[Latricia] Previously on "Love & Marriage: Huntsville."
Got the Friendship Snake, because once you bite me
one time, it's a wrap for me.
-I'm over it. -Are you sure?
I know what to put -- what box to put everybody in.
-What's the label on my box? -"Don't trust that hoe."
[Maurice] I drive by the project every day
and it looks the same like last week.
And if this wasn't a family situation,
do you think that I'd be having a conversation with you?
What are you saying?
Paperwork tends to motivate people.
Motivate me then, Reece.
-Motivate me. -[mouthing] Alright.
[Destiny] Did ran into Twan
and we were talking about rumors and he brought up
that people think him and Kayla are dating.
-You and T are cool? -Yeah, I don't know.
She be having, like, friendship [bleep].
-[bleep]. -[laughing].
And then you talk about me to Kimmi.
-You're delusional. -[bleep], you wanna cut me girl.
-You're delusional. -OK, I'm gonna be delusional about this relationship.
-I'm good. -[Destiny] Alright.
Yeah, 'cause it's too much work.
Too much work?
All the work I had to put in with you?
You a [bleep] liar, Tisha.
[LaTisha] Oh, [bleep] you.
♪ We keep it moving ♪
♪ All day, all night, yeah ♪
♪ There ain't no stopping us ♪
♪ Drop that, we ain't stopping ♪
♪ You know, you know ♪
♪ We keep it moving ♪
♪ All day, all night, yeah ♪
♪ Yeah, all day, all night ♪
♪ Yeah, ain't no stopping us ♪
♪ Yeah ♪
[upbeat music playing]
[Nell giggles]
[Chris] Your adult beverage.
[Nell giggles]
-This is for you, my dear. -[Chris] Oh, thank you, darling.
Drink a little water. Been working hard, baby?
-You sweating. -[Chris] Yeah, pat me down.
OK.
And can you pour me some lemonade?
Sure, dear.
[Chris] Thank you.
I actually invited Kayla over.
-Oh, is Smoot coming? -[Nell] Yeah.
-She's coming? -You do remember what Destiny said, don't you?
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So I invited Kayla to the house today, because there
is a a rumor going around that our daughter,
Kayla, is actually dating our godson, Twan.
I really hope it's not true.
There is a big age difference there.
I do have a problem with the age gap.
I wouldn't, if he hadn't already been married
and have two teenage kids.
But the fact that he does, yeah, I have a problem that.
Hi, beautiful people.
-Oh, sexy lady. -Hi, beautiful.
-[Chris] How you doing, baby? -Hi, dad, I'm good.
What y'all got going on?
Oh, just sitting here with my adult beverage.
-Talking about life. -[chuckles]
-How's the daycare going? -[Nell] How's enrollment?
It's going really good. I actually enrolled two today.
[Nell] Really?
Look at you, just stepped into the program director role.
I'm doing my thing at this program director thing,
you know what I mean?
With that said, talked to Lance and Destiny,
and Destiny said something to the effect of,
"Twan says there's supposed to be a rumor about him
that he's dating Kayla."
[tense music playing]
Is it just a rumor? Is it true?
Is it not true?
To clarify, um, uh,
we didn't want y'all to find out this way.
We have went on dates...
before.
I am lost for words.
I am too.
[Nell] Kayla confirms that she's actually dating Twan.
We look at Twan like a son,
and Kayla's actually my daughter.
And, um, it kinda took me to a blow to the chest.
Everything was just fluttering in there.
It's, like, is there a problem with us talking?
Or possibly dating?
Yeah.
Yeah, because if you two
knew you had interest in each other,
we should have known.
We've been around y'all, and y'all have done
a pretty good damn amazing job of trying to hide it.
It wasn't necessarily to hide it.
We're just very low-key, and we're not out there
with our business unless it's something that we want
to put out there when we're ready to put it out there.
You kinda was trying to hide it, you know?
[Nell] You definitely was hiding it if you were around us
and Twan was around us as well. -[Chris] No one said anything.
No one said anything. We didn't see it.
It definitely took me by surprise.
To clarify, I knew Twan before you guys introduced us,
as y'all godson.
I worked at a bar-restaurant last year, um.
He was the security guard.
We exchanged numbers then.
We never had went on a date before then, but, you know,
when you guys introduced us, it was kinda like, "Oh, OK.
It's a little awkward."
But Twan has been around Lance for a minute.
But he didn't know that we were siblings.
Because when I worked at the bar-restaurant,
a lot of people didn't know that we were siblings.
Once he found out, we both was like,
OK, let's take a step back, let's talk about this.
But we both started training, working out together,
you know, spending time together, shoot pool.
We've been to the movies, to dinner, things like that.
But we're just still figuring it out right now.
I do not like this.
I don't like the fact that I found out like this.
We usually don't have secrets from each other.
You usually tell me everything.
We talk about everything.
And you held this.
So to me...
you held back on me.
And I -- and I don't understand why.
I'm really trying to get this timeline
between her and Twan of when they met.
Kayla's telling me one thing, and I'm thinking another.
I'm not sure.
So now that I have spoken to Kayla, Twan just...
flat-out lied.
I haven't yet spoke to Twan, but I'm still not having
clarity with the whole thing of who know what,
for when, for how long.
