1 00:00:01,294 --> 00:00:04,672 {\an8}"Previously on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way." 2 00:00:04,797 --> 00:00:06,925 I consider life to be a permanent vacation. 3 00:00:10,971 --> 00:00:13,433 I was performing a festival and I had a plus-one, 4 00:00:13,433 --> 00:00:15,310 and I was gonna take one of my playmates along, right? 5 00:00:15,435 --> 00:00:17,645 And she was really weirded out by it. 6 00:00:17,770 --> 00:00:19,481 It's kind of annoying that Andi shut that down 7 00:00:19,606 --> 00:00:21,400 because it was something that was well within our agreement. 8 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:24,779 Ah! 9 00:00:26,823 --> 00:00:29,701 Oh, my God. 10 00:00:29,826 --> 00:00:33,706 This welcome is really more than I could have hoped for. 11 00:00:33,831 --> 00:00:34,832 Let's go! 12 00:00:37,502 --> 00:00:40,964 I don't expect this to be easy, at least, initially. 13 00:00:40,964 --> 00:00:43,301 I've made up my mind. I'm moving to Ghana. 14 00:00:43,301 --> 00:00:44,719 I'm going to be with my wife, 15 00:00:44,844 --> 00:00:48,640 and she has no idea I don't plan to go back home. 16 00:00:49,892 --> 00:00:51,727 She can't be mad forever. 17 00:00:51,852 --> 00:00:52,853 I'm coming to you, Mat. 18 00:00:56,399 --> 00:00:57,484 My name is Zuri. 19 00:00:57,484 --> 00:00:59,652 My name is Benjamin. 20 00:00:59,652 --> 00:01:01,405 When I first saw him, I was like, 21 00:01:01,530 --> 00:01:03,199 "Who's this nerdy guy?" 22 00:01:03,324 --> 00:01:05,576 {\an8}We was made to be together. 23 00:01:05,701 --> 00:01:07,454 {\an8}The first time I moved in with Ben, 24 00:01:07,454 --> 00:01:10,707 things in France did not go as planned. 25 00:01:10,707 --> 00:01:13,211 One time, like, his friends threw ice at me. 26 00:01:13,211 --> 00:01:15,671 And I hope, the hell, you threw ice back. 27 00:01:15,671 --> 00:01:18,050 It kind of felt like Ben's friends were just thinking, 28 00:01:18,175 --> 00:01:20,552 "Why can't you just be with a French girl?" 29 00:01:20,552 --> 00:01:22,554 But I'm determined to make this work. 30 00:01:26,810 --> 00:01:28,561 I should've applied for jobs sooner. 31 00:01:28,561 --> 00:01:30,481 I should've done that. I didn't. 32 00:01:30,481 --> 00:01:32,733 - I need to know why. - No, you don't. 33 00:01:32,733 --> 00:01:34,610 I have all the success with what I'm doing right now, 34 00:01:34,735 --> 00:01:36,738 and you're telling me to go look for jobs? 35 00:01:36,738 --> 00:01:39,825 - I need stability. - Are you suffering right now? 36 00:01:39,825 --> 00:01:42,495 I have been suffering for the past, like, 37 00:01:42,495 --> 00:01:43,996 how many months I've been alone. 38 00:01:48,919 --> 00:01:50,754 How far are we from the apartment? 39 00:01:52,714 --> 00:01:55,760 {\an8}I decided to be not in the city, city center. 40 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:57,929 So you moved and you didn't tell me? 41 00:01:58,054 --> 00:01:59,139 My blood is boiling. 42 00:01:59,264 --> 00:02:01,434 I'm so upset that he lied to me. 43 00:02:01,559 --> 00:02:02,726 We are pulling up. 44 00:02:02,726 --> 00:02:04,145 We are going inside the home. 45 00:02:04,270 --> 00:02:05,813 {\an8}Oh, hell no! 46 00:02:06,731 --> 00:02:09,276 I don't speak the language. I don't know anyone. 47 00:02:09,401 --> 00:02:12,697 And now I'm isolated in the middle of nowhere. 48 00:02:12,697 --> 00:02:13,739 It's up. 49 00:02:28,298 --> 00:02:29,716 Yeah, Brisbane! 50 00:02:29,716 --> 00:02:30,926 - How far are we-- -"Brisbaun!" 51 00:02:30,926 --> 00:02:32,636 How far is it to your house? 52 00:02:32,636 --> 00:02:34,305 - Like 30 minutes? - Yeah. 53 00:02:35,389 --> 00:02:38,768 ♪ We live the life Live! ♪ 54 00:02:39,811 --> 00:02:41,813 ♪ I wish you'd try this ♪ 55 00:02:44,484 --> 00:02:46,360 Listen, we're not in a hurry, babe. 56 00:02:46,486 --> 00:02:48,322 God damn it! 57 00:02:48,322 --> 00:02:49,740 Nigel! 58 00:02:49,740 --> 00:02:51,325 Oh, my God. 59 00:02:51,325 --> 00:02:54,579 I arrived in Australia an hour ago. 60 00:02:54,579 --> 00:02:57,665 I'm completely jet lagged, but Nigel and his friends 61 00:02:57,665 --> 00:03:00,836 pulled off this amazing surprise flash mob, 62 00:03:00,836 --> 00:03:03,214 and I absolutely loved it. 63 00:03:05,841 --> 00:03:07,844 {\an8}- So do you... - Well, I know where they are. 64 00:03:07,969 --> 00:03:09,137 You know where they all are? 65 00:03:09,137 --> 00:03:11,473 Yeah, the camera's right by the speed signs. 66 00:03:11,473 --> 00:03:12,975 - We're actually speeding. - Wow. 67 00:03:12,975 --> 00:03:15,228 - Oh, my God. - Yeah. 68 00:03:15,353 --> 00:03:16,687 You guys have red light cameras? 69 00:03:16,812 --> 00:03:18,815 - Oh, yeah. - Like, everyone? 70 00:03:18,815 --> 00:03:20,984 No, not everyone. 71 00:03:20,984 --> 00:03:23,070 But they get you if you're on your phone too, right? 72 00:03:23,195 --> 00:03:24,572 Yeah, you can't have your phone in your hand. 73 00:03:24,697 --> 00:03:26,282 They'll get you if it's on your leg. 74 00:03:26,282 --> 00:03:27,617 What? 75 00:03:27,617 --> 00:03:29,202 Yeah, if it's on your thigh, yep. 76 00:03:29,327 --> 00:03:30,871 100% they have cameras 77 00:03:30,871 --> 00:03:33,040 that have AI and that are like, 78 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,459 that catch that. 79 00:03:35,459 --> 00:03:37,045 It's the same one that got you with the seatbelt 80 00:03:37,045 --> 00:03:38,547 when you weren't wearing the seatbelt properly. 81 00:03:38,547 --> 00:03:39,798 Yeah. 82 00:03:39,798 --> 00:03:41,884 That's crazy, though, 'cause I was wearing the seatbelt. 83 00:03:42,009 --> 00:03:43,261 Yeah, but not correctly. 84 00:03:44,595 --> 00:03:46,389 When Andi was here last, 85 00:03:46,514 --> 00:03:48,433 we got a ticket in the mail later, um, 86 00:03:48,559 --> 00:03:49,726 with a picture of her, 87 00:03:49,851 --> 00:03:51,144 and she was wearing her seatbelt wrong. 88 00:03:51,144 --> 00:03:54,399 It was underneath her shoulder instead of over it, 89 00:03:54,399 --> 00:03:56,568 and the ticket was, I think, $2,000. 90 00:03:56,568 --> 00:03:58,027 I thought she's a grown-ass woman 91 00:03:58,027 --> 00:04:00,864 and she knows how a lap-sash seatbelt's supposed to be worn. 92 00:04:00,864 --> 00:04:02,950 It doesn't matter if you're in America or Australia, 93 00:04:03,075 --> 00:04:04,076 you wear the seatbelt correctly. 94 00:04:04,201 --> 00:04:06,413 Like, that's just common sense. 95 00:04:06,538 --> 00:04:08,540 All you told me is, "You have to wear your seatbelt." 96 00:04:08,540 --> 00:04:10,542 - I did. - So I had to stipulate, "correctly?" 97 00:04:10,542 --> 00:04:11,836 - I just didn't-- - It's not America. 98 00:04:11,836 --> 00:04:13,963 We don't need to put warning labels on absolutely everything. 99 00:04:14,088 --> 00:04:15,256 Like a little label here that says, 100 00:04:15,381 --> 00:04:16,924 "Make sure you put this bit over your shoulder." 101 00:04:16,924 --> 00:04:19,094 Yeah, but a $2,000 fine? 102 00:04:19,094 --> 00:04:20,345 - Yeah. - That's crazy. 103 00:04:21,513 --> 00:04:23,640 Australia is definitely a nanny state. 104 00:04:23,765 --> 00:04:25,143 They're watching us. 105 00:04:25,268 --> 00:04:28,730 Speed cameras, red light cameras, 106 00:04:28,730 --> 00:04:30,524 seatbelt cameras. 107 00:04:30,524 --> 00:04:34,361 They have drug checkpoints outside of festivals 108 00:04:34,361 --> 00:04:35,654 on the way out. 109 00:04:35,779 --> 00:04:37,741 And they test everybody to see if you have 110 00:04:37,741 --> 00:04:40,201 any sort of drugs in your system. 111 00:04:40,201 --> 00:04:43,914 No cause, whatsoever. That's crazy. 112 00:04:43,914 --> 00:04:46,709 You've never, like, put it under your arm because 113 00:04:46,709 --> 00:04:48,587 it's scratching your neck? - No! 114 00:04:48,587 --> 00:04:49,838 Huh. 115 00:04:49,963 --> 00:04:52,132 I do that all the time. 116 00:04:52,257 --> 00:04:54,010 Oh, that's some behavior that's gonna have to change. 117 00:04:54,135 --> 00:04:55,470 Yeah, I see that. 118 00:04:58,306 --> 00:05:00,643 So are you proud of me for only having two suitcases? 119 00:05:00,643 --> 00:05:02,603 You've done amazingly well, yeah. 120 00:05:02,603 --> 00:05:04,021 Just minimal. 121 00:05:04,146 --> 00:05:05,773 So that's one thing that's kind of exciting about... 122 00:05:07,108 --> 00:05:08,401 starting over. 123 00:05:08,401 --> 00:05:11,196 It feels nice to just 124 00:05:11,321 --> 00:05:13,407 wipe the slate clean. - Clean slate. 125 00:05:15,201 --> 00:05:18,413 And then, I'll collect all new things in your house. 126 00:05:18,413 --> 00:05:20,540 No, you won't, you won't. 127 00:05:22,167 --> 00:05:23,669 Yes, I will. 128 00:05:23,669 --> 00:05:24,837 - No, you won't. - But we won't-- 129 00:05:24,962 --> 00:05:26,923 I won't have as many knickknacks. 130 00:05:26,923 --> 00:05:28,257 You can have all your crystals. 131 00:05:28,257 --> 00:05:29,717 I won't have as many knickknacks. 132 00:05:29,843 --> 00:05:30,886 Well, that's good. 133 00:05:32,054 --> 00:05:34,306 t's nice that now that you're moving in, 134 00:05:34,306 --> 00:05:36,768 - Yeah. - I fell-- finally feel like, more grounded 135 00:05:36,768 --> 00:05:39,145 and-- and keen to, 136 00:05:39,145 --> 00:05:41,857 um, really make the house a home. 137 00:05:41,982 --> 00:05:43,234 Well, that's good. 138 00:05:44,860 --> 00:05:46,320 But I also do wanna just, like, 139 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:48,490 throw it all away and live in my van full time, so... 140 00:05:48,490 --> 00:05:49,866 you know, there's that. 141 00:05:52,411 --> 00:05:54,872 Yeah, I don't know if I'm prepared for van life. 142 00:05:59,460 --> 00:06:02,506 Maybe when we're, like, actually retired, but I got-- 143 00:06:02,506 --> 00:06:04,133 I got too much music to make. 144 00:06:06,594 --> 00:06:07,679 Well, you can make music in there. 145 00:06:07,679 --> 00:06:09,139 - No, you can't! - But, like-- 146 00:06:09,139 --> 00:06:12,643 if we were, like, full-time gigging festivals, 147 00:06:12,643 --> 00:06:14,562 a campervan. - Yeah, yeah. 148 00:06:14,687 --> 00:06:16,313 Well, once-- once we get... 149 00:06:16,313 --> 00:06:18,150 We'd be having, like, 'cause the whole idea is 150 00:06:18,150 --> 00:06:20,068 you can have all the instruments with us in the truck. 151 00:06:20,193 --> 00:06:21,319 - Yeah. - And we can do a gig, 152 00:06:21,319 --> 00:06:22,571 and we don't have to go home first. 153 00:06:22,696 --> 00:06:24,907 So you-- you just run around 154 00:06:24,907 --> 00:06:27,160 and go to hammer out all the festivals 155 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:28,745 and do all the things that you wanna do. 156 00:06:28,745 --> 00:06:30,581 - Yeah. - And then... 157 00:06:30,706 --> 00:06:32,458 'Cause I ain't got no responsibilities. 158 00:06:32,583 --> 00:06:33,751 Sounds like a good plan to me. 159 00:06:33,876 --> 00:06:35,127 Oh, my God. 160 00:06:37,213 --> 00:06:38,173 How's that not a good plan! 161 00:06:38,173 --> 00:06:39,758 Wow! 162 00:06:39,758 --> 00:06:44,013 Nigel is really drawn to living this free, nomadic lifestyle, 163 00:06:44,013 --> 00:06:48,101 while I am ready to put down roots and commit to my person. 164 00:06:49,394 --> 00:06:51,104 - We're here. - Yay! 165 00:06:52,773 --> 00:06:54,108 Home sweet home! 166 00:06:54,108 --> 00:06:56,486 Home sweet home, baby. 167 00:06:56,611 --> 00:06:57,945 Welcome home. 168 00:06:57,945 --> 00:07:02,075 It does not feel great that I have just moved here, 169 00:07:02,075 --> 00:07:04,703 and Nigel's already talking about packing up his van 170 00:07:04,703 --> 00:07:06,706 and hitting the road. 171 00:07:06,706 --> 00:07:08,166 Ooh! 172 00:07:08,291 --> 00:07:11,419 So it worries me to think that we might not actually want 173 00:07:11,419 --> 00:07:12,797 the same thing. 174 00:07:22,808 --> 00:07:25,728 Look at this long passage that leads to nowhere. 175 00:07:25,728 --> 00:07:27,814 Like, this is luxury. 176 00:07:34,988 --> 00:07:36,407 You like flowers, you like nature. 177 00:07:36,407 --> 00:07:38,910 Nature comes from here, not from the city centre. 178 00:07:38,910 --> 00:07:41,454 {\an8}We're here, we're here. 179 00:07:41,454 --> 00:07:43,374 Follow me into the nature, 180 00:07:43,499 --> 00:07:45,751 into the countryside of Florence. 181 00:07:48,588 --> 00:07:50,048 - It's freezing. - Take your flag. 182 00:07:50,173 --> 00:07:53,009 Remember the flag, the excitement you had? 183 00:07:53,134 --> 00:07:55,221 Alright, wave the flag, great. 184 00:07:55,346 --> 00:07:58,182 You look at this, look at how beautiful! 185 00:07:58,182 --> 00:08:00,519 Before I got to Florence, 186 00:08:00,519 --> 00:08:03,188 I was under the impression that Vittorio still lived 187 00:08:03,188 --> 00:08:05,692 in the same place as last time, when I visited him, 188 00:08:05,692 --> 00:08:06,901 which was in the city center. 189 00:08:07,026 --> 00:08:09,320 I never said, "I still live in the city center." 190 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,406 I omitted the truth. 191 00:08:11,531 --> 00:08:13,158 Lie is really say, 192 00:08:13,158 --> 00:08:15,244 I did this and you didn't do. 193 00:08:15,369 --> 00:08:18,039 Omitting the truth is just not saying it. 194 00:08:18,164 --> 00:08:20,083 You omit. 195 00:08:20,208 --> 00:08:21,334 You don't say it. 196 00:08:21,334 --> 00:08:24,171 But omitting the truth is also like a form of deception. 197 00:08:24,171 --> 00:08:26,132 So dress it up how you want. You're still lying. 198 00:08:29,343 --> 00:08:30,762 Look, beautiful! 199 00:08:33,140 --> 00:08:34,558 Follow me. 200 00:08:36,728 --> 00:08:38,855 I didn't wear the right shoes for this. 201 00:08:38,855 --> 00:08:40,857 I know, it's a bit of struggle, 202 00:08:40,857 --> 00:08:42,651 but don't worry. Here we are. 203 00:08:44,528 --> 00:08:46,864 How are you supposed to drag luggage to here? 204 00:08:49,868 --> 00:08:51,536 OK, let's do like this. 205 00:08:51,536 --> 00:08:52,746 We leave this here. 206 00:08:52,746 --> 00:08:54,498 I show you the house first, 207 00:08:54,498 --> 00:08:56,751 and I come back to pick it up, OK? 208 00:08:56,876 --> 00:08:57,960 Vittorio, this is not... 209 00:09:00,797 --> 00:09:03,258 {\an8}I show you, OK? Follow me. 210 00:09:03,383 --> 00:09:05,302 I get you situated inside the house. 