1 00:00:01,268 --> 00:00:02,468 [narrator] previously on unexpected... 2 00:00:05,506 --> 00:00:07,840 Like, we're over the honeymoon phase. 3 00:00:07,875 --> 00:00:09,875 You need to talk to me more, aden. 4 00:00:09,910 --> 00:00:12,144 [aden speaking] 5 00:00:12,179 --> 00:00:14,446 I just wish everything was better. 6 00:00:16,984 --> 00:00:19,985 [kylen] moving in with jason was the first time I haven't lived with my parents. 7 00:00:20,021 --> 00:00:21,320 Now I feel bad. 8 00:00:21,355 --> 00:00:23,889 Why would you feel bad about moving out of your parents' house? 9 00:00:23,924 --> 00:00:25,657 You should feel good about that. 10 00:00:25,693 --> 00:00:28,327 [marie] I kind of feel like I'm being left out. 11 00:00:28,362 --> 00:00:31,230 It's had to tell her, 'cause jason's there. 12 00:00:31,265 --> 00:00:35,334 [mike] I just feel like jason stole my baby and he's brainwashing her. 13 00:00:35,369 --> 00:00:36,668 I want her back. 14 00:00:36,704 --> 00:00:37,569 [erica] hey, baby. 15 00:00:39,006 --> 00:00:42,107 It's gonna be so hard not to be at the hospital with emersyn. 16 00:00:42,143 --> 00:00:44,543 And I'm gonna be on pins and needles the whole time. 17 00:00:44,578 --> 00:00:45,744 [sobbing in pain] 18 00:00:45,780 --> 00:00:47,279 [emersyn] the pain's so unbearable. 19 00:00:47,314 --> 00:00:48,347 It's, like, "what's happening?" 20 00:00:50,985 --> 00:00:54,420 maybe the reasoning for tyra not coming is because alex is in town. 21 00:00:54,455 --> 00:00:56,755 I feel like she's just holding on to faith that he will change, 22 00:00:56,791 --> 00:00:59,458 but I don't think alex can just decide, 23 00:00:59,493 --> 00:01:02,227 "oh, I'm gonna be a good man, I'm not gonna cheat anymore." 24 00:01:02,263 --> 00:01:04,363 she makes my life miserable on this [bleep] couch. 25 00:01:06,434 --> 00:01:08,033 [tiarra] something's going on with my car. 26 00:01:08,069 --> 00:01:09,034 We needed to get to the hospital, 27 00:01:09,070 --> 00:01:11,403 because the baby is losing oxygen. 28 00:01:11,439 --> 00:01:13,105 Call tyra and see if we can borrow her car. 29 00:01:13,140 --> 00:01:14,907 [tiarra] she's trying to take her anger out on me, 30 00:01:14,942 --> 00:01:18,677 but if there was ever a time where I needed tyra the most, it would be, like, right now. 31 00:01:28,122 --> 00:01:29,788 [heidi] should I get the meat and cheese out? 32 00:01:29,824 --> 00:01:30,856 [scott] sure. 33 00:01:30,891 --> 00:01:32,424 Hey, what time are the guests showing up? 34 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:34,226 [jason] I don't know. 35 00:01:34,261 --> 00:01:35,360 -[kylen] soon. -[scott] soon? 36 00:01:36,597 --> 00:01:38,831 -You better eat fast. -Why? 37 00:01:40,301 --> 00:01:40,999 [phone pinging] 38 00:01:42,236 --> 00:01:44,303 jason, it's not even gonna be done. 39 00:01:45,906 --> 00:01:48,040 -Can you stop? -[heidi] go. 40 00:01:48,075 --> 00:01:49,141 [jason] yeah, I know, mom. 41 00:01:50,311 --> 00:01:52,978 My parents are coming over to scott and heidi's 42 00:01:53,013 --> 00:01:55,581 and we're having a barbecue, because... 43 00:02:03,324 --> 00:02:05,557 -[scott] nice hat, jason. -This is our seats? 44 00:02:05,593 --> 00:02:07,593 -That one or this one? -No, that's my seat and that's mike's seat. 45 00:02:10,131 --> 00:02:11,029 You can have the seat you want. 46 00:02:12,166 --> 00:02:13,532 But that's mike's, that's mine. 47 00:02:15,236 --> 00:02:17,136 When you're a daddy, you can pick your seat. 48 00:02:17,872 --> 00:02:18,737 I am. 49 00:02:18,772 --> 00:02:20,572 [scott] you're not a daddy yet. 50 00:02:20,608 --> 00:02:22,608 I don't think you should worry about seeing your parents 51 00:02:22,643 --> 00:02:24,910 when we have a whole different frickin' 52 00:02:24,945 --> 00:02:27,479 human being to worry about in a week. 53 00:02:27,515 --> 00:02:30,749 Oh, okay, that's why we have been hanging out 54 00:02:30,784 --> 00:02:33,018 with your friends for the past two weeks. 55 00:02:33,053 --> 00:02:34,486 -It has not been two weeks, but a week. -Every day. 56 00:02:35,556 --> 00:02:37,422 -No it hasn't. -Yeah, it has. 57 00:02:37,458 --> 00:02:39,992 [jason] yeah, it's 'cause I'm not gonna see them for, like, [bleep] year. 58 00:02:41,028 --> 00:02:41,760 My point. 59 00:02:43,197 --> 00:02:43,862 [jason mock cries] 60 00:02:45,633 --> 00:02:48,100 everyone in the [bleep] world sees their parents. 61 00:02:49,303 --> 00:02:49,968 That's not true. 62 00:02:52,940 --> 00:02:55,207 Every time my parents are around, jason gets 63 00:02:55,242 --> 00:02:57,209 annoyed with stuff and it pisses me off. 64 00:03:00,447 --> 00:03:02,281 Is that all we need out here right now? 65 00:03:02,316 --> 00:03:03,916 [scott] looks good, heidi. 66 00:03:03,951 --> 00:03:05,851 [heidi] all right, just waiting for the guests. 67 00:03:05,886 --> 00:03:09,154 It's important that mike and marie are welcome at our house, 68 00:03:09,190 --> 00:03:11,990 so that they can see their daughter. 69 00:03:12,026 --> 00:03:17,663 But I'm not sure if jason wants to share kylen with them. 70 00:03:20,734 --> 00:03:23,702 We invited them over for a cookout and we end up going over there. 71 00:03:23,737 --> 00:03:25,204 Why can't they come to our house? 72 00:03:26,207 --> 00:03:28,240 Why can't they come and visit us? 73 00:03:28,275 --> 00:03:32,477 I don't know if it's all jason or kylen. 74 00:03:32,947 --> 00:03:34,112 I want answers. 75 00:03:35,983 --> 00:03:38,617 Kylen's in a jam, she don't know what to do. 76 00:03:38,652 --> 00:03:41,019 And we can't talk to her about it. 77 00:03:42,089 --> 00:03:44,022 I think that's why he don't wanna leave her alone, 78 00:03:44,058 --> 00:03:47,459 'cause he's afraid that she comes along with us. 79 00:03:47,494 --> 00:03:50,862 She's gonna, all of a sudden, decide she don't wanna go back. 80 00:03:52,433 --> 00:03:57,402 I feel he is purposely trying to keep her away from us. 81 00:03:57,438 --> 00:03:58,904 Yeah, I don't know what's going on. 82 00:03:58,939 --> 00:04:01,206 I haven't seen her in a month. 83 00:04:01,242 --> 00:04:06,845 -And, you know, the time away makes your mind wander. -[mike] yeah. 84 00:04:08,916 --> 00:04:12,751 I kind of get the feeling he don't want nothing to do with... 85 00:04:12,786 --> 00:04:14,286 -Ours. -[marie] ...Our family at all. 86 00:04:15,389 --> 00:04:17,089 Sometimes, I think the kid's nuts. 87 00:04:18,292 --> 00:04:20,792 If he'd actually relax and come and visit 88 00:04:20,828 --> 00:04:22,995 and stuff like that and do the normal stuff, 89 00:04:23,030 --> 00:04:24,630 I wouldn't think bad about him. 90 00:04:24,665 --> 00:04:26,832 But, yes, I'm thinking bad of him. 91 00:04:27,668 --> 00:04:31,236 We need to have a talk with the kids. 92 00:04:31,272 --> 00:04:35,440 I mean, I'd like to know why they don't want us around. 93 00:04:35,476 --> 00:04:38,076 You should be spending more time with your daughter. 94 00:04:38,112 --> 00:04:41,280 It's bonding time and you never got that bonding time 95 00:04:41,315 --> 00:04:44,583 with your daughter to bond over... 96 00:04:44,618 --> 00:04:46,585 -I don't even know... -...This grandchild's even coming. 