1 00:00:00,217 --> 00:00:02,350 Tonight, part two of 2 00:00:02,350 --> 00:00:04,874 "The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City" Reunion. 3 00:00:04,874 --> 00:00:07,094 I don't think I'd be married to Meredith anymore 4 00:00:07,094 --> 00:00:08,399 if we didn't engage in taint play. 5 00:00:08,399 --> 00:00:11,446 - All right, enough. Enough. - Okay. 6 00:00:11,446 --> 00:00:13,796 You really were gonna keep running with that. 7 00:00:13,796 --> 00:00:18,627 The hard part I have is watching you make fun of Lisa. 8 00:00:18,627 --> 00:00:21,195 I've never said anything derogatory about Meredith. 9 00:00:22,500 --> 00:00:25,503 I could not process what was going on at that time 10 00:00:25,503 --> 00:00:27,462 due to other things that were going on in my life... 11 00:00:27,462 --> 00:00:28,724 - But you were saying it long-- - ...that I had no support 12 00:00:28,724 --> 00:00:30,682 from my friends on, and you know what? 13 00:00:30,682 --> 00:00:31,988 Well, I was supporting you. So I'll exclude myself from that. 14 00:00:31,988 --> 00:00:34,295 No, you were not. 15 00:00:34,295 --> 00:00:38,299 How long can I keep myself open to repairing something 16 00:00:38,299 --> 00:00:39,909 that you don't wanna repair? 17 00:00:39,909 --> 00:00:44,870 She pled guilty. That doesn't make you have any reaction? 18 00:00:44,870 --> 00:00:48,483 After she's sentenced, I'm sure I will have more of an opinion. 19 00:00:48,483 --> 00:00:51,268 Are you scared of her coming after you 20 00:00:51,268 --> 00:00:53,488 by saying something about it? 21 00:00:55,533 --> 00:01:00,843 There was speculation that she pled guilty to keep Coach 22 00:01:00,843 --> 00:01:02,627 from being implicated. 23 00:01:02,627 --> 00:01:05,282 If that was true, it makes sense. 24 00:01:05,282 --> 00:01:06,936 So does that mean you think he possibly had knowledge 25 00:01:06,936 --> 00:01:08,851 and is letting her take the fall? 26 00:01:10,679 --> 00:01:13,203 Part two of "The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City" Reunion 27 00:01:13,203 --> 00:01:15,205 starts now. 28 00:01:15,205 --> 00:01:16,685 We are back with 29 00:01:16,685 --> 00:01:18,861 "The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City" Reunion. 30 00:01:18,861 --> 00:01:20,602 I'm Andy Cohen. 31 00:01:20,602 --> 00:01:21,907 Angie K., at the finale, 32 00:01:21,907 --> 00:01:23,213 you said she may have received the black eye 33 00:01:23,213 --> 00:01:25,998 during Barbie scissor kicks and suggested that 34 00:01:25,998 --> 00:01:30,133 it may be the result of some sort of sexcapade gone wrong. 35 00:01:30,133 --> 00:01:32,309 Everybody is saying that perhaps her and Heather 36 00:01:32,309 --> 00:01:34,746 were in their room doing Barbie scissor kicks 37 00:01:34,746 --> 00:01:36,792 and then Jen beat the sh-- out of her. 38 00:01:36,792 --> 00:01:39,360 What led you to believe that? 39 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,363 Well, I was talking to some people, and they said, 40 00:01:42,363 --> 00:01:44,756 "Have you ever heard of any sexual relations 41 00:01:44,756 --> 00:01:46,367 between Heather and Jen?" 42 00:01:46,367 --> 00:01:49,283 And I have never heard that before, 43 00:01:49,283 --> 00:01:52,503 so I assumed, okay, this is obviously... 44 00:01:52,503 --> 00:01:53,461 You've been friends with her for 20 years. 45 00:01:53,461 --> 00:01:55,419 You thought we'd had a sex act? 46 00:01:55,419 --> 00:01:56,899 Girl, there's a lot of things I didn't know about Jen. 47 00:01:56,899 --> 00:02:00,207 I know--I don't know things about your sexual life. 48 00:02:00,207 --> 00:02:02,209 Well, to add insult to injury, 49 00:02:02,209 --> 00:02:04,515 now I had--it's a sexcapade 50 00:02:04,515 --> 00:02:06,474 with Jen that I'm covering up for my blackout, 51 00:02:06,474 --> 00:02:08,563 so just is getting better. 52 00:02:08,563 --> 00:02:11,348 No, but you have to ima-- you have to understand 53 00:02:11,348 --> 00:02:14,221 what people were thinking watching you on top of Jen. 54 00:02:14,221 --> 00:02:15,570 You know where it was? 55 00:02:15,570 --> 00:02:17,398 And what? 56 00:02:17,398 --> 00:02:19,182 - You looked like you maybe... - It wasn't a sex injury. 57 00:02:19,182 --> 00:02:20,879 I mean, I understand why she would ask that. 58 00:02:20,879 --> 00:02:22,403 And if it was, I don't remember, 59 00:02:22,403 --> 00:02:24,535 and I've never been attracted to Jen like that. 60 00:02:24,535 --> 00:02:26,972 Let me ask you this. As a woman who wakes up 61 00:02:26,972 --> 00:02:30,454 with a black eye and scratches, 62 00:02:30,454 --> 00:02:34,719 I mean, didn't you want to find the person who did it? 63 00:02:34,719 --> 00:02:36,852 I kind of felt like 64 00:02:36,852 --> 00:02:39,071 because I had been drinking, whatever happened to me, 65 00:02:39,071 --> 00:02:42,249 I deserved it, and I just felt embarrassed and ashamed. 66 00:02:42,249 --> 00:02:44,381 Oh, that's terrible. 67 00:02:45,774 --> 00:02:48,037 Well, Heather, I'm glad you're safe, at least, 68 00:02:48,037 --> 00:02:50,866 despite all of the confusion, 69 00:02:50,866 --> 00:02:54,913 and I hope you give yourself a break because 70 00:02:54,913 --> 00:02:58,439 it's certainly not worth the shame spiral that 71 00:02:58,439 --> 00:03:00,528 you're putting yourself through. 72 00:03:00,528 --> 00:03:03,618 All right, Angie H., Angie K., and Danna, 73 00:03:03,618 --> 00:03:05,924 thanks so much for joining us. - Thank you. 74 00:03:05,924 --> 00:03:07,274 We're gonna let you go, 75 00:03:07,274 --> 00:03:09,319 and we'll be right back after this. 76 00:03:10,973 --> 00:03:13,976 - Love you. - I love you, and I'm so sorry. 77 00:03:13,976 --> 00:03:16,500 Don't be ashamed. 78 00:03:18,285 --> 00:03:20,243 Oh, can we do that really quick? 79 00:03:20,243 --> 00:03:22,463 - Can we get a photo? - Yes, let's do it. 80 00:03:22,463 --> 00:03:23,942 It's like, they were all right, you know? 81 00:03:23,942 --> 00:03:26,858 You go to the dark side, and look what happens. 82 00:03:26,858 --> 00:03:28,338 You fall off the--you know, 83 00:03:28,338 --> 00:03:30,862 you become this debaucherous fool, 84 00:03:30,862 --> 00:03:32,124 and I'm so embarrassed. 85 00:03:32,124 --> 00:03:34,518 I don't wanna block-- I'm blocking Danna. 86 00:03:36,825 --> 00:03:38,914 All right, here we go, guys. 87 00:03:38,914 --> 00:03:42,004 Five, four, three, two... 88 00:03:42,004 --> 00:03:47,009 Back with "The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City" Reunion. 89 00:03:47,009 --> 00:03:49,925 Throughout this season, Whitney took us on her healing journey, 90 00:03:49,925 --> 00:03:53,320 as she worked toward moving past her childhood pain. 91 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:54,799 This must have been 92 00:03:54,799 --> 00:03:56,236 an incredibly difficult time for you. 93 00:03:56,236 --> 00:03:59,891 How did you unlock these memories in the first place? 94 00:03:59,891 --> 00:04:01,066 There was something that would haunt me, 95 00:04:01,066 --> 00:04:03,678 and this last couple years, 96 00:04:03,678 --> 00:04:05,114 I started having physical manifestations, 97 00:04:05,114 --> 00:04:08,596 meaning like I was having all these health problems, 98 00:04:08,596 --> 00:04:10,989 and that's where I started doing memory recall work, 99 00:04:10,989 --> 00:04:13,731 'cause I kind of always knew that there was... 100 00:04:13,731 --> 00:04:15,037 Something else. 101 00:04:15,037 --> 00:04:17,692 Something else, and... 102 00:04:17,692 --> 00:04:19,868 it--it started coming back to me, 103 00:04:19,868 --> 00:04:23,567 and I never imagined that I'd be questioned about it, 104 00:04:23,567 --> 00:04:26,875 that I'd get hate for it, that that was-- 105 00:04:26,875 --> 00:04:29,530 Who's questioned you? The viewers? Your family? 106 00:04:29,530 --> 00:04:32,054 I felt like my cast members questioned me, 107 00:04:32,054 --> 00:04:33,838 and then viewers. 108 00:04:33,838 --> 00:04:36,406 Given where your relationship, uh, has gone this season, 109 00:04:36,406 --> 00:04:39,279 did you feel like you were able to support her 110 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:40,715 in the way that you would've 111 00:04:40,715 --> 00:04:42,847 had you two been in a better place? 112 00:04:42,847 --> 00:04:45,154 No, because we didn't ever discuss it 113 00:04:45,154 --> 00:04:46,590 if we weren't on camera. 114 00:04:46,590 --> 00:04:48,723 Well, after the dinner in Arizona, 115 00:04:48,723 --> 00:04:52,466 when she told me that my healing journey was childish, 116 00:04:52,466 --> 00:04:55,730 foolish, sloppy, and I made the trip about myself... 117 00:04:55,730 --> 00:04:57,558 You arranged this trip. You wanted to celebrate Jen, 118 00:04:57,558 --> 00:05:00,822 not to work through all of your personal issues 119 00:05:00,822 --> 00:05:02,563 and your issues and friendship with Lisa. 120 00:05:02,563 --> 00:05:04,304 You made it about you. 121 00:05:04,304 --> 00:05:05,783 This--I did not make this about me. 122 00:05:05,783 --> 00:05:07,568 The first night was about you, and you were crying, 123 00:05:07,568 --> 00:05:10,484 and we talked all about your childhood abuse. 124 00:05:10,484 --> 00:05:12,877 Why would I ever come back to you 125 00:05:12,877 --> 00:05:14,966 and try to have a conversation about that? 126 00:05:14,966 --> 00:05:17,491 I did not realize that that was what we were talking about, 127 00:05:17,491 --> 00:05:19,014 and I am horrified that you would think 128 00:05:19,014 --> 00:05:20,755 that I would ever dismiss your feelings like that. 129 00:05:20,755 --> 00:05:22,800 - That's where-- - That's not how I've ever been. 130 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:25,325 It's not how I ever would be, and that would have been 131 00:05:25,325 --> 00:05:27,805 a complete anomaly for how I feel about you. 132 00:05:27,805 --> 00:05:29,764 How does it feel hearing what she's saying now? 133 00:05:29,764 --> 00:05:33,942 Does that change anything for you? 134 00:05:33,942 --> 00:05:35,204 Not yet. 135 00:05:35,204 --> 00:05:37,641 - Not yet. - Mnh-mnh. 136 00:05:37,641 --> 00:05:39,643 Jay from Little Rock said, "Whitney, have you spoken 137 00:05:39,643 --> 00:05:43,168 to your abuser since these memories resurfaced?" 