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- This is the greatest. I love you.
- Mmm.
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I love you too.
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- Good morning.
- Hi.
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- You like me!
- [laughs]
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- I'm all-in, and I love you. [chuckles]
- I love you too, Tiffany.
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[Tiffany laughing] Oh!
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Bliss, you're everything that
I've been looking for my entire life.
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Will you marry me?
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Yeah.
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I'm engaged to Zack.
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[chuckles] I feel like I knew
that he was my person, deep in my soul.
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You know, you know.
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I love you a lot, but I'm still gonna have
concern of being second choice.
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I need time.
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I'm not sacrificing what I want,
but I am compromising.
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Welcome to marriage.
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- Okay.
- Do you wanna settle down?
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[Shelby] You're meant to have
the best wedding of your life.
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But this isn't it.
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This isn't it.
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You didn't wanna sit here and talk.
You were like, "I'm leaving."
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What else am I to do?
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Sit in my feelings
and sleep next to someone
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who said I was not man enough for them?
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We don't have sex.
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It is weird to see somebody that
you truly care about with somebody else.
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["Got My Eyes on You" playing]
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- You too cool for school.
- You were talking to MBA cry boy.
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If you truly think you're gonna
go walk up and talk to Marshall
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and be like, "Yo, I do," then fuck it.
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But if you don't feel like heart-to-heart
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you're really gonna marry Marshall,
pick me.
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♪ I've got my eyes on you ♪
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{\an8}- [pop music playing]
- ♪ Won't find another quite like me ♪
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{\an8}♪ I don't just want it
I've got this need ♪
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{\an8}I'm just glad everybody loved my shoes.
That's all that matters.
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{\an8}[Marshall] Mm-hmm.
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[door lock beeping]
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I love Jackie.
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I've never been so certain
about anything in my entire life.
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And there was never a doubt in my mind.
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Jackie and I were designed for each other.
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And so, to be where we are now,
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I'm shocked. I'm stunned.
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{\an8}And it hurts.
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{\an8}[sniffles]
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How do I go from being
so sure about something, so certain
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about anything that I've ever done
in my life to being so uncertain
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and unclear?
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[sighs]
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You need something to drink? Water?
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[Jackelina] Yeah.
I need a water, for sure.
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I'm tired.
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I had a long-ass day.
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How are you feeling?
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[Marshall] Seeing everyone else tonight...
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I need you to lay it out for me plain.
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What do you need from me,
what do you require from me,
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so that I know, moving forward. That's it.
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Oh, my God.
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[gasps] I can't talk about this anymore.
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My brain is shot, Marshall.
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Like, it's almost midnight.
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Can we talk about this tomorrow?
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If-- If that's--
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If that's what you--
If that's what you want.
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You're doing great.
I don't expect anything from you.
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I think that you're doing just fine.
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I was left with a big question mark.
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From me?
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Or internally
because you have that question mark?
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From you.
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I thought we were fine.
I thought we ended up fine.
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- You got some pretty eyes on you.
- Hmm?
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- You got some pretty eyes on you.
- Thank you.
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Brett gave me advice tonight
that I didn't know that I needed.
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It's time to protect...
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my feelings and not...
not sugarcoat or change anything
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based off of how--
how you're feeling anymore.
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Totally valid.
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Just tell me exactly
what you need from me,
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so I'm not guessing through the night
and guessing when we wake up,
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because you leave
before I even start my day.
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But I always come back home.
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But that does not mean that I'm
not thinking about it throughout the day.
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I had an emotional day.
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I'm having
emotional conversations with people
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that I don't even know
what the fuck is going on.
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[laughs] And I'm just like,
I just wanna go to bed.
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I'm tired just as much as you are.
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I gotta go into the office tomorrow.
I gotta go to Redmond.
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- We good!
- We're not good.
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I need to know exactly what you require
from me so I can move forward.
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What I told you, what I required from you,
is the reason why you left.
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- But--
- I'm not saying that shit again.
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Okay, so what are the examples though?
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[gasps] I can't give no examples
at no midnight, bro.
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Marshall.
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I think you are a great guy.
I think you're so sweet.
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Just love me.
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Just love me.
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- ["Never Give Up" playing]
- ♪ Never give up ♪
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[vocalizing]
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{\an8}♪ Never give up ♪
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{\an8}♪ Just never give up ♪
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{\an8}♪ Never give up ♪
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{\an8}- [woman] Can I see your ring?
- Oh, yeah.
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{\an8}[laughing]
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{\an8}- It's so pretty.
- Sometimes I forget that it's on.
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{\an8}[Zack] It's one thing for me
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{\an8}to kind of tell Bliss a little bit
about how I grew up
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{\an8}and where I came from,
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{\an8}but I think it's a little bit different
when she meets my family.
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They're important to me,
and she's important to me.
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I think when it's all over,
when we're laying on our deathbeds,
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family is really all you got.
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{\an8}When was this one?
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{\an8}- [woman] Zack and our mom at her wedding.
- [Bliss] Aww!
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Oh, look how cute!
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- Law school graduation, yeah.
- [women laughing]
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[Bliss] You look so happy.
You're like, "Yes, I'm done studying."
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- [Zack] That's exactly how I felt.
- [all laughing]
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[Bliss] It's so lovely
that you guys came here to support him.
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That really means a lot.
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- It's true.
- [woman] What made him stand out?
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{\an8}- [laughing] Where do I begin?
- I mean, I know, probably.
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{\an8}But, like, I wanna know.
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{\an8}You know, gosh,
it was so many different things.
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{\an8}Obviously, he's super smart.
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{\an8}He's just, like, so giving too.
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He just really inspires me.
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There's a lot of strength
in someone to be able to, like,
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{\an8}choose to, you know,
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{\an8}do certain things when it'd be easier
to maybe go a different way.
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{\an8}And my dad kind of has
a similar kind of childhood and stuff.
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And he also chose different paths,
and it's not easy to do that.
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So, I just really deeply,
like, admire him.
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[Becky] He could have went down
many different roads,
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and he only chose the up road, always,
and put everybody before himself.
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And... super proud. [chuckles]
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{\an8}[Bliss] Yeah, and I think in those moments
of really hard times,
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{\an8}like, that's when
your true character comes out.
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Like, who you really are.
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And so, yeah, I think he just was also
really just open about things,
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and he's very, like, honest, and I just
feel like I can really trust him.
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I take, like, marriage very seriously
and, like, commitment very seriously.
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I think when people say like,
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{\an8}"If it feels right,
you know, then it's right."
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To truly, like, feel like
you can be yourself with someone
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in your full capacity is,
like, so amazing.
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And I've never had that experience before.
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It's-- Yeah, I just really... I love him.
And I respect him as a person.
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And yeah, I've never met anyone like him.
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- I like her.
- I like her too.
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- You guys fit together really good.
- Yeah.
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[Becky] Seeing you guys,
you could just see in his eyes.
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- Like, his eyes tell it all.
- [all laughing]
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You look really happy.
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Yeah.
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- ["Copilot" by 5 Alarm playing]
- ♪ Come on, let's fly tonight ♪
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♪ Got you here right by my side ♪
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♪ We're just getting started ♪
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♪ Oh, yeah, we're high, so high ♪
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♪ Miles above and we're still climbing ♪
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♪ Oh, I thank you for it ♪
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♪ You are my co-co-co-co-copilot ♪
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♪ You are my copilot ♪
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♪ You are my co-co-co-co-copilot ♪
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{\an8}[Chelsea] Very in.
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{\an8}- What is that?
- This.
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That?
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[Chelsea] I really like these pants a lot.
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{\an8}I'm gonna get both. These.
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[Kwame sighs, clears throat]
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Oh, I wanted to try the biker shorts too.
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Baby, you have 10,000 things back there.
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- You wanna go--?
- Kwame, for as much as you like clothes...
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- The biker shorts, you should do.
- [Chelsea] Definitely.
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Perfect.
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When we woke up this morning,
first thing I said to Chelsea was,
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"Hey, are you okay?
How are you doing?" You know?
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And her response to me was,
"Do I sound okay? Or do I look okay?"
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Almost in a really confrontational way.
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And it kind of hit me in a weird way,
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'cause that is something
that she's done a couple times.
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I'm trying to do the good thing,
and then all of a sudden it feels like
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I'm the bad guy, or I'm the one
who screwed up her morning,
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and it just like...
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It was just hard.
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- Okay.
- No, they look good.
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I think I might have one more.
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Okay. Go ahead. Do your thing.
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[laughs] Do you think it could possibly
get any hotter in here?
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[both laugh]
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Yes or no?
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- Nope.
- Yeah.
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- I'm having so much fun with you.
- Are you?
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- Yeah.
- Good. [chuckles]
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All right, see ya.
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See ya.
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We're getting into the last stretch,
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and I'm going through a lot.
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Trying to find moments
where I could be by myself,
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but wherever I am, I'm in her space.
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Just like, in certain points,
it can feel suffocating.
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You know?
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That's a tough look.
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Just say "you're beautiful," you know.
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- What's up?
- "Tough look." Don't know what that means.
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- It means it's a good look.
- I like it.
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I like the sling.
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Next time, I'll just say,
"You're beautiful."
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- I'm sorry. You know?
- [laughing] I'm just joking.
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Complimenting you the only way I know how.
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It's okay. Wait, wait.
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- Okay.
