1 00:00:01,300 --> 00:00:02,567 ♪ More, more, more ♪ 2 00:00:02,567 --> 00:00:05,166 ♪ How do you like it? How do you like it? ♪ 3 00:00:05,166 --> 00:00:07,266 ♪ More, more, more ♪ 4 00:00:07,266 --> 00:00:08,367 ♪ How do you like it? ♪ 5 00:00:08,367 --> 00:00:10,166 [Sky] When Skylar was first born, 6 00:00:10,166 --> 00:00:11,667 I held her in my hands, 7 00:00:11,667 --> 00:00:14,367 I said, "This is me all over again." 8 00:00:14,433 --> 00:00:16,266 You want me to massage your booty again? 9 00:00:16,333 --> 00:00:19,767 ♪ How do you like your love ♪ 10 00:00:19,834 --> 00:00:20,867 [Gabriella] My mom is my idol. 11 00:00:20,867 --> 00:00:23,767 I literally have an entire poster of her in my room. 12 00:00:23,767 --> 00:00:24,667 Cheers. 13 00:00:24,667 --> 00:00:26,567 Whoo, whoo, go! Go, girl. 14 00:00:26,634 --> 00:00:29,567 [Brittani] I love my mom more than anything in this whole universe. 15 00:00:29,567 --> 00:00:31,333 -[licks] -[chuckles] 16 00:00:33,567 --> 00:00:35,967 [Sunnie] Could you save some extra blood 17 00:00:35,967 --> 00:00:37,066 of me and my mom's? 18 00:00:37,066 --> 00:00:38,266 [nurse] Uh... 19 00:00:38,333 --> 00:00:41,467 I want us to have little vials of each other's blood, 20 00:00:41,467 --> 00:00:44,066 and put it in jewelry as, like, a keepsake. 21 00:00:44,066 --> 00:00:45,567 Sounds great. 22 00:00:45,567 --> 00:00:47,767 -I'm about to clean my ears. -[India] Hey, give me. I'll do it for you. 23 00:00:47,767 --> 00:00:48,867 [Trevor] All right. Thank you. 24 00:00:48,867 --> 00:00:52,266 I'm Trevor, and this is my mom, India. 25 00:00:52,266 --> 00:00:56,266 My wife has a tough time accepting my relationship with my mom 26 00:00:56,266 --> 00:00:57,867 because she's not my mom. 27 00:00:57,867 --> 00:00:59,667 I'm his mother-in-law. 28 00:00:59,734 --> 00:01:04,066 My husband and my mom have the most disgusting relationship. 29 00:01:04,133 --> 00:01:05,367 Do you get on top of him? 30 00:01:05,367 --> 00:01:07,667 [Brittani] She loves details of my sex life. 31 00:01:07,667 --> 00:01:08,567 Why is that? 32 00:01:08,567 --> 00:01:09,767 Well, I'm your mother. 33 00:01:09,767 --> 00:01:12,667 When I smell her underwears, it smells just like candy. 34 00:01:12,667 --> 00:01:14,467 [Sunnie] Scott is my boyfriend. 35 00:01:14,467 --> 00:01:16,066 He is amazing. 36 00:01:16,133 --> 00:01:20,667 I a 100% believe that Sunnie's mom has seen her vagina more than me. 37 00:01:20,734 --> 00:01:23,767 Imagine growing up, and your mom being Miss Connecticut USA. 38 00:01:23,767 --> 00:01:25,367 Those were some shoes to fill. 39 00:01:25,367 --> 00:01:26,667 Hi. 40 00:01:26,667 --> 00:01:28,266 We practice every single day. 41 00:01:28,266 --> 00:01:29,266 Up. 42 00:01:29,333 --> 00:01:31,567 You are a flamingo. Yes! 43 00:01:31,567 --> 00:01:33,967 I doesn't have to be a big bash. 44 00:01:34,033 --> 00:01:36,166 Just some close family and friends. 45 00:01:36,233 --> 00:01:40,567 My mom has her heart set on throwing her birthday party 46 00:01:40,567 --> 00:01:41,567 at a funeral home. 47 00:01:41,567 --> 00:01:43,000 I could jump out of the coffin. 48 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:44,467 This is so messed up. 49 00:01:44,467 --> 00:01:48,667 [Sky] When Skylar showed me that she had the same talent as me, 50 00:01:48,667 --> 00:01:51,467 I said, "Forget it. This is my next Beyonce." 51 00:01:51,467 --> 00:01:54,467 My mom does pressure me a lot. 52 00:01:54,533 --> 00:01:56,000 I'm gonna embarrass you even more 53 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:57,867 if you don't do what you're supposed to be doing. 54 00:01:57,867 --> 00:01:59,000 -Hi, baby. -[TJ] Hey. 55 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:00,266 [Brittani] How are you? 56 00:02:00,266 --> 00:02:03,667 My mom has cameras all around her house in every room. 57 00:02:03,667 --> 00:02:05,166 What the heck are you doing? 58 00:02:05,166 --> 00:02:09,100 I don't think I will marry TJ, I know I'm going to marry TJ. 59 00:02:09,100 --> 00:02:10,066 [sighs] 60 00:02:10,133 --> 00:02:11,867 What is the problem, DeLeesa? 61 00:02:12,667 --> 00:02:15,333 Either she goes, or y'all both can go. 62 00:02:16,066 --> 00:02:18,100 I just feel like something's up with her. 63 00:02:18,100 --> 00:02:19,066 Ask her. 64 00:02:19,066 --> 00:02:22,066 I'm gonna say, "Hey, Mom, are you dying?" 65 00:02:22,133 --> 00:02:25,667 I'm not gonna allow her to be with somebody who can't support her. 66 00:02:25,667 --> 00:02:26,867 What about the pageant? 67 00:02:26,867 --> 00:02:29,367 You're not going anywhere. 68 00:02:29,367 --> 00:02:31,567 My mom does not know that Scott and I are moving in together. 69 00:02:31,567 --> 00:02:33,266 [sighs] Um... 70 00:02:33,333 --> 00:02:35,066 -I'm the mother, you're the children... -We don't care. 71 00:02:35,133 --> 00:02:36,066 ...I'm still the boss. 72 00:02:36,066 --> 00:02:39,133 I lost everything to freaking come down here! 73 00:02:40,166 --> 00:02:41,233 [Eva] I swear... 74 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:45,567 Are you... Mom, are you serious? 75 00:02:45,567 --> 00:02:46,867 [crying] 76 00:02:46,934 --> 00:02:49,867 This is my mother, this is my best friend before I met you. 77 00:02:49,934 --> 00:02:51,567 -[crying] -[Mary] It's all right. It's okay. 78 00:02:51,634 --> 00:02:53,767 [Brittani] I can't replace my mother. 79 00:02:53,767 --> 00:02:57,734 ♪ How do like your love ♪ 80 00:03:01,967 --> 00:03:05,367 ♪ When it fits your heart Just post a move ♪ 81 00:03:05,433 --> 00:03:08,066 ♪ The calling comes back Feeling comes with... ♪ 82 00:03:08,133 --> 00:03:09,567 [Gabriella] All right, let's do it. 83 00:03:09,567 --> 00:03:10,834 -Ready. -Let's go. 84 00:03:14,967 --> 00:03:18,066 The celery juice heals the body. 85 00:03:18,066 --> 00:03:21,433 But when we bathe in it, it takes it to a new level. 86 00:03:22,100 --> 00:03:26,000 ♪ You know that I've been under ♪ 87 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:30,133 ♪ The pressure Retro Shimmy ♪ 88 00:03:32,967 --> 00:03:34,667 [Catherine] Look how nice. 89 00:03:34,667 --> 00:03:37,367 I am Gabriella, I am 23 years old, 90 00:03:37,367 --> 00:03:38,567 I live Clinton, Connecticut, 91 00:03:38,567 --> 00:03:39,667 and this is my mon. 92 00:03:39,667 --> 00:03:41,767 I'm Catherine, I am... 93 00:03:41,834 --> 00:03:43,567 Do I have to say my age? 94 00:03:43,567 --> 00:03:45,033 I'll say 35. 95 00:03:45,767 --> 00:03:46,767 I'll say 39. 96 00:03:46,767 --> 00:03:48,333 Yes! 97 00:03:50,700 --> 00:03:51,900 Sure. 98 00:03:55,100 --> 00:03:57,533 [Catherine] I really love to have the leaves around me. 99 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:02,533 [Gabriella] That'll do it. 100 00:04:03,667 --> 00:04:06,467 I would say we have a best friend relationship 101 00:04:06,467 --> 00:04:08,100 because we always hang out. 102 00:04:08,100 --> 00:04:11,367 But she's definitely my mom because she packs my lunches, 103 00:04:11,367 --> 00:04:12,467 she does my laundry, 104 00:04:12,533 --> 00:04:14,667 -and she makes my bed. -[Catherine] Mm-hmm. 105 00:04:14,667 --> 00:04:17,367 I've always lived at home, I never went away to college, 106 00:04:17,433 --> 00:04:18,467 I never went to college. 107 00:04:18,533 --> 00:04:20,767 -I've always been here, with my mom. -Mm-hmm. 108 00:04:20,767 --> 00:04:22,867 And I love it. 109 00:04:22,934 --> 00:04:26,367 I love her being with me, every single minute. 110 00:04:26,367 --> 00:04:28,467 -[gasps] -Oh, it's beautiful. 111 00:04:28,533 --> 00:04:29,967 -Oh, well, it came out a little bit. -Ah! 112 00:04:30,033 --> 00:04:33,567 -That's all right. Oh, and it smells divine. -[Gabriella] Mm-hmm. 113 00:04:33,567 --> 00:04:38,166 My mom has such a love for me that she genuinely misses me 114 00:04:38,166 --> 00:04:41,367 -after only a couple hours. -I do. 115 00:04:41,367 --> 00:04:43,567 Gabriella is a cosmetologist. 116 00:04:43,567 --> 00:04:45,867 I'm an inspirational author, writer. 117 00:04:45,867 --> 00:04:47,467 So, we designed our work schedules 118 00:04:47,467 --> 00:04:50,567 to have the same time off, so we can be together. 119 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:53,367 Close your eyes. 120 00:04:53,433 --> 00:04:57,667 Imagine all negativity is released, 121 00:04:57,734 --> 00:05:00,967 and imagine everything that you desire, 122 00:05:01,033 --> 00:05:02,767 and it will be. 123 00:05:02,834 --> 00:05:06,166 Twice a week, we take celery baths together. 124 00:05:06,166 --> 00:05:07,166 Hmm. 125 00:05:07,233 --> 00:05:10,166 It releases all of the stress. 126 00:05:10,166 --> 00:05:13,567 -It's beautiful for our skin. -I mean, when we're in the soak, we're one. 127 00:05:13,567 --> 00:05:14,967 -We-- -And we could think as one. 128 00:05:15,033 --> 00:05:16,767 I'll stir it. 129 00:05:16,767 --> 00:05:18,667 Yes, stir the tub. 130 00:05:18,734 --> 00:05:19,934 Stir the tub. 131 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:22,166 [Gabriella] The celery tastes so good after you dip it. 132 00:05:22,166 --> 00:05:23,266 [Catherine] Hmm. 133 00:05:23,266 --> 00:05:25,467 It's like tasting the essence of us. 134 00:05:25,467 --> 00:05:27,667 I feel like it bonds us even more 135 00:05:27,667 --> 00:05:32,367 because I think my wisdom gets carried to Gabriella 136 00:05:32,433 --> 00:05:35,166 and her innocence and youth 137 00:05:35,166 --> 00:05:36,834 comes right on to me. 138 00:05:37,767 --> 00:05:41,567 ♪ Woman of star Now, I call your name ♪ 139 00:05:41,567 --> 00:05:45,100 You know how you can kind of just look inside someone's soul 140 00:05:45,100 --> 00:05:47,100 and just have that connection? 141 00:05:47,100 --> 00:05:50,266 We had that from the day she was born. 142 00:05:50,266 --> 00:05:52,467 Even more than my other two daughters, 143 00:05:52,467 --> 00:05:55,867 there was just something so heavenly. 144 00:05:55,867 --> 00:05:58,667 She was like an angel. 