[girl] Previously on Unexpected...
- We got approved. - [Glenn] Approved for what?
The apartment. We're moving out!
I'm moving out just 'cause I simply don't want to live under their roof anymore.
I just feel like, her mom,
she's raising her daughter while her daughter's raisin her daughter.
It'd be way better off once we move.
Hopefully.
How do you guys feel if we, uh, did a home birth?
You did a what?
[Kylen] I don't wanna do a home birth.
If anything goes wrong,
there's like a doctor-doctor at the hospital.
- [Scott] It's not just Jason's decision. - Right.
- [Kylen] Yeah. - [Jason] Yes, it is.
[laughing] You are so closed-minded.
I'm still being like faithful to him,
when he has a whole other girlfriend.
Supposedly, like, she's pregnant.
Alex is supposed to be moving down there with her.
That would honestly be my breaking point
where I would never be with Alex ever again in my life,
is him having a kid with someone else.
-[Ernie] We're going out? -Yeah.
[Shannon] When I found out she was pregnant,
I was definitely not happy with Mason and his family.
Because I felt like I trusted them
when I was letting my daughter go to their house and then this happened.
Will Emersyn be able to, like, come over often?
I, I have hesitations about her taking the baby over there.
I just don't trust them.
[upbeat music playing] ♪ It's your voice ♪
♪ It keeps me alive ♪
♪ I hear whispering ♪
♪ Would you leave me in your arms tonight? ♪
Oh, look at the man of the hour here.
Excuse me, let me get out of the way.
[Lilly laughs]
- Thank you. - These are for you.
[Aaliyah] Yeah.
And these are for you.
- Oh, thank you, thank you! - No problem.
I'm Lilly, mother of two kids,
3-year-old Aaliyah and 7-month old LJ.
I'm Lawrence, Lilly's fiance and LJ's father.
What should I do? Should I cook you something
or should I go order something?
You can't chef it up for me for Mother's Day?
[Glenn] Just make sure he doesn't cook in the apartment.
[laughs] Yeah.
Today is my last Mother's Day living under my mom's roof,
'cause me and Lawrence are moving to our own apartment soon.
I'm gonna cook her a special breakfast for Mother's Day.
And you better appreciate it because once we move,
I'm not going to have the time and energy for nothing
that... that ain't work, so.
Definitely when it comes to cooking, that ain't my job.
Eggs, what, do you just want eggs?
Every time I made you breakfast,
I made you eggs, pancakes, bacon...
I'm supposed to know how to make pancakes?
[Kim] What about pancakes, do we have pancake mix?
Got frozen waffles.
Man...
I mean, I'm sorry. I'm not a chef. It's not my gig.
- [Lilly] He cannot cook for anything. - [Lawrence] I can cook.
What have you cooked that actually came out good?
- I get behind that George Foreman and any grill. - Okay.
- He can grill. He can grill. - I can grill.
- But he cannot cook. - Certified.
I can grill, I don't need to cook if I can grill.
- Grilling is cooking. - But all men can grill.
-Yes, -No, you can't.
[bleep], I'm never cooking for you again, then.
[chuckles]
Whatever.
- How is breakfast coming along, I'm starving. - [Lawrence] Great.
It's coming along great.
- Is it? - We're gonna order.
- Oh. - [laughing]
- [Kim] You guys gonna take the kids out to play, or what? - [Lilly] Yeah.
We are supportive of them wanting to leave, for sure.
Definitely had some sadness about it
and shock about it in a way, because everything just kinda happened so quick.
We've been trying to prepare for, for that.
And we're happy for them.
She tried to talk me out of it.
She stayed up all night texting me, trying to talk me out of it.
- I did. - True.
[Lilly] I'm gonna miss you.
I know, you gotta go be a Mama on your own.
[screaming]
- [Lilly] Mmm-hmm. - It's so important.
I'll never forget when I did it.
It makes me wanna cry, what beautiful memories I have...
- Mmm-hmm. - of trying to make my house and my life.
-You know? So important to do. -Mmm-hmm.
It's just sad, because like...
I feel like my mom has taught me everything I know about...
being a mom.
And now I'm not gonna have her there all the time.
And I just feel like she was just a huge part, and, um...
helping me raise my babies, especially Aaliyah.
I was only 16 and she taught me everything I knew about being a mom.
So it's just sad that like, kinda like raising my kids...
with my mother like that, door is kinda closing.
You're gonna be on your own.
Doing your own Mommy stuff.
[Kim] I'm proud of you.