So I still think that's a lot that is under the surface
that, uh, is not being said.
Who else know? Does it --
does your siblings have an idea...
about this? -Yeah, I mean, I don't know.
Chris, Kiki?
I -- I don't know if Twan has said anything to anybody, so...
But, you know, I haven't.
I'm gonna contact your siblings,
and we're gonna have a gathering.
-See what else we can find out. -Yeah, I'm -- I'm done here.
Yeah, I -- I -- I don't have nothing else to say.
It's not what I was expecting to hear.
[upbeat music playing]
-Hey! -[Kimmi] Hey, lady!
-How are you? -How you doing?
-[Kimmi] I'm good. -[LaTisha] Good!
It seemed like with this group of ladies,
the only person I can trust right now is Kimmi.
So I'm super excited to just catch up and talk a little bit
and just, you know, let some steam off.
I just got off the phone with Marsau.
-They made it to Rome. -Oh, I'm so excited.
[LaTisha] I know. I was like, "Aw.
Look at y'all, just the two of y'all."
[Kimmi] Yeah.
[LaTisha] That's right. -And that's what MJ wanted, right?
-He wanted to go see Kendrick Lamar, yeah. -[Kimmi] OK.
And so the time was, like, pressing, and Marsau was
like, "I guess we're gonna have to go to Rome to go see him."
I was like, "I'm sure that's a win-win right there."
[Kimmi] I'm waiting for some of those pictures.
-You know, Marsau don't take too long... -He don't!
[Kimmi] ...to get on social media.
See, if it was me, I would have already had pictures up.
As we were going through the airport and everything.
-[LaTisha] Yes. -I tried to get him to bum y'all's trip
and then go with Marsau and MJ.
[LaTisha] Who, Maurice?
That would have been funny.
He gonna be the one to take off work.
Yeah, I don't know if Marsau and Maurice could be together
right now, though.
Did Maurice tell you about him and Marsau conversation?
He did.
And in his version, he told me it got a little heated.
Mm-hmm.
[Kimmi] 'Cause he's a little frustrated.
I don't know if it's a quote-unquote choice,
but I don't really understand the holdup.
-If it was another general contractor... -Right.
...I probably would have got somebody else by now.
-[LaTisha] Mm-hmm. -Because I'm frustrated.
-[LaTisha] Mm-hmm. -Like, I fired the grass guy for less.
I don't know, maybe we need to all, like, maybe...
all get together and talk about it and see.
This is really bad.
Like, this is as bad as it's ever been,
um, for Marsau and Maurice.
And hopefully, once Marsau return from Rome,
they can sit down and figure this out.
So listen, did you get that text from Trish
about her party? -Yeah, I got it.
-[Kimmi] You going? -Mm-hmm.
Yeah, I like a theme party. It's gonna be fun.
[Kimmi] The drag show, how about that?
Have you ever been to one before?
[LaTisha] I have not.
-Me neither. -[LaTisha] Mnh-mnh.
Trish is having a theme party.
I love a good theme party.
Like, this is an alter ego, um, new beginnings.
Like, I don't know, but I'm here for it.
So I'm super excited to see all the ladies,
super excited about this theme party.
However, I do know that Destiny is going to be there,
so we're just gonna see how it all plays out.
I don't know if I told you about the open house.
After you and I had the conversation,
after you told me about what Destiny said,
she text me or she sent me some information
about her open house.
And so, of course, I'm gonna -- to ask her about it
at her open house.
But when I go there, I was like,
I didn't see her sign in the yard,
her broker's sign was in the yard.
I was like, "Is this your open house?
Or are you just sitting for somebody?"
She was like, "It's mine." And she was like, "Um, well,
yeah, I mean you get commission, whatever, whatever."
And I think that probably ruined the mood for us.
'Cause I'm sure she probably took it as me being shady,
which at the end of the day, I asked a question,
I ain't know.
So the thing just escalated from there.
And I don't know, at one point, I was like, "Well,
you had the audacity to talk about me to Kimmi.
"Like, she's not gonna come and tell me.
Like, that's not OK."
I said, "Well, if you felt that way, you should have called me."
And she was like, "Well, I'm telling you now."
I was like, "Of course you're telling me now.
I already know about it."
See, that's the energy that I keep
trying to tell y'all, how easily it can, like,
be offensive. -[LaTisha] Mm-hmm.
I was very much offended. I'm -- I swear to God, Kimmi,
it just brought back memories from people
used to bully me in middle school,
people laughing and joking on me, like, I don't like that.
People have talked about the way I communicate.
Like, I don't want to be a joking matter
for people I consider a friend.
I wouldn't sit there and talk about something
I know you're sensitive about.
That's mean girl stuff, I don't do that.
I don't know what it is that keeps sparking with y'all.
And my experience with Destiny and Nell, quite frankly,
is when they're...
unhappy about a relationship or situation,
they say mean stuff.
I do believe that in a healthy friendship,
when there's a problem, you have a conversation
about it. You talk about it.
You don't just go on the attack immediately.
That's not what friends do. So maybe...
maybe Tisha and Destiny need to have a sit down.
Maybe they need to have a chat.
Maybe Tricia's party is the best place to get it done.
Would you be open at any point
to having a conversation with her?
-No. -[Kimmi] No?
