1 00:00:09,073 --> 00:00:10,509 Thank you. - It's okay. 2 00:00:11,902 --> 00:00:14,513 It's gonna be okay. 3 00:00:14,557 --> 00:00:16,950 - Thank you for sitting here with me. 4 00:00:16,994 --> 00:00:19,083 I'm sorry I bothered you. 5 00:00:19,127 --> 00:00:20,824 - What? No. 6 00:00:20,867 --> 00:00:23,131 You're not a bother at all. 7 00:00:23,174 --> 00:00:24,567 I should have come sooner. 8 00:00:24,610 --> 00:00:26,830 I'm here for whatever you need. 9 00:00:26,873 --> 00:00:29,180 - Hey, I'm running out to pick up some diapers. 10 00:00:29,224 --> 00:00:30,529 - Yeah, sounds good, babe. 11 00:00:30,573 --> 00:00:32,053 - You want me to pick up some of those 12 00:00:32,096 --> 00:00:33,663 mini ice cream sandwiches we like? 13 00:00:33,706 --> 00:00:36,100 Or should we just commit to the full-size ones this time? 14 00:00:36,144 --> 00:00:38,581 You know what? I'll grab both. 15 00:00:42,237 --> 00:00:43,890 - Sorry you had to see that. 16 00:00:43,934 --> 00:00:45,501 I haven't cried that hard 17 00:00:45,544 --> 00:00:47,546 since "Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants." 18 00:00:47,590 --> 00:00:49,679 I guess my body just needed it. 19 00:00:49,722 --> 00:00:52,073 Feelings, am I right? 20 00:00:54,118 --> 00:00:55,467 - What are you doing? 21 00:00:55,511 --> 00:00:58,166 - Oh, I don't want David to worry. 22 00:01:02,996 --> 00:01:04,389 - David would wanna worry. 23 00:01:04,433 --> 00:01:06,043 I mean, the Clarkes love to worry. 24 00:01:06,087 --> 00:01:07,958 I don't know if you noticed, but it's kind of our thing. 25 00:01:08,001 --> 00:01:09,438 - Yeah, I'm well aware. 26 00:01:09,481 --> 00:01:11,440 David spent the first four months Miles was alive 27 00:01:11,483 --> 00:01:13,224 watching him breathe all night. 28 00:01:13,268 --> 00:01:16,009 - Maggie did that when I was a kid too. 29 00:01:16,662 --> 00:01:18,969 - Anyways, all good. 30 00:01:19,012 --> 00:01:20,971 Hey, do you want a snack? 31 00:01:21,014 --> 00:01:22,886 I'll go make us a night quiche. 32 00:01:25,976 --> 00:01:28,065 - I know you too well. 33 00:01:28,109 --> 00:01:29,327 I texted you three times this week. 34 00:01:29,371 --> 00:01:30,633 Why didn't you get back to me? 35 00:01:30,676 --> 00:01:33,114 In the morning. Uh-uh, you lying. 36 00:01:33,157 --> 00:01:35,290 You didn't do it. Why? 37 00:01:35,333 --> 00:01:37,161 That means you're lying. Come on, man. 38 00:01:37,205 --> 00:01:38,684 Three times I text you, you don't text-- 39 00:01:38,728 --> 00:01:40,773 Look, come on. Get it together. 40 00:01:40,817 --> 00:01:42,471 This is not how we roll. 41 00:01:42,514 --> 00:01:44,037 Uh-uh, you're a Haynes. 42 00:01:44,081 --> 00:01:45,561 Haynes are not quitters. 43 00:01:45,604 --> 00:01:47,737 Of course, calculus is calculus. 44 00:01:47,780 --> 00:01:49,782 It's hard. No, I-I didn't take it 45 00:01:49,826 --> 00:01:51,784 because I didn't want to be an engineer, like you. 46 00:01:51,828 --> 00:01:53,656 All right? Now just have a sensible breakfast. 47 00:01:53,699 --> 00:01:55,353 You hydrate. 48 00:01:55,397 --> 00:01:57,660 Buckle down. Do the work. 49 00:01:57,703 --> 00:01:59,314 Okay? Good. 50 00:01:59,357 --> 00:02:00,837 Love you, buddy. 51 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:02,534 Thank you. 52 00:02:02,578 --> 00:02:04,275 - Good morning. What was that 53 00:02:04,319 --> 00:02:06,277 and why did I like it so much? 54 00:02:06,321 --> 00:02:07,931 - That was called tough love. 55 00:02:07,974 --> 00:02:09,846 Heyo. 56 00:02:09,889 --> 00:02:11,804 My pops 57 00:02:11,848 --> 00:02:13,850 used to be the coach in the family. 58 00:02:13,893 --> 00:02:15,982 Yah...ooh! 59 00:02:16,026 --> 00:02:18,724 But now that he's gone, realized that I have to, 60 00:02:18,768 --> 00:02:20,944 you know, try to fill his shoes, and... 61 00:02:20,987 --> 00:02:22,989 cousin Kenan is slackin'. 62 00:02:23,033 --> 00:02:25,166 He's not drinking enough water. 63 00:02:26,732 --> 00:02:29,605 - I could use some of your coach energy right now. 64 00:02:29,648 --> 00:02:30,910 - Why? 65 00:02:30,954 --> 00:02:33,174 What's going on? 66 00:02:33,217 --> 00:02:34,871 - I feel like... 67 00:02:34,914 --> 00:02:37,221 something very bad is going on with Emily 68 00:02:37,265 --> 00:02:40,398 and I'm worried about her, but she doesn't want any help. 69 00:02:42,270 --> 00:02:44,446 - You think Kenan wanted my help? 70 00:02:44,489 --> 00:02:45,882 Look, if there's someone close to you 71 00:02:45,925 --> 00:02:47,840 and they're in need, you go to them. 72 00:02:47,884 --> 00:02:50,495 You say "We are going to work through this together." 73 00:02:50,539 --> 00:02:53,237 It's what a coach does. A good coach, anyway. 74 00:02:53,281 --> 00:02:54,673 - All right. 75 00:02:54,717 --> 00:02:57,023 I'm gonna go back to Emily, and I'm gonna try again. 76 00:02:57,067 --> 00:02:59,504 - Great, great. 77 00:02:59,548 --> 00:03:01,376 You go up there, you be direct, 78 00:03:01,419 --> 00:03:02,507 you keep fighting through the play, 79 00:03:02,551 --> 00:03:04,030 even if she tries to box you out. 80 00:03:04,074 --> 00:03:06,642 - I don't know what that means, but I still like it. 81 00:03:08,209 --> 00:03:10,167 It's hot. 82 00:03:15,303 --> 00:03:17,305 - What you doing here? 83 00:03:18,567 --> 00:03:20,351 - Ooh, hey, the iHeartRadio hologram tour 84 00:03:20,395 --> 00:03:21,700 is coming to town--you in? 85 00:03:21,744 --> 00:03:22,919 - Uh, it depends. 86 00:03:22,962 --> 00:03:25,356 Are Kurt Cobain and Bowie doing a collab? 87 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:26,836 - Oh, shoot. - What? 88 00:03:26,879 --> 00:03:29,578 - Ah, nothing. Never mind. It's, uh... 89 00:03:29,621 --> 00:03:31,406 It's after I leave, so... 90 00:03:31,449 --> 00:03:34,060 - Oh, right, yes, you'll be leaving by then. 91 00:03:34,104 --> 00:03:35,758 Heading back to New York, 92 00:03:35,801 --> 00:03:39,283 the city that... stays awake a lot. 93 00:03:39,327 --> 00:03:41,633 Oh, well. It'll be fun. 94 00:03:41,677 --> 00:03:43,679 - Hey, no-no-no, none of this. 95 00:03:43,722 --> 00:03:46,203 No, no sad face. It is fine. 96 00:03:46,247 --> 00:03:48,292 We just have to make the most of the time while I'm here. 97 00:03:48,336 --> 00:03:49,467 - Yeah, absolutely. 98 00:03:49,511 --> 00:03:51,730 I love pre-scheduling my breakups. 99 00:03:51,774 --> 00:03:53,079 - Okay, hold on. 100 00:03:53,123 --> 00:03:54,733 I thought we said we were gonna keep it casual. 101 00:03:54,777 --> 00:03:56,257 I'm pretty sure that's what we discussed. 102 00:03:56,300 --> 00:03:57,606 It was okay. - Yes, yes, 103 00:03:57,649 --> 00:03:59,216 and we will absolutely stick to that. 104 00:03:59,260 --> 00:04:00,652 One-hundo. 