1 00:00:01,767 --> 00:00:05,200 [Sumit] Previously on "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way." 2 00:00:05,467 --> 00:00:06,367 Oh! 3 00:00:07,133 --> 00:00:08,867 God, she kicked my ass in tennis. 4 00:00:09,734 --> 00:00:12,000 I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo. 5 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:14,266 -Oh, you're joking. -[Pattiya] No. 6 00:00:15,266 --> 00:00:16,567 Every [bleep] day you have to talk to your mom. 7 00:00:17,133 --> 00:00:17,867 It's [bleep] ridiculous. 8 00:00:18,967 --> 00:00:20,000 If you're worried about that, why aren't you worried 9 00:00:20,834 --> 00:00:22,467 about your $20,000 debt that you have? 10 00:00:23,433 --> 00:00:24,100 [Pattiya] Things are clearly not going well, 11 00:00:25,266 --> 00:00:27,166 and there's something that I need to talk to Dylan about, 12 00:00:27,967 --> 00:00:28,667 and I think it might make it worse. 13 00:00:30,900 --> 00:00:33,166 How long would it take if we did file 14 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:36,567 the partnership papers for me to be able to work? 15 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:40,066 Yeah, that's a long time. 16 00:00:40,767 --> 00:00:41,367 [lawyer] That's a long time. 17 00:00:42,233 --> 00:00:44,100 If you're married, there's no problem. 18 00:00:45,266 --> 00:00:46,200 [Chloe] Jonathan and I have talked about getting married, 19 00:00:47,166 --> 00:00:48,266 but there is no way that it was going to be 20 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:50,667 as soon as tomorrow. 21 00:00:51,700 --> 00:00:52,700 Well, I think at the end of the day, it's something 22 00:00:53,734 --> 00:00:55,467 to think about so we can be together in the end. 23 00:00:58,567 --> 00:01:00,567 [Greta] I don't... 24 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:02,266 think I love you anymore. 25 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,967 Nothing could have prepared me for those words. 26 00:01:07,934 --> 00:01:10,600 That's the saddest part. There was no fight. 27 00:01:10,867 --> 00:01:11,800 No. 28 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:16,667 I think you should have a talk with her. 29 00:01:23,166 --> 00:01:24,367 [retches] 30 00:01:31,867 --> 00:01:34,266 I told you so many times, we even be careful 31 00:01:34,767 --> 00:01:35,967 when we have sex. 32 00:01:37,033 --> 00:01:37,700 Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now? 33 00:01:37,967 --> 00:01:38,867 Yes. 34 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:53,300 [chill music playing] 35 00:02:02,266 --> 00:02:04,867 ♪ I don't know, but I'm not scared ♪ 36 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:10,200 ♪ Maybe we could take a look at the possibilities ♪ 37 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:15,700 [Dylan] After tennis, Pattiya and I had a big fight 38 00:02:16,500 --> 00:02:17,567 about my relationship with my mom. 39 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:20,367 I don't want the constant stress and the arguments. 40 00:02:21,300 --> 00:02:23,467 So I told her I can sort of meet her halfway 41 00:02:24,467 --> 00:02:25,867 with some boundaries, but my mom's going to be 42 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,066 a part of our lives. 43 00:02:29,033 --> 00:02:31,800 So Pattiya needs to stop letting it get to her 44 00:02:32,300 --> 00:02:33,300 so much, you know? 45 00:02:34,867 --> 00:02:36,300 -Good day, mate. -[Chris] How you going? 46 00:02:37,433 --> 00:02:39,066 -How the bloody hell are you? -Well, long time no see. 47 00:02:40,133 --> 00:02:40,667 That's a strong handshake you've got there, mate. 48 00:02:41,166 --> 00:02:41,767 Yeah, I like that. 49 00:02:46,100 --> 00:02:49,000 -After you, kind sir. -Oh, alright. 50 00:02:50,066 --> 00:02:52,567 Ever since Pattiya arrived in town, like, every day 51 00:02:53,633 --> 00:02:54,967 she keeps asking me, "When are you gonna propose?" 52 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:55,967 Good day, guys. 53 00:02:56,700 --> 00:02:58,266 I'm here to get a ring polished. 54 00:02:58,633 --> 00:02:59,400 Certainly. 55 00:03:00,500 --> 00:03:01,467 [Dylan] So today, I'm going with my buddy Chris 56 00:03:02,433 --> 00:03:04,767 to a jewelry store to get the engagement ring 57 00:03:05,467 --> 00:03:07,500 that I gave Pattiya shined up, 58 00:03:08,633 --> 00:03:12,367 so that when I'm ready to propose, it looks brand new. 59 00:03:13,500 --> 00:03:14,266 -[jeweler] Beautiful. -[Dylan] You like that, do you? 60 00:03:14,700 --> 00:03:15,667 Family heirloom? 61 00:03:16,233 --> 00:03:17,667 [Dylan] Uh, not quite. 62 00:03:18,700 --> 00:03:22,400 -He did actually give it to his partner... -Yes. 63 00:03:23,367 --> 00:03:24,567 [Chris] ...before, and then he took it back. 64 00:03:25,433 --> 00:03:25,633 -[Dylan] That's right. -[Chris] Mh-hmm. 65 00:03:26,333 --> 00:03:26,800 [jeweler] Mh-hmm. 66 00:03:27,567 --> 00:03:28,400 It's a complicated relationship. 67 00:03:30,667 --> 00:03:33,000 The first time I proposed to Pattiya, 68 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:34,500 it was very lackluster. 69 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:36,967 You know, we were in bed, it was Christmas morning, 70 00:03:37,900 --> 00:03:38,700 and I just slipped the ring on her finger, 71 00:03:39,233 --> 00:03:40,767 and she said, "yes." 72 00:03:41,967 --> 00:03:43,667 I mean, I feel like that's got a bit of history behind it. 73 00:03:44,700 --> 00:03:45,767 Are you sure you don't wanna look at other rings? 74 00:03:46,300 --> 00:03:46,767 [Dylan] No, I don't. 75 00:03:47,734 --> 00:03:49,767 There is so much history and so many memories. 76 00:03:50,700 --> 00:03:52,467 So like, it still has a sentimental value. 77 00:03:53,266 --> 00:03:54,266 I definitely don't wanna trade it in. 78 00:03:55,266 --> 00:03:56,467 -You don't wanna trade it in? -Definitely not. 79 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:57,567 [jeweler] Perfect. 80 00:03:59,367 --> 00:04:01,567 And then give it a clean and polish. 81 00:04:02,333 --> 00:04:02,900 Perfect. Let's go grab a coffee. 82 00:04:03,367 --> 00:04:04,066 [Chris] Alright. 83 00:04:05,467 --> 00:04:08,066 After I proposed, we'd be breaking up 84 00:04:08,700 --> 00:04:10,767 every three or four weeks. 85 00:04:11,867 --> 00:04:14,166 And, um, at one point, Pattiya's spending got so bad, 86 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:18,000 she started selling all her jewelry just to fund 87 00:04:18,533 --> 00:04:19,367 her shopping habit. 88 00:04:22,900 --> 00:04:25,467 So I took the ring back. 89 00:04:26,533 --> 00:04:27,900 She saw that as, you know, we're no longer engaged, 90 00:04:28,467 --> 00:04:29,567 which is fair enough. 91 00:04:30,667 --> 00:04:33,266 -OK, so the ring. -[Dylan] Yes. 92 00:04:34,100 --> 00:04:35,300 Ten years ago, you gave her the ring. 93 00:04:36,367 --> 00:04:37,367 And you've been holding on to that ring ever since. 94 00:04:38,667 --> 00:04:39,667 Yeah. 95 00:04:40,467 --> 00:04:42,000 You haven't proposed to her again? 96 00:04:43,233 --> 00:04:46,200 No, 'cause I'm -- I'm -- I'm trying to fix all these issues. 