1
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<i>-[laughing]
-[woman clears throat]</i>

2
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<i>Amy Wheeler?</i>

3
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<i>[Amy in Italian] Excuse us</i>.</i>

4
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<i>[in English] Yes. Yes.</i>

5
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<i>[speaks Italian]</i>

6
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<i>[in Italian] Duchess.</i>

7
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<i>Nice to meet you. I'm Lino.</i>

8
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<i>Follow me.</i>

9
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<i>The larger rooms
to the west are not available.</i>

10
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<i>I ask that you use only
the small rooms in the back</i>

11
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<i>and the gardens for the ceremony itself,</i>

12
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<i>the grand dining room for the reception.</i>

13
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<i>[in English] You okay?</i>

14
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<i>Yes. Yes, we're getting married
in the city where we met. I'm perfect.</i>

15
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<i>[in Italian] Your family,
they are from America?</i>

16
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<i>Texas, you say, the cow state?</i>

17
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<i>[Amy] Yes.</i>

18
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<i>And you are from?</i>

19
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-Sicilia!
-[laughing]</i>

20
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<i>She took one look
at a Black American and a Sicilian...</i>

21
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<i>We did it all by phone.
The reservations, the hotel, everything.</i>

22
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<i>-Marrying in her precious mansion.
-[laughs]</i>

23
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<i>[in English] Bringing in the riffraff.</i>

24
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<i>Oh! And then she kept asking us,
"Are you sure you can pay?"</i>

25
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<i>[in Italian] "I remind you
the deposit is non-refundable."</i>

26
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<i>[in English] She made that clear.</i>

27
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<i>[in Italian] These decrepit
old aristocrats.</i>

28
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<i>But at least they have their snobbery.</i>

29
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<i>They have to rent their villas
to pay their taxes.</i>

30
00:02:07,961 --> 00:02:11,005
<i>And I would not be surprised
if your duchess hosted</i>

31
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<i>-one of Berlusconi's bunga-bunga parties.
-No!</i>

32
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<i>-[in English] They're so pretty, though.
-It's going to be fucking beautiful.</i>

33
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<i>[in Italian] I'm sorry
about your parents, Lino.</i>

34
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<i>It would have been nice
to celebrate with them in a fancy villa.</i>

35
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<i>[laughs]</i>

36
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<i>-[in English] Cheers.</i>
-</i><i>[all]</i> Salute!</i>

37
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<i>So, this welcome reception tomorrow...</i>

38
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<i>-I still don't know what it is.
-Oh, it's just Zora being Zora.</i>

39
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<i>She probably printed
our whole itinerary for all the guests.</i>

40
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<i>There's a reception,
then the rehearsal dinner.</i>

41
00:03:03,016 --> 00:03:04,517
<i>All the family reunions,</i>

42
00:03:04,601 --> 00:03:07,312
<i>she's always loved to be
on the hospitality committee.</i>

43
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<i>[Lino] Where I come from,</i>

44
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<i>a wedding is a big mass at the church
and then lunch after that.</i>

45
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<i>Are you okay with all this?</i>

46
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<i>[in Italian] They've had the invitation
for over a year.</i>

47
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<i>[in English] We knew it
would be like this, without them.</i>

48
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<i>[Amy] Hmm.</i>

49
00:03:26,497 --> 00:03:30,585
<i>But we're starting
our married life in a couple of days.</i>

50
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<i>[Amy exhales]</i>

51
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<i>-And that is all that matters to me.
-Yes.</i>

52
00:03:38,426 --> 00:03:41,137
<i>And we could still skip all this.</i>

53
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<i>And go somewhere quiet and marry alone.</i>

54
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<i>No.</i>

55
00:03:46,184 --> 00:03:50,271
<i>Okay, there's no going back.
You're about to become an honorary Texan.</i>

56
00:03:50,355 --> 00:03:52,232
<i>Your baptism starts tomorrow.</i>

57
00:03:52,315 --> 00:03:54,234
<i>-[chuckles]
-What's that?</i>

58
00:03:54,317 --> 00:03:56,694
<i>-[laughs]
-You dunk me in the barbecue sauce?</i>

59
00:03:56,778 --> 00:03:58,905
<i>No, hot sauce. [laughing]</i>

60
00:03:58,988 --> 00:04:00,657
<i>-Hot sauce.
-Yes.</i>

61
00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:07,747
<i>No, I mean, seriously,
I've already met a lot of your family.</i>

62
00:04:08,748 --> 00:04:10,375
<i>How many more can there be?</i>

63
00:04:19,384 --> 00:04:21,970
<i>[chattering]</i>

64
00:04:23,721 --> 00:04:26,516
<i>-[laughs] Oh, my goodness.
-[Amy squeals]</i>

65
00:04:26,599 --> 00:04:27,976
<i>-You made it!
-[Maxine] Oh!</i>

66
00:04:28,059 --> 00:04:30,520
<i>[laughing]</i>

67
00:04:30,603 --> 00:04:31,729
<i>[exclaims]</i>

68
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<i>-[Lino] Hi!
-[Maxine] You look wonderful.</i>

69
00:04:35,358 --> 00:04:36,693
<i>-How are you, man?
-[laughing]</i>

70
00:04:36,776 --> 00:04:40,446
<i>-[chattering]
-[laughing]</i>

71
00:04:40,530 --> 00:04:41,406
<i>How you doing?</i>

72
00:04:41,489 --> 00:04:42,991
<i>[laughing]</i>

73
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<i>Ah, like I taught you!
That's what I'm saying!</i>

74
00:04:46,119 --> 00:04:48,329
<i>[shouting]</i>

75
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<i>[chattering]</i>

76
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<i>[Maxine] Hershel.</i>

77
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<i>This is Lino, Grandma.</i>

78
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<i>[Lino] So nice to meet you.</i>

79
00:04:55,628 --> 00:04:59,632
<i>I thought the mother of the bride would've
had a seat in the front of the bus.</i>

80
00:05:00,300 --> 00:05:01,467
<i>Hi, Mama.</i>

81
00:05:01,551 --> 00:05:03,177
<i>-Hi, you look tired.
-Oh, thanks.</i>

82
00:05:03,261 --> 00:05:07,390
<i>They confiscated my chamomile leaves
at customs or I would make you a compress.</i>

83
00:05:07,473 --> 00:05:10,476
<i>So, I guess we're all going to look
like extras from the</i> Thriller</i> <i>video.</i>

84
00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:11,728
<i>[Amy chuckles]</i>

85
00:05:14,105 --> 00:05:14,981
<i>[Zora scoffs]</i>

86
00:05:16,441 --> 00:05:17,900
<i>Somebody's grumpy. [exhales]</i>

87
00:05:17,984 --> 00:05:22,196
<i>Somebody isn't happy to be at their
daughter's wedding without a plus-one.</i>

88
00:05:22,280 --> 00:05:24,490
<i>With their ex-husband around.</i>

89
00:05:25,283 --> 00:05:27,744
<i>Hi. Are you like the others,
from the United States?</i>

90
00:05:27,827 --> 00:05:29,662
<i>[in Italian] You're very beautiful,</i>
signorina.</i>

91
00:05:29,746 --> 00:05:31,414
<i>[chuckles] Ciao.</i>

92
00:05:31,998 --> 00:05:35,585
<i>-[in English] Are you catching?
-Me? Look at your mother.</i>

93
00:05:36,753 --> 00:05:39,630
<i>-[laughs] Well, thank you...
-Amir.</i>

94
00:05:40,506 --> 00:05:43,134
<i>-As-salaam-alaikum.
-Wa-alaikum-salaam.</i>

95
00:05:43,217 --> 00:05:46,888
<i>[laughs] Oh, thank you.
Is</i>...</i> <i>is that Valentino you're wearing?</i>

96
00:05:47,472 --> 00:05:50,016
<i>-[Amir] That's right. How'd you guess?
-[Lynn] Oh, I have an eye...</i>

97
00:05:50,099 --> 00:05:52,101
<i>-[laughing]
-[chattering continues]</i>

98
00:05:54,604 --> 00:05:56,147
<i>-Trouble.
-[Amy] Yeah.</i>

99
00:05:56,230 --> 00:05:58,149
<i>-I smell trouble.
-[chuckles]</i>

100
00:05:58,232 --> 00:05:59,067
<i>Come on.</i>

101
00:06:00,443 --> 00:06:03,696
<i>-[chattering]
-[laughing]</i>

102
00:06:04,530 --> 00:06:07,575
<i>The truth is I wasn't sure
about this old boy when I met him.</i>

