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‪(前情提要)

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‪这样再好不过了 我爱你

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‪我也爱你

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‪-早上好
‪-嗨

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‪你喜欢我!

6
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‪-我对这段感情毫无疑虑 我爱你
‪-我也爱你 蒂芬妮

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‪美乐 你是我这辈子寻寻觅觅的人

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‪你愿意嫁给我吗?

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‪我愿意

10
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‪我和扎克订婚了

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‪我内心深处知道就是他了

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‪一旦遇见 就是一眼万年

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‪我很爱你
‪但那种当备胎的感觉还是很难排遣

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‪我需要时间

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‪我并没有牺牲我想要的生活
‪我只是妥协

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‪欢迎加入婚姻生活

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‪-好的
‪-你到底想不想安定下来?

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‪你值得拥于此生最美好的婚礼

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‪但这段感情不值得

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‪这段感情不值得

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‪你那晚不想坐下好好说话
‪还一走了之

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‪那你要我怎么做?

23
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‪把情绪吞下去
‪睡在一个说我“不够男人”的人身边?

24
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‪我们都不做爱

25
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‪看到自己真心在乎的人跟别人在一起
‪感觉怪怪的

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‪-你自以为很帅
‪-你选了一个神级的爱哭鬼

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‪如果你打算走上婚礼的圣坛
‪对着马歇尔说:“我愿意”

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‪那随你去 我懒理

29
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‪但如果无法将心比心
‪你真要嫁给对方吗?

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‪选我吧

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{\an8}‪(距离婚礼剩下十天)

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{\an8}‪好在大家都喜欢我的鞋
‪没什么比这点来得重要了

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‪我爱杰奎

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‪我这辈子从没这么笃定过

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‪我和杰奎是天作之合
‪这点无庸置疑

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‪我们走到这种地步
‪我感到很惊讶、很意外

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{\an8}‪心好痛

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{\an8}‪(马歇尔 26岁 市场营销经理)

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‪我对我人生中所做的一切决定
‪都坚定不移

40
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‪我是怎么从坚定不移
‪变得犹豫不决?

41
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‪变得晦涩不明?

42
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‪要不要喝点什么?喝不喝水?

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‪好啊 我要喝水

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‪我好累

45
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‪今天累坏了

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‪你感觉怎么样?

47
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‪今晚看到所有人...

48
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‪我要你跟我说个明明白白

49
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‪你要我怎么做
‪让我知道接下来该怎么走 就这样

50
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‪天啊 我不想再聊这个话题了

51
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‪马歇尔 我的脑筋已经动不了了

52
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‪况且都快半夜了

53
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‪明天再聊 好吗?

54
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‪那就依你的吧

55
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‪你没有不好 我没期待你为我做什么

56
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‪我觉得你做得很好了

57
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‪我有一个很大的疑问

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‪是因为我吗?

59
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‪有没有可能那个疑问来自你的内心?

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‪是因为你

61
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‪我以为我们没事了
‪我以为我们后来和好了

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‪你的眼睛真好看

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‪谢谢

64
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‪布雷特刚刚劝了我几句
‪我不知道这些话对我有没有用

65
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‪是时候保护好...

66
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‪是时候保护好我的情感
‪而不是一味顾着你的心情

67
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‪而美化一切或裹足不前

68
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‪说得太对了

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‪告诉我你需要我做什么
‪别再让我整晚猜测你的心思

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‪醒来后也在猜测你的心思
‪我还没起床你就走了

71
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‪但我走了以后都会回来

72
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‪但这并不意味着
‪我整天都没在思考我们的事儿

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‪我今天心情忐忐忑忑的

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‪我今天跟人聊得很激动

75
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‪压根搞不清楚状况

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‪我只想上床睡觉

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‪我跟你一样累

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‪我明天要去办公室一趟
‪我要跑雷德蒙德一趟

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‪-我们都好好的
‪-我们明明就有问题

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‪我要知道你到底想要什么
‪我才能放下心头大石

81
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‪我当初就是说出我想要什么
‪你才离开的

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‪-可是...
‪-我不想再说了

83
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‪那你举几个例子吧

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‪天啊 都大半夜了 我想不到例子

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‪马歇尔

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‪我觉得你是好男人
‪你是个很贴心的人

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‪我只要你好好爱我

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‪好好爱我就可以了

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‪片名:爱情盲选

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{\an8}‪(距离婚期剩下九天)

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‪-能让我瞧瞧你的戒指吗?
‪-好啊

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{\an8}‪-太美了
‪-有时我都忘记我戴着戒指

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{\an8}‪告诉美乐我的成长过程

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{\an8}‪以及我的家庭背景是一回事

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{\an8}‪安排她和我家人见面则是另一回事

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‪我很重视家人 也很重视她

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‪人生来到尾声 躺在病榻上那一刻

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‪围绕在身边的只剩家人

99
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{\an8}‪这是什么时候拍的?

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{\an8}‪照片上的人是扎克和我们妈妈
‪是在妈妈的婚礼上拍的

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‪瞧他多可爱

102
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‪这是法学院的毕业照

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‪你看起来好开心
‪仿佛在说:“我终于毕业了”

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‪这正是我当时的心情

105
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‪你们前来支持他 真是太好了
‪这对我们的意义十分重大

106
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‪-是啊
‪-他有哪一点吸引你?

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{\an8}‪-我可能知道...
‪-该从哪里说起呢?

108
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{\an8}‪但我还是想知道

109
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{\an8}‪天啊 有很多原因 他非常聪明

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{\an8}‪很乐意付出

111
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‪他给我带来很大的鼓励

112
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‪做出某些决定需要很多毅力

113
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{\an8}‪毕竟选择另一条路更轻松

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{\an8}‪我爸也有过类似的童年成长经历

115
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‪他也选择了走不同的路 十分不容易

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‪我内心深处对他十分钦佩

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‪他大可走其他不同的路

118
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‪但他总是选择往高尚的路走
‪也总是选择先照顾别人

119
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‪我为他感到十分骄傲

120
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{\an8}‪我认为人碰上苦难时
‪才能显露出真性情

121
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‪才能显露出真实的自己

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‪他对很多事都抱持开明的态度

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‪为人也非常诚恳 我信得过他

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‪我很重视婚姻和承诺

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{\an8}‪人们常说:“感觉对了就对了”

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‪跟一个可以让我们
‪完全做自己的人在一起

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‪是一件很美好的事

128
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‪这种体验我从没有过

129
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‪真的 我非常爱他 也尊重他这个人

130
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‪我从没遇过像他这样的人

131
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‪-我喜欢她
‪-我也是

132
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‪我认为你们很般配

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‪看到你们在一起
‪再看看他的眼神 他的眼神说明一切

134
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‪你们看起来很幸福

135
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‪是啊

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{\an8}‪很时尚

137
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{\an8}‪什么?

138
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{\an8}‪我是指这件背心

139
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‪这件吗?

140
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‪我好喜欢这些长裤 非常喜欢

141
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{\an8}‪我两件都要了

142
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‪我也想试试骑行短裤

143
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‪亲爱的 类似短裤你有太多了

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‪-你还要...
‪-夸米 你也很喜欢收藏衣服啊

145
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‪-她应该试试那条骑行短裤
‪-还用说吗?

146
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‪好吧

147
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{\an8}‪(切尔西 30岁 儿童语言治疗师)

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‪今早一觉醒来

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‪我跟切尔西说的第一句话是:
‪“你还好吗?怎么了?”

150
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‪她的回应是:“我的语气好不好?
‪我看起来好不好?”

151
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‪感觉像在跟我对抗一样
‪我的心情也莫名其妙地受到影响

152
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‪毕竟这种情况已经不是第一次了

153
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‪我试着好好对她 但是突然之间

154
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‪我觉得自己变成了那个坏人
‪变成了破坏她早晨的那个人

155
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‪感觉上...

156
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‪很难受

157
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‪-好了
‪-好看

158
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‪我想再买一件

159
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‪好吧 随便你 去吧

160
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‪你说店里的气温还会升高吗?

161
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‪会还是不会?

162
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‪-不会
‪-好吧

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‪-跟你在一起很开心
‪-是吗?

