1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:04,440 DOGS BARK 2 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:08,400 This once peaceful country house... 3 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:10,440 GROWLS 4 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:11,760 This is our life. 5 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:13,760 ..is now a special place... 6 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:14,800 Back, back. 7 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:16,000 My house smells of his wee. 8 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:18,960 ..for those at the end of their tether. 9 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,400 I'm frightened it's going to kill him. 10 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:24,760 AGGRESSIVE BARKING 11 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:27,720 He has pulled my arm out the socket. 12 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:31,000 If she could get off that lead, she'd be hanging off their face. 13 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:33,640 This is make or break for us. 14 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:36,480 Here, a team of expert trainers... 15 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:37,800 Down. Back. 16 00:00:39,160 --> 00:00:40,560 Look at them. 17 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:42,240 ..take on... Stop it! 18 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:44,640 ..some of Britain's worst-behaved dogs... 19 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:47,360 Whoa! No, not good. 20 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:48,960 Oh, my God. 21 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:50,600 ..and their humans... 22 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,640 How much training do you guys do now? 23 00:00:54,000 --> 00:00:56,200 None. 24 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:57,520 What's this? 25 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,080 She's lost trust with humans. 26 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:02,480 ..at an academy... 27 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:04,600 This is your opportunity to move forward, 28 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:06,520 and we're going to give you those skills. Yeah. 29 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:08,000 ..unlike any other. 30 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:10,160 We need to get that muzzle off you. 31 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:11,440 Oh, I love your face. 32 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:14,440 Good boy! 33 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:17,880 That has never happened before. 34 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:19,720 Yes! 35 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:20,960 Can you believe that? 36 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:22,200 Ba-ba-ba-ba! 37 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:23,920 SHE GASPS 38 00:01:23,960 --> 00:01:25,880 It's like he's a different dog. 39 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,400 DOGS BARK 40 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,880 Come on, come on, come on, come on, come on. It's this way. 41 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,880 Off to school boys. Off to school we go. 42 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:45,480 We may not have enjoyed going to school when we were younger. 43 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:48,520 However, our dogs love going to dog school. 44 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:50,680 What do you think about doing some more work? 45 00:01:55,440 --> 00:01:58,040 It's mental simulation, it's enrichment. 46 00:01:58,080 --> 00:01:59,880 Look at his little nose working. 47 00:01:59,920 --> 00:02:04,080 It's very similar to us doing a pub quiz or perhaps playing sudoku. 48 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,440 Good boy. Get your toy! 49 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,000 Sit. 50 00:02:08,040 --> 00:02:10,120 Yes. Good. 51 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:12,360 It's an opportunity for them to work their brain 52 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:15,040 and get that hit of dopamine that makes you feel good. 53 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,160 Yeah! Nice! 54 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:19,200 When you throw the owner into the mix 55 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:20,720 and a handful of dog treats, 56 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,320 there's nowhere else that that dog wants to be. 57 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:25,040 DOG WHINES 58 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:27,160 He's trying to think how he can get out, isn't he? Exactly. 59 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:30,480 He's looking for an escape route, aren't you, little man? 60 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,200 As most of the students enjoy their lessons... 61 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:39,560 ..a brand-new pupil is en route to the dog academy. 62 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:40,840 SHEEP BAA 63 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:45,680 One-year-old poodle Daisy... 64 00:02:45,720 --> 00:02:49,120 Ever since the day we picked her up she's worn a flower. 65 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:51,680 Even though she's dead scruffy and what have you, 66 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:53,080 she still wears a flower. 67 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:55,840 She's dead scruffy! Yes. 68 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,880 ..who lives at home with Wendy and Dahana. 69 00:02:58,920 --> 00:03:01,440 So, what is this family relationship, are you two sisters? 70 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:03,400 Oh, thank you very much. We are. 71 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:05,880 You're having that one, Wendy! This is the younger sister. 72 00:03:05,920 --> 00:03:08,920 You've earned a brownie point today! Yes! 73 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:10,320 Yeah, mum and daughter. 74 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:12,320 Lovely. So who's the boss at home? 75 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,680 Dahana. You big fibber. 76 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:18,440 You're the boss. 77 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:21,240 You are. You're like a tyrant. 78 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:24,880 Only when we're in the car 79 00:03:24,920 --> 00:03:27,480 and she drives above the speed limit! 80 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:31,320 So, tell me about Daisy. 81 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:34,920 95% of the time she's such a warm little girl. 82 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:39,480 But then there's just the 5% of time where she's a wild child. 83 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,400 A sassy one. Yes. 84 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:42,840 DAISY GROWLS 85 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:48,600 If Daisy was a celebrity she would be Madonna 86 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,720 with the curly hair and, you know, the conical bras, 87 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:53,360 and she'd be... 88 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:58,320 You know, "You will do what I want you to do." 89 00:03:58,360 --> 00:03:59,840 Yeah. 90 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:01,280 DAISY WHIMPERS 91 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:05,400 So, ladies, we're nearly here. 92 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:06,760 THEY GASP 93 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:11,400 Welcome to the dog academy. 94 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,120 We're doing the lottery to be able to win money 95 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,920 to buy something like this. 96 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:18,920 Thank you very much. 97 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:20,240 Here they come. 98 00:04:20,280 --> 00:04:23,200 Casting an eye over the academy's latest pupil... 99 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:25,440 See you later. All the best, see you later on. 100 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:26,680 There you go mum. 101 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:28,600 ..are trainers Nancy and Jo. 102 00:04:31,840 --> 00:04:33,280 Good girl. 103 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:35,280 Wow, that is some mop of hair. 104 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:36,840 Come on then, Daisy. 105 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:41,040 Hello. Good morning. 106 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:44,440 Are you all right? Yes, thank you, are you? Good. 107 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:48,280 Look how much she's using her nose because she can't see anything. 108 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:50,640 I love her hair. 109 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:52,400 She desperately needs grooming. 110 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:55,840 Where are her eyes? Does she have any? 111 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:58,200 If we can't see in she can't see out. 112 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:00,240 What's her personality like? 113 00:05:00,280 --> 00:05:01,520 Feisty. 114 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:05,960 When you're wanting her to do something she doesn't want to do, 115 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,080 you know, she doesn't like that. 116 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:09,800 She doesn't like doing as she's told? 117 00:05:09,840 --> 00:05:12,000 Nope. Not with certain things. 118 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:16,440 GROWLS Eh! Hey, Daisy. 119 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:18,400 Ooo! 120 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:20,040 Daisy. 121 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:21,800 Oh, she's fierce. Yeah. 122 00:05:21,840 --> 00:05:24,200 Now let me brush you. GROWLS 123 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:27,920 Ooh! Wow. Not a happy dog. 124 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,360 Come on Daisy, let's put your harness on. Come on. 125 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:32,400 GROWLS That's not good. 126 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:34,760 She's a little dog that really is speaking her mind. 127 00:05:34,800 --> 00:05:36,040 Oh, she is. 128 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:37,840 Come on. Come on. 129 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:40,560 The dreaded harness. 