1 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:04,495 DOGS BARK 2 00:00:06,360 --> 00:00:08,615 This once peaceful country house... 3 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:10,535 GROWLS 4 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:11,855 This is our life. 5 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:13,855 ...is now a special place... 6 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:14,895 Back, back. 7 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:16,135 My house smells of his wee. 8 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:19,095 ...for those at the end of their tether. 9 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:21,495 I'm frightened it's going to kill him. 10 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:24,895 AGGRESSIVE BARKING 11 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:27,855 He has pulled my arm out the socket. 12 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:31,095 If she could get off that lead, she'd be hanging off their face. 13 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,735 This is make or break for us. 14 00:00:33,760 --> 00:00:36,575 Here, a team of expert trainers... 15 00:00:36,600 --> 00:00:37,855 Down. Back. 16 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:40,695 Look at them. 17 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:42,375 .Take on... Stop it! 18 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,735 ...some of Britain's worst-behaved dogs... 19 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:47,455 Whoa! No, not good. 20 00:00:47,480 --> 00:00:49,055 Oh, my God. 21 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:50,735 ...and their humans... 22 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:52,695 How much training do you guys do now? 23 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:56,335 None. 24 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:57,575 What's this? 25 00:00:59,280 --> 00:01:01,175 She's lost trust with humans. 26 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:02,615 ...at an academy... 27 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:04,975 This is your opportunity to move forward, 28 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:06,615 and we're going to give you those skills. Yeah. 29 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,095 ...unlike any other. 30 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,375 We need to get that muzzle off you. 31 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:11,495 Oh, I love your face. 32 00:01:13,320 --> 00:01:14,495 Good boy! 33 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:18,095 That has never happened before. 34 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:19,815 Yes! 35 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:21,055 Can you believe that? 36 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:22,295 Ba-ba-ba-ba! 37 00:01:22,320 --> 00:01:24,015 SHE GASPS 38 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:25,935 It's like he's a different dog. 39 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:31,455 DOGS BARK 40 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:40,015 Come on, come on, come on, come on, come on. It's this way. 41 00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:43,015 Off to school boys. Off to school we go. 42 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,615 We may not have enjoyed going to school when we were younger. 43 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:48,655 However, our dogs love going to dog school. 44 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:50,935 What do you think about doing some more work? 45 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:58,135 It's mental simulation, it's enrichment. 46 00:01:58,160 --> 00:02:00,015 Look at his little nose working. 47 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:04,375 It's very similar to us doing a pub quiz or perhaps playing sudoku. 48 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:06,655 Good boy. Get your toy! 49 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:08,095 Sit. 50 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:10,415 Yes. Good. 51 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,775 It's an opportunity for them to work their brain 52 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:15,135 and get that hit of dopamine that makes you feel good. 53 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:17,455 Yeah! Nice! 54 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:19,295 When you throw the owner into the mix 55 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:20,855 and a handful of dog treats, 56 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,415 there's nowhere else that that dog wants to be. 57 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:25,175 DOG WHINES 58 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:27,535 He's trying to think how he can get out, isn't he? Exactly. 59 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:30,615 He's looking for an escape route, aren't you, little man? 60 00:02:30,640 --> 00:02:33,255 As most of the students enjoy their lessons... 61 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:39,655 ...a brand-new pupil is en route to the dog academy. 62 00:02:39,680 --> 00:02:40,895 SHEEP BAA 63 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,815 One-year-old poodle Daisy... 64 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:49,255 Ever since the day we picked her up she's worn a flower. 65 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:51,775 Even though she's dead scruffy and what have you, 66 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:53,215 she still wears a flower. 67 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:55,975 She's dead scruffy! Yes. 68 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:59,015 ...who lives at home with Wendy and Dahana. 69 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,575 So, what is this family relationship, are you two sisters? 70 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:03,535 Oh, thank you very much. We are. 71 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:06,015 You're having that one, Wendy! This is the younger sister. 72 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:09,015 You've earned a brownie point today! Yes! 73 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:10,415 Yeah, mum and daughter. 74 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:12,455 Lovely. So who's the boss at home? 75 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:15,775 Dahana. You big fibber. 76 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,535 You're the boss. 77 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:21,295 You are. You're like a tyrant. 78 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:25,015 Only when we're in the car 79 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:27,535 and she drives above the speed limit! 80 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:31,455 So, tell me about Daisy. 81 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:35,055 95% of the time she's such a warm little girl. 82 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:39,615 But then there's just the 5% of time where she's a wild child. 83 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:41,495 A sassy one. Yes. 84 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:42,895 DAISY GROWLS 85 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:48,735 If Daisy was a celebrity she would be Madonna 86 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,815 with the curly hair and, you know, the conical bras, 87 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:53,415 and she'd be... 88 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:58,415 You know, "You will do what I want you to do.” 89 00:03:58,440 --> 00:03:59,935 Yeah. 90 00:03:59,960 --> 00:04:01,335 DAISY WHIMPERS 91 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:05,495 So, ladies, we're nearly here. 92 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:06,815 THEY GASP 93 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:11,535 Welcome to the dog academy. 94 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:14,215 We're doing the lottery to be able to win money 95 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:17,015 to buy something like this. 96 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:19,015 Thank you very much. 97 00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:20,375 Here they come. 98 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:23,335 Casting an eye over the academy's latest pupil... 99 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:25,655 See you later. All the best, see you later on. 100 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:26,775 There you go mum. 101 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:28,655 ...are trainers Nancy and Jo. 102 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:33,375 Good girl. 103 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:35,375 Wow, that is some mop of hair. 104 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:36,895 Come on then, Daisy. 105 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:41,175 Hello. Good morning. 106 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:44,575 Are you all right? Yes, thank you, are you? Good. 107 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:48,375 Look how much she's using her nose because she can't see anything. 108 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:50,735 I love her hair. 109 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:52,535 She desperately needs grooming. 110 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:55,975 Where are her eyes? Does she have any? 111 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:58,295 If we can't see in she can't see out. 112 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:00,335 What's her personality like? 113 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:01,655 Feisty. 114 00:05:01,680 --> 00:05:06,055 When you're wanting her to do something she doesn't want to do, 115 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,375 you know, she doesn't like that. 116 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:09,895 She doesn't like doing as she's told? 117 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,135 Nope. Not with certain things. 118 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,535 GROWLS Eh! Hey, Daisy. 119 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:18,495 Ooo! 120 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:20,175 Daisy. 121 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:21,935 Oh, she's fierce. Yeah. 122 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,335 Now let me brush you. GROWLS 123 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:28,055 " Ooh! ow. Not a happy dog 124 00:05:28,080 --> 00:05:30,495 Come on Daisy, let's put your harness on. Come on. 125 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:32,535 GROWLS That's not good. 126 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:34,855 She's a little dog that really is speaking her mind. 127 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:36,135 Oh, she is. 128 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:37,895 Come on. Come on. 129 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:40,695 The dreaded harness. 