1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:02,241 [Tommy] Previously on Ready to Love... 2 00:00:02,241 --> 00:00:04,275 Welcome to the Ready to Love Philadelphia Reunion. 3 00:00:04,275 --> 00:00:05,275 I'm your host, Tommy Miles... 4 00:00:05,275 --> 00:00:07,689 Angie, who's been communicating the most? 5 00:00:07,689 --> 00:00:08,689 Who put in the most effort in? 6 00:00:08,689 --> 00:00:11,068 Calil. He shot his shot. 7 00:00:11,068 --> 00:00:13,827 -And scored. [laughs] -He scored? 8 00:00:13,827 --> 00:00:16,517 Fritz, kept in contact with anybody that's been on the journey. 9 00:00:16,517 --> 00:00:18,103 -Shani. -Wow! 10 00:00:18,103 --> 00:00:19,172 That's my woman. 11 00:00:19,172 --> 00:00:20,896 -Oh. -Nah. 12 00:00:20,896 --> 00:00:22,896 [Tommy exclaims] 13 00:00:22,896 --> 00:00:25,103 I asked Cam, was he talking to anybody else? 14 00:00:25,103 --> 00:00:26,137 And he told me no. 15 00:00:26,137 --> 00:00:27,586 But the fact that you told me you weren't 16 00:00:27,586 --> 00:00:28,793 and I found out otherwise, 17 00:00:28,793 --> 00:00:30,379 you playing in my face? 18 00:00:30,379 --> 00:00:31,862 [Angie whispers] Thank God. 19 00:00:31,862 --> 00:00:36,275 So the question to you, Cam, is, are you expecting or are you not? 20 00:00:36,275 --> 00:00:37,586 -[gasps] -[Shanice] Oh! 21 00:00:37,586 --> 00:00:38,689 What? 22 00:00:38,689 --> 00:00:40,586 This is a lot, man. 23 00:00:40,586 --> 00:00:42,068 Expecting what? 24 00:00:42,068 --> 00:00:43,379 I think she means a child. 25 00:00:43,379 --> 00:00:44,896 Oh, bitch, I need another drink. 26 00:00:49,103 --> 00:00:50,103 Who's Alexa? 27 00:00:50,896 --> 00:00:52,103 -Alexa is my-- -And we ain't talking 28 00:00:52,103 --> 00:00:54,379 about the automated system that you talk to. 29 00:00:54,379 --> 00:00:57,172 The woman that called you that night when I came 30 00:00:57,172 --> 00:00:59,586 to help you pack your stuff, so you could move into your new place 31 00:00:59,586 --> 00:01:01,896 and you told me you was not gonna answer that call. 32 00:01:01,896 --> 00:01:02,896 Who is Alexa? 33 00:01:02,896 --> 00:01:04,068 That's my ex. 34 00:01:04,068 --> 00:01:07,206 -Oh. -Who is she to you right now In this moment? 35 00:01:07,206 --> 00:01:08,413 She's my friend. We're not together. 36 00:01:08,413 --> 00:01:10,275 -You sure about that? -[Cameron] I'm positive. 37 00:01:10,275 --> 00:01:12,310 Like, what are we talking-- Is she pregnant, is what we wanna know. 38 00:01:12,310 --> 00:01:14,379 No, she's not. Ain't nobody pregnant. 39 00:01:14,379 --> 00:01:16,379 -I'll guarantee you that, right now. -Okay. Ain't nobody pregnant. 40 00:01:16,379 --> 00:01:18,000 I don't know where she even get there from or where she... 41 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:19,275 Was there a scare? 42 00:01:19,275 --> 00:01:20,862 In our past. 43 00:01:20,862 --> 00:01:25,000 So there was no pictures texted to you of a pregnancy test just currently. 44 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:26,413 No, it wasn't. 45 00:01:26,413 --> 00:01:27,586 You can look at my phone-- 46 00:01:27,586 --> 00:01:29,000 [Rose] I've already been there, done that, 47 00:01:29,000 --> 00:01:31,517 when you was drunk on my bed and you left your phone open. 48 00:01:31,517 --> 00:01:33,172 -That's how I know what it is. -You did? 49 00:01:33,172 --> 00:01:35,275 Yeah. Everybody looking back at this man, 50 00:01:35,275 --> 00:01:37,172 like, oh, they feel so sorry for Cam. 51 00:01:37,172 --> 00:01:38,275 No, I'm happy. 52 00:01:38,275 --> 00:01:41,172 Even though Husieen and I did not make it, 53 00:01:41,172 --> 00:01:43,172 I'm happy that I walked out 54 00:01:43,172 --> 00:01:46,413 of this situation with Husieen as my number one. 55 00:01:46,413 --> 00:01:48,689 I don't have any regrets, because this man, 56 00:01:48,689 --> 00:01:50,793 he let me down the most. 57 00:01:50,793 --> 00:01:52,241 -He really did. -In what way? 58 00:01:52,241 --> 00:01:55,000 Because the whole time you tried to make it seem like I was wrong 59 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:56,793 for even still communicating with Husieen 60 00:01:56,793 --> 00:01:58,586 and the whole time you was doing your stuff on the side. 61 00:01:58,586 --> 00:02:00,413 That's because you were still dating me and Husieen 62 00:02:00,413 --> 00:02:02,482 -at the same time. -I was not dating the two of you at the same time. 63 00:02:02,482 --> 00:02:04,068 Was you not having sex with me and Husieen at the same time? 64 00:02:04,068 --> 00:02:05,689 Absolutely the [bleep] not! 65 00:02:05,689 --> 00:02:06,689 All right. 66 00:02:06,689 --> 00:02:08,000 Can I ask a question? 67 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:10,586 Were you intimate with Husieen? 68 00:02:10,586 --> 00:02:12,896 [Rose] We were dating Tommy. 69 00:02:12,896 --> 00:02:15,896 -That would be a yes. -We do what grown people do when they're dating. 70 00:02:15,896 --> 00:02:19,172 Yeah, like, Rose came here with a fully loaded clip. 71 00:02:19,172 --> 00:02:20,896 [Rose] Cam is a damn narcissist 72 00:02:20,896 --> 00:02:22,482 and he's very controlling. 73 00:02:22,482 --> 00:02:24,620 -Oh. -'Cause you are. 74 00:02:24,620 --> 00:02:26,310 -You are, Cam. -When did I start controlling-- 75 00:02:26,310 --> 00:02:28,689 You are a damn con artist and you think everything... 76 00:02:28,689 --> 00:02:31,275 -A con artist? -...is supposed to go your way and it do not. 77 00:02:31,275 --> 00:02:33,103 Wake up! It does not. 78 00:02:33,103 --> 00:02:34,689 -All right. -[Cameron] You dated him a good two months. 79 00:02:34,689 --> 00:02:35,724 -[Rose] Did we really? -Aye. 80 00:02:35,724 --> 00:02:37,172 -Guys... -[Rose] The whole time... 81 00:02:37,172 --> 00:02:39,172 -Guys... -[Rose]...why we didn't go out. 82 00:02:39,172 --> 00:02:40,482 You kept telling me you was busy, 83 00:02:40,482 --> 00:02:42,482 but you was texting the other girl 84 00:02:42,482 --> 00:02:44,172 asking her to go out, telling her you were bored. 85 00:02:44,172 --> 00:02:46,930 -Hang on. Hang on. -...you was over there with her. 86 00:02:46,930 --> 00:02:48,586 Cam, I saw everything. 87 00:02:48,586 --> 00:02:51,103 -Bro, that is my ex that I'm still cool with -[Tommy] Hold on. 88 00:02:51,103 --> 00:02:53,689 Can we get everybody to calm down? 89 00:02:53,689 --> 00:02:54,724 [Cameron] Come on, Rose! 90 00:02:54,724 --> 00:02:56,689 -She's spilling everybody's tea. -Goddamn! 91 00:02:56,689 --> 00:03:00,000 -She is spilling everybody's tea. -[bleep] 92 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:01,586 Things are getting a little tense, 93 00:03:01,586 --> 00:03:03,275 so we're gonna shift gears. 94 00:03:03,275 --> 00:03:05,068 We need to bring it back a minute. 95 00:03:05,793 --> 00:03:07,379 Over the course of Rose's journey, 96 00:03:07,379 --> 00:03:10,103 she planted seeds that grew some strong connections. 97 00:03:10,103 --> 00:03:13,275 But just when things started to blossom with Husieen, 98 00:03:13,275 --> 00:03:16,275 her past came to reap what she sowed. 99 00:03:16,275 --> 00:03:17,379 Let's take a look. 100 00:03:18,620 --> 00:03:21,206 Hi, everybody. Hi, I'm Rose. 101 00:03:21,206 --> 00:03:23,172 Nice to meet you. You're nice looking. 102 00:03:23,172 --> 00:03:27,482 My goal right now in life is to become someone's wife one day. 103 00:03:27,482 --> 00:03:29,379 -What do you do? -I'm a fire fighter. 104 00:03:29,379 --> 00:03:32,172 -And... -I love a man in uniform. 105 00:03:32,827 --> 00:03:34,103 I'm into interior design, 106 00:03:34,103 --> 00:03:35,896 -visual design and stuff like that. -That's wonderful. 107 00:03:35,896 --> 00:03:40,275 -Ah... One thing I do like is interior decorating. -Yeah... 108 00:03:40,275 --> 00:03:42,206 I just wanna massage your hand. 109 00:03:42,206 --> 00:03:45,310 -That's all you wanna do? -Yeah. Let's go up a little bit. 110 00:03:45,310 --> 00:03:46,586 [laughs] 111 00:03:46,586 --> 00:03:48,103 I mean, I know eventually, at some point 112 00:03:48,103 --> 00:03:50,620 you do want your own children, but... 113 00:03:50,620 --> 00:03:53,896 if let's say that's not in the cards for you... 114 00:03:53,896 --> 00:03:56,275 and the reason why I asked that question is... 115 00:03:56,275 --> 00:03:58,067 I've had miscarriages. 116 00:03:58,067 --> 00:03:59,827 -I'm sorry for that. -So... 117 00:03:59,827 --> 00:04:01,827 It's okay. It wasn't meant. 118 00:04:01,827 --> 00:04:03,896 So do you see yourself like adopting? 119 00:04:04,689 --> 00:04:06,931 -I'm open to it. -Okay. 120 00:04:06,931 --> 00:04:09,000 Because I know what it's like to be a kid 121 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:10,379 and I went through that. 122 00:04:10,379 --> 00:04:12,172 -Like, I get it. I understand it. -Yeah. 123 00:04:12,172 --> 00:04:14,172 Cool. I mean, we're gonna try. 124 00:04:14,172 --> 00:04:16,172 -No, no. We're gonna try. -We're gonna try. 125 00:04:16,172 --> 00:04:19,724 My brother had came up about the ex in prison. 126 00:04:19,724 --> 00:04:22,275 -Oh, okay. My son's father. -Yeah, and that wasn't something... 127 00:04:22,275 --> 00:04:25,000 The main thing was that it came out during family. 128 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:27,000 It was kind of, like, looking like a sucker to him. 129 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:28,517 Like, "Bro, you ain't tell me about that." 130 00:04:28,517 --> 00:04:30,586 The reason why it came out at that point is because, 131 00:04:30,586 --> 00:04:32,206 that question has never been raised before. 132 00:04:32,206 --> 00:04:33,724 Had you asked... 133 00:04:33,724 --> 00:04:35,586 -I couldn't have asked... -...I would have been like an open book. 134 00:04:36,896 --> 00:04:38,896 I just try not to relive those moments, 135 00:04:38,896 --> 00:04:41,931 because he's just a constant reminder 136 00:04:41,931 --> 00:04:44,000 of a hurtful period in my life. 137 00:04:44,000 --> 00:04:46,482 I just wanna gain clarity. Your child's father... 138 00:04:46,482 --> 00:04:48,000 I don't have anything to hide. 139 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:51,724 But we're all putting [bleep] out there. It makes us feel slighted. 