1 00:00:24,359 --> 00:00:25,986 Hello! 2 00:00:27,529 --> 00:00:29,239 Happy Mother's Day! 3 00:00:29,239 --> 00:00:33,035 Grandma! 4 00:00:33,035 --> 00:00:34,620 - Everyone's out back. - Okay. 5 00:00:35,871 --> 00:00:38,457 Open ours first, Mom. 6 00:00:38,457 --> 00:00:41,335 - Thank you, Erin. - And Sam. 7 00:00:41,335 --> 00:00:44,254 Oh, this was all Erin's idea. 8 00:00:44,254 --> 00:00:46,089 What? It was my idea. 9 00:00:46,089 --> 00:00:48,383 Classic Brooke. 10 00:00:48,383 --> 00:00:50,928 Peter what's it like being married to a doctor and a first-born. 11 00:00:50,928 --> 00:00:53,096 Amazing. Sometimes scary. 12 00:00:55,557 --> 00:00:57,768 - Yeah. - Okay, go play with your cousins. 13 00:00:57,768 --> 00:01:00,687 Okay. Let's go, Katie. 14 00:01:00,687 --> 00:01:02,231 Take Cole with you. All right, guys. 15 00:01:02,231 --> 00:01:05,692 Play nice Look at this. 16 00:01:05,692 --> 00:01:07,277 I love it. 17 00:01:07,277 --> 00:01:08,654 Thank you. That's beautiful. 18 00:01:08,654 --> 00:01:11,490 Okay. Now, open this one. 19 00:01:11,490 --> 00:01:14,076 Thank you, Kari. And Tim. 20 00:01:14,076 --> 00:01:16,495 He really wanted to be here today, when you opened it. 21 00:01:16,495 --> 00:01:17,955 Where is he again? 22 00:01:17,955 --> 00:01:19,957 Another academic conference. 23 00:01:19,957 --> 00:01:23,001 But it's the second to last one of the semester, so... 24 00:01:23,001 --> 00:01:25,712 - Ah. It is so pretty! - Aw. 25 00:01:25,712 --> 00:01:27,381 That's beautiful. 26 00:01:27,381 --> 00:01:29,424 - Thank you, honey. - It goes with the scarf. 27 00:01:29,424 --> 00:01:31,343 - We did a whole-- - Whoa, whoa, whoa, don't give it away. 28 00:01:31,343 --> 00:01:33,178 Mom, open mine next. Cole wrapped it. 29 00:01:35,389 --> 00:01:38,267 Come on, the suspense is killing me. 30 00:01:38,267 --> 00:01:41,061 Ah, they are gorgeous. 31 00:01:41,061 --> 00:01:43,146 Aw. - Look, look, look. 32 00:01:43,146 --> 00:01:46,608 Beautiful. - I'm beginning to see a theme here. 33 00:01:46,608 --> 00:01:48,402 Thank you, Ashley. 34 00:01:48,402 --> 00:01:50,529 Well, technically, this should've been first. 35 00:01:51,613 --> 00:01:54,741 Oh, gosh, look at that! 36 00:01:54,741 --> 00:01:57,160 Now that's your color right there. 37 00:01:57,160 --> 00:01:59,079 Thank you, darling. - But... 38 00:01:59,079 --> 00:02:01,415 Where are you going to wear it all? 39 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:04,626 Luke Baxter... 40 00:02:04,626 --> 00:02:06,253 What have you done? 41 00:02:07,212 --> 00:02:09,006 Restaurant Angelini! 42 00:02:09,006 --> 00:02:11,425 Yay! Nice! Yay! 43 00:02:11,425 --> 00:02:13,802 - Good touch. - Wow, Luke! 44 00:02:13,802 --> 00:02:15,137 Yeah, nice job. 45 00:02:15,137 --> 00:02:17,556 Yeah, I really had to deliver 46 00:02:17,556 --> 00:02:19,182 considering you all left me out of the girls group plans yet again. 47 00:02:19,182 --> 00:02:21,226 Aw. 48 00:02:21,226 --> 00:02:25,397 Oh, I love everything. It's all perfect. 49 00:02:25,397 --> 00:02:29,359 Well, you deserve everything. Happy Mother's Day! 50 00:02:29,359 --> 00:02:31,278 Happy Mother's Day, Mom! 51 00:02:31,278 --> 00:02:33,280 Love you too, John. 52 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:35,949 Thank you for putting this beautiful brunch together. 53 00:02:35,949 --> 00:02:41,038 Now what I would like is, a photo with all my kids. 54 00:02:41,038 --> 00:02:43,373 - Mom... - Okay, come on. 55 00:02:43,373 --> 00:02:45,584 Let's go. What Mom wants, Mom gets. 56 00:02:45,584 --> 00:02:47,294 When was the last time we were all together? 57 00:02:47,294 --> 00:02:48,795 I'll take it. Thanks, Peter. 58 00:02:48,795 --> 00:02:51,715 Here we go. That's it. 59 00:02:51,715 --> 00:02:53,675 All right, everybody get in. 60 00:02:53,675 --> 00:02:55,218 Pretend you like each other, big smiles. 61 00:02:55,218 --> 00:02:57,763 All right, remember... 62 00:02:57,763 --> 00:02:59,723 Can't see the camera, it can't see you. 63 00:02:59,723 --> 00:03:01,642 - Baxters, here we go. - Get in close. 64 00:03:01,642 --> 00:03:02,851 Smile... 65 00:03:04,144 --> 00:03:06,271 and... 66 00:03:09,399 --> 00:03:12,861 {\an8}♪ 'Cause life has a way Of pulling us under ♪ 67 00:03:12,861 --> 00:03:15,781 {\an8}♪ But we'll stick it out ♪ 68 00:03:15,781 --> 00:03:18,951 {\an8}♪ If we got each other ♪ 69 00:03:18,951 --> 00:03:22,120 {\an8}♪ When it all feels too much ♪ 70 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:26,291 {\an8}♪ I know you'll come running For me ♪ 71 00:03:26,291 --> 00:03:30,420 {\an8}♪ Through the highs and lows We'll find our way home ♪ 72 00:03:30,420 --> 00:03:31,713 {\an8}♪ Family ♪ 73 00:03:34,091 --> 00:03:35,926 {\an8}♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪ 74 00:03:35,926 --> 00:03:37,260 {\an8}♪ Family ♪ 75 00:03:51,358 --> 00:03:54,611 {\an8}Woodward and Bernstein, anybody know these guys? 76 00:03:55,570 --> 00:03:57,739 {\an8}I'll give you hint. 77 00:03:57,739 --> 00:04:00,659 {\an8}They're not those two crabby old guys from The Muppet Show. 78 00:04:00,659 --> 00:04:03,036 {\an8}They're the reporters that broke the Watergate story. 79 00:04:03,829 --> 00:04:06,206 {\an8}Exactly! 80 00:04:06,206 --> 00:04:07,332 {\an8}Anybody know how they did it? 81 00:04:09,084 --> 00:04:10,544 {\an8}Well, we're gonna spend next session 82 00:04:10,544 --> 00:04:14,131 {\an8}talking about "door knocking." 83 00:04:14,131 --> 00:04:16,925 {\an8}Which is exactly what it sounds like. 84 00:04:16,925 --> 00:04:19,428 {\an8}Knocking on doors to get your story. 85 00:04:19,428 --> 00:04:21,304 {\an8}Woodward and Bernstein 86 00:04:21,304 --> 00:04:23,432 {\an8}made this method of reporting famous 87 00:04:23,432 --> 00:04:25,559 {\an8}during Watergate. 88 00:04:25,559 --> 00:04:28,186 {\an8}And it's still the cornerstone of journalism. 