1 00:00:00,983 --> 00:00:02,847 -[narrator] Previously onsMothered. -[Eva] Sunnie's vagina 2 00:00:02,864 --> 00:00:06,627 is the most beautiful vagina I have ever seen. 3 00:00:06,644 --> 00:00:08,593 I get it from my mama. 4 00:00:08,610 --> 00:00:09,779 Scott is my boyfriend 5 00:00:09,796 --> 00:00:13,491 and we have been together for almost a year now. 6 00:00:13,508 --> 00:00:14,966 I don't see a ring. 7 00:00:14,983 --> 00:00:17,762 [Sunnie] My mom is more traditional, as in, like, 8 00:00:17,779 --> 00:00:21,067 marriage before sex, marriage before living together. 9 00:00:22,677 --> 00:00:25,237 My mom does not know about 10 00:00:25,254 --> 00:00:27,016 Scott and I. Ugh! 11 00:00:27,559 --> 00:00:28,728 [Gabriella] My mom is my idol. 12 00:00:28,745 --> 00:00:30,745 She's Miss Connecticut USA. 13 00:00:30,762 --> 00:00:32,711 Those are some shoes to fill. 14 00:00:32,728 --> 00:00:34,508 We've always worn matching outfits. 15 00:00:34,525 --> 00:00:36,203 It's just one of our things. 16 00:00:37,644 --> 00:00:38,610 Thank you. 17 00:00:38,627 --> 00:00:39,915 Up! Up! 18 00:00:39,932 --> 00:00:42,288 [Gabriella] The Miss Connecticut USA pageant 19 00:00:42,305 --> 00:00:43,593 is only three weeks away 20 00:00:43,610 --> 00:00:45,288 and this is my year. 21 00:00:45,305 --> 00:00:46,474 I'm taking home that crown. 22 00:00:46,491 --> 00:00:47,711 [Catherine] We practice every single day. 23 00:00:47,728 --> 00:00:49,338 [Gabriella] We will stop at nothing 24 00:00:49,355 --> 00:00:51,254 because this is the legacy. 25 00:00:51,661 --> 00:00:52,711 [TJ] What's going on? 26 00:00:52,728 --> 00:00:54,694 -[Brittani] Hi, babe. -What're you doing? 27 00:00:54,711 --> 00:00:56,881 [Brittani] I've a boyfriend. His name is TJ 28 00:00:56,898 --> 00:00:58,728 and I met him through a dating app. 29 00:00:58,745 --> 00:01:00,593 Do you get on top of him? 30 00:01:00,610 --> 00:01:02,711 [Brittani] She loves details of my sex life. 31 00:01:02,728 --> 00:01:04,456 I don't know. Why is that? 32 00:01:04,474 --> 00:01:06,661 Because I'm allowed to. I'm your mother. 33 00:01:06,676 --> 00:01:08,474 If he's not the one 34 00:01:08,491 --> 00:01:10,711 then you'll have a little bit more experience. 35 00:01:10,728 --> 00:01:14,016 Do I want her to settle down with this man? No. 36 00:01:14,338 --> 00:01:15,457 I really don't. 37 00:01:15,474 --> 00:01:16,694 [Kathy] Do I have pizza at my funeral? 38 00:01:16,711 --> 00:01:18,644 What? Again with this [bleep]. 39 00:01:18,661 --> 00:01:21,457 [Cristian] My mom has her heart set 40 00:01:21,474 --> 00:01:24,050 on throwing her birthday party 41 00:01:24,423 --> 00:01:25,508 at a funeral home. 42 00:01:25,525 --> 00:01:26,610 Would you look at mom. 43 00:01:26,627 --> 00:01:28,627 I've never seen her pass out at a party. 44 00:01:28,644 --> 00:01:31,457 A few weeks ago I got some news from my doctor. 45 00:01:31,474 --> 00:01:32,813 It's not good news. 46 00:01:32,830 --> 00:01:34,813 I know she wants to make everything light 47 00:01:34,830 --> 00:01:36,676 and I'm the one who's supposed to be, whatever. 48 00:01:36,694 --> 00:01:40,338 But I don't want to go back down that road. 49 00:01:51,220 --> 00:01:52,253 You have to pluck. 50 00:01:52,508 --> 00:01:53,508 [Eva] Pluck what? 51 00:01:53,525 --> 00:01:56,508 I actually have hair in my nose, so, like... 52 00:01:56,525 --> 00:01:59,101 -Literal hair in my nose. -Inside? Okay. 53 00:02:00,491 --> 00:02:02,101 [Eva] I'm trying not to hurt you. 54 00:02:02,322 --> 00:02:03,203 [Sunnie] Ow. 55 00:02:04,457 --> 00:02:05,542 -I was-- -Don't be a baby. 56 00:02:05,559 --> 00:02:07,186 I'm not being a baby. 57 00:02:07,457 --> 00:02:08,473 [Eva] Ooh. 58 00:02:17,711 --> 00:02:19,457 Yeah. I need to pick out an outfit. 59 00:02:19,474 --> 00:02:20,661 So, you sit here and I'll show you 60 00:02:20,677 --> 00:02:22,186 -what I have in mind. -I sit here. Okay. 61 00:02:22,694 --> 00:02:23,779 You can show me 62 00:02:23,796 --> 00:02:26,000 and I will tell you my honest opinion. 63 00:02:26,016 --> 00:02:28,779 [Sunnie] I'm having a date night with my boyfriend, Scott 64 00:02:28,796 --> 00:02:31,338 and as always my mama's here 65 00:02:31,355 --> 00:02:32,728 and she's helping me get ready. 66 00:02:32,745 --> 00:02:34,796 Okay, so this is like, kind of, funky 67 00:02:34,813 --> 00:02:38,576 but, like, it kinda matches Scott's funky style. 68 00:02:38,593 --> 00:02:40,423 So, this bodysuit 69 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,322 -with these and then-- -No. 70 00:02:42,338 --> 00:02:43,508 I don't like it. 71 00:02:43,525 --> 00:02:45,661 No, seriously, no. Hundred percent, no. 72 00:02:45,677 --> 00:02:48,338 I did something really nice 73 00:02:48,355 --> 00:02:51,457 for Sunnie and Scott. 74 00:02:51,474 --> 00:02:52,829 It's like a date 75 00:02:52,847 --> 00:02:58,186 to go to, really, like, very different, 76 00:02:58,457 --> 00:02:59,406 bakery. 77 00:02:59,423 --> 00:03:00,474 It's very hi-end. 78 00:03:05,745 --> 00:03:09,474 It's time for Scott to propose. 79 00:03:09,491 --> 00:03:12,305 It's been a year, you know? I mean, it's, 80 00:03:12,322 --> 00:03:14,152 the clock is ticking, come on. 81 00:03:14,728 --> 00:03:16,305 [Sunnie] Okay. What about this? 82 00:03:17,474 --> 00:03:18,728 It's kinda cute. 83 00:03:18,745 --> 00:03:20,745 -Do you like it? -Actually I like it. 84 00:03:20,762 --> 00:03:22,677 I love for you to wear. [laughs] 85 00:03:22,694 --> 00:03:24,338 Mom, do you like this 86 00:03:24,355 --> 00:03:25,627 because it's covering up my boobs? 87 00:03:25,644 --> 00:03:27,745 -Yes. Yes. [laughs] -Is that the only reason you like it? 88 00:03:27,762 --> 00:03:29,864 Well then, this is gonna be a no, then. 89 00:03:29,881 --> 00:03:33,355 She sees a centimeter of cleavage, she's like, 90 00:03:34,203 --> 00:03:34,711 "Eh!" 91 00:03:34,728 --> 00:03:36,423 -It's like, I'm-- -What are you, why? 92 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:37,829 Like, why do you wanna show? To who? 93 00:03:37,847 --> 00:03:39,474 -Its literally fashion. -I would go buy 94 00:03:39,491 --> 00:03:40,829 you a new wardrobe. 95 00:03:40,847 --> 00:03:43,338 I've seen pictures of her wearing... 96 00:03:43,745 --> 00:03:45,372 -Me? -...short skirts. 97 00:03:46,237 --> 00:03:46,627 Yes. 98 00:03:46,644 --> 00:03:48,711 Uh, yes, that's different. 99 00:03:48,728 --> 00:03:49,864 -There is no... -You can-- 100 00:03:49,881 --> 00:03:53,474 There is no cleavage in, in, in legs. 101 00:03:55,559 --> 00:03:57,593 -Oh, my goodness. -What? 102 00:03:57,610 --> 00:04:00,711 -Look at your armpits. -What? 103 00:04:00,728 --> 00:04:03,016 There's a lot of hair. 104 00:04:03,372 --> 00:04:05,457 Oh, my God. Look at this. 105 00:04:05,474 --> 00:04:06,491 That's disgusting. 106 00:04:06,508 --> 00:04:07,779 [Sunnie] I'm getting lasered, like. 107 00:04:07,796 --> 00:04:10,610 -What do-- -Laser? Even with laser? 108 00:04:10,627 --> 00:04:11,677 Let me see. 109 00:04:11,694 --> 00:04:14,491 [Sunnie] Maybe I have hair under my armpits 110 00:04:14,508 --> 00:04:16,661 to distract from the cleavage. 111 00:04:16,677 --> 00:04:19,779 No. This has nothing to do with the cleavage, missy. No. 112 00:04:19,796 --> 00:04:21,762 Scott would never touch you... [laughs] 113 00:04:21,779 --> 00:04:25,033 or marry you if you're gonna leave it like this. 114 00:04:25,288 --> 00:04:26,610 Ow, mom. 115 00:04:26,627 --> 00:04:29,423 -So you want to-- -You're literally going 116 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,440 so hard. [groans] 117 00:04:31,457 --> 00:04:33,542 [laughs] I'm trying to clean you up. 118 00:04:33,558 --> 00:04:36,711 [Sunnie] My mom always grooms me before I go on dates 119 00:04:36,728 --> 00:04:39,271 and helps me get ready. And shaving? 120 00:04:39,677 --> 00:04:41,661 -I mean, thank God-- -For me. 121 00:04:41,677 --> 00:04:42,813 I would've walked out... 122 00:04:42,830 --> 00:04:45,237 -With that. -...looking like sasquatch. 123 00:04:45,254 --> 00:04:46,322 [laughs] Yes. 124 00:04:46,338 --> 00:04:48,593 I think Scott is already here. 125 00:04:48,610 --> 00:04:49,881 Should I go open the door for him? 126 00:04:49,898 --> 00:04:52,220 Go tell him that you setup a date for us. 127 00:04:52,237 --> 00:04:52,779 Okay, okay, okay. 128 00:04:52,796 --> 00:04:55,118 -I'll be right there. -Okay, okay. 129 00:04:55,661 --> 00:04:56,711 -Hi, Scott. -Hi. 130 00:04:56,728 --> 00:04:57,593 -How are you? -Good. 131 00:04:57,610 --> 00:04:58,593 [Eva] So good to see you. 132 00:04:58,610 --> 00:04:59,864 -Look how handsome you are. -Thank you. 133 00:04:59,881 --> 00:05:02,610 [Scott] My name is Scott. I'm Sunnie's boyfriend, 134 00:05:02,627 --> 00:05:04,508 uh, close to a year now. 135 00:05:04,525 --> 00:05:06,813 Sunnie and I met each other at my work 136 00:05:06,830 --> 00:05:09,355 where I'm currently a bar manager. 137 00:05:09,372 --> 00:05:10,491 She would come in quite often 138 00:05:10,508 --> 00:05:12,508 and apparently she would hit on me. 139 00:05:12,525 --> 00:05:14,389 But I had no idea. 140 00:05:14,406 --> 00:05:15,932 She'd bring me sandwiches and... 141 00:05:15,949 --> 00:05:18,474 everybody's like, "Oh, Sunnie's here again." 