1 00:00:11,011 --> 00:00:12,211 [girl] Previously on Unexpected... 2 00:00:12,246 --> 00:00:13,476 Jenna just sent me a text. 3 00:00:13,514 --> 00:00:15,924 Said, "Hey, I don’t think we’re gonna be able to come up." 4 00:00:15,949 --> 00:00:18,749 I was really hoping that Jenna was gonna be able to come over tonight 5 00:00:18,785 --> 00:00:20,415 so we can kinda put everything behind us. 6 00:00:20,454 --> 00:00:22,394 Luca’s baptism’s coming up. 7 00:00:22,422 --> 00:00:24,622 My dad told me to get the F out, 8 00:00:24,658 --> 00:00:26,428 so I got the F out. 9 00:00:27,561 --> 00:00:29,161 [Emersyn] Don’t I look like I popped more? 10 00:00:29,196 --> 00:00:30,556 Yes, you look very pregnant. 11 00:00:30,597 --> 00:00:34,697 Him being a father most definitely has not sunk in yet. 12 00:00:35,235 --> 00:00:36,795 Hasn’t for me either. 13 00:00:36,837 --> 00:00:40,767 [Ramirez] He doesn’t know what he’s getting into here or what’s gonna happen. 14 00:00:40,807 --> 00:00:43,337 Tiarra, what’s your plans for this week while you’re here? 15 00:00:43,377 --> 00:00:45,707 [Tiarra] I have a OB appointment. 16 00:00:45,746 --> 00:00:48,146 Recently, I’ve been having some type of contractions, 17 00:00:48,181 --> 00:00:49,751 and they hurt so bad. 18 00:00:49,783 --> 00:00:52,493 I’m just very stressed out because, you know, 19 00:00:52,519 --> 00:00:55,159 I could honestly go in labor at any time, I feel like. 20 00:00:56,423 --> 00:00:57,863 We’re moving out! 21 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:03,230 He’s cheap and I spend too much, 22 00:01:03,263 --> 00:01:05,003 and it’s like, "You have the money, 23 00:01:05,032 --> 00:01:06,532 so give me the [bleep] money." 24 00:01:06,567 --> 00:01:09,197 He might have a nervous breakdown. 25 00:01:09,236 --> 00:01:12,166 [Scott] Both you guys have to make an... An educated decision 26 00:01:12,205 --> 00:01:14,135 before you make your final decision. 27 00:01:16,043 --> 00:01:17,143 [Scott] When you’re 18, 28 00:01:17,177 --> 00:01:18,977 you’ve got life all figured out. 29 00:01:19,012 --> 00:01:21,782 No, I don’t like their [bleep] opinions on my life 30 00:01:21,815 --> 00:01:22,915 ’cause it’s my life, 31 00:01:22,950 --> 00:01:24,420 and even if it’s the wrong thing, 32 00:01:24,451 --> 00:01:25,951 I’ll figure it out my way. 33 00:01:37,531 --> 00:01:38,531 [babies squealing] 34 00:01:42,069 --> 00:01:44,439 Are you tickling Layla? 35 00:01:44,471 --> 00:01:46,971 I’ve been traveling from Maryland to Kentucky 36 00:01:47,007 --> 00:01:49,607 every time I have a doctor’s appointment for this new baby. 37 00:01:50,377 --> 00:01:51,577 That kinda sucks, 38 00:01:51,612 --> 00:01:53,752 but I like having the help in Kentucky. 39 00:01:53,780 --> 00:01:55,480 -Give me hugs, Ella! -[Ella] Mom! 40 00:01:55,515 --> 00:01:57,315 -Come here. -No! 41 00:01:57,351 --> 00:01:59,921 [Tiarra] I’m going bye-bye, but I’ll be back to get you in a little bit, okay? 42 00:01:59,953 --> 00:02:01,293 Love you. Give me a kiss. 43 00:02:01,321 --> 00:02:03,261 -[blows raspberry] Be good for mama. -[Melissa] What about Me-Me? 44 00:02:03,290 --> 00:02:05,020 [Tiarra] Call Mommy if Mo-Mo bes mean to you, okay? 45 00:02:05,058 --> 00:02:06,228 [Ella] Okay. 46 00:02:06,259 --> 00:02:07,589 [Tiarra] I love you so big! 47 00:02:07,628 --> 00:02:08,628 [Ella speaking] 48 00:02:09,863 --> 00:02:11,663 I’m wiping all your kisses off. 49 00:02:11,698 --> 00:02:13,928 It’s been pretty hard living in Maryland 50 00:02:13,967 --> 00:02:16,137 just because Dee works 48 hour shifts, 51 00:02:16,169 --> 00:02:17,499 and then he’s off 48 hours, 52 00:02:17,537 --> 00:02:20,407 so he does two days on, two days off, 53 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:24,080 so most of the time, I’m there by myself with Ella, 54 00:02:24,111 --> 00:02:25,681 32 weeks pregnant, 55 00:02:25,712 --> 00:02:28,352 so it’s, like, very, very stressful. 56 00:02:28,382 --> 00:02:30,282 Okay, Mom, we need to be leaving for my appointment. 57 00:02:30,317 --> 00:02:31,647 Bye, girls! 58 00:02:31,685 --> 00:02:33,195 -Bye, Layla! -[Tyra] We’re gonna be having more fun than y’all! 59 00:02:33,220 --> 00:02:34,420 -Bye. -[indistinct] 60 00:02:35,155 --> 00:02:36,715 -[Ella] Bye! -Love you. 61 00:02:36,757 --> 00:02:38,157 Oh, okay. 62 00:02:38,191 --> 00:02:39,191 [Tyra] Yeah. 63 00:02:42,996 --> 00:02:44,096 [Tiarra] It’s 9:43. 64 00:02:44,131 --> 00:02:45,901 We have to be there at 10:25. 65 00:02:50,070 --> 00:02:52,210 So, today, I have a doctor’s appointment, 66 00:02:52,239 --> 00:02:56,409 and I’ve been having some type of feeling like contractions 67 00:02:56,443 --> 00:02:58,013 uh, maybe Braxton Hicks. 68 00:02:58,045 --> 00:03:00,715 Not really sure. I just know it hurts really bad, 69 00:03:00,747 --> 00:03:02,747 so it’s important that I know what’s going on. 70 00:03:03,617 --> 00:03:05,447 -[Chanille] Good morning! -[Tiarra] Hi. 71 00:03:05,485 --> 00:03:07,315 -[Chanille] How we doing, Tiarra? -[Tiarra] Good. 72 00:03:07,354 --> 00:03:08,394 [Chanille] Good to see you! 73 00:03:08,422 --> 00:03:10,492 So, tell me how things are going, girl. 74 00:03:10,524 --> 00:03:12,794 [Tiarra] Um, I’ve been feeling like maybe I’m having, like, 75 00:03:12,826 --> 00:03:15,496 -some type of Braxton Hicks or something. -[Chanille] Uh-huh. 76 00:03:15,529 --> 00:03:17,029 [Tiarra] At first, I thought it was contractions, 77 00:03:17,064 --> 00:03:19,134 ’cause it was, like... They were, like, back to back to back... 78 00:03:19,166 --> 00:03:21,666 -[Chanille] Sure, sure. -[Tiarra] ...and it was, like, really bad in my back. 79 00:03:21,702 --> 00:03:24,042 [Chanille] Uh-huh. How have you been since then? 80 00:03:24,071 --> 00:03:25,071 [Tiarra speaking] 81 00:03:25,772 --> 00:03:26,812 [Chanille] Okay. 82 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:28,710 Sometimes, with babies’ position, 83 00:03:28,742 --> 00:03:31,312 your back can hurt more often than normal. 84 00:03:31,344 --> 00:03:32,814 You can do a little cat and cow. 85 00:03:32,846 --> 00:03:34,846 You can kinda arch your back to the front 86 00:03:34,881 --> 00:03:35,951 and arch your back to the back, 87 00:03:35,982 --> 00:03:38,082 -so I would try that, okay? -[Tiarra] All right. 88 00:03:38,118 --> 00:03:39,948 [Chanille] So, we’re gonna listen and measure you. 89 00:03:39,986 --> 00:03:42,016 Do you have any questions, Melissa, on anything? 90 00:03:42,055 --> 00:03:45,785 [Melissa] Um, C-section date. Have y’all thought about that? 91 00:03:45,826 --> 00:03:46,956 [Tiarra] Another girl last time, 92 00:03:46,993 --> 00:03:48,363 she told me that I would schedule it this time, 93 00:03:48,395 --> 00:03:49,705 which I’m trying... 94 00:03:49,730 --> 00:03:51,970 -Trying to transition doctors anyways, so... -[Chanille] Yeah. 95 00:03:54,067 --> 00:03:55,397 [Tiarra] So, I’m gonna try that 96 00:03:55,435 --> 00:03:57,835 -’cause it’s more convenient for me. -[Chanille] Yes. 97 00:03:57,871 --> 00:03:59,641 Because I had a C-section with Ella, 98 00:03:59,673 --> 00:04:02,643 I’m also having to have a C-section with Ensley 99 00:04:02,676 --> 00:04:05,576 because, like, I seen how hard it was to push the first time, 100 00:04:05,612 --> 00:04:07,582 and, like, my body wasn’t cooperating. 101 00:04:07,614 --> 00:04:09,854 It’s also very dangerous for me 102 00:04:09,883 --> 00:04:12,853 to try to have a vaginal birth after a C-section 103 00:04:12,886 --> 00:04:15,856 because, like, that scar can open up, 104 00:04:15,889 --> 00:04:18,829 or, like, it’s easier to get infections and stuff like that after, 105 00:04:18,859 --> 00:04:21,529 and I just don’t wanna take that risk. 106 00:04:21,561 --> 00:04:25,161 I just hope it’s not too late for me to schedule a C-section in Maryland. 107 00:04:33,607 --> 00:04:34,607 [Chanille speaking] 108 00:04:41,114 --> 00:04:42,124 [Tiarra] My iron. 109 00:04:42,649 --> 00:04:44,279 I was on iron pills, 110 00:04:44,317 --> 00:04:46,487 but I had to stop taking ’em ’cause they were making me so sick. 111 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:48,390 My iron is very low, 112 00:04:48,421 --> 00:04:51,721 so I feel like it’s important for me to take my iron pills, 113 00:04:51,758 --> 00:04:54,488 but they make me feel like I’m dying. That’s how sick. 114 00:04:54,528 --> 00:04:57,828 Like, my stomach starts cramping, like, 115 00:04:57,864 --> 00:05:01,234 throwing up and I get headaches, dizzy, everything. 