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Previously on
Bob Hearts Abishola...[phone ringing]

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Ah, that's my sister.
Hang on a second.

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Little busy,
Christina. What's up?

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CHRISTINA [over phone]:
Mom's acting really weird.

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What's that supposed to mean?

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We were having dinner and she
suddenly had trouble talking.

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Trouble how?

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She's slurring all her words.

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You called to tell me
Mom is drunk?

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Christina, this is Abishola.

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The African chick?

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Yes, the African chick.

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Point at an object
and ask your mother to name it.

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What's going on?

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[quietly]: Your mother
might be having a stroke.

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What you got there?

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Oh, it's a book I got
for Bob and his family.

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Stroke for Dummies?

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Is that a joke book,
like Garfield?

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No.

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It's just a way Americans
like to learn new things.

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There's Taxes for Dummies,
Auto Repairs for Dummies.

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Cooking for Dummies.

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Yeah, we're not shy
about being stupid.

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Speaking of.

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Sorry to bother you.
Do you have a minute?

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Yes, of course.

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Join us. Please sit.

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Ladies.

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Bob.

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Sock man.[laughter]

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This is for you.

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Aw, thank you.

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Oh, pictures, good.

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So, listen,

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they're sending my mom home
in a couple of days.

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Oh, that's wonderful news.Yeah.

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Anyway, I'm gonna
move her into my house

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so that I can take care of her,
but I'm gonna need some help.

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You're going to need
a lot of help.

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Until your mother
gets well, she cannot

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use the bathroom by herself,
bathe, eat, dress.

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GLORIA:
Basically, you got

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a 70-year-old baby who knows
how to bust your balls.

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Right, thanks.

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Look, I don't want
to hire a stranger,

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and you mentioned that you
sometimes do private care

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in people's homes,
so I was wondering

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if you would consider

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doing this for my mom.

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You want me to come
and work for you? In your home?

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I know it might be a little
awkward because we're...

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friends.

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[laughs] Friends?
You are way past friends.

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No, we are not.

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Didn't even hesitate.
Interesting.

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GLORIA:
Oh, forget all that.

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How much you paying her?Gloria.

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I got this, baby.

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Well, what's the going rate?

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[laughs]Oh, no, that's not how it works.

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You give me a number.

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All right. Just a minute.

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[scoffs]
I don't think so.

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Do you not love your mother?

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Yeah, I love her.

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Not at these prices.

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Take another swing, Sammy Sosa.

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Do I not have a say in this?BOTH: No.

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Better?

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We can work with this.

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Great.Hang on.

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She's gonna need cab fare.I can take the bus.

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You need cab fare.

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I need cab fare.

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I will happily reimburse her

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for any expenses she incurs
on the way to work.

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Why you talking to me?
Tell her.

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I will reimburse
all of your expenses.

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Are we good?

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We are good.

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Thank you.

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Okay.

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I'll leave you and your agents
to your lunch.

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I'll let you know
when I bring my mom home.All right.

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Bye.
Bye-bye.Nice doing business with you.

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That was fun.

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Can I see how much
he's paying me?

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Mm-hmm.

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Oh, my God.

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Minus our commission.

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["Ifanla" by Sola Akingbola
playing]

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[knocking on glass]

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[mouthing]

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[knocking on door]

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Hey. Come on in, fellas.

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E karo,Mr. Wheeler.

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How is your mother doing?

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Uh, thanks for asking,
but not so great.

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Oh, I'm sorry to hear that.
She's a wonderful woman.

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And she gives the longest hugs.

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That's...
I can't deal with that now.

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Please let us know
if there is anything

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we can do for you
and your family.

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That's what I wanted
to talk to you about.

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I need to stay with my
mom for a couple of days,

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until she gets settled,
so I was hoping

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you guys could keep an eye
on things for me while I'm gone.

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Well, of course we can.We will gladly work

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with your brother
and sister in your absence.

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You don't have to do that.

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Why not?

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Guys, please, it's just us.
We all know.

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Yes, we do.

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So, any questions, any problems,
do not hesitate.

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I'm available 24-7.

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Oh, that will not be necessary.

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We will take care of MaxDot
as if it were our own company.

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I appreciate that.
All right, I got to roll.

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Remember, anything you
need, you call me.

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Uh, send our best
wishes to your mother.

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Tell her that I am
thinking of her.

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I still can't deal with that.

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E karo,Auntie.
E karo,Uncle.

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E karo,Mummy. Karo.

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E karo,Dele.

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Ah, I know I said
we'd get you new shoes today,

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but I took on another job.