103
00:06:07,658 --> 00:06:10,620
<i>I can't trust a man who don't
keep seasoning salt in his kitchen.</i>

104
00:06:10,703 --> 00:06:14,082
<i>You can't be no real chef
until you... till you get some Lawry's.</i>

105
00:06:14,165 --> 00:06:15,166
<i>[laughing]</i>

106
00:06:15,249 --> 00:06:18,086
<i>And Amy's job
is just getting off the ground.</i>

107
00:06:19,003 --> 00:06:22,757
<i>So, any of y'all with half
a east Texas education knows that</i>

108
00:06:22,840 --> 00:06:24,675
<i>I'm paying for all this. [chuckles]</i>

109
00:06:24,759 --> 00:06:27,011
<i>-But Maxine and I are real proud.
-Yes.</i>

110
00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,306
<i>And we can't wait
to walk our baby girl down the aisle.</i>

111
00:06:30,390 --> 00:06:32,850
<i>Uh-oh. Did he mention this to you?</i>

112
00:06:32,934 --> 00:06:34,769
<i>No, I think it's the bourbon talking.</i>

113
00:06:34,852 --> 00:06:38,064
<i>-So, drink up everybody.
-[cheering]</i>

114
00:06:39,524 --> 00:06:41,067
<i>-[Amy] Dad.
-Yeah.</i>

115
00:06:41,150 --> 00:06:43,236
<i>-Can we talk about this?
-Lino, what you drinking, man?</i>

116
00:06:43,319 --> 00:06:45,405
<i>-Uh, I'm fine. Thanks.
-Dad.</i>

117
00:06:45,988 --> 00:06:49,283
<i>It's just, well, Mom may
wanna walk me down the aisle too.</i>

118
00:06:49,367 --> 00:06:53,162
<i>[hesitates] How are three people
gonna walk down the aisle,</i>

119
00:06:53,246 --> 00:06:56,124
<i>looking like some kind of hobble cow?</i>

120
00:06:56,707 --> 00:07:00,461
<i>Hey, Lino, Lino.
Uh, what am I eating here?</i>

121
00:07:00,545 --> 00:07:03,047
<i>My kids ain't gonna eat this.
Is there a McDonald's somewhere?</i>

122
00:07:04,048 --> 00:07:06,342
<i>You gotta help me keep
these people under control.</i>

123
00:07:06,426 --> 00:07:08,678
<i>How come there ain't no HBO in my room?</i>

124
00:07:08,761 --> 00:07:10,930
<i>-What?
-Uh, I'll find out.</i>

125
00:07:11,013 --> 00:07:12,390
<i>Okay. Thanks.</i>

126
00:07:12,473 --> 00:07:15,810
<i>She's already asked twice if she
can use the stove in the hotel's kitchen</i>

127
00:07:15,893 --> 00:07:18,104
<i>to heat up her hot comb.</i>

128
00:07:18,187 --> 00:07:20,606
<i>Sicily? That's</i> in</i> <i>Italy, ain't it?</i>

129
00:07:20,690 --> 00:07:22,525
<i>[woman] Forty-five minute flight, I heard.</i>

130
00:07:22,608 --> 00:07:25,319
<i>My back's still smartin'
from that 13 hours in coach.</i>

131
00:07:25,403 --> 00:07:27,905
<i>Hell, I can get to Dallas
from Houston in 45 minutes.</i>

132
00:07:27,989 --> 00:07:28,823
<i>[woman] Mm-hmm.</i>

133
00:07:28,906 --> 00:07:30,533
<i>[man] That close
and his people ain't here?</i>

134
00:07:30,616 --> 00:07:32,618
<i>I'm sure they coming
to the actual ceremony.</i>

135
00:07:32,702 --> 00:07:35,455
<i>Come on. I don't know.
They would be here if they was coming.</i>

136
00:07:35,538 --> 00:07:39,167
<i>-[woman] You gotta be so negative.
-[mutters]</i>

137
00:07:39,250 --> 00:07:42,420
<i>[woman] You be nice. Be nice.
I can't take you nowhere.</i>

138
00:07:42,962 --> 00:07:47,592
<i>[Hershel] ♪</i> Non dimenticar</i>
My love is like a star ♪</i>

139
00:07:47,675 --> 00:07:48,509
<i>[Amy] Hey.</i>

140
00:07:49,177 --> 00:07:52,096
<i>♪</i> My darling... ♪</i>

141
00:07:52,180 --> 00:07:54,474
<i>That was just the whiskey talking, right?</i>

142
00:07:54,557 --> 00:07:58,269
<i>[chuckles] That whole thing
about Maxine walking me down the aisle.</i>

143
00:07:58,352 --> 00:08:02,899
<i>[sighs] Well, that would mean the world
to Maxine and to me, Amahle.</i>

144
00:08:03,566 --> 00:08:06,194
<i>But it's my wedding, Dad.
It's not about you.</i>

145
00:08:07,195 --> 00:08:09,113
<i>[chuckles] It's not about what you want.</i>

146
00:08:09,197 --> 00:08:10,907
<i>Tell that to my credit cards.</i>

147
00:08:11,949 --> 00:08:15,578
<i>-Mm.
-It's always like this with you two.</i>

148
00:08:15,661 --> 00:08:19,749
<i>I wanna start my marriage without having
to wade through the wreckage of yours.</i>

149
00:08:19,832 --> 00:08:22,251
<i>Do you know how proud of you we are?</i>

150
00:08:23,044 --> 00:08:25,338
<i>What this day means to Maxine and me?</i>

151
00:08:30,176 --> 00:08:31,969
<i>When Maxine took her vows,</i>

152
00:08:33,638 --> 00:08:35,598
<i>she took on you two girls as well.</i>

153
00:08:36,182 --> 00:08:38,643
<i>[sighs] When Lynn
walked out on the family,</i>

154
00:08:38,726 --> 00:08:41,854
<i>Maxine was there
to pick up the pieces for you girls.</i>

155
00:08:42,939 --> 00:08:44,023
<i>And for me.</i>

156
00:08:46,192 --> 00:08:47,568
<i>[inhales] So,</i>

157
00:08:48,611 --> 00:08:51,489
<i>I'm dead serious
about her being in that ceremony.</i>

158
00:08:56,744 --> 00:08:59,580
<i>♪ Non dimenticar... ♪</i>

159
00:09:00,164 --> 00:09:01,582
<i>They're driving me crazy!</i>

160
00:09:01,666 --> 00:09:04,335
<i>Do you want me
to referee this epic battle?</i>

161
00:09:04,919 --> 00:09:06,837
<i>I'm willing to step into the ring
if you want.</i>

162
00:09:06,921 --> 00:09:09,465
<i>I'm serious. They're ruining everything.</i>

163
00:09:09,549 --> 00:09:11,676
<i>[speaks Italian]</i>

164
00:09:12,385 --> 00:09:14,303
<i>They're just spectators in our love.</i>

165
00:09:14,387 --> 00:09:15,638
<i>Yes, let me show you.</i>

166
00:09:17,682 --> 00:09:20,601
<i>-[scoffs] A</i> Baci?
-Mm-hmm.</i>

167
00:09:28,568 --> 00:09:30,903
<i>-Are you gonna read the wrapper?
-Oh, no.</i>

168
00:09:31,737 --> 00:09:32,947
<i>I have a better one.</i>

169
00:09:36,117 --> 00:09:40,079
<i>"In dreams as in love, all is possible."</i>

170
00:09:40,162 --> 00:09:43,249
<i>This is the one from the first night
I showed you Florence.</i>

171
00:09:43,833 --> 00:09:46,877
<i>-I saved it.
-I love you. I love us.</i>

172
00:09:49,046 --> 00:09:52,592
<i>-Hey, it's all going to be fine.
-[exhales]</i>

173
00:09:55,845 --> 00:09:58,055
<i>Mom, you cannot honestly expect Amy</i>

174
00:09:58,139 --> 00:10:01,642
<i>to seat some random guy
you just met at the hotel with the family.</i>

175
00:10:01,726 --> 00:10:03,686
<i>-He's my date.
-You just met him.</i>

176
00:10:03,769 --> 00:10:05,896
<i>-Maxine gets a seat.
-She is our stepmom.</i>

177
00:10:05,980 --> 00:10:10,401
<i>Lynn, I will be sitting
with my husband Hershel.</i>

178
00:10:10,484 --> 00:10:14,447
<i>You remember Hershel.
Tall guy, you left him 20 years ago.</i>

