel that in my divorce from Paul's dad. 392 00:18:30,072 --> 00:18:34,034 -It's... it's hard, but, um, um... -Yeah. 393 00:18:34,576 --> 00:18:36,203 I don't know her name. 394 00:18:36,286 --> 00:18:40,624 I don't really understand the lingo of, like, "We're talking." 395 00:18:40,707 --> 00:18:44,128 But the smile that I saw through Paul 396 00:18:44,211 --> 00:18:49,758 when he was with you, that's just been unmatched. 397 00:18:50,384 --> 00:18:51,677 I'll break her kneecaps. 398 00:18:52,553 --> 00:18:54,012 -[laughs] -Just so you know. 399 00:18:54,096 --> 00:18:56,431 [both snicker] 400 00:18:56,515 --> 00:18:59,476 You know, Micah, last night he and I were talking, 401 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:03,564 and he was, I don't know, almost defiant. 402 00:19:03,647 --> 00:19:10,237 He was like, "I love Micah. I loved her, I still love her." 403 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:14,992 The timing. The two of you needed more before he could say, "I do." 404 00:19:15,075 --> 00:19:17,953 I think there's still, like, lingering feelings both ways. 405 00:19:18,036 --> 00:19:20,581 There's no telling what the future looks like. 406 00:19:20,664 --> 00:19:22,708 -Right, right. -But... 407 00:19:22,791 --> 00:19:24,918 -We've been chatting a little bit. -Good. 408 00:19:25,002 --> 00:19:28,589 Yeah. I think it's been a bit hard to be open about where we're at. 409 00:19:28,672 --> 00:19:32,217 I think we both have a hard shell, we don't wanna be the one to say... 410 00:19:32,301 --> 00:19:36,388 -"Hey..." -"Hey, there's something still here." 411 00:19:36,471 --> 00:19:38,932 I think we both are a little bit reserved on that. 412 00:19:39,016 --> 00:19:43,729 He definitely takes after his dad in the communication level, so... 413 00:19:43,812 --> 00:19:45,981 That was something we definitely struggled with. 414 00:19:46,064 --> 00:19:48,942 You know, you might have to pull it out of him. 415 00:19:49,026 --> 00:19:51,236 ♪ Like a vinyl record babe ♪ 416 00:19:51,945 --> 00:19:53,655 ♪ Got me spinning every day ♪ 417 00:19:53,739 --> 00:19:55,824 ♪ Never known rhythm like this ♪ 418 00:19:55,908 --> 00:19:58,577 ♪ You're the square root of 3,000 ♪ 419 00:19:58,660 --> 00:20:01,538 ♪ Girl, I know you got my heart flying ♪ 420 00:20:01,622 --> 00:20:05,125 ♪ Spinning like One and two and three... ♪ 421 00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:08,503 ♪ Mmm ♪ 422 00:20:08,587 --> 00:20:11,798 {\an8}Oh, this is so romantic! I love this. I love you. 423 00:20:11,882 --> 00:20:13,425 {\an8}This is what I do. 424 00:20:13,508 --> 00:20:17,888 I love the cheeses. A little champagne. Can you open the champagne? 425 00:20:17,971 --> 00:20:20,265 I'm a little lactose intolerant, but... 426 00:20:20,891 --> 00:20:21,725 I know. 427 00:20:21,808 --> 00:20:23,727 [Jackie] It's been a hard year. Y'all know 428 00:20:23,810 --> 00:20:25,687 I was getting reamed on the Internet. 429 00:20:25,771 --> 00:20:29,066 Look, I know... I know I'm not, you know, the perfect person, 430 00:20:29,149 --> 00:20:31,401 but I didn't expect to come in here 431 00:20:31,485 --> 00:20:34,696 and fall in love with somebody completely different than who I chose. 432 00:20:34,780 --> 00:20:35,781 Calm down. 433 00:20:35,864 --> 00:20:39,451 My man is fine. I don't care what y'all say about his cauliflower-broccoli ears. 434 00:20:39,534 --> 00:20:41,662 That's fine. I be licking them every night. 435 00:20:41,745 --> 00:20:45,958 -I'm gonna try not to hit you in the face. -Don't hit me. Walk out all busted up. 436 00:20:46,041 --> 00:20:48,001 Do you know how to pop these bottles? 437 00:20:48,085 --> 00:20:50,712 -I'm gonna just... Oh, my God, look at this. -Hey. 438 00:20:51,713 --> 00:20:54,007 -What, baby? -This could all be yours one day. 439 00:20:54,091 --> 00:20:56,718 [Josh] You keep acting right, this could be yours. 440 00:20:56,802 --> 00:20:59,012 -Are you gonna get it all for me? -[laughs] 441 00:21:01,556 --> 00:21:03,016 -[bottle pops] -There you go. 442 00:21:03,642 --> 00:21:05,519 First for you. Just kidding. 