97 00:04:46,620 --> 00:04:50,756 ...If she knows I care, because I don't know how to address it 98 00:04:50,791 --> 00:04:53,992 without him having an opinion or whatever, 99 00:04:54,028 --> 00:04:57,429 but I don't wanna sabotage their relationship. 100 00:04:57,464 --> 00:04:59,631 I just wanna see my daughter more. 101 00:05:00,501 --> 00:05:01,266 [horn beeps] 102 00:05:02,069 --> 00:05:03,068 [jason] hey, your parents are here. 103 00:05:07,941 --> 00:05:10,309 [mike] come on, let's get this over with. 104 00:05:21,789 --> 00:05:22,487 [tiarra] ella. 105 00:05:23,724 --> 00:05:24,589 What are you doing? 106 00:05:27,127 --> 00:05:28,393 [tiarra] are you playing? 107 00:05:28,429 --> 00:05:29,561 [ella] yes, I'm here. 108 00:05:31,465 --> 00:05:33,165 Okay. 109 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:36,668 It's been a couple weeks since I left kentucky to be back in maryland. 110 00:05:36,704 --> 00:05:38,970 Now that I'm back in maryland, I found a doctor 111 00:05:39,006 --> 00:05:41,807 and my c-section is scheduled in one week. 112 00:05:41,842 --> 00:05:44,643 Having a c-section scheduled is a big relief for me, 113 00:05:44,678 --> 00:05:49,181 because now I can kind of, like, get everything ready for my baby. 114 00:05:51,018 --> 00:05:52,317 What are you getting all those out for? 115 00:05:53,787 --> 00:05:55,220 I might get, um... 116 00:05:55,255 --> 00:05:56,788 Put more on the board and then I'm gonna take a picture in her crib. 117 00:06:00,361 --> 00:06:04,329 I'm very excited, 'cause I'm putting together ensley a boho-themed nursery. 118 00:06:04,365 --> 00:06:05,597 I got the ideas off pinterest. 119 00:06:06,567 --> 00:06:08,166 I've been wanting to do that ever since, 120 00:06:08,202 --> 00:06:10,168 you know, I found out I was pregnant. 121 00:06:13,140 --> 00:06:15,173 [dee] it's gonna be crazy if she comes out as a boy. 122 00:06:16,577 --> 00:06:20,212 It's never 100% until the baby's here. 123 00:06:25,753 --> 00:06:28,954 [tiarra] dee insisted this baby is a boy, but it's 100% a girl. 124 00:06:28,989 --> 00:06:30,789 And even if it is a boy, this theme is staying, 125 00:06:30,824 --> 00:06:34,025 because I'm putting in too much work for this nursery. 126 00:06:34,061 --> 00:06:36,461 And I've always known that I wanted the boho nursery theme. 127 00:06:41,168 --> 00:06:42,968 Seriously, though, I'm just glad this baby is healthy, 128 00:06:43,003 --> 00:06:44,636 because last time I was in kentucky, 129 00:06:44,671 --> 00:06:46,872 I had a problem with my iron. 130 00:06:46,907 --> 00:06:48,039 They noticed that it was really low 131 00:06:48,075 --> 00:06:50,976 and thbyld be losing oxygen, so it's very dangerous. 132 00:06:51,011 --> 00:06:54,513 [woman] ...Baby on the monitor here, it's just like that. 133 00:06:54,548 --> 00:06:56,615 [tiarra] I've drove out to the hospital and they checked out my iron. 134 00:06:56,650 --> 00:06:59,117 Everything was okay, the baby was safe. 135 00:06:59,153 --> 00:07:02,387 And they okayed me to fly back to maryland, which was a huge relief, 136 00:07:02,423 --> 00:07:04,689 because I didn't wanna stay in kentucky longer than I had to. 137 00:07:07,728 --> 00:07:09,127 [dee] are you taking a picture of it? 138 00:07:09,163 --> 00:07:11,530 -[tiarra] mmm-hmm. -And then you're gonna, like, post it now? 139 00:07:12,733 --> 00:07:13,965 [tiarra] yeah. 140 00:07:14,001 --> 00:07:17,736 It's cute, I like it and I want tyra to see it. 141 00:07:17,771 --> 00:07:20,305 Tyra and I are fine now, but last time we were with each other, 142 00:07:20,340 --> 00:07:23,108 it was hectic, because when I needed to borrow her car 143 00:07:23,143 --> 00:07:25,811 for the hospital, we got into a fight, so she wouldn't let me take it. 144 00:07:25,846 --> 00:07:26,812 [tyra speaking] 145 00:07:31,552 --> 00:07:33,618 [woman yelling] if something happens to her baby, 146 00:07:33,654 --> 00:07:36,488 you just know, it's your god damn fault. 147 00:07:38,659 --> 00:07:41,893 Tyra did apologize for the way that she acted. 148 00:07:41,929 --> 00:07:45,530 I just appreciate that she apologized and admitted she was wrong. 149 00:07:45,566 --> 00:07:46,865 Because, me put in that situation, 150 00:07:46,900 --> 00:07:48,300 like, I'm not good at admitting I'm wrong. 151 00:07:49,670 --> 00:07:52,070 Ask dee how many times I apologize, I don't apologize for [bleep]. 152 00:07:55,209 --> 00:07:57,108 [dee] no, she'll just... 153 00:07:57,144 --> 00:07:58,477 [tiarra] switch it to it being your fault. 154 00:07:58,512 --> 00:08:02,547 Yeah, she'll do that, or she'll just act like it never happened. 155 00:08:02,583 --> 00:08:04,783 -And just, like... -You do the same thing. 156 00:08:04,818 --> 00:08:06,685 -...Act normal. -When have you apologized to me? 157 00:08:06,720 --> 00:08:08,420 -I apologize all the time. -Okay. 158 00:08:08,455 --> 00:08:10,989 -I apologize for stuff that you do. -Okay. 159 00:08:12,926 --> 00:08:16,962 So, what's up with tyra? Do you know if she's coming or not? 160 00:08:16,997 --> 00:08:19,798 -I don't know if she's coming or not yet. -[dee] hmm. 161 00:08:19,833 --> 00:08:22,701 So I knew my mom is gonna come before I have the baby, 162 00:08:22,736 --> 00:08:24,269 and stay a couple of weeks after. 163 00:08:24,304 --> 00:08:27,072 I would love if my sister could come, but I'm not really sure 164 00:08:27,107 --> 00:08:29,441 what's going on there, if she's gonna come or not. 165 00:08:29,476 --> 00:08:32,177 I just hope if she comes, she doesn't start anything 166 00:08:32,212 --> 00:08:34,112 because the last thing I need right now is more stress. 167 00:08:37,851 --> 00:08:39,651 I was looking at apartments. 168 00:08:39,686 --> 00:08:41,353 Apartments for you and aden? 169 00:08:41,388 --> 00:08:43,788 No, just luca and I. 170 00:08:43,824 --> 00:08:46,925 It's a really big decision and I know it would really hurt aden. 171 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:50,028 I just need to figure out what I wanna do. 172 00:08:50,063 --> 00:08:52,497 [emersyn speaking] 173 00:08:52,533 --> 00:08:55,467 wake mason, somebody needs to be by your side. 174 00:08:55,502 --> 00:08:58,970 This is the birth of his child and he's asleep on the couch. 175 00:08:59,006 --> 00:09:00,372 That's just not okay. 176 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:09,748 [music playing] 177 00:09:15,522 --> 00:09:17,255 of course, mason is sleeping. 178 00:09:18,525 --> 00:09:20,725 [emersyn speaking] 179 00:09:22,462 --> 00:09:23,795 he's snoring. 180 00:09:23,830 --> 00:09:26,197 I got my epidural around 5 in the morning. 181 00:09:26,233 --> 00:09:28,233 And I was 8 centimeters. 182 00:09:28,268 --> 00:09:31,570 And once they gave me the epidural, I fell right asleep. 183 00:09:31,605 --> 00:09:32,637 Because I needed it. 184 00:09:33,574 --> 00:09:36,875 And, um, I think, about... 185 00:09:36,910 --> 00:09:38,743 An hour and a half later, 186 00:09:38,779 --> 00:09:41,513 when I woke up from like this urge to push. 187 00:09:41,548 --> 00:09:43,815 It felt like I had to take a giant crap. 188 00:09:45,419 --> 00:09:46,985 And it was so much pressure. 189 00:09:51,792 --> 00:09:53,892 It got to the point where I couldn't even control it, 190 00:09:53,927 --> 00:09:55,860 like, my body was doing it. 191 00:09:55,896 --> 00:09:58,730 And I was like, "nurse, nurse." 