[Chloe] Previously on "90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way."
[speaking French]
[Anthony] Since we've been in France, everything's very, very heavy.
So I'm just looking to cheer her up a little bit.
What the [bleep]?
[speaking French]
He's taking the jokes way too far.
My daughter living here, that means I need to put
a lot of trust in you.
And I feel like it's too much of a struggle here for her.
I am worried about Chloe being in the hands of someone
that had infidelity.
Show me that you can take care of yourself here, please.
Alright.
I think when she feels the difference between having
my financial support and not, a little bit of reality is
going to settle in.
[phone ringing]
She's constantly invading our relationship.
She calls every day.
It's not normal.
[Dylan speaking]
I know, but baby...
[Matthew sighs]
I don't think I love you anymore.
[sighs]
[upbeat music playing]
♪ Sunset over canyons ♪
♪ I can see the moonlight whenever I close my eyes ♪
♪ I've been feeling like a cowboy on a prairie ♪
♪ walking tall and feeling a little scary ♪
[Jo] Uh, we'll just have a little warm up first.
-OK. -[Jo] You ready?
[Pattiya] Yes.
[intense music playing]
-[Jo] Sorry, a bit hard. -OK.
Oh!
[Jo] Don't worry about the ball.
OK.
-You want me to keep going? -Yeah.
[Pattiya] I've been in Tasmania for a few weeks now,
and Dylan's mom
invited me to go play tennis with her today.
Ah!
And I kinda feel a little nervous
about being with her alone,
because I still have a lot of issues
with how close they are.
I've got one, Pattiya.
-Ah. -[Jo] 30, love.
I feel like by her calling him every day, she influences him.
She contaminates Dylan's head.
I think she's the reason why we are not married today.
[Pattiya] Sorry.
OK.
-Ah! -[Jo] My point.
-40, love. -I suck!
Oh, God, she kicked my ass in tennis.
[bleep]
Oh, that was embarrassing, just, like, oh, God.
-Are you thirsty? -Yeah, I'm thirsty.
-[Pattiya] Let's go. -[Jo] Let's have a break.
I'm definitely gonna take this opportunity to talk to Jo
because Dylan does not have my back
when it comes to boundaries.
And if he's not gonna fix it, I will.
Well, thank you for inviting me out here to play tennis
with you today.
-It's a beautiful place. -[Jo] Oh, thanks for coming.
Yeah.
To be honest with you, Jo, like, the other night at dinner,
I wanted to say so much, but I'm like, "Oh, my God,
is it too soon to be talking to her about this?" -No.
[Pattiya] Because I don't want to come off as...
I'm very open, I'm -- listen, I'm very easygoing.
Any other issues, just, well, bring them up.
Well...
how -- how did you feel when you knew that Dylan said,
"Mom, Pattiya's gonna be moving here," even though
you knew I hated you and wanted nothing to do with you?
Yeah, I was excited for -- for him because he was excited
about it, but he did say,
"Mom, Pattiya doesn't wanna be anywhere near, live anywhere
near your house or dad's house."
-Did you say that? -I did.
[Jo] Yeah.
So I was concerned about that.
I said, "Well, how's that gonna work?"
I know, that's -- that's -- I know that sounds horrible.
-It's how I felt. -Yeah, I know.
-I thought it was horrible too. -[Pattiya] I felt horrible, too.
[Jo] That's just screwy.
Because I don't mean you any harm.
-[Pattiya] I know, I know. -I want you both to be happy.
No, seriously, I do.
Oh, I did because I just, you know, the -- the things
that I thought you said about me was horrible.
Yeah, no, well, I didn't say it.
The main two things has been your hatred for me
and the spending.
[Pattiya] Well, I stopped spending...
You say you've stopped spending.
You still haven't paid the debt off.
Well, that's because Dylan asked me to move here.
So it's Dylan's fault again.
He did say you are more than happy for Dylan to sell
one of the properties to help you out.
Yes, I feel -- I feel like he owes me that.
Well, I think that's terrible that you have that expectation
that he's to sell one of the properties.
-That's obviously for the both of you to sort out... -I -- yeah.
But I really would advise him against selling the property.
This is what I'm talking about when he shares too much
information with his mom about us.
Now she's going to tell him
to not sell one of his properties.
First of all, it's, like, none of her business.
