1 00:00:20,061 --> 00:00:23,565 Oh, my God, this place makes me wanna curl up in the fetal position. 2 00:00:23,648 --> 00:00:25,692 -You said one drink. -I say a lot of things. 3 00:00:25,775 --> 00:00:28,570 -I actually listened to this one. -I should have just gone home 4 00:00:28,653 --> 00:00:31,114 -and had a bowl of cereal and just-- -Greyhound or Seabreeze? 5 00:00:31,197 --> 00:00:34,868 Okay, if this place has grapefruit juice, I'll pay your next month's rent. 6 00:00:36,828 --> 00:00:38,246 -Hey, Ton. -Hi. 7 00:00:39,039 --> 00:00:42,584 So, anyway, one of my patients today was getting a quadruple bypass, 8 00:00:42,667 --> 00:00:45,211 and his entire family was coming into the room, 9 00:00:45,295 --> 00:00:48,089 and it was getting so annoying because... 10 00:00:48,173 --> 00:00:49,299 Nice scrubs. 11 00:00:54,137 --> 00:00:55,430 Thanks. 12 00:00:56,431 --> 00:00:59,267 No, I mean, seriously. Like, it's a great color. 13 00:01:02,729 --> 00:01:03,980 Nice pants. 14 00:01:05,732 --> 00:01:07,942 -You like 'em? -Hmm. 15 00:01:08,026 --> 00:01:09,027 Good. 16 00:01:09,986 --> 00:01:13,448 I was kinda on the fence today. I wasn't sure whether to go with pants, 17 00:01:13,531 --> 00:01:16,993 but then I thought, "Ah, probably. Probably pants." 18 00:01:18,286 --> 00:01:20,371 What were your other choices? 19 00:01:20,455 --> 00:01:22,707 Uh, barrel and suspenders. 20 00:01:22,791 --> 00:01:26,753 Catsuit. Uh, some kind of decorative, you know, paint situation. 21 00:01:28,713 --> 00:01:31,424 -Shorts? -Shorts, yeah. 22 00:01:32,300 --> 00:01:34,344 That's definitely a choice people make, right? 23 00:01:36,262 --> 00:01:40,809 Let me get this straight. So do you get different anesthesia training? 24 00:01:40,892 --> 00:01:43,853 No. No, it's the same, but when a nurse... 25 00:01:44,771 --> 00:01:46,272 anesthetist. 26 00:01:46,356 --> 00:01:48,024 -You can't even say it. -Ha ha ha ha. 27 00:01:48,108 --> 00:01:50,151 Ha ha. You can't even say it. 28 00:01:50,235 --> 00:01:52,278 I can say it. I can say it. Okay. 29 00:01:52,362 --> 00:01:54,614 - But when a nurse anesthetist-- - Anesthetist. 30 00:01:54,697 --> 00:01:56,950 -Anes... Anesthetist... -Hmm. 31 00:01:57,033 --> 00:01:59,661 ...administers anesthesia, it's nursing, 32 00:01:59,744 --> 00:02:01,704 so it has to be overseen by a doctor. 33 00:02:01,788 --> 00:02:04,833 But when an anesthesiologist does it, it's medicine, 34 00:02:04,916 --> 00:02:07,627 -so it doesn't have to be overseen-- -Okay, wait. 35 00:02:07,710 --> 00:02:10,964 So you do the same job as anesthesiologist... 36 00:02:11,047 --> 00:02:13,800 -Mm-hmm. -but with a chaperone for half the money. 37 00:02:13,883 --> 00:02:15,385 Well... I mean... 38 00:02:16,719 --> 00:02:19,347 -Half the money's still great money. -Ahh. 39 00:02:19,430 --> 00:02:22,642 -No one really chaperones me anymore-- -But doesn't that make you mad? 40 00:02:22,725 --> 00:02:25,061 -Uh-- -I mean, that would make me mad. 41 00:02:25,145 --> 00:02:27,564 I'm sorry, but I mean, I'm mad for you. 42 00:02:27,647 --> 00:02:29,440 I... I mean... 43 00:02:30,567 --> 00:02:33,570 -You should be paid more. -Maybe I should go to law school, then. 44 00:02:33,653 --> 00:02:36,906 -There's still time. -Okay, you're making fun of me now. 45 00:02:36,990 --> 00:02:37,991 I see. 46 00:02:39,033 --> 00:02:41,494 You know, I am on the pathway to the... 47 00:02:42,495 --> 00:02:47,417 materially rich, spiritually empty existence of my dreams. 48 00:02:47,500 --> 00:02:48,459 Ha ha ha. 49 00:02:48,543 --> 00:02:50,670 That's not funny at all. That's just sad. 50 00:03:01,890 --> 00:03:03,558 Hi. I'm Ethan. I'm the best man. 51 00:03:05,226 --> 00:03:08,396 Most of you don't know him real well. 52 00:03:08,479 --> 00:03:12,150 I've known him, uh, three or four years now, 53 00:03:12,233 --> 00:03:15,236 and if you talk to any of his friends, 54 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:18,573 as far as the reaction to him getting married... 55 00:03:19,407 --> 00:03:24,120 you are gonna find out they are just completely shocked and baffled. 56 00:03:25,580 --> 00:03:26,664 We are going for pancakes, 57 00:03:26,748 --> 00:03:30,084 and you are not invited because you are busy. 58 00:03:30,168 --> 00:03:32,253 -No, I'm not. -You've got your hands full. 59 00:03:32,337 --> 00:03:33,588 I mean, why don't you? 60 00:03:33,671 --> 00:03:36,007 If you don't want a handful of that guy, you must be crazy. 61 00:03:36,090 --> 00:03:38,176 I will see you tomorrow. 62 00:03:38,259 --> 00:03:42,722 And the reason why... I think the reason why is that we're... 63 00:03:43,514 --> 00:03:44,682 skeptical people. 64 00:03:45,808 --> 00:03:46,976 So... 65 00:03:47,060 --> 00:03:51,814 seeing him in love is an inspiring thing for me, 66 00:03:51,898 --> 00:03:55,151 and I'm sure for anyone who knows him, too. 67 00:03:58,029 --> 00:03:59,697 -You're leaving with them? -No. 68 00:04:00,740 --> 00:04:03,785 -But you're leaving. -Uh, yeah. 69 00:04:05,703 --> 00:04:07,163 I have a shift tomorrow. 70 00:04:07,664 --> 00:04:09,666 -I should really go. -Take me with you. 71 00:04:11,751 --> 00:04:13,419 -Um-- -No, I didn't... 72 00:04:13,503 --> 00:04:15,380 I didn't mean it like that. I just meant like, 73 00:04:15,463 --> 00:04:18,132 you know, let's go get a coffee or go for a drive. 74 00:04:18,216 --> 00:04:21,344 Whatever you're comfortable with. It's just... 75 00:04:22,220 --> 00:04:26,766 I mean, we're having a good time, right? I just... I don't want it to end. 76 00:04:27,850 --> 00:04:28,851 Not yet. 77 00:04:33,898 --> 00:04:37,318 -Yeah, okay. -And so, in closing... 78 00:04:37,402 --> 00:04:39,904 I wish you the best of everything, John. 79 00:04:39,988 --> 00:04:43,574 - Let's everybody say "Cheers." - Cheers. 80 00:04:43,658 --> 00:04:46,327 -May you live happily ever after. -Thanks, Ethan. 81 00:04:52,041 --> 00:04:54,377 Come on, guys. Big smile for the camera. 82 00:05:43,801 --> 00:05:45,803 I had a dream about this, by the way. 83 00:05:46,220 --> 00:05:47,597 {\an8}-You did? -Mm-hmm. 84 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:48,514 {\an8}About eggs? 85 00:05:48,598 --> 00:05:52,143 {\an8}Well, eggs served by a beautiful, sexy woman. 86 00:05:52,226 --> 00:05:54,395 {\an8}What could be a better dream than that? 87 00:05:56,105 --> 00:05:58,399 {\an8}Maybe a dream where I could fly. Maybe. 