- We are not done with those strawberries.
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- My man.
- All right, bet. [exhales]
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- Okay, you gonna feed me a strawberry?
- [chuckles] Yeah.
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Tell me how much you love me.
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[laughing]
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- Come on.
- Good.
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[both laughing]
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Want me to feed you one?
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I've eaten enough of these, baby.
I'm good.
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- Mnh-mnh.
- Okay.
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You've already had one of these?
You haven't.
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- No, I've-- [laughs]
- Oh, you did?
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What you think I've been doing
every time you change?
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- Oh, I'm sorry.
- [laughing]
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- It's okay.
- That's right.
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Why do I have to wait a week? [chuckles]
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- I feel that.
- I just wanna do it.
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But if we have to come down
to Earth for a moment, like,
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today was a really,
really tough morning for us.
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- And-- Stop smiling. [laughs]
- [laughing] I'm sorry.
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Can't take you seriously.
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Well, I'm trying
to be real with you for a sec.
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I know. I feel you. I'm sorry.
I don't know why I'm smiling.
239
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- I don't know why you're smiling.
- You're hella cute.
240
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I can't look at your face. [chuckles]
241
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- [laughs] Okay, okay. I'm serious.
- Okay. So...
242
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All right. So...
243
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- This morning, we wake up.
- [clears throat]
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You're not feeling great.
245
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Obviously, I know
you're not feeling great.
246
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So I ask you, "Hey, how are you feeling?"
247
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"Are you okay?"
248
00:12:08,853 --> 00:12:11,480
- What was your response to me?
- I don't know.
249
00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:17,153
Your response was, "Do I sound okay?"
250
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[scoffs] You tell me
if that sounds fair to you.
251
00:12:20,322 --> 00:12:22,700
You're not considering
the weight of things you're saying.
252
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Like, "Fuck it. I'm gonna say it."
253
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I never directed it at you.
254
00:12:25,327 --> 00:12:27,705
And it's the stress that we're under
that's frustrating me.
255
00:12:27,705 --> 00:12:30,124
I wanted to help you out.
There's no need--
256
00:12:30,124 --> 00:12:33,335
This is "throw Chelsea under the bus,"
then I'm gonna throw you under.
257
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- So you better get ready.
- Go ahead. Please, do it.
258
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- Do it.
- It does not seem nice.
259
00:12:40,301 --> 00:12:41,886
It does not seem considerate.
260
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I understand the things, but you don't
have to, like, nitpick every little thing.
261
00:12:45,723 --> 00:12:49,226
I'm not nitpicking.
I'm telling you how you approach things.
262
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How you go after conversations.
263
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How you always wanna,
like, chase the fight.
264
00:12:53,230 --> 00:12:56,358
It always just feels like
everything's so confrontational, dude.
265
00:12:56,358 --> 00:12:58,110
Everything's so confrontational.
266
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I'm just direct.
267
00:13:02,406 --> 00:13:06,118
I'm just open. I don't like to, like,
keep things in and harbor it and, like...
268
00:13:06,118 --> 00:13:07,953
I-- I just don't do that.
269
00:13:07,953 --> 00:13:10,831
Big difference between being direct
and being confrontational, baby.
270
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"Do I look or do I sound okay?"
271
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Like, that's not being direct.
272
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- That's being confrontational.
- I just--
273
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[Kwame sighs]
274
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I'm trying.
275
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- I'm trying, dude.
- I know you are.
276
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There's no pocket of this moment
277
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in which I can, like, just go hide away
and have my little peace.
278
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There's no pockets for me.
279
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You have pockets.
280
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If you're stressed, you can hang with Mom.
That brings you back.
281
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You can go hang out with Rocky.
282
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All those things help you
get back to yourself.
283
00:13:51,497 --> 00:13:54,208
I have nothing here
that helps me get back to myself.
284
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Nothing.
285
00:13:55,835 --> 00:13:58,379
What, I'm gonna drive
to Portland for three hours,
286
00:13:58,379 --> 00:14:01,882
and then go lay in my bed
and take a deep breath and then come back?
287
00:14:02,883 --> 00:14:04,468
[chuckles] Okay.
288
00:14:06,762 --> 00:14:08,097
I wish you could do that.
289
00:14:14,728 --> 00:14:16,981
It's just tough
because thinking about, like,
290
00:14:16,981 --> 00:14:19,650
literally, like, fuck everything
that I say that I'm giving up.
291
00:14:19,650 --> 00:14:22,862
Fuck everything that I say I'm giving up.
Fuck Portland. Forget that.
292
00:14:22,862 --> 00:14:25,197
I can put all those things aside
because you would make up
293
00:14:25,197 --> 00:14:27,241
for more than enough happiness in that.
294
00:14:27,741 --> 00:14:31,662
But in the last couple of days,
it's been tough. It's been stress.
295
00:14:31,662 --> 00:14:32,997
Yeah, it has.
296
00:14:41,547 --> 00:14:44,425
[Kwame] And this is the time when we're
supposed to have each other's back.
297
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♪ Realizing that I'll never
See you that way again ♪
298
00:14:47,887 --> 00:14:51,390
♪ Time's ticking
But we're not getting stronger ♪
299
00:14:52,516 --> 00:14:53,642
♪ Stronger... ♪
300
00:14:53,642 --> 00:14:57,354
I know we're going to fight, argue.
I know we're gonna have tough moments.
301
00:14:57,354 --> 00:14:59,648
♪ Were we just a losing game... ♪
302
00:14:59,648 --> 00:15:03,569
But, like, I just want us
to be each other's peace. That's all.
303
00:15:04,069 --> 00:15:07,573
That's what I need from you,
and right now, we're just not having that.
304
00:15:09,658 --> 00:15:13,746
We are gonna have to stand there
at that altar and trust each other deeply
305
00:15:13,746 --> 00:15:16,624
that we're willing
to do this and figure it out.
306
00:15:17,124 --> 00:15:18,334
Every single day.
307
00:15:18,334 --> 00:15:20,502
We're not changing who we are.
308
00:15:21,128 --> 00:15:24,298
I love you for who you are,
and I do believe you love me for who I am.
309
00:15:24,298 --> 00:15:26,634
I do. I do.
310
00:15:29,303 --> 00:15:33,015
But, I mean, obviously, big day coming up.
311
00:15:36,101 --> 00:15:40,606
Do you see yourself standing there
at that altar, being able to say, "Yes"?
312
00:15:40,606 --> 00:15:43,067
Baby. Baby. Baby.
313
00:15:43,067 --> 00:15:45,110
Do you see yourself do it though?
314
00:15:49,990 --> 00:15:53,452
I do. If I didn't,
I wouldn't still be in this experiment.
315
00:15:53,452 --> 00:15:56,246
♪ Were we just a losing game? ♪
316
00:15:56,914 --> 00:16:00,084
♪ I know that you feel the same ♪
317
00:16:01,710 --> 00:16:04,171
♪ Take your rein ♪
318
00:16:04,171 --> 00:16:08,008
♪ 'Cause I can take the blame ♪
319
00:16:08,008 --> 00:16:12,012
{\an8}[man] We've heard good things about you,
so we're excited to meet you in person.
320
00:16:12,012 --> 00:16:14,014
- Okay. [laughs]
- Yeah.
321
00:16:14,014 --> 00:16:16,767
{\an8}Brett calls me up, and he tells me,
322
00:16:16,767 --> 00:16:20,187
{\an8}"I found my love,
and I'm getting married."
323
00:16:20,187 --> 00:16:21,814
{\an8}I'm like, "What?"
324
00:16:21,814 --> 00:16:26,527
{\an8}You disappear for a month.
You come back, and you're engaged.
325
00:16:26,527 --> 00:16:27,820
What was it?
326
00:16:27,820 --> 00:16:31,782
What was the deciding factor
that was like, "Okay, I'm gonna do this"?
327
00:16:31,782 --> 00:16:33,283
'Cause that's a big jump.
328
00:16:33,283 --> 00:16:38,038
There have been so many times in,
like, dating where I never really felt
329
00:16:38,038 --> 00:16:40,207
that the women
I'm talking to have ever really,
330
00:16:40,207 --> 00:16:43,293
like, really sat down
and, like, understood me.
331
00:16:43,293 --> 00:16:46,880
And then not just understood it,
but then wanted to take it and say,
332
00:16:46,880 --> 00:16:48,966
"I wanna support you,
333
00:16:48,966 --> 00:16:52,302
and I wanna continue
to, like, help you be a better person."
334
00:16:52,302 --> 00:16:56,181
{\an8}[Tiffany] With Brett, I felt like I could
talk to him about anything.
335
00:16:56,181 --> 00:16:59,643
Like values and family, finances, history.
336
00:16:59,643 --> 00:17:01,145
He just lets me be me.
337
00:17:01,145 --> 00:17:03,772
Because I feel like I've dated
a lot of people.
338
00:17:03,772 --> 00:17:06,608
I just kind of knew
what I was looking for.
339
00:17:06,608 --> 00:17:10,487
I needed someone
that understands struggle,
340
00:17:10,487 --> 00:17:13,282
but doesn't get complacent
with their life,
341
00:17:13,282 --> 00:17:17,578
is always trying to do
something better, do something more.
342
00:17:17,578 --> 00:17:19,413
Um, and that's what I saw in him.