145 00:05:58,667 --> 00:06:00,734 -[chuckles] -And the first thing that we did... 146 00:06:03,567 --> 00:06:05,667 [Gabriella] My mom and I have always worn matching outfits. 147 00:06:05,667 --> 00:06:06,767 It's just one of our things. 148 00:06:06,767 --> 00:06:08,266 ♪ We're looking fire ♪ 149 00:06:08,266 --> 00:06:09,166 [Gabriella] Matching... 150 00:06:09,233 --> 00:06:10,066 ♪ We're feeling cute ♪ 151 00:06:10,066 --> 00:06:11,166 ...bougie... 152 00:06:11,166 --> 00:06:12,867 ♪ We got that little red dress High heels... ♪ 153 00:06:12,867 --> 00:06:13,867 [Gabriella] ...over the top. 154 00:06:13,867 --> 00:06:15,367 Doing it all together. 155 00:06:16,967 --> 00:06:18,767 -[chuckles] -Thank you. 156 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:21,867 My mom is my idol. 157 00:06:21,934 --> 00:06:26,166 Like, I literally have an entire poster blown up of her in my room. 158 00:06:26,233 --> 00:06:29,367 I mean, she's Miss Connecticut USA. 159 00:06:29,433 --> 00:06:32,567 Imagine growing up, and your mom being Miss Connecticut USA. 160 00:06:32,567 --> 00:06:34,266 Those were some shoes to fill. 161 00:06:34,266 --> 00:06:37,867 [Catherine] You can see me in my Miss Connecticut crown and sash any day. 162 00:06:37,867 --> 00:06:39,166 Do you want me to crown you? 163 00:06:39,233 --> 00:06:41,567 -I'm gonna crown you. -Sure, go ahead. 164 00:06:41,567 --> 00:06:43,166 We practice all the time. 165 00:06:43,166 --> 00:06:45,467 We keep the crown and sash right here. 166 00:06:45,467 --> 00:06:47,867 This is gonna be a moment. Okay. 167 00:06:47,934 --> 00:06:49,367 Here we go. 168 00:06:49,367 --> 00:06:52,000 [Gabriella exclaims] Hold it. 169 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:53,767 I mean, this is the moment. 170 00:06:53,834 --> 00:06:54,734 Sash. 171 00:06:55,700 --> 00:06:56,934 Now we take a picture. 172 00:06:59,266 --> 00:07:02,166 I'll sit next to you because you are Miss Connecticut USA. 173 00:07:02,166 --> 00:07:05,166 And when I win, she's gonna come up on stage with her crown and sash. 174 00:07:05,166 --> 00:07:07,567 Yes, I'll be bringing it with me to the pageant. 175 00:07:07,634 --> 00:07:09,433 -Oh, she brings it every year. -Yes, I do. 176 00:07:10,967 --> 00:07:11,867 Let's talk pageant. 177 00:07:11,867 --> 00:07:13,166 All right, let's talk pageant. 178 00:07:13,166 --> 00:07:14,767 So much could go wrong. 179 00:07:14,767 --> 00:07:16,166 -[softly] No. -[Gabriella] I mean, [sighs] 180 00:07:16,233 --> 00:07:18,266 I'm really worried about starting my period. 181 00:07:18,333 --> 00:07:20,000 'Cause I get so bloated... 182 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,266 -I know. -...it looks like I'm six months pregnant. 183 00:07:22,266 --> 00:07:23,767 -I know. -[Gabriella] But... 184 00:07:24,567 --> 00:07:25,867 I guess we'll have to wait and see. 185 00:07:25,934 --> 00:07:27,166 Nothing's gonna go wrong. 186 00:07:27,233 --> 00:07:29,066 That's why we're doing the celery soak. 187 00:07:29,066 --> 00:07:30,433 Is it good for my coochie? 188 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:32,867 It's good for the coochie. 189 00:07:32,867 --> 00:07:34,767 -All right. -[Catherine] It's good for everything. 190 00:07:34,767 --> 00:07:37,367 -It's gonna keep it fresh. -Fabulous. 191 00:07:37,433 --> 00:07:38,467 [Catherine laughs] 192 00:07:38,467 --> 00:07:41,467 There are, like, deodorants for real dirties. 193 00:07:41,533 --> 00:07:43,100 Deodorants? 194 00:07:43,100 --> 00:07:46,266 Yes! It's called a douche. [laughs] 195 00:07:46,266 --> 00:07:47,734 Douche? [laughs] 196 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,166 What? 197 00:07:50,166 --> 00:07:51,367 Yes! 198 00:07:51,367 --> 00:07:54,166 I've never heard of putting a douche on my coochie. 199 00:07:54,166 --> 00:07:55,266 [both giggling] 200 00:07:55,333 --> 00:07:57,367 Of course, you haven't. You're my daughter. 201 00:07:57,367 --> 00:07:59,567 The celery helps everything, 202 00:07:59,567 --> 00:08:01,467 and then you don't need no douche. 203 00:08:01,533 --> 00:08:03,467 [laughs] 204 00:08:03,467 --> 00:08:04,967 [audience cheering] 205 00:08:04,967 --> 00:08:06,767 [Gabriella] I have been competing in pageants 206 00:08:06,767 --> 00:08:10,166 for four years now, and they are my entire life. 207 00:08:10,166 --> 00:08:12,266 Well, they're, like, both of our lives. 208 00:08:12,266 --> 00:08:13,967 -Both of our lives. -We're obsessed with, like, 209 00:08:14,033 --> 00:08:15,767 -every single aspect of pageantry. -Mm-hmm. 210 00:08:15,767 --> 00:08:19,367 Watch me and then follow exactly what I do. 211 00:08:19,433 --> 00:08:21,867 -Okay. -Remember, leg up, up... 212 00:08:21,867 --> 00:08:24,266 If we're not visiting the pageants in person, 213 00:08:24,333 --> 00:08:26,867 we're streaming them over the television. 214 00:08:26,867 --> 00:08:28,066 We're preparing for the pageants. 215 00:08:28,066 --> 00:08:30,367 I want that leg up. 216 00:08:30,367 --> 00:08:32,367 Yes, up, up, up. 217 00:08:32,367 --> 00:08:34,867 Exaggerate it more. Up. Up. 218 00:08:34,867 --> 00:08:36,166 We practice every single day. 219 00:08:36,166 --> 00:08:37,967 And we will stop at nothing 220 00:08:37,967 --> 00:08:41,567 because the Miss Connecticut USA pageant is only three weeks away, 221 00:08:41,634 --> 00:08:43,166 and I have to be perfect. 222 00:08:43,233 --> 00:08:44,567 Yes. 223 00:08:44,567 --> 00:08:46,433 Perform nice. 224 00:08:49,667 --> 00:08:52,266 We've dreamt about it for so many years. 225 00:08:52,266 --> 00:08:53,667 I know she's worked so hard, 226 00:08:53,667 --> 00:08:57,000 and we would both be devastated if she didn't take home the crown. 227 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,367 Mm-hmm. 228 00:08:58,433 --> 00:09:02,967 Imagine the Miss USA crown on your head. 229 00:09:02,967 --> 00:09:05,166 [Gabriella] I mean, for us, it's not just a pageant, 230 00:09:05,166 --> 00:09:06,367 it's a legacy. 231 00:09:06,367 --> 00:09:09,867 And I wanna be able to carry on my mom's legacy... 232 00:09:09,867 --> 00:09:12,667 and not only win the title for myself, but win it for her. 233 00:09:12,667 --> 00:09:14,066 [Catherine] Yes. 234 00:09:14,166 --> 00:09:16,266 [Gabriella] And in the last four years I've competed at this pageant, 235 00:09:16,333 --> 00:09:18,266 the highest I've placed is fourth runner-up. 236 00:09:18,266 --> 00:09:21,433 So, like, if I don't take home the crown this year... 237 00:09:22,500 --> 00:09:23,734 it's all for nothing. 238 00:09:29,300 --> 00:09:32,967 ♪ Ooh, yeah! ♪ 239 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:37,266 [Cristina] This looks so cute. The colors are perfect. 240 00:09:37,266 --> 00:09:38,967 -Oh, my God. -I had to get the zebra in there. 241 00:09:38,967 --> 00:09:40,166 [Cristina] I wish this was my party. 242 00:09:40,166 --> 00:09:42,667 -Right? We should be having an adult party. -I know. 243 00:09:42,667 --> 00:09:44,266 [Cristina] It looks great, I love it. 244 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:47,867 ♪ You're all grown up now ♪ 245 00:09:47,934 --> 00:09:49,867 ♪ Daddy's girl ♪ 246 00:09:49,934 --> 00:09:53,367 ♪ Going to the fire In the real world ♪ 247 00:09:53,433 --> 00:09:54,367 ♪ Real world ♪ 248 00:09:54,367 --> 00:09:56,166 ♪ I cannot wait... ♪ 249 00:09:56,233 --> 00:09:57,767 About time you get here. 250 00:09:57,834 --> 00:10:01,367 -[Kathy] Sorry. I'm busy. -I mean that you're taking forever. 251 00:10:01,433 --> 00:10:04,266 ♪ She's not a daddy's girl ♪ 252 00:10:08,667 --> 00:10:09,767 [laughs] 253 00:10:09,767 --> 00:10:10,867 [Cristina] That's all right, I got it, yeah. 254 00:10:10,867 --> 00:10:12,934 [Kathy] My stack of presents isn't working so good. 255 00:10:14,667 --> 00:10:16,433 Wait, I gotta... Oh, no! 256 00:10:17,100 --> 00:10:18,567 -What? -[Kathy] No! 257 00:10:18,567 --> 00:10:20,066 [Cristina] Oh, my God. 258 00:10:20,133 --> 00:10:20,967 What did you buy her? 259 00:10:20,967 --> 00:10:22,967 [Kathy] See, you made me all aggravated. 260 00:10:22,967 --> 00:10:24,867 Pick that one up. They gotta be in order. 261 00:10:24,867 --> 00:10:27,166 I'm Cristina, I'm 38 years old 262 00:10:27,166 --> 00:10:29,567 and from Chicago. This is my mom. 263 00:10:29,634 --> 00:10:30,967 Kathy here. 264 00:10:31,033 --> 00:10:33,066 How old am I? 63. 265 00:10:33,066 --> 00:10:34,767 No, I'm 64 years old. 266 00:10:34,767 --> 00:10:36,066 You don't even know how old you are. 267 00:10:36,066 --> 00:10:38,066 Turning 65 is gonna be rough. 268 00:10:40,100 --> 00:10:41,567 What the hell is this? 269 00:10:41,567 --> 00:10:43,367 [Kathy] Her presents. 270 00:10:43,433 --> 00:10:45,100 Thought she asked you for a pair of some skates. 271 00:10:45,100 --> 00:10:46,767 [Kathy] Look at this mess now. 272 00:10:46,834 --> 00:10:48,567 [Cristina] Here, this is gotta go over there. 273 00:10:48,567 --> 00:10:50,867 Yeah, but there's supposed to be two... We're missing the bottom. 274 00:10:50,867 --> 00:10:52,667 Well, can't you just do it like that? 275 00:10:52,667 --> 00:10:55,867 You're only old if you think old and act old. 276 00:10:55,934 --> 00:10:56,967 You're driving a 'Vette, 277 00:10:56,967 --> 00:11:00,166 we're in five-inch heels, a three-inch miniskirt. 278 00:11:00,166 --> 00:11:03,100 Why would you drive to my house for the party? 279 00:11:03,100 --> 00:11:05,867 I had 24 presents. 280 00:11:05,867 --> 00:11:07,467 You could've walked over with a cart 281 00:11:07,533 --> 00:11:09,000 -and pushed 'em-- -Why would I walk over? 282 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:09,867 [laughs] 283 00:11:09,867 --> 00:11:11,567 But you don't. Do you walk to my house? 284 00:11:11,634 --> 00:11:12,867 -Sometimes. -No, you don't. 285 00:11:12,867 --> 00:11:13,767 -Yeah, I have. -No, you don't. 286 00:11:13,834 --> 00:11:14,767 I have. 287 00:11:16,567 --> 00:11:18,066 It looks cute. She'll love it. 288 00:11:18,066 --> 00:11:20,467 -[Kathy] Sure. -We really don't have time to worry about her presents. 