[Sumit] Previously on "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way."
Oh!
God, she kicked my ass in tennis.
I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
-Oh, you're joking. -[Pattiya] No.
Every [bleep] day you have to talk to your mom.
It's [bleep] ridiculous.
If you're worried about that, why aren't you worried
about your $20,000 debt that you have?
[Pattiya] Things are clearly not going well,
and there's something that I need to talk to Dylan about,
and I think it might make it worse.
How long would it take if we did file
the partnership papers for me to be able to work?
Yeah, that's a long time.
[lawyer] That's a long time.
If you're married, there's no problem.
[Chloe] Jonathan and I have talked about getting married,
but there is no way that it was going to be
as soon as tomorrow.
Well, I think at the end of the day, it's something
to think about so we can be together in the end.
[Greta] I don't...
think I love you anymore.
Nothing could have prepared me for those words.
That's the saddest part. There was no fight.
No.
I think you should have a talk with her.
[retches]
I told you so many times, we even be careful
when we have sex.
Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
Yes.
[chill music playing]
♪ I don't know, but I'm not scared ♪
♪ Maybe we could take a look at the possibilities ♪
[Dylan] After tennis, Pattiya and I had a big fight
about my relationship with my mom.
I don't want the constant stress and the arguments.
So I told her I can sort of meet her halfway
with some boundaries, but my mom's going to be
a part of our lives.
So Pattiya needs to stop letting it get to her
so much, you know?
-Good day, mate. -[Chris] How you going?
-How the bloody hell are you? -Well, long time no see.
That's a strong handshake you've got there, mate.
Yeah, I like that.
-After you, kind sir. -Oh, alright.
Ever since Pattiya arrived in town, like, every day
she keeps asking me, "When are you gonna propose?"
Good day, guys.
I'm here to get a ring polished.
Certainly.
[Dylan] So today, I'm going with my buddy Chris
to a jewelry store to get the engagement ring
that I gave Pattiya shined up,
so that when I'm ready to propose, it looks brand new.
-[jeweler] Beautiful. -[Dylan] You like that, do you?
Family heirloom?
[Dylan] Uh, not quite.
-He did actually give it to his partner... -Yes.
[Chris] ...before, and then he took it back.
-[Dylan] That's right. -[Chris] Mh-hmm.
[jeweler] Mh-hmm.
It's a complicated relationship.
The first time I proposed to Pattiya,
it was very lackluster.
You know, we were in bed, it was Christmas morning,
and I just slipped the ring on her finger,
and she said, "yes."
I mean, I feel like that's got a bit of history behind it.
Are you sure you don't wanna look at other rings?
[Dylan] No, I don't.
There is so much history and so many memories.
So like, it still has a sentimental value.
I definitely don't wanna trade it in.
-You don't wanna trade it in? -Definitely not.
[jeweler] Perfect.
And then give it a clean and polish.
Perfect. Let's go grab a coffee.
[Chris] Alright.
After I proposed, we'd be breaking up
every three or four weeks.
And, um, at one point, Pattiya's spending got so bad,
she started selling all her jewelry just to fund
her shopping habit.
So I took the ring back.
She saw that as, you know, we're no longer engaged,
which is fair enough.
-OK, so the ring. -[Dylan] Yes.
Ten years ago, you gave her the ring.
And you've been holding on to that ring ever since.
Yeah.
You haven't proposed to her again?
No, 'cause I'm -- I'm -- I'm trying to fix all these issues.
I don't know, 12 years.
I feel like if you haven't fixed something after 12 years,
how many more years is it gonna take for you to "fix?"
I'm not giving up.
Hmm, OK.
I'm just worried about the personality clash.
-You live together in Thailand. -[Dylan] Yes.
So what happened there?
Why -- why did that not work out?
In the beginning, it was magical.
And then after a while,
she was miserable.
I wasn't giving her enough money.
And she just -- she's hated it.
I just thought she would be happy living that life,
that retired... -[Chris] Lifestyle.