443 00:21:05,602 --> 00:21:07,896 [both laugh] 444 00:21:07,980 --> 00:21:09,648 You didn't know I was a romantic brother. 445 00:21:09,731 --> 00:21:11,858 -You're so romantic. -You didn't even know. 446 00:21:11,942 --> 00:21:15,028 -I think about you first and me last. -Yeah, you do. 447 00:21:18,824 --> 00:21:20,367 How come you got more than me? 448 00:21:21,076 --> 00:21:23,287 -'Cause I'm big daddy. -[laughs] 449 00:21:23,370 --> 00:21:26,415 -Cheers to us. I love you. Thank you. -To us. I love you too. 450 00:21:26,498 --> 00:21:29,459 Thank you. I can't believe it's been a year. It's been a long year. 451 00:21:29,543 --> 00:21:30,502 Yeah! 452 00:21:30,585 --> 00:21:32,713 Feel like I've been together with you for 50 years. 453 00:21:32,796 --> 00:21:34,798 Oh, my gosh. [laughs] 454 00:21:36,133 --> 00:21:38,719 You excited to get our keys on Saturday for our new place? 455 00:21:38,802 --> 00:21:42,639 Yeah, I'm excited for us to, like, move into, like, our first apartment. 456 00:21:42,723 --> 00:21:45,267 Because a lot of people said, "They're not gonna work out." 457 00:21:45,350 --> 00:21:46,727 They were praying on our downfall. 458 00:21:46,810 --> 00:21:50,856 -Yeah. They said, "They'll never do it." -Yeah. 459 00:21:50,939 --> 00:21:53,483 "They'll never make it." "They'll never boss up." 460 00:21:53,567 --> 00:21:56,987 Can you feed me some food? Let's be super romantic and feed... 461 00:21:57,070 --> 00:21:58,530 -Ah. -Oh. 462 00:22:00,282 --> 00:22:02,159 -Hard. -[laughs] 463 00:22:02,242 --> 00:22:05,162 I thought you were gonna catch it. You know how romantic I can be. 464 00:22:05,245 --> 00:22:07,247 You threw it at me. 465 00:22:07,331 --> 00:22:10,584 Sometimes life is gonna throw things at you and you're not going to expect it, 466 00:22:10,667 --> 00:22:12,377 and that's why I did that to you. 467 00:22:13,503 --> 00:22:15,005 [laughs] I'm just kidding. 468 00:22:15,088 --> 00:22:17,090 ["Bring Your Friends" playing] 469 00:22:17,758 --> 00:22:18,759 Wow. 470 00:22:20,135 --> 00:22:21,303 ♪ Turn the bass up ♪ 471 00:22:22,095 --> 00:22:23,597 ♪ Girl, pick your face up ♪ 472 00:22:24,389 --> 00:22:27,517 ♪ I wanna see you move ♪ 473 00:22:33,565 --> 00:22:36,109 This is the knife you were telling me about, huh? 474 00:22:36,193 --> 00:22:38,612 -[Paul] Yeah, it's so sharp, huh? -Yeah. 475 00:22:38,695 --> 00:22:43,408 Now you wanna brown it on both sides, and then remove it to a plate and hide it 476 00:22:43,492 --> 00:22:45,952 in the microwave to keep everybody from eating it. 477 00:22:46,036 --> 00:22:47,329 {\an8}[chuckles] Nice. 478 00:22:47,412 --> 00:22:51,666 And did you know when you stir your gumbo, you always stir counterclockwise, 479 00:22:51,750 --> 00:22:57,005 and the reason is it sends prayers to prevent an active hurricane season. 480 00:22:57,089 --> 00:23:00,550 -I've never heard that. That's funny. -That's what your big daddy used to say. 481 00:23:00,634 --> 00:23:02,552 [Paul] Cool. So, yeah, um... 482 00:23:02,636 --> 00:23:05,472 Is it weird if I talk about the new girl that I'm dating? 483 00:23:05,555 --> 00:23:07,432 Feel like you have a lot in common with her? 484 00:23:07,516 --> 00:23:09,476 Big on traveling, loves food. 485 00:23:09,559 --> 00:23:12,979 She's super supportive of, like, all of my hobbies which, I don't know, 486 00:23:13,063 --> 00:23:15,232 -I feel like opposed to Micah, you know? -Really? 487 00:23:15,315 --> 00:23:18,902 Like, I don't know. I feel like she... 488 00:23:18,985 --> 00:23:20,946 I feel like Micah tolerated my cooking. 489 00:23:21,029 --> 00:23:23,198 -[Elizabeth] Yeah. -This girl just loves it. 490 00:23:23,281 --> 00:23:26,076 -[Elizabeth] She pretty? -Yeah, very pretty. 491 00:23:26,159 --> 00:23:29,287 Yeah. Just, like, you and Micah was such a cute couple. 492 00:23:29,371 --> 00:23:30,330 [Paul] Yeah. 493 00:23:30,414 --> 00:23:33,583 That is tough, knowing that you still have love for somebody 494 00:23:33,667 --> 00:23:38,171 and still wanting to move forward with your life in a... 495 00:23:38,255 --> 00:23:40,632 In a direction, I guess, that's different. 