130 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:43,000 We can't have that kind of biting on skin. 131 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,440 PANTS 132 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:49,080 We're here to ask for help. 133 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:51,440 Yeah, the trainers will be out shortly, is that all right? 134 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,400 All right, thank you. Thanks, sweetheart. 135 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:54,760 See you in a bit. 136 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:00,720 I mean, this rug must be a fortune. 137 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:02,480 I know. 138 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:04,000 It's gorgeous. 139 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:05,840 Beautiful. 140 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:08,880 I think this might be just a little bit too big. 141 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:10,840 Yeah, I think so. 142 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:12,360 But we can dream. 143 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:14,560 THEY LAUGH 144 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:19,640 Good morning. DAISY BARKS 145 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,040 Don't worry about that, it's fine. 146 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:25,120 Can I put her down? Pop her down, absolutely. 147 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:26,480 Hi! 148 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:28,120 You noisy, noisy little lady. 149 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:32,560 So, tell us about the behaviours that are getting in the way 150 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:34,200 of Daisy being the perfect dog. 151 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:36,640 She is so lovable 152 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:38,880 but try putting her harness on. 153 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:40,640 OK. 154 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:42,280 Try brushing her. 155 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:47,360 It's a different story. 156 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:50,440 Yeah. You can see, without wishing to be critical, 157 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:52,800 because what you're struggling with is really difficult, 158 00:06:52,840 --> 00:06:56,080 she really does need a good groom, doesn't she? Oh, she does. 159 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:59,400 I don't want a poodle what's all pom-poms 160 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:01,320 and that you know - she's a dog. 161 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:04,920 But she's got knots in her legs. 162 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:08,800 You've got to keep a poodle looking clean and tidy. 163 00:07:08,840 --> 00:07:12,520 It's going to affect her health if we can't convince her 164 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:14,720 that she needs to be groomed. 165 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:17,320 The groomers will ring us up after half an hour or an hour 166 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:18,920 and say, "Can you come and pick her up?" 167 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:23,120 because when they put her on the grooming table she just screams. 168 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:26,240 They're a bit frightened of her. 169 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:31,320 Not of her mouth thing or anything but she had to have a hip operation. 170 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:33,840 They're a bit frightened of hurting, you know, when she gets all... 171 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:37,240 And before she had the surgery? 172 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,120 She was fine. 173 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:40,840 What would you like to be able to do with her 174 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:42,840 with regard to the harness? 175 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:45,480 If you could just put it on her. 176 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:49,560 As soon as Mum tries to put the harness on her she'll get snappy. 177 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:51,920 If she makes that noise it's scares Mum. It scares me. 178 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:53,560 It does scare you. 179 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:56,120 I really am frightened of her. 180 00:07:56,160 --> 00:08:00,440 It sounds silly - a big older woman and a little thing like that 181 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,560 can frighten me, but she really does. 182 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:05,400 Does she let you put the harness on her? 183 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:08,320 She's a bit fidgety, but I tell her just to shut up. 184 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:10,520 Do you have your harness with you? Yes. 185 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:13,320 Could you show us, could we have a little look what this looks like? 186 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,520 Come on darling. Come on. 187 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:19,880 Good girl. Good. 188 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:22,120 So, she is mouthing at your hand, isn't she? 189 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:23,960 Yeah, yeah. A lot. 190 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:25,720 OK, yeah. Did you see? 191 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:27,840 Yeah, don't ask her for any more. 192 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:32,480 We just keep on persevering. 193 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:35,200 We don't stop trying to do it. 194 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:37,520 And why did you guys get Daisy in the first place? 195 00:08:37,560 --> 00:08:38,960 Company for my mum. 196 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,560 And it would encourage Mum to leave the house 197 00:08:41,600 --> 00:08:43,280 and that way she would meet people. 198 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:48,360 When Dad died it was awful 199 00:08:48,400 --> 00:08:51,440 because I was leaving Mum at home all day in the house on her own. 200 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:56,200 Mum had been married for over 50 years 201 00:08:56,240 --> 00:08:58,560 and they did everything together. 202 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:03,920 So, I thought having a little dog would be absolutely perfect. 203 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:09,040 Sorry. And this is... 204 00:09:09,080 --> 00:09:11,840 It's not worked out, has it? 205 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,960 I don't really like taking her out for a walk. OK. 206 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,800 I just don't want to be struggling, 207 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:22,680 putting things on her. 208 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:24,160 I can understand that. 209 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:30,640 If I can just get Daisy where I can put her harness on 210 00:09:30,680 --> 00:09:35,320 without the fight, oh, it would be fabulous. 211 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:41,360 DOG BARKS 212 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:50,520 Yes! 213 00:09:50,560 --> 00:09:51,920 This way, come on. 214 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:53,840 BARKS 215 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:55,840 Argh! Oh... 216 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:57,320 SHE SIGHS 217 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:58,800 What am I like? 218 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:03,920 Hoping the trainers can help sort out their mess 219 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,040 are the academy's latest arrivals. 220 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:09,160 So if you were to describe Marley as a song... Yeah. 221 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:11,560 ..what song would it be? 222 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:13,400 "Don't leave me baby." 223 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:15,000 THEY LAUGH 224 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:18,120 I don't even know if it's that, is it that? Don't leave me... 225 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:20,320 I think the song is, "don't leave me this way." 226 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:23,200 I think it's your age, Louise, you're fine. 227 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:25,520 THEY LAUGH 228 00:10:25,560 --> 00:10:27,800 Trusting the trainers will hit the right note 229 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:30,320 with seven-year-old Yorkshire terrier Marley 230 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:32,440 is sound engineer Louise. 231 00:10:33,680 --> 00:10:35,280 So, it's just me and Marley at home. 232 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:38,800 Sorry, Marley. 233 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:42,560 Are you single? Am I single? Yeah? 234 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:44,040 MARLEY WHIMPERS 235 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:49,240 He's a beautiful dog. Does he get a lot of attention? Yeah. 236 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:51,400 Does he? Yeah, I was in Arsenal 237 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:53,160 and one of the matches was on 238 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:57,080 and I just heard like from the hot dog van - "So beautiful!" 239 00:10:57,120 --> 00:10:59,800 I was like, "Oh, no-one really says that." 240 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:03,120 I said, "Thank you." She goes, "Not you silly, the dog!" 241 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:05,360 THEY LAUGH 242 00:11:05,400 --> 00:11:07,720 Has Marley ever been a sort of good wingman? 243 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:10,120 If I bring a guy home he just stares at them. 244 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:13,840 Or he'll just come and sit in between 245 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:15,840 so they're like, "What the hell's this?" 246 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:24,440 So Marley, we're nearly here. 247 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:27,880 Oh, here they come. Let's have a look. 248 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:30,400 Watching on are trainers Sean and Kamal. 