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[narrator] Every 90 seconds,
someone is reported missing.
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Many return to their families.
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But for others,
something has gone seriously wrong.
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{\an8}A 17-year-old girl has gone missing.
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Well, I try and look
at the last place that they were,
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see if we've got any CCTV of them.
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[narrator] She's pregnant.
And her mum's desperate to find her.
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Jayden was hopeful that a baby
would cement their relationship
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and actually make them a lot happier.
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[narrator] What happens
in the police investigation that follows…
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It's not unusual for teenage girls
to have that troubled background.
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And, yeah, she would have
disagreements with her family.
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[narrator] What happens
to the family at its heart…
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She had made absolutely
no contact whatsoever,
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which was unusual.
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They then do a report
for a missing persons.
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And that's when I started to panic.
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Jayden had gone missing previously.
Uh, and on each of those,
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within 24 to 48 hours,
she had made some form of contact.
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[narrator reading]
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[speaking indistinctly]
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[woman] Jayden was quirky,
annoying, funny, beautiful.
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[laughing]
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{\an8}She could be your best friend,
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{\an8}your worst enemy.
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{\an8}But 99.9% of people loved her.
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She was my best friend
and not only my daughter.
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She was the youngest of three.
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Uh, she has two older siblings,
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an older sister and a brother.
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From the time she could talk,
it was what, where, why, when.
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Yeah, she was a law
unto herself, to be fair,
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when she was little.
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I was with their dad
for 18 years, on and off.
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The relationship was a hard one.
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He was an abuser,
not just mentally, but physically, too.
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I did my best with all three of them.
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They went to any group
that they ever wanted to join,
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never went without, to be fair.
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But I think they saw
a lot of nasty things growing up
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that, obviously, as an adult,
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you try to protect your children from,
but you can't 100%.
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Sometimes it was hard.
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But I wouldn't change
having them three ever, you know.
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They were my life,
and, uh, even now they still are.
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[piano music playing]
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I left after spending 13 hours of abuse
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being spat at, punched, kicked,
dragged about by my hair.
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Jayden was seven.
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He got custody in the family courts
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because I wasn't allowed
to bring up the domestic violence.
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We used to ring each other
every other night.
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And I'd arrange to meet her in her dreams
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any place in the world that she'd pick.
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And at eight o'clock every night,
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we'd blow each other three kisses
out the window
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and catch 'em, no matter what.
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That's how it was.
I had them as often as I could.
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Uh, it was hard,
and it was heartbreaking taking 'em back,
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I used to hate it.
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[pensive music playing]
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When she first started being naughty,
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it was things like drinking and smoking
at school or out with her friends.
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[narrator] One of these friends
is Jake Blakeley.
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Jayden and Jake's friendship
was like any others.
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He'd come round my house.
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They'd mess about.
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On one of his birthdays,
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I've got a picture of him
stood in my sitting room
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with her on his shoulders
going like that, yeah?
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They were mates.
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[narrator] Jake has an older brother, Ben.
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I remember her seeing him outside
the local shops.
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And I was with her,
and he was like, "All right, Jade?"
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as he walked past
and, you know, pushing his bike.
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And I was like, "Who's that?"
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She goes, "Ah, don't worry about him.
He's just a rat.
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It's Jake's brother. He's just a weirdo."
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Thought nothing of it.
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And then he, obviously,
started hanging round
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with the group of younger kids,
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drinking with 'em and smoking with 'em,
and all that sorta stuff.
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And, uh, I kinda realized
that she liked him.
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[narrator] In 2012,
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16-year-old Jayden starts
a relationship with Ben.
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He was very well-mannered, um…
"Yes. Please. Thank you."
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Nothing outta the ordinary, to be fair,
a bit strange-looking.
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And I thought it was a bit odd
that he liked my daughter.
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Oh, it was definitely odd
that she liked him.
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But you can't help who ya like.
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[narrator] Within just a few months,
the relationship between Jayden and Ben
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comes to the attention of the police.
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[man] The initial relationship
was very loving.
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{\an8}And he was very doting of her,
but as time progressed,
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{\an8}he became very controlling.
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{\an8}Um, he became aggressive towards her.
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Jayden's family
were initially approving of Ben,
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uh, but they noticed
a change in Jayden's behavior.
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And we were starting to realize
that, actually, she had been the victim
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of him taking photographs of her
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while she was naked,
coming out of the shower.
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And that was a matter
that she had reported to the police,
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and that the police were investigating.
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{\an8}Jayden split up with him, uh,
around the 21st of November.
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{\an8}Then, on the 25th of November,
he wanted to get back together with her.
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She had refused.
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But then he'd threatened
to put these videos…
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Upload these videos of her,
these intimate videos of her,
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with a view that, once that had been done,
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um, she would kill herself
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because she would be so upset
and distressed about it.
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It wasn't long before
his true identity come out.
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But he was seeing other girls
as well behind Jayden's back,
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so he was flitting
from one girl to another,
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and he'd have one girl
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that'd give him money for drugs and food,
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another girl that would give him money
for clothes and things.
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And Jayden was the girl, the go-to girl,
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that would do the naughty things with him.
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So, like, jumping
the trains nicking, um, luggage,
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and stuff like that.
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[uneasy music playing]
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[Chris] Ben Blakeley,
particularly in relation
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to his previous relationships
with females,
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he had a history of coercive
controlling behavior towards them.
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{\an8}Coercive control is done
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{\an8}to maintain control over somebody
as much as possible,
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and even to, uh,
create a situation of subjugation.
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[Chris] A number of the females
that we spoke to
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had also been assaulted by him.
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When he did lose his temper,
he was very violent,
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and he would grab them
round the throat and punch them.
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A person who exerts coercive control,
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that extra level of control,
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is quite a distinct type of person.
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It's not the kind of thing really
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that just anybody is gonna end up doing.
