[girl] Previously on Unexpected...
Jenna just sent me a text.
Said, "Hey, I don’t think we’re gonna be able to come up."
I was really hoping that Jenna was gonna be able to come over tonight
so we can kinda put everything behind us.
Luca’s baptism’s coming up.
My dad told me to get the F out,
so I got the F out.
[Emersyn] Don’t I look like I popped more?
Yes, you look very pregnant.
Him being a father most definitely has not sunk in yet.
Hasn’t for me either.
[Ramirez] He doesn’t know what he’s getting into here or what’s gonna happen.
Tiarra, what’s your plans for this week while you’re here?
[Tiarra] I have a OB appointment.
Recently, I’ve been having some type of contractions,
and they hurt so bad.
I’m just very stressed out because, you know,
I could honestly go in labor at any time, I feel like.
We’re moving out!
He’s cheap and I spend too much,
and it’s like, "You have the money,
so give me the [bleep] money."
He might have a nervous breakdown.
[Scott] Both you guys have to make an... An educated decision
before you make your final decision.
[Scott] When you’re 18,
you’ve got life all figured out.
No, I don’t like their [bleep] opinions on my life
’cause it’s my life,
and even if it’s the wrong thing,
I’ll figure it out my way.
[babies squealing]
Are you tickling Layla?
I’ve been traveling from Maryland to Kentucky
every time I have a doctor’s appointment for this new baby.
That kinda sucks,
but I like having the help in Kentucky.
-Give me hugs, Ella! -[Ella] Mom!
-Come here. -No!
[Tiarra] I’m going bye-bye, but I’ll be back to get you in a little bit, okay?
Love you. Give me a kiss.
-[blows raspberry] Be good for mama. -[Melissa] What about Me-Me?
[Tiarra] Call Mommy if Mo-Mo bes mean to you, okay?
[Ella] Okay.
[Tiarra] I love you so big!
[Ella speaking]
I’m wiping all your kisses off.
It’s been pretty hard living in Maryland
just because Dee works 48 hour shifts,
and then he’s off 48 hours,
so he does two days on, two days off,
so most of the time, I’m there by myself with Ella,
32 weeks pregnant,
so it’s, like, very, very stressful.
Okay, Mom, we need to be leaving for my appointment.
Bye, girls!
-Bye, Layla! -[Tyra] We’re gonna be having more fun than y’all!
-Bye. -[indistinct]
-[Ella] Bye! -Love you.
Oh, okay.
[Tyra] Yeah.
[Tiarra] It’s 9:43.
We have to be there at 10:25.
So, today, I have a doctor’s appointment,
and I’ve been having some type of feeling like contractions
uh, maybe Braxton Hicks.
Not really sure. I just know it hurts really bad,
so it’s important that I know what’s going on.
-[Chanille] Good morning! -[Tiarra] Hi.
-[Chanille] How we doing, Tiarra? -[Tiarra] Good.
[Chanille] Good to see you!
So, tell me how things are going, girl.
[Tiarra] Um, I’ve been feeling like maybe I’m having, like,
-some type of Braxton Hicks or something. -[Chanille] Uh-huh.
[Tiarra] At first, I thought it was contractions,
’cause it was, like... They were, like, back to back to back...
-[Chanille] Sure, sure. -[Tiarra] ...and it was, like, really bad in my back.
[Chanille] Uh-huh. How have you been since then?
[Tiarra speaking]
[Chanille] Okay.
Sometimes, with babies’ position,
your back can hurt more often than normal.
You can do a little cat and cow.
You can kinda arch your back to the front
and arch your back to the back,
-so I would try that, okay? -[Tiarra] All right.
[Chanille] So, we’re gonna listen and measure you.
Do you have any questions, Melissa, on anything?
[Melissa] Um, C-section date. Have y’all thought about that?
[Tiarra] Another girl last time,
she told me that I would schedule it this time,
which I’m trying...
-Trying to transition doctors anyways, so... -[Chanille] Yeah.
[Tiarra] So, I’m gonna try that
-’cause it’s more convenient for me. -[Chanille] Yes.
Because I had a C-section with Ella,
I’m also having to have a C-section with Ensley
because, like, I seen how hard it was to push the first time,
and, like, my body wasn’t cooperating.
It’s also very dangerous for me
to try to have a vaginal birth after a C-section
because, like, that scar can open up,
or, like, it’s easier to get infections and stuff like that after,
and I just don’t wanna take that risk.
I just hope it’s not too late for me to schedule a C-section in Maryland.
[Chanille speaking]
[Tiarra] My iron.
I was on iron pills,
but I had to stop taking ’em ’cause they were making me so sick.
My iron is very low,
so I feel like it’s important for me to take my iron pills,
but they make me feel like I’m dying. That’s how sick.
Like, my stomach starts cramping, like,
throwing up and I get headaches, dizzy, everything.
It’s really bad.
Don’t you think it’s best to take those,
especially at maybe nighttime, before you go to bed?
I’d rather have full energy to deal with my toddler than to be sick.
