[Isaac] I broke up with Kaylynn
because I felt like it was moving too fast
and I was too young.
I never would have saw this coming.
Honestly, I just, I didn't even know what to think.
He wants to meet up sometime and talk.
[Kim] You didn't message immediately back, did you?
-No. -[Kim] OK.
-No. -Yeah, make him wait it out.
Do you guys wanna, uh, sing some music with me?
-[all] Yeah. -[Amber] Mm-hmm.
I think that I did need to come back
and see what it's like living here again,
just so I would know if I really wanted that or not.
But with Teegan, I definitely miss a lot of things, you know?
[all singing] ♪ Than when we first begun ♪
[Ethan] She truly was my best friend that I'd ever had.
It's hard to move on.
So, Dad, I have not heard this directly from you.
Directly from me?
[Lydia] But I have heard it around --
you're open to date?
That was the topic of conversation here
before you walked in.
I'm just introducing them to the topic of...
me dating someone.
You know, it's a new age. [chuckles]
[Kim] Another woman can have him.
[laughing] I'm OK with that.
♪♪
-Hey, Ken. -[Ken] Hey, Barry.
So today I'm delivering some oats out to the farm
for the horses and the cows.
Is everything going good?
-Yeah, I got some oats for the animals. -[Ken] OK.
[Barry] This is part of my arrangement with Kim,
and, uh, Ken saw me drive up,
so he just wants to check in and say hi.
-Um, is there a place where we could... -Well, normally --
...have the bag out of the weather?
Um, the girls have been taking care of all the animal stuff.
-Yeah, OK, yeah. -[Ken] OK.
-It's just, yeah, yeah. -OK.
I'll put it over there. Somebody can feed her later.
Yeah.
And yeah, OK.
So just, just right over on the cement?
Yeah. Uh, do you want me --
-I got it -- I got it. -Are you sure?
So what's been going on over here?
Uh, working with Ethan mainly on the barn.
Even though it might seem weird in a number of ways,
I'm trying to be casual and nonchalant.
So you're settling in OK?
-I'm sorry? -Are you settling in here OK?
Uh, yeah, I still feel a little bit unsettled
just because I don't have all my stuff up here.
-Yeah. -But for the most part, yes.
-Yeah, good to hear. -[Ken] Yeah.
Yeah.
I really was surprised when Barry was concerned
about how I'm settling in.
We don't have a whole lot in common as far as our likes,
but we do get along.
I've really enjoyed getting to know Ethan,
you know, with Ethan living up north... -Yeah.
-...I really never get... -Yeah.
...get to hang out with him
or really even talk to him. -[Barry] Mm-hmm.
Yeah.
Yeah, 'cause, you know,
you know, with -- with the -- the ending of, you know,
Teegan and him, right? -Right.
That was rough,
just, you know. -[Ken] Yeah.
So I gotta ask, relationships,
are you dating anybody?
-Personally, right now, no. -[Ken speaks indistinctly]
No, I'm not.
I'm not there yet, but maybe soon.
Ken's question about dating,
it's just, well, it's an interesting question.
It's not like I really...
wanna get into any conversation with Ken about my dating life.
[laughing] You know?
-It's been a very long time... -Yeah.
-...since I've even done anything like that. -You just --
Yeah.
Although it'd be funny if I -- I asked him.
"So how's it going with Kim?"
Let me give you a few pointers.
Watch out for X, Y, and Z. No, [chuckles].
So in the day,
like, when we originally moved out here,
-[Ken] Mm-hmm. -Kim was really big into juicing.
Like she was -- that was her thing.
She juiced like no one I've -- I had ever met before.
-Mm. -[Barry laughs]
Does she juice any these days?
Uh, she did a little bit of juicing
with one of my juicers. -But not with the big juicer?
-[Ken] No. -OK.
[Ken] I'm pretty sure.
Um, so when -- when Kim took some things from, um,
the house, she took the juicer.
