[Daniele] Previously, on 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way...
Today, Oussama is showing me around his family's farm.
-[screaming] -Oh, watch out...
[both laughing]
I kept things really vague with my mom and my sister,
why I'm back home.
I haven't told them about the wedding yet
because I'm worried about their reactions.
I do feel bad that I was, like, hiding this from you,
but... I'm gonna get married.
[bleep]
So, am I gonna get to meet Yohan?
I mean, that's the goal.
But, he is really pissed that I'm sitting down
with someone that I had a relationship with
in the past.
Damn.
I'm not sure if Yohan's the right guy for Daniele.
As soon as I made this decision
that I was moving here
and I got off that [bleep] plane,
he was a completely different person.
[Nicole] I've been struggling to tell you.
I'm ready to leave Egypt.
I think so.
I wanna talk about serious things
and you act like,
"Oh, you're crazy, you're mentally ill."
[Oussama speaking]
What?
I'm feeling positive about going to see his family today.
I got a translator.
[both] Hi!
I'm done hiding,
I'm done keeping them in the dark.
I don't know what is going to happen today.
Okay.
But, it could come out that we're engaged.
Rishi's not gonna like this,
but, he is the one who asked me to marry him.
[Jen] Ready to go?
-[Myra] Yes. -[Randi] Let's do this.
-[Myra] Yeah. -[Jen] Oh, my gosh.
[Jen] It's been three years.
I am making this happen.
[exhales]
[Gabriel speaking]
Yes!
[Gabriel] Uh, these people are gonna run me over.
Uh, they don't stop for pedestrians in Colombia.
[Gabriel in Spanish]
[Isabel in Spanish]
[Gabriel] Mmm-hmm.
[Gabriel speaking]
[both speaking]
[Isabel speaking]
[in English] Seeing Isabel is making my heart beat fast,
I'm very excited, I'm happy to see her.
I'm just glad that finally,
the universe is on my side.
[Isabel in Spanish]
[Gabriel in Spanish]
[Isabel] Okay.
[in Spanish]
[both speaking]
[Isabel speaking]
[Gabriel speaking]
[waiter speaking]
[Gabriel speaking]
[Isabel speaking]
[Isabel] Mmm-hmm.
[Isabel speaking]
[Gabriel speaking]
[Isabel speaking]
[Gabriel speaking]
[Isabel speaking]
[Gabriel in Spanish]
[Gabriel speaking]
[phone dings]
[Gabriel in English] Monica is worried about my business,
and, she wants us to get a prenup,
but, I told her no.
[translator in Spanish]
[Isabel speaking]
[scoffs]
[Isabel speaking]
Mmm. Okay.
[Gabriel speaking]
[Isabel speaking]
[in English] I'm just like, "Oh, my gosh."
Like, I kinda feel like
something's already building up.
I don't wanna be caught in the middle.
[in Spanish]
[Indian music playing]
[Jen] Bindiya, thank you for doing this.
I actually feel
almost more nervous for you because I feel like I'm
sending you in and it's like, uh...
-Don't shoot the messenger, like-- -Yeah.
Today, Rishi has invited my friends and I
to come meet his family.
In the past, when I've been with his family,
I feel like certain ideas weren't conveyed.
So, we've hired and prepped a translator
who we're bringing with us.
It is a very unusual situation
to translate in, I have to say.
[all laughing]
[Jen] I want her to
ask Rishi's family
the questions I have about the arranged marriage,
when they presented him with options,
how many girls they've presented to him.
If I'm satisfied with everything that I hear,
then, Randi will also
tell Rishi's family that we're engaged.
I think we're getting close.
I don't know whether to laugh or cry.
This is gonna be really interesting.
-Just breathe. -[Bindiya speaking]
[Jen] I know that this is a big deal,
but, Rishi is just so stuck in his idea
that we need to wait
for this perfect time,
but, Rishi's family's response now
is not gonna be any different
than it's gonna be two months from now.
Oh, my gosh.
I'm feeling, um, a little bit nervous.
-But I'm-- -[Myra] I see the anxiety on your face.
But, I tell you what though, I'm not regretting this.
-I'm not. -Good. Good, good, good.
[horns honking]
[Rishi in English]
And, um...
