[narrator] previously on unexpected...
Like, we're over the honeymoon phase.
You need to talk to me more, aden.
[aden speaking]
I just wish everything was better.
[kylen] moving in with jason was the first time I haven't lived with my parents.
Now I feel bad.
Why would you feel bad about moving out of your parents' house?
You should feel good about that.
[marie] I kind of feel like I'm being left out.
It's had to tell her, 'cause jason's there.
[mike] I just feel like jason stole my baby and he's brainwashing her.
I want her back.
[erica] hey, baby.
It's gonna be so hard not to be at the hospital with emersyn.
And I'm gonna be on pins and needles the whole time.
[sobbing in pain]
[emersyn] the pain's so unbearable.
It's, like, "what's happening?"
maybe the reasoning for tyra not coming is because alex is in town.
I feel like she's just holding on to faith that he will change,
but I don't think alex can just decide,
"oh, I'm gonna be a good man, I'm not gonna cheat anymore."
she makes my life miserable on this [bleep] couch.
[tiarra] something's going on with my car.
We needed to get to the hospital,
because the baby is losing oxygen.
Call tyra and see if we can borrow her car.
[tiarra] she's trying to take her anger out on me,
but if there was ever a time where I needed tyra the most, it would be, like, right now.
[heidi] should I get the meat and cheese out?
[scott] sure.
Hey, what time are the guests showing up?
[jason] I don't know.
-[kylen] soon. -[scott] soon?
-You better eat fast. -Why?
[phone pinging]
jason, it's not even gonna be done.
-Can you stop? -[heidi] go.
[jason] yeah, I know, mom.
My parents are coming over to scott and heidi's
and we're having a barbecue, because...
-[scott] nice hat, jason. -This is our seats?
-That one or this one? -No, that's my seat and that's mike's seat.
You can have the seat you want.
But that's mike's, that's mine.
When you're a daddy, you can pick your seat.
I am.
[scott] you're not a daddy yet.
I don't think you should worry about seeing your parents
when we have a whole different frickin'
human being to worry about in a week.
Oh, okay, that's why we have been hanging out
with your friends for the past two weeks.
-It has not been two weeks, but a week. -Every day.
-No it hasn't. -Yeah, it has.
[jason] yeah, it's 'cause I'm not gonna see them for, like, [bleep] year.
My point.
[jason mock cries]
everyone in the [bleep] world sees their parents.
That's not true.
Every time my parents are around, jason gets
annoyed with stuff and it pisses me off.
Is that all we need out here right now?
[scott] looks good, heidi.
[heidi] all right, just waiting for the guests.
It's important that mike and marie are welcome at our house,
so that they can see their daughter.
But I'm not sure if jason wants to share kylen with them.
We invited them over for a cookout and we end up going over there.
Why can't they come to our house?
Why can't they come and visit us?
I don't know if it's all jason or kylen.
I want answers.
Kylen's in a jam, she don't know what to do.
And we can't talk to her about it.
I think that's why he don't wanna leave her alone,
'cause he's afraid that she comes along with us.
She's gonna, all of a sudden, decide she don't wanna go back.
I feel he is purposely trying to keep her away from us.
Yeah, I don't know what's going on.
I haven't seen her in a month.
-And, you know, the time away makes your mind wander. -[mike] yeah.
I kind of get the feeling he don't want nothing to do with...
-Ours. -[marie] ...Our family at all.
Sometimes, I think the kid's nuts.
If he'd actually relax and come and visit
and stuff like that and do the normal stuff,
I wouldn't think bad about him.
But, yes, I'm thinking bad of him.
We need to have a talk with the kids.
I mean, I'd like to know why they don't want us around.
You should be spending more time with your daughter.
It's bonding time and you never got that bonding time
with your daughter to bond over...
-I don't even know... -...This grandchild's even coming.
...If she knows I care, because I don't know how to address it
without him having an opinion or whatever,
but I don't wanna sabotage their relationship.
I just wanna see my daughter more.
[horn beeps]
[jason] hey, your parents are here.
[mike] come on, let's get this over with.
[tiarra] ella.
What are you doing?
[tiarra] are you playing?
[ella] yes, I'm here.
Okay.
It's been a couple weeks since I left kentucky to be back in maryland.
