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>> whitley: The best advice a
comic ever gave me was, "don't
go out and write jokes.

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Comic ever gave me was, "don't
go out and write jokes.
Write your experiences.

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Go out and write jokes.
Write your experiences.
Write what you see.

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Write your experiences.
Write what you see.
Write what you know, and that's

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write what you see.
Write what you know, and that's
what's funny.

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Write what you know, and that's
what's funny.
If it's funny to you, it's gonna

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what's funny.
If it's funny to you, it's gonna
be funny to someone else."

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if it's funny to you, it's gonna
be funny to someone else."
a lot of stand-up comics don't

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be funny to someone else."
a lot of stand-up comics don't
respect me as a stand-up comic.

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A lot of stand-up comics don't
respect me as a stand-up comic.
They say --

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respect me as a stand-up comic.
They say --
and they've said it behind my

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they say --
and they've said it behind my
back, they've said it to my

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and they've said it behind my
back, they've said it to my
face, "you came in the back door

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back, they've said it to my
face, "you came in the back door
of comedy."

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face, "you came in the back door
of comedy."
I said, "what is that?"

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of comedy."
I said, "what is that?"
and the reason they said that

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I said, "what is that?"
and the reason they said that
is because I did not starve and

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and the reason they said that
is because I did not starve and
live in my car and go to the

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is because I did not starve and
live in my car and go to the
clubs every night.

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Live in my car and go to the
clubs every night.
I became an actress first and

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clubs every night.
I became an actress first and
then a stand-up.

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I became an actress first and
then a stand-up.
You know?

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Then a stand-up.
You know?
But I love stand-up, and I feel

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you know?
But I love stand-up, and I feel
like there shouldn't be any

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but I love stand-up, and I feel
like there shouldn't be any
rules.

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Like there shouldn't be any
rules.
There should not be a rule to

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rules.
There should not be a rule to
being a stand-up comic.

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There should not be a rule to
being a stand-up comic.
I feel like you can do it at the

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being a stand-up comic.
I feel like you can do it at the
same time.

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I feel like you can do it at the
same time.
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same time.
♪
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well, here we go, honey.
Buckle up.
Enjoy the ride.

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Buckle up.
Enjoy the ride.
So, okay.

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Enjoy the ride.
So, okay.
So, gerald levert and I grew up

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so, okay.
So, gerald levert and I grew up
in cleveland together.

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So, gerald levert and I grew up
in cleveland together.
He lived down the street from

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in cleveland together.
He lived down the street from
me, so I've known him for a

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he lived down the street from
me, so I've known him for a
very, very long time.

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Me, so I've known him for a
very, very long time.
And, you know, he had his little

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very, very long time.
And, you know, he had his little
group.

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And, you know, he had his little
group.
And I'm gonna say his "little

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group.
And I'm gonna say his "little
group."

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and I'm gonna say his "little
group."
he was just starting off.

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Group."
he was just starting off.
I was like, "ooh, that's cute.

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He was just starting off.
I was like, "ooh, that's cute.
Little levert, y'all cute.

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I was like, "ooh, that's cute.
Little levert, y'all cute.
Little group.

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Little levert, y'all cute.
Little group.
And then, all of a sudden, he

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little group.
And then, all of a sudden, he
had to go to "soul train,"

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and then, all of a sudden, he
had to go to "soul train,"
and I remember asking gerald,

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had to go to "soul train,"
and I remember asking gerald,
I was like, "oh, my god.

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And I remember asking gerald,
I was like, "oh, my god.
I want to go to l.A.

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I was like, "oh, my god.
I want to go to l.A.
I want to be an actress.

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I want to go to l.A.
I want to be an actress.
You know, I'd love to go out

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I want to be an actress.
You know, I'd love to go out
there.

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You know, I'd love to go out
there.
And gerald said, "well, come on

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there.
And gerald said, "well, come on
out to los angeles.

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And gerald said, "well, come on
out to los angeles.
I'll pay your way."

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out to los angeles.
I'll pay your way."
and -- but it gave me the

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I'll pay your way."
and -- but it gave me the
opportunity to come out to

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and -- but it gave me the
opportunity to come out to
los angeles because I don't know

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opportunity to come out to
los angeles because I don't know
if I would have done that on my

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los angeles because I don't know
if I would have done that on my
own.

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If I would have done that on my
own.
I probably would have.

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Own.
I probably would have.
But it was nice that I came out

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I probably would have.
But it was nice that I came out
with someone.

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But it was nice that I came out
with someone.
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with someone.
♪
the thing is, my mother wanted

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♪
the thing is, my mother wanted
me to go to hollywood.

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The thing is, my mother wanted
me to go to hollywood.
But she heard vice is --

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me to go to hollywood.
But she heard vice is --
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but she heard vice is --
[ laughs ]
oh, gosh.

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[ laughs ]
oh, gosh.
I don't know if it helped me or

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oh, gosh.
I don't know if it helped me or
hurt me.

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I don't know if it helped me or
hurt me.
My mother said, "now, when you

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hurt me.
My mother said, "now, when you
go to hollywood, you got to be

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my mother said, "now, when you
go to hollywood, you got to be
afraid.

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Go to hollywood, you got to be
afraid.
There's nothing there but sex,

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afraid.
There's nothing there but sex,
drugs, and rock 'n' roll."

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there's nothing there but sex,
drugs, and rock 'n' roll."
and all I remember is, "sex,

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drugs, and rock 'n' roll."
and all I remember is, "sex,
drugs, and rock 'n' roll."

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and all I remember is, "sex,
drugs, and rock 'n' roll."
everywhere I turned, I was like,

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drugs, and rock 'n' roll."
everywhere I turned, I was like,
"that's sex, drugs, and rock 'n'

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everywhere I turned, I was like,
"that's sex, drugs, and rock 'n'
roll.

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"that's sex, drugs, and rock 'n'
roll.
That's sex, drugs, and rock 'n'

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roll.
That's sex, drugs, and rock 'n'
roll.

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That's sex, drugs, and rock 'n'
roll.
Oh, you are definitely sex,

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roll.
Oh, you are definitely sex,
drugs, and rock 'n' roll.

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Oh, you are definitely sex,
drugs, and rock 'n' roll.
So, I think a lot of that helped

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drugs, and rock 'n' roll.
So, I think a lot of that helped
me, because I was fearful, but

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so, I think a lot of that helped
me, because I was fearful, but
it also stopped me from doing a

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me, because I was fearful, but
it also stopped me from doing a
lot of things that I probably

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it also stopped me from doing a
lot of things that I probably
could've done.

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Lot of things that I probably
could've done.
But my family wasn't that

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could've done.
But my family wasn't that
pleased that I wanted to go into

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but my family wasn't that
pleased that I wanted to go into
entertainment instead of

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pleased that I wanted to go into
entertainment instead of
architecture.

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Entertainment instead of
architecture.
So, my dad was not happy.

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Architecture.
So, my dad was not happy.
He was like, "ain't no black

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so, my dad was not happy.
He was like, "ain't no black
folks on tv.

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He was like, "ain't no black
folks on tv.
How you gonna be on tv?"

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folks on tv.
How you gonna be on tv?"
and I said, "I really want to do

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how you gonna be on tv?"
and I said, "I really want to do
this.

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And I said, "I really want to do
this.
I have it in me.

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This.
I have it in me.
It's a passion."

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I have it in me.
It's a passion."
and my father had -- well, has

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it's a passion."
and my father had -- well, has
an architectural firm called

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and my father had -- well, has
an architectural firm called
whitley/whitley in ohio, and my

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an architectural firm called
whitley/whitley in ohio, and my
brothers worked there, and,

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whitley/whitley in ohio, and my
brothers worked there, and,
you know, had a big staff.

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Brothers worked there, and,
you know, had a big staff.
And I remember walking in.

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You know, had a big staff.
And I remember walking in.
The day I said I'm going to

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and I remember walking in.
The day I said I'm going to
hollywood, I walked in my dad's

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the day I said I'm going to
hollywood, I walked in my dad's
office, and I looked in the

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hollywood, I walked in my dad's
office, and I looked in the
conference room, and they were

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office, and I looked in the
conference room, and they were
all in the conference room, and

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conference room, and they were
all in the conference room, and
they had money on the table, and

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all in the conference room, and
they had money on the table, and
I walked in, and I said, "what

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they had money on the table, and
I walked in, and I said, "what
are y'all doing?"

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I walked in, and I said, "what
are y'all doing?"
and they, you know --

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are y'all doing?"
and they, you know --
you know how the cat looks

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and they, you know --
you know how the cat looks
caught?

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You know how the cat looks
caught?
And I was like, "wait a minute.

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Caught?
And I was like, "wait a minute.
Wait. What's going on?"

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and I was like, "wait a minute.
Wait. What's going on?"
they were all taking a dollar

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wait. What's going on?"
they were all taking a dollar
bet that I would come back from

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they were all taking a dollar
bet that I would come back from
hollywood.

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Bet that I would come back from
hollywood.
I said --

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hollywood.
I said --
first of all, I was mad it was

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I said --
first of all, I was mad it was
just a dollar.

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First of all, I was mad it was
just a dollar.
But then, when I saw dorothy the

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just a dollar.
But then, when I saw dorothy the
secretary come in there with her

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but then, when I saw dorothy the
secretary come in there with her
dollar, she's like, "kym, you'll

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secretary come in there with her
dollar, she's like, "kym, you'll
be back."

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dollar, she's like, "kym, you'll
be back."
and she threw in her dollar.

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Be back."
and she threw in her dollar.
That was the fuel that said,

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and she threw in her dollar.
That was the fuel that said,
"you know what?

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That was the fuel that said,
"you know what?
I gotta make it."

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"you know what?
I gotta make it."
the one thing that really made

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I gotta make it."
the one thing that really made
me successful, I think, is my

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the one thing that really made
me successful, I think, is my
parents said, "you can always

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me successful, I think, is my
parents said, "you can always
come home."

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parents said, "you can always
come home."
and when you have that, you're

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come home."
and when you have that, you're
comfortable.

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And when you have that, you're
comfortable.
You can make it.

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Comfortable.
You can make it.
You're like, "oh, okay.

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You can make it.
You're like, "oh, okay.
I can always come home.

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You're like, "oh, okay.
I can always come home.
I'mma go out there, I'm gonna be

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I can always come home.
I'mma go out there, I'm gonna be
a stripper, and I'll be back."

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I'mma go out there, I'm gonna be
a stripper, and I'll be back."
but, you know, it was fun.

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A stripper, and I'll be back."
but, you know, it was fun.
My dad flew with me and made

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but, you know, it was fun.
My dad flew with me and made
sure I was, uh...Ready and moved

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my dad flew with me and made
sure I was, uh...Ready and moved
in.

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Sure I was, uh...Ready and moved
in.
I moved in with a friend from

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in.
I moved in with a friend from
college, carla robinson, and I

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I moved in with a friend from
college, carla robinson, and I
lived in her back room like

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college, carla robinson, and I
lived in her back room like
cinderella out at her mom's

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lived in her back room like
cinderella out at her mom's
house out in carson, california,

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cinderella out at her mom's
house out in carson, california,
and worked as a schoolteacher in

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house out in carson, california,
and worked as a schoolteacher in
compton.

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And worked as a schoolteacher in
compton.
But, you know, gerald was

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compton.
But, you know, gerald was
excited.

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But, you know, gerald was
excited.
He was on his journey.

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Excited.
He was on his journey.
And while I was here, I, uh --

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he was on his journey.
And while I was here, I, uh --
while gerald was doing his

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and while I was here, I, uh --
while gerald was doing his
thing, I went over to the set of

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while gerald was doing his
thing, I went over to the set of
this show called "227."

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thing, I went over to the set of
this show called "227."
and I was sitting in the

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this show called "227."
and I was sitting in the
audience, and I remember a lady

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and I was sitting in the
audience, and I remember a lady
named simone sheffield.

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Audience, and I remember a lady
named simone sheffield.
At the time, she was

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named simone sheffield.
At the time, she was
stevie wonder's manager.

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At the time, she was
stevie wonder's manager.
I love simone.

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Stevie wonder's manager.
I love simone.
Simone's stood up and said, "I

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I love simone.
Simone's stood up and said, "I
got a question.

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Simone's stood up and said, "I
got a question.
Is this jackée's sister?"

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got a question.
Is this jackée's sister?"
and I was like, "what?

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Is this jackée's sister?"
and I was like, "what?
What is she talking about?"

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and I was like, "what?
What is she talking about?"
the whole audience is like,

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what is she talking about?"
the whole audience is like,
"yeah, we were wondering, we

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the whole audience is like,
"yeah, we were wondering, we
were wondering."

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"yeah, we were wondering, we
were wondering."
and marla gibbs sent a note up

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were wondering."
and marla gibbs sent a note up
and said, "have her come to the

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and marla gibbs sent a note up
and said, "have her come to the
back after the show."

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and said, "have her come to the
back after the show."
and I, uh, went to the back, and

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back after the show."
and I, uh, went to the back, and
marla gibbs, they took my

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and I, uh, went to the back, and
marla gibbs, they took my
information down.

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Marla gibbs, they took my
information down.
And two, three weeks later, they

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information down.
And two, three weeks later, they
called me to come out to be

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and two, three weeks later, they
called me to come out to be
jackée's stand-in.

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Called me to come out to be
jackée's stand-in.
Her double.

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Jackée's stand-in.
Her double.
>> [ laughs ]

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her double.
>> [ laughs ]
I can't believe this.

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>> [ laughs ]
I can't believe this.
It's incredible.

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I can't believe this.
It's incredible.
>> jackée did not like it.

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It's incredible.
>> jackée did not like it.
Let's just go ahead and be

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>> jackée did not like it.
Let's just go ahead and be
honest.

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Let's just go ahead and be
honest.
Jackée did not like me looking

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honest.
Jackée did not like me looking
like her.

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Jackée did not like me looking
like her.
But I can't change my face,

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like her.
But I can't change my face,
jackée!

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But I can't change my face,
jackée!
This is what I got is my face.

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Jackée!
This is what I got is my face.
I look like you, okay?

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This is what I got is my face.
I look like you, okay?
You look like me.

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I look like you, okay?
You look like me.
So, jackée -- I don't know.

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You look like me.
So, jackée -- I don't know.
Back then --

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so, jackée -- I don't know.
Back then --
she's explained it now, but

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back then --
she's explained it now, but
we -- we were having some

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she's explained it now, but
we -- we were having some
problems, and jackée's sister

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we -- we were having some
problems, and jackée's sister
was threatening me, and she was

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problems, and jackée's sister
was threatening me, and she was
gonna kick my butt and all kind

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was threatening me, and she was
gonna kick my butt and all kind
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Gonna kick my butt and all kind
of stuff.
And I was afraid.

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Of stuff.
And I was afraid.
But during the filming of the

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and I was afraid.
But during the filming of the
show, marla gibbs pulled me into

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but during the filming of the
show, marla gibbs pulled me into
a closet on the set.

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Show, marla gibbs pulled me into
a closet on the set.
She said, "you stop taking all

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a closet on the set.
She said, "you stop taking all
this abuse, and you stand up for

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she said, "you stop taking all
this abuse, and you stand up for
yourself."

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this abuse, and you stand up for
yourself."
she said, "I want you to

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yourself."
she said, "I want you to
remember one thing.

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She said, "I want you to
remember one thing.
They cannot finish this show

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remember one thing.
They cannot finish this show
without you."

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they cannot finish this show
without you."
I was afraid, I was new.

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Without you."
I was afraid, I was new.
It was the first thing I'd ever

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I was afraid, I was new.
It was the first thing I'd ever
done, and I probably should have

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it was the first thing I'd ever
done, and I probably should have
listened to marla gibbs, but

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done, and I probably should have
listened to marla gibbs, but
that's why we are friends today.

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Listened to marla gibbs, but
that's why we are friends today.
I love marla gibbs.

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That's why we are friends today.
I love marla gibbs.
♪

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I love marla gibbs.
♪
well, you know, when you're in

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♪
well, you know, when you're in
hollywood, you do a lot of

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well, you know, when you're in
hollywood, you do a lot of
things, you know, before you

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hollywood, you do a lot of
things, you know, before you
make it.

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Things, you know, before you
make it.
I was in an acting class, and I

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make it.
I was in an acting class, and I
became really good friends with

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I was in an acting class, and I
became really good friends with
desi arnez.

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Became really good friends with
desi arnez.
And --

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desi arnez.
And --
not -- not lucy's desi arnez but

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and --
not -- not lucy's desi arnez but
another friend of mine who's

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not -- not lucy's desi arnez but
another friend of mine who's
named after him.

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Another friend of mine who's
named after him.
He's black.

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Named after him.
He's black.
And he had a little boy,

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he's black.
And he had a little boy,
desi arnez jr.

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And he had a little boy,
desi arnez jr.
And he got a role in

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desi arnez jr.
And he got a role in
"harlem nights."

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and he got a role in
"harlem nights."
so, desi, his daddy, couldn't go

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"harlem nights."
so, desi, his daddy, couldn't go
and be the guardian on the set

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so, desi, his daddy, couldn't go
and be the guardian on the set
one day, and he said, "kym, can

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and be the guardian on the set
one day, and he said, "kym, can
you go to the set and watch

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one day, and he said, "kym, can
you go to the set and watch
desi?"

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you go to the set and watch
desi?"
I said, "sure."

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desi?"
I said, "sure."
and I took desi to the set.

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I said, "sure."
and I took desi to the set.
I don't know if you know

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and I took desi to the set.
I don't know if you know
anything about sets, but on

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I don't know if you know
anything about sets, but on
sets, they have all these walls

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anything about sets, but on
sets, they have all these walls
and different things, and I was

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sets, they have all these walls
and different things, and I was
going around the corner, and

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and different things, and I was
going around the corner, and
there was richard pryor,

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going around the corner, and
there was richard pryor,
redd foxx, eddie murphy, and

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there was richard pryor,
redd foxx, eddie murphy, and
reynaldo rey.

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Redd foxx, eddie murphy, and
reynaldo rey.
I come around the corner, I was

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reynaldo rey.
I come around the corner, I was
like, "oh, I'm sorry.

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I come around the corner, I was
like, "oh, I'm sorry.
I was just looking for a place

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like, "oh, I'm sorry.
I was just looking for a place
to sit."

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I was just looking for a place
to sit."
and reynaldo rey says, "heh heh

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to sit."
and reynaldo rey says, "heh heh
heh.

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And reynaldo rey says, "heh heh
heh.
As long as I got a face, you've

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heh.
As long as I got a face, you've
got somewhere to sit."

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as long as I got a face, you've
got somewhere to sit."
I looked at him, and I said,

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got somewhere to sit."
I looked at him, and I said,
"well, as long as you got a face

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I looked at him, and I said,
"well, as long as you got a face
like that, I guess I'll be

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"well, as long as you got a face
like that, I guess I'll be
standin'."

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like that, I guess I'll be
standin'."
oh, my god.

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Standin'."
oh, my god.
Why'd I say that?"

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oh, my god.
Why'd I say that?"
honey, richard pryor, he spit

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why'd I say that?"
honey, richard pryor, he spit
his coffee.

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Honey, richard pryor, he spit
his coffee.
Redd foxx got up, and

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his coffee.
Redd foxx got up, and
eddie murphy was laughing, and I

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redd foxx got up, and
eddie murphy was laughing, and I
was horrified.