130 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:43,055 We can't have that kind of biting on skin. 131 00:05:44,840 --> 00:05:46,535 PANTS 132 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:49,215 We're here to ask for help. 133 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:51,575 Yeah, the trainers will be out shortly, is that all right? 134 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:53,495 All right, thank you. Thanks, sweetheart. 135 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:54,815 See you in a bit. 136 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:00,895 I mean, this rug must be a fortune. 137 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:02,575 I know. 138 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:04,095 It's gorgeous. 139 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:05,975 Beautiful. 140 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,975 I think this might be just a little bit too big. 141 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:10,935 Yeah, I think so. 142 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:12,455 But we can dream. 143 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:14,695 THEY LAUGH 144 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:19,735 Good morning. DAISY BARKS 145 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:22,175 Don't worry about that, it's fine. 146 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:25,215 Can I put her down? Pop her down, absolutely. 147 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:26,575 Hi! 148 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:28,175 You noisy, noisy little lady. 149 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:32,655 So, tell us about the behaviours that are getting in the way 150 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:34,295 of Daisy being the perfect dog. 151 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:36,735 She is so lovable 152 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:39,015 but try putting her harness on. 153 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:40,735 OK. 154 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:42,335 Try brushing her. 155 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:47,495 It's a different story. 156 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,575 Yeah. You can see, without wishing to be critical, 157 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:52,935 because what you're struggling with is really difficult, 158 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:56,215 she really does need a good groom, doesn't she? Oh, she does. 159 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:59,495 I don't want a poodle what's all pom-poms 160 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:01,415 and that you know - she's a dog. 161 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:05,055 But she's got knots in her legs. 162 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:08,935 You've got to keep a poodle looking clean and tidy. 163 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:12,615 It's going to affect her health if we can't convince her 164 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:14,935 that she needs to be groomed. 165 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:17,455 The groomers will ring us up after half an hour or an hour 166 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:19,055 and say, "Can you come and pick her up?" 167 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:23,375 Because when they put her on the grooming table she just screams. 168 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:26,375 They're a bit frightened of her. 169 00:07:26,400 --> 00:07:31,455 Not of her mouth thing or anything but she had to have a hip operation. 170 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:33,895 They're a bit frightened of hurting, you know, when she gets all... 171 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:37,335 And before she had the surgery? 172 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:39,255 She was fine. 173 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:40,935 What would you like to be able to do with her 174 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:42,935 with regard to the harness? 175 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,615 If you could just put it on her. 176 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:49,695 As soon as Mum tries to put the harness on her she'll get snappy. 177 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,015 If she makes that noise it's scares Mum. It scares me. 178 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:53,655 It does scare you. 179 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:56,255 I really am frightened of her. 180 00:07:56,280 --> 00:08:00,655 It sounds silly - a big older woman and a little thing like that 181 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:03,695 can frighten me, but she really does. 182 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:05,535 Does she let you put the harness on her? 183 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:08,455 She's a bit fidgety, but I tell her just to shut up. 184 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:10,815 Do you have your harness with you? Yes. 185 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,375 Could you show us, could we have a little look what this looks like? 186 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:17,615 Come on darling. Come on. 187 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:20,015 Good girl. Good. 188 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,335 So, she is mouthing at your hand, isn't she? 189 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,095 Yeah, yeah. A lot. 190 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:25,815 OK, yeah. Did you see? 191 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:28,055 Yeah, don't ask her for any more. 192 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,575 We just keep on persevering. 193 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:35,335 We don't stop trying to do it. 194 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:37,655 And why did you guys get Daisy in the first place? 195 00:08:37,680 --> 00:08:39,095 Company for my mum. 196 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,655 And it would encourage Mum to leave the house 197 00:08:41,680 --> 00:08:43,335 and that way she would meet people. 198 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:48,495 When Dad died it was awful 199 00:08:48,520 --> 00:08:51,495 because I was leaving Mum at home all day in the house on her own. 200 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:56,295 Mum had been married for over 50 years 201 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:58,695 and they did everything together. 202 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:03,975 So, I thought having a little dog would be absolutely perfect. 203 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:09,135 Sorry. And this is... 204 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:11,895 It's not worked out, has it? 205 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:18,055 I don't really like taking her out for a walk. OK. 206 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,895 I just don't want to be struggling, 207 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:22,775 putting things on her. 208 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:24,215 I can understand that. 209 00:09:27,240 --> 00:09:30,775 If I can just get Daisy where I can put her harness on 210 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:35,375 without the fight, oh, it would be fabulous. 211 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,415 DOG BARKS 212 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:50,615 Yes! 213 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:52,015 This way, come on. 214 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:53,935 BARKS 215 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:55,935 Argh! Oh... 216 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:57,415 SHE SIGHS 217 00:09:57,440 --> 00:09:58,855 What am I like? 218 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:04,015 Hoping the trainers can help sort out their mess 219 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:06,335 are the academy's latest arrivals. 220 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:09,255 So if you were to describe Marley as a song... Yeah. 221 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:11,655 ...what song would it be? 222 00:10:11,680 --> 00:10:13,495 "Don't leave me baby." 223 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:15,135 THEY LAUGH 224 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:18,255 I don't even know if it's that, is it that? Don't leave me... 225 00:10:18,280 --> 00:10:20,615 I think the song is, "don't leave me this way." 226 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:23,295 I think it's your age, Louise, you're fine. 227 00:10:23,320 --> 00:10:25,655 THEY LAUGH 228 00:10:25,680 --> 00:10:28,015 Trusting the trainers will hit the right note 229 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:30,415 with seven-year-old Yorkshire terrier Marley 230 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:32,655 is sound engineer Louise. 231 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:35,335 So, it's just me and Marley at home. 232 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:38,895 Sorry, Marley. 233 00:10:38,920 --> 00:10:42,655 Are you single? Am I single? Yeah? 234 00:10:42,680 --> 00:10:44,095 MARLEY WHIMPERS 235 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:49,375 He's a beautiful dog. Does he get a lot of attention? Yeah. 236 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:51,695 Does he? Yeah, I was in Arsenal 237 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:53,295 and one of the matches was on 238 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:57,215 and I just heard like from the hot dog van - "So beautiful!” 239 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:59,935 I was like, "Oh, no-one really says that." 240 00:10:59,960 --> 00:11:03,215 I said, "Thank you." She goes, "Not you silly, the dog!" 241 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:05,535 THEY LAUGH 242 00:11:05,560 --> 00:11:07,895 Has Marley ever been a sort of good wing man? 243 00:11:07,920 --> 00:11:10,255 If I bring a guy home he just stares at them. 244 00:11:10,280 --> 00:11:13,975 Or he'll just come and sit in between 245 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:15,895 so they're like, "What the hell's this?" 246 00:11:22,080 --> 00:11:24,495 So Marley, we're nearly here. 247 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:28,015 Oh, here they come. Let's have a look. 248 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:30,535 Watching on are trainers Sean and Kamal. 