140 00:04:52,827 --> 00:04:54,482 I cannot apologize for that. 141 00:04:54,482 --> 00:04:55,793 Okay. 142 00:04:55,793 --> 00:04:57,689 I mean, I just think it's funny how, 143 00:04:57,689 --> 00:04:59,103 you know, sitting here, talking to me 144 00:04:59,103 --> 00:05:01,379 about withholding information when you do the same thing. 145 00:05:01,379 --> 00:05:02,896 In regards to... 146 00:05:02,896 --> 00:05:06,310 On this getaway, you knew I was sharing a room with Husieen. 147 00:05:06,310 --> 00:05:09,000 So why did I find out after the fact 148 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,275 that you and Sahara shared a room? 149 00:05:11,275 --> 00:05:13,000 It's like the pot calling the kettle black. 150 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:14,379 But it's not, though. 151 00:05:14,379 --> 00:05:15,379 It really is. 152 00:05:15,379 --> 00:05:17,103 So, um, unfortunately... 153 00:05:19,206 --> 00:05:21,655 I don't think that you're Ready to Love. 154 00:05:24,103 --> 00:05:27,000 You guys really don't see Rose for Rose. 155 00:05:27,931 --> 00:05:29,275 I'm hurt right now. 156 00:05:30,586 --> 00:05:32,000 But I'm gonna bounce back. 157 00:05:36,068 --> 00:05:38,172 Your girl always does. 158 00:05:44,172 --> 00:05:45,103 That was hard. 159 00:05:45,793 --> 00:05:47,620 [Tommy sighs] All right, Rose. 160 00:05:48,620 --> 00:05:50,000 You had multiple connections. 161 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,724 What is it about Husieen that made you pursue that connection 162 00:05:52,724 --> 00:05:54,689 over the connection you had with Cam? 163 00:05:54,689 --> 00:05:57,275 We connected on a... A deeper level. 164 00:05:57,896 --> 00:05:59,482 Every time we were able to... 165 00:05:59,482 --> 00:06:02,172 communicate and come together, it was something else 166 00:06:02,172 --> 00:06:04,206 that we were, like, unlocking about each other. 167 00:06:04,206 --> 00:06:07,793 And I'm a very, very loyal person. 168 00:06:07,793 --> 00:06:11,000 If I see that you're being loyal to me, 169 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:12,517 I'm gonna be loyal to you. 170 00:06:12,517 --> 00:06:15,000 And that's why I stayed loyal, 171 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:18,413 even though I had feelings and connections with Cam. 172 00:06:18,413 --> 00:06:21,793 Cam and Husieen, you guys both had connections with Rose 173 00:06:21,793 --> 00:06:24,172 and you both eliminated Rose. 174 00:06:24,172 --> 00:06:25,724 -Yes. -Yeah. 175 00:06:25,724 --> 00:06:28,517 So why did you get so close to the end and decide not to choose Rose? 176 00:06:28,517 --> 00:06:31,620 For me, like I said, it was really just... You know, just that one thing. 177 00:06:31,620 --> 00:06:33,482 It was ultimately a deal breaker for me 178 00:06:33,482 --> 00:06:35,931 and a part where I wanted to own it. 179 00:06:35,931 --> 00:06:38,896 And I will say, I wish that I would have been the last date 180 00:06:38,896 --> 00:06:41,379 instead of it had been Cam telling her to go home. 181 00:06:41,379 --> 00:06:44,793 If I could have reversed that, I would have had loved for it to had went that way. 182 00:06:44,793 --> 00:06:47,275 You wish you would have been the one to take her on that date, 183 00:06:47,275 --> 00:06:49,586 -to let her know she was eliminated. -Yeah. 184 00:06:49,586 --> 00:06:51,620 -[Kiara] He really felt bad. -Yeah. He felt bad. 185 00:06:51,620 --> 00:06:53,620 -Husieen sent her home. -Why didn't Cam feel bad? 186 00:06:53,620 --> 00:06:54,793 He didn't want her to go home. 187 00:06:54,793 --> 00:06:57,482 Trying to just keep it real. Her baby father in jail. 188 00:06:57,482 --> 00:06:58,482 Cam? 189 00:06:58,482 --> 00:07:00,827 Rose always know that I was into her 190 00:07:00,827 --> 00:07:02,206 from the first day. 191 00:07:02,827 --> 00:07:04,103 We got our problems, 192 00:07:04,620 --> 00:07:06,482 Rose, obviously. 193 00:07:06,482 --> 00:07:09,689 You know, we shared a great, great connection. 194 00:07:09,689 --> 00:07:12,482 Me sending her home on that date was 195 00:07:13,620 --> 00:07:15,586 one of the hardest things I had to do, honestly. 196 00:07:15,931 --> 00:07:16,827 Hmm... 197 00:07:17,689 --> 00:07:19,689 What'd you say? 198 00:07:19,689 --> 00:07:22,827 I do... I do believe him. When he said he really was feeling me 199 00:07:22,827 --> 00:07:25,103 and into me until I, you know, 200 00:07:25,103 --> 00:07:26,689 was able to see a different side. 201 00:07:26,689 --> 00:07:29,000 I wish, honestly, it didn't go that way. 202 00:07:29,724 --> 00:07:32,103 But it happened the way it happened. 203 00:07:32,103 --> 00:07:33,517 Rose, let me ask you this, 204 00:07:33,517 --> 00:07:35,896 how do you feel about this experience, this journey that you on? 205 00:07:35,896 --> 00:07:38,379 [sighs] I came into this journey, 206 00:07:38,379 --> 00:07:40,482 literally... I really had high hopes and dreams. 207 00:07:41,827 --> 00:07:43,931 With Cam and with Husieen, 208 00:07:43,931 --> 00:07:47,689 I never expected to walk out of this experience alone. 209 00:07:47,689 --> 00:07:51,172 And I honestly feel like that I've been robbed, 210 00:07:51,172 --> 00:07:52,793 I feel like I've been gypped. 211 00:07:52,793 --> 00:07:54,172 And I feel like... 212 00:07:54,172 --> 00:07:56,275 my happy ending has been stolen from me. 213 00:07:57,793 --> 00:08:01,068 My heart was broken, 'cause I really came into this... 214 00:08:01,068 --> 00:08:04,172 totally naive [chuckles] unlike some other people. 215 00:08:05,793 --> 00:08:08,931 That's enough for me to, like, wanna give up 216 00:08:08,931 --> 00:08:11,068 on love in totality. 217 00:08:11,068 --> 00:08:13,275 But I'm not gonna give up. I'm here. 218 00:08:13,275 --> 00:08:14,758 I'm living to fight another day. 219 00:08:14,758 --> 00:08:17,517 -I want to thank you for being on this journey. -[Rose] Thank you. 220 00:08:17,517 --> 00:08:20,482 -I want to thank you for being open and being vulnerable. -Yeah. 221 00:08:20,482 --> 00:08:23,827 And I do not want you to give up on finding love. 222 00:08:23,827 --> 00:08:26,103 -Mmm-hmm. -[Tommy] It's out there. 223 00:08:26,103 --> 00:08:29,000 All right. Emotions are running high right now, 224 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:30,724 so we're gonna take a break. 225 00:08:30,724 --> 00:08:33,379 More of the Reunion after this. 226 00:08:35,206 --> 00:08:40,586 The Husieen-Rose-Cam love triangle, 227 00:08:40,586 --> 00:08:43,206 may be the juiciest peach of them all. 228 00:08:43,206 --> 00:08:45,482 I just feel like it just went really fast, 229 00:08:45,482 --> 00:08:47,275 really left, really quick. 230 00:08:47,275 --> 00:08:48,379 But it was good. 231 00:08:48,379 --> 00:08:50,586 And, um... 232 00:08:50,586 --> 00:08:53,586 if this was Maury Povich, I don't know who the father would be. 233 00:08:59,689 --> 00:09:01,103 Welcome back to the Ready to Love Philly Reunion Special. 234 00:09:01,103 --> 00:09:02,482 Eddie turned a lot of heads 235 00:09:02,482 --> 00:09:04,482 when he stepped on to the Ready to Lovescene, 236 00:09:04,482 --> 00:09:08,517 but his nonchalant approach to courting the ladies 237 00:09:08,517 --> 00:09:11,482 left some of them wondering if he was really Ready to Love 238 00:09:11,482 --> 00:09:12,793 or just playing the field. 239 00:09:12,793 --> 00:09:14,000 Mmm... 240 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:15,172 Let's check out his journey. 241 00:09:16,517 --> 00:09:18,103 [Jay] You should call Rick Fox. Chill out. 242 00:09:18,103 --> 00:09:20,586 -[woman] All right. -[laughter] 243 00:09:22,586 --> 00:09:25,689 Eddie is fine. Eddie is tall. 244 00:09:25,689 --> 00:09:28,517 And I feel like he gets a lot of female attention. 245 00:09:28,517 --> 00:09:30,068 Damn! We cooking. 246 00:09:30,068 --> 00:09:31,689 [Eddie] Thank you. Thank you. 247 00:09:31,689 --> 00:09:34,172 I love how you was, you know, being that partner with on the grill. 248 00:09:34,172 --> 00:09:36,862 -Yeah, I think that, uh... -[chuckles] 249 00:09:36,862 --> 00:09:40,793 ...spoke a lot. I think it made things a little bit more... More deeper. 250 00:09:40,793 --> 00:09:43,482 Eddie... Oh, my God. 251 00:09:44,379 --> 00:09:45,379 [squeals] 252 00:09:46,862 --> 00:09:48,482 That's my... 253 00:09:48,482 --> 00:09:51,862 I want you to know, like, when I first met you, like... 254 00:09:51,862 --> 00:09:55,758 I liked you, I felt something that I didn't feel with other people. 255 00:09:55,758 --> 00:09:57,000 And if you would have said, 256 00:09:57,793 --> 00:09:59,517 "[beep] let's get out of here." 257 00:09:59,517 --> 00:10:02,482 I would have said, "[bleep] let's get out of here." 258 00:10:06,413 --> 00:10:08,517 -[Eddie speaking] -Are you scared? 259 00:10:08,517 --> 00:10:10,310 -Oh, my God. -[laughter] 260 00:10:10,310 --> 00:10:12,310 Oh, no! 261 00:10:12,310 --> 00:10:14,000 -Oh, no! -No! No! 262 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:15,172 [Coley] Bull [bleep] 263 00:10:15,172 --> 00:10:16,206 [laughter] 264 00:10:16,206 --> 00:10:18,517 I feel like it wasn't a proper place for. 265 00:10:18,517 --> 00:10:20,862 Angie and Deona... they probably would've been mad 266 00:10:20,862 --> 00:10:22,034 for, like, you know, me and Coley. 267 00:10:22,034 --> 00:10:23,896 It was just physical attraction for the most part. 268 00:10:23,896 --> 00:10:26,689 I need somebody that's, like, real, like... Like a cleaner. 269 00:10:26,689 --> 00:10:28,482 Are you talking about cooking, cleaning, 270 00:10:28,482 --> 00:10:30,413 washing, like, barefoot and pregnant? 271 00:10:30,413 --> 00:10:32,310 Not that I'd put the task on you, 272 00:10:32,310 --> 00:10:33,689 but I feel like that's a woman. 273 00:10:33,689 --> 00:10:35,758 So... That's not there, I don't really wanna do it. 274 00:10:35,758 --> 00:10:37,413 You get on my nerves. 275 00:10:37,413 --> 00:10:38,758 [laughs] 276 00:10:39,482 --> 00:10:44,586 So that flirtatious nature of yours... 277 00:10:44,586 --> 00:10:48,000 -I'm damned if I do, I'm damned if I don't. -[Rose] Not really. 