138 00:05:43,168 --> 00:05:44,082 - No. - You have not. 139 00:05:44,082 --> 00:05:45,606 Have not. 140 00:05:45,606 --> 00:05:47,912 I'm sorry you had to go through that. 141 00:05:47,912 --> 00:05:50,219 Thank you. 142 00:05:50,219 --> 00:05:54,919 They're cousins, ex-Mormons, and good time girls, 143 00:05:54,919 --> 00:05:57,531 but we experienced Bad Weather this season, 144 00:05:57,531 --> 00:05:59,794 as Heather and Whitney's relationship 145 00:05:59,794 --> 00:06:03,363 went from bright and sunny to dark and stormy. 146 00:06:03,363 --> 00:06:04,973 Let's watch. 147 00:06:04,973 --> 00:06:07,018 Distant cousins. The buzzin' cousins. 148 00:06:07,018 --> 00:06:09,499 Angie told us that John Barlow and Lisa... 149 00:06:09,499 --> 00:06:11,632 Babe, that was--we-- 150 00:06:11,632 --> 00:06:15,984 ...have those tickets because Lisa sleeps with [bleep]. 151 00:06:15,984 --> 00:06:17,638 - And you were there. - I did not hear it. 152 00:06:17,638 --> 00:06:20,597 - You were there. - It's a lie. 153 00:06:20,597 --> 00:06:22,773 At a very basic level, 154 00:06:22,773 --> 00:06:26,168 if Heather can't validate my feelings and hear me, 155 00:06:26,168 --> 00:06:29,998 then I probably have to take a friendship break. 156 00:06:29,998 --> 00:06:33,480 You know what? For me, loyalty's a----ing deal-breaker. 157 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:35,786 Deal broken. 158 00:06:35,786 --> 00:06:40,835 I feel very sad that Bad Weather 159 00:06:40,835 --> 00:06:43,751 has been, like, a dark rain cloud over your head. 160 00:06:43,751 --> 00:06:45,056 Be free, young Whitney. 161 00:06:45,056 --> 00:06:46,667 I will not hold you back any longer... 162 00:06:46,667 --> 00:06:49,757 - That's--that's not what-- - ...and live your best life. 163 00:06:49,757 --> 00:06:53,021 I want Bad Weather back. I think that we're stronger together. 164 00:06:53,021 --> 00:06:54,544 I think that's taking me for granted 165 00:06:54,544 --> 00:06:57,504 to assume that it would come back like it was. 166 00:07:00,768 --> 00:07:03,901 Okay, so I don't think anyone saw this one coming. 167 00:07:03,901 --> 00:07:05,990 Where do the two of you stand now? 168 00:07:05,990 --> 00:07:07,644 I mean, it's not good. 169 00:07:07,644 --> 00:07:10,691 Buzz from L.A. said, "Whitney, after watching the episode back, 170 00:07:10,691 --> 00:07:13,607 do you stand by calling Heather a liar? 171 00:07:13,607 --> 00:07:15,565 If you told the story again sober, 172 00:07:15,565 --> 00:07:17,393 do you think you'd have the same outcome? 173 00:07:17,393 --> 00:07:19,700 It would be the same conversation-- 174 00:07:19,700 --> 00:07:21,615 why are you lying about this? 175 00:07:21,615 --> 00:07:23,268 I didn't hear you say that, Whitney. 176 00:07:23,268 --> 00:07:24,922 I've come to--I've come to the terms that she doesn't remember. 177 00:07:24,922 --> 00:07:26,446 I never heard you say those rumors about Lisa. 178 00:07:26,446 --> 00:07:27,490 I've accepted that. I-I don't agree, but I accept it. 179 00:07:27,490 --> 00:07:30,188 Angie said she never said it. 180 00:07:30,188 --> 00:07:31,276 You believe now that she never-- 181 00:07:31,276 --> 00:07:33,714 But being drunk, it makes it so messy 182 00:07:33,714 --> 00:07:35,716 because I get confused with my words, 183 00:07:35,716 --> 00:07:37,457 and when you're going up against someone 184 00:07:37,457 --> 00:07:40,547 who's like a master debater, it's hard. 185 00:07:40,547 --> 00:07:41,678 Who's a master debater? Heather? 186 00:07:41,678 --> 00:07:42,723 - Heather. - Me? 187 00:07:42,723 --> 00:07:43,724 - Yes. - Oh. Thank you. 188 00:07:43,724 --> 00:07:45,116 - Congratulations. - Thank you. 189 00:07:45,116 --> 00:07:47,118 Fola from Atlanta said, "Heather, if you choose 190 00:07:47,118 --> 00:07:48,729 to recuse something from your memory, 191 00:07:48,729 --> 00:07:51,296 that is your right. 192 00:07:51,296 --> 00:07:52,863 Is that your way of saying that 193 00:07:52,863 --> 00:07:54,996 you did hear the rumors about Lisa?" 194 00:07:54,996 --> 00:07:57,825 No, I did not hear the rumor that became the big flame, 195 00:07:57,825 --> 00:08:00,088 but I did hear rumors about Lisa 196 00:08:00,088 --> 00:08:02,612 in my bedroom when we arrived in Arizona. 197 00:08:02,612 --> 00:08:04,135 Meredith has talked to you about rumors about Lisa? 198 00:08:04,135 --> 00:08:05,920 Mm-hmm. 199 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:07,051 About what? 200 00:08:07,051 --> 00:08:10,751 Um, like, affairs. 201 00:08:10,751 --> 00:08:13,928 But what Meredith has heard is that Lisa has performed 202 00:08:13,928 --> 00:08:15,582 sexual favors for the advancement of Vida. 203 00:08:15,582 --> 00:08:18,759 Vida Tequila? 204 00:08:18,759 --> 00:08:21,762 So that's why I was trying-- they were conflated. 205 00:08:21,762 --> 00:08:23,677 The details are gonna trip us up. 206 00:08:23,677 --> 00:08:24,591 I was just trying to answer. I was-- 207 00:08:24,591 --> 00:08:26,070 Why--Why that one rumor, though? 208 00:08:26,070 --> 00:08:28,203 - There's two separate issues. - Why that one thing? 209 00:08:28,203 --> 00:08:29,465 There's two separate issues. 210 00:08:29,465 --> 00:08:30,988 If you wanna say horrible things about people 211 00:08:30,988 --> 00:08:34,165 and I choose to not believe it and not ever repeat it, 212 00:08:34,165 --> 00:08:35,906 I don't want you to come and say, "I told you, 213 00:08:35,906 --> 00:08:37,952 therefore you're-- you're part of this." 214 00:08:37,952 --> 00:08:39,823 That's not fair. That's me recusing myself from it. 215 00:08:39,823 --> 00:08:41,477 Why would--why would her-- 216 00:08:41,477 --> 00:08:43,044 But I also didn't hear that rumor. 217 00:08:43,044 --> 00:08:46,308 Why would her calling you a liar evoke such a huge reaction? 218 00:08:46,308 --> 00:08:48,179 Because I wasn't lying. 219 00:08:48,179 --> 00:08:50,747 - I thought she was referencing. - Yeah, and-- 220 00:08:50,747 --> 00:08:51,966 - Let's just be real. - Well-- 221 00:08:51,966 --> 00:08:53,402 Nobody likes being called a liar. 222 00:08:53,402 --> 00:08:55,186 - She called me a liar, too. - I said, "That's a lie." 223 00:08:55,186 --> 00:08:56,971 She was equally calling me a liar. 224 00:08:56,971 --> 00:08:58,538 You called me a liar and a drunk. 225 00:08:58,538 --> 00:09:01,323 Meredith from Mead, Washington, said, "Heather, you say 226 00:09:01,323 --> 00:09:04,282 you're a loyal friend, because you kept forgiving 227 00:09:04,282 --> 00:09:06,763 and defending Jen, despite her constant lies 228 00:09:06,763 --> 00:09:09,113 and scamming innocent victims. 229 00:09:09,113 --> 00:09:11,594 Didn't Whitney deserve at least the same patience 230 00:09:11,594 --> 00:09:14,641 and grace you gave Jen for far worse?" 231 00:09:14,641 --> 00:09:16,120 That's an interesting point. 232 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:18,340 Do you think she holds you to a different standard 233 00:09:18,340 --> 00:09:19,950 that she holds Jen? 234 00:09:19,950 --> 00:09:21,430 - Definitely. - Absolutely. 235 00:09:21,430 --> 00:09:23,519 I hold her to an absolutely different standard. 236 00:09:23,519 --> 00:09:24,607 You hold her to a higher standard. 237 00:09:24,607 --> 00:09:26,827 - Much higher. - But your actions 238 00:09:26,827 --> 00:09:29,177 don't convey that. Like, Jen can do anything to you, 239 00:09:29,177 --> 00:09:30,613 and you'll go running right back. 240 00:09:30,613 --> 00:09:32,702 Yeah, because I hold her to a lower standard. 241 00:09:32,702 --> 00:09:34,356 I-I called you a liar over a rumor. 242 00:09:34,356 --> 00:09:36,097 And I was upset by it because I hold you to a higher standard. 243 00:09:36,097 --> 00:09:38,490 And--but that's, like, that's the only thing I've ever done. 244 00:09:38,490 --> 00:09:42,582 Do you think that her newfound friendship with Lisa 245 00:09:42,582 --> 00:09:44,584 clouded your judgment of Whitney? 246 00:09:44,584 --> 00:09:50,067 Yes, 100%. It felt like such a quick pivot, such a 180, 247 00:09:50,067 --> 00:09:53,767 that it made me question everything. 248 00:09:53,767 --> 00:09:55,290 My question is, though, is, like, Heather, you and I 249 00:09:55,290 --> 00:09:57,161 were working on our friendship, so I would think that 250 00:09:57,161 --> 00:09:59,033 you would want me and Whitney to be friends, too. 251 00:09:59,033 --> 00:10:00,774 - Like, I would think that-- - I-I would. 252 00:10:00,774 --> 00:10:02,123 - Yeah, I thought we were-- - I was--I thought we were 253 00:10:02,123 --> 00:10:03,385 all working toward it. That's why when she said, 254 00:10:03,385 --> 00:10:04,865 "Should I discuss these rumors with Lisa?" 255 00:10:04,865 --> 00:10:07,084 I said, "Absolutely not right now. 256 00:10:07,084 --> 00:10:09,043 Do it in a constructive, positive way," 257 00:10:09,043 --> 00:10:11,785 and I think it really was a giant step backward 258 00:10:11,785 --> 00:10:13,700 for your friendship and for our friendship 259 00:10:13,700 --> 00:10:15,223 and for our friendship. 260 00:10:15,223 --> 00:10:16,877 - But it wasn't a step where-- - Yeah, but you can't put 261 00:10:16,877 --> 00:10:18,008 all that blame on me. - It wasn't--It wasn't a step 262 00:10:18,008 --> 00:10:19,401 backward for me and Meredith because-- 263 00:10:19,401 --> 00:10:20,794 No, I just--When that happened-- 264 00:10:20,794 --> 00:10:21,882 She's just--she's just saying that's how she felt. 265 00:10:21,882 --> 00:10:23,361 And you two are still tight. 266 00:10:23,361 --> 00:10:25,320 - Yeah, I love Whitney. - Yeah, very close. 267 00:10:25,320 --> 00:10:28,236 E.J. from Atlanta said, "Heather, you seemed shocked 268 00:10:28,236 --> 00:10:30,455 to find out you and Whitney were on a friendship break. 269 00:10:30,455 --> 00:10:32,719 Whitney, why did you talk with everyone but Heather 270 00:10:32,719 --> 00:10:34,242 about the break?" 271 00:10:34,242 --> 00:10:35,896 I literally made that decision in that conversation 272 00:10:35,896 --> 00:10:38,899 in the hot tub right before San Diego. 