Now that I'm back in maryland, I found a doctor
and my c-section is scheduled in one week.
Having a c-section scheduled is a big relief for me,
because now I can kind of, like, get everything ready for my baby.
What are you getting all those out for?
I might get, um...
Put more on the board and then I'm gonna take a picture in her crib.
I'm very excited, 'cause I'm putting together ensley a boho-themed nursery.
I got the ideas off pinterest.
I've been wanting to do that ever since,
you know, I found out I was pregnant.
[dee] it's gonna be crazy if she comes out as a boy.
It's never 100% until the baby's here.
[tiarra] dee insisted this baby is a boy, but it's 100% a girl.
And even if it is a boy, this theme is staying,
because I'm putting in too much work for this nursery.
And I've always known that I wanted the boho nursery theme.
Seriously, though, I'm just glad this baby is healthy,
because last time I was in kentucky,
I had a problem with my iron.
They noticed that it was really low
and thbyld be losing oxygen, so it's very dangerous.
[woman] ...Baby on the monitor here, it's just like that.
[tiarra] I've drove out to the hospital and they checked out my iron.
Everything was okay, the baby was safe.
And they okayed me to fly back to maryland, which was a huge relief,
because I didn't wanna stay in kentucky longer than I had to.
[dee] are you taking a picture of it?
-[tiarra] mmm-hmm. -And then you're gonna, like, post it now?
[tiarra] yeah.
It's cute, I like it and I want tyra to see it.
Tyra and I are fine now, but last time we were with each other,
it was hectic, because when I needed to borrow her car
for the hospital, we got into a fight, so she wouldn't let me take it.
[tyra speaking]
[woman yelling] if something happens to her baby,
you just know, it's your god damn fault.
Tyra did apologize for the way that she acted.
I just appreciate that she apologized and admitted she was wrong.
Because, me put in that situation,
like, I'm not good at admitting I'm wrong.
Ask dee how many times I apologize, I don't apologize for [bleep].
[dee] no, she'll just...
[tiarra] switch it to it being your fault.
Yeah, she'll do that, or she'll just act like it never happened.
-And just, like... -You do the same thing.
-...Act normal. -When have you apologized to me?
-I apologize all the time. -Okay.
-I apologize for stuff that you do. -Okay.
So, what's up with tyra? Do you know if she's coming or not?
-I don't know if she's coming or not yet. -[dee] hmm.
So I knew my mom is gonna come before I have the baby,
and stay a couple of weeks after.
I would love if my sister could come, but I'm not really sure
what's going on there, if she's gonna come or not.
I just hope if she comes, she doesn't start anything
because the last thing I need right now is more stress.
I was looking at apartments.
Apartments for you and aden?
No, just luca and I.
It's a really big decision and I know it would really hurt aden.
I just need to figure out what I wanna do.
[emersyn speaking]
wake mason, somebody needs to be by your side.
This is the birth of his child and he's asleep on the couch.
That's just not okay.
[music playing]
of course, mason is sleeping.
[emersyn speaking]
he's snoring.
I got my epidural around 5 in the morning.
And I was 8 centimeters.
And once they gave me the epidural, I fell right asleep.
Because I needed it.
And, um, I think, about...
An hour and a half later,
when I woke up from like this urge to push.
It felt like I had to take a giant crap.
And it was so much pressure.
It got to the point where I couldn't even control it,
like, my body was doing it.
And I was like, "nurse, nurse."
that's when I called my mum.
[phone vibrating]
-[erica] hi, honey. -[emersyn speaking]
[erica] it does?
I wonder why that hurts.
The pressure you think? The baby coming down?
[emersyn] it's the pressure.
Okay.
It was so hard not to be at the hospital with emersyn.
Last night, um, I had a really difficult time sleeping.
I had mom guilt the whole time. [clears throat]
I... You know, I was holding my babies
thinking, okay, I'm here because they're smaller.
And they needed me.
But at the same time, I felt like my 18 year old also needed her mum.
But that's what happens when you and your daughter
have babies 13 weeks apart.
Yeah.
And everybody's sleeping?
-[emersyn speaking] -aww.
You could wake 'em up if you need them.
[emersyn speaking]
[erica] did she tell you not to push?