97 00:04:46,767 --> 00:04:47,467 I don't know, 12 years. 98 00:04:48,667 --> 00:04:50,100 I feel like if you haven't fixed something after 12 years, 99 00:04:51,233 --> 00:04:53,200 how many more years is it gonna take for you to "fix?" 100 00:04:55,667 --> 00:04:57,200 I'm not giving up. 101 00:04:57,533 --> 00:04:58,767 Hmm, OK. 102 00:04:59,700 --> 00:05:01,266 I'm just worried about the personality clash. 103 00:05:02,233 --> 00:05:03,200 -You live together in Thailand. -[Dylan] Yes. 104 00:05:03,767 --> 00:05:04,467 So what happened there? 105 00:05:05,266 --> 00:05:06,900 Why -- why did that not work out? 106 00:05:07,700 --> 00:05:08,667 In the beginning, it was magical. 107 00:05:09,233 --> 00:05:10,867 And then after a while, 108 00:05:11,367 --> 00:05:12,266 she was miserable. 109 00:05:13,066 --> 00:05:14,166 I wasn't giving her enough money. 110 00:05:14,867 --> 00:05:17,367 And she just -- she's hated it. 111 00:05:18,867 --> 00:05:22,667 I just thought she would be happy living that life, 112 00:05:23,500 --> 00:05:24,467 that retired... -[Chris] Lifestyle. 113 00:05:25,667 --> 00:05:29,200 ...beach lifestyle, but she -- that wasn't enough for her. 114 00:05:29,900 --> 00:05:32,266 Her life has been fast paced. 115 00:05:32,834 --> 00:05:34,200 Fast money, fast living. 116 00:05:34,934 --> 00:05:36,567 How is she gonna be happy here? 117 00:05:37,433 --> 00:05:40,000 Long-term? Honestly, think about that. 118 00:05:40,667 --> 00:05:41,667 She's in a foreign country. 119 00:05:42,500 --> 00:05:43,667 She's got no family or friends here. 120 00:05:44,834 --> 00:05:47,800 She's just gonna be happy hanging around in Launceston? 121 00:05:49,867 --> 00:05:52,100 But the thing is, there's a certain limit. 122 00:05:52,834 --> 00:05:53,867 You can't do that all your life. 123 00:05:55,066 --> 00:05:56,467 -You know, she's approaching an age. -An age, yeah, sure. 124 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:57,900 She's getting older. 125 00:05:58,867 --> 00:06:00,500 She can't live that fast-paced life forever. 126 00:06:01,467 --> 00:06:03,000 I don't know, once you're used to something, 127 00:06:03,633 --> 00:06:06,066 it's -- it's hard to, um, 128 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:07,266 to change, you know? 129 00:06:08,667 --> 00:06:10,467 I've known Dylan always to be pretty stubborn, 130 00:06:11,467 --> 00:06:12,700 like he won't change what he eats, for example. 131 00:06:13,367 --> 00:06:14,166 It's only chicken and rice. 132 00:06:14,900 --> 00:06:15,367 I try to get him to eat a cookie. 133 00:06:16,567 --> 00:06:17,600 Wouldn't even need a cookie. I mean, he's pretty stubborn. 134 00:06:18,700 --> 00:06:20,400 He won't -- he won't change anything, so I'm worried 135 00:06:21,633 --> 00:06:24,100 that Dylan's stubbornness is causing him to live in a fantasy 136 00:06:24,734 --> 00:06:25,600 and not deal with reality. 137 00:06:26,900 --> 00:06:29,100 I don't think a ring on the finger is going 138 00:06:29,967 --> 00:06:32,867 to be the thing that fixes everything. 139 00:06:33,266 --> 00:06:34,300 I love her. 140 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:36,200 I just can't see myself with anyone else. 141 00:06:37,033 --> 00:06:37,600 I'm not saying -- I'm not saying... 142 00:06:38,467 --> 00:06:39,300 I'm not even attracted to anyone else. 143 00:06:40,133 --> 00:06:40,867 -I just want her. -[Chris] Alright. 144 00:06:41,166 --> 00:06:42,567 Look. 145 00:06:43,100 --> 00:06:43,867 I'm only saying this 146 00:06:44,700 --> 00:06:46,600 because I care about you as a friend. 147 00:06:48,467 --> 00:06:52,000 I love Pattiya. I know she makes you very happy. 148 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:55,467 But your idea of happily- ever-after 149 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:56,967 is a bit delusional. 150 00:06:59,500 --> 00:07:02,400 I don't think you've really thought about the long-term plan. 151 00:07:05,266 --> 00:07:07,166 [Dylan] Chris's concerns are valid. 152 00:07:08,333 --> 00:07:10,800 Pattiya and I still have a lot of issues to work through, 153 00:07:12,000 --> 00:07:15,567 but I am feeling optimistic about the future with Pattiya. 154 00:07:16,667 --> 00:07:18,467 She's come to Australia, and she's given it a good go, 155 00:07:19,533 --> 00:07:21,767 and she's trying to resolve things with my mother. 156 00:07:22,567 --> 00:07:24,066 So I think that's massive, really. 157 00:07:24,767 --> 00:07:25,400 I feel like it is different now. 158 00:07:27,500 --> 00:07:28,467 [Chris] Think about it. 159 00:07:44,467 --> 00:07:46,400 [dramatic music playing] 160 00:07:51,667 --> 00:07:52,967 [Luke] I'm -- I'm confused. 161 00:07:54,033 --> 00:07:55,567 Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now? 162 00:07:56,100 --> 00:07:56,667 [Madelein speaking] 163 00:08:00,867 --> 00:08:02,000 [Luke] Holy [bleep]! 164 00:08:02,900 --> 00:08:05,100 This stresses me the [bleep] out right now. 165 00:08:06,333 --> 00:08:09,667 You don't know how stressful, how scared and stressful I am! 166 00:08:11,367 --> 00:08:15,066 I -- I didn't expect you to say that you actually think 167 00:08:15,633 --> 00:08:16,166 that you're pregnant. 168 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:24,467 [Madelein] I'm really, like, so scared about if he's positive... 169 00:08:30,100 --> 00:08:32,900 [Luke] Stability is the only thing that I really ever wanted. 170 00:08:33,900 --> 00:08:35,166 [Madelein speaking] 171 00:08:46,867 --> 00:08:48,700 [Luke] I hope that we can work on this relationship, 172 00:08:49,900 --> 00:08:51,266 but right now I'm not confident that we're -- we're working. 173 00:08:52,333 --> 00:08:54,000 We talked yesterday, "Hey, like, are we compatible? 174 00:08:54,500 --> 00:08:55,066 Can we not fight?" 175 00:08:55,967 --> 00:08:56,700 And all we've done is continue to fight. 176 00:08:58,266 --> 00:09:01,166 -Who made the fight today? -[Luke] I didn't try and fight today. 177 00:09:02,033 --> 00:09:02,700 -No? No? -[Luke] I -- I said, "please." 178 00:09:04,567 --> 00:09:06,467 I don't wanna argue. 179 00:09:09,100 --> 00:09:12,266 -Do you wanna go try this? -[Madelein] No. 180 00:09:12,734 --> 00:09:14,166 Leave me alone. 181 00:09:15,667 --> 00:09:16,867 I wanna know. 182 00:09:21,567 --> 00:09:23,266 [speaking Spanish] 183 00:09:40,100 --> 00:09:41,667 [Luke] Let’s please try and be happy about this, 184 00:09:42,734 --> 00:09:43,166 please, can we take the test? -[Madelein speaking] 185 00:09:53,166 --> 00:09:54,200 If you are pregnant... 186 00:09:58,200 --> 00:09:59,800 and we're gonna have a baby, 187 00:10:00,900 --> 00:10:03,200 then this means that we're having a family, Madelein. 188 00:10:09,367 --> 00:10:10,767 Can we please take this test? 189 00:10:12,467 --> 00:10:13,467 Please. 190 00:10:19,100 --> 00:10:20,166 Please, Madelein. 