And I'm still on my health kick.
-[Ken] Right, right. -And it's -- I would like
to incorporate some -- some juicing into my routine.
And I'm just wondering if maybe I could borrow the juicer.
Uh, yeah, you're more than welcome to help me look for it.
I'm pretty sure I saw a juicer,
but I'm not 100% sure where...
in the house. -OK -- yeah, you can't miss this juicer.
This is like...
the mother of all juicers. -[Ken] OK.
[Barry] Right?
Back when Kim and I were first married,
Kim went big into juicing.
Juicing carrots, greens.
Hey, that looks familiar.
-Is that yours? -I think that's mine.
[both laugh]
Bottom line is, Kim had her phase of health kick,
and juicing was a real big part of it.
[both] OK.
So it's gonna be somewhere either in this room.
[Barry] OK.
[Ken] Or it could be in here in this closet.
Let's -- let's maybe start with the closet.
OK.
[Barry] I look the house over, and...
it doesn't look anything like what I'm used to from the past.
I don't see it.
Maybe back, what is that back there?
[indistinct]
-[Barry] Ahh. -[Ken] Does that look like it?
[Barry] This is it.
-OK. -[Barry] The juicer.
Juicer.
Yeah, so anyway, I'll take this with me,
and before I go, is there, like...
one song -- the jukebox?
Yeah, you want to check it out?
-Check it out? -Absolutely.
Yeah. Let's go check out the jukebox,
'cause I'm curious about that thing.
It looks really nice.
There's a lot of things all over the place.
And I get that, blending two households.
I mean, it's got a cozy feel.
But, uh, yeah, a really cozy feel.
-[Ken] Here it is. -[Barry] Looks pretty cool.
It's old. It's older than I am.
It's...that is pretty cool.
Well, pick you out a song and play it.
He's never here for very long when he does come.
But when Barry comes, he and I get along great.
[Barry] Oh, you got Neil Diamond in there.
-Oh, so A -- A1, huh? -[machine buzzes]
[Ken] Uh-oh, it's stuck.
[Barry] Ken's kind of stoic, so reading him,
I don't spend time, like, trying to dissect and analyze
what his nonverbals really mean.
I don't get any bad vibes.
[Ken speaking]
[both laugh]
[Barry] Alright, let's see if it does it again.
[Ken] Try it again, see if it'll go this time.
[Barry] Alright, let's set it.
[rock music playing]
-[Ken] Mm. -[Barry] Mm-hmm.
[Ken speaking]
Yeah.
[rock music playing]
[Russell] Nothing always lines up the way it's supposed to.
-[Russell] There's my man. -[Ethan] Hey, Russell.
-What's up? -Nothing.
-Sleep good? -Yeah.
-You ready? -Yeah.
-Fix it. -Alright.
[laughs]
We're at Russell's Military Vehicles.
I work for him.
Been working for him for a little while
since I've been down here.
Needs the oil pan, so we're gonna raise this thing up first
to get the oil pan on it? -Mm-hmm.
-Let's do that. -[Ethan] OK.
I help him restore older, you know, Jeeps
and military equipment.
Choose your weapon of choice.
-Ooh, picky. -I'll do this one -- yeah.
Ethan showed up because he was a good friend of my son.
He was driving this old Mercury.
I'm like, "Driving an old grandfather car for?"
He's like, "That's what I do. I like working on old cars."
Click. I tested him.
I came in here and asked him a lot of questions.
He answered every one of them.
I hired him in a heartbeat.
Put that thing right there.
My guys that normally would clean that,
you know what they would do?
Blow it with a blow gun.
"Yeah, that's good enough."
-That's not quality. -Mnh-mnh.
That's quality control right there.
Mm-hmm.
So, uh, what you got plans for your future?
I was thinking I would...
Open up a shop and just kinda do restorations
and stuff like that, sort of?
That's what I'd like to do someday.