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It's somebody who for some reason
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needs that amount of control
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or feels entitled
to that amount of control.
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[Sam] She'd gone from a glitter kid,
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um, loving dresses
and high heels and make-up
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and all that sorta thing.
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It wasn't until she got with him,
that all that stopped.
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She stopped being a girly girl.
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She wore baggy tracksuit pants,
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uh, trainers, oversized jumpers,
you know, all that sorta stuff.
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[narrator] The change in Jayden's behavior
affects every part of her life.
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[Sam] She'd gone missing from school.
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So school had rung police
on numerous occasions to try and find her.
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Basically, she was
a pain in their backside,
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keep going missing, me keep reporting her.
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Um, and even to the point
where I got sick of it.
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[Nikki] She's a young girl growing up.
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You know, it's not unusual
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for teenage girls to have
that troubled background.
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Um… And, yeah, she would
have disagreements with her family.
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Um, but they were
just sorta disagreements.
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And then her and her family
would always get back together,
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and, you know,
resolve any issues that they had.
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[Chris] She became more withdrawn.
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She also became
quite difficult around the family.
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And there were a lot of arguments
about her relationship with Ben,
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which culminated in her, uh,
actually leaving the family home
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and moving
into One Foot Forward in Oxford.
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[narrator] One Foot Forward
is a hostel set up
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to help young people
who become homeless, like Jayden.
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[Sam] Took 'em a couple of weeks
to get her out of her shell.
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And they then realized
that she was a nice girl, you know,
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that she'd had it a bit hard.
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And I was trying to help them help her.
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She didn't wanna come back
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'cause she didn't wanna bring
any more crap to my door with Ben.
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What became clear was that
he was very controlling of Jayden,
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um, and he had given her instructions
not to leave her room.
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She wasn't allowed to speak to any men.
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She wasn't allowed
to have access to her phone.
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In fact, he'd stolen her mobile telephone,
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and he had control
of her social media accounts.
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The level of control was so serious
that he had actually instructed her
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that if she wanted to go to the toilet,
she had to stay in her room.
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And that resulted in her urinating
into containers within the room,
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so that she didn't have to leave her room.
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[narrator] Out of the blue,
Jayden calls her mum, Sam.
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[Sam] I'd missed the calls.
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And she just kept…
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"Mum, ring me now.
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I've got something important to tell.
You gotta ring me back,"
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which I did.
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And then it was like
a 10-minute conversation of what's wrong.
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"Is it Ben?" "Have ya run outta money?"
"Are you in trouble?"
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"No, I'm pregnant."
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[Chris] I think Jayden was hopeful
that Ben would now settle down,
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that he would stop being violent
towards her,
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that he would be less controlling,
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and that, actually,
a baby would cement their relationship
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and actually make them a lot happier.
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And, to be fair,
I was proper chuffed because
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I could hear the happiness in her voice.
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It wasn't an ideal situation
for her to be in,
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because I knew
that if she stayed with him,
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she'd have lost the baby.
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The baby would've been put on
an at-risk list straightaway.
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So they would have monitored her
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through social services,
the police, and everything.
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And I think he knew that
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because he'd already lost
two children beforehand.
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He had two other women
that had babies by him.
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He wasn't allowed to see any of them.
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She loved kids.
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And that's…
I think that's what she wanted.
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She wanted to love something
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and something to love her unconditionally.
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And I think that's what she thought
she'd have got from a baby.
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[narrator] Jayden and her mum
arrange to meet up in town.
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[Sam] The last time I saw her
was outside One Foot Forward.
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We went to the pub in Oxford city.
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I brought her a coke.
I think I had a coffee.
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{\an8}Talked about her being pregnant.
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Um, I gave her £15.
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I kissed her on the steps, cuddled her.
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I said, "Please come home.
I'll look after ya. You're having a baby."
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And she said,
"No, I don't wanna come home.
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I don't wanna bring any more trouble
to your door, Mum."
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[narrator] December, 2013,
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17-year-old Jayden Parkinson is pregnant
with Ben Blakeley's baby.
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She's living in a hostel for young people,
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despite her mum, Sam,
wanting her to come home.
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{\an8}The Wednesday morning,
I got a call from One Foot Forward
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{\an8}asking if Jayden was with me.
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She hadn't been.
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They then got off the phone,
obviously, did what they had to do,
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then rung me back and said,
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"We've had to now phone the police
and do a report for a missing persons."
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And that's when I started to panic.
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{\an8}I put out missing posters
with the Missing People charity.
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I was putting out appeals
on Facebook, on Twitter.
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Anything I could do I was sharing.
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[Chris] Jayden's family
were very concerned about her.
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And also, her immediate family had done
a lot of work with her friends.
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{\an8}She had quite a large network of friends,
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{\an8}which, in fairness,
she'd become detached from
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{\an8}because, of course,
Ben had been controlling her.
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But they were, uh, speaking to her friends
about where she may have gone,
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and where she'd gone in the past with Ben.
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As far as I was concerned,
I knew something wasn't right
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because I knew she was looking forward
to seeing me Friday.
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[Nikki] When someone goes missing,
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we'll try and look
at the last place that they were,
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see if we've got any CCTV of them there.
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{\an8}And we were aware from CCTV,
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{\an8}from investigations
and witnesses at One Foot Forward,
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that she had gone to meet Ben that day.
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She met him on the Cowley Road in Oxford
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{\an8}where they then traveled
to Oxford Station.
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{\an8}And there's CCTV of them walking
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through the railway station at Oxford
and through the barriers.
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We know that
they then got a train to Didcot.
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And just after four o'clock
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is the last known sighting
of Jayden on CCTV,
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where she's seen
to go through the barriers
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at Didcot railway station,
followed by Ben.
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Her mum was really distressed
about Ben Blakeley.
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She had her suspicions about him.