[Chanille] Depending on where your, um...
-...iron is at... -[Tiarra] Thank you.
[Chanille] ...I may...
You know, we’ll see how it is.
If it’s... If it’s super low,
I may, um, suggest that you restart the iron,
but take it every other day.
-Okay? -[Tiarra] Okay.
[Chanille] But you know you can always, you know, get ahold of us.
-[Tiarra] Okay. -[Chanille] All right, girl. Good to see you.
-Nice to meet you. -[Tiarra] You, too.
So, do I just go ahead and go to the lab?
[Chanille] Yep, you can go ahead and go around to the lab.
You sure can.
[Tiarra] With no iron, like, there’s just so many things that could go wrong.
For one, it could make you go into early labor,
which is... Could be why I was having contractions.
So, not only that, but, like,
I could bleed out going into labor,
especially with having a C-section,
and, like, I’m terrified.
♪ My life, my life, my life ♪
♪ started once I met you♪
♪ met you ♪
♪ once I met you ♪
Hi.
Hey, welcome to class.
All right.
Let’s talk a little bit about childbirth education.
[Emersyn] I’m 38 weeks pregnant,
and even though I’ve already got my little baby experience
since my mom just had Vihaan,
both sets of parents have been honest
about getting prepared before the baby arrives,
which is happening very soon,
so we’re taking a birthing class
to learn what to expect.
So, this is a dilation chart.
Wow.
The goal is to get to 10 centimeters.
Oh, my gosh.
[Emily] Does that freak you out a little bit? [laughs]
Yeah, that freaks me out.
-Just so you know, everything goes right back to normal. -[Emersyn] Yeah.
It goes right back to prepregnancy dilation.
[Emersyn] Seeing the chart...
The dilation chart really freaked me out
’cause I was like, "I’m gonna be that?"
’Cause I was like, "Oh, 10 inches,
10 centimeters, whatever,"
and then I saw it, and I was like, "No way."
Like, there’s no way I’m not gonna need stitches.
All right, so the cervix, it needs to open,
but it also needs to get thinner,
and the baby needs to move down into the pelvis.
So, this is the pelvis.
So, the baby needs to move down into the pelvis.
[Mason] That’d be a big baby. [laughs]
This baby’s big?
Well, this baby’s...
Baby’s pretty small, actually.
-[Emersyn] That baby’s pretty small. -Like, long. Like, long.
[Emily] It’s a long baby.
Most babies are, like...
Mmm...
18, 19, 20, 21 inches long.
So, this one’s probably 17 or 18.
[Emily] Oh, no! It’s totally fine!
For him to expect a baby to be that size...
Even I was, like, "What do you mean?
That’s not even a big baby."
Oh, my goodness.
So, that’s why I want him behind my legs in the hospital,
not in front.
’Cause he might faint.
I’m scared of, like, [bleep] myself during birth.
Yeah, I’m close with Mason, but not that close.
-That’s why-- -You’re about to get close.
That’s why I want him behind, not in front,
and he’s like, "But I wanna see, like, how it happens,"
and I’m like, "No."
All modesty is out the window.
-Yeah. -Mmm-hmm.
We also have, um, breastfeeding.
Does breastfeeding hurt?
[Emily] That’s a great question.
It shouldn’t hurt very bad. [laughs]
-No. -[Chelsea] When they get teeth.
[all laughing]
And Mason, something that you can do that’s really helpful
is you can help Emersyn measure her nipples.
Do you wanna try measuring that nipple?
-Sure. -[Emily] All right.
Learning how to measure a nipple was interesting.
Um, I never thought I’d learn how to measure a nipple correctly.
Um, I... [stammers]
I guess you could say it was fun.
Um, how’d you feel about it?
I didn’t know you could measure nipples.
Yeah, I didn’t know there was a specific way to measure nipples either.
So, does anybody have any questions?
You know, I heard there’s a... Okay, okay.
She keeps saying that males...
Like, if a child was in, like, desperate need of milk,
she said a man can lactate.
Is that true?
-I didn’t believe it. -[Emersyn] That’s what I’ve heard.
Just heard about it.
That’s what I heard.
I heard if, like, a baby’s, like, starving
and the mom’s not around,
like, apparently, guys can lactate.
So, I was like, "Oh, that’s interesting,"
and then I told Mason.
I don’t know if I’m actually scoped to answer that.
I don’t really know.
-You never know. -[Emily laughs]
I feel like if we were to take...
...more classes,
I’d feel even more prepared.
It did help with, like, a few of the questions about certain things
that I may have had,
but I think I’m ready to be a father.
What?
I don’t think Emersyn...
Emersyn thinks I’m ready, though.
I... You just... Nobody...
I don’t even know what I’m in for, so...
-[Mason] Yeah, that’s good to know. -You just don’t know.
It’s gonna be interesting.
That’s all I have to say.
It will.
You guys are growing up real quick.
Babies, jobs, apartments...
Bang! All in one year.
How’s Lawrence doing? Is he... [stammers]
All gung ho for the apartment?