289 00:11:20,467 --> 00:11:22,266 [Kathy] What do you mean, we don't time to worry about this? 290 00:11:22,266 --> 00:11:24,567 I've been doing this all morning. 291 00:11:24,567 --> 00:11:27,367 [Cristina] We live four houses away from each other. 292 00:11:27,367 --> 00:11:29,867 I mean, it's not close enough, but it'll do. 293 00:11:29,867 --> 00:11:34,367 But the funny thing is, like, whenever my neighbors are cooking or grilling, 294 00:11:34,367 --> 00:11:36,166 I feel like my mom is coming over, 295 00:11:36,166 --> 00:11:38,166 because she always smells like food. 296 00:11:38,166 --> 00:11:39,767 What do you mean, I smell like food? 297 00:11:39,767 --> 00:11:41,166 I spend a lot of money on perfume, 298 00:11:41,166 --> 00:11:42,467 I don't wanna smell like food. 299 00:11:42,467 --> 00:11:43,767 I don't smell your perfume. 300 00:11:43,767 --> 00:11:46,266 You guys have said forever that I smell like a cheeseburger. 301 00:11:46,333 --> 00:11:47,567 -I like, it really... -You do, you smell-- 302 00:11:47,667 --> 00:11:48,867 -...starting to get insulted by this. -You smell like a grill. 303 00:11:48,867 --> 00:11:49,867 [sniffs] 304 00:11:49,867 --> 00:11:51,166 -I smell like a grill. -Okay, not right now. 305 00:11:51,166 --> 00:11:52,166 Right now, she smells good. 306 00:11:52,166 --> 00:11:54,667 But usually, she smells like a grill. 307 00:11:54,667 --> 00:11:55,867 -[upbeat music playing] -[woman] Woo! 308 00:11:55,867 --> 00:11:57,767 [Cristina] We are together every day. 309 00:11:57,767 --> 00:12:00,867 To me, it's weird not to live close to your mother. 310 00:12:06,500 --> 00:12:08,767 My mom and I, bond together 311 00:12:08,767 --> 00:12:11,667 is definitely the strongest bond I have with anybody. 312 00:12:12,367 --> 00:12:14,567 Kind of stronger than my husband. 313 00:12:14,634 --> 00:12:17,467 When we got married, right, for life, you and me, 314 00:12:17,467 --> 00:12:18,867 not you, me and your mother. 315 00:12:18,934 --> 00:12:20,467 -My mom is not the problem. -Okay. 316 00:12:20,467 --> 00:12:22,100 Stop saying my mom is the problem. 317 00:12:22,100 --> 00:12:23,567 We go everywhere together, 318 00:12:23,567 --> 00:12:26,767 and, in fact, when we're not together and we're somewhere, 319 00:12:26,767 --> 00:12:28,567 people are asking, "Where--" 320 00:12:28,567 --> 00:12:30,066 Yeah, what's wrong, or yeah-- 321 00:12:30,066 --> 00:12:32,066 Like, "Where's you mom? Why isn't she there? Where's your daughter?" 322 00:12:32,133 --> 00:12:33,667 [Kathy] Where am I putting this? 323 00:12:33,667 --> 00:12:36,767 -I think what we have is normal. -[Cristina] I agree. 324 00:12:36,834 --> 00:12:38,467 But other people don't think it's normal. 325 00:12:38,467 --> 00:12:40,166 Other people think we're over the top. 326 00:12:40,166 --> 00:12:41,266 Do you have a gift table? 327 00:12:41,266 --> 00:12:42,166 [Cristina] No. 328 00:12:42,233 --> 00:12:43,266 [Kathy] What do you mean, no? 329 00:12:43,266 --> 00:12:45,266 [Cristina] Well, 'cause I thought once the kids came 330 00:12:45,266 --> 00:12:47,166 and all took their drinks, 331 00:12:47,233 --> 00:12:48,467 [clears throat] then we could use this over here. 332 00:12:48,467 --> 00:12:49,767 [Kathy] Well, I'm gonna put it right here. 333 00:12:49,767 --> 00:12:50,867 [Cristina] For my mom and I, 334 00:12:50,934 --> 00:12:53,467 planning parties is our tradition together. 335 00:12:53,533 --> 00:12:55,367 I wouldn't plan a party without her, 336 00:12:55,367 --> 00:12:57,567 she wouldn't plan a party without me. 337 00:12:57,567 --> 00:13:01,266 We probably have somewhere between 10 to 15 parties a year. 338 00:13:01,333 --> 00:13:02,567 We don't really do anything small. 339 00:13:02,634 --> 00:13:04,567 And there's been times when we've said, 340 00:13:04,634 --> 00:13:06,367 "We gotta stop. This is now out of control." 341 00:13:06,433 --> 00:13:08,166 But we don't stop. 342 00:13:08,233 --> 00:13:10,567 Okay, so everyone has a towel close by. 343 00:13:10,634 --> 00:13:13,166 Put it down on the ground. Cool? 344 00:13:13,233 --> 00:13:17,166 Today is my youngest daughter Cia's seventh birthday, 345 00:13:17,166 --> 00:13:20,767 and we as usual have gone completely over the top. 346 00:13:20,767 --> 00:13:23,767 All right, everybody, foam party. 347 00:13:23,767 --> 00:13:27,667 [all] One, two, three. Go! 348 00:13:27,734 --> 00:13:29,233 [children screaming] 349 00:13:30,367 --> 00:13:33,266 ♪ Do you wanna dance with me ♪ 350 00:13:33,266 --> 00:13:34,767 Whoo! 351 00:13:34,767 --> 00:13:36,333 ♪ Do you wanna dance with me ♪ 352 00:13:39,467 --> 00:13:40,467 [Cristina] Wow! 353 00:13:42,266 --> 00:13:44,867 My mom and I are always planning a party. 354 00:13:44,867 --> 00:13:48,467 And now that my mom is gonna be turning 65, 355 00:13:48,467 --> 00:13:53,266 she has her heart set on throwing her birthday party 356 00:13:53,266 --> 00:13:55,000 at a funeral home. 357 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:57,166 I wanna do this for your funeral. 358 00:13:57,166 --> 00:13:59,367 -For my funeral? -I think we should have a foam funeral. 359 00:13:59,433 --> 00:14:00,567 [Kathy] No! 360 00:14:00,567 --> 00:14:04,567 I'm throwing myself a living funeral birthday party. 361 00:14:04,567 --> 00:14:08,066 So, here's how this whole funeral party came about. 362 00:14:08,066 --> 00:14:11,266 I had told my mom that when she does pass away, 363 00:14:11,333 --> 00:14:13,767 I would like to decorate the funeral home 364 00:14:13,767 --> 00:14:16,266 and all the holidays in honor of her. 365 00:14:16,266 --> 00:14:19,367 And then I thought, "She can't decorate this party without me. 366 00:14:19,367 --> 00:14:20,867 We do every party together. 367 00:14:20,867 --> 00:14:23,767 This is gonna be the most important party of my life, 368 00:14:23,767 --> 00:14:25,066 the last ones. 369 00:14:25,066 --> 00:14:27,467 I wanna see what it's about, and I wanna be a part of it." 370 00:14:27,467 --> 00:14:29,467 [children screaming] 371 00:14:29,467 --> 00:14:31,667 [Kathy] I'm trying to get the effect of everything. 372 00:14:31,734 --> 00:14:33,567 You know, what it would be like to be at my funeral, 373 00:14:33,567 --> 00:14:35,266 but yet not sad that I'm dead, 374 00:14:35,266 --> 00:14:37,867 but, you know, say some nice things about me 375 00:14:37,867 --> 00:14:39,867 or maybe not so nice things about me, 376 00:14:39,867 --> 00:14:41,667 and just have fun with it. 377 00:14:41,734 --> 00:14:44,767 I think it's a completely different idea and... 378 00:14:44,767 --> 00:14:47,367 I'm, uh, kinda anxious to see how it goes. 379 00:14:47,433 --> 00:14:48,166 [children screaming] 380 00:14:48,166 --> 00:14:49,467 -[Carly] Hey. -[Cristina] Hey. 381 00:14:49,467 --> 00:14:50,667 -[Kathy] How cute is this? -[Cristina] What's up? 382 00:14:50,667 --> 00:14:52,066 [Carly] Looks so cute. 383 00:14:52,066 --> 00:14:54,967 I was just telling Mom, "Maybe you should have a foam funeral." 384 00:14:54,967 --> 00:14:56,266 -No. -[Cristina] Foam party funeral. 385 00:14:56,266 --> 00:14:57,567 I don't want a foam funeral. 386 00:14:57,634 --> 00:14:59,367 Are we still talking about this? 387 00:14:59,433 --> 00:15:00,367 -Yeah. -[Kathy] Yes! 388 00:15:00,433 --> 00:15:02,000 What is the problem? 389 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:03,767 I just wanna get this planned and over with, 390 00:15:03,767 --> 00:15:06,100 and I wanna have, like, a mock funeral. 391 00:15:06,100 --> 00:15:09,367 -A funeral birthday party? -[Kathy] Right. 392 00:15:09,433 --> 00:15:13,266 I wanna make sure you guys go... Don't go off the beaten path when I die, and do 393 00:15:13,266 --> 00:15:15,166 -something traditional. -[Cristina] She said she doesn't trust us. 394 00:15:15,166 --> 00:15:17,967 [Kathy] And we could get a bar and have a bartender, 395 00:15:18,033 --> 00:15:19,667 and I could pop out of the coffin. 396 00:15:19,734 --> 00:15:21,767 -Okay, but-- No, no! -Oh, you're gonna pop out of the coffin? 397 00:15:21,767 --> 00:15:23,233 I'm completely against her doing that. 398 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:28,667 Only my mom and sister would plan 399 00:15:28,734 --> 00:15:31,667 a birthday party/funeral. 400 00:15:31,667 --> 00:15:34,367 Only them. I don't know anybody else that would do that 401 00:15:34,433 --> 00:15:35,567 and think that that's normal. 402 00:15:35,567 --> 00:15:37,266 'Cause it's not. And they think it's funny, 403 00:15:37,266 --> 00:15:39,667 which I don't think it's so funny. 404 00:15:39,667 --> 00:15:41,667 [Carlo] Wow, look at this chaos. 405 00:15:41,667 --> 00:15:44,467 -Ah, can you believe this? -[Cristina] Hey, babe, wait. One second. 406 00:15:44,467 --> 00:15:45,667 [Carlo] Where am I putting these? 407 00:15:45,667 --> 00:15:47,100 -On this table. -[Cristina] Right on this table. 408 00:15:47,100 --> 00:15:48,166 [Carlo] Okay. 409 00:15:48,166 --> 00:15:50,166 [Kathy] Should I have pizza at my funeral? 410 00:15:50,166 --> 00:15:51,266 [Carlo] What? 411 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:53,266 Again with this? 412 00:15:54,500 --> 00:15:56,767 You know, I think that funeral party is the craziest thing. 413 00:15:56,834 --> 00:15:58,000 I mean, it's just nuts. 414 00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:01,166 Like, who talks about this stuff. Like-- 415 00:16:01,233 --> 00:16:03,266 There's actually a movie about somebody that did this. 416 00:16:03,266 --> 00:16:07,467 It's not for me. I don't... I would not plan a party 417 00:16:07,533 --> 00:16:08,667 about my death. 418 00:16:08,667 --> 00:16:10,033 That's just me. 419 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:13,367 -Sorry. -Well, that's 'cause I'm more fun than you. 420 00:16:13,433 --> 00:16:15,967 Maybe you are, but at the same time, it's sick. 421 00:16:17,100 --> 00:16:18,867 -[Cristina] All right. -[Kathy] All right, one... 422 00:16:18,934 --> 00:16:21,100 [both] Two, three. 