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<i>["We Wish You a Merry Christmas" playing]</i>

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<i>Remember, when you greet them,
their English is nonexistent.</i>

3
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{\an8}<i>Don't worry.
I learned some key phrases in Italian.</i>

4
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{\an8}<i>I'll start with,
"We missed you at the wedding."</i>

5
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{\an8}<i>I don't like how they treated my child.</i>

6
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<i>-There. Just saying it.
-[Amy] They're here.</i>

7
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<i>[speaks Sicilian]</i>

8
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<i>Oh, God,
they've never seen an escalator. [sighs]</i>

9
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<i>[speaks Italian]</i>

10
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<i>[speaks Italian]</i>

11
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<i>Did your legs stop working?</i>

12
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<i>[Amy] Excuse me.</i>

13
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<i>[in Italian] Excuse me.</i>

14
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<i>I'm Amy.</i>

15
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<i>Excuse me.</i>

16
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<i>Careful.</i>

17
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<i>[mother] Where's Lino?</i>

18
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<i>Lino's at the house, resting.</i>

19
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<i>How is he?</i>

20
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<i>He's okay.</i>

21
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<i>This is my mother, Lynn.</i>

22
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<i>[Lynn in English] Oh. You okay?</i>

23
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<i>[gasps] Very nice to meet you.</i>

24
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<i>-[in Italian] Shall we go?
-Yes.</i>

25
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<i>[speaks Italian]</i> Sì.</i>

26
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<i>-[in English] Mom. Thank you.
-I'll get the bags.</i>

27
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<i>[Amy in Italian] Follow me, please.</i>

28
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<i>[in English] Lino, we're here.</i>

29
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<i>[panting]</i>

30
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<i>I still look so skinny.</i>

31
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<i>Let's try this. Hmm?</i>

32
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<i>[Lino sighs]</i>

33
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<i>[clicks tongue, exhales]</i>

34
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<i>[knock on door]</i>

35
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<i>Hey, handsome.</i>

36
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<i>Special delivery.</i>

37
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<i>Mama.</i>

38
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<i>[in Sicilian, sobs] My life.</i>

39
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<i>My dear son. [kissing]</i>

40
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<i>Your father is...</i>

41
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<i>I asked the doctor
in town what could be done for you.</i>

42
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<i>-Ah.
-You feel warm. Do you have a fever?</i>

43
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<i>I'm fine.</i>

44
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<i>[Filomena sighs]</i>

45
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<i>Lie down.</i>

46
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<i>I'm fine.</i>

47
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<i>Get in bed, slowly, slowly.</i>

48
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<i>[Lino exhaling]</i>

49
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<i>[singing in Sicilian]</i>

50
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<i>I'll take care of you now.</i>

51
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<i>[sighs]</i>

52
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<i>[in English] So, you can carry it, huh?</i>

53
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<i>What?</i>

54
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<i>Sure.</i>

55
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<i>Uh... [clears throat, scoffs]</i>

56
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<i>[Filomena speaking Sicilian]</i>

57
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<i>I don't know what you're asking. Amahle!</i>

58
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<i>[speaking Italian]</i>

59
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<i>She took these out the fridge.</i>

60
00:05:01,301 --> 00:05:03,428
<i>Yeah, Italians don't put tomatoes
in the fridge.</i>

61
00:05:03,511 --> 00:05:04,846
<i>Mom, just let her do her thing.</i>

62
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<i>[in Italian] Is there any flour? Flour?</i>

63
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<i>Uh,</i> sì.</i>

64
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<i>-Eh?
-One second.</i>

65
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<i>And the pots?</i>

66
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<i>[in English] Didn't know how to stop her.</i>

67
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<i>It's fine, Mom. It's just how she mothers.</i>

68
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<i>No, no, no.</i>

69
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<i>I have to pack
Lino's hospital bag for tomorrow.</i>

70
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<i>How can I help?</i>

71
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<i>-Mom.
-[Filomena speaks Italian]</i>

72
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<i>[speaks Italian]</i>

73
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<i>-Just whatever she may need, Mom.
-Okay.</i>

74
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<i>So, you gonna make your own apron.
That's great. That's just great.</i>

75
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<i>[speaks Italian]</i>

76
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<i>[in Italian] Take this to Lino.</i>

77
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<i>No, he can't eat that.</i>

78
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<i>[chuckles] What do you mean?</i>

79
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<i>His surgery is tomorrow.
He needs light foods.</i>

80
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<i>With chemo,
everything tastes like metal to him.</i>

81
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<i>Then what will he eat for dinner?</i>

82
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<i>[in English] Okay. Um...</i>

83
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<i>[exhales, in Italian] He'll eat this</i>

84
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<i>and this.</i>

85
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<i>That's not dinner.</i>

86
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<i>I know, but... [chuckles]</i>

87
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<i>[in Sicilian] Look what she's feeding him.</i>

88
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<i>[in Italian] I'm following
the doctor's instructions.</i>

89
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<i>Let me show you.</i>

90
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<i>Surgery is tomorrow.</i>

91
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<i>Then he stays
in the hospital for two days.</i>

92
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<i>Then the day after Christmas,</i>

93
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<i>we go back to the doctor
to see how Lino is doing.</i>

94
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<i>-Day after Christmas. That's good.
-[Amy] Mm-hmm.</i>

95
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<i>It's a blessed day.</i>

96
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<i>Sì.</i>

97
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<i>[in Sicilian] It took me hours to fix
that garden, and I'm still not done.</i>

98
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<i>It's a good thing Lino doesn't farm.</i>

99
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<i>The plants are all positioned wrong.</i>

100
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<i>An olive tree in a vase?</i>

101
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<i>America.</i>

102
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<i>Cheese? Is there no cheese?
Don't they eat it here?</i>

103
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<i>[in Italian] Excuse me.</i>

104
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<i>Are you not going to see him?</i>

105
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<i>Wait, I...</i>

106
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<i>I don't understand.</i>

107
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<i>Why make such a long trip just to...</i>

108
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<i>[in Sicilian] Hold on.</i>

109
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<i>[in Italian] You don't have to worry.</i>

110
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<i>I know why I'm here.</i>

111
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<i>[in English] Okay.</i>

112
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<i>[in Sicilian] Don't they have something
to wipe your mouth?</i>

113
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<i>Mm.</i>

114
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<i>[gags, speaks Sicilian]</i>

115
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<i>[in English]</i> Amore,
I'm not moving into the hospital.</i>

116
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<i>I just wanna make sure</i>

117
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<i>that you have everything that you need
so that you don't get bored.</i>

118
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<i>-I know you're gonna want your iPod. Yes.
-Oh, yeah. Thanks.</i>

119
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<i>-Oh, please, don't fo...
-And yeah.</i>

120
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<i>-Your notebook. I got it. [chuckles]</i>
-Grazie.</i>

121
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<i>Oh.</i>

122
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<i>And your father's hiding in the garden.</i>

123
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<i>-Really?
-Mm-hmm.</i>

124
00:09:01,082 --> 00:09:03,876
<i>-Let him spend all night out there then.
-[laughs] Lino.</i>

125
00:09:06,921 --> 00:09:08,381
<i>[sighs]</i>

126
00:09:17,139 --> 00:09:17,974
<i>Amore.</i>

127
00:09:20,977 --> 00:09:21,811
<i>I'm scared.</i>

128
00:09:22,979 --> 00:09:24,981
<i>[Amy exhales]</i>

129
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<i>[clattering]</i>

130
00:10:16,866 --> 00:10:18,784
<i>[Lino exhales]</i>

131
00:10:35,509 --> 00:10:38,387
<i>-It's a very sexy gown.
-[laughing]</i>

132
00:10:39,513 --> 00:10:40,431
<i>Yeah.</i>

133
00:11:07,124 --> 00:11:08,000
<i>[Lino snorts]</i>

134
00:11:10,252 --> 00:11:13,881
<i>Do... do you really think
they're gonna cut the wrong knee?</i>

135
00:11:16,801 --> 00:11:17,635
<i>No.</i>

136
00:11:20,054 --> 00:11:21,764
<i>It's just so they know...</i>

137
00:11:21,847 --> 00:11:23,057
<i>[kisses]</i>

138
00:11:23,140 --> 00:11:24,934
<i>...that you're more than a tumor.</i>

139
00:11:29,647 --> 00:11:31,899
<i>You're a man with people who love you.</i>

140
00:11:33,567 --> 00:11:34,443
<i>[Lino exhales]</i>

141
00:11:35,736 --> 00:11:36,946
<i>Especially me.</i>

142
00:11:39,031 --> 00:11:40,157
<i>[Lino exhales]</i>

143
00:11:52,586 --> 00:11:54,422
<i>[Amy exhales]</i>

144
00:11:54,505 --> 00:11:56,590
<i>[in Italian] Did they take him
into the operating room?</i>