142 00:05:18,491 --> 00:05:19,661 And I'm like, "Oh, awesome." 143 00:05:19,677 --> 00:05:20,898 You know, this is gonna be a sandwich. 144 00:05:20,915 --> 00:05:23,830 And then, finally, she kinda just was like, 145 00:05:23,847 --> 00:05:26,305 "So, do you wanna hang out tonight?" 146 00:05:26,864 --> 00:05:30,000 And I was like, "Is there gonna be sandwiches?" 147 00:05:30,627 --> 00:05:32,728 And we did, we hung out. [chuckles] 148 00:05:32,745 --> 00:05:35,084 -[Eva] Sunnie. -[Sunnie] Coming. 149 00:05:35,745 --> 00:05:37,644 -Hi. -Hey, you look nice. 150 00:05:37,661 --> 00:05:38,813 [Sunnie] Thanks, so do you. 151 00:05:38,830 --> 00:05:40,508 [Scott] Sunnie is the coolest 152 00:05:40,525 --> 00:05:43,627 sweetest, most beautiful, kind soul. 153 00:05:43,644 --> 00:05:44,728 Just all of the above. 154 00:05:44,745 --> 00:05:46,830 She's literally the perfect catch. 155 00:05:46,847 --> 00:05:49,423 The biggest problem with the relationship 156 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:50,389 is her mom. 157 00:05:51,406 --> 00:05:52,406 [Sunnie] Do you wanna come with us? 158 00:05:53,474 --> 00:05:54,457 [Eva] Oh, no, no. 159 00:05:55,677 --> 00:05:57,558 [Scott] There is no Sunnie without Eva. 160 00:05:57,576 --> 00:05:58,898 Mom is always around. 161 00:05:58,915 --> 00:06:02,355 There is no Scott and Sunnie time. 162 00:06:02,372 --> 00:06:04,694 There is the three amigos. 163 00:06:04,711 --> 00:06:08,728 Well, I hope you guys have fun and good time. 164 00:06:08,745 --> 00:06:10,779 -We will. -Okay. Drive carefully. 165 00:06:10,796 --> 00:06:12,372 -[Sunnie] Yeah. -[Eva] Okay. 166 00:06:12,389 --> 00:06:13,474 -[Scott] Thanks, Eva -[Eva] Bye. 167 00:06:13,491 --> 00:06:15,491 -Bye, mom. Love you. -Love you too. 168 00:06:16,559 --> 00:06:18,593 I hundred percent believe that Sunnie's mom 169 00:06:18,610 --> 00:06:20,440 has seen her vagina more than me. 170 00:06:21,389 --> 00:06:23,016 I know it, for a fact. 171 00:06:23,677 --> 00:06:25,254 So, let me get this straight, 172 00:06:26,457 --> 00:06:28,508 -she's paying for our date... -Mm-hm. 173 00:06:28,525 --> 00:06:30,389 ...and not coming with us. 174 00:06:30,406 --> 00:06:32,949 -Yeah. -[laughs] Wow. 175 00:06:32,966 --> 00:06:36,271 I thought it was always gonna be three's company. 176 00:06:36,288 --> 00:06:36,796 [Sunnie] My mom 177 00:06:36,813 --> 00:06:39,542 is definitely more traditional. 178 00:06:39,558 --> 00:06:41,610 So, she's very uncomfortable 179 00:06:41,627 --> 00:06:43,610 with the fact that 180 00:06:43,627 --> 00:06:45,694 Scott and I are not married. 181 00:06:45,711 --> 00:06:48,474 And, she thinks it's a red flag 182 00:06:48,491 --> 00:06:51,050 that I don't have a ring on my finger. 183 00:06:51,796 --> 00:06:55,372 It's good for us to have our alone time, sometimes. 184 00:06:55,389 --> 00:06:57,220 So, I'm glad that she, 185 00:06:58,237 --> 00:06:58,864 can see that. 186 00:06:58,881 --> 00:07:01,508 You know, your mom might give us a little more alone time 187 00:07:01,525 --> 00:07:03,559 if you'd be honest about our sex life. 188 00:07:03,576 --> 00:07:06,576 [Sunnie] I mean, first of all, like, who talks about 189 00:07:06,593 --> 00:07:10,305 their, like, intimate relationship with their mom? 190 00:07:10,898 --> 00:07:15,796 And, I mean, eventually, like, we're gonna be married so. 191 00:07:15,813 --> 00:07:18,372 You deny that we have sex with your mom. 192 00:07:18,389 --> 00:07:19,440 It's not about talking about it. 193 00:07:19,457 --> 00:07:21,338 You're gonna have to stop denying 194 00:07:21,355 --> 00:07:22,779 that we are grown adults 195 00:07:22,796 --> 00:07:26,610 that have naughty time like the rest of the world. 196 00:07:26,627 --> 00:07:30,864 If my mom finds out Scott and I are having sex, 197 00:07:30,881 --> 00:07:32,949 my mom will one hundred percent 198 00:07:32,966 --> 00:07:36,864 start slut-shaming me and thinking that I'm a whore, 199 00:07:36,881 --> 00:07:40,881 giving away my body, devaluing myself. 200 00:07:40,898 --> 00:07:43,593 [mimicking Eva] " Giving it all away to a man 201 00:07:43,610 --> 00:07:44,847 without a ring" and all this. 202 00:07:44,864 --> 00:07:47,508 I've heard it, a million times. I, I know. 203 00:07:47,525 --> 00:07:48,762 I already know what my mom thinks. 204 00:07:48,779 --> 00:07:50,542 I already know what she's gonna say. 205 00:07:50,558 --> 00:07:52,745 It's aharam , it's a sin, it's... 206 00:07:52,762 --> 00:07:55,525 theshaitan in you, the devil in you. 207 00:07:55,542 --> 00:07:58,000 [mimicking Eva] "You are disrespecting yourself. 208 00:07:58,558 --> 00:08:00,067 You're sharmoota." 209 00:08:00,576 --> 00:08:02,084 Well, it's whore in Arabic. 210 00:08:02,508 --> 00:08:03,372 She'll say it. 211 00:08:04,305 --> 00:08:04,830 Once we're married 212 00:08:04,847 --> 00:08:07,440 it's not even gonna be an issue anymore, so... 213 00:08:08,322 --> 00:08:09,728 We'll get to that bridge 214 00:08:09,745 --> 00:08:13,000 once we're ready to cross it, I guess. 215 00:08:14,661 --> 00:08:16,220 ♪ Comin' in hot ♪ 216 00:08:16,610 --> 00:08:18,338 ♪ Are you ready ♪ 217 00:08:18,355 --> 00:08:20,135 ♪ Ain't never gonna stop ♪ 218 00:08:21,677 --> 00:08:22,711 [Gabriella] A little bit. 219 00:08:22,728 --> 00:08:24,406 Just out on our face a little bit. 220 00:08:25,322 --> 00:08:26,271 All right, let's go. 221 00:08:29,576 --> 00:08:31,118 Siters! 222 00:08:32,761 --> 00:08:35,220 -Hello. -What are you wearing? 223 00:08:35,236 --> 00:08:35,761 What do you think? 224 00:08:35,779 --> 00:08:37,761 I'm thinking you could cover up a little more. 225 00:08:37,779 --> 00:08:39,898 I feel like one of the teen contestants 226 00:08:39,914 --> 00:08:43,236 because this is what they wear for active wear. 227 00:08:44,457 --> 00:08:46,474 -Sure. -What! 228 00:08:46,491 --> 00:08:48,288 -[laughs] -[Catherine] Look at the back. 229 00:08:50,254 --> 00:08:51,677 Ooh. 230 00:08:51,694 --> 00:08:53,491 [Catherine] I'm wearing Gabriella's... 231 00:08:54,745 --> 00:08:57,474 -[sings] thong. -'Cause she don't have her own. 232 00:08:57,491 --> 00:08:59,728 -Uh, that is-- -Unsanitary. 233 00:08:59,745 --> 00:09:02,220 -You know what, if they're dirty... -Whatever. 234 00:09:02,237 --> 00:09:04,050 ...it's fine. Bye. 235 00:09:05,694 --> 00:09:08,322 -That was-- -All right. Have fun. 236 00:09:08,338 --> 00:09:09,355 [Catherine] Woo-hoo. 237 00:09:09,728 --> 00:09:11,576 ♪ So good to be me ♪ 238 00:09:11,593 --> 00:09:13,237 ♪ So good to be ♪ 239 00:09:14,389 --> 00:09:16,186 ♪ Good to be me ♪ 240 00:09:19,593 --> 00:09:21,203 [Gabriella] You know, when you're in a pink jeep 241 00:09:21,220 --> 00:09:21,915 you can drive bad. 242 00:09:21,932 --> 00:09:25,237 Because, I think people on the road, like, realize 243 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,254 this girl has no idea what she's doing. 244 00:09:28,271 --> 00:09:29,593 [both laughing] 245 00:09:29,610 --> 00:09:31,135 Oh, my god. 246 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:35,830 So, the Miss Connecticut USA pageant is coming up fast. 247 00:09:35,847 --> 00:09:38,694 So, one of the favorite things that we like to do 248 00:09:38,711 --> 00:09:41,813 is go to our local high school football field 249 00:09:41,830 --> 00:09:44,559 and do something that what we call 250 00:09:44,576 --> 00:09:46,491 is the Rockyrun. 251 00:09:46,508 --> 00:09:47,728 We do that twice a week. 252 00:09:47,745 --> 00:09:49,711 -In matching outfits as well. -[Catherine] Yeah. 253 00:09:49,728 --> 00:09:51,694 [Gabriella] Have you ever seen the movieRocky? 254 00:09:51,711 --> 00:09:54,406 He runs up the stairs to prepare for his boxing match 255 00:09:54,423 --> 00:09:56,135 and that's what we do for pageants. 256 00:09:57,186 --> 00:09:58,271 [phone beeps] 257 00:09:58,627 --> 00:09:59,779 Hey, do you know what? 258 00:09:59,796 --> 00:10:02,322 -What? -I have a new dating app. 259 00:10:03,542 --> 00:10:06,355 Oh, God. Why you want another dating app? 260 00:10:06,372 --> 00:10:08,237 You don't need any more boys. 261 00:10:08,491 --> 00:10:09,389 They're hot. 262 00:10:10,593 --> 00:10:12,423 You don't have your picture up there? 263 00:10:12,661 --> 00:10:13,728 Hundred percent. 264 00:10:13,745 --> 00:10:15,898 Why are you doing that? 265 00:10:15,915 --> 00:10:19,677 We're gonna have some strange weirdos at our door. 266 00:10:19,694 --> 00:10:21,627 -They're not weirdos. -Mm-hmm. 267 00:10:21,644 --> 00:10:24,101 How do you know? You better not meet 'em. 268 00:10:24,796 --> 00:10:28,000 I don't know if I trust Gabriella on dates alone. 269 00:10:28,491 --> 00:10:29,593 I'm not sure, 270 00:10:29,610 --> 00:10:31,389 and I don't trust those boys. 271 00:10:31,881 --> 00:10:34,457 Absolutely not. Not with my princess. 272 00:10:35,644 --> 00:10:38,491 Look, you have your mother and that's it. 273 00:10:38,508 --> 00:10:40,694 You focus on me, focus on the pageant 274 00:10:40,711 --> 00:10:42,372 and we're all good. 275 00:10:47,610 --> 00:10:49,305 I don't really date, 'cause... 276 00:10:50,457 --> 00:10:53,491 I just have to be hanging out with my mom. 277 00:10:53,508 --> 00:10:55,559 Anytime I wanna do something without her 278 00:10:55,576 --> 00:10:57,000 she's not happy. 