249 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:33,360 Bye. Bye, see ya, Marley. Bye! 250 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:34,680 THEY LAUGH 251 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:43,040 She's not got him on a lead. That's interesting, isn't it? 252 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:44,240 Hmm. 253 00:11:44,280 --> 00:11:46,800 That would indicate that he doesn't want to leave her, you know. Yeah. 254 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:49,560 Are you excited? Yeah! 255 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:53,840 Hello, you all right? I'm fine, how are you? 256 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,400 I'm good, thank you, I'm Grace. 257 00:11:56,440 --> 00:11:58,520 Who've we got here? Marley. 258 00:11:58,560 --> 00:12:00,320 He's a happy little chappie. 259 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:01,680 He's adorable. 260 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:03,560 Look, where are we? 261 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:06,320 He's beautiful. So why Marley? I love the name. 262 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:09,280 Well, basically, when I got him he was like quite matted, 263 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:12,000 so like Bob Marley, like Rasta dreadlocks. 264 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:14,480 I was like, "OK." I love that! 265 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:16,280 THEY LAUGH 266 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,320 He's come in quite confident and happy. 267 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:21,720 He likes his toys, he's toy motivated, 268 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:23,960 that's nice, that's really, really helpful. 269 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:25,360 I can tell he's playful. Very. 270 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:27,680 He went straight for the ball, didn't he? Yeah, very much so. 271 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,760 Does he run you round? Um... Keeps you on your feet. 272 00:12:30,800 --> 00:12:33,400 Having the one person like now, he'll just sit and stare. 273 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:43,800 Is he your little bestie? Yeah. 274 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:47,040 Is he? Are you close? Yeah, yeah, yeah, very close. 275 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:48,880 Separation anxiety, he's got. 276 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:50,760 He literally has to come everywhere with me, 277 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:52,520 even if I go to get up, 278 00:12:52,560 --> 00:12:54,080 which I'll show you, 279 00:12:54,120 --> 00:12:55,360 he'll get up too. 280 00:12:57,800 --> 00:12:59,920 Everything you do. Yeah, basically. 281 00:12:59,960 --> 00:13:02,120 He's just staring at her, isn't he? Yeah, yeah. 282 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:03,400 He can't take his eyes off her. 283 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:05,200 Yeah, he's became very focused, hasn't he? 284 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:07,440 I wonder what would happen if she moved. Mmm. 285 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:10,520 If she wasn't there with him, yeah. That'll be interesting. 286 00:13:10,560 --> 00:13:12,640 I'll leave you for a little while. OK. 287 00:13:12,680 --> 00:13:14,840 Let Marley have a roam round and the trainers will be out shortly 288 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:16,680 to have a chat. Amazing. Is that all right? 289 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:18,520 Yeah, that's perfect. OK, good luck. 290 00:13:18,560 --> 00:13:22,120 So, are you going to be OK? Yeah. Not going to cry? 291 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:28,000 You're going to be a good boy, aren't you? Yeah. OK, up. That's it. 292 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:37,960 Come on. Good lad. 293 00:13:39,320 --> 00:13:43,520 Good girlie, OK, that's fine. 294 00:13:43,560 --> 00:13:47,040 What we don't want to do is go and grab her and make it happen. 295 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:50,720 And that's what I do, manhandling. It is what we've done. 296 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:53,760 But I also know the importance of grooming her. 297 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:01,600 So how would you describe your relationship with Daisy now? 298 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:04,520 I love her to bits. I love her to bits. 299 00:14:04,560 --> 00:14:08,920 I was in a funny little place after losing David 300 00:14:08,960 --> 00:14:11,440 and I can't think of life without her now, really. 301 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:14,000 Yeah. So you said it was after David passed that you got Daisy? 302 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:16,600 Yes. What do you think he would've thought of her? 303 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:19,720 I don't think we would've had her, to be quite honest. 304 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:23,600 Because me and David had nomadic lives, really. We had a narrow boat 305 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:26,160 and then we had a motorhome. 306 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:28,600 We had such fun. Yeah. 307 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:30,800 If we had the money to do something 308 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:35,800 and we wanted to do it, we did it. And I'm right glad we did. Yes. 309 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:39,880 Because you can be here today and gone tomorrow. 310 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:43,720 He got this infection in his leg, went into hospital, 311 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:45,920 cos it was fairly bad. 312 00:14:45,960 --> 00:14:49,080 Caught Covid in hospital. In hospital? 313 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:53,080 You know, and, uh, and he didn't come home. 314 00:14:57,520 --> 00:15:00,520 So it were, yeah, it were difficult. 315 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:01,840 Cos I loved him to bits. 316 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:09,040 He was everything to me. I wish you could've met him, 317 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:14,360 you'd have liked him. You know. Everybody liked David. 318 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:17,680 We'd been together 24 hours a day, seven days a week. 319 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:22,600 We'd done everything together. I'm not doing anything. 320 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:25,960 I'm just, I'm stagnating. Yeah. 321 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:29,360 And I'm missing out. 322 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:32,000 I've been stuck in the house for over a year now, 323 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:38,480 I need to move on. I need to get out and do things 324 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:43,040 and start a bit of a new life I think, really. 325 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:47,040 I do hope Daisy can help me do that. 326 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:51,720 I don't take her out now, like I'm hoping to. 327 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:54,680 And when you've got a dog you meet people. 328 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:58,000 Yeah. She was there to get you out and about, 329 00:15:58,040 --> 00:15:59,840 but now she's kind of keeping you in. 330 00:15:59,880 --> 00:16:01,440 Yeah. Now she's keeping me in. 331 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:09,440 So tell us what, what's the issue, what's the deal? 332 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:12,760 So basically if I leave him, he gets separation anxiety 333 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:16,160 so he just can't be left alone. OK. 334 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:20,560 Cos he just really starts barking, scratching the door, 335 00:16:20,600 --> 00:16:22,200 it's just a bit of a nightmare. 336 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:25,920 Wow. Do you think if you left here now, do you think he'd do it? 337 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:30,720 Yeah. Do you want to try? Do you want to give it a go? 338 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:33,880 Just leave him in here, let's see what happens, yeah? 339 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:38,800 So just keep him in here. Ooh! 340 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:41,280 Marley, just pop him back that's OK. Good boy, that's it, 341 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:44,880 we're going in. Come on, this way, this way. 342 00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:48,640 Perfect, OK. Let's see what happens then. 343 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:49,920 OK. 344 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:53,520 DOG WHINES, RATTLES DOOR 345 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:58,720 Wow. Marley... Marley. 346 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:00,800 That's pretty extreme, isn't it? OK, Louise. 347 00:17:00,840 --> 00:17:02,560 Yeah, come back in, please. 348 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:05,280 Ah, there you are! I just went to go to the shop! Yay. 349 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:07,520 Come on, this way. OK. Bring him back. 350 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:10,240 It's really interesting that as soon as you left... Yeah. 351 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:12,760 ..he just loses all interest in toys, everything. 352 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:14,920 In everything. And he's just... His focus, yeah. 353 00:17:14,960 --> 00:17:17,440 "Get my mum back, get my mum back." Yeah. So he'll do that 354 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:20,760 like constantly. Mm-hm. Until I come back. 355 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:23,560 I feel like I'm a prisoner, cos I can't leave my house, 356 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:27,560 if I do, he's going to be upset, just a nervous wreck. 357 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:30,800 Shaking, barking, become hysterical. 358 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:32,840 So, yeah, I can't really do anything. 