1 00:00:02,272 --> 00:00:04,672 “As for the faithless and the sexually immoral - 2 00:00:04,772 --> 00:00:07,172 their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, 3 00:00:07,172 --> 00:00:10,172 which is the second death.” - Revelation 21:8 4 00:00:11,772 --> 00:00:13,238 [birds chirping] 5 00:00:13,338 --> 00:00:14,538 tossed salad noun 6 00:00:14,638 --> 00:00:17,238 A salad made of greens, often with added vegetables, tossed in a dressing. 7 00:00:17,338 --> 00:00:19,338 Salad tossing verb 8 00:00:20,238 --> 00:00:22,638 A sex act involving the mouth and the buttocks. 9 00:00:24,250 --> 00:00:26,183 ♪ 10 00:00:33,681 --> 00:00:35,815 ♪ Have you been to Jesus ♪ 11 00:00:35,848 --> 00:00:37,948 ♪ For his cleansing power? ♪ 12 00:00:37,982 --> 00:00:41,349 ♪ Are you washed in the blood of the Lamb? ♪ 13 00:00:41,382 --> 00:00:46,016 ♪ Are you fully trusting in his grace this hour? ♪ 14 00:00:46,050 --> 00:00:47,715 ♪ Are you washed in the blood of the Lamb? ♪ 15 00:00:47,748 --> 00:00:51,016 Mark, I see belt loops and no belt. 16 00:00:51,050 --> 00:00:53,748 ♪ Are you washed in the blood? ♪ 17 00:00:53,782 --> 00:00:57,882 ♪ In the soul-cleansing blood of the Lamb? ♪ 18 00:00:57,915 --> 00:01:02,182 [Mrs. Veda] Oh, oh, oh... No. 19 00:01:02,215 --> 00:01:04,015 ♪ Are you washed in the blood of the Lamb? ♪ 20 00:01:04,049 --> 00:01:05,282 [sighs] 21 00:01:05,315 --> 00:01:07,947 Ah, ah, ah, ah. Miss O'Donnell. 22 00:01:10,115 --> 00:01:11,748 Just as I suspected: 23 00:01:11,781 --> 00:01:13,249 over two-and-a-half inches above the knee. 24 00:01:13,282 --> 00:01:16,947 Dean's Office. Now! 25 00:01:16,982 --> 00:01:18,881 - Morning, Mrs. Veda. - Alice. 26 00:01:20,315 --> 00:01:22,082 School mass today at 2:00. 27 00:01:22,115 --> 00:01:24,614 Why don't you be gift bearer again? 28 00:01:24,647 --> 00:01:26,115 Sure. 29 00:01:27,982 --> 00:01:29,115 Hmm. 30 00:01:31,647 --> 00:01:35,982 OK, it's like this, guys are like microwave ovens. 31 00:01:36,015 --> 00:01:39,982 And ladies are like conventional ovens. 32 00:01:40,015 --> 00:01:42,580 Guys only need a few seconds, you know, like a microwave, 33 00:01:42,614 --> 00:01:44,647 to get... switched on. 34 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:48,214 While ladies, they typically need to... 35 00:01:48,248 --> 00:01:49,914 preheat for a while. 36 00:01:49,948 --> 00:01:52,580 But God created sex with boundaries 37 00:01:52,614 --> 00:01:54,248 and for a purpose. 38 00:01:54,281 --> 00:01:56,647 Does anyone wanna take a stab at what the boundary is? 39 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:57,814 Yes, Wade? 40 00:01:57,847 --> 00:01:59,048 - Marriage. - Very good. 41 00:01:59,081 --> 00:02:01,214 And does anybody know the purpose? 42 00:02:02,914 --> 00:02:05,214 - To have children. - [Father Murphy] Perfecto. 43 00:02:05,248 --> 00:02:08,614 When a man and a woman receive the sacrament of matrimony, 44 00:02:08,647 --> 00:02:12,014 God calls on them to create children in his image. 45 00:02:12,048 --> 00:02:15,579 Any sex outside of one man, one woman, one marriage 46 00:02:15,613 --> 00:02:16,813 is against God's plan. 47 00:02:18,381 --> 00:02:21,746 Um, what about sex with yourself? 48 00:02:21,780 --> 00:02:23,314 [students laugh] 49 00:02:23,348 --> 00:02:25,214 Can you create children from sex with yourself? 50 00:02:25,248 --> 00:02:27,713 - No. - [Father Murphy] Right, so? 51 00:02:27,746 --> 00:02:29,981 - [Heather] It's against God's plan. - [Father Murphy] Exactly. 52 00:02:30,014 --> 00:02:32,846 [male student] So, is that what the Bible means by "spilling your seed"? 53 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:34,347 - Is it spilling if you catch it? - [students laugh] 54 00:02:34,380 --> 00:02:36,280 [Father Murphy] All right, all right. 55 00:02:36,313 --> 00:02:38,947 We are called on to be chaste until we are married. 56 00:02:38,981 --> 00:02:42,247 And that means no sex... with yourself or anyone else... 57 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:45,713 until you stand at that altar and you say "I do" 58 00:02:45,746 --> 00:02:48,746 or else it is damnation for all eternity. 59 00:02:48,780 --> 00:02:51,180 And remember... 60 00:02:51,213 --> 00:02:52,846 God is always watching. 61 00:02:55,047 --> 00:02:56,080 Capiche? 62 00:02:58,347 --> 00:03:03,247 They gave us Baby Think-It-Over in Christian Lifestyles. 63 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:05,845 I'm not even having sex, they should just give them to the slutty girls. 64 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:09,578 Oh, have you had to watch the partial-birth abortion video yet? 65 00:03:09,612 --> 00:03:12,779 - It's really awful. - No, no! Don't ruin it for me. 66 00:03:14,147 --> 00:03:16,047 How was Morality? 67 00:03:16,080 --> 00:03:17,678 It was fine. 68 00:03:17,712 --> 00:03:21,578 Did you know that masturbating is a sin? 69 00:03:21,612 --> 00:03:24,913 Ew. Of course. Why? 70 00:03:26,246 --> 00:03:28,279 I was just wondering. 71 00:03:28,312 --> 00:03:32,246 Making me rewind Titanic back to the car scene twice 72 00:03:32,279 --> 00:03:34,346 is probably also a sin, 73 00:03:34,379 --> 00:03:36,779 just in case you were wondering that next. 74 00:03:36,812 --> 00:03:38,712 Look, I only asked you to do that 75 00:03:38,745 --> 00:03:40,712 because I couldn't hear what Kate whispered to Leo 76 00:03:40,745 --> 00:03:42,312 - when he said, "Where to, Miss?" - Mm-hmm. 77 00:03:42,346 --> 00:03:46,745 Which just happens to be right before they make out 78 00:03:46,779 --> 00:03:51,246 and steam up that car window that Kate slaps her hand on. 79 00:03:51,279 --> 00:03:52,979 I didn't write it! 80 00:03:53,012 --> 00:03:54,312 [dog barking] 81 00:03:58,744 --> 00:04:02,012 Hey! Hi, Gus. 82 00:04:03,379 --> 00:04:05,979 [clicking tongue] 83 00:04:21,677 --> 00:04:22,812 Sit, Gus. 84 00:04:24,245 --> 00:04:25,544 Sit. 85 00:04:31,378 --> 00:04:34,544 [modem dialing up] 86 00:04:37,744 --> 00:04:40,178 [computer voice] Welcome! 87 00:04:48,278 --> 00:04:50,078 OK. Here we go! 88 00:05:01,145 --> 00:05:03,944 [sighs] Damn it! 89 00:05:03,978 --> 00:05:05,111 [sighs] 90 00:05:13,078 --> 00:05:14,111 Titanic! 91 00:05:14,145 --> 00:05:16,310 [typing] 92 00:05:16,344 --> 00:05:18,244 Yes! 93 00:05:18,277 --> 00:05:20,078 [computer voice] You've got mail. 94 00:05:34,277 --> 00:05:35,277 [gasps] 95 00:05:48,377 --> 00:05:49,710 Mom? 96 00:06:09,777 --> 00:06:10,710 [chimes] 97 00:06:21,109 --> 00:06:22,043 [chimes] 98 00:06:23,276 --> 00:06:24,276 [chimes] 99 00:06:29,676 --> 00:06:31,643 [typing] 100 00:06:35,143 --> 00:06:36,076 [chimes] 101 00:06:37,276 --> 00:06:38,209 [chimes] 102 00:06:46,076 --> 00:06:47,942 [sighs] 103 00:06:59,109 --> 00:07:01,043 [scanner whirring] 104 00:07:10,809 --> 00:07:11,742 [chimes] 105 00:07:13,909 --> 00:07:14,842 [chimes] 106 00:07:16,142 --> 00:07:17,075 [chimes] 107 00:07:26,275 --> 00:07:27,208 [chimes] 108 00:07:28,275 --> 00:07:29,275 [chimes] 109 00:07:35,008 --> 00:07:36,208 Wet? 110 00:07:36,242 --> 00:07:37,175 [chimes] 111 00:07:39,375 --> 00:07:42,075 Uh... 112 00:07:44,008 --> 00:07:45,042 [smacks lips] 113 00:07:55,241 --> 00:07:57,674 Underwear? 114 00:07:57,708 --> 00:07:59,674 [typing] 115 00:08:03,908 --> 00:08:04,841 [chimes] 116 00:08:07,207 --> 00:08:08,141 [chimes] 117 00:08:11,274 --> 00:08:13,641 Ohh. 118 00:08:13,674 --> 00:08:14,641 [chimes] 119 00:08:15,874 --> 00:08:16,807 What? 120 00:08:35,607 --> 00:08:37,573 ♪ 121 00:08:56,273 --> 00:08:58,106 [Mom] Alice! 122 00:08:58,140 --> 00:09:01,040 Dinner! 123 00:09:01,073 --> 00:09:03,673 - [Priest] I confess to almighty God... - Almighty God... 124 00:09:03,707 --> 00:09:06,740 [all] and to you, my brothers and sisters, 125 00:09:06,774 --> 00:09:09,006 that I have sinned through my own fault, 126 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:11,873 in my thoughts and in my words, 127 00:09:11,906 --> 00:09:15,607 in what I have done and in what I have failed to do... 128 00:09:15,639 --> 00:09:17,973 [Dad] The Millers invited us over to watch the game. 129 00:09:18,006 --> 00:09:21,873 Great, I'll make my cheesy potatoes. 130 00:09:21,906 --> 00:09:24,240 Oh, Damn it, Ron. 131 00:09:24,273 --> 00:09:25,973 Now I'm all wet! 132 00:09:26,006 --> 00:09:27,306 [sighs] 133 00:09:27,340 --> 00:09:31,006 Calm down, Gail, you're not that wet. 134 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:32,973 [water running] 135 00:09:33,006 --> 00:09:35,639 - [music playing] - [horn honks] 136 00:09:44,073 --> 00:09:47,239 So, uh, Alice, I heard you got on Wade Friday night. 137 00:09:47,272 --> 00:09:51,139 Stephanie told me she walked in on you guys in my sauna. 