191 00:10:49,367 --> 00:10:51,867 This is a good opportunity for you to show me 192 00:10:52,900 --> 00:10:55,367 that you're ready to really take a serious step. 193 00:10:56,567 --> 00:10:58,266 If you wouldn't put a ring on my finger today, in a sense, 194 00:10:59,300 --> 00:11:00,266 you're not in love with me, like, you're in love 195 00:11:00,767 --> 00:11:01,467 with also an idea. 196 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:04,100 I feel like this is a test if I'm actually 197 00:11:04,667 --> 00:11:05,467 wife material or not. 198 00:11:08,900 --> 00:11:11,767 You broke his heart, Greta. You might think it's done. 199 00:11:14,166 --> 00:11:15,867 But he wonders whether you just need some time. 200 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:17,100 I know. 201 00:11:21,700 --> 00:11:23,667 [upbeat music playing] 202 00:11:37,300 --> 00:11:38,300 Such a beautiful beach, huh? 203 00:11:40,266 --> 00:11:42,300 It is really pretty. 204 00:11:43,367 --> 00:11:44,467 It's been a few days since Jonathan and I have met 205 00:11:45,166 --> 00:11:45,767 with the lawyers and found out 206 00:11:46,834 --> 00:11:48,166 that the fastest and easiest way for me to stay here 207 00:11:49,033 --> 00:11:50,767 is to get married, and we're still kind 208 00:11:51,467 --> 00:11:53,367 of processing that information. 209 00:11:54,233 --> 00:11:55,367 I don't think your leg can support me. 210 00:11:56,033 --> 00:11:57,400 [Johny] Oh, really? Come on. 211 00:11:58,567 --> 00:11:58,967 -[Chloe] I've been eating a lot. -Yeah? Come on, big butt. 212 00:11:59,900 --> 00:12:00,400 [Chloe] I don't want to step on your shoe. 213 00:12:01,133 --> 00:12:02,266 -[Johny] Let's go. -[Chloe] Ow! 214 00:12:03,500 --> 00:12:04,567 I thought giving up everything and moving to another country 215 00:12:05,700 --> 00:12:09,467 was a lot, but adding this on top of it, is like, bang. 216 00:12:10,433 --> 00:12:11,767 Do we miss the sunset, or is it just cloudy? 217 00:12:12,333 --> 00:12:13,066 It's a bit cloudy today. 218 00:12:14,500 --> 00:12:15,967 Anyway, me and Maria are gonna have 219 00:12:16,567 --> 00:12:17,100 meatball night tomorrow. 220 00:12:18,700 --> 00:12:20,367 What does "meatball night" mean? 221 00:12:21,300 --> 00:12:22,000 Are you gonna actually go to a restaurant 222 00:12:22,967 --> 00:12:23,567 and eat meatballs, or are you gonna, like --? 223 00:12:24,333 --> 00:12:26,100 It's just like a girly, fun night. 224 00:12:27,066 --> 00:12:28,166 Like, it's just where we can just act stupid 225 00:12:29,166 --> 00:12:31,667 and be meatballs. Go to dinner, have a drink. 226 00:12:32,700 --> 00:12:33,467 -OK. -And be -- it's called a "meatball night." 227 00:12:33,967 --> 00:12:34,500 One -- one drink? 228 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:37,767 Have a drink. 229 00:12:38,633 --> 00:12:41,000 Maria is my best friend on the island. 230 00:12:42,233 --> 00:12:45,266 Jonathan doesn't like when I go out with Maria because we like 231 00:12:46,033 --> 00:12:47,767 to drink. We like to be stupid. 232 00:12:48,433 --> 00:12:49,367 We like to randomly karaoke. 233 00:12:50,367 --> 00:12:52,867 We like to, like, climb palm trees and just do 234 00:12:53,433 --> 00:12:54,600 really harmless things. 235 00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,266 With that being said, if I'm being unrealistic 236 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:00,967 about something that happened with Jonathan, Maria is 237 00:13:01,867 --> 00:13:03,166 always the one to reel me in and be like, 238 00:13:03,734 --> 00:13:04,367 "Don't put up with it." 239 00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:07,300 And I think that makes Jonathan a little nervous. 240 00:13:08,900 --> 00:13:10,300 I don't know where we're gonna go to dinner yet. 241 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:14,266 Maybe one of our go-to spots. 242 00:13:15,433 --> 00:13:16,900 Yeah, well, we'll find a spot where we can go to dinner. 243 00:13:18,567 --> 00:13:21,100 Well, I think me and Maria are just gonna go 244 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:22,967 to dinner, and then... -I'm not gonna go? 245 00:13:24,066 --> 00:13:26,066 That's why it's a meatball night. 246 00:13:26,333 --> 00:13:28,100 Oh. 247 00:13:28,934 --> 00:13:30,367 We were gonna invite you afterwards. 248 00:13:30,667 --> 00:13:32,066 Mh-hmm? 249 00:13:33,066 --> 00:13:34,800 Well, no, I don't want you to be, like, worried 250 00:13:35,333 --> 00:13:36,166 about it, you know? 251 00:13:37,266 --> 00:13:38,867 I know, but I have a lot of worries when Maria is here 252 00:13:39,900 --> 00:13:41,400 because when you guys get together, it's a real 253 00:13:42,233 --> 00:13:42,867 get together, you know what I mean? 254 00:13:43,400 --> 00:13:45,066 You guys go all out. 255 00:13:46,567 --> 00:13:48,667 Yeah, but I think I've chilled out a lot. 256 00:13:49,533 --> 00:13:50,867 [Johny] Maria, I met a few years back. 257 00:13:51,633 --> 00:13:52,367 We had the same friends, you know, 258 00:13:52,934 --> 00:13:54,367 we'd hang out sometimes. 259 00:13:55,433 --> 00:13:56,967 When I introduced Chloe, they clicked automatically. 260 00:13:58,000 --> 00:13:58,767 It was like the next day, Chloe was telling me, 261 00:13:59,767 --> 00:14:01,100 "I'm gonna hang out with Maria every day now." 262 00:14:02,133 --> 00:14:03,300 The thing about Maria is that she works abroad, 263 00:14:04,367 --> 00:14:05,667 so when she comes to Aruba, she only wants to look 264 00:14:06,734 --> 00:14:09,667 for party, you know, and I don't like that at all. 265 00:14:10,533 --> 00:14:11,367 Now that, you know, you're living here 266 00:14:12,400 --> 00:14:13,767 in the island and stuff, this is a good opportunity 267 00:14:14,767 --> 00:14:17,767 for you to show me that you're mature and ready 268 00:14:18,467 --> 00:14:20,166 to really take a serious step. 269 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:23,400 You know, I'm not gonna go out and, you know, go dance on top 270 00:14:24,233 --> 00:14:25,367 of the bar and, you know, be crazy. 271 00:14:26,333 --> 00:14:27,066 Like, that's not something that's respectable 272 00:14:28,166 --> 00:14:30,000 from either of our parts. Like, I wouldn't do that. 273 00:14:30,867 --> 00:14:32,800 I just don't want you to wanna change, 274 00:14:33,834 --> 00:14:35,200 like, so much about me to the point where, like, 275 00:14:36,467 --> 00:14:38,467 like, if you wouldn't put a ring on my finger today, in a sense, 276 00:14:39,133 --> 00:14:39,667 you're not in love with me. 277 00:14:40,667 --> 00:14:42,200 Like, you're in love with also an idea of what, 278 00:14:43,300 --> 00:14:45,567 like, the future can look like when you have to be OK 279 00:14:46,166 --> 00:14:47,767 with me now also. -OK. 280 00:14:50,467 --> 00:14:53,600 It's just, um, I'm used to you when you're going out 281 00:14:54,400 --> 00:14:54,867 going heavy, you know what I mean? 282 00:14:55,867 --> 00:14:57,266 Right, and I think that's more vacation mode. 283 00:14:58,433 --> 00:15:00,900 OK, so just -- I wanna see how this mode's gonna be, OK? 284 00:15:01,533 --> 00:15:01,900 So this is the opportunity 285 00:15:02,734 --> 00:15:03,100 to show me, like, what kind of mood 286 00:15:03,767 --> 00:15:06,166 you're in, OK? -[Chloe] OK. 287 00:15:08,467 --> 00:15:10,567 I know Jonathan doesn't like that I like to go out 288 00:15:11,033 --> 00:15:11,767 and have drinks, 289 00:15:12,867 --> 00:15:15,000 but I feel like this is more of a test if I'm actually 290 00:15:15,567 --> 00:15:16,467 wife material or not. 291 00:15:17,700 --> 00:15:19,100 Now that we're talking about it more and more, I can't really 292 00:15:19,867 --> 00:15:20,700 tell if Jonathan wants this or not. 293 00:15:21,734 --> 00:15:23,266 I feel like he's throwing up all these little... 