164
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‪-真的
‪-那就好

165
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‪-好了 一会儿见
‪-回头见

166
00:10:07,815 --> 00:10:10,026
‪这是婚前的最后紧要关头

167
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‪我的压力很大

168
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‪我试着找出可以独处的时间
‪但无论到哪里 都是她的空间

169
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‪这种情况有时会令人感到窒息

170
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‪这个造型很强烈

171
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‪说“好看”不就得了?

172
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‪-怎么了?
‪-造型很强烈?不懂什么意思

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‪-意思是好看
‪-我喜欢这个造型

174
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‪我喜欢这种吊带设计

175
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‪那下次我说“好看”就可以了

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‪-对不起
‪-逗你的

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‪我只能用我熟悉的方式赞美你

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‪不要紧的 等一下

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‪-好吧
‪-草莓还没吃完呢

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‪马上回来

181
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‪-要喂我吃草莓吗?
‪-好的

182
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‪说说你有多爱我

183
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‪-吃吧
‪-好的

184
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‪要我喂你吃一颗吗?

185
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‪亲爱的 我吃够了 不吃了

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‪好吧

187
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‪你吃过了?还没吃过?

188
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‪-我吃过了
‪-趁我不在时吃了?

189
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‪你每次走回试衣间我都吃一颗

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‪对不起

191
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‪-不要紧的
‪-也对

192
00:11:22,848 --> 00:11:24,558
‪为什么还要再等一个星期?

193
00:11:26,769 --> 00:11:28,396
‪-我也有同感
‪-我真想马上结婚

194
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‪可是 实话实说

195
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‪今天早上我们相处得很糟糕

196
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‪-别笑了
‪-对不起 看到你就想笑

197
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‪我想要跟你认真聊聊

198
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‪我知道 我理解
‪对不起 我也不知道为什么笑出来

199
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‪-我也是
‪-你太可爱了

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00:11:50,334 --> 00:11:52,336
‪我不能直视你的脸

201
00:11:53,045 --> 00:11:55,464
‪-好吧
‪-好的 我认真起来了

202
00:11:55,464 --> 00:11:57,425
‪好吧 是这样的

203
00:11:58,217 --> 00:12:00,219
‪今早 我们一觉醒来

204
00:12:00,219 --> 00:12:03,389
‪你心情不好
‪我也明显感受到你心情不好

205
00:12:03,389 --> 00:12:05,349
‪于是我问你:“怎么了?

206
00:12:06,809 --> 00:12:08,060
‪你还好吗?”

207
00:12:08,853 --> 00:12:11,480
‪-你当时是怎么回应的?
‪-不知道

208
00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:20,322
‪你的回应是:“我的语气不好吗?”
‪你认为这种行为是对的吗?

209
00:12:20,322 --> 00:12:24,118
‪你没想到你说的话是有分量的
‪你想到什么就说什么

210
00:12:24,118 --> 00:12:27,705
‪我并没有冲着你去
‪我只是压力很大 感到心烦气躁

211
00:12:27,705 --> 00:12:29,540
‪我当时是想帮你放松

212
00:12:29,540 --> 00:12:33,335
‪你想拿我出气吗?
‪那我也拿你出气看看

213
00:12:33,335 --> 00:12:34,503
‪-好啊
‪-那你准备好了

214
00:12:34,503 --> 00:12:36,088
‪好啊 来吧

215
00:12:38,924 --> 00:12:40,301
‪-来吧
‪-你这样不对

216
00:12:40,301 --> 00:12:41,761
‪没考虑到彼此的感受

217
00:12:42,470 --> 00:12:45,723
‪我理解你的意思
‪但你没必要在鸡蛋里挑骨头

218
00:12:45,723 --> 00:12:49,310
‪我没在鸡蛋里挑骨头
‪我只是指出你待人处事的态度

219
00:12:49,310 --> 00:12:53,230
‪指出你回应对话的方式
‪指出你说话像在找茬儿的方式

220
00:12:53,230 --> 00:12:58,027
‪你总是让人觉得你想找茬儿

221
00:13:00,821 --> 00:13:01,906
‪我只是有话直说

222
00:13:02,406 --> 00:13:06,118
‪我只是不想隐隐藏藏
‪我不会把心情压抑下去

223
00:13:06,118 --> 00:13:07,953
‪这不是我会做的事

224
00:13:07,953 --> 00:13:10,706
‪说话直接和找茬儿是两回事

225
00:13:11,332 --> 00:13:13,834
‪“我看起来不好吗?
‪我的语气不好吗?”

226
00:13:13,834 --> 00:13:17,922
‪这不叫直接 这叫找茬儿

227
00:13:29,725 --> 00:13:30,559
‪我很努力了

228
00:13:31,560 --> 00:13:33,562
‪-我很努力了
‪-我知道你很努力了

229
00:13:33,562 --> 00:13:36,232
‪现阶段 我压根没有喘息的空间

230
00:13:36,232 --> 00:13:40,486
‪没有可以让我藏起来独处的空间

231
00:13:40,986 --> 00:13:42,446
‪我没有喘息的空间

232
00:13:43,072 --> 00:13:46,575
‪你有喘息的空间
‪你压力大可以去找你妈聊天

233
00:13:46,575 --> 00:13:48,118
‪可以跟洛奇玩

234
00:13:48,118 --> 00:13:50,996
‪这些事儿都能让你恢复元气

235
00:13:51,497 --> 00:13:54,208
‪我没有任何帮助我恢复元气的东西

236
00:13:54,917 --> 00:13:55,835
‪压根没有

237
00:13:55,835 --> 00:13:58,379
‪难道要我开车三个小时回到波特兰

238
00:13:58,379 --> 00:14:01,882
‪回到自己床上躺一躺、深呼吸
‪然后再开车回来吗?

239
00:14:03,634 --> 00:14:04,468
‪好吧

240
00:14:06,762 --> 00:14:08,097
‪我也希望你可以回去歇歇

241
00:14:14,728 --> 00:14:17,606
‪很不容易 想到我要放弃一切

242
00:14:17,606 --> 00:14:20,818
‪我答应你要放弃一切

243
00:14:20,818 --> 00:14:22,862
‪放弃波特兰 放弃过往

244
00:14:22,862 --> 00:14:24,321
‪这些我都不介意放弃

245
00:14:24,321 --> 00:14:27,116
‪因为我知道
‪你会给我更多幸福来弥补一切

246
00:14:27,741 --> 00:14:31,662
‪但过去几天
‪我们都相处得不开心 压力也很大

247
00:14:31,662 --> 00:14:32,997
‪对 没错

248
00:14:41,672 --> 00:14:44,425
‪现阶段 我们更需要互相扶持

249
00:14:53,726 --> 00:14:57,605
‪我知道我们会吵架起口角
‪我知道我们会面对挑战

250
00:14:59,732 --> 00:15:03,569
‪我只希望我们能让彼此心安
‪我没有别的要求

251
00:15:04,069 --> 00:15:07,489
‪我只希望你能让我心安
‪现阶段 我们都忐忐忑忑的

252
00:15:09,658 --> 00:15:11,869
‪站在婚礼的圣坛上时

253
00:15:11,869 --> 00:15:16,624
‪我们要坚信彼此愿意走下去
‪愿意一起设法解决问题

254
00:15:17,124 --> 00:15:18,334
‪每天都要这样

255
00:15:18,334 --> 00:15:20,502
‪这不是在改变原来的我们

256
00:15:21,128 --> 00:15:24,298
‪我爱你如是 我相信你也爱我如是

257
00:15:24,882 --> 00:15:26,634
‪是啊 我爱你如是

258
00:15:29,011 --> 00:15:30,054
‪只是...

259
00:15:30,846 --> 00:15:32,598
‪婚期很快就到了

260
00:15:36,101 --> 00:15:40,606
‪到时你有没有信心说“我愿意”?

261
00:15:40,606 --> 00:15:43,067
‪亲爱的

262
00:15:43,067 --> 00:15:45,110
‪到时你愿不愿意跟我结婚?