88 00:06:02,362 --> 00:06:03,988 {\an8}-Here we go. -Thank you. 89 00:06:04,072 --> 00:06:06,324 {\an8}-Mm-hmm. -What's your day? 90 00:06:07,033 --> 00:06:12,538 {\an8}Um, I am going to meet with a client in Mission Viejo. 91 00:06:14,165 --> 00:06:15,166 {\an8}What's your day? 92 00:06:16,542 --> 00:06:20,421 {\an8}I have a clinic in Garden Grove. I have to help with a root canal. 93 00:06:21,381 --> 00:06:23,049 {\an8}You ever heard of an endodontist? 94 00:06:23,883 --> 00:06:28,846 {\an8}An endodontist is a dentist that specializes in diseases of the pulp. 95 00:06:29,931 --> 00:06:31,516 {\an8}Pulp, as in like, your tooth-- 96 00:06:31,599 --> 00:06:35,478 {\an8}I know what an endodontist is. I don't need to hear any more about that. 97 00:06:37,355 --> 00:06:41,818 {\an8}If you taught me how to cook eggs that awesome French-chef way, 98 00:06:41,901 --> 00:06:44,028 {\an8}I could make them for both of us. 99 00:06:44,112 --> 00:06:47,990 {\an8}Oh, you don't have to do that, hon. You do so much for me already. 100 00:07:07,593 --> 00:07:11,139 {\an8}We could also get the court to enter a restraining order for capital depletion. 101 00:07:11,222 --> 00:07:13,975 {\an8}You know, to stop someone from destroying assets. 102 00:07:14,058 --> 00:07:17,770 {\an8}Uh... oh, okay. But that- But that's not those, right? 103 00:07:17,854 --> 00:07:21,774 {\an8}No. I mean, well, some of them do mention money, stolen money, but... 104 00:07:21,858 --> 00:07:27,613 {\an8}mm, these seem to mostly be threats, harassment, intimidation, yeah. 105 00:07:28,739 --> 00:07:30,658 {\an8}Wait. That's what I was wondering, 106 00:07:30,741 --> 00:07:34,745 {\an8}you know, is it possible that maybe that's not him, you know? 107 00:07:34,829 --> 00:07:38,916 {\an8}-I mean, maybe those aren't about him or-- -You mean John Meehan is a common name? 108 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:43,212 {\an8}Yeah, but let's not ask him about it just yet 109 00:07:43,296 --> 00:07:46,757 {\an8}because you did say that... 110 00:07:46,841 --> 00:07:49,427 {\an8}this one is his ex-wife, right? Tonia? 111 00:07:49,510 --> 00:07:53,890 {\an8}Oh, yeah. But that-- You know, that was a very, very ugly divorce. I mean... 112 00:07:54,599 --> 00:07:56,893 {\an8}She... cheated on him 113 00:07:56,976 --> 00:08:00,271 {\an8}and then wanted him to come back, and-and... 114 00:08:00,354 --> 00:08:02,648 {\an8}you know, she fought him for custody, and... 115 00:08:02,732 --> 00:08:05,860 {\an8}made all kinds of accusations. He eventually lost his job. 116 00:08:05,943 --> 00:08:09,655 {\an8}I'm e-mailing these to myself, okay, so that I can print them out. 117 00:08:09,739 --> 00:08:11,115 {\an8}Oh, okay. 118 00:08:11,199 --> 00:08:13,659 {\an8}And, yeah, I thought, too, you know, maybe the, um-- 119 00:08:13,743 --> 00:08:18,206 {\an8}those printouts from some of those online... forums or whatever... 120 00:08:18,915 --> 00:08:20,583 {\an8}maybe that could've been Tonia, too. 121 00:08:20,666 --> 00:08:24,128 {\an8}'Cause, I mean, anybody can make a profile and... 122 00:08:24,212 --> 00:08:28,049 {\an8}post pictures and, you know, all kinds of nasty stuff online. 123 00:08:28,132 --> 00:08:31,928 {\an8}Yeah. Things can get very out of control online. 124 00:08:32,011 --> 00:08:34,680 {\an8}Ha ha. That's the understatement of the century, huh? 125 00:08:34,764 --> 00:08:35,806 {\an8}I wish I could tell you 126 00:08:35,890 --> 00:08:39,435 {\an8}that I've never seen this kind of behavior in family court, but, uh, 127 00:08:39,519 --> 00:08:43,648 {\an8}-people do just keep on surprising me. -Mm-hmm. 128 00:08:45,316 --> 00:08:48,319 {\an8}Are you thinking you wanna file for an annulment? Would that help? 129 00:08:51,072 --> 00:08:52,073 {\an8}Oh... 130 00:08:54,742 --> 00:08:55,868 {\an8}Um... 131 00:08:58,538 --> 00:09:01,666 {\an8}-Oh, I don't know. Uh... -Okay. 132 00:09:01,749 --> 00:09:05,878 {\an8}That's fine. Look, I know all of this here is very intimidating. 133 00:09:05,962 --> 00:09:09,924 {\an8}I do. I understand that, but I'm gonna figure out what we're dealing with, okay? 134 00:09:10,007 --> 00:09:13,261 {\an8}We're gonna figure it out together. All right? 135 00:09:13,344 --> 00:09:14,512 {\an8}Okay. 136 00:09:14,595 --> 00:09:15,721 {\an8}-Thank you. -Okay. 137 00:09:15,805 --> 00:09:18,099 {\an8}Well, till then, just keep your head down. 138 00:09:39,245 --> 00:09:40,246 You all right? 139 00:09:41,956 --> 00:09:45,001 Please don't make fun of me, okay? 140 00:09:45,084 --> 00:09:46,210 I'm not. 141 00:09:48,170 --> 00:09:51,215 Remember, I told you you don't even have to do this. 142 00:09:51,299 --> 00:09:54,260 No, I do. Your dad's old school. 143 00:09:54,343 --> 00:09:57,972 He asked your grandpa for your mom's hand in marriage, and I'll do the same. 144 00:09:58,764 --> 00:10:00,182 What if you throw up on him? 145 00:10:01,183 --> 00:10:03,185 Ha ha. I'm kidding. 146 00:10:05,229 --> 00:10:08,357 He loves you. They all do. Why are you so worried? 147 00:10:10,443 --> 00:10:12,486 Just getting married, you know? 148 00:10:13,321 --> 00:10:15,823 Families coming together. I don't know if I can do that. 149 00:10:17,658 --> 00:10:19,410 You don't know if you can do what? 150 00:10:19,493 --> 00:10:24,415 My family. I can't do that to yours, like dishonor them with mine. 151 00:10:26,459 --> 00:10:28,502 You know, I know you say that, 152 00:10:28,586 --> 00:10:30,630 and I know you had a hard time growing up, but-- 153 00:10:30,713 --> 00:10:32,757 No, you don't. You couldn't because, 154 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:35,551 you know, your family's lovin' and supportive. 155 00:10:35,635 --> 00:10:38,220 Mine were drug addicts and alcoholics. 156 00:10:39,639 --> 00:10:42,642 Even before the divorce, they hated each other. 157 00:10:42,725 --> 00:10:46,062 When I was little, they hated me. I knew that before I knew what it meant. 158 00:10:47,063 --> 00:10:48,064 John... 159 00:10:48,147 --> 00:10:51,233 You can't understand that because you were raised by people to be a person. 160 00:10:51,317 --> 00:10:52,985 I was raised by monsters. 161 00:10:54,236 --> 00:10:57,031 Well, I'm here... to listen. 