105 00:04:00,696 --> 00:04:02,915 'Cause no one loves being casual more than me. 106 00:04:02,959 --> 00:04:04,265 Truly. 107 00:04:04,308 --> 00:04:06,223 I am Mr. Casual. 108 00:04:06,267 --> 00:04:07,224 - Mr. Casual? 109 00:04:07,268 --> 00:04:09,052 - Uh-huh. - Uh-huh. 110 00:04:09,095 --> 00:04:10,575 - Oh, so sorry, sir. 111 00:04:10,619 --> 00:04:12,969 No socks and flip-flops in the establishment. 112 00:04:14,318 --> 00:04:16,973 What? I'm casual, not a monster. 113 00:04:18,366 --> 00:04:19,976 - Thank you. 114 00:04:21,891 --> 00:04:23,719 Well, Deb, 115 00:04:23,762 --> 00:04:25,329 they spelled your name right, 116 00:04:25,373 --> 00:04:28,332 but they thought my name was Peggy. 117 00:04:28,376 --> 00:04:31,292 - Oh, I think you stole Peggy's coffee. 118 00:04:31,335 --> 00:04:33,598 - Uh-oh. 119 00:04:33,642 --> 00:04:35,296 - I'm so glad you called. 120 00:04:35,339 --> 00:04:37,428 I haven't seen you since the funeral, 121 00:04:37,472 --> 00:04:39,169 and I thought you'd given up on the world 122 00:04:39,212 --> 00:04:42,825 and learned how to make candles and shampoo. 123 00:04:42,868 --> 00:04:44,783 How you doing? 124 00:04:44,827 --> 00:04:46,611 - Um, well, 125 00:04:46,655 --> 00:04:49,571 I recently had a not-so-great dinner 126 00:04:49,614 --> 00:04:53,052 with some of Mitch's and my couple of friends. 127 00:04:53,096 --> 00:04:57,840 - Oh, the dreaded posthumous "couples dinner." 128 00:04:57,883 --> 00:05:00,103 And did you feel like a third wheel? 129 00:05:00,146 --> 00:05:01,409 - Fifth. 130 00:05:01,452 --> 00:05:02,671 - And did they go back and forth 131 00:05:02,714 --> 00:05:04,368 from talking about all sorts of 132 00:05:04,412 --> 00:05:06,370 fun couples things they're doing, 133 00:05:06,414 --> 00:05:08,329 to giving you sad looks of pity? 134 00:05:08,372 --> 00:05:10,374 - Deb, where you there? Ha ha. 135 00:05:10,418 --> 00:05:12,594 - It's hard when old friends only see you now 136 00:05:12,637 --> 00:05:15,248 as "Widow Maggie." 137 00:05:15,292 --> 00:05:16,815 They mean well, but... 138 00:05:16,859 --> 00:05:18,426 they have no clue how it feels. 139 00:05:18,469 --> 00:05:20,471 - Mm. 140 00:05:20,515 --> 00:05:23,169 - Let's go sit. - Okay. 141 00:05:23,213 --> 00:05:25,607 No, they don't, 142 00:05:25,650 --> 00:05:27,870 which is why I decided 143 00:05:27,913 --> 00:05:30,046 it was time to reach out to you. 144 00:05:30,089 --> 00:05:31,961 - Well, good, 145 00:05:32,004 --> 00:05:36,357 because I don't see you as "Window Maggie" at all. 146 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:39,098 - How do you see me, Deb? 147 00:05:39,142 --> 00:05:41,492 - How do you want to be seen? 148 00:05:41,536 --> 00:05:43,973 As "Hot Maggie"? 149 00:05:44,016 --> 00:05:45,844 Or "Edgy Maggie"? 150 00:05:45,888 --> 00:05:48,151 Or "For a Good Time, Call Maggie"? 151 00:05:48,194 --> 00:05:50,893 - You know, I think anything other than 152 00:05:50,936 --> 00:05:54,462 "Still Not Ready to Change Our Outgoing Message" Maggie 153 00:05:54,505 --> 00:05:56,420 would be great. 154 00:05:56,464 --> 00:05:58,509 - Well, I am the expert, 155 00:05:58,553 --> 00:05:59,989 and I think we should get started, 156 00:06:00,032 --> 00:06:01,512 and I know just what we're going to do 157 00:06:01,556 --> 00:06:03,209 on our first night out. 158 00:06:03,253 --> 00:06:04,385 Uh, tomorrow work? 159 00:06:04,428 --> 00:06:05,864 - Friday night? 160 00:06:05,908 --> 00:06:07,997 I don't know. Let me check my sched-- 161 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:10,303 Yes, turns out I'm free. 162 00:06:10,347 --> 00:06:13,045 Yes. Where are we going? 163 00:06:13,089 --> 00:06:15,396 - Just dress to impress. 164 00:06:15,439 --> 00:06:18,224 Let me worry about the plans. 165 00:06:18,268 --> 00:06:20,618 - Mmm...yes. 166 00:06:20,662 --> 00:06:22,751 - "Peggy." 167 00:06:23,752 --> 00:06:25,144 - You coming over every night now? 168 00:06:25,188 --> 00:06:27,538 - You gonna wear those pants every day now? 169 00:06:27,582 --> 00:06:29,801 Where's Emily? Need to talk to her. 170 00:06:29,845 --> 00:06:31,716 - Uh, she's not home from work yet, 171 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:33,414 and these are my "house jeans." 172 00:06:33,457 --> 00:06:34,806 - Let me ask you a question. 173 00:06:34,850 --> 00:06:36,460 How do you think Emily's doing? 174 00:06:36,504 --> 00:06:38,027 Is there anything you're concerned about? 175 00:06:38,070 --> 00:06:40,812 - No, not really. She's doing great at work, 176 00:06:40,856 --> 00:06:43,293 she's baking up a storm, taking nightshifts with Miles, 177 00:06:43,336 --> 00:06:45,121 she's unstoppable. 178 00:06:46,644 --> 00:06:49,038 - Well, this day can suck it. 179 00:06:50,300 --> 00:06:52,345 I went to Golden Gate Pub to pick up our dinner, 180 00:06:52,389 --> 00:06:54,043 but someone else took our food, 181 00:06:54,086 --> 00:06:56,349 so I waited 30 minutes for them remake it, 182 00:06:56,393 --> 00:06:58,917 and I just realized they left out the tater tots. 183 00:06:58,961 --> 00:07:00,745 Without tots, what is the point? 184 00:07:00,789 --> 00:07:01,920 - Why don't you sit down and relax? 185 00:07:01,964 --> 00:07:03,182 I know you had a long day, so-- 186 00:07:03,226 --> 00:07:04,575 - No, no, I'm good, 187 00:07:04,619 --> 00:07:06,621 but if you want, you can help me with that 188 00:07:06,664 --> 00:07:09,711 seven-layer cake I made at 3:00 in the morning. 189 00:08:50,855 --> 00:08:52,378 - I said I'm good. 190 00:08:52,422 --> 00:08:55,643 I'm just gonna heat up some tots from the freezer. 191 00:08:55,686 --> 00:08:58,602 - See? I told you. She's unstoppable. 192 00:08:58,646 --> 00:09:00,865 - And I'm telling you, you're full of-- 193 00:09:08,525 --> 00:09:10,266 - Fine, you're right, okay? 194 00:09:10,309 --> 00:09:12,224 Something is going on with Emily. 195 00:09:12,268 --> 00:09:14,096 She's just very private, 196 00:09:14,139 --> 00:09:16,359 and I don't want to draw any attention to it. 197 00:09:16,402 --> 00:09:18,187 - So just tell me what it is. 198 00:09:18,230 --> 00:09:19,884 - I have no idea. 199 00:09:19,928 --> 00:09:21,799 Come here. 200 00:09:23,279 --> 00:09:25,063 Her behavior is all over the map, okay? 201 00:09:25,107 --> 00:09:27,805 Sometimes she gets up super early and rushes off to work 202 00:09:27,849 --> 00:09:29,415 and seems totally fine. 203 00:09:29,459 --> 00:09:30,634 Other times, she won't leave Miles' side 204 00:09:30,678 --> 00:09:32,201 and she bawls during yogurt commercials. 205 00:09:32,244 --> 00:09:34,290 - Well, that could happen to anybody. 206 00:09:34,333 --> 00:09:36,640 Listen, have you tried just being direct with Emily 207 00:09:36,684 --> 00:09:38,686 and asking her what's going on, because Simon says that's-- 208 00:09:38,729 --> 00:09:39,904 - Over and over again. 