279 00:10:58,610 --> 00:11:00,779 You better not be going over the speed limit. 280 00:11:00,796 --> 00:11:04,389 One time I went to visit my best friend, Maddie, who lives in Florida 281 00:11:04,406 --> 00:11:07,677 and my mom got so mad 282 00:11:07,694 --> 00:11:10,203 she booked a trip to follow me there. 283 00:11:12,593 --> 00:11:14,355 I was gone for maybe three days. 284 00:11:15,847 --> 00:11:19,423 Bottom line, I love my mom with all my heart. 285 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:20,576 I love matching with her. 286 00:11:20,593 --> 00:11:22,457 I love all the adventures we go on, 287 00:11:22,474 --> 00:11:23,813 'cause we do crazy things together. 288 00:11:23,830 --> 00:11:26,610 But at the same time I do wanna go out on dates with boys. 289 00:11:26,627 --> 00:11:28,593 I wanna go hang out with my friends. 290 00:11:28,610 --> 00:11:30,457 And if I wanna do those things 291 00:11:30,474 --> 00:11:32,457 then I have to sneak out of the house. 292 00:11:32,474 --> 00:11:33,711 And that's very hard to do 293 00:11:33,728 --> 00:11:36,271 when she tracks me and watches every move I make. 294 00:11:37,576 --> 00:11:39,694 [Catherine mimicking Rockytheme music] 295 00:11:39,711 --> 00:11:41,372 [Gabriella laughs] 296 00:11:42,338 --> 00:11:43,508 [boys] Whoo! 297 00:11:43,525 --> 00:11:44,762 [Gabriella] Go. Go. 298 00:11:44,779 --> 00:11:49,169 My mom's only concern is me winning Miss Connecticut USA. 299 00:11:49,186 --> 00:11:50,779 Win Miss USA, 300 00:11:50,796 --> 00:11:53,423 maybe Miss Universe and finish what she started. 301 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:54,966 [Gabriella laughs] 302 00:11:54,983 --> 00:11:58,661 And so that's a lot of pressure because I can't let her down. 303 00:11:58,677 --> 00:12:01,338 [ Rocky-esque theme playing] 304 00:12:11,355 --> 00:12:14,474 I'm Sky. I'm 45 and fabulous. 305 00:12:14,491 --> 00:12:17,322 And, this is my beautiful, 306 00:12:17,338 --> 00:12:19,000 hot, badass daughter. 307 00:12:19,016 --> 00:12:21,898 [Skylar] I've always wanted to be just like my mom. 308 00:12:21,915 --> 00:12:25,508 [Sky] From the day Skylar was born I held her in my hands 309 00:12:25,525 --> 00:12:28,338 and I said, "This is me all over again." 310 00:12:33,745 --> 00:12:36,423 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ 311 00:12:36,440 --> 00:12:37,830 ♪ Hey We're all together now ♪ 312 00:12:37,847 --> 00:12:40,118 ♪ Let's get together now ♪ 313 00:12:40,830 --> 00:12:44,338 [Mary] Oh. It looks done, honey. Come look at it. 314 00:12:45,627 --> 00:12:47,050 All right. 315 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:49,406 Look at that. How's it look? 316 00:12:49,423 --> 00:12:52,118 -So yummy. -In my tummy. 317 00:12:53,610 --> 00:12:57,000 [singer continues vocalizing] 318 00:12:59,762 --> 00:13:02,152 ♪ Let's get together now ♪ 319 00:13:02,898 --> 00:13:06,559 [Mary] I hope your boyfriend likes this, Brit. 320 00:13:06,576 --> 00:13:08,355 Where is he, anyway? 321 00:13:08,372 --> 00:13:10,305 [Brittani] He should be here. 322 00:13:10,322 --> 00:13:11,677 [Mary] I mean, dinner's ready. 323 00:13:11,694 --> 00:13:13,389 [Brittani] TJ and I have been together 324 00:13:13,406 --> 00:13:15,152 for two and half years. 325 00:13:15,389 --> 00:13:16,457 No, you haven't. 326 00:13:19,762 --> 00:13:22,864 I did not bring TJ around for a long time 327 00:13:22,881 --> 00:13:25,779 only because I was afraid of her reaction. 328 00:13:25,796 --> 00:13:29,711 Anytime I bring any person new in my life 329 00:13:29,728 --> 00:13:30,932 she disapproves them. 330 00:13:30,949 --> 00:13:33,610 If I make a girlfriend, like, a girl best friend-- 331 00:13:33,627 --> 00:13:35,508 -I don't mind. -No. No. 332 00:13:35,525 --> 00:13:38,271 -Don't say that now. No. -It's your boyfriend I mind. 333 00:13:39,525 --> 00:13:40,423 Please. 334 00:13:42,711 --> 00:13:45,491 -[dog barking] -[Mary] Here he is. 335 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:47,830 Hi. 336 00:13:47,847 --> 00:13:49,322 -[Brittani] Hi, baby. -[TJ] Hey. 337 00:13:50,508 --> 00:13:52,288 -How are you? -Good. It's good. 338 00:13:53,322 --> 00:13:54,711 -[Brittani] Mm. -[kisses] 339 00:13:54,728 --> 00:13:58,644 They have not been together for two and a half years. Okay? 340 00:13:58,661 --> 00:14:00,559 Oh, smells good. Smells delicious. 341 00:14:00,576 --> 00:14:02,898 -Doesn't it? All right. -[TJ] Yeah. 342 00:14:02,915 --> 00:14:06,508 [Mary] Brittani, I don't know, she added a year 343 00:14:06,525 --> 00:14:07,796 to their dating. 344 00:14:07,813 --> 00:14:09,610 I don't know where that came from, 345 00:14:09,627 --> 00:14:12,830 because I never knew nothing about him. 346 00:14:12,847 --> 00:14:15,372 I just think that Brittani's trying 347 00:14:15,389 --> 00:14:17,203 to rush this relationship. 348 00:14:17,220 --> 00:14:18,813 Maybe it's TJ. 349 00:14:18,830 --> 00:14:20,728 And because she's got the blinders on 350 00:14:20,745 --> 00:14:23,355 and she's so in love with him 351 00:14:23,372 --> 00:14:25,237 that she's, she's okay with it. 352 00:14:28,559 --> 00:14:30,423 [Mary] All right, so... 353 00:14:31,694 --> 00:14:33,576 How is the, how is the meatloaf? 354 00:14:33,593 --> 00:14:35,067 It's delicious. 355 00:14:35,610 --> 00:14:37,423 That looks like a sarcastic smile. 356 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:38,389 I'm serious. 357 00:14:38,762 --> 00:14:40,389 This is one of my best. 358 00:14:41,372 --> 00:14:43,016 Here, taste. 359 00:14:44,474 --> 00:14:45,440 This is good. 360 00:14:45,457 --> 00:14:47,169 -Isn't that good? -Mm-hmm. 361 00:14:47,186 --> 00:14:48,474 Wow. 362 00:14:48,491 --> 00:14:50,355 [Brittani] This is so good. 363 00:14:50,372 --> 00:14:51,559 [TJ] Mary can be over-bearing. 364 00:14:51,576 --> 00:14:53,423 But she gotta understand that... 365 00:14:54,796 --> 00:14:59,559 Like, she's literally treating her like she's still her little girl. 366 00:14:59,576 --> 00:15:01,474 And it's my goal to prove to her 367 00:15:01,491 --> 00:15:04,508 that her daughter is, is her own person. 368 00:15:04,525 --> 00:15:05,559 -Yeah, it's really nice. -Oh. 369 00:15:05,576 --> 00:15:07,220 -What? -Hang on. 370 00:15:11,711 --> 00:15:14,322 -What are you doing? -Mmm. 371 00:15:14,338 --> 00:15:16,203 [smacks lips] It was ketchup. 372 00:15:17,559 --> 00:15:18,677 Y'all doin' too much. 373 00:15:18,694 --> 00:15:20,355 -Seriously. -[Brittani] What do you mean? 374 00:15:21,355 --> 00:15:22,779 -[TJ] Are you a baby? -No. 375 00:15:22,796 --> 00:15:25,542 She's not a baby. She's my baby. 376 00:15:25,559 --> 00:15:27,457 -She's a grown woman. -[Brittani] I'm not a baby. 377 00:15:28,491 --> 00:15:30,101 She's my baby. 378 00:15:30,677 --> 00:15:32,762 We've gone through a lot together. 379 00:15:32,779 --> 00:15:34,830 She doesn't shower with me anymore. 380 00:15:34,847 --> 00:15:36,898 -That's one step. -[TJ] Thank God. [scoffs] 381 00:15:36,915 --> 00:15:38,542 [Mary] There's nothing wrong with that. 382 00:15:38,559 --> 00:15:41,322 I was showering her since she was five years old. 383 00:15:42,542 --> 00:15:43,898 [Mary] I'm gonna do your back. 384 00:15:43,915 --> 00:15:46,474 [Brittani] Me and my mom used to shower together. 385 00:15:46,491 --> 00:15:49,661 But now we do not shower together anymore. 386 00:15:49,677 --> 00:15:51,813 Well, we don't shower together but, 387 00:15:51,830 --> 00:15:53,711 she'll be in the shower and I'll be in the bathtub. 388 00:15:53,728 --> 00:15:55,728 That's not showering together. 389 00:15:55,745 --> 00:15:58,627 No, but we'll be in the same bathroom together. 390 00:15:58,644 --> 00:16:00,576 -That's different. -You know... 391 00:16:00,593 --> 00:16:02,610 [stammers] Anytime you need help in the shower 392 00:16:02,627 --> 00:16:04,389 all's you have to do is call, "Mom." 393 00:16:04,406 --> 00:16:06,237 I'll be there. I'll wash your hair. 394 00:16:06,525 --> 00:16:07,762 I'll wash your back. 395 00:16:07,779 --> 00:16:10,305 I'll wash your stinky heiney. 396 00:16:10,322 --> 00:16:11,491 If I wanna jump in the shower 397 00:16:11,508 --> 00:16:12,779 with my daughter and wash her body 398 00:16:12,796 --> 00:16:15,169 I'm gonna jump in the shower and wash her body. 399 00:16:15,491 --> 00:16:17,118 If you say so. 400 00:16:17,796 --> 00:16:19,423 -So anyway-- -I just think it's cringy. 401 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:20,627 [Mary] You better get used to it, 402 00:16:20,644 --> 00:16:24,372 because I'm gonna be around for a very long time, 403 00:16:24,389 --> 00:16:26,423 probably longer than you. 404 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:27,389 [cutlery clatters] 405 00:16:28,576 --> 00:16:30,423 I do like TJ, 406 00:16:30,779 --> 00:16:33,355 but I just don't think he's... 407 00:16:33,372 --> 00:16:35,186 the right one for my daughter. 408 00:16:36,593 --> 00:16:38,677 I picture Brittani 409 00:16:38,694 --> 00:16:43,440 with a handsome guy 410 00:16:43,457 --> 00:16:46,016 that has a rock hard body. 411 00:16:46,322 --> 00:16:47,457 [inhales] And, 412 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:50,593 can speak a foreign language 413 00:16:50,610 --> 00:16:52,779 and maybe he's, he's going to school 414 00:16:52,796 --> 00:16:55,355 to be a doctor or a lawyer. 