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[woman] this season
on unexpected...
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[chuckling] no!
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[woman] get under
the neck a little bit.
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Oh, my!
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She said a man can lactate.
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Is that true?
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I just heard about it.
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[giggling] oh, yeah.
It's super easy, babe.
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I'm kylen, I'm 17 years old
and I'm pregnant.
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I'm jason. I'm 18 years old
and I'm the father.
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[laughing]
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it's crazy. We all have girls.
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-You see your sissy, ella?
-[woman] look at the baby. Aw.
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I'm tiarra,
I'm 18 and I'm pregnant again.
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[woman] it's taylor's turn.
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I'm taylor. I'm 20
and I'm also pregnant again.
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I'm tyra and I'm not pregnant
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and don't plan on getting
pregnant again.
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When was the last time
you had sex with him?
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How can you enjoy that knowing
he's been with that girl?
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[tyra] it's possible that alex
got another girl pregnant.
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I feel like if you
love someone,
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he wouldn't treat tyra
the way he does
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and he would be there
for layla.
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-How was the appointment?
-[emersyn on phone] good.
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She said...
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Okay! [laughs] I don't need to
be here for this conversation.
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[mason] okay.
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I'm emersyn. I'm 18 years old
and I'm pregnant.
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[erica] I didn't ever expect
to be pregnant at the same
time as my daughter,
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but here we are. [chuckles]
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jenna just
sent me a text saying,
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"hey, I don't think
we're gonna be able
to come out."
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-why can't you bring your ass
over to the house?
-Maybe I just don't want to.
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-We got approved.
-Approved for what?
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The apartment.
We're moving out!
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Ever since the move happened,
we've been fighting more.
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I'm not having
two beds in our room.
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What sense does that make?
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-We have our own!
-Because I get more sleep
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if I have aaliyah sleeping
in the room with me.
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I want to cancel
the whole move.
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You're a child.
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I don't see how I'm a child
for wanting to spend time
with my parents.
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[mocking] kylen
doesn't get to see
her parents. "wah!"
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I have huge concerns
about you going over there.
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At mason's house
there's no rules.
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Anything goes over there.
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[woman] if something
happens to her baby
it's your [bleep] fault!
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I'm very disappointed in tyra
for acting like this.
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[jenna] we're over
the honeymoon phase.
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We're on the way
to the hospital to...
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Have a baby!
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Do I look like
I'm about to have a baby?
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[whimpering] ow!
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[woman speaking]
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[jason speaking]
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[screaming]
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[emersyn] the pain's
so unbearable.
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Like, what's happening?
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[woman screaming]
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♪ you've got me spinning ♪
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♪ you've got me spinning
babe ♪
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you ready?
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-I don't know
how much I should put.
-Give me it.
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The volume's all the way up.
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[ultrasound whooshes]
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-you wanna try and find it?
-Yeah, let me find it.
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It sounds cool.
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I'm kylen, I'm 17 years old
and I'm 32 weeks pregnant.
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I'm jason, I'm 18 years old
and I'm the father.
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We've been dating
for almost a year.
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I first noticed him
on his friend's snapchat,
'cause I was friends with him.
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So I slid up and I asked
for his snapchat
for my friend.
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When in reality, I wanted it.
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[jason] I thought
she was very cute.
She was the party girl
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and I was, like,
more of a f-boy.
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An f-boy is a person
who goes from girl to girl,
or has multiple girls
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and just get as many
as you can.
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It's like a game, I guess.
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I probably did
hurt a couple of girls'
feelings, which...
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My bad, but kylen's beautiful.
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-I caught feelings
very fast for her.
-[laughs]
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we started having sex, like,
the second day we met
or the third.
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[laughing]
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[ultrasound whooshing]
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see if you can find
a stronger spot.
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Right there.
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-There it is.
-[heartbeat on ultrasound]
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147. [giggles]
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healthy baby.
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I wasn't, like,
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hoping to get pregnant
this soon,
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but I wasn't, like,
disappointed about it.
I was definitely excited
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when I found out
and, like,
very happy about it.
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[kylen] I was shocked.
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I just looked up
and I was, like...
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Wasn't planned, just...
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An oopsie.
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I have this sort of thing
where I don't like condoms
and I don't use them.
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Well, you put it on
and then took it off.
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[laughing]
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look what happened!
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[continues laughing]
oh, my god.
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Can't wait to meet him.
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[kylen] me neither.
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I'm excited.
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I'm nervous
at the same time, though.
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[jason] mmm-hmm.
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We found out the gender
about a month ago.
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We did a gender reveal
at my boathouse.
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We did the poppers.
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[woman] it's so exciting,
I'm shaking.
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Oh, there it goes,
there it goes, there it goes!
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Ready?
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[all cheering]
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[jason speaking]
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it was really cool
to find out.
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I almost cried
on the dock, but...
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Yeah.
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I'm gonna raise him
to be just like me.
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Which my parents want, too,
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'cause they want me
to deal with what they
had to deal with, but...
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-We got a cheese
and we got a pepperoni.
-[scott] nice.
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Thanks.
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-Thank you, girls.
-[heidi] welcome.
Don't drop it, jason.
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I'm heidi and I'm jason's mom.
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I'm scott, jason's dad.
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[heidi] we've had
some struggles with him
growing up.
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He was definitely
a hard kid. [chuckles]
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[scott] we had
lots of rules for jason.
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He broke every rule.
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School was a bit
of a struggle.
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He dropped out.
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He had a lot of buddies
and did a lot of fun stuff.
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Driving too fast.
He had his license
taken away.
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Oh, we tried, but...
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He broke those rules too.
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He's a stud. I don't know.
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[parents laughing]
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[heidi] do you feel like
you're ready?
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Ky?
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-Done being pregnant?
-Oh, yeah.
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-That, definitely.
-She hasn't quite got
the waddle yet, though.
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-No, I do it sometimes.
-[jason] she waddles.
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[laughs]
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we're happy to have kylen
in the house, absolutely.
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-Well, jason's our only child.
-[heidi] right, so...
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I definitely feel like kylen's
a daughter I never had, but...
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I found out she was pregnant
when jason hands me a card
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and I thought it was
a "just because" card.
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And when I opened it up,
it said, "grandma, you mean
so much to me."
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I had a few choice words
that probably
weren't very nice.
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[heidi and scott laugh]
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yeah, my reaction
when I found out,
I did swear a little bit.
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-She was, like,
"what the [bleep]?"
-[all laugh]
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[kylen] "I'm gonna be
a grandma?"
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you hadn't been together
that long so I was just
a little surprised.
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We just know as parents
what it's like
to raise children nowadays.
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-Right.
-It's not...
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-Not easy.
-Yeah.
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-But it doesn't mean
I'm not supportive.
-No.
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It's a lot of work,
lot of hard work,
a lot of commitment,
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but it's the decision
they made.
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That's what
they gotta live with.
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The fun's over.
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-"we did a" what?
-Home birth.
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[scott] so, what,
you do the birth?
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-Like...
-[kylen] no.
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-We have a doula.
-[scott] a doula?
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[heidi] right,
I was gonna say,
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do you have a doula
or something?
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We tried the hospital
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for the appointments
and stuff, but it felt like
they don't like
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involving unmarried men
or, like, teenage dads
and stuff like that
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'cause they don't think
they're gonna "stick,"
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or something like that,
I don't really know.
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So I felt like I was left out,
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so we're looking
at other birth options.
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[kylen] but I'm not
really sure
how I feel about it.
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Yeah.
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Well, make sure you
do your homework
and research.
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If that's what
you wanna do then.
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If we did the at-home birth,
though, it's $3,000.
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Oh.
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Putting in a little
overtime then, huh?
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Yeah, uh...
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Hey, need some help.
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Always willing
to help you out.
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You know that, jason.
I love you.
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But I'm not gonna
help you if you're not
gonna help yourself.
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-I do help myself.
-Okay.
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Am I just gonna finance
the whole thing? No.
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If he pitches in,
I'll pitch in too.
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I think scott and I
both feel that jason has
some growing up to do.
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He's not the most motivated.
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They think I sit on the couch
and play video games,
but I literally don't
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I literally wake up at 6:00
every day and I'm out of bed,
doing stuff.
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Jason, you're not up
when I get ready for work.
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[jason] not when
I don't have to be.
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If I don't have
to fricking wake up, you know
damn well I'm gonna sleep.
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[scott] everything in life
is not for free. Taxes.
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-Rent.
-Rent.
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Electricity, phone,
diapers and formula.
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There's so many teen parents
that literally get rich.
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Because when you start
at a younger age, it's way
easier to achieve your goal.
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-Make it happen.
-That would be great.
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-Get successful.
-Right.
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[jason] I got a plan.
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[scott] I hope you do.
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Actions speak louder
than words.
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Get ready, 'cause
for the rest of your life
you're gonna be paying.
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Yeah.
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They act like I do nothing,
think that [bleep]
pisses me off.
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-It does.
-[heidi] we didn't say
you didn't do anything.