138 00:09:51,172 --> 00:09:53,239 [Anthony] Ooh! Gettin' steamy in the sauna! 139 00:09:53,272 --> 00:09:56,905 No, we were just back there getting some drinks. 140 00:09:58,773 --> 00:10:00,872 We were only gone for like a minute! 141 00:10:00,905 --> 00:10:02,005 Yeah, that's long enough for Wade. 142 00:10:02,039 --> 00:10:04,039 [grunts] I was just messin'. 143 00:10:05,239 --> 00:10:07,072 Listen. 144 00:10:07,105 --> 00:10:09,838 You don't have to put out just because you like a boy. 145 00:10:09,872 --> 00:10:12,172 I don't like him. 146 00:10:12,205 --> 00:10:14,838 [Father Murphy] And now, for the Bible passages that back all this up... 147 00:10:14,872 --> 00:10:17,005 We're gonna start with Galatians. 148 00:10:17,039 --> 00:10:18,838 Heather, why don't you start us off? 149 00:10:18,872 --> 00:10:20,905 [Heather] The acts of the flesh are obvious: 150 00:10:20,938 --> 00:10:24,239 sexual immorality, impurity, debauchery... 151 00:10:24,272 --> 00:10:27,239 OK, so, I just bought this Blink 182 CD 152 00:10:27,272 --> 00:10:28,638 from Sam Goody, right? 153 00:10:28,671 --> 00:10:30,072 Um, I upload them to my computer 154 00:10:30,105 --> 00:10:31,238 and then I just put 'em on here. 155 00:10:31,271 --> 00:10:32,605 Easy as pie. 156 00:10:32,638 --> 00:10:34,005 The album's amazing, by the way. 157 00:10:34,039 --> 00:10:35,338 It's called Enema of the State. 158 00:10:35,371 --> 00:10:36,938 - Get it? - [laughs] 159 00:10:36,972 --> 00:10:38,838 I bet you know all about enemas, don't you? 160 00:10:38,872 --> 00:10:40,772 Can you not talk about enemas near my baby, please? 161 00:10:40,805 --> 00:10:43,171 Yeah, I'm gonna... 162 00:10:43,204 --> 00:10:44,571 Thank you. 163 00:10:47,838 --> 00:10:49,304 Such a perv. 164 00:10:49,338 --> 00:10:50,705 What's an enema? 165 00:10:50,738 --> 00:10:52,171 It's when you fall water skiing 166 00:10:52,204 --> 00:10:53,671 and water shoots up your butt. 167 00:10:55,671 --> 00:10:57,271 Well, look who it is. 168 00:10:57,304 --> 00:10:58,871 Where were you this weekend? 169 00:10:58,904 --> 00:11:00,670 You didn't come to my party. 170 00:11:00,704 --> 00:11:02,871 Yeah, I heard things got pretty crazy. 171 00:11:04,871 --> 00:11:06,837 Everyone's been talking about you and Wade. 172 00:11:06,871 --> 00:11:09,737 - Oh? - Yeah. 173 00:11:09,771 --> 00:11:11,038 They're saying you tossed his salad. 174 00:11:11,071 --> 00:11:12,338 - What? - Gross! 175 00:11:12,372 --> 00:11:14,771 You tossed his salad in my sauna? 176 00:11:14,804 --> 00:11:17,604 What? No! No! Who, who said that? 177 00:11:17,637 --> 00:11:20,004 Some girl in my Geometry class was telling a bunch of us. 178 00:11:20,038 --> 00:11:21,704 Heather's really pissed too. 179 00:11:21,737 --> 00:11:23,704 She just gave Wade a promise bracelet. 180 00:11:23,737 --> 00:11:25,837 OK. [chuckles] 181 00:11:25,871 --> 00:11:30,971 I mean, I've never even heard of dressing someone's salad! So... 182 00:11:32,270 --> 00:11:33,904 The party was really fun. 183 00:11:33,937 --> 00:11:36,237 Why didn't you come? 184 00:11:36,270 --> 00:11:37,637 I was on a retreat. 185 00:11:37,670 --> 00:11:38,771 [Laura] Oh! Like a spa? 186 00:11:38,804 --> 00:11:40,804 No, a retreat ran by the school. 187 00:11:40,837 --> 00:11:44,903 It's called Kirkos and I got this necklace on it. See? 188 00:11:44,936 --> 00:11:47,338 Cool. What'd you do there? 189 00:11:47,371 --> 00:11:49,803 We're not allowed to talk about it with anyone who hasn't been. 190 00:11:49,836 --> 00:11:52,338 But it totally changed my life. 191 00:11:52,371 --> 00:11:54,570 Coming, Beth? 192 00:11:54,604 --> 00:11:58,203 Yeah. I gotta go. 193 00:11:58,237 --> 00:12:00,237 You guys should sign up for the next one. 194 00:12:00,270 --> 00:12:02,203 I think it'd be good for you. 195 00:12:08,703 --> 00:12:13,270 Since when does Beth eat lunch with Nina and those girls? 196 00:12:14,337 --> 00:12:15,936 I have to go on that retreat. 197 00:12:15,970 --> 00:12:18,070 Do you think she thinks that I actually 198 00:12:18,103 --> 00:12:19,970 tasted Wade's salad or whatever? 199 00:12:20,003 --> 00:12:21,836 I don't know. 200 00:12:21,870 --> 00:12:23,870 Beth's such a moron. 201 00:12:23,903 --> 00:12:25,903 I never have any clue what's she's talking about 202 00:12:25,936 --> 00:12:28,036 so she probably made it up. 203 00:12:30,236 --> 00:12:34,736 [laughing] 204 00:12:39,036 --> 00:12:40,802 I'm gonna go get more milk. 205 00:12:40,835 --> 00:12:43,102 [laughter continues] 206 00:12:47,802 --> 00:12:50,202 Oh. Hey, Heather. Hey, Wade. 207 00:12:53,236 --> 00:12:55,169 Can't have pudding without milk! 208 00:13:01,337 --> 00:13:03,635 She's disgusting. 209 00:13:03,668 --> 00:13:06,270 [church music playing] 210 00:13:13,236 --> 00:13:14,869 I think I'm going to ask Heather 211 00:13:14,902 --> 00:13:17,069 to bear the gifts with Jacob today. 212 00:13:20,269 --> 00:13:21,769 [snaps fingers] 213 00:13:30,934 --> 00:13:32,868 [sighs] 214 00:13:34,901 --> 00:13:38,768 Alice, if you want to continue to be a gift bearer, 215 00:13:38,801 --> 00:13:41,901 you have to conduct yourself like one. 216 00:13:43,068 --> 00:13:46,236 Your body is a gift from God. 217 00:13:46,269 --> 00:13:49,567 You need to honor it. 218 00:14:03,101 --> 00:14:06,934 [indistinct chatter] 219 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:39,666 In the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. 220 00:14:39,700 --> 00:14:42,800 Um, bless me Father for I have sinned. 221 00:14:42,833 --> 00:14:45,201 It has been a week since my last confession. 222 00:14:45,235 --> 00:14:46,900 These are my sins... 223 00:14:46,933 --> 00:14:49,900 Talking back to my dad... 224 00:14:49,933 --> 00:14:53,267 Not helping my mom in the kitchen... 225 00:14:53,300 --> 00:14:58,034 Forgetting to feed the dog... 226 00:14:58,067 --> 00:15:00,034 And... 227 00:15:01,300 --> 00:15:03,533 And anything else? 228 00:15:06,767 --> 00:15:07,733 That's it. 229 00:15:07,767 --> 00:15:09,767 For penance, 230 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:11,767 why don't you do the dishes for a week? 231 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:13,200 Give your mom a break. 232 00:15:13,234 --> 00:15:15,832 And ten Hail Marys and ten Our Fathers. 233 00:15:19,234 --> 00:15:21,234 God, the Father of mercies, 234 00:15:21,267 --> 00:15:23,267 through the death and resurrection of his Son, 235 00:15:23,300 --> 00:15:25,300 has reconciled the world to itself 236 00:15:25,334 --> 00:15:26,899 and sent the Holy Spirit among us 237 00:15:26,932 --> 00:15:28,632 for the forgiveness of sins... 238 00:15:28,665 --> 00:15:30,300 Give us this day our daily bread, 239 00:15:30,334 --> 00:15:32,267 and forgive us of our trespasses, 240 00:15:32,300 --> 00:15:34,167 as we forgive those that trespass against us... 241 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:36,267 [Mrs. Veda] Your body is a gift from God. 242 00:15:36,300 --> 00:15:37,932 [Heather] It's against God's plan. 243 00:15:37,966 --> 00:15:40,234 [Mrs. Vega] You need to honor it. 244 00:15:40,267 --> 00:15:43,200 [Father Murphy] Or else it is damnation for all eternity. 245 00:15:43,234 --> 00:15:45,932 Thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven. 246 00:15:45,966 --> 00:15:47,866 [Beth] It's called Kirkos. 247 00:15:47,899 --> 00:15:50,665 I think it'd be good for you. 248 00:15:53,899 --> 00:15:56,033 [birds chirping] 249 00:15:56,067 --> 00:15:57,999 ♪ 250 00:16:01,333 --> 00:16:03,665 [indistinct chatter] 251 00:16:03,699 --> 00:16:07,199 ♪ Michael row the boat ashore ♪ 252 00:16:07,233 --> 00:16:11,565 ♪ Hallelujah ♪ 253 00:16:11,599 --> 00:16:15,166 ♪ Michael row the boat ashore ♪ 254 00:16:15,199 --> 00:16:19,032 ♪ Hallelujah ♪ 255 00:16:19,066 --> 00:16:23,698 ♪ Sister help to trim the sails ♪ 256 00:16:23,731 --> 00:16:26,965 ♪ Hallelujah ♪ 257 00:16:26,998 --> 00:16:30,931 ♪ Sister help to trim the sails ♪ 258 00:16:30,965 --> 00:16:34,698 ♪ Hallelujah ♪ 259 00:16:34,731 --> 00:16:38,731 ♪ Michael row the boat ashore ♪ 260 00:16:38,765 --> 00:16:42,798 ♪ Hallelujah ♪ 261 00:16:42,831 --> 00:16:44,033 Are we there? 262 00:16:44,066 --> 00:16:45,965 ♪ Michael row the boat ashore ♪ 263 00:16:45,998 --> 00:16:51,132 ♪ Hallelujah ♪ 264 00:16:59,265 --> 00:17:01,165 I can't do this. 265 00:17:01,198 --> 00:17:03,998 [Laura] These few days away are going to be good for us. 266 00:17:04,032 --> 00:17:05,198 [Alice] I don't know. 267 00:17:05,232 --> 00:17:07,664 Ugh! 268 00:17:07,698 --> 00:17:11,564 Father looks so weird in regular people clothes. 269 00:17:11,598 --> 00:17:13,332 [gasps] Oh, my God! Nina's here! 270 00:17:13,365 --> 00:17:15,897 She must be one of the group leaders. 271 00:17:15,930 --> 00:17:17,864 Welcome, everyone. 