294 00:15:24,433 --> 00:15:26,967 little roadblocks and, like, high obstacles that I can't 295 00:15:27,667 --> 00:15:29,166 jump over to stall the process. 296 00:15:30,166 --> 00:15:32,600 -Gotta let me live a little. -OK. 297 00:15:33,500 --> 00:15:35,166 Understood. Just don't go too crazy, OK? 298 00:15:36,300 --> 00:15:38,867 I'm not gonna go too crazy. I'm still a little crazy. 299 00:15:39,166 --> 00:15:40,266 You are. 300 00:15:41,133 --> 00:15:41,767 -Very crazy. -[Chloe] From one to ten? 301 00:15:42,633 --> 00:15:43,400 -Nine. -I wouldn't say that about you. 302 00:15:44,233 --> 00:15:46,567 -What would you say about me? -Ten. 303 00:15:47,000 --> 00:15:47,667 You're so bad. 304 00:15:53,166 --> 00:15:57,266 ♪ My heart, it wanders through the night ♪ 305 00:15:59,667 --> 00:16:01,867 ♪ Searching for the star ♪ 306 00:16:02,400 --> 00:16:03,100 ♪ The starlight ♪ 307 00:16:03,834 --> 00:16:06,467 ♪ Searching for the starlight ♪ 308 00:16:06,834 --> 00:16:09,000 ♪ Ooh ♪ 309 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:11,166 ♪ Will I find my way back home ♪ 310 00:16:12,700 --> 00:16:14,667 ♪ Will I find my way back home ♪ 311 00:16:20,567 --> 00:16:23,467 [Greta] I was able to fall asleep, but I did wake up a few times. 312 00:16:24,033 --> 00:16:26,066 I was just kind of... 313 00:16:26,934 --> 00:16:30,467 like, spiraling about everything that... 314 00:16:30,834 --> 00:16:32,567 happened. 315 00:16:33,633 --> 00:16:36,367 The other night, I ended my engagement with Matthew, 316 00:16:37,367 --> 00:16:41,867 and slipping the engagement ring off my finger 317 00:16:42,734 --> 00:16:44,700 made the breakup feel very real to me. 318 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:49,867 And I am filled with immense sadness 319 00:16:50,700 --> 00:16:52,667 because an engagement is a promise, 320 00:16:53,900 --> 00:16:56,867 and I am breaking a promise, and that doesn't feel very good. 321 00:16:58,300 --> 00:17:03,767 Matthew's dad has texted me and wants to talk with me. 322 00:17:04,900 --> 00:17:07,467 I feel really nervous about it because I don't know how 323 00:17:08,133 --> 00:17:09,867 he feels about the breakup. 324 00:17:10,834 --> 00:17:11,767 I -- it's gonna be difficult, because I know 325 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:13,367 it's gonna be emotional... 326 00:17:14,633 --> 00:17:19,266 but I -- I really do hope that the conversation ends amicably. 327 00:17:21,900 --> 00:17:25,166 Matthew's parents were so excited for me to move 328 00:17:25,767 --> 00:17:26,467 and to join the family, 329 00:17:27,300 --> 00:17:29,700 and it really makes me feel guilty. 330 00:17:37,667 --> 00:17:39,600 [sad music playing] 331 00:17:46,166 --> 00:17:47,900 -Hi, Greta. -[Greta] Hey, Mark. 332 00:17:48,500 --> 00:17:49,467 -How are you? -I'm OK. 333 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:50,667 -How are you? -OK. 334 00:17:51,300 --> 00:17:52,166 -Come here. -I'm sorry. 335 00:17:53,133 --> 00:17:54,900 Don't be, you don't have to be sorry about it. 336 00:17:56,567 --> 00:17:58,900 I just thought we'd, um... 337 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:00,800 just catch up with each other, 338 00:18:01,567 --> 00:18:02,467 'cause obviously a lot's happened. 339 00:18:03,367 --> 00:18:05,867 And I just wanna try and find out what... 340 00:18:06,300 --> 00:18:07,700 where you are, 341 00:18:08,467 --> 00:18:09,667 because I can't understand what -- 342 00:18:10,100 --> 00:18:11,066 what's happened, 343 00:18:12,166 --> 00:18:13,266 and -- and I'm struggling to -- to put it together. 344 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:17,000 Matthew's isn't... 345 00:18:18,100 --> 00:18:20,066 I've never seen him like it, Greta. 346 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:23,567 And I'm -- I'm worried about him because... 347 00:18:24,166 --> 00:18:26,166 he loves you. -I know. 348 00:18:26,633 --> 00:18:27,367 [Mark] He does. 349 00:18:28,433 --> 00:18:30,300 And you -- and you broke his heart, Greta, literally. 350 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,367 [Greta] That's, like, the worst part about it all, 351 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:36,166 and that's why I was, like, struggling so much, 352 00:18:36,734 --> 00:18:38,066 because, like, I, like, 353 00:18:38,934 --> 00:18:40,000 really don't wanna hurt him, because... 354 00:18:42,467 --> 00:18:45,100 It's so difficult to explain. 355 00:18:45,734 --> 00:18:48,200 I did love him so much... 356 00:18:49,233 --> 00:18:50,266 and I was so excited to talk to him all the time, 357 00:18:51,100 --> 00:18:53,967 I was so excited to see him, and so... 358 00:18:54,900 --> 00:18:57,300 [sighs]...I'm confused, like, why I don't... 359 00:18:58,567 --> 00:19:01,300 feel like I love him, like, in love with him. 360 00:19:02,500 --> 00:19:04,100 Is that because you've had so much happening in the last -- 361 00:19:04,533 --> 00:19:05,367 last few months? 362 00:19:06,300 --> 00:19:07,000 You forgot how to live almost, haven't you? 363 00:19:08,200 --> 00:19:09,767 'Cause you've been studying, studying, studying, studying. 364 00:19:11,066 --> 00:19:12,166 [Greta] I mean... 365 00:19:13,233 --> 00:19:16,367 I know that there was a shift because I felt like 366 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:19,300 we were not evolving into people that were still 367 00:19:19,967 --> 00:19:20,800 compatible with each other. 368 00:19:21,867 --> 00:19:25,266 And -- and I wish, like, I could change my feelings. 369 00:19:28,166 --> 00:19:29,567 Like, he's a great person. 370 00:19:30,433 --> 00:19:32,767 Like, he, like, I respect him so much. 371 00:19:33,633 --> 00:19:34,600 He's, like, helped me so much in life. 372 00:19:35,700 --> 00:19:37,667 Like, I truly just, like, only want him to be happy. 373 00:19:39,100 --> 00:19:41,467 He wonders whether you just need some time, 374 00:19:42,500 --> 00:19:43,667 'cause you don't forget, you just traveled across 375 00:19:44,233 --> 00:19:45,166 halfway over the world. 376 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:47,000 You've probably not slept properly. 377 00:19:48,100 --> 00:19:49,100 He's prepared to give you your time and your space. 378 00:19:49,400 --> 00:19:50,500 Yeah. 379 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:53,266 What worries me is that you've not had time together. 380 00:19:54,100 --> 00:19:55,300 You've not -- not been on your own. 381 00:19:56,433 --> 00:19:57,467 So yeah, you might think that, yeah, it's done, and -- 382 00:19:58,100 --> 00:19:59,266 and -- and you say it is, 383 00:20:00,266 --> 00:20:01,300 but let's be honest, it's only been four days. 384 00:20:02,133 --> 00:20:03,467 It's -- it's not been given a chance 385 00:20:04,266 --> 00:20:06,467 to -- to go any further because... 386 00:20:07,667 --> 00:20:09,967 I know it seems, like, sudden, and I know this just sounds, 387 00:20:10,967 --> 00:20:12,567 like, crazy, but I just know it in my instinct, 388 00:20:13,567 --> 00:20:16,200 like, that -- that, like, he's not my person. 