Yeah, I had planned on retiring, but if I had somebody
would run this with a name on his shirt,
I'd keep it going.
And listen, I'm turning down work every day.
-[Ethan] Yeah, I know you are. -Every day.
-You like doing this, right? -Mm-hmm.
[Russell] I need a guy.
Russell's Military Vehicles right there.
Boy, it'd look good on you too.
I'll make sure they're black shirts.
-Oh, black shirts? -Yeah.
-I've got black shirts with my name on it. -Maybe I'll stay.
No, I got somebody else's name right here.
-Oh my God. -Yeah.
-Next to the heart -- wow. -Mm-hmm.
There was a girl I dated for like a year and a half.
-She lives in Wisconsin. -What's her name?
Teegan.
Teegan? What a name -- wow.
Sounds good with Ethan, I think.
Here we go. OK, yeah.
-And she still lives there? -Mm-hmm.
Yeah, I don't know.
I haven't talked to Teegan in a while.
I don't know.
I don't know what she's up to or how she's doing.
Teegan gave me the freedom to live down here
and see what I want.
I told Teegan that I would move to Wisconsin,
and...I did want to, but I just -- I was like,
I guess maybe I wasn't ready yet or something.
I don't know.
But that really did affect our relationship a lot.
It was a big part of us breaking up
'cause she just felt like...
I didn't really care, you know?
It wasn't important to me to move to Wisconsin
and be with her.
So you know I've offered you this business?
-[Ethan] Yeah. -Yeah.
Put your name up there on the building, [clicks tongue].
-Right underneath mine. -Mm-hmm.
You could eventually work your way to above mine.
I'll work for you.
-Yeah? -Yeah.
Being back in Georgia was nice, but it's not good without her.
Teegan is home to me.
Well, if I was staying here, I would definitely consider
taking your business on. -That's a promising answer.
-[Ethan] Mm-hmm. -Yeah
But I've made up my mind, and...
I can't stay here.
Oh.
No matter how much I...
actually wanted to come back to Georgia
for -- for Georgia's sake, you know, where I grew up,
whatever, that doesn't mean anything
when your -- your heart is somewhere else.
Let's dive into who it is you're looking for.
I'm doing a video chat with Renee.
She's gonna try to find the love of my life.
[Renee] Do you lean more towards a particular type?
I guess, in four words, the Sandra Bullock look.
Sandra Bullock, OK.
Do you know where my juicer is?
-The big white juicer? -[Kim] Yeah.
When Barry came out, he took it.
I can't believe as long as that juicer has sat
on the shelf, Barry just takes it
the day before I'm ready to use it.
OK, well, I got an issue with Barry then.
I made up my mind, and...
-I can't stay here. -Oh.
I'm moving to Wisconsin.
Wisconsin?
Does she know you're coming to Wisconsin?
Uh-huh.
After me and Teegan broke up, I kept thinking about it,
and I was like, I really --
I really want us to be together,
you know, and I really wanna be up there.
If I tell her that I'm moving, I don't think she'll believe me
until I'm there, so I'm just gonna go.
-We haven't talked in a while. -[Russell] Really?
-Mm-hmm. -And you're moving?
-Mm-hmm. -Mm, you're running after her?
-Mm-hmm. -Is that it?
I kept thinking about, like, the risk of, like,
OK, if I up and move my life and then she says no
or she's found somebody else or something,
and I did all that for nothing.
And then one day I was like,
"That's just a risk that I'm willing to take."
I can't shake it, so...
I decided I'm gonna go up there and give it my best shot.
So you got pictures of this girl?
-Mm-hmm. -OK.
Oh, yeah.
Dig in that thick, old, fat wallet.
Oh, yeah.
She's got that enticing look going on in this picture.
So look at that smile on your face.
You don't smile that much here. I never see your teeth.
Look at that. You got teeth.
I didn't know you had bottom teeth, too.
That's cool.
-You look like a couple. -Mm-hmm.