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[jason] well, stop acting
like I need to get a job,
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when I've had a job.
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Well, that-- I'm sorry,
I'm touching you
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I don't like their
opinions on my life.
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'cause, it's my life and even
if it's the wrong thing,
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I'll figure it out my way.
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[scott] then figure it out.
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Because, all of a sudden,
boom, you're gonna have
a baby. Real soon.
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[heidi] any day now. Yes
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♪ ah-ah
it's like a firework ♪
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♪ ah-ah-ah
it's like a firework ♪
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[lilly] we got approved!
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-We got approved.
-[lawrence] what?
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-We got approved.
-[lawrence] approved for what?
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The apartment.
[screaming] we're moving out!
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-What?
-We're moving out!
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-Oh, boy!
-[lawrence] are you excited?
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Grandpa's having a party.
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-[lawrence] are you excited?
-Yes!
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[glenn laughs]
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I'm lilly
and I'm 20 years old.
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And I'm aaliyah. I'm three.
238
00:10:53,770 --> 00:10:55,987
And I'm lawrence.
I'm 20 years old.
239
00:10:56,073 --> 00:10:58,023
And this is lj,
seven months old.
240
00:10:59,026 --> 00:11:00,659
What is she ordering?
241
00:11:00,744 --> 00:11:03,828
-Six inflatable dual
water slide...
-[aaliyah] I'm...
242
00:11:03,914 --> 00:11:05,897
-Total $500?
What are you ordering?
-[laughs]
243
00:11:05,999 --> 00:11:07,999
[aaliyah speaking]
244
00:11:08,085 --> 00:11:09,901
you better be careful
'cause your card
245
00:11:10,003 --> 00:11:11,736
-is linked on that.
-[lilly] my card is linked up
to her ipad.
246
00:11:11,838 --> 00:11:15,924
I, as, like, a 14-
and 15-year-old girl,
247
00:11:16,026 --> 00:11:19,611
I pictured 20-year-old lilly
to be this girl
248
00:11:19,713 --> 00:11:22,380
that somehow was really rich,
but didn't have a job.
249
00:11:22,482 --> 00:11:25,483
Didn't answer to anybody
and had no responsibilities.
250
00:11:25,585 --> 00:11:29,337
Was like catching planes,
doing whatever I wanted.
When I wanted to do it.
251
00:11:29,456 --> 00:11:32,957
And now, boom, here I am,
20 years old with two kids...
252
00:11:33,060 --> 00:11:35,293
And a fiance.
253
00:11:35,379 --> 00:11:38,346
It was definitely not what
I pictured it to be...
254
00:11:38,432 --> 00:11:41,683
But I do love my life.
255
00:11:43,103 --> 00:11:45,854
Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes! Yes!
256
00:11:45,939 --> 00:11:48,239
Aaliyah has a very big
personality.
257
00:11:48,341 --> 00:11:51,526
She is very smart,
she talks a lot,
258
00:11:51,645 --> 00:11:53,361
she's very sassy.
259
00:11:53,463 --> 00:11:55,630
[lilly] we're gonna
brush our teeth
and go to bed.
260
00:11:55,716 --> 00:11:57,849
-No, mommy.
-[lilly] yes, sweetheart!
261
00:11:57,934 --> 00:11:59,451
No, mom.
262
00:11:59,553 --> 00:12:03,138
For me things were rough
when we first brought lj
home from the hospital.
263
00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:05,273
Can I hold him?
264
00:12:06,109 --> 00:12:09,327
I'm the big sis.
265
00:12:09,413 --> 00:12:12,197
[kim] mommy will help.
It's gonna be fine.
266
00:12:12,282 --> 00:12:16,084
-[lilly] it's gonna be fine.
-It's gonna be fine.
267
00:12:16,203 --> 00:12:20,171
You do gotta realize,
the baby was, what
three, four days old
268
00:12:20,273 --> 00:12:23,775
around that time.
I was protecting
my newborn baby.
269
00:12:23,877 --> 00:12:27,678
Once aaliyah had gotten like
used to being around lj,
270
00:12:27,781 --> 00:12:31,416
and they started interacting
and stuff more...
271
00:12:31,518 --> 00:12:34,886
Kind of like having a little,
you know what I mean,
brother-sister type thing.
272
00:12:37,274 --> 00:12:40,058
Not as protective,
I'm gonna say...
273
00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,127
As overprotective.
274
00:12:42,212 --> 00:12:45,163
Aaliyah kind of learned
boundaries.
275
00:12:45,265 --> 00:12:49,934
And she knows what to do
and what not to do
with the baby.
276
00:12:50,036 --> 00:12:54,873
Lj is starting to run around
in his walker.
277
00:12:54,941 --> 00:12:57,225
Go, lj! Go, lj!
278
00:12:57,327 --> 00:12:59,327
He's teething,
he's got two teeth already.
279
00:12:59,429 --> 00:13:01,379
But he's biting everything
280
00:13:01,481 --> 00:13:02,947
-[kim laughing]
-[aaliyah] ow.
281
00:13:03,049 --> 00:13:04,532
[lilly] you're getting spit
on your eyebrow.
282
00:13:04,651 --> 00:13:06,017
[lawrence]
life's been pretty good.
283
00:13:06,119 --> 00:13:10,354
I feel like we're a real
full family right now.
You know what I mean?
284
00:13:10,457 --> 00:13:12,440
When are we moving?
285
00:13:12,559 --> 00:13:13,691
[lilly] June 1st.
286
00:13:13,794 --> 00:13:16,227
-[kim] that's only
three weeks.
-[lilly] June 1st.
287
00:13:16,329 --> 00:13:17,862
-[kim] did you really
like the place?
-Yes!
288
00:13:17,948 --> 00:13:19,314
If we were to pass this up
289
00:13:19,399 --> 00:13:21,432
we probably wouldn't move out
of your house for another
two years.
290
00:13:21,535 --> 00:13:23,100
We've been searching
for months.
291
00:13:23,203 --> 00:13:26,621
[glenn] see, the good
lord's watching.
I'm gonna do the irish jig.
292
00:13:26,740 --> 00:13:29,724
[glenn humming happily]
293
00:13:29,826 --> 00:13:31,743
I'm kim, lilly's mom.
294
00:13:31,828 --> 00:13:33,578
I'm glenn, kim's husband.
295
00:13:33,663 --> 00:13:35,330
[kim] and we are
the grandparents.
296
00:13:35,432 --> 00:13:38,783
I help clean,
I help do so much
in the morning.
297
00:13:38,885 --> 00:13:41,119
When you're sleeping, I feed
her breakfast every day.
298
00:13:41,221 --> 00:13:43,438
I get up with her every
morning.
299
00:13:43,523 --> 00:13:45,824
Like, you're not gonna have
me to help you do that.
300
00:13:45,909 --> 00:13:47,942
-You're gonna
have to do it all, you.
-It's gonna be fine.
301
00:13:48,912 --> 00:13:51,362
I mean, I'm okay
with them leaving.
302
00:13:51,448 --> 00:13:53,615
I just wanted them to be
in a place that I felt was...
303
00:13:53,700 --> 00:13:55,867
-Which would never happen.
-...Gonna be better.
304
00:13:55,952 --> 00:13:56,918
It would never be
the perfect place.
305
00:13:57,037 --> 00:13:58,002
No.
306
00:13:58,088 --> 00:13:59,237
-Never gonna happen.
-Well, that's not true.
307
00:13:59,339 --> 00:14:02,674
She kept saying to me,
"home is better,
home is better."
308
00:14:02,759 --> 00:14:06,928
well, home is better
than this place,
that is far away. [laughs]
309
00:14:08,348 --> 00:14:09,764
-[kim] I worry.
-I know you worry,
310
00:14:09,883 --> 00:14:13,301
-but I gotta grow up and not
live with you sometime.
-[kim] I know.
311
00:14:13,386 --> 00:14:15,586
[lilly] can't live in mommy's
house forever.
312
00:14:15,689 --> 00:14:16,921
I agree.
You gotta have your own.
313
00:14:17,023 --> 00:14:19,023
I got two kids,
it's time for me
to fly the nest.
314
00:14:19,109 --> 00:14:19,924
I know!
315
00:14:20,026 --> 00:14:21,643
I just feel like
this is good for us.
316
00:14:21,728 --> 00:14:26,614
This is our time
to finally be on own
and build our family up.
317
00:14:26,733 --> 00:14:27,815
[kim] yeah.
318
00:14:27,901 --> 00:14:29,617
-And you know, it's just...
-[glenn] the future.
319
00:14:29,736 --> 00:14:31,119
-Yeah, yeah.
-[kim] the future yeah.
320
00:14:31,238 --> 00:14:32,987
[lilly] feels like a dream!
321
00:14:33,073 --> 00:14:35,123
We gotta go shopping tomorrow.
322
00:14:35,242 --> 00:14:37,942
-[kim] so, you need dishes?