I am exhausted. I just want to go to sleep.
I don’t want to do any of this right now.
[Jenna] Today’s Luca’s baptism,
and I’m nervous.
My dad’s petty.
My mom is crazy.
So, you put that in a pot and... [mimics explosion]
♪ And I can’t find a bottle to send you an SOS♪
♪ Whoa♪
[Jenna] We’re almost there, puka.
Almost there.
Then I’ll get you out and you can come sit out front with Mommy.
Okay?
Today’s Luca’s baptism, and I’m nervous
because this is the first time my parents will be at the same event
since the tell-all.
I have deep-rooted issues
with the way Heather had treated Jenna in the past.
-There’s multiple, awful things said. -Oh, my God.
-Like, things that are unspeakable. -You lie. You lie, Matt.
You lie!
My dad’s petty.
My mom is...
...emotionally crazy.
Um, so you put that in a pot and... [mimics explosion]
Like, if they weren’t my parents,
I would not have communication with those people.
They’re not cool.
-Hi, Mommy. -[Heather] Hi, baby.
-Hi! Hi, baby! -Hey, babe.
My name is Heather, I’m 42, and I’m Jenna’s mom.
[photographer] All right. One, two, three!
Um, I think my relationship with Jenna is great. I do.
Um, I hope she feels the same.
I don’t know.
I think I just hold a lot of resentment
towards both my parents...
...honestly,
and I think it’s because my childhood was very chaotic.
It was not normal.
[Heather] That’s not fair.
We were young, very young.
It’s not an excuse, but it’s a fact.
Sorry I didn’t get along with your dad,
and he wasn’t always there,
and I regret it,
and I’m sure he does, too,
because we see the outcome.
-And I’m allowed to say that it was chaotic. -We were young,
just like you are.
[Luca babbling]
[photographer] Do you three want to get in the front of the church
and get a picture real quick?
-Yeah! -[photographer] Let’s do it.
One, two, three.
[camera shutter clicks]
-[Luca babbles] -[Jenna] Thank you, puka!
Knowing that I will be seeing Heather or whatever...
I mean, I just don’t like to be around her,
but we’re keeping it cordial for Luca’s sake.
I’ll...
...do what I gotta do, but I’m not gonna fake it for anybody.
-Like, I’m... -Right.
-That’s not me. -No.
[woman] Just wherever. Just sit there and we’ll just sit here.
Jenna just said wherever.
She’s a volatile person.
She’s loud.
She likes to be the center of attention.
For example, like, Heather made a beeline
as soon as they opened the church doors,
like, right away,
so she could get right up front and center.
It left no room for anyone else to sit there.
But you knew that would happen.
I knew that would... I knew that would happen.
I mean, that’s classic Heather.
[priest speaking]
[Matt] Heather had a lot to do with...
...Jenna, Aden, and Luca moving out.
Her mom was...
[Cathy] Pushing it ’cause she wanted to control the situation or take control.
I think there’s a control factor to it.
I just hope you guys get your own place.
I’ll like being able to come over when I get off work and help you with the baby.
-[Jenna] Yeah. -[Heather] And not have to text your dad or Cathy.
Yeah. I don’t know.
I think it bothered her that you got to see Luca every single day.
But that’s what it... I think that’s what it boils down to.
[Cathy] Mmm-hmm.
[priest speaking]
[Luca crying]
[Matt speaking]
My dad’s eye rolls...
He’s a little drama queen.
Well, I can’t help an eye roll.
You can.
I’ll try to tape ’em down next time,
but she does that to me, Jenna.
Realistically, I think Heather could have moved over a little
so all the grandparents could’ve sat in that pew behind them.
It... It did annoy me.
Her mom was stuck so far up her ass,
I couldn’t even really get around her, so...
[Jenna] My mom... [stammers]
See, there you go. You’re being petty.
Don’t talk about her.
"My mom does... My mom was up my ass."
Like, just... It’s okay, like...
I can’t stand her personally,
and I keep it inside.
-That’s not a big deal. -[Jenna] But that’s a...
That’s an issue for you to...
-I don’t know. -No, it’s not!
-Like, it-- -Yeah, that’s an issue. My gosh.
Come on.
[Luca babbling]
[Jenna] I just... I don’t know. I, like...
I might not be with Aden forever,
but I’m never gonna sit there and be like,
"I can’t stand this person."
I’m never gonna look at him in disgust.
Like, I... I just...
No, I wouldn’t!
I just... I don’t understand,
I don’t get it,
irritates me, I don’t know.
[Luca babbling]
[priest speaking]
-It is. -Yes.
[priest speaking]
Okay.
[all laughing]
Luca Michael,
I baptize you in the name of the Father,
and of the Son,
and of the Holy Spirit.
-[Jenna] Okay. -[priest laughs]
[priest] There, we’ll clean him up now.
[Jenna] Was that fun?
I think I take a lot of my childhood,
and I try to make Luca’s the opposite.
Luca is not going to have a chaotic life like me.