359 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:34,640 You know, it's just so upsetting. 360 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:38,840 If I said put a flag in the sand, 361 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:42,120 when this started, where would you go to? 362 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:46,280 Probably around one and a half like, he started being really clingy 363 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:48,920 and very problematic, I'd say. 364 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:54,720 Since I've had Marley, I've not been on holiday. 365 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:56,600 I don't have a social life. 366 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:58,680 I can't physically go out with my friends, 367 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:01,800 go out for a drink. 368 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:05,800 Marley has stopped my love life from progressing. 369 00:18:05,840 --> 00:18:07,720 I can't just go out on dates. I can't. 370 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:12,480 Literally, he has taken over my life. 371 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:17,880 Are you getting anxious now? A little bit. 372 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:20,280 Just relax. It's all right. OK, yeah, cos I'm like... 373 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:22,520 BREATHES TIGHTLY You're sort of up there. 374 00:18:22,560 --> 00:18:25,120 I know, I'm like, "Oh, my God, I feel so tense." 375 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:27,280 Just relax, everything, everything's all right, 376 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:30,280 and it's just one of things where we're going to get you 377 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:33,440 back on track. OK. All right, just relax, it's all right. 378 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:36,400 It's really important that, Marley's behaviour is fixed. 379 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:40,080 Just so I can literally have like a day to day life. 380 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:44,800 It's too much for me like, there's only so much 381 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:48,000 a person can take. 382 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:52,760 This is like the last, the last bit of hope that I've got. 383 00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:58,920 Good girl. 384 00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:02,920 She will ask to be put up on my mum's knee. Yeah. 385 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:05,920 For my mum to back scratch, which is why we can't understand 386 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:08,840 why she won't let us do the same with a brush. 387 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:13,560 I think because of the surgery she's had... Yeah. 388 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:16,160 ..her association with being picked up 389 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:21,440 and handled in a situation where she has no control, equals pain. 390 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:25,480 Oh. Painful memories stick very, very well. 391 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:30,760 When a dog has had stroking or touching in an area 392 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:32,360 where they feel pain, 393 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:35,000 even when the illness or injury's been resolved 394 00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:40,040 the memory of that pain is still there and can cause dogs to react. 395 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:45,200 Because up to now you haven't always listened to her communication 396 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:47,800 she's escalated to the point where she is heard. 397 00:19:47,840 --> 00:19:51,040 Her go to is growl and snap. 398 00:19:52,120 --> 00:19:55,120 Dogs have very little control over their every day life. 399 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:57,320 We decide what they eat, where they sleep, 400 00:19:57,360 --> 00:19:59,200 where they go, who they interact with. 401 00:19:59,240 --> 00:20:01,120 So it's really important that we learn 402 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:04,520 to listen when they're communicating their wants and their needs. 403 00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:09,200 Daisy is being forced to do things she doesn't consent to. 404 00:20:09,240 --> 00:20:11,960 She does lots of dog body language behaviours saying 405 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:14,240 I'm not comfortable, I want this to stop, 406 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:17,480 please somebody help me. She's not listened to. 407 00:20:17,520 --> 00:20:23,360 And when that happens repeatedly there is that breakdown of trust. 408 00:20:23,400 --> 00:20:25,560 Wow. I knew it was what 409 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:28,440 we were doing but I didn't know what it was. 410 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:31,600 Her feelings are causing the behaviours. 411 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:35,160 If she doesn't feel threatened, if she doesn't feel, overwhelmed, 412 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:37,760 she doesn't feel those feelings she won't need to bite. 413 00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:39,040 Yes. Does that make sense? 414 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:42,000 It does. It does, it makes a lot of sense. 415 00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:45,640 This is what we were hoping we would get. 416 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:48,000 A light bulb moment. 417 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:52,320 It's these issues, like Daisy with the harness and, 418 00:20:52,360 --> 00:20:54,760 and the, the grooming, 419 00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:58,720 very easy to treat - once you listen to your dog. 420 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:02,240 Yeah. And with that the relationship will just change forever. 421 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:05,280 Oh, that's wonderful. We just want her to be happy. 422 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:14,440 So, what I'm going to do, 423 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:17,560 I'm going to offer her some food and stroke. 424 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,800 Good girl. We're creating positive association. 425 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:26,400 I can feel this happening to me but I'm eating 426 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,280 and I feel good, this is quite nice. 427 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,360 She has a long history of saying no so we have 428 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:35,200 to go in tiny steps. Hey, are you ready for some more? 429 00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,240 So we need to go at her pace. 430 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:39,560 When she says she wants a break, we give her a break. OK. 431 00:21:39,600 --> 00:21:41,480 OK, going to offer her some cheese 432 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,280 and I'm going to stroke with the grooming mitt. 433 00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:47,080 Wow, good girl! 434 00:21:47,120 --> 00:21:49,360 Gosh, how clever is that? 435 00:21:49,400 --> 00:21:52,760 So when she backs off and says can I have a break please, Jo, 436 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:55,680 I said, yeah, no problem. When she comes forward. 437 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:57,400 Oh, that's beautiful sitting. Wow. 438 00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:59,960 I'm going to ask her again with the grooming mitt with 439 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:01,960 the flat side. 440 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:07,880 Good girl. Nice job. 441 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:10,840 So she backs off so I say OK. 442 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,440 So you see what I mean about consent, when she says 443 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:16,520 she's had enough I say OK, you let me know when you want to come back 444 00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:18,280 so she doesn't feel the need to growl. 445 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,280 She goes away, she had a little think about it. 446 00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:24,600 Yeah? OK. 447 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:28,240 Good girlie. 448 00:22:29,280 --> 00:22:32,240 So you've got a bit of a mountain to climb. 449 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:34,360 But I think she's proved this 450 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:37,280 morning that it is not insurmountable for her. 451 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:40,920 I think it's just been amazing what you've managed to do. 452 00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:42,680 Good. It's, it's magical. 453 00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:50,720 BARK 454 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,120 Let's go again and round. 455 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:55,480 Yes. Nice work. 456 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:56,760 It's mid-morning. 457 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:58,920 Down. Yes. 458 00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,360 And the trainers are hard at work. 459 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,600 And to help with Marley's separation anxiety. 460 00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:08,160 Who's a good boy? 461 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,160 Sean has had to enlist Louise's friend Mark to come to 462 00:23:11,200 --> 00:23:13,120 the academy to keep him calm. 463 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:14,680 What's wrong? 464 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:17,320 Only now can training begin. 465 00:23:19,120 --> 00:23:20,920 OK, how you feeling at the moment? 466 00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:23,200 Um, yeah, a little bit better. 467 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:25,440 OK. I'm just like, oh, like how's Marley. 