1 00:00:01,689 --> 00:00:03,024 VICTOR: Dear Simon, 2 00:00:03,024 --> 00:00:04,943 when I came out in front of the whole school, 3 00:00:04,943 --> 00:00:07,320 I said I didn't care what people think... 4 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:09,531 ‐ Yes, queen! 5 00:00:09,531 --> 00:00:12,033 VICTOR: But people sure don't mind telling me what they think. 6 00:00:12,033 --> 00:00:14,494 ‐ I want you to know that I see you. 7 00:00:15,745 --> 00:00:16,996 ‐ Thanks. 8 00:00:16,996 --> 00:00:18,623 ‐ Love is love. 9 00:00:18,623 --> 00:00:21,751 VICTOR: It's like coming out gave everyone an excuse to share their opinion. 10 00:00:21,751 --> 00:00:24,921 Or to get my opinion about things I know nothing about. 11 00:00:24,921 --> 00:00:26,506 ‐ Hey, girl! 12 00:00:26,506 --> 00:00:27,757 ‐ Me? 13 00:00:27,757 --> 00:00:29,342 ‐ What do you moisturize with? 14 00:00:29,968 --> 00:00:31,761 ‐ Water. ‐ Water? 15 00:00:32,428 --> 00:00:34,472 [laughs] 16 00:00:34,472 --> 00:00:37,809 Fine, don't share with us your flawless skin secrets, bitch! 17 00:00:38,726 --> 00:00:40,103 ‐ Okay. [chuckles] 18 00:00:42,981 --> 00:00:44,566 I never thought coming out would be 19 00:00:44,566 --> 00:00:47,318 an invitation for strangers to talk to me. 20 00:00:47,318 --> 00:00:51,281 Or that the people I used to talk to would suddenly feel like strangers. 21 00:00:51,698 --> 00:00:53,366 COACH FORD: Hey, Salazar! 22 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:55,702 Do you mind if we chat? 23 00:00:55,702 --> 00:00:57,912 ‐ Um, yeah, sure. 24 00:01:00,623 --> 00:01:02,333 COACH FORD: First day of practice. 25 00:01:02,333 --> 00:01:04,252 How's my star player? 26 00:01:04,252 --> 00:01:05,837 ‐ Uh, excited. 27 00:01:05,837 --> 00:01:07,839 I've been practicing my jump shot all summer. 28 00:01:07,839 --> 00:01:08,923 ‐ Great. 29 00:01:13,636 --> 00:01:18,433 So, um, I heard about your recent announcement. 30 00:01:18,433 --> 00:01:22,645 ‐ [chuckles] Yeah. It's okay. We, we really don't have to talk about it. 31 00:01:22,645 --> 00:01:26,316 ‐ Listen, I think it's awesome. I really do. Um... 32 00:01:26,316 --> 00:01:28,401 I mean, I'm basically gay, myself. 33 00:01:28,401 --> 00:01:31,362 I've been living with my best friend Mike for twenty years, 34 00:01:31,362 --> 00:01:34,657 and we share a SodaStream, so... 35 00:01:35,909 --> 00:01:37,911 Okay, um... 36 00:01:37,911 --> 00:01:41,080 The point I'm trying to make is that I want you 37 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,499 to feel comfortable and safe 38 00:01:43,499 --> 00:01:46,544 both on the court, and in the locker room. 39 00:01:46,544 --> 00:01:48,463 And also, uh, in fact, 40 00:01:48,463 --> 00:01:52,383 if‐if you would now like to maybe change away from the other guys, 41 00:01:52,383 --> 00:01:54,093 I mean, we could figure that out. 42 00:01:54,093 --> 00:01:58,223 I actually have an empty coach's office that nobody's using. 43 00:01:58,223 --> 00:01:59,515 It's got its own shower. 44 00:01:59,515 --> 00:02:01,309 I mean, you'd have your own changing area! 45 00:02:01,309 --> 00:02:03,394 I mean, Steph Curry doesn't even have that. 46 00:02:03,394 --> 00:02:05,480 ‐ Uh, thanks, but I'll just keep 47 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:07,607 showering and changing with the rest of the team. 48 00:02:07,607 --> 00:02:10,360 ‐ Victor, um... [chuckles nervously] 49 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:12,695 It's, it's not a big deal, but, uh, 50 00:02:12,695 --> 00:02:14,864 there have been some complaints. 51 00:02:15,448 --> 00:02:18,284 ‐ Complaints about me changing with the team? 52 00:02:19,035 --> 00:02:21,788 ‐ I'm just trying to keep everybody happy, okay? 53 00:02:21,788 --> 00:02:23,915 So would you think about it? 54 00:02:24,707 --> 00:02:26,125 You're a good kid, Victor. 55 00:02:26,125 --> 00:02:28,294 And I'm very proud of you. 56 00:02:28,294 --> 00:02:30,880 I'll see you at practice. Go, Grizzlies. 57 00:02:34,509 --> 00:02:37,053 ‐ ♪ Somebody to tell me it'll be all right ♪ 58 00:02:37,053 --> 00:02:39,973 ♪ Somebody to tell me it'll be just fine ♪ 59 00:02:39,973 --> 00:02:43,434 ♪ If someone has been there before, say it right now ♪ 60 00:02:43,434 --> 00:02:45,770 ♪ 'Cause I just need to hear it ♪ 61 00:02:47,897 --> 00:02:51,192 ♪ 62 00:02:51,192 --> 00:02:53,820 TYLER [over phone]: I still don't get what you're going for. 63 00:02:53,820 --> 00:02:58,616 ‐ Um, if I say it's a, a, a physical manifestation 64 00:02:58,616 --> 00:03:01,828 of the metaphysical human experience, 65 00:03:01,828 --> 00:03:05,081 does that make me pretentious? 