496 00:23:40,715 --> 00:23:42,884 You both are friends and have been talking? 497 00:23:42,968 --> 00:23:45,262 Yeah, absolutely. I was talking to her today. 498 00:23:45,345 --> 00:23:47,139 Actually, that smells really good. 499 00:23:47,222 --> 00:23:48,807 -Does it? -Do you smell that? 500 00:23:50,475 --> 00:23:54,896 Mmm. Leave it on low. You know, so the onions and everything gets tender. 501 00:23:54,980 --> 00:23:58,442 -Wanna take a seat while this simmers? -Yeah, let's go sit down. 502 00:23:58,525 --> 00:24:01,570 It sounds generic, but I feel like the biggest change I've seen in myself 503 00:24:01,653 --> 00:24:04,364 might just be an emotional awareness. 504 00:24:04,448 --> 00:24:07,909 The experiment made me reflect on myself, you know, 505 00:24:07,993 --> 00:24:10,328 and before, it was never a priority. 506 00:24:10,412 --> 00:24:13,206 I think it's healthier to listen to how you're feeling. 507 00:24:13,290 --> 00:24:16,835 Yeah, so it... it was tough, though, like, dating Micah. 508 00:24:16,918 --> 00:24:20,172 Like, after the wedding, she had to go back to Arizona, 509 00:24:20,255 --> 00:24:23,633 and that was the first time that we had been apart since the pods. 510 00:24:23,717 --> 00:24:25,385 -Gosh. -And, uh... 511 00:24:25,469 --> 00:24:29,014 It was a weird shock. We were like, "Oh, this is gonna be hard." 512 00:24:29,097 --> 00:24:31,516 You felt like a married couple, I would guess. 513 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:32,976 Yeah, in a sense. 514 00:24:33,059 --> 00:24:36,104 But I went and visited her, I think, like, a long weekend. 515 00:24:36,188 --> 00:24:38,482 Went out and hung out. We had a great time. 516 00:24:38,565 --> 00:24:42,861 But pretty soon after that, Micah was just like, "I want to stop dating." 517 00:24:43,653 --> 00:24:46,615 And I think, for me, it... I wasn't quite ready 518 00:24:46,698 --> 00:24:48,909 at that point to give up on the relationship. 519 00:24:48,992 --> 00:24:51,745 Because I do believe that if you're in love with someone 520 00:24:51,828 --> 00:24:55,874 and it's like, that's your person, you should prioritize that above anything. 521 00:24:55,957 --> 00:24:59,336 Anyway, she wanted to call it quits and she was like, 522 00:24:59,419 --> 00:25:02,255 "Maybe we can date if we're in the same place again at some point." 523 00:25:02,339 --> 00:25:06,134 I'm just, like, thinking, "No, that's not how dating works." You know? 524 00:25:06,218 --> 00:25:08,386 You don't date only when it's convenient. 525 00:25:08,470 --> 00:25:10,931 Right. And then she moves back to Seattle. 526 00:25:11,014 --> 00:25:14,809 -Yeah, of course. Now she wants to date. -Timing is everything. Everything. 527 00:25:14,893 --> 00:25:17,229 -Oh, timing is everything. -Yeah. 528 00:25:17,312 --> 00:25:18,730 Micah's a beautiful girl. 529 00:25:18,813 --> 00:25:23,068 I'm sure she has her crème de la crème selection of men to date. 530 00:25:23,151 --> 00:25:25,570 -Mmm. -She couldn't be any more lovely. 531 00:25:26,238 --> 00:25:29,449 It was funny. That moment that you told me on the wedding day. 532 00:25:29,533 --> 00:25:32,494 You were just like, "Anything other than a 'yes' is a 'no.'" 533 00:25:32,577 --> 00:25:36,831 Um, and I think that maybe I had taken that, uh, 534 00:25:36,915 --> 00:25:38,917 Micah's "You first," as not a "yes." 535 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:40,460 Yeah! 536 00:25:40,544 --> 00:25:43,463 -So if Micah had said yes first... -Thinking to yourself... 537 00:25:43,547 --> 00:25:45,507 ...you don't think it would have changed your mind? 538 00:25:45,590 --> 00:25:49,511 Because going down the aisle, you were like shaking and trembling to your core, 539 00:25:49,594 --> 00:25:52,055 and you said, "Mom, I don't know what I'm saying." 540 00:25:52,138 --> 00:25:54,891 And moments before you were on the altar with her, 541 00:25:54,975 --> 00:25:56,476 -you were unsure. -Mmm-hm. 542 00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:59,020 Yeah. Like, looking back though, 543 00:25:59,104 --> 00:26:02,274 I don't know what that feels like to have somebody choosing you, 544 00:26:02,357 --> 00:26:05,402 affirming you, and saying yes, like, on the altar. 