192 00:09:58,765 --> 00:09:59,831 that's when I called my mum. 193 00:10:01,201 --> 00:10:02,901 [phone vibrating] 194 00:10:02,936 --> 00:10:06,438 -[erica] hi, honey. -[emersyn speaking] 195 00:10:08,008 --> 00:10:08,907 [erica] it does? 196 00:10:08,942 --> 00:10:10,842 I wonder why that hurts. 197 00:10:10,877 --> 00:10:12,978 The pressure you think? The baby coming down? 198 00:10:13,013 --> 00:10:13,945 [emersyn] it's the pressure. 199 00:10:13,981 --> 00:10:15,180 Okay. 200 00:10:15,215 --> 00:10:18,883 It was so hard not to be at the hospital with emersyn. 201 00:10:18,919 --> 00:10:23,622 Last night, um, I had a really difficult time sleeping. 202 00:10:23,657 --> 00:10:26,157 I had mom guilt the whole time. [clears throat] 203 00:10:26,193 --> 00:10:27,892 I... You know, I was holding my babies 204 00:10:27,928 --> 00:10:30,395 thinking, okay, I'm here because they're smaller. 205 00:10:30,430 --> 00:10:32,030 And they needed me. 206 00:10:32,065 --> 00:10:37,102 But at the same time, I felt like my 18 year old also needed her mum. 207 00:10:37,137 --> 00:10:40,005 But that's what happens when you and your daughter 208 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:41,973 have babies 13 weeks apart. 209 00:10:42,476 --> 00:10:43,375 Yeah. 210 00:10:45,879 --> 00:10:47,812 And everybody's sleeping? 211 00:10:47,848 --> 00:10:50,515 -[emersyn speaking] -aww. 212 00:10:50,550 --> 00:10:52,250 You could wake 'em up if you need them. 213 00:10:53,086 --> 00:10:55,687 [emersyn speaking] 214 00:10:56,857 --> 00:10:58,757 [erica] did she tell you not to push? 215 00:10:59,593 --> 00:11:01,826 [emersyn speaking] 216 00:11:04,031 --> 00:11:05,930 well, call him honey. I your-- 217 00:11:05,966 --> 00:11:07,232 [emersyn speaking] 218 00:11:07,267 --> 00:11:08,533 I know, honey. 219 00:11:08,568 --> 00:11:11,403 Wake mason, somebody needs to be by your side 220 00:11:11,438 --> 00:11:12,570 to coach you. 221 00:11:12,606 --> 00:11:15,273 You don't need to do this by yourself. 222 00:11:15,308 --> 00:11:17,442 And I thought, my god, what's going on in there? 223 00:11:17,477 --> 00:11:20,311 She had two support people, my mom and mason 224 00:11:20,347 --> 00:11:21,813 that were asleep... 225 00:11:21,848 --> 00:11:23,515 While she was 8 centimeters. 226 00:11:23,550 --> 00:11:26,017 I was just like, "wake them up, wake them up!" 227 00:11:26,053 --> 00:11:28,386 um, it was hard. It was really hard 228 00:11:28,422 --> 00:11:31,656 to listen from my end and not being able to do anything. 229 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:36,861 You're almost there, emmy, you're going really fast. 230 00:11:36,897 --> 00:11:39,497 -[emersyn speaking] -you're doin' a good job. 231 00:11:39,533 --> 00:11:41,332 [baby cooing over phone] 232 00:11:41,368 --> 00:11:44,369 [erica] your baby is gonna be here soon, honey. 233 00:11:44,404 --> 00:11:47,072 It's gonna be really tough right now, it's the hardest probably. 234 00:11:47,107 --> 00:11:48,039 But you're gonna be okay. 235 00:11:50,977 --> 00:11:52,477 Did mason wake up yet? 236 00:11:53,313 --> 00:11:54,412 [emersyn speaking] 237 00:11:56,683 --> 00:11:59,017 -[exhales] -[erica] breathe. 238 00:11:59,820 --> 00:12:01,886 [emersyn speaking] 239 00:12:01,922 --> 00:12:03,655 okay, honey. Hang up if you need to. 240 00:12:03,690 --> 00:12:06,124 -[emersyn speaking] -love you, too. Bye. 241 00:12:06,159 --> 00:12:07,459 Bye. 242 00:12:07,494 --> 00:12:10,762 I think it's important to understand that sai and I are still 243 00:12:10,797 --> 00:12:12,564 really getting to know mason. 244 00:12:12,599 --> 00:12:14,699 Emersyn went over to his house a lot. 245 00:12:14,735 --> 00:12:18,603 But we... We had very few visits with mason at our house. 246 00:12:18,638 --> 00:12:21,206 Um, because we didn't let him spend the night. And, um... 247 00:12:22,776 --> 00:12:25,677 I thought things were going pretty good. 248 00:12:25,712 --> 00:12:29,714 Um, but mason being asleep on the couch, 249 00:12:29,750 --> 00:12:31,382 that sends a red flag to me. 250 00:12:32,853 --> 00:12:36,187 [sai] these are the kids that stay awake playing video games all night. 251 00:12:36,223 --> 00:12:36,955 I have... 252 00:12:45,832 --> 00:12:48,566 Um, I was disappointed. 253 00:12:50,170 --> 00:12:52,103 Let's try waking mason up. 254 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:55,006 [cooing] 255 00:12:57,310 --> 00:12:58,743 [phone vibrating] 256 00:13:00,413 --> 00:13:02,013 he is dead asleep. 257 00:13:03,984 --> 00:13:04,949 [phone rings] 258 00:13:04,985 --> 00:13:05,984 [automated voice] your call has been-- 259 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:09,320 this is the birth of his child. 260 00:13:09,356 --> 00:13:14,726 This is one of the most precious, exciting, um, moments of his life. 261 00:13:14,761 --> 00:13:16,661 And he's asleep on the couch. 262 00:13:16,696 --> 00:13:19,164 It does not give me warm and fuzzies 263 00:13:19,199 --> 00:13:21,933 about what kind of parent or partner he will be 264 00:13:21,968 --> 00:13:24,002 to emersyn and mateo in the future. 265 00:13:25,772 --> 00:13:26,738 [line trilling] 266 00:13:28,742 --> 00:13:30,508 [automated voice speaking] please leave your message-- 267 00:13:30,544 --> 00:13:33,778 [erica] really bad way to start their life off as a family. 268 00:13:33,814 --> 00:13:38,583 Mason is about to miss the birth of his son and that's just not okay. 269 00:13:40,620 --> 00:13:42,787 ♪ whoa♪ 270 00:13:42,823 --> 00:13:44,422 ♪ whoa♪ 271 00:13:44,457 --> 00:13:46,958 ♪ whoa♪ 272 00:13:48,361 --> 00:13:50,028 -[baby cooing] -[jenna] you wanna walk? 273 00:13:51,631 --> 00:13:53,598 -[alyssa] there he goes. -[baby cooing] 274 00:13:53,633 --> 00:13:55,366 [jenna] here we go. 275 00:13:55,402 --> 00:13:57,235 -He loves it. -[alyssa giggling] 276 00:13:57,270 --> 00:13:58,736 [jenna] he's into walking today. 277 00:13:58,772 --> 00:14:00,004 -Yeah. -Good job. 278 00:14:01,241 --> 00:14:03,007 [jenna] it's crazy. 279 00:14:03,043 --> 00:14:06,110 This week luca took his first few steps. 280 00:14:06,713 --> 00:14:08,413 Did you? Yeah. 281 00:14:08,448 --> 00:14:11,015 -[baby cooing] -yeah. 282 00:14:11,051 --> 00:14:15,186 Luca, literally, just stood up and he just took like five steps. 283 00:14:15,222 --> 00:14:19,791 It was insane. I wanted to like cry. 284 00:14:20,794 --> 00:14:22,627 'cause he's not a baby anymore. 285 00:14:23,964 --> 00:14:24,796 [baby cooing] 286 00:14:25,765 --> 00:14:26,898 wanna sit down, baby? 287 00:14:28,501 --> 00:14:30,401 [jenna grunting] 288 00:14:30,437 --> 00:14:32,770 [sighing in exhaustion] my goodness. It's getting hot out. 289 00:14:35,909 --> 00:14:37,675 I get out of breath so quickly. 290 00:14:37,711 --> 00:14:40,411 I mean, you're just carrying this weight around. 291 00:14:40,447 --> 00:14:41,679 This bowling ball. [chuckles] 292 00:14:42,716 --> 00:14:45,884 my sister was in texas in college. 293 00:14:45,919 --> 00:14:49,254 She just came back right after luca was born. 294 00:14:49,289 --> 00:14:52,090 And I'm happy she moved back home. 295 00:14:52,859 --> 00:14:54,525 I go to alyssa for everything. 