249 00:11:30,560 --> 00:11:33,455 Bye. Bye, see ya, Marley. Bye! 250 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:34,735 THEY LAUGH 251 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:43,135 She's not got him on a lead. That's interesting, isn't it? 252 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:44,375 Hmm. 253 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:46,895 That would indicate that he doesn't want to leave her, you know. Yeah. 254 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:49,615 Are you excited? Yeah! 255 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:53,935 Hello, you all right? I'm fine, how are you? 256 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:56,535 I'm good, thank you, I'm Grace. 257 00:11:56,560 --> 00:11:58,855 Who've we got here? Marley. 258 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:00,415 He's a happy little chap pie. 259 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:01,775 He's adorable. 260 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:03,695 Look, where are we? 261 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:06,455 He's beautiful. So why Marley? I love the name. 262 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:09,415 Well, basically, when I got him he was like quite matted, 263 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:12,135 so like Bob Marley, like Rasta dreadlocks. 264 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:14,575 I was like, "OK." I love that! 265 00:12:14,600 --> 00:12:16,415 THEY LAUGH 266 00:12:16,440 --> 00:12:18,455 He's come in quite confident and happy. 267 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:21,855 He likes his toys, he's toy motivated, 268 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:24,215 that's nice, that's really, really helpful. 269 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:25,495 I can tell he's playful. Very. 270 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:27,855 He went straight for the ball, didn't he? Yeah, very much so. 271 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:30,895 Does he run you round? Um... Keeps you on your feet. 272 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:33,455 Having the one person like now, he'll just sit and stare. 273 00:12:42,160 --> 00:12:43,935 Is he your little bestie? Yeah. 274 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:47,135 Is he? Are you close? Yeah, yeah, yeah, very close. 275 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:49,015 Separation anxiety, he's got. 276 00:12:49,040 --> 00:12:50,855 He literally has to come everywhere with me, 277 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:52,615 even if I go to get up, 278 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:54,175 which I'll show you, 279 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:55,415 he'll get up too. 280 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:00,255 Everything you do. Yeah, basically. 281 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:02,215 He's just staring at her, isn't he? Yeah, yeah. 282 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:03,535 He can't take his eyes off her. 283 00:13:03,560 --> 00:13:05,335 Yeah, he's became very focused, hasn't he? 284 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:07,695 I wonder what would happen if she moved. Mmm. 285 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:10,655 If she wasn't there with him, yeah. That'll be interesting. 286 00:13:10,680 --> 00:13:13,015 I'll leave you for a little while. OK. 287 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:14,975 Let Marley have a roam round and the trainers will be out shortly 288 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:16,815 to have a chat. Amazing. Is that all right? 289 00:13:16,840 --> 00:13:18,655 Yeah, that's perfect. OK, good luck. 290 00:13:18,680 --> 00:13:22,175 So, are you going to be OK? Yeah. Not going to cry? 291 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:28,055 You're going to be a good boy, aren't you? Yeah. OK, up. That's it. 292 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:38,015 Come on. Good lad. 293 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:43,735 Good girlie, OK, that's fine. 294 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:47,175 What we don't want to do is go and grab her and make it happen. 295 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:50,855 And that's what I do, manhandling. It is what we've done. 296 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:53,815 But I also know the importance of grooming her. 297 00:13:57,920 --> 00:14:01,735 So how would you describe your relationship with Daisy now? 298 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:04,655 I love her to bits. I love her to bits. 299 00:14:04,680 --> 00:14:09,055 I was in a funny little place after losing David 300 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:11,575 and I can't think of life without her now, really. 301 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:14,135 Yeah. So you said it was after David passed that you got Daisy? 302 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:16,735 Yes. What do you think he would've thought of her? 303 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:19,855 I don't think we would've had her, to be quite honest. 304 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:23,695 Because me and David had nomadic lives, really. We had a narrow boat 305 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:26,255 and then we had a motor home. 306 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:28,735 We had such fun. Yeah. 307 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:31,095 If we had the money to do something 308 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:35,935 and we wanted to do it, we did it. And I'm right glad we did. Yes. 309 00:14:35,960 --> 00:14:40,015 Because you can be here today and gone tomorrow. 310 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:43,815 He got this infection in his leg, went into hospital, 311 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:46,135 cos it was fairly bad. 312 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:49,215 Caught Covid in hospital. In hospital? 313 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:53,135 You know, and, uh, and he didn't come home. 314 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:00,615 So it were, yeah, it were difficult. 315 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:01,895 Cos I loved him to bits. 316 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:09,175 He was everything to me. I wish you could've met him, 317 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:14,495 you'd have liked him. You know. Everybody liked David. 318 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:17,815 We'd been together 24 hours a day, seven days a week. 319 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:22,695 We'd done everything together. I'm not doing anything. 320 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:26,055 I'm just, I'm stagnating. Yeah. 321 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:29,495 And I'm missing out. 322 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:32,135 I've been stuck in the house for over a year now, 323 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:38,615 I need to move on. I need to get out and do things 324 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:43,175 and start a bit of a new life I think, really. 325 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:47,175 I do hope Daisy can help me do that. 326 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:51,855 I don't take her out now, like I'm hoping to. 327 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:54,815 And when you've got a dog you meet people. 328 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:58,135 Yeah. She was there to get you out and about, 329 00:15:58,160 --> 00:15:59,935 but now she's kind of keeping you in. 330 00:15:59,960 --> 00:16:01,495 Yeah. Now she's keeping me in. 331 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:09,575 So tell us what, what's the issue, what's the deal? 332 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:12,855 So basically if I leave him, he gets separation anxiety 333 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:16,295 so he just can't be left alone. OK. 334 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:20,655 Cos he just really starts barking, scratching the door, 335 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:22,335 it's just a bit of a nightmare. 336 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:26,055 Wow. Do you think if you left here now, do you think he'd do it? 337 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:30,855 Yeah. Do you want to try? Do you want to give it a go? 338 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:33,935 Just leave him in here, let's see what happens, yeah? 339 00:16:36,360 --> 00:16:38,935 So just keep him in here. Ooh! 340 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:41,415 Marley, just pop him back that's OK. Good boy, that's it, 341 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:45,015 we're going in. Come on, this way, this way. 342 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:48,735 Perfect, OK. Let's see what happens then. 343 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:50,015 OK. 344 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:53,575 DOG WHINES, RATTLES DOOR 345 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:58,855 Wow. Marley... Marley. 346 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:01,175 That's pretty extreme, isn't it? OK, Louise. 347 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:02,695 Yeah, come back in, please. 348 00:17:02,720 --> 00:17:05,415 Ah, there you are! I just went to go to the shop! Yay. 349 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:07,775 Come on, this way. OK. Bring him back. 350 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:10,375 It's really interesting that as soon as you left... Yeah. 351 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,895 ...he just loses all interest in toys, everything. 352 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:15,255 In everything. And he's just... His focus, yeah. 353 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:17,615 "Get my mum back, get my mum back.” Yeah. So he'll do that 354 00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:20,895 like constantly. Mm-hm. Until I come back. 355 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:23,695 I feel like I'm a prisoner, cos I can't leave my house, 356 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:27,695 if I do, he's going to be upset, just a nervous wreck. 