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He was quite a violent, controlling,
and intimidating individual
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who had assaulted Jayden in the past.
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[uneasy music playing]
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[Chris] The Major Crime Unit
became involved,
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uh, after Jayden'd been missing
for just over a week.
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I looked back over the circumstances
of her disappearance
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and also the fact
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that she had made absolutely
no contact whatsoever with her family,
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which was unusual because
Jayden had gone missing previously,
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uh, and on each of those,
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within 24 to 48 hours,
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she had made some form
of contact either on social media,
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or she'd actually called her mother.
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It's hard because you don't know
if they need you,
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if they're hurt,
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if they're being held by somebody.
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I couldn't sleep. I was running on empty.
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It was like I was in a daze.
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"Where is she? Where is she?
I gotta do my best to find her.
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I need to find my daughter."
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[Chris] When I picked up
the investigation,
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Ben had been arrested
on suspicion of kidnapping Jayden.
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He'd been interviewed
about that and denied it,
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and he'd then been released on bail.
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I asked the police officers
on the investigation
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to start looking at what
we would call aspects of proof of life.
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So these are about 30
or 40 different things,
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a checklist that we would go through.
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And this checklist derives from
the fact that it's virtually impossible
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for an adult particularly to go missing
and not leave any trace of their existence
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if they are alive.
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So they would be things
like financial records,
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things like use of social media,
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use of technology, use of mobile phones.
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There's lots of things that we can do
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to try and show
the last proof of life that we had.
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And the last proof
of life that, um, we had
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was her at Didcot train station
with, um, Ben Blakeley.
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This was now gonna be
a murder investigation,
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you know, a week or so down the line.
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The SIO, Chris Ward, then makes a decision
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that we're now
going to arrest him for murder.
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And I remember them coming
round to me and saying…
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"You're gonna hear
on the news and in the papers
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that we've arrested him
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on suspicion of murder without a body."
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I was then explained to that
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how it works with the police,
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how that after the first 24 hours
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is the most important time
to find somebody,
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and after that
they don't hold out much hope.
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[uneasy music playing]
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And that I was to prepare myself
for finding the body.
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[sniffles]
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Sam's reaction was,
"I knew it. I just knew."
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And I think, um…
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Well, from what she was saying
to me, as a mother, she knew.
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[Chris] When Ben was arrested on suspicion
of murdering Jayden, he was very quiet.
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He said absolutely nothing.
So he didn't answer any of the questions.
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Just after 10 p.m.,
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{\an8}there's a CCTV capture
of Ben leaving Didcot railway station
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{\an8}on the 3rd.
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{\an8}And what's evident on that CCTV
is there's no sign of Jayden.
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[narrator] As the investigation unfolds,
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police receive information
from a local taxi driver.
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He explained to police officers
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that he had collected a man
from a dirt track in Didcot
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at about one o'clock in the morning.
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That person had
a large suitcase, blue suitcase,
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which was described
as being covered in mud.
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And it was very, very heavy.
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And the taxi driver was now concerned
that that suitcase
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and the circumstances
in which he collected that man
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were very suspicious.
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He couldn't lift it on his own,
and got the taxi driver to help him.
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And the taxi driver commented
that it was really heavy.
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And he said,
"Yeah, my bird's kicked me out.
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It's everything I own.
It's all my worldly goods."
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It was my Jayden.
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[Chris] That taxi
was booked in a false name.
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Uh, but we were able to do
some very quick telephone work,
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and we established very quickly
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that that call had been made
from Ben Blakeley's mobile phone.
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[eerie music playing]
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[narrator] The taxi driver's statement
means police concentrate their search
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near a building known locally
as the Spooky Barn.
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The barn itself is situated,
um, at the end of a track near a field.
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It's, um… It's quite dilapidated.
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Uh, there was evidence within the barn
of people drinking alcohol,
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discarded cans and, uh, various things,
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which suggested that it was somewhere
where teenagers congregated,
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and they would meet to drink alcohol.
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So we started to search that area.
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And in particular,
we used police search dogs…
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[dog barks]
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who were specifically trained
to detect body scent from dead bodies.
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And the first thing they detected
was the scent of body on a serviette,
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uh, which had been discarded
in the field by the barn.
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And they also indicated into the barn
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that a body had been present
within the barn recently.
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[narrator] December, 2013,
17-year-old Jayden Parkinson is missing.
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Police have arrested Ben Blakeley
on suspicion of murder.
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They prepare Jayden's mum,
Sam, for the worst,
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and are searching for a body.
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Having had this indication
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{\an8}from the police search dogs
at the Spooky Barn,
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{\an8}we contacted a forensic archaeologist.
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{\an8}[man] The first steps for me
in a case like this
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{\an8}is to try to get
as much information as possible
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{\an8}about the area that the police
are interested in, so in this instance,
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{\an8}looking at the landscape
around the village of Upton
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{\an8}to try to understand it better.
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I… I would use aerial photographs.
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I'd use current maps,
um, and historic maps,
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so trying to build up
layers of information
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that start with, um, the geology,
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so what rock types are present there,
what soil is overlying them,
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um, how has the area been used in the past
both historically and recently.
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So we had a location of the taxi pick-up.
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And from that lane, which then
goes out east into the farmland,
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those other areas become more apparent.
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We sampled around the barn
and into the woodland,
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and then looped back
round again on ourselves,
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trying to capture as much of
the parameters, that scene, as possible.
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[Chris] The forensic archaeologist
in this case is very important
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because they can give expert opinion
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on areas of land that have been disturbed,
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and the most likely place
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that somebody would then start
to dig to… to bury somebody.
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[narrator] Police want to be sure
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that Ben Blakeley was the person
who traveled in the taxi
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with the blue suitcase.
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Officers carried out
house-to-house inquiries.
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One of the houses they knocked on
was Ben and Jake's grandmother.
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Ben had come into her house
a few days before.