She shouldn't be putting her two cents in.
I really need for her to back off.
I wanted to say something else.
In order for me to feel comfortable here,
I need to set boundaries.
Like, maybe not call Dylan every day, three times a day.
-So that's still bothering you? -Yes.
-Oh, my God. But I thought we got past that. -[Pattiya] Yeah.
Yes, we did get past that, and I want to --
But we haven't if you're still on to it.
-[Pattiya] Yeah, yeah, yeah, and I -- I wanna -- -So, yeah.
[Pattiya] Yeah, I wanna, like, get past it.
It just makes me mad.
Because Dylan will like stop everything just to talk to you.
-But isn't that a good thing? -[Pattiya] It is.
Because wouldn't you want him to stop everything
to talk to you? -[Pattiya] Yes, yes, but...
[Jo] Because you're important to him?
Yes, but unless it's an emergency, you know.
I don't know about that.
[Pattiya] Yes, I mean, unless it's an emergency, I just feel like
he -- he can wait 'till we get home and talk to you.
I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
-Oh, you're joking. -[Pattiya] No.
Here's the deal. I'm not needy.
I'm not needy in any relationships.
I'm actually quite strong and quite capable.
So I don't -- I'm not gonna be classed as needy.
I don't think that Pattiya has a right to tell me what
my relationship with Dylan should be like.
I think that problem lies within her.
I might back off a little bit, but I don't think
Dylan's going to be in agreeance with that, though.
Asking me not to call doesn't seem normal or natural.
-But I mean, I'll do it. -Yes, I know.
[Jo] If that makes you happy and if you think that's
gonna help the relationship, I'll do it. -It will.
But sometimes he'll phone me at half past nine at night
and I'll say, "What do you want, Dyl?"
And he wants to chat. So it's not just me.
-It could be, yes. -You better get in his ear too.
[chill music playing]
[singing in French]
Grandpa sent me a picture. Ben is sleeping
on grandpa tonight. He's happy.
He'll probably sleep all night on their bed,
since it's probably a lot more comfortable than ours.
Yeah.
So I have no idea where we are going or what we are doing.
I have no idea.
My last couple of attempts have really failed
at giving this, like, grand gesture of love
to Manon with being a mime and the goat farm.
So tonight, I have a romantic getaway plan.
This is definitely more along the lines of what's something
I know she likes, which is really going to a nice hotel.
But of course, earlier today, we had a fight, so I don't know
how this is gonna be received.
I could do them for you. Has your mom got nail polish?
OK, not a good joke either, but that's fine.
It's not a joke. It's how you save money.
[Anthony] No, uh...
Oh, my God.
So what you wanna say about this afternoon?
There's nothing to say. We're -- we're on the same page.
We got it, we're good.
What do you mean we are on the same page?
Earlier today, when we were down in this, like,
historic part of Marseille, there was this little shop that
had some seashell earrings, and she didn't have her purse
on her, and she was asking if I had my wallet,
and I said, I didn't have my wallet so that she
would not buy anything.
I'm, like, coming from this, like, sense of you spend money
all the time, there's no money coming in, and we're looking
to purchase a house.
And then me being the juvenile sense of humor
that I have, kinda flashed my wallet
as we're leaving the shop to show her,
and I shouldn't have done that.
I could have gone about it a different way and said,
"Hey, maybe don't spend right now because I have something
planned," or something like that, I... -[speaking French]
But even 30 bucks?
OK, I know you're saying $30.
-It wasn't just $30. -Anthony, a $100, I -- $100, max $100.
You think I would have spent like crazy in a small,
tiny boutique if you would have said, "Can you don't buy them
or can you buy just one piece?" I would have not pushed you.
-Really? -Yes, really.
Stop assuming that I'm a bitch.
What do you assume that I am such a monster?
You're sabotaging me all the time and sabotaging us.
Hmm?
I, like, I really don't feel like going down this road
because it could lead into some really bad [bleep],
and I just don't wanna go. -[Manon] Oh, wow, so you have more stuff to say to me?
Do I have more stuff?
It's like, what about you? Your apologies, huh?
Like, we can -- this can go on all day of, like, "you, me,
you, me," it can.
I don't like feeling like the bad guy.
I just, you know, I'm trying to be smart about everything,
and Manon does not hear how,
you know, she comes across to me.