343
00:17:19,413 --> 00:17:23,500
I'm the type of person that's going to
continue to, like, push myself.
344
00:17:23,500 --> 00:17:25,252
And I need a man that's the same way.
345
00:17:25,252 --> 00:17:27,796
- [Lakayana] That's that dude. For sure.
- [Tiffany] Yes!
346
00:17:27,796 --> 00:17:32,092
The more that we started talking,
the more that I realized
347
00:17:32,092 --> 00:17:36,889
just, like, how genuine and, like,
loving and caring of a person that she is.
348
00:17:36,889 --> 00:17:39,725
And then as we started
talking about, like, family,
349
00:17:39,725 --> 00:17:41,769
{\an8}that was something
that was really important to me.
350
00:17:41,769 --> 00:17:45,814
{\an8}'Cause I've definitely dated girls before
that when it comes to family, like,
351
00:17:46,315 --> 00:17:50,569
women see me now,
and they don't see where I come from.
352
00:17:50,569 --> 00:17:54,907
And when they see where I come from,
there's, like, judgment for my family
353
00:17:54,907 --> 00:17:57,993
and kind of decisions that they made
and things that they've done.
354
00:17:58,619 --> 00:18:01,622
So, it's, like, if I'm gonna
bring somebody into my life,
355
00:18:01,622 --> 00:18:06,335
like, this person needs
to understand that.
356
00:18:06,835 --> 00:18:09,421
And above all, like, support it. Right?
357
00:18:09,421 --> 00:18:11,799
And, like, that's all I ever got from her.
358
00:18:11,799 --> 00:18:14,009
Just kind of told her all I was feeling,
359
00:18:14,009 --> 00:18:16,470
and just for me,
it was really like letting my guard down.
360
00:18:16,470 --> 00:18:20,432
Like, I'm really seeing a future with you,
361
00:18:20,432 --> 00:18:24,645
and so many things that,
I guess, I've been afraid of,
362
00:18:25,145 --> 00:18:28,524
that I wasn't even aware
that I've been afraid of
363
00:18:28,524 --> 00:18:32,277
until, like, you came,
and I got to know you.
364
00:18:33,195 --> 00:18:37,449
So anyway, I'm trying not to get
too emotional talking about that.
365
00:18:37,449 --> 00:18:41,787
But, um, thinking about, like, a family
366
00:18:41,787 --> 00:18:45,541
and, like, kind of starting a new branch
in my family, you know,
367
00:18:45,541 --> 00:18:48,377
with, like, where she is in her life,
where I'm at with my life.
368
00:18:48,377 --> 00:18:51,421
Our ambition, you know,
Black women and you know.
369
00:18:51,421 --> 00:18:52,965
- It's important.
- [Brett] It is.
370
00:18:52,965 --> 00:18:56,426
And it's like, you know, generational
poverty in my family is a thing.
371
00:18:56,426 --> 00:18:59,721
And it's like, I wanna be with somebody
372
00:18:59,721 --> 00:19:02,683
that is, like, driven and focused as I am.
373
00:19:02,683 --> 00:19:06,645
And we can grow together,
and we can start a whole new, like, life
374
00:19:06,645 --> 00:19:09,481
for when it comes to our kids
and what they can be able to achieve
375
00:19:09,481 --> 00:19:11,275
and give them the resources I didn't have.
376
00:19:11,275 --> 00:19:12,693
[Tiffany] Hmm.
377
00:19:13,902 --> 00:19:16,905
- [laughing]
- She's amazing. She's absolutely amazing.
378
00:19:17,781 --> 00:19:19,992
[Ralen] Could we cheers
to that one too? Jeez, wow.
379
00:19:19,992 --> 00:19:21,869
- [laughing]
- [Ralen] The first one was...
380
00:19:21,869 --> 00:19:23,871
- [Lakayana] Oh, my God.
- [Tiffany] Whoo!
381
00:19:23,871 --> 00:19:25,664
- Oh, my gosh.
- [Wilson] Cheers.
382
00:19:25,664 --> 00:19:28,834
It's really dope.
It feels like... sounds like real love,
383
00:19:28,834 --> 00:19:30,544
and so I'm very happy for you.
384
00:19:30,544 --> 00:19:32,588
I'm pretty... confident.
385
00:19:32,588 --> 00:19:35,007
I've observed how
you look at Brett, and, Brett,
386
00:19:35,007 --> 00:19:38,719
I've looked at how you look at Tiffany,
and it is a very beautiful thing.
387
00:19:38,719 --> 00:19:41,972
Um, and words are part of it,
388
00:19:41,972 --> 00:19:44,224
but actions speak louder than that.
389
00:19:44,224 --> 00:19:46,602
The way y'all look at each other
has been very inspiring.
390
00:19:46,602 --> 00:19:50,272
And to see a Black couple
is a beautiful thing.
391
00:19:50,856 --> 00:19:52,649
Yo. Y'all are gonna make me cry. [laughs]
392
00:19:52,649 --> 00:19:55,194
- We'll have to cheers to that as well.
- Happy tears. [laughs]
393
00:19:55,194 --> 00:19:58,947
- [pop music playing]
- ♪ Oh, I would give the world to you ♪
394
00:19:58,947 --> 00:20:05,370
♪ If I could, I would for you ♪
395
00:20:05,370 --> 00:20:08,999
♪ Change it all for you ♪
396
00:20:08,999 --> 00:20:11,418
{\an8}♪ Would give it all to you ♪
397
00:20:11,418 --> 00:20:15,714
{\an8}♪ I would ♪
398
00:20:15,714 --> 00:20:17,966
{\an8}- [Paul] Got you something.
- [laughing]
399
00:20:17,966 --> 00:20:20,344
{\an8}- Oh, my God. Thank you!
- Some flowers.
400
00:20:20,344 --> 00:20:22,679
{\an8}You're so cute. These are so pretty.
401
00:20:22,679 --> 00:20:24,932
[Paul] The wedding is rapidly approaching.
402
00:20:24,932 --> 00:20:27,768
{\an8}As we get closer,
it gets more serious. It gets more real.
403
00:20:27,768 --> 00:20:31,688
We've been dealing with a lot
of new variables, like new people.
404
00:20:31,688 --> 00:20:33,565
Seeing our family members, our friends.
405
00:20:33,565 --> 00:20:35,484
It's a little challenging,
to say the least.
406
00:20:35,484 --> 00:20:37,402
This is really cute.
I've never been down here.
407
00:20:37,402 --> 00:20:38,445
I haven't either.
408
00:20:38,445 --> 00:20:43,617
But I know that I love her,
and I want Micah to know how I'm feeling.
409
00:20:45,327 --> 00:20:47,746
{\an8}I'm excited for your mom
to be back here, kinda. [laughs]
410
00:20:47,746 --> 00:20:49,748
- Yeah.
- I love her. She's been texting me.
411
00:20:49,748 --> 00:20:51,500
- Oh, no.
- She's trying to get all the info.
412
00:20:51,500 --> 00:20:53,126
- Oh, really?
- Yeah.
413
00:20:53,126 --> 00:20:54,127
What's she saying?
414
00:20:54,127 --> 00:20:57,297
She just wants my, like, opinion
on, like, her dress for the wedding.
415
00:20:57,297 --> 00:20:59,216
She wants to know what my mom's wearing.
416
00:21:00,092 --> 00:21:01,426
- Salad bowl?
- Yeah.
417
00:21:01,426 --> 00:21:02,678
- Uh-oh.
- [server] Uh-oh.
418
00:21:02,678 --> 00:21:04,263
- Gravity.
- [Paul] All good.
419
00:21:04,263 --> 00:21:06,598
- Thank you.
- [server] Cornichons, anchovies.
420
00:21:07,432 --> 00:21:10,102
[Micah] I feel like we're giving ourselves
as much time as possible
421
00:21:10,102 --> 00:21:14,273
before, like, being completely,
like, certain. I feel like that's good.
422
00:21:14,273 --> 00:21:17,484
I feel like it just shows that we, like,
actually wanna make the right decision.
423
00:21:17,484 --> 00:21:19,695
It is 100% smart.
424
00:21:19,695 --> 00:21:22,864
But it also gives me
an incredible amount of anxiety.
425
00:21:22,864 --> 00:21:23,949
[Micah laughs] Yeah.
426
00:21:23,949 --> 00:21:25,450
If we, like, were to get married,
427
00:21:25,450 --> 00:21:30,205
I don't know if my stuff would fit
into your, like, life. [laughs]
428
00:21:30,205 --> 00:21:31,498
We need a bigger spot?
429
00:21:31,498 --> 00:21:32,833
Yeah. [chuckles]
430
00:21:32,833 --> 00:21:36,169
My place is pretty empty.
Or did you think the opposite?
431
00:21:36,169 --> 00:21:37,963
I mean, there's no closets or anything.
432
00:21:37,963 --> 00:21:40,841
It's also difficult 'cause,
like, all my stuff's in Scottsdale.
433
00:21:41,341 --> 00:21:43,760
I feel like you wanna keep
your place in Scottsdale.
434
00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:47,806
We could leave a lot of that stuff there
and, like, bring, like, some essentials.
435
00:21:47,806 --> 00:21:51,393
I'm thinking, like, clothes
and, like, shoes and stuff.
436
00:21:51,393 --> 00:21:54,271
[laughs] How much
more clothes do you have? 'Cause like--
437
00:21:54,271 --> 00:21:55,355
What do you mean?