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I'm sorry, oko mi.

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What's wrong with the shoes
he has now?

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My feet are too big for them.

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So you're going to waste money?

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Tunde, give Dele
a pair of your shoes.

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I don't want to wear
Uncle Tunde's shoes.

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And Uncle Tunde does not
want to give them to you.

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Stop it, both of you.

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I'll take you shopping
as soon as I can.

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Yes, Mum.

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Thank you.

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Please, tell Bob we wish
his mother a speedy recovery.

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UNCLE TUNDE:
Mm-hmm.Mm. I will.

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Poor woman.
She has three healthy children,

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and they would rather pay
a stranger to take care of her

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than do it themselves.

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Shameful.

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This is the way it is
in America.

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Well, a country that does not
honor its elders

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cannot benefit
from their wisdom.

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Mm-hmm. It is also why
everyone is so unhappy.

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They live their lives knowing
that when they get old,

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they will be sent
to Fort Lauderdale.

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Or Phoenix.

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ABISHOLA:
All right.

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I am going to be late.

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Abishola, wait.
I'll walk you out.

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Dele, I just remembered,

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I have a pair of green
Hush Puppies that are very ugly.

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My gift to you.

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So, now that
you are working for Bob,

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what is the plan?Plan?

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For the courtship, the wedding,
the honeymoon cruise

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which Tunde and I will
be honored to accompany you on.

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I have no plan.

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Oh, stupid girl.

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All right, get to work.
Your auntie will make the plan.

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What would I do without you?

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You would die alone.
Bye-bye.

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Don't throw away the newspaper.

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We can put it in the toes
of my Hush Puppies.

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Ta-da!

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I want to go home.

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Come on, Mom. Just
give it a chance.

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I want to go home.

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But we made it
all comfy for you.

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I want to go home!

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But Mom, you've got
a bed that tilts up,

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you got a bathroom
with a nice high toilet seat

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and safety rails.

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A big screen TV with
all the movie channels.

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It's like handicapped
Barbie's Dreamhouse.

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I don't care.
I want to go home.

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I know. And you will.

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You just got to put up with
this for a little while

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until you get better.

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What if I don't get better?

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Don't say that.

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You're a strong woman.
You'll get through this.

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We'llget through
this, as a family.

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[doorbell rings]

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That's Abishola.Thank God.

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Hang in there.

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Hey.

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Hey!

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How are you feeling?

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Is there anything I can do
to make you more comfortable?

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Okay, don't talk to me.

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That's fine.
I'll leave you alone.

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Wait.

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Yes?

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P-Pillow.

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Where do you want it?
Under your arm?

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No.Your legs?

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No.Then where?

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Put it on my face.

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Excuse me?

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Push down hard and kill me.

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Please stop
talking nonsense.

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Come on.
I won't fight back.

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Smother me.

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I'm not going to do that.

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Oh, why?

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You don't pay me enough
to commit murder.

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Fine.
Get my purse.

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Stop it, Mrs. Wheeler.

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I understand you are depressed,
but this will pass.

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I'd smother you.

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I'm sure you would.

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[sobbing]

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It's okay.

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It's okay, huh?You don't understand.

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I'm really suffering.I know.

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But you have to keep
reminding yourself

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that this is just a setback.

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Yeah?
A temporary setback.

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I can't walk,
I can't use my arm.

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I sound like the elephant man.

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Who is the elephant man?

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Aw, google it!

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I'm going to make myself
something to eat.

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Can I get you anything?

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A chicken bone.

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I'm leaving.

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If you have any feelings
for me at all,

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you'd put me out
of my misery.

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I don't have any feelings
for you.

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May we have your attention?

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Hello?

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Please stop your work.

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Thank you.

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Supervisor Goodwin
has an announcement.

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Thank you,
Supervisor Kofo.

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Workers...

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as you may know,
Kofo and I

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have been entrusted
with the management

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of MaxDot Therapeutic
Hosiery.

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Thank you.

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In order to
increase productivity,

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we are going to make
some changes.

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Effectively
immediately,

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all workers will be limited

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to two bathroom breaks
per eight-hour shift.

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Those breaks[concerned murmurs]

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will be no longer
than five minutes.

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And, to ensure compliance,
no reading materials

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will be allowed
in the bathroom.

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Yes, Alan.

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Jerry.Jerry!

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What are you gonna do--
put a lock on the bathroom door?

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[laughs]
Yes.

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Any other
questions?

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I'm five months pregnant.
I got to pee when I got to pee.

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00:11:53,124 --> 00:11:54,996
I am a reasonable man.