415 00:16:55,372 --> 00:16:57,254 That's what I want for my daughter. 416 00:16:59,457 --> 00:17:00,728 How you feeling? 417 00:17:00,745 --> 00:17:03,355 -I'm okay. I'm just tired. -Okay. 418 00:17:03,610 --> 00:17:05,117 Had a long day. 419 00:17:05,864 --> 00:17:08,457 -Are you done eating? -Yeah, I'm done eating. 420 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:10,288 [Mary] Okay. 421 00:17:10,627 --> 00:17:12,796 You wanna go to the couch? 422 00:17:12,813 --> 00:17:16,237 I was gonna say, "Get ready or something." But sure. 423 00:17:16,728 --> 00:17:18,406 We'll get ready in a little while. 424 00:17:18,932 --> 00:17:21,593 This is a typical night with my boyfriend. 425 00:17:21,609 --> 00:17:22,881 We usually eat with my mom 426 00:17:22,897 --> 00:17:25,593 and hangout with her at the same time. 427 00:17:25,609 --> 00:17:29,016 TJ and I live 85 miles away from each other. 428 00:17:29,033 --> 00:17:32,169 When he comes over here he usually spends the night. 429 00:17:34,983 --> 00:17:39,355 I don't think I will marry TJ, I know I'm going to marry TJ. 430 00:17:40,559 --> 00:17:43,203 [sighs] The first part sounded good. 431 00:17:43,728 --> 00:17:46,474 -Why are you so cold? -I don't know. 432 00:17:48,559 --> 00:17:51,254 [Mary] My goodness, you're like a little... 433 00:17:51,508 --> 00:17:54,135 -ice cube. -I know. 434 00:17:54,576 --> 00:17:57,525 Right, Prince? He's keeping me warm. 435 00:17:57,542 --> 00:18:00,661 -He's a fluff ball. Mm-hmm. -[Mary] He's a good baby. 436 00:18:00,677 --> 00:18:04,084 Why do you seem distant? Something's wrong? 437 00:18:07,644 --> 00:18:10,559 I just want it to be just me and you time 438 00:18:10,576 --> 00:18:13,915 not me, you and your mom all the time. 439 00:18:13,932 --> 00:18:17,491 [TJ] Every time I see them it's like, close. 440 00:18:17,508 --> 00:18:19,779 Like, hold their hands everywhere they go. 441 00:18:19,796 --> 00:18:21,779 Hold their hands, even driving. 442 00:18:21,796 --> 00:18:23,711 I'm like, "Hey, you cannot hold her hand. 443 00:18:23,728 --> 00:18:24,983 You gotta have both hands on the wheel." 444 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:28,118 "I love my mom, though, I gotta hold her hand." 445 00:18:28,389 --> 00:18:30,423 I'm like, "Oh, why?" 446 00:18:30,677 --> 00:18:32,322 I'm just saying. 447 00:18:32,338 --> 00:18:34,084 No really. That's really rude. 448 00:18:34,847 --> 00:18:38,677 I didn't realize I was that much of a problem. 449 00:18:38,694 --> 00:18:39,796 -Okay. -You're not a problem. 450 00:18:39,813 --> 00:18:43,033 [Mary] That was uncalled for. Can you apologize for that? 451 00:18:45,576 --> 00:18:46,440 [TJ] I'm sorry. 452 00:18:48,491 --> 00:18:50,016 [Mary] She tells me she's happy. 453 00:18:50,033 --> 00:18:54,389 But, do I want her to settle down with this man? No. 454 00:18:54,406 --> 00:18:56,305 If she wants to go out with him 455 00:18:57,406 --> 00:18:58,542 for another year 456 00:18:58,559 --> 00:19:01,491 if it takes that long for her to open up her eyes 457 00:19:01,508 --> 00:19:03,677 and remove the blinders, that's fine. 458 00:19:03,694 --> 00:19:05,932 I'm gonna go clean up. You go do your thing, okay? 459 00:19:05,949 --> 00:19:08,322 -All right. Come on, let's go. -All right. 460 00:19:09,474 --> 00:19:10,677 [TJ under breath] Finally. 461 00:19:10,694 --> 00:19:12,576 [Mary] But there's not gonna be any wedding. 462 00:19:12,593 --> 00:19:15,254 Because I will definitely stop that. 463 00:19:15,627 --> 00:19:17,389 There's no way in hell. 464 00:19:23,338 --> 00:19:25,355 ♪ I got that yum-yum ♪ 465 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:28,372 ♪ I make it clap, clap ♪ 466 00:19:28,389 --> 00:19:29,440 ♪ Mm ♪ 467 00:19:29,457 --> 00:19:30,644 ♪ 'Cause it slap, slap, slap ♪ 468 00:19:30,661 --> 00:19:32,593 ♪ Yeah Gonna hit you back ♪ 469 00:19:32,610 --> 00:19:35,440 ♪ Work my skills Come on, get your nasty on ♪ 470 00:19:35,457 --> 00:19:36,796 [Skylar] Yes! 471 00:19:36,813 --> 00:19:39,440 [music continues and trails off] 472 00:19:39,457 --> 00:19:43,559 -Hey! Thank you, girl. -That is so cute. 473 00:19:43,576 --> 00:19:46,610 [Sky] Look, I'm trying to get it all together. 474 00:19:46,627 --> 00:19:49,355 Wait, let me see. That's cute. 475 00:19:49,372 --> 00:19:51,423 Look at yours. 476 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:52,864 ♪ 'Cause it slap, slap, slap ♪ 477 00:19:52,881 --> 00:19:54,559 ♪ Gonna hit you back Sheesh ♪ 478 00:19:54,576 --> 00:19:57,338 ♪ Work my skills Get it, get your nasty on ♪ 479 00:19:57,355 --> 00:19:59,033 ♪ You know it slaps ♪ 480 00:19:59,881 --> 00:20:02,440 You look so good and we're matching each other too. 481 00:20:04,288 --> 00:20:06,186 Okay. That's fine. 482 00:20:06,610 --> 00:20:09,322 -Oh, no, no. Let me see. -[laughs] 483 00:20:09,661 --> 00:20:12,762 I'm Sky. I'm 45 and fabulous. 484 00:20:12,779 --> 00:20:15,576 And, this is my beautiful, 485 00:20:15,593 --> 00:20:18,288 hot, badass daughter, 486 00:20:18,576 --> 00:20:20,135 Skylar Marie. 487 00:20:20,576 --> 00:20:22,237 My everything. 488 00:20:24,644 --> 00:20:27,305 -[Sky] Mm-mmm. -What? 489 00:20:28,881 --> 00:20:32,169 Do you want me to get your chin hairs first? 490 00:20:32,576 --> 00:20:34,610 Only feel like, one or two. 491 00:20:34,627 --> 00:20:36,508 Not that bad, right? 492 00:20:36,525 --> 00:20:38,694 Um, I can try to shave it. 493 00:20:38,711 --> 00:20:40,389 Just pluck it, Sky. 494 00:20:41,338 --> 00:20:42,694 From the day Sky was born 495 00:20:42,711 --> 00:20:45,593 I knew she was gonna be the center of my world. 496 00:20:45,610 --> 00:20:48,593 I held her in my hands and I said, 497 00:20:48,610 --> 00:20:52,457 "This is a replica of me. This is me all over again." 498 00:20:55,406 --> 00:20:58,372 [Sky] Your name shall be Skylar. 499 00:20:59,559 --> 00:21:01,542 I named her after me. 500 00:21:01,559 --> 00:21:05,288 I wanted her to be exactly who I was, 501 00:21:05,898 --> 00:21:09,762 and she turned out to be exactly who I am. 502 00:21:09,779 --> 00:21:13,271 I wanted you to be me all over again. 503 00:21:13,288 --> 00:21:14,135 [Skylar] Oh. 504 00:21:15,966 --> 00:21:20,084 We're like, the same person. It scares me sometimes. 505 00:21:20,576 --> 00:21:23,423 We walk alike. We talk alike. 506 00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:25,389 Out with my twin. 507 00:21:25,406 --> 00:21:26,932 [Sky] We sleep in a bed together. 508 00:21:26,949 --> 00:21:29,711 Skylar hates to get up in the morning time. 509 00:21:29,728 --> 00:21:32,745 I have to be the one to wake her up. 510 00:21:32,762 --> 00:21:34,661 We take showers together. 511 00:21:34,677 --> 00:21:37,745 We come on our period at the same time. 512 00:21:37,762 --> 00:21:39,525 Sometimes, I, you know, 513 00:21:39,542 --> 00:21:40,779 I can't find my underwears, 514 00:21:40,796 --> 00:21:42,610 I go and get Skylar's underwear. 515 00:21:42,627 --> 00:21:44,203 You know what I mean? 516 00:21:44,542 --> 00:21:45,644 Skylar's. 517 00:21:45,661 --> 00:21:49,288 When I smell her underwears it smells just like candy. 518 00:21:49,796 --> 00:21:52,406 -Yeah. I eat a lot of-- -I automatically know 519 00:21:52,423 --> 00:21:54,237 this is Skylar underwears. 520 00:21:57,559 --> 00:22:00,491 She still like a baby. She follow me everywhere I go. 521 00:22:00,508 --> 00:22:03,661 She never ever leaves my side. 522 00:22:03,677 --> 00:22:06,627 This, to me, this is just like old times. 523 00:22:06,644 --> 00:22:09,644 Me dancing for you in your music video. 524 00:22:09,661 --> 00:22:12,254 -I'm excited. -Really? 525 00:22:12,271 --> 00:22:14,796 And, beyond grateful. 526 00:22:14,813 --> 00:22:16,644 [Skylar] For as long as I can remember 527 00:22:16,661 --> 00:22:19,491 I've always wanted to be just like my mom. 528 00:22:19,508 --> 00:22:21,203 Like, she's the most, 529 00:22:21,525 --> 00:22:23,576 greatest performer. 530 00:22:23,593 --> 00:22:26,457 -That I am. -Other than Michael Jackson and Beyonce. 531 00:22:26,474 --> 00:22:28,423 I'm right along up in there somewhere. 532 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:30,152 Yeah, she's, she's next. 533 00:22:31,915 --> 00:22:33,881 [Sky] I've been a dancer, singer, 534 00:22:33,898 --> 00:22:37,186 and choreographer for over 20 years. 535 00:22:38,508 --> 00:22:41,101 I've always wanted to be like Beyonce. 536 00:22:41,118 --> 00:22:47,389 I've always wanted to be this powerful great singer, artist, entertainer. 537 00:22:47,406 --> 00:22:49,644 But I had my first two babies, 538 00:22:49,661 --> 00:22:53,305 Skylar's older sisters, as a teenager. 539 00:22:53,322 --> 00:22:54,152 So, whoop! 540 00:22:55,457 --> 00:22:57,152 There goes my career. 541 00:22:57,169 --> 00:22:58,593 My kids... 542 00:22:58,610 --> 00:22:59,661 [clicks tongue] 543 00:22:59,677 --> 00:23:01,457 Put a pause to that. 544 00:23:03,525 --> 00:23:06,559 But when Skylar showed me as a young kid 545 00:23:06,576 --> 00:23:08,915 that she had the same talent as me, 546 00:23:08,932 --> 00:23:13,237 [scoffs] I said forget it, I'm pawing everything into this girl. 547 00:23:13,254 --> 00:23:15,423 This is my next Beyonce. 