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Eddie murphy was laughing, and I
was horrified.
I was like, "oh, my god.

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Was horrified.
I was like, "oh, my god.
What have I done?"

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I was like, "oh, my god.
What have I done?"
I'm like -- 'cause you can see

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what have I done?"
I'm like -- 'cause you can see
reynaldo rey was red, and he was

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I'm like -- 'cause you can see
reynaldo rey was red, and he was
trying to get me back.

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Reynaldo rey was red, and he was
trying to get me back.
And then, richard pryor and all

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trying to get me back.
And then, richard pryor and all
them was laughing and cracking

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and then, richard pryor and all
them was laughing and cracking
on him and going back --

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them was laughing and cracking
on him and going back --
and I was like, "oh, my god,

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on him and going back --
and I was like, "oh, my god,
oh, my god."

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and I was like, "oh, my god,
oh, my god."
and later on that day, redd foxx

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oh, my god."
and later on that day, redd foxx
came up to me, and he said, "are

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and later on that day, redd foxx
came up to me, and he said, "are
you a stand-up comic?"

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came up to me, and he said, "are
you a stand-up comic?"
and I said, "no, I'm not.

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You a stand-up comic?"
and I said, "no, I'm not.
But I've been writing some stuff

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and I said, "no, I'm not.
But I've been writing some stuff
down."

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but I've been writing some stuff
down."
and he said, "get 10 minutes of

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down."
and he said, "get 10 minutes of
material together, and I'll help

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and he said, "get 10 minutes of
material together, and I'll help
you out."

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material together, and I'll help
you out."
let me tell you something about

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you out."
let me tell you something about
stand-up comedy.

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Let me tell you something about
stand-up comedy.
You don't ask someone for

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stand-up comedy.
You don't ask someone for
10 minutes of material.

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You don't ask someone for
10 minutes of material.
That's like a lifetime.

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10 minutes of material.
That's like a lifetime.
That's like an hour to someone

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that's like a lifetime.
That's like an hour to someone
who's never done it.

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That's like an hour to someone
who's never done it.
I was like, "oh, my god, I'm

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who's never done it.
I was like, "oh, my god, I'm
never gonna be able to do this."

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I was like, "oh, my god, I'm
never gonna be able to do this."
but the one thing I kept hearing

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never gonna be able to do this."
but the one thing I kept hearing
in my mind over and over was my

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but the one thing I kept hearing
in my mind over and over was my
mother saying, "sex, drugs, and

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in my mind over and over was my
mother saying, "sex, drugs, and
rock 'n' roll."

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mother saying, "sex, drugs, and
rock 'n' roll."
and I was looking at redd foxx

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rock 'n' roll."
and I was looking at redd foxx
and I was like, "ooh, that sex,

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and I was looking at redd foxx
and I was like, "ooh, that sex,
drugs, and rock 'n' roll, for

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and I was like, "ooh, that sex,
drugs, and rock 'n' roll, for
sure."

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drugs, and rock 'n' roll, for
sure."
and then, when redd foxx died, I

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sure."
and then, when redd foxx died, I
felt like I missed an

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and then, when redd foxx died, I
felt like I missed an
opportunity.

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Felt like I missed an
opportunity.
And I did.

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Opportunity.
And I did.
So the lesson here is, if

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and I did.
So the lesson here is, if
somebody gives you an

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so the lesson here is, if
somebody gives you an
opportunity, take it.

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Somebody gives you an
opportunity, take it.
Don't let fear stand in your

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opportunity, take it.
Don't let fear stand in your
way or sex, drugs, and

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don't let fear stand in your
way or sex, drugs, and
rock 'n' roll.

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>> whitley: Right.
So it was crazy.
Jackée's sister was threatening

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so it was crazy.
Jackée's sister was threatening
me.

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Jackée's sister was threatening
me.
You know, she gonna run me out

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me.
You know, she gonna run me out
of town, whatever, whatever, all

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you know, she gonna run me out
of town, whatever, whatever, all
this stuff.

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Of town, whatever, whatever, all
this stuff.
And, you know, you knew, and I

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this stuff.
And, you know, you knew, and I
was nervous.

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And, you know, you knew, and I
was nervous.
And I happened to go over --

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was nervous.
And I happened to go over --
a guy, it was a cookout or

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and I happened to go over --
a guy, it was a cookout or
something.

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A guy, it was a cookout or
something.
And it was marsha warfield's

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something.
And it was marsha warfield's
sister's house.

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And it was marsha warfield's
sister's house.
And I was telling the story, and

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sister's house.
And I was telling the story, and
I was like, "I don't know what

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and I was telling the story, and
I was like, "I don't know what
to do."

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I was like, "I don't know what
to do."
and all I remember is...

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To do."
and all I remember is...
This angel...Coming out and

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and all I remember is...
This angel...Coming out and
coming up to me and saying,

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this angel...Coming out and
coming up to me and saying,
"no one's gonna hurt you here in

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coming up to me and saying,
"no one's gonna hurt you here in
this town.

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"no one's gonna hurt you here in
this town.
I got you."

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this town.
I got you."
and it was marsha warfield.

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I got you."
and it was marsha warfield.
I stayed in los angeles and

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and it was marsha warfield.
I stayed in los angeles and
pursued my career because of the

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I stayed in los angeles and
pursued my career because of the
words of marsha warfield.

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Pursued my career because of the
words of marsha warfield.
Sometimes you just need to hear

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words of marsha warfield.
Sometimes you just need to hear
somebody say, "I got you."

354
00:10:18,285 --> 00:10:19,584
sometimes you just need to hear
somebody say, "I got you."
and that's what marsha warfield

355
00:10:19,586 --> 00:10:20,085
somebody say, "I got you."
and that's what marsha warfield
did.

356
00:10:20,087 --> 00:10:20,669
And that's what marsha warfield
did.
She was like, "I got you."

357
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♪
>> whitley: My father's an
architect, and they had to build

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>> whitley: My father's an
architect, and they had to build
some schools over in sudan,

359
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architect, and they had to build
some schools over in sudan,
africa.

360
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Some schools over in sudan,
africa.
So, we left cleveland, and we

361
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africa.
So, we left cleveland, and we
went over to sudan.

362
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So, we left cleveland, and we
went over to sudan.
And I was kind of sudanese.

363
00:10:37,671 --> 00:10:38,903
Went over to sudan.
And I was kind of sudanese.
What can I say?

364
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And I was kind of sudanese.
What can I say?
A great experience living in

365
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what can I say?
A great experience living in
africa at such a young age and

366
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a great experience living in
africa at such a young age and
then living in europe and then

367
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africa at such a young age and
then living in europe and then
coming back to the

368
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then living in europe and then
coming back to the
united states.

369
00:10:47,798 --> 00:10:49,547
Coming back to the
united states.
It was so funny, because in

370
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united states.
It was so funny, because in
sudan, it was a british colony,

371
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it was so funny, because in
sudan, it was a british colony,
I guess, you know, and all the

372
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sudan, it was a british colony,
I guess, you know, and all the
people there spoke with a

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I guess, you know, and all the
people there spoke with a
british accent, which was very

374
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people there spoke with a
british accent, which was very
interesting.

375
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British accent, which was very
interesting.
So, I was always, "mummy, mummy,

376
00:11:00,310 --> 00:11:02,394
interesting.
So, I was always, "mummy, mummy,
scotty's such a naughty boy!"

377
00:11:02,396 --> 00:11:03,445
so, I was always, "mummy, mummy,
scotty's such a naughty boy!"
and then, my mother said --

378
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scotty's such a naughty boy!"
and then, my mother said --
I came back to cleveland, three

379
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and then, my mother said --
I came back to cleveland, three
weeks, I was like, "hey, ma, you

380
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I came back to cleveland, three
weeks, I was like, "hey, ma, you
better get him!

381
00:11:07,401 --> 00:11:08,733
Weeks, I was like, "hey, ma, you
better get him!
You better get this fool!"

382
00:11:08,735 --> 00:11:10,735
better get him!
You better get this fool!"
yeah, it -- it didn't last.

383
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You better get this fool!"
yeah, it -- it didn't last.
♪

384
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yeah, it -- it didn't last.
♪
you know, I wasn't the smartest

385
00:11:17,511 --> 00:11:19,644
♪
you know, I wasn't the smartest
student, but I was very clever.

386
00:11:19,646 --> 00:11:20,645
You know, I wasn't the smartest
student, but I was very clever.
Like, I wasn't, like, a

387
00:11:20,647 --> 00:11:21,846
student, but I was very clever.
Like, I wasn't, like, a
straight-a, because I'm

388
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like, I wasn't, like, a
straight-a, because I'm
artistic, so, you know, I was

389
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straight-a, because I'm
artistic, so, you know, I was
very creative.

390
00:11:26,269 --> 00:11:27,769
Artistic, so, you know, I was
very creative.
I hated math.

391
00:11:27,771 --> 00:11:29,354
Very creative.
I hated math.
And since my dad was an

392
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I hated math.
And since my dad was an
architect, I knew that I needed

393
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and since my dad was an
architect, I knew that I needed
math, so I knew that I had

394
00:11:33,226 --> 00:11:35,810
architect, I knew that I needed
math, so I knew that I had
better go into something else.

395
00:11:35,812 --> 00:11:38,596
Math, so I knew that I had
better go into something else.
But, you know, I had a fun

396
00:11:38,598 --> 00:11:40,682
better go into something else.
But, you know, I had a fun
elementary school.

397
00:11:40,684 --> 00:11:42,016
But, you know, I had a fun
elementary school.
Oh, I did get in a fight.

398
00:11:42,018 --> 00:11:43,268
Elementary school.
Oh, I did get in a fight.
Yep, I did fight in elementary

399
00:11:43,270 --> 00:11:43,768
oh, I did get in a fight.
Yep, I did fight in elementary
school.

400
00:11:43,770 --> 00:11:44,436
Yep, I did fight in elementary
school.
I did.

401
00:11:44,438 --> 00:11:45,904
School.
I did.
And then in juni-- yep.

402
00:11:45,906 --> 00:11:47,572
I did.
And then in juni-- yep.
Fought in junior high.

403
00:11:47,574 --> 00:11:48,773
And then in juni-- yep.
Fought in junior high.
Oh, yeah, high school, I had a

404
00:11:48,775 --> 00:11:49,574
fought in junior high.
Oh, yeah, high school, I had a
fight, too.

405
00:11:49,576 --> 00:11:51,576
Oh, yeah, high school, I had a
fight, too.
So, okay, I had a couple fights.

406
00:11:51,578 --> 00:11:52,994
Fight, too.
So, okay, I had a couple fights.
But I grew up with boys, so I

407
00:11:52,996 --> 00:11:54,195
so, okay, I had a couple fights.
But I grew up with boys, so I
was a like a tomboy.

408
00:11:54,197 --> 00:11:55,613
But I grew up with boys, so I
was a like a tomboy.
And then, we moved to shaker.

409
00:11:55,615 --> 00:11:56,614
Was a like a tomboy.
And then, we moved to shaker.
You know, that was like

410
00:11:56,616 --> 00:11:57,449
and then, we moved to shaker.
You know, that was like
"the jeffersons."

411
00:11:57,451 --> 00:11:58,750
you know, that was like
"the jeffersons."
we moved to the other side of

412
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"the jeffersons."
we moved to the other side of
the tracks, and, uh...

413
00:12:01,121 --> 00:12:02,187
We moved to the other side of
the tracks, and, uh...
That was interesting, 'cause it

414
00:12:02,189 --> 00:12:04,155
the tracks, and, uh...
That was interesting, 'cause it
was all white people, so that

415
00:12:04,157 --> 00:12:04,789
that was interesting, 'cause it
was all white people, so that
was --

416
00:12:04,791 --> 00:12:06,791
was all white people, so that
was --
and we were the black family,

417
00:12:06,793 --> 00:12:08,159
was --
and we were the black family,
and, you know, my parents, we

418
00:12:08,161 --> 00:12:09,327
and we were the black family,
and, you know, my parents, we
got hate mail.

419
00:12:09,329 --> 00:12:10,495
And, you know, my parents, we
got hate mail.
And then, my mama looked white,

420
00:12:10,497 --> 00:12:11,629
got hate mail.
And then, my mama looked white,
so that was a whole nother thing

421
00:12:11,631 --> 00:12:12,247
and then, my mama looked white,
so that was a whole nother thing
of problems.

422
00:12:12,249 --> 00:12:13,548
So that was a whole nother thing
of problems.
And the police would stop at our

423
00:12:13,550 --> 00:12:14,749
of problems.
And the police would stop at our
house 'cause they thought my

424
00:12:14,751 --> 00:12:16,000
and the police would stop at our
house 'cause they thought my
brothers were breaking in, but

425
00:12:16,002 --> 00:12:17,001
house 'cause they thought my
brothers were breaking in, but
they really lived there.

426
00:12:17,003 --> 00:12:18,636
Brothers were breaking in, but
they really lived there.
I guess it was a mess, but it

427
00:12:18,638 --> 00:12:23,241
they really lived there.
I guess it was a mess, but it
was actually fun.

428
00:12:23,243 --> 00:12:25,009
I guess it was a mess, but it
was actually fun.
I had the opportunity to go to

429
00:12:25,011 --> 00:12:28,313
was actually fun.
I had the opportunity to go to
fisk university, hbcu, which

430
00:12:28,315 --> 00:12:30,048
I had the opportunity to go to
fisk university, hbcu, which
actually was a wonderful

431
00:12:30,050 --> 00:12:30,949
fisk university, hbcu, which
actually was a wonderful
decision.

432
00:12:30,951 --> 00:12:32,083
Actually was a wonderful
decision.
First, I didn't want to go

433
00:12:32,085 --> 00:12:33,418
decision.
First, I didn't want to go
because I was like, "ooh, it's a

434
00:12:33,420 --> 00:12:34,085
first, I didn't want to go
because I was like, "ooh, it's a
black school.

435
00:12:34,087 --> 00:12:35,920
Because I was like, "ooh, it's a
black school.
I won't go to a black school."

436
00:12:35,922 --> 00:12:37,839
black school.
I won't go to a black school."
I'm so glad my parents were

437
00:12:37,841 --> 00:12:39,958
I won't go to a black school."
I'm so glad my parents were
smart, because fisk university

438
00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:43,661
I'm so glad my parents were
smart, because fisk university
changed my life.

439
00:12:43,663 --> 00:12:45,263
Smart, because fisk university
changed my life.
While I was at fisk university,

440
00:12:45,265 --> 00:12:48,333
changed my life.
While I was at fisk university,
I got interested in theater, but

441
00:12:48,335 --> 00:12:49,768
while I was at fisk university,
I got interested in theater, but
I wasn't a great reader.

442
00:12:49,770 --> 00:12:51,269
I got interested in theater, but
I wasn't a great reader.
That was kind of crazy.

443
00:12:51,271 --> 00:12:52,937
I wasn't a great reader.
That was kind of crazy.
And I remember dr. Ford, I

444
00:12:52,939 --> 00:12:54,839
that was kind of crazy.
And I remember dr. Ford, I
auditioned for a play, and she

445
00:12:54,841 --> 00:12:57,142
and I remember dr. Ford, I
auditioned for a play, and she
was like, "baby, you gonna have

446
00:12:57,144 --> 00:12:59,010
auditioned for a play, and she
was like, "baby, you gonna have
to get those reading skills up."

447
00:12:59,012 --> 00:13:00,078
was like, "baby, you gonna have
to get those reading skills up."
and I was like, "oh, is that

448
00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:01,079
to get those reading skills up."
and I was like, "oh, is that
important?"

449
00:13:01,081 --> 00:13:02,981
and I was like, "oh, is that
important?"
and, um...

450
00:13:02,983 --> 00:13:05,750
Important?"
and, um...
I did a one-woman show,

451
00:13:05,752 --> 00:13:08,486
and, um...
I did a one-woman show,
and that was my first and last

452
00:13:08,488 --> 00:13:10,772
I did a one-woman show,
and that was my first and last
experience with stage fright.

453
00:13:10,774 --> 00:13:12,407
And that was my first and last
experience with stage fright.
I thought that you could learn a

454
00:13:12,409 --> 00:13:13,992
experience with stage fright.
I thought that you could learn a
play in, like, one night, so I

455
00:13:13,994 --> 00:13:15,827
I thought that you could learn a
play in, like, one night, so I
started to memorize this play,

456
00:13:15,829 --> 00:13:17,445
play in, like, one night, so I
started to memorize this play,
and I went in front of the

457
00:13:17,447 --> 00:13:19,397
started to memorize this play,
and I went in front of the
student body, I was like, "I got

458
00:13:19,399 --> 00:13:19,998
and I went in front of the
student body, I was like, "I got
this."

459
00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:21,699
student body, I was like, "I got
this."
but I hadn't realized, usually

460
00:13:21,701 --> 00:13:23,368
this."
but I hadn't realized, usually
when you perform, all the lights

461
00:13:23,370 --> 00:13:25,036
but I hadn't realized, usually
when you perform, all the lights
are off in the theater.

462
00:13:25,038 --> 00:13:26,070
When you perform, all the lights
are off in the theater.
The only light that's on is on

463
00:13:26,072 --> 00:13:26,838
are off in the theater.
The only light that's on is on
the stage.

464
00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:28,239
The only light that's on is on
the stage.
Well, the lights were up in the

465
00:13:28,241 --> 00:13:29,057
the stage.
Well, the lights were up in the
whole place.

466
00:13:29,059 --> 00:13:30,809
Well, the lights were up in the
whole place.
Well, that's not good, 'cause I

467
00:13:30,811 --> 00:13:32,544
whole place.
Well, that's not good, 'cause I
can see to the back of the room.

468
00:13:32,546 --> 00:13:34,279
Well, that's not good, 'cause I
can see to the back of the room.
I saw my friends in the front,

469
00:13:34,281 --> 00:13:35,980
can see to the back of the room.
I saw my friends in the front,
my boyfriend, and I was like,

470
00:13:35,982 --> 00:13:36,815
I saw my friends in the front,
my boyfriend, and I was like,
"okay."

471
00:13:36,817 --> 00:13:38,483
my boyfriend, and I was like,
"okay."
I got ready to say my little

472
00:13:38,485 --> 00:13:39,984
"okay."
I got ready to say my little
lines, my knees buckled,

473
00:13:39,986 --> 00:13:41,486
I got ready to say my little
lines, my knees buckled,
I passed out.

474
00:13:41,488 --> 00:13:43,204
Lines, my knees buckled,
I passed out.
But I had to finish the show.

475
00:13:43,206 --> 00:13:45,623
I passed out.
But I had to finish the show.
So I remember asking tweety --

476
00:13:45,625 --> 00:13:46,791
but I had to finish the show.
So I remember asking tweety --
I was like, "tweety, you gonna

477
00:13:46,793 --> 00:13:48,860
so I remember asking tweety --
I was like, "tweety, you gonna
have to get under the table and

478
00:13:48,862 --> 00:13:51,262
I was like, "tweety, you gonna
have to get under the table and
take the play with you and throw

479
00:13:51,264 --> 00:13:52,130
have to get under the table and
take the play with you and throw
me my lines.

480
00:13:52,132 --> 00:13:53,348
Take the play with you and throw
me my lines.
I'm too scared."