116 00:05:01,268 --> 00:05:02,538 It’s really bad. 117 00:05:02,569 --> 00:05:04,339 Don’t you think it’s best to take those, 118 00:05:04,371 --> 00:05:07,711 especially at maybe nighttime, before you go to bed? 119 00:05:07,741 --> 00:05:11,441 I’d rather have full energy to deal with my toddler than to be sick. 120 00:05:13,613 --> 00:05:15,353 [Chanille] Depending on where your, um... 121 00:05:16,349 --> 00:05:17,949 -...iron is at... -[Tiarra] Thank you. 122 00:05:18,885 --> 00:05:20,345 [Chanille] ...I may... 123 00:05:20,387 --> 00:05:21,947 You know, we’ll see how it is. 124 00:05:21,988 --> 00:05:23,618 If it’s... If it’s super low, 125 00:05:23,657 --> 00:05:26,327 I may, um, suggest that you restart the iron, 126 00:05:26,359 --> 00:05:27,459 but take it every other day. 127 00:05:28,829 --> 00:05:30,629 -Okay? -[Tiarra] Okay. 128 00:05:30,664 --> 00:05:32,934 [Chanille] But you know you can always, you know, get ahold of us. 129 00:05:34,201 --> 00:05:36,001 -[Tiarra] Okay. -[Chanille] All right, girl. Good to see you. 130 00:05:36,036 --> 00:05:37,096 -Nice to meet you. -[Tiarra] You, too. 131 00:05:37,137 --> 00:05:38,397 So, do I just go ahead and go to the lab? 132 00:05:38,438 --> 00:05:40,068 [Chanille] Yep, you can go ahead and go around to the lab. 133 00:05:40,106 --> 00:05:41,766 You sure can. 134 00:05:41,808 --> 00:05:44,408 [Tiarra] With no iron, like, there’s just so many things that could go wrong. 135 00:05:44,444 --> 00:05:46,114 For one, it could make you go into early labor, 136 00:05:46,146 --> 00:05:48,376 which is... Could be why I was having contractions. 137 00:05:48,415 --> 00:05:49,655 So, not only that, but, like, 138 00:05:49,683 --> 00:05:51,483 I could bleed out going into labor, 139 00:05:51,518 --> 00:05:52,748 especially with having a C-section, 140 00:05:52,786 --> 00:05:54,486 and, like, I’m terrified. 141 00:05:56,890 --> 00:05:59,560 ♪ My life, my life, my life ♪ 142 00:05:59,593 --> 00:06:01,833 ♪ started once I met you♪ 143 00:06:01,862 --> 00:06:02,862 ♪ met you ♪ 144 00:06:04,097 --> 00:06:05,297 ♪ once I met you ♪ 145 00:06:08,034 --> 00:06:09,204 Hi. 146 00:06:09,236 --> 00:06:11,236 Hey, welcome to class. 147 00:06:12,939 --> 00:06:14,039 All right. 148 00:06:14,074 --> 00:06:16,684 Let’s talk a little bit about childbirth education. 149 00:06:17,744 --> 00:06:19,384 [Emersyn] I’m 38 weeks pregnant, 150 00:06:19,412 --> 00:06:23,382 and even though I’ve already got my little baby experience 151 00:06:23,416 --> 00:06:25,446 since my mom just had Vihaan, 152 00:06:25,485 --> 00:06:27,815 both sets of parents have been honest 153 00:06:27,854 --> 00:06:31,164 about getting prepared before the baby arrives, 154 00:06:31,191 --> 00:06:33,431 which is happening very soon, 155 00:06:33,460 --> 00:06:35,160 so we’re taking a birthing class 156 00:06:35,195 --> 00:06:36,605 to learn what to expect. 157 00:06:38,832 --> 00:06:40,532 So, this is a dilation chart. 158 00:06:42,168 --> 00:06:43,938 Wow. 159 00:06:43,970 --> 00:06:45,840 The goal is to get to 10 centimeters. 160 00:06:46,373 --> 00:06:47,513 Oh, my gosh. 161 00:06:47,540 --> 00:06:49,180 [Emily] Does that freak you out a little bit? [laughs] 162 00:06:49,209 --> 00:06:50,679 Yeah, that freaks me out. 163 00:06:50,710 --> 00:06:53,810 -Just so you know, everything goes right back to normal. -[Emersyn] Yeah. 164 00:06:53,847 --> 00:06:56,617 It goes right back to prepregnancy dilation. 165 00:06:58,285 --> 00:07:00,055 [Emersyn] Seeing the chart... 166 00:07:00,086 --> 00:07:02,256 The dilation chart really freaked me out 167 00:07:02,289 --> 00:07:03,959 ’cause I was like, "I’m gonna be that?" 168 00:07:05,558 --> 00:07:07,228 ’Cause I was like, "Oh, 10 inches, 169 00:07:07,260 --> 00:07:08,590 10 centimeters, whatever," 170 00:07:08,628 --> 00:07:11,528 and then I saw it, and I was like, "No way." 171 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:15,370 Like, there’s no way I’m not gonna need stitches. 172 00:07:17,370 --> 00:07:20,670 All right, so the cervix, it needs to open, 173 00:07:20,707 --> 00:07:23,007 but it also needs to get thinner, 174 00:07:23,043 --> 00:07:25,783 and the baby needs to move down into the pelvis. 175 00:07:26,546 --> 00:07:28,846 So, this is the pelvis. 176 00:07:30,083 --> 00:07:34,523 So, the baby needs to move down into the pelvis. 177 00:07:36,256 --> 00:07:37,756 [Mason] That’d be a big baby. [laughs] 178 00:07:39,059 --> 00:07:40,059 This baby’s big? 179 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:42,260 Well, this baby’s... 180 00:07:42,295 --> 00:07:43,525 Baby’s pretty small, actually. 181 00:07:43,563 --> 00:07:45,773 -[Emersyn] That baby’s pretty small. -Like, long. Like, long. 182 00:07:45,799 --> 00:07:46,829 [Emily] It’s a long baby. 183 00:07:46,866 --> 00:07:48,066 Most babies are, like... 184 00:07:48,101 --> 00:07:49,341 Mmm... 185 00:07:49,369 --> 00:07:52,209 18, 19, 20, 21 inches long. 186 00:07:52,238 --> 00:07:54,268 So, this one’s probably 17 or 18. 187 00:07:57,210 --> 00:07:59,510 [Emily] Oh, no! It’s totally fine! 188 00:07:59,546 --> 00:08:02,646 For him to expect a baby to be that size... 189 00:08:02,682 --> 00:08:04,152 Even I was, like, "What do you mean? 190 00:08:04,184 --> 00:08:06,254 That’s not even a big baby." 191 00:08:06,820 --> 00:08:08,020 Oh, my goodness. 192 00:08:08,054 --> 00:08:10,864 So, that’s why I want him behind my legs in the hospital, 193 00:08:10,890 --> 00:08:11,890 not in front. 194 00:08:12,892 --> 00:08:13,992 ’Cause he might faint. 195 00:08:20,934 --> 00:08:25,174 I’m scared of, like, [bleep] myself during birth. 196 00:08:25,205 --> 00:08:28,245 Yeah, I’m close with Mason, but not that close. 197 00:08:29,376 --> 00:08:30,736 -That’s why-- -You’re about to get close. 198 00:08:30,777 --> 00:08:32,877 That’s why I want him behind, not in front, 199 00:08:32,912 --> 00:08:35,312 and he’s like, "But I wanna see, like, how it happens," 200 00:08:35,348 --> 00:08:36,378 and I’m like, "No." 201 00:08:36,416 --> 00:08:38,116 All modesty is out the window. 202 00:08:38,151 --> 00:08:39,891 -Yeah. -Mmm-hmm. 203 00:08:39,919 --> 00:08:43,119 We also have, um, breastfeeding. 204 00:08:43,990 --> 00:08:45,420 Does breastfeeding hurt? 205 00:08:46,326 --> 00:08:48,226 [Emily] That’s a great question. 206 00:08:48,261 --> 00:08:50,861 It shouldn’t hurt very bad. [laughs] 207 00:08:50,897 --> 00:08:52,597 -No. -[Chelsea] When they get teeth. 208 00:08:53,299 --> 00:08:54,299 [all laughing] 209 00:08:55,735 --> 00:08:58,665 And Mason, something that you can do that’s really helpful 210 00:08:58,705 --> 00:09:01,275 is you can help Emersyn measure her nipples. 211 00:09:02,475 --> 00:09:04,205 Do you wanna try measuring that nipple? 212 00:09:04,244 --> 00:09:05,244 -Sure. -[Emily] All right. 213 00:09:06,279 --> 00:09:09,849 Learning how to measure a nipple was interesting. 214 00:09:09,883 --> 00:09:13,553 Um, I never thought I’d learn how to measure a nipple correctly. 215 00:09:14,421 --> 00:09:16,891 Um, I... [stammers] 216 00:09:16,923 --> 00:09:18,893 I guess you could say it was fun. 217 00:09:18,925 --> 00:09:21,685 Um, how’d you feel about it? 218 00:09:21,728 --> 00:09:23,328 I didn’t know you could measure nipples. 219 00:09:23,363 --> 00:09:26,803 Yeah, I didn’t know there was a specific way to measure nipples either. 220 00:09:28,001 --> 00:09:30,701 So, does anybody have any questions? 221 00:09:32,205 --> 00:09:34,075 You know, I heard there’s a... Okay, okay. 222 00:09:34,107 --> 00:09:35,577 She keeps saying that males... 223 00:09:35,608 --> 00:09:39,848 Like, if a child was in, like, desperate need of milk, 224 00:09:39,879 --> 00:09:41,779 she said a man can lactate. 225 00:09:41,815 --> 00:09:42,955 Is that true? 226 00:09:44,484 --> 00:09:46,294 -I didn’t believe it. -[Emersyn] That’s what I’ve heard. 227 00:09:47,053 --> 00:09:48,053 Just heard about it. 228 00:09:50,056 --> 00:09:51,186 That’s what I heard. 229 00:09:51,224 --> 00:09:54,334 I heard if, like, a baby’s, like, starving 230 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:55,860 and the mom’s not around, 231 00:09:55,895 --> 00:09:58,125 like, apparently, guys can lactate. 232 00:09:58,164 --> 00:09:59,904 So, I was like, "Oh, that’s interesting," 233 00:09:59,933 --> 00:10:01,173 and then I told Mason. 234 00:10:02,669 --> 00:10:04,939 I don’t know if I’m actually scoped to answer that. 235 00:10:04,971 --> 00:10:06,411 I don’t really know. 236 00:10:06,439 --> 00:10:08,569 -You never know. -[Emily laughs] 237 00:10:11,444 --> 00:10:12,984 I feel like if we were to take... 238 00:10:15,181 --> 00:10:16,651 ...more classes, 239 00:10:16,683 --> 00:10:18,083 I’d feel even more prepared. 240 00:10:18,118 --> 00:10:22,488 It did help with, like, a few of the questions about certain things 241 00:10:22,522 --> 00:10:24,222 that I may have had, 242 00:10:24,257 --> 00:10:29,327 but I think I’m ready to be a father. 243 00:10:31,264 --> 00:10:32,474 What? 244 00:10:32,499 --> 00:10:33,529 I don’t think Emersyn... 245 00:10:33,566 --> 00:10:35,296 Emersyn thinks I’m ready, though. 246 00:10:35,335 --> 00:10:36,545 I... You just... Nobody... 247 00:10:36,569 --> 00:10:38,169 I don’t even know what I’m in for, so... 248 00:10:38,204 --> 00:10:39,874 -[Mason] Yeah, that’s good to know. -You just don’t know. 249 00:10:39,906 --> 00:10:41,736 It’s gonna be interesting. 250 00:10:41,774 --> 00:10:43,044 That’s all I have to say. 251 00:10:44,811 --> 00:10:46,511 It will. 252 00:10:46,546 --> 00:10:48,576 You guys are growing up real quick. 