179
00:10:14,530 --> 00:10:17,825
<i>Mm-hmm. So, you're putting
Amir over where the kids are?</i>

180
00:10:17,908 --> 00:10:20,202
<i>He is lucky to be here at all.</i>

181
00:10:22,204 --> 00:10:24,957
<i>Maybe you don't even want me seated
with the rest of the family...</i>

182
00:10:25,041 --> 00:10:26,876
<i>Mom, you're sitting at the center table.</i>

183
00:10:26,959 --> 00:10:30,171
<i>Yeah, with a woman I don't remember seeing
in the delivery room all those years.</i>

184
00:10:30,254 --> 00:10:31,380
<i>[bangs table] Mom!</i>

185
00:10:31,464 --> 00:10:35,509
<i>Let's just see what they got
to make you some green juice up in here.</i>

186
00:10:45,311 --> 00:10:46,646
<i>[knock on door]</i>

187
00:10:50,816 --> 00:10:52,193
<i>[Hershel chuckles] Ah.</i>

188
00:10:52,276 --> 00:10:55,154
<i>-Hi.
-Hey.</i> High Noon</i> <i>in Italian.</i>

189
00:10:55,237 --> 00:10:57,490
<i>[laughs]</i>

190
00:10:57,573 --> 00:10:59,033
<i>I need to ask you a favor.</i>

191
00:11:00,785 --> 00:11:02,119
<i>It's not money, is it?</i>

192
00:11:03,537 --> 00:11:05,247
<i>Can I borrow your rent-a-car?</i>

193
00:11:13,297 --> 00:11:15,716
<i>[Amy] I was looking
all over the villa for you.</i>

194
00:11:17,176 --> 00:11:19,095
<i>You just came back to the hotel?</i>

195
00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:21,013
<i>[Lynn] I needed a minute.</i>

196
00:11:21,764 --> 00:11:23,724
<i>-Amy, I left because...
-Because what?</i>

197
00:11:24,475 --> 00:11:26,894
<i>-Because that's what you always do?
-Amy, I need you to listen.</i>

198
00:11:29,188 --> 00:11:30,690
<i>I married too young.</i>

199
00:11:31,899 --> 00:11:34,944
<i>And all this time,
I've been telling myself</i>

200
00:11:35,444 --> 00:11:40,366
<i>that's why I let Hershel
take custody of you girls when we split.</i>

201
00:11:40,449 --> 00:11:45,079
<i>That y'all would be better off
'cause I didn't know who I was.</i>

202
00:11:45,871 --> 00:11:48,958
<i>And Maxine came along</i>

203
00:11:49,583 --> 00:11:50,793
<i>and proved me right.</i>

204
00:11:51,961 --> 00:11:52,837
<i>Mom.</i>

205
00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:57,425
<i>I am fighting
to have a place in your life, Amahle.</i>

206
00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:03,764
<i>And I know I should have
done better by you and Z.</i>

207
00:12:05,141 --> 00:12:10,187
<i>I'm just asking that you don't erase me
as your mother at your wedding.</i>

208
00:12:11,689 --> 00:12:14,567
<i>I'm asking for another chance.</i>

209
00:12:21,073 --> 00:12:22,074
<i>[Hershel sighs]</i>

210
00:12:24,577 --> 00:12:26,537
<i>-[grunts]
-You don't have to come.</i>

211
00:12:26,620 --> 00:12:29,123
<i>Long as this thing's
on my insurance, I do.</i>

212
00:12:33,127 --> 00:12:35,713
<i>-You kidnapping me, son?
-[laughs]</i>

213
00:12:35,796 --> 00:12:38,632
<i>-No, I just have to pick up my suit.
-Um... [clears throat]</i>

214
00:12:41,010 --> 00:12:44,388
<i>I'm not inclined to go anywhere with you
until I get some straight answers.</i>

215
00:12:45,306 --> 00:12:47,558
<i>What's going on
with you and your family, son?</i>

216
00:12:49,018 --> 00:12:50,227
<i>My understanding is</i>

217
00:12:50,811 --> 00:12:54,190
<i>you can get from Sicily to Florence
in the time it takes to get from...</i>

218
00:12:54,273 --> 00:12:56,275
<i>-Houston to Dallas.
-To Dallas. I know.</i>

219
00:12:58,569 --> 00:12:59,862
<i>So, why aren't they here?</i>

220
00:13:00,780 --> 00:13:01,906
<i>They don't approve.</i>

221
00:13:04,283 --> 00:13:06,744
<i>My father doesn't approve.</i>

222
00:13:06,827 --> 00:13:09,121
<i>-Of my child?
-Of me.</i>

223
00:13:09,747 --> 00:13:10,956
<i>[exhales]</i>

224
00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:12,374
<i>This is hard for them.</i>

225
00:13:13,250 --> 00:13:14,251
<i>For my father.</i>

226
00:13:15,795 --> 00:13:16,754
<i>He's a...</i>

227
00:13:18,756 --> 00:13:22,009
<i>proud man and marrying an American.</i>

228
00:13:22,092 --> 00:13:27,556
<i>I don't want to be disrespectful,
but you look at it from my father's eyes.</i>

229
00:13:28,557 --> 00:13:29,975
<i>You Americans all get divorced.</i>

230
00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:32,061
<i>You don't wanna be disrespectful?</i>

231
00:13:32,144 --> 00:13:35,648
<i>If he came to the wedding
and blessed the marriage</i>

232
00:13:35,731 --> 00:13:37,525
<i>and then it ends in a divorce,</i>

233
00:13:38,609 --> 00:13:41,654
<i>it would bring shame on him
and the whole family.</i>

234
00:13:43,781 --> 00:13:45,950
<i>And there's nothing worse for a Sicilian.</i>

235
00:13:53,541 --> 00:13:55,292
<i>This is the family I come from.</i>

236
00:14:00,297 --> 00:14:01,131
<i>Understood.</i>

237
00:14:03,509 --> 00:14:04,343
<i>So...</i>

238
00:14:07,304 --> 00:14:08,180
<i>Where are we going?</i>

239
00:14:08,848 --> 00:14:09,849
<i>[chuckles]</i>

240
00:14:12,935 --> 00:14:14,311
<i>[Amy] Mom's impossible.</i>

241
00:14:14,395 --> 00:14:15,604
<i>She is.</i>

242
00:14:15,688 --> 00:14:18,065
<i>-Dad's being so pushy.
-He is.</i>

243
00:14:18,148 --> 00:14:19,984
<i>[sighs] I'm telling you,</i>

244
00:14:20,067 --> 00:14:22,736
<i>Maxine one day is gonna haul off
and knock those two out.</i>

245
00:14:22,820 --> 00:14:25,281
<i>-She is.
-[laughing]</i>

246
00:14:26,115 --> 00:14:29,660
<i>How do you say "jumping the broom"
in Italian, by the way?</i>

247
00:14:29,743 --> 00:14:31,704
<i>Somebody should explain it to the best man</i>

248
00:14:31,787 --> 00:14:34,999
<i>before he thinks Black people
everywhere just like cleaning shit.</i>

249
00:14:35,082 --> 00:14:38,002
<i>[chuckling]</i>

250
00:14:38,836 --> 00:14:39,879
<i>[Zora] Hmm.</i>

251
00:14:40,588 --> 00:14:41,630
<i>Is it weird?</i>

252
00:14:42,214 --> 00:14:43,841
<i>His parents not being here?</i>

253
00:14:44,425 --> 00:14:48,012
<i>What's weird is Mom
has a date for this wedding, and I don't.</i>

254
00:14:48,762 --> 00:14:51,015
<i>Well, we can call
that bus driver if you'd like.</i>

255
00:14:51,098 --> 00:14:53,142
<i>-Or that guy from that leather shop?
-[huffs] Amy.</i>

256
00:14:53,225 --> 00:14:55,769
<i>-I'm not interested in those men.
-Ooh!</i>

257
00:14:55,853 --> 00:14:57,771
<i>I met someone back home.</i>

258
00:14:58,355 --> 00:14:59,940
<i>-What?
-Mm-hmm.</i>

259
00:15:00,733 --> 00:15:03,777
<i>-And you didn't tell me?
-Well, you've been a little busy.</i>