89 00:04:28,186 --> 00:04:29,688 {\an8}Between this week and next, 90 00:04:29,688 --> 00:04:31,398 {\an8}I want you to knock on the door 91 00:04:31,398 --> 00:04:32,858 {\an8}of someone you do not know and tell them 92 00:04:32,858 --> 00:04:33,900 {\an8}you're a reporter on assignment. 93 00:04:34,985 --> 00:04:35,861 {\an8}And ask them... 94 00:04:37,237 --> 00:04:39,072 {\an8}"What did you do last night 95 00:04:39,072 --> 00:04:41,992 {\an8}between 7:00 and 8:00 p.m.?" 96 00:04:41,992 --> 00:04:43,785 {\an8}Then, write down what they say, 97 00:04:43,785 --> 00:04:45,328 {\an8}or if they slam the door in your face. 98 00:04:46,830 --> 00:04:48,248 {\an8}All right, that's all for today. 99 00:04:48,248 --> 00:04:49,166 {\an8}Have a good weekend, everyone. 100 00:04:55,505 --> 00:04:57,382 Good class, Professor Jacobs. 101 00:04:57,382 --> 00:05:00,302 - Oh, thanks, uh... - Dirk. 102 00:05:01,261 --> 00:05:02,387 Dirk. Thank you. 103 00:05:14,941 --> 00:05:18,111 {\an8}- Professor Jacobs. - Angela. 104 00:05:18,111 --> 00:05:20,322 What a coincidence. I just finished reading your paper. 105 00:05:20,322 --> 00:05:22,657 That's actually what I want to talk to you about. 106 00:05:22,657 --> 00:05:26,912 I haven't turned it in to Professor Keene. I wanna hear what you think. 107 00:05:26,912 --> 00:05:29,122 My next office hours are on Wednesday. 108 00:05:29,122 --> 00:05:31,291 - Come on by. - That's the thing, I don't think it can wait. 109 00:05:32,292 --> 00:05:33,835 Oh? 110 00:05:33,835 --> 00:05:35,754 I was hoping we could go somewhere now. 111 00:05:35,754 --> 00:05:37,881 I know a great place around the corner. 112 00:05:52,521 --> 00:05:56,024 Reagan, I had no idea you had this much design experience. 113 00:05:56,024 --> 00:05:58,276 This is amazing. 114 00:05:58,276 --> 00:06:01,113 Yeah, that's why it was so hard for me to leave New York. 115 00:06:01,113 --> 00:06:04,449 But the grad program here, it's so good. 116 00:06:04,449 --> 00:06:07,869 How are you liking it here? I mean, it must be a huge change. 117 00:06:07,869 --> 00:06:09,871 Yeah, it has. 118 00:06:09,871 --> 00:06:12,332 But honestly, the church community has been so helpful 119 00:06:12,332 --> 00:06:16,211 in terms of meeting people like you. 120 00:06:16,211 --> 00:06:18,713 Well, it also turns out to be a great way to get a job. 121 00:06:19,714 --> 00:06:20,799 You are hired. 122 00:06:22,259 --> 00:06:25,387 Wow, I have to tell you, today is my day. 123 00:06:25,387 --> 00:06:28,140 I just signed a lease on a new apartment, now this. 124 00:06:28,140 --> 00:06:29,766 Now I just need a boyfriend by the end of night 125 00:06:29,766 --> 00:06:31,184 and my life is set. 126 00:06:32,394 --> 00:06:34,146 I may know someone for you. 127 00:06:34,146 --> 00:06:36,106 Kari, you're like my guardian angel. 128 00:06:36,106 --> 00:06:38,483 How do you feel about guys that have four older sisters? 129 00:06:39,526 --> 00:06:40,777 You're thinking of Luke. 130 00:06:40,777 --> 00:06:44,072 He's a good guy. 131 00:06:44,072 --> 00:06:48,201 He's also a goof, if you're into that sort of thing. 132 00:06:48,201 --> 00:06:50,203 This is gonna sound so old-fashioned, 133 00:06:50,203 --> 00:06:53,832 but I'm really looking for true love. 134 00:06:53,832 --> 00:06:56,626 Respect, a shared sense of faith. 135 00:06:56,626 --> 00:06:59,129 I had a similar list before I met my husband. 136 00:06:59,129 --> 00:07:01,006 How did that work out? 137 00:07:01,006 --> 00:07:04,259 Falling in love is out of your control. 138 00:07:04,259 --> 00:07:08,638 But staying in love, growing your love, 139 00:07:08,638 --> 00:07:10,473 that's the commitment. 140 00:07:10,473 --> 00:07:12,225 It's not always easy. 141 00:07:12,225 --> 00:07:13,894 But I do believe it's worth it. 142 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,731 Can you like teach a class on this, please? 143 00:07:17,731 --> 00:07:19,482 Hmm. 144 00:07:39,377 --> 00:07:40,545 Hey, babe. 145 00:08:04,778 --> 00:08:07,280 ♪ Out came the sun ♪ 146 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:09,491 ♪ Dried up all the rain ♪ 147 00:08:09,491 --> 00:08:15,121 ♪ And the itsy bitsy spider went up the spout... ♪ 148 00:08:15,121 --> 00:08:16,539 ♪ Again ♪ 149 00:08:16,539 --> 00:08:19,209 ♪ Itsy bitsy spider ♪ 150 00:08:21,753 --> 00:08:24,297 Why is Mommy's hair all funny? 151 00:08:24,297 --> 00:08:27,592 Well, your mommy, she's always been very creative. 152 00:08:27,592 --> 00:08:32,055 You know, once she shaved your Uncle Luke's head and I wasn't happy about that. 153 00:08:32,055 --> 00:08:34,933 Uncle Luke says I look like him. 154 00:08:34,933 --> 00:08:36,977 Let me see that smile. 155 00:08:36,977 --> 00:08:39,479 Yeah, you do, you look like him. 156 00:08:39,479 --> 00:08:41,731 Look, that's him when he was a little boy your age. 157 00:08:43,233 --> 00:08:45,360 - Who is that? - My Aunt Kari. 158 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:47,946 Yeah, that's my girl. 159 00:08:47,946 --> 00:08:49,698 Biggest heart on the block. 160 00:08:49,698 --> 00:08:52,033 What does that mean, Grammy? 161 00:08:52,033 --> 00:08:55,954 Well, that means that you love with all your heart. 162 00:08:55,954 --> 00:08:58,581 And that's what Aunt Kari does. 163 00:08:58,581 --> 00:09:01,543 She loves even when she's hurting. 164 00:09:01,543 --> 00:09:04,045 Even when others have stopped. 165 00:09:05,588 --> 00:09:07,424 Just her nature, I guess. 166 00:09:08,591 --> 00:09:10,427 Pastor Mark, it's Kari. 167 00:09:10,427 --> 00:09:13,263 Is there a time this week for me and Tim to come by? 168 00:09:13,263 --> 00:09:16,224 I have this idea to help couples in the church. 169 00:09:16,224 --> 00:09:19,144 So many people are struggling with relationships. 170 00:09:19,144 --> 00:09:21,354 I feel like there's a way we can serve. 