1 00:00:01,369 --> 00:00:02,568 [narrator] previously on unexpected... 2 00:00:02,603 --> 00:00:03,602 [woman] aah! 3 00:00:03,637 --> 00:00:05,838 This is just like how an at-home birth will be. 4 00:00:05,873 --> 00:00:10,009 I think I'm more interested in going to a hospital than doing it. 5 00:00:10,044 --> 00:00:12,544 Being at home is better than a hospital. 6 00:00:12,580 --> 00:00:15,981 I wish we could come to a decision together about it. 7 00:00:16,017 --> 00:00:17,750 But if he doesn't get his way, 8 00:00:18,252 --> 00:00:19,084 he gets pissed off. 9 00:00:21,122 --> 00:00:24,223 We have to be at the airport to pick up tyra. 10 00:00:24,258 --> 00:00:27,559 Tyra is coming to help me fly back to kentucky to see my doctor 11 00:00:27,595 --> 00:00:29,261 because I don't have one in maryland yet. 12 00:00:29,296 --> 00:00:31,630 Does alex know you're going to maryland? 13 00:00:31,665 --> 00:00:32,965 [tiarra] yeah. 14 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:35,234 I felt like he should know, just in case something happened. 15 00:00:35,269 --> 00:00:40,072 Alex hasn't come back from his little trip to texas. 16 00:00:40,107 --> 00:00:44,943 He's there with his girlfriend who is saying that alex got her pregnant. 17 00:00:46,113 --> 00:00:47,112 Grosses me out. 18 00:00:48,149 --> 00:00:50,149 -I'm jenna. -I'm aden. 19 00:00:50,184 --> 00:00:53,218 [jenna] I don't think a lot of 17-year-olds can say 20 00:00:53,254 --> 00:00:56,522 they got pregnant by someone who's around as much as aden. 21 00:00:56,557 --> 00:00:58,157 [jenna] I have the best boyfriend. 22 00:00:58,192 --> 00:00:59,925 I don't want my mom to feel uncomfortable. 23 00:00:59,960 --> 00:01:01,593 I'm tired of getting blamed for everything. 24 00:01:01,629 --> 00:01:03,662 -I'm not blaming you for anything. -You just did. 25 00:01:03,697 --> 00:01:04,997 And that's [bleep]. 26 00:01:05,032 --> 00:01:07,099 [matt] jenny used to be a daddy's girl. 27 00:01:07,134 --> 00:01:09,201 She'd wanna spend as much time as she could with me. 28 00:01:09,236 --> 00:01:12,071 But she's definitely not a daddy's girl anymore. 29 00:01:13,707 --> 00:01:17,476 They said that the baby might come a little bit before the due date. 30 00:01:17,511 --> 00:01:18,811 So, two to three weeks. 31 00:01:18,846 --> 00:01:22,014 My mom's been in and out of jail for the past few years. 32 00:01:22,049 --> 00:01:25,651 But she just got back from rehab. 33 00:01:25,686 --> 00:01:28,620 Will emersyn be able to, like, come over often? 34 00:01:29,757 --> 00:01:31,757 With mason's mom and her past, 35 00:01:31,792 --> 00:01:35,561 [erica] I have hesitations, um, definitely about emersyn 36 00:01:35,596 --> 00:01:37,029 taking the baby over there. 37 00:01:49,176 --> 00:01:51,143 My little sister tiarra 38 00:01:51,178 --> 00:01:53,378 is about to have her second baby. 39 00:01:53,414 --> 00:01:56,548 And I'm actually flying to maryland 40 00:01:56,584 --> 00:01:59,251 to go get tiarra so she can still come 41 00:01:59,286 --> 00:02:01,670 to her doctor's appointments in kentucky. 42 00:02:03,190 --> 00:02:06,058 [tyra speaking] 43 00:02:06,093 --> 00:02:10,829 I mean, I would actually enjoy it if tiarra asked me to help her more often. 44 00:02:10,865 --> 00:02:13,198 'cause she doesn't like asking for anything. 45 00:02:13,234 --> 00:02:14,333 -[tyra] from nobody. -[melissa] nobody. 46 00:02:14,368 --> 00:02:15,801 Tiarra does not like handout. 47 00:02:15,836 --> 00:02:17,469 She won't eat, she won't even, like... 48 00:02:17,505 --> 00:02:20,472 If she's here and we go to get something to eat, she won't 49 00:02:20,508 --> 00:02:21,640 let me pay for her food. 50 00:02:21,675 --> 00:02:23,208 If anything, she will pay for mine, 51 00:02:23,244 --> 00:02:24,576 before I pay for hers. 52 00:02:24,612 --> 00:02:26,912 [bleep], when she says, "let me pay", I'll let her. [chuckles] 53 00:02:29,950 --> 00:02:31,150 oh, tyra's already here. 54 00:02:31,952 --> 00:02:33,252 -[dee] she's here? -Yeah. 55 00:02:34,955 --> 00:02:36,455 But we have to wait! 56 00:02:36,924 --> 00:02:38,323 [ella speaks] 57 00:02:38,359 --> 00:02:40,526 [tiarra] we're going to pick her up at the airport. 58 00:02:40,561 --> 00:02:43,762 Dee and I, have been living in maryland now for eight months. 59 00:02:43,797 --> 00:02:46,098 Because he is in the military, 60 00:02:46,133 --> 00:02:48,033 and that is where he is stationed. 61 00:02:48,068 --> 00:02:49,401 I don't have insurance in maryland 62 00:02:49,436 --> 00:02:52,237 because I have to have my social security card 63 00:02:52,273 --> 00:02:53,539 to get enrolled to insurance, 64 00:02:53,574 --> 00:02:54,840 and I don't have that right now. 65 00:02:54,875 --> 00:02:58,810 So, have to come to all my doctor's appointments in kentucky. 66 00:02:59,413 --> 00:03:01,413 I think, tiarra enjoys 67 00:03:01,448 --> 00:03:04,983 not having her social security card 'cause she gets to go back to kentucky. 68 00:03:05,019 --> 00:03:08,220 No, I looked for it everywhere, I cannot find it anywhere throughout our house. 69 00:03:08,255 --> 00:03:09,388 Well, you never found it, did you? 70 00:03:09,423 --> 00:03:10,189 No. 71 00:03:12,526 --> 00:03:15,227 -[cell phone rings] -[tiarra speaks] 72 00:03:15,262 --> 00:03:17,062 -hey can you turn it down just a little bit? -Tyra doesn't know 73 00:03:17,097 --> 00:03:18,430 -[dee] where she's going. -[tyra over the phone] 74 00:03:19,567 --> 00:03:20,532 [tiarra] no. 75 00:03:20,568 --> 00:03:21,934 No, stay down. 76 00:03:21,969 --> 00:03:23,869 It doesn't really bother me that I had to fly 77 00:03:23,904 --> 00:03:26,104 to go get tiarra for her doctor's appointment. 78 00:03:26,140 --> 00:03:28,740 I mean, she's 18 years old. 79 00:03:28,776 --> 00:03:30,842 I didn't have my [bleep] together at 18 years old. 80 00:03:30,878 --> 00:03:32,611 Like, "oh, I have to switch my insurance." 81 00:03:32,646 --> 00:03:35,480 "oh, where's my social security card, my birth certificate?" 82 00:03:35,516 --> 00:03:38,217 that's not something that you're thinking about as an 18-year-old. 83 00:03:38,252 --> 00:03:40,185 [tiarra breathing deeply] 84 00:03:40,221 --> 00:03:42,421 my stomach is starting to get tight again. 85 00:03:42,456 --> 00:03:44,122 Look at the way you're sitting. 86 00:03:44,158 --> 00:03:45,791 This is comfortable. 87 00:03:45,826 --> 00:03:46,858 Believe it or not. 88 00:03:49,563 --> 00:03:51,063 [tiarra] dealing with contractions, like... 89 00:03:51,098 --> 00:03:53,899 Like, it literally feels like something's kicking out my back. 90 00:03:53,934 --> 00:03:55,534 It was probably just braxton hicks, 91 00:03:55,569 --> 00:03:58,403 -which are, like, false. -I know those are, like, the fake ones. 92 00:03:58,439 --> 00:04:00,706 -Yeah. It's, like... -I don't even know what a... 93 00:04:00,741 --> 00:04:03,375 What an actual contraction feels like. 94 00:04:03,410 --> 00:04:06,878 Feels like... Your stomach just gets like tight in a ball. 95 00:04:06,914 --> 00:04:09,047 Braxton hicks are kind of like false contractions 96 00:04:09,083 --> 00:04:11,116 getting you ready for the real contractions. 97 00:04:11,151 --> 00:04:14,386 But at this point, like, I'm just not even sure that they were false. 98 00:04:14,421 --> 00:04:15,754 I'm just sitting here in pain. 99 00:04:15,789 --> 00:04:16,688 Hurting. 100 00:04:16,724 --> 00:04:17,756 I hate being miserable. 101 00:04:17,791 --> 00:04:19,224 That's why I never want to be pregnant again. 102 00:04:20,594 --> 00:04:22,861 It's kind of scary that I feel like I'm having those 103 00:04:22,896 --> 00:04:25,797 because tomorrow, if I'm in the air and something happens, 104 00:04:25,833 --> 00:04:27,966 then let's just say my water broke or something, 105 00:04:28,002 --> 00:04:30,002 it's just dangerous 'cause 106 00:04:30,037 --> 00:04:31,703 it's not like there are doctors or anything 107 00:04:31,739 --> 00:04:32,604 on there. 108 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:33,772 -And... -[dee] yeah. 109 00:04:33,807 --> 00:04:34,906 -...It's not like they can just land. -Well, maybe. 110 00:04:35,509 --> 00:04:36,408 [dee] sheesh! 111 00:04:36,443 --> 00:04:37,175 [ella] sheesh. 112 00:04:39,013 --> 00:04:42,447 I don't know that I would trust tyra on a plane, delivering my baby. 113 00:04:42,483 --> 00:04:45,150 I think that would be the last person that I want 114 00:04:45,185 --> 00:04:48,887 'cause I feel like she would just be more concerned about... 115 00:04:48,922 --> 00:04:51,290 I feel like she would be concerned about the baby after, but during it, 116 00:04:51,325 --> 00:04:55,460 no, I don't think she could take that task. 117 00:04:55,496 --> 00:04:57,796 I think tiarra's right on this one. 118 00:04:57,831 --> 00:04:59,831 [tyra chuckles softly] 119 00:04:59,867 --> 00:05:01,266 there is she is, right there. 