145
00:11:56,674 --> 00:11:58,175
<i>Soon.</i>

146
00:11:58,259 --> 00:11:59,719
<i>How long does the surgery take?</i>

147
00:11:59,802 --> 00:12:04,181
<i>-About four hours.
-[in English] Amy, what did she ask you?</i>

148
00:12:05,683 --> 00:12:08,978
<i>She asked me how long was the surgery,
and I told her four hours.</i>

149
00:12:09,061 --> 00:12:12,106
<i>-[in Italian] What did you just tell her?
-The surgery will last four hours.</i>

150
00:12:12,189 --> 00:12:14,984
<i>-[in Sicilian] Weren't you listening?
-Worry about yourself.</i>

151
00:12:15,067 --> 00:12:17,278
<i>[in English] Okay,
everyone seems stressed.</i>

152
00:12:17,361 --> 00:12:20,114
<i>Uh, I have these
lavender drops from my store.</i>

153
00:12:20,197 --> 00:12:22,116
<i>It would bring
everyone's blood pressure down.</i>

154
00:12:22,199 --> 00:12:25,035
<i>Do they know about my holistic store
in Topanga, Chakra Khan?</i>

155
00:12:25,119 --> 00:12:27,246
<i>-Tell her who Chaka Khan is first.
-Mom, please.</i>

156
00:12:27,329 --> 00:12:29,665
<i>Just... I don't wanna
have to translate anymore, okay?</i>

157
00:12:29,749 --> 00:12:32,084
<i>-[Hershel] Hey, baby girl.
-[Amy gasps]</i>

158
00:12:33,252 --> 00:12:36,088
<i>-[Hershel] Okay. All right. I'm here.
-[Amy] Okay.</i>

159
00:12:36,172 --> 00:12:38,257
<i>Hershel, Maxine, I'm glad you came.</i>

160
00:12:39,258 --> 00:12:43,596
<i>This is, um, this is Filomena and Giacomo.
They're Lino's parents.</i>

161
00:12:44,138 --> 00:12:46,056
<i>[in Italian] I'd like you
to meet my sister, Zora.</i>

162
00:12:46,140 --> 00:12:48,976
<i>-This is my father.
-And who is she?</i>

163
00:12:49,059 --> 00:12:51,228
<i>I'm Amy's stepmother.</i>

164
00:12:51,312 --> 00:12:52,730
<i>Oh, you speak Italian?</i>

165
00:12:52,813 --> 00:12:54,815
<i>-Have you been to Italy?
-[in English] Get my book.</i>

166
00:12:54,899 --> 00:12:57,443
<i>[in Italian] She's just learning.
She doesn't speak much Italian.</i>

167
00:12:58,694 --> 00:13:01,906
<i>-[in English] When can we expect news?
-In a few hours.</i>

168
00:13:01,989 --> 00:13:04,950
<i>Oh, my God. This must be so hard on you.
Do you need anything from us, baby?</i>

169
00:13:05,034 --> 00:13:07,453
<i>No, just... you guys are here.</i>

170
00:13:08,245 --> 00:13:09,413
<i>I'm gonna go sit down.</i>

171
00:13:10,790 --> 00:13:11,874
<i>[sighs]</i>

172
00:13:15,836 --> 00:13:17,421
<i>It's gonna be okay.</i>

173
00:13:19,507 --> 00:13:20,382
<i>I'm okay.</i>

174
00:13:26,388 --> 00:13:27,264
<i>[gasps]</i>

175
00:13:36,106 --> 00:13:38,108
<i>[praying in Sicilian]</i>

176
00:13:43,781 --> 00:13:45,991
<i>[in Sicilian] I beg of you.</i>

177
00:13:51,247 --> 00:13:55,376
<i>-He's my only son.
-[door opens]</i>

178
00:14:11,100 --> 00:14:13,102
<i>[praying in Sicilian]</i>

179
00:14:23,654 --> 00:14:25,239
<i>[Zora in English] Say it again.</i>

180
00:14:25,739 --> 00:14:28,284
<i>[Ken] Babe, he is going to be fine.</i>

181
00:14:28,367 --> 00:14:29,410
<i>[Zora] Thank you.</i>

182
00:14:33,372 --> 00:14:35,249
<i>[Ken] Did your mom nod off?</i>

183
00:14:36,542 --> 00:14:39,253
<i>[Zora] It's meditation.
It's her way of praying.</i>

184
00:14:44,341 --> 00:14:46,802
<i>Hi. You didn't have to.</i>

185
00:14:46,886 --> 00:14:48,012
<i>[David] Yes, we did.</i>

186
00:14:48,095 --> 00:14:50,306
<i>-[Preston] No stopping Donna Reed here.
-[David chuckles]</i>

187
00:14:50,389 --> 00:14:52,516
<i>I made, uh, lemon bars
dusted with powdered sugar,</i>

188
00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:54,602
<i>in case you need
a sugar high this afternoon.</i>

189
00:14:54,685 --> 00:14:57,980
<i>[Zora] I think we all need
a little something sweet right now.</i>

190
00:14:58,063 --> 00:15:00,608
<i>[David] When do they expect
the surgery to be over?</i>

191
00:15:01,358 --> 00:15:02,818
<i>Have there been updates?</i>

192
00:15:04,695 --> 00:15:06,780
<i>Should we go ask her
if she needs anything?</i>

193
00:15:06,864 --> 00:15:07,823
<i>Just let her be.</i>

194
00:15:10,993 --> 00:15:13,287
<i>-[Ken] Hey, how you doing?
-[Zora chattering]</i>

195
00:15:24,632 --> 00:15:26,717
<i>[mutters]</i>

196
00:15:35,684 --> 00:15:38,520
<i>Maybe we can get somebody
to change the channel on this TV.</i>

197
00:15:38,604 --> 00:15:40,314
<i>Let me get that for you, Mr. Wheeler.</i>

198
00:15:40,898 --> 00:15:43,233
<i>-[woman] Lino Ortolano. You the family?
-Yes.</i>

199
00:15:43,317 --> 00:15:45,819
<i>The OR nurse said the surgeon's
on his way out to speak with you.</i>

200
00:15:46,403 --> 00:15:47,237
<i>What?</i>

201
00:15:47,947 --> 00:15:51,241
<i>Zora, go get Amy.
I'm gonna go find Lino's parents.</i>

202
00:15:56,664 --> 00:15:57,498
<i>Amy.</i>

203
00:15:58,832 --> 00:16:00,292
<i>-[Amy] What happened?
-We don't know.</i>

204
00:16:00,376 --> 00:16:02,628
<i>But the surgeon wants to talk to you,
so come now.</i>

205
00:16:02,711 --> 00:16:03,545
<i>Now?</i>

206
00:16:04,588 --> 00:16:08,175
<i>But, Zora, it's too soon. [panting]</i>

207
00:16:08,968 --> 00:16:12,262
<i>I'm here. I'm here. How is he?</i>

208
00:16:13,472 --> 00:16:14,723
<i>We got the tumor out.</i>

209
00:16:15,265 --> 00:16:16,558
<i>-Margins look clear.
-Okay.</i>

210
00:16:16,642 --> 00:16:20,104
<i>We have to send off samples, and you'll
have to talk with Lino's oncologist,</i>

211
00:16:20,187 --> 00:16:24,608
<i>but as of 20 minutes ago,
the tumor in your husband's knee is gone.</i>

212
00:16:25,609 --> 00:16:26,652
<i>[gasping]</i>

213
00:16:26,735 --> 00:16:28,821
<i>-Thank God.
-I knew he'd pull through.</i>

214
00:16:29,655 --> 00:16:30,614
<i>-[Amy exhales]
-Hey.</i>

215
00:16:30,698 --> 00:16:32,700
<i>[laughing]</i>

216
00:16:35,369 --> 00:16:38,497
<i>[in Italian] It's over.
The tumor. It's gone.</i>