423 00:16:21,100 --> 00:16:22,867 [all cheering] 424 00:16:22,867 --> 00:16:24,266 [Kathy] Make a wish! 425 00:16:24,266 --> 00:16:26,066 [all cheering] 426 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:30,066 This is one thing that's inevitably gonna happen. 427 00:16:30,133 --> 00:16:33,166 Well, is this why you wanna have a living funeral party? 428 00:16:33,233 --> 00:16:35,767 No. This is not why. 429 00:16:35,834 --> 00:16:36,967 Do you want me to tell you why? 430 00:16:36,967 --> 00:16:38,634 I wasn't even gonna tell you why. 431 00:16:39,767 --> 00:16:42,166 My grandmother died at 68 years old. 432 00:16:42,233 --> 00:16:43,166 Yeah? 433 00:16:43,166 --> 00:16:45,767 Then my mother died at 68 years old. 434 00:16:45,834 --> 00:16:46,967 -Did she? -Yes. 435 00:16:46,967 --> 00:16:48,367 And now, that I'm... 436 00:16:48,433 --> 00:16:49,867 I'm thinking, "Oh, I'm turning 65." 437 00:16:49,867 --> 00:16:52,567 And I'm thinking, "Wow, what if it's a thing?" 438 00:16:52,634 --> 00:16:55,066 Great! Now you told me that. 439 00:16:55,066 --> 00:16:57,266 Now I'm gonna be worried about you dying at 68 440 00:16:57,266 --> 00:16:58,767 and me dying at 68. 441 00:16:58,767 --> 00:17:00,567 Right. And I thought the same thing. 442 00:17:00,634 --> 00:17:01,867 -So, I thought... -[Cristina scoffs] 443 00:17:01,867 --> 00:17:04,100 ...this might be the time to throw the party 444 00:17:04,100 --> 00:17:05,667 because who knows if I'll make it. 445 00:17:05,734 --> 00:17:06,967 Maybe I'll die at 68. 446 00:17:07,033 --> 00:17:08,667 Probably shouldn't have told me this. 447 00:17:08,667 --> 00:17:10,033 Oh, my God. 448 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:14,767 [Sunnie] I'm ready for my vajacial. 449 00:17:14,834 --> 00:17:16,367 [Eva laughs] Your vajacial? 450 00:17:16,433 --> 00:17:21,367 A vajacial is a facial for your vagina. 451 00:17:21,433 --> 00:17:25,567 [Eva] You have a lot of ingrown hair I need to take care of. 452 00:17:25,567 --> 00:17:31,533 Sunnie's vagina is the most beautiful vagina I have ever seen. 453 00:17:40,166 --> 00:17:41,100 [Eva] You ready? 454 00:17:41,100 --> 00:17:42,867 [Sunnie] I'm ready for my vajacial. 455 00:17:42,867 --> 00:17:44,767 [Eva laughs] Your vajacial? 456 00:17:44,767 --> 00:17:47,266 [Sunnie] My vagina is ready. 457 00:17:47,266 --> 00:17:48,467 Skin is skin, 458 00:17:48,467 --> 00:17:52,066 whether it's your lips up here or your lips down there. 459 00:17:52,133 --> 00:17:54,066 You should take care of yourself. 460 00:17:55,867 --> 00:17:59,767 You just put your knees down and get comfortable. 461 00:17:59,834 --> 00:18:02,266 [Sunnie] But when it comes to my vagina, 462 00:18:02,266 --> 00:18:05,467 it has to be, like, my mom has to do it. 463 00:18:05,467 --> 00:18:12,266 Sunnie's vagina is the most beautiful vagina I have ever seen. 464 00:18:12,333 --> 00:18:14,133 I get it from my mama! 465 00:18:27,967 --> 00:18:28,867 Does this help? 466 00:18:28,867 --> 00:18:30,567 Yeah, it feels great. 467 00:18:30,567 --> 00:18:31,667 Yes. 468 00:18:31,667 --> 00:18:33,867 I'm Sunnie. I live in Houston, Texas. 469 00:18:33,867 --> 00:18:36,567 I'm 36 years old, and this is my mom, Eva. 470 00:18:36,634 --> 00:18:39,266 And this is my Sunnie bunny, my daughter. 471 00:18:39,333 --> 00:18:42,467 [chuckling] I love her so much. 472 00:18:42,467 --> 00:18:46,967 You have a lot of ingrown hair I need to take care of. 473 00:18:48,100 --> 00:18:50,667 [Sunnie] My mom and I are both in the med spa field, 474 00:18:50,667 --> 00:18:53,367 so we're always doing treatments on each other. 475 00:18:53,367 --> 00:18:54,767 [Eva] Relax. 476 00:18:54,767 --> 00:18:58,000 [Sunnie] We pluck each other's nose hairs, nipple hairs, 477 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:02,066 Brazilian waxes, anal bleaching. 478 00:19:02,133 --> 00:19:03,266 Thank you, Mom. 479 00:19:03,266 --> 00:19:05,567 You give the best vajacials. 480 00:19:05,567 --> 00:19:08,867 And today, my mom is giving me a vajacial... 481 00:19:08,934 --> 00:19:10,567 [screams and laughs] 482 00:19:10,567 --> 00:19:13,533 ...which is a facial for your vagina. 483 00:19:14,567 --> 00:19:16,867 Do you see that one, Mom? 484 00:19:16,867 --> 00:19:18,367 -[Eva] Yeah. -That big ingrown hair? 485 00:19:18,367 --> 00:19:19,767 -[Eva] This one? -Yeah. 486 00:19:20,767 --> 00:19:21,834 Okay. 487 00:19:23,467 --> 00:19:24,266 [Sunnie hissing in pain] 488 00:19:24,266 --> 00:19:26,066 -[Eva] I'm sorry. -It's okay. 489 00:19:26,133 --> 00:19:28,934 -[Eva] It's gonna hurt you. -I love you for this. 490 00:19:30,300 --> 00:19:33,767 I think that our friends and family think 491 00:19:33,767 --> 00:19:36,767 that giving each other vajacials is weird. 492 00:19:36,767 --> 00:19:37,767 What's wrong with it? 493 00:19:37,834 --> 00:19:40,266 It's not even their own... [stammering] 494 00:19:40,333 --> 00:19:42,166 It's not their business. 495 00:19:42,166 --> 00:19:44,967 If they actually knew how pretty your vagina looks afterwards, 496 00:19:45,033 --> 00:19:47,533 everyone would be coming here and getting vajacials. 497 00:19:49,367 --> 00:19:50,567 [Eva] Are you okay? 498 00:19:50,634 --> 00:19:53,667 Yeah, the energy in this office is, like, kinda off. 499 00:19:53,734 --> 00:19:54,734 [Eva] All right. 500 00:19:54,767 --> 00:19:56,433 [Sunnie] Hold on, I have my little crystal in here. 501 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,667 Okay, I'm gonna... I'm gonna use my crystal. 502 00:19:59,667 --> 00:20:02,867 [Eva] Okay, use your crystal. Just relax. 503 00:20:02,867 --> 00:20:04,033 [Sunnie] I love you. 504 00:20:05,266 --> 00:20:11,066 My mom is literally one of the most caring people, 505 00:20:11,066 --> 00:20:12,266 like, you could ever meet. 506 00:20:12,266 --> 00:20:14,367 She's a mom of four. 507 00:20:14,433 --> 00:20:16,066 Don't worry, you are my favorite, 508 00:20:16,133 --> 00:20:17,266 and you will be my favorite. 509 00:20:17,266 --> 00:20:19,667 -Always and forever. -I promise. 510 00:20:19,667 --> 00:20:21,100 -[laughs] -Okay? 511 00:20:21,100 --> 00:20:22,967 And God is the witness. 512 00:20:24,467 --> 00:20:27,266 I'm originally from Iraq. 513 00:20:27,266 --> 00:20:29,166 [Sunnie] And she raised us Muslim. 514 00:20:29,233 --> 00:20:33,266 And, really, Sunnie, she did embrace that tradition. 515 00:20:33,333 --> 00:20:35,066 How is your crystal? 516 00:20:35,133 --> 00:20:35,967 It helps, right? 517 00:20:35,967 --> 00:20:37,433 Yeah, it does. 518 00:20:38,100 --> 00:20:41,467 And I'm the only one from my siblings 519 00:20:41,533 --> 00:20:43,967 that actually does pray with my mom everyday. 520 00:20:44,033 --> 00:20:46,867 -[Eva] Take deep breath. We gotta pray, okay? -Okay. 521 00:20:46,867 --> 00:20:50,066 I think that that makes my mom and I's connection 522 00:20:50,133 --> 00:20:51,667 just so much stronger. 523 00:20:51,667 --> 00:20:53,166 Yeah, that is true. 524 00:20:54,700 --> 00:20:56,367 [Sunnie] Oh, no. Oh-- 525 00:20:56,367 --> 00:20:57,767 [Eva] I'm so sorry, okay? 526 00:20:57,767 --> 00:21:00,467 Ow! Mom, what the... That hurts. 527 00:21:02,367 --> 00:21:05,667 [laughing] Do not pluck my skin. 528 00:21:09,266 --> 00:21:10,367 [speaking in foreign language] 529 00:21:10,367 --> 00:21:12,367 [speaking English] 530 00:21:12,367 --> 00:21:14,367 I have to use a lancet 531 00:21:14,367 --> 00:21:17,166 to get through all that ingrown hair. 532 00:21:17,233 --> 00:21:19,433 It's just like, pop it like that. 533 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:27,667 -[Sunnie] I just need my ring. -I know. 534 00:21:27,734 --> 00:21:32,266 I started praying almost three years ago for her 535 00:21:32,266 --> 00:21:34,967 to find a man that she love. 536 00:21:35,033 --> 00:21:36,333 [Sunnie] That prayer worked. 537 00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:39,266 Because I found Scott. 538 00:21:39,266 --> 00:21:43,567 Scott is my boyfriend and he is amazing, 539 00:21:43,567 --> 00:21:47,100 and we have been together for almost a year now. 540 00:21:47,100 --> 00:21:48,367 Ooh, look at you. 541 00:21:48,367 --> 00:21:50,166 -Your face looks changed. -Oh, and look at you. 542 00:21:50,166 --> 00:21:52,767 [both laughing] 543 00:21:52,767 --> 00:21:54,567 Please, like, I am your mom 544 00:21:54,634 --> 00:21:57,667 and I just want you to respect what I'm gonna have to say. 545 00:21:57,734 --> 00:22:00,367 -And I've been saying this for a long time. -[sighs] 546 00:22:00,367 --> 00:22:02,333 -[Sunnie] Okay. -Marriage first. 547 00:22:03,367 --> 00:22:04,867 I mean, I know, Mom, I wouldn't-- 548 00:22:04,934 --> 00:22:08,166 I don't see a ring, I don't see like, he's like, 549 00:22:08,166 --> 00:22:12,000 what kinda wedding, what kinda, you know... 550 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:14,867 [Sunnie] My mom is definitely more traditional. 551 00:22:14,867 --> 00:22:16,767 As in like, marriage before sex, 552 00:22:16,767 --> 00:22:18,166 marriage before living together. 553 00:22:18,166 --> 00:22:21,266 No, no marriage, no vagina. 554 00:22:21,266 --> 00:22:25,066 No one can touch my Sunnie bunny without a ring. 555 00:22:25,066 --> 00:22:26,667 You don't have to live together 556 00:22:26,667 --> 00:22:28,567 to figure it out if she's the right one 557 00:22:28,567 --> 00:22:29,567 or the wrong one. 558 00:22:29,567 --> 00:22:31,066 If he's not gonna do this, 559 00:22:31,133 --> 00:22:32,667 I'm gonna make you propose for him. 560 00:22:32,667 --> 00:22:34,367 I can't be the one to propose. 561 00:22:34,367 --> 00:22:35,967 [Eva] I will get him the ring then. 562 00:22:36,033 --> 00:22:38,867 [Sunnie] We haven't even celebrated our one year anniversary. 563 00:22:38,934 --> 00:22:41,166 She's gonna propose for Scott. 