-I need dishes,
I need silverware,
323
00:14:38,044 --> 00:14:39,160
-I need pots and pans...
-[kim] lawrence,
324
00:14:39,246 --> 00:14:40,495
you guys have
the money for all this?
325
00:14:40,580 --> 00:14:41,946
I need oven mitts.
We need two tvs.
326
00:14:42,048 --> 00:14:43,131
-Yeah.
-[kim] yeah?
327
00:14:43,250 --> 00:14:46,918
We need a kitchen table,
we need a mount for the tv.
328
00:14:47,003 --> 00:14:48,336
Those are expensive.
329
00:14:48,421 --> 00:14:49,837
[lawrence speaking]
330
00:14:51,341 --> 00:14:54,625
well, lilly and I
definitely need to put
together some type of budget,
331
00:14:54,728 --> 00:14:59,264
'cause I guess I had no idea
how much it realistically cost
to move into an apartment.
332
00:14:59,349 --> 00:15:01,015
It's like a shock, you know,
like, you're going from--
333
00:15:01,101 --> 00:15:02,350
imagine being 20 years old
334
00:15:02,435 --> 00:15:06,654
being expected to pay
[bleep] $2,400 in rent
in a month.
335
00:15:06,773 --> 00:15:08,656
Have extra bills on top
of that.
336
00:15:08,775 --> 00:15:11,242
You got your own [bleep]
to deal with. Like, it's hard.
337
00:15:11,328 --> 00:15:14,078
It's hard.
338
00:15:14,164 --> 00:15:17,315
So, does that mean
you guys are gonna wanna
get married now?
339
00:15:17,417 --> 00:15:19,584
Well, I think I'm not gonna
have to come home
340
00:15:19,669 --> 00:15:21,786
and live in your house
after my wedding.
341
00:15:21,888 --> 00:15:23,855
-Probably.
-[lawrence] yes.
342
00:15:23,940 --> 00:15:27,125
Last year, lawrence
and I got engaged.
343
00:15:27,694 --> 00:15:29,927
Oh, my god! No way.
344
00:15:30,030 --> 00:15:32,113
-Will you marry me?
-Oh, my god.
345
00:15:32,232 --> 00:15:33,448
Yes!
346
00:15:33,566 --> 00:15:37,535
No way. Which hand
does it even go on?
347
00:15:37,621 --> 00:15:40,538
I love you!
348
00:15:42,275 --> 00:15:47,328
Lawrence and I started talking
more seriously about getting
married this year.
349
00:15:47,414 --> 00:15:51,165
But we didn't wanna
get married in then just go
back to living with my mom.
350
00:15:51,251 --> 00:15:53,901
And weddings are expensive.
351
00:15:54,004 --> 00:15:56,254
I also don't wanna rush it.
352
00:15:56,339 --> 00:16:00,341
Like, we're not even
engaged a year yet.
353
00:16:00,427 --> 00:16:03,311
But now that we're getting
an apartment together,
354
00:16:03,430 --> 00:16:05,596
I feel like getting married
is the final step
355
00:16:05,682 --> 00:16:08,166
that we could take
in our relationship.
356
00:16:09,352 --> 00:16:12,770
[kim] aaliyah, what do you
think about moving out?
357
00:16:12,856 --> 00:16:15,773
Excited? We're not gonna
see gram a lot.
358
00:16:15,859 --> 00:16:18,910
-[aaliyah] why?
-Because she's gonna
be kind of far away.
359
00:16:20,780 --> 00:16:22,330
[lawrence] I am very grateful
for her family.
360
00:16:22,449 --> 00:16:24,666
I really appreciate
everyone's help.
361
00:16:24,784 --> 00:16:26,417
But I'm moving out.
362
00:16:26,519 --> 00:16:28,670
Just 'cause I simply
don't wanna live under
their roof anymore.
363
00:16:28,788 --> 00:16:29,871
I just feel like her mom...
364
00:16:32,959 --> 00:16:36,494
It'd be way better off
once we move.
365
00:16:36,596 --> 00:16:38,329
It's gonna be way better off.
366
00:16:38,431 --> 00:16:42,233
Hopefully. We'll see.
367
00:16:43,903 --> 00:16:46,904
[emersyn] what are we gonna
talk about with mason's dad?
368
00:16:46,990 --> 00:16:49,841
How much they wanna
be involved on their side.
369
00:16:49,943 --> 00:16:53,661
I wouldn't say
I'm eager to meet
mason's family.
370
00:16:53,780 --> 00:16:57,315
When she got pregnant,
I was very angry.
371
00:16:57,417 --> 00:16:58,783
-[ernie] are we going up?
-Yeah.
372
00:17:10,413 --> 00:17:13,347
[erica] abbie, what time do
you have to have to work?
373
00:17:13,450 --> 00:17:15,916
[abbie] at 2:00.
374
00:17:16,019 --> 00:17:17,918
-[erica] at 2:00?
-[abbie] mmm-hmm.
375
00:17:18,021 --> 00:17:20,321
[erica] liam, don't you have
a baseball game today?
376
00:17:21,658 --> 00:17:22,890
You're welcome.
377
00:17:22,992 --> 00:17:26,577
-[erica] do you need help,
emersyn?
-Yeah.
378
00:17:26,663 --> 00:17:28,796
I'm emersyn, I'm 18 years old
379
00:17:28,882 --> 00:17:30,732
and I'm 34 weeks pregnant.
380
00:17:30,834 --> 00:17:34,669
I'm erica, I'm 42 years old
and I'm emersyn's mom.
381
00:17:34,754 --> 00:17:36,888
When emersyn told me
she was pregnant,
382
00:17:37,006 --> 00:17:41,843
I was actually just entering
into my second trimester
of pregnancy myself.
383
00:17:41,945 --> 00:17:43,411
It felt a little overwhelming,
384
00:17:43,513 --> 00:17:46,214
I thought, "oh, my,
I didn't ever expect
to be pregnant,
385
00:17:46,316 --> 00:17:48,015
at the same time
as my daughter."
386
00:17:48,118 --> 00:17:50,852
especially because I really
didn't know if emersyn
had been having sex.
387
00:17:50,937 --> 00:17:52,320
I think I had an idea,
388
00:17:52,405 --> 00:17:56,023
but I didn't really know.
389
00:17:57,694 --> 00:18:00,394
What are we gonna talk
about with mason's dad?
390
00:18:00,497 --> 00:18:03,364
Well, you got a baby coming,
sweetheart, so...
391
00:18:03,450 --> 00:18:06,534
I really wanna get
to know ernie, just get on
the same page with,
392
00:18:06,619 --> 00:18:09,287
you know,
when mason can come here,
what his work schedule is,
393
00:18:09,372 --> 00:18:13,073
what his plans are
and how much
394
00:18:13,176 --> 00:18:16,961
they wanna be involved
on their side, afterwards.
395
00:18:17,046 --> 00:18:20,681
Is there a certain amount
of time he can sleep here
until he has to go home?
396
00:18:20,767 --> 00:18:22,550
Yeah, we're gonna talk
about it.
397
00:18:22,652 --> 00:18:27,772
Emersyn said she was
practicing safe sex
when she got pregnant.
398
00:18:27,857 --> 00:18:29,107
Do I believe her?
399
00:18:30,777 --> 00:18:32,493
I would like to believe her,
400
00:18:32,579 --> 00:18:34,562
but when you're
constantly lied to,
401
00:18:34,664 --> 00:18:37,031
it's hard to know
what the truth really is.
402
00:18:38,251 --> 00:18:39,133
Yeah.
403
00:18:40,036 --> 00:18:42,203
When I got pregnant,
404
00:18:42,305 --> 00:18:45,039
me and my mom did not have
a good relationship.
405
00:18:45,141 --> 00:18:47,925
And me and my stepdad,
sai, didn't have
a good relationship either.
406
00:18:50,013 --> 00:18:51,846
I was
a really rebellious child.
407
00:18:51,931 --> 00:18:53,815
[emersyn] oh, my god.
408
00:18:53,900 --> 00:18:56,400
I did not care
what the rules were.
409
00:18:57,620 --> 00:18:58,786
I would always...
410
00:18:58,888 --> 00:19:00,688
I wouldn't say always
sneak out, but,
411
00:19:01,724 --> 00:19:03,441
if I had the chance to,
I would.
412
00:19:05,061 --> 00:19:08,513
And eventually,
my stepdad, sai,
took my door off.
413
00:19:08,631 --> 00:19:10,164
I was very angry.
414
00:19:10,266 --> 00:19:11,632
[erica] we both were
at our wits' end.
415
00:19:11,734 --> 00:19:15,970
And I had learned
that she was smoking
marijuana in our house.
416
00:19:16,472 --> 00:19:18,022
Which is illegal.
417
00:19:19,642 --> 00:19:23,027
After that, we looked for
a military school for her,
418
00:19:23,146 --> 00:19:25,229
but then covid hit,
so she didn't end up going.
419
00:19:26,232 --> 00:19:27,615
-Um...
-Thank god.