...beach lifestyle, but she -- that wasn't enough for her.
Her life has been fast paced.
Fast money, fast living.
How is she gonna be happy here?
Long-term? Honestly, think about that.
She's in a foreign country.
She's got no family or friends here.
She's just gonna be happy hanging around in Launceston?
But the thing is, there's a certain limit.
You can't do that all your life.
-You know, she's approaching an age. -An age, yeah, sure.
She's getting older.
She can't live that fast-paced life forever.
I don't know, once you're used to something,
it's -- it's hard to, um,
to change, you know?
I've known Dylan always to be pretty stubborn,
like he won't change what he eats, for example.
It's only chicken and rice.
I try to get him to eat a cookie.
Wouldn't even need a cookie. I mean, he's pretty stubborn.
He won't -- he won't change anything, so I'm worried
that Dylan's stubbornness is causing him to live in a fantasy
and not deal with reality.
I don't think a ring on the finger is going
to be the thing that fixes everything.
I love her.
I just can't see myself with anyone else.
I'm not saying -- I'm not saying...
I'm not even attracted to anyone else.
-I just want her. -[Chris] Alright.
Look.
I'm only saying this
because I care about you as a friend.
I love Pattiya. I know she makes you very happy.
But your idea of happily- ever-after
is a bit delusional.
I don't think you've really thought about the long-term plan.
[Dylan] Chris's concerns are valid.
Pattiya and I still have a lot of issues to work through,
but I am feeling optimistic about the future with Pattiya.
She's come to Australia, and she's given it a good go,
and she's trying to resolve things with my mother.
So I think that's massive, really.
I feel like it is different now.
[Chris] Think about it.
[dramatic music playing]
[Luke] I'm -- I'm confused.
Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
[Madelein speaking]
[Luke] Holy [bleep]!
This stresses me the [bleep] out right now.
You don't know how stressful, how scared and stressful I am!
I -- I didn't expect you to say that you actually think
that you're pregnant.
[Madelein] I'm really, like, so scared about if he's positive...
[Luke] Stability is the only thing that I really ever wanted.
[Madelein speaking]
[Luke] I hope that we can work on this relationship,
but right now I'm not confident that we're -- we're working.
We talked yesterday, "Hey, like, are we compatible?
Can we not fight?"
And all we've done is continue to fight.
-Who made the fight today? -[Luke] I didn't try and fight today.
-No? No? -[Luke] I -- I said, "please."
I don't wanna argue.
-Do you wanna go try this? -[Madelein] No.
Leave me alone.
I wanna know.
[speaking Spanish]
[Luke] Let’s please try and be happy about this,
please, can we take the test? -[Madelein speaking]
If you are pregnant...
and we're gonna have a baby,
then this means that we're having a family, Madelein.
Can we please take this test?
Please.
Please, Madelein.
This is a good opportunity for you to show me
that you're ready to really take a serious step.
If you wouldn't put a ring on my finger today, in a sense,
you're not in love with me, like, you're in love
with also an idea.
I feel like this is a test if I'm actually
wife material or not.
You broke his heart, Greta. You might think it's done.
But he wonders whether you just need some time.
I know.
[upbeat music playing]
Such a beautiful beach, huh?
It is really pretty.
It's been a few days since Jonathan and I have met
with the lawyers and found out
that the fastest and easiest way for me to stay here
is to get married, and we're still kind
of processing that information.
I don't think your leg can support me.
[Johny] Oh, really? Come on.
-[Chloe] I've been eating a lot. -Yeah? Come on, big butt.
[Chloe] I don't want to step on your shoe.
-[Johny] Let's go. -[Chloe] Ow!
I thought giving up everything and moving to another country
was a lot, but adding this on top of it, is like, bang.
Do we miss the sunset, or is it just cloudy?
It's a bit cloudy today.
Anyway, me and Maria are gonna have
meatball night tomorrow.