468 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:26,520 OK. Yeah. 469 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,000 OK. You've got quite a close bond, haven't you? 470 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:30,480 Yeah. 471 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:33,240 Yeah, when was the last time you actually left him then 472 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:34,320 and for how long? 473 00:23:34,360 --> 00:23:37,440 I don't think I have, I have to take him basically with me. 474 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:41,440 Wow. And I feel like I can't be living my life 475 00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:46,280 for another ten years, just very restricted. 476 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:49,000 So, why did you get Marley? 477 00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:53,280 Because I was leaving, my home town, 478 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:56,600 Manchester, and I was just like I just want that companion. 479 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:58,960 I think cos I had a dog as a child, 480 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:01,400 when I was a child that was my comfort blanket. 481 00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:06,400 Moving from Manchester to London by myself, obviously, 482 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:07,760 I was a little bit anxious. 483 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:11,880 It's a big city and I didn't want to feel like isolated and alone 484 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,040 and obviously having a dog when I was younger I knew that 485 00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:17,960 I would have comfort and companionship. 486 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,120 What sort of dog did you have as a child then? 487 00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:22,680 Collie. Oh, did you? A Border collie, yeah. 488 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,520 OK. Champ. He was just literally my best friend 489 00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:28,320 and I would play out with the dog and, you know, 490 00:24:28,360 --> 00:24:31,080 for hours and hours so, yeah, it, 491 00:24:31,120 --> 00:24:34,000 it ran away one time like, the window was down in the car. 492 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:35,320 The dog ran off? 493 00:24:35,360 --> 00:24:36,640 Yeah. OK. 494 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:38,600 I was trying to put the dog into the, 495 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,280 into like, put the seat belt over the dog 496 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,640 and then he just like jumped out the window and ran off. 497 00:24:46,360 --> 00:24:48,920 The dog was my everything. I was devastated. 498 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:51,880 And I remember I wouldn't speak. 499 00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:58,120 Champ was a big part of my life. Like, 500 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:01,000 growing up as a child like, just my comfort pillow, 501 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,480 like he was just there and... 502 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:04,520 Oh... 503 00:25:07,960 --> 00:25:09,880 You really loved him? Mm. 504 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:19,760 How old were you when this all happened? 505 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:21,320 Like eight or nine. 506 00:25:21,360 --> 00:25:24,480 Miraculously, he just come back like a month later. 507 00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:25,920 Wow. Yeah. 508 00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:28,160 And you didn't talk for a month? No, I just didn't speak. 509 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:31,200 Wow. I just didn't speak to anyone. 510 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:32,640 And you internalised it, did you? 511 00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:33,760 Yeah. 512 00:25:33,800 --> 00:25:36,920 When we were in reception, we said to you, 513 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:40,160 erm, could you just go out the door. 514 00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:43,080 You physically changed in your being 515 00:25:43,120 --> 00:25:46,240 to walk less than six foot out of the door. 516 00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,160 You literally changed. 517 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,960 You could see everything about you went from being chilled 518 00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,760 to, you suddenly went, I'm anxious. 519 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:57,520 And actually what you were doing was you were going back 520 00:25:57,560 --> 00:25:59,160 to that place when Champ was away 521 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,600 from you and you didn't know what was happening. 522 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:03,840 Yeah. 523 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:06,080 So you've conditioned your brain. 524 00:26:06,120 --> 00:26:08,920 Yeah. That when you're away from Champ. 525 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:12,920 Mm-hm. Substitute Champ for Marley, you get anxious. 526 00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:15,560 Yeah. When you leave him, right? 527 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:19,480 He senses, "Oh, jeez," because what's happening is, 528 00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:21,920 you're projecting onto the dog. 529 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,000 Yeah. Yeah. Can you see that? 530 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,400 Yeah. Oh, God, poor Marley. 531 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:31,520 The thing is about dogs and humans is that relationship we have 532 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,840 with them it doesn't just get confined 533 00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:36,120 to things that we want them to pick up. 534 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:39,320 They will pick up on your emotional Wi-Fi. Oh, wow. Do they? 535 00:26:39,360 --> 00:26:41,360 Yeah. OK? That's crazy. 536 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,840 You need to ref, think about reframing the Champ experience. 537 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,440 Yeah, your, your, everything about that relationship 538 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:49,920 you're defining by that one moment. Mm-hm. Yeah? 539 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,640 That was, in the grand scheme of things, actually a blip. 540 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,080 Yeah. That he came back. 541 00:26:54,120 --> 00:26:56,320 Mm-hm. It wasn't what you're telling yourself. 542 00:26:56,360 --> 00:26:57,360 Yeah. Are you with me? 543 00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:00,760 Mm-hm. By reframing that, you're going to be able to help Marley. 544 00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:03,720 In the process of helping Marley you're going to help yourself. 545 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:05,480 Mm-hm, thank you. All right? 546 00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:07,560 Yeah. You feel better about things? 547 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,080 Yeah, very much so, yeah. 548 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:15,000 Daisy. I can see Grandma. 549 00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:17,440 Daisy. Daisy. I can see Grandma. 550 00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:20,120 You can let her go if you like. Hello. 551 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:24,240 Now reunited... Hello, sweetheart. Yay! 552 00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:27,360 Now the family's back together. 553 00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:31,480 ..it's time for Wendy to begin harness training with Daisy. 554 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,760 Are you ready for your nemesis now? Are you ready? 555 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,440 No. 556 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:38,440 So the way we're going to do this. Yeah. 557 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,960 Going to get some food in your hand. Right. 558 00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:43,520 And you're going to slip the harness over your wrist. 559 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:44,800 Right. OK? 560 00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:50,680 Going to turn your palm up and bring her head through. 561 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,480 Right. 562 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:53,920 What's really important, 563 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:57,200 as you're putting this on is that you're not pushing it on her. 564 00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:00,720 You're holding it still and asking her to come through. 565 00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:01,920 Yeah. 566 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:04,240 You ready? Good girl. Well done. 567 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:05,880 So if you let her know you've got some food. 568 00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:09,240 Daisy, look what I've got. Ooh, look. 569 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:11,720 And then you pull your hand back. That's it. Oh. 570 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:14,480 That's it. 571 00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:16,480 Nearly. That's it. 572 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:18,920 Keep pulling your hand backwards so she leans in. 573 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,040 Don't push it over. 574 00:28:26,360 --> 00:28:28,880 Good girl, Daisy. Oh, good girl. Beautiful. Good girl. 575 00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:30,400 But we don't want her to get stuck. 576 00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:33,360 Oh, we'll take it off. Your big fluffy head. 577 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:36,680 I think that once she's had her hair cut it might be a little bit easier. Yes, easier. 578 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:39,360 Ooh. 579 00:28:39,400 --> 00:28:43,320 So next step, if we can, I'd like to get that fastened. OK? 580 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,720 Oh, look at this, look at this. 581 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,120 And if she tells you to stop, then you stop. 582 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,440 It's all about understanding consent and reading each other. 583 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:58,080 No. All right, darling. 584 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,080 That's lovely, well done. 585 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:03,600 Good girl. Now back with the treats again if she'll take treats again. 