273 00:10:38,899 --> 00:10:41,249 What Jen was doing was deflecting from the fact 274 00:10:41,249 --> 00:10:44,078 that she had said a lot about Heather in the hot tub, 275 00:10:44,078 --> 00:10:45,819 because I have received so many texts, 276 00:10:45,819 --> 00:10:47,168 "I----ing hate Heather," and I'm like, 277 00:10:47,168 --> 00:10:48,648 "If you----ing hate Heather..." - Yeah. 278 00:10:48,648 --> 00:10:49,997 ...you need to talk to her about it. 279 00:10:49,997 --> 00:10:51,172 - By the way... - But-- 280 00:10:51,172 --> 00:10:52,564 ...you bring up a really good point, 281 00:10:52,564 --> 00:10:54,566 because the flashbacks that they showed 282 00:10:54,566 --> 00:10:56,046 of you ladies in the hot tub, 283 00:10:56,046 --> 00:10:58,701 I mean, Jen was slagging you off. 284 00:10:58,701 --> 00:11:00,703 I felt better when I walked in, 285 00:11:00,703 --> 00:11:02,705 and Heather was, like, not in charge, 286 00:11:02,705 --> 00:11:03,750 'cause I was like, if Heather's in charge, 287 00:11:03,750 --> 00:11:04,968 this is not a real thing. 288 00:11:04,968 --> 00:11:06,448 Heather has always made me feel like, 289 00:11:06,448 --> 00:11:08,842 "Jen, you need as many friends as you can get, 290 00:11:08,842 --> 00:11:10,670 so just roll with it." 291 00:11:10,670 --> 00:11:12,672 Heather is my friend 60% of the time. 292 00:11:12,672 --> 00:11:15,631 The point I'm at in my life with everything I'm going through, 293 00:11:15,631 --> 00:11:17,415 I don't need friends like that. 294 00:11:17,415 --> 00:11:18,590 Were you upset by anything that you saw? 295 00:11:18,590 --> 00:11:19,940 - I have--I have-- - No, Heather-- 296 00:11:19,940 --> 00:11:21,637 You wanna see "I----ing hate Heather"? I got it. 297 00:11:21,637 --> 00:11:23,639 Were you upset by anything that you saw Jen saying about you? 298 00:11:23,639 --> 00:11:24,988 - Absolutely. - You were. 299 00:11:24,988 --> 00:11:26,686 I was completely upset, and I--when I saw that-- 300 00:11:26,686 --> 00:11:28,339 - Did you confront her about it? - Yeah, when I saw that play out, 301 00:11:28,339 --> 00:11:32,430 I texted her and said, "When did you get so good at math? 60%?" 302 00:11:32,430 --> 00:11:34,128 But Whitney was talking bad about me, too. 303 00:11:34,128 --> 00:11:35,912 - Unh-unh, no, I was not. - No, she was not. She did not. 304 00:11:35,912 --> 00:11:38,045 Uh, let me--let me--can I speak? This is my question. 305 00:11:38,045 --> 00:11:39,437 I just--everyone was talking bad about me. 306 00:11:39,437 --> 00:11:41,483 - I'm upset with everyone. - No, they weren't. 307 00:11:41,483 --> 00:11:42,745 You're blanket statement-ing it, Heather. It's not true. 308 00:11:42,745 --> 00:11:45,226 Heather, Heather, I did not talk badly about you. 309 00:11:45,226 --> 00:11:46,749 I said, I need to put up some boundaries 310 00:11:46,749 --> 00:11:49,578 because I feel like I keep working on the relationship, 311 00:11:49,578 --> 00:11:53,147 and you keep shutting me down, and you're not receptive to it. 312 00:11:53,147 --> 00:11:56,803 How long can I keep myself open to repairing something 313 00:11:56,803 --> 00:11:58,369 that you don't wanna repair? 314 00:12:01,372 --> 00:12:02,417 Up next... 315 00:12:02,417 --> 00:12:03,984 - She pled guilty. - Right. 316 00:12:03,984 --> 00:12:06,508 That doesn't make you have any reaction? 317 00:12:06,508 --> 00:12:07,814 I'm sure I will have more of a opinion on it. 318 00:12:07,814 --> 00:12:10,207 Are you scared of her? 319 00:12:22,045 --> 00:12:25,440 How long can I keep myself open to repairing something 320 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:28,704 that you don't wanna repair? 321 00:12:28,704 --> 00:12:31,011 And it very much was a break. We weren't talking every day. 322 00:12:31,011 --> 00:12:33,970 We weren't doing things together, and I swear to God, 323 00:12:33,970 --> 00:12:36,016 I never said anything bad about you in that hot tub. 324 00:12:36,016 --> 00:12:37,626 - She did not. - Jen absolutely did. 325 00:12:37,626 --> 00:12:40,629 Did you see a flashback of her talking bad about you 326 00:12:40,629 --> 00:12:42,370 in the hot tub, or did you hear it from Jen? 327 00:12:42,370 --> 00:12:43,937 I can't remember anything specifically. 328 00:12:43,937 --> 00:12:46,461 Just--Just the thought of, you know, 329 00:12:46,461 --> 00:12:50,726 your go-to engaging in any part of that conversation 330 00:12:50,726 --> 00:12:52,075 just felt-- it felt like a betrayal. 331 00:12:52,075 --> 00:12:53,685 Did it feel like a betrayal when you saw 332 00:12:53,685 --> 00:12:55,035 how Jen was speaking? 333 00:12:55,035 --> 00:12:56,819 Yes, absolutely. It felt like a betrayal. 334 00:12:56,819 --> 00:12:58,647 But you texted her and not me. 335 00:12:58,647 --> 00:13:00,649 We already knew where we were because of BravoCon. 336 00:13:00,649 --> 00:13:03,260 Who reaches the most on camera? Whitney Rose. 337 00:13:03,260 --> 00:13:05,610 How? 338 00:13:05,610 --> 00:13:08,265 You decided that you just were gonna dump me as a friend, 339 00:13:08,265 --> 00:13:13,575 not tell me, and that to me, feels like a reach. 340 00:13:13,575 --> 00:13:15,925 I--No. No, no, no, no, no. 341 00:13:15,925 --> 00:13:17,797 And because of the things 342 00:13:17,797 --> 00:13:19,494 that you said on your podcast about me. 343 00:13:19,494 --> 00:13:21,670 Honestly, when it comes to Heather, I... 344 00:13:21,670 --> 00:13:23,977 I'm no longer gonna hold back. 345 00:13:23,977 --> 00:13:25,543 She needs to go look in the mirror and tell herself 346 00:13:25,543 --> 00:13:29,112 her own lies until she realizes she's lying to herself. 347 00:13:29,112 --> 00:13:31,419 - Mm-hmm. - And that's what happens 348 00:13:31,419 --> 00:13:32,768 when people don't live in their own truth. 349 00:13:32,768 --> 00:13:34,422 They don't know what the truth is, 350 00:13:34,422 --> 00:13:37,686 so they hide behind a disguise of manipulation and gaslighting. 351 00:13:37,686 --> 00:13:39,862 - So I knew how we felt. - That was after BravoCon. 352 00:13:39,862 --> 00:13:43,474 You were the one at BravoCon that flipflopped on me. 353 00:13:43,474 --> 00:13:45,302 - Okay. - But--But I want you to know 354 00:13:45,302 --> 00:13:46,913 something about Jen. I did not say anything bad-- 355 00:13:46,913 --> 00:13:48,305 I don't wanna litigate Jen. She's not here. 356 00:13:48,305 --> 00:13:49,698 Yeah, but you should know something. 357 00:13:49,698 --> 00:13:51,482 - And I shouldn't-- - She was so nasty that day. 358 00:13:51,482 --> 00:13:53,093 Yes, she would say, "[bleep] Heather. 359 00:13:53,093 --> 00:13:54,398 My lawyers----ing hate Heather. Sharrieff hates Heather," 360 00:13:54,398 --> 00:13:56,096 and we shut it down. You know what? 361 00:13:56,096 --> 00:13:57,749 Okay, so Jen's a horrible person. 362 00:13:57,749 --> 00:13:59,142 What do you guys want me to do? 363 00:13:59,142 --> 00:14:01,449 We're not saying that. I'm telling you. 364 00:14:01,449 --> 00:14:03,364 - What am I in trouble for? - In this situation, Whitney-- 365 00:14:03,364 --> 00:14:06,933 you were throwing Whitney under the bus for Jen. 366 00:14:06,933 --> 00:14:08,543 You even said it at the Marilyn Monroe dinner 367 00:14:08,543 --> 00:14:10,458 that you're ride-or-die Jen to Whitney, who was asking you 368 00:14:10,458 --> 00:14:12,112 to hear her, hear her feelings and telling her-- 369 00:14:12,112 --> 00:14:13,330 I'm not using that term "ride-or-die" anymore. 370 00:14:13,330 --> 00:14:16,377 I've seen a lot. I'm processing a lot. 371 00:14:16,377 --> 00:14:17,900 - Okay. - I saw a lot of information, 372 00:14:17,900 --> 00:14:20,294 and I'm saying to both of you 373 00:14:20,294 --> 00:14:22,992 I appreciate your deep concern for my loyalty to Jen. 374 00:14:22,992 --> 00:14:24,341 I don't think it's really an issue anymore. 375 00:14:24,341 --> 00:14:25,560 - It's not. That's--Okay. - I don't--I don't-- 376 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:27,083 This is where we're wordsmithing. 377 00:14:27,083 --> 00:14:28,345 - That's not an issue. - No, wait, wait. 378 00:14:28,345 --> 00:14:29,999 This is where we're wordsmithing. 379 00:14:29,999 --> 00:14:31,348 It's not about your loyalty to Jen. It's about her feelings. 380 00:14:31,348 --> 00:14:33,524 No, it's not--No, it's about-- it's about-- 381 00:14:33,524 --> 00:14:36,658 Is it about her loyalty to Jen versus her loyalty to you? 382 00:14:36,658 --> 00:14:38,529 Yeah. I have zero loyalty to me. 383 00:14:38,529 --> 00:14:40,270 Okay, I feel like I've tried to be a loyal friend to you. 384 00:14:40,270 --> 00:14:43,795 Shawn M.J. from Cincinnati raised a sentiment 385 00:14:43,795 --> 00:14:46,668 that we got a lot, which is, um, "Is there something going on 386 00:14:46,668 --> 00:14:48,713 in your life off camera 387 00:14:48,713 --> 00:14:50,367 that's making you act differently this year? 388 00:14:50,367 --> 00:14:52,369 The way you handled a lot of conflicts, 389 00:14:52,369 --> 00:14:55,198 especially with Whitney, seemed out of character 390 00:14:55,198 --> 00:14:58,375 from the way that we've seen you in the past." 391 00:14:58,375 --> 00:14:59,986 What would you put your finger on there? 392 00:14:59,986 --> 00:15:02,162 We were dealing with a lot of really, heavy, heavy topics, 393 00:15:02,162 --> 00:15:03,946 which is uncomfortable for me. 394 00:15:03,946 --> 00:15:05,252 Topics--her dealing with her past abuse? 395 00:15:05,252 --> 00:15:08,211 And we're talking about childhood trauma, 396 00:15:08,211 --> 00:15:10,953 felony charges, prison... - Okay. 397 00:15:10,953 --> 00:15:14,348 ...adultery, and I, writing the book, 398 00:15:14,348 --> 00:15:17,003 made me especially vulnerable. 399 00:15:17,003 --> 00:15:19,570 I had to revisit my entire childhood. 400 00:15:19,570 --> 00:15:22,704 A lot of really cathartic things in the book that made 401 00:15:22,704 --> 00:15:26,229 my emotions come to the surface and made me less stable 402 00:15:26,229 --> 00:15:30,059 and less amenable to being a good person. 