[emersyn speaking]
well, call him honey. I your--
[emersyn speaking]
I know, honey.
Wake mason, somebody needs to be by your side
to coach you.
You don't need to do this by yourself.
And I thought, my god, what's going on in there?
She had two support people, my mom and mason
that were asleep...
While she was 8 centimeters.
I was just like, "wake them up, wake them up!"
um, it was hard. It was really hard
to listen from my end and not being able to do anything.
You're almost there, emmy, you're going really fast.
-[emersyn speaking] -you're doin' a good job.
[baby cooing over phone]
[erica] your baby is gonna be here soon, honey.
It's gonna be really tough right now, it's the hardest probably.
But you're gonna be okay.
Did mason wake up yet?
[emersyn speaking]
-[exhales] -[erica] breathe.
[emersyn speaking]
okay, honey. Hang up if you need to.
-[emersyn speaking] -love you, too. Bye.
Bye.
I think it's important to understand that sai and I are still
really getting to know mason.
Emersyn went over to his house a lot.
But we... We had very few visits with mason at our house.
Um, because we didn't let him spend the night. And, um...
I thought things were going pretty good.
Um, but mason being asleep on the couch,
that sends a red flag to me.
[sai] these are the kids that stay awake playing video games all night.
I have...
Um, I was disappointed.
Let's try waking mason up.
[cooing]
[phone vibrating]
he is dead asleep.
[phone rings]
[automated voice] your call has been--
this is the birth of his child.
This is one of the most precious, exciting, um, moments of his life.
And he's asleep on the couch.
It does not give me warm and fuzzies
about what kind of parent or partner he will be
to emersyn and mateo in the future.
[line trilling]
[automated voice speaking] please leave your message--
[erica] really bad way to start their life off as a family.
Mason is about to miss the birth of his son and that's just not okay.
♪ whoa♪
-[baby cooing] -[jenna] you wanna walk?
-[alyssa] there he goes. -[baby cooing]
[jenna] here we go.
-He loves it. -[alyssa giggling]
[jenna] he's into walking today.
-Yeah. -Good job.
[jenna] it's crazy.
This week luca took his first few steps.
Did you? Yeah.
-[baby cooing] -yeah.
Luca, literally, just stood up and he just took like five steps.
It was insane. I wanted to like cry.
'cause he's not a baby anymore.
[baby cooing]
wanna sit down, baby?
[jenna grunting]
[sighing in exhaustion] my goodness. It's getting hot out.
I get out of breath so quickly.
I mean, you're just carrying this weight around.
This bowling ball. [chuckles]
my sister was in texas in college.
She just came back right after luca was born.
And I'm happy she moved back home.
I go to alyssa for everything.
Like, when I'm dealing with issues with aden.
'cause even though we have different dad's
our relationship is really good.
My sister knows everything.
Down to like the t.
-[baby cooing] -so how's he been? How's everything been?
[baby cooing]
I was looking at apartments.
Apartments for you and aden?
No. Just luca and I.
Why were you looking at apartments just for you guys?
I just, I don't know
where aden and I are gonna be in the next couple of months.
Mmm-hmm.
I just don't know if we're compatible.
-Mmm-hmm. -You know?
I do understand why jenna would wanna look at places for her and luca.
Um, her and aden still have a fairly new relationship.
And then adding a baby in the mix just makes it much more stressful.
But, I think jenna is quick to make decisions sometimes, based off her emotions.
And jenna is a little naive in thinking she can get an apartment at 18,
without a stable job, or a stable income.
Um, but again, I just think that's due to lack of real world experience.
And that'll come with time.
You know, even I at 18 was probably naive
as far as getting an apartment, or what first car to get.
Think that everybody goes through that.
As far as, like, you trying to get an apartment on your own.
It's a really, really big step.
You have to prove, on paper, that you make three times the rent.
-Yeah. -You'll probably need a co-signer.
Like [chuckles] yeah, see. He didn't even like that idea either.
You know, it's just a lot harder than you think.
I mean, like, so did you actually tour apartments? Like how serious did you...
I didn't tour any yet. I was just weighing out numbers.
And looking in our area.
I don't have really my own money consistently.
I...
Don't have that independence.
I just use aden's cards.
He has...