66 00:03:05,498 --> 00:03:09,335 ‐ Very. But it also makes you pretty cool. 67 00:03:10,336 --> 00:03:12,213 Where are you, anyway? 68 00:03:12,213 --> 00:03:14,841 Why are you working there instead of the campus studio? 69 00:03:14,841 --> 00:03:18,636 ‐ Um, so I'm in a, a warehouse off‐campus. 70 00:03:18,636 --> 00:03:20,972 That's a really nice sketch. 71 00:03:20,972 --> 00:03:25,518 ‐ Thanks. It's a surrealist take on my parents' backyard. 72 00:03:25,518 --> 00:03:27,520 ‐ How much longer are you gonna hide out in here during lunch 73 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,314 because you're avoiding Victor‐‐ 74 00:03:29,314 --> 00:03:32,400 [scribbling] TYLER [over phone]: And that's the totally non‐obnoxious way 75 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:34,485 I'll fail to be the next Kehinde Wiley. 76 00:03:34,485 --> 00:03:37,113 ‐ That is so, uh, thought‐provoking. 77 00:03:37,113 --> 00:03:38,781 Uh, what are you up to tonight? 78 00:03:38,781 --> 00:03:40,408 ‐ I need to finish this piece, 79 00:03:40,408 --> 00:03:44,746 but, uh, there's a party on Buck Row I was maybe gonna hit up. Why? 80 00:03:44,746 --> 00:03:47,165 ‐ Um, no reason. I, um, 81 00:03:47,165 --> 00:03:50,293 I'm mean, I'm probably gonna just be working, too, 82 00:03:50,293 --> 00:03:52,629 but, uh, maybe send me the deets, 83 00:03:52,629 --> 00:03:54,881 and if I finish early, I'll stop by. 84 00:03:55,632 --> 00:03:57,300 ‐ Sounds like a plan. 85 00:03:58,259 --> 00:03:59,677 Bye, Mia. 86 00:03:59,677 --> 00:04:02,013 ‐ Bye. [phone beeps] 87 00:04:02,639 --> 00:04:04,807 [Lake squeals, laughs] Was that cool? 88 00:04:04,807 --> 00:04:07,936 ‐ Um, making art while seducing older men? 89 00:04:07,936 --> 00:04:09,187 You are literally Beyoncé. 90 00:04:09,187 --> 00:04:12,315 ‐ I just got invited to a college party. 91 00:04:12,315 --> 00:04:14,484 Wait. Okay, if I'm a cool college kid, 92 00:04:14,484 --> 00:04:16,402 I need some cool college friends, 93 00:04:16,402 --> 00:04:18,821 so are you and Felix down to come? 94 00:04:18,821 --> 00:04:20,657 ‐ Yes. We need a fun night out. 95 00:04:20,657 --> 00:04:21,866 Now come have lunch with us 96 00:04:21,866 --> 00:04:23,785 so we can plan our college party looks. 97 00:04:24,827 --> 00:04:26,913 ‐ Oh, no... 98 00:04:26,913 --> 00:04:29,165 This was for my grandma. 99 00:04:32,126 --> 00:04:33,545 ‐ Oops. 100 00:04:35,088 --> 00:04:37,215 [indistinct chatter] 101 00:04:45,932 --> 00:04:47,433 ‐ Rainbow sprinkles. 102 00:04:47,433 --> 00:04:49,602 A little on the nose, right? [chuckles] 103 00:04:49,602 --> 00:04:51,354 ‐ Okay, let's get started. 104 00:04:52,063 --> 00:04:53,648 Welcome to PFLAG. 105 00:04:54,524 --> 00:04:57,402 For our first timers, this is a support group 106 00:04:57,402 --> 00:05:01,573 for parents, families, and allies of LGBTQ people. 107 00:05:01,573 --> 00:05:04,576 My name is Jack. My son Simon came out a few years back, 108 00:05:04,576 --> 00:05:08,037 and we're here to talk about how great, and weird, 109 00:05:08,037 --> 00:05:09,455 and complicated coming out can be. 110 00:05:09,455 --> 00:05:11,499 Not just for the people doing it... 111 00:05:11,499 --> 00:05:13,251 but for all of us. 112 00:05:13,251 --> 00:05:15,086 Uh, sir. 113 00:05:17,714 --> 00:05:19,924 Why don't you start us off? What's your story? 114 00:05:19,924 --> 00:05:22,594 ‐ Sure. Uh, okay, uh, 115 00:05:22,594 --> 00:05:26,014 I'm Armando, and my son just came out. 116 00:05:26,014 --> 00:05:26,973 Yeah. 117 00:05:28,224 --> 00:05:29,934 That's pretty much my story. 118 00:05:31,853 --> 00:05:33,354 Who in your family's gay? 119 00:05:37,233 --> 00:05:39,152 ‐ Here she is. 120 00:05:39,152 --> 00:05:42,030 Five‐hundred words, ready to go. 121 00:05:42,030 --> 00:05:44,032 ‐ There's nothing too smart in here, right? 122 00:05:44,032 --> 00:05:45,783 Like any words I wouldn't know or anything? 123 00:05:45,783 --> 00:05:47,118 ‐ It's a solid C plus. Yeah. 124 00:05:47,118 --> 00:05:50,330 We want your improvement to be miraculous, but believable. 125 00:05:50,330 --> 00:05:51,497 ‐ Thanks. 126 00:05:54,375 --> 00:05:55,710 ‐ Hey. ‐ Hey. 127 00:05:55,710 --> 00:05:57,587 How it's going with your mom? 128 00:05:58,421 --> 00:05:59,881 ‐ Still not great, 129 00:05:59,881 --> 00:06:02,383 but I have a new side hustle to make rent, 130 00:06:02,383 --> 00:06:05,261 and I can pay you back this week. 131 00:06:05,261 --> 00:06:07,597 ‐ Cool. No rush. ‐ Cool. 132 00:06:10,516 --> 00:06:12,894 ‐ Hey. If you ever wanna, like, 133 00:06:12,894 --> 00:06:14,646 hang out to vent or whatever... 