209 00:09:39,948 --> 00:09:41,819 Anytime I even try to get her to open up 210 00:09:41,863 --> 00:09:44,213 she just deflects and she says nothing wrong. 211 00:09:44,256 --> 00:09:45,606 And then she starts baking a cake, 212 00:09:45,649 --> 00:09:47,303 and then I get distracted, I start eating the cake, 213 00:09:47,346 --> 00:09:49,218 and that's why I'm wearing my house jeans. 214 00:09:50,915 --> 00:09:53,178 I just--I don't know, Zoey. I don't know... 215 00:09:53,222 --> 00:09:55,354 I don't know what else to do. 216 00:09:55,398 --> 00:09:57,313 - If the direct approach isn't working, 217 00:09:57,356 --> 00:09:58,793 then maybe we need to figure out another way 218 00:09:58,836 --> 00:10:00,359 to get through to Emily. 219 00:10:00,403 --> 00:10:02,274 Oh, I know! I know. - What? 220 00:10:02,318 --> 00:10:05,060 - What if we do one of our famous 221 00:10:05,103 --> 00:10:06,888 check-in chicken dinners. 222 00:10:06,931 --> 00:10:08,933 - Really? We haven't done that since we were kids. 223 00:10:08,977 --> 00:10:10,413 - Hey, it always worked for us. 224 00:10:10,456 --> 00:10:12,241 There is something about Mom's chicken parm 225 00:10:12,284 --> 00:10:13,851 in that incredible sauce-- 226 00:10:13,895 --> 00:10:15,461 - That sauce, yeah. 227 00:10:15,505 --> 00:10:17,420 Dad's soothing voice as he would go around the table 228 00:10:17,463 --> 00:10:18,726 and make us all discuss our feelings. 229 00:10:18,769 --> 00:10:21,598 - Hey, maybe that's what Emily needs. 230 00:10:21,642 --> 00:10:22,991 For her to hear that we're all going through stuff 231 00:10:23,034 --> 00:10:24,253 and that she's not alone. 232 00:10:24,296 --> 00:10:25,689 - Yeah, that's a great idea. 233 00:10:25,733 --> 00:10:27,082 - You and I, 234 00:10:27,125 --> 00:10:28,997 we're a good team, right? 235 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:30,476 We always found the hiding place 236 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:32,043 for our Christmas presents. 237 00:10:32,087 --> 00:10:34,045 - Damn right. There were no surprises under that tree. 238 00:10:34,089 --> 00:10:35,264 We ruined every single Christmas. 239 00:10:35,307 --> 00:10:37,440 - Oh, we definitely did. Yeah! 240 00:10:38,746 --> 00:10:41,836 - I think the Cinnamon Mo-caroons 241 00:10:41,879 --> 00:10:45,491 go best with the Mocha-chino, 242 00:10:45,535 --> 00:10:47,580 but is it really wise to name everything 243 00:10:47,624 --> 00:10:50,409 on the special "morning" menu after you? 244 00:10:50,453 --> 00:10:52,455 - Oh, baby, I didn't name the Mocha-chino, 245 00:10:52,498 --> 00:10:53,978 that's just what they're called. 246 00:10:54,022 --> 00:10:56,502 - Oh, then I support it. 247 00:10:56,546 --> 00:10:59,462 - Also, I want to apologize for not taking your 248 00:10:59,505 --> 00:11:02,334 son's stuffed animal crisis more seriously. 249 00:11:02,378 --> 00:11:03,771 I'm not a parent, 250 00:11:03,814 --> 00:11:06,251 and I just don't always get it right. 251 00:11:06,295 --> 00:11:07,688 - It's fine, Mo. 252 00:11:07,731 --> 00:11:09,646 - No, it's not, 253 00:11:09,690 --> 00:11:13,519 which is why I have been in serious training. 254 00:11:13,563 --> 00:11:15,652 I wanted you and Brad to feel comfortable with me 255 00:11:15,696 --> 00:11:20,004 around the children, so I got CPR certified, 256 00:11:20,048 --> 00:11:21,658 and I wanted to foster a puppy 257 00:11:21,702 --> 00:11:23,921 to prove that I could keep something alive, 258 00:11:23,965 --> 00:11:26,054 but there was a waitlist, so I got a hamster. 259 00:11:26,097 --> 00:11:27,403 - You got a hamster? 260 00:11:27,446 --> 00:11:29,318 - Jon Hammster. 261 00:11:29,361 --> 00:11:30,928 Keep your voice down. He's sleeping. 262 00:11:30,972 --> 00:11:33,017 We got into a fight earlier, 263 00:11:33,061 --> 00:11:34,627 and he's a little angry at me. 264 00:11:34,671 --> 00:11:36,499 Also, 265 00:11:36,542 --> 00:11:38,719 I'm performing this weekend at church, 266 00:11:38,762 --> 00:11:40,242 and I thought it'd be a good place 267 00:11:40,285 --> 00:11:43,288 to invite August and Amirah to meet me? 268 00:11:43,332 --> 00:11:45,769 Unless you think it's too soon. 269 00:11:45,813 --> 00:11:48,293 - It's not that I don't want to. 270 00:11:48,337 --> 00:11:50,687 It just hasn't been that long since my divorce, 271 00:11:50,731 --> 00:11:52,123 and I haven't introduced anyone to the kids yet. 272 00:11:52,167 --> 00:11:54,082 - Hm. - They're still young 273 00:11:54,125 --> 00:11:56,301 and they get attached quickly, 274 00:11:56,345 --> 00:12:00,915 and until we're 100%... 275 00:12:00,958 --> 00:12:02,525 Hmm? - I get it. 276 00:12:02,568 --> 00:12:04,005 I do. - Thank you. 277 00:12:04,048 --> 00:12:05,267 - No problem. 278 00:12:09,619 --> 00:12:11,229 - Oh, and just so we're clear, 279 00:12:11,273 --> 00:12:13,362 I am not introducing you to Jon Hammster 280 00:12:13,405 --> 00:12:15,451 until I'm ready either. 281 00:12:32,424 --> 00:12:34,905 - This is delicious. 282 00:12:34,949 --> 00:12:37,734 I don't think I psychically sat down for a meal in days. 283 00:12:37,778 --> 00:12:40,171 - Yeah, this was our favorite meal when we were kids. 284 00:12:40,215 --> 00:12:42,695 Mom and Dad used to make it after a tough week, 285 00:12:42,739 --> 00:12:45,568 and we would all just let our guards down 286 00:12:45,611 --> 00:12:47,396 and talk about what we were going through. 287 00:12:47,439 --> 00:12:50,181 - And we called it check-in chicken dinner, 288 00:12:50,225 --> 00:12:54,185 'cause we felt like that was kind of a fun name. 289 00:12:54,229 --> 00:12:55,534 - It's so fun. 290 00:12:55,578 --> 00:12:58,102 - Just 'cause check-in and chicken are similar. 291 00:12:58,146 --> 00:13:01,540 So since we've all been going through our own stuff, 292 00:13:01,584 --> 00:13:03,238 obviously, we thought it was a good idea 293 00:13:03,281 --> 00:13:04,413 to bring back the tradition. 294 00:13:04,456 --> 00:13:06,067 So, you wanna-- you wanna go first? 295 00:13:06,110 --> 00:13:07,982 - I would love to, thank you. 296 00:13:08,025 --> 00:13:10,985 As we all know, I am in this new relationship 297 00:13:11,028 --> 00:13:14,162 with Simon, and... 298 00:13:14,205 --> 00:13:15,903 I'm scared. - Yeah. 299 00:13:15,946 --> 00:13:18,383 - But I'm also cautiously optimistic. 300 00:13:18,427 --> 00:13:20,298 So, who's next? 301 00:13:22,257 --> 00:13:24,912 - Oh, I'll go. 302 00:13:24,955 --> 00:13:27,479 So, let's see, I mean, these past few months 303 00:13:27,523 --> 00:13:29,786 I've been feeling 304 00:13:29,830 --> 00:13:32,441 pretty awful, but, you know, also 305 00:13:32,484 --> 00:13:33,877 kind of amazing. 