171 00:09:21,354 --> 00:09:23,106 Can you send me some times you're free? 172 00:09:23,106 --> 00:09:24,524 I'll see what works for Tim's schedule. 173 00:09:24,524 --> 00:09:26,401 All right. Bye now. 174 00:09:29,904 --> 00:09:31,072 Have you ever been to Italy? 175 00:09:32,073 --> 00:09:33,742 No. You? 176 00:09:33,742 --> 00:09:37,120 Mmm-mmm. I've always wanted to go. 177 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:38,663 There's something about people 178 00:09:38,663 --> 00:09:41,541 leading with passion, you know? 179 00:09:41,541 --> 00:09:43,460 Yeah, I do. 180 00:09:43,460 --> 00:09:47,589 Like, even their language is romantic. 181 00:09:47,589 --> 00:09:51,343 {\an8}Things are just beautiful to be beautiful, no other reason. 182 00:09:51,343 --> 00:09:54,471 And they don't let social norms get in the way. 183 00:09:54,471 --> 00:09:56,431 They eat pasta whenever they want to eat pasta. 184 00:09:56,431 --> 00:09:58,308 They drink wine for breakfast. 185 00:09:58,308 --> 00:09:59,934 They take naps during the day, the whole country. 186 00:09:59,934 --> 00:10:02,103 I could live like that. 187 00:10:02,103 --> 00:10:05,023 - Do you? - I don't know. 188 00:10:05,023 --> 00:10:06,107 I want to. 189 00:10:07,108 --> 00:10:09,736 I want to so much. 190 00:10:09,736 --> 00:10:12,113 There's always been something holding me back. 191 00:10:12,113 --> 00:10:15,825 And life moves so fast. 192 00:10:15,825 --> 00:10:18,995 Since I met you, I actually see things. 193 00:10:20,789 --> 00:10:22,415 And I feel... 194 00:10:22,415 --> 00:10:24,167 free when I'm around you. 195 00:10:27,212 --> 00:10:31,549 My mom always says, "Live life to the fullest." 196 00:10:31,549 --> 00:10:34,302 {\an8}She's been through so much pain and she still says it. 197 00:10:36,554 --> 00:10:38,765 Because she came out on the other side. 198 00:10:38,765 --> 00:10:40,975 And she raised you. 199 00:10:40,975 --> 00:10:45,230 A strong, independent, beautiful woman. 200 00:10:47,315 --> 00:10:49,818 Your mom's right, Live it to the... 201 00:10:52,195 --> 00:10:53,279 To the full. 202 00:10:55,031 --> 00:10:56,574 Guess what I got? 203 00:10:56,574 --> 00:10:58,326 Chocolate gelato. 204 00:11:16,594 --> 00:11:17,679 Hello? 205 00:11:19,347 --> 00:11:20,765 Um, look. 206 00:11:22,517 --> 00:11:24,102 Hello? 207 00:11:24,102 --> 00:11:25,478 There's something you should know. 208 00:11:25,478 --> 00:11:26,563 Excuse me? 209 00:11:28,523 --> 00:11:30,650 Sorry, I couldn't hear you. Who is this? 210 00:11:30,650 --> 00:11:32,152 I can't tell you who I am. 211 00:11:34,946 --> 00:11:36,489 Hang on, honey, I'll be right down. 212 00:11:36,489 --> 00:11:38,616 Your husband's not there. 213 00:11:38,616 --> 00:11:40,326 Okay, I'm calling the police. 214 00:11:40,326 --> 00:11:41,369 Your husband's having an affair. 215 00:11:42,162 --> 00:11:43,705 What? 216 00:11:43,705 --> 00:11:45,206 I thought you deserve to know the truth. 217 00:11:45,206 --> 00:11:46,958 You have the wrong number. 218 00:11:46,958 --> 00:11:49,294 Is your husband Professor Tim Jacobs? 219 00:11:49,294 --> 00:11:51,337 Who is this? 220 00:11:51,337 --> 00:11:54,132 Look, let's just say I'm doing us both a favor, okay? 221 00:11:54,132 --> 00:11:56,301 Your husband is in the Silverlake Apartments. 222 00:11:56,301 --> 00:11:58,761 At Angela Manning's apartment, number three. 223 00:12:05,268 --> 00:12:06,853 Hey, it's Tim, leave a message. 224 00:12:06,853 --> 00:12:09,689 Hey, Tim, it's me. 225 00:12:09,689 --> 00:12:11,649 Will you call me as soon as you get this? 226 00:12:24,287 --> 00:12:27,457 Hi, can you please connect me with Tim Jacobs' room? 227 00:12:29,250 --> 00:12:31,044 Oh. 228 00:12:31,044 --> 00:12:33,046 Well, this is the Landmark Hotel, isn't it? 229 00:12:33,046 --> 00:12:34,964 And you are hosting a conference this week, right? 230 00:12:34,964 --> 00:12:38,468 Oh, okay, well... Is that the Hyatt across town? 231 00:12:40,595 --> 00:12:42,764 Give me the number for that hotel? 232 00:12:46,392 --> 00:12:49,103 Hi, is there a Tim Jacobs staying at your hotel? 233 00:12:50,772 --> 00:12:52,649 No. Well, he's my husband. 234 00:12:52,649 --> 00:12:54,108 Can I please speak with the manager? 235 00:12:54,108 --> 00:12:55,693 He goes to a lot of conferences. 236 00:12:55,693 --> 00:12:57,445 No, he didn't specify which hotel. 237 00:13:00,198 --> 00:13:02,784 All right. Thank you anyway. 238 00:13:11,501 --> 00:13:13,419 Honey? 239 00:13:13,419 --> 00:13:15,296 I'm in here. 240 00:13:16,506 --> 00:13:19,926 Oh. Wow, what a day. 241 00:13:19,926 --> 00:13:22,637 Sixty-year-old guy came in with fluid in his chest. 242 00:13:22,637 --> 00:13:24,264 Turned out he ruptured his esophagus. 243 00:13:28,518 --> 00:13:32,272 I think I will regale you with stories of my rounds a little later. 244 00:13:33,940 --> 00:13:34,983 Hi. 245 00:13:38,444 --> 00:13:40,905 What is it? 246 00:13:40,905 --> 00:13:43,783 I'm a little worried about Kari and Tim. 247 00:13:43,783 --> 00:13:46,077 Did you talk to her today? 248 00:13:46,077 --> 00:13:48,663 Yeah, she said that Tim can't come for dinner this weekend. 249 00:13:48,663 --> 00:13:50,707 And that's why you're worried? 250 00:13:53,001 --> 00:13:55,211 Well, that's a second time this month. 251 00:13:55,211 --> 00:13:59,924 And you know, they don't look at each other the same way anymore. 252 00:14:04,304 --> 00:14:06,389 Only you... 253 00:14:06,389 --> 00:14:08,266 would notice something like that, Elizabeth. 254 00:14:10,351 --> 00:14:13,146 It's the one thing that Tim had that 255 00:14:13,146 --> 00:14:16,649 always made me think he had something over Ryan Taylor. 256 00:14:16,649 --> 00:14:19,944 - Hmm. - The way he looked at Kari 257 00:14:19,944 --> 00:14:22,864 is the same way that you always look at me. 258 00:14:24,782 --> 00:14:27,785 I thank God every day for giving me more time with you. 259 00:14:29,954 --> 00:14:32,373 All right... 