545 00:26:05,485 --> 00:26:10,031 So, I can't really speak to how I would have reacted if that had happened. 546 00:26:10,115 --> 00:26:11,616 Who knows? 547 00:26:11,700 --> 00:26:14,786 Just that "What if?", you know, kind of comes to mind. 548 00:26:14,869 --> 00:26:16,871 What if? You might have said yes. 549 00:26:18,373 --> 00:26:19,666 Yeah. 550 00:26:19,749 --> 00:26:23,211 I think, probably, if you showed up at her door, on bended knee, 551 00:26:23,295 --> 00:26:26,756 with flowers and chocolates, and begged and just said, 552 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,259 "I'll spend the rest of my life trying to get back with you." 553 00:26:29,342 --> 00:26:31,303 "Would you?" She probably would. 554 00:26:31,386 --> 00:26:33,388 This is my opinion. She didn't tell me that. 555 00:26:33,471 --> 00:26:37,225 I think that she would want to date me if I agreed to that. 556 00:26:38,184 --> 00:26:39,019 Yeah. 557 00:26:39,102 --> 00:26:41,354 If you did decide to, since she broke up with you, 558 00:26:41,438 --> 00:26:45,734 I will tell you this as some advice. Begging goes a long way. 559 00:26:50,905 --> 00:26:54,200 ♪ You make my heart go Boom, boom, boom ♪ 560 00:26:54,284 --> 00:26:57,912 ♪ I'm getting tunnel vision You're making me move ♪ 561 00:26:57,996 --> 00:27:03,209 {\an8}Oh, my God. This is giving! It is insane. 562 00:27:04,377 --> 00:27:08,089 And in every different lighting it's a... Now I don't see the purple anymore. 563 00:27:08,173 --> 00:27:11,676 I still see the purple over here. I see purple and green on this side... 564 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:13,720 You know what? It's a magic dress. 565 00:27:13,803 --> 00:27:16,806 Yeah, it really is. It's a... it's a really dope-ass dress. 566 00:27:16,890 --> 00:27:21,311 It's a magic dress. Okay, I'm excited for you to get in yours. 567 00:27:22,103 --> 00:27:24,939 [in sing-song voice] Let's go, let's go, let's go, let's go. 568 00:27:25,023 --> 00:27:27,651 One-year anniversary. 569 00:27:29,027 --> 00:27:32,864 {\an8}♪ Let me throw the suit pants on Yeah, yeah ♪ 570 00:27:33,698 --> 00:27:36,701 [Kwame] We're looking forward to celebrating with the other couples. 571 00:27:36,785 --> 00:27:40,914 I guess we haven't really got to celebrate an occasion with all three couples. 572 00:27:40,997 --> 00:27:42,999 We might never have been able to do that. 573 00:27:43,083 --> 00:27:44,209 No, we never have. 574 00:27:44,292 --> 00:27:45,919 -This is gonna be the first time. -Yeah. 575 00:27:46,002 --> 00:27:47,837 We were at each other's weddings. 576 00:27:47,921 --> 00:27:51,800 Zack and Bliss and Kwame and I celebrated our six-month anniversaries. 577 00:27:51,883 --> 00:27:54,469 We got cakes and everything. It was so adorable. 578 00:27:54,552 --> 00:27:55,470 Yeah. 579 00:27:55,553 --> 00:27:58,973 Tiff and Brett being in Portland, they weren't able to make it there. 580 00:27:59,057 --> 00:28:01,393 [Kwame] What do you think? This is how my pants look. 581 00:28:01,476 --> 00:28:02,686 Please take those socks off. 582 00:28:03,478 --> 00:28:06,815 I'll take the socks off. I... I... They will come off, okay? 583 00:28:06,898 --> 00:28:08,858 -Please. -The socks are not going with my outfit. 584 00:28:08,942 --> 00:28:12,320 -Please take them off. [laughs] -I will take them off, okay? 585 00:28:13,196 --> 00:28:15,573 No, that's kind of weird. Take off your shirt. 586 00:28:15,657 --> 00:28:19,869 Yeah. Like, I mean, I can take off my own shirt. I've been doing it for 33 years. 587 00:28:19,953 --> 00:28:23,331 I don't need to take your shirt off. I'd like you to take your shirt off. 588 00:28:23,415 --> 00:28:27,335 And I like to take it off you sometimes. Most times. Every day. 589 00:28:28,294 --> 00:28:31,214 Kwame's sway, Kwame's suave. 