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Previously on
Bob Hearts Abishola...

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You are going
to Nigeria this summer.I am?

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It does not matter how things
are with your father and me.

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This trip
will be good for you.

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That is what matters.

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Thank you, Mum.

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And I will never be against you.

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When you get back,

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you have to help me
learn this dance

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that Gloria knows.

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You want me to help you dance?

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Ah. Dele does not think I
know how to dance, either.

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[laughter]

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That's because you cannot.

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Ah-ah-ah. You are
laughing at your mother.

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No, I'm just happy
to see you happy.

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Aw. And I am happy

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that you are happy
that I am happy.

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Oh, I love you, Dele.

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I miss you

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very much.

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I love you, too, Mum.

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I'm glad Mum is having
a good time.

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Maybe too good a time.

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How about next June? Who
doesn't love a June wedding?

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People who are applying
to medical school.

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So, no June.

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No June.

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How about September 23?
You know what that day is,

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don't you?What?

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It's the anniversary
of my big heart attack.

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You've had
small heart attacks?

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Don't worry about it.

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Why would we want
to get married on a day

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you almost died?Because it's also

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the day we met and you
swept me off my gurney.

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So what do you think?

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No.

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Okay.

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I'm still gonna
be celebrating.

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What about October?Mm, no good.

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I got the International
Undergarment Expo in Shanghai.

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And since the Chinese
government won't allow Douglas

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in Shanghai, we can't
get married there.

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Why can't Douglas
go to Shanghai?

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Don't worry about it.

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All right, so
basically it's either

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two years from now
or... [chuckles]

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I got an opening
in three weeks.

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That works for me.

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What works for you?

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Three weeks.Wait, are you serious?

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I mean, it's not ideal...But we'll figure it out.

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I don't know how
we'll get everyone here.

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But we'll figure it out.

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I also have to tell...Ah-ah.

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But we'll figure it out.

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We're getting married.

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We're getting married.

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[laughs softly]

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So, honeymoon.
Okay.

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["Ifanla" by Sola Akingbola
playing]

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So, are you looking forward

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to coming home early
for the wedding?

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I am, but have you talked
to Dad about it?

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Eh, I emailed him
that we need to talk about

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you coming home early
and he wrote back "Okay,"

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so he's okay.

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Ah-ah, is something wrong?

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He didn't seem too happy
about it.

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It does not matter
if he's happy or sad.

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You are my son,
and you will be at my wedding.

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Is that Dele?Dele, Bob is here.

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Hi, Bob.

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Hey, pal, how's it going?

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Good.

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Listen, there's something
I want to ask you.

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I was hoping
you'd do me the honor

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of being my best man.

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Uh, I will. Thank you, Bob.

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Okay, you got
to hand me the ring,

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make a little speech,

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talk me down
if I have a panic attack.

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Okay, Bob.

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I'm sorry,
I should probably get going.

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All right. We'll see you
in a couple weeks.

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Okay. Goodbye.

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ABISHOLA:
Goodbye, Dele.

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Did he seem okay to you?

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Well, he didn't laugh
at my panic attack joke,

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but neither did you,
so maybe it's genetic.

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Well, maybe we did not laugh

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because mental illness
is not funny.

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Well, not when you put it
like that.

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I just hope his father
doesn't make this

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more difficult
than it needs to be.

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Well, maybe Tayo is
feeling left out.

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We should invite him and his
second wife to the wedding.

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Second wives
aren't funny, either?

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I am learning a lot today.

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More tea, Pastor?

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Please.

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It is an honor to have
such an esteemed man of God

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in our home.Ah...

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I am just his
humble servant.

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More like handsome servant.

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You know, of God.

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Bob and I would like to
be married at the church.

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Wonderful. That is a blessing.

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Amen.
Ah. Indeed it is.

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We can start the premarital
counseling next month.

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Actually, we're kind
of in a time crunch.

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God willing, we would love to
be married in three weeks.

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So soon?

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Yeah, the long engagement
isn't an option for us.

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I see.

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No, you don't see.

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I am not pregnant.

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Oh, thank goodness.

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You thought
we were pregnant?

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It's either that
or you were dying.

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Are you dying?

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No!

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Oh, thank goodness.

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We are busy. He
runs a business

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and I'm studying
to become a doctor.

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At your age?