263
00:15:49,990 --> 00:15:53,452
‪我愿意 如果不愿意
‪早就离开这项实验了

264
00:16:08,092 --> 00:16:12,012
{\an8}‪他跟我们说了你很多好话
‪所以很期待见到你本人

265
00:16:12,012 --> 00:16:13,263
‪-好的
‪-真的

266
00:16:14,098 --> 00:16:19,645
{\an8}‪布雷特打来跟我说:
‪“我找到真爱了 我要结婚了”

267
00:16:20,270 --> 00:16:21,814
{\an8}‪我的反应是:“什么?”

268
00:16:21,814 --> 00:16:26,527
{\an8}‪你消失了一个月 回来后已经订婚了

269
00:16:26,527 --> 00:16:27,820
‪究竟怎么回事?

270
00:16:27,820 --> 00:16:31,323
‪是什么原因让你们决定要结婚的?

271
00:16:31,323 --> 00:16:32,700
‪结婚可是人生一大改变

272
00:16:33,367 --> 00:16:38,038
‪我有很多个约会经验
‪却从来没感觉过

273
00:16:38,038 --> 00:16:43,293
‪眼前跟我聊天的女人
‪是真心想要好好理解我

274
00:16:43,293 --> 00:16:46,880
‪不只是理解我 而且还愿意说

275
00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:48,966
‪“我想成为你的精神支柱

276
00:16:48,966 --> 00:16:52,302
‪想继续帮助你成为更好的人”

277
00:16:52,302 --> 00:16:56,181
{\an8}‪跟布雷特在一起 我可以畅所欲言

278
00:16:56,181 --> 00:17:01,145
‪我们会聊到家庭、理财和历史
‪他不会阻碍我做自己

279
00:17:01,145 --> 00:17:03,772
‪我跟不少人约会过

280
00:17:03,772 --> 00:17:06,608
‪我知道自己想要什么

281
00:17:06,608 --> 00:17:10,487
‪我需要一个理解什么是吃苦

282
00:17:10,487 --> 00:17:15,117
‪却不容易自满的人
‪这种人会不断努力上进

283
00:17:15,117 --> 00:17:19,413
‪精进不休 他在我眼中就是这种人

284
00:17:19,413 --> 00:17:23,500
‪我是那种会敦促自己努力精进的人

285
00:17:23,500 --> 00:17:26,295
‪-我需要一个志向相同的男人
‪-他就是这种人

286
00:17:26,295 --> 00:17:27,796
‪-这是一定的
‪-是啊

287
00:17:27,796 --> 00:17:30,257
‪跟她聊得越多

288
00:17:30,257 --> 00:17:36,889
‪我就意识到她是个性情真实
‪善解人意、对人体贴的人

289
00:17:36,889 --> 00:17:39,725
‪聊到家庭时...

290
00:17:39,725 --> 00:17:41,727
{\an8}‪我是很重视家庭的人

291
00:17:41,727 --> 00:17:45,814
{\an8}‪我有过几个交往对象 可是论家庭

292
00:17:46,315 --> 00:17:50,569
‪她们只看到我当下的成就
‪对我的家庭背景一无所知

293
00:17:50,569 --> 00:17:54,907
‪得知我的家庭背景后
‪她们就会去论断我的家人

294
00:17:54,907 --> 00:17:57,993
‪却论断他们的决定和行为

295
00:17:58,619 --> 00:18:01,622
‪如果我要邀请一个对象进入我的生活

296
00:18:01,622 --> 00:18:06,335
‪这个人必须理解我的来历

297
00:18:06,835 --> 00:18:11,799
‪也要支持我的家人 对吧?
‪她给我的就是这种印象

298
00:18:11,799 --> 00:18:16,470
‪我跟她分享我的感受
‪过程中卸下了心防

299
00:18:16,470 --> 00:18:20,432
‪我可以看到有你的未来

300
00:18:20,432 --> 00:18:24,645
‪我从小到大都有很多恐惧

301
00:18:25,145 --> 00:18:28,524
‪这些恐惧我以前都没意识到

302
00:18:28,524 --> 00:18:31,944
‪直到你出现以后
‪直到认识你以后 我才意识到的

303
00:18:33,195 --> 00:18:34,029
‪所以...

304
00:18:34,863 --> 00:18:37,449
‪我不想越说越激动

305
00:18:37,449 --> 00:18:41,787
‪只是想到家庭

306
00:18:41,787 --> 00:18:45,541
‪结婚就等于开枝散叶 对吧?

307
00:18:45,541 --> 00:18:48,377
‪还要考虑到我们俩处在什么人生阶段

308
00:18:48,377 --> 00:18:51,421
‪考虑到我们的志向
‪加上她是黑人女性 懂吗?

309
00:18:51,421 --> 00:18:52,965
‪-这点是很重要的
‪-没错

310
00:18:52,965 --> 00:18:56,009
‪我家人前几代都活在穷困中
‪这点不容忽视

311
00:18:56,510 --> 00:19:02,683
‪我希望能够
‪跟一个同样努力和专注的人在一起

312
00:19:02,683 --> 00:19:07,020
‪我们可以一起成长 一起展开新生活

313
00:19:07,020 --> 00:19:09,731
‪有了孩子后
‪他们也能追求自己的成就

314
00:19:09,731 --> 00:19:11,859
‪我们也能为他们提供
‪我以前没有的资源

315
00:19:14,444 --> 00:19:16,905
‪她很出色 非常了不起

316
00:19:17,781 --> 00:19:19,783
‪要为这点干杯吗?一定要的

317
00:19:19,783 --> 00:19:21,535
‪我还觉得第一点...

318
00:19:23,245 --> 00:19:24,454
‪很棒

319
00:19:24,454 --> 00:19:25,664
‪-天啊
‪-干杯

320
00:19:25,664 --> 00:19:27,583
‪-很棒
‪-谢谢

321
00:19:27,583 --> 00:19:30,544
‪感觉上你们是真爱
‪我为你们感到很开心

322
00:19:30,544 --> 00:19:32,629
‪我对这段感情充满信心

323
00:19:32,629 --> 00:19:34,673
‪我观察到你望着布雷特的眼神

324
00:19:34,673 --> 00:19:38,719
‪也观察到布雷特望着蒂芬妮的眼神
‪整个画面很美好

325
00:19:39,303 --> 00:19:44,224
‪说是一回事
‪但行动比言语更能说明一切

326
00:19:44,224 --> 00:19:46,602
‪你们望着彼此的神情让人感触满满

327
00:19:46,602 --> 00:19:50,272
‪看到一对黑人情侣走在一起
‪也是一件美事

328
00:19:50,856 --> 00:19:52,649
‪你们快把我惹哭了

329
00:19:52,649 --> 00:19:55,194
‪-要为这事干杯
‪-喜极而泣

330
00:20:10,209 --> 00:20:14,546
{\an8}‪(距离婚期剩下八天)

331
00:20:15,797 --> 00:20:16,798
{\an8}‪这是我买来送你的

332
00:20:18,050 --> 00:20:20,344
{\an8}‪-天啊 谢谢
‪-给你买了一些花

333
00:20:20,344 --> 00:20:22,679
{\an8}‪你真可爱 花好美

334
00:20:22,679 --> 00:20:24,932
‪婚期很快就到了

335
00:20:24,932 --> 00:20:27,768
{\an8}‪随着婚期越来越近
‪一切都变得更确切、更真实起来

336
00:20:27,768 --> 00:20:31,688
‪我们最近都在应付很多变化
‪像是面对刚认识的人

337
00:20:31,688 --> 00:20:35,484
‪去见家人、去见朋友
‪这么说吧 不容易啊

338
00:20:35,484 --> 00:20:37,402
‪好漂亮 我从没来过这里

339
00:20:37,402 --> 00:20:38,445
‪我也没来过

340
00:20:38,445 --> 00:20:43,617
‪但我知道我是爱她的
‪我希望蜜卡知道我的心意

341
00:20:45,327 --> 00:20:47,746
{\an8}‪很期待你妈回到城里来

342
00:20:47,746 --> 00:20:49,748
‪-是吗?
‪-我好喜欢她 我们常通短信

343
00:20:49,748 --> 00:20:51,500
‪-完了
‪-她想知道所有消息

344
00:20:51,500 --> 00:20:53,126
‪-真的吗?
‪-是的

345
00:20:53,126 --> 00:20:54,127
‪她说什么?