260
00:15:05,070 --> 00:15:06,447
<i>Who is he? What's his name?</i>

261
00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:09,116
<i>Ken.</i>

262
00:15:10,284 --> 00:15:12,786
<i>-Z.
-Mm-hmm. [chuckles]</i>

263
00:15:20,753 --> 00:15:22,880
<i>What if his parents don't accept me?</i>

264
00:15:28,052 --> 00:15:30,179
<i>Can a marriage work like that?</i>

265
00:15:31,096 --> 00:15:34,016
<i>I don't think you and I
know how a marriage works.</i>

266
00:15:34,099 --> 00:15:35,351
<i>[exhales]</i>

267
00:15:35,434 --> 00:15:37,394
<i>You're gonna have to find out on your own.</i>

268
00:15:37,478 --> 00:15:39,730
<i>[Amy sighs, sets down glass]</i>

269
00:15:43,108 --> 00:15:45,194
<i>[exhales]</i>

270
00:15:45,694 --> 00:15:46,528
<i>Truth?</i>

271
00:15:49,740 --> 00:15:53,035
<i>[exhales] I wish
they were here to see this.</i>

272
00:15:53,911 --> 00:15:54,870
<i>Lino's parents.</i>

273
00:15:56,288 --> 00:15:59,249
<i>I wish the whole world
could see this wedding.</i>

274
00:16:00,542 --> 00:16:02,628
<i>It is incredible what you've done.</i>

275
00:16:04,713 --> 00:16:07,299
<i>Our ancestors had to hide getting married.</i>

276
00:16:07,383 --> 00:16:10,386
<i>And now you're
jumping the broom in a villa,</i>

277
00:16:10,469 --> 00:16:12,972
<i>overlooking some Michelangelo shit.</i>

278
00:16:13,055 --> 00:16:15,975
<i>[laughing]</i>

279
00:16:16,058 --> 00:16:18,852
<i>You did it your way,
and I am proud of you.</i>

280
00:16:21,271 --> 00:16:22,564
<i>You got it, girl.</i>

281
00:16:36,286 --> 00:16:37,913
<i>[in Sicilian] I've given you my life.</i>

282
00:16:38,414 --> 00:16:39,415
<i>And two children.</i>

283
00:16:42,126 --> 00:16:44,670
<i>I've put food on your plate,
day and night.</i>

284
00:16:45,504 --> 00:16:46,880
<i>Day and night.</i>

285
00:16:48,257 --> 00:16:49,800
<i>I've given you everything.</i>

286
00:16:51,552 --> 00:16:53,512
<i>But that's my son, Giacomo.</i>

287
00:16:54,179 --> 00:16:55,180
<i>He's our son.</i>

288
00:16:57,182 --> 00:16:59,435
<i>He should have asked me for permission.</i>

289
00:17:00,978 --> 00:17:02,062
<i>To fall in love?</i>

290
00:17:02,771 --> 00:17:04,481
<i>This is defiance.</i>

291
00:17:04,565 --> 00:17:05,858
<i>For love?</i>

292
00:17:09,653 --> 00:17:10,571
<i>First...</i>

293
00:17:12,489 --> 00:17:13,866
<i>when he left for school.</i>

294
00:17:16,326 --> 00:17:17,995
<i>And then when he ditched us...</i>

295
00:17:21,290 --> 00:17:23,083
<i>to play in the kitchen!</i>

296
00:17:24,418 --> 00:17:26,545
<i>The cook. The chef.</i>

297
00:17:27,755 --> 00:17:28,589
<i>The chef.</i>

298
00:17:32,217 --> 00:17:34,970
<i>He's... he's a disgrace.</i>

299
00:17:35,054 --> 00:17:38,599
<i>-He's my son, Giacomo!
-We're not going!</i>

300
00:17:38,682 --> 00:17:40,684
<i>[panting]</i>

301
00:17:58,577 --> 00:18:00,579
<i>-Auguri!</i>
-[Lynn in English] Thank you!</i>

302
00:18:01,830 --> 00:18:02,664
<i>Auguri.</i>

303
00:18:03,540 --> 00:18:04,374
<i>[Lynn]</i> Grazie.</i>

304
00:18:04,458 --> 00:18:05,793
<i>Auguri.</i>

305
00:18:06,502 --> 00:18:07,336
<i>[Lynn]</i> Grazie.</i>

306
00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:09,254
<i>-Oh-oh!
-I'm sorry.</i>

307
00:18:09,338 --> 00:18:10,798
<i>Auguri.</i>

308
00:18:10,881 --> 00:18:13,884
<i>-Grazie, signora.</i>
-[laughing]</i>

309
00:18:13,967 --> 00:18:17,304
<i>-Auguri!</i>
-[Lynn] Yay! My daughter!</i>

310
00:18:22,851 --> 00:18:25,104
<i>-[gasps]
-You look beautiful.</i>

311
00:18:25,187 --> 00:18:27,231
<i>-Thank you.
-[chuckling]</i>

312
00:18:27,314 --> 00:18:28,857
<i>[Maxine] Something blue.</i>

313
00:18:30,442 --> 00:18:33,153
<i>We are not going to
let you go to your altar</i>

314
00:18:33,237 --> 00:18:36,573
<i>without something
old, new, borrowed, and blue.</i>

315
00:18:36,657 --> 00:18:39,493
<i>Somehow, in all the hubbub,
I totally forgot about this part.</i>

316
00:18:39,576 --> 00:18:42,621
<i>Now, I just put
a few things together from everybody.</i>

317
00:18:42,704 --> 00:18:43,747
<i>I hope I didn't overstep.</i>

318
00:18:44,665 --> 00:18:46,375
<i>Maxine, this is... [inhales]</i>

319
00:18:54,007 --> 00:18:55,217
<i>Oh, Grandma.</i>

320
00:18:57,636 --> 00:18:59,555
<i>It's so beautiful.</i>

321
00:18:59,638 --> 00:19:02,474
<i>-And borrowed.
-[laughs]</i>

322
00:19:07,521 --> 00:19:09,273
<i>[clicks tongue] This is lovely.</i>

323
00:19:10,315 --> 00:19:11,316
<i>It's new.</i>

324
00:19:12,901 --> 00:19:13,819
<i>[gasps]</i>

325
00:19:15,529 --> 00:19:17,072
<i>So, I'm the old, then.</i>

326
00:19:17,156 --> 00:19:18,240
<i>[clears throat]</i>

327
00:19:35,966 --> 00:19:37,301
<i>[clicks tongue] Oh.</i>

328
00:19:39,386 --> 00:19:40,220
<i>Oh.</i>

329
00:19:44,391 --> 00:19:45,976
<i>My sweet girl.</i>

330
00:19:46,768 --> 00:19:47,936
<i>[Amy sighs]</i>

331
00:19:48,896 --> 00:19:50,230
<i>-[Lynn kisses]
-[Amy exhales]</i>

332
00:19:50,814 --> 00:19:52,024
<i>-[exhales]
-[laughs]</i>

333
00:19:52,107 --> 00:19:53,692
<i>I knew he kept that photo.</i>

334
00:19:53,775 --> 00:19:55,277
<i>[laughing]</i>

335
00:19:55,360 --> 00:19:58,447
<i>-You look just like me.
-[laughing]</i>

336
00:20:03,577 --> 00:20:05,204
<i>[sighs]</i>

337
00:20:06,038 --> 00:20:08,123
<i>-[Hershel] I hope you don't mind.
-[gasps]</i>

338
00:20:08,624 --> 00:20:10,792
<i>But I thought
you could use one final touch.</i>

339
00:20:11,877 --> 00:20:12,753
<i>[Lino chuckles]</i>

340
00:20:17,049 --> 00:20:19,301
<i>[laughing]</i>

341
00:20:23,555 --> 00:20:26,391
<i>-Now, look at that.
-[chuckles]</i>

342
00:20:27,059 --> 00:20:30,479
<i>-You're a little bit Texas now.
-[laughing]</i>

343
00:20:33,815 --> 00:20:34,942
<i>You look good, son.</i>

344
00:20:37,444 --> 00:20:38,278
<i>You ready?</i>

345
00:20:44,785 --> 00:20:46,787
<i>[chattering]</i>

346
00:21:00,676 --> 00:21:02,678
<i>[footsteps approach]</i>

347
00:21:29,663 --> 00:21:31,999
<i>-[sighs]
-[speaks Italian]</i>

348
00:21:33,542 --> 00:21:34,501
<i>Wow.</i>

349
00:21:37,337 --> 00:21:39,214
<i>You look pretty... [sighs]</i>

350
00:21:39,298 --> 00:21:42,175
<i>-...wow yourself.
-[laughing]</i>

351
00:21:45,679 --> 00:21:47,097
<i>What are you doing here?</i>

352
00:21:49,474 --> 00:21:51,143
<i>[speaks Italian]</i>

353
00:21:53,687 --> 00:21:56,606
<i>[in English] I guess I held out hope
that they might come after all.</i>