481
00:13:53,350 --> 00:13:55,133
me my lines.
I'm too scared."
so, we brought the table out,

482
00:13:55,135 --> 00:13:56,851
I'm too scared."
so, we brought the table out,
and, tweety was under it, and

483
00:13:56,853 --> 00:13:57,969
so, we brought the table out,
and, tweety was under it, and
she was crawling.

484
00:13:57,971 --> 00:13:59,470
And, tweety was under it, and
she was crawling.
She crawled under the table with

485
00:13:59,472 --> 00:14:00,605
she was crawling.
She crawled under the table with
it as we brought it out.

486
00:14:00,607 --> 00:14:01,606
She crawled under the table with
it as we brought it out.
So I was like, "okay.

487
00:14:01,608 --> 00:14:02,223
It as we brought it out.
So I was like, "okay.
You there?"

488
00:14:02,225 --> 00:14:03,558
so I was like, "okay.
You there?"
and I finished the show, but she

489
00:14:03,560 --> 00:14:04,776
you there?"
and I finished the show, but she
was under there, yelling the

490
00:14:04,778 --> 00:14:06,644
and I finished the show, but she
was under there, yelling the
lines, the wrong lines.

491
00:14:06,646 --> 00:14:07,529
Was under there, yelling the
lines, the wrong lines.
Oh, my god.

492
00:14:07,531 --> 00:14:09,981
Lines, the wrong lines.
Oh, my god.
It took me years to get over

493
00:14:09,983 --> 00:14:10,732
oh, my god.
It took me years to get over
that.

494
00:14:10,734 --> 00:14:12,800
It took me years to get over
that.
But I really fell in love at

495
00:14:12,802 --> 00:14:14,385
that.
But I really fell in love at
fisk university.

496
00:14:14,387 --> 00:14:19,123
But I really fell in love at
fisk university.
♪

497
00:14:19,125 --> 00:14:20,358
fisk university.
♪
well, okay, okay.

498
00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:22,093
♪
well, okay, okay.
After I was a schoolteacher, you

499
00:14:22,095 --> 00:14:23,828
well, okay, okay.
After I was a schoolteacher, you
know, I would look for jobs here

500
00:14:23,830 --> 00:14:25,496
after I was a schoolteacher, you
know, I would look for jobs here
and there, and I really wanted

501
00:14:25,498 --> 00:14:26,998
know, I would look for jobs here
and there, and I really wanted
to get in the business, and

502
00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:29,100
and there, and I really wanted
to get in the business, and
arsenio hall was looking for an

503
00:14:29,102 --> 00:14:29,968
to get in the business, and
arsenio hall was looking for an
assistant.

504
00:14:29,970 --> 00:14:32,570
Arsenio hall was looking for an
assistant.
And I got a chance to be

505
00:14:32,572 --> 00:14:34,806
assistant.
And I got a chance to be
arsenio hall's assistant.

506
00:14:34,808 --> 00:14:36,808
And I got a chance to be
arsenio hall's assistant.
And it was great for a little

507
00:14:36,810 --> 00:14:37,609
arsenio hall's assistant.
And it was great for a little
while.

508
00:14:37,611 --> 00:14:40,078
And it was great for a little
while.
And arsenio did the

509
00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:41,279
while.
And arsenio did the
mtv music awards, or one of

510
00:14:41,281 --> 00:14:43,831
and arsenio did the
mtv music awards, or one of
those award shows, and I dropped

511
00:14:43,833 --> 00:14:45,567
mtv music awards, or one of
those award shows, and I dropped
him off at the after party in

512
00:14:45,569 --> 00:14:46,534
those award shows, and I dropped
him off at the after party in
the limo.

513
00:14:46,536 --> 00:14:47,919
Him off at the after party in
the limo.
And I said, "you know what I

514
00:14:47,921 --> 00:14:48,920
the limo.
And I said, "you know what I
always do, arsenio.

515
00:14:48,922 --> 00:14:50,255
And I said, "you know what I
always do, arsenio.
I'mma go back and check on your

516
00:14:50,257 --> 00:14:51,789
always do, arsenio.
I'mma go back and check on your
dressing room, make sure you

517
00:14:51,791 --> 00:14:53,324
I'mma go back and check on your
dressing room, make sure you
didn't leave anything."

518
00:14:53,326 --> 00:14:55,376
dressing room, make sure you
didn't leave anything."
well...

519
00:14:55,378 --> 00:14:56,828
Didn't leave anything."
well...
I said, "I'm gonna just take a

520
00:14:56,830 --> 00:14:58,379
well...
I said, "I'm gonna just take a
little ride in the limo," 'cause

521
00:14:58,381 --> 00:15:00,331
I said, "I'm gonna just take a
little ride in the limo," 'cause
I hadn't been in limos.

522
00:15:00,333 --> 00:15:01,716
Little ride in the limo," 'cause
I hadn't been in limos.
So I was riding around in the

523
00:15:01,718 --> 00:15:03,134
I hadn't been in limos.
So I was riding around in the
limo, waving out the window to

524
00:15:03,136 --> 00:15:03,635
so I was riding around in the
limo, waving out the window to
people.

525
00:15:03,637 --> 00:15:04,852
Limo, waving out the window to
people.
And the limo driver was letting

526
00:15:04,854 --> 00:15:05,670
people.
And the limo driver was letting
me do it.

527
00:15:05,672 --> 00:15:06,671
And the limo driver was letting
me do it.
I was like, "let's go back.

528
00:15:06,673 --> 00:15:07,672
Me do it.
I was like, "let's go back.
We'll check the dressing room."

529
00:15:07,674 --> 00:15:09,057
I was like, "let's go back.
We'll check the dressing room."
it was fine.

530
00:15:09,059 --> 00:15:10,341
We'll check the dressing room."
it was fine.
Let me tell you something.

531
00:15:10,343 --> 00:15:11,843
It was fine.
Let me tell you something.
Arsenio was sitting at the after

532
00:15:11,845 --> 00:15:14,896
let me tell you something.
Arsenio was sitting at the after
party, outside, steaming.

533
00:15:14,898 --> 00:15:16,064
Arsenio was sitting at the after
party, outside, steaming.
What happened was, he had gone

534
00:15:16,066 --> 00:15:17,231
party, outside, steaming.
What happened was, he had gone
to the after party, you know,

535
00:15:17,233 --> 00:15:18,316
what happened was, he had gone
to the after party, you know,
said his hellos, and then he

536
00:15:18,318 --> 00:15:19,400
to the after party, you know,
said his hellos, and then he
left.

537
00:15:19,402 --> 00:15:20,568
Said his hellos, and then he
left.
He was outside waiting on that

538
00:15:20,570 --> 00:15:20,902
left.
He was outside waiting on that
limo.

539
00:15:20,904 --> 00:15:21,986
He was outside waiting on that
limo.
Let me tell you something, I

540
00:15:21,988 --> 00:15:22,870
limo.
Let me tell you something, I
came up with a story.

541
00:15:22,872 --> 00:15:24,689
Let me tell you something, I
came up with a story.
I told him our car was stolen, I

542
00:15:24,691 --> 00:15:25,490
came up with a story.
I told him our car was stolen, I
got beat up.

543
00:15:25,492 --> 00:15:27,208
I told him our car was stolen, I
got beat up.
I told him all kind of things.

544
00:15:27,210 --> 00:15:28,326
Got beat up.
I told him all kind of things.
Then he pulled me in the office,

545
00:15:28,328 --> 00:15:29,744
I told him all kind of things.
Then he pulled me in the office,
and then he fired me.

546
00:15:29,746 --> 00:15:31,613
Then he pulled me in the office,
and then he fired me.
But I wasn't out here to be

547
00:15:31,615 --> 00:15:33,364
and then he fired me.
But I wasn't out here to be
arsenio hall's assistant.

548
00:15:33,366 --> 00:15:35,450
But I wasn't out here to be
arsenio hall's assistant.
I was out here to be a comedian

549
00:15:35,452 --> 00:15:36,534
arsenio hall's assistant.
I was out here to be a comedian
and an actress.

550
00:15:36,536 --> 00:15:38,620
I was out here to be a comedian
and an actress.
And I did that, so it was always

551
00:15:38,622 --> 00:15:40,622
and an actress.
And I did that, so it was always
good to go back and say, "ha ha,

552
00:15:40,624 --> 00:15:41,372
and I did that, so it was always
good to go back and say, "ha ha,
ha ha!

553
00:15:41,374 --> 00:15:42,573
Good to go back and say, "ha ha,
ha ha!
You fired me!"

554
00:15:42,575 --> 00:15:44,826
ha ha!
You fired me!"
it made me a better person.

555
00:15:44,828 --> 00:15:47,946
You fired me!"
it made me a better person.
♪

556
00:15:47,948 --> 00:15:49,514
it made me a better person.
♪
oh, my gosh.

557
00:15:49,516 --> 00:15:51,449
♪
oh, my gosh.
I finally got a job in

558
00:15:51,451 --> 00:15:53,785
oh, my gosh.
I finally got a job in
hollywood, a paying job, and

559
00:15:53,787 --> 00:15:55,903
I finally got a job in
hollywood, a paying job, and
that first gig was

560
00:15:55,905 --> 00:15:57,872
hollywood, a paying job, and
that first gig was
"angels of the city," a movie

561
00:15:57,874 --> 00:15:59,574
that first gig was
"angels of the city," a movie
produced and directed by

562
00:15:59,576 --> 00:16:01,159
"angels of the city," a movie
produced and directed by
lawrence hilton-jacobs.

563
00:16:01,161 --> 00:16:02,327
Produced and directed by
lawrence hilton-jacobs.
Y'all remember him from

564
00:16:02,329 --> 00:16:03,077
lawrence hilton-jacobs.
Y'all remember him from
"cooley high"?

565
00:16:03,079 --> 00:16:04,245
Y'all remember him from
"cooley high"?
He still look the same.

566
00:16:04,247 --> 00:16:07,465
"cooley high"?
He still look the same.
And I got to play a prostitute.

567
00:16:07,467 --> 00:16:09,050
He still look the same.
And I got to play a prostitute.
So, that was my humble

568
00:16:09,052 --> 00:16:10,001
and I got to play a prostitute.
So, that was my humble
beginnings.

569
00:16:10,003 --> 00:16:11,569
So, that was my humble
beginnings.
And so now I'm starting to get

570
00:16:11,571 --> 00:16:12,937
beginnings.
And so now I'm starting to get
television roles like -- y'all

571
00:16:12,939 --> 00:16:14,238
and so now I'm starting to get
television roles like -- y'all
probably don't even remember.

572
00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:15,306
Television roles like -- y'all
probably don't even remember.
I was on a show called

573
00:16:15,308 --> 00:16:16,274
probably don't even remember.
I was on a show called
"vinnie & bobby."

574
00:16:16,276 --> 00:16:17,742
I was on a show called
"vinnie & bobby."
matt leblanc was on this show,

575
00:16:17,744 --> 00:16:19,310
"vinnie & bobby."
matt leblanc was on this show,
so I still feel like I'm friends

576
00:16:19,312 --> 00:16:20,912
matt leblanc was on this show,
so I still feel like I'm friends
with him for some weird reason.

577
00:16:20,914 --> 00:16:23,231
So I still feel like I'm friends
with him for some weird reason.
But my cousin, calvin brown, was

578
00:16:23,233 --> 00:16:25,316
with him for some weird reason.
But my cousin, calvin brown, was
a writer on that show, and if

579
00:16:25,318 --> 00:16:27,402
but my cousin, calvin brown, was
a writer on that show, and if
you think about nepotism and how

580
00:16:27,404 --> 00:16:29,153
a writer on that show, and if
you think about nepotism and how
my career really started, you

581
00:16:29,155 --> 00:16:30,888
you think about nepotism and how
my career really started, you
know, once you get one, you'll

582
00:16:30,890 --> 00:16:31,773
my career really started, you
know, once you get one, you'll
get another.

583
00:16:31,775 --> 00:16:33,524
Know, once you get one, you'll
get another.
And I remember going over to

584
00:16:33,526 --> 00:16:35,226
get another.
And I remember going over to
"martin."

585
00:16:35,228 --> 00:16:36,611
and I remember going over to
"martin."
martin lawrence had a show, and

586
00:16:36,613 --> 00:16:38,029
"martin."
martin lawrence had a show, and
I had a friend, jacque edmonds,

587
00:16:38,031 --> 00:16:38,646
martin lawrence had a show, and
I had a friend, jacque edmonds,
at the time.

588
00:16:38,648 --> 00:16:39,464
I had a friend, jacque edmonds,
at the time.
She was a writer.

589
00:16:39,466 --> 00:16:40,665
At the time.
She was a writer.
You know, my daddy was like,

590
00:16:40,667 --> 00:16:42,166
she was a writer.
You know, my daddy was like,
"make sure you see, you know,

591
00:16:42,168 --> 00:16:43,835
you know, my daddy was like,
"make sure you see, you know,
the edmonds girl when you get to

592
00:16:43,837 --> 00:16:45,403
"make sure you see, you know,
the edmonds girl when you get to
l.A. And look her up."

593
00:16:45,405 --> 00:16:46,437
the edmonds girl when you get to
l.A. And look her up."
and I looked her up, she was

594
00:16:46,439 --> 00:16:47,305
l.A. And look her up."
and I looked her up, she was
like, "come over.

595
00:16:47,307 --> 00:16:48,306
And I looked her up, she was
like, "come over.
You can audition," and I

596
00:16:48,308 --> 00:16:49,307
like, "come over.
You can audition," and I
auditioned for a part.

597
00:16:49,309 --> 00:16:51,743
You can audition," and I
auditioned for a part.
And I guess they wanted me to

598
00:16:51,745 --> 00:16:52,610
auditioned for a part.
And I guess they wanted me to
win.

599
00:16:52,612 --> 00:16:53,945
And I guess they wanted me to
win.
And I remember bentley evans, in

600
00:16:53,947 --> 00:16:55,196
win.
And I remember bentley evans, in
the middle of the audition, he

601
00:16:55,198 --> 00:16:56,280
and I remember bentley evans, in
the middle of the audition, he
was like, "cut! Cut!

602
00:16:56,282 --> 00:16:57,198
The middle of the audition, he
was like, "cut! Cut!
Hold up."

603
00:16:57,200 --> 00:16:59,851
was like, "cut! Cut!
Hold up."
he takes me outside, and bentley

604
00:16:59,853 --> 00:17:01,152
hold up."
he takes me outside, and bentley
gets in my face.

605
00:17:01,154 --> 00:17:02,186
He takes me outside, and bentley
gets in my face.
He was like, "what's wrong with

606
00:17:02,188 --> 00:17:02,653
gets in my face.
He was like, "what's wrong with
you?

607
00:17:02,655 --> 00:17:03,938
He was like, "what's wrong with
you?
What are you in there doing?"

608
00:17:03,940 --> 00:17:05,206
you?
What are you in there doing?"
he said, "you come back in

609
00:17:05,208 --> 00:17:06,591
what are you in there doing?"
he said, "you come back in
there, and you give me what I

610
00:17:06,593 --> 00:17:08,626
he said, "you come back in
there, and you give me what I
know you got!"

611
00:17:08,628 --> 00:17:10,044
there, and you give me what I
know you got!"
now, I'm wanting to really,

612
00:17:10,046 --> 00:17:11,512
know you got!"
now, I'm wanting to really,
literally use the bathroom on

613
00:17:11,514 --> 00:17:12,346
now, I'm wanting to really,
literally use the bathroom on
myself.

614
00:17:12,348 --> 00:17:16,050
Literally use the bathroom on
myself.
And I go back in, and I do it,

615
00:17:16,052 --> 00:17:17,885
myself.
And I go back in, and I do it,
and I get the part -- boom --

616
00:17:17,887 --> 00:17:18,936
and I go back in, and I do it,
and I get the part -- boom --
on the "martin" show.

617
00:17:18,938 --> 00:17:19,937
And I get the part -- boom --
on the "martin" show.
Then I went and did

618
00:17:19,939 --> 00:17:20,955
on the "martin" show.
Then I went and did
"my brother and me."

619
00:17:20,957 --> 00:17:21,989
then I went and did
"my brother and me."
that was the first

620
00:17:21,991 --> 00:17:23,408
"my brother and me."
that was the first
african-american sitcom on

621
00:17:23,410 --> 00:17:24,375
that was the first
african-american sitcom on
nickelodeon.

622
00:17:24,377 --> 00:17:25,710
African-american sitcom on
nickelodeon.
And, of course, my cousin,

623
00:17:25,712 --> 00:17:27,245
nickelodeon.
And, of course, my cousin,
calvin brown, was the writer on

624
00:17:27,247 --> 00:17:27,678
and, of course, my cousin,
calvin brown, was the writer on
that.

625
00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:29,680
Calvin brown, was the writer on
that.
Like, I -- I have talent.

626
00:17:29,682 --> 00:17:30,715
That.
Like, I -- I have talent.
So, those were my humble

627
00:17:30,717 --> 00:17:31,282
like, I -- I have talent.
So, those were my humble
beginnings.

628
00:17:31,284 --> 00:17:32,450
So, those were my humble
beginnings.
But I always felt like I was

629
00:17:32,452 --> 00:17:33,718
beginnings.
But I always felt like I was
already there and I was already

630
00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:34,969
but I always felt like I was
already there and I was already
a star.

631
00:17:34,971 --> 00:17:35,353
Already there and I was already
a star.
But I wasn't.

632
00:17:40,759 --> 00:17:43,594
>> whitley: I didn't have an
agent.
You know, getting an agent in

633
00:17:43,596 --> 00:17:45,046
agent.
You know, getting an agent in
this town is difficult.

634
00:17:45,048 --> 00:17:47,014
You know, getting an agent in
this town is difficult.
But one thing I was good at was

635
00:17:47,016 --> 00:17:48,850
this town is difficult.
But one thing I was good at was
networking, and I would go to

636
00:17:48,852 --> 00:17:51,219
but one thing I was good at was
networking, and I would go to
parties, and I would talk to all

637
00:17:51,221 --> 00:17:52,353
networking, and I would go to
parties, and I would talk to all
the casting directors.

638
00:17:52,355 --> 00:17:55,239
Parties, and I would talk to all
the casting directors.
And I remember going up to a

639
00:17:55,241 --> 00:17:57,442
the casting directors.
And I remember going up to a
party with robi reed, and she

640
00:17:57,444 --> 00:17:59,577
and I remember going up to a
party with robi reed, and she
said she was casting this new

641
00:17:59,579 --> 00:18:01,412
party with robi reed, and she
said she was casting this new
show called "sparks."

642
00:18:01,414 --> 00:18:03,047
said she was casting this new
show called "sparks."
and I said, "you know, I don't

643
00:18:03,049 --> 00:18:04,949
show called "sparks."
and I said, "you know, I don't
have an agent, robi, but, you

644
00:18:04,951 --> 00:18:06,367
and I said, "you know, I don't
have an agent, robi, but, you
know, I'm really funny.

645
00:18:06,369 --> 00:18:07,168
Have an agent, robi, but, you
know, I'm really funny.
Give me a chance."

646
00:18:07,170 --> 00:18:08,286
know, I'm really funny.
Give me a chance."
and she had seen me a couple

647
00:18:08,288 --> 00:18:09,370
give me a chance."
and she had seen me a couple
times at parties, and she's

648
00:18:09,372 --> 00:18:11,122
and she had seen me a couple
times at parties, and she's
like, "okay. Come on in."