272 00:17:17,897 --> 00:17:20,630 Who's that? 273 00:17:20,663 --> 00:17:23,165 Are you serious? That's Chris. 274 00:17:23,198 --> 00:17:25,764 He's only like the star of the football team. 275 00:17:29,298 --> 00:17:30,597 ♪ 276 00:17:30,630 --> 00:17:32,264 Welcome to Kirkos. 277 00:17:32,297 --> 00:17:35,198 So, uh, you're gonna be bunking in my cabin this week. 278 00:17:35,231 --> 00:17:40,864 ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 279 00:17:40,897 --> 00:17:42,231 ♪ My body's sayin' let's go ♪ 280 00:17:42,264 --> 00:17:46,597 ♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 281 00:17:46,630 --> 00:17:49,597 ♪ But my heart is sayin' no ♪ 282 00:17:49,630 --> 00:17:52,563 ♪ If you wanna be with me ♪ 283 00:17:52,597 --> 00:17:56,031 ♪ Baby, there's a price to pay ♪ 284 00:17:56,064 --> 00:18:00,197 ♪ I'm a genie in a bottle ♪ 285 00:18:00,231 --> 00:18:02,563 ♪ You gotta rub me the right way ♪ 286 00:18:02,597 --> 00:18:04,597 [Nina] Hi! Alice, right? 287 00:18:04,630 --> 00:18:06,829 - Yeah. - Welcome. 288 00:18:06,863 --> 00:18:10,164 I'm Nina. Come with me. You're in my cabin. Come on. 289 00:18:10,197 --> 00:18:11,264 Sorry. 290 00:18:13,197 --> 00:18:15,000 Question the First 291 00:18:15,001 --> 00:18:16,723 [Nina] I'm so excited for you guys. 292 00:18:19,197 --> 00:18:22,696 OK. Find the room with your name on the door. 293 00:18:44,263 --> 00:18:46,330 - [knock at door] - Oh, sorry! 294 00:18:46,363 --> 00:18:47,896 I didn't mean to scare you! 295 00:18:47,929 --> 00:18:49,230 You settling in? 296 00:18:49,263 --> 00:18:51,996 I've got a sweatshirt here for you. 297 00:18:52,030 --> 00:18:53,562 Thanks. 298 00:18:53,596 --> 00:18:56,828 And... next order of beeswax is... 299 00:18:56,862 --> 00:18:58,795 I'm gonna need your cell phone and/or watch, 300 00:18:58,828 --> 00:19:00,163 if you have 'em. 301 00:19:00,196 --> 00:19:02,661 Did you bring either one of those with you? 302 00:19:02,695 --> 00:19:03,996 Mm-hmm. 303 00:19:21,795 --> 00:19:22,762 No phone? 304 00:19:22,795 --> 00:19:24,295 - Mm-mm. - K. 305 00:19:24,329 --> 00:19:26,762 Don't worry, you won't be needing 306 00:19:26,795 --> 00:19:30,062 a watch this weekend anyway because... 307 00:19:30,095 --> 00:19:32,029 you're on Jesus' time! 308 00:19:32,062 --> 00:19:34,628 See ya! 309 00:19:34,661 --> 00:19:38,162 [indistinct chatter] 310 00:19:38,195 --> 00:19:41,295 [Mrs. Veda] Please find your small group number! 311 00:19:41,329 --> 00:19:43,895 Cut the chit-chat, please, and have a seat. 312 00:19:43,928 --> 00:19:46,162 Sit at the table with your small group number. 313 00:19:46,195 --> 00:19:47,995 Please find your small group number. 314 00:19:48,029 --> 00:19:49,295 [sighs] 315 00:19:49,329 --> 00:19:51,694 - I guess I'll see you later. - What? 316 00:20:05,727 --> 00:20:06,895 Group One? 317 00:20:08,594 --> 00:20:09,761 Awesome! 318 00:20:11,294 --> 00:20:12,962 I'm Chris, Group One's Senior Leader. 319 00:20:12,995 --> 00:20:14,062 Have a seat. 320 00:20:16,627 --> 00:20:19,928 Group One too? Awesome! Have a seat. 321 00:20:21,828 --> 00:20:25,560 You are here as a part of God's plan. 322 00:20:25,594 --> 00:20:30,028 His spirit moved each of you to sign up for this retreat, 323 00:20:30,061 --> 00:20:33,228 which is a unique experience that will challenge you 324 00:20:33,261 --> 00:20:35,827 in new and profound ways. 325 00:20:35,861 --> 00:20:38,028 Kirkos is a time to find meaning 326 00:20:38,061 --> 00:20:40,094 in the highs and lows of your life. 327 00:20:40,128 --> 00:20:42,061 Over these next four days 328 00:20:42,094 --> 00:20:43,894 you will hear from your classmates 329 00:20:43,927 --> 00:20:46,094 and be invited to open up as well. 330 00:20:46,128 --> 00:20:49,061 It will strengthen your relationship with yourself, 331 00:20:49,094 --> 00:20:53,228 but most importantly, with Jesus. 332 00:20:53,261 --> 00:20:55,094 Now let's get started. 333 00:20:55,128 --> 00:20:57,061 On the papers that Mrs. Veda is handing out, 334 00:20:57,094 --> 00:20:59,161 you're going to find a list of feelings. 335 00:20:59,194 --> 00:21:01,626 Go through them and circle any 336 00:21:01,659 --> 00:21:04,228 that you may have felt in the past year or so. 337 00:21:04,260 --> 00:21:08,061 There are no wrong answers. So just, just be honest. 338 00:21:08,094 --> 00:21:10,028 ♪ 339 00:21:58,326 --> 00:22:01,326 [Father Murphy] While ladies, they typically need to... 340 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,525 preheat for a while. 341 00:22:19,092 --> 00:22:20,625 [Father Murphy] OK. Let's finish up. 342 00:22:20,658 --> 00:22:22,292 Pass your papers toward the aisles. 343 00:22:22,326 --> 00:22:25,259 And make sure that your name is printed clearly on top. 344 00:22:33,892 --> 00:22:34,825 Come on. 345 00:22:38,959 --> 00:22:41,226 The other night I dreamt that I was walking 346 00:22:41,259 --> 00:22:42,591 along the beach with the Lord. 347 00:22:42,624 --> 00:22:44,092 As we walked, 348 00:22:44,126 --> 00:22:46,792 scenes from my life flashed across the sky 349 00:22:46,825 --> 00:22:48,259 and in each scene, 350 00:22:48,291 --> 00:22:50,325 I noticed that there were footprints in the sand. 351 00:22:50,358 --> 00:22:53,557 In some scenes there were two sets of footprints 352 00:22:53,591 --> 00:22:57,225 and in other scenes there was only one set of footprints. 353 00:22:57,258 --> 00:22:59,191 [indistinct chatter] 354 00:23:04,058 --> 00:23:04,991 Hey. 355 00:23:05,925 --> 00:23:07,058 Oh. Hey. 356 00:23:07,091 --> 00:23:09,291 - Hey, Sister Louise. - Hi. 357 00:23:09,325 --> 00:23:12,191 Do you mind if I snag another stupendous Walking Taco? 358 00:23:12,225 --> 00:23:15,625 [Sister Louise] Of course, dear. You're a growing boy! 359 00:23:15,658 --> 00:23:19,692 And Walking Tacos have lots of protein and fiber. 360 00:23:19,724 --> 00:23:21,758 Oh, may I have some sour cream too, please? 361 00:23:21,791 --> 00:23:23,258 - [Sister Louise] Oh, yes. - [Chris] Thank you. 362 00:23:23,291 --> 00:23:26,091 You're welcome. What about you, dear? 363 00:23:26,125 --> 00:23:28,125 - Oh, no, no thanks. - [Sister Louise] No? 364 00:23:28,158 --> 00:23:32,325 No sour cream? No, that is the best part. 365 00:23:32,358 --> 00:23:34,058 OK. 366 00:23:34,091 --> 00:23:36,991 - I guess I'll have some. - [chuckles] 367 00:23:37,025 --> 00:23:38,991 How's everything going for you so far, Alice? 368 00:23:39,025 --> 00:23:40,991 It's great. 369 00:23:41,025 --> 00:23:46,058 You know, it's OK if you think things are totally weird. 370 00:23:46,091 --> 00:23:48,758 It's supposed to be a little weird. 371 00:23:48,791 --> 00:23:50,691 At least at first. 372 00:23:50,724 --> 00:23:51,791 [chuckles] 373 00:23:51,824 --> 00:23:53,124 I'll see you later, Alice. 374 00:23:53,157 --> 00:23:54,791 OK, bye! 375 00:23:58,124 --> 00:24:01,090 I come from a very big family. 376 00:24:01,124 --> 00:24:06,124 I have four younger siblings and... 377 00:24:06,157 --> 00:24:09,124 an older sister... 378 00:24:09,157 --> 00:24:11,224 Melissa. 379 00:24:11,257 --> 00:24:14,057 She made honor roll every semester 380 00:24:14,090 --> 00:24:16,057 and she founded Habitat for Humanity 381 00:24:16,090 --> 00:24:17,623 at our school. 382 00:24:17,656 --> 00:24:20,157 She's the star of our family. 383 00:24:20,190 --> 00:24:23,224 One time, I came home at 2:00 a.m.... 384 00:24:23,257 --> 00:24:26,190 three hours past my curfew. 385 00:24:29,890 --> 00:24:32,324 And no one even noticed. 386 00:24:32,356 --> 00:24:36,289 It felt like no one cared 387 00:24:36,323 --> 00:24:40,289 if I was there or not. 388 00:24:40,323 --> 00:24:41,923 Um... 389 00:24:41,957 --> 00:24:43,590 Uh... 390 00:24:43,623 --> 00:24:46,223 I'd now like to play my first song. 391 00:24:46,256 --> 00:24:48,189 [music playing] 392 00:24:56,323 --> 00:25:00,856 ♪ You don't notice me standing here ♪ 393 00:25:00,889 --> 00:25:04,056 ♪ Wishing you could somehow feel ♪ 394 00:25:04,089 --> 00:25:06,256 ♪ I just wish that you could feel ♪ 395 00:25:06,289 --> 00:25:09,590 Last fall, Melissa came to pick me up 396 00:25:09,622 --> 00:25:11,956 from a friend's house to take me home. 397 00:25:11,989 --> 00:25:17,655 ♪ And each day we were born ♪ 398 00:25:17,689 --> 00:25:22,256 And the next thing I remember is waking up in the hospital 399 00:25:22,289 --> 00:25:24,123 being told that we were in an accident 400 00:25:24,156 --> 00:25:27,922 and that I had three broken ribs... 401 00:25:27,956 --> 00:25:30,023 [sobbing] 402 00:25:30,056 --> 00:25:32,756 And the first thought I had was... 403 00:25:34,789 --> 00:25:36,789 [sobbing] 404 00:25:36,822 --> 00:25:42,756 Maybe my parents will finally start to notice me. 405 00:25:42,789 --> 00:25:45,789 [sobbing] 406 00:25:45,822 --> 00:25:48,188 Melissa was fine but... 407 00:25:48,222 --> 00:25:50,288 my parents were still obsessed with her. 408 00:25:50,322 --> 00:25:56,188 It felt like they blamed me for the accident. 