253 00:10:48,615 --> 00:10:50,155 Babies, jobs, apartments... 254 00:10:50,183 --> 00:10:52,223 Bang! All in one year. 255 00:10:52,252 --> 00:10:53,952 How’s Lawrence doing? Is he... [stammers] 256 00:10:53,987 --> 00:10:55,147 All gung ho for the apartment? 257 00:10:55,188 --> 00:10:57,418 I am exhausted. I just want to go to sleep. 258 00:10:57,457 --> 00:10:58,787 I don’t want to do any of this right now. 259 00:10:59,792 --> 00:11:01,232 [Jenna] Today’s Luca’s baptism, 260 00:11:01,261 --> 00:11:03,101 and I’m nervous. 261 00:11:03,129 --> 00:11:04,829 My dad’s petty. 262 00:11:04,864 --> 00:11:07,734 My mom is crazy. 263 00:11:07,767 --> 00:11:10,467 So, you put that in a pot and... [mimics explosion] 264 00:11:15,608 --> 00:11:19,008 ♪ And I can’t find a bottle to send you an SOS♪ 265 00:11:20,113 --> 00:11:21,113 ♪ Whoa♪ 266 00:11:21,981 --> 00:11:23,321 ♪ Whoa♪ 267 00:11:23,349 --> 00:11:24,679 [Jenna] We’re almost there, puka. 268 00:11:25,318 --> 00:11:26,688 Almost there. 269 00:11:26,719 --> 00:11:28,549 Then I’ll get you out and you can come sit out front with Mommy. 270 00:11:30,123 --> 00:11:31,123 Okay? 271 00:11:35,094 --> 00:11:38,204 Today’s Luca’s baptism, and I’m nervous 272 00:11:38,231 --> 00:11:41,671 because this is the first time my parents will be at the same event 273 00:11:41,701 --> 00:11:42,741 since the tell-all. 274 00:11:42,769 --> 00:11:44,839 I have deep-rooted issues 275 00:11:44,871 --> 00:11:48,071 with the way Heather had treated Jenna in the past. 276 00:11:48,107 --> 00:11:51,477 -There’s multiple, awful things said. -Oh, my God. 277 00:11:51,511 --> 00:11:53,751 -Like, things that are unspeakable. -You lie. You lie, Matt. 278 00:11:53,780 --> 00:11:54,780 You lie! 279 00:11:55,949 --> 00:11:57,649 My dad’s petty. 280 00:11:57,684 --> 00:11:59,154 My mom is... 281 00:12:01,087 --> 00:12:03,887 ...emotionally crazy. 282 00:12:03,923 --> 00:12:07,063 Um, so you put that in a pot and... [mimics explosion] 283 00:12:10,797 --> 00:12:12,227 Like, if they weren’t my parents, 284 00:12:12,265 --> 00:12:14,675 I would not have communication with those people. 285 00:12:14,701 --> 00:12:15,971 They’re not cool. 286 00:12:16,002 --> 00:12:17,202 -Hi, Mommy. -[Heather] Hi, baby. 287 00:12:17,237 --> 00:12:19,807 -Hi! Hi, baby! -Hey, babe. 288 00:12:19,839 --> 00:12:22,209 My name is Heather, I’m 42, and I’m Jenna’s mom. 289 00:12:23,610 --> 00:12:26,080 [photographer] All right. One, two, three! 290 00:12:26,112 --> 00:12:30,022 Um, I think my relationship with Jenna is great. I do. 291 00:12:30,049 --> 00:12:31,819 Um, I hope she feels the same. 292 00:12:34,587 --> 00:12:35,487 I don’t know. 293 00:12:35,521 --> 00:12:37,121 I think I just hold a lot of resentment 294 00:12:37,757 --> 00:12:39,987 towards both my parents... 295 00:12:41,060 --> 00:12:42,560 ...honestly, 296 00:12:42,595 --> 00:12:47,925 and I think it’s because my childhood was very chaotic. 297 00:12:48,701 --> 00:12:49,901 It was not normal. 298 00:12:50,803 --> 00:12:51,803 [Heather] That’s not fair. 299 00:12:52,472 --> 00:12:54,042 We were young, very young. 300 00:12:55,942 --> 00:12:59,212 It’s not an excuse, but it’s a fact. 301 00:12:59,245 --> 00:13:00,645 Sorry I didn’t get along with your dad, 302 00:13:00,680 --> 00:13:01,810 and he wasn’t always there, 303 00:13:01,848 --> 00:13:03,078 and I regret it, 304 00:13:03,116 --> 00:13:04,316 and I’m sure he does, too, 305 00:13:04,350 --> 00:13:06,750 because we see the outcome. 306 00:13:06,786 --> 00:13:08,846 -And I’m allowed to say that it was chaotic. -We were young, 307 00:13:08,888 --> 00:13:09,888 just like you are. 308 00:13:15,595 --> 00:13:16,935 [Luca babbling] 309 00:13:16,963 --> 00:13:18,733 [photographer] Do you three want to get in the front of the church 310 00:13:18,765 --> 00:13:19,635 and get a picture real quick? 311 00:13:19,666 --> 00:13:20,926 -Yeah! -[photographer] Let’s do it. 312 00:13:20,967 --> 00:13:22,837 One, two, three. 313 00:13:22,869 --> 00:13:23,899 [camera shutter clicks] 314 00:13:23,936 --> 00:13:25,596 -[Luca babbles] -[Jenna] Thank you, puka! 315 00:13:26,906 --> 00:13:30,076 Knowing that I will be seeing Heather or whatever... 316 00:13:30,109 --> 00:13:32,309 I mean, I just don’t like to be around her, 317 00:13:32,345 --> 00:13:34,555 but we’re keeping it cordial for Luca’s sake. 318 00:13:34,580 --> 00:13:36,350 I’ll... 319 00:13:36,382 --> 00:13:38,882 ...do what I gotta do, but I’m not gonna fake it for anybody. 320 00:13:38,918 --> 00:13:39,618 -Like, I’m... -Right. 321 00:13:39,652 --> 00:13:41,122 -That’s not me. -No. 322 00:13:47,527 --> 00:13:49,957 [woman] Just wherever. Just sit there and we’ll just sit here. 323 00:13:51,431 --> 00:13:52,701 Jenna just said wherever. 324 00:13:59,138 --> 00:14:00,838 She’s a volatile person. 325 00:14:02,141 --> 00:14:03,311 She’s loud. 326 00:14:03,343 --> 00:14:05,013 She likes to be the center of attention. 327 00:14:06,446 --> 00:14:08,846 For example, like, Heather made a beeline 328 00:14:08,881 --> 00:14:10,851 as soon as they opened the church doors, 329 00:14:11,684 --> 00:14:12,724 like, right away, 330 00:14:12,752 --> 00:14:14,852 so she could get right up front and center. 331 00:14:14,887 --> 00:14:17,787 It left no room for anyone else to sit there. 332 00:14:17,824 --> 00:14:18,894 But you knew that would happen. 333 00:14:18,925 --> 00:14:21,265 I knew that would... I knew that would happen. 334 00:14:21,294 --> 00:14:22,464 I mean, that’s classic Heather. 335 00:14:32,071 --> 00:14:33,441 [priest speaking] 336 00:14:33,473 --> 00:14:34,843 [Matt] Heather had a lot to do with... 337 00:14:35,842 --> 00:14:38,282 ...Jenna, Aden, and Luca moving out. 338 00:14:38,978 --> 00:14:40,578 Her mom was... 339 00:14:40,613 --> 00:14:44,453 [Cathy] Pushing it ’cause she wanted to control the situation or take control. 340 00:14:44,484 --> 00:14:46,554 I think there’s a control factor to it. 341 00:14:46,586 --> 00:14:49,386 I just hope you guys get your own place. 342 00:14:49,422 --> 00:14:54,062 I’ll like being able to come over when I get off work and help you with the baby. 343 00:14:54,093 --> 00:14:56,663 -[Jenna] Yeah. -[Heather] And not have to text your dad or Cathy. 344 00:14:56,696 --> 00:14:59,226 Yeah. I don’t know. 345 00:14:59,265 --> 00:15:02,065 I think it bothered her that you got to see Luca every single day. 346 00:15:03,436 --> 00:15:05,836 But that’s what it... I think that’s what it boils down to. 347 00:15:07,940 --> 00:15:08,940 [Cathy] Mmm-hmm. 348 00:15:10,877 --> 00:15:11,877 [priest speaking] 349 00:15:16,149 --> 00:15:19,049 [Luca crying] 350 00:15:19,619 --> 00:15:20,619 [Matt speaking] 351 00:15:25,491 --> 00:15:26,791 My dad’s eye rolls... 352 00:15:26,826 --> 00:15:28,056 He’s a little drama queen. 353 00:15:28,094 --> 00:15:30,264 Well, I can’t help an eye roll. 354 00:15:30,296 --> 00:15:31,626 You can. 355 00:15:31,664 --> 00:15:33,704 I’ll try to tape ’em down next time, 356 00:15:33,733 --> 00:15:35,833 but she does that to me, Jenna. 357 00:15:35,868 --> 00:15:38,068 Realistically, I think Heather could have moved over a little 358 00:15:38,104 --> 00:15:42,274 so all the grandparents could’ve sat in that pew behind them. 359 00:15:42,308 --> 00:15:43,838 It... It did annoy me. 360 00:15:43,876 --> 00:15:46,276 Her mom was stuck so far up her ass, 361 00:15:46,312 --> 00:15:48,512 I couldn’t even really get around her, so... 362 00:15:48,548 --> 00:15:49,418 [Jenna] My mom... [stammers] 363 00:15:49,449 --> 00:15:50,979 See, there you go. You’re being petty. 364 00:15:51,017 --> 00:15:52,277 Don’t talk about her. 365 00:15:52,318 --> 00:15:53,918 "My mom does... My mom was up my ass." 366 00:15:53,953 --> 00:15:56,063 Like, just... It’s okay, like... 367 00:15:56,088 --> 00:15:58,258 I can’t stand her personally, 368 00:15:58,291 --> 00:15:59,461 and I keep it inside. 369 00:15:59,492 --> 00:16:00,892 -That’s not a big deal. -[Jenna] But that’s a... 370 00:16:00,927 --> 00:16:02,157 That’s an issue for you to... 371 00:16:02,195 --> 00:16:03,205 -I don’t know. -No, it’s not! 372 00:16:03,229 --> 00:16:04,729 -Like, it-- -Yeah, that’s an issue. My gosh. 373 00:16:04,764 --> 00:16:05,764 Come on. 374 00:16:08,701 --> 00:16:10,671 [Luca babbling] 375 00:16:10,703 --> 00:16:12,143 [Jenna] I just... I don’t know. I, like... 376 00:16:12,171 --> 00:16:13,371 I might not be with Aden forever, 377 00:16:13,406 --> 00:16:15,206 but I’m never gonna sit there and be like, 378 00:16:15,241 --> 00:16:16,481 "I can’t stand this person." 379 00:16:16,509 --> 00:16:18,109 I’m never gonna look at him in disgust. 380 00:16:18,144 --> 00:16:19,354 Like, I... I just... 381 00:16:19,378 --> 00:16:21,178 No, I wouldn’t! 382 00:16:21,214 --> 00:16:23,024 I just... I don’t understand, 383 00:16:23,049 --> 00:16:24,119 I don’t get it, 384 00:16:24,150 --> 00:16:25,480 irritates me, I don’t know. 385 00:16:28,588 --> 00:16:29,588 [Luca babbling] 386 00:16:30,389 --> 00:16:32,159 [priest speaking] 387 00:16:39,332 --> 00:16:40,332 -It is. -Yes. 388 00:16:40,766 --> 00:16:41,766 [priest speaking] 389 00:16:46,105 --> 00:16:47,265 Okay. 390 00:16:49,208 --> 00:16:50,838 [all laughing] 391 00:16:50,877 --> 00:16:52,307 Luca Michael, 392 00:16:52,345 --> 00:16:55,385 I baptize you in the name of the Father, 393 00:16:55,414 --> 00:16:56,824 and of the Son, 394 00:16:56,849 --> 00:16:58,519 and of the Holy Spirit. 