1 00:00:09,793 --> 00:00:11,727 Andy: Coming up--a 3-part 2 00:00:11,762 --> 00:00:15,230 "real housewives of salt lake city" reunion. 3 00:00:15,265 --> 00:00:17,366 I heard you hooked up with meredith in the steakhouse. 4 00:00:17,401 --> 00:00:18,867 [laughter] 5 00:00:18,903 --> 00:00:22,270 meredith, did you wear a chest plate at one point 6 00:00:22,289 --> 00:00:24,606 during your confessionals? -[laughter] 7 00:00:24,625 --> 00:00:27,159 why is mary not here? 8 00:00:27,211 --> 00:00:28,327 You're threatening everyone is what you're doing. 9 00:00:28,379 --> 00:00:30,329 Um... 10 00:00:30,381 --> 00:00:32,614 -That's how I see it. -Yep. 11 00:00:32,633 --> 00:00:33,882 What it feels like on my end is, like, 12 00:00:33,918 --> 00:00:36,001 "hey, jen, we can treat you like sh--," 13 00:00:36,053 --> 00:00:37,853 'cause you need all the friends you can get right now. 14 00:00:37,888 --> 00:00:40,355 Well, you sh-- on me, and I still showed up for you. 15 00:00:40,391 --> 00:00:45,294 Did you ever question where the money came from? 16 00:00:45,329 --> 00:00:48,647 You called us inbred polygamist cousins, lisa. 17 00:00:48,682 --> 00:00:50,232 -I did not! -Do you think she's a whore? 18 00:00:50,267 --> 00:00:51,600 -Do you think she's-- -no, I do not. 19 00:00:51,635 --> 00:00:52,901 I was sick! 20 00:00:52,937 --> 00:00:54,136 I can yell just as loud as you. 21 00:00:54,155 --> 00:00:55,470 I can poke just as far as you. 22 00:00:55,489 --> 00:00:57,072 I just feel like everybody here 23 00:00:57,108 --> 00:00:59,658 wants to break me all the time. [cries] 24 00:00:59,693 --> 00:01:02,310 "the real housewives of salt lake city" reunion 25 00:01:02,329 --> 00:01:04,113 starts now. 26 00:01:04,148 --> 00:01:08,617 ♪♪♪ 27 00:01:08,652 --> 00:01:11,086 -good morning. -Good morning. 28 00:01:13,958 --> 00:01:15,057 Thank you. 29 00:01:15,092 --> 00:01:16,842 Hi. 30 00:01:19,013 --> 00:01:21,046 Our friendship group is in crisis. 31 00:01:21,098 --> 00:01:22,464 Well, it's like game day. 32 00:01:22,499 --> 00:01:24,049 I have to watch the other team play. 33 00:01:24,101 --> 00:01:27,770 That's what I feel like I'm doing right now. [chuckles] 34 00:01:28,973 --> 00:01:30,072 yeah. 35 00:01:30,107 --> 00:01:32,074 [laughs] 36 00:01:32,109 --> 00:01:33,642 -right. -[laughs] 37 00:01:33,677 --> 00:01:36,845 ♪♪♪ 38 00:01:36,864 --> 00:01:39,515 -jen shah. -[gasps] 39 00:01:39,550 --> 00:01:40,482 -here she is. -I mean, I'm here. 40 00:01:40,518 --> 00:01:43,402 -I got some inches, like... -Yes, you do. 41 00:01:43,454 --> 00:01:44,987 -Yes, you do. -[laughs] 42 00:01:45,022 --> 00:01:46,321 -I'm glad you're here. -I am, too. 43 00:01:46,357 --> 00:01:48,090 And we have a lot to talk about. 44 00:01:48,125 --> 00:01:49,741 -Yes. -And I want you to hear from me 45 00:01:49,794 --> 00:01:54,746 that we did not give erika any questions in advance 46 00:01:54,799 --> 00:01:56,081 of the beverly hills reunion, okay? 47 00:01:56,133 --> 00:01:57,416 Okay. 48 00:01:57,468 --> 00:01:58,667 -There was a rumor out there. -Yeah, yeah. 49 00:01:58,702 --> 00:02:00,169 So I just want you to hear that from me. 50 00:02:00,204 --> 00:02:01,536 -Thank you. Okay. -And I don't want you to think 51 00:02:01,555 --> 00:02:03,772 that you got the short end of the stick... 52 00:02:03,808 --> 00:02:05,140 -Right, right. -...Or anything. 53 00:02:05,176 --> 00:02:07,092 How you feeling about today? 54 00:02:07,144 --> 00:02:09,178 -Good. It's gonna be a lot. -Yeah. 55 00:02:09,213 --> 00:02:11,780 I mean, I got pushed to a point where I was like, "I'm done." 56 00:02:11,816 --> 00:02:14,850 got a lot of stuff going on here I gotta address. 57 00:02:14,885 --> 00:02:16,218 Well, you do. You do. 58 00:02:16,237 --> 00:02:18,987 I mean, you just saw the last few episodes. 59 00:02:19,023 --> 00:02:21,556 I...Saw the last one last night. 60 00:02:21,575 --> 00:02:23,775 Well, that had to be fairly eye-opening... 61 00:02:23,828 --> 00:02:25,393 -Ah. -...Seeing lisa 62 00:02:25,412 --> 00:02:27,362 behind the closed door. 63 00:02:39,576 --> 00:02:41,176 Revolting? 64 00:02:41,212 --> 00:02:43,345 ♪♪♪ 65 00:02:43,380 --> 00:02:46,882 -andy, stand by. -Oh, my god. I love that color. 66 00:02:46,917 --> 00:02:48,350 -Wow. [laughs] -[laughs] 67 00:02:48,385 --> 00:02:50,886 -oh, my god. That's... -She brought the bling! 68 00:02:50,921 --> 00:02:53,222 -What is that? A fish... -It's water. 69 00:02:53,257 --> 00:02:54,473 -Shut up. -Ice fishing. 70 00:02:54,525 --> 00:02:57,392 [singsongy] jennie. Hi, baby girl. 71 00:02:57,427 --> 00:02:58,861 Like, isn't that so pretty? 72 00:02:58,896 --> 00:03:00,829 -[gasps] -hi. 73 00:03:00,865 --> 00:03:03,315 [indistinct conversations] 74 00:03:03,367 --> 00:03:04,933 -[laughter] -hi, whitney. 75 00:03:04,952 --> 00:03:06,401 Hello! 76 00:03:06,436 --> 00:03:08,820 And everyone got the memo. This is real water. 77 00:03:08,873 --> 00:03:12,407 -Don't storm off the stage. -This is the most insane set. 78 00:03:12,442 --> 00:03:13,825 -Wait, there's seven of us. -Yeah, is there-- 79 00:03:13,878 --> 00:03:14,776 where's mary going? 80 00:03:14,795 --> 00:03:17,512 Mary and meredith--right there. [laughs] 81 00:03:17,548 --> 00:03:20,716 -is mary going on the poof? -Let's guess. Let's guess. 82 00:03:20,751 --> 00:03:22,784 Oh, that's our ice fishing. 83 00:03:22,803 --> 00:03:24,419 -Hey. -Oh. 84 00:03:24,454 --> 00:03:26,255 -You look beautiful. -Hi, guys. 85 00:03:26,290 --> 00:03:30,225 -Where's mary? -Why is mary not here? 86 00:03:30,261 --> 00:03:31,860 Quiet on the set, please. 87 00:03:31,896 --> 00:03:33,729 Yes? 88 00:03:36,734 --> 00:03:39,685 It's a massive audio issue. Jen, they're like... 89 00:03:39,737 --> 00:03:41,636 I mean, this is what made the outfit, but it's fine. 90 00:03:41,655 --> 00:03:45,607 -[laughter] -yeah, you look plain now. 91 00:03:45,643 --> 00:03:48,277 Rolling in 5...4... 92 00:03:48,312 --> 00:03:51,479 3...2... 93 00:03:51,498 --> 00:03:53,749 Welcome to "the real housewives of salt lake city" 94 00:03:53,784 --> 00:03:55,867 season two reunion. 95 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:58,287 I am andy cohen, joined by the women, 96 00:03:58,322 --> 00:04:00,589 whose sophomore season just about set 97 00:04:00,624 --> 00:04:04,993 the snowcapped mountains of salt lake on fire. 98 00:04:05,012 --> 00:04:05,928 -Hi, ladies. -Hi, andy. 99 00:04:05,963 --> 00:04:07,329 -Hey. -Hello. 100 00:04:07,348 --> 00:04:09,965 Great to see you. We have transformed our set 101 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:13,268 into the beautiful ice castles in utah, 102 00:04:13,304 --> 00:04:15,470 where after months of feuding, 103 00:04:15,505 --> 00:04:17,839 jen and heather finally made peace, 104 00:04:17,858 --> 00:04:21,059 so I'm hoping that we can mend some other rifts 105 00:04:21,111 --> 00:04:23,562 that transpired this season. 106 00:04:23,614 --> 00:04:25,948 -Hi, baby gorgeous. -Hey, andy. 107 00:04:25,983 --> 00:04:27,983 Aren't you glad we're not in the sprinter van? 108 00:04:28,018 --> 00:04:29,651 I'm so glad we're not in the sprinter van. 109 00:04:29,687 --> 00:04:30,902 -I bet. -Just be ready, andy, 110 00:04:30,955 --> 00:04:32,354 in the middle of us. -Yes. 111 00:04:32,389 --> 00:04:34,573 -Everyone stay on your couches. -[laughter] 112 00:04:34,625 --> 00:04:37,092 jen, you're looking understated. 113 00:04:37,127 --> 00:04:40,662 Some might have expected you to show up kind of piously 114 00:04:40,697 --> 00:04:43,415 in white today, but no. -No. 115 00:04:43,467 --> 00:04:45,200 [laughter] 116 00:04:45,235 --> 00:04:46,701 -hi, meredith. -Hello. 117 00:04:46,720 --> 00:04:49,538 Did you take a nice, long soak in a bubble bath today? 118 00:04:49,573 --> 00:04:51,423 Well, I didn't because you guys 119 00:04:51,475 --> 00:04:53,642 put us in a hotel without a bathtub. 120 00:04:53,677 --> 00:04:55,210 Oh, no. [laughs] 121 00:04:55,229 --> 00:04:57,512 -it's a kind of a no-no for me. -Okay. Oh, my god. 122 00:04:57,547 --> 00:05:00,182 We have to look at meredith's rider next time. 123 00:05:00,217 --> 00:05:02,050 Jennie, welcome to your first reunion. 124 00:05:02,069 --> 00:05:03,602 Thank you very much. 125 00:05:03,654 --> 00:05:05,354 How are you feeing about being here? 126 00:05:05,389 --> 00:05:07,556 Very excited. I'm just glad to be here. 127 00:05:07,591 --> 00:05:11,026 Good. Uh, whitney, I'm glad you could take a break 128 00:05:11,061 --> 00:05:13,061 from driving carpool to be here. 129 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:14,196 [laughs] 130 00:05:14,231 --> 00:05:15,397 the nanny is at home with the kids. 131 00:05:15,416 --> 00:05:17,733 -You look great. -Thank you, andy. 132 00:05:17,768 --> 00:05:19,284 -Hi, heather. -Hi. 133 00:05:19,336 --> 00:05:21,036 -How are you? -I'm feeling good. 134 00:05:21,071 --> 00:05:24,339 Good. Did you finally get a real louis vuitton bag? 135 00:05:24,375 --> 00:05:27,209 I finally bought my first real louis vuitton. 136 00:05:27,244 --> 00:05:29,011 -Does it feel different? -It feels exactly the same 137 00:05:29,046 --> 00:05:31,213 as all the fakes I've been carrying all these years. 138 00:05:31,248 --> 00:05:33,515 -[laughter] -well, it should be apparent 139 00:05:33,550 --> 00:05:37,936 to all of you that mary chose not to join us tonight. 140 00:05:40,457 --> 00:05:42,391 Disappointing, to say the least. 141 00:05:42,426 --> 00:05:44,393 Why didn't mary come? 142 00:05:44,428 --> 00:05:47,095 Um, I spoke to her the other day. 143 00:05:47,131 --> 00:05:51,199 She was...Pretty upset about everyone speaking 144 00:05:51,235 --> 00:05:55,070 behind her back about her church, 145 00:05:55,105 --> 00:05:58,740 and I encouraged her to come and defend her church, 146 00:05:58,775 --> 00:06:03,662 and she was very upset that you called her a predator 147 00:06:03,714 --> 00:06:07,165 and was stunned by that and kept bringing that up. 148 00:06:07,217 --> 00:06:09,351 So what do you think about that? 149 00:06:09,386 --> 00:06:11,053 -I wish she was here. -Yeah. 150 00:06:11,088 --> 00:06:12,337 Because I tried to have conversations with her 151 00:06:12,389 --> 00:06:15,757 throughout the season, and she would not afford me the respect 152 00:06:15,792 --> 00:06:17,392 of a conversation. -Right. 153 00:06:17,428 --> 00:06:18,427 -First of all, you're not 100%. -Just come talk to me. 154 00:06:18,462 --> 00:06:20,929 Like, right now. I can smell it on your breath. 