- Thank you. - You're gonna do so good.
You're gonna make these babies' lives so much fun.
And you'll remember all the little things I did, you'll do them too.
[Lilly laughing] Oh, my God, Lawrence is stuck.
[Kim] Lawrence is stuck, okay.
[Kim laughs]
No, I'm pretty happy for them.
- Could be good. - Yeah, I mean, they need to.
- You know? - They need to go.
It's good for them to learn and appreciate, like,
everything that we do for them.
Because Lilly and Lawrence really haven't had to take on a lot of responsibility
while living with me, so I think it's gonna be,
you know, a real big wake-up call when they move out.
- Grandma Sandy, Happy Mother's Day! - Oh, that's so sweet!
Aw, Grandma Sandy, thank you! You're so sweet.
[Kim] She's so sweet, Grandma. Watch out behind you.
[Glenn] Come here, Aaliyah. Watch out for Grandma Sandy.
I'm Sandy. I'm LJ's grandmother and Lawrence's mother.
[Sandy chuckles]
- [Kim] What do you think of the kids moving? - [Sandy] I love it.
[Kim] Yeah?
True, but it's far away.
- Not much of a choice. - When I come visit ya'll, I'm gonna stay the weekend.
- [laughs] - I'm gonna stay the weekend.
- [laughing] You're gonna stay the weekend. - It ain't that far, though.
You two will have to carpool up,
I'll have to get a second air mattress, and you can both sleep over.
I think it's good.
'Cause Kim has a house, but... and they have their own place.
There's nothing like your own place. You wanna be comfortable.
After coming from work, you can go straight home, take a shower, and relax.
And he'll wanna stay home more.
You know? There's nothing like your own place.
I don't care who you live with.
When are you gonna get married, Lawrence?
I mean, I just ain't in a rush.
- I'm not trying to spend-- - There's no rush, but I don't see them with nobody else.
You know? They got two kids.
I just spent damn near $10,000 moving to this apartment,
I'm trying to spend another for a wedding? Come on.
-[laughs] -Let's be realistic. I'm good right now.
I already hear enough about this from Lilly, so,
right now I'm just trying to focus on the move.
Then we can talk about a wedding.
[upbeat music playing] ♪ Better watch out what to do ♪
♪ One more world to do ♪
♪ I'm waiting here for you ♪
♪ I'm waiting here ♪
[Scott] Jason, Ky, come on down!
[Kylen] No, Chase!
- [Heidi] Oh, here comes Chase. - [Kylen] Chase!
- [Scott] He'll be back up. - [Kylen] Chase!
- [Heidi laughs]
[Glenn] Chase, come on.
We'll see how good he is.
He can sit there.
I'm Kylen, and I'm 17 years old.
I'm Jason, and I'm 18 years old.
When I found out I was pregnant, um...
I just was shocked.
Like I didn't think it was real.
I didn't think that there was a human being in me, but there was.
I think what really helped me
was to have someone there, I feel like, 'cause most girls don't...
have their boyfriends there as much as I do.
'Cause I live with my boyfriend at his parents' house.
We're gonna play a game called Password.
So Jason's gonna give you descriptions
- and you have to try to guess the word. - Easy.
- Okay? - Okay.
- [Jason] All right, we got this. Easy. - [Scott] We got this.
- You guys are gonna lose. - Oh, yeah.
- All right, ready, set, go. - [Heidi] Right, yeah.
- [voice shaking] Oh, my God! - What?
- [Heidi laughing] - In bed, with a woman.
Oh, [bleep]. I got hair.
[all laughing]
Your mom's wand.
- What? - [Lizzy] Time.
Aw. Damn. Did I get, did we get that? Yeah, we can get that one.
I think Kylen and I are a good match for each other because
we both are always happy to like...
spend time together. Like we don't like being apart.
She used to be glued to her mom,
- but now I think that glue is on me. - [laughs]
And I like it. She's my little...
My little girl.
Follows me everywhere, even in the bathroom.
We go pee together and shower together.
[laughs] Not poop.
- Yeah, we don't do that together. - [laughs]
You guys ready?
I'm gonna time you for a minute,
- I'll let you guys know when it's done. - Okay.
[Lizzy] All right, ready, set, go.
Okay.
[Heidi] Tire?
- [Kylen] Um... - Float.
Someone in this room isn't good at using them.
[Lizzy laughs]
- Aw, man. - [Heidi laughs]
Jason's parents are like a second mom and dad to me.
- Um... - [Heidi] We love Kylen.
