1 00:00:13,100 --> 00:00:15,015 [birds chirping] 2 00:00:34,947 --> 00:00:36,862 ♪ 3 00:00:44,218 --> 00:00:46,394 ♪ Have you been to Jesus 4 00:00:46,437 --> 00:00:48,570 ♪ For his cleansing power? 5 00:00:48,613 --> 00:00:52,095 ♪ Are you washed in the blood of the Lamb? ♪ 6 00:00:52,139 --> 00:00:56,665 ♪ Are you fully trusting in his grace this hour? ♪ 7 00:00:56,708 --> 00:00:58,275 ♪ Are you washed in the blood of the Lamb? ♪ 8 00:00:58,319 --> 00:01:01,670 Mark, I see belt loops and no belt. 9 00:01:01,713 --> 00:01:04,325 ♪ Are you washed in the blood? ♪ 10 00:01:04,368 --> 00:01:08,503 ♪ In the soul-cleansing blood of the Lamb? ♪ 11 00:01:08,546 --> 00:01:12,898 [Mrs. Veda] Oh, oh, oh... No. 12 00:01:12,942 --> 00:01:14,683 ♪ Are you washed in the blood of the Lamb? ♪ 13 00:01:14,726 --> 00:01:16,032 [sighs] 14 00:01:16,076 --> 00:01:18,600 Ah, ah, ah, ah. Miss O'’Donnell. 15 00:01:20,819 --> 00:01:22,343 Just as I suspected: 16 00:01:22,386 --> 00:01:23,996 over two-and-a-half inches above the knee. 17 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:27,609 Dean'’s Office. Now! 18 00:01:27,652 --> 00:01:29,524 -Morning, Mrs. Veda. -Alice. 19 00:01:31,091 --> 00:01:32,788 School mass today at 2:00. 20 00:01:32,831 --> 00:01:35,182 Why don'’t you be gift bearer again? 21 00:01:35,225 --> 00:01:36,835 Sure. 22 00:01:38,663 --> 00:01:39,838 Hmm. 23 00:01:42,232 --> 00:01:46,671 OK, it'’s like this, guys are like microwave ovens. 24 00:01:46,715 --> 00:01:50,675 And ladies are like conventional ovens. 25 00:01:50,719 --> 00:01:53,156 Guys only need a few seconds, you know, like a microwave, 26 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,245 to get... switched on. 27 00:01:55,289 --> 00:01:58,988 While ladies, they typically need to... 28 00:01:59,031 --> 00:02:00,598 preheat for a while. 29 00:02:00,642 --> 00:02:03,166 But God created sex with boundaries 30 00:02:03,210 --> 00:02:05,037 and for a purpose. 31 00:02:05,081 --> 00:02:07,257 Does anyone wanna take a stab at what the boundary is? 32 00:02:07,301 --> 00:02:08,476 Yes, Wade? 33 00:02:08,519 --> 00:02:09,781 -Marriage. -Very good. 34 00:02:09,825 --> 00:02:12,001 And does anybody know the purpose? 35 00:02:13,611 --> 00:02:16,005 -To have children. -[Father Murphy] Perfecto. 36 00:02:16,048 --> 00:02:19,226 When a man and a woman receive the sacrament of matrimony, 37 00:02:19,269 --> 00:02:22,751 God calls on them to create children in his image. 38 00:02:22,794 --> 00:02:26,189 Any sex outside of one man, one woman, one marriage 39 00:02:26,233 --> 00:02:27,495 is against God'’s plan. 40 00:02:29,236 --> 00:02:32,413 Um, what about sex with yourself? 41 00:02:32,456 --> 00:02:34,154 [students laugh] 42 00:02:34,197 --> 00:02:36,025 Can you create children from sex with yourself? 43 00:02:36,068 --> 00:02:38,375 -No. -[Father Murphy] Right, so? 44 00:02:38,419 --> 00:02:40,725 -[Heather] It'’s against God's plan. -[Father Murphy] Exactly. 45 00:02:40,769 --> 00:02:43,554 [male student]So, is that what the Bible meansby "spilling your seed"? 46 00:02:43,598 --> 00:02:45,208 -Is it spilling if you catch it?-[students laugh] 47 00:02:45,252 --> 00:02:47,123 [Father Murphy] All right, all right. 48 00:02:47,167 --> 00:02:49,691 We are called on to be chaste until we are married. 49 00:02:49,734 --> 00:02:53,085 And that means no sex-- with yourself or anyone else-- 50 00:02:53,129 --> 00:02:56,393 until you stand at that altar and you say "I do" 51 00:02:56,437 --> 00:02:59,440 or else it is damnation for all eternity. 52 00:02:59,483 --> 00:03:02,007 And remember... 53 00:03:02,051 --> 00:03:03,574 God is always watching. 54 00:03:05,837 --> 00:03:06,882 Capiche? 55 00:03:09,232 --> 00:03:14,106 They gave us Baby Think-It-Overin Christian Lifestyles. 56 00:03:14,150 --> 00:03:16,587 I'’m not even having sex, they should just give them to the slutty girls. 57 00:03:16,631 --> 00:03:20,243 Oh, have you had to watch the partial-birth abortion video yet? 58 00:03:20,287 --> 00:03:23,507 -It'’s really awful. -No, no! Don'’t ruin it for me. 59 00:03:24,987 --> 00:03:26,858 How was Morality? 60 00:03:26,902 --> 00:03:28,382 It was fine. 61 00:03:28,425 --> 00:03:32,255 Did you know that masturbating is a sin? 62 00:03:32,299 --> 00:03:35,693 Ew. Of course. Why? 63 00:03:37,129 --> 00:03:39,175 I was just wondering. 64 00:03:39,219 --> 00:03:43,135 Making me rewind Titanic back to the car scene twice 65 00:03:43,179 --> 00:03:45,268 is probably also a sin, 66 00:03:45,312 --> 00:03:47,531 just in case you were wonderingthat next. 67 00:03:47,575 --> 00:03:49,446 Look, I only asked you to do that 68 00:03:49,490 --> 00:03:51,448 because I couldn'’t hear what Kate whispered to Leo 69 00:03:51,492 --> 00:03:53,233 -when he said, "Where to, Miss?"-Mm-hmm. 70 00:03:53,276 --> 00:03:57,498 Which just happens to be right before they make out 71 00:03:57,541 --> 00:04:02,154 and steam up that car window that Kate slaps her hand on. 72 00:04:02,198 --> 00:04:03,808 I didn'’t write it! 73 00:04:03,852 --> 00:04:05,245 [dog barking] 74 00:04:09,510 --> 00:04:12,861 Hey! Hi, Gus. 75 00:04:14,341 --> 00:04:16,821 [clicking tongue] 76 00:04:32,446 --> 00:04:33,621 Sit, Gus. 77 00:04:35,187 --> 00:04:36,276 Sit. 78 00:04:42,369 --> 00:04:45,285 [modem dialing up] 79 00:04:48,549 --> 00:04:51,116 [computer voice] Welcome! 80 00:04:59,255 --> 00:05:00,996 OK. Here we go! 81 00:05:12,094 --> 00:05:14,836 [sighs] Damn it! 82 00:05:14,879 --> 00:05:16,054 [sighs] 83 00:05:24,019 --> 00:05:25,063 Titanic! 84 00:05:25,107 --> 00:05:27,327 [typing] 85 00:05:27,370 --> 00:05:29,241 Yes! 86 00:05:29,285 --> 00:05:31,026 [computer voice] You'’ve got mail. 87 00:05:45,301 --> 00:05:46,302 [gasps] 88 00:05:59,446 --> 00:06:00,577 Mom? 89 00:06:20,684 --> 00:06:21,598 [chimes] 90 00:06:32,130 --> 00:06:33,044 [chimes] 91 00:06:34,350 --> 00:06:35,351 [chimes] 92 00:06:40,574 --> 00:06:42,532 [typing] 93 00:06:46,188 --> 00:06:47,102 [chimes] 94 00:06:48,364 --> 00:06:49,278 [chimes] 95 00:06:57,112 --> 00:06:58,940 [sighs] 96 00:07:10,168 --> 00:07:12,083 [scanner whirring] 97 00:07:21,789 --> 00:07:22,703 [chimes] 98 00:07:24,922 --> 00:07:25,836 [chimes] 99 00:07:27,229 --> 00:07:28,143 [chimes] 100 00:07:37,413 --> 00:07:38,327 [chimes] 101 00:07:39,415 --> 00:07:40,416 [chimes] 102 00:07:46,074 --> 00:07:47,336 Wet? 103 00:07:47,379 --> 00:07:48,293 [chimes] 104 00:07:50,557 --> 00:07:53,168 Uh... 105 00:07:55,083 --> 00:07:56,127 [smacks lips] 106 00:08:06,398 --> 00:08:08,662 Underwear? 107 00:08:08,705 --> 00:08:10,664 [typing] 108 00:08:14,972 --> 00:08:15,886 [chimes] 109 00:08:18,367 --> 00:08:19,281 [chimes] 110 00:08:22,458 --> 00:08:24,634 Ohh. 111 00:08:24,678 --> 00:08:25,635 [chimes] 112 00:08:26,941 --> 00:08:27,855 What? 113 00:08:46,613 --> 00:08:48,571 ♪ 114 00:09:07,503 --> 00:09:09,287 [Mom] Alice! 115 00:09:09,331 --> 00:09:12,203 Dinner! 116 00:09:12,247 --> 00:09:14,728 -[Priest] I confess to almighty God... -Almighty God... 117 00:09:14,771 --> 00:09:17,818 [all] and to you, my brothers and sisters, 118 00:09:17,861 --> 00:09:20,168 that I have sinned through my own fault, 119 00:09:20,211 --> 00:09:22,997 in my thoughts and in my words, 120 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:26,653 in what I have done and in whatI have failed to do... 121 00:09:26,696 --> 00:09:29,133 [Dad] The Millers invited us over to watch the game. 122 00:09:29,177 --> 00:09:33,007 Great, I'’ll make my cheesy potatoes. 123 00:09:33,050 --> 00:09:35,487 Oh, Damn it, Ron. 124 00:09:35,531 --> 00:09:37,141 Now I'’m all wet! 125 00:09:37,185 --> 00:09:38,578 [sighs] 126 00:09:38,621 --> 00:09:42,190 Calm down, Gail, you'’re not that wet. 127 00:09:42,233 --> 00:09:44,148 [water running] 128 00:09:44,192 --> 00:09:46,716 -[music playing] -[horn honks] 129 00:09:55,290 --> 00:09:58,510 So, uh, Alice, I heard you got on Wade Friday night. 130 00:09:58,554 --> 00:10:02,384 Stephanie told me she walked inon you guys in my sauna. 131 00:10:02,427 --> 00:10:04,516 [Anthony] Ooh! Gettin'’ steamy in the sauna! 132 00:10:04,560 --> 00:10:08,085 No, we were just back there getting some drinks. 133 00:10:09,913 --> 00:10:12,046 We were only gone for like a minute! 134 00:10:12,089 --> 00:10:13,221 Yeah, that'’s long enough for Wade. 135 00:10:13,264 --> 00:10:15,266 [grunts] I was just messin'’. 136 00:10:16,528 --> 00:10:18,313 Listen. 137 00:10:18,356 --> 00:10:21,011 You don'’t have to put out just because you like a boy. 138 00:10:21,055 --> 00:10:23,448 I don'’t like him. 139 00:10:23,492 --> 00:10:26,016 [Father Murphy]And now, for the Bible passagesthat back all this up... 140 00:10:26,060 --> 00:10:28,236 We'’re gonna start with Galatians. 