306 00:13:33,921 --> 00:13:37,359 I don't know if that's, like, right or wrong. 307 00:13:37,402 --> 00:13:39,840 I'm really sad about Dad 308 00:13:39,883 --> 00:13:41,667 and, um, but I'm also really happy 309 00:13:41,711 --> 00:13:43,756 to be spending all this time with Miles 310 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:46,411 and, so... 311 00:13:46,455 --> 00:13:48,239 it's just hard to reconcile those two things. 312 00:13:48,283 --> 00:13:50,198 Um... 313 00:13:50,241 --> 00:13:52,635 Ah, whew, all right. 314 00:13:52,678 --> 00:13:55,812 I'm glad I opened up. I... 315 00:13:55,856 --> 00:13:57,858 I feel lighter. - Good. 316 00:13:57,901 --> 00:13:59,294 - Yeah, it works. 317 00:13:59,337 --> 00:14:01,078 - Who's, uh, who's next? 318 00:14:01,122 --> 00:14:02,427 all: Emily? 319 00:14:07,824 --> 00:14:09,391 - Do... 320 00:14:09,434 --> 00:14:11,480 do you hear that? 321 00:14:11,523 --> 00:14:13,961 Hold that thought. 322 00:14:29,890 --> 00:14:31,848 - Well, then no need to stay here. 323 00:14:36,766 --> 00:14:38,159 - I'm kind of busy right now, Deb. 324 00:14:47,124 --> 00:14:48,821 - I love cheap thrills. 325 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:21,071 - Hey, look who stopped by. 326 00:15:22,246 --> 00:15:24,683 - Hi, everyone. 327 00:15:24,727 --> 00:15:26,990 Oh, you must be David and Emily. 328 00:15:27,034 --> 00:15:28,949 - Yeah, and you must be the famous Deb. 329 00:15:28,992 --> 00:15:30,341 - Infamous, doll. 330 00:15:30,385 --> 00:15:32,822 The correct word is infamous. 331 00:15:32,865 --> 00:15:34,693 You ready to hit the town, Mags? 332 00:15:34,737 --> 00:15:37,348 - Deb, I'm so sorry, but I sent you a text. 333 00:15:37,392 --> 00:15:39,046 Did you not get it? 334 00:15:39,089 --> 00:15:40,395 - Oh, shoot. 335 00:15:40,438 --> 00:15:42,832 I'm on a digital cleanse... 336 00:15:42,875 --> 00:15:45,226 which started when my grand-niece 337 00:15:45,269 --> 00:15:47,228 locked me out of my phone. 338 00:15:47,271 --> 00:15:48,751 - Oh, um, 339 00:15:48,794 --> 00:15:51,449 could we go out maybe tomorrow night instead? 340 00:15:51,493 --> 00:15:54,235 - Actually, Deb, why don't you join us? 341 00:15:54,278 --> 00:15:55,584 We have more than enough food. 342 00:15:55,627 --> 00:15:56,933 - Yes. Stay. 343 00:15:56,977 --> 00:15:59,675 - Deb, as great as it is to see you, 344 00:15:59,718 --> 00:16:02,199 we were kind of in the middle of something. 345 00:16:02,243 --> 00:16:03,592 - Zoey, don't be rude. 346 00:16:03,635 --> 00:16:06,290 Please sit, Deb, and tell us all about 347 00:16:06,334 --> 00:16:07,988 that grand-niece of yours. 348 00:16:08,031 --> 00:16:11,078 - Oh, Hannah is as cute as they come. 349 00:16:11,121 --> 00:16:14,429 But as bad as it is to call a five-year-old a lost cause, 350 00:16:14,472 --> 00:16:16,518 well, there, I said it. 351 00:16:16,561 --> 00:16:18,650 - Here, have some of that. 352 00:16:31,228 --> 00:16:33,404 - Hey. - Hey. 353 00:16:33,448 --> 00:16:35,232 - I was gonna surprise you for breakfast, 354 00:16:35,276 --> 00:16:37,669 but you're already up. 355 00:16:39,149 --> 00:16:40,629 You are studying. 356 00:16:40,672 --> 00:16:42,065 Why are you Googling the cerebral cortex 357 00:16:42,109 --> 00:16:43,284 at 8:00 a.m. on a Saturday? 358 00:16:43,327 --> 00:16:45,112 - Because I'm still trying to help Emily. 359 00:16:45,155 --> 00:16:47,505 Hey, oh, do you know anything about 360 00:16:47,549 --> 00:16:50,247 selective serotonin re-uptake inhibitors? 361 00:16:50,291 --> 00:16:52,162 - No. Are yours okay? 362 00:16:52,206 --> 00:16:55,078 - Mm, debatable. 363 00:16:55,122 --> 00:16:57,167 This woman we know, Deb, interrupted dinner, 364 00:16:57,211 --> 00:16:59,561 and Emily just basically shut us out, 365 00:16:59,604 --> 00:17:03,086 and I think that, based on my research, 366 00:17:03,130 --> 00:17:06,220 she's suffering from postpartum depression? 367 00:17:08,135 --> 00:17:09,571 - Okay, look, 368 00:17:09,614 --> 00:17:10,789 you tried to help her, 369 00:17:10,833 --> 00:17:12,095 you did the Cheeky Chicken dinner thing. 370 00:17:12,139 --> 00:17:13,618 But maybe you just need to step back 371 00:17:13,662 --> 00:17:15,446 and let Emily come to you when she's ready. 372 00:17:15,490 --> 00:17:16,317 - No. 373 00:17:16,360 --> 00:17:18,710 If I don't do anything, 374 00:17:18,754 --> 00:17:20,234 bad things happen. 375 00:17:20,277 --> 00:17:21,974 The medium said that I need to pay more attention 376 00:17:22,018 --> 00:17:23,367 to the people in my life, 377 00:17:23,411 --> 00:17:25,674 and Emily's the darkest case. 378 00:17:25,717 --> 00:17:27,284 - Case? 379 00:17:27,328 --> 00:17:28,851 - Case... - Mm-hmm. 380 00:17:28,894 --> 00:17:31,201 - Study...in depression 381 00:17:31,245 --> 00:17:32,637 that I've ever seen, 382 00:17:32,681 --> 00:17:34,204 and I don't know what to do about that. 383 00:17:34,248 --> 00:17:35,858 I'm not a professional, but I do know how to read, 384 00:17:35,901 --> 00:17:37,338 so I am reading. 385 00:17:37,381 --> 00:17:38,991 Do you know how many pages there are in this book? 386 00:17:39,035 --> 00:17:40,384 - Okay, I can see that, 387 00:17:40,428 --> 00:17:42,908 hey, you're trying really hard to help her, but... 388 00:17:43,779 --> 00:17:45,824 If you're patient, she will come to you. 389 00:17:45,868 --> 00:17:47,087 They always do. 390 00:17:47,130 --> 00:17:49,176 Give Emily some time to marinate on it, 391 00:17:49,219 --> 00:17:51,787 and until then, relax. 392 00:17:51,830 --> 00:17:53,832 Lay back, 393 00:17:53,876 --> 00:17:55,312 feet, 394 00:17:55,356 --> 00:17:57,967 and connect with someone you really care about 395 00:17:58,010 --> 00:18:00,012 who some people say is handsome. 396 00:18:00,056 --> 00:18:01,231 - Really? People say that? 397 00:18:01,275 --> 00:18:03,712 - Every once in a while. Yeah. 398 00:18:03,755 --> 00:18:05,235 Have a quiet, 399 00:18:05,279 --> 00:18:07,846 intimate evening at home. 400 00:18:07,890 --> 00:18:10,588 - That's a... 401 00:18:10,632 --> 00:18:12,373 great idea. 402 00:18:12,416 --> 00:18:15,767 I will do a "girls night" with Emily. 403 00:18:15,811 --> 00:18:17,378 - That's not where I was going with that. 404 00:18:17,421 --> 00:18:19,336 - We will rock the fuzzy slippers, 405 00:18:19,380 --> 00:18:22,122 we will eat tons of junk food, 406 00:18:22,165 --> 00:18:24,036 and when I'm French braiding her hair, 407 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:26,256 that's when I'll pounce. 408 00:18:28,606 --> 00:18:29,868 Thank you. 409 00:18:29,912 --> 00:18:31,174 - You're welcome. 