260 00:14:32,373 --> 00:14:35,209 You remember when Kari was young she would always ask, 261 00:14:35,209 --> 00:14:39,380 "Daddy... you'd still pray for me? 262 00:14:39,380 --> 00:14:41,924 Even when I'm gone and married?" 263 00:14:44,552 --> 00:14:46,554 I wanna pray for her now. 264 00:14:46,554 --> 00:14:49,182 Okay. Let's pray. 265 00:14:54,062 --> 00:14:58,066 Lord, we... we come to you tonight 266 00:14:58,066 --> 00:15:02,362 with hearts filled with concern and expectation. 267 00:15:04,489 --> 00:15:06,616 Whenever our family has encountered troubles 268 00:15:06,616 --> 00:15:11,663 in the past, you have always been there to counsel 269 00:15:13,039 --> 00:15:14,499 and console us. 270 00:15:20,463 --> 00:15:23,966 So, we are leaning on your promises tonight. 271 00:15:27,679 --> 00:15:30,515 Whatever the issues between Tim and Kari, 272 00:15:30,515 --> 00:15:34,102 we know they are not beyond your mighty hand. 273 00:15:37,980 --> 00:15:40,108 And so we ask now... 274 00:15:42,151 --> 00:15:42,985 Kari. 275 00:15:44,737 --> 00:15:48,157 ...in this moment that you be with them... 276 00:15:48,157 --> 00:15:49,409 in your special way. 277 00:15:55,873 --> 00:16:00,336 And that you heal whatever brokenness might exist between them 278 00:16:02,672 --> 00:16:04,132 and that you shower them 279 00:16:05,633 --> 00:16:06,884 with your love, 280 00:16:08,344 --> 00:16:10,221 and your beautiful grace. 281 00:16:18,104 --> 00:16:19,397 They need you now. 282 00:16:23,067 --> 00:16:25,820 We ask this in Jesus' name. In Jesus' name. 283 00:16:25,820 --> 00:16:27,113 Amen. 284 00:16:41,127 --> 00:16:42,462 They need you now. 285 00:16:57,643 --> 00:17:00,062 I'm here for the, um, Bible study. 286 00:17:00,062 --> 00:17:02,023 Is this the right place? 287 00:17:02,023 --> 00:17:04,150 Yup, you're in the right place. 288 00:17:04,150 --> 00:17:05,985 This is Aja and this is Mauricio 289 00:17:07,195 --> 00:17:09,739 - and I'm Tim. - I'm Kari. 290 00:17:09,739 --> 00:17:13,075 We're waiting for one more person and then we'll get started. 291 00:17:15,161 --> 00:17:18,664 This campus could really use a parking expansion. 292 00:17:18,664 --> 00:17:21,542 Awesome. Someone new. I'm Ruth. 293 00:17:21,542 --> 00:17:23,127 Sort of the unofficial assistant 294 00:17:23,127 --> 00:17:25,630 to our amazing group leader over there. 295 00:17:25,630 --> 00:17:28,257 There's no official group leader. 296 00:17:28,257 --> 00:17:31,177 We all just take turns reading and sharing 297 00:17:31,177 --> 00:17:32,970 when something really speaks to you. 298 00:17:32,970 --> 00:17:34,931 Jesus wants to have a relationship with us. 299 00:17:34,931 --> 00:17:37,517 A friendship. This just all helps us stay on track. 300 00:17:37,517 --> 00:17:38,601 Let's pray. 301 00:17:41,938 --> 00:17:44,440 Dear Lord, it's so good to be gathered here today 302 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:50,238 with this group, people looking for a deeper understanding of your word. 303 00:17:50,238 --> 00:17:53,241 Thank you for bringing Kari to our study for the first time. 304 00:17:53,241 --> 00:17:56,744 I pray that you'll meet her right at her place of need. 305 00:17:59,413 --> 00:18:04,460 Lord, let your Holy Spirit give us wisdom, show us your will. 306 00:18:04,460 --> 00:18:06,879 We dedicate this time to you 307 00:18:06,879 --> 00:18:10,258 and surrender to your leadership. 308 00:18:10,258 --> 00:18:12,343 We ask all of it in your Son's name. 309 00:18:13,386 --> 00:18:15,596 Amen. 310 00:18:19,267 --> 00:18:20,184 Let's begin. 311 00:18:23,104 --> 00:18:25,439 Kari. I have something for you. 312 00:18:25,439 --> 00:18:27,608 What's up? 313 00:18:27,608 --> 00:18:29,402 I thought you might like a copy of the book we're using as a guide. 314 00:18:29,402 --> 00:18:31,946 What you shared about God not forcing his will, 315 00:18:31,946 --> 00:18:33,990 it really made me think. 316 00:18:33,990 --> 00:18:35,825 I'm, uh, glad you came. 317 00:18:35,825 --> 00:18:39,328 Really? Good. I thought I shared way too much 318 00:18:39,328 --> 00:18:41,497 first day and, wow, I can't shut up. 319 00:18:42,999 --> 00:18:44,333 Can I walk with you? 320 00:18:44,333 --> 00:18:45,793 Yeah, sure. 321 00:18:48,671 --> 00:18:50,172 Can't believe you're a senior here. 322 00:18:50,172 --> 00:18:51,924 We've never crossed paths before now. 323 00:18:51,924 --> 00:18:54,010 Well, it is a really big campus. 324 00:18:55,595 --> 00:18:58,014 And you're faculty, right? 325 00:18:58,014 --> 00:19:00,349 I mean, that pretty much guarantees we don't hang out with the same people. 326 00:19:00,349 --> 00:19:02,268 You're right, I teach two writing courses here, 327 00:19:02,268 --> 00:19:04,395 but I'm also working on my PhD in journalism. 328 00:19:04,395 --> 00:19:06,814 So, technically, I'm still a student. 329 00:19:06,814 --> 00:19:08,107 Journalism. 330 00:19:08,107 --> 00:19:09,442 What about you? 331 00:19:09,442 --> 00:19:11,986 What're you passionate about? 332 00:19:11,986 --> 00:19:15,406 Oh, wow, that's a great question. 333 00:19:17,116 --> 00:19:19,327 No one's asked me that in a while. 334 00:19:19,327 --> 00:19:22,872 Um, so much. 335 00:19:22,872 --> 00:19:26,125 It's like I need to figure out where to put all my passion. 336 00:19:26,792 --> 00:19:28,002 Uh... 337 00:19:28,002 --> 00:19:29,503 I love people. 338 00:19:29,503 --> 00:19:32,256 I believe in people. 339 00:19:32,256 --> 00:19:35,009 I wanna give back somehow. 340 00:19:35,009 --> 00:19:36,177 Why'd you come today? 341 00:19:37,470 --> 00:19:39,680 I've just been feeling stuck. 342 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:42,016 Like someone pressed the pause button on me. 343 00:19:42,016 --> 00:19:45,436 I don't know if that makes sense. 