155 00:06:20,964 --> 00:06:22,597 Mary, I am-- 156 00:06:22,632 --> 00:06:25,633 and now we still don't get to talk about it. 157 00:06:25,652 --> 00:06:27,802 I wish she was here, too. 158 00:06:27,821 --> 00:06:32,691 Mary said so many insightful things in confessional, 159 00:06:32,743 --> 00:06:36,027 and I gained respect for mary watching the episodes. 160 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:37,479 -Mm. -Like kind of-- 161 00:06:37,498 --> 00:06:39,081 she has this kind of, like, weird ability 162 00:06:39,116 --> 00:06:42,250 to read everybody like the bible, and so-- 163 00:06:42,286 --> 00:06:44,152 I don't think they're accurate reads, though. 164 00:06:44,188 --> 00:06:45,587 Oh, I think they're right on the money. 165 00:06:45,622 --> 00:06:47,923 Like what? What did she get right? 166 00:06:47,958 --> 00:06:49,991 Like lisa doesn't know how to be real. 167 00:06:50,027 --> 00:06:51,426 Oh, my god. [laughs] 168 00:06:51,462 --> 00:06:53,161 I think that was the truest thing I'd ever heard. 169 00:06:53,180 --> 00:06:54,179 I know that's why you loved it. You're so textbook. It's okay. 170 00:06:54,214 --> 00:06:55,597 No, I heard her. She said things about me, lisa. 171 00:06:55,632 --> 00:06:57,048 -Yeah. -She said things about jen. 172 00:06:57,101 --> 00:06:58,333 I know how to be real. I am real. 173 00:06:58,352 --> 00:06:59,935 -She said things about whitney. -But she called whitney a whore. 174 00:06:59,970 --> 00:07:02,220 -She called her a whore. -She called you a whore? 175 00:07:02,272 --> 00:07:03,338 -In zion, yeah. -Isn't that contradicting 176 00:07:03,357 --> 00:07:06,007 what you're saying? She gets it right or she's... 177 00:07:06,026 --> 00:07:07,275 The thing about mary-- 178 00:07:07,311 --> 00:07:09,561 I understand what heather's saying. 179 00:07:09,613 --> 00:07:11,012 -I don't. -And when mary is, like, 180 00:07:11,048 --> 00:07:14,649 she does have moments of great wisdom and insight. 181 00:07:14,684 --> 00:07:15,734 -Moments. -Absolutely. 182 00:07:15,786 --> 00:07:17,285 -Moments. -I think she would have. 183 00:07:17,321 --> 00:07:18,453 -I'm sorry she's not here. -She's really not showing up? 184 00:07:18,489 --> 00:07:20,122 And I feel like she should've showed up for meredith. 185 00:07:20,157 --> 00:07:22,290 -She's really not showing up. -'cause meredith 186 00:07:22,326 --> 00:07:24,259 was her ride or die all season long, 187 00:07:24,294 --> 00:07:27,746 and, like, after everything that went down, 188 00:07:27,798 --> 00:07:29,998 meredith could use as many people 189 00:07:30,033 --> 00:07:32,250 supporting her as possible, 190 00:07:32,302 --> 00:07:35,137 and mary's not here to do that, and that makes me mad. 191 00:07:35,172 --> 00:07:36,972 What's your reaction to that? 192 00:07:37,007 --> 00:07:39,374 I have mixed feelings about it, because I'm not so sure 193 00:07:39,393 --> 00:07:42,310 that the show is very healthy for mary. 194 00:07:42,346 --> 00:07:46,982 But you know, I-I like having her support. So... 195 00:07:47,017 --> 00:07:49,935 Well, we have a lot to discuss, and I wanna start with you, jen, 196 00:07:49,987 --> 00:07:52,103 because I haven't seen you in person... 197 00:07:52,156 --> 00:07:54,489 -Right. -...Since the last reunion. 198 00:07:54,525 --> 00:07:57,159 Obviously, so much has happened. 199 00:07:57,194 --> 00:08:00,328 You're facing conspiracy to commit wire fraud 200 00:08:00,364 --> 00:08:03,615 with a maximum of 30 years in prison, 201 00:08:03,667 --> 00:08:08,003 and conspiracy to commit money laundering 202 00:08:08,038 --> 00:08:10,622 with an additional 20 years. 203 00:08:10,674 --> 00:08:13,375 How are you doing? 204 00:08:13,410 --> 00:08:18,780 Honestly, this is...Devastating for me personally, 205 00:08:18,815 --> 00:08:22,083 and more so for my family. 206 00:08:22,102 --> 00:08:25,637 I think that's why it was so hard for me especially, 207 00:08:25,689 --> 00:08:27,755 you know, seeing the vail trip. 208 00:08:27,774 --> 00:08:30,492 I saw it real time with the rest of the world, 209 00:08:30,527 --> 00:08:33,144 and it broke my heart. 210 00:08:33,197 --> 00:08:36,097 I'm glad I didn't see all the things that were said 211 00:08:36,133 --> 00:08:38,650 until I watched it because if I would have known that, 212 00:08:38,702 --> 00:08:42,070 we would have turned that bus over on the way to zion. 213 00:08:42,105 --> 00:08:43,371 -Hey! -Push me 214 00:08:43,407 --> 00:08:45,240 one more ----ing time! -No, no, no, no, no. 215 00:08:45,275 --> 00:08:47,442 Come on, come on, come on! You wanna go? 216 00:08:47,477 --> 00:08:49,711 -You almost did. -Yeah, but... 217 00:08:49,746 --> 00:08:50,946 -Yeah, we definitely would've. -[laughter] 218 00:08:50,981 --> 00:08:55,283 um, after the arrest, did you consider quitting the show? 219 00:08:55,319 --> 00:08:58,169 We did have a discussion-- me and coach and the boys. 220 00:08:58,222 --> 00:09:02,007 And I was like, no. I'm innocent, and I felt like 221 00:09:02,059 --> 00:09:03,508 I need to tell my story. 222 00:09:03,560 --> 00:09:05,760 How do your lawyers feel about you being here today? 223 00:09:05,795 --> 00:09:08,513 -Oh, they were ecstatic. -[laughter] 224 00:09:08,565 --> 00:09:12,100 no, I mean, they weren't thrilled about it, 225 00:09:12,135 --> 00:09:14,302 but because I felt like it was important 226 00:09:14,321 --> 00:09:17,472 for me to be here with the rest of the group of friends, 227 00:09:17,507 --> 00:09:20,041 and...Show up. 228 00:09:20,077 --> 00:09:21,443 When is the trial? 229 00:09:21,478 --> 00:09:25,780 It's scheduled for March 22nd right now. 230 00:09:25,815 --> 00:09:27,315 -So I mean that's... -Yeah. 231 00:09:27,334 --> 00:09:30,201 -...Really soon. -Will you be in new york? 232 00:09:30,254 --> 00:09:31,336 Yeah, I'll be in new york for the trial. 233 00:09:31,371 --> 00:09:32,754 Will you be wearing this outfit for your first day? 234 00:09:32,789 --> 00:09:35,257 -I...You know... -[laughter] 235 00:09:35,292 --> 00:09:36,458 I think that's a very bad idea. 236 00:09:36,493 --> 00:09:37,876 No, I don't think it's a very good idea. 237 00:09:37,928 --> 00:09:40,879 -The lawyers put this together. -[laughter] 238 00:09:40,931 --> 00:09:42,464 all right, well, we have more to discuss 239 00:09:42,499 --> 00:09:43,798 about everything you're facing 240 00:09:43,833 --> 00:09:45,800 and everything that you've been through, 241 00:09:45,835 --> 00:09:48,336 but I wanna start with something 242 00:09:48,355 --> 00:09:50,338 a little lighter for the group. -[laughs] 243 00:09:50,357 --> 00:09:53,608 jen began this season on a small apology tour. 244 00:09:53,644 --> 00:09:56,561 Why are you throwing out little dumb digs behind my back? 245 00:09:56,613 --> 00:10:00,181 I am sorry. Meredith, I'm sorry. 246 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:05,120 I would never want you to feel I somehow outed you, 247 00:10:05,155 --> 00:10:07,238 and I'm sorry. -Thank you. 248 00:10:07,291 --> 00:10:11,293 Meredith, I am sorry for hurting you and your family. 249 00:10:12,362 --> 00:10:13,495 I'm sorry. 250 00:10:13,530 --> 00:10:15,080 Jen, do you feel like you apologize 251 00:10:15,132 --> 00:10:18,333 more than the other women? -Absolutely. 252 00:10:18,368 --> 00:10:20,468 Margaret from lake geneva said, "heather, you felt like 253 00:10:20,504 --> 00:10:24,139 jen's apology was genuine enough to move on, 254 00:10:24,174 --> 00:10:26,424 but I wouldn't be able to move forward with jen 255 00:10:26,476 --> 00:10:29,978 after being called shrek or honey boo boo. How can you?" 256 00:10:30,013 --> 00:10:33,848 because it was a bad joke that she said behind my back 257 00:10:33,883 --> 00:10:38,603 to a random person, and I would rather deal with someone 258 00:10:38,655 --> 00:10:41,606 that makes really bad jokes on low-hanging fruit 259 00:10:41,658 --> 00:10:44,993 that I enjoy and like, and I can get over it. 260 00:10:45,028 --> 00:10:48,663 I got over it, and I think she's deeply sorry 261 00:10:48,699 --> 00:10:50,665 that she said those things. Are you? 262 00:10:50,701 --> 00:10:52,334 Absolutely, and you know I-- 263 00:10:52,369 --> 00:10:54,285 do you think I look like honey boo boo? [laughs] 264 00:10:54,338 --> 00:10:55,787 -no. And... -[chuckles] 265 00:10:55,839 --> 00:10:59,341 shrek is because you were acting like an ogre to me. 266 00:10:59,376 --> 00:11:00,575 -I was donkey. -Because-- 267 00:11:00,594 --> 00:11:01,960 she was donkey. I was shrek. 268 00:11:02,012 --> 00:11:03,712 Wait, wait, wait. Who else called her shrek? 269 00:11:03,747 --> 00:11:04,963 Nobody remembered she was donkey. 270 00:11:05,015 --> 00:11:06,514 Who else was talking all kinds of stuff? 271 00:11:06,550 --> 00:11:08,883 There's a bunch of other stuff going on, 272 00:11:08,918 --> 00:11:10,301 but I always get called out for it. 273 00:11:10,354 --> 00:11:11,353 You're looking at lisa. Did you call her shrek? 274 00:11:11,388 --> 00:11:12,920 I never called-- I never called heather shrek. 275 00:11:12,939 --> 00:11:14,255 Oh, you've called me horrible things, lisa. 276 00:11:14,274 --> 00:11:16,858 -I have never called you shrek. -You called me a lego figurine. 277 00:11:16,893 --> 00:11:17,892 You've called me horrible things. 278 00:11:17,927 --> 00:11:19,694 -Oh, I did not. Oh, I did not. -You said--yeah. 279 00:11:19,730 --> 00:11:22,063 -You know you have. -I did not. I did not. 280 00:11:22,098 --> 00:11:23,931 Well, lisa, you've called friends on this couch 281 00:11:23,950 --> 00:11:25,433 that you've known for 10 years 282 00:11:25,452 --> 00:11:28,603 a ----ing piece of sh-- garbage whore, 283 00:11:28,622 --> 00:11:30,938 and I think I would rather be called shrek every day than be 284 00:11:30,957 --> 00:11:32,824 called the horrible things... -Tell everyone all the things 285 00:11:32,876 --> 00:11:34,442 you call me and the lies you tell about me. 286 00:11:34,461 --> 00:11:36,544 ...You said about your friend of 10 years. 287 00:11:36,580 --> 00:11:42,550 ♪♪♪ 288 00:11:45,604 --> 00:11:48,440 ♪♪♪ 289 00:11:48,475 --> 00:11:50,558 I would rather be called shrek every day than be called 290 00:11:50,610 --> 00:11:52,310 the horrible things... -Tell everyone all the things 291 00:11:52,345 --> 00:11:53,978 you call me and the lies you tell about me. 292 00:11:54,013 --> 00:11:55,680 ...You said about your friend of 10 years. 