217
00:16:38,580 --> 00:16:39,999
<i>-[sighing]
-[sniffling]</i>

218
00:16:40,582 --> 00:16:41,750
<i>[gasps, in English] It's gone.</i>

219
00:16:41,834 --> 00:16:43,210
<i>[laughs]</i>

220
00:16:49,842 --> 00:16:52,011
<i>[speaking Italian]</i>

221
00:16:53,929 --> 00:16:55,931
<i>[speaks Italian]</i>

222
00:16:56,015 --> 00:16:57,307
<i>You did it.</i>

223
00:16:58,934 --> 00:17:00,519
<i>They got it all out.</i>

224
00:17:01,145 --> 00:17:04,273
<i>-A few days and you'll be home.
-[exhales]</i>

225
00:17:04,356 --> 00:17:05,232
<i>Yes.</i>

226
00:17:07,568 --> 00:17:08,610
<i>You did it.</i>

227
00:18:12,549 --> 00:18:14,468
<i>[inhales, huffs]</i>

228
00:18:15,302 --> 00:18:17,930
<i>[in Sicilian] You couldn't have brought me
a cup of coffee?</i>

229
00:18:21,475 --> 00:18:23,352
<i>[chuckles] My son wants coffee?</i>

230
00:18:26,021 --> 00:18:27,064
<i>I got it.</i>

231
00:18:28,649 --> 00:18:31,068
<i>I'll bring you some.</i>

232
00:18:41,870 --> 00:18:44,206
<i>[speaks Sicilian]</i>

233
00:18:48,252 --> 00:18:49,253
<i>[in English] Coffee.</i>

234
00:18:49,336 --> 00:18:51,630
<i>-[speaks Sicilian]
-Okay.</i>

235
00:18:52,589 --> 00:18:54,049
<i>-No, no, no, no.
-[speaks Sicilian]</i>

236
00:18:54,133 --> 00:18:57,177
<i>No, coffee is free.
Down the hall to the right.</i>

237
00:18:58,512 --> 00:19:00,681
<i>-No...
-I will... I'll take you.</i>

238
00:19:01,515 --> 00:19:02,349
<i>Come on.</i>

239
00:19:03,308 --> 00:19:04,143
<i>This way.</i>

240
00:19:08,438 --> 00:19:09,273
<i>Here you go.</i>

241
00:19:09,982 --> 00:19:12,609
<i>And it's brewing
so at least it'll be fresh.</i>

242
00:19:12,693 --> 00:19:13,861
<i>Un momento.</i>

243
00:19:31,086 --> 00:19:32,546
<i>It's for my son.</i>

244
00:19:34,631 --> 00:19:38,260
<i>When he was about ten years old,</i>

245
00:19:38,343 --> 00:19:41,138
<i>he took the car.</i>

246
00:19:41,221 --> 00:19:42,431
<i>He hit a wall.</i>

247
00:19:42,514 --> 00:19:45,934
<i>He was with my brother,
his uncle, that idiot.</i>

248
00:19:46,518 --> 00:19:47,769
<i>He ended up in the hospital</i>

249
00:19:48,353 --> 00:19:51,148
<i>with a broken leg,
and this is what I told him.</i>

250
00:19:52,024 --> 00:19:53,734
<i>Now, after this stunt...</i>

251
00:19:58,947 --> 00:20:00,657
<i>we can't get a color TV.</i>

252
00:20:02,701 --> 00:20:03,744
<i>I said that.</i>

253
00:20:04,870 --> 00:20:05,746
<i>[sniffles]</i>

254
00:20:10,167 --> 00:20:12,669
<i>I couldn't tell him I was scared to death.</i>

255
00:20:13,295 --> 00:20:14,129
<i>Because</i>

256
00:20:16,006 --> 00:20:17,424
<i>it's awful for a father...</i>

257
00:20:19,676 --> 00:20:21,386
<i>to have a son in the hospital.</i>

258
00:20:32,648 --> 00:20:33,690
<i>Grazie.</i>

259
00:20:39,071 --> 00:20:40,447
<i>[Hershel in English] Listen up.</i>

260
00:20:40,530 --> 00:20:43,492
<i>-I wasn't worried about you at all. Shoot.
-[Lino chuckles]</i>

261
00:20:44,117 --> 00:20:47,204
<i>-I was praying for that bear.
-[laughing]</i>

262
00:20:50,832 --> 00:20:51,750
<i>[Hershel sighs]</i>

263
00:21:04,012 --> 00:21:04,846
<i>[Amy grunts]</i>

264
00:21:06,223 --> 00:21:07,099
<i>[Lino sighs]</i>

265
00:21:10,394 --> 00:21:11,353
<i>[exhales]</i>

266
00:21:11,853 --> 00:21:14,273
<i>[panting]</i>

267
00:21:15,023 --> 00:21:18,026
<i>-What the hell!
-Oh,</i> Mamma mia.</i>

268
00:21:18,694 --> 00:21:20,570
<i>-[gasps]
-Why didn't you tell me?</i>

269
00:21:20,654 --> 00:21:23,740
<i>Well, 'cause this happened
since I left to come and get you.</i>

270
00:21:23,824 --> 00:21:25,826
<i>["Amore mai" by Aldo Attuali playing]</i>

271
00:21:27,911 --> 00:21:29,037
<i>Oh, my God.</i>

272
00:21:36,753 --> 00:21:38,088
<i>[mouths] I'm sorry.</i>

273
00:21:40,507 --> 00:21:41,717
<i>Papa.</i>

274
00:21:44,052 --> 00:21:45,679
<i>[Giacomo in Sicilian] How are you feeling?</i>

275
00:21:45,762 --> 00:21:49,599
<i>[exhales] So-so.
What did you do? You cut the roses.</i>

276
00:21:49,683 --> 00:21:54,354
<i>Didn't I teach you? You have to cut
the roses in the winter, when it's cold,</i>

277
00:21:54,438 --> 00:21:57,107
<i>otherwise they don't bloom.
I taught you this.</i>

278
00:21:57,190 --> 00:21:58,734
<i>[Lino]</i> Sì.</i>

279
00:22:02,446 --> 00:22:04,614
<i>-[in English] Careful, careful.
-[speaks Sicilian]</i>

280
00:22:05,324 --> 00:22:07,826
<i>-[in Sicilian] Mamma, what did you do?
-[Filomena] Mm.</i>

281
00:22:10,245 --> 00:22:11,455
<i>[exhales] Let's get inside.</i>

282
00:22:11,538 --> 00:22:14,875
<i>-[announcer speaking Spanish on TV]
-[crowd cheering]</i>

283
00:22:14,958 --> 00:22:16,501
<i>Are you thirsty, son?</i>

284
00:22:17,711 --> 00:22:19,129
<i>I'll get you some water.</i>

285
00:22:22,841 --> 00:22:25,927
<i>[in Italian] Can you
help me get him into bed?</i>

286
00:22:26,011 --> 00:22:27,262
<i>Into bed?</i>

287
00:22:27,346 --> 00:22:28,930
<i>The sheets are still wet.</i>

288
00:22:29,473 --> 00:22:31,767
<i>But we have a dryer.</i>

289
00:22:31,850 --> 00:22:34,644
<i>It's faster, so he can rest.</i>

290
00:22:36,688 --> 00:22:38,357
<i>Don't you see?</i>

291
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:41,777
<i>It's the first time they've
watched TV together in so long.</i>

292
00:22:42,611 --> 00:22:44,488
<i>-[Lino in Sicilian] Hey, Papa!
-[Amy exhales]</i>

293
00:22:44,571 --> 00:22:48,700
<i>You're going to make us all deaf.
Turn down the TV.</i>

294
00:22:48,784 --> 00:22:50,911
<i>[Giacomo] I can't
understand what they are saying.</i>

295
00:22:50,994 --> 00:22:53,288
<i>Papa, making it louder won't change that.</i>

296
00:22:53,372 --> 00:22:54,623
<i>[TV announcer speaking Spanish]</i>

297
00:22:54,706 --> 00:22:57,167
<i>I looked for Italian channels,
but you don't have any.</i>

298
00:22:57,250 --> 00:22:59,836
<i>What am I supposed to do, turn off the TV?</i>

299
00:22:59,920 --> 00:23:03,048
<i>-[announcer speaking Spanish]
-[volume increases]</i>

300
00:23:06,301 --> 00:23:08,261
<i>[in Italian] Tell them
the food is almost ready.</i>

301
00:23:10,263 --> 00:23:12,557
<i>No, he can't eat eggplant.</i>

302
00:23:12,641 --> 00:23:15,936
<i>What do you mean he can't eat eggplant?
He can't just eat a banana.</i>

303
00:23:16,019 --> 00:23:17,854
<i>He'll get sick if he eats that.</i>

304
00:23:19,147 --> 00:23:22,234
<i>He's already sick.
At least he should eat well.</i>

