1 00:00:01,668 --> 00:00:03,337 [Chris] Previously on "1,000-lb Sisters..." 2 00:00:06,423 --> 00:00:09,593 [automated voice speaking] Down in Pounds Hollow, where the creek runs slow. 3 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:15,474 One of my new creative outlets is writing AI music. 4 00:00:15,557 --> 00:00:17,434 [automated voice singing] ♪ Down in Pounds Hollow ♪ 5 00:00:17,518 --> 00:00:19,811 [singing] Down in Pounds Hollow. 6 00:00:19,895 --> 00:00:23,148 The song "Pounds Hollow" was wrote for the family. 7 00:00:23,232 --> 00:00:26,527 I'm working on a couple concepts for music videos, 8 00:00:26,652 --> 00:00:29,821 and I want the whole family out of Pounds Hollow. 9 00:00:29,905 --> 00:00:31,698 Copy that. 10 00:00:31,782 --> 00:00:34,701 I appreciate you letting me come over and hang out. 11 00:00:34,826 --> 00:00:38,747 There's still something weird between me and Amy. 12 00:00:41,208 --> 00:00:42,876 [coughing] [sniffles] 13 00:00:49,716 --> 00:00:53,428 You know I value my alone time, and I never get any. 14 00:00:53,554 --> 00:00:56,890 It's not fair to you to put yourself on the back burner. 15 00:00:56,974 --> 00:01:00,018 Tammy's outside right now in the van waiting for me. 16 00:01:00,102 --> 00:01:02,604 She just don't wanna be without me. 17 00:01:02,729 --> 00:01:05,732 We can't keep living the way that we have been. 18 00:01:05,816 --> 00:01:06,984 I think I know what I have to do. 19 00:01:07,067 --> 00:01:09,069 ♪♪ 20 00:01:10,112 --> 00:01:11,196 Will you marry me? 21 00:01:12,614 --> 00:01:14,157 I love you. 22 00:01:16,660 --> 00:01:18,787 [Andrea] I'm hoping that this changes our relationship 23 00:01:18,912 --> 00:01:20,247 for the better. 24 00:01:20,330 --> 00:01:22,039 And some of the anxiety and stuff 25 00:01:22,124 --> 00:01:24,418 that she's been dealing with might calm down a little bit 26 00:01:24,543 --> 00:01:26,044 if she knows that we're secure. 27 00:01:33,426 --> 00:01:38,765 [Christmas music plays] 28 00:01:43,895 --> 00:01:45,606 [Misty] It's warm in here. 29 00:01:45,731 --> 00:01:47,316 There's no heat on in here. 30 00:01:49,151 --> 00:01:50,402 Hold up, y'all. 31 00:01:50,485 --> 00:01:52,070 You got a mother [bleep] fat man in here... 32 00:01:55,407 --> 00:01:56,450 [bleep]. 33 00:01:58,535 --> 00:02:00,912 [Chris] Today we're going to Santa Claus, Indiana. 34 00:02:00,996 --> 00:02:04,750 Santa Claus is centered around Christmas. 35 00:02:04,833 --> 00:02:07,753 I'm waiting for her to tell me to buy a property there, 36 00:02:07,836 --> 00:02:10,297 'cause they don't ever change the decoration. 37 00:02:10,422 --> 00:02:13,342 So it's Christmas year round at this place. 38 00:02:13,467 --> 00:02:15,010 I can keep my tree up all year. 39 00:02:16,094 --> 00:02:18,513 Nope. I'm not moving there. 40 00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:19,806 I can't do it, Captain. 41 00:02:19,890 --> 00:02:20,974 [laughs] 42 00:02:22,059 --> 00:02:25,562 Today, let's see if we can kind of coexist without blowing up, 43 00:02:25,646 --> 00:02:27,606 shopping together, and all that stuff. 44 00:02:27,689 --> 00:02:30,359 Try to lead off of what happened at the wedding. 45 00:02:30,484 --> 00:02:32,486 You know, Tammy and Amy set some peace 46 00:02:32,611 --> 00:02:35,405 between the two of them. -I'm just here for the ride. 47 00:02:35,489 --> 00:02:36,740 I'm here for the snacks. 48 00:02:36,823 --> 00:02:38,700 [laughing] 49 00:02:38,825 --> 00:02:40,118 ♪♪ 50 00:02:40,202 --> 00:02:43,329 [Amy] I can't believe you talked me into this toddler outfit. 51 00:02:43,454 --> 00:02:44,456 [snorts] 52 00:02:45,499 --> 00:02:47,417 [Brian] That was just for you to wear around the house... 53 00:02:48,877 --> 00:02:50,837 [laughs] 54 00:02:50,921 --> 00:02:53,632 Before my kids were born, after my grandma died, 55 00:02:53,715 --> 00:02:56,426 holidays [bleep] sucked. 56 00:02:56,510 --> 00:03:00,097 So we're trying to build memories with the kids 57 00:03:00,180 --> 00:03:03,266 and try to make the holidays more magical with either... 58 00:03:05,644 --> 00:03:06,812 or... 59 00:03:13,443 --> 00:03:14,861 We always fight, 60 00:03:14,986 --> 00:03:16,780 or something always happens. 61 00:03:17,864 --> 00:03:20,367 Yeah, me and Tammy hung out the other day, but we're still 62 00:03:20,450 --> 00:03:24,538 taking things slow. We're still rebuilding trust. 63 00:03:24,663 --> 00:03:27,541 We're still learning how to... 64 00:03:28,875 --> 00:03:31,002 talk... [snorts] 65 00:03:31,086 --> 00:03:35,424 ...communicate, listen, use our big girl ears. 66 00:03:35,549 --> 00:03:37,551 I'm just hoping to have a good day. 67 00:03:38,844 --> 00:03:40,721 Tammy stays in her lane, I'll stay in mine. 68 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:45,392 Are you excited to tell the family... 69 00:03:51,148 --> 00:03:53,233 "...we're getting married." 70 00:03:55,067 --> 00:03:57,154 -Oh, Lord. -[chuckles] 71 00:03:57,237 --> 00:03:58,947 Jesus, take the wheel. 72 00:03:59,072 --> 00:04:00,907 [laughs] 73 00:04:01,032 --> 00:04:02,951 [Tammy] I'm excited about... 74 00:04:04,745 --> 00:04:07,456 This engagement ring... 75 00:04:07,581 --> 00:04:09,416 I haven't took it off. 76 00:04:09,499 --> 00:04:10,792 I just went with some of the colors 77 00:04:10,917 --> 00:04:13,712 that I knew she liked, you know. -[Tammy speaking] 78 00:04:13,795 --> 00:04:16,005 She's unique, so I wish I could get her something unique, 79 00:04:16,089 --> 00:04:17,089 I guess. 80 00:04:17,173 --> 00:04:18,675 [chuckles] 81 00:04:18,759 --> 00:04:21,261 You better not start laughing, because if you start laughing, 82 00:04:21,386 --> 00:04:22,429 I'm gonna start laughing, and then... 83 00:04:22,554 --> 00:04:24,014 So you want me to start crying? 84 00:04:24,097 --> 00:04:25,515 [Andrea] No, um -- anything 85 00:04:25,599 --> 00:04:27,017 but laugh. 86 00:04:27,100 --> 00:04:29,853 You laugh like you've been smoking for, like, years. 87 00:04:29,936 --> 00:04:31,062 -What? -Like, cigarettes for years. 88 00:04:31,146 --> 00:04:32,814 -Ew. -You're like -- [in raspy voice] Eh-he-he. 89 00:04:32,939 --> 00:04:35,192 [laughs] 90 00:04:35,275 --> 00:04:39,696 [normally] But to be honest, like, yeah, I'm -- I'm nervous 91 00:04:39,780 --> 00:04:41,573 about the engagement, yeah, a little bit, 92 00:04:41,656 --> 00:04:43,700 'cause I don't want anybody to -- 93 00:04:43,784 --> 00:04:45,869 I mean, I want everybody to think it's all -- you know, 94 00:04:45,952 --> 00:04:47,662 all good and stuff, you know? 95 00:04:51,792 --> 00:04:56,129 ♪♪ 96 00:05:01,259 --> 00:05:02,469 [Chris speaking] 97 00:05:02,552 --> 00:05:05,806 She got big enough earmuffs for all of us. 98 00:05:05,889 --> 00:05:10,310 I'm hoping if everything goes well with the shopping trip 99 00:05:10,435 --> 00:05:14,189 that I'm able to get everybody together for New Year's Eve, 100 00:05:14,314 --> 00:05:17,776 why not go ahead and -- and use the momentum we got 101 00:05:17,859 --> 00:05:20,779 to bring us back together even stronger? 102 00:05:20,862 --> 00:05:23,490 -[Andrea] Love the outfit. -He made me wear it. 103 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:28,286 [all laughing] 104 00:05:28,370 --> 00:05:29,371 [Misty] Kind of look like it. 105 00:05:34,459 --> 00:05:37,629 [Tammy] Before we go in, can we sit here for a minute? 