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He was very agitated.
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He said he needed a suitcase.
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Uh, he took a suitcase,
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having emptied the contents
of it onto the floor,
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uh, and he had come back some hours later,
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and he had dumped
that suitcase in her shed.
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And it was covered in mud.
And that's where it currently was.
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And… And that's the suitcase
that I believed
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Jayden's body had been concealed
within the suitcase,
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and that he… Ben had used that
in order to move her body.
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[uneasy music playing]
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[narrator] Police get an unexpected call
from a member of the public.
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-[Chris] A lady phoned up and said…
-[phone beeping]
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"Ben's brother lives with me,"
so that's Jake Blakeley.
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"He's living with me.
He's lodging with me.
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He has just told me that he has discarded
and… and secreted clothing
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for his brother."
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And she thought that was very suspicious,
so she contacted us.
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He was arrested on suspicion
of Jayden's murder as well,
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and he was also interviewed,
and during his interview, he said nothing.
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As well as that, we now
had witnesses that had seen
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both Jake and Ben on mountain bikes
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around about the 9th of December.
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And they were described
as being covered in mud,
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this thick clay mud.
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So I suspected now that…
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That even if Jake had not been involved
in Jayden's murder,
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that he knew where she was
or had a very good idea where she was.
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The evidence we gathered at this stage,
we still hadn't found Jayden's body,
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there was still no sign
that Jayden was alive,
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the Crown Prosecution Service
took the decision
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to charge Ben and Jake
with Jayden's murder,
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even though we hadn't found her body.
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[narrator] Determined
to find Jayden's body,
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the police stop at nothing.
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[Chris] So another significant,
um, line of investigation was,
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um, we used the RAF resources
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to fly over some of these key areas.
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And what we were looking for
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was any sign that there had been
recent soil disturbances
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because we believed
that Jayden had been buried,
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that was because of the mud,
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we'd found some spades
at the grandmother's house as well,
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which had this thick clay mud.
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So we commissioned the Royal Air Force
to do some aerial photography,
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so that we could see
if there was any areas of disturbed soil.
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They identified ten areas.
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And the forensic archaeologists
looked through each of those areas.
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Significantly, one of those areas
was St Mary's Church
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in the cemetery where, um,
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there were some foot patterns
around one of the graves.
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[bell tolls]
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[narrator] Then there's proof
that the Didcot churchyard
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was their prime search location.
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When Jake was charged
with the murder of Jayden, he broke down.
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He had a consultation with his solicitor,
and he handwrote a note.
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So the note said basically that,
as far as Jake was aware,
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the body of Jayden Parkinson
was buried in his Uncle Alan's grave,
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which was in the cemetery
of St Mary's Church in Didcot.
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[Chris] In the early afternoon,
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I'd arranged
for Jayden's family to be told
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that we had some significant information
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and that we were going
to begin work within the graveyard,
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um, in the hope
that we may be able to find Jayden.
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You'd expect a grave
that had been occupied for some years
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to be grassed over,
but it still had clods of soil on the top,
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as if it would have been
recently excavated.
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So the first thing we would do
is erect a mobile tent around that.
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That's so that police officers
and the forensic archaeologist could work
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without being filmed to respect
the privacy of, uh, Jayden's body,
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should Jayden's body be within there.
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[Karl] During excavation, you find
a range of different, uh, evidence types.
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In this instance, we had green leaves
that were mixed into the fill.
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That gives you confidence to say
this has been disturbed recently.
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Any leaves that had been green
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00:24:39,043 --> 00:24:41,123
that would've fallen
when the uncle was buried
478
00:24:41,203 --> 00:24:43,043
would long since have decomposed.
479
00:24:43,123 --> 00:24:46,083
We had toolmarks that were present
in the side of the grave.
480
00:24:46,163 --> 00:24:50,123
They were extremely crisp
and fresh, extremely deep,
481
00:24:50,203 --> 00:24:52,283
um, and looked like
they'd been delivered
482
00:24:52,363 --> 00:24:54,603
with very high energy behind a… a tool.
483
00:24:55,083 --> 00:24:59,283
At a depth
of something like 40 to 50 centimeters,
484
00:24:59,363 --> 00:25:03,323
the fill of the soil that
we were excavating became looser.
485
00:25:03,403 --> 00:25:09,523
And then, uh, we can see
the skin of Jayden's body visible.
486
00:25:10,483 --> 00:25:13,643
[Chris] Her legs had been tied up
towards her back,
487
00:25:13,723 --> 00:25:17,403
and secured with her underwear.
488
00:25:17,483 --> 00:25:23,043
Um, and that body, we were convinced
by that stage, was Jayden.
489
00:25:30,123 --> 00:25:32,483
[Nikki] We went
and had to tell her, obviously,
490
00:25:32,563 --> 00:25:34,443
that we believed that we'd found Jayden.
491
00:25:34,523 --> 00:25:39,483
{\an8}But even then, you know,
we knew, she knew, but it was just…
492
00:25:39,563 --> 00:25:42,283
{\an8}We still have to wait
for that confirmation and stuff.
493
00:25:42,963 --> 00:25:45,683
{\an8}The day they said,
"We think we've found her,"
494
00:25:46,643 --> 00:25:49,003
{\an8}I remember collapsing in my house.
495
00:25:50,043 --> 00:25:53,443
And that was it.
My body, my head just switched off.
496
00:25:55,923 --> 00:25:57,803
[pensive music playing]
497
00:25:59,083 --> 00:26:00,883
The grave, to look at,
498
00:26:00,963 --> 00:26:03,603
you would not have thought
her body was there
499
00:26:03,683 --> 00:26:08,923
because they'd taken
the topsoil off separately, dug down,
500
00:26:09,003 --> 00:26:11,963
and they'd distributed the extra soil
that accounted for her body
501
00:26:12,043 --> 00:26:13,483
around the graveyard.