305
00:23:24,861 --> 00:23:27,030
<i>I brought all the ingredients
to make cuccidati.</i>

306
00:23:27,114 --> 00:23:28,907
<i>Are you talking
about those Christmas cookies?</i>

307
00:23:28,990 --> 00:23:30,325
<i>Yes.</i>

308
00:23:30,409 --> 00:23:33,787
<i>No, he can't eat those.</i>

309
00:23:33,870 --> 00:23:35,163
<i>That's too much sugar.</i>

310
00:23:41,878 --> 00:23:43,880
<i>[TV announcer speaking Spanish]</i>

311
00:23:46,049 --> 00:23:48,718
-Oh,</i> <i>Mamma, grazie.</i>
-[mutters]</i>

312
00:23:58,728 --> 00:24:00,147
<i>[in Sicilian] Why aren't you eating?</i>

313
00:24:01,857 --> 00:24:02,774
<i>I am eating.</i>

314
00:24:04,317 --> 00:24:05,861
<i>Actually, you're picking at it.</i>

315
00:24:08,363 --> 00:24:12,325
<i>If you don't eat it, you'll scare
your mother. You'll make her worry.</i>

316
00:24:14,911 --> 00:24:17,414
<i>What, you don't like
the food of your home anymore?</i>

317
00:24:31,553 --> 00:24:33,680
<i>[Amy in English]</i> Bicarbonato.
From your mother.</i>

318
00:24:33,763 --> 00:24:36,057
<i>I should have never eaten that eggplant.</i>

319
00:24:36,808 --> 00:24:39,561
<i>-Yeah.
-[groans]</i> Grazie.</i>

320
00:24:39,644 --> 00:24:41,271
<i>I ratted you out to the doctor.</i>

321
00:24:41,813 --> 00:24:43,148
<i>-[speaks Italian]
-Yeah.</i>

322
00:24:43,231 --> 00:24:44,399
<i>[in Italian] Really? Traitor.</i>

323
00:24:44,483 --> 00:24:45,358
<i>[in English] I had to.</i>

324
00:24:45,442 --> 00:24:47,402
<i>I had to make sure
it was okay to give you this.</i>

325
00:24:47,486 --> 00:24:49,988
<i>I still have to get your prescriptions,
the painkillers and Xanax.</i>

326
00:24:50,071 --> 00:24:53,450
<i>I just have to make it through this week,
then I listen from Dr. Atluri. That's it.</i>

327
00:24:53,533 --> 00:24:55,285
<i>No, the Xanax is for me.</i>

328
00:24:56,495 --> 00:24:58,997
<i>Amore,</i> I lived with them for 20 years.</i>
This is nothing.</i>

329
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:01,291
<i>Oh, my God, they're stressing me out.</i>

330
00:25:02,042 --> 00:25:04,961
<i>[sighs] Just please let me get
your prescriptions tomorrow, and I'll...</i>

331
00:25:05,045 --> 00:25:07,047
<i>I'll feel so much better.</i>

332
00:25:07,130 --> 00:25:08,882
<i>-[Lino speaks Italian]
-[Amy sighs]</i>

333
00:25:08,965 --> 00:25:11,843
<i>But, please,</i> amore,</i> <i>can you pick
the medicines up at the supermarket?</i>

334
00:25:11,927 --> 00:25:13,470
<i>Because my father will want bread.</i>

335
00:25:14,262 --> 00:25:16,181
<i>[Amy] Fine. Bread. I'll get him bread.</i>

336
00:25:16,806 --> 00:25:19,518
<i>-No,</i> amore,</i> <i>you have to take him with you.
-[exhales]</i>

337
00:25:20,644 --> 00:25:21,811
<i>-No.
-Please.</i>

338
00:25:21,895 --> 00:25:22,854
<i>Absolutely not.</i>

339
00:25:22,938 --> 00:25:24,356
<i>-Please, he walk...
-Lino.</i>

340
00:25:24,439 --> 00:25:27,484
<i>He walks to get some
fresh bread every day in Castelleone,</i>

341
00:25:27,567 --> 00:25:30,529
<i>and since he came here,
he hasn't been able to do that.</i>

342
00:25:31,029 --> 00:25:34,449
<i>Please. Let's give him something to do,
and, plus, he needs a taste of home.</i>

343
00:25:34,533 --> 00:25:36,535
<i>Oh, my God. Fine.</i>

344
00:25:38,078 --> 00:25:38,954
<i>Who are you calling?</i>

345
00:25:39,037 --> 00:25:41,873
<i>I'm calling Zora. We're getting satellite
for those Italian channels.</i>

346
00:25:41,957 --> 00:25:44,251
<i>He wants a taste of home?
I'm gonna give him a buffet.</i>

347
00:25:44,334 --> 00:25:47,212
<i>[speaking Italian]</i>

348
00:25:47,295 --> 00:25:48,838
<i>You can't eat the food like this.</i>

349
00:25:48,922 --> 00:25:50,840
<i>[speaking Italian]</i>

350
00:25:50,924 --> 00:25:53,802
<i>-Hey, what's... what's the matter?
-[man] I'll be with you in a second.</i>

351
00:25:53,885 --> 00:25:57,264
<i>[in Italian] He's trying to cheat me.
He knows I'm Sicilian.</i>

352
00:25:57,347 --> 00:25:58,765
<i>How would he know that?</i>

353
00:25:58,848 --> 00:26:01,685
<i>You don't know
these Northern Italians like I do.</i>

354
00:26:01,768 --> 00:26:03,812
<i>-You speak Italian?
-He's my father-in-law.</i>

355
00:26:03,895 --> 00:26:07,649
<i>[in English] He can't walk around tearing
off pieces of bread and eating them.</i>

356
00:26:07,732 --> 00:26:10,235
<i>[in Italian] Are you eating
all the bread in the supermarket?</i>

357
00:26:10,318 --> 00:26:12,529
<i>Without tasting it,
how can I know if it's any good?</i>

358
00:26:12,612 --> 00:26:16,992
<i>And I'll tell you what. See this?
You can throw this away.</i>

359
00:26:17,075 --> 00:26:20,787
<i>Yes, because it's a fermented dough.
It's called sourdough.</i>

360
00:26:20,870 --> 00:26:24,583
<i>[in English] Okay. He's obviously used
to a different type of bread.</i>

361
00:26:24,666 --> 00:26:27,586
<i>And don't worry, I will pay.
I will pay for this. Okay?</i>

362
00:26:27,669 --> 00:26:30,088
<i>[in Sicilian] Find me
a real bakery in this city.</i>

363
00:26:30,171 --> 00:26:35,385
<i>Not one that sells bread, fish, medicine.</i>

364
00:26:35,468 --> 00:26:38,263
<i>What, is he the butcher too?</i>

365
00:26:38,346 --> 00:26:42,434
<i>This place makes no sense!
I've had enough.</i>

366
00:26:46,980 --> 00:26:48,148
<i>[in English] Thank you.</i>

367
00:26:50,775 --> 00:26:53,486
<i>[static hissing]</i>

368
00:26:53,570 --> 00:26:55,614
<i>-No, no, don't keep touching that.
-[speaks Italian]</i>

369
00:26:55,697 --> 00:26:58,366
<i>-I don't know, huh? You try.
-Call a technician.</i>

370
00:26:58,450 --> 00:27:00,076
<i>-Come on... no, no! No!
-Okay.</i>

371
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:01,870
<i>[Lino speaks Italian]</i>

372
00:27:02,537 --> 00:27:04,789
<i>They all wanted to check in on Lino.</i>

373
00:27:04,873 --> 00:27:07,500
<i>And nobody can figure out the satellite.</i>

374
00:27:07,584 --> 00:27:10,295
<i>Amore,</i> we... we just bought</i>
something called DishTV.</i>

375
00:27:10,378 --> 00:27:12,172
<i>[Ken] Yeah,
bought it, but we can't watch it.</i>

376
00:27:12,255 --> 00:27:13,923
<i>Hey, hey, hey, I told you we got this.</i>

377
00:27:14,007 --> 00:27:17,761
<i>You haven't... you haven't lifted a finger,
man. He just... he just barks orders.</i>

378
00:27:17,844 --> 00:27:19,554
<i>Makes him and Zora a perfect match.</i>

379
00:27:19,638 --> 00:27:20,597
<i>I heard that.</i>

380
00:27:21,473 --> 00:27:24,768
<i>[in Sicilian] Wait,
give these to Filomena.</i>