There's your lottery ticket. You lost, by the way.
No, this is from a date that we went.
-Oh, you even kept the receipt... -Mm-hmm.
-...for the date... -Mm-hmm.
...to give to her or?
No, just to look at now and then.
Does she feel the same way about you?
-You think? -I think.
-Do you think? -Mm-hmm.
-And you're moving? -Mm-hmm.
Boy.
Ethan is running after his heart.
And I think Ethan's making maybe a mistake.
I don't wanna say it, but I think
it's kind of a rebound thing.
I'm hoping the best for him. I really am.
I'm hoping the best for Ethan.
I hope he finds her and marries her
and moves back to Cairo, Georgia.
Wait, wait, don't you have family here?
-Yeah. -OK, so --
I haven't told them yet. I still have to tell them.
Oh, they don't even know. Well, I feel privileged.
-[Ethan chuckles] Yeah. -I won't say a word.
[Ethan] I haven't told my family yet
because I've been thinking about it a long time
just to myself, you know,
and everybody's got an opinion, but it doesn't really matter.
I know this is what I want,
and this is what I'm gonna do.
And I know they're all gonna be sad,
and I hate to do that.
So I just haven't told them yet.
So when you break the news to mom and pop
and brothers and sisters?
Probably once I'm already on the road.
Ethan is a family guy, but I would think
they would have something to say about this, him going off.
And maybe that's why he's not wanting to tell them.
What do you think they're gonna say?
They're gonna try to stop you?
No, I don't think so.
I think you'd try to stop me more than they would.
I have more to gain than them, I think.
-Probably. -You got a place to live?
No, not yet, but I'm sure I'll find a place.
Trying this, you know,
it's worth it to me, 'cause...
I -- I just really don't wanna live without her.
You got more faith than I do.
I don't know if it's faith or nothing to lose.
[gentle music playing]
[Barry] So right now, I haven't met any women in Cairo
that I'm interested in dating, 'cause it's kind of daunting
going out there and figuring out the whole setup
and how do you navigate through it.
And so here I am doing a video chat with Renee, my matchmaker,
and she's gonna try to find the love of my life.
-Hello. -Hey.
-How are you, Barry? -Doing good.
I'm gonna -- I'm gonna take my glasses off
if you don't mind. -[Renee] Can you hear me?
I can't seem to hear you.
Um...just one moment.
I have talked with Renee on a call
to answer her questionnaires
and take her personality profile assessments
and get into my love languages.
-You can't hear me? -I can't hear you yet.
Just the feel of, "Who is Barry?"
You know, what kind of quirks does he have?
-[Renee] Can you hear me? -Yes.
But this is my first time seeing her,
you know, face-to-face via video.
That should be good. OK.
So, hello, Renee. How are you today?
Hi, I'm great, Barry. How are you doing?
Well, we're working through our technical difficulties.
But we're doing great here on this end.
I appreciate you taking the time to walk through
this journey side-by-side so you are not dating alone.
So I know that one of the questions that we asked
is, "How ready on a scale of one to ten
are you for a committed relationship again?" -Yeah.
You did say a five.
Can you explain why you came up with a five?
Well, you know, I've just come out of a --
a divorce process, right? -Right.
And so, you know, I'm still, you know,
not, like, at the ten level,
but I'm -- I'm wanting to get to that point.
But I feel personally that I'm kind of midway.
OK.
I want it to be the right feel.
You know, I wanna have the right feel.
I hope that, you know,
this woman would have the right feel,
that the children would have, like, a good vibe that,
"OK, this is exciting. This is looking good."
In your eyes, why do you believe
that marriage did not last?
Well, you know, it takes two to, you know,
not make a marriage work.
Um, Kim and I both, I guess, had our issues in the end.
From -- from her perspective,
I wasn't meeting the needs that she had.
Um, she felt like I didn't have or give her a voice
in the relationship.
She felt like she wasn't loved
as well as she thought she should be.