278 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:49,310 We see the potential in you. 279 00:10:50,379 --> 00:10:51,310 But... 280 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:54,310 we don't feel, at this moment, 281 00:10:54,310 --> 00:10:56,482 that you're Ready to Love. 282 00:10:58,103 --> 00:10:59,000 Whoo! 283 00:10:59,862 --> 00:11:01,620 Eddie, you good? 284 00:11:01,620 --> 00:11:03,586 -[Eddie] I'm good. -Let's talk about it, man. 285 00:11:03,586 --> 00:11:06,172 Ladies, you think he was here for the right reasons? 286 00:11:06,172 --> 00:11:07,896 I adore him. He's great. 287 00:11:07,896 --> 00:11:09,275 -Thank you, Coley. -I think once 288 00:11:09,275 --> 00:11:11,586 we checked in and I was just, like, "What you doing?" 289 00:11:11,586 --> 00:11:13,931 He was, like, "All right, I'm gonna be more intentional." 290 00:11:13,931 --> 00:11:15,000 -And he was. -[Tommy] Did he change? 291 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:16,206 -[Angie] He did. -[Tommy] Okay. 292 00:11:16,206 --> 00:11:17,655 He even made me cry. 293 00:11:17,655 --> 00:11:20,482 He made you cry, Angie. But you... But you sent him home, though. 294 00:11:20,482 --> 00:11:21,620 The tears wasn't enough. 295 00:11:21,620 --> 00:11:24,586 We needed more. [laughs] 296 00:11:24,586 --> 00:11:27,000 Eddie, do you think you came into the process 297 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:28,793 really determined to find love, man? 298 00:11:28,793 --> 00:11:31,586 Definitely came in determined to find love. 299 00:11:31,586 --> 00:11:33,758 Uh... According to the other things 300 00:11:33,758 --> 00:11:36,068 that come along with it, I can't get through. 301 00:11:36,068 --> 00:11:37,724 -[Tommy] Rose. -Yes? 302 00:11:37,724 --> 00:11:40,379 What was it about Eddie that made you feel like he was just playing the field? 303 00:11:40,931 --> 00:11:42,103 Um... 304 00:11:42,103 --> 00:11:44,758 It has been said that Eddie 305 00:11:44,758 --> 00:11:46,413 is in a full blown relationship 306 00:11:46,413 --> 00:11:48,275 and has been during the show. 307 00:11:50,103 --> 00:11:51,620 [chuckles] 308 00:11:51,620 --> 00:11:53,413 See? I told you she was on fire today. 309 00:11:53,413 --> 00:11:54,793 You're in a relationship, Ed? 310 00:11:55,172 --> 00:11:57,103 I'm not. 311 00:11:57,103 --> 00:11:59,068 [Tommy] Was you in a relationship during the process? 312 00:11:59,379 --> 00:12:00,275 I wasn't. 313 00:12:01,862 --> 00:12:03,586 Okay. 314 00:12:03,586 --> 00:12:05,689 A couple of people that was probably, uh... 315 00:12:05,689 --> 00:12:07,931 on the same frequency as you were. 316 00:12:09,103 --> 00:12:12,586 -A couple of people were on that frequency. -They were. 317 00:12:12,586 --> 00:12:14,275 [Tommy] Well, let me get on this frequency. 318 00:12:14,275 --> 00:12:15,517 -Coley. -Yeah? 319 00:12:15,517 --> 00:12:18,275 At the block party, you tried to give Eddie a kiss. 320 00:12:18,275 --> 00:12:22,000 I like him and I thought he would like it, and he didn't. 321 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,689 So I'm sorry that you didn't like it. 322 00:12:24,689 --> 00:12:27,103 But you'll never have to worry about it again. 323 00:12:27,103 --> 00:12:29,482 Personally, I feel like I can respect that response. 324 00:12:31,103 --> 00:12:32,379 Did you just wink at him? 325 00:12:32,379 --> 00:12:33,655 Yeah. 326 00:12:33,655 --> 00:12:35,482 -I wasn't looking at her, though. -[Tommy] She winked. 327 00:12:35,482 --> 00:12:37,896 I adore him and I feel bad. 328 00:12:37,896 --> 00:12:40,620 If he feels like some type of way about me trying to kiss him. 329 00:12:40,620 --> 00:12:43,172 I adore him. She's great. Coley don't care what Ed do. 330 00:12:43,172 --> 00:12:44,689 Ed can do no wrong to Coley. 331 00:12:44,689 --> 00:12:46,103 I ain't tripping over that. 332 00:12:46,103 --> 00:12:47,206 -Absolutely... -[Coley] You were. 333 00:12:47,206 --> 00:12:48,586 'Cause you said... 334 00:12:48,586 --> 00:12:50,000 -I wasn't. I said-- -..."Oh, my God. 335 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:53,068 Deona and Angie are gonna be upset." 336 00:12:53,068 --> 00:12:54,379 Like, that's why you cared. 337 00:12:54,379 --> 00:12:56,482 Coley, are you still interested in him? 338 00:12:56,482 --> 00:12:58,689 -Tommy! No! -[Tommy] I just said, are you still... 339 00:12:58,689 --> 00:13:00,896 I'm not a second chance kind of person. 340 00:13:00,896 --> 00:13:02,000 Ah, okay. 341 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:03,896 One and done. She's doing it one and done. 342 00:13:03,896 --> 00:13:07,931 I think he's a great person and, like, someone is going to, like, 343 00:13:07,931 --> 00:13:10,586 be so lucky and have a great relationship with him. 344 00:13:10,586 --> 00:13:11,620 It's just not me. 345 00:13:11,620 --> 00:13:12,793 [chuckles] Okay. 346 00:13:13,793 --> 00:13:15,689 All right, time for a break. 347 00:13:15,689 --> 00:13:17,793 More from the Reunion when we return. 348 00:13:24,448 --> 00:13:25,862 Welcome back to the Ready to Love Philadelphia Reunion Special. 349 00:13:25,862 --> 00:13:27,896 All right, y'all, let's turn the page 350 00:13:27,896 --> 00:13:29,793 and focus on our first couple that made it 351 00:13:29,793 --> 00:13:32,482 to the very last day of this journey. 352 00:13:32,482 --> 00:13:34,172 Kiara and Jay. 353 00:13:34,172 --> 00:13:36,862 Met at the first mixer and it was love at first. 354 00:13:36,862 --> 00:13:38,896 My man, my man, my man, my man. 355 00:13:38,896 --> 00:13:40,000 [chuckles] 356 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:41,758 Let's take a look back at their journey. 357 00:13:44,241 --> 00:13:46,551 Hi, everyone. I'm Kiara. 358 00:13:46,551 --> 00:13:47,586 My name's Jay. Nice meeting you. 359 00:13:48,034 --> 00:13:49,862 Yeah. Of course. 360 00:13:49,862 --> 00:13:52,172 Ki-ki. She definitely caught my eye. 361 00:13:52,172 --> 00:13:54,896 You know, I like her energy. And then she curvaceous. 362 00:13:54,896 --> 00:13:57,275 I just had to see what was going on real quick. 363 00:13:57,275 --> 00:13:59,034 I had to scope the scenery out. 364 00:13:59,034 --> 00:14:01,068 -Okay. So what you do for work? -I focus on my career... 365 00:14:01,068 --> 00:14:02,379 I do cyber security, so... 366 00:14:02,379 --> 00:14:04,965 -I like it when they work. Okay. -Yeah, I love the work. 367 00:14:04,965 --> 00:14:06,793 [Kiara] Me and Jay hit it off. 368 00:14:06,793 --> 00:14:08,448 Everything that he said 369 00:14:08,448 --> 00:14:11,000 is everything that I am looking for. 370 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:13,551 That's gonna be my man, my man, my man. Like... 371 00:14:13,551 --> 00:14:15,379 he might be the one. 372 00:14:15,379 --> 00:14:17,000 [woman] Is your hamstring sore? 373 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:19,034 -Oh, you keep doing that I might owe you back. -[bleeps] 374 00:14:19,034 --> 00:14:22,172 Have mercy. I feel better already. 375 00:14:22,172 --> 00:14:23,965 -[bleep] -They showed it, like... [laughs] 376 00:14:23,965 --> 00:14:27,241 I'm livid. Jay, you're lucky I can't whoop your ass. 377 00:14:27,241 --> 00:14:30,000 I set clear boundaries, 378 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:32,379 and obviously it went in one ear and out the other. 379 00:14:32,379 --> 00:14:36,241 First of all, I don't understand how legs have intertwined. 380 00:14:36,241 --> 00:14:38,275 And then I look over and you're massaging her neck? 381 00:14:38,275 --> 00:14:41,034 Like, what is... Like, I'm confused where you [bleep] 382 00:14:41,034 --> 00:14:42,344 It was one tonic. 383 00:14:42,344 --> 00:14:43,758 [Kiara] I said don't do nothing that makes me look stupid 384 00:14:43,758 --> 00:14:44,965 -and you still did it. -It doesn't make you-- 385 00:14:44,965 --> 00:14:47,000 [Kiara] Yes, it does! Oh, my God. 386 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:48,586 My intent was never to embarrass you. 387 00:14:48,586 --> 00:14:50,793 My intent was never to make you feel like 388 00:14:50,793 --> 00:14:52,758 it was somebody else over you. 389 00:14:52,758 --> 00:14:54,000 I was wrong and I feel like I was wrong 390 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:55,241 and I gotta take that on the chin. 391 00:14:57,586 --> 00:14:59,275 Since day one when I saw you, baby, 392 00:14:59,275 --> 00:15:00,793 I don't wanna sound too cheesy but it felt 393 00:15:00,793 --> 00:15:01,862 like love at first sight a little bit. 394 00:15:01,862 --> 00:15:03,000 -Okay. -[Jay] You know... 395 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:05,275 What attracted me to you, how beautiful you was, 396 00:15:05,275 --> 00:15:06,965 but more importantly, internally, 397 00:15:06,965 --> 00:15:09,068 how much you understand me. 398 00:15:09,068 --> 00:15:11,586 After this, I hope we go to the moon and back. 399 00:15:12,137 --> 00:15:13,034 I choose you. 400 00:15:14,034 --> 00:15:15,689 It was always you. 401 00:15:15,689 --> 00:15:17,758 My man, my man, my man. 402 00:15:17,758 --> 00:15:21,896 I'm so happy that I got to do this journey with you. 403 00:15:21,896 --> 00:15:24,896 So, of course, I choose you. 404 00:15:25,586 --> 00:15:28,275 -Aww! -Whoo! 405 00:15:28,275 --> 00:15:31,689 I am definitely happy to be leaving this process 406 00:15:31,689 --> 00:15:34,034 with my man, my man, my man. 407 00:15:34,034 --> 00:15:35,896 Look at how happy she is. 408 00:15:36,689 --> 00:15:38,379 [laughter] 409 00:15:40,137 --> 00:15:41,862 -[applause] -All right. 410 00:15:41,862 --> 00:15:43,965 -I like that. -Yeah. 411 00:15:43,965 --> 00:15:45,379 -Yeah, I like that. -Beautiful journey. 412 00:15:45,379 --> 00:15:47,275 -That was beautiful. -Thanks. 413 00:15:47,275 --> 00:15:48,965 But let's go back to this. 414 00:15:48,965 --> 00:15:52,103 You guys had the biggest fight on the getaway. 415 00:15:52,103 --> 00:15:55,000 When Jay got touchy-feely with Sahara. 416 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:56,241 -I wasn't there. -[chuckles] 417 00:15:56,241 --> 00:15:57,172 [chuckles] "I wasn't there." 