346
00:20:54,127 --> 00:20:57,297
‪她在挑选婚礼穿的礼服 要我给意见

347
00:20:57,297 --> 00:20:59,216
‪她也想知道我妈怎么穿

348
00:21:00,092 --> 00:21:01,426
‪-是拌菜吗?
‪-是的

349
00:21:02,761 --> 00:21:04,263
‪-都怪地心引力
‪-不要紧的

350
00:21:04,263 --> 00:21:05,973
‪-谢谢
‪-腌黄瓜、腌凤尾鱼

351
00:21:07,432 --> 00:21:10,852
‪我们都在给自己充足的时间

352
00:21:10,852 --> 00:21:14,856
‪来彻底确认自己的想法
‪我认为这样很好

353
00:21:14,856 --> 00:21:17,484
‪这意味着我们都希望这个决定不会错

354
00:21:17,484 --> 00:21:19,278
‪这绝对是聪明的做法

355
00:21:19,778 --> 00:21:22,864
‪但我也因此感到非常焦虑

356
00:21:22,864 --> 00:21:23,949
‪可不是吗?

357
00:21:23,949 --> 00:21:29,705
‪要是真结婚了 我还不知道
‪我的东西能不能融入你的生活空间

358
00:21:29,705 --> 00:21:31,498
‪你要一个更大的空间吗?

359
00:21:31,498 --> 00:21:32,833
‪是啊

360
00:21:32,833 --> 00:21:36,169
‪我的空间挺空旷的
‪还是你看到的正好相反?

361
00:21:36,169 --> 00:21:37,963
‪你家没有衣柜

362
00:21:37,963 --> 00:21:40,841
‪难也难在我所有的东西
‪都在斯科茨代尔

363
00:21:41,341 --> 00:21:43,760
‪我总觉得
‪你不想放弃你在斯科茨代尔的空间

364
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:47,806
‪能不能只把必需品带来
‪把部分东西留在那边?

365
00:21:47,806 --> 00:21:51,393
‪我想到的东西是衣物和鞋

366
00:21:51,977 --> 00:21:54,271
‪-懂吗?
‪-你到底有多少件衣服?

367
00:21:54,271 --> 00:21:55,355
‪什么意思?

368
00:21:55,355 --> 00:21:58,608
‪排屋里的衣服已经够多了

369
00:22:00,402 --> 00:22:04,531
‪那只占我所有衣物的四成

370
00:22:04,531 --> 00:22:08,535
‪我认为我们应该找个三房的单位

371
00:22:08,535 --> 00:22:11,413
‪然后把其中一个房间
‪当成你的衣柜 好吗?

372
00:22:11,413 --> 00:22:12,331
‪这才像话嘛

373
00:22:14,333 --> 00:22:16,585
‪你愿意跟我一起经营远距离婚姻吗?

374
00:22:16,585 --> 00:22:18,337
‪-不行
‪-不行?

375
00:22:18,337 --> 00:22:20,005
‪绝对不行 远距离婚姻没意思

376
00:22:20,797 --> 00:22:23,592
‪-想不想跟我搬去斯科茨代尔?
‪-不想

377
00:22:24,259 --> 00:22:26,636
‪-那么...
‪-但我愿意

378
00:22:26,636 --> 00:22:30,557
‪如果我可以完全远程办公
‪我一定跟你一起搬过去

379
00:22:30,557 --> 00:22:32,934
‪我是不想搬过去 但是...

380
00:22:33,518 --> 00:22:36,938
‪我不想多说什么
‪但我对搬去那边住的可能性

381
00:22:36,938 --> 00:22:39,316
‪抱持开放的态度

382
00:22:39,316 --> 00:22:40,942
‪我搞不好会被说服

383
00:22:40,942 --> 00:22:45,113
‪我不要你搬去一个让你不快乐的地方
‪我看重的是你愿不愿意尝试

384
00:22:45,113 --> 00:22:46,198
‪-我愿意
‪-懂吗?

385
00:22:46,198 --> 00:22:47,157
‪我做得到

386
00:22:48,408 --> 00:22:51,078
‪万一结不成婚
‪我们接下来会怎么走?

387
00:22:51,661 --> 00:22:54,664
‪回到各自的空间住
‪应该会很难受吧?

388
00:22:54,664 --> 00:22:56,291
‪是啊 这是一定的

389
00:22:56,291 --> 00:22:58,877
‪我觉得到时我会非常寂寞

390
00:23:01,838 --> 00:23:04,674
‪我绝对不要回到以前的生活 我爱你

391
00:23:04,674 --> 00:23:06,468
‪-我不要回到以前的生活
‪-我也爱你

392
00:23:09,846 --> 00:23:14,101
‪你让我想要成为更好的自己
‪这是非常美好的感受

393
00:23:14,101 --> 00:23:18,313
‪过去几年以来
‪从来没有任何女生或任何人

394
00:23:18,313 --> 00:23:20,941
‪给我带来这么大的启发和鼓励

395
00:23:20,941 --> 00:23:23,985
‪我知道的人生就缺这种人

396
00:23:24,986 --> 00:23:27,781
‪如今 在这个世界上
‪你是我心中最有魅力的人

397
00:23:27,781 --> 00:23:31,993
‪如果我说我不怕失去你
‪那一定是骗人的

398
00:23:49,344 --> 00:23:52,639
{\an8}‪我很期待你跟我妈和我姐见面

399
00:23:52,639 --> 00:23:53,557
{\an8}‪是啊

400
00:23:53,557 --> 00:23:54,808
{\an8}‪你期待吗?

401
00:23:54,808 --> 00:23:55,725
{\an8}‪期待

402
00:23:56,977 --> 00:24:00,147
{\an8}‪你就只有这个回应吗?你很紧张吧?

403
00:24:04,276 --> 00:24:06,361
‪-嗨
‪-嗨

404
00:24:06,361 --> 00:24:08,738
‪-亲爱的 最近好吗?
‪-你看起来好可爱

405
00:24:09,614 --> 00:24:10,449
{\an8}‪嗨 扎克

406
00:24:10,449 --> 00:24:11,992
{\an8}‪-嗨
‪-幸会

407
00:24:11,992 --> 00:24:13,076
{\an8}‪怎么称呼?

408
00:24:13,076 --> 00:24:14,536
{\an8}‪-安娜莉
‪-安娜莉 你呢?

409
00:24:14,536 --> 00:24:15,871
{\an8}‪-塔蒂亚娜
‪-塔蒂亚娜?

410
00:24:15,871 --> 00:24:17,497
{\an8}‪-是的 幸会
‪-幸会

411
00:24:18,081 --> 00:24:21,209
{\an8}‪美乐的妈妈从亚利桑那州搭飞机过来

412
00:24:21,209 --> 00:24:23,587
{\an8}‪-嗨
‪-你好 幸会

413
00:24:23,587 --> 00:24:26,298
{\an8}‪你已经开始哭了?好了 妈妈

414
00:24:26,798 --> 00:24:29,968
‪既然我们要结婚了

415
00:24:29,968 --> 00:24:32,304
‪那我就有必要跟她家人和睦相处

416
00:24:32,304 --> 00:24:34,222
‪所以我有点紧张

417
00:24:34,222 --> 00:24:38,226
‪我跟美乐说我很紧张
‪她说我没必要紧张 可是...

418
00:24:38,226 --> 00:24:40,103
‪我还是有点紧张

419
00:24:40,103 --> 00:24:41,771
‪你们想不想瞧瞧我的戒指?