Um, and it was good feedback, because it helped me assess
where are some of my shortcomings.
'Cause, you know,
I'm like, "Next time,
you know, "I get back into a relationship,
"I want to have that understanding that,
'OK, this might be a weak point
of mine that I need to work on.'"
-You have matured. -Yes, yes.
So, I mean, that's good. That's -- that's like growth.
I can tell you right now I'm a work-in-process, right?
So I'm learning from past mistakes,
and I'm moving forward with the mindset of,
"Well, how can I better myself?"
Let's dive into who it is you're looking for.
Yeah, I mean, right now, the -- the "would like to have"
that's coming to mind is a nurturer.
OK.
I feel in past relationships maybe a little deficient
in that area, that'd be great.
Would you just describe her more as, like,
soft and sweet? -Yeah.
Alpha females are not -- I'm not that attracted to.
I've kind of, "been there, done that."
I'm kind of put off by overly controlling types,
and I'm exceptionally put off by manipulation now.
[Renee] Let's talk about physicality.
Do you lean more towards a particular type?
Yeah, yeah.
For some reason, I just love olive-toned skin.
I don't know why that is. I really do.
-[Renee] OK. -Um...
So if you had a room full of ladies lined up
in front of you and they were all interested in meeting you,
what type would you be more drawn to?
Um, I guess in four words,
the Sandra Bullock look.
[bright music playing]
Sandra Bullock, OK.
Sandra, yeah, I like Sandra.
She was in Keanu --
with Keanu Reeves, with "Speed."
I mean, that's -- "Keep driving."
Or was it, "Don't go slower than 50"?
Otherwise you blow.
Um, and how would your family and friends
welcome somebody into your life?
-[indistinct] -You know, my girls are, they would, they would wanna,
you know, take time to get to know, you know, my potential,
you know, new dates, my -- my girlfriend,
you know, just the full vetting process.
OK. So maybe have them write, both,
like, three things that they both want
their father to have.
I'm paving the way with the children.
Dad's want -- thinking about dating,
and I just want their -- I wanna see what their responses are.
A single guy in his 50s with nine children.
-I love that. -I can field -- I can field like a baseball team.
It was funny, when I was writing down
all of your children's ages, I'm like,
"I don't think this line has ever been this long, right?"
So, [laughs], it's a beautiful thing, though.
It really is.
You have an army of somebody's, uh --
they're gonna have to win all of their hearts.
[Isaac] You've heard about everything going on.
I heard that you broke up with Kaylynn.
I have a lot of guilt from what I did.
I really don't know if I will get her back.
That really scares me.
It's just a matter of
if we can unscrew what I screwed up.
[horse neighing]
[Kim grunting]
Yeah, yeah.
Ooh!
[Kim grunts]
[sighs]
[Kim] OK, I can't, but I almost got it to move.
-See if you can. -You want me to see if I can?
And then I'll find a smaller one.
Yeah!
-Alright. -[laughs]
OK, so I got one over here.
I think I can push this one over.
You -- alright, let's try it first.
[Kim grunts]
No.
We have probably 20 or 30 acres of woods
and there's always gonna be dead trees.
[panting]
The dead trees, if they're not pushed down
at some point, they're gonna fall down.
And if I'm riding a four wheeler through the trails
or I'm walking through the trails,
I don't really want a tree falling on me.
No.
It's fun. It's satisfying when you push,
you feel it give a little bit, you push a little bit more
and you just feel... -Yeah!
...this big hunk of dead wood just fall hard on the ground.
[grunting]
Oh, it's so close.
[Isaac speaking]
[grunts, sighs]
There we go, [laughs].
OK.
So what have you been up to?
Oh, a lot.
You've heard about everything going on, I take it.
[Kim] I heard that you broke up with Kaylynn.
I had stopped at Barry's house to drop the girls off,
and Kaylynn was there, and she was crying.
I just gave her a hug. I told her I loved her.