134 00:06:14,646 --> 00:06:16,105 I'm around. 135 00:06:16,105 --> 00:06:19,067 ‐ Yeah. Yeah, that would actually be great. 136 00:06:19,067 --> 00:06:20,693 Thanks. 137 00:06:20,693 --> 00:06:22,570 LAKE: Hey, bae. Exciting news. 138 00:06:22,570 --> 00:06:26,658 So, we are going with Mia to a college party tonight. 139 00:06:27,784 --> 00:06:31,496 ‐ Uh, tonight? Uh, I kind of have a lot of homework. 140 00:06:31,496 --> 00:06:33,665 ‐ Again? I mean, you're like, crazy smart, 141 00:06:33,665 --> 00:06:35,625 and this school isn't even that good. What's going on? 142 00:06:35,625 --> 00:06:39,295 ‐ I may have started a little business 143 00:06:39,295 --> 00:06:41,548 writing essays for kids. 144 00:06:41,548 --> 00:06:44,717 ‐ What? Felix, cheating is serious. 145 00:06:44,717 --> 00:06:47,011 I mean, look what happened to Olivia Jade's mom. 146 00:06:47,011 --> 00:06:49,764 And more importantly, Olivia Jade's brand. 147 00:06:49,764 --> 00:06:52,517 I mean, what do you even need the money for? 148 00:06:53,518 --> 00:06:54,894 ‐ DJ equipment. 149 00:06:54,894 --> 00:06:58,898 Yeah, I'm saving up for the new Pioneer DDJ‐1000SRT‐‐ 150 00:06:58,898 --> 00:07:01,526 ‐ Okay, I need you to stop saying letters at me. 151 00:07:01,526 --> 00:07:06,322 Felix, I mean, DJ equipment is not a good reason to cheat. 152 00:07:06,322 --> 00:07:10,034 Or to totally blow off your girlfriend all week. 153 00:07:10,034 --> 00:07:11,536 I miss you. 154 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:13,538 ‐ I miss you, too. 155 00:07:14,247 --> 00:07:16,749 Okay. All right, I'll, I'll go to the party. 156 00:07:16,749 --> 00:07:18,126 ‐ Yay! Thank you. 157 00:07:18,126 --> 00:07:21,379 So, uh, do you wanna come over after school so we can hang out before? 158 00:07:21,379 --> 00:07:22,630 ‐ Sounds great. 159 00:07:22,630 --> 00:07:25,466 ‐ I'm really sorry, Vic. ‐ Sorry about what? 160 00:07:25,466 --> 00:07:28,011 ‐ Some guys on my team don't want me changing with them. 161 00:07:28,011 --> 00:07:29,596 ‐ What the hell? ‐ Seriously? 162 00:07:29,596 --> 00:07:31,055 ‐ Yeah, I know. What kind of insecure asshole 163 00:07:31,055 --> 00:07:32,682 can't handle showering around a gay guy? 164 00:07:32,682 --> 00:07:34,350 ‐ This is bullshit. 165 00:07:34,350 --> 00:07:36,394 VICTOR: It's just so stupid. 166 00:07:36,394 --> 00:07:40,398 You know, like, I, I've been changing with these guys for over a year now. 167 00:07:40,398 --> 00:07:42,150 Do they think that now that I'm out, 168 00:07:42,150 --> 00:07:44,235 I'm gonna turn into some kind of sexual predator? 169 00:07:44,235 --> 00:07:47,697 ‐ Seriously. But also, like, why are they worried about you looking at them? 170 00:07:47,697 --> 00:07:51,367 You are literally dating the most gorgeous guy at Creekwood. 171 00:07:51,367 --> 00:07:53,953 FELIX: Well, I mean, you know... [chuckles] 172 00:07:53,953 --> 00:07:56,331 beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so... 173 00:07:56,331 --> 00:07:58,499 ‐ Yeah. Behold Benji, bitch. 174 00:07:59,959 --> 00:08:01,419 ‐ Yeah, I'll be right back. 175 00:08:01,419 --> 00:08:05,131 Uh, hey. Hey, Andrew. Um, can we talk for a second? 176 00:08:08,551 --> 00:08:10,178 ‐ What's up, Salazar? 177 00:08:10,178 --> 00:08:11,679 ‐ You know what's up. 178 00:08:12,847 --> 00:08:13,973 ‐ All right, listen. 179 00:08:13,973 --> 00:08:16,434 I don't know who complained to Coach Ford, but it wasn't me. 180 00:08:16,434 --> 00:08:19,437 I don't care who checks me out naked: guys, girls, 181 00:08:19,437 --> 00:08:22,524 the old widow next door when I leave the blinds open. 182 00:08:22,524 --> 00:08:24,734 It's all very flattering, you know? 183 00:08:24,734 --> 00:08:26,694 ‐ You're the team captain. 184 00:08:26,694 --> 00:08:28,196 You know who complained. 185 00:08:29,322 --> 00:08:32,033 ‐ What if I tell you who it is? Then what? 186 00:08:32,033 --> 00:08:35,036 You call them out, and suddenly they realize how ignorant they're being 187 00:08:35,036 --> 00:08:36,454 and they apologize to you? 188 00:08:37,455 --> 00:08:41,751 Victor, look, you are the best player on the team. 189 00:08:42,585 --> 00:08:44,003 ‐ So what? 190 00:08:44,003 --> 00:08:48,216 ‐ So show up tonight at practice and, and dominate. 191 00:08:48,216 --> 00:08:51,219 Then hopefully they'll realize how ignorant and stupid they're being, 192 00:08:51,219 --> 00:08:53,012 and everything will just go back to normal. 