141 00:10:28,279 --> 00:10:30,020 Heather, why don'’t you start us off? 142 00:10:30,064 --> 00:10:32,109 [Heather] The acts of the fleshare obvious: 143 00:10:32,153 --> 00:10:35,547 sexual immorality, impurity, debauchery... 144 00:10:35,591 --> 00:10:38,550 OK, so, I just bought this Blink 182 CD 145 00:10:38,594 --> 00:10:39,769 from Sam Goody, right? 146 00:10:39,813 --> 00:10:41,336 Um, I upload them to my computer 147 00:10:41,379 --> 00:10:42,554 and then I just put '’em on here. 148 00:10:42,598 --> 00:10:43,730 Easy as pie. 149 00:10:43,773 --> 00:10:45,253 The album'’s amazing, by the way. 150 00:10:45,296 --> 00:10:46,689 It'’s called Enema of the State. 151 00:10:46,733 --> 00:10:48,169 -Get it? -[laughs] 152 00:10:48,212 --> 00:10:50,040 I bet you know all about enemas,don'’t you? 153 00:10:50,084 --> 00:10:51,955 Can you not talk about enemas near my baby, please? 154 00:10:51,999 --> 00:10:54,479 Yeah, I'’m gonna... 155 00:10:54,523 --> 00:10:55,698 Thank you. 156 00:10:59,049 --> 00:11:00,660 Such a perv. 157 00:11:00,703 --> 00:11:01,878 What'’s an enema? 158 00:11:01,922 --> 00:11:03,488 It'’s when you fall water skiing 159 00:11:03,532 --> 00:11:04,838 and water shoots up your butt. 160 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:08,624 Well, look who it is. 161 00:11:08,668 --> 00:11:10,104 Where were you this weekend? 162 00:11:10,147 --> 00:11:11,845 You didn'’t come to my party. 163 00:11:11,888 --> 00:11:14,108 Yeah, I heard things got pretty crazy. 164 00:11:16,110 --> 00:11:18,068 Everyone'’s been talking about you and Wade. 165 00:11:18,112 --> 00:11:20,941 -Oh? -Yeah. 166 00:11:20,984 --> 00:11:22,333 They'’re saying you tossed his salad. 167 00:11:22,377 --> 00:11:23,726 -What? -Gross! 168 00:11:23,770 --> 00:11:25,989 You tossed his salad in my sauna? 169 00:11:26,033 --> 00:11:28,775 What? No! No! Who, who said that? 170 00:11:28,818 --> 00:11:31,299 Some girl in my Geometry class was telling a bunch of us. 171 00:11:31,342 --> 00:11:32,909 Heather'’s really pissed too. 172 00:11:32,953 --> 00:11:34,911 She just gave Wade a promise bracelet. 173 00:11:34,955 --> 00:11:37,087 OK. [chuckles] 174 00:11:37,131 --> 00:11:42,266 I mean, I'’ve never even heard ofdressing someone'’s salad! So... 175 00:11:43,659 --> 00:11:45,182 The party was really fun. 176 00:11:45,226 --> 00:11:47,619 Why didn'’t you come? 177 00:11:47,663 --> 00:11:48,838 I was on a retreat. 178 00:11:48,882 --> 00:11:50,013 [Laura] Oh! Like a spa? 179 00:11:50,057 --> 00:11:52,059 No, a retreat ran by the school. 180 00:11:52,102 --> 00:11:56,193 It'’s called Kirkos and I got this necklace on it. See? 181 00:11:56,237 --> 00:11:58,761 Cool. What'’d you do there? 182 00:11:58,805 --> 00:12:01,068 We'’re not allowed to talk aboutit with anyone who hasn'’t been. 183 00:12:01,111 --> 00:12:03,766 But it totally changed my life. 184 00:12:03,810 --> 00:12:05,768 Coming, Beth? 185 00:12:05,812 --> 00:12:09,598 Yeah. I gotta go. 186 00:12:09,641 --> 00:12:11,643 You guys should sign up for the next one. 187 00:12:11,687 --> 00:12:13,602 I think it'’d be good for you. 188 00:12:19,956 --> 00:12:24,700 Since when does Beth eat lunch with Nina and those girls? 189 00:12:25,788 --> 00:12:27,268 I have to go on that retreat. 190 00:12:27,311 --> 00:12:29,444 Do you think she thinks that I actually 191 00:12:29,487 --> 00:12:31,315 tasted Wade'’s salad or whatever? 192 00:12:31,359 --> 00:12:33,143 I don'’t know. 193 00:12:33,187 --> 00:12:35,189 Beth'’s such a moron. 194 00:12:35,232 --> 00:12:37,234 I never have any clue what'’s she's talking about 195 00:12:37,278 --> 00:12:39,410 so she probably made it up. 196 00:12:41,673 --> 00:12:46,026 [laughing] 197 00:12:50,421 --> 00:12:52,119 I'’m gonna go get more milk. 198 00:12:52,162 --> 00:12:54,512 [laughter continues] 199 00:12:59,126 --> 00:13:01,650 Oh. Hey, Heather. Hey, Wade. 200 00:13:04,696 --> 00:13:06,611 Can'’t have pudding without milk! 201 00:13:12,835 --> 00:13:14,924 She'’s disgusting. 202 00:13:14,968 --> 00:13:17,753 [church music playing] 203 00:13:24,716 --> 00:13:26,240 I think I'’m going to ask Heather 204 00:13:26,283 --> 00:13:28,503 to bear the gifts with Jacob today. 205 00:13:31,767 --> 00:13:33,116 [snaps fingers] 206 00:13:42,343 --> 00:13:44,258 [sighs] 207 00:13:46,303 --> 00:13:50,133 Alice, if you want to continue to be a gift bearer, 208 00:13:50,177 --> 00:13:53,310 you have to conduct yourself like one. 209 00:13:54,529 --> 00:13:57,749 Your body is a gift from God. 210 00:13:57,793 --> 00:14:00,883 You need to honor it. 211 00:14:14,592 --> 00:14:18,379 [indistinct chatter] 212 00:14:48,235 --> 00:14:51,064 In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. 213 00:14:51,107 --> 00:14:54,241 Um, bless me Father for I have sinned. 214 00:14:54,284 --> 00:14:56,765 It has been a week since my last confession. 215 00:14:56,808 --> 00:14:58,375 These are my sins... 216 00:14:58,419 --> 00:15:01,378 Talking back to my dad... 217 00:15:01,422 --> 00:15:04,860 Not helping my mom in the kitchen... 218 00:15:04,904 --> 00:15:09,560 Forgetting to feed the dog... 219 00:15:09,604 --> 00:15:11,562 And... 220 00:15:12,912 --> 00:15:14,914 And anything else? 221 00:15:18,221 --> 00:15:19,179 That'’s it. 222 00:15:19,222 --> 00:15:21,224 For penance, 223 00:15:21,268 --> 00:15:23,226 why don'’t you do the dishes for a week? 224 00:15:23,270 --> 00:15:24,793 Give your mom a break. 225 00:15:24,836 --> 00:15:27,317 And ten Hail Marys and ten Our Fathers. 226 00:15:30,842 --> 00:15:32,844 God, the Father of mercies, 227 00:15:32,888 --> 00:15:34,890 through the death and resurrection of his Son, 228 00:15:34,934 --> 00:15:36,936 has reconciled the world to itself 229 00:15:36,979 --> 00:15:38,415 and sent the Holy Spirit among us 230 00:15:38,459 --> 00:15:40,069 for the forgiveness of sins... 231 00:15:40,113 --> 00:15:41,941 Give us this day our daily bread, 232 00:15:41,984 --> 00:15:43,899 and forgive us of our trespasses, 233 00:15:43,943 --> 00:15:45,770 as we forgive those that trespass against us... 234 00:15:45,814 --> 00:15:47,903 [Mrs. Veda] Your body is a gift from God. 235 00:15:47,947 --> 00:15:49,470 [Heather] It'’s against God's plan. 236 00:15:49,513 --> 00:15:51,863 [Mrs. Vega] You need to honor it. 237 00:15:51,907 --> 00:15:54,823 [Father Murphy] Or else it is damnation for all eternity. 238 00:15:54,866 --> 00:15:57,478 Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven. 239 00:15:57,521 --> 00:15:59,393 [Beth] It'’s called Kirkos. 240 00:15:59,436 --> 00:16:02,135 I think it'’d be good for you. 241 00:16:05,442 --> 00:16:07,618 [birds chirping] 242 00:16:07,662 --> 00:16:09,577 ♪ 243 00:16:13,015 --> 00:16:15,148 [indistinct chatter] 244 00:16:15,191 --> 00:16:18,847 ♪ Michael row the boat ashore 245 00:16:18,890 --> 00:16:23,025 ♪ Hallelujah 246 00:16:23,069 --> 00:16:26,811 ♪ Michael row the boat ashore 247 00:16:26,855 --> 00:16:30,641 ♪ Hallelujah 248 00:16:30,685 --> 00:16:35,211 ♪ Sister help to trim the sails ♪ 249 00:16:35,255 --> 00:16:38,562 ♪ Hallelujah 250 00:16:38,606 --> 00:16:42,523 ♪ Sister help to trim the sails ♪ 251 00:16:42,566 --> 00:16:46,222 ♪ Hallelujah 252 00:16:46,266 --> 00:16:50,270 ♪ Michael row the boat ashore 253 00:16:50,313 --> 00:16:54,361 ♪ Hallelujah 254 00:16:54,404 --> 00:16:55,666 Are we there? 255 00:16:55,710 --> 00:16:57,581 ♪ Michael row the boat ashore 256 00:16:57,625 --> 00:17:02,804 ♪ Hallelujah 257 00:17:10,986 --> 00:17:12,857 I can'’t do this. 258 00:17:12,901 --> 00:17:15,643 [Laura] These few days away are going to be good for us. 259 00:17:15,686 --> 00:17:16,905 [Alice] I don'’t know. 260 00:17:16,948 --> 00:17:19,212 Ugh! 261 00:17:19,255 --> 00:17:23,085 Father looks so weird in regular people clothes. 262 00:17:23,129 --> 00:17:25,087 [gasps] Oh, my God! Nina'’s here! 263 00:17:25,131 --> 00:17:27,524 She must be one of the group leaders. 264 00:17:27,568 --> 00:17:29,483 Welcome, everyone. 265 00:17:29,526 --> 00:17:32,181 Who'’s that? 266 00:17:32,225 --> 00:17:34,879 Are you serious? That'’s Chris. 267 00:17:34,923 --> 00:17:37,360 He'’s only like the star of the football team. 268 00:17:41,060 --> 00:17:42,148 ♪ 269 00:17:42,191 --> 00:17:44,019 Welcome to Kirkos. 