564 00:22:41,166 --> 00:22:43,100 -On Scott's behalf. [laughs] -On his behalf. 565 00:22:43,100 --> 00:22:44,667 I swear. 566 00:22:44,667 --> 00:22:46,767 Do I need to go buy a ring myself? 567 00:22:46,834 --> 00:22:47,767 I will do that. 568 00:22:47,767 --> 00:22:49,567 I will do so, seriously. 569 00:22:49,634 --> 00:22:52,000 It's been too long, you know? And I'm worried. 570 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,166 What if he want to get intimate? 571 00:22:54,166 --> 00:22:55,367 Why are you worried? 572 00:22:55,367 --> 00:22:57,667 I am worried because I am your mother 573 00:22:57,734 --> 00:22:59,467 and I have to protect you, 574 00:22:59,467 --> 00:23:01,266 and you know, please don't-- 575 00:23:01,333 --> 00:23:02,767 Don't do that, okay? 576 00:23:02,767 --> 00:23:05,266 You try to change the subject, I know how you-- 577 00:23:05,333 --> 00:23:06,367 what you are doing. 578 00:23:10,900 --> 00:23:12,634 My mom does not know that... 579 00:23:13,300 --> 00:23:16,033 about Scott and I. [chuckles] 580 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,567 And I'm hoping that there will be a ring on my finger 581 00:23:20,634 --> 00:23:24,367 before the topic ever comes up again in conversation. 582 00:23:24,367 --> 00:23:25,433 [laughs] 583 00:23:26,867 --> 00:23:28,066 Oh. 584 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:30,767 I get what you're saying 585 00:23:30,834 --> 00:23:31,867 -and trust me like... -[Eva] Mmm-hmm. 586 00:23:31,867 --> 00:23:33,867 ...I want to marry Scott. 587 00:23:33,867 --> 00:23:36,266 -But I'm happy right now-- -[Eva] I want you to marry Scott too. 588 00:23:36,266 --> 00:23:37,266 [Eva] That's what I'm saying. 589 00:23:37,266 --> 00:23:39,667 I also don't wanna push him away 590 00:23:39,667 --> 00:23:41,166 and, like... 591 00:23:41,166 --> 00:23:44,066 we're in a really good place right now. 592 00:23:44,066 --> 00:23:46,567 You have the same values as me 593 00:23:46,567 --> 00:23:48,367 and now I see you like, 594 00:23:48,367 --> 00:23:52,467 uh, what, backing up or changing your mind? 595 00:23:52,467 --> 00:23:53,467 I'm just saying, 596 00:23:53,467 --> 00:23:56,000 you're putting a lot of pressure on him and I. 597 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:59,734 Well, I better put pressure until I see the ring. 598 00:24:01,767 --> 00:24:02,867 [Sunnie] It's hard 599 00:24:02,867 --> 00:24:07,867 because I normally tell my mom literally everything. 600 00:24:07,867 --> 00:24:09,867 And I do wanna marry Scott. 601 00:24:09,867 --> 00:24:13,166 But I think my mom is being way too pushy 602 00:24:13,166 --> 00:24:14,734 and that is just... 603 00:24:15,867 --> 00:24:17,867 too much for him. 604 00:24:17,867 --> 00:24:19,867 But if I'm honest with her, 605 00:24:19,867 --> 00:24:21,100 she's gonna disown me 606 00:24:21,100 --> 00:24:24,767 and tell me that I'm living in sin and... 607 00:24:24,767 --> 00:24:28,066 When my mom and I have issues, 608 00:24:28,066 --> 00:24:30,667 I-- it's literally the end of the world. 609 00:24:30,734 --> 00:24:32,667 We have such a strong connection, 610 00:24:32,734 --> 00:24:34,467 that I just can't, 611 00:24:34,467 --> 00:24:35,467 [sighs] 612 00:24:35,533 --> 00:24:37,667 I can't-- I can't live a normal life 613 00:24:37,667 --> 00:24:42,567 and like, have happiness or joy of any type 614 00:24:42,634 --> 00:24:44,767 when my mom's disappointed in me. 615 00:24:45,667 --> 00:24:46,734 We'll see, okay? 616 00:24:47,467 --> 00:24:48,867 -That's it? -Yeah. 617 00:24:48,934 --> 00:24:49,934 Okay. 618 00:24:50,767 --> 00:24:52,567 [Mary] I feel it in my butt, do you, Britt? 619 00:24:52,567 --> 00:24:54,266 [Brittani] Yes, I feel it in my butt. 620 00:24:54,266 --> 00:24:55,467 [Mary] Good girl. 621 00:24:55,533 --> 00:24:57,867 My mom is the most beautiful woman I've ever met. 622 00:24:57,934 --> 00:25:00,767 Look at her, she's like an angel on earth. 623 00:25:00,767 --> 00:25:02,767 [Mary] Lift up higher, higher. 624 00:25:02,767 --> 00:25:05,000 You remind me of a sea worm. 625 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:06,367 Slimy, but salty. 626 00:25:06,367 --> 00:25:09,934 But at times, you could be squirmy and fun. 627 00:25:13,166 --> 00:25:15,433 ♪ Feelin' so good ♪ 628 00:25:18,467 --> 00:25:21,667 ♪ Feelin' so, Feelin' so good ♪ 629 00:25:21,734 --> 00:25:23,767 -[slaps] -Whoo, whoo! Go. 630 00:25:23,767 --> 00:25:25,467 [Brittani grunts] 631 00:25:25,467 --> 00:25:26,867 [Mary] Go, girl. 632 00:25:26,867 --> 00:25:29,166 You gotta pick up your knees. 633 00:25:29,233 --> 00:25:31,266 Pick up your knees. 634 00:25:31,266 --> 00:25:33,867 And it'll tone your butt. Look, look at my butt. 635 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:37,367 I'm Mary, I am 59. 636 00:25:37,367 --> 00:25:39,767 I live in Hobe Sound, Florida. 637 00:25:39,767 --> 00:25:43,567 And I'm here with my beautiful daughter, Brittani. 638 00:25:43,567 --> 00:25:45,867 I am Brittani, I'm 23 years old. 639 00:25:45,867 --> 00:25:47,567 And I live with my best friend, my mom. 640 00:25:47,634 --> 00:25:48,734 Aww. 641 00:25:49,500 --> 00:25:50,467 That's so sweet. 642 00:25:50,467 --> 00:25:53,266 ♪ Feelin' so, Feelin' so good ♪ 643 00:25:53,333 --> 00:25:57,467 ♪ It's time to celebrate ♪ 644 00:25:57,533 --> 00:25:58,967 ♪ It's time to celebrate ♪ 645 00:25:59,033 --> 00:25:59,867 [Mary] See? 646 00:25:59,867 --> 00:26:03,166 Use your cheeks. It's good for your butt. 647 00:26:03,166 --> 00:26:06,367 My mom is the most beautiful woman I've ever met. 648 00:26:06,367 --> 00:26:07,567 I mean, she's literally-- 649 00:26:07,567 --> 00:26:10,266 Look at her. She's like an angel on earth. 650 00:26:10,266 --> 00:26:12,266 She's just so perfect in my eyes. 651 00:26:12,266 --> 00:26:14,667 I mean, every time I see her, 652 00:26:14,734 --> 00:26:16,066 she's just flawless. 653 00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:18,867 That's very sweet. 654 00:26:18,867 --> 00:26:20,667 I mean, it's the truth. 655 00:26:20,734 --> 00:26:21,767 I was gonna say you, 656 00:26:21,834 --> 00:26:23,834 you remind me of a sea worm. 657 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,667 Slimy, but salty. 658 00:26:26,667 --> 00:26:27,867 But at times, 659 00:26:27,934 --> 00:26:30,467 you could be squirmy and fun. 660 00:26:30,533 --> 00:26:31,433 [laughs] 661 00:26:32,166 --> 00:26:33,266 [slurps] 662 00:26:33,333 --> 00:26:35,367 [Brittani chuckles] 663 00:26:35,433 --> 00:26:37,867 -[Mary] Whee. -So I gotta wiggle it? 664 00:26:37,867 --> 00:26:39,033 Wiggle your butt. 665 00:26:41,166 --> 00:26:42,867 -This one. Come on. -[laughs] 666 00:26:42,934 --> 00:26:45,867 [vocalizing] Wiggle it, just a little bit. 667 00:26:45,867 --> 00:26:48,066 -[groans] -[Mary] Lift up higher. 668 00:26:48,133 --> 00:26:49,033 Higher. 669 00:26:49,100 --> 00:26:51,667 We've been happy-horsing in the afternoons 670 00:26:51,667 --> 00:26:53,567 every day for about an hour. 671 00:26:53,567 --> 00:26:55,066 Come on. 672 00:26:55,066 --> 00:26:58,367 Happy-horsing is a sport that I saw on social media. 673 00:26:58,367 --> 00:27:01,166 And I thought it would be a great form of exercise 674 00:27:01,233 --> 00:27:03,467 since Brittani is really not into exercising. 675 00:27:03,467 --> 00:27:05,367 -[both laugh] -[Mary] I feel it in my butt. 676 00:27:05,433 --> 00:27:08,367 -Do you, Britt? -[Brittani] Yes. I feel it in my butt. 677 00:27:09,367 --> 00:27:10,934 -[Mary] Oh. -[laughs] 678 00:27:11,667 --> 00:27:12,667 Let me help you, honey. 679 00:27:12,667 --> 00:27:13,767 [Brittani] It's too high. 680 00:27:13,834 --> 00:27:14,767 It's too high? 681 00:27:14,767 --> 00:27:17,467 -Let go of your horse. -[both laugh] 682 00:27:17,533 --> 00:27:19,467 All right. Okay, let me fix it. 683 00:27:19,533 --> 00:27:21,767 Okay, get back over there. Try it again. 684 00:27:21,767 --> 00:27:24,767 If I could spend 24 hours a day 685 00:27:24,767 --> 00:27:26,166 with my daughter Brittani, 686 00:27:26,166 --> 00:27:29,867 I would spend every waking moment with her. 687 00:27:29,867 --> 00:27:31,567 ♪ You are everything That I ever need... ♪ 688 00:27:31,567 --> 00:27:33,367 -[kisses] -[both] I love you. 689 00:27:33,433 --> 00:27:35,266 -No, I love you. -I love you more. 690 00:27:35,266 --> 00:27:37,367 [Mary] Is this not the cutest? 691 00:27:37,433 --> 00:27:39,066 I really don't need anybody else. 692 00:27:39,066 --> 00:27:41,266 And she's never going to leave me. 693 00:27:41,333 --> 00:27:43,667 I don't need any best friends in my life. 694 00:27:43,667 --> 00:27:46,166 All I really need is my mom. 695 00:27:46,233 --> 00:27:49,467 ♪ I'm flying high ♪ 696 00:27:49,533 --> 00:27:51,367 [Mary] We do so much together. 697 00:27:51,433 --> 00:27:53,867 We get massages together. 698 00:27:53,867 --> 00:27:55,166 -We tan together. -Plastic-- 699 00:27:55,166 --> 00:27:57,567 -We get plastic surgery together. -Plastic surgery. 700 00:27:57,634 --> 00:27:59,166 We shop together. 701 00:27:59,233 --> 00:28:01,367 We get colonics together. 702 00:28:01,367 --> 00:28:03,867 Oh, it hurts. 703 00:28:03,867 --> 00:28:06,100 Just pressure. [grunts] 704 00:28:06,100 --> 00:28:09,266 If I needed help to wash my back, 705 00:28:09,266 --> 00:28:10,467 -shave my legs... -Yeah. 706 00:28:10,467 --> 00:28:13,367 ...or even sh-- shave the girl. 707 00:28:13,367 --> 00:28:14,967 If I couldn't do it, you would do that. 708 00:28:15,033 --> 00:28:16,367 -I mean, if you can't reach, yeah. -Right. 709 00:28:16,433 --> 00:28:17,667 I know you would do that for me. 710 00:28:17,667 --> 00:28:18,767 -I know you would. -Of course. 711 00:28:18,834 --> 00:28:19,867 Absolutely. 712 00:28:19,867 --> 00:28:21,567 And I would do the same for you. 713 00:28:21,567 --> 00:28:22,667 I know you would. 714 00:28:22,667 --> 00:28:24,967 -I'd wipe your ass if I had to. -[both chuckle] 715 00:28:25,033 --> 00:28:26,767 [Marty] Let's go in, let's start dinner. 