211 00:09:06,596 --> 00:09:09,557 This is good. Hi, look how beautiful. 212 00:09:09,557 --> 00:09:13,604 It's a characteristic Tuscan situation. 213 00:09:13,729 --> 00:09:15,814 People pay a lot of money to be here. 214 00:09:15,940 --> 00:09:20,862 Maybe you don't realize this is the top, you know? 215 00:09:20,862 --> 00:09:22,781 - Look down that road! - Va be'. 216 00:09:22,781 --> 00:09:25,993 Like we're literally in the middle of nowhere. 217 00:09:26,118 --> 00:09:28,829 Don't worry, let's continue. Let's not look back, please. 218 00:09:30,165 --> 00:09:31,959 I used to live in the city center, 219 00:09:31,959 --> 00:09:35,379 but I grew up in the countryside of Firenze. 220 00:09:35,379 --> 00:09:39,634 And after some time, I decided I want to go back to my roots, 221 00:09:39,759 --> 00:09:42,137 to my hills of Tuscany. 222 00:09:42,137 --> 00:09:44,723 I moved here a couple of months ago. 223 00:09:44,723 --> 00:09:46,642 It's a typical Tuscan village 224 00:09:46,642 --> 00:09:48,812 where at the center you have a piazza, 225 00:09:48,812 --> 00:09:50,105 a square, 226 00:09:50,105 --> 00:09:52,232 and then you have different housing units 227 00:09:52,232 --> 00:09:53,943 where you can stay. 228 00:09:53,943 --> 00:09:55,194 It is the countryside, 229 00:09:55,319 --> 00:09:56,737 but it's 15 minutes from the city. 230 00:09:56,737 --> 00:09:58,030 It's not 15 minutes. 231 00:09:58,155 --> 00:10:00,659 No, I timed myself with the Vespa. 232 00:10:02,577 --> 00:10:04,621 Look at this view there, pretty. 233 00:10:04,621 --> 00:10:05,999 - This is beautiful. - It's beautiful. 234 00:10:06,124 --> 00:10:07,166 {\an8}It's beautiful. 235 00:10:08,793 --> 00:10:09,794 {\an8}Eh, grazie! 236 00:10:09,794 --> 00:10:11,672 Finally, you say something positive. 237 00:10:11,797 --> 00:10:13,507 I'm just spooked, because I did not think-- 238 00:10:13,632 --> 00:10:16,010 I did not anticipate this is where you lived. 239 00:10:16,010 --> 00:10:17,219 It's a surprise. 240 00:10:17,344 --> 00:10:20,390 I wanted to give a surprise. Ta da! 241 00:10:20,515 --> 00:10:23,184 It's not that this place is not beautiful. 242 00:10:23,309 --> 00:10:24,812 I mean, it is, it's stunning, but 243 00:10:24,812 --> 00:10:29,108 this is a whole new reality that I was not prepared for. 244 00:10:29,108 --> 00:10:31,028 OK, here the house. 245 00:10:31,153 --> 00:10:32,362 And to top it all off, 246 00:10:32,362 --> 00:10:33,905 he didn't even tell me that he moved. 247 00:10:35,365 --> 00:10:36,617 It's a bit tight, right? 248 00:10:36,617 --> 00:10:37,702 {\an8}Ecco. 249 00:10:37,827 --> 00:10:38,870 Here we are. 250 00:10:38,870 --> 00:10:40,580 Home sweet home. 251 00:10:40,705 --> 00:10:42,041 - Ecco! - OK. 252 00:10:42,041 --> 00:10:43,542 Look how nice! 253 00:10:47,254 --> 00:10:48,214 It's big! 254 00:10:48,339 --> 00:10:49,841 Come, put this here. 255 00:10:49,841 --> 00:10:51,176 I'll show you a little bit. 256 00:10:51,176 --> 00:10:53,094 This is the main area. 257 00:10:53,219 --> 00:10:55,389 You have the fireplace. 258 00:10:55,389 --> 00:10:56,807 - Oh, that's kind of cool, yeah. - É! 259 00:10:56,807 --> 00:10:58,392 You see? 260 00:10:58,517 --> 00:11:01,021 And then I get you all these vegetables. 261 00:11:01,021 --> 00:11:02,647 - Aw, thank you! - Look at this color. 262 00:11:02,647 --> 00:11:04,775 Look at this. I'm gonna cook for you, 263 00:11:04,900 --> 00:11:07,320 make you the best meals ever. You see? 264 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,822 And then I show you more. - Gorgeous, wow. 265 00:11:09,822 --> 00:11:11,909 Here is the more of the situation of the house. 266 00:11:14,912 --> 00:11:19,334 The house looks very... characteristic. 267 00:11:19,334 --> 00:11:20,794 A lot of wood. 268 00:11:20,919 --> 00:11:22,337 I show you the bathroom. 269 00:11:22,337 --> 00:11:24,757 So here it is, traditional. 270 00:11:24,882 --> 00:11:27,843 Tiny, but intimate, but nice. 271 00:11:27,843 --> 00:11:29,513 {\an8}- Intimate. - It's very like, boutique. 272 00:11:29,513 --> 00:11:30,806 {\an8}Brava, a boutique! Ecco! 273 00:11:30,931 --> 00:11:32,099 {\an8}And you see, we have bidet. 274 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:36,687 Because we are clean people, we have bidet. 275 00:11:36,687 --> 00:11:39,148 Everything just looks a little bit more artisanal. 276 00:11:40,691 --> 00:11:42,152 - You smell... - A lot of wood. 277 00:11:42,277 --> 00:11:44,947 You smell the century, the old things. 278 00:11:45,948 --> 00:11:49,953 Even the furniture just feels very antique. 279 00:11:50,078 --> 00:11:53,624 The house just feels very like Nonna's house. 280 00:11:53,624 --> 00:11:55,501 And there's no Nonna here, it's just him and I. 281 00:11:55,626 --> 00:11:58,129 And you see the ceilings are always like this. 282 00:11:58,129 --> 00:12:00,507 I know you will say, "I've never been in a place like this." 283 00:12:00,632 --> 00:12:02,050 That's the point. 284 00:12:02,050 --> 00:12:03,802 It's fine, I know I'm in Italy, 285 00:12:03,927 --> 00:12:07,098 but again, it's just not what I had in mind. 286 00:12:07,098 --> 00:12:09,183 You see, I put for you a path. 287 00:12:10,643 --> 00:12:11,645 Beautiful. 288 00:12:13,063 --> 00:12:14,815 - Oh, wow. - Oh, this is the bedroom. 289 00:12:17,610 --> 00:12:19,821 Beautiful! Aw! 290 00:12:19,821 --> 00:12:21,447 Thank you! 291 00:12:21,447 --> 00:12:23,617 Balloon! Do you know I love balloons? 292 00:12:23,617 --> 00:12:25,035 I know you like balloon. 293 00:12:25,161 --> 00:12:26,495 Thank you. 294 00:12:26,495 --> 00:12:28,330 - Mwah! I'm so glad. - Wow! 295 00:12:28,455 --> 00:12:30,208 - I'm so glad. - Wow, this is so special. 296 00:12:30,333 --> 00:12:31,668 - Aw. - These are beautiful. 297 00:12:31,793 --> 00:12:33,336 É, look at that. 298 00:12:33,336 --> 00:12:34,838 Vedi? Come on. 299 00:12:34,838 --> 00:12:36,465 It helps your case, yeah. 300 00:12:36,465 --> 00:12:39,177 I didn't see you for so long. 301 00:12:39,302 --> 00:12:40,803 Thank you. 302 00:12:40,803 --> 00:12:44,641 Oh, this is all very nice, but it's like a lot of things 303 00:12:44,641 --> 00:12:46,852 - being thrown at me at once, so. - Oh, OK, all at once. 304 00:12:46,977 --> 00:12:49,606 - OK, OK, OK. - I'm a little bit, 305 00:12:49,606 --> 00:12:51,524 honestly, a little bit scared. 306 00:12:51,524 --> 00:12:54,486 Like, it's gorgeous, yeah, but when I had envisioned 307 00:12:54,486 --> 00:12:56,614 my new life in Italy, 308 00:12:56,614 --> 00:12:58,866 I didn't think I would be in the middle of nowhere. 309 00:12:58,866 --> 00:13:00,118 It's a lot. 310 00:13:01,369 --> 00:13:04,706 I find Jessy to be a little bit upset. 311 00:13:04,706 --> 00:13:06,667 So I do not think that... 312 00:13:07,835 --> 00:13:10,254 sex will happen for tonight. 313 00:13:10,379 --> 00:13:12,716 I was thinking and hoping because, you know, 314 00:13:12,841 --> 00:13:15,135 {\an8}she's bellisima, we're finally together, 315 00:13:15,135 --> 00:13:16,595 you know, for good, 316 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:19,974 and I want finally to see how it is. 317 00:13:19,974 --> 00:13:21,017 If it happen, it happen. 318 00:13:21,017 --> 00:13:23,729 If it don't happen, it will happen. 319 00:13:23,729 --> 00:13:25,439 You kept this from me. 320 00:13:25,564 --> 00:13:27,149 You didn't tell me that you lived here. 321 00:13:27,149 --> 00:13:29,736 Like, I don't know what else you might be lying about. 322 00:13:29,736 --> 00:13:31,404 No, lying is a big word. 323 00:13:31,404 --> 00:13:33,323 I thought if I told you I live here, 324 00:13:33,323 --> 00:13:35,242 you would have been scared and maybe you would have said, 325 00:13:35,242 --> 00:13:37,411 "Ah, no," you would have created problem. 326 00:13:37,411 --> 00:13:39,330 - And I think that you-- - No, I don't create problems. 327 00:13:39,330 --> 00:13:41,123 It's just, you know, you gotta communicate 328 00:13:41,249 --> 00:13:42,751 and tell me big things like... - I know. 329 00:13:42,876 --> 00:13:43,877 where you live, and stuff like that. 330 00:13:43,877 --> 00:13:45,504 Especially if, you know, 331 00:13:45,504 --> 00:13:47,465 - I'm coming to move with you. - If you're-- OK. 332 00:13:49,884 --> 00:13:51,844 Don't worry. You take your time. 333 00:13:51,844 --> 00:13:54,640 It's gonna be fine. It's gonna be fine. 334 00:13:54,765 --> 00:13:56,976 You know, I know it's a lot for you right now, 335 00:13:57,101 --> 00:13:58,852 but please trust me. 336 00:13:58,852 --> 00:14:01,189 I chose this for a reason. 337 00:14:01,189 --> 00:14:03,275 - I'm very tired. - I know you are. 338 00:14:03,275 --> 00:14:04,901 I'll give you the time you need. 339 00:14:06,654 --> 00:14:08,614 We're not off to a good start, 340 00:14:08,614 --> 00:14:11,660 because I feel like if you lie about one thing, 341 00:14:11,785 --> 00:14:13,078 you'll lie about another, 342 00:14:13,078 --> 00:14:16,957 especially something as major as, like, moving. 343 00:14:16,957 --> 00:14:18,918 These are things you have to tell your partner, 344 00:14:18,918 --> 00:14:21,087 because you cannot, like, completely blindside me, 345 00:14:21,087 --> 00:14:23,799 and I don't know what I'm getting myself into. 346 00:14:25,801 --> 00:14:28,554 Him omitting this type of information, 347 00:14:28,554 --> 00:14:31,891 it does put a damper in my trust with him. 348 00:14:31,891 --> 00:14:34,602 So he's gonna have to make it up to me somehow 349 00:14:34,602 --> 00:14:36,230 and earn my trust back. 350 00:14:40,651 --> 00:14:43,822 {\an8}- I missed you so much, baby. - I missed you too. 351 00:14:43,822 --> 00:14:45,324 Last night was so nice. 352 00:14:45,324 --> 00:14:48,494 It just feels so nice to be back together. 353 00:14:51,831 --> 00:14:53,584 - I love you. - I love you. 354 00:14:58,714 --> 00:15:01,676 {\an8}I love you, squishy mommy. 355 00:15:01,676 --> 00:15:04,804 I've missed her for two years, it's surreal. 356 00:15:11,145 --> 00:15:12,439 I'm finding out about this apartment 357 00:15:12,439 --> 00:15:13,982 that she's somehow paying for. 358 00:15:13,982 --> 00:15:15,984 I'm very confused right now. 359 00:15:15,984 --> 00:15:18,780 How long have you had the apartment? 360 00:15:18,780 --> 00:15:20,448 Two months. 361 00:15:40,096 --> 00:15:42,974 ♪ I'm a little bit salty and a lot of bit sweet ♪ 362 00:15:43,100 --> 00:15:45,644 ♪ If you come to my table, you better know what I need ♪ 363 00:15:47,438 --> 00:15:49,649 Hey babe, you want warm water or coffee? 364 00:15:49,774 --> 00:15:52,360 - Warm water. - OK. 365 00:16:01,287 --> 00:16:03,289 - Hey, baby. - Hey, guess who's awake? 366 00:16:03,415 --> 00:16:05,166 - Who's awake? - Jollybob's awake. 367 00:16:05,292 --> 00:16:07,211 Oh, no. Let me see. 368 00:16:07,211 --> 00:16:09,755 My first moments in Singapore were way more intense 369 00:16:09,755 --> 00:16:11,258 than I wanted them to be. 370 00:16:11,258 --> 00:16:13,218 But now that I'm here, I'm hoping we can, 371 00:16:13,218 --> 00:16:15,512 you know, start to focus and get back in sync. 372 00:16:15,637 --> 00:16:16,680 Thank you. Is it warm? 373 00:16:16,805 --> 00:16:18,975 - Oh, it's hot. - It's hot. 374 00:16:19,100 --> 00:16:20,560 Sorry, I tried to cool it off a little bit. 375 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:22,687 Can drink it? No. 376 00:16:22,812 --> 00:16:24,898 Yeah, let it cool off a little. 377 00:16:24,898 --> 00:16:26,650 We're gonna be staying at a short-term rental 378 00:16:26,775 --> 00:16:29,027 here in Singapore for a couple of weeks, 379 00:16:29,153 --> 00:16:30,655 so we can do the conversion, 380 00:16:30,780 --> 00:16:33,491 and tell Ally's parents about the pregnancy. 381 00:16:33,491 --> 00:16:35,828 After that, we're gonna head 20 minutes away to Malaysia, 382 00:16:35,953 --> 00:16:38,164 where Ally's renting an apartment. 383 00:16:38,164 --> 00:16:40,499 Oh, man. Did you sleep good, babe? 384 00:16:40,499 --> 00:16:41,918 No. 385 00:16:43,086 --> 00:16:44,504 No? Why? What happened? 386 00:16:44,504 --> 00:16:46,423 You were snoring and Jollybob was kicking. 387 00:16:46,423 --> 00:16:47,550 I was snoring? 388 00:16:48,968 --> 00:16:50,678 Well, who was worse, the snoring or the kicking? 389 00:16:52,180 --> 00:16:53,181 Don't answer that. 390 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:56,393 - I love you. - I love you. 391 00:16:56,518 --> 00:17:00,148 - I missed you so much, baby. - I miss you too. 392 00:17:00,148 --> 00:17:01,357 Last night was so nice. 393 00:17:02,567 --> 00:17:04,861 I feel bad because I almost squished Jollybob 394 00:17:04,986 --> 00:17:07,865 and shook her around too much, so... 395 00:17:07,990 --> 00:17:09,200 Pregnant sex. 396 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:10,826 It's a geometry problem, man. 397 00:17:10,826 --> 00:17:12,829 You can't use the same angles, you know. 398 00:17:12,829 --> 00:17:14,706 It definitely couldn't do the thing we did 399 00:17:14,706 --> 00:17:17,167 when we made Jolly, it was kind of a-- 400 00:17:17,167 --> 00:17:19,212 yeah, different. 401 00:17:19,337 --> 00:17:21,088 {\an8}It is what it is. I'm sorry. 402 00:17:21,214 --> 00:17:22,590 {\an8}What? 403 00:17:22,715 --> 00:17:24,301 - It hurts. - No. 404 00:17:24,301 --> 00:17:26,845 - You have to warm up. - I don't know. 405 00:17:26,845 --> 00:17:28,972 Shoot, it's been a while, so. 406 00:17:28,972 --> 00:17:31,059 Exactly, you have to, since it's been a while. 407 00:17:31,059 --> 00:17:33,228 - That's why you have to warm up. - OK. 408 00:17:33,228 --> 00:17:36,398 Every time we go like a long time without doing the nasty, 409 00:17:36,524 --> 00:17:39,235 you have to like ease into it. 410 00:17:39,235 --> 00:17:41,613 Well, I did the foreplay. Maybe I need to five play. 411 00:17:41,738 --> 00:17:43,865 I think that's how I got pregnant in the first place. 412 00:17:43,865 --> 00:17:45,367 It could be. 413 00:17:46,576 --> 00:17:49,747 Yesterday, I felt like we were on different pages. 