410 00:18:31,218 --> 00:18:33,394 Glad I could help. 411 00:18:34,830 --> 00:18:36,353 - Well, well, well. 412 00:18:36,397 --> 00:18:38,877 Perry's leaving his clothes here now. 413 00:18:38,921 --> 00:18:40,836 Looks like things are 414 00:18:40,879 --> 00:18:42,707 heating up with the fireman. 415 00:18:42,751 --> 00:18:44,274 - First of all, calm down and have some respect. 416 00:18:44,318 --> 00:18:45,710 He's a fire marshal. 417 00:18:45,754 --> 00:18:47,538 Second of all, 418 00:18:47,582 --> 00:18:48,974 Perry has the kids tonight, and you know he's not 419 00:18:49,018 --> 00:18:51,542 letting me anywhere near them, so I'm stuck at home 420 00:18:51,586 --> 00:18:53,718 with two straight men and a surly hamster. 421 00:18:53,762 --> 00:18:56,199 - Well, I'm glad you guys decided to do this. 422 00:18:56,243 --> 00:18:58,549 I feel bad about bailing on Simon for Emily, 423 00:18:58,593 --> 00:19:01,596 but I just-- I have to do this my own way. 424 00:19:01,639 --> 00:19:02,597 She needs me. 425 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:03,989 - Well, sweetie, what do you need? 426 00:19:04,033 --> 00:19:05,948 - Me? - Yeah. 427 00:19:05,991 --> 00:19:07,515 - I don't need anything. I'm fine. 428 00:19:07,558 --> 00:19:09,560 - Honey, your cuticles are screaming at me, 429 00:19:09,604 --> 00:19:11,083 telling me a whole nother story. 430 00:19:11,127 --> 00:19:13,303 Oof. Fix that. 431 00:19:18,003 --> 00:19:20,180 - Gooooo... 432 00:19:20,223 --> 00:19:22,051 whatever team Simon's rooting for! 433 00:19:22,094 --> 00:19:23,444 Whoo! 434 00:19:23,487 --> 00:19:24,880 - Uh, thanks for the support, 435 00:19:24,923 --> 00:19:27,143 but don't you have a girls' night to go run off to? 436 00:19:27,187 --> 00:19:29,667 - Yeah, it's about to go down. 437 00:19:29,711 --> 00:19:31,582 I mean, did you not see the slippers? 438 00:19:31,626 --> 00:19:34,106 They're bunnies, and they're best friends. 439 00:19:35,978 --> 00:19:37,327 - Hey, sorry I'm late. 440 00:19:37,371 --> 00:19:39,199 I dropped a couple beers down the stairs, 441 00:19:39,242 --> 00:19:40,243 but if we wait three to four hours, 442 00:19:40,287 --> 00:19:41,636 the fizz will settle down, 443 00:19:41,679 --> 00:19:43,420 so fingers crossed for overtime. 444 00:19:43,464 --> 00:19:46,641 - Hey, no Rose tonight? - Nope. She is her own person, 445 00:19:46,684 --> 00:19:49,209 I'm my own person, and that's how we keep things 446 00:19:49,252 --> 00:19:50,427 cool and casual. 447 00:19:50,471 --> 00:19:51,950 - She was busy tonight, wasn't she? 448 00:19:51,994 --> 00:19:53,517 - Yeah, she had a thing and she couldn't get a plus one. 449 00:19:53,561 --> 00:19:56,259 - Okay, well, you guys have fun. 450 00:19:56,303 --> 00:19:59,219 Will you walk me out? - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 451 00:20:00,611 --> 00:20:02,613 - Please don't be mad at me. 452 00:20:02,657 --> 00:20:04,136 I just have to try one more time with Emily 453 00:20:04,180 --> 00:20:05,703 and then I'll back off, I promise. 454 00:20:05,747 --> 00:20:07,139 - All good. You guys have fun. 455 00:20:07,183 --> 00:20:08,706 I totally understand. 456 00:20:08,750 --> 00:20:10,665 - Thank you. 457 00:20:46,309 --> 00:20:50,574 all: 458 00:21:24,869 --> 00:21:28,133 all: 459 00:21:39,580 --> 00:21:41,669 - I'm gonna go now. 460 00:21:43,540 --> 00:21:46,891 You all, um, you know, be good to each other, 461 00:21:46,935 --> 00:21:49,198 and if anyone is, uh, 462 00:21:49,241 --> 00:21:51,809 in pain...in any way, 463 00:21:51,853 --> 00:21:53,376 maybe do a little check-in at intermission. 464 00:21:53,420 --> 00:21:54,682 There's an intermission in this sport? 465 00:21:54,725 --> 00:21:55,944 Bye. 466 00:22:01,210 --> 00:22:03,386 - This is what you wanted to do 467 00:22:03,430 --> 00:22:05,301 on our wild night out? 468 00:22:05,345 --> 00:22:07,738 Go to a casino and lose all our money? 469 00:22:07,782 --> 00:22:11,742 - This is the perfect place to try and reinvent yourself. 470 00:22:11,786 --> 00:22:14,571 No one's looking at you as "Widow Maggie" here. 471 00:22:14,615 --> 00:22:16,268 - Oh, you know what? 472 00:22:16,312 --> 00:22:18,096 You are right. 473 00:22:18,140 --> 00:22:20,011 I can be anyone I wanna be. 474 00:22:20,055 --> 00:22:21,404 - Exactly. - Okay. 475 00:22:21,448 --> 00:22:23,319 - Plus, they have surprisingly good crab legs. 476 00:22:23,363 --> 00:22:24,494 - Ah. 477 00:22:24,538 --> 00:22:27,584 - Hello, Vivienne. Welcome back. 478 00:22:27,628 --> 00:22:30,413 - Looking good, Fred. 479 00:22:30,457 --> 00:22:32,937 My friend here 480 00:22:32,981 --> 00:22:35,331 needed a little escape. 481 00:22:35,375 --> 00:22:37,333 - What's your name, and where you from? 482 00:22:41,293 --> 00:22:43,208 - I'm Savannah... 483 00:22:43,252 --> 00:22:45,863 - From... 484 00:22:45,907 --> 00:22:47,996 Savannah. 485 00:22:48,039 --> 00:22:50,346 Savannah from Savannah. 486 00:22:50,390 --> 00:22:52,653 - Deal the cards, Fred. 487 00:22:54,219 --> 00:22:55,873 - Okayyyy, 488 00:22:55,917 --> 00:22:57,397 girls' night! 489 00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:58,833 We're girls. Quick, quick. 490 00:22:58,876 --> 00:23:01,531 Oh, yeah, take a hit off this cookie dough. 491 00:23:01,575 --> 00:23:03,881 - Thanks for doing this with me. 492 00:23:03,925 --> 00:23:05,317 My friends are either all about work 493 00:23:05,361 --> 00:23:06,971 or all about their own babies, 494 00:23:07,015 --> 00:23:09,931 so you are the perfect single, childless partner for tonight. 495 00:23:09,974 --> 00:23:13,630 - Thank you. Wanna take off your coat and get comfy? 496 00:23:13,674 --> 00:23:16,851 - Why? You wanna pregame before we go? 497 00:23:20,507 --> 00:23:22,160 - Oh, 498 00:23:22,204 --> 00:23:24,467 you meant 499 00:23:24,511 --> 00:23:26,077 that... 500 00:23:26,121 --> 00:23:27,775 kind of girls' night. 501 00:23:27,818 --> 00:23:29,516 Oh, uh, 502 00:23:29,559 --> 00:23:31,213 I was kind of thinking, like, 503 00:23:31,256 --> 00:23:33,215 girls' night in. 504 00:23:33,563 --> 00:23:36,218 - Uh, Zoey, 505 00:23:36,261 --> 00:23:38,525 you have no idea how much I need to dance it out. 506 00:23:38,568 --> 00:23:39,961 - Dance it-- 507 00:23:40,004 --> 00:23:41,484 - So, you're gonna have to change. Immediately. 508 00:23:41,528 --> 00:23:43,312 - Okay. 509 00:23:55,237 --> 00:23:56,543 - What? I can't believe the bouncer 510 00:23:56,586 --> 00:23:57,979 let you in with that bag. 511 00:23:58,022 --> 00:23:59,981 It's like you snuck Miles into your purse. 512 00:24:00,024 --> 00:24:01,417 - It's my breast pump, 513 00:24:01,461 --> 00:24:03,941 so I can pump and dump until the sunrise. 