344 00:19:45,436 --> 00:19:49,065 I was really close to someone and it didn't work out the way I thought it would. 345 00:19:49,065 --> 00:19:50,775 Oh. 346 00:19:50,775 --> 00:19:53,694 So, I needed a change... 347 00:19:53,694 --> 00:19:56,697 to get me back on track. 348 00:19:56,697 --> 00:19:59,450 So, was this a good change? 349 00:19:59,450 --> 00:20:03,162 Yeah. Yeah, it was. 350 00:20:03,162 --> 00:20:04,914 Is there still someone special in your life? 351 00:20:06,207 --> 00:20:07,833 Not anymore. 352 00:20:07,833 --> 00:20:09,585 That's good to know. 353 00:20:09,585 --> 00:20:11,879 Now I can work up the courage to ask you out. 354 00:20:11,879 --> 00:20:13,339 I'll see you around. 355 00:20:31,774 --> 00:20:33,567 Thank you, Mom. 356 00:20:33,567 --> 00:20:35,111 How about some fruit? 357 00:20:35,111 --> 00:20:36,946 No, thank you. 358 00:20:36,946 --> 00:20:38,614 Communications class, dude gives a brand new speech 359 00:20:38,614 --> 00:20:40,366 on punctuality every time someone's late. 360 00:20:40,366 --> 00:20:41,784 - I love you. - I love you. 361 00:20:43,244 --> 00:20:45,162 - Oh, sorry, Pop. - Easy. 362 00:20:45,162 --> 00:20:46,372 I'll see you later. 363 00:20:49,375 --> 00:20:50,918 You heard from Kari? 364 00:20:50,918 --> 00:20:54,005 No, but I think I should give her a call. 365 00:20:54,005 --> 00:20:57,216 Well, she always comes to us if she needs our help. 366 00:21:01,971 --> 00:21:03,848 We'll give her till tonight. 367 00:21:03,848 --> 00:21:06,642 We still haven't heard from her, then we'll call her. 368 00:21:06,642 --> 00:21:08,602 - All right? - Okay. 369 00:21:36,589 --> 00:21:37,465 Kari? 370 00:21:40,468 --> 00:21:41,510 Kari. 371 00:21:43,304 --> 00:21:44,221 Kari? 372 00:22:20,591 --> 00:22:21,675 Please Lord... 373 00:22:23,969 --> 00:22:25,137 guide my path. 374 00:22:32,812 --> 00:22:34,271 Are you in love with her? 375 00:22:41,946 --> 00:22:43,989 Yes, I'm in love with her. 376 00:22:49,912 --> 00:22:52,540 Believe me, I... I wasn't... 377 00:22:55,167 --> 00:22:56,877 I would never intentionally hurt you. 378 00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:58,838 Tim... 379 00:23:00,923 --> 00:23:02,049 what you've done... 380 00:23:03,384 --> 00:23:04,635 what you're doing... 381 00:23:06,470 --> 00:23:08,222 I can barely breathe. 382 00:23:12,393 --> 00:23:13,936 Remember how happy we were? 383 00:23:16,647 --> 00:23:17,940 All the dreaming. 384 00:23:19,358 --> 00:23:20,317 Planning. 385 00:23:21,235 --> 00:23:22,987 Picking names. 386 00:23:22,987 --> 00:23:25,114 I never saw you so happy. 387 00:23:26,782 --> 00:23:28,576 But it was all ripped away. 388 00:23:28,576 --> 00:23:30,327 We can still have that life. 389 00:23:31,912 --> 00:23:33,747 I can still see us happy. 390 00:23:36,458 --> 00:23:37,793 How? 391 00:23:37,793 --> 00:23:39,628 By trusting, together. 392 00:23:40,796 --> 00:23:42,715 Letting Him repair our pain, 393 00:23:42,715 --> 00:23:45,176 just like He did when our little girl didn't make it. 394 00:23:52,516 --> 00:23:54,685 I called Pastor Mark. 395 00:23:54,685 --> 00:23:58,105 I had this idea to start a couples ministry in the church. 396 00:23:58,105 --> 00:24:00,107 Couples ministry? We're the ones who need help. 397 00:24:00,107 --> 00:24:02,359 - I... I can't do this anymore. - No, wait. 398 00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:03,944 What's happened to you? 399 00:24:06,614 --> 00:24:07,907 Me? 400 00:24:07,907 --> 00:24:09,992 This isn't just about me. 401 00:24:09,992 --> 00:24:11,744 We did this. We failed. 402 00:24:11,744 --> 00:24:13,120 It won't do any good to talk about it. 403 00:24:13,120 --> 00:24:14,788 But you're everything to me. 404 00:24:14,788 --> 00:24:16,248 But how come you never had time for me? 405 00:24:16,248 --> 00:24:17,541 You're always at the showroom, 406 00:24:17,541 --> 00:24:19,543 or you're at church, 407 00:24:19,543 --> 00:24:21,170 and if it's not some side project with their name on it 408 00:24:21,170 --> 00:24:22,880 then it's some Baxter family dinner. 409 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:25,716 I have built my whole world around you. 410 00:24:25,716 --> 00:24:27,426 No. Not me. 411 00:24:27,426 --> 00:24:28,552 Your family. 412 00:24:28,552 --> 00:24:31,513 You... you're my family. 413 00:24:33,224 --> 00:24:35,768 What about the Kemp Award I got last month? 414 00:24:35,768 --> 00:24:38,229 All you had to do was show up. 415 00:24:38,229 --> 00:24:40,231 You think I'm not supportive? 416 00:24:41,357 --> 00:24:44,193 I am so proud of you. 417 00:24:47,821 --> 00:24:48,739 What about your faith? 418 00:24:50,366 --> 00:24:52,660 Your promise to God. 419 00:24:55,120 --> 00:24:58,123 God knows we're not perfect people. 420 00:24:58,123 --> 00:25:00,334 We're all just trying to do what makes us happy. 421 00:25:00,334 --> 00:25:02,836 And being with Angela makes me happy. 422 00:25:04,046 --> 00:25:05,714 You're my husband, Tim. 423 00:25:05,714 --> 00:25:09,510 Whatever you've done, God can forgive you. 424 00:25:09,510 --> 00:25:12,304 He can help me forgive you. 425 00:25:20,354 --> 00:25:21,647 I won't live a lie. 426 00:25:24,149 --> 00:25:25,359 I want a divorce. 427 00:25:26,151 --> 00:25:27,069 No. 428 00:25:28,654 --> 00:25:29,571 No! 429 00:25:32,199 --> 00:25:33,242 Don't leave! 430 00:25:34,159 --> 00:25:35,536 Don't give up on us. 431 00:25:35,536 --> 00:25:37,454 I won't give you a divorce, Tim. 432 00:26:40,517 --> 00:26:43,062 Hi, Kari, I was just thinking about you. 433 00:26:43,062 --> 00:26:44,813 I... I need to... 434 00:26:44,813 --> 00:26:47,191 Can I come over? I need to talk to you. 435 00:26:47,191 --> 00:26:49,193 Are you okay? What's wrong? 436 00:26:49,193 --> 00:26:50,611 I just can't be here right now. 437 00:26:50,611 --> 00:26:52,321 Can I stay there a while? 