[Scott] Kylen's a sweetheart.
Jason's a good boy, too.
[Kylen] He gets jealous of me.
So you're the spoiled one now, I'm not, and that makes me jealous.
- Yeah. - I don't necessarily get mad,
'cause I can give two [bleep], 'cause I'm an adult now. I'm independent.
But...
I just think Kylen should get the same treatment.
- She does. - She doesn't.
- Yeah, she does. - Yeah, we love you guys equally.
- [Lizzy] And now it's you guys' turn. Okay? - Okay.
- All right, hold on, hold on. - Okay.
I gotta reset my timer.
All right, ready, set, go. [laughs]
What did we do to have it?
[Heidi and Kylen laughing]
-[Scott] Had sex. -[Jason] Different word. Different word.
- Making love. - No. One word.
- [bleep]. - [laughing]
- Intercourse. - Yes.
[Jason] Something Kylen clearly was not on.
- [Lizzy] Time. - [Scott] Pill.
[Lizzy] Time.
Moving in with Jason was the first time I haven't lived with my parents.
I do miss them sometimes, but...
I like living with Jason and being with him.
Sound like a child. [mockingly] "I miss my parents."
You're [bleeping].
I'm just saying, we're gonna be parents.
We need to get ready for the responsibility.
Me wanting to see my parents
has nothing to do with growing up at all.
I just wish you understood like where I was coming from.
I'm trying to make you grow up and take the next steps
to be an adult and a parent. You get that?
Because I love you more than anyone in this world. Except for him.
I came first, dickhead.
Whatever.
Yup. I got to stick a Q-tip up my butthole.
Okay. [laughs] I don't need to be here for this conversation.
[Mason on phone] Okay.
I mean, I've already had to deal with my daughters having sex.
You know? And this is the boy she's having sex with.
Well... [scoffs]
Have you like, heard anything about when he's supposed to be back?
No, I haven't heard. He just left.
Alex has got his head up his butt right now,
possibly getting another girl pregnant.
[upbeat music playing] ♪ Yeah yeah, yeah yeah ♪
♪ Yeah yeah yeah ♪
♪ Yeah yeah ♪
♪ Yeah yeah, yeah yeah yeah ♪
Hope he answers.
Yeah, if he doesn't answer I'm gonna be like, "what the heck?"
[cell phone chimes]
- [Mason on phone] - Hi, Mason.
How are you?
It was...
It was good.
The ultrasound was just to see if his head was face down.
So we really didn't get to see his body or anything.
I just got out of my 37-week appointment.
But Mason couldn't come with me
because he's spending time with his mom, who just got out of jail.
I met Mason's mom once,
when she was getting out of jail.
Mason told me she wanted me there 'cause she knew about the baby already.
It was so funny when I saw Mason's mom,
she was like yelling at my belly so he could get used to her voice.
She was like, "hi, Mateo!"
- I was like-- - Gonna be scared of her.
- I know. [laughs] - [laughing] Whoa.
[Emersyn] Baby is in position. You wanna see the pictures?
You will, you'll see the, his head, pretty much.
- So there's one. - [Mason] Okay.
But, yeah. Um...
That's all, pretty much.
- I got to do... Mom. - Sorry.
I got to do the swab by myself.
- [Mason] Oh, what... - Oh. We don't wanna talk about that.
I've had six children, and...
never had a swab. Um...
Like, [laughs] what is this?
To test for GBS.
I guess?
You stick it in your vagina and then your rectum
and I was like, "in the same one?"
And she's like, "yup."
It's just like, weird. I was like, "What? That's so unsanitary."
- [Mason on phone] - Yup.
I got to stick a Q-tip up my butthole.
Okay. [laughs] I don't need to be here for this conversation.
- [all laughing] - [Mason] Okay. That's okay.
I'm okay talking to Emersyn about personal stuff.
- But if-- - I don't wanna talk about personal stuff
- like that with Mason and Emersyn. - Yeah.
- That's just... - You guys aren't there yet.
No. I...
- I don't think... yeah. - Probably won't be there.
- Ever be there, yeah. - You never know.
I've already had to deal with my daughters having sex.
You know? And this is the boy she's having sex with. Um...
Well... [scoffs]
And that's why I don't wanna have those conversations with you in the car.
- [laughs] Yeah. - Yeah.
Well, that's about it.
- [Mason on phone] Okay. - Um, I can call you when I get home.
Yeah. Okay, I love you.