270 00:17:44,063 --> 00:17:46,935 So, uh, you'’re gonna be bunking in my cabin this week. 271 00:17:46,978 --> 00:17:52,506 ♪ Oh, oh, oh 272 00:17:52,549 --> 00:17:53,985 ♪ My body'’s sayin' let'’s go ♪ 273 00:17:54,029 --> 00:17:58,164 ♪ Oh, oh, oh 274 00:17:58,207 --> 00:18:01,167 ♪ But my heart is sayin'’ no ♪ 275 00:18:01,210 --> 00:18:04,126 ♪ If you wanna be with me 276 00:18:04,170 --> 00:18:07,738 ♪ Baby, there'’s a price to pay ♪ 277 00:18:07,782 --> 00:18:11,960 ♪ I'’m a genie in a bottle ♪ 278 00:18:12,003 --> 00:18:14,136 ♪ You gotta rub me the right way ♪ 279 00:18:14,180 --> 00:18:16,182 [Nina] Hi! Alice, right? 280 00:18:16,225 --> 00:18:18,488 -Yeah. -Welcome. 281 00:18:18,532 --> 00:18:21,926 I'’m Nina. Come with me. You'’re in my cabin. Come on. 282 00:18:21,970 --> 00:18:23,058 Sorry. 283 00:18:26,017 --> 00:18:28,585 [Nina] I'’m so excited for you guys. 284 00:18:30,979 --> 00:18:34,330 OK. Find the room with your name on the door. 285 00:18:56,091 --> 00:18:58,180 -[knock at door] -Oh, sorry! 286 00:18:58,224 --> 00:18:59,616 I didn'’t mean to scare you! 287 00:18:59,660 --> 00:19:01,052 You settling in? 288 00:19:01,096 --> 00:19:03,751 I'’ve got a sweatshirt here for you. 289 00:19:03,794 --> 00:19:05,187 Thanks. 290 00:19:05,231 --> 00:19:08,538 And... next order of beeswax is... 291 00:19:08,582 --> 00:19:10,497 I'’m gonna need your cell phone and/or watch, 292 00:19:10,540 --> 00:19:11,976 if you have '’em. 293 00:19:12,020 --> 00:19:14,327 Did you bring either one of those with you? 294 00:19:14,370 --> 00:19:15,763 Mm-hmm. 295 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:34,477 No phone? 296 00:19:34,521 --> 00:19:36,175 -Mm-mm. -K. 297 00:19:36,218 --> 00:19:38,481 Don'’t worry, you won'’t be needing 298 00:19:38,525 --> 00:19:41,876 a watch this weekend anyway because... 299 00:19:41,919 --> 00:19:43,834 you'’re on Jesus' time! 300 00:19:43,878 --> 00:19:46,315 See ya! 301 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:50,014 [indistinct chatter] 302 00:19:50,058 --> 00:19:53,192 [Mrs. Veda] Please find your small group number! 303 00:19:53,235 --> 00:19:55,672 Cut the chit-chat, please, and have a seat. 304 00:19:55,716 --> 00:19:58,022 Sit at the table with your small group number. 305 00:19:58,066 --> 00:19:59,807 Please find your small group number. 306 00:19:59,850 --> 00:20:01,200 [sighs] 307 00:20:01,243 --> 00:20:03,419 -I guess I'’ll see you later. -What? 308 00:20:17,477 --> 00:20:18,695 Group One? 309 00:20:20,306 --> 00:20:21,524 Awesome! 310 00:20:23,222 --> 00:20:24,788 I'’m Chris, Group One'’s Senior Leader. 311 00:20:24,832 --> 00:20:25,920 Have a seat. 312 00:20:28,357 --> 00:20:31,752 Group One too? Awesome! Have a seat. 313 00:20:33,623 --> 00:20:37,279 You are here as a part of God'’s plan. 314 00:20:37,323 --> 00:20:41,892 His spirit moved each of you to sign up for this retreat, 315 00:20:41,936 --> 00:20:45,156 which is a unique experience that will challenge you 316 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,637 in new and profound ways. 317 00:20:47,681 --> 00:20:49,900 Kirkos is a time to find meaning 318 00:20:49,944 --> 00:20:51,989 in the highs and lows of your life. 319 00:20:52,033 --> 00:20:53,948 Over these next four days 320 00:20:53,991 --> 00:20:55,732 you will hear from your classmates 321 00:20:55,776 --> 00:20:57,995 and be invited to open up as well. 322 00:20:58,039 --> 00:21:00,955 It will strengthen your relationship with yourself, 323 00:21:00,998 --> 00:21:05,176 but most importantly, with Jesus. 324 00:21:05,220 --> 00:21:07,004 Now let'’s get started. 325 00:21:07,048 --> 00:21:08,963 On the papers that Mrs. Veda is handing out, 326 00:21:09,006 --> 00:21:11,095 you'’re going to find a list of feelings. 327 00:21:11,139 --> 00:21:13,402 Go through them and circle any 328 00:21:13,446 --> 00:21:16,187 that you may have felt in the past year or so. 329 00:21:16,231 --> 00:21:19,974 There are no wrong answers. So just, just be honest. 330 00:21:20,017 --> 00:21:21,932 ♪ 331 00:22:10,372 --> 00:22:13,375 [Father Murphy] While ladies, they typically need to... 332 00:22:13,419 --> 00:22:15,334 preheat for a while. 333 00:22:31,088 --> 00:22:32,481 [Father Murphy] OK. Let'’s finish up. 334 00:22:32,525 --> 00:22:34,353 Pass your papers toward the aisles. 335 00:22:34,396 --> 00:22:37,312 And make sure that your name is printed clearly on top. 336 00:22:45,842 --> 00:22:46,756 Come on. 337 00:22:50,934 --> 00:22:53,284 The other night I dreamt that I was walking 338 00:22:53,328 --> 00:22:54,460 along the beach with the Lord. 339 00:22:54,503 --> 00:22:56,113 As we walked, 340 00:22:56,157 --> 00:22:58,725 scenes from my life flashed across the sky 341 00:22:58,768 --> 00:23:00,335 and in each scene, 342 00:23:00,379 --> 00:23:02,424 I noticed that there were footprints in the sand. 343 00:23:02,468 --> 00:23:05,427 In some scenes there were two sets of footprints 344 00:23:05,471 --> 00:23:09,300 and in other scenes there was only one set of footprints. 345 00:23:09,344 --> 00:23:11,259 [indistinct chatter] 346 00:23:16,090 --> 00:23:17,004 Hey. 347 00:23:17,918 --> 00:23:19,093 Oh. Hey. 348 00:23:19,136 --> 00:23:21,400 -Hey, Sister Louise. -Hi. 349 00:23:21,443 --> 00:23:24,272 Do you mind if I snag another stupendous Walking Taco? 350 00:23:24,315 --> 00:23:27,536 [Sister Louise] Of course, dear. You'’re a growing boy! 351 00:23:27,580 --> 00:23:31,627 And Walking Tacos have lots of protein and fiber. 352 00:23:31,671 --> 00:23:33,716 Oh, may I have some sour cream too, please? 353 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:35,370 -[Sister Louise] Oh, yes. -[Chris] Thank you. 354 00:23:35,414 --> 00:23:38,155 You'’re welcome. What about you, dear? 355 00:23:38,199 --> 00:23:40,201 -Oh, no, no thanks. -[Sister Louise] No? 356 00:23:40,244 --> 00:23:44,466 No sour cream? No, that is the best part. 357 00:23:44,510 --> 00:23:46,120 OK. 358 00:23:46,163 --> 00:23:49,036 -I guess I'’ll have some. -[chuckles] 359 00:23:49,079 --> 00:23:51,038 How'’s everything going for you so far, Alice? 360 00:23:51,081 --> 00:23:53,040 It'’s great. 361 00:23:53,083 --> 00:23:58,132 You know, it'’s OK if you think things are totally weird. 362 00:23:58,175 --> 00:24:00,743 It'’s supposed to be a little weird. 363 00:24:00,787 --> 00:24:02,658 At least at first. 364 00:24:02,702 --> 00:24:03,790 [chuckles] 365 00:24:03,833 --> 00:24:05,226 I'’ll see you later, Alice. 366 00:24:05,269 --> 00:24:06,793 OK, bye! 367 00:24:10,231 --> 00:24:13,190 I come from a very big family. 368 00:24:13,234 --> 00:24:18,239 I have four younger siblings and... 369 00:24:18,282 --> 00:24:21,242 an older sister... 370 00:24:21,285 --> 00:24:23,374 Melissa. 371 00:24:23,418 --> 00:24:26,160 She made honor roll every semester 372 00:24:26,203 --> 00:24:28,162 and she founded Habitat for Humanity 373 00:24:28,205 --> 00:24:29,598 at our school. 374 00:24:29,642 --> 00:24:32,296 She'’s the star of our family. 375 00:24:32,340 --> 00:24:35,386 One time, I came home at 2:00 a.m.-- 376 00:24:35,430 --> 00:24:38,346 three hours past my curfew. 377 00:24:41,958 --> 00:24:44,526 And no one even noticed. 378 00:24:44,570 --> 00:24:48,487 It felt like no one cared 379 00:24:48,530 --> 00:24:52,491 if I was there or not. 380 00:24:52,534 --> 00:24:54,014 Um... 381 00:24:54,057 --> 00:24:55,581 Uh... 382 00:24:55,624 --> 00:24:58,409 I'’d now like to play my first song. 383 00:24:58,453 --> 00:25:00,368 [music playing] 384 00:25:08,550 --> 00:25:12,946 ♪ You don'’t notice me standing here ♪ 385 00:25:12,989 --> 00:25:16,210 ♪ Wishing you could somehow feel ♪ 386 00:25:16,253 --> 00:25:18,473 ♪ I just wish that you could feel ♪ 387 00:25:18,517 --> 00:25:21,607 Last fall, Melissa came to pick me up 388 00:25:21,650 --> 00:25:24,087 from a friend'’s house to take me home. 389 00:25:24,131 --> 00:25:29,702 ♪ And each day we were born 390 00:25:29,745 --> 00:25:34,489 And the next thing I remember is waking up in the hospital 391 00:25:34,533 --> 00:25:36,317 being told that we were in an accident 392 00:25:36,360 --> 00:25:40,060 and that I had three broken ribs... 393 00:25:40,103 --> 00:25:42,192 [sobbing] 394 00:25:42,236 --> 00:25:44,847 And the first thought I had was... 395 00:25:46,893 --> 00:25:48,895 [sobbing] 396 00:25:48,938 --> 00:25:54,857 Maybe my parents will finally start to notice me. 397 00:25:54,901 --> 00:25:57,904 [sobbing] 398 00:25:57,947 --> 00:26:00,428 Melissa was fine but... 399 00:26:00,471 --> 00:26:02,561 my parents were still obsessed with her. 400 00:26:02,604 --> 00:26:08,436 It felt likethey blamed me for the accident. 401 00:26:08,479 --> 00:26:12,135 That if she hadn'’t had to come and pick me up, 402 00:26:12,179 --> 00:26:15,312 she wouldn'’t have missed her Science Bowl nationals. 403 00:26:15,356 --> 00:26:19,403 But then, I came on to this retreat... 