414 00:17:49,872 --> 00:17:53,418 So I was like pissed off and like, so done at that point. 415 00:17:53,544 --> 00:17:54,670 But at the same time, 416 00:17:54,670 --> 00:17:57,631 it just feels so nice to be back together 417 00:17:57,756 --> 00:17:59,342 like with each other. 418 00:18:04,264 --> 00:18:05,808 So what is the plan for today? 419 00:18:07,309 --> 00:18:10,354 I'm thinking maybe we can go prawning. 420 00:18:10,354 --> 00:18:12,774 - Explain. - Prawning is like... 421 00:18:14,109 --> 00:18:16,945 fishing, but for prawns. 422 00:18:18,114 --> 00:18:20,658 But it's like in a, in a... 423 00:18:20,783 --> 00:18:23,203 hard, like, inside a place. 424 00:18:23,203 --> 00:18:25,205 And they have like a pond type of thing. 425 00:18:25,205 --> 00:18:26,290 OK. 426 00:18:26,290 --> 00:18:29,127 And then you get to like, grill it and eat it. 427 00:18:29,127 --> 00:18:32,046 - Megan's coming? - If she can make it, yeah. 428 00:18:32,046 --> 00:18:33,965 Oh, OK, yeah, I haven't seen her in a while. 429 00:18:34,090 --> 00:18:35,467 That'd be interesting. 430 00:18:35,467 --> 00:18:38,178 Prawning is a fun thing in Singapore, 431 00:18:38,304 --> 00:18:41,224 and John has never tried it before, 432 00:18:41,224 --> 00:18:43,768 so I thought it would be really cool to hang out 433 00:18:43,768 --> 00:18:46,187 with my friend Megan and try it. 434 00:18:46,313 --> 00:18:51,485 Megan has been following me to a few of my OB appointments. 435 00:18:51,611 --> 00:18:57,326 She has been acting as the real baby daddy till this point. 436 00:18:57,451 --> 00:18:59,454 She calls me her wife, I'm her number one wife. 437 00:19:02,874 --> 00:19:04,834 I'm so glad you have friends here and stuff. 438 00:19:04,959 --> 00:19:07,087 I am super grateful for that. 439 00:19:07,087 --> 00:19:08,464 - Yeah. - Yeah. 440 00:19:08,464 --> 00:19:10,507 You can tell Megan that you're grateful for her. 441 00:19:10,633 --> 00:19:12,677 Oh, do I have to? 442 00:19:12,802 --> 00:19:14,554 Really? Are you still salty? 443 00:19:14,679 --> 00:19:16,473 - I'm not salty. - You salty. 444 00:19:16,473 --> 00:19:17,683 No, no, you know, 445 00:19:17,808 --> 00:19:19,268 when your girl's hanging out with her girlfriends 446 00:19:19,268 --> 00:19:21,520 and all they're doing is talking that mad. 447 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:22,730 It's like... 448 00:19:24,066 --> 00:19:26,526 she gets to experience all the pregnancy stuff without me, 449 00:19:26,526 --> 00:19:29,739 and then she makes comments like, "I'm the real dad." 450 00:19:29,864 --> 00:19:31,658 You're jealous. 451 00:19:31,658 --> 00:19:34,077 Maybe, a little bit. 452 00:19:34,202 --> 00:19:36,246 It really does bother me when she's posting, you know, 453 00:19:36,372 --> 00:19:38,123 she's the dad, and then, you know, 454 00:19:38,123 --> 00:19:40,209 you're on there commenting on it as well, like, 455 00:19:40,209 --> 00:19:42,545 you know, "Best dad ever" type crap. 456 00:19:47,008 --> 00:19:49,220 - We're just kidding. - I know. 457 00:19:49,220 --> 00:19:50,805 - We just make jokes. - I know. 458 00:19:50,805 --> 00:19:54,101 But at the same time, when that distance is between us, 459 00:19:54,226 --> 00:19:56,395 it amplifies everything, you know? 460 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:58,438 And she knows, as well as you do. 461 00:19:58,563 --> 00:20:00,441 If I could be out there for those moments, 462 00:20:00,566 --> 00:20:01,484 I absolutely would. 463 00:20:01,484 --> 00:20:02,902 There's nothing that would stop me. 464 00:20:02,902 --> 00:20:04,737 So... 465 00:20:04,862 --> 00:20:08,367 Honestly, John should be kissing Megan's ass 466 00:20:08,367 --> 00:20:11,204 because she's been helping me out quite a bit. 467 00:20:11,204 --> 00:20:17,628 But I am nervous for John and Megan to be hanging out 468 00:20:17,753 --> 00:20:21,924 because I have voiced out all my stresses to Megan. 469 00:20:21,924 --> 00:20:24,261 And she is a very protective friend. 470 00:20:24,261 --> 00:20:29,517 - She can be a little bit scary. - From here-on-out, 471 00:20:29,517 --> 00:20:31,519 I'm your obstetrician buddy. 472 00:20:31,519 --> 00:20:33,438 - You know? Yeah, yeah. - Really? 473 00:21:00,094 --> 00:21:01,763 Thank you. 474 00:21:01,763 --> 00:21:04,098 Niles is arriving in Ghana today, 475 00:21:04,098 --> 00:21:05,684 I'm feeling so happy 476 00:21:05,809 --> 00:21:10,189 because it's been a long time that I set my eyes on him. 477 00:21:33,758 --> 00:21:36,053 Thankfully, this is the last stretch. 478 00:21:37,137 --> 00:21:38,138 Squishy mommy. 479 00:21:39,598 --> 00:21:42,936 I've been sitting on this plane to Ghana for 15 hours. 480 00:21:44,229 --> 00:21:46,731 But you know, I'm gonna be reunited with my squishy mommy 481 00:21:46,856 --> 00:21:50,361 soon enough, so that's just a small price to pay. 482 00:21:50,361 --> 00:21:52,780 And I see Ghana now. 483 00:21:54,282 --> 00:21:56,952 I can't wait to squishy her cheeks like this. 484 00:21:58,370 --> 00:22:00,915 But I'm not gonna lie, I'm kind of anxious. 485 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:02,792 I want to tell the truth right off the bat, 486 00:22:02,792 --> 00:22:05,045 that I'm gonna be moving here to Ghana, 487 00:22:05,170 --> 00:22:06,713 but I don't know how she's gonna react. 488 00:22:12,345 --> 00:22:14,013 I'm very, very happy. 489 00:22:48,137 --> 00:22:50,890 Went from 32 degrees to almost 90 degrees 490 00:22:50,890 --> 00:22:53,393 like immediately, wow! 491 00:22:56,438 --> 00:22:58,231 Whew! 492 00:23:06,617 --> 00:23:08,160 Pardon me. 493 00:23:14,542 --> 00:23:17,421 I feel absolutely elated about seeing Matilda 494 00:23:17,421 --> 00:23:20,090 for the first time in two years. 495 00:23:20,090 --> 00:23:21,634 I'm probably gonna turn like into like one of them 496 00:23:21,634 --> 00:23:24,387 little school girls, at how happy I'm gonna be. 497 00:23:25,805 --> 00:23:31,187 ♪ Whoa, it's been a long time coming ♪ 498 00:23:31,312 --> 00:23:34,732 ♪ I've been good, I've been brave ♪ 499 00:23:34,732 --> 00:23:41,532 ♪ And God knows he made me wait for you ♪ 500 00:23:41,658 --> 00:23:43,326 ♪ All for you ♪ 501 00:23:43,451 --> 00:23:45,411 - Babe? - Ma-- 502 00:23:46,663 --> 00:23:48,666 ♪ When I kiss your lips ♪ 503 00:23:48,791 --> 00:23:51,377 ♪ I lose my mind ♪ 504 00:23:57,801 --> 00:23:59,845 {\an8}I missed you too. 505 00:23:59,971 --> 00:24:02,598 {\an8}I love you, squishy mommy. 506 00:24:02,598 --> 00:24:04,642 Yeah, I've missed her for two years. 507 00:24:04,642 --> 00:24:06,103 It is surreal. 508 00:24:09,356 --> 00:24:11,359 {\an8}Yeah... 509 00:24:15,613 --> 00:24:17,950 - We are ready to go home, OK? - We sure are. 510 00:24:17,950 --> 00:24:19,493 - Mm-hmm. - So, um... 511 00:24:19,493 --> 00:24:21,954 Dad invited me to stay at his house. 512 00:24:21,954 --> 00:24:24,290 - What? - Dad, Mr. Arc. 513 00:24:24,290 --> 00:24:25,875 No, we are not going there. 514 00:24:32,258 --> 00:24:34,385 {\an8}Yeah, OK, I don't know how we-- 515 00:24:47,568 --> 00:24:48,944 When did that happen? 516 00:24:54,325 --> 00:24:56,244 I'm very confused right now. 517 00:24:56,369 --> 00:24:59,582 I was under the impression that she was living with her family 518 00:24:59,707 --> 00:25:02,168 because a couple of months ago, 519 00:25:02,168 --> 00:25:03,794 Mat mismanaged her money. 520 00:25:03,919 --> 00:25:06,048 We ended up getting into a huge argument 521 00:25:06,048 --> 00:25:08,550 when she asked me for more money to get a new place. 522 00:25:08,550 --> 00:25:10,970 Matilda told me she would be out on the streets, 523 00:25:11,095 --> 00:25:13,598 but now I'm finding out about this apartment 524 00:25:13,598 --> 00:25:15,058 that she's somehow paying for, 525 00:25:15,058 --> 00:25:17,061 which... 526 00:25:17,061 --> 00:25:19,188 I've got-- I've got so many questions. 527 00:25:22,776 --> 00:25:24,527 {\an8}We'll address-- we'll address that. 528 00:25:24,527 --> 00:25:27,113 {\an8}But right now, I'm just happy to be able to do this. 529 00:25:30,451 --> 00:25:33,245 {\an8}OK, let's nod your head. 530 00:25:33,245 --> 00:25:34,831 {\an8}OK, yeah, you're right. We're in public. 531 00:25:34,956 --> 00:25:36,708 Behave, behave, OK? 532 00:25:36,708 --> 00:25:40,212 I know, it's just, you tell me to behave, then do that. 533 00:25:41,798 --> 00:25:43,633 - I have missed you. - I missed you more. 534 00:25:43,758 --> 00:25:45,384 I have missed you so much. 535 00:25:45,384 --> 00:25:46,594 Let's go. 536 00:25:46,594 --> 00:25:48,472 I got two years to make up with you. 537 00:26:08,370 --> 00:26:09,996 Let's go, I think the taxi-- 538 00:26:10,122 --> 00:26:11,249 I didn't bring the car, right? 539 00:26:11,249 --> 00:26:12,099 - The taxi is-- - Oh... 540 00:26:25,682 --> 00:26:27,517 {\an8}OK. 541 00:26:47,166 --> 00:26:50,878 So you have an apartment now? 542 00:27:00,222 --> 00:27:03,350 How long have you had the apartment? 543 00:27:05,729 --> 00:27:06,730 Two months. 544 00:27:10,025 --> 00:27:11,027 Two months. 545 00:27:15,615 --> 00:27:19,077 As in the two months where 546 00:27:19,077 --> 00:27:22,414 I thought you were mismanaging the money, 547 00:27:23,625 --> 00:27:25,376 and the whole time that wasn't true. 548 00:27:26,502 --> 00:27:29,006 Mat, you weren't telling me what was going on. 549 00:27:38,433 --> 00:27:40,435 You weren't telling me anything at the time. 550 00:27:49,446 --> 00:27:51,323 Are you serious? Are you being real? 551 00:27:51,448 --> 00:27:53,701 So you'll be happy for your wife to be homeless. 552 00:27:53,701 --> 00:27:55,453 Sleeping outside? 553 00:28:03,170 --> 00:28:06,007 {\an8}Oh, my God, I'm so happy to see you! 554 00:28:06,132 --> 00:28:08,051 I want to dive into the culture. 555 00:28:08,051 --> 00:28:09,594 I wanna learn the language. 556 00:28:09,594 --> 00:28:11,973 - Do you like my outfit? - Yeah, you look so French. 557 00:28:13,140 --> 00:28:15,643 But I'm really nervous to fail. 558 00:28:15,643 --> 00:28:19,982 We really have to let everything behind, start again. 559 00:28:19,982 --> 00:28:22,694 This move is make-or-break for our relationship. 560 00:28:34,248 --> 00:28:35,667 I'm in Paris 561 00:28:36,751 --> 00:28:40,715 and I'm headed to the train station. 562 00:28:40,715 --> 00:28:43,301 I'm super super excited to see Ben. 563 00:28:52,436 --> 00:28:58,777 I'm super excited, really tired, but I'm making it work. 564 00:29:01,322 --> 00:29:03,407 Ben and I have been working on this for so long, 565 00:29:03,532 --> 00:29:06,077 and we thought that the day would never come. 566 00:29:06,202 --> 00:29:08,496 So to be here is everything to me. 567 00:29:09,748 --> 00:29:11,834 Looks like the train is here. 568 00:29:11,834 --> 00:29:14,670 I'm not too far from the platform now, which is good 569 00:29:14,670 --> 00:29:18,091 because I can't wait to sit on this train, put my bags down. 570 00:29:19,885 --> 00:29:23,264 I think I might go on early and grab my seat. 571 00:29:23,389 --> 00:29:25,725 Nancy, I'm coming for you. 572 00:29:34,234 --> 00:29:36,613 It's the big day. The big move is today. 573 00:29:38,907 --> 00:29:41,410 The drive to Paris is like four and a half hours. 574 00:29:41,410 --> 00:29:42,620 The train is fast. 575 00:29:42,620 --> 00:29:44,997 It will take her an hour thirty. 576 00:29:45,122 --> 00:29:48,585 So it makes it easier for me to grab her at the train station. 577 00:29:54,634 --> 00:29:57,553 I'm really happy about a new start today. 578 00:29:57,553 --> 00:30:00,307 So I had the idea to make this poster, 579 00:30:00,307 --> 00:30:01,767 "Welcome Home, Zuri." 580 00:30:18,703 --> 00:30:22,249 I just can't wait to grab her in my arms. 581 00:30:22,249 --> 00:30:24,377 We should get ready and go to grab her. 582 00:30:30,259 --> 00:30:33,679 I feel like French now. I love my outfit today. 583 00:30:34,722 --> 00:30:37,809 I think Ben'll think it's really cute. 584 00:30:37,809 --> 00:30:43,274 I just want to put my best foot forward and lead with my heart, 585 00:30:43,274 --> 00:30:44,900 not my head for once. 586 00:30:47,863 --> 00:30:48,864 I'm a little nervous. 587 00:30:50,866 --> 00:30:53,744 Because I know this time, it's the one. 588 00:30:54,996 --> 00:30:57,498 But I'm so happy and I'm so excited to see her. 589 00:31:17,564 --> 00:31:19,441 I know it will be challenging this time, 590 00:31:19,566 --> 00:31:22,487 and we have a lot of things to work on, 591 00:31:22,487 --> 00:31:27,742 but I really feel like I just want to appreciate this moment. 592 00:31:27,742 --> 00:31:29,745 It's the first day of our new life, 593 00:31:29,870 --> 00:31:32,164 and I hope for the rest of our lives, 594 00:31:32,164 --> 00:31:33,665 so it's really important. 595 00:31:43,636 --> 00:31:44,887 Oh! 596 00:31:46,848 --> 00:31:47,891 Oh, my God. 597 00:31:48,892 --> 00:31:50,602 I'm so happy to see you. 598 00:31:52,103 --> 00:31:53,898 - Hi! - I'm so happy to see you. 599 00:31:53,898 --> 00:31:55,441 - I brought you some flowers. - Oh, my God. 600 00:31:55,566 --> 00:31:57,026 That's so sweet. 601 00:31:59,571 --> 00:32:01,615 - I'm so happy. - I love you. 602 00:32:02,908 --> 00:32:04,702 I hope you had a nice travel. 603 00:32:04,702 --> 00:32:06,412 It was a lot of travel, 604 00:32:06,412 --> 00:32:08,248 but it was worth it. - I can imagine. 605 00:32:08,248 --> 00:32:10,166 Yeah, I've got the whole squad with me, so... 606 00:32:10,291 --> 00:32:12,795 - Oh, my God. - I'm moving in. 607 00:32:12,795 --> 00:32:16,340 You don't think you had enough stuff at all? 608 00:32:16,466 --> 00:32:17,842 No, I needed more. 609 00:32:19,636 --> 00:32:22,222 - Do you like my outfit? - Yeah, you look so French now. 610 00:32:22,222 --> 00:32:24,642 Do I look Frenchy? Am I fitting in already? 611 00:32:24,642 --> 00:32:26,644 Yeah, I love your beret. You look so French. 612 00:32:26,644 --> 00:32:28,104 More French than me. 613 00:32:28,104 --> 00:32:30,524 No, you look perfect. These are beautiful. 614 00:32:30,649 --> 00:32:32,150 - You're so thoughtful. - Yeah. 615 00:32:33,151 --> 00:32:35,238 I just wanted the little things for you when you arrive. 616 00:32:35,238 --> 00:32:38,825 - Aw, you're so sweet. - Oh, my God, I'm so happy. 