649
00:18:11,124 --> 00:18:15,059
times at parties, and she's
like, "okay. Come on in."
I went in for robi reed, and I

650
00:18:15,061 --> 00:18:16,160
like, "okay. Come on in."
I went in for robi reed, and I
obviously did well.

651
00:18:16,162 --> 00:18:19,297
I went in for robi reed, and I
obviously did well.
And I'll be honest with you --

652
00:18:19,299 --> 00:18:20,465
obviously did well.
And I'll be honest with you --
I got to the end, and I did not

653
00:18:20,467 --> 00:18:22,266
and I'll be honest with you --
I got to the end, and I did not
get the part.

654
00:18:22,268 --> 00:18:23,785
I got to the end, and I did not
get the part.
But ed weinberger, who did

655
00:18:23,787 --> 00:18:25,536
get the part.
But ed weinberger, who did
"taxi," et cetera, "amen," all

656
00:18:25,538 --> 00:18:27,038
but ed weinberger, who did
"taxi," et cetera, "amen," all
these shows, he was executive

657
00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:28,706
"taxi," et cetera, "amen," all
these shows, he was executive
producer, and he told me to come

658
00:18:28,708 --> 00:18:29,574
these shows, he was executive
producer, and he told me to come
back.

659
00:18:29,576 --> 00:18:31,292
Producer, and he told me to come
back.
Well, at that time, I had worn,

660
00:18:31,294 --> 00:18:32,960
back.
Well, at that time, I had worn,
like, a bunch of clothes and a

661
00:18:32,962 --> 00:18:35,296
well, at that time, I had worn,
like, a bunch of clothes and a
fat suit, and I went in regular.

662
00:18:35,298 --> 00:18:36,330
Like, a bunch of clothes and a
fat suit, and I went in regular.
I had a little tube top on and

663
00:18:36,332 --> 00:18:37,248
fat suit, and I went in regular.
I had a little tube top on and
some overalls, and he was

664
00:18:37,250 --> 00:18:38,132
I had a little tube top on and
some overalls, and he was
like... [ gasps ]

665
00:18:38,134 --> 00:18:39,484
some overalls, and he was
like... [ gasps ]
he was like, "what --

666
00:18:39,486 --> 00:18:40,751
like... [ gasps ]
he was like, "what --
you're not the girl.

667
00:18:40,753 --> 00:18:41,803
He was like, "what --
you're not the girl.
W-who are you?"

668
00:18:41,805 --> 00:18:43,688
you're not the girl.
W-who are you?"
I told him, I said, "oh, I, you

669
00:18:43,690 --> 00:18:45,573
w-who are you?"
I told him, I said, "oh, I, you
know, wore some padding for the

670
00:18:45,575 --> 00:18:46,607
I told him, I said, "oh, I, you
know, wore some padding for the
part," and he was like, "well,

671
00:18:46,609 --> 00:18:47,992
know, wore some padding for the
part," and he was like, "well,
you were very good.

672
00:18:47,994 --> 00:18:49,193
Part," and he was like, "well,
you were very good.
Come back in."

673
00:18:49,195 --> 00:18:50,945
you were very good.
Come back in."
and, "you got the part."

674
00:18:50,947 --> 00:18:52,964
come back in."
and, "you got the part."
I had a parking spot with my

675
00:18:52,966 --> 00:18:53,931
and, "you got the part."
I had a parking spot with my
name on it.

676
00:18:53,933 --> 00:18:55,032
I had a parking spot with my
name on it.
Ha ha!

677
00:18:55,034 --> 00:18:57,718
Name on it.
Ha ha!
It said, "kym whitley," boom.

678
00:18:57,720 --> 00:18:59,470
Ha ha!
It said, "kym whitley," boom.
Rode in every day to work.

679
00:18:59,472 --> 00:19:02,874
It said, "kym whitley," boom.
Rode in every day to work.
♪

680
00:19:02,876 --> 00:19:05,576
rode in every day to work.
♪
back then, there was upn and wb,

681
00:19:05,578 --> 00:19:07,278
♪
back then, there was upn and wb,
which was fantastic.

682
00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:08,646
Back then, there was upn and wb,
which was fantastic.
This is when the black people

683
00:19:08,648 --> 00:19:09,814
which was fantastic.
This is when the black people
were hitting the scene.

684
00:19:09,816 --> 00:19:11,666
This is when the black people
were hitting the scene.
You got to see yourself on tv.

685
00:19:11,668 --> 00:19:13,668
Were hitting the scene.
You got to see yourself on tv.
This was when we were exploding,

686
00:19:13,670 --> 00:19:17,405
you got to see yourself on tv.
This was when we were exploding,
and without upn, I mean, we had

687
00:19:17,407 --> 00:19:20,024
this was when we were exploding,
and without upn, I mean, we had
"good news," we had "sparks."

688
00:19:20,026 --> 00:19:21,909
and without upn, I mean, we had
"good news," we had "sparks."
you know, some good shows back

689
00:19:21,911 --> 00:19:23,778
"good news," we had "sparks."
you know, some good shows back
in the day, and I'm definitely

690
00:19:23,780 --> 00:19:25,329
you know, some good shows back
in the day, and I'm definitely
thankful for those networks.

691
00:19:25,331 --> 00:19:27,615
In the day, and I'm definitely
thankful for those networks.
They -- they went away, but they

692
00:19:27,617 --> 00:19:29,867
thankful for those networks.
They -- they went away, but they
were definitely instrumental.

693
00:19:29,869 --> 00:19:32,620
They -- they went away, but they
were definitely instrumental.
♪

694
00:19:32,622 --> 00:19:33,704
were definitely instrumental.
♪
ha!

695
00:19:33,706 --> 00:19:35,506
♪
ha!
I love the wayans family!

696
00:19:35,508 --> 00:19:37,542
Ha!
I love the wayans family!
And when I got a chance to do

697
00:19:37,544 --> 00:19:38,543
I love the wayans family!
And when I got a chance to do
"the wayans bros." --

698
00:19:38,545 --> 00:19:39,877
and when I got a chance to do
"the wayans bros." --
well, first of all --

699
00:19:39,879 --> 00:19:41,295
"the wayans bros." --
well, first of all --
hoo! I'm telling y'all all my

700
00:19:41,297 --> 00:19:41,996
well, first of all --
hoo! I'm telling y'all all my
business.

701
00:19:41,998 --> 00:19:42,747
Hoo! I'm telling y'all all my
business.
First of all, doing

702
00:19:42,749 --> 00:19:43,881
business.
First of all, doing
"the wayans bros.", let me tell

703
00:19:43,883 --> 00:19:44,999
first of all, doing
"the wayans bros.", let me tell
you, they wouldn't give me that

704
00:19:45,001 --> 00:19:45,917
"the wayans bros.", let me tell
you, they wouldn't give me that
part.

705
00:19:45,919 --> 00:19:47,084
You, they wouldn't give me that
part.
Leah daniels -- I love her.

706
00:19:47,086 --> 00:19:47,802
Part.
Leah daniels -- I love her.
She's a friend.

707
00:19:47,804 --> 00:19:49,053
Leah daniels -- I love her.
She's a friend.
But leah was casting, and she

708
00:19:49,055 --> 00:19:50,221
she's a friend.
But leah was casting, and she
was like, "kym, you can't come

709
00:19:50,223 --> 00:19:50,621
but leah was casting, and she
was like, "kym, you can't come
in.

710
00:19:50,623 --> 00:19:51,923
Was like, "kym, you can't come
in.
You not coming in."

711
00:19:51,925 --> 00:19:52,840
in.
You not coming in."
and that was the thing.

712
00:19:52,842 --> 00:19:53,925
You not coming in."
and that was the thing.
When you don't have an agent,

713
00:19:53,927 --> 00:19:55,059
and that was the thing.
When you don't have an agent,
you're just struggling, you're

714
00:19:55,061 --> 00:19:56,060
when you don't have an agent,
you're just struggling, you're
trying to -- I was hungry.

715
00:19:56,062 --> 00:19:56,761
You're just struggling, you're
trying to -- I was hungry.
I was send faxes.

716
00:19:56,763 --> 00:19:57,929
Trying to -- I was hungry.
I was send faxes.
That's back in the day you have

717
00:19:57,931 --> 00:19:59,096
I was send faxes.
That's back in the day you have
a fax, you just keep sending the

718
00:19:59,098 --> 00:20:00,264
that's back in the day you have
a fax, you just keep sending the
fax, talking about, "let me in,

719
00:20:00,266 --> 00:20:00,765
a fax, you just keep sending the
fax, talking about, "let me in,
let me in.

720
00:20:00,767 --> 00:20:01,816
Fax, talking about, "let me in,
let me in.
Please, girl."

721
00:20:01,818 --> 00:20:02,934
let me in.
Please, girl."
you know, and calling and,

722
00:20:02,936 --> 00:20:03,568
please, girl."
you know, and calling and,
"just let me.

723
00:20:03,570 --> 00:20:04,569
You know, and calling and,
"just let me.
I want to do this role."

724
00:20:04,571 --> 00:20:05,987
"just let me.
I want to do this role."
she'd say, "kym, you're not --

725
00:20:05,989 --> 00:20:07,521
I want to do this role."
she'd say, "kym, you're not --
you're not right for this role."

726
00:20:07,523 --> 00:20:08,689
she'd say, "kym, you're not --
you're not right for this role."
and then, finally, she just got

727
00:20:08,691 --> 00:20:09,190
you're not right for this role."
and then, finally, she just got
sick of me.

728
00:20:09,192 --> 00:20:10,274
And then, finally, she just got
sick of me.
She said, "okay, kym, just

729
00:20:10,276 --> 00:20:10,942
sick of me.
She said, "okay, kym, just
come on in."

730
00:20:10,944 --> 00:20:12,109
she said, "okay, kym, just
come on in."
well, she didn't know I was

731
00:20:12,111 --> 00:20:13,361
come on in."
well, she didn't know I was
ready.

732
00:20:13,363 --> 00:20:15,863
Well, she didn't know I was
ready.
And I went in, and I -- and I

733
00:20:15,865 --> 00:20:18,783
ready.
And I went in, and I -- and I
did some really crazy, amazing

734
00:20:18,785 --> 00:20:19,951
and I went in, and I -- and I
did some really crazy, amazing
things in the audition.

735
00:20:19,953 --> 00:20:21,535
Did some really crazy, amazing
things in the audition.
And she was like, "oh, you're a

736
00:20:21,537 --> 00:20:22,870
things in the audition.
And she was like, "oh, you're a
fool," and I got the part.

737
00:20:22,872 --> 00:20:25,172
And she was like, "oh, you're a
fool," and I got the part.
So, I'm on "the wayans bros."

738
00:20:25,174 --> 00:20:26,958
fool," and I got the part.
So, I'm on "the wayans bros."
and all of a sudden, you know,

739
00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:28,759
so, I'm on "the wayans bros."
and all of a sudden, you know,
he had on these red sweatpants,

740
00:20:28,761 --> 00:20:30,511
and all of a sudden, you know,
he had on these red sweatpants,
and I thought he was trying to

741
00:20:30,513 --> 00:20:31,762
he had on these red sweatpants,
and I thought he was trying to
be funny 'cause he's a fool.

742
00:20:31,764 --> 00:20:33,180
And I thought he was trying to
be funny 'cause he's a fool.
And I kept looking, I said,

743
00:20:33,182 --> 00:20:34,932
be funny 'cause he's a fool.
And I kept looking, I said,
"this boy done put a little bat

744
00:20:34,934 --> 00:20:36,601
and I kept looking, I said,
"this boy done put a little bat
in his shorts, in his red

745
00:20:36,603 --> 00:20:37,435
"this boy done put a little bat
in his shorts, in his red
sweatpants."

746
00:20:37,437 --> 00:20:38,636
in his shorts, in his red
sweatpants."
and I was like -- kept looking

747
00:20:38,638 --> 00:20:39,553
sweatpants."
and I was like -- kept looking
at him, I was laughing.

748
00:20:39,555 --> 00:20:40,771
And I was like -- kept looking
at him, I was laughing.
I was like, "stop being silly.

749
00:20:40,773 --> 00:20:42,640
At him, I was laughing.
I was like, "stop being silly.
Boy, you crazy. Stop --

750
00:20:42,642 --> 00:20:44,308
I was like, "stop being silly.
Boy, you crazy. Stop --
y'all -- y'all see this?

751
00:20:44,310 --> 00:20:45,142
Boy, you crazy. Stop --
y'all -- y'all see this?
He's so silly."

752
00:20:45,144 --> 00:20:46,193
y'all -- y'all see this?
He's so silly."
and all of a sudden, wasn't

753
00:20:46,195 --> 00:20:46,777
he's so silly."
and all of a sudden, wasn't
nobody laughing.

754
00:20:46,779 --> 00:20:48,980
And all of a sudden, wasn't
nobody laughing.
I was like -- [ stammering ]

755
00:20:48,982 --> 00:20:50,114
nobody laughing.
I was like -- [ stammering ]
they're like, over the speaker

756
00:20:50,116 --> 00:20:51,249
I was like -- [ stammering ]
they're like, over the speaker
thing, they're like, "oh, she's

757
00:20:51,251 --> 00:20:52,250
they're like, over the speaker
thing, they're like, "oh, she's
seen it."

758
00:20:52,252 --> 00:20:53,918
thing, they're like, "oh, she's
seen it."
I was like, "seen it?"

759
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:55,453
seen it."
I was like, "seen it?"
I was like, "that's real?"

760
00:20:55,455 --> 00:20:57,121
I was like, "seen it?"
I was like, "that's real?"
first of all, you need to put a

761
00:20:57,123 --> 00:20:58,723
I was like, "that's real?"
first of all, you need to put a
rope on that thing and tie it

762
00:20:58,725 --> 00:21:01,459
first of all, you need to put a
rope on that thing and tie it
up, whatever that is."

763
00:21:01,461 --> 00:21:03,127
rope on that thing and tie it
up, whatever that is."
and then, for the whole week, I

764
00:21:03,129 --> 00:21:04,729
up, whatever that is."
and then, for the whole week, I
was distracted, and they were

765
00:21:04,731 --> 00:21:06,264
and then, for the whole week, I
was distracted, and they were
like, "he has a reputation in

766
00:21:06,266 --> 00:21:06,981
was distracted, and they were
like, "he has a reputation in
hollywood.

767
00:21:06,983 --> 00:21:08,816
Like, "he has a reputation in
hollywood.
He just is blessed.

768
00:21:08,818 --> 00:21:09,984
Hollywood.
He just is blessed.
He's blessed."

769
00:21:09,986 --> 00:21:12,436
he just is blessed.
He's blessed."
and it's burned into my brain.

770
00:21:12,438 --> 00:21:13,604
He's blessed."
and it's burned into my brain.
That marlon, he thinks I'm

771
00:21:13,606 --> 00:21:14,272
and it's burned into my brain.
That marlon, he thinks I'm
stalking him.

772
00:21:14,274 --> 00:21:15,873
That marlon, he thinks I'm
stalking him.
I don't stalk him.

773
00:21:15,875 --> 00:21:17,041
Stalking him.
I don't stalk him.
Marlon wayans is blessed.

774
00:21:17,043 --> 00:21:17,742
I don't stalk him.
Marlon wayans is blessed.
He's blessed.

775
00:21:17,744 --> 00:21:18,826
Marlon wayans is blessed.
He's blessed.
But if you get a chance, call

776
00:21:18,828 --> 00:21:19,827
he's blessed.
But if you get a chance, call
me.

777
00:21:19,829 --> 00:21:21,829
But if you get a chance, call
me.
[ laughs ]

778
00:21:21,831 --> 00:21:25,516
me.
[ laughs ]
♪

779
00:21:25,518 --> 00:21:30,838
[ laughs ]
♪
I ran into mr. Gatson at bet.

780
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,424
♪
I ran into mr. Gatson at bet.
And they were looking for a

781
00:21:33,426 --> 00:21:35,593
I ran into mr. Gatson at bet.
And they were looking for a
magazine show, and I remember

782
00:21:35,595 --> 00:21:37,428
and they were looking for a
magazine show, and I remember
talking to him about --

783
00:21:37,430 --> 00:21:39,263
magazine show, and I remember
talking to him about --
I said, "well, why don't we do a

784
00:21:39,265 --> 00:21:40,598
talking to him about --
I said, "well, why don't we do a
show with all women?"

785
00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,334
I said, "well, why don't we do a
show with all women?"
and they named it "oh drama!",

786
00:21:43,336 --> 00:21:44,201
show with all women?"
and they named it "oh drama!",
and --

787
00:21:44,203 --> 00:21:45,236
and they named it "oh drama!",
and --
'cause I wouldn't have named it

788
00:21:45,238 --> 00:21:45,703
and --
'cause I wouldn't have named it
"oh drama!"

789
00:21:45,705 --> 00:21:46,704
'cause I wouldn't have named it
"oh drama!"
I don't know what I would've

790
00:21:46,706 --> 00:21:48,472
"oh drama!"
I don't know what I would've
named it, but...

791
00:21:48,474 --> 00:21:49,840
I don't know what I would've
named it, but...
And, you know, the rest is

792
00:21:49,842 --> 00:21:50,875
named it, but...
And, you know, the rest is
history.

793
00:21:50,877 --> 00:21:52,710
And, you know, the rest is
history.
It was me,

794
00:21:52,712 --> 00:21:54,378
history.
It was me,
vanessa bell calloway, and

795
00:21:54,380 --> 00:21:56,797
it was me,
vanessa bell calloway, and
mari morrow, the very beginning

796
00:21:56,799 --> 00:21:58,516
vanessa bell calloway, and
mari morrow, the very beginning
of it, and I said, "I only want

797
00:21:58,518 --> 00:22:00,051
mari morrow, the very beginning
of it, and I said, "I only want
to do something that I can have

798
00:22:00,053 --> 00:22:02,136
of it, and I said, "I only want
to do something that I can have
creative control."

799
00:22:02,138 --> 00:22:03,888
to do something that I can have
creative control."
and I wanted something that

800
00:22:03,890 --> 00:22:05,723
creative control."
and I wanted something that
would be on television that no

801
00:22:05,725 --> 00:22:07,942
and I wanted something that
would be on television that no
one had ever done.

802
00:22:07,944 --> 00:22:09,393
Would be on television that no
one had ever done.
And I said, "if we're gonna do

803
00:22:09,395 --> 00:22:11,278
one had ever done.
And I said, "if we're gonna do
something, let it be edgy.

804
00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:12,697
And I said, "if we're gonna do
something, let it be edgy.
You know, let's put things on tv

805
00:22:12,699 --> 00:22:13,798
something, let it be edgy.
You know, let's put things on tv
that people haven't seen

806
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:15,333
you know, let's put things on tv
that people haven't seen
before and give, especially

807
00:22:15,335 --> 00:22:16,934
that people haven't seen
before and give, especially
black people, a place to talk

808
00:22:16,936 --> 00:22:18,703
before and give, especially
black people, a place to talk
about whatever they want to talk

809
00:22:18,705 --> 00:22:20,371
black people, a place to talk
about whatever they want to talk
about."

810
00:22:20,373 --> 00:22:22,440
about whatever they want to talk
about."
and if I can get people to

811
00:22:22,442 --> 00:22:24,809
about."
and if I can get people to
laugh, I can get them to learn.