What does "meatball night" mean?
Are you gonna actually go to a restaurant
and eat meatballs, or are you gonna, like --?
It's just like a girly, fun night.
Like, it's just where we can just act stupid
and be meatballs. Go to dinner, have a drink.
-OK. -And be -- it's called a "meatball night."
One -- one drink?
Have a drink.
Maria is my best friend on the island.
Jonathan doesn't like when I go out with Maria because we like
to drink. We like to be stupid.
We like to randomly karaoke.
We like to, like, climb palm trees and just do
really harmless things.
With that being said, if I'm being unrealistic
about something that happened with Jonathan, Maria is
always the one to reel me in and be like,
"Don't put up with it."
And I think that makes Jonathan a little nervous.
I don't know where we're gonna go to dinner yet.
Maybe one of our go-to spots.
Yeah, well, we'll find a spot where we can go to dinner.
Well, I think me and Maria are just gonna go
to dinner, and then... -I'm not gonna go?
That's why it's a meatball night.
Oh.
We were gonna invite you afterwards.
Mh-hmm?
Well, no, I don't want you to be, like, worried
about it, you know?
I know, but I have a lot of worries when Maria is here
because when you guys get together, it's a real
get together, you know what I mean?
You guys go all out.
Yeah, but I think I've chilled out a lot.
[Johny] Maria, I met a few years back.
We had the same friends, you know,
we'd hang out sometimes.
When I introduced Chloe, they clicked automatically.
It was like the next day, Chloe was telling me,
"I'm gonna hang out with Maria every day now."
The thing about Maria is that she works abroad,
so when she comes to Aruba, she only wants to look
for party, you know, and I don't like that at all.
Now that, you know, you're living here
in the island and stuff, this is a good opportunity
for you to show me that you're mature and ready
to really take a serious step.
You know, I'm not gonna go out and, you know, go dance on top
of the bar and, you know, be crazy.
Like, that's not something that's respectable
from either of our parts. Like, I wouldn't do that.
I just don't want you to wanna change,
like, so much about me to the point where, like,
like, if you wouldn't put a ring on my finger today, in a sense,
you're not in love with me.
Like, you're in love with also an idea of what,
like, the future can look like when you have to be OK
with me now also. -OK.
It's just, um, I'm used to you when you're going out
going heavy, you know what I mean?
Right, and I think that's more vacation mode.
OK, so just -- I wanna see how this mode's gonna be, OK?
So this is the opportunity
to show me, like, what kind of mood
you're in, OK? -[Chloe] OK.
I know Jonathan doesn't like that I like to go out
and have drinks,
but I feel like this is more of a test if I'm actually
wife material or not.
Now that we're talking about it more and more, I can't really
tell if Jonathan wants this or not.
I feel like he's throwing up all these little...
little roadblocks and, like, high obstacles that I can't
jump over to stall the process.
-Gotta let me live a little. -OK.
Understood. Just don't go too crazy, OK?
I'm not gonna go too crazy. I'm still a little crazy.
You are.
-Very crazy. -[Chloe] From one to ten?
-Nine. -I wouldn't say that about you.
-What would you say about me? -Ten.
You're so bad.
♪ My heart, it wanders through the night ♪
♪ Searching for the star ♪
♪ The starlight ♪
♪ Searching for the starlight ♪
♪ Ooh ♪
♪ Will I find my way back home ♪
[Greta] I was able to fall asleep, but I did wake up a few times.
I was just kind of...
like, spiraling about everything that...
happened.
The other night, I ended my engagement with Matthew,
and slipping the engagement ring off my finger
made the breakup feel very real to me.
And I am filled with immense sadness
because an engagement is a promise,
and I am breaking a promise, and that doesn't feel very good.
Matthew's dad has texted me and wants to talk with me.
I feel really nervous about it because I don't know how
he feels about the breakup.
I -- it's gonna be difficult, because I know
it's gonna be emotional...
but I -- I really do hope that the conversation ends amicably.