381
00:27:24,851 --> 00:27:25,685
<i>Sì.</i>

382
00:27:25,769 --> 00:27:27,395
<i>And I'll take a look at these wires.</i>

383
00:27:27,479 --> 00:27:28,396
<i>Come on.</i>

384
00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,150
<i>No, Papa. Leave it.
Please, just leave it, please.</i>

385
00:27:32,233 --> 00:27:35,195
<i>Your uncle Franco
taught me some things, quiet.</i>

386
00:27:36,112 --> 00:27:37,364
<i>[Giacomo speaking Italian]</i>

387
00:27:37,447 --> 00:27:39,240
<i>-[in English] Sweetie.
-How are you?</i>

388
00:27:39,324 --> 00:27:41,076
<i>-[announcer speaking Italian]
-[cheering]</i>

389
00:27:41,159 --> 00:27:43,745
<i>-Ha ha ha!
-[laughing]</i>

390
00:27:43,828 --> 00:27:45,205
<i>-[Ken] There we go.
-Okay.</i>

391
00:27:45,288 --> 00:27:49,042
<i>-[Ken] You see? You see?
-[Silvio] I know. I know.</i> Grazie.</i> <i>Finally.</i>

392
00:27:49,125 --> 00:27:52,295
<i>[in Sicilian] I told you
I knew what to do.</i>

393
00:27:52,379 --> 00:27:55,382
<i>[in English] Could there be
any more people in this fucking house?</i>

394
00:27:55,465 --> 00:27:57,634
<i>-Happy holidays, everyone!
-[Zora] Mm-hmm.</i>

395
00:27:58,718 --> 00:28:02,055
<i>-Hi. Here's a little ho-ho-ho. Uh-huh.
-[laughing]</i>

396
00:28:02,138 --> 00:28:03,765
<i>-[Lynn] Umoja!
-What is...?</i>

397
00:28:04,849 --> 00:28:06,893
<i>[Lynn] And Ujima is upon us.</i>

398
00:28:06,976 --> 00:28:08,478
<i>[laughs]</i>

399
00:28:08,561 --> 00:28:12,232
<i>[Filomena in Italian] Food is ready!
Let's eat.</i>

400
00:28:12,315 --> 00:28:13,149
<i>Eat with us, Lynn.</i>

401
00:28:13,233 --> 00:28:17,112
<i>-[Lino in English] It's time to eat.
-[speaking Italian]</i>

402
00:28:17,195 --> 00:28:20,323
<i>[chuckles] How do you say,
"I already ate at home?"</i>

403
00:28:21,032 --> 00:28:23,159
<i>-[laughing]
-[chattering]</i>

404
00:28:23,243 --> 00:28:26,162
<i>[in Italian] Tell me,
where's your father from?</i>

405
00:28:26,246 --> 00:28:28,665
<i>Aliminusa, near Cerda.</i>

406
00:28:29,165 --> 00:28:30,208
<i>You know it, no?</i>

407
00:28:30,291 --> 00:28:33,795
<i>-Yes, I know it well, yes.
-[laughs] Yes.</i>

408
00:28:33,878 --> 00:28:37,090
<i>[Giacomo] Has your father
ever come visit you in America?</i>

409
00:28:37,173 --> 00:28:39,175
<i>Yes, yes, when my son was born.</i>

410
00:28:39,259 --> 00:28:42,429
<i>-Oh, you have a little boy?
-Ah,</i> sì, sì, sì.</i>

411
00:28:42,512 --> 00:28:44,514
<i>[Giacomo] He has a boy.</i>

412
00:28:44,597 --> 00:28:47,559
<i>[speaking Italian]</i>

413
00:28:50,478 --> 00:28:51,730
<i>[laughs]</i>

414
00:28:54,482 --> 00:28:56,484
<i>[continues speaking Italian]</i>

415
00:29:11,541 --> 00:29:13,084
<i>[speaking Italian]</i>

416
00:29:16,588 --> 00:29:18,590
<i>-[door opens]
-[exhales]</i>

417
00:29:39,319 --> 00:29:41,279
<i>[in English] Do you know
what this feels like?</i>

418
00:29:44,741 --> 00:29:45,700
<i>[Amy sighs]</i>

419
00:29:46,493 --> 00:29:47,327
<i>No, you don't.</i>

420
00:30:12,101 --> 00:30:13,561
<i>[Amy]</i> I had nowhere else to go.</i>

421
00:30:18,233 --> 00:30:19,108
<i>Mm.</i>

422
00:30:21,319 --> 00:30:22,529
<i>[sniffles]</i>

423
00:30:23,863 --> 00:30:25,114
<i>[exhales]</i>

424
00:30:27,617 --> 00:30:29,077
<i>I never drink scotch.</i>

425
00:30:31,287 --> 00:30:34,374
<i>And yet, somehow
you pinpointed our most expensive bottle.</i>

426
00:30:35,166 --> 00:30:37,001
<i>[laughs]</i>

427
00:30:38,169 --> 00:30:40,004
<i>I'm sorry if I'm interrupting you.</i>

428
00:30:40,088 --> 00:30:43,633
<i>It was just Ving Rhames
playing a drag queen named Holiday.</i>

429
00:30:44,384 --> 00:30:46,177
<i>It's a tour de force that can wait.</i>

430
00:30:49,222 --> 00:30:52,058
<i>I've been having a hard time. [exhales]</i>

431
00:30:52,141 --> 00:30:54,727
<i>You don't have to feel guilty
for being overwhelmed.</i>

432
00:30:55,603 --> 00:30:57,772
<i>Caregiving's hard enough without all that.</i>

433
00:31:00,358 --> 00:31:01,359
<i>It's been hard.</i>

434
00:31:02,652 --> 00:31:03,987
<i>I've been where you are.</i>

435
00:31:07,323 --> 00:31:11,119
<i>That's me and Anthony, my first love.</i>

436
00:31:12,704 --> 00:31:13,538
<i>Mm-hmm.</i>

437
00:31:19,919 --> 00:31:20,753
<i>He's gorgeous.</i>

438
00:31:20,837 --> 00:31:22,463
<i>-[Preston laughs]
-[Amy] Mm-hmm.</i>

439
00:31:22,547 --> 00:31:25,633
<i>You think you're the only one
who can bag an Italian prince?</i>

440
00:31:28,136 --> 00:31:30,263
<i>-Is that you guys in New York?
-Yeah.</i>

441
00:31:32,015 --> 00:31:33,641
<i>I was your age when he got sick.</i>

442
00:31:36,436 --> 00:31:37,520
<i>What happened next,</i>

443
00:31:37,604 --> 00:31:40,607
<i>I wouldn't wish
on my worst enemy. [exhales]</i>

444
00:31:41,566 --> 00:31:43,651
<i>Fighting some nameless, faceless thing</i>

445
00:31:43,735 --> 00:31:46,154
<i>that wants to rob you
of the love of your life.</i>

446
00:31:47,697 --> 00:31:50,783
<i>-It ain't for everyone.
-[sighs] It's not.</i>

447
00:31:52,243 --> 00:31:54,162
<i>You know, you don't have to do all this.</i>

448
00:31:59,542 --> 00:32:00,543
<i>Do what?</i>

449
00:32:03,046 --> 00:32:04,422
<i>Take care of Lino?</i>

450
00:32:05,465 --> 00:32:09,260
<i>Preston, he's my husband,
and he's fighting cancer.</i>

451
00:32:09,344 --> 00:32:11,888
<i>-I'm not gonna leave him.
-If that's what you decide.</i>

452
00:32:11,971 --> 00:32:13,097
<i>If?</i>

453
00:32:13,181 --> 00:32:16,309
<i>If you stay, you better get clear
about what you're in for.</i>

454
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,812
<i>When people are in pain, deep pain,</i>

455
00:32:19,896 --> 00:32:22,231
<i>it becomes
the only experience they can handle.</i>

456
00:32:22,732 --> 00:32:25,693
<i>It takes up all the oxygen in the room,
in the relationship.</i>

457
00:32:26,194 --> 00:32:29,364
<i>If you're not careful,
you could lose yourself.</i>

458
00:32:30,782 --> 00:32:34,535
<i>I'm really sorry about you and Anthony,
but it's not my story.</i>

459
00:32:35,411 --> 00:32:37,830
<i>Lino just had surgery, and he's...</i>

460
00:32:38,331 --> 00:32:39,415
<i>[Preston] Mm-hmm.</i>

461
00:32:39,499 --> 00:32:40,583
<i>...he's getting better.</i>

462
00:32:40,667 --> 00:32:41,876
<i>[Preston] Mm-hmm.</i>

463
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:45,755
<i>And we're gonna see the doctor in a couple
of days, and this will all be over, so...</i>