162 00:10:58,658 --> 00:11:00,493 If I told you what they did to me... 163 00:11:01,452 --> 00:11:03,496 you'll think about me the same way that they did. 164 00:11:03,579 --> 00:11:05,331 You won't be able to help it. 165 00:11:06,207 --> 00:11:08,042 John, baby, that's not true. 166 00:11:12,254 --> 00:11:13,923 I told you that I, you know, 167 00:11:14,006 --> 00:11:16,384 don't talk to them much anymore, but that's not true. 168 00:11:17,677 --> 00:11:19,220 I don't talk to them at all. 169 00:11:20,930 --> 00:11:21,972 For how long? 170 00:11:23,265 --> 00:11:24,266 Years. 171 00:11:26,310 --> 00:11:28,854 For years now. It's just, it was either that or... 172 00:11:30,523 --> 00:11:31,982 I mean, it had to be that. 173 00:11:33,442 --> 00:11:37,738 Listen, I want this life with you more than anything. I do. It's just... 174 00:11:40,116 --> 00:11:41,492 If we're gonna do this... 175 00:11:42,702 --> 00:11:46,831 my family cannot be a part of it. Ever. 176 00:11:48,874 --> 00:11:50,960 -Okay. -No, you have to promise me. 177 00:11:51,043 --> 00:11:56,006 Because next thing, we'll have a baby, and you'll be so in love, you'll think, 178 00:11:56,090 --> 00:11:59,552 "They can share in this. This will fix everything." But it won't. 179 00:11:59,635 --> 00:12:01,929 They'll poison us, and you can't let that happen. 180 00:12:02,012 --> 00:12:04,306 So please, promise me. 181 00:12:04,390 --> 00:12:05,808 I... 182 00:12:05,891 --> 00:12:08,102 Yeah. No, I promise. 183 00:12:14,692 --> 00:12:15,693 I promise. 184 00:12:22,533 --> 00:12:24,243 Hey. 185 00:12:27,496 --> 00:12:28,497 You married him? 186 00:12:31,584 --> 00:12:33,669 I... I... I did. 187 00:12:33,753 --> 00:12:36,630 I-I-- You know, honey, I was gonna tell you, 188 00:12:36,714 --> 00:12:40,634 but I-I wanted to wait for the right moment because you-you... 189 00:12:40,718 --> 00:12:43,053 you know, you hate him so much. 190 00:12:43,137 --> 00:12:44,138 Toby told me. 191 00:12:45,598 --> 00:12:46,599 John told Toby. 192 00:12:49,101 --> 00:12:51,145 Oh, I-I didn't know that. 193 00:12:51,228 --> 00:12:53,481 No, John wouldn't have told you. 194 00:12:53,564 --> 00:12:55,941 Toby went to the house the day before yesterday. 195 00:12:56,025 --> 00:12:57,777 He wanted to apologize to you. 196 00:12:57,860 --> 00:12:59,695 John told him he was trespassing... 197 00:13:00,613 --> 00:13:02,740 and that he no longer has an aunt, 198 00:13:02,823 --> 00:13:06,494 and it was good his father shot his mother before she could see what a loser Toby is. 199 00:13:06,577 --> 00:13:09,371 -Veronica-- -John said that. The man you married-- 200 00:13:11,791 --> 00:13:14,043 and didn't tell us that you married him-- 201 00:13:14,126 --> 00:13:15,586 said that about... 202 00:13:16,796 --> 00:13:17,880 our family. 203 00:13:19,882 --> 00:13:24,178 I-I don't... I, you know, I don't know about any of that. 204 00:13:25,596 --> 00:13:27,848 You don't know this man at all. 205 00:13:30,476 --> 00:13:32,186 Or what he is... 206 00:13:32,269 --> 00:13:33,687 potentially capable of. 207 00:13:37,691 --> 00:13:41,278 Do you really, really believe that he doesn't want your money? 208 00:13:41,362 --> 00:13:43,948 You don't see that's what he's wanted from the beginning? 209 00:13:44,031 --> 00:13:47,785 I-I am working through, so I'm figuring it out. 210 00:13:47,868 --> 00:13:48,911 How? 211 00:13:48,994 --> 00:13:50,412 I am dealing with it... 212 00:13:51,747 --> 00:13:52,957 Veronica. 213 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:54,208 I hope you got a prenup. 214 00:14:18,315 --> 00:14:19,817 Not a science major? 215 00:14:20,651 --> 00:14:25,364 No. I did a lot of extra science classes outside of my major, though. 216 00:14:25,447 --> 00:14:27,950 Growing up, I worked at Stanford Med as an orderly. 217 00:14:29,410 --> 00:14:32,079 So, interested in medicine peripherally? 218 00:14:32,162 --> 00:14:33,163 Yeah. 219 00:14:34,123 --> 00:14:36,792 And then I met Tonia and... 220 00:14:36,876 --> 00:14:41,171 I've taken him through my old textbooks. He's picking things up faster than I did. 221 00:14:41,255 --> 00:14:43,257 Yeah, law school taught me the pros and cons 222 00:14:43,340 --> 00:14:45,759 {\an8}of every make of luxury car, 223 00:14:45,843 --> 00:14:48,470 {\an8}but at this point, I can't even remember why I went there. 224 00:14:48,554 --> 00:14:52,266 I mean, if you decide I can't do this, I... I can't go back to that. 225 00:14:52,349 --> 00:14:55,019 I really need some purpose. I really do. 226 00:14:55,102 --> 00:14:58,397 I will say we do see a proportionally high rate of success 227 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:00,274 with our older students. 228 00:15:02,026 --> 00:15:04,445 And you have this one on your side, which helps. 229 00:15:06,071 --> 00:15:08,157 But it's gonna be a lot of work. 230 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:09,450 More than you even know. 231 00:15:11,535 --> 00:15:14,622 When I want something, I know how to buckle down. 232 00:15:43,067 --> 00:15:45,527 All right, just let me know when you're finished. 233 00:16:02,586 --> 00:16:04,630 I have a little cash here in the house 234 00:16:04,713 --> 00:16:08,842 that I just keep here in case, you know, there's an earthquake, God forbid, or... 235 00:16:08,926 --> 00:16:10,636 How much is it? 236 00:16:10,719 --> 00:16:14,348 I don't know. Maybe probably 80,000 or 90,000. 237 00:16:14,431 --> 00:16:17,017 -I rented a safe deposit box today. -Oh, yeah? 238 00:16:17,101 --> 00:16:21,814 Yeah, you know, for important papers, passports, that kind of thing. 239 00:16:21,897 --> 00:16:24,400 I was thinking the cash should go in there, too, 240 00:16:24,483 --> 00:16:26,777 in case there's, like, a fire or something. 241 00:16:31,323 --> 00:16:32,741 -Hey. -Hi. 242 00:16:32,825 --> 00:16:35,035 -How's it going? -Good. 243 00:16:35,119 --> 00:16:38,414 Just making myself some tea. I got a upset stomach. Do you want some? 244 00:16:38,497 --> 00:16:41,375 Oh, no. Yeah, sure. Thanks. 245 00:16:47,131 --> 00:16:48,632 So I talked to a buddy. 246 00:16:49,591 --> 00:16:54,179 Guy I met when I was trying to stop Tonia from draining me dry after the split. 247 00:16:56,432 --> 00:17:00,227 He used to not mind investing cash for me through his firm when I needed him to. 248 00:17:00,310 --> 00:17:02,438 So I asked him to, uh, 249 00:17:02,521 --> 00:17:06,233 hook me up with someone out here to invest our cash. 250 00:17:08,444 --> 00:17:11,238 So that's why it's not in the safe deposit box anymore. 