106 00:05:37,712 --> 00:05:38,713 [Chris] Sure. 107 00:05:40,173 --> 00:05:41,967 There's something we wanna share with y'all. 108 00:05:44,302 --> 00:05:47,514 So the other day, she made my dream come true, 109 00:05:49,391 --> 00:05:51,101 and she asked me to marry her. 110 00:05:55,522 --> 00:05:56,690 Congratulations. 111 00:05:56,773 --> 00:05:59,276 I hope you said, "Yeah," 'cause you're wearing the ring. 112 00:05:59,359 --> 00:06:00,777 Yes. 113 00:06:00,861 --> 00:06:02,028 [tense music plays] 114 00:06:06,867 --> 00:06:08,535 [Andrea] This is so awkward. 115 00:06:08,660 --> 00:06:10,745 This family, like, you could do the least little thing, 116 00:06:10,871 --> 00:06:12,581 stub your toe, and they get mad. 117 00:06:12,706 --> 00:06:15,876 But a whole big old wedding, and they just sat there like... 118 00:06:17,043 --> 00:06:18,795 they were at the library or something. 119 00:06:19,921 --> 00:06:22,382 Is everybody happy about it or no? 120 00:06:22,465 --> 00:06:23,508 -[some family members] Yes. -[Andrea] OK. 121 00:06:23,592 --> 00:06:24,593 -Sorry. -Oh, yeah, look, 122 00:06:24,718 --> 00:06:26,553 you put up with her this long, you might as well 123 00:06:26,636 --> 00:06:27,637 stick around. -[Brittany] Yeah, [indistinct] 124 00:06:28,847 --> 00:06:30,849 [Tammy] My family has no reactions. 125 00:06:31,975 --> 00:06:33,685 They're like, "OK." 126 00:06:33,768 --> 00:06:34,728 "Cool." 127 00:06:34,853 --> 00:06:37,105 Can y'all give me something more than that? 128 00:06:38,398 --> 00:06:39,482 It hurt my feelings. 129 00:06:43,945 --> 00:06:45,030 Wait, wait, wait. 130 00:06:45,113 --> 00:06:47,699 -[Brittany] This Christmas? -Wait, wait, wait, wait, 131 00:06:50,452 --> 00:06:53,705 ♪♪ 132 00:06:55,457 --> 00:06:57,792 'Cause, I mean, you're all about you now and yesterday. 133 00:06:57,918 --> 00:06:58,919 [Tammy] Um... 134 00:07:00,253 --> 00:07:02,255 ♪♪ 135 00:07:03,381 --> 00:07:04,799 -No. -No... 136 00:07:04,925 --> 00:07:06,968 it'll be December 12th of next year. 137 00:07:07,093 --> 00:07:08,053 -Of next year. -[Amy] Oh. 138 00:07:08,136 --> 00:07:09,179 -'26. -[Chris] Good. 139 00:07:09,262 --> 00:07:10,347 [Brittany] That gives us a little more time. 140 00:07:10,430 --> 00:07:11,765 -[Tammy and Amy] Yeah. -[Chris] At least you give us 141 00:07:11,848 --> 00:07:13,350 time this year. -Yes 142 00:07:13,433 --> 00:07:15,101 -[Amy] It was like two weeks. -[Chris] Last time, it was like, 143 00:07:15,185 --> 00:07:16,728 "Hey I'm getting married this day." -[Amy] Yeah. 144 00:07:16,811 --> 00:07:17,771 And we had -- what? 145 00:07:17,896 --> 00:07:19,564 Two weeks to get the hell up there? 146 00:07:19,648 --> 00:07:20,899 -Yes. -No, we didn't even have two weeks. 147 00:07:20,982 --> 00:07:22,609 -We had a week. -[Chris] It was a mess. 148 00:07:26,363 --> 00:07:28,281 -Apparently. -[chuckles] 149 00:07:28,406 --> 00:07:30,533 [Amy speaking] 150 00:07:30,617 --> 00:07:32,869 That just leaves July 4th for somebody. 151 00:07:32,953 --> 00:07:34,621 We can't do that -- Glenn's birthday. 152 00:07:34,746 --> 00:07:35,872 Nope, can't do that. 153 00:07:37,957 --> 00:07:39,960 ♪♪ 154 00:07:40,043 --> 00:07:41,336 [Brittany] I want a cookie. 155 00:07:41,461 --> 00:07:42,879 You can have whatever you want. 156 00:07:42,963 --> 00:07:46,007 [Brittany] You get three cookies for $8, or one cookie for $3? 157 00:07:46,132 --> 00:07:47,133 [Chris] Just buy three. 158 00:07:48,551 --> 00:07:50,512 [Andrea] Look at all these Christmas hoodies. 159 00:07:50,637 --> 00:07:51,721 [Tammy] Is there another rack? 160 00:07:51,805 --> 00:07:52,806 [Andrea] 161 00:07:52,931 --> 00:07:54,349 No... 162 00:07:54,474 --> 00:07:57,143 [chuckles] No. [mumbling] I don't care. 163 00:07:57,268 --> 00:07:58,395 -You're getting one. -I'm not. 164 00:07:58,478 --> 00:08:00,188 "Believe." 165 00:08:00,313 --> 00:08:04,317 -[Tammy] No, no. -[Andrea whispering] Stop it. 166 00:08:04,442 --> 00:08:06,361 [normally] Tammy wants a sweatshirt, 167 00:08:06,486 --> 00:08:09,739 but I don't really -- I mean, I didn't really want one. 168 00:08:09,823 --> 00:08:12,367 Yeah, I mean, we wear the same thing a lot. 169 00:08:12,492 --> 00:08:14,703 But I just think that sometimes she gets a little mad 170 00:08:14,828 --> 00:08:16,454 if I don't want to do it. 171 00:08:16,538 --> 00:08:17,831 I mean, we can't match every day, 172 00:08:17,914 --> 00:08:20,625 and there's -- there's things I like that she doesn't. 173 00:08:20,709 --> 00:08:22,127 You kind of just wanna be your own person 174 00:08:22,210 --> 00:08:23,503 sometimes, you know? 175 00:08:24,546 --> 00:08:25,630 [Misty] I'm stepping out. 176 00:08:25,714 --> 00:08:27,882 I got to go to the little girl's room, so. 177 00:08:28,008 --> 00:08:29,634 [Tammy] Hey, girl, watch your bag. 178 00:08:29,718 --> 00:08:32,053 You're knocking everybody over with your bag. 179 00:08:32,178 --> 00:08:33,138 What? 180 00:08:33,221 --> 00:08:35,597 [Tammy] You're hitting people with your bag. 181 00:08:35,682 --> 00:08:37,100 [Misty] You're the one walked into me. 182 00:08:37,183 --> 00:08:38,684 Hell, I was just standing there. 183 00:08:38,768 --> 00:08:41,520 [Tammy] I can't move nowhere else. Everybody's in front of me. 184 00:08:42,688 --> 00:08:44,649 Sometimes I think that she's just making 185 00:08:44,733 --> 00:08:46,026 a mountain out of a molehill. 186 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:56,411 [Andrea] There. There's your sweatshirt. 187 00:08:56,536 --> 00:08:58,955 -[cashier] Thank you so much, ma'am. -[Andrea] You're welcome. 188 00:09:00,749 --> 00:09:02,667 [Misty] Sorry, I didn't mean to hit you with my bag. 189 00:09:05,378 --> 00:09:07,464 [Misty] Here, I'll let you go first so I don't hit you with my bag. 190 00:09:07,547 --> 00:09:08,548 [Brittany] Hit me with it! 191 00:09:09,591 --> 00:09:10,592 Hit me with it! 192 00:09:12,218 --> 00:09:14,596 Tammy sees stuff that's not actually... 193 00:09:19,225 --> 00:09:22,729 Yeah, because I was behind Tammy coming down that bus 194 00:09:22,854 --> 00:09:24,064 in London. 195 00:09:24,189 --> 00:09:27,984 I guess you're joining the ranks of Hit Tammy Club. 196 00:09:28,068 --> 00:09:29,569 You know, Brittany's the president. 197 00:09:29,652 --> 00:09:30,779 You're the vice president. 198 00:09:30,904 --> 00:09:32,906 I'm gonna teach Brittany to throw hands and that way, 199 00:09:32,989 --> 00:09:35,075 by God, she won't get accused of using her purse again. 200 00:09:35,158 --> 00:09:36,701 [laughs] 201 00:09:36,785 --> 00:09:38,119 I'm ready to roll. 202 00:09:38,244 --> 00:09:40,080 [Misty] All right, let's warm up in the car. 203 00:09:41,164 --> 00:09:43,583 [Amy] I think Tammy's upset right now because she didn't get 204 00:09:43,708 --> 00:09:45,335 the response she was hoping for 205 00:09:45,418 --> 00:09:48,671 when they told us that they were engaged. 206 00:09:48,755 --> 00:09:50,632 I mean, I'm happy for them. Don't get me wrong. 207 00:09:50,757 --> 00:09:51,841 -Don't get me wrong. -[chuckles] 208 00:09:51,925 --> 00:09:54,511 [Amy] But Tammy can be a hard ass. 209 00:09:54,594 --> 00:09:57,597 And I don't think Andrea knows what she got herself into. 210 00:10:02,268 --> 00:10:04,604 What is the thing that bothers you the very most in terms 211 00:10:04,729 --> 00:10:06,022 of the extra skin? 212 00:10:06,106 --> 00:10:07,899 Are you happy with your cup size? 213 00:10:07,982 --> 00:10:11,778 The only thing I got an issue with is they're not together. 