389 00:20:19,066 --> 00:20:20,100 It's such a shame, you know. 390 00:20:21,467 --> 00:20:24,100 And, like, my honest truth, which, like, you can 391 00:20:24,567 --> 00:20:26,166 accept or not... 392 00:20:27,166 --> 00:20:29,767 I just, like, you know, I can't make him happy. 393 00:20:30,834 --> 00:20:31,867 And I just, like, hate that I did this to you guys, 394 00:20:32,900 --> 00:20:34,467 and you guys, like, welcomed me with open arms. 395 00:20:35,533 --> 00:20:36,667 Like, it really meant the world to me, and, like, 396 00:20:37,567 --> 00:20:38,800 thank you, because... -We did too, we -- 397 00:20:39,333 --> 00:20:40,000 we loved you, Greta. 398 00:20:41,066 --> 00:20:43,900 -Yeah. -We really thought a lot of you. 399 00:20:48,700 --> 00:20:51,800 I do think I've got clarity from Greta. 400 00:20:52,767 --> 00:20:54,567 I don't think there's any hope for Matthew... 401 00:20:55,233 --> 00:20:57,867 um, and Greta at this stage. 402 00:20:58,433 --> 00:20:59,467 I don't understand it. 403 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,200 I can see she's rationalizing it in her mind, why she's doing it, 404 00:21:03,767 --> 00:21:04,867 and she's justifying it. 405 00:21:06,133 --> 00:21:07,867 But I'm the one who's got to pick up the pieces with my son. 406 00:21:09,767 --> 00:21:12,567 Matthew's always loved you, and he always probably will 407 00:21:13,300 --> 00:21:14,000 for a long time, still to come. 408 00:21:16,867 --> 00:21:18,467 Just wish it had a different ending. 409 00:21:18,767 --> 00:21:19,567 Yeah. 410 00:21:24,800 --> 00:21:25,767 [Madelein speaking] 411 00:21:30,367 --> 00:21:32,867 [Luke] We're struggling to cross the finish line 412 00:21:33,433 --> 00:21:34,500 on us getting married, 413 00:21:35,367 --> 00:21:37,100 let alone starting a family together. 414 00:21:37,834 --> 00:21:39,166 [Madelein] I really so scared. 415 00:21:44,900 --> 00:21:46,767 [tense music playing] 416 00:22:08,967 --> 00:22:10,000 [Madelein speaking] 417 00:22:25,367 --> 00:22:26,300 I'm scared [bleep]less. 418 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:30,300 I mean, we're struggling to cross the finish line 419 00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:33,000 on us getting married, let alone starting 420 00:22:33,500 --> 00:22:35,066 a family together. 421 00:22:57,667 --> 00:22:58,667 What do you wanna be? 422 00:23:01,266 --> 00:23:04,166 Honestly, I think, like, right now, the right time 423 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,367 for us to have a baby? Probably not. 424 00:23:07,266 --> 00:23:08,900 But it's something that I want with you. 425 00:23:10,166 --> 00:23:12,700 You are the person that I want to be the mother of my children 426 00:23:13,233 --> 00:23:13,800 because I love you. 427 00:23:15,266 --> 00:23:17,467 And I think that you would be a very good mom, 428 00:23:18,266 --> 00:23:19,400 whether it's now or in five years. 429 00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:21,667 It's not gonna change how I feel. 430 00:23:23,967 --> 00:23:28,767 [suspenseful music plays] 431 00:23:30,367 --> 00:23:31,367 What does this mean? 432 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,100 Usually this says pregnant or not pregnant, 433 00:23:38,934 --> 00:23:40,166 a smile or a sad face or something, 434 00:23:40,667 --> 00:23:41,367 this has one line. 435 00:23:41,934 --> 00:23:42,467 What does one line mean? 436 00:23:45,767 --> 00:23:47,266 -[Madelein speaking]. -[Luke] This is negative? 437 00:23:56,867 --> 00:23:59,767 But you should be crying, you don't cry? 438 00:24:00,633 --> 00:24:02,367 That you're negative or positive? 439 00:24:02,900 --> 00:24:03,467 [Madelein speaking] 440 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:07,600 [Luke] It doesn't change how I feel. 441 00:24:08,867 --> 00:24:11,700 I love you and I want this relationship to work. 442 00:24:12,533 --> 00:24:14,200 Yeah, me too, but in the same way... 443 00:24:21,667 --> 00:24:22,867 [Luke] I just want you to be happy. 444 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:26,266 And I don't know that I can make you happy. 445 00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,900 I try really hard and I feel like I fail all the time. 446 00:24:30,333 --> 00:24:31,166 You try so hard? 447 00:24:31,967 --> 00:24:33,000 What about the conversation today? 448 00:24:38,367 --> 00:24:39,667 This is gonna be my name. 449 00:24:40,967 --> 00:24:41,900 Hmmm, OK. 450 00:25:03,367 --> 00:25:07,100 I don't care about money. Other than the fact that... 451 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,200 -[Madelein] Don't! -[Luke] Other than... 452 00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:11,200 You every single day mention money. 453 00:25:12,367 --> 00:25:14,266 Every single day mention, "No, you don't push any money 454 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:15,767 in this project..." 455 00:25:19,567 --> 00:25:21,600 [Luke] I value everything that you do. 456 00:25:22,300 --> 00:25:23,900 But the fact of the matter is... 457 00:25:24,834 --> 00:25:28,000 I try as much as I can to provide for you. 458 00:25:28,867 --> 00:25:31,567 And if you would let me be a [bleep] man 459 00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:33,800 and make manly decisions, 460 00:25:34,567 --> 00:25:35,667 I'd really [bleep] appreciate it. 461 00:25:38,100 --> 00:25:39,100 I don't ask much of you. 462 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,300 Just let me do what I need to do to make 463 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:44,166 our dreams a [bleep] reality. 464 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:00,900 [Madelein speaking] 465 00:26:12,166 --> 00:26:14,266 At the end of the day, I really love you, Luke. 466 00:26:16,767 --> 00:26:17,800 I know you do. 467 00:26:20,567 --> 00:26:21,667 And I love you more. 468 00:26:47,767 --> 00:26:51,767 But when I tell him, "Maybe I think I get pregnant," 469 00:26:52,967 --> 00:26:55,166 and he reaction like, "No, I really want a family with you" 470 00:26:56,400 --> 00:26:59,500 made me more comfortable about everything's gonna to be good. 471 00:27:00,133 --> 00:27:01,266 And I need to trust him. 472 00:27:03,967 --> 00:27:05,500 I just want you to be happy. 473 00:27:07,700 --> 00:27:09,500 And I'd like for us to be happy together. 474 00:27:13,467 --> 00:27:14,467 [speaking Spanish] 475 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:27,266 I know. 476 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:30,000 Absolutely. 477 00:27:30,867 --> 00:27:31,900 If I'm being honest, after being here, 478 00:27:32,433 --> 00:27:33,667 sometimes I miss it. 479 00:27:34,367 --> 00:27:37,000 I want to go back home for like 480 00:27:37,433 --> 00:27:38,100 six months... 