293 00:11:55,699 --> 00:11:56,781 That was in a rage in my room, and we'll address that. 294 00:11:56,817 --> 00:11:58,650 You know what? I think that's how you really feel, 295 00:11:58,685 --> 00:11:59,868 'cause it was so ugly. -No, it's not. 296 00:11:59,903 --> 00:12:01,853 That doesn't come out in a rage. But you can keep saying that 297 00:12:01,888 --> 00:12:03,405 -that is not-- -that is the lisa barlow that 298 00:12:03,457 --> 00:12:04,989 I've known from day one. I'm glad you've finally 299 00:12:05,024 --> 00:12:06,157 revealed yourself. -From day one since 2017. 300 00:12:06,193 --> 00:12:08,359 I said you're gonna reveal yourself, and you finally did. 301 00:12:08,378 --> 00:12:10,245 -Okay, you've revealed yourself. -The curtains were pulled back. 302 00:12:10,297 --> 00:12:11,246 Okay, and you've revealed yourself. 303 00:12:11,298 --> 00:12:12,997 And that's who you are, and it's very ugly. 304 00:12:13,032 --> 00:12:14,048 I knew that this was gonna happen. 305 00:12:14,084 --> 00:12:15,133 -I had one moment-- -you did? Because you called 306 00:12:15,168 --> 00:12:17,085 your friend of 10 years... -Wait. I'm still talking. 307 00:12:17,137 --> 00:12:18,253 ...A ----ing piece of sh-- garbage whore. 308 00:12:18,305 --> 00:12:20,138 I'll stop talking until I can-- 309 00:12:20,173 --> 00:12:21,723 and that's the smallest of the things you've said, 310 00:12:21,758 --> 00:12:24,041 but I'm gonna, like, preserve everyone's dignity 311 00:12:24,060 --> 00:12:25,643 and let you face that, and I'm not gonna bring it up. 312 00:12:25,679 --> 00:12:27,228 Did you call her a lego figurine? 313 00:12:27,264 --> 00:12:28,212 I never did. 314 00:12:28,231 --> 00:12:30,181 I got sent a picture from their best friend 315 00:12:30,216 --> 00:12:32,734 that had her and said, "this looks like heather." 316 00:12:32,769 --> 00:12:33,852 -I never said that. -We saw the text. 317 00:12:33,887 --> 00:12:35,520 That's how we know that that's what you said. 318 00:12:35,555 --> 00:12:37,772 I haven't said that. I haven't said that, 319 00:12:37,824 --> 00:12:39,607 and I'll show you all of 'em. -We've seen 'em. 320 00:12:39,659 --> 00:12:40,608 -I can show you all of 'em. -We've seen 'em. 321 00:12:40,660 --> 00:12:41,743 -I can print it. -Angie showed us everything, 322 00:12:41,778 --> 00:12:43,895 and it--it's exactly the way you spoke of meredith-- 323 00:12:43,914 --> 00:12:45,163 did she show you her husband calling you trash 324 00:12:45,198 --> 00:12:46,798 and you trash and everything? Okay. 325 00:12:46,833 --> 00:12:47,782 We've talked about all of it. 326 00:12:47,834 --> 00:12:49,000 We just spent a week in cabo with her husband. 327 00:12:49,035 --> 00:12:51,068 Do you know what I think is fascinating? Listen. Listen. 328 00:12:51,087 --> 00:12:52,504 Because they are authentic people, 329 00:12:52,539 --> 00:12:54,071 and they only felt that way about us 330 00:12:54,090 --> 00:12:55,072 because of the horrible things you said, and now that 331 00:12:55,091 --> 00:12:56,841 we're all friends... -I've never talked to them 332 00:12:56,877 --> 00:12:58,075 about you guys. -...And we know how you 333 00:12:58,094 --> 00:12:59,744 really feel about everyone on this stage... 334 00:12:59,763 --> 00:13:01,078 I have never talked to them about you guys. I did not. 335 00:13:01,097 --> 00:13:02,413 -...You've been revealed, lisa. -I did not. 336 00:13:02,432 --> 00:13:03,631 So own it. Own it, or we cannot move forward. 337 00:13:03,683 --> 00:13:05,049 I will own what I didn't say 100%. 338 00:13:05,084 --> 00:13:07,752 -Is a lego figurine bad? -She just meant because 339 00:13:07,771 --> 00:13:09,888 my body is, like, too square. -It's body shaming. 340 00:13:09,923 --> 00:13:11,256 Body and fat shaming-- it's a big thing for her. 341 00:13:11,291 --> 00:13:12,857 No, I don't fat shame you or body shame you. 342 00:13:12,893 --> 00:13:14,893 I think you look great, heather. 343 00:13:14,928 --> 00:13:17,228 Okay, I wanna get back to jen's apology tour. 344 00:13:17,263 --> 00:13:18,897 Meredith, after the apology to brooks, 345 00:13:18,932 --> 00:13:21,149 you seemed okay with jen. 346 00:13:21,201 --> 00:13:23,935 What made you pull away from her again? 347 00:13:23,954 --> 00:13:27,655 First of all, what I would like to accomplish today with jen 348 00:13:27,707 --> 00:13:30,208 is a peaceful space. 349 00:13:30,243 --> 00:13:32,827 I've been trying to get to that peaceful space for a while. 350 00:13:32,879 --> 00:13:37,999 Right. And for starters, I'd like to apologize to you 351 00:13:38,051 --> 00:13:40,117 for hurting you and/or your family 352 00:13:40,136 --> 00:13:41,836 for anything that I said. 353 00:13:41,888 --> 00:13:43,671 Thank you. 354 00:13:43,723 --> 00:13:45,089 Oh. 355 00:13:45,124 --> 00:13:46,307 I... [sighs] 356 00:13:49,846 --> 00:13:52,180 [sniffles] sorry. 357 00:13:52,232 --> 00:13:53,765 Sorry. I-I just need a moment, andy. 358 00:13:53,800 --> 00:13:55,800 I'm a little verklempt. [sniffles] 359 00:13:55,836 --> 00:13:57,018 yeah. 360 00:13:57,070 --> 00:13:59,237 [crying] 361 00:13:59,272 --> 00:14:01,940 -what are you feeling right now? -[exhales deeply] sorry. 362 00:14:01,975 --> 00:14:04,075 There's a lot more stuff that went on 363 00:14:04,110 --> 00:14:06,444 that goes well beyond you, jen, that I-I-- 364 00:14:06,479 --> 00:14:09,614 I don't even know how I can approach talking to you 365 00:14:09,649 --> 00:14:11,482 until I deal with some other stuff. 366 00:14:11,501 --> 00:14:13,918 -Okay. Is it about brooks? -[sighs] 367 00:14:13,954 --> 00:14:17,205 there was a lot going on last winter 368 00:14:17,257 --> 00:14:19,624 that I could not talk about. 369 00:14:19,659 --> 00:14:21,826 I had told lisa that I had some very serious issues 370 00:14:21,845 --> 00:14:23,995 well beyond just losing my father, 371 00:14:24,014 --> 00:14:27,015 which was incredibly painful. 372 00:14:27,050 --> 00:14:28,833 The last time I saw my father 373 00:14:28,852 --> 00:14:31,636 was through a glass door on a facetime 374 00:14:31,671 --> 00:14:33,855 because of covid. 375 00:14:33,890 --> 00:14:38,610 [sobbing] 376 00:14:38,645 --> 00:14:41,846 we had some very serious issues going on in my family. 377 00:14:41,865 --> 00:14:44,449 [sniffles] I couldn't get him buried. 378 00:14:44,484 --> 00:14:46,284 I couldn't get any peace. 379 00:14:46,319 --> 00:14:51,022 I was fighting incessantly with my sister. 380 00:14:51,041 --> 00:14:53,491 I have a nephew with mental health issues. 381 00:14:53,526 --> 00:14:55,293 [sniffles] it wasn't my story to tell. 382 00:14:55,328 --> 00:14:57,528 I couldn't talk about it, 383 00:14:57,547 --> 00:15:01,165 and I was in a state of immense, immense pain. 384 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:02,800 [sniffles] 385 00:15:02,836 --> 00:15:04,869 my fears, my reactions, 386 00:15:04,888 --> 00:15:10,008 everything was amplified a million times over. 387 00:15:10,043 --> 00:15:14,045 I think every one of you, anyone watching 388 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:19,216 my behavior change from season one to season two, 389 00:15:19,235 --> 00:15:22,987 I was insane by the end, completely insane, 390 00:15:23,023 --> 00:15:27,325 because I was emotionally devastated. 391 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:29,527 I-I totally understand, and, meredith, honestly, 392 00:15:29,562 --> 00:15:32,997 when I saw you, I saw myself a year ago 393 00:15:33,033 --> 00:15:38,036 with exactly how I responded and reacted, 394 00:15:38,071 --> 00:15:39,871 because I was grieving, and I didn't know, 395 00:15:39,906 --> 00:15:44,709 and I couldn't get better until I went through all of that. 396 00:15:44,744 --> 00:15:47,412 Meredith, I'm curious, as you watch the show back, 397 00:15:47,447 --> 00:15:49,797 how did you feel about the way that jen treated you? 398 00:15:49,849 --> 00:15:51,749 How did she treat you this season? 399 00:15:51,768 --> 00:15:55,803 Seeing how everything unfolded and the information 400 00:15:55,855 --> 00:15:59,641 that was given to jen, or I should say misinformation, 401 00:15:59,693 --> 00:16:03,895 she was actually...Pretty kind at the end of the day. 402 00:16:03,930 --> 00:16:06,597 Thank you for saying that. With your marriage last year 403 00:16:06,616 --> 00:16:08,399 and then with your dad and everything, 404 00:16:08,434 --> 00:16:11,819 I would kind of hold--hold back because I... 405 00:16:11,871 --> 00:16:14,271 I know what it is to be going through a lot, 406 00:16:14,290 --> 00:16:17,075 and you're not being your normal true self. 407 00:16:17,110 --> 00:16:19,410 You're reacting, like you said, amplified. 408 00:16:19,445 --> 00:16:21,879 Do you think ultimately she wound up treating you better 409 00:16:21,915 --> 00:16:23,381 this season than your friend? 410 00:16:23,416 --> 00:16:25,883 -Yes. -Oh. 411 00:16:25,919 --> 00:16:28,052 I feel like in a weird way, we're rewriting history, too. 412 00:16:28,088 --> 00:16:31,005 Like, I'm happy that you guys are in a good place right now 413 00:16:31,057 --> 00:16:32,724 and you're talking, but what's really weird to me 414 00:16:32,759 --> 00:16:36,844 is for the last year, this has not been working. 415 00:16:36,896 --> 00:16:38,229 This has been disjointed, horrible. 416 00:16:38,264 --> 00:16:39,463 And you've been in the middle of it. 417 00:16:39,482 --> 00:16:40,848 Wait, wait, wait, why is this being pointed out right now? 418 00:16:40,900 --> 00:16:41,933 And I've been in the middle of it. 419 00:16:41,968 --> 00:16:43,568 And I've been in the middle of it, and so to me, 420 00:16:43,603 --> 00:16:44,936 it just seems like all of a sudden, 421 00:16:44,971 --> 00:16:47,355 we're, like, kumbaya. "I understand you. I--" 422 00:16:47,407 --> 00:16:48,472 but I thought that's what you wanted, though, right? 423 00:16:48,491 --> 00:16:50,141 No, I do, but I know what I said, 424 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:52,026 and I know it was horrible. -Yeah. 425 00:16:52,078 --> 00:16:54,078 I know it was wrong. What happened if we erased that? 426 00:16:54,114 --> 00:16:55,279 Like, what is everyone gonna say? 427 00:16:55,314 --> 00:16:56,948 "oh, your character's so bad. Oh, this." 428 00:16:56,983 --> 00:16:59,033 I know my character in that moment was horrible 429 00:16:59,085 --> 00:17:00,818 because I said this. With this-- -you can erase that, lisa. 430 00:17:00,837 --> 00:17:01,853 -But wait, listen. It was-- -but what she just said 431 00:17:01,888 --> 00:17:04,055 about needing a friend-- -what I did was horrible. 432 00:17:04,090 --> 00:17:06,424 No, no, no, with what she said about needing a friend... 433 00:17:06,459 --> 00:17:08,459 -I was there for her, though. -What changed? 