464
00:32:45,838 --> 00:32:47,590
<i>And what if it isn't?</i>

465
00:32:48,091 --> 00:32:50,009
<i>-[sighs]
-[Preston] What then?</i>

466
00:32:54,263 --> 00:32:55,932
<i>Thank you for the scotch.</i>

467
00:33:01,020 --> 00:33:03,690
<i>-[opera playing on TV]
-[singing in Italian]</i>

468
00:33:41,936 --> 00:33:43,479
<i>[sighs]</i>

469
00:33:46,024 --> 00:33:46,983
<i>[gasps]</i>

470
00:33:48,568 --> 00:33:50,570
<i>[panting]</i>

471
00:33:55,616 --> 00:33:57,618
<i>[sobbing]</i>

472
00:34:10,506 --> 00:34:12,508
<i>[sobbing]</i>

473
00:34:34,322 --> 00:34:36,407
<i>-[Atluri] Lino, Amy.
-Hi.</i>

474
00:34:37,116 --> 00:34:38,951
<i>-How was the holiday?
-[Amy] It was all right.</i>

475
00:34:39,535 --> 00:34:41,996
<i>-And these are Lino's parents?
-Yes, this is Giacomo.</i>

476
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:43,998
<i>-Piacere.</i>
-And this is Filomena.</i>

477
00:34:44,082 --> 00:34:46,793
<i>-[speaks Italian]</i>
-</i><i>You must have come a long way.</i>

478
00:34:47,585 --> 00:34:50,505
<i>Looks like everyone's here
to hear some good news.</i>

479
00:34:51,506 --> 00:34:52,965
<i>I looked over your report.</i>

480
00:34:53,633 --> 00:34:55,384
<i>Surgery couldn't have gone any better.</i>

481
00:34:55,468 --> 00:34:58,137
<i>[sighing]</i>

482
00:34:58,221 --> 00:35:01,682
<i>[in Sicilian] The cancer is gone.
The surgery couldn't have gone better.</i>

483
00:35:01,766 --> 00:35:04,143
<i>-Good.
-Thank you, God.</i>

484
00:35:04,227 --> 00:35:07,480
<i>[in English] So we have even more options
for drug treatments moving forward.</i>

485
00:35:07,563 --> 00:35:09,107
<i>What do you mean moving forward?</i>

486
00:35:09,190 --> 00:35:11,818
<i>Why... why do I need a medicine
if there's no cancer?</i>

487
00:35:11,901 --> 00:35:14,570
<i>Leiomyosarcoma almost always recurs.</i>

488
00:35:14,654 --> 00:35:17,198
<i>It can travel anywhere
in the body with soft tissue.</i>

489
00:35:17,281 --> 00:35:20,576
<i>Uh, you now need something
we call maintenance chemo.</i>

490
00:35:20,660 --> 00:35:22,286
<i>[in Sicilian] What is he saying?</i>

491
00:35:22,370 --> 00:35:24,122
<i>I'm trying to understand.</i>

492
00:35:24,205 --> 00:35:27,792
<i>[in English] Can I...
can I borrow your pen, please?</i>

493
00:35:31,462 --> 00:35:32,296
<i>Please.</i>

494
00:35:33,548 --> 00:35:35,591
<i>[in Sicilian] Why is your wife crying?</i>

495
00:35:37,718 --> 00:35:41,472
<i>The cancer I have is like a weed.
Even if you pull it, it still comes back.</i>

496
00:35:43,182 --> 00:35:46,144
<i>[in English] I promise this is good news.
We have options.</i>

497
00:35:46,227 --> 00:35:49,021
<i>Either we continue
with the same course of chemo, or...</i>

498
00:35:52,567 --> 00:35:54,652
<i>we can enroll you in a clinical trial</i>

499
00:35:54,735 --> 00:35:57,864
<i>for a new drug that I learned about
at a conference I hosted in Switzerland.</i>

500
00:35:59,907 --> 00:36:01,534
<i>[in Sicilian] What did the doctor say?</i>

501
00:36:01,617 --> 00:36:03,953
<i>[in Italian] He's explaining
how he can make Lino better.</i>

502
00:36:04,036 --> 00:36:09,542
<i>-But I thought he already was better.
-[in Sicilian] Let the doctor speak.</i>

503
00:36:09,625 --> 00:36:11,294
<i>[in English] I wouldn't offer this
to anyone</i>

504
00:36:11,377 --> 00:36:13,129
<i>who wasn't young and hearty as you are.</i>

505
00:36:13,212 --> 00:36:15,840
<i>This is a chance to have more life,</i>

506
00:36:15,923 --> 00:36:19,302
<i>to reopen the restaurant, to have kids.</i>

507
00:36:23,639 --> 00:36:24,682
<i>I want that.</i>

508
00:36:24,765 --> 00:36:27,643
<i>I do have to make you aware
of the risks though.</i>

509
00:36:28,227 --> 00:36:29,520
<i>It's a double-blind trial,</i>

510
00:36:29,604 --> 00:36:33,107
<i>which means only some
of the patients receive the real drug.</i>

511
00:36:33,858 --> 00:36:35,902
<i>Others receive a placebo.</i>

512
00:36:35,985 --> 00:36:37,278
<i>Placebo.</i>

513
00:36:38,237 --> 00:36:40,489
<i>[in Sicilian] Placebo.
What does that mean?</i>

514
00:36:41,073 --> 00:36:43,367
<i>[in English] So if I don't get
the real drug, what do I get?</i>

515
00:36:43,451 --> 00:36:46,621
<i>Usually a sugar pill. It's the only way
to study the effects of the drug.</i>

516
00:36:46,704 --> 00:36:49,582
<i>[in Sicilian] Lino, answer me.
What is a placebo?</i>

517
00:36:51,792 --> 00:36:53,252
<i>It's a sugar pill.</i>

518
00:36:54,253 --> 00:36:55,796
<i>[Giacomo] A sugar pill?</i>

519
00:36:55,880 --> 00:37:00,218
<i>You're telling me the doctor
will give my sick son a sugar pill?</i>

520
00:37:01,552 --> 00:37:03,346
<i>-[Lino exhales]
-What kind of science is this?</i>

521
00:37:03,429 --> 00:37:06,140
<i>It's a new experiment
they are testing right now.</i>

522
00:37:06,224 --> 00:37:09,018
<i>And they have to test this on you?</i>

523
00:37:09,101 --> 00:37:11,479
<i>[in English] I know
this is a hard decision,</i>

524
00:37:11,562 --> 00:37:13,314
<i>but if you wanna enroll, Lino,</i>

525
00:37:13,397 --> 00:37:15,441
<i>I need to know sooner rather than later.</i>

526
00:37:15,524 --> 00:37:18,277
<i>We need to start you now.
There are limited spots.</i>

527
00:37:18,361 --> 00:37:19,695
<i>[in Sicilian] Listen up.</i>

528
00:37:19,779 --> 00:37:22,114
<i>Tell this doctor now
that he has to give you the right drugs.</i>

529
00:37:22,198 --> 00:37:23,908
<i>No. Giacomo.</i>

530
00:37:23,991 --> 00:37:26,369
<i>[panting, in Italian] Outside, with me.</i>

531
00:37:28,037 --> 00:37:28,871
<i>Now!</i>

532
00:37:42,843 --> 00:37:46,514
<i>Lino has to make
the hardest decision of his life.</i>

533
00:37:47,515 --> 00:37:49,475
<i>And it is his decision to make.</i>

534
00:37:49,558 --> 00:37:51,769
<i>His, understand?</i>

535
00:37:51,852 --> 00:37:55,439
<i>He has one
of the best doctors in the world,</i>

536
00:37:55,523 --> 00:37:58,067
<i>giving him a chance to live.</i>

537
00:37:59,193 --> 00:38:00,820
<i>Please, leave him alone.</i>

538
00:38:00,903 --> 00:38:03,155
<i>But what's this experimental medicine?</i>

539
00:38:03,698 --> 00:38:04,615
<i>This is not medicine.</i>

540
00:38:04,699 --> 00:38:08,411
<i>This is not the time to discuss
the history of Western medicine!</i>

541
00:38:08,494 --> 00:38:09,453
<i>Do you understand?</i>

542
00:38:10,079 --> 00:38:14,083
<i>You have to trust your son,
because it's his life.</i>