514 00:24:03,985 --> 00:24:06,509 - Oh, hey, why don't we get our drinks 515 00:24:06,553 --> 00:24:09,599 back in that nice lounge in the other room? 516 00:24:09,643 --> 00:24:11,471 That way we can relax a little 517 00:24:11,514 --> 00:24:13,429 and talk one on one. 518 00:24:13,473 --> 00:24:14,865 - I can barely even hear what you're saying. 519 00:24:14,909 --> 00:24:17,346 Let's get drunk! - Uh... 520 00:24:17,389 --> 00:24:20,349 - Mm! Look, your little sports team's up by 10. 521 00:24:20,392 --> 00:24:22,743 - Whoo, whoo! - Oh, yeah, we're pulling away. 522 00:24:23,352 --> 00:24:25,354 - What is going on? Because if I'm the one 523 00:24:25,397 --> 00:24:27,051 that's excited about sports, something is deeply wrong. 524 00:24:27,095 --> 00:24:28,400 Max! - Yeah? 525 00:24:28,444 --> 00:24:29,663 - You've almost texted Rose nine times. 526 00:24:29,706 --> 00:24:32,230 - Yeah, but I didn't, because I'm casual. 527 00:24:32,274 --> 00:24:33,928 - And Simon, please stop looking over 528 00:24:33,971 --> 00:24:35,364 at Zoey's apartment like a lost puppy 529 00:24:35,407 --> 00:24:36,670 waiting for their owner to come home. 530 00:24:36,713 --> 00:24:38,019 - Mm. 531 00:24:38,062 --> 00:24:40,195 - What is going on? And clearly the tribalism 532 00:24:40,238 --> 00:24:41,762 of organized sports isn't helping. 533 00:24:41,805 --> 00:24:43,328 - So-- - So, 534 00:24:43,372 --> 00:24:44,678 how about we shake things up? 535 00:24:44,721 --> 00:24:46,331 Alexa... 536 00:24:46,375 --> 00:24:48,638 start my spa mood routine. 537 00:24:48,682 --> 00:24:50,901 - Okay. 538 00:24:50,945 --> 00:24:53,817 - Ohh... 539 00:24:57,255 --> 00:25:00,041 Isn't that relaxing? 540 00:25:00,084 --> 00:25:02,565 - A little bit. - Mm-hmm. 541 00:25:02,609 --> 00:25:04,480 - Now, please, 542 00:25:04,524 --> 00:25:06,221 let's do some real talk, 543 00:25:06,264 --> 00:25:09,093 and tell auntie Mo-Mo what's wrong. 544 00:25:09,746 --> 00:25:12,575 - Oh, lucky 21! 545 00:25:12,619 --> 00:25:15,578 The age I was when I married Mr. Du Bois. 546 00:25:15,622 --> 00:25:16,797 - Oh, I remember that. 547 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:18,189 That was a fun night. 548 00:25:18,233 --> 00:25:20,104 - What part of Savannah are you from, Savannah? 549 00:25:21,279 --> 00:25:26,589 - Um, I'm kind of from the central part, 550 00:25:26,633 --> 00:25:29,418 and, uh, 551 00:25:29,461 --> 00:25:31,289 also a little bit the northern part. 552 00:25:31,333 --> 00:25:34,554 The whole north central region. 553 00:25:34,597 --> 00:25:36,556 - So Thomas Square? Or Fernwood? 554 00:25:36,599 --> 00:25:39,080 - Right on the border. 555 00:25:39,123 --> 00:25:41,735 Right on the border. - Of which one? 556 00:25:41,778 --> 00:25:43,258 They don't connect. 557 00:25:43,301 --> 00:25:47,044 - Okay, I'm parched. 558 00:25:47,088 --> 00:25:49,786 Savannah, why don't we get ourselves 559 00:25:49,830 --> 00:25:52,484 a libation. - Okay. 560 00:25:53,790 --> 00:25:55,705 Good luck, y'all. 561 00:25:58,969 --> 00:26:00,275 Oh, man. 562 00:26:00,318 --> 00:26:01,972 I am so bad at this. 563 00:26:02,016 --> 00:26:05,889 - No, no, you just need a little more liquid courage. 564 00:26:05,933 --> 00:26:07,587 - Ladies. 565 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:15,725 - Whoo! Girls night! 566 00:26:15,769 --> 00:26:19,511 Zoey, let's body roll. 567 00:26:19,555 --> 00:26:21,470 - Yeah, let's! 568 00:26:21,513 --> 00:26:24,038 And then we can have a deep heart-to-heart. 569 00:26:24,081 --> 00:26:26,693 Also fun. 570 00:26:31,306 --> 00:26:33,177 - I just really don't understand 571 00:26:33,221 --> 00:26:35,484 how I'm supposed to get to know Perry as a person 572 00:26:35,527 --> 00:26:38,269 if I don't see him as a father. 573 00:26:38,313 --> 00:26:41,795 I mean, I made out with a CPR dummy for that man. 574 00:26:41,838 --> 00:26:43,927 - The age gap, the kids, 575 00:26:43,971 --> 00:26:45,407 the ex-- you're going through a lot 576 00:26:45,450 --> 00:26:47,322 to make it work with this guys. 577 00:26:47,365 --> 00:26:50,238 - Listen, Simon, when you truly connect with someone, 578 00:26:50,281 --> 00:26:53,328 you will do anything to make it work. 579 00:26:53,371 --> 00:26:55,547 - You know what? You're right. 580 00:26:55,591 --> 00:26:56,679 I mean, 581 00:26:56,723 --> 00:26:58,899 just because a relationship isn't easy 582 00:26:58,942 --> 00:27:00,814 doesn't mean that it's not worth it, 583 00:27:00,857 --> 00:27:03,120 regardless of the challenges. 584 00:27:03,164 --> 00:27:05,209 - Do you know what else is worth it? 585 00:27:05,253 --> 00:27:07,821 - What? - Foot baths. 586 00:27:07,864 --> 00:27:09,910 - Yes. - Yaaaass. 587 00:27:09,953 --> 00:27:13,261 - Yes! I love this song. 588 00:27:13,304 --> 00:27:14,958 - I think it's time to go. 589 00:27:15,002 --> 00:27:19,049 - As soon as this song is over. - Okay, this song... 590 00:27:19,093 --> 00:27:21,965 has been playing for an hour and a half. 591 00:27:22,009 --> 00:27:23,706 Okay, I'm gonna get some water, 592 00:27:23,750 --> 00:27:25,186 then we're out of here. 593 00:27:37,894 --> 00:27:39,591 - Okay, round two. 594 00:27:39,635 --> 00:27:41,724 I think I've got the hang of it. 595 00:27:41,768 --> 00:27:43,378 You just follow my lead. 596 00:27:43,421 --> 00:27:46,033 I want to put 50 on red. 597 00:27:46,076 --> 00:27:49,384 Hey, I'm Sheila from Long Island, 598 00:27:49,427 --> 00:27:51,386 and this is my friend, Liz, 599 00:27:51,429 --> 00:27:54,041 and we're celebrating because this girl 600 00:27:54,084 --> 00:27:56,739 just got outta prison. 601 00:27:56,783 --> 00:27:59,786 - It sure beats stamping license plates. 602 00:27:59,829 --> 00:28:01,570 I'm gonna kill you. 603 00:28:01,613 --> 00:28:03,746 - And that's what she was in for. 604 00:28:03,790 --> 00:28:05,400 No, it wasn't at all. 605 00:28:05,443 --> 00:28:07,141 It was tax evasion. 606 00:28:07,184 --> 00:28:08,708 I had you there, didn't I, no? 607 00:28:08,751 --> 00:28:09,883 Just tax evasion. 608 00:28:09,926 --> 00:28:12,233 - No more bets. 609 00:28:12,276 --> 00:28:14,148 - Come on. Come on, red. Come on, red. 610 00:28:14,191 --> 00:28:15,889 Come on, red! 611 00:28:15,932 --> 00:28:18,326 - Red, red, red, red... 612 00:28:18,369 --> 00:28:19,762 - Whoo! Whoo! - Ah! 613 00:28:19,806 --> 00:28:20,981 - 36, red. 614 00:28:21,024 --> 00:28:22,417 - Bada bing, bada boom. 615 00:28:22,460 --> 00:28:24,767 - Yeah, go, Yankees! 616 00:28:26,595 --> 00:28:27,944 - Mmm. 617 00:28:27,988 --> 00:28:30,991 - Yeah, so, like I was saying, 618 00:28:31,034 --> 00:28:32,949 they put me on this committee 619 00:28:32,993 --> 00:28:35,822 to help recruit new, diverse members for the board. 