214 00:10:17,951 --> 00:10:21,454 This year, I'm wanting accountability. 215 00:10:21,538 --> 00:10:22,580 [Tammy] Misty popped off, 216 00:10:22,664 --> 00:10:25,583 and she was directing her comment towards me. 217 00:10:25,667 --> 00:10:28,628 She can take her accountability and shove it up her butt. 218 00:10:34,592 --> 00:10:38,513 ♪♪ 219 00:10:38,596 --> 00:10:40,306 [Tammy] Where are you taking me? 220 00:10:40,390 --> 00:10:43,268 -You're going to love it, love it, love it. -Mm-hmm. 221 00:10:43,351 --> 00:10:47,730 [Andrea] Tammy's family wasn't very excited about the engagement. 222 00:10:47,856 --> 00:10:50,567 So I brought her somewhere to try to make her feel better. 223 00:10:50,692 --> 00:10:53,027 Plus, I would love to talk to her about ways 224 00:10:53,111 --> 00:10:54,779 that we can create space. 225 00:10:54,863 --> 00:10:57,031 But whenever you've got to bring things up to Tammy, 226 00:10:57,115 --> 00:11:00,034 if it's kind of serious, you kind of have to make sure 227 00:11:00,118 --> 00:11:01,703 she's in a good mood. So... 228 00:11:07,375 --> 00:11:09,794 Oh, my God, the one right there with the white face. 229 00:11:09,878 --> 00:11:11,087 -[Andrea] Hi. -[Tammy] Oh. 230 00:11:12,380 --> 00:11:14,215 [Andrea] Aw. 231 00:11:14,340 --> 00:11:16,968 Hi, babies. 232 00:11:17,051 --> 00:11:19,762 I've never been to any cat cafe. 233 00:11:25,059 --> 00:11:26,227 Because... 234 00:11:41,075 --> 00:11:42,327 Aw. 235 00:11:42,410 --> 00:11:44,412 [chuckles] 236 00:11:44,537 --> 00:11:46,247 -Don't do this to me. -Hi. 237 00:11:47,790 --> 00:11:49,792 We don't wanna love you this much, OK? 238 00:11:49,918 --> 00:11:51,169 -No, I can't. -Yes, we do. 239 00:11:51,252 --> 00:11:53,379 Yes, we do. We do. 240 00:11:53,463 --> 00:11:54,756 We wanna love you. 241 00:11:57,967 --> 00:11:58,968 Zero. 242 00:12:01,012 --> 00:12:03,348 [Tammy speaking] 243 00:12:03,431 --> 00:12:04,766 Cat, dog, 244 00:12:05,767 --> 00:12:08,645 sloth, or horse? -[Andrea] No. 245 00:12:12,106 --> 00:12:14,984 And who the hell's got a sloth in their damn apartment? 246 00:12:17,528 --> 00:12:19,322 [laughs] 247 00:12:19,447 --> 00:12:20,990 No. 248 00:12:22,116 --> 00:12:24,786 But no, for real, when we get a bigger place, I promise. 249 00:12:26,162 --> 00:12:30,792 I don't have room for a hoodie, much less another cat. 250 00:12:30,875 --> 00:12:33,753 Tammy and I have been talking about getting a bigger place, 251 00:12:33,836 --> 00:12:37,257 but I can tell that Tammy's on the fence about it. 252 00:12:37,340 --> 00:12:39,801 But in a bigger apartment, she'll get a new friend, 253 00:12:39,926 --> 00:12:42,011 and I'll get personal space. 254 00:12:42,136 --> 00:12:43,596 It'll win-win for both of us. 255 00:12:44,973 --> 00:12:49,644 I wanted to get, like, maybe a... three-bedroom. 256 00:12:50,728 --> 00:12:53,815 -At least a two-bedroom. -[Andrea] Yeah, yeah. 257 00:12:53,898 --> 00:12:55,984 And then, like... 258 00:12:56,109 --> 00:12:58,027 big enough so we can have... 259 00:13:07,370 --> 00:13:10,290 So you -- you want your mom to live with us? 260 00:13:10,373 --> 00:13:12,000 [Tammy] Yes. 261 00:13:12,083 --> 00:13:16,087 I think it'll help Mom to have somebody there 262 00:13:16,170 --> 00:13:18,589 all the time, taking care of her. 263 00:13:22,844 --> 00:13:26,139 I wanna help Darlene, 264 00:13:26,222 --> 00:13:29,642 but as far as, like, living together, no. 265 00:13:29,726 --> 00:13:32,103 I rarely have alone time anyway, but 266 00:13:32,186 --> 00:13:34,856 if Darlene moves in, I'm not gonna have time 267 00:13:34,939 --> 00:13:36,607 to even... 268 00:13:36,691 --> 00:13:39,360 go to the bathroom and wipe and get back in the living room 269 00:13:39,444 --> 00:13:40,653 before she's gonna want something. 270 00:13:42,363 --> 00:13:44,365 ♪♪ 271 00:13:46,659 --> 00:13:47,660 [Andrea speaking] 272 00:13:49,537 --> 00:13:52,498 Jenny told me that I need to be direct 273 00:13:52,582 --> 00:13:54,959 and prioritize myself. 274 00:13:55,043 --> 00:13:58,546 'Cause in the end, it's my mental health, too. 275 00:13:58,671 --> 00:14:01,007 I mean, if it makes her happy, then -- [mumbles] 276 00:14:01,090 --> 00:14:03,217 you know, go ahead and, you know. 277 00:14:04,385 --> 00:14:05,470 So... 278 00:14:10,058 --> 00:14:11,851 It's really hard to tell Tammy no, 279 00:14:11,934 --> 00:14:14,479 so sometimes I just agree with her. 280 00:14:14,562 --> 00:14:16,564 I do think I need to get a little bit better 281 00:14:16,647 --> 00:14:19,650 about telling Tammy what I want. 282 00:14:19,734 --> 00:14:21,903 I have to start making myself happy as well. 283 00:14:23,071 --> 00:14:24,947 Aw. [chuckles] 284 00:14:30,411 --> 00:14:32,080 But are you glad we did? 285 00:14:33,164 --> 00:14:35,165 Yeah, I'm glad we did. 286 00:14:35,249 --> 00:14:38,461 I mean, they really didn't give, uh, like, a reaction. 287 00:14:38,586 --> 00:14:41,464 I think what it was is that it was just cold and tired 288 00:14:41,589 --> 00:14:42,590 and all that. 289 00:14:46,302 --> 00:14:47,637 [Andrea] Something fake. 290 00:14:47,762 --> 00:14:49,680 And even if they're not cool with that, 291 00:14:49,764 --> 00:14:51,724 I don't give a [silent mouthing]... -[Andrea] I don't give up. 292 00:14:53,601 --> 00:14:55,520 Family's what you make of it. 293 00:14:55,603 --> 00:14:57,939 I mean, I've made my own family. 294 00:14:58,064 --> 00:14:59,482 You know what I mean? 295 00:14:59,607 --> 00:15:02,985 So I was thinking maybe you could meet my friends. 296 00:15:05,071 --> 00:15:07,031 Now that we're getting married, I think she should 297 00:15:07,115 --> 00:15:08,950 meet the people closest to me. 298 00:15:09,033 --> 00:15:12,328 Also, I think if Tammy meets my friends and she likes them. 299 00:15:12,453 --> 00:15:14,914 Then that's gonna make her feel more comfortable 300 00:15:14,997 --> 00:15:18,459 with me going out by myself with, like, my friends. 301 00:15:23,381 --> 00:15:25,383 It would mean a lot for you to meet them. 302 00:15:26,551 --> 00:15:29,470 Andrea has now met my family. 303 00:15:29,595 --> 00:15:30,930 Like, all of them. 304 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:35,143 Now it's time for me to meet her family. 305 00:15:42,900 --> 00:15:44,944 I'm just nervous. 306 00:15:48,281 --> 00:15:50,992 I wanna get the whole family together and go out 307 00:15:51,075 --> 00:15:54,579 to Pounds Hollow, and I wanna make a music video. 308 00:15:56,664 --> 00:15:59,000 Do I need to go ahead and tell you what you was thinking? 309 00:15:59,125 --> 00:16:01,169 [Misty] I looked at you and you said, "Stop." 310 00:16:02,253 --> 00:16:03,337 I didn't even get to finish. 311 00:16:16,058 --> 00:16:17,393 [Amy speaking] 312 00:16:20,021 --> 00:16:21,731 Today, me and Brian are talking to this... 313 00:16:23,983 --> 00:16:25,401 No offense to my siblings, 314 00:16:25,485 --> 00:16:27,945 I don't have to choose my siblings' doctors. 315 00:16:28,070 --> 00:16:29,572 I wanna find somebody for me. 316 00:16:35,119 --> 00:16:36,746 I think she knocked out these bags under my eyes 317 00:16:36,871 --> 00:16:37,997 real quick, like... 318 00:16:39,624 --> 00:16:41,209 Well, let's get worried about my surgery, 319 00:16:41,292 --> 00:16:43,002 before we worry about... 