- Bye. [blows kiss] - Bye. [blows kiss]
[cell phone chimes]
[Mason] I got off the phone with Emersyn.
They said that the baby might come a little bit before the due date.
So, two to three weeks.
No, he's still a little peanut.
They said he still has growing to to.
I'm Shannon, I'm 46 years old and I'm Mason's mom.
I was incarcerated over 3 years for a DV.
But I got out last week from a rehab facility.
When I was locked up, I called home every day and I talked to my kids.
When I had first found out that Mason was having a baby,
he's like, "Hey, you gotta figure out how to talk to Dad."
[laughs] "You gotta make this better for me."
I'm like, uh, "you know where I'm at, Mason.
Like I'm not sure I can do much from...
you know, my little 12 by 12 cell, you know?"
What crossed my mind was, "Oh, [bleep], how are we gonna...
what are we gonna do now?
How are we going to make this work?
- Have the two kids--" - At that time though, she didn't.
of these two kids, I'm thinking about what I was thinking when Mason told me...
was "how are we gonna do this?"
You know what I mean? 'Cause I wanted Mason to finish school.
Um...
And I knew that he would have to start preparing for...
becoming a parent.
[Mason] They said, well, from what Emmy told me,
the baby's head is down, you know, um...
[Shannon] So it's where it's supposed to be.
Yeah, where it's supposed to be, but his head is facing up
or his, you know, his face is facing up.
- Sunny side up. - Yeah.
That's what that's called, sunny side up.
- Yeah. - So his head needs to turn.
[Mason] My mom and me have always had
a close relationship.
Plus my mom had my half-brother when she was 15,
so she understands what it's like to be a teen parent.
[Shannon] And that's the reason why
I do not believe that Emersyn, uh, would've gotten pregnant
if I had not been incarcerated.
Because Ernie...
and Erica,
neither one of them had a conversation
with Emersyn and Mason.
That's not true,
I had a conversation with Mason about it.
I told them if they got into a situation like that,
you know, there's gonna be some consequences involved.
That's not a pre-- that's no... that's no pre, uh,
- Okay. - Um, intervening conversation.
That's, "if this happens, this is what it looks like."
- No, here's... - Well, how can I intervene?
No, you say, "do you need to get on the pill?"
Like, [scoffs] point blank.
"You need on the pill?" Just like that.
Like, we're there and everything like that?
Um...
You gotta ask me the questions.
I really... yeah.
You need to prepare for that.
So you... you're down to weeks, not months.
[chuckles]
He doesn't know what he's getting into here,
what's... what's gonna happen, so I don't... it's...
None of us are really ready, we just...
You know, unless we're planning on it.
Um, if it happens like how it's happening for them...
no, they're not ready.
[upbeat music playing] ♪ Get on the stream, get on the drums ♪
♪ 'Cause you never really thought the way you're feeling now ♪
♪ Would go until the morning ♪
♪ You know I got what you need ♪
[Layla] Grandma!
[Patricia gasps] Layla!
Come here! Come here and see me!
Come here and see me and give me some sugar.
Give me some sugar. [kisses]
I missed you.
I'm dropping off Layla with Patricia for the night
so I can go help Tiarra bring Ella back to Kentucky
Patricia definitely has helped me so much with Layla over the years.
And I know whatever happens between me and Alex,
that she'll always be there for Layla.
-Come here. Come here! Gimme hugs. -[Patricia chuckles]
Or not.
I'm Patricia. I'm Alex's grandmother and Layla's nana.
I'm Julie. I'm 39 years old, I'm Alex's mom and Layla's GG
and my daughter Nevaeh is seven months old.
[chuckles] Yeah.
[Patricia] Everybody says they can pass as twins...
- if it weren't for the age difference. - Age difference.
It's crazy.
Especially when you're going somewhere and if I have them by myself,
everybody thinks that they're both mine.
I'm like, "no. That's my granddaughter and this is my daughter." [laughs]
They're like, "okay?" Yeah.
Same thing I thought, but hey.
Stuff happens. [chuckles]
Oh, you can't bust it on her--
- Hey! - [Tyra] Hey!
- [baby crying] - [Tyra] Look at me right now.
-Look at me. Yes, come here. -[Julie] You're okay. You're okay.
- [Tyra] Look at me. - [Layla screaming]
- [Julie] You're okay. - [Layla screaming]
- [Julie] You're okay. - [Layla whining]
- [Tyra] You cannot throw stuff at her. - [Layla crying]
[Tyra] Do you understand? Sit down.