120 00:05:02,303 --> 00:05:03,368 Momo. 121 00:05:03,404 --> 00:05:04,569 Tyra. 122 00:05:04,605 --> 00:05:07,239 [dee] we gots to see it through, my boy. 123 00:05:07,274 --> 00:05:09,341 [tyra screams excitedly] 124 00:05:09,376 --> 00:05:10,709 [tyra] hey, my love. 125 00:05:10,744 --> 00:05:12,010 Hey, baby. 126 00:05:12,813 --> 00:05:13,812 [tyra] you miss me? 127 00:05:13,847 --> 00:05:16,148 -[tyra] oh, talk to me. -[ella] no. 128 00:05:16,183 --> 00:05:18,583 -[tyra gasps] please, I missed you. -[ella gurgles] 129 00:05:18,619 --> 00:05:21,153 [tyra] I flew so far to see you. 130 00:05:21,188 --> 00:05:22,754 You only flew an hour and 45 minutes. 131 00:05:23,957 --> 00:05:25,524 [bleep] you, it's an hour and 15. 132 00:05:26,026 --> 00:05:27,259 [tyra] tell him. 133 00:05:27,294 --> 00:05:28,894 -[tyra] say "punk". -[ella] punk. 134 00:05:28,929 --> 00:05:29,561 Yeah! 135 00:05:30,397 --> 00:05:32,230 Your daddy shave his ugly mustache? 136 00:05:32,266 --> 00:05:33,332 Not yet. 137 00:05:34,401 --> 00:05:36,234 At least I got my momo now. 138 00:05:36,270 --> 00:05:38,370 -[ella mumbles] -[tyra] yeah. 139 00:05:38,405 --> 00:05:41,239 Tyra, her... She has, like, 10 personalities, 140 00:05:41,275 --> 00:05:42,674 and that's the problem. 141 00:05:42,710 --> 00:05:45,444 She's got an attitude all the time. 142 00:05:45,479 --> 00:05:47,079 It gives me anxiety. 143 00:05:47,114 --> 00:05:50,115 If tyra stays on the level she's on right now, 144 00:05:50,150 --> 00:05:51,783 might be a long trip back to kentucky. 145 00:05:52,486 --> 00:05:53,485 [tiarra chuckles] 146 00:06:02,696 --> 00:06:04,229 [jenna] let me see if he'll sit on a high chair. 147 00:06:05,499 --> 00:06:06,198 [jenna] uh-oh. 148 00:06:07,568 --> 00:06:10,469 I'm all right, I think so. We're almost there. 149 00:06:10,504 --> 00:06:14,239 My name is jenna. I'm 18 and my son, luca, is 11 months old. 150 00:06:14,808 --> 00:06:15,440 Where you going? 151 00:06:16,009 --> 00:06:16,908 Oh, he's out. 152 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:21,446 [jenna] how are you? 153 00:06:21,482 --> 00:06:23,181 [chuckles] I'm good, how are you, jen? 154 00:06:23,217 --> 00:06:24,082 [jenna] good. 155 00:06:24,118 --> 00:06:26,218 [jenna speaking] 156 00:06:26,253 --> 00:06:27,252 I am. 157 00:06:27,287 --> 00:06:29,187 Can you believe you're going to be a godmother? 158 00:06:29,223 --> 00:06:32,023 -[giovanna] at the age of 17. -At the age of 17. 159 00:06:32,059 --> 00:06:33,592 [jenna] you're going to be a godmother. 160 00:06:33,627 --> 00:06:35,560 I think it's funny. 161 00:06:35,596 --> 00:06:37,896 Giovanna is my closest friend, she's my best friend. 162 00:06:37,931 --> 00:06:39,631 Now, she's my only friend. 163 00:06:39,666 --> 00:06:41,466 So, I decided to ask giovanna 164 00:06:41,502 --> 00:06:43,568 to be luca's godmother just because 165 00:06:43,604 --> 00:06:46,204 she stuck around this whole time during my pregnancy 166 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:51,777 since luca's been born, while everybody else my age, they're just... 167 00:06:53,747 --> 00:06:55,514 Living an 18-year-old life. 168 00:06:58,585 --> 00:06:59,684 -[luca gurgles] -[jenna] okay. 169 00:07:01,522 --> 00:07:02,387 Come here. 170 00:07:07,027 --> 00:07:08,326 You can, that's probably... 171 00:07:08,362 --> 00:07:09,361 You hungry? 172 00:07:09,396 --> 00:07:12,164 I love breastfeeding. I think it's amazing. 173 00:07:12,199 --> 00:07:15,000 I'm a crunchy mom, did you not know? 174 00:07:15,035 --> 00:07:18,370 Yeah, that's what I identify as, a crunchy mom. 175 00:07:18,405 --> 00:07:20,305 -[luca gurgles] -[jenna in baby voice] aww, this a mommy boy. 176 00:07:20,340 --> 00:07:22,641 Crunchy mom is someone who's just, like, 177 00:07:22,676 --> 00:07:26,478 like, a breastfeeding, organic-loving, nature freak. 178 00:07:26,513 --> 00:07:29,448 I do a lot of things with breastmilk. 179 00:07:29,483 --> 00:07:31,783 I give him milk baths. 180 00:07:31,819 --> 00:07:33,118 Yay! 181 00:07:33,153 --> 00:07:34,386 Luke. 182 00:07:35,989 --> 00:07:37,989 He eats breastmilk, he drinks breastmilk. 183 00:07:38,025 --> 00:07:39,357 He does everything with breastmilk. 184 00:07:39,393 --> 00:07:40,926 Breastmilk popsicles. 185 00:07:40,961 --> 00:07:42,961 Make him breastmilk pancakes. 186 00:07:43,597 --> 00:07:45,497 [jenna] mmm. 187 00:07:45,532 --> 00:07:47,666 Oh, yeah, I've eaten breastmilk pancakes. 188 00:07:49,102 --> 00:07:51,436 If you're a breastfeeding mom, you're totally lying 189 00:07:51,472 --> 00:07:52,370 if you say you haven't had, 190 00:07:52,406 --> 00:07:53,839 like a little lick of your milk. 191 00:07:53,874 --> 00:07:55,106 It's very good for you. 192 00:07:57,244 --> 00:08:00,111 I'm leaking, I knew it. Yeah. 193 00:08:00,147 --> 00:08:02,747 Every time we're doing an interview, my boobs leak. 194 00:08:02,783 --> 00:08:03,949 It's really embarrassing. 195 00:08:03,984 --> 00:08:05,951 [chuckles] 196 00:08:06,653 --> 00:08:07,319 [jenna speaks] 197 00:08:07,921 --> 00:08:08,653 [giovanna] yeah. 198 00:08:12,092 --> 00:08:14,893 I mean, last night I was breastfeeding luca, 199 00:08:14,928 --> 00:08:16,928 trying to suck boogies out of his nose, 200 00:08:16,964 --> 00:08:19,631 and aden wouldn't go fill up the humidifier. 201 00:08:19,666 --> 00:08:21,132 He's just... 202 00:08:21,168 --> 00:08:23,902 -I get he's tired, but, like, I need help, too. -[giovanna] yeah. 203 00:08:23,937 --> 00:08:25,637 -You raise a kid all day. -I know. 204 00:08:25,672 --> 00:08:28,373 Like, construction and raising a child are a little different. 205 00:08:28,408 --> 00:08:29,508 Yeah. 206 00:08:29,543 --> 00:08:31,877 Aden was so nice, he was so sweet, 207 00:08:31,912 --> 00:08:33,879 and then it was after he got his job, 208 00:08:33,914 --> 00:08:35,647 like, halfway through my pregnancy, 209 00:08:35,682 --> 00:08:36,715 everything changed. 210 00:08:37,017 --> 00:08:38,250 [groans] 211 00:08:40,153 --> 00:08:41,253 come on. 212 00:08:41,288 --> 00:08:44,055 Oh, yeah, let me just [bleep] fix that. 213 00:08:44,091 --> 00:08:45,290 [softly] sorry. 214 00:08:45,325 --> 00:08:46,491 [jenna speaks] 215 00:08:46,527 --> 00:08:48,927 was the worst pain I ever felt in my life 216 00:08:48,962 --> 00:08:51,012 but aden, he didn't care. 217 00:08:51,615 --> 00:08:52,814 I can't breathe. 218 00:08:55,586 --> 00:08:57,552 Like, we're over the honeymoon phase, 219 00:08:57,588 --> 00:08:58,987 if, like... If that's what it is, 220 00:08:59,022 --> 00:09:00,055 we're just... It's just like... 221 00:09:00,891 --> 00:09:02,123 We're just... 222 00:09:02,159 --> 00:09:04,743 Trying to get by in life now. 223 00:09:04,778 --> 00:09:06,761 He's working to make money, and I'm just... 224 00:09:08,448 --> 00:09:10,982 Taking care of luca, so I don't know. 225 00:09:11,018 --> 00:09:13,118 It's lonely. You know what I mean, but, like... 226 00:09:16,924 --> 00:09:17,956 You gotta pick. 227 00:09:17,991 --> 00:09:20,325 You know. So, it's like-- that's... 228 00:09:21,194 --> 00:09:22,227 You know. 229 00:09:23,030 --> 00:09:23,895 [giovanna] is he home a lot? 230 00:09:24,264 --> 00:09:25,897 Aden? 231 00:09:25,933 --> 00:09:28,233 After, like, 4:00 on the weekdays, 232 00:09:28,268 --> 00:09:32,037 and on the weekends, he still does side work and stuff, so. 233 00:09:32,072 --> 00:09:33,872 [giovanna] he doesn't, like, take off on the weekends? 234 00:09:33,907 --> 00:09:35,340 [jenna] not really. 235 00:09:35,375 --> 00:09:38,009 Have you thought about, like, getting away from him for a little bit? 236 00:09:40,948 --> 00:09:43,715 Not in a rude way. Not, like, breaking up with him, like... 237 00:09:43,750 --> 00:09:44,783 Yeah, but even then, 238 00:09:44,818 --> 00:09:46,117 it's just like... Then what do you do? 239 00:09:46,153 --> 00:09:48,119 -I don't have help elsewhere. -[giovanna] yeah, that's true. 240 00:09:48,155 --> 00:09:50,121 I mean, aden doesn't help me with luca, 241 00:09:50,157 --> 00:09:52,090 but he takes care of us financially. 242 00:09:52,125 --> 00:09:53,425 -So it's like... -[giovanna] yeah. 243 00:09:53,460 --> 00:09:54,526 I mean, that's big. 244 00:09:55,596 --> 00:09:57,429 Aden's more a provider 245 00:09:57,464 --> 00:09:58,997 instead of an actual father. 246 00:09:59,032 --> 00:10:00,165 And I don't think 247 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:01,333 being... Like, a financial father, 248 00:10:01,368 --> 00:10:03,034 I don't think that's enough. 