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Previously on
Bob Hearts Abishola...

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E kaale,Mummy.What are you doing?

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Studying.Where's dinner?

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I've not started it.

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Bob will be home soon.He can wait.

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[gasps]

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Oh, no.

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Another man is
going to divorce you.

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Fine, I'll stop studying
and start dinner.

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I did not say stop studying.

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You can read and stir

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at the same time.What if I cannot?

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Then you will kill your mother
with shame.

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Ah-ah. Ebun.

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Where have you been?

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Uh, running errands.

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I came to see you.

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I have been waiting
nearly six hours.

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Check your phone next time,
dear.

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[quietly]:
For the love of God.

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[whispering]:
Bob?

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Bob?

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Bob?

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Tunde?

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Where is your stepladder?

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What?

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I am here to paint
your mother-in-law's bedroom.

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What?

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I believe this means she is
staying through the summer.

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What?!

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Is this where
the party's at?

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[whispers]:
No. We're sleeping.

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[whispers]: Then what's
everybody doing in here?

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I was just telling Bob

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I was looking
for his stepladder.

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Why?To paint Ebun's bedroom.

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Oh, good! She decided to stay
through the summer.

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[whispering]:
I found the ladder.

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Ah. Wh-Where was it hiding?

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Kitchen pantry.

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Oh, uh, never mind, Bob.
We found the ladder.

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It was in the kitchen pantry.

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Get out.

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He's not
a morning person.

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Unbelievable.

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Shh!

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Oh, that's what woke you?

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["Ifanla" by Sola Akingbola
playing]

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Why didn't you tell me about
your mom redecorating?

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Because I did not know about it.

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Well, don't you think she should
run that stuff by us?

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I do, but she does not.

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Has she said anything about
when she might be leaving?

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No.Well, could you ask her?

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No.

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That would be disrespectful,

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and she would think
I want her to go.

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But you do want her to go.

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Oh, you can't even say it,
can you?

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Well, maybe I'll talk to her.

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[laughing] Okay.

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Why is that funny?

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I'll just find the right time

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and ask her
how long she's staying.

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[as Ebunoluwa]:
You are kicking me out
of your home?

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Wow, you do that well.

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Answer me.

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Well, I'm just saying,
Mama Ebun,

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it's been weeks.

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I did not realize
you'd been marking the days

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like a prisoner
with chalk on the wall.

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Well, that's a little dramatic.

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How dare you
call me dramatic.

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I don't like this game anymore.

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I don't like being kicked out
of your house

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and onto the street like a dog.

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Okay, I'm done.

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You are done
when I say you are done!

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BOB:
You're freaking me out!

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[in regular voice]:
In our culture,
there's no respectful way

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to ask an elder
to leave your house.

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That's not just Nigerian.

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Family freeloaders are
an international dilemma.

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But your relatives overstay

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a couple of weeks.

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Ours stay for decades.

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So, you can never
get rid of 'em?

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Oh, there are ways.

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Devilish ways.

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Let me write this down.

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Okay, so, you get
a blow-up mattress.

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You stab it with a pin
in several spots.

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Not too big,
not too small.

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They cannot see it,
they cannot hear it.

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Buy... air... mattress.

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In the morning,

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they wake up flat on the floor

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in excruciating pain.

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That is how you make sciatica.

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Make... sciatica.Mm-hmm.

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You could also try

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inappropriate nakedness.

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Is that why you kept leaving
your bathrobe open

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when I stayed with you
after my husband left?

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Yes, you were crying constantly.

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My naked breasts
helped you move on.

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I'm not exposing myself
to my mother.

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It doesn't have to be you.

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Bob is not exposing himself
to my mother.

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Then perhaps you can go
the dead ancestor route.

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Anybody naked in that?

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Unfortunately, no.Hmm.

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Abishola calls her mother,

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pretending to be
a spirit from beyond.

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Guiding her with advice
like, "Get out,

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go home, get out."

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So Abishola's mother thinks
a ghost can use a phone?

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Why not?

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With unlimited minutes,
anything is possible.

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Your mother's mother
would be perfect.

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I agree.

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But I do not know what
my grandmother sounded like.

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That's your problem
with this plan?

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90% of a good paint job

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is proper preparation.

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Yes, Uncle.

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Failing to prepare
is preparing to fail.

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Yes, Uncle.

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Sex appeal is 50% what you got

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and 50% what they think you got.

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Uncle?

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Uh, once I turn
the wisdom spigot on,

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it's hard to turn off.

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Yes, Uncle.

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I know this is the last thing
you wanted to do today.