- [Layla screaming] No! - [Tyra] Yup.
Go tell her you're sorry.
- No. [crying] - [Tyra] Yes.
[Layla crying]
[Patricia] I knew she was gonna run to Nana.
Same with Alex. [in sing-song voice] So much
I think part of why Alex acts the way he does
is because he had no consequences from Patricia while growing up,
and I do believe that that has, like, carried ove into his, like, adulthood.
And sometimes I do worry about Layla
because I don't want her acting like Alex when she gets older,
but she ever acts like Alex she's gonna get disciplined a little bit more.
- Okay. - [Julie] Okay.
- Aw. - [kissing]
Aw.
It's like... Wait... Wait a minute, wait a minute.
[laughing] You can't pull her arms.
Easy.
[Tyra] I can never have another kid with you,
[Julie laughing] Easy.
Though, I would have a dead baby around Layla.
No. Uh-uh. No, no, no, no. Can't have them.
So you're leaving today, right?
Yeah, about to go catch the latest flight to go get Tiarra and Ella.
Layla said she wanted to go on the airplane.
[Patricia] Aw.
Told her she'll have to wait until after EJ's born.
Tiarra is my younger sister, and she has a two-year-old daughter named Ella,
and they recently just moved to Maryland.
And Tiarra's pregnant again She's 18 years old.
At first, I honestly though what is Tiarra gonna do
now that she's having another kid? But...
she... I think she... Tiarra has...
I think anyone will tell you Tiarra was made to be a mother.
And, I mean, I'm happy that Dee has a career that gives her that lifestyle,
but me and Tiarra are just, like, two different people.
I don't think I can stay home every day and jus take care of kids,
but Tiarra loves that [bleep].
[laughs] She does. She loves it.
When are you coming back?
- We're coming back tomorrow. - Tomorrow.
- Yeah. - That's gonna be a fast trip.
I know.
Does Alex know you're going to Maryland?
Yeah so we talked about it a little bit, I mean,
I don't think he really knows, like, the whole plan,
but, I mean, I did tell him that, like, I'm gonna get on a plane and stuff like that
'cause I felt like he should know just in case something happened. But...
But he knows Layla's not going, right?
[Tyra] Yeah, oh, yeah. He knows Layla's not going.
Yeah, he asks about her more than he wants to know what I'm doing. So...
[both laugh]
I would rather be leaving Layla with her father, but that's not happening
just because Alex hasn't come back from his little...
trip to Texas.
He's there to see his little friend,
who is supposedly now pregnant by him.
He's been there for about a week.
And it's hard to wake up with Layla or, like, go to bed with her
and she's like, "is daddy sleeping with us?"
It's like, "not tonight." But, you know, I don't know.
[sighs]
Have you, like, heard anything about when he's supposed to be back. I know...
-No, I haven't heard. He just left. -[Tyra] He just left?
[Patricia] We don't have a clue, we don't know what's going on.
[Julie] Alex does everything at the split second, so nobody ever knows.
One minute he wants to be with Tyra,
the next minute he don't, the next minute he does.
I'm sure he'll text somebody and let us know when he's coming in...
[Tyra] Yeah, I'm sure.
'cause he'll have to have food. He'll be hungry. [laughs]
I don't agree with him cheating on her at all.
Alex has got his head up his butt right now,
and possibly getting another girl pregnant.
I'm not happy about it, especially one that's...
so far away, I mean, when are you gonna see a child that's...
so far away from you?
And then if you plan on moving, then what are you gonna do about Layla here?
So, like, it's kinda... You're stuck in the middle now.
If she is pregnant, now you're stuck.
[sighing] I don't know.
He's not making some very good decisions right now is all I can say.
Okay, I love you, Layla.
- [Layla speaking] - Give me a kiss. You promise?
[Tyra] You promise? Give me a kiss.
- [Julie] Give mom a kiss. - [kissing]
I'm excited to see Tiarra and kinda just get a break
of seeing everything that reminds me of Alex.
Although, even though Tiarra's already a bitch not being pregnant,
now she is pregnant. So there's just no telling how she's gonna act
or what she's gonna say, now that she actually is hormonal and pregnant.
- There they are. - Here they come.
I thought, I'm gonna kill him 'cause he ruined my daughter.
It's not like the old days where you load the shotgun and go hunting. [chuckles]
♪ Sometimes you steer ♪
♪ Sometimes you cruise ♪
- [Kylen] I think my mom's here. - [Jason] All right, let's go.
Yep.
- There they are. - Here they come.