193 00:08:53,012 --> 00:08:56,975 Just be undeniable, yeah? 194 00:08:56,975 --> 00:08:58,309 Trust me. 195 00:09:05,984 --> 00:09:07,986 [indistinct chatter] 196 00:09:11,739 --> 00:09:13,283 ‐ Um, hey. 197 00:09:14,576 --> 00:09:16,244 ‐ I'll see ya. Armando. 198 00:09:16,244 --> 00:09:17,745 ‐ Hey. ‐ Jack. 199 00:09:17,745 --> 00:09:20,790 ‐ Jack, hey, uh, listen, I'm, I'm sorry I didn't say much. 200 00:09:20,790 --> 00:09:23,418 Uh, this is just all pretty new to me. 201 00:09:23,418 --> 00:09:24,919 ‐ Are you feeling okay? 202 00:09:24,919 --> 00:09:27,881 ‐ Huh? What? ‐ You're really, really sweaty. 203 00:09:27,881 --> 00:09:29,716 ‐ Oh, yeah. I sweat when I'm nervous. 204 00:09:29,716 --> 00:09:33,553 Uh, anyway, l‐l‐like I said, my, my son, um, Victor, 205 00:09:33,553 --> 00:09:35,638 he, he just came out recently, which, I mean, you know, 206 00:09:35,638 --> 00:09:37,223 he's a basketball player, 207 00:09:37,223 --> 00:09:40,727 so I guess I never really saw that com‐‐ 208 00:09:40,727 --> 00:09:43,688 I‐‐ Not that that has anything to do with who a person wants to‐‐ 209 00:09:43,688 --> 00:09:46,274 ‐ Listen, I have to get back to the office. 210 00:09:46,274 --> 00:09:48,776 Maybe we could grab a beer later tonight. 211 00:09:48,776 --> 00:09:51,571 I know that these meetings can be overwhelming, so... 212 00:09:52,405 --> 00:09:55,491 ‐ Jack, that, that would be great, actually. 213 00:09:55,491 --> 00:09:57,869 And I, I, I promise to change my shirt 214 00:09:57,869 --> 00:09:59,621 into something... yeah. ‐ [laughs] Okay. 215 00:09:59,621 --> 00:10:01,623 ‐ Less moist. ‐ Moist. 216 00:10:02,999 --> 00:10:06,127 I hate that word. Yeah. Don't... 217 00:10:06,127 --> 00:10:07,420 ‐ I don't know why I said that. 218 00:10:07,420 --> 00:10:08,963 JACK: All right. I'll see ya. ‐ Okay. 219 00:10:10,506 --> 00:10:13,384 COACH FORD: All right, Grizzlies. Bring it in. Gather up! 220 00:10:14,469 --> 00:10:17,889 Welcome to the first practice of the season. 221 00:10:17,889 --> 00:10:19,474 I hope you all had a good summer. 222 00:10:19,474 --> 00:10:21,517 I rented the cutest little lake house. 223 00:10:21,517 --> 00:10:24,562 And then I got a staph infection on day one. I... 224 00:10:24,562 --> 00:10:26,773 Went through me like a wildfire. 225 00:10:26,773 --> 00:10:29,651 I almost lost a finger. But I didn't. 226 00:10:29,651 --> 00:10:32,237 I didn't lose my pinky, 227 00:10:32,237 --> 00:10:35,532 and we're not gonna lose any games. Right, guys? 228 00:10:35,532 --> 00:10:37,033 PLAYER: Sure. COACH FORD: Huh? 229 00:10:38,034 --> 00:10:40,662 All right, great. Pair up. Let's run some passing drills. 230 00:10:42,205 --> 00:10:44,499 [chattering] 231 00:10:45,833 --> 00:10:47,252 PLAYER: Pass it up. 232 00:10:47,252 --> 00:10:49,754 ‐ Yo, Vic. You and me. Let's go. 233 00:10:49,754 --> 00:10:52,590 ♪ 234 00:10:52,590 --> 00:10:53,883 [whistle blows] 235 00:10:53,883 --> 00:10:55,677 ‐ All right, come on, now. 236 00:10:57,220 --> 00:10:58,429 ANDREW: Yeah, put that up, Vic! 237 00:10:58,429 --> 00:10:59,639 [cheering, clapping] 238 00:10:59,639 --> 00:11:02,350 That's what I'm talkin' about! Let's go! 239 00:11:03,935 --> 00:11:06,771 COACH FORD: Whoa! Nicely done! 240 00:11:06,771 --> 00:11:08,022 ANDREW: Here we go! 241 00:11:08,022 --> 00:11:09,691 ‐ That a way, Salazar! 242 00:11:10,024 --> 00:11:11,150 Take it! 243 00:11:12,944 --> 00:11:15,655 Yes! Attaboy, Victor! 244 00:11:15,655 --> 00:11:17,532 Good job! [players cheering] 245 00:11:19,325 --> 00:11:21,744 ♪ dance music playing ♪ 246 00:11:22,161 --> 00:11:24,372 [chattering] 247 00:11:35,758 --> 00:11:38,678 ♪ dance music continues ♪ 248 00:11:49,272 --> 00:11:50,982 LAKE: Oh, my God. Mia's already there. 249 00:11:50,982 --> 00:11:53,818 Wait. This is such girl code violation. Section 348, 250 00:11:53,818 --> 00:11:55,111 chicks before dicks. 251 00:11:55,111 --> 00:11:56,779 ‐ Do you happen to remember how Hamlet ends? 252 00:11:56,779 --> 00:11:57,739 ‐ Yeah. With a murder. 253 00:11:57,739 --> 00:11:59,032 Which is exactly what's going to happen here 254 00:11:59,032 --> 00:12:01,534 if you don't shut that laptop and get ready. 255 00:12:03,536 --> 00:12:05,663 Felix, um, 256 00:12:05,663 --> 00:12:08,875 I'm not a "me" anymore. I'm a "we." 257 00:12:08,875 --> 00:12:13,004 And I'm really excited for us to go to this party together. 258 00:12:13,004 --> 00:12:15,965 ‐ "We," too, Lake. "We," too. 259 00:12:17,759 --> 00:12:20,553 I just need 30 minutes to learn Mandarin for Chad Jacobson. 