617 00:32:42,162 --> 00:32:44,498 - I missed you so much. - I missed you too. 618 00:32:44,623 --> 00:32:46,710 - I can't believe I'm here. - Me too. 619 00:32:48,169 --> 00:32:50,380 - Let's go home. - Yeah. 620 00:32:50,505 --> 00:32:52,090 I will help with that big suitcase. 621 00:32:52,090 --> 00:32:54,552 OK, sweet. I'll take the little one. 622 00:32:54,677 --> 00:32:55,678 OK. 623 00:33:02,269 --> 00:33:04,564 It feels like so right this time. 624 00:33:04,689 --> 00:33:06,608 - Yeah. - No drama. 625 00:33:06,608 --> 00:33:08,192 No more drama. 626 00:33:09,944 --> 00:33:13,198 This time, I really wanna put myself out there. 627 00:33:13,198 --> 00:33:15,284 Ben has always been my rock, 628 00:33:15,284 --> 00:33:19,372 but I wanna be the independent woman that he loves. 629 00:33:19,372 --> 00:33:21,291 - There you go. - Thanks, hon. 630 00:33:21,291 --> 00:33:25,212 I wanna be positive and do my best to settle here. 631 00:33:35,642 --> 00:33:37,018 {\an8}Ah... 632 00:33:37,018 --> 00:33:38,770 Don't start nothing, it won't be nothing. 633 00:33:38,895 --> 00:33:40,898 Oh... 634 00:33:42,316 --> 00:33:45,778 I'm so happy to be back and like give it another shot. 635 00:33:45,903 --> 00:33:48,114 Yeah, me too. I'm so happy too. 636 00:33:48,239 --> 00:33:49,908 I think this time is all time. 637 00:33:50,909 --> 00:33:52,370 - It's our turn. - Yeah. 638 00:33:54,413 --> 00:33:57,583 This move is make-or-break for our relationship. 639 00:33:57,583 --> 00:34:00,420 I'm totally ready to do things differently this time 640 00:34:00,545 --> 00:34:02,005 because I know that... 641 00:34:02,005 --> 00:34:03,924 the last time things didn't work, 642 00:34:04,049 --> 00:34:05,551 so there has to be changes. 643 00:34:06,969 --> 00:34:08,763 I think there's a part of me that 644 00:34:08,763 --> 00:34:11,058 just gets really nervous to fail. 645 00:34:11,058 --> 00:34:12,434 And when you're trying something new, 646 00:34:12,559 --> 00:34:14,770 you just fail a lot. 647 00:34:14,770 --> 00:34:17,524 I want to dive into the culture. 648 00:34:17,524 --> 00:34:20,360 I wanna learn the language, but it's gonna take time. 649 00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:25,574 But it's by failing that you will learn everything. 650 00:34:25,574 --> 00:34:27,952 - You have to fail to learn. - Yeah, you're right. 651 00:34:30,580 --> 00:34:32,749 We really have to do this new stuff, 652 00:34:32,749 --> 00:34:35,169 like let everything behind, 653 00:34:35,294 --> 00:34:37,547 start again, like, you know. - Yeah. 654 00:34:38,881 --> 00:34:39,882 I'm excited. 655 00:34:48,268 --> 00:34:51,271 {\an8}Why you can watch TikToks but not apply for a job? 656 00:34:52,815 --> 00:34:54,775 I think it would give her more reassurance, 657 00:34:54,775 --> 00:34:56,318 - if you applied more. - Yeah. 658 00:34:57,778 --> 00:34:59,823 She could maybe be better off without you. 659 00:35:01,158 --> 00:35:02,200 Give me a break! 660 00:35:09,041 --> 00:35:11,086 ♪ Take you for a ride with the look that's in your eyes ♪ 661 00:35:11,211 --> 00:35:15,174 ♪ I can see that you've been waiting for me all night ♪ 662 00:35:15,174 --> 00:35:17,177 ♪ Dancing in the dark ♪ 663 00:35:17,177 --> 00:35:18,762 ♪ La, la, la, la ♪ 664 00:35:22,015 --> 00:35:23,225 Alright, let's go. 665 00:35:24,852 --> 00:35:26,145 What do you think, babe? 666 00:35:26,145 --> 00:35:28,189 Wow! 667 00:35:28,189 --> 00:35:30,150 - You upped your game. - Right. 668 00:35:30,150 --> 00:35:32,110 Nice. It's very clean. 669 00:35:32,235 --> 00:35:34,822 It's got this trendy little apple bowl. 670 00:35:34,822 --> 00:35:37,158 - Yeah, you like that guy? - Yes, that's new. 671 00:35:37,158 --> 00:35:39,535 I have arrived at Nigel's house, 672 00:35:39,535 --> 00:35:41,955 and I am completely shocked. 673 00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,916 - How long did it take you? - All night. 674 00:35:44,041 --> 00:35:46,168 - Did you clean it all night? - Yeah. 675 00:35:46,168 --> 00:35:48,963 Aw, that's sweet. 676 00:35:49,088 --> 00:35:50,215 Worth it. 677 00:35:51,174 --> 00:35:52,091 Yeah. 678 00:35:52,217 --> 00:35:53,594 Yeah, so take a look at this. 679 00:35:58,224 --> 00:35:59,768 {\an8}- You're tall, yeah. - Yeah. 680 00:35:59,768 --> 00:36:01,102 'Cause I'm standing here, so... 681 00:36:01,228 --> 00:36:03,688 I had this lying around, so it's my sticker. 682 00:36:03,688 --> 00:36:05,650 I stuck this frosted stuff to the window there, 683 00:36:05,775 --> 00:36:07,109 so they can't see. - Oh, my God, 684 00:36:07,235 --> 00:36:08,611 - OK, good. - Yeah. 685 00:36:08,611 --> 00:36:09,612 That's great. 686 00:36:09,612 --> 00:36:11,615 The sticker, also very thoughtful. 687 00:36:11,615 --> 00:36:13,075 - Very thoughtful guy. - Yeah. 688 00:36:14,701 --> 00:36:18,081 So now your bedroom... is clean! 689 00:36:18,081 --> 00:36:20,291 I can't even believe it! 690 00:36:20,291 --> 00:36:21,751 Are you kidding me? 691 00:36:21,751 --> 00:36:23,128 Mama didn't raise no fool. 692 00:36:28,301 --> 00:36:30,011 Aww. 693 00:36:30,136 --> 00:36:31,638 You did good. 694 00:36:31,763 --> 00:36:33,598 - I'm glad you think so. - Yeah. 695 00:36:33,598 --> 00:36:35,184 So, we gonna go run that bath? 696 00:36:35,309 --> 00:36:37,144 - Yeah, can we? - Let's do it. 697 00:36:37,144 --> 00:36:38,938 Mmm. Let's do it. 698 00:36:40,649 --> 00:36:43,569 So far, Nigel's making me feel really special 699 00:36:43,569 --> 00:36:45,821 and really wanted. 700 00:36:45,821 --> 00:36:48,157 And that's giving me a lot of relief. 701 00:36:50,201 --> 00:36:52,246 - Hello! - Oh, hello! 702 00:36:52,246 --> 00:36:54,081 - Look at you! - My sweet. 703 00:36:54,081 --> 00:36:56,166 Oh, my goodness. That's charming of you. 704 00:36:56,166 --> 00:36:57,501 Mm-hmm. 705 00:37:04,218 --> 00:37:06,220 This is the perfect welcome. 706 00:37:06,846 --> 00:37:11,685 And it's really showing me that Nigel is dedicated to me, 707 00:37:11,685 --> 00:37:14,187 and he really might be my soulmate. 708 00:37:21,654 --> 00:37:23,240 {\an8}Hmm. 709 00:37:26,243 --> 00:37:27,161 {\an8}Oh, man. 710 00:37:41,929 --> 00:37:44,181 - So are you excited? - Are you excited? 711 00:37:44,181 --> 00:37:46,225 I'm excited to get that shrimp. 712 00:37:49,687 --> 00:37:50,688 ♪ Let's get into it ♪ 713 00:37:54,735 --> 00:37:56,111 See, boo boo? 714 00:37:56,236 --> 00:37:57,988 {\an8}Vaping is prohibited. 715 00:37:57,988 --> 00:37:59,574 {\an8}I get it. 716 00:37:59,574 --> 00:38:01,117 Again with the vaping. 717 00:38:01,242 --> 00:38:02,953 - Oh, hello. - Hello. 718 00:38:03,078 --> 00:38:05,414 {\an8}How are you? 719 00:38:05,539 --> 00:38:06,749 Yes, please. 720 00:38:09,585 --> 00:38:12,965 Prawning is a popular and unique thing to do 721 00:38:13,090 --> 00:38:14,508 in Singapore. 722 00:38:14,508 --> 00:38:19,097 You're sitting around like this man-made pond thingy 723 00:38:19,222 --> 00:38:23,268 and like they put in the live prawns for you to catch. 724 00:38:24,269 --> 00:38:25,270 I'm just gonna... 725 00:38:26,271 --> 00:38:29,776 sit back here and cheer you on from the side or something. 726 00:38:29,776 --> 00:38:32,028 Oh, it's in my finger. 727 00:38:32,028 --> 00:38:35,574 I feel like this is not a very feminine activity. 728 00:38:35,574 --> 00:38:37,243 I'm so scared. 729 00:38:37,243 --> 00:38:40,455 Prawning's no different than fishing for bass in the river 730 00:38:40,455 --> 00:38:42,499 or in the creek in Texas. It's pretty simple. 731 00:38:42,624 --> 00:38:44,459 You put the bait on the hook, you cast it out there, 732 00:38:44,584 --> 00:38:46,086 and when you get a tug, pull it. 733 00:38:47,588 --> 00:38:49,966 - Well, that's a big-ass shrimp. - Mommy, I'm scared. 734 00:38:49,966 --> 00:38:51,009 Whoo hoo! 735 00:38:52,636 --> 00:38:54,221 It's like alive and like it has like... 736 00:38:59,811 --> 00:39:01,730 I mean, if they were like cute and fluffy, 737 00:39:01,730 --> 00:39:03,481 - I wouldn't mind. - Yeah. 738 00:39:07,361 --> 00:39:08,571 - Yeah, me either. - Yeah. 739 00:39:08,571 --> 00:39:09,655 But like prawns are like... 740 00:39:12,284 --> 00:39:14,786 Hey, we're eating good tonight, baby, get that shrimp. 741 00:39:16,664 --> 00:39:17,999 Hey, you better quit it with that claw. 742 00:39:18,100 --> 00:39:20,126 {\an8}- Hi! - Hello! 743 00:39:20,126 --> 00:39:22,129 {\an8}- Hey, what's up, Megan? - How are you ding? 744 00:39:22,129 --> 00:39:24,339 - How are you? - Very good. 745 00:39:24,339 --> 00:39:26,091 John, I'm so glad that you're here. 746 00:39:26,091 --> 00:39:28,261 Oh, it's good to see you. 747 00:39:28,261 --> 00:39:30,138 I don't really know too much about Megan, 748 00:39:30,138 --> 00:39:32,515 except for the social media posts where she's claiming 749 00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:35,519 to be the father and making accusations 750 00:39:35,644 --> 00:39:38,147 that I'm just not there and not present. 751 00:39:38,147 --> 00:39:40,192 So I'll be honest, I feel really awkward. 752 00:39:42,986 --> 00:39:44,988 This is the most exciting thing I've done all week. 753 00:39:46,616 --> 00:39:48,993 How does it feel like being with Ally again 754 00:39:48,993 --> 00:39:52,206 when, you know, she's like six months now? 755 00:39:52,206 --> 00:39:54,124 - Six and a half. - Six and a half months. 756 00:39:54,124 --> 00:39:56,210 Yeah, no, it sucked being stuck over there, 757 00:39:56,335 --> 00:39:58,421 - and not being able to help. - Yeah, I can imagine. 758 00:39:58,546 --> 00:40:00,215 Do the things I wanted to do. Yeah. 759 00:40:00,215 --> 00:40:01,966 I don't have to be the father anymore. 760 00:40:01,966 --> 00:40:03,218 - Yeah, yeah. - Yeah. 761 00:40:03,218 --> 00:40:04,553 - No. - - You can take back that role. 762 00:40:04,678 --> 00:40:06,680 You can go to all her OBGYN visits now. 763 00:40:10,268 --> 00:40:11,728 Yeah, it's been really hard for her, especially 764 00:40:11,728 --> 00:40:13,939 since she hasn't talked to her mom about it yet. 765 00:40:14,064 --> 00:40:15,899 I think that's a lot of stuff that her mom would've been 766 00:40:16,024 --> 00:40:17,527 doing with her. - Yeah. 767 00:40:20,655 --> 00:40:22,950 How is all the job application going? 768 00:40:23,075 --> 00:40:25,577 Yeah, I mean, I'm getting back to that. 769 00:40:25,702 --> 00:40:27,496 I had to get over here and get adjusted. 770 00:40:27,496 --> 00:40:29,415 It's tough for me though, because I'm a foreigner. 771 00:40:29,415 --> 00:40:30,667 Yeah. 772 00:40:30,667 --> 00:40:32,710 - So. - Does that reassure you, Ally? 773 00:40:32,710 --> 00:40:34,755 How many jobs have you applied for today? 774 00:40:34,755 --> 00:40:35,756 Today? 775 00:40:35,756 --> 00:40:36,882 - I've been with you all day. - One, two? 776 00:40:36,882 --> 00:40:38,759 I've been with her all day. Just stop. 777 00:40:38,884 --> 00:40:40,554 How many TikToks have you watched today? 778 00:40:43,140 --> 00:40:45,517 Why can you-- why you can watch TikToks, 779 00:40:45,517 --> 00:40:48,396 but not apply for a job? - Well, OK. 780 00:40:48,396 --> 00:40:50,481 I think it would give her more reassurance 781 00:40:50,606 --> 00:40:52,943 if you applied more. - Yeah, yeah, I agree. 782 00:40:52,943 --> 00:40:55,195 Because I think what she is feeling is that 783 00:40:55,195 --> 00:40:57,197 you're not applying to it enough, 784 00:40:57,197 --> 00:40:58,950 and that gives the impression 785 00:40:59,075 --> 00:41:00,994 that maybe you might not want to actually move here. 786 00:41:03,163 --> 00:41:04,999 I mean, that's a real cool story and all, but 787 00:41:05,124 --> 00:41:06,834 I mean, here I am, right? 788 00:41:08,961 --> 00:41:11,256 I do feel like I have to talk to John about 789 00:41:11,256 --> 00:41:14,134 what's bothering Ally because he likes to say things 790 00:41:14,134 --> 00:41:16,262 but, in reality, does not happen. 791 00:41:16,262 --> 00:41:18,222 And maybe, you know, 792 00:41:18,222 --> 00:41:21,601 he does not know the impact as to how it's affecting her. 793 00:41:21,601 --> 00:41:23,937 Well, you know, my intention was never to move out here. 794 00:41:23,937 --> 00:41:25,981 I wanted for her to move out there. 795 00:41:25,981 --> 00:41:27,900 And were you happy with that? 796 00:41:27,900 --> 00:41:30,361 I mean, at first, I thought it made sense, 797 00:41:30,486 --> 00:41:32,989 but after being out there and seeing how, like, 798 00:41:33,114 --> 00:41:34,533 life is out there, like... 799 00:41:35,534 --> 00:41:37,036 it's not something that I want. 800 00:41:42,209 --> 00:41:43,752 Well, I'm sorry to hear you say that. 801 00:41:44,836 --> 00:41:46,047 {\an8}You know? 802 00:41:48,174 --> 00:41:49,926 But the fact of the matter is you won't have to stay 803 00:41:49,926 --> 00:41:51,677 with her in the house ever again, right? 804 00:41:53,055 --> 00:41:54,556 Yeah, of course-- we are gonna stay here. 805 00:41:58,895 --> 00:42:00,605 I'm just a bit concerned because 806 00:42:00,605 --> 00:42:02,565 Ally has told me that she felt like 807 00:42:02,690 --> 00:42:04,652 you say a lot of things to plan, 808 00:42:04,652 --> 00:42:07,154 but then it doesn't really come to action. 809 00:42:07,154 --> 00:42:09,865 She is really frustrated and then, as a friend 810 00:42:09,991 --> 00:42:12,702 who cares for her, and I know she loves you a lot, 811 00:42:12,827 --> 00:42:14,788 but it does give me the impression 812 00:42:14,788 --> 00:42:16,207 that everything that she's doing, 813 00:42:16,207 --> 00:42:17,541 she's been doing it on her own. 814 00:42:19,710 --> 00:42:22,172 She could maybe be better off without you. 815 00:42:24,716 --> 00:42:26,385 It's easy for y'all to say that, 816 00:42:26,385 --> 00:42:28,513 but I'm the father of her child. 817 00:42:30,765 --> 00:42:32,267 - Ah! - There is a cockroach! 818 00:42:32,392 --> 00:42:33,893 No, no, no, no! 819 00:42:35,354 --> 00:42:36,814 It's just coming at me. 820 00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:41,945 I was trying to make it-- 821 00:42:48,744 --> 00:42:51,872 Jesus Christ. Give me a break. 822 00:42:58,256 --> 00:42:59,549 I'm super pissed. 