Not right now.
So every single time -- now it's gonna be weird?
[LaTisha] No, it's not.
Please, I -- I don't want it to be weird.
I'm going to be... I'm gonna be me.
-OK. -I'm going to be me.
[Marsau] Coming up on "Love & Marriage: Huntsville."
[Marcus] Ladies!
If you are ready for some drag, make some [bleep] noise!
[all cheer]
Do you feel like you can trust Ken?
Do you feel like he'll be telling you the truth?
Oh, I feel like we can --
[LaTisha] So did y'all sleep with somebody else
if that's the thing y'all did? -Well...
2 [upbeat music playing]
-[Latricia] Hi. -Hello.
-Tricia? -Yes.
Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you in person.
-Aw, you too. -[Marcus] You ready for the drag show?
-I am. -Have you been to a drag show?
I have not.
I've watched a lot of them. I have not.
So I invited all the ladies.
We're all meeting up to go to this drag show,
my first drag show. It's called Sad Brunch.
And I'm just hoping we can have fun, dance, chop it up,
and just be -- have fun like we can have fun.
But, I don't know, with these -- these girls, it's just,
you just never know.
[upbeat music playing]
-Oh, look -- -What is this?
Hey, beautiful. How are you?
We're having a drag show, honey.
-OK. -Have you been to a drag show?
-I have not. -OK.
Drag shows are 100% full participation.
-Oh, really? -[Marcus] So if you like what you see,
you got to -- do y'all have dollars?
-Did y'all bring your dollar bills for the show? -I'm wearing some
-[indistinct]. -If not, we have some for you.
Well, if you like what you see, you throw the queen a dollar.
If you don't like it, give them two so they get better.
-Oh, that's how that works. -That's how that works.
-[Kimmi] OK. -Yeah.
So she's celebrating new beginnings today.
I was telling her we always celebrate something when
we come to a drag show. -New beginnings,
we're doing an alter-ego type thing, you know?
I like beginnings. -What's the new beginning?
-You'll find out. -Oh, you won't tell me.
Tricia said, "Let's link up, let's link up."
We're doing a whole alter-ego thing.
And truth be told, I don't know what we're getting into.
Like, I don't.
I don't know what we're getting into.
Y'all grab a drink, I'm gonna go grab the queens,
and I'll be back. -OK.
-[Sharon] Hey. -[Latricia] Hello, hello.
-[Kimmi] Hey, lady! -[indistinct], hey, how are you?
-This is my baby, Sharon. -I met her at the premiere.
-You did, you did. -[Kimmi] Hi, darling.
-How are you? -Girl!
-[Kimmi] You look beautiful. -Thank you.
Tell me how low did you go?
So this party is really getting started.
I am super excited to have my girls, Tamanika,
Tamika, Tracy, and Rebecca.
So I don't know, I'm just ready to get
this thing popping.
-Hey, I'm Kimmi. -Yes.
-Hi, what's your name? -Nice to meet you.
-I'm Tammy. -Hi, Tammy, nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you. -[Kimmi] Come on, ladies.
Y'all come and grab y'all a drink.
[upbeat music playing]
Ooh.
-Hi! -[LaTisha] Hey!
Whoo!
-Hey, girl. -Hey, it's quiet.
-How you doing? -I thought it was like a party, celebrate.
-[Kimmi] It didn't start yet. -Well, they -- he went to go get the host.
-This is a drag queen show. -OK, oh, OK.
I'm a little nervous, 'cause I was --
I was listening to some,
what I thought was gonna be some situations with this group.
So I was like, "Ooh, I'm a little nervous."
-She said, "situations." -What you listening to?
-Who told you situations? -We don't ever have situations.
Situations was who Tisha was mad at, who Destiny was mad at.
-I was like, "I'm a little nervous to meet this group." -Who told you?
-Did Tricia -- you did? -Let's be clear.
I didn't say that, Nell did.
Of course Nell did.
And who doesn't get along?
Destiny's like, "Oh, my God, I ain't going to nothing
because LaTisha is mad at me right now."
[Nell] LaTisha can't tell her why,
and she wanna know how I feel about it.
I'm like, "Destiny, I really don't wanna get into it."
Of course.
Listen, I'm not mad at anyone. I'm good with everybody.
[tense music playing]
Well, hello.
[Kimmi] Hi! How are you?
-Hello. -How are you?
[Sharon] Good, how are you?
-Really glittery. -I like it.
-Thank you. -[Kimmi] You smell good.
There's no need for us to hug and touch.
And then she gives me the hug
and put all her hair in my face.
Like, you could have kept that hug.
-[Marcus] Ladies! -Yes!
Oh, here's our host.
Welcome, welcome, welcome, baby.
If you are ready for some drag, make some [bleep] noise.
[all cheering]
I got some sexy ladies in the house.
Also, I hear we are here celebrating a bachelorette.
Is that true? Make some noise.
[LaTisha] Ooh there's a bachelorette in the building.
-Who's the bachelorette? -[Marcus] No bachelorette?
Just me? Am I just getting married?
-[indistinct] -Trish, you're a bachelorette?
I'm not only confused about the new beginning,
the bachelorette, Tricia and Ken,
the whole thing is just confusing to me.