409 00:25:56,222 --> 00:25:59,955 That if she hadn't had to come and pick me up, 410 00:25:59,988 --> 00:26:03,088 she wouldn't have missed her Science Bowl nationals. 411 00:26:03,122 --> 00:26:07,155 But then, I came on to this retreat... 412 00:26:07,188 --> 00:26:08,688 [sniffles] 413 00:26:08,721 --> 00:26:13,688 And I realized that God loves me... 414 00:26:13,721 --> 00:26:16,155 my friends love me... 415 00:26:16,188 --> 00:26:19,554 and... 416 00:26:19,588 --> 00:26:20,554 [chuckles] 417 00:26:20,588 --> 00:26:23,554 I love me too. 418 00:26:27,122 --> 00:26:30,154 [chuckles] 419 00:26:33,654 --> 00:26:35,621 [crickets chirping] 420 00:26:40,855 --> 00:26:42,121 [sighs] 421 00:26:48,321 --> 00:26:52,920 [beeping] 422 00:26:58,087 --> 00:26:59,987 [chiming loudly] 423 00:27:15,121 --> 00:27:17,787 [beeping] 424 00:27:26,286 --> 00:27:28,186 [vibrates] 425 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:40,653 [vibrates] 426 00:27:51,286 --> 00:27:53,719 [vibrates] 427 00:27:53,753 --> 00:27:56,186 [moans] 428 00:27:56,220 --> 00:28:00,153 - [vibrating] - [moaning] 429 00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:20,652 [sighs] 430 00:28:23,667 --> 00:28:27,452 Weep the Second 431 00:28:27,786 --> 00:28:28,952 [indistinct chatter] 432 00:28:28,985 --> 00:28:30,852 OK, guys, circle up, circle up. 433 00:28:35,686 --> 00:28:37,686 Now, this is one of my favorite songs, 434 00:28:37,718 --> 00:28:40,685 and while you're listening, I want you to imagine 435 00:28:40,718 --> 00:28:44,685 that the eyes in the song are Jesus's eyes. 436 00:28:47,718 --> 00:28:49,685 [music playing] 437 00:29:09,651 --> 00:29:10,785 ♪ Love ♪ 438 00:29:13,718 --> 00:29:19,585 ♪ I get so lost sometimes ♪ 439 00:29:19,618 --> 00:29:24,851 ♪ Days pass ♪ 440 00:29:24,884 --> 00:29:30,817 ♪ And this emptiness fills my heart ♪ 441 00:29:30,851 --> 00:29:34,650 ♪ When I want to run away ♪ 442 00:29:34,684 --> 00:29:37,650 [indistinct chatter] 443 00:29:39,817 --> 00:29:41,784 Would you look at how these gorgeous pines 444 00:29:41,817 --> 00:29:44,285 contrast against the blue sky?! 445 00:29:44,319 --> 00:29:47,817 Isn't God's paint palette just magnificent? 446 00:29:47,851 --> 00:29:50,018 [Laura] So did I tell you Nina told me she liked my hair 447 00:29:50,051 --> 00:29:52,219 - this morning at breakfast? - Mm-hmm. 448 00:29:52,252 --> 00:29:54,184 She said she can't do it with her own hair 449 00:29:54,219 --> 00:29:56,617 because every time she tries it her hair gets all bumpy. 450 00:29:56,650 --> 00:29:59,018 So I said I could show her how I do it 451 00:29:59,051 --> 00:30:01,117 and she said she would invite me over sometime! 452 00:30:01,150 --> 00:30:02,650 Isn't that cool? 453 00:30:02,684 --> 00:30:04,117 Yeah. 454 00:30:04,150 --> 00:30:05,784 [gasps] 455 00:30:05,817 --> 00:30:10,584 I mean, you can come too, of course, if you want. 456 00:30:10,617 --> 00:30:12,050 Well, maybe I should ask Nina first 457 00:30:12,083 --> 00:30:13,883 if it's OK that you're there, 458 00:30:13,916 --> 00:30:15,916 but I mean do you even wanna come? 459 00:30:15,950 --> 00:30:18,150 - Whoa! - [gasps] Oh, my God. 460 00:30:18,183 --> 00:30:20,050 Are you OK? 461 00:30:20,083 --> 00:30:21,750 [groans] 462 00:30:21,783 --> 00:30:23,150 Everything OK here, troops? 463 00:30:23,184 --> 00:30:25,218 Ooh, comrade. 464 00:30:25,251 --> 00:30:27,584 That's quite a battle wound. 465 00:30:27,617 --> 00:30:28,683 Uh-huh. 466 00:30:28,716 --> 00:30:30,583 Can you walk? 467 00:30:30,616 --> 00:30:35,251 - [groans] No. No. No. - OK. Just don't move. 468 00:30:35,284 --> 00:30:37,251 [grunts] 469 00:30:37,284 --> 00:30:39,318 Let's get you to the nurse, huh? 470 00:30:39,351 --> 00:30:42,816 ♪ 471 00:30:42,850 --> 00:30:44,816 [indistinct chatter] 472 00:30:56,983 --> 00:30:58,250 [knock at door] 473 00:30:58,283 --> 00:31:00,649 [door opens] 474 00:31:00,683 --> 00:31:03,016 Hey. 475 00:31:03,049 --> 00:31:05,150 I was just coming to let you know we're doing the group photo 476 00:31:05,183 --> 00:31:06,783 down by the bridge in five. 477 00:31:06,816 --> 00:31:10,915 Great. I'll be there. 478 00:31:10,949 --> 00:31:13,317 Everything OK in here? 479 00:31:13,350 --> 00:31:15,250 Yep. 480 00:31:15,283 --> 00:31:16,649 OK. 481 00:31:18,283 --> 00:31:20,016 [phone vibrates] 482 00:31:20,049 --> 00:31:21,682 What was that? 483 00:31:21,715 --> 00:31:25,849 [phone vibrates] 484 00:31:25,882 --> 00:31:28,615 - [sighs] - [phone vibrates] 485 00:31:28,648 --> 00:31:30,715 I specifically asked you for your phone 486 00:31:30,749 --> 00:31:33,283 on the day you arrived. 487 00:31:33,317 --> 00:31:36,982 Look, I'm gonna have to tell Father about this. 488 00:31:37,016 --> 00:31:38,250 [sighs] 489 00:31:40,016 --> 00:31:41,515 Uh, Chris, could you come in, please? 490 00:31:43,183 --> 00:31:46,882 Hey, Alice, what'd you have for breakfast? 491 00:31:46,915 --> 00:31:48,715 Cereal. 492 00:31:48,749 --> 00:31:50,648 Oh, you didn't have salad? 493 00:31:50,682 --> 00:31:51,949 [male student] Like a Wade salad. 494 00:31:51,982 --> 00:31:53,149 [laughing] 495 00:31:53,182 --> 00:31:56,648 OK. Everybody say Jesus Christ! 496 00:31:56,682 --> 00:31:58,715 [all] Jesus Christ! 497 00:31:58,749 --> 00:32:00,149 - [camera shutter clicks] - OK, great! 498 00:32:00,182 --> 00:32:02,015 Guys, head up toward the cafeteria. 499 00:32:02,048 --> 00:32:04,548 We're gonna have lunch in our small groups today, OK? 500 00:32:07,282 --> 00:32:10,814 And Alice, Alice, a quick word. 501 00:32:15,714 --> 00:32:17,048 Nina said you kept your phone. 502 00:32:20,748 --> 00:32:21,814 You know, we have a reason for everything 503 00:32:21,848 --> 00:32:23,614 that we ask you to do here 504 00:32:23,647 --> 00:32:25,814 and it's very important that you follow our rules. 505 00:32:25,848 --> 00:32:27,714 Sorry, Father. 506 00:32:27,748 --> 00:32:30,748 I hope you understand I can't let this go unpunished. 507 00:32:30,781 --> 00:32:35,215 Now first, you must empty the trash receptacles. 508 00:32:35,248 --> 00:32:37,748 There are four of them. 509 00:32:37,781 --> 00:32:43,115 One there... and one there... 510 00:32:43,148 --> 00:32:45,748 and one there... 511 00:32:45,781 --> 00:32:47,714 ♪ 512 00:32:58,148 --> 00:32:59,081 [grunts] 513 00:33:07,215 --> 00:33:09,847 Come on. [grunts] 514 00:33:12,215 --> 00:33:13,281 [grunts] 515 00:34:10,314 --> 00:34:12,280 ♪ 516 00:34:21,779 --> 00:34:24,080 [exhales deeply] 517 00:34:34,079 --> 00:34:36,013 [typing] 518 00:34:44,778 --> 00:34:45,845 What? 519 00:34:48,046 --> 00:34:49,279 [computer chimes] 520 00:34:51,912 --> 00:34:52,845 [chimes] 521 00:34:55,912 --> 00:34:56,845 [chimes] 522 00:34:59,313 --> 00:35:00,279 [chimes] 523 00:35:06,213 --> 00:35:08,912 [typing] 524 00:35:08,946 --> 00:35:09,878 [chimes] 525 00:35:12,845 --> 00:35:13,778 [chimes] 526 00:35:15,278 --> 00:35:16,245 [sighs] 527 00:35:17,644 --> 00:35:19,644 [footsteps approaching] 528 00:35:27,245 --> 00:35:29,644 [Nina] Alice! 529 00:35:29,678 --> 00:35:31,145 - Hey. - What's up? 530 00:35:33,345 --> 00:35:35,678 Just finished cleaning. 531 00:35:35,711 --> 00:35:37,544 We made S'mores after lunch. 532 00:35:37,578 --> 00:35:38,777 Saved you one. 533 00:35:39,844 --> 00:35:41,678 Thanks. 534 00:35:41,710 --> 00:35:43,878 We pretended each marshmallow was a different mortal sin 535 00:35:43,911 --> 00:35:45,212 before burning it. 536 00:35:45,245 --> 00:35:47,212 Yours was lust. 537 00:35:47,245 --> 00:35:48,245 Oh. 538 00:35:50,610 --> 00:35:53,312 Look, I want you to know I'm not mad 539 00:35:53,345 --> 00:35:55,978 about the phone thing, OK? 540 00:35:56,012 --> 00:35:58,078 You're doing a real good job 541 00:35:58,112 --> 00:36:01,112 and I think you're on the right path now. 542 00:36:01,145 --> 00:36:03,845 So, just keep up the good work, OK? 543 00:36:03,878 --> 00:36:05,012 OK. 544 00:36:07,112 --> 00:36:08,878 I believe in you. 545 00:36:08,911 --> 00:36:10,277 [chuckles] 546 00:36:17,311 --> 00:36:19,277 [crickets chirping] 547 00:36:30,710 --> 00:36:31,844 "Dear Andrew... 548 00:36:35,344 --> 00:36:36,743 Remember when you were little 549 00:36:36,776 --> 00:36:38,709 and Mom and I would tuck you in, 550 00:36:38,743 --> 00:36:40,977 and you would make us kiss you on both of your cheeks 551 00:36:41,011 --> 00:36:42,277 at exactly the same time 552 00:36:42,311 --> 00:36:44,977 or else you couldn't fall asleep? 553 00:36:45,011 --> 00:36:47,011 I always thought those were my favorite memories 554 00:36:47,044 --> 00:36:49,011 from when we were a young family. 