[Rishi in Hindi]
[Shimla in Hindi]
[Rishi in English]
Just come through here.
[Jen and Rishi] Hi!
-How's you? -Good.
Um, Rishi, this is Bindiya, she's...
-Oh, hi, Rishi. -Hi.
-Hi. Bindiya. I'm good. -How's you?
-How are you? -Um, yeah, she's a translator.
-[Rishi] Oh. -Yeah, I'm a translator.
-Yeah, yeah, you can sit. -[all chuckling]
[Rishi speaking]
[chuckles]
Ammi.
Namaste.
-[Rishi] So-- -Do you remember me?
[Rishi in Hindi]
-Hi. -[Rishi] Jen.
[Rishi speaking]
-[Myra] Hi, how are you? -Myra.
-[in Hindi] -Randi.
-And, this is Bindiya. -And, Bindiya.
[Bindiya in Hindi]
[Rishi speaking]
[Shimla speaking]
[in English] I'm definitely feeling nervous
because, this is a make or break situation
regardless of what happens.
Oh, thank you.
If his family confirms to me that Rishi's been lying,
then... that's it.
This relationship is not happening.
My uncle.
-Hi. -[Gajendra] Hi.
Thank you for having me in your home again,
and, welcoming my friends.
[Bindiya in Hindi]
[Shimla speaking]
-Thanks for coming, she's saying. -Ooh.
It's our pleasure.
So, the last time I was here...
Will you ask her if she remembers me asking questions?
[in Hindi]
[Bindiya in English] She's saying that, uh, you were asking about
if you're looking for a girl for Rishi,
and, how many proposals have you looked for?
-Oh. Oh, good! Okay. -Yeah, she remembers.
I'm so glad she remembers.
Because, I, I had asked Rishi some questions recently...
-[Bindiya] Okay. -...and, I felt like
maybe there was a little bit of a language barrier,
and, I didn't understand,
which is why I brought you today.
[Bindiya] Okay.
[in Hindi]
So, um, I just wanted to ask her
how many girls they presented to him
-that he... rejected, yes. -Rejected.
Okay.
[in Hindi]
[in English] She's like, "Two to four."
-Two to four? -I mean, that's like a
-estimate. [chuckles] -Okay.
[Bindiya] So, there was some kind of proposals.
He said, "No."
Uh, he never spoke to any of them.
Ah, okay, okay. I think I understand.
I now understand that this actually hasn't been
like a formal process.
It's just sort of talk.
Looking back on the restaurant now,
I feel bad that I didn't give
Rishi the benefit of the doubt.
It was definitely a misunderstanding.
[Myra] I have a question. Does she have any
questions about why we're asking so many questions?
-Yeah. [chuckles] -[Bindiya chuckling]
[in Hindi]
Uh, she's saying that, yeah, she is thinking,
but she's like, her guess is that he must, uh, like a girl.
[Shimla speaking]
[Bindiya in English]
-Okay. -Oh, okay.
Okay.
[Randi] So...
Let her know that I have something to say,
uh, to everyone in the room.
[Bindiya] Okay, uh...
[in Hindi]
[in English]
[Randi] Okay. So...
I am here to support Jen
as she tries to figure out...
her relationship with Rishi,
and, their pending engagement announcement.
I'm in a very heavy, shocking moment.
If the translation wasn't there,
I would be the person translating,
and, I would change the topic instantly.
But, I don't know how to stop this conversation.
[in Hindi]
Uh...
[Daniele in Spanish]
[Yohan in Spanish]
[Daniele speaking]
[Yohan speaking]
[Oussama in English]
I'm not gonna marry someone that wants a visa.
Well now, you're a cold-blooded snake right now.
[bleep]
Hello?
Earlier today, I met up with my ex, Taylen,
despite Yohan's objection.
I feel like I had a really beautiful day
and I'm ready for whatever Yohan has to hand to me.
[Daniele in Spanish]
[Yohan in Spanish]
[Daniele speaking]
[Yohan] Mmm.
[Daniele chuckles]
[Yohan speaking]
[Daniele speaking]
[Yohan] Mmm.