249 00:10:03,070 --> 00:10:05,203 I know she does try to stand up for herself, 250 00:10:05,238 --> 00:10:09,174 I just think it's really hard with someone like aden who never sees anything 251 00:10:09,209 --> 00:10:11,209 that he does... Is wrong. 252 00:10:12,879 --> 00:10:15,246 [giovanna] what are you going to do? Like, have you said anything to him? 253 00:10:15,282 --> 00:10:16,848 'cause it's kind of getting, like, ridiculous. 254 00:10:17,784 --> 00:10:19,751 No, I haven't really said much to him. 255 00:10:19,786 --> 00:10:21,987 Just 'cause, like, what is there to say? 256 00:10:22,022 --> 00:10:24,656 You say it a hundred times, it's... You know? 257 00:10:24,691 --> 00:10:26,291 Aden knows how I feel. 258 00:10:26,326 --> 00:10:29,694 But what else am I supposed to do? 259 00:10:30,764 --> 00:10:32,764 'cause I can't go back to my dad's house. 260 00:10:32,799 --> 00:10:34,799 I have not talked to my dad in four days. 261 00:10:34,835 --> 00:10:36,334 Like, I have not talked to him. 262 00:10:36,370 --> 00:10:37,736 I know. That's odd. 263 00:10:37,771 --> 00:10:39,070 -Because you told me to... -Because... 264 00:10:39,106 --> 00:10:40,739 -...Get the f out of your house. -...She's afraid of conflict. 265 00:10:40,774 --> 00:10:42,340 You told me to get the f out of your house. 266 00:10:42,376 --> 00:10:44,175 Why would I-- I'm not comfortable. 267 00:10:46,146 --> 00:10:48,346 Between the drama with him and the crap with aden, 268 00:10:49,116 --> 00:10:50,548 something needs to change 269 00:10:50,584 --> 00:10:52,717 because I can't take it any more. 270 00:10:54,154 --> 00:10:55,820 [sighs] hmm. 271 00:10:55,856 --> 00:10:58,923 -[kylen] if the moms could come, that'd be great. -[jason] yeah. 272 00:10:58,959 --> 00:11:00,425 I just want it to be our thing. 273 00:11:00,460 --> 00:11:02,160 Not really the grandparents' thing. 274 00:11:02,195 --> 00:11:05,463 -They're grandparents. -Every grandparent to every baby that is born... 275 00:11:05,499 --> 00:11:06,998 My parents didn't have their parents in the room 276 00:11:07,034 --> 00:11:08,066 when my mom gave birth to me. 277 00:11:14,741 --> 00:11:16,007 It's ridiculous. 278 00:11:16,043 --> 00:11:17,208 [erica] the kids think I'm strict. 279 00:11:17,244 --> 00:11:18,376 But I wish I was stricter. 280 00:11:22,649 --> 00:11:24,282 Got that tunnel vision♪ 281 00:11:25,052 --> 00:11:26,885 ♪ I only see one way♪ 282 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:29,154 ♪ I got that tunnel vision♪ 283 00:11:29,890 --> 00:11:31,356 ♪ I only see one way♪ 284 00:11:33,427 --> 00:11:35,060 [kylen] hi. 285 00:11:35,095 --> 00:11:37,996 -I'm kylen. -Nice to meet you, I'm rebecca. 286 00:11:38,031 --> 00:11:40,231 -I'm jason. -Nice to meet you. Come on in, guys. 287 00:11:41,568 --> 00:11:43,468 [jason] today, we are visiting the birth center. 288 00:11:43,503 --> 00:11:46,638 We kind of feel the hospital doesn't accept 289 00:11:46,673 --> 00:11:49,307 unmarried, like, teenage dads and stuff like that. 290 00:11:49,342 --> 00:11:51,710 They'll just direct everything towards kylen 291 00:11:51,745 --> 00:11:53,311 and treat me like [bleep]. 292 00:11:53,346 --> 00:11:54,746 Yeah. 293 00:11:54,781 --> 00:11:56,781 We were considering a home birth, but now 294 00:11:56,817 --> 00:11:59,451 we're not really sure if we want to do that. 295 00:11:59,486 --> 00:12:02,520 [kylen] so, we're thinking about the birth center. 296 00:12:02,556 --> 00:12:04,289 I really hope this works out. 297 00:12:04,324 --> 00:12:07,092 'cause I am 33 weeks pregnant. 298 00:12:07,127 --> 00:12:09,327 And we're broke to have a baby. 299 00:12:09,362 --> 00:12:12,230 So we gotta figure it out, like, now. 300 00:12:14,034 --> 00:12:16,401 How's your pregnancy been going so far? 301 00:12:16,436 --> 00:12:19,637 [kylen] um, good. I'd say. Yeah. 302 00:12:20,907 --> 00:12:22,273 -[rebecca] yeah? -Yeah. 303 00:12:22,309 --> 00:12:24,442 -[rebecca] how's your pregnancy been going, jason? -[kylen giggles] 304 00:12:24,478 --> 00:12:27,846 -[rebecca chuckles] -it's good. It's definitely a lot of stress, 305 00:12:27,881 --> 00:12:30,348 'cause being teens added stress. 306 00:12:30,383 --> 00:12:32,317 [rebecca] for sure, absolutely. 307 00:12:32,352 --> 00:12:34,853 So, you know, we don't have epidurals here. 308 00:12:34,888 --> 00:12:37,789 -[kylen] yeah. -Were you planning to have a medication-free birth? 309 00:12:37,824 --> 00:12:39,090 -No. -Oh, yes we were... 310 00:12:39,126 --> 00:12:40,458 [jason speaking] 311 00:12:40,494 --> 00:12:42,527 -[kylen] no. -[jason] medication-free. 312 00:12:42,562 --> 00:12:43,561 No medication. 313 00:12:43,597 --> 00:12:45,563 -No epidural. -Oh. Oh, yeah. 314 00:12:45,599 --> 00:12:46,765 [rebecca laughs] 315 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:49,768 I thought she said, "were you planning on having it"? 316 00:12:49,803 --> 00:12:52,403 -[rebecca] were you planning on not having it? -Yeah. 317 00:12:52,439 --> 00:12:53,571 [rebecca] okay. Yeah. 318 00:12:53,607 --> 00:12:55,807 [kylen] I wanna try without the epidural. 319 00:12:55,842 --> 00:12:59,778 I have a lot of people on my side of the family that say it's so easy. 320 00:12:59,813 --> 00:13:01,679 Yeah, none of them took the epidural. 321 00:13:01,715 --> 00:13:04,549 They said it was painless and it's fine, so. 322 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:09,320 -[rebecca] do you know if you're having a boy or a girl? -[both] it's a boy. 323 00:13:09,356 --> 00:13:11,790 -[kylen] we do want to get him circumcised. -Mmm-hmm. 324 00:13:11,825 --> 00:13:14,125 I just don't know how that would... 325 00:13:14,161 --> 00:13:16,928 You, like, make an appointment at the doctor's, or do you guys do it? 326 00:13:16,963 --> 00:13:18,997 Who are you using as a pediatrician? 327 00:13:20,267 --> 00:13:21,800 For myself? 328 00:13:24,905 --> 00:13:25,770 [rebecca] no. Um-- 329 00:13:25,806 --> 00:13:26,838 [rebecca laughs] 330 00:13:26,873 --> 00:13:29,440 -[kylen laughs] -[rebecca] no, for the baby. 331 00:13:29,476 --> 00:13:33,278 The pediatrician can get you set up with the obs in this area. 332 00:13:33,313 --> 00:13:34,879 Okay. 333 00:13:34,915 --> 00:13:36,548 [jason] I do want him circumcised. 334 00:13:36,583 --> 00:13:38,883 One, there's, like, infection if you don't. 335 00:13:38,919 --> 00:13:41,920 And, two, you get more [bleep] when you get it done. 336 00:13:41,955 --> 00:13:46,524 -[kylen giggling] -but... Yeah. 337 00:13:46,560 --> 00:13:48,026 Do you want an elephant trunk, 338 00:13:48,061 --> 00:13:49,727 or you want something that looks half-decent? 339 00:13:49,763 --> 00:13:51,796 Sorry. [chuckles] 340 00:13:51,832 --> 00:13:56,267 I don't know much about boys, so I just left that decision up to him. 341 00:13:56,303 --> 00:13:59,404 Do you wanna look around and see the center? 342 00:13:59,439 --> 00:14:00,572 [kylen] okay. 343 00:14:01,842 --> 00:14:04,409 [rebecca] okay, so, this is one of our birth suites. 344 00:14:04,444 --> 00:14:08,313 And, um, the baby can be born right in this tub. 345 00:14:08,348 --> 00:14:10,315 You'd might notice this is a two-seater. 346 00:14:10,350 --> 00:14:13,785 -[jason] yeah. Comfortably. -You know some brave partners get in there. 347 00:14:13,820 --> 00:14:15,920 -[kylen] yeah. -You can catch the baby, if you want to. 348 00:14:16,590 --> 00:14:18,223 [jason speaking] 349 00:14:18,258 --> 00:14:20,792 rather do this than be in a hospital room, in a hospital bed. 350 00:14:20,827 --> 00:14:22,360 Yeah. 351 00:14:22,395 --> 00:14:27,365 I really like how the birth center includes men way more than the hospitals 352 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:28,566 I like it. 353 00:14:29,803 --> 00:14:32,003 [kylen speaking] 354 00:14:32,038 --> 00:14:35,340 [rebecca] um, right now, we're allowing, like, two people, 355 00:14:35,375 --> 00:14:37,008 in addition to you. 356 00:14:37,043 --> 00:14:39,110 -[kylen] if the moms could come, that'd be great. -[jason] yeah. 357 00:14:39,145 --> 00:14:40,445 [rebecca] sure. No problem. 358 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:42,013 -[kylen] they can? -[rebeccca] that's fine, yeah. 359 00:14:42,048 --> 00:14:44,182 [kylen] I really like that our moms can come. 360 00:14:44,217 --> 00:14:46,618 At the hospital, they're not allowed to do that. 361 00:14:46,653 --> 00:14:48,887 Yeah, it's kind of, like, an ongoing decision. 362 00:14:48,922 --> 00:14:51,956 He feels awkward with it. [laughs] 363 00:14:51,992 --> 00:14:53,224 not more or less awkward, 364 00:14:53,260 --> 00:14:55,293 I just want it to be our thing. 365 00:14:55,328 --> 00:14:57,095 Not really the grandparents' thing. 