716 00:28:26,767 --> 00:28:28,166 [Brittani] We're having meatloaf today, right? 717 00:28:28,233 --> 00:28:29,867 [Mary] Uh, yes, we are. 718 00:28:29,867 --> 00:28:32,367 [Mary] A lot has happened in the last few years. 719 00:28:32,367 --> 00:28:34,867 Brittani has lost a lot of weight. 720 00:28:34,867 --> 00:28:37,367 [Brittani] I've lost over like, 50 pounds. 721 00:28:37,433 --> 00:28:41,066 I feel like I'm more confident in my body than I used to be. 722 00:28:41,133 --> 00:28:43,100 I'm happy with my arms, I'm happy with my legs. 723 00:28:43,100 --> 00:28:44,567 I'm happy with my face. 724 00:28:44,567 --> 00:28:46,066 But at the same time, 725 00:28:46,133 --> 00:28:48,467 I feel like my butt is kind of like, 726 00:28:48,467 --> 00:28:49,867 flat on the top part. 727 00:28:49,867 --> 00:28:51,967 And it looks like I got no butt. 728 00:28:52,033 --> 00:28:54,867 I think you have a cute, cute little butt. 729 00:28:54,867 --> 00:28:56,467 -Mom. -You're so lovable 730 00:28:56,467 --> 00:28:58,767 -and looks squeezable, and... -[Brittani] Anyway, 731 00:28:58,834 --> 00:29:00,667 ...other than that, at least I know who I really am 732 00:29:00,734 --> 00:29:02,066 with my sexuality. 733 00:29:02,133 --> 00:29:03,767 I need to tell you something. 734 00:29:05,100 --> 00:29:07,367 -I'm bisexual. -What? 735 00:29:07,367 --> 00:29:11,066 When I was 19, I was thinking I was bisexual. 736 00:29:11,133 --> 00:29:12,467 That's when I came out to her. 737 00:29:12,533 --> 00:29:15,467 But I came to realize as I got a little bit older 738 00:29:15,467 --> 00:29:16,667 that I'm not really bisexual, 739 00:29:16,734 --> 00:29:18,166 I was bi-curious. 740 00:29:18,166 --> 00:29:20,367 I only like men. [laughs] 741 00:29:20,433 --> 00:29:21,533 And that's who I am. 742 00:29:21,533 --> 00:29:25,867 [Mary] I have seen Brittani graduate with being an adult 743 00:29:25,867 --> 00:29:26,867 few years now. 744 00:29:26,867 --> 00:29:29,233 I think it was after the passing of Frank. 745 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,467 Frank was diagnosed with blood cancer. 746 00:29:33,467 --> 00:29:35,533 I lost the love of my life. 747 00:29:36,367 --> 00:29:38,166 It was devastating. 748 00:29:38,166 --> 00:29:40,767 [sniffles] Because my world just was upside-- 749 00:29:40,834 --> 00:29:41,967 [sniffles] upside down. 750 00:29:43,667 --> 00:29:45,734 We have so much that we need to do. 751 00:29:47,266 --> 00:29:51,266 And we're going to try and do them all. 752 00:29:51,266 --> 00:29:53,667 It happened really fast. 753 00:29:53,667 --> 00:29:56,033 In seven months, he was gone. [sniffles] 754 00:29:57,100 --> 00:29:59,467 Brittani was there the whole time, 755 00:29:59,467 --> 00:30:01,166 holding my hand. 756 00:30:01,233 --> 00:30:02,767 I had to take care of her. 757 00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,266 [Mary] I'm not gonna cook in a regular pan tonight. 758 00:30:06,266 --> 00:30:08,066 Let's do something like this, okay? 759 00:30:08,133 --> 00:30:09,266 -Would that be good? -[Brittani] Yeah. Yeah. 760 00:30:09,333 --> 00:30:11,100 Good. That's what I like. 761 00:30:11,100 --> 00:30:13,834 When Frank passed away, my mom and I got closer. 762 00:30:15,300 --> 00:30:16,667 We were like glue before, 763 00:30:16,667 --> 00:30:18,967 but now it's like we can't even be apart from each other 764 00:30:18,967 --> 00:30:20,367 more than a day. 765 00:30:20,433 --> 00:30:23,266 Yeah, do you want more garlic powder, onion powder? 766 00:30:23,266 --> 00:30:25,867 Um, actually, I would like some that tomato 767 00:30:25,867 --> 00:30:27,266 and a little bit more cheese. 768 00:30:27,266 --> 00:30:29,767 Now you have to kinda like mold it into... 769 00:30:29,767 --> 00:30:31,567 -Like a loaf? -Yeah. Exactly. 770 00:30:31,567 --> 00:30:34,734 [Mary] Like you're molding your boyfriend's ass. 771 00:30:35,867 --> 00:30:36,767 Come on. 772 00:30:36,834 --> 00:30:38,767 -Like oh, like ooh, baby. -You're-- 773 00:30:38,767 --> 00:30:40,066 Ooh, get into it. 774 00:30:40,066 --> 00:30:42,367 [Brittani] I have a boyfriend. His name is TJ. 775 00:30:42,433 --> 00:30:43,567 He's 27 years old 776 00:30:43,567 --> 00:30:45,467 and I met him through a dating app. 777 00:30:45,467 --> 00:30:47,734 And then spent two-and-a-half years. 778 00:30:48,367 --> 00:30:49,967 -[Brittani] Hi-- -[Mary] Hi. 779 00:30:50,033 --> 00:30:51,100 What's going on? 780 00:30:51,100 --> 00:30:53,100 -[Brittani] Hi, babe. -What are you doing? 781 00:30:53,100 --> 00:30:55,166 Just got in car, leaving work and heading to y'all soon. 782 00:30:55,166 --> 00:30:56,166 What's going on? 783 00:30:56,233 --> 00:30:57,000 Come on, hurry up, 784 00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:58,266 because I got dinner in the oven. 785 00:30:58,333 --> 00:31:00,467 I'm coming, I'm coming. I'm coming. 786 00:31:00,467 --> 00:31:02,367 She lost her virginity. 787 00:31:02,367 --> 00:31:03,266 [chuckles softly] 788 00:31:03,266 --> 00:31:04,266 And... 789 00:31:05,266 --> 00:31:07,533 she's having lots of sex. 790 00:31:08,367 --> 00:31:09,266 Lots of sex. 791 00:31:09,266 --> 00:31:10,934 -Oh, my gosh, Mom. -[chuckles] 792 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:13,834 Do you get on top of him? 793 00:31:15,367 --> 00:31:17,266 She loves details of my sex life. 794 00:31:17,266 --> 00:31:19,066 I don't know. Why is that? 795 00:31:20,166 --> 00:31:22,367 Because I'm allowed to. I'm your mother. 796 00:31:22,433 --> 00:31:23,967 -I know, but-- -I wanna-- I wanna hear. 797 00:31:23,967 --> 00:31:25,367 You're like my best friend, 798 00:31:25,367 --> 00:31:27,667 so I wanna hear what you have to say. 799 00:31:27,667 --> 00:31:28,767 When we're in best friend mode, 800 00:31:28,767 --> 00:31:31,266 I wanna hear all details. 801 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:34,567 Is he in doubt? 802 00:31:35,367 --> 00:31:37,166 -Yes. -Really? 803 00:31:37,166 --> 00:31:38,667 [Mary] I do like TJ. 804 00:31:38,734 --> 00:31:41,967 I think he's a very handsome, young man. 805 00:31:41,967 --> 00:31:43,100 He's very romantic. 806 00:31:43,100 --> 00:31:45,967 He surprises me with roses and he gives you roses. 807 00:31:45,967 --> 00:31:46,967 Dead ones. 808 00:31:47,033 --> 00:31:49,066 -Yeah, but that was one bad dozen. -Okay. 809 00:31:49,133 --> 00:31:52,567 But do I want her to settle down with this man? 810 00:31:52,567 --> 00:31:55,100 No. I really don't. 811 00:31:55,100 --> 00:31:56,767 I'm glad that you're happy right now. 812 00:31:56,767 --> 00:31:58,767 But if he's not the one... 813 00:31:58,767 --> 00:32:00,367 I think he is. 814 00:32:00,367 --> 00:32:03,166 [Mary] Since I've known him, he still lives home with Mom, 815 00:32:03,166 --> 00:32:06,166 and he's gone through a few jobs. 816 00:32:06,233 --> 00:32:09,000 And he's gonna be 28 years old, so. 817 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,367 There are a lot of red flags for me. 818 00:32:12,433 --> 00:32:14,066 Well, Britt, you're young. 819 00:32:14,066 --> 00:32:14,967 You're young. 820 00:32:15,033 --> 00:32:16,867 And you're very young, 23. 821 00:32:16,867 --> 00:32:19,367 But I'm happy for myself and you should be too. 822 00:32:19,367 --> 00:32:21,667 He has to earn it. I'm sorry. 823 00:32:21,667 --> 00:32:22,667 He has to earn it. 824 00:32:22,734 --> 00:32:24,667 How long does your respect take? 825 00:32:24,734 --> 00:32:25,767 I don't know. I don't know. 826 00:32:25,767 --> 00:32:26,767 I might-- As-- 827 00:32:26,767 --> 00:32:29,367 As long as I feel that he has to earn it. 828 00:32:29,367 --> 00:32:31,467 I'm so afraid 829 00:32:31,467 --> 00:32:34,266 that if I say something wrong about TJ, 830 00:32:34,266 --> 00:32:35,767 that she'll leave. 831 00:32:35,834 --> 00:32:37,867 And I don't want that to happen. 832 00:32:37,934 --> 00:32:40,266 But if I find out that he's doing something wrong, 833 00:32:40,266 --> 00:32:42,367 that's it. It's over. 834 00:32:42,433 --> 00:32:44,433 That's not gonna happen, not on my clock. 835 00:32:46,166 --> 00:32:47,934 That's just the way it's gonna be. 836 00:32:52,500 --> 00:32:53,567 ♪ Drippin' in diamonds ♪ 837 00:32:53,567 --> 00:32:55,567 ♪ Dressed to the nines ♪ 838 00:32:55,634 --> 00:32:58,367 -♪ Makin' a headline♪ -♪ Yeah ♪ 839 00:32:59,300 --> 00:33:01,266 ♪ Drippin' in diamonds ♪ 840 00:33:01,266 --> 00:33:03,166 ♪ Dressed to the nines ♪ 841 00:33:03,166 --> 00:33:05,867 ♪ Makin' a headline ♪ 842 00:33:05,934 --> 00:33:08,767 [Gabriella] Outfits are so important for the pageant. 843 00:33:08,767 --> 00:33:10,734 -They can make or break you. -Mmm-hmm. 844 00:33:14,867 --> 00:33:16,867 -Me! -Whoo! 845 00:33:16,934 --> 00:33:18,266 So we take trips to New York 846 00:33:18,333 --> 00:33:20,767 to design my whole entire wardrobe. 847 00:33:20,767 --> 00:33:22,467 ♪ Drippin' in diamonds ♪ 848 00:33:22,467 --> 00:33:24,467 ♪ Dressed to the nines ♪ 849 00:33:24,467 --> 00:33:27,934 [Gabriella speaking] 850 00:33:28,967 --> 00:33:30,767 -I'm Lauren. -And I'm Sophia. 851 00:33:30,767 --> 00:33:32,834 And we're known as "the sisters." 852 00:33:33,500 --> 00:33:35,166 Just collective sisters. 853 00:33:35,166 --> 00:33:36,333 [Sophia] Gab is just Gab. 854 00:33:39,266 --> 00:33:41,667 -Yep. -She has time to say her name. 855 00:33:41,734 --> 00:33:44,467 [Lauren] Our lives come second to what they have to do. 856 00:33:44,533 --> 00:33:45,967 Like going to New York 857 00:33:46,033 --> 00:33:47,967 to consult with her dress designer. 858 00:33:48,033 --> 00:33:50,433 We were just there to carry their stupid suitcases. 859 00:33:51,266 --> 00:33:52,166 [Sophia] Our mom, 860 00:33:52,166 --> 00:33:54,867 she thinks that we're "supporting" Gab 861 00:33:54,867 --> 00:33:56,867 by like, always being there. 