434 00:17:08,494 --> 00:17:10,428 I have to be perfect all the time, or it's... 435 00:17:10,463 --> 00:17:13,131 I'm held to, like, a different bar. 436 00:17:13,166 --> 00:17:17,351 ♪♪♪ 437 00:17:19,972 --> 00:17:21,139 ♪♪♪ 438 00:17:21,174 --> 00:17:22,857 and we are back 439 00:17:22,909 --> 00:17:25,943 with "the real housewives of salt lake city" reunion. 440 00:17:25,979 --> 00:17:27,695 Okay, I wanna switch gears for a minute. 441 00:17:27,747 --> 00:17:30,114 Jennie, tell me what it means 442 00:17:30,150 --> 00:17:34,218 to be an immigrant woman of color in salt lake city. 443 00:17:34,254 --> 00:17:37,488 It's very difficult because growing up in long beach, 444 00:17:37,507 --> 00:17:38,673 there's a lot of diversity, 445 00:17:38,708 --> 00:17:42,376 and being an immigrant, I have a very heavy accent, 446 00:17:42,429 --> 00:17:43,994 and people don't respect that because, like, 447 00:17:44,013 --> 00:17:48,066 "you live in america. You need to learn how to communicate." 448 00:17:48,101 --> 00:17:50,802 -I can communicate fine, okay? -Clearly. 449 00:17:50,837 --> 00:17:51,836 -Yes. -Just because I have an accent 450 00:17:51,855 --> 00:17:54,138 doesn't mean I don't know how to communicate. 451 00:17:54,173 --> 00:17:55,673 Lisa is a long-time friend of jennie's. 452 00:17:55,692 --> 00:17:59,010 What made you think she'd be a fit in this group? 453 00:17:59,045 --> 00:18:01,345 Since we met when our boys were little, 454 00:18:01,364 --> 00:18:02,346 I just thought she was so fun and funny, 455 00:18:02,365 --> 00:18:05,850 and I loved when our families got together. 456 00:18:05,869 --> 00:18:09,287 I mean, duy adjusted henry at 2 weeks old. He's like, 457 00:18:09,322 --> 00:18:11,355 "this is good for babies." he gave him a little adjustment. 458 00:18:11,374 --> 00:18:13,190 You sent your 2-year-old for an adjustment? 459 00:18:13,209 --> 00:18:15,025 -Or 2-month-old. -2 months old. 460 00:18:15,044 --> 00:18:16,461 -2-month-old? -Yeah. 461 00:18:16,496 --> 00:18:17,361 -For an adjustment? -Yeah, he got an adjustment. 462 00:18:17,380 --> 00:18:18,262 -Wow. -Yeah. 463 00:18:18,298 --> 00:18:19,330 Meredith, what did you think when jennie 464 00:18:19,365 --> 00:18:23,034 tried to get you and jen to make up at ice fishing? 465 00:18:23,069 --> 00:18:24,869 Jen, do you wanna be friends with her or not? 466 00:18:24,888 --> 00:18:26,170 Just tell me now. Do you wanna be friends with her? 467 00:18:26,205 --> 00:18:27,305 Yes, jennie. 468 00:18:27,340 --> 00:18:28,923 Do you wanna be friends with her? 469 00:18:28,975 --> 00:18:30,708 Then you guys shut the [bleep] up and listen to each other. 470 00:18:30,743 --> 00:18:32,043 Was she overstepping? 471 00:18:32,078 --> 00:18:34,145 Uh, it felt a little bit that way. 472 00:18:34,180 --> 00:18:35,179 Jennie hadn't been there before, 473 00:18:35,214 --> 00:18:38,649 and she didn't fully understand the situation, 474 00:18:38,685 --> 00:18:42,653 and she was, you know, very, um...Uh... 475 00:18:42,689 --> 00:18:44,655 -She had a lot to say, yeah. -Right. 476 00:18:44,691 --> 00:18:47,558 Jen, as--as someone who is known for losing her temper, 477 00:18:47,577 --> 00:18:50,278 did jennie come in too hot? 478 00:18:50,330 --> 00:18:53,197 I appreciate jennie's...Demeanor. [laughs] 479 00:18:53,232 --> 00:18:56,701 but that time, I was--I think I said something to jennie, 480 00:18:56,736 --> 00:18:58,536 like, "you don't know what's going on" 481 00:18:58,571 --> 00:19:00,538 or "you weren't here when it happened." 482 00:19:00,573 --> 00:19:02,173 -yeah, she did. -Heather and whitney, 483 00:19:02,208 --> 00:19:05,710 you accused lisa of pulling the puppet strings this season. 484 00:19:05,745 --> 00:19:07,411 Do you think lisa manipulated jennie 485 00:19:07,447 --> 00:19:09,747 into fighting some of her battles? 486 00:19:09,766 --> 00:19:11,682 -Yeah, 100%. -You do? 487 00:19:11,718 --> 00:19:15,920 I don't--no. I'm not her minion, and when you guys said that 488 00:19:15,939 --> 00:19:19,140 at the "after show," I was taken aback. 489 00:19:19,192 --> 00:19:22,693 I love jennie, but I think she's very, very loyal to lisa, 490 00:19:22,729 --> 00:19:26,314 and lisa likes her minions to do her dirty work. 491 00:19:26,366 --> 00:19:31,602 I'm her friend, and she will not control what I do. 492 00:19:31,638 --> 00:19:32,703 So when you guys said that, I don't appreciate that. 493 00:19:32,739 --> 00:19:35,272 And I don't try to, either. I would never try to. 494 00:19:35,291 --> 00:19:36,908 In fact, I was very careful 495 00:19:36,943 --> 00:19:38,543 bringing jennie into this friend group, 496 00:19:38,578 --> 00:19:40,545 and I said, "you've seen the show. 497 00:19:40,580 --> 00:19:44,048 You've seen our dynamic. Make your own judgments 498 00:19:44,083 --> 00:19:46,083 and have your own relationships." 499 00:19:46,118 --> 00:19:48,085 -so you had watched the show? -Yes, I had watched the show. 500 00:19:48,120 --> 00:19:51,589 But I would like to know what make you think that lisa 501 00:19:51,624 --> 00:19:55,176 has the power to tell me what I should and should not do 502 00:19:55,228 --> 00:19:56,260 and do her dirty work? -I never said lisa has the power 503 00:19:56,295 --> 00:19:57,678 to--to control you at all. 504 00:19:57,730 --> 00:20:00,064 I said I think jennie's in a tough position 505 00:20:00,099 --> 00:20:02,767 'cause she is lisa's friend, and lisa has expectations 506 00:20:02,802 --> 00:20:04,735 of her friends that are very controlling. 507 00:20:04,771 --> 00:20:05,937 You're narrating me. Don't do that. 508 00:20:05,972 --> 00:20:07,138 But you said that I was her minion. 509 00:20:07,173 --> 00:20:08,356 You're narrating me. Don't do that. 510 00:20:08,408 --> 00:20:09,607 -I'm not her minion. -Don't narrate me. 511 00:20:09,642 --> 00:20:12,743 I was worried that you were going to be motivated to do what 512 00:20:12,779 --> 00:20:14,111 she was manipulating you to do. 513 00:20:14,146 --> 00:20:15,580 What am I trying to make her do? 514 00:20:15,615 --> 00:20:16,948 What is--what do I need her to do? 515 00:20:16,983 --> 00:20:18,082 -Jennie, do you not feel-- -when you need her, 516 00:20:18,117 --> 00:20:19,750 you're there for her, and when you don't need her... 517 00:20:19,786 --> 00:20:20,668 -Yeah. -...You dismiss her. 518 00:20:20,703 --> 00:20:22,787 And I think that jennie probably felt that, 519 00:20:22,822 --> 00:20:24,822 but will never say it 'cause she's a loyal, good friend. 520 00:20:24,841 --> 00:20:25,840 -Um-- -you know what you do? 521 00:20:25,875 --> 00:20:27,208 I wanna--I wanna say something real quick here. 522 00:20:27,260 --> 00:20:28,426 -Okay. -You know what you do? 523 00:20:28,461 --> 00:20:29,210 You talked to "bad weather" right now? 524 00:20:29,262 --> 00:20:30,995 Yeah, I'm talking to "bad weather." 525 00:20:31,014 --> 00:20:32,663 you like to say that, "oh, that's..." 526 00:20:32,682 --> 00:20:33,831 -talking to me or "bad weather"? -You say this to us or heather? 527 00:20:33,850 --> 00:20:35,049 -Both. Everybody here. -That's--okay, great. Bring it. 528 00:20:35,101 --> 00:20:39,053 I don't want to nor do I control anyone through manipulation 529 00:20:39,105 --> 00:20:41,939 or any other tactics. I have no tactics. 530 00:20:41,975 --> 00:20:44,558 You guys use the word "minions" so that if anyone stands up 531 00:20:44,611 --> 00:20:46,394 for me, they are the bad guy, and I don't like that. 532 00:20:46,446 --> 00:20:49,063 I'm not saying that for an advantage. 533 00:20:49,115 --> 00:20:50,815 I'm saying that because I like jennie a lot. 534 00:20:50,850 --> 00:20:52,450 I know you don't like me, so we should disparage me. 535 00:20:52,485 --> 00:20:54,151 I think she's a strong, smart, powerful-- 536 00:20:54,186 --> 00:20:55,786 -I like you, too, lisa. -I want--I wanna hear from-- 537 00:20:55,822 --> 00:20:57,021 I apologize if I called you a minion. 538 00:20:57,040 --> 00:20:57,955 I wanna hear from meredith on this. 539 00:20:57,991 --> 00:20:59,073 I apologize that we called you a minion. 540 00:20:59,125 --> 00:21:00,291 -Meredith, what do you think? -Thank you very much. 541 00:21:00,326 --> 00:21:02,293 It's not the words. I feel like it's a horrible situation. 542 00:21:02,328 --> 00:21:03,461 -I mean... -Let's hear from meredith. 543 00:21:03,496 --> 00:21:06,330 I do think there is some level of control that goes on 544 00:21:06,365 --> 00:21:12,003 more over lisa's own life than the other person. 545 00:21:12,038 --> 00:21:14,205 It's not--it's more of what you shouldn't be doing 546 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:16,407 to respect her space. 547 00:21:16,442 --> 00:21:17,642 I wanna talk about something serious. 548 00:21:17,677 --> 00:21:23,180 This season mary made a lot of racially insensitive remarks. 549 00:21:23,215 --> 00:21:27,818 Fans were all outraged. We were all outraged. 550 00:21:27,854 --> 00:21:31,605 The words were ignorant, intolerant, and hurtful. 551 00:21:31,658 --> 00:21:34,659 To lisa, about jen in vail, she said... 552 00:21:34,694 --> 00:21:36,060 [voice breaking] when I think about jen, 553 00:21:36,079 --> 00:21:39,397 I see a heartless... I see a thug. 554 00:21:39,432 --> 00:21:43,134 You know those mexican people that make all those drugs? 555 00:21:43,169 --> 00:21:46,237 Jennie, she talked about your yellow tone. 556 00:21:46,272 --> 00:21:48,205 She talked about slanted eyes. 557 00:21:48,240 --> 00:21:50,675 You look amazing as a blonde. So does she. 558 00:21:50,710 --> 00:21:54,078 You do have yellow tones. I like the slanted eyes. 559 00:21:54,113 --> 00:21:55,346 Ah! Love it. 560 00:21:55,381 --> 00:21:57,682 She imitated your accent. 561 00:21:57,717 --> 00:21:59,050 Jennie comes-- starts coming at me. 562 00:21:59,085 --> 00:22:00,084 [imitating asian accent] "mary is lying. 563 00:22:00,103 --> 00:22:02,687 She said a lot of things about you. We think--" 564 00:22:02,722 --> 00:22:05,639 -[normal voice] okay, sorry. -No characters, please. 565 00:22:05,692 --> 00:22:07,858 I can't imagine... 566 00:22:07,894 --> 00:22:09,259 -It's hurtful. -Yeah. 567 00:22:09,278 --> 00:22:10,594 Because she's a minority. I'm a minority. 568 00:22:10,613 --> 00:22:12,863 We're supposed to support each other. 569 00:22:12,899 --> 00:22:14,899 Have you experienced that type of racism before? 570 00:22:14,934 --> 00:22:18,035 Yes. I grew up with this every day. 571 00:22:18,071 --> 00:22:19,937 Especially now with a lot of asian hate, 572 00:22:19,956 --> 00:22:23,207 every time I go, I'm afraid for my life, 573 00:22:23,242 --> 00:22:25,076 because people will stalk me. 574 00:22:25,111 --> 00:22:26,627 People will be like, "oh, you're the virus. 