395 00:17:03,723 --> 00:17:05,423 -[Jenna] Okay. -[priest laughs] 396 00:17:05,458 --> 00:17:06,928 [priest] There, we’ll clean him up now. 397 00:17:08,594 --> 00:17:09,834 [Jenna] Was that fun? 398 00:17:09,862 --> 00:17:13,502 I think I take a lot of my childhood, 399 00:17:13,533 --> 00:17:16,273 and I try to make Luca’s the opposite. 400 00:17:16,302 --> 00:17:18,902 Luca is not going to have a chaotic life like me. 401 00:17:18,938 --> 00:17:22,138 I mean, it’s not happening. It’s insane. 402 00:17:22,174 --> 00:17:24,714 Aden and I might not make it, but... 403 00:17:27,246 --> 00:17:28,876 Ever, in a million years. 404 00:17:29,549 --> 00:17:30,549 Never. 405 00:17:34,887 --> 00:17:38,787 ♪ I’ll follow you to the end of the world and all the way back♪ 406 00:17:38,824 --> 00:17:42,694 ♪ I’ll follow you to the end of the world and all the way back♪ 407 00:17:44,063 --> 00:17:45,463 [Kim] Well, we have a lot of work to do. 408 00:17:45,498 --> 00:17:48,598 A lot of packing, a lot of organizing. 409 00:17:48,634 --> 00:17:49,974 You tired Lawrence? You look tired. 410 00:17:50,002 --> 00:17:51,772 -I am exhausted. I just want to to sleep. -[Kim] Yeah. 411 00:17:51,804 --> 00:17:53,414 -Yeah. -I don’t want to do any of this right now. 412 00:17:53,439 --> 00:17:55,039 Where’s Mommy, baby? 413 00:17:55,074 --> 00:17:56,114 [Lawrence] How stressful. 414 00:17:56,142 --> 00:17:58,942 [Kim] Stressful, yeah, but exciting, too. 415 00:17:58,978 --> 00:18:01,048 [Lawrence] Definitely exciting but stressful. 416 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:02,510 [Lilly] Lawrence and I are moving out, 417 00:18:02,548 --> 00:18:04,178 and this is really gonna be the first time 418 00:18:04,216 --> 00:18:06,686 that we’re fully financially on our own. 419 00:18:06,719 --> 00:18:10,319 And I just started a new job with a very long commute, 420 00:18:10,356 --> 00:18:11,856 and I am exhausted. 421 00:18:11,891 --> 00:18:13,561 [Lilly] Are you serious? 422 00:18:13,593 --> 00:18:16,203 Lawrence has not packed any boxes at all. 423 00:18:16,228 --> 00:18:18,458 Not... Not one. 424 00:18:18,497 --> 00:18:20,567 I’ve packed every single thing of his 425 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:22,430 and of mine and the kids’. 426 00:18:22,468 --> 00:18:24,268 But, you know what, it’s kinda better that way 427 00:18:24,303 --> 00:18:27,843 ’cause then I could pack the way that I want it packed. 428 00:18:27,873 --> 00:18:30,213 He’s gonna be doing all the moving... 429 00:18:31,444 --> 00:18:33,414 ...so I did all the packing. 430 00:18:33,446 --> 00:18:37,816 The labor work is a lot harder than folding clothes and putting ’em in a box. 431 00:18:37,850 --> 00:18:38,850 Okay. 432 00:18:39,952 --> 00:18:41,022 [Kim] What’s up, Grandpa? 433 00:18:41,053 --> 00:18:42,923 -[Glenn sighs] Nothing. -[Kim] How was your day? 434 00:18:42,955 --> 00:18:43,955 Oh, wonderful. 435 00:18:45,524 --> 00:18:47,434 What are you doing, mousy? Having some nuggets? 436 00:18:50,162 --> 00:18:51,832 [Kim] Everybody’s tired. 437 00:18:51,864 --> 00:18:53,604 [Glenn] So, LB. Wake up. 438 00:18:54,033 --> 00:18:55,273 [laughs] 439 00:18:55,301 --> 00:18:57,141 How’s your, uh... How’s the job going? 440 00:18:57,169 --> 00:18:58,169 [Lawrence speaking] 441 00:19:00,673 --> 00:19:02,213 [Glenn] They teaching you? Are you learning? 442 00:19:02,241 --> 00:19:03,481 Learning a lot. 443 00:19:03,509 --> 00:19:05,379 [Kim] You guys are growing up real quick. 444 00:19:05,411 --> 00:19:07,181 Babies, jobs, apartments... 445 00:19:07,213 --> 00:19:08,613 Bang! All in one year. 446 00:19:10,850 --> 00:19:12,650 How’s Lawrence doing? Is he... [stammers] 447 00:19:12,685 --> 00:19:13,795 All gung ho for the apartment? 448 00:19:14,387 --> 00:19:15,287 He’s nervous. 449 00:19:15,321 --> 00:19:16,391 -[Kim] Is he nervous? -[Glenn] Nervous? 450 00:19:17,023 --> 00:19:17,893 I bet he is. 451 00:19:17,923 --> 00:19:19,223 It’s very easy to tell when he’s nervous 452 00:19:19,258 --> 00:19:21,028 ’cause he’s just, "I’m not nervous. 453 00:19:21,060 --> 00:19:22,060 Why would I be nervous?" 454 00:19:22,094 --> 00:19:23,404 -[Kim] Right, and he does. -But he’s nervous. 455 00:19:23,429 --> 00:19:24,499 He gets nervous, yeah. 456 00:19:24,530 --> 00:19:25,330 -[Lilly] Mmm-hmm. -Yeah. 457 00:19:25,364 --> 00:19:26,734 Well, he knows that... 458 00:19:26,766 --> 00:19:29,596 I think he understands the level of responsibility he’s gonna have, 459 00:19:29,635 --> 00:19:33,505 and it’s gonna be a lot of extra work for him. 460 00:19:33,539 --> 00:19:37,939 We’re gonna rent the truck the night before, so the 4th. 461 00:19:38,444 --> 00:19:39,714 [Glenn] Uh-huh. 462 00:19:39,745 --> 00:19:41,375 We’re probably either gonna have his friend or Jimmy do it 463 00:19:41,414 --> 00:19:44,154 -’cause you have to be over 25. -Okay. 464 00:19:44,183 --> 00:19:47,623 Lawrence is gonna ask his friends to come over 465 00:19:47,653 --> 00:19:50,863 on the night before and load up the truck 466 00:19:50,890 --> 00:19:53,430 so we could put all the furniture, all the boxes, 467 00:19:53,459 --> 00:19:55,159 everything in the night before, 468 00:19:55,194 --> 00:19:56,234 wake up, 469 00:19:56,262 --> 00:19:57,862 they would hop in the truck, drive there, 470 00:19:57,897 --> 00:20:00,327 we would unload everything, and we would be done. 471 00:20:00,366 --> 00:20:01,966 I mean, I guess so. Whatever. 472 00:20:03,402 --> 00:20:05,902 You think everything will just fit in the truck? 473 00:20:05,938 --> 00:20:08,008 [Lilly] I’m gonna try and get the biggest one that they have, 474 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:09,340 the 26-inch. 475 00:20:09,375 --> 00:20:11,515 [Lawrence] The bigger truck is gonna be harder for the driver. 476 00:20:11,544 --> 00:20:12,614 [Kim] It is, yeah. 477 00:20:12,645 --> 00:20:14,955 Downstairs there’s, what? Like, 20 boxes downstairs? 478 00:20:14,980 --> 00:20:16,750 You have to put the kitchen table, the chairs, 479 00:20:16,782 --> 00:20:18,782 the beds, the cribs, TVs, 480 00:20:18,818 --> 00:20:20,518 -even more boxes... -[Lawrence] The chairs are in a stack. 481 00:20:20,553 --> 00:20:21,423 ...from the rest of the house. 482 00:20:21,454 --> 00:20:22,894 [Lawrence] The bed we can condense 483 00:20:22,922 --> 00:20:24,592 -and put into a corner. -Okay, but why am I gonna buy a smaller truck 484 00:20:24,623 --> 00:20:25,963 and then we can’t fit anything... 485 00:20:25,991 --> 00:20:27,631 -Because it’s like driving a school bus. -I just don’t want you 486 00:20:27,660 --> 00:20:29,060 to end up having to take two trips. 487 00:20:30,262 --> 00:20:33,772 Mom wants everyone to move you guys’ stuff upstairs. 488 00:20:33,799 --> 00:20:35,499 When are you gonna do that, dear? 489 00:20:35,534 --> 00:20:38,174 [Kim] That night because we can’t get help. 490 00:20:38,204 --> 00:20:40,144 [Glenn] I have to go to bed early Friday night. 491 00:20:40,172 --> 00:20:42,072 I cannot help ’cause then I gotta get up 492 00:20:42,108 --> 00:20:44,008 -really early on Saturday morning. -You get up, mmm-hmm. 493 00:20:44,043 --> 00:20:46,813 -I know it’s not your fault. -Unfortunately, it was book six months ago, so... 494 00:20:46,846 --> 00:20:47,646 I know. 495 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:48,980 I’m gonna miss the move. 496 00:20:49,014 --> 00:20:51,854 Um, I had a... 497 00:20:51,884 --> 00:20:55,394 A trip already preplanned to Tennessee so... 498 00:20:55,421 --> 00:20:59,631 Mmm-mmm. Soon as he heard I was moving, he made a trip. 499 00:20:59,658 --> 00:21:02,228 [Kim] It leaves us to do everything alone. 500 00:21:02,261 --> 00:21:03,631 He’s glad. 501 00:21:03,662 --> 00:21:04,702 He’s glad. 502 00:21:06,799 --> 00:21:09,029 You really ain’t much time the two of you. 503 00:21:09,068 --> 00:21:11,568 -Nope. -You know, I mean, I haven’t seen you two packing yet. 504 00:21:11,604 --> 00:21:13,714 We packed downstairs today, actually. 505 00:21:13,739 --> 00:21:16,139 -Oh, did you? -All the stuff I have sitting in the basement, I packed. 506 00:21:17,276 --> 00:21:20,676 There is a 0% chance that Lawrence will be able 507 00:21:20,713 --> 00:21:22,853 to keep his cool on moving day. 508 00:21:26,852 --> 00:21:28,152 I hate explaining myself, for one. 509 00:21:28,187 --> 00:21:30,057 -So when I do-- -[Lilly] I’m not gonna deal with the [bleep]. 