403 00:15:30,059 --> 00:15:35,151 I guess for me, you seemed like, to me, 404 00:15:35,151 --> 00:15:37,414 for the first couple seasons, 405 00:15:37,414 --> 00:15:40,548 like kind of the epitome of the kind of "own it" girl, 406 00:15:40,548 --> 00:15:43,420 and this season it seemed really confusing. 407 00:15:43,420 --> 00:15:44,334 - Yeah. - I was having a hard time 408 00:15:44,334 --> 00:15:46,510 following your train of thought. 409 00:15:46,510 --> 00:15:48,599 Watching it back, I have a hard time 410 00:15:48,599 --> 00:15:51,776 following my train of thought, but I think there were victories 411 00:15:51,776 --> 00:15:55,476 like I realized that I'd been insensitive to Lisa on ski day, 412 00:15:55,476 --> 00:15:56,999 and I went straight over to you 413 00:15:56,999 --> 00:15:58,566 and was accountable and apologized. 414 00:15:58,566 --> 00:16:01,264 I'm trying to find moments of accountability and clarity 415 00:16:01,264 --> 00:16:03,223 and steps forward. 416 00:16:03,223 --> 00:16:07,053 I think for all of us, we all have moments of weakness. 417 00:16:07,053 --> 00:16:08,837 We all have other things going on in our lives. 418 00:16:08,837 --> 00:16:11,057 I think every one of us will say we see things play back, 419 00:16:11,057 --> 00:16:15,452 and we recognize, "Wow, I should have done something different." 420 00:16:15,452 --> 00:16:18,760 What are you most nervous about, about the book? 421 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,589 Because you seem to be under pressure relating to it. 422 00:16:21,589 --> 00:16:24,331 It's my family, but coming on the show, 423 00:16:24,331 --> 00:16:26,463 um, was big enough for my family, but, um-- 424 00:16:26,463 --> 00:16:27,551 Yeah, you ripped that Band-Aid off. 425 00:16:27,551 --> 00:16:29,205 Yeah. I mean, that was... 426 00:16:29,205 --> 00:16:31,512 - Yeah. - Uh, I've just been schooled 427 00:16:31,512 --> 00:16:34,036 to never talk about these things and that if I did 428 00:16:34,036 --> 00:16:36,908 talk about these things, I would be condemned. 429 00:16:36,908 --> 00:16:38,606 I'm in litigation with the Church, 430 00:16:38,606 --> 00:16:40,477 and if the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints 431 00:16:40,477 --> 00:16:42,436 is suing me, I can only imagine the reaction 432 00:16:42,436 --> 00:16:45,830 that my community and friends and family are gonna have 433 00:16:45,830 --> 00:16:47,832 when they actually read the book 434 00:16:47,832 --> 00:16:50,313 because I'm talking about the things that are unspoken. 435 00:16:50,313 --> 00:16:52,141 - So this is-- - And you know that's big. 436 00:16:52,141 --> 00:16:54,578 So--So you were working on this book 437 00:16:54,578 --> 00:16:57,451 during the entire season, so you had-- 438 00:16:57,451 --> 00:16:59,148 This is an important piece of your story. 439 00:16:59,148 --> 00:17:04,066 It is my story, and I should've been a lot better of a friend, 440 00:17:04,066 --> 00:17:05,633 and I know that it affected me personally. 441 00:17:05,633 --> 00:17:06,982 So the two of you, 442 00:17:06,982 --> 00:17:12,292 where do we see this friendship going from here? 443 00:17:12,292 --> 00:17:15,251 Everything leading up until today 444 00:17:15,251 --> 00:17:18,037 tells me that you want nothing to do with me. 445 00:17:18,037 --> 00:17:19,081 Do you? 446 00:17:19,081 --> 00:17:20,256 Like, you even said it yourself. 447 00:17:20,256 --> 00:17:21,736 - I don't know. -"Once people cross me--" 448 00:17:21,736 --> 00:17:23,042 - You don't know? You don't know. -"Once people cross me," 449 00:17:23,042 --> 00:17:25,392 she cuts 'em out forever. - I'm sitting here. 450 00:17:25,392 --> 00:17:28,003 I'm listening. I'm trying to receive it. 451 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:32,790 All right. Well, we're gonna leave it there, 452 00:17:32,790 --> 00:17:34,618 and we're gonna be right back. 453 00:17:40,189 --> 00:17:42,626 - It is already 2:40. - I know. 454 00:17:42,626 --> 00:17:43,932 All right. 455 00:17:43,932 --> 00:17:48,110 - Are we good to go? - Are we going to lunch? 456 00:18:06,781 --> 00:18:08,696 She's playing the victim card. 457 00:18:08,696 --> 00:18:10,219 She knows that she's-- She knows that she's... 458 00:18:10,219 --> 00:18:11,568 Heather's 100% being the victim. 459 00:18:11,568 --> 00:18:12,700 ...----ed up, she knows that she looks bad. 460 00:18:12,700 --> 00:18:13,918 She knows that she has flipflopped. 461 00:18:13,918 --> 00:18:15,442 She knows that she's talked sh-- about Jen. 462 00:18:15,442 --> 00:18:17,748 She knows that she doesn't wanna be my friend. 463 00:18:17,748 --> 00:18:19,576 So what she's doing is she's coming in 464 00:18:19,576 --> 00:18:22,231 with her tail between her legs and acting like... 465 00:18:22,231 --> 00:18:24,233 - She can't even-- - ...everything that we have done 466 00:18:24,233 --> 00:18:27,671 is to her so that no one can, like, argue it. 467 00:18:27,671 --> 00:18:30,457 This is hard because she's so subdued. 468 00:18:30,457 --> 00:18:32,154 I'm like, who is this person? 469 00:18:32,154 --> 00:18:33,634 I don't even know who this person is. 470 00:18:43,296 --> 00:18:44,993 They're coming back. 471 00:18:44,993 --> 00:18:47,126 All right, guys, two minutes or less. Two minutes or less. 472 00:18:47,126 --> 00:18:49,432 - You look good, babe. - Oh, are you on our couch? 473 00:18:49,432 --> 00:18:51,478 - Yeah. - In between us? 474 00:18:51,478 --> 00:18:53,480 - 90 more seconds. - I like that. 475 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:55,177 Can we get closer, Meredith, or is that... 476 00:18:55,177 --> 00:18:57,353 No. 477 00:18:59,050 --> 00:19:00,922 I know. 478 00:19:00,922 --> 00:19:02,793 I don't have a husband either. 479 00:19:02,793 --> 00:19:04,665 You're my husband. 480 00:19:04,665 --> 00:19:05,970 - ...Clear the set. - Oh, she did? 481 00:19:05,970 --> 00:19:09,191 Okay, I will keep this as painless as possible. 482 00:19:09,191 --> 00:19:10,888 - Okay, we're looking this way. - All right, in five... 483 00:19:10,888 --> 00:19:13,195 four... three... 484 00:19:13,195 --> 00:19:14,892 two... one. 485 00:19:14,892 --> 00:19:16,372 Welcome back to 486 00:19:16,372 --> 00:19:19,593 "The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City" Reunion. 487 00:19:19,593 --> 00:19:21,290 - Welcome, husbands. - Hi, Andy. 488 00:19:21,290 --> 00:19:23,510 - Thank you. - How you doing, John Barlow? 489 00:19:23,510 --> 00:19:25,816 - Great. Thanks for having me. - Thanks for coming. 490 00:19:25,816 --> 00:19:27,557 - How are you, sir? - I'm doing great. 491 00:19:27,557 --> 00:19:31,692 Looks like career shift has-- it's working well for you. 492 00:19:31,692 --> 00:19:33,084 Yeah, we've got the unemployment beard working right now. 493 00:19:33,084 --> 00:19:34,477 - Nice. - Yeah. 494 00:19:34,477 --> 00:19:36,175 - Hey, Seth. - Hey, Andy. 495 00:19:36,175 --> 00:19:39,526 Has Brett Favre reached out to you for a meetup? 496 00:19:39,526 --> 00:19:41,484 My perfect boyfriend is Brett Favre. 497 00:19:41,484 --> 00:19:43,791 Unfortunately, no. 498 00:19:43,791 --> 00:19:46,228 Now I'm actually looking for a new man crush. 499 00:19:46,228 --> 00:19:47,708 - Okay. Okay. - Yes. 500 00:19:47,708 --> 00:19:49,840 You're looking good tonight. 501 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:51,886 Uh, Alyssa from Chicago said, "Justin, I'm so sorry 502 00:19:51,886 --> 00:19:54,236 to hear about the loss of your job. 503 00:19:54,236 --> 00:19:55,890 What have you been up to since parting ways 504 00:19:55,890 --> 00:19:57,761 with your old company? 505 00:19:57,761 --> 00:20:01,548 Once I got over the anxiety of the uncertainty 506 00:20:01,548 --> 00:20:03,158 of just not knowing what's coming next, 507 00:20:03,158 --> 00:20:05,595 it was pretty awesome. 508 00:20:05,595 --> 00:20:06,770 You know, I know that when it was discussed, 509 00:20:06,770 --> 00:20:09,643 that clip of you and Whitney... 510 00:20:09,643 --> 00:20:12,776 - Mm-hmm. - ...canoodling, so to speak. 511 00:20:12,776 --> 00:20:13,690 Okay. 512 00:20:13,690 --> 00:20:15,910 - Ohh! - Exactly. 513 00:20:15,910 --> 00:20:17,390 I mean, did they specifically say, 514 00:20:17,390 --> 00:20:19,870 "We don't like how you're behaving on the show"? 515 00:20:19,870 --> 00:20:21,394 - No. - No. It-- 516 00:20:21,394 --> 00:20:23,874 Nothing specific was ever said about it, 517 00:20:23,874 --> 00:20:25,354 but it happened right after that. 518 00:20:25,354 --> 00:20:26,790 Got it. 519 00:20:26,790 --> 00:20:28,096 And I think that was kinda like a... "Hey, we're..." 520 00:20:28,096 --> 00:20:29,315 - The last straw. - Yeah. 521 00:20:29,315 --> 00:20:31,055 Seth, anything that crosses the line for you 522 00:20:31,055 --> 00:20:33,232 when it comes to filming? 523 00:20:33,232 --> 00:20:36,757 We obviously saw you take a bubble bath with Meredith. 524 00:20:36,757 --> 00:20:38,062 Thank you for that, by the way. 525 00:20:38,062 --> 00:20:39,934 I wish you would've done a little more, but... 526 00:20:39,934 --> 00:20:42,153 That's the whole thing. Like, everyone's making it look like 527 00:20:42,153 --> 00:20:43,503 it's this big, sexy moment. 528 00:20:43,503 --> 00:20:45,940 It was, like, we were chatting in the tub. 529 00:20:45,940 --> 00:20:50,205 So Brooksy, I think, is coming out to visit soon. 530 00:20:51,989 --> 00:20:55,863 Please do not put your foot near my taint 531 00:20:55,863 --> 00:20:56,951 while you're talking about our children. 532 00:20:56,951 --> 00:21:00,389 A toe in the taint is pretty sexy. 533 00:21:01,521 --> 00:21:03,610 My foot was under his butt cheek 534 00:21:03,610 --> 00:21:06,482 so I wouldn't slip. That's all it was. 535 00:21:06,482 --> 00:21:08,223 - It was a leverage point. - Exactly. 536 00:21:08,223 --> 00:21:09,703 Got it. 537 00:21:09,703 --> 00:21:13,620 Blair from Connecticut is worried, Lisa and John, 538 00:21:13,620 --> 00:21:16,362 that you're spoiling Jack with the Range Rover, 539 00:21:16,362 --> 00:21:19,147 fancy vacations, expensive clothes. 540 00:21:19,147 --> 00:21:21,497 Do you have any regrets about the way you've raised him, 541 00:21:21,497 --> 00:21:24,239 and do you take responsibility for him 542 00:21:24,239 --> 00:21:25,893 not having interest in college? 