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It's not the last thing.

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But, Dele, you are lucky.

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You have successful,
loving parents,

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all the comforts of the world,

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and an uncle
who will not let you grow soft.

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I appreciate it, Uncle.

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Before the day is over,
that will not be a lie.

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There are four basic skills

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that every young man
should know.

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How to paint a room,
tie a tie,

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fix a flat, and give a toast.

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What about cook a meal?

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Unnecessary.
There are Wendy's everywhere.

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Are we ready?Yes.

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Wrong.

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The most important part

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about doing anything right
is the music.

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["Rapper's Delight"
by The Sugarhill Gang playing]

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♪

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[singing along]:
♪ I said a hip-hop, a hippie

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♪ A hippie to the hip hip-hop,
and you don't stop ♪

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♪ Rockin' to the bang-bang
boogie ♪

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♪ Say up jump the boogie

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♪ To the rhythm of the boogie,
the beat ♪

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♪ Now, what you hear is not
a test... ♪Wow.

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What?You can rap?

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Have you never heard me
in the shower, young man?

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Who is this?

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Who is this?[music stops]

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You do not know
The Sugarhill Gang?

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No, Uncle.

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What about Grandmaster Flash?

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I'm sorry, no.

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Eric B. and Rakim?

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Mm-mm.

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[groans] This painting can wait.

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Your musical education is
far more important.

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1979.

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Big Bank Hank, Wonder Mike
and Master Gee formed

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the group that was to bring
hip-hop to the world.

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[over speakers]:
♪ The black, to the white,
the red and the brown ♪

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♪ The purple and yellow,
but first ♪

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♪ I gotta bang-bang
the boogie to the boogie ♪

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♪ Say up jump the boogie
to the bang-bang boogie ♪

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♪ Let's rock, you don't stop

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♪ Rock the rhythm
that'll make your body rock ♪

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♪ Well, so far
you've heard my voice... ♪

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Hey, guys.

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Do me a favor,

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step inside this square.

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Why?
Just do it.

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Is it a magic square?

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Stop making it weird
and get in the square.

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You guys think you could live
in something this size?

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If it's a room
to punish the workers,

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I'd make it much smaller.

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What? No.
I'm thinking about putting

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one of those tiny homes
in my backyard

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for my mother-in-law.

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Good, you're coming to terms

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that she will be
living with you forever.

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No, I just want her
outside the house

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for when she visits.

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So you're building
her a home?

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A tiny home.

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That she will
live in forever.

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Please stop saying "forever."

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We just want you to be
realistic, Mr. Wheeler.

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I live above Goodwin's garage,
and I am never leaving.

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And I have accepted that.

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KOFO:
The day he bought

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the Wi-Fi extender,

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I knew we were in it
for the long haul.

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I was gonna buy
the Wi-Fi extender.

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You see?

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How are you so okay with this?

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Simple. I am a Christian,
Mr. Wheeler.

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My good deeds will be rewarded
in the afterlife.

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[chuckles] We sometimes joke

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that I will live in the room
above his cloud in heaven.

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You make that joke,
I do not.

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Screw it.

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I-I can't build this.

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She'll never leave.

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I am telling you this
as a friend.

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Build the tiny house.

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Accept your fate.

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And maybe
when she's not using it,

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Kofo can stay there.

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What a wonderful idea.

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Nope, nope, nope.Never.

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Nope, nope.
Not gonna happen, guys.

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[phone ringing]

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Hello? Hello?

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VOICE:
Ebunoluwa Adebisi Odegbami.

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Ah-ah. Who is this?

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[speaking Yoruba]

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Who is this?

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Mummy?

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You have hooked the fish,
now reel her in.

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I am listening.

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But I do not want to leave.

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But I am not ready.

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But I do not think I am.

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Go home!

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Mummy?

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I just...

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...do not want to go
back to that man.

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No, he is just my husband.

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The love left many years ago.

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I try to be a good wife,
but how can I be?

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All I do is cook and clean
for a man

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who barely looks at me.

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Let alone touches me.

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It is like living
with a stranger.

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Ask her if she's taken
any lovers.

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She told me things a daughter
should never have to hear.

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That is the power
of the ghost call.

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But be careful, you should
only use this technique

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every five to seven years.

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Otherwise, people will think
you are a witch.

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Where have you been?

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Oh, just having a little
ghost mother-daughter time.

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Oh, no, you didn't.

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We did.
We did.

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I don't even want to know.

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But I want to know.

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She opened up
like a fire hydrant,

264
00:11:36,260 --> 00:11:39,046
and we danced in the mud puddle
of her secrets.