A card linked to his bank account for me and that's just what I use.
And I just don't have credit.
I don't... I never got a credit card.
I've never built... I never built my credit.
[chuckles]
[mumbling] I don't know.
I don't know. I just know I don't have any credit.
I need to get some. Otherwise I can't do anything.
Which is stupid.
How you supposed to buy something to build your credit,
if they won't approve you for it.
You and aden definitely need to talk more.
And I think you guys need to make time for each other.
-Because you don't really ever spend time alone. Ever. -Yeah.
And I don't feel like you guys ever even got to date because you got pregnant right away.
And so you guys never really even got to learn about each other, just who you are.
Before taking on, like, all these responsibilities.
But aden is carrying the financial burden of your little family,
that's a lot.
Yeah.
He does do his part financially.
And he is there for luca.
But he's also...
Not necessarily there for me.
If that makes sense.
So, it's hard. It's a tough situation.
But, it's just not something that I can, like...
Just get up and leave right this minute.
Just 'cause, I mean...
[scoffs] I don't know.
It's difficult.
I mean, even just talking about it, you seem pretty nonchalant.
But, if you do get your own space with you and luca.
Do you think that, you know, it's gonna affect you differently then?
-Um, maybe. -Think you're gonna be sad?
-You think you're gonna feel emotional about it? -I'll definitely be sad.
-But, like, I won't know until I live it. You know? -Yeah.
-So it's hard to say. -Mmm-hmm.
If I were to move out, it's a really big decision
and I know it would really hurt aden.
So, I just need to figure out what I wanna do.
But, in the meantime, I need to start looking for a job.
Because I can't even start to think about moving out, on my own,
without any income.
[jason] we just wanna take the next steps to be, like, alone and grownup.
All their asking, dude,
is to have a little involvement. That's it.
He's my son, I made him.
But, kinda lacks a little bit of compassion.
And it sucks.
♪ you've got me spinning♪
♪ you've got me spinning bad♪
come on. Let's get this over with.
[kylen] you wanna go help them?
-[marie] we just got this. -[jason speaking]
[heidi] you guys want that out here?
-You wanna go help them? -They're good.
[scott] how ya been, mike?
-How's it going? -[scott] good, buddy.
Scott and heidi have...
Invited us over.
But, it doesn't feel the same...
To me unless the kids invite us.
Or jason invite us.
You'd feel more welcomed.
Or...
-More a part of their life. -Yeah.
How much longer on this food, man?
[scott] jason, chillax brother.
Here, get mike a hotdog, please.
Mike and marie are always 100% welcome at our house.
It's important because we know that they miss their daughter.
Right. I really feel for them.
It's such an important time to be with your child.
-Especially when she's 17 and she's your only daughter. -Yeah.
But, uh, I'm not sure
if jason wants to share kylen with them.
[heidi] yeah.
Here's that. Do you want ketchup or mustard?
No, I'll get up and get it.
I think jason's jealous of kylen's relationship with them.
And how close they are.
But, hopefully jason can ease up a little bit.
And let kylen enjoy her time with her parents.
There's crackers, and cheese, and pepperoni,
and chips and dip if you guys want some.
-[marie] are you good? -Yeah, I'm good. I'm having my drink.
-Okay. -Thirsty.
-[marie] hmm. -[scott] oh, boy.
-[marie] how you feeling girl? -[kylen] good.
Are you nervous, kylen?
No.
You should be.
[mike] I think you're full of crap.
I'm nervous and I'm not even having a baby.
Lately kylen feels withdrawn.
That's the vibe I get every time they get around us.
I mean, in the beginning it seemed like I was getting details.
Like, how big the baby is.
But now, they're just not telling me anything.
And that's...
Pretty hard for me to grasp.
We just want to...
How do we put it?
By not communicating with us, it makes us worry.
And when you do communicate it's short lately.
So I'm not sure where... What I can ask.
Marie and mike are kinda getting at is,
they kinda wanna feel like they're included in the whole family thing, you know?
-[heidi] 'cause you live here so they think we're right. -I understand that
-[heidi] you gotta make them feel more... -[scott] right.
No, I get that. But you're not understanding you.
That I don't even wanna live here.
I wanna be on my own apartment.