812
00:22:24,811 --> 00:22:26,394
And if I can get people to
laugh, I can get them to learn.
So that was the biggest thing.

813
00:22:26,396 --> 00:22:27,812
Laugh, I can get them to learn.
So that was the biggest thing.
If I can catch them, then

814
00:22:27,814 --> 00:22:29,480
so that was the biggest thing.
If I can catch them, then
they'll watch the show and learn

815
00:22:29,482 --> 00:22:30,815
if I can catch them, then
they'll watch the show and learn
something.

816
00:22:30,817 --> 00:22:34,952
They'll watch the show and learn
something.
♪

817
00:22:34,954 --> 00:22:35,703
something.
♪
okay.

818
00:22:35,705 --> 00:22:37,855
♪
okay.
So, let me just say this.

819
00:22:37,857 --> 00:22:39,423
Okay.
So, let me just say this.
Having a talk show, all kind of

820
00:22:39,425 --> 00:22:40,891
so, let me just say this.
Having a talk show, all kind of
things happen.

821
00:22:40,893 --> 00:22:43,477
Having a talk show, all kind of
things happen.
You know, I got a tape with a

822
00:22:43,479 --> 00:22:45,646
things happen.
You know, I got a tape with a
young lady that was with

823
00:22:45,648 --> 00:22:46,864
you know, I got a tape with a
young lady that was with
r. Kelly at the time.

824
00:22:46,866 --> 00:22:48,366
Young lady that was with
r. Kelly at the time.
She was of age, but she had

825
00:22:48,368 --> 00:22:50,067
r. Kelly at the time.
She was of age, but she had
presented herself as a virgin to

826
00:22:50,069 --> 00:22:51,068
she was of age, but she had
presented herself as a virgin to
her husband.

827
00:22:51,070 --> 00:22:52,219
Presented herself as a virgin to
her husband.
So I think that was, like, the

828
00:22:52,221 --> 00:22:55,673
her husband.
So I think that was, like, the
big problem that, um...

829
00:22:55,675 --> 00:22:57,641
So I think that was, like, the
big problem that, um...
She didn't want him to know that

830
00:22:57,643 --> 00:22:59,510
big problem that, um...
She didn't want him to know that
she wasn't a virgin, or she was

831
00:22:59,512 --> 00:23:01,345
she didn't want him to know that
she wasn't a virgin, or she was
about to marry him or something

832
00:23:01,347 --> 00:23:02,229
she wasn't a virgin, or she was
about to marry him or something
like that.

833
00:23:02,231 --> 00:23:05,066
About to marry him or something
like that.
So I thought I was doing her a

834
00:23:05,068 --> 00:23:07,985
like that.
So I thought I was doing her a
favor by letting her know I had

835
00:23:07,987 --> 00:23:09,987
so I thought I was doing her a
favor by letting her know I had
this so-called tape.

836
00:23:09,989 --> 00:23:11,272
Favor by letting her know I had
this so-called tape.
You know, "I don't know what you

837
00:23:11,274 --> 00:23:12,740
this so-called tape.
You know, "I don't know what you
want to do about it."

838
00:23:12,742 --> 00:23:14,024
you know, "I don't know what you
want to do about it."
well, there was another

839
00:23:14,026 --> 00:23:15,526
want to do about it."
well, there was another
publicist lady.

840
00:23:15,528 --> 00:23:19,730
Well, there was another
publicist lady.
She -- [ laughs ]

841
00:23:19,732 --> 00:23:21,148
publicist lady.
She -- [ laughs ]
she told the girl that, you

842
00:23:21,150 --> 00:23:22,650
she -- [ laughs ]
she told the girl that, you
know --

843
00:23:22,652 --> 00:23:23,868
she told the girl that, you
know --
she was like, "she probably is

844
00:23:23,870 --> 00:23:25,035
know --
she was like, "she probably is
trying to extort money," and

845
00:23:25,037 --> 00:23:26,153
she was like, "she probably is
trying to extort money," and
blah blah blah, whatever the

846
00:23:26,155 --> 00:23:28,489
trying to extort money," and
blah blah blah, whatever the
case is, without telling all my

847
00:23:28,491 --> 00:23:29,707
blah blah blah, whatever the
case is, without telling all my
business and what have you.

848
00:23:29,709 --> 00:23:31,041
Case is, without telling all my
business and what have you.
Because that was a very hurtful

849
00:23:31,043 --> 00:23:34,078
business and what have you.
Because that was a very hurtful
time in my life...

850
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,630
Because that was a very hurtful
time in my life...
That the fbi started following

851
00:23:36,632 --> 00:23:40,084
time in my life...
That the fbi started following
me, because, uh, this person

852
00:23:40,086 --> 00:23:42,920
that the fbi started following
me, because, uh, this person
felt like I was trying to extort

853
00:23:42,922 --> 00:23:44,088
me, because, uh, this person
felt like I was trying to extort
her.

854
00:23:44,090 --> 00:23:46,323
Felt like I was trying to extort
her.
I -- that word is way too big,

855
00:23:46,325 --> 00:23:47,575
her.
I -- that word is way too big,
and if you know kym whitley, you

856
00:23:47,577 --> 00:23:48,993
I -- that word is way too big,
and if you know kym whitley, you
know kym whitley ain't extorting

857
00:23:48,995 --> 00:23:50,194
and if you know kym whitley, you
know kym whitley ain't extorting
anybody, okay?

858
00:23:50,196 --> 00:23:51,745
Know kym whitley ain't extorting
anybody, okay?
I know the lord, and the lord

859
00:23:51,747 --> 00:23:53,364
anybody, okay?
I know the lord, and the lord
knows me.

860
00:23:53,366 --> 00:23:56,100
I know the lord, and the lord
knows me.
But it -- it turned into bad.

861
00:23:56,102 --> 00:23:57,902
Knows me.
But it -- it turned into bad.
The fbi was following me.

862
00:23:57,904 --> 00:24:00,638
But it -- it turned into bad.
The fbi was following me.
I was up for a big job, and I

863
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:01,972
the fbi was following me.
I was up for a big job, and I
was out for the audition for

864
00:24:01,974 --> 00:24:03,557
I was up for a big job, and I
was out for the audition for
like the fourth audition,

865
00:24:03,559 --> 00:24:05,392
was out for the audition for
like the fourth audition,
and, um, they called me when I

866
00:24:05,394 --> 00:24:07,278
like the fourth audition,
and, um, they called me when I
was on the way to the audition

867
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:09,113
and, um, they called me when I
was on the way to the audition
and, you know, said, "this can

868
00:24:09,115 --> 00:24:10,948
was on the way to the audition
and, you know, said, "this can
happen, and that can happen if

869
00:24:10,950 --> 00:24:12,533
and, you know, said, "this can
happen, and that can happen if
you have this tape in your

870
00:24:12,535 --> 00:24:13,651
happen, and that can happen if
you have this tape in your
possession."

871
00:24:13,653 --> 00:24:15,986
you have this tape in your
possession."
and I got to the audition, and I

872
00:24:15,988 --> 00:24:17,488
possession."
and I got to the audition, and I
fell out on the floor.

873
00:24:17,490 --> 00:24:19,790
And I got to the audition, and I
fell out on the floor.
And I cried, and I lost that

874
00:24:19,792 --> 00:24:20,791
fell out on the floor.
And I cried, and I lost that
gig.

875
00:24:20,793 --> 00:24:26,230
And I cried, and I lost that
gig.
So, um...You know...

876
00:24:26,232 --> 00:24:27,298
Gig.
So, um...You know...
You know, it hurt my -- it

877
00:24:27,300 --> 00:24:29,333
so, um...You know...
You know, it hurt my -- it
really hurt me, trying to help

878
00:24:29,335 --> 00:24:29,717
you know, it hurt my -- it
really hurt me, trying to help
somebody out.

879
00:24:35,507 --> 00:24:39,793
>> whitley: Why are youse asking
me about gerald levert being my
first true love?

880
00:24:39,795 --> 00:24:40,961
Me about gerald levert being my
first true love?
I was so young, I didn't know

881
00:24:40,963 --> 00:24:42,213
first true love?
I was so young, I didn't know
what love --

882
00:24:42,215 --> 00:24:44,548
I was so young, I didn't know
what love --
well, okay.

883
00:24:44,550 --> 00:24:46,217
What love --
well, okay.
Yes. Okay, I said it.

884
00:24:46,219 --> 00:24:47,017
Well, okay.
Yes. Okay, I said it.
I've said it out loud --

885
00:24:47,019 --> 00:24:49,119
yes. Okay, I said it.
I've said it out loud --
"gerald levert was my first true

886
00:24:49,121 --> 00:24:49,954
I've said it out loud --
"gerald levert was my first true
love."

887
00:24:49,956 --> 00:24:51,088
"gerald levert was my first true
love."
it was that casanova.

888
00:24:51,090 --> 00:24:52,289
Love."
it was that casanova.
He got me with that...

889
00:24:52,291 --> 00:24:53,741
It was that casanova.
He got me with that...
♪ casanova ♪

890
00:24:53,743 --> 00:24:57,895
he got me with that...
♪ casanova ♪
okay.

891
00:24:57,897 --> 00:24:59,230
♪ casanova ♪
okay.
I don't remember how gerald and

892
00:24:59,232 --> 00:25:00,564
okay.
I don't remember how gerald and
I met because we'd been knowing

893
00:25:00,566 --> 00:25:02,700
I don't remember how gerald and
I met because we'd been knowing
each other since we was kids.

894
00:25:02,702 --> 00:25:04,068
I met because we'd been knowing
each other since we was kids.
So, living in the same

895
00:25:04,070 --> 00:25:05,703
each other since we was kids.
So, living in the same
neighborhood, we went to the

896
00:25:05,705 --> 00:25:07,338
so, living in the same
neighborhood, we went to the
same high school, so did my

897
00:25:07,340 --> 00:25:08,939
neighborhood, we went to the
same high school, so did my
parents like it when we got

898
00:25:08,941 --> 00:25:09,523
same high school, so did my
parents like it when we got
closer?

899
00:25:09,525 --> 00:25:11,475
Parents like it when we got
closer?
Nope.

900
00:25:11,477 --> 00:25:13,861
Closer?
Nope.
My mom and dad were like, "ugh.

901
00:25:13,863 --> 00:25:15,729
Nope.
My mom and dad were like, "ugh.
You can't go out with a

902
00:25:15,731 --> 00:25:17,648
my mom and dad were like, "ugh.
You can't go out with a
musician," you know?

903
00:25:17,650 --> 00:25:19,650
You can't go out with a
musician," you know?
You know, they just weren't into

904
00:25:19,652 --> 00:25:23,370
musician," you know?
You know, they just weren't into
the music situation.

905
00:25:23,372 --> 00:25:25,706
You know, they just weren't into
the music situation.
His family was all into music,

906
00:25:25,708 --> 00:25:27,558
the music situation.
His family was all into music,
and, um...

907
00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,094
His family was all into music,
and, um...
But we remained friends and hung

908
00:25:30,096 --> 00:25:32,463
and, um...
But we remained friends and hung
out for many, many, many, many

909
00:25:32,465 --> 00:25:33,497
but we remained friends and hung
out for many, many, many, many
years.

910
00:25:33,499 --> 00:25:34,982
Out for many, many, many, many
years.
I say we'd have gotten married

911
00:25:34,984 --> 00:25:36,567
years.
I say we'd have gotten married
as we got older, because when we

912
00:25:36,569 --> 00:25:38,118
I say we'd have gotten married
as we got older, because when we
were younger, gerald told me one

913
00:25:38,120 --> 00:25:39,119
as we got older, because when we
were younger, gerald told me one
thing.

914
00:25:39,121 --> 00:25:40,321
Were younger, gerald told me one
thing.
He said, "you can go out to

915
00:25:40,323 --> 00:25:41,572
thing.
He said, "you can go out to
hollywood, and you can pursue

916
00:25:41,574 --> 00:25:43,874
he said, "you can go out to
hollywood, and you can pursue
your career, but if you want to

917
00:25:43,876 --> 00:25:47,161
hollywood, and you can pursue
your career, but if you want to
be with me, I'mma let you know

918
00:25:47,163 --> 00:25:48,679
your career, but if you want to
be with me, I'mma let you know
there can only be one star in

919
00:25:48,681 --> 00:25:50,180
be with me, I'mma let you know
there can only be one star in
this family."

920
00:25:50,182 --> 00:25:53,050
there can only be one star in
this family."
♪

921
00:25:53,052 --> 00:25:55,252
this family."
♪
the reason gerald levert and I

922
00:25:55,254 --> 00:25:57,555
♪
the reason gerald levert and I
never got married is because he

923
00:25:57,557 --> 00:25:58,772
the reason gerald levert and I
never got married is because he
died.

924
00:25:58,774 --> 00:26:01,475
Never got married is because he
died.
He died, and that's what he did.

925
00:26:01,477 --> 00:26:03,060
Died.
He died, and that's what he did.
He left me here to fend for

926
00:26:03,062 --> 00:26:05,195
he died, and that's what he did.
He left me here to fend for
myself and deal with this life

927
00:26:05,197 --> 00:26:06,063
he left me here to fend for
myself and deal with this life
alone.

928
00:26:06,065 --> 00:26:07,364
Myself and deal with this life
alone.
But had gerald lived, we

929
00:26:07,366 --> 00:26:08,732
alone.
But had gerald lived, we
definitely would've gotten

930
00:26:08,734 --> 00:26:09,283
but had gerald lived, we
definitely would've gotten
married.

931
00:26:09,285 --> 00:26:11,235
Definitely would've gotten
married.
Absolutely.

932
00:26:11,237 --> 00:26:12,286
Married.
Absolutely.
Because we were friends.

933
00:26:12,288 --> 00:26:13,537
Absolutely.
Because we were friends.
Like, we were friends, and we

934
00:26:13,539 --> 00:26:14,822
because we were friends.
Like, we were friends, and we
always talked about we're gonna

935
00:26:14,824 --> 00:26:16,874
like, we were friends, and we
always talked about we're gonna
get married, and we set an age.

936
00:26:16,876 --> 00:26:17,992
Always talked about we're gonna
get married, and we set an age.
I think our age was when we

937
00:26:17,994 --> 00:26:18,492
get married, and we set an age.
I think our age was when we
50 --

938
00:26:18,494 --> 00:26:19,627
I think our age was when we
50 --
"when we turn 50," I said, "you

939
00:26:19,629 --> 00:26:20,494
50 --
"when we turn 50," I said, "you
not married and I'm not

940
00:26:20,496 --> 00:26:21,579
"when we turn 50," I said, "you
not married and I'm not
married," he was like, "we gonna

941
00:26:21,581 --> 00:26:22,246
not married and I'm not
married," he was like, "we gonna
get married."

942
00:26:22,248 --> 00:26:22,630
married," he was like, "we gonna
get married."
yep.

943
00:26:22,632 --> 00:26:24,081
Get married."
yep.
We made a little solid bet on

944
00:26:24,083 --> 00:26:28,052
yep.
We made a little solid bet on
it, and we was like -- boom.

945
00:26:28,054 --> 00:26:30,087
We made a little solid bet on
it, and we was like -- boom.
He dated a lot of people.

946
00:26:30,089 --> 00:26:31,155
It, and we was like -- boom.
He dated a lot of people.
Gerald liked women.

947
00:26:31,157 --> 00:26:33,023
He dated a lot of people.
Gerald liked women.
[ chuckles ]

948
00:26:33,025 --> 00:26:34,291
gerald liked women.
[ chuckles ]
and, you know, I was doing my

949
00:26:34,293 --> 00:26:35,659
[ chuckles ]
and, you know, I was doing my
thing, and I couldn't -- "oh, I

950
00:26:35,661 --> 00:26:36,944
and, you know, I was doing my
thing, and I couldn't -- "oh, I
can't believe you dating her."

951
00:26:36,946 --> 00:26:38,862
thing, and I couldn't -- "oh, I
can't believe you dating her."
and, of course, I was young and

952
00:26:38,864 --> 00:26:40,364
can't believe you dating her."
and, of course, I was young and
probably jealous.

953
00:26:40,366 --> 00:26:42,700
And, of course, I was young and
probably jealous.
I was, but what you gonna do?

954
00:26:42,702 --> 00:26:44,234
Probably jealous.
I was, but what you gonna do?
I would say --

955
00:26:44,236 --> 00:26:46,737
I was, but what you gonna do?
I would say --
when you say "cause problems,"

956
00:26:46,739 --> 00:26:48,906
I would say --
when you say "cause problems,"
you mean between me and him or

957
00:26:48,908 --> 00:26:50,741
when you say "cause problems,"
you mean between me and him or
me and the women?

958
00:26:50,743 --> 00:26:53,494
You mean between me and him or
me and the women?
Let's just say this.

959
00:26:53,496 --> 00:26:55,579
Me and the women?
Let's just say this.
I remember when mo'nique wanted

960
00:26:55,581 --> 00:26:56,747
let's just say this.
I remember when mo'nique wanted
to date gerald.

961
00:26:56,749 --> 00:26:58,299
I remember when mo'nique wanted
to date gerald.
See, that's one thing people

962
00:26:58,301 --> 00:26:59,083
to date gerald.
See, that's one thing people
don't know.

963
00:26:59,085 --> 00:27:01,251
See, that's one thing people
don't know.
Mo'nique is a very mature woman

964
00:27:01,253 --> 00:27:02,753
don't know.
Mo'nique is a very mature woman
even when she was young.

965
00:27:02,755 --> 00:27:04,121
Mo'nique is a very mature woman
even when she was young.
She came up to me -- we were

966
00:27:04,123 --> 00:27:05,522
even when she was young.
She came up to me -- we were
somewhere -- and she was like,

967
00:27:05,524 --> 00:27:07,591
she came up to me -- we were
somewhere -- and she was like,
"look, I want to date

968
00:27:07,593 --> 00:27:09,093
somewhere -- and she was like,
"look, I want to date
gerald levert.

969
00:27:09,095 --> 00:27:10,511
"look, I want to date
gerald levert.
I know y'all used to date or

970
00:27:10,513 --> 00:27:11,929
gerald levert.
I know y'all used to date or
whatever, but I'm, you know,

971
00:27:11,931 --> 00:27:13,480
I know y'all used to date or
whatever, but I'm, you know,
coming to you as a woman to let

972
00:27:13,482 --> 00:27:14,848
whatever, but I'm, you know,
coming to you as a woman to let
you know I'm interested."

973
00:27:14,850 --> 00:27:16,850
coming to you as a woman to let
you know I'm interested."
I've never had a woman do that.

974
00:27:16,852 --> 00:27:18,569
You know I'm interested."
I've never had a woman do that.
So I was like, "wow.

975
00:27:18,571 --> 00:27:19,937
I've never had a woman do that.
So I was like, "wow.
That's like some grown-woman

976
00:27:19,939 --> 00:27:20,988
so I was like, "wow.
That's like some grown-woman
stuff right there.

977
00:27:20,990 --> 00:27:22,740
That's like some grown-woman
stuff right there.
Mo'nique a grown woman."

978
00:27:22,742 --> 00:27:26,010
stuff right there.
Mo'nique a grown woman."
and, uh, I gave her my blessing

979
00:27:26,012 --> 00:27:27,544
mo'nique a grown woman."
and, uh, I gave her my blessing
even though, secretly, I was

980
00:27:27,546 --> 00:27:28,946
and, uh, I gave her my blessing
even though, secretly, I was
like, "did I do the right

981
00:27:28,948 --> 00:27:29,697
even though, secretly, I was
like, "did I do the right
thing?"