'Cause I live with Jason and his parents, we don't see my parents as much now.
So we're going over to spend some time with them
I'm excited. Um, when I was younger, I was very shy.
I had really bad anxiety, so I honestly would,
metaphorically, I'd hug my mom's leg.
I was up her ass probably all the time.
We still are very close, and we talk about stuff,
but I'm not near her 24/7 like I was when I was a kid.
So how you guys been?
- All right. - Good. All right.
How have you been, you guys?
- [Kylen] Good. - [Jason] Good.
I was in so shock when I heard that my baby's having a baby...
'cause she don't like it when I call her baby girl,
but she's always gonna be my baby girl.
Jason calls her baby girl, so I'm not supposed to call her baby girl,
but she's my baby girl, and she's been my baby girl since the day she was born.
I don't care if she's in her 50s,
she's always gonna be my baby girl.
You look big to me. [laughs]
- [Kylen] Well, yeah. - Probably 'cause I haven't seen you.
Ever since Kylen moved in with Jason's parents, I miss her a lot.
My house his lonely.
[laughing]
But she's more active...
Over there, yeah.
She's got more to do of things that she likes.
Well, and just... It is what it is.
You can only live with your parents for so long,
and then it's like, yeah... [laughs]
I'm good at self-invites. I got a car and I know where they live.
[laughing]
Did they, uh, say anything about, you know, you and the baby?
Are you guys both fine?
- Yeah we're healthy. - [Michael] Good.
He's healthy.
When she told us she was pregnant.
[both laughing]
I wasn't happy when I found out
when Kylen was pregnant 'cause of her age,
and I was like, "you've gotta realize you gotta grow up now.
"It's a lot of responsibility."
[Michael] When I first found out that Jason got Kylen pregnant,
I thought, I'm gonna kill him 'cause he ruined my daughter.
But now, I'm excited to be a grandfather.
Um, I have an appointment. When?
- Uh, June 1st. - June 1st.
- Yeah. - [Kylen] So I don't know if you wanna bring me.
- [Kylen] I think it's just, like, another ultrasound. - [Jason] Oh.
[Michael coughing]
[groaning]
My dad is very sick...
Um... Yeah.
I have a bad heart. I have heart attacks all the time.
I have stage three, close to going into stage four, kidney disease,
and I have COPD.
My lungs are completely not good, but I did that to myself.
Smoking, I ruined my lungs.
Kept doing it after we told him not to.
It's too late now, so...
Well, yeah, that... That also.
why worry about it?
It does hurt to watch it, so sometimes I...
gotta take a step back.
[Marie] We didn't have time to wrap it.
Dad was learning.
Oh, my God.
- [Marie] Grandpa's partner in crime. - [laughing]
[Marie laughing]
Like, we definitely need our own house so we can be independent
and be our own family together.
Your baby's gonna change your life.
Your whole life's gonna change big time.
Yeah.
I'm gonna wanna see it all the time,
but I know I'm not gonna get as much time as I want with it.
You guys are gonna see him a lot.
I hope so.
I wanna spend all the time I can with him.
Did you and Lawrence, like, set up a budget for the apartment?
He might have a nervous breakdown.
He's cheap and I spend too much,
and it's like, you have the money so give me the [bleep] money.
Give it to me.
♪ Don't tell me why ♪
♪ Would you ever say goodbye ♪
♪ Oh, oh ♪
-[Kim] Get some pots. Gonna help mommy? -[Aaliyah] Uh-huh.
- [Kim] We got pots and pans and... - [Aaliyah] Pots and pans?
tons of stuff.
Me and Lawrence are moving to our own apartment soon.
So I have to pack all of our stuff,
the kids stuff, the whole room, the beds.
The entire basement that's full of my new furniture.
- And the pantry... Yeah. - Pretty much the whole house is Lilly's,
and it's all gonna be going.
Plus, I just never realized how much really goes into moving,
like, especially, like, out of your parents' house
because you can't take all of their furniture
- and all of their... - [Kim] Well, no you can't take all of our furniture.
Now you appreciate what you have to get, what you have to do.
Lilly doesn't have a job right now, so she doesn't have an income.
So she has to rely on Lawrence to, um, pay for things.
So I just worry that they're gonna have money issues there.
Thousands.
She probably has.
Easily.
But Lilly is not really spending too much.
She's been pretty good about what she needed, I have to say.
In the past, maybe Lilly was buying things unnecessarily,
when she, you know, before she knew she was moving out, but um...