555 00:36:49,044 --> 00:36:50,576 But I was wrong. 556 00:36:50,609 --> 00:36:53,211 Every day is a new favorite memory with you. 557 00:36:53,244 --> 00:36:56,111 I love you, kiddo. 558 00:36:56,144 --> 00:36:58,243 Love, Dad." 559 00:36:59,642 --> 00:37:00,810 [clears throat] 560 00:37:02,743 --> 00:37:04,276 "Dear Laura... 561 00:37:05,944 --> 00:37:08,542 Your father and I love you so much. 562 00:37:08,576 --> 00:37:10,542 And although I will always cherish 563 00:37:10,576 --> 00:37:12,944 those days when you were little, 564 00:37:12,976 --> 00:37:15,642 I love being able to do adult things with you too... 565 00:37:15,676 --> 00:37:17,709 like getting our nails done 566 00:37:17,743 --> 00:37:21,176 and showing you how to cook my famous baked ziti. 567 00:37:21,210 --> 00:37:27,010 But no matter what, you'll always be my baby girl. 568 00:37:27,043 --> 00:37:29,110 I love you so much." 569 00:37:32,776 --> 00:37:35,876 "Dear Alice, 570 00:37:35,909 --> 00:37:38,641 You're a wonderful daughter and the best church partner 571 00:37:38,675 --> 00:37:42,010 a father could ask for. It's so amazing 572 00:37:42,043 --> 00:37:44,675 to watch you grow into the wholesome young woman 573 00:37:44,708 --> 00:37:48,043 God created you to be. I am so proud of you 574 00:37:48,076 --> 00:37:53,043 for always making good choices. Love you, Al. 575 00:37:53,076 --> 00:37:54,143 Love, Dad." 576 00:37:54,176 --> 00:37:56,110 ♪ 577 00:38:10,583 --> 00:38:13,908 Accept the Third 578 00:38:13,975 --> 00:38:14,908 [Chris] Amen. 579 00:38:14,942 --> 00:38:16,842 [all] Amen. 580 00:38:18,709 --> 00:38:22,242 [sighs] All right. Like myself 581 00:38:22,275 --> 00:38:24,575 and my fellow senior leaders have done, 582 00:38:24,608 --> 00:38:25,975 we are now gonna ask 583 00:38:26,009 --> 00:38:28,908 that you all share your own stories. 584 00:38:28,942 --> 00:38:31,708 Moments when life was difficult, 585 00:38:31,742 --> 00:38:35,275 or hard, or overwhelming. 586 00:38:35,309 --> 00:38:37,674 Times where you felt Jesus was far away. 587 00:38:42,975 --> 00:38:47,241 My girlfriend dumped me last week. 588 00:38:47,274 --> 00:38:49,607 That was really rough. 589 00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,241 I thought everything was going well, 590 00:38:51,274 --> 00:38:53,842 and last week, she had her friend call me 591 00:38:53,875 --> 00:38:55,875 to break up with me for her. 592 00:38:55,908 --> 00:38:57,675 And I'm pretty sure it was a three-way call, 593 00:38:57,708 --> 00:39:02,174 and she was listening, so I acted like it was cool, 594 00:39:02,208 --> 00:39:05,041 but it really sucked. 595 00:39:05,074 --> 00:39:06,507 Thank you, Andrew. 596 00:39:07,341 --> 00:39:09,041 [deep breath] 597 00:39:09,074 --> 00:39:13,607 This is really hard to talk about. 598 00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:17,074 But... 599 00:39:17,108 --> 00:39:19,674 Last month... 600 00:39:22,308 --> 00:39:25,674 my Grandma died. 601 00:39:25,707 --> 00:39:29,674 She lived in Idaho, so I didn't see her that often. 602 00:39:33,008 --> 00:39:35,241 And like, it makes me really sad 603 00:39:35,274 --> 00:39:38,208 that we didn't get to talk much before she died. 604 00:39:38,240 --> 00:39:42,108 The saddest part is... after her funeral, 605 00:39:42,141 --> 00:39:45,240 we went back to her house, 606 00:39:45,273 --> 00:39:48,941 and her dog was there, just looking so sad. 607 00:39:48,974 --> 00:39:50,807 It was, like, walking around the house 608 00:39:50,841 --> 00:39:54,573 looking for her. It had no idea. 609 00:40:05,706 --> 00:40:07,573 OK... 610 00:40:09,240 --> 00:40:10,706 Um... 611 00:40:12,572 --> 00:40:14,240 Well... 612 00:40:16,806 --> 00:40:19,240 Speaking of dogs... 613 00:40:21,107 --> 00:40:25,573 My dog... Gus... 614 00:40:25,606 --> 00:40:28,306 died a few weeks ago. 615 00:40:28,339 --> 00:40:34,239 Um, our neighbors put out some chipmunk poison. 616 00:40:36,740 --> 00:40:41,639 He must have got into it through the chain-link fence. 617 00:40:41,673 --> 00:40:44,606 My family was playing basketball in our driveway, 618 00:40:44,639 --> 00:40:46,906 and the ball went over the fence, 619 00:40:46,939 --> 00:40:49,106 and I went to go get it, 620 00:40:49,139 --> 00:40:53,673 and... that's where I found him... 621 00:40:55,072 --> 00:41:00,006 lying on his side. He wasn't moving. 622 00:41:00,039 --> 00:41:01,972 [crying, sniffling] 623 00:41:22,805 --> 00:41:24,805 - I thought he was just... - [Father Murphy] Excuse me. 624 00:41:24,839 --> 00:41:26,039 All right, can I have your attention, please? 625 00:41:26,072 --> 00:41:28,305 All eyes and ears here. 626 00:41:28,338 --> 00:41:31,006 I'm sorry to report that earlier this morning, 627 00:41:31,039 --> 00:41:32,672 I found something rather disturbing 628 00:41:32,705 --> 00:41:34,939 on my office computer. 629 00:41:34,972 --> 00:41:36,672 It appears that someone has used it 630 00:41:36,705 --> 00:41:40,138 to engage in an online chat of... 631 00:41:40,171 --> 00:41:43,238 well, let's just say an explicit nature. 632 00:41:43,271 --> 00:41:45,805 Would anyone like to take responsibility for this? 633 00:41:45,838 --> 00:41:48,038 [quiet murmuring] 634 00:41:50,572 --> 00:41:53,904 I didn't think so. 635 00:41:53,938 --> 00:41:58,271 Now, I have no way of knowing who did this, 636 00:41:58,305 --> 00:42:03,604 but whoever it was, even if I don't know you did it, 637 00:42:03,637 --> 00:42:07,904 you do, and so does God. 638 00:42:07,938 --> 00:42:10,571 But in keeping with the theme of this retreat, 639 00:42:10,604 --> 00:42:13,604 I hope that whomever did do it feels compelled 640 00:42:13,637 --> 00:42:15,871 by the Spirit of Christ to come forward 641 00:42:15,904 --> 00:42:18,105 before the retreat is through. 642 00:42:19,804 --> 00:42:21,838 [murmuring] 643 00:42:48,970 --> 00:42:51,304 So, Alice, how would you describe 644 00:42:51,337 --> 00:42:53,636 your relationship with Jesus? 645 00:42:53,670 --> 00:42:55,870 - Fine. - Just fine? 646 00:42:58,270 --> 00:43:00,270 Fine, as in good. 647 00:43:00,304 --> 00:43:02,603 Do you think that there might be something getting in the way? 648 00:43:02,636 --> 00:43:04,903 Something that's preventing it from being better? 649 00:43:08,104 --> 00:43:10,137 OK, well, why don't you try reflecting back 650 00:43:10,170 --> 00:43:11,903 on that feelings checklist you filled out 651 00:43:11,937 --> 00:43:14,536 on your first day here. Do any of the emotions 652 00:43:14,570 --> 00:43:17,103 that you circled on there bring anything up? 653 00:43:17,136 --> 00:43:19,269 Um... 654 00:43:21,336 --> 00:43:27,169 I was feeling envious of my best friend 655 00:43:27,203 --> 00:43:30,570 when she got a Bimmer for her birthday, 656 00:43:30,603 --> 00:43:33,536 because I drive a Buick Le Sabre. 657 00:43:33,570 --> 00:43:37,236 Anything else? 658 00:43:37,269 --> 00:43:40,136 She also got Oakley sunglasses for Christmas. 659 00:43:43,236 --> 00:43:45,069 What about feeling turned on? 660 00:43:51,836 --> 00:43:53,836 No temptation has overtaken you 661 00:43:53,869 --> 00:43:56,003 except what is common to mankind. 662 00:43:56,036 --> 00:43:57,602 And God will not let you be tempted 663 00:43:57,635 --> 00:43:59,136 beyond what you can bear, and he knows 664 00:43:59,169 --> 00:44:00,936 what is truly in your heart. 665 00:44:04,169 --> 00:44:05,669 OK. 666 00:44:09,135 --> 00:44:10,869 So, have you ever felt turned on? 667 00:44:15,302 --> 00:44:18,035 And did you take any action when you had that feeling? 668 00:44:20,602 --> 00:44:22,035 You didn't take any action? 669 00:44:24,268 --> 00:44:25,535 No. 670 00:44:29,002 --> 00:44:31,102 Nothing with your classmate Wade? 671 00:44:33,901 --> 00:44:36,701 No. 672 00:44:36,735 --> 00:44:38,268 Someone made that up. 673 00:44:41,336 --> 00:44:43,202 Alice, this retreat isn't gonna do you any favors 674 00:44:43,235 --> 00:44:44,668 if you're not honest. 675 00:44:57,234 --> 00:44:59,701 How's this? 676 00:44:59,735 --> 00:45:03,868 Wow! That one's huge. Way to go, Alice. 677 00:45:07,002 --> 00:45:08,534 Thanks. 678 00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:23,167 [sighs] 679 00:45:23,201 --> 00:45:26,201 And when you turn it on, our plasma rises 680 00:45:26,234 --> 00:45:28,234 out of this little Oak unit. 681 00:45:28,268 --> 00:45:30,534 But when you press off, it sinks back down 682 00:45:30,568 --> 00:45:32,533 and a Rothko takes its place. 683 00:45:32,567 --> 00:45:34,700 Your rec room sounds amazing! 684 00:45:34,734 --> 00:45:36,900 Hey, Nina, that, um... 685 00:45:36,934 --> 00:45:38,834 leader meeting is about to start. 686 00:45:38,867 --> 00:45:41,268 Right, right. I forgot about that. 687 00:45:41,302 --> 00:45:43,600 Thank you. Um, I gotta go. 688 00:45:43,633 --> 00:45:45,667 OK. I'll see you at the campfire. 