We tried to move away from these problems moving here,
and they've just followed us from LA, uh,
and I don't have a support system anymore.
My family's over there.
My only support system is her, and there's none.
-I apologized. I said where I'm coming from. -But?
-But, like I said, you would invalidate the way... -[speaking French], "but."
I felt about it, which you did. -[Manon] I don't invalidate.
You are invalidating your own apology
by always saying a but, a but, a but, always.
Then I guess I'll just never say where -- where, like, my mind
was coming from in the moment, and I'll just say,
"I'm so sorry, my wife, my apologies,"
and get on my knees and beg
for your forgiveness.
I feel you just don't want this to work out.
You just don't.
You always, like, have to throw that on me, too,
just like you do with, like... -Because it's how I feel.
...whole, like, divorcing. "Oh, we're not compatible.
Go find someone that's good." -Because you make me
feel this way. -Mm-hmm.
[speaking French]
You just don't care about losing me then.
You just don't care about saving us then.
You just don't care about me, period.
When we talk about money, it's a fight.
Our core belief are so freaking different.
Is it even possible for us to be happy long-term if we are
that different?
I'm telling you,
I feel like I need to be
a whole different person for you.
But I'm sorry, Anthony, I cannot change for you.
I heard that you have some plans to immigrate in Aruba.
I'm gonna go meet up with the immigration lawyer.
[lawyer] To legalize your status in Aruba,
it'll take approximately five months.
Part of that five months, you need to stay in the States.
Jonathan and I definitely would not survive
long distance, not...
not at all.
[upbeat music playing]
♪ I confess my love ♪
[gasps] Is that a dog?
Don't tell me.
It looked like a dog, didn't it?
-Oh, thank God. -Relax.
When Chloe's mom was here, you know, the pressure that
she put on us for the papers and stuff like that,
I feel like really put both of us in a place like,
"Hey, you know, you gotta get this done."
So today's a big day.
We're gonna go meet up with the immigration lawyer,
and hopefully he can give me some really good information
and what steps we should take next.
[upbeat music continues]
Don't touch it, Chloe.
The goal for me and Chloe right now is to apply
for domestic partnership papers.
I've known people that have done it before.
First thing is partnership papers,
and then for the job,
we have to find an employer that wants to hire her
and willing to pay for her work permit.
I heard that you have some plans to immigrate in Aruba?
[Chloe] Yes.
Um, we're kind of just looking to see what the process would be
as far as how much it's going to cost.
And we're very interested in a work permit,
'cause without work, I have no money.
So I have to somehow find a legal way to do
all of those things.
The main thing right now is trying to legalize
your status in Aruba.
Once you are here in Aruba,
the work will follow automatically.
Maybe it will take some time, but it can happen.
How much would the permits cost?
How long is it going to take?
[lawyer speaking]
[Chloe] Mh-hmm.
[lawyer] When you marry, he can bring you in automatically...
[Chloe] Mh-hmm.
[Johny] Yes.
...but it can go very fast.
The partnership agreement
maybe $600, $700.
But the -- the thing is that process will take
approximately five months.
Maybe part of that five months, you need to stay in the States
to wait for you to come to Aruba.
-Well, there's the bad news, I knew it was too -- -[lawyer] That is the bad --
That was too good to be true.
[lawyer] If you're married, there's no problem.
Yeah, how long would it take if we did file
the partnership papers for me to be able to work?
After you're legal in Aruba, it will take approximately
another three months for you to get a job.
The whole process is approximately, I think,
eight to seven months. -Yeah, that's a long time.
[lawyer] That's a long time, I know.
Mm-hmm.
[lawyer] With a marriage thing, everything...
-[Chloe] Moves quicker. -...goes -- goes quicker.
But you have to be ready for that, of course.
Right.
No, it's not a little step, you know, it's a big step.
I'm shocked.
This partnership paper is not this easy
sign-your-cute-little-signature- on-a-dotted-line.
And it's even more shocking that for part of this,
I might actually have to be home.
In the past, when Jonathan and I have done long distance,
he broke my trust once. My anxiety then
is through the roof every day because I'm so nervous that
he's going to just break my trust again.
So Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance.
Not -- not at all. Not in the slightest.
Did you already discuss marriage as a possibility or...?
Yeah, I've discussed with her about marriage.
We've only known each other for a year now.