263
00:11:55,039 --> 00:11:58,173
If you can provide
a recent sonogram

264
00:11:58,216 --> 00:12:00,697
to prove your
alleged pregnancy...

265
00:12:03,047 --> 00:12:05,049
...allowances will be made.

266
00:12:06,703 --> 00:12:09,140
But there is still
no reading on the toilet.

267
00:12:10,185 --> 00:12:11,534
Any other questions?

268
00:12:11,577 --> 00:12:13,057
Yeah, where's Mike?

269
00:12:13,101 --> 00:12:15,494
Michael did not share
our vision for the future,

270
00:12:15,538 --> 00:12:17,105
and had to be terminated.

271
00:12:18,584 --> 00:12:20,586
Let that be a warning
to all of you.

272
00:12:21,631 --> 00:12:22,763
All right.

273
00:12:22,806 --> 00:12:24,721
Everyone
back to work.

274
00:12:24,765 --> 00:12:26,288
May God bless our labors,

275
00:12:26,331 --> 00:12:28,333
and may God bless America.

276
00:12:28,377 --> 00:12:29,465
[grumbling]

277
00:12:30,858 --> 00:12:32,729
Really good.

278
00:12:34,949 --> 00:12:37,125
Come on, Mrs. Wheeler,
you can do it.

279
00:12:37,168 --> 00:12:38,474
I don't want to.

280
00:12:38,517 --> 00:12:40,345
It is important that
you try to feed yourself.

281
00:12:40,389 --> 00:12:42,913
No.Here, just take the spoon.

282
00:12:47,875 --> 00:12:49,006
Now, why did you do that?

283
00:12:49,050 --> 00:12:50,791
I don't want to eat.

284
00:12:50,834 --> 00:12:54,185
Well, you have to, so please,
let's try again.

285
00:12:55,665 --> 00:12:56,797
Go fetch.

286
00:12:58,363 --> 00:13:01,236
Mrs. Wheeler, I understand
that this is hard for you,

287
00:13:01,279 --> 00:13:03,107
but there's no reason for you
to make it hard for me.

288
00:13:03,151 --> 00:13:05,631
You don't tell me what's what.
I tell you.

289
00:13:05,675 --> 00:13:07,546
I do not think so.You don't think so?

290
00:13:07,590 --> 00:13:09,287
You need to know your place.

291
00:13:09,331 --> 00:13:12,464
Mrs. Wheeler,
I took this job

292
00:13:12,508 --> 00:13:14,162
to help your son
and to help you.

293
00:13:14,205 --> 00:13:16,033
If you'd rather have
somebody else, that's fine.

294
00:13:16,077 --> 00:13:17,426
All you have to do
is say so.

295
00:13:17,469 --> 00:13:18,862
I know about you.

296
00:13:18,906 --> 00:13:20,385
You people are all the same.

297
00:13:20,429 --> 00:13:21,604
You worm your way into our lives

298
00:13:21,647 --> 00:13:22,605
and take everything
we worked for.

299
00:13:22,648 --> 00:13:23,867
You are wrong.

300
00:13:23,911 --> 00:13:25,129
I do not want
anything from you.

301
00:13:25,173 --> 00:13:26,391
Where are you going?Home.

302
00:13:26,435 --> 00:13:28,089
You can't leave.
You work for me.

303
00:13:28,132 --> 00:13:29,481
Goodbye, Mrs. Wheeler.

304
00:13:29,525 --> 00:13:30,613
Get back here!

305
00:13:30,656 --> 00:13:32,920
Listen to this.

306
00:13:32,963 --> 00:13:35,096
Caregiving can result
in feelings of anger,

307
00:13:35,139 --> 00:13:37,533
resentment, abandonment,
fear and guilt.

308
00:13:37,576 --> 00:13:40,841
I am totally experiencing
all of that.

309
00:13:41,885 --> 00:13:42,843
If I wasn't so high,

310
00:13:42,886 --> 00:13:44,888
I'd be right there
with you.

311
00:13:44,932 --> 00:13:46,237
You're smoking pot?

312
00:13:46,281 --> 00:13:48,109
The book says
it helps with strokes.

313
00:13:48,152 --> 00:13:50,198
For the patient.

314
00:13:54,158 --> 00:13:55,856
Hey, how's it going in there?

315
00:13:55,899 --> 00:13:57,161
I'm sorry, but I must leave.

316
00:13:57,205 --> 00:13:58,467
What's wrong?

317
00:13:58,510 --> 00:14:00,121
Are you experiencing
feelings of abandonment,

318
00:14:00,164 --> 00:14:01,122
fear or guilt?