548 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:16,915 ♪ All my girls Goin' overboard ♪ 549 00:23:16,932 --> 00:23:19,644 ♪ Hit the floor Show 'em What we out here for ♪ 550 00:23:19,661 --> 00:23:20,864 ♪ Show 'em ♪ 551 00:23:20,881 --> 00:23:25,661 [Skylar] I love dancing, twerking, making music. That's all I do. 552 00:23:25,677 --> 00:23:28,372 I have the best momager ever. 553 00:23:30,118 --> 00:23:31,067 [laughs] 554 00:23:33,796 --> 00:23:35,677 [Sky] Come on, 'cause you're running late. 555 00:23:35,694 --> 00:23:38,186 I just dropped my earing. [grunts] 556 00:23:38,203 --> 00:23:39,627 Okay, come on. 557 00:23:39,644 --> 00:23:43,271 ♪ 'Cause it slap, slap, slap Gonna hit you back ♪ 558 00:23:43,288 --> 00:23:44,525 ♪ Work my... ♪ 559 00:23:44,542 --> 00:23:47,796 Five, six, seven, and pose one. 560 00:23:47,813 --> 00:23:51,406 [Sky] Today is such a big day for us. 561 00:23:51,423 --> 00:23:52,881 Because we're actually putting together 562 00:23:52,898 --> 00:23:58,101 a music video to Skylar's hot new single! 563 00:23:58,118 --> 00:23:58,779 Yay! 564 00:23:58,796 --> 00:24:00,644 ♪ Watch me slap it I'm your job ♪ 565 00:24:00,661 --> 00:24:01,830 ♪ Hot as this Like a rock ♪ 566 00:24:01,847 --> 00:24:03,610 ♪ Ain't no jaded I won't talk ♪ 567 00:24:03,627 --> 00:24:05,677 -♪ Wet and nasty... ♪ -[man] Yeah. Okay. 568 00:24:05,694 --> 00:24:09,118 -Ah, hey, ooh, ooh, hey. -[hip-hop song continues playing] 569 00:24:09,135 --> 00:24:11,932 ♪ It's gon' take you For a ride 'Cause it slaps ♪ 570 00:24:11,949 --> 00:24:14,474 -Okay, can we just do this instead? -No, we can't do that. 571 00:24:14,491 --> 00:24:15,491 I don't like that. 572 00:24:15,508 --> 00:24:16,949 -Okay. -Why did you make it difficult? 573 00:24:16,966 --> 00:24:20,474 [Sky] You got to learn real choreography, okay? 574 00:24:20,491 --> 00:24:24,593 I have poured so much into Skylar's career. 575 00:24:24,610 --> 00:24:26,694 I mean, from the vocal classes, 576 00:24:26,711 --> 00:24:30,288 to the dance classes, artist development. 577 00:24:30,305 --> 00:24:31,864 Hair, make up, wardrobe. 578 00:24:31,881 --> 00:24:35,525 Everything you could think of, I've done it. 579 00:24:35,542 --> 00:24:37,644 'Cause I wanted her to follow in my footsteps. 580 00:24:37,661 --> 00:24:39,474 And Sky, you gotta strike the pose. 581 00:24:39,491 --> 00:24:40,915 Like, you really have to strike it. 582 00:24:40,932 --> 00:24:43,593 And then when you're doing the left and right, 583 00:24:43,610 --> 00:24:46,355 make sure you groove with it, real sexy. 584 00:24:46,372 --> 00:24:48,779 Like a body roll, body roll. 585 00:24:48,796 --> 00:24:50,627 [whispers] Body roll. [grunting] 586 00:24:50,644 --> 00:24:51,915 Oh my goodness. 587 00:24:51,932 --> 00:24:55,796 I didn't make it to the level of success that I wanted to in entertainment. 588 00:24:55,813 --> 00:24:58,847 But if she made it, that means I made it too. 589 00:24:58,864 --> 00:25:02,661 I'm outworking you and it should be the other way around. 590 00:25:02,677 --> 00:25:04,559 [laughs] I just need to learn. 591 00:25:04,576 --> 00:25:05,813 You just need to come on! 592 00:25:05,830 --> 00:25:09,796 You were asleep last night. I told you to get your ass up. 593 00:25:09,813 --> 00:25:14,559 Remember, you grind until you shine... every time. 594 00:25:14,576 --> 00:25:18,644 My mom definitely has sacrificed a lot for my career. 595 00:25:18,661 --> 00:25:22,355 So it definitely does pressure me a lot. 596 00:25:22,372 --> 00:25:23,610 This is your show! 597 00:25:23,627 --> 00:25:25,491 This is your video! 598 00:25:26,305 --> 00:25:26,864 -All right? -Okay. 599 00:25:26,881 --> 00:25:28,983 And it's hot out here, so hurry up. 600 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:32,372 [Skylar] She didn't really fulfill her dreams 601 00:25:32,389 --> 00:25:33,694 quite how she wanted to. 602 00:25:33,711 --> 00:25:37,661 So all the things that she didn't do, I'm doing it. 603 00:25:37,677 --> 00:25:39,881 And she's helping me get there. 604 00:25:39,898 --> 00:25:44,593 But I do feel like she's living through me 605 00:25:44,610 --> 00:25:45,864 in certain ways. 606 00:25:45,881 --> 00:25:49,050 And I don't quite like that feeling. 607 00:25:49,694 --> 00:25:51,711 [Michael] What were you thinking of doing? 608 00:25:51,728 --> 00:25:55,406 [Kathy] This isn't going to be for my actual funeral. 609 00:25:55,423 --> 00:25:57,084 It's for my 65th birthday. 610 00:25:57,101 --> 00:26:00,644 You know, like, have a little bit of a birthday celebration 611 00:26:00,661 --> 00:26:02,491 run through funeral. 612 00:26:03,372 --> 00:26:05,033 Could I do something like that? 613 00:26:11,576 --> 00:26:14,372 [instrumental rock music playing] 614 00:26:17,288 --> 00:26:18,474 [honks] 615 00:26:20,491 --> 00:26:22,152 What is she wearing? 616 00:26:27,271 --> 00:26:28,000 [Kathy] Good morning! 617 00:26:28,016 --> 00:26:30,932 Okay. From now on I'm calling you before we go places. 618 00:26:30,949 --> 00:26:34,457 -[Kathy] Why? -Like, things that you would know what to wear. 619 00:26:34,474 --> 00:26:36,423 What to wear to a funeral home? 620 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:37,542 Shouldn't you wear black? 621 00:26:37,559 --> 00:26:38,677 I'm not dead! 622 00:26:38,694 --> 00:26:41,661 Well, you look like we're going to like, the casino! 623 00:26:41,677 --> 00:26:44,000 ♪ All right It's Friday night♪ 624 00:26:44,016 --> 00:26:49,033 ♪ Downtown On the town Hold on tight ♪ 625 00:26:50,084 --> 00:26:52,593 -[Kathy] I want you to ask. -[Cristina] No, I'm not asking. 626 00:26:52,610 --> 00:26:53,644 [Kathy] You're gonna ask. 627 00:26:53,661 --> 00:26:54,898 I am not asking. 628 00:26:54,915 --> 00:26:57,932 I am gonna be so embarrassed to ask that question. 629 00:26:57,949 --> 00:27:02,406 Today my mom and I are headed to a funeral home 630 00:27:02,423 --> 00:27:04,593 to plan a party. 631 00:27:04,610 --> 00:27:09,457 Because my mom wants her 65th birthday party 632 00:27:09,474 --> 00:27:12,440 to be a funeral birthday party. 633 00:27:12,457 --> 00:27:14,711 [Kathy] Turning 65 reminds me of death. 634 00:27:14,728 --> 00:27:17,288 So I'm thinking I wanna have a party for it. 635 00:27:17,305 --> 00:27:18,525 Because my life is a party. 636 00:27:18,542 --> 00:27:20,881 So now we just look like two wackos that's planning 637 00:27:20,898 --> 00:27:23,033 -a birthday party at a funeral home. -[laughs] 638 00:27:23,050 --> 00:27:26,542 [Cristina] I guarantee this guy is gonna tell you absolutely not. 639 00:27:26,559 --> 00:27:29,101 It doesn't have to be a big bash. 640 00:27:29,559 --> 00:27:31,508 Just some close family and friends. 641 00:27:31,525 --> 00:27:33,457 [sighs in exasperation] 642 00:27:33,474 --> 00:27:34,796 [Kathy] This is how I'm gonna do it. 643 00:27:34,813 --> 00:27:36,915 I'm going to go to the funeral home 644 00:27:36,932 --> 00:27:39,813 and pretend like I'm planning my future funeral. 645 00:27:39,830 --> 00:27:43,406 And then I'm gonna kind of spring it on them that I would like to 646 00:27:43,423 --> 00:27:45,305 actually throw a birthday party there. 647 00:27:45,322 --> 00:27:46,389 Stupid idea. 648 00:27:46,406 --> 00:27:47,728 Why? Why is that stupid? 649 00:27:47,745 --> 00:27:50,406 I feel like you're putting the jinx on yourself. 650 00:27:52,576 --> 00:27:54,271 -It's so nice in here. -[Michael] Hi. 651 00:27:54,288 --> 00:27:55,474 -[both] Hi! -Kathy! 652 00:27:55,491 --> 00:27:56,915 -[Cristina] Hi, how are you? -Cristina! 653 00:27:56,932 --> 00:27:58,711 -[Cristina] How're you doing? -Okay. Honey. [kisses] 654 00:27:58,728 --> 00:28:00,762 -Nice to see you. -Nice to see you. 655 00:28:00,779 --> 00:28:04,406 -I haven't seen you guys-- -i Know. Since my mother in-law died. 656 00:28:04,423 --> 00:28:04,881 -[Michael] Yeah. -[Kathy laughs] 657 00:28:04,898 --> 00:28:07,644 I've known the family for over 30 years. 658 00:28:07,661 --> 00:28:11,508 We were invited to their weddings and parties. 659 00:28:11,525 --> 00:28:13,677 And now I guess when it's time to go, 660 00:28:13,694 --> 00:28:16,355 we're gonna do it together. [laughs] 661 00:28:17,644 --> 00:28:19,491 So, is everything okay? 662 00:28:19,508 --> 00:28:21,440 I just wanted to get some things. 663 00:28:21,457 --> 00:28:22,169 I wanna plan ahead. 664 00:28:22,186 --> 00:28:24,711 -[Michael] Plan ahead? -I don't want it to be you know, last minute. 665 00:28:24,728 --> 00:28:26,610 -And I want things to be the way I want 'em to be. -[Michael] Yeah. 666 00:28:26,627 --> 00:28:29,627 I have a few little quirky things I want to ask you about. 667 00:28:29,644 --> 00:28:30,711 [Michael] Yeah. Yeah, come on. 668 00:28:30,728 --> 00:28:34,169 It's so many mixed emotions just walking in the door. 669 00:28:34,186 --> 00:28:40,423 At first I was totally okay with this birthday party at a funeral home. 670 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,694 But now after my mom telling me 671 00:28:42,711 --> 00:28:45,508 that her mom died at 68-- 672 00:28:45,525 --> 00:28:47,779 And now my mom is getting close to 68 673 00:28:47,796 --> 00:28:51,711 and she's fallen asleep at my daughter's birthday party. 