357 00:17:27,720 --> 00:17:30,935 Shaking, barking, become hysterical. 358 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:32,935 So, yeah, I can't really do anything. 359 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:34,695 You know, it's just so upsetting. 360 00:17:36,360 --> 00:17:38,975 If I said put a flag in the sand, 361 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:42,255 when this started, where would you go to? 362 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:46,615 Probably around one and a half like, he started being really clingy 363 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:48,975 and very problematic, I'd say. 364 00:17:51,760 --> 00:17:54,815 Since I've had Marley, I've not been on holiday. 365 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:56,735 I don't have a social life. 366 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:59,055 I can't physically go out with my friends, 367 00:17:59,080 --> 00:18:01,935 go out for a drink. 368 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:05,935 Marley has stopped my love life from progressing. 369 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:07,775 I can't just go out on dates. I can't. 370 00:18:09,120 --> 00:18:12,535 Literally, he has taken over my life. 371 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:18,295 Are you getting anxious now? A little bit. 372 00:18:18,320 --> 00:18:20,655 Just relax. It's all right. OK, yeah, cos I'm like... 373 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:22,655 BREATHES TIGHTLY You're sort of up there. 374 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:25,255 I know, I'm like, "Oh, my God, I feel so tense." 375 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,615 Just relax, everything, everything's all right, 376 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:30,415 and it's just one of things where we're going to get you 377 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:33,575 back on track. OK. All right, just relax, it's all right. 378 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:36,535 It's really important that, Marley's behaviour is fixed. 379 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:40,135 Just so I can literally have like a day to day life. 380 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:44,895 It's too much for me like, there's only so much 381 00:18:44,920 --> 00:18:48,135 a person can take. 382 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:52,815 This is like the last, the last bit of hope that I've got. 383 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:58,975 Good girl. 384 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:03,055 She will ask to be put up on my mum’s knee. Yeah. 385 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:06,055 For my mum to back scratch, which is why we can't understand 386 00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:08,975 why she won't let us do the same with a brush. 387 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:13,695 I think because of the surgery she's had... Yeah. 388 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:16,295 ...her association with being picked up 389 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:21,575 and handled in a situation where she has no control, equals pain. 390 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:25,535 Oh. Painful memories stick very, very well. 391 00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:30,855 When a dog has had stroking or touching in an area 392 00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:32,495 where they feel pain, 393 00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:35,135 even when the illness or injury's been resolved 394 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:40,095 the memory of that pain is still there and can cause dogs to react. 395 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:45,335 Because up to now you haven't always listened to her communication 396 00:19:45,360 --> 00:19:47,895 she's escalated to the point where she is heard. 397 00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:51,095 Her go to is growl and snap. 398 00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:55,255 Dogs have very little control over their every day life. 399 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:57,615 We decide what they eat, where they sleep, 400 00:19:57,640 --> 00:19:59,335 where they go, who they interact with. 401 00:19:59,360 --> 00:20:01,255 So it's really important that we learn 402 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:04,575 to listen when they're communicating their wants and their needs. 403 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:09,335 Daisy is being forced to do things she doesn't consent to. 404 00:20:09,360 --> 00:20:12,095 She does lots of dog body language behaviours saying 405 00:20:12,120 --> 00:20:14,455 I'm not comfortable, I want this to stop, 406 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:17,615 please somebody help me. She's not listened to. 407 00:20:17,640 --> 00:20:23,455 And when that happens repeatedly there is that breakdown of trust. 408 00:20:23,480 --> 00:20:25,775 Wow. I knew it was what 409 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:28,575 we were doing but I didn't know what it was. 410 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:31,735 Her feelings are causing the behaviours. 411 00:20:31,760 --> 00:20:35,295 If she doesn't feel threatened, if she doesn't feel, overwhelmed, 412 00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:37,855 she doesn't feel those feelings she won't need to bite. 413 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:39,175 Yes. Does that make sense? 414 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:42,135 It does. It does, it makes a lot of sense. 415 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:45,735 This is what we were hoping we would get. 416 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:48,055 A light bulb moment. 417 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:52,415 It's these issues, like Daisy with the harness and, 418 00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:54,895 and the, the grooming, 419 00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:58,855 very easy to treat - once you listen to your dog. 420 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:02,375 Yeah. And with that the relationship will just change forever. 421 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:05,335 Oh, that's wonderful. We just want her to be happy. 422 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:14,575 So, what I'm going to do, 423 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:17,615 I'm going to offer her some food and stroke. 424 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:23,935 Good girl. We're creating positive association. 425 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:26,495 I can feel this happening to me but I'm eating 426 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:28,415 and I feel good, this is quite nice. 427 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:31,495 She has a long history of saying no so we have 428 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:35,295 to go in tiny steps. Hey, are you ready for some more? 429 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:37,375 So we need to go at her pace. 430 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:39,695 When she says she wants a break, we give her a break. OK. 431 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:41,615 OK, going to offer her some cheese 432 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,375 and I'm going to stroke with the grooming mitt. 433 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:47,175 Wow, good girl! 434 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,495 Gosh, how clever is that? 435 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:52,895 So when she backs off and says can I have a break please, Jo, 436 00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,775 I said, yeah, no problem. When she comes forward. 437 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:57,535 Oh, that's beautiful sitting. Wow. 438 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:00,055 I'm going to ask her again with the grooming mitt with 439 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:02,015 the flat side. 440 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:07,975 Good girl. Nice job. 441 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,975 So she backs off so I say OK. 442 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,575 So you see what I mean about consent, when she says 443 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,655 she's had enough I say OK, you let me know when you want to come back 444 00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:18,415 so she doesn't feel the need to growl. 445 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,335 She goes away, she had a little think about it. 446 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:24,815 Yeah? OK. 447 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:28,295 Good girlie. 448 00:22:29,400 --> 00:22:32,335 So you've got a bit of a mountain to climb. 449 00:22:32,360 --> 00:22:34,655 But I think she's proved this 450 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:37,415 morning that it is not insurmountable for her. 451 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:41,015 I think it's just been amazing what you've managed to do. 452 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:42,735 Good. It's, it's magical. 453 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:50,815 BARK 454 00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:53,215 Let's go again and round. 455 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:55,575 Yes. Nice work. 456 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:56,855 It's mid-morning. 457 00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,135 Down. Yes. 458 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,415 And the trainers are hard at work. 459 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,695 And to help with Marley's separation anxiety. 460 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:08,295 Who's a good boy? 461 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,255 Sean has had to enlist Louise's friend Mark to come to 462 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:13,215 the academy to keep him calm. 463 00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:14,775 What's wrong? 464 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:17,375 Only now can training begin. 465 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,015 OK, how you feeling at the moment? 466 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,335 Um, yeah, a little bit better. 467 00:23:23,360 --> 00:23:25,655 OK. I'm just like, oh, like how's Marley. 