319
00:14:01,165 --> 00:14:02,514
I can help with that.

320
00:14:03,820 --> 00:14:05,300
I think your mother
would rather have

321
00:14:05,343 --> 00:14:06,867
somebody else
look after her.

322
00:14:06,910 --> 00:14:08,303
Aw, man, what'd she say?

323
00:14:08,346 --> 00:14:09,521
Not important.

324
00:14:09,565 --> 00:14:11,393
I'm sorry, but I think
it's best if I go.

325
00:14:11,436 --> 00:14:12,742
Y-You're coming back, though?

326
00:14:12,785 --> 00:14:15,179
No.Well, what are we
supposed to do?

327
00:14:15,223 --> 00:14:19,053
Try not to smother her.
It's what she wants.

328
00:14:22,056 --> 00:14:24,841
DOTTIE: [shouting]
Hello?!

329
00:14:24,885 --> 00:14:26,712
I'm hungry!

330
00:14:26,756 --> 00:14:29,150
Anybody gonna feed me?!

331
00:14:32,283 --> 00:14:33,894
All right, what the hell
did you say to Abishola?

332
00:14:33,937 --> 00:14:36,113
Don't be mean to me,
I'm dying.

333
00:14:36,157 --> 00:14:37,375
You're not dying.

334
00:14:37,419 --> 00:14:39,116
You may be killing
everyone around you,

335
00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:40,248
but you're not dying.

336
00:14:40,291 --> 00:14:42,119
You don't care about me.

337
00:14:42,163 --> 00:14:45,383
You're just mad I upset
your little girlfriend.

338
00:14:45,427 --> 00:14:46,558
Mom, you can't treat people...

339
00:14:46,602 --> 00:14:49,300
Don't you start with me.

340
00:14:49,344 --> 00:14:52,390
I was just gonna say
I love you.

341
00:14:52,434 --> 00:14:55,437
Look, I hired Abishola because
she's good at what she does,

342
00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:56,699
and she was gonna
help you get better.

343
00:14:56,742 --> 00:14:58,179
Now what are we
gonna do?

344
00:14:59,267 --> 00:15:01,617
Mom? Mom!

345
00:15:01,660 --> 00:15:05,316
Hang on, I'm peeing.

346
00:15:06,578 --> 00:15:07,971
Where are we going?

347
00:15:08,015 --> 00:15:09,799
It's a surprise.

348
00:15:09,842 --> 00:15:11,627
Are you putting me
in a home?

349
00:15:11,670 --> 00:15:13,977
Maybe.
We'll see how this goes.

350
00:15:14,021 --> 00:15:15,544
Bye, Mom.Love you.

351
00:15:19,504 --> 00:15:20,984
DOTTIE:
Where are we?

352
00:15:21,028 --> 00:15:22,986
What are we doing here?

353
00:15:23,030 --> 00:15:24,248
Don't worry about it.

354
00:15:24,292 --> 00:15:27,208
If anyone can hear me,
I'm being kidnapped!

355
00:15:34,432 --> 00:15:36,521
Bob.
What a lovely surprise.

356
00:15:36,565 --> 00:15:39,220
Olu, we have company.

357
00:15:40,177 --> 00:15:41,700
Who the hell was that?

358
00:15:41,744 --> 00:15:43,006
Uncle Tunde.

359
00:15:43,050 --> 00:15:45,269
Uncle what?

360
00:15:45,313 --> 00:15:48,185
E karo. Ek'ale.

361
00:15:48,229 --> 00:15:50,492
And who is this?

362
00:15:50,535 --> 00:15:52,276
This is my mother, Dottie.

363
00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:54,017
Hello, Dottie.

364
00:15:54,061 --> 00:15:55,540
Say hi to Uncle Tunde.

365
00:15:55,584 --> 00:15:57,978
Hi, Uncle Tunde.

366
00:15:59,022 --> 00:16:01,503
Bob! Welcome.

367
00:16:01,546 --> 00:16:04,419
Auntie. Mom, this
is Auntie Olu.

368
00:16:04,462 --> 00:16:06,334
What is happening?

369
00:16:08,466 --> 00:16:09,641
Bob, what's going on?

370
00:16:09,685 --> 00:16:12,296
My mother is here
to apologize to you.

371
00:16:12,340 --> 00:16:14,342
Bob, I'm sure
whatever your mother did,

372
00:16:14,385 --> 00:16:15,821
Abishola deserved.

373
00:16:16,692 --> 00:16:17,910
Thank you, Hulu.

374
00:16:17,954 --> 00:16:19,042
Olu.