502
00:26:14,683 --> 00:26:18,243
I remember going to see the church
and all the flowers outside.
503
00:26:18,323 --> 00:26:19,883
[bell tolls]
504
00:26:20,723 --> 00:26:24,323
I got to the gate of the church,
and I remember going to the policemen.
505
00:26:24,403 --> 00:26:27,323
And they took
their hats off to me. [sniffles]
506
00:26:30,683 --> 00:26:32,123
And said it was their…
507
00:26:32,203 --> 00:26:34,883
It was their pride
to be able to stand over her,
508
00:26:34,963 --> 00:26:36,403
looking after her.
509
00:26:38,363 --> 00:26:39,723
[sobbing]
510
00:26:40,443 --> 00:26:43,723
And I could see in their eyes
they were hurt.
511
00:26:43,803 --> 00:26:45,283
They were upset. [sniffles]
512
00:26:46,643 --> 00:26:47,803
And…
513
00:26:48,803 --> 00:26:53,803
I'll never forget
how grateful I am to them.
514
00:26:54,123 --> 00:26:57,723
How they made, in her death, more respect
515
00:26:57,803 --> 00:27:01,323
than he ever showed her in her life
and even in her death.
516
00:27:04,403 --> 00:27:06,603
[inhales deeply and exhales]
517
00:27:06,683 --> 00:27:08,483
Looking at the results of the postmortem,
518
00:27:08,563 --> 00:27:11,963
it was clear that Jayden
had been asphyxiated.
519
00:27:12,043 --> 00:27:14,683
Um, there were marks on her neck.
520
00:27:14,763 --> 00:27:16,523
And those marks were, more than likely,
521
00:27:16,603 --> 00:27:19,123
as a result of Ben Blakeley
strangling her.
522
00:27:21,723 --> 00:27:24,163
[Nikki] She was pregnant.
She did decide to leave him.
523
00:27:24,243 --> 00:27:26,923
And then, uh, that was the catalyst.
524
00:27:27,003 --> 00:27:28,883
It's just dreadful,
you know, what happens.
525
00:27:28,963 --> 00:27:31,123
Someone so young and beautiful,
526
00:27:31,203 --> 00:27:34,603
and, you know,
just starting her life, is taken away.
527
00:27:35,283 --> 00:27:38,443
She was worried
that she's gonna have this baby,
528
00:27:38,523 --> 00:27:41,963
um, she'll never be free of Ben Blakeley,
and she wanted to be free of him.
529
00:27:42,683 --> 00:27:46,723
They found her bracelet
that we both have matching of.
530
00:27:47,403 --> 00:27:49,243
That was found in a tree.
531
00:27:49,803 --> 00:27:51,883
Ben had taken all her clothes off of her…
532
00:27:52,763 --> 00:27:54,083
[gulps]
533
00:27:54,163 --> 00:27:58,843
Every bit apart from a vest
and a pair of knickers,
534
00:27:58,923 --> 00:28:02,803
and he tucked her feet
in the back of her knickers.
535
00:28:03,883 --> 00:28:05,923
He didn't want her found, ever.
536
00:28:08,203 --> 00:28:13,083
He wanted to hold that over the family
for as long as he could, I think.
537
00:28:14,403 --> 00:28:17,003
But I'm glad the police
didn't give him the satisfaction.
538
00:28:17,083 --> 00:28:20,683
I'm glad they found her.
I can never say thank you enough.
539
00:28:23,363 --> 00:28:25,683
[narrator] As Jayden's next of kin,
540
00:28:25,763 --> 00:28:29,083
her mum, Sam,
still has a harrowing responsibility.
541
00:28:29,163 --> 00:28:33,083
I remember going to the JR Hospital,
being sat in the waiting room,
542
00:28:33,163 --> 00:28:35,803
the smell, the color of the room,
543
00:28:35,883 --> 00:28:38,403
and I remember walking through
the door with my head down,
544
00:28:38,483 --> 00:28:40,963
knowing she was there,
and I couldn't look at her.
545
00:28:42,403 --> 00:28:44,003
I couldn't look at her.
546
00:28:44,083 --> 00:28:47,203
If I did, it meant it was real.
547
00:28:47,283 --> 00:28:50,043
And I looked up. And it was my Jayden.
548
00:28:53,563 --> 00:28:56,843
She looked like she was asleep. [sobbing]
549
00:28:57,003 --> 00:28:58,763
And I knew she wasn't.
550
00:29:00,963 --> 00:29:04,923
The only things that were visible
was her face and her arms. [sniffles]
551
00:29:05,003 --> 00:29:09,323
{\an8}And I had to look at the tattoo and say,
"Yes, that's my daughter."
552
00:29:09,803 --> 00:29:11,923
{\an8}[eerie music playing]
553
00:29:12,003 --> 00:29:17,203
[narrator] Charged with Jayden's murder,
Ben and Jake Blakeley await trial.
554
00:29:17,363 --> 00:29:20,003
Her mum, Sam, is grieving.
555
00:29:20,563 --> 00:29:22,883
[Sam] You don't know whether
you're coming or going.
556
00:29:22,963 --> 00:29:24,963
Life is just whizzing past.
557
00:29:25,043 --> 00:29:29,323
{\an8}And you're just stuck
in that one moment in time.
558
00:29:29,403 --> 00:29:32,563
{\an8}I was stuck on the day
that I identified her body.
559
00:29:32,883 --> 00:29:34,963
That's where I was stuck.
560
00:29:35,043 --> 00:29:39,683
And I kept seeing it over
and over and over again.
561
00:29:40,283 --> 00:29:42,643
And we got Jayden's body back,
562
00:29:43,523 --> 00:29:46,683
the week before my birthday,
which is the 1st of February,
563
00:29:46,763 --> 00:29:48,323
I was gonna have her buried then.