404 00:26:19,447 --> 00:26:20,796 [sniffles] 405 00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:25,801 And I realized that God loves me... 406 00:26:25,845 --> 00:26:28,412 my friends love me... 407 00:26:28,456 --> 00:26:31,633 and... 408 00:26:31,677 --> 00:26:32,634 [chuckles] 409 00:26:32,678 --> 00:26:35,637 I love me too. 410 00:26:39,380 --> 00:26:42,426 [chuckles] 411 00:26:45,778 --> 00:26:47,736 [crickets chirping] 412 00:26:53,046 --> 00:26:54,395 [sighs] 413 00:27:00,662 --> 00:27:05,145 [beeping] 414 00:27:10,367 --> 00:27:12,239 [chiming loudly] 415 00:27:27,428 --> 00:27:29,996 [beeping] 416 00:27:38,657 --> 00:27:40,528 [vibrates] 417 00:27:50,930 --> 00:27:52,845 [vibrates] 418 00:28:03,682 --> 00:28:05,945 [vibrates] 419 00:28:05,988 --> 00:28:08,556 [moans] 420 00:28:08,599 --> 00:28:12,516 -[vibrating] -[moaning] 421 00:28:31,492 --> 00:28:32,885 [sighs] 422 00:28:35,670 --> 00:28:37,672 [birds chirping] 423 00:28:40,066 --> 00:28:41,284 [indistinct chatter] 424 00:28:41,328 --> 00:28:43,156 OK, guys, circle up, circle up. 425 00:28:47,943 --> 00:28:49,945 Now, this is one of my favorite songs, 426 00:28:49,989 --> 00:28:52,948 and while you'’re listening, I want you to imagine 427 00:28:52,992 --> 00:28:56,952 that the eyes in the song are Jesus'’s eyes. 428 00:28:59,999 --> 00:29:01,957 [music playing] 429 00:29:21,934 --> 00:29:23,109 ♪ Love 430 00:29:26,025 --> 00:29:31,857 ♪ I get so lost sometimes 431 00:29:31,900 --> 00:29:37,210 ♪ Days pass 432 00:29:37,253 --> 00:29:43,172 ♪ And this emptiness fills my heart ♪ 433 00:29:43,216 --> 00:29:46,959 ♪ When I want to run away 434 00:29:47,002 --> 00:29:49,962 [indistinct chatter] 435 00:29:52,181 --> 00:29:54,140 Would you look at how these gorgeous pines 436 00:29:54,183 --> 00:29:56,795 contrast against the blue sky?! 437 00:29:56,838 --> 00:30:00,189 Isn'’t God's paint palette just magnificent? 438 00:30:00,233 --> 00:30:02,452 [Laura] So did I tell you Nina told me she liked my hair 439 00:30:02,496 --> 00:30:04,715 -this morning at breakfast? -Mm-hmm. 440 00:30:04,759 --> 00:30:06,674 She said she can'’t do it with her own hair 441 00:30:06,717 --> 00:30:08,937 because every time she tries ither hair gets all bumpy. 442 00:30:08,981 --> 00:30:11,461 So I said I could show her how I do it 443 00:30:11,505 --> 00:30:13,594 and she said she would invite me over sometime! 444 00:30:13,637 --> 00:30:14,987 Isn'’t that cool? 445 00:30:15,030 --> 00:30:16,597 Yeah. 446 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:18,164 [gasps] 447 00:30:18,207 --> 00:30:22,908 I mean, you can come too, of course, if you want. 448 00:30:22,951 --> 00:30:24,518 Well, maybe I should ask Nina first 449 00:30:24,561 --> 00:30:26,302 if it'’s OK that you're there, 450 00:30:26,346 --> 00:30:28,348 but I mean do you even wanna come? 451 00:30:28,391 --> 00:30:30,654 -Whoa! -[gasps] Oh, my God. 452 00:30:30,698 --> 00:30:32,526 Are you OK? 453 00:30:32,569 --> 00:30:34,136 [groans] 454 00:30:34,180 --> 00:30:35,659 Everything OK here, troops? 455 00:30:35,703 --> 00:30:37,748 Ooh, comrade. 456 00:30:37,792 --> 00:30:39,925 That'’s quite a battle wound. 457 00:30:39,968 --> 00:30:41,056 Uh-huh. 458 00:30:41,100 --> 00:30:42,928 Can you walk? 459 00:30:42,971 --> 00:30:47,802 -[groans] No. No. No. -OK. Just don'’t move. 460 00:30:47,846 --> 00:30:49,804 [grunts] 461 00:30:49,848 --> 00:30:51,893 Let'’s get you to the nurse, huh? 462 00:30:51,937 --> 00:30:55,244 ♪ 463 00:30:55,288 --> 00:30:57,246 [indistinct chatter] 464 00:31:09,476 --> 00:31:10,825 [knock at door] 465 00:31:10,869 --> 00:31:13,045 [door opens] 466 00:31:13,088 --> 00:31:15,525 Hey. 467 00:31:15,569 --> 00:31:17,701 I was just coming to let youknow we'’re doing the group photo 468 00:31:17,745 --> 00:31:19,225 down by the bridge in five. 469 00:31:19,268 --> 00:31:23,403 Great. I'’ll be there. 470 00:31:23,446 --> 00:31:25,927 Everything OK in here? 471 00:31:25,971 --> 00:31:27,842 Yep. 472 00:31:27,886 --> 00:31:29,061 OK. 473 00:31:30,889 --> 00:31:32,542 [phone vibrates] 474 00:31:32,586 --> 00:31:34,109 What was that? 475 00:31:34,153 --> 00:31:38,331 [phone vibrates] 476 00:31:38,374 --> 00:31:41,029 -[sighs] -[phone vibrates] 477 00:31:41,073 --> 00:31:43,162 I specifically asked you for your phone 478 00:31:43,205 --> 00:31:45,904 on the day you arrived. 479 00:31:45,947 --> 00:31:49,516 Look, I'’m gonna have to tell Father about this. 480 00:31:49,559 --> 00:31:50,865 [sighs] 481 00:31:52,562 --> 00:31:53,912 Uh, Chris, could you come in, please? 482 00:31:55,783 --> 00:31:59,395 Hey, Alice, what'’d you have for breakfast? 483 00:31:59,439 --> 00:32:01,180 Cereal. 484 00:32:01,223 --> 00:32:03,095 Oh, you didn'’t have salad? 485 00:32:03,138 --> 00:32:04,487 [male student] Like a Wade salad. 486 00:32:04,531 --> 00:32:05,749 [laughing] 487 00:32:05,793 --> 00:32:09,101 OK. Everybody say Jesus Christ! 488 00:32:09,144 --> 00:32:11,190 [all] Jesus Christ! 489 00:32:11,233 --> 00:32:12,756 -[camera shutter clicks] -OK, great! 490 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:14,584 Guys, head up toward the cafeteria. 491 00:32:14,628 --> 00:32:16,978 We'’re gonna have lunch in our small groups today, OK? 492 00:32:19,938 --> 00:32:23,332 And Alice, Alice, a quick word. 493 00:32:28,207 --> 00:32:29,643 Nina said you kept your phone. 494 00:32:33,255 --> 00:32:34,343 You know, we have a reason for everything 495 00:32:34,387 --> 00:32:36,084 that we ask you to do here 496 00:32:36,128 --> 00:32:38,347 and it'’s very important that you follow our rules. 497 00:32:38,391 --> 00:32:40,219 Sorry, Father. 498 00:32:40,262 --> 00:32:43,265 I hope you understand I can'’t let this go unpunished. 499 00:32:43,309 --> 00:32:47,878 Now first, you must empty the trash receptacles. 500 00:32:47,922 --> 00:32:50,272 There are four of them. 501 00:32:50,316 --> 00:32:55,756 One there... and one there... 502 00:32:55,799 --> 00:32:58,280 and one there... 503 00:32:58,324 --> 00:33:00,239 ♪ 504 00:33:10,814 --> 00:33:11,728 [grunts] 505 00:33:19,910 --> 00:33:22,435 Come on. [grunts] 506 00:33:24,915 --> 00:33:26,004 [grunts] 507 00:34:23,104 --> 00:34:25,063 ♪ 508 00:34:34,420 --> 00:34:36,813 [exhales deeply] 509 00:34:46,823 --> 00:34:48,738 [typing] 510 00:34:57,443 --> 00:34:58,531 What? 511 00:35:00,794 --> 00:35:02,100 [computer chimes] 512 00:35:04,624 --> 00:35:05,538 [chimes] 513 00:35:08,628 --> 00:35:09,542 [chimes] 514 00:35:12,153 --> 00:35:13,111 [chimes] 515 00:35:19,029 --> 00:35:21,641 [typing] 516 00:35:21,684 --> 00:35:22,598 [chimes] 517 00:35:25,558 --> 00:35:26,472 [chimes] 518 00:35:28,126 --> 00:35:29,083 [sighs] 519 00:35:30,302 --> 00:35:32,304 [footsteps approaching] 520 00:35:40,094 --> 00:35:42,314 [Nina] Alice! 521 00:35:42,357 --> 00:35:43,967 -Hey. -What'’s up? 522 00:35:46,231 --> 00:35:48,363 Just finished cleaning. 523 00:35:48,407 --> 00:35:50,191 We made S'’mores after lunch. 524 00:35:50,235 --> 00:35:51,497 Saved you one. 525 00:35:52,585 --> 00:35:54,369 Thanks. 526 00:35:54,413 --> 00:35:56,632 We pretended each marshmallow was a different mortal sin 527 00:35:56,676 --> 00:35:58,068 before burning it. 528 00:35:58,112 --> 00:36:00,070 Yours was lust. 529 00:36:00,114 --> 00:36:01,115 Oh. 530 00:36:03,291 --> 00:36:06,207 Look, I want you to know I'’m not mad 531 00:36:06,251 --> 00:36:08,775 about the phone thing, OK? 532 00:36:08,818 --> 00:36:10,907 You'’re doing a real good job 533 00:36:10,951 --> 00:36:13,954 and I think you'’re on the right path now. 534 00:36:13,997 --> 00:36:16,609 So, just keep up the good work, OK? 535 00:36:16,652 --> 00:36:17,827 OK. 536 00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:21,657 I believe in you. 537 00:36:21,701 --> 00:36:23,181 [chuckles] 538 00:36:30,231 --> 00:36:32,190 [crickets chirping] 539 00:36:43,462 --> 00:36:44,637 "Dear Andrew... 540 00:36:48,293 --> 00:36:49,511 Remember when you were little 541 00:36:49,555 --> 00:36:51,470 and Mom and I would tuck you in, 542 00:36:51,513 --> 00:36:53,820 and you would make us kiss you on both of your cheeks 543 00:36:53,863 --> 00:36:55,213 at exactly the same time 544 00:36:55,256 --> 00:36:57,824 or else you couldn'’t fall asleep? 545 00:36:57,867 --> 00:36:59,869 I always thought those were my favorite memories 546 00:36:59,913 --> 00:37:01,871 from when we were a young family. 547 00:37:01,915 --> 00:37:03,308 But I was wrong. 548 00:37:03,351 --> 00:37:06,136 Every day is a new favorite memory with you. 549 00:37:06,180 --> 00:37:09,009 I love you, kiddo. 550 00:37:09,052 --> 00:37:11,185 Love, Dad." 551 00:37:12,404 --> 00:37:13,622 [clears throat] 552 00:37:15,537 --> 00:37:17,235 "Dear Laura... 