320 00:16:43,085 --> 00:16:44,712 [laughing] Old face. 321 00:16:44,795 --> 00:16:46,547 [laughing] 322 00:16:46,631 --> 00:16:47,924 I think it's gonna be fun. 323 00:16:48,049 --> 00:16:49,258 Just me and my husband, hell yeah. 324 00:16:49,383 --> 00:16:51,761 And the siblings can leave as soon as my surgery's done. 325 00:16:51,844 --> 00:16:53,930 You can go skip out on me like I did Tammy. 326 00:16:54,013 --> 00:16:56,057 I'm fine with that. Go, go, go, go, go. 327 00:17:00,811 --> 00:17:01,771 [clicks tongue] 328 00:17:01,854 --> 00:17:03,731 Hey, Q! 329 00:17:04,773 --> 00:17:06,150 Holler at me while I'm there. 330 00:17:10,404 --> 00:17:11,321 [Dr. Li] Hi Amy. 331 00:17:11,446 --> 00:17:13,115 Hi, how are you? 332 00:17:13,241 --> 00:17:15,159 I'm doing great. I'm Dr. Linda Li. 333 00:17:15,284 --> 00:17:16,953 -Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. 334 00:17:17,078 --> 00:17:18,454 This is my husband, Brian. 335 00:17:18,538 --> 00:17:20,957 Hi there. So wonderful meeting you. 336 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:22,791 So my understanding is you've had 337 00:17:22,875 --> 00:17:25,002 a tremendous weight loss journey here. 338 00:17:25,127 --> 00:17:29,799 I was at 406 when I originally started back in 2019. 339 00:17:29,924 --> 00:17:32,552 And I weighed 215 today. 340 00:17:32,635 --> 00:17:35,137 [Dr. Li] Oh, my goodness. Congratulations. 341 00:17:35,263 --> 00:17:38,266 [Amy] But now it's like, when I play with my kids 342 00:17:38,349 --> 00:17:39,976 crawling on the floor, 343 00:17:40,059 --> 00:17:42,061 my knee... 344 00:17:42,144 --> 00:17:44,397 steps on my belly roll. 345 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:45,481 Yes! 346 00:17:45,565 --> 00:17:48,109 Yes, I hear that all the time from my patients 347 00:17:48,192 --> 00:17:49,860 who have lost all that weight, 348 00:17:49,986 --> 00:17:53,614 because that skin suit that no longer fits them anymore 349 00:17:53,698 --> 00:17:54,657 gets in the way. 350 00:17:54,740 --> 00:17:56,158 -Yeah. -[Dr. Li speaking] 351 00:17:56,242 --> 00:17:57,952 I already shed my jacket. 352 00:17:58,995 --> 00:18:02,623 Talking to Dr. Li makes me feel great because it's like 353 00:18:02,707 --> 00:18:06,043 she's here to enhance my physical being. 354 00:18:06,168 --> 00:18:09,672 She's here to remove my skin coat. 355 00:18:09,797 --> 00:18:12,675 It's summertime now, bitches. 356 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:14,927 What is the thing that bothers you the very most 357 00:18:15,011 --> 00:18:16,637 in terms of the extra skin? 358 00:18:16,721 --> 00:18:19,849 Belly, boobs, booty, and then wings. 359 00:18:19,974 --> 00:18:21,809 -[chuckles] -[Dr. Li] Oh, yep -- OK. 360 00:18:21,892 --> 00:18:23,519 When you are wearing your bra, 361 00:18:23,603 --> 00:18:25,271 are you happy with your cup size? 362 00:18:25,354 --> 00:18:26,314 Yes. 363 00:18:26,397 --> 00:18:28,983 The only thing I got an issue with is 364 00:18:29,066 --> 00:18:30,568 they're not together. 365 00:18:34,864 --> 00:18:37,867 Yes. Is it possible for me to take a look at everything 366 00:18:37,950 --> 00:18:39,368 real quick? -Yeah. 367 00:18:39,493 --> 00:18:41,621 Get your robe on. 368 00:18:41,704 --> 00:18:43,164 [Amy] I need a boob job. 369 00:18:43,247 --> 00:18:44,832 I don't want them bigger or littler, 370 00:18:44,915 --> 00:18:46,667 I just need them together. I need them friends, 371 00:18:46,751 --> 00:18:48,336 not enem -- mortal enemies, OK? 372 00:18:48,419 --> 00:18:50,046 I don't need them Tammy and me. I need them -- 373 00:18:50,129 --> 00:18:51,881 I need them up. I need them honey. 374 00:18:51,964 --> 00:18:53,883 I need them perky, hell. 375 00:18:53,966 --> 00:18:55,384 [chuckles] 376 00:18:55,468 --> 00:18:57,219 -I'm back. -All right, she's -- she's coming back. 377 00:18:57,345 --> 00:18:58,679 OK, perfect. 378 00:19:01,390 --> 00:19:02,975 -OK. -Can you see me? 379 00:19:03,059 --> 00:19:04,268 [Dr. Li] Oh. 380 00:19:04,393 --> 00:19:06,437 I'm gonna ask you to pull your shorts down a little bit 381 00:19:06,562 --> 00:19:07,563 so I can see... 382 00:19:08,564 --> 00:19:10,316 [Brian chuckles] 383 00:19:10,399 --> 00:19:12,735 [Dr. Li] Yes. That, yes. 384 00:19:12,860 --> 00:19:15,988 So that kind of double belly -- gone. 385 00:19:16,072 --> 00:19:18,074 -You can have one thing. And you know what? -[Amy] OK. 386 00:19:18,199 --> 00:19:20,117 [Dr. Li] When you look down, you're gonna be able to see 387 00:19:20,242 --> 00:19:21,243 your privates for the first time, 388 00:19:21,369 --> 00:19:23,871 and you're gonna be able to see your belly button. 389 00:19:23,954 --> 00:19:25,373 Oh, yeah. Well, I can see that 390 00:19:25,456 --> 00:19:26,832 a little bit when I raise it up. 391 00:19:26,916 --> 00:19:29,502 -[Dr. Li] You don't have to lift up. -[Amy] This will be gone too? 392 00:19:29,585 --> 00:19:32,797 Yes, all of that is gonna be flat. 393 00:19:32,922 --> 00:19:34,965 It's gonna be flat. 394 00:19:35,091 --> 00:19:38,761 [Amy] It's very exciting, but it'll be awkward at first... 395 00:19:40,429 --> 00:19:42,640 I'm just curious of how I'll look. 396 00:19:52,525 --> 00:19:53,859 What? [laughs] 397 00:19:55,695 --> 00:19:58,447 [Dr. Li] I am super excited because I know I can make 398 00:19:58,572 --> 00:20:01,283 such a transformative difference. 399 00:20:01,367 --> 00:20:03,452 I'm super excited too... 400 00:20:03,577 --> 00:20:04,578 [laughing] 401 00:20:08,791 --> 00:20:10,626 [laughing] Yeah. He is. 402 00:20:11,752 --> 00:20:12,628 Yeah, let's go. 403 00:20:12,753 --> 00:20:14,338 [Amy chuckles] 404 00:20:14,463 --> 00:20:15,464 [laughs] 405 00:20:16,757 --> 00:20:20,094 Is there any weight loss I need to do before I need 406 00:20:20,177 --> 00:20:21,178 to come down there? 407 00:20:22,555 --> 00:20:25,808 The way you are right now, you are a great candidate 408 00:20:25,933 --> 00:20:26,976 for surgery. 409 00:20:27,059 --> 00:20:29,061 You do not need to lose any more weight for me. 410 00:20:29,145 --> 00:20:30,229 -[Dr. Li speaking] -OK. 411 00:20:32,815 --> 00:20:34,942 Her saying, "You're approved on the spot," 412 00:20:35,025 --> 00:20:37,820 is [bleep] fantastic news. 413 00:20:37,945 --> 00:20:39,196 And I'm ready to go on with it. 414 00:20:39,321 --> 00:20:41,991 I'm ready to get [bleep] cut off me now. 415 00:20:42,116 --> 00:20:44,034 Like, it did take a while for me 416 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:45,703 because I did get off the wagon. 417 00:20:45,828 --> 00:20:48,998 I went through two pregnancies and a divorce. 418 00:20:49,123 --> 00:20:50,666 But... 419 00:20:50,791 --> 00:20:53,252 when I picked out the dress to now, 420 00:20:53,335 --> 00:20:55,212 I lost 70 pounds. 421 00:20:55,337 --> 00:20:56,338 Finally... 422 00:20:58,048 --> 00:21:00,342 After surgery, I do put drains in you... 423 00:21:02,511 --> 00:21:04,597 ...to make sure that everything's all good 424 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:05,931 when you go back home. 425 00:21:07,475 --> 00:21:09,185 [Amy] Oh, [bleep]. 