354
00:21:59,693 --> 00:22:02,237
<i>I've never pictured
my wedding without my family.</i>

355
00:22:09,328 --> 00:22:10,162
<i>Lino.</i>

356
00:22:11,163 --> 00:22:11,997
<i>Amore.</i>

357
00:22:14,333 --> 00:22:17,794
<i>Those people out there,
they're my crazy family.</i>

358
00:22:18,628 --> 00:22:20,255
<i>[chuckles]</i>

359
00:22:20,339 --> 00:22:23,050
<i>And the people
in Sicily are your crazy family.</i>

360
00:22:25,469 --> 00:22:26,303
<i>But this...</i>

361
00:22:27,763 --> 00:22:28,930
<i>this is our family.</i>

362
00:22:31,058 --> 00:22:33,518
<i>Just us, right now, going forward.</i>

363
00:22:34,603 --> 00:22:35,479
<i>Just us.</i>

364
00:22:37,230 --> 00:22:38,357
<i>Solo noi.</i>

365
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:40,108
<i>[chuckles]</i> Solo noi.</i>

366
00:22:42,027 --> 00:22:44,613
<i>["Con Te Partirò"
by Andrea Bocelli playing]</i>

367
00:24:10,031 --> 00:24:12,033
<i>[music playing over dialogue]</i>

368
00:24:32,721 --> 00:24:34,347
<i>[music continues]</i>

369
00:24:56,411 --> 00:24:57,704
<i>[cheering]</i>

370
00:25:24,189 --> 00:25:26,191
<i>[cheering]</i>

371
00:25:33,615 --> 00:25:36,409
<i>-[tapping]
-[man clears throat]</i>

372
00:25:36,493 --> 00:25:38,036
<i>I'd like to say something.</i>

373
00:25:42,707 --> 00:25:46,419
<i>Marriage is like a shoe.</i>

374
00:25:48,338 --> 00:25:51,174
<i>Well, like a journey in a shoe.</i>

375
00:25:52,509 --> 00:25:53,593
<i>Yeah, hold that for me.</i>

376
00:25:54,511 --> 00:25:56,179
<i>At some point in time,</i>

377
00:25:56,972 --> 00:25:58,306
<i>no matter what you do,</i>

378
00:25:58,848 --> 00:26:02,477
<i>how tight you tie 'em,
you're gonna get a pebble in your shoe.</i>

379
00:26:02,561 --> 00:26:03,478
<i>What?</i>

380
00:26:04,646 --> 00:26:06,565
<i>[Lynn] What most people don't know...</i>

381
00:26:07,148 --> 00:26:09,568
<i>hell, some of y'all
up in here right now don't know...</i>

382
00:26:10,402 --> 00:26:11,820
<i>that a good marriage</i>

383
00:26:13,738 --> 00:26:19,160
<i>gives you permission to face
that pebble before it becomes a boulder.</i>

384
00:26:19,244 --> 00:26:22,539
<i>Because limping ain't living.</i>

385
00:26:24,624 --> 00:26:28,670
<i>Baby girl, I wanna tell you what I wish</i>

386
00:26:29,254 --> 00:26:31,506
<i>someone would've told me and your father.</i>

387
00:26:33,675 --> 00:26:35,969
<i>You gotta face that pebble.</i>

388
00:26:37,679 --> 00:26:38,680
<i>Whatever it is.</i>

389
00:26:40,307 --> 00:26:42,892
<i>Don't let it fester, tearing up your foot.</i>

390
00:26:44,561 --> 00:26:48,607
<i>I was stubborn
and didn't take my shoes off a few times.</i>

391
00:26:48,690 --> 00:26:51,192
<i>-And it cost me.
-[Hershel exhales]</i>

392
00:26:51,276 --> 00:26:52,110
<i>[Lynn] A lot.</i>

393
00:26:53,069 --> 00:26:54,571
<i>And I don't want that for you.</i>

394
00:26:57,240 --> 00:26:58,116
<i>Gimme that back.</i>

395
00:27:03,246 --> 00:27:05,373
<i>[clears throat] Well...</i>

396
00:27:05,457 --> 00:27:06,333
<i>[grunts]</i>

397
00:27:08,501 --> 00:27:11,004
<i>I wasn't perfect either. Still ain't.</i>

398
00:27:14,090 --> 00:27:17,010
<i>But these two, they're something else.</i>

399
00:27:17,093 --> 00:27:20,347
-Cin Cin.
-[all]</i> Cin cin!</i>

400
00:27:23,224 --> 00:27:26,561
<i>Okay, okay, my turn.</i>

401
00:27:26,645 --> 00:27:28,563
<i>-[chuckling]
-[Zora clears throat]</i>

402
00:27:29,856 --> 00:27:34,277
<i>To my brave, beautiful sister.</i>

403
00:27:34,861 --> 00:27:36,446
<i>Anybody can fall in love.</i>

404
00:27:37,405 --> 00:27:39,532
<i>But with our history,</i>

405
00:27:39,616 --> 00:27:44,704
<i>it is something else
to walk into it eyes and heart open.</i>

406
00:27:45,455 --> 00:27:48,500
<i>Lino, you will always have my heart</i>

407
00:27:48,583 --> 00:27:51,544
<i>because of the way
that you care for my sister's.</i>

408
00:27:52,087 --> 00:27:52,921
<i>[Hershel] Amen.</i>

409
00:27:54,172 --> 00:27:55,674
<i>Keep the free meals coming.</i>

410
00:27:55,757 --> 00:27:59,719
<i>-[laughing]
-And we gonna get along just fine.</i>

411
00:28:02,430 --> 00:28:05,892
<i>-["Outstanding" by the Gap Band playing]
-[cheering]</i>

412
00:28:14,150 --> 00:28:16,403
<i>-[chattering]
-[laughing]</i>

413
00:28:23,702 --> 00:28:25,120
<i>Come on. Left!</i>

414
00:28:28,873 --> 00:28:29,791
<i>Go to the back!</i>

415
00:28:31,626 --> 00:28:34,295
<i>♪ Girl, you're looking sweeter now ♪</i>

416
00:28:36,506 --> 00:28:39,050
<i>♪ You got it every day, girl ♪</i>

417
00:28:41,302 --> 00:28:43,805
<i>♪ Wish that I could love you now ♪</i>

418
00:28:46,224 --> 00:28:48,226
<i>♪ In a special way ♪</i>

419
00:28:50,437 --> 00:28:53,815
<i>♪ You light my fire ♪</i>

420
00:28:55,275 --> 00:28:59,404
<i>♪ I feel alive with you, baby ♪</i>

421
00:29:00,155 --> 00:29:03,491
<i>♪ You blow my mind... ♪</i>

422
00:29:07,495 --> 00:29:11,666
<i>[man in Italian]</i>
Train is now boarding on track five.</i>

423
00:29:18,423 --> 00:29:20,049
<i>[Lino sighs]</i>

424
00:29:23,511 --> 00:29:24,637
<i>[in English] Are you sure?</i>

425
00:29:25,847 --> 00:29:27,766
<i>You're too close to home,</i> amore.</i>

426
00:29:28,641 --> 00:29:32,395
<i>[hesitates] Our honeymoon and...
and... and the hotel in Torino.</i>

427
00:29:33,354 --> 00:29:37,984
<i>I can't start our life together knowing
that our marriage cost you your family.</i>

428
00:29:39,402 --> 00:29:42,197
<i>Amore,</i> the fight is ancient</i>
with my father and...</i>

429
00:29:42,822 --> 00:29:45,158
<i>And I would still choose you
again and again and again.</i>

430
00:29:45,241 --> 00:29:47,744
<i>But I don't want you to have to choose.</i>

431
00:29:48,328 --> 00:29:49,537
<i>I can't live with that.</i>

432
00:29:51,998 --> 00:29:53,583
<i>[speaks Italian]</i>

433
00:29:56,544 --> 00:29:58,713
<i>[laughing]</i>

434
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:07,806
<i>-To show you Sicily.
-[gasps]</i>