260 00:12:22,055 --> 00:12:23,640 [Lake sighs] 261 00:12:28,144 --> 00:12:29,395 [exhales] 262 00:12:29,938 --> 00:12:32,315 [indistinct chatter] 263 00:12:35,985 --> 00:12:37,737 ‐ [whispering]: What the hell? 264 00:12:37,737 --> 00:12:40,323 I thought Coach was gonna have him change somewhere else. 265 00:12:40,323 --> 00:12:41,658 PLAYER: Yeah, let's go. 266 00:12:42,659 --> 00:12:44,369 [lockers slam] 267 00:12:53,711 --> 00:12:54,963 ‐ I'm sorry. 268 00:12:54,963 --> 00:12:57,840 I thought they'd realize that you're still just... you. 269 00:12:57,840 --> 00:12:59,133 You know? 270 00:13:07,850 --> 00:13:11,729 ♪ 271 00:13:17,318 --> 00:13:19,529 [cheering, chattering] 272 00:13:19,529 --> 00:13:21,656 ‐ Whoo! Yeah. 273 00:13:22,323 --> 00:13:24,492 ♪ rap music playing ♪ 274 00:13:28,746 --> 00:13:30,164 ‐ Don't I know you? 275 00:13:30,915 --> 00:13:33,501 You're Mia, right? ‐ Mmm‐hmm. 276 00:13:33,501 --> 00:13:35,420 ‐ I'm Derek. 277 00:13:35,420 --> 00:13:37,797 Your ex‐boyfriend stole my ex‐boyfriend? 278 00:13:38,923 --> 00:13:41,718 ‐ Right. [laughs] Small world. 279 00:13:42,927 --> 00:13:45,054 ‐ I thought that you were in high school. 280 00:13:46,055 --> 00:13:47,390 ‐ I am. 281 00:13:47,390 --> 00:13:52,437 I just lied to impress a guy who hasn't even shown up. 282 00:13:54,606 --> 00:13:55,982 Do you wanna play? 283 00:13:55,982 --> 00:13:59,068 ‐ Uh, no. No, I'm good. 284 00:13:59,068 --> 00:14:01,196 But, uh, careful. 285 00:14:01,196 --> 00:14:03,156 That drink is lethal. 286 00:14:03,156 --> 00:14:05,575 It'll make you forget your own name. 287 00:14:06,326 --> 00:14:07,744 [chuckles] 288 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:13,499 ‐ Hey, which one of you frat boys wants to get out‐drunk by a chick? 289 00:14:13,499 --> 00:14:16,419 ALL: Whoa! [cheering] 290 00:14:16,419 --> 00:14:18,755 MIA: All right, give me a ball. 291 00:14:20,465 --> 00:14:21,633 ‐ I mean... 292 00:14:22,675 --> 00:14:25,011 This generation‐‐ I can't keep up. 293 00:14:25,011 --> 00:14:27,931 I can't keep up, man. Like... 294 00:14:27,931 --> 00:14:30,850 Last night I'm reading about pansexuals, 295 00:14:30,850 --> 00:14:33,144 and I'm like, what? 296 00:14:33,144 --> 00:14:35,730 Dios mio. What, people can fall in love with bread? 297 00:14:35,730 --> 00:14:36,856 [Jack scoffs] No... 298 00:14:36,856 --> 00:14:38,816 [both laugh] Yeah, but then I see, 299 00:14:38,816 --> 00:14:42,946 no, a pansexual is somebody who is into all genders. 300 00:14:42,946 --> 00:14:45,532 ‐ Yeah, yeah, yeah. I‐I know. It can be a lot. 301 00:14:45,532 --> 00:14:47,659 ‐ It is. And I'm scared. 302 00:14:47,659 --> 00:14:49,619 Every time I open up my mouth, 303 00:14:49,619 --> 00:14:52,664 I'm scared that I might say something to make my son hate me. 304 00:14:53,623 --> 00:14:56,042 His mother's having a hard time with the whole thing. 305 00:14:56,042 --> 00:14:59,128 It's made things between them really strained, and... 306 00:14:59,128 --> 00:15:01,381 I don't want that for me and Victor. 307 00:15:01,381 --> 00:15:03,091 We've always been so close. 308 00:15:07,637 --> 00:15:10,557 ‐ [sighs] Before Simon told me he was gay, 309 00:15:10,557 --> 00:15:12,725 I had a whole idea for his life. 310 00:15:14,143 --> 00:15:15,937 The kind of girls he would date, 311 00:15:15,937 --> 00:15:18,523 the kind of advice that I would give, and... 312 00:15:18,523 --> 00:15:21,651 When he came out, I realized that those were just my hopes, not his, 313 00:15:21,651 --> 00:15:23,111 and I had to let 'em go. 314 00:15:23,903 --> 00:15:25,864 And once I did... 315 00:15:26,698 --> 00:15:30,118 Yeah, I realized that there are a lot of ways 316 00:15:30,118 --> 00:15:31,578 that you could be a man. 317 00:15:32,745 --> 00:15:33,872 You know what I mean? 318 00:15:33,872 --> 00:15:35,874 ‐ That makes sense. ‐ Yeah. 319 00:15:35,874 --> 00:15:38,418 ‐ But, I mean, I don't even know where to begin with him. 320 00:15:38,418 --> 00:15:41,546 I think about sitting down to talk to him, and... 321 00:15:41,546 --> 00:15:43,381 I just get stuck. ‐ Yeah. 322 00:15:43,381 --> 00:15:45,383 Well, you know, not every conversation with Victor 323 00:15:45,383 --> 00:15:47,719 has to be about his sexuality. ‐ Mm‐hmm. 324 00:15:47,719 --> 00:15:49,846 ‐ So what did you guys talk about before he came out? 325 00:15:49,846 --> 00:15:52,015 ‐ Sports. Yeah. Sports has always been our thing. 326 00:15:52,015 --> 00:15:53,516 ‐ Well, there you go. Start there. 