420
00:19:27,700 --> 00:19:30,067
[laughs] she wasn't
looking forward to that
421
00:19:30,153 --> 00:19:33,287
and then this happened
and here we are. [chuckles]
422
00:19:35,491 --> 00:19:36,490
doing okay?
423
00:19:36,576 --> 00:19:37,625
[emersyn] does this one
look cooked enough?
424
00:19:37,710 --> 00:19:38,993
Yeah, that one looks good.
425
00:19:39,829 --> 00:19:42,563
I feel like we're...
426
00:19:42,665 --> 00:19:45,816
Closer than we were before.
427
00:19:45,919 --> 00:19:49,537
But I feel like
our relationship is
a complicated one.
428
00:19:52,025 --> 00:19:54,375
All right, so, bacon is going
to go from here into
429
00:19:54,460 --> 00:19:56,544
the microwave, 'cause I gotta
put the quiche in the oven.
430
00:19:57,513 --> 00:19:58,379
[emersyn] okay.
431
00:19:58,464 --> 00:19:59,847
I think this looks cooked.
432
00:20:04,621 --> 00:20:05,286
Ooh.
433
00:20:06,956 --> 00:20:10,007
I found out I was pregnant
when I was on
a camping trip with...
434
00:20:11,010 --> 00:20:11,692
Mason.
435
00:20:12,478 --> 00:20:14,228
We had a test already
436
00:20:14,931 --> 00:20:17,732
'cause I noticed earlier,
437
00:20:17,817 --> 00:20:19,650
in the camping trip,
that it was late.
438
00:20:20,987 --> 00:20:22,486
And then,
439
00:20:22,605 --> 00:20:25,973
I realized again, "oh,
my period still hasn't come,
let me take the test."
440
00:20:26,075 --> 00:20:28,109
and I go to the bathroom
and take it,
441
00:20:28,194 --> 00:20:30,111
and my mouth was just like...
442
00:20:30,196 --> 00:20:32,146
I was so speechless.
443
00:20:32,248 --> 00:20:35,866
I just started crying
'cause I had
to tell my parents.
444
00:20:35,952 --> 00:20:38,219
I thought my mom was gonna...
445
00:20:38,321 --> 00:20:41,589
So, you were more scared
to tell me than to actually
have a baby?
446
00:20:41,674 --> 00:20:42,540
-Yep.
-[erica] wow.
447
00:20:42,625 --> 00:20:44,292
Mmm-hmm.
448
00:20:44,377 --> 00:20:46,377
I thought she got pregnant
on the camping trip.
449
00:20:46,462 --> 00:20:48,679
-So, I didn't know that...
-[both laugh]
450
00:20:50,099 --> 00:20:52,133
which is funny
'cause you told me,
"make good choices."
451
00:20:52,218 --> 00:20:53,134
and then I come back...
452
00:20:57,473 --> 00:20:59,807
[erica] okay, so, what time
is mason coming?
453
00:20:59,892 --> 00:21:00,942
-Is he on his way?
-[emersyn] mmm.
454
00:21:01,027 --> 00:21:03,177
Yeah, he should be here
any minute.
455
00:21:03,279 --> 00:21:06,397
Okay, so, we still gotta
get the fruit on the table,
456
00:21:06,499 --> 00:21:09,083
we need to get
some napkins out
457
00:21:09,185 --> 00:21:10,968
the quiche in the oven...
458
00:21:11,087 --> 00:21:14,255
Me and mason
have been together
a little over 11 months.
459
00:21:14,357 --> 00:21:17,591
And, today, like,
was actually the first time
460
00:21:17,694 --> 00:21:21,095
my mom has invited mason
and his dad into our house.
461
00:21:21,197 --> 00:21:24,398
I'm mason, I'm 17 years old
and I'm the father.
462
00:21:24,500 --> 00:21:25,599
[emersyn] we met online.
463
00:21:25,702 --> 00:21:27,001
[mason] yeah, we met
through social media.
464
00:21:27,754 --> 00:21:28,970
He was, like, my guitar guy.
465
00:21:29,055 --> 00:21:30,221
Like, my guitar buddy,
466
00:21:30,340 --> 00:21:34,058
'cause I like people
that have the same
interests as me.
467
00:21:34,177 --> 00:21:35,676
She was...
468
00:21:35,762 --> 00:21:37,845
-Cute girl that played guitar.
-Mmm, "cute girl."
469
00:21:39,399 --> 00:21:41,916
but he lives an hour away.
470
00:21:42,018 --> 00:21:44,852
Because of the distance
and covid going on,
471
00:21:44,937 --> 00:21:48,555
we're basically forced to just
keep the relationship online,
472
00:21:48,658 --> 00:21:50,324
for, like, what, five months?
473
00:21:50,410 --> 00:21:52,093
-Yeah.
-Yeah.
474
00:21:52,195 --> 00:21:53,694
I'd be, like, "mom,
can I just go to his house
475
00:21:53,780 --> 00:21:55,162
and meet him?"
she's, like, "no,
476
00:21:55,999 --> 00:21:56,914
he'd kidnap you."
477
00:21:57,033 --> 00:21:58,249
-I'm like, "okay."
-[laughs]
478
00:21:58,368 --> 00:22:00,034
she did some type
of background check on him,
479
00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,620
to make sure he wasn't, like,
a pedophile or anything.
480
00:22:02,705 --> 00:22:03,671
I don't know if you know that.
481
00:22:03,756 --> 00:22:05,572
-No, did not know that.
[laughs]
-um...
482
00:22:05,675 --> 00:22:08,509
Yeah, my mom watches a lot
of murder documentaries.
483
00:22:08,594 --> 00:22:10,344
She's got a good idea
of what's out there.
484
00:22:12,265 --> 00:22:14,181
Yeah, I'm not a murderer,
though, so...
485
00:22:15,218 --> 00:22:16,550
-Thank god.
-Yeah.
486
00:22:24,394 --> 00:22:28,195
[erica] I wouldn't say
I'm eager to meet
mason's family.
487
00:22:28,281 --> 00:22:31,949
When I found out
she was pregnant,
I was definitely not happy
488
00:22:32,068 --> 00:22:33,200
with mason and his family.
489
00:22:33,286 --> 00:22:36,404
Honestly, because
when she got pregnant,
490
00:22:37,740 --> 00:22:39,957
my first thought
was to blame them
491
00:22:40,076 --> 00:22:42,743
because I felt like I trusted
them when I was dropping
492
00:22:42,829 --> 00:22:44,495
or letting my daughter
go to their house.
493
00:22:45,081 --> 00:22:46,380
And then this happened.
494
00:22:46,466 --> 00:22:48,382
So, I was just very angry.
495
00:22:48,468 --> 00:22:50,518
And I never said anything
to mason and his dad,
496
00:22:50,620 --> 00:22:52,336
but I just wanted nothing
to do with them whatsoever.
497
00:22:52,422 --> 00:22:53,921
I never wanted my daughter
back there.
498
00:22:54,307 --> 00:22:55,456
I was...
499
00:22:55,558 --> 00:22:57,224
-I didn't know that.
-Very angry.
500
00:22:57,643 --> 00:22:58,309
Wow.
501
00:23:12,008 --> 00:23:13,040
[mason] I'm really nervous.
502
00:23:19,499 --> 00:23:21,115
When me and mason went
on our first,
503
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,334
like, date when we first
met each other,
504
00:23:23,453 --> 00:23:28,355
my mom dropped me off and
she just, like, briefly
talked to ernie.
505
00:23:28,458 --> 00:23:33,494
And when I got pregnant,
I knew she was very angry.
506
00:23:33,596 --> 00:23:37,431
So, I don't know what
she thinks about him,
you know?
507
00:23:37,533 --> 00:23:39,950
But I think it would be
a good idea to find out.
508
00:23:43,139 --> 00:23:44,672
It was, like, 3:00
in the morning
509
00:23:44,774 --> 00:23:47,158
and his phone was, like,
blowing up like crazy.
510
00:23:47,243 --> 00:23:50,211
I'm not really sure, like,
when alex and this girl
started talking.
511
00:23:50,296 --> 00:23:53,780
He didn't really
tell me until, like,
after I found out.
512
00:23:53,883 --> 00:23:57,468
She called me,
telling me all this
different stuff.
513
00:23:57,587 --> 00:23:59,053
Supposedly, like,
she's pregnant.
514
00:24:06,479 --> 00:24:08,946
♪ uh-huh, uh-huh, oh ♪
515
00:24:11,451 --> 00:24:13,250
♪ uh-huh, uh-huh, oh ♪
516
00:24:17,423 --> 00:24:18,589
-what?
-[layla babbles]
517
00:24:18,674 --> 00:24:20,925
why don't you just drink
out of the juicy box.
518
00:24:26,315 --> 00:24:27,982
You don't wanna drink
out of the straw
like a big girl?
519
00:24:30,186 --> 00:24:31,902
I'm tyra, I'm 20 years old
520
00:24:32,004 --> 00:24:34,905
and I have a two-year-old
daughter named layla.