251 00:17:17,411 --> 00:17:18,412 Oh. 252 00:17:19,163 --> 00:17:20,914 I have the text-alert option, 253 00:17:20,998 --> 00:17:23,876 so I got a text today saying that you were there. 254 00:17:23,959 --> 00:17:26,045 It didn't tell me why, but it made me realize 255 00:17:26,128 --> 00:17:29,089 I hadn't told you that I'd taken the cash out. 256 00:17:33,052 --> 00:17:34,428 Oh. All right. 257 00:17:35,554 --> 00:17:36,638 That's fine. 258 00:17:39,308 --> 00:17:41,977 So... why were you there? 259 00:17:44,813 --> 00:17:45,814 Well... 260 00:17:48,317 --> 00:17:53,030 Veronica came by the office today, and, um... 261 00:17:54,323 --> 00:17:56,450 somehow she knows we're married. 262 00:17:57,159 --> 00:18:00,788 So cat's out of the bag. Ha ha ha ha. 263 00:18:02,206 --> 00:18:03,707 We can wear these now. 264 00:18:06,043 --> 00:18:07,044 Really? 265 00:18:16,512 --> 00:18:17,763 -Aw. -Mm-hmm. 266 00:18:17,846 --> 00:18:18,722 We're married. 267 00:18:31,276 --> 00:18:34,696 ♪ I've hungered for♪ 268 00:18:34,780 --> 00:18:36,740 ♪ Your touch♪ 269 00:18:38,492 --> 00:18:41,453 ♪ A long♪ 270 00:18:41,537 --> 00:18:44,498 ♪ Lonely time... ♪ 271 00:18:47,167 --> 00:18:48,418 Oh, here you go. 272 00:18:49,378 --> 00:18:50,504 ♪ And time...♪ 273 00:18:50,587 --> 00:18:51,839 Look at the camera. 274 00:18:53,423 --> 00:18:57,094 We should treat every child not just as a case patient, 275 00:18:57,177 --> 00:18:59,638 but as if they were part of our own family. 276 00:19:00,305 --> 00:19:02,057 Thank you so much for coming. 277 00:19:09,314 --> 00:19:12,025 - Great talk. Thank you. - I appreciate it. Have a good afternoon. 278 00:19:12,109 --> 00:19:13,944 - Take care. - Nice to meet you. 279 00:19:14,027 --> 00:19:15,362 Nice to meet you. Bye. 280 00:19:17,030 --> 00:19:20,659 No, please. Sorry, drink it. I know everyone wants to talk to you. 281 00:19:20,742 --> 00:19:21,994 I'm Maggie. 282 00:19:22,077 --> 00:19:25,414 Tonia. I'm a CRNA at St. Hilda's in Dayton. 283 00:19:25,497 --> 00:19:27,374 Dayton, yeah. I've heard that's a great hospital. 284 00:19:27,457 --> 00:19:30,586 Yeah, yeah. I me-- No, it is. 285 00:19:32,462 --> 00:19:36,425 I just wanted to tell you how much I loved your talk. I always-- 286 00:19:36,508 --> 00:19:40,846 Well, I prefer the more anecdotal speeches to the really technical ones. 287 00:19:41,930 --> 00:19:44,600 And I know a lot of our colleagues would like a little more 288 00:19:44,683 --> 00:19:46,310 "Intracranial cysts in children-- 289 00:19:46,393 --> 00:19:49,730 peritoneal derivation or endoscopic fenestration? Discuss." 290 00:19:49,813 --> 00:19:53,108 I'm like you. I like to hear about people. 291 00:19:53,192 --> 00:19:55,319 Well, I've only worked one pediatric case. 292 00:19:55,402 --> 00:19:58,405 Two months old, hydrocephalus, VP shunt placement failed. 293 00:19:58,488 --> 00:20:01,450 You would not believe how cute this baby was. 294 00:20:01,533 --> 00:20:02,910 Eyelashes like swock. 295 00:20:02,993 --> 00:20:06,914 Oh, I would definitely believe it. Do you have a family yourself? 296 00:20:06,997 --> 00:20:09,291 Yep. Married, two kids, both under five. 297 00:20:09,374 --> 00:20:10,584 -Wow. -I know. 298 00:20:10,667 --> 00:20:13,086 -You are an American hero. -Huh. 299 00:20:13,170 --> 00:20:15,047 Well, what about you? 300 00:20:15,130 --> 00:20:16,590 Um, not yet. 301 00:20:16,673 --> 00:20:19,134 I used to think I was more effective without kids. 302 00:20:19,218 --> 00:20:20,761 Less emotional, in a good way. 303 00:20:21,595 --> 00:20:24,556 But then, a few years ago, I realized that wasn't true anymore. 304 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:25,849 Now you think maybe you might? 305 00:20:27,643 --> 00:20:31,313 Yeah. Um... I didn't wanna do it alone, 306 00:20:31,396 --> 00:20:35,359 and it took me a while to find the person, you know, but... 307 00:20:35,442 --> 00:20:38,695 we're about ten months in now, and we're having those conversations. 308 00:20:38,779 --> 00:20:40,239 Well, congratulations. 309 00:20:40,322 --> 00:20:42,366 -That's gonna be one smart kid. -Thank you. 310 00:20:42,449 --> 00:20:45,244 No, thank you again for the talk, really. 311 00:20:45,327 --> 00:20:48,497 Oh, it's my pleasure, and it was- it was really nice to meet you... 312 00:20:50,374 --> 00:20:51,375 Tonia. 313 00:20:52,042 --> 00:20:53,377 -Tonia Meehan. -W-- 314 00:20:54,753 --> 00:20:58,507 Dayton, you said. You're a CRNA in Dayton? 315 00:20:58,590 --> 00:20:59,591 Yeah. 316 00:21:02,177 --> 00:21:03,804 What does your husband do? 317 00:21:03,887 --> 00:21:06,139 John? Well, he's actually one, too. 318 00:21:06,223 --> 00:21:10,519 He travels a lot more than me. I stick nearer home for the kids. 319 00:21:10,602 --> 00:21:14,523 He's been coming to Indiana a lot. You might've crossed paths at work. 320 00:21:14,606 --> 00:21:16,275 It wouldn't be surprising at all. 321 00:21:16,358 --> 00:21:17,818 Uh... heh. 322 00:21:42,134 --> 00:21:44,177 Hey. How's it going? 323 00:21:46,888 --> 00:21:50,183 You look wiped. It's a good thing the kids are asleep. 324 00:21:51,768 --> 00:21:56,106 Those conferences are tough, huh? Not that looking after two kids is easy. 325 00:21:56,189 --> 00:21:59,109 The latest thing is they've taken to pinching each other. 326 00:22:00,736 --> 00:22:01,737 So... 327 00:22:03,322 --> 00:22:06,283 What's the latest in anesthesia care, hmm? 328 00:22:10,912 --> 00:22:13,915 No? All right. We'll start smaller. 329 00:22:15,083 --> 00:22:16,543 What'd you learn, hmm? 330 00:22:19,212 --> 00:22:21,840 I talked to a pediatric neurosurgeon. 331 00:22:21,923 --> 00:22:23,842 Oh, yeah. They're smart. 332 00:22:27,262 --> 00:22:30,515 Yeah. Her name is Maggie Baratta. 333 00:22:43,820 --> 00:22:44,821 Huh. 334 00:22:47,949 --> 00:22:48,950 Are you smiling? 335 00:22:50,660 --> 00:22:53,205 Okay. All right. 336 00:22:53,288 --> 00:22:54,873 So you wanna get into this now? 337 00:22:55,999 --> 00:22:59,669 You wanna get into this right now? Hmm? 338 00:23:01,713 --> 00:23:03,173 Get into what, John? 339 00:23:04,091 --> 00:23:07,427 What are we getting into? She said you've been together almost ten months. 340 00:23:20,565 --> 00:23:22,317 She operates two days a week. 341 00:23:24,111 --> 00:23:25,821 Sees patients two mornings. 