I mean, it’s not happening. It’s insane.
Aden and I might not make it, but...
Ever, in a million years.
Never.
♪ I’ll follow you to the end of the world and all the way back♪
[Kim] Well, we have a lot of work to do.
A lot of packing, a lot of organizing.
You tired Lawrence? You look tired.
-I am exhausted. I just want to to sleep. -[Kim] Yeah.
-Yeah. -I don’t want to do any of this right now.
Where’s Mommy, baby?
[Lawrence] How stressful.
[Kim] Stressful, yeah, but exciting, too.
[Lawrence] Definitely exciting but stressful.
[Lilly] Lawrence and I are moving out,
and this is really gonna be the first time
that we’re fully financially on our own.
And I just started a new job with a very long commute,
and I am exhausted.
[Lilly] Are you serious?
Lawrence has not packed any boxes at all.
Not... Not one.
I’ve packed every single thing of his
and of mine and the kids’.
But, you know what, it’s kinda better that way
’cause then I could pack the way that I want it packed.
He’s gonna be doing all the moving...
...so I did all the packing.
The labor work is a lot harder than folding clothes and putting ’em in a box.
Okay.
[Kim] What’s up, Grandpa?
-[Glenn sighs] Nothing. -[Kim] How was your day?
Oh, wonderful.
What are you doing, mousy? Having some nuggets?
[Kim] Everybody’s tired.
[Glenn] So, LB. Wake up.
[laughs]
How’s your, uh... How’s the job going?
[Lawrence speaking]
[Glenn] They teaching you? Are you learning?
Learning a lot.
[Kim] You guys are growing up real quick.
Babies, jobs, apartments...
Bang! All in one year.
How’s Lawrence doing? Is he... [stammers]
All gung ho for the apartment?
He’s nervous.
-[Kim] Is he nervous? -[Glenn] Nervous?
I bet he is.
It’s very easy to tell when he’s nervous
’cause he’s just, "I’m not nervous.
Why would I be nervous?"
-[Kim] Right, and he does. -But he’s nervous.
He gets nervous, yeah.
-[Lilly] Mmm-hmm. -Yeah.
Well, he knows that...
I think he understands the level of responsibility he’s gonna have,
and it’s gonna be a lot of extra work for him.
We’re gonna rent the truck the night before, so the 4th.
[Glenn] Uh-huh.
We’re probably either gonna have his friend or Jimmy do it
-’cause you have to be over 25. -Okay.
Lawrence is gonna ask his friends to come over
on the night before and load up the truck
so we could put all the furniture, all the boxes,
everything in the night before,
wake up,
they would hop in the truck, drive there,
we would unload everything, and we would be done.
I mean, I guess so. Whatever.
You think everything will just fit in the truck?
[Lilly] I’m gonna try and get the biggest one that they have,
the 26-inch.
[Lawrence] The bigger truck is gonna be harder for the driver.
[Kim] It is, yeah.
Downstairs there’s, what? Like, 20 boxes downstairs?
You have to put the kitchen table, the chairs,
the beds, the cribs, TVs,
-even more boxes... -[Lawrence] The chairs are in a stack.
...from the rest of the house.
[Lawrence] The bed we can condense
-and put into a corner. -Okay, but why am I gonna buy a smaller truck
and then we can’t fit anything...
-Because it’s like driving a school bus. -I just don’t want you
to end up having to take two trips.
Mom wants everyone to move you guys’ stuff upstairs.
When are you gonna do that, dear?
[Kim] That night because we can’t get help.
[Glenn] I have to go to bed early Friday night.
I cannot help ’cause then I gotta get up
-really early on Saturday morning. -You get up, mmm-hmm.
-I know it’s not your fault. -Unfortunately, it was book six months ago, so...
I know.
I’m gonna miss the move.
Um, I had a...
A trip already preplanned to Tennessee so...
Mmm-mmm. Soon as he heard I was moving, he made a trip.
[Kim] It leaves us to do everything alone.
He’s glad.
You really ain’t much time the two of you.
-Nope. -You know, I mean, I haven’t seen you two packing yet.
We packed downstairs today, actually.
-Oh, did you? -All the stuff I have sitting in the basement, I packed.
There is a 0% chance that Lawrence will be able
to keep his cool on moving day.
I hate explaining myself, for one.
-So when I do-- -[Lilly] I’m not gonna deal with the [bleep].
-...just [bleep] listen and sit there and be quiet. -No!
-I mean, just listen. -’Cause you know what? It’s not like he sits there
and he’s like, "Hey, I don’t like this because blah, blah, blah, blah."
-And I want you to fix it in this way." -I try.
-He’s like, "[bleep] this." -I try.
-"And [bleep] this." -I try.
-"And you do this, and what the [bleep]?" -I try.
-"And what the [bleep]? And what the [bleep]?"
-No. No, and then, I’m not gonna sit there-- -Uh, [bleep] anyone--
-with the [bleep] of being yelled at. -[bleep] explaining themself.
I don’t wanna hear it.