481 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:41,500 [Dylan] You only just got here. 482 00:27:47,166 --> 00:27:50,367 ♪ The way we move is sick, so call a doctor ♪ 483 00:27:51,100 --> 00:27:52,266 ♪ And [indistinct] inspire me ♪ 484 00:27:52,767 --> 00:27:53,467 ♪ [indistinct] ♪ 485 00:27:54,033 --> 00:27:54,667 ♪ Step back-y back ♪ 486 00:27:55,367 --> 00:27:57,266 ♪ I need to move the floor ♪ 487 00:27:57,533 --> 00:27:58,667 Wow! 488 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:03,100 ♪ Whoa, this is how you do it like a pro ♪ 489 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:08,567 ♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey ♪ 490 00:28:09,333 --> 00:28:11,000 [sighs] Alright-y. Look at that. 491 00:28:13,100 --> 00:28:14,467 I've been here a couple of weeks, 492 00:28:15,767 --> 00:28:17,467 and I've been complaining about how there's nothing to do here. 493 00:28:18,467 --> 00:28:19,700 But tonight, Dylan's taking me to a strip club. 494 00:28:22,767 --> 00:28:25,266 I'm excited because that's more my vibe. 495 00:28:26,166 --> 00:28:28,467 I had no idea Tasmania had a strip club. 496 00:28:29,266 --> 00:28:30,900 There's nightlife here in Tasmania. 497 00:28:31,734 --> 00:28:33,600 Something that's open past ten, OMG! 498 00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:38,266 ♪ My love for you has brought me out here ♪ 499 00:28:38,767 --> 00:28:40,400 ♪ [indistinct] ♪ 500 00:28:42,467 --> 00:28:44,967 ♪ My love for you has brought me out here ♪ 501 00:28:46,300 --> 00:28:47,100 -[Pattiya] Do you think you can do that? -[Dylan] Definitely not. 502 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:53,367 I know, right? 503 00:28:54,266 --> 00:28:54,567 Except you were wearing a little bit less 504 00:28:55,266 --> 00:28:56,066 than what you're wearing now. 505 00:28:56,900 --> 00:28:57,467 [Pattiya laughs] I know, more clothing. 506 00:28:58,100 --> 00:28:59,600 -Yeah. -This is awesome. 507 00:29:00,166 --> 00:29:01,166 It's a great club. 508 00:29:02,166 --> 00:29:03,800 -Good day, good day. -[Pattiya] Hey, beautiful. 509 00:29:04,367 --> 00:29:05,767 Oh, my gosh, she's hot. 510 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:07,600 She's definitely good with the pole. 511 00:29:12,166 --> 00:29:13,367 -I do. -[Dylan speaking] 512 00:29:14,467 --> 00:29:15,867 This is the happiest I've seen you since we got here. 513 00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:16,967 -Shut up. -[Dylan] Seriously. 514 00:29:18,033 --> 00:29:19,100 -Shut up. -[Dylan] Out of everything we've done. 515 00:29:19,934 --> 00:29:20,700 Yeah, babe, you know why I love it? 516 00:29:21,800 --> 00:29:22,400 -[Dylan] Why? Tell me. -It's because this is my life. 517 00:29:23,100 --> 00:29:24,467 I've been doing it for 37 years. 518 00:29:25,333 --> 00:29:26,800 It's like my -- my -- my second home. 519 00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:28,100 You know what it's like to perform. 520 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:29,233 -I love it, yes. -[Pattiya] You feel good. 521 00:29:30,533 --> 00:29:32,600 You get all the, you know, the compliments is awesome. 522 00:29:34,033 --> 00:29:35,467 -This is -- this is -- it's an adrenaline rush. -[Pattiya] Yes, exactly. 523 00:29:36,900 --> 00:29:38,266 Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore? 524 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:39,867 -Absolutely. -Why? 525 00:29:41,266 --> 00:29:43,567 Well, even though, you know, you were happy doing it 526 00:29:44,133 --> 00:29:44,867 and it'll lit you up, 527 00:29:45,667 --> 00:29:47,467 it's still not my favorite thought 528 00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,100 to have you dancing naked for other guys. 529 00:29:51,300 --> 00:29:55,000 -It's not my favorite thing. -But you know it's just work. 530 00:29:55,967 --> 00:29:58,867 Yeah, but I'd rather you do a different job. 531 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,900 I get that he doesn't like me being around other men, 532 00:30:02,934 --> 00:30:04,767 but it's just a job, and the money is fantastic. 533 00:30:05,667 --> 00:30:07,467 And if I'm being honest after being here, 534 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:08,667 sometimes I miss it. 535 00:30:10,266 --> 00:30:11,567 It's gonna be hard for me 536 00:30:12,467 --> 00:30:14,800 not making this kind of money, you know? 537 00:30:15,633 --> 00:30:17,266 I'm gonna be totally relying on you. 538 00:30:18,567 --> 00:30:19,567 [Dylan speaking] 539 00:30:20,867 --> 00:30:23,000 It scares me sometimes. 540 00:30:23,934 --> 00:30:24,567 I'm just gonna have to look at, you know, 541 00:30:25,567 --> 00:30:28,300 some of the luxuries that you enjoy in Dallas. 542 00:30:29,100 --> 00:30:29,800 You know, all the online shopping 543 00:30:30,934 --> 00:30:32,667 and the excessive spending. That's gonna have to stop. 544 00:30:35,700 --> 00:30:37,100 You're worried about the financial stuff. 545 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:40,367 You're worried about the money, the debt. 546 00:30:41,367 --> 00:30:45,700 So I just think I want to go back to the States, 547 00:30:56,667 --> 00:30:58,467 [Dylan speaking] 548 00:30:59,100 --> 00:30:59,800 You only just got here... 549 00:31:02,467 --> 00:31:06,367 To be honest, I know that it's fun for you, 550 00:31:06,834 --> 00:31:08,600 and I dance too, 551 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:09,700 but like... 552 00:31:14,900 --> 00:31:16,867 -You know what I mean? -No, I work with another girl. 553 00:31:18,100 --> 00:31:18,500 But I work with another girl, so always me and another girl. 554 00:31:19,567 --> 00:31:20,567 [Dylan] OK, well, sometimes -- sometimes you don't. 555 00:31:21,500 --> 00:31:22,800 -But the thing is... -90% of the time I do. 556 00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:26,066 -So the thing is... -Very rare. 557 00:31:26,900 --> 00:31:29,066 -It bothers me a little bit. -Sorry. 558 00:31:30,767 --> 00:31:33,000 [Dylan] Even though, you know, we're both strippers, 559 00:31:34,066 --> 00:31:37,567 it's a very sensitive topic and makes me look like 560 00:31:38,700 --> 00:31:41,467 a hypocrite, but I feel like it is different in a way. 561 00:31:42,367 --> 00:31:44,867 I'm up on stage with a room full of women, 562 00:31:45,934 --> 00:31:48,767 but with Pattiya's, she goes out, she finds a guy 563 00:31:49,700 --> 00:31:51,867 and then she takes him back to a VIP room. 564 00:31:52,667 --> 00:31:54,567 I know they're both entertainment, 565 00:31:55,567 --> 00:31:56,467 they're both stripping, it's both a transaction, 566 00:31:57,266 --> 00:31:58,767 but they're two different things. 567 00:31:59,467 --> 00:32:00,900 And so, I don't like the thought 568 00:32:01,700 --> 00:32:02,700 of Pattiya going back to dancing. 569 00:32:03,834 --> 00:32:06,367 It kinda feels like an excuse just to leave Tasmania. 570 00:32:07,633 --> 00:32:09,066 It's like, "This place sucks, it's too quiet, I don't wanna be 571 00:32:09,934 --> 00:32:11,867 "near your family, so I'll just go back 572 00:32:12,433 --> 00:32:13,500 and dance in the US." 573 00:32:14,533 --> 00:32:16,867 Maybe Chris's concerns are valid. 574 00:32:17,667 --> 00:32:18,667 Maybe Pattiya is not gonna change. 575 00:32:19,967 --> 00:32:22,000 I just sometimes don't think that I'm enough for you. 576 00:32:23,300 --> 00:32:24,100 -The lifestyle -- well, I know that. -[Pattiya] You are enough. 577 00:32:25,233 --> 00:32:27,500 I know that I'm enough, but I -- sometimes I think that 578 00:32:28,266 --> 00:32:29,166 you're addicted to that lifestyle, 579 00:32:29,734 --> 00:32:31,000 that easy, fast money. 