420
00:24:41,771 --> 00:24:44,274
‪-想啊
‪-好美

421
00:24:44,274 --> 00:24:50,822
‪说说在这之前 你们经历了什么吧

422
00:24:50,822 --> 00:24:56,703
‪我们是在一项社交实验中认识的
‪也可以说是心理实验吧

423
00:24:56,703 --> 00:24:58,914
‪-我也不知道该怎么归类
‪-两者皆是

424
00:24:58,914 --> 00:25:02,876
‪实验中 我们看不到彼此的长相

425
00:25:05,003 --> 00:25:08,298
‪我总觉得这一刻似曾相识啊

426
00:25:08,298 --> 00:25:11,760
‪继续说 你负责讲故事

427
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:18,642
‪好的 我和美乐聊到书后就一拍即合

428
00:25:19,351 --> 00:25:21,895
‪我意识到她非常聪明、有智慧

429
00:25:22,395 --> 00:25:25,649
‪这也是她吸引我的原因

430
00:25:26,149 --> 00:25:30,070
‪她很聪明、很漂亮

431
00:25:30,987 --> 00:25:33,698
‪有理想、充满干劲

432
00:25:34,199 --> 00:25:36,660
‪-没错 你要担心了
‪-也善解人意

433
00:25:37,953 --> 00:25:41,456
‪很少有女人会梦想自己60岁那年登月

434
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:45,710
‪理解她的个性后
‪如果我要为世界带来更大的影响

435
00:25:45,710 --> 00:25:49,214
‪我相信只有她最适合陪在我身边

436
00:25:49,214 --> 00:25:53,468
‪她的个性让我感到十分钦佩

437
00:25:55,303 --> 00:25:56,388
‪好了 各位

438
00:25:57,722 --> 00:25:59,349
‪-天啊
‪-我好感动 亲爱的

439
00:25:59,349 --> 00:26:02,435
‪我的个性遗传自我妈 真的

440
00:26:02,435 --> 00:26:03,687
‪谢谢

441
00:26:04,521 --> 00:26:08,692
‪很高兴你看得到她的好 毕竟她...

442
00:26:09,192 --> 00:26:12,279
‪-我说过不哭的
‪-我要被你惹哭了

443
00:26:12,279 --> 00:26:15,532
‪她比黄金更有价值

444
00:26:16,241 --> 00:26:19,786
‪她是我生命中最重要的人

445
00:26:20,370 --> 00:26:22,372
‪我对她只有一个期望

446
00:26:22,372 --> 00:26:25,250
‪我希望她的对象看得到她的好

447
00:26:25,250 --> 00:26:28,628
‪以她值得的方式尊重她

448
00:26:28,628 --> 00:26:31,298
‪毕竟她是我们的小公主

449
00:26:31,298 --> 00:26:32,716
‪她是我们的小公主

450
00:26:32,716 --> 00:26:38,597
‪自21岁以来
‪我就没跟任何女人说过“我爱你”

451
00:26:39,598 --> 00:26:42,058
‪为什么?

452
00:26:43,143 --> 00:26:44,728
‪我很难说出口

453
00:26:45,478 --> 00:26:48,732
‪一般情况下
‪我不是个容易敞开心扉的人

454
00:26:48,732 --> 00:26:53,820
‪但我知道加入这项实验后
‪如果我要对感情认真

455
00:26:53,820 --> 00:26:57,115
‪我就要敞开心扉
‪问题是对象不只一个人

456
00:26:57,782 --> 00:26:59,075
‪而是好几个人

457
00:26:59,075 --> 00:27:05,040
‪同时对好几个人敞开心扉有个坏处

458
00:27:06,666 --> 00:27:11,254
‪有时我们会同时对几个人产生感情

459
00:27:15,884 --> 00:27:19,429
‪最后我必须
‪在两个素未谋面的女生之间

460
00:27:19,429 --> 00:27:21,389
‪做出抉择

461
00:27:22,974 --> 00:27:25,101
‪-结果...
‪-你就一五一十地告诉她们吧

462
00:27:25,101 --> 00:27:27,228
‪-说就说嘛 对吧?
‪-你可以的

463
00:27:27,228 --> 00:27:28,563
‪怎么说呢?

464
00:27:30,815 --> 00:27:33,610
‪说起这事儿 美乐也感到不舒服

465
00:27:34,110 --> 00:27:35,862
‪-这事儿说起来很尴尬
‪-不要紧的

466
00:27:35,862 --> 00:27:37,614
‪说吧 我们都想知道

467
00:27:37,614 --> 00:27:39,616
‪-说吧
‪-继续说

468
00:27:39,616 --> 00:27:40,742
‪继续说

469
00:27:46,289 --> 00:27:50,752
‪当时我同时对两位女嘉宾产生感情

470
00:27:51,252 --> 00:27:53,755
‪这绝对不是我希望发生的情景

471
00:27:55,340 --> 00:27:57,759
‪整个过程充满了不确定性

472
00:27:58,385 --> 00:28:02,806
‪我跟美乐说过
‪我担心自己无法融入她的家庭

473
00:28:02,806 --> 00:28:06,768
‪我不知道回到现实世界中
‪这段感情行不行得通

474
00:28:06,768 --> 00:28:09,104
‪也没人知道结果如何
‪实验的目的就是找出结果

475
00:28:09,104 --> 00:28:10,021
‪是的

476
00:28:10,689 --> 00:28:11,523
‪然后...

477
00:28:13,566 --> 00:28:15,193
‪我做错了选择

478
00:28:15,193 --> 00:28:20,824
‪我意识到
‪我一开始求婚的对象并不适合我

479
00:28:21,533 --> 00:28:22,826
‪于是我跟她分手了

480
00:28:26,996 --> 00:28:28,373
‪-然后...
‪-这...

481
00:28:28,373 --> 00:28:31,292
‪赶紧问他问题吧 对他凶一点也可以

482
00:28:31,292 --> 00:28:34,796
‪拿酒泼他 是他活该

483
00:28:34,796 --> 00:28:36,881
‪可以私下聊聊吗?

484
00:28:37,966 --> 00:28:44,472
‪是什么原因
‪让你确定想跟美乐在一起?

485
00:28:44,973 --> 00:28:48,226
‪你也知道她非常重视家人

486
00:28:48,226 --> 00:28:52,439
‪你刚刚说你不太确定
‪自己能不能融入她的家庭

487
00:28:52,439 --> 00:28:55,316
‪这方面你可以说清楚一点吗?

488
00:28:55,316 --> 00:28:57,569
‪我的成长背景...

489
00:28:59,821 --> 00:29:04,743
‪我出生在一个贫困的家庭里
‪家境不太稳定

490
00:29:04,743 --> 00:29:07,620
‪所有事都是我自学的

491
00:29:09,330 --> 00:29:11,416
‪我妈给了我毫无条件的爱

492
00:29:12,542 --> 00:29:17,797
‪我妈已经过世了 她已经离开了

493
00:29:19,174 --> 00:29:21,968
‪我以前也有过几个交往对象

494
00:29:21,968 --> 00:29:25,597
‪她们的家境都非常富有

495
00:29:25,597 --> 00:29:31,853
‪她们的家人都无法接纳我的成长背景

496
00:29:33,271 --> 00:29:36,566
‪所以得知美乐的家庭环境后

497
00:29:36,566 --> 00:29:40,862
‪我感到十分担忧

498
00:29:41,571 --> 00:29:47,619
‪我担心自己不被你们接纳

499
00:29:50,163 --> 00:29:52,457
‪这也是罗密欧与朱丽叶
‪没有结果的原因 对吧?

500
00:29:52,457 --> 00:29:53,666
‪没错

501
00:29:53,666 --> 00:29:56,503
‪他们很努力了 可惜事与愿违

502
00:29:57,086 --> 00:30:00,340
‪不被女方家人接纳是最令我担心的事

503
00:30:00,340 --> 00:30:05,303
‪可是第一次在现实中见面后

504
00:30:05,303 --> 00:30:08,473
‪她走进门那一刻 我心想:“天啊”

505
00:30:09,933 --> 00:30:14,479
‪我马上就对她产生感情
‪她当时板着脸

506
00:30:14,479 --> 00:30:16,397
‪因为她不想让我知道她的感受

507
00:30:16,397 --> 00:30:18,983
‪-我当时也不知道会有什么感受
‪-但我感应得到

508
00:30:18,983 --> 00:30:21,486
‪-毕竟那是我第一次见到你
‪-你当时有什么感受?

509
00:30:21,486 --> 00:30:22,570
‪充满温暖

510
00:30:22,570 --> 00:30:24,656
‪一种充满温暖的感觉

511
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,075
‪-是的
‪-有时爱情说来就来

512
00:30:27,075 --> 00:30:30,411
‪感觉对了就豁出去

513
00:30:31,454 --> 00:30:33,998
‪你看到你的未来有他 对吗?

514
00:30:33,998 --> 00:30:37,585
‪你可以看到你们以后在一起的生活
‪看到有彼此的未来 对吗?