And so, like you said, marriage is not a --
is not a small step.
[Chloe] Jonathan and I have talked about getting married,
and he's definitely someone that I see myself marrying.
But there was no way that it was going to be
as soon as tomorrow.
But it would solve a lot of our issues with me being able
to stay here legally.
When you're ready,
just give me a call.
[Chloe] I mean, the plan's always been to get married.
Maybe we should just go for it.
[melancholic music playing]
[Greta, crying] The honest, like, truth is that...
like, I don't
think I love you anymore.
[Matthew whispering]
Relationship isn't always 50-50.
Sometimes it's 70-30.
Sometimes it's 90-10.
[Greta] But, like,
I can't, like, force myself to love you.
And, like, I love you as a person.
And I, like, really, like, only want happiness for you.
Like, I just, like, I just...
I just feel like there's just so much about myself that
I just, like, need to know about before I can commit to someone.
I just, like...
don't think it's a good idea to, like, move forward
in this relationship.
[sighs]
[Matthew speaking]
I think we just need to spend a little bit
of time together again.
Not worry about getting married or kids or necessarily even
where to live. Just get somewhere.
Just feel it out.
No commitment.
I think there's something to explore still.
I really do.
But, like, I just, like, know what I need right now,
like, is to be alone.
It's just all so sudden.
I...
I feel like I was pulling back the past six months.
I was not being very affectionate.
I was not reciprocating your feelings.
I wasn't calling you as much.
I wasn't sharing much about my life.
And I've been, like, like, spiraling about it
and wondering if...
we decided to see each other in person again.
And then, like, then I would know.
[both whispering]
It doesn't have to do with the cameras, like...
[Greta] No, it doesn't.
I just know it in my gut.
Like, I have to listen to my gut.
Like, and it's not fair for me to string you along
when I already know it's over.
Like, this is not fair for you either.
Nothing in the world could have prepared me for those words.
You don't just suddenly not love someone.
These things build up over time.
And I had no idea it was building up all this time.
There is so much life still ahead of us.
[Matthew] Yeah, I know.
I was prepared to spend it all with you.
Every single second of it.
[Greta] I will only look back at you with, like,
fond memories of, like,
the connection I felt with you
and how we helped each other grow.
And, like, maybe I'm making the worst mistake of my life.
And even if I am, I still feel like I have to make it.
That ring weighed a ton on my hand.
When I put that ring on her finger...
I never intended to take it back.
Well, what do we do now?
We just move forward.
Our individual ways.
I just...
[sighs] I'm sorry,
I'm just a little bit dead inside.
[sad music playing]
[melancholic music plays]
Um, I'm gonna go to a hotel, I guess.
[Matthew] Greta is always chasing a thrill in life.
And I think...
the roller coaster just ended.
[Anthony] Alright, grab your bag.
[Manon] Oh, no.
What the [bleep] is this?
-I was definitely not expecting a kind of... -A sex dungeon.
Yeah, I was not expecting a sex dungeon.
-Just there's no windows. -And it's soundproof.
Oh.
[tense music playing]
♪ I don't want you to change ♪
♪ But it don't feel the same ♪
You say I don't care about you,
is complete bull[bleep].
I wouldn't be here in France if that was the case.
We getting out?
Right on.
I mean, it's been a while since we had
any alone to be intimate, and I was looking forward
to having, like, this nice time, and now we're walking up
to the hotel, not in a good headspace.
[Manon] Love room?
Oh, no.
What the [bleep] is this?
[sensual music playing]
[Anthony] Check it out.
Oh, wow. That is cool.
[Anthony] Uh-huh.
[Manon] That's a good [bleep] jacuzzi, huh?
-[Anthony] Uh-huh. -Cool.
Cool. It's just there's no windows.
That's the thing that's freaking me out right now.
And it's soundproof.
-Oh. -[laughs]
When I was asking Anthony for a sexy, romantic night away,
I was definitely not expecting a, um...
How can I put it without, uh,
being, uh, um...
insensitive, kind of... -A sex dungeon.
Yeah, I was not expecting a sex dungeon.
Thank you, exactly.
[Anthony] Well, it wasn't labeled as a sex dungeon, it's labeled...
What a love room for you. Love room.
Oh, OK, a strip pole, OK.
I get it.
The effort was, it's still better
than the mime. So thank you.