553 00:37:18,801 --> 00:37:21,282 Your father and I love you so much. 554 00:37:21,326 --> 00:37:23,284 And although I will always cherish 555 00:37:23,328 --> 00:37:25,808 those days when you were little, 556 00:37:25,852 --> 00:37:28,420 I love being able to do adult things with you too-- 557 00:37:28,463 --> 00:37:30,509 like getting our nails done 558 00:37:30,552 --> 00:37:34,121 and showing you how to cook my famous baked ziti. 559 00:37:34,164 --> 00:37:39,909 But no matter what, you'’ll always be my baby girl. 560 00:37:39,953 --> 00:37:42,042 I love you so much." 561 00:37:45,611 --> 00:37:48,744 "Dear Alice, 562 00:37:48,788 --> 00:37:51,443 You'’re a wonderful daughter and the best church partner 563 00:37:51,486 --> 00:37:54,924 a father could ask for. It'’s so amazing 564 00:37:54,968 --> 00:37:57,492 to watch you grow into the wholesome young woman 565 00:37:57,536 --> 00:38:00,974 God created you to be. I am so proud of you 566 00:38:01,017 --> 00:38:05,979 for always making good choices.Love you, Al. 567 00:38:06,022 --> 00:38:07,110 Love, Dad." 568 00:38:07,154 --> 00:38:09,069 ♪ 569 00:38:26,913 --> 00:38:27,827 [Chris] Amen. 570 00:38:27,870 --> 00:38:29,742 [all] Amen. 571 00:38:31,570 --> 00:38:35,269 [sighs] All right. Like myself 572 00:38:35,313 --> 00:38:37,402 and my fellow senior leaders have done, 573 00:38:37,445 --> 00:38:38,925 we are now gonna ask 574 00:38:38,968 --> 00:38:41,841 that you all share your own stories. 575 00:38:41,884 --> 00:38:44,583 Moments when life was difficult, 576 00:38:44,626 --> 00:38:48,326 or hard, or overwhelming. 577 00:38:48,369 --> 00:38:50,545 Times where you felt Jesus was far away. 578 00:38:55,942 --> 00:39:00,294 My girlfriend dumped me last week. 579 00:39:00,338 --> 00:39:02,470 That was really rough. 580 00:39:02,514 --> 00:39:04,298 I thought everything was going well, 581 00:39:04,342 --> 00:39:06,779 and last week, she had her friend call me 582 00:39:06,822 --> 00:39:08,824 to break up with me for her. 583 00:39:08,868 --> 00:39:10,565 And I'’m pretty sure it was a three-way call, 584 00:39:10,609 --> 00:39:15,222 and she was listening, so I acted like it was cool, 585 00:39:15,265 --> 00:39:18,051 but it really sucked. 586 00:39:18,094 --> 00:39:19,357 Thank you, Andrew. 587 00:39:20,445 --> 00:39:22,055 [deep breath] 588 00:39:22,098 --> 00:39:26,494 This is really hard to talk about. 589 00:39:26,538 --> 00:39:30,106 But... 590 00:39:30,150 --> 00:39:32,587 Last month... 591 00:39:35,416 --> 00:39:38,593 my Grandma died. 592 00:39:38,637 --> 00:39:42,597 She lived in Idaho,so I didn'’t see her that often. 593 00:39:46,035 --> 00:39:48,342 And like, it makes me really sad 594 00:39:48,386 --> 00:39:51,301 that we didn'’t get to talk muchbefore she died. 595 00:39:51,345 --> 00:39:55,175 The saddest part is... after her funeral, 596 00:39:55,218 --> 00:39:58,352 we went back to her house, 597 00:39:58,396 --> 00:40:01,964 and her dog was there, just looking so sad. 598 00:40:02,008 --> 00:40:03,792 It was, like, walking around the house 599 00:40:03,836 --> 00:40:07,492 looking for her. It had no idea. 600 00:40:18,677 --> 00:40:20,505 OK... 601 00:40:22,376 --> 00:40:23,682 Um... 602 00:40:25,510 --> 00:40:27,381 Well... 603 00:40:29,818 --> 00:40:32,386 Speaking of dogs... 604 00:40:34,214 --> 00:40:38,523 My dog... Gus... 605 00:40:38,566 --> 00:40:41,482 died a few weeks ago. 606 00:40:41,526 --> 00:40:47,401 Um, our neighbors put out some chipmunk poison. 607 00:40:49,751 --> 00:40:54,626 He must have got into it through the chain-link fence. 608 00:40:54,669 --> 00:40:57,585 My family was playing basketballin our driveway, 609 00:40:57,629 --> 00:40:59,979 and the ball went over the fence, 610 00:41:00,022 --> 00:41:02,242 and I went to go get it, 611 00:41:02,285 --> 00:41:06,681 and... that'’s where I found him... 612 00:41:08,204 --> 00:41:13,122 lying on his side. He wasn'’t moving. 613 00:41:13,166 --> 00:41:15,081 [crying, sniffling] 614 00:41:35,884 --> 00:41:37,886 -I thought he was just... -[Father Murphy] Excuse me. 615 00:41:37,930 --> 00:41:39,192 All right, can I have your attention, please? 616 00:41:39,235 --> 00:41:41,542 All eyes and ears here. 617 00:41:41,586 --> 00:41:44,153 I'’m sorry to report that earlier this morning, 618 00:41:44,197 --> 00:41:45,720 I found something rather disturbing 619 00:41:45,764 --> 00:41:48,070 on my office computer. 620 00:41:48,114 --> 00:41:49,724 It appears that someone has used it 621 00:41:49,768 --> 00:41:53,336 to engage in an online chat of... 622 00:41:53,380 --> 00:41:56,470 well, let'’s just say an explicit nature. 623 00:41:56,514 --> 00:41:58,907 Would anyone like to take responsibility for this? 624 00:41:58,951 --> 00:42:01,214 [quiet murmuring] 625 00:42:03,608 --> 00:42:07,046 I didn'’t think so. 626 00:42:07,089 --> 00:42:11,529 Now, I have no way of knowing who did this, 627 00:42:11,572 --> 00:42:16,664 but whoever it was,even if I don'’t know you did it, 628 00:42:16,708 --> 00:42:21,060 you do, and so does God. 629 00:42:21,103 --> 00:42:23,628 But in keeping with the theme of this retreat, 630 00:42:23,671 --> 00:42:26,674 I hope that whomever did do it feels compelled 631 00:42:26,718 --> 00:42:29,024 by the Spirit of Christ to come forward 632 00:42:29,068 --> 00:42:31,331 before the retreat is through. 633 00:42:32,941 --> 00:42:34,987 [murmuring] 634 00:43:02,188 --> 00:43:04,625 So, Alice, how would you describe 635 00:43:04,669 --> 00:43:06,758 your relationship with Jesus? 636 00:43:06,801 --> 00:43:09,064 -Fine. -Just fine? 637 00:43:11,589 --> 00:43:13,591 Fine, as in good. 638 00:43:13,634 --> 00:43:15,723 Do you think that there might be something getting in the way? 639 00:43:15,767 --> 00:43:18,117 Something that'’s preventing it from being better? 640 00:43:21,381 --> 00:43:23,426 OK, well, why don'’t you try reflecting back 641 00:43:23,470 --> 00:43:25,124 on that feelings checklist you filled out 642 00:43:25,167 --> 00:43:27,648 on your first day here. Do any of the emotions 643 00:43:27,692 --> 00:43:30,390 that you circled on there bring anything up? 644 00:43:30,433 --> 00:43:32,610 Um... 645 00:43:34,699 --> 00:43:40,487 I was feeling envious of my best friend 646 00:43:40,530 --> 00:43:43,708 when she got a Beamer for her birthday, 647 00:43:43,751 --> 00:43:46,667 because I drive a Buick Le Sabre. 648 00:43:46,711 --> 00:43:50,584 Anything else? 649 00:43:50,628 --> 00:43:53,456 She also got Oakley sunglasses for Christmas. 650 00:43:56,590 --> 00:43:58,374 What about feeling turned on? 651 00:44:05,077 --> 00:44:07,079 No temptation has overtaken you 652 00:44:07,122 --> 00:44:09,298 except what is common to mankind. 653 00:44:09,342 --> 00:44:10,778 And God will not let you be tempted 654 00:44:10,822 --> 00:44:12,475 beyond what you can bear, and he knows 655 00:44:12,519 --> 00:44:14,216 what is truly in your heart. 656 00:44:17,524 --> 00:44:18,873 OK. 657 00:44:22,485 --> 00:44:24,139 So, have you ever felt turned on? 658 00:44:28,709 --> 00:44:31,364 And did you take any action when you had that feeling? 659 00:44:33,801 --> 00:44:35,368 You didn'’t take any action? 660 00:44:37,675 --> 00:44:38,719 No. 661 00:44:42,331 --> 00:44:44,464 Nothing with your classmate Wade? 662 00:44:47,206 --> 00:44:49,948 No. 663 00:44:49,991 --> 00:44:51,689 Someone made that up. 664 00:44:54,779 --> 00:44:56,606 Alice, this retreat isn'’t gonna do you any favors 665 00:44:56,650 --> 00:44:57,912 if you'’re not honest. 666 00:45:10,664 --> 00:45:12,971 How'’s this? 667 00:45:13,014 --> 00:45:17,192 Wow! That one'’s huge. Way to go, Alice. 668 00:45:20,369 --> 00:45:21,762 Thanks. 669 00:45:35,123 --> 00:45:36,603 [sighs] 670 00:45:36,646 --> 00:45:39,649 And when you turn it on, our plasma rises 671 00:45:39,693 --> 00:45:41,695 out of this little Oak unit. 672 00:45:41,739 --> 00:45:43,784 But when you press off, it sinks back down 673 00:45:43,828 --> 00:45:45,786 and a Rothko takes its place. 674 00:45:45,830 --> 00:45:48,006 Your rec room sounds amazing! 675 00:45:48,049 --> 00:45:50,269 Hey, Nina, that, um... 676 00:45:50,312 --> 00:45:52,184 leader meeting is about to start. 677 00:45:52,227 --> 00:45:54,752 Right, right. I forgot about that. 678 00:45:54,795 --> 00:45:56,884 Thank you. Um, I gotta go. 679 00:45:56,928 --> 00:45:58,973 OK. I'’ll see you at the campfire. 680 00:46:11,420 --> 00:46:12,682 Hey! 681 00:46:12,726 --> 00:46:14,075 What? 682 00:46:14,119 --> 00:46:16,686 [sighs] 683 00:46:16,730 --> 00:46:18,732 What is your problem with me? 684 00:46:18,776 --> 00:46:21,648 My problem? My problem is that Heather almost dumped me 685 00:46:21,691 --> 00:46:23,563 because of that disgusting rumoryou started. 