438
00:21:55,355 --> 00:21:58,608
It's so much already at the townhouse.
439
00:21:59,401 --> 00:22:00,319
[laughs]
440
00:22:00,319 --> 00:22:04,531
That's probably, like,
less than, like, a 40th of what I have.
441
00:22:04,531 --> 00:22:08,535
I think that what we should do
is get a three-bedroom
442
00:22:08,535 --> 00:22:11,413
and dedicate a whole room
to your clothes, okay?
443
00:22:11,413 --> 00:22:12,331
[Micah] There you go.
444
00:22:12,331 --> 00:22:13,415
- [laughs]
- Right.
445
00:22:14,333 --> 00:22:16,585
Would you wanna,
like, do long distance from me?
446
00:22:16,585 --> 00:22:18,337
- No.
- No?
447
00:22:18,337 --> 00:22:20,172
Definitely not. I think that sucks.
448
00:22:20,797 --> 00:22:22,674
Would you wanna come
with me to Scottsdale?
449
00:22:22,674 --> 00:22:23,592
No.
450
00:22:24,259 --> 00:22:26,636
- Well-- [scoffs]
- But I would. I would.
451
00:22:26,636 --> 00:22:29,973
If I can get my job to go fully remote,
I would definitely come with you there.
452
00:22:30,557 --> 00:22:32,934
I wouldn't move there, but...
453
00:22:33,518 --> 00:22:36,938
You know what? I won't even say that much.
I'll go in with an open mind
454
00:22:36,938 --> 00:22:39,316
with the possibility
that I would move there.
455
00:22:39,316 --> 00:22:40,942
I could probably be convinced.
456
00:22:40,942 --> 00:22:42,569
I wouldn't want you to be not happy.
457
00:22:42,569 --> 00:22:45,155
I think it's just important
to me that you're willing to try.
458
00:22:45,155 --> 00:22:47,157
- [Paul] Yeah. And I can do that.
- See what--
459
00:22:48,408 --> 00:22:51,078
If we don't get married,
like, what would we do?
460
00:22:51,661 --> 00:22:54,664
I feel like it'd be hard to,
like, go back to living, like, separately.
461
00:22:54,664 --> 00:22:56,291
Yeah, it definitely would.
462
00:22:56,291 --> 00:22:58,877
I think it would be very lonely for me.
463
00:23:02,339 --> 00:23:04,674
Like, I don't want that.
Of course not. Like, I love you.
464
00:23:04,674 --> 00:23:06,968
- I don't want that.
- I love you too.
465
00:23:09,846 --> 00:23:14,101
You make me want to be my best self.
And that is such a cool feeling,
466
00:23:14,101 --> 00:23:15,644
because I haven't been, like,
467
00:23:15,644 --> 00:23:18,313
that inspired or motivated
in, like, several years
468
00:23:18,313 --> 00:23:20,941
by, like, a girl or anybody, really.
469
00:23:20,941 --> 00:23:23,402
That's something that I knew
that I was missing in my life.
470
00:23:24,986 --> 00:23:27,781
You're the thing that I'm
the most attracted to on Earth right now.
471
00:23:27,781 --> 00:23:31,993
So, like, I would be lying if I said
that I wasn't afraid of losing you.
472
00:23:31,993 --> 00:23:34,538
- ["Stay Here" playing]
- ♪ So just take a shot ♪
473
00:23:34,538 --> 00:23:39,334
♪ And stay here ♪
474
00:23:39,334 --> 00:23:43,547
♪ I'm so sick of my head aching ♪
475
00:23:49,344 --> 00:23:52,639
{\an8}[Bliss] I'm excited for you to meet
my mom and my sisters.
476
00:23:52,639 --> 00:23:53,557
{\an8}[Zack] Yeah.
477
00:23:53,557 --> 00:23:54,808
{\an8}[Bliss] Are you excited?
478
00:23:54,808 --> 00:23:55,725
{\an8}[Zack] Yeah.
479
00:23:56,977 --> 00:23:59,563
{\an8}[chuckles] That's all you're gonna
give me? You're so nervous.
480
00:24:04,276 --> 00:24:06,361
- Hi.
- Hi.
481
00:24:06,361 --> 00:24:09,531
- [Bliss laughs] Hi, baby!
- You look so cute.
482
00:24:09,531 --> 00:24:10,449
{\an8}Hi, Zack.
483
00:24:10,449 --> 00:24:11,992
{\an8}- [Zack] Hi.
- It's nice to meet you.
484
00:24:11,992 --> 00:24:13,076
{\an8}[Zack] What was your name?
485
00:24:13,076 --> 00:24:14,744
{\an8}- Annalee.
- [Zack] Annalee. And?
486
00:24:14,744 --> 00:24:15,871
{\an8}- Tatiana.
- [Zack] Tatiana.
487
00:24:15,871 --> 00:24:17,998
{\an8}- Yes, nice to meet you.
- [Zack] Nice to meet you.
488
00:24:17,998 --> 00:24:21,209
{\an8}So, Bliss's mom just flew out
from Arizona.
489
00:24:21,209 --> 00:24:23,587
{\an8}- Hey.
- [mom] Hey, nice to meet you.
490
00:24:23,587 --> 00:24:25,088
{\an8}[Bliss] Oh, you're already crying?
491
00:24:25,088 --> 00:24:26,715
{\an8}Okay, Mom. [chuckles]
492
00:24:26,715 --> 00:24:29,968
It's important to me
that if we get married
493
00:24:29,968 --> 00:24:32,304
that I have a good relationship
with her family,
494
00:24:32,304 --> 00:24:34,222
and so I'm a little nervous.
495
00:24:34,222 --> 00:24:35,599
I told Bliss that. Bliss is like,
496
00:24:35,599 --> 00:24:38,268
"You don't have anything
to be nervous about," but... [groans]
497
00:24:38,268 --> 00:24:40,103
I'm a little nervous about it.
498
00:24:40,103 --> 00:24:41,771
[Bliss] You guys wanna see my ring?
499
00:24:41,771 --> 00:24:44,274
- [Katherine] Yes.
- [Tatiana] Beautiful.
500
00:24:44,274 --> 00:24:48,528
So, can you guys tell us, like,
a little bit about your journey,
501
00:24:48,528 --> 00:24:50,822
like, up to this point?
502
00:24:50,822 --> 00:24:56,703
Yeah. So, we met on a social experiment.
Psychological experiment?
503
00:24:56,703 --> 00:24:58,914
- I don't know how you classify it.
- Both.
504
00:24:58,914 --> 00:25:02,876
Where you're not able
to see the other person.
505
00:25:04,211 --> 00:25:06,713
[chuckles] I'm having, like,
a weird déjà vu moment
506
00:25:06,713 --> 00:25:08,298
in this moment.
507
00:25:08,298 --> 00:25:11,760
Just keep going. You are the one
that has to tell the story.
508
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:16,681
Yeah. Um, Bliss and I really clicked
509
00:25:16,681 --> 00:25:18,642
when she started talking
to me about books.
510
00:25:19,309 --> 00:25:21,895
Then I realized
how smart and intelligent she was.
511
00:25:22,395 --> 00:25:25,649
And that's what really
attracted me to her.
512
00:25:26,149 --> 00:25:30,070
And she is brilliant. She's beautiful.
513
00:25:30,987 --> 00:25:33,698
She is driven, and she's fierce.
514
00:25:34,199 --> 00:25:37,077
- That's right. Watch out, buddy.
- [Zack] She's thoughtful.
515
00:25:37,077 --> 00:25:41,456
Um, I mean, there's not many women
who dream of being on the moon at age 60.
516
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:45,710
When I look at who she is,
I don't think there's anyone else
517
00:25:45,710 --> 00:25:49,214
that I could make a bigger impact
in the world with by my side.
518
00:25:49,214 --> 00:25:53,468
And getting to know her character
has been really impressive.
519
00:25:55,095 --> 00:25:57,639
[laughing] Okay, everyone.
520
00:25:57,639 --> 00:25:59,349
- [Katherine] Wow.
- [Bliss] That's sweet.
521
00:25:59,349 --> 00:26:02,185
[chuckles] It's all because
of my mom. Seriously, though.
522
00:26:02,185 --> 00:26:03,103
Thank you.
523
00:26:04,521 --> 00:26:08,692
I'm glad that you realize her worth
because she is...
524
00:26:09,192 --> 00:26:12,112
- Here I said I wasn't gonna cry.
- [Bliss] You're gonna make me cry now.
525
00:26:12,112 --> 00:26:15,532
She is worth more than gold.
526
00:26:16,241 --> 00:26:19,786
She is, like, one of the most
important people in my life.
527
00:26:20,370 --> 00:26:22,372
And that is what I want for her.
528
00:26:22,372 --> 00:26:25,250
I want somebody
who's gonna know what her worth is
529
00:26:25,250 --> 00:26:28,378
and treat her with the respect
that she deserves.
530
00:26:28,378 --> 00:26:31,298
And because she is our princess.
531
00:26:31,298 --> 00:26:32,716
She's our princess.
532
00:26:32,716 --> 00:26:36,052
I hadn't told a woman that I loved them
533
00:26:37,178 --> 00:26:39,014
since I was, like, 21.
534
00:26:39,598 --> 00:26:42,058
Why was that? Why is that?