You just wait until the day of the move and I promise you, he won’t disappoint.
I promise you, there will be many Lawrence meltdowns that occur.
Whatever. I don’t know.
[Kylen laughs] I’m gonna have so much fun with this.
Oh, really? ’Cause you know it cries and stuff, and you gotta soothe it.
[baby doll cries]
[baby doll wails]
[Jason speaking]
I want you guys to pick out what you guys are gonna want from this.
And then, whatever you don’t want,
I’ll just take back home with me.
Thick pads that you’re gonna need and...
-She doesn’t need this [bleep]. -[Lizzy] Oh, yes, she does.
’Cause when you’re pushing out a baby, Jason, it like...
This little tiny hole is gonna be like this big.
-I think you overreact a little bit. -[Lizzy] No. No.
-No, I’m not. I... I’ve been through this. -Ask anyone.
-[Lizzy] I’ve had a kid. Have you had a kid? -A little bit.
-Have you? No. -[Kylen] No.
I’ve had a kid.
I know how this works.
Lizzy is Jason’s cousin.
She’s kind of like a sister to me.
And she has a little boy, so...
Since I’m 36 weeks pregnant, and we’re gonna have the baby soon,
Lizzy came by to give us some hand me downs for Xavier.
I’m glad she’s here because I will take
all the advice that I can get from her.
[Lizzy] I brought a gift for you guys.
No! It’s for both of you.
Oh, my God. Are you getting Mr. Sensitive that you want things, too?
[Kylen laughs]
I’m Lizzy and I’m Jason’s cousin.
My... Jason’s dad is my uncle, my dad’s brother.
Heidi and Scott, do you wanna come out and see what I got Jason and Kylen?
-[Heidi] Sure. -All right.
Jason, he doesn’t have any siblings
so, um, me and my brother have been very close to him growing up.
And he just says how he feels.
Say how it is and...
Yeah.
It’s pretty much the normal here.
[laughs]
I think you guys are gonna like it.
All right, both of you open it.
Okay, Scott. Go.
[Kylen] Oh, my God.
-What is it? -[laughs] A fricking baby doll.
-[Jason] Oh, my God. -[all laugh]
[Lizzy] Lizzy’s baby class.
[Kylen laughs] I’m gonna have so much fun with this.
Oh, really?
’Cause you know it cries and stuff and you gotta soothe it.
Yeah, I’m gonna take the batteries out of it.
-[Heidi laughs] -[Lizzy] Oh, no. Oh, no.
We’re putting the batteries in right now.
[Heidi laughs]
We’re gonna test this baby out.
This is Keegan.
My cousin got us Keegan as like a tool to get people ready
who like need to learn, which I guess we are teens.
But I already know I’m gonna be a good dad.
I’ve always had a connection to kids.
And like they always, like, looked at me or stared at me.
I personally know that I’m ready.
[Kylen] I think we have a lot to learn.
You need to dress him.
Yep, always support the neck.
-Good job. -I must be doing a good job, he’s still breathing.
-You can’t drag him by the legs either like that. -[Kylen laughs]
You gotta act like he’s real.
When he cries, you’re supposed to, uh--
-Soothe? -No, either...
There’s, like, a list. You feed him.
And if he still cries, you change the diaper.
Still cries, rock him.
There’s, like, a list.
And it’s pretty annoying.
[both laugh]
[Kylen laughs] I can’t...
[Jason speaking]
It’s his... His baby boy. Not mine.
Not my responsibility.
We’re just grandparents.
Well, I mean, I could go on for hours.
You know, just changing diapers and bottle feeding is...
Is not raising your child.
That’s part of it, but that’s not all of it.
You gotta have love, compassion,
and, uh, motivation.
I hope he has the motivation to be a good dad.
[Lizzy] Jason, your turn.
Hold him.
He’s a new... You gotta hold his head!
-[Kylen laughs] -You can’t just let it flop.
[Scott] You don’t bounce newborns.
[all laughing]
-[Scott] You don’t... [laughs] -[Lizzy] Oh, God. This is gonna be interesting.
He’s a newborn.
-You could either hold him-- -No, you have to hold their head.
Otherwise, they’re gonna go...
Yeah, I’ll get it when it’s my... My kid and I’ll have like
-a connection. -Well, this is your kid right now.
We’re learning.
[baby doll whines]
[baby doll cries]
-I don’t know what to do. -Take them out of him before he wakes up.
-[baby doll cries] -[Jason sighs] Oh, God.
[baby doll cries]
[Jason speaking]
[baby doll cries]
[Kylen laughs]
-[Heidi] Oh, see, she knows. -See? Look at...
-[Heidi] Yeah. -You’re already doing a good job.
So now--
You need to, it’s... Jason.
-Yeah, of course. -It’s not about you.
It’s about him.
When that baby comes, it’s about him
for the next 18 years and the rest of your life.
[baby doll cries]
[baby doll wails]
I did.
[baby doll wails]
[crying stops]
[Jason speaking]
[Kylen laughs]
[baby doll wails]
All right, well.