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So she's young enough
to get pregnant

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but too old to be a doctor?

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Uh, what Bob is trying

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to say is,
of course she is too old.

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I am sorry,
but there are customs in place.

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Premarital counseling,

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attending Sunday service
for six months...

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But Abishola goes to
church every week.

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Yes, shedoes.

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Again, busy people.

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The church is also busy.

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The sanctuary
may not be available.

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We've been
renting it out

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to generate extra income.

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I see.

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The study room
needs painting,

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there are books to buy,

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so many projects
needed for the children.

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Say no more.

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Bob, what are you doing?

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I'm helping the children.

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I cannot take your check.

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Oh, sorry.

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But God does accept Venmo.

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Get with the times, Bob.

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ABISHOLA:
Thank you, everyone,

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for getting together
on short notice.

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Mummy, can you hear okay?

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EBUNOLUWA:
I can hear perfectly fine.

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How old do you think I am?

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[chuckles]
This is exciting.

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It's like when the
Avengers assemble.

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Have you not seen
those movies?

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You are in for a treat.

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KEMI:
Okay.

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Listen up, ladies,

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we need a reception venue,

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flowers, food and a DJ
who understands

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he is not the star of the show.

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I am.

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Since there is not much time,

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I thought I could buy
my wedding dress here.

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Oh, yeah, uh, Abishola and I

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have been going through,
uh, some of the ones

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that I had picked out
for my imaginary wedding.

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That's nice.

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I'm sorry,
remind me of your name.

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Oh, hi. I'm Christina,
Bob's sister.

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Yeah-- it-it's so nice
to meet you.

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You as well.

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Is Olu there?

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I am here.

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Could you please tell
that woman to butt out?

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Christina...Yeah, I heard.

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Mummy, I know you wanted
Bimpe to make the dress,

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but it is not fair to rush her.

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Bimpe has assured me
that she will get it done.

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But I've already found a couple
that I like here in Detroit.

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I can show you.

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Olu?

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Bimpe will make the dress.

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Wow.

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I thought my mom was stubborn.

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Ah-ah, who said that?

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Uh, it was Christina.

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No reason for both of us
to be in trouble.

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Hi there, uh, me again.

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Look, we all trust...

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Bimpe.

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My concern is with the
international shipping company.

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I will bring the dress with me.

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Well, what if, God forbid,

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something happens
with your flight?

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Olu?

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If my sister or the dress
cannot be there,

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there will be no wedding.

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Uh, I'm with Olu and laptop.

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I think the more authentic,
the better.

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I'm going full African.

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You are going to wear
traditional Yoruba clothing?

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Oh, yeah. I'm gonna
deck out the wheelchair

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in seashells
and kente cloth,

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and wear one of those
big wraparound hats like Olu.

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Mom,

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that is offensive.

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Why?

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Very nice, cousin.

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I am never taking this off.

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[laughs]You look sharp, too, Tunde.

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Ah, I do.

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I really do.
[chuckles]

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What do we think?

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Splendid.

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The black sets off
your pale oatmeal skin.

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You're like a handsome ghost.

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Boo.
[chuckles]

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BOB:
Listen fellas, while
we're all here...

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You guys have done so much

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for me and Abishola,
I wanted to do

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a little something
to show my appreciation.

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Aw, you shouldn't have.No way.

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Okay.

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Tunde,

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your love and your loyalty
has meant the world to me.

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Through all the
ups and downs,

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I felt you were
always on my team.

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Team Bob.

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I'll never get tired
of hearing that.

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Thank you.

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Goodwin, you gave me advice
every step of the way.

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Not all of it good, but
it was always from the heart.

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I was happy to look out for you,

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like keeping a baby away
from electric outlets.

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Kofo...

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You may not know
a lot about women,

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but you know a hell of a lot
about friendship.

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Without you,

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I wouldn't be standing here.

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I actually know
quite a bit about women,

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but you are welcome.

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What's up?

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Huh?

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Where's mine?

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What do you mean?

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Oh, look at that.

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You got 'em all watches?

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Well, without their help,
I wouldn't be marrying Abishola.

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I helped, too.

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You told me not
to pursue the relationship.

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You made fun of me
for even thinking about it.

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Somebody has to poke holes in it
and see if it floats.

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Poking holes sinks things.