590 00:28:31,297 --> 00:28:34,217 [laughing] 591 00:28:34,300 --> 00:28:35,635 What? 592 00:28:35,719 --> 00:28:37,345 It's true. It's actually true. 593 00:28:37,429 --> 00:28:38,888 I do got swag though. I do. 594 00:28:38,972 --> 00:28:43,268 Oh, my God, Kwame Appiah for fucking president right now. 595 00:28:43,351 --> 00:28:45,687 -[chuckles] -Wow. 596 00:28:45,770 --> 00:28:47,355 I'm here to address the people. 597 00:28:47,439 --> 00:28:50,400 -[Chelsea] Address me, babe. Oh, my God. -[Kwame] Yeah? 598 00:28:52,485 --> 00:28:54,362 -I can address you? -You look so good. 599 00:28:57,991 --> 00:29:02,537 -♪ I know you've been waiting ♪ -♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 600 00:29:02,620 --> 00:29:07,375 -♪ On the edge of your seat ♪ -♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 601 00:29:07,459 --> 00:29:11,921 {\an8}-♪ Yeah, this is where I'll break it ♪ -♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 602 00:29:12,005 --> 00:29:14,924 -♪ Starting one, two, three ♪ -♪ One, two, three ♪ 603 00:29:15,008 --> 00:29:19,637 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ ♪ Get ready, get ready ♪ 604 00:29:19,721 --> 00:29:23,975 ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ ♪ Get ready, get ready ♪ 605 00:29:24,058 --> 00:29:26,853 Hi! Isn't this gorgeous? 606 00:29:26,936 --> 00:29:29,981 -You look like a Barbie. -This is so gorgeous. I love you. 607 00:29:30,064 --> 00:29:31,608 -I love you too. -How are you? 608 00:29:31,691 --> 00:29:34,903 {\an8}-Oh, look at them. Look at them. -[Bliss] Hi! The Browns. 609 00:29:34,986 --> 00:29:36,946 -What it do? -What's up, y'all? 610 00:29:37,030 --> 00:29:39,157 -Isn't this beautiful? -Gorgeous. 611 00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:40,992 -What up, man? -Zack. 612 00:29:41,075 --> 00:29:43,369 -Good to see you. -All this, with the full... 613 00:29:43,453 --> 00:29:46,873 I'm so excited to celebrate our one-year anniversary 614 00:29:46,956 --> 00:29:48,166 with the other couples. 615 00:29:48,249 --> 00:29:53,171 Like, those are our friends and, like, we lean on each other for support. 616 00:29:53,254 --> 00:29:56,424 I think, amongst the girls, we still, like, check ourselves. 617 00:29:56,508 --> 00:30:00,762 We're like, "Wait, did... did this really happen?" 618 00:30:00,845 --> 00:30:05,391 Like, we've truly just found our person. I found my person. I found my baby. 619 00:30:05,475 --> 00:30:07,644 -So did I. [chuckles] -Yeah. 620 00:30:07,727 --> 00:30:09,938 Who's gonna dig into the bread first? 621 00:30:10,021 --> 00:30:13,566 I ain't gonna wait 'cause I haven't eaten since, like, noon. 622 00:30:13,650 --> 00:30:14,734 [laughs] 623 00:30:14,818 --> 00:30:16,569 -[Kwame] The butter is good. -Yeah. 624 00:30:16,653 --> 00:30:18,154 -I love butter. -It's amazing. 625 00:30:18,238 --> 00:30:20,990 They gonna have to give me a to-go plate of this butter. 626 00:30:21,074 --> 00:30:23,743 Seriously. By the the fork... Spoonful. 627 00:30:23,827 --> 00:30:28,206 So, how does it feel to officially be married for one year? 628 00:30:28,289 --> 00:30:30,792 Do you feel like it's kind of gone pretty fast? 629 00:30:30,875 --> 00:30:33,461 I feel like it's been the longest shortest year ever 630 00:30:33,545 --> 00:30:36,506 because there's so much that has happened, we've done so much. 631 00:30:36,589 --> 00:30:39,592 -Mmm-hm. -[Bliss] But it also feels like yesterday. 632 00:30:39,676 --> 00:30:41,469 I feel like I've known him my whole life. 633 00:30:41,553 --> 00:30:44,347 I was thinking, when I was walking into our building the other day, 634 00:30:44,430 --> 00:30:45,974 that he's my best friend. 635 00:30:46,057 --> 00:30:50,103 And I am not so cheesy ever in my life until I've been with him. 636 00:30:50,186 --> 00:30:52,063 I love that for you. 637 00:30:52,146 --> 00:30:54,983 -I feel like it's gone by pretty fast too. -Yeah. 638 00:30:55,066 --> 00:30:59,946 Like, it feels... it feels good now. I think it's just the adjustment period. 639 00:31:00,029 --> 00:31:02,156 Just trying to get used to Portland. 640 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:03,992 I loved taking my walks in the morning. 