327 00:15:53,516 --> 00:15:55,018 ‐ Mmm. ‐ And once you start talking, 328 00:15:55,018 --> 00:15:58,062 once he realizes that you're still a soft place for him to land, 329 00:15:58,062 --> 00:16:00,190 you'll be surprised where the conversation might go. 330 00:16:00,190 --> 00:16:01,482 ‐ Hmm. 331 00:16:06,946 --> 00:16:08,281 [sighs] 332 00:16:10,575 --> 00:16:12,452 ‐ Okay. I'm going to go. 333 00:16:13,369 --> 00:16:15,580 ‐ Yeah. Yeah, no, that's a good idea. 334 00:16:15,580 --> 00:16:18,666 Uh, you know, I'm almost done, so I'm right behind you. 335 00:16:20,043 --> 00:16:22,212 ‐ No, I'm... 336 00:16:22,212 --> 00:16:24,005 I'm going to go alone. 337 00:16:24,005 --> 00:16:25,423 ‐ What? Why? 338 00:16:25,423 --> 00:16:28,968 ‐ Because I told you tonight is important to me. 339 00:16:28,968 --> 00:16:30,762 More important than you making money 340 00:16:30,762 --> 00:16:33,514 to buy some DJ BB‐8 thing. 341 00:16:35,099 --> 00:16:38,478 We'll talk tomorrow. Just go home, Felix. 342 00:16:40,104 --> 00:16:42,232 ‐ I can't. ‐ Why? 343 00:16:43,233 --> 00:16:44,567 [sighs] 344 00:16:45,485 --> 00:16:47,362 ‐ Because our internet is turned off. 345 00:16:48,571 --> 00:16:51,157 And I can't finish what's due tomorrow without it. 346 00:16:51,157 --> 00:16:53,117 ‐ Wait, why was your internet shut off? 347 00:16:53,117 --> 00:16:54,452 ‐ I was lying... 348 00:16:55,787 --> 00:16:57,956 about the DJ equipment. 349 00:17:00,041 --> 00:17:01,668 My mom stopped going to work. 350 00:17:02,669 --> 00:17:03,711 She can't. 351 00:17:06,130 --> 00:17:08,383 ‐ Okay. Um... 352 00:17:08,383 --> 00:17:12,095 Because of her manic depression? ‐ Yeah. 353 00:17:13,429 --> 00:17:16,766 Yeah. She's, um, she's been depressed for a while now. 354 00:17:19,769 --> 00:17:22,939 She barely gets out of bed most days. 355 00:17:24,691 --> 00:17:28,611 We need the extra cash. Help us pay our bills. 356 00:17:31,197 --> 00:17:35,285 ‐ Uh, how long has this been going on? 357 00:17:35,285 --> 00:17:38,705 ‐ This time, most of the summer. 358 00:17:40,707 --> 00:17:44,002 It's gonna be okay, all right? I'll figure it out. 359 00:17:45,587 --> 00:17:46,838 I'll figure it out. 360 00:17:47,964 --> 00:17:49,799 [keyboard keys clicking] 361 00:17:53,344 --> 00:17:55,096 ‐ Okay. [clears throat] 362 00:17:59,559 --> 00:18:01,853 [exhales] Hit me with a worksheet. 363 00:18:02,478 --> 00:18:04,480 [chuckles] 364 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:06,065 I told you. 365 00:18:06,065 --> 00:18:07,817 I'm not a "me" anymore. 366 00:18:07,817 --> 00:18:10,236 I'm a "we." 367 00:18:10,236 --> 00:18:14,365 But "we" don't know Mandarin, so hit me with something else. 368 00:18:20,496 --> 00:18:21,748 ‐ Hey. 369 00:18:24,083 --> 00:18:25,627 How was practice? 370 00:18:25,627 --> 00:18:28,630 ‐ Um, it was great at first. 371 00:18:28,630 --> 00:18:31,799 The, the guys were being totally normal on the court. 372 00:18:31,799 --> 00:18:35,261 Uh, but then we got into the locker room, and... 373 00:18:37,305 --> 00:18:39,098 I'm just so confused. 374 00:18:39,098 --> 00:18:41,893 Like, these guys are supposed to be my friends. 375 00:18:45,980 --> 00:18:47,649 Why aren't you more upset about this? 376 00:18:49,067 --> 00:18:52,445 Like, you've been oddly quiet all day. 377 00:18:53,947 --> 00:18:56,449 ‐ I, I mean, of course I'm upset. 378 00:18:56,449 --> 00:18:59,827 I'm just... I'm not surprised. 379 00:19:01,496 --> 00:19:04,666 Everyone thinks that coming out is easy these days, 380 00:19:04,666 --> 00:19:06,000 but it's not. 381 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:09,462 I mean, two days after I did, my lab partner asked to switch desks. 382 00:19:09,462 --> 00:19:11,923 Said it's 'cause he couldn't see the board from the back of the room, 383 00:19:11,923 --> 00:19:14,551 but everyone knew that was bullshit. 384 00:19:15,677 --> 00:19:18,638 And on top of everything, you play sports, 385 00:19:18,638 --> 00:19:22,016 which is not exactly the most evolved group 386 00:19:22,016 --> 00:19:23,935 you could be a part of. [both chuckle] 387 00:19:26,020 --> 00:19:29,148 ‐ I don't know. Maybe I should just change in the stupid extra office‐‐ 388 00:19:29,148 --> 00:19:31,109 ‐ No. No, you're not doing that. 389 00:19:31,109 --> 00:19:33,695 You should be around people who want you to be you. 390 00:19:33,695 --> 00:19:35,113 End of story. 