564
00:29:48,403 --> 00:29:50,043
And everybody talked me out of it.
565
00:29:50,123 --> 00:29:54,803
And she was buried
on the 8th of February instead in Kent.
566
00:29:54,883 --> 00:29:56,203
The reason I took her to Kent
567
00:29:56,283 --> 00:29:59,203
was because I didn't want him
or any of his family
568
00:29:59,283 --> 00:30:01,443
being able to go to her grave
569
00:30:01,523 --> 00:30:03,523
'cause I knew if it was in Kent,
it's too far.
570
00:30:03,603 --> 00:30:06,163
They gotta go out the way to go there.
571
00:30:06,243 --> 00:30:08,883
She had a memorial in Didcot.
572
00:30:09,243 --> 00:30:11,763
The church was full to bursting.
You couldn't get in.
573
00:30:11,843 --> 00:30:15,563
There was people stood outside
and at her funeral the same.
574
00:30:16,363 --> 00:30:19,643
It was that packed.
She was loved and missed.
575
00:30:24,563 --> 00:30:26,243
She had a purple coffin.
576
00:30:27,163 --> 00:30:30,843
She had toys from my nieces
and nephews in her coffin.
577
00:30:30,923 --> 00:30:33,363
Her friend gave her an engagement ring.
578
00:30:33,443 --> 00:30:35,443
She had the necklace that I bought her.
579
00:30:36,163 --> 00:30:39,363
{\an8}[voice shaking] And now she's buried
with her great grandma.
580
00:30:40,003 --> 00:30:42,723
{\an8}[uneasy music playing]
581
00:30:43,923 --> 00:30:46,643
[narrator] As preparations
for the trial continue,
582
00:30:47,323 --> 00:30:49,683
Ben Blakeley contacts the police.
583
00:30:50,283 --> 00:30:54,243
{\an8}Um, as we're approaching the trial,
we get some information from the prison
584
00:30:54,323 --> 00:30:57,843
{\an8}that Ben has admitted killing Jayden.
585
00:31:00,443 --> 00:31:02,883
We then received a letter from Ben,
586
00:31:02,963 --> 00:31:07,963
uh, setting out that he was involved
in Jayden's death,
587
00:31:08,043 --> 00:31:09,763
it wasn't deliberate,
588
00:31:09,843 --> 00:31:12,363
they had had an argument
whilst they were on a bridge,
589
00:31:12,443 --> 00:31:16,243
which we identified as a bridge
which was near,
590
00:31:16,323 --> 00:31:19,803
uh, where the taxi had picked
this mysterious person up.
591
00:31:19,883 --> 00:31:22,523
That mysterious person
was, of course, Ben Blakeley.
592
00:31:22,603 --> 00:31:25,043
He admitted that
he had buried her body there,
593
00:31:25,123 --> 00:31:27,043
and kept the body there for some days
594
00:31:27,123 --> 00:31:32,563
until, um, he then returned
and moved her body to the grave.
595
00:31:33,123 --> 00:31:36,603
Um, but he was very clear
that he was very remorseful,
596
00:31:36,683 --> 00:31:38,043
he'd tried to resuscitate her,
597
00:31:38,123 --> 00:31:40,843
but he believed she'd died
because she'd fallen off the bridge.
598
00:31:40,923 --> 00:31:42,443
Looking at the footbridge,
599
00:31:42,523 --> 00:31:45,043
of course this bridge
was inches from the ground.
600
00:31:45,123 --> 00:31:47,843
You didn't need to be an expert
to look at that and decipher the fact
601
00:31:47,923 --> 00:31:49,603
that you could easily fall off there.
602
00:31:49,683 --> 00:31:51,803
You wouldn't have caused yourself
any form of injury.
603
00:31:51,883 --> 00:31:54,723
And, of course,
the postmortem results were consistent
604
00:31:54,803 --> 00:31:57,523
with her being asphyxiated,
with strangulation marks around her neck.
605
00:31:57,603 --> 00:32:00,483
There was no significant head injuries.
606
00:32:00,563 --> 00:32:02,203
I think he realized the game is up,
607
00:32:02,283 --> 00:32:05,483
we were going to be able
to prove that he had killed Jayden,
608
00:32:05,563 --> 00:32:10,563
and he was now using these excuses
to justify her death,
609
00:32:10,643 --> 00:32:13,243
and to remove himself
from any criminality.
610
00:32:13,323 --> 00:32:16,163
[pensive music playing]
611
00:32:16,243 --> 00:32:19,003
[narrator] Police and the
Crown Prosecution Service
612
00:32:19,083 --> 00:32:23,283
are determined that Ben Blakeley
doesn't get away with murder.
613
00:32:23,363 --> 00:32:25,803
[Sam] I was there every day,
bar one day.
614
00:32:25,883 --> 00:32:30,643
We had Jayden's friends there,
family, my sisters, my dad.
615
00:32:31,363 --> 00:32:34,923
Um, we were told not to cry,
616
00:32:35,123 --> 00:32:36,643
not to look at the jury,
617
00:32:36,723 --> 00:32:39,523
not to look at Ben or Jake,
not to comment,
618
00:32:39,603 --> 00:32:42,083
not to huff, puff, or cry.
619
00:32:42,603 --> 00:32:47,083
While the whole trial was going on,
we had to sit there and suck it all up.
620
00:32:48,483 --> 00:32:52,003
[Nikki] Ben's demeanor during the court,
he just wasn't bothered,
621
00:32:52,083 --> 00:32:54,123
didn't seem to be bothered.
He had no remorse.
622
00:32:54,203 --> 00:32:57,843
{\an8}He stood in the dock,
and he had no respect.
623
00:32:57,923 --> 00:33:01,803
{\an8}And I think that was the thing.
He had no respect for anybody or anything.
624
00:33:01,883 --> 00:33:03,763
{\an8}He just didn't care.