468 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:26,655 OK. Yeah. 469 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,095 OK. You've got quite a close bond, haven't you? 470 00:23:29,120 --> 00:23:30,615 Yeah. 471 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:33,335 Yeah, when was the last time you actually left him then 472 00:23:33,360 --> 00:23:34,455 and for how long? 473 00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:37,575 I don't think I have, I have to take him basically with me. 474 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:41,575 WWow. And I feel like I can't be living my life 475 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:46,375 for another ten years, just very restricted. 476 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,095 So, why did you get Marley? 477 00:23:49,120 --> 00:23:53,455 Because I was leaving, my home town, 478 00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:56,735 Manchester, and I was just like I just want that companion. 479 00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,095 I think cos I had a dog as a child, 480 00:23:59,120 --> 00:24:01,455 when I was a child that was my comfort blanket. 481 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:06,495 Moving from Manchester to London by myself, obviously, 482 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:07,895 I was a little bit anxious. 483 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:12,295 It's a big city and I didn't want to feel like isolated and alone 484 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:15,175 and obviously having a dog when I was younger I knew that 485 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:18,095 I would have comfort and companionship. 486 00:24:18,120 --> 00:24:20,455 What sort of dog did you have as a child then? 487 00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,815 Collie. Oh, did you? A Border collie, yeah. 488 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,655 OK. Champ. He was just literally my best friend 489 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,415 and I would play out with the dog and, you know, 490 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,215 for hours and hours so, yeah, it, 491 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:34,095 it ran away one time like, the window was down in the car. 492 00:24:34,120 --> 00:24:35,415 The dog ran off? 493 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:36,775 Yeah. OK. 494 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:38,735 I was trying to put the dog into the, 495 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:41,415 into like, put the seat belt over the dog 496 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,695 and then he just like jumped out the window and ran off. 497 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:49,015 The dog was my everything. I was devastated. 498 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,935 And I remember I wouldn't speak. 499 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,335 Champ was a big part of my life. Like, 500 00:24:58,360 --> 00:25:01,095 growing up as a child like, just my comfort pillow, 501 00:25:01,120 --> 00:25:03,575 like he was just there and... 502 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:04,575 Oh... 503 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:09,935 You really loved him? Mm. 504 00:25:18,360 --> 00:25:19,855 How old were you when this all happened? 505 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:21,455 Like eight or nine. 506 00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:24,575 Miraculously, he just come back like a month later. 507 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,055 Wow. Yeah. 508 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,415 And you didn't talk for a month? No, I just didn't speak. 509 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,295 Wow. I just didn't speak to anyone. 510 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:32,735 And you internalised it, did you? 511 00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:33,895 Yeah. 512 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:37,015 When we were in reception, we said to you, 513 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:40,255 erm, could you just go out the door. 514 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:43,215 You physically changed in your being 515 00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:46,335 to walk less than six foot out of the door. 516 00:25:46,360 --> 00:25:48,295 You literally changed. 517 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:51,055 You could see everything about you went from being chilled 518 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:53,895 to, you suddenly went, I'm anxious. 519 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:57,615 And actually what you were doing was you were going back 520 00:25:57,640 --> 00:25:59,295 to that place when Champ was away 521 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,695 from you and you didn't know what was happening. 522 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:03,975 Yeah. 523 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,295 So you've conditioned your brain. 524 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,055 Yeah. That when you're away from Champ. 525 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:13,015 Mm-hm. Substitute Champ for Marley, you get anxious. 526 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,695 Yeah. When you leave him, right? 527 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:19,575 He senses, "Oh, jeez," because what's happening is, 528 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,055 you're projecting onto the dog. 529 00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,375 Yeah. Yeah. Can you see that? 530 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:26,615 Yeah. Oh, God, poor Marley. 531 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:31,655 The thing is about dogs and humans is that relationship we have 532 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,015 with them it doesn't just get confined 533 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,375 to things that we want them to pick up. 534 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:39,415 They will pick up on your emotional Wi-Fi. Oh, wow. Do they? 535 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,495 Yeah. OK? That's crazy. 536 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:44,975 You need to ref, think about reframing the Champ experience. 537 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,575 Yeah, your, your, everything about that relationship 538 00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:50,055 you're defining by that one moment. Mm-hm. Yeah? 539 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,735 That was, in the grand scheme of things, actually a blip. 540 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:54,215 Yeah. That he came back. 541 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,535 Mm-hm. It wasn't what you're telling yourself. 542 00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:57,495 Yeah. Are you with me? 543 00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:00,895 Mm-hm. By reframing that, you're going to be able to help Marley. 544 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,815 In the process of helping Marley you're going to help yourself. 545 00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:05,615 Mm-hm, thank you. All right? 546 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,935 Yeah. You feel better about things? 547 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:09,135 Yeah, very much so, yeah. 548 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:15,095 Daisy. I can see Grandma. 549 00:27:15,120 --> 00:27:17,575 Daisy. Daisy. I can see Grandma. 550 00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,255 You can let her go if you like. Hello. 551 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:24,615 Now reunited... Hello, sweetheart. Yay! 552 00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:27,495 Now the family's back together. 553 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:31,895 ...it's time for Wendy to begin harness training with Daisy. 554 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:34,855 Are you ready for your nemesis now? Are you ready? 555 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:36,575 No. 556 00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,575 So the way we're going to do this. Yeah. 557 00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,095 Going to get some food in your hand. Right. 558 00:27:41,120 --> 00:27:43,615 And you're going to slip the harness over your wrist. 559 00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:44,935 Right. OK? 560 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:50,775 Going to turn your palm up and bring her head through. 561 00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:52,575 Right. 562 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,055 What's really important, 563 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:57,335 as you're putting this on is that you're not pushing it on her. 564 00:27:57,360 --> 00:28:00,815 You're holding it still and asking her to come through. 565 00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:02,015 Yeah. 566 00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,375 You ready? Good girl. Well done. 567 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,015 So if you let her know you've got some food. 568 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:09,375 Daisy, look what I've got. Ooh, look. 569 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:11,815 And then you pull your hand back. That's it. Oh. 570 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,575 That's it. 571 00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:16,615 Nearly. That's it. 572 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,975 Keep pulling your hand backwards so she leans in. 573 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:24,095 Don't push it over. 574 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,975 Good girl, Daisy. Oh, good girl. Beautiful. Good girl. 575 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:30,535 But we don't want her to get stuck. 576 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,535 Oh, we'll take it off. Your big fluffy head. 577 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:36,735 I think that once she's had her hair cut it might be a little bit easier. Yes, easier. 578 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:39,495 Ooh. 579 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:43,375 So next step, if we can, I'd like to get that fastened. OK? 580 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,855 Oh, look at this, look at this. 581 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:50,255 And if she tells you to stop, then you stop. 582 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:53,495 It's all about understanding consent and reading each other. 583 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,175 No. All right, darling. 