And like, the same relationship
that we have with them with you guys.
Like, I want it to be even.
I feel like that's why they feel, like, lower. Because we're living with you.
But if we were on our own.
I just feel like you guys got a problem with us, or something.
I don't like getting advice from everyone.
I think our parents should just leave us alone.
And not give me all this advice that I don't need.
When I'm 18, and I'm an adult. I'm gonna be a good parent.
What are you guys mad at us about?
[kylen] we're not mad at you.
Well, we feel like you are. And like you don't want us around.
[jason] I don't like...
The pushiness.
-[heidi] we're not pushing. -You don't get how much stress is on both of us.
[mike] we know exactly how much stress is on you guys.
Because we've been through it.
-You're not the first people in this world to have a baby. -[heidi] no.
I'm just, like, an independent person and I just want this kid,
and, like, we just wanna take the next steps to be, like,
alone and grownup.
All they're asking, dude, is to have a little involvement.
-That's it. -[mike coughing]
family's important.
I regret not spending much time with mine.
Mike's not in the best of shape, and you know.
Ya never know. When your time's up, your time's up.
[jason speaking]
[kylen] whatever, jason.
-Kylen, I wanna go. -[heidi] what are you guys doing?
Um, going to my friends at 7:00.
What time is it now?
-[jason] 6:49, that's why I was... -Oh.
[scott] yeah, but what's more important?
-[heidi] right, family or friends? -[scott] right.
[heidi] family, you always have. Friends, come and go.
Okay, but I made these plans.
[kylen] you knew about these plans all week.
If it was one of you guys that had plans, it wouldn't be an issue.
I'm an adult too.
He's my son, I made him.
But, kinda lacks a little bit of compassion.
It's not good. And it sucks.
[jason speaking]
I'm not even done yet.
-[heidi] come on, jason. -[kylen] stop.
It's not my plans.
[jason] well, it's our plans.
[jason speaking]
-[kylen speaking] -yeah.
I'm gonna pee.
-[mike] that's my concern, secrets. -Yeah.
[kylen whispering]
we're not sure about what's going on behind closed doors.
But we can't even get her alone to find out.
We're tried to be patient.
But, we're getting to the point where we really can't take it anymore.
The dam's gonna break. Or the wall's gonna come down.
Something's gonna happen.
-That? -Yeah.
They were saying, like, hurtful things about me.
What the [bleep] kinda [bleep] is that?
Yeah. Um, that?
Yeah.
I'm candice and I'm taylor's mother and evelyn's nina.
I'm also melissa's sister.
And tyra and tiarra's aunt.
And we're all went through teen pregnancies together.
And we're a pretty close family.
So, I was really excited about taylor and tiarra
going through a second pregnancy together.
And then, when the competition with the nursery started,
that's when it all kinda, like...
Brought the fun out of it.
Kinda hurts my feelings because she knows how much, like,
you invested in, like, doing your nursery that...
The way you wanted to do it.
And then she, kinda--
yeah.
-Yeah, basically. -Yeah.
When tiarra was down here last I showed her the nursery theme I wanted to do.
And she showed me what she had chosen.
Which was a totally different theme.
And then when she left she pretty much re-did her whole nursery
in the theme I was gonna do and didn't even tell me about it.
It just hurt. Like, it's just her.
And then seeing my kid hurt over something petty, I know it was petty.
But, her feelings were hurt. She was so excited to share it with tiarra.
And then for tiarra to go home and change everything
to the exact same thing that taylor wanted.
And the thing is, this is not the first time.
From boys, to clothes, to shoes, to friends.
And I've never said one thing.
Throughout all these years of how tiarra's acted.
And I finally just let it all out.
What got me is, if you would've looked at her registry, like...
Four weeks before that,
- she had nothing-- -[taylor] but pink and grey.
[candice] yeah, nothing boho.
[taylor] she had a whole different registry at the beginning.
You can literally see that if you go back and look.
Why are you, like, being sneaky?
Why didn't you just tell me you wanted to do, you know, the boho rainbow theme too?
Um, 'cause it's not just boho.
It's, like, the exact boho rainbow theme.
She was like, why didn't you just, you know, come out and tell me.
And, you know, I would have been fine with it.
But, instead, like, every time I've asked you, you said no.