689 00:45:58,001 --> 00:45:59,200 Hey! 690 00:45:59,234 --> 00:46:00,734 What? 691 00:46:00,767 --> 00:46:03,200 [sighs] 692 00:46:03,234 --> 00:46:05,234 What is your problem with me? 693 00:46:05,267 --> 00:46:08,166 My problem? My problem is that Heather almost dumped me 694 00:46:08,200 --> 00:46:10,100 because of that disgusting rumor you started. 695 00:46:10,133 --> 00:46:11,767 I didn't start it! 696 00:46:11,799 --> 00:46:13,667 Yeah, well, if you didn't, who did? 697 00:46:13,700 --> 00:46:16,200 I don't know! I... 698 00:46:16,234 --> 00:46:17,267 Did you start it? 699 00:46:17,301 --> 00:46:20,600 No! I have a girlfriend. 700 00:46:20,632 --> 00:46:23,733 OK. Well, both you and I know 701 00:46:23,766 --> 00:46:26,733 that nothing happened. 702 00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:30,499 Are you telling people that? 703 00:46:34,733 --> 00:46:36,666 You need to start! Because everyone thinks 704 00:46:36,699 --> 00:46:39,499 that I'm a slut, even the teachers. 705 00:46:41,234 --> 00:46:43,166 Look, you're the only other person 706 00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:44,599 who knows what happened. 707 00:46:44,632 --> 00:46:47,100 And no one believes me! 708 00:46:47,132 --> 00:46:49,266 Hey, Wade! What are you still doing here? 709 00:46:49,300 --> 00:46:51,033 Just on my way out, Father. 710 00:46:51,065 --> 00:46:53,099 OK, good, good. Hey, how's the old shotput arm 711 00:46:53,132 --> 00:46:54,866 - doing in the off season? - [Wade] Good, Father. 712 00:46:54,899 --> 00:46:56,833 Just trying not to do too much heavy lifting. 713 00:46:56,866 --> 00:46:58,233 [chuckles] 714 00:47:16,631 --> 00:47:18,598 [music playing through radio] 715 00:47:36,265 --> 00:47:39,199 ♪ Give me a word Give me a sign ♪ 716 00:47:39,232 --> 00:47:44,732 ♪ Show me where to look Tell me what will I find ♪ 717 00:47:44,765 --> 00:47:46,998 ♪ What will I find? ♪ 718 00:47:48,932 --> 00:47:52,031 ♪ Lay me on the ground Fly me in the sky ♪ 719 00:47:52,064 --> 00:47:57,598 ♪ Show me where to look Tell me what will I find ♪ 720 00:47:57,631 --> 00:47:59,897 ♪ What will I find? ♪ 721 00:48:01,731 --> 00:48:04,299 [music intensifies] 722 00:48:04,332 --> 00:48:05,697 ♪ Yeah ♪ 723 00:48:07,731 --> 00:48:08,931 ♪ Yeah ♪ 724 00:48:11,199 --> 00:48:15,964 ♪ Oh, heaven, let your light shine down ♪ 725 00:48:17,764 --> 00:48:22,530 ♪ Oh, heaven, let your light shine down ♪ 726 00:48:24,232 --> 00:48:29,697 ♪ Oh, heaven, let your light shine down ♪ 727 00:48:29,731 --> 00:48:31,764 - [music lessens in intensity] - ♪ Oh ♪ 728 00:48:31,797 --> 00:48:34,031 [Sister Louise coughs] 729 00:48:34,064 --> 00:48:36,998 I need a cup of tea. 730 00:48:44,764 --> 00:48:46,264 I'm all done. 731 00:48:46,298 --> 00:48:47,863 OK, dear. 732 00:48:47,896 --> 00:48:50,963 [girl] It is the best. 733 00:48:50,997 --> 00:48:52,597 ...and the colorful, like, floral tops. 734 00:48:52,630 --> 00:48:53,597 - The stripes, the stripes! - Hey! 735 00:48:53,630 --> 00:48:54,796 It's so good. 736 00:48:54,830 --> 00:48:56,830 Can I talk to you for a minute? 737 00:48:56,863 --> 00:48:58,231 - Um... - I'll save you a seat. 738 00:48:58,264 --> 00:48:59,830 OK. 739 00:49:02,930 --> 00:49:05,198 What's up? Nina asked me to sit with her, 740 00:49:05,231 --> 00:49:07,198 so I don't want to make her wait. 741 00:49:07,231 --> 00:49:11,796 I saw Nina giving Adam a blow job. 742 00:49:11,830 --> 00:49:13,064 What?! 743 00:49:13,098 --> 00:49:15,131 Yeah. In the woods after lunch. 744 00:49:20,064 --> 00:49:23,098 Why do you think it's OK to keep making things up? 745 00:49:23,131 --> 00:49:24,896 I'm not making this up! 746 00:49:24,930 --> 00:49:26,529 Gabby told me you were talking 747 00:49:26,563 --> 00:49:29,097 about your dog dying in your small group? 748 00:49:29,130 --> 00:49:30,997 - Did Gus die? - [sighs] OK, look. 749 00:49:31,030 --> 00:49:33,663 I just said that because... I didn't know what to do! 750 00:49:33,696 --> 00:49:34,996 I didn't have anything to say, and everyone had 751 00:49:35,030 --> 00:49:36,563 these really sad stories... 752 00:49:36,596 --> 00:49:38,629 [scoffs] God, this is just like 753 00:49:38,663 --> 00:49:40,263 that time in sixth grade when you told everyone 754 00:49:40,297 --> 00:49:41,696 Jason gave you a "purple nurple" 755 00:49:41,730 --> 00:49:43,030 - on the bus. - [scoffs] 756 00:49:43,063 --> 00:49:44,862 You want attention. 757 00:49:44,895 --> 00:49:46,829 - OK... - You know what? 758 00:49:46,862 --> 00:49:48,795 I bet you actually did toss Wade's salad. 759 00:49:48,829 --> 00:49:49,997 I don't even know what that means! 760 00:49:50,030 --> 00:49:51,197 Oh, my God. Quit the act. 761 00:49:51,230 --> 00:49:52,829 I know you know what it means, 762 00:49:52,862 --> 00:49:54,230 just like you know the sex scene in Titanic 763 00:49:54,263 --> 00:49:56,130 comes right after they're in the car. 764 00:50:00,030 --> 00:50:02,729 You were the one in Father's office, weren't you? 765 00:50:02,762 --> 00:50:06,063 What? [scoffs] 766 00:50:06,097 --> 00:50:10,197 It makes perfect sense. 767 00:50:10,230 --> 00:50:14,163 And I am sick of constantly feeling embarrassed 768 00:50:14,197 --> 00:50:17,662 for being friends with a pervy psycho. 769 00:50:29,996 --> 00:50:31,528 [Alice] Ugh. 770 00:50:32,129 --> 00:50:35,229 [gurgling] 771 00:50:36,196 --> 00:50:38,628 Ugh. 772 00:51:05,694 --> 00:51:07,661 [Father Murphy whistling] 773 00:51:40,028 --> 00:51:41,995 [sexy music playing from computer] 774 00:51:55,860 --> 00:51:56,793 [moans] 775 00:51:59,961 --> 00:52:01,894 [car squeaking] 776 00:52:06,095 --> 00:52:07,160 [gasps] 777 00:52:09,028 --> 00:52:10,027 [woman on computer moaning] 778 00:52:10,060 --> 00:52:12,060 [exhales sharply] 779 00:52:15,693 --> 00:52:17,660 [woman on computer moaning] 780 00:52:23,127 --> 00:52:26,660 [sighing] 781 00:52:36,027 --> 00:52:39,060 Alice, hey. 782 00:52:39,094 --> 00:52:41,094 Hey. 783 00:52:41,127 --> 00:52:42,759 Is everything all right? 784 00:52:42,792 --> 00:52:45,625 Uh... 785 00:52:45,659 --> 00:52:46,994 Do you wanna talk? 786 00:52:56,726 --> 00:52:58,226 Is everything OK? 787 00:53:07,226 --> 00:53:08,226 What are you doing? 788 00:53:19,659 --> 00:53:21,059 What are you doing?! 789 00:53:22,892 --> 00:53:24,758 You know that I get turned on like a microwave! 790 00:53:30,093 --> 00:53:34,059 [students] ♪ Let us build the city of God ♪ 791 00:53:34,093 --> 00:53:37,993 ♪ Let our tears be turned into dancing ♪ 792 00:53:38,026 --> 00:53:42,193 ♪ For the Lord, our light and our love ♪ 793 00:53:42,226 --> 00:53:45,826 ♪ Has turned the night into day ♪ 794 00:53:45,859 --> 00:53:50,026 ♪ Let us build the city of God ♪ 795 00:53:50,059 --> 00:53:53,725 ♪ Let our tears be turned into dancing ♪ 796 00:53:53,759 --> 00:53:57,959 ♪ For the Lord, our light and our love ♪ 797 00:53:57,992 --> 00:54:01,591 ♪ Has turned the night into day ♪ 798 00:54:01,624 --> 00:54:05,225 ♪ Let us build the city of God ♪ 799 00:54:09,325 --> 00:54:11,491 ♪ 800 00:55:00,224 --> 00:55:02,157 [music playing] 801 00:55:10,590 --> 00:55:15,991 ♪ I am the drink at the loneliest place in town ♪ 802 00:55:19,857 --> 00:55:22,657 ♪ The place where the heartache and smoke... ♪ 803 00:55:22,690 --> 00:55:26,024 One wine cooler. Please. 804 00:55:28,757 --> 00:55:34,589 ♪ The jukebox is moanin' a sad old country sound ♪ 805 00:55:37,589 --> 00:55:39,857 Thanks. 806 00:55:39,890 --> 00:55:43,589 ♪ At the loneliest place in town ♪ 807 00:55:46,724 --> 00:55:51,056 ♪ It's a place where I feel at home ♪ 808 00:55:51,090 --> 00:55:53,623 ♪ And it's better than bein' alone ♪ 809 00:55:53,657 --> 00:55:56,056 Rough day? 810 00:55:56,090 --> 00:55:59,623 ♪ 'Cause ever since you been gone ♪ 811 00:55:59,657 --> 00:56:01,522 ♪ This is where I belong ♪ 812 00:56:01,556 --> 00:56:04,889 You from that Catholic youth retreat down the road? 813 00:56:04,923 --> 00:56:08,090 No. 814 00:56:08,123 --> 00:56:09,889 I'm 21. 815 00:56:14,223 --> 00:56:18,090 ♪ Cuttin' up, tellin' jokes ♪ 816 00:56:18,123 --> 00:56:20,488 So, what's it like over there? 817 00:56:23,289 --> 00:56:28,889 ♪ You'd never know my whole world's falling down ♪ 818 00:56:31,889 --> 00:56:34,122 ♪ Yeah I'm the life of the party ♪ 819 00:56:34,155 --> 00:56:36,189 ♪ At the loneliest place... ♪ 820 00:56:36,222 --> 00:56:38,689 [Gina] I used to be Catholic. I went to Catholic school 821 00:56:38,723 --> 00:56:42,856 for 12 years. I was baptized, confirmed, 822 00:56:42,888 --> 00:56:46,656 the whole kit 'n caboodle. 823 00:56:46,689 --> 00:56:48,855 [Alice] You're not anymore? 