I told her if she needs to talk or, you know, anything,
I'm here for her, whatever she needs.
So she called me that night, we talked for a couple hours.
She was crying,
but the one thing she said to me
is "Make sure Isaac's OK."
I just concerned, you know, for your well-being.
-Yeah -- I know. -That's a good woman, you know?
I don't even know how to feel about that.
I mean, I feel terrible, but it also makes me feel
really good that she still would care about me
even everything -- after everything I did.
I have a lot of guilt from
what I did, so it's just a matter of if we can unscrew
what I screwed up.
She didn't see it coming, and I know it broke her,
and she doesn't deserve that,
and I hate that I put her through that.
I wish she would have, you know,
yelled at me or something.
She is so, like, genuinely kind
and just a really good person, and...I mean,
I feel like that's really good for Isaac.
That's the kind of girl that I want for any of my sons.
So why did you break up with Kaylynn?
Well, I mean, there was things personally on my end
that I was thinking, that I was in my head about.
I know that she is older than me by two --
two and a half years or so.
And so I know that she wants to get married a little sooner
than I was thinking.
Was Kaylynn putting pressure on you to like get married
or anything like that or? -No, I mean, she wasn't really.
All the pressure I was getting was basically in my head.
But then I just didn't think about the thought of maybe
she is the one, maybe -- maybe this is
where I'm supposed to be, you know.
I let everything else kind of drown that out.
-Yeah. -I don't know.
There's a lot of things I need to...think about.
A lot of my older kids,
they've had kind of bad relationships.
Looking back, the thing that I would change
with how we raise the kids is --
I have a hard time promoting sex before marriage.
Um, I do feel like there's a lot of benefit to waiting.
But now I think it's better to have sex before marriage
and really get to know who you're marrying
than to just rush in and get married
so that you can have sex.
Isaac and Kaylynn have spent a long time
getting to know each other,
but the bottom line is they still have to figure out
some of those things for themselves, and it's hard.
They -- they have to figure out, you know,
to get to know somebody, and...not move too fast.
So what did everybody else say that you told?
[Isaac] Basically, the whole family said the same thing,
that they disagree with me.
I'm thinking it was a bad decision now, you know?
Yeah.
If me and Kaylynn can work things out from here,
which is a long shot,
but I don't plan on ever letting her go.
I don't wanna get married, you know, right off the bat,
real fast, real young, but it's where I wanna be.
All that the past few days have really shown me is that,
you know, I was wrong.
I mean, sometimes you have to see that
for yourself to know, 'cause if you keep thinking,
"Well, the grass is greener on the other side,"
then you don't appreciate what you have.
-Yeah. -But then when you experience it and you see,
grass really isn't greener on the other side, you know?
And nobody can really tell you that.
I really don't know if I will get her back.
That really scares me.
[upbeat music playing]
[Barry] Knit one, purl two.
-Knit one, purl two. -Hm?
-[Mercy] I haven't taught -- -[Barry] Have you taught --
have you taught Amber?
I taught her the normal knitting,
but I haven't taught her the purl stitch yet.
Based on the recommendation of Renee, my matchmaker,
uh, she recommended that I have a chat
with the girls about dating.
So I have a question for you, girls.
-I have an answer. -So the topic is dating.
Mm-hmm.
My entry into that realm.
-Right? -Yep, it's about time.
[girls chuckle]
Have you dated anyone yet or are you...
I have not dated anybody yet.
-OK. -[Barry] Right?
-I'm moving along... -Slowly.
...like slow molasses in January.
[Amber] Mm-hmm.
I'd love to see Dad in a healthy relationship.
I've been waiting for him to like, you know,
say he's gonna start dating.
It seems like I waited forever,
and now he finally says he's ready.
It's like, yeah, it's about time.
-[Barry] I just want to venture out into this new realm... -Mm-hmm.
...and see what happens. -[Amber] Yeah.