641 00:31:04,075 --> 00:31:06,911 I used to go like right by Olympic Sculpture Park. 642 00:31:06,995 --> 00:31:08,496 -So beautiful. -[Tiffany] Yeah. 643 00:31:08,580 --> 00:31:09,414 [Bliss] Yeah. 644 00:31:09,497 --> 00:31:13,042 I miss those morning walks, but I found my new path. 645 00:31:13,126 --> 00:31:15,461 I don't think it's as beautiful as the water. 646 00:31:15,545 --> 00:31:19,215 -[Bliss] It's hard to beat the Sculp. -Yeah, it really is. But... 647 00:31:19,299 --> 00:31:22,302 Yeah, I think I've been settling into my routine, 648 00:31:22,385 --> 00:31:25,263 and I think he's been making it, like, pretty easy for me. 649 00:31:25,346 --> 00:31:27,682 -So it's going good. -I try. 650 00:31:27,765 --> 00:31:29,726 [Tiffany] Yeah. It's going good. 651 00:31:29,809 --> 00:31:30,935 [Kwame] Yeah. 652 00:31:31,019 --> 00:31:33,438 I think the... the person for you 653 00:31:33,521 --> 00:31:36,816 is the person that you can be your authentic self. 654 00:31:36,900 --> 00:31:40,862 And I'll literally break it down to like, you can be as weird as you want to be. 655 00:31:40,945 --> 00:31:42,697 -Yes. -And they love that about you. 656 00:31:42,780 --> 00:31:44,240 -[Bliss] Yes. -[laughs] 657 00:31:44,324 --> 00:31:46,993 Love isn't fun if it's not a little weird, you know? 658 00:31:47,076 --> 00:31:48,161 [Bliss] Exactly. 659 00:31:48,244 --> 00:31:52,373 It's cool to just be, like, yourself authentically and truly with your partner. 660 00:31:52,457 --> 00:31:54,500 -It's really awesome. -[Tiffany] Yeah. 661 00:31:54,584 --> 00:31:56,836 -How much does he sing at home? -I love you. 662 00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:58,296 Pretty often. Yeah. 663 00:31:58,379 --> 00:32:01,174 Or sing in general or to you? How much does Zack bust out a tune? 664 00:32:01,257 --> 00:32:04,260 I would say like every day there's some sort of singing. 665 00:32:04,344 --> 00:32:07,263 When he's happy or in a good mood, there's more singing. 666 00:32:07,347 --> 00:32:08,640 -Yeah. -[laughs] 667 00:32:08,723 --> 00:32:11,935 There were a couple one to two-hour serenade sessions. Yeah. 668 00:32:12,018 --> 00:32:13,519 One to two hours? 669 00:32:13,603 --> 00:32:14,479 [Zack] Yeah. 670 00:32:14,562 --> 00:32:17,565 [Bliss] I was so sleep-deprived, I was awake but not awake. 671 00:32:17,649 --> 00:32:20,568 He sings to the animals. It's very cute. They love it. 672 00:32:20,652 --> 00:32:23,321 -Blythe loves my singing. Yeah. -Yeah? 673 00:32:23,404 --> 00:32:24,530 Maybe more than I do. 674 00:32:24,614 --> 00:32:26,366 I thought you didn't have Blythe right now. 675 00:32:26,449 --> 00:32:28,201 No. When we go to visit her, he sings. 676 00:32:28,284 --> 00:32:30,703 She runs away from me 'cause she's mad that I left her. 677 00:32:30,787 --> 00:32:31,829 -Mmm. -[Bliss] Yeah. 678 00:32:31,913 --> 00:32:33,957 We're hoping to bring her back pretty soon. 679 00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:35,708 Next month after our honeymoon. 680 00:32:35,792 --> 00:32:37,126 [Zack] Tiff? 681 00:32:38,127 --> 00:32:40,296 -Got you. No. In, on the tooth. -You got a little... 682 00:32:40,380 --> 00:32:41,297 Mmm. Uh... 683 00:32:41,381 --> 00:32:43,049 -I got you. -Nope. 684 00:32:43,132 --> 00:32:44,968 [laughter] 685 00:32:45,051 --> 00:32:47,178 -I got you. -Thank you. 686 00:32:47,261 --> 00:32:49,389 If I would've left it there the whole talk... 687 00:32:49,472 --> 00:32:51,182 That's what friendship looks like. 688 00:32:51,265 --> 00:32:54,519 You looked out for her, and then hubby stepped in to get it. 689 00:32:54,602 --> 00:32:58,523 I think, for me, the best part about married life 690 00:32:58,606 --> 00:33:01,943 is just having somebody that understands me. 691 00:33:02,026 --> 00:33:04,070 I know that he's not going to judge me, 692 00:33:04,153 --> 00:33:07,490 even when I'm like questioning or doubting myself he's like that... 693 00:33:08,282 --> 00:33:12,620 he's that reassurance for me, and I think that is beautiful. 694 00:33:12,704 --> 00:33:16,666 I've always just wanted, like, that personal time with Brett. 695 00:33:16,749 --> 00:33:21,546 Like, taking our actual first honeymoon and, like, completely disconnecting. 