366 00:14:57,130 --> 00:14:58,730 -They're grandparents-- -[kylen] every grandparent 367 00:14:58,765 --> 00:15:01,866 -to every baby that is born... -My parents didn't have their parents in the room 368 00:15:01,902 --> 00:15:03,034 when my mom gave birth. 369 00:15:05,005 --> 00:15:07,272 I'm fine with them coming in after, I'm just saying... 370 00:15:07,307 --> 00:15:08,706 -Oh. -[jason] ...During it, that's our thing. 371 00:15:08,742 --> 00:15:11,009 -Maybe my family's different, but they come after-- -definitely... 372 00:15:11,044 --> 00:15:12,710 We're definitely a lot different. 373 00:15:15,882 --> 00:15:16,648 [kylen] you watch... 374 00:15:29,963 --> 00:15:31,129 Okay. 375 00:15:31,498 --> 00:15:32,797 Bye. 376 00:15:33,533 --> 00:15:35,099 What's going on? 377 00:15:35,135 --> 00:15:37,802 All right, he wants to know if you want to meet halfway, 378 00:15:37,837 --> 00:15:40,138 or he'll meet you and get carver's, so you don't have to drive all the way. 379 00:15:40,173 --> 00:15:41,306 Oh, that sounds perfect. 380 00:15:41,341 --> 00:15:44,075 [attendant] okay, here's a latte... 381 00:15:44,110 --> 00:15:45,910 [emersyn] mason lives an hour away, 382 00:15:45,946 --> 00:15:48,212 but we don't have our license yet . 383 00:15:48,248 --> 00:15:50,882 And I hate having to rely on people. 384 00:15:50,917 --> 00:15:54,185 So having to keep asking my mom, 385 00:15:54,220 --> 00:15:55,186 every weekend... 386 00:15:55,221 --> 00:15:57,088 [emersyn speaking] 387 00:15:58,091 --> 00:15:59,190 it's embarrassing. 388 00:15:59,225 --> 00:16:03,394 I get frustrated because, she let her permit lapse. 389 00:16:03,430 --> 00:16:06,731 She wanted to drive, so I was like, renew it. 390 00:16:06,766 --> 00:16:09,267 "I've been calling, I've been calling, I've been call-- 391 00:16:09,302 --> 00:16:10,969 mom, nobody's answering." 392 00:16:11,004 --> 00:16:13,237 I'm like, "for the love of god, you got pregnant." 393 00:16:13,273 --> 00:16:17,775 figure out how to schedule an appointment with the dmv for your... License." 394 00:16:19,913 --> 00:16:21,946 well, it is fun getting to know your family. 395 00:16:22,849 --> 00:16:25,550 Well, my family, it's very interesting. 396 00:16:25,585 --> 00:16:27,151 [erica chuckles] 397 00:16:27,187 --> 00:16:28,786 how was this week? 398 00:16:28,822 --> 00:16:32,256 This was your first week, right, with your mom... At back at home. 399 00:16:32,759 --> 00:16:34,092 [mason] um...Yeah. 400 00:16:34,127 --> 00:16:37,729 -It's really weird going without someone... -Mmm-hmm. 401 00:16:37,764 --> 00:16:40,098 ...For a really long time, and then just boom. 402 00:16:40,133 --> 00:16:41,799 -They're back. -Like nothing. 403 00:16:41,835 --> 00:16:43,501 Right, yeah. 404 00:16:43,536 --> 00:16:46,804 My mom's been in and out of jail for a few years, 405 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:50,842 and she just recently went to rehab for a while. 406 00:16:50,877 --> 00:16:54,579 And now she's out, and she's a lot better now that she's home, like... 407 00:16:55,515 --> 00:16:57,615 I haven't seen her how she is now... 408 00:16:59,319 --> 00:17:01,085 In over four, five years. 409 00:17:01,121 --> 00:17:03,054 So I really hope she doesn't relapse, 410 00:17:03,089 --> 00:17:05,356 but... You never know. 411 00:17:06,292 --> 00:17:07,525 [erica] I just want... 412 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:09,227 You know, us to kind of have a routine... 413 00:17:09,262 --> 00:17:12,030 So I want emmy to have a routine, her hormones are going to be crazy. 414 00:17:13,133 --> 00:17:14,165 She's not going to be sleeping, 415 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:15,967 so being in the comfort of her home, 416 00:17:16,002 --> 00:17:17,835 and kind of getting the baby on a schedule and staying home, 417 00:17:17,871 --> 00:17:19,771 and quarantining, to keep it healthy. 418 00:17:19,806 --> 00:17:22,073 It's good. So, having you come and bond with the baby. 419 00:17:22,108 --> 00:17:24,142 But spending the night on the couch. 420 00:17:24,177 --> 00:17:26,544 Um, how do you feel about that? 421 00:17:26,579 --> 00:17:27,445 Being on the couch? 422 00:17:27,480 --> 00:17:28,913 -Yeah. -I don't mind it. 423 00:17:28,948 --> 00:17:29,881 -You don't mind? -Yeah, I don't. 424 00:17:29,916 --> 00:17:31,082 'cause the futon folds out. 425 00:17:33,286 --> 00:17:34,685 It's ridiculous. 426 00:17:34,721 --> 00:17:36,187 [erica] the kids think I'm strict, 427 00:17:36,222 --> 00:17:39,891 but she's probably not gonna like this, but I wish I was stricter. 428 00:17:39,926 --> 00:17:44,162 Um, I'm still kicking myself for letting emersyn go to mason's house 429 00:17:44,197 --> 00:17:46,264 when she got pregnant. 430 00:17:46,299 --> 00:17:48,466 I just feel like I could have prevented it. 431 00:17:48,501 --> 00:17:50,668 -Um... -I wasn't on any birth control, 432 00:17:50,703 --> 00:17:52,837 I'd never been on birth control. 433 00:17:52,872 --> 00:17:56,507 I know a lot of parents like to provide their children with birth control, 434 00:17:56,543 --> 00:17:58,609 but I think by providing children with birth control, 435 00:17:58,645 --> 00:18:00,044 you're saying it's okay to have sex. 436 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:02,880 "don't have sex, I know you're gonna have sex, so here." 437 00:18:02,916 --> 00:18:05,383 um, so I didn't provide her with anything. 438 00:18:05,418 --> 00:18:07,852 -Um, but we definitely had the sex talk. -Yeah. 439 00:18:07,887 --> 00:18:09,454 Yeah. 440 00:18:09,489 --> 00:18:13,157 I forgive you, and, you know, sometimes there's little... 441 00:18:15,161 --> 00:18:17,695 -...Hiccups in life. -A little. 442 00:18:17,730 --> 00:18:19,230 -[erica chuckles] -just a little... 443 00:18:19,265 --> 00:18:20,431 Little hiccups. 444 00:18:20,467 --> 00:18:21,666 You know, we're gonna roll with it, 445 00:18:21,701 --> 00:18:23,668 but we still wanna set that standard in our home 446 00:18:23,703 --> 00:18:26,637 that, you know, abstinence is the best. 447 00:18:26,673 --> 00:18:28,973 -You know, god created that rule for a reason... -[emersyn] hmm. 448 00:18:29,008 --> 00:18:29,774 ...To protect us 449 00:18:29,809 --> 00:18:31,576 and to make life easier for us. 450 00:18:31,611 --> 00:18:32,510 [emersyn] hmm. 451 00:18:34,881 --> 00:18:37,482 I've always thought of it being hypocritical, 452 00:18:37,517 --> 00:18:40,551 when my mom, like, preaches abstinence to me because... 453 00:18:40,587 --> 00:18:42,720 She got pregnant at 18. 454 00:18:42,755 --> 00:18:45,456 I don't know, I feel like it's just [bleep] sometimes. 455 00:18:45,492 --> 00:18:49,160 I'm like, teenagers have sex, I mean, what can you do? 456 00:18:50,964 --> 00:18:54,665 I just feel it's just going to make me stay downstairs the whole time. 457 00:18:55,502 --> 00:18:56,701 [erica sighs] 458 00:18:56,736 --> 00:18:59,537 I don't want elena to think that... That... 459 00:18:59,572 --> 00:19:02,440 That it's okay. And, I don't want liam to think that it's okay, 460 00:19:02,475 --> 00:19:03,741 even though you're already pregnant. 461 00:19:03,776 --> 00:19:05,943 -I understand... -Well, you know, it's just... 462 00:19:05,979 --> 00:19:07,645 ...Yeah, part of it. 463 00:19:10,683 --> 00:19:13,284 I understand that it could be a bad impression, 464 00:19:13,319 --> 00:19:16,921 I guess, for the younger ones in the family. 465 00:19:16,956 --> 00:19:20,458 But I feel like it'd be good for my little brother, 466 00:19:20,493 --> 00:19:24,996 to know that support should be there even through the night. 467 00:19:25,031 --> 00:19:26,430 And, also, 468 00:19:26,466 --> 00:19:29,901 I'd just like to have my privacy and alone time with mason, obviously. 469 00:19:29,936 --> 00:19:32,270 So I guess I lost that privilege. 470 00:19:32,305 --> 00:19:34,071 -So... -Well, it's not that you lost that privilege, 471 00:19:34,107 --> 00:19:36,974 I would say you deserve to have privacy when you grow up. 472 00:19:37,010 --> 00:19:40,711 You earn the job that gets you the finances... 473 00:19:40,747 --> 00:19:45,950 To award you those comfortable moments in a family. 474 00:19:45,985 --> 00:19:48,319 And they have not done that. And, it's understandable, 475 00:19:48,354 --> 00:19:50,354 'cause they're too young to have done that. 476 00:19:50,390 --> 00:19:52,623 Right now, she has a roof over her head. 477 00:19:52,659 --> 00:19:54,192 And if they break the rules, 478 00:19:54,227 --> 00:19:56,027 there are consequences. 479 00:19:56,062 --> 00:19:57,428 They don't need to be in our home. 480 00:19:59,966 --> 00:20:02,600 I sent her messages, and I get no replies. 481 00:20:02,635 --> 00:20:04,001 -[cathy] yeah. -Nothing. 