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You're my brother, I love you.

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A watch isn't gonna change that.

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But it would've proved it.

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Beautiful watch, Bob. What...

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What are we talking,
$800, $900?

265
00:10:40,943 --> 00:10:42,553
$900. You nailed it.

266
00:10:42,597 --> 00:10:44,381
Well, I factored in
that you would overpay

267
00:10:44,426 --> 00:10:46,080
by at least $200.

268
00:10:47,908 --> 00:10:50,736
Okay, give me
the cash equivalent.

269
00:10:50,779 --> 00:10:54,043
You don't need the cash.It's the spirit
in which it's given.

270
00:10:54,087 --> 00:10:56,350
Look, I'm sorry I didn't
get you a watch, okay?

271
00:10:56,394 --> 00:10:57,918
It's fine.

272
00:10:57,961 --> 00:10:59,701
Oh, by the way, maybe you
should ask one of your special

273
00:10:59,745 --> 00:11:01,748
watch friends
to be your best man.

274
00:11:02,749 --> 00:11:03,750
Actually, I already asked...

275
00:11:03,793 --> 00:11:05,447
Oh, my God!

276
00:11:10,974 --> 00:11:14,282
Okay, so, this one
is from Louisa's Bakery.

277
00:11:14,325 --> 00:11:17,284
It's a simple vanilla sponge
with white chocolate mousse

278
00:11:17,327 --> 00:11:19,113
and a raspberry drizzle.Mmm.

279
00:11:19,155 --> 00:11:21,071
Delicious.

280
00:11:21,115 --> 00:11:22,594
EBUNOLUWA:
It is too sweet.

281
00:11:22,638 --> 00:11:24,639
Uh, Mummy, how would you know?

282
00:11:24,683 --> 00:11:26,860
If he likes it that much,
it has to be sweet.

283
00:11:27,817 --> 00:11:29,818
It is a little sweet.

284
00:11:31,211 --> 00:11:32,648
Okay, let her watch
you eat the chocolate cake.

285
00:11:32,692 --> 00:11:34,215
All right.

286
00:11:37,566 --> 00:11:40,787
Okay, Mummy Ebun,
what did I think of this one?

287
00:11:40,830 --> 00:11:44,528
You like it because it is cake,
but it does not wow you.

288
00:11:45,529 --> 00:11:48,490
It's like she's in my mouth.

289
00:11:48,533 --> 00:11:51,144
Mummy, did you get
the plane tickets?

290
00:11:51,187 --> 00:11:54,931
I did. First-class, very nice.

291
00:11:54,975 --> 00:11:56,498
I figured you wouldn't come
if you didn't get

292
00:11:56,540 --> 00:11:58,456
the extra leg room.

293
00:11:58,500 --> 00:12:02,851
Ah, the man knows mother-in-laws
as well as cakes.

294
00:12:02,895 --> 00:12:04,679
You should have
Dele's ticket as well.

295
00:12:04,724 --> 00:12:06,289
Have you spoken
to him or Tayo?

296
00:12:06,333 --> 00:12:07,726
No. Have you not talked to them?

297
00:12:07,769 --> 00:12:08,857
I did,

298
00:12:08,902 --> 00:12:10,599
but it has been a few days.

299
00:12:10,642 --> 00:12:12,514
Well, I don't have time
to chase your son

300
00:12:12,557 --> 00:12:13,994
and his father around town.

301
00:12:14,037 --> 00:12:15,778
I am busy planning a wedding.

302
00:12:15,822 --> 00:12:16,692
I'm sure it's fine.

303
00:12:16,735 --> 00:12:18,346
Oh, are you?

304
00:12:18,389 --> 00:12:19,650
Is Tayo in your mouth as well?

305
00:12:19,695 --> 00:12:21,566
Hey.

306
00:12:21,610 --> 00:12:22,741
Could we hurry this up, please?

307
00:12:22,784 --> 00:12:23,743
What about the one

308
00:12:23,786 --> 00:12:24,744
furthest on the left?

309
00:12:24,787 --> 00:12:25,961
Oh, that's the red velvet.

310
00:12:26,005 --> 00:12:28,835
[gasps]
Oh! I love red velvet.

311
00:12:28,878 --> 00:12:30,400
That will be the cake.