418 00:15:57,172 --> 00:15:58,793 Why did that bother you so much, Kiara? 419 00:15:58,793 --> 00:16:01,034 I think it frustrated me, because me and Jay 420 00:16:01,034 --> 00:16:04,275 had two private conversations before they getaway, 421 00:16:04,793 --> 00:16:06,275 making it clear, 422 00:16:06,275 --> 00:16:08,000 "Do not cross the boundary." 423 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,482 And I felt like he kept saying, 424 00:16:10,482 --> 00:16:12,000 "It's you. It's you. It's you." 425 00:16:12,000 --> 00:16:14,482 And in that moment, it didn't look like it's... 426 00:16:14,482 --> 00:16:15,758 Kiara. Kiara. Kiara. 427 00:16:15,758 --> 00:16:17,689 Let's be clear, it was always Kiara. 428 00:16:17,689 --> 00:16:19,793 That little moment was just a moment. 429 00:16:19,793 --> 00:16:22,137 But if you knew it was Kiara for Jay, 430 00:16:22,137 --> 00:16:25,586 didn't you think legs wrapped around would do something to them? 431 00:16:25,586 --> 00:16:28,586 Jay was on my list as my top. 432 00:16:28,586 --> 00:16:30,241 So I didn't understand the problem. 433 00:16:30,241 --> 00:16:32,551 -[Tommy] Honestly. -She said that he never told her 434 00:16:32,551 --> 00:16:33,551 that we had a connection. 435 00:16:33,551 --> 00:16:34,896 So you didn't know they had a connection? 436 00:16:34,896 --> 00:16:37,172 I knew that she liked him. 437 00:16:37,586 --> 00:16:39,379 I didn't know 438 00:16:39,379 --> 00:16:42,379 that he had any type of feelings for her. 439 00:16:42,379 --> 00:16:43,931 You never expressed that? 440 00:16:43,931 --> 00:16:46,551 We had a connection but it was never the connection I had with Kiara. 441 00:16:46,551 --> 00:16:47,689 But you didn't know there was one period. 442 00:16:47,689 --> 00:16:49,172 Exactly. That's the point. 443 00:16:49,172 --> 00:16:52,482 -The connection was non-existent to me. -Right. 444 00:16:52,482 --> 00:16:54,275 He should have kept it honest. 445 00:16:54,275 --> 00:16:55,379 Everything was Jay's fault. 446 00:16:55,379 --> 00:16:57,758 -I mean... -[laughter] 447 00:16:57,758 --> 00:16:59,689 Do you feel like it was disrespectful? 448 00:16:59,689 --> 00:17:02,137 She knew from the beginning, I said I was a flirt. 449 00:17:02,137 --> 00:17:03,965 And I like to flirt. It's who I am. 450 00:17:03,965 --> 00:17:06,448 But I understood that, who I am, if I'm trying to connect with somebody, 451 00:17:06,448 --> 00:17:09,275 I gotta be more aware that, that's not cool to her. 452 00:17:09,275 --> 00:17:12,068 That's disrespectful to her. And I made a mistake. 453 00:17:12,068 --> 00:17:14,275 So, yeah, I understood exactly where she came from. 454 00:17:14,275 --> 00:17:16,482 Kiara, you've been locked in on Jay from day one. 455 00:17:16,482 --> 00:17:18,034 -Mmm-hmm. -Today... 456 00:17:18,034 --> 00:17:19,964 -Mmm-hmm. -...is he, my man, my man, my man. 457 00:17:19,964 --> 00:17:22,586 No. He's not my man, my man, my man. 458 00:17:22,586 --> 00:17:24,655 -Ooh... -[scoffs] 459 00:17:24,655 --> 00:17:25,655 What happened? 460 00:17:25,655 --> 00:17:29,758 I was expecting to be courted 461 00:17:29,758 --> 00:17:33,655 and I don't feel like I was courted at all. 462 00:17:33,655 --> 00:17:35,758 He told me, like, "Oh, you know, give me a week. 463 00:17:35,758 --> 00:17:37,379 I just need to decompress, you know? 464 00:17:37,379 --> 00:17:38,482 Then we're gonna go out on a date." 465 00:17:38,482 --> 00:17:40,655 And I'm, like, "Okay, cool." Like, fine. 466 00:17:40,655 --> 00:17:42,034 The week came and gone. 467 00:17:43,137 --> 00:17:46,379 And then he spinned it and said, "Oh, I said, give me a month." 468 00:17:47,241 --> 00:17:49,655 A month? That's crazy. 469 00:17:49,655 --> 00:17:51,862 Jay, how do you feel about what you're hearing, man? 470 00:17:51,862 --> 00:17:54,655 We can be realistic about it. You know, a week is really not enough time to... 471 00:17:54,655 --> 00:17:57,379 When you deal with somebody 16 hours a day for a month, 472 00:17:57,379 --> 00:17:59,758 and I was with her all the time. So I was... 473 00:17:59,758 --> 00:18:01,172 You know, I wanted reality. 474 00:18:01,172 --> 00:18:03,689 After the journey you wanted a break. 475 00:18:03,689 --> 00:18:05,655 I feel like, the perception was, 476 00:18:05,655 --> 00:18:08,482 because we did go on dates everyday and she liked to be courted, 477 00:18:08,482 --> 00:18:10,448 she thought that we was gonna go out everyday. 478 00:18:10,448 --> 00:18:13,068 So when you find a partner, when you find somebody 479 00:18:13,068 --> 00:18:15,137 that you're head over heels about 480 00:18:15,137 --> 00:18:17,448 -and they're head over heels about you... -[Jay] Mmm-hmm? 481 00:18:17,448 --> 00:18:19,965 ...I mean, how much time is normally spent? 482 00:18:19,965 --> 00:18:22,172 Well... Put it like this, I got more fulfillment 483 00:18:22,172 --> 00:18:24,137 out of laying up with her and talking about life 484 00:18:24,137 --> 00:18:25,586 and talking about her dreams and aspirations. 485 00:18:25,586 --> 00:18:27,379 Her fulfillment were, in my opinion, 486 00:18:27,379 --> 00:18:29,000 was going out to eat. 487 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:30,793 And that's the difference between us. 488 00:18:31,482 --> 00:18:32,896 Why did she fall for that? 489 00:18:32,896 --> 00:18:33,793 [Tommy] I'm comfortable at home. 490 00:18:34,586 --> 00:18:36,000 I love being at home, 491 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:38,000 but I know I got a wife. 492 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:39,689 -Mmm-hmm. -And I gotta take her out sometimes. 493 00:18:39,689 --> 00:18:43,344 So I gotta make sure I spend that time with her. 494 00:18:43,344 --> 00:18:45,482 I understand that 100%. 495 00:18:45,482 --> 00:18:46,793 I was just saying I was burnt out. 496 00:18:46,793 --> 00:18:48,068 -Yes. Yes. -[Jay] We did a month and a half 497 00:18:48,068 --> 00:18:49,379 in the process of going out. 498 00:18:49,379 --> 00:18:51,172 I'm like, "Can we wait a month? Can we give it a month?" 499 00:18:51,172 --> 00:18:53,000 A month? It's crazy. You said a week. 500 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:55,275 -A week... -I understand... 501 00:18:55,275 --> 00:18:56,689 So what am I supposed to do in a month? 502 00:18:56,689 --> 00:18:58,000 Just doing everything that you want? 503 00:18:58,000 --> 00:19:00,241 That's what I'm saying. We're doing what you wanna do. 504 00:19:00,241 --> 00:19:02,379 It shouldn't be a whole entire month, 505 00:19:02,379 --> 00:19:03,965 we're doing absolutely nothing 506 00:19:03,965 --> 00:19:05,793 but what Jay wants to do. 507 00:19:05,793 --> 00:19:08,000 -But it's not what I want-- -That's not fair. You wanted to chill in the house. 508 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:09,172 That's the first thing... 509 00:19:10,379 --> 00:19:11,793 I can't listen to this. 510 00:19:11,793 --> 00:19:13,758 This bull [bleep] I cannot. 511 00:19:13,758 --> 00:19:17,137 Is there any chance of you two getting together and making this work? 512 00:19:17,137 --> 00:19:19,000 -No. -[Tommy] Why not? 513 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:21,172 I think that he's a good guy for someone else. 514 00:19:21,172 --> 00:19:23,172 I don't think that he's a good guy for me 515 00:19:23,172 --> 00:19:25,551 and it might be a thing where I require too much 516 00:19:25,551 --> 00:19:27,586 that he is not in a space to give 517 00:19:27,586 --> 00:19:29,068 or that he's just not used to giving 518 00:19:29,068 --> 00:19:30,241 or he just doesn't want to. 519 00:19:30,241 --> 00:19:33,379 And that's okay for whatever girl he decides to date. 520 00:19:33,379 --> 00:19:35,172 That's just not okay for me, 521 00:19:35,172 --> 00:19:37,655 and it's just that I moved on, so it's... It's cool. 522 00:19:37,655 --> 00:19:39,068 Moved on to what. 523 00:19:39,068 --> 00:19:41,241 Like, I got a man. So... 524 00:19:41,241 --> 00:19:43,793 -Oh, your man, your man, your man? -[cheering] 525 00:19:43,793 --> 00:19:44,862 Oh, your man, your man, your man. 526 00:19:44,862 --> 00:19:46,379 You got another, my man, my man, my man? 527 00:19:46,379 --> 00:19:47,689 I don't have a my man, my man, my man. 528 00:19:47,689 --> 00:19:49,103 I just have, my man. 529 00:19:49,103 --> 00:19:50,379 Oh, just one man. 530 00:19:50,379 --> 00:19:52,241 [laughs] 531 00:19:52,241 --> 00:19:55,034 -So you're exclusively dating somebody else right now? -Yes. 532 00:19:55,034 --> 00:19:56,896 -[Tommy] Okay. -That's great. 533 00:19:56,896 --> 00:19:58,068 -[Tommy] Okay. -[Naeem] Awesome. 534 00:19:58,068 --> 00:19:59,034 [Tommy] Congratulations. 535 00:19:59,034 --> 00:20:01,000 -Thank you. -[Tommy] All right. 536 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:03,379 When we return, we'll chat with Deona 537 00:20:03,379 --> 00:20:07,103 and find out if she regrets putting hose before bros. 538 00:20:07,103 --> 00:20:08,965 Uh-uh. That's H-O-S-E. 539 00:20:08,965 --> 00:20:10,586 All right, y'all get your mind out the gutter. 540 00:20:10,586 --> 00:20:13,482 Keep it locked. Ready to Love Reunionright after this. 541 00:20:14,551 --> 00:20:15,551 [man] Cut! 542 00:20:15,551 --> 00:20:17,448 Okay, everybody, take five. 543 00:20:17,448 --> 00:20:19,172 -How you feel? -How I feel? 544 00:20:19,172 --> 00:20:21,137 -A punch in your gut. -What? 545 00:20:21,137 --> 00:20:22,310 What's that? 546 00:20:22,310 --> 00:20:24,034 Bro, do you know how many bitches I got on my own? 547 00:20:24,034 --> 00:20:26,965 Stop playing with me, bro. Stop playing with me, bro. 548 00:20:26,965 --> 00:20:28,482 -Stop playing with me. -[bleep] 549 00:20:28,482 --> 00:20:31,241 I don't have any regrets about nothing. 550 00:20:31,241 --> 00:20:33,758 -Nothing, because I feel like... -Right. 551 00:20:33,758 --> 00:20:36,379 -I gravitated towards who gravitated towards me. -[Shanice] Right. 552 00:20:36,379 --> 00:20:38,275 Everything went how it was supposed to go. 553 00:20:39,034 --> 00:20:40,586 There's no bad blood 554 00:20:40,586 --> 00:20:43,482 because I don't really give a [bleep] at all. 555 00:20:49,241 --> 00:20:50,896 Welcome back to the Ready To Love Philadelphia Reunion Special. 