342 00:23:27,531 --> 00:23:31,034 She probably makes, I don't know, like, 500k. 343 00:23:32,244 --> 00:23:35,247 You saw her. I mean, she even looks expensive, right? 344 00:23:39,292 --> 00:23:40,877 What are you even... 345 00:23:40,961 --> 00:23:43,422 Wh-What are you even saying? Are you trying to upgrade? 346 00:23:44,631 --> 00:23:46,383 You're showing off. You're... 347 00:23:46,466 --> 00:23:49,344 You're putting on some kind of show. I don't know for who. 348 00:23:50,387 --> 00:23:51,388 What is this, John? 349 00:23:55,976 --> 00:23:57,018 What are you doing? 350 00:24:00,564 --> 00:24:01,565 I don't know. 351 00:24:07,779 --> 00:24:09,156 It's something. 352 00:24:21,877 --> 00:24:24,838 I'll go over everything with you, and I've also printed up a copy. 353 00:24:26,047 --> 00:24:28,467 -Oh, my God. -It's-It's a lot. 354 00:24:29,134 --> 00:24:30,385 Arrest record's on top. 355 00:24:33,889 --> 00:24:35,599 "Felony burglary, first-degree. 356 00:24:35,682 --> 00:24:39,186 Felony burglary, second-degree." What is the difference between those two? 357 00:24:39,269 --> 00:24:43,148 Second is entering a commercial building with intent to commit. 358 00:24:43,231 --> 00:24:45,650 First is entering a residence. 359 00:24:45,734 --> 00:24:47,235 -So both of those? -Mm-hmm. 360 00:24:48,487 --> 00:24:49,488 I knew it. 361 00:24:54,201 --> 00:24:57,496 "Felony threat with intent to extort? 362 00:24:57,579 --> 00:24:58,413 Felony..." 363 00:24:59,831 --> 00:25:02,209 "Possession of a gun by a felon." 364 00:25:03,210 --> 00:25:05,253 John's a gun guy? He has guns? 365 00:25:05,337 --> 00:25:08,840 At least once that we know of, he has been a guy with a gun, yeah. 366 00:25:13,845 --> 00:25:15,639 What are all of these numbers here? 367 00:25:15,722 --> 00:25:17,891 Social Security numbers he's used. 368 00:25:17,974 --> 00:25:21,686 If he's been arrested for all of these things 369 00:25:21,770 --> 00:25:24,648 and he's been charged with all of them, then why is he not in prison? 370 00:25:24,731 --> 00:25:26,525 He was, and now he's not. 371 00:25:27,067 --> 00:25:31,404 Okay. But, like, he pled guilty for stalking and a gun in California. 372 00:25:31,488 --> 00:25:34,783 It says that he was given two concurrent two-year sentences. 373 00:25:34,866 --> 00:25:37,911 Right. So concurrent means he served them at the same time. 374 00:25:38,537 --> 00:25:40,956 So... two concurrent sentences, 375 00:25:41,039 --> 00:25:45,293 and the court gave him credit for time served and good behavior. 376 00:25:45,377 --> 00:25:51,883 So two years minus 541 days credit is six and a third months. 377 00:25:51,967 --> 00:25:55,011 Now, he should've gone to state prison, but overcrowding, 378 00:25:55,095 --> 00:25:59,808 so he served six and a third months at Theo Lacy Jail in Orange, 379 00:25:59,891 --> 00:26:01,685 and he was released. 380 00:26:01,768 --> 00:26:03,603 The third week of last September. 381 00:26:06,398 --> 00:26:08,275 That's when he met my mom. 382 00:26:09,234 --> 00:26:12,404 So where-where did he go when he got out? Where was he living? 383 00:26:13,196 --> 00:26:16,658 I haven't found any fixed address for him in that time frame yet. 384 00:26:18,827 --> 00:26:19,661 So... 385 00:26:21,162 --> 00:26:23,498 when I told my mom I thought he looked homeless... 386 00:26:25,000 --> 00:26:26,585 maybe he actually was homeless? 387 00:26:35,635 --> 00:26:38,888 There she is. You did great, Celia. You're a Spartan. 388 00:26:40,348 --> 00:26:41,474 They get it all? 389 00:26:41,558 --> 00:26:44,060 Yeah. Surgeon's on his way down to talk to you. 390 00:26:44,144 --> 00:26:46,521 You got a tube going there, so be careful, 391 00:26:46,605 --> 00:26:48,023 and a pump for your meds. 392 00:26:49,065 --> 00:26:50,692 How's your pain right now? 393 00:26:50,775 --> 00:26:54,613 From a one to ten. One--"I feel okay" to-- 394 00:26:54,696 --> 00:26:58,283 Ten? Your pain is a ten? Okay. 395 00:26:58,366 --> 00:27:00,368 All right. I'm gonna take that away. 396 00:27:25,060 --> 00:27:29,022 He barely drew out the Fentanyl. I think what he gave her was saline. 397 00:27:29,105 --> 00:27:31,399 I know he didn't give her meds. 398 00:27:31,483 --> 00:27:35,862 I saw him drop the vials in his pocket. He didn't put them in the receptacle. 399 00:27:35,945 --> 00:27:39,199 You seriously think John would steal drugs from a patient? 400 00:27:39,282 --> 00:27:40,992 I'm telling you what I saw. 401 00:27:41,743 --> 00:27:42,744 And... 402 00:27:43,787 --> 00:27:46,956 I reported it to Aikiko. She's calling the nursing board. 403 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:47,916 Oh, my God. 404 00:27:49,042 --> 00:27:52,337 Lynn, why would you? He'll lose his license. 405 00:27:52,420 --> 00:27:56,424 It was smooth, Tonia, what he did. 406 00:27:56,508 --> 00:27:59,761 This was not a day-one thing. It was just the first time anyone saw it. 407 00:28:26,830 --> 00:28:30,333 John is not the only CRNA in your family, Tonia. 408 00:28:30,417 --> 00:28:34,129 If this is a... bigger thing than what I... 409 00:28:34,212 --> 00:28:36,840 and it ends up with the cops searching your house for drugs, 410 00:28:36,923 --> 00:28:38,967 they could think that you were stealing them, too. 411 00:28:39,050 --> 00:28:40,969 Or at least that you knew he was. 412 00:28:52,147 --> 00:28:53,523 They could take your kids. 413 00:28:54,941 --> 00:28:57,819 And I know you. I know you would never. 414 00:29:02,907 --> 00:29:05,452 Unh. John. 415 00:29:06,578 --> 00:29:08,705 I'm not the one you'd have to prove it to. 416 00:29:47,660 --> 00:29:48,870 Hello. 417 00:29:48,953 --> 00:29:51,247 Hi, Debra. It's Paula Harding, the attorney. 418 00:29:51,331 --> 00:29:52,957 Hi, Paula. How are you? 419 00:29:53,041 --> 00:29:54,167 Uh... 420 00:29:54,250 --> 00:29:55,668 I... 421 00:29:55,752 --> 00:29:57,670 I'm just gonna start. 422 00:29:57,754 --> 00:29:59,506 Well, that doesn't sound very good. 423 00:30:00,548 --> 00:30:04,302 They're him. The restraining orders in Ohio and California 424 00:30:04,385 --> 00:30:06,262 and more in Indiana, Kentucky. All... 425 00:30:07,347 --> 00:30:09,474 It's all the same guy. It's all your husband. 426 00:30:09,557 --> 00:30:11,935 Oh. Okay, well... 427 00:30:14,562 --> 00:30:15,563 Are you sure? 428 00:30:16,731 --> 00:30:20,485 California and Ohio, he's been in prison. California, more than once. 429 00:30:21,945 --> 00:30:24,447 -Prison for what? -Stalking a woman. 