575 00:22:26,662 --> 00:22:28,162 You're this. You're that." 576 00:22:28,214 --> 00:22:32,049 I have kids that are dealing with this right now. 577 00:22:32,085 --> 00:22:34,452 And for me, it's like, if one day they watch the show 578 00:22:34,487 --> 00:22:38,589 and seeing their mom being attacked, 579 00:22:38,624 --> 00:22:40,674 how are they gonna live their life? 580 00:22:40,727 --> 00:22:44,962 Meredith, when mary imitated jennie's asian accent at lunch, 581 00:22:44,981 --> 00:22:46,630 it seemed like you were giving her a pass. 582 00:22:46,649 --> 00:22:50,267 What's your response to that and what jennie just said? 583 00:22:50,302 --> 00:22:53,404 No, when--I assume when you say defended her with jennie, 584 00:22:53,439 --> 00:22:56,857 you're talking about in zion at the cinco de mayo? Is-- 585 00:22:56,909 --> 00:22:59,610 no, at the luncheon, when she made fun of my accent, 586 00:22:59,645 --> 00:23:01,779 you both sat there and laughed. 587 00:23:01,814 --> 00:23:03,030 I did not laugh. It was a grimace. 588 00:23:03,082 --> 00:23:05,533 I was horrified and uncomfortable. 589 00:23:05,585 --> 00:23:07,585 I said, "no characters" because I was 590 00:23:07,620 --> 00:23:11,122 trying to give a reminder to her that it was not okay. 591 00:23:11,157 --> 00:23:13,290 But then I felt that at whitney's event-- 592 00:23:13,325 --> 00:23:15,543 but then it was during the confrontation, uh, 593 00:23:15,595 --> 00:23:18,829 at whitney's party, 594 00:23:18,848 --> 00:23:22,666 you were asked about mary's "slanted eyes" comment, 595 00:23:22,702 --> 00:23:24,235 then stayed silent. 596 00:23:24,270 --> 00:23:25,936 Did anyone else know that's offensive? 597 00:23:25,972 --> 00:23:27,054 Really? 598 00:23:27,106 --> 00:23:30,307 I didn't know. Is that offensive? 599 00:23:30,343 --> 00:23:32,560 I'm so sorry. I didn't know that. 600 00:23:32,612 --> 00:23:35,479 -Why? -So my understanding 601 00:23:35,515 --> 00:23:38,849 going into that moment was when you're dealing with a comment 602 00:23:38,885 --> 00:23:43,454 that is prejudicial, you are supposed to really look 603 00:23:43,489 --> 00:23:47,992 to the party affected by it to get a cue. 604 00:23:48,027 --> 00:23:50,494 And if I could do it again, I would have just said yes. 605 00:23:50,529 --> 00:23:52,913 The reason I didn't say yes is because before I was asked, 606 00:23:52,965 --> 00:23:57,635 "is it offensive?" jennie responded to the same question, 607 00:23:57,670 --> 00:23:59,870 "is it offensive?" mary had asked you, 608 00:23:59,889 --> 00:24:01,639 and you said, "well, it's inappropriate." 609 00:24:01,674 --> 00:24:04,675 and I got very nervous that I was not being respectful 610 00:24:04,710 --> 00:24:05,810 of your own views, and that's why-- 611 00:24:05,845 --> 00:24:08,929 I did say it was very offensive. I said it was racist, 612 00:24:08,981 --> 00:24:12,049 very offensive, very inappropriate. 613 00:24:12,068 --> 00:24:13,217 You guys all heard it. 614 00:24:13,236 --> 00:24:14,384 -Mm-hmm. -Yeah. 615 00:24:14,403 --> 00:24:16,320 To me, it's a very discriminatory, 616 00:24:16,355 --> 00:24:19,390 racist kind of joke. 617 00:24:19,425 --> 00:24:21,442 It doesn't seem like there was any question about whether 618 00:24:21,494 --> 00:24:24,612 what she said was wrong. I mean... 619 00:24:24,664 --> 00:24:25,896 -A-agreed. -You can't say "slanted." 620 00:24:25,915 --> 00:24:28,365 -I mean, it's... -Yeah, it's horrible. 621 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:30,868 -It's terrible. -Horrific. 622 00:24:30,903 --> 00:24:34,505 Heather, you said that jennie looked like an anime character. 623 00:24:34,540 --> 00:24:37,241 You gotta see this. 624 00:24:37,260 --> 00:24:39,510 You look like an anime character. 625 00:24:39,545 --> 00:24:40,711 -Like, you look gorgeous. -She does. 626 00:24:40,746 --> 00:24:42,463 Yeah. You look surreal. 627 00:24:42,515 --> 00:24:45,850 It was not because you're asian, which I realize, 628 00:24:45,885 --> 00:24:48,302 and it's terrible that it came out that way, 629 00:24:48,354 --> 00:24:50,387 but you were wearing a vinyl corset. 630 00:24:50,422 --> 00:24:54,225 You looked like a cartoon, you know, drawn physical... 631 00:24:54,260 --> 00:24:55,860 She looked gorgeous. 632 00:24:55,895 --> 00:24:57,194 ...You know, physically beautiful, 633 00:24:57,230 --> 00:24:59,463 ridiculously overdesigned anime character, 634 00:24:59,499 --> 00:25:02,199 like you looked like a cartoon, and it was beautiful. 635 00:25:02,235 --> 00:25:03,534 No, that's the thing I have is that I love the compliment. 636 00:25:03,569 --> 00:25:04,935 And I didn't mean it to be asian. 637 00:25:04,954 --> 00:25:06,820 I just don't like the labeling... 638 00:25:06,873 --> 00:25:08,539 I know. I shouldn't have said that, and I'm sorry. 639 00:25:08,574 --> 00:25:10,407 ...Of me as a minority, a woman of color. 640 00:25:10,442 --> 00:25:11,458 -It wasn't okay, and I'm sorry. -I'm curious, do you have any-- 641 00:25:11,494 --> 00:25:16,380 as the season--as you saw the season back, meredith, 642 00:25:16,415 --> 00:25:20,167 do you have any regrets about going so hard for mary 643 00:25:20,219 --> 00:25:22,253 or not speaking up more? 644 00:25:22,288 --> 00:25:24,755 I definitely regret that moment for sure. 645 00:25:24,790 --> 00:25:27,925 Um, and I did text jennie a couple days later 646 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:28,959 to make sure she knew 647 00:25:28,978 --> 00:25:30,511 that I felt horribly 648 00:25:30,563 --> 00:25:31,896 that she had gone through that 649 00:25:31,931 --> 00:25:33,264 and that she had my support. 650 00:25:33,299 --> 00:25:37,067 But I don't think I went quite so hard in support 651 00:25:37,103 --> 00:25:39,937 as the interpretation of it is. 652 00:25:39,972 --> 00:25:42,022 You're always there for mary. You always defend her. 653 00:25:42,074 --> 00:25:44,975 Even if I say something to mary, and I was like, 654 00:25:44,994 --> 00:25:46,360 "mary, I'm trying to open up to you. 655 00:25:46,412 --> 00:25:48,862 I'm trying to talk to you" when we went to zion, 656 00:25:48,915 --> 00:25:50,814 and we had that spa thing, and she's like, 657 00:25:50,833 --> 00:25:53,650 "I'm not comfortable with that. I don't even know you. 658 00:25:53,669 --> 00:25:54,818 And you're just like, "oh, okay." 659 00:25:54,837 --> 00:25:56,704 you should have been there and said, 660 00:25:56,756 --> 00:25:57,821 "mary, she's trying to open up to you. 661 00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:59,790 She's trying to be nice to you." why can't you give-- 662 00:25:59,825 --> 00:26:01,542 I'm not her keeper, jennie. She's an adult woman. 663 00:26:01,594 --> 00:26:03,928 But you are her friend. You are her friend. 664 00:26:03,963 --> 00:26:05,062 She is an adult woman. If she wants to walk away, 665 00:26:05,097 --> 00:26:07,164 she should walk away. -Just because she's your friend, 666 00:26:07,183 --> 00:26:08,799 you don't turn a blind eye and say, "oh, you can be rude 667 00:26:08,834 --> 00:26:11,218 to jennie. You can be rude to--" -I feel like I stood up for you 668 00:26:11,270 --> 00:26:13,304 every time she said something, I stood up for you 669 00:26:13,339 --> 00:26:14,521 every time she came after you. -Exactly, but I don't feel it 670 00:26:14,557 --> 00:26:16,724 from you at all, meredith. Every time when it comes to mary-- 671 00:26:16,776 --> 00:26:18,842 well, jennie, that's because I felt under attack by you 672 00:26:18,878 --> 00:26:20,477 the entire season. 673 00:26:20,512 --> 00:26:25,065 ♪♪♪ 674 00:26:26,918 --> 00:26:29,703 -"you can be rude to--" -I feel like I stood up for you 675 00:26:29,738 --> 00:26:32,172 every time she said something, I stood up for you 676 00:26:32,208 --> 00:26:33,173 every time she came after you. -Exactly, you did, 677 00:26:33,209 --> 00:26:35,042 but I don't feel it from you at all, meredith. 678 00:26:35,077 --> 00:26:36,510 Every time when it comes to mary-- 679 00:26:36,545 --> 00:26:37,678 well, jennie, maybe that's because 680 00:26:37,713 --> 00:26:39,713 I felt under attack by you the entire season. You went-- 681 00:26:39,748 --> 00:26:40,881 how did I attack you? 682 00:26:40,916 --> 00:26:43,183 Because you wouldn't--you had made all these judgments 683 00:26:43,219 --> 00:26:45,085 and never once asked me a question. 684 00:26:45,104 --> 00:26:46,220 What judgment did I make? Point out one. 685 00:26:46,255 --> 00:26:48,138 Well, let's start out with on the way to ice fishing 686 00:26:48,190 --> 00:26:49,156 in the car with lisa. -Okay. 687 00:26:49,191 --> 00:26:52,493 "I've known meredith for a little while now." 688 00:26:52,528 --> 00:26:53,861 -excuse me. -Your definition of 689 00:26:53,896 --> 00:26:54,645 "a little while" and my definition... 690 00:26:54,697 --> 00:26:56,763 Don't cut me off, please, jennie. 691 00:26:56,782 --> 00:26:58,065 ...Of a "little while" is two different definitions. 692 00:26:58,100 --> 00:26:59,599 -You want me to speak or not? -Okay, let her--let her finish. 693 00:26:59,618 --> 00:27:00,784 "I've known meredith for a little while, 694 00:27:00,820 --> 00:27:03,570 and she tends to ice people out when there's conflict." 695 00:27:03,605 --> 00:27:06,490 -I met you one week before. -Mm-hmm. 696 00:27:06,542 --> 00:27:09,576 I don't know that meeting you one week before at a party 697 00:27:09,611 --> 00:27:11,879 is quite enough time to make a judgment 698 00:27:11,914 --> 00:27:13,947 on how I handle conflict. 699 00:27:13,966 --> 00:27:16,000 -Let's start there. -Okay. 700 00:27:16,052 --> 00:27:20,754 Okay? You also decided to take and misinterpret 701 00:27:20,790 --> 00:27:25,175 a lot of things I said and create a lot of problems 702 00:27:25,227 --> 00:27:27,227 between me and jen where I thought we were 703 00:27:27,263 --> 00:27:28,962 in a peaceful spot momentarily. 704 00:27:28,981 --> 00:27:32,766 You ----ing told me she hired a private investigator 705 00:27:32,801 --> 00:27:35,069 to investigate me! That's what you said! 706 00:27:35,104 --> 00:27:36,520 I never hired a private investigator 707 00:27:36,572 --> 00:27:40,074 to investigate you. I hired an investigator 708 00:27:40,109 --> 00:27:42,376 to investigate why my family was receiving threats. 709 00:27:42,411 --> 00:27:44,194 You made this into something it wasn't. 710 00:27:44,246 --> 00:27:47,247 You never asked me. You-- I saw you with your husband. 