543
00:38:14,750 --> 00:38:16,794
<i>Listen carefully.</i>

544
00:38:18,796 --> 00:38:23,342
<i>I'm always on his side in everything.</i>

545
00:38:24,176 --> 00:38:27,805
<i>And if you can't respect
your son's choice,</i>

546
00:38:27,888 --> 00:38:30,808
<i>you can go back to Sicily today.</i>

547
00:38:32,768 --> 00:38:33,644
<i>[huffs]</i>

548
00:38:35,604 --> 00:38:37,565
<i>[in English] The trial
will start right away,</i>

549
00:38:37,648 --> 00:38:40,776
<i>and if you enroll now,
well, I would be with you the whole way.</i>

550
00:38:41,902 --> 00:38:43,112
<i>[door opens]</i>

551
00:38:54,999 --> 00:38:58,294
<i>Okay. Yes, I want to enroll.</i>

552
00:39:03,132 --> 00:39:04,717
<i>What if you don't get the drug?</i>

553
00:39:07,553 --> 00:39:10,681
<i>What's the thing you say in Texas?
Go big or go home, right?</i>

554
00:39:11,599 --> 00:39:12,683
<i>[chuckles]</i>

555
00:39:15,269 --> 00:39:17,188
<i>-[laughing, chattering]
-[Hershel] Mmm!</i>

556
00:39:19,565 --> 00:39:22,735
<i>Who knew that our families
would finally bond over ribs?</i>

557
00:39:22,818 --> 00:39:23,652
<i>[Ken] Mmm!</i>

558
00:39:23,736 --> 00:39:27,323
<i>-No man can argue with his mouth full.
-Is that a Sicilian proverb?</i>

559
00:39:27,406 --> 00:39:29,617
<i>-It should be.
-[laughing]</i>

560
00:39:29,700 --> 00:39:31,494
<i>Well... [clears throat]</i>

561
00:39:31,577 --> 00:39:32,745
<i>Zora and I...</i>

562
00:39:32,828 --> 00:39:35,122
<i>[exhales] ...we, um,</i>

563
00:39:35,206 --> 00:39:38,167
<i>well, Happy New Year, everybody.</i>

564
00:39:38,250 --> 00:39:39,668
<i>[all] Happy New Year!</i>

565
00:39:39,752 --> 00:39:42,296
<i>[Ken] To happiness and good health.</i>

566
00:39:44,256 --> 00:39:46,258
<i>Where does everybody
wanna be this time next year?</i>

567
00:39:48,260 --> 00:39:49,095
<i>Alive.</i>

568
00:39:52,056 --> 00:39:53,724
<i>-[Ken] Well...
-Hey, Ken.</i>

569
00:39:54,308 --> 00:39:55,893
<i>-Yeah.
-Brah.</i>

570
00:40:00,898 --> 00:40:03,109
<i>Maybe I got you
too hopped up on that brown water.</i>

571
00:40:03,192 --> 00:40:07,238
<i>Dad, it's okay. It's okay, Ken.
Now that we're talking about health,</i>

572
00:40:07,822 --> 00:40:10,366
<i>Lino and I had something
we wanted to share with you all.</i>

573
00:40:10,449 --> 00:40:11,283
<i>[Lino] Yeah.</i>

574
00:40:13,369 --> 00:40:16,831
<i>I decided to enroll
in a clinical trial for a new drug.</i>

575
00:40:18,916 --> 00:40:22,670
<i>Which means that he might get the placebo.</i>

576
00:40:22,753 --> 00:40:26,298
<i>Yeah, the fact is that
if I had the real drug,</i>

577
00:40:27,216 --> 00:40:29,301
<i>I should already be feeling sick by now.</i>

578
00:40:32,847 --> 00:40:35,683
<i>-But we're taking it day by day.
-Well, you know you've got us.</i>

579
00:40:36,684 --> 00:40:37,852
<i>All of us.</i>

580
00:40:38,436 --> 00:40:40,980
<i>This ain't a burden
you gotta carry by yourself, son.</i>

581
00:40:44,233 --> 00:40:45,526
<i>Tell 'em what we said.</i>

582
00:40:46,277 --> 00:40:49,613
<i>[in Italian] My father
said Lino is not alone.</i>

583
00:40:50,531 --> 00:40:51,407
<i>Grazie.</i>

584
00:40:53,492 --> 00:40:58,831
<i>I didn't know my son was so loved here.</i>

585
00:40:59,915 --> 00:41:02,293
<i>[Amy clicks tongue, sighs]</i>

586
00:41:03,544 --> 00:41:05,838
<i>[in English] Uh, and...
and we also have news.</i>

587
00:41:06,755 --> 00:41:08,841
<i>-I'm engaged.
-Shut your mouth.</i>

588
00:41:08,924 --> 00:41:13,137
<i>What? Oh, this is wonderful.
We're so happy for you.</i>

589
00:41:13,220 --> 00:41:16,849
<i>Oh, you have no idea how long
I've been waiting to put this on.</i>

590
00:41:16,932 --> 00:41:19,560
<i>-[clamoring]
-Oh, my God!</i>

591
00:41:19,643 --> 00:41:22,563
<i>-Come on, brown grandbabies.
-Me too, as much as it costs.</i>

592
00:41:22,646 --> 00:41:24,857
<i>-[laughing]
-[in Italian] Congratulations!</i>

593
00:41:26,692 --> 00:41:28,819
<i>Tell them congratulations for me.</i>

594
00:41:28,903 --> 00:41:31,030
<i>A wedding is an important occasion.
Very important.</i>

595
00:41:31,113 --> 00:41:32,072
<i>Congratulations!</i>

596
00:41:34,950 --> 00:41:36,285
<i>[in English] Congratulations.</i>

597
00:41:38,412 --> 00:41:39,288
<i>[Amy sighs]</i>

598
00:41:40,956 --> 00:41:43,083
<i>-I can't believe he said that.
-It's okay, Lino.</i>

599
00:41:43,167 --> 00:41:44,502
<i>Congratulations.</i>

600
00:41:45,628 --> 00:41:46,962
<i>[in Sicilian] You have no dignity.</i>

601
00:41:49,215 --> 00:41:51,300
<i>[in English] Okay, let's go.</i> Andiamo.</i>

602
00:41:51,884 --> 00:41:54,178
<i>-[Hershel clears throat]
-Oh, are we speaking Italian now?</i>

603
00:41:54,261 --> 00:41:55,346
<i>Come on, Lynn.</i>

604
00:42:16,367 --> 00:42:17,785
<i>[in Sicilian] You should be ashamed.</i>

605
00:42:18,369 --> 00:42:20,704
<i>You celebrate a wedding
for someone you don't even know,</i>

606
00:42:21,705 --> 00:42:24,875
<i>even though you know it hurts my mother.</i>

607
00:42:24,959 --> 00:42:26,252
<i>The shame is on you.</i>

608
00:42:28,504 --> 00:42:29,880
<i>You are the real shame.</i>

609
00:42:29,964 --> 00:42:32,049
<i>A son that left everything behind.</i>

610
00:42:32,132 --> 00:42:34,301
<i>His home, his family,</i>

611
00:42:34,385 --> 00:42:35,219
<i>his land.</i>

612
00:42:36,136 --> 00:42:37,304
<i>Like it was nothing.</i>

613
00:42:37,388 --> 00:42:41,350
<i>I left to follow my dreams.</i>

614
00:42:42,226 --> 00:42:43,435
<i>You left me alone.</i>

615
00:42:45,813 --> 00:42:46,772
<i>Alone!</i>

616
00:42:47,398 --> 00:42:49,024
<i>You could've hired help.</i>

617
00:42:49,108 --> 00:42:52,194
<i>I didn't need just anyone.</i>

618
00:42:59,326 --> 00:43:00,703
<i>I wanted you.</i>

619
00:43:02,454 --> 00:43:03,622
<i>You.</i>

620
00:43:04,164 --> 00:43:05,040
<i>[Lino exhales]</i>

621
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:07,126
<i>You didn't want me.</i>

622
00:43:08,002 --> 00:43:10,796
<i>[panting] You wanted
another version of you.</i>