But it wasn't like I was buying unnecessary things for myself.
- No, for the kids. - [Lilly] Aaliyah would be like,
"I want five Barbies and an LOL doll,"
and she walked out with five Barbies and an LOL doll
- Which is bad. - [Lilly] 'cause I spoil her.
- She does. - And it's like...
It's like an addiction to seeing the smile on her face,
- I know, but... - and when she opens it,
and how excited she gets when I'm gonna buy it.
And I just like making her happy.
- So I buy her all these things. - But you can't do that now.
You can't do that anymore because you're not gonna have the money.
Yeah.
[Lilly] Well, I know how much things cost, it's Lawrence that doesn't.
Yeah, you're gonna have a lot of...
[Lilly] He was like, "you paid $50 for a garbage can, that's ridiculous."
I was like, "That's how much it costs."
[Kim] You're gonna have a lot of money issues.
- [crying] - Oh, oh, oh!
- What's the matter? - [Lilly] Oh, mom.
[Lilly] Maybe...
I'm sorry.
[Kim] You could mark it, kitchen, go ahead. Write... Write kitchen on there.
Did you and Lawrence, like, set up a budget
for the shopping for the apartment?
[Lilly] Well, we had to pay like five grand to move in.
- [Kim] Right. - [Lilly] That was a lot.
And then he wanted to spend, like, 300 only on a couch,
- which is not possible. - [Kim] Right.
So we ended up spending 600 on the couch and that pissed him off,
but what do you want me to do?
She texted me, I don't know what I was even doing, I was definitely busy though.
She text me, "hey, you like this couch?"
And I'm like, "Uh, it's all right, I guess."
"All right, see you later."
"Do you have the 600 for the couch?" I'm like, what are you talking about?
I told you not to get it yet.
- It was all right. - Go back in our texts, and I literally said,
"do you like this couch? Can I buy this couch?
"Will you give me the 600 for the couch?
"They gave me a big discount," whatever, and he said...
She sent me paragraph after paragraph, I didn't even read it.
- I didn't know what she was talking about. - And he goes, "yeah, cool."
No I'm taking that, I literally said, "can I buy it?"
I send the picture, everything, he goes, "Yeah, cool, I guess."
So I'm taking that as you said "Yeah, cool,
- "I guess buy the couch." - No.
So then I bought it.
You took that real wrong 'cause that's not what I meant by that.
- Definitely not what I meant. - But what else would yeah, cool, I guess mean?
[Lilly] If it was up to Lawrence,
-[Lilly] we would live in the house with one dish, -Yeah. Nothing.
-[Lilly] one towel, a milk crate, -Mmm-hmm.
- [Lilly] and a lawn chair to sit on. - Right.
- He told you he doesn't need dishes. - [Lilly] No.
- Right. - [Lilly] He says he doesn't need dishes.
[Lilly] He doesn't need anything that I bought.
- [Lilly] He doesn't need it. - Right.
So how are you gonna convince him
when it comes time to, like, buy things you need.
You might... He might have a nervous breakdown.
He's cheap and I spend too much.
So it's like, you know, I wanna, like, scream
'cause he's so [bleep] cheap and won't... Doesn't want to pay.
Then it's like, you have the money so give me the [bleep] money.
Give it to me.
You have to be careful. You don't want him to lose it.
Well, no, but...
You guys already have signed up for, like, all these stressful things
that normally put a strain on a relationship.
You know, so you've got already the kids,
and then the apartment, and the finances,
and responsibilities divided up,
and you're talking about getting married.
And these are, like, really stressful things
that couples who have been together a long time
have taken time to deal with,
and you guys have, like, done this all in a year's time.
It's a... It's a lot. So...
If you wanna live comfortably in an apartment with two children,
gotta have what you need.
- You wanna go pick up Momo from the airport? - Yeah.
Tyra is coming to help me fly back to Kentucky,
but last time I saw my sister was hectic.
Whenever Tyra is anywhere near Tiarra, there's a lot of arguing, a lot of yelling.
- [giggling] - Too much.
♪ Ain't it good to be alive ♪
[Ella] Mommy, get up and do it.
[Tiarra] Here I'll do it from right here.
Go get it. [laughs] Go get it.
I am Tiarra, I'm 18 years old, and I'm pregnant with my second child.
My name is Dee, I'm 21 years old, uh,
I'm Ella's father, and Tiarra's life partner.
[Tiarra chuckles]
- [Ella mumbling] - Now introduce yourself.
[Tiarra] Can you introduce you? Who are you?