296 00:14:54,561 --> 00:14:57,462 Like, when I'm dealing with issues with aden. 297 00:14:57,497 --> 00:14:59,297 'cause even though we have different dad's 298 00:14:59,332 --> 00:15:01,332 our relationship is really good. 299 00:15:01,368 --> 00:15:02,634 My sister knows everything. 300 00:15:03,303 --> 00:15:04,736 Down to like the t. 301 00:15:04,771 --> 00:15:07,405 -[baby cooing] -so how's he been? How's everything been? 302 00:15:08,408 --> 00:15:09,207 [baby cooing] 303 00:15:09,943 --> 00:15:11,342 I was looking at apartments. 304 00:15:12,545 --> 00:15:14,078 Apartments for you and aden? 305 00:15:14,114 --> 00:15:16,547 No. Just luca and I. 306 00:15:18,852 --> 00:15:21,119 Why were you looking at apartments just for you guys? 307 00:15:21,154 --> 00:15:23,554 I just, I don't know 308 00:15:23,590 --> 00:15:26,057 where aden and I are gonna be in the next couple of months. 309 00:15:26,092 --> 00:15:27,525 Mmm-hmm. 310 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:29,360 I just don't know if we're compatible. 311 00:15:29,396 --> 00:15:32,063 -Mmm-hmm. -You know? 312 00:15:32,098 --> 00:15:35,333 I do understand why jenna would wanna look at places for her and luca. 313 00:15:35,368 --> 00:15:38,269 Um, her and aden still have a fairly new relationship. 314 00:15:38,305 --> 00:15:40,905 And then adding a baby in the mix just makes it much more stressful. 315 00:15:40,941 --> 00:15:44,876 But, I think jenna is quick to make decisions sometimes, based off her emotions. 316 00:15:44,911 --> 00:15:48,212 And jenna is a little naive in thinking she can get an apartment at 18, 317 00:15:48,248 --> 00:15:50,581 without a stable job, or a stable income. 318 00:15:50,617 --> 00:15:54,352 Um, but again, I just think that's due to lack of real world experience. 319 00:15:54,387 --> 00:15:55,553 And that'll come with time. 320 00:15:55,588 --> 00:15:57,755 You know, even I at 18 was probably naive 321 00:15:57,791 --> 00:16:00,158 as far as getting an apartment, or what first car to get. 322 00:16:00,193 --> 00:16:01,526 Think that everybody goes through that. 323 00:16:02,963 --> 00:16:04,896 As far as, like, you trying to get an apartment on your own. 324 00:16:04,931 --> 00:16:06,597 It's a really, really big step. 325 00:16:06,633 --> 00:16:09,534 You have to prove, on paper, that you make three times the rent. 326 00:16:09,569 --> 00:16:11,302 -Yeah. -You'll probably need a co-signer. 327 00:16:11,338 --> 00:16:15,740 Like [chuckles] yeah, see. He didn't even like that idea either. 328 00:16:15,775 --> 00:16:17,575 You know, it's just a lot harder than you think. 329 00:16:19,145 --> 00:16:22,113 I mean, like, so did you actually tour apartments? Like how serious did you... 330 00:16:22,148 --> 00:16:25,550 I didn't tour any yet. I was just weighing out numbers. 331 00:16:25,585 --> 00:16:28,486 And looking in our area. 332 00:16:28,521 --> 00:16:32,457 I don't have really my own money consistently. 333 00:16:32,892 --> 00:16:33,758 I... 334 00:16:34,494 --> 00:16:36,527 Don't have that independence. 335 00:16:36,563 --> 00:16:38,162 I just use aden's cards. 336 00:16:38,198 --> 00:16:39,630 He has... 337 00:16:39,666 --> 00:16:42,600 A card linked to his bank account for me and that's just what I use. 338 00:16:43,370 --> 00:16:44,669 And I just don't have credit. 339 00:16:44,704 --> 00:16:47,505 I don't... I never got a credit card. 340 00:16:47,540 --> 00:16:51,642 I've never built... I never built my credit. 341 00:16:55,382 --> 00:16:56,381 [chuckles] 342 00:16:59,085 --> 00:17:00,852 [mumbling] I don't know. 343 00:17:00,887 --> 00:17:03,988 I don't know. I just know I don't have any credit. 344 00:17:04,024 --> 00:17:06,657 I need to get some. Otherwise I can't do anything. 345 00:17:08,428 --> 00:17:09,694 Which is stupid. 346 00:17:09,729 --> 00:17:11,829 How you supposed to buy something to build your credit, 347 00:17:11,865 --> 00:17:12,964 if they won't approve you for it. 348 00:17:14,634 --> 00:17:16,701 You and aden definitely need to talk more. 349 00:17:16,736 --> 00:17:19,270 And I think you guys need to make time for each other. 350 00:17:19,305 --> 00:17:23,307 -Because you don't really ever spend time alone. Ever. -Yeah. 351 00:17:23,343 --> 00:17:26,577 And I don't feel like you guys ever even got to date because you got pregnant right away. 352 00:17:26,613 --> 00:17:29,614 And so you guys never really even got to learn about each other, just who you are. 353 00:17:29,649 --> 00:17:32,417 Before taking on, like, all these responsibilities. 354 00:17:32,452 --> 00:17:35,853 But aden is carrying the financial burden of your little family, 355 00:17:35,889 --> 00:17:36,621 that's a lot. 356 00:17:37,023 --> 00:17:37,755 Yeah. 357 00:17:37,791 --> 00:17:40,892 He does do his part financially. 358 00:17:40,927 --> 00:17:44,128 And he is there for luca. 359 00:17:44,164 --> 00:17:45,229 But he's also... 360 00:17:46,599 --> 00:17:48,499 Not necessarily there for me. 361 00:17:48,535 --> 00:17:49,700 If that makes sense. 362 00:17:49,736 --> 00:17:52,637 So, it's hard. It's a tough situation. 363 00:17:52,672 --> 00:17:56,507 But, it's just not something that I can, like... 364 00:17:56,543 --> 00:17:58,242 Just get up and leave right this minute. 365 00:17:58,278 --> 00:17:59,177 Just 'cause, I mean... 366 00:18:00,113 --> 00:18:01,879 [scoffs] I don't know. 367 00:18:03,583 --> 00:18:04,482 It's difficult. 368 00:18:05,952 --> 00:18:08,286 I mean, even just talking about it, you seem pretty nonchalant. 369 00:18:08,321 --> 00:18:11,722 But, if you do get your own space with you and luca. 370 00:18:11,758 --> 00:18:14,525 Do you think that, you know, it's gonna affect you differently then? 371 00:18:15,462 --> 00:18:17,495 -Um, maybe. -Think you're gonna be sad? 372 00:18:17,530 --> 00:18:20,932 -You think you're gonna feel emotional about it? -I'll definitely be sad. 373 00:18:20,967 --> 00:18:24,435 -But, like, I won't know until I live it. You know? -Yeah. 374 00:18:25,271 --> 00:18:26,838 -So it's hard to say. -Mmm-hmm. 375 00:18:28,708 --> 00:18:30,908 If I were to move out, it's a really big decision 376 00:18:30,944 --> 00:18:33,478 and I know it would really hurt aden. 377 00:18:33,513 --> 00:18:36,781 So, I just need to figure out what I wanna do. 378 00:18:36,816 --> 00:18:40,384 But, in the meantime, I need to start looking for a job. 379 00:18:40,420 --> 00:18:43,921 Because I can't even start to think about moving out, on my own, 380 00:18:43,957 --> 00:18:45,289 without any income. 381 00:18:47,026 --> 00:18:51,262 [jason] we just wanna take the next steps to be, like, alone and grownup. 382 00:18:51,297 --> 00:18:52,730 All their asking, dude, 383 00:18:52,765 --> 00:18:54,932 is to have a little involvement. That's it. 384 00:18:54,968 --> 00:18:56,267 He's my son, I made him. 385 00:18:56,302 --> 00:18:58,836 But, kinda lacks a little bit of compassion. 386 00:18:58,872 --> 00:19:00,004 And it sucks. 387 00:19:03,176 --> 00:19:05,710 ♪ you've got me spinning♪ 388 00:19:05,745 --> 00:19:09,180 ♪ you've got me spinning bad♪ 389 00:19:11,551 --> 00:19:13,918 come on. Let's get this over with. 390 00:19:14,854 --> 00:19:15,920 [kylen] you wanna go help them? 391 00:19:17,090 --> 00:19:18,789 -[marie] we just got this. -[jason speaking] 392 00:19:20,093 --> 00:19:21,225 [heidi] you guys want that out here? 393 00:19:22,295 --> 00:19:24,362 -You wanna go help them? -They're good. 394 00:19:25,565 --> 00:19:26,397 [scott] how ya been, mike? 395 00:19:26,432 --> 00:19:27,932 -How's it going? -[scott] good, buddy. 