556 00:20:50,896 --> 00:20:52,379 Now Deona came in hotter 557 00:20:52,379 --> 00:20:54,034 than a five-alarm fire 558 00:20:54,034 --> 00:20:56,862 and left a few guys carrying a torch. 559 00:20:56,862 --> 00:21:00,448 However, she wasn't quite ready to put work on the back burner. 560 00:21:00,448 --> 00:21:01,758 Let's check it out. 561 00:21:03,793 --> 00:21:06,586 [Deona] I know men is gonna like me because I'm sexy, 562 00:21:06,586 --> 00:21:08,862 and who doesn't love this chocolate skin, like... 563 00:21:08,862 --> 00:21:10,172 [laughs] 564 00:21:10,172 --> 00:21:11,379 What do you do? 565 00:21:11,379 --> 00:21:13,379 -Um, I'm a firefighter. -Damn. 566 00:21:13,379 --> 00:21:14,689 -For real? -Mm-hmm. 567 00:21:14,689 --> 00:21:15,586 -Damn! -What! 568 00:21:16,241 --> 00:21:17,551 -What's your name? -Deona. 569 00:21:17,551 --> 00:21:18,413 Deona, I'm Eddie. 570 00:21:18,413 --> 00:21:19,689 Eddie. Good to meet you, Eddie. 571 00:21:19,689 --> 00:21:22,000 -Eddie is definitely my ideal type. -Yeah. 572 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:24,793 Tall, handsome, clean nails. Oh, my God, that is... 573 00:21:24,793 --> 00:21:26,655 -Mwah. -You've got to have clean nails. 574 00:21:26,655 --> 00:21:29,172 -I'm not the type to text every day. -Mm-hmm. 575 00:21:29,172 --> 00:21:30,793 'Cause when I'm at work, I'm in a whole different zone. 576 00:21:30,793 --> 00:21:33,655 To me, it sounds like work is your relationship then. 577 00:21:33,655 --> 00:21:38,034 I feel like you should be able to tap into both almost. 578 00:21:38,034 --> 00:21:39,482 It's not like I work in an office 579 00:21:39,482 --> 00:21:40,793 and I'm like on a computer. 580 00:21:40,793 --> 00:21:42,655 Like, "Hey, babe, how you doing? How's work?" Like, no. 581 00:21:42,655 --> 00:21:45,344 But it shouldn't matter if you're putting out fires 582 00:21:45,344 --> 00:21:48,586 or if you're answering telephones, it's still a job. 583 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:52,655 I don't think the magnitude of the job changes 584 00:21:52,655 --> 00:21:54,275 because you're putting out fires over here 585 00:21:54,275 --> 00:21:55,793 or you're just answering the phone 586 00:21:55,793 --> 00:21:56,758 because that's your profession. 587 00:21:56,758 --> 00:22:00,241 -Okay. -[Tommy] Mmm. 588 00:22:00,241 --> 00:22:02,379 -Before I come to you... -Ooh! 589 00:22:02,379 --> 00:22:03,689 -Husieen? -Yes, sir. 590 00:22:03,689 --> 00:22:05,586 Ain't nobody put the fire out 591 00:22:05,586 --> 00:22:07,896 -and answer the phone at the same time. -At the same... 592 00:22:07,896 --> 00:22:11,034 That she got to be focused at work. She got to be. 593 00:22:11,034 --> 00:22:14,000 -You mean as far as our, like, communication. -Yes. 594 00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:16,655 A pilot can't talk to you while he's flying the damn plane. 595 00:22:16,655 --> 00:22:19,586 It wasn't about our communication with the job. 596 00:22:19,586 --> 00:22:21,965 It came up about, I guess, 597 00:22:21,965 --> 00:22:24,379 firefighter being more important than another job. 598 00:22:24,379 --> 00:22:26,172 It was the importance of a job, not the communication. 599 00:22:26,172 --> 00:22:28,068 -We weren't talking about communication. -[Tommy] Okay. 600 00:22:28,586 --> 00:22:30,137 [chuckles] 601 00:22:30,137 --> 00:22:31,482 You got to understand people run to us. 602 00:22:31,482 --> 00:22:33,586 Like we have people knocking on my station, 603 00:22:33,586 --> 00:22:35,275 -saying there's a fire down the street. -[Husieen] Mm-hmm. 604 00:22:35,275 --> 00:22:37,275 So I have to be in the mind frame 605 00:22:37,275 --> 00:22:39,379 that I need to snap in that instant. 606 00:22:39,379 --> 00:22:40,586 So if I'm on the phone with you, 607 00:22:40,586 --> 00:22:42,344 communicating with you, everything's going good. 608 00:22:42,344 --> 00:22:43,689 But what if it's a bad day? 609 00:22:43,689 --> 00:22:45,689 And I'm on the phone with you. Now I'm in a wreck. 610 00:22:45,689 --> 00:22:46,896 I can't even think about what I'm doing. 611 00:22:46,896 --> 00:22:48,793 I can't be in an emotional state. 612 00:22:48,793 --> 00:22:50,068 I gotta be on point. 613 00:22:51,379 --> 00:22:53,241 There's nothing wrong with that. 614 00:22:53,241 --> 00:22:56,000 Once again, I wasn't speaking about the communication. 615 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:57,689 It was the importance of the job. 616 00:22:57,689 --> 00:23:00,586 I think our conversation got lost in transmission, 617 00:23:00,586 --> 00:23:02,000 -and you took it a way that it wasn't. -[Deona] It's still lost. 618 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,344 -It's still lost. It's okay. -[Husieen] It's just that. 619 00:23:04,344 --> 00:23:06,586 So what's going on with you now? Any love life right now? 620 00:23:06,586 --> 00:23:08,482 [Deona] I have a lot of good potentials. 621 00:23:08,482 --> 00:23:09,689 -Potential, okay. -Yes. 622 00:23:09,689 --> 00:23:12,068 Most of my potentials, work is a priority, 623 00:23:12,068 --> 00:23:13,482 and I understand that. 624 00:23:13,482 --> 00:23:16,172 So, when we do link up and when we do text, 625 00:23:16,172 --> 00:23:17,448 it maybe on Monday 626 00:23:17,448 --> 00:23:19,172 and might not text till Wednesday or Thursday. 627 00:23:19,172 --> 00:23:21,137 -Damn! -I don't know, I just have patience. 628 00:23:21,137 --> 00:23:22,344 -Like, don't rush it. -Exactly. 629 00:23:22,344 --> 00:23:23,206 Because at the end of the day, 630 00:23:23,206 --> 00:23:24,275 if you're really for each other, 631 00:23:24,275 --> 00:23:25,862 that's going to be your life anyway. 632 00:23:25,862 --> 00:23:29,241 You shouldn't have to compromise yourself to be suitable for a partner. 633 00:23:29,241 --> 00:23:32,000 I like that. So for me, personally, I like that. 634 00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:33,758 You hear what I'm saying? I like that. 635 00:23:33,758 --> 00:23:36,586 That you're not taking that that serious. 636 00:23:36,586 --> 00:23:38,034 -Shoot your shot, Eddie. Go ahead. -In your profession... 637 00:23:38,034 --> 00:23:40,344 -Honestly... -Shoot your shot, baby! 638 00:23:40,344 --> 00:23:41,586 [all laughing] 639 00:23:41,586 --> 00:23:43,379 I'm like... Aah! 640 00:23:44,344 --> 00:23:47,689 I mean, we like... We like that... [bleep] that. 641 00:23:47,689 --> 00:23:49,241 I'm cracking up at Eddie sittin' there 642 00:23:49,241 --> 00:23:50,482 looking like a lumberjack. 643 00:23:50,482 --> 00:23:52,379 That's what they're saying, like a plumber. 644 00:23:52,379 --> 00:23:54,000 More like a... [bleep] 645 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:55,862 -Like a... [bleep] -[woman] Like a lumberjack. 646 00:23:55,862 --> 00:23:57,793 -Oh, he like a lumberjack. -She said a plumber. 647 00:23:57,793 --> 00:23:59,758 What are we doing? 648 00:23:59,758 --> 00:24:01,448 [Eddie] No, I'm explaining myself, man. 649 00:24:01,448 --> 00:24:03,000 Deona, she's a beautiful woman. 650 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:04,655 I'm gonna give it to her raw. 651 00:24:04,655 --> 00:24:05,793 -Um... -Mm-hmm. 652 00:24:05,793 --> 00:24:08,000 -I mean, I'mma tell it to her raw. -Mmm. 653 00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:10,000 You said you were gonna give it to her raw. I'm just... 654 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:11,586 -I'm just telling you what you said. -I'm sorry. 655 00:24:11,586 --> 00:24:13,379 -That's how you put your foot in your mouth. -Yeah. 656 00:24:13,379 --> 00:24:14,965 I'm hearing a lot... 657 00:24:14,965 --> 00:24:17,379 -Not the same thing. -[Tommy] But I ain't seeing no action. 658 00:24:17,379 --> 00:24:20,068 This is the perfect time right now for you to ask her out. 659 00:24:20,068 --> 00:24:22,551 Yeah, so, Deona, I'm looking forward 660 00:24:22,551 --> 00:24:24,586 to possibly taking you out on a date, 661 00:24:24,586 --> 00:24:26,689 so, you know, we can get to know each other 662 00:24:26,689 --> 00:24:28,068 -a little bit more. -Yes. 663 00:24:28,068 --> 00:24:31,137 If you don't mind doing me the honor to accepting this date, 664 00:24:31,137 --> 00:24:33,034 I could take you out and show you nice things. 665 00:24:33,034 --> 00:24:34,379 I'll accept it, 666 00:24:34,379 --> 00:24:36,000 -and I'll hold you to it. Yes. -This Sunday we can go ahead. 667 00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,275 I'm checking back up on this. 668 00:24:38,275 --> 00:24:40,379 Next Thursday. I'm gonna check back up. 669 00:24:40,379 --> 00:24:43,241 Next Thursday. Goin' on a date. Damn. 670 00:24:43,241 --> 00:24:46,758 You better pick up the phone on Thursday when I call. 671 00:24:46,758 --> 00:24:48,137 I'm calling Thursday. 672 00:24:48,137 --> 00:24:49,379 -I'm gonna be like, "Who's calling me?" -[Tommy] Eddie... 673 00:24:49,379 --> 00:24:52,482 See where you at. All right, we need to keep it moving. 674 00:24:52,482 --> 00:24:54,586 Shanice came into this experience 675 00:24:54,586 --> 00:24:56,689 wearing her heart on her sleeve, 676 00:24:56,689 --> 00:24:59,551 but when it came to spending time with her connections, 677 00:24:59,551 --> 00:25:01,448 clothing was optional. 678 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,034 I need to, um, let you know 679 00:25:05,034 --> 00:25:06,586 that prayer you sent me... 680 00:25:10,034 --> 00:25:12,275 Right here. No, I'm serious. 681 00:25:12,275 --> 00:25:13,586 It was really right here. 682 00:25:13,586 --> 00:25:15,896 You made me feel safe enough to do that. 683 00:25:15,896 --> 00:25:17,275 You led the way in that. 684 00:25:17,275 --> 00:25:18,172 You're welcome. 685 00:25:20,482 --> 00:25:22,793 You guys are body painting today. 686 00:25:22,793 --> 00:25:24,034 -Oh, my God. Cisco. -[Francisco] I need a canvas. 687 00:25:24,034 --> 00:25:25,551 You have a nice canvas. 