674 00:28:51,728 --> 00:28:53,915 It actually makes me really worried 675 00:28:53,932 --> 00:28:58,338 that there is something health-wise wrong with my mom 676 00:28:58,355 --> 00:29:00,745 and she's not telling me. 677 00:29:00,762 --> 00:29:02,830 [Michael] What were you thinking of doing? 678 00:29:02,847 --> 00:29:06,694 Were you thinking of having a one night visitation? You know-- 679 00:29:06,711 --> 00:29:09,728 Well, it's my last dance, right? 680 00:29:09,745 --> 00:29:12,830 So I want my casket to make people say "Wow!" 681 00:29:12,847 --> 00:29:16,762 I want it to have like, something sparkly. 682 00:29:16,779 --> 00:29:19,677 Do you ever see how they shrink-wrap those cars and stuff? 683 00:29:19,694 --> 00:29:22,118 I want it to have it like red glitter. 684 00:29:23,491 --> 00:29:25,000 Red glitter? 685 00:29:25,677 --> 00:29:27,915 So I was thinking the top closed... 686 00:29:27,932 --> 00:29:33,322 -[laughs] -...and my legs out with like a cute pair of heels. 687 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:36,779 Uh... 688 00:29:36,796 --> 00:29:42,423 My opinion would be to say yes, you could do that. 689 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:43,864 But not you in the casket. 690 00:29:43,881 --> 00:29:47,576 Okay, not me in the casket? May be I could get some fake legs hanging out? 691 00:29:47,593 --> 00:29:50,152 [Michael] Fake legs, we'll get some dummy legs. 692 00:29:50,508 --> 00:29:52,949 Okay, we'll have to work on that. 693 00:29:52,966 --> 00:29:57,067 [Kathy] But this isn't going to be for my actual funeral. 694 00:29:58,711 --> 00:30:00,644 It's for my 65th birthday. 695 00:30:00,661 --> 00:30:05,118 [intense music playing] 696 00:30:05,881 --> 00:30:09,338 You know, like, have a little bit of a birthday celebration 697 00:30:09,355 --> 00:30:10,796 run-through funeral. 698 00:30:10,813 --> 00:30:13,711 So I can make sure that's what I want. 699 00:30:13,728 --> 00:30:15,745 -A dress rehearsal. -[Michael] A dress rehearsal? 700 00:30:15,762 --> 00:30:17,525 -Could I do something like that? -[Cristina laughs] 701 00:30:17,542 --> 00:30:20,254 [intense music playing] 702 00:30:20,271 --> 00:30:21,271 [music stops] 703 00:30:22,728 --> 00:30:26,796 [Micheal and Cristina laughing] 704 00:30:26,813 --> 00:30:29,372 -I've never heard this before. -[Kathy] Because I would like to kind of see 705 00:30:29,389 --> 00:30:31,016 what my funeral's gonna be like. 706 00:30:31,033 --> 00:30:35,237 Can we see the room where if we had the party where it would be? 707 00:30:35,254 --> 00:30:36,067 Mm-hmm. 708 00:30:36,084 --> 00:30:41,796 I honestly thought that the funeral director would have told my mom no. 709 00:30:41,813 --> 00:30:46,271 I was very shocked that he went along right with it. 710 00:30:48,474 --> 00:30:49,644 [Kathy] Wow, this is a big room. 711 00:30:49,661 --> 00:30:50,915 -[man] About a 150 chairs or so. -Yeah. 712 00:30:50,932 --> 00:30:52,627 I don't know if I have these many friends. 713 00:30:52,644 --> 00:30:54,627 -[Michael] Almost 200. -[Cristina] 150? 714 00:30:54,644 --> 00:30:56,949 [Cristina] I don't really know how people are going to react 715 00:30:56,966 --> 00:30:59,983 getting an invitation to the living funeral. 716 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:03,135 I get it, because her and I understand each other. 717 00:31:03,152 --> 00:31:07,610 I just feel like people are gonna be really thrown off with this one. 718 00:31:07,627 --> 00:31:09,932 I don't think they're gonna really fully understand it. 719 00:31:09,949 --> 00:31:11,915 I don't think people should know what's going on. 720 00:31:11,932 --> 00:31:15,118 I think people should just get invited to the address. 721 00:31:15,135 --> 00:31:18,271 You don't have to say it's a funeral home when they get there. 722 00:31:18,288 --> 00:31:18,932 Okay. 723 00:31:18,949 --> 00:31:22,423 Now someone looks up the address and I get a text message, 724 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,796 "Cristina, did I get the wrong address?" 725 00:31:24,813 --> 00:31:27,966 'Cause this says we're going to a funeral home for a party. 726 00:31:27,983 --> 00:31:30,322 What do I say? "Oh, just wait till you get there?" 727 00:31:30,338 --> 00:31:31,372 Yeah. 728 00:31:32,694 --> 00:31:35,440 No, we're definitely telling people what's going on. 729 00:31:36,237 --> 00:31:37,423 You're so morbid. 730 00:31:38,338 --> 00:31:38,864 [Kathy] Could I get in there? 731 00:31:38,881 --> 00:31:40,847 [Cristina] What do you have to get in there for? 732 00:31:40,864 --> 00:31:42,813 [Kathy] Just to see how it works. 733 00:31:42,830 --> 00:31:44,542 -[Kathy] Here we go. -[Michael] Okay. 734 00:31:44,559 --> 00:31:46,406 [Cristina laughs] 735 00:31:46,423 --> 00:31:48,067 Ooh, it's not very comfortable. 736 00:31:49,915 --> 00:31:51,813 -[Kathy] Can we do this? -[Cristina] That's how she'd want it. 737 00:31:51,830 --> 00:31:53,711 [Kathy] Yeah, just lean it on my leg. 738 00:31:53,728 --> 00:31:56,118 See that might be fine just like that. 739 00:31:58,847 --> 00:32:01,372 [Cristina] It's just like laying in a tanning bed, mom. 740 00:32:02,779 --> 00:32:05,474 [Kathy] This is like making me excited, I swear. 741 00:32:05,491 --> 00:32:07,457 This is so messed up. I can't. 742 00:32:07,474 --> 00:32:08,779 Like for the party, instead of, you know, 743 00:32:08,796 --> 00:32:12,186 how people jump out of a cake, I could jump out of the coffin. 744 00:32:12,322 --> 00:32:12,966 [laughs] 745 00:32:12,983 --> 00:32:14,813 [Cristina] One part of me is happy that my mom 746 00:32:14,830 --> 00:32:18,610 is getting everything that she wants for this funeral birthday party. 747 00:32:18,627 --> 00:32:22,186 But the truth is to actually like, witness my mom like, 748 00:32:22,203 --> 00:32:27,338 get inside of a coffin, like, I sat there for one second and was like... 749 00:32:28,372 --> 00:32:30,389 I mean, I was speechless. 750 00:32:30,406 --> 00:32:32,694 I can't believe I'm looking at this. 751 00:32:32,711 --> 00:32:36,135 [Kathy] It's better than looking at my dead face and wrinkled hands. 752 00:32:37,796 --> 00:32:42,271 You just get a feeling over you that's like... [exhales] 753 00:32:42,288 --> 00:32:43,457 There's nothing here. 754 00:32:44,474 --> 00:32:46,559 It's just an empty feeling. 755 00:32:46,576 --> 00:32:49,762 It's like, literally you lost a part of you, 756 00:32:49,779 --> 00:32:54,644 I need my mom more than I've needed her when I was a kid. 757 00:32:54,661 --> 00:33:00,152 She is everything that pulls me out of my crazy life. 758 00:33:00,644 --> 00:33:04,271 She's the good in everything. 759 00:33:05,745 --> 00:33:10,338 Okay, can we finish this conversation with you not lying in a casket? 760 00:33:10,355 --> 00:33:11,372 Oh, fine. 761 00:33:11,389 --> 00:33:13,338 [grunts, laughs] 762 00:33:13,355 --> 00:33:15,644 Thank you so much! 763 00:33:15,661 --> 00:33:19,593 I have always told my kids that if something was wrong with me, 764 00:33:19,610 --> 00:33:21,542 I wouldn't tell them. 765 00:33:21,559 --> 00:33:23,457 But Cristina is very intuitive 766 00:33:23,474 --> 00:33:24,813 and she knows me that well. 767 00:33:24,830 --> 00:33:27,949 She knows when there's something not right with me. 768 00:33:27,966 --> 00:33:31,932 I do have some health issues that I haven't told Cristina about yet. 769 00:33:31,949 --> 00:33:35,067 I'm holding off on telling her, until when, I don't know. 770 00:33:35,084 --> 00:33:39,491 When the moment will be right or if there will be a right time but... 771 00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,050 I know I need to tell her soon. 772 00:33:45,118 --> 00:33:48,915 You mom told me that she wanted to book this for you guys as a gift 773 00:33:48,932 --> 00:33:52,864 -on your engagement-- -Oh, my gosh. You gotta be kidding me. 774 00:33:52,881 --> 00:33:58,661 I think I'm being treated on a date but I'm being surprised with a wedding! 775 00:33:58,677 --> 00:34:00,661 I kind of feel like, I would be marrying my mom. 776 00:34:00,677 --> 00:34:02,491 Nobody's marrying my mom. 777 00:34:03,372 --> 00:34:05,237 I mean, are you sure about that? 778 00:34:09,779 --> 00:34:11,643 ♪ So if I keep you calling ♪ 779 00:34:11,661 --> 00:34:13,661 ♪ I'm on my way now♪ 780 00:34:13,677 --> 00:34:17,422 ♪ We'll keep the fire Burning all night ♪ 781 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:19,355 ♪ Yeah, you in my tribe ♪ 782 00:34:20,627 --> 00:34:24,406 ♪ Yeah Oh, you in my tribe ♪ 783 00:34:24,422 --> 00:34:26,371 ♪ Yeah, you in my tribe ♪ 784 00:34:26,779 --> 00:34:30,016 [Sunnie] Oh that is so cute! 785 00:34:30,033 --> 00:34:33,779 So it's so sweet that my mom planned this date for Scott and I. 786 00:34:33,795 --> 00:34:37,389 Usually it's the three of us when we're on a date. 787 00:34:37,406 --> 00:34:39,389 But now that it's just Scott and I, 788 00:34:39,406 --> 00:34:40,371 I miss my mom. 789 00:34:43,322 --> 00:34:44,355 -Hi! -Hi! 790 00:34:44,694 --> 00:34:46,745 -Hi. -Hi. I'm Kady. 791 00:34:46,762 --> 00:34:48,966 -Kady, I'm Scott. Nice to meet you. -It's so nice to meet you. 792 00:34:48,983 --> 00:34:50,983 -I've heardd so many amazing things. -Yeah? [laughs] 793 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:55,271 So I'm so honored to be doing this tasting for you guys. 794 00:34:55,288 --> 00:34:55,694 I'm so excited. 