435
00:30:07,889 --> 00:30:09,849
<i>[laughing]</i>

436
00:30:09,933 --> 00:30:11,768
<i>-Amore.</i> [laughs]</i>
-I can't wait.</i>

437
00:30:33,581 --> 00:30:34,833
<i>I can smell the sea.</i>

438
00:30:36,584 --> 00:30:37,961
<i>[speaks Italian]</i>

439
00:30:39,462 --> 00:30:41,381
<i>I'll tell my family we got here.</i>

440
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:49,138
<i>Un giorno st'aceddu. Uh, volò.</i>

441
00:30:49,222 --> 00:30:52,100
<i>Telaglia, befaglia, viscottu e minaglia</i>

442
00:30:52,183 --> 00:30:54,686
<i>Chiangeva la figghia, bafigghia
Viscottu e minigghia</i>

443
00:30:54,769 --> 00:30:56,896
<i>Che voleva l'acceddu
Bafello, viscottu e minello</i>

444
00:30:56,980 --> 00:31:00,900
<i>-Se l'acceddu, viscottu e minello, volava.</i>
-[telephone ringing]</i>

445
00:31:03,194 --> 00:31:04,529
<i>-[clicks]</i>
-Pronto.</i>

446
00:31:08,950 --> 00:31:09,993
<i>[speaks Sicilian]</i>

447
00:31:11,911 --> 00:31:13,162
<i>[in Sicilian] I'm home.</i>

448
00:31:14,163 --> 00:31:15,248
<i>I'm in Sicily.</i>

449
00:31:15,832 --> 00:31:17,125
<i>Your home is in America.</i>

450
00:31:17,750 --> 00:31:18,585
<i>Not here.</i>

451
00:31:19,210 --> 00:31:20,253
<i>Is it Lino?</i>

452
00:31:22,213 --> 00:31:23,923
<i>What are you saying? This is my home.</i>

453
00:31:24,007 --> 00:31:25,800
<i>Not anymore it's not.</i>

454
00:31:26,801 --> 00:31:28,469
<i>Do not come to town!</i>

455
00:31:35,935 --> 00:31:36,811
<i>[in English] Hey.</i>

456
00:31:37,395 --> 00:31:39,564
<i>Hey. What happened?</i>

457
00:31:39,647 --> 00:31:41,149
<i>[in Italian] We're not going.</i>

458
00:31:42,567 --> 00:31:43,401
<i>[in English] What?</i>

459
00:31:43,484 --> 00:31:44,861
<i>[in Italian] We're not going.</i>

460
00:31:44,944 --> 00:31:46,779
<i>[in English] Uh, just like that?</i>

461
00:31:46,863 --> 00:31:48,364
<i>We just got here. [chuckles]</i>

462
00:31:49,407 --> 00:31:51,034
<i>[in Italian] We're not welcome.</i>

463
00:31:52,493 --> 00:31:55,997
<i>-[in English] What does that mean?
-It means "do not come."</i>

464
00:32:00,668 --> 00:32:03,963
<i>So, what I'd like to do right now is
to show my wife my beautiful island.</i>

465
00:32:04,714 --> 00:32:08,676
<i>So, let's get a hotel in Cefalù
and get you something to eat.</i>

466
00:32:15,266 --> 00:32:19,270
<i>[in Sicilian] Everything is like dirt
on my tongue knowing that he's so close.</i>

467
00:32:23,816 --> 00:32:25,401
<i>Don't you see what you're doing to her?</i>

468
00:32:26,611 --> 00:32:29,656
<i>If you're standing, turn on the TV.</i>

469
00:32:38,206 --> 00:32:39,916
<i>Open it back up.</i>

470
00:32:43,252 --> 00:32:45,380
<i>Out of respect for you, I closed the door.</i>

471
00:32:47,256 --> 00:32:50,051
<i>And out of respect for you,
I missed Lino's wedding.</i>

472
00:32:50,134 --> 00:32:51,928
<i>Mama missed her son's wedding.</i>

473
00:32:52,011 --> 00:32:56,057
<i>And again out of respect for you,
your son still hasn't met his niece Lina.</i>

474
00:33:00,186 --> 00:33:01,521
<i>That's not her name.</i>

475
00:33:03,314 --> 00:33:04,941
<i>Her name is Rosalina.</i>

476
00:33:05,024 --> 00:33:06,317
<i>Her name is Lina.</i>

477
00:33:06,859 --> 00:33:10,363
<i>Because I named her after my brother.
A brother I want to see, Papa!</i>

478
00:33:13,574 --> 00:33:14,450
<i>You picked him.</i>

479
00:33:15,576 --> 00:33:16,536
<i>Do something.</i>

480
00:33:38,099 --> 00:33:39,142
<i>[water running]</i>

481
00:33:44,105 --> 00:33:45,773
<i>-Pronto.</i>
-[Amy]</i> <i>Biagia.</i>

482
00:33:45,815 --> 00:33:47,275
<i>[in Italian] </i>This is Amy, the...</i>

483
00:33:47,358 --> 00:33:48,985
<i>I know who you are.</i>

484
00:33:49,068 --> 00:33:50,945
<i>Lino doesn't know I'm calling you.</i>

485
00:33:51,529 --> 00:33:52,572
<i>Of course not.</i>

486
00:33:53,156 --> 00:33:54,824
<i>He's as stubborn as our father. [chuckles]</i>

487
00:33:56,451 --> 00:33:58,494
<i>[chuckles] What can we do?</i>

488
00:33:58,578 --> 00:34:02,040
<i>Lino really wants to meet Rosalina
and see you and his mother.</i>

489
00:34:02,123 --> 00:34:04,417
<i>Maybe he could visit
when your father is away.</i>

490
00:34:05,001 --> 00:34:07,420
<i>This is a small town.
My father would find out.</i>

491
00:34:07,503 --> 00:34:09,839
<i>The gossip would make things worse.</i>

492
00:34:10,423 --> 00:34:13,217
<i>-Understand?</i>
-</i><i>I'm trying.</i>

493
00:34:13,301 --> 00:34:16,846
<i>For my father to command respect,
we must follow his lead.</i>

494
00:34:16,929 --> 00:34:19,057
<i>To do otherwise would embarrass him</i>

495
00:34:19,932 --> 00:34:22,351
<i>and bring shame on the family.</i>

496
00:34:22,852 --> 00:34:24,771
<i>A punishment
that brings pain for everyone.</i>

497
00:34:24,854 --> 00:34:26,481
<i>Especially my mother.</i>

498
00:34:30,401 --> 00:34:32,153
<i>Then can you come to us?</i>

499
00:34:33,237 --> 00:34:36,282
<i>We're at Hotel Baia del Mare
on the outskirts of Cefalù.</i>

500
00:34:36,365 --> 00:34:39,535
<i>Away from Castelleone. No one would know.</i>

501
00:34:43,831 --> 00:34:46,834
<i>You need to meet us halfway.</i>

502
00:34:46,918 --> 00:34:50,129
<i>Your father must know
that we are extending an olive branch,</i>

503
00:34:50,213 --> 00:34:52,298
<i>the biggest in all of Sicily.</i>

504
00:34:53,216 --> 00:34:56,677
<i>[sighs] Please, come on.
We have little time.</i>

505
00:34:56,761 --> 00:34:58,721
<i>I'm just happy you're still here.</i>

506
00:35:01,057 --> 00:35:02,683
<i>[exhales] All right.</i>

507
00:35:03,476 --> 00:35:05,770
<i>My mother and I
will keep working on my father.</i>

508
00:35:05,853 --> 00:35:06,979
<i>We'll find a way.</i>

509
00:35:07,063 --> 00:35:08,731
<i>We'll meet you there at 6 p.m.</i>

510
00:35:09,899 --> 00:35:10,733
<i>We'll come.</i>

511
00:35:11,359 --> 00:35:13,653
<i>We'll be here at 6.</i>

512
00:35:17,448 --> 00:35:19,200
<i>[in English] You called my sister?</i>

513
00:35:19,283 --> 00:35:22,870
<i>-She's coming to the hotel at six today.
-Hmm.</i>

514
00:35:22,954 --> 00:35:25,039
<i>Uh, with your niece Rosalina.</i>

515
00:35:26,707 --> 00:35:27,625
<i>Your mom too.</i>

516
00:35:28,751 --> 00:35:30,586
<i>[chuckles, speaks Italian]</i>

517
00:35:31,963 --> 00:35:32,922
<i>[exhales]</i>

518
00:35:33,005 --> 00:35:36,050
<i>Do you think it's possible
that your father might...</i>