391 00:19:36,406 --> 00:19:38,074 [phone vibrates] 392 00:19:42,662 --> 00:19:44,706 Uh‐oh. ‐ What? 393 00:19:44,706 --> 00:19:46,416 ‐ It's my ex. 394 00:19:47,917 --> 00:19:49,711 Texting about your ex. 395 00:19:55,300 --> 00:19:57,510 ♪ dance music playing ♪ 396 00:19:59,053 --> 00:20:00,346 ‐ Mia! 397 00:20:00,346 --> 00:20:03,057 [giggling, chattering] 398 00:20:03,057 --> 00:20:04,434 Mia! 399 00:20:05,894 --> 00:20:06,936 [Mia laughs] 400 00:20:06,936 --> 00:20:09,981 Excuse me, do you mind if I talk to my friend for a second? 401 00:20:09,981 --> 00:20:11,316 ‐ Um, hello. 402 00:20:11,316 --> 00:20:14,027 I'm a woman with agency. 403 00:20:14,027 --> 00:20:16,112 You can ask me to talk to me. 404 00:20:17,238 --> 00:20:19,157 ‐ I'm gonna go. ‐ Thanks. 405 00:20:20,617 --> 00:20:22,994 ‐ [giggles] You happy? 406 00:20:22,994 --> 00:20:25,079 ‐ Come on. Let's, let's take you back home. 407 00:20:25,079 --> 00:20:27,123 ‐ Do you seriously think you can come here 408 00:20:27,123 --> 00:20:29,584 and be my knight in shining armor? 409 00:20:29,584 --> 00:20:33,504 I'm a cool college kid at a cool college party, and, um... 410 00:20:33,504 --> 00:20:35,757 [groaning] 411 00:20:35,757 --> 00:20:39,719 ‐ Okay, okay. Come on. ‐ Okay. Um... 412 00:20:39,719 --> 00:20:42,180 I do‐‐ I want to go home now. 413 00:20:42,180 --> 00:20:45,516 Not because you want me to. Because I want to. 414 00:20:45,516 --> 00:20:47,894 Okay? Because I'm a woman with agency. 415 00:20:47,894 --> 00:20:50,980 ‐ You told me that already. MIA: But I'm telling you again. 416 00:20:50,980 --> 00:20:52,440 [knocking] 417 00:20:54,067 --> 00:20:55,193 ‐ Hey. ‐ Hey. 418 00:20:55,193 --> 00:20:57,237 ‐ Uh, sorry I texted you so late. 419 00:20:57,237 --> 00:20:59,531 ‐ That's okay. I was up sneak‐watching Euphoria. 420 00:20:59,531 --> 00:21:01,366 Then I googled Zendaya red carpet looks 421 00:21:01,366 --> 00:21:02,617 and lost three hours of my life. 422 00:21:02,617 --> 00:21:04,369 ‐ Ah. Well, we've all been there. [Pilar laughs] 423 00:21:04,369 --> 00:21:06,996 ‐ I'll grab my jacket so we can go outside and talk. 424 00:21:06,996 --> 00:21:10,708 ‐ Actually, uh, I don't need to talk. I'm here to pay ya. 425 00:21:10,708 --> 00:21:12,168 Two‐hundred dollars. 426 00:21:12,168 --> 00:21:13,711 ‐ Wow. That was fast. 427 00:21:13,711 --> 00:21:15,630 ‐ Yeah. I, uh, told Lake about my mom. 428 00:21:15,630 --> 00:21:18,049 And, uh, she helped me with my homework hustle, 429 00:21:18,049 --> 00:21:21,803 so now I can pay the bills, and give you this. 430 00:21:22,762 --> 00:21:26,683 ‐ Oh. You told Lake everything? ‐ Yeah. 431 00:21:26,683 --> 00:21:29,269 Yeah, which I should have done a long time ago. 432 00:21:29,269 --> 00:21:32,522 But, uh, you know, it's good news for you, too, right? 433 00:21:32,522 --> 00:21:34,649 You don't have to spend all that time listening to me 434 00:21:34,649 --> 00:21:36,276 yammer about my crazy mom. 435 00:21:36,276 --> 00:21:38,987 ‐ Seriously. Thank God. [both laugh] 436 00:21:40,697 --> 00:21:43,783 ‐ So, anyway, uh, thank you. So, goodnight. 437 00:21:43,783 --> 00:21:44,909 ‐ Goodnight. 438 00:21:46,369 --> 00:21:50,540 ♪ 439 00:21:50,540 --> 00:21:52,000 VICTOR: Have another glass of water. 440 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,294 You'll be glad you did in the morning. 441 00:21:56,963 --> 00:21:59,007 [sips] ‐ Thanks. 442 00:21:59,966 --> 00:22:01,384 [phone chimes] 443 00:22:04,053 --> 00:22:05,096 VICTOR: What? 444 00:22:06,347 --> 00:22:09,350 MIA: It's the guy I like. He showed up to the party, after all. 445 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:13,897 When he wasn't there, I just assumed he was blowing me off. 446 00:22:15,857 --> 00:22:18,818 Guess I just got used to guys I like not showing up. 447 00:22:19,986 --> 00:22:21,154 [chuckles] 448 00:22:22,322 --> 00:22:25,283 ‐ Mia, I'm... I'm sorry. 449 00:22:26,159 --> 00:22:27,619 For everything. 450 00:22:29,704 --> 00:22:32,290 ‐ Did you know you were gay the whole time we dated? 451 00:22:36,252 --> 00:22:37,795 ‐ Kind of. 452 00:22:37,795 --> 00:22:41,841 But, like... I also didn't. 453 00:22:41,841 --> 00:22:45,887 Um, I just loved being around you, 454 00:22:45,887 --> 00:22:49,015 and, and I thought that if there was any girl 455 00:22:49,015 --> 00:22:51,643 in the whole world that I could be happy with... 456 00:22:55,522 --> 00:22:57,148 ‐ You know what really sucks? 457 00:23:00,235 --> 00:23:02,695 I feel like I'm not allowed to be mad at you. 458 00:23:04,364 --> 00:23:06,866 Because, I mean, coming out is, 459 00:23:06,866 --> 00:23:09,536 is the most important thing you've ever done, and... 460 00:23:09,536 --> 00:23:11,829 I am glad you did it. 461 00:23:13,039 --> 00:23:14,958 Because I want you to be happy. 