795 00:34:55,710 --> 00:34:57,949 -So, welcome! -Thank you. 796 00:34:57,966 --> 00:35:01,152 Before we get started, let me get the lady first. 797 00:35:02,457 --> 00:35:03,813 Thank you. 798 00:35:03,830 --> 00:35:07,389 I put the menu up for you guys so you can take a look while we're getting ready. 799 00:35:08,203 --> 00:35:08,677 Okay. 800 00:35:08,694 --> 00:35:10,322 [Kady speaking] 801 00:35:12,474 --> 00:35:14,389 So answer the best you can. 802 00:35:15,372 --> 00:35:16,644 Wedding magazine there. 803 00:35:16,661 --> 00:35:19,237 [intense music playing] 804 00:35:19,254 --> 00:35:19,762 [Sunnie laughs] 805 00:35:19,779 --> 00:35:21,864 Um, and then when we do our tasting, 806 00:35:21,881 --> 00:35:24,966 I'll kind of list everything, give you the backstory on some stuff. 807 00:35:24,983 --> 00:35:28,016 You're not gonna offend me if you don't like something out here. 808 00:35:29,525 --> 00:35:30,508 Venue? 809 00:35:30,525 --> 00:35:33,000 [intense music playing] 810 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:35,186 What are you talking about? 811 00:35:35,203 --> 00:35:38,847 [Kady] Your mom told me she wanted to book this for you guys as a gift 812 00:35:38,864 --> 00:35:42,135 -on your engagement-- -Oh, my gosh. You got to be kidding me. 813 00:35:43,542 --> 00:35:45,186 [Kady speaking] 814 00:35:46,372 --> 00:35:47,881 -Sunnie... -Mmm? 815 00:35:47,898 --> 00:35:51,220 I love the enthusiasm, but don't think this is okay. 816 00:35:53,033 --> 00:35:57,355 My mom is literally springing all this wedding stuff on Scott 817 00:35:57,372 --> 00:35:59,406 so she can get him to propose. 818 00:36:00,423 --> 00:36:01,644 This bridal magazine, 819 00:36:01,661 --> 00:36:02,864 all this wedding cake stuff. 820 00:36:02,881 --> 00:36:07,322 Asking, "where's the venue?" All this [bleep], I'm like-- 821 00:36:07,338 --> 00:36:09,559 I was not expecting this. 822 00:36:09,576 --> 00:36:12,457 [clears throat] Your mom paid for the date, 823 00:36:13,542 --> 00:36:18,627 planned it to get me here to choose wedding stuff 824 00:36:18,644 --> 00:36:21,016 for a wedding that I don't even know about. 825 00:36:21,593 --> 00:36:23,542 I mean, she's trying to just do something nice 826 00:36:23,559 --> 00:36:24,966 -for us. -That's lovely. But now this is-- 827 00:36:24,983 --> 00:36:27,389 If we're gonna have a wedding, it's gonna be our wedding, 828 00:36:27,406 --> 00:36:28,694 and it's gonna be on our terms. 829 00:36:28,711 --> 00:36:29,847 And it's when I'm ready to do it, 830 00:36:29,864 --> 00:36:31,372 and it's when you are ready to do it. 831 00:36:31,389 --> 00:36:33,067 Not when she's ready to do it. 832 00:36:33,593 --> 00:36:36,237 In other people's lives this is not a thing. 833 00:36:38,542 --> 00:36:40,610 So when I handed Scott the wedding menu, 834 00:36:40,627 --> 00:36:42,847 I could tell Scott was a little bit taken aback. 835 00:36:42,864 --> 00:36:46,288 Um, he kind of looked at Sunnie like, 836 00:36:46,305 --> 00:36:47,661 "What's going on here?". 837 00:36:47,677 --> 00:36:49,983 And so I kind of took a step back. 838 00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:53,288 Like, if he's genuinely not ready to be married, 839 00:36:53,305 --> 00:36:53,898 that's a huge decision. 840 00:36:53,915 --> 00:36:56,559 And that could really-- That could scare somebody off, 841 00:36:56,576 --> 00:36:58,000 like, one hundred percent. 842 00:36:58,016 --> 00:37:04,067 I think I'm being treated on a date but I'm being surprised with a wedding! 843 00:37:06,593 --> 00:37:08,423 No one said anything about a wedding. 844 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:09,203 Like, you haven't even asked me yet. 845 00:37:09,220 --> 00:37:12,118 -It's just a nice gesture-- -Okay, I'm sorry. Is this for my quinceanera? 846 00:37:12,135 --> 00:37:13,593 [laughs] 847 00:37:13,610 --> 00:37:16,118 I don't understand. Is this my graduation gift? 848 00:37:18,864 --> 00:37:24,440 I mean, I don't know why, like, wedding stuff scares you so much? 849 00:37:24,457 --> 00:37:26,728 It's not about that. It doesn't scare me. 850 00:37:26,745 --> 00:37:29,762 This just not my wedding, this is your mom's wedding. 851 00:37:29,779 --> 00:37:32,576 -This is not-- -Nobody's marrying my mom. 852 00:37:32,593 --> 00:37:34,542 I mean, are you sure about that? 853 00:37:34,559 --> 00:37:36,474 I kind of feel like I would be marrying your mom. 854 00:37:39,576 --> 00:37:40,932 You haven't asked either one of us, 855 00:37:40,949 --> 00:37:43,288 -so I don't think that's a problem. -[Scott scoffs] 856 00:37:43,627 --> 00:37:47,288 [intense music playing] 857 00:37:52,542 --> 00:37:55,033 This is the stuff that makes me question everything 858 00:37:55,050 --> 00:37:59,559 because I love Sunnie to death but I don't need a manager 859 00:37:59,576 --> 00:38:00,762 for our relationship. 860 00:38:00,779 --> 00:38:01,864 It's not that I'll never marry Sunnie, 861 00:38:01,881 --> 00:38:03,711 I'm just not ready for this right now. 862 00:38:03,728 --> 00:38:06,627 This is not fluid, this is not natural. 863 00:38:06,644 --> 00:38:10,474 Uh, it's a lot to take in right now. 864 00:38:10,491 --> 00:38:13,118 All at once. All at once. 865 00:38:13,406 --> 00:38:15,186 [intense music playing] 866 00:38:18,694 --> 00:38:23,576 When I see Scott's reaction being so negative, 867 00:38:23,593 --> 00:38:26,169 that to me is a red flag because I'm like, wait a minute. 868 00:38:26,186 --> 00:38:31,000 We've had this conversation and this is the direction that you said you wanted to go. 869 00:38:31,016 --> 00:38:36,610 It's really easy for someone to say, "Oh, that would be really cool for our wedding" 870 00:38:36,627 --> 00:38:40,559 without making a big deal and then storming off. 871 00:38:40,576 --> 00:38:43,779 But I do understand the pressure that he feels. 872 00:38:43,796 --> 00:38:47,423 Do I want to have that ring now? 873 00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:48,779 Yes, I would want that. 874 00:38:48,796 --> 00:38:51,440 That's one hundred percent what I want. 875 00:38:51,457 --> 00:38:52,830 I know that I want to marry him. 876 00:38:52,847 --> 00:38:56,830 I have no doubt on my mind that I want to marry him. 877 00:38:56,847 --> 00:39:00,576 But my mom is being way too pushy. 878 00:39:00,593 --> 00:39:03,322 And I'm afraid she's gonna push Scott away. 879 00:39:04,220 --> 00:39:06,440 So, I don't know. 880 00:39:08,288 --> 00:39:09,389 I really don't know. 881 00:39:14,694 --> 00:39:17,372 [instrumental samba music playing] 882 00:39:25,525 --> 00:39:27,016 [kissing] 883 00:39:28,559 --> 00:39:31,135 What the heck are you doing? 884 00:39:33,728 --> 00:39:36,864 [Brittani] My mom has cameras all around her house, in every room. 885 00:39:36,881 --> 00:39:41,169 So if me and TJ have sex, we have sex in his car. 886 00:39:43,593 --> 00:39:45,406 [TJ moans] Love you. 887 00:39:45,423 --> 00:39:46,830 [Brittani] Oh, damn! 888 00:39:46,847 --> 00:39:50,033 Ah, looks like they might be sleeping. 889 00:39:50,220 --> 00:39:50,694 Okay. 890 00:39:50,711 --> 00:39:52,322 [instrumental samba music continues playing] 891 00:39:52,338 --> 00:39:53,762 ♪ Carry me away ♪ 892 00:39:53,779 --> 00:39:57,508 ♪ Come with me I'll leave before I stay ♪ 893 00:39:57,525 --> 00:40:00,169 ♪ That's the way No worries ♪ 894 00:40:02,406 --> 00:40:03,627 [Mary] Knock, knock. 895 00:40:03,644 --> 00:40:06,559 Hello! Time to get up. Ready to go to bed. 896 00:40:06,576 --> 00:40:08,847 Mom, why are being so loud. 897 00:40:08,864 --> 00:40:11,406 -Seriously. -[Mary] I'm not trying to be loud. 898 00:40:11,423 --> 00:40:12,525 [Brittani] Like, what the heck? 899 00:40:12,542 --> 00:40:14,474 Come on honey, it's bed time. 900 00:40:15,677 --> 00:40:18,694 Don't be mean jelly bean, let's go. 901 00:40:18,711 --> 00:40:20,559 -[Brittani grunts] -Have a good night. 902 00:40:20,576 --> 00:40:22,779 -[TJ] Good night. -[Brittani] Good night. 903 00:40:22,796 --> 00:40:26,627 My mom and I have been sleeping in the same bed for a while. 904 00:40:26,644 --> 00:40:28,728 I mean, I just can't sleep without her. 905 00:40:28,745 --> 00:40:30,576 It just feels weird you know? 906 00:40:30,593 --> 00:40:34,576 Without her presence I mean, it's kinda odd. 907 00:40:34,593 --> 00:40:37,338 So when TJ stays he stays in the guest room 908 00:40:37,355 --> 00:40:38,644 and I sleep with my mom. 909 00:40:38,661 --> 00:40:40,813 Wow, got enough clothes on the floor here? 910 00:40:40,830 --> 00:40:43,237 -What the heck were you guys doing in here? -[Brittani] The shorts? 911 00:40:43,254 --> 00:40:46,728 -Mom, does it look like-- -I don't know, it looks like underwear over there. 912 00:40:46,745 --> 00:40:48,508 I don't know. Did you change your underwear before? 