Ella.
[Tiarra and Ella laughing]
I was scared when I first got pregnant with Ella
'cause I was only 15, I was still in high school.
I had no idea what to do with myself, less than a baby,
and even though we have five generations of teen parents in my family,
I never thought that I would be a teen parent,
especially not at the same time
as my sister, Tyra, and Taylor, my older cousin
I know obviously I was doing the stuff that happens, that creates a baby,
and me and Dee really never used protection.
I mean, I guess I was young and I was dumb,
and I mean, he was 17, so he wasn't much older.
But you don't think it's gonna happen to you, especially not at 15,
like, that's the last thing I was thinking about.
And here we are three years later, pregnant again.
[Tiarra] All right, come on let's go inside.
- [Dee] Yeah, it's about to thunderstorm. - [Tiarra] We'll come back out.
[Dee] It's about to.
Ella, she's going through the terrible two's stage.
So sometimes she has a bit of an attitude,
which I'm sure that she gets from me.
What, what, what?
Oh, my God.
She's on, like, go mode all the time.
So it's, like, more excited for when she's... When she's older.
- [Tiarra laughing] - [Ella yelling]
[Tiarra] Okay, stop. You're gonna kick your sissy and you're gonna hurt her.
How are... Are you gonna be nice to your sister,
or are you gonna be mean like that?
What? You're gonna be nice to sissy, huh?
She's a little monster.
So it's 8:20 right now,
and we have to be at the airport at 8:55 to pick up Tyra.
Dee and I have been living in Maryland now for 8 months
because he's in the militar and that is where he is stationed.
Sometimes it stresses me ou
just because I know at any point of time
they can give him a six-month deployment or something like that,
and also it's very hard living away from home.
I wish I had family close, just, like, for the help,
and so Ella would like have Layla to play with and stuff like that.
She probably ain't really used to it.
She's been back like five times already. So...
Different.
Whatever, I'm here, like, consecutively.
Okay, well, you shouldn't've joined the military.
Well, hey, had to provide.
Yeah, we need to get a move on.
- Do you wanna go pick up Momo from the airport? - Yeah.
The reason I joined the military was because...
I couldn't decide what I wanted to do with my life.
Didn't really like working in the factory or anything.
It was probably the best decision that I've made
just because they take care of not only me, but me and my family.
Tomorrow, guess what? We get to go see Layla.
- Yay. - You want to? And Mimi?
- And leave daddy here by himself? - You gonna leave me here?
- [Ella laughing] - You are?
You're gonna leave me here?
- [Ella laughing] Yeah. - That's funny.
So I'm currently still coming to Kentucky to see my doctor
because I don't have one in Maryland yet.
I have to have my social security card to get enrolled to insurance,
and I don't have that right now.
So I've had to fly a couple times, drive a couple times.
I've had to travel a lot.
Where is Dee's help finding my social security card?
[laughing] It's not my social security card,
- I have mine. - Nonexistent.
Okay but it's your baby inside my stomach that needs to find the doctor.
- We good? - Yeah.
[Tiarra] Tyra is coming to help me fly back to Kentucky
because I have a two-year-old, and I can't, you know, carry bags, carry my daughter,
all throughout the airport while being pregnant.
Tyra and Tiarra together,
there's a lot of arguing a lot of yelling.
- [giggling] - Too much.
That's the way we communicate in my family. [laughs]
[Dee] When she's pregnant, It's like...
- 10,000 times worse. - No, it's not.
- Yeah, definitely. - [laughing]
[sighing] Good lord.
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[Kylen] Who do you allow in the room?
We're allowing, like, two people in addition to you.
I just want it to be our thing,
not really the grandparents thing.
Probably want you guys coming in a little bit after.
No.
[Michael] I'd at least like to be in the waiting room.
Yeah, I gotta talk to Jason.
Spending the night on the couch, um, how do you feel about that?
It's ridiculous. It's just gonna cause me to relapse into my rebellious stage again.
Like, we're over the honeymoon phase.
Have you thought about, like, getting away from him for a little bit?
It's just, like, then what do you do? I don't have help elsewhere.
I can't go to my dad's. I don't want to be at my dad's,
It's the worst environment for Luca.
[Tiarra] What are you looking at?
[Tyra] Alex sent me a picture of us. He's probably thinking about me.
[Tiarra] He's a [bleep] id
I feel like if you love someone,
and if he truly loved his daughter,
he wouldn't treat Tyra the way he does,
and he would be there for Layla.