265
00:11:39,089 --> 00:11:42,223
So many secrets.

266
00:11:42,266 --> 00:11:45,052
How could I not have known
that my parents were so unhappy?

267
00:11:45,095 --> 00:11:47,576
Well, I'm sure they were just
shielding you from it

268
00:11:47,619 --> 00:11:49,099
so you didn't worry.

269
00:11:49,143 --> 00:11:50,187
Exactly.

270
00:11:50,231 --> 00:11:52,712
My husband and I
hated each other.

271
00:11:52,755 --> 00:11:55,366
But we scheduled sex
every six months

272
00:11:55,410 --> 00:11:57,760
just so our children
could overhear,

273
00:11:57,804 --> 00:12:00,328
because that is
what good parents do.

274
00:12:01,285 --> 00:12:02,896
Should I tell her I know?

275
00:12:02,939 --> 00:12:04,593
Of course not.

276
00:12:04,636 --> 00:12:06,943
You betrayed her trust
with your ghost trickery.

277
00:12:07,988 --> 00:12:10,730
Okay, my ghost trickery.

278
00:12:10,773 --> 00:12:12,035
I'm sorry, honey.

279
00:12:12,079 --> 00:12:13,602
I don't want to talk about this
anymore.

280
00:12:13,645 --> 00:12:15,560
Understood.Of course.

281
00:12:15,604 --> 00:12:16,823
We will never speak of this
again.
No.

282
00:12:20,304 --> 00:12:23,655
Tell me everything.Wait, let me get my notes.

283
00:12:26,484 --> 00:12:28,748
Unfortunately,
Kurtis Blow never had

284
00:12:28,791 --> 00:12:31,925
another hit quite as big
as "The Breaks," but,

285
00:12:31,968 --> 00:12:34,797
as he says,
"These are the breaks."

286
00:12:35,798 --> 00:12:37,408
I really like that song.

287
00:12:37,452 --> 00:12:40,368
Of course you do.
Everyone likes that song.

288
00:12:40,411 --> 00:12:43,110
But let us step into 1983.

289
00:12:43,153 --> 00:12:46,461
Here's one
from Miss Patti LaBelle.

290
00:12:46,504 --> 00:12:48,463
["If Only You Knew" by Patti
LaBelle playing on speakers]

291
00:12:48,506 --> 00:12:50,421
♪

292
00:12:50,465 --> 00:12:52,119
It's nice.

293
00:12:52,162 --> 00:12:53,947
Yes, it is.

294
00:12:53,990 --> 00:12:57,472
I can tell you the exact moment
I first heard this song.

295
00:12:57,515 --> 00:12:58,734
Really?

296
00:12:58,778 --> 00:13:01,476
Olu and I had just moved
into our apartment.

297
00:13:01,519 --> 00:13:03,826
She opened the window,

298
00:13:03,870 --> 00:13:07,351
and this song was playing
from someone else's apartment.

299
00:13:09,049 --> 00:13:11,529
We didn't have much furniture.

300
00:13:11,573 --> 00:13:14,881
Uh, w-we did not have
much of anything,

301
00:13:14,924 --> 00:13:17,492
but we had each other.

302
00:13:17,535 --> 00:13:20,147
So we danced.

303
00:13:20,190 --> 00:13:22,236
That's beautiful.

304
00:13:22,279 --> 00:13:23,846
[sighs]

305
00:13:23,890 --> 00:13:26,109
That is the wonderful thing
about music.

306
00:13:26,153 --> 00:13:28,677
Songs can serve as
a time capsule

307
00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:31,462
to the best moments
of your life.

308
00:13:31,506 --> 00:13:33,464
♪ But when I get up
the nerve... ♪

309
00:13:33,508 --> 00:13:35,640
Well, now,
when I hear this song,

310
00:13:35,684 --> 00:13:37,991
I'll think of getting
to paint a room with my uncle.

311
00:13:38,034 --> 00:13:41,603
No. This is mine and Olu's song.

312
00:13:42,865 --> 00:13:44,606
You can have "The Breaks."

313
00:13:45,607 --> 00:13:48,653
♪ If only you knew.

314
00:13:49,567 --> 00:13:50,655
Hey, Mama Ebun.

315
00:13:50,699 --> 00:13:52,005
Kaale,Bob.

316
00:13:52,048 --> 00:13:54,181
I'm gonna get a drink.
You want something?

317
00:13:54,224 --> 00:13:56,836
No. Come sit with me.

318
00:13:56,879 --> 00:13:59,229
Am I in trouble?Just come sit.