Matthew's parents were so excited for me to move
and to join the family,
and it really makes me feel guilty.
[sad music playing]
-Hi, Greta. -[Greta] Hey, Mark.
-How are you? -I'm OK.
-How are you? -OK.
-Come here. -I'm sorry.
Don't be, you don't have to be sorry about it.
I just thought we'd, um...
just catch up with each other,
'cause obviously a lot's happened.
And I just wanna try and find out what...
where you are,
because I can't understand what --
what's happened,
and -- and I'm struggling to -- to put it together.
Matthew's isn't...
I've never seen him like it, Greta.
And I'm -- I'm worried about him because...
he loves you. -I know.
[Mark] He does.
And you -- and you broke his heart, Greta, literally.
[Greta] That's, like, the worst part about it all,
and that's why I was, like, struggling so much,
because, like, I, like,
really don't wanna hurt him, because...
It's so difficult to explain.
I did love him so much...
and I was so excited to talk to him all the time,
I was so excited to see him, and so...
[sighs]...I'm confused, like, why I don't...
feel like I love him, like, in love with him.
Is that because you've had so much happening in the last --
last few months?
You forgot how to live almost, haven't you?
'Cause you've been studying, studying, studying, studying.
[Greta] I mean...
I know that there was a shift because I felt like
we were not evolving into people that were still
compatible with each other.
And -- and I wish, like, I could change my feelings.
Like, he's a great person.
Like, he, like, I respect him so much.
He's, like, helped me so much in life.
Like, I truly just, like, only want him to be happy.
He wonders whether you just need some time,
'cause you don't forget, you just traveled across
halfway over the world.
You've probably not slept properly.
He's prepared to give you your time and your space.
Yeah.
What worries me is that you've not had time together.
You've not -- not been on your own.
So yeah, you might think that, yeah, it's done, and --
and -- and you say it is,
but let's be honest, it's only been four days.
It's -- it's not been given a chance
to -- to go any further because...
I know it seems, like, sudden, and I know this just sounds,
like, crazy, but I just know it in my instinct,
like, that -- that, like, he's not my person.
It's such a shame, you know.
And, like, my honest truth, which, like, you can
accept or not...
I just, like, you know, I can't make him happy.
And I just, like, hate that I did this to you guys,
and you guys, like, welcomed me with open arms.
Like, it really meant the world to me, and, like,
thank you, because... -We did too, we --
we loved you, Greta.
-Yeah. -We really thought a lot of you.
I do think I've got clarity from Greta.
I don't think there's any hope for Matthew...
um, and Greta at this stage.
I don't understand it.
I can see she's rationalizing it in her mind, why she's doing it,
and she's justifying it.
But I'm the one who's got to pick up the pieces with my son.
Matthew's always loved you, and he always probably will
for a long time, still to come.
Just wish it had a different ending.
Yeah.
[Madelein speaking]
[Luke] We're struggling to cross the finish line
on us getting married,
let alone starting a family together.
[Madelein] I really so scared.
[tense music playing]
[Madelein speaking]
I'm scared [bleep]less.
I mean, we're struggling to cross the finish line
on us getting married, let alone starting
a family together.
What do you wanna be?
Honestly, I think, like, right now, the right time
for us to have a baby? Probably not.
But it's something that I want with you.
You are the person that I want to be the mother of my children
because I love you.
And I think that you would be a very good mom,
whether it's now or in five years.
It's not gonna change how I feel.
[suspenseful music plays]
What does this mean?
Usually this says pregnant or not pregnant,
a smile or a sad face or something,
this has one line.
What does one line mean?
-[Madelein speaking]. -[Luke] This is negative?
But you should be crying, you don't cry?
That you're negative or positive?
[Madelein speaking]
[Luke] It doesn't change how I feel.
I love you and I want this relationship to work.
Yeah, me too, but in the same way...
[Luke] I just want you to be happy.
And I don't know that I can make you happy.