823 00:42:59,549 --> 00:43:01,217 I mean, you go to a couple OB appointments, 824 00:43:01,217 --> 00:43:03,094 that doesn't give you the right to tell Ally 825 00:43:03,094 --> 00:43:04,221 she's better off without me. 826 00:43:04,221 --> 00:43:06,140 I mean, that's pretty up. 827 00:43:06,265 --> 00:43:08,434 And then you got Ally just sitting here, stone quiet, 828 00:43:08,559 --> 00:43:10,186 not even backing me up. 829 00:43:10,186 --> 00:43:12,439 I didn't move across the planet 830 00:43:12,439 --> 00:43:14,607 to be with somebody that's just gonna sit there 831 00:43:14,733 --> 00:43:15,775 and not have my back, 832 00:43:15,775 --> 00:43:17,862 when other people are actually attacking me. 833 00:43:17,862 --> 00:43:19,864 I mean, is this how things are gonna go? 834 00:43:27,706 --> 00:43:31,294 {\an8}Smell the nature, smell the clean air. 835 00:43:32,879 --> 00:43:34,548 I am in the country. 836 00:43:34,548 --> 00:43:38,218 I am not where I thought I was going to live. 837 00:43:38,218 --> 00:43:39,971 You are being not very grateful 838 00:43:40,096 --> 00:43:41,598 for what I show to you. 839 00:43:41,598 --> 00:43:43,683 No, it's not about not being grateful, it's just... 840 00:43:45,143 --> 00:43:47,355 you didn't tell me any of this. 841 00:43:59,702 --> 00:44:01,704 Ew! 842 00:44:03,289 --> 00:44:05,918 I put salt in the oatmeal instead of sugar. 843 00:44:06,043 --> 00:44:07,711 Why? You don't see? 844 00:44:07,836 --> 00:44:10,840 This is S in "sale"-- salty. 845 00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:12,384 That's sugar, the Z? 846 00:44:12,509 --> 00:44:14,177 Zucchero! Che schifo! 847 00:44:14,177 --> 00:44:16,597 Why you do this stuff? Breakfast I do. 848 00:44:16,722 --> 00:44:17,890 You get ready. 849 00:44:17,890 --> 00:44:20,309 I prepare the breakfast and stuff. 850 00:44:29,487 --> 00:44:34,910 Last night, we went to bed, and... 851 00:44:35,035 --> 00:44:37,746 obviously, he tried to... 852 00:44:37,871 --> 00:44:39,164 get it going, 853 00:44:39,164 --> 00:44:42,043 but I was very, very, very tired. 854 00:44:42,043 --> 00:44:43,503 I'm in a new place, like, 855 00:44:43,503 --> 00:44:46,715 all the elements are just new and foreign to me, 856 00:44:46,715 --> 00:44:48,676 so I think all of that combined is kind of why 857 00:44:48,676 --> 00:44:50,511 it hasn't happened yet. 858 00:44:50,511 --> 00:44:52,931 OK, Jess, it's ready when you're ready, 859 00:44:52,931 --> 00:44:54,766 your breakfast, dai. 860 00:44:54,766 --> 00:44:56,601 Vittorio, do you have socks by any chance? 861 00:44:56,726 --> 00:44:58,563 - Like little socks. - I see. 862 00:44:58,563 --> 00:45:01,816 We went to bed last night and we sleep. 863 00:45:01,941 --> 00:45:03,151 Nothing happened. 864 00:45:03,276 --> 00:45:04,445 I help you, I help you. 865 00:45:04,445 --> 00:45:07,823 I was fine because just to sleep in her arms, 866 00:45:07,948 --> 00:45:10,493 holding each other, it was great. 867 00:45:10,618 --> 00:45:11,953 {\an8}- Bene. - OK. 868 00:45:11,953 --> 00:45:13,163 {\an8}Voilà, mademoiselle. 869 00:45:13,288 --> 00:45:14,414 After you. 870 00:45:14,414 --> 00:45:16,333 But I'm patient until I'm not, 871 00:45:16,459 --> 00:45:19,545 so you know, clearly I expect some action, of course. 872 00:45:19,545 --> 00:45:20,629 It's normal. 873 00:45:21,714 --> 00:45:23,300 - Thank you. - Tell me the green juice. 874 00:45:23,300 --> 00:45:24,968 Look how green it is. 875 00:45:25,093 --> 00:45:27,179 I put all the vegetable we have, so fresh. 876 00:45:27,304 --> 00:45:28,890 - Oh, it's very good. - É. 877 00:45:28,890 --> 00:45:31,225 - Anyway, it's your first morning here. - Mm-hmm. 878 00:45:31,225 --> 00:45:33,394 I wanted to show you the location. 879 00:45:33,394 --> 00:45:35,481 So when I'm not gonna be here, 880 00:45:35,606 --> 00:45:37,524 you can see how to get to the town, 881 00:45:37,649 --> 00:45:39,651 how to do your things independently. 882 00:45:39,651 --> 00:45:42,530 So now we take a walk down the hill. 883 00:45:42,655 --> 00:45:44,782 You wanna walk down the hill? 884 00:45:44,782 --> 00:45:46,869 I will I get you a nice bicycle, perhaps 885 00:45:46,994 --> 00:45:48,162 you go down the hill. 886 00:45:48,162 --> 00:45:49,246 It's all down the hill. 887 00:45:49,246 --> 00:45:51,165 {\an8}Is there like a bus or something that passes? 888 00:45:51,290 --> 00:45:53,502 {\an8}Passes at very inconvenient hours, 889 00:45:53,627 --> 00:45:55,420 - but there is a bus, but... - OK. 890 00:45:55,420 --> 00:45:57,589 {\an8}No, we could try... 891 00:45:57,589 --> 00:45:59,425 {\an8}I'm too bella to have to walk down 892 00:45:59,425 --> 00:46:01,135 in a gazillion acres 893 00:46:01,135 --> 00:46:03,262 {\an8}to get down to the town. 894 00:46:03,262 --> 00:46:05,641 You haven't seen it yet, so please, you see. 895 00:46:07,476 --> 00:46:10,563 I believe that Jessy is gonna love all of this 896 00:46:10,688 --> 00:46:13,358 because this is something she doesn't have in New York. 897 00:46:13,358 --> 00:46:16,195 And I think she's gonna adapt very easily to all of this. 898 00:46:22,244 --> 00:46:26,331 Smell the nature. Smell the clean air. 899 00:46:26,331 --> 00:46:28,417 I hear nothing. 900 00:46:28,543 --> 00:46:29,544 That's the point. 901 00:46:30,711 --> 00:46:32,255 We're in the middle of nowhere, 902 00:46:32,380 --> 00:46:34,299 so no one can hear my screams. 903 00:46:34,299 --> 00:46:37,052 {\an8}No one can hear if I need help. 904 00:46:38,720 --> 00:46:40,348 It's just a big adjustment. 905 00:46:41,724 --> 00:46:43,518 I am in the country. 906 00:46:43,518 --> 00:46:46,772 I am not where I thought I was going to live. 907 00:46:46,897 --> 00:46:49,149 It's a bit of an eerie feeling. It's very quiet. 908 00:46:49,149 --> 00:46:51,569 So all I have is me and my thoughts. 909 00:46:51,694 --> 00:46:53,405 And you know, I'm a full-on city girl. 910 00:46:53,405 --> 00:46:55,740 So when I hear nothing going on, 911 00:46:55,865 --> 00:46:57,910 I kind of get freaked out. 912 00:46:58,035 --> 00:47:00,454 This is a lot to take in. It's just very different. 913 00:47:04,084 --> 00:47:06,336 Ah, and here also we have the horse. 914 00:47:06,336 --> 00:47:07,754 Ah, what's his name? 915 00:47:07,754 --> 00:47:09,298 His name is Giuseppe. 916 00:47:10,717 --> 00:47:12,760 He's eating lunch. I don't want to interrupt him. 917 00:47:12,885 --> 00:47:14,470 How are you, Giuseppe? 918 00:47:14,596 --> 00:47:16,640 You see, he's so nice. - Everybody love you. 919 00:47:16,765 --> 00:47:19,101 Wow, his hair is gorgeous. 920 00:47:19,101 --> 00:47:20,603 Like yours, almost like yours. 921 00:47:20,603 --> 00:47:22,188 Yeah, look at these bundles, eh? 922 00:47:22,188 --> 00:47:23,690 Right? 923 00:47:23,690 --> 00:47:27,027 {\an8}Oh, baby, isn't this an enrichment of life? 924 00:47:27,027 --> 00:47:28,654 My Jessy and Giuseppe, 925 00:47:28,779 --> 00:47:30,781 I've been dreaming of this so much. 926 00:47:30,906 --> 00:47:33,534 Fantastico, one day then we ride it. 927 00:47:33,534 --> 00:47:34,536 Yeah. 928 00:47:34,536 --> 00:47:36,163 {\an8}- Esatto. - OK. 929 00:47:41,044 --> 00:47:43,463 Oh, my God! 930 00:47:46,133 --> 00:47:47,217 You see olive trees. 931 00:47:47,217 --> 00:47:49,637 This is where we make the olive oil. 932 00:47:49,762 --> 00:47:52,265 Ah, there's-- there's chickens and roosters. 933 00:47:52,265 --> 00:47:54,309 Of course, you think I was joking yesterday 934 00:47:54,434 --> 00:47:55,602 when I tell you about that. - Wow! 935 00:47:55,602 --> 00:47:58,147 You have the whole nine here, OK. 936 00:47:58,272 --> 00:48:00,691 Of course, I come here in the morning. 937 00:48:00,816 --> 00:48:01,984 I go get the eggs. 938 00:48:02,985 --> 00:48:04,529 Isn't this amazing? 939 00:48:04,655 --> 00:48:06,114 This is their house. 940 00:48:08,033 --> 00:48:09,786 This is just like not the side of Italy 941 00:48:09,786 --> 00:48:11,621 that I thought I was going to be in. 942 00:48:15,541 --> 00:48:18,754 I'm not gonna lie, Vittorio, like you not telling me 943 00:48:18,754 --> 00:48:22,967 that you live in the countryside of Florence 944 00:48:22,967 --> 00:48:27,514 makes me a little bit concerned because I sometimes wonder now, 945 00:48:27,514 --> 00:48:30,643 like, what else could you be hiding from me? 946 00:48:30,643 --> 00:48:33,104 {\an8}Or what else are you not telling me? 947 00:48:33,104 --> 00:48:36,566 Because, you know, if people lie about, you know, 948 00:48:36,692 --> 00:48:38,860 little things, they lie about big things, so. 949 00:48:38,860 --> 00:48:42,490 I omitted some part of the truth, but it's not I lie. 950 00:48:42,490 --> 00:48:45,703 I lie is if I tell you I live in the city center. 951 00:48:45,703 --> 00:48:46,870 No, I didn't lie. 952 00:48:48,330 --> 00:48:49,915 No, and I had a feeling, honestly, 953 00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:52,168 that if I tell you all of this, you get scared, you don't come. 954 00:48:53,628 --> 00:48:56,423 I know many that will pay a lot of money to be here. 955 00:48:56,548 --> 00:48:59,635 You are being not very grateful for what I show to you. 956 00:48:59,635 --> 00:49:01,721 No, it's not about not being grateful, it's just... 957 00:49:03,305 --> 00:49:05,100 You didn't tell me any of this. 958 00:49:07,310 --> 00:49:12,233 I'm getting a little bit upset because not only did Vittorio 959 00:49:12,358 --> 00:49:15,027 lie to me about where he's living, 960 00:49:15,027 --> 00:49:18,490 he honestly kind of tricked me to coming here. 961 00:49:18,490 --> 00:49:20,868 And somehow he's spinning this all on me 962 00:49:20,868 --> 00:49:22,912 and telling me that I need to be grateful. 963 00:49:22,912 --> 00:49:24,622 The surprise is good, 964 00:49:24,748 --> 00:49:26,624 otherwise, I tell you everything. 965 00:49:26,750 --> 00:49:27,835 I just wonder, like, 966 00:49:27,835 --> 00:49:29,587 if you're being completely honest with me. 967 00:49:31,255 --> 00:49:32,757 {\an8}Oh, Dio. Watch out, watch out. 968 00:49:33,759 --> 00:49:35,719 {\an8}[in Italian Giuseppe, ciao. Buona-- calma, calma. 969 00:49:36,762 --> 00:49:38,764 Isn't this beautiful? Giuseppe, come here. 970 00:49:40,099 --> 00:49:42,268 I feel like he's not really listening to me. 971 00:49:42,268 --> 00:49:44,312 I really don't like that because I feel like 972 00:49:44,437 --> 00:49:47,775 that just shows a lot of immaturity and disrespect, 973 00:49:47,775 --> 00:49:50,819 and I've never seen this side of him. 974 00:49:50,944 --> 00:49:53,740 I made such a huge life-altering decision 975 00:49:53,740 --> 00:49:56,326 by moving here for him. 976 00:49:56,451 --> 00:49:59,455 My mind is racing, and now I'm second-guessing 977 00:49:59,455 --> 00:50:02,458 if I made the right decision. 978 00:50:02,583 --> 00:50:06,171 And what if this starts to become too much for me? 979 00:50:06,296 --> 00:50:09,090 Ma no, I don't think that's gonna be the case. 980 00:50:09,090 --> 00:50:10,802 I trust that it's gonna work out. 981 00:50:15,348 --> 00:50:17,142 {\an8}So when did she move out? 982 00:50:17,142 --> 00:50:18,811 {\an8}A couple of days before you got here. 983 00:50:19,812 --> 00:50:23,900 I'm not really concerned about Andi's other lovers. 984 00:50:23,900 --> 00:50:25,985 So if Andi has any problem here, 985 00:50:25,985 --> 00:50:28,030 I think it's really just her insecurity. 986 00:50:29,532 --> 00:50:32,201 So did you ever use the hall pass? 987 00:50:32,326 --> 00:50:33,703 It's my business if I use it or not. 988 00:50:33,829 --> 00:50:34,830 So did you? 989 00:50:44,507 --> 00:50:48,053 ♪ Oh, look at me, look at me, look at that energy ♪ 990 00:50:48,053 --> 00:50:52,892 ♪ You look 'cause I'm the lead, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh ♪ 991 00:50:55,603 --> 00:50:59,525 {\an8}♪ Oh, look at me, look at me, can't you see ♪ 992 00:50:59,525 --> 00:51:02,862 {\an8}♪ I'm everything you want to be ♪ 993 00:51:03,864 --> 00:51:07,284 ♪ I work so hard for all the world to see ♪ 994 00:51:07,409 --> 00:51:09,996 ♪ Look at me, look at me ♪ 995 00:51:09,996 --> 00:51:16,545 ♪ Oh, she's from another galaxy, another galaxy ♪ 996 00:51:18,797 --> 00:51:20,632 It was great to have Andi back in the house. 997 00:51:21,968 --> 00:51:24,345 It was awesome waking up next to her. 998 00:51:24,345 --> 00:51:26,723 First time in six months, so... 999 00:51:26,723 --> 00:51:29,768 So it was really nice to just slowly reconnect to each other 1000 00:51:29,894 --> 00:51:31,562 and take our time with things. 1001 00:51:33,523 --> 00:51:35,275 I think I'm gonna run out of hangers. 1002 00:51:35,275 --> 00:51:36,860 She's special, she's the one. 1003 00:51:36,860 --> 00:51:40,114 I kept noticing just how tall she is. 1004 00:51:40,114 --> 00:51:41,782 'Cause when I spoon someone, 1005 00:51:41,782 --> 00:51:44,243 I typically have to kind of crouch, you know? 1006 00:51:44,243 --> 00:51:46,788 But with Andi, I can just like... yeah. 1007 00:51:46,788 --> 00:51:49,625 We're about the same height, so it really works well. 1008 00:51:52,295 --> 00:51:54,130 It was a beautiful night. 1009 00:51:54,255 --> 00:51:58,969 We had a really romantic reconnection, you know? 1010 00:51:59,094 --> 00:52:01,013 Just getting to see each other and talk to each other 1011 00:52:01,138 --> 00:52:04,059 in person for the first time in six months. 1012 00:52:04,059 --> 00:52:05,936 It wasn't sexual at all. 1013 00:52:05,936 --> 00:52:08,146 It was just like talking. 1014 00:52:08,271 --> 00:52:10,191 And then the jet lag kicked in. 1015 00:52:11,150 --> 00:52:12,568 And at some point I was like, 1016 00:52:12,568 --> 00:52:15,237 "I don't know if this is gonna go anywhere else tonight, babe." 1017 00:52:16,949 --> 00:52:19,242 So we cuddled. We cuddled and went to sleep. 1018 00:52:22,497 --> 00:52:24,165 Well, morning was a different story. 1019 00:52:25,708 --> 00:52:28,170 It definitely helps that Nigel sleeps naked. 1020 00:52:37,180 --> 00:52:38,098 Woo! 1021 00:52:39,099 --> 00:52:41,185 - Baby! - That was hard. 1022 00:52:45,147 --> 00:52:46,984 - Can you make me one? - Of course, here you go. 1023 00:52:46,984 --> 00:52:49,695 Yay, thank you. Extra strong? 1024 00:52:49,820 --> 00:52:52,490 - Mm-hmm, you know it. - A flat white? 