482 00:20:04,037 --> 00:20:07,238 Jenna avoids things to avoid confrontation. 483 00:20:08,908 --> 00:20:11,209 -For you to suck it up like always... -[matt] yeah... 484 00:20:14,247 --> 00:20:15,613 [tiarra] he's a [bleep] idiot. 485 00:20:15,648 --> 00:20:18,015 Tyra's going through these heartbreaks with alex, 486 00:20:18,051 --> 00:20:19,517 it's just gonna... 487 00:20:19,552 --> 00:20:21,752 Push her back even more. She's not going to feel like doing schoolwork, 488 00:20:21,788 --> 00:20:22,987 she's not going to feel like being a mom. 489 00:20:36,552 --> 00:20:39,420 -Will you bring me that suitcase? -[tyra] go, get it. 490 00:20:39,455 --> 00:20:40,788 You put all her toys in there, didn't you? 491 00:20:40,823 --> 00:20:41,856 [ella speaks] 492 00:20:41,891 --> 00:20:43,224 [tiarra] yes, please. 493 00:20:43,259 --> 00:20:45,059 Everything's about to fall out, she put all her toys in there, yeah. 494 00:20:45,094 --> 00:20:46,560 Ohhh, you're strong. 495 00:20:47,330 --> 00:20:49,130 -See. -What's all in here? 496 00:20:50,099 --> 00:20:51,866 [ella speaking] 497 00:20:53,536 --> 00:20:56,070 -mom, that's my-- -oh, my, god, wait a minute. 498 00:20:57,140 --> 00:20:58,639 Why'd I just find my social security card? 499 00:20:59,075 --> 00:21:00,308 What? 500 00:21:00,343 --> 00:21:02,109 -[tiarra] it's literally just... -Why would it be in there? 501 00:21:02,145 --> 00:21:04,345 I can't believe, the bottom of the suitcase 502 00:21:04,380 --> 00:21:06,180 I found my social security card, 503 00:21:06,215 --> 00:21:08,916 which is the reason that, I'm having to come back 504 00:21:08,952 --> 00:21:10,451 to kentucky because 505 00:21:10,486 --> 00:21:12,053 I need my social security card 506 00:21:12,088 --> 00:21:15,022 to enroll myself into insurance in maryland. 507 00:21:15,058 --> 00:21:16,757 That's so crazy. 'cause that's literally the only reason... 508 00:21:16,793 --> 00:21:18,426 [tyra] tell mommy to keep up with her stuff and maybe, 509 00:21:18,461 --> 00:21:21,195 -she wouldn't have to drive 11 hours back to the doctor. -I thought it was in here. 510 00:21:21,230 --> 00:21:23,431 Ella, you must have get-- got it out of somewhere. 511 00:21:23,466 --> 00:21:24,765 You must have got it out a secret pocket. 512 00:21:24,801 --> 00:21:26,133 Did you get it out a secret pocket? 513 00:21:26,169 --> 00:21:27,568 -No. -I think you did. 514 00:21:28,538 --> 00:21:30,538 -No, I didn't. -I think you did. 515 00:21:30,573 --> 00:21:32,273 No, I didn't. 516 00:21:32,308 --> 00:21:35,309 I'm not surprised, like, at all, that tiarra just 517 00:21:35,345 --> 00:21:39,180 casually finds her social security card 518 00:21:39,215 --> 00:21:41,415 the day that we're travelling back to kentucky. 519 00:21:41,451 --> 00:21:44,352 Ella must have discovered a new pocket that I forgot about 520 00:21:44,387 --> 00:21:47,688 because it was laying right there with all her toys. 521 00:21:47,724 --> 00:21:50,191 So she must have been using that as her credit card. 522 00:21:50,226 --> 00:21:52,126 And, yeah... [chuckles] 523 00:21:54,163 --> 00:21:57,598 [tiarra] um, are you packed? Have you got your bags packed and ready to go? 524 00:21:57,633 --> 00:21:59,867 [tyra] I didn't really even unpack them, so... 525 00:21:59,902 --> 00:22:02,069 I got to go get my clothes on. What time is it? 526 00:22:02,105 --> 00:22:03,104 [tiarra] 10:03. 527 00:22:05,274 --> 00:22:07,341 Okay, you get packed up. 528 00:22:07,377 --> 00:22:10,544 Today, I'm going to be flying with tyra and ella 529 00:22:10,580 --> 00:22:11,612 back to kentucky 530 00:22:11,647 --> 00:22:13,047 for my doctor's appointment. 531 00:22:13,082 --> 00:22:15,116 And I'm very thankful for tyra's help because 532 00:22:15,151 --> 00:22:17,251 every time ella and I travel, 533 00:22:17,286 --> 00:22:19,754 it's always very stressful, and it's always a hot mess. 534 00:22:20,289 --> 00:22:21,789 And... 535 00:22:21,824 --> 00:22:23,624 [sighs] ...It's just a lot of work. 536 00:22:24,494 --> 00:22:25,126 [cell phone chimes] 537 00:22:25,962 --> 00:22:26,994 [tiarra] what are you looking at? 538 00:22:30,466 --> 00:22:31,799 -[tyra chuckles] -what? 539 00:22:31,834 --> 00:22:34,035 Nothing, just of me and him. I don't know why. 540 00:22:34,070 --> 00:22:35,036 [tiarra speaking] 541 00:22:35,071 --> 00:22:36,270 that's weird. 542 00:22:36,305 --> 00:22:39,373 Well, I mean, he's not my boyfriend, but I don't know... 543 00:22:39,409 --> 00:22:41,942 [tyra] when alex sent me some, like, old pictures of us, 544 00:22:41,978 --> 00:22:45,880 just, like, brought up good memories when we're actually happy together. 545 00:22:49,052 --> 00:22:50,851 ...We don't need to be in a relationship. 546 00:22:50,887 --> 00:22:55,022 And, right now, alex is, like, visiting some girl, 547 00:22:55,058 --> 00:22:56,424 that says she's pregnant by him, 548 00:22:56,459 --> 00:22:58,059 I don't really know what she is. 549 00:22:58,094 --> 00:22:59,427 I'm kind of confused. 550 00:22:59,462 --> 00:23:02,463 But, I wish, like, he could get his [bleep] together 551 00:23:02,498 --> 00:23:05,800 so, we could, like, have a good life with each other. 552 00:23:05,835 --> 00:23:08,369 I don't know, it would be a lot easier on the both of us 553 00:23:08,404 --> 00:23:09,703 if we could figure our [bleep] out. 554 00:23:12,141 --> 00:23:13,574 The picture of us was so fun then. 555 00:23:13,609 --> 00:23:14,909 [tyra laughs] 556 00:23:15,645 --> 00:23:17,945 it was when we were in olmsted 557 00:23:17,980 --> 00:23:20,481 in my room... When my room used to be pink, 558 00:23:20,516 --> 00:23:22,149 when we're both looking in the mirror. 559 00:23:22,185 --> 00:23:23,317 And then another one too. 560 00:23:23,352 --> 00:23:25,653 It was actually, the other one was actually cute. 561 00:23:25,688 --> 00:23:26,821 He's probably thinking about me. 562 00:23:27,557 --> 00:23:28,823 [tiarra] he's a [bleep] idiot. 563 00:23:29,692 --> 00:23:31,759 Alex kinda sucks. 564 00:23:31,794 --> 00:23:33,127 I feel like, if you love someone, 565 00:23:33,162 --> 00:23:34,595 if he truly loved his daughter, 566 00:23:34,630 --> 00:23:37,098 he wouldn't treat tyra the way he does 567 00:23:37,133 --> 00:23:38,532 and he would be there for layla. 568 00:23:38,568 --> 00:23:41,402 Like, even before, like, when tyra was in college and stuff like that, 569 00:23:41,437 --> 00:23:44,205 everyone praised alex for being such a good dad, and I was like, 570 00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:46,574 if only y'all knew. He was out, running around, 571 00:23:46,609 --> 00:23:48,442 cheating on tyra, that's like, 572 00:23:48,478 --> 00:23:53,981 you're praising a guy that is, like, not deserving of that praise. 573 00:23:54,016 --> 00:23:55,950 So... I don't know. 574 00:23:58,688 --> 00:24:01,422 I said, "aw, the phase where you took pictures with me, the best." 575 00:24:02,592 --> 00:24:04,992 obviously, if tyra accepts alex, 576 00:24:05,027 --> 00:24:07,027 and they start dating again or whatever, 577 00:24:07,630 --> 00:24:08,929 it's just gonna... 578 00:24:08,965 --> 00:24:10,030 Push her back even more. 579 00:24:10,066 --> 00:24:11,398 She's not going to feel like doing schoolwork, 580 00:24:11,434 --> 00:24:12,867 she's not going to feel like being a mom. 581 00:24:12,902 --> 00:24:14,568 And all this stuff, because she keeps going through 582 00:24:14,604 --> 00:24:15,836 these heartbreaks with alex. 583 00:24:15,872 --> 00:24:17,338 And, that worries me. 584 00:24:17,373 --> 00:24:19,206 But we'll see what happens when we get back home. 585 00:24:30,586 --> 00:24:32,853 [cathy] you know what, I don't know if I should take the cake out yet. 586 00:24:32,889 --> 00:24:34,755 I think it kind of has to be refrigerated. 587 00:24:34,790 --> 00:24:36,724 [matt] I wouldn't take it out yet. 588 00:24:36,759 --> 00:24:39,193 I'm matt, jenna's dad and luca's grandfather. 589 00:24:39,228 --> 00:24:43,063 I'm cathy, jenna's stepmom and luca's grammy. 590 00:24:43,099 --> 00:24:44,932 How's the hot wing chicken? 591 00:24:44,967 --> 00:24:47,034 -Buffalo chicken sandwiches? -Yeah. 592 00:24:47,069 --> 00:24:49,136 -Is it... -[matt] yeah, looks good. 593 00:24:49,172 --> 00:24:52,173 Today's my birthday, and we're just having a little get-together at the house. 594 00:24:52,208 --> 00:24:54,074 [cathy] we're just going to have a few friends over, 595 00:24:54,110 --> 00:24:55,776 matt's parents, um, 596 00:24:55,811 --> 00:24:58,779 -jenna and aden and luca are supposed to come over. -Right. 597 00:25:00,383 --> 00:25:01,582 What time is everybody coming? 598 00:25:02,985 --> 00:25:05,920 [cathy] I think 5:30? That's what I told them. 599 00:25:05,955 --> 00:25:07,721 What about aden and jenna? 