543 00:21:25,893 --> 00:21:27,808 I have no regrets. He's a great kid. 544 00:21:27,808 --> 00:21:30,332 He's really helpful around the house. 545 00:21:30,332 --> 00:21:31,594 Since he was in, like, sixth grade, 546 00:21:31,594 --> 00:21:32,987 we've never had to wake him up. 547 00:21:32,987 --> 00:21:34,945 He gets himself up. He gets himself to school, 548 00:21:34,945 --> 00:21:38,297 manages his work schedule, manages school schedule. 549 00:21:38,297 --> 00:21:41,387 We do remind him that he's got some good things going, too. 550 00:21:41,387 --> 00:21:42,953 - Yeah. - So keep him humble. 551 00:21:42,953 --> 00:21:45,216 There are some times where we're like, "It's not yours." 552 00:21:45,216 --> 00:21:48,002 John and Seth, the strain in your wives' relationship 553 00:21:48,002 --> 00:21:52,528 clearly affected yours and made for some awkward moments. 554 00:21:52,528 --> 00:21:54,487 Seth, you seemed caught off-guard 555 00:21:54,487 --> 00:21:57,185 when Lisa approached you and tried to apologize 556 00:21:57,185 --> 00:21:59,361 at Coach Shah's party. 557 00:21:59,361 --> 00:22:02,408 Can I hug you? Is it okay? 558 00:22:02,408 --> 00:22:04,061 You don't have to. 559 00:22:04,061 --> 00:22:05,672 That's huge. 560 00:22:05,672 --> 00:22:08,544 It was crazy, so I'm still not understanding. 561 00:22:08,544 --> 00:22:10,067 Yeah, I'm sorry. 562 00:22:10,067 --> 00:22:12,809 Did you expect to have that conversation that night? 563 00:22:12,809 --> 00:22:16,900 No, I'm--I don't like confrontation, 564 00:22:16,900 --> 00:22:19,468 and I was still shocked by it all, 565 00:22:19,468 --> 00:22:22,253 so I was trying to kind of avoid it. 566 00:22:22,253 --> 00:22:24,343 It was a hard conversation for me to have, too, 567 00:22:24,343 --> 00:22:27,084 and it's hard to keep reliving over and over again. 568 00:22:27,084 --> 00:22:29,304 I didn't think I was gonna talk that long, 569 00:22:29,304 --> 00:22:31,741 and I definitely didn't wanna make it awkward for Seth. 570 00:22:31,741 --> 00:22:35,789 But I definitely wanted him to know, like, "Hey, I'm sorry." 571 00:22:35,789 --> 00:22:39,532 Dennis from Cleveland wants to know how John felt 572 00:22:39,532 --> 00:22:42,056 when he heard Meredith was involved with rumors 573 00:22:42,056 --> 00:22:44,101 about Lisa's infidelity. 574 00:22:44,101 --> 00:22:46,669 Uh, it was--it was hurtful. You know, I, uh, 575 00:22:46,669 --> 00:22:49,324 I just took it for what it was, just a crusade 576 00:22:49,324 --> 00:22:51,239 to retaliate towards Lisa. 577 00:22:51,239 --> 00:22:54,111 Um, Seth and John, do you realistically think 578 00:22:54,111 --> 00:22:58,420 the two of you can be friends if your wives aren't? 579 00:22:58,420 --> 00:22:59,987 I have a lot of friends 580 00:22:59,987 --> 00:23:02,076 that Meredith's not friends with their wife, 581 00:23:02,076 --> 00:23:04,774 and so I would say yeah. 582 00:23:04,774 --> 00:23:08,909 The hard part I have is watching you make fun of Lisa, 583 00:23:08,909 --> 00:23:10,780 like in the closet when you guys were talking about 584 00:23:10,780 --> 00:23:12,521 the whole richer than whatever thing, 585 00:23:12,521 --> 00:23:15,263 and having 50 cents in your hand or whatever. 586 00:23:15,263 --> 00:23:16,917 Look what I found. 587 00:23:16,917 --> 00:23:18,179 Oh, my gosh. 588 00:23:18,179 --> 00:23:20,921 So Lisa Barlow's no longer the richest one. 589 00:23:20,921 --> 00:23:23,489 You should give that to her, make her richer. 590 00:23:24,925 --> 00:23:26,100 Our understanding was to not get involved 591 00:23:26,100 --> 00:23:27,841 or talk about our wives. 592 00:23:27,841 --> 00:23:31,540 I've never said anything derogatory about Meredith, 593 00:23:31,540 --> 00:23:32,846 and so that kinda hurt. 594 00:23:32,846 --> 00:23:35,239 I apologize if the commentary was hurtful. 595 00:23:35,239 --> 00:23:37,111 The whole world knows you guys work together. 596 00:23:37,111 --> 00:23:40,897 The whole world knows you have more than 50 cents to your name. 597 00:23:40,897 --> 00:23:44,074 They were so egregious that it was mean to be funny, 598 00:23:44,074 --> 00:23:47,338 not meant to be hurtful and cruel. 599 00:23:47,338 --> 00:23:48,949 Thank you, Meredith. What was hard for me, Seth, 600 00:23:48,949 --> 00:23:52,082 is you didn't stop Meredith when she was saying 601 00:23:52,082 --> 00:23:54,302 affair, rumors, and things like that in your kitchen. 602 00:23:54,302 --> 00:23:55,782 During that conversation, 603 00:23:55,782 --> 00:23:57,479 John would have been like, "You need to stop." 604 00:23:57,479 --> 00:24:00,526 Seth and John, can Meredith and Lisa be friends again, 605 00:24:00,526 --> 00:24:02,310 do you think? 606 00:24:02,310 --> 00:24:04,660 Can there be peace in the Middle East? 607 00:24:04,660 --> 00:24:05,835 - Yes. - Oh, my gosh. 608 00:24:05,835 --> 00:24:08,272 Then yes. 609 00:24:08,272 --> 00:24:09,491 I think there can be, yeah. 610 00:24:09,491 --> 00:24:11,058 I think I can help you two, though. 611 00:24:11,058 --> 00:24:12,973 - I can bring you back together. - How? 612 00:24:12,973 --> 00:24:16,324 I just know both of them. We're all the same person. 613 00:24:16,324 --> 00:24:18,892 We're supporting our wife through this whole process, 614 00:24:18,892 --> 00:24:20,807 and... and I-- 615 00:24:20,807 --> 00:24:23,287 - I think you mean Seth and I. - Yes. 616 00:24:23,287 --> 00:24:24,593 I'm talking about Seth and John. 617 00:24:24,593 --> 00:24:25,986 He probably-- He probably could help. 618 00:24:25,986 --> 00:24:27,117 I didn't know if you were talking about me and Lisa 619 00:24:27,117 --> 00:24:28,510 or John and Seth. - Oh, I can bring Meredith 620 00:24:28,510 --> 00:24:29,990 and Lisa back together, too, like, no. 621 00:24:29,990 --> 00:24:33,384 I think you have a new career. You have a new career. 622 00:24:33,384 --> 00:24:34,821 You are officially employed. 623 00:24:34,821 --> 00:24:36,997 - Dr. Phil. - That's exactly right. 624 00:24:36,997 --> 00:24:38,999 Nice. We're gonna leave it there. 625 00:24:38,999 --> 00:24:41,349 I'm gonna let the husbands go, and we'll be right back. 626 00:24:41,349 --> 00:24:42,524 - Thanks, guys. - Thank you. 627 00:24:42,524 --> 00:24:43,612 Thank you. 628 00:24:43,612 --> 00:24:44,961 Coming up... 629 00:24:44,961 --> 00:24:47,268 She said the cost of trial was astronomical, 630 00:24:47,268 --> 00:24:49,444 and they solicited friends for money. 631 00:24:49,444 --> 00:24:51,751 - Did you give them money? - I did not give them money, 632 00:24:51,751 --> 00:24:53,666 but I know on this couch did. 633 00:25:04,590 --> 00:25:08,202 We are back. While this season was full of surprises, 634 00:25:08,202 --> 00:25:13,033 the biggest came after cameras stopped rolling. 635 00:25:13,033 --> 00:25:15,296 After claiming innocence for over a year, 636 00:25:15,296 --> 00:25:17,298 Jen pled guilty. 637 00:25:17,298 --> 00:25:19,169 Let's watch. 638 00:25:19,169 --> 00:25:21,737 I've been going through so much, and you know, my trial starts 639 00:25:21,737 --> 00:25:24,044 in, like, a month and a half. 640 00:25:24,044 --> 00:25:27,308 I'm the only defendant left that is still going to trial. 641 00:25:27,308 --> 00:25:30,354 But I'm not gonna take a plea deal 642 00:25:30,354 --> 00:25:32,443 when I'm not guilty. I'm innocent. 643 00:25:32,443 --> 00:25:36,839 What happens if she is proven guilty? What--What then? 644 00:25:36,839 --> 00:25:38,841 I don't even let myself go there because I'm like, 645 00:25:38,841 --> 00:25:40,147 "I have to believe she's innocent 646 00:25:40,147 --> 00:25:41,496 until they prove her guilty." 647 00:25:41,496 --> 00:25:43,106 Lisa, and I'm kinda right there with you, 648 00:25:43,106 --> 00:25:45,892 because I've had people ask me the same question. 649 00:25:45,892 --> 00:25:50,113 Have either of you ever asked Jen 650 00:25:50,113 --> 00:25:53,421 if she's guilty of any of these charges? 651 00:25:53,421 --> 00:25:57,207 If, in fact, Jen is proclaiming her innocence 652 00:25:57,207 --> 00:26:01,560 when she's really guilty and not taking accountability 653 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:03,779 to the victims of what she did, 654 00:26:03,779 --> 00:26:10,220 that's a really big problem for me. 655 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,052 Do you have anything to say? 656 00:26:21,188 --> 00:26:23,799 It's a lot. 657 00:26:23,799 --> 00:26:26,933 Do any of you feel like shooting the show 658 00:26:26,933 --> 00:26:29,413 while dealing with the trial changed her mindset? 659 00:26:29,413 --> 00:26:32,895 Did the reality of it kick in for her? 660 00:26:32,895 --> 00:26:36,725 It's so hard to decipher, like, 661 00:26:36,725 --> 00:26:37,596 when you're filming, things are huge 662 00:26:37,596 --> 00:26:39,336 and bigger than life, 663 00:26:39,336 --> 00:26:41,948 and I feel like she got arrested on camera, 664 00:26:41,948 --> 00:26:43,471 this happened while we were filming, 665 00:26:43,471 --> 00:26:47,040 and it was hard for her to realize that these charges 666 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,564 were not just part of the show. 667 00:26:49,564 --> 00:26:51,740 Does that make sense? I think it was really muddled, 668 00:26:51,740 --> 00:26:53,655 and reality kicks in and the cameras go away, 669 00:26:53,655 --> 00:26:56,571 and you're left with your life and it's in shambles, you know? 670 00:26:56,571 --> 00:26:59,008 Because in some ways, she almost became, like, idolized 671 00:26:59,008 --> 00:27:01,228 because of it, right? So... 672 00:27:01,228 --> 00:27:02,795 It fed her ego a little bit. Not a little bit. A lot. 673 00:27:02,795 --> 00:27:04,971 Yeah, like, that would be hard to, like, discern between, 674 00:27:04,971 --> 00:27:07,582 "Did I really do this, or did I not?" 675 00:27:07,582 --> 00:27:10,411 Meredith, season two, you couldn't stand to be around Jen 676 00:27:10,411 --> 00:27:13,414 and said you knew something was off when she was arrested. 677 00:27:13,414 --> 00:27:16,025 Meredith, she's been arrested for fraud. 