So, I have enlisted the help of a dating service.
-You're on a dating app? -No.
-Oh, OK. -It's an elite dating service.
Professional matchmakers.
So it's basically like a dating app.
-[girls laugh] -Well...
Dad just doesn't seem like the type of person
to be on a dating app.
[Barry] Since I'm going down this -- this avenue,
there's some feedback I would like from the three of you, OK?
She has to have good, taste in music.
She has to like '80s music.
[Cassia laughing] Has to like '80s music?
-[Amber] Not tolerate. -Yeah, at least tolerate.
-And country music. -OK.
[Cassia] She has to have a good sense of humor.
-Adventurous. -Adventurous things.
She needs to like water activities.
-[Barry] She -- yeah. -[Cassia] Yeah.
Smart enough to help us on our math.
-[girls giggle] -Good at communicating.
-Um... -She should have a motherly side to her.
Ooh, what if she likes coffee?
-Not at all. -What if you go to kiss her
and she has coffee breath?
Interesting thought, Mercy.
They seem receptive.
Me and the girls are in a really good place together.
I mean, my focus is them, right?
So they know Dad loves them, and I'll be there for them
no matter what.
Renee is going to vet.
You know what vetting is, right?
-To -- -[Amber] Like --
Like, take care of animals and doctor them, [laughs].
How's this woman gonna handle nine children?
[girls giggling]
[gentle music playing]
The weight that I've put on in the last
four and a half years has...
I mean, I just,
I'm in a place where I just feel not great.
I don't like how my clothes fit, it's...
[exhales] I don't even wanna talk about it.
I just, I don't like how I feel.
So, working on turning that around.
My goal is to get a variety, to get some weight training,
some flexibility, just a variety of things,
to just kind of get back in shape.
It's been hard on my life.
It's been hard on me, my body, everything.
But I'm turning that around.
This is something I need to do for me.
I'm at that age where my hormones are changing,
and that makes it even more difficult to lose weight.
But I'm gonna keep working on it
because I just have the rest of my life to live in this body.
Barry had built a ballet bar for me at his house years ago
when it was our house.
So sometime I'll get that installed.
I'm sure Ken will help me with that.
When I lived at the farm last
and we had all these kids running around,
we ate really healthy.
We grew lots of vegetables. We didn't really eat sugar.
We went through a lot of honey, though.
[chuckles]
[Amber] Just do honey, but, like, up to there.
It's been real easy to get away from that.
But it's a process,
trying to make better choices every day.
One thing I used to do a lot of is juicing.
Celery and ginger was my favorite.
That's amazing.
I'm gonna go get my juicer out
and see if I can make something.
I know we put it in here when we moved.
It's pretty big, so it can't be too hard to find.
I'm not seeing it.
It's a really nice juicer, I think.
Hey, Ken?
Hey, Ken.
Yeah.
Do you know where my juicer is?
-The big white juicer? -Yeah.
-When Barry came out, he asked about the juicer... -Yeah.
...and I told him that I had it. -Yeah, yeah.
And he took it.
I can't believe as long
as that juicer has sat on the shelf,
Barry just takes it the day before I'm ready to use it.
OK, well, I got an issue with Barry then
'cause that's not -- that's not his. -OK.
That's definitely mine. I guess I got to call Barry.
-Well, I'm not getting involved with the juicer. -[Kim] Yeah.
I know. Yeah.
You can go back in the living room.
Sorry.
I'm here in Wisconsin. I drove over here yesterday.
And she doesn't know I'm here.
You're not doing anything weird like driving by her house
at 2 o'clock in the morning? -[Ethan] No.
If you don't tell her,
the worst thing that can happen is she finds out,
and then she thinks you're really weird.
[country music playing]
[Ethan] We're in Wisconsin.
This is where Teegan lives.
And Teegan doesn't know that I'm here.
I have two bags of tools.
I have my duffle bag, just my clothes,
and some cash, and I think that's it.