396 00:19:28,668 --> 00:19:30,668 Scott and heidi have... 397 00:19:31,571 --> 00:19:32,937 Invited us over. 398 00:19:32,972 --> 00:19:35,473 But, it doesn't feel the same... 399 00:19:36,342 --> 00:19:39,410 To me unless the kids invite us. 400 00:19:40,580 --> 00:19:43,114 Or jason invite us. 401 00:19:44,150 --> 00:19:46,350 You'd feel more welcomed. 402 00:19:46,386 --> 00:19:47,084 Or... 403 00:19:48,254 --> 00:19:52,023 -More a part of their life. -Yeah. 404 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:55,593 How much longer on this food, man? 405 00:19:56,796 --> 00:19:58,896 [scott] jason, chillax brother. 406 00:19:58,932 --> 00:20:00,565 Here, get mike a hotdog, please. 407 00:20:04,470 --> 00:20:08,272 Mike and marie are always 100% welcome at our house. 408 00:20:08,308 --> 00:20:11,475 It's important because we know that they miss their daughter. 409 00:20:12,178 --> 00:20:14,612 Right. I really feel for them. 410 00:20:14,647 --> 00:20:17,481 It's such an important time to be with your child. 411 00:20:17,517 --> 00:20:20,851 -Especially when she's 17 and she's your only daughter. -Yeah. 412 00:20:20,887 --> 00:20:22,753 But, uh, I'm not sure 413 00:20:22,789 --> 00:20:26,557 if jason wants to share kylen with them. 414 00:20:26,593 --> 00:20:27,325 [heidi] yeah. 415 00:20:29,229 --> 00:20:31,329 Here's that. Do you want ketchup or mustard? 416 00:20:32,732 --> 00:20:34,332 No, I'll get up and get it. 417 00:20:37,303 --> 00:20:41,939 I think jason's jealous of kylen's relationship with them. 418 00:20:42,542 --> 00:20:44,041 And how close they are. 419 00:20:44,077 --> 00:20:47,278 But, hopefully jason can ease up a little bit. 420 00:20:47,313 --> 00:20:50,147 And let kylen enjoy her time with her parents. 421 00:20:51,117 --> 00:20:53,918 There's crackers, and cheese, and pepperoni, 422 00:20:53,953 --> 00:20:56,487 and chips and dip if you guys want some. 423 00:20:56,522 --> 00:20:59,790 -[marie] are you good? -Yeah, I'm good. I'm having my drink. 424 00:20:59,826 --> 00:21:01,259 -Okay. -Thirsty. 425 00:21:02,895 --> 00:21:04,562 -[marie] hmm. -[scott] oh, boy. 426 00:21:05,565 --> 00:21:07,732 -[marie] how you feeling girl? -[kylen] good. 427 00:21:07,767 --> 00:21:09,066 Are you nervous, kylen? 428 00:21:10,203 --> 00:21:10,835 No. 429 00:21:12,639 --> 00:21:13,471 You should be. 430 00:21:16,943 --> 00:21:19,410 [mike] I think you're full of crap. 431 00:21:19,445 --> 00:21:22,513 I'm nervous and I'm not even having a baby. 432 00:21:22,548 --> 00:21:25,683 Lately kylen feels withdrawn. 433 00:21:25,718 --> 00:21:28,386 That's the vibe I get every time they get around us. 434 00:21:28,421 --> 00:21:32,189 I mean, in the beginning it seemed like I was getting details. 435 00:21:32,225 --> 00:21:35,660 Like, how big the baby is. 436 00:21:35,695 --> 00:21:38,529 But now, they're just not telling me anything. 437 00:21:38,564 --> 00:21:39,230 And that's... 438 00:21:40,533 --> 00:21:43,534 Pretty hard for me to grasp. 439 00:21:46,773 --> 00:21:48,272 We just want to... 440 00:21:49,676 --> 00:21:50,708 How do we put it? 441 00:21:52,111 --> 00:21:55,746 By not communicating with us, it makes us worry. 442 00:21:57,150 --> 00:22:02,286 And when you do communicate it's short lately. 443 00:22:02,322 --> 00:22:05,756 So I'm not sure where... What I can ask. 444 00:22:06,893 --> 00:22:09,160 Marie and mike are kinda getting at is, 445 00:22:09,195 --> 00:22:12,797 they kinda wanna feel like they're included in the whole family thing, you know? 446 00:22:12,832 --> 00:22:15,833 -[heidi] 'cause you live here so they think we're right. -I understand that 447 00:22:15,868 --> 00:22:17,468 -[heidi] you gotta make them feel more... -[scott] right. 448 00:22:17,503 --> 00:22:21,539 No, I get that. But you're not understanding you. 449 00:22:21,574 --> 00:22:23,140 That I don't even wanna live here. 450 00:22:23,176 --> 00:22:24,809 I wanna be on my own apartment. 451 00:22:24,844 --> 00:22:26,577 And like, the same relationship 452 00:22:26,612 --> 00:22:28,245 that we have with them with you guys. 453 00:22:28,281 --> 00:22:29,847 Like, I want it to be even. 454 00:22:29,882 --> 00:22:33,417 I feel like that's why they feel, like, lower. Because we're living with you. 455 00:22:33,453 --> 00:22:34,785 But if we were on our own. 456 00:22:34,821 --> 00:22:37,521 I just feel like you guys got a problem with us, or something. 457 00:22:39,559 --> 00:22:41,459 I don't like getting advice from everyone. 458 00:22:41,494 --> 00:22:44,695 I think our parents should just leave us alone. 459 00:22:44,731 --> 00:22:48,332 And not give me all this advice that I don't need. 460 00:22:48,368 --> 00:22:51,535 When I'm 18, and I'm an adult. I'm gonna be a good parent. 461 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,006 What are you guys mad at us about? 462 00:22:58,911 --> 00:23:00,244 [kylen] we're not mad at you. 463 00:23:00,279 --> 00:23:03,247 Well, we feel like you are. And like you don't want us around. 464 00:23:05,017 --> 00:23:05,750 [jason] I don't like... 465 00:23:06,819 --> 00:23:08,386 The pushiness. 466 00:23:08,421 --> 00:23:11,956 -[heidi] we're not pushing. -You don't get how much stress is on both of us. 467 00:23:11,991 --> 00:23:14,458 [mike] we know exactly how much stress is on you guys. 468 00:23:14,494 --> 00:23:16,060 Because we've been through it. 469 00:23:16,095 --> 00:23:19,697 -You're not the first people in this world to have a baby. -[heidi] no. 470 00:23:19,732 --> 00:23:22,933 I'm just, like, an independent person and I just want this kid, 471 00:23:22,969 --> 00:23:26,670 and, like, we just wanna take the next steps to be, like, 472 00:23:26,706 --> 00:23:28,172 alone and grownup. 473 00:23:28,207 --> 00:23:30,975 All they're asking, dude, is to have a little involvement. 474 00:23:31,010 --> 00:23:32,309 -That's it. -[mike coughing] 475 00:23:34,213 --> 00:23:36,113 family's important. 476 00:23:36,149 --> 00:23:39,283 I regret not spending much time with mine. 477 00:23:39,318 --> 00:23:41,652 Mike's not in the best of shape, and you know. 478 00:23:43,423 --> 00:23:46,190 Ya never know. When your time's up, your time's up. 479 00:23:49,429 --> 00:23:50,561 [jason speaking] 480 00:23:50,596 --> 00:23:52,897 [kylen] whatever, jason. 481 00:23:52,932 --> 00:23:55,099 -Kylen, I wanna go. -[heidi] what are you guys doing? 482 00:23:56,436 --> 00:23:57,768 Um, going to my friends at 7:00. 483 00:24:00,173 --> 00:24:01,238 What time is it now? 484 00:24:02,708 --> 00:24:05,176 -[jason] 6:49, that's why I was... -Oh. 485 00:24:07,213 --> 00:24:08,479 [scott] yeah, but what's more important? 486 00:24:08,514 --> 00:24:10,848 -[heidi] right, family or friends? -[scott] right. 487 00:24:10,883 --> 00:24:13,784 [heidi] family, you always have. Friends, come and go. 488 00:24:13,820 --> 00:24:15,553 Okay, but I made these plans. 489 00:24:16,923 --> 00:24:18,722 [kylen] you knew about these plans all week. 490 00:24:20,460 --> 00:24:23,260 If it was one of you guys that had plans, it wouldn't be an issue. 