I try really hard and I feel like I fail all the time.
You try so hard?
What about the conversation today?
This is gonna be my name.
Hmmm, OK.
I don't care about money. Other than the fact that...
-[Madelein] Don't! -[Luke] Other than...
You every single day mention money.
Every single day mention, "No, you don't push any money
in this project..."
[Luke] I value everything that you do.
But the fact of the matter is...
I try as much as I can to provide for you.
And if you would let me be a [bleep] man
and make manly decisions,
I'd really [bleep] appreciate it.
I don't ask much of you.
Just let me do what I need to do to make
our dreams a [bleep] reality.
[Madelein speaking]
At the end of the day, I really love you, Luke.
I know you do.
And I love you more.
But when I tell him, "Maybe I think I get pregnant,"
and he reaction like, "No, I really want a family with you"
made me more comfortable about everything's gonna to be good.
And I need to trust him.
I just want you to be happy.
And I'd like for us to be happy together.
[speaking Spanish]
I know.
Absolutely.
If I'm being honest, after being here,
sometimes I miss it.
I want to go back home for like
six months...
[Dylan] You only just got here.
♪ The way we move is sick, so call a doctor ♪
♪ And [indistinct] inspire me ♪
♪ [indistinct] ♪
♪ Step back-y back ♪
♪ I need to move the floor ♪
Wow!
♪ Whoa, this is how you do it like a pro ♪
♪ Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey ♪
[sighs] Alright-y. Look at that.
I've been here a couple of weeks,
and I've been complaining about how there's nothing to do here.
But tonight, Dylan's taking me to a strip club.
I'm excited because that's more my vibe.
I had no idea Tasmania had a strip club.
There's nightlife here in Tasmania.
Something that's open past ten, OMG!
♪ My love for you has brought me out here ♪
♪ [indistinct] ♪
♪ My love for you has brought me out here ♪
-[Pattiya] Do you think you can do that? -[Dylan] Definitely not.
I know, right?
Except you were wearing a little bit less
than what you're wearing now.
[Pattiya laughs] I know, more clothing.
-Yeah. -This is awesome.
It's a great club.
-Good day, good day. -[Pattiya] Hey, beautiful.
Oh, my gosh, she's hot.
She's definitely good with the pole.
-I do. -[Dylan speaking]
This is the happiest I've seen you since we got here.
-Shut up. -[Dylan] Seriously.
-Shut up. -[Dylan] Out of everything we've done.
Yeah, babe, you know why I love it?
-[Dylan] Why? Tell me. -It's because this is my life.
I've been doing it for 37 years.
It's like my -- my -- my second home.
You know what it's like to perform.
-I love it, yes. -[Pattiya] You feel good.
You get all the, you know, the compliments is awesome.
-This is -- this is -- it's an adrenaline rush. -[Pattiya] Yes, exactly.
Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
-Absolutely. -Why?
Well, even though, you know, you were happy doing it
and it'll lit you up,
it's still not my favorite thought
to have you dancing naked for other guys.
-It's not my favorite thing. -But you know it's just work.
Yeah, but I'd rather you do a different job.
I get that he doesn't like me being around other men,
but it's just a job, and the money is fantastic.
And if I'm being honest after being here,
sometimes I miss it.
It's gonna be hard for me
not making this kind of money, you know?
I'm gonna be totally relying on you.
[Dylan speaking]
It scares me sometimes.
I'm just gonna have to look at, you know,
some of the luxuries that you enjoy in Dallas.
You know, all the online shopping
and the excessive spending. That's gonna have to stop.
You're worried about the financial stuff.
You're worried about the money, the debt.
So I just think I want to go back to the States,
[Dylan speaking]
You only just got here...
To be honest, I know that it's fun for you,
and I dance too,
but like...
-You know what I mean? -No, I work with another girl.
But I work with another girl, so always me and another girl.
[Dylan] OK, well, sometimes -- sometimes you don't.