515
00:30:37,585 --> 00:30:38,711
‪对啊 我看得到

516
00:30:39,462 --> 00:30:40,713
‪她真的很爱我

517
00:30:40,713 --> 00:30:43,299
‪我知道你很爱我 只是她不承认

518
00:30:43,299 --> 00:30:44,968
‪-哪有?我是真心爱你的
‪-我知道

519
00:30:44,968 --> 00:30:47,428
‪如果我不爱你的话
‪也不会答应你的求婚

520
00:30:47,428 --> 00:30:51,349
‪况且你还跟另一个女人顶过婚呢

521
00:30:54,227 --> 00:30:56,437
‪总之 我经常提起那件事

522
00:30:56,437 --> 00:30:59,482
‪经常拿来开玩笑 但不骗人

523
00:31:00,233 --> 00:31:03,278
‪那件事确实令人很难过 真的

524
00:31:04,821 --> 00:31:08,533
‪没人喜欢当备胎的感觉 我们只想...

525
00:31:09,242 --> 00:31:14,247
‪我们只是想知道
‪你会不会珍爱她 懂吗?

526
00:31:14,247 --> 00:31:16,332
‪我们知道说得再多也没用

527
00:31:17,876 --> 00:31:21,129
‪如果美乐不是真心爱你的

528
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:25,133
‪绝对不会牵你的手

529
00:31:25,133 --> 00:31:28,761
‪也不会答应你的求婚

530
00:31:29,387 --> 00:31:35,476
‪你望着他的眼神
‪我从没见过你用这种眼神望着别人

531
00:31:35,476 --> 00:31:37,687
‪这就说明了一切

532
00:31:43,109 --> 00:31:44,944
‪也让我握住你的手

533
00:31:55,413 --> 00:31:59,000
‪我心里是满满的感触

534
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:04,130
{\an8}‪我有点防备
‪身为母亲 我不希望女儿受到伤害

535
00:32:04,130 --> 00:32:08,927
‪与此同时 我也很信任美乐的决定

536
00:32:08,927 --> 00:32:10,261
‪我认为他确实是...

537
00:32:10,929 --> 00:32:12,597
‪他很可能就是美乐的灵魂伴侣

538
00:32:13,181 --> 00:32:17,477
‪如果你们以后有孩子了
‪我会传授你们教育孩子的秘诀

539
00:32:17,477 --> 00:32:19,270
‪-我会把秘诀传授给你们
‪-好的

540
00:32:19,270 --> 00:32:22,190
‪以后如果有了孩子
‪那我们俩也只有一个妈妈来教育他们

541
00:32:22,190 --> 00:32:24,192
‪所以我们一定要好好相处

542
00:32:24,817 --> 00:32:27,403
‪如果我的女儿选择了你 那么...

543
00:32:28,196 --> 00:32:32,116
‪我也是你的妈妈了

544
00:32:37,997 --> 00:32:41,709
‪很高兴她可以跟一个...

545
00:32:43,044 --> 00:32:45,713
‪跟一个懂得
‪以她值得的方式对待她的人在一起

546
00:32:47,006 --> 00:32:49,175
‪我也想要很多孙子女

547
00:32:49,676 --> 00:32:50,802
‪我好期待

548
00:32:52,387 --> 00:32:53,471
‪我好期待

549
00:33:08,695 --> 00:33:10,446
{\an8}‪我好期待 你呢?

550
00:33:11,030 --> 00:33:12,991
{\an8}‪我很期待 也很紧张

551
00:33:12,991 --> 00:33:15,576
‪我们要去见我的家人了

552
00:33:16,077 --> 00:33:20,540
‪夸米从波特兰来到西雅图
‪这阵子都过得很不容易

553
00:33:20,540 --> 00:33:22,500
{\an8}‪我和家人的关系十分亲密

554
00:33:22,500 --> 00:33:26,629
{\an8}‪我所谓的“十分亲密”
‪是指住在距离只有十分钟以外的地方

555
00:33:26,629 --> 00:33:30,842
‪天天聊天、积极参与彼此的生活

556
00:33:35,638 --> 00:33:37,682
‪你们要把我惹哭了

557
00:33:37,682 --> 00:33:38,891
‪-嗨
‪-嗨

558
00:33:40,268 --> 00:33:43,354
‪幸会 进来吧 见见你们的家人

559
00:33:43,354 --> 00:33:48,317
‪我希望他可以看到更大的可能性

560
00:33:48,317 --> 00:33:51,279
‪为了让他在这里感受到幸福
‪我愿意付出一切

561
00:33:51,279 --> 00:33:54,741
‪他们一定会喜欢上他的
‪这点我不太担心

562
00:33:55,825 --> 00:33:58,911
{\an8}‪(切尔西的阿姨 蜜拉莉)

563
00:33:58,911 --> 00:34:00,621
‪你要去见见很多人

564
00:34:00,621 --> 00:34:03,207
‪这一家人大大咧咧的 充满活力

565
00:34:03,207 --> 00:34:05,209
{\an8}‪严格说来
‪就是好几个切尔西聚在一起

566
00:34:05,209 --> 00:34:08,379
{\an8}‪我相信可以跟他们好好相处

567
00:34:09,172 --> 00:34:13,217
{\an8}‪-等等 你们想不想看看我的戒指?
‪-好啊 我要看你的戒指

568
00:34:13,217 --> 00:34:16,387
{\an8}‪-让我们瞧瞧
‪-真要赞他一下 戒指非常珍贵

569
00:34:16,387 --> 00:34:18,222
‪天啊

570
00:34:18,222 --> 00:34:21,309
‪-太美了
‪-谢谢

571
00:34:21,309 --> 00:34:22,852
‪我好喜欢

572
00:34:22,852 --> 00:34:24,103
‪好样的 夸米

573
00:34:24,103 --> 00:34:25,021
‪可不是吗?

574
00:34:25,688 --> 00:34:28,107
‪你竟然能找到尺寸这么小的戒指?

575
00:34:28,608 --> 00:34:31,110
‪可不是吗?她的手指尺寸是4号

576
00:34:31,611 --> 00:34:33,905
‪我都不知道手指还有尺寸的

577
00:34:33,905 --> 00:34:36,324
‪夸米 好样的 我欣赏你

578
00:34:36,324 --> 00:34:39,619
‪我常赞夸米多才多艺

579
00:34:39,619 --> 00:34:41,829
‪-这么有才华是犯法的
‪-少来了

580
00:34:41,829 --> 00:34:46,417
‪他以前是职业足球员
‪他很聪明 持有工商管理硕士学位

581
00:34:46,959 --> 00:34:51,255
{\an8}‪也很有创意 是个摄影师

582
00:34:51,255 --> 00:34:53,424
‪还有一把好嗓音

583
00:34:53,424 --> 00:34:55,426
‪他在爱巢里经常对着我唱情歌

584
00:34:55,426 --> 00:34:56,552
‪天啊

585
00:34:56,552 --> 00:34:59,180
‪那是我人生中最美好的回忆

586
00:34:59,180 --> 00:35:02,391
‪也是我彻底爱上他的一天

587
00:35:02,391 --> 00:35:06,354
‪我当时哭得一塌糊涂
‪他还说:“这是你要唱的部分

588
00:35:06,354 --> 00:35:08,648
‪快唱啊” 我当时都已经...

589
00:35:08,648 --> 00:35:11,776
‪我都已经哭得一塌糊涂了
‪我边哭边说:“好吧!”

590
00:35:11,776 --> 00:35:15,488
‪-哪一首歌?
‪-我们一起写了一首歌

591
00:35:15,488 --> 00:35:16,781
‪他为我写的

592
00:35:16,781 --> 00:35:17,698
‪是的

593
00:35:17,698 --> 00:35:20,201
‪-你也会玩乐器?
‪-我会弹吉他

594
00:35:20,201 --> 00:35:22,495
‪-天啊
‪-也略懂钢琴

595
00:35:22,495 --> 00:35:24,705
‪我那边摆着一台竖琴
‪就等知音人出现

596
00:35:25,289 --> 00:35:27,625
‪你搞不好一下子就会玩了

597
00:35:28,126 --> 00:35:31,045
‪-少了一根弦 我家孩子把它...
‪-是的

598
00:35:31,045 --> 00:35:33,089
‪有多少弦就玩多少弦

599
00:35:35,341 --> 00:35:37,510
‪你是从事哪一行的?