[Daniele] I really want Yohan to be able to talk to me
about my meeting with Taylen today,
and I think that if I cook for him,
maybe he'll appreciate the gesture,
and, get into the right mindset
to be able to have this conversation
in an effective way.
[Daniele in Spanish]
[Yohan speaking]
[Daniele speaking]
[laughing]
[Yohan speaking]
[in English] Okay.
Can I have a kiss now?
Thank you.
[sirens wailing distantly]
[indistinct chatter]
So your real plan is just come get to the visa,
get to the United States and that's... that's it for you.
That's... That's how it goes.
It's all about your future? All about your future?
[Debbie] I'm sorry.
I... I love an artist and a poet, but I'm not supporting a man.
I'm not going to marry someone that wants a visa.
I'm not marrying someone that just wants a visa and go to the United States.
I am disgusted that Oussama's main agenda
was for us to get married and move to the United States for him to get a Green Card.
When did that come up in our three years of conversation?
I'm using every last bit of my self-control
not to knock him into next week. It's like...
You're scum of the earth.
You should be ashamed of yourself, the way you treated me.
-Okay. Ah, okay. -And lied to me.
You said you would do anything for me because you loved me enough.
You know, you've done me dirty,
you're nasty, you're not honorable. You're... You're creepy, man...
[bleep]
No. No, it's not about a visa.
I'm not lying. I'm not lying.
Here's what we talked about. Straight up.
We were going to live here, and as time goes by,
I planned to go back, visit the kids.
-That was it. -No.
-Well, now. You're a cold-blooded snake right now. -No, you are.
[Debbie] You just really, really, really, really hurt me.
You showed me right what it is. What it is and what it isn't.
-[Oussama] Well, it is what it is. -And it isn't about love,
it isn't about self-sacrifice.
No. The poem meant nothing.
It meant nothing 'cause there's no action behind it.
Let's just go. Let's just get out of here.
-You know, there' just like-- -Okay.
-It's no use beating a dead horse. -Okay.
This is disgusting.
You know, it takes a lot of courage
to open you heart after being closed for 12 years.
I opened a little door,
and a poem slipped through that door.
And I was stupid to read it.
And I'll never read another poem again from another person.
Now that I know how you really feel,
I'm going back to the house. I'm packing my suitcases.
I'm getting a hotel. And we're parting ways.
So call me a cab.
Whatever you want.
Hello?
I came here with good intentions and a belief
that something like age didn't matter.
I feel used right now.
And guess what? I deserve it.
For believing in him.
Okay. This is your car now.
My inner child has been slapped around.
He took my trust and he just urinated all over it.
[in Arabic]
[Ahmed in Arabic]
[in Arabic]
[in English]
[Mahmoud in Arabic]
[Ahmed speaking]
[Mahmoud speaking]
[Ahmed speaking]
[Mahmoud in English]
[in Arabic]
[Ahmed speaking]
[Mahmoud speaking]
[in English]
[in Arabic]
[Ahmed speaking]
[Mahmoud in English]
[Mahmoud in Arabic]
[Mahmoud in English]
[all] Hi!
[Gabriel] I'm a little worried that Monica and Isabel won't get along.
Hola.
Hi.
It feels like something's, like, brewing.
Everybody, just be nice to each other.
[upbeat music playing]
[in Spanish]
[Isabel in Spanish]
[Gabriel in Spanish]
[both speaking]
[Isabel in Spanish]
[Gabriel speaking]
[Isabel speaking]
[Gabriel speaking]
[Isabel groans nervously]
[Gabriel in English] Isabel's relationship with my family is,
"hi," "hola," "hi," "hi," "hi," "hola," "hola,"
from, like, a video call.
So, I'm just anxious.
The three most important women in my life are about to meet each other,
and this is very important to me.
And I hope it goes well.
[Isabel in Spanish]
[Gabriel in English] I'm so happy they came to support me.
But I'm a little worried that Monica and Isabel won't get along,
because I feel like they both have very alpha- female personalities.
[Isabel in Spanish]
[in English] And so, I don't know what's really gonna happen.
[Isabel in Spanish]
[indistinct chatter]
[Isabel speaking]
No.
[in Spanish]
[tense music playing]
[Gabriel speaking]
[Isabel speaking]
[chuckles nervously]
-[Isabel in English] Hi! -[Marie] Hi!