584 00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:01,215 That's lovely, well done. 585 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,655 Good girl. Now back with the treats again if she'll take treats again. 586 00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:06,615 Treat? 587 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:14,495 Yeah, good girl. 588 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:16,815 Harness on, nobody bitten. 589 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,135 Brilliant. No growls, no teeth. 590 00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:21,455 It's all about consent. Yeah. 591 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,815 And once you understand that, everything will change. 592 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:26,255 Yeah. At the moment two of you needed for the harness. 593 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:29,415 BOTH: Yeah. But, I believe with training and patience 594 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,415 and time, I think you'd be able to do that by yourself. 595 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:36,255 Can I give you both a hug? Yeah! Thank you so much. 596 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,055 It's exciting, isn't it? You did all the hard work. 597 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:40,975 Well done. 598 00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:43,535 Unbelievable. You're getting emotional, are you? 599 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:45,415 Uh, it's all I wanted. 600 00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:46,455 Aw. 601 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:47,815 Well done. Well done. 602 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,895 Now everyone's on the same page, it's time 603 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:54,895 to get Daisy into the grooming room. Ooh! 604 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,615 The trainers have set up a makeshift grooming room 605 00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:01,335 to test how well Dahana 606 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:04,055 and Wendy read Daisy when she gives 607 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:07,295 and withdraws consent in her most feared place. 608 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,615 What's in here Daisy? 609 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,375 Going to the groomers can be quite terrifying. 610 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:14,735 For us, it's quite similar to going to 611 00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:17,255 a dentist who doesn't speak the same language as us, 612 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:19,655 perhaps they start poking and prodding around. 613 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:21,055 That's terrifying. 614 00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:24,655 So it's really important that we listen to our dogs. 615 00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:27,375 Your first task is going to be 616 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,175 to get Daisy up onto the grooming table. 617 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,455 Oh, look, 618 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:33,775 there's your steps, Daisy. 619 00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:36,375 What's these? 620 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,255 What? Daisy? 621 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,215 She's saying no. Mm-hm. 622 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,415 Come on. Round this side. Good girl. Come on. 623 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:46,095 Come on. 624 00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,135 No, you can't have the jar. 625 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:49,935 Come on. Come on, Daisy. 626 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,855 Come on, little dog. You can do it. 627 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,375 Daisy, look what we've got. 628 00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:58,055 Come on, then. 629 00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:00,935 I've got to say, I'm, I don't think she's going to get up there. 630 00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:02,495 Where's Dahana. Come on. 631 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,895 Don't you want to do those steps, come on? 632 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,495 Dais, Daisy... Daisy. 633 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,855 DAISY BARKS Ooh. It's all right, it's only wind. 634 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:13,535 Not going great at the moment. 635 00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:15,015 Daisy. Come on. 636 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:16,935 Come on. 637 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:21,695 BARKING 638 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,935 He does this even if we're going to the shops 639 00:31:29,960 --> 00:31:32,815 and I have to wait outside with him and she's gone into the shop. 640 00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:34,855 He'll still do this. He'll do this, yeah. 641 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:36,575 So... BARKING CONTINUES 642 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:38,935 All right, oi, come on, look. SQUEAKS TOY 643 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:42,095 In the indoor training room, despite Mark's presence, 644 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,415 Marley is still not settling 645 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:46,815 and Sean is yet to begin his training. 646 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:52,215 What's this, whoa. 647 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:54,175 What's this? 648 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,255 Mmm, mmm. 649 00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,175 It's nice. Here you go. Come on, oh, get some water at least. 650 00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,535 Ah, come on. Marley. 651 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,215 Marley. 652 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:05,775 BARKING 653 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:09,535 There's a few different things that cause separation anxiety. 654 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,055 But the main thing is that we spend stacks 655 00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,575 and stacks of time around them, 656 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:16,975 and then you decide to leave that dog, 657 00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:18,575 the dog starts to panic, 658 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:22,575 it can't sort of function by itself and it creates this anxiety. 659 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:23,935 Oi, what's that? 660 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:25,655 Look, what's that? 661 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,655 The way that Marley's being right now, this is one of 662 00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:31,255 the worst separation anxiety cases that I've seen. 663 00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:32,935 Marley's not responding to anything 664 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:34,855 and I just can't do any training with him. 665 00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:36,935 Even with Mark he's still expressing 666 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:39,295 his really severe separation anxiety. 667 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:41,695 So what we're going to do is we're going to get Louise back in, 668 00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:43,975 to start building that confidence away from her. 669 00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,815 With Marley, we are starting from the bottom. 670 00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:51,855 If we manage to get Marley doing his thing, 671 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,575 being a dog and confident whilst Louise isn't there, 672 00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,175 that would be more than an achievement for me. 673 00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:00,695 But that is a massive challenge with how severe he is. 674 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:07,775 What we got? 675 00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:10,415 Come on then. Look. 676 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,615 Back in the pen... Good girl, that's it, good girl. 677 00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:16,695 Ah, go, go, go. All the way. Come on. 678 00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,695 ...Dahana and Wendy are struggling to get Daisy to consent 679 00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:21,695 to climbing onto the grooming table. 680 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,575 She might need a bit of a sniff about, you know. Yeah. 681 00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,615 Let's go for a walk around. Good girl. And have a sniff. 682 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,895 Let her have a sniff, spot on. 683 00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:30,575 You have a walk round and a sniff 684 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:34,095 and then we'll have another go in a minute. 685 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,855 What do you want to do? You tell us what you want to do. 686 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:38,335 Wendy, that's beautiful. 687 00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:40,895 The fact that you recognise that she needed a minute, 688 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:42,935 spot on. Keep going, well done. 689 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:45,295 Come on, Daisy. Come on. 690 00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:49,895 Come on, you can do it. Run. Come on Daisy, come on. 691 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:52,335 Oh! Oh! Come on, Daisy, up you get. 692 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:55,095 Come on, Daisy, up, up, up, up, up, up, please. 693 00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,415 Good girl. Come on then, are you ready? 694 00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,215 Shall we try again? 695 00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:03,295 We going to run and jump? Are we? Come on. 696 00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:05,975 I feel like Daisy's run out of steam a little bit. 697 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:07,975 I think she's a little bit tired. 