862 00:33:57,900 --> 00:34:00,133 [Sophia speaking] 863 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:01,867 Yeah. 864 00:34:01,867 --> 00:34:03,767 ♪ Drippin' in diamonds ♪ 865 00:34:03,834 --> 00:34:05,467 ♪ Dressed to the nines ♪ 866 00:34:05,467 --> 00:34:07,934 ♪ Makin' a headline ♪ 867 00:34:13,700 --> 00:34:15,166 [Catherine] Oh, look how pretty. 868 00:34:15,233 --> 00:34:17,266 -[Gabriella] I know. -Oh, my gosh. 869 00:34:17,266 --> 00:34:18,667 -I can't wait. -[Gabriella] Where is she? 870 00:34:18,734 --> 00:34:20,066 -[Yalenis] Hello. -[Catherine] Where is she? 871 00:34:20,066 --> 00:34:21,767 -[Yalenis] Here! -Oh, my gosh. 872 00:34:21,767 --> 00:34:24,266 [Catherine] We've been working with our designer Yalenis 873 00:34:24,266 --> 00:34:25,567 for several years. 874 00:34:25,567 --> 00:34:27,266 Not only does she design 875 00:34:27,266 --> 00:34:29,467 beautiful outfits for Gabriella, 876 00:34:29,533 --> 00:34:32,567 but she designs matching outfits for me. 877 00:34:32,634 --> 00:34:33,667 Gabriella and I believe 878 00:34:33,700 --> 00:34:36,867 that having matching dresses while she's on stage 879 00:34:36,867 --> 00:34:39,867 and I'm in the audience, manifests the win. 880 00:34:39,867 --> 00:34:42,166 -All weekend at the pageant. -Hundred percent. 881 00:34:42,166 --> 00:34:43,567 And the arrival. 882 00:34:45,367 --> 00:34:47,667 [Lauren] The pageant weekend is Gab's weekend. 883 00:34:47,667 --> 00:34:49,333 And Gab should have her moment 884 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,367 and not be matching. 885 00:34:53,867 --> 00:34:54,867 Okay, so, 886 00:34:54,867 --> 00:34:55,967 -we're gonna list out all the outfits. -Okay. 887 00:34:55,967 --> 00:34:57,367 -Right. -Just so have them all in our mind. 888 00:34:57,433 --> 00:34:59,166 -Let me get my notebook. -Get the notebook. 889 00:34:59,166 --> 00:35:01,266 -Get the notebook. -[Yalenis laughs] 890 00:35:01,266 --> 00:35:05,867 -So we're gonna do... -So, orientation outfit, my arrival outfit. 891 00:35:05,867 --> 00:35:07,100 -The gown. -[Yalenis] Mmm-hmm. 892 00:35:07,100 --> 00:35:08,667 -But this year, for the gown... -Most important. 893 00:35:08,734 --> 00:35:09,767 ...I want gloves. 894 00:35:09,767 --> 00:35:12,567 -Why do need gloves? -She won in gloves. 895 00:35:12,567 --> 00:35:15,033 -So why wouldn't I wear gloves? -It's not the 1950s. 896 00:35:15,767 --> 00:35:17,166 Excuse me? 897 00:35:17,166 --> 00:35:20,066 -[all laugh] -I did not win in the '50s. 898 00:35:20,133 --> 00:35:21,567 [Lauren] This is the difference between us. 899 00:35:21,634 --> 00:35:23,266 Them two think that... 900 00:35:23,266 --> 00:35:24,767 "Them two"? I'm your mother. 901 00:35:24,834 --> 00:35:26,367 -I think that-- -The two of them 902 00:35:26,433 --> 00:35:29,166 think that like, pageants are like, everything. 903 00:35:29,166 --> 00:35:30,667 And we just don't get it. 904 00:35:30,667 --> 00:35:32,000 -We don't need to be here. -Let's go. 905 00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:33,166 -We're gonna go to a museum. -Museum. 906 00:35:33,233 --> 00:35:34,367 [Lauren] We'll see you later. 907 00:35:34,367 --> 00:35:35,767 [Gabriella] Our family's a little divided. 908 00:35:35,834 --> 00:35:38,367 -It's pageants... -[Catherine] Mmm-hmm. 909 00:35:38,433 --> 00:35:39,734 ...versus scholars. 910 00:35:42,500 --> 00:35:44,867 -[Gabriella] So this was... -[Yalenis] What is this? 911 00:35:44,867 --> 00:35:47,367 -That, those are the photos. -[Catherine and Yalenis gasp] 912 00:35:47,433 --> 00:35:48,767 -That's Mommy's. -Oh, my gosh. 913 00:35:48,767 --> 00:35:50,166 See, this is the black and white version. 914 00:35:50,166 --> 00:35:51,667 -This is the color. -[Yalenis] Red carpet too. 915 00:35:51,667 --> 00:35:55,266 [Catherine] This is the inspiration for Gabriella's evening gown. 916 00:35:55,333 --> 00:35:56,834 Yeah. I love that. 917 00:35:57,700 --> 00:35:59,867 [Yalenis] I've been doing this for 20 years. 918 00:35:59,934 --> 00:36:03,467 And never, ever have I ever had a mother 919 00:36:03,467 --> 00:36:07,066 ask me for matching outfits with her daughter. 920 00:36:07,066 --> 00:36:08,734 Especially pageant wardrobe. 921 00:36:09,467 --> 00:36:11,967 This pageant for Miss Connecticut USA, 922 00:36:12,033 --> 00:36:15,166 -the first time I was in it, I was first runner up. -Mmm-hmm. Okay. 923 00:36:15,166 --> 00:36:18,433 The second time I was in it, I was second runner up. 924 00:36:19,266 --> 00:36:22,467 And then the third time, I won, so. 925 00:36:22,467 --> 00:36:23,867 And then you went to Miss USA. 926 00:36:23,867 --> 00:36:25,634 What did you wear to Miss USA? 927 00:36:26,367 --> 00:36:28,533 [sighs] God, what a story. Um... 928 00:36:29,867 --> 00:36:32,467 After winning Miss Connecticut USA, 929 00:36:32,467 --> 00:36:35,233 I felt the world was gonna be mine. 930 00:36:37,166 --> 00:36:41,166 So, um, it was about six weeks after I won, 931 00:36:41,166 --> 00:36:42,767 and, um, 932 00:36:42,767 --> 00:36:45,367 I just remember being in the memorial day parade 933 00:36:45,367 --> 00:36:46,867 -and coming home. -[Yalenis] Mmm. 934 00:36:46,867 --> 00:36:49,967 And the phone was ringing and the phone was ringing. 935 00:36:50,867 --> 00:36:52,266 So I get up 936 00:36:52,333 --> 00:36:55,367 -and I walk to my mother's room. -Mmm-hmm. 937 00:36:55,433 --> 00:36:56,634 And... [sniffles] 938 00:36:59,367 --> 00:37:00,367 [sniffles] 939 00:37:03,166 --> 00:37:05,066 she was dead in bed. 940 00:37:05,900 --> 00:37:07,266 And I found her. 941 00:37:08,567 --> 00:37:10,967 -I didn't know what to do. -[Yalenis] I wanna hug you. 942 00:37:10,967 --> 00:37:13,867 -[Catherine sniffles] -[Yalenis] Oh, my God. 943 00:37:13,867 --> 00:37:16,467 [Gabriella] You only get to go to Miss USA once. 944 00:37:16,533 --> 00:37:18,667 -Mmm-hmm. -And that's your only chance in your lifetime. 945 00:37:18,667 --> 00:37:19,867 And not a lot of people know that. 946 00:37:19,867 --> 00:37:22,367 -And when I tell people, they're shocked. -Mmm-hmm. 947 00:37:22,367 --> 00:37:25,767 On that day, my pageant career ended. 948 00:37:25,767 --> 00:37:27,667 And that's why this is so important. 949 00:37:27,667 --> 00:37:30,100 I'm like, carrying the torch. 950 00:37:30,100 --> 00:37:32,000 -Now we do this together. -[Catherine] Yep. 951 00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:33,667 [Catherine] I have a second chance. 952 00:37:33,667 --> 00:37:37,166 Because she wants to carry on the torch. 953 00:37:38,467 --> 00:37:40,100 [Gabriella] She never pushed me into it, 954 00:37:40,100 --> 00:37:42,767 but this is a legacy. 955 00:37:42,834 --> 00:37:44,767 -Mmm-hmm. -And I wanna finish what she started 956 00:37:44,767 --> 00:37:47,100 because it was always her dream to be Miss USA. 957 00:37:47,100 --> 00:37:48,367 [Catherine] Mmm-hmm. 958 00:37:48,367 --> 00:37:50,367 [Gabriella] My mom had one chance to win that crown 959 00:37:50,367 --> 00:37:52,166 and it was taken away from her. 960 00:37:52,166 --> 00:37:54,467 And so now, there's a lot at stake 961 00:37:54,533 --> 00:37:56,667 and now, winning is not an option. 962 00:38:00,367 --> 00:38:01,567 -[Carly] What's with her? -[Cristina] I don't know. 963 00:38:01,634 --> 00:38:02,567 Falling asleep. 964 00:38:02,567 --> 00:38:04,100 It's not like her. 965 00:38:04,100 --> 00:38:06,567 She's telling me she's gonna die at 68. 966 00:38:06,567 --> 00:38:10,066 Now I see her falling asleep at a birthday party. 967 00:38:10,066 --> 00:38:11,967 I know she wants to make everything light, 968 00:38:12,033 --> 00:38:15,467 but I don't want to go down that road. 969 00:38:16,367 --> 00:38:17,934 ♪ This is how you do it now ♪ 970 00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:22,634 ♪ This is how You get it done ♪ 971 00:38:24,667 --> 00:38:26,166 [Kathy] Is there any kids in there? 972 00:38:26,166 --> 00:38:27,166 I mean, does it go away? 973 00:38:27,166 --> 00:38:29,667 It doesn't seem like it's dissipating at all. 974 00:38:29,667 --> 00:38:31,233 ♪ This is how you do it now ♪ 975 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:36,834 ♪ This is how You get it done ♪ 976 00:38:40,367 --> 00:38:42,066 ♪ This is how you do it now ♪ 977 00:38:44,867 --> 00:38:47,333 How do you do this? What do I, cut this off? 978 00:38:49,266 --> 00:38:51,266 [Carly] It's like, a big cake. 979 00:38:52,100 --> 00:38:53,934 There you go, cutie. 980 00:38:54,967 --> 00:38:56,967 [Cristina] Ma, come here and help me. 981 00:38:59,867 --> 00:39:01,033 Where the hell did mom go? 982 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:03,033 [Carly] She's resting. 983 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:05,367 Here you go, you guys. 984 00:39:05,433 --> 00:39:06,667 -[man] Thank you so much. -[Carly] Yeah, of course. 985 00:39:06,667 --> 00:39:08,333 [man] What do you say? Say thank you. 986 00:39:09,266 --> 00:39:10,367 Would you look at mom? 987 00:39:11,266 --> 00:39:13,367 I mean, what-- What's with her today? 988 00:39:13,367 --> 00:39:14,667 [Carly] She wants to have her funeral. 989 00:39:14,667 --> 00:39:15,667 -I mean, she looks like it. -[laughs] 990 00:39:15,667 --> 00:39:17,667 I've never seen her pass out at a party. 991 00:39:17,667 --> 00:39:19,934 -What is going on with her? -[Carly] I don't know. 992 00:39:20,900 --> 00:39:22,367 [Cristina] For... sake, 993 00:39:22,367 --> 00:39:25,066 she's telling me she's gonna die at 68. 994 00:39:25,133 --> 00:39:28,266 Now I see her falling asleep at a birthday party, 995 00:39:28,266 --> 00:39:31,266 which she never, ever does. 996 00:39:32,166 --> 00:39:35,033 I mean, do I need to be concerned here or what? 997 00:39:37,166 --> 00:39:38,367 You know, not for nothing, 998 00:39:38,367 --> 00:39:40,166 but while Mom's taking a snooze, 999 00:39:40,166 --> 00:39:41,667 does she need to like, go see a doctor? 1000 00:39:41,667 --> 00:39:43,467 -Like what's with her? She, like-- -[Carly] I don't know. 1001 00:39:43,533 --> 00:39:44,567 -Falling asleep. -Ominous. 