620 00:28:35,865 --> 00:28:38,215 So, change is happening, 621 00:28:38,259 --> 00:28:40,261 and that has taken a huge chunk of time. 622 00:28:40,304 --> 00:28:41,784 And time I'm not doing that, 623 00:28:41,828 --> 00:28:44,004 I just want to spend it with Zoey, 624 00:28:44,047 --> 00:28:46,441 but she... 625 00:28:46,484 --> 00:28:48,138 she will not let me in. 626 00:28:48,182 --> 00:28:51,141 And this is going to sound crazy... 627 00:28:52,055 --> 00:28:56,016 But you ever get the sense that Zoey has this... 628 00:28:56,059 --> 00:28:58,105 supernatural 629 00:28:58,148 --> 00:29:02,109 ability to know 630 00:29:02,152 --> 00:29:04,285 exactly what you're thinking? 631 00:29:06,766 --> 00:29:07,854 - No. - No. 632 00:29:07,897 --> 00:29:09,333 - No idea what you're talking about. 633 00:29:09,377 --> 00:29:10,900 - Not at all. I don't know what you're talking about. 634 00:29:10,944 --> 00:29:12,162 Alexa, stop spa mode. 635 00:29:12,206 --> 00:29:13,598 - Okay. - Attagirl. 636 00:29:13,642 --> 00:29:14,469 - Okay. 637 00:29:21,041 --> 00:29:23,565 - Hey, Zoey, check it out. 638 00:29:23,608 --> 00:29:25,959 This guy is super into me. 639 00:29:26,002 --> 00:29:28,309 Mama's still got it. 640 00:29:28,352 --> 00:29:31,181 Hey, do you know a good place for tacos? 641 00:29:31,225 --> 00:29:33,314 Breakfast tacos. 642 00:29:33,357 --> 00:29:35,272 - I think you got something going on 643 00:29:35,316 --> 00:29:36,926 on your, uh... 644 00:29:36,970 --> 00:29:38,406 - Oh. 645 00:29:38,449 --> 00:29:39,929 I'm a mom, that's why. 646 00:29:39,973 --> 00:29:41,496 It's just a little bit of breast milk. 647 00:29:41,539 --> 00:29:43,324 It's not a big deal, you know? 648 00:29:43,367 --> 00:29:44,891 - You want me to get some paper towels? 649 00:29:44,934 --> 00:29:47,415 - Yeah, I think I need to pump, actually. 650 00:29:47,458 --> 00:29:49,025 - Oh, okay. - Yeah. 651 00:29:49,069 --> 00:29:50,766 - Your purse. - Oh, thanks. 652 00:29:50,810 --> 00:29:52,942 Bye. - Bye! 653 00:29:57,686 --> 00:29:59,253 - Everything okay in there? 654 00:29:59,296 --> 00:30:01,733 You need anything? - Almost finished. 655 00:30:01,777 --> 00:30:04,388 Then we can go dance it out before they fill up again. 656 00:30:04,432 --> 00:30:05,650 - Okay, Emily, 657 00:30:05,694 --> 00:30:07,304 you don't have to keep doing this. 658 00:30:07,348 --> 00:30:09,872 It's just me. 659 00:30:09,916 --> 00:30:12,266 I know how much 660 00:30:12,309 --> 00:30:14,355 you're hurting. 661 00:30:20,317 --> 00:30:22,493 Emily? 662 00:31:48,275 --> 00:31:50,494 - It's okay. 663 00:31:50,538 --> 00:31:53,715 We're gonna be okay. 664 00:31:59,460 --> 00:32:02,854 - Eyyy, feels like they're walking on clouds, huh? 665 00:32:02,898 --> 00:32:05,901 And they're also pretty good listeners. 666 00:32:05,945 --> 00:32:09,339 - I'm sorry you had to witness another one of my breakdowns. 667 00:32:09,383 --> 00:32:11,951 - Please don't be sorry. You've been... 668 00:32:11,994 --> 00:32:14,605 trying to handle this alone for too long. 669 00:32:14,649 --> 00:32:16,129 So... 670 00:32:17,217 --> 00:32:20,046 Can we please talk about what's going on? 671 00:32:27,531 --> 00:32:29,359 I've been... 672 00:32:29,403 --> 00:32:32,275 going through these bouts of anxiety 673 00:32:32,319 --> 00:32:35,365 and depression for a while now. 674 00:32:37,019 --> 00:32:39,630 I thought it was "baby blues" 675 00:32:39,674 --> 00:32:42,807 which passes after a few weeks. 676 00:32:42,851 --> 00:32:47,073 When it didn't, I figured... 677 00:32:47,116 --> 00:32:50,293 when Miles starts sleeping through the night, 678 00:32:50,337 --> 00:32:54,819 or when I went back to work I'd feel better. 679 00:32:54,863 --> 00:32:56,996 But it just got worse. 680 00:32:57,039 --> 00:33:00,129 I can't sleep when Miles is asleep. 681 00:33:00,173 --> 00:33:02,740 I can't focus when... 682 00:33:03,785 --> 00:33:06,657 I'm not home with him, but then when I am home with him, 683 00:33:06,701 --> 00:33:08,964 I just want to... 684 00:33:09,008 --> 00:33:12,098 cry or run away, 'cause.. 685 00:33:14,404 --> 00:33:17,538 I can't help but think he'd be better off without me. 686 00:33:19,931 --> 00:33:22,456 - I'm... 687 00:33:22,499 --> 00:33:26,068 I'm so sorry to hear that, but, no, 688 00:33:26,112 --> 00:33:28,331 you're a great mom, 689 00:33:28,375 --> 00:33:31,204 and Miles is lucky to have you. 690 00:33:31,247 --> 00:33:35,077 - I know that logically, but... 691 00:33:38,037 --> 00:33:40,909 I don't feelthat. 692 00:33:43,390 --> 00:33:45,131 You know, when you have a baby, 693 00:33:45,174 --> 00:33:49,483 it's like your body becomes this...machine, 694 00:33:49,526 --> 00:33:52,051 and when it short circuits, just-- 695 00:33:54,923 --> 00:33:57,839 - Have you talked about this 696 00:33:57,882 --> 00:33:59,710 with your doctor? 697 00:33:59,754 --> 00:34:01,495 What about David? 698 00:34:04,150 --> 00:34:06,935 - You guys just lost your dad. 699 00:34:06,978 --> 00:34:10,634 David's still mourning, and I feel weird 700 00:34:10,678 --> 00:34:13,942 or selfish 701 00:34:13,985 --> 00:34:16,162 talking about my own stuff right now. 702 00:34:16,205 --> 00:34:18,686 He's got enough to worry about. 703 00:34:21,123 --> 00:34:23,125 - He's your husband 704 00:34:23,169 --> 00:34:25,388 and he loves you. 705 00:34:25,432 --> 00:34:28,261 And you have the right to feel the way you're feeling, too. 706 00:34:30,306 --> 00:34:33,004 - I've just been able conquer anything I put my mind to, 707 00:34:33,048 --> 00:34:35,006 you know? 708 00:34:35,050 --> 00:34:37,879 I should be able to get over... 709 00:34:37,922 --> 00:34:39,968 this. 710 00:34:48,890 --> 00:34:52,023 - I so understand feeling that way. 711 00:34:55,157 --> 00:34:57,681 But here's the thing. 712 00:34:57,725 --> 00:35:00,684 Maybe some problems 713 00:35:00,728 --> 00:35:04,297 are too big for us to handle on our own. 714 00:35:09,998 --> 00:35:12,131 - Just a friendly reminder 715 00:35:12,174 --> 00:35:14,437 that our clothing drive is ongoing. 716 00:35:14,481 --> 00:35:16,047 Deacon Miller will be collecting 717 00:35:16,091 --> 00:35:18,702 before and after service for the next three weeks. 718 00:35:18,746 --> 00:35:20,574 - Hey. - Hey. 719 00:35:20,617 --> 00:35:22,576 - Sorry I'm late. - No worries. 720 00:35:22,619 --> 00:35:26,188 Mo hasn't sung yet. Everything okay with Emily? 721 00:35:26,232 --> 00:35:28,625 - I mean, I just dropped her off at her house, 722 00:35:28,669 --> 00:35:30,975 and I wouldn't say everything's okay, 723 00:35:31,019 --> 00:35:33,152 but I think she's finally acknowledging 724 00:35:33,195 --> 00:35:34,936 that something's wrong. 725 00:35:34,979 --> 00:35:36,677 - That's a good step. 726 00:35:39,201 --> 00:35:40,724 Are you okay? - Yeah, I'm okay. 727 00:35:40,768 --> 00:35:43,031 It was a long night. I'm better now. 728 00:35:43,074 --> 00:35:44,511 - All right. 