586 00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:06,560 Treat? 587 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:14,400 Yeah, good girl. 588 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:16,720 Harness on, nobody bitten. 589 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:19,040 Brilliant. No growls, no teeth. 590 00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:21,200 It's all about consent. Yeah. 591 00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:23,560 And once you understand that, everything will change. 592 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:26,120 Yeah. At the moment two of you needed for the harness. 593 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:29,280 BOTH: Yeah. But, I believe with training and patience 594 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,280 and time, I think you'd be able to do that by yourself. 595 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:36,120 Can I give you both a hug? Yeah! Thank you so much. 596 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,960 It's exciting, isn't it? You did all the hard work. 597 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:40,840 Well done. 598 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,440 Unbelievable. You're getting emotional, are you? 599 00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:45,320 Uh, it's all I wanted. 600 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:46,360 Aw. 601 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:47,760 Well done. Well done. 602 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,760 Now everyone's on the same page, it's time 603 00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,840 to get Daisy into the grooming room. Ooh! 604 00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,520 The trainers have set up a makeshift grooming room 605 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:01,240 to test how well Dahana 606 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,920 and Wendy read Daisy when she gives 607 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:07,200 and withdraws consent in her most feared place. 608 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:09,280 What's in here Daisy? 609 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,240 Going to the groomers can be quite terrifying. 610 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,600 For us, it's quite similar to going to 611 00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:17,120 a dentist who doesn't speak the same language as us, 612 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,560 perhaps they start poking and prodding around. 613 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:20,920 That's terrifying. 614 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:24,560 So it's really important that we listen to our dogs. 615 00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,240 Your first task is going to be 616 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:30,080 to get Daisy up onto the grooming table. 617 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,240 Oh, look, 618 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:33,680 there's your steps, Daisy. 619 00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:36,280 What's these? 620 00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:38,200 What? Daisy? 621 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,080 She's saying no. Mm-hm. 622 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:44,320 Come on. Round this side. Good girl. Come on. 623 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,000 Come on. 624 00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:48,040 No, you can't have the jar. 625 00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:49,800 Come on. Come on, Daisy. 626 00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:51,800 Come on, little dog. You can do it. 627 00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:56,120 Daisy, look what we've got. 628 00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:57,920 Come on, then. 629 00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:00,840 I've got to say, I'm, I don't think she's going to get up there. 630 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:02,440 Where's Dahana. Come on. 631 00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,680 Don't you want to do those steps, come on? 632 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,360 Dais, Daisy... Daisy. 633 00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:11,760 DAISY BARKS Ooh. It's all right, it's only wind. 634 00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:13,440 Not going great at the moment. 635 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:14,920 Daisy. Come on. 636 00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:16,880 Come on. 637 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:21,640 BARKING 638 00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:29,800 He does this even if we're going to the shops 639 00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,680 and I have to wait outside with him and she's gone into the shop. 640 00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:34,720 He'll still do this. He'll do this, yeah. 641 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:36,440 So... BARKING CONTINUES 642 00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:38,800 All right, oi, come on, look. SQUEAKS TOY 643 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:42,000 In the indoor training room, despite Mark's presence, 644 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:44,160 Marley is still not settling 645 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,760 and Sean is yet to begin his training. 646 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:52,120 What's this, whoa. 647 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,080 What's this? 648 00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:57,120 Mmm, mmm. 649 00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:00,080 It's nice. Here you go. Come on, oh, get some water at least. 650 00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,440 Ah, come on. Marley. 651 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:04,120 Marley. 652 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:05,640 BARKING 653 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:09,400 There's a few different things that cause separation anxiety. 654 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,960 But the main thing is that we spend stacks 655 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,440 and stacks of time around them, 656 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:16,880 and then you decide to leave that dog, 657 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:18,440 the dog starts to panic, 658 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:22,480 it can't sort of function by itself and it creates this anxiety. 659 00:32:22,520 --> 00:32:23,840 Oi, what's that? 660 00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:25,520 Look, what's that? 661 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,520 The way that Marley's being right now, this is one of 662 00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:31,160 the worst separation anxiety cases that I've seen. 663 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:32,800 Marley's not responding to anything 664 00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:34,760 and I just can't do any training with him. 665 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:36,800 Even with Mark he's still expressing 666 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:39,000 his really severe separation anxiety. 667 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,560 So what we're going to do is we're going to get Louise back in, 668 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,680 to start building that confidence away from her. 669 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,680 With Marley, we are starting from the bottom. 670 00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:51,720 If we manage to get Marley doing his thing, 671 00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:54,440 being a dog and confident whilst Louise isn't there, 672 00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,040 that would be more than an achievement for me. 673 00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:00,640 But that is a massive challenge with how severe he is. 674 00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:07,680 What we got? 675 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,280 Come on then. Look. 676 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,480 Back in the pen... Good girl, that's it, good girl. 677 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:16,560 Ah, go, go, go. All the way. Come on. 678 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,560 ..Dahana and Wendy are struggling to get Daisy to consent 679 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:21,560 to climbing onto the grooming table. 680 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,440 She might need a bit of a sniff about, you know. Yeah. 681 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,520 Let's go for a walk around. Good girl. And have a sniff. 682 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:28,600 Let her have a sniff, spot on. 683 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:30,440 You have a walk round and a sniff 684 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,960 and then we'll have another go in a minute. 685 00:33:34,000 --> 00:33:36,760 What do you want to do? You tell us what you want to do. 686 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:38,200 Wendy, that's beautiful. 687 00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:40,800 The fact that you recognise that she needed a minute, 688 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:42,840 spot on. Keep going, well done. 689 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,160 Come on, Daisy. Come on. 690 00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:49,800 Come on, you can do it. Run. Come on Daisy, come on. 691 00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,200 Oh! Oh! Come on, Daisy, up you get. 692 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,960 Come on, Daisy, up, up, up, up, up, up, please. 693 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,320 Good girl. Come on then, are you ready? 694 00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,080 Shall we try again? 695 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:03,160 We going to run and jump? Are we? Come on. 696 00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:05,880 I feel like Daisy's run out of steam a little bit. 697 00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:07,840 I think she's a little bit tired. 