711 00:27:47,283 --> 00:27:48,649 "well, why wouldn't she call the police?" 712 00:27:48,684 --> 00:27:51,085 if you get text messages, 713 00:27:51,120 --> 00:27:54,538 do you go hire a private investigator, 714 00:27:54,590 --> 00:27:56,223 or you go file a report? 715 00:27:56,258 --> 00:27:58,792 Who hire a private investigator to search this? 716 00:27:58,827 --> 00:28:00,544 Why didn't you ask me if I called the police? 717 00:28:00,596 --> 00:28:04,164 I have a police report, jennie. I did call the police. 718 00:28:04,183 --> 00:28:07,885 There was no benefit of the doubt for me whatsoever. 719 00:28:07,937 --> 00:28:11,772 It was just...You made your choices, and you went on. 720 00:28:11,807 --> 00:28:13,974 -Are you done? -You didn't ask me. 721 00:28:14,009 --> 00:28:16,443 -Are you done? -What else can we go to? 722 00:28:16,479 --> 00:28:18,645 Um...Let's see. 723 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:21,681 You are so offended by mary's gift because 724 00:28:21,700 --> 00:28:23,850 you thought it was used. 725 00:28:23,869 --> 00:28:26,070 Do you understand that it's insulting to give someone 726 00:28:26,122 --> 00:28:27,404 a used item? 727 00:28:27,456 --> 00:28:30,524 But they're not used. They're brand-new. 728 00:28:30,543 --> 00:28:32,076 It wasn't meant for me, mary. 729 00:28:32,128 --> 00:28:35,129 Yet my husband received used golf balls 730 00:28:35,164 --> 00:28:37,531 as a birthday present from you. 731 00:28:37,550 --> 00:28:39,750 Did you give her husband used golf balls? 732 00:28:39,802 --> 00:28:40,867 -What? -What? 733 00:28:40,886 --> 00:28:43,337 -I gave you used golf balls? -Yes. 734 00:28:43,372 --> 00:28:45,973 I'll donate them to the clubhouse if you'd like. 735 00:28:46,008 --> 00:28:49,009 I don't know that they're iconic enough. 736 00:28:49,044 --> 00:28:51,145 I have no idea. My husband picked it out. 737 00:28:51,180 --> 00:28:53,880 Okay. Danny from iowa city said, "lisa, did it surprise you 738 00:28:53,899 --> 00:28:57,768 to see meredith so tolerant of mary's ignorance?" 739 00:28:57,820 --> 00:29:01,855 that's a great question. Let me think how I wanna answer this. 740 00:29:01,890 --> 00:29:03,890 -It's yes or no. -Um... 741 00:29:03,909 --> 00:29:05,993 -[chuckles] -I was shocked 742 00:29:06,028 --> 00:29:09,696 that meredith wasn't more vocal, but I do know that 743 00:29:09,731 --> 00:29:14,535 meredith does not like unacceptable behaviors, 744 00:29:14,570 --> 00:29:16,954 so I was shocked that she wasn't as vocal 745 00:29:17,006 --> 00:29:18,872 as I normally would expect meredith to be. 746 00:29:18,907 --> 00:29:20,340 Jennie-- 747 00:29:20,376 --> 00:29:22,292 can I speak to that for one second? 748 00:29:22,344 --> 00:29:25,012 -Yes. -You know, there's a lot that-- 749 00:29:25,047 --> 00:29:27,297 every relationship has a different dynamic, 750 00:29:34,723 --> 00:29:35,022 I guess d is it if you don't cal 751 00:29:36,225 --> 00:29:38,192 in fronte other women or on camera? 752 00:29:38,227 --> 00:29:42,262 Because then here we are having a misrepresentation of you. 753 00:29:42,281 --> 00:29:45,932 Well, there's plenty on camera. There's plenty on camera. 754 00:29:45,951 --> 00:29:49,036 Jennie, akilah from l.A. Said, 755 00:29:49,071 --> 00:29:50,938 "we all agree that mary was wrong for mocking your accent. 756 00:29:50,973 --> 00:29:54,441 When are you gonna address, take accountability, 757 00:29:54,460 --> 00:29:56,543 and apologize for the fact 758 00:29:56,579 --> 00:29:59,446 that you constantly used a blaccent? 759 00:29:59,482 --> 00:30:01,915 You roll your neck and you wag your finger 760 00:30:01,950 --> 00:30:05,385 and other stereotypical depictions of black women 761 00:30:05,421 --> 00:30:07,688 when you talk to or about mary." 762 00:30:07,723 --> 00:30:09,256 okay, can we stop and have some fun? 763 00:30:09,291 --> 00:30:10,724 Shut the [bleep] up and let's go! 764 00:30:10,759 --> 00:30:13,527 -Don't ever use that word again. -This is how I talk. 765 00:30:13,562 --> 00:30:15,429 If you don't like it, you don't have to listen. 766 00:30:15,464 --> 00:30:16,797 Oh, wow. 767 00:30:16,832 --> 00:30:18,065 She is full of sh--. No, mary. 768 00:30:18,100 --> 00:30:19,799 -So do you believe that, right? -Unh-unh, I sat next to you. 769 00:30:19,818 --> 00:30:22,035 -What? -You talk about her... 770 00:30:22,071 --> 00:30:23,270 -I sure did -...As much as we did. 771 00:30:23,305 --> 00:30:24,471 Don't lie, mary. Don't lie. 772 00:30:24,490 --> 00:30:27,441 No, you ----ing shut up! Don't tell me to shut up, okay? 773 00:30:29,512 --> 00:30:30,811 I asked you about it on "watch what happens live." 774 00:30:30,846 --> 00:30:32,479 -yeah. -And it just kept coming up. 775 00:30:32,498 --> 00:30:33,947 -Mm-hmm. -So I mean... 776 00:30:33,982 --> 00:30:36,416 I don't see I have a black accent. 777 00:30:36,452 --> 00:30:37,751 Okay. 778 00:30:37,786 --> 00:30:40,153 I grew up in long beach, california. 779 00:30:40,189 --> 00:30:43,123 It shaped who I am. That's where I get my accent. 780 00:30:43,158 --> 00:30:44,758 And I don't understand why people look at me and say 781 00:30:44,793 --> 00:30:46,877 when I talk to mary, I have a black accent. 782 00:30:46,929 --> 00:30:48,762 I don't see that. Do you guys see that? 783 00:30:48,797 --> 00:30:51,164 Do you guys see I have a black accent? 784 00:30:51,183 --> 00:30:54,551 I have an accent. Whatever comes out, comes out. 785 00:30:54,603 --> 00:30:57,471 Jennie, you threw a glass at mary. 786 00:30:57,506 --> 00:30:59,139 Run away, mary! Run the [bleep] away 787 00:30:59,174 --> 00:31:02,943 because you don't have nothing... 788 00:31:02,978 --> 00:31:05,445 Is that a little bit hypocritical to reprimand mary 789 00:31:05,481 --> 00:31:07,314 for being violent with her words 790 00:31:07,349 --> 00:31:10,484 when you were violent with your actions? 791 00:31:10,519 --> 00:31:11,952 I didn't throw it at mary. I threw it on the floor. 792 00:31:11,987 --> 00:31:12,886 -Okay. -It didn't hit mary. 793 00:31:12,922 --> 00:31:14,354 If I wanna hit mary, I would've hit mary. 794 00:31:14,373 --> 00:31:15,956 Okay. Let me ask you this. 795 00:31:15,991 --> 00:31:17,624 -Do you like mary? -No. 796 00:31:17,660 --> 00:31:19,192 -Okay. -[laughs] 797 00:31:19,211 --> 00:31:21,194 the reason why I don't like her--because she didn't like me. 798 00:31:21,213 --> 00:31:22,863 -Okay. -I have a comment right here. 799 00:31:22,898 --> 00:31:24,581 -Okay. -So when we were all together 800 00:31:24,633 --> 00:31:27,801 when we went tubing, I think you just went in really hot, 801 00:31:27,836 --> 00:31:30,771 and mary, I feel like, was, like, whoa. 802 00:31:30,806 --> 00:31:32,372 Like, you came in too strong. That's what I'm saying. 803 00:31:32,391 --> 00:31:33,423 But it wasn't toward mary. 804 00:31:33,475 --> 00:31:35,842 I said, "shut the [bleep] up and have some fun." 805 00:31:35,877 --> 00:31:37,311 -and then she told-- -I know, but if you're a guest 806 00:31:37,346 --> 00:31:39,396 at somewhere and you're like, "shut the [bleep] up 807 00:31:39,431 --> 00:31:41,515 and have some fun," and you're like, "who the hell's this?" 808 00:31:41,550 --> 00:31:42,849 but I apologized to her when I did her makeup. 809 00:31:42,885 --> 00:31:44,484 -Hey, it doesn't matter. -I apologized. 810 00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:45,819 -It doesn't matter. -She won't let it go. 811 00:31:45,854 --> 00:31:47,955 It's mary m. Cosby. Once... 812 00:31:47,990 --> 00:31:50,724 And then it didn't stop there. She keep--continue. 813 00:31:50,743 --> 00:31:52,025 It didn't stop there, and there's a part of me 814 00:31:52,060 --> 00:31:54,444 that thinks that there's something in mary 815 00:31:54,496 --> 00:31:56,896 that is racist because it didn't stop there, 816 00:31:56,915 --> 00:31:59,333 and it seemed to always come up. 817 00:31:59,368 --> 00:32:01,401 I did speak to her, uh, last week, 818 00:32:01,420 --> 00:32:04,638 and she told me that she didn't think that 819 00:32:04,673 --> 00:32:07,291 black people were capable of being racist. 820 00:32:07,343 --> 00:32:11,211 They are. Everyone is capable of being racist. 821 00:32:11,246 --> 00:32:15,182 ♪♪♪ 822 00:32:15,217 --> 00:32:18,101 uh, we need to take a break. We'll be right back. 823 00:32:21,673 --> 00:32:24,541 Well, to be fair, all housewives stir the pot 824 00:32:24,593 --> 00:32:27,761 from time to time, but this season, it seemed 825 00:32:27,796 --> 00:32:31,331 that one or two women were putting some extra muscle 826 00:32:31,350 --> 00:32:33,767 into mixing up the mess. 827 00:32:33,802 --> 00:32:35,636 Watch this. 828 00:32:35,671 --> 00:32:37,738 I wanna have some fun, get everyone together. 829 00:32:37,773 --> 00:32:39,139 We're gonna gamble for charity. 830 00:32:39,174 --> 00:32:41,408 -Oh, I love that. -Whitney's gonna be there. 831 00:32:41,443 --> 00:32:42,342 Do you and whitney have an issue? 832 00:32:42,361 --> 00:32:44,945 I don't have an issue. 833 00:32:44,980 --> 00:32:46,730 With the party, there's been a hiccup. 834 00:32:46,782 --> 00:32:50,951 We've been asked to host events at the restaurant 835 00:32:50,986 --> 00:32:52,786 by lisa's assistant. 836 00:32:52,821 --> 00:32:55,789 -"we can't do your event." -lisa's sabotaging you. 837 00:32:55,824 --> 00:32:59,626 I see [bleep] getting gifts from our friend group 838 00:32:59,662 --> 00:33:01,128 on social media. 839 00:33:01,163 --> 00:33:03,580 Lisa, why would you ask if her feelings were hurt? 840 00:33:03,632 --> 00:33:05,865 -Oh, my gosh. -You're planting a seed 841 00:33:05,884 --> 00:33:07,084 from the beginning. -No, I'm not. I wasn't. 842 00:33:07,136 --> 00:33:08,218 The reason you planted a bug 843 00:33:08,253 --> 00:33:09,903 in jen's ear against me and invited me and not her-- 844 00:33:09,938 --> 00:33:11,538 I didn't plant a bug in her ear. 845 00:33:11,557 --> 00:33:13,090 Don't accuse me of doing something I didn't do. 846 00:33:13,142 --> 00:33:14,091 -All right. -[whispers] wow. 847 00:33:14,143 --> 00:33:15,208 By a show of hands, 848 00:33:15,227 --> 00:33:19,346 who thinks lisa is the pot stirrer in the group? 849 00:33:21,684 --> 00:33:25,268 I'm, like, right here. 850 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:26,937 -And I think there's... -Don't raise your hand, jennie. 