426 00:21:09,310 --> 00:21:11,020 I really, really wanna do this, 427 00:21:11,103 --> 00:21:14,648 but how can I when my kids need me? 428 00:21:14,732 --> 00:21:17,151 I got to be here for them. 429 00:21:17,234 --> 00:21:18,360 -Bye. -Thank you. 430 00:21:18,486 --> 00:21:19,487 -Bye bye. -[Brian] Be talking to you. 431 00:21:24,158 --> 00:21:26,202 That just blew my mind. I got to stay in L.A. 432 00:21:26,285 --> 00:21:27,787 for two weeks. -Two weeks out there? 433 00:21:27,870 --> 00:21:30,247 -Is that what was discussed? -I know. 434 00:21:30,372 --> 00:21:33,042 I don't know how in the world you would accomplish that. 435 00:21:38,714 --> 00:21:40,758 My mom was in one hospital room, 436 00:21:40,883 --> 00:21:42,593 and her mom was in the other, screaming. 437 00:21:42,718 --> 00:21:44,720 And your mom looked at your dad and said -- 438 00:21:44,804 --> 00:21:46,222 My mom loves Andrea. 439 00:21:47,765 --> 00:21:49,183 [Andrea speaking] 440 00:21:52,394 --> 00:21:55,105 she does kind of interrupt. 441 00:22:05,032 --> 00:22:06,367 [Andrea] I don't know why, when I get nervous, 442 00:22:06,450 --> 00:22:07,952 I just can't eat. 443 00:22:08,035 --> 00:22:10,120 So remind me who else is coming tonight. 444 00:22:11,789 --> 00:22:14,124 Jenny, Sommer... 445 00:22:14,250 --> 00:22:15,543 and Allie. 446 00:22:15,626 --> 00:22:16,919 OK. 447 00:22:17,002 --> 00:22:20,756 Jenny and Allie are step, uh... 448 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:22,132 Yeah. 449 00:22:22,216 --> 00:22:24,051 [Andrea speaking] 450 00:22:25,803 --> 00:22:27,012 OK. 451 00:22:29,098 --> 00:22:34,353 Tonight, Andrea decided to take me out to meet her friends, 452 00:22:34,478 --> 00:22:38,107 and Andrea wants to tell her friends in person 453 00:22:38,190 --> 00:22:39,984 that we're engaged. 454 00:22:40,067 --> 00:22:41,986 I feel nervous. 455 00:22:42,069 --> 00:22:43,654 They're important to her. 456 00:22:43,737 --> 00:22:46,282 They're gonna be part of her life forever. 457 00:22:46,365 --> 00:22:49,076 So, I mean, I don't want them to not like me. 458 00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:53,330 -Tell me about Jenny. -[Andrea] She's cool. 459 00:22:53,414 --> 00:22:56,083 She's do anything for you... 460 00:22:58,711 --> 00:23:02,423 I understand how close Andrea is with her friends, 461 00:23:02,506 --> 00:23:06,343 but growing up, it was mostly just me and Amy. 462 00:23:07,344 --> 00:23:09,763 So, I'm sometimes socially awkward. 463 00:23:09,847 --> 00:23:12,516 I mean, I'll talk to you, don't get me wrong, 464 00:23:12,641 --> 00:23:15,477 but I just don't know how to react. 465 00:23:15,561 --> 00:23:18,230 -Hey, girl! -[Andrea] Hey! 466 00:23:18,355 --> 00:23:20,441 -How you doing? -[Sommer] Good, how are you? 467 00:23:20,524 --> 00:23:22,651 [Andrea] Good. This is Tammy. 468 00:23:22,735 --> 00:23:24,028 -[Sommer] Hi, Tammy. -Nice meeting you. 469 00:23:24,153 --> 00:23:26,363 -[Sommer] Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. 470 00:23:28,157 --> 00:23:30,034 -Hey -[Andrea] Hi. 471 00:23:30,159 --> 00:23:31,368 Hi. 472 00:23:31,452 --> 00:23:32,745 I'm kind of nervous for my friends 473 00:23:32,870 --> 00:23:35,915 to meet Tammy, the -- um, honestly... 474 00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,792 -This is Tammy. -[Jenny] Nice to meet you. 475 00:23:38,876 --> 00:23:41,795 ...especially Jenny, because Jenny thinks 476 00:23:41,879 --> 00:23:45,674 I need to reevaluate my life. She thinks I'm not happy. 477 00:23:45,758 --> 00:23:49,011 She thinks that I'm -- maybe I'm being controlled. 478 00:23:49,094 --> 00:23:53,390 So it's very, very important for Jenny to like Tammy. 479 00:23:53,515 --> 00:23:55,476 I just want everybody to get along. 480 00:23:55,559 --> 00:23:58,228 Just get along, you know? [bleep]. 481 00:23:59,438 --> 00:24:01,649 Y'all can order anything off the menu. 482 00:24:01,732 --> 00:24:03,817 -Anything. -Appetizers. 483 00:24:03,901 --> 00:24:06,195 Anything. Well, Jenny wants the pretzel. 484 00:24:06,278 --> 00:24:07,488 I do want the pretzel. 485 00:24:07,571 --> 00:24:09,073 [Andrea] See, I know you like that. 486 00:24:10,324 --> 00:24:11,742 [Jenny] I met Tammy tonight. 487 00:24:11,867 --> 00:24:15,496 She seems OK, but I always proceed with caution. 488 00:24:15,579 --> 00:24:18,165 I think, I'm a cynical person by nature, 489 00:24:18,248 --> 00:24:20,751 a -- a doubting Thomas, if you will. 490 00:24:20,876 --> 00:24:22,836 Do you want some Bang Bang Shrimp? 491 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,381 If it's spicy, Andrea won't eat it. 492 00:24:25,464 --> 00:24:27,132 Um... 493 00:24:27,257 --> 00:24:28,258 She won't eat it. 494 00:24:30,094 --> 00:24:32,262 Why do you have to call me out in front of everybody? 495 00:24:34,723 --> 00:24:35,724 [Jenny laughing] 496 00:24:35,808 --> 00:24:37,893 -[Jenny] Come on, now. -Now, you know I got to. 497 00:24:41,397 --> 00:24:43,023 We should do this, like, more often. 498 00:24:43,107 --> 00:24:45,484 I mean, we all do it all the time, but, like, 499 00:24:45,609 --> 00:24:48,404 you know, just come out and have a couple drinks. 500 00:24:48,487 --> 00:24:49,613 [Sommer] Yeah. [indistinct] 501 00:24:53,450 --> 00:24:54,618 I need another drink. 502 00:24:55,953 --> 00:24:57,579 [Jenny speaking] 503 00:24:57,663 --> 00:24:58,580 I guess. 504 00:24:58,664 --> 00:24:59,915 [all laughing] 505 00:25:01,792 --> 00:25:04,336 Tammy gets social anxiety and things like that, 506 00:25:04,461 --> 00:25:06,797 and I understand that, you know, because she was 507 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,133 in her house for years and years and years. 508 00:25:09,258 --> 00:25:12,553 It's almost like she was incarcerated, 509 00:25:12,636 --> 00:25:14,930 but if it stays awkward like this, 510 00:25:15,014 --> 00:25:16,265 I'm gonna have to get drunk. 511 00:25:16,348 --> 00:25:19,685 I mean, I'm talking, like, white girl wasted. 512 00:25:19,810 --> 00:25:23,188 [busy restaurant ambience] 513 00:25:28,527 --> 00:25:31,864 [restaurant chatter] 514 00:25:31,989 --> 00:25:36,118 [Jenny] I haven't been here in, like, probably eight years. 515 00:25:36,201 --> 00:25:39,329 -It's only my second time being here. -[Sommer] Really? 516 00:25:43,167 --> 00:25:46,420 I feel like Andrea has already filled me in 517 00:25:46,503 --> 00:25:48,922 on her friends, 518 00:25:49,006 --> 00:25:51,383 so I kind of feel like I already know them, 519 00:25:51,508 --> 00:25:54,928 so it's easy jumping into conversations. 520 00:25:56,180 --> 00:25:59,099 [Jenny] So, how have y'all been doing? 521 00:25:59,183 --> 00:26:01,060 [Tammy] She took me horseback riding. 522 00:26:01,185 --> 00:26:04,354 She's always her whole life wanted to horseback ride, 523 00:26:04,438 --> 00:26:07,608 but she's always, you know, not been able to. -[Allie] Mm-hmm. 524 00:26:07,691 --> 00:26:09,902 And then when we got off the horses, 525 00:26:10,027 --> 00:26:11,862 she took me to a little gazebo, 526 00:26:11,945 --> 00:26:13,906 and it was lined with flower petals 527 00:26:15,115 --> 00:26:17,034 and... 528 00:26:17,159 --> 00:26:19,369 asked me to marry her. 529 00:26:19,453 --> 00:26:21,872 [Sommer] Oh, it's so pretty! 530 00:26:21,997 --> 00:26:23,373 [Allie] Oh, my gosh! 531 00:26:23,499 --> 00:26:25,209 [Jenny] Congratulations to both of y'all. 532 00:26:25,334 --> 00:26:27,044 [Andrea] Yeah, that's still awesome, though. 