Are y'all ready to have a good time with me say, "hell yeah!"
-[all cheer] -Hell yeah!
Alright, play that funky music.
[funky music playing]
[all cheer]
♪ Please just go and be ♪
♪ Oh, and don't slam it ♪
♪ Oh, no, don't slam it, don't ♪
[upbeat music playing]
Whoo!
[Latricia] I couldn't miss it!
[Destiny] OK!
-Hey, girl! -Hey, boo, I'm here!
You're here, she has arrived!
Fashionably late.
-She has arrived. -[overlapping chatter]
[Latricia speaking]
[Destiny] Great minds think alike.
I could have just kept it simple like you.
-Who, me? -[Nell] Yeah.
Yeah, you could have.
And I'd been on time.
Child, right now, Trish wants to clap at me
and tell me I'm fashionably late,
well, she got that [bleep] right.
I am fashionably, and I am damn late.
But guess what?
I am the best dressed, unlike the rest of them.
[Marcus] If y'all feeling like some more drag,
let me hear you say, "Hell, yeah."
[all] Hell, yeah!
If y'all drinking in the building,
let me hear you say, "Hell, yeah."
[all] Hell, yeah!
And get ready to usher in, she goes by the professional
name of Lala Reid.
Whoo!
-Yeah! -[LaTisha] Lala Reid!
♪ She wants me by my car ♪
[Nell] Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah!
♪ She said show me if you are ♪
♪ 'Cause I only go ♪
[attendee] Yeah!
[Marcus] You better dance Lala, you better dance Lala.
girl, you better dance with Lala.
Bye, girl, you better dance, girl.
♪ Girl, you're so Hollywood ♪
♪ Born to be a star ♪
♪ Up in Hollywood ♪
♪ Need to have a star ♪
[Marcus] Are you having a good time? Hey.
♪ You're blinded by the lights ♪
♪ Yeah, in Hollywood ♪
♪ Ah, ah, Hollywood ♪
I am actually having fun at this drag show.
This will not be my last one. I'm telling you that now.
I love it. This is fun.
This is cool.
We have had such a good time with y'all.
-Hell yeah! -[all] Hell yeah!
[Marcus] I can't hear you.
-I said, "Hell yeah!" -[all] Hell yeah!
Ladies, we love y'all down, up and down, all around.
I love all these queens in the building.
Make some noise for your mother[bleep] selves!
-[all] Whoo! -I gotta go, y'all.
[all cheering]
And I miss doing these type of things in Atlanta.
So it's like, hey,
back outside having a good time,
getting to see the ladies perform.
I -- I will say that this drag show is so much fun.
It's really fun.
I liked it, Trish, thank you for getting us together.
For your bachelorette party.
Now, the DJ said, "It was a new beginning."
Mm-hmm.
And old girl up there said it was a bachelorette.
I don't feel like they just making stuff up.
I'm confused.
OK, well...
[Maurice] Coming up on "Love & Marriage: Huntsville."
Do you feel like you can trust Ken?
Do you feel like he'll be telling you the truth?
Um, I feel like we can. What -- what we got...
That's a yes or no. That's a yes or no.
So is it fair to say you and Destiny are not
as close as we all thought y'all were?
It is fair to say that. Absolutely, yeah.
Do you feel like you owe her an apology?
No, [bleep] no.
Horrible friend. Horrible friend.
2 The DJ said it was a new beginning.
-Mm-hmm. -And old girl up there
said it was a bachelorette.
I don't feel like they just making stuff up.
I'm confused.
Well, look, the new beginnings,
I understand, that's why I wanna bring y'all ladies here for,
for a new beginning, because I am transitioning from my job
of 20 years. -Oh, OK.
-Into the fitness world. -Oh, yeah.
-Congratulations. -That's the new beginning.
That's dope.
Now, the bachelorette [bleep] is beyond me.
First of all, we didn't know what "New beginnings" meant.
So this revelation is actually a welcome surprise.
I'm actually happy for Trish.
She's talked about going into entrepreneurship
for a really long time.
She's great at what she does, and I think that this will
actually be right in her vein. I think she's gonna do great.
I'm happy for her.
So you and Ken gonna still do this thing together?
We're gonna still do it together.
Even though we went through a little rough patch.
-A couple patches. -[Latricia] We talked --
A few, goddamn, there's a few, a whole bunch of them.
-One or two. -No, four or five.
But -- but, you know, we came together and was like...
I think we was like, "We are better together."
But I do have a question.
Do you feel like you can trust Ken?
Do you feel like he'll be telling you the truth?
Uh, I feel like we can. What -- what we got...
That's a yes or no. That's a yes or no.
In the beginning, yes, I could have.
But when we went through what we was going through?
No, 'cause he couldn't trust me either.
[LaTisha] You're talking about recently.
-Right, he couldn't trust me either. -Where was the issue --
where was the issue of trust come in?
Um...
[LaTisha] Sometimes y'all sleep with somebody else?
-Is that's the thing y'all do? -Well...
Both of y'all?
I spin the block on someone.
-[Nell] Ooh! -[Latricia] I did.
-I'm not gonna lie. -Martell?
[all clamor]
I know that's your best friend,
but let's not protect your best friend here.
I ain't never done nothing with Martell.
Once somebody in my DM, I was like, "[bleep] yeah."