And now, like, everything you have on your registry,
everything that you're getting is all the rainbow theme.
Of course, tiarra is the competitive type.
She's the type that is like...
Well, if you like that, I like that too.
Or, um, I'm gonna get it before she does.
So people don't say that...
I copied them.
Like, they're copying me now. Because I got it first.
It just hit me the wrong way.
Like, I'd had enough.
And, um, then I went to instagram.
And commented on an instagram post.
I felt like she was being selfish and not considerate.
I felt like it was a big slap in the face.
[taylor] so that's when I got into it.
- Just went downhill from there. -[candice] it went downhill.
It just, like, boom! Just blew up.
Did you see all that stuff that candice and taylor had a say on...
Uh, social media about the nursery?
[tiarra] yeah. I think it was like silly drama too.
I'm surprised that my family made it a big deal.
Um, about me doing that theme.
Because, you know, I'd chose to do that as soon as I was pregnant.
Like, I was doing it way before, you know, they started doing it.
And it was never a problem. I was...
I wasn't, like, oh you bitch! You copied my theme!
Like, no. Like, 'cause that's immature as [bleep].
It's literally a nursey theme. Like, I don't understand what the issue is.
So I'm just surprised that they made it a big deal we were doing the same theme.
I mean, I feel like...
I don't know why taylor, like, just decided to, like, bring everything up right now.
Um, I feel like it was, like, comparing to who's gonna be better
now that they're doing the same thing.
It was like a competition thing.
It wasn't, like, let's make this cute for our babies.
[tiarra] like it just makes no sense.
Just a couple months ago we were literally getting ultrasounds done together.
You know, with our girls.
And, you know, we were so close and stuff like that.
And then it all went from that, in the snap of a finger, to now.
Like, I don't even feel like I wanna talk to her because of the stuff that she said.
[tyra] I don't really hold grudges.
But, tiarra, she'll like...
Hate you for the rest of her life. She doesn't care.
Yeah. Well, the only reason I felt bad about any of it, is just because
I know ada and ella love each other.
-Close, yeah. -They're close and love playing with each other.
I don't feel like we should punish them for our stupid drama.
But, I don't know if we'll ever be on the same terms we were.
I'm about to have a baby too. So I don't want this stress.
When they're ready to talk, then they can come to me, or whatever.
And I agree 100%.
Can't imagine dealing with something like this.
Like, right before you're about to have your baby.
I don't know. I just think it's difficult for me to forgive them
after, you know, not only did they stress me out
a couple days before going to my c-section.
They also put all this fake news out on the internet
for thousand's of people to see.
So, I'm not really...
Planning on having any type of relationship with taylor anymore.
I mean, it might be different after I have a baby, and I'm not so hormonal.
But, right now, I don't really care to.
[jason] all right, we're going.
You know, I keep hoping that something will change.
She's my baby girl I worry about her all the time.
When I woke up, that's when you were pushing. Pretty scary.
[emersyn screaming in pain]
I am worried. Life tells you, when someone screams, it's usually not okay.
[jason] no one gets, like, what we're going through.
They just think about themselves, that's what pisses me off.
[kylen] I'm pretty sure everybody was thinking about us. But, okay.
You're the one that's thinking about yourself.
You knew we had these plans way before your [bleep] stupid ass friends.
-[jason] we really didn't. -We really did.
[mike] we went over there for a cookout.
But, they kept wanting to hide in the back room.
Sometimes I'd like to just scream...
To get them to listen to me.
We're tried to be patient.
They're always getting up and doing something
they move here, they move here, or they gotta go with friends.
And it's just... It's hard to have a conversation with them.
'cause they won't sit still to let you have that conversation.
There's one thing of being independent
and there's another thing of shunning your family away.
-Staying away from your family is not being independent. -[heidi] no.
That's being a jackass.
-Don't be afraid to call him out. -[heidi] yes.
Mike looked at me and said, "I wish we could see more of them."
and I said, "don't tell me, mike.
Tell them."
because we're at our wits end. We're done.
Jason gonna do, what jason gonna do.
-Do we speak up? -Yeah.
-Often? -Yes.
-Do we get anywhere? -No.
You know what we get? Swore at.
You're a [bleeping].