982
00:27:29,699 --> 00:27:32,349
like, "did I do the right
thing?"
but I believed, in the end, when

983
00:27:32,351 --> 00:27:34,902
thing?"
but I believed, in the end, when
it's all said and done, gerald

984
00:27:34,904 --> 00:27:36,904
but I believed, in the end, when
it's all said and done, gerald
would've come back to me.

985
00:27:36,906 --> 00:27:40,357
It's all said and done, gerald
would've come back to me.
And I say that because there was

986
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,243
would've come back to me.
And I say that because there was
a<i> sister 2 sister</i> article.

987
00:27:43,245 --> 00:27:44,912
And I say that because there was
a<i> sister 2 sister</i> article.
I didn't know anything about it.

988
00:27:44,914 --> 00:27:46,363
A<i> sister 2 sister</i> article.
I didn't know anything about it.
I'm telling you, I did not.

989
00:27:46,365 --> 00:27:48,699
I didn't know anything about it.
I'm telling you, I did not.
I could pull up the article.

990
00:27:48,701 --> 00:27:50,367
I'm telling you, I did not.
I could pull up the article.
And it actually broke up the

991
00:27:50,369 --> 00:27:52,086
I could pull up the article.
And it actually broke up the
relationship I was in at the

992
00:27:52,088 --> 00:27:53,087
and it actually broke up the
relationship I was in at the
time.

993
00:27:53,089 --> 00:27:55,839
Relationship I was in at the
time.
And gerald said, of course, in

994
00:27:55,841 --> 00:28:00,210
time.
And gerald said, of course, in
the article, "my true love is

995
00:28:00,212 --> 00:28:01,295
and gerald said, of course, in
the article, "my true love is
kym whitley.

996
00:28:01,297 --> 00:28:02,930
The article, "my true love is
kym whitley.
My heart will always belong to

997
00:28:02,932 --> 00:28:04,131
kym whitley.
My heart will always belong to
her."

998
00:28:04,133 --> 00:28:06,550
my heart will always belong to
her."
now, why he go and say that?

999
00:28:06,552 --> 00:28:09,136
Her."
now, why he go and say that?
'cause gerald likes to start

1000
00:28:09,138 --> 00:28:10,137
now, why he go and say that?
'cause gerald likes to start
mess.

1001
00:28:10,139 --> 00:28:11,605
'cause gerald likes to start
mess.
And I was like, "why would you

1002
00:28:11,607 --> 00:28:12,389
mess.
And I was like, "why would you
do that?"

1003
00:28:12,391 --> 00:28:13,807
and I was like, "why would you
do that?"
and even if it was true or not

1004
00:28:13,809 --> 00:28:15,275
do that?"
and even if it was true or not
true or whatever, for you to put

1005
00:28:15,277 --> 00:28:18,696
and even if it was true or not
true or whatever, for you to put
it in print, it got everybody

1006
00:28:18,698 --> 00:28:19,780
true or whatever, for you to put
it in print, it got everybody
upset.

1007
00:28:19,782 --> 00:28:21,031
It in print, it got everybody
upset.
And we laugh about it like that,

1008
00:28:21,033 --> 00:28:22,199
upset.
And we laugh about it like that,
and he was like, "you know it's

1009
00:28:22,201 --> 00:28:22,649
and we laugh about it like that,
and he was like, "you know it's
true."

1010
00:28:22,651 --> 00:28:24,234
and he was like, "you know it's
true."
and that's why I believe that,

1011
00:28:24,236 --> 00:28:25,736
true."
and that's why I believe that,
eventually, we would've been

1012
00:28:25,738 --> 00:28:26,820
and that's why I believe that,
eventually, we would've been
together.

1013
00:28:26,822 --> 00:28:28,122
Eventually, we would've been
together.
Um...

1014
00:28:28,124 --> 00:28:32,609
Together.
Um...
So, I loved gerald, and gerald

1015
00:28:32,611 --> 00:28:33,977
um...
So, I loved gerald, and gerald
loved me.

1016
00:28:33,979 --> 00:28:35,979
So, I loved gerald, and gerald
loved me.
Just wasn't time.

1017
00:28:35,981 --> 00:28:40,751
Loved me.
Just wasn't time.
♪

1018
00:28:40,753 --> 00:28:43,487
just wasn't time.
♪
you know, I think that I have

1019
00:28:43,489 --> 00:28:44,788
♪
you know, I think that I have
really been into my career.

1020
00:28:44,790 --> 00:28:45,622
You know, I think that I have
really been into my career.
It's unfortunate.

1021
00:28:45,624 --> 00:28:48,342
Really been into my career.
It's unfortunate.
I, um...

1022
00:28:48,344 --> 00:28:50,377
It's unfortunate.
I, um...
I come from a solid family.

1023
00:28:50,379 --> 00:28:51,879
I, um...
I come from a solid family.
My mom and dad were married for

1024
00:28:51,881 --> 00:28:53,680
I come from a solid family.
My mom and dad were married for
54 years.

1025
00:28:53,682 --> 00:28:55,132
My mom and dad were married for
54 years.
You know, all my cousins.

1026
00:28:55,134 --> 00:28:58,051
54 years.
You know, all my cousins.
I didn't even know divorce until

1027
00:28:58,053 --> 00:29:00,053
you know, all my cousins.
I didn't even know divorce until
my friends started getting

1028
00:29:00,055 --> 00:29:01,605
I didn't even know divorce until
my friends started getting
divorced.

1029
00:29:01,607 --> 00:29:05,476
My friends started getting
divorced.
But I believe I was focusing on

1030
00:29:05,478 --> 00:29:08,145
divorced.
But I believe I was focusing on
my career and not focusing on

1031
00:29:08,147 --> 00:29:09,613
but I believe I was focusing on
my career and not focusing on
getting married.

1032
00:29:09,615 --> 00:29:11,448
My career and not focusing on
getting married.
I didn't understand it.

1033
00:29:11,450 --> 00:29:15,886
Getting married.
I didn't understand it.
♪

1034
00:29:15,888 --> 00:29:18,188
I didn't understand it.
♪
a young lady had a baby that I

1035
00:29:18,190 --> 00:29:20,524
♪
a young lady had a baby that I
had been knowing, and she left

1036
00:29:20,526 --> 00:29:21,825
a young lady had a baby that I
had been knowing, and she left
him at the ho--

1037
00:29:21,827 --> 00:29:22,960
had been knowing, and she left
him at the ho--
well, not "left him" at the

1038
00:29:22,962 --> 00:29:24,261
him at the ho--
well, not "left him" at the
hospital but for me to pick him

1039
00:29:24,263 --> 00:29:28,265
well, not "left him" at the
hospital but for me to pick him
up at 4 days old, and I was

1040
00:29:28,267 --> 00:29:30,017
hospital but for me to pick him
up at 4 days old, and I was
like, "I'm not ready for a

1041
00:29:30,019 --> 00:29:30,968
up at 4 days old, and I was
like, "I'm not ready for a
baby."

1042
00:29:30,970 --> 00:29:32,136
like, "I'm not ready for a
baby."
I remember my mother.

1043
00:29:32,138 --> 00:29:33,303
Baby."
I remember my mother.
They called me and said, "we got

1044
00:29:33,305 --> 00:29:35,672
I remember my mother.
They called me and said, "we got
a baby for you here at the

1045
00:29:35,674 --> 00:29:37,040
they called me and said, "we got
a baby for you here at the
hospital.

1046
00:29:37,042 --> 00:29:38,075
A baby for you here at the
hospital.
And I was like, "ha ha!

1047
00:29:38,077 --> 00:29:39,176
Hospital.
And I was like, "ha ha!
That's a joke. Whatever."

1048
00:29:39,178 --> 00:29:41,562
and I was like, "ha ha!
That's a joke. Whatever."
and I remember my mother saying

1049
00:29:41,564 --> 00:29:42,396
that's a joke. Whatever."
and I remember my mother saying
to me --

1050
00:29:42,398 --> 00:29:44,481
and I remember my mother saying
to me --
and this is how I grew up.

1051
00:29:44,483 --> 00:29:46,150
To me --
and this is how I grew up.
My mother said, "what's wrong

1052
00:29:46,152 --> 00:29:47,067
and this is how I grew up.
My mother said, "what's wrong
with you?

1053
00:29:47,069 --> 00:29:48,869
My mother said, "what's wrong
with you?
You ain't got no man,

1054
00:29:48,871 --> 00:29:50,788
with you?
You ain't got no man,
you ain't got no kids,

1055
00:29:50,790 --> 00:29:54,541
you ain't got no man,
you ain't got no kids,
and you are 97 years old."

1056
00:29:54,543 --> 00:29:55,826
you ain't got no kids,
and you are 97 years old."
she was like, "what -- what you

1057
00:29:55,828 --> 00:29:56,460
and you are 97 years old."
she was like, "what -- what you
doing?

1058
00:29:56,462 --> 00:29:58,078
She was like, "what -- what you
doing?
You ain't got no eggs left,

1059
00:29:58,080 --> 00:29:59,496
doing?
You ain't got no eggs left,
maybe one or two."

1060
00:29:59,498 --> 00:30:00,497
you ain't got no eggs left,
maybe one or two."
she's like, "go on and get that

1061
00:30:00,499 --> 00:30:01,165
maybe one or two."
she's like, "go on and get that
baby."

1062
00:30:01,167 --> 00:30:02,549
she's like, "go on and get that
baby."
I was like, "damn!

1063
00:30:02,551 --> 00:30:04,635
Baby."
I was like, "damn!
My mother was like wow, wow!"

1064
00:30:04,637 --> 00:30:05,752
I was like, "damn!
My mother was like wow, wow!"
she was like, "what you doing in

1065
00:30:05,754 --> 00:30:06,720
my mother was like wow, wow!"
she was like, "what you doing in
life?"

1066
00:30:06,722 --> 00:30:08,422
she was like, "what you doing in
life?"
she said, "oh, you want to do

1067
00:30:08,424 --> 00:30:10,340
life?"
she said, "oh, you want to do
another movie, get another tv

1068
00:30:10,342 --> 00:30:11,842
she said, "oh, you want to do
another movie, get another tv
show? Ooh!"

1069
00:30:11,844 --> 00:30:15,195
another movie, get another tv
show? Ooh!"
my mother said, "get something

1070
00:30:15,197 --> 00:30:16,363
show? Ooh!"
my mother said, "get something
in your life that means

1071
00:30:16,365 --> 00:30:16,697
my mother said, "get something
in your life that means
something."

1072
00:30:22,020 --> 00:30:29,626
>> whitley: So, I worked on my
very first, I would say, really
big blockbuster movie was

1073
00:30:29,628 --> 00:30:31,128
very first, I would say, really
big blockbuster movie was
"next Friday," with ice cube.

1074
00:30:31,130 --> 00:30:32,629
Big blockbuster movie was
"next Friday," with ice cube.
And I really wanted that part.

1075
00:30:32,631 --> 00:30:34,164
"next Friday," with ice cube.
And I really wanted that part.
That was another role I really

1076
00:30:34,166 --> 00:30:34,932
and I really wanted that part.
That was another role I really
wanted.

1077
00:30:34,934 --> 00:30:38,335
That was another role I really
wanted.
But it was a -- a very important

1078
00:30:38,337 --> 00:30:40,370
wanted.
But it was a -- a very important
role in my career.

1079
00:30:40,372 --> 00:30:42,606
But it was a -- a very important
role in my career.
I played suga, and I had to be

1080
00:30:42,608 --> 00:30:46,410
role in my career.
I played suga, and I had to be
this sexy, uh, girlfriend to

1081
00:30:46,412 --> 00:30:47,544
I played suga, and I had to be
this sexy, uh, girlfriend to
d.C. Curry.

1082
00:30:47,546 --> 00:30:48,845
This sexy, uh, girlfriend to
d.C. Curry.
And, you know, ice cube was

1083
00:30:48,847 --> 00:30:49,313
d.C. Curry.
And, you know, ice cube was
young.

1084
00:30:49,315 --> 00:30:52,516
And, you know, ice cube was
young.
We had a good time on that set.

1085
00:30:52,518 --> 00:30:53,634
Young.
We had a good time on that set.
Just craziness.

1086
00:30:53,636 --> 00:30:56,420
We had a good time on that set.
Just craziness.
I remember that one scene when I

1087
00:30:56,422 --> 00:30:57,554
just craziness.
I remember that one scene when I
had to go up the steps, and

1088
00:30:57,556 --> 00:30:59,873
I remember that one scene when I
had to go up the steps, and
d.C. Curry slapped my behind.

1089
00:30:59,875 --> 00:31:01,124
Had to go up the steps, and
d.C. Curry slapped my behind.
Let me tell you something,

1090
00:31:01,126 --> 00:31:02,459
d.C. Curry slapped my behind.
Let me tell you something,
d.C. Curry took his hand --

1091
00:31:02,461 --> 00:31:04,011
let me tell you something,
d.C. Curry took his hand --
I think it was in alaska.

1092
00:31:04,013 --> 00:31:05,712
D.C. Curry took his hand --
I think it was in alaska.
He swung from alaska to

1093
00:31:05,714 --> 00:31:07,681
I think it was in alaska.
He swung from alaska to
cleveland -- pow! -- On my

1094
00:31:07,683 --> 00:31:09,266
he swung from alaska to
cleveland -- pow! -- On my
behind, and it was my first

1095
00:31:09,268 --> 00:31:10,300
cleveland -- pow! -- On my
behind, and it was my first
movie, and I didn't know to

1096
00:31:10,302 --> 00:31:10,801
behind, and it was my first
movie, and I didn't know to
say --

1097
00:31:10,803 --> 00:31:11,802
movie, and I didn't know to
say --
you know, I was like, "just take

1098
00:31:11,804 --> 00:31:12,886
say --
you know, I was like, "just take
it."

1099
00:31:12,888 --> 00:31:13,971
you know, I was like, "just take
it."
he did it three times.

1100
00:31:13,973 --> 00:31:15,272
It."
he did it three times.
And, finally, ice cube, he

1101
00:31:15,274 --> 00:31:15,689
he did it three times.
And, finally, ice cube, he
knows.

1102
00:31:15,691 --> 00:31:17,140
And, finally, ice cube, he
knows.
He said, "cut! Stop!"

1103
00:31:17,142 --> 00:31:18,292
knows.
He said, "cut! Stop!"
he said, "hey, man!

1104
00:31:18,294 --> 00:31:20,477
He said, "cut! Stop!"
he said, "hey, man!
We gonna add the sound later!

1105
00:31:20,479 --> 00:31:21,545
He said, "hey, man!
We gonna add the sound later!
You don't have to hit her that

1106
00:31:21,547 --> 00:31:22,462
we gonna add the sound later!
You don't have to hit her that
hard."

1107
00:31:22,464 --> 00:31:23,297
you don't have to hit her that
hard."
and it was like --

1108
00:31:23,299 --> 00:31:24,681
hard."
and it was like --
so they had to stop.

1109
00:31:24,683 --> 00:31:26,400
And it was like --
so they had to stop.
So, you know, you learn as you

1110
00:31:26,402 --> 00:31:28,185
so they had to stop.
So, you know, you learn as you
go.

1111
00:31:28,187 --> 00:31:29,353
So, you know, you learn as you
go.
D.C. Curry, hitting me that

1112
00:31:29,355 --> 00:31:29,853
go.
D.C. Curry, hitting me that
hard.

1113
00:31:29,855 --> 00:31:32,072
D.C. Curry, hitting me that
hard.
But it was a lot of fun.

1114
00:31:32,074 --> 00:31:34,057
Hard.
But it was a lot of fun.
♪

1115
00:31:34,059 --> 00:31:35,425
but it was a lot of fun.
♪
okay. There's "Friday,"

1116
00:31:35,427 --> 00:31:36,793
♪
okay. There's "Friday,"
"next Friday," and then

1117
00:31:36,795 --> 00:31:38,328
okay. There's "Friday,"
"next Friday," and then
"Friday after next," which is

1118
00:31:38,330 --> 00:31:39,246
"next Friday," and then
"Friday after next," which is
the third movie.

1119
00:31:39,248 --> 00:31:41,081
"Friday after next," which is
the third movie.
And, of course, I gotta come

1120
00:31:41,083 --> 00:31:42,833
the third movie.
And, of course, I gotta come
back and reprise my role as

1121
00:31:42,835 --> 00:31:43,884
and, of course, I gotta come
back and reprise my role as
suga.

1122
00:31:43,886 --> 00:31:46,520
Back and reprise my role as
suga.
Well, I was already offered a

1123
00:31:46,522 --> 00:31:47,938
suga.
Well, I was already offered a
movie, called

1124
00:31:47,940 --> 00:31:50,040
well, I was already offered a
movie, called
"deliver us from eva," and

1125
00:31:50,042 --> 00:31:51,642
movie, called
"deliver us from eva," and
ice cube said, "no, I need you

1126
00:31:51,644 --> 00:31:53,410
"deliver us from eva," and
ice cube said, "no, I need you
to do 'Friday after next.'"

1127
00:31:53,412 --> 00:31:55,312
ice cube said, "no, I need you
to do 'Friday after next.'"
and I said, "well, I already got

1128
00:31:55,314 --> 00:31:56,146
to do 'Friday after next.'"
and I said, "well, I already got
this movie."

1129
00:31:56,148 --> 00:31:57,230
and I said, "well, I already got
this movie."
now, I stayed on

1130
00:31:57,232 --> 00:31:58,815
this movie."
now, I stayed on
"deliver us from eva," and

1131
00:31:58,817 --> 00:31:59,900
now, I stayed on
"deliver us from eva," and
ice cube was mad at me.

1132
00:31:59,902 --> 00:32:00,884
"deliver us from eva," and
ice cube was mad at me.
It was just the truth.

1133
00:32:00,886 --> 00:32:01,952
Ice cube was mad at me.
It was just the truth.
He knows he was.

1134
00:32:01,954 --> 00:32:04,071
It was just the truth.
He knows he was.
He will say, "yes, I was mad.

1135
00:32:04,073 --> 00:32:06,123
He knows he was.
He will say, "yes, I was mad.
It was because you should have

1136
00:32:06,125 --> 00:32:08,241
he will say, "yes, I was mad.
It was because you should have
known, you know, it was time for

1137
00:32:08,243 --> 00:32:09,159
it was because you should have
known, you know, it was time for
our movie."

1138
00:32:09,161 --> 00:32:10,410
known, you know, it was time for
our movie."
no one had told me, so I didn't

1139
00:32:10,412 --> 00:32:11,328
our movie."
no one had told me, so I didn't
know.

1140
00:32:11,330 --> 00:32:12,629
No one had told me, so I didn't
know.
But it was -- it was --

1141
00:32:12,631 --> 00:32:13,664
know.
But it was -- it was --
it was -- ugh.

1142
00:32:13,666 --> 00:32:14,731
But it was -- it was --
it was -- ugh.
It was rough.

1143
00:32:14,733 --> 00:32:16,867
It was -- ugh.
It was rough.
And I'm glad that we're friends

1144
00:32:16,869 --> 00:32:18,302
it was rough.
And I'm glad that we're friends
now.