625
00:33:04,083 --> 00:33:05,963
It was like a circus.
626
00:33:06,043 --> 00:33:08,963
The whole time
that we were sat in the courtroom,
627
00:33:09,043 --> 00:33:11,363
waiting for the jury
or the judge to come up,
628
00:33:11,443 --> 00:33:13,923
him and his brother
would be sat there laughing
629
00:33:14,003 --> 00:33:16,483
and fist-pumping each other
and having a good old chat.
630
00:33:16,563 --> 00:33:20,363
Soon as it'd say,
"Stand up for the judge," or the jury,
631
00:33:20,443 --> 00:33:23,043
them two would be separate.
632
00:33:24,003 --> 00:33:27,203
[Nikki] In court he'd said
he'd assaulted her.
633
00:33:27,283 --> 00:33:31,603
We knew by now that he'd been
assaulting her and controlling her,
634
00:33:31,683 --> 00:33:34,043
and being aggressive towards her.
635
00:33:34,123 --> 00:33:36,563
And he'd tried to strangle her before.
636
00:33:36,643 --> 00:33:39,923
He was saying, "I've had my hands
round the throat of previous girlfriends.
637
00:33:40,003 --> 00:33:42,403
They haven't died.
Why should this be any different?"
638
00:33:42,483 --> 00:33:45,603
Of course, the family were listening
to this, and they were very upset.
639
00:33:45,683 --> 00:33:47,683
[eerie music playing]
640
00:33:49,323 --> 00:33:51,603
[Nikki] And on this occasion,
he'd done exactly the same.
641
00:33:51,683 --> 00:33:54,003
He'd put his hands around her neck, um,
642
00:33:54,083 --> 00:33:57,363
but he said he thought she was joking
when she fell to the floor.
643
00:33:57,443 --> 00:34:01,003
When he was cross-examined
by the prosecution barrister,
644
00:34:01,083 --> 00:34:04,123
he got very defensive,
he got very agitated,
645
00:34:04,203 --> 00:34:05,563
he got very angry,
646
00:34:05,963 --> 00:34:08,242
and he got very abusive.
647
00:34:08,323 --> 00:34:11,123
Frequently, the judge
had to stop the trial
648
00:34:11,202 --> 00:34:12,843
so that he could compose himself.
649
00:34:12,923 --> 00:34:15,963
He was swearing and shouting,
650
00:34:16,083 --> 00:34:19,123
and being aggressive
towards the prosecution barrister.
651
00:34:19,202 --> 00:34:22,963
And, in fact, what he was actually doing
was showing his true colors.
652
00:34:23,762 --> 00:34:26,403
Jake was very quiet
in comparison to his brother,
653
00:34:26,483 --> 00:34:28,323
very meek, very mild.
654
00:34:28,403 --> 00:34:31,202
I'd pretty much formed the impression
from his behavior
655
00:34:31,282 --> 00:34:33,363
that he was scared of Ben.
656
00:34:33,443 --> 00:34:36,003
{\an8}A lot of my role in giving evidence
657
00:34:36,083 --> 00:34:39,403
{\an8}is to paint as clear a picture
as possible for a jury
658
00:34:39,483 --> 00:34:42,603
on the basis that I will have spent
an extended period of time
659
00:34:42,682 --> 00:34:45,843
within that really important location,
on that scene.
660
00:34:45,923 --> 00:34:50,163
[Chris] The forensic archaeologist
was able to link the mud on the spade
661
00:34:50,242 --> 00:34:52,563
to mud in the field.
662
00:34:52,643 --> 00:34:54,722
He was able to link
the mud on the suitcase
663
00:34:54,803 --> 00:34:57,163
to the thick clay in the field as well.
664
00:34:57,243 --> 00:34:58,523
And, um…
665
00:34:58,603 --> 00:35:02,123
And determine
how long it had taken to dig the grave.
666
00:35:02,763 --> 00:35:06,643
[Sam] Ben was calling
all the female witnesses,
667
00:35:06,723 --> 00:35:09,603
slags, crackheads, whores,
668
00:35:11,243 --> 00:35:12,963
saying they were liars.
669
00:35:14,003 --> 00:35:17,763
He threatened to punch
our QC, Richard Latham,
670
00:35:17,843 --> 00:35:22,003
because, uh, Richard Latham
had asked him to look at him
671
00:35:22,083 --> 00:35:23,203
while he was talking to him.
672
00:35:23,283 --> 00:35:26,443
And he told him to F off,
and he'd punch him in the face
673
00:35:26,523 --> 00:35:28,563
if he didn't get out of his face.
674
00:35:28,963 --> 00:35:32,683
The girls that he'd had babies
with beforehand
675
00:35:32,763 --> 00:35:35,483
had to give evidence behind a screen.
676
00:35:35,563 --> 00:35:37,963
They were that terrified
to be seen in court.
677
00:35:38,043 --> 00:35:40,603
Yeah, he… he was a pig,
678
00:35:40,683 --> 00:35:45,363
and he stood there
so smug in that courtroom,
679
00:35:45,443 --> 00:35:47,163
and he did the Hitler sign to me.
680
00:35:47,243 --> 00:35:50,163
And the courtroom erupted,
and it all went mental.
681
00:35:50,243 --> 00:35:55,243
And from then on, I knew he was…
He was the cause of it all.
682
00:35:56,123 --> 00:35:59,243
To him, it was notoriety.
683
00:35:59,763 --> 00:36:01,443
He was famous for something.
684
00:36:01,523 --> 00:36:04,603
Even if it was something
so heinous as what he'd done,
685
00:36:04,683 --> 00:36:05,883
he thought he'd done good.
686
00:36:08,763 --> 00:36:14,843
They played the CCTV
of her and him at Oxford Station
687
00:36:16,123 --> 00:36:17,923
going through the barriers.
688
00:36:18,443 --> 00:36:20,803
She's always six paces behind him.