600
00:35:37,510 --> 00:35:40,972
‪我在一家软件公司担任业务开发经理

601
00:35:40,972 --> 00:35:42,223
‪公司总部在旧金山

602
00:35:42,223 --> 00:35:45,434
‪-你是远程工作者 对吧?
‪-是的 没错

603
00:35:45,434 --> 00:35:48,563
‪我在家工作 同时帮忙照顾洛奇

604
00:35:48,563 --> 00:35:50,982
‪你们谈过婚后要住在哪里吗?

605
00:35:51,732 --> 00:35:53,609
‪-问得好
‪-对啊 我们婚后要住在哪里?

606
00:35:54,110 --> 00:35:56,279
‪不喝咖啡能住在西雅图吗?

607
00:35:56,279 --> 00:35:59,198
‪-你住在波特兰 对吧?
‪-是的 我住在波特兰

608
00:36:00,116 --> 00:36:02,535
‪他刚刚意识到西雅图比波特兰更美好

609
00:36:02,535 --> 00:36:03,619
‪-是的
‪-这是自然的

610
00:36:03,619 --> 00:36:07,290
‪到时你的小公寓肯定容不下你们俩了

611
00:36:07,290 --> 00:36:09,667
‪你是指那个“粉红小闺房”吗?

612
00:36:10,501 --> 00:36:11,335
‪可不是吗?

613
00:36:11,335 --> 00:36:14,463
‪你家里有一台粉色的咖啡机
‪问题是你压根不喝咖啡

614
00:36:14,463 --> 00:36:17,675
‪-你只是想拥有粉色的东西
‪-我喝 看见了吗?他很理解我

615
00:36:18,259 --> 00:36:20,678
‪切尔西
‪你可能要扔掉一些粉色的东西

616
00:36:20,678 --> 00:36:23,139
‪-我们绝对不会住进一间粉色的排屋
‪-那就好

617
00:36:23,139 --> 00:36:26,517
‪夸米 我可以私下跟你聊几句吗?

618
00:36:26,517 --> 00:36:27,894
‪-可以 没问题
‪-好的

619
00:36:27,894 --> 00:36:31,939
‪要不要跟夸米碰个拳
‪还是给他一个拥抱什么的?

620
00:36:31,939 --> 00:36:33,357
‪-不要紧的
‪-爱你哦

621
00:36:33,858 --> 00:36:34,859
‪-击掌吗?
‪-击掌

622
00:36:34,859 --> 00:36:36,319
‪很好 很高兴认识你们

623
00:36:36,903 --> 00:36:38,988
‪一会儿再跟他们玩

624
00:36:38,988 --> 00:36:40,781
‪-是的
‪-我们有的是时间

625
00:36:40,781 --> 00:36:43,951
‪-希望他以后会成为我们的家人
‪-到时我才给他一个拥抱

626
00:36:43,951 --> 00:36:45,077
‪天啊 这也...

627
00:36:45,995 --> 00:36:48,414
‪-真难搞
‪-难搞的观众

628
00:36:48,414 --> 00:36:53,419
‪夸米知道我是被这些坚强美丽
‪独立自主的女人带大的

629
00:36:53,419 --> 00:36:58,507
‪我希望她能获得她们的祝福和认同

630
00:36:58,507 --> 00:37:01,052
‪我非常重视她们的想法

631
00:37:02,511 --> 00:37:05,348
‪我恳切希望一切顺利

632
00:37:06,224 --> 00:37:09,560
‪说说你对洛奇有什么想法

633
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,395
‪你喜欢狗吗?

634
00:37:11,896 --> 00:37:13,147
{\an8}‪我喜欢狗

635
00:37:13,147 --> 00:37:16,400
{\an8}‪我见过很多狗 洛奇其实是...

636
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,152
{\an8}‪-它很乖
‪-排名最乖前五的狗

637
00:37:18,152 --> 00:37:22,448
‪你也看得出切尔西十分在乎洛奇

638
00:37:22,448 --> 00:37:24,492
‪-是的
‪-那只狗

639
00:37:24,492 --> 00:37:26,994
‪你小时候养过狗吗?

640
00:37:26,994 --> 00:37:30,665
‪以前住在加纳期间
‪我们养了一只松鼠

641
00:37:31,666 --> 00:37:34,126
‪-宠物松鼠
‪-宠物松鼠?

642
00:37:34,627 --> 00:37:37,046
‪你叫它时 它真的会来吗?

643
00:37:37,046 --> 00:37:38,464
‪-“小松鼠 过来”
‪-会啊

644
00:37:38,464 --> 00:37:41,050
‪很高兴你和洛奇相处得来

645
00:37:41,050 --> 00:37:43,010
‪说说...

646
00:37:43,010 --> 00:37:45,721
‪你几岁搬来美国?

647
00:37:45,721 --> 00:37:46,889
‪那年我八岁

648
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,309
‪我记得跟哥哥和姐姐
‪踏入机场的那一刻...

649
00:37:50,309 --> 00:37:52,103
‪-你有哥哥和姐姐?
‪-是的

650
00:37:52,103 --> 00:37:54,480
‪-你是老大?
‪-不是 我是老幺

651
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:55,856
‪-老幺?好的
‪-没错

652
00:37:55,856 --> 00:37:57,066
‪我相信你也看得出...

653
00:37:57,066 --> 00:38:02,488
‪正如切尔西说的
‪我们是一个关系相当密切的大家庭

654
00:38:02,488 --> 00:38:04,532
‪-是的
‪-相当密切

655
00:38:04,532 --> 00:38:06,033
‪这样很好

656
00:38:06,033 --> 00:38:08,953
‪我希望你不介意经常跟家人相处

657
00:38:09,662 --> 00:38:11,831
‪因为我们经常聚在一起

658
00:38:11,831 --> 00:38:14,041
‪-真的
‪-她也经常这么说

659
00:38:14,041 --> 00:38:17,545
‪每个星期天晚上 我们会办家庭聚餐

660
00:38:17,545 --> 00:38:19,171
‪-真的吗?
‪-是的

661
00:38:19,171 --> 00:38:21,674
‪很好 我们家很少聚在一起

662
00:38:21,674 --> 00:38:25,469
‪我和家人很少
‪聚在同一张餐桌旁一起用餐

663
00:38:25,469 --> 00:38:28,806
‪我不认为有什么不好
‪这是我们的生活习惯

664
00:38:28,806 --> 00:38:29,724
‪-没错
‪-懂吗?

665
00:38:29,724 --> 00:38:32,852
‪我很少晚上跟家人聚在一起用餐

666
00:38:32,852 --> 00:38:35,021
‪很好啊 如今你有机会了

667
00:38:35,021 --> 00:38:37,023
‪-干杯 为这事干杯
‪-干杯

668
00:38:37,023 --> 00:38:38,441
‪-十分感谢
‪-没问题

669
00:38:38,441 --> 00:38:40,943
‪-很高兴你加入我们
‪-谢谢

670
00:38:40,943 --> 00:38:44,739
‪那晚跟切尔西的家人相处得很融洽

671
00:38:44,739 --> 00:38:49,076
‪按照他们拥抱我的次数
‪我敢说我得到了他们的祝福

672
00:38:54,665 --> 00:38:57,084
‪-这个地方很漂亮吧?今晚好平静
‪-是啊

673
00:38:57,084 --> 00:38:58,711
‪可以看到山

674
00:38:59,420 --> 00:39:01,797
‪风景好美 亲爱的
‪这就是我爱这个家的原因

675
00:39:01,797 --> 00:39:04,842
‪山明水秀 蓝天白云

676
00:39:04,842 --> 00:39:08,012
‪令人惊叹连连 对吧?