1002 00:39:44,567 --> 00:39:47,567 -She's... It's not like her. -[Carly laughs] I know. 1003 00:39:47,567 --> 00:39:49,166 I know. 1004 00:39:49,166 --> 00:39:50,767 I mean, I don't know what we're really gonna do 1005 00:39:50,834 --> 00:39:52,867 -about this funeral party. -I don't know either. 1006 00:39:52,934 --> 00:39:54,667 -And I know she wants it to be like... -But the truth-- 1007 00:39:54,667 --> 00:39:56,266 ...happy when she dies finally, 1008 00:39:56,333 --> 00:39:58,166 but like, are we really gonna plan for that? 1009 00:39:59,367 --> 00:40:01,667 I know, but I don't think mom's gonna stop 1010 00:40:01,734 --> 00:40:02,667 until we, until she gets what she wants. 1011 00:40:02,667 --> 00:40:04,266 Yeah, she's probably not gonna let go. 1012 00:40:04,266 --> 00:40:06,367 Originally, she wanted to go to a roller rink. 1013 00:40:06,433 --> 00:40:08,266 I was like, "Oh, that sounds like fun." [laughs] 1014 00:40:08,266 --> 00:40:11,467 Now she's turning it into planning like this whole, you know... 1015 00:40:11,467 --> 00:40:12,467 [Carly] Yeah. 1016 00:40:12,467 --> 00:40:13,767 It's an eerie feeling. 1017 00:40:13,767 --> 00:40:16,066 It like, just brings you back to like, everything with Dad. 1018 00:40:16,133 --> 00:40:17,100 Brings it back to dad, right. 1019 00:40:17,100 --> 00:40:19,066 And I don't know if I wanna do that all again. 1020 00:40:19,867 --> 00:40:22,867 You know, I lost my dad at a very young age. 1021 00:40:22,934 --> 00:40:25,066 To me, 76 is young. 1022 00:40:25,133 --> 00:40:30,467 And my mom talking about her dying by 68, 1023 00:40:30,467 --> 00:40:35,000 I seriously can't even imagine losing her before 70. 1024 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,166 Because 76 seems so young. 1025 00:40:37,233 --> 00:40:39,867 What are we gonna do? Get like, a coffin? 1026 00:40:39,867 --> 00:40:41,066 [softly] I'm crying right now. 1027 00:40:41,700 --> 00:40:42,734 [Carly] Don't cry. 1028 00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:46,033 -Don't cry. -[crying] 1029 00:40:46,867 --> 00:40:48,333 It's just like with Dad. 1030 00:40:50,266 --> 00:40:51,667 I know. 1031 00:40:51,667 --> 00:40:54,834 [sniffles] And what makes me more upset than anything is that... 1032 00:40:57,166 --> 00:40:58,000 [Carly] The kids. 1033 00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:00,367 -The kids... -I know. 1034 00:41:00,367 --> 00:41:02,467 -You know, so it's like... -I know. 1035 00:41:02,467 --> 00:41:04,467 I know she wants to make everything light, 1036 00:41:04,467 --> 00:41:06,667 and I'm always supposed to be whatever, but... 1037 00:41:07,500 --> 00:41:10,266 And it was really, really hard. 1038 00:41:10,333 --> 00:41:12,967 -I know. -And I don't want to, like, 1039 00:41:13,033 --> 00:41:15,767 go back down that road, you know? 1040 00:41:15,767 --> 00:41:16,834 I get it. 1041 00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:19,266 I don't think I'm that comfortable 1042 00:41:19,333 --> 00:41:22,367 -planning Mom's funeral... -No. 1043 00:41:22,367 --> 00:41:24,333 -...as she wants me to be. -No. 1044 00:41:29,266 --> 00:41:31,100 She doesn't realize how hard it is 1045 00:41:31,100 --> 00:41:32,867 to actually think about that. 1046 00:41:34,100 --> 00:41:36,166 My mom keeps talking 1047 00:41:36,233 --> 00:41:38,367 about wanting to plan her funeral. 1048 00:41:38,433 --> 00:41:40,867 Her last party. 1049 00:41:40,934 --> 00:41:42,767 I'm like, "Last party? What--" 1050 00:41:42,767 --> 00:41:45,066 We got like, a million more parties to go here, lady. 1051 00:41:45,066 --> 00:41:46,367 Like, what are you talking about? 1052 00:41:46,367 --> 00:41:48,734 So in my head, I'm thinking, 1053 00:41:49,767 --> 00:41:50,967 you wanna plan your last party. 1054 00:41:50,967 --> 00:41:52,867 What-- Is there something you're not like, telling me? 1055 00:41:52,867 --> 00:41:55,266 But I can't say that to her. 1056 00:41:55,333 --> 00:41:57,233 Those words can't come out of my mouth. 1057 00:41:58,467 --> 00:42:00,166 Because I can't handle the answer. 1058 00:42:04,367 --> 00:42:06,166 My mom always made a joke saying, 1059 00:42:06,166 --> 00:42:08,867 if she can't wear her high heels, like, 1060 00:42:08,867 --> 00:42:10,867 her life is over. 1061 00:42:10,867 --> 00:42:13,767 It's like I'm scared one day to pick her up, 1062 00:42:13,834 --> 00:42:16,166 and her not be in her heels. 1063 00:42:21,367 --> 00:42:22,333 [sniffles] 1064 00:42:28,767 --> 00:42:33,367 I know what that would mean if I ever pulled up 1065 00:42:33,433 --> 00:42:36,767 and she wasn't wearing some ridiculous flamboyant outfit 1066 00:42:36,767 --> 00:42:37,967 with heels on. 1067 00:42:37,967 --> 00:42:39,767 It would mean, like, 1068 00:42:39,834 --> 00:42:44,100 something's seriously wrong or she's given up 1069 00:42:44,100 --> 00:42:45,066 'cause she's, 1070 00:42:45,066 --> 00:42:49,000 she's not gonna go on looking like Kathy. 1071 00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:52,133 So that's very scary. 1072 00:42:57,667 --> 00:43:00,867 [Kathy] So there's something I haven't told the girls. 1073 00:43:00,867 --> 00:43:01,767 A few weeks ago, 1074 00:43:01,834 --> 00:43:03,867 I got some news from my doctor. 1075 00:43:03,934 --> 00:43:05,567 It's not good news. 1076 00:43:05,634 --> 00:43:07,667 It's not news that you wanna get. 1077 00:43:07,667 --> 00:43:08,667 At this stage of the game, 1078 00:43:08,667 --> 00:43:10,367 you don't wanna have to start dealing with 1079 00:43:10,367 --> 00:43:11,867 what I'm gonna deal with. 1080 00:43:14,500 --> 00:43:16,166 I know I need to tell Cristina, 1081 00:43:16,166 --> 00:43:20,467 but I don't know when is gonna be a good time to tell her. 1082 00:43:20,467 --> 00:43:24,166 At some point, I will have to tell my kids, 1083 00:43:24,166 --> 00:43:26,667 and I'm just not ready to do that yet. 1084 00:43:30,467 --> 00:43:33,867 Gab, I need some more thongs, and please, this time, 1085 00:43:33,867 --> 00:43:35,367 give me a clean pair. 1086 00:43:35,433 --> 00:43:37,166 The pageant is weeks away now. 1087 00:43:37,233 --> 00:43:39,266 Can you explain philanthropy? 1088 00:43:39,333 --> 00:43:42,634 I don't know what philanthropy is. 1089 00:43:43,700 --> 00:43:46,667 Ow, mom, so hard. 1090 00:43:46,667 --> 00:43:49,166 My mom always grooms me before dates. 1091 00:43:49,166 --> 00:43:50,367 -[whimpers] -Ooh. 1092 00:43:50,367 --> 00:43:52,867 My cute little heinie that I created. 1093 00:43:52,867 --> 00:43:54,867 You're my daughter, I love you, every part of you. 1094 00:43:54,867 --> 00:43:56,100 If I want to touch your heinie, 1095 00:43:56,100 --> 00:43:57,000 I'm gonna touch your heinie. 1096 00:43:57,000 --> 00:43:58,367 [smooching] 1097 00:43:58,367 --> 00:44:00,867 Brittani's always been the joy of my life. 1098 00:44:00,867 --> 00:44:03,867 I'm Sky, this is Skylar Marie. 1099 00:44:03,867 --> 00:44:06,667 We walk alike, we talk alike. 1100 00:44:06,667 --> 00:44:09,367 I'm like Skylar's brain, to be honest. 1101 00:44:09,367 --> 00:44:11,667 I think that you would know what to wear. 1102 00:44:11,667 --> 00:44:12,867 To a funeral home? 1103 00:44:12,934 --> 00:44:14,066 Shouldn't you wear black? 1104 00:44:14,133 --> 00:44:15,767 I'm not dead! 1105 00:44:15,767 --> 00:44:18,967 I'm Trevor, this is my gorgeous wife Deleesa, 1106 00:44:18,967 --> 00:44:20,266 and my mother-in-law India. 1107 00:44:20,266 --> 00:44:21,967 Are you seriously feeding him? 1108 00:44:21,967 --> 00:44:25,066 My mom and my husband have a sick infatuation 1109 00:44:25,066 --> 00:44:26,100 with each other. 1110 00:44:26,100 --> 00:44:28,367 They're always riding hoverboards 1111 00:44:28,433 --> 00:44:31,066 in matching outfits, it's kinda weird. 1112 00:44:31,133 --> 00:44:32,767 I own her, not you. 1113 00:44:32,767 --> 00:44:34,166 You own your daughter? 1114 00:44:34,233 --> 00:44:37,266 I want to say to Brittani, dump his ass! 1115 00:44:37,266 --> 00:44:40,266 The reason why I haven't married you yet 1116 00:44:40,266 --> 00:44:41,867 is because of your mom. 1117 00:44:41,934 --> 00:44:45,467 Mom pressuring him is making him go into a turtle shell. 1118 00:44:45,533 --> 00:44:48,000 Sky loves herself so much, 1119 00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,967 that she has to clone herself with Sky, Jr. 1120 00:44:51,033 --> 00:44:53,066 I do feel like she's living through me, 1121 00:44:53,066 --> 00:44:55,467 and I don't like that feeling. 1122 00:44:55,467 --> 00:44:58,734 I'm so stressed, what if I don't win? 1123 00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:00,667 I actually have a secret. 1124 00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,066 What's the good news? 1125 00:45:05,066 --> 00:45:06,266 Now you got him telling me to move. 1126 00:45:06,266 --> 00:45:07,166 Good. 1127 00:45:07,166 --> 00:45:08,000 We don't have any alone time. 1128 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:08,967 Okay, okay, both of you, stop. 1129 00:45:09,033 --> 00:45:09,967 You guys are attached at the hip. 1130 00:45:10,033 --> 00:45:11,066 Both of you stop, please. 1131 00:45:11,066 --> 00:45:13,100 Are you seriously [bleep] leaving? 1132 00:45:13,100 --> 00:45:17,367 I feel like my heart is broken, and I canot fix it. 1133 00:45:17,367 --> 00:45:18,967 Mothers and daughters don't keep things 1134 00:45:18,967 --> 00:45:20,367 like this from each other. 1135 00:45:20,367 --> 00:45:22,166 You don't want to leave me. 1136 00:45:22,166 --> 00:45:23,166 No. 1137 00:45:23,166 --> 00:45:24,066 Really? 1138 00:45:24,133 --> 00:45:26,166 What kind of man are you, a wuss? 1139 00:45:26,166 --> 00:45:27,834 This is our house. 1140 00:45:31,567 --> 00:45:32,867 I went to the doctor. 1141 00:45:32,867 --> 00:45:33,767 Who knows about this? 1142 00:45:33,767 --> 00:45:34,767 Nobody. 1143 00:45:34,834 --> 00:45:36,500 I mean what the hell, mom?