319
00:13:59,273 --> 00:14:01,666
Just let me get my drin-- Okay.Sit!

320
00:14:05,757 --> 00:14:07,716
I see how you look
at my daughter.

321
00:14:07,759 --> 00:14:10,023
Well, she's pretty,
I can't help it.

322
00:14:10,066 --> 00:14:12,764
You really love her.I do.

323
00:14:12,808 --> 00:14:15,071
Promise me you will always
look at her that way.

324
00:14:15,115 --> 00:14:16,812
Of course.Forever.

325
00:14:16,856 --> 00:14:18,466
Yeah.Until you are dead.

326
00:14:18,509 --> 00:14:20,207
Okay.

327
00:14:20,250 --> 00:14:21,556
And even after you are dead!

328
00:14:22,905 --> 00:14:24,385
Are you all right?

329
00:14:25,952 --> 00:14:27,562
It is time for me to go.

330
00:14:28,563 --> 00:14:29,564
To bed?

331
00:14:29,607 --> 00:14:31,131
To Nigeria.

332
00:14:31,174 --> 00:14:34,090
Oh... no...

333
00:14:35,570 --> 00:14:37,746
I must.When?

334
00:14:37,789 --> 00:14:39,530
Tonight.

335
00:14:39,574 --> 00:14:41,532
It's time for me to go home
to my husband.

336
00:14:41,576 --> 00:14:42,969
Great!

337
00:14:43,012 --> 00:14:44,405
For him, not for me.

338
00:14:44,448 --> 00:14:45,623
I'm devastated.

339
00:14:52,804 --> 00:14:54,719
[singsongy]:
She's packing.

340
00:14:54,763 --> 00:14:57,940
She's upstairs packing
right now.
[chuckles]

341
00:14:57,984 --> 00:14:59,550
What are you talking about?Your mom.

342
00:14:59,594 --> 00:15:01,596
She's gonna be catching
the 10:10 to Lagos.

343
00:15:01,639 --> 00:15:03,250
Tonight?Yeah,

344
00:15:03,293 --> 00:15:05,078
and all I had to do was
promise to love you forever,

345
00:15:05,121 --> 00:15:06,557
and I was gonna do that anyway.

346
00:15:08,124 --> 00:15:09,604
What have I done?

347
00:15:09,647 --> 00:15:11,954
Well, you married a sweetheart,
that's what you did.

348
00:15:11,998 --> 00:15:14,478
I should never have involved
the ghost of her mother.

349
00:15:14,522 --> 00:15:17,046
The ghost of her what now?

350
00:15:19,266 --> 00:15:21,007
You will mail
the rest of my belongings

351
00:15:21,050 --> 00:15:22,443
first thing in the morning.

352
00:15:22,486 --> 00:15:23,748
Yes, Mummy.

353
00:15:23,792 --> 00:15:25,794
Or maybe you could keep
some things here.

354
00:15:25,837 --> 00:15:27,578
Why?

355
00:15:27,622 --> 00:15:29,972
For when you come
back and visit.

356
00:15:30,016 --> 00:15:31,713
Just send the things.

357
00:15:33,933 --> 00:15:35,630
[takes deep breath]

358
00:15:35,673 --> 00:15:37,937
I am not looking forward
to this flight.

359
00:15:37,980 --> 00:15:40,635
16 hours in a middle seat.

360
00:15:41,679 --> 00:15:43,420
That's terrible.

361
00:15:43,464 --> 00:15:45,248
I booked last minute,

362
00:15:45,292 --> 00:15:47,555
so it is what it is.

363
00:15:50,558 --> 00:15:51,994
You do not have to do this,
Mummy.

364
00:15:52,038 --> 00:15:54,127
What are you talking about?

365
00:15:55,215 --> 00:15:57,782
Sometimes in life,
if you are unhappy with...

366
00:15:57,826 --> 00:16:00,002
"the middle seat,"

367
00:16:00,046 --> 00:16:02,178
it's okay to make a change.

368
00:16:04,398 --> 00:16:06,008
It is not that easy.

369
00:16:06,052 --> 00:16:08,532
I made a commitment.

370
00:16:08,576 --> 00:16:09,881
To the seat.

371
00:16:11,274 --> 00:16:16,279
But if you and the seat are
no longer right for each other.

372
00:16:16,323 --> 00:16:18,455
One does not just change seats.

373
00:16:18,499 --> 00:16:20,240
I did,

374
00:16:20,283 --> 00:16:22,546
and now I'm happier
than I've ever been.

375
00:16:26,550 --> 00:16:28,900
Maybe I am not as strong as you.