1025 00:52:52,490 --> 00:52:53,741 - Flat white, mate. - Mm-hmm. 1026 00:52:53,866 --> 00:52:55,201 That's the only way I know how to make it. 1027 00:52:55,326 --> 00:52:56,327 Mm-hmm. 1028 00:52:59,540 --> 00:53:00,499 Are you gonna... 1029 00:53:01,542 --> 00:53:03,628 put some clothes on? 1030 00:53:03,628 --> 00:53:05,922 You're just gonna run around naked all day? 1031 00:53:06,047 --> 00:53:07,882 I mean, do we have to leave the house? 1032 00:53:08,008 --> 00:53:09,593 We do not have to leave the house. 1033 00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:12,805 But I would love to give you a little trim up. 1034 00:53:12,805 --> 00:53:14,056 Up? 1035 00:53:14,181 --> 00:53:15,642 - Yes, yeah. - Why? 1036 00:53:15,642 --> 00:53:17,853 Because it's a little scraggly. 1037 00:53:17,853 --> 00:53:20,147 So, we got split ends, we gotta cut those off. 1038 00:53:20,147 --> 00:53:22,650 - Just the tip. - Just the tip, babe. 1039 00:53:23,735 --> 00:53:25,069 - Alright. - Alright, let's do it. 1040 00:53:25,194 --> 00:53:26,571 Let's go. 1041 00:53:31,076 --> 00:53:33,162 Oh goodness, we're a little ratty. 1042 00:53:34,247 --> 00:53:36,082 Hold on. 1043 00:53:36,082 --> 00:53:37,959 When was the last time you brushed this, babe? 1044 00:53:38,084 --> 00:53:40,546 I don't know. I brush it most mornings. 1045 00:53:40,546 --> 00:53:41,922 - You do? - Yeah. 1046 00:53:42,048 --> 00:53:43,966 OK, well, we might have to take off a little more 1047 00:53:44,091 --> 00:53:45,092 than an inch. 1048 00:53:45,092 --> 00:53:47,804 But the great thing is, when you trim the bottoms, 1049 00:53:47,929 --> 00:53:49,431 it actually grows faster. 1050 00:53:49,431 --> 00:53:50,515 - Mm-hmm. - Alright. 1051 00:53:52,310 --> 00:53:54,854 So when did you start propagating all these plants? 1052 00:53:54,854 --> 00:53:56,773 I don't really know. 1053 00:53:56,898 --> 00:53:59,234 Really, a housemate I had living here 1054 00:53:59,234 --> 00:54:00,944 did most of this planting. 1055 00:54:00,944 --> 00:54:03,531 So I told her that I wanted passion fruit 1056 00:54:03,531 --> 00:54:05,533 and there's some basil. 1057 00:54:06,701 --> 00:54:09,497 And I don't know what these are. 1058 00:54:09,622 --> 00:54:11,290 Looks like lemongrass or something. 1059 00:54:13,709 --> 00:54:15,294 So how did that go, living together? 1060 00:54:16,671 --> 00:54:17,672 It was alright. 1061 00:54:20,967 --> 00:54:24,013 Nigel got this female roommate and doesn't tell me 1062 00:54:24,138 --> 00:54:25,681 until the day she moves in 1063 00:54:25,807 --> 00:54:27,976 that they had slept together in the past. 1064 00:54:27,976 --> 00:54:30,479 And I was like, "Well, are you planning on sleeping with her 1065 00:54:30,479 --> 00:54:33,065 now that she lives with you?" and he's like, "Well, yeah," 1066 00:54:33,065 --> 00:54:35,819 and I tell him that I'm not OK with that. 1067 00:54:35,944 --> 00:54:37,320 That's a little too close for comfort, 1068 00:54:37,445 --> 00:54:39,990 living with somebody that feels like girlfriend-y. 1069 00:54:39,990 --> 00:54:43,244 And he said, "Well, can I have a hall pass 1070 00:54:43,244 --> 00:54:45,997 maybe, like once a month?" 1071 00:54:46,123 --> 00:54:49,292 And after a couple of conversations about it, 1072 00:54:49,292 --> 00:54:52,547 I finally was like, "OK, sure, have a hall pass." 1073 00:54:52,672 --> 00:54:55,508 Like it was clear that he wanted to sleep with this person, 1074 00:54:56,926 --> 00:54:58,846 regardless of how it made me feel. 1075 00:55:02,975 --> 00:55:04,602 So when did she move out? 1076 00:55:06,354 --> 00:55:08,106 A couple of days before you got here. 1077 00:55:08,106 --> 00:55:09,525 A couple of days? 1078 00:55:09,525 --> 00:55:11,861 Look, man, I didn't want the awkwardness of her 1079 00:55:11,986 --> 00:55:13,487 still being here when you showed up. 1080 00:55:15,532 --> 00:55:17,576 - Why would it be awkward? - I don't know. 1081 00:55:18,618 --> 00:55:20,287 Because you move into Australia 1082 00:55:20,287 --> 00:55:21,873 and there's like this random person 1083 00:55:21,998 --> 00:55:23,791 you haven't met living in my house. 1084 00:55:23,791 --> 00:55:25,793 You guys have a little bit of a history, right? 1085 00:55:25,793 --> 00:55:27,546 Oh yeah, we'd hooked up before. 1086 00:55:27,546 --> 00:55:28,630 - Yeah? - Yeah. 1087 00:55:32,509 --> 00:55:35,346 Did it ever happen while she was living here? 1088 00:55:35,346 --> 00:55:36,764 So what if it did? 1089 00:55:36,890 --> 00:55:38,683 You gave me a hall pass, that's a hall pass, right? 1090 00:55:40,519 --> 00:55:41,520 Yes. 1091 00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:42,897 My business if I use it or not. 1092 00:55:45,358 --> 00:55:46,443 Did you ever use the hall pass? 1093 00:55:48,403 --> 00:55:50,197 Why does this matter to you all of a sudden? 1094 00:55:51,114 --> 00:55:52,200 Well, because I... 1095 00:55:52,200 --> 00:55:54,410 it actually does because I feel like you knew 1096 00:55:54,410 --> 00:55:55,745 that I was uncomfortable with it. 1097 00:55:55,870 --> 00:55:56,954 But I thought you wanted 1098 00:55:57,079 --> 00:55:58,415 a don't-ask-don't-tell situation. 1099 00:55:58,540 --> 00:56:00,209 - Well, I-- - And now you're asking. 1100 00:56:00,209 --> 00:56:02,502 Well, when you ask, then you get to tell. 1101 00:56:02,502 --> 00:56:04,088 Yeah, OK, well. 1102 00:56:04,214 --> 00:56:05,548 So it sounds like you did then. 1103 00:56:05,548 --> 00:56:07,592 So you want to know if I... yeah, you reckon I did? 1104 00:56:07,592 --> 00:56:08,968 Sounds like it, yeah. 1105 00:56:11,889 --> 00:56:13,849 It's kind of annoying that Andi's questioning me 1106 00:56:13,849 --> 00:56:15,477 so hard this morning. 1107 00:56:15,602 --> 00:56:17,270 I'm not really concerned about 1108 00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:19,606 Andi's other lovers. 1109 00:56:19,731 --> 00:56:21,734 So if Andi has any problem here, 1110 00:56:21,734 --> 00:56:23,778 I think it's really just her insecurity. 1111 00:56:25,363 --> 00:56:27,114 The truth is... 1112 00:56:27,114 --> 00:56:29,201 - Are you ready for this? - I'm not sure. 1113 00:56:31,787 --> 00:56:33,790 I never had sex with her. Not once. 1114 00:56:36,251 --> 00:56:37,460 I decided it wasn't right. 1115 00:56:39,296 --> 00:56:41,465 I could tell, even though you gave me the hall pass, 1116 00:56:41,590 --> 00:56:44,510 I could tell you weren't super comfortable with the idea. 1117 00:56:44,635 --> 00:56:45,804 - Yeah. - So... 1118 00:56:45,804 --> 00:56:46,888 I just decided not to do it. 1119 00:56:49,140 --> 00:56:50,058 It's that simple, babe. 1120 00:56:50,058 --> 00:56:51,769 It's because I love you too much. 1121 00:56:51,769 --> 00:56:53,062 - Aww. - Yeah. 1122 00:56:54,272 --> 00:56:56,107 Well, thank you. I appreciate that, 1123 00:56:56,107 --> 00:56:57,149 and I appreciate you telling me. 1124 00:56:57,276 --> 00:56:58,402 Of course, babe. 1125 00:56:59,361 --> 00:57:00,362 I guess I will really never know 1126 00:57:00,487 --> 00:57:01,822 if you were telling me the truth, but... 1127 00:57:01,947 --> 00:57:03,156 No. 1128 00:57:03,156 --> 00:57:04,826 I mean, you could ask her if you want. 1129 00:57:07,620 --> 00:57:11,166 I do believe Nigel did not sleep with his roommate, 1130 00:57:11,166 --> 00:57:13,335 and I actually really respected that, 1131 00:57:13,335 --> 00:57:15,839 because that means that he actually really does care 1132 00:57:15,964 --> 00:57:17,841 about how I'm feeling in the situation. 1133 00:57:21,052 --> 00:57:23,014 {\an8}No, they are expired. 1134 00:57:23,014 --> 00:57:24,515 OK. 1135 00:57:24,515 --> 00:57:26,809 I think that maybe while I was in the US, 1136 00:57:26,809 --> 00:57:29,646 I was a little more paranoid than I needed to be. 1137 00:57:31,023 --> 00:57:32,190 I really hope so. 1138 00:57:38,448 --> 00:57:40,326 Oh, gosh. 1139 00:57:40,326 --> 00:57:43,078 It's impossible to live in a country 1140 00:57:43,203 --> 00:57:47,417 and be successful if you don't speak the language. 1141 00:57:47,542 --> 00:57:49,544 If she never tried, we will never make it. 1142 00:57:51,380 --> 00:57:52,590 {\an8}Oh. 1143 00:58:31,134 --> 00:58:32,010 Welcome home. 1144 00:58:34,263 --> 00:58:36,099 Ah, it's good to be back. 1145 00:58:36,099 --> 00:58:37,683 Yeah, I can imagine. 1146 00:58:39,102 --> 00:58:40,312 It's nice and warm in here. 1147 00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:42,856 Oh, my gosh, you made a sign! 1148 00:58:42,981 --> 00:58:44,024 Yeah. 1149 00:58:44,149 --> 00:58:45,443 - Oh, it's so-- - Welcome home! 1150 00:58:45,443 --> 00:58:47,862 It's so cute! 1151 00:58:47,987 --> 00:58:49,739 Oh, hon. 1152 00:58:49,739 --> 00:58:51,659 - That's so sweet. - Yeah. 1153 00:58:51,784 --> 00:58:53,077 What's all... 1154 00:58:53,077 --> 00:58:56,497 Yeah, this is like a lot of American stuff for you, 1155 00:58:57,499 --> 00:58:59,709 so you don't feel like too far from home. 1156 00:58:59,835 --> 00:59:01,628 Oh, that's so thoughtful. 1157 00:59:01,628 --> 00:59:03,548 You've got all my favorites. 1158 00:59:03,673 --> 00:59:04,757 Yeah. 1159 00:59:04,757 --> 00:59:06,217 Wow, I didn't even know they had some of 1160 00:59:06,342 --> 00:59:08,511 this stuff here. - Yeah. 1161 00:59:08,511 --> 00:59:10,514 But like, I found it. 1162 00:59:11,849 --> 00:59:14,226 - Oh. - I hope it makes you happy. 1163 00:59:14,351 --> 00:59:15,353 Yeah. 1164 00:59:16,521 --> 00:59:18,857 I'm so happy to be back in France. 1165 00:59:18,982 --> 00:59:22,236 Like, I'm happy we're giving it another shot. 1166 00:59:22,361 --> 00:59:26,657 I really see myself with Ben and like my future with Ben. 1167 00:59:26,657 --> 00:59:28,118 It just feels good to be back. 1168 00:59:29,619 --> 00:59:31,746 But babe, for real, I don't know where we would put 1169 00:59:31,872 --> 00:59:34,834 all your stuff, like, we don't have room. 1170 00:59:34,834 --> 00:59:36,627 I can use some of your closet, right? 1171 00:59:38,004 --> 00:59:39,256 I don't know, like, oh, 1172 00:59:39,381 --> 00:59:41,550 oh you can have like that much suitcase. 1173 00:59:41,675 --> 00:59:43,051 That's not even all of it. 1174 00:59:43,177 --> 00:59:44,303 - Oh. - Like... 1175 00:59:44,303 --> 00:59:48,391 I was being mindful because my mom had another luggage 1176 00:59:48,516 --> 00:59:50,268 ready for me if I needed it. 1177 00:59:50,393 --> 00:59:53,397 And I still have most of my stuff still in the US, 1178 00:59:53,522 --> 00:59:54,982 if you can imagine. 1179 00:59:54,982 --> 00:59:56,901 I can imagine, but I don't want to. 1180 00:59:58,653 --> 01:00:00,155 Oh, Ben, I see your presents. 1181 01:00:00,155 --> 01:00:01,490 Oh. 1182 01:00:01,490 --> 01:00:02,574 Ta da! 1183 01:00:03,784 --> 01:00:05,536 Oh! Some coffee? 1184 01:00:05,536 --> 01:00:07,622 - Yeah. - Oh, nice. 1185 01:00:07,747 --> 01:00:09,541 Thank you so much. 1186 01:00:09,541 --> 01:00:11,752 - I knew you would like it. - Yeah, I lo-- 1187 01:00:11,877 --> 01:00:13,962 - Ooh. - And I got your sauce. 1188 01:00:14,087 --> 01:00:16,633 Yep. Homemade enchilada. 1189 01:00:16,758 --> 01:00:17,759 Coming soon. 1190 01:00:20,678 --> 01:00:24,225 So I guess there's like a stereotype that Europeans 1191 01:00:24,225 --> 01:00:27,437 like hate American coffee, like it's garbage. 1192 01:00:27,437 --> 01:00:29,272 Ben, like, loves it. 1193 01:00:29,397 --> 01:00:31,816 He loves like thoroughly sweet drinks and like 1194 01:00:31,942 --> 01:00:33,903 all the crazy flavors. 1195 01:00:35,029 --> 01:00:37,782 When we first started dating and he visited me in the US 1196 01:00:37,907 --> 01:00:39,117 for the first time, 1197 01:00:39,243 --> 01:00:40,619 he tried like an iced coffee 1198 01:00:40,744 --> 01:00:43,705 and never had iced coffee, and it like changed his life. 1199 01:00:48,962 --> 01:00:51,298 - The bar's now open. - I'm back in town. 1200 01:00:51,298 --> 01:00:52,758 Sure. 1201 01:00:57,597 --> 01:01:00,141 - That's good. - You're happy to be here? 1202 01:01:00,267 --> 01:01:01,893 Yeah, I'm happy to be here. 1203 01:01:01,893 --> 01:01:04,313 I feel like we do have a lot of memories 1204 01:01:04,438 --> 01:01:06,190 in this apartment together. 1205 01:01:06,315 --> 01:01:09,027 Yeah, but like good and bad, 1206 01:01:09,152 --> 01:01:11,238 because the first time, you know? 1207 01:01:12,573 --> 01:01:13,991 Yeah, true. 1208 01:01:13,991 --> 01:01:15,952 The first time around was difficult. 1209 01:01:15,952 --> 01:01:18,454 I felt... super lonely, 1210 01:01:18,454 --> 01:01:21,166 and I feel like that's why it was so difficult 1211 01:01:21,166 --> 01:01:23,002 for me to integrate into the culture, 1212 01:01:23,127 --> 01:01:26,839 because I just wasn't putting in the effort to do so. 1213 01:01:26,839 --> 01:01:30,635 I really don't want to go back to that era this time. 1214 01:01:30,635 --> 01:01:31,845 Yeah, I think 1215 01:01:33,681 --> 01:01:35,933 the key is you to learn French. 1216 01:01:38,144 --> 01:01:40,355 We've been together since three years and like, 1217 01:01:41,648 --> 01:01:46,821 I see that you-- you didn't really trained. 1218 01:01:46,821 --> 01:01:50,867 If you learn French, like it will unlock everything for you. 1219 01:01:50,867 --> 01:01:52,745 - You know? - Yeah, definitely. 1220 01:01:52,870 --> 01:01:56,206 Like, I think I just take for granted that you speak English, 1221 01:01:56,206 --> 01:01:58,084 if I'm just being honest. 1222 01:02:00,045 --> 01:02:04,008 But so maybe we can like start practicing. 1223 01:02:04,008 --> 01:02:07,637 I see like those notebooks, maybe you can grab one. 1224 01:02:07,637 --> 01:02:10,015 - Are you serious? - Yeah, I am. 1225 01:02:10,015 --> 01:02:12,309 Oh my God, OK, I'll grab one. 1226 01:02:13,977 --> 01:02:16,397 For Zuri to be successful here, 1227 01:02:16,397 --> 01:02:19,025 she will have to learn the language, 1228 01:02:19,025 --> 01:02:22,446 be able to go out by herself, be independent. 1229 01:02:22,571 --> 01:02:27,577 So I know that I have to be more firm with Zuri because 1230 01:02:27,577 --> 01:02:32,832 it's impossible to live in a country and be successful 1231 01:02:32,832 --> 01:02:34,627 if you don't speak the language. 