824 00:56:48,888 --> 00:56:52,089 No. 825 00:56:52,122 --> 00:56:54,189 How come? 826 00:56:54,222 --> 00:56:57,888 San Francisco. The '70s. 827 00:56:57,922 --> 00:57:01,521 Sex. Women. Mm. 828 00:57:01,555 --> 00:57:05,855 Lots of reasons. But I remember being your age 829 00:57:05,888 --> 00:57:08,588 and just being scared shitless 830 00:57:08,621 --> 00:57:10,989 that I was gonna wind up in hell. 831 00:57:11,022 --> 00:57:13,520 Really? 832 00:57:13,555 --> 00:57:15,189 - For what? - [Gina] Oh, God. 833 00:57:15,222 --> 00:57:18,888 For everything. Cheating on my homework, 834 00:57:18,922 --> 00:57:23,022 for giving up sugar for Lent and then eating a whole jar 835 00:57:23,055 --> 00:57:27,989 of gumdrops underneath my grandmother's staircase. 836 00:57:28,022 --> 00:57:31,254 I literally thought I was going to hell 837 00:57:31,288 --> 00:57:33,722 for eating gumdrops. 838 00:57:33,755 --> 00:57:35,254 [chuckles] 839 00:57:35,288 --> 00:57:37,854 And that there would be a big red devil there 840 00:57:37,887 --> 00:57:41,555 with a poker, and he'd poke at me. 841 00:57:41,588 --> 00:57:43,188 And my bed would be made out of coals, 842 00:57:43,221 --> 00:57:46,021 and there'd be nothing but peas to eat, 843 00:57:46,054 --> 00:57:48,588 'cause I hate peas. 844 00:57:48,621 --> 00:57:50,221 [sighs] 845 00:58:05,721 --> 00:58:10,188 I thought I was gonna go to hell. 846 00:58:10,221 --> 00:58:15,054 for... rewinding Titanic 847 00:58:15,088 --> 00:58:20,754 back to the sex scene... three times. 848 00:58:22,654 --> 00:58:26,187 You know, I thought I was gonna go to hell 849 00:58:26,220 --> 00:58:27,953 for looking through my dad's 850 00:58:27,987 --> 00:58:30,187 Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition. 851 00:58:30,220 --> 00:58:33,053 I thought I was going to hell for having cybersex! 852 00:58:33,087 --> 00:58:36,820 [both laugh] 853 00:58:36,853 --> 00:58:38,087 [Gina] Yep. 854 00:58:44,586 --> 00:58:48,087 You know, the truth is, nobody knows what they're doing 855 00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:51,120 any more than the rest of us. We're all just trying 856 00:58:51,153 --> 00:58:52,753 to figure out our shit. 857 00:58:52,786 --> 00:58:54,120 [sighs] 858 00:58:58,853 --> 00:59:00,820 But be careful online, OK? 859 00:59:00,853 --> 00:59:03,087 Don't give your password out to anyone, 860 00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:05,120 not even someone who says they work for AOL. 861 00:59:05,153 --> 00:59:08,219 They don't. They just want to give you the Melissa virus. 862 00:59:11,720 --> 00:59:14,519 [Gina sighs] 863 00:59:14,553 --> 00:59:17,286 Now, I got to get you back to that Jesus camp. 864 00:59:17,319 --> 00:59:21,820 I don't want any nuns showing up at my bar looking for ya. 865 00:59:24,252 --> 00:59:28,653 I know. Come on. I'll give you a lift. 866 00:59:39,019 --> 00:59:41,919 [sighs] Mm. 867 00:59:41,952 --> 00:59:44,585 - Thanks. - No problem, kid. 868 00:59:47,986 --> 00:59:52,852 Hey. Have you thought about where you might go to college? 869 00:59:54,685 --> 01:00:00,019 Um... probably State? 870 01:00:00,052 --> 01:00:01,819 Why don't you check out some schools 871 01:00:01,852 --> 01:00:04,852 on the East and West Coasts? 872 01:00:04,885 --> 01:00:07,518 You might like getting outta this town for a bit. 873 01:00:11,985 --> 01:00:13,518 [Alice] Wait! 874 01:00:18,918 --> 01:00:24,685 Do you know what... tossing someone's salad is? 875 01:00:24,718 --> 01:00:26,651 [laughs] 876 01:00:30,584 --> 01:00:33,918 It's means licking someone's butthole. 877 01:00:35,584 --> 01:00:39,251 [both chuckle] 878 01:00:39,285 --> 01:00:40,851 Good luck out there, kid. 879 01:00:43,684 --> 01:00:45,218 [giggling] 880 01:00:45,251 --> 01:00:47,651 [motorcycle cranks, revs] 881 01:01:02,217 --> 01:01:04,150 ♪ 882 01:01:05,583 --> 01:01:09,370 Live the Fourth 883 01:01:14,217 --> 01:01:16,217 [indistinct chatting] 884 01:01:30,150 --> 01:01:33,150 Hey, how's it going? 885 01:01:33,184 --> 01:01:35,084 I really miss my cat. 886 01:01:35,117 --> 01:01:38,117 [chuckles] 887 01:01:38,150 --> 01:01:41,249 Um... what's your cat's name? 888 01:01:43,616 --> 01:01:45,084 Kyoto. 889 01:01:45,117 --> 01:01:48,284 Oh, that's pretty. What does it mean? 890 01:01:48,317 --> 01:01:51,183 It's a city is Japan. I love Japan! 891 01:01:51,216 --> 01:01:52,950 I'm going to go with my mom when I turn 18 892 01:01:52,984 --> 01:01:54,750 as a... a graduation present. 893 01:01:54,783 --> 01:01:56,850 Cool. What are you gonna do there? 894 01:01:56,883 --> 01:01:59,850 Try all the weird Japanese candy and eat a ton of sushi. 895 01:01:59,883 --> 01:02:01,216 I've never had sushi. 896 01:02:01,250 --> 01:02:03,949 Oh, my God! It's so good. 897 01:02:03,983 --> 01:02:08,116 We should go to Taki sometime. They have the best sushi. 898 01:02:08,149 --> 01:02:11,716 - Yeah. - In this city, anyway. 899 01:02:11,749 --> 01:02:13,749 [chuckles] 900 01:02:31,916 --> 01:02:34,582 Hey. 901 01:02:34,615 --> 01:02:35,983 Hey. 902 01:02:38,149 --> 01:02:40,882 So, everyone says that it was Wade 903 01:02:40,916 --> 01:02:44,249 who used Father's computer. 904 01:02:44,283 --> 01:02:45,249 Oh. 905 01:02:45,283 --> 01:02:47,148 Yeah. 906 01:02:47,182 --> 01:02:49,682 Father found his bracelet in his office or something. 907 01:02:49,716 --> 01:02:53,216 Mm. 908 01:02:53,249 --> 01:02:54,915 I'm sorry I thought it was you. 909 01:02:58,048 --> 01:03:00,915 It's OK. 910 01:03:00,948 --> 01:03:03,249 But now that we know he's a perv, 911 01:03:03,283 --> 01:03:05,948 he probably made up that rumor about you guys. 912 01:03:05,982 --> 01:03:10,848 He clearly made it up to hide the fact that he's gay. 913 01:03:10,881 --> 01:03:11,915 What? 914 01:03:11,948 --> 01:03:13,614 Yeah, apparently, 915 01:03:13,648 --> 01:03:17,881 whatever he did on Father's computer was gay. 916 01:03:17,915 --> 01:03:20,249 But... he has a girlfriend. 917 01:03:20,283 --> 01:03:22,781 Yeah. A girlfriend who doesn't even kiss 918 01:03:22,815 --> 01:03:27,216 because she's afraid it'll lead to sex. 919 01:03:27,248 --> 01:03:28,948 The perfect cover-up. 920 01:03:28,982 --> 01:03:29,915 [door opens] 921 01:03:41,881 --> 01:03:43,215 Ew. 922 01:03:51,581 --> 01:03:53,981 We have a mantra here at Kirkos. 923 01:03:54,014 --> 01:03:57,847 Question the First, Weep the Second, 924 01:03:57,880 --> 01:04:01,282 Accept the Third, Live the Fourth. 925 01:04:01,315 --> 01:04:04,847 It refers to the four days of Kirkos. 926 01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:06,747 Now, they're all pretty self-explanatory, 927 01:04:06,780 --> 01:04:09,780 except for that last one: live. 928 01:04:09,814 --> 01:04:12,547 What that means is to take what you have learned 929 01:04:12,580 --> 01:04:15,248 this weekend, what you have discovered about yourself, 930 01:04:15,282 --> 01:04:18,914 and incorporate it into your everyday lives. 931 01:04:18,947 --> 01:04:23,047 To live each day like it is the fourth day of Kirkos. 932 01:04:23,081 --> 01:04:24,914 Now, I'm going to ask that you come up here 933 01:04:24,947 --> 01:04:26,714 and speak about your experiences this weekend 934 01:04:26,747 --> 01:04:29,814 with the whole group. There's no set order. 935 01:04:29,847 --> 01:04:32,513 Just let the Spirit of Christ move you. 936 01:04:53,081 --> 01:04:54,746 I, uh... 937 01:04:57,913 --> 01:05:01,181 I gave in to temptation. 938 01:05:01,214 --> 01:05:05,046 This is not who I am, but I let myself lose control. 939 01:05:05,081 --> 01:05:06,813 This retreat has taught me, though, that, 940 01:05:06,846 --> 01:05:10,679 through the love of my friends, teachers, 941 01:05:10,713 --> 01:05:12,147 and, most importantly, Jesus, 942 01:05:12,181 --> 01:05:15,081 that there is nothing I can't overcome. 943 01:05:41,046 --> 01:05:42,579 [sighs] 944 01:05:51,678 --> 01:05:56,511 Being in high school sucks. 945 01:05:56,545 --> 01:06:00,712 People love to talk, but... 946 01:06:02,745 --> 01:06:09,180 just because you hear something doesn't mean that it's true. 947 01:06:09,212 --> 01:06:15,511 When people spread lies about you, it hurts. 948 01:06:15,545 --> 01:06:20,812 It makes you feel alone... 949 01:06:20,845 --> 01:06:23,678 and empty. 950 01:06:23,712 --> 01:06:29,145 And... sometimes... 951 01:06:29,179 --> 01:06:32,744 you do things that you're not proud of. 952 01:06:35,944 --> 01:06:39,511 But look... 953 01:06:39,545 --> 01:06:43,179 we're all hiding stuff. 954 01:06:43,212 --> 01:06:46,844 All kinds of stuff. What if we just try 955 01:06:46,877 --> 01:06:52,212 to be honest and to treat each other with respect? 956 01:06:52,245 --> 01:06:54,811 That's what Jesus wanted, right? 