430 00:30:24,531 --> 00:30:27,283 Violating a restraining order against a different woman. 431 00:30:27,367 --> 00:30:28,201 Stealing drugs. 432 00:30:31,287 --> 00:30:34,999 The online purchases were component parts of a handgun--a SIG Sauer. 433 00:30:35,083 --> 00:30:37,502 Like he was trying to buy each piece from a different place 434 00:30:37,585 --> 00:30:39,295 and use 'em all to build one gun. 435 00:30:40,338 --> 00:30:42,924 And was he able to do that? Was he able to get... 436 00:30:44,092 --> 00:30:45,134 all the pieces? 437 00:30:46,344 --> 00:30:47,345 I don't know. 438 00:30:49,639 --> 00:30:52,267 And what-what, um-- So then what should I do? 439 00:30:53,476 --> 00:30:56,771 Look, this man has sued every lawyer who's ever filed against him. 440 00:30:56,855 --> 00:30:58,356 Tied them up with complaints. 441 00:30:58,439 --> 00:31:00,817 He sued his own lawyers after they won judgments for him 442 00:31:00,900 --> 00:31:02,861 so they couldn't collect their fees. I... 443 00:31:03,653 --> 00:31:04,821 I... 444 00:31:04,904 --> 00:31:07,073 I just can't deal with somebody like that. 445 00:31:09,534 --> 00:31:10,535 I'm sorry. 446 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:13,162 Debra? 447 00:31:14,455 --> 00:31:15,582 I'm... 448 00:31:15,665 --> 00:31:18,626 -Okay. So that's it then? -The annulment. 449 00:31:18,710 --> 00:31:20,545 You should file on that right away. 450 00:31:20,628 --> 00:31:24,090 And if you have a will and he's in it, take him out. 451 00:31:25,341 --> 00:31:28,595 If you don't have one, make one right away that does not mention him, 452 00:31:28,678 --> 00:31:31,264 and you need to make sure he knows it doesn't. 453 00:31:31,347 --> 00:31:33,683 Because if he thinks he would be getting your money, 454 00:31:33,766 --> 00:31:35,268 I don't know what he might do. 455 00:31:35,935 --> 00:31:38,646 The palpitations, shortness of breath, dizziness-- 456 00:31:38,730 --> 00:31:40,899 you were totally right to come here, okay? 457 00:31:41,816 --> 00:31:43,109 But it's not your heart. 458 00:31:43,192 --> 00:31:45,361 We're gonna give you some Lorazepam. 459 00:31:47,614 --> 00:31:51,576 Anybody waiting? Need me to go out front, bring anyone back here for you? 460 00:31:53,161 --> 00:31:54,162 Husband? Partner? 461 00:31:55,371 --> 00:31:56,831 No. 462 00:31:56,915 --> 00:32:00,960 Well, then... you rest here for a bit, and when I come back with your scrip, 463 00:32:01,044 --> 00:32:02,670 we'll get you out of here, okay? 464 00:32:03,796 --> 00:32:04,797 Thank you. 465 00:32:13,681 --> 00:32:14,682 -Jeff. -Hmm. 466 00:32:15,683 --> 00:32:17,936 Can you explain to us a little bit about John? 467 00:32:18,394 --> 00:32:23,691 Shush. Someday, I'll be president, and I will exile this man. 468 00:32:23,775 --> 00:32:26,611 Okay. Let me start by saying that John Meehan... 469 00:32:27,445 --> 00:32:30,573 John Meehan's nickname is "Filthy" John Meehan. 470 00:32:30,657 --> 00:32:31,658 Ha ha. 471 00:32:31,741 --> 00:32:34,494 And can you remember when you first created that nickname and why? 472 00:32:34,577 --> 00:32:37,997 Yes. Yes, I can, but it cannot be divulged on camera. 473 00:32:38,081 --> 00:32:39,123 Ha ha ha ha. 474 00:32:39,207 --> 00:32:42,835 I just wanna say I take showers now and baths, okay? 475 00:32:42,919 --> 00:32:44,837 I'm a fan of being clean. All right? 476 00:32:47,215 --> 00:32:49,759 I mean, coke, yeah. 477 00:32:49,842 --> 00:32:50,802 We were in grad school. 478 00:32:50,885 --> 00:32:54,722 There was studying that some of us even took seriously. 479 00:32:54,806 --> 00:32:57,558 But so a few of the guys did coke. John did it, yeah. 480 00:32:57,642 --> 00:32:59,018 Keep you awake kinda stuff. 481 00:33:00,228 --> 00:33:01,729 We were young... ish. 482 00:33:03,189 --> 00:33:06,317 Also, all of us in the house thought you were great. 483 00:33:06,985 --> 00:33:09,445 Honestly, we kind of wondered why you would be with him. 484 00:33:10,530 --> 00:33:12,949 Why? Why wouldn't I? 485 00:33:13,032 --> 00:33:16,744 Uh... about you being nice and smart, a nurse. 486 00:33:16,828 --> 00:33:20,498 And him just like--ha ha ha ha-- 487 00:33:20,581 --> 00:33:22,709 just being like a dog with women. Ha ha ha. 488 00:33:24,836 --> 00:33:26,504 Is-Is that why the name? 489 00:33:26,587 --> 00:33:30,425 -He never told me-- -"Dirty"? "Filthy"? Yeah, I guess. 490 00:33:30,508 --> 00:33:32,635 -Dirty John. -Ha ha. Yeah. 491 00:33:32,719 --> 00:33:34,554 -Hello? Hi. -What's up? 492 00:33:34,637 --> 00:33:37,557 Second time asking for coffee. Whenever you get a chance. 493 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:40,518 Um, but it was also about the other kinds of stuff he was up to. 494 00:33:40,601 --> 00:33:42,645 The credit cards, the yard-work thing. 495 00:33:45,106 --> 00:33:48,151 Uh... what are you talking about? 496 00:33:48,484 --> 00:33:50,778 He had a... like a-- 497 00:33:50,862 --> 00:33:54,157 He had business cards made up, like, for roofing, yard work, 498 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:57,076 and he'd... he'd give them out to older people, 499 00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:00,246 say he'd throw them a break on-- thank you--shingling or a chimney rebuild. 500 00:34:00,329 --> 00:34:03,666 Just--that's enough, thanks-- give 'em an advance for materials. 501 00:34:03,750 --> 00:34:06,252 And then he'd take the money and not go back. 502 00:34:08,713 --> 00:34:11,299 -And what about the credit cards? -Uh... 503 00:34:11,382 --> 00:34:14,510 they'd come in the mail to the house, all different names. 504 00:34:14,594 --> 00:34:17,138 At first, we thought it was a delivery mistake, but... 505 00:34:18,723 --> 00:34:19,724 it wasn't. 506 00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,146 Also, some of the guys saw him... 507 00:34:25,229 --> 00:34:27,273 run into the street at stop signs 508 00:34:27,356 --> 00:34:30,985 and throw himself onto the hood of a car slowing down, 509 00:34:31,069 --> 00:34:34,489 and tell the driver, "Give me 300 bucks, and your premium won't go up." 510 00:34:35,615 --> 00:34:36,616 And they did. 511 00:34:38,242 --> 00:34:39,243 Um... 512 00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:45,625 how was he keeping these scams straight and going to classes, too? 513 00:34:47,376 --> 00:34:50,630 Last semester, second year, he was definitely gone, 514 00:34:50,713 --> 00:34:52,590 but he might've bailed before that. 515 00:34:52,673 --> 00:34:54,634 We weren't in the same classes. 