533 00:26:27,127 --> 00:26:28,837 [Sommer] It's awesome. 534 00:26:31,548 --> 00:26:33,926 [Allie] Well, congrats. Oh, my gosh! 535 00:26:36,887 --> 00:26:38,555 Did you know? 536 00:26:38,639 --> 00:26:39,765 [Jenny] No. 537 00:26:39,890 --> 00:26:41,850 ♪♪ 538 00:26:42,893 --> 00:26:44,269 I know that I want Andrea to be happy, 539 00:26:44,394 --> 00:26:48,065 and... I support her in her quest for happiness. 540 00:26:53,654 --> 00:26:55,447 Well, we'll see. 541 00:26:57,908 --> 00:26:59,743 -[Sommer] Y'all have a date? -[Jenny] Yeah. 542 00:26:59,827 --> 00:27:01,745 December 12, 26. 543 00:27:01,870 --> 00:27:03,247 [Jenny] Awesome. 544 00:27:03,330 --> 00:27:04,248 -[Sommer] Wow. -I'm thinking, like, 545 00:27:04,331 --> 00:27:06,166 ice princess. 546 00:27:06,250 --> 00:27:08,210 Are you gonna wear, like, a coat and tails 547 00:27:08,293 --> 00:27:09,670 for the horse and buggy? -[Tammy] Yes. 548 00:27:09,753 --> 00:27:11,505 -[Andrea] Hmm. -That would be cool. And, like, shorts. 549 00:27:11,588 --> 00:27:13,465 You wear shorts and then, like, long tails. 550 00:27:13,590 --> 00:27:17,052 -White tux type thing? Top hat? -Hey, that might be -- yeah. 551 00:27:17,136 --> 00:27:20,264 -Hey, you might be on to something. -[Allie laughs] 552 00:27:20,347 --> 00:27:22,516 Would you -- would you let her do that? [laughs] 553 00:27:24,351 --> 00:27:25,352 No. 554 00:27:27,938 --> 00:27:30,440 -Ain't nobody gonna let me do nothing. -[Sommer] Ooh. 555 00:27:35,904 --> 00:27:38,866 [Andrea] That's OK. Jenny's seen me drunk before. 556 00:27:38,949 --> 00:27:42,077 We've been friends since we were alive, like literally. 557 00:27:42,161 --> 00:27:46,123 My mom was in one hospital room, and her mom was in the other. 558 00:27:46,206 --> 00:27:48,125 -Screaming, your mom was screaming. -And your mom -- 559 00:27:48,208 --> 00:27:49,918 and your mom looked at your dad and said -- 560 00:27:50,002 --> 00:27:51,253 My mom loves Andrea. 561 00:27:52,504 --> 00:27:53,505 Oh, good. 562 00:27:55,757 --> 00:27:57,467 Uh, how are your children? 563 00:27:57,551 --> 00:28:00,637 -Y'all need a soda or anything? -Yeah, Hunter works at Newport News Shipyard, 564 00:28:00,762 --> 00:28:01,972 out in the -- the yard. 565 00:28:02,097 --> 00:28:03,098 [squeaking] 566 00:28:04,766 --> 00:28:05,767 [squeaking] 567 00:28:07,227 --> 00:28:08,770 -Is that a hiccup? -[Tammy] Yeah. 568 00:28:08,854 --> 00:28:09,855 [Tammy squeaking] 569 00:28:11,106 --> 00:28:13,192 But anyway, he was co-salutatorian 570 00:28:13,317 --> 00:28:14,318 when he graduated. 571 00:28:14,443 --> 00:28:15,444 And I was worried about, 572 00:28:15,527 --> 00:28:16,653 I didn't let that child cross the street 573 00:28:16,737 --> 00:28:18,071 until he was like 14. 574 00:28:18,155 --> 00:28:19,323 -[Andrea] Yeah. -[Allie] He's just -- 575 00:28:19,448 --> 00:28:20,782 [laughs] new shiny. -[Andrea] Yeah. 576 00:28:20,866 --> 00:28:22,159 -[Allie laughing] -[Andrea and Jenny] Yeah. 577 00:28:24,620 --> 00:28:27,206 -Are you OK, Tam Tam? -What's wrong? 578 00:28:27,331 --> 00:28:28,332 [Allie speaking] What happened? 579 00:28:28,457 --> 00:28:29,416 [Allie speaking] You're tired? OK. 580 00:28:31,001 --> 00:28:32,878 -I'm boring her to tears. -[Tammy] No, it ain't you. 581 00:28:33,003 --> 00:28:35,088 It's just time for me to take my medicine. 582 00:28:35,172 --> 00:28:37,090 [Allie] I'm sorry, Tammy. 583 00:28:37,174 --> 00:28:39,176 ♪♪ 584 00:28:43,180 --> 00:28:44,181 [Andrea speaking] 585 00:28:51,730 --> 00:28:53,941 ...she does kind of interrupt, 586 00:28:54,024 --> 00:28:55,567 or she shuts down. 587 00:28:55,692 --> 00:28:58,487 But I just don't want my friends to think she's obnoxious. 588 00:29:01,823 --> 00:29:03,158 [party horn honks] 589 00:29:03,242 --> 00:29:04,701 I'm cold. 590 00:29:04,785 --> 00:29:06,870 [Misty] I'm cold, too, hell. 591 00:29:06,995 --> 00:29:07,996 [Brian] Babe? 592 00:29:09,206 --> 00:29:10,290 Babe, stop. 593 00:29:10,374 --> 00:29:11,875 [Amy] [bleep] it. 594 00:29:11,959 --> 00:29:13,752 Y'all don't want to hear me? 595 00:29:13,877 --> 00:29:15,003 When I get rich and famous, 596 00:29:16,505 --> 00:29:17,673 don't come crying to me. 597 00:29:22,511 --> 00:29:24,513 ♪♪ 598 00:29:27,933 --> 00:29:29,184 [Amy] What is it, Gage? 599 00:29:29,268 --> 00:29:31,687 Oh, wow! 600 00:29:31,770 --> 00:29:33,272 My favorite thing about Christmas 601 00:29:33,355 --> 00:29:34,356 is watching the boys... 602 00:29:38,610 --> 00:29:39,736 It made it magical. 603 00:29:39,820 --> 00:29:42,072 -[Glenn] This. -[Amy] Oh, my goodness. 604 00:29:42,155 --> 00:29:43,782 -You like it? -Uh-huh. 605 00:29:43,865 --> 00:29:45,284 [Amy] Please don't drop it on my foot. 606 00:29:46,743 --> 00:29:50,122 The boys got jelly blocks and record players 607 00:29:50,205 --> 00:29:53,750 and games and stuff that I didn't have growing up. 608 00:29:53,834 --> 00:29:55,794 I didn't have a -- a globe 609 00:29:55,877 --> 00:29:57,921 that told me where Brazil is 610 00:29:58,005 --> 00:29:59,965 and what kind of animals there are. 611 00:30:00,090 --> 00:30:02,009 And I didn't have that. 612 00:30:02,134 --> 00:30:05,762 I'm a '90s baby. It was all trashy and flashy. 613 00:30:06,972 --> 00:30:08,849 -Santa do good? -Yeah. 614 00:30:11,184 --> 00:30:12,185 [Andrea] So what are you doing? 615 00:30:16,898 --> 00:30:19,568 We absolutely love Christmas. 616 00:30:19,651 --> 00:30:21,278 I love all the lights and stuff. 617 00:30:21,361 --> 00:30:22,904 It's just pretty. 618 00:30:22,988 --> 00:30:26,366 [Tammy speaking] 619 00:30:26,491 --> 00:30:29,619 But this year, we just spent Christmas together, 620 00:30:29,703 --> 00:30:33,290 just Andrea, myself, and our cat, Kamala. 621 00:30:33,373 --> 00:30:37,919 It's a different feeling finally having my person 622 00:30:38,003 --> 00:30:41,298 that wants to spend time with me on Christmas. 623 00:30:41,381 --> 00:30:45,552 [Andrea] Having Tammy with me and doing our traditions, she's great. 624 00:30:45,677 --> 00:30:47,512 I love it, I love it. 625 00:30:55,145 --> 00:30:57,189 [Andrea] Sounds good to me. 626 00:30:57,272 --> 00:30:59,024 [Tammy] This year, we're all gonna get together 627 00:30:59,107 --> 00:31:01,109 and celebrate New Year's Eve 628 00:31:01,193 --> 00:31:02,569 at Chris's. 629 00:31:02,694 --> 00:31:08,200 But overall, the holidays just isn't the same. 630 00:31:08,283 --> 00:31:11,411 Everything still feels kind of rocky, even though 631 00:31:11,536 --> 00:31:14,081 me and Amy have made up. 632 00:31:16,375 --> 00:31:19,002 I'm still trying to get an answer 633 00:31:19,086 --> 00:31:21,797 how to heal her or how to fix it. 634 00:31:25,384 --> 00:31:27,386 ♪♪ 635 00:31:31,223 --> 00:31:32,599 [Chris] I guess we'll just set up everything up here, 636 00:31:32,724 --> 00:31:34,226 then make a plate and go down there. 637 00:31:34,351 --> 00:31:35,560 'Cause, it's -- 638 00:31:36,895 --> 00:31:39,231 -That's fine. -[Chris] All right. 639 00:31:39,356 --> 00:31:42,109 Today we're having a little New Year's Eve get-together. 640 00:31:42,234 --> 00:31:44,820 We got a bunch of little finger foods made up 641 00:31:44,903 --> 00:31:47,572 that are all healthy choices. 