519
00:35:36,134 --> 00:35:39,595
<i>[exhales] Let's... let's just walk.</i>

520
00:35:40,179 --> 00:35:41,973
<i>-Okay.
-Okay, and...</i>

521
00:35:43,141 --> 00:35:46,435
<i>keep our eyes on the good things
and the good food.</i>

522
00:35:46,519 --> 00:35:47,895
<i>[Amy laughs]</i>

523
00:35:48,521 --> 00:35:50,481
<i>[Lino speaks Italian]</i>

524
00:35:50,565 --> 00:35:51,732
<i>-Panelle.
-Panelle.</i>

525
00:35:52,984 --> 00:35:55,695
-[Amy] Mmm!</i> <i>Grazie.</i>
-[Lino]</i> <i>Grazie.</i>

526
00:36:00,032 --> 00:36:01,534
<i>[Amy] Oh, wow. What's this?</i>

527
00:36:01,617 --> 00:36:03,786
<i>-[speaks Italian]
-Okay.</i>

528
00:36:03,870 --> 00:36:04,704
<i>[shutter clicks]</i>

529
00:36:04,787 --> 00:36:08,833
<i>The spleen and the lungs
that are boiled in the lard.</i>

530
00:36:12,962 --> 00:36:14,172
<i>-[shutter clicks]
-[laughs]</i>

531
00:36:14,255 --> 00:36:15,089
<i>Grazie.</i>

532
00:36:16,632 --> 00:36:19,010
<i>-[speaks Italian]
-It's the best.</i>

533
00:36:40,364 --> 00:36:41,532
<i>[grunts]</i>

534
00:37:19,987 --> 00:37:21,364
<i>[in Sicilian] What is this?</i>

535
00:37:26,077 --> 00:37:26,994
<i>Where's the sauce?</i>

536
00:37:27,578 --> 00:37:28,412
<i>We ran out.</i>

537
00:37:30,206 --> 00:37:31,457
<i>There's no more left.</i>

538
00:37:38,589 --> 00:37:40,341
<i>[shutter clicks]</i>

539
00:38:00,736 --> 00:38:02,863
<i>[Amy in Italian]
Your artwork is beautiful.</i>

540
00:38:03,614 --> 00:38:07,326
<i>I bet your work
would be amazing on canvas.</i>

541
00:38:07,410 --> 00:38:09,120
<i>The stone is my canvas.</i>

542
00:38:10,413 --> 00:38:13,249
<i>If it rains, I'll come back tomorrow.</i>

543
00:38:14,709 --> 00:38:15,710
<i>Would you like a photo?</i>

544
00:38:25,011 --> 00:38:26,470
<i>No, thank you.</i>

545
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:28,889
<i>That's okay.</i>

546
00:38:30,349 --> 00:38:31,183
<i>Ciao.</i>

547
00:38:34,895 --> 00:38:38,691
<i>-[man] Ever made roasted</i> provola</i> <i>cheese?
-Damn, it's so good.</i>

548
00:38:39,650 --> 00:38:41,193
<i>[in English] This a friend of yours?</i>

549
00:38:41,277 --> 00:38:42,737
<i>Oh, no. No, we just met.</i>

550
00:38:42,820 --> 00:38:45,406
<i>[in Italian] I'm making sure
it's well-packaged for the trip.</i>

551
00:38:45,489 --> 00:38:46,699
<i>What's well-packaged?</i>

552
00:38:46,782 --> 00:38:51,162
<i>The cake we're taking back
to this man's friend in Los Angeles.</i>

553
00:38:51,787 --> 00:38:54,623
<i>-Wait, what?
-He's actually my third cousin. Antonio.</i>

554
00:38:54,707 --> 00:38:57,668
<i>He left here ages ago. He'll love it.</i>

555
00:38:57,752 --> 00:39:00,254
<i>[in English] So, we're taking a cake
to a complete stranger?</i>

556
00:39:00,338 --> 00:39:01,547
<i>He's not a stranger.</i>

557
00:39:02,298 --> 00:39:03,924
<i>-He's Sicilian.
-[laughs]</i>

558
00:39:04,842 --> 00:39:08,179
<i>[in Italian] Do you have an address
for your cousin Antonio?</i>

559
00:39:08,262 --> 00:39:11,474
<i>Of course.
He lives in the zone of Hollywood.</i>

560
00:39:11,557 --> 00:39:12,641
<i>[in English] Hollywood?</i>

561
00:39:12,725 --> 00:39:15,978
<i>You're not planning on taking
this cake back to Los Angeles, are you?</i>

562
00:39:16,062 --> 00:39:17,480
<i>[laughs] Of course we are.</i>

563
00:39:19,482 --> 00:39:20,691
<i>[laughs]</i>

564
00:39:21,275 --> 00:39:22,818
<i>-Okay, this is it.
-[Amy sighs]</i>

565
00:39:22,902 --> 00:39:25,988
<i>-I wanna get there before they do. Okay.
-Okay.</i>

566
00:39:26,572 --> 00:39:27,823
<i>-Grazie.</i>
-[man] Arrivederci.</i>

567
00:39:27,907 --> 00:39:30,034
<i>[speaks Italian]</i>

568
00:39:30,117 --> 00:39:31,619
<i>-Ciao.
-[speaks Italian]</i>

569
00:39:37,375 --> 00:39:40,586
<i>[exhales] It's the wedding all over again.</i>

570
00:39:43,964 --> 00:39:46,467
<i>You should go to your town without me.</i>

571
00:39:47,426 --> 00:39:48,886
<i>This is bigger than me.</i>

572
00:39:49,762 --> 00:39:52,181
<i>You need to go
and fix things with your family.</i>

573
00:39:52,264 --> 00:39:55,101
<i>I'm not going anywhere without my wife.</i>

574
00:39:55,810 --> 00:39:59,480
<i>Because every choice I made
that he hates, they led me to you.</i>

575
00:40:02,983 --> 00:40:06,320
<i>Trust me. He's stewing
in a misery of his own making.</i>

576
00:40:12,618 --> 00:40:14,870
<i>Ave Maria piena di grazia,
il Signore è con te.</i>

577
00:40:14,954 --> 00:40:18,833
<i>Tu sei la benedetta fra le donne.
Benedetto è il frutto del tuo seno Gesù.</i>

578
00:40:19,792 --> 00:40:21,961
<i>Santa Maria, Madre di Dio,
prega per noi pecca...</i>

579
00:40:22,044 --> 00:40:25,339
<i>Santa Maria, Madre di Dio,
prega per noi peccatori,</i>

580
00:40:25,423 --> 00:40:27,716
<i>adesso e nell'ora
della nostra morte. Amen.</i>

581
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:29,802
<i>[muttering]</i>

582
00:40:30,636 --> 00:40:33,347
<i>Santa Maria, Madre di Dio,
prega per noi peccatori...</i>

583
00:40:33,431 --> 00:40:35,391
<i>adesso e nell'ora
della nostra morte. Amen...</i>

584
00:40:35,474 --> 00:40:37,476
<i>[mutters]</i>

585
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:38,894
<i>...morte. Amen.</i>

586
00:40:39,687 --> 00:40:40,771
<i>Piena di grazia...</i>

587
00:40:40,855 --> 00:40:42,815
<i>benedetta fra le donne.
Benedetto è il frutto,</i>

588
00:40:43,524 --> 00:40:47,236
<i>prega per noi peccatori, adesso e
nell'ora della nostra morte. Amen.</i>

589
00:40:49,405 --> 00:40:51,031
<i>Ave Maria piena di grazia...</i>

590
00:40:56,287 --> 00:40:57,580
<i>[grunts]</i>

591
00:41:04,336 --> 00:41:06,547
<i>[speaking Sicilian]</i>

592
00:41:34,783 --> 00:41:36,202
<i>[Lino] Look at all this.</i>

593
00:41:38,078 --> 00:41:41,290
<i>These are the tastes
that I'd love to bring to America.</i>

594
00:41:42,625 --> 00:41:46,587
<i>What is unique to this island
and to the flavors of my youth.</i>

595
00:41:48,672 --> 00:41:49,632
<i>[Amy gasps]</i>

596
00:41:50,841 --> 00:41:52,218
<i>The colors are amazing.</i>

597
00:41:52,301 --> 00:41:54,553
<i>-[shutter clicks]
-Wow.</i>

598
00:41:56,931 --> 00:41:58,724
<i>-Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
-Yeah?</i>