-But the thing is... -90% of the time I do.
-So the thing is... -Very rare.
-It bothers me a little bit. -Sorry.
[Dylan] Even though, you know, we're both strippers,
it's a very sensitive topic and makes me look like
a hypocrite, but I feel like it is different in a way.
I'm up on stage with a room full of women,
but with Pattiya's, she goes out, she finds a guy
and then she takes him back to a VIP room.
I know they're both entertainment,
they're both stripping, it's both a transaction,
but they're two different things.
And so, I don't like the thought
of Pattiya going back to dancing.
It kinda feels like an excuse just to leave Tasmania.
It's like, "This place sucks, it's too quiet, I don't wanna be
"near your family, so I'll just go back
and dance in the US."
Maybe Chris's concerns are valid.
Maybe Pattiya is not gonna change.
I just sometimes don't think that I'm enough for you.
-The lifestyle -- well, I know that. -[Pattiya] You are enough.
I know that I'm enough, but I -- sometimes I think that
you're addicted to that lifestyle,
that easy, fast money.
-And that's kinda what I'm scared of, because... -Babe.
I retired you in Thailand
and you were just completely bored.
-I was bored. -[Dylan] All you --
all you talked about the whole time was going back
to dancing. -I did, I did.
I thought I was gonna get a ring there, and you didn't
give it to me. And I was like, "You know what?
What's the point? I'm done."
If you really love me, you should just stick
by my side no matter what.
Listen, part of our problem in the past was
because you didn't wanna commit.
So once you get a ring, like, everything's
magically gonna change.
-You're gonna become... -It's not gonna magically change.
It's gonna -- it's gonna make me feel better.
It's hard to commit to you if you can't commit
to us being together.
Babe, I want to commit to us being together.
-I love you. -You're not committing.
You're just, like, running off to dancing already.
Well, put a ring on it.
I want this to work, but Pattiya's saying she wants
to go back to the US.
Thailand is kind of still in the back of my mind,
because she left me.
If things get tough, is Pattiya just gonna leave?
I just wanna know that you're gonna stick by me
no matter what.
You marrying him is the worst idea you've probably ever had.
-Before, it looked so bad. -Still is.
In the year that they've been together,
I think Johny has cheated on her probably every week.
[upbeat music playing]
♪ Your touch is all I need ♪
♪ All I need ♪
♪ Life is getting hard, love, let’s get away ♪
♪ We’re chasing sun rays ♪
Don't hit me with your car. Please.
Or do.
[both] Bye.
[Chloe singing] Girls’ night, girls’ night.
[both] Hi!
My best friend Maria is finally back in town, and we're gonna
get dinner with our other friend Camila,
and I'm so excited to just have some girl time.
-Hi! -How are you, Pookie?
-You look fabulous. -Oh, you too, queen.
They are my go-to girls to talk all my relationship gossips.
They know everything from the highest high to,
like, the lowest low.
Did you guys get wine?
-Did you order anything? -[Maria] Mm, I'm not sure.
We already started with tequila.
-Yeah. -[Chloe] Oh.
Between my mom cutting me off financially and everything
that's going on with Jonathan, I think we have a lot
to catch up on.
-I actually haven't seen you. This is so funny. -And the last time I saw you...
-[Chloe] I barely saw you. -You were sick, so I...
And then my phone broke. I got a new phone.
-[Camila] Do you have a plan in Aruba? -[Chloe] No.
-Oh, wow. -I haven't gotten that far.
I got a plan with my mom now instead of my, like,
own, 'cause she has the business one, so I can,
like, internationally... -Oh, I have the same.
-[Chloe]...roam it up. -I have the same, yeah.
But my mom said, "You know, I'm not gonna keep,
"you know, financing your...
journey." She was like, "I'm not."
Like, which is understandable.
But now, it's like if my mom's not gonna help me out,
we can't keep going to dinner every single night like we were
when I was here, which is thousands and thousands
of dollars at this point.