678 00:27:16,025 --> 00:27:19,681 Honestly, I'm not surprised by this. 679 00:27:19,681 --> 00:27:21,944 Season three, you've done a 180 680 00:27:21,944 --> 00:27:24,555 and blindly stood by her. 681 00:27:24,555 --> 00:27:27,820 How do you justify that now that she's pled guilty? 682 00:27:27,820 --> 00:27:31,258 Guilty, innocent, in between, she is still a human being. 683 00:27:31,258 --> 00:27:34,174 I will always root for the underdog, always. 684 00:27:34,174 --> 00:27:37,220 But you said that if she pled guilty, 685 00:27:37,220 --> 00:27:38,352 you would have a really hard time with it. 686 00:27:38,352 --> 00:27:40,049 Yeah, I said I would struggle with it, 687 00:27:40,049 --> 00:27:42,051 I'd have to understand it, 688 00:27:42,051 --> 00:27:43,879 and of course, that's not something I can do, 689 00:27:43,879 --> 00:27:45,098 'cause she hasn't been sentenced, 690 00:27:45,098 --> 00:27:46,360 so there's a conversation 691 00:27:46,360 --> 00:27:47,753 I have to have at some point in time 692 00:27:47,753 --> 00:27:49,450 that I have been unable to have yet. 693 00:27:49,450 --> 00:27:55,282 How did you go from season two, hiring a private investigator, 694 00:27:55,282 --> 00:27:57,937 saying all these things, that she stole from your store... 695 00:27:57,937 --> 00:28:01,462 My manager called me. I'm like, "Oh, great. What did she buy?" 696 00:28:01,462 --> 00:28:02,942 And she said, "Oh, she spent a few hundred dollars." 697 00:28:02,942 --> 00:28:05,684 "But that's not the problem, Meredith. 698 00:28:05,684 --> 00:28:10,297 There is a green clutch that I know was here, 699 00:28:10,297 --> 00:28:12,647 and it is gone." 700 00:28:12,647 --> 00:28:14,518 ...to you supporting her. 701 00:28:14,518 --> 00:28:17,304 That--I never understood where that happened. 702 00:28:17,304 --> 00:28:21,569 Truth of the matter is, months before San Diego, 703 00:28:21,569 --> 00:28:24,137 months before any of you had this information, 704 00:28:24,137 --> 00:28:27,140 I was informed by a very reliable source 705 00:28:27,140 --> 00:28:29,882 that Jen had made an attempt on her life. 706 00:28:29,882 --> 00:28:34,625 And with what I went through, I wasn't playing with that. 707 00:28:34,625 --> 00:28:37,367 There is no chance that I wasn't going to try to support. 708 00:28:37,367 --> 00:28:40,588 But what's interesting is that you said, you know, 709 00:28:40,588 --> 00:28:43,460 "If those victims were actually victimized by her, 710 00:28:43,460 --> 00:28:46,637 then I can't be her friend anymore." 711 00:28:46,637 --> 00:28:48,074 Yes. 712 00:28:48,074 --> 00:28:49,945 Um... I said that I would definitely struggle with it, 713 00:28:49,945 --> 00:28:52,469 and I do have an issue with it. 714 00:28:52,469 --> 00:28:54,602 I'll be honest, but on the flip side, 715 00:28:54,602 --> 00:28:57,779 I also don't think that, like, she should die. 716 00:28:57,779 --> 00:28:59,607 No one is suggesting that she die, 717 00:28:59,607 --> 00:29:01,391 but I'm just trying to parse out your-- 718 00:29:01,391 --> 00:29:04,655 I understand, but you also have to understand that when somebody 719 00:29:04,655 --> 00:29:08,181 is in a mental state where they have already made 720 00:29:08,181 --> 00:29:10,096 an attempt on their life and they feel alone 721 00:29:10,096 --> 00:29:12,359 and unsupported... 722 00:29:12,359 --> 00:29:14,013 I know where it goes, okay? 723 00:29:14,013 --> 00:29:17,190 I lived it, and I'm not doing that. 724 00:29:17,190 --> 00:29:18,582 And I don't care what you think of me for it. 725 00:29:18,582 --> 00:29:20,193 I'm just trying to understand your justification 726 00:29:20,193 --> 00:29:24,240 for what you said before, you know, about her 727 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:29,071 as a felon, criminal, whatever you wanna call it. 728 00:29:29,071 --> 00:29:31,813 I have a lot of things I am trying to reconcile 729 00:29:31,813 --> 00:29:35,251 in my own head with all of this, and quite frankly, 730 00:29:35,251 --> 00:29:38,646 I don't think I can do that until after her sentencing. 731 00:29:38,646 --> 00:29:40,387 You know what, though? I wanna interject here. 732 00:29:40,387 --> 00:29:42,737 When we were in Vail, that was not the situation. 733 00:29:42,737 --> 00:29:46,219 There were a lot of things said, and that was not the situation, 734 00:29:46,219 --> 00:29:47,437 and it is all on camera. 735 00:29:47,437 --> 00:29:48,917 Yes, Lisa, you had a lot to say, too. 736 00:29:48,917 --> 00:29:50,440 Everyone was blindsided. Nobody knew she was arrested. 737 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,007 No, no, no, I did not have a lot to say. I didn't know. 738 00:29:52,007 --> 00:29:53,487 'Cause I had called you from the van, 739 00:29:53,487 --> 00:29:55,576 and you said, "I'm not surprised. I'm not surprised." 740 00:29:55,576 --> 00:29:56,882 You were gloating in the bathtub when it happened. 741 00:29:56,882 --> 00:29:59,232 - I was not gloating. - You were, 100%. 742 00:29:59,232 --> 00:30:00,711 No, I was taking a bath. 743 00:30:00,711 --> 00:30:04,237 - Why did we not have an inkling? - You didn't? 744 00:30:04,237 --> 00:30:06,848 Well, okay. Meredith. 745 00:30:06,848 --> 00:30:08,719 I was not surprised. 746 00:30:08,719 --> 00:30:10,852 Not on this capa--No. Not on this level. 747 00:30:10,852 --> 00:30:12,071 No, I was not surprised. 748 00:30:12,071 --> 00:30:13,550 I'm just saying we're rewriting history. 749 00:30:13,550 --> 00:30:15,596 - That's not the case. - No, I'm not rewriting anything. 750 00:30:15,596 --> 00:30:18,338 I've said it over and over and over again 751 00:30:18,338 --> 00:30:20,906 that I could not process what was going on at that time 752 00:30:20,906 --> 00:30:22,908 due to other things that were going on in my life... 753 00:30:22,908 --> 00:30:24,257 - But you were saying it long-- - ...that I had no support 754 00:30:24,257 --> 00:30:25,911 from my friends on, and you know what? 755 00:30:25,911 --> 00:30:28,000 Well, I was supporting you, so I'll exclude myself from that. 756 00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:29,262 - No, you were not. - That summer before, 757 00:30:29,262 --> 00:30:31,917 you had a lot to say about Jen prior, too, 758 00:30:31,917 --> 00:30:33,570 and I'm just saying that's the truth. 759 00:30:33,570 --> 00:30:34,745 Yes, Jen and I were not getting along prior, too. 760 00:30:34,745 --> 00:30:36,573 We both had a lot to say about each other. 761 00:30:36,573 --> 00:30:37,487 So you dug up on information on her like you did on me. 762 00:30:37,487 --> 00:30:38,706 And we reconciled that, Lisa. 763 00:30:38,706 --> 00:30:39,881 That's when you dug up information on Jen. 764 00:30:39,881 --> 00:30:41,013 Lisa, how does this concern you? 765 00:30:41,013 --> 00:30:42,275 And you dug up information on me. 766 00:30:42,275 --> 00:30:44,016 No, I didn't dig up anything, ever. 767 00:30:44,016 --> 00:30:45,321 You dug up information on me, and you did it on her, too. 768 00:30:45,321 --> 00:30:46,670 - No, I did not. No, I did not... - It's a pattern. 769 00:30:46,670 --> 00:30:47,933 - Okay. All right. - ...when you don't like someone. 770 00:30:47,933 --> 00:30:49,282 - It was sent to me, Lisa. - Yes, it is. 771 00:30:49,282 --> 00:30:50,457 - All right, all right. - Well, I don't care what 772 00:30:50,457 --> 00:30:51,937 you believe. How is that for an answer? 773 00:30:51,937 --> 00:30:53,503 - Clearly, you don't. - Okay. 774 00:30:53,503 --> 00:30:54,940 You would believe someone that lies all the time over me. 775 00:30:54,940 --> 00:30:56,115 Nor do I care what you think or have to say about me. 776 00:30:56,115 --> 00:30:57,899 All right, um, she pled guilty. 777 00:30:57,899 --> 00:30:59,988 She's facing 10-plus years in jail. 778 00:30:59,988 --> 00:31:01,337 Right. 779 00:31:01,337 --> 00:31:03,252 That doesn't make you have any reaction? 780 00:31:03,252 --> 00:31:05,385 You're like a monotone about this? 781 00:31:05,385 --> 00:31:07,300 No, I wouldn't say I'm monotone. 782 00:31:07,300 --> 00:31:09,868 You have no feeling about this whatsoever? 783 00:31:09,868 --> 00:31:14,089 I think it's absolutely terrible and gut-wrenching. 784 00:31:14,089 --> 00:31:16,222 I can't speak to anything 785 00:31:16,222 --> 00:31:17,571 regarding her innocence or guilt, though. 786 00:31:17,571 --> 00:31:19,747 It's not my job. It's not my place. 787 00:31:19,747 --> 00:31:22,489 You had to say about it when she was arrested. 788 00:31:22,489 --> 00:31:24,534 And after. She wasn't invited to parties. 789 00:31:24,534 --> 00:31:26,362 If she was around, you didn't wanna be there. 790 00:31:26,362 --> 00:31:28,495 That had nothing to do with her innocence or guilt. 791 00:31:28,495 --> 00:31:30,149 It had to do with the fact, as I've said-- 792 00:31:30,149 --> 00:31:32,455 It's just weird to me that she pled guilty, 793 00:31:32,455 --> 00:31:33,674 and now you have nothing to say about it. 794 00:31:33,674 --> 00:31:34,980 - I was processing. - It was like you had 795 00:31:34,980 --> 00:31:36,329 this strong moral compass last season, 796 00:31:36,329 --> 00:31:37,808 and none this season? - After she's sentenced, 797 00:31:37,808 --> 00:31:39,332 I'm sure I will have more of an opinion on it. 798 00:31:39,332 --> 00:31:40,986 There's, like, none this season? 799 00:31:40,986 --> 00:31:44,946 Are you scared of her? Are you scared of her coming after you 800 00:31:44,946 --> 00:31:47,818 by... saying something about it? 801 00:31:57,741 --> 00:32:01,397 Are you scared of her coming after you 802 00:32:01,397 --> 00:32:05,227 by saying something about it? 803 00:32:05,227 --> 00:32:06,663 No, because if I were afraid of that, 804 00:32:06,663 --> 00:32:09,144 why would I have bothered confronting her last year? 805 00:32:09,144 --> 00:32:10,406 Right. 806 00:32:10,406 --> 00:32:12,147 Obviously, I'm not afraid of her. 807 00:32:12,147 --> 00:32:14,019 In my view, I am not the judge. 