438 00:26:52,321 --> 00:26:53,906 Maybe a few days, I don't know. 439 00:26:53,906 --> 00:26:55,491 Of course, honey. 440 00:26:55,491 --> 00:26:58,202 You can stay here as long as you need. 441 00:26:58,202 --> 00:26:59,912 - Okay, I'll be there soon. - Okay. 442 00:27:07,127 --> 00:27:08,462 Morning! 443 00:27:08,462 --> 00:27:10,255 Oh, hi, honey. 444 00:27:10,255 --> 00:27:11,840 Hey. Hi. 445 00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:13,509 What's wrong? 446 00:27:13,509 --> 00:27:15,177 It's Kari. 447 00:27:15,177 --> 00:27:17,888 She came over last night with two duffels, 448 00:27:17,888 --> 00:27:19,181 and she was in tears. 449 00:27:21,892 --> 00:27:23,102 Tim? 450 00:27:23,102 --> 00:27:25,104 I don't honestly know. 451 00:27:25,104 --> 00:27:26,647 I heard her up this morning, 452 00:27:26,647 --> 00:27:29,066 so, I'm sure she'll be down soon. 453 00:27:29,066 --> 00:27:31,026 Come on in, Dad's making breakfast. 454 00:27:38,784 --> 00:27:40,994 It's gotta be something about Tim. Why else would she be sleeping here? 455 00:27:41,995 --> 00:27:42,955 Yeah. 456 00:27:45,707 --> 00:27:48,085 - Kari. - Morning. 457 00:27:48,085 --> 00:27:49,420 Hey, Ash. 458 00:27:49,420 --> 00:27:51,380 Good morning, sweetie. 459 00:27:51,380 --> 00:27:53,257 Did you manage to get some sleep? 460 00:27:53,257 --> 00:27:54,383 Not really. 461 00:27:56,885 --> 00:27:59,263 Kari, whenever you're ready, 462 00:27:59,263 --> 00:28:02,182 whatever you need, honey, we're here for you. 463 00:28:06,937 --> 00:28:08,105 Mom. 464 00:28:09,398 --> 00:28:13,026 Honey. 465 00:28:13,026 --> 00:28:16,280 Tim is in love with another woman. 466 00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:17,823 What? 467 00:28:20,075 --> 00:28:22,744 - Who? - How long has this been going on? 468 00:28:22,744 --> 00:28:25,539 Since the beginning of the semester. 469 00:28:25,539 --> 00:28:27,249 No. 470 00:28:27,249 --> 00:28:28,959 She's his student. 471 00:28:28,959 --> 00:28:30,586 Oh, I can't believe this. 472 00:28:30,586 --> 00:28:32,045 - What a total-- - Ashley. 473 00:28:33,922 --> 00:28:35,549 Sweetheart... 474 00:28:35,549 --> 00:28:37,634 I could kill him. I swear, I could kill him. 475 00:28:37,634 --> 00:28:40,721 Elizabeth, let's try to stay calm here. 476 00:28:40,721 --> 00:28:43,098 Ah, don't tell me to stay calm. 477 00:28:43,098 --> 00:28:45,142 He betrayed our daughter. 478 00:28:45,142 --> 00:28:47,060 - He betrayed our family. - Dad, eggs. 479 00:28:48,770 --> 00:28:51,023 I keep going over it in my mind 480 00:28:51,023 --> 00:28:52,691 and I have no idea 481 00:28:52,691 --> 00:28:54,193 how we got to this point. 482 00:28:54,193 --> 00:28:56,278 - Did you suspect anything? - No. 483 00:28:56,278 --> 00:28:58,822 I should have known. I should have felt it. 484 00:29:01,950 --> 00:29:03,368 What can we do to help? 485 00:29:03,368 --> 00:29:04,661 Pray for us. 486 00:29:05,746 --> 00:29:06,914 Please... 487 00:29:06,914 --> 00:29:08,582 Pray for us. 488 00:29:08,582 --> 00:29:11,126 Of course, we'll keep praying for him. 489 00:29:14,421 --> 00:29:15,506 And... 490 00:29:16,465 --> 00:29:18,133 try not to hate him. 491 00:29:20,177 --> 00:29:21,178 You know, um, 492 00:29:21,178 --> 00:29:22,513 Dr. Chen's wife... 493 00:29:24,014 --> 00:29:25,933 is a divorce attorney, 494 00:29:25,933 --> 00:29:28,268 so when you're ready, I can set up a meeting for you. 495 00:29:28,268 --> 00:29:31,813 It's just one less thing for you to worry about. 496 00:29:31,813 --> 00:29:33,524 I'm not getting a divorce. 497 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,569 What? 498 00:29:37,569 --> 00:29:39,446 I told him I wouldn't give him one. 499 00:29:39,446 --> 00:29:41,281 So he did ask you for one then? 500 00:29:41,281 --> 00:29:42,282 Yes. 501 00:29:43,700 --> 00:29:46,578 Why are you guys looking at me like that? 502 00:29:46,578 --> 00:29:48,830 Tim is still my husband. 503 00:29:48,830 --> 00:29:50,874 - But he's cheating on you. - I wouldn't expect you to get it. 504 00:29:54,753 --> 00:29:56,088 You really wanna work this out? 505 00:29:57,422 --> 00:30:00,259 How can you even ask me that? 506 00:30:00,259 --> 00:30:04,930 I'm holding on to the same vows that have held you two together all these years. 507 00:30:04,930 --> 00:30:07,349 We've definitely had our struggles, 508 00:30:07,349 --> 00:30:09,685 but we've never been unfaithful. 509 00:30:11,603 --> 00:30:13,689 Divorce isn't an option. 510 00:30:13,689 --> 00:30:15,399 What's wrong with you? 511 00:30:15,399 --> 00:30:17,484 We're just trying to understand. 512 00:30:17,484 --> 00:30:18,902 Yeah, sweetheart. 513 00:30:21,863 --> 00:30:23,323 Isn't love a choice? 514 00:30:24,741 --> 00:30:27,452 Isn't that what marriage is about? 515 00:30:27,452 --> 00:30:29,705 The promise we make to each other... 516 00:30:29,705 --> 00:30:31,665 to God. 517 00:30:31,665 --> 00:30:34,251 Isn't that the moment we decide to love each other? 518 00:30:36,295 --> 00:30:38,255 Not just during the fun times, 519 00:30:38,255 --> 00:30:40,424 when it's good and easy, but through all of it. 520 00:30:44,219 --> 00:30:45,387 What made you so wise? 521 00:30:47,639 --> 00:30:48,557 Aw! 522 00:30:50,767 --> 00:30:51,810 Sweetie, you just... 523 00:30:54,605 --> 00:30:56,940 Let us know what you need to feel supported, 524 00:30:58,191 --> 00:30:59,735 and we will do it for you. 525 00:31:02,904 --> 00:31:04,197 We love you. 526 00:31:07,075 --> 00:31:08,452 Drop. Ascend. 527 00:31:10,203 --> 00:31:12,122 Oh, 11. Let's go, let's go. 528 00:31:13,206 --> 00:31:14,249 Got it. Whoo. 529 00:31:17,502 --> 00:31:18,879 There you go. 530 00:31:24,343 --> 00:31:26,303 - Good job, man. - Thanks, man. 531 00:31:26,303 --> 00:31:27,763 Time's looking good. 532 00:31:27,763 --> 00:31:29,431 Hey, Jason. 