688 00:25:26,482 --> 00:25:27,551 Oh! 689 00:25:28,793 --> 00:25:29,689 I see. 690 00:25:29,689 --> 00:25:32,379 Oh, that bitch got the vagina out. 691 00:25:32,379 --> 00:25:34,172 Kinda. [chuckles] 692 00:25:35,758 --> 00:25:37,344 -What are you drawing? -[contestants chuckling and exclaiming] 693 00:25:37,344 --> 00:25:39,344 -Is it your name? -[Francisco] Mm-hmm. 694 00:25:39,344 --> 00:25:40,448 -"Cisco." -Hey. 695 00:25:40,448 --> 00:25:42,482 -Okay. -I'm just marking my territory. 696 00:25:42,482 --> 00:25:44,275 Oh, okay, we're good. 697 00:25:44,275 --> 00:25:46,103 -Okay, we're gonna start there? -Yeah. 698 00:25:47,172 --> 00:25:48,241 -Ooh! -[woman] What is happening? 699 00:25:48,241 --> 00:25:50,586 -Oh, my... -[Shanice laughs] Oh, my gosh! 700 00:25:50,586 --> 00:25:52,379 -I don't remember that. -[Shanice] I don't either. 701 00:25:52,379 --> 00:25:53,379 That's AI. 702 00:25:53,379 --> 00:25:54,448 That's not me. 703 00:25:54,448 --> 00:25:56,241 I ain't gonna lie. I should have been there. 704 00:25:56,241 --> 00:25:58,758 [all laughing] 705 00:25:58,758 --> 00:26:01,172 There's a few potentials that have caught my eye, 706 00:26:01,172 --> 00:26:02,655 and she's definitely one. 707 00:26:02,655 --> 00:26:04,275 It's no secret that, uh, you know, 708 00:26:04,275 --> 00:26:06,448 I kind of locked in with Tae. 709 00:26:06,448 --> 00:26:07,758 She can say, "Oh, who's Tae?" 710 00:26:07,758 --> 00:26:09,793 But I can say, "Who's Fritz?" Right? 711 00:26:09,793 --> 00:26:10,896 That was her number one. 712 00:26:13,344 --> 00:26:16,482 You are not ready to love. 713 00:26:16,482 --> 00:26:17,379 It's okay. 714 00:26:18,758 --> 00:26:20,000 I'm okay. 715 00:26:23,586 --> 00:26:25,275 -Phew! -Aww. 716 00:26:25,275 --> 00:26:26,862 All right. Girl... 717 00:26:26,862 --> 00:26:28,379 -[Shanice] Oh, my goodness. -Listen. 718 00:26:28,379 --> 00:26:30,379 -Pretty bold to go... -[laughs boisterously] 719 00:26:30,379 --> 00:26:33,379 ...full frontal on national television. 720 00:26:33,379 --> 00:26:35,379 -Where does that confidence come from? -[Shanice] Um... 721 00:26:35,379 --> 00:26:38,793 Learning to, like, love myself and rediscover myself 722 00:26:38,793 --> 00:26:42,862 -because I've been abused physically, sexually... -[Tommy] Hmm. 723 00:26:43,689 --> 00:26:45,172 [Shanice] Mentally. 724 00:26:45,172 --> 00:26:48,275 And I wasn't always in a place where I felt proud of who I am. 725 00:26:49,137 --> 00:26:52,482 Reality is, why do we need clothes? 726 00:26:52,482 --> 00:26:55,896 A lot of times I felt like I used clothes 727 00:26:55,896 --> 00:26:57,482 to, like, mask how I really feel. 728 00:26:57,482 --> 00:26:59,241 -Cover it up. -[Shanice] Just to cover it up. 729 00:26:59,241 --> 00:27:01,758 And it's like today I just feel free. 730 00:27:01,758 --> 00:27:04,655 I love myself enough to just love on me 731 00:27:04,655 --> 00:27:06,000 -and be free about it. -I see it. 732 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:09,379 And I think Cisco was the best person for that experience. 733 00:27:09,379 --> 00:27:11,689 He just was being so open and vulnerable. 734 00:27:11,689 --> 00:27:13,275 It made me more comfortable too. 735 00:27:13,275 --> 00:27:16,068 I think you are a strong Black sister. 736 00:27:16,068 --> 00:27:18,137 -Oh, thank you. Thank you so much. -I really do. 737 00:27:18,137 --> 00:27:19,586 For all the things that you've gone through 738 00:27:19,586 --> 00:27:21,034 and everything that you've sustained, 739 00:27:21,034 --> 00:27:22,482 -you're still standing. -Yes. 740 00:27:22,482 --> 00:27:24,758 -[Tommy] And you're stronger than you were before. -Yes. 741 00:27:25,689 --> 00:27:27,586 -Tae? -Mm-hmm. 742 00:27:27,586 --> 00:27:29,482 When you see your main connection, Cisco... 743 00:27:29,482 --> 00:27:30,793 -Mm-hmm. -[Tommy] With Shanice 744 00:27:30,793 --> 00:27:33,689 and the whole painting, how did that make you feel? 745 00:27:36,103 --> 00:27:39,758 I can't find the words right now to say anything. Um... 746 00:27:39,758 --> 00:27:42,034 You know, it's just hard to see someone 747 00:27:42,034 --> 00:27:43,896 that, you know, you're saying that you're number one, 748 00:27:43,896 --> 00:27:46,689 and they're writing their name on someone else's boob, 749 00:27:46,689 --> 00:27:48,275 you know, saying that's their property. 750 00:27:48,275 --> 00:27:50,586 But, you know, each his own. 751 00:27:50,586 --> 00:27:54,000 And I'm happy they had a great date. 752 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,379 [Tommy] What's going through your mind, Cisco? 753 00:27:55,379 --> 00:27:57,689 You almost put your head behind that whole couch. 754 00:27:57,689 --> 00:28:00,655 [all laughing] 755 00:28:00,655 --> 00:28:03,172 We went into this experience knowing we was going to go on dates. 756 00:28:03,172 --> 00:28:05,379 She seems upset, right? 757 00:28:05,379 --> 00:28:06,482 But I'm not understanding it. 758 00:28:06,482 --> 00:28:08,655 It's like, we all went on dates. 759 00:28:09,655 --> 00:28:10,724 I didn't have an X-rated date. 760 00:28:10,724 --> 00:28:12,689 Um, I just had, like, a regular date, like... 761 00:28:12,689 --> 00:28:14,586 -Had a PG date. -[Tae] Yeah, I had a PG date. 762 00:28:14,586 --> 00:28:16,068 So he's saying, like, we all went on dates, 763 00:28:16,068 --> 00:28:18,551 like it was the same kind of, like, level as his date. 764 00:28:18,551 --> 00:28:20,896 So, no, actually, I didn't go on that kind of date. 765 00:28:20,896 --> 00:28:24,482 Fritz, you had a strong connection with Shanice. 766 00:28:24,482 --> 00:28:28,965 What do you feel when you see videotape of the painting? 767 00:28:28,965 --> 00:28:32,275 To Shani's benefit, she was completely transparent about it. 768 00:28:32,275 --> 00:28:34,000 She told me everything that transpired. 769 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:35,862 So I was able to watch it, 770 00:28:35,862 --> 00:28:38,000 knowing this is exactly what I was going to see. 771 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:40,172 [Tommy] Why do you think it didn't work out with you and Cisco? 772 00:28:40,172 --> 00:28:43,862 Um, I felt like Cisco's connection with Tae was strong, 773 00:28:43,862 --> 00:28:46,896 and like I just said, I respect their connection. 774 00:28:46,896 --> 00:28:48,758 And as time went on, 775 00:28:48,758 --> 00:28:51,758 I felt like I was having a closer connection to Fritz. 776 00:28:51,758 --> 00:28:54,241 So I was just trying to make sure that I'm giving attention 777 00:28:54,241 --> 00:28:56,586 to where I feel like it makes sense for me 778 00:28:56,586 --> 00:28:58,586 and what I want and where I'm going in my life. 779 00:28:58,586 --> 00:29:02,103 The ladies doubted that Fritz was genuine. 780 00:29:02,103 --> 00:29:04,275 -[Shanice] Mm-hmm. -What did you see different? 781 00:29:04,275 --> 00:29:06,689 I saw how he treats people when nobody's looking. 782 00:29:06,689 --> 00:29:08,793 He wasn't doing or saying anything 783 00:29:08,793 --> 00:29:11,965 that made me feel as though he wasn't a man of integrity and character. 784 00:29:11,965 --> 00:29:14,275 So I just really blocked out everything else 785 00:29:14,275 --> 00:29:16,137 and just went with my own instincts. 786 00:29:16,137 --> 00:29:18,137 [Tommy] Okay. Time for a break. 787 00:29:18,137 --> 00:29:21,275 When we return, we're gonna be sitting down with our final couples 788 00:29:21,275 --> 00:29:23,275 to cross the Ready To Love finish line. 789 00:29:23,275 --> 00:29:26,689 We will find out where things are presently 790 00:29:26,689 --> 00:29:28,551 and what the future holds. Don't move. 791 00:29:35,172 --> 00:29:36,896 Welcome back to the Ready To Love Philadelphia Reunion Specials. 792 00:29:36,896 --> 00:29:38,689 Tae was on a mission to find someone 793 00:29:38,689 --> 00:29:42,448 tall, dark and handsome. Enter Cisco. 794 00:29:42,448 --> 00:29:44,000 But as their connections got deeper, 795 00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:46,551 Tae worried if Cisco could shift his focus 796 00:29:46,551 --> 00:29:50,344 from building his body to building a future. 797 00:29:50,344 --> 00:29:52,275 Let's check out their journey to love. 798 00:29:53,620 --> 00:29:56,137 ♪ By the grace of God I got the glacial flow ♪ 799 00:29:56,137 --> 00:29:57,344 [Tae] I'm so nervous. 800 00:29:57,344 --> 00:29:59,137 I'm looking for somebody fine. Okay. 801 00:29:59,137 --> 00:30:01,655 You know, muscles and tall. 802 00:30:01,655 --> 00:30:04,034 I didn't see you. Hi. Hello. 803 00:30:04,034 --> 00:30:06,034 Just sexy. Just a whole snack. 804 00:30:06,034 --> 00:30:08,172 [Francisco] Have you ever dated a Hispanic man? 805 00:30:08,172 --> 00:30:10,034 [Tae] Mm-mm. But, I mean, like, 806 00:30:10,034 --> 00:30:12,000 you could talk to me in Spanish all night. Okay. 807 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:13,000 [both giggle] 808 00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:14,482 Who are we feeling so far? 809 00:30:14,482 --> 00:30:15,517 Can I just give you the list? 810 00:30:15,517 --> 00:30:16,896 We're gonna go one by one. 811 00:30:16,896 --> 00:30:18,206 Okay, Tae, Tae, Tae. 812 00:30:18,206 --> 00:30:20,103 -Tae, Tae, Tae. -Tae, Tae, Tae. 813 00:30:20,103 --> 00:30:21,310 -How you doin'? -Good. 814 00:30:21,310 --> 00:30:23,551 How are you doing? Nice to see you as well. 815 00:30:23,551 --> 00:30:25,172 I'm always eating. [laughs] 816 00:30:25,172 --> 00:30:28,379 [Tae] At the block party, there is tension between me and Francisco. 817 00:30:28,379 --> 00:30:31,000 Francisco expressed to me that he didn't own a car. 818 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,000 I'm in a room right now. 819 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:36,344 If you're not where you need to be financially, 820 00:30:36,344 --> 00:30:38,482 then how can we talk about marriage? 821 00:30:38,482 --> 00:30:39,689 I can't do this right now. 822 00:30:39,689 --> 00:30:42,620 I'm always gonna focus on my goals and dreams. 823 00:30:42,620 --> 00:30:45,620 But if I'm with someone that sparks a fire even more, 824 00:30:45,620 --> 00:30:47,965 then I'm like, [bleep] "I definitely got to step my game up." 825 00:30:47,965 --> 00:30:49,379 You know what I mean? 826 00:30:49,379 --> 00:30:51,206 It's like you're everything I want in a person. 