516 00:34:55,468 --> 00:34:56,469 Sorry. 517 00:34:58,429 --> 00:35:00,348 -For what? -I lived with him that year... 518 00:35:00,431 --> 00:35:02,600 and we had good times or whatever, 519 00:35:02,683 --> 00:35:05,478 but he never talked about things, and I never asked. 520 00:35:05,561 --> 00:35:06,437 I don't know why. 521 00:35:07,438 --> 00:35:10,900 So... I don't know... why. 522 00:35:11,818 --> 00:35:12,819 There's just... 523 00:35:14,487 --> 00:35:16,239 a blank space where the story should be. 524 00:35:38,761 --> 00:35:40,096 -Are you okay? -Hmm. 525 00:35:40,179 --> 00:35:41,180 Yeah? 526 00:36:05,496 --> 00:36:06,747 What are you doing here? 527 00:36:06,831 --> 00:36:09,709 If I ask you a question, will you answer me honestly? 528 00:36:10,793 --> 00:36:13,546 John, I am the most honest person you know. 529 00:36:13,629 --> 00:36:17,884 Okay. Who called the State Nursing Board? 530 00:36:17,967 --> 00:36:20,761 I'm not telling you. Why would I? 531 00:36:26,392 --> 00:36:28,853 If you won't tell me who it was, it means it was you. 532 00:36:28,936 --> 00:36:30,021 Oh, my God. 533 00:36:31,772 --> 00:36:33,232 This is what you care about. 534 00:36:34,025 --> 00:36:36,319 Not the patients whose meds you stole. 535 00:36:36,402 --> 00:36:38,946 People relying on you who you could've killed, 536 00:36:39,030 --> 00:36:41,616 either because you're so out of it, you miss something, 537 00:36:41,699 --> 00:36:44,452 or because their hearts could've stopped from the shock. 538 00:36:45,536 --> 00:36:48,039 Do you know we could've lost the girls over this? 539 00:36:48,122 --> 00:36:51,292 I have it on excellent authority that you're the one who called. 540 00:36:51,375 --> 00:36:52,376 Well, I didn't. 541 00:36:54,212 --> 00:36:56,339 You really sound like you're goin' off the deep end. 542 00:36:56,422 --> 00:36:59,634 How would you know what I sound like? You don't even know who I am. 543 00:37:07,308 --> 00:37:11,479 Well, If you were me, what would you do? Would you leave? 544 00:37:11,562 --> 00:37:12,563 I'm not you. 545 00:37:13,522 --> 00:37:15,775 Well--heh heh--supposing you were. 546 00:37:16,567 --> 00:37:20,071 I can't make this decision for you. Only you can. 547 00:37:20,154 --> 00:37:23,866 Only you will know if you're really ready for what might happen when you do. 548 00:37:23,950 --> 00:37:26,827 Wait. Wh-What do you mean? What might happen? 549 00:37:26,911 --> 00:37:30,289 His plan is ruined, whatever it was. You got the jump on him. 550 00:37:31,123 --> 00:37:32,917 Took him by surprise. 551 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,294 -He's not gonna like that. -Probably not. 552 00:37:36,087 --> 00:37:38,589 And I don't know if your daughter told you, but... 553 00:37:39,423 --> 00:37:41,717 two of the restraining orders against him... 554 00:37:42,510 --> 00:37:43,886 were taken out by... 555 00:37:44,929 --> 00:37:48,307 cops. Irvine PD. Women. 556 00:37:48,391 --> 00:37:50,476 A detective and a uni, I think. 557 00:37:50,559 --> 00:37:53,271 But still, active-duty cops. 558 00:37:53,354 --> 00:37:55,898 -So it's not dumb to be scared? -No. 559 00:37:56,774 --> 00:38:00,861 Or to want to leave. And if you do leave, it's good to have a plan. 560 00:38:02,530 --> 00:38:03,614 What kind of a plan? 561 00:38:04,824 --> 00:38:07,326 Stay in hotels or places you've never stayed before, 562 00:38:07,410 --> 00:38:08,995 but not the same place for too long. 563 00:38:09,078 --> 00:38:11,956 -We should get a new car, right? -And different clothes. 564 00:38:12,039 --> 00:38:16,210 -Ones that blend in more. -Her clothes do blend in in Orange County. 565 00:38:16,294 --> 00:38:18,629 -It's yours that stand out. -Snap. 566 00:38:19,755 --> 00:38:21,465 Dye your hair, probably. 567 00:38:21,549 --> 00:38:23,509 Or wigs. There are great wigs today. 568 00:38:23,592 --> 00:38:26,220 When you come into a crowded place, really study the room. 569 00:38:26,304 --> 00:38:28,597 Try to notice if someone's following you. 570 00:38:28,681 --> 00:38:30,891 Make yourself a difficult target. 571 00:38:33,644 --> 00:38:38,816 I have to go because he's picking me up from work, and... 572 00:38:38,899 --> 00:38:43,279 I don't know what he would do if I wasn't there, so I need to, um-- 573 00:38:43,362 --> 00:38:45,114 I'm gonna go. Thank you. 574 00:38:48,075 --> 00:38:50,536 -Bye, hon. -Look, Debra... 575 00:38:50,619 --> 00:38:52,455 just get yourself out. 576 00:38:53,497 --> 00:38:54,707 That's what I'd do. 577 00:38:56,667 --> 00:38:59,253 Okay. Thank you. 578 00:38:59,337 --> 00:39:00,921 I'll talk to you later, Ronnie. 579 00:39:20,608 --> 00:39:21,984 -Hi. -Hey. 580 00:39:33,746 --> 00:39:37,458 I know you're in there. I hear you. You changed the locks on me. 581 00:39:37,541 --> 00:39:39,877 I changed them all, so you know your keys don't work anymore. 582 00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:43,005 You think I can't get in if I want to? 583 00:39:43,089 --> 00:39:45,925 Why would you want to, John? There's nothing for you in here, 584 00:39:46,008 --> 00:39:47,551 -just the kids and me. -You know why! 585 00:39:47,635 --> 00:39:48,928 What, your drugs? 586 00:39:49,011 --> 00:39:52,223 I got rid of them to protect my children. 587 00:39:52,306 --> 00:39:55,017 Let me in! 588 00:39:55,101 --> 00:39:56,268 Give me my shit! 589 00:39:59,355 --> 00:40:01,565 - Give me my shit, Tonia! 590 00:40:20,251 --> 00:40:23,379 Mommy! Mommy! 591 00:40:32,012 --> 00:40:33,013 Hello? 592 00:40:33,848 --> 00:40:35,057 Uh, yes. 593 00:40:36,475 --> 00:40:37,977 I'm sorry to call so late. 594 00:40:38,978 --> 00:40:40,563 Maybe you're having dinner. 595 00:40:40,646 --> 00:40:43,065 California's three hours behind, so I thought it would be okay. 596 00:40:43,149 --> 00:40:44,358 Who is this? 597 00:40:45,359 --> 00:40:46,861 I, uh, I, um... 598 00:40:47,570 --> 00:40:50,573 -I... -Tonia? Is this Tonia? 599 00:40:51,365 --> 00:40:54,410 Is-Is this Delores Meehan? 