698 00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,775 You having a good sniff. Sniffing's good. 699 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,015 There's nothing to be scared of. 700 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:16,695 Yeah, I think the fact that they're giving her a breather is perfect. 701 00:34:16,720 --> 00:34:18,975 We can't ask for much more than that. No. 702 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:21,455 Eh? 703 00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:27,215 Oh, look, look what Grandma's got. 704 00:34:27,240 --> 00:34:30,055 Look what Grandma's got, go on. 705 00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,455 Oh! Clever girl. Good girl. 706 00:34:34,720 --> 00:34:36,615 Oh, yes! Nearly. 707 00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:40,215 Good girl. Good girl, come on then. Nearly. 708 00:34:40,240 --> 00:34:43,095 Clever girl. You're trying so hard. 709 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:44,935 Come on. Good girl, go on, then. 710 00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:48,655 Woo! BOTH: Yay! Good girl. 711 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:52,815 What a dog. 712 00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:54,735 Well done. That's amazing. 713 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:57,255 Well done, guys, that was absolutely brilliant. 714 00:34:57,280 --> 00:35:00,535 I don't think she could've shown you more consent of being willing 715 00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:03,735 to get on that table. It was amazing. Amazing. 716 00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,295 Lovely. 717 00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:07,775 Next step, we're going to do some grooming. OK. Right. 718 00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:11,415 So just ahead of you on the table is a grooming mitt. Yes. 719 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,535 I'd like you to pop the grooming mitt on your hand. 720 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:23,255 And then just gently let her know you've got it, let her see it. 721 00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:29,175 Look what, look what Grandma's got. Whoa. 722 00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:36,375 And then you're going to start grooming. 723 00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:43,935 Oh, my goodness! 724 00:35:48,240 --> 00:35:49,855 And that is our job done. 725 00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:51,655 LAUGHTER 726 00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:56,175 Oh, Daisy. That was brilliant. 727 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:07,375 OK. She was just starting to show her teeth 728 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:09,855 a little bit there so I'm just stopping now. 729 00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:11,495 Good girl. 730 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:13,215 That's lovely. 731 00:36:13,240 --> 00:36:15,495 Wow. 732 00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,975 Just gentle. Oh, is that nice? 733 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:24,615 No, you, all right, darling. I'm listening to you. 734 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:27,215 I'm listening and you don't want it. 735 00:36:27,240 --> 00:36:29,015 Oh. 736 00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,735 Look how relaxed she is on that grooming table. 737 00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:35,135 Is that nice? 738 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:38,295 It was like watching you baby take the first steps. 739 00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:42,095 Just to see her jump up on her own accord, 740 00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:47,535 it was such a breakthrough. It, it was terrific. 741 00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,935 It was. So exciting. 742 00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:51,055 Good girl, well done. 743 00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:53,375 Oh, good girl, Daisy. 744 00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:57,295 Beautiful. Come on, sweetheart. Well done. 745 00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:00,615 This is a, a big step forward. You'll be going out soon. 746 00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,695 I will. Walking with her. You will. You'll be having fun. 747 00:37:03,720 --> 00:37:05,975 With a beautifully groomed dog. 748 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:07,375 Oh, yes. Yeah. 749 00:37:08,720 --> 00:37:10,175 Come on, sweetheart. 750 00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:13,815 Good girl. 751 00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:18,495 Well done. 752 00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:23,415 Go on, then. 753 00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,055 Hello. Yay! 754 00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:26,095 In the courtyard... 755 00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:27,975 You're a good boy, aren't you? Hiya. 756 00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:30,735 ...after being reunited with Louise, 757 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,975 it's time for Marley to begin working on his independence. 758 00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:36,815 Marley has a very, very unhealthy attachment to you 759 00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:38,775 and let's be truthful, you have with him. Yeah. 760 00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:40,655 OK, we've discussed that at length. Mm-hm. 761 00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,455 So it's going to take time to change that narrative 762 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:45,815 in his mind as well as yours. OK? Mm-hm. 763 00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:48,415 But that doesn't mean that we can't change it. Yeah. 764 00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:51,935 So we're going to work on allowing him to be who he is. 765 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,935 OK. OK? So that he can build confidence. 766 00:37:54,960 --> 00:37:58,575 So what we're going to do is randomly put the ball in one of the cones. 767 00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:01,735 OK. And see if he'll go and find the ball. OK? Yeah, OK. 768 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,055 This is him building independence. 769 00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,815 So he's taking on a challenge and then he's achieving it 770 00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:10,135 and he looks around and he goes, ah, my mum's not there. 771 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:11,415 Yeah. I did that myself. 772 00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:14,495 True. And that's the key that builds confidence. 773 00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:18,535 So. What's this? See what he does. Where's the ball? Marley, look. 774 00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:21,215 So are we going to fake out where it goes, eh? 775 00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:26,975 Go and get it. Good, OK. Get it. Go and get it, go on. 776 00:38:27,000 --> 00:38:29,335 Get it, get it, get it, get it. Good boy. 777 00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:31,655 Where's it, where's that ball? It's OK. Where's that ball? 778 00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:34,615 He's OK, go. Let him figure it out. 779 00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:37,935 Good boy. 780 00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:40,375 Good. Good boy. 781 00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,415 Nice! Yes, good boy. 782 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:43,855 APPLAUSE 783 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:45,895 Good. See all that time... 784 00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:48,255 Yeah? ..he's getting more engrossed in this task. 785 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:51,175 Yeah. Cos he's not so... Absorbed. ..concerned about you. Exactly. 786 00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:54,015 We're starting to just build that little bit of independence. OK? 787 00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:55,415 So what we're going to do now, 788 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:57,895 we're going to move it where he's starting to go out of sight. OK. 789 00:38:57,920 --> 00:38:59,935 So around a corner. 790 00:38:59,960 --> 00:39:01,775 DRAMATIC MUSIC 791 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:06,295 Confidence is the first step to training separation anxiety. 792 00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:08,615 So let's take him through here, let him see. 793 00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:09,495 So let him see the ball. 794 00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,815 What's this? Hey, what's this? 795 00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,215 We've got to build it up in really small steps 796 00:39:14,240 --> 00:39:15,975 so we start with five seconds away, 797 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:17,735 but then that quickly becomes ten seconds 798 00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,535 and before you know it you get into minutes 799 00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:21,175 and you build and you build and build. 800 00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:26,335 The whole key to it is the dog's learning that they can succeed, cope 801 00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:29,175 and be independent away from the owner. 802 00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,575 OK, so we're going to back off. OK? OK. 803 00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:34,175 And Sean's going to come out so back right up, back up, let's push it. 804 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:36,535 So I'm out in the pen, now you. OK. Go on, from here. OK? OK. 805 00:39:36,560 --> 00:39:38,895 Stay there, you're all right, you're good. 806 00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:42,015 You can do this. OK? Off you go, go on, go for it. 807 00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,895 Find it, Marley. Go get it. Yes. 808 00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:56,175 Go find, quick. Good boy! 809 00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:59,455 So he's by his self. Doesn't know where, you could be walking off now. 810 00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:03,855 True. And he's just being a dog. He's being a terrier now. Yeah. 811 00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,215 Back in the pen... There he is. Oh, has he got it? Oh, he's not got it. 812 00:40:06,240 --> 00:40:08,135 That's OK. That's all right. So we send him again. 