957 01:06:54,844 --> 01:07:00,012 And then, maybe, we can stop feeling so guilty 958 01:07:00,045 --> 01:07:03,278 about who we are all the time, because the truth is, 959 01:07:03,311 --> 01:07:05,079 we're all just trying to figure out our shit. 960 01:07:05,112 --> 01:07:07,045 [students gasp] 961 01:07:10,178 --> 01:07:11,510 Sorry, um... 962 01:07:21,044 --> 01:07:22,978 ♪ 963 01:07:39,244 --> 01:07:41,211 [inaudible] 964 01:07:50,978 --> 01:07:52,509 Have you ever had sushi? 965 01:07:52,543 --> 01:07:55,277 Sushi? You mean like raw fish? 966 01:07:55,310 --> 01:07:57,210 [chuckles] No. 967 01:07:57,243 --> 01:07:58,843 Who are you gonna go to church with 968 01:07:58,876 --> 01:08:00,776 when I go to college? 969 01:08:00,810 --> 01:08:03,110 College? That's not for two more years. 970 01:08:03,143 --> 01:08:05,010 A year and a half. 971 01:08:05,043 --> 01:08:07,810 [Dad sighs] I don't know. 972 01:08:13,609 --> 01:08:15,077 Maybe I'll start going to the late service again 973 01:08:15,110 --> 01:08:16,643 so your mom will come. 974 01:08:19,177 --> 01:08:24,010 Besides, State's only 40 minutes away. 975 01:08:24,043 --> 01:08:26,476 Just come home on the weekends. 976 01:08:27,842 --> 01:08:29,775 [car cranks] 977 01:08:33,143 --> 01:08:35,077 ♪ 978 01:08:59,575 --> 01:09:00,775 Hey. 979 01:09:05,976 --> 01:09:09,076 - Um... - Hey. 980 01:09:09,109 --> 01:09:11,842 You don't have to be scared of me. 981 01:09:11,875 --> 01:09:14,542 I... I'm not scared of you. 982 01:09:16,009 --> 01:09:17,674 It won't happen again. 983 01:09:20,176 --> 01:09:21,607 Friends? 984 01:09:24,042 --> 01:09:25,209 Friends. 985 01:09:26,875 --> 01:09:29,276 Hug? 986 01:09:29,309 --> 01:09:30,641 Side hug. 987 01:09:30,674 --> 01:09:31,909 [chuckles] 988 01:09:38,308 --> 01:09:41,109 [Alice] Bless me, Father, for I have sinned. 989 01:09:41,142 --> 01:09:43,574 It has been a week since my last confession. 990 01:09:43,607 --> 01:09:46,175 These are my sins. 991 01:09:46,208 --> 01:09:50,574 Talking back to my parents. 992 01:09:50,607 --> 01:09:53,474 Not doing my chores. 993 01:09:59,175 --> 01:10:00,607 Is that it? 994 01:10:07,641 --> 01:10:11,874 No. It's something that happened on the retreat. 995 01:10:13,075 --> 01:10:14,573 OK. 996 01:10:15,908 --> 01:10:17,640 I watched people having sex. 997 01:10:24,874 --> 01:10:26,175 All right. 998 01:10:26,208 --> 01:10:27,908 [Alice] It was a video. 999 01:10:27,941 --> 01:10:32,274 There was a man and a woman. 1000 01:10:32,307 --> 01:10:36,274 And the woman was wearing a hot pink bra. 1001 01:10:36,307 --> 01:10:40,041 They were on the hood of a car. 1002 01:10:40,074 --> 01:10:41,908 With graffiti on it. 1003 01:10:49,240 --> 01:10:52,040 And I did it, 1004 01:10:52,074 --> 01:10:56,673 even though I knew it was a sin. 1005 01:10:56,708 --> 01:10:58,773 Will God still forgive me? 1006 01:11:02,707 --> 01:11:04,639 That's between you and God. 1007 01:11:06,740 --> 01:11:12,740 For penance, fifty Hail Marys and fifty Our Fathers. 1008 01:11:16,807 --> 01:11:18,773 God, the Father of mercies, 1009 01:11:18,807 --> 01:11:20,907 through the death and resurrection of his Son 1010 01:11:20,940 --> 01:11:23,240 has reconciled the world to himself 1011 01:11:23,273 --> 01:11:25,174 and sent the Holy Spirit among us 1012 01:11:25,207 --> 01:11:27,673 for the forgiveness of sins... 1013 01:11:59,173 --> 01:12:01,839 "Where to, miss?" 1014 01:12:01,872 --> 01:12:03,206 "Stars..." 1015 01:12:12,206 --> 01:12:14,206 ♪ 1016 01:12:29,906 --> 01:12:31,839 [vibrating] 1017 01:12:35,305 --> 01:12:36,504 ♪ Give it to me ♪ 1018 01:12:36,538 --> 01:12:38,806 ♪ Ooh, oh ♪ 1019 01:12:38,838 --> 01:12:41,504 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 1020 01:12:41,538 --> 01:12:43,605 ♪ Ooh, oh ♪ 1021 01:12:43,639 --> 01:12:45,172 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 1022 01:12:45,205 --> 01:12:46,205 ♪ Give it to me ♪ 1023 01:12:46,238 --> 01:12:48,205 ♪ Ooh, oh ♪ 1024 01:12:48,238 --> 01:12:51,005 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 1025 01:12:51,038 --> 01:12:52,972 ♪ Ooh, oh ♪ 1026 01:12:53,005 --> 01:12:54,138 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah ♪ 1027 01:12:54,172 --> 01:12:55,272 ♪ Give it to me ♪ 1028 01:12:55,305 --> 01:12:57,172 ♪ I'm so addicted ♪ 1029 01:12:57,205 --> 01:13:01,771 ♪ To the loving that you're feeding to me ♪ 1030 01:13:01,805 --> 01:13:04,938 ♪ Ohh ♪ 1031 01:13:04,972 --> 01:13:07,038 ♪ Can't do without it ♪ 1032 01:13:07,072 --> 01:13:11,038 ♪ This feeling's got me weak in the knees ♪ 1033 01:13:11,072 --> 01:13:14,604 ♪ Ohh, baby, baby ♪ 1034 01:13:14,638 --> 01:13:16,671 ♪ Body's in withdrawal ♪ 1035 01:13:16,705 --> 01:13:20,838 ♪ Every time you take it away ♪ 1036 01:13:20,871 --> 01:13:23,972 ♪ Ohh ♪ 1037 01:13:24,004 --> 01:13:26,137 ♪ Can't you hear me callin' ♪ 1038 01:13:26,171 --> 01:13:30,237 ♪ Beggin' you to come out and play ♪ 1039 01:13:30,271 --> 01:13:31,571 ♪ Aw, yeah ♪ 1040 01:13:31,604 --> 01:13:32,738 ♪ Aw, yeah ♪ 1041 01:13:32,771 --> 01:13:35,104 ♪ So, baby, come to me ♪ 1042 01:13:35,137 --> 01:13:37,571 ♪ Baby, show me who you are ♪ 1043 01:13:37,604 --> 01:13:39,837 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah Sweet to me ♪ 1044 01:13:39,870 --> 01:13:42,104 ♪ Like sugar to my heart ♪ 1045 01:13:42,137 --> 01:13:43,237 ♪ Ooh, baby ♪ 1046 01:13:43,271 --> 01:13:44,271 ♪ I'm craving for you ♪ 1047 01:13:44,304 --> 01:13:45,804 ♪ I'm craving ♪ 1048 01:13:45,837 --> 01:13:50,071 ♪ I'm missing you like candy ♪ 1049 01:13:50,104 --> 01:13:52,737 ♪ Missin' you like candy ♪ 1050 01:13:52,770 --> 01:13:54,770 ♪ Sweet sweet loving ♪ 1051 01:13:54,804 --> 01:13:58,704 ♪ Got me going to the extreme ♪ 1052 01:13:58,737 --> 01:14:02,171 ♪ You gotta know, oh ♪ 1053 01:14:02,204 --> 01:14:04,037 ♪ Won't go without it ♪ 1054 01:14:04,071 --> 01:14:08,570 ♪ This vibe has got a hold on me ♪ 1055 01:14:08,603 --> 01:14:09,770 ♪ Oh, baby ♪ 1056 01:14:09,804 --> 01:14:11,804 ♪ Oh, baby ♪ 1057 01:14:11,837 --> 01:14:13,837 ♪ Satisfying, baby ♪ 1058 01:14:13,870 --> 01:14:17,537 ♪ Let me show you what I'm made of ♪ 1059 01:14:17,570 --> 01:14:21,270 ♪ Made of ♪ 1060 01:14:21,303 --> 01:14:23,170 ♪ No doubt about it, boy ♪ 1061 01:14:23,203 --> 01:14:28,570 ♪ Got me feeling crazy, can't get enough ♪ 1062 01:14:28,603 --> 01:14:30,936 ♪ Baby, baby, baby, won't you ♪ 1063 01:14:30,970 --> 01:14:32,270 ♪ Come to me ♪ 1064 01:14:32,303 --> 01:14:34,803 ♪ Baby, show me who you are ♪ 1065 01:14:34,836 --> 01:14:37,136 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah Sweet to me ?♪ 1066 01:14:37,170 --> 01:14:39,236 ♪ Like sugar to my heart ♪ 1067 01:14:39,270 --> 01:14:40,602 ♪ Ooh, baby ♪ 1068 01:14:40,636 --> 01:14:41,769 ♪ I'm craving for you ♪ 1069 01:14:41,803 --> 01:14:43,103 ♪ I'm craving ♪ 1070 01:14:43,136 --> 01:14:47,203 ♪ I'm missing you like candy ♪ 1071 01:14:47,236 --> 01:14:49,036 ♪ Missin' you like candy ♪ 1072 01:14:49,070 --> 01:14:51,536 ♪ So, baby, come to me ♪ 1073 01:14:51,569 --> 01:14:53,769 ♪ Baby, show me who you are ♪ 1074 01:14:53,803 --> 01:14:56,103 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah Sweet to me ♪ 1075 01:14:56,136 --> 01:14:58,269 ♪ Like sugar to my heart ♪ 1076 01:14:58,302 --> 01:14:59,636 ♪ Ooh, baby ♪ 1077 01:14:59,669 --> 01:15:00,736 ♪ I'm craving for you ♪ 1078 01:15:00,769 --> 01:15:02,070 ♪ I'm craving ♪ 1079 01:15:02,103 --> 01:15:07,936 ♪ I'm missing you like candy ♪ 1080 01:15:07,970 --> 01:15:09,102 ♪ Now, give it to me ♪ 1081 01:15:09,135 --> 01:15:11,135 ♪ You know who you are ♪ 1082 01:15:11,169 --> 01:15:13,736 ♪ Your love is as sweet as candy ♪ 1083 01:15:13,769 --> 01:15:16,035 ♪ I'll be forever yours ♪ 1084 01:15:16,069 --> 01:15:18,636 ♪ Love always, Mandy ♪ 1085 01:15:18,669 --> 01:15:21,502 ♪ Boy, I'm craving ♪ 1086 01:15:21,536 --> 01:15:26,002 ♪ Missing you like candy ♪ 1087 01:15:27,169 --> 01:15:30,169 ♪ So, baby, come to me ♪ 1088 01:15:30,202 --> 01:15:32,969 ♪ Come, come, come to me ♪ 1089 01:15:33,002 --> 01:15:35,269 ♪ Sweet to me ♪ 1090 01:15:35,302 --> 01:15:36,735 ♪ You're so sweet ♪ 1091 01:15:36,768 --> 01:15:37,868 ♪ Ooh, baby ♪ 1092 01:15:37,902 --> 01:15:40,202 ♪ I, I, I, I ♪ 1093 01:15:40,235 --> 01:15:45,069 ♪ I'm missing you like candy ♪ 1094 01:15:45,102 --> 01:15:46,235 ♪ Aw, yeah ♪ 1095 01:15:46,269 --> 01:15:48,768 ♪ So, baby, come to me ♪ 1096 01:15:48,802 --> 01:15:51,002 ♪ Baby, show me who you are ♪ 1097 01:15:51,035 --> 01:15:53,501 ♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah Sweet to me ♪ 1098 01:15:53,535 --> 01:15:55,635 ♪ Like sugar to my heart ♪ 1099 01:15:55,668 --> 01:15:56,802 ♪ Ooh, baby ♪ 1100 01:15:56,835 --> 01:15:58,002 ♪ I'm craving for you ♪ 1101 01:15:58,035 --> 01:15:59,501 ♪ I'm craving ♪ 1102 01:15:59,535 --> 01:16:04,702 ♪ I'm missing you like candy ♪ 1103 01:16:05,102 --> 01:16:06,602 ♪