-[Gabriel] How are you? -[Marie] Good.
-[Gabriel] How was your flight? -Oh, it was good.
It was good. I missed you.
Hi, Isabel.
-[Marie] Oh... -[Isabel speaks indistinctly]
What's going on, man?
-[Isabel] So nice to meet you. -[Marie] Nice to meet you, too.
You're so beautiful.
[in Spanish]
-Hi. [laughs] -[Gabriel] What's up, Monica?
[Monica] Mmm. Oh, my God.
[Gabriel] Meet Malcolm.
-[Isabel in Spanish] -[Malcolm in English] Nice to meet you.
[Isabel in Spanish]
-[Monica in English] Does she speak any English at all? -[Gabriel] No.
[Monica] No? Okay. This is gonna be interesting.
[Gabriel] This is gonna be fun.
-And your Spanish? -Um... [in Spanish]
[in English] Hi.
-Ooh! Okay! -[Monica and Isabel laugh]
[Marie] She was very polite.
She's very beautiful.
-She's taller than him -She's taller than him.
[Monica] She seems to be very sweet.
I'm surprised. I'm sure that Gabe is telling her all sorts of terrible things about me,
and yet she seems really receptive,
and has been really kind, so...
I hope that it's authentic.
-So, what's the plan for today? -[Gabriel] Um...
We're gonna go to the apartment and then we will go to lunch.
-Cool. -Everybody, just be nice to each other.
I'm always nice.
[Gabriel] All right, I'm ready to go, too.
[in Spanish]
[Monica in English]
-[Isabel] A little bit. -[Monica] A little bit.
[Isabel in Spanish]
[Gabriel in English] Are you guys excited to see the apartment?
-Yeah. -Yeah, I'm excited.
I think it's gonna be really good, actually.
So, I'm really happy to be here, Gabe. This is really nice
seeing the area you live.
I'm glad you guys came to visit, actually.
I didn't think anybody was gonna come, I'm so excited.
Can you ask Isabel, is she ready for wedding?
[in Spanish]
[in English] She's very excited.
[in Spanish]
[Isabel speaking]
[Gabriel] So there's two ways to get up this...
[Monica in English, giggles] I know that look.
[Isabel in Spanish]
[in English] Finally? What're you... What do you mean "finally"?
[in Spanish]
[in English] Because we should've came sooner.
[in Spanish]
[in English] We... You never just visit.
[in Spanish]
[in English] What did she say?
She said she wants to talk to you before our wedding.
Oh.
[tense music playing]
[Gabriel] The awkward silence is very loud right now.
It feels like something's, like, brewing.
Because I know that my sister feels strongly for me,
Isabel feels strongly for me, and it's uncomfortable being pulled.
Eventually, I'm gonna have to, like, let go of one side.
What does she wanna talk to me about?
[in Hindi]
[Rishi] I don't know what is going on.
And I'm just speechless.
[Bindiya in Hindi]
[operatic music playing]
[Bindiya in Hindi]
[inhales, exhales]
[in English] I don't know what is going on.
It was something like I'm dreaming.
I just want to put those words back in to Randi's mouth, but I can't.
And I'm just speechless.
[Bindiya in Hindi]
[in Hindi]
[continues in Hindi]
[in Hindi]
[in English] Saying, "Why didn't you tell me?"
[in Hindi]
[Shimla continues in Hindi]
[Bindiya in Hindi]
[in Hindi]
[in English] She's saying, uh, she's feeling happy,
-nice. -[Randi] That's great.
[in Hindi]
[in English] Like, "If he likes so what can I do."
[in Hindi]
[in English] Okay. So, you speak English,
how will you communicate?
-[Jen] Oh, uh, right, with her, right? -[Bindiya] Yeah.
That's a, that's a very good question. Yes.
[Bindiya in Hindi]
[in Hindi]
[in English] She's saying, she wants to talk to him about it a little bit.
-Have a conversation before-- -[Randi] Absolutely.
This meeting was not about an immediate answer.
-Okay. -[Randi] This gives everyone time to think about things.
[Bindiya continues translating]
[Jen] When Randi makes the announcement
I'm feeling like, "Thank God, we've finally got here."