521
00:24:34,991 --> 00:24:37,892
She's the most perfect
little angel in the world.
522
00:24:38,010 --> 00:24:39,076
Sometimes.
523
00:24:39,162 --> 00:24:41,045
[shouts]
524
00:24:41,147 --> 00:24:43,614
[tyra] why are you being
so mean today?
That's not nice.
525
00:24:43,716 --> 00:24:46,233
She's in the terrible
twos right now.
526
00:24:46,319 --> 00:24:47,284
Literally.
527
00:24:47,370 --> 00:24:48,068
[crying]
528
00:24:48,171 --> 00:24:49,253
[tyra] get in there.
529
00:24:49,338 --> 00:24:50,337
No!
530
00:24:50,456 --> 00:24:51,539
[tyra] do you want your phone
and your shows?
531
00:24:51,624 --> 00:24:53,624
[layla screaming] no!
532
00:24:53,726 --> 00:24:58,495
She likes to tear up
everything in my house,
she's messy...
533
00:24:58,581 --> 00:24:59,914
[tyra] and mommy
just cleaned it.
534
00:24:59,999 --> 00:25:02,199
[layla babbles]
535
00:25:02,301 --> 00:25:04,134
sometimes lately,
it's been bad.
536
00:25:04,237 --> 00:25:06,187
I'm like, "I'm gonna call you
a new mommy."
537
00:25:06,272 --> 00:25:11,025
she's like, "no!
No, you're my mommy.
I don't want a new mommy!"
538
00:25:11,110 --> 00:25:14,111
and I'm like, "good.
Keep it like that.
Keep it like that."
539
00:25:15,164 --> 00:25:18,499
-do you love me?
-[layla chuckling]
540
00:25:18,618 --> 00:25:19,583
how much?
541
00:25:19,669 --> 00:25:20,918
Show me how much you love me.
542
00:25:21,003 --> 00:25:22,503
[layla speaking]
543
00:25:22,622 --> 00:25:24,154
two dollars' worth?
That's all I get?
544
00:25:24,257 --> 00:25:25,155
[layla] uh-huh.
545
00:25:25,258 --> 00:25:28,292
I love you a billion
ka-trillion dollars.
546
00:25:28,377 --> 00:25:30,961
Me and layla are definitely,
like, so close.
547
00:25:31,047 --> 00:25:33,514
And it's just like,
when she's with me,
548
00:25:33,633 --> 00:25:35,766
every single day
that she has been
549
00:25:35,851 --> 00:25:39,270
in comparison of, like,
last year when I was leaving
layla with alex
550
00:25:39,355 --> 00:25:43,006
and alex's grandmother,
going to college
two hours away.
551
00:25:43,109 --> 00:25:45,859
I was still coming back
as much as I could,
552
00:25:45,978 --> 00:25:49,280
but leaving her
even for one day
was so not fun for me.
553
00:25:49,382 --> 00:25:50,781
[alex] layla, say bye-bye
to momma?
554
00:25:50,883 --> 00:25:51,882
[babbles]
555
00:25:51,968 --> 00:25:54,335
my college is about
two-and-a-half hours away.
556
00:25:54,437 --> 00:25:55,719
[alex] where are you at?
557
00:25:55,805 --> 00:25:57,388
Are you about here, tyra?
558
00:25:57,473 --> 00:25:59,223
[tyra on phone]
559
00:26:01,561 --> 00:26:02,560
[alex] well, that sucks.
560
00:26:03,696 --> 00:26:06,981
[tyra] layla, hi!
561
00:26:07,066 --> 00:26:10,818
[alex] it's been almost
a month since we've seen
each other and, like,
562
00:26:10,903 --> 00:26:14,572
the distance is causing
a strain on our relationship
and it kinda sucks.
563
00:26:16,509 --> 00:26:19,643
[tyra] so, last year,
I transferred
to a closer school.
564
00:26:19,729 --> 00:26:25,566
And about seven months ago,
alex and I got our
own house with layla.
565
00:26:25,651 --> 00:26:27,517
Here, baby. Here,
go take this to the trash.
566
00:26:27,620 --> 00:26:30,187
-Um...
-Go take this to the trash.
567
00:26:30,289 --> 00:26:31,355
[babbles]
568
00:26:31,457 --> 00:26:33,374
and pick up your straw
that you threw on the floor.
569
00:26:33,876 --> 00:26:34,541
Please and thanks.
570
00:26:35,244 --> 00:26:36,193
[layla babbles]
571
00:26:36,295 --> 00:26:38,829
when me and alex first
moved in together,
572
00:26:38,914 --> 00:26:41,415
things were good between us.
573
00:26:41,500 --> 00:26:45,919
And then, a couple
of months ago, things started,
like, changing.
574
00:26:50,926 --> 00:26:52,543
[layla speaking]
575
00:26:57,149 --> 00:26:58,983
oh, hi, layla!
576
00:27:00,186 --> 00:27:03,070
I'm melissa and
I'm 40 years old
and I'm tyra's mom.
577
00:27:04,573 --> 00:27:06,957
It was hard to raise
my kids young.
578
00:27:07,059 --> 00:27:11,562
But I feel like it gave us
a stronger bond
579
00:27:11,647 --> 00:27:14,348
and when she needs me,
she's gonna call me,
I'm gonna be there.
580
00:27:14,433 --> 00:27:16,767
-And when I need her,
which is never...
-[laughs]
581
00:27:16,852 --> 00:27:18,602
I call her and
she doesn't come.
582
00:27:18,688 --> 00:27:21,271
-So...
-Shut up! No!
583
00:27:21,357 --> 00:27:24,942
-You're a l-- that's so rude.
-[chuckles]
584
00:27:25,027 --> 00:27:28,912
[tyra] so, yesterday, me
and alex, we just kinda had
a heart-to-heart about...
585
00:27:30,282 --> 00:27:33,117
Our relationship.
It's very obvious
586
00:27:33,202 --> 00:27:37,371
that we're both upset with how
things are going right now.
587
00:27:38,958 --> 00:27:41,992
When we moved, it was just,
like, we were so...
588
00:27:42,094 --> 00:27:45,512
Happy to finally like get
on our feet together,
we get a house,
589
00:27:45,631 --> 00:27:48,882
we pay our bills on time,
alex has a job.
590
00:27:49,468 --> 00:27:50,801
And then...
591
00:27:52,304 --> 00:27:56,290
I don't know,
it just recently started,
like, going backwards,
592
00:27:56,392 --> 00:27:58,025
like, two months ago,
593
00:27:58,144 --> 00:27:59,860
when he told me he was
seeing someone else.
594
00:28:00,896 --> 00:28:03,897
I was, like,
you don't understand
how bad it hurts
595
00:28:03,983 --> 00:28:07,317
when I'm not doing anything
to him, like, I'm not talking
to other guys.
596
00:28:07,403 --> 00:28:11,488
I'm still being faithful
to him, when he has
a whole other girlfriend.
597
00:28:11,574 --> 00:28:14,375
I'm not really sure
the actual,
598
00:28:14,493 --> 00:28:17,694
like, timeline of when alex
and this girl started talking.
599
00:28:17,797 --> 00:28:20,881
He didn't really
tell me until after
I had found out.
600
00:28:21,667 --> 00:28:24,301
He was just like, "I kinda
just wanna do my own thing."
601
00:28:24,387 --> 00:28:25,753
I was, like, "all right."
602
00:28:25,838 --> 00:28:27,888
he should have told me
that before we got
a house together.
603
00:28:29,759 --> 00:28:33,143
And supposedly he had been
telling me for a while, but...
604
00:28:33,229 --> 00:28:35,045
We were sleeping in
the same bed
every single night.
605
00:28:35,147 --> 00:28:36,480
So how did you--
606
00:28:36,565 --> 00:28:39,483
when did you let me know
that you wanted to start
seeing other people?
607
00:28:41,353 --> 00:28:43,386
So, I noticed, like,
608
00:28:43,489 --> 00:28:44,988
it was 3:00 in the morning
609
00:28:45,074 --> 00:28:47,858
and his phone
was blowing up
like crazy.
610
00:28:47,943 --> 00:28:50,360
I guess, like,
she was calling him
or whatever.
611
00:28:51,447 --> 00:28:53,063
And then, he ended up leaving.
612
00:28:53,666 --> 00:28:55,949
And then she called me.
613
00:28:56,035 --> 00:28:57,618
She was, like,
614
00:28:57,703 --> 00:29:01,288
"I know alex was with you,
I know y'all didn't
do anything." and I was, like,
615
00:29:01,373 --> 00:29:04,541
"girl, if you still
believe him, you're stupid."
616
00:29:04,627 --> 00:29:06,627
when was the last time
you had sex with him?
617
00:29:08,097 --> 00:29:09,579
[melissa] tyra.
618
00:29:09,682 --> 00:29:11,248
You nasty ass!
619
00:29:11,350 --> 00:29:15,469
How can you look at him
and enjoy that knowing that
he's been with that girl?