698 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,680 You having a good sniff. Sniffing's good. 699 00:34:10,720 --> 00:34:12,800 There's nothing to be scared of. 700 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,560 Yeah, I think the fact that they're giving her a breather is perfect. 701 00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:18,800 We can't ask for much more than that. No. 702 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:21,400 Eh? 703 00:34:23,720 --> 00:34:27,120 Oh, look, look what Grandma's got. 704 00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,920 Look what Grandma's got, go on. 705 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:32,400 Oh! Clever girl. Good girl. 706 00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:36,480 Oh, yes! Nearly. 707 00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:40,120 Good girl. Good girl, come on then. Nearly. 708 00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:43,000 Clever girl. You're trying so hard. 709 00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:44,800 Come on. Good girl, go on, then. 710 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:48,600 Woo! BOTH: Yay! Good girl. 711 00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:52,720 What a dog. 712 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:54,600 Well done. That's amazing. 713 00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:57,120 Well done, guys, that was absolutely brilliant. 714 00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,400 I don't think she could've shown you more consent of being willing 715 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,640 to get on that table. It was amazing. Amazing. 716 00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,160 Lovely. 717 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,640 Next step, we're going to do some grooming. OK. Right. 718 00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:11,280 So just ahead of you on the table is a grooming mitt. Yes. 719 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:14,480 I'd like you to pop the grooming mitt on your hand. 720 00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:23,200 And then just gently let her know you've got it, let her see it. 721 00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:28,880 Look what, look what Grandma's got. Whoa. 722 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,320 And then you're going to start grooming. 723 00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:43,880 Oh, my goodness! 724 00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:49,760 And that is our job done. 725 00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:51,560 LAUGHTER 726 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:56,120 Oh, Daisy. That was brilliant. 727 00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:07,240 OK. She was just starting to show her teeth 728 00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,760 a little bit there so I'm just stopping now. 729 00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:11,400 Good girl. 730 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,120 That's lovely. 731 00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:15,200 Wow. 732 00:36:15,240 --> 00:36:18,920 Just gentle. Oh, is that nice? 733 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:24,480 No, you, all right, darling. I'm listening to you. 734 00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,120 I'm listening and you don't want it. 735 00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:28,880 Oh. 736 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,680 Look how relaxed she is on that grooming table. 737 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:35,000 Is that nice? 738 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:38,160 It was like watching you baby take the first steps. 739 00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:42,040 Just to see her jump up on her own accord, 740 00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:47,360 it was such a breakthrough. It, it was terrific. 741 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:49,840 It was. So exciting. 742 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:50,960 Good girl, well done. 743 00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,160 Oh, good girl, Daisy. 744 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:57,160 Beautiful. Come on, sweetheart. Well done. 745 00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:00,480 This is a, a big step forward. You'll be going out soon. 746 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,600 I will. Walking with her. You will. You'll be having fun. 747 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,800 With a beautifully groomed dog. 748 00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:07,320 Oh, yes. Yeah. 749 00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:10,120 Come on, sweetheart. 750 00:37:12,240 --> 00:37:13,760 Good girl. 751 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:18,440 Well done. 752 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:23,320 Go on, then. 753 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:24,960 Hello. Yay! 754 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:25,960 In the courtyard... 755 00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:27,880 You're a good boy, aren't you? Hiya. 756 00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:30,600 ..after being reunited with Louise, 757 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,840 it's time for Marley to begin working on his independence. 758 00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,680 Marley has a very, very unhealthy attachment to you 759 00:37:36,720 --> 00:37:38,640 and let's be truthful, you have with him. Yeah. 760 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:40,520 OK, we've discussed that at length. Mm-hm. 761 00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:43,320 So it's going to take time to change that narrative 762 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,680 in his mind as well as yours. OK? Mm-hm. 763 00:37:45,720 --> 00:37:48,280 But that doesn't mean that we can't change it. Yeah. 764 00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:51,800 So we're going to work on allowing him to be who he is. 765 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,760 OK. OK? So that he can build confidence. 766 00:37:54,800 --> 00:37:58,440 So what we're going to do is randomly put the ball in one of the cones. 767 00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:01,640 OK. And see if he'll go and find the ball. OK? Yeah, OK. 768 00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:03,880 This is him building independence. 769 00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:07,680 So he's taking on a challenge and then he's achieving it 770 00:38:07,720 --> 00:38:09,960 and he looks around and he goes, ah, my mum's not there. 771 00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:11,280 Yeah. I did that myself. 772 00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:14,360 True. And that's the key that builds confidence. 773 00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:18,400 So. What's this? See what he does. Where's the ball? Marley, look. 774 00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:21,160 So are we going to fake out where it goes, eh? 775 00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:26,840 Go and get it. Good, OK. Get it. Go and get it, go on. 776 00:38:26,880 --> 00:38:29,040 Get it, get it, get it, get it. Good boy. 777 00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:31,480 Where's it, where's that ball? It's OK. Where's that ball? 778 00:38:31,520 --> 00:38:34,560 He's OK, go. Let him figure it out. 779 00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:37,840 Good boy. 780 00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:40,280 Good. Good boy. 781 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:42,320 Nice! Yes, good boy. 782 00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:43,760 APPLAUSE 783 00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:45,760 Good. See all that time... 784 00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:47,960 Yeah? ..he's getting more engrossed in this task. 785 00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:51,040 Yeah. Cos he's not so... Absorbed. ..concerned about you. Exactly. 786 00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,920 We're starting to just build that little bit of independence. OK? 787 00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:55,280 So what we're going to do now, 788 00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:57,800 we're going to move it where he's starting to go out of sight. OK. 789 00:38:57,840 --> 00:38:59,840 So around a corner. 790 00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:01,640 DRAMATIC MUSIC 791 00:39:01,680 --> 00:39:06,160 Confidence is the first step to training separation anxiety. 792 00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:08,240 So let's take him through here, let him see. 793 00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:09,400 So let him see the ball. 794 00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:11,640 What's this? Hey, what's this? 795 00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:14,120 We've got to build it up in really small steps 796 00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:15,840 so we start with five seconds away, 797 00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:17,600 but then that quickly becomes ten seconds 798 00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:19,400 and before you know it you get into minutes 799 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,040 and you build and you build and build. 800 00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:26,200 The whole key to it is the dog's learning that they can succeed, cope 801 00:39:26,240 --> 00:39:29,040 and be independent away from the owner. 802 00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,440 OK, so we're going to back off. OK? OK. 803 00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:34,040 And Sean's going to come out so back right up, back up, let's push it. 804 00:39:34,080 --> 00:39:36,240 So I'm out in the pen, now you. OK. Go on, from here. OK? OK. 805 00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,760 Stay there, you're all right, you're good. 806 00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,920 You can do this. OK? Off you go, go on, go for it. 807 00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,840 Find it, Marley. Go get it. Yes. 808 00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:56,040 Go find, quick. Good boy! 809 00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:59,320 So he's by his self. Doesn't know where, you could be walking off now. 810 00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:03,440 True. And he's just being a dog. He's being a terrier now. Yeah. 811 00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:05,880 Back in the pen... There he is. Oh, has he got it? Oh, he's not got it. 812 00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:08,000 That's OK. That's all right. So we send him again. 