There's an abandoned lot
next to an empty mall a couple miles
from here, and I thought, "Well, maybe I'll sleep here
for a little while."
In this big back seat.
It's like sleeping on a couch.
I'm looking at some places that I can lock down for January.
I just know this is where I need to be.
And I don't wanna tell her,
"OK, I'm gonna move to Wisconsin."
I just wanna move to show commitment
and not just words, you know?
When Isaac broke up with Kaylynn, I was just like,
"What the hell is going on with all of us?"
I think when it comes to relationships
and communication and love,
I don't think any of us really know
what the hell we're doing.
A lot of times people go through their teen years
kind of learning about that, and you experience having
a boyfriend and breaking up or a girlfriend and breaking up,
and then you learn, and by the time
you're in your 20s, you're kind of,
like, a little seasoned, a little well-rounded.
None of us, to any degree, have had that.
The way I was brought up was very good,
and there are many, many things about it that I would do again,
but the whole, like, dating and relationship deal,
I wouldn't do that the same way.
just because I feel like it's been
more of a hindrance than a benefit.
You end up screwing it up or breaking up
or walking away.
It's so hard to be here...
and know that I'm only a minute from her
and I can't see her.
But at the same time,
it's actually easier than being in Georgia.
It's like inside I feel at peace here.
so I feel like this is where I need to be.
It's nothing to do with my family.
I love my family dearly and I'll miss them,
but when you -- when you grow up and you feel like your purpose
is elsewhere, you can't deny that.
[phone ringing]
-[Kim] Hey! -[Ethan] Hey!
-What are you doing? -Oh, I'm here in Wisconsin.
I drove over here yesterday.
[Kim] OK.
I'm just gonna look at some places
to maybe lock down in January.
And she doesn't know I'm here.
She hasn't seen my car. I haven't told her.
[Kim] Um, what's the reason that you wouldn't
just tell her now?
The reason why is because,
you know, we made plans multiple times
for me to move here, and I never did,
so I don't wanna just tell her,
"Hey, I'm gonna move here" again.
Yeah, but you're there.
-And you're looking at places. -Yeah, yeah.
Anyways, I just wanna let you know that's what I'm doing.
We'll see how it goes.
[Kim] There's no chance she would, like,
drive by and be like, "Oh, there's Ethan's car."
You're not doing anything weird like driving by her house
at 2 o'clock in the morning stalking her? -[Ethan] No.
No, I have not entered her neighborhood,
and I'm not going to. -[Kim laughing] Just checking.
I'm gonna be respectful of that.
[Kim] I mean here is -- my thought is,
if you tell her, the worst thing that she could think is that,
"Oh, here he goes again,
he's not gonna follow through with it,"
but then you're gonna prove her wrong
by following through with it.
Mm.
To me, if you don't tell her, the worst thing that can happen
is she finds out, and then she thinks
you're really weird for, like, being there for weeks
or whatever, however long, and not saying anything.
[Ethan] Yeah.
[Kim] Like, I -- to me, that would be weird.
[Ethan] I'm gonna find a place, get the paperwork done,
then I can tell her.
[Ethan] Alright.
So this is a 1976 New Yorker made by Chrysler.
Definitely sticks out.
[Ethan] Oh, yeah.
That was her.
-Yeah, it was. -[producer] Are you serious?
[producer laughs]
[coach] Let's go. Come on.
If your butt don't touch, it don't count.
Barry has a nickname in our family,
and he's called Plath Daddy.
And he will always be Plath Daddy.
-Plath Daddy. -Is it?
There we go.
Hey.
[Teegan, on the phone] Hey, you good?
Well, I have something for you.
Just let me know when you can go pick it up.
-I was just wondering. -[Teegan] When I can pick it up?
Yeah.
[Teegan] OK.
I don't take bull crap. I know my self-worth.
I know what I will and won't take.
All I need is one more chance.
I don't give second chances.