827 00:30:51,206 --> 00:30:52,862 Like, you are. 828 00:30:54,034 --> 00:30:55,310 [Francisco] Come on. 829 00:30:57,793 --> 00:30:59,482 Before I have kids, I want to be married. 830 00:30:59,482 --> 00:31:00,896 I definitely want marriage. 831 00:31:00,896 --> 00:31:03,172 And I'm so happy that you said it, right. 832 00:31:05,206 --> 00:31:07,275 ♪ Unless we both die ♪ 833 00:31:07,275 --> 00:31:10,620 ♪ Oh, oh, oh... ♪ 834 00:31:13,068 --> 00:31:14,517 [Francisco] You are a caring woman, 835 00:31:14,517 --> 00:31:16,586 huge heart, very selfless. 836 00:31:16,586 --> 00:31:18,793 And it's just all those characteristics that I love about you. 837 00:31:19,275 --> 00:31:20,379 Of course I choose you. 838 00:31:20,379 --> 00:31:21,551 You've always been my choice. 839 00:31:21,551 --> 00:31:24,758 I'm just happy that God brought us together. 840 00:31:24,758 --> 00:31:27,620 And despite whatever hurdles 841 00:31:27,620 --> 00:31:29,586 that we may have ahead... 842 00:31:32,034 --> 00:31:33,206 I choose you as well. 843 00:31:36,034 --> 00:31:37,655 [laughing] 844 00:31:37,655 --> 00:31:39,310 -[contestant] Aww. -Tae, come here. 845 00:31:40,137 --> 00:31:42,586 ♪ I know it took me some time ♪ 846 00:31:42,586 --> 00:31:43,896 It's like a proposal. 847 00:31:43,896 --> 00:31:46,000 ♪ To get to the place that you wanted me to be ♪ 848 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:48,137 Aah! I got my man! 849 00:31:48,137 --> 00:31:50,655 [laughs boisterously] My man! 850 00:31:50,655 --> 00:31:52,310 -[Francisco] It's crazy. -[Tae] It is. 851 00:31:52,310 --> 00:31:54,517 -[Francisco] Hell of a journey, huh? -[Tae] Yeah. 852 00:31:54,517 --> 00:31:56,793 ♪ I'm ready ♪ 853 00:31:57,310 --> 00:31:59,862 ♪ I'm ready ♪ 854 00:31:59,862 --> 00:32:02,000 ♪ To love ♪ 855 00:32:02,448 --> 00:32:04,275 ♪ Mmm... ♪ 856 00:32:04,275 --> 00:32:05,344 [giggling] 857 00:32:05,344 --> 00:32:07,655 Wow, wow, wow. That was beautiful. 858 00:32:07,655 --> 00:32:09,241 -It was. -[Tommy] Tae, 859 00:32:09,241 --> 00:32:11,000 you managed to have a happy ending. 860 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,172 I did. 861 00:32:12,172 --> 00:32:13,896 [Tommy] Are you still happy right now? 862 00:32:13,896 --> 00:32:14,896 Two of you? 863 00:32:14,896 --> 00:32:16,965 Like, as in together or, like, individually? 864 00:32:16,965 --> 00:32:19,034 Uh, as in together. 865 00:32:19,034 --> 00:32:22,862 -Um... -There's a pause here. What's that? 866 00:32:22,862 --> 00:32:24,448 I mean, uh... 867 00:32:24,448 --> 00:32:26,517 Like, as in together, we're not together. 868 00:32:27,551 --> 00:32:30,241 Damn! That was romance. 869 00:32:30,241 --> 00:32:33,103 So things have changed from what I just saw on that screen? 870 00:32:33,103 --> 00:32:34,965 -[Tae] Yes. -How so? 871 00:32:34,965 --> 00:32:37,034 Oh, [bleep]. This [bleep] about to go left. 872 00:32:37,034 --> 00:32:42,137 I was kind of conflicted about like the stability issue, 873 00:32:42,137 --> 00:32:44,000 and how the future would look. 874 00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:46,379 Right now, I just want someone 875 00:32:46,379 --> 00:32:49,034 that's a little more put together. I'm not saying that he's not. 876 00:32:49,034 --> 00:32:51,034 He checks all the boxes other than that. 877 00:32:51,034 --> 00:32:53,000 Because you definitely knew this going in. 878 00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:54,517 [Tae] I did, and I said I would give it a try. 879 00:32:54,517 --> 00:32:55,482 [Tommy] He held nothing back. 880 00:32:55,482 --> 00:32:57,206 He didn't and I respect him for that. 881 00:32:57,206 --> 00:33:00,344 And I said, "I will try." And I did. 882 00:33:00,344 --> 00:33:03,517 Just, like, I guess, like, you know, like, just in the back of my head, 883 00:33:03,517 --> 00:33:04,620 just doubts. I don't know. 884 00:33:04,620 --> 00:33:06,689 Like, instead of letting go and letting God... 885 00:33:06,689 --> 00:33:09,206 You know, I guess I'm just being impatient and it's me. 886 00:33:09,206 --> 00:33:10,689 "I don't know if this will work." 887 00:33:10,689 --> 00:33:12,206 And I probably sabotaged it. 888 00:33:12,206 --> 00:33:13,586 It has nothing to do with him. 889 00:33:13,586 --> 00:33:15,241 This is an amazing man right here. 890 00:33:15,241 --> 00:33:17,172 So how does that [bleep] matter? 891 00:33:17,172 --> 00:33:19,000 Why would she want to date somebody 892 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,620 that can't even meet her at that same level? 893 00:33:21,620 --> 00:33:22,689 [Eddie] 'Cause it's not about the money. 894 00:33:22,689 --> 00:33:23,896 You don't want to date somebody 895 00:33:23,896 --> 00:33:25,172 and then feel like you have to... 896 00:33:25,172 --> 00:33:28,344 You say he can check all the other boxes. That's powerful. 897 00:33:28,344 --> 00:33:31,896 But if she wants kids, he can't afford kids. 898 00:33:31,896 --> 00:33:34,068 I don't know. I know, like, with marriages, 899 00:33:34,068 --> 00:33:36,758 like, a lot of things can end, like, because of money. 900 00:33:36,758 --> 00:33:39,379 -Yeah. -And I'm not gonna sit here, 901 00:33:39,379 --> 00:33:40,517 and we all can't sit here 902 00:33:40,517 --> 00:33:42,448 and act like that's not a big factor 'cause it is. 903 00:33:42,448 --> 00:33:45,206 And I started asking, "Well, what happened with your past jobs?" 904 00:33:45,206 --> 00:33:47,206 And, you know, "How did you get here?" 905 00:33:47,206 --> 00:33:48,448 And, you know, he would say, like, 906 00:33:48,448 --> 00:33:50,137 you know, that he was doing the job, 907 00:33:50,137 --> 00:33:51,655 and then he stopped the job 908 00:33:51,655 --> 00:33:53,241 to go pursue, like, modeling. 909 00:33:53,241 --> 00:33:54,896 And that's great for him, 910 00:33:54,896 --> 00:33:55,965 but then I just thought about like, 911 00:33:55,965 --> 00:33:58,000 "Is he going to continue to do that? 912 00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:00,758 Is he gonna continue to, you know, quit jobs, 913 00:34:00,758 --> 00:34:02,482 and then I'm the one working, holding it down, 914 00:34:02,482 --> 00:34:04,965 like just, you know, so he can pursue his modeling?" 915 00:34:04,965 --> 00:34:06,551 That's fine if he does that, 916 00:34:06,551 --> 00:34:07,862 but that's not what I want right now. 917 00:34:07,862 --> 00:34:11,000 Like I just thought I was ready, but I guess I wasn't. 918 00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:12,585 Just 'cause [bleep] can't get a job, 919 00:34:12,585 --> 00:34:14,068 -he can't have a relationship? -There is no love. 920 00:34:14,068 --> 00:34:15,068 That's how you think too? 921 00:34:15,068 --> 00:34:16,551 If you're constantly working on that, 922 00:34:16,551 --> 00:34:18,344 you should not be looking for a relationship 923 00:34:18,344 --> 00:34:20,413 because that should be your main focus. 924 00:34:21,447 --> 00:34:24,241 [Eddie] I think a relationship helps out [bleep]. 925 00:34:24,241 --> 00:34:26,137 -No, no. -[Eddie] It do. 926 00:34:26,137 --> 00:34:27,896 That should be your only main focus. 927 00:34:27,896 --> 00:34:29,379 In getting yourself out of that gutter. 928 00:34:29,379 --> 00:34:31,620 -It should help. -You should not be looking for a relationship 929 00:34:31,620 --> 00:34:32,655 -at that point. -It can help. 930 00:34:32,655 --> 00:34:34,034 -Cisco? -Yes, sir. 931 00:34:34,034 --> 00:34:36,620 Where did the relationship change for you? 932 00:34:36,620 --> 00:34:39,137 Is it the financial stability? 933 00:34:39,137 --> 00:34:41,068 We had a conversation, right? 934 00:34:41,068 --> 00:34:43,103 I expressed to her what happened with me and my ex. 935 00:34:43,103 --> 00:34:46,206 She made a statement that kind of like rubbed me the wrong way. 936 00:34:46,206 --> 00:34:49,275 She like, "It gives like you mooch off women." 937 00:34:50,275 --> 00:34:52,344 How do I mooch off women? 938 00:34:52,344 --> 00:34:55,241 If that's the case, I'd have been mooching off you, like off rip. 939 00:34:55,241 --> 00:34:59,103 I pay my bills, I go to work, I work out. 940 00:34:59,103 --> 00:35:00,689 -Mm-hmm. -When she came in the picture, 941 00:35:00,689 --> 00:35:02,137 we were spending a lot of time. 942 00:35:02,137 --> 00:35:04,310 I was still doing the same things. 943 00:35:04,310 --> 00:35:08,551 Is there any way of repairing what has taken place? 944 00:35:08,551 --> 00:35:09,655 I don't think there is. 945 00:35:11,379 --> 00:35:12,965 I still want what I want. 946 00:35:12,965 --> 00:35:16,517 And is it a problem for me to want what I want? 947 00:35:16,517 --> 00:35:18,241 Girls stand on their [bleep]. 948 00:35:18,241 --> 00:35:19,413 [women] Yeah. 949 00:35:20,689 --> 00:35:23,689 Cisco, any repairing from your perspective? 950 00:35:24,241 --> 00:35:25,137 I can't. 951 00:35:25,689 --> 00:35:27,068 She's been moved on. 952 00:35:27,068 --> 00:35:29,689 It's been obvious to me 953 00:35:29,689 --> 00:35:32,344 while we were dealing with each other, now with her answers. 954 00:35:32,344 --> 00:35:34,689 I can't. You know what I'm saying? 955 00:35:34,689 --> 00:35:36,793 -Okay. -[Francisco] I can't go through that hurt. 956 00:35:37,344 --> 00:35:39,310 I was hopeful 957 00:35:39,310 --> 00:35:40,896 when you guys first found each other, 958 00:35:40,896 --> 00:35:42,206 uh, you hit it off. 959 00:35:42,206 --> 00:35:45,758 I thought it was just headed to the moon. 960 00:35:45,758 --> 00:35:48,034 I mean, we was. Like... 961 00:35:48,034 --> 00:35:50,448 But if you're not gonna be in a relationship, 962 00:35:50,448 --> 00:35:53,241 you know, hopefully you guys can maintain some type of friendship. 963 00:35:53,241 --> 00:35:55,482 All right. 964 00:35:55,482 --> 00:35:58,000 All right, people, we are down to our final break, 965 00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:00,758 and when we return, we will see what's on the horizon 966 00:36:00,758 --> 00:36:02,793 for all of our singles and couples. 967 00:36:02,793 --> 00:36:04,655 We'll be back right after this. 968 00:36:12,344 --> 00:36:14,655 Welcome back to the Ready to Love Philly Reunion Special. 