686 00:46:23,606 --> 00:46:25,130 I didn'’t start it! 687 00:46:25,173 --> 00:46:27,001 Yeah, well, if you didn'’t, who did? 688 00:46:27,045 --> 00:46:29,699 I don'’t know! I-- 689 00:46:29,743 --> 00:46:30,788 Did you start it? 690 00:46:30,831 --> 00:46:33,921 No! I have a girlfriend. 691 00:46:33,965 --> 00:46:37,098 OK. Well, both you and I know 692 00:46:37,142 --> 00:46:40,101 that nothing happened. 693 00:46:42,451 --> 00:46:43,801 Are you telling people that? 694 00:46:48,109 --> 00:46:50,024 You need to start! Because everyone thinks 695 00:46:50,068 --> 00:46:52,810 that I'’m a slut, even the teachers. 696 00:46:54,768 --> 00:46:56,683 Look, you'’re the only other person 697 00:46:56,726 --> 00:46:57,945 who knows what happened. 698 00:46:57,989 --> 00:47:00,600 And no one believes me! 699 00:47:00,643 --> 00:47:02,820 Hey, Wade! What are you still doing here? 700 00:47:02,863 --> 00:47:04,517 Just on my way out, Father. 701 00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:06,606 OK, good, good. Hey, how'’s the old shotput arm 702 00:47:06,649 --> 00:47:08,303 -doing in the off season? -[Wade] Good, Father. 703 00:47:08,347 --> 00:47:10,262 Just trying not to do too much heavy lifting. 704 00:47:10,305 --> 00:47:11,785 [chuckles] 705 00:47:30,021 --> 00:47:31,979 [music playing through radio] 706 00:47:49,867 --> 00:47:52,782 ♪ Give me a word Give me a sign ♪ 707 00:47:52,826 --> 00:47:58,179 ♪ Show me where to look Tell me what will I find ♪ 708 00:47:58,223 --> 00:48:00,529 ♪ What will I find? 709 00:48:02,444 --> 00:48:05,578 ♪ Lay me on the ground Fly me in the sky ♪ 710 00:48:05,621 --> 00:48:11,018 ♪ Show me where to look Tell me what will I find ♪ 711 00:48:11,062 --> 00:48:13,412 ♪ What will I find? 712 00:48:15,196 --> 00:48:17,938 [music intensifies] 713 00:48:17,982 --> 00:48:19,157 ♪ Yeah 714 00:48:21,202 --> 00:48:22,464 ♪ Yeah 715 00:48:24,814 --> 00:48:29,515 ♪ Oh, heaven, let your light shine down ♪ 716 00:48:31,256 --> 00:48:35,956 ♪ Oh, heaven, let your light shine down ♪ 717 00:48:37,871 --> 00:48:43,181 ♪ Oh, heaven, let your light shine down ♪ 718 00:48:43,224 --> 00:48:45,270 -[music lessens in intensity] - ♪ Oh 719 00:48:45,313 --> 00:48:47,620 [Sister Louise coughs] 720 00:48:47,663 --> 00:48:50,579 I need a cup of tea. 721 00:48:58,283 --> 00:48:59,937 I'’m all done. 722 00:48:59,980 --> 00:49:01,416 OK, dear. 723 00:49:01,460 --> 00:49:04,550 [girl] It is the best. 724 00:49:04,593 --> 00:49:06,073 ...and the colorful, like, floral tops. 725 00:49:06,117 --> 00:49:07,074 -The stripes, the stripes! -Hey! 726 00:49:07,118 --> 00:49:08,336 It'’s so good. 727 00:49:08,380 --> 00:49:10,382 Can I talk to you for a minute? 728 00:49:10,425 --> 00:49:11,905 -Um... -I'’ll save you a seat. 729 00:49:11,949 --> 00:49:13,385 OK. 730 00:49:16,518 --> 00:49:18,868 What'’s up? Nina asked me to sit with her, 731 00:49:18,912 --> 00:49:20,870 so I don'’t want to make her wait. 732 00:49:20,914 --> 00:49:25,353 I saw Nina giving Adam a blow job. 733 00:49:25,397 --> 00:49:26,702 What?! 734 00:49:26,746 --> 00:49:28,791 Yeah. In the woods after lunch. 735 00:49:33,709 --> 00:49:36,756 Why do you think it'’s OK to keep making things up? 736 00:49:36,799 --> 00:49:38,497 I'’m not making this up! 737 00:49:38,540 --> 00:49:40,020 Gabby told me you were talking 738 00:49:40,064 --> 00:49:42,762 about your dog dying in your small group? 739 00:49:42,805 --> 00:49:44,633 -Did Gus die? -[sighs] OK, look. 740 00:49:44,677 --> 00:49:47,201 I just said that because... I didn'’t know what to do! 741 00:49:47,245 --> 00:49:48,637 I didn'’t have anything to say, and everyone had 742 00:49:48,681 --> 00:49:50,074 these really sad stories... 743 00:49:50,117 --> 00:49:52,163 [scoffs] God, this is just like 744 00:49:52,206 --> 00:49:53,991 that time in sixth grade when you told everyone 745 00:49:54,034 --> 00:49:55,253 Jason gave you a "purple nurple" 746 00:49:55,296 --> 00:49:56,689 -on the bus. -[scoffs] 747 00:49:56,732 --> 00:49:58,473 You want attention. 748 00:49:58,517 --> 00:50:00,432 -OK... -You know what? 749 00:50:00,475 --> 00:50:02,390 I bet you actually did toss Wade'’s salad. 750 00:50:02,434 --> 00:50:03,652 I don'’t even know what that means! 751 00:50:03,696 --> 00:50:04,914 Oh, my God. Quit the act. 752 00:50:04,958 --> 00:50:06,438 I know you know what it means, 753 00:50:06,481 --> 00:50:07,961 just like you know the sex scene in Titanic 754 00:50:08,005 --> 00:50:09,832 comes right after they'’re in the car. 755 00:50:13,706 --> 00:50:16,317 You were the onein Father'’s office, weren't you? 756 00:50:16,361 --> 00:50:19,755 What? [scoffs] 757 00:50:19,799 --> 00:50:23,933 It makes perfect sense. 758 00:50:23,977 --> 00:50:27,894 And I am sick of constantly feeling embarrassed 759 00:50:27,937 --> 00:50:31,245 for being friends with a pervy psycho. 760 00:50:43,692 --> 00:50:45,085 [Alice] Ugh. 761 00:50:45,868 --> 00:50:49,002 [gurgling] 762 00:50:49,959 --> 00:50:52,223 Ugh. 763 00:51:19,337 --> 00:51:21,295 [Father Murphy whistling] 764 00:51:53,806 --> 00:51:55,764 [sexy music playing from computer] 765 00:52:09,604 --> 00:52:10,518 [moans] 766 00:52:13,739 --> 00:52:15,654 [car squeaking] 767 00:52:19,919 --> 00:52:21,007 [gasps] 768 00:52:22,835 --> 00:52:23,836 [woman on computer moaning] 769 00:52:23,879 --> 00:52:25,881 [exhales sharply] 770 00:52:29,407 --> 00:52:31,365 [woman on computer moaning] 771 00:52:36,979 --> 00:52:40,374 [sighing] 772 00:52:49,862 --> 00:52:52,908 Alice, hey. 773 00:52:52,952 --> 00:52:54,954 Hey. 774 00:52:54,997 --> 00:52:56,521 Is everything all right? 775 00:52:56,564 --> 00:52:59,350 Uh... 776 00:52:59,393 --> 00:53:00,829 Do you wanna talk? 777 00:53:10,491 --> 00:53:12,145 Is everything OK? 778 00:53:21,154 --> 00:53:22,155 What are you doing? 779 00:53:33,427 --> 00:53:34,950 What are you doing?! 780 00:53:36,735 --> 00:53:38,563 You know that I get turned on like a microwave! 781 00:53:44,003 --> 00:53:47,963 [students] ♪ Let us build the city of God ♪ 782 00:53:48,007 --> 00:53:51,880 ♪ Let our tears be turned into dancing ♪ 783 00:53:51,924 --> 00:53:56,145 ♪ For the Lord, our light and our love ♪ 784 00:53:56,189 --> 00:53:59,671 ♪ Has turned the night into day ♪ 785 00:53:59,714 --> 00:54:03,936 ♪ Let us build the city of God ♪ 786 00:54:03,979 --> 00:54:07,548 ♪ Let our tears be turned into dancing ♪ 787 00:54:07,592 --> 00:54:11,857 ♪ For the Lord, our light and our love ♪ 788 00:54:11,900 --> 00:54:15,382 ♪ Has turned the night into day ♪ 789 00:54:15,426 --> 00:54:19,212 ♪ Let us build the city of God ♪ 790 00:54:23,347 --> 00:54:25,262 ♪ 791 00:55:14,267 --> 00:55:16,182 [music playing] 792 00:55:24,451 --> 00:55:29,978 ♪ I am the drink at the loneliest place in town ♪ 793 00:55:33,808 --> 00:55:36,550 ♪ The place where the heartache and smoke... ♪ 794 00:55:36,594 --> 00:55:40,032 One wine cooler. Please. 795 00:55:42,687 --> 00:55:48,475 ♪ The jukebox is moanin'’ a sad old country sound ♪ 796 00:55:51,478 --> 00:55:53,828 Thanks. 797 00:55:53,872 --> 00:55:57,484 ♪ At the loneliest place in town ♪ 798 00:56:00,661 --> 00:56:05,100 ♪ It'’s a place where I feel at home ♪ 799 00:56:05,144 --> 00:56:07,538 ♪ And it'’s better than bein'’ alone ♪ 800 00:56:07,581 --> 00:56:10,105 Rough day? 801 00:56:10,149 --> 00:56:13,544 ♪ '’Cause ever since you been gone ♪ 802 00:56:13,587 --> 00:56:15,415 ♪ This is where I belong 803 00:56:15,459 --> 00:56:18,897 You from that Catholic youth retreat down the road? 804 00:56:18,940 --> 00:56:22,161 No. 805 00:56:22,204 --> 00:56:23,902 I'’m 21. 806 00:56:28,341 --> 00:56:32,171 ♪ Cuttin'’ up, tellin' jokes ♪ 807 00:56:32,214 --> 00:56:34,391 So, what'’s it like over there? 808 00:56:37,437 --> 00:56:42,921 ♪ You'’d never know my whole world'’s falling down ♪ 809 00:56:45,924 --> 00:56:48,230 ♪ Yeah I'’m the life of the party ♪ 810 00:56:48,274 --> 00:56:50,319 ♪ At the loneliest place... 811 00:56:50,363 --> 00:56:52,670 [Gina] I used to be Catholic. I went to Catholic school 812 00:56:52,713 --> 00:56:56,891 for 12 years. I was baptized, confirmed, 813 00:56:56,935 --> 00:57:00,634 the whole kit '’n caboodle. 814 00:57:00,678 --> 00:57:02,897 [Alice] You'’re not anymore? 815 00:57:02,941 --> 00:57:06,205 No. 816 00:57:06,248 --> 00:57:08,337 How come? 817 00:57:08,381 --> 00:57:11,950 San Francisco. The '’70s. 818 00:57:11,993 --> 00:57:15,475 Sex. Women. Mm. 819 00:57:15,519 --> 00:57:19,914 Lots of reasons. But I remember being your age 820 00:57:19,958 --> 00:57:22,569 and just being scared shitless 821 00:57:22,613 --> 00:57:25,093 that I was gonna wind up in hell. 822 00:57:25,137 --> 00:57:27,487 Really? 