808 00:32:14,019 --> 00:32:15,455 - I am not the jury. - Okay. 809 00:32:15,455 --> 00:32:17,022 - I respect the legal system. - You're quoting me. 810 00:32:17,022 --> 00:32:18,632 I said that multiple times in interviews last year 811 00:32:18,632 --> 00:32:20,895 and got brutalized for being her friend and saying just that. 812 00:32:20,895 --> 00:32:23,463 I'm not quoting you, Lisa. I'm speaking my own mind. 813 00:32:23,463 --> 00:32:25,900 Stop telling me everything that I think and do. 814 00:32:25,900 --> 00:32:27,293 I'm not telling you. I just think it's so confusing that 815 00:32:27,293 --> 00:32:28,598 all last year--all last year-- - Oh, my gosh. 816 00:32:28,598 --> 00:32:31,427 - I'm not interested. - All last year-- 817 00:32:31,427 --> 00:32:32,733 You kind of were the judge and jury... 818 00:32:32,733 --> 00:32:34,126 - Yes, yes. - ...before she was even tried. 819 00:32:34,126 --> 00:32:36,389 No, I had one moment in Vail where we all reacted 820 00:32:36,389 --> 00:32:39,261 - Ohh. - After that, I didn't engage 821 00:32:39,261 --> 00:32:41,960 with Jen for the rest of the season. 822 00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:43,265 Maddie from Monterey said, 823 00:32:43,265 --> 00:32:45,615 "Jen was actively committing fraud 824 00:32:45,615 --> 00:32:47,226 while showing her life on TV. 825 00:32:47,226 --> 00:32:51,447 Do any of you think she truly believed she was innocent?" 826 00:32:51,447 --> 00:32:52,753 I think she believed she was innocent. 827 00:32:52,753 --> 00:32:54,363 - I thought she believed she was. - You do? 828 00:32:54,363 --> 00:32:55,756 Yeah, I don't know why you would sign up to be a Housewife... 829 00:32:55,756 --> 00:32:57,105 - I don't either. - ...if you were running 830 00:32:57,105 --> 00:33:00,413 a telemarketing scheme. - And it was imminent. 831 00:33:00,413 --> 00:33:01,414 It was happening when she signed up to be a Housewife. 832 00:33:01,414 --> 00:33:03,459 - Yeah. - Right, the investigation 833 00:33:03,459 --> 00:33:04,678 was happening. Right. - Yeah. 834 00:33:04,678 --> 00:33:06,636 - They had to have known. - Sealed indictment 835 00:33:06,636 --> 00:33:08,682 was on the day you announced our show at BravoCon. 836 00:33:11,032 --> 00:33:13,861 - Wow. That's incredible. - And what does that mean? 837 00:33:13,861 --> 00:33:15,863 Jen didn't know about it yet. They were in-- 838 00:33:15,863 --> 00:33:17,604 - Because it had been... - Oh, got it. 839 00:33:17,604 --> 00:33:19,084 - ...a grand jury investigation. - So she had no idea. 840 00:33:19,084 --> 00:33:22,522 And they're trying to get more information on more people. 841 00:33:22,522 --> 00:33:24,176 How did you know that? 842 00:33:24,176 --> 00:33:25,655 I read it somewhere-- I don't know-- 843 00:33:25,655 --> 00:33:27,396 in some of the stuff. - But I mean, was her name listed 844 00:33:27,396 --> 00:33:30,791 in it at that time, or was it added on later? 845 00:33:30,791 --> 00:33:32,314 I-I don't know. It was sealed, so I-- 846 00:33:32,314 --> 00:33:33,620 I have to assume it was mentioned, but it was sealed. 847 00:33:33,620 --> 00:33:35,883 - It was sealed. - Naya from Milwaukee said, 848 00:33:35,883 --> 00:33:37,406 "There's been very little mention of the victims 849 00:33:37,406 --> 00:33:39,321 of Jen's fraud. 850 00:33:39,321 --> 00:33:41,193 Has Jen shown any remorse to any of you 851 00:33:41,193 --> 00:33:43,847 about the people she defrauded?" 852 00:33:43,847 --> 00:33:44,935 No. 853 00:33:44,935 --> 00:33:46,154 Well, I-I was quoted in an article, 854 00:33:46,154 --> 00:33:48,156 and she wrote me and said, 855 00:33:48,156 --> 00:33:51,116 "Tell me who my victims are, bitch." 856 00:33:51,116 --> 00:33:52,595 Yeah. 857 00:33:52,595 --> 00:33:54,815 It's safe to say that everyone believes 858 00:33:54,815 --> 00:33:57,252 she will serve time for this. - Yes. 859 00:33:57,252 --> 00:33:58,906 Pearl from Montclair wants to know, 860 00:33:58,906 --> 00:34:02,431 "Heather, if Jen goes to jail, how do you plan to support her?" 861 00:34:02,431 --> 00:34:04,129 Will you visit her? 862 00:34:04,129 --> 00:34:05,521 I mean, it depends on where she goes. 863 00:34:05,521 --> 00:34:08,698 I mean, I will write her if she wants that, 864 00:34:08,698 --> 00:34:12,659 and I will look in on Omar and Coach and I don't know. 865 00:34:12,659 --> 00:34:15,923 There was speculation that she pled guilty 866 00:34:15,923 --> 00:34:24,497 to keep Coach from being implicated in any way. 867 00:34:24,497 --> 00:34:27,065 Is that anything that any of you thought? 868 00:34:27,065 --> 00:34:28,675 I thought about that. 869 00:34:28,675 --> 00:34:31,547 Like, if that was true, it makes sense. 870 00:34:31,547 --> 00:34:33,593 Sharrieff is a lovely person, 871 00:34:33,593 --> 00:34:35,247 and he's always, like, so on, right? 872 00:34:35,247 --> 00:34:36,465 That sometimes it always struck me 873 00:34:36,465 --> 00:34:38,598 as, like, too good to be true. 874 00:34:38,598 --> 00:34:41,514 So does that mean you think he possibly had knowledge 875 00:34:41,514 --> 00:34:43,081 and is letting her take the fall? 876 00:34:43,081 --> 00:34:45,518 Possibly. I think it's a theory, a possibility. 877 00:34:45,518 --> 00:34:47,868 It's possible that he had knowledge. 878 00:34:47,868 --> 00:34:49,826 I mean, they have to file taxes together. 879 00:34:49,826 --> 00:34:52,525 What do you think? 880 00:34:52,525 --> 00:34:55,658 I don't know the first thing about their relationship. 881 00:34:55,658 --> 00:34:57,617 I think it's, you know, pulling on a thread. 882 00:34:57,617 --> 00:34:59,097 I don't think you could be so supportive 883 00:34:59,097 --> 00:35:00,837 if you knew she was implicated. 884 00:35:00,837 --> 00:35:02,143 - Right. - 'Cause we were there with them, 885 00:35:02,143 --> 00:35:04,754 and it was like he wanted to read everything. 886 00:35:04,754 --> 00:35:05,929 - Going through the evidence. - Didn't you think, like, 887 00:35:05,929 --> 00:35:07,801 maybe Sharrieff knew when we met? 888 00:35:07,801 --> 00:35:09,281 - Do you think that's an act? - Like, there's a possibility. 889 00:35:09,281 --> 00:35:10,673 - No? - Because, look, when we... 890 00:35:10,673 --> 00:35:12,153 I mean, I don't know anything anymore. 891 00:35:12,153 --> 00:35:14,764 When we met for lunch, you brought up the fact that, 892 00:35:14,764 --> 00:35:17,071 like, hey, how could Sharrieff not know? 893 00:35:17,071 --> 00:35:21,467 I think that Coach discovered what Jen was doing 894 00:35:21,467 --> 00:35:26,385 and that it was impossible to explain away. 895 00:35:26,385 --> 00:35:29,083 I really feel like it was financial, 896 00:35:29,083 --> 00:35:30,780 and they saw something that was, like, "Listen, it's not worth 897 00:35:30,780 --> 00:35:34,132 rolling the dice, because it's gonna be so expensive, 898 00:35:34,132 --> 00:35:36,960 and if it's not a clear win, we can't risk it." 899 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,615 She said the cost of trial was astronomical. 900 00:35:39,615 --> 00:35:41,922 Just to get the transcripts was $2,000 a day 901 00:35:41,922 --> 00:35:43,750 and that the cost was overwhelming, 902 00:35:43,750 --> 00:35:45,360 and they solicited friends for money. 903 00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:46,709 - Got it. - Mm-hmm. 904 00:35:46,709 --> 00:35:48,189 And a lot of our friends gave them money. 905 00:35:48,189 --> 00:35:49,277 - Did you give them money? - I did not give them money, 906 00:35:49,277 --> 00:35:54,630 but I know people on this couch did. 907 00:35:54,630 --> 00:35:56,415 - Not right now. - Wait. 908 00:35:56,415 --> 00:35:57,894 Angie Harrington gave her money. 909 00:35:57,894 --> 00:35:58,765 Wow. 910 00:35:58,765 --> 00:36:01,376 How long did Angie know her? 911 00:36:01,376 --> 00:36:02,943 They asked. They just asked, and Chris has it, 912 00:36:02,943 --> 00:36:04,466 and so he gave them money. - No, no, no, how long did they-- 913 00:36:04,466 --> 00:36:05,902 I'm just curious, like, how long they knew each other. 914 00:36:05,902 --> 00:36:07,513 - Wait. - 'Cause I think that's 915 00:36:07,513 --> 00:36:09,819 a very new relationship, too. - It is, but I think that 916 00:36:09,819 --> 00:36:11,169 they knew that the Harringtons had money, 917 00:36:11,169 --> 00:36:13,954 and Chris didn't hesitate to help as he could. 918 00:36:13,954 --> 00:36:15,912 Is that why the @shahxposed thing went away so quick? 919 00:36:15,912 --> 00:36:17,087 - Yeah. - I don't know, you guys. 920 00:36:17,087 --> 00:36:20,003 I'm just saying financial strain was huge. 921 00:36:20,003 --> 00:36:22,136 - Mm-hmm. - And a lot of people that... 922 00:36:22,136 --> 00:36:23,833 gave her money. - They asked John. They asked me. 923 00:36:23,833 --> 00:36:25,661 - Yeah. That's what I'm saying. - Yep. 924 00:36:25,661 --> 00:36:27,359 Like, no one's--they asked people for money. 925 00:36:27,359 --> 00:36:28,925 It was very expensive, 926 00:36:28,925 --> 00:36:30,405 and a lot of people came forward with money. 927 00:36:30,405 --> 00:36:31,754 And none of you guys gave it to them like Angie did. 928 00:36:31,754 --> 00:36:33,321 - I didn't because... - I didn't give them money. 929 00:36:33,321 --> 00:36:34,496 I didn't because our counsel said we probably shouldn't. 930 00:36:34,496 --> 00:36:36,455 - Got it. - I can't. 931 00:36:36,455 --> 00:36:37,673 Otherwise, I would've. I was ready to. 932 00:36:37,673 --> 00:36:40,459 So, Heather, you and Lisa 933 00:36:40,459 --> 00:36:42,243 discuss the "guilty" plea over lunch. 934 00:36:42,243 --> 00:36:45,072 Why do you believe Coach encouraged her to plead guilty? 935 00:36:45,072 --> 00:36:47,161 For the financial strain and that it was just 936 00:36:47,161 --> 00:36:49,685 an uphill battle, and I have to assume it was something 937 00:36:49,685 --> 00:36:52,079 that he thought wasn't worth rolling the dice, 938 00:36:52,079 --> 00:36:53,733 just some sort of smoking gun. - You also believe that there was 939 00:36:53,733 --> 00:36:56,605 something that became clear-- - It was in a text or something 940 00:36:56,605 --> 00:36:59,173 she had sent to Stu that basically incriminated her. 941 00:36:59,173 --> 00:37:00,435 I don't know the details, but I would assume 942 00:37:00,435 --> 00:37:02,002 it was something like a smoking gun... 943 00:37:02,002 --> 00:37:03,351 - Some piece of evidence... - ...that showed knowledge. 