969 00:36:14,655 --> 00:36:17,379 Now, before I do our final check in with everybody, 970 00:36:17,379 --> 00:36:19,758 I want to give you a special sneak peek 971 00:36:19,758 --> 00:36:21,724 at the next season of Ready To Love. 972 00:36:21,724 --> 00:36:23,551 That's right. We're bringing Ready to Love 973 00:36:23,551 --> 00:36:25,517 to Detroit City. 974 00:36:25,517 --> 00:36:27,827 Yeah. What up, dope? Let's take a look. 975 00:36:29,931 --> 00:36:31,448 Detroit, Detroit! 976 00:36:31,448 --> 00:36:33,344 From this season ofReady To Love... 977 00:36:33,344 --> 00:36:35,517 I want you to roll, bounce. 978 00:36:35,517 --> 00:36:36,586 [woman laughs] 979 00:36:36,586 --> 00:36:38,172 You cupped my ass. 980 00:36:38,172 --> 00:36:40,034 [Tommy] And fall in love. 981 00:36:40,034 --> 00:36:43,517 -[woman squeals] -[man] Aah! [laughing] 982 00:36:43,517 --> 00:36:44,896 Y'all ready? 983 00:36:44,896 --> 00:36:46,620 Ready. [cheering] 984 00:36:47,620 --> 00:36:49,034 We're still sipping on some champagne? 985 00:36:49,034 --> 00:36:51,137 -What's the celebration? -You. 986 00:36:51,137 --> 00:36:52,206 [laughs] 987 00:36:52,206 --> 00:36:53,206 I'm 36. 988 00:36:53,206 --> 00:36:54,655 I'm in cougar town over here, 989 00:36:54,655 --> 00:36:55,931 -but I think I like it. -[woman] Me too. 990 00:36:55,931 --> 00:36:56,793 Cheers to that. 991 00:36:56,793 --> 00:36:57,758 -[women laughing] -For real? 992 00:36:58,586 --> 00:37:00,931 [Tommy] Now it's time to dig deeper. 993 00:37:00,931 --> 00:37:03,000 This is your shot to shine. 994 00:37:03,482 --> 00:37:05,137 [all cheering] 995 00:37:05,137 --> 00:37:07,172 You just got all of it though. 996 00:37:07,172 --> 00:37:09,344 Thank you. You got the total package too. 997 00:37:09,344 --> 00:37:11,896 I wasn't into the second toe but I've seen yours. 998 00:37:11,896 --> 00:37:14,000 They suck-able? [laughing] 999 00:37:17,862 --> 00:37:19,103 -How tall are you? -I'm 6'2". 1000 00:37:19,103 --> 00:37:20,172 Let me see your hand. 1001 00:37:21,758 --> 00:37:23,827 Okay. I'm just curious 1002 00:37:23,827 --> 00:37:25,172 about your just anatomy. 1003 00:37:26,931 --> 00:37:28,413 [Tommy] These are those conversations. 1004 00:37:28,413 --> 00:37:31,448 The deeper we get, the deeper we get. 1005 00:37:31,448 --> 00:37:33,034 Some of the ladies just felt that 1006 00:37:33,034 --> 00:37:34,689 they were trying to get to know you, 1007 00:37:34,689 --> 00:37:36,000 but you were like, "Okay, let me get your real number fast. 1008 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:37,482 I'll call you later. I gotta go to her." 1009 00:37:37,482 --> 00:37:41,413 This conversation better go good because I'm petty. 1010 00:37:41,413 --> 00:37:43,137 You and I don't know each other at all 1011 00:37:43,137 --> 00:37:44,517 because we have not spent time on the phone. 1012 00:37:44,517 --> 00:37:46,103 Okay, so, when you've got connections, 1013 00:37:46,103 --> 00:37:47,103 you can know somebody for two days, 1014 00:37:47,103 --> 00:37:48,448 and, "Baby, I want to lick your neck." 1015 00:37:48,448 --> 00:37:50,724 Man, everybody here then say it and it hurts [bleep], man. 1016 00:37:50,724 --> 00:37:51,931 Come on with that [bleep]. 1017 00:37:51,931 --> 00:37:53,793 I heard what you said. You said a lot of slick-ass... 1018 00:37:53,793 --> 00:37:55,206 -I ain't say nothing. -You talk too damn much. 1019 00:37:55,206 --> 00:37:56,896 You need to shut the...up sometimes, bro. 1020 00:37:58,206 --> 00:37:59,758 Where the ladies kind of stood, 1021 00:37:59,758 --> 00:38:02,793 they felt like you weren't trying to make those connections. 1022 00:38:03,344 --> 00:38:05,310 You lead with sexuality. 1023 00:38:05,310 --> 00:38:07,275 Some people can handle it, and some men can't. 1024 00:38:11,310 --> 00:38:13,172 [man] I wish I had more time. 1025 00:38:15,275 --> 00:38:18,103 Will they compose the perfect ending to their love story? 1026 00:38:18,103 --> 00:38:19,655 I'm here for you. 1027 00:38:21,793 --> 00:38:25,241 [Tommy] It's time to find out which of these singles are truly... 1028 00:38:26,310 --> 00:38:27,793 ready to love. 1029 00:38:29,241 --> 00:38:31,310 All right. While that season looks exciting, 1030 00:38:31,310 --> 00:38:32,448 I want to stay in the present. 1031 00:38:32,448 --> 00:38:34,896 Let's talk about some of the new connections 1032 00:38:34,896 --> 00:38:36,000 that developed after the show 1033 00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:37,482 to see how 1034 00:38:37,482 --> 00:38:39,586 or if there might be a future. 1035 00:38:39,586 --> 00:38:42,413 -Shanice and Fritz, what's the deal? -Oh, okay. 1036 00:38:42,413 --> 00:38:44,517 -Wow. Just right here, huh? -Yeah. 1037 00:38:44,517 --> 00:38:46,448 -Well, it's been a journey. -[Tommy] Yeah. 1038 00:38:46,448 --> 00:38:48,034 It has. We talk all the time. 1039 00:38:48,034 --> 00:38:50,137 We text, um, FaceTime. 1040 00:38:50,137 --> 00:38:52,862 Do we see some potential dates in the future? 1041 00:38:53,379 --> 00:38:54,689 Absolutely. 1042 00:38:54,689 --> 00:38:56,724 -I mean, that's a good woman right there. -[Tommy] Okay. 1043 00:38:56,724 --> 00:38:58,724 Yeah, she's had my back from the jump, 1044 00:38:58,724 --> 00:39:00,172 even when it went south, 1045 00:39:00,172 --> 00:39:03,517 because I saw who, uh, who was my north. 1046 00:39:03,517 --> 00:39:05,620 -My north compass right here. -Oh, wow. 1047 00:39:05,620 --> 00:39:06,793 Your north. 1048 00:39:07,586 --> 00:39:09,793 [indistinct chatter] 1049 00:39:09,793 --> 00:39:11,620 -Ooh! -Let me write that one down. 1050 00:39:11,620 --> 00:39:13,241 I don't even know what a north compass is, 1051 00:39:13,241 --> 00:39:14,551 -but I love it. -[man] Damn, Fritz. 1052 00:39:14,551 --> 00:39:15,620 She was it. 1053 00:39:15,620 --> 00:39:19,724 How do you feel about the whole nudist thing? 1054 00:39:19,724 --> 00:39:21,758 -I'm the biggest freak here. -[Tommy] Yeah. 1055 00:39:21,758 --> 00:39:23,344 Hey, chill out. 1056 00:39:23,344 --> 00:39:25,172 -I just... -[all laughing] 1057 00:39:27,137 --> 00:39:28,413 Deona and Eddie, 1058 00:39:28,413 --> 00:39:30,379 you got a date on Thursday, right? 1059 00:39:30,379 --> 00:39:31,517 Yeah, next Thursday. 1060 00:39:31,517 --> 00:39:34,206 Go get something to eat and conversate, catch up. 1061 00:39:34,206 --> 00:39:36,137 -Yeah. -Sounded like. 1062 00:39:36,137 --> 00:39:38,965 Yeah. You know, you could be a ventriloquist 1063 00:39:38,965 --> 00:39:40,379 because your lips barely move. 1064 00:39:40,379 --> 00:39:42,000 -You know what I'm saying? -[Eddie laughs] 1065 00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:43,241 -My bad. That's how I talk. -[Tommy imitates Eddie] "Get something to eat." 1066 00:39:43,241 --> 00:39:45,172 -That's how I talk. -[Tommy imitates Eddie] 1067 00:39:45,172 --> 00:39:47,689 -[laughter] -All right. Calil and Angie. 1068 00:39:47,689 --> 00:39:49,724 -Yes. -What's going on down there? 1069 00:39:49,724 --> 00:39:51,689 What's up with you all? What the future hold? 1070 00:39:51,689 --> 00:39:53,862 Well, I agreed to take Angie on a date. 1071 00:39:53,862 --> 00:39:56,862 So I'm trying to be a little bit more open minded 1072 00:39:56,862 --> 00:39:59,965 from my advice from the ladies in my, uh, elimination date. 1073 00:39:59,965 --> 00:40:03,172 Being that I connect with, uh, older ladies a little bit. 1074 00:40:03,172 --> 00:40:04,413 Ooh! 1075 00:40:04,413 --> 00:40:05,862 Listen, I didn't look at you like that. 1076 00:40:05,862 --> 00:40:09,103 -[laughing] -Over my... [bleep] [laughing] 1077 00:40:09,103 --> 00:40:11,137 -Calil. -The date is off. 1078 00:40:11,137 --> 00:40:12,758 -No. -[all laughing] 1079 00:40:12,758 --> 00:40:15,000 -No, Angie is absolutely beautiful. -Aww. 1080 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:16,206 -Thank you. -No, she is. 1081 00:40:16,206 --> 00:40:17,344 She is, inside and out. 1082 00:40:17,344 --> 00:40:18,517 Um, we had a real good date, 1083 00:40:18,517 --> 00:40:21,000 and, um, I just want to be more open to, um... 1084 00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:22,689 -To other possibilities. -Okay. 1085 00:40:22,689 --> 00:40:25,620 And if it go wrong, park your car around the corner, okay. 1086 00:40:25,620 --> 00:40:27,172 Because she'll bump it... 1087 00:40:27,172 --> 00:40:29,034 [laughs boisterously] 1088 00:40:29,034 --> 00:40:31,862 Angie, what do you think about the future, going out with Calil? 1089 00:40:31,862 --> 00:40:34,896 Um, I think it might be a great opportunity. 1090 00:40:34,896 --> 00:40:37,068 -Okay. -I'm open to it. 1091 00:40:37,068 --> 00:40:38,689 You're smiling, so... 1092 00:40:38,689 --> 00:40:40,448 -Do you see him? -[Tommy] There's a possibility. 1093 00:40:40,448 --> 00:40:42,586 [all laughing] 1094 00:40:42,586 --> 00:40:44,517 Does Calil make you smile? 1095 00:40:44,517 --> 00:40:47,000 Um, he has in his messages. 1096 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:48,137 -Yeah. -[Tommy] Okay. 1097 00:40:48,137 --> 00:40:50,586 All right, y'all. That is a wrap for us. 1098 00:40:50,586 --> 00:40:52,034 I know this isn't always easy, 1099 00:40:52,034 --> 00:40:55,034 so I want to say thank you, all, for showing up tonight. 1100 00:40:55,034 --> 00:40:58,000 And being open while looking back on an amazing season. 1101 00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:00,206 Give yourselves a big round of applause. Do that. 1102 00:41:03,758 --> 00:41:05,758 You look good, you did good, 1103 00:41:05,758 --> 00:41:08,965 and I hope, more importantly, that you feel good. 1104 00:41:08,965 --> 00:41:12,241 All right. The journey to find love isn't always a straight path. 1105 00:41:12,241 --> 00:41:15,827 So I commend you all on getting back on course. 1106 00:41:15,827 --> 00:41:17,103 That's it. Thanks for watching. 1107 00:41:17,103 --> 00:41:20,344 Until next time, I am your man, Tommy Miles. 1108 00:41:20,344 --> 00:41:21,931 [exclaims] Good night. 1109 00:41:26,827 --> 00:41:29,000 -Much love. -Thank you, Tommy. 1110 00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:29,931 Much love. 1111 00:41:30,620 --> 00:41:31,551 All right, Tommy.