1232 01:02:34,752 --> 01:02:36,879 Maybe in here. 1233 01:02:36,879 --> 01:02:41,426 I'm worried that the story will repeat, and if she never tries, 1234 01:02:41,426 --> 01:02:44,262 it will be the same as before and we will never make it. 1235 01:02:45,682 --> 01:02:48,726 I will spell you some French things 1236 01:02:48,726 --> 01:02:49,811 and you have to write it. 1237 01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:52,481 Oh, gosh. 1238 01:02:54,274 --> 01:02:56,110 {\an8}- I'm nervous. - On va faire. 1239 01:02:56,235 --> 01:02:58,071 {\an8}Excuse me? 1240 01:02:58,071 --> 01:03:00,031 No-- excusez-moi. 1241 01:03:02,075 --> 01:03:03,619 - That was cute. - We have to start now. 1242 01:03:05,371 --> 01:03:07,623 Oh, I'm gonna need a little bit more. 1243 01:03:08,959 --> 01:03:11,002 I don't think it will help you, though. 1244 01:03:11,128 --> 01:03:13,338 But when I drink here, I feel like I'm fluent. 1245 01:03:16,634 --> 01:03:18,302 When we first got together, 1246 01:03:18,428 --> 01:03:21,682 I did, like, apps on my phone to learn the language. 1247 01:03:21,807 --> 01:03:26,562 And then before I moved, I was taking lessons online. 1248 01:03:26,562 --> 01:03:28,189 I get really embarrassed 1249 01:03:28,314 --> 01:03:31,317 because I wish that I had progressed further than I have. 1250 01:03:32,485 --> 01:03:35,114 But in the time of being long-distance, 1251 01:03:35,114 --> 01:03:37,825 I realized that if I want to have 1252 01:03:38,826 --> 01:03:41,580 a real life here, there's a lot of things I need to do. 1253 01:03:41,580 --> 01:03:46,377 So it's really bittersweet to be back because I'm nervous 1254 01:03:46,502 --> 01:03:49,213 like, about past mistakes resurfacing. 1255 01:03:49,338 --> 01:03:51,842 {\an8}Parle on Français. 1256 01:03:51,967 --> 01:03:53,385 {\an8}- Moi? - Oui. 1257 01:03:53,510 --> 01:03:55,888 {\an8}Oui, je suis Zuri. 1258 01:03:56,013 --> 01:03:58,433 {\an8}Je suis Américaine. 1259 01:03:58,433 --> 01:04:00,351 {\an8}Je suis contant. 1260 01:04:00,477 --> 01:04:02,353 - Contente. - Contente. 1261 01:04:02,353 --> 01:04:03,814 {\an8}- Yeah, OK. - Oui. 1262 01:04:03,814 --> 01:04:06,233 {\an8}Because you're a girl. "Contant" is for boy. 1263 01:04:06,358 --> 01:04:08,319 Oh, see, everything has a gender here. 1264 01:04:08,319 --> 01:04:10,572 - Yeah, but like-- - I don't mean to be too woke, 1265 01:04:10,697 --> 01:04:12,657 but like, let's get rid of the genders. 1266 01:04:14,034 --> 01:04:15,161 Like, what the hell? 1267 01:04:15,161 --> 01:04:17,121 I just thought I was gonna come here, 1268 01:04:17,121 --> 01:04:19,749 sip some champagne, have a good night. 1269 01:04:19,874 --> 01:04:21,668 {\an8}Speaking English. 1270 01:04:23,086 --> 01:04:24,338 You know? 1271 01:04:26,256 --> 01:04:27,258 So give me your phone. 1272 01:04:28,510 --> 01:04:29,511 Oh. 1273 01:04:34,058 --> 01:04:35,810 You're gonna change my phone to French? 1274 01:04:37,394 --> 01:04:40,023 - Oh, get the hell out! - You have to. 1275 01:04:40,982 --> 01:04:42,943 Nah, please! 1276 01:04:43,068 --> 01:04:44,987 Your new life is starting now. 1277 01:04:47,573 --> 01:04:49,200 This is gonna say "bonjour" instead of 1278 01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:51,036 hello when I plug it. 1279 01:04:51,036 --> 01:04:54,498 This is nightmare, even my social media will be in French. 1280 01:04:54,498 --> 01:04:56,918 You know, my phone is in English 1281 01:04:57,043 --> 01:05:00,672 because it helped me to read like English every day 1282 01:05:00,672 --> 01:05:02,883 to progress and walk. 1283 01:05:02,883 --> 01:05:06,387 Whatever, I'm down to do it. I do need to learn. 1284 01:05:06,387 --> 01:05:08,556 I've been a bad, bad student. 1285 01:05:08,556 --> 01:05:10,642 - You win. - In French, in French, please. 1286 01:05:10,767 --> 01:05:12,269 I don't know how to say that in French. 1287 01:05:15,147 --> 01:05:18,109 It's really difficult for me to learn the language, 1288 01:05:18,109 --> 01:05:20,528 but I know I need to take this serious 1289 01:05:20,528 --> 01:05:23,657 and like show him that I want to build a life here. 1290 01:05:23,782 --> 01:05:25,534 {\an8}So, on y va. 1291 01:05:26,618 --> 01:05:27,620 Amour? 1292 01:05:27,620 --> 01:05:29,122 I got a sign for everything. 1293 01:05:43,722 --> 01:05:46,809 This is not the romantic reunion I was envisioning 1294 01:05:46,934 --> 01:05:48,728 for the last two years. 1295 01:05:56,486 --> 01:05:57,947 So who's all coming to the party? 1296 01:05:57,947 --> 01:05:59,490 Just a bunch of friends. 1297 01:05:59,490 --> 01:06:01,075 Is the girl that you were... 1298 01:06:01,075 --> 01:06:03,329 trying to go camping with gonna be there? 1299 01:06:03,329 --> 01:06:06,832 I feel like we're approaching this non-monogamy 1300 01:06:06,832 --> 01:06:08,167 very differently. 1301 01:06:09,002 --> 01:06:11,171 I am in Nigel's car right now 1302 01:06:11,171 --> 01:06:13,423 in front of Camping Girl's house. 1303 01:06:13,423 --> 01:06:15,968 There's something about this that does not feel good. 1304 01:06:29,567 --> 01:06:30,735 ♪ Here we go ♪ 1305 01:06:30,735 --> 01:06:32,195 Jesus, Nigel. 1306 01:06:32,195 --> 01:06:33,948 - What? - Can you just 1307 01:06:34,782 --> 01:06:37,576 chill out and slow down a little bit, please? 1308 01:06:37,576 --> 01:06:38,995 {\an8}- Don't worry about it. - No, I know. 1309 01:06:38,995 --> 01:06:40,455 It's stressing me out. 1310 01:06:40,580 --> 01:06:41,581 It's because you used to being 1311 01:06:41,581 --> 01:06:42,874 on the wrong side of the road, eh? 1312 01:06:42,874 --> 01:06:44,292 Oh, my God. 1313 01:06:44,417 --> 01:06:48,255 {\an8}♪ We never back, back, back, back down ♪ 1314 01:06:48,381 --> 01:06:51,843 ♪ No turning back, back, back, back, no ♪ 1315 01:06:51,843 --> 01:06:53,637 Hey, we've got heaps to do today. 1316 01:06:53,762 --> 01:06:55,430 We've got to go to the grocery store, we've got to go 1317 01:06:55,555 --> 01:06:57,934 to printers, print some stuff out. 1318 01:06:57,934 --> 01:06:58,977 Mm-hmm. 1319 01:06:59,102 --> 01:07:00,311 Then I've just got to drop off some eggs 1320 01:07:00,436 --> 01:07:01,646 at a friend's house. 1321 01:07:01,771 --> 01:07:03,983 Dropping off the eggs, put it on the list. 1322 01:07:07,569 --> 01:07:10,615 Princess parking, right in front, hell yeah. 1323 01:07:12,867 --> 01:07:15,371 Throwing a welcome party for her tomorrow in my backyard 1324 01:07:15,371 --> 01:07:17,623 so that she really feels appreciated 1325 01:07:17,748 --> 01:07:19,291 and that she can see that I care about her 1326 01:07:19,291 --> 01:07:21,461 and that she can start to meet some of 1327 01:07:21,461 --> 01:07:22,629 my awesome friends and like 1328 01:07:22,754 --> 01:07:24,631 what better way to do that than throw on a party. 1329 01:07:25,924 --> 01:07:28,428 - Alright, let's go. - Oh, my God. 1330 01:07:28,428 --> 01:07:30,221 Just going in the shops, it's fine. 1331 01:07:30,221 --> 01:07:31,639 Seriously, just try it. 1332 01:07:31,639 --> 01:07:33,350 I don't want to get somebody else's foot fungus. 1333 01:07:33,475 --> 01:07:34,727 There's no fungus, it's not like that, 1334 01:07:34,727 --> 01:07:36,395 it's not a public toilet, come on, babe. 1335 01:07:38,982 --> 01:07:40,692 So I have seen this before 1336 01:07:40,817 --> 01:07:42,986 when I was here for a vacation, 1337 01:07:42,986 --> 01:07:45,656 and I saw like two or three people barefoot 1338 01:07:45,781 --> 01:07:46,866 in the grocery store. 1339 01:07:46,991 --> 01:07:50,286 So this is a normal thing, I guess, or sort of normal. 1340 01:07:50,286 --> 01:07:51,788 - Is that good? - OK, alright. 1341 01:07:51,788 --> 01:07:53,790 Let the dogs breathe, baby. 1342 01:07:53,790 --> 01:07:56,001 I need a pedicure. 1343 01:07:56,126 --> 01:07:58,504 In America-- no shirt, no shoes, no service. 1344 01:07:59,505 --> 01:08:03,343 But I am always down for a new experience, so I'm like, 1345 01:08:03,343 --> 01:08:05,721 "OK, fine, I will try it." 1346 01:08:07,473 --> 01:08:09,976 Oh, my God. It's so weird. 1347 01:08:09,976 --> 01:08:12,353 It's actually the floor actually feels kind of nice. 1348 01:08:12,353 --> 01:08:14,857 - She's just looked at our feet. - What? 1349 01:08:14,857 --> 01:08:16,525 - This is not normal. - It is definitely. 1350 01:08:16,650 --> 01:08:17,693 There's mayonnaise on the floor. 1351 01:08:17,693 --> 01:08:19,028 Relax. Don't step on that. 1352 01:08:19,153 --> 01:08:20,781 OK. 1353 01:08:20,781 --> 01:08:23,033 Aussies particularly go barefoot wherever we can 1354 01:08:23,158 --> 01:08:24,785 because it's healthy. 1355 01:08:24,785 --> 01:08:28,372 You know, we're supposed to be electrically earthed 1356 01:08:28,498 --> 01:08:30,958 to the planet, and we're not really supposed to wear shoes. 1357 01:08:30,958 --> 01:08:33,295 A lot of shoes are not good for your feet. 1358 01:08:33,295 --> 01:08:35,714 So, it's pretty normal to go to a shopping centre barefoot 1359 01:08:35,839 --> 01:08:38,258 in Australia, it's not so frowned upon. 1360 01:08:38,383 --> 01:08:39,552 I cannot help but notice 1361 01:08:39,552 --> 01:08:41,471 how everybody else is wearing shoes. 1362 01:08:41,471 --> 01:08:43,348 What about that guy? 1363 01:08:43,348 --> 01:08:44,892 Oh, God. 1364 01:08:46,477 --> 01:08:48,020 - Alright, OK. - Yeah, see? 1365 01:08:49,605 --> 01:08:52,359 There's a million reasons why one should not be walking 1366 01:08:52,359 --> 01:08:53,568 through a grocery store barefoot. 1367 01:08:53,693 --> 01:08:56,488 What if somebody spilled the milk or broke a glass? 1368 01:08:56,488 --> 01:08:59,158 Who knows what kind of fungus is running around this town? 1369 01:08:59,158 --> 01:09:02,120 So, yeah, not my favorite experience. 1370 01:09:04,665 --> 01:09:06,041 So, who's all coming to the party? 1371 01:09:07,417 --> 01:09:08,878 Oh, you know, just a bunch of friends. 1372 01:09:10,296 --> 01:09:11,923 Anybody that I should know about? 1373 01:09:11,923 --> 01:09:13,925 What do you mean? 1374 01:09:13,925 --> 01:09:16,595 I don't know. Like, any of your lovers? 1375 01:09:18,889 --> 01:09:20,934 - I don't know. I sent the invite out. - Serious? 1376 01:09:20,934 --> 01:09:23,937 - Whoever shows up, shows up. - Yeah, OK. 1377 01:09:24,062 --> 01:09:25,438 Won't be weird? 1378 01:09:27,191 --> 01:09:28,609 I don't know, are you gonna be weird about it? 1379 01:09:28,609 --> 01:09:29,694 I don't think so. 1380 01:09:30,945 --> 01:09:32,405 - They won't be weird. - OK. 1381 01:09:32,405 --> 01:09:33,699 Well, then, yeah, if they won't be weird, 1382 01:09:33,699 --> 01:09:36,118 then I won't be weird, nobody's gonna be weird, it'll be fine. 1383 01:09:38,078 --> 01:09:40,373 Is the girl that you were trying to go camping with 1384 01:09:40,373 --> 01:09:43,042 - gonna be there? - Maybe. 1385 01:09:43,042 --> 01:09:44,460 OK. 1386 01:09:45,629 --> 01:09:47,131 - I'm just curious. - She might be though, yeah. 1387 01:09:47,256 --> 01:09:48,340 - Yeah. - I invited her. 1388 01:09:48,465 --> 01:09:49,550 {\an8}She lives close by. 1389 01:09:49,550 --> 01:09:51,136 - Yeah, she's cool. - OK. 1390 01:09:51,136 --> 01:09:52,429 OK. 1391 01:09:53,847 --> 01:09:55,724 Before I came to Australia, 1392 01:09:55,724 --> 01:09:59,437 Nigel texted me about one of his lovers. 1393 01:09:59,437 --> 01:10:01,981 He planned to camp with this girl 1394 01:10:02,106 --> 01:10:03,442 during a festival. 1395 01:10:05,068 --> 01:10:07,779 Right before I was moving to Australia, 1396 01:10:07,779 --> 01:10:11,201 and it feels like they're maybe getting a little close, 1397 01:10:11,326 --> 01:10:14,997 and it's giving me a little bit of 1398 01:10:14,997 --> 01:10:17,541 anxiety, maybe a little bit of some jealousy vibes, 1399 01:10:17,666 --> 01:10:21,004 because I don't understand the entire relationship, 1400 01:10:21,129 --> 01:10:23,381 and it feels like there's a little bit of secrecy around it. 1401 01:10:23,506 --> 01:10:26,509 So it's something that I really need to get cleared up. 1402 01:10:26,636 --> 01:10:28,346 Would you like a box for these? 1403 01:10:28,346 --> 01:10:30,723 - Yeah, go ahead, yes. - A box, yes. 1404 01:10:30,848 --> 01:10:32,058 I don't know if you noticed, 1405 01:10:32,183 --> 01:10:34,061 we are walking around your store barefoot. 1406 01:10:34,186 --> 01:10:35,854 - Is this normal? - Yeah, it's fine. 1407 01:10:35,979 --> 01:10:37,648 - It's whatever. - What? 1408 01:10:37,648 --> 01:10:39,484 It's weird if you ask about it. 1409 01:10:40,693 --> 01:10:41,778 Like... 1410 01:10:41,778 --> 01:10:43,112 OK. 1411 01:10:43,112 --> 01:10:46,575 I feel like we're approaching this non-monogamy 1412 01:10:46,700 --> 01:10:47,868 very differently, 1413 01:10:47,868 --> 01:10:49,620 where he's kind of setting himself up to like 1414 01:10:49,620 --> 01:10:51,998 build these little mini relationships. 1415 01:10:51,998 --> 01:10:56,044 And for me, it's the, you know, if something arises, 1416 01:10:56,169 --> 01:10:58,256 then I'm gonna go with the flow. 1417 01:10:58,381 --> 01:11:00,091 - See ya. - See ya, mate, thank you. 1418 01:11:01,968 --> 01:11:04,554 Nigel is throwing me a welcome party, 1419 01:11:04,554 --> 01:11:07,266 and I am gonna be face-to-face 1420 01:11:07,391 --> 01:11:09,811 with some of his lovers. 1421 01:11:09,811 --> 01:11:13,106 And I don't know how that's gonna go for me. 1422 01:11:24,411 --> 01:11:28,624 I am in Nigel's car right now in front of Camping Girl's house. 1423 01:11:28,749 --> 01:11:31,711 We were running some errands, and he said he had some eggs 1424 01:11:31,711 --> 01:11:33,755 to drop off to a friend's house. 1425 01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:38,302 And as he pulls up, he says, "Do you want to come meet?" 1426 01:11:38,427 --> 01:11:40,847 Lists off the names, and her name is one of them. 1427 01:11:40,847 --> 01:11:41,931 And I'm like... 1428 01:11:43,099 --> 01:11:44,100 What? 1429 01:11:45,561 --> 01:11:47,938 And he's like, "Oh yeah, didn't you realize 1430 01:11:47,938 --> 01:11:49,440 that's who I was dropping off the eggs to?" 1431 01:11:49,565 --> 01:11:51,318 I'm like, "No, 1432 01:11:51,443 --> 01:11:54,904 "at no point did you say her name, all of today, 1433 01:11:56,239 --> 01:11:58,034 at no point did you say her name." 1434 01:11:58,034 --> 01:11:59,785 He's like, "Oh, 1435 01:11:59,785 --> 01:12:01,495 I'm sorry, well, do you want to go in and meet her?" 1436 01:12:01,620 --> 01:12:02,622 And I'm like... 1437 01:12:04,124 --> 01:12:07,461 Like, this conversation hasn't happened yet. 1438 01:12:08,504 --> 01:12:10,381 We need to talk about this. 1439 01:12:10,381 --> 01:12:11,966 Why was her name never mentioned? 