I feel like it's being received well
or, you know, as well as can be expected.
And I know we put Rishi in a tough spot.
But even if he is upset, I think he'll get over it.
Because his mom just said she was okay with it.
This is what we wanted.
Okay, so what's going through your head right now?
[in Hindi]
[in English] Okay. Uh, he's saying that he's a little shocked
-that, you know it's come out and all, uh... -Okay.
"I am relieved though that, you know, she's accepted."
-You're relieved? -[Bindiya in English] Yeah, he was scared.
-[Myra] Don't you feel better, a little bit better? -Yeah.
[in English]
[continues in English]
[exhales]
[in Hindi]
[in English] Okay. He's asking that after getting married
where are you planning to stay, the husband and wife?
Well, I would like to live in Mumbai.
That's my preference.
But it's, I think...
[Bindiya] Open for discussion...
Open to, yes, open to discussion.
[in English]
[in Hindi]
[in English] Uh, so uncle is saying
that he has no issue with the marriage at all.
But he wants you to know that
he is the main caretaker of this family.
If he leaves, there'll be nobody to take care of them.
[Jen] Yeah, yeah.
[Jen] Okay.
Uh...
I don't even know, I don't know what to say.
Well, you know, you don't have to...
-Yeah. -...get into the specifics
-and semantics of everything right now. -Yeah.
-[Myra] I think they've already taken in a lot. -[Jen] Yeah.
Let them know I appreciate them having us and like,
uh, I know that this is a lot of information to process,
but I would like to
politely excuse ourselves so they can have some time
to talk with Rishi on their own.
[in Hindi]
-Okay, thank you. -Thank you.
Thank you so much.
[in Hindi]
[Rishi in English]
[Randi] How are you feeling, Rishi?
Do you... do you forgive me for
being a little outspoken in there?
[Randi] Oh, thank you.
Oh, thank you.
Well, we'll let you guys have some alone time.
[Myra] Yes. Let's give you moment
and we'll see you guys in a little bit
and we're gonna go to the cafe over here, okay?
-Bye-bye. -Okay.
I hope you're not, really not mad
that Randi kinda broke the news?
Yeah.
-Okay. Okay, good. -Yeah.
Um, I just wanna make sure that
you talk to them on your own
and, like, they need to know that
I don't want to live in a joint family...
-Mmm-hmm. -...you know?
Your uncle sounded like, he was like, uh,
"He's gonna be staying here."
I mean, I guess, I, I know it's a lot to throw at them at once.
But I'm like, just give them all the information
so they could make a decision.
Is this something that is gonna be an issue?
Or are they gonna be accepting?
-Right? -Yes.
-Don't you think? -Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, you're right.
Yes, so, that went well.
I'm feeling really good about getting
everything out in to the open.
After three years of this, like, secret
we deserve to have something to celebrate.
But I think to really find out how they feel,
Rishi needs to have a private conversation with his family
and I'm hoping that doesn't change things
because I really want it to work out so much.
I'm gonna give you some time to
-have a conversation. -Yeah.
[Yohan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[continues in Spanish]
[in English] You don't ask someone that question.
[Yohan in Spanish]
[Daniele in Spanish]
[Yohan in Spanish]
[in English] Today, Yohan and I made plans to meet my friend Taylen.
[in Spanish]
[Daniele in English] I'm trying to set the intention
that this lunch is going to go famously
and everybody is going to get along really well.
But I have no idea how it's gonna go.
[both in Spanish]
[Yohan in Spanish]
-[Taylen] What's going on, guys? -[Daniele] Hey, what's up?
-[Taylen] How is it going? -[Daniele] How are you?
Yohan, nice to meet you.
-[Yohan in English] -[Taylen in Spanish]
[staff] Hi, everyone.
[in Spanish]
-Uh, pina colada. -[staff] Pina colada.
[in Spanish]
-Whiskey and Coke. -Okay.
[nervous laughter]
So...
[Yohan in Spanish]
[Yohan in English] Do you like...
[in Spanish]
[in English] In DR?
Yeah, I love... I've only been here, like, two days.
[in Spanish]
[Yohan in Spanish]
[Daniele in English] How did you meet me?
We met in Miami.