312
00:12:30,445 --> 00:12:32,751
Don't you want Bob
to taste it first?

313
00:12:32,794 --> 00:12:34,754
No need. I can tell by the way
he is looking at it.

314
00:12:36,798 --> 00:12:38,148
She's not wrong.

315
00:12:39,628 --> 00:12:42,761
♪ It's all right, all right...

316
00:12:42,804 --> 00:12:46,113
Welcome, gentlemen,
to a grown man's bachelor party.

317
00:12:46,155 --> 00:12:49,245
Good food, great Scotch
and fine cigars.

318
00:12:49,289 --> 00:12:52,075
Jalapeño poppers
and pigs in a blanket?

319
00:12:52,119 --> 00:12:54,903
Tonight we eat like kings.

320
00:12:54,947 --> 00:12:57,427
I can only eat like a king
until 9:00,

321
00:12:57,471 --> 00:12:59,517
otherwise I get acid reflux.

322
00:12:59,561 --> 00:13:01,649
Got you covered.
We got an assortment of antacids

323
00:13:01,692 --> 00:13:03,259
right next to the humidor.

324
00:13:03,303 --> 00:13:05,480
Am I allowed to have a cigar?

325
00:13:05,523 --> 00:13:07,481
Or are those just for
the strangers you barely know?

326
00:13:07,524 --> 00:13:09,178
They're for everybody.

327
00:13:09,222 --> 00:13:12,095
Not the Cuban.
That one's for Tunde.

328
00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:15,010
You are too kind.

329
00:13:15,054 --> 00:13:17,317
Mr. Wheeler,
we also have something for you.

330
00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:18,580
Aw, thanks guys.

331
00:13:18,623 --> 00:13:20,929
Great. More gifts
for people who aren't me.

332
00:13:21,975 --> 00:13:25,847
A pocket square,
handsewn of aso oke,

333
00:13:25,892 --> 00:13:27,631
a coveted fabric
native to our tribe.

334
00:13:27,676 --> 00:13:29,417
When worn in the same color

335
00:13:29,460 --> 00:13:31,158
and pattern, it
symbolizes unity

336
00:13:31,201 --> 00:13:33,899
and family.

337
00:13:33,942 --> 00:13:35,075
My brother.

338
00:13:35,118 --> 00:13:37,033
I love it. Thank you.

339
00:13:37,076 --> 00:13:40,427
And this is a bottle of ogogoro,

340
00:13:40,471 --> 00:13:42,211
fermented palm wine.

341
00:13:42,255 --> 00:13:44,866
It is Nigeria's
strongest liquor.

342
00:13:44,911 --> 00:13:45,868
♪ Got to let you know, girl...

343
00:13:45,912 --> 00:13:47,086
It is said

344
00:13:47,129 --> 00:13:49,350
that if a man can share
a whole bottle

345
00:13:49,393 --> 00:13:51,307
with those
he considers brothers,

346
00:13:51,351 --> 00:13:52,918
he is ready for marriage.

347
00:13:52,961 --> 00:13:55,790
Seriously, guys,
this is amazing.

348
00:13:55,835 --> 00:13:57,270
♪ To play...

349
00:13:57,313 --> 00:13:59,273
Just to be clear,
Bob already has a brother.

350
00:13:59,316 --> 00:14:00,274
I know it's confusing

351
00:14:00,317 --> 00:14:01,535
because he doesn't act like it.

352
00:14:01,578 --> 00:14:03,277
Can I talk to you for a minute?

353
00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:05,495
Sure, but you'll have to let me
know when a minute's up,

354
00:14:05,539 --> 00:14:07,410
because I don't have a watch.

355
00:14:08,890 --> 00:14:11,458
Oh, I remember many nights
drinking this rocket fuel.

356
00:14:11,501 --> 00:14:12,851
GOODWIN:
I don't remember

357
00:14:12,894 --> 00:14:15,811
any of them.[laughter]

358
00:14:15,855 --> 00:14:17,682
Look, I should have got you
a watch, okay? I'm sorry.

359
00:14:17,725 --> 00:14:19,727
No, you shouldn't have,
'cause you clearly

360
00:14:19,770 --> 00:14:21,294
didn't think I deserved one.

361
00:14:21,337 --> 00:14:23,644
I didn't think you needed one,
but I was wrong.