851 00:33:26,989 --> 00:33:28,055 ...More than one. 852 00:33:28,090 --> 00:33:29,322 You think there's more than one? 853 00:33:29,358 --> 00:33:32,058 One's on that couch, and then one's on this couch. [laughs] 854 00:33:32,077 --> 00:33:34,895 I think that--I think that lisa does a brilliant job 855 00:33:34,930 --> 00:33:37,698 of stirring the pot, and I always take the baton. 856 00:33:37,733 --> 00:33:40,667 Why do you think lisa? You raised your hand for lisa. 857 00:33:40,703 --> 00:33:42,002 I'll be real honest. 858 00:33:42,037 --> 00:33:44,204 I feel like I was played a fool. 859 00:33:44,239 --> 00:33:45,739 -Played a fool. -So do I. 860 00:33:45,758 --> 00:33:46,840 -So do you? -So do I. 861 00:33:46,875 --> 00:33:51,261 -Who played you for a fool? -We'll talk about it. 862 00:33:51,296 --> 00:33:54,581 Jill from marlboro, new jersey, said, "lisa, how do you explain 863 00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:57,250 the timeline of the catering debacle? 864 00:33:57,286 --> 00:33:59,186 They were committed to angie's party. 865 00:33:59,221 --> 00:34:01,688 Your assistant called. Then they pulled out. 866 00:34:01,724 --> 00:34:03,473 Did you or did you not 867 00:34:03,525 --> 00:34:05,192 have your assistant call the caterer?" 868 00:34:05,227 --> 00:34:06,860 I got a call from the caterers, 869 00:34:06,895 --> 00:34:09,730 and they were like, "lisa's assistant called, 870 00:34:09,765 --> 00:34:12,065 and we--we can't do it anymore. 871 00:34:12,101 --> 00:34:14,334 We have to pull out of your event." 872 00:34:14,369 --> 00:34:17,170 no, I did not, because I don't have an assistant 873 00:34:17,206 --> 00:34:19,322 that would call angie's caterers. 874 00:34:19,374 --> 00:34:21,441 -Okay, you have seven lawyers. -My people work for vida. 875 00:34:21,460 --> 00:34:24,544 -I do have that. -[laughter] 876 00:34:24,580 --> 00:34:26,780 -okay. -So let's talk about timeline. 877 00:34:26,799 --> 00:34:28,832 -Okay. Oh, boy. -They're all right here. 878 00:34:28,884 --> 00:34:30,667 -Okay. -I have all the receipts. 879 00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:32,118 I wanna hear lisa defend herself. 880 00:34:32,137 --> 00:34:33,887 -Yeah, okay. -Lisa--yeah, I would love to. 881 00:34:33,922 --> 00:34:36,506 Because I also saw the texts on angie's phone. 882 00:34:36,558 --> 00:34:37,974 And angie's the only person that has stood up to you 883 00:34:38,010 --> 00:34:40,927 and not con-conspired with you before-- 884 00:34:40,962 --> 00:34:42,128 -hold on. This is a message-- -that's not the first person 885 00:34:42,147 --> 00:34:43,180 that was real and authentic and absolutely close to you. 886 00:34:43,232 --> 00:34:46,900 This is a text from angie. She says, "would you guys 887 00:34:46,935 --> 00:34:50,103 be interested in catering an event? It'll be on tv. 888 00:34:50,138 --> 00:34:52,689 It's a secret," and they said, "of course. We'd love to. 889 00:34:52,741 --> 00:34:55,609 Heads up. Lisa reached out to us to come to the restaurant 890 00:34:55,644 --> 00:34:57,477 to shoot as well." 891 00:34:57,513 --> 00:35:00,480 they said, "I'm not sure we can do multiple shoots, 892 00:35:00,516 --> 00:35:02,582 but I think so." -yep. 893 00:35:02,618 --> 00:35:05,719 And then they say, "don't tell lisa." 894 00:35:05,754 --> 00:35:08,088 -yeah, that was weird. -That was angie said... 895 00:35:08,123 --> 00:35:09,322 -Yeah. -..."don't tell lisa." 896 00:35:09,341 --> 00:35:10,590 yeah. 897 00:35:10,626 --> 00:35:13,627 Okay. So why did she not want to tell? 898 00:35:13,662 --> 00:35:15,929 -I don't know. -I have an answer for that. 899 00:35:15,964 --> 00:35:17,230 -Okay. -I do, too. 900 00:35:17,266 --> 00:35:19,266 Angie asked them not to tell lisa 901 00:35:19,301 --> 00:35:21,635 because production asked her-- they didn't want her to know 902 00:35:21,670 --> 00:35:23,053 that angie was getting the first event. 903 00:35:23,105 --> 00:35:24,337 -Okay. -And that right there is true. 904 00:35:24,356 --> 00:35:27,173 'cause that would have sent her to a tailspin, which it did. 905 00:35:27,192 --> 00:35:28,441 No, no, no, no, no. It did not send me in a tailspin, 906 00:35:28,477 --> 00:35:29,476 because none of us were getting along. 907 00:35:29,511 --> 00:35:31,394 -It was the right move. -None of that's true. 908 00:35:31,446 --> 00:35:37,017 What would have been her motive in sabotaging this for angie? 909 00:35:37,052 --> 00:35:38,785 Angie and I connect. That's motive. 910 00:35:38,821 --> 00:35:40,120 -Okay. -No, that's not. 911 00:35:40,155 --> 00:35:42,455 There's no motive. I don't do things like that. 912 00:35:42,491 --> 00:35:43,323 I would never do that. 913 00:35:43,358 --> 00:35:45,191 Lisa asked angie to not be my friend. 914 00:35:45,210 --> 00:35:47,244 Don't follow me on social media. Don't acknowledge her. 915 00:35:47,296 --> 00:35:48,829 We've seen the receipts. 916 00:35:48,864 --> 00:35:50,997 She doesn't--she doesn't like that we're friends. 917 00:35:51,032 --> 00:35:54,251 No. She asked me to not acknowledge you as my cousin. 918 00:35:54,303 --> 00:35:55,702 ♪♪♪ 919 00:35:55,737 --> 00:35:56,970 do you know what I said? You're twisting it. 920 00:35:57,005 --> 00:35:59,005 -I said, "don't claim her." -but I'm not twisting it. I'm-- 921 00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:00,206 because she said, "I just found out from watching the show..." 922 00:36:00,225 --> 00:36:01,808 -those are...Those are... -"...That whitney is my cousin." 923 00:36:01,844 --> 00:36:03,410 you also called us-- 924 00:36:03,445 --> 00:36:04,878 you called us inbred polygamist cousins, lisa. 925 00:36:04,913 --> 00:36:06,045 And I'm a snarky bitch and I said, "don't claim her." 926 00:36:06,064 --> 00:36:07,280 because they don't go to the same-- 927 00:36:07,316 --> 00:36:08,214 clearly, you think that us being-- 928 00:36:08,233 --> 00:36:11,050 did you call them inbred polygamist cousins? 929 00:36:11,069 --> 00:36:13,553 I do not buy angie and whitney being close now 930 00:36:13,572 --> 00:36:15,605 because they're like these inbred polygamy cousins. 931 00:36:15,657 --> 00:36:18,825 -It's, like, weird. -I did. 932 00:36:18,861 --> 00:36:21,611 Yeah, so okay, so then why are you defending yourself now? 933 00:36:21,663 --> 00:36:24,731 So why would she try to sabotage her friend of 20 years? 934 00:36:24,766 --> 00:36:27,066 Because angie knows all of her deepest, darkest secrets, 935 00:36:27,085 --> 00:36:28,618 to protect herself. -Um, insane. 936 00:36:28,670 --> 00:36:31,237 Lisa, I have a question for you. May I ask you a question? 937 00:36:31,256 --> 00:36:33,072 That on casino night, 938 00:36:33,091 --> 00:36:35,959 when you ran into this problem with angie, 939 00:36:36,011 --> 00:36:38,128 do you feel that I had your back enough for you? 940 00:36:38,180 --> 00:36:40,580 I do feel like you had my back. I do. 941 00:36:40,599 --> 00:36:42,883 When you take a step back, can you at least see that 942 00:36:42,918 --> 00:36:45,385 the timeline and cadence of all of the events... 943 00:36:45,420 --> 00:36:46,469 -No. -...Look--you can't? 944 00:36:46,521 --> 00:36:47,971 No, I cannot because I did not-- 100% did not do it. 945 00:36:48,023 --> 00:36:48,889 And you cannot take accountability 946 00:36:48,924 --> 00:36:50,473 for being territorial and controlling? 947 00:36:50,525 --> 00:36:52,025 We're never gonna agree on it, lisa. 948 00:36:52,060 --> 00:36:53,259 -'cause you're wrong. -They were buried 949 00:36:53,278 --> 00:36:54,110 in a text message, andy, and they said-- 950 00:36:54,146 --> 00:36:55,612 and jennie's evidence of it, honestly. 951 00:36:55,647 --> 00:36:56,763 -They explained it all. -Evidence of what? 952 00:36:56,782 --> 00:36:57,764 They think--they're thinking me and angie are friends. 953 00:36:57,783 --> 00:36:58,448 -You'll see. Just wait. -They explained it. 954 00:36:58,483 --> 00:36:59,566 They volunteer and all queue up. 955 00:36:59,601 --> 00:37:00,734 We all have been through it, jennie. It's horrible. 956 00:37:00,769 --> 00:37:04,654 Yes. Heather, you and lisa developed a close relationship 957 00:37:04,706 --> 00:37:06,573 towards the end of the season. -Yeah. 958 00:37:06,608 --> 00:37:09,459 But you know, you've also become good friends with angie. 959 00:37:09,494 --> 00:37:12,278 They just celebrated angie's birthday--her 40th--in cabo. 960 00:37:12,297 --> 00:37:14,497 How does that make you feel that they're all just-- 961 00:37:14,549 --> 00:37:15,665 I'm happy that they're all friends. 962 00:37:15,717 --> 00:37:17,050 -Oh, okay. -It was a phenomenal trip. 963 00:37:17,085 --> 00:37:19,386 We were on a yacht that chris actually paid for 964 00:37:19,421 --> 00:37:21,922 and didn't just front pictures on like you like to do. 965 00:37:21,957 --> 00:37:22,839 I pay for my stuff. Are you kidding? 966 00:37:22,891 --> 00:37:24,090 We went to cabo. Everything was paid for. 967 00:37:24,125 --> 00:37:27,093 I pay for my stuff. Are you insulting john barlow right now? 968 00:37:27,128 --> 00:37:28,678 It's the life that you pretend to have 969 00:37:28,730 --> 00:37:32,065 that angie actually has, and we enjoyed the spoils of it. 970 00:37:32,100 --> 00:37:33,533 Oh, my gosh. She is so horrible. 971 00:37:33,568 --> 00:37:34,601 -Okay. Meredith-- -you know what? 972 00:37:34,636 --> 00:37:35,819 I have dirt on you, lisa, and I hold it all back, 973 00:37:35,854 --> 00:37:38,571 but I won't hold it back any longer if you wanna go there. 974 00:37:38,607 --> 00:37:39,906 What about your dui? You're such-- 975 00:37:39,942 --> 00:37:41,574 -you have great character. -You wanna go there? 976 00:37:41,610 --> 00:37:42,642 -I don't have one. Look it up. -Yes, you do. I did look it up. 977 00:37:42,661 --> 00:37:43,977 -It's a lie. -All right, okay. 978 00:37:43,996 --> 00:37:44,978 Yeah, you do. You're a liar. This is so insane. 979 00:37:44,997 --> 00:37:47,030 -It's not insane, lisa. -It's not. We posed. 980 00:37:47,082 --> 00:37:48,531 We know you, and we love you as you are. 981 00:37:48,583 --> 00:37:49,866 -Oh, my gosh. -And we want you 982 00:37:49,918 --> 00:37:51,618 to have all of that for yourself. 983 00:37:51,653 --> 00:37:53,036 -I do have it for myself. -You don't have to fake it 984 00:37:53,088 --> 00:37:54,120 until you get there. -I don't fake anything. 