Good luck tonight, guys. [laughs]
I wanna hear how the night went.
I think it’s stressful with Keegan ’cause you can’t...
Like, you literally cannot tell.
And like you do everything and it doesn’t work.
That’s how I feel.
[baby doll whimpers]
[Jason] But I think she’ll get more stressed at the real thing
’cause she can’t just take the batteries out of it.
[baby doll cries]
All right, get rid of this thing.
I’m going to sleep.
That’s not what you’re supposed to say to our kid.
Put him in the damn crib.
[baby doll cries]
[Jason sighs]
I thought it was gonna be, "Oh, this will be easy raising a kid."
But nope, it’s really not already and we haven’t even had it.
It’s a lot of stress and work and responsibility.
And you can’t just get out of it.
You’re stuck in it.
Like Lizzy said, "You gotta raise that kid till they’re 18."
And even after that probably.
[baby doll cries]
[baby doll wails]
First, you go get in and then I’ll work my way.
I’m Taylor. I’m 20.
And I’m also pregnant again.
I wonder what they have to say about the pregnancy pact now because I’m not pregnant.
[Tiarra speaking]
Now go get it.
[Layla] Okay.
[Tiarra] While I’m home in Kentucky,
I’m trying to spend as much time with my family as I possibly can
because this is going to be the last time
I’ll have to do the trip before I have Ensley.
This is also my first time seeing Taylor
since she told me that she was pregnant.
[Taylor] Wow.
[Ella cries]
[kids exclaim]
[Tiarra] Okay, okay. No more jumping.
-Let’s stop jumping for a second. -Hey, do you wanna sit down?
Pick your seat. Do you wanna stand up like that?
Do you wanna sit in my lap again?
[Tiarra] Okey-dokey.
-Your cup. -Hold on, let me fix this cord real quick.
Look at Layla. Look, she has on floaties just like you. She’s just floating.
-See? -[Taylor] I see! You’re big.
I’m Taylor, I’m 20 years old.
And I have a daughter named Adelyn who’s almost 3.
And I’m also pregnant again.
And I’m having a girl.
[Tiarra] It’s crazy that we all have girls.
Like, God, the sassiness out of all three of them.
[kids laugh]
[Taylor] Tickle her, tickle her.
[kids laugh]
What’re y’all doing?
First, you go get in and then I’ll work my way.
Ella, Mommy’s getting in there.
You wanna get in there with her?
[Tiarra] Oh, my God.
[Taylor] It’s cold, ain’t it?
It is really cold.
[Tiarra] The three of us were very close growing up.
We were always with each other, like siblings.
Like, we wouldn’t even ask each other.
Like, some cousins have to text and be like...
I would just like come over and walk in her house.
And just be like, "I’m spending the night."
-[Taylor] Yeah. -[Tiarra] Like, I’m spending the night.
That’s how close we were. It was more like of a sibling’s type of--
Yeah, it was never like, "Ask your mom if I can stay."
-[Tiarra laughs] -It’s like, "Hey, I’m staying."
It’s still the same way, though,
like whenever we wanna go to each other’s house.
Do you need some tea, Layla?
Here you go. Here’s your tea.
[Taylor] Look at your belly and how it’s, like, so--
-Oh, I see what you’re talking about. Yeah. -[Taylor] You see?
[Taylor] Your stretch marks are like...
-Come altogether on your belly button. -Oh, yeah. Right here.
-[Taylor] Yeah. -Do you see how it’s like this?
-Like, from where I’m lying, it’s like I’m straining. -[Taylor laughs] Yeah.
I wonder what they have to say about the pregnancy pact now because I’m not pregnant.
[woman] You guys know, a lot of people on social media
-questioned whether you three had a pregnancy pact? -Teen pact, or whatever.
[woman] Did the three of you have a pregnancy pact?
Definitely not, I didn’t find out I was pregnant
until after she already gave birth.
I was 15 so, I mean, I definitely wasn’t, like,
gonna sit down with my older cousin
and, you know, plan a pregnancy.
-That’s just silly. -Yeah.
-Everyone says that we had a pregnancy pact. -No, before I got pregnant,
I was the one that wanted to go out and do stuff all the time.
I was going to like parties with my friends.
I would have never, ever, ever, like, gotten pregnant on purpose at 16.
[Tiarra] But I don’t think anyone, like, plans.
-Yeah. -Especially... Like, I was 15.
-Like what the... -Yeah, I mean, I understand,
like, why people would think that
just ’cause we’re all cousins, and close, and we all got pregnant around the same time.
Our moms, they had their babies young, too, just like us.
-[Tyra] Yeah. -[Taylor] And we were born three days apart.
-Yeah. -So I guess they’re the ones
who started the pregnancy pact. [laughs]
[laughs] Yeah.
It goes around. Yeah, right?
Does anybody not like barbecue sauce on their hot dogs?
-Like cooked on-- -[Tiarra] No, barbecue them up.
[Melissa] No, don’t do it for the babies.
-[Tiarra] Oh, wait. -Okay.