642 00:31:47,656 --> 00:31:52,911 Well, other than the chips, chicken wings, bacon chunks, 643 00:31:52,994 --> 00:31:56,581 and the crackers for the cheese ball and the cheese dip. 644 00:31:57,666 --> 00:31:59,209 -Hey. -Hey, sis. 645 00:31:59,292 --> 00:32:01,628 -How you doing? -I'm here with her. 646 00:32:01,753 --> 00:32:03,922 -[laughs] -[Chris] Well, I assume that 647 00:32:04,005 --> 00:32:07,008 because she's not driving yet. 648 00:32:07,092 --> 00:32:10,011 This New Year's Eve party is the first time 649 00:32:10,095 --> 00:32:11,972 that we've really got together as a family, 650 00:32:12,097 --> 00:32:13,765 since Amy's wedding. 651 00:32:13,849 --> 00:32:17,102 And the cool thing is, Tammy's bringing Andrea 652 00:32:17,227 --> 00:32:20,605 to the first cookout that she's ever come into. 653 00:32:20,689 --> 00:32:22,941 The way I see it is, if you're gonna join the family, 654 00:32:23,066 --> 00:32:24,443 I expect your ass to be here. 655 00:32:25,485 --> 00:32:26,945 -It's me. -Hey, Tammy. 656 00:32:27,028 --> 00:32:28,780 -Hey. -[Chris] Did you finally bring Andrea? 657 00:32:28,905 --> 00:32:30,198 -My God! -[laughing] 658 00:32:31,616 --> 00:32:33,660 -I'm here. -[Chris] Yeah! 659 00:32:33,785 --> 00:32:36,121 Are you excited? First time with my brothers? 660 00:32:36,246 --> 00:32:38,623 Yes, 'cause me and him have a good relationship, 661 00:32:38,748 --> 00:32:41,710 so we just ban -- we got to go banter back and forth. 662 00:32:41,793 --> 00:32:43,462 You're accepted. 663 00:32:43,545 --> 00:32:47,215 -Yay! -[chuckles] 664 00:32:47,299 --> 00:32:49,509 -Knock, knock. -[Chris] Welcome, welcome. 665 00:32:49,634 --> 00:32:51,428 Amanda brought Mellow. 666 00:32:51,511 --> 00:32:55,140 They've been dating for better part of a year now. 667 00:32:55,223 --> 00:32:56,808 -What's up, what's up? -[Tammy] What's up? 668 00:32:56,892 --> 00:32:59,603 [Chris] His nickname, Mellow, truly fits him. 669 00:32:59,686 --> 00:33:02,522 Because if he can live with Amanda and stay mellow, 670 00:33:02,647 --> 00:33:04,483 he has been blessed... 671 00:33:07,110 --> 00:33:08,153 Hey, what's up? 672 00:33:08,236 --> 00:33:09,696 You know, we're doing a damn thing in here. 673 00:33:09,821 --> 00:33:10,822 We about to eat. 674 00:33:12,115 --> 00:33:14,409 [Amanda] I don't get to see my siblings a whole lot. 675 00:33:14,493 --> 00:33:17,496 For the past year, I've been just in and out of the hospital 676 00:33:17,579 --> 00:33:19,331 and back and forth to doctors. 677 00:33:19,456 --> 00:33:21,374 I have POTS, which is 678 00:33:21,500 --> 00:33:24,336 Posterior Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome, 679 00:33:24,461 --> 00:33:26,713 which means that your blood pressure runs high 680 00:33:26,838 --> 00:33:29,674 or it can run low, and mine does both. 681 00:33:29,799 --> 00:33:32,260 On top of that, I have hyperthyroidism. 682 00:33:32,344 --> 00:33:34,554 I did go to the doctor yesterday, actually, 683 00:33:34,679 --> 00:33:37,015 and I weighed in at 188. 684 00:33:37,140 --> 00:33:39,309 With hyperthyroidism, you do lose weight 685 00:33:39,392 --> 00:33:40,894 very quickly. 686 00:33:41,019 --> 00:33:42,938 So at this point, 687 00:33:43,021 --> 00:33:44,397 you know, I'm just trying to -- to maintain. 688 00:33:44,523 --> 00:33:46,399 I feel like I'm already too skinny. 689 00:33:46,525 --> 00:33:48,568 I feel like I'm skin and bones. 690 00:33:48,693 --> 00:33:50,946 And I feel fragile, because I am. 691 00:33:53,156 --> 00:33:56,368 So we got sweet and sour chicken balls. 692 00:33:56,451 --> 00:33:59,955 These are cranberry jalapeno and teriyaki. 693 00:34:01,373 --> 00:34:03,667 [Chris] And then meat butter. 694 00:34:09,547 --> 00:34:12,509 It's basically where I... 695 00:34:16,054 --> 00:34:17,597 -Hey. -[Chris] About time you get here. 696 00:34:17,722 --> 00:34:19,558 I guess we saved the best for last. 697 00:34:19,683 --> 00:34:20,684 [Misty] Everybody's already eating. 698 00:34:20,766 --> 00:34:21,768 -[Chris] We all -- -We just started. 699 00:34:21,893 --> 00:34:23,018 [Brian] We were waiting for you. 700 00:34:23,103 --> 00:34:25,230 ♪♪ 701 00:34:25,313 --> 00:34:27,399 There is meat butter right here, Misty. 702 00:34:27,482 --> 00:34:29,734 -Burnt ends meat butter. -[Misty] I am -- I'm on it. 703 00:34:29,818 --> 00:34:30,944 [Tammy] Yeah. 704 00:34:31,069 --> 00:34:32,737 [Andrea] I've never had this. 705 00:34:32,821 --> 00:34:34,072 If I knew the food was like this, 706 00:34:34,197 --> 00:34:35,739 I would never wait this long. 707 00:34:35,824 --> 00:34:38,409 -It's good, he's a -- he's a great cook. -[Tammy] Yeah. 708 00:34:38,493 --> 00:34:40,745 I didn't make it to 700 pounds for no reason. 709 00:34:40,829 --> 00:34:42,163 Hmm. True, true. 710 00:34:46,501 --> 00:34:48,003 -[Tammy] Christopher? -[Chris] What? 711 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:50,922 [laughs] 712 00:34:55,260 --> 00:34:58,263 [Chris] Today, Tammy was able to come down, enjoy the rest 713 00:34:58,346 --> 00:34:59,764 of the family in the basement. 714 00:34:59,848 --> 00:35:01,558 She wouldn't have in, like, a year or so. 715 00:35:01,641 --> 00:35:02,684 Attempted it a year ago. 716 00:35:02,767 --> 00:35:04,603 Two years ago, she wouldn't have even attempted 717 00:35:04,728 --> 00:35:07,772 the 10 steps to go downstairs. 718 00:35:07,897 --> 00:35:10,525 So did anybody have any New Year's resolutions? 719 00:35:11,568 --> 00:35:13,945 [Chris] I see this idea on the internet 720 00:35:14,070 --> 00:35:16,615 where everybody gets two pieces of paper. 721 00:35:16,740 --> 00:35:20,160 One is for things that you went through last year 722 00:35:20,285 --> 00:35:22,954 that you don't wanna relive this year. 723 00:35:23,038 --> 00:35:24,748 And the other piece of paper 724 00:35:25,957 --> 00:35:29,085 is your goals in 2026. 725 00:35:30,712 --> 00:35:32,339 [Brittany] My New Year's resolution has always been 726 00:35:32,464 --> 00:35:34,007 to lose weight, well... -[Chris laughs] 727 00:35:36,051 --> 00:35:37,135 Find something else now. 728 00:35:37,260 --> 00:35:39,804 -[snorts] -[Brittany] I have to find another one. 729 00:35:39,888 --> 00:35:42,474 The reason why I had you write this on pieces of paper... 730 00:35:45,935 --> 00:35:47,020 The bad... 731 00:35:52,359 --> 00:35:55,987 Chris wants us to burn things we want to leave behind 732 00:35:56,071 --> 00:35:57,739 and the goals for the new year. 733 00:35:57,822 --> 00:35:59,491 I don't know why. 734 00:35:59,574 --> 00:36:01,660 I didn't get that either, but I didn't say anything. 735 00:36:01,743 --> 00:36:03,662 I just, you know, was like, go with the flow. 736 00:36:03,745 --> 00:36:05,288 But I'm like, "well, 737 00:36:05,372 --> 00:36:08,583 don't burn the one that's gonna be good for the year." 738 00:36:11,378 --> 00:36:14,631 But since it's that cold outside, 739 00:36:14,714 --> 00:36:17,884 I say we read what's on the piece of paper in here 740 00:36:18,009 --> 00:36:20,011 before we go outside and throw them in the fire. 741 00:36:20,095 --> 00:36:21,721 [Misty] All righty. What I don't want to deal 742 00:36:21,846 --> 00:36:23,932 with this year that we went through last year 743 00:36:24,015 --> 00:36:26,393 is all the arguing and fussing. 744 00:36:26,518 --> 00:36:30,146 And this year, I'm -- I'm wanting accountability. 