[Camila] Can Jonathan give you that?
-[Chloe] No. -No?
He can't give me the -- he cannot give me
the financial aspect that I'm used to.
-He can't. -Oh.
And he knows that. It's gonna be a lot harder.
Are you willing to risk that? It's a lot.
It's gonna take a lot of work. I'm OK with that.
I want to do that, 'cause I know at the end of the day,
like, I do wanna be happy with him.
-I want us to work. -How long has it been?
-Not even a year or a year? -It's been a year almost now.
You have love goggles on.
It's going to be a year.
[Camila speaking]
I wish I could rip him off your face, like...
[Chloe] I want us to work.
I wanna build something together.
I want a work permit.
So we went to our first appointment
with an immigration lawyer. -What happened?
Well...
The easiest way for me to be legal...
is to get married.
-Do you wanna marry him, like? -I do.
-I really do. -Chloe...no.
You marrying him is the worst idea
you've probably ever had in your life.
-You see yourself long-term settling down with him? -[Chloe] I do.
But you find out about a random girl every single week.
He wants a relationship while he's out cheating.
Remember that day that we were at, um,
Clubhouse, and he said he was at work all day.
And his coworkers were like, "Jonathan didn't work today."
Wasn't his location at Jolly Pirates because Keyner
has his phone?
Right, because Keyner has his phone and covers for him.
[Chloe] They cover.
There's definitely been a few other times
where I've questioned where Jonathan was, what he was doing,
where I thought something was going on,
but a lot of the times I couldn't prove it.
So I understand their side, but I feel like since I've been
here that Jonathan is being faithful.
I feel like -- before it looked, it looked so bad.
Like, it was bad before, it was.
That's -- you see, you're making an excuse for him again.
-[Chloe] I don't wanna make... -It looked so...
-No, it was... -It was bad.
Still is.
I think we're moving in a better direction.
Like, I think we've had growth, but no.
-Like, our... -So he has been cheating?
-Lately, no. -What's changed?
-[Chloe] I mean... -Is he just lying better?
Chloe has talked about marrying Johny before,
but I never thought it was actually serious.
'Cause everybody on the island knows that Johny
has a reputation with girls.
[Camila] He's proud to have a lot of girls on him.
I think it feeds his ego.
In the year that they've been together,
I think Johny has cheated on her,
probably every week.
[Camila] You know what he's doing, yeah.
You know what he's doing, you know, like?
-Are you willing to put up with that? -[Maria] Is this the...
-No. -Right.
So this is the person you wanna marry?
What I am baffled about is that you're just OK
with what he says. "OK, I love you.
"I wanna marry you."
"How about you don't [bleep] cheat on me?"
What would it take for you to be like,
"OK, actually, I'm gonna take my best friend's advice,
"my mom's advice, everybody else's advice,
that this is a bad idea?"
If something were to happen, I would pack my [bleep] so fast.
Just prepare yourself. That's all I'm saying.
[Anthony] Next time on "90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way."
[both speaking French]
Hearing from Anthony and from my mother,
"You focus too much on career."
The thing is, like, we still need to provide
and pay the bills. We're not rich.
[speaking French]
How you doing?
-[Jim] Good. -This is Madelein.
Hi, Madelein.
Madelein calling the wedding off three, four times, I mean,
that's not a very good indicator going
into a marriage.
You're gonna be marrying my son, but the three weeks that
he's been here...
Is this really what you want?
You haven't really changed doing what you do.
It's just a matter of time until he just does it again.
Like, it's -- it's a habit.
You didn't physically do anything.
[Johny] Exactly.
But you should not have messaged another girl.
I'm not getting into this.
I just feel like it's one thing after another.
And your mom is complaining about how I do things.
I can't live like this.
[Sumit speaking]
[both speaking Hindi]
[Jenny] I can't take this anymore.
There's no making this woman happy.
[speaking Hindi]
Someone needs to put her in her place.
[both speaking Hindi]