I’m Noah. Tyra and Tiarra are my cousins are me, as well.
Okay. [laughs]
-[laughs] Okay, let’s not say that-- -No, no, no!
-Let’s not say that. -They cannot put that on there
-without letting us explain that. -Yeah.
-They’re distant. -[Taylor] Tyra and Tiarra... Let me repeat my answer.
Tyra and Tiarra are both my cousins on my mom’s side.
-They’re my first cousins on my mom’s side-- -Okay, wait.
Wait, no, let’s just say that’s your cousins.
-And I’m gonna say-- -No, no. You’re gonna say, "They’re my cousins
-on their dad’s side." -No, no, no.
-They’re cousins. -I’m just gonna say it’s your family.
Tyra and Tiarra is your family.
-And yours. -I’m just gonna say your family.
[Taylor] Oh, my God.
Noah is Tyra and Tiarra’s fourth cousin on their dad’s side.
As I am their first cousin on their mom’s side.
So me and Noah are not related at all.
[laughs] At all.
[both laugh]
-Oh, my God. -Oh, I’m sorry.
I don’t... Is it done?
[Noah] About to be. Yeah, a lot of it is.
-She’s saying like-- -[Tiarra] Noah, make everybody plates and bring them.
-I’m used to it. -[Taylor laughs]
I didn’t even meet him through them.
We met in high school.
I was 16 and Noah was 18.
Yeah, like, when we first started talking we was...
We was just friends with benefits, I would say.
We’ll take breaks, and then we’ll pick back up.
Like, we stopped talking for like a month.
But then, that’s when I found out I was pregnant.
So that’s when we started talking again.
So if I wouldn’t have ever found out I was pregnant,
we probably would have never talked again.
Then, just kind of stuck together ever since, really.
No, on and off.
-Well, yeah, we’ve been-- -So, like, not really stuck on each other.
It was rough at first just, you know, my teenage years was kind of wild.
And I had to grow up a little bit.
But for like the past two years, we’ve been good.
What do you think?
I think we’ve been good.
Pretty good.
[Noah] These burgers are gonna taste good.
We’ll see.
Make sure they’re done, don’t screw anything up.
Nobody wants any red meat, okay?
When I was pregnant with Adelyn,
it was pretty hard on me being on and off with Noah.
Just because, like, I didn’t have that consistent relationship and stuff.
So being pregnant at 16 was way harder than it is being pregnant now.
But when I first found out I was pregnant again,
yeah, I was kind of like worried a little bit
just because having a toddler and baby at home,
and then Noah will be at work half the time,
so it would just be us three girls.
I definitely think it’s gonna be hard on me.
[Noah] I remember when she first showed me the test that she was pregnant,
I was nervous.
I mean, when it comes to affection, and love, and being there,
I don’t feel like that’s really gonna be an issue.
But when it comes to finances, you know.
Gotta figure it out.
We was taking extra precautions.
[laughs] No, we were not.
I was not on birth control.
We weren’t using protection or anything.
So, I mean, I trust him in that process.
I mean... [laughs]
I can’t get myself pregnant.
Um, I think I’m just gonna have her where I had Adelyn.
But, of course I’m gonna do it, like, naturally.
[Melissa laughs] Yeah, no.
But, um, yeah.
-Tiarra? -[Tiarra] Yeah?
[Tiarra] I haven’t looked ’cause I’m here and not there.
-So you still see the doctor-- -[Taylor] You only have what?
-Yep. -You only have six and a half weeks though, don’t you?
Well, yeah, I’ll be 33 weeks tomorrow.
-So you only have-- -Six weeks.
Yeah.
-You better hurry up. -I know.
I’ll tell her sometimes, I’m like,
"I think you and Ella should just move back down here."
I really do wish Tiarra was able to be here with me through my pregnancy,
and me be with her through hers,
just so we had each other and just could talk, and just relate and stuff.
If Tyra tried more, I feel like I could talk to Tyra about stuff.
But I know that she’s not always there for me.
Like, I feel like sometimes I could hit her up or something
and her not even answer or text back
’cause she’s too worried about Alex.
Like, I... I feel like Tyra kind of, like, chooses Alex over family.
When he’s not around, she wants to do so much.
Like, she wants to come swim and bring Layla over to play.
And, like, do stuff and be around her family.
But when he comes right back into the picture,
she just ignores everybody and doesn’t ever wanna come over,
or even talk to you.
So, I mean, just kind of like, you’re using me when you don’t have Alex.
So...
...I’m not really good about being used.
Babe, you said nothing about we were loading [bleep].
-[Lilly] I did. -[Lawrence] You didn’t.
[Kim] Lawrence, she did tell you.
-He’s like my third child. -Do we have to?
-No listening ears. -If you look at me like...
-[bleep] -No listening ears.
♪ I’ll take you to the top ♪
♪ Face it you like me ♪
♪ There’s no one like me ♪
♪ I’m on top of the world ♪
♪ I’ll take you to the top ♪
[Kim] Well...
[Lilly] I’m changing LJ.