-[in English] In Miami? -In 2020.
[in Spanish]
How long were we in a relationship?
Oh, that was four months?
It started as a friendship and it grew.
You want to, like...
-[Daniele] Yeah. -Yeah.
[in Spanish]
[in English] It's hard to truly grasp someone's energy and their vibe
when you can't have a real conversation with them
without someone being like the middleman or a translator.
So, I hope that he understands that I'm not gonna be someone
that's kinda try to rekindle any relationship with Daniele.
[in English]
-Stand up? -Si.
[Daniele in Spanish]
[in English] What the hell are we doing?
[both in Spanish]
-[Taylen, Daniele laugh] -Okay, sit down.
[Yohan in Spanish]
[Taylen in Spanish]
-[Daniele in English] Well, how big are your feet? -Oh, oh...
[in Spanish]
[in English] Fourteen.
[continues in Spanish]
-Whoa! [laughs] -Hey.
-Did I hear that right? -[Yohan in Spanish]
[in English] I can't believe you just asked that question.
[Taylen] When Yohan asked me how big my penis was,
it was... extremely strange.
That's a question that women usually ask.
So the fact that a married man asked me that
caught me off guard.
But, you know... it happened.
[in Spanish]
[in English] You don't ask someone that question.
[in Spanish]
[Yohan in Spanish]
[exhales]
[in Spanish]
[both in Spanish]
[Yohan speaking]
[Daniele sighs]
[Yohan speaking]
-As a friend, yes. -[in English] Now?
She's still my friend.
-Yes, only a friend. -[in English] No, no, no friend. No friend.
[Taylen] But as a relationship, no.
-[in English] No? Really? -I have no interest in rekindling that.
-No. -Really?
[Taylen] Really.
[in Spanish]
-[Daniele in Spanish] -[Yohan in Spanish]
[Taylen] No.
-Huh? -No.
[in English] Why?
Because you all are married, bro.
[in Spanish]
[in English] Yohan, do you trust Daniele?
[in Spanish]
[in English] Sometimes I do things that
...break the trust.
-[Daniele in Spanish] -[in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[both continue in Spanish]
[in English] This part was a little uncomfortable for me
because I like to stay out of other people's business,
but it's hard to see Daniele get as emotional as she's got
because I haven't seen that side of her very much.
I believe trust is number one
in terms of having a long-lasting relationship.
So, if Yohan can't learn to trust Daniele,
I know that's gonna be hard for Daniele to stay with him.
[Yohan in Spanish]
[in Spanish]
[exhales]
[continues in Spanish]
[Daniele in English] Yohan keeps asking questions
not because he's really invested in the answers
but because he wants to make me uncomfortable.
Any husband who is going out of his way to make his wife feel that way
is not a husband that has unconditional love for her.
[in Spanish and English]
[continues in English] I'm just trying to explain to him that, like
when he feels, um, insecure.
he humiliates me
because he feels like that will give him more power.
I'm not gonna tolerate this behavior
and I don't have any guarantee that Yohan is gonna change.
Yohan, I just hope you realize her emotions is all love.
Like, she truly loves you
and I see how you all
interact with each other, but...
there's this stuff that obviously you all still have to work on.
My son, Julian, told me before,
"Anything doesn't feel right, call me right away."
Me and Oussama are not together right now.
We had such good times together
and then he turns into like a cold-blooded serpent.
Well, I'm not gonna sit and tell you, "I told you so," right now.
[Debbie] Last night everything's gone to hell in a hand basket.
Oussama had the guts to tell me
that we were getting married
and the first thing that we're gonna do
is move to the U.S. and for him to get a Green Card.
I need to call my son Julian.
You know, he had told me before,
"Anything doesn't feel right, sound right,"
you know, "call me right away."
You're putting yourself in a dangerous area and I'm scared.
I'm sacred you're gonna get hurt.
I'm scared some bad might happen.
Nothing bad is gonna happen.
I want you to be happy for me.
I mean, to me it doesn't add up right.
-Julian, Julian, it's mama. -Hello.
Yeah, I know it's you, Mom.
And I, I miss you, Julian.
It's been kinda tough over here.
I miss you too, Mom.
So, what's going on?
Obviously, I can tell something's not right.