599
00:42:00,100 --> 00:42:01,685
<i>-Where?
-There.</i>

600
00:42:07,816 --> 00:42:08,651
<i>[shutter clicks]</i>

601
00:42:49,441 --> 00:42:51,652
<i>[Lino sighing]</i>

602
00:43:00,578 --> 00:43:01,996
<i>If he had taken one step</i>

603
00:43:03,163 --> 00:43:04,164
<i>in my direction,</i>

604
00:43:05,958 --> 00:43:07,376
<i>I would have run to him.</i>

605
00:43:12,298 --> 00:43:13,340
<i>[Amy] I'm so sorry.</i>

606
00:43:16,802 --> 00:43:17,636
<i>Look at me.</i>

607
00:43:21,432 --> 00:43:22,600
<i>[speaks Italian]</i>

608
00:43:23,809 --> 00:43:25,394
<i>I am your center.</i>

609
00:43:28,856 --> 00:43:30,316
<i>It's just you and me.</i>

610
00:43:31,775 --> 00:43:32,776
<i>[Lino kisses]</i>

611
00:43:56,884 --> 00:43:59,219
<i>[mother in Sicilian]</i>
I'm angry with my husband.</i>

612
00:43:59,303 --> 00:44:02,348
<i>I wanted to put a rock in his pasta.</i>

613
00:44:02,973 --> 00:44:06,310
<i>Instead, I put it on his side of the bed.</i>

614
00:44:07,853 --> 00:44:08,687
<i>Father, I...</i>

615
00:44:10,147 --> 00:44:11,982
<i>I denied him a satisfying meal.</i>

616
00:44:13,609 --> 00:44:16,528
<i>I took all of the sauce
that was meant for his pasta</i>

617
00:44:17,029 --> 00:44:18,947
<i>and ate it while he watched.</i>

618
00:44:22,326 --> 00:44:24,078
<i>I'm scared of my anger.</i>

619
00:44:24,745 --> 00:44:26,288
<i>I'm afraid.</i>

620
00:44:27,081 --> 00:44:29,083
<i>I don't know what I might do next.</i>

621
00:44:29,917 --> 00:44:32,753
<i>Father, help me, please.</i>

622
00:44:45,307 --> 00:44:47,434
<i>-[scribbling]
-[inhales]</i>

623
00:44:52,481 --> 00:44:53,315
<i>Amore.</i>

624
00:44:55,192 --> 00:44:57,027
<i>[in Italian] I want to write it all down.</i>

625
00:45:00,447 --> 00:45:01,990
<i>Everything I can remember.</i>

626
00:45:05,536 --> 00:45:08,664
<i>[in English] All the memories
that being here bring back to me.</i>

627
00:45:10,833 --> 00:45:14,086
<i>Cooking with my mom, my childhood.</i>

628
00:45:17,089 --> 00:45:18,298
<i>This island made me.</i>

629
00:45:20,426 --> 00:45:22,219
<i>And I want to remember it all.</i>

630
00:45:40,529 --> 00:45:41,363
<i>[Biagia] Lino.</i>

631
00:45:42,030 --> 00:45:44,450
<i>-[mother laughs, speaks Sicilian]</i>
-Mamma.</i>

632
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:47,327
<i>-Ciao.
-[mother sobbing]</i>

633
00:45:49,455 --> 00:45:51,081
<i>-[Lino] Ciao.
-[mother sobs] Ciao, Lino.</i>

634
00:45:51,165 --> 00:45:52,249
<i>[Lino exhales]</i>

635
00:45:54,793 --> 00:45:56,003
<i>[in Sicilian] He's not here.</i>

636
00:45:56,628 --> 00:45:57,463
<i>Huh.</i>

637
00:45:57,963 --> 00:45:59,381
<i>Hope dies last.</i>

638
00:46:09,016 --> 00:46:10,434
<i>This is my wife.</i>

639
00:46:11,226 --> 00:46:13,187
<i>-Amy.
-[mother]</i> Sì.</i>

640
00:46:17,900 --> 00:46:21,695
<i>-Ciao.</i> Piacere.
-[chuckling]</i>

641
00:46:25,449 --> 00:46:26,658
<i>You're too thin.</i>

642
00:46:26,742 --> 00:46:28,786
<i>-Come on.
-And what is with that beard?</i>

643
00:46:28,869 --> 00:46:29,828
<i>Still so serious.</i>

644
00:46:29,912 --> 00:46:31,830
<i>She's always the same.</i>

645
00:46:31,914 --> 00:46:34,333
<i>-Leave him alone. He's so handsome.
-[Biagia exhales]</i>

646
00:46:34,416 --> 00:46:35,751
<i>I know he is.</i>

647
00:46:35,834 --> 00:46:38,337
<i>Come on, now, we don't have much time.</i>

648
00:46:41,173 --> 00:46:43,008
<i>God forbid he finds out, right?</i>

649
00:46:43,592 --> 00:46:47,554
<i>I couldn't be this close
to my son and not see him.</i>

650
00:46:53,685 --> 00:46:56,730
<i>Maria, you're too cute.</i>

651
00:46:57,481 --> 00:47:01,109
<i>Absolutely exquisite.</i>

652
00:47:01,193 --> 00:47:04,071
<i>I hope she has my temperament,
and your sense of adventure.</i>

653
00:47:04,154 --> 00:47:07,282
<i>[laughs] We should go Mamma.</i>

654
00:47:07,866 --> 00:47:09,117
<i>It's late.</i>

655
00:47:11,119 --> 00:47:12,412
<i>[Amy in Italian] I'll help you.</i>

656
00:47:15,833 --> 00:47:16,750
<i>[child babbles]</i>

657
00:47:20,754 --> 00:47:21,755
<i>[Lino sighs]</i>

658
00:47:27,553 --> 00:47:28,554
<i>[in Sicilian] I love you.</i>

659
00:47:29,721 --> 00:47:31,223
<i>I love you too, Mamma.</i>

660
00:47:34,351 --> 00:47:35,978
<i>But I won't come back here.</i>

661
00:47:38,564 --> 00:47:40,816
<i>-Because of her?
-That's not fair, Mamma.</i>

662
00:47:41,316 --> 00:47:42,317
<i>It's his fault.</i>

663
00:47:43,944 --> 00:47:45,279
<i>He made me choose.</i>

664
00:47:49,867 --> 00:47:51,869
<i>Amy is my wife.</i>

665
00:47:53,704 --> 00:47:54,538
<i>I choose her.</i>

666
00:47:56,415 --> 00:47:57,708
<i>[mother exhales]</i>

667
00:48:20,022 --> 00:48:21,690
<i>Go with God.</i>

668
00:48:22,524 --> 00:48:23,901
<i>I'll look after her.</i>

669
00:48:28,071 --> 00:48:30,532
<i>[engine turns over]</i>

670
00:48:44,296 --> 00:48:45,672
<i>[Lino sighs]</i>

671
00:48:46,882 --> 00:48:48,300
<i>[Amy exhales]</i>

672
00:48:51,345 --> 00:48:53,347
<i>["The Light" by Common playing]</i>

673
00:48:57,142 --> 00:49:01,438
<i>[in English]</i> ♪ Yo! I never knew</i>
{\an8}A luh, luh-luh, a love like this ♪</i>

674
00:49:01,521 --> 00:49:03,440
<i>♪ Gotta be something
For me to write this ♪</i>

675
00:49:03,523 --> 00:49:06,526
<i>♪ Queen, I ain't seen you in a minute... ♪</i>

676
00:49:06,610 --> 00:49:08,987
<i>Today we start
our new lives together,</i> amore.</i>

677
00:49:09,613 --> 00:49:11,239
<i>Nothing is holding us back.</i>

678
00:49:11,949 --> 00:49:13,617
<i>We've got only dreams ahead.</i>

679
00:49:16,578 --> 00:49:18,914
<i>[kisses] It's a promise.</i>

680
00:49:22,292 --> 00:49:25,963
<i>♪ When you'll need someone ♪</i>

681
00:49:26,046 --> 00:49:29,049
<i>♪ I will be by your side ♪</i>

682
00:49:29,925 --> 00:49:32,052
<i>[vocalizes]</i>

683
00:49:32,135 --> 00:49:35,764
<i>♪ There is a light that shines ♪</i>

684
00:49:35,847 --> 00:49:39,685
<i>♪ Special for you and me ♪</i>

685
00:49:41,228 --> 00:49:47,818
<i>♪ Take my chances before they pass ♪</i>

686
00:49:47,901 --> 00:49:53,281
<i>♪ Pass, pass, pass me by ♪</i>

687
00:49:54,616 --> 00:49:59,287
<i>♪ Oh, darling
You need to look at the other... ♪</i>