So that's exactly what I did.
It was right after the separation,
so it was a good block to spin.
She said she spin that damn block.
-"I spin that block." -She ain't mad about spinning the block.
She ain't mad about spinning the block.
It was worth it.
Close her eyes every time she say it.
-And smile. -It was a good block to spin.
And smile.
[Latricia] But at the end of the day,
I'm not [bleep] the block no more.
I even -- I even blocked his ass, sorta, kind of.
-I -- but it's like yeah. -What?
I don't think that's out of your system.
She said "Sorta, kinda."
-[indistinct], I ain't... -She said "sorta, kinda."
I blocked him on the messages [bleep].
So y'all both stepped out, and then y'all realized
"This ain't what we want out here.
We wanna be together, and so now --" -We did, we did.
But what make you think y'all ain't gonna step out again?
Or he's not gonna step out again?
Well, because there's communication.
He's not gonna be in them DMs like that.
We did let people, the comments get to us.
I didn't, Kenny did, 'cause I don't read the comments.
But Trice, if it was so easy for him to let these comments
get to him, I don't know if you need to be, like,
giving him another chance like that.
I do love him.
-And we both made some mistakes. -[LaTisha] OK.
We both talked about our mistakes.
We both communicated about it and wanted to fix it.
Did you set boundaries moving forward?
-We did set boundaries. -[LaTisha] OK.
We set boundaries.
I just wanna know what the hell are Trish and Ken
doing at this point?
You know, this is not healthy.
It's not healthy for her.
It's not healthy for him.
And it's sure as hell not healthy for her children.
Destiny, I'm glad to see you showed up,
even though I was the last one here, and late.
Why wouldn't I show up?
Well, earlier, you -- you -- when I talked to you,
you weren't sure if you was gonna show up or not.
Oh, yeah, yeah, I did say that.
Yep, you're right.
Yeah, they worse than me and Ken's situation.
We confused as hell, they confused as hell,
so I'm confused as hell. What -- what happened?
-[LaTisha] Who was that confused? -Who is they?
Well, Nell said that Destiny wasn't showing up because of...
Ow, ow!
Because of some issue her and Tisha had.
I thought they were squashed.
I thought everything was peaches and gravy.
I did, too, until she brought it up to me.
She has no reason to be upset with me.
She said you -- you -- she don't know why you mad at her.
Destiny was making jokes about me,
and her and Kimmi laughing about it.
And that's not funny to me.
Don't try to humiliate me or make jokes about me
as your humor. -It wasn't necessarily a joke.
She was being sincere in regards to how she felt about
y'all's relationship. -[LaTisha] Mm-hmm.
And she felt like... one day it's OK,
and then one day, there may be some comment
or issue that kind of makes it topsy-turvy.
But to me, speaking badly about me
in a joking manner it's not funny to me.
But it wasn't, like, badly. I don't think it was badly.
-What did y'all say? -[Kimmi] [bleep],
so Destiny phrased it as, um, friendship.
Friendship [bleep].
And we get together and it's like, you know,
we're having dinner. I'm mad at you!
[Maurice] Coming up on "Love & Marriage: Huntsville."
I'm not no [bleep] parrot. I'm saying how I feel.
-Man, you started at the wine trip? -[Destiny] Got me [bleep] up.
-No, you got me [bleep] up, baby, [indistinct]. -No, you got me [bleep] up.
-[indistinct] -Listen, you got me all the way [bleep] up.
-Don't play with me, don't [bleep] play with me. -No, you don't play with me.
-I'm not your [bleep] toy. -No, you wanna [bleep] with me.
-Wait a minute, wait a minute. -Stop.
2 But to me, speaking badly about me in a joking manner
is not funny. -But it wasn't like, I don't think it was bad.
-What did y'all say? -[bleep],
So Destiny phrased it as friendship...
-Friendship [bleep]. -Friendship [bleep].
And we get together and it's like, you know,
we're having dinner. I'm mad at you!
No, that's not true. We're good.
And then you say something that's disrespectful or rude
and you laugh about it, I'm gonna call you out on it.
Do you feel like you owe her an apology?
No, [bleep] no.
I apologized for her feelings way too [bleep]
many times at this point.
It's funny to me 'cause she's never apologized
for my feelings.
And Destiny has been through a lot
for the past couple of years, and I have sat with her
on the phone, listened to her complain
over and over and over again. -Complain?
And when anything happened, I was there for her.
The one time she had the chance to be there for me,
she was not.
-So she can have all this -- -When Kiki died,
I wasn't on your driveway holding you while you was crying?
-OK, the one time. -The one time, what was that?
Was I not in your driveway holding you while you were
breaking down crying? -That's -- that's different.
That's a [bleep] lie, Tisha.
Tisha forgets stuff that did happen,
and she remembers stuff that didn't happen.
Delulu or you tell me.
One time when you had to defend me with a group
of people that's talking badly about me. -Who was that?
-Nell, Martell. -You and Martell been fighting
way before I even knew you.
Y'all been fighting for 20 years.
You want me to jump in and defend you on battles
that you start?
My thing is we have a different definition
of friendship and loyalty.
My definition is how I act towards my friends.
Hers is different, and that's OK.