362
00:14:23,687 --> 00:14:25,298
I was very, very wrong.

363
00:14:25,341 --> 00:14:26,822
No, you weren't.

364
00:14:26,865 --> 00:14:29,129
Those guys earned their watches.

365
00:14:29,172 --> 00:14:31,479
You said so in your
heartfelt little speeches.

366
00:14:31,522 --> 00:14:33,524
Speeches? I was just talking.

367
00:14:33,567 --> 00:14:35,482
Well, it was beautiful.

368
00:14:35,525 --> 00:14:38,051
You're an important part
of this, too.

369
00:14:38,094 --> 00:14:39,312
Yeah, right.

370
00:14:39,355 --> 00:14:40,662
Hey, I'm serious.

371
00:14:40,705 --> 00:14:42,272
After my first marriage blew up,

372
00:14:42,316 --> 00:14:44,665
whose couch did I sleep on
for three weeks?

373
00:14:44,709 --> 00:14:46,668
Mine.

374
00:14:46,711 --> 00:14:48,061
And who pulled me up
off that couch,

375
00:14:48,104 --> 00:14:49,452
looked me in the eye and said,

376
00:14:49,496 --> 00:14:52,673
"You smell gross, dude.
You got to do something."

377
00:14:52,716 --> 00:14:55,197
Me.
You.

378
00:14:55,241 --> 00:14:57,374
You got me back out there.

379
00:14:57,418 --> 00:14:58,854
You laid the groundwork.

380
00:14:58,898 --> 00:15:01,812
Without you,
there is no Abishola.

381
00:15:02,857 --> 00:15:04,337
Hmm.

382
00:15:04,380 --> 00:15:05,947
I hear what you're
saying, man.

383
00:15:06,861 --> 00:15:08,428
I did deserve a watch.

384
00:15:08,471 --> 00:15:11,301
How about a hug?I'll take it.

385
00:15:11,345 --> 00:15:13,216
Just make sure those guys see.

386
00:15:13,259 --> 00:15:15,957
Thanks for everything, Douglas!

387
00:15:16,001 --> 00:15:19,527
I'm your brother,
you don't have to thank me.

388
00:15:19,570 --> 00:15:20,701
[doorbell rings]

389
00:15:20,745 --> 00:15:22,703
I'll get it.

390
00:15:22,746 --> 00:15:25,010
And just so you know,
you're in my will.

391
00:15:25,053 --> 00:15:27,143
When I die,
you get all my watches.

392
00:15:27,187 --> 00:15:29,493
I don't want to think
about you dying.All right.

393
00:15:29,537 --> 00:15:31,538
But how many watches
are we talking about?

394
00:15:31,581 --> 00:15:34,716
That is Mr. Wheeler.
Mr. Wheeler, this is...

395
00:15:34,759 --> 00:15:35,890
Destiny.

396
00:15:35,934 --> 00:15:37,066
Ms. Destiny.

397
00:15:37,110 --> 00:15:39,328
Douglas, I said no strippers.

398
00:15:39,373 --> 00:15:41,591
I was pissed off, I didn't know
we were gonna bond.

399
00:15:41,635 --> 00:15:43,115
Hi, Destiny. How's your mom?

400
00:15:43,158 --> 00:15:44,552
Eh.
Ah.

401
00:15:44,595 --> 00:15:46,770
Look, I'm sorry you had
to come all the way out here.

402
00:15:46,815 --> 00:15:49,034
Bob, please,
tell me you are not about

403
00:15:49,077 --> 00:15:51,298
to turn away
a guest in your home.

404
00:15:52,559 --> 00:15:54,996
Ms. Destiny, come, sit.

405
00:15:55,040 --> 00:16:00,089
We have food, we have drink,
we have antacids.

406
00:16:04,701 --> 00:16:05,921
Thank you.

407
00:16:05,965 --> 00:16:08,227
Tunde, why is there glitter
on your pants?

408
00:16:09,793 --> 00:16:12,057
Um, w-we...

409
00:16:12,100 --> 00:16:15,886
we were doing arts and crafts
at Bob's bachelor party.

410
00:16:15,931 --> 00:16:18,150
Oh, did the stripper
help you?

411
00:16:19,020 --> 00:16:20,326
[phone ringing]Ah.