600 00:25:08,524 --> 00:25:09,557 I have no idea. 601 00:25:09,592 --> 00:25:11,125 I sent her messages, 602 00:25:12,195 --> 00:25:14,395 about a couple of different things, 603 00:25:14,430 --> 00:25:17,264 within the past three weeks, and I get no replies. 604 00:25:17,300 --> 00:25:19,667 -[cathy] yeah. -Nothing. 605 00:25:19,702 --> 00:25:21,902 I haven't had much communication with jenna, really, at all. 606 00:25:22,605 --> 00:25:24,738 It's been sporadic, at best... 607 00:25:24,774 --> 00:25:25,739 Since the tell all. 608 00:25:25,775 --> 00:25:28,542 Everything I say, you just gaslight me. 609 00:25:28,578 --> 00:25:31,245 I'm not sure why she feels that way, though. 610 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:32,213 -Sure. -Can we-- no, timeout. 611 00:25:32,248 --> 00:25:34,448 -Yeah. -Like, I'm so pissed off. 612 00:25:34,483 --> 00:25:35,783 [crying] I'm not doing it. I'm not doing it. 613 00:25:35,818 --> 00:25:38,352 -That's such a lie. -...'cause you're wrong... 614 00:25:38,387 --> 00:25:40,688 [sobbing] we knew it's such a lie, like, I'm gaslighted... 615 00:25:40,723 --> 00:25:42,690 -[cathy speaking indistinctly] -everything I say... It is such a lie. 616 00:25:42,725 --> 00:25:45,426 Stop it! I'm gonna leave. It's such a lie. 617 00:25:48,397 --> 00:25:49,697 It just all... Like at the tell all. 618 00:25:49,732 --> 00:25:52,766 Everything just went freaking sideways. 619 00:25:52,802 --> 00:25:55,302 And then she would keep threatening and saying, like, 620 00:25:55,338 --> 00:25:57,438 -"I'm moving out. I'll just move out tomorrow. I can't--" -right. 621 00:25:57,473 --> 00:25:59,240 "I can't deal with this." 622 00:25:59,275 --> 00:26:02,076 and then, fine. I was just like, "then move out." 623 00:26:02,111 --> 00:26:04,078 -if somebody's gonna keep threatening, it-- -yeah. 624 00:26:04,113 --> 00:26:07,615 I mean, you're not gonna hold me hostage in my own home. 625 00:26:07,650 --> 00:26:09,383 If you wanna move out, you move out. 626 00:26:09,418 --> 00:26:11,552 Like, you... But if you wanna stay, stay. 627 00:26:11,587 --> 00:26:14,555 -Like, she was... They were never kicked out. -No. 628 00:26:14,590 --> 00:26:15,322 Never. 629 00:26:16,892 --> 00:26:19,026 It'll be nice to see jenna and luca. 630 00:26:19,061 --> 00:26:21,262 I just... I'm excited to see him. 631 00:26:21,297 --> 00:26:22,863 I wish we could see him more often. 632 00:26:22,898 --> 00:26:26,166 -[cathy] right. -I wish she would come over every day. 633 00:26:26,202 --> 00:26:28,002 [both chuckle] 634 00:26:28,037 --> 00:26:30,571 -I wish they'd move back in, for god's sake. -[cathy] yeah. 635 00:26:32,475 --> 00:26:36,510 It sucked when they moved out because... 636 00:26:36,545 --> 00:26:40,447 [chuckles] I think it's amazing to watch him grow. 637 00:26:40,483 --> 00:26:41,448 I don't know, 638 00:26:41,484 --> 00:26:43,133 it's one of the most rewarding things... 639 00:26:44,203 --> 00:26:45,286 ...You can ever imagine. 640 00:26:46,455 --> 00:26:51,325 So even with all of the little petty arguments, 641 00:26:51,360 --> 00:26:53,027 we still miss them dearly. 642 00:26:53,062 --> 00:26:55,229 And, uh, I've just been reaching out to her 643 00:26:55,264 --> 00:26:56,997 more and more because I'm... 644 00:26:58,567 --> 00:27:01,068 I'm growing more antsy. 645 00:27:02,238 --> 00:27:04,171 And, uh, it's my birthday 646 00:27:04,206 --> 00:27:07,274 and I'm gonna try to use that as a little bit of an excuse 647 00:27:07,310 --> 00:27:09,009 and leverage to try to get jenna over to the house. 648 00:27:09,945 --> 00:27:10,577 Yeah. 649 00:27:12,982 --> 00:27:14,481 -[cathy] hi, guys. -Hey, how are you? 650 00:27:14,517 --> 00:27:15,516 -Hey. -What's up, man? 651 00:27:15,551 --> 00:27:16,917 -How are you? -Good. How are you? 652 00:27:16,952 --> 00:27:17,785 Good. 653 00:27:17,820 --> 00:27:19,953 -Happy birthday! Love you. -Love you. 654 00:27:19,989 --> 00:27:22,189 -Hi. How are you? -[cathy] okay. 655 00:27:22,224 --> 00:27:23,624 -How are you? -[rosanne] good. 656 00:27:23,659 --> 00:27:24,825 [michael jr. Speaking] 657 00:27:26,295 --> 00:27:27,461 she should be on her way. 658 00:27:33,169 --> 00:27:33,934 Goldfish? 659 00:27:36,072 --> 00:27:37,004 Okay. 660 00:27:37,540 --> 00:27:38,539 Why don't you play? 661 00:27:40,509 --> 00:27:43,544 My plan was for me, aden, and luca to go visit them 662 00:27:43,579 --> 00:27:45,012 and celebrate his birthday. 663 00:27:45,047 --> 00:27:47,848 But luca has a runny nose and a cold. 664 00:27:47,883 --> 00:27:49,917 And right now, I'm so on edge. 665 00:27:49,952 --> 00:27:52,052 Plus, I can bet that my dad is gonna say something 666 00:27:52,088 --> 00:27:53,487 to upset me or set me off. 667 00:27:53,522 --> 00:27:55,923 So it's probably best that I just don't go at all. 668 00:27:57,226 --> 00:28:00,961 There's, um, buffalo dip over there in the crockpot. 669 00:28:00,996 --> 00:28:02,529 [michael jr.] sounds good. 670 00:28:02,565 --> 00:28:03,931 -[cathy] is that enough? -[faint laughter] 671 00:28:03,966 --> 00:28:05,132 -[cell phone chimes] -[cathy] um, and then, 672 00:28:05,167 --> 00:28:06,800 there's hot, like, buffalo chicken sandwiches 673 00:28:06,836 --> 00:28:07,868 and then pulled pork. 674 00:28:07,903 --> 00:28:09,436 -[nicole] sounds good. -[joseph] okay. 675 00:28:09,472 --> 00:28:12,573 -[nicole] and I'm loving this, the thing she had that night. -[joseph] yeah. 676 00:28:12,608 --> 00:28:13,841 Jenna just sent me a text saying, 677 00:28:13,876 --> 00:28:16,610 "hey, luca's really sick. I don't think we're going 678 00:28:16,645 --> 00:28:17,478 to be able to come up." 679 00:28:27,456 --> 00:28:29,123 I'm saying, "that's fine. I love you." 680 00:28:29,158 --> 00:28:30,591 I mean, she needs to focus on that 681 00:28:30,626 --> 00:28:32,960 -and that's the most important thing. Right. -[cathy] it's important. 682 00:28:35,664 --> 00:28:38,665 -I mean, if he's sick, then-- -[rosanne] right, he's gonna be miserable. 683 00:28:38,701 --> 00:28:40,634 -He needs to rest... -[rosanne] I know. 684 00:28:40,669 --> 00:28:42,603 -...Before the, uh, baptism. -[rosanne] right. 685 00:28:44,140 --> 00:28:45,439 I'll have another birthday. 686 00:28:45,474 --> 00:28:47,007 [rosanne] yeah, you can't guess-- 687 00:28:47,042 --> 00:28:49,243 it's just, it kind of sucks a little bit. 688 00:28:51,414 --> 00:28:55,015 In the back of my head, I kind of wonder that, if jenna is-- 689 00:28:55,050 --> 00:28:55,983 'cause she does this. 690 00:28:56,018 --> 00:28:59,253 She avoids things to avoid confrontation. 691 00:29:00,256 --> 00:29:02,856 And I was really hoping that jenna was gonna 692 00:29:02,892 --> 00:29:04,291 be able to come over tonight, so we can 693 00:29:04,326 --> 00:29:05,526 kind of put everything behind us. 694 00:29:06,228 --> 00:29:07,094 Baptism's coming up. 695 00:29:07,129 --> 00:29:08,962 I'm really looking forward to that. 696 00:29:08,998 --> 00:29:10,898 I'm a little bit nervous, though, 'cause just... 697 00:29:12,401 --> 00:29:13,867 ...How bad it's been for so long. 698 00:29:19,942 --> 00:29:20,874 I don't know. 699 00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:25,045 I'm telling you. 700 00:29:25,080 --> 00:29:26,580 You're thinking about another-- 701 00:29:26,615 --> 00:29:28,582 -yes, you are. -There's only one goddamn way. 702 00:29:28,617 --> 00:29:29,550 No, it's not. 703 00:29:29,585 --> 00:29:30,851 No, there's not, mom. 704 00:29:30,886 --> 00:29:32,519 Me and my mom, we're too much alike 705 00:29:32,555 --> 00:29:34,388 and that's why we always argue. 706 00:29:34,423 --> 00:29:35,856 Shut up! Shut up! 707 00:29:46,318 --> 00:29:47,451 Thank you. 708 00:29:52,057 --> 00:29:54,124 -Here. Walk with mommy. -[tiarra] here. Come here, baby, 709 00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,894 -oh, her blanket. -I have it. 710 00:29:56,929 --> 00:29:59,396 I've been traveling from maryland to kentucky 711 00:29:59,431 --> 00:30:01,131 every time I have a doctor's appointment 712 00:30:01,167 --> 00:30:02,065 for this new baby. 713 00:30:04,336 --> 00:30:06,637 It's not only hard being away from dee, 714 00:30:06,672 --> 00:30:09,139 it's also hard to travel with a two-year-old. 715 00:30:09,175 --> 00:30:10,808 It's always very stressful. 716 00:30:10,843 --> 00:30:13,043 So I am very thankful for tyra's help 717 00:30:13,078 --> 00:30:15,913 because when it's just me and ella, it's a lot harder. 