1145
00:32:18,304 --> 00:32:22,873
And I'm glad that we're friends
now.
♪

1146
00:32:22,875 --> 00:32:25,042
now.
♪
I was working at the time, and

1147
00:32:25,044 --> 00:32:27,077
♪
I was working at the time, and
this role came up on this show

1148
00:32:27,079 --> 00:32:29,746
I was working at the time, and
this role came up on this show
called "curb your enthusiasm."

1149
00:32:29,748 --> 00:32:31,081
this role came up on this show
called "curb your enthusiasm."
and larry david --

1150
00:32:31,083 --> 00:32:33,083
called "curb your enthusiasm."
and larry david --
I remember watching the show,

1151
00:32:33,085 --> 00:32:34,418
and larry david --
I remember watching the show,
and I was like, "oh, that's a

1152
00:32:34,420 --> 00:32:35,502
I remember watching the show,
and I was like, "oh, that's a
funny little white man.

1153
00:32:35,504 --> 00:32:36,136
And I was like, "oh, that's a
funny little white man.
He's funny."

1154
00:32:36,138 --> 00:32:37,304
funny little white man.
He's funny."
I didn't know who he was.

1155
00:32:37,306 --> 00:32:38,088
He's funny."
I didn't know who he was.
Crazy.

1156
00:32:38,090 --> 00:32:40,424
I didn't know who he was.
Crazy.
So, the audition came up for me

1157
00:32:40,426 --> 00:32:42,592
crazy.
So, the audition came up for me
to play the prostitute, and I

1158
00:32:42,594 --> 00:32:43,844
so, the audition came up for me
to play the prostitute, and I
was working on probably

1159
00:32:43,846 --> 00:32:45,429
to play the prostitute, and I
was working on probably
"the parkers" or something like

1160
00:32:45,431 --> 00:32:45,979
was working on probably
"the parkers" or something like
that.

1161
00:32:45,981 --> 00:32:47,514
"the parkers" or something like
that.
And I had to leave the audition

1162
00:32:47,516 --> 00:32:49,099
that.
And I had to leave the audition
and run over there and audition.

1163
00:32:49,101 --> 00:32:50,200
And I had to leave the audition
and run over there and audition.
They were like, "this is the

1164
00:32:50,202 --> 00:32:51,368
and run over there and audition.
They were like, "this is the
only time kym can audition right

1165
00:32:51,370 --> 00:32:52,419
they were like, "this is the
only time kym can audition right
now because she's working."

1166
00:32:52,421 --> 00:32:53,870
only time kym can audition right
now because she's working."
so no one else was there.

1167
00:32:53,872 --> 00:32:54,871
Now because she's working."
so no one else was there.
It was just me.

1168
00:32:54,873 --> 00:32:57,841
So no one else was there.
It was just me.
And I got ready for the audition

1169
00:32:57,843 --> 00:32:59,209
it was just me.
And I got ready for the audition
because I was like, "ooh, ooh, I

1170
00:32:59,211 --> 00:33:00,510
and I got ready for the audition
because I was like, "ooh, ooh, I
get to play this prostitute,"

1171
00:33:00,512 --> 00:33:01,545
because I was like, "ooh, ooh, I
get to play this prostitute,"
and I was friends with

1172
00:33:01,547 --> 00:33:02,646
get to play this prostitute,"
and I was friends with
katt williams.

1173
00:33:02,648 --> 00:33:04,231
And I was friends with
katt williams.
And I remember going to katt,

1174
00:33:04,233 --> 00:33:05,899
katt williams.
And I remember going to katt,
and I was like, "katt, you kind

1175
00:33:05,901 --> 00:33:06,983
and I remember going to katt,
and I was like, "katt, you kind
of pimpish.

1176
00:33:06,985 --> 00:33:10,087
And I was like, "katt, you kind
of pimpish.
I need some prostitute lines."

1177
00:33:10,089 --> 00:33:11,288
of pimpish.
I need some prostitute lines."
and I remember katt --

1178
00:33:11,290 --> 00:33:12,823
I need some prostitute lines."
and I remember katt --
I think katt gave me "lollipop

1179
00:33:12,825 --> 00:33:13,323
and I remember katt --
I think katt gave me "lollipop
love."

1180
00:33:13,325 --> 00:33:14,858
I think katt gave me "lollipop
love."
he's like, "just use a bunch of

1181
00:33:14,860 --> 00:33:15,659
love."
he's like, "just use a bunch of
crazy words.

1182
00:33:15,661 --> 00:33:17,077
He's like, "just use a bunch of
crazy words.
You know, put 'em together."

1183
00:33:17,079 --> 00:33:18,528
crazy words.
You know, put 'em together."
[ as katt williams ] and now

1184
00:33:18,530 --> 00:33:19,996
you know, put 'em together."
[ as katt williams ] and now
katt was talking like, "you

1185
00:33:19,998 --> 00:33:21,531
[ as katt williams ] and now
katt was talking like, "you
know, kym, you know, you just

1186
00:33:21,533 --> 00:33:23,200
katt was talking like, "you
know, kym, you know, you just
gotta put these things together.

1187
00:33:23,202 --> 00:33:24,601
Know, kym, you know, you just
gotta put these things together.
You know what you're doing."

1188
00:33:24,603 --> 00:33:25,635
gotta put these things together.
You know what you're doing."
[ normal voice ] now, this was

1189
00:33:25,637 --> 00:33:26,436
you know what you're doing."
[ normal voice ] now, this was
the saving grace.

1190
00:33:26,438 --> 00:33:27,521
[ normal voice ] now, this was
the saving grace.
I didn't know who larry dad

1191
00:33:27,523 --> 00:33:28,338
the saving grace.
I didn't know who larry dad
was.

1192
00:33:28,340 --> 00:33:29,740
I didn't know who larry dad
was.
Had no clue.

1193
00:33:29,742 --> 00:33:30,941
Was.
Had no clue.
I just knew he was a a funny

1194
00:33:30,943 --> 00:33:32,325
had no clue.
I just knew he was a a funny
little white man that I liked in

1195
00:33:32,327 --> 00:33:33,610
I just knew he was a a funny
little white man that I liked in
this tv show.

1196
00:33:33,612 --> 00:33:35,662
Little white man that I liked in
this tv show.
So I went in to the audition,

1197
00:33:35,664 --> 00:33:37,764
this tv show.
So I went in to the audition,
and, um, he was there and all

1198
00:33:37,766 --> 00:33:38,932
so I went in to the audition,
and, um, he was there and all
the producers were there --

1199
00:33:38,934 --> 00:33:40,350
and, um, he was there and all
the producers were there --
cheryl hines, of course.

1200
00:33:40,352 --> 00:33:42,185
The producers were there --
cheryl hines, of course.
And larry was sitting there in

1201
00:33:42,187 --> 00:33:44,054
cheryl hines, of course.
And larry was sitting there in
the chair 'cause I had to get in

1202
00:33:44,056 --> 00:33:44,888
and larry was sitting there in
the chair 'cause I had to get in
the car.

1203
00:33:44,890 --> 00:33:46,606
The chair 'cause I had to get in
the car.
And one thing you got to know

1204
00:33:46,608 --> 00:33:48,308
the car.
And one thing you got to know
about "curb your enthusiasm,"

1205
00:33:48,310 --> 00:33:50,227
and one thing you got to know
about "curb your enthusiasm,"
it's all ad-libbed.

1206
00:33:50,229 --> 00:33:51,695
About "curb your enthusiasm,"
it's all ad-libbed.
So they'll give you the

1207
00:33:51,697 --> 00:33:53,397
it's all ad-libbed.
So they'll give you the
scenario, but you ad your own

1208
00:33:53,399 --> 00:33:54,431
so they'll give you the
scenario, but you ad your own
lines.

1209
00:33:54,433 --> 00:33:56,450
Scenario, but you ad your own
lines.
So, I remember in the audition,

1210
00:33:56,452 --> 00:33:58,869
lines.
So, I remember in the audition,
I just was cutting a fool, and I

1211
00:33:58,871 --> 00:34:00,704
so, I remember in the audition,
I just was cutting a fool, and I
loved improv, and I got in the

1212
00:34:00,706 --> 00:34:02,372
I just was cutting a fool, and I
loved improv, and I got in the
pretend car where larry was

1213
00:34:02,374 --> 00:34:04,291
loved improv, and I got in the
pretend car where larry was
talking crazy to him, and he was

1214
00:34:04,293 --> 00:34:06,209
pretend car where larry was
talking crazy to him, and he was
laughing, he was like, "do that

1215
00:34:06,211 --> 00:34:07,160
talking crazy to him, and he was
laughing, he was like, "do that
again."

1216
00:34:07,162 --> 00:34:09,079
laughing, he was like, "do that
again."
and next thing I know, I got the

1217
00:34:09,081 --> 00:34:10,914
again."
and next thing I know, I got the
part, and what was great about

1218
00:34:10,916 --> 00:34:13,250
and next thing I know, I got the
part, and what was great about
it is, all the actresses had

1219
00:34:13,252 --> 00:34:14,418
part, and what was great about
it is, all the actresses had
gone out for it.

1220
00:34:14,420 --> 00:34:15,836
It is, all the actresses had
gone out for it.
Every black actress I know was

1221
00:34:15,838 --> 00:34:17,137
gone out for it.
Every black actress I know was
like, "you know every black

1222
00:34:17,139 --> 00:34:18,505
every black actress I know was
like, "you know every black
actress in hollywood went out

1223
00:34:18,507 --> 00:34:19,589
like, "you know every black
actress in hollywood went out
for that role."

1224
00:34:19,591 --> 00:34:21,258
actress in hollywood went out
for that role."
so I was like, "what?"

1225
00:34:21,260 --> 00:34:24,361
for that role."
so I was like, "what?"
but it changed my career.

1226
00:34:24,363 --> 00:34:26,363
So I was like, "what?"
but it changed my career.
And it was a lot of fun.

1227
00:34:26,365 --> 00:34:30,400
But it changed my career.
And it was a lot of fun.
♪

1228
00:34:30,402 --> 00:34:31,802
and it was a lot of fun.
♪
so, we were at

1229
00:34:31,804 --> 00:34:33,870
♪
so, we were at
the house of blues, and

1230
00:34:33,872 --> 00:34:35,272
so, we were at
the house of blues, and
magic johnson was giving his

1231
00:34:35,274 --> 00:34:36,773
the house of blues, and
magic johnson was giving his
wife, cookie, a party, which is

1232
00:34:36,775 --> 00:34:37,374
magic johnson was giving his
wife, cookie, a party, which is
so funny.

1233
00:34:37,376 --> 00:34:38,675
Wife, cookie, a party, which is
so funny.
Every time I see magic and

1234
00:34:38,677 --> 00:34:40,043
so funny.
Every time I see magic and
cookie, they remind me of the

1235
00:34:40,045 --> 00:34:41,378
every time I see magic and
cookie, they remind me of the
story and bust out laughing.

1236
00:34:41,380 --> 00:34:42,779
Cookie, they remind me of the
story and bust out laughing.
So, bobby had gone up on stage,

1237
00:34:42,781 --> 00:34:44,181
story and bust out laughing.
So, bobby had gone up on stage,
I think, with whitney, and they

1238
00:34:44,183 --> 00:34:45,382
so, bobby had gone up on stage,
I think, with whitney, and they
was singing, and they were

1239
00:34:45,384 --> 00:34:46,683
I think, with whitney, and they
was singing, and they were
trying to get bobby offstage,

1240
00:34:46,685 --> 00:34:48,068
was singing, and they were
trying to get bobby offstage,
and, you know, this was in the

1241
00:34:48,070 --> 00:34:49,853
trying to get bobby offstage,
and, you know, this was in the
wild years of bobby.

1242
00:34:49,855 --> 00:34:50,904
And, you know, this was in the
wild years of bobby.
And bobby came up, and he was a

1243
00:34:50,906 --> 00:34:51,354
wild years of bobby.
And bobby came up, and he was a
fan.

1244
00:34:51,356 --> 00:34:52,656
And bobby came up, and he was a
fan.
It was the "oh drama!" days, and

1245
00:34:52,658 --> 00:34:53,907
fan.
It was the "oh drama!" days, and
he was a fan of "oh drama!", and

1246
00:34:53,909 --> 00:34:54,891
it was the "oh drama!" days, and
he was a fan of "oh drama!", and
he saw me, he was like,

1247
00:34:54,893 --> 00:34:55,709
he was a fan of "oh drama!", and
he saw me, he was like,
"kym whitley!"

1248
00:34:55,711 --> 00:34:57,177
he saw me, he was like,
"kym whitley!"
and I put my arms out, I was

1249
00:34:57,179 --> 00:34:58,295
"kym whitley!"
and I put my arms out, I was
like, "bobby!"

1250
00:34:58,297 --> 00:34:59,930
and I put my arms out, I was
like, "bobby!"
and bobby came up to me, and he

1251
00:34:59,932 --> 00:35:01,431
like, "bobby!"
and bobby came up to me, and he
grabbed me, and he went to my

1252
00:35:01,433 --> 00:35:03,266
and bobby came up to me, and he
grabbed me, and he went to my
neck, and he bit it.

1253
00:35:03,268 --> 00:35:04,434
Grabbed me, and he went to my
neck, and he bit it.
Bit it, blood, everything.

1254
00:35:04,436 --> 00:35:05,635
Neck, and he bit it.
Bit it, blood, everything.
I don't know if he thought he

1255
00:35:05,637 --> 00:35:06,386
bit it, blood, everything.
I don't know if he thought he
was a vampire.

1256
00:35:06,388 --> 00:35:07,270
I don't know if he thought he
was a vampire.
I don't -- I don't --

1257
00:35:07,272 --> 00:35:08,305
was a vampire.
I don't -- I don't --
I don't know what happened.

1258
00:35:08,307 --> 00:35:09,356
I don't -- I don't --
I don't know what happened.
But, of course, I went down to

1259
00:35:09,358 --> 00:35:09,806
I don't know what happened.
But, of course, I went down to
the ground.

1260
00:35:09,808 --> 00:35:10,640
But, of course, I went down to
the ground.
Security whisked me --

1261
00:35:10,642 --> 00:35:11,641
the ground.
Security whisked me --
'cause they were trying to get

1262
00:35:11,643 --> 00:35:12,309
security whisked me --
'cause they were trying to get
him out of there.

1263
00:35:12,311 --> 00:35:14,945
'cause they were trying to get
him out of there.
They took him out, and I

1264
00:35:14,947 --> 00:35:16,196
him out of there.
They took him out, and I
remember -- he's a senator

1265
00:35:16,198 --> 00:35:17,647
they took him out, and I
remember -- he's a senator
now -- but steven bradford was

1266
00:35:17,649 --> 00:35:19,149
remember -- he's a senator
now -- but steven bradford was
there, and he was like, "uh, you

1267
00:35:19,151 --> 00:35:20,400
now -- but steven bradford was
there, and he was like, "uh, you
need a witness? You okay?"

1268
00:35:20,402 --> 00:35:21,401
there, and he was like, "uh, you
need a witness? You okay?"
they was putting towels,

1269
00:35:21,403 --> 00:35:21,952
need a witness? You okay?"
they was putting towels,
everything.

1270
00:35:21,954 --> 00:35:23,203
They was putting towels,
everything.
I went afterwards, and people

1271
00:35:23,205 --> 00:35:24,538
everything.
I went afterwards, and people
were like, "you gotta sue him,

1272
00:35:24,540 --> 00:35:25,438
I went afterwards, and people
were like, "you gotta sue him,
you gotta sue him."

1273
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:28,158
were like, "you gotta sue him,
you gotta sue him."
but I -- it wasn't like I felt

1274
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,694
you gotta sue him."
but I -- it wasn't like I felt
like, "ooh, I want whitney's

1275
00:35:30,696 --> 00:35:34,281
but I -- it wasn't like I felt
like, "ooh, I want whitney's
money," or I wanted any more --

1276
00:35:34,283 --> 00:35:35,582
like, "ooh, I want whitney's
money," or I wanted any more --
you know, it was like, I didn't

1277
00:35:35,584 --> 00:35:36,700
money," or I wanted any more --
you know, it was like, I didn't
want anything else bad to

1278
00:35:36,702 --> 00:35:37,367
you know, it was like, I didn't
want anything else bad to
happen to him.

1279
00:35:37,369 --> 00:35:39,202
Want anything else bad to
happen to him.
Now, had bobby done that like he

1280
00:35:39,204 --> 00:35:41,104
happen to him.
Now, had bobby done that like he
was mad and hurt me, of course.

1281
00:35:41,106 --> 00:35:42,772
Now, had bobby done that like he
was mad and hurt me, of course.
But he was just excited.

1282
00:35:42,774 --> 00:35:43,857
Was mad and hurt me, of course.
But he was just excited.
And crazy.

1283
00:35:43,859 --> 00:35:46,076
But he was just excited.
And crazy.
And I've bitten people before.

1284
00:35:46,078 --> 00:35:47,444
And crazy.
And I've bitten people before.
So, yeah.

1285
00:35:47,446 --> 00:35:48,612
And I've bitten people before.
So, yeah.
Yeah, there's that.

1286
00:35:48,614 --> 00:35:48,995
So, yeah.
Yeah, there's that.
[ laughs ] oops.

1287
00:35:54,402 --> 00:35:57,470
>> whitley: So, me and
sherri shepherd join the
"tom joyner morning show," and

1288
00:35:57,472 --> 00:35:58,738
sherri shepherd join the
"tom joyner morning show," and
we had to get up at 2:00 in the

1289
00:35:58,740 --> 00:36:01,308
"tom joyner morning show," and
we had to get up at 2:00 in the
morning and be at the radio

1290
00:36:01,310 --> 00:36:02,342
we had to get up at 2:00 in the
morning and be at the radio
station.

1291
00:36:02,344 --> 00:36:04,010
Morning and be at the radio
station.
But working with tom joyner,

1292
00:36:04,012 --> 00:36:05,946
station.
But working with tom joyner,
I mean, he's a legend.

1293
00:36:05,948 --> 00:36:07,781
But working with tom joyner,
I mean, he's a legend.
But we developed a friendship.

1294
00:36:07,783 --> 00:36:09,282
I mean, he's a legend.
But we developed a friendship.
We still hang.

1295
00:36:09,284 --> 00:36:10,500
But we developed a friendship.
We still hang.
Let me tell y'all something.

1296
00:36:10,502 --> 00:36:12,085
We still hang.
Let me tell y'all something.
That tom joyner knows how to

1297
00:36:12,087 --> 00:36:13,253
let me tell y'all something.
That tom joyner knows how to
treat a woman.

1298
00:36:13,255 --> 00:36:14,654
That tom joyner knows how to
treat a woman.
Or should I say "women"?

1299
00:36:14,656 --> 00:36:16,456
Treat a woman.
Or should I say "women"?
There was a valentine's day he

1300
00:36:16,458 --> 00:36:18,058
or should I say "women"?
There was a valentine's day he
flew out to l.A. And said,

1301
00:36:18,060 --> 00:36:19,593
there was a valentine's day he
flew out to l.A. And said,
"I'mma take y'all out for

1302
00:36:19,595 --> 00:36:20,627
flew out to l.A. And said,
"I'mma take y'all out for
valentine's day."