620
00:29:18,274 --> 00:29:19,440
[bleep]
621
00:29:21,444 --> 00:29:22,425
I don't care.
622
00:29:22,528 --> 00:29:24,528
I mean, she was sleeping
with him while...
623
00:29:26,398 --> 00:29:27,815
We were together, so...
624
00:29:28,968 --> 00:29:30,567
I mean, I can't tell alex no,
625
00:29:30,936 --> 00:29:32,035
ever.
626
00:29:32,138 --> 00:29:34,288
And alex can't tell
me no either, so...
627
00:29:34,406 --> 00:29:36,439
Just part of the relationship,
I guess.
628
00:29:36,542 --> 00:29:38,959
That's y'all's bond,
can't tell each other no.
629
00:29:39,078 --> 00:29:41,545
But you need to learn
the [bleep] word, n-o.
630
00:29:43,165 --> 00:29:45,499
Supposedly, like,
she's pregnant.
631
00:29:45,584 --> 00:29:47,251
And I was, like, if alex is--
632
00:29:47,336 --> 00:29:51,121
supposedly, alex is supposed
to be moving down there
with her, like, next week.
633
00:29:51,223 --> 00:29:53,257
He's supposed
to be moving down there.
634
00:29:53,342 --> 00:29:55,458
If he wants to be with her,
he needs to go be with her.
635
00:29:55,561 --> 00:29:57,961
And leave you alone
and let you get on
with your life.
636
00:29:58,063 --> 00:30:00,063
You need to focus
on your school,
637
00:30:00,149 --> 00:30:01,598
your cheer, and like what--
638
00:30:03,402 --> 00:30:06,520
I know I look stupid for
going back to someone
639
00:30:06,605 --> 00:30:08,939
that has done me
so wrong, so many times.
640
00:30:10,075 --> 00:30:11,275
It's, like,
what do you expect?
641
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:12,776
They're, like...
642
00:30:12,862 --> 00:30:14,978
They've showed you,
and they've showed you
and they've showed you.
643
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,915
It's like, what do you expect
this time that's going
to change?
644
00:30:18,017 --> 00:30:20,751
But if this girl isn't lying
645
00:30:20,853 --> 00:30:23,987
and if she is
actually pregnant.
646
00:30:24,089 --> 00:30:27,257
That would honestly
be my breaking point
where I would never
647
00:30:27,343 --> 00:30:29,710
be with alex ever again
in my life,
648
00:30:29,795 --> 00:30:31,461
is him having a kid
with someone else.
649
00:30:35,217 --> 00:30:38,385
Will emersyn be able to, like,
come over often?
650
00:30:38,470 --> 00:30:40,270
I have hesitations,
651
00:30:40,356 --> 00:30:42,806
definitely, about her
taking the baby over there.
652
00:30:43,559 --> 00:30:44,975
'cause I don't trust them.
653
00:30:48,731 --> 00:30:50,230
♪ please don't turn it down
'cause I like it loud ♪
654
00:30:50,349 --> 00:30:53,183
♪ please don't turn it down
'cause I like it loud ♪
655
00:30:53,285 --> 00:30:56,720
♪ please don't turn it down
'cause I like it loud ♪
656
00:30:56,822 --> 00:30:59,423
♪ please don't turn it down
'cause I like it loud ♪
657
00:31:01,327 --> 00:31:02,059
[mason] all righty.
658
00:31:03,128 --> 00:31:03,994
And we're here.
659
00:31:06,098 --> 00:31:07,231
[erica] okay.
660
00:31:07,333 --> 00:31:09,933
Okay, mason's here,
so we need
to greet our guests.
661
00:31:10,035 --> 00:31:12,002
I'm mason, I'm 17 years old
662
00:31:12,104 --> 00:31:14,021
and my girlfriend, emersyn,
is pregnant.
663
00:31:14,773 --> 00:31:16,323
I'm ernie, I'm 61 years old,
664
00:31:16,442 --> 00:31:19,743
and my 17-year-old son, mason,
is going to be a father.
665
00:31:21,330 --> 00:31:23,163
[mason] door's open,
but I assume we knock.
666
00:31:24,450 --> 00:31:27,167
Emmy's mom invited us
over for brunch.
667
00:31:27,286 --> 00:31:30,854
But I'm kinda nervous 'cause
I don't know how she feels
about me.
668
00:31:30,956 --> 00:31:34,124
I know she's not happy that
I got her daughter pregnant.
669
00:31:34,210 --> 00:31:35,626
So, this could be
kinda awkward.
670
00:31:36,128 --> 00:31:37,044
[ernie] yeah.
671
00:31:37,129 --> 00:31:38,095
Very awkward.
672
00:31:39,765 --> 00:31:40,681
Come on, in.
673
00:31:42,301 --> 00:31:43,634
Welcome.
674
00:31:43,936 --> 00:31:45,435
Mason.
675
00:31:45,521 --> 00:31:46,703
When I found out
she was pregnant.
676
00:31:46,805 --> 00:31:48,839
I thought maybe mason,
677
00:31:48,941 --> 00:31:50,908
you know, wanted emersyn
to get pregnant,
678
00:31:50,976 --> 00:31:53,143
so that they would
stay together.
679
00:31:53,612 --> 00:31:55,145
[scoffs] no.
680
00:31:56,148 --> 00:31:59,066
Either way, I was
definitely not happy
681
00:31:59,151 --> 00:32:01,201
with mason and his family.
[chuckles]
682
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:06,456
I felt like she had
her future stolen
from her, in a way.
683
00:32:06,542 --> 00:32:09,359
I felt betrayed, lied to.
684
00:32:09,461 --> 00:32:11,028
It was hard,
it was really hard.
685
00:32:12,464 --> 00:32:14,698
-[emersyn] mmm, I missed you.
-[mason] missed you too.
686
00:32:16,402 --> 00:32:17,334
How was your ride?
687
00:32:17,419 --> 00:32:20,837
Not as long as
I expected it to be.
688
00:32:21,507 --> 00:32:23,807
Mason lives an hour away.
689
00:32:23,909 --> 00:32:27,377
So, it would take planning
690
00:32:27,479 --> 00:32:30,514
-for us to see each other
and hang out.
-Yeah.
691
00:32:30,599 --> 00:32:33,684
On our first date,
both families went to the zoo.
692
00:32:33,769 --> 00:32:37,921
And then, we hung out
a couple days later
at mason's house.
693
00:32:38,023 --> 00:32:39,356
We had sex in his room.
694
00:32:39,441 --> 00:32:41,458
[laughs] that's what happened.
695
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:44,528
His dad wasn't as strict
as my parents.
696
00:32:44,613 --> 00:32:47,948
'cause, at my house,
we couldn't go in my room.
697
00:32:48,033 --> 00:32:50,000
Because that basically
leads to sex.
698
00:32:50,085 --> 00:32:52,452
And then that leads to mateo.
699
00:32:52,538 --> 00:32:53,203
Yeah.
700
00:32:54,873 --> 00:32:55,539
Yep.
701
00:32:57,459 --> 00:32:59,509
Ernie, I'm sure you remember
what it's like having toys
702
00:32:59,595 --> 00:33:02,045
-all over the place.
-[ernie] oh, yep, I still do.
703
00:33:02,931 --> 00:33:04,798
-In my defense...
-[laughs]
704
00:33:04,883 --> 00:33:07,768
'cause I'm assuming
it happened at my place.
705
00:33:08,887 --> 00:33:10,220
I go to sleep at night.
706
00:33:12,057 --> 00:33:14,891
When my eyes are closed
and I'm in rem state,
707
00:33:14,977 --> 00:33:17,227
I have no idea
what's going on around me.
708
00:33:17,313 --> 00:33:19,479
Unless fire alarms go off.
709
00:33:19,565 --> 00:33:21,531
But there was
no fire alarms for this.
710
00:33:22,284 --> 00:33:22,949
So...
711
00:33:24,236 --> 00:33:25,402
Yep.
712
00:33:25,487 --> 00:33:28,705
I'm sure there was
some sneaking around
going on, so...
713
00:33:30,159 --> 00:33:31,992
It's not his fault, he--
[stammers]
714
00:33:33,245 --> 00:33:35,495
-yeah, it isn't my fault
I didn't do anything.
-[laughs]
715
00:33:37,249 --> 00:33:39,833
[erica] big changes coming up.
New baby.
716
00:33:39,918 --> 00:33:42,636
-Emersyn is telling me
that your mom's coming home.
-[ernie] yeah.
717
00:33:42,755 --> 00:33:45,972
[erica] I'm sure everybody's
excited about that.
718
00:33:46,091 --> 00:33:48,759
-[mason] yeah,
for the most part.
-Yes.
719
00:33:48,844 --> 00:33:50,811
-Well, I'm sure she's excited
to be a grandma.
-[ernie] yeah.
720
00:33:50,929 --> 00:33:52,729
Yeah, yeah,
she's very excited.