533 00:31:31,933 --> 00:31:35,646 You got any more of that tren... Whatever you call it? 534 00:31:35,646 --> 00:31:38,523 You're pressing 200. Trust me, you're good. 535 00:31:38,523 --> 00:31:40,859 Yeah, but I'm trying to hit 235 by this week. 536 00:31:40,859 --> 00:31:42,486 235? 537 00:31:42,486 --> 00:31:44,946 It's not a miracle drug. 538 00:31:44,946 --> 00:31:46,448 It's a boost. 539 00:31:46,448 --> 00:31:48,909 Listen to me, 540 00:31:48,909 --> 00:31:49,826 if you keep taking that stuff, it'll start to messing with your head. 541 00:31:49,826 --> 00:31:50,952 Forget it. 542 00:31:52,704 --> 00:31:54,039 I'll get it from someone else. 543 00:31:56,750 --> 00:31:59,002 I love this blazer on you. 544 00:31:59,002 --> 00:32:00,629 Yeah, why do you think I wear it so often? 545 00:32:03,048 --> 00:32:04,800 You're gonna make me late for class again. 546 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:07,386 Don't blame your tardiness on me, Professor. 547 00:32:09,304 --> 00:32:10,597 Can I get a ride? 548 00:32:12,641 --> 00:32:13,684 Oh, uh... 549 00:32:16,144 --> 00:32:19,106 You getting out of the same car as me 550 00:32:19,106 --> 00:32:20,607 in the faculty parking lot. 551 00:32:20,607 --> 00:32:22,693 It's too soon. 552 00:32:22,693 --> 00:32:24,986 Let's evolve into this slowly. 553 00:32:24,986 --> 00:32:27,322 But Kari knows. 554 00:32:27,322 --> 00:32:30,283 Yeah, I need to give the administration a heads-up. You know... 555 00:32:30,283 --> 00:32:33,787 I actually don't know. There's no reason to hide. 556 00:32:37,541 --> 00:32:40,168 Can I handle this in my own way, please? 557 00:32:40,168 --> 00:32:41,962 I wanna do this the right way. 558 00:32:41,962 --> 00:32:43,630 You and I finally get to start a life together. 559 00:32:43,630 --> 00:32:45,590 When I take you to university events, 560 00:32:45,590 --> 00:32:47,968 I don't want there to be a bunch of confusion, or... 561 00:32:47,968 --> 00:32:50,345 Or questions about us. 562 00:32:50,345 --> 00:32:53,140 Let me tell my colleagues. Trust me, it'll be worth the wait. 563 00:32:53,140 --> 00:32:54,850 And then, how about tonight 564 00:32:54,850 --> 00:32:58,437 you and I have dinner at The Grammercy? 565 00:32:58,437 --> 00:33:00,731 Well, we'll definitely be seen there. 566 00:33:00,731 --> 00:33:02,858 Exactly. Let's say 8:00. 567 00:33:02,858 --> 00:33:04,317 I'll have to meet you there after class. 568 00:33:04,317 --> 00:33:05,777 That sounds perfect. 569 00:33:09,865 --> 00:33:11,324 I walk out first. 570 00:33:11,324 --> 00:33:12,451 I'll see you later. 571 00:33:20,709 --> 00:33:23,086 The party you have dialed is unavailable. 572 00:33:24,421 --> 00:33:26,214 Hey, Angela, it's Dirk. 573 00:33:27,257 --> 00:33:29,092 I was thinking, uh, 574 00:33:29,092 --> 00:33:32,512 maybe we could get some of the classmates together 575 00:33:32,512 --> 00:33:34,598 and go get drinks or... 576 00:33:34,598 --> 00:33:37,100 dinner or something fun. 577 00:33:38,059 --> 00:33:39,394 Uh, but, yeah, uh... 578 00:33:40,437 --> 00:33:41,813 call me back. 579 00:33:41,813 --> 00:33:43,356 All right, bye. 580 00:33:47,402 --> 00:33:48,945 Okay, I'm done. 581 00:33:51,490 --> 00:33:53,742 I'm glad you're enjoying this. 582 00:33:53,742 --> 00:33:57,329 Just so you know, these track suits were all the rage in 2002. 583 00:33:57,329 --> 00:33:59,039 Mom keeps everything. 584 00:33:59,039 --> 00:34:00,916 I'm not gonna lie, 585 00:34:00,916 --> 00:34:01,875 I kind of feel like I'm racing Jessica Simpson. 586 00:34:03,210 --> 00:34:04,920 Come on, let's do one more. 587 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,422 I have to be at the showroom in an hour. 588 00:34:07,422 --> 00:34:09,424 So take like a, "I just found out my husband's having an affair" day. 589 00:34:09,424 --> 00:34:11,927 I'm sure they'll understand. 590 00:34:11,927 --> 00:34:14,012 I thought the whole point of this run was to help take my mind off things. 591 00:34:15,889 --> 00:34:17,599 I have to be honest. 592 00:34:17,599 --> 00:34:21,394 I really don't know why you wanna stay with him. 593 00:34:21,394 --> 00:34:23,522 I'm fighting for my marriage. 594 00:34:23,522 --> 00:34:24,981 I have to. 595 00:34:24,981 --> 00:34:28,193 - But why? - Tim is just... confused. 596 00:34:28,193 --> 00:34:31,071 Somewhere along the way, he lost his faith. 597 00:34:31,071 --> 00:34:33,448 He needs me. 598 00:34:33,448 --> 00:34:35,659 Kari, that is-- 599 00:34:35,659 --> 00:34:38,036 Look, I know it makes you uncomfortable to talk about God, 600 00:34:38,036 --> 00:34:40,205 but I believe He can help us through this. 601 00:34:41,248 --> 00:34:43,208 And Tim and I... 602 00:34:43,208 --> 00:34:45,085 we're gonna come out on the other side even stronger. 603 00:34:45,085 --> 00:34:48,588 Tim doesn't deserve you... or your faith. 604 00:34:48,588 --> 00:34:51,132 He didn't even have the decency to tell you himself. 605 00:34:51,132 --> 00:34:54,010 You had to hear it from some psycho. Who was that guy, anyway? 606 00:34:54,010 --> 00:34:56,263 I don't know. 607 00:34:56,263 --> 00:34:58,765 Someone mad at Tim. Maybe one of his students got a bad grade. 608 00:35:00,851 --> 00:35:02,853 Well, don't you think God would rather you be happy? 609 00:35:05,522 --> 00:35:07,065 That's what Tim said. 610 00:35:07,065 --> 00:35:08,859 I just don't know why you're so hung up, 611 00:35:08,859 --> 00:35:11,027 when there are plenty of other fish in the sea. 612 00:35:11,027 --> 00:35:13,655 Like handsome, football-playing fish. 613 00:35:13,655 --> 00:35:15,323 - Can we not go there? - Oh, come on! 614 00:35:15,323 --> 00:35:16,992 I know it's at least crossed your mind. 615 00:35:16,992 --> 00:35:18,368 You know he moved back to Bloomington? 616 00:35:18,368 --> 00:35:20,078 It doesn't matter. 