729 00:35:44,554 --> 00:35:45,860 - I'd like to speak to all of you this morning 730 00:35:45,903 --> 00:35:47,470 about support. 731 00:35:48,471 --> 00:35:50,778 Who do you turn to for help? 732 00:35:52,432 --> 00:35:54,260 I'm not just talking about prayer. 733 00:35:54,303 --> 00:35:56,653 I'm asking who in this room 734 00:35:56,697 --> 00:35:59,569 do you turn to? 735 00:35:59,613 --> 00:36:02,181 We aren't just meant to lean on God. 736 00:36:03,486 --> 00:36:05,619 We're meant to lean on each other. 737 00:36:07,708 --> 00:36:10,058 Galatians 6:2 tells us to 738 00:36:10,101 --> 00:36:12,843 "Carry each other's burdens." 739 00:36:12,887 --> 00:36:15,150 So please join me 740 00:36:15,194 --> 00:36:17,718 as we hear from the choir 741 00:36:17,761 --> 00:36:19,894 and think about 742 00:36:19,937 --> 00:36:23,202 who shoulders your burdens. 743 00:37:02,502 --> 00:37:06,941 all: 744 00:38:02,953 --> 00:38:04,607 - Looks like Mo's... 745 00:38:04,651 --> 00:38:07,262 Mo's song hit you pretty hard, huh? 746 00:38:07,306 --> 00:38:08,829 - The song, 747 00:38:08,872 --> 00:38:10,396 the sermon... 748 00:38:10,439 --> 00:38:13,355 caught me a little off-guard to tell you the truth. 749 00:38:15,009 --> 00:38:17,359 Do you want your handkerchief back? 750 00:38:17,403 --> 00:38:18,926 - Ooh... 751 00:38:18,969 --> 00:38:21,363 you can hold on to that. 752 00:38:22,973 --> 00:38:24,888 But-- 753 00:38:24,932 --> 00:38:26,890 you have Coach Simon on speed dial 754 00:38:26,934 --> 00:38:28,544 if you need a pep talk. 755 00:38:28,588 --> 00:38:30,154 - Oh, I think I'd rather have 756 00:38:30,198 --> 00:38:33,114 a nice, chill day with my boyfriend. 757 00:38:33,157 --> 00:38:35,421 - Ah, I like the sound of that. 758 00:38:35,464 --> 00:38:36,987 Wanna take a trip up to Sausalito, 759 00:38:37,031 --> 00:38:39,120 be the only interracial couple? 760 00:38:39,163 --> 00:38:41,557 - Very much, yes. - All right. 761 00:38:41,601 --> 00:38:42,863 - You were great. 762 00:38:42,906 --> 00:38:45,431 - What changed your mind? 763 00:38:45,474 --> 00:38:47,607 - I thought what better way to introduce them to you 764 00:38:47,650 --> 00:38:49,609 than doing what you love. 765 00:38:49,652 --> 00:38:52,089 August, Amirah, this is Mo, 766 00:38:52,133 --> 00:38:53,961 my friend. 767 00:38:54,004 --> 00:38:57,399 - Yes, I am your dad's friend. 768 00:38:57,443 --> 00:39:00,184 We met at work while he was saving me from fires. 769 00:39:00,228 --> 00:39:01,838 Do you know what "platonic" means? 770 00:39:01,882 --> 00:39:03,405 - Too much. Reel it in. - Okay. 771 00:39:03,449 --> 00:39:05,973 - Are you a famous pop star? You sing like one. 772 00:39:06,016 --> 00:39:07,278 - I like your braids. 773 00:39:07,322 --> 00:39:09,629 Daddy, can I do my hair like that? 774 00:39:09,672 --> 00:39:12,675 - Ooh, I really like them. 775 00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:14,416 You don't do their hair, do you? 776 00:39:14,460 --> 00:39:16,940 - No. - Hm. 777 00:39:25,819 --> 00:39:28,169 - So I am very intrigued 778 00:39:28,212 --> 00:39:29,997 by this text that you sent me. 779 00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:32,391 What is this thing that you have for me? 780 00:39:34,436 --> 00:39:36,003 A lanyard? 781 00:39:36,046 --> 00:39:37,570 - When we were in camp, 782 00:39:37,613 --> 00:39:38,919 I was too scared to give that to you, 783 00:39:38,962 --> 00:39:40,877 and then you ended up at the end of summer dance 784 00:39:40,921 --> 00:39:43,227 with Ryan Hartman, of all people, instead of me. 785 00:39:43,271 --> 00:39:47,188 - Yeah, sorry. Ryan did wear ribbed tank-tops 786 00:39:47,231 --> 00:39:49,190 and smelled like Armani Exchange cologne, 787 00:39:49,233 --> 00:39:51,366 so you need really did stand a chance. 788 00:39:51,410 --> 00:39:52,411 - I get it. I get it. 789 00:39:52,454 --> 00:39:54,021 I totally get that. 790 00:39:54,064 --> 00:39:56,153 which is why I don't want to risk 791 00:39:56,197 --> 00:39:59,330 not telling you how I feel again. 792 00:39:59,809 --> 00:40:02,029 I don't want to be casual with you, Rose. 793 00:40:02,072 --> 00:40:05,380 That's not me. I-I'm not Mr. Casual. 794 00:40:05,424 --> 00:40:08,122 And just because you're headed back East 795 00:40:08,165 --> 00:40:10,254 doesn't mean that this has to end. 796 00:40:12,474 --> 00:40:13,867 - Oh, thank God. 797 00:40:13,910 --> 00:40:16,696 - What? 798 00:40:16,739 --> 00:40:19,176 - I have been trying to play it cool 799 00:40:19,220 --> 00:40:21,091 because I didn't want to pressure you. 800 00:40:21,135 --> 00:40:22,353 I-- - Seriously? 801 00:40:22,397 --> 00:40:23,877 - Yeah, yes, yes. 802 00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:26,053 I would very much like to keep this going. 803 00:40:26,096 --> 00:40:28,098 - Oh, good. - I-- 804 00:40:28,142 --> 00:40:30,013 You've been worried about this? 805 00:40:30,057 --> 00:40:32,059 - Mm-hmm. - Oh, man. 806 00:40:32,102 --> 00:40:34,061 Did you keep this the whole time? 807 00:40:34,104 --> 00:40:35,889 - No, I made that this morning. 808 00:40:35,932 --> 00:40:37,238 Still got it. 809 00:40:37,281 --> 00:40:39,936 - You're a big dork. - Yeah, well. 810 00:40:41,634 --> 00:40:43,070 - Be honest. 811 00:40:43,113 --> 00:40:46,116 How many drunk messages did I leave you last night? 812 00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:47,553 - Four. 813 00:40:47,596 --> 00:40:49,380 One featuring a guy named Clay 814 00:40:49,424 --> 00:40:51,861 who you swore was not your type. 815 00:40:51,905 --> 00:40:55,125 - A phone is a weapon in my hands. 816 00:40:55,169 --> 00:40:57,563 - I'm really glad that you enjoyed yourself. 817 00:40:57,606 --> 00:40:59,390 - So... 818 00:40:59,434 --> 00:41:01,480 I have something I need to tell you. 819 00:41:01,523 --> 00:41:05,396 Something I definitely should have said sooner. 820 00:41:07,964 --> 00:41:10,358 I think I have postpartum depression. 821 00:41:13,535 --> 00:41:14,754 - Okay. 822 00:41:14,797 --> 00:41:17,583 - I need help. 823 00:41:17,626 --> 00:41:20,586 Professional help. 824 00:41:20,629 --> 00:41:22,805 - Okay. 825 00:41:22,849 --> 00:41:25,025 I'm here. 826 00:41:25,068 --> 00:41:27,897 Whatever you need. 827 00:41:40,562 --> 00:41:44,305 - Peggy from Long Island, welcome back. 828 00:41:44,348 --> 00:41:46,089 Will you friend be joining you tonight? 829 00:41:46,133 --> 00:41:48,570 - Um, no, it's just me. 830 00:41:48,614 --> 00:41:51,747 And my name is Maggie. 831 00:42:01,670 --> 00:42:03,977 - So... 832 00:42:08,198 --> 00:42:11,637 What brings you in today? 833 00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:14,074 - I have a superpower, 834 00:42:14,117 --> 00:42:17,120 and I think it might be ruining my life.