[Kim sighs]
Babe, you said nothing about we loading [bleep]. You didn’t.
[Lilly] But I told you that you, your friends, Jimmy and Thomas,
-were all gonna be here. to take apart the crib. -[Lawrence] Is Jimmy here?
[Kim] Lawrence, she did tell you.
[Lilly] They’re all coming at 6:00, and I told you--
[Lawrence] She didn’t tell me anything.
-[Kim] Lawrence. She did. -Me and mom told you this probably about 50 times.
-[Lawrence] You didn’t. -[Lilly] That we were taking apart cribs,
-taking apart beds, and loading-- -[Kim] Lawrence,
-we did tell you. -[Lilly] Everything into the truck.
-[Lawrence] No. -We’ve been telling you this for weeks.
-[Lawrence] You guys didn’t. -[Kim] We told you this. No.
We totally did tell you.
It’s the day before we move and we had a set plan for weeks,
me and my mom came up with,
for his friends to come over on the night before and load up the truck.
And then, come back in the morning just so we can drive the truck there.
But he somehow told us, "Yes," but then thought that we never said that.
Never told his friends.
Now who knows what’s gonna happen.
Yeah.
[Kim] We said the plan is we gotta move everything upstairs that night.
[Lawrence] The plans were not clear...
-[Lilly] We ran through the whole thing. -[Lawrence] Clearly told.
[Kim] We double-asked you, Lawrence.
I said, "Are you sure you got your friends set and ready?"
-And you know the schedule. -[Lawrence] Yeah, for Saturday.
-[Kim] No. -No!
-[Kim] We definitely-- -We said Friday.
-[Lawrence] Wasn’t-- -[Kim] Yes, we definitely said--
[Lawrence] Definitely wasn’t aware.
-You were though. -[Lawrence] I wasn’t.
You weren’t [bleep] listening.
He didn’t listen.
We literally sat down and had a detailed conversation about this.
Me, him, and my mother--
-It’s hard to listen when you’re getting lectured. -Just me and mother.
We weren’t lecturing you.
We were giving you the plan for our move.
I don’t know.
-I felt like I was getting-- -Men just don’t [bleep] listen.
-He’s like my third child. -I mean, do we have to?
-No listening ears. -If you look at me like...
-[bleep] -No listening ears.
Well, she... Like, she be trying to play with me, man.
I hate that [bleep].
It’s like I don’t know what goes on in her mind.
That the wires must be loose or something.
Do you see?
Like, back out of my personal space bubble.
Uh, do they know they’re helping you tomorrow?
-[Lawrence] Yeah. -Because you said you didn’t give them a time, though.
-What did they say exactly? -I mean, we didn’t really, like, establish a time.
-I don’t know. -[Lilly] These are your best friends.
-Yeah. -So you need to tell them,
-"I really need your help." -Where are your best friends at?
-Oh, right. -[Lilly] My best friends don’t wanna help.
-So they’re not helping. -Okay, thank you. All right.
Okay, originally I had planned for my friends to be there, too,
but they couldn’t make it.
[stifled laugh]
They couldn’t, wouldn’t, or didn’t want to?
Whatever the case was was what the case was.
She gotta get aggressive.
She just has to find a way to just be dominant for no reason.
Like, whatever.
Well, we need guys to do this lifting.
We need boys.
I’m a man.
-We need men, then. -I can do all of this. I can do all of it.
-You can’t do all of it yourself. -I can do all of it.
It’ll get done.
I don’t care if I’m done on my knees, I can’t breathe, it’s gonna get done.
Bye, Aaliyah.
[Lilly] Hurry up.
I am so frustrated with Lawrence
that he didn’t listen to any of my planning.
The move has barely even started and it’s already going wrong.
I have no hope that things are gonna go well.
[Emersyn] Next time on Unexpected.
Do you think Mason will be able to sleep in my room?
Emmy, we went over this before.
We’re gonna have him downstairs.
[Emersyn] My mom has unreasonable rules I feel like.
But she’s not gonna win this one.
Nope.
-Put him in the chair. -[baby doll cries]
It’s crying.
[baby doll wails]
When we have baby Xavier, I feel like I’m gonna do everything.
What?
Just ’cause you’re taking care of a piece of plastic
doesn’t mean you’re gonna be a good mom.
[Tyra] I guess now would be a good time to ask
where you all’s relationship lies?
You and whatever her name is.
I feel like she’s just holding onto faith that he will change.
But I don’t think after everything,
Alex can just decide, "Oh, I’m gonna be a good man. I’m not gonna cheat anymore."
She makes my life miserable. I’m [bleep] out.
[Lilly] That’s Aaliyah’s bed that’s going in your room.
We’re not putting that bed in our room.
[Lilly] Yes, you’re putting it in the bedroom.
I get more sleep if I have Aaliyah sleeping
-in the room with me. -[Lawrence] We’re not putting it [bleep]--
’Cause she actually sleeps at night.
I don’t even wanna do this [bleep].
I wanna cancel the whole move.