462 00:23:17,210 --> 00:23:18,962 Because I love you. 463 00:23:19,671 --> 00:23:23,675 [scoffs] But, um, I just wish that you doing 464 00:23:23,675 --> 00:23:25,301 the most important thing you've ever done 465 00:23:25,301 --> 00:23:27,053 didn't make me feel like shit. 466 00:23:29,430 --> 00:23:31,391 I wish I didn't lose my best friend. 467 00:23:34,477 --> 00:23:36,229 ‐ You didn't lose me. 468 00:23:36,229 --> 00:23:40,650 I'm right here, and I miss you so much. 469 00:23:42,318 --> 00:23:43,945 And I love you, too. 470 00:23:47,991 --> 00:23:51,494 ‐ This is not how I used to imagine our first "I love you"s. 471 00:23:53,454 --> 00:23:55,874 ‐ You are so amazing. You know that? 472 00:23:55,874 --> 00:23:58,710 ‐ Okay‐‐ ‐ No, no. I'm, I'm serious. Like... 473 00:24:00,253 --> 00:24:03,882 Even after everything, you still... 474 00:24:06,050 --> 00:24:07,886 You still want me to be me. 475 00:24:07,886 --> 00:24:09,679 ‐ Of course I do. 476 00:24:09,679 --> 00:24:11,931 What kind of person wouldn't? 477 00:24:11,931 --> 00:24:14,100 [phone ringing] 478 00:24:16,311 --> 00:24:19,022 It's him. The college guy. 479 00:24:19,898 --> 00:24:21,316 [phone continues ringing] 480 00:24:21,316 --> 00:24:22,400 ‐ Take it. 481 00:24:23,526 --> 00:24:25,320 I have to get going anyways. 482 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:26,863 [phone continues ringing] 483 00:24:30,950 --> 00:24:32,160 [phone bloops] 484 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,287 TYLER [over phone]: Yo! I got stuck at the studio, 485 00:24:34,287 --> 00:24:37,415 so I just got here. You leave already? 486 00:24:37,415 --> 00:24:39,918 MIA [over phone]: Oh, uh, yeah. 487 00:24:39,918 --> 00:24:41,336 ‐ Well, come back. 488 00:24:42,212 --> 00:24:45,673 ‐ I can't. I'm, um... 489 00:24:46,841 --> 00:24:49,385 Uh, Tyler, I'm a junior in high school. 490 00:24:51,346 --> 00:24:52,847 ‐ Oh. 491 00:24:52,847 --> 00:24:54,265 MIA [over phone]: Yeah, I'm sorry I lied. 492 00:24:54,265 --> 00:24:58,853 I just, I, I liked you, and I, I wanted to hang out with you. 493 00:24:58,853 --> 00:25:02,899 But, um, if you don't want to hang out with me anymore, I‐‐ 494 00:25:02,899 --> 00:25:04,901 ‐ Mia, don't be ridiculous. 495 00:25:04,901 --> 00:25:06,778 I turned 18 last month. 496 00:25:09,239 --> 00:25:10,532 What are you doing tomorrow? 497 00:25:12,659 --> 00:25:14,077 [laughs softly] 498 00:25:15,370 --> 00:25:16,538 [whistle blows] 499 00:25:16,538 --> 00:25:18,748 COACH FORD: All right, bring it in, guys. Come on. 500 00:25:18,748 --> 00:25:21,584 ♪ "Get There Soon" by Geographer playing ♪ 501 00:25:21,584 --> 00:25:23,962 Salazar, you're late. 502 00:25:23,962 --> 00:25:29,217 ‐ ♪ Give it time, it'll shine on you ♪ 503 00:25:31,261 --> 00:25:33,930 ♪ I've been told ♪ 504 00:25:33,930 --> 00:25:37,684 ‐ Hey. What are you doing here? 505 00:25:37,684 --> 00:25:39,686 ‐ I, uh, have a surprise. 506 00:25:39,686 --> 00:25:41,354 ‐ ♪ Nothing good ever does come easy ♪ 507 00:25:41,354 --> 00:25:43,898 ♪ But you'll get there soon ♪ 508 00:25:43,898 --> 00:25:47,026 ‐ Vintage Air Jordans. Aah? 509 00:25:47,026 --> 00:25:49,612 Now, I‐I know that they got all these fancy sneakers nowadays, 510 00:25:49,612 --> 00:25:52,532 but for my money, these are the best basketball sneakers ever made. 511 00:25:52,532 --> 00:25:54,784 And just in time for the new season. 512 00:25:55,743 --> 00:25:56,911 ‐ Thanks. 513 00:25:59,163 --> 00:26:01,791 ‐ Yeah. And I‐I was also thinking maybe if, uh, 514 00:26:01,791 --> 00:26:03,167 you didn't have too much homework, 515 00:26:03,167 --> 00:26:04,544 we could hang for a bit. 516 00:26:04,544 --> 00:26:06,212 ‐ ♪ I'll get there soon ♪ 517 00:26:06,212 --> 00:26:07,797 ‐ You should return 'em. 518 00:26:07,797 --> 00:26:09,757 ‐ ♪ I believe, I believe ♪ 519 00:26:09,757 --> 00:26:11,551 ‐ Why? Don't you like 'em? 520 00:26:12,302 --> 00:26:13,428 ‐ I don't need 'em. 521 00:26:14,762 --> 00:26:15,972 I quit the team. 522 00:26:15,972 --> 00:26:18,266 ‐ ♪ I believe, I believe, I believe ♪ 523 00:26:18,266 --> 00:26:20,977 ♪ I'll get there soon ♪ [door opens] 524 00:26:22,103 --> 00:26:23,104 [door closes] 525 00:26:23,104 --> 00:26:28,193 ♪ I can see, I can see, I can see it coming in view ♪ 526 00:26:30,153 --> 00:26:32,947 ♪ I believe, I believe, I believe ♪ 527 00:26:32,947 --> 00:26:36,117 ♪ I'll get there soon ♪ 528 00:26:40,288 --> 00:26:43,750 ♪ I'll get there soon ♪ 529 00:26:43,750 --> 00:26:45,710 ♪ Oh ♪