600 00:40:54,493 --> 00:40:57,580 Oh, my God. I knew you would call. 601 00:40:58,497 --> 00:41:01,584 I knew it, and I wanted you to, and I didn't 602 00:41:01,667 --> 00:41:05,212 because that means it's all gone wrong, hasn't it? 603 00:41:06,380 --> 00:41:11,302 John warned me so many times. Don't ever call you or the kids. 604 00:41:11,385 --> 00:41:13,679 Don't even try. Don't even think about it. 605 00:41:17,183 --> 00:41:19,268 Is he still doing drugs? 606 00:41:30,279 --> 00:41:31,405 Ah! 607 00:41:32,573 --> 00:41:33,574 John? 608 00:41:37,244 --> 00:41:38,704 John? 609 00:41:41,248 --> 00:41:43,209 -Call someone, Deb. -Oh, my God! 610 00:41:43,292 --> 00:41:45,002 -What's going on? -I don't know. 611 00:41:46,003 --> 00:41:47,296 Oh, my G-- Oh, my God! 612 00:41:54,678 --> 00:41:57,806 With a non-mechanical obstruction in your intestines, I worry about infection, 613 00:41:57,890 --> 00:42:00,976 -which we're okay. We need to move quick. -What about the pain? 614 00:42:01,060 --> 00:42:03,270 You'll be going into surgery hopefully tonight. 615 00:42:03,354 --> 00:42:07,483 I don't understand. He was fine, and then he just collapsed. 616 00:42:07,566 --> 00:42:10,528 Is the surgery now, like right goddamn now, because if it isn't-- 617 00:42:10,611 --> 00:42:12,738 We're giving you two milligrams of Dilaudid. 618 00:42:12,821 --> 00:42:15,282 I need Dilaudid-HP, four milligrams. 619 00:42:16,116 --> 00:42:18,160 How long have you been on opioids, Mr. Meehan? 620 00:42:21,247 --> 00:42:23,040 Deb, this is insane. Come on. 621 00:42:23,123 --> 00:42:24,917 -Can you tell me, Mrs. Meehan? -Tell you... 622 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:27,545 How long has your husband been taking opioids or which ones? 623 00:42:27,628 --> 00:42:30,965 Because that's something to do with his intestines or-- 624 00:42:31,048 --> 00:42:33,175 He has a paralytic ileus. His blood work... 625 00:42:34,718 --> 00:42:37,096 Could you help me understand his history with narcotics? 626 00:42:37,179 --> 00:42:39,473 I don't... I don't know it. 627 00:42:39,557 --> 00:42:40,808 I don't know. 628 00:42:40,891 --> 00:42:42,935 I'm on a pain-management program. 629 00:42:43,602 --> 00:42:45,771 I injured-- fractured my right ankle. 630 00:42:46,564 --> 00:42:48,482 I also have a spinal compression. 631 00:42:48,566 --> 00:42:52,319 So ever since, I've been dealing with a cervical... radiculopathy. 632 00:42:53,696 --> 00:42:55,114 How did you injure yourself? 633 00:42:57,324 --> 00:42:58,450 Iraq. 634 00:42:59,910 --> 00:43:01,996 I'm not sure who was helping you here, 635 00:43:02,079 --> 00:43:04,039 but they shouldn't have let this blockage develop. 636 00:43:04,123 --> 00:43:07,293 Pretty bad, huh? But right now, my tolerance is so high. 637 00:43:07,376 --> 00:43:11,338 I'm giving you four milligrams of Dilaudid-HP every two hours. 638 00:43:12,798 --> 00:43:17,094 I, um... I don't think I'm gonna stay here for the consult. 639 00:43:17,177 --> 00:43:18,596 Oh, it's not a problem. 640 00:43:18,679 --> 00:43:21,348 I don't want them to have to dumb it down for John, 641 00:43:21,432 --> 00:43:25,394 and I'm not very good at thinking about blood and... 642 00:43:27,855 --> 00:43:29,607 I'm gonna go to the chapel... 643 00:43:30,816 --> 00:43:32,401 and pray. 644 00:43:32,484 --> 00:43:33,485 Okay. 645 00:43:36,530 --> 00:43:37,531 I love you. 646 00:43:44,913 --> 00:43:45,998 You'll be just fine. 647 00:44:14,985 --> 00:44:18,072 ♪ It's just like heaven♪ 648 00:44:18,781 --> 00:44:22,409 ♪ Bein' here with you♪ 649 00:44:22,493 --> 00:44:26,080 ♪ You're like an angel♪ 650 00:44:26,163 --> 00:44:29,792 ♪ Too good to be true ♪ 651 00:44:29,875 --> 00:44:33,087 ♪ But after all♪ 652 00:44:33,170 --> 00:44:37,132 ♪ I love you, I do ♪ 653 00:44:37,216 --> 00:44:40,594 ♪ Angel baby ♪ 654 00:44:40,678 --> 00:44:43,889 - ♪ My angel baby... ♪ 655 00:44:44,556 --> 00:44:47,059 - ♪ When you...♪ - Yes? 656 00:44:47,142 --> 00:44:49,520 You know why I have this big smile on my face? 657 00:44:49,603 --> 00:44:51,689 ♪ ...skips a beat ♪ 658 00:44:51,772 --> 00:44:53,857 -♪ I can hardly... ♪ -Why, John? 659 00:44:53,941 --> 00:44:56,360 - ♪ stand on...♪ - Just trust me. 660 00:44:56,443 --> 00:44:58,612 Just trust me, that's why. 661 00:44:58,696 --> 00:45:00,614 ♪ Because I love you... ♪ 662 00:45:00,698 --> 00:45:02,533 Trust what? You're not making any sense. 663 00:45:02,616 --> 00:45:06,370 You'll understand when it happens. You'll understand it all. 664 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:09,498 I won't be anywhere near it. 665 00:45:10,499 --> 00:45:13,335 I'll be in Bermuda or wherever, 666 00:45:13,419 --> 00:45:18,674 having a drink with a 22-year-old, smiling like I am right now. 667 00:45:20,384 --> 00:45:24,555 You should enjoy your time left, Tonia. Your time left on this earth. 668 00:45:25,764 --> 00:45:27,599 That's what it's gonna come down to. 669 00:45:29,017 --> 00:45:31,395 Just... when it happens, 670 00:45:31,478 --> 00:45:34,773 when you see it in your eyes and you know, 671 00:45:34,857 --> 00:45:36,775 promise you'll remember it was me. 672 00:45:43,073 --> 00:45:46,618 ♪ Please never leave me♪ 673 00:45:46,702 --> 00:45:50,289 ♪ Blue and alone...♪ 674 00:45:50,372 --> 00:45:53,542 - Come here. - ♪ If you ever go♪ 675 00:45:53,625 --> 00:45:57,546 ♪ I'm sure you'll come back home♪ 676 00:45:57,629 --> 00:46:00,883 ♪ Because I love you♪ 677 00:46:00,966 --> 00:46:03,385 ♪ I love you, I do...♪ 678 00:46:03,469 --> 00:46:05,929 Do you have any words to say to the wedding couple? 679 00:46:06,013 --> 00:46:09,516 Just keep your eyes on him, Tonia, and don't let him out of your sight. 680 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:11,477 ♪ Angel baby... ♪ 681 00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:15,355 - Run! - ♪ It's just like heaven♪ 682 00:46:15,439 --> 00:46:19,234 ♪ Bein' with you, dear♪ 683 00:46:19,318 --> 00:46:22,571 ♪ I could never stay♪ 684 00:46:22,654 --> 00:46:26,533 ♪ Away without you near ♪ 685 00:46:26,617 --> 00:46:29,828 ♪ Because I love you♪ 686 00:46:29,912 --> 00:46:33,207 ♪ I love you, I do♪ 687 00:46:33,916 --> 00:46:37,419 ♪ Angel baby♪ 688 00:46:37,503 --> 00:46:40,714 ♪ My angel baby♪ 689 00:46:40,798 --> 00:46:44,718 ♪ Ooh, I love you♪ 690 00:46:44,802 --> 00:46:48,347 ♪ Ooh, I do♪ 691 00:46:48,430 --> 00:46:51,934 ♪ No one could love you♪ 692 00:46:52,017 --> 00:46:55,521 ♪ Like I do♪