617 00:35:20,078 --> 00:35:22,205 Ryan made his feelings very clear. 618 00:35:22,205 --> 00:35:23,748 What does that mean? 619 00:35:23,748 --> 00:35:26,251 It means it's in the past. 620 00:35:27,210 --> 00:35:28,670 Tim is my husband. 621 00:35:28,670 --> 00:35:31,548 Yeah, Tim's your husband because of Ryan. 622 00:35:31,548 --> 00:35:34,175 What are you talking about? 623 00:35:34,175 --> 00:35:36,469 The only reason you ever got close to Tim, 624 00:35:36,469 --> 00:35:38,597 is because you were trying to make Ryan jealous. 625 00:35:38,597 --> 00:35:40,765 Ashley, that is completely ridiculous. 626 00:35:40,765 --> 00:35:41,892 Is it? 627 00:35:43,685 --> 00:35:47,188 Look, I know you pride yourself in telling it like it is, 628 00:35:47,188 --> 00:35:49,524 but that is so not what I need right now. 629 00:35:49,524 --> 00:35:51,484 I get you made a commitment to Tim. 630 00:35:51,484 --> 00:35:54,654 Commitment? You don't know anything about commitment. 631 00:35:54,654 --> 00:35:56,364 You can't commit to anything, 632 00:35:56,364 --> 00:35:58,241 not even being a mother to your own son. 633 00:36:00,285 --> 00:36:03,288 Wh... Where did that come from? 634 00:36:03,288 --> 00:36:04,956 You leave Cole with Mom and Dad, 635 00:36:04,956 --> 00:36:07,375 so you can develop your artistic voice, 636 00:36:07,375 --> 00:36:10,378 and then spend half your time hanging out with your hipster friends. 637 00:36:10,378 --> 00:36:12,297 Meanwhile, Cole's growing up, 638 00:36:12,297 --> 00:36:14,966 very fast, and he hardly knows his own mother. 639 00:36:17,469 --> 00:36:19,387 You have no idea how good you have it. 640 00:36:20,972 --> 00:36:23,016 Some of us would kill to be mothers. 641 00:36:24,976 --> 00:36:27,062 You said you would stop holding that against me. 642 00:36:32,359 --> 00:36:33,360 Look... 643 00:36:35,195 --> 00:36:37,447 I'm sorry. I didn't mean to upset you. 644 00:36:37,447 --> 00:36:39,491 I just love you and I want what's best for you. 645 00:36:39,491 --> 00:36:41,451 You don't know what's best for me. 646 00:36:41,451 --> 00:36:44,079 You don't even know what's best for yourself. 647 00:36:46,373 --> 00:36:48,458 He doesn't want you, Kari! 648 00:36:48,458 --> 00:36:50,377 And you don't want him! 649 00:37:27,163 --> 00:37:27,998 Come on, let's go. 650 00:37:32,460 --> 00:37:33,378 Let's go boys. 651 00:37:41,052 --> 00:37:42,012 Ashley Baxter. 652 00:37:42,887 --> 00:37:43,722 Ryan. 653 00:37:45,015 --> 00:37:46,683 Catch up. 654 00:37:46,683 --> 00:37:49,310 Wow, this is crazy. I was just, um... 655 00:37:49,310 --> 00:37:50,895 I was just thinking about you. 656 00:37:50,895 --> 00:37:52,856 - Are you coaching here now? - Yep. 657 00:37:52,856 --> 00:37:54,315 Yeah, I'm taking over for Coach Curtis. He just retired. 658 00:37:54,315 --> 00:37:55,942 No, Coach Curtis is still alive? 659 00:37:57,944 --> 00:37:59,821 Well, I bet they're excited to have you. 660 00:37:59,821 --> 00:38:01,031 Yeah, I'm winning 'em over. 661 00:38:01,031 --> 00:38:02,991 Oh, come on. 662 00:38:02,991 --> 00:38:05,827 Ryan Taylor, NFL superstar, leading them to victory. 663 00:38:05,827 --> 00:38:07,662 Former NFL superstar. 664 00:38:09,581 --> 00:38:11,249 So, how's your family doing? 665 00:38:11,249 --> 00:38:12,959 Mom and Dad all right? 666 00:38:12,959 --> 00:38:15,045 Isn't it Kari you really want to know about? 667 00:38:16,463 --> 00:38:17,464 Yeah, all right. 668 00:38:18,548 --> 00:38:19,466 How's Kari? 669 00:38:20,717 --> 00:38:22,552 She's okay. 670 00:38:22,552 --> 00:38:24,304 Just okay? 671 00:38:24,304 --> 00:38:27,724 Um, she is going through some stuff right now. 672 00:38:27,724 --> 00:38:29,225 What kind of stuff? Is she all right? 673 00:38:33,938 --> 00:38:36,941 Well, her lowlife husband has been cheating on her. 674 00:38:36,941 --> 00:38:38,735 So, she's been better. 675 00:38:40,028 --> 00:38:41,654 - You're kidding? - No. 676 00:38:41,654 --> 00:38:43,364 She's staying with my parents right now, 677 00:38:43,364 --> 00:38:46,034 and she's a total mess, to be honest. 678 00:38:46,034 --> 00:38:49,954 Look, I really should not be saying anything, I know, but... 679 00:38:49,954 --> 00:38:52,373 I don't know, Kari's marriage is falling apart 680 00:38:52,373 --> 00:38:55,376 and here you are. 681 00:38:55,376 --> 00:38:58,171 Maybe it's a sign from God or something. 682 00:38:58,171 --> 00:39:00,340 Ashley, when did you start believing in signs again? 683 00:39:03,009 --> 00:39:04,344 I think now. 684 00:39:07,639 --> 00:39:09,349 Hey, I gotta go, but... 685 00:39:09,349 --> 00:39:11,392 I really hope I see you around, Ryan. 686 00:39:11,392 --> 00:39:12,644 Yeah, you too. 687 00:39:20,318 --> 00:39:22,070 All right. Come on, guys. Let's go. 688 00:39:37,877 --> 00:39:40,171 Next time on The Baxters... 689 00:39:40,171 --> 00:39:42,090 If Kari hadn't found out on her own, 690 00:39:42,090 --> 00:39:43,925 were you gonna tell her about me? 691 00:39:43,925 --> 00:39:46,052 I'm serious about us. Let me prove it to you. 692 00:39:46,052 --> 00:39:47,887 I have absolutely no idea why you wanna stay with that creep. 693 00:39:47,887 --> 00:39:49,389 Divorce goes against God's will, you know that. 694 00:39:49,389 --> 00:39:51,432 He's sleeping with a student. 695 00:39:51,432 --> 00:39:53,059 Even God wouldn't ask you to stay with someone like that. 696 00:39:53,059 --> 00:39:55,436 Lord, I know there are people here 697 00:39:55,436 --> 00:39:57,522 who are hurting and in trouble. 698 00:39:57,522 --> 00:39:59,149 you okay? - You were right. 699 00:39:59,149 --> 00:40:00,775 I don't think I'm ready. 700 00:40:00,775 --> 00:40:04,404 Come, and let someone pray with you. 701 00:40:04,404 --> 00:40:06,531 Let's join hands. 702 00:40:06,531 --> 00:40:07,824 We're really doing this. 703 00:40:07,824 --> 00:40:10,201 To new beginnings.