985 00:37:54,155 --> 00:37:56,256 -Lisa, you do. It's okay. -Honestly, I-I fake a lot. 986 00:37:56,291 --> 00:37:58,491 -If you can just pivot... -Do you want my k-1s? 987 00:37:58,510 --> 00:37:59,592 -...We will support you. -You love her as she is? 988 00:37:59,628 --> 00:38:03,129 I liked her more when I saw her true self show up 989 00:38:03,164 --> 00:38:04,264 than I've ever liked her. -She doesn't know me. 990 00:38:04,299 --> 00:38:06,299 Because I don't wanna be friends with a caricature 991 00:38:06,334 --> 00:38:09,219 of some, you know, teen magazine she read in eighth grade 992 00:38:09,271 --> 00:38:10,937 that said, "how to be a cool mean girl." 993 00:38:10,973 --> 00:38:16,776 ♪♪♪ 994 00:38:18,446 --> 00:38:19,913 you love her as she is? 995 00:38:19,948 --> 00:38:23,516 I liked her more when I saw her true self show up... 996 00:38:23,535 --> 00:38:24,951 -She doesn't know me. -...Than I ever liked her. 997 00:38:24,987 --> 00:38:26,185 -Yeah. -Because I don't wanna be 998 00:38:26,204 --> 00:38:29,155 friends with a caricature of some, you know, teen magazine 999 00:38:29,190 --> 00:38:30,690 she read in eighth grade that said, 1000 00:38:30,709 --> 00:38:32,525 "how to be a cool mean girl." 1001 00:38:32,561 --> 00:38:35,195 okay. All right, okay, let's move on. 1002 00:38:35,230 --> 00:38:36,863 Monica from south dakota said, 1003 00:38:36,898 --> 00:38:38,131 "jen, why do you think lisa mentioned 1004 00:38:38,166 --> 00:38:40,667 your former dress designer on the show? 1005 00:38:40,702 --> 00:38:42,085 Do you think she wanted to humiliate you, 1006 00:38:42,137 --> 00:38:44,137 or was she worried whitney was being a bad friend 1007 00:38:44,172 --> 00:38:46,339 by sending him free skincare products?" 1008 00:38:46,374 --> 00:38:47,774 -no. -What I thought that-- 1009 00:38:47,809 --> 00:38:51,811 in that moment was that she wanted me to know 1010 00:38:51,847 --> 00:38:55,214 that whitney is not a good person. 1011 00:38:55,233 --> 00:38:56,399 This is about my business, so I want to clear this up. 1012 00:38:56,435 --> 00:38:57,984 This is not about your business. I wanna just explain this. 1013 00:38:58,020 --> 00:38:59,602 Yeah, you need to-- you need to say. 1014 00:38:59,654 --> 00:39:00,937 -So I'll wait. -Well, so does she. 1015 00:39:00,989 --> 00:39:02,722 At the time, he was working for jen. 1016 00:39:02,741 --> 00:39:05,658 We thought he was jen's, like, ride or die. 1017 00:39:05,694 --> 00:39:08,445 That was prior to the leak of the audio. 1018 00:39:08,497 --> 00:39:11,281 Once it all came out, I sent them a screenshot 1019 00:39:11,333 --> 00:39:12,899 of what was out there, 1020 00:39:12,918 --> 00:39:14,200 and I said, "please do not respond back to him," 1021 00:39:14,235 --> 00:39:15,902 and my team never did again. 1022 00:39:15,921 --> 00:39:16,903 My intention is bringing it up was I was like-- 1023 00:39:16,922 --> 00:39:20,040 -stir the point. -You're holding me to a standard 1024 00:39:20,075 --> 00:39:21,708 but why is it okay for them to, you know... 1025 00:39:21,743 --> 00:39:23,126 -Explain my horrible behavior. -That was my intention. 1026 00:39:23,178 --> 00:39:24,377 -It wasn't-- -right. 1027 00:39:24,412 --> 00:39:25,512 I didn't wanna hurt or disparage, 1028 00:39:25,547 --> 00:39:28,181 and I was also, like, questioning 1029 00:39:28,216 --> 00:39:31,351 my friendship with jen because, like, I was feeling like, 1030 00:39:31,386 --> 00:39:32,268 hey, we talk all the time. -That's why you did it. 1031 00:39:32,304 --> 00:39:33,586 'cause you were questioning your control. 1032 00:39:33,605 --> 00:39:34,554 -No. No. And-- -and you wanted to-- 1033 00:39:34,589 --> 00:39:35,688 -no, it's not about control. -You wanted to 1034 00:39:35,724 --> 00:39:36,806 put her in her place. -I wanna know what jen believes. 1035 00:39:36,858 --> 00:39:39,142 -It's not about control. -What do you believe? 1036 00:39:39,194 --> 00:39:40,693 Well, I felt like the reason lisa told me was, like, 1037 00:39:40,729 --> 00:39:43,146 "jen, why are you friends with whitney? 1038 00:39:43,198 --> 00:39:46,649 She's not your friend. She's talking to this person, 1039 00:39:46,701 --> 00:39:49,102 and he's an ambassador." -I was asking you why you-- 1040 00:39:49,121 --> 00:39:50,703 I was asking you, like, the difference, 1041 00:39:50,739 --> 00:39:52,572 like why are you, like, so upset with me for bringing it up? 1042 00:39:52,607 --> 00:39:53,990 You said, "I think people need to defend you..." 1043 00:39:54,042 --> 00:39:55,208 do you think the motive was to stir the pot, jen? 1044 00:39:55,243 --> 00:39:57,243 ..."and you're not being defended," and jen told me that 1045 00:39:57,278 --> 00:39:58,411 she texted you before and said, "don't mention his name, 1046 00:39:58,446 --> 00:39:59,546 no matter what." -no. No. 1047 00:39:59,581 --> 00:40:01,614 -We talked the day before. -Which is what you always do 1048 00:40:01,633 --> 00:40:03,500 before anyone films with you. You make sure everyone knows 1049 00:40:03,552 --> 00:40:04,667 what they're supposed to say or not say. 1050 00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:06,669 You keep, like, saying what you thought in the moment. 1051 00:40:06,721 --> 00:40:08,121 I wonder what you think now. 1052 00:40:08,156 --> 00:40:12,192 Um, what I think now after I saw the vail episodes? 1053 00:40:12,227 --> 00:40:13,927 I was extremely hurt, 1054 00:40:13,962 --> 00:40:16,563 and now I know why lisa didn't answer the phone. 1055 00:40:16,598 --> 00:40:17,764 Do you think that her intention was to create beef between us? 1056 00:40:17,799 --> 00:40:19,432 -Why? What do you mean? -Absolutely. 1057 00:40:19,467 --> 00:40:21,801 What do you mean? Jen, what do you mean, now that 1058 00:40:21,820 --> 00:40:24,237 you've seen the episodes you get why she didn't call you? 1059 00:40:24,272 --> 00:40:26,272 Because you see what she was saying behind your back 1060 00:40:26,307 --> 00:40:27,607 after you were arrested? 1061 00:40:27,642 --> 00:40:29,075 I didn't think that lisa would ever do that. 1062 00:40:29,111 --> 00:40:32,145 I-I defended lisa adamantly about... 1063 00:40:32,180 --> 00:40:33,446 -Lisa would ever do what? -To talk to her. 1064 00:40:33,481 --> 00:40:35,248 Say exactums. I wanna hear exactly. 1065 00:40:35,283 --> 00:40:37,884 -Well, there's a whole part of-- -well, lisa would be two-faced, 1066 00:40:37,919 --> 00:40:39,285 and, like... -That isn't two-faced. 1067 00:40:39,321 --> 00:40:41,204 -That is two-faced. -I was going through a lot. 1068 00:40:41,256 --> 00:40:43,923 -I didn't mean to be. -So jack and henry did 1069 00:40:43,959 --> 00:40:45,324 the guest list for your event. -Yes, they did. 1070 00:40:45,343 --> 00:40:49,462 Right? I wanna know why they would invite whitney 1071 00:40:49,497 --> 00:40:51,548 but not invite jen. 1072 00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:52,715 They didn't invite whitney. I did. 1073 00:40:52,767 --> 00:40:54,000 -Okay. -I added whitney on. 1074 00:40:54,019 --> 00:40:55,101 -You did. -Last minute. 1075 00:40:55,137 --> 00:40:57,637 I called whitney and said-- I was thinking, like, 1076 00:40:57,672 --> 00:41:00,006 I'm extending an olive branch, and then she can see me 1077 00:41:00,025 --> 00:41:03,810 being a mother and who I really am and who I'm raising, 1078 00:41:03,845 --> 00:41:07,013 because that's my character. That's who I am. 1079 00:41:07,032 --> 00:41:08,181 -And so-- -I'm raising two amazing kids, 1080 00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:09,883 and I'm a great mother. -Lisa, lisa, your character-- 1081 00:41:09,918 --> 00:41:12,318 -why not invite jen? -Um, I don't want you 1082 00:41:12,353 --> 00:41:14,454 to talk about my character. -Why not invite jen? 1083 00:41:14,489 --> 00:41:15,855 -I'm going to. -At the kids-- 1084 00:41:15,874 --> 00:41:18,074 at the photo shoot, I had a lot of emotions, right? 1085 00:41:18,126 --> 00:41:21,661 Because jen and I got really hot. 1086 00:41:21,696 --> 00:41:24,080 -Yeah. -And--and I was sitting there, 1087 00:41:24,132 --> 00:41:26,082 and I'm like, I messed up. I mentioned somebody's name, 1088 00:41:26,134 --> 00:41:28,367 and I felt horrible for it. 1089 00:41:28,386 --> 00:41:30,803 And then when we left, jen called me, 1090 00:41:30,839 --> 00:41:32,705 and we got into it all over again, 1091 00:41:32,724 --> 00:41:34,424 and I actually thought that was gonna be the last time 1092 00:41:34,476 --> 00:41:36,209 I talked to jen shah. 1093 00:41:36,228 --> 00:41:37,760 -Wow. -And henry heard it, 1094 00:41:37,812 --> 00:41:39,646 and he was crying, and he was like, 1095 00:41:39,681 --> 00:41:41,648 "mommy, you're a great mommy. You're a great person" 1096 00:41:41,683 --> 00:41:43,382 and hugging me... 1097 00:41:43,401 --> 00:41:45,785 [voice breaking] because I was very upset. 1098 00:41:45,820 --> 00:41:47,103 -And I love jen shah. -At 2 a.M. In the morning, 1099 00:41:47,155 --> 00:41:48,321 in the car, he was hugging you? 1100 00:41:48,356 --> 00:41:50,056 As controversial as that is, I do, and I was very upset. 1101 00:41:50,075 --> 00:41:51,391 You don't have to add, 1102 00:41:51,426 --> 00:41:52,792 "as controversial as that is to love jen shah." 1103 00:41:52,827 --> 00:41:53,943 it is controversial. Get out of it. 1104 00:41:53,995 --> 00:41:55,695 Oh, it is? It's controversial for me to love you, too. 1105 00:41:55,730 --> 00:41:56,696 -Okay, I know-- -leave that sh-- out. 1106 00:41:56,731 --> 00:41:58,831 Either love me or don't love me, but I'm tired 1107 00:41:58,867 --> 00:42:01,668 of all the disclaimers when it comes to jen shah. 1108 00:42:01,703 --> 00:42:03,002 It's bullsh--. 1109 00:42:03,038 --> 00:42:07,507 ♪♪♪ 1110 00:42:07,542 --> 00:42:10,126 next week, the reunion continues. 1111 00:42:10,178 --> 00:42:11,144 ♪♪♪ 1112 00:42:11,179 --> 00:42:14,964 who here has received mean texts from mary? 1113 00:42:15,016 --> 00:42:17,050 -Everyone except you. -Yeah. I didn't get the text. 1114 00:42:17,085 --> 00:42:18,851 Right, she probably blocked your number. 1115 00:42:18,887 --> 00:42:20,853 She just said it to you in person. 1116 00:42:20,889 --> 00:42:23,640 Cameron was on a path for spiritual healing. 1117 00:42:23,692 --> 00:42:26,142 He told me that he had a relationship with her. 1118 00:42:26,194 --> 00:42:28,595 He did mortgage his house to give her money. 1119 00:42:28,630 --> 00:42:30,647 Lisa, you flat-out told me off camera 1120 00:42:30,699 --> 00:42:32,448 that he did not loan her $300,000. 1121 00:42:32,484 --> 00:42:34,400 -It was actually more than that. -I thought it was suspicious. 1122 00:42:34,435 --> 00:42:36,819 -He barely said anything. -Let me talk, please. 1123 00:42:36,871 --> 00:42:38,538 After my father had passed, 1124 00:42:38,573 --> 00:42:43,493 those were the things you had to say about me after that.