491 00:24:23,296 --> 00:24:24,295 I'm an adult too. 492 00:24:31,170 --> 00:24:32,703 He's my son, I made him. 493 00:24:32,738 --> 00:24:36,106 But, kinda lacks a little bit of compassion. 494 00:24:36,142 --> 00:24:38,476 It's not good. And it sucks. 495 00:24:42,181 --> 00:24:42,813 [jason speaking] 496 00:24:43,783 --> 00:24:45,983 I'm not even done yet. 497 00:24:46,018 --> 00:24:47,818 -[heidi] come on, jason. -[kylen] stop. 498 00:24:50,456 --> 00:24:51,755 It's not my plans. 499 00:24:53,559 --> 00:24:55,226 [jason] well, it's our plans. 500 00:24:59,765 --> 00:25:00,731 [jason speaking] 501 00:25:01,901 --> 00:25:04,201 -[kylen speaking] -yeah. 502 00:25:08,341 --> 00:25:09,006 I'm gonna pee. 503 00:25:15,548 --> 00:25:18,716 -[mike] that's my concern, secrets. -Yeah. 504 00:25:18,751 --> 00:25:20,184 [kylen whispering] 505 00:25:22,355 --> 00:25:26,223 we're not sure about what's going on behind closed doors. 506 00:25:26,259 --> 00:25:29,560 But we can't even get her alone to find out. 507 00:25:29,595 --> 00:25:31,362 We're tried to be patient. 508 00:25:31,397 --> 00:25:35,666 But, we're getting to the point where we really can't take it anymore. 509 00:25:35,701 --> 00:25:39,603 The dam's gonna break. Or the wall's gonna come down. 510 00:25:39,639 --> 00:25:40,738 Something's gonna happen. 511 00:25:45,478 --> 00:25:46,844 -That? -Yeah. 512 00:25:49,315 --> 00:25:50,981 They were saying, like, hurtful things about me. 513 00:25:51,017 --> 00:25:53,217 What the [bleep] kinda [bleep] is that? 514 00:26:16,042 --> 00:26:18,142 Yeah. Um, that? 515 00:26:20,179 --> 00:26:21,445 Yeah. 516 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,981 I'm candice and I'm taylor's mother and evelyn's nina. 517 00:26:24,817 --> 00:26:26,617 I'm also melissa's sister. 518 00:26:26,652 --> 00:26:28,419 And tyra and tiarra's aunt. 519 00:26:28,454 --> 00:26:31,288 And we're all went through teen pregnancies together. 520 00:26:31,324 --> 00:26:33,257 And we're a pretty close family. 521 00:26:33,292 --> 00:26:36,627 So, I was really excited about taylor and tiarra 522 00:26:36,662 --> 00:26:38,796 going through a second pregnancy together. 523 00:26:38,831 --> 00:26:42,299 And then, when the competition with the nursery started, 524 00:26:42,335 --> 00:26:44,168 that's when it all kinda, like... 525 00:26:45,404 --> 00:26:46,704 Brought the fun out of it. 526 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,908 Kinda hurts my feelings because she knows how much, like, 527 00:26:50,943 --> 00:26:54,411 you invested in, like, doing your nursery that... 528 00:26:54,447 --> 00:26:56,013 The way you wanted to do it. 529 00:26:56,048 --> 00:26:57,948 And then she, kinda-- 530 00:26:59,051 --> 00:26:59,717 yeah. 531 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:02,252 -Yeah, basically. -Yeah. 532 00:27:03,823 --> 00:27:07,524 When tiarra was down here last I showed her the nursery theme I wanted to do. 533 00:27:18,004 --> 00:27:20,204 And she showed me what she had chosen. 534 00:27:20,239 --> 00:27:22,406 Which was a totally different theme. 535 00:27:22,441 --> 00:27:25,409 And then when she left she pretty much re-did her whole nursery 536 00:27:25,444 --> 00:27:27,978 in the theme I was gonna do and didn't even tell me about it. 537 00:27:28,014 --> 00:27:29,546 It just hurt. Like, it's just her. 538 00:27:32,018 --> 00:27:36,487 And then seeing my kid hurt over something petty, I know it was petty. 539 00:27:36,522 --> 00:27:40,224 But, her feelings were hurt. She was so excited to share it with tiarra. 540 00:27:40,259 --> 00:27:42,960 And then for tiarra to go home and change everything 541 00:27:42,995 --> 00:27:45,396 to the exact same thing that taylor wanted. 542 00:27:45,431 --> 00:27:47,231 And the thing is, this is not the first time. 543 00:27:47,266 --> 00:27:51,702 From boys, to clothes, to shoes, to friends. 544 00:27:51,737 --> 00:27:53,971 And I've never said one thing. 545 00:27:54,006 --> 00:27:56,240 Throughout all these years of how tiarra's acted. 546 00:27:56,275 --> 00:28:00,444 And I finally just let it all out. 547 00:28:00,479 --> 00:28:03,313 What got me is, if you would've looked at her registry, like... 548 00:28:04,016 --> 00:28:06,016 Four weeks before that, 549 00:28:06,052 --> 00:28:08,085 - she had nothing-- -[taylor] but pink and grey. 550 00:28:08,120 --> 00:28:10,487 [candice] yeah, nothing boho. 551 00:28:10,523 --> 00:28:13,657 [taylor] she had a whole different registry at the beginning. 552 00:28:13,693 --> 00:28:15,626 You can literally see that if you go back and look. 553 00:28:16,529 --> 00:28:18,228 Why are you, like, being sneaky? 554 00:28:18,264 --> 00:28:22,966 Why didn't you just tell me you wanted to do, you know, the boho rainbow theme too? 555 00:28:23,002 --> 00:28:24,868 Um, 'cause it's not just boho. 556 00:28:24,904 --> 00:28:28,205 It's, like, the exact boho rainbow theme. 557 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,274 She was like, why didn't you just, you know, come out and tell me. 558 00:28:30,309 --> 00:28:31,575 And, you know, I would have been fine with it. 559 00:28:31,610 --> 00:28:34,378 But, instead, like, every time I've asked you, you said no. 560 00:28:34,413 --> 00:28:37,981 And now, like, everything you have on your registry, 561 00:28:38,017 --> 00:28:40,517 everything that you're getting is all the rainbow theme. 562 00:28:43,522 --> 00:28:45,422 Of course, tiarra is the competitive type. 563 00:28:45,458 --> 00:28:47,591 She's the type that is like... 564 00:28:47,626 --> 00:28:50,294 Well, if you like that, I like that too. 565 00:28:50,329 --> 00:28:53,430 Or, um, I'm gonna get it before she does. 566 00:28:53,466 --> 00:28:54,932 So people don't say that... 567 00:28:55,768 --> 00:28:56,900 I copied them. 568 00:28:56,936 --> 00:28:59,403 Like, they're copying me now. Because I got it first. 569 00:28:59,438 --> 00:29:01,138 It just hit me the wrong way. 570 00:29:01,173 --> 00:29:02,339 Like, I'd had enough. 571 00:29:03,175 --> 00:29:05,876 And, um, then I went to instagram. 572 00:29:07,046 --> 00:29:08,979 And commented on an instagram post. 573 00:29:10,816 --> 00:29:13,650 I felt like she was being selfish and not considerate. 574 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:16,720 I felt like it was a big slap in the face. 575 00:29:17,857 --> 00:29:19,556 [taylor] so that's when I got into it. 576 00:29:19,592 --> 00:29:21,892 - Just went downhill from there. -[candice] it went downhill. 577 00:29:23,162 --> 00:29:25,562 It just, like, boom! Just blew up. 578 00:29:27,133 --> 00:29:30,134 Did you see all that stuff that candice and taylor had a say on... 579 00:29:30,169 --> 00:29:32,269 Uh, social media about the nursery? 580 00:29:40,679 --> 00:29:44,915 [tiarra] yeah. I think it was like silly drama too. 581 00:29:48,387 --> 00:29:50,788 I'm surprised that my family made it a big deal. 582 00:29:51,624 --> 00:29:53,123 Um, about me doing that theme. 583 00:29:53,159 --> 00:29:56,493 Because, you know, I'd chose to do that as soon as I was pregnant. 584 00:29:56,529 --> 00:29:59,963 Like, I was doing it way before, you know, they started doing it. 585 00:29:59,999 --> 00:30:01,665 And it was never a problem. I was... 586 00:30:01,700 --> 00:30:04,134 I wasn't, like, oh you bitch! You copied my theme! 