535
00:26:42,601 --> 00:26:44,144
Uh, it's hard for me to say.
536
00:26:45,478 --> 00:26:48,732
I think, ordinarily,
I'm not a very vulnerable person,
537
00:26:48,732 --> 00:26:51,484
but I knew going into the experiment
538
00:26:51,484 --> 00:26:53,820
that if I wanted to be serious about it,
539
00:26:53,820 --> 00:26:57,115
I was gonna have to be vulnerable
with, not just one person,
540
00:26:57,782 --> 00:27:01,161
but a lot of different people.
And the downside to being vulnerable
541
00:27:01,161 --> 00:27:05,665
with... multiple people is that, uh,
542
00:27:06,666 --> 00:27:11,671
sometimes you can get feelings
for more than one person at the same time.
543
00:27:15,884 --> 00:27:19,429
I ended up in a situation
where I had to choose between two girls
544
00:27:19,429 --> 00:27:21,389
that I'd never actually met.
545
00:27:22,974 --> 00:27:25,101
- And--
- You're just telling them everything.
546
00:27:25,101 --> 00:27:27,228
- I might as well, right?
- [Bliss] You can.
547
00:27:27,228 --> 00:27:28,563
[Zack] I don't know. I mean...
548
00:27:30,815 --> 00:27:33,026
I can see even talking about it
makes Bliss uncomfortable.
549
00:27:34,110 --> 00:27:35,862
- So it's really awkward talking.
- That's okay.
550
00:27:35,862 --> 00:27:37,614
[Katherine] Yeah, we wanna know.
551
00:27:37,614 --> 00:27:39,616
- Go ahead.
- Keep-- Keep going.
552
00:27:39,616 --> 00:27:40,742
Keep going.
553
00:27:44,245 --> 00:27:48,583
[Zack] Um, so, I ended up having feelings
554
00:27:48,583 --> 00:27:51,169
for two different women at the same time.
555
00:27:51,169 --> 00:27:54,172
I never, ever wanted
to be in that situation.
556
00:27:55,340 --> 00:27:57,759
There was all this uncertainty.
557
00:27:58,385 --> 00:28:00,970
You know, I talked with Bliss about, um,
558
00:28:00,970 --> 00:28:02,806
whether I was gonna fit in
with your family.
559
00:28:02,806 --> 00:28:06,768
I really didn't know if it would work
when we got into the real world.
560
00:28:06,768 --> 00:28:09,104
None of us did.
That's the whole point is to experiment.
561
00:28:09,104 --> 00:28:10,021
[Zack] Yeah.
562
00:28:10,689 --> 00:28:12,273
And, um,
563
00:28:13,525 --> 00:28:15,068
yeah, I made the wrong decision.
564
00:28:15,068 --> 00:28:18,822
[sighs] I ended up realizing
that the person I had proposed to
565
00:28:18,822 --> 00:28:20,699
was there for the wrong reasons.
566
00:28:21,533 --> 00:28:22,826
And so I called it off.
567
00:28:26,996 --> 00:28:28,373
- [Annalee] So...
- Well-- Oh.
568
00:28:28,373 --> 00:28:31,292
Yeah, go ahead and ask him questions.
Feel free to be a little mean.
569
00:28:31,292 --> 00:28:34,796
Throw some wine in his face, you know.
He might deserve it.
570
00:28:34,796 --> 00:28:37,882
- Can we go talk for a minute?
- [Bliss laughs]
571
00:28:37,882 --> 00:28:42,095
So, what makes you sure about Bliss
572
00:28:42,095 --> 00:28:44,472
now, that you wanna be with her?
573
00:28:44,973 --> 00:28:48,226
Because, you know,
her family is a big part of her life.
574
00:28:48,226 --> 00:28:49,978
And you said something about, you know,
575
00:28:49,978 --> 00:28:52,439
you weren't sure if you were gonna fit in
and all that.
576
00:28:52,439 --> 00:28:55,233
So, I mean, can you elaborate
on that a little bit more?
577
00:28:55,233 --> 00:28:58,528
So, the way I grew up, um,
578
00:28:59,821 --> 00:29:04,743
I mean, I grew up in poverty.
I grew up in... uh, with not much stability.
579
00:29:04,743 --> 00:29:07,620
I literally had
to teach myself most everything.
580
00:29:09,330 --> 00:29:11,416
I mean, my mom gave me unconditional love.
581
00:29:12,542 --> 00:29:17,797
And, uh, my mom has passed away,
so she's not around anymore.
582
00:29:19,174 --> 00:29:21,968
But I've been in relationships in the past
583
00:29:21,968 --> 00:29:25,597
with women who came
from very well-to-do families,
584
00:29:25,597 --> 00:29:31,853
where I was definitely not accepted
by their family because of how I grew up.
585
00:29:33,271 --> 00:29:36,566
I think that is
what really made me nervous
586
00:29:36,566 --> 00:29:40,862
is, like, hearing
about how your family is.
587
00:29:41,571 --> 00:29:47,619
So, when I talked about, like, my fear
about not being accepted... it's that.
588
00:29:50,163 --> 00:29:53,666
- Romeo and Juliet didn't work out, right?
- Right.
589
00:29:53,666 --> 00:29:56,503
[Zack] They tried.
They tried to make it work, but it didn't.
590
00:29:56,503 --> 00:30:00,340
Um, that's... really was one
of the things that scared me,
591
00:30:00,340 --> 00:30:01,800
but I think when I saw her,
592
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:05,303
and we met for the first time
in the real world,
593
00:30:05,303 --> 00:30:08,181
she walked in the room,
and I was like, "Oh, wow."
594
00:30:08,181 --> 00:30:12,101
[chuckles] And I just... I felt
this connection with her immediately.
595
00:30:12,101 --> 00:30:14,479
And she had, like, this serious face
596
00:30:14,479 --> 00:30:16,689
'cause she didn't want me
to know how she felt.
597
00:30:16,689 --> 00:30:18,983
- I didn't know how I was gonna feel.
- But I could feel it.
598
00:30:18,983 --> 00:30:21,486
- I hadn't seen you before.
- What did you feel?
599
00:30:21,486 --> 00:30:22,570
[Zack] Just warmth.
600
00:30:22,570 --> 00:30:24,656
Yeah, just this warm feeling.
601
00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:27,116
- Yeah.
- Sometimes things just happen.
602
00:30:27,116 --> 00:30:29,828
And it just feels right,
and you just gotta go for it.
603
00:30:31,454 --> 00:30:33,998
[Annalee] So, you see yourself with him?
604
00:30:33,998 --> 00:30:37,585
You can see how your life is gonna be?
You can see your future?
605
00:30:37,585 --> 00:30:38,711
Yeah, I can.
606
00:30:39,462 --> 00:30:40,713
[Zack] She really does love me,
607
00:30:40,713 --> 00:30:43,591
and I know you do,
even though she doesn't wanna admit it.
608
00:30:43,591 --> 00:30:44,926
- No, I do love you.
- I know.
609
00:30:44,926 --> 00:30:47,428
I wouldn't have said yes
to you proposing to me...
610
00:30:47,428 --> 00:30:51,349
[laughing] ...after you were engaged
to another woman if I didn't love you.
611
00:30:51,349 --> 00:30:54,143
[laughing]
612
00:30:54,143 --> 00:30:56,437
Anyway. I bring that up a lot.
613
00:30:56,437 --> 00:30:59,482
Kind of, like, I joke about it a lot.
But it's true, though.
614
00:31:00,233 --> 00:31:03,278
Well, it was a hurtful thing, I'm sure.
615
00:31:04,821 --> 00:31:08,533
No one wants to feel second best,
you know. We just...
616
00:31:09,242 --> 00:31:10,910
We just wanna know, like,
617
00:31:10,910 --> 00:31:13,621
if you're gonna be able
to be the man, you know.
618
00:31:13,621 --> 00:31:16,332
Like, we know that words are words.
619
00:31:17,876 --> 00:31:21,296
Bliss would not be holding your hand
620
00:31:21,838 --> 00:31:24,757
if she did not truly love you.
621
00:31:24,757 --> 00:31:28,720
- [Bliss] Mm-hmm.
- She would not have said yes to you.
622
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,264
- [Bliss] Mm-hmm.
- [Katherine] And, um, I don't think--
623
00:31:31,264 --> 00:31:35,476
I never saw you look at anyone
the way that you look at him.
624
00:31:35,476 --> 00:31:37,687
And that speaks volumes.
625
00:31:38,313 --> 00:31:43,026
♪ Everything comes to those who wait
So slow-oh... ♪
626
00:31:43,026 --> 00:31:44,944
Here, let me hold your hand.
627
00:31:44,944 --> 00:31:50,450
- [all laughing]
- ♪ I'll come running in a heartbeat ♪
628
00:31:50,450 --> 00:31:54,495
♪ Just one second I'll be there... ♪
629
00:31:55,413 --> 00:31:59,000
[Katherine sighs] I am feeling
a world of emotions.
630
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,377
I'm feeling a little protective.
631
00:32:01,377 --> 00:32:04,130
{\an8}You know, as a mom,
I don't want her to be hurt.
632
00:32:04,130 --> 00:32:08,927
At the same time, I have to default
to the fact that I really trust Bliss.
633
00:32:08,927 --> 00:32:10,261
I think he's really
634
00:32:10,929 --> 00:32:12,597
maybe a soulmate to her.