813 00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:10,400 Let's go back, yeah. Go back, go find your ball. Go find it. Go get 814 00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:12,800 your ball. It's in there. Go and find it, good boy, Marley. Go on. 815 00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:14,560 ..Marley is taking on a challenge 816 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:17,880 to build his confidence away from Louise. 817 00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:20,640 So that terrier that was stuck to your side, 818 00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,760 you then just sent him away. Yeah. 819 00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:28,320 Yeah, not even with you. It's amazing. Yeah. 820 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:30,320 Has he got it? Good boy. 821 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:31,960 CHEERING 822 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:33,320 Good boy! And he went... 823 00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:36,080 And, yeah, he's like, oh, Sean's my bestie. 824 00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:38,560 ..and he went to you. How does that feel? How does that feel? 825 00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:39,800 Yeah, that's amazing. Yeah? 826 00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:42,160 Cos I think the first time he went he was probably a little bit 827 00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,480 anxious, then the second time he was like, no, I can do this. 828 00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:46,120 He can do this! Yeah, exactly. Yeah. 829 00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:49,080 All right? So... OK. ..because he's been smashing that so well... Yeah. 830 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,920 ..all right, we're going to move to a harder challenge. Mm-hm. 831 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:55,240 All right? We're going to let you do this on your own. OK? Mm-hm. 832 00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:59,080 Sean and Kamal have set up a living room 833 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:02,320 to test how Marley will react in a home environment. 834 00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:09,040 He'll have to find the ball in the cone without Louise in the room. 835 00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:11,720 What do you reckon to your living room, bit different? 836 00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:14,120 It's amazing, I love it. An outside living room. 837 00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:17,120 It's great in the summer, not so good in the winter. 838 00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:19,480 Are you ready to roll? 839 00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:21,200 Yeah. 840 00:41:21,240 --> 00:41:23,040 Genuinely, my palms are sweaty. 841 00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:24,520 Yeah, me too. 842 00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:26,360 Good boy. 843 00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:33,080 So we're going to do the same game with him. 844 00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:35,080 And you're going to go out of sight. 845 00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:37,760 This is all about just stage by stage building that confidence. 846 00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:40,400 All right? OK, yeah. One step at a time, he'll then build it. 847 00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:42,600 All right? All right? Cool. OK, this way, Marley. 848 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:44,080 That's it pick him up. 849 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:47,480 Just take a moment, don't rush. You're in control, stay calm. 850 00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:48,600 OK. 851 00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:50,720 OK. There we go. 852 00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:56,800 This is a big one. This is a big one. 853 00:41:56,840 --> 00:42:00,520 With severe separation anxiety, it can take years to fix. 854 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:03,880 And when treating cases like this on day one of training 855 00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:07,040 to get the dog to be out of sight from the owner for ten, 856 00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:10,200 20, 30 seconds is a huge victory. 857 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:17,240 OK. That's it, go to the door, send him in, 858 00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,040 you're going to shut that door, we'll tell you when. 859 00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:21,000 OK. Ready? 860 00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:22,720 Yeah. 861 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:23,760 Go for it. 862 00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:25,880 Go find, go, Marley. Go. Quick. 863 00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:28,400 Close the door. 864 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:37,960 Let him figure it out. Let him figure it out. 865 00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:45,240 Oh, God. 866 00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:48,880 Aw, come on, Marley. 867 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,560 Nice. Awesome. 868 00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:04,680 Oh, we've got it, he's got it. 869 00:43:04,720 --> 00:43:06,800 Yay! Yes! 870 00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:08,800 SHE WHOOPS 871 00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:10,840 Yeah. 872 00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:12,880 Woo! 873 00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:14,040 Excellent. 874 00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:15,200 How do you feel, Louise? 875 00:43:15,240 --> 00:43:16,680 Oh, yeah, that was amazing cos I, 876 00:43:16,720 --> 00:43:18,640 cos he even come over and then he come back. 877 00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:20,160 And he couldn't even see you there. Yeah. 878 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:21,840 And he's still not freaking out. 879 00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,440 He's like, no, no, I'm doing my job. I'm being a dog, 880 00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:27,120 I've got that confidence, I am going to get this tennis ball. 881 00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,640 Yeah. That was amazing. 882 00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:33,320 This is the first time I've seen him just go off on his own. 883 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,200 I've been living like this for so many years like 884 00:43:36,240 --> 00:43:39,560 a prisoner basically, and today I feel free. 885 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:41,560 You can do this in the long grass. Oh, yeah, true. 886 00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:42,880 So you can have a ball with you and 887 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,880 you just chuck it in there and you go, "You go be a terrier now." Yeah. 888 00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:47,880 And he just goes in there and he's going through, 889 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:50,640 getting muddy, covered and stuff like that. And that's what we want 890 00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:52,920 rather than him just walking along looking at you. Yep. 891 00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:55,480 Yeah. He's like, right, where's the next challenge? 892 00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,360 What am I going to get after? 893 00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:00,160 This time next year, I'll be packing my bags. 894 00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:02,760 I'll be sending a postcard from wherever I am 895 00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,280 to Marley saying, I'm enjoying myself, 896 00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,640 I'm having a great time and I hope you are. 897 00:44:09,240 --> 00:44:11,200 Come on. Ho-ho-ho. 898 00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:14,720 Good boy. 899 00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:38,800 And I can now brush her using the brush in one hand, 900 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:43,240 cheese in the other and she's not got any big knots in her. 901 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:47,080 Now, when you are putting the harness on, 902 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:50,560 yes, she is still, she's dancing and wriggling, 903 00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:53,040 but it, it's manageable now. 904 00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:57,200 The harness goes on and she's happy and out we go. 905 00:44:57,240 --> 00:44:58,680 Good girl. 906 00:44:58,720 --> 00:45:00,560 We go round the shops. 907 00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:05,720 Daisy loves going into a coffee shop and having sit down. 908 00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:08,160 We have managed to get to the doggie cafe. 909 00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:11,400 There's a separate menu for dogs. It's lovely. 910 00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,880 Love you, don't we? Love you, baby. 911 00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:24,840 I've encouraged like more of an independent environment 912 00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,760 for Marley which has really helped with his confidence. 913 00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:30,400 He's not always looking for me for reassurance. 914 00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:36,680 It's allowed me and Marley not to be so co-dependent on each other. 915 00:45:36,720 --> 00:45:39,640 So I can now leave Marley three to four hours 916 00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:42,800 without me getting stressed and Marley getting stressed 917 00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:44,880 because we're both stress free now. 918 00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:46,520 Because he knows I'm coming back 919 00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:49,160 and I know that I haven't got a stressed dog at home. 920 00:45:49,200 --> 00:45:52,600 I feel like a new person, I can go out on dates. 921 00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:56,160 Words can't express like how happy I am. 922 00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:23,640 Subtitles by Red Bee Media