I know.
It's been a kind of a roller-coaster.
I just hate having to call you and tell you bad news.
Me and Oussama
are not together right now.
What happened?
Well, he made some very cruel remarks
that wasn't like the Oussama I know.
He, he keeps changing,
and, and it always happens at night.
I'm afraid of the dark here in Morocco. It's like...
he changes completely.
Sounds like he's more
Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde than Prince Charming.
I, well, and that's... that's what I'm leading up to.
So, he said to me, he says,
"Well, you know, I'm to come to United States and get a visa."
And it's like, "What?"
He dropped the bomb right in the middle of my lap.
Now, it's all of a sudden that's his main agenda, is to get a visa.
[Julian] I knew something wasn't... I didn't like him
from the beginning, I could just tell.
[Debbie] I was so offended I could not even
think of spending another night at Mom and Dad's house.
Oh, I'm glad you found out now than later.
I'm just pissed off. I don't like the dude.
[Debbie] Julian, you know he's got every right
to be critical of me.
But it's comforting to know
that he loves me and cares for me.
He is my rock.
He is the thing I can depend on.
You know, I didn't see, ever see it happening like this.
I was looking for my happily ever after.
And I don't have that much ever after.
Well, we're not gonna... I'm not gonna say, "I told you so" right now.
We gotta figure out what's going on, what's the plan.
What's... what's next?
I'm trying to readjust my thinking.
Everything changed in an instant.
This was a man I loved.
And now he's turned into somebody else.
It's... this's going to be a never-ending cycle.
This is what this is. So you need to cut ties
and then you need to... block him.
But, you know, we had such good times together.
The laughter, the joking.
He read me the most beautiful poetry that he wrote for me.
And then he turns into like a cold-blooded serpent.
I didn't know what to think, Julian.
And I still don't know what to think.
I'm mourning the loss of my best friend.
You know?
Now it's like, Debbie, just stop, leave, go home.
But I don't know if I'm ready to do that.
I miss my buddy, you know?
You know, it wasn't about...
you know, uh, physical relationship that I miss the most.
It's like, I miss my friend, you know?
[Julian] You got to cut ties with this guy.
I knew he was no good from the beginning.
I'd say cut your losses, kick him to the curb
and come home.
You kind of have us under the impression that
she's a very controlling
and very jealous.
[Gabriel] She's overstepping
[joyful music playing]
[Gabriel] Earlier today, my family arrive in Colombia for my wedding.
My mom's tired from the trip.
So she decided to stay at the apartment.
So, right now,
me, my sister, her boyfriend,
and Isabel, we are all gonna have lunch together.
So I think this is a great opportunity for them to just
finally get to know each other.
But I'm a little nervous
because I don't know what's really gonna happen.
-So what's up? -[in Spanish]
[Gabriel] Do you like this place?
Um, yeah. It's cute.
Is that your ring?
[Monica] Okay. Very cute.
Um...
[speaking Spanish]
No. No photos.
No story. Nothing.
She just came home one day and said Gabe's getting married, so...
[all laughing]
[Gabriel] It feels a little awkward
because my sister doesn't even know how I proposed to Isabel.
But she's very opinionated.
She's like, kind of, mean sometimes.
So I just try to make everything vague
because I really didn't want to hear anything negative.
'Cause it's between me and Isabel, not me, Isabel and Monica.
[in Spanish]
[Isabel clears throat]
Um...
[Gabriel] So who wants to ask what to what?
[in Spanish]
Yeah.
[in Spanish]
[in English] She doesn't have questions.
She just wants to talk to you about one thing.
Okay.
[in Spanish]
[translator in English] Monica, I understand that you have a lot of doubts about me.
Because you don't know me.
Everything is fine.
I just want to know that you are not
expecting anything unrealistic from him.
And that you are willing to help him
when he i s down.
[translator in Spanish]
[Isabel in Spanish]
[in English] So I have to ask...
how would you feel if Gabriel
wanted you to sign a prenup?
[translator in Spanish]
[clears throat]
[Isabel in Spanish]
[in English] I'm really confused because when I asked Gabriel about the prenup,
he was scared to even mention it to you.
So it doesn't make sense
that you are so willing to just go ahead and sign.