635
00:32:13,181 --> 00:32:17,477
If you guys have kids,
then I will give you my methods.
636
00:32:17,477 --> 00:32:19,270
- I'll pass that on to you.
- Yeah.
637
00:32:19,270 --> 00:32:22,190
So, we just got one mom
if we have kids to raise 'em.
638
00:32:22,190 --> 00:32:24,734
- So, it's real important it works out.
- Oh!
639
00:32:24,734 --> 00:32:29,614
If my daughter chooses you,
then I'll be your mom too.
640
00:32:30,615 --> 00:32:32,116
I'll be your mom too.
641
00:32:32,116 --> 00:32:36,746
♪ I'll come running in a heartbeat... ♪
642
00:32:37,997 --> 00:32:41,709
[Katherine] I am elated that, you know,
she can be with someone that
643
00:32:43,044 --> 00:32:45,713
will treat her the way
she deserves to be treated.
644
00:32:47,006 --> 00:32:49,175
And I wanna have a lot of grandkids.
645
00:32:49,676 --> 00:32:51,469
I'm excited. [laughs]
646
00:32:51,469 --> 00:32:53,471
[sniffles] I'm excited.
647
00:32:53,471 --> 00:32:56,474
♪ All of our best days in a heartbeat ♪
648
00:32:56,474 --> 00:32:59,185
♪ I'll come running ♪
649
00:32:59,769 --> 00:33:02,730
♪ Precious moments we will share ♪
650
00:33:02,730 --> 00:33:07,568
♪ I'll come running in a heartbeat ♪
651
00:33:08,611 --> 00:33:10,363
{\an8}I'm excited. Are you?
652
00:33:10,363 --> 00:33:12,991
{\an8}[sighs] Yeah. I'm excited. I'm pumped.
653
00:33:12,991 --> 00:33:15,576
We are about to meet my family.
654
00:33:16,077 --> 00:33:20,540
Kwame coming from Portland to Seattle,
it's been really hard on him.
655
00:33:20,540 --> 00:33:22,500
{\an8}This side of the family is really tight.
656
00:33:22,500 --> 00:33:23,793
{\an8}Like, when I say really tight,
657
00:33:23,793 --> 00:33:26,629
{\an8}they live less than ten minutes away
from each other.
658
00:33:26,629 --> 00:33:28,006
They talk every single day.
659
00:33:28,006 --> 00:33:30,842
They are very involved in each other's
lives and in my life.
660
00:33:31,509 --> 00:33:34,554
- [shouting]
- [laughing]
661
00:33:35,638 --> 00:33:37,682
[woman] You guys are gonna make me cry.
662
00:33:37,682 --> 00:33:40,184
Hi! Oh!
663
00:33:40,184 --> 00:33:43,354
Nice to meet you!
Come on in. Meet the family.
664
00:33:43,354 --> 00:33:45,398
[Chelsea] I want him
to see the bigger picture.
665
00:33:45,398 --> 00:33:48,317
I want him to see the possibility.
666
00:33:48,317 --> 00:33:51,279
I'm willing to do what it takes
for him to be happy here.
667
00:33:51,279 --> 00:33:54,741
They will love him. I'm not too worried.
668
00:33:55,825 --> 00:33:58,911
{\an8}[shouting]
669
00:33:58,911 --> 00:34:00,621
You have a lot of people to meet.
670
00:34:00,621 --> 00:34:03,207
[Kwame] They're a loud family
with a lot of energy.
671
00:34:03,207 --> 00:34:05,209
{\an8}So, it's just basically
a bunch of Chelseas.
672
00:34:05,209 --> 00:34:08,379
{\an8}They seem like a good time, so I'm sure
I'll have a good time with them.
673
00:34:09,172 --> 00:34:13,217
{\an8}- Oh, wait! Do you wanna see my ring?
- [woman] Yes! I need to see this ring!
674
00:34:13,217 --> 00:34:16,387
{\an8}- Let's see.
- [Chelsea] I gotta get up for this.
675
00:34:16,387 --> 00:34:18,222
- [Kwame laughs]
- Oh, my gosh.
676
00:34:18,222 --> 00:34:21,309
- That is gorgeous.
- Thank you!
677
00:34:21,309 --> 00:34:22,852
Oh, I love it.
678
00:34:22,852 --> 00:34:24,103
Nice job, Kwame.
679
00:34:24,103 --> 00:34:25,605
- Yeah!
- [laughing]
680
00:34:25,605 --> 00:34:28,524
- You could find a ring that small or what?
- [laughing]
681
00:34:28,524 --> 00:34:31,110
I know! She's a size three.
682
00:34:31,611 --> 00:34:33,905
I didn't even know
there was fingers that small.
683
00:34:33,905 --> 00:34:36,324
Yeah, you did good, Kwame. I like that.
684
00:34:36,324 --> 00:34:39,619
So, Kwame is the most talented person.
I always tell him.
685
00:34:39,619 --> 00:34:41,829
- It should be illegal to be this talented.
- Oh, stop.
686
00:34:41,829 --> 00:34:46,334
Ex-professional soccer player,
smart, has an MBA.
687
00:34:46,334 --> 00:34:49,921
{\an8}- [Olen] Oh!
- He's so, like, creative.
688
00:34:49,921 --> 00:34:51,255
{\an8}He's a photographer.
689
00:34:51,255 --> 00:34:53,424
He has a beautiful voice, you guys.
690
00:34:53,424 --> 00:34:55,426
So, he totally serenaded me in the pods.
691
00:34:55,426 --> 00:34:56,552
- Oh, my gosh!
- Wow!
692
00:34:56,552 --> 00:34:59,180
And it was, um, the most beautiful thing.
693
00:34:59,180 --> 00:35:02,391
It was the day that I fell completely
head over heels in love with him,
694
00:35:02,391 --> 00:35:04,185
and I was bawling my eyes out.
695
00:35:04,185 --> 00:35:06,354
And he was like,
"This is your part, babe."
696
00:35:06,354 --> 00:35:08,523
Like, "Come on, sing."
And I was like... [gasps]
697
00:35:08,523 --> 00:35:10,483
I was bawling so hard that I was like...
698
00:35:10,483 --> 00:35:11,776
[gasps] "Okay!"
699
00:35:11,776 --> 00:35:13,861
- Which song?
- More musical than the others.
700
00:35:13,861 --> 00:35:15,488
We-- We made up a song.
701
00:35:15,488 --> 00:35:16,781
- He made it for me.
- [Olen] Oh!
702
00:35:16,781 --> 00:35:17,698
Yeah.
703
00:35:17,698 --> 00:35:20,201
- Do you play an instrument too?
- [Kwame] I play the guitar.
704
00:35:20,201 --> 00:35:22,495
- Wow.
- I play the piano a little bit as well.
705
00:35:22,495 --> 00:35:24,705
I have a harp in there
just waiting for someone.
706
00:35:24,705 --> 00:35:28,042
- [laughing]
- [Olen] I bet you could pick that up.
707
00:35:28,042 --> 00:35:31,045
- It's missing a string, so my kids have--
- [laughs] Yeah.
708
00:35:31,045 --> 00:35:33,089
We'll make the most
of how many strings we have.
709
00:35:33,089 --> 00:35:35,258
[laughing]
710
00:35:35,258 --> 00:35:37,510
So, what do you do for work?
711
00:35:37,510 --> 00:35:40,972
I am the head of business development
for a software company
712
00:35:40,972 --> 00:35:42,223
based in San Francisco.
713
00:35:42,223 --> 00:35:44,851
- Okay, so you work remotely, I take it.
- [Kwame] I work remotely.
714
00:35:44,851 --> 00:35:48,563
Yeah. So, I work at home
and watch Rocky in the meantime.
715
00:35:48,563 --> 00:35:50,398
[man] Talked about
where you're gonna live?
716
00:35:51,732 --> 00:35:54,026
- [Dimitria] Yeah. Good one.
- Where are we gonna live, baby?
717
00:35:54,026 --> 00:35:56,279
[man] You're gonna be
a non-coffee drinker in Seattle.
718
00:35:56,279 --> 00:35:59,198
- [Olen] You're living in Portland?
- Yeah, I live in Portland.
719
00:36:00,116 --> 00:36:02,535
He's realizing that Seattle
is just superior to Portland.
720
00:36:02,535 --> 00:36:03,619
[Dimitria] Yeah.
721
00:36:03,619 --> 00:36:07,290
Well, it is. 'Cause your little studio's
not gonna fit both of you.
722
00:36:07,290 --> 00:36:10,418
- The Petite Pink Palace.
- [laughing]
723
00:36:10,418 --> 00:36:11,335
[Chelsea] I know.
724
00:36:11,335 --> 00:36:14,463
There's a pink coffee maker, which doesn't
make sense. You don't drink coffee.
725
00:36:14,463 --> 00:36:17,675
- You just wanted something pink.
- I did. See? He already knows me.
726
00:36:18,259 --> 00:36:20,678
Chels, you might have to get rid
of some of the pink.
727
00:36:20,678 --> 00:36:23,139
- We won't be doing a pink townhouse.
- Okay. That's good.
728
00:36:23,139 --> 00:36:26,517
[Olen] Kwame, how about--
can I steal you away for a moment?
729
00:36:26,517 --> 00:36:27,894
- [Kwame] For sure.