813 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:10,535 Let's go back, yeah. Go back, go find your ball. Go find it. Go get 814 00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:12,895 your ball. It's in there. Go and find it, good boy, Marley. Go on. 815 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:14,695 ...Marley is taking on a challenge 816 00:40:14,720 --> 00:40:18,015 to build his confidence away from Louise. 817 00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:20,775 So that terrier that was stuck to your side, 818 00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,135 you then just sent him away. Yeah. 819 00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:28,415 Yeah, not even with you. It's amazing. Yeah. 820 00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:30,415 Has he got it? Good boy. 821 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:32,055 CHEERING 822 00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:33,455 Good boy! And he went... 823 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,215 And, yeah, he's like, oh, Sean's my bestie. 824 00:40:36,240 --> 00:40:38,655 ...and he went to you. How does that feel? How does that feel? 825 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:39,935 Yeah, that's amazing. Yeah? 826 00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:42,295 Cos I think the first time he went he was probably a little bit 827 00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:44,615 anxious, then the second time he was like, no, I can do this. 828 00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:46,255 He can do this! Yeah, exactly. Yeah. 829 00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:49,215 All right? So... OK. ..because he's been smashing that so well... Yeah. 830 00:40:49,240 --> 00:40:52,055 ...all right, we're going to move to a harder challenge. Mm-hm. 831 00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:55,295 All right? We're going to let you do this on your own. OK? Mm-hm. 832 00:40:56,720 --> 00:40:59,215 Sean and Kamal have set up a living room 833 00:40:59,240 --> 00:41:02,375 to test how Marley will react in a home environment. 834 00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:09,175 He'll have to find the ball in the cone without Louise in the room. 835 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,855 What do you reckon to your living room, bit different? 836 00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,255 It's amazing, I love it. An outside living room. 837 00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:17,215 It's great in the summer, not so good in the winter. 838 00:41:17,240 --> 00:41:19,575 Are you ready to roll? 839 00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:21,295 Yeah. 840 00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:23,135 Genuinely, my palms are sweaty. 841 00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:24,615 Yeah, me too. 842 00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:26,415 Good boy. 843 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:33,215 So we're going to do the same game with him. 844 00:41:33,240 --> 00:41:35,215 And you're going to go out of sight. 845 00:41:35,240 --> 00:41:37,895 This is all about just stage by stage building that confidence. 846 00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,535 All right? OK, yeah. One step at a time, he'll then build it. 847 00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:42,855 All right? All right? Cool. OK, this way, Marley. 848 00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:44,215 That's it pick him up. 849 00:41:44,240 --> 00:41:47,575 Just take a moment, don't rush. You're in control, stay calm. 850 00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:48,695 OK. 851 00:41:48,720 --> 00:41:50,935 There we go. 852 00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,935 This is a big one. This is a big one. 853 00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:00,655 With severe separation anxiety, it can take years to fix. 854 00:42:00,680 --> 00:42:04,015 And when treating cases like this on day one of training 855 00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:07,135 to get the dog to be out of sight from the owner for ten, 856 00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:10,255 20, 30 seconds is a huge victory. 857 00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:17,375 OK. That's it, go to the door, send him in, 858 00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:19,135 you're going to shut that door, we'll tell you when. 859 00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,095 OK. Ready? 860 00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:22,815 Yeah. 861 00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:23,855 Go for it. 862 00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:26,095 Go find, go, Marley. Go. Quick. 863 00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:28,455 Close the door. 864 00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:38,015 Let him figure it out. Let him figure it out. 865 00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:45,295 Oh, God. 866 00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:48,935 Aw, come on, Marley. 867 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:53,615 Nice. Awesome. 868 00:43:03,120 --> 00:43:04,775 Oh, we've got it, he's got it. 869 00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,055 Yay! Yes! 870 00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:08,895 SHE WHOOPS 871 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:10,935 Yeah. 872 00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:12,975 Woo! 873 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:14,135 Excellent. 874 00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:15,295 How do you feel, Louise? 875 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:16,815 Oh, yeah, that was amazing cos I, 876 00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,775 cos he even come over and then he come back. 877 00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:20,255 And he couldn't even see you there. Yeah. 878 00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:21,975 And he's still not freaking out. 879 00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:24,575 He's like, no, no, I'm doing my job. I'm being a dog, 880 00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:27,215 I've got that confidence, I am going to get this tennis ball. 881 00:43:27,240 --> 00:43:29,775 Yeah. That was amazing. 882 00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:33,455 This is the first time I've seen him just go off on his own. 883 00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:36,335 I've been living like this for so many years like 884 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:39,695 a prisoner basically, and today I feel free. 885 00:43:39,720 --> 00:43:41,655 You can do this in the long grass. Oh, yeah, true. 886 00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:43,015 So you can have a ball with you and 887 00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:46,015 you just chuck it in there and you go, "You go be a terrier now." Yeah. 888 00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:48,015 And he just goes in there and he's going through, 889 00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:50,775 getting muddy, covered and stuff like that. And that's what we want 890 00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:53,135 rather than him just walking along looking at you. Yep. 891 00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:55,575 Yeah. He's like, right, where's the next challenge? 892 00:43:55,600 --> 00:43:57,495 What am I going to get after? 893 00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:00,295 This time next year, I'll be packing my bags. 894 00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:02,895 I'll be sending a postcard from wherever I am 895 00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:05,415 to Marley saying, I'm enjoying myself, 896 00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,695 I'm having a great time and I hope you are. 897 00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:11,255 Come on. Ho-ho-ho. 898 00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:14,775 Good boy. 899 00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:38,935 And I can now brush her using the brush in one hand, 900 00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:43,375 cheese in the other and she's not got any big knots in her. 901 00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:47,215 Now, when you are putting the harness on, 902 00:44:47,240 --> 00:44:50,655 yes, she is still, she's dancing and wriggling, 903 00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:53,175 but it, it's manageable now. 904 00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:57,535 The harness goes on and she's happy and out we go. 905 00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:58,775 Good girl. 906 00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:00,695 We go round the shops. 907 00:45:00,720 --> 00:45:05,855 Daisy loves going into a coffee shop and having sit down. 908 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:08,295 We have managed to get to the doggie cafe. 909 00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:11,495 There's a separate menu for dogs. It's lovely. 910 00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:14,935 Love you, don't we? Love you, baby. 911 00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:24,975 I've encouraged like more of an independent environment 912 00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:27,895 for Marley which has really helped with his confidence. 913 00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:30,455 He's not always looking for me for reassurance. 914 00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:36,815 It's allowed me and Marley not to be so co-dependent on each other. 915 00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:39,775 So I can now leave Marley three to four hours 916 00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:42,895 without me getting stressed and Marley getting stressed 917 00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:45,175 because we're both stress free now. 918 00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:46,655 Because he knows I'm coming back 919 00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,295 and I know that I haven't got a stressed dog at home. 920 00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,735 I feel like a new person, I can go out on dates. 921 00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:56,215 Words can't express like how happy I am. 922 00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,695 Subtitles by Red Bee Media