Destiny has been loyal to people who has
attacked my marriage, who has attacked me
as a person, as a woman.
With Nell, I can sorta kinda understand.
I can see that relationship.
But with Martell, no, I can't see that.
And at the end of the day, Martell has really gone too far.
Destiny is very aware of the hurt and how I feel about
the throwing shade against the cheating in my marriage.
She's very aware that -- her and I have had
plenty of conversations about it.
[Destiny] Yes, and I've defended you multiple times.
[LaTisha] Coming from Martell, coming from Nell.
I've literally had on a damn referee outfit
defending her, literally putting my body
between you and another man, Martell.
You know she [bleep], [bleep], right?
-[bleep], [bleep] you. -[bleep], [bleep].
That was a comment!
You was uglier than you are, fatter than you are.
What the [bleep] are you talking about I didn't [bleep] her?
-You are being so immature. -But are you good?
-[Martell] Never done Tisha. -Are you good?
Tisha got the bottom of the barrel.
And she kept it.
So miss me with that loyalty.
But you started that conversation, Destiny.
I asked a simple question on how him and Marsau could fix it.
[LaTisha] Right.
And you didn't even give me a heads-up.
You didn't call me and say, "Hey, Martell got a problem
with y'all, and I'm about to have a field day." -Martell always got a problem
with y'all, I gotta tell you that again? -[LaTisha] Yes, Destiny.
So is it fair to say you and Destiny are not as close
as we all thought y'all were? -It is fair to say that.
-Absolutely, yeah. -Well, let's say it then.
-[LaTisha] That's all her actions towards me. -Oh, my God,
no that's not -- what we're gonna say.
That's off her actions towards me.
-My actions towards you? -That's off her actions towards me,
Because I'm supposed to die on the cross when Tisha...
-I thought we was better than where we're at. -...start [bleep] with people
and fall out with them, I'm supposed to die off on a cross?
Kimmi, please don't say nothing else that
she can repeat. -[Destiny] Die on a cross.
What did I say? You started [bleep] with Nell.
That ain't nothing to do with me.
I started with you, Nell?
-I started with them, Nell. -Yeah, at the -- at the wine trip.
I'm not no [bleep] parrot. I'm saying how I feel.
-Man, you started at the wine trip? -[Destiny] [bleep] got me
[bleep] up. -No, you got me [bleep] up, baby, [indistinct].
-No, you got me [bleep] up. -Listen, you got me all the way [bleep] up.
-Don't play with me, don't [bleep] play with me. -No, you don't play with me.
-I'm not your [bleep] toy. -No, you wanna [bleep] with me.
-Wait a minute, wait a minute. -That's a lie, Tisha.
That's a lie.
-That's a lie. -Baby!
Let's not, because you've been very disrespectful.
-You've been disrespectful. -[Destiny] You've been disrespectful, you done calling
me a hoe, always digging up you and your brand.
-But when you step into my open house... -[LaTisha indistinct]
"Oh, this ain't even your open house.
I'm gonna take my word back. This is not even your listing."
Is this your listing?
I am doing the open house for this listing, yes.
Oh, OK.
Well, I'm gonna keep my champagne.
And I was giving you a brand-new champagne
as a congratulations for your first listing.
Yeah, no, this isn't my first listing.
-[LaTisha] That's [indistinct]. -You trying to diminish what I was doing.
Is the goal to, like, stay mad?
-Because the goal for me is to... -She been saying what she been
mad about and it's getting longer and longer and longer.
-I mean... -[LaTisha] Oh, you talking about me?
Oh, you talking about me?
Oh, my goodness.
What are we arguing for again?
This is the great time to figure out what the hell
we're arguing for now. 'Cause I am so confused.
-Friendship [bleep], you got it, you got it. -Tell me, tell me.
-Tell me. -[Destiny] That's what I said. That's what I said.
That's not even nothing serious to be mad about.
-This is some dumb-ass -- -[bleep] word.
[Destiny] What you really mad about?
What did I talk about you and say?
Horrible friend. Horrible friend.
-[Destiny] You're a horrible friend. -OK.
I'm dating, you wanna call me a hoe?
You didn't call me a snake.
I get back into real estate,
"You're not even really doing real estate."
You wanna go all around and deflect and say I call her
a whore, girl, whatever. It's a figure of speech.
-It don't matter. -[LaTisha] I said that
after she was making fun of me... -[Destiny] Oh, my God --
...and I confronted her about it and now it's all of a sudden,
"You called me a whore." -But you did.
-"And you called me a snake." -And you did.
[LaTisha] You taking ownership of what you did and acknowledging --
-I thought the snake was for me. -It was for you.
It was absolutely for you.
[Martell] Coming up on "Love & Marriage: Huntsville."
-[LaTisha] Oh, you sitting right here, if you -- -Oh, man, all [bleep].
-Destiny! -[indistinct], [bleep] confront you.
-This ain't no [bleep]. -I'm about to walk through the door.
Not one time did you give me a heads up.
[bleep] her and [bleep] all this [bleep].
2 I said that after she was making fun of me,
and I confronted her about it, and now it's all of a sudden
-"You called me a whore." -But you did
-And, "You called me a snake," -And you did.
[LaTisha] Versus you taking ownership of what you did.
I thought the snake was for me.