Are you being honest with me?
[in Spanish]
[Gabriel] At this point of the conversation,
I just want to crawl in my shell and just like hide.
[laughs]
But it's not out of the ordinary
for there to be tension
with Monica and somebody I'm dating
because it's... it's just her personality.
And it's overstepping to where it's like...
only hurting me.
[in Spanish]
[translator in English] I don't understand why if you are so close,
'cause you have so many questions
and so much incorrect information.
[Isabel in Spanish]
[in English] I feel that Gabe is my best friend.
So I'm kind of confused because
his fiancée is telling me that,
basically, if you guys are so close
then why don't you know about our relationship?
This is really you and him thing now.
Now I'm looking at Gabe like,
"What's going on between us?"
So, Gabe, why is it that
you make it seem as if
you brought up the prenup to her
then it would cause an argument?
I already told you that I didn't want a prenup in the first place,
'cause then why would I even get married?
You, kind of, have us under the impression that
she's very controlling
and very jealous.
Things that are kind of, like red flags...
Yeah, well, all you want to know is the problems.
You don't ask me, "Oh, you know,
what do you like about her?"
You just always go to something bad.
I mean, because you only say the good.
So I... I want to get...
So I only... So I only say the good.
-So you want me to say the bad. -I want to hear both sides.
Well, that's my opinion. That's my opinion.
It's that I don't have a lot of good things to say about her,
but you want me to say bad things about her.
So I'm like...
[Isabel in Spanish]
[in English] Gabriel can sugarcoat things
and act like everything is okay
because he's very nonconfrontational.
Because I don't know you personally,
I'm not sure whether
him holding back how he is feeling
is due to him being afraid of you.
[translator in Spanish]
[in English] I appreciate your time and you inviting me out
to speak about this.
And I think that me and Gabriel
need to have a talk one-on-one to discuss this.
[Isabel in Spanish]
[translator in English] And family loves Gabriel
and respects Gabriel very much
because Gabriel is a very brave man.
[Monica] I'm very overprotective of Gabe.
We have always just had each other
and so we want to know that
he's taken care of while he's in Colombia.
So it makes me very happy
to know that he has a home with your family.
[sniffles]
No, Monica.
I'm surprised seeing Monica getting so emotional.
I now see that
she is really coming from a place for love.
It's just... sometimes she's just so hard on me.
But then sometimes, she will be nice.
So I'm just so confused all the time
about where I stand with her.
Well, don't be sad. It's... It's a good thing. It's okay.
Like, is this real?
Or is it gonna be like something different tomorrow?
I'm always gonna be here, Monica.
Like you are not gonna lose me. You are just gaining...
you're gaining a whole... big Colombian family.
[in Hindi]
[tense music playing]
[Rishi in Hindi]
[in English]
[in Hindi]
[Gajendra speaking]
[in English]
[in Hindi]
[Gajendra speaking]
[Shimla speaking]
[in English] Feels like, uh...
[sighs]
I lost everything. I lost every hope.
And, um... [sighs]
I'm feeling that, um...
I broke from head to toe.
[in Hindi]
[Gajendra] Eh?
[sniffles]
[Rishi in English] I know like, uh...
I know Indian families. I know...
their... their mentality.
The age matter
from the beginning is going to be a big concern.
That's why I wanted to like...
spend more time.
Maybe, uh, if my parents will not find out anything...
Maybe things become different.
Maybe in our favor.
[sighing wistfully]
Jen like, uh...
She loved me so much and...
She moved here like...
She did a lot for me.
[sniffles]
So...
that's why I'm in a very hard situation right now.
Everything is like... [sighs]
Ruined.
[Gabriel] Next time on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.
[Yohan in Spanish]
[in English] I'm not doing this anymore.
I don't want this angry, jealous man.
Today is the day that me and Isabel are gonna get married.
[cell phone vibrating]
-I know. I know. -[crying]
You are like a ticking time bomb.
I don't know if next week
you're gonna get angry again,
but love can conquer anything.
Did they say no?
Stop wasting my time.
You want to scream at me?
Oh, you don't... We are done.
[Kris] God damn it.
[Jeymi in Spanish]
[Kris in English] I'm [bleep] done.