- [Chelsea] Yes.
730
00:36:27,894 --> 00:36:31,939
[woman] All right. Do you wanna give Kwame
a fist bump or a hug or whatever?
731
00:36:31,939 --> 00:36:33,774
- That's fine, okay?
- Love you.
732
00:36:33,774 --> 00:36:36,819
- High five? Love it. Good to meet you.
- [Chelsea] High five.
733
00:36:36,819 --> 00:36:38,988
[woman] We'll hang out
with them some more, okay?
734
00:36:38,988 --> 00:36:40,781
- Yep.
- [woman] We've got lots of time.
735
00:36:40,781 --> 00:36:42,366
[Dimitria] Hopefully, he'll be family.
736
00:36:42,366 --> 00:36:45,912
- That's when I can hug him.
- [Chelsea laughing] Oh! That's--
737
00:36:45,912 --> 00:36:48,414
- Tough.
- Yeah. Tough audience. Tough audience.
738
00:36:48,414 --> 00:36:53,419
Kwame knows these are strong, beautiful,
independent women that I was raised by.
739
00:36:53,419 --> 00:36:56,505
I hope that I get their blessing.
740
00:36:56,505 --> 00:36:58,507
I hope I get their approval.
741
00:36:58,507 --> 00:37:01,052
Their opinion deeply matters to me.
742
00:37:01,677 --> 00:37:05,348
- [Kwame] Ooh!
- And I desperately want it to go well.
743
00:37:06,224 --> 00:37:09,560
So, tell me, what do you think of Rocky?
744
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,812
- Are you a dog-lover?
- [laughs]
745
00:37:11,812 --> 00:37:13,147
{\an8}I am a dog person.
746
00:37:13,147 --> 00:37:16,400
{\an8}You know, Rocky's actually,
out of all the dogs I've met, Rocky is--
747
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:18,152
{\an8}- He's pretty chill.
- Yeah, top five.
748
00:37:18,152 --> 00:37:22,365
As you can see,
he means everything to Chelsea. [laughs]
749
00:37:22,365 --> 00:37:24,492
- Yes, he does. Yeah.
- That dog. Yeah.
750
00:37:24,492 --> 00:37:26,994
Did you have, um, dogs growing up?
751
00:37:26,994 --> 00:37:29,538
When I was back in Ghana,
we had a... [laughs]
752
00:37:29,538 --> 00:37:30,665
...I had a squirrel.
753
00:37:30,665 --> 00:37:34,543
- Oh! A pet squirrel.
- [laughs] A pet squirrel. I know.
754
00:37:34,543 --> 00:37:37,255
- Did it actually come when you call it?
- First time ever heard...
755
00:37:37,255 --> 00:37:38,464
- "Here, squirrel."
- Yeah.
756
00:37:38,464 --> 00:37:41,050
Well, that's cool
that you get along with him.
757
00:37:41,050 --> 00:37:43,010
So, tell me about when--
758
00:37:43,010 --> 00:37:45,721
Well, how old were you
when you came to the States?
759
00:37:45,721 --> 00:37:47,014
I was eight years old.
760
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,309
I was walking through the airport
with my brother and sister.
761
00:37:50,309 --> 00:37:52,103
- So you have a brother and sister.
- I do.
762
00:37:52,103 --> 00:37:54,563
- And are you the oldest?
- No, I'm the youngest.
763
00:37:54,563 --> 00:37:55,856
- Youngest? Okay.
- Yes.
764
00:37:55,856 --> 00:37:58,276
[Olen] Well, I'm sure you could--
As Chelsea's told you,
765
00:37:58,276 --> 00:38:02,488
we're just a really big,
really close-knit family.
766
00:38:02,488 --> 00:38:04,532
- Yeah.
- [Olen] Really close, so...
767
00:38:04,532 --> 00:38:06,200
[Kwame] That's really awesome.
768
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:09,578
I hope you like
a lot of family time. [laughs]
769
00:38:09,578 --> 00:38:11,831
- 'Cause we have a lot of it. Yeah.
- Yeah. Yeah.
770
00:38:11,831 --> 00:38:14,041
- That's what she always says.
- We do.
771
00:38:14,041 --> 00:38:17,545
Sunday night dinners, you know.
We all get together for dinner.
772
00:38:17,545 --> 00:38:19,171
- Really? Yeah.
- [Olen] Yeah.
773
00:38:19,171 --> 00:38:21,674
Well, that's cool.
I've never really had that.
774
00:38:21,674 --> 00:38:25,469
So, me and my family never really
even ate dinner at the same table.
775
00:38:25,469 --> 00:38:27,179
I don't think there was anything bad.
776
00:38:27,179 --> 00:38:29,724
- It was just how we lived, you know.
- [Olen] Right.
777
00:38:29,724 --> 00:38:32,852
So, I never really had a family
where we ate dinner at the same table.
778
00:38:32,852 --> 00:38:35,021
- Well, good. Now you get to.
- [both laugh]
779
00:38:35,021 --> 00:38:37,023
- [Olen] Cheers. Here's to that.
- Cheers to that.
780
00:38:37,023 --> 00:38:38,441
- [Olen] Thank you.
- For sure.
781
00:38:38,441 --> 00:38:40,943
- And we're happy to have you.
- Yeah. Thank you so much.
782
00:38:40,943 --> 00:38:43,696
I feel like it was a successful night
with Chelsea's family.
783
00:38:43,696 --> 00:38:46,824
And, uh, based on the amount of hugs I got
throughout the night,
784
00:38:46,824 --> 00:38:49,076
I'm gonna say
that I got their blessing as well.
785
00:38:49,076 --> 00:38:53,205
- [pop music playing]
- ♪ Through a vision, we can be... ♪
786
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:55,541
- [chuckles]
- It's beautiful, huh?
787
00:38:55,541 --> 00:38:57,084
- Super calm night.
- Yeah.
788
00:38:57,084 --> 00:38:59,086
- [Chelsea] You can see the mountains.
- Mm-hmm.
789
00:38:59,086 --> 00:39:02,298
[Chelsea] It's beautiful, babe. Like,
this is what I love about home, babe.
790
00:39:02,298 --> 00:39:04,842
The water.
It's the blue sky, the mountains.
791
00:39:04,842 --> 00:39:08,929
- The wow factor here is epic, you know?
- [chuckles] Yeah. It is.
792
00:39:08,929 --> 00:39:12,058
I am someone who talks
about adventure, right?
793
00:39:12,058 --> 00:39:14,727
And life and taking life by the horns.
794
00:39:14,727 --> 00:39:18,981
So this gets to be a new adventure for me.
And that's how I gotta look at it.
795
00:39:18,981 --> 00:39:21,734
I've gotten to see
what Portland has to offer,
796
00:39:22,234 --> 00:39:24,487
so maybe it is time
to move somewhere else.
797
00:39:24,487 --> 00:39:26,530
Maybe it is time to try a new lifestyle
798
00:39:26,530 --> 00:39:28,991
and embrace that
as much as I embraced this one.
799
00:39:29,575 --> 00:39:33,412
[Chelsea] Well, I think we should just
go look around and explore together
800
00:39:33,412 --> 00:39:35,998
and see what the vibe is
and see what we feel like.
801
00:39:35,998 --> 00:39:39,585
And, obviously, based on,
like, our budget and things like that...
802
00:39:39,585 --> 00:39:40,920
[Kwame] I can dig it.
803
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:42,338
[laughs]
804
00:39:42,338 --> 00:39:44,757
♪ Dreams can come alive ♪
805
00:39:44,757 --> 00:39:46,967
♪ We can feel the air we breathe ♪
806
00:39:46,967 --> 00:39:50,346
♪ We're reaching for the light ♪
807
00:39:50,346 --> 00:39:53,891
♪ Nowhere we can go ♪
808
00:39:53,891 --> 00:39:55,976
[vocalizing]
809
00:39:56,769 --> 00:40:01,023
♪ Nowhere we can go ♪
810
00:40:01,524 --> 00:40:04,193
{\an8}[pop music playing]
811
00:40:04,193 --> 00:40:06,570
{\an8}♪ Oh, yeah! ♪
812
00:40:06,570 --> 00:40:09,615
♪ There's beauty in every word ♪
813
00:40:09,615 --> 00:40:11,492
♪ When you start to speak... ♪
814
00:40:11,492 --> 00:40:14,745
- Ooh!
- [laughing]
815
00:40:14,745 --> 00:40:17,123
This is beautiful, huh?
816
00:40:17,123 --> 00:40:18,499
[Bliss] This is so cute.
817
00:40:18,499 --> 00:40:21,877
{\an8}This shop looks amazing!
818
00:40:21,877 --> 00:40:26,924
Oh, my goodness.
I see lace and lace and more lace.
819
00:40:26,924 --> 00:40:30,261
- [Tiffany squeals]
- [laughing]
820
00:40:30,261 --> 00:40:32,805
{\an8}It's one week until I get married.
821
00:40:32,805 --> 00:40:35,391
{\an8}I am here to pick out my wedding dress.
822
00:40:35,391 --> 00:40:37,393
{\an8}No pressure. [laughs]
823
00:40:37,393 --> 00:40:39,937
Oh, what is life right now? [laughs]
824
00:40:39,937 --> 00:40:41,939
♪ On top of the world... ♪
825
00:40:43,357 --> 00:40:45,818
{\an8}I think darker colors tend
to go better with my complexion.