718 00:30:24,890 --> 00:30:26,156 [tyra] cuddle with her. 719 00:30:26,192 --> 00:30:28,058 I like being pregnant until I get fat. 720 00:30:28,093 --> 00:30:30,027 And right now I'm fat so... [chuckles] 721 00:30:30,896 --> 00:30:31,895 I feel like I'm starting to get 722 00:30:31,931 --> 00:30:34,264 maybe a little bit more moody and ill now 723 00:30:34,300 --> 00:30:35,732 since I'm getting further along. 724 00:30:35,768 --> 00:30:38,669 Um, I'm gaining so much more weight, 725 00:30:38,704 --> 00:30:41,071 which is putting more pain on me. 726 00:30:41,106 --> 00:30:43,874 And recently, I've been having some type of contractions 727 00:30:43,909 --> 00:30:46,076 and they hurt so bad. 728 00:30:46,111 --> 00:30:49,146 I'm just very stressed out about going back to kentucky. 729 00:30:49,181 --> 00:30:52,015 Having these because, you know, I could honestly 730 00:30:52,051 --> 00:30:54,051 go in labor any time, I feel like. 731 00:30:59,325 --> 00:30:59,990 [tiarra speaking] 732 00:31:00,626 --> 00:31:01,291 [tyra speaking] 733 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,140 I think this is the way we're supposed to go. 734 00:31:18,344 --> 00:31:19,343 Give her a hug. 735 00:31:20,746 --> 00:31:21,879 No, don't hit me. 736 00:31:22,948 --> 00:31:24,448 I went to the wrong spot. 737 00:31:26,518 --> 00:31:29,953 I went to the departure rather than arrival. 738 00:31:31,190 --> 00:31:32,389 Oh, lord. 739 00:31:36,762 --> 00:31:39,129 [michelle] I work night shift. 740 00:31:39,164 --> 00:31:42,132 So, I'm overexhausted from work last night. 741 00:31:42,167 --> 00:31:43,433 [tyra] mimi! 742 00:31:43,469 --> 00:31:45,035 -[car honks] -[ella calls out] 743 00:31:45,070 --> 00:31:46,603 [michelle] but I wouldn't want 744 00:31:46,639 --> 00:31:48,505 no one else to take my daughters 745 00:31:48,540 --> 00:31:51,541 to the airport or pick them up besides me. 746 00:31:51,577 --> 00:31:52,609 You have to get in your car seat. 747 00:31:52,645 --> 00:31:53,610 You gotta get in the car seat. 748 00:31:53,646 --> 00:31:55,178 There's already one back there. 749 00:31:55,214 --> 00:31:57,381 -[michelle] hi, pudding butt! -There's one back there. Get in your car seat. 750 00:31:57,416 --> 00:32:00,217 Hurry. Hurry. Give mimi hug. 751 00:32:00,252 --> 00:32:03,320 -[tiarra] here. Take the toys. -Mwah. I love you so much. 752 00:32:03,355 --> 00:32:05,355 Me and my mom have a close relationship. 753 00:32:05,391 --> 00:32:06,823 I feel like sometimes it's too close 754 00:32:06,859 --> 00:32:08,191 and we're too much alike. 755 00:32:08,227 --> 00:32:11,161 And that's why we always argue and we don't get along. 756 00:32:11,196 --> 00:32:13,530 But my mom is always there whenever I need her. 757 00:32:13,565 --> 00:32:15,265 Even if we had just had a huge argument 758 00:32:15,301 --> 00:32:16,934 and we haven't agreed to things, 759 00:32:16,969 --> 00:32:18,735 my mom's still gonna be there regardless. 760 00:32:20,372 --> 00:32:22,239 Tiarra, what's your plans for this week 761 00:32:22,274 --> 00:32:24,341 while you're here just a little bit of time? 762 00:32:25,511 --> 00:32:28,145 I have an ultrasound appointment tomorrow 763 00:32:28,180 --> 00:32:30,414 and then I have a regular ob appointment. 764 00:32:30,449 --> 00:32:32,499 The way that I told my mom I was pregnant 765 00:32:32,534 --> 00:32:36,019 for the second time was I put a t-shirt on ella 766 00:32:36,055 --> 00:32:38,221 that says, "I'm going to be a big sister." 767 00:32:38,257 --> 00:32:41,725 and I sent it in a group chat with her and my sister. 768 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:44,127 [mimi] so, I got the picture of ella and I was like, 769 00:32:44,163 --> 00:32:45,228 "oh, that's so cute." 770 00:32:45,264 --> 00:32:46,496 [mimi speaking] 771 00:32:46,532 --> 00:32:49,299 -[chuckles] -and I'm like, "read the shirt!" 772 00:32:49,335 --> 00:32:50,467 "like, she's gonna be a big sister. 773 00:32:50,502 --> 00:32:51,368 Like, I'm pregnant." 774 00:32:51,403 --> 00:32:52,569 [mimi] that was a cute picture though. 775 00:32:54,540 --> 00:32:55,639 I'm not as worried 776 00:32:55,674 --> 00:32:58,108 about tiarra being pregnant for the second time. 777 00:32:58,143 --> 00:32:59,843 'cause I've seen how good she was with ella 778 00:32:59,878 --> 00:33:02,412 so I know she'll be a good mama to the second one. 779 00:33:02,448 --> 00:33:03,947 But I was worried the first time 780 00:33:03,983 --> 00:33:05,415 when she was pregnant with ella 781 00:33:05,451 --> 00:33:07,451 because she was only 15. 782 00:33:07,486 --> 00:33:09,686 And I didn't even know she was sexually active. 783 00:33:10,856 --> 00:33:12,656 She always said that she wasn't into that. 784 00:33:13,659 --> 00:33:16,226 And dee was her first boyfriend. 785 00:33:16,261 --> 00:33:19,363 And we was going to the gym. 786 00:33:19,398 --> 00:33:21,898 And tiarra wants food, but she's throwing up. 787 00:33:23,202 --> 00:33:25,936 And I'm like, "tiarra, are you pregnant?" 788 00:33:25,971 --> 00:33:29,473 she said, "no, mom, I'm still a virgin." 789 00:33:29,508 --> 00:33:31,174 I was walking back and forth, like, 790 00:33:31,210 --> 00:33:32,876 "what the hell am I gonna do now?" 791 00:33:32,911 --> 00:33:34,544 you know what I mean? 792 00:33:34,580 --> 00:33:37,581 So, it was really, like, a big, big shock to me. 793 00:33:39,284 --> 00:33:40,550 That's how I found out she was pregnant 794 00:33:40,586 --> 00:33:43,286 and lost her virginity at the same [bleep] time! 795 00:33:43,322 --> 00:33:43,987 [laughing] 796 00:33:44,556 --> 00:33:45,722 I can't deal, mom. 797 00:33:45,758 --> 00:33:48,759 -Don't start this dumb [bleep] . -[chuckles] 798 00:33:52,598 --> 00:33:54,097 [tiarra] but we exit 98, mom. 799 00:33:54,633 --> 00:33:56,099 No, 35. 800 00:33:56,135 --> 00:33:58,402 -[tiarra] mom, 98 was right there. I just-- -I know. 801 00:33:58,437 --> 00:34:00,337 We're not getting off at the exit, tiarra. 802 00:34:00,372 --> 00:34:01,304 I'm just jumping over here. 803 00:34:01,340 --> 00:34:03,840 Ninety-eight. I typed in springfield. 804 00:34:03,876 --> 00:34:06,543 You take exit 98. 805 00:34:06,578 --> 00:34:10,313 Mom thought an exit went from 98 to 36 and it does not. 806 00:34:10,349 --> 00:34:14,484 Actually, the exit is 35 and it doesn't go like that. 807 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,953 You have to go down the road, like-- 808 00:34:16,989 --> 00:34:18,488 okay, you drive interstates all the time. 809 00:34:18,524 --> 00:34:21,591 How long would it take to get from a 98 to a 35? 810 00:34:21,627 --> 00:34:22,926 Please, somebody, I just wanna know. 811 00:34:22,961 --> 00:34:24,027 How long would it take? 812 00:34:24,063 --> 00:34:25,262 It would take, like, at least an hour. Am I right? 813 00:34:26,698 --> 00:34:28,331 Okay. Exactly. Mom, an hour? 814 00:34:28,367 --> 00:34:30,767 We would have been in [bleep] michigan. 815 00:34:30,803 --> 00:34:33,837 -From springfield. -[laughs] no, it doesn't. It doesn't. 816 00:34:33,872 --> 00:34:36,139 -Do you know how many times I drive this? -The 35 isn't on this. 817 00:34:36,175 --> 00:34:37,874 -Yes, it is. -No, it's not on this one. 818 00:34:37,910 --> 00:34:39,342 No, it's not. It's on the other exit. 819 00:34:39,378 --> 00:34:41,011 If we go up, mom, it's not gonna go back down. 820 00:34:41,046 --> 00:34:42,512 I know which exit you're talking about, 821 00:34:42,548 --> 00:34:44,014 but it's not on this one. 822 00:34:44,049 --> 00:34:46,516 -[mimi] no, it's not. It all runs together, tyra. -[tyra] yes, it is. 823 00:34:46,552 --> 00:34:48,318 I'm telling you. You're thinking about another-- 824 00:34:48,353 --> 00:34:50,587 -yes, you are. -There's only one god damn way! 825 00:34:50,622 --> 00:34:53,123 -No, it's not. -[tiarra] no, there's not, mom. 826 00:34:53,158 --> 00:34:54,558 -Okay. -The way I always go. 827 00:34:54,593 --> 00:34:56,326 [tiarra] okay, mom, I'm glad you know everything. 828 00:34:59,631 --> 00:35:00,297 It is, too! 829 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,633 -I mean, damn. -Shut up. Shut up. 830 00:35:03,669 --> 00:35:05,168 -You're [bleep] nuts. -[tiarra chuckles] 831 00:35:06,672 --> 00:35:09,606 you all woke me up, bitching. I didn't do nothing. 832 00:35:09,641 --> 00:35:11,741 [tiarra] neither one of you all can [bleep] drive. 833 00:35:11,777 --> 00:35:13,076 I pray to god that I don't go into labor 834 00:35:13,112 --> 00:35:14,377 while I'm in kentucky because I don't know 835 00:35:14,413 --> 00:35:16,179 that I can rely on these two. 836 00:35:16,215 --> 00:35:17,481 [all laughing] 837 00:35:18,884 --> 00:35:21,485 [kylen] we wanna do a water birth, I think. 838 00:35:23,355 --> 00:35:24,354 [laughs] I don't know. 839 00:35:24,389 --> 00:35:27,023 We feel like jason is controlling everything. 