696 00:33:21,629 --> 00:33:26,300 He surprised me with a dinner on the beach and, like, I'm just like, 697 00:33:26,384 --> 00:33:30,304 "Oh, baby, look at the stars. Like, let's stay out here the entire night." 698 00:33:30,388 --> 00:33:33,516 And hearing the waves crash, like, it was a magical moment. 699 00:33:33,599 --> 00:33:37,437 That was the first one that we did that was just us. 700 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,772 I say next to that, turns out she had booked 701 00:33:39,856 --> 00:33:42,400 the trip to Cartagena, Colombia, which was great. 702 00:33:42,483 --> 00:33:44,444 -[Bliss] He didn't know? -[Brett] Yeah. 703 00:33:44,527 --> 00:33:46,738 -[Tiffany] It was a surprise. -[Bliss] Tiff! 704 00:33:46,821 --> 00:33:48,781 I wanted to see how spontaneous he could be. 705 00:33:48,865 --> 00:33:51,117 -That is cool. -The great thing about it is, 706 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:54,412 I've never had somebody take me on a trip, you know, so... 707 00:33:55,038 --> 00:33:57,248 -That was great. Thank you. -Got you, babe. 708 00:33:57,331 --> 00:33:59,625 [laughing] 709 00:33:59,709 --> 00:34:03,713 I will say, Kwame and I have not done an extensive amount of traveling yet. 710 00:34:03,796 --> 00:34:06,007 Uh, we haven't been granted the opportunity 711 00:34:06,090 --> 00:34:09,052 with my schedule and work, um, and our life. 712 00:34:09,135 --> 00:34:11,763 And I just want to kind of acknowledge the sacrifice 713 00:34:11,846 --> 00:34:16,350 that my husband has made for that, because that was a big part of your life. 714 00:34:17,310 --> 00:34:19,645 And I don't think, when we got together, 715 00:34:19,729 --> 00:34:23,357 that I really realized the sacrifice you were making for me, and for us. 716 00:34:24,317 --> 00:34:26,486 I sit here and I listen to all the stories, 717 00:34:26,569 --> 00:34:29,697 like, it makes me sad that we haven't gotten to do that yet. 718 00:34:30,239 --> 00:34:31,074 Yeah. 719 00:34:31,157 --> 00:34:33,534 But I know our time is coming to do that stuff, 720 00:34:33,618 --> 00:34:36,120 and I want to see the world with you, 721 00:34:36,204 --> 00:34:38,998 and I'm so proud of, like, how far we've come this year. 722 00:34:39,082 --> 00:34:40,792 [exhales] God. 723 00:34:41,793 --> 00:34:43,169 -We're proud of you. -Yeah. 724 00:34:43,252 --> 00:34:44,128 Love you. 725 00:34:45,379 --> 00:34:49,842 I think initially in our marriage, Kwame tried to explain to me about 726 00:34:49,926 --> 00:34:51,552 his travels and his lifestyle. 727 00:34:51,636 --> 00:34:57,225 I don't think I was fully able to, like, immerse myself in the sacrifice. 728 00:34:58,142 --> 00:35:00,186 I always, like, envisioned this... 729 00:35:00,853 --> 00:35:04,190 this lifestyle of just like being with my partner 730 00:35:04,273 --> 00:35:06,025 and, like, traveling the world and... 731 00:35:06,109 --> 00:35:10,363 There is a question that does come up because right now we have Rocky, right? 732 00:35:10,446 --> 00:35:12,865 That doesn't make things easy to get up and go. 733 00:35:12,949 --> 00:35:17,286 You also have your job which, you... you know, you have in Seattle. 734 00:35:17,370 --> 00:35:21,582 And... and don't have the same flexibility that I have. 735 00:35:21,666 --> 00:35:26,045 It seems to be like you're leaving a part of yourself behind 736 00:35:26,129 --> 00:35:30,508 or you're sad to, like, see that lifestyle go. 737 00:35:30,591 --> 00:35:31,801 But I am compromising. 738 00:35:32,885 --> 00:35:37,723 And so, to a degree, I feel almost, like, a little bit guilty 739 00:35:37,807 --> 00:35:40,768 that I'm not able to, like, provide that for him. 740 00:35:40,852 --> 00:35:44,605 I don't think I'm missing out on anything. There's no timeline on it. 741 00:35:45,106 --> 00:35:48,776 But I do think that I'm excited and ready 742 00:35:48,860 --> 00:35:53,739 to start experiencing more, um, with... with Chelsea. 743 00:35:53,823 --> 00:35:57,743 I think I got into marriage, um, 744 00:35:57,827 --> 00:36:01,581 I don't know, I mean, possibly slightly naïvely. 