826
00:40:45,818 --> 00:40:48,362
{\an8}Oh-ho-ho, hello, glove.
827
00:40:48,362 --> 00:40:50,281
{\an8}[laughing]
828
00:40:50,281 --> 00:40:52,450
{\an8}Just to give you some contrast.
829
00:40:52,450 --> 00:40:54,410
{\an8}- See what I mean?
- Oh, I like that.
830
00:40:54,410 --> 00:40:55,703
{\an8}It's an even darker blue.
831
00:40:55,703 --> 00:40:58,038
{\an8}I like that. It's like a midnight.
Like that.
832
00:40:58,038 --> 00:40:59,582
I love it! [laughs]
833
00:40:59,582 --> 00:41:01,792
♪ I feel on top of the world ♪
834
00:41:01,792 --> 00:41:05,254
{\an8}- [Tiffany] Have you talked to Jackie?
- I talked to Jackie a bit yesterday.
835
00:41:05,254 --> 00:41:07,506
{\an8}- Okay.
- I don't know what's going on, exactly.
836
00:41:07,506 --> 00:41:09,842
{\an8}- But I know that she's going through it.
- Yeah.
837
00:41:09,842 --> 00:41:12,887
And, honestly, I was, like,
really hoping that she was gonna be here.
838
00:41:14,722 --> 00:41:18,851
I was surprised when she didn't walk in
because this is marriage,
839
00:41:18,851 --> 00:41:20,769
and I thought she was
still going to be here.
840
00:41:20,769 --> 00:41:23,230
Like, I thought she was still
going to see this through.
841
00:41:23,230 --> 00:41:26,692
So, I'm just... I'm hoping
they can work through it.
842
00:41:26,692 --> 00:41:30,654
Oh, this is just a shirt!
Come on, playboy! Whoo! [shouts]
843
00:41:30,654 --> 00:41:32,698
- [laughs]
- [Marshall] I want something special.
844
00:41:32,698 --> 00:41:35,034
I wanna look clean.
I wanna look like a Black James Bond.
845
00:41:35,034 --> 00:41:37,453
- Get out the way of the mirror.
- [Ryan] Killin' 'em early.
846
00:41:37,453 --> 00:41:39,622
[Micah] Aww, so cute.
847
00:41:39,622 --> 00:41:41,665
- So, that's pretty.
- That's gorgeous.
848
00:41:41,665 --> 00:41:44,251
[Chelsea] It's a little bit more,
like, boho for us though.
849
00:41:44,793 --> 00:41:46,587
- It's okay. It's so tight.
- [cell phone chimes]
850
00:41:46,587 --> 00:41:47,630
[Kwame] This is Chelsea.
851
00:41:47,630 --> 00:41:49,590
Oh, wow. Look at y'all. Yeah.
852
00:41:49,590 --> 00:41:51,509
{\an8}Oh, you already got it
as your phone background?
853
00:41:51,509 --> 00:41:54,011
{\an8}- [laughing]
- Oh, my man!
854
00:41:54,011 --> 00:41:55,971
{\an8}- He's getting married in a week.
- My man!
855
00:41:55,971 --> 00:41:58,891
- Oh, man!
- [laughing]
856
00:41:58,891 --> 00:42:00,768
- Brett like, "I gotta step it up."
- Like, man--
857
00:42:00,768 --> 00:42:02,645
- Hold on.
- My phone ain't us.
858
00:42:02,645 --> 00:42:04,563
- [Kwame laughs]
- Oh, Tiff just texted me.
859
00:42:04,563 --> 00:42:06,440
Oh, what's she saying?
860
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:07,858
"Jackie isn't here." What? Oh.
861
00:42:08,526 --> 00:42:10,778
Jackie ain't there
for the wedding fitting.
862
00:42:10,778 --> 00:42:12,071
[Kwame] Ooh.
863
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:14,365
- [Brett] Hmm.
- [Kwame] Hmm!
864
00:42:15,324 --> 00:42:16,825
- [Lakayana] Huh?
- [Brett] "His fiancée."
865
00:42:16,825 --> 00:42:19,537
- "She's not here at the dress fitting."
- Damn.
866
00:42:20,246 --> 00:42:21,664
And she's like, "Is Marshall there?"
867
00:42:21,664 --> 00:42:24,250
- I'm like, "Yeah."
- Yeah. [chuckles]
868
00:42:24,250 --> 00:42:27,002
[Ryan] Is there anything that she does
that you can see, like,
869
00:42:27,002 --> 00:42:28,754
"Okay, that could be wifey material"?
870
00:42:30,422 --> 00:42:32,508
She does make me feel like I can fly.
871
00:42:32,508 --> 00:42:34,510
- [Ryan] Yeah.
- [Marshall] She does.
872
00:42:34,510 --> 00:42:38,681
- She does present herself--
- Can I talk to you for a little bit?
873
00:42:38,681 --> 00:42:40,057
- [Marshall] Huh?
- Talk to you?
874
00:42:40,057 --> 00:42:42,142
- Right now?
- [Brett] Yep. If y'all don't mind.
875
00:42:42,142 --> 00:42:44,186
Yeah, for sure, for sure. Take a break.
876
00:42:44,895 --> 00:42:47,106
So, Tiff just texted me
877
00:42:47,606 --> 00:42:51,360
and said that Jackie didn't show up
for her wedding dress fitting.
878
00:42:51,860 --> 00:42:52,695
Oh.
879
00:42:55,864 --> 00:42:56,699
Okay.
880
00:42:57,199 --> 00:42:59,410
So, just letting you know...
881
00:43:00,452 --> 00:43:02,663
so you're not blindsided by anything.
882
00:43:06,709 --> 00:43:07,543
All right.
883
00:43:07,543 --> 00:43:10,212
- Thanks for telling me.
- Yeah. Of course. Of course.
884
00:43:12,131 --> 00:43:14,341
- Appreciate that.
- [slow-tempo music playing]
885
00:43:14,341 --> 00:43:17,595
♪ You know I'm the only one you need ♪
886
00:43:17,595 --> 00:43:20,055
♪ Only, only one ♪
887
00:43:20,055 --> 00:43:23,267
♪ You know I'm the only one you need ♪
888
00:43:23,267 --> 00:43:25,603
♪ Only, only one ♪
889
00:43:25,603 --> 00:43:28,022
♪ You know this is real ♪
890
00:43:28,022 --> 00:43:31,358
♪ That you feel what I'm feeling, baby ♪
891
00:43:31,358 --> 00:43:34,612
{\an8}♪ You know I'm the only one you need... ♪
892
00:43:34,612 --> 00:43:36,155
{\an8}[Josh] Hello-hello!
893
00:43:38,157 --> 00:43:39,867
{\an8}- How you doing?
- Good. How are you?
894
00:43:40,743 --> 00:43:43,203
{\an8}- You got me flowers?
- Got you flowers.
895
00:43:43,203 --> 00:43:45,414
{\an8}That's so sweet of you.
896
00:43:45,414 --> 00:43:47,625
{\an8}- Oh, my gosh. That's so nice.
- [grunts]
897
00:43:47,625 --> 00:43:49,627
I'm a romantic brother. You feel me?
898
00:43:49,627 --> 00:43:50,544
Wow.
899
00:43:51,879 --> 00:43:54,590
[Josh] I wanna apologize,
first and foremost.
900
00:43:54,590 --> 00:43:56,258
- Mm-hmm.
- I'm only human.
901
00:43:56,759 --> 00:43:59,720
I was so nervous to... [sighs]
902
00:43:59,720 --> 00:44:01,013
...finally meet you.
903
00:44:01,013 --> 00:44:03,474
I should have said more,
904
00:44:03,474 --> 00:44:05,601
but I should have said it in a better way.
905
00:44:06,393 --> 00:44:10,272
It makes me nervous
how much I really care about you.
906
00:44:11,273 --> 00:44:13,609
Losing you is my biggest regret.
907
00:44:13,609 --> 00:44:17,905
♪ This is real
That you feel what I'm feeling, baby... ♪
908
00:44:17,905 --> 00:44:18,906
I do love you.
909
00:44:19,823 --> 00:44:21,617
♪ Only one you need ♪
910
00:44:21,617 --> 00:44:23,577
♪ Only, only one... ♪
911
00:44:23,577 --> 00:44:24,787
And I wanna be together.
912
00:44:24,787 --> 00:44:28,123
♪ Only one, only one ♪
913
00:44:29,583 --> 00:44:32,086
- ["Sow" by Kat Elizabeth playing]
- ♪ Down, down, down ♪
914
00:44:32,086 --> 00:44:34,296
♪ We go, go ♪
915
00:44:34,296 --> 00:44:39,510
♪ 'Cause, baby
I'm not, not, not shallow ♪
916
00:44:39,510 --> 00:44:42,096
♪ Down, down, down ♪
917
00:44:42,096 --> 00:44:44,515
♪ We grow, grow ♪
918
00:44:44,515 --> 00:44:47,017
♪ 'Cause, baby, tick-tick, tock-tock ♪
919
00:44:47,017 --> 00:44:49,520
♪ You reap what you sow ♪
920
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:50,938
♪ You reap what you ♪
921
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♪ You could have had someone easy ♪
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♪ But most days ♪
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♪ My heart's like a stone ♪
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{\an8}♪ You reap what you sow ♪