[bleep] you, you loser dad.
[scoffs]
you know. How much of that can you take?
[jason] after this baby comes,
we're not gonna see a lot of people for a long time.
You realize that, right?
[kylen] right. So, it doesn't mean I can't see my family.
That I never get to see.
And when I do, you ruin it.
-[jason] right. -You do!
That has nothing to do with growing up. At all.
Not one bit.
Everyone sees their parents.
Whether it's...
-Freaking five times a year, to-- -exactly.
Yeah, but, in that five times a year,
their time with them doesn't get ruined.
[jason] all right, are you ready?
I was supposed to leave 5 minutes ago.
All right, we're going.
[mike] mama, kylen. Mama, kylen.
[marie speaking]
-[kylen] no. -The bump? No?
-Not moving? -[jason] good seeing you guys.
[marie] nice seeing you.
-Love you, kiddo. -I love you.
I felt like kylen kinda really wanted to stay and visit with us.
Didn't wanna leave...
To go with their friends.
I felt like her eyes were starting to water up like she was gonna cry.
I see, I don't know.
I'm starting... To me, I feel like I'm starting to see sadness in her face.
And not the happiness that...
Yeah.
-Bye. -[heidi] bye, drive carefully.
[marie] I want her to know that...
She's always...
Welcome home.
She's not stuck.
If she thinks she's stuck.
Especially while she's, like, in an emotional state right now.
Almost ready to have a baby.
[mike] you know, I keep hoping that something will change.
She's my baby girl, you know, I worry about her all the time.
Mmm.
[emersyn moaning in pain]
[nurse speaking]
we were up all night because emersyn was in pain from the contractions.
So when she finally got the epidural we were able to get some sleep.
But when I woke up, that's when you were pushing.
[nurse speaking]
[emersyn screaming in pain]
life tells you, when someone screams, it's usually not okay.
You know? So I was just like...
A little worried.
I didn't think I would scream. But it actually helps to get the baby out.
[emersyn screaming in pain]
[emersyn] ow! It hurts so bad right now.
[emersyn grunting]
[emersyn screaming in pain]
[baby crying]
[mason] this is mateo.
Emersyn pushed him out in a whopping 8 minutes.
He is a beautiful, beautiful baby.
This is mateo elias ramirez.
He was 21 inches long.
-And he weighed um... -7.5.
7.8 pounds.
[emersyn] it was very surreal holding mateo for the first time.
Love was just like rushed in.
I just felt a lot of love.
I feel like I'm his everything and he's my everything.
'cause, like, he needs me.
-Now I just can't imagine life without him. -[mason] hi, baby.
Hi, baby boy.
Holding mateo for the first time was crazy to me.
It was like, wow! You're mine.
-You know? Not just mine, but. -Yeah, I was about to say.
But, you know, like, you're mine. You came from me.
You're not someone else's. You're not my mom or dad's.
So it's just like, wow!
That's how it was for me too. When he was just on me I was like, whoa!
Hi, honey. I kept saying "hi" I think.
Hi, little dude.
But I didn't even cry. I thought I would cry, but, I was just happy.
That it was over.
My gosh! It was horrible.
And it hurts, really bad.
Pain's not over yet.
But he's worth it.
And he latched right on.
And from then on, I was like, yeah.
And I haven't changed since.
She really did kick into mom mode.
Because, like, I saw her take care of her younger brother and sister.
And it's definitely different when she's taking care of her own baby.
Compared to her mom's baby.
I knew beforehand watching my siblings that I'd get a break.
And they'd be with their mom soon.
But with this one, I'm tied to him, so.
-In a good way. -Yeah.
[narrator] next time on unexpected.
[moaning]
our birth plan is to not use any medication.
But, I don't do well with pain.
Ow!
[emersyn] my mom has a lot of rules.
Mason has to stay downstairs.
And, like, can't sleep in the same bed.
It's ridiculous.
It's our house rules. If you actually break them there are consequences.
Okay.
With jenny and aden. It's not normal for that to be that toxic.
-With such a young relationship. -Right.
And if it keeps going down this road, christ,
they're gonna be killing each other in a couple years.
Today I go in for my c-section.
But, because my iron is so low...
I could potentially bleed out.
So it's kinda scary.