Um, so I have a surprise for you.
Oh, another one.
So you stay over here, and I'll...
get that ready. -[Manon] OK.
Manon loves the fact that I was in the military.
I mean, I think she just loves the uniform.
I'm scared.
So I decided to dust off my old army of fatigues.
That will at least, at a minimum, put a smile
on her face, which I think is a stepping stone to having
a better night.
What is he doing?
[Anthony] You ready?
-What the [bleep]? -What? It's what you want.
I'm doing it for you. And opportunity awaits.
With the outfit? Oh, yeah.
-[Anthony] Uh-huh. -Oh, [bleep].
Let's go, come on.
Can it hold my weight?
-[speaking French], no. -[Anthony] You ready?
[Manon] I'm not.
Woo!
[Anthony] Yeah!
[Manon] Oh, yeah, oh, my God.
-[Anthony] Ooh, going freaky in there. -[Manon] You're gonna --
-You're gonna break it. -Timber!
[Manon] What's the military boy?
You cannot, like, go up, like, a pole?
-Oh, yeah, [speaking French], yay! -[Anthony] Yeah, there you go.
That's what you want? Ooh.
-Ooh, yeah. -[Anthony] Oh, yeah.
You're a very, very rare breed.
It's just very cute. It's very sexy.
It's very cute.
You're a nice guy.
It's nice. I love that.
-Ah, I'm a nice guy. -Yeah, you are.
Yeah. Anyway, and I'm the bad girl.
We always know that. I'm the bad girl.
I'm the crazy one. I'm the loud one, the big one.
You know, I take space. We -- we know that.
-Dramatic, emotional. -I'm not dramatic.
You are very sexy, my dear soldier.
Yeah, but you are also very sexy.
-Yeah, sure. -You are.
-[Manon] Mh-hmm. -Mh-hmm.
-Thank you. -You're welcome.
[Manon] Mh-hmm.
I'm really happy with Anthony doing the effort, and the thing
is, like, you know, when we are good, we are good.
He makes me feel good. He love me and everything.
It's just made me feel more like, OK, my heart can be
full of joy, full of love. I'm home, which is Anthony.
Anthony is my home.
[both speaking French]
Well, also that.
-[speaking French] -[Manon] Oh, my gosh.
Are you ready to get married?
You hesitated.
Is this something really she wants, you know?
I'm afraid that when it gets too hard, you might leave.
[upbeat music playing]
-I'm hungry. -[Chloe] I'm actually starving.
♪ If I could make a wish ♪
♪ It would be for just only you and me ♪
[Chloe] I want my sweet potato fries.
[Johny] What are you gonna eat with that?
Oh, there's Caesar salad with shrimp.
[Johny] OK.
So what did you think about the -- the law firm today?
I think we got really useful information out of it.
[Johny] Yeah.
Earlier today, we found out that it would be
a hell of a lot easier for me to start working
and be legal here if we just got married.
I don't know how my mom will react when we tell her,
like, it could be potentially eight months before I can work.
It definitely probably will be a I-told-you-so moment.
We definitely did not see that one coming.
Oh, God.
You know, what is that gonna look like
for us in the meantime if I can't work?
You know, I don't wanna put it on you.
The eight, nine months,
no problem me taking care of you.
The problem I have is the lifestyle that you
like to live.
You like to go out, have drinks, go to dinners
and stuff like that, I -- I can't support that aspect.
No, I -- I understand that.
Everything else, I can help you with.
But you would have to be patient.
[Chloe] Oh, I -- I understand that.
I think this whole entire situation is about patience
at this point.
Regardless, we're gonna be waiting around.
Yeah, but if I marry you, it's in two weeks.
Well, are you ready to get married?
-Yeah, I am. -You hesitated.
[Johny] I am -- I'm already at an age that I'm ready to get married.
Well, it's not about age. It's about me.
Like, you can marry anyone at any age.
No, but I'm looking for someone to marry, and I really,
really love you, so I would expect you to be the person
I wanna marry.
But I don't know if you're ready for that.
'cause you're very young. -Right, and I know...
[Johny] You're nine year -- you're nine years younger than me, Chloe.
-I know. -I don't know if you still wanna live life and party
and all that, you know?
[Chloe] I wouldn't say that I'm not ready.
I think we just have some work to do, you know?