510 00:21:30,089 --> 00:21:32,489 -...just [bleep] listen and sit there and be quiet. -No! 511 00:21:32,525 --> 00:21:34,695 -I mean, just listen. -’Cause you know what? It’s not like he sits there 512 00:21:34,727 --> 00:21:37,297 and he’s like, "Hey, I don’t like this because blah, blah, blah, blah." 513 00:21:37,329 --> 00:21:39,559 -And I want you to fix it in this way." -I try. 514 00:21:39,598 --> 00:21:40,768 -He’s like, "[bleep] this." -I try. 515 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:41,900 -"And [bleep] this." -I try. 516 00:21:41,934 --> 00:21:43,544 -"And you do this, and what the [bleep]?" -I try. 517 00:21:43,569 --> 00:21:45,099 -I try. -"And what the [bleep]? And what the [bleep]?" 518 00:21:45,137 --> 00:21:48,167 -No. No, and then, I’m not gonna sit there-- -Uh, [bleep] anyone-- 519 00:21:48,207 --> 00:21:50,307 -with the [bleep] of being yelled at. -[bleep] explaining themself. 520 00:21:50,342 --> 00:21:51,942 I don’t wanna hear it. 521 00:21:51,977 --> 00:21:57,017 You just wait until the day of the move and I promise you, he won’t disappoint. 522 00:21:57,049 --> 00:22:01,849 I promise you, there will be many Lawrence meltdowns that occur. 523 00:22:02,855 --> 00:22:04,765 Whatever. I don’t know. 524 00:22:06,025 --> 00:22:08,595 [Kylen laughs] I’m gonna have so much fun with this. 525 00:22:08,627 --> 00:22:12,197 Oh, really? ’Cause you know it cries and stuff, and you gotta soothe it. 526 00:22:12,231 --> 00:22:13,471 [baby doll cries] 527 00:22:15,434 --> 00:22:17,504 [baby doll wails] 528 00:22:19,839 --> 00:22:20,809 [Jason speaking] 529 00:22:31,717 --> 00:22:34,987 I want you guys to pick out what you guys are gonna want from this. 530 00:22:35,020 --> 00:22:36,560 And then, whatever you don’t want, 531 00:22:36,589 --> 00:22:37,759 I’ll just take back home with me. 532 00:22:37,790 --> 00:22:41,430 Thick pads that you’re gonna need and... 533 00:22:41,460 --> 00:22:43,900 -She doesn’t need this [bleep]. -[Lizzy] Oh, yes, she does. 534 00:22:43,929 --> 00:22:47,929 ’Cause when you’re pushing out a baby, Jason, it like... 535 00:22:47,967 --> 00:22:52,197 This little tiny hole is gonna be like this big. 536 00:22:52,238 --> 00:22:54,168 -I think you overreact a little bit. -[Lizzy] No. No. 537 00:22:54,206 --> 00:22:55,906 -No, I’m not. I... I’ve been through this. -Ask anyone. 538 00:22:55,941 --> 00:22:57,941 -[Lizzy] I’ve had a kid. Have you had a kid? -A little bit. 539 00:22:57,977 --> 00:22:59,407 -Have you? No. -[Kylen] No. 540 00:22:59,445 --> 00:23:00,515 I’ve had a kid. 541 00:23:00,546 --> 00:23:01,746 I know how this works. 542 00:23:02,348 --> 00:23:04,618 Lizzy is Jason’s cousin. 543 00:23:04,650 --> 00:23:06,950 She’s kind of like a sister to me. 544 00:23:06,986 --> 00:23:09,386 And she has a little boy, so... 545 00:23:09,421 --> 00:23:13,491 Since I’m 36 weeks pregnant, and we’re gonna have the baby soon, 546 00:23:13,525 --> 00:23:17,355 Lizzy came by to give us some hand me downs for Xavier. 547 00:23:17,396 --> 00:23:19,766 I’m glad she’s here because I will take 548 00:23:19,798 --> 00:23:22,998 all the advice that I can get from her. 549 00:23:23,035 --> 00:23:24,745 [Lizzy] I brought a gift for you guys. 550 00:23:27,273 --> 00:23:29,073 No! It’s for both of you. 551 00:23:29,108 --> 00:23:32,278 Oh, my God. Are you getting Mr. Sensitive that you want things, too? 552 00:23:32,311 --> 00:23:33,551 [Kylen laughs] 553 00:23:33,579 --> 00:23:36,149 I’m Lizzy and I’m Jason’s cousin. 554 00:23:36,181 --> 00:23:40,791 My... Jason’s dad is my uncle, my dad’s brother. 555 00:23:40,819 --> 00:23:44,319 Heidi and Scott, do you wanna come out and see what I got Jason and Kylen? 556 00:23:44,356 --> 00:23:45,516 -[Heidi] Sure. -All right. 557 00:23:45,557 --> 00:23:47,527 Jason, he doesn’t have any siblings 558 00:23:47,559 --> 00:23:52,399 so, um, me and my brother have been very close to him growing up. 559 00:23:52,431 --> 00:23:54,931 And he just says how he feels. 560 00:23:54,967 --> 00:23:56,667 Say how it is and... 561 00:23:56,702 --> 00:23:57,772 Yeah. 562 00:23:57,803 --> 00:24:00,473 It’s pretty much the normal here. 563 00:24:00,506 --> 00:24:03,506 [laughs] 564 00:24:03,542 --> 00:24:05,812 I think you guys are gonna like it. 565 00:24:05,844 --> 00:24:07,714 All right, both of you open it. 566 00:24:07,746 --> 00:24:08,946 Okay, Scott. Go. 567 00:24:12,985 --> 00:24:14,025 [Kylen] Oh, my God. 568 00:24:14,053 --> 00:24:16,463 -What is it? -[laughs] A fricking baby doll. 569 00:24:16,488 --> 00:24:18,688 -[Jason] Oh, my God. -[all laugh] 570 00:24:18,724 --> 00:24:20,364 [Lizzy] Lizzy’s baby class. 571 00:24:20,392 --> 00:24:23,532 [Kylen laughs] I’m gonna have so much fun with this. 572 00:24:23,562 --> 00:24:24,802 Oh, really? 573 00:24:24,830 --> 00:24:26,970 ’Cause you know it cries and stuff and you gotta soothe it. 574 00:24:26,999 --> 00:24:29,129 Yeah, I’m gonna take the batteries out of it. 575 00:24:29,168 --> 00:24:30,438 -[Heidi laughs] -[Lizzy] Oh, no. Oh, no. 576 00:24:30,469 --> 00:24:32,069 We’re putting the batteries in right now. 577 00:24:32,104 --> 00:24:33,414 [Heidi laughs] 578 00:24:33,439 --> 00:24:35,239 We’re gonna test this baby out. 579 00:24:35,274 --> 00:24:37,184 This is Keegan. 580 00:24:38,711 --> 00:24:42,981 My cousin got us Keegan as like a tool to get people ready 581 00:24:43,015 --> 00:24:45,985 who like need to learn, which I guess we are teens. 582 00:24:46,018 --> 00:24:48,388 But I already know I’m gonna be a good dad. 583 00:24:48,420 --> 00:24:50,820 I’ve always had a connection to kids. 584 00:24:50,856 --> 00:24:55,356 And like they always, like, looked at me or stared at me. 585 00:24:55,394 --> 00:24:57,404 I personally know that I’m ready. 586 00:24:58,364 --> 00:25:00,434 [Kylen] I think we have a lot to learn. 587 00:25:03,702 --> 00:25:05,142 You need to dress him. 588 00:25:05,170 --> 00:25:07,010 Yep, always support the neck. 589 00:25:08,807 --> 00:25:12,207 -Good job. -I must be doing a good job, he’s still breathing. 590 00:25:12,244 --> 00:25:14,984 -You can’t drag him by the legs either like that. -[Kylen laughs] 591 00:25:16,081 --> 00:25:18,651 You gotta act like he’s real. 592 00:25:18,684 --> 00:25:21,424 When he cries, you’re supposed to, uh-- 593 00:25:21,453 --> 00:25:23,723 -Soothe? -No, either... 594 00:25:23,756 --> 00:25:25,586 There’s, like, a list. You feed him. 595 00:25:25,624 --> 00:25:27,634 And if he still cries, you change the diaper. 596 00:25:27,659 --> 00:25:29,329 Still cries, rock him. 597 00:25:29,361 --> 00:25:30,561 There’s, like, a list. 598 00:25:30,596 --> 00:25:33,626 And it’s pretty annoying. 599 00:25:33,665 --> 00:25:34,925 [both laugh] 600 00:25:34,967 --> 00:25:36,867 [Kylen laughs] I can’t... 601 00:25:39,505 --> 00:25:40,945 [Jason speaking] 602 00:25:43,275 --> 00:25:45,505 It’s his... His baby boy. Not mine. 603 00:25:46,979 --> 00:25:48,849 Not my responsibility. 604 00:25:48,881 --> 00:25:50,321 We’re just grandparents. 605 00:25:56,488 --> 00:25:59,958 Well, I mean, I could go on for hours. 606 00:25:59,992 --> 00:26:05,132 You know, just changing diapers and bottle feeding is... 607 00:26:05,164 --> 00:26:07,174 Is not raising your child. 608 00:26:07,199 --> 00:26:09,699 That’s part of it, but that’s not all of it. 609 00:26:09,735 --> 00:26:13,715 You gotta have love, compassion, 610 00:26:13,739 --> 00:26:16,309 and, uh, motivation. 611 00:26:16,341 --> 00:26:20,051 I hope he has the motivation to be a good dad. 612 00:26:20,779 --> 00:26:22,779 [Lizzy] Jason, your turn. 613 00:26:23,348 --> 00:26:25,378 Hold him. 614 00:26:25,417 --> 00:26:27,217 He’s a new... You gotta hold his head! 615 00:26:27,252 --> 00:26:28,492 -[Kylen laughs] -You can’t just let it flop. 616 00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,060 [Scott] You don’t bounce newborns. 617 00:26:30,089 --> 00:26:32,319 [all laughing] 618 00:26:32,357 --> 00:26:34,657 -[Scott] You don’t... [laughs] -[Lizzy] Oh, God. This is gonna be interesting. 619 00:26:34,693 --> 00:26:36,033 He’s a newborn. 620 00:26:36,061 --> 00:26:38,701 -You could either hold him-- -No, you have to hold their head. 621 00:26:38,730 --> 00:26:40,470 Otherwise, they’re gonna go... 622 00:26:40,499 --> 00:26:43,539 Yeah, I’ll get it when it’s my... My kid and I’ll have like 623 00:26:43,569 --> 00:26:45,099 -a connection. -Well, this is your kid right now. 624 00:26:45,137 --> 00:26:46,607 We’re learning. 625 00:26:50,709 --> 00:26:51,739 [baby doll whines] 626 00:26:52,411 --> 00:26:53,811 [baby doll cries] 627 00:26:55,314 --> 00:26:56,724 [baby doll cries] 628 00:26:58,550 --> 00:27:01,350 -I don’t know what to do. -Take them out of him before he wakes up. 629 00:27:02,421 --> 00:27:04,261 -[baby doll cries] -[Jason sighs] Oh, God. 630 00:27:04,289 --> 00:27:06,289 [baby doll cries] 631 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:08,759 [baby doll cries] 632 00:27:14,266 --> 00:27:15,626 [Jason speaking] 633 00:27:15,667 --> 00:27:17,197 [baby doll cries] 634 00:27:17,236 --> 00:27:19,266 [Kylen laughs] 635 00:27:19,304 --> 00:27:20,914 -[Heidi] Oh, see, she knows. -See? Look at... 636 00:27:20,939 --> 00:27:22,939 -[Heidi] Yeah. -You’re already doing a good job. 637 00:27:24,610 --> 00:27:26,310 So now-- 638 00:27:26,345 --> 00:27:28,755 You need to, it’s... Jason. 