580 00:32:32,166 --> 00:32:33,867 -And that's kinda what I'm scared of, because... -Babe. 581 00:32:34,500 --> 00:32:35,767 I retired you in Thailand 582 00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:37,567 and you were just completely bored. 583 00:32:38,367 --> 00:32:38,667 -I was bored. -[Dylan] All you -- 584 00:32:39,734 --> 00:32:40,100 all you talked about the whole time was going back 585 00:32:40,767 --> 00:32:42,367 to dancing. -I did, I did. 586 00:32:43,500 --> 00:32:44,166 I thought I was gonna get a ring there, and you didn't 587 00:32:45,166 --> 00:32:45,767 give it to me. And I was like, "You know what? 588 00:32:46,433 --> 00:32:48,467 What's the point? I'm done." 589 00:32:49,433 --> 00:32:50,867 If you really love me, you should just stick 590 00:32:51,500 --> 00:32:51,967 by my side no matter what. 591 00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,700 Listen, part of our problem in the past was 592 00:32:58,433 --> 00:32:59,266 because you didn't wanna commit. 593 00:33:00,233 --> 00:33:01,100 So once you get a ring, like, everything's 594 00:33:01,667 --> 00:33:02,467 magically gonna change. 595 00:33:03,667 --> 00:33:04,867 -You're gonna become... -It's not gonna magically change. 596 00:33:05,867 --> 00:33:07,300 It's gonna -- it's gonna make me feel better. 597 00:33:08,667 --> 00:33:11,600 It's hard to commit to you if you can't commit 598 00:33:12,166 --> 00:33:13,166 to us being together. 599 00:33:14,133 --> 00:33:15,767 Babe, I want to commit to us being together. 600 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:17,166 -I love you. -You're not committing. 601 00:33:18,233 --> 00:33:19,000 You're just, like, running off to dancing already. 602 00:33:19,567 --> 00:33:20,867 Well, put a ring on it. 603 00:33:22,567 --> 00:33:26,166 I want this to work, but Pattiya's saying she wants 604 00:33:26,734 --> 00:33:28,000 to go back to the US. 605 00:33:29,066 --> 00:33:31,567 Thailand is kind of still in the back of my mind, 606 00:33:32,100 --> 00:33:33,867 because she left me. 607 00:33:34,900 --> 00:33:37,000 If things get tough, is Pattiya just gonna leave? 608 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,166 I just wanna know that you're gonna stick by me 609 00:33:41,633 --> 00:33:42,266 no matter what. 610 00:33:47,567 --> 00:33:51,600 You marrying him is the worst idea you've probably ever had. 611 00:33:52,433 --> 00:33:55,767 -Before, it looked so bad. -Still is. 612 00:33:56,633 --> 00:33:57,500 In the year that they've been together, 613 00:33:58,633 --> 00:34:00,867 I think Johny has cheated on her probably every week. 614 00:34:06,367 --> 00:34:08,200 [upbeat music playing] 615 00:34:12,567 --> 00:34:15,266 ♪ Your touch is all I need ♪ 616 00:34:15,700 --> 00:34:16,767 ♪ All I need ♪ 617 00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:20,166 ♪ Life is getting hard, love, let’s get away ♪ 618 00:34:20,867 --> 00:34:22,467 ♪ We’re chasing sun rays ♪ 619 00:34:23,767 --> 00:34:25,867 Don't hit me with your car. Please. 620 00:34:26,867 --> 00:34:29,000 Or do. 621 00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:30,300 [both] Bye. 622 00:34:32,667 --> 00:34:34,800 [Chloe singing] Girls’ night, girls’ night. 623 00:34:40,166 --> 00:34:42,767 [both] Hi! 624 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,567 My best friend Maria is finally back in town, and we're gonna 625 00:34:46,467 --> 00:34:47,300 get dinner with our other friend Camila, 626 00:34:48,300 --> 00:34:50,100 and I'm so excited to just have some girl time. 627 00:34:50,767 --> 00:34:51,700 -Hi! -How are you, Pookie? 628 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:54,400 -You look fabulous. -Oh, you too, queen. 629 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:58,000 They are my go-to girls to talk all my relationship gossips. 630 00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:00,166 They know everything from the highest high to, 631 00:35:00,734 --> 00:35:02,767 like, the lowest low. 632 00:35:03,333 --> 00:35:04,100 Did you guys get wine? 633 00:35:05,133 --> 00:35:05,500 -Did you order anything? -[Maria] Mm, I'm not sure. 634 00:35:06,266 --> 00:35:06,700 We already started with tequila. 635 00:35:07,233 --> 00:35:08,100 -Yeah. -[Chloe] Oh. 636 00:35:09,266 --> 00:35:11,567 Between my mom cutting me off financially and everything 637 00:35:12,667 --> 00:35:14,667 that's going on with Jonathan, I think we have a lot 638 00:35:15,100 --> 00:35:16,300 to catch up on. 639 00:35:17,900 --> 00:35:19,066 -I actually haven't seen you. This is so funny. -And the last time I saw you... 640 00:35:20,133 --> 00:35:21,000 -[Chloe] I barely saw you. -You were sick, so I... 641 00:35:21,900 --> 00:35:23,667 And then my phone broke. I got a new phone. 642 00:35:24,767 --> 00:35:25,867 -[Camila] Do you have a plan in Aruba? -[Chloe] No. 643 00:35:26,734 --> 00:35:28,100 -Oh, wow. -I haven't gotten that far. 644 00:35:29,133 --> 00:35:30,900 I got a plan with my mom now instead of my, like, 645 00:35:31,934 --> 00:35:32,967 own, 'cause she has the business one, so I can, 646 00:35:33,934 --> 00:35:35,166 like, internationally... -Oh, I have the same. 647 00:35:36,166 --> 00:35:37,166 -[Chloe]...roam it up. -I have the same, yeah. 648 00:35:38,133 --> 00:35:40,700 But my mom said, "You know, I'm not gonna keep, 649 00:35:41,367 --> 00:35:43,567 "you know, financing your... 650 00:35:44,367 --> 00:35:45,767 journey." She was like, "I'm not." 651 00:35:46,467 --> 00:35:47,166 Like, which is understandable. 652 00:35:48,266 --> 00:35:51,567 But now, it's like if my mom's not gonna help me out, 653 00:35:52,834 --> 00:35:54,467 we can't keep going to dinner every single night like we were 654 00:35:55,533 --> 00:35:57,767 when I was here, which is thousands and thousands 655 00:35:58,400 --> 00:35:59,467 of dollars at this point. 656 00:36:00,333 --> 00:36:01,867 [Camila] Can Jonathan give you that? 657 00:36:02,867 --> 00:36:04,166 -[Chloe] No. -No? 658 00:36:05,100 --> 00:36:05,700 He can't give me the -- he cannot give me 659 00:36:06,567 --> 00:36:06,867 the financial aspect that I'm used to. 660 00:36:07,333 --> 00:36:08,467 -He can't. -Oh. 661 00:36:09,467 --> 00:36:11,166 And he knows that. It's gonna be a lot harder. 662 00:36:12,567 --> 00:36:16,000 Are you willing to risk that? It's a lot. 663 00:36:17,033 --> 00:36:20,100 It's gonna take a lot of work. I'm OK with that. 664 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:22,000 I want to do that, 'cause I know at the end of the day, 665 00:36:22,834 --> 00:36:24,367 like, I do wanna be happy with him. 666 00:36:25,300 --> 00:36:27,400 -I want us to work. -How long has it been? 667 00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:30,467 -Not even a year or a year? -It's been a year almost now. 668 00:36:31,100 --> 00:36:32,100 You have love goggles on. 669 00:36:32,667 --> 00:36:33,800 It's going to be a year. 670 00:36:34,300 --> 00:36:36,066 [Camila speaking] 671 00:36:37,033 --> 00:36:38,000 I wish I could rip him off your face, like... 672 00:36:40,567 --> 00:36:42,000 [Chloe] I want us to work. 673 00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:43,900 I wanna build something together. 