587 00:30:04,170 --> 00:30:06,570 Like, no. Like, 'cause that's immature as [bleep]. 588 00:30:06,605 --> 00:30:10,774 It's literally a nursey theme. Like, I don't understand what the issue is. 589 00:30:10,810 --> 00:30:14,678 So I'm just surprised that they made it a big deal we were doing the same theme. 590 00:30:28,294 --> 00:30:29,459 I mean, I feel like... 591 00:30:31,263 --> 00:30:36,266 I don't know why taylor, like, just decided to, like, bring everything up right now. 592 00:30:36,302 --> 00:30:40,804 Um, I feel like it was, like, comparing to who's gonna be better 593 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:42,406 now that they're doing the same thing. 594 00:30:42,441 --> 00:30:43,607 It was like a competition thing. 595 00:30:43,642 --> 00:30:46,577 It wasn't, like, let's make this cute for our babies. 596 00:30:46,612 --> 00:30:48,245 [tiarra] like it just makes no sense. 597 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,848 Just a couple months ago we were literally getting ultrasounds done together. 598 00:30:50,883 --> 00:30:52,349 You know, with our girls. 599 00:30:52,384 --> 00:30:54,551 And, you know, we were so close and stuff like that. 600 00:30:54,587 --> 00:30:57,054 And then it all went from that, in the snap of a finger, to now. 601 00:30:57,089 --> 00:31:01,625 Like, I don't even feel like I wanna talk to her because of the stuff that she said. 602 00:31:01,660 --> 00:31:03,126 [tyra] I don't really hold grudges. 603 00:31:03,162 --> 00:31:05,329 But, tiarra, she'll like... 604 00:31:05,364 --> 00:31:07,431 Hate you for the rest of her life. She doesn't care. 605 00:31:10,102 --> 00:31:12,135 Yeah. Well, the only reason I felt bad about any of it, is just because 606 00:31:12,171 --> 00:31:14,504 I know ada and ella love each other. 607 00:31:14,540 --> 00:31:16,673 -Close, yeah. -They're close and love playing with each other. 608 00:31:16,709 --> 00:31:19,476 I don't feel like we should punish them for our stupid drama. 609 00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,247 But, I don't know if we'll ever be on the same terms we were. 610 00:31:24,516 --> 00:31:27,484 I'm about to have a baby too. So I don't want this stress. 611 00:31:27,519 --> 00:31:30,520 When they're ready to talk, then they can come to me, or whatever. 612 00:31:32,324 --> 00:31:33,557 And I agree 100%. 613 00:31:44,870 --> 00:31:46,670 Can't imagine dealing with something like this. 614 00:31:46,705 --> 00:31:48,772 Like, right before you're about to have your baby. 615 00:31:51,076 --> 00:31:54,912 I don't know. I just think it's difficult for me to forgive them 616 00:31:54,947 --> 00:31:57,381 after, you know, not only did they stress me out 617 00:31:57,416 --> 00:31:58,882 a couple days before going to my c-section. 618 00:31:58,918 --> 00:32:03,086 They also put all this fake news out on the internet 619 00:32:03,122 --> 00:32:04,221 for thousand's of people to see. 620 00:32:04,823 --> 00:32:07,691 So, I'm not really... 621 00:32:07,726 --> 00:32:11,428 Planning on having any type of relationship with taylor anymore. 622 00:32:11,463 --> 00:32:14,364 I mean, it might be different after I have a baby, and I'm not so hormonal. 623 00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:16,800 But, right now, I don't really care to. 624 00:32:18,938 --> 00:32:20,671 [jason] all right, we're going. 625 00:32:20,706 --> 00:32:23,540 You know, I keep hoping that something will change. 626 00:32:25,110 --> 00:32:29,179 She's my baby girl I worry about her all the time. 627 00:32:29,214 --> 00:32:32,716 When I woke up, that's when you were pushing. Pretty scary. 628 00:32:32,751 --> 00:32:33,750 [emersyn screaming in pain] 629 00:32:35,721 --> 00:32:39,423 I am worried. Life tells you, when someone screams, it's usually not okay. 630 00:32:50,269 --> 00:32:51,902 [jason] no one gets, like, what we're going through. 631 00:32:51,937 --> 00:32:54,538 They just think about themselves, that's what pisses me off. 632 00:32:54,573 --> 00:32:58,108 [kylen] I'm pretty sure everybody was thinking about us. But, okay. 633 00:32:58,143 --> 00:33:00,544 You're the one that's thinking about yourself. 634 00:33:00,579 --> 00:33:04,548 You knew we had these plans way before your [bleep] stupid ass friends. 635 00:33:04,583 --> 00:33:06,316 -[jason] we really didn't. -We really did. 636 00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,520 [mike] we went over there for a cookout. 637 00:33:10,556 --> 00:33:13,824 But, they kept wanting to hide in the back room. 638 00:33:13,859 --> 00:33:17,227 Sometimes I'd like to just scream... 639 00:33:17,262 --> 00:33:18,695 To get them to listen to me. 640 00:33:19,365 --> 00:33:21,732 We're tried to be patient. 641 00:33:21,767 --> 00:33:23,700 They're always getting up and doing something 642 00:33:23,736 --> 00:33:26,770 they move here, they move here, or they gotta go with friends. 643 00:33:26,805 --> 00:33:30,507 And it's just... It's hard to have a conversation with them. 644 00:33:30,542 --> 00:33:35,012 'cause they won't sit still to let you have that conversation. 645 00:33:37,116 --> 00:33:38,982 There's one thing of being independent 646 00:33:39,018 --> 00:33:42,419 and there's another thing of shunning your family away. 647 00:33:42,454 --> 00:33:45,689 -Staying away from your family is not being independent. -[heidi] no. 648 00:33:46,759 --> 00:33:48,025 That's being a jackass. 649 00:33:49,428 --> 00:33:51,595 -Don't be afraid to call him out. -[heidi] yes. 650 00:33:51,630 --> 00:33:55,298 Mike looked at me and said, "I wish we could see more of them." 651 00:33:55,334 --> 00:33:56,900 and I said, "don't tell me, mike. 652 00:33:58,170 --> 00:33:59,770 Tell them." 653 00:33:59,805 --> 00:34:03,040 because we're at our wits end. We're done. 654 00:34:04,810 --> 00:34:06,543 Jason gonna do, what jason gonna do. 655 00:34:07,613 --> 00:34:09,312 -Do we speak up? -Yeah. 656 00:34:10,382 --> 00:34:11,581 -Often? -Yes. 657 00:34:12,785 --> 00:34:14,117 -Do we get anywhere? -No. 658 00:34:16,021 --> 00:34:17,721 You know what we get? Swore at. 659 00:34:19,058 --> 00:34:20,690 You're a [bleeping]. 660 00:34:22,361 --> 00:34:23,994 [bleep] you, you loser dad. 661 00:34:24,496 --> 00:34:25,228 [scoffs] 662 00:34:26,799 --> 00:34:29,099 you know. How much of that can you take? 663 00:34:30,235 --> 00:34:31,635 [jason] after this baby comes, 664 00:34:31,670 --> 00:34:33,904 we're not gonna see a lot of people for a long time. 665 00:34:35,707 --> 00:34:36,940 You realize that, right? 666 00:34:36,975 --> 00:34:39,409 [kylen] right. So, it doesn't mean I can't see my family. 667 00:34:40,012 --> 00:34:41,678 That I never get to see. 668 00:34:41,713 --> 00:34:43,380 And when I do, you ruin it. 669 00:34:44,550 --> 00:34:46,183 -[jason] right. -You do! 670 00:34:52,124 --> 00:34:55,258 That has nothing to do with growing up. At all. 671 00:34:56,295 --> 00:34:57,260 Not one bit. 672 00:34:58,263 --> 00:34:59,729 Everyone sees their parents. 673 00:35:01,033 --> 00:35:01,865 Whether it's... 674 00:35:02,935 --> 00:35:06,570 -Freaking five times a year, to-- -exactly. 675 00:35:06,605 --> 00:35:08,538 Yeah, but, in that five times a year, 676 00:35:08,574 --> 00:35:10,807 their time with them doesn't get ruined. 