639 00:27:28,780 --> 00:27:30,280 -Yeah, of course. -It’s not about you. 640 00:27:30,315 --> 00:27:31,615 It’s about him. 641 00:27:31,650 --> 00:27:33,550 When that baby comes, it’s about him 642 00:27:33,585 --> 00:27:35,845 for the next 18 years and the rest of your life. 643 00:27:37,356 --> 00:27:38,556 [baby doll cries] 644 00:27:43,328 --> 00:27:44,798 [baby doll wails] 645 00:27:46,298 --> 00:27:47,328 I did. 646 00:27:52,404 --> 00:27:53,914 [baby doll wails] 647 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:03,480 [crying stops] 648 00:28:03,515 --> 00:28:05,015 [Jason speaking] 649 00:28:05,050 --> 00:28:06,350 [Kylen laughs] 650 00:28:07,853 --> 00:28:10,993 [baby doll wails] 651 00:28:15,527 --> 00:28:17,497 All right, well. 652 00:28:17,529 --> 00:28:20,199 Good luck tonight, guys. [laughs] 653 00:28:20,232 --> 00:28:22,732 I wanna hear how the night went. 654 00:28:22,768 --> 00:28:26,668 I think it’s stressful with Keegan ’cause you can’t... 655 00:28:26,705 --> 00:28:28,765 Like, you literally cannot tell. 656 00:28:28,807 --> 00:28:31,277 And like you do everything and it doesn’t work. 657 00:28:32,177 --> 00:28:33,607 That’s how I feel. 658 00:28:33,645 --> 00:28:34,905 [baby doll whimpers] 659 00:28:34,947 --> 00:28:36,947 [Jason] But I think she’ll get more stressed at the real thing 660 00:28:36,982 --> 00:28:39,252 ’cause she can’t just take the batteries out of it. 661 00:28:39,284 --> 00:28:40,824 [baby doll cries] 662 00:28:44,656 --> 00:28:46,116 All right, get rid of this thing. 663 00:28:46,992 --> 00:28:47,992 I’m going to sleep. 664 00:28:49,161 --> 00:28:51,731 That’s not what you’re supposed to say to our kid. 665 00:28:51,763 --> 00:28:53,733 Put him in the damn crib. 666 00:28:55,801 --> 00:28:57,471 [baby doll cries] 667 00:29:00,539 --> 00:29:01,939 [Jason sighs] 668 00:29:01,974 --> 00:29:05,114 I thought it was gonna be, "Oh, this will be easy raising a kid." 669 00:29:05,143 --> 00:29:09,083 But nope, it’s really not already and we haven’t even had it. 670 00:29:09,114 --> 00:29:13,494 It’s a lot of stress and work and responsibility. 671 00:29:13,518 --> 00:29:15,818 And you can’t just get out of it. 672 00:29:15,854 --> 00:29:17,094 You’re stuck in it. 673 00:29:17,122 --> 00:29:20,232 Like Lizzy said, "You gotta raise that kid till they’re 18." 674 00:29:20,259 --> 00:29:23,059 And even after that probably. 675 00:29:24,863 --> 00:29:26,303 [baby doll cries] 676 00:29:26,331 --> 00:29:28,201 [baby doll wails] 677 00:29:30,769 --> 00:29:33,069 First, you go get in and then I’ll work my way. 678 00:29:33,105 --> 00:29:35,045 I’m Taylor. I’m 20. 679 00:29:35,073 --> 00:29:36,983 And I’m also pregnant again. 680 00:29:37,009 --> 00:29:40,409 I wonder what they have to say about the pregnancy pact now because I’m not pregnant. 681 00:29:54,559 --> 00:29:55,959 [Tiarra speaking] 682 00:29:57,929 --> 00:29:58,999 Now go get it. 683 00:29:59,031 --> 00:30:00,301 [Layla] Okay. 684 00:30:00,332 --> 00:30:02,172 [Tiarra] While I’m home in Kentucky, 685 00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:06,040 I’m trying to spend as much time with my family as I possibly can 686 00:30:06,071 --> 00:30:08,241 because this is going to be the last time 687 00:30:08,273 --> 00:30:10,183 I’ll have to do the trip before I have Ensley. 688 00:30:10,208 --> 00:30:13,208 This is also my first time seeing Taylor 689 00:30:13,245 --> 00:30:15,315 since she told me that she was pregnant. 690 00:30:15,781 --> 00:30:16,751 [Taylor] Wow. 691 00:30:16,782 --> 00:30:17,752 [Ella cries] 692 00:30:22,554 --> 00:30:24,324 [kids exclaim] 693 00:30:24,356 --> 00:30:26,186 [Tiarra] Okay, okay. No more jumping. 694 00:30:26,224 --> 00:30:28,164 -Let’s stop jumping for a second. -Hey, do you wanna sit down? 695 00:30:28,193 --> 00:30:30,303 Pick your seat. Do you wanna stand up like that? 696 00:30:30,329 --> 00:30:31,629 Do you wanna sit in my lap again? 697 00:30:31,663 --> 00:30:33,933 [Tiarra] Okey-dokey. 698 00:30:33,965 --> 00:30:36,935 -Your cup. -Hold on, let me fix this cord real quick. 699 00:30:36,968 --> 00:30:39,638 Look at Layla. Look, she has on floaties just like you. She’s just floating. 700 00:30:39,671 --> 00:30:42,111 -See? -[Taylor] I see! You’re big. 701 00:30:43,075 --> 00:30:44,345 I’m Taylor, I’m 20 years old. 702 00:30:44,376 --> 00:30:46,976 And I have a daughter named Adelyn who’s almost 3. 703 00:30:47,012 --> 00:30:48,652 And I’m also pregnant again. 704 00:30:49,581 --> 00:30:51,551 And I’m having a girl. 705 00:30:51,583 --> 00:30:54,793 [Tiarra] It’s crazy that we all have girls. 706 00:30:54,820 --> 00:30:58,390 Like, God, the sassiness out of all three of them. 707 00:30:58,423 --> 00:30:59,463 [kids laugh] 708 00:30:59,491 --> 00:31:00,961 [Taylor] Tickle her, tickle her. 709 00:31:00,992 --> 00:31:02,132 [kids laugh] 710 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:03,900 What’re y’all doing? 711 00:31:03,929 --> 00:31:06,299 First, you go get in and then I’ll work my way. 712 00:31:07,232 --> 00:31:08,802 Ella, Mommy’s getting in there. 713 00:31:08,834 --> 00:31:09,904 You wanna get in there with her? 714 00:31:11,703 --> 00:31:12,943 [Tiarra] Oh, my God. 715 00:31:12,971 --> 00:31:14,111 [Taylor] It’s cold, ain’t it? 716 00:31:14,139 --> 00:31:15,269 It is really cold. 717 00:31:15,307 --> 00:31:17,337 [Tiarra] The three of us were very close growing up. 718 00:31:17,376 --> 00:31:20,036 We were always with each other, like siblings. 719 00:31:20,078 --> 00:31:21,608 Like, we wouldn’t even ask each other. 720 00:31:21,646 --> 00:31:23,716 Like, some cousins have to text and be like... 721 00:31:23,749 --> 00:31:25,319 I would just like come over and walk in her house. 722 00:31:25,350 --> 00:31:26,920 And just be like, "I’m spending the night." 723 00:31:26,952 --> 00:31:28,622 -[Taylor] Yeah. -[Tiarra] Like, I’m spending the night. 724 00:31:28,653 --> 00:31:30,923 That’s how close we were. It was more like of a sibling’s type of-- 725 00:31:30,956 --> 00:31:33,256 Yeah, it was never like, "Ask your mom if I can stay." 726 00:31:33,291 --> 00:31:34,661 -[Tiarra laughs] -It’s like, "Hey, I’m staying." 727 00:31:34,693 --> 00:31:35,993 It’s still the same way, though, 728 00:31:36,027 --> 00:31:38,057 like whenever we wanna go to each other’s house. 729 00:31:40,265 --> 00:31:41,895 Do you need some tea, Layla? 730 00:31:41,933 --> 00:31:44,003 Here you go. Here’s your tea. 731 00:31:44,035 --> 00:31:47,065 [Taylor] Look at your belly and how it’s, like, so-- 732 00:31:47,105 --> 00:31:48,935 -Oh, I see what you’re talking about. Yeah. -[Taylor] You see? 733 00:31:48,974 --> 00:31:50,244 [Taylor] Your stretch marks are like... 734 00:31:50,275 --> 00:31:52,135 -Come altogether on your belly button. -Oh, yeah. Right here. 735 00:31:52,177 --> 00:31:53,677 -[Taylor] Yeah. -Do you see how it’s like this? 736 00:31:53,712 --> 00:31:56,112 -Like, from where I’m lying, it’s like I’m straining. -[Taylor laughs] Yeah. 737 00:31:56,148 --> 00:31:59,848 I wonder what they have to say about the pregnancy pact now because I’m not pregnant. 738 00:31:59,885 --> 00:32:01,995 [woman] You guys know, a lot of people on social media 739 00:32:02,020 --> 00:32:05,990 -questioned whether you three had a pregnancy pact? -Teen pact, or whatever. 740 00:32:06,024 --> 00:32:08,594 [woman] Did the three of you have a pregnancy pact? 741 00:32:08,627 --> 00:32:10,187 Definitely not, I didn’t find out I was pregnant 742 00:32:10,228 --> 00:32:11,658 until after she already gave birth. 743 00:32:11,696 --> 00:32:14,026 I was 15 so, I mean, I definitely wasn’t, like, 744 00:32:14,065 --> 00:32:15,365 gonna sit down with my older cousin 745 00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:16,430 and, you know, plan a pregnancy. 746 00:32:16,468 --> 00:32:18,138 -That’s just silly. -Yeah. 747 00:32:18,170 --> 00:32:21,070 -Everyone says that we had a pregnancy pact. -No, before I got pregnant, 748 00:32:21,106 --> 00:32:23,366 I was the one that wanted to go out and do stuff all the time. 749 00:32:23,408 --> 00:32:25,078 I was going to like parties with my friends. 750 00:32:25,110 --> 00:32:29,010 I would have never, ever, ever, like, gotten pregnant on purpose at 16. 751 00:32:29,047 --> 00:32:31,247 [Tiarra] But I don’t think anyone, like, plans. 752 00:32:31,283 --> 00:32:33,153 -Yeah. -Especially... Like, I was 15. 753 00:32:33,185 --> 00:32:34,555 -Like what the... -Yeah, I mean, I understand, 754 00:32:34,586 --> 00:32:36,286 like, why people would think that 755 00:32:36,321 --> 00:32:38,991 just ’cause we’re all cousins, and close, and we all got pregnant around the same time. 756 00:32:39,024 --> 00:32:42,664 Our moms, they had their babies young, too, just like us. 757 00:32:42,694 --> 00:32:45,264 -[Tyra] Yeah. -[Taylor] And we were born three days apart. 