674 00:36:44,467 --> 00:36:45,567 I want a work permit. 675 00:36:46,367 --> 00:36:47,667 So we went to our first appointment 676 00:36:48,633 --> 00:36:50,300 with an immigration lawyer. -What happened? 677 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:51,400 Well... 678 00:36:53,300 --> 00:36:55,567 The easiest way for me to be legal... 679 00:36:56,867 --> 00:36:58,100 is to get married. 680 00:37:03,900 --> 00:37:06,000 -Do you wanna marry him, like? -I do. 681 00:37:06,667 --> 00:37:11,400 -I really do. -Chloe...no. 682 00:37:12,166 --> 00:37:14,867 You marrying him is the worst idea 683 00:37:15,700 --> 00:37:17,867 you've probably ever had in your life. 684 00:37:19,233 --> 00:37:20,767 -You see yourself long-term settling down with him? -[Chloe] I do. 685 00:37:21,900 --> 00:37:23,166 But you find out about a random girl every single week. 686 00:37:24,467 --> 00:37:27,467 He wants a relationship while he's out cheating. 687 00:37:28,900 --> 00:37:31,867 Remember that day that we were at, um, 688 00:37:32,867 --> 00:37:34,300 Clubhouse, and he said he was at work all day. 689 00:37:35,500 --> 00:37:37,000 And his coworkers were like, "Jonathan didn't work today." 690 00:37:38,900 --> 00:37:42,000 Wasn't his location at Jolly Pirates because Keyner 691 00:37:42,433 --> 00:37:43,367 has his phone? 692 00:37:44,533 --> 00:37:45,200 Right, because Keyner has his phone and covers for him. 693 00:37:45,734 --> 00:37:46,367 [Chloe] They cover. 694 00:37:47,700 --> 00:37:50,200 There's definitely been a few other times 695 00:37:51,433 --> 00:37:54,066 where I've questioned where Jonathan was, what he was doing, 696 00:37:54,967 --> 00:37:56,166 where I thought something was going on, 697 00:37:57,100 --> 00:37:58,767 but a lot of the times I couldn't prove it. 698 00:38:00,066 --> 00:38:02,467 So I understand their side, but I feel like since I've been 699 00:38:03,300 --> 00:38:04,367 here that Jonathan is being faithful. 700 00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:09,467 I feel like -- before it looked, it looked so bad. 701 00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:11,867 Like, it was bad before, it was. 702 00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:14,567 That's -- you see, you're making an excuse for him again. 703 00:38:15,567 --> 00:38:15,767 -[Chloe] I don't wanna make... -It looked so... 704 00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:17,600 -No, it was... -It was bad. 705 00:38:17,967 --> 00:38:18,700 Still is. 706 00:38:19,867 --> 00:38:22,767 I think we're moving in a better direction. 707 00:38:23,667 --> 00:38:25,367 Like, I think we've had growth, but no. 708 00:38:26,266 --> 00:38:28,667 -Like, our... -So he has been cheating? 709 00:38:29,367 --> 00:38:32,400 -Lately, no. -What's changed? 710 00:38:33,367 --> 00:38:34,867 -[Chloe] I mean... -Is he just lying better? 711 00:38:36,567 --> 00:38:39,300 Chloe has talked about marrying Johny before, 712 00:38:40,266 --> 00:38:42,900 but I never thought it was actually serious. 713 00:38:43,867 --> 00:38:46,000 'Cause everybody on the island knows that Johny 714 00:38:46,667 --> 00:38:47,867 has a reputation with girls. 715 00:38:48,934 --> 00:38:50,367 [Camila] He's proud to have a lot of girls on him. 716 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:52,500 I think it feeds his ego. 717 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:54,467 In the year that they've been together, 718 00:38:55,266 --> 00:38:56,500 I think Johny has cheated on her, 719 00:38:57,033 --> 00:38:58,166 probably every week. 720 00:38:59,367 --> 00:39:00,300 [Camila] You know what he's doing, yeah. 721 00:39:01,233 --> 00:39:02,266 You know what he's doing, you know, like? 722 00:39:03,500 --> 00:39:04,967 -Are you willing to put up with that? -[Maria] Is this the... 723 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:06,667 -No. -Right. 724 00:39:07,533 --> 00:39:09,800 So this is the person you wanna marry? 725 00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:13,166 What I am baffled about is that you're just OK 726 00:39:13,967 --> 00:39:17,000 with what he says. "OK, I love you. 727 00:39:17,533 --> 00:39:18,367 "I wanna marry you." 728 00:39:19,300 --> 00:39:20,066 "How about you don't [bleep] cheat on me?" 729 00:39:21,367 --> 00:39:24,600 What would it take for you to be like, 730 00:39:25,734 --> 00:39:27,667 "OK, actually, I'm gonna take my best friend's advice, 731 00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:30,166 "my mom's advice, everybody else's advice, 732 00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:32,967 that this is a bad idea?" 733 00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:37,000 If something were to happen, I would pack my [bleep] so fast. 734 00:39:38,266 --> 00:39:40,000 Just prepare yourself. That's all I'm saying. 735 00:39:47,166 --> 00:39:49,767 [Anthony] Next time on "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way." 736 00:39:50,333 --> 00:39:51,000 [both speaking French] 737 00:39:56,367 --> 00:39:58,867 Hearing from Anthony and from my mother, 738 00:39:59,567 --> 00:40:00,667 "You focus too much on career." 739 00:40:01,633 --> 00:40:03,000 The thing is, like, we still need to provide 740 00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:05,100 and pay the bills. We're not rich. 741 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:06,400 [speaking French] 742 00:40:13,767 --> 00:40:14,767 How you doing? 743 00:40:15,500 --> 00:40:16,467 -[Jim] Good. -This is Madelein. 744 00:40:16,900 --> 00:40:17,767 Hi, Madelein. 745 00:40:18,967 --> 00:40:20,800 Madelein calling the wedding off three, four times, I mean, 746 00:40:21,667 --> 00:40:23,867 that's not a very good indicator going 747 00:40:24,300 --> 00:40:25,467 into a marriage. 748 00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:27,967 You're gonna be marrying my son, but the three weeks that 749 00:40:28,467 --> 00:40:29,266 he's been here... 750 00:40:31,667 --> 00:40:33,066 Is this really what you want? 751 00:40:36,166 --> 00:40:38,567 You haven't really changed doing what you do. 752 00:40:40,567 --> 00:40:42,667 It's just a matter of time until he just does it again. 753 00:40:43,333 --> 00:40:43,967 Like, it's -- it's a habit. 754 00:40:44,767 --> 00:40:45,500 You didn't physically do anything. 755 00:40:45,967 --> 00:40:46,667 [Johny] Exactly. 756 00:40:47,667 --> 00:40:48,667 But you should not have messaged another girl. 757 00:40:51,266 --> 00:40:52,266 I'm not getting into this. 758 00:40:56,367 --> 00:40:59,000 I just feel like it's one thing after another. 759 00:41:00,133 --> 00:41:02,500 And your mom is complaining about how I do things. 760 00:41:03,066 --> 00:41:04,000 I can't live like this. 761 00:41:04,433 --> 00:41:05,467 [Sumit speaking] 762 00:41:11,700 --> 00:41:12,900 [both speaking Hindi] 763 00:41:16,767 --> 00:41:18,266 [Jenny] I can't take this anymore. 764 00:41:19,100 --> 00:41:20,867 There's no making this woman happy. 765 00:41:21,300 --> 00:41:22,200 [speaking Hindi] 766 00:41:23,867 --> 00:41:25,467 Someone needs to put her in her place. 767 00:41:26,033 --> 00:41:26,667 [both speaking Hindi]