677 00:35:12,010 --> 00:35:13,376 [jason] all right, are you ready? 678 00:35:14,746 --> 00:35:16,713 I was supposed to leave 5 minutes ago. 679 00:35:19,451 --> 00:35:20,450 All right, we're going. 680 00:35:21,487 --> 00:35:23,420 [mike] mama, kylen. Mama, kylen. 681 00:35:26,792 --> 00:35:28,024 [marie speaking] 682 00:35:28,060 --> 00:35:29,259 -[kylen] no. -The bump? No? 683 00:35:31,029 --> 00:35:32,729 -Not moving? -[jason] good seeing you guys. 684 00:35:33,699 --> 00:35:34,564 [marie] nice seeing you. 685 00:35:35,367 --> 00:35:36,967 -Love you, kiddo. -I love you. 686 00:35:38,570 --> 00:35:42,506 I felt like kylen kinda really wanted to stay and visit with us. 687 00:35:43,709 --> 00:35:45,175 Didn't wanna leave... 688 00:35:45,878 --> 00:35:48,879 To go with their friends. 689 00:35:48,914 --> 00:35:52,616 I felt like her eyes were starting to water up like she was gonna cry. 690 00:35:55,254 --> 00:35:56,953 I see, I don't know. 691 00:35:56,989 --> 00:36:01,258 I'm starting... To me, I feel like I'm starting to see sadness in her face. 692 00:36:02,027 --> 00:36:03,927 And not the happiness that... 693 00:36:05,797 --> 00:36:06,496 Yeah. 694 00:36:13,338 --> 00:36:15,472 -Bye. -[heidi] bye, drive carefully. 695 00:36:17,576 --> 00:36:19,476 [marie] I want her to know that... 696 00:36:20,279 --> 00:36:21,144 She's always... 697 00:36:21,980 --> 00:36:22,879 Welcome home. 698 00:36:24,616 --> 00:36:26,416 She's not stuck. 699 00:36:27,286 --> 00:36:29,953 If she thinks she's stuck. 700 00:36:29,988 --> 00:36:34,090 Especially while she's, like, in an emotional state right now. 701 00:36:34,126 --> 00:36:37,060 Almost ready to have a baby. 702 00:36:37,095 --> 00:36:40,030 [mike] you know, I keep hoping that something will change. 703 00:36:41,433 --> 00:36:46,236 She's my baby girl, you know, I worry about her all the time. 704 00:36:47,406 --> 00:36:48,238 Mmm. 705 00:37:02,421 --> 00:37:03,386 [emersyn moaning in pain] 706 00:37:03,922 --> 00:37:04,888 [nurse speaking] 707 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:12,495 we were up all night because emersyn was in pain from the contractions. 708 00:37:12,531 --> 00:37:16,433 So when she finally got the epidural we were able to get some sleep. 709 00:37:16,468 --> 00:37:18,401 But when I woke up, that's when you were pushing. 710 00:37:21,306 --> 00:37:22,372 [nurse speaking] 711 00:37:32,551 --> 00:37:33,483 [emersyn screaming in pain] 712 00:37:37,723 --> 00:37:40,156 life tells you, when someone screams, it's usually not okay. 713 00:37:40,926 --> 00:37:42,626 You know? So I was just like... 714 00:37:43,228 --> 00:37:44,728 A little worried. 715 00:37:44,763 --> 00:37:48,398 I didn't think I would scream. But it actually helps to get the baby out. 716 00:37:49,101 --> 00:37:50,066 [emersyn screaming in pain] 717 00:37:52,738 --> 00:37:56,373 [emersyn] ow! It hurts so bad right now. 718 00:38:02,347 --> 00:38:03,747 [emersyn grunting] 719 00:38:03,782 --> 00:38:04,748 [emersyn screaming in pain] 720 00:38:10,756 --> 00:38:11,688 [baby crying] 721 00:38:13,292 --> 00:38:15,191 [mason] this is mateo. 722 00:38:15,227 --> 00:38:18,862 Emersyn pushed him out in a whopping 8 minutes. 723 00:38:18,897 --> 00:38:21,031 He is a beautiful, beautiful baby. 724 00:38:23,769 --> 00:38:27,237 This is mateo elias ramirez. 725 00:38:27,272 --> 00:38:29,239 He was 21 inches long. 726 00:38:29,274 --> 00:38:32,442 -And he weighed um... -7.5. 727 00:38:33,745 --> 00:38:34,844 7.8 pounds. 728 00:38:42,421 --> 00:38:45,689 [emersyn] it was very surreal holding mateo for the first time. 729 00:38:45,724 --> 00:38:47,357 Love was just like rushed in. 730 00:38:48,660 --> 00:38:49,959 I just felt a lot of love. 731 00:38:51,096 --> 00:38:53,930 I feel like I'm his everything and he's my everything. 732 00:38:53,965 --> 00:38:55,598 'cause, like, he needs me. 733 00:38:55,634 --> 00:38:58,802 -Now I just can't imagine life without him. -[mason] hi, baby. 734 00:38:59,404 --> 00:39:00,570 Hi, baby boy. 735 00:39:03,041 --> 00:39:07,577 Holding mateo for the first time was crazy to me. 736 00:39:07,612 --> 00:39:09,913 It was like, wow! You're mine. 737 00:39:09,948 --> 00:39:13,049 -You know? Not just mine, but. -Yeah, I was about to say. 738 00:39:13,085 --> 00:39:16,653 But, you know, like, you're mine. You came from me. 739 00:39:16,688 --> 00:39:19,589 You're not someone else's. You're not my mom or dad's. 740 00:39:19,624 --> 00:39:22,525 So it's just like, wow! 741 00:39:22,561 --> 00:39:25,628 That's how it was for me too. When he was just on me I was like, whoa! 742 00:39:25,664 --> 00:39:27,797 Hi, honey. I kept saying "hi" I think. 743 00:39:28,633 --> 00:39:30,700 Hi, little dude. 744 00:39:30,736 --> 00:39:34,104 But I didn't even cry. I thought I would cry, but, I was just happy. 745 00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:35,905 That it was over. 746 00:39:37,576 --> 00:39:38,908 My gosh! It was horrible. 747 00:39:41,713 --> 00:39:43,847 And it hurts, really bad. 748 00:39:46,618 --> 00:39:48,051 Pain's not over yet. 749 00:39:50,255 --> 00:39:51,788 But he's worth it. 750 00:39:51,823 --> 00:39:53,223 And he latched right on. 751 00:39:53,258 --> 00:39:54,924 And from then on, I was like, yeah. 752 00:39:56,461 --> 00:39:58,528 And I haven't changed since. 753 00:39:58,563 --> 00:40:00,697 She really did kick into mom mode. 754 00:40:00,732 --> 00:40:04,768 Because, like, I saw her take care of her younger brother and sister. 755 00:40:04,803 --> 00:40:09,072 And it's definitely different when she's taking care of her own baby. 756 00:40:09,107 --> 00:40:11,174 Compared to her mom's baby. 757 00:40:11,209 --> 00:40:14,577 I knew beforehand watching my siblings that I'd get a break. 758 00:40:14,613 --> 00:40:17,046 And they'd be with their mom soon. 759 00:40:17,082 --> 00:40:19,048 But with this one, I'm tied to him, so. 760 00:40:20,385 --> 00:40:22,051 -In a good way. -Yeah. 761 00:40:23,622 --> 00:40:25,688 [narrator] next time on unexpected. 762 00:40:25,724 --> 00:40:26,523 [moaning] 763 00:40:31,596 --> 00:40:34,964 our birth plan is to not use any medication. 764 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,000 But, I don't do well with pain. 765 00:40:37,035 --> 00:40:37,767 Ow! 766 00:40:40,071 --> 00:40:41,538 [emersyn] my mom has a lot of rules. 767 00:40:41,573 --> 00:40:43,406 Mason has to stay downstairs. 768 00:40:43,442 --> 00:40:45,208 And, like, can't sleep in the same bed. 769 00:40:45,243 --> 00:40:46,109 It's ridiculous. 770 00:40:47,813 --> 00:40:51,214 It's our house rules. If you actually break them there are consequences. 771 00:40:55,253 --> 00:40:56,019 Okay. 772 00:40:58,590 --> 00:41:03,359 With jenny and aden. It's not normal for that to be that toxic. 773 00:41:03,395 --> 00:41:05,995 -With such a young relationship. -Right. 774 00:41:06,031 --> 00:41:08,598 And if it keeps going down this road, christ, 775 00:41:08,633 --> 00:41:11,134 they're gonna be killing each other in a couple years. 776 00:41:15,607 --> 00:41:17,574 Today I go in for my c-section. 777 00:41:17,609 --> 00:41:19,943 But, because my iron is so low... 778 00:41:19,978 --> 00:41:22,178 I could potentially bleed out. 779 00:41:22,214 --> 00:41:23,646 So it's kinda scary.