913 00:40:48,525 --> 00:40:50,559 [TJ speaking] 914 00:40:50,576 --> 00:40:52,508 -It was hot? -[Brittani kisses and chuckles] 915 00:40:52,525 --> 00:40:53,457 What's that mean? 916 00:40:53,474 --> 00:40:54,610 [Brittani] Good night. 917 00:40:54,627 --> 00:40:57,474 They shouldn't be sleeping together honestly. 918 00:40:57,491 --> 00:40:58,779 They shouldn't be sleeping together. 919 00:40:58,796 --> 00:40:59,813 I really feel like they shouldn't. 920 00:40:59,830 --> 00:41:02,627 I'd understand if she was like five. 921 00:41:02,644 --> 00:41:05,559 Like five to ten, between that age, around there, 922 00:41:05,576 --> 00:41:07,101 But 23? 923 00:41:08,305 --> 00:41:09,406 I don't think so. 924 00:41:10,864 --> 00:41:13,661 -I'm so tired. Then you wake me up like... -Aw, it's gonna be okay. 925 00:41:13,677 --> 00:41:15,389 ...a rooster. 926 00:41:15,406 --> 00:41:16,677 [Mary] Oh, sorry. 927 00:41:16,694 --> 00:41:19,644 My mom and I have a nightly routine. 928 00:41:19,661 --> 00:41:23,033 Pretty much every night we go to bed together. 929 00:41:23,050 --> 00:41:28,288 We brush our teeth together, we both undo the bed together. 930 00:41:28,305 --> 00:41:29,355 [Mary] There you go. 931 00:41:29,644 --> 00:41:30,745 Beautiful. 932 00:41:30,762 --> 00:41:33,762 [Brittani] We get undressed into our PJs. 933 00:41:33,779 --> 00:41:36,491 [Mary] And we usually put our lotion on. 934 00:41:36,508 --> 00:41:38,864 I taught Brittani to take care of her body 935 00:41:38,881 --> 00:41:42,711 and lotion is one way to protect the skin. 936 00:41:42,728 --> 00:41:45,084 You have very healthy skin. 937 00:41:45,355 --> 00:41:47,423 It's nice... 938 00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,000 It's very nice. 939 00:41:50,694 --> 00:41:54,322 So, uh, what were you guys doing in there? 940 00:41:54,610 --> 00:41:55,491 Talking. 941 00:41:56,559 --> 00:41:57,796 Talking about what? 942 00:41:57,813 --> 00:42:00,186 Sleeping in the same room as you. 943 00:42:00,830 --> 00:42:04,305 I told him basically that's something we've always done. 944 00:42:04,322 --> 00:42:05,491 Okay. 945 00:42:05,508 --> 00:42:07,508 He finds it kind of bizarre, mom. 946 00:42:07,525 --> 00:42:08,830 [Mary] Well, I don't find it bizarre. 947 00:42:08,847 --> 00:42:11,220 I think that it's a normal thing. 948 00:42:12,169 --> 00:42:12,728 You know? 949 00:42:12,745 --> 00:42:15,338 You know, he's like, "Well, what if we get married?" 950 00:42:16,762 --> 00:42:20,728 And I'm like, well, you know, it's so kind of hard to say no 951 00:42:20,745 --> 00:42:22,694 because we've been doing it for so long. 952 00:42:22,711 --> 00:42:25,033 Now you guys are talking marriage? 953 00:42:25,728 --> 00:42:28,101 Mom, we've been together for two and a half years. 954 00:42:28,644 --> 00:42:30,644 [scoffs] Brittani, that's not the point. 955 00:42:30,661 --> 00:42:32,593 The point is just like... 956 00:42:32,610 --> 00:42:34,694 I just think it's a little too soon. 957 00:42:34,711 --> 00:42:37,881 I feel like my mom doesn't really know TJ as much as I know him. 958 00:42:37,898 --> 00:42:41,694 Yes, it does upset me that she doesn't give him the opportunity 959 00:42:41,711 --> 00:42:47,016 to let him shine and show his true potential. 960 00:42:47,033 --> 00:42:51,728 I'm just trying to make you understand that you are young. 961 00:42:51,745 --> 00:42:52,830 What if it doesn't work out? 962 00:42:52,847 --> 00:42:55,542 You keep saying that. Do you not want it to work out? 963 00:42:55,559 --> 00:42:58,305 This is why I said earlier I should be alone. 964 00:42:59,898 --> 00:43:02,305 Oh no honey, I don't want you to be alone. 965 00:43:02,322 --> 00:43:02,796 -You're with me. -No. 966 00:43:02,813 --> 00:43:05,677 Mom, I might as well just be a single woman 967 00:43:05,694 --> 00:43:08,084 and be miserable because that's all you want from me. 968 00:43:08,101 --> 00:43:12,186 [Mary] Oh stop. You know that I don't want that from you. 969 00:43:12,542 --> 00:43:13,508 I don't know. You keep saying, 970 00:43:13,525 --> 00:43:15,423 "Oh, what if it doesn't work out?" 971 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:16,949 Like, it can't be a little bit positive? 972 00:43:16,966 --> 00:43:19,661 Like, "Oh, okay, let me give him a little bit of a chance." 973 00:43:19,677 --> 00:43:23,881 Sweetheart, I like him. I think he's nice. 974 00:43:23,898 --> 00:43:28,542 He just has you know, a couple of red flags I worry about. 975 00:43:28,559 --> 00:43:30,440 [Brittani] Every man has a red flag. 976 00:43:31,644 --> 00:43:33,372 A man is a man. 977 00:43:35,813 --> 00:43:39,610 I love TJ with all of me. TJ is my best friend. 978 00:43:39,627 --> 00:43:42,338 I mean, I can't-- Look, she gets jealous. 979 00:43:43,830 --> 00:43:48,203 This is why we don't talk about my relationships around her. 980 00:43:50,694 --> 00:43:52,474 [Mary] Yeah, there you go. 981 00:43:52,491 --> 00:43:53,932 I like that a lot. 982 00:43:53,949 --> 00:43:57,355 [Brittani] Sometimes I feel like you don't give him a chance. 983 00:43:57,372 --> 00:43:58,627 Brit, it's not even nice. 984 00:43:58,644 --> 00:44:01,542 It's like, I don't have to do anything to him 985 00:44:01,559 --> 00:44:04,440 and he gets sarcastic. I mean, come on. 986 00:44:04,457 --> 00:44:05,542 You're my daughter. 987 00:44:05,559 --> 00:44:07,101 Because he's not used to the closeness. 988 00:44:07,118 --> 00:44:10,000 -I just told you like the first time-- -Okay, but you don't need-- 989 00:44:10,016 --> 00:44:12,677 He doesn't have to say some of the crap that he says. 990 00:44:12,694 --> 00:44:14,372 [Brittani] It's a work in progress. 991 00:44:14,830 --> 00:44:17,661 When I hear her speak of marriage, 992 00:44:17,677 --> 00:44:22,779 I cringe, because I just wanna shake her. 993 00:44:22,796 --> 00:44:26,745 Come on, Brittani, how can you say he is the one? 994 00:44:26,762 --> 00:44:29,338 They don't belong together. 995 00:44:29,355 --> 00:44:31,457 They are not equally yoked. 996 00:44:32,864 --> 00:44:37,101 You know my rule, Brit. We're not gonna go to bed angry, okay? 997 00:44:37,576 --> 00:44:41,220 I love you! [kissing] Muah! 998 00:44:41,237 --> 00:44:43,254 I love... you. 999 00:44:43,677 --> 00:44:45,508 I actually have a secret. 1000 00:44:45,525 --> 00:44:47,000 Good night. 1001 00:44:47,016 --> 00:44:51,491 My mom thinks that this is a promise ring, but it's not. 1002 00:44:51,508 --> 00:44:53,152 [Mary] Lights off. 1003 00:44:55,508 --> 00:44:57,847 TJ and I are actually engaged. 1004 00:44:57,864 --> 00:45:00,322 [whispers] And my mom doesn't know. 1005 00:45:03,118 --> 00:45:05,610 -My mother clean my ears. -Yeah, give me. I'll do it for you. 1006 00:45:05,627 --> 00:45:07,711 I'm Trevor, I'm 37. I'm from New York. 1007 00:45:07,728 --> 00:45:09,423 But I live in Georgia now. 1008 00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:12,610 And this is my mom, India. 1009 00:45:12,627 --> 00:45:15,593 The lady next to him is his mother in law. 1010 00:45:15,610 --> 00:45:16,864 [laughs] 1011 00:45:16,881 --> 00:45:18,779 [DeLeesa] They are best friends 1012 00:45:18,796 --> 00:45:21,728 and have the most disgusting relationship 1013 00:45:21,745 --> 00:45:24,694 I have ever seen. I can't stand it. 1014 00:45:24,711 --> 00:45:28,254 [Trevor] I love my mother in-law as if she was my own mom. 1015 00:45:29,661 --> 00:45:32,593 I would love from my mom and TJ to be together more often 1016 00:45:32,610 --> 00:45:35,322 so we could all be a family together. 1017 00:45:35,338 --> 00:45:37,084 [Mary speaking] 1018 00:45:38,203 --> 00:45:39,525 Mom, really? 1019 00:45:39,542 --> 00:45:42,169 Tell me the truth. So what's it like? 1020 00:45:42,745 --> 00:45:44,830 [Sky] You were working your ass off today. 1021 00:45:44,847 --> 00:45:46,779 You want me to massage your booty again? 1022 00:45:46,796 --> 00:45:49,203 I spoiled Skylar a little too much. 1023 00:45:49,220 --> 00:45:53,661 [Sky] Your birthday party is in two and a half weeks. So we need to start planning. 1024 00:45:53,677 --> 00:45:57,542 But it's kind of hard now, because I've done everything for her. 1025 00:45:57,559 --> 00:46:00,372 I'm like Skylar's brain, to be honest. 1026 00:46:00,661 --> 00:46:01,644 [Sky] Ta-da! 1027 00:46:01,661 --> 00:46:02,542 -Is that you? -[Sky] Mm-hmm. 1028 00:46:02,559 --> 00:46:04,152 [Skylar speaking] 1029 00:46:05,813 --> 00:46:08,389 -What's wrong with that? -Don't post that. 1030 00:46:09,593 --> 00:46:12,491 [Eva] I wanna ask you about the date last night. 1031 00:46:12,508 --> 00:46:14,474 Showing a wedding down my throat 1032 00:46:14,491 --> 00:46:15,576 isn't gonna make it happen. 1033 00:46:15,593 --> 00:46:16,745 -Those are the kind of things that's gonna... -I mean-- 1034 00:46:16,762 --> 00:46:18,694 ...make the relationship not work. 1035 00:46:18,711 --> 00:46:19,932 [Sunnie] In our culture, 1036 00:46:19,949 --> 00:46:23,762 people getting married quickly, that's completely normal. 1037 00:46:23,779 --> 00:46:27,508 Sunnie, the reason why I haven't married you yet 1038 00:46:27,525 --> 00:46:28,915 is because of your mom. 1039 00:46:28,932 --> 00:46:32,762 -No matter what, you can never not be my mother. -No, of course. 1040 00:46:32,779 --> 00:46:36,118 But Scott, he can leave me.