745 00:36:01,664 --> 00:36:02,540 Yeah. 746 00:36:02,623 --> 00:36:05,418 And not in a bad way, but I was like so optimistic. 747 00:36:05,501 --> 00:36:06,711 [Bliss] Mmm-hm. 748 00:36:06,794 --> 00:36:10,965 And I think... And I don't say it's necessarily harder, 749 00:36:11,048 --> 00:36:14,427 but it's like deeper and it's more moving to me, 750 00:36:14,510 --> 00:36:16,512 and it's challenging, it challenges me. 751 00:36:16,596 --> 00:36:19,849 But Kwame challenges me, and it is amazing and it makes me better. 752 00:36:19,932 --> 00:36:25,563 But marriage is more, like, real and, like, true and there's just more... 753 00:36:25,646 --> 00:36:28,566 It's more exquisite, it's more detailed than I thought. 754 00:36:28,649 --> 00:36:31,611 -Yeah. -You guys have plans for next weekend? 755 00:36:31,694 --> 00:36:34,197 -What are we doing next weekend? -My birthday weekend. 756 00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,199 -It's her birthday weekend. -Birthday weekend. 757 00:36:36,282 --> 00:36:38,075 Should we have another wine party? 758 00:36:38,159 --> 00:36:40,786 [Zack] We definitely should go celebrate Chelsea. 759 00:36:40,870 --> 00:36:42,955 And Bliss and I have been talking. 760 00:36:43,039 --> 00:36:46,542 We talked about our fantasy football league that we were all in. 761 00:36:46,626 --> 00:36:49,170 And, uh, we kind of thought that maybe we could 762 00:36:49,253 --> 00:36:51,172 put together a fantasy football game, 763 00:36:51,255 --> 00:36:53,257 like with actual players. 764 00:36:53,341 --> 00:36:54,175 [chuckles] 765 00:36:54,258 --> 00:36:56,427 We want to bring in everybody. 766 00:36:56,510 --> 00:36:59,388 So we would put together two teams, 767 00:36:59,472 --> 00:37:02,558 but I think there's still a lot of tension between people. 768 00:37:02,642 --> 00:37:06,479 So what, Marshall is QB and Jackie's the wide receiver? 769 00:37:06,562 --> 00:37:09,440 -Well, so... -[laughter] 770 00:37:09,523 --> 00:37:12,693 I see this scenario. Jackie's a defender, Marshall's a receiver. 771 00:37:12,777 --> 00:37:16,656 They're gonna be at the line. She's gonna be like, "Boss up, boss up, Marshall!" 772 00:37:16,739 --> 00:37:18,991 -[Brett] "Boss up!" -[laughter] 773 00:37:19,075 --> 00:37:21,452 -Probably. -[Kwame] Oh, man. 774 00:37:21,535 --> 00:37:24,538 I tell you one thing else, this man is gonna be shirtless. 775 00:37:24,622 --> 00:37:26,249 [laughter] 776 00:37:26,332 --> 00:37:29,669 -[Bliss] Give the people what they want. -[laughter] 777 00:37:29,752 --> 00:37:32,505 -All right, joke's over. I'm done. -[Bliss] Oh, my God. 778 00:37:32,588 --> 00:37:36,008 We want to... All jokes aside... And it's supposed to be fun, right? 779 00:37:36,092 --> 00:37:37,927 -It's supposed to be bonding. -Yeah. 780 00:37:38,010 --> 00:37:42,306 We can all just move on and agree to let the past be in the past. 781 00:37:42,390 --> 00:37:43,224 Yeah. 782 00:37:43,307 --> 00:37:45,810 I'm so hopeful about that. I really am. 783 00:37:45,893 --> 00:37:46,811 My sweet thing. 784 00:37:46,894 --> 00:37:49,313 It can create an environment where you're like, 785 00:37:49,397 --> 00:37:53,401 "For real, let's talk about the game. Good pass, good play." It opens it up. 786 00:37:53,484 --> 00:37:55,695 -Yeah. -It forces you to support each other. 787 00:37:56,279 --> 00:37:58,322 But we also have to remember, like, 788 00:37:58,406 --> 00:38:01,784 we can't force anyone to take a higher path, 789 00:38:01,867 --> 00:38:05,621 and I think we all have to know and feel okay 790 00:38:05,705 --> 00:38:08,165 -if that doesn't happen for some people. -Exactly. 791 00:38:08,249 --> 00:38:09,417 [Bliss] We just don't know. 792 00:38:09,917 --> 00:38:13,713 ♪ There are monsters ♪ 793 00:38:15,047 --> 00:38:18,801 ♪ There are monsters ♪ 794 00:38:20,177 --> 00:38:23,848 ♪ There are monsters ♪ 795 00:38:25,516 --> 00:38:29,478 ♪ In the shadows ♪ 796 00:38:34,608 --> 00:38:38,904 ♪ There are monsters ♪ 797 00:38:39,572 --> 00:38:43,284 ♪ There are monsters ♪ 798 00:38:45,036 --> 00:38:49,123 ♪ In the shadows ♪ 799 00:38:49,206 --> 00:38:51,292 ♪ In the shadows ♪