840 00:35:27,059 --> 00:35:30,026 And, uh, we're concerned that she's walking 841 00:35:30,062 --> 00:35:32,529 into a birth plan that's set up 842 00:35:32,564 --> 00:35:34,531 for his needs and not hers. 843 00:35:37,269 --> 00:35:39,319 ♪ I'm unstoppable ♪ 844 00:35:39,354 --> 00:35:42,489 ♪ here to prove that anything's possible ♪ 845 00:35:43,859 --> 00:35:45,158 ♪ unstoppable ♪ 846 00:35:46,528 --> 00:35:48,895 [michael] you wanna do it or you want me to? 847 00:35:48,931 --> 00:35:49,930 You can if you want. 848 00:35:52,534 --> 00:35:53,834 [kylen] okay, dad, that's enough. 849 00:35:55,404 --> 00:35:58,839 -I don't know if she knows it, but we miss her. -[chuckles] yeah. 850 00:36:00,475 --> 00:36:03,143 [michael] it's so nice to have you guys over. 851 00:36:03,178 --> 00:36:05,712 [marie] kylen moved in with jason's parents. 852 00:36:05,747 --> 00:36:10,283 And I'd like to see more of her, but... 853 00:36:10,319 --> 00:36:12,219 [kylen] I've gotta grow up at some point. 854 00:36:12,855 --> 00:36:14,921 You did. You are. 855 00:36:14,957 --> 00:36:17,557 And even if you don't want to, you have no choice now. 856 00:36:18,727 --> 00:36:20,727 [voice shaking] no, I don't. I have to. 857 00:36:21,230 --> 00:36:22,362 But, yeah. 858 00:36:23,532 --> 00:36:25,932 Are you getting excited or scared? 859 00:36:27,469 --> 00:36:29,236 Both, I guess. I don't know. 860 00:36:30,205 --> 00:36:32,372 [marie] how was your visit with the midwives? 861 00:36:32,407 --> 00:36:33,506 Did you feel comfortable? 862 00:36:34,776 --> 00:36:36,209 Yeah? 863 00:36:36,245 --> 00:36:39,246 The hospital looks down on teenage pregnancies 864 00:36:39,281 --> 00:36:41,047 or, like, single parents. 865 00:36:41,083 --> 00:36:42,115 [jason speaking] 866 00:36:52,895 --> 00:36:55,028 [michael] I was surprised you guys didn't want 867 00:36:55,063 --> 00:36:56,463 to give birth in the hospital. 868 00:36:57,232 --> 00:36:59,099 It's just a better environment. 869 00:37:00,035 --> 00:37:02,569 And at this midwife's, they talk to him, 870 00:37:02,604 --> 00:37:05,105 ask questions to him. 871 00:37:05,140 --> 00:37:08,008 See how he's doing, how he feels with it. 872 00:37:08,043 --> 00:37:09,142 [jason] yeah, they definitely do. 873 00:37:09,177 --> 00:37:10,744 They include me more than the hospital does. 874 00:37:12,915 --> 00:37:14,547 He wants to be involved with it all. 875 00:37:14,583 --> 00:37:16,283 Otherwise, he gets a little upset. 876 00:37:16,318 --> 00:37:17,817 -Yeah. -Well-- 877 00:37:17,853 --> 00:37:21,454 -he goes to his appointments. -Every one. And for the rest of the time being 878 00:37:21,490 --> 00:37:23,089 of me having baby appointments, 879 00:37:23,125 --> 00:37:24,190 it was just him. 880 00:37:25,527 --> 00:37:27,427 [michael] yeah, but I believe... 881 00:37:27,462 --> 00:37:29,496 She would've loved it if she could've been 882 00:37:29,531 --> 00:37:32,065 going to them appointments with her daughter. 883 00:37:32,100 --> 00:37:34,501 Mother and daughter thing, you know, with the grandchild. 884 00:37:34,536 --> 00:37:36,803 -It's a dad thing. -Yeah, yeah. 885 00:37:37,572 --> 00:37:40,540 Yeah, but it's a mom thing, too. 886 00:37:40,575 --> 00:37:43,376 Yeah, probably, I don't know how it is. 887 00:37:43,412 --> 00:37:45,812 I'm not saying it's bad that way. 888 00:37:46,315 --> 00:37:47,814 But I'm just--- 889 00:37:50,185 --> 00:37:53,119 I'm saying your mother would've felt good-- 890 00:37:53,155 --> 00:37:55,755 -yeah. -...Once or twice to go with her daughter to-- 891 00:37:55,791 --> 00:37:57,090 -yes! -...Like, an appointment-- 892 00:37:57,125 --> 00:37:59,960 -...And spend some time with you. -[kylen] okay. 893 00:37:59,995 --> 00:38:02,595 -I'm the fly that she flicks off her shoulder. -[laughs] 894 00:38:03,999 --> 00:38:06,232 no, it kind of means just shut up. [chuckles] 895 00:38:06,268 --> 00:38:06,933 stop. 896 00:38:10,038 --> 00:38:12,005 What are you planning for your birth? 897 00:38:13,342 --> 00:38:14,774 [kylen] we wanna do a water birth. 898 00:38:17,045 --> 00:38:17,811 I think. 899 00:38:18,246 --> 00:38:18,912 [jason speaking] 900 00:38:19,681 --> 00:38:20,480 [chuckles] I don't know. 901 00:38:22,818 --> 00:38:25,085 They have a big two-person tub that you sit in. 902 00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,387 Does that mean you deliver? 903 00:38:27,422 --> 00:38:28,955 -You get to catch him? -Yeah. 904 00:38:30,225 --> 00:38:32,659 It's almost like when I'm talking to my daughter, 905 00:38:32,694 --> 00:38:34,194 I'm talking to my daughter through him. 906 00:38:35,197 --> 00:38:37,630 I'm not actually talking to my daughter. 907 00:38:40,035 --> 00:38:42,769 We feel like jason's controlling everything. 908 00:38:42,804 --> 00:38:45,372 And, uh, we're concerned that she's 909 00:38:45,407 --> 00:38:48,975 walking into a birth plan that's set up 910 00:38:49,011 --> 00:38:51,011 for his needs and not hers. 911 00:38:51,046 --> 00:38:53,079 Yeah. 912 00:38:53,115 --> 00:38:55,582 She's the one having the baby, not him. 913 00:38:58,487 --> 00:39:01,554 We probably want you guys coming in, like... 914 00:39:01,590 --> 00:39:04,424 Right after we give birth or a little bit after. 915 00:39:04,459 --> 00:39:07,027 -An hour after, maybe? -Come see the baby. 916 00:39:09,531 --> 00:39:11,297 I'll probably be in the parking lot 917 00:39:11,333 --> 00:39:12,599 doing donuts. 918 00:39:12,634 --> 00:39:14,334 [both laughing] 919 00:39:14,369 --> 00:39:16,169 -waiting for it to be born. -Hmm. 920 00:39:18,006 --> 00:39:19,506 I just wanna see the baby. 921 00:39:27,682 --> 00:39:30,550 No. Uh, next question. 922 00:39:32,087 --> 00:39:33,787 I'm not trying to start issues. 923 00:39:34,523 --> 00:39:36,256 We were thinking moms, but... 924 00:39:40,629 --> 00:39:41,394 [scoffs] 925 00:39:41,963 --> 00:39:42,662 it's... 926 00:39:43,365 --> 00:39:44,164 If he would... 927 00:39:45,634 --> 00:39:47,634 Yeah. I gotta talk to jason. 928 00:39:53,141 --> 00:39:54,474 [kylen] mmm. 929 00:39:54,509 --> 00:39:57,911 -Don't answer. -I'm her mom. 930 00:39:57,946 --> 00:40:00,680 And you're having a baby. That's a big thing. 931 00:40:00,715 --> 00:40:03,183 -I said don't answer. -[stammers] okay. 932 00:40:05,754 --> 00:40:06,853 -Well-- -no. 933 00:40:06,888 --> 00:40:07,587 [exhales] 934 00:40:08,924 --> 00:40:10,223 well, when you go have that baby, 935 00:40:10,258 --> 00:40:11,357 I'm gonna be worried. 936 00:40:11,393 --> 00:40:13,860 And I'm gonna worry until I know what's going on. 937 00:40:13,895 --> 00:40:14,828 I'll be fine. 938 00:40:17,466 --> 00:40:19,199 [narrator] next time on unexpected... 939 00:40:19,234 --> 00:40:21,301 She said a man can lactate. 940 00:40:21,336 --> 00:40:23,036 Is that true? 941 00:40:23,071 --> 00:40:26,039 I feel like if we were to take more classes, 942 00:40:26,074 --> 00:40:29,075 I'd feel more prepared, but I do not think I'm ready. 943 00:40:29,511 --> 00:40:31,111 Nope. 944 00:40:31,146 --> 00:40:34,347 [jenna] I'm nervous about seeing my parents today. 945 00:40:34,382 --> 00:40:36,182 My dad's petty. 946 00:40:36,218 --> 00:40:39,385 My mom is crazy. 947 00:40:39,421 --> 00:40:41,287 Put that in a pot and... [mimics explosion] 948 00:40:42,057 --> 00:40:44,023 [doctor] your iron is super low. 949 00:40:44,059 --> 00:40:45,692 I suggest that you restart the iron. 950 00:40:45,727 --> 00:40:47,694 [tiarra] I do have, like, low iron right now. 951 00:40:47,729 --> 00:40:49,129 And that's concerning 952 00:40:49,164 --> 00:40:51,431 because I could bleed out going into labor, 953 00:40:51,466 --> 00:40:52,765 especially with having a c-section. 954 00:40:52,801 --> 00:40:54,868 And, like, I'm terrified. 955 00:40:54,903 --> 00:40:57,303 First, you go ahead and get in and then I'll work my way. 956 00:40:57,339 --> 00:40:58,171 I'm taylor. 957 00:40:58,206 --> 00:41:00,807 I'm 20, and I'm also pregnant again. 958 00:41:00,842 --> 00:41:03,009 I wonder what they have to say about the pregnancy pact now 959 00:41:03,044 --> 00:41:03,877 because I'm not pregnant. 960 00:41:04,412 --> 00:41:05,545 Guess you broke it. 961 00:41:06,715 --> 00:41:09,082 [lilly] we have a pretty solid plan. 962 00:41:09,117 --> 00:41:10,650 Hopefully, packing the moving truck 963 00:41:10,685 --> 00:41:12,719 and the move-in day will go smoothly. 964 00:41:12,754 --> 00:41:14,454 [lawrence] she didn't tell me anything. 965 00:41:14,489 --> 00:41:16,856 -[kim] lawrence! -We told you this probably about 50 times! 966 00:41:16,892 --> 00:41:18,691 -[lawrence] you didn't. -[lilly] we're loading the truck. 967 00:41:18,727 --> 00:41:20,827 -[lawrence] no. -We've been telling you this for weeks. 968 00:41:20,862 --> 00:41:23,263 Men just don't [bleep] listen.