721
00:33:53,182 --> 00:33:54,731
Good.
722
00:33:54,817 --> 00:33:57,567
For the past three-ish years,
my mom's been kind of
in and out of my life.
723
00:33:57,653 --> 00:33:59,436
My mom had cancer.
724
00:33:59,538 --> 00:34:01,471
And she had surgery.
725
00:34:01,573 --> 00:34:04,374
And she became addicted
to fentanyl.
726
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:06,976
It would kinda mess
with her mind.
727
00:34:07,079 --> 00:34:09,980
Like, she would think
there was things there
that weren't.
728
00:34:10,082 --> 00:34:14,151
She went to jail
the first time
on my 15th birthday.
729
00:34:14,236 --> 00:34:18,055
And then she was
in another jail
for a few years.
730
00:34:18,157 --> 00:34:22,793
At first, my mom
not being around,
it made me a little sad.
731
00:34:23,662 --> 00:34:25,912
But I still talk to her
732
00:34:25,998 --> 00:34:28,331
and she's clean
and she's trying
to stay clean.
733
00:34:28,417 --> 00:34:31,034
So, I really hope
she doesn't relapse,
734
00:34:31,136 --> 00:34:32,202
but you never know.
735
00:34:34,656 --> 00:34:36,139
You guys ready to eat?
736
00:34:36,241 --> 00:34:37,574
-[girl] yeah.
-You wanna come eat?
737
00:34:39,678 --> 00:34:40,677
[family member]
let's go eat, baby.
738
00:34:41,513 --> 00:34:42,512
[erica] eat up.
739
00:34:42,598 --> 00:34:43,580
We're gonna be family.
740
00:34:44,283 --> 00:34:45,515
Gotta get comfortable.
741
00:34:45,617 --> 00:34:46,283
[people chuckle]
742
00:34:47,302 --> 00:34:50,620
I'm just getting to know
mason and his family.
743
00:34:50,722 --> 00:34:52,305
I've actually never met
mason's mother.
744
00:34:52,391 --> 00:34:57,394
I don't know her background,
I don't know
her belief system.
745
00:34:57,496 --> 00:34:59,996
And I hope to get to know her
so I can feel comfortable.
746
00:35:01,233 --> 00:35:03,099
But I've always
been uncomfortable
747
00:35:03,202 --> 00:35:06,820
with my kids going
to other people's homes
until I know them.
748
00:35:06,905 --> 00:35:09,656
But it is what it is.
749
00:35:12,411 --> 00:35:14,411
So, I just was kinda
hoping that,
750
00:35:14,496 --> 00:35:17,113
getting together,
we could just all be
on the same page.
751
00:35:17,216 --> 00:35:20,750
What questions do you have
that I can answer?
752
00:35:20,836 --> 00:35:23,854
Will emersyn be able to, like,
come over often?
753
00:35:26,225 --> 00:35:29,425
Because I have family there
that wants to see you.
754
00:35:29,528 --> 00:35:31,695
-First one. Yeah.
-Yeah, it's the first
grandbaby.
755
00:35:35,701 --> 00:35:37,400
-You're working from home,
right?
-[ernie] mmm-hmm.
756
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:39,903
Probably just another--
757
00:35:39,988 --> 00:35:43,490
the rest of this month
and they're planning on
going back next month.
758
00:35:45,661 --> 00:35:47,443
I have hesitations,
759
00:35:47,546 --> 00:35:50,113
definitely, about her taking
the baby over there.
760
00:35:50,215 --> 00:35:53,133
'cause I don't know
what kind of environment,
761
00:35:53,252 --> 00:35:57,337
I mean, the baby would be
in with them.
762
00:35:57,422 --> 00:36:00,507
But, also, I'm kinda
concerned that...
763
00:36:01,393 --> 00:36:02,142
[chuckles nervously]
764
00:36:02,261 --> 00:36:03,977
that she'll get
pregnant again.
765
00:36:04,096 --> 00:36:05,795
That's a concern of mine.
766
00:36:05,898 --> 00:36:06,897
That's not gonna happen.
767
00:36:07,733 --> 00:36:09,983
Well, I just don't trust them.
768
00:36:13,105 --> 00:36:13,803
Oh, my god.
769
00:36:13,906 --> 00:36:15,856
Oh, she did it herself.
770
00:36:15,958 --> 00:36:17,991
I don't wanna do home birth,
771
00:36:18,110 --> 00:36:19,359
but if he doesn't get his way,
772
00:36:19,444 --> 00:36:20,694
he gets pissed off.
773
00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:30,270
[jason] you guys want
to watch this video with us?
774
00:36:31,590 --> 00:36:32,856
[heidi] I'll sit next
to you, ky.
775
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:35,792
Oh, jeez.
776
00:36:35,878 --> 00:36:38,194
[kylen] uh...
[chuckling nervously]
777
00:36:38,297 --> 00:36:40,163
I don't know if I want
to watch this.
778
00:36:43,001 --> 00:36:43,884
[heidi] don't be scared.
779
00:36:44,336 --> 00:36:45,252
[all laughing]
780
00:36:47,005 --> 00:36:49,673
[jason] yeah, this is
just like how an at-home
birth would be.
781
00:36:49,758 --> 00:36:51,074
[kylen] yeah,
it's kinda like...
782
00:36:51,176 --> 00:36:52,509
[jason] so we get one
of those pools.
783
00:36:53,612 --> 00:36:54,694
[kylen] yeah.
784
00:36:54,780 --> 00:36:56,997
My dad told me to research
about home births.
785
00:36:57,115 --> 00:36:59,666
But we think it's dumb
because we already
know what it's about.
786
00:36:59,785 --> 00:37:01,451
And that's what we wanna do.
787
00:37:08,877 --> 00:37:09,876
[jason] oh, man.
788
00:37:10,545 --> 00:37:11,294
Oh, my god.
789
00:37:11,380 --> 00:37:13,079
Oh, she did it herself.
790
00:37:14,249 --> 00:37:15,698
[heidi] it's at-home birthing.
791
00:37:15,801 --> 00:37:17,083
[kylen] well, I didn't--
792
00:37:17,169 --> 00:37:19,352
most people don't do
it themselves.
793
00:37:20,105 --> 00:37:21,688
Sometimes it happens that way.
794
00:37:23,191 --> 00:37:25,358
I was kinda surprised
they wanted to have
a home birth.
795
00:37:26,311 --> 00:37:28,845
I honestly didn't know
it existed.
796
00:37:28,947 --> 00:37:32,215
But, jason and kylen decided
to have a home birth.
797
00:37:32,317 --> 00:37:35,351
Heidi and I will probably
decide to maybe take
a day or two off.
798
00:37:35,454 --> 00:37:38,021
That way we don't have
to listen to the screams or...
799
00:37:38,123 --> 00:37:39,205
The whole birthing process
800
00:37:39,324 --> 00:37:41,458
and have to clean up
afterwards and stuff
like that.
801
00:37:47,199 --> 00:37:49,032
[kylen laughing]
802
00:37:49,117 --> 00:37:51,701
[heidi] jason's, like,
"I'm not sure if I will be."
[laughs]
803
00:37:53,872 --> 00:37:55,455
I don't know about
in the pool, like this.
804
00:37:56,758 --> 00:37:59,960
[kylen laughing nervously]
I don't think I want
to be in a pool.
805
00:38:00,045 --> 00:38:03,013
I kinda got grossed-out
with the home water birth
806
00:38:03,115 --> 00:38:05,548
a little bit because
she was sitting and, like,
807
00:38:05,651 --> 00:38:06,716
her placenta...
808
00:38:08,186 --> 00:38:10,437
[jason] seeing the placenta,
it's just gross.
809
00:38:10,555 --> 00:38:14,257
When she's giving birth,
I'm gonna watch
as long as I can.
810
00:38:14,359 --> 00:38:17,593
-And...
-[laughing] I think
he's gonna panic.
811
00:38:17,696 --> 00:38:20,697
Probably, once it starts
coming out more, I'm gonna
be, like, "holy [bleep]!
812
00:38:20,782 --> 00:38:25,235
That's not supposed to
happen." and then I'm gonna
get grossed out a little bit.
813
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:28,788
He can barely watch me
get four tubes of blood.
814
00:38:29,408 --> 00:38:31,007
I think he's gonna panic.
815
00:38:32,878 --> 00:38:35,445
How does the baby
breathe underwater?
816
00:38:35,530 --> 00:38:37,564
-Babies can
breathe underwater.
-Through the umbilical cord.
817
00:38:37,649 --> 00:38:39,232
-Until the umbilical
chord is cut.
-[scott] oh.
818
00:38:39,318 --> 00:38:40,867
Yeah, that's what
I thought too, scott.
819
00:38:40,986 --> 00:38:42,319
She didn't know that
until I told her earlier.
820
00:38:43,322 --> 00:38:44,821
Oh.
821
00:38:44,906 --> 00:38:48,658
What do you do
with the pool after?
You dump it outside? Like...