375
00:16:19,086 --> 00:16:21,827
All right, Olu, Holu, Lulu...

376
00:16:23,264 --> 00:16:26,267
Go ahead, apologize.For what?

377
00:16:26,310 --> 00:16:28,443
There's a lot of
nursing homes in Phoenix,

378
00:16:28,486 --> 00:16:30,967
and I'm not paying
for a good one.

379
00:16:31,011 --> 00:16:33,883
Phoenix. I told you.

380
00:16:33,926 --> 00:16:35,798
Mom?

381
00:16:35,841 --> 00:16:37,365
Well, I'm not gonna do it

382
00:16:37,408 --> 00:16:40,324
with everybody gawking at me.

383
00:16:40,368 --> 00:16:41,325
Can we go in the kitchen?

384
00:16:41,369 --> 00:16:43,371
Of course.

385
00:16:43,414 --> 00:16:44,502
Nice to meet you, Doody.

386
00:16:44,546 --> 00:16:45,634
Dottie.

387
00:16:45,677 --> 00:16:47,549
I know.

388
00:16:56,340 --> 00:16:58,299
So you have something
to say to me?

389
00:16:59,909 --> 00:17:02,912
I'm sorry you're so sensitive.

390
00:17:02,955 --> 00:17:05,349
We are done here.

391
00:17:05,393 --> 00:17:06,481
No, wait.

392
00:17:11,138 --> 00:17:14,097
I don't know why
I said those things to you.

393
00:17:15,316 --> 00:17:17,231
They're terrible.

394
00:17:17,274 --> 00:17:19,668
Okay.

395
00:17:19,711 --> 00:17:21,409
You're a lovely girl.
You don't deserve

396
00:17:21,452 --> 00:17:23,585
to be treated like that.

397
00:17:25,152 --> 00:17:26,544
Thank you.

398
00:17:26,588 --> 00:17:28,068
It's just...

399
00:17:30,157 --> 00:17:31,854
I'm scared.

400
00:17:34,422 --> 00:17:37,120
I know.

401
00:17:37,164 --> 00:17:41,037
I can't feed myself,
I can't wash myself.

402
00:17:41,081 --> 00:17:44,519
I can't even
go to the bathroom by myself.

403
00:17:44,562 --> 00:17:47,087
I understand.

404
00:17:47,130 --> 00:17:49,872
It's hard,
losing your independence.

405
00:17:53,354 --> 00:17:55,834
I hope you can forgive me.

406
00:17:57,445 --> 00:17:58,837
Of course.

407
00:18:00,187 --> 00:18:01,449
Thank you.

408
00:18:04,495 --> 00:18:05,453
Have you eaten?

409
00:18:05,496 --> 00:18:07,281
No.

410
00:18:07,324 --> 00:18:09,674
We were about to have dinner.
Would you like to join us?

411
00:18:09,718 --> 00:18:12,329
Is it what I smelled
in the hall?

412
00:18:12,373 --> 00:18:13,330
Yes.

413
00:18:15,506 --> 00:18:16,507
Then no.

414
00:18:28,171 --> 00:18:30,869
Goodwin, Kofo.

415
00:18:30,913 --> 00:18:32,567
Oh, Mr. Wheeler. E karo. E karo.

416
00:18:32,610 --> 00:18:35,439
Yeah, yeah, e karo.
Where is everybody?

417
00:18:35,483 --> 00:18:37,049
Well, it is a long story.

418
00:18:37,093 --> 00:18:39,965
The good news is all those who
are loyal to you are still here.

419
00:18:40,009 --> 00:18:41,184
And the rest?

420
00:18:41,228 --> 00:18:43,447
Easily replaced.

421
00:18:43,491 --> 00:18:45,188
What the hell happened?

422
00:18:45,232 --> 00:18:47,190
I believe it is called
a walkout.

423
00:18:47,234 --> 00:18:48,235
They'll be back soon.

424
00:18:48,278 --> 00:18:50,367
They just went to have
signs printed.

425
00:18:50,411 --> 00:18:52,413
They're on strike?

426
00:18:52,456 --> 00:18:54,328
I was gone for one day.

427
00:18:54,371 --> 00:18:56,156
I'm sorry, Mr. Wheeler.

428
00:18:56,199 --> 00:18:58,984
The workers were intimidated
by a strong leader.

429
00:18:59,028 --> 00:19:02,074
Oh, a strong leader.
And what's your story?

430
00:19:03,032 --> 00:19:05,339
I tried to stop him,
but he was sick with power.

431
00:19:11,388 --> 00:19:13,390
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