677
00:39:08,012 --> 00:39:08,929
‪是啊

678
00:39:08,929 --> 00:39:14,143
‪我是一个热爱冒险、乐在生活
‪懂得把握机会的人

679
00:39:14,810 --> 00:39:18,564
‪结婚对我来说就是一场新的冒险
‪这是我的看法

680
00:39:19,065 --> 00:39:21,734
‪我体会过了波特兰的美好

681
00:39:22,234 --> 00:39:24,487
‪也许是时候搬到别的地方了

682
00:39:24,487 --> 00:39:26,530
‪也许是时候尝试新的生活方式了

683
00:39:26,530 --> 00:39:28,991
‪去接纳新的人生
‪就像当初接纳波特兰的人生一样

684
00:39:29,575 --> 00:39:33,454
‪我们应该到处走走 一起去看房

685
00:39:33,454 --> 00:39:35,998
‪看看氛围如何 看看我们有什么想法

686
00:39:35,998 --> 00:39:39,585
‪当然还要考虑到预算什么的

687
00:39:39,585 --> 00:39:40,503
‪好啊

688
00:40:04,276 --> 00:40:06,570
{\an8}‪(距离婚期剩下七天)

689
00:40:06,570 --> 00:40:07,947
{\an8}‪(A & BÉ 婚纱屋)

690
00:40:14,829 --> 00:40:16,580
‪好美啊

691
00:40:17,206 --> 00:40:18,499
‪太可爱了

692
00:40:18,499 --> 00:40:21,877
{\an8}‪这家店太美了!

693
00:40:21,877 --> 00:40:26,924
‪天啊 我看到很多很多蕾丝

694
00:40:30,344 --> 00:40:32,805
{\an8}‪距离我的婚期只剩一个星期

695
00:40:32,805 --> 00:40:35,391
{\an8}‪我今天来挑婚纱

696
00:40:35,391 --> 00:40:36,725
{\an8}‪好轻松啊

697
00:40:38,018 --> 00:40:39,395
‪人生究竟是怎么回事?

698
00:40:43,357 --> 00:40:45,818
{\an8}‪我认为暗色比较适合我的肤色

699
00:40:47,153 --> 00:40:48,362
{\an8}‪非常合适

700
00:40:50,364 --> 00:40:52,450
{\an8}‪给你挑个反差色

701
00:40:52,450 --> 00:40:54,410
{\an8}‪-懂我的意思吗?
‪-我喜欢这种颜色

702
00:40:54,410 --> 00:40:55,703
{\an8}‪这种蓝色更深

703
00:40:55,703 --> 00:40:57,955
{\an8}‪我喜欢 就像夜空

704
00:40:57,955 --> 00:40:58,873
‪我非常喜欢!

705
00:41:01,876 --> 00:41:05,254
{\an8}‪-你跟杰奎聊过吗?
‪-昨天聊了一下

706
00:41:05,254 --> 00:41:07,506
{\an8}‪-好的
‪-我不知道实际情况

707
00:41:07,506 --> 00:41:09,842
{\an8}‪-只知道她压力很大
‪-是啊

708
00:41:09,842 --> 00:41:12,887
‪说真的 我真心希望她今天会来

709
00:41:14,722 --> 00:41:18,851
‪我很惊讶她没来 毕竟这是终身大事

710
00:41:18,851 --> 00:41:20,769
‪我以为她会来

711
00:41:20,769 --> 00:41:23,230
‪我以为她会坚持到底

712
00:41:23,230 --> 00:41:26,692
‪希望他们会挺过去吧

713
00:41:26,692 --> 00:41:29,570
‪-就选这件衬衫吧
‪-好样的 公子哥儿

714
00:41:31,238 --> 00:41:32,698
‪老兄 我要一套有特色的正装

715
00:41:32,698 --> 00:41:35,034
‪我希望看起来干净利落
‪就像“黑人版007”

716
00:41:35,034 --> 00:41:37,453
‪-我闪开让你照照镜子
‪-你都够帅了

717
00:41:38,537 --> 00:41:39,622
‪好可爱

718
00:41:39,622 --> 00:41:41,665
‪-好美
‪-太美了

719
00:41:41,665 --> 00:41:43,834
‪有点波西米亚风

720
00:41:44,793 --> 00:41:46,587
‪不要紧的 好紧

721
00:41:46,587 --> 00:41:47,630
‪这是切尔西

722
00:41:47,630 --> 00:41:49,590
‪-瞧你们真甜
‪-是啊

723
00:41:49,590 --> 00:41:54,011
{\an8}‪你已经把你们的合照
‪设定为手机壁纸了?

724
00:41:54,011 --> 00:41:55,971
{\an8}‪他一个星期后就要结婚了

725
00:41:55,971 --> 00:41:57,556
‪天啊!

726
00:41:58,974 --> 00:42:00,768
‪-布雷特心想:“我不能输给他”
‪-天啊

727
00:42:00,768 --> 00:42:02,645
‪-等等
‪-我的手机壁纸不是我们的合照

728
00:42:03,187 --> 00:42:05,856
‪-蒂芬妮刚发短信给我
‪-她说什么?

729
00:42:06,482 --> 00:42:08,442
‪“杰奎没来”

730
00:42:08,442 --> 00:42:10,778
‪杰奎没去试婚纱

731
00:42:15,824 --> 00:42:18,869
‪杰奎是他的未婚妻
‪蒂芬妮说她没去试婚纱

732
00:42:18,869 --> 00:42:19,787
‪天啊

733
00:42:20,454 --> 00:42:23,415
‪她问马歇尔在不在 我说他在啊

734
00:42:24,333 --> 00:42:28,754
‪她有哪一方面
‪让你看到她是当妻子的好材料?

735
00:42:30,422 --> 00:42:32,508
‪她确实让我感到自己无所不能

736
00:42:32,508 --> 00:42:34,093
‪-是吗?
‪-真的

737
00:42:34,593 --> 00:42:38,681
‪-她给我的感觉是...

738
00:42:39,181 --> 00:42:40,641
‪-可以私下说话吗?
‪-现在吗?

739
00:42:40,641 --> 00:42:42,142
‪-好的
‪-不好意思

740
00:42:42,142 --> 00:42:43,602
‪-可以
‪-没问题

741
00:42:44,895 --> 00:42:47,106
‪蒂芬妮刚发了短信给我

742
00:42:47,606 --> 00:42:51,360
‪她说杰奎没到场试婚纱

743
00:42:51,860 --> 00:42:52,695
‪是吗?

744
00:42:55,864 --> 00:42:56,699
‪好吧

745
00:42:57,199 --> 00:42:59,076
‪我之所以告诉你

746
00:43:00,452 --> 00:43:02,663
‪是要你做好心理准备

747
00:43:06,709 --> 00:43:07,543
‪好的

748
00:43:07,543 --> 00:43:10,212
‪-谢谢你告诉我
‪-没问题

749
00:43:12,131 --> 00:43:13,090
‪感激不尽

750
00:43:32,067 --> 00:43:34,612
{\an8}‪(杰奎琳娜 26岁 牙医助理)

751
00:43:34,612 --> 00:43:35,738
{\an8}‪嗨

752
00:43:38,157 --> 00:43:39,783
{\an8}‪-最近好吗?
‪-很好 你呢?

753
00:43:40,743 --> 00:43:43,203
{\an8}‪-你给我买了花?
‪-是的

754
00:43:43,203 --> 00:43:45,414
{\an8}‪好贴心

755
00:43:45,414 --> 00:43:47,625
{\an8}‪天啊 好漂亮

756
00:43:47,625 --> 00:43:49,627
‪我是个爱浪漫的人 懂吗?

757
00:43:49,627 --> 00:43:50,544
‪天啊

758
00:43:51,879 --> 00:43:54,590
‪首先 我想要跟你道歉

759
00:43:54,590 --> 00:43:56,258
‪-好的
‪-我只是个普通人

760
00:43:56,759 --> 00:43:57,635
‪我...

761
00:43:58,594 --> 00:44:01,013
‪见到你后 我很紧张

762
00:44:01,013 --> 00:44:05,601
‪我应该用更合适的方式多多袒露心声

763
00:44:06,393 --> 00:44:10,272
‪我非常在乎你 想到这点我就很焦虑

764
00:44:11,273 --> 00:44:13,609
‪失去你是我最大的遗憾

765
00:44:18,072 --> 00:44:18,906
‪我是真心爱你的

766
00:44:23,661 --> 00:44:25,371
‪我想跟你在一起

767
00:45:01,615 --> 00:45:03,534
{\an8}‪字幕翻译:张庆龄