[Johny] You know, of course, the marriage is
a much easier option.
But, you know, is this something really
she wants, you know?
'Cause partnership papers is one thing.
You know, if it goes bad, hey, you know,
we go separate ways.
But if you marry somebody, it's much easier to get married
than to get divorced.
I think you're very concerned about, like, "You're so young,
you shouldn't settle down" and this, but I think the way
I grew up and, like, how blessed I was to travel and do
all the things that I have, like, I feel so comfortable
with the life that I have lived, and I've never felt like
how I feel with you with anyone else.
So why would I wanna, like, put this
on the back burner and not go all in, like, I'm already where
I wanna be.
Like, I'm still gonna have martini nights,
obviously, but I would like to have a martini night
and then come home,
like, to you.
I -- I just want you to know for sure
what you're putting yourself into.
I'm gonna tell you right now, it's not gonna be easy.
And I'm afraid that when it gets too hard, you might leave.
'Cause I've been through that situation before,
and I'm not trying to compare you to anybody.
But, you know, like, I was in a relationship for a very,
very long time, and I gave that person everything,
and that person, at the end of the day,
left me for something easier.
So I don't think it's only you risking everything.
I'm also risking a lot.
I think it's frustrating that he keeps telling me that
I'm not ready to get married because he doesn't actually
know how I feel.
In my eyes, I mean, I'm pretty in tune with my brain upstairs,
and I feel that I'm ready to get married.
I think if I thought in my head this isn't gonna work,
I would've already left.
And I'm telling you that I'm more than OK with it.
So don't have this, you know...
-Second doubt? -Of -- exactly, of me.
If every day you just show me that you love me and you care
for me, then I won't have that doubt in my mind.
[Chloe] I already gave up my entire life and moved
to another country.
So there's nothing else I could really give up to prove to him
how much I do love him.
I know it's fast and we definitely have our issues,
but to me, this feels right.
Well, I think at the end of the day, it's something
to think about so we can be together in the end.
We'll figure it out.
Every [bleep] day you have to talk to your mom.
It's [bleep] ridiculous.
[Dylan speaking]
You better start picking your battles...
[upbeat music playing]
-Hi, babe. -[Dylan] Hi.
-How are you? -[Dylan] How was the game?
Good -- yes, we did.
-[Jo] Lots of fun. -Who won?
-She did. She kicked my ass. -Really?
-I'm terrible. -Oh, not really, we're both -- we're both winners on the day.
-Yeah, yeah. -[Pattiya] She's really good.
OK, guys, I've gotta be somewhere.
-We'll catch up another day? -Yes.
-[Jo] OK. -[Dylan] See you.
-[Jo] Bye. -[Pattiya] It's good to see you.
-And thank you. -You too, thanks for the game of tennis.
-[Pattiya] Yes, it was. -It was lovely, we'll do it again.
[Pattiya] After tennis, I feel a lot better.
I finally got all the issues off my chest.
-[Dylan] Other side. -[Pattiya] Oh.
Remember? We're in Australia.
[Pattiya] Huh? Of course.
-[Dylan] Where are you going? -Oh, wait.
-In here. -I'm sorry.
I'm still trying to get used to the -- the side.
She did point out that Dylan is part of the reason why
they talk so much. So maybe it's not all on her.
But I'm glad we talked about it, and hopefully things can be
different moving forward.
We had a good tennis match. She kicked my ass.
It's been a long time since I played.
[Dylan] She might have had to get some frustration out.
[Pattiya] Yeah.
At least she didn't hit me with the ball.
I was expecting to her --
her to hit me with the ball a couple of times.
[Dylan] Do you feel like all the issues are resolved
with my mother? -I feel like it's resolved.
I just said, you know, like, maybe she not calls so much.
-Twice a week. -[Dylan] Twice a week?
But not every day, three times a day.
That's too much.
What do you think about that?
I -- I -- you -- you feel like you're -- I feel like
you're bothered by that a little bit?
-It's your great idea. It's not a great idea for me. -OK, but --
'Cause I -- I -- we enjoy having a chat here and there.
-Yeah, but if it bothers your partner, then how is... -I know, but it shouldn't...
that -- but does -- is that -- how is that enjoyable?
It shouldn't bother you that much.
-If it's a problem for me, then you should, you know... -[Dylan] Why should you,
why would you... -You should respect how I feel.