823 00:57:27,531 --> 00:57:29,358 -For what? -[Gina] Oh, God. 824 00:57:29,402 --> 00:57:32,971 For everything. Cheating on my homework, 825 00:57:33,014 --> 00:57:37,149 for giving up sugar for Lent and then eating a whole jar 826 00:57:37,192 --> 00:57:42,110 of gumdrops underneath my grandmother'’s staircase. 827 00:57:42,154 --> 00:57:45,462 I literally thought I was going to hell 828 00:57:45,505 --> 00:57:47,768 for eating gumdrops. 829 00:57:47,812 --> 00:57:49,466 [chuckles] 830 00:57:49,509 --> 00:57:51,946 And that there would be a big red devil there 831 00:57:51,990 --> 00:57:55,559 with a poker, and he'’d poke at me. 832 00:57:55,602 --> 00:57:57,386 And my bed would be made out of coals, 833 00:57:57,430 --> 00:58:00,172 and there'’d be nothing but peas to eat, 834 00:58:00,215 --> 00:58:02,609 '’cause I hate peas. 835 00:58:02,653 --> 00:58:04,437 [sighs] 836 00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:24,413 I thought I was gonna go to hell. 837 00:58:24,457 --> 00:58:29,244 for... rewinding Titanic 838 00:58:29,288 --> 00:58:34,859 back to the sex scene... three times. 839 00:58:36,730 --> 00:58:40,429 You know, I thought I was gonna go to hell 840 00:58:40,473 --> 00:58:42,127 for looking through my dad'’s 841 00:58:42,170 --> 00:58:44,433 Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition. 842 00:58:44,477 --> 00:58:47,262 I thought I was going to hell for having cybersex! 843 00:58:47,306 --> 00:58:50,962 [both laugh] 844 00:58:51,005 --> 00:58:52,311 [Gina] Yep. 845 00:58:58,665 --> 00:59:02,321 You know, the truth is,nobody knows what they'’re doing 846 00:59:02,364 --> 00:59:05,367 any more than the rest of us. We'’re all just trying 847 00:59:05,411 --> 00:59:06,891 to figure out our shit. 848 00:59:06,934 --> 00:59:08,370 [sighs] 849 00:59:13,027 --> 00:59:14,986 But be careful online, OK? 850 00:59:15,029 --> 00:59:17,336 Don'’t give your password out to anyone, 851 00:59:17,379 --> 00:59:19,381 not even someone who says they work for AOL. 852 00:59:19,425 --> 00:59:22,515 They don'’t. They just want to give you the Melissa virus. 853 00:59:25,866 --> 00:59:28,608 [Gina sighs] 854 00:59:28,652 --> 00:59:31,611 Now, I got to get you back to that Jesus camp. 855 00:59:31,655 --> 00:59:36,007 I don'’t want any nuns showing upat my bar looking for ya. 856 00:59:38,575 --> 00:59:42,796 I know. Come on. I'’ll give you a lift. 857 00:59:53,285 --> 00:59:56,157 [sighs] Mm. 858 00:59:56,201 --> 00:59:58,725 -Thanks. -No problem, kid. 859 01:00:02,250 --> 01:00:07,081 Hey. Have you thought about where you might go to college? 860 01:00:08,866 --> 01:00:14,306 Um... probably State? 861 01:00:14,349 --> 01:00:16,047 Why don'’t you check out some schools 862 01:00:16,090 --> 01:00:19,093 on the East and West Coasts? 863 01:00:19,137 --> 01:00:21,661 You might like getting outta this town for a bit. 864 01:00:26,274 --> 01:00:27,667 [Alice] Wait! 865 01:00:33,194 --> 01:00:38,896 Do you know what... tossing someone'’s salad is? 866 01:00:38,939 --> 01:00:40,854 [laughs] 867 01:00:44,771 --> 01:00:48,209 It'’s means licking someone'’s butthole. 868 01:00:49,776 --> 01:00:53,650 [both chuckle] 869 01:00:53,693 --> 01:00:55,129 Good luck out there, kid. 870 01:00:57,915 --> 01:00:59,612 [giggling] 871 01:00:59,656 --> 01:01:01,875 [motorcycle cranks, revs] 872 01:01:16,629 --> 01:01:18,544 ♪ 873 01:01:28,641 --> 01:01:30,643 [indistinct chatting] 874 01:01:44,570 --> 01:01:47,573 Hey, how'’s it going? 875 01:01:47,616 --> 01:01:49,488 I really miss my cat. 876 01:01:49,531 --> 01:01:52,534 [chuckles] 877 01:01:52,578 --> 01:01:55,712 Um... what'’s your cat's name? 878 01:01:57,888 --> 01:01:59,498 Kyoto. 879 01:01:59,541 --> 01:02:02,762 Oh, that'’s pretty. What does it mean? 880 01:02:02,806 --> 01:02:05,634 It'’s a city is Japan. I love Japan! 881 01:02:05,678 --> 01:02:07,332 I'’m going to go with my mom when I turn 18 882 01:02:07,375 --> 01:02:09,073 as a-- a graduation present. 883 01:02:09,116 --> 01:02:11,205 Cool. What are you gonna do there? 884 01:02:11,249 --> 01:02:14,208 Try all the weird Japanese candyand eat a ton of sushi. 885 01:02:14,252 --> 01:02:15,688 I'’ve never had sushi. 886 01:02:15,732 --> 01:02:18,343 Oh, my God! It'’s so good. 887 01:02:18,386 --> 01:02:22,564 We should go to Taki sometime. They have the best sushi. 888 01:02:22,608 --> 01:02:26,046 -Yeah. -In this city, anyway. 889 01:02:26,090 --> 01:02:28,092 [chuckles] 890 01:02:46,327 --> 01:02:48,895 Hey. 891 01:02:48,939 --> 01:02:50,418 Hey. 892 01:02:52,638 --> 01:02:55,293 So, everyone says that it was Wade 893 01:02:55,336 --> 01:02:58,775 who used Father'’s computer. 894 01:02:58,818 --> 01:02:59,776 Oh. 895 01:02:59,819 --> 01:03:01,647 Yeah. 896 01:03:01,690 --> 01:03:04,041 Father found his bracelet in his office or something. 897 01:03:04,084 --> 01:03:07,740 Mm. 898 01:03:07,784 --> 01:03:09,350 I'’m sorry I thought it was you. 899 01:03:12,527 --> 01:03:15,356 It'’s OK. 900 01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:17,794 But now that we know he'’s a perv, 901 01:03:17,837 --> 01:03:20,405 he probably made up that rumor about you guys. 902 01:03:20,448 --> 01:03:25,279 He clearly made it upto hide the fact that he'’s gay. 903 01:03:25,323 --> 01:03:26,367 What? 904 01:03:26,411 --> 01:03:27,978 Yeah, apparently, 905 01:03:28,021 --> 01:03:32,330 whatever he did on Father'’s computer was gay. 906 01:03:32,373 --> 01:03:34,811 But... he has a girlfriend. 907 01:03:34,854 --> 01:03:37,204 Yeah. A girlfriend who doesn'’t even kiss 908 01:03:37,248 --> 01:03:41,774 because she'’s afraid it'’ll lead to sex. 909 01:03:41,818 --> 01:03:43,428 The perfect cover-up. 910 01:03:43,471 --> 01:03:44,385 [door opens] 911 01:03:56,354 --> 01:03:57,790 Ew. 912 01:04:05,972 --> 01:04:08,496 We have a mantra here at Kirkos. 913 01:04:08,540 --> 01:04:12,326 Question the First, Weep the Second, 914 01:04:12,370 --> 01:04:15,895 Accept the Third, Live the Fourth. 915 01:04:15,939 --> 01:04:19,333 It refers to the four days of Kirkos. 916 01:04:19,377 --> 01:04:21,205 Now, they'’re all pretty self-explanatory, 917 01:04:21,248 --> 01:04:24,251 except for that last one: live. 918 01:04:24,295 --> 01:04:26,950 What that means is to take what you have learned 919 01:04:26,993 --> 01:04:29,866 this weekend, what youhave discovered about yourself, 920 01:04:29,909 --> 01:04:33,434 and incorporate it into your everyday lives. 921 01:04:33,478 --> 01:04:37,612 To live each day like it is the fourth day of Kirkos. 922 01:04:37,656 --> 01:04:39,440 Now, I'’m going to ask that you come up here 923 01:04:39,484 --> 01:04:41,181 and speak about your experiences this weekend 924 01:04:41,225 --> 01:04:44,315 with the whole group. There'’s no set order. 925 01:04:44,358 --> 01:04:46,926 Just let the Spirit of Christ move you. 926 01:05:07,686 --> 01:05:09,253 I, uh... 927 01:05:12,473 --> 01:05:15,824 I gave in to temptation. 928 01:05:15,868 --> 01:05:19,654 This is not who I am, but I let myself lose control. 929 01:05:19,698 --> 01:05:21,352 This retreat has taught me, though, that, 930 01:05:21,395 --> 01:05:25,182 through the love of my friends, teachers, 931 01:05:25,225 --> 01:05:26,792 and, most importantly, Jesus, 932 01:05:26,835 --> 01:05:29,708 that there is nothing I can'’t overcome. 933 01:05:55,690 --> 01:05:57,083 [sighs] 934 01:06:06,223 --> 01:06:11,010 Being in high school sucks. 935 01:06:11,054 --> 01:06:15,275 People love to talk, but... 936 01:06:17,321 --> 01:06:23,892 just because you hear somethingdoesn'’t mean that it's true. 937 01:06:23,936 --> 01:06:30,029 When people spread lies about you, it hurts. 938 01:06:30,073 --> 01:06:35,426 It makes you feel alone... 939 01:06:35,469 --> 01:06:38,255 and empty. 940 01:06:38,298 --> 01:06:43,869 And... sometimes... 941 01:06:43,912 --> 01:06:47,351 you do things that you'’re not proud of. 942 01:06:50,615 --> 01:06:54,053 But look... 943 01:06:54,097 --> 01:06:57,926 we'’re all hiding stuff. 944 01:06:57,970 --> 01:07:01,495 All kinds of stuff. What if we just try 945 01:07:01,539 --> 01:07:06,979 to be honest and to treat each other with respect? 946 01:07:07,023 --> 01:07:09,460 That'’s what Jesus wanted, right? 947 01:07:09,503 --> 01:07:14,726 And then, maybe, we can stop feeling so guilty 948 01:07:14,769 --> 01:07:18,077 about who we are all the time, because the truth is, 949 01:07:18,121 --> 01:07:19,818 we'’re all just trying to figure out our shit. 950 01:07:19,861 --> 01:07:21,776 [students gasp] 951 01:07:24,953 --> 01:07:26,085 Sorry, um... 952 01:07:35,790 --> 01:07:37,705 ♪ 953 01:07:54,070 --> 01:07:56,028 [inaudible] 954 01:08:05,733 --> 01:08:07,126 Have you ever had sushi? 