It was for you. It was absolutely for you.
My mom taught me that once a snake bites you one time,
you don't get the opportunity to do it again.
Nell and I will never be close. We'll be cordial.
We'll be cool in the room together around people.
But close, yeah, no.
You're not gonna get that from us.
What you said to me was that, "Oh, you don't defend me
in rooms that I'm not in." The only person that don't defend you is your husband.
-Not me. -Oh, you bring my husband
because I can bring your -- -I fight for you. I'm just a whore.
I've checked your husband.
You've crossed a mother[bleep] line.
-Don't bring my husband into this. -I checked your husband for you.
-Don't bring my husband into this. -I've checked your husband
for you. -We can talk about --
-No, Destiny. -She said that to me,
I don't defend her in a room that she's not in. -[Kimmi] Destiny.
That's a [bleep] lie. Stop doing that.
-But I'm saying, Destiny, even as [bleep] friends. -[overlapping arguing]
-It's a real fake. -Y'all hitting way below the belt.
-She's hitting below the belt. -[overlapping arguing]
I'm a hoe? That ain't below the belt?
Stop saying [bleep] y'all can't take back.
Listen to what she said.
-Listen to what Miss Nell said. -I have always had her back.
I have always wished her well.
But as soon as I'm doing well, you wanna try
to beat me down, I'm a hoe. I'm not even a real realtor.
[LaTisha] You wanna do me like this?
My husband have nothing to do with this conversation.
You mad at me for not defending you and that's some bull[bleep].
-[LaTisha] I'm not mad at you. -You said that,
that was your exact words. -Destiny, I never said that.
-I said -- -You don't defend me in the room that I'm not in.
Do you wanna hear me clearly?
You ain't been clear this whole time, I don't wanna hear it.
[LaTisha] I'm not mad at you.
And I'm hurt because you wanna make some bull[bleep] out of nothing.
-[Latricia] OK, OK. -LaTisha --
[Nell] You're gonna have to stop saying things
so you can come back from it. -No, for real.
-Listen, listen, listen. -She say stuff under the belt and that's my problem.
-Can I say something? -LaTisha, pipe down.
Like, for real.
Because it's obvious that both of y'all have been hurt
by each other. I get that.
So I'm not, I'm not, I'm not on the page of, like,
everybody did something wrong. I'm not saying that.
But what I'm saying is that sometimes
when you have a small issue,
the tone in which you speak to each other make it
a bigger issue. -Yeah.
-[Kimmi] Is what I'm saying. -But I've been hurt.
That's what I'm saying.
And even when she had the opportunity,
even when me and her had brunch and Martell came.
I've been planning this party, running after
this four-year-old.
What's up? What's up?
-[Destiny] Hi. -[Martell] How y'all doing?
-Hi, well. -How you doing?
I can't sit at this table with the enemy
without my husband being here.
So I'm going to dismiss myself.
And y'all enjoy this. Bye.
[laughs]
Yeah, I have nothing for that.
I'm like, "Oh, I don't think Destiny would have done that."
But like at the end of the day, yeah, maybe she would have.
-Maybe she did. -Are you [bleep] kidding me?
-[LaTisha] Yeah. -[Destiny] You know I didn't, [bleep], [bleep].
-[indistinct]. -Destiny!
You think I called [bleep] to confront you?
-This ain't no [bleep]. -...walking through the door.
-I'm done, wrap this [bleep] up. -Girl, girl.
-[Destiny] [bleep], I'm done. -You -- you see -- you see,
see this person walking through the door. -I'm done, keep playing.
[LaTisha] Not one time did you give me a heads up.
[bleep] her, and [bleep] all this [bleep].
2 [indistinct] [bleep] business.
You think I called [bleep] to confront you?
This ain't no [bleep] no more. Don't play with me, Tisha.
I'm done, wrap this [bleep] up. I'm not doing it, I'm done. She playing.
Destiny, stop!
I'm not doing it, [bleep] her and [bleep] all this [bleep].
[Nell] Destiny!
Destiny, Destiny.
So when Tisha insinuates that I ambushed her with Martell
at the brunch, it's once again Tisha bringing up old things
that I thought we moved past. And also, I feel like it's just
another thing for her to play victim to.
She knows how I felt about that brunch and that ambush,
and she knew that I was ambushed, too.
I would never bring a man or anyone
to ambush another person.
So yeah, it was very disappointing.
And it pissed me off to the highest level of piss-tivity.
[LaTisha] I'ma speak my truth, and she can say whatever
she want, but she told me, "Oh, you don't have
any examples?" I gave her plenty of examples.
She don't want to accept the examples I gave her.
-[Destiny] [bleep] her and her fake ass. -[Nell] Destiny!
[Destiny] Get me a [bleep] car out of here, before I beat her ass.
She know exactly how I feel about the things Martell has
said about my marriage over the years.
[LaTisha] See, that's what I'm saying, y'all say --
When did I hit below the belt?
When did I hit below -- I could've said things
to hit below the belt.
We gotta stop going tit-for-tat,
and we gotta stop hitting below the belt.
She is deflecting.
She deflecting like a mother[bleep]
and I don't have time for [bleep].
You put shit in your household and stop trying
to deflect on me, on some bull[bleep].
You gonna say I don't defend you in rooms that you not in?