944 00:37:03,351 --> 00:37:05,832 - ...that they--right. - They dropped one charge, 945 00:37:05,832 --> 00:37:07,268 and she's only pled guilty to conspiracy, 946 00:37:07,268 --> 00:37:09,792 which means she had knowledge of what was going on. 947 00:37:09,792 --> 00:37:13,318 You told Lisa you believed Jen really did commit the crime 948 00:37:13,318 --> 00:37:14,623 after she pled guilty. 949 00:37:14,623 --> 00:37:16,495 If you believe she committed fraud, 950 00:37:16,495 --> 00:37:18,714 why continue to support her? 951 00:37:18,714 --> 00:37:21,587 Because she's said she committed fraud and she's going to prison, 952 00:37:21,587 --> 00:37:23,806 and she's making $15 million restitution, 953 00:37:23,806 --> 00:37:27,636 and I think me being mean to her or mad at her 954 00:37:27,636 --> 00:37:29,725 is just a virtue signal to the world 955 00:37:29,725 --> 00:37:30,987 and doesn't do anyone any good, and, like, 956 00:37:30,987 --> 00:37:32,772 I'm this far down the road with her. 957 00:37:32,772 --> 00:37:35,296 I'm not gonna drop her now. 958 00:37:35,296 --> 00:37:38,081 You were very emotional at that lunch with Heather. Why? 959 00:37:38,081 --> 00:37:41,302 I'll get emotional again because 960 00:37:41,302 --> 00:37:44,218 there's a part of me that, like, loved her so much, 961 00:37:44,218 --> 00:37:47,177 and I was--she sucked me in, 962 00:37:47,177 --> 00:37:49,179 and there's the good times, 963 00:37:49,179 --> 00:37:51,878 and then Jen would cut me, 964 00:37:51,878 --> 00:37:53,401 criticize how I treated my wound, 965 00:37:53,401 --> 00:37:54,881 and then told me it was my fault. 966 00:37:54,881 --> 00:37:57,144 That's the relationship I was in, 967 00:37:57,144 --> 00:38:00,365 and so I'm sad about the nice times 968 00:38:00,365 --> 00:38:03,106 or when she was cute with my kids, 969 00:38:03,106 --> 00:38:04,673 but I'm not sad about the horrible times. 970 00:38:04,673 --> 00:38:06,153 I don't miss that part. 971 00:38:06,153 --> 00:38:09,069 All right. Okay, we're gonna leave it there. 972 00:38:09,069 --> 00:38:12,290 Uh, we're gonna be back after this. 973 00:38:12,290 --> 00:38:13,508 We're good. 974 00:38:13,508 --> 00:38:15,162 Okay. 975 00:38:15,162 --> 00:38:16,642 I'm gonna run to the restroom. 976 00:38:16,642 --> 00:38:18,034 This? All this? Like... Am I a baby? 977 00:38:18,034 --> 00:38:20,950 No. I just--I have--I have cried so much this year. 978 00:38:20,950 --> 00:38:24,606 I just think that I-- I'm cried out. 979 00:38:32,962 --> 00:38:37,358 You feel a different kind of worse. How about that? 980 00:38:37,358 --> 00:38:39,360 All right, about a minute to Andy. 981 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:41,841 Four, three, two... 982 00:38:41,841 --> 00:38:46,106 We are back with our final moments 983 00:38:46,106 --> 00:38:49,370 with "The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City." 984 00:38:49,370 --> 00:38:52,112 What a dramatic evening. 985 00:38:52,112 --> 00:38:53,853 You're really emotional. What's up? 986 00:38:53,853 --> 00:38:57,204 Just a lot, you know? Lot of heavy topics. 987 00:38:57,204 --> 00:38:59,119 I mean, I think you're crying because I just asked you 988 00:38:59,119 --> 00:39:01,817 if you feel better than you felt 12 hours ago 989 00:39:01,817 --> 00:39:03,166 at the beginning of the day, 990 00:39:03,166 --> 00:39:05,908 and I expected you to say that you were relieved 991 00:39:05,908 --> 00:39:07,997 and you had gotten a lot off your chest. 992 00:39:07,997 --> 00:39:10,043 - No. - But you clearly... 993 00:39:10,043 --> 00:39:13,829 - Maybe you feel worse. - It's just, you know, 994 00:39:13,829 --> 00:39:15,396 this show has brought, like, so much good to my life, 995 00:39:15,396 --> 00:39:17,224 you know? - Mm-hmm. 996 00:39:17,224 --> 00:39:18,704 But it's also showed me 997 00:39:18,704 --> 00:39:21,707 a lot of ways I have to improve, you know? 998 00:39:21,707 --> 00:39:23,012 Got a closer look at yourself, 999 00:39:23,012 --> 00:39:25,232 and you didn't love what you saw? 1000 00:39:25,232 --> 00:39:27,887 I just got a closer at, like, you know, 1001 00:39:27,887 --> 00:39:30,933 how tumultuous these waters have been, 1002 00:39:30,933 --> 00:39:33,240 and we've all been through a lot, you know? 1003 00:39:33,240 --> 00:39:34,850 - Mm-hmm. It's real life. - These are big, big, 1004 00:39:34,850 --> 00:39:36,809 heavy, heavy, heavy issues, and I feel ill-equipped 1005 00:39:36,809 --> 00:39:40,029 to be up here talking about any of 'em, you know? 1006 00:39:40,029 --> 00:39:42,205 I wanted to ask each of you to tell me 1007 00:39:42,205 --> 00:39:44,382 what your biggest regret of the season was. 1008 00:39:44,382 --> 00:39:46,862 Uh, who wants to start? 1009 00:39:46,862 --> 00:39:48,864 - I mean, I can start. - Okay. 1010 00:39:48,864 --> 00:39:51,258 Uh, my biggest regret is not going to bed immediately 1011 00:39:51,258 --> 00:39:54,957 when we came home from the club, the Marilyn Monroe night. 1012 00:39:54,957 --> 00:39:56,481 Just gone to bed and stopped drinking 1013 00:39:56,481 --> 00:39:58,526 and stopped playing around, and, um, 1014 00:39:58,526 --> 00:40:00,441 that's my biggest regret. 1015 00:40:00,441 --> 00:40:02,704 Because you have a lot of shame about the black eye. 1016 00:40:02,704 --> 00:40:04,793 - Oh, immense, yeah. - What do you think 1017 00:40:04,793 --> 00:40:08,318 it's gonna take for you to work through that? 1018 00:40:08,318 --> 00:40:11,104 I mean, I'm in therapy, so... just continue 1019 00:40:11,104 --> 00:40:13,585 making positive changes and recognizing my past 1020 00:40:13,585 --> 00:40:15,587 and what I've come from. 1021 00:40:15,587 --> 00:40:17,284 Is this something that you've talked about in therapy-- 1022 00:40:17,284 --> 00:40:18,459 the black eye? 1023 00:40:18,459 --> 00:40:19,721 - Oh, yeah. - Yeah? 1024 00:40:19,721 --> 00:40:21,157 Of course. 1025 00:40:21,157 --> 00:40:23,290 Whitney, what's your biggest regret of the season? 1026 00:40:23,290 --> 00:40:26,119 I wish I would have waited until I was sober 1027 00:40:26,119 --> 00:40:30,819 to have the conversation surrounding the rumors. 1028 00:40:30,819 --> 00:40:35,128 But I was kind of hoping that you would say 1029 00:40:35,128 --> 00:40:41,047 that one of your regrets is not mending our friendship. 1030 00:40:41,047 --> 00:40:44,964 I know that I gave it a valiant effort and tried. 1031 00:40:44,964 --> 00:40:49,142 She said she's figuring it out. Meredith? 1032 00:40:49,142 --> 00:40:52,014 I-I think my biggest regret is not being more clear 1033 00:40:52,014 --> 00:40:55,017 and careful with my words. 1034 00:40:55,017 --> 00:40:57,150 What about you, Lisa? 1035 00:40:57,150 --> 00:40:59,805 For me, I just learned a lot this season. 1036 00:40:59,805 --> 00:41:02,503 Um, so I don't wanna call it a regret, 1037 00:41:02,503 --> 00:41:06,725 but I wish I had, um, more boundaries with Jen, 1038 00:41:06,725 --> 00:41:10,511 and I'm grateful for so much more. 1039 00:41:10,511 --> 00:41:12,121 - Thank you very much. - Oh. 1040 00:41:12,121 --> 00:41:13,296 - Thank you. - That actually looks lovely. 1041 00:41:13,296 --> 00:41:14,907 Beautiful. It actually does look lovely. 1042 00:41:14,907 --> 00:41:17,997 - Thank you, really lovely. - Beautiful. 1043 00:41:17,997 --> 00:41:19,346 - Well deserved. - Better than a churro. 1044 00:41:19,346 --> 00:41:21,000 Thank you so much. 1045 00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:22,305 - Better than what? - A churro. 1046 00:41:22,305 --> 00:41:24,220 - Yes, you're right. - Last year's churro. 1047 00:41:24,220 --> 00:41:29,008 Yeah, you're right. Well... [sighs] ladies... 1048 00:41:29,008 --> 00:41:32,011 you've been through a lot, and through it all, 1049 00:41:32,011 --> 00:41:34,535 you have each personally prevailed, 1050 00:41:34,535 --> 00:41:40,019 and you certainly, um, delivered a really enjoyable season. 1051 00:41:40,019 --> 00:41:43,501 - And let's go, Jazz. - Go, Jazz. 1052 00:41:43,501 --> 00:41:45,764 - Courtside seats. - Jazz! 1053 00:41:45,764 --> 00:41:48,462 - Cheers to courtside seats. - Cheers. 1054 00:41:48,462 --> 00:41:49,942 And, Lisa and Meredith, 1055 00:41:49,942 --> 00:41:51,987 since you've both celebrated birthdays this week, 1056 00:41:51,987 --> 00:41:55,469 our wish for your birthday 1057 00:41:55,469 --> 00:41:57,863 is that you find a path to reconciliation, 1058 00:41:57,863 --> 00:41:59,560 and we have a cake for the two of you. 1059 00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,344 - Oh! - I love it! 1060 00:42:01,344 --> 00:42:03,042 - A little joint... - It was $80,000. 1061 00:42:03,042 --> 00:42:07,699 ...Meredith and Lisa cake. Ladies, why don't you come in 1062 00:42:07,699 --> 00:42:09,135 and joint blow this out? - I love it. 1063 00:42:09,135 --> 00:42:10,397 Will you switch with me so I can have the pink side? 1064 00:42:10,397 --> 00:42:12,225 - Yes. Yes. - Okay. 1065 00:42:12,225 --> 00:42:14,488 Even though this is my good side. 1066 00:42:14,488 --> 00:42:15,707 Oh, perfect. 1067 00:42:15,707 --> 00:42:17,230 Thank you. See, that's the first step 1068 00:42:17,230 --> 00:42:19,232 towards reconciliation. - There you go. 1069 00:42:19,232 --> 00:42:20,407 I'm giving up my good side. She came to the bad side 1070 00:42:20,407 --> 00:42:21,451 so I could have the pink side. - Okay. 1071 00:42:21,451 --> 00:42:22,801 Make a wish then. Make a good wish. 1072 00:42:22,801 --> 00:42:24,367 - There you go. - Wait. Should we sing? 1073 00:42:24,367 --> 00:42:26,718 - ♪ Happy birthday to us - ♪ Happy birthday to you 1074 00:42:26,718 --> 00:42:29,590 ♪ Happy birthday 1075 00:42:29,590 --> 00:42:30,939 - ♪ Dear Lisa and Meredith - Us. 1076 00:42:30,939 --> 00:42:32,724 ♪ Dear Meredith and Lisa 1077 00:42:32,724 --> 00:42:36,466 - ♪ Happy birthday to us - ♪ Happy birthday to you 1078 00:42:37,598 --> 00:42:40,079 - Nice. - Whoo! 1079 00:42:40,079 --> 00:42:41,646 - Very good. - Nice. 1080 00:42:41,646 --> 00:42:44,213 Cheers. That was cute. Good. 1081 00:42:44,213 --> 00:42:46,128 - I love it. - Thank you. 1082 00:42:46,128 --> 00:42:48,914 - I need a piece of this. - You've got it now.