955 01:08:07,170 --> 01:08:10,129 Sushi? You mean like raw fish? 956 01:08:10,173 --> 01:08:12,044 [chuckles] No. 957 01:08:12,088 --> 01:08:13,567 Who are you gonna go to church with 958 01:08:13,611 --> 01:08:15,482 when I go to college? 959 01:08:15,526 --> 01:08:17,919 College? That'’s not for two more years. 960 01:08:17,963 --> 01:08:19,791 A year and a half. 961 01:08:19,834 --> 01:08:22,533 [Dad sighs] I don'’t know. 962 01:08:28,278 --> 01:08:29,888 Maybe I'’ll start going to the late service again 963 01:08:29,931 --> 01:08:31,324 so your mom will come. 964 01:08:34,022 --> 01:08:38,810 Besides, State'’s only 40 minutes away. 965 01:08:38,853 --> 01:08:41,117 Just come home on the weekends. 966 01:08:42,596 --> 01:08:44,511 [car cranks] 967 01:08:47,993 --> 01:08:49,908 ♪ 968 01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:15,542 Hey. 969 01:09:20,808 --> 01:09:23,942 -Um... -Hey. 970 01:09:23,985 --> 01:09:26,640 You don'’t have to be scared of me. 971 01:09:26,684 --> 01:09:29,252 I-- I'’m not scared of you. 972 01:09:30,862 --> 01:09:32,429 It won'’t happen again. 973 01:09:35,083 --> 01:09:36,346 Friends? 974 01:09:38,913 --> 01:09:40,132 Friends. 975 01:09:41,699 --> 01:09:44,223 Hug? 976 01:09:44,267 --> 01:09:45,398 Side hug. 977 01:09:45,442 --> 01:09:46,747 [chuckles] 978 01:09:53,276 --> 01:09:56,017 [Alice] Bless me, Father, for I have sinned. 979 01:09:56,061 --> 01:09:58,324 It has been a week since my last confession. 980 01:09:58,368 --> 01:10:01,109 These are my sins. 981 01:10:01,153 --> 01:10:05,331 Talking back to my parents. 982 01:10:05,375 --> 01:10:08,204 Not doing my chores. 983 01:10:14,122 --> 01:10:15,385 Is that it? 984 01:10:22,435 --> 01:10:26,744 No. It'’s something that happened on the retreat. 985 01:10:28,006 --> 01:10:29,355 OK. 986 01:10:30,791 --> 01:10:32,445 I watched people having sex. 987 01:10:39,757 --> 01:10:41,149 All right. 988 01:10:41,193 --> 01:10:42,803 [Alice] It was a video. 989 01:10:42,847 --> 01:10:47,286 There was a man and a woman. 990 01:10:47,330 --> 01:10:51,290 And the woman was wearing a hot pink bra. 991 01:10:51,334 --> 01:10:54,989 They were on the hood of a car. 992 01:10:55,033 --> 01:10:56,817 With graffiti on it. 993 01:11:04,260 --> 01:11:07,001 And I did it, 994 01:11:07,045 --> 01:11:11,528 even though I knew it was a sin. 995 01:11:11,571 --> 01:11:13,660 Will God still forgive me? 996 01:11:17,577 --> 01:11:19,492 That'’s between you and God. 997 01:11:21,625 --> 01:11:27,631 For penance, fifty Hail Marys and fifty Our Fathers. 998 01:11:31,722 --> 01:11:33,680 God, the Father of mercies, 999 01:11:33,724 --> 01:11:35,856 through the death and resurrection of his Son 1000 01:11:35,900 --> 01:11:38,294 has reconciled the world to himself 1001 01:11:38,337 --> 01:11:40,208 and sent the Holy Spirit among us 1002 01:11:40,252 --> 01:11:42,559 for the forgiveness of sins... 1003 01:12:14,242 --> 01:12:16,810 "Where to, miss?" 1004 01:12:16,854 --> 01:12:18,290 "Stars..." 1005 01:12:27,299 --> 01:12:29,301 ♪ 1006 01:12:44,925 --> 01:12:46,840 [vibrating] 1007 01:12:50,453 --> 01:12:51,410 ♪ Give it to me 1008 01:12:51,454 --> 01:12:53,804 ♪ Ooh, oh 1009 01:12:53,847 --> 01:12:56,415 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 1010 01:12:56,459 --> 01:12:58,548 ♪ Ooh, oh 1011 01:12:58,591 --> 01:13:00,288 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah 1012 01:13:00,332 --> 01:13:01,333 ♪ Give it to me 1013 01:13:01,377 --> 01:13:03,335 ♪ Ooh, oh 1014 01:13:03,379 --> 01:13:06,077 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 1015 01:13:06,120 --> 01:13:08,035 ♪ Ooh, oh 1016 01:13:08,079 --> 01:13:09,254 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah 1017 01:13:09,297 --> 01:13:10,429 ♪ Give it to me 1018 01:13:10,473 --> 01:13:12,300 ♪ I'’m so addicted ♪ 1019 01:13:12,344 --> 01:13:16,783 ♪ To the loving that you'’re feeding to me ♪ 1020 01:13:16,827 --> 01:13:20,004 ♪ Ohh 1021 01:13:20,047 --> 01:13:22,136 ♪ Can'’t do without it ♪ 1022 01:13:22,180 --> 01:13:26,140 ♪ This feeling'’s got me weak in the knees ♪ 1023 01:13:26,184 --> 01:13:29,579 ♪ Ohh, baby, baby 1024 01:13:29,622 --> 01:13:31,668 ♪ Body'’s in withdrawal ♪ 1025 01:13:31,711 --> 01:13:35,889 ♪ Every time you take it away ♪ 1026 01:13:35,933 --> 01:13:39,066 ♪ Ohh 1027 01:13:39,110 --> 01:13:41,286 ♪ Can'’t you hear me callin'’ ♪ 1028 01:13:41,329 --> 01:13:45,421 ♪ Beggin'’ you to come out and play ♪ 1029 01:13:45,464 --> 01:13:46,552 ♪ Aw, yeah 1030 01:13:46,596 --> 01:13:47,771 ♪ Aw, yeah 1031 01:13:47,814 --> 01:13:50,251 ♪ So, baby, come to me 1032 01:13:50,295 --> 01:13:52,558 ♪ Baby, show me who you are 1033 01:13:52,602 --> 01:13:54,908 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah Sweet to me ♪ 1034 01:13:54,952 --> 01:13:57,258 ♪ Like sugar to my heart 1035 01:13:57,302 --> 01:13:58,434 ♪ Ooh, baby 1036 01:13:58,477 --> 01:13:59,478 ♪ I'’m craving for you ♪ 1037 01:13:59,522 --> 01:14:00,871 ♪ I'’m craving ♪ 1038 01:14:00,914 --> 01:14:05,223 ♪ I'’m missing you like candy ♪ 1039 01:14:05,266 --> 01:14:07,791 ♪ Missin'’ you like candy ♪ 1040 01:14:07,834 --> 01:14:09,836 ♪ Sweet sweet loving 1041 01:14:09,880 --> 01:14:13,753 ♪ Got me going to the extreme ♪ 1042 01:14:13,797 --> 01:14:17,365 ♪ You gotta know, oh 1043 01:14:17,409 --> 01:14:19,193 ♪ Won'’t go without it ♪ 1044 01:14:19,237 --> 01:14:23,589 ♪ This vibe has got a hold on me ♪ 1045 01:14:23,633 --> 01:14:24,851 ♪ Oh, baby 1046 01:14:24,895 --> 01:14:26,897 ♪ Oh, baby 1047 01:14:26,940 --> 01:14:28,942 ♪ Satisfying, baby 1048 01:14:28,986 --> 01:14:32,555 ♪ Let me show you what I'’m made of ♪ 1049 01:14:32,598 --> 01:14:36,515 ♪ Made of 1050 01:14:36,559 --> 01:14:38,386 ♪ No doubt about it, boy 1051 01:14:38,430 --> 01:14:43,609 ♪ Got me feeling crazy, can'’t get enough ♪ 1052 01:14:43,653 --> 01:14:46,090 ♪ Baby, baby, baby, won'’t you ♪ 1053 01:14:46,133 --> 01:14:47,526 ♪ Come to me 1054 01:14:47,570 --> 01:14:49,920 ♪ Baby, show me who you are 1055 01:14:49,963 --> 01:14:52,357 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah Sweet to me ♪ 1056 01:14:52,400 --> 01:14:54,490 ♪ Like sugar to my heart 1057 01:14:54,533 --> 01:14:55,665 ♪ Ooh, baby 1058 01:14:55,708 --> 01:14:56,883 ♪ I'’m craving for you ♪ 1059 01:14:56,927 --> 01:14:58,319 ♪ I'’m craving ♪ 1060 01:14:58,363 --> 01:15:02,454 ♪ I'’m missing you like candy ♪ 1061 01:15:02,498 --> 01:15:04,238 ♪ Missin'’ you like candy ♪ 1062 01:15:04,282 --> 01:15:06,589 ♪ So, baby, come to me 1063 01:15:06,632 --> 01:15:08,895 ♪ Baby, show me who you are 1064 01:15:08,939 --> 01:15:11,332 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah Sweet to me ♪ 1065 01:15:11,376 --> 01:15:13,552 ♪ Like sugar to my heart 1066 01:15:13,596 --> 01:15:14,727 ♪ Ooh, baby 1067 01:15:14,771 --> 01:15:15,859 ♪ I'’m craving for you ♪ 1068 01:15:15,902 --> 01:15:17,295 ♪ I'’m craving ♪ 1069 01:15:17,338 --> 01:15:23,127 ♪ I'’m missing you like candy ♪ 1070 01:15:23,170 --> 01:15:24,345 ♪ Now, give it to me 1071 01:15:24,389 --> 01:15:26,391 ♪ You know who you are 1072 01:15:26,434 --> 01:15:28,872 ♪ Your love is as sweet as candy ♪ 1073 01:15:28,915 --> 01:15:31,265 ♪ I'’ll be forever yours ♪ 1074 01:15:31,309 --> 01:15:33,746 ♪ Love always, Mandy 1075 01:15:33,790 --> 01:15:36,575 ♪ Boy, I'’m craving ♪ 1076 01:15:36,619 --> 01:15:41,232 ♪ Missing you like candy 1077 01:15:42,450 --> 01:15:45,453 ♪ So, baby, come to me 1078 01:15:45,497 --> 01:15:48,195 ♪ Come, come, come to me 1079 01:15:48,239 --> 01:15:50,589 ♪ Sweet to me 1080 01:15:50,633 --> 01:15:51,895 ♪ You'’re so sweet ♪ 1081 01:15:51,938 --> 01:15:53,070 ♪ Ooh, baby 1082 01:15:53,113 --> 01:15:55,507 ♪ I, I, I, I 1083 01:15:55,551 --> 01:16:00,338 ♪ I'’m missing you like candy ♪ 1084 01:16:00,381 --> 01:16:01,557 ♪ Aw, yeah 1085 01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:03,950 ♪ So, baby, come to me 1086 01:16:03,994 --> 01:16:06,257 ♪ Baby, show me who you are 1087 01:16:06,300 --> 01:16:08,607 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah Sweet to me ♪ 1088 01:16:08,651 --> 01:16:10,783 ♪ Like sugar to my heart 1089 01:16:10,827 --> 01:16:12,002 ♪ Ooh, baby 1090 01:16:12,045 --> 01:16:13,264 ♪ I'’m craving for you ♪ 1091 01:16:13,307 --> 01:16:14,613 ♪ I'’m craving ♪ 1092 01:16:14,657 --> 01:16:19,879 ♪ I'’m missing you like candy ♪ 1093 01:16:19,923 --> 01:16:21,838 ♪