412
00:16:20,370 --> 00:16:22,458
Who... wh-whose
phone is that?

413
00:16:22,503 --> 00:16:25,854
Uh, someone get the phone.

414
00:16:25,897 --> 00:16:27,202
It's Tayo.

415
00:16:29,552 --> 00:16:31,033
Hello?

416
00:16:31,076 --> 00:16:33,296
E karo,Abishola. How are you?

417
00:16:33,340 --> 00:16:34,731
I am good.

418
00:16:34,775 --> 00:16:37,038
We need to talk about
Dele's travel arrangements.

419
00:16:37,082 --> 00:16:38,779
Yes, we do.

420
00:16:40,738 --> 00:16:43,524
I think it's best if Dele
stays in Nigeria with me.

421
00:16:43,567 --> 00:16:44,960
Uh...

422
00:16:45,004 --> 00:16:47,135
You would have him miss
his own mother's wedding?

423
00:16:47,179 --> 00:16:48,485
Actually,

424
00:16:48,528 --> 00:16:50,748
I was talking about
more than the wedding.

425
00:16:50,792 --> 00:16:53,229
I think he should stay here
for the foreseeable future.

426
00:16:53,273 --> 00:16:54,926
What?

427
00:16:54,970 --> 00:16:57,581
Abishola, he wants to stay here.

428
00:16:57,625 --> 00:17:01,193
I know people, I can get him
in the best schools in Lagos.

429
00:17:01,236 --> 00:17:02,803
Put Dele on.

430
00:17:02,846 --> 00:17:05,414
I know this is hard to hear,
but this is where he belongs.

431
00:17:05,459 --> 00:17:08,722
Tayo, put my son
on the phone right now.

432
00:17:09,854 --> 00:17:11,290
Hold on.

433
00:17:11,334 --> 00:17:13,554
What's going on?

434
00:17:13,596 --> 00:17:15,295
He is trying to keep
Dele in Nigeria.

435
00:17:15,337 --> 00:17:16,904
For the wedding?Forever.

436
00:17:16,948 --> 00:17:18,298
Oluwa mi o.

437
00:17:18,340 --> 00:17:19,255
Mum?

438
00:17:19,298 --> 00:17:22,084
Dele, answer me honestly.

439
00:17:22,127 --> 00:17:24,433
Your father thinks
you should stay in Nigeria.

440
00:17:24,478 --> 00:17:26,219
Is this something you want?

441
00:17:29,221 --> 00:17:30,961
Dad says it's for the best.

442
00:17:31,006 --> 00:17:34,923
But is it what he wants
or what you want?

443
00:17:36,010 --> 00:17:37,403
Dele?

444
00:17:37,447 --> 00:17:40,015
You heard him. He wants to stay.

445
00:17:40,058 --> 00:17:42,409
You have no right to do this.

446
00:17:42,451 --> 00:17:44,846
Ah-ah. No right?
I am his father.

447
00:17:44,888 --> 00:17:46,542
This is what is best for Dele.

448
00:17:46,586 --> 00:17:48,414
Tayo, please.We will talk

449
00:17:48,458 --> 00:17:50,634
more about this when
you have calmed down. Goodbye.

450
00:17:50,677 --> 00:17:53,375
[exhales]What did he say?

451
00:18:00,644 --> 00:18:03,646
[crying softly]

452
00:18:03,691 --> 00:18:06,301
BOB [whispers]:
It's okay. It's okay.

453
00:18:15,268 --> 00:18:17,791
I'm so sorry we had
to postpone the wedding.

454
00:18:17,835 --> 00:18:19,228
Are you kidding?

455
00:18:19,271 --> 00:18:21,186
There can't be a wedding
without my best man.

456
00:18:21,230 --> 00:18:23,144
Hey.

457
00:18:23,189 --> 00:18:24,538
We're gonna
bring Dele home.

458
00:18:24,580 --> 00:18:26,800
Yes. We are.

459
00:18:27,801 --> 00:18:29,412
I don't want you to worry.

460
00:18:29,455 --> 00:18:31,935
Olu and I will be there
to fight for you.

461
00:18:31,980 --> 00:18:33,415
Isn't that right, Olu?

462
00:18:33,460 --> 00:18:35,635
Shh! I'm watching the Avengers.

463
00:18:52,653 --> 00:18:55,612
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