758 00:32:45,297 --> 00:32:46,797 -Yeah. -So I guess they’re the ones 759 00:32:46,832 --> 00:32:48,972 who started the pregnancy pact. [laughs] 760 00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:50,470 [laughs] Yeah. 761 00:32:50,502 --> 00:32:52,842 It goes around. Yeah, right? 762 00:32:54,172 --> 00:32:57,312 Does anybody not like barbecue sauce on their hot dogs? 763 00:32:57,342 --> 00:32:59,342 -Like cooked on-- -[Tiarra] No, barbecue them up. 764 00:32:59,377 --> 00:33:00,947 [Melissa] No, don’t do it for the babies. 765 00:33:00,979 --> 00:33:02,209 -[Tiarra] Oh, wait. -Okay. 766 00:33:02,247 --> 00:33:06,547 I’m Noah. Tyra and Tiarra are my cousins are me, as well. 767 00:33:06,585 --> 00:33:07,695 Okay. [laughs] 768 00:33:07,719 --> 00:33:09,219 -[laughs] Okay, let’s not say that-- -No, no, no! 769 00:33:09,254 --> 00:33:11,164 -Let’s not say that. -They cannot put that on there 770 00:33:11,189 --> 00:33:12,589 -without letting us explain that. -Yeah. 771 00:33:12,624 --> 00:33:15,494 -They’re distant. -[Taylor] Tyra and Tiarra... Let me repeat my answer. 772 00:33:15,527 --> 00:33:18,457 Tyra and Tiarra are both my cousins on my mom’s side. 773 00:33:18,497 --> 00:33:20,667 -They’re my first cousins on my mom’s side-- -Okay, wait. 774 00:33:20,699 --> 00:33:22,429 Wait, no, let’s just say that’s your cousins. 775 00:33:22,467 --> 00:33:24,937 -And I’m gonna say-- -No, no. You’re gonna say, "They’re my cousins 776 00:33:24,970 --> 00:33:26,640 -on their dad’s side." -No, no, no. 777 00:33:26,671 --> 00:33:28,211 -They’re cousins. -I’m just gonna say it’s your family. 778 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:29,540 Tyra and Tiarra is your family. 779 00:33:29,574 --> 00:33:31,514 -And yours. -I’m just gonna say your family. 780 00:33:31,543 --> 00:33:32,813 [Taylor] Oh, my God. 781 00:33:32,844 --> 00:33:36,614 Noah is Tyra and Tiarra’s fourth cousin on their dad’s side. 782 00:33:36,648 --> 00:33:40,218 As I am their first cousin on their mom’s side. 783 00:33:40,252 --> 00:33:44,122 So me and Noah are not related at all. 784 00:33:44,155 --> 00:33:46,085 [laughs] At all. 785 00:33:48,193 --> 00:33:49,593 [both laugh] 786 00:33:49,628 --> 00:33:51,828 -Oh, my God. -Oh, I’m sorry. 787 00:33:51,863 --> 00:33:53,203 I don’t... Is it done? 788 00:33:53,231 --> 00:33:55,371 [Noah] About to be. Yeah, a lot of it is. 789 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:58,370 -She’s saying like-- -[Tiarra] Noah, make everybody plates and bring them. 790 00:33:58,403 --> 00:34:00,273 -I’m used to it. -[Taylor laughs] 791 00:34:00,305 --> 00:34:01,975 I didn’t even meet him through them. 792 00:34:02,007 --> 00:34:03,137 We met in high school. 793 00:34:03,174 --> 00:34:06,344 I was 16 and Noah was 18. 794 00:34:06,378 --> 00:34:09,178 Yeah, like, when we first started talking we was... 795 00:34:09,214 --> 00:34:11,924 We was just friends with benefits, I would say. 796 00:34:13,084 --> 00:34:15,494 We’ll take breaks, and then we’ll pick back up. 797 00:34:16,354 --> 00:34:18,494 Like, we stopped talking for like a month. 798 00:34:18,523 --> 00:34:20,493 But then, that’s when I found out I was pregnant. 799 00:34:20,525 --> 00:34:22,455 So that’s when we started talking again. 800 00:34:22,494 --> 00:34:24,004 So if I wouldn’t have ever found out I was pregnant, 801 00:34:24,029 --> 00:34:25,259 we probably would have never talked again. 802 00:34:27,165 --> 00:34:29,995 Then, just kind of stuck together ever since, really. 803 00:34:31,269 --> 00:34:32,669 No, on and off. 804 00:34:32,704 --> 00:34:35,044 -Well, yeah, we’ve been-- -So, like, not really stuck on each other. 805 00:34:35,073 --> 00:34:39,083 It was rough at first just, you know, my teenage years was kind of wild. 806 00:34:39,110 --> 00:34:40,680 And I had to grow up a little bit. 807 00:34:40,712 --> 00:34:43,252 But for like the past two years, we’ve been good. 808 00:34:44,249 --> 00:34:45,279 What do you think? 809 00:34:45,317 --> 00:34:47,117 I think we’ve been good. 810 00:34:47,152 --> 00:34:48,622 Pretty good. 811 00:34:50,855 --> 00:34:52,985 [Noah] These burgers are gonna taste good. 812 00:34:53,024 --> 00:34:54,234 We’ll see. 813 00:34:54,259 --> 00:34:55,889 Make sure they’re done, don’t screw anything up. 814 00:34:57,796 --> 00:34:59,826 Nobody wants any red meat, okay? 815 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:02,870 When I was pregnant with Adelyn, 816 00:35:02,901 --> 00:35:05,101 it was pretty hard on me being on and off with Noah. 817 00:35:05,136 --> 00:35:08,836 Just because, like, I didn’t have that consistent relationship and stuff. 818 00:35:08,873 --> 00:35:13,443 So being pregnant at 16 was way harder than it is being pregnant now. 819 00:35:13,478 --> 00:35:16,208 But when I first found out I was pregnant again, 820 00:35:16,247 --> 00:35:17,977 yeah, I was kind of like worried a little bit 821 00:35:18,016 --> 00:35:21,416 just because having a toddler and baby at home, 822 00:35:21,453 --> 00:35:23,093 and then Noah will be at work half the time, 823 00:35:23,121 --> 00:35:24,691 so it would just be us three girls. 824 00:35:24,723 --> 00:35:28,263 I definitely think it’s gonna be hard on me. 825 00:35:28,293 --> 00:35:31,203 [Noah] I remember when she first showed me the test that she was pregnant, 826 00:35:31,229 --> 00:35:32,599 I was nervous. 827 00:35:32,631 --> 00:35:35,901 I mean, when it comes to affection, and love, and being there, 828 00:35:35,934 --> 00:35:38,174 I don’t feel like that’s really gonna be an issue. 829 00:35:38,203 --> 00:35:40,273 But when it comes to finances, you know. 830 00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:43,170 Gotta figure it out. 831 00:35:48,647 --> 00:35:50,847 We was taking extra precautions. 832 00:35:50,882 --> 00:35:52,822 [laughs] No, we were not. 833 00:35:52,851 --> 00:35:54,291 I was not on birth control. 834 00:35:54,319 --> 00:35:56,589 We weren’t using protection or anything. 835 00:35:56,621 --> 00:35:59,821 So, I mean, I trust him in that process. 836 00:36:01,359 --> 00:36:03,329 I mean... [laughs] 837 00:36:04,129 --> 00:36:05,999 I can’t get myself pregnant. 838 00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,540 Um, I think I’m just gonna have her where I had Adelyn. 839 00:36:11,569 --> 00:36:15,539 But, of course I’m gonna do it, like, naturally. 840 00:36:17,809 --> 00:36:18,779 [Melissa laughs] Yeah, no. 841 00:36:18,810 --> 00:36:20,580 But, um, yeah. 842 00:36:22,113 --> 00:36:23,853 -Tiarra? -[Tiarra] Yeah? 843 00:36:23,882 --> 00:36:25,822 [Tiarra] I haven’t looked ’cause I’m here and not there. 844 00:36:25,850 --> 00:36:27,890 -So you still see the doctor-- -[Taylor] You only have what? 845 00:36:27,919 --> 00:36:30,019 -Yep. -You only have six and a half weeks though, don’t you? 846 00:36:30,055 --> 00:36:31,965 Well, yeah, I’ll be 33 weeks tomorrow. 847 00:36:31,990 --> 00:36:33,990 -So you only have-- -Six weeks. 848 00:36:34,025 --> 00:36:35,425 Yeah. 849 00:36:35,460 --> 00:36:37,260 -You better hurry up. -I know. 850 00:36:38,663 --> 00:36:40,063 I’ll tell her sometimes, I’m like, 851 00:36:40,098 --> 00:36:42,428 "I think you and Ella should just move back down here." 852 00:36:45,603 --> 00:36:49,113 I really do wish Tiarra was able to be here with me through my pregnancy, 853 00:36:49,140 --> 00:36:50,610 and me be with her through hers, 854 00:36:50,642 --> 00:36:55,182 just so we had each other and just could talk, and just relate and stuff. 855 00:36:55,213 --> 00:36:59,953 If Tyra tried more, I feel like I could talk to Tyra about stuff. 856 00:36:59,984 --> 00:37:02,954 But I know that she’s not always there for me. 857 00:37:02,987 --> 00:37:05,087 Like, I feel like sometimes I could hit her up or something 858 00:37:05,123 --> 00:37:07,333 and her not even answer or text back 859 00:37:07,358 --> 00:37:09,358 ’cause she’s too worried about Alex. 860 00:37:09,394 --> 00:37:14,434 Like, I... I feel like Tyra kind of, like, chooses Alex over family. 861 00:37:14,466 --> 00:37:16,926 When he’s not around, she wants to do so much. 862 00:37:16,968 --> 00:37:21,668 Like, she wants to come swim and bring Layla over to play. 863 00:37:21,706 --> 00:37:24,076 And, like, do stuff and be around her family. 864 00:37:24,109 --> 00:37:25,979 But when he comes right back into the picture, 865 00:37:26,010 --> 00:37:29,850 she just ignores everybody and doesn’t ever wanna come over, 866 00:37:29,881 --> 00:37:32,351 or even talk to you. 867 00:37:32,383 --> 00:37:36,353 So, I mean, just kind of like, you’re using me when you don’t have Alex. 868 00:37:36,387 --> 00:37:37,387 So... 869 00:37:38,957 --> 00:37:40,727 ...I’m not really good about being used. 870 00:37:44,729 --> 00:37:47,059 Babe, you said nothing about we were loading [bleep]. 