689
00:36:21,683 --> 00:36:23,243
Then they show her and him…
690
00:36:25,403 --> 00:36:26,443
in Didcot.
691
00:36:28,723 --> 00:36:32,523
He walked her to her death
that night, to the field,
692
00:36:32,603 --> 00:36:35,243
knowing full well that,
wherever he took her,
693
00:36:35,323 --> 00:36:38,043
what he did would not be heard or seen.
694
00:36:38,923 --> 00:36:41,203
He only covers her body that night
695
00:36:41,283 --> 00:36:44,723
with brambles
and a bit of a tree, I think.
696
00:36:46,003 --> 00:36:50,603
He's then picked up
on CCTV going back to Reading.
697
00:36:51,683 --> 00:36:53,443
[pensive music playing]
698
00:36:55,603 --> 00:36:57,683
[Chris] So the trial lasted
nearly six weeks.
699
00:36:57,763 --> 00:36:59,803
At the end of the conclusion of that,
700
00:36:59,883 --> 00:37:04,403
uh, Ben Blakeley was convicted
of murdering Jayden Parkinson.
701
00:37:05,403 --> 00:37:10,003
Jake Blakeley had already pleaded guilty
to perverting the course of justice,
702
00:37:10,083 --> 00:37:13,443
that is, that he had lied to the police
during the murder investigation,
703
00:37:13,523 --> 00:37:15,723
and he'd also disposed of some clothing,
704
00:37:15,803 --> 00:37:18,283
but he was found not guilty
of being involved
705
00:37:18,363 --> 00:37:23,083
in the disposal of her body
at the graveyard in Didcot.
706
00:37:24,763 --> 00:37:29,443
Ben Blakeley received
a 20-year minimum tariff for the murder.
707
00:37:29,523 --> 00:37:33,083
And Jake Blakeley received three years
for perverting the course of justice.
708
00:37:33,923 --> 00:37:36,443
At the time, this was
the first case in the country
709
00:37:36,523 --> 00:37:41,043
where a murder victim
had been, uh, secreted
710
00:37:41,123 --> 00:37:42,923
within a pre-existing grave.
711
00:37:43,683 --> 00:37:47,883
He got a minimum of 20 years in the end
before he can go for parole.
712
00:37:48,563 --> 00:37:50,123
He's done five.
713
00:37:50,203 --> 00:37:51,723
I've got 15 years left.
714
00:37:53,203 --> 00:37:55,643
My granddaughters
are gonna be of an age at that point.
715
00:37:55,723 --> 00:37:57,403
My grandsons are.
716
00:37:57,843 --> 00:38:01,483
And I fear for them, I do,
'cause he's got all that time
717
00:38:01,563 --> 00:38:03,843
to sit in there plotting, thinking.
718
00:38:03,923 --> 00:38:07,323
And I know he will,
because I know how twisted he is.
719
00:38:07,403 --> 00:38:10,523
It was the hardest job
I've ever done, definitely.
720
00:38:12,563 --> 00:38:14,563
I think it's really important that
721
00:38:14,643 --> 00:38:17,923
if you are going
through violence like this…
722
00:38:18,003 --> 00:38:21,283
It doesn't need to be violence.
It can be emotional control.
723
00:38:21,403 --> 00:38:24,803
But if there is that element
of control there, there is help out there.
724
00:38:24,883 --> 00:38:27,403
And I think it's, um…
Just need looking.
725
00:38:27,483 --> 00:38:29,643
You've got to start thinking
of your safety.
726
00:38:29,723 --> 00:38:31,123
Putting things in place.
727
00:38:31,203 --> 00:38:33,843
There are people,
there are organizations that will help.
728
00:38:35,283 --> 00:38:37,363
I do believe, and…
729
00:38:37,963 --> 00:38:39,963
I suppose as a family,
we still believe,
730
00:38:40,043 --> 00:38:42,523
that even if it hadn't have been then,
731
00:38:42,603 --> 00:38:44,803
it would've been sooner or later.
732
00:38:46,283 --> 00:38:48,043
I know there won't be a day that goes by,
733
00:38:48,123 --> 00:38:50,443
from conversations
that I've had with her in the past,
734
00:38:50,523 --> 00:38:52,203
that she doesn't think about Jayden.
735
00:38:54,003 --> 00:38:57,763
I belong to a group
that no one ever wants to belong to,
736
00:38:57,843 --> 00:39:00,643
that we don't get a choice
in joining. [sniffles]
737
00:39:01,163 --> 00:39:05,683
{\an8}You don't ever think anything like this
will happen to your kid.
738
00:39:07,243 --> 00:39:09,083
[sniffling]
739
00:39:11,283 --> 00:39:15,603
[sighs] I haven't got a life.
I exist from day-to-day.
740
00:39:17,123 --> 00:39:20,163
What haunts me the most
is identifying her body,
741
00:39:21,043 --> 00:39:23,483
and wondering what went through her mind
742
00:39:24,163 --> 00:39:25,963
when he was killing her.
743
00:39:26,043 --> 00:39:28,843
Was she hoping,
744
00:39:28,923 --> 00:39:32,643
wanting her mum
to be there to save… save her?
745
00:39:33,643 --> 00:39:36,683
And I wasn't. [crying]
746
00:39:38,483 --> 00:39:43,243
Did she think, "I don't wanna die.
I'm having a baby. I wanna be a mum"?
747
00:39:45,643 --> 00:39:47,723
[exhales] That's what haunts me.
748
00:39:47,803 --> 00:39:51,883
Every day that I get up,
I wake up wishing I hadn't,
749
00:39:51,963 --> 00:39:54,363
and I go to bed hoping I don't.
750
00:39:55,043 --> 00:39:57,283
[uneasy music playing]
751
00:40:18,403 --> 00:40:21,403
{\an8}[dramatic music playing]