745 00:36:30,230 --> 00:36:33,358 You screw up, you own it. Admit it, move on. 746 00:36:34,734 --> 00:36:36,736 ♪♪ 747 00:36:38,780 --> 00:36:40,365 [Tammy] Misty popped off, 748 00:36:40,490 --> 00:36:42,867 and she was directing her comment towards me. 749 00:36:42,951 --> 00:36:46,162 She can take her accountability and shove it up her butt. 750 00:36:46,246 --> 00:36:48,540 She needs to practice what she preached, 751 00:36:51,543 --> 00:36:52,544 She ain't nobody. 752 00:36:54,504 --> 00:36:56,840 I'm just really tired of the fighting, y'all. 753 00:36:56,923 --> 00:36:58,174 You know, like Misty says, 754 00:36:59,217 --> 00:37:01,219 when you have to walk on eggshells around your family, 755 00:37:01,344 --> 00:37:03,221 you don't even wanna be around them. 756 00:37:03,304 --> 00:37:07,684 2026, start making my path to the next round 757 00:37:07,767 --> 00:37:09,102 of skin removals. 758 00:37:09,227 --> 00:37:12,856 I wanna leave the arguments, stress. 759 00:37:12,939 --> 00:37:15,900 And in 2026, I just wanna strive to thrive 760 00:37:16,025 --> 00:37:19,571 and be a healthier version of what I was last year. 761 00:37:20,947 --> 00:37:23,366 I wrote down fighting just like y'all did. 762 00:37:23,450 --> 00:37:25,368 -I'm done with fighting. -[Chris speaking] 763 00:37:25,452 --> 00:37:27,787 [Tammy] And then I wrote down, like, continuing 764 00:37:27,912 --> 00:37:29,706 to keep working on myself, and then... 765 00:37:30,832 --> 00:37:35,462 our wedding, and just looking for the future. 766 00:37:35,587 --> 00:37:39,174 I just wanna continue working on the mental health issues 767 00:37:39,257 --> 00:37:41,176 that I have, and... 768 00:37:46,806 --> 00:37:48,558 Oh, I was like -- [blows raspberry] 769 00:37:48,641 --> 00:37:50,310 [Tammy] Not a baby baby. I mean, another baby. 770 00:37:50,435 --> 00:37:51,311 A kitten. 771 00:37:51,436 --> 00:37:53,438 -Expecting a kitten. -It's a miracle. 772 00:37:54,439 --> 00:37:56,232 -It's a miracle. -It's just a food baby. 773 00:37:56,316 --> 00:37:58,318 Maybe I'll have a dookie later. 774 00:37:58,443 --> 00:38:00,612 Oh, no. 775 00:38:00,695 --> 00:38:02,238 I just wanna leave the negativity, 776 00:38:02,322 --> 00:38:06,201 the toxic, narcissistic drama behind me 777 00:38:06,284 --> 00:38:08,578 and set off to a better future. 778 00:38:08,661 --> 00:38:11,122 I wanna get skin removal. 779 00:38:11,247 --> 00:38:13,458 I got approved from my surgery. 780 00:38:13,541 --> 00:38:14,667 [Andrea] That's good. 781 00:38:14,793 --> 00:38:16,085 [Chris] That's the best [bleep] I've heard you say 782 00:38:16,169 --> 00:38:18,797 since you've had your surgery. 783 00:38:18,880 --> 00:38:20,799 I'm proud that she got approved 784 00:38:20,882 --> 00:38:22,383 because it will be one of the... 785 00:38:23,927 --> 00:38:25,637 of weight, losing weight. 786 00:38:25,762 --> 00:38:27,722 About damn time. 787 00:38:27,806 --> 00:38:29,307 Oh -- [laughing] Excuse -- [laughing] 788 00:38:30,725 --> 00:38:33,978 And I wanna make a music video. 789 00:38:34,103 --> 00:38:36,648 ♪♪ 790 00:38:38,525 --> 00:38:42,278 [Chris] Amy talking about that music video kind of hit different. 791 00:38:42,362 --> 00:38:43,655 I didn't really consider 792 00:38:43,780 --> 00:38:45,698 that she would really follow through 793 00:38:45,824 --> 00:38:47,826 with the music to this extent, 794 00:38:47,951 --> 00:38:51,496 'cause, well, I mean, I've heard Amy sing periodically 795 00:38:51,621 --> 00:38:53,998 through our lives, because we all be singing, 796 00:38:54,123 --> 00:38:56,501 you know, going down the road in the car. 797 00:38:56,584 --> 00:38:59,546 But as far as her being up there holding the mic, 798 00:38:59,671 --> 00:39:03,842 busting a tune, negative that I remember. 799 00:39:03,967 --> 00:39:05,969 Um, I wanna get the whole family together 800 00:39:06,052 --> 00:39:07,679 and go out to Pounds Hollow. 801 00:39:07,804 --> 00:39:10,014 I got a song that I wrote for Pounds Hollow 802 00:39:10,098 --> 00:39:12,350 because that was always a special place. 803 00:39:12,475 --> 00:39:15,854 All y'all have to do is have fun. 804 00:39:20,316 --> 00:39:23,111 -[Amy speaking] -Yeah, I can start the grillin' 805 00:39:23,194 --> 00:39:24,696 just as long as somebody is on the grill, 806 00:39:24,779 --> 00:39:27,031 because a part of the song has a grill line in. 807 00:39:27,115 --> 00:39:28,157 No, she didn't ask me to grill. 808 00:39:28,241 --> 00:39:29,242 [Mellow speaking] 809 00:39:31,619 --> 00:39:32,871 [Chris] Misty, stop. 810 00:39:32,954 --> 00:39:35,331 -[party horn blows] -But just have fun in the music video, 811 00:39:35,415 --> 00:39:37,834 and then, like... -I ain't done or said nothing 812 00:39:37,917 --> 00:39:39,794 for you to attack me. -Do I need to go ahead 813 00:39:39,878 --> 00:39:41,504 and tell you what you was thinking? 814 00:39:41,588 --> 00:39:43,548 -[Misty] No. -[Chris laughing] 815 00:39:43,673 --> 00:39:45,884 [Amanda] Some things are better left unsaid. 816 00:39:45,967 --> 00:39:47,302 You damn right. [clears throat] 817 00:39:47,385 --> 00:39:48,720 [party horn blows] 818 00:39:48,803 --> 00:39:50,471 I'm cold. 819 00:39:50,555 --> 00:39:51,556 [Misty] I'm cold too, hell. 820 00:39:51,639 --> 00:39:53,641 I looked at you and you said, "Stop." 821 00:39:53,725 --> 00:39:56,144 [Amy] I was giving everybody a chance to speak. 822 00:39:56,227 --> 00:39:59,898 When it was my turn to speak, I didn't even get to finish. 823 00:40:03,526 --> 00:40:04,527 [Brian] Babe. 824 00:40:05,737 --> 00:40:06,738 Babe, stop. 825 00:40:08,489 --> 00:40:10,742 [Amy] So I was like, "[bleep]. Y'all don't wanna hear me?" 826 00:40:10,867 --> 00:40:13,202 [sniffling] When I get rich and famous, 827 00:40:14,412 --> 00:40:16,581 don't come crying to me. [sniffling] 828 00:40:16,706 --> 00:40:19,208 Do not darken my doorstep. 829 00:40:19,292 --> 00:40:21,294 ♪♪ 830 00:40:29,302 --> 00:40:32,138 [Tammy] Next time on "1000-lb Sisters..." 831 00:40:32,263 --> 00:40:33,973 You guys all snuggled up in one chair. 832 00:40:34,098 --> 00:40:35,099 I love it. -Hey, man. 833 00:40:35,224 --> 00:40:36,351 -[Dr. Smith] My little lovebirds here. -We -- 834 00:40:36,434 --> 00:40:37,894 we can sit in one chair now. 835 00:40:37,977 --> 00:40:39,103 It's like a two-person chair now. 836 00:40:39,187 --> 00:40:40,688 [Chris] That's right. 837 00:40:40,772 --> 00:40:43,775 I've gained weight since the last time I've been here... 838 00:40:48,613 --> 00:40:51,449 [Amy speaking] 839 00:40:51,574 --> 00:40:53,743 I don't know just yet. 840 00:41:04,087 --> 00:41:07,256 I mean, if they don't wanna be part of the music, fine. 841 00:41:07,340 --> 00:41:09,759 But when I'm on tour on the big stage 842 00:41:09,842 --> 00:41:12,845 and y'all want a piece of my pie, don't come crying. 843 00:41:14,222 --> 00:41:15,682 Well, when we were at New Year's, 844 00:41:15,807 --> 00:41:17,767 y'all wouldn't let me talk. I kept getting cut off. 845 00:41:17,850 --> 00:41:19,978 All you have to do is speak up and say, "Hey, I'm not done." 846 00:41:20,061 --> 00:41:21,437 I tried to that day. 847 00:41:21,521 --> 00:41:23,314 -OK, but that was then. -I tried. 848 00:41:23,398 --> 00:41:24,440 Where's the accountability 849 00:41:24,524 --> 00:41:26,442 of y'all completely shutting me off? 850 00:41:26,526 --> 00:41:27,986 Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey. 851 00:41:28,111 --> 00:41:29,153 Who are you yelling at?