1440 01:12:13,885 --> 01:12:16,638 It feels like he's keeping it like a secret, and then 1441 01:12:16,764 --> 01:12:19,475 he just pulls up and expects me to be cool about it. 1442 01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:21,895 There's something about this that does not feel good. 1443 01:12:23,438 --> 01:12:24,647 And I'm gonna find out what it is. 1444 01:12:25,982 --> 01:12:28,194 I don't even have any words right now. 1445 01:12:43,920 --> 01:12:45,756 Are you serious? Are you being real? 1446 01:12:52,555 --> 01:12:54,015 So you'll be happy for your wife to be homeless, 1447 01:12:54,015 --> 01:12:55,475 sleeping outside? 1448 01:12:56,977 --> 01:12:58,521 {\an8}No, I wouldn't be happy about that. 1449 01:13:15,082 --> 01:13:16,166 {\an8}Yes. 1450 01:13:18,127 --> 01:13:19,128 No, I wasn't. 1451 01:13:21,464 --> 01:13:24,175 My instruction to you was to calm down and wait. 1452 01:13:24,175 --> 01:13:26,052 That was my instruc-- that was what you were supposed to do. 1453 01:13:26,177 --> 01:13:27,221 Calm down and wait? 1454 01:13:27,346 --> 01:13:28,389 What were you expecting me to do? 1455 01:13:28,514 --> 01:13:31,016 Mat, I honestly thought that you were staying 1456 01:13:31,016 --> 01:13:32,394 with your family. 1457 01:13:37,732 --> 01:13:39,694 {\an8}What would have been so wrong about doing that 1458 01:13:39,694 --> 01:13:40,903 {\an8}if I told you-- 1459 01:14:00,134 --> 01:14:01,510 {\an8}No, Mat, you're missing the point. 1460 01:14:04,014 --> 01:14:05,807 {\an8}Actually, I didn't say that. 1461 01:14:14,568 --> 01:14:16,153 {\an8}No, there's not. 1462 01:14:20,408 --> 01:14:23,578 {\an8}The thing is though, you know why I, please-- 1463 01:14:29,877 --> 01:14:32,380 If you had money to move, why did you ask me then? 1464 01:14:36,468 --> 01:14:39,555 {\an8}I told you to just hold it together, for what? 1465 01:14:41,390 --> 01:14:43,559 {\an8}Right-- right now, I don't have it right now. 1466 01:14:43,559 --> 01:14:44,686 That's not me telling you to go 1467 01:14:44,811 --> 01:14:46,396 do something impulsive behind my back. 1468 01:15:02,499 --> 01:15:04,918 Are you not happy that I rented a house? 1469 01:15:04,918 --> 01:15:06,002 Are you not happy? 1470 01:15:07,546 --> 01:15:10,925 Mat, stuff like this, when it comes to major things like, 1471 01:15:10,925 --> 01:15:12,718 you know, where you're living, 1472 01:15:12,843 --> 01:15:14,304 I expect you to tell me the truth. 1473 01:15:14,304 --> 01:15:16,265 OK, thank you for saying that to me. 1474 01:15:16,265 --> 01:15:17,683 I was wrong to call you here. 1475 01:15:31,907 --> 01:15:33,368 This really is not 1476 01:15:33,493 --> 01:15:35,453 the romantic reunion I was envisioning 1477 01:15:35,453 --> 01:15:36,538 for the last two years. 1478 01:15:37,706 --> 01:15:40,459 And I don't think she has a right 1479 01:15:40,459 --> 01:15:41,836 to have the attitude she's having 1480 01:15:41,836 --> 01:15:42,920 with me right now. 1481 01:15:44,213 --> 01:15:47,634 So I have no idea when it will be the right time 1482 01:15:47,634 --> 01:15:50,220 to tell her that I'm moving to Ghana permanently. 1483 01:15:50,220 --> 01:15:52,223 I just know that it is most certainly 1484 01:15:52,223 --> 01:15:53,433 not right this instant. 1485 01:16:06,573 --> 01:16:08,576 {\an8}If she's gonna cry to me every week, 1486 01:16:08,576 --> 01:16:10,828 that will concern me, right? 1487 01:16:10,828 --> 01:16:12,913 She's pregnant with my baby, and your advice is 1488 01:16:13,039 --> 01:16:14,291 for her to find somebody else. 1489 01:16:15,584 --> 01:16:16,918 His defense is to attack me. 1490 01:16:17,044 --> 01:16:20,256 It does worry me a bit if he is the right person for her. 1491 01:16:32,144 --> 01:16:33,605 Jesus Christ. 1492 01:16:37,609 --> 01:16:42,073 {\an8}Yeah, it kind of sucks though. Like, I just feel bad. 1493 01:16:42,073 --> 01:16:44,826 Like, I am a total, like, 1494 01:16:44,951 --> 01:16:48,413 horrible person for even, like, asking him about getting 1495 01:16:48,413 --> 01:16:51,876 a job or, like, a concrete plan. 1496 01:16:52,001 --> 01:16:54,671 But he's the kind of person that, like, will break 1497 01:16:54,671 --> 01:16:56,382 under pressure. 1498 01:16:56,507 --> 01:16:58,509 You feel like you have to walk on eggshells? 1499 01:16:58,509 --> 01:16:59,593 Yeah. 1500 01:17:07,352 --> 01:17:10,731 It just makes me feel like he's not really prioritizing 1501 01:17:10,856 --> 01:17:12,692 our lives out here. 1502 01:17:12,817 --> 01:17:15,070 Like Jollybob is going to be born like in, 1503 01:17:15,195 --> 01:17:16,530 literally like in a couple of months. 1504 01:17:16,655 --> 01:17:17,656 Yeah. 1505 01:17:18,907 --> 01:17:23,204 Prawning with Megan kind of turned out to be a disaster, 1506 01:17:23,329 --> 01:17:28,252 because I feel like John takes things very personally. 1507 01:17:29,503 --> 01:17:31,004 I have got to go to the bathroom. 1508 01:17:31,004 --> 01:17:32,131 OK. 1509 01:17:32,131 --> 01:17:36,094 But Megan saying the things that she says are like 1510 01:17:36,219 --> 01:17:37,804 the things that 1511 01:17:37,804 --> 01:17:41,058 I have been trying to say to John, but, like, 1512 01:17:41,058 --> 01:17:43,394 I feel like he doesn't really listen when I say it. 1513 01:17:45,939 --> 01:17:47,399 - You wanna have a seat? - - Yeah, thank you. 1514 01:17:53,906 --> 01:17:55,825 Oh. That was so intense. 1515 01:17:55,825 --> 01:17:57,035 I just think it's a little bit 1516 01:17:57,035 --> 01:17:58,912 odd that I'm sitting here taking all this heat. 1517 01:18:01,123 --> 01:18:03,626 I do feel a bit of defensiveness coming from you, 1518 01:18:03,752 --> 01:18:06,546 but I will respect your... - Why wouldn't I be? 1519 01:18:06,546 --> 01:18:07,964 Exactly, that's why I say respect this. 1520 01:18:08,089 --> 01:18:11,427 Look at this big plate of bull you laid on me tonight. 1521 01:18:11,427 --> 01:18:12,511 - Yeah. - You know? 1522 01:18:12,511 --> 01:18:14,598 These are coming from her because she feels like 1523 01:18:14,598 --> 01:18:15,766 she can't speak to you about it. - No. 1524 01:18:15,766 --> 01:18:17,017 And as a friend... 1525 01:18:17,017 --> 01:18:18,268 You know, actually, she's talked about 1526 01:18:18,268 --> 01:18:19,436 all this stuff to me. 1527 01:18:19,436 --> 01:18:21,481 Or maybe she's having an emotional moment 1528 01:18:21,606 --> 01:18:23,608 where she's... - I feel like you're using emotion as a cop-out. 1529 01:18:23,733 --> 01:18:25,526 - No, I'm not. - You're putting like, just because she's pregnant, 1530 01:18:25,526 --> 01:18:27,654 her emotions are still valid. 1531 01:18:27,780 --> 01:18:28,822 - Cool. - Yeah. 1532 01:18:28,947 --> 01:18:31,575 But I just don't know what to say about the fact that 1533 01:18:31,575 --> 01:18:35,246 you said earlier that she needs to find somebody else that can 1534 01:18:35,246 --> 01:18:37,207 meet those needs. 1535 01:18:37,207 --> 01:18:38,501 I think that's a cop-out. 1536 01:18:38,626 --> 01:18:41,003 You know, she's pregnant with my baby and your advice is 1537 01:18:41,128 --> 01:18:42,213 for her to find somebody else. 1538 01:18:42,213 --> 01:18:44,132 I did not think I said exactly those words. 1539 01:18:44,132 --> 01:18:45,842 That's what you said when we were prawning. 1540 01:18:45,967 --> 01:18:48,512 I'm dealing with children. You don't have children, right? 1541 01:18:48,637 --> 01:18:49,638 Yeah. 1542 01:18:49,638 --> 01:18:52,099 So maybe get some life experience under your belt 1543 01:18:52,099 --> 01:18:54,393 and then come to me and tell me what you would do 1544 01:18:54,393 --> 01:18:55,686 in a situation like that. 1545 01:18:55,812 --> 01:18:57,898 I have not said that, but if she's going to cry to me 1546 01:18:57,898 --> 01:19:00,400 every week, that will concern me, right? 1547 01:19:00,400 --> 01:19:01,985 - Yeah. - Yeah. 1548 01:19:02,111 --> 01:19:05,031 The other thing is, you know, a lot of the things 1549 01:19:05,156 --> 01:19:07,659 that you know about are very private. 1550 01:19:07,659 --> 01:19:09,161 Yeah. 1551 01:19:09,161 --> 01:19:12,998 And it's very shocking for me to have her friend basically 1552 01:19:12,998 --> 01:19:14,334 telling me all my dirt. 1553 01:19:14,459 --> 01:19:17,462 To me, that's a major betrayal of trust. 1554 01:19:17,462 --> 01:19:19,798 I think it was good on her to share to me 1555 01:19:19,798 --> 01:19:22,510 because I do give her that emotional support. 1556 01:19:22,635 --> 01:19:24,720 Maybe there should have been a communication of like, 1557 01:19:24,846 --> 01:19:27,140 "Hey, let's not tell this to anyone." 1558 01:19:27,140 --> 01:19:28,475 Oh, there was. 1559 01:19:28,475 --> 01:19:29,560 Yeah. 1560 01:19:30,644 --> 01:19:31,645 And is she OK with that? 1561 01:19:31,645 --> 01:19:32,939 I don't know if she's OK or not. 1562 01:19:32,939 --> 01:19:34,566 We'll find out, we'll find out when. 1563 01:19:34,691 --> 01:19:37,318 I think that there is a bit of a gap in communication that I'm seeing here. 1564 01:19:37,318 --> 01:19:40,030 I think maybe you're just trying, it's maybe a little 1565 01:19:40,030 --> 01:19:41,323 too involved, you know what I'm saying? 1566 01:19:41,323 --> 01:19:45,829 OK, that's your opinion and I respect it, but if Ally wants me 1567 01:19:45,829 --> 01:19:47,372 to hear her out, then I'm going to hear her out. 1568 01:19:47,497 --> 01:19:49,958 - I'm going to step in for her if she needs me to. - Oh, that's fine. 1569 01:19:49,958 --> 01:19:51,544 I'm not happy about it whatsoever. 1570 01:19:51,669 --> 01:19:54,547 - OK. - And Ally and I are gonna have to have a conversation based on 1571 01:19:54,547 --> 01:19:56,383 everything that's happened tonight. - OK. 1572 01:19:56,383 --> 01:19:57,885 OK. 1573 01:19:58,010 --> 01:19:58,969 Hey, babe. 1574 01:19:58,969 --> 01:20:01,889 I've had enough of prawning for today. 1575 01:20:02,014 --> 01:20:03,224 OK, let's go. 1576 01:20:05,560 --> 01:20:08,230 After the conversation I had with him, I have a whole new 1577 01:20:08,355 --> 01:20:09,815 impression of him. Bye! 1578 01:20:14,112 --> 01:20:15,196 Yeah, that was pretty. 1579 01:20:16,489 --> 01:20:18,074 I do feel a bit scared because 1580 01:20:19,117 --> 01:20:22,079 it feels a lot like he's a sweet-talker and his defense 1581 01:20:22,204 --> 01:20:23,205 is to attack me. 1582 01:20:24,290 --> 01:20:27,252 It does worry me a bit if he is the right person for her. 1583 01:20:29,087 --> 01:20:31,882 I do feel like Ally is better off alone. 1584 01:20:31,882 --> 01:20:34,510 John is kind of just adding a bit of burden to her life 1585 01:20:34,510 --> 01:20:35,595 right now. 1586 01:20:52,073 --> 01:20:54,367 {\an8}- Leaving our relationship? - - Leaving all this. 1587 01:20:54,367 --> 01:20:55,534 - Our relationship? - Everything. 1588 01:20:58,205 --> 01:21:01,291 , man, I'm sorry. Just give me some space. 1589 01:21:07,882 --> 01:21:10,094 It's not fair to have to sit there and listen 1590 01:21:10,094 --> 01:21:11,470 to this stupid... 1591 01:21:21,023 --> 01:21:23,985 {\an8}Next time on "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way." 1592 01:21:24,110 --> 01:21:25,736 Fixed it. I'm Michelle. 1593 01:21:25,736 --> 01:21:27,823 I have the worst taste in men. 1594 01:21:27,823 --> 01:21:29,282 That's probably why I've stayed single. 1595 01:21:31,368 --> 01:21:34,330 But when I met Felix, I thought he was the best man I've 1596 01:21:34,330 --> 01:21:36,290 ever met. We were so happy. 1597 01:21:36,290 --> 01:21:38,085 We fell in love. 1598 01:21:38,085 --> 01:21:41,422 But his family became very involved in our relationship. 1599 01:21:56,064 --> 01:21:58,859 You stayed with a lover, and there was the camping trip. 1600 01:21:58,984 --> 01:22:01,695 And then last night, you took me to her house 1601 01:22:01,695 --> 01:22:02,739 to meet her. 1602 01:22:02,864 --> 01:22:05,074 And I thought you were on the same page. 1603 01:22:05,199 --> 01:22:08,954 My friend Asriel is my most recent sort of part-time lover. 1604 01:22:08,954 --> 01:22:10,039 We just started hooking up. 1605 01:22:11,081 --> 01:22:15,336 I look over, and I realize that, oh, this is Asriel. 1606 01:22:15,336 --> 01:22:16,796 You been inside yet? 1607 01:22:16,796 --> 01:22:19,716 Then I see Nigel and Asriel walk up the stairs together. 1608 01:22:39,948 --> 01:22:42,117 This is really freaking horrible. 1609 01:22:42,242 --> 01:22:44,662 I just uprooted my whole entire life. 1610 01:22:44,662 --> 01:22:46,581 I feel sick to my stomach. I really do. 1611 01:22:49,417 --> 01:22:51,754 I've never played doubles before. 1612 01:22:51,879 --> 01:22:52,880 Hey, Jessy, go, go, go. 1613 01:22:56,426 --> 01:22:57,803 Just look at the ball and hit. 1614 01:22:57,928 --> 01:22:59,596 Make me look good in front of them. 1615 01:23:00,847 --> 01:23:02,975 He's making fun of me. He's mocking me. 1616 01:23:03,101 --> 01:23:06,020 Every time the net. Every time. 1617 01:23:06,020 --> 01:23:10,484 {\an8}He's honestly embarrassing me in front of all of his friends. 1618 01:23:10,609 --> 01:23:11,944 {\an8}I do not want to go home with you. 1619 01:23:12,069 --> 01:23:13,153 {\an8}Like, just respect that. 1620 01:23:13,278 --> 01:23:15,406 {\an8}You're making a scene in front of everybody. 1621 01:23:17,117 --> 01:23:18,785 {\an8}Damn, you. 1622 01:23:20,955 --> 01:23:23,958 {\an8}I've got children at home, and you act like I'm giving 1623 01:23:23,958 --> 01:23:25,543 {\an8}- up nothing. - You know what? 1624 01:23:25,543 --> 01:23:28,672 {\an8}Maybe I should step aside from your life, because I feel like 1625 01:23:28,797 --> 01:23:31,884 {\an8}I am too much, when I should be your priority. 1626 01:23:32,885 --> 01:23:34,679 {\an8}What the are we doing together? 1627 01:23:34,804 --> 01:23:37,390 {\an8}I don't know.