Why would you stop -- why would you stop the person
that you love from doing something that makes them happy?
-[Pattiya] Listen, I'm not -- stop, no. -Yes, you are.
Babe, every [bleep] day you have to talk to your mom.
-It's [bleep] ridiculous. -[Dylan] I don't talk to her every day.
Sometimes it's three times a day.
Yes, you talk to her three times a day.
And it's been an issue with us for 12 years.
Can't you just work on, like, getting over that?
Can't you work on, like, helping me set boundaries
and respecting my feelings?
[Dylan] Since I was a little kid, mom and I have
always been close.
And Pattiya has never really been close to her mom,
so she doesn't understand that -- that closeness.
I think Pattiya feels fearful that my mom is going
to influence me in some way or take me away from Pattiya
in some way.
But if respecting the woman that brought you
into this world is a problem,
then I don't really know what to say.
I mean, if I'm asking, if I'm saying, "Hey, babe,
you're talking to your mom too freaking much,"
you should be like, "Well, what..."
And then what if she -- what if she dies?
How would you feel, stopping me from talking?
She's not going to die. She's freaking healthy.
She's -- she's pushing 70.
Babe, she plays tennis every day.
Are you kidding? She's freaking healthy.
I don't think it's fair that you're asking me to stop
speaking to my mother.
I think that's really, like, I think that's really sad that
you'd be concentrating on that over all things in life.
You're worried about that.
Why don't you worry about your $20,000 debt that you have?
[Pattiya] You -- you got me into it. I've already told you about it.
-No I didn't. -[Pattiya] Yes, you did.
No, it's funny that you blame me for everything
that's gone wrong in your whole life,
I get the blame for it.
Yes, you caused me a lot of money issues.
-No, I didn't cause you anything. -I should write a book.
[Dylan] I saved you money, I -- I taught you...yup, mh-hmm.
Bull[bleep], you did not save me money,
are you kidding me?
You've got lots of issues. Big, big, big spending issues.
-Excuse me, Mr. Controlling? You have a lot of issues. -[Dylan] You're...
You're [bleep] very controlling.
You're always, like, trying to tell me what to do.
It's always, like, "My way or the highway."
-Just stop. -Alright, you know what?
-I think that's the pot calling the kettle black... -No.
...'cause you're the most controlling one of us all.
-You love controlling me. -Bull[bleep].
-Absolutely. -[Pattiya] You're always, like, trying to tell me what to do.
And that's -- and that's why you don't like me talking to my mother,
'cause you like to manipulate, influence, and control me.
And when I speak to her, you feel like she's,
you know, taking that away from you.
You're just trying to destroy everything.
I think you're worried that I'm going to abandon you.
No, but I'm gonna abandon you if you don't freaking
respect my -- my -- my wishes.
Dylan tells me I'm controlling.
I'm like, "What? How am I controlling?
You're the controlling one."
Honestly, sometimes I think Dylan is a narcissist.
It's always about him.
You know, "It's my way or the highway."
It's so annoying.
Whether Dylan wants to admit it or not,
his relationship
with his mother is affecting our relationship.
I don't know how much longer I can take this.
It's not that hard. You keep fighting me on it,
which makes it worse, just say, "OK, I get it,
babe, you're right." -Well, it's like, obviously, my relationship with my mom's
not gonna change, so...
You better start picking your battles,
'cause you're just picking this battle, and you're --
and you're just gonna be nagging me till we're both dead,
and we're gonna have a miserable life.
[Pattiya] Things are clearly not going well,
and there's something that I need to talk to Dylan about,
and I think it might make it worse.
[Anthony] Next time on "90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way."
[Jenny] Let me get you some change.
I don't understand the change.
So I guess we didn't make any money on that sale, did we?
I do feel alone, and it's, like, starting to hit me
that I am alone.
The last thing I want is for you and Greta to split up.
Some things are worth fighting for.
I am upset with Greta, but I really want them
to work out.
I think you should have a talk with her.
[Manon] When I met with Dorian, we already started working
together on the skincare brand.
And, uh, we need to invest money.
We're trying to buy a home, and I feel like this is gonna
set a lot of things back.
You working and living at your parents'.
How much time before you crack?
[Luke] What's wrong?
-[Madelein speaking] -You OK?
No.
[retching]
Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?