I said what I said. Your husband don't do that.
I meant that.
I defended you to your own [bleep] husband.
Well, you gotta realize, she's not gonna go
against her husband.
Well, don't go against me and think I'm not gonna tell the truth.
OK, that's where me and her had the issue at.
I don't care. You not gonna come against me
and say, I'm not gonna...
[Nell] She's not gonna go against her husband.
Whatever.
If Tisha was really, really concerned about
the disrespect or disregard for taking up for her
in our friendship, then she would be confronting
her husband about those same things.
So miss me with that.
-Get me the [bleep] outta here. -[Nell] Just give me a minute.
Let me go get... Hold on.
-You didn't come in that way. -Where's the door at?
-'Cause I got to go. -You are just that damn mad.
I gotta go back and get my [bleep].
[Destiny] I tried to keep my cool, and I tried to be cordial.
[Nell] Right there to the left. Let me go get my things, OK?
Destiny, I'm coming, I promise.
With this group of ladies,
they tend to hit below the belt.
And I think Destiny may have hit below the belt first.
But at the same time, I cannot
sit here and quite say that Destiny was totally wrong.
Sometimes Marsau may not be quite in tune to...
defending LaTisha.
I don't hit below the belt with people I call a friend.
And I could have hit below the belt on plenty of things,
but I did not, I don't do it.
I'm very cautious of my words.
'Cause once you say it, you can't take it back.
And no matter how much you say, "I'm sorry,"
once you say them words, sorry is not gonna fix it.
So be cautious about what you say to a person that
you consider, "Oh, I love you," or "I'm your friend."
'Cause I don't do that.
I don't hit below the belt until you keep hitting with me.
You damn right. Then I'm gonna knock the [bleep] out the park.
You don't wanna own up to the real issue.
That's the problem.
OK, you both saying the same thing.
She's saying you doing this, you deflecting.
That's what I'm saying. How am I deflecting?
What did I say to deflect?
I wanna bring up all the other issues versus
addressing what we're talking about.
-Hello? -[Destiny] Are you coming?
Hello?
[Nell] [indistinct] tell you I'm coming.
So you don't have to call the Uber.
-I will take you. -OK, well, I'm waiting.
I'm sorry, here I come.
I'm gonna have to go.
As this group, y'all have to hold [bleep] accountable.
If people don't wanna be accountable,
y'all have to hold people accountable. -[bleep] good.
I was really hoping that whatever little scuff y'all had
would kinda just dissipate like the other scuff.
-And I'm hoping this will, too, be the same over time... -Me too.
....because I feel like y'all have a pretty good relationship.
-OK, Trish, this has been fun. -[Latricia] I [bleep] don't know about that [bleep].
-It's been real, y'all. -Are we leaving or not?
[Nell] Yeah.
They said, "Yes," while pulling the chicken
off her chicken. -This food is [bleep] good.
Her hand on her chicken wing.
-[Latricia] I'm ready. -I want my sandwich.
[LaTisha] Get her a to-go box. Can we have a to-go box?
I can't believe you brought my husband in this.
-I thought you was better than that. -Shut the [bleep] up.
-[LaTisha] Are you cussing at me? -[Destiny] Yeah, I am.
-[LaTisha] Are you cussing at me? -Yes.
-[Kimmi] Tisha. -No, no, I'm serious.
-I feel you. -No, this -- don't, don't, don't.
I feel you, I feel you.
Kimmi, don't grab me like that.
[Kimmi] No, no, no, no. I'm gonna grab you.
No, no, no.
-No, yes, I will, yes, I will. -No, no, no, no, no, no.
-Yes, I will, yes, I will, yes, I will. -[LaTisha] No, no, no, listen.
-We're not gonna do that. We're not gonna do that. -Yes, I will.
No, we have to.
-No, we have to. -Yes, I will.
-We have to -- we have to let people talk.
-[Latricia] Yeah, let them talk. -Y'all -- y'all overreacted.
[overlapping arguing]
When Destiny made that statement about my husband,
she wanted to get under my skin.
And that's another thing that speaks on her character.
I don't think Destiny and I have a future anymore.
I think we have completed, this relationship is done.
It's like, signed off.
This is the most left I've seen y'all go
without coming back to center.
[Destiny] Oh, yeah, ain't no coming back.
When you go low with me, there's not coming back,
'cause you're revealing your heart to me.
Like, you've been waiting for a moment to go low.
I should have known better. My bad.
My [bleep] bad.
[Marsau] Next on "Love & Marriage: Huntsville."
Marsau felt like I should have came to him first
and let him know the status of my license. -Why?
Exactly. You know what I said to him?
I hope you said some good [bleep].
It's just Tisha not being an authentic friend.
Well, I did tell her.
I said, "You know, I do defend you in a room
"that you're not in because I have told multiple
people that you're not stupid."
Parents came to me about what Twan and I have going on
before I could even come to them
or before we could come to.
So I was wondering who said something.
Was I there for a dinner?
It felt more like an interrogation.
Twan, he's dating Kayla or whatever they got going on.
That ain't -- that ain't got nothing to do with me.
Destiny, I'm not gonna do that.
That's just not who I am.
I don't do [bleep] like that just to be doing it.
It's inconsiderate.