1303
00:36:20,629 --> 00:36:21,878
"I'mma take y'all out for
valentine's day."
now, had we known he was gonna

1304
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:23,096
valentine's day."
now, had we known he was gonna
take us out like that, baby,

1305
00:36:23,098 --> 00:36:24,381
now, had we known he was gonna
take us out like that, baby,
we'd have started at 6:00 in the

1306
00:36:24,383 --> 00:36:24,848
take us out like that, baby,
we'd have started at 6:00 in the
morning.

1307
00:36:24,850 --> 00:36:26,182
We'd have started at 6:00 in the
morning.
He said, "you can go anywhere

1308
00:36:26,184 --> 00:36:27,517
morning.
He said, "you can go anywhere
you want and buy anything you

1309
00:36:27,519 --> 00:36:28,335
he said, "you can go anywhere
you want and buy anything you
want."

1310
00:36:28,337 --> 00:36:29,636
you want and buy anything you
want."
so we said, "let's go into the

1311
00:36:29,638 --> 00:36:30,887
want."
so we said, "let's go into the
louis vuitton store, and we'll

1312
00:36:30,889 --> 00:36:31,972
so we said, "let's go into the
louis vuitton store, and we'll
start there."

1313
00:36:31,974 --> 00:36:33,240
louis vuitton store, and we'll
start there."
but we were afraid at first.

1314
00:36:33,242 --> 00:36:34,574
Start there."
but we were afraid at first.
We was picking up key chains and

1315
00:36:34,576 --> 00:36:35,408
but we were afraid at first.
We was picking up key chains and
sunglasses.

1316
00:36:35,410 --> 00:36:36,459
We was picking up key chains and
sunglasses.
Tom was like, "what are y'all

1317
00:36:36,461 --> 00:36:36,793
sunglasses.
Tom was like, "what are y'all
doing?

1318
00:36:36,795 --> 00:36:37,544
Tom was like, "what are y'all
doing?
Get what you want."

1319
00:36:37,546 --> 00:36:38,828
doing?
Get what you want."
I ran up to them, I grabbed some

1320
00:36:38,830 --> 00:36:40,080
get what you want."
I ran up to them, I grabbed some
shoes, I was like, "oh, my god!

1321
00:36:40,082 --> 00:36:41,214
I ran up to them, I grabbed some
shoes, I was like, "oh, my god!
This is so exciting!"

1322
00:36:41,216 --> 00:36:42,249
shoes, I was like, "oh, my god!
This is so exciting!"
and we's like, "is this too

1323
00:36:42,251 --> 00:36:42,666
this is so exciting!"
and we's like, "is this too
much?"

1324
00:36:42,668 --> 00:36:43,650
and we's like, "is this too
much?"
and we kept texting tom, "can we

1325
00:36:43,652 --> 00:36:44,167
much?"
and we kept texting tom, "can we
get some shoes?

1326
00:36:44,169 --> 00:36:44,751
And we kept texting tom, "can we
get some shoes?
Can we get this?"

1327
00:36:44,753 --> 00:36:45,752
get some shoes?
Can we get this?"
he was like, "get whatever you

1328
00:36:45,754 --> 00:36:46,653
can we get this?"
he was like, "get whatever you
want."

1329
00:36:46,655 --> 00:36:50,624
he was like, "get whatever you
want."
that was really a fun time.

1330
00:36:50,626 --> 00:36:53,159
Want."
that was really a fun time.
Me and sherri really bonded over

1331
00:36:53,161 --> 00:36:53,927
that was really a fun time.
Me and sherri really bonded over
that.

1332
00:36:53,929 --> 00:36:55,428
Me and sherri really bonded over
that.
That was one valentine's day

1333
00:36:55,430 --> 00:36:57,230
that.
That was one valentine's day
I'll never forget.

1334
00:36:57,232 --> 00:36:57,614
That was one valentine's day
I'll never forget.
Love you, tom.

1335
00:37:00,351 --> 00:37:06,890
♪
>> whitley: You know, looking
back on it, you'd think --

1336
00:37:06,892 --> 00:37:08,508
>> whitley: You know, looking
back on it, you'd think --
I was thinking joshua was 4 or 5

1337
00:37:08,510 --> 00:37:10,260
back on it, you'd think --
I was thinking joshua was 4 or 5
when my mother passed.

1338
00:37:10,262 --> 00:37:12,262
I was thinking joshua was 4 or 5
when my mother passed.
Joshua was 6 months old.

1339
00:37:12,264 --> 00:37:13,430
When my mother passed.
Joshua was 6 months old.
I was like, "how did that

1340
00:37:13,432 --> 00:37:13,930
joshua was 6 months old.
I was like, "how did that
happen?

1341
00:37:13,932 --> 00:37:14,898
I was like, "how did that
happen?
My mother --"

1342
00:37:14,900 --> 00:37:16,199
happen?
My mother --"
joshua was born, my mother

1343
00:37:16,201 --> 00:37:17,734
my mother --"
joshua was born, my mother
stayed with me for three months.

1344
00:37:17,736 --> 00:37:19,402
Joshua was born, my mother
stayed with me for three months.
And that's when we said how god

1345
00:37:19,404 --> 00:37:21,021
stayed with me for three months.
And that's when we said how god
does things and how things work

1346
00:37:21,023 --> 00:37:23,323
and that's when we said how god
does things and how things work
in life.

1347
00:37:23,325 --> 00:37:26,159
Does things and how things work
in life.
Joshua was brought to me because

1348
00:37:26,161 --> 00:37:28,244
in life.
Joshua was brought to me because
god knew my mother was leaving

1349
00:37:28,246 --> 00:37:29,112
joshua was brought to me because
god knew my mother was leaving
soon.

1350
00:37:29,114 --> 00:37:30,647
God knew my mother was leaving
soon.
And joshua and my mother had

1351
00:37:30,649 --> 00:37:32,782
soon.
And joshua and my mother had
such a bond when I think about

1352
00:37:32,784 --> 00:37:33,617
and joshua and my mother had
such a bond when I think about
it.

1353
00:37:33,619 --> 00:37:34,834
Such a bond when I think about
it.
You're not gonna mess up my

1354
00:37:34,836 --> 00:37:36,169
it.
You're not gonna mess up my
makeup.

1355
00:37:36,171 --> 00:37:39,289
You're not gonna mess up my
makeup.
But, um...

1356
00:37:39,291 --> 00:37:41,958
Makeup.
But, um...
He was 6 months old, and I got a

1357
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:43,877
but, um...
He was 6 months old, and I got a
call, my mother had the stroke.

1358
00:37:43,879 --> 00:37:46,513
He was 6 months old, and I got a
call, my mother had the stroke.
And I rushed to cleveland.

1359
00:37:46,515 --> 00:37:49,232
Call, my mother had the stroke.
And I rushed to cleveland.
I remember they said, uh...

1360
00:37:49,234 --> 00:37:51,001
And I rushed to cleveland.
I remember they said, uh...
"you can't bring a baby into the

1361
00:37:51,003 --> 00:37:52,302
I remember they said, uh...
"you can't bring a baby into the
icu."

1362
00:37:52,304 --> 00:37:53,336
"you can't bring a baby into the
icu."
and my mother was laying in her

1363
00:37:53,338 --> 00:37:54,587
icu."
and my mother was laying in her
bed, and her and joshua had

1364
00:37:54,589 --> 00:37:55,505
and my mother was laying in her
bed, and her and joshua had
bonded.

1365
00:37:55,507 --> 00:37:57,223
Bed, and her and joshua had
bonded.
And I finally asked the nurse, I

1366
00:37:57,225 --> 00:37:59,643
bonded.
And I finally asked the nurse, I
was like, "really, just let me

1367
00:37:59,645 --> 00:38:00,844
and I finally asked the nurse, I
was like, "really, just let me
take him in there."

1368
00:38:00,846 --> 00:38:02,145
was like, "really, just let me
take him in there."
she hadn't said anything.

1369
00:38:02,147 --> 00:38:03,346
Take him in there."
she hadn't said anything.
She hadn't made a sound.

1370
00:38:03,348 --> 00:38:05,115
She hadn't said anything.
She hadn't made a sound.
And I brought joshua in the

1371
00:38:05,117 --> 00:38:06,983
she hadn't made a sound.
And I brought joshua in the
room, and my mother raised up

1372
00:38:06,985 --> 00:38:08,935
and I brought joshua in the
room, and my mother raised up
out of the bed, and she reached

1373
00:38:08,937 --> 00:38:13,256
room, and my mother raised up
out of the bed, and she reached
her hand out to joshua, and she

1374
00:38:13,258 --> 00:38:15,492
out of the bed, and she reached
her hand out to joshua, and she
touched his hand, and after

1375
00:38:15,494 --> 00:38:18,828
her hand out to joshua, and she
touched his hand, and after
that, I heard nothing else.

1376
00:38:18,830 --> 00:38:21,965
Touched his hand, and after
that, I heard nothing else.
I will always remember that.

1377
00:38:21,967 --> 00:38:23,299
That, I heard nothing else.
I will always remember that.
Now, I don't know if it was,

1378
00:38:23,301 --> 00:38:26,169
I will always remember that.
Now, I don't know if it was,
like, a transferring of souls,

1379
00:38:26,171 --> 00:38:31,374
now, I don't know if it was,
like, a transferring of souls,
but something happened there.

1380
00:38:31,376 --> 00:38:34,294
Like, a transferring of souls,
but something happened there.
Because I didn't believe in,

1381
00:38:34,296 --> 00:38:36,963
but something happened there.
Because I didn't believe in,
you know, things that, you know,

1382
00:38:36,965 --> 00:38:38,682
because I didn't believe in,
you know, things that, you know,
you see later.

1383
00:38:38,684 --> 00:38:40,550
You know, things that, you know,
you see later.
What happens.

1384
00:38:40,552 --> 00:38:42,352
You see later.
What happens.
But after my mother passed, I

1385
00:38:42,354 --> 00:38:44,220
what happens.
But after my mother passed, I
was in cleveland, and my cousin

1386
00:38:44,222 --> 00:38:46,139
but after my mother passed, I
was in cleveland, and my cousin
called and said, "kym, there's

1387
00:38:46,141 --> 00:38:48,158
was in cleveland, and my cousin
called and said, "kym, there's
this dove in your yard."

1388
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:49,526
called and said, "kym, there's
this dove in your yard."
my mother's favorite bird is a

1389
00:38:49,528 --> 00:38:50,894
this dove in your yard."
my mother's favorite bird is a
dove.

1390
00:38:50,896 --> 00:38:51,895
My mother's favorite bird is a
dove.
Came every day.

1391
00:38:51,897 --> 00:38:54,731
Dove.
Came every day.
We flew back, every day at 3:00,

1392
00:38:54,733 --> 00:38:56,950
came every day.
We flew back, every day at 3:00,
the dove sat up on a pole.

1393
00:38:56,952 --> 00:38:59,069
We flew back, every day at 3:00,
the dove sat up on a pole.
One day, I brought joshua out.

1394
00:38:59,071 --> 00:39:01,071
The dove sat up on a pole.
One day, I brought joshua out.
What do you think the dove did?

1395
00:39:01,073 --> 00:39:04,074
One day, I brought joshua out.
What do you think the dove did?
The dove flew down to joshua's

1396
00:39:04,076 --> 00:39:05,075
what do you think the dove did?
The dove flew down to joshua's
feet.

1397
00:39:05,077 --> 00:39:05,709
The dove flew down to joshua's
feet.
I'm telling y'all.

1398
00:39:05,711 --> 00:39:06,710
Feet.
I'm telling y'all.
I couldn't tell this if I didn't

1399
00:39:06,712 --> 00:39:09,079
I'm telling y'all.
I couldn't tell this if I didn't
see it but with my own eyes.

1400
00:39:09,081 --> 00:39:11,664
I couldn't tell this if I didn't
see it but with my own eyes.
And I knew, I said, "that's my

1401
00:39:11,666 --> 00:39:13,883
see it but with my own eyes.
And I knew, I said, "that's my
mother right there."

1402
00:39:13,885 --> 00:39:15,752
and I knew, I said, "that's my
mother right there."
so, you know, you believe in

1403
00:39:15,754 --> 00:39:17,754
mother right there."
so, you know, you believe in
what you believe in, but when

1404
00:39:17,756 --> 00:39:20,507
so, you know, you believe in
what you believe in, but when
you see it or you want to feel

1405
00:39:20,509 --> 00:39:23,476
what you believe in, but when
you see it or you want to feel
it or see it, my mother and

1406
00:39:23,478 --> 00:39:25,395
you see it or you want to feel
it or see it, my mother and
joshua had a very, very special

1407
00:39:25,397 --> 00:39:27,347
it or see it, my mother and
joshua had a very, very special
bond.

1408
00:39:27,349 --> 00:39:28,598
Joshua had a very, very special
bond.
And I'm grateful to her,

1409
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,434
bond.
And I'm grateful to her,
because, you know, without my

1410
00:39:31,436 --> 00:39:34,070
and I'm grateful to her,
because, you know, without my
mother, I would not have

1411
00:39:34,072 --> 00:39:37,440
because, you know, without my
mother, I would not have
accepted this responsibility.

1412
00:39:37,442 --> 00:39:39,209
Mother, I would not have
accepted this responsibility.
I'd be still in the streets,

1413
00:39:39,211 --> 00:39:41,144
accepted this responsibility.
I'd be still in the streets,
trying to date everybody, trying

1414
00:39:41,146 --> 00:39:42,712
I'd be still in the streets,
trying to date everybody, trying
to do my career.

1415
00:39:42,714 --> 00:39:45,615
Trying to date everybody, trying
to do my career.
But my mother saw a greater

1416
00:39:45,617 --> 00:39:47,917
to do my career.
But my mother saw a greater
purpose for me in this life.

1417
00:39:47,919 --> 00:39:50,787
But my mother saw a greater
purpose for me in this life.
>> [ speaking indistinctly ]

1418
00:39:50,789 --> 00:39:53,056
purpose for me in this life.
>> [ speaking indistinctly ]
[ clacker snaps ]

1419
00:39:53,058 --> 00:39:54,924
>> [ speaking indistinctly ]
[ clacker snaps ]
>> whitley: [ laughs ]

1420
00:39:54,926 --> 00:39:57,393
[ clacker snaps ]
>> whitley: [ laughs ]
currently, I am working on a

1421
00:39:57,395 --> 00:40:00,497
>> whitley: [ laughs ]
currently, I am working on a
work-life balance.

1422
00:40:00,499 --> 00:40:03,249
Currently, I am working on a
work-life balance.
I've recently lost 30 pounds.

1423
00:40:03,251 --> 00:40:06,035
Work-life balance.
I've recently lost 30 pounds.
I am an ambassador for ww, which

1424
00:40:06,037 --> 00:40:08,922
I've recently lost 30 pounds.
I am an ambassador for ww, which
is formerly weight watchers.

1425
00:40:08,924 --> 00:40:10,940
I am an ambassador for ww, which
is formerly weight watchers.
Very happy about that.

1426
00:40:10,942 --> 00:40:13,276
Is formerly weight watchers.
Very happy about that.
I have truly been blessed to

1427
00:40:13,278 --> 00:40:15,311
very happy about that.
I have truly been blessed to
continually work in this

1428
00:40:15,313 --> 00:40:17,180
I have truly been blessed to
continually work in this
industry.

1429
00:40:17,182 --> 00:40:21,151
Continually work in this
industry.
♪

1430
00:40:21,153 --> 00:40:23,286
industry.
♪
the future for kym whitley is to

1431
00:40:23,288 --> 00:40:25,221
♪
the future for kym whitley is to
be the best mother that I can

1432
00:40:25,223 --> 00:40:26,239
the future for kym whitley is to
be the best mother that I can
be.

1433
00:40:26,241 --> 00:40:28,374
Be the best mother that I can
be.
And, um...

1434
00:40:28,376 --> 00:40:30,543
Be.
And, um...
Get married.

1435
00:40:30,545 --> 00:40:31,661
And, um...
Get married.
Or should I say fall in love

1436
00:40:31,663 --> 00:40:32,545
get married.
Or should I say fall in love
then get married?

1437
00:40:32,547 --> 00:40:34,164
Or should I say fall in love
then get married?
Yeah, something like that.

1438
00:40:34,166 --> 00:40:37,834
Then get married?
Yeah, something like that.
And directing and write another

1439
00:40:37,836 --> 00:40:39,335
yeah, something like that.
And directing and write another
book, where you can hear all

1440
00:40:39,337 --> 00:40:41,471
and directing and write another
book, where you can hear all
this stuff in detail.

1441
00:40:41,473 --> 00:40:44,841
Book, where you can hear all
this stuff in detail.
And, um, you know, produce.

1442
00:40:44,843 --> 00:40:46,976
This stuff in detail.
And, um, you know, produce.
I have an animation movie that

1443
00:40:46,978 --> 00:40:49,012
and, um, you know, produce.
I have an animation movie that
I've been working on for many

1444
00:40:49,014 --> 00:40:51,264
I have an animation movie that
I've been working on for many
years that I hope to put out

1445
00:40:51,266 --> 00:40:53,016
I've been working on for many
years that I hope to put out
soon.

1446
00:40:53,018 --> 00:40:54,017
Years that I hope to put out
soon.
So, that's it.

1447
00:40:54,019 --> 00:40:55,919
Soon.
So, that's it.
And just to keep making people

1448
00:40:55,921 --> 00:40:57,954
so, that's it.
And just to keep making people
laugh.

1449
00:40:57,956 --> 00:40:59,923
And just to keep making people
laugh.
And be a light to this world.

1450
00:40:59,925 --> 00:41:05,228
Laugh.
And be a light to this world.
♪

1451
00:41:05,230 --> 00:41:06,963
and be a light to this world.
♪
you know, the best advice I can

1452
00:41:06,965 --> 00:41:08,031
♪
you know, the best advice I can
give anyone --

1453
00:41:08,033 --> 00:41:09,365
you know, the best advice I can
give anyone --
I always feel like when I'm

1454
00:41:09,367 --> 00:41:11,584
give anyone --
I always feel like when I'm
giving advice, I am a legend or

1455
00:41:11,586 --> 00:41:13,169
I always feel like when I'm
giving advice, I am a legend or
about to die or something.

1456
00:41:13,171 --> 00:41:13,402
Giving advice, I am a legend or
about to die or something.
Okay.

1457
00:41:14,371 --> 00:41:15,922
But, no, for real, everybody.

1458
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:19,459
The best advice I can give you,

1459
00:41:19,593 --> 00:41:25,465
to anyone, is do what makes you

1460
00:41:25,599 --> 00:41:26,549
happy.

1461
00:41:26,717 --> 00:41:27,717
That's what you will be

1462
00:41:27,885 --> 00:41:28,768
successful at.

1463
00:41:28,886 --> 00:41:30,553
The things that you will do for

1464
00:41:30,688 --> 00:41:33,890
free every day, that's the thing

1465
00:41:34,024 --> 00:41:35,558
you should do.

1466
00:41:35,726 --> 00:41:37,527
If it's -- you make pies and you

1467
00:41:37,645 --> 00:41:39,395
love making pies, then sell the

1468
00:41:39,530 --> 00:41:40,446
pies, 'cause you're gonna love

1469
00:41:40,564 --> 00:41:41,481
doing that, and you will work

1470
00:41:41,615 --> 00:41:42,532
for free, and that's what you

1471
00:41:42,650 --> 00:41:43,032
will be successful at.