871 00:37:47,098 --> 00:37:48,428 -[Lilly] I did. -[Lawrence] You didn’t. 872 00:37:48,466 --> 00:37:50,026 [Kim] Lawrence, she did tell you. 873 00:37:50,068 --> 00:37:51,768 -He’s like my third child. -Do we have to? 874 00:37:51,803 --> 00:37:53,603 -No listening ears. -If you look at me like... 875 00:37:53,638 --> 00:37:55,568 -[bleep] -No listening ears. 876 00:38:00,578 --> 00:38:02,078 ♪ I’ll take you to the top ♪ 877 00:38:02,113 --> 00:38:03,313 ♪ Face it you like me ♪ 878 00:38:03,348 --> 00:38:04,818 ♪ There’s no one like me ♪ 879 00:38:04,849 --> 00:38:06,919 ♪ I’m on top of the world ♪ 880 00:38:06,951 --> 00:38:08,521 ♪ I’ll take you to the top ♪ 881 00:38:08,553 --> 00:38:09,923 [Kim] Well... 882 00:38:09,954 --> 00:38:11,594 [Lilly] I’m changing LJ. 883 00:38:11,623 --> 00:38:13,363 [Kim sighs] 884 00:38:13,391 --> 00:38:17,801 Babe, you said nothing about we loading [bleep]. You didn’t. 885 00:38:17,829 --> 00:38:21,729 [Lilly] But I told you that you, your friends, Jimmy and Thomas, 886 00:38:21,766 --> 00:38:24,196 -were all gonna be here. to take apart the crib. -[Lawrence] Is Jimmy here? 887 00:38:24,235 --> 00:38:25,495 [Kim] Lawrence, she did tell you. 888 00:38:25,537 --> 00:38:27,507 [Lilly] They’re all coming at 6:00, and I told you-- 889 00:38:27,539 --> 00:38:29,009 [Lawrence] She didn’t tell me anything. 890 00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,310 -[Kim] Lawrence. She did. -Me and mom told you this probably about 50 times. 891 00:38:31,342 --> 00:38:33,242 -[Lawrence] You didn’t. -[Lilly] That we were taking apart cribs, 892 00:38:33,278 --> 00:38:34,948 -taking apart beds, and loading-- -[Kim] Lawrence, 893 00:38:34,979 --> 00:38:36,449 -we did tell you. -[Lilly] Everything into the truck. 894 00:38:36,481 --> 00:38:38,021 -[Lawrence] No. -We’ve been telling you this for weeks. 895 00:38:38,049 --> 00:38:40,049 -[Lawrence] You guys didn’t. -[Kim] We told you this. No. 896 00:38:40,084 --> 00:38:41,394 We totally did tell you. 897 00:38:41,419 --> 00:38:45,419 It’s the day before we move and we had a set plan for weeks, 898 00:38:45,456 --> 00:38:47,016 me and my mom came up with, 899 00:38:47,058 --> 00:38:52,258 for his friends to come over on the night before and load up the truck. 900 00:38:52,297 --> 00:38:56,627 And then, come back in the morning just so we can drive the truck there. 901 00:38:56,668 --> 00:39:01,638 But he somehow told us, "Yes," but then thought that we never said that. 902 00:39:01,673 --> 00:39:03,143 Never told his friends. 903 00:39:03,174 --> 00:39:05,484 Now who knows what’s gonna happen. 904 00:39:05,510 --> 00:39:07,350 Yeah. 905 00:39:07,378 --> 00:39:11,318 [Kim] We said the plan is we gotta move everything upstairs that night. 906 00:39:11,349 --> 00:39:12,679 [Lawrence] The plans were not clear... 907 00:39:12,717 --> 00:39:14,687 -[Lilly] We ran through the whole thing. -[Lawrence] Clearly told. 908 00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:15,919 [Kim] We double-asked you, Lawrence. 909 00:39:15,954 --> 00:39:18,294 I said, "Are you sure you got your friends set and ready?" 910 00:39:18,323 --> 00:39:20,293 -And you know the schedule. -[Lawrence] Yeah, for Saturday. 911 00:39:20,325 --> 00:39:21,735 -[Kim] No. -No! 912 00:39:21,759 --> 00:39:23,729 -[Kim] We definitely-- -We said Friday. 913 00:39:23,761 --> 00:39:25,531 -[Lawrence] Wasn’t-- -[Kim] Yes, we definitely said-- 914 00:39:25,563 --> 00:39:27,303 [Lawrence] Definitely wasn’t aware. 915 00:39:27,332 --> 00:39:29,132 -You were though. -[Lawrence] I wasn’t. 916 00:39:29,167 --> 00:39:30,967 You weren’t [bleep] listening. 917 00:39:31,002 --> 00:39:32,342 He didn’t listen. 918 00:39:32,370 --> 00:39:36,640 We literally sat down and had a detailed conversation about this. 919 00:39:36,674 --> 00:39:38,084 Me, him, and my mother-- 920 00:39:38,109 --> 00:39:40,079 -It’s hard to listen when you’re getting lectured. -Just me and mother. 921 00:39:41,045 --> 00:39:42,205 We weren’t lecturing you. 922 00:39:42,247 --> 00:39:45,277 We were giving you the plan for our move. 923 00:39:45,316 --> 00:39:46,816 I don’t know. 924 00:39:46,851 --> 00:39:50,691 -I felt like I was getting-- -Men just don’t [bleep] listen. 925 00:39:50,722 --> 00:39:53,162 -He’s like my third child. -I mean, do we have to? 926 00:39:53,191 --> 00:39:54,731 -No listening ears. -If you look at me like... 927 00:39:54,759 --> 00:39:56,689 -[bleep] -No listening ears. 928 00:40:00,131 --> 00:40:02,501 Well, she... Like, she be trying to play with me, man. 929 00:40:02,533 --> 00:40:03,733 I hate that [bleep]. 930 00:40:03,768 --> 00:40:05,568 It’s like I don’t know what goes on in her mind. 931 00:40:05,603 --> 00:40:07,513 That the wires must be loose or something. 932 00:40:07,538 --> 00:40:08,638 Do you see? 933 00:40:08,673 --> 00:40:10,613 Like, back out of my personal space bubble. 934 00:40:11,876 --> 00:40:14,246 Uh, do they know they’re helping you tomorrow? 935 00:40:14,279 --> 00:40:17,719 -[Lawrence] Yeah. -Because you said you didn’t give them a time, though. 936 00:40:17,749 --> 00:40:21,149 -What did they say exactly? -I mean, we didn’t really, like, establish a time. 937 00:40:21,185 --> 00:40:23,385 -I don’t know. -[Lilly] These are your best friends. 938 00:40:23,421 --> 00:40:25,161 -Yeah. -So you need to tell them, 939 00:40:25,189 --> 00:40:26,989 -"I really need your help." -Where are your best friends at? 940 00:40:27,025 --> 00:40:28,835 -Oh, right. -[Lilly] My best friends don’t wanna help. 941 00:40:28,860 --> 00:40:31,160 -So they’re not helping. -Okay, thank you. All right. 942 00:40:31,195 --> 00:40:34,525 Okay, originally I had planned for my friends to be there, too, 943 00:40:34,565 --> 00:40:35,965 but they couldn’t make it. 944 00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:37,170 [stifled laugh] 945 00:40:37,201 --> 00:40:40,001 They couldn’t, wouldn’t, or didn’t want to? 946 00:40:40,038 --> 00:40:43,208 Whatever the case was was what the case was. 947 00:40:43,241 --> 00:40:45,341 She gotta get aggressive. 948 00:40:45,376 --> 00:40:48,806 She just has to find a way to just be dominant for no reason. 949 00:40:48,846 --> 00:40:50,676 Like, whatever. 950 00:40:52,684 --> 00:40:55,054 Well, we need guys to do this lifting. 951 00:40:56,421 --> 00:40:57,691 We need boys. 952 00:41:00,258 --> 00:41:01,588 I’m a man. 953 00:41:01,626 --> 00:41:03,426 -We need men, then. -I can do all of this. I can do all of it. 954 00:41:03,461 --> 00:41:05,701 -You can’t do all of it yourself. -I can do all of it. 955 00:41:05,730 --> 00:41:08,700 It’ll get done. 956 00:41:08,733 --> 00:41:11,943 I don’t care if I’m done on my knees, I can’t breathe, it’s gonna get done. 957 00:41:13,438 --> 00:41:14,638 Bye, Aaliyah. 958 00:41:14,672 --> 00:41:16,442 [Lilly] Hurry up. 959 00:41:16,474 --> 00:41:19,184 I am so frustrated with Lawrence 960 00:41:19,210 --> 00:41:23,280 that he didn’t listen to any of my planning. 961 00:41:23,314 --> 00:41:26,954 The move has barely even started and it’s already going wrong. 962 00:41:26,985 --> 00:41:29,625 I have no hope that things are gonna go well. 963 00:41:31,889 --> 00:41:33,959 [Emersyn] Next time on Unexpected. 964 00:41:33,992 --> 00:41:37,762 Do you think Mason will be able to sleep in my room? 965 00:41:37,795 --> 00:41:40,225 Emmy, we went over this before. 966 00:41:40,264 --> 00:41:42,134 We’re gonna have him downstairs. 967 00:41:42,166 --> 00:41:44,566 [Emersyn] My mom has unreasonable rules I feel like. 968 00:41:44,602 --> 00:41:47,402 But she’s not gonna win this one. 969 00:41:47,438 --> 00:41:49,168 Nope. 970 00:41:49,207 --> 00:41:50,567 -Put him in the chair. -[baby doll cries] 971 00:41:50,608 --> 00:41:52,708 It’s crying. 972 00:41:52,744 --> 00:41:54,454 [baby doll wails] 973 00:41:54,479 --> 00:41:58,979 When we have baby Xavier, I feel like I’m gonna do everything. 974 00:41:59,017 --> 00:42:00,617 What? 975 00:42:00,651 --> 00:42:02,591 Just ’cause you’re taking care of a piece of plastic 976 00:42:02,620 --> 00:42:03,750 doesn’t mean you’re gonna be a good mom. 977 00:42:05,356 --> 00:42:07,186 [Tyra] I guess now would be a good time to ask 978 00:42:07,225 --> 00:42:10,935 where you all’s relationship lies? 979 00:42:10,962 --> 00:42:13,262 You and whatever her name is. 980 00:42:13,297 --> 00:42:15,897 I feel like she’s just holding onto faith that he will change. 981 00:42:15,933 --> 00:42:17,873 But I don’t think after everything, 982 00:42:17,902 --> 00:42:22,012 Alex can just decide, "Oh, I’m gonna be a good man. I’m not gonna cheat anymore." 983 00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:24,780 She makes my life miserable. I’m [bleep] out. 984 00:42:26,277 --> 00:42:28,407 [Lilly] That’s Aaliyah’s bed that’s going in your room. 985 00:42:28,446 --> 00:42:29,606 We’re not putting that bed in our room. 986 00:42:29,647 --> 00:42:30,977 [Lilly] Yes, you’re putting it in the bedroom. 987 00:42:31,015 --> 00:42:33,145 I get more sleep if I have Aaliyah sleeping 988 00:42:33,184 --> 00:42:34,954 -in the room with me. -[Lawrence] We’re not putting it [bleep]-- 989 00:42:34,986 --> 00:42:36,046 ’Cause she actually sleeps at night. 990 00:42:36,087 --> 00:42:38,017 I don’t even wanna do this [bleep]. 991 00:42:38,056 --> 00:42:40,016 I wanna cancel the whole move.