376
00:16:31,294 --> 00:16:33,383
Who do you think I got
that strength from?

377
00:16:36,169 --> 00:16:37,909
You do not need to rush home.

378
00:16:38,954 --> 00:16:41,391
Take your time
and think about what you want.

379
00:16:44,133 --> 00:16:46,353
[over speakers]:
♪ Voulez-vous coucher
avec moi... ♪

380
00:16:46,396 --> 00:16:47,963
I hope you don't celebrate
like this when I leave.

381
00:16:48,007 --> 00:16:50,183
Only one way to find out.

382
00:16:50,226 --> 00:16:53,055
I'm not going out that door
without a toe tag.

383
00:16:53,099 --> 00:16:54,926
Don't give me any ideas.

384
00:16:55,666 --> 00:16:57,364
Ah, I wish I could have
gotten the chance

385
00:16:57,407 --> 00:16:58,843
to say goodbye
to Granny Ebun.

386
00:16:58,887 --> 00:17:00,541
We were just starting
to connect.

387
00:17:00,584 --> 00:17:03,152
I know she is difficult,
but I will miss my sister.

388
00:17:03,196 --> 00:17:05,154
You can have mine.

389
00:17:05,198 --> 00:17:08,897
♪ Gitchie, gitchie
ya-ya here... ♪

390
00:17:08,940 --> 00:17:10,594
Well, what is
the celebration?

391
00:17:10,638 --> 00:17:13,728
Uh, I-I, uh, texted Bob
and told him you were staying,

392
00:17:13,771 --> 00:17:16,513
and he threw you
this impromptu party.

393
00:17:16,557 --> 00:17:17,775
Isn't that right, Bob?

394
00:17:19,212 --> 00:17:20,387
Surprise.

395
00:17:20,430 --> 00:17:21,388
Surprise.

396
00:17:21,431 --> 00:17:22,432
ALL:
Surprise.

397
00:17:23,390 --> 00:17:24,913
[singing along]:
♪ Voulez-vous coucher avec moi♪

398
00:17:24,956 --> 00:17:27,655
Oh, no.

399
00:17:27,698 --> 00:17:29,135
Is my room finished?

400
00:17:29,178 --> 00:17:30,484
Uh, soon.

401
00:17:31,746 --> 00:17:33,400
Very soon.

402
00:17:33,443 --> 00:17:34,444
And turn off
that horrible music!

403
00:17:39,232 --> 00:17:41,538
♪ Can I kick it? ♪ Yes, you can♪

404
00:17:41,582 --> 00:17:43,758
♪ Can I kick it? ♪ Yes, you can

405
00:17:43,801 --> 00:17:46,239
♪ Can I kick it? ♪ Yes, you can

406
00:17:46,282 --> 00:17:48,415
♪ Can I kick it? ♪ Yes, you can

407
00:17:48,458 --> 00:17:49,764
♪ Well, I'm gone

408
00:17:49,807 --> 00:17:51,548
♪ Go on, then ♪ Can I kick it?

409
00:17:51,592 --> 00:17:54,595
♪ To all the people who can
quest like A Tribe does ♪

410
00:17:54,638 --> 00:17:57,293
♪ Before this, did you
really know what live was? ♪

411
00:17:57,337 --> 00:17:58,990
♪ Comprehend to the track,
for its why 'cause ♪

412
00:17:59,034 --> 00:18:02,124
♪ Getting measures
on the tip of the vibers ♪

413
00:18:02,168 --> 00:18:03,647
♪ Rock and roll
to the beat of the ♪

414
00:18:03,691 --> 00:18:04,648
BOTH:
♪ Funk fuzz

415
00:18:04,692 --> 00:18:06,128
♪ Wipe your feet really good

416
00:18:06,172 --> 00:18:07,260
BOTH:
♪ On the rhythm rug

417
00:18:07,303 --> 00:18:08,522
♪ If you feel
the urge to freak ♪

418
00:18:08,565 --> 00:18:09,610
BOTH:
♪ Do the jitterbug

419
00:18:09,653 --> 00:18:11,307
♪ Come and spread your arms

420
00:18:11,351 --> 00:18:12,961
♪ If you really need a hug
Go, Uncle.

421
00:18:13,004 --> 00:18:15,442
Go, Uncle, go, Uncle.

422
00:18:15,485 --> 00:18:17,052
♪ Fun♪♪ That's what I love

423
00:18:17,096 --> 00:18:18,445
♪ A lower plateau
is what we're above. ♪

424
00:18:23,058 --> 00:18:31,022
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