822
00:38:49,628 --> 00:38:52,545
You dump it in the sink
or something?
823
00:38:52,664 --> 00:38:55,165
A whole pool of blood
and placenta juice?
824
00:38:55,250 --> 00:38:57,884
You're gonna walk
all that out to outside?
825
00:38:58,003 --> 00:38:59,586
You're gonna take a bowl
and put it in the sink?
826
00:38:59,671 --> 00:39:01,004
You might as well
just give birth outside
827
00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:02,839
-in a pool.
-Okay.
828
00:39:02,924 --> 00:39:03,807
Let's do it.
829
00:39:03,892 --> 00:39:05,258
-No.
-That's kinda gross.
830
00:39:09,014 --> 00:39:10,647
[jason] 19 hours? Screw that.
831
00:39:10,732 --> 00:39:11,547
[scott] oh, man.
832
00:39:11,650 --> 00:39:12,982
[heidi] it could be.
833
00:39:13,068 --> 00:39:15,485
Was your mom in labor
for a long time?
834
00:39:15,570 --> 00:39:16,686
[kylen] no,
she had it induced.
835
00:39:17,823 --> 00:39:19,773
And then went
into a c-section.
836
00:39:20,859 --> 00:39:22,225
After watching that video,
837
00:39:22,327 --> 00:39:25,862
I think I'm more interested
in going to a hospital
and doing it.
838
00:39:28,533 --> 00:39:33,086
Where we'll be if anything
happens rather than, like,
30 minutes away...
839
00:39:35,841 --> 00:39:36,873
From the hospital.
840
00:39:38,477 --> 00:39:39,926
Jason tells me not to worry.
841
00:39:40,045 --> 00:39:41,378
But on my side,
842
00:39:41,463 --> 00:39:46,466
a lot of my family members
had complications
and painful births.
843
00:39:47,552 --> 00:39:49,436
Your side has good births.
844
00:39:49,554 --> 00:39:52,088
We have long births,
and they're, like,
845
00:39:52,190 --> 00:39:55,775
within an hour or four hours.
846
00:39:55,894 --> 00:39:57,277
But it's not always gonna
be that way.
847
00:39:57,396 --> 00:40:01,197
Well, I know. I know that.
848
00:40:03,402 --> 00:40:06,286
-[scott] it's also not
just jason's decision.
-Right.
849
00:40:06,388 --> 00:40:07,454
[kylen] yeah.
850
00:40:07,572 --> 00:40:10,240
Both of you guys have
to make an educated decision
851
00:40:10,342 --> 00:40:11,941
before you make
your final decision.
852
00:40:15,831 --> 00:40:17,113
[scott] jason's stubborn.
853
00:40:17,199 --> 00:40:21,718
When you're 18,
you've got life
all figured out.
854
00:40:21,820 --> 00:40:25,638
Any advice to him
is wrong advice,
unless it's his own advice.
855
00:40:27,542 --> 00:40:29,626
At this point, you can only
make suggestions.
856
00:40:29,711 --> 00:40:31,411
You can't tell him what to do.
857
00:40:33,832 --> 00:40:34,914
[scott] do your research,
that's all.
858
00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:37,417
I'll support you
either way you go.
859
00:40:38,220 --> 00:40:40,336
Just do your research and...
860
00:40:42,307 --> 00:40:44,557
-[scott] yeah?
-[laughing] you are
so close-minded!
861
00:40:44,676 --> 00:40:46,142
[scott] all right.
862
00:40:46,228 --> 00:40:48,261
[kylen] I don't wanna
do a home birth.
863
00:40:48,346 --> 00:40:51,948
If anything goes wrong,
there's, like,
a doctor-doctor.
864
00:40:52,651 --> 00:40:54,284
Yeah, but what can go wrong?
865
00:40:54,386 --> 00:40:55,919
And I don't think you have
much to worry about.
866
00:40:57,088 --> 00:40:58,788
I think I'd just be
more comfortable
867
00:40:58,890 --> 00:41:00,690
at the hospital.
868
00:41:00,792 --> 00:41:02,826
Being at home is just better
than a hospital.
869
00:41:02,928 --> 00:41:04,027
Just because
870
00:41:04,129 --> 00:41:05,895
I won't be left out.
871
00:41:05,997 --> 00:41:07,797
[kylen] that's how you feel.
872
00:41:07,899 --> 00:41:10,800
I wish we could come
to a decision together
about it.
873
00:41:11,903 --> 00:41:13,970
But, if he doesn't
get his way,
874
00:41:14,072 --> 00:41:15,004
he gets pissed off.
875
00:41:15,974 --> 00:41:16,973
No, I do get my way.
876
00:41:18,877 --> 00:41:20,510
It pisses me off a lot.
877
00:41:24,483 --> 00:41:26,816
[woman] this season on
"unexpected"...
878
00:41:26,918 --> 00:41:28,952
My baby's having
a baby.
879
00:41:29,054 --> 00:41:30,386
Ha! I beat you!
880
00:41:36,361 --> 00:41:41,631
My dad's petty.
My mom is emotionally crazy.
881
00:41:41,733 --> 00:41:44,901
To put that in a pot
and [mimics explosion].
882
00:41:45,003 --> 00:41:46,002
Jason: Oh, your parents
are here.
883
00:41:51,409 --> 00:41:53,176
Jason: I'm just, like,
an independent person.
884
00:41:53,278 --> 00:41:56,412
Stayin' away from your family
is not being independent --
885
00:41:56,515 --> 00:41:58,248
that's being a jackass.
886
00:41:58,350 --> 00:42:01,050
[woman] she's definitely
a baby girl.
887
00:42:01,152 --> 00:42:02,118
Baby girl.
888
00:42:02,220 --> 00:42:04,287
-Tyra--
-is not pregnant.
889
00:42:04,389 --> 00:42:05,722
Are you excited
to be a big sister?
890
00:42:07,125 --> 00:42:08,691
-[women] you're not excited?
-Mm-mnh.
891
00:42:08,793 --> 00:42:10,894
God, the sassiness out of all
three of them.
892
00:42:10,996 --> 00:42:11,895
[girls giggle]
893
00:42:11,997 --> 00:42:14,931
I would like to get back
together with you.
894
00:42:15,033 --> 00:42:17,367
Girl, you look so
stupid right now.
895
00:42:17,469 --> 00:42:19,969
She makes my life miserable
on this on this [bleep]...
896
00:42:20,071 --> 00:42:21,104
Bitch!
897
00:42:21,573 --> 00:42:24,440
Do you think mason would be
able to sleep in my room?
898
00:42:24,543 --> 00:42:26,109
Eme, we went over this.
899
00:42:26,211 --> 00:42:27,644
We're gonna have him downstairs.
900
00:42:27,746 --> 00:42:28,878
She's not gonna win
this one.
901
00:42:30,749 --> 00:42:32,315
Take that, mom.
902
00:42:32,417 --> 00:42:34,651
Now, are you gonna rush getting
married?
903
00:42:34,753 --> 00:42:36,586
What if things don't work out?
904
00:42:36,688 --> 00:42:39,289
Divorce, it's as stressful as
moving or a death.
905
00:42:39,391 --> 00:42:41,724
Who says I'm getting divorced?
906
00:42:41,826 --> 00:42:43,893
Let's make it clear that I said
mason couldn't sleep
907
00:42:43,995 --> 00:42:45,161
in the bed with you,
908
00:42:45,263 --> 00:42:46,763
and I caught him sleeping
in the bed --
909
00:42:46,865 --> 00:42:48,565
that's why he's not allowed
in my house.
910
00:42:48,667 --> 00:42:51,034
Everything's a [bleep] mess.
Like...
911
00:42:51,136 --> 00:42:53,336
If everything's a mess, you
clean it the [bleep] up then.
I don't...
912
00:42:53,438 --> 00:42:55,772
What the [bleep] do you do all
day?! [indistinct]
913
00:42:55,874 --> 00:42:58,207
taking care of [bleep] kids!
Wiping ass, breastfeeding,
914
00:42:58,310 --> 00:43:00,543
giving bath, cooking
three meals a [bleep] day.
915
00:43:00,645 --> 00:43:02,278
What you do is not hard.
916
00:43:05,450 --> 00:43:06,749
Oh, my god.
917
00:43:09,354 --> 00:43:10,753
[indistinct] has a baby!
918
00:43:17,963 --> 00:43:19,462
-No!
-Then, no.
919
00:43:19,564 --> 00:43:21,831
So, I'm kind of just like very
terrified that something wrong
920
00:43:21,933 --> 00:43:22,665
is going to happen.
921
00:43:22,767 --> 00:43:25,501
[officer speaking]
922
00:43:25,604 --> 00:43:28,805
it makes me wanna [bleep] cry
that I can't see my kid
923
00:43:28,907 --> 00:43:29,939
come into this world.
924
00:43:30,041 --> 00:43:31,274
[screams in pain]
925
00:43:31,376 --> 00:43:34,477
-ow, he's hurting...
-[baby cries]