623
00:43:10,879 --> 00:43:13,591
<i>What's wrong with that? Am I that bad?</i>

624
00:43:14,842 --> 00:43:16,677
<i>What did I do to make you leave?</i>

625
00:43:18,262 --> 00:43:19,346
<i>Tell me.</i>

626
00:43:19,430 --> 00:43:20,514
<i>See, Papa.</i>

627
00:43:21,807 --> 00:43:24,059
<i>I left</i>

628
00:43:24,977 --> 00:43:26,478
<i>to build a life of my own.</i>

629
00:43:27,062 --> 00:43:28,272
<i>I don't understand you.</i>

630
00:43:30,024 --> 00:43:30,858
<i>[in Italian] I know.</i>

631
00:43:36,196 --> 00:43:38,324
<i>But can you accept me?</i>

632
00:43:40,159 --> 00:43:41,493
<i>-[sniffles]
-[Lino] Papa.</i>

633
00:43:42,453 --> 00:43:47,124
<i>[in Sicilian] My disease
can come back at any time.</i>

634
00:43:51,003 --> 00:43:52,755
<i>[in Italian] The truth is
I'm a little tired.</i>

635
00:43:55,007 --> 00:43:57,509
<i>I'm tired, Papa. [sniffles]</i>

636
00:43:58,927 --> 00:44:02,222
<i>[shudders] I can't keep fighting
both you and the disease.</i>

637
00:44:04,433 --> 00:44:07,436
<i>[panting, in Sicilian]
So now you have to choose.</i>

638
00:44:09,271 --> 00:44:11,690
<i>Are we two angry men?</i>

639
00:44:14,818 --> 00:44:16,570
<i>Or father and son?</i>

640
00:44:19,698 --> 00:44:21,700
<i>[Giacomo sobbing]</i>

641
00:44:31,585 --> 00:44:34,505
<i>Mamma, is all this sauce necessary?
Look at that!</i>

642
00:44:34,588 --> 00:44:37,091
<i>You don't like it? You won't eat it all?</i>

643
00:44:37,174 --> 00:44:39,259
<i>It'll be gone before you land in Sicily.</i>

644
00:44:40,969 --> 00:44:43,472
<i>I put a little sugar in it.
Just how you like it.</i>

645
00:44:53,065 --> 00:44:53,941
<i>Come on, go to him.</i>

646
00:44:59,905 --> 00:45:01,407
<i>-[Lino speaks Sicilian]
-[mutters]</i>

647
00:45:01,490 --> 00:45:05,202
<i>Don't work too hard.
It's not good for you.</i>

648
00:45:05,786 --> 00:45:08,497
<i>Don't worry, don't worry.</i>

649
00:45:08,580 --> 00:45:11,333
<i>Come here. I want to show you</i>

650
00:45:11,959 --> 00:45:14,336
<i>the right way to plant things.</i>

651
00:45:14,420 --> 00:45:17,881
<i>Otherwise when they grow,
they will be tasteless.</i>

652
00:45:17,965 --> 00:45:20,426
<i>And taste is important for a chef.</i>

653
00:45:21,009 --> 00:45:22,428
<i>It's all important, Papa.</i>

654
00:45:23,345 --> 00:45:28,934
<i>That you became a chef in America</i>

655
00:45:30,060 --> 00:45:31,228
<i>makes me happy.</i>

656
00:45:33,772 --> 00:45:35,065
<i>[in Italian] Shall we go?</i>

657
00:45:35,858 --> 00:45:38,277
<i>[in Sicilian] Ah, yeah,
we have to go. Let's go.</i>

658
00:45:39,319 --> 00:45:40,612
<i>[Lino sighs]</i>

659
00:45:45,075 --> 00:45:46,702
<i>-[grunts]
-[speaking Sicilian]</i>

660
00:45:46,785 --> 00:45:49,872
<i>-What is it?
-Are you still hurting?</i>

661
00:45:49,955 --> 00:45:51,457
<i>A little, it's nothing, really.</i>

662
00:45:52,458 --> 00:45:53,375
<i>[Giacomo] Oh.</i>

663
00:45:54,251 --> 00:45:56,420
<i>I'm fine, Papa. It's nothing.</i>

664
00:45:58,756 --> 00:46:00,841
<i>Well, I'm the one really hurting.</i>

665
00:46:00,924 --> 00:46:03,343
<i>You know why?
Because of this olive tree right here.</i>

666
00:46:03,927 --> 00:46:07,347
<i>Inside this vase, I tried to fix it,</i>

667
00:46:07,431 --> 00:46:12,269
<i>but in America,
it won't bear even one olive. [laughing]</i>

668
00:46:12,352 --> 00:46:14,229
<i>-We'll see.
-Yeah, we'll see.</i>

669
00:46:16,190 --> 00:46:21,153
<i>Don't let anyone touch this garden.
I worked hard to fix it.</i>

670
00:46:21,236 --> 00:46:23,614
<i>[in Italian] You mean
what's left of my roses?</i>

671
00:46:24,323 --> 00:46:27,701
<i>[in Sicilian] You'll see.
In spring, you'll see.</i>

672
00:46:27,785 --> 00:46:30,245
<i>-[in English] Okay.
-[chuckles]</i>

673
00:46:35,542 --> 00:46:38,086
<i>-[in Sicilian] She's like your mother.
-[laughing]</i>

674
00:46:40,047 --> 00:46:41,381
<i>Bye, Papa.</i>

675
00:46:44,176 --> 00:46:45,677
<i>[speaking Sicilian]</i>

676
00:46:46,678 --> 00:46:48,013
<i>[gasps]</i>

677
00:46:49,014 --> 00:46:52,476
<i>[speaks Sicilian]</i>

678
00:46:54,770 --> 00:46:55,896
<i>[sobs]</i>

679
00:47:00,025 --> 00:47:00,859
<i>[exhales]</i>

680
00:47:02,694 --> 00:47:03,654
<i>[inhales]</i>

681
00:47:07,032 --> 00:47:07,908
<i>[sobs]</i>

682
00:47:13,789 --> 00:47:14,873
<i>My son.</i>

683
00:47:20,045 --> 00:47:21,672
<i>[in Italian] You made a miracle.</i>

684
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:26,385
<i>Of course, now,</i>

685
00:47:26,468 --> 00:47:28,470
<i>the real miracle would be a baby.</i>

686
00:47:29,471 --> 00:47:33,475
<i>Because for him, a baby
would mean more strength, more life.</i>

687
00:47:35,477 --> 00:47:36,687
<i>[exhales]</i>

688
00:47:57,416 --> 00:47:58,333
<i>[sniffles]</i>

689
00:48:15,893 --> 00:48:16,727
<i>Amy.</i>

690
00:48:18,061 --> 00:48:18,979
<i>[Amy in English] Okay.</i>

691
00:48:22,316 --> 00:48:23,525
<i>You're beautiful.</i>

692
00:48:27,988 --> 00:48:28,822
<i>I mean it.</i>

693
00:48:31,742 --> 00:48:34,369
<i>["Un Soffio Caldo" by Zucchero playing]</i>

694
00:48:40,375 --> 00:48:41,919
<i>[camera shutter clicks]</i>

695
00:48:45,714 --> 00:48:47,466
<i>It's okay. [chuckles]</i>

696
00:49:01,647 --> 00:49:03,148
<i>[camera shutter clicks]</i>

697
00:49:47,818 --> 00:49:49,277
<i>[camera shutter clicks]</i>

698
00:50:11,883 --> 00:50:13,927
<i>[water running]</i>

699
00:50:18,807 --> 00:50:19,808
<i>[sighs]</i>

700
00:50:21,810 --> 00:50:22,686
<i>Lino.</i>

701
00:50:23,270 --> 00:50:25,230
<i>[Lino clears throat, coughs]</i>

702
00:50:25,856 --> 00:50:27,149
<i>Lino.</i>

703
00:50:27,232 --> 00:50:30,110
<i>-Lino, I'm coming. What is it?
-I'm feeling sick.</i>

704
00:50:30,694 --> 00:50:33,739
<i>-I'll go get the</i> bicarbonato.</i> <i>[panting]
-No, no, no,</i> amore.</i>

705
00:50:36,283 --> 00:50:37,659
<i>I said I'm feeling sick.</i>

706
00:50:37,743 --> 00:50:40,120
<i>[both panting]</i>

707
00:50:40,203 --> 00:50:41,121
<i>Do you think...</i>

708
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:43,874